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by katie1234 on December 15th, 2006

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Im in love with this guy from my class and we're pretty good friends.. but he has a girlfriend of 4-5 years.. i think hes getting tired of her but i dont know. i mean we flirt quite a bit and sometimes i think theres some tension there.. what should i do

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  • by swannie on February 21st, 2007

    swannie

    just keep being a good friend. maybe it will grow into something later in life. good luck!

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  • by tigueron on December 15th, 2006

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    take it to the next level, invite him out (whatever it means based on your age)

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  • by mrbiggz on December 15th, 2006

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    do you know what love is? imagine if you were the old girlfriend and she was interested in him, how would you feel then?

    isn't there another man in the world that you can build a relationship with?

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  • by Hellaphunt's Skynet on December 15th, 2006

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    You should leave your relationship with him simple. Do not get in over your head while he is with this woman. It is never good to start in this way. You wouldn't like knowing that he is capable of doing this behind a woman's back that he has been with for 4-5 years do you?

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  • by Redhawk on December 17th, 2006

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    Back off...stop flirting so much with him and let him end the relationship he's in first, if he desires to do so. Give a bit more time...at least a 4 to 4 week time span...THEN, if he appears to be interested...you can flirt to your heart's contentment...guilt free.

    Remember if he steps out on one woman...it's a possible pattern...the same with women who cheat on their B/F....Tigers rarely loose their stripes!

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  • by peptalk4u on December 17th, 2006

    peptalk4u

    I say think before you leap. Be wise in holding back your full intentions. This is a great opportunity for heart break. What happens if they decide to reconcilate after a few days away from each other? You ask, this could be only infaturation, a desire for temperary sexual fix. Janet Jackson said in one of her songs, "Let's wait a while" what about you?

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  • by Bryan_D1232 on May 19th, 2011

    Bryan_D1232

    just be blunt and ask him the worse he could say is that he already has a gf which you already know

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  • by Kimbugg22 on March 6th, 2007

    Kimbugg22

    Well there are pros and cons to this!

    You could let him know how you are feeling and see where it goes...but then you also could ruin a relationship that he and his girl have...right now things could be a little rocky/old but in the future they may want to refresh the life of the realtionship because 4-5 years is real hard to throw away!

    Also if you take a chance on letting him know how you feel then it could cause your friendship to hurt if he doesn't feel the same way...You HAVE to be ready for his answer whether it be YES or NO!

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