Is is normal to want to have a threesome with 2 girls but not a girl and another guy? If your wife wants another guy instead of a girl?
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Of course it's normal. If you're a heterosexual male, you'd much rather sleep with two girls than share one girl with another guy. However, on the flip side, assuming your wife is a heterosexual female, isn't it normal for her to want a threesome with two guys instead of sharing one guy with another girl? This is why I think threesomes can't work without creating jealousy or inequality.
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I agree with Erika, and there is a huge double standard. Men get so grossed out thinking of a 3 some with another man, but they desire another woman and find it sexy. Personally I think 3 somes are the downfall of any relationship, they never work out.
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For one: Normal is what you make it. Many men have fantasies about having two women at the same time. Many act on it, as many do not. If you are not comfortable having a threesome with your wife and another man - DO NOT HAVE A THREESOME WITH YOUR WIFE AND ANOTHER MAN. You should never do anything that you are not comfortable with. You and your wife need to talk about why each of you want to have a threesome, and seriously consider the consequences. This act has been known to ruin relationships. Your wife should not push the issue with you once you both have discussed that you are not comfortable with it. Now, if you are willing to entertain the idea, and possibly experiment with a threesome with a second man, you would have to do a self evaluation of what you are comfortable with happening between not only your wife and the second man, but yourself and the second man. Then you have to express these thoughts to your wife, and see if she is on the same page as you. She should also do a self evaluation, to she what she is wanting from it. After you and your wife are on the same page, go find yourselves a man...
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