by CincinnatiDrummer on October 5th, 2008

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My ex-girlfriend will be staying in my dorm for a night this upcoming week; would it be best to NOT make a move on her? I want to be respectful

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  • by ms.maverick on November 25th, 2008

    ms.maverick

    Be super attentive but keep it clean and respectful. Show her you are not one so desperate as to take advantage of such a situtation (and be willing to back it up). DOnt talk about NOT doing it, just be real sweet, accomodationg, FUNNY and she will make the moves my friend!

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  • by Chingles on October 16th, 2008

    Chingles

    To get back together takes two people. Seems to me like she's already made the first move. Now it's on you. Think about it dude, she's staying in YOUR dorm for a night. Why would an ex want to do this?

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  • by you.dont.know.what.love.is on November 10th, 2008

    you.dont.know.what.love.is

    that would be hott...go for it.(:

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  • by May on October 8th, 2008

    May

    Well, do you think she still likes you? It depends why you two broke up.

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  • by Thriftymaid on August 18th, 2009

    Thriftymaid

    If you told her she could stay there out of generosity it would be wrong to expect anything in return (which is what this sounds like). Don't be a jerk.

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  • by Route 66Truckerman on August 18th, 2009

    Route 66Truckerman

    I don't know is she dating a HUGE football player !!

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  • by jaydee on August 18th, 2009

    jaydee

    Don't do anything..just be cool and proper..polite and proper. Dude..she will be on you like white on rice? You might even be a little reluctant..you know.." I really didn't want this to happen " It won't matter because if you act disinterested..it will happen..hehe

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  • by Changeling0203 on August 18th, 2009

    Changeling0203

    If you want her back, go for it. But be prepared for awkwardness if it doesn't go over well. If you just want ex-sex make a move, but make it clear that's all you want (in case she wants something more). Again, could end up REALLY awkward.

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  • by benzoslc on November 17th, 2008

    benzoslc

    If you have already slept with her in the past. How would you be disrepecting her now. She probably wants you to, that is why she is staying over. To make up for lost time.

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  • by Anonymous on November 25th, 2008

    Anonymous

    I would say definitely not. Her staying in your room is a sign that she's interested, but if you try to push it, she'll likely go on the defensive and possibly accuse you of manipulating her or whatever else she happens to come up with. Don't make a move, but be close enough to let her know you're open to the idea.

    This all depends on the girl, of course. I can't say for sure how she'll react because I don't know her.

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  • by zander on December 24th, 2008

    zander

    If you were really trying to be respectful, you would make sure nothing happens, even if you have to go bunk with a friend and leave her the apartment.

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  • by Ruh Roh on December 24th, 2008

    Ruh Roh

    Where are you ppl from? Where I come from, a dorm is a large building with many rooms. Dude never said she was staying in his room, just in the same building. Who is she visiting, why is she staying there?

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  • by rockondenver on August 12th, 2009

    rockondenver

    Ask her first.

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