In order for you to receive an intelligent answer, you should state your age. That has a lot to do with the answer.

Err ... ok. I didn't know that. I am 32 years old. So - am I in trouble of some kind or what, please? :-)

There may be something wrong with you physically. At your age, the sex drive is still very powerful and the urge to have sex should be nearly every day, not that a guy actually has sex everyday, but the urge is there. It could be the way you masterbate. Using a rough hand could be a real turnoff for your stiff but delicate penis. Since it has been a few days since you asked this question, you probably have climaxed by now. You should check the volume of semen. Is is about the same as it always was or less? Have you had a "wet dream" lately? Answers to these questions will help you determine whether is is physical or psychological. I'll keep checking for any reply you give.

This is what I do. I start watching a movie or a bunch of pictures of 2 or more lesbians kissing and hugging and stuff during which I masturbate. I do this every 2 days (somehow doing it every day doesn't seem to work - my body hasn't stored enough semen yet; I think) Is masturbating every day (read: too much) unhealthy? Can it lead to something malfunctioning like going blind or something or is this all rubbish? Anyway - the whole process suually takes about half an hour. I first touch myself (nipples and chest)and work my way down and end with the actual masturbating which shouldn't take more than 5 or 10 minutes. I like this foreplay because then it almost feels like I'm actually there with them (fingers crossed ... LOL!) Could it be that masturbing doesn't always work as a result of a lack of attention? That I'm simply not IN the moment? I mean: maybe I don't get sexually aroused when watching this movie/pictures and as such I can't ... you know? ... do it? Thanks!

Well, it seems like you are doing everything OK. I would say you are probably watching the same old movies you've seen many times before and you aren't getting aroused by them like you did at first. You could try some new video rentals or you could do what I do and just close your eyes. You could begin to stimulate yourself by rubbing your nipples and gently pulling on them. Then rub your stomach and the inside of your thighs. Then you apply a little Astroglide or other lube (Astroglide works best) to your penis. Then put some in your hand and begin turning your hand around the tip of your penis until it is stiffer than a baseball bat. Then start going up and down on it all the while thinking of a beautiful chick doing all the action on you. With lube, you can go slower and enjoy the sensations and intensity all the more. And no, there is nothing physical that will happen to you, like going blind or hair growing on the palms of your hands or anything else. It is normal to get off every two or three days. Most married men your age only do it every 3,5 or 6 days because of work schedules, the wife has a headache, the kids are sick, etc. So enjoy what opportunities you have by taking it slow and enjoying every moment.

Thanks! Regarding watching the same old videos or pictures ... I have like (counting) 135 maps; half of them contain 250 pictures per map (which I of course play in a random order) and half of these maps contain 25 videos of approximately 5 to 10 minutes (which I also play in a random order). I was kinda hoping that I wouldn't have to spend too much money anymore in downloading/buying new pictures/videos and could go on with this forever. I suppose that's wishful thinking, right? ;oD Thanks again! Bye for now