http://www.answerbag.com/profile/996203 New Answerbag answers from Touch_of_The_Masters_Hand Wed, 30 May 2012 19:08:47 -0700 Wed, 30 May 2012 19:08:47 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/12167727 Men: French maid look or School girl with pigtails look?<br /><br />I'm going to have to go with the French maid look seeing how I'm about to be 50 in 3 more days and going the other way will probably make me a pervert. lol Sun, 13 May 2012 12:05:53 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/12167727 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/12165851 What did you do in the Summer of 68 ???<br /><br />I was 6 at the time so probably spent a lot of time at the sprinklers at Sunset park in Brooklyn NY Sat, 12 May 2012 17:38:58 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/12165851 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/12164313 Is it entertaining to see the Obama-fawning media go way back to Romney's HS prankster days in their desperation to dig up dirt?<br /><br />Honestly I find it disgusting that the election process has become a 3 ring circus over the last couple of decades. It's no longer about what each candidate plans on doing if they get elected but why we shouldn't vote for the other guy. Mr Obama instead of blaming the Republicans and more... Sat, 12 May 2012 07:44:52 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/12164313 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/12164283 A 19 year old woman and 43 year old man fall in love. They're the happiest they've ever been. Why do so many people think this is a problem?<br /><br />Because they think that a 43 y/o man who wants a relationship with someone young enough to be his daughter is either just going through a midlife crisis and only wants the 19 y/o for a hot young piece of ass or he is mentally unstable and incapable of forming connections with women his own age so... Sat, 12 May 2012 07:27:54 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/12164283 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/12163631 What would be your first thought when the toothbrush you were reaching for suddenly fell into the toilet?<br /><br />I better either have some Listerine or I better have time to run to the store for a new toothbrush otherwise I will probably be making people pass out with my stinky breath. Fri, 11 May 2012 21:46:46 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/12163631 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/12163625 Does size really matters?<br /><br />Depends on what you mean. If you're talking penis size I am unqualified to answer seeing how I am neither female nor a homosexual or bi sexual male. If by size thou you're referring to weight then definitely no it doesn't matter. Beautiful women come in all sizes and shapes. Fri, 11 May 2012 21:44:29 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/12163625 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/12163148 Is it ok for an 18 year old to date someone who is 40<br /><br />I'm sorry to hear that. Obviously you married a very controlling who forgot the number one thing not to do when dating someone a lot younger than yourself and that is Never let their youth make you believe you know what's best I lost my girlfriend a few months ago to a brain aneurysm she was 24... Fri, 11 May 2012 18:33:08 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/12163148 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/12161757 What is the "smartest" advise you ever got ?<br /><br />If you want to be happy for the rest of your life never make a pretty woman your wife. Best advice ever lmao. Fri, 11 May 2012 09:44:38 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/12161757 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/12161637 Is it ok for an 18 year old to date someone who is 40<br /><br />It will be fun to see the responses you get to this. You're 18 in the eyes of the law you're legally an adult. If you want to date a 90 y/o it is no one's business but yours and the person you're considering dating. I am assuming with a username like Jared that you are a guy. I bet most who... Fri, 11 May 2012 09:02:52 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/12161637 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/12157058 What's the next pet cause for Obama? Walk-a-child-from-school day for registered pedophiles? Aren't they an oppressed voting bloc, too?<br /><br />If this is in reference to his seemingly sudden support for gay marriage who knows. Obama is only suddenly for it because his ass is trying to gets reelected. If he succeeds we will see how far things go. My prediction not far at all. It's more political pandering in an election year and less... Wed, 09 May 2012 18:32:45 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/12157058 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/12156643 Does the warning about changing the words of the bible appear in all versions?<br /><br />What you are referring to is found in the book of revelations chapter 22 verses 18 and 19. 18For I testify unto every man that heareth the words of the prophecy of this book, If any man shall add unto these things, God shall add unto him the plagues that are written in this book; 19And if any... Wed, 09 May 2012 16:08:47 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/12156643 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/12156423 My GF goes commando in short skirts/dresses. She says she likes the fresh feeling or does she really just want other guys to see her pussy?<br /><br />Your girlfriend could be a closet exhibitionist and gets her rocks off flashing other guys and/or knowing other guys are trying to get a peak at the goodies. This doesn't in any way shape or form make her a cheater. Many exhibitionists get off on the sheer knowledge that others can see something... Wed, 09 May 2012 14:06:26 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/12156423 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/12093432 What was the worst spanking you ever got in your life growing up? Who spanked you? What did s/he use to spank with?<br /><br />I was 15. The Junior high I attended went to 9th grade. I just graduated and got about 300.00 in graduation money. I took it and spent nearly every penny buying pain and supplies to paint my grandfather's apartment. My father asked me for the money as I guess they were going to go out and... Sat, 21 Apr 2012 19:40:08 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/12093432 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/12069708 Should we accept we have to call a christmas tree a festive tree because it offended the local counceller. who was muslim<br /><br />No fuck that stupid rag head bastard. Unless the tree is locatednon public property he has no control over what it is called. If he don't like it let him take his sorry ass back to the middle east where he belongs. Sat, 14 Apr 2012 15:18:46 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/12069708 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/12031676 I don't think it is right for soldiers to rape and kill women and children. The ones who do that are a disgrace to the uniform. Do you think many soldiers do this?<br /><br />On the issue of rape I agree with you 1000. However I disagree on the issue of killing women and children. In war if they are on the side of your enemy no one can b trusted unfortunately. Look at how many of our men and women in the military trusted children in times of war and lost their... Tue, 03 Apr 2012 06:38:25 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/12031676 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/12031658 Are soldiers really heroes if they RAPE people while they're at war? (Or anywhere for that matter)?<br /><br />The individual soldiers who CHOOSE to rape are cowards and don't deserve the title hero but that doesn't mean that those who resisted performing such cowardly acts and acted as heros should be looked down upon because of the actions of their commrades. Tue, 03 Apr 2012 06:29:18 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/12031658 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/12030376 What religion other than your own, have you taken the time to study and learn about?<br /><br />I was born and raised in the Catholic Church. At the age of 19 I got sick and tired of the priests bull every time I would ask a question that they didn't have the answer to. They would always say it's just one of those mysteries of God that we may never understand. Bull instead of giving that... Mon, 02 Apr 2012 18:06:52 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/12030376 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/12021584 How to avoid talking to someone you don't want to talk to without hurting their feelings?<br /><br />That's a hard one but short of the other responder' answer of blocking him there is very few options that you have in order to keep from hurting his feelings Try being honest without being hurtful. You can try things like I think you're a really great person but I can't spend all of my free... Fri, 30 Mar 2012 23:01:41 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/12021584 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/12016079 What do you believe to be the root of most problems in relationships?<br /><br />The me me me me generation where everything is about me me me instead of u us us and they give no thought to what is best for the relationship as a whole but rather what is best for them. As long as people continue to be selfish and think of only what is best for then rather than the relationship... Thu, 29 Mar 2012 06:51:40 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/12016079 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/12004262 How important is trust in a relationship?<br /><br />Extremely. Without it what's the point of even being in a relationship if you can't trust the person you're with. Sun, 25 Mar 2012 18:02:30 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/12004262 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11969533 I've noticed quite a few questions implicitly criticizing Mormons and their church. Why the need to single out this religion for ridicule?<br /><br />Because they are idiots who believe everything that some former insider tells them about what Mormonism really believes. If you go into any so called Christian bookstore and look at their section on cults I can promise you at least 75% of the books there are critical of Mormonism and if you look... Thu, 15 Mar 2012 08:42:14 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11969533 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11969497 Have you ever seen a baby being born?<br /><br />Yes Almost 25 years ago I was in the delivery room when my son was born. Thu, 15 Mar 2012 08:24:02 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11969497 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11966717 If you sent a friend request to everyone on Facebook simultaneously, how many people do you think would accept?<br /><br />I generally do not send friend requests as I feel awkward doing so. I freely accept almost all friend requests though. The only time I don't accept is if I notice we have no friends in common and don't belong to any of the same groups then I will deny the friend request unless it is accompanied... Wed, 14 Mar 2012 12:21:45 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11966717 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11960852 Do you think the saying once a cheater always a cheater is true and why?<br /><br />Not always. While it is true for most there are some who genuinely make an honest mistake that they regret and once they come to that realization of how wrong what they did was most can successfully avoid making that heartbreakingly selfish mistake again. Mon, 12 Mar 2012 18:00:38 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11960852 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11953523 Do you ever settle for someone you don't really like, but don't see a better alternative?<br /><br />I wouldn't say that I didn't like but I did settle for someone because the person who I really loved and wanted didn't want me so I figured better to have someone than end up alone wasting my time longing for someone who made it crystal clear they were not interested in me. Sat, 10 Mar 2012 14:07:33 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11953523 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11933195 Why is it a big deal when a spouse or mate watches porn. It's not doing it. Maybe I'm just to old to understand.<br /><br />Ok if 63 is the year you were born then you are not too old but possibly too stupid or too selfish. I was born in 62 and i get it. What is wrong with it is it makes your partner feel inadequate as if they are not good enough for you that you have to resort to living in this fantasy world that... Mon, 05 Mar 2012 04:37:51 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11933195 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11926254 Will Romney ban coffee and Coke in the White House?<br /><br />What a moron. Before posting this crap do a little research first. The church has no official stance on caffinated beverages such as coke. It is each individual members choice to decide what is meant by the word of wisdom. As I recall the instruction was to not consume hot drinks as they are... Sat, 03 Mar 2012 07:29:59 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11926254 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11912915 What's the best food prank you've ever pulled or had pulled on you?<br /><br />This is not something I was directly involved with nor did I have any beforehand knowledge of it and it caused me great embarassment in front of many of the church leaders but before I left to serve a full time mission for the LDS Church back in the mid 80's I was asked to represent our Stake as... Tue, 28 Feb 2012 18:09:05 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11912915 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11910420 Can someone explain to me, why is the BIBLE so INSANE?..<br /><br />It's not necessarily that the bible is so insane but rather that too many idiots take the damned thing so freaking literally. For example do you know there are morons who despite all the scientific evidence to the contrary believe the world is literally only about 6,000 years oold or that God... Tue, 28 Feb 2012 05:02:14 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11910420 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11636373 Do people who refuse to put ketchup on hotdogs do it because they hate the taste, or because adding ketchup is "against the rules"?<br /><br />Anyone who puts any condiments on a hot dog outside of mustard relish onions and saurkraut is not a freedom loving God fearing American and should be shot on sight. Lol j/k. I think it should be up to each individuala as to what they put on their hot dog. For example I refuse to eat at any... Mon, 26 Dec 2011 17:04:00 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11636373 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11497424 i am 29 and my girlfriend is 19,, what are peoples opininon of this?<br /><br />You are both over the age of consent so who really gives a damn. If you love each other then that is all that really matters. I'm 49 almost 50 and until about 2 mojnths ago was happily engaged to a woman 25 years my junior. We were extremely happy with each pther and were making plans for a... Sun, 20 Nov 2011 20:03:47 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11497424 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11185673 If my GF of 6 months stops saying I love you in texts and barely whispers it in person is it over?<br /><br />Maybe yes maybe no. It all depends. Sometimes in the very start of a new relationship people constantly tell their mate they love them because they don't know any other way to make them believe it's true. As time goes on though sometimes we stop not because we no longer love the person but... Sat, 03 Sep 2011 18:30:51 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11185673 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11169614 Can cysts be deadly?<br /><br />cysts if they keep cominbg back could become cancerous over time. Please encourage your boyfriend to seek the advice of a medical professional before it is too late. Tue, 30 Aug 2011 13:06:54 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11169614 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11163211 am I the only person who gets grossed out watching people kiss?<br /><br />It all depends. If they are practically having simulated sex while kissing then yes it makes me want to toss my cookies. If however it's a sweet gental kiss between two people who are obviously inlove then no I am not grossed out by it at all and in fact think it is a very sweet thing to see. Sun, 28 Aug 2011 17:35:39 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11163211 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11162558 Where did you grow up? Would you ever like to revisit the place now?<br /><br />Born and raised in the greatest place on earth. Brooklyn NY. I live in Philadelphia PA now going on 10 years. Sun, 28 Aug 2011 14:40:11 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11162558 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11162043 At what point is it ok to date someone half your age?<br /><br />If all you want is some fun and you're not looking for a serious long term committment that could lead up to marriage then date who you want so long as they are of legal age. If however you want to settle down and make a life with one person then unfortunately age does become a major factor.... Sun, 28 Aug 2011 11:18:48 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11162043 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11161994 If i was pregnant and had sex with another guy other than the babys father is it true that the other guys sperm would kill the baby<br /><br />If the 1989 in your username is the year of your birth that would make you at least 21 assuming your birthday hasn't come yet this year otherwise you're 22. If you're this gullible at this age I would hate to see you when you're 30. The answer to your question is no and btw I hope and pray your... Sun, 28 Aug 2011 11:02:56 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11161994 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11152013 The girl I love said I'm ugly, It makes feel really bad. She's not the only one who thinks like this. Will I find any girl that likes me?<br /><br />Don't sweat it dude. Sooner or later some special young lady will see you for more than what is on the outside and fall inlove with you for the man you are on the inside. Through my entire teens and most of my adult life I felt I was ugly and no one was ever going to love me for me. I was wrong.... Thu, 25 Aug 2011 16:34:26 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11152013 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11023569 Is it wrong 2 ignore a txt as you told the person in a earlier txt that u would call them at around a certain time?<br /><br />It depends. If the text came around or after the time you were supposed to call then yes it is rude to ignore it. If however you told them you would call them at 3 for example and they are texting you at 1 then no it isn't wrong to ignore it. Honesty is very important. Better you risk hurting... Wed, 27 Jul 2011 14:15:24 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11023569 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11010790 My husband has always been abusive and controlling. We have a two year old together which makes it hard for me to leave bc she loves him.<br /><br />You need to get the hell out of there now before he kills or seriously injures you or your child. And grow up btw and stop making excuses to stay. If you stay eventually you or your child will end up dead or maimed for life. She's young enough that she doesn't really know what is going on. Don't... Sun, 24 Jul 2011 16:56:21 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11010790 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10989175 Why is there the saying that 'the way to a man's heart is through his stomach'? Are men attracted to people who cook?<br /><br />I don't know where that saying came from. It's been around a very long tome. I think it originated back in the days of chauvanism when a woman's place was in the home being the caretaker cook maid etc. Her only job was to make babies and take care of the home while the man went out to work and... Tue, 19 Jul 2011 09:17:55 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10989175 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10982379 Do you ever say sorry after an argument just so it will be over, even if you don't think you are wrong?<br /><br />Whether it's a good or bad thing depoends on what is important to you. If your pride and knowing you're right is more important then go ahead and be a stubborn mule who refuses to be the one to budge and say sorry. However don't go crying when your partner gets tired of your always having to be... Sun, 17 Jul 2011 20:05:51 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10982379 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10917295 What do you remember actually being your "first song" during your first serious relationship?<br /><br />Don't recall. For my current relationship our song is bless the broken road by Rascal flatts. Fri, 01 Jul 2011 11:41:06 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10917295 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10917281 I like to have a lot of kinky sex. Am I a slut?<br /><br />It depends. Simply loving lots of sex doesn't make one a slut. Now if you like lots of kinky sex with lots of different people then maybe you might be bordering on being a slut but if you have a steady boyfriend or fuck buddy liking to have alot of kinky sex with them doesn't even come close to... Fri, 01 Jul 2011 11:36:58 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10917281 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10916374 my supervisor asked out to eat tomorrow , i dont undestand why ? im not into him ,ive met him for 3 years now<br /><br />If this man is in a position of authority what he is doing could be considered sexual harassment and I am sure it is against the compoany's policy. Tell him as clearly as you can that he needs to back off and leave you alone and if he doesn't get the hint I would report him to HR and whatever... Fri, 01 Jul 2011 07:45:43 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10916374 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10874550 I have come across a notebook with my partners handwriting with usernames n passwords to many different adult dating sites. What would u do?<br /><br />More than likely he either has already cheated on you or is looking to cheat. Why torture yourself any further by checking it out. If you are in a position to sue him for palimony and there are considerable assets you could end up with a share of then sure look further and gather up the evidence... Wed, 22 Jun 2011 06:41:29 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10874550 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10874537 I have come across a notebook with my partners handwriting with usernames n passwords to many different adult dating sites. What would u do?<br /><br />Share your answer... Wed, 22 Jun 2011 06:37:13 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10874537 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10771424 Have you ever seen a dead body? Not during a funeral, but before it was embalmed?<br /><br />Twice. The firast time was about 5 years ago. The person I was in a relationship with at the time lost her nephew who was only 15 to cancer. He died in his sleep at home. The second tome was almost 3 years ago. I got tom the hospital shortly after my last girlfriend passed away from a lung... Sat, 28 May 2011 13:52:51 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10771424 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10713042 Which U.S. Supreme Court decision do you most disagree with?<br /><br />The recent one in which those scumbags sided 8 to 1 with Fred Phelps and his merry band of fucktards that their hate filled rants are protected as free speech. In case anyone doesn't know who Fred Phelps is he is the head of the Westboro Baptist Church. You know those asswipes that like to... Fri, 13 May 2011 21:33:19 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10713042 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10681548 Why do so called "friends" who claim to love you make snide rude but indirect comments? What do they get out of doing that?<br /><br />Those people are not real friends as real friends don't act that way. A real friend if they had something to say to you would be direct and to the point and would say whatever they had to say straight to your face. Even at the possible risk of hurting your feelings. A real friend is always honest... Fri, 06 May 2011 04:57:23 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10681548 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10673132 I know christians cheat as well.But do you think a christian man is LESS LIKELY to cheat in a marriage?HAVE FUN WITH THIS 1!:)<br /><br />Being a Christian doesn't stop anyone from cheating. Jst ask Jim Baker or Jimmy Swaggart or the countless other televangelists that ended up confessing to it. Wed, 04 May 2011 05:40:49 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10673132 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10666948 Is dating a guy 10 years your senior kind of abnormal?<br /><br />Absofuckinglutely not.So long as you're both over 18 do what makes you happy. I am happily engaged to a 24 y/o and I'm 49 so it can work if you're willing to put forth the extra effort Mon, 02 May 2011 18:52:09 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10666948 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10586211 If you were to be on American Idol, what song would you sing?<br /><br />This one Thu, 14 Apr 2011 14:07:09 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10586211 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10581905 What should you choose a boyfriend from? Personality, looks, or humor?<br /><br />While I won't argue that looks do play a role in choosing a mate they shouldn't be high on your list of priorities. Think of it this way. If you had a choice between two guys and guy A was smoking hot so much so that you would be the envy of all of your friends but you knew he had a rep for... Wed, 13 Apr 2011 15:07:35 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10581905 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10565867 Have you and an S.O. ever gone out and the thing they are wearing makes you want you want to die of embarrassment?<br /><br />I wouldn't say embarrassed as much as upset and it was a former girlfriend. My current girlfriend dresses very tastefully. She was a big girl in the boob department and loved to wear things that showed as much as she could legally get away with off. I so wanted to tell her how much this upset me... Sun, 10 Apr 2011 04:51:10 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10565867 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10565866 Have you and an S.O. ever gone out and the thing they are wearing makes you want you want to die of embarrassment?<br /><br /> Sun, 10 Apr 2011 04:51:09 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10565866 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10563484 If your so broke up with you today would you be heartbroken or OK?<br /><br />Yes I would be devestated because I truly believe she is the one perfect woman that I am meant to spend the rest of my life with. However if it was nit her feeling I woiuld have to accept it and move on as best as I can. Sat, 09 Apr 2011 14:47:17 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10563484 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10561954 I have boyfriend that says he will kill himself if i leave him. I just dont have that in love feeling but i love him and he provides<br /><br />I'm with Katie leave him if you aren't happy. If he actually follows through on this threat and kills himself know that it is not your fault. This is a man who has serious mental issues and continuing to stay with him could become hazardous to your health so my advice is to get out now while you... Sat, 09 Apr 2011 05:39:17 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10561954 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10560104 Where did you take your spouse on your first date?<br /><br />I'm divorced from my first wife 14 years ago. I am currently engaged to be married for the second time. My first date with my Fiancee was she took me out to lunch after my Graduation from College with my Bachelors degree last May. Fri, 08 Apr 2011 17:02:39 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10560104 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10560081 How Do I catch someone cheating in a Relationship?<br /><br />Sorry but unless you are married to the person and there are considerable marital assets at stake just pack your shit or their shit and move on. Trust your gut. If it tells you they are cheating they probably are so why put yourself through the heartbreak and misery of finding out unless you have... Fri, 08 Apr 2011 16:56:35 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10560081 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10560073 Do you think you have a right to 'just jump up' and get a divorce or do you need to earn your way out ?<br /><br />No one should just jump into a divorce unless as Mrs Cleaver said there is abuse or other safety issues. I would also add infidelity to that list. Some may not agree but for me personally if I'm cheated on I don't care what the reason was. I don't see any point in trying to prolong the inevitable... Fri, 08 Apr 2011 16:52:50 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10560073 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10558325 WTH? WHY IS IT SO IMPORTANT TO KEEP THINGS 'PRIVATE' IN MY RELATIONSHIP? CLASSIFIED MY ASS! THAT'S A F*CKING SECRET & U KNO IT!<br /><br />Ok so there is a good chance you will hate my answer so here it is anyway. Just because you choose to make your whole life an open book and show and share everything with your boyfriend it doesn't mean he has to be obligated to do likewise. If you feel that your partner is obligated to make his... Fri, 08 Apr 2011 08:07:21 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10558325 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10558153 If you were gonna take me on a romantic getaway somewhere where would it be and what things would we do together to keep the romance going?<br /><br />How about Paris or Venice? France or Italy that is, not Texas or California. Those are two of the most romantic places on earth I can think of to go.In Paris we would dine by candlelight from a balcony overlooking the eiffel tower at night. in Venice we would take a Gondola ride while being... Fri, 08 Apr 2011 07:30:32 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10558153 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10558101 Are you in love? If so, wht do you like about them? What is there best inside quality, what is there best looking feature on the outside?<br /><br />I like that she loves me in spite of all of my faults and she is mature enough to not let people's stares and rude and ignorant remarks get to her. Her best inner quality is her capacity to love without conditions. Her best outer feature is her beautiful smile. We met at work at a time when I was... Fri, 08 Apr 2011 07:02:45 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10558101 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10555021 can a black man date a white woman without people thinking he doesnt like women of his own race? i like women of all races whats the deal?<br /><br />I agree with Sunny. They are just jealous. Ignore ignorant assholes. I get the same shit because I'm 49 and engaged to a 24 y/o with assholes assuming I have a problem with dating women my own age. I didn't go out and plan on dating and falling inlove with someone who could be my daughter it... Thu, 07 Apr 2011 13:46:45 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10555021 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10553724 If a girl tells you your not a boyfriend type of guy what does that mean iim in 7grade<br /><br />It's secret code. It's a girl's way of telling you that she finds you unattractive and/or repulsive without coming directly out and saying it. Most girls don't want to be perceived as bitches so they avoid telling a guy that he is unattractive. Instead they say shit like I don't think you would... Thu, 07 Apr 2011 07:59:41 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10553724 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10550886 When a girl says 'maybe' does she mean no?<br /><br />If it's in relation to anything sexual I would take it as a solid no until you get a firm yes. If it's in relation to anything else it could mean anything from not but I don't want to hurt your feelings to she's thinking about it and will get back to you on it. Wed, 06 Apr 2011 16:18:43 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10550886 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10549748 i know time heals a broken heart. what can i do in the meantime?<br /><br />Sweetie you're only 16 and right now losing your boyfriend probably seems like the end of the world to you but I promise you it will get better sooner than you think. Before you know it you won't even remember his name and there'll be a new guy to take his place. In the meanwhile the best way... Wed, 06 Apr 2011 11:29:51 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10549748 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10540047 I remember someone at Wal-Mart said I was awesome. I'm just wondering, why can't Kyra, Emily, and Jessica think the same?<br /><br />Ok I read some of your other questions before answering this one and they all seem to be pretty much along the same line there. It seems you were raised under a rock or in some alternate dimension so some of the things I will say may come off as mean but I am only trying to help you. Here's a... Mon, 04 Apr 2011 11:08:32 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10540047 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10539683 After being widowed, is it okay if you actually want to remain single the rest of your life?<br /><br />It sounds to me as if you're making rash decisions to stay single based upon your bad experiences. I say do whatever you think will make you happy however I would also caution you not to close yourself off to the idea of ever being romantically involved with someone again. I am truly and... Mon, 04 Apr 2011 09:19:24 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10539683 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10539346 Prince William has opted not to wear a wedding band once he's married. Would you be happy if your man wouldn't wear a wedding ring?<br /><br />Are you kidding me? Who cares what some spoiled little brat who won the genetic lottery does. As for your question why should it matter if he wears a ring or not. All it is is a piece of jewelery. It doesn't dictate how one will act. A stupid piece of jewelery has never kept someone from... Mon, 04 Apr 2011 07:15:09 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10539346 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10539130 Why is incest approved of and even encouraged on this site but when I ask if I should have sex with a woman 20 years younger, I get called<br /><br />First off I agree with everyone here who said they have never seen incest approved of. Most people will go after someone who posts that sort of crap anywhere but in the adult section. As far as people calling you names this is the internet. Are you that pathetic that you're going to get upset... Mon, 04 Apr 2011 05:39:19 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10539130 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10535692 What's so bad about being a young grandparent?<br /><br />It would depend on how young of a parent. If we are talking at least 18 where you at least have your high school diploma and can get a decent job to support the child and not be a burden on the tax paying citizens because of your choices then I say go for it. However if you're talking 13 14 15... Sun, 03 Apr 2011 08:56:05 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10535692 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10532352 My husband makes all the rules in our house. When he or his children break them, the consequences are minimal.<br /><br />Screw talking or working it out. He's an asshole with no respect for you or your child. You and your child would be better living on the streets than with that asshole. Pack your shit and get the hell as far away from that dickhead as you can and never look back. Sat, 02 Apr 2011 11:36:37 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10532352 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10531316 Your friend has a bad case of (blank). What natural remedy would you advise they use?<br /><br />Getting upset when her fuck buddies don't wnat something more I'd reccomend she keeps her damned legs closed til she finds a man who wants her for more than just a quick piece of ass. Sat, 02 Apr 2011 04:54:53 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10531316 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10531245 Is there a story behind your onscreen name?<br /><br />It is the title of one of the first poems I learned to memorize as a young Mormon Missionary over 26 yyears ago.. Sat, 02 Apr 2011 04:33:50 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10531245 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10526402 Why cant he just take no for an answer and move on? (read more...)<br /><br />If you have any recordings or notes,cards,letters etc or a friend or family member who has heard him say all of this then go to court and take out a restraining order against him. It is probably the only way he will get the message that you aren't interested in him now or ever. Thu, 31 Mar 2011 23:26:39 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10526402 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10526337 Can someone change their sexual oreintation from being with a same-sex person to marrying a man?<br /><br />Sorry no they cannot. Either that woman was just experimenting with other girls or she deep down inside is so ashamed of who she truly is that she is willing to perpetuate a lie by marrying a man to avoid having to face thr truth. Unless of course she is bi sexual then that is a different story Thu, 31 Mar 2011 22:53:12 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10526337 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10525820 Can friends with benefits be turned into something more?<br /><br />What the hell did you expect. See this is why women should never sleep with a guy they are not in a serious committed relationship with because they 99% of the time are the ones who end up wanting more than just fuck buddies. If you're going to agree to have a no strings attached sexual... Thu, 31 Mar 2011 20:06:45 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10525820 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10525770 What constitutes a gross breach of trust? Can trust be repaired?<br /><br />In what context? Since this is in the relationship advice catagory I will assume you are reffering to a gross breech of trust in a relationship such as romantic or friendship. To me there are very few things that would constitute a gross breech of trust. The major one would be cheating on me.... Thu, 31 Mar 2011 19:52:10 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10525770 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10525724 How to tell your bf u wanna go to a party that he doesn't want to go to without him being upset about you going without him?<br /><br />Does your boyfriend have ownership papers on you? Were you sold to him by your parents like some piece of property? If the answer is no then he doesn't own you. If he chooses not to go to the party that's his choice but he has no business trying to keep you from going. Tell him you are going... Thu, 31 Mar 2011 19:40:44 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10525724 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10525677 Is it really so wrong for a decent man to be the head of the home? If so, why?<br /><br />Yes it's wrong because it's a concept that belongs in the dark ages not in modern society. In a modern society women should be equal partners in the decision making process when it comes to running a home. Men being the king of the castle and the ruler of the domain might have been cute and... Thu, 31 Mar 2011 19:28:31 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10525677 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10525676 Is it really so wrong for a decent man to be the head of the home? If so, why?<br /><br /> Thu, 31 Mar 2011 19:28:20 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10525676 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10520605 Do younger women like "older" guys?<br /><br />Some do. I'm almost 49 and happily engaged to an almost 24 y/o and no I don't have losts of money and no I'm not just using her for sex. We really do love each other. Most young females wouldn't consifer seeing a guy more than a couple of years older unless they were filthy rich but there are... Wed, 30 Mar 2011 16:36:00 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10520605 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10516645 Why can't you control who you fall in love with? Or can you??<br /><br />You cannot always control who your heart becomes attracted to. I am living proof. I'm almost 49 and have a 23 about to be 24 y/o son. Two years ago I met a young woman a few months after losing the love of my life to cancer. I was 47 and she was 22 at the time. We soon became close friends and... Tue, 29 Mar 2011 20:48:07 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10516645 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10513397 I have to pay my girlfriends step dad $70 a week so he wont tell her mom that her daughter is gay ...<br /><br />I'm sorry. I'm not gay but if I were and my boyfriend was ashamed of telling his parents that we were a couple and he was gay I would equate that to he was ashamed of me and I would dump him for someone who wasn't ashamed for the world to know we were a couple and he was gay. I know there is... Tue, 29 Mar 2011 07:18:08 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10513397 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10511099 How often do you ask people out on dates? And why? (PROPER Dates, where both of you know it's an OFFICIAL DATE, not just hanging out)<br /><br />I'm engaged to be married to a young woman who works 40 plus hours per week and attends Law School 5 nights a week so we don't really get to date much unless you consider running errands together and grabbing a quick bite to eat afterwards and spending 3 hours together at Church on Sundays a date. Mon, 28 Mar 2011 18:36:32 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10511099 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10509987 Why is it so hard to let go of people who should be easier to let go of?<br /><br />It could be because you took the friendship or relationship to heart and valued it more than the other person so for you it's not as easy to just let go of. I had a similar situation a couple of years back. I was good friends with someone who I thought felt the same way about our friendship. I... Mon, 28 Mar 2011 14:33:37 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10509987 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10509950 I think that a guy who is against strip clubs and would reject invitations to them is a guy worth keeping. Does anyone else feel the same?<br /><br />I'm not a fwb or one night stand kind of guy so why would I even bother throwing my money away only to end up going home frustrated because I respect myself and women too much to allow myself to use one just for sexual gratification and nothing more. I will say this though. Just because a guy... Mon, 28 Mar 2011 14:27:04 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10509950 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10508229 I'm taking this girl on a third date and we're going to the movies. should I pay for her ticket?<br /><br />That all depends. I assume since you used the word date that there is some sort of mutual understanding that you have a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. If that is the case then unless she insists on paying her own way the cost of the date is on you. If for some valid reason you are not in... Mon, 28 Mar 2011 07:02:24 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10508229 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10505482 How do I be the daddy type for my wife?<br /><br />Ok I'm going to assume at the risk of making an ass of myself that what you mean is your wife has a child(ren) from another relationship and she is looking for you to be a father figure to the child(ren) because the father is not part of the child(rens) life for whatever reason. If that is... Sun, 27 Mar 2011 16:36:42 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10505482 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10504380 Have you ever spit in someone's food/drink?<br /><br />I did it to my own food. I worked in a large office and made the mistake of keeping ,my lunch in the community refrigerator at work and had the misfortune of having my lunch either completely stolen to where there was nothing ther or partially stolen where they took a few bites and put the rest... Sun, 27 Mar 2011 12:14:07 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10504380 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10504108 Should i date a guy who is not very goodlooking, etc.?<br /><br />My answer depends on how long you have known each other. If you haven';t known each other for long then go for it but I would suggest you work on getting to know him first before jumping into a relationship. If you have known this guy for awhile and you've been goo friends then leave him alone... Sun, 27 Mar 2011 11:08:44 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10504108 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10500849 What's the longest period of time you've spend single?<br /><br />from birth til I was about 21. That's when I got my first serious girlfriend. Sat, 26 Mar 2011 15:06:53 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10500849 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10496342 if you are a 26 year old guy who likes a 17 year old girl, would you ask her out or would you wait until she turns 18?<br /><br />First you might want to be sure she is intereested in you before you make the sacrafice to wait til she is 18 only to find out she's not comfortable with dating someone as old as you. I don't know too ,many 18 y/o girls who would be very comfortable with dating a guy older than 22 or 23 Fri, 25 Mar 2011 15:52:25 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10496342 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10496325 how can you show someone how much they mean to you and how much you love them??<br /><br />When I read your question it automatically made me think of one of my favorite short stories by O Henry The gift of the Magi. In it the couple was very poor but inlove and both were willing to sacrafice the one thing that meant the world to them in order to earn enough money to buy the other a... Fri, 25 Mar 2011 15:49:11 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10496325 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10496217 whats better? dating someone who you are best friends with, or someone you dont know that well, all to save you from getting hurt<br /><br />Unfortunately love hurts like hell when it doesn't work out however I think it is better to date someone you have built a strong steady friendship with first than just jumping into dating a complete stranger. With someone you have a solid friendship with you pretty much know what you can... Fri, 25 Mar 2011 15:24:47 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10496217 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10494452 What kind of "red flags" would you caution someone to be aware of before entering a relationship?<br /><br />If the person can only call you at certain times and you can only see each other at certain times or they want you to travel way out of your way to meet run like hell because they are probably either married or involved in a relationship with someone else. If they get pissy at you if you don't... Fri, 25 Mar 2011 07:39:03 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10494452 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10494361 Will a marriage woukout between a guy with very high morals and a woman who has had none or will it end up in complete failure?<br /><br />The only way I see a relationship like that working is if the guy agrees to not hold his high moral standards over her head. In my personal experience someone with high moral standards usually ends up trying to shove them down the throat of someone who was not raised the same so it's almost... Fri, 25 Mar 2011 07:29:53 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10494361 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10492966 To all the married or engaged folk out there... how did your significant other propose to you?<br /><br />I took her to a really nice Italian Restauraunt on Christmas Eve and had the waiter stick the ring inside a Canolli as it's her favorite dessert and when she found the ring I got down on one knee and asked her to marry me. After she finished bitching me out for spending a fortune on her ring she... Thu, 24 Mar 2011 21:32:32 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10492966