I read the OTHER 11 answers.
This is what I don't understand about those answers AND many, many others I read: MANY, many times one person is referred to as "them" or "they". For one reason or other, the use of those words tends to blur answers/questions.
That being distinguished, you'll be able to clearly see what my response refers to: BOTH the cheater AND the one who allowed the cheater to do the cheating.
Here are THE FACTS about cheatS and cheating:
It ALWAYS takes AT LEAST two people to do the act!
No matter how you look at it, view it or treat it, cheating constitutes a conspiracy. BOTH sets of parents should be notified. BOTH students or pupils should receive the same unbiased punishment. The one you decide to give each.
There are two actions I WOULD NOT consider:
1] Giving them extra work. Assigning extra work for them means YOU ARE giving yourself that extra work, doesn't it? ABSOLUTELY!
2] Keeping them after school as a form of punishment. That "punishment" for them means you are punishing yourself by keeping yourself from doing the things you KNOW YOU HAVE TO DO when you leave that building. Isn't that right? YEP!
My suggestions (IF this is not considered too humiliating, embarrassing or against the school district's policy]:
1) For a solid MONTH - 30 SCHOOL days - about 6 weeks - each MUST wear a sign on the chest AND on the back:
The sign is printed on a piece of letter-size paper. In THE BIGGEST, BOLDEST SIZE FONT AS POSSIBLE, the sign has language similar to this: "I AM A CHEATER. I WAS CAUGHT CHEATING IN ALOHA GIRL'S CLASS! I KNOW I CANNOT CHEAT ANY MORE. WHEN I CHEAT, I CHEAT MYSELF. I EARNED A FAILING GRADE." The signs are put on at the beginning of EACH school day. The signs are removed at the end of the day. They are to be worn throughout the day.
THE ONLY exceptions are for gym
OR in case there is a danger of the signs being caught by a piece of equipment (such as tools in wood shop or other shop; cooking AND baking class) or in the case of going to a lab and the Bunsen burners are used.
2) In the conference you have with each child's parents (at different times - AT YOUR convenience): you MUST stress to the parents you will never tolerate that kind of conduct from their child or any other child. You have to be as stern as you possibly can be.
Doing those steps will assure the other students in that school from that time on and for as long as the students will remember (the rest of their lives), NO ONE will ever cheat or get caught cheating in ANY of your classes or any of the classes you happen to be monitoring.
3) On the first day of each semester print two signs and put those signs in a very conspicuous place where everyone who comes into YOUR room can easily see them.
After everyone in each of your classes is seated and settled. You can point to the signs and ask one Q: "Are there any Qs about what I mean and what these signs mean?" If anyone doesn't understand, ask that person to please read the sign and ask what part of the sign he/she doesn't understand.
Once you have everyone's attention and understanding about the signs AND your 0-tolerance for cheating, take the signs down and proceed with that day's lesson. Simple. Easy. AND VERY effective.
Thanks for asking your Q! I did my best to answer it.
I hope the information helps.
VTY,
Ron Berue
Yes, that is my real last name!
Sources: Some personal observations and opinions.
Comments
...mahalo, Miss Anubis!
by aloha girl on October 12th, 2008