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by jewelsweet on December 16th, 2006

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Ive been In love with this guy for 5 years now, but Ive never told him how I feel. and It drives me crazy because when I see him I want to, but I feel as though I cant. Wether its me being shy or whatever I dont knwo. How DO I tell him how I feel?

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  • by Sarita1 Goes Bollywood on December 16th, 2006

    Sarita1 Goes Bollywood

    Are you dating him? And its not love unless its reciprocal - otherwise its intense like, lust or a crush....love takes two..if you are datingor seeing him on a regular basis, talk to him and see if you have a basis for a long term relationship - at least find out how he feels about you!

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  • by postmuffin on December 16th, 2006

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    Write a letter, send a card. Any idea how he feels about you? I would guess he thinks of you as just a friend. You need to tell him that you love him more than just as a friend. Maybe he feels the same way, and maybe not. The only way to know is to tell him.

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  • by AntigoneRising on December 16th, 2006

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    You have to communicate it in words - whether verbal or written. You can do it in person, over the phone, by letter, by email, etc. The only way you will ever find out if it can work with him is to tell him. Otherwise, you will spend your life wondering, "What if?"

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  • by Smurphy on February 18th, 2007

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    The best thing I ever did was never telling that guy that I liked him. Sorry weird trip down memory lane. I don't know I never did it.

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  • by Dawnie on February 18th, 2007

    Dawnie

    I have the same problem. I have known this guy for almost ten years, and he's one of my best friends. We talk about just about everything, and he is the only guy I know who will actually debate sensitive topics w/ me. I think that we just need to get up the courage to tell them how we feel, no matter what. Sure, we need to be prepared for the possible let down, but we also need to be prepared for anything else. (He may even be the love of your life. You just never know.) In short, only you know how to tell him, you just need to gather the courage to do it. :) You have nothing to lose, and everything to gain, so go for it. :)

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