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  • If i were your BF and I saw you posted this I'd be even madder. Now I've no idea what transpired in your conversation that led up to him accusing you of not listening... However it makes a nice change to the more common "what's wrong?" "Nothing" "No, something's wrong" "If you loved me you'd know what's wrong"
  • He strikes me as a.) unreliable, b.) unpredictable, and c.) vindictive. Perhaps I am reading too much into a petty little fight, but I have admittedly high expectations and now I will explain why those three things. Unreliable because he said he would call and he didn't. Naturally, you wanted to keep your plans, so you called. He could have communicated with you that his feelings were hurt because he really did want to call you and made a mistake, but no, he said you didn't "listen".... There is the unpredictable. You are not an animal, sitting... staying.... obeying his commands. You are an active participant in the relationship, and all you did was pick up the phone. His reaction was unpredictable in that, who would go to that type of extremity when you were only trying to have a functional day after his initial unreliability.... Finally - vindictive. He has ruined your plans because he didn't get what he wanted. He never respected your plans. That's how the situation reads. Maybe there's more to it, but you are not his pet. And your plans shouldn't be thrown by the wayside so casually, either.
  • Do you know what you didn't listen about? That, I think, is a big part of this. Since we don't know the conversation it is very hard to say whether or not he's overreacting.
  • what a jerk! Plans are plans, he flaked. Find someone else.

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