My ex-girlfriend will be staying in my dorm for a night this upcoming week; would it be best to NOT make a move on her? I want to be respectful
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CincinnatiDrummer
ANSWERS: 14
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Well, do you think she still likes you? It depends why you two broke up.
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To get back together takes two people. Seems to me like she's already made the first move. Now it's on you. Think about it dude, she's staying in YOUR dorm for a night. Why would an ex want to do this?
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that would be hott...go for it.(:
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If you have already slept with her in the past. How would you be disrepecting her now. She probably wants you to, that is why she is staying over. To make up for lost time.
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Let her do the first move
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Be super attentive but keep it clean and respectful. Show her you are not one so desperate as to take advantage of such a situtation (and be willing to back it up). DOnt talk about NOT doing it, just be real sweet, accomodationg, FUNNY and she will make the moves my friend!
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I would say definitely not. Her staying in your room is a sign that she's interested, but if you try to push it, she'll likely go on the defensive and possibly accuse you of manipulating her or whatever else she happens to come up with. Don't make a move, but be close enough to let her know you're open to the idea. This all depends on the girl, of course. I can't say for sure how she'll react because I don't know her.
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If you were really trying to be respectful, you would make sure nothing happens, even if you have to go bunk with a friend and leave her the apartment.
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Where are you ppl from? Where I come from, a dorm is a large building with many rooms. Dude never said she was staying in his room, just in the same building. Who is she visiting, why is she staying there?
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Ask her first.
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If you want her back, go for it. But be prepared for awkwardness if it doesn't go over well. If you just want ex-sex make a move, but make it clear that's all you want (in case she wants something more). Again, could end up REALLY awkward.
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If you told her she could stay there out of generosity it would be wrong to expect anything in return (which is what this sounds like). Don't be a jerk.
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I don't know is she dating a HUGE football player !!
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Don't do anything..just be cool and proper..polite and proper. Dude..she will be on you like white on rice? You might even be a little reluctant..you know.." I really didn't want this to happen " It won't matter because if you act disinterested..it will happen..hehe
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