What are your veiws on long distance relationships between teens..in a matter of only seeing eachother 2 or 3 times a year? could it last? why or why not?

I think that in your teen years you should be enjoying your life and living it for what it is and what you are looking to make of it. You have a lifetime to date, and get into serious relationships and find someone you are crazy about. These years are the best years of your life and you should enjoy them rather than focus on something such as a relationship expescially when it is far away. I would say theres nothing wrong with keeping this person as a good friend and hanging out as friends and communicating through phone and email but as far as anything serious relationship wise I would focus on enjoying your life and living your life as a teen. Granted I know its easier said than done but I am saying this from experience. I know we all get crushes and think we are in love when we are young, but really think about it, do we as teens really know the definition of love?

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I know. its sooo hard though. because its like I cant be with him (parent wise and the latter question) but that makes me love and miss him even more. and he is such a good guy..and he wants to be serious because he says I am the only one he will ever love but I just dont know what to do..its so complicated.
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by browneyedbeauty on December 16th, 2006
I understand being complicated but you ahve your whole life ahead of you as does he. Its great to love someone and want to move heaven and earth to be with them but you will have enough time for that as you grow as a person. I can relate to your situation both in my past and now I am 25 years old and would move heaven and earth for my guy but theres a big difference, I lived my teen years and through experience many older people will tell you you theres nothing wrong with loving anyone, its the point of focusing on growing up and enjoying your childhood as you will ahve lots of time for boys and relationships. Also relationships are far from easy and take alot of work, and thats the farthest thing you should be worried about at your age. Lots of luck.
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by XxSpoofiesGirlxX on December 16th, 2006
thank you so much. I think the reason its so hard is because he is the only guy who ever understood me. I have only been with older guys other then him and he has been thru everything with me. he was the one i cried to when my mom passed away, the one i had my first kiss with. he is just this guy who loves me more then life itself. and in my childhood and family life, no one ever did so its weird and absolutely crazily exzhilerating (spelling??) to be needed to be wanted to just be simply loved. its so hard to put the emotions into words but if i could..it is just wow. but I dont know if we could withstand 1600 miles. thats such a long ways.
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by browneyedbeauty on December 16th, 2006
I am very sorri for the loss of your mother as that can be and is a truly devistating thing. As its great to ahve someone comfort you through such an issue and nice to know that someone loves you. I think you may be feeling a void and this boy tends to fill that void by creating a love that you feel you have lost in your life. Just remember that your mother is with you and watched over you all the time. Though she is not physically with you her love is with you and she is guiding you and looking for the best for you. Your mother would want to see you be happy and live your life happily. This guy may love you lots and he may seem like the one for you, who knows maybe he is but for now I wouldnt rush things, I would focus on other things and have fun with you live and live each day to the fullest and see where your life leads you. If hes meant to be with you it will work out and nothing will stop it if its meant to be. Be a kid, have fun and enjoy life for all its worth.
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by XxSpoofiesGirlxX on December 16th, 2006
yeah I suppose that that is true. about it all. but i think i love the idea of him, the idea of a perfect relationship. but i know i need to live because i dont. i wait to call him 24/7 and write him nonstop...its not that good. but he is just so lovable its hard to imagine myself without him. because we were great friends before any relationships..so im afraid we wont b able to be friends anymore either if I try to quit. but i dont want to, even though i need to. i really dont want to. this whole comment has been contradictory so make of it as you wish.
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by browneyedbeauty on December 16th, 2006
I wouldnt end a friendship I would just focus on other things besides the whole relationship as a good friend is an asset and very hard to find nowadays. Good Luck and if you ever want to chat im me beena882000 on yahoo.
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by XxSpoofiesGirlxX on December 16th, 2006
thank you and you are very helpful just so you know.
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by browneyedbeauty on December 16th, 2006

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