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Men: French maid look or School girl with pigtails look?
I'm going to have to go with the French maid look seeing how I'm about to be 50 in 3 more days and going the other way will probably make me a pervert. lol
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What did you do in the Summer of 68 ???
I was 6 at the time so probably spent a lot of time at the sprinklers at Sunset park in Brooklyn NY
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Is it entertaining to see the Obama-fawning media go way back to Romney's HS prankster days in their desperation to dig up dirt?
Honestly I find it disgusting that the election process has become a 3 ring circus over the last couple of decades. It's no longer about what each candidate plans on doing if they get elected but why we shouldn't vote for the other guy.
Mr Obama instead of blaming the Republicans and more specifically George W Bush for the mess you yourself made with your failed policies how about you accept...
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A 19 year old woman and 43 year old man fall in love. They're the happiest they've ever been. Why do so many people think this is a problem?
Because they think that a 43 y/o man who wants a relationship with someone young enough to be his daughter is either just going through a midlife crisis and only wants the 19 y/o for a hot young piece of ass or he is mentally unstable and incapable of forming connections with women his own age so he has to prey on gullible young unsuspecting girls.
Is this the case for some men in their 40's...
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What would be your first thought when the toothbrush you were reaching for suddenly fell into the toilet?
I better either have some Listerine or I better have time to run to the store for a new toothbrush otherwise I will probably be making people pass out with my stinky breath.
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Does size really matters?
Depends on what you mean. If you're talking penis size I am unqualified to answer seeing how I am neither female nor a homosexual or bi sexual male.
If by size thou you're referring to weight then definitely no it doesn't matter. Beautiful women come in all sizes and shapes.
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Is it ok for an 18 year old to date someone who is 40
I'm sorry to hear that. Obviously you married a very controlling who forgot the number one thing not to do when dating someone a lot younger than yourself and that is Never let their youth make you believe you know what's best I lost my girlfriend a few months ago to a brain aneurysm she was 24 and I'm 49. While she was extremely mature for her age and outgrew the party phase of her life she...
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What is the "smartest" advise you ever got ?
If you want to be happy for the rest of your life never make a pretty woman your wife. Best advice ever lmao.
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Is it ok for an 18 year old to date someone who is 40
It will be fun to see the responses you get to this. You're 18 in the eyes of the law you're legally an adult. If you want to date a 90 y/o it is no one's business but yours and the person you're considering dating.
I am assuming with a username like Jared that you are a guy. I bet most who reply will tell you what a lucky bastard you are to have found a cougar and you should just go for...
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What's the next pet cause for Obama? Walk-a-child-from-school day for registered pedophiles? Aren't they an oppressed voting bloc, too?
If this is in reference to his seemingly sudden support for gay marriage who knows. Obama is only suddenly for it because his ass is trying to gets reelected. If he succeeds we will see how far things go. My prediction not far at all. It's more political pandering in an election year and less evolvement on his part on the situation.
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Does the warning about changing the words of the bible appear in all versions?
What you are referring to is found in the book of revelations chapter 22 verses 18 and 19.
18For I testify unto every man that heareth the words of the prophecy of this book, If any man shall add unto these things, God shall add unto him the plagues that are written in this book; 19And if any man shall take away from the words of the book of this prophecy, God shall take away his part out of...
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My GF goes commando in short skirts/dresses. She says she likes the fresh feeling or does she really just want other guys to see her pussy?
Your girlfriend could be a closet exhibitionist and gets her rocks off flashing other guys and/or knowing other guys are trying to get a peak at the goodies. This doesn't in any way shape or form make her a cheater. Many exhibitionists get off on the sheer knowledge that others can see something they shouldn't be seeing and never take it any further.
If you truly love her though I would sit...
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What was the worst spanking you ever got in your life growing up? Who spanked you? What did s/he use to spank with?
I was 15. The Junior high I attended went to 9th grade. I just graduated and got about 300.00 in graduation money. I took it and spent nearly every penny buying pain and supplies to paint my grandfather's apartment.
My father asked me for the money as I guess they were going to go out and get me some summer things that I needed badly. When he found out what I did he beat me about the...
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Should we accept we have to call a christmas tree a festive tree because it offended the local counceller. who was muslim
No fuck that stupid rag head bastard. Unless the tree is locatednon public property he has no control over what it is called. If he don't like it let him take his sorry ass back to the middle east where he belongs.
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I don't think it is right for soldiers to rape and kill women and children. The ones who do that are a disgrace to the uniform. Do you think many soldiers do this?
On the issue of rape I agree with you 1000. However I disagree on the issue of killing women and children. In war if they are on the side of your enemy no one can b trusted unfortunately.
Look at how many of our men and women in the military trusted children in times of war and lost their lives for it. You are not dealing with rational thinking people like you and I. These animals in the...
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Are soldiers really heroes if they RAPE people while they're at war? (Or anywhere for that matter)?
The individual soldiers who CHOOSE to rape are cowards and don't deserve the title hero but that doesn't mean that those who resisted performing such cowardly acts and acted as heros should be looked down upon because of the actions of their commrades.
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What religion other than your own, have you taken the time to study and learn about?
I was born and raised in the Catholic Church. At the age of 19 I got sick and tired of the priests bull every time I would ask a question that they didn't have the answer to. They would always say it's just one of those mysteries of God that we may never understand. Bull instead of giving that crap just say I don't know the answer.
I studied with a non denominational Christian church I...
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How to avoid talking to someone you don't want to talk to without hurting their feelings?
That's a hard one but short of the other responder' answer of blocking him there is very few options that you have in order to keep from hurting his feelings Try being honest without being hurtful.
You can try things like I think you're a really great person but I can't spend all of my free time talking to you. I have other friends who might begin to fee neglected. Maybe you could try...
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What do you believe to be the root of most problems in relationships?
The me me me me generation where everything is about me me me instead of u us us and they give no thought to what is best for the relationship as a whole but rather what is best for them. As long as people continue to be selfish and think of only what is best for then rather than the relationship as a whole there will continue to be problems
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How important is trust in a relationship?
Extremely. Without it what's the point of even being in a relationship if you can't trust the person you're with.
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I've noticed quite a few questions implicitly criticizing Mormons and their church. Why the need to single out this religion for ridicule?
Because they are idiots who believe everything that some former insider tells them about what Mormonism really believes. If you go into any so called Christian bookstore and look at their section on cults I can promise you at least 75% of the books there are critical of Mormonism and if you look at who wrote at least 80% of those books I gurantee you it is someone who was once a faithful and...
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Have you ever seen a baby being born?
Yes Almost 25 years ago I was in the delivery room when my son was born.
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If you sent a friend request to everyone on Facebook simultaneously, how many people do you think would accept?
I generally do not send friend requests as I feel awkward doing so. I freely accept almost all friend requests though. The only time I don't accept is if I notice we have no friends in common and don't belong to any of the same groups then I will deny the friend request unless it is accompanied by a short message or e mail as to why they are trying to add me.
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Do you think the saying once a cheater always a cheater is true and why?
Not always. While it is true for most there are some who genuinely make an honest mistake that they regret and once they come to that realization of how wrong what they did was most can successfully avoid making that heartbreakingly selfish mistake again.
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Do you ever settle for someone you don't really like, but don't see a better alternative?
I wouldn't say that I didn't like but I did settle for someone because the person who I really loved and wanted didn't want me so I figured better to have someone than end up alone wasting my time longing for someone who made it crystal clear they were not interested in me.
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Why is it a big deal when a spouse or mate watches porn. It's not doing it. Maybe I'm just to old to understand.
Ok if 63 is the year you were born then you are not too old but possibly too stupid or too selfish. I was born in 62 and i get it.
What is wrong with it is it makes your partner feel inadequate as if they are not good enough for you that you have to resort to living in this fantasy world that watching porn creates. It is also considered as committing adultery in many christian communities...
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Will Romney ban coffee and Coke in the White House?
What a moron. Before posting this crap do a little research first. The church has no official stance on caffinated beverages such as coke. It is each individual members choice to decide what is meant by the word of wisdom.
As I recall the instruction was to not consume hot drinks as they are no good for the belly and the popular hot drinks back then were coffee and tea. Some members...
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What's the best food prank you've ever pulled or had pulled on you?
This is not something I was directly involved with nor did I have any beforehand knowledge of it and it caused me great embarassment in front of many of the church leaders but before I left to serve a full time mission for the LDS Church back in the mid 80's I was asked to represent our Stake as one of the Adult leaders at scout camp.
It was about our 3rd day there and it was our Stake's...
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Can someone explain to me, why is the BIBLE so INSANE?..
It's not necessarily that the bible is so insane but rather that too many idiots take the damned thing so freaking literally. For example do you know there are morons who despite all the scientific evidence to the contrary believe the world is literally only about 6,000 years oold or that God really did create the entire world in just 6 literal 24 hour days?
Some people are too stupid to...
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Do people who refuse to put ketchup on hotdogs do it because they hate the taste, or because adding ketchup is "against the rules"?
Anyone who puts any condiments on a hot dog outside of mustard relish onions and saurkraut is not a freedom loving God fearing American and should be shot on sight. Lol j/k. I think it should be up to each individuala as to what they put on their hot dog. For example I refuse to eat at any establishment that serves hot dogs if they use only yellow mustard and don't have spicy brown available.
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i am 29 and my girlfriend is 19,, what are peoples opininon of this?
You are both over the age of consent so who really gives a damn. If you love each other then that is all that really matters. I'm 49 almost 50 and until about 2 mojnths ago was happily engaged to a woman 25 years my junior. We were extremely happy with each pther and were making plans for a wonderful life together when she was suddenly taken away by a brain anuerysm that burst in her sleep. As...
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If my GF of 6 months stops saying I love you in texts and barely whispers it in person is it over?
Maybe yes maybe no. It all depends. Sometimes in the very start of a new relationship people constantly tell their mate they love them because they don't know any other way to make them believe it's true. As time goes on though sometimes we stop not because we no longer love the person but because we have reached a point in our relationship with them that we feel if they don't know this by now...
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Can cysts be deadly?
cysts if they keep cominbg back could become cancerous over time. Please encourage your boyfriend to seek the advice of a medical professional before it is too late.
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am I the only person who gets grossed out watching people kiss?
It all depends. If they are practically having simulated sex while kissing then yes it makes me want to toss my cookies. If however it's a sweet gental kiss between two people who are obviously inlove then no I am not grossed out by it at all and in fact think it is a very sweet thing to see.
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Where did you grow up? Would you ever like to revisit the place now?
Born and raised in the greatest place on earth. Brooklyn NY. I live in Philadelphia PA now going on 10 years.
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At what point is it ok to date someone half your age?
If all you want is some fun and you're not looking for a serious long term committment that could lead up to marriage then date who you want so long as they are of legal age. If however you want to settle down and make a life with one person then unfortunately age does become a major factor. Let's assume you're 50 and you have kids around half your age and thiose kids have young kids. Do you...
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If i was pregnant and had sex with another guy other than the babys father is it true that the other guys sperm would kill the baby
If the 1989 in your username is the year of your birth that would make you at least 21 assuming your birthday hasn't come yet this year otherwise you're 22. If you're this gullible at this age I would hate to see you when you're 30. The answer to your question is no and btw I hope and pray your boyfriend/husband finds out that he's dating/married to a skank who can't keep her legs closed.
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The girl I love said I'm ugly, It makes feel really bad. She's not the only one who thinks like this. Will I find any girl that likes me?
Don't sweat it dude. Sooner or later some special young lady will see you for more than what is on the outside and fall inlove with you for the man you are on the inside. Through my entire teens and most of my adult life I felt I was ugly and no one was ever going to love me for me. I was wrong. I've been blessed twice so far. The first time was about 9 years ago. I was fortunate enough to land...
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Is it wrong 2 ignore a txt as you told the person in a earlier txt that u would call them at around a certain time?
It depends. If the text came around or after the time you were supposed to call then yes it is rude to ignore it. If however you told them you would call them at 3 for example and they are texting you at 1 then no it isn't wrong to ignore it.
Honesty is very important. Better you risk hurting someone's feelings by telling them the truth that you don't want to be bothered with them if that is...
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My husband has always been abusive and controlling. We have a two year old together which makes it hard for me to leave bc she loves him.
You need to get the hell out of there now before he kills or seriously injures you or your child. And grow up btw and stop making excuses to stay. If you stay eventually you or your child will end up dead or maimed for life. She's young enough that she doesn't really know what is going on. Don't wait til she is old enough to understand and hates you for staying with a violent and abusive asshole.
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Why is there the saying that 'the way to a man's heart is through his stomach'? Are men attracted to people who cook?
I don't know where that saying came from. It's been around a very long tome. I think it originated back in the days of chauvanism when a woman's place was in the home being the caretaker cook maid etc. Her only job was to make babies and take care of the home while the man went out to work and made the money to pay the bills.
Personally I think it is a stupid and outdated saying. Especially...
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Do you ever say sorry after an argument just so it will be over, even if you don't think you are wrong?
Whether it's a good or bad thing depoends on what is important to you. If your pride and knowing you're right is more important then go ahead and be a stubborn mule who refuses to be the one to budge and say sorry. However don't go crying when your partner gets tired of your always having to be right attitude and leaves your ass in the dust when they can't take it anymore. Even worse how would...
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What do you remember actually being your "first song" during your first serious relationship?
Don't recall. For my current relationship our song is bless the broken road by Rascal flatts.
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I like to have a lot of kinky sex. Am I a slut?
It depends. Simply loving lots of sex doesn't make one a slut. Now if you like lots of kinky sex with lots of different people then maybe you might be bordering on being a slut but if you have a steady boyfriend or fuck buddy liking to have alot of kinky sex with them doesn't even come close to qualifying you as a slut
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my supervisor asked out to eat tomorrow , i dont undestand why ? im not into him ,ive met him for 3 years now
If this man is in a position of authority what he is doing could be considered sexual harassment and I am sure it is against the compoany's policy. Tell him as clearly as you can that he needs to back off and leave you alone and if he doesn't get the hint I would report him to HR and whatever happens to him is his own fault for being so stupid.
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I have come across a notebook with my partners handwriting with usernames n passwords to many different adult dating sites. What would u do?
More than likely he either has already cheated on you or is looking to cheat. Why torture yourself any further by checking it out. If you are in a position to sue him for palimony and there are considerable assets you could end up with a share of then sure look further and gather up the evidence you will need. Otherwise just pack his shit and put it out in the hall/on the porch and change the...
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I have come across a notebook with my partners handwriting with usernames n passwords to many different adult dating sites. What would u do?
Share your answer...
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Have you ever seen a dead body? Not during a funeral, but before it was embalmed?
Twice. The firast time was about 5 years ago. The person I was in a relationship with at the time lost her nephew who was only 15 to cancer. He died in his sleep at home. The second tome was almost 3 years ago. I got tom the hospital shortly after my last girlfriend passed away from a lung infection that spread into her blood and hit her heart causing her to go into cardiac arrest.
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Which U.S. Supreme Court decision do you most disagree with?
The recent one in which those scumbags sided 8 to 1 with Fred Phelps and his merry band of fucktards that their hate filled rants are protected as free speech. In case anyone doesn't know who Fred Phelps is he is the head of the Westboro Baptist Church. You know those asswipes that like to protest at soldiers funerals carrying signs like the only good soldier is a dead one and Thank God for...
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Why do so called "friends" who claim to love you make snide rude but indirect comments? What do they get out of doing that?
Those people are not real friends as real friends don't act that way. A real friend if they had something to say to you would be direct and to the point and would say whatever they had to say straight to your face. Even at the possible risk of hurting your feelings. A real friend is always honest enough to tell you the truth and doesn't do the oh my poor poor friend pity bullshit
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I know christians cheat as well.But do you think a christian man is LESS LIKELY to cheat in a marriage?HAVE FUN WITH THIS 1!:)
Being a Christian doesn't stop anyone from cheating. Jst ask Jim Baker or Jimmy Swaggart or the countless other televangelists that ended up confessing to it.
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Is dating a guy 10 years your senior kind of abnormal?
Absofuckinglutely not.So long as you're both over 18 do what makes you happy. I am happily engaged to a 24 y/o and I'm 49 so it can work if you're willing to put forth the extra effort
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If you were to be on American Idol, what song would you sing?
This one
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What should you choose a boyfriend from? Personality, looks, or humor?
While I won't argue that looks do play a role in choosing a mate they shouldn't be high on your list of priorities. Think of it this way. If you had a choice between two guys and guy A was smoking hot so much so that you would be the envy of all of your friends but you knew he had a rep for cheating on past girlfriends and he verbally abuses people calling them all sorts of names and making...
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Have you and an S.O. ever gone out and the thing they are wearing makes you want you want to die of embarrassment?
I wouldn't say embarrassed as much as upset and it was a former girlfriend. My current girlfriend dresses very tastefully. She was a big girl in the boob department and loved to wear things that showed as much as she could legally get away with off. I so wanted to tell her how much this upset me because I hated having ever pair of male eyes on my girlfriend's tits all night long but I was...
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If your so broke up with you today would you be heartbroken or OK?
Yes I would be devestated because I truly believe she is the one perfect woman that I am meant to spend the rest of my life with. However if it was nit her feeling I woiuld have to accept it and move on as best as I can.
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I have boyfriend that says he will kill himself if i leave him. I just dont have that in love feeling but i love him and he provides
I'm with Katie leave him if you aren't happy. If he actually follows through on this threat and kills himself know that it is not your fault. This is a man who has serious mental issues and continuing to stay with him could become hazardous to your health so my advice is to get out now while you can and whatever happens don't blame yourself.
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Where did you take your spouse on your first date?
I'm divorced from my first wife 14 years ago. I am currently engaged to be married for the second time. My first date with my Fiancee was she took me out to lunch after my Graduation from College with my Bachelors degree last May.
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How Do I catch someone cheating in a Relationship?
Sorry but unless you are married to the person and there are considerable marital assets at stake just pack your shit or their shit and move on. Trust your gut. If it tells you they are cheating they probably are so why put yourself through the heartbreak and misery of finding out unless you have something to gain out of proving you are right about your suspicions.
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Do you think you have a right to 'just jump up' and get a divorce or do you need to earn your way out ?
No one should just jump into a divorce unless as Mrs Cleaver said there is abuse or other safety issues. I would also add infidelity to that list. Some may not agree but for me personally if I'm cheated on I don't care what the reason was. I don't see any point in trying to prolong the inevitable because I'm never going to ever forgive you for it.
Beyond that people should do all they can...
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WTH? WHY IS IT SO IMPORTANT TO KEEP THINGS 'PRIVATE' IN MY RELATIONSHIP? CLASSIFIED MY ASS! THAT'S A F*CKING SECRET & U KNO IT!
Ok so there is a good chance you will hate my answer so here it is anyway. Just because you choose to make your whole life an open book and show and share everything with your boyfriend it doesn't mean he has to be obligated to do likewise. If you feel that your partner is obligated to make his life an open book then my suggestion to you is to remain single for the rest of your life because...
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If you were gonna take me on a romantic getaway somewhere where would it be and what things would we do together to keep the romance going?
How about Paris or Venice? France or Italy that is, not Texas or California. Those are two of the most romantic places on earth I can think of to go.In Paris we would dine by candlelight from a balcony overlooking the eiffel tower at night. in Venice we would take a Gondola ride while being serenaded by one of those Italian singers.
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Are you in love? If so, wht do you like about them? What is there best inside quality, what is there best looking feature on the outside?
I like that she loves me in spite of all of my faults and she is mature enough to not let people's stares and rude and ignorant remarks get to her. Her best inner quality is her capacity to love without conditions. Her best outer feature is her beautiful smile. We met at work at a time when I was going through a rough time in my personal life. I just lost someone I was deeply inlove with a few...
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can a black man date a white woman without people thinking he doesnt like women of his own race? i like women of all races whats the deal?
I agree with Sunny. They are just jealous. Ignore ignorant assholes. I get the same shit because I'm 49 and engaged to a 24 y/o with assholes assuming I have a problem with dating women my own age.
I didn't go out and plan on dating and falling inlove with someone who could be my daughter it just happened and I believe that your heart cannot always help who it falls for. Live your life for...
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If a girl tells you your not a boyfriend type of guy what does that mean iim in 7grade
It's secret code. It's a girl's way of telling you that she finds you unattractive and/or repulsive without coming directly out and saying it. Most girls don't want to be perceived as bitches so they avoid telling a guy that he is unattractive. Instead they say shit like I don't think you would be good boyfriend material or I like you too much as a friend to ruin our friendship by becoming...
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When a girl says 'maybe' does she mean no?
If it's in relation to anything sexual I would take it as a solid no until you get a firm yes. If it's in relation to anything else it could mean anything from not but I don't want to hurt your feelings to she's thinking about it and will get back to you on it.
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i know time heals a broken heart. what can i do in the meantime?
Sweetie you're only 16 and right now losing your boyfriend probably seems like the end of the world to you but I promise you it will get better sooner than you think. Before you know it you won't even remember his name and there'll be a new guy to take his place.
In the meanwhile the best way to move on is to make yourself so busy that you don't have time to dwell on what is causing the...
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I remember someone at Wal-Mart said I was awesome. I'm just wondering, why can't Kyra, Emily, and Jessica think the same?
Ok I read some of your other questions before answering this one and they all seem to be pretty much along the same line there. It seems you were raised under a rock or in some alternate dimension so some of the things I will say may come off as mean but I am only trying to help you.
Here's a little life lesson that your parents obviously didn't teach you. Not everyone in this life is going...
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After being widowed, is it okay if you actually want to remain single the rest of your life?
It sounds to me as if you're making rash decisions to stay single based upon your bad experiences. I say do whatever you think will make you happy however I would also caution you not to close yourself off to the idea of ever being romantically involved with someone again.
I am truly and sincerely sorry you were treated in such a horrible manner in your marriage. No one deserves that....
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Prince William has opted not to wear a wedding band once he's married. Would you be happy if your man wouldn't wear a wedding ring?
Are you kidding me? Who cares what some spoiled little brat who won the genetic lottery does. As for your question why should it matter if he wears a ring or not. All it is is a piece of jewelery. It doesn't dictate how one will act.
A stupid piece of jewelery has never kept someone from cheating before and it certainly won't stop anyone in the future. If you're going to be a lowlife...
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Why is incest approved of and even encouraged on this site but when I ask if I should have sex with a woman 20 years younger, I get called
First off I agree with everyone here who said they have never seen incest approved of. Most people will go after someone who posts that sort of crap anywhere but in the adult section.
As far as people calling you names this is the internet. Are you that pathetic that you're going to get upset over what some asshole sitting behind a computer screen who doesn't know you from Adam says or...
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What's so bad about being a young grandparent?
It would depend on how young of a parent. If we are talking at least 18 where you at least have your high school diploma and can get a decent job to support the child and not be a burden on the tax paying citizens because of your choices then I say go for it. However if you're talking 13 14 15 years old there's quite a bit wrong with it.
First off at that age you're still a child yourself...
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My husband makes all the rules in our house. When he or his children break them, the consequences are minimal.
Screw talking or working it out. He's an asshole with no respect for you or your child. You and your child would be better living on the streets than with that asshole. Pack your shit and get the hell as far away from that dickhead as you can and never look back.
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Your friend has a bad case of (blank). What natural remedy would you advise they use?
Getting upset when her fuck buddies don't wnat something more I'd reccomend she keeps her damned legs closed til she finds a man who wants her for more than just a quick piece of ass.
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Is there a story behind your onscreen name?
It is the title of one of the first poems I learned to memorize as a young Mormon Missionary over 26 yyears ago..
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Why cant he just take no for an answer and move on? (read more...)
If you have any recordings or notes,cards,letters etc or a friend or family member who has heard him say all of this then go to court and take out a restraining order against him. It is probably the only way he will get the message that you aren't interested in him now or ever.
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Can someone change their sexual oreintation from being with a same-sex person to marrying a man?
Sorry no they cannot. Either that woman was just experimenting with other girls or she deep down inside is so ashamed of who she truly is that she is willing to perpetuate a lie by marrying a man to avoid having to face thr truth. Unless of course she is bi sexual then that is a different story
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Can friends with benefits be turned into something more?
What the hell did you expect. See this is why women should never sleep with a guy they are not in a serious committed relationship with because they 99% of the time are the ones who end up wanting more than just fuck buddies.
If you're going to agree to have a no strings attached sexual relationship with a guy you can't go falling inlove with him because it's only going to end in heart...
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What constitutes a gross breach of trust? Can trust be repaired?
In what context? Since this is in the relationship advice catagory I will assume you are reffering to a gross breech of trust in a relationship such as romantic or friendship.
To me there are very few things that would constitute a gross breech of trust. The major one would be cheating on me. I don't care what the reason. I don't care if you think you were justified in doing it but cheat and...
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How to tell your bf u wanna go to a party that he doesn't want to go to without him being upset about you going without him?
Does your boyfriend have ownership papers on you? Were you sold to him by your parents like some piece of property? If the answer is no then he doesn't own you. If he chooses not to go to the party that's his choice but he has no business trying to keep you from going.
Tell him you are going and he is welcome to join you but if he chooses not to go that is his choice and you will miss his...
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Is it really so wrong for a decent man to be the head of the home? If so, why?
Yes it's wrong because it's a concept that belongs in the dark ages not in modern society. In a modern society women should be equal partners in the decision making process when it comes to running a home.
Men being the king of the castle and the ruler of the domain might have been cute and cool 50 or 60 years ago but we live in a time now where more and more women are out there in the...
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Is it really so wrong for a decent man to be the head of the home? If so, why?
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Do younger women like "older" guys?
Some do. I'm almost 49 and happily engaged to an almost 24 y/o and no I don't have losts of money and no I'm not just using her for sex. We really do love each other. Most young females wouldn't consifer seeing a guy more than a couple of years older unless they were filthy rich but there are some who see older men as more stable and mature than guys their own age.
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Why can't you control who you fall in love with? Or can you??
You cannot always control who your heart becomes attracted to. I am living proof. I'm almost 49 and have a 23 about to be 24 y/o son. Two years ago I met a young woman a few months after losing the love of my life to cancer. I was 47 and she was 22 at the time.
We soon became close friends and spent over a year building a solid steady friendship that eventually turned romantic and she is...
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I have to pay my girlfriends step dad $70 a week so he wont tell her mom that her daughter is gay ...
I'm sorry. I'm not gay but if I were and my boyfriend was ashamed of telling his parents that we were a couple and he was gay I would equate that to he was ashamed of me and I would dump him for someone who wasn't ashamed for the world to know we were a couple and he was gay.
I know there is alot of unfair judgement and alot of people are downright cruel and cold hearted on such matters but...
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How often do you ask people out on dates? And why? (PROPER Dates, where both of you know it's an OFFICIAL DATE, not just hanging out)
I'm engaged to be married to a young woman who works 40 plus hours per week and attends Law School 5 nights a week so we don't really get to date much unless you consider running errands together and grabbing a quick bite to eat afterwards and spending 3 hours together at Church on Sundays a date.
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Why is it so hard to let go of people who should be easier to let go of?
It could be because you took the friendship or relationship to heart and valued it more than the other person so for you it's not as easy to just let go of.
I had a similar situation a couple of years back. I was good friends with someone who I thought felt the same way about our friendship. I made one dumb mistake and they threw me away without any reason or explaination as to what I did. ...
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I think that a guy who is against strip clubs and would reject invitations to them is a guy worth keeping. Does anyone else feel the same?
I'm not a fwb or one night stand kind of guy so why would I even bother throwing my money away only to end up going home frustrated because I respect myself and women too much to allow myself to use one just for sexual gratification and nothing more.
I will say this though. Just because a guy is not into strip clubs doesn't mean he's necessarily a keeper. It would depend on his other...
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I'm taking this girl on a third date and we're going to the movies. should I pay for her ticket?
That all depends. I assume since you used the word date that there is some sort of mutual understanding that you have a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. If that is the case then unless she insists on paying her own way the cost of the date is on you.
If for some valid reason you are not in a position to pick up the entire tab Such as you work a minimum wage job and have other expenses...
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How do I be the daddy type for my wife?
Ok I'm going to assume at the risk of making an ass of myself that what you mean is your wife has a child(ren) from another relationship and she is looking for you to be a father figure to the child(ren) because the father is not part of the child(rens) life for whatever reason.
If that is the case here is my advice. Love and treath that child(ren) as if it/they were your own. Don't act...
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Have you ever spit in someone's food/drink?
I did it to my own food. I worked in a large office and made the mistake of keeping ,my lunch in the community refrigerator at work and had the misfortune of having my lunch either completely stolen to where there was nothing ther or partially stolen where they took a few bites and put the rest back. So as payback In started spitting in my lunch and mixing it in before I put it away. I got...
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Should i date a guy who is not very goodlooking, etc.?
My answer depends on how long you have known each other. If you haven';t known each other for long then go for it but I would suggest you work on getting to know him first before jumping into a relationship.
If you have known this guy for awhile and you've been goo friends then leave him alone as he deserves someone worthy of his love who isn't so obviously shallow to a point of thinking...
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What's the longest period of time you've spend single?
from birth til I was about 21. That's when I got my first serious girlfriend.
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if you are a 26 year old guy who likes a 17 year old girl, would you ask her out or would you wait until she turns 18?
First you might want to be sure she is intereested in you before you make the sacrafice to wait til she is 18 only to find out she's not comfortable with dating someone as old as you. I don't know too ,many 18 y/o girls who would be very comfortable with dating a guy older than 22 or 23
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how can you show someone how much they mean to you and how much you love them??
When I read your question it automatically made me think of one of my favorite short stories by O Henry The gift of the Magi. In it the couple was very poor but inlove and both were willing to sacrafice the one thing that meant the world to them in order to earn enough money to buy the other a christmas present they would always remember.
Now I am not saying you have to go to those extremes...
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whats better? dating someone who you are best friends with, or someone you dont know that well, all to save you from getting hurt
Unfortunately love hurts like hell when it doesn't work out however I think it is better to date someone you have built a strong steady friendship with first than just jumping into dating a complete stranger.
With someone you have a solid friendship with you pretty much know what you can expect from taking that friendship to the next level. When you jump right into dating someone you barely...
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What kind of "red flags" would you caution someone to be aware of before entering a relationship?
If the person can only call you at certain times and you can only see each other at certain times or they want you to travel way out of your way to meet run like hell because they are probably either married or involved in a relationship with someone else.
If they get pissy at you if you don't respond to their phone calls or texts or e mails or IM's within 2 seconds of them calling texting e...
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Will a marriage woukout between a guy with very high morals and a woman who has had none or will it end up in complete failure?
The only way I see a relationship like that working is if the guy agrees to not hold his high moral standards over her head. In my personal experience someone with high moral standards usually ends up trying to shove them down the throat of someone who was not raised the same so it's almost certain that kind of relationship will be a recipe for disaster
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To all the married or engaged folk out there... how did your significant other propose to you?
I took her to a really nice Italian Restauraunt on Christmas Eve and had the waiter stick the ring inside a Canolli as it's her favorite dessert and when she found the ring I got down on one knee and asked her to marry me. After she finished bitching me out for spending a fortune on her ring she said yes.
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How do you make someone really wanna be with you,?
No amount of self confidence or self love in the world will attract someone if those feelings aren't already there. You cannot make someone love you no matter what you do. Either the feelings are already there or you just accept that this person doesn't love you and move on.
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When is the best time to let go..... for good?
Now you didn't mention whether or not you were/ae intimate with the person in question but I'm going to assume that is a given. What I think you have here is someone who views you as nothing more than a friend with benefits. It sounds like he has made his intentions as far as any kind of future with you well known so it's time to let go best as you can and move on.
You deserve someone who is...
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do you like guys looking if u wear short skirt
Ok I know this is supposed to be for females but I'm going to answer anyway. If a woman didn't want the attention she would make sure the skirt was an appropriate length so as not to draw so much attention to herself. I will say that just because a woman wears a short skirt it is not an invitation for a guy to forget his manners and make rude vulgar suggestive comments about her body or what he...
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my bf totaly trust me but everyone says i'm dating him and my guy bff.i hate it because i feel like they think i'm a cheater or something?
Unless you are giving your boyfriend reason to be jealous of your guy friend I would say he is insecure and is lacking in self confidence. There is nothing wrong with you having a boyfriend and a guy friend together. So long as you treat them the same and don't do things for your guy friend that you wouldn't do for your boyfriend you boyfriend needs to grow up and deal with it.
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How do you impress someone on a first date?
Dude be the best you that you can be and if that isn't good enough for her then she isn't the right woman for you. The worst thing you could do is be someone you are not. Women have a tendency to see right through a guy who is trying to impress by being something he isn't and it tends to turn them off.
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Have you ever developed a crush on someone you met online but had not met in person? If so, what did you find attractive about the person?
Yes it has happened. She was totally different online than offline. Well let me clarify what I mean. I met her on a site we were both members on. She was completely different on that site than she was when we talked privately through many e mails and yim. On the site she was very wild and outgoing but when we talked privately she was very sweet and not as wild and crazy as she portrayed herself...
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What is something that you might learn about a potential partner that would make you reluctant to get involved with him/her?
For me it would be someone who has low self esteem. Low self esteem is a major contributing factor to jealousy and I absolutley hate jealous people. I don't need someone constantly questing my love and my faithfulness simply because someone fucked with their head and made them believe they aren't worth much. I don't have time for that crap.
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How important is confidence to you in a man/woman?
It is extremely important to me. Now I don't want someone who has such high self confidence that they think they are the greatest thing to come along since the invention of sliced bread. However it has been my experience that women lacking in self confidence generally are possessive and jealous of their man and think that every girl he talks to is prettier than them and they try to keep him...
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Is traditional Christianity more likely to be inspired by God than Mormonism is?
Ok I have just about had it with you dumb ignorant closed minded morons who ask stupid crap like this. For the very last time Mormonism is not a seperate religion it is a branch of Christianity the same as Catholicism or Jehovah's wittnesses or Southern Baptists etc and so forth.
Just because some of our beliefs don't exactly jive with what mainstream Christianity teaches doesn't make us any...
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What is something truly special or exceptional about the person with whom you are in love or with whom you last fell in love?
She has alot of self respect for herself and is a highly intelligent individual. Carried a 4.0 through her entire 4 years of college while holding down a full time 40 hour a week job and is doing the same so far in her first year of Law School. I am extremely proud of her.
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Is it safe to say, "Once a cheater, always a cheater."?
People are capable of change. Just because someone cheated once doesn't automatically mean they would do it again.
I agree with everyone who said it depends on the reason for the cheating. I also agree however with the person who said if one truly loves their partner then cheating would never have entered their mind in the first place.
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Is a broken heart better than no heart?
I think it is better to have a broen one than none at all. In order to have a broken heart you have to have feelings. Someone with no heart at all has no feelings. I have had mine broken a few times. The last was about 28 months ago when I lost the most amazingly beautiful person that I had hoped to share the rest of my life with to cancer.
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This really old but cool rich guy wants me to go on vacation for a few weeks. I have mixed feelings I think it would be fun,any thoughts?
You didn't say how you know him. If it's from work it is a very bad idea because old and rich equals either he is in a very high position of authority or he owns the company and both of you are asking for trouble by persuing any type of relationship.
Also as much as I hate to say it I agree with everyone else that there is more than meets the eye here. No one is going to invite someone...
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is 15 years too much of an age gap for a relationship?
It all depends on a couple of factors. First is the younger person over 18 or over what is considered the legal age of consent where they reside? If the answer is yes then who cares about the age gap. If the answer is no then the younger person needs to recognize that no matter how they feel about this person and how hard they think it will be to live without them pusuing the relationship can...
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Have you ever found yourself in an unexpected "cheat on your S/O" situation? Could you resist or did you succumb? Any regrets?
I have found myself in a situation on more than one occasion where there was temptation to be unfaithful. Most of those times were when I was going through a rough patch in my relationship. I never gave in to the temptation though and here's why.
Even though I may have been having doubts about my relationship at the moment I am a man who honors his committments. I made a committment when I...
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My boyfriend doesn't trust me. How could I show him he can again? I flirted/cheated on him. I love him. What can I do? Please Help!
Cheating is something that is almost impossible to be forgiven of. I'm not saying your boyfriend is right by acting as he is but you did break the bond of trust he put in you to be faithful to him when you agreed to get involved in a relationship with him.
What did you expect him to do? Did you think he was just going to say oh that's ok I understand that you were selfish and disrespectful...
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Are people who care about others really modeling what they hope others will do for them?
I'm sure there are some who do it for that very reason however there are many who unselfishley give of themselves with no expectations of their kindness being recipricated. I am one of them because it is what the Savior did and though I am far from perfection and don't consider myself even close to the man Jesus was I try to live each and every day according to the example he set forth for us all.
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is it better for someone to fall in love with you instantly or for it to happen gradually and work your way up to being in love wit someone?
If you're feeling like you're inlove right off the bat then it is not real true love you are feeling for the person. Real love takes time to develop. The best relationships with the greatest chance for survival start out as a good solid friendship first and then eventually build into love. The reason so many people fail at relationships nowadays is because they mistaje those feelings at the...
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How do you know if you have a commitment problem ?
Simple if you're a guy and you can't keep your dick in your pants and fool around with other girls or if you're a girl and can't keep your legs closed except for your man then you have a comittment problem and shouldn't be in a relationshipm with anyone.
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To all you girls, Is it wrong for me to be a guy who hates when my girl wears to short of shorts or shorts or clothing that is to showing.
Sorry for sticking my two cents in here when I am not a girl but I couldn't help but share a little advice with you.
Most females at least mature ones anyway don't like jhealous possessive guys. It's ok for you to let her know that you're not comfortable with how she dresses when you are out in public with her. However it is not ok to try and control her and tell her how to dress.
You are...
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I want to tell someone I love them but I'm afraid of what his friends think and what my friends will think. What should I do?
Don't ever be afraid. As bad as rejection hurts if it turns out the other person doesn't feel the same it sure beats spending the rest of your life torturing yourself with the what if's.
As for your or his friends screw them. Youy like the guy and if the guy likes you back who gives a damn what your friends or his friends will think. They aren't the ones who have to be in the relationship....
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What does hitting a child teach them?
There is a huge difference between hitting and beating a child. I have no problems with giving a child a quick swat on the backside or a slap on the hand to teach them that their behavior is unacceptable and uncalled for.
Parents who don't hit their child when warranted are doing them a disservice because other psychological means such as taking their favorite toy away or putting them in...
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does anyone ever feel lonely even though you still have a significant other?
Yes I do but then again I guess that comes along with the territory when the girl you're dating holds down a full time 40 plus hour a week job and attends Law School 5 nights a week and doesn't have much time on the weekends because she is determined to be at the top of her class so she's busy most weekends with studying.
It's ok though because the sacrafices I make now will pay off in a...
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Is it a healthy relationship if you worry about him cheating all the time?
Not at all. To have a truly healthy relationship it has to be built upon mutual trust. Once thoughts of your partner being unfaithful start creeping in that means trust is out the window and things will only get worse from there.
If you have a valid reason to distrust him such as him being overly flirty with other girls in front of you or he has cheated in the past etc then it's best for...
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does a guy really love you if he cheats?
It depends. Everyone makes mistakes in their life and cheating can be one of them. If it's a continual habit then chances are he doesn't love you. If it was one time and he is truly sorry and regrets his actions and is trying to make it up to you then chances are he does love you but gave in to a moment of weakness.
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Teacher student realtionship where do you stand on it? Is it okay if the student is above the age of 17 the legal consenting age?
If you're of legal age ans so long as the teacher teaches at a different school or at least there is no chance you'll be in any of his classes I don't see anything wrong with a teacher dating a student. The only time I think it is wrong is either when the student is underage or you are in one or more of the teacher's classes
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what was the best moment in your life and why was it the best?
This last Christmas eve when my girlfriend of almost a year went from being my girlfriend to being my future wife when she accepted my proposal.
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what was the best moment in your life and why was it the best?
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What age difference between couples is to much?
there is no such thing as too much of an age difference. It's whatever the individual feels comfortable with.
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Does age matter in a relationship?
In your friend's situation yes it does. Now if she were 18 and he were 34 then I would say no it doesn't so long as they are both comfortable with the difference then it's no one else's business but he's a grown adult man and she is just a child so unfortunately for her the age difference does matter and she should not try to pursue this as she could land him in alot of hot water legally.
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A man stares at me whenever he sees me, he looks away when I catch him, when he talks to me he looks down. He looks at others when talking
This is how I act when I like someone but am afraid to tell them out of fear they may not like me back. If you're interested then let him know. If not be as honest as you can without being hurtful so he knows that he doesn't stand a chance.
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A man stares at me whenever he sees me, he looks away when I catch him, when he talks to me he looks down. He looks at others when talking
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Have you ever met a couple who don't seem like they really belong together? Have you ever been part of a couple like that?
I have seen couples like that but I mind my business. I am no one to judge who belonngs together and who doesn't. Especially since to most strangers who don't know me or my fiancee they would think the same of us seeing how I am almost 49 anmd my fiancee is almost 24.
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Have you ever worked in an environment where most of your co-workers were a bunch of gossip, hating, no class individuals?
I dealt with people like that in my last job. One of them got me fired eventually because they kept running to HR crying aout how creeped out and uncomfortable I made them because I was very friendly with many of the twenty something females and I was in my late 40's. I was dating one of them and am now happily engaged and this asshole whoever it was thought it was nasty and disgusting and was...
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i'm 16 and no one in my grade is attracted to me but i can notice older guys *college guys* liking me tons why is that?
Well if you're like most teen girls today who appear to be much older than what they really are that could explain the reason for you attracting college age and older guys. I don't know where you live or what you look like but here in Philadelphia many girls your age look at least 5 to 10 years older than their age. It's your responsibility to let these older guys know that you're only 16. I...
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1. Do you love somebody?
2. Do you love yourself?
yes and yes
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I have a co worker that always is talking to me, & giving looks, how can I know if she wants to suck my Dick?
Go ahead and ask her if she would like to suck it. Just remember to let me know where you work at so I can come there and watch them drag your ass out the door after she brings you up on sexual harassment charges.
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What's your opinion on spending $30,000+ on a child's birthday party ?
Regardless of whether or not it is something you can afford spending that kind of money for a party is outrageous and is a disservice to your child. You may be well off today but you never know when good fortune could stop smiling on you and you could lose it all. Then what are you left with? A spoiled rotten little brat who thinks they are entitled to everything they want and when mommy and...
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I wanna cheat but I don't, what do I do???
Ok I am assuming that the 1993 in your name is the year of your birth which would make you either 17 about to be 18 or just turned 18 if your birthday has pased since January 1. With that being said I think knowing how you used toi be before meeting your current bf you're still young and in the I want to have fun stage of your life. I think you should be honest with your boiyfriend about how...
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i am 8 months pregnant im married but im not living in with my husband he only visits me once a week does he love me?
Well I could say no based on the very little information you provided but since I don't know the whole circumstance of why you don't live together and why he only visits once a week it would just be my opinion based on the little I know. I would say that if there is nothing that prevents you from living under the same roof and nothing that prevents your husband from being able to be with you...
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If you badly damaged a friendship and have apologized from your heart and the person still wont speak to you do you give up?
There is only so much you can do. If they are being a stubborn jackass and refuse to accept your apology and movee on then let em be. The only thing you will accomplish by continuing to try and mend the friendship i9s make them think you're a stalker. Just give uop and know in your heart you tried.
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Is there anywhere in the 'Bible' written that same sex marriages are not allowed?
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Are sex and love two separate entities?
Is love a NECESSARY requirement for a sexual relationship?
Is love not necessary for good sex?
This answer appls to me alone as there are many who don't feel as I do and that doesn't make one of us right and the other wrong it's just what works for us. For me Love and sex are inseperable. I find it nearly impossible to be sexually intimate with a woman I do not love cherish and adore. I also could not seperate the two in terms of letting my partner be intimate with someone else even if...
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is it right for a woman to do all the chores and take care of the kids at all times by herself while the man works and sleeps, and hangs out
All of the time? Hell no. The man should pitch in especially with raising the kids on his days off. If the woman has no other responsibilities other than taking care of the home and the children she should not expect a major contribution form her partner in helping out but he should at least be willing to pitch in with the child rearing on his off time.
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is it right for a hubby to call his wife bitch and trashy everytime he gets mad at her?
I agree. What hubby is doing is called verbal abuse and no one should have to deal with that. Very often verbal abuse is a precursor to physical abuse. You need to stand your ground and tell hubbyt you will no longer tolerate him belittling and disrespecting you and if he expects to stay married to you this behavior must cease immediately and he needs to get counseling to deal with his issues...
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have you ever posted on facebook that you are "in a relationship" without posting who with? if so, why?
Yes I have. It's because 95% of my friends on facebook were co workers and I wasn't sure who I could trust and who I couldn't. The person I am in a relationship was a co worker at the time and if it became public knowledge that we were dating it could have created alot of problems for both of us. Most people would have been against our relationship and would have made a huge deal out of it...
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my wife once flashed her boobs to my friend and now she wants to show him more where will it end ?
Either your wife has the hots for your friend and it will end with him fucking her or she's just an exhibitionist and it will end with her showing her body off to many others. In either case if her behavior bothers you talk to her about it and see what solutions you can both come up with before it's too late
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How do I get my mother to accept my religious choice?
All you can do is lead by example. Let your mom see how happy your faith makes you and how much joy you receive from it. I wish I had an easy answer for you. I was 20 years old back in 1982 when 2 LDS Missionaries came knocking on my door and changed my life forever with the message of the restored Gospel. My parents were both ferverantly religious catholics and were not very pleased at my...
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Can you be friends with someone you're in love with but clearly doesn't love you?
I have been in this position before and it sucks but as bad as it sucks it beats the alternative of losing them from your life all together. In order to succeed at this though you have to be relatively mentally stable and able to understand that this person is probably never going to change their mind about their feelings for you no matter what. Otherwise you run the risk of trying to force...
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How can I find out the truth about whats going on, she hides her phone from me.
It sounds to me like you don't trust her. Did you ever think there could bee more logical reasons for everything other than she is cheating?
The more hours could be anything. Maybe she got more responsibilities added on to her at work. Maybe she got a promotion which requires her to work longer hours? Maybe she's using working the longer hours as an escape to get away from something or...
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If you went on a blind date and were immediately 'not interested' would you find a way out of the date right away, or at least see the date to the end?
I would see it through and make the best of the situation. As for the reason why you know upfront it won't work out i9f it has toi do with attractiveness anyone whon would not seek a second date for that reasdon is shallow and closed minded. Ok so maybe the person isn't the best looking man/woman but did you stop and consider that maybe if you gave them a chance and got to know them for who...
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How were you proposed to? How have you always wanted to be proposed to?
It was this past Christmas Eve. I took her to NYC to meet my family. Her mom was in on it and I took her mom , my mom and us to dinner at a cozy little Ita,lian place in Coney Island. I knew Cannoli was one of her favorite desserts so I had the waiter slip the ring into her cannoli and when she went to see what she had just bit into I got down on one knee and told her how she was the woman I...
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Is it okay to hook up with other guys if you already have a thing with another guy but you're not going out?
It all depends. Does the guy you currently have a thing with understand that you are not a couple and that you're both free to see other people? If so then I say go for it. However if there is even the slightest chance this guy thinks you and him are exclusive and therefore a couple I would sit down and talk with him and make sure he understands the ground rules of your situation before going...
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I am a white girl and I wanna date a black guy but I don't know what my parents would think or say. What should I do?
My answer depends on one thing. Your age. If you are over 18 and old enough to have a joib and be on your own then follow your heart and do what makes you happy so long as you actually live on your own and not under mom and dad's roof. If you're under 18 or still live at home with mom and dad and depend on them for your support and you know that it will be a major issue for them then forget...
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Would you date a handicapped? (if it's not too much to ask elaborate, if you don't feel at ease doing so, at least vote anonymously, thx)
Dating someone with a handiacp is no different than dating someone with an illness such as cancer. If there is mutual love and understanding between the two the handicap should not be an issue.
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The saying if you love someone let it go. How do you know it's the choice that should be made? Would that be giving up on someone?
That saying doesn't apply to someone you love who does hurtful things. That saying applies to when you love someone who doesn't feel the same. If you really love them then you'll let them go and iof you're meant to be with them eventually they will realize it and love you back and if not then obviously it was never meant to be.
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this guys liked me since the 5th grade (10th now) and now we both like each other except my friends dont like him and idk what to do help?
Real friends would be happy for you and not try to keep you from being happy. It is quite possible your friends know something about this guy that you don't and they might be looking out for you but my guess more than likely is either they're jealous because you have someone and maybe they don't or they are afraid that if you get a boyfriend you'll have alot less time for them. Either way talk...
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husband has relationship outside his marriage with someone from work. im having a problem with this, should I worry?
Whether or not you need to worry depends on a few things. First off does he do things for this co worker that he won't do for you? Does he give her better gifts for special occasions than he gives you? Does he go places with her or do things with her he won't go or do with you?
If the answer to any of trhese is yes then you should be concerned. If it is no to all then stop being a jealous...
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Is there a free dating site that doesn't make u upgrade to contact other members?
www.datehookup.com and I believe www.okcupid.com is free as well. I haven't used plentyoffish in like forever because I have someone now but I don't recall having to pay in order to contact other members. try www.plentyoffish.com as well
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Do any of you guys believe that it is wrong for me to be having sex with a 31 year old guy. Im 17 and were in love
It's only wrong if the laws in your state prohibit such a relationship. If that is the case the man you claim to love could spend a very long time in prison and it doesn't matter if you wait til you're legal to tell your parents. If you were having sex with him while it was illegal they can still have him prosecuted for that. It's only wrong because in most states anyone under the age of 18 is...
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Im a 17 year old girl dating a 31 year old guy. We are in love and thinkin bout having sex soon. Is any of this wrong
In the handfull of states in the United States where the age of consent is below 18 most have restrictions as to how many years older the person you are involved with can be. I haven't heard of any of them allowing more than a 3 to 4 year age gap. Yours is 14 years. I would start by checking to see what the laws in your own state are first concerning your relationship. If you are of the age of...
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What would you do if U recieve roses or any type of Vday gift from someone u did'nt want them from?What is the proper way of dealing w this
Ok seeing how you didn't say why you don't want them from this person I have to assume the guy really likes you and you're not interested in him. If that is the case then I agree with everyone who said to send them back. The worst thing you could do is accept them because then it might give him the idea that you are interested in him and that is not a message you want to send to this guy. You...
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husband has ED co-worker wants to have casual sex he is also married I'm so horny What should I do?
You made a comittment to Love Honor and Cherish him for better or worse. Why would you want to break that comittment possibly breaking his heart and destroying your marriage just so you can satisfy your own selfish needs? First off there is something called Viagra. Get him to a doctor and get a perscription then you can have the man you married satisfy your needs. If his case is so bad that...
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What's your favorite NYC borough?
Brooklyn Baby!!!! I spent the first almost 40 years of my life in this beautiful borough. Mostly in the Sunset Park, Bay Ridge, and Bensonhurst area. I miss it very much and try to get back there as often as I can.
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Would u have sex on the 1stdate,oral?fullon?You know him well and are close in every other way??I want him bad and our sexual chem is insane
It depends on how long you have known each other. If it's for a good while now and the chemistryt is there between both of you then why not. If you just barely met the guy like a month or two ago and you jump into bed with him on the first date you're risking having him think you're a cheap easy slut who behaves like this with every guy you date.
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I need some inspiring words, I broke up with my boyfriend, he just stopped trying and it hurts. I don't think I will ever meet someone else
Sweetheart you will find someone else in time. Take it from me. I was married to a woman who broke my heart by cheating and involved with a woman who was a psychotic control freak. Then I met the love of my life. I spent five and a half wonderful years being just a friend to her before she finally recognized I was never going to come clean about my feelings for her and she told me she wanted to...
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my bf is peurto rican but doesnt act sexual. it worries me. he takes good care of me all the time and claims he loves me, and i love him.
What does the fact he is Puerto Rican have to do with anything? Unless you are one of those dumbshits who buy into stereotyps like Latin Men are supposed to be great lovers or black men have bigger dicks than white men. Have you tried asking him why he doesn't show affection towards you? Maybe he's a little shy in that area. Maybe he's a closet homosexual and is dating yoiu to keep his family...
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would u take someone back if u were not official and went with another guy???
I'm not understanding why you're even asking this. If you guys had an understanding that you were not exclusive and had a right to see others then why wonder about whether or not you should go back with this girl because she was seeing another guy. If you really like her then the answer is obvious. Only this time when you take her back if you want an exclusive relationship with her have the...
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i have been going out about a year with my boyfriend I just found out he married 3 yrs ago to help someone with papers
I found out
Personally my bullshit radar tells me the guy is a lying sack of shit. If he was in a marriage of convienence like that why not be straight forward and upfront about it. It took you a year to find out he was married and now he's trying to cover it up by telling you he only did it to help someone with papers. I smell a big sack of bullshit here and I hope you are smart enough to break it off...
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Do guys like girls that wear dresses casually? Is it attractive?
If by casually you mean a girl who wears a dress even when there is nowhere fancy to go to then yes. While I have nothing against a female who wears pants or jeans alot I prefer a female who likes to dress in nice dresses or skirts and blouses most of the time. I find it kind of sexy.
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Ive been married for 15 yrs and our sex life has disappeared. How do I find a fuck buddy?
Dude if you go that route you're an ass. I totally agree with annonymous' advice. Talk it over with the wife. Let her know how you feel and try to fix what is broken. If what is broken cannot be fixed then a more viable option might be to start taking matters into your own hand if you know what I mean if you really love her and don't want to lose her. If the sex is that important to you and she...
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met a guy lst nite on train,we clicked,but cldnt just ask for his No,i knew what uni hes in so luked up on fcebok n der he wz shld i ad him?
If you are able to send him a message on facebook that might be a better option than just straight out adding him. I know if some complete stranger added me as a friend I might be a bit creeped out by it. If you can message him just explain that you met on the train and you would like to get to know him better if it's ok with him and leave it at that. If he is interested he will either ad you...
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Should i feel bad for not liking this sweet guy my best friend set me up with?
First off you need to check with the age of consent laws in your state to make sure you aren't putting the guy you really like into a position of getting into trouble with the law. Even if you're not having sex if someone finds out you're seeing him and you are still considered a minor under the laws in your state others can make life very hard for the both of you and he could end up in prison...
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what is your heart saying dis time?
It's saying ignore the losers who want to talk shit about the fact that I'm old enough to be my future wife's dad. They're just jealous because I have a young beautiful fiancee who loves me for me.
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what is your heart saying dis time?
It's saying ignore the losers who want to talk shit about the fact that I'm old enough to be my future wife's dad. They're just jealous because I have a young beautiful fiancee who loves me for me.
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I am a 27 year old woman, he is 48 year's old w/no baggage. We have been very serious for 6 months now. Can this work? What about the sex?
The answer to your question is how much are you willing to try and make it work. Yes 21 years is a huge gap in age but you are both adults over the legal age of consent so the age should not be allowed to be made into an issue. Unfortunately the harsh reality of the situation is many people are going to make it their business to make the age gap an issue. The key here is for both of you not to...
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dealing with the public, what is the dumbest thing someone has ever said to you that you were completely speechless after they said it
I worked for 8 years as a token booth clerk for the NYC Transit Authority from the late 80's through the mid 90's. One time I had a night meal relief job that ended up doing a 3.5 hour assist at the uptown side of the 86th street station on the 1/9 subway line on the upper west side of Manhattan. I had this very well dressed gentleman carrying a very expensive looking brief case come down the...
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Of all the taboos you've broken, which was the most satisfying?
Dating and soon marrying a girl young enough to be my daughter.
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Of all the taboos you've broken, which was the most satisfying?
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How do I get an older, classy man to spend some time with him..?
Try finding ou what he likes to do for fun. Let's say for example he likes to bowl. If it's something that you would like to do together maybe you could suggest that the two of you go bowling together or maybe you could make it fun by teasingly suggesting that you could beat him at it and ask if he would like to take you up on that challenge. It let's him know you have an interest without...
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Write a logical sentence without using the letter "E" in any of the words.
It was so hot out that I thought I would faint.
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Gay people, do you really think that we got created to mate with each other? Why would you lie to yourself?
You know ignorant closed minded jackasses such as yorself are really starting to piss me off. Who are you to determine what is acceptable and what is not? For the record I am 100% straight. Always loved the ladies and probably always will. However that doesn't make someone who is attracteed to their own sex wrong. Whenb you love someone being sexually intimate with them is a natural way of...
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Can two people that have more than friend feelings for one another still be classified as friends as long as they haven't had sex?
Sex has absolutely nothing to do with relationship status. Just because you aren't engaging in sex doesn't mean you are just friends and just because you are having sex doesn't make you a couple. I am engaged to my fiancee and we have yet to sleep together. We are both very devout to our faith and are trying our hardest not to be sexually intiomate prior to marriage. I know of several friends...
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If a friend of yours were to date someone older/younger, whats the biggest age gap you could accept? How about for a family member?
I don't care who they date. It would be hypocritical of me seeing how I'm nearly 49 and engaged to be married to a girl who is nearly 24.
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age differences and parents.....
16 in most states in this country is still considered a minor so your relationship would be considered illegal under state law and if your parents found out about it and wanted to be hardasses about it then they could have your boyfriend prosecuted for statutory rape which carries a very long prison sentence in most states aloing with him being branded a sex offender for the rest of his life....
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Why is it acceptable, even common, to make stereotypical comments or judgements about a relationship in which there is an age gap ...
Gardengirl I can only think of one answer and that is ignorance. Please don't let what others say affect you. All that matters is the love you both share. If other people have a problem with it that's their hang up. Don't make their hang up your hang up. I'm almost 49 and look close to 20 years younger than my age. Most don't take me for older than about 33 or so. I'm very happily engaged to a...
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Does the age matters in the relationship with man/woman ?
It should only matter to the two in the relationship. If both are over 18 and they are both ok with the gap then screw what anyone else thinks or says about the relationship. Unless of course the younger of the two still lives with mommy and daddy and mommy and daddy are dead set against the relationship. In that case you either have to make the choice to go off on your own and be responsible...
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What kind of communication do you want in a relationship?
I want totally open and honest communication. I don't want my fiancee to ever feel that she has to be afraid of telling me something just like I don't want to feel as if there are things I can't tell her.
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Are there ANY straight guys out there that like a pretty girl despite the fact that she has small boobs? Or is that all men care about lol?
I'm a straight guy who likes girls regardless of their boob size or their looks (within reason of course lol) I'm more of the type who goes for personality than looks. Just two little problems. One I am engaged to the love of my life and 2 even if I was single and available I saw somewhere that you said you were in your early 20's and though age is not an issue for me so long as the person is...
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would u stay with someone because they love you and u do not love them back
Absolutely not. The best thing you can do is be honest and let them know you don't feel the same way and just move on. Staying would only lead to you hating and resenting that person even more over time. And to the young woman who said she would use the person Karma is a real bitch. You won't think it kis so cool or funny when it is done to you. Therefore you may want to rethink that stratagey...
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What would you do if you were still in love with the ghost of someones soul, that you can't have?
Well it all depends on why they are unattainable. If it's because they have made it known that they don't have feelings for you any attempt to continue to try would be seen as a criminal act called stalking and you could end up in a prison cell for it so ask yourself this. Is the person worth spending a long time rotting away in a jail cell for? Also if they already have someone then the best...
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Your current boyfriend? or your friend who secrelty loves you all along (you knew about it because he admitted when you have a bf already).
That is a tough one. If you really love your boyfriend and want to make it work I think the best thing to do is cut all ties with your friend. Eventually he will get the message that there can never be anything between the two of you. However if you don't mind me saying if your friend already knew you had a boyfriend he is really not your friend because a true friend would have kept those...
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Do you think you can only truly love once?
Absolutely not. I was great friends with a wonderful woman who I loved with all my heart for nearly 6 years before we became romantically involved. A few short months later I lost her to complications of Cancer. That was a little over 2 years ago. I swore when she died I would never find someone else who I would truly love like that but I was wrong. A few short months after her death I met my...
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can someone love to a person who never has met , only has talk and seen in internet?
Love yes. Be inlove with and have a successful long term relationship with highly doubtful. In order to be inlove it requires two parties to spend a significant amount of time interacting with each other face to face. I think having a long term relationship of just talking over the phone or through e mails or im's can greatly help when you do meet in person but without the face to face in...
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A church in Michigian just won 2nd Place in the lottery. $70,000.00. this money is tax-free, since the church is tax-exempt. could this mean that other churches will now play the lottery? will church members contribute to gamble as well as to the church?
I can almost gurantee you that it is not the church itself playing the lottery but rather one or several of the officers of the church doing so and claiming it was the church to avoid paying federal income taxes on their winnings.
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Should Churches Be Tax Exempt?
I disagree with the assumption that Churches only benefit their own membership. I am a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints (Mormon) and every year the church gives away tens if not hundreds of millions of dollars in humanitatian aid regardless of whether you are a member or not to parts of the world ravaged by earthquakes, floods, tornados, and all kinds of other natural...
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Why do some people highlight their Bible? Are the other parts not important?
I can only speak for myself. Speaking for others would be assuming and you know what they say about those who assume. For me I do it because those particular passages have special meaning or inmportance to me. It has nothing to do with the rest of the bible not being important.
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My girlfriend has had a guy as a best friend for 4 years, and last week he confessed his love for her and she continues to hang out with him, after i asked her not to. Because he hates my guts and wants to fight. What do i do? I'm scared to lose her!!
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Have you ever talked yourself out of liking someone?
I tried to with my fiancee. When I first recognized I was havinmg feelings for her I was concerned because she was 22 and I was 417 at the time and I knew I would catch a load of shit from alot of people because of the age gap Then she told me she was very attracted to me and wanted to try a relationship and I just said fuck it and went for it. Now were are planning a wedding.
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Sex before marriage, yes or no?
It's a very hard thing to do however if those are your valu
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Sex before marriage, yes or no?
It's a very hard thing to do however if those are your values to wait til marriage don't let anyone talk you into compromnising them. I was a virgin when I married at 24 and I don't regret waiting. It made that first time all the more special.
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Im 16 in love with someone 12 years older thn me who is also in love,is our age diffence a huge issue, or illegal?
I'm pretty sure your relationship would be against the law unless you live in the deep south. As for the age difference if it is legal for you to be together fuck what others think or say. I'm 48 going on 49 and just became engaged to a woman who is 23 almost 24. We love and care very deeply for each other and despite what othrs think we are happy together.
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I loved someone tried to make him love me but he always run away till today we spoke online he said that i am UGLY
First and foremost you cannot force someone to love you. If those feelings aren't already there then nothing you do or say is going to change their mind. It's best to let someone like nthat go and move on to someone who is capable of loving you. I am very sorry that this person said such mean things to you. I don't know what you look like but I'm sure you aren't ugly. Everyone has beauty within...
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Was the World Created in Six Days?
Let me first state I am a Christian. However I do not blindly follow everything it says in the Bible. Yes God did create the heavens and the earth. Yes he did it in 6 days. However when I say six days I am not meaning in mans concept of what 6 days are/ 6 241 hour periods of time. It would have been impossible to create all the beauty in this world in such a short time span. I believe that...
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Was the World Created in Six Days?
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Is There a "War on Christmas"?
I'm sorry but I refuse to use the words happy holidays. It's merry christmas for me. If you find it offensive that I wish you a merry christmas grow a backbone and get a life. Oh and Reverand Lynn I find it offensive that youy singled out Mormons amongst other non Christian groups. Mormons are just as Christian as you maybe even more so. Just because some of our beliefs about the Savior differ...
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my husband says mean things all the time about my weight and aother girls what do you think
So you've put on a bit of weight so what. You're still the same person he fell inlove with only a little heavier. The outside has changed but the inner person and inner beauty I am sure is still the same. You're husband doesn't deserve you. He's a shallow arrogant self centered asshole who thinks Physical beauty is where it's at. If you were smart you would divorce him and get on with your...
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I am in love with my best friend, should I tell her?
That all depends. If both of you are not in a commited relationship with someone else then by all means go for it. The worst that could happen is she won't feel the same and hopefully you will be able to still remain best friends. If however she or you are already in a relationship with someone else then I would advise you to keep your mouth shut and do your best to control those feelings...
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How would you feel if a friend of yours treated you as though you were more important than his/her boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, or wife?
It sdepends. If it is a same sex friend and I have no reason to believe they are bisexual or gay I would have no issue really. If however it was an opposite sex friend even if there was nothing there on their part I would sit down and talk with them and let them know that what they are doing is not right because it could lead their husband/boyfriend to believe there is something more going on...
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this girl love me but has a boyfriend.she says he's a annoying & a jerk but wont dump him becuase she is afraid people will hate her
First off you sound really young so chances are you don't even know what real love is all about. Secondly she has a boyfriend already whether or not she's happy with him that's a big no no for you. Back off and leave her alone. If you want my honest opinion I bet the guy treats her like gold and it's not good enough for her so she's looking for something else and you're the sucker she's picked...
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Do guys really not care about the clothes girls/women wear? If so, why are girls still judged by their clothing?
I care about what a woman wears. Nothing drives me crazier than a woman who likes to dress sexy. I don't want her to dress like an old woman but at the same time if she's wearing a dress or skirt and blouse that leaves very little to the imagination that is grounds for me to dump her faster than yesterday's trash. I don't know where women get the idea from that their boobs and ass have to be...
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Doesn't everyone have a personality? If so, why do certain people say having a personality is more important than looks?
Yes everyone has one. However some are so ugly that they take away from a person's physical beauty while some are so beautiful that they add to a person's physical appearance. Take me for instance. I am far from the world's idea of attractive in the physical sense of the word. At best I would be described by most women as average or ok looking. Not exactly the kind of guy that attracts first...
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Part # 2
Is it wrong for you to accept these gifts?
It depends. If the gifts are coming from a group of employees as a token of good will for a special occasion then accept them. If however the gifts are coming from the same person time and again there could be a hidden agenda such as that oerson likes you and accepting those gifts could send the message that you like them back even if that is n ot the case. In that case I would let the person...
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is it really that bad to like a 40 year old guy when your 15?
There is nothing wrong with liking him. Pursuing those feelings and starting a romantic relationship with him though is quite another story. First off no matter how mature and grown you may feel the law still sees you as a child and he is an adult. Therefore any type of a romantic relationship even if it didn't involve sex could land this guy in jail for a very long time plus ruin the rest of...
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is it really that bad to like a 40 year old guy when your 15?
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how many older men have dated younger women? just asking
In the spring of 2008 I began dating a girl I met 5 and a half years earlier when she was just barely 18. We worked together and became very good friends almost immediately. At the time I met her she was dating a guy who was I believe 48 or 49 at the time. About 3 years into our friendship I fell deeply inlove with her and kept my mouth shut for over 2 more years because I was afraid I wasn't...
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If a guy 20 yrs older than me expresses interest in me is he only in on it for the sex? do you think thats his only reason for pursuing me?
Follow your heart. If you think he is just looking for a hot young thing to have a little fun with then keep it moving and don't give him a second though. Not every guy in their 40's or above who is interested in someone in their 20's is out for sex. I am currently dating a girl 25 years my junior. I just turned 48 in mid May and she turned 23 less than a week later. Sarah is a very sweet kind...
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What makes you want someone as your partner?
A kind sweet personality. She doesn't have to be a Miss America contender. So long as she is kind sweet caring compassionate has intelligence is respectful of others I would definitely want to be with her. Age isn't really an issue either so long as she is at least 21
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Do you have a best friend? Do you tell them everything? Is this person the same sex as you?
Yes Yes and no
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How many times have you been married? How many more marriages do you anticipate?
Only once so far. Seperated and eventually divorced over 13 years now. I came close to getting engaged about 18 months ago but she passed away from complications of cancer shortly before I planned on proposing. I'll probably do it again someday and hopefully that will be my last time
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If i've been play hot flirty games with this guy who I am close with, shal I tell him my true feelings if he has a girlfriend?
The most selfish self centered thing you can do is reveal your true feelings for this guy. He already has someone so you should resepct that and back off. How would you like it if you were his girlfriend and another girl was doing what you are doing? I am willing to bet you would be ready to tear her eyes out. What they say about Karma being a bitch is really true. If you ignore me and go after...
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Do you truly ever get over someone?
Sweetheart it will happen eventually. I don't think you will ever completely and totally get over this guy but there is going to come a time when thinking about him isn't going to hurt as much. My situation is alot different than yours but I have moved on. Comes this November it will be 2 years since I lost the love and light of my life. When she first died I swore I was never ever going to...
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How come when you show compassion towards some people only keep taking advantage of you and should you continue showing compassion?
Unfortunately in life you are going to run across people who think only about themselves and take advantage of others kindness. You cannot let those bad experiences change who you are. You should continue to do what you know in your heart is the right thing to do and if others take advantage of your compassion and kindness well let's just say they will have to answer for their actions in the end.
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Do you think it's immature to call someone stupid when that's how they are acting/behaving?
It is never mature or cool to call someone names regardless of how the act. What if you were fat and I called you a fat ass? Would that be cool or mature of me? or what if the opposite were true and you were so skinny you could see your bones and I called you skeleton? Would that be mature of me to do? Instead of calling someone names or pointing out the obvious the more mature thing to do...
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How many of you older guys would have intercourse with a 16 year old red head girl if this act was not illegal/frowned upon?
I'd really have to be truly and deeply inlove with her and the feelings would have to be the same as I don't have sex with anyone I do not love and care very deeply for. However I highly doubt a 16 y/o girl would fall deeply inlove with a man more than old enough to be her dad
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If you were devorced would you settle for one night stands for a period of time?
Sorry. For me it is difficult to seperate sex from love. I cannot be sexually intimate with someone I am not truly and deeply inlove with and in a monogomous comitted relationship with. When I am between partners and I need a little relief I would rather resort to rosy palm and her 5 sisters than to use someone just for sex.
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how to get back ur love again?????
Mary you cannot make someone love you no matter how much you may want to. If the love is gone on your partners part no matter how much you try you will only push them further and further away from you. There is a saying that goes if you love something lit it go if it comes back it's yours if not it was never meant to be. When you trukly love someone you let them go. If you and this person are...
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i am 15 year old girl but i fell in love with my science teacher who is 10 year older than me.what shall i do?
First off at 15 you don't know enough about real true romantic love to be inlove with anyone regardless of their age. I am certain what you are feeling for this man is nothing more than just a little schoolgirl crush. It is perfectly normal and in time it will go away and you will focus on someone alot closer to your age to be attracted to. Secondly he is your teacher. If he knew how you felt...
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i am 15 year old girl but i fell in love with my science teacher who is 10 year older than me.what shall i do?
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What do you think should be the maximum age difference in a couple that dates? Do you see anything wrong with a 25 year old female dating a 50 year old guy if they really lilke each other?
I agree that age is only a number. I am dating a very beautiful 23 y/o and I am 48. We love and respect each other and neither of us has an issue with the other's age.
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Do you really ever get over true love? Do the feelings just really die and you fall for someone new and love them in only a short time span of knowing them? How long does it take to get over true love and move on and do you ever forget that person?
I don't think you ever completely forget your true love. I think the passage of time just makes it a little easier for you to deal with the loss. I did not meet my true love until I was almost 41 and she had just barely turned 18. We became good friends and remained such for five and a half years. About 3 years into that friendship I realized I was falling hopelessly inlove with her. I never...
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I cant seem to get over him ... what can i do to make it easier .. will i ever find true love ?
Mimi I have never been in your shoes losing someone I love to a breakup so it is difficult for me to understand what you must be going through. I have however lost a loved one to death. I was dating my last girlfriend for only about 6 months when I lost her to cancer at the all too young age of 24. That was back in November of 2008 and I thought I was going to die. I swore I would never open my...
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Is a 23 year age difference too much?
As long as the younger one is over 18 who cares. It is your life. If you love this person and they love you so long as neither is a minor in the eyes of the law screw what others think. Yes unfortunately there are assholes in this world who will have serious problems with that kind if age difference and it is true that with that kind of age gap it will be difficult to sustain a long term...
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Do you think that (sarah) is beautiful name?
It definitely is. Especially since I am madly inlove with a Sarah.
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Do you think that (sarah) is beautiful name?
It definitely is. Especially since I am madly inlove with a Sarah.
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Sarah or Sara?
For me it has to be Sarah. The young woman I am finding myself falling hopelessly inlove with and hope to marry one day is named Sarah. When I lost my sweetheart almost 2 years ago I swore I would never let myself feel that way about anyone ever again. Then along came Sarah and I just couldn't help but fall for her.
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Spiritually speaking-what is your answer to 'Who am I'?
I am a child of a kind, wise, and loving Heavenly Father. He sent me here to earth to learn and grow by faith. He gave me my free agency to choose good or evil and if I choose right I can return home one day to my Heavenly home and dwell with him and my Savior Jesus Christ for all eternity
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Are love letters extinct with modern means of communication?
Love Letters while probably not as popular as they once were with the advent of Cell Phones and the internet are still around. I have written quite a few love letters to my last girlfriend during our short 6 month relationship prior to her death and even after her death each time I go to visit her grave I write her a letter telling her how much I miss her and how I am looking forward to seeing...
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how long will you be willing to wait for ur virgen gf to have sex with u??
I would wait forever if that is how long it took if I truly loved her.
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alright well i seem to have fallin for my really good friends boyfriend what should i do their having problems and i want him though...
You back off. If they are having problems the last thing you want to be is the woman who pushed your friend's boyfriend over the edge and caused him to leave. If this person is really your friend find another guy to put your focus on. You could end up gaining the guy but lose a friend in the process. Is he really worth losing your friend over?
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Is he worth it?
Sweetheart, I don't know what I can add that you don't already know in your heart. From your pic I am assuming you are fairly young. I'd say early to mid 20's and I am assuming your boyfriend is about the same age. Most guys at that age are just looking for someone they can have a good roll in the sack with and that is about it. The last thing on their mind is getting serious with someone and...
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Any women like to be TOLD what to wear, specially if its risque?
I am not a woman so what I am about to say probably won't be very helpful to you but I thought it might shed some light on your question. I dated a girl a couple of years back who was half my age. (she was over 21) She like most girls in their early 20's liked to wear sexy outfits that accentuated her chest butt and belly. We were good friends for several years prior to our dating and her...
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"age ain't nothing but a number" do you go by this saying??
Yes within reason. I don't believe anyone who is considered an adult has the right to pursue something with someone underage but if an 18 year old wants to be with someone old enough to be their parent the it is nobody else's business
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whould you date someone that is very sick and you knew that would only live a couple of years. Also why?
I would without a doubt
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"one mans lost is another mans gain"do you belive that??
That depends. If the man who lost did so because he wasn't respecting or treating his partner then it can be a gain for the next man if she is a good person.
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Do age difference relationships work, or does it matter how big the gap is?
You know what. I think everyone needs to mind their own damned business when it comes to age differences. If the two people involved are both over the age of consent and feel they can handle all the issues that could arise what damned business is it of anyone else but the two people involved ion the relationship. It isn't the differences in maturity levels or the differences in musical tastes...
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Hw do Ideal with my gf's guy friend who is in another state pays her way when she is there stays at his house what do I do
You dump her and find a girl with very little self esteem who will let you controi every single aspect of her life from who she associates with to what she wears and what she eats. Your current girlfriend doesn't deserve a jackass who has so little trust in her that he finds it hard to believe that a girl can actually be friends with a guy without anything sexual happening between them.
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Went on mltple 'dates' with this guy. Even if he doesnt say lets go on a date he treats it like one, picks me up, pays for everything everytime, but doesnt physically show he likes me if that makes sense.Is he interested or just a really nice friend?
Wow I know this is old and my answer probably won't help you. However there may be someone else out there who is currently in a similar situation and is asking this same question to themself. Not every guy is out to get laid. Some of us respect women enough that we can do all the things a normal boyfriend does without things having to become sexual in nature. He could be very shy or maybe he is...
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Men: would you date a virgin girl waiting until marriage, or would you just go find someone else?
I would have no problem. Then again I am 48 so sex is not as important to me at my age as it was when I was a teen or in my early 20's. I have grown and matured to a point where there are alot mor important aspects to a romantic relationship with someone other than how much sex I get from her. My last relationship was like that. At 46 I found myself dating a girl of 23 who I loved and adored...
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okay so this guy that i really like have a girlfriend and he told me that he really really like and been noticing me. everything just seem so right, the way we connect and we always have so much to talk about. what am i suppose to do avoid him or go for it and forget my morals?
Think about this for a moment. You ever hear the saying do unto others as you would have others do unto you?. Put yourself in the position of his current girlfriend. If you were with this guy wouldn't you hope that some other girl he liked would have the decency to take your feelings into consideration and tell the loser to take a hike? Plus let's just assume for a second that he does dump the...
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Guys what do you find most attractive in a woman?
Not everyone who says they prefer personality over looks is unattractive like the one and only 2010 thinks. The one and only sounds like a shallow immature little boy who hasn't grown up to me because if he is a real man then he would know looks fade over time but the great personality rarely never changes. Yes I admit I am not exactly what most women would consider good looking and in 48 years...
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I like this boy but I'm going out with a really special guy, what should i do?
The worst thing you can do is break this special guy's heart. If you don't feel the same for him as you do for this other boy then you need to be honest with this special guy and break it off before you end up doing something way more hurtful than breaking up with him like maybe cheating on him with this other boy. It's ok that you have these feelings for this other boy. Don't think that it...
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For men, when you are in love, do u think sexually about other girls?
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Now that your older in age middle aged infact how important is sex to you?
At almost 48 (2 weeks from today) While I still love sex as much as the next red blooded American Male does I am not going to shrivel up and die if I don't get it every day or even every week. First of all I am not a one night stand or friends with benefits kind of guy. I would much rather take matters into my own hands so to speak than have sex with someone who I am not deeply inlove with. I...
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is it possible to love deeply?
Yes it is very possible. I met my last girlfriend whaen she was 18 and I was nearly 41. We were co workers. We became very close friends almost instantly and on her 21st birthday I realized I was falling hopelessly inlove with her. It would take another 2 and a half years before we would actually start dating because I was scared shitless to tell her how I really felt because of the huge age...
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what is the greatest joy in your life?
The greatest joy in my life is the knowledge . that my Heavenly Father lives. That he loves me. That his only begotten Son Jesus Christ is my Savior and Redeemer That is what gives me true joy
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do you want to marry me in future?
I'm sorry no offense but you are the same age as my son
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What do you want in your Easter basket?
My beautiful girlfriend would be nice but unfortunately unless the easter bunny is Jesus in disguise that will be impossible seeing how she has been dead for the last almost 17 months.
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Did you know that Mormons massacred 120 people in cold blood on September 11, 1857?
While I am not trying to justify the actions of those members of the church who participated in the Mountain Meadows Massacre You are ignoring alot of persecution the Mormons suffered previous to that day that led up to what happened.
Members of the church were constantly persecuted and prosecuted for nothing more than what they believed in and had been chased from New York to Ohio to Missouri...
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Why do some people come out of the closet and some stay in it?
In my opinion I think those that are still in the closet are there for the most part because of one reason and that is how the majority of Christianity makes homosexuals feel as if there is something wrong with them as if they are eveil or sick for who they are.
For the record let me state I am a 100% straight male who is a very devout member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day...
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guys could you describe your idea of a beautiful girl? i dont mean hot,cute,pretty i mean beautiful. who what comes to mind?
When I think of a beautiful girl I think of a co worker of mine. At almost 23 she has it all. She is beautiful not only in the physical sense but inside as well. She is kind hearted, Sweet, Caring, Respectful, Kind of shy, Extremely intelligent, Respects herself and others, treats everyone with kindness and love. I think that to me is what beautiful is all about and probably why I am finding...
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Can a credit card company pursue debt after 7 years?
The short answer is yes. However here is the catch. There is a statute of limitations of 7 years after the last payment has been made in which a creditor can take any type of legal action against you. Once that 7 years has passed without any payments being made in that time frame the creditor is breaking the law if they even infer indirectly that legal action may be taken against you if this...
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Why is St. Patrick's Day such an important day in America, despite it being an Irish national holiday?
It is just another excuse for a bunch of idiots with no self control to go out and get drunk.
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How important is a politican's private life?
It depends. If it's something like him/her being the biggest whore who cares. However if something in their private life can pose a threat to either our national security or can severly affect their ability to effectively preform their job to the best of their ability (ie they are an alcoholic or they get high on on drugs) then I think it is the pub;lic's business and we have a right to know...
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Why did you scare away the people who cared?
Because I am so used to being treated like garbage, used, taken advantage of and hurt by most people that it makes it hard for me to genuinely trust the ones who really do care and wouldn't do such things to me.
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Why did you scare away the people who cared?
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Why did you scare away the people who cared?
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How can I be sure I am falling inlove with someone because of who they are and not who they remind me of? See my answer for details
About 16 months ago I lost the girl I thought I would end up spoending the rest of my life with to complications of cancer. I truly and deeply loved her very much and I never thought I would ever open my heart to anyone after losing her. Recently I have been finding myself very much attracted to this young lady I work with who reminds me in some ways of the love I lost. She is very different in...
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Who will get credit for the outcome of the Iraq war? Bush or Obama?
In typical democrapic fashion if the outcome is good they will find a way to steal the limelight for themselves and if the outcome is bad they will find a way to point fingers and blame either Bush or some other Republican so long as they don't have to take any of the Blame themselves.
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I need a proxy site to gte on mysapce... help?
Why is he rediculous? He is trying to help this dumb girl by pointing out to her that not everyone in cyberspace is who they seem. Ever watch to catch a predator on dateline Most of those pervs with a penchant for young ass are ordinary upstanding everyday people that you would never think were bad peoplem if you knew them. There are alot of sicko's out there in cyberspace just waiting for a...
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Latayne Scott: "I have found that a True Blue Mormon would argue with a sack of turnips if it fell off a Mormon truck." What does she mean by this? Does this match anyone's experience dialoging with, or attempting to reason with True Blue Mormons?
If I am misunderstanding the question please accept my apologies. I beklieve the term true blue Mormon is a sarcastic term used by many anti mormons and others of their ilk who are out to prove that Mormonism is a cult and not a Christian Faith as it claims to be. I believe the term true blue mormon refers to a member of the church who has seen past all the lies and deceptive practices that...
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What do Mormons do for their 21st birthdays?
We do pretty much the same as any non mormon does for their 21'st birthday except without the alcohol and drugs.
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Do you think when a couple have a fight/argument and it is unresolved by bedtime that one or the other should sleep on the couch, or do you think they need to sleep in the same bed?
If a fight is unresolved by bedtime every effort should be made to not go to bed until it is resolved. If you really love your mate you will do this. God forbid you go to bed still angry at each other. Think of how horrible you would feel if god forbid your mate were to die suddenly in the middle of the night and you didn't get to say sorry and tell them how much you love them.
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How many men buy flowers for a loved one on Valentine's day?
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How many men buy flowers for a loved one on Valentine's day?
If the weather clears up and we don't get any more damned blizzards here in the northeastern U.S.A. I will personally be making the tri from Philadelphia to Hartford CT to hand deliver my beloved sweeetheart's favorite flowers and spend some time sitting at her grave talking to her. However the weather man is predicting more snow for this weekend so more than likely I'll have to have FTD...
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How many men buy flowers for a loved one on Valentine's day?
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I'm no longer physically attracted to my boyfriend, but I still love him...I think.
True love means you look beyond the physical and see someone for the total package. Sure it's nice to have something physical that catches the eye however when one learns to see with their heart instead of their eyes the things we once found unattractive start to look better if the one we love has inner beauty. I myself have never been one to focus on what is outside. I generally take the time...
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Do u guys believe in love on internet? Why? (Give me some facts)
I believe it is very possible to find love online. However let me say this. You cannot truly fall inlove with someone you have nothing more than an online relationship with. Sure you can fall inlove with the idea of who this person is, but until you have met face to face and have spent a considerable amount of in person face to face time with each other it is impossible to truly be inlove with...
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If you could reverse one Supreme Court decision throughout history, which one would it be?
Roe vs Wade but not fully. I would still leave abortion as a viable option for someone who was raped or the victim of incest or someone who has been told that they will most likely die if they carry the pregnancy to full term or for those who did the responsible adult thing and took all the necessary precautions to keep from getting pregnant but by no real fault of their own ended up that way...
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What's the first thing you thought of when you woke up to the New Year?
The same thing I thought of as the last year ended. My beautiful girlfriend who lost her fight with cancer a little over a year ago.
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Why wouldnt you want to marry me?
Well according to your username you aren't 21 yet and seeing how I have a son who will be 23 in less than 10 months that makes me old enough to be your dad too and since I am neither super rich or super good looking I guess that leaves an old man like me out.
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Why wouldnt you want to marry me?
Well according to your username you aren't 21 yet and seeing how I have a son who will be 23 in less than 10 months that makes me old enough to be your dad too and since I am neither super rich or super good looking I guess that leaves an old man like me out.
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Can a Guy who is maybe a 3 have a chance of being seen as serious relationship material by a girl who is a 10?
Thank you to all that took the time to answer. I agree with everyone who said it should be about what is on the inside. Unfortunately most people forget that and focus instead on physical beauty. I don't think I am ugly but I know that a snowball would have much better odds of surviving a 600 degree oven for more than a second without melting than I have of being seen as good looking enough by...
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Can a Guy who is maybe a 3 have a chance of being seen as serious relationship material by a girl who is a 10?
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An attractive man/woman comes up to you in a bar and asks if they can buy you a drink. What do you say?
If an attractive female approached me anywhere my first questions would be where's the hidden camera or how much did your friends pay you to make me look like a fool.
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Is $30,000 too much for an engagement ring?
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What's the most important thing you've learned from your Dad?
How not to be a lying cheating womanizing drunken piece of crap like him.
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How old were you and how long had you been going out for when u ralized she was the one?
I was 46. She was 23. I knew her for almost 6 years at the time. We had been dating a couple of months when I knew for sure that she was the one. Actually I knew I wanted to spend my life with about 2 years before we even started dating. I just never acted on it out of fear she would think I was some kind of nut for thinking I had genuine romantic feelings for someone young enough to be my child.
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Do you ever feel sad during the Christmas and New Years holidays?
Last year was the first time. I was supposed to get engaged to the girl I was going to spend my life with but she died a few weeks before so I don't expect that this Christmas will be any happier.
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Do Mormons eat any special foods at Easter?
I was not always lds so I have stuck with the traditions I grew up with as an Italian American. Easter Sunday dinner in my home usually consists of some sort of pasta like maybe lasagna or stuffed shells with meatballs and sausage and maybe some country style pork ribs and maybe a Turkey or Ham.
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Can you go to heaven if you are homosexual but still have a deep loving relationship with God?
i. want to say yes because I believe in my heart that God loves every one of his children very much and I doubt in my heart that he would punish any of his children simply for who they love. As high shaman already pointed out the Biblle was written by man through divine inspiration from God so who can prove that when man recorded some of this stuff that they did not use their own hatred and...
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Whats the largest amount of money you held in you hands? 1,832.42 is mine. It was a huge waadd.
in cash the largest amount I held was 10,000.00
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Can you hide certain friends you have so another friend can not see them
Sounds fishy to me. One of two things is goin on here. Either you are cheating on your s/o and are trying to keep the person you are messing with hidden from your s/o or one of your friends doesn't like the other and you are scared if they find out you are friends you will lose them. If scenario one is the case sooner or later your s/o is going to find out about your other friend so you...
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How to hack into boyfriends voicemail?
If you think he is cheating then don't break into his voicemail. Your initial instincts are almost always right which means he is more than likely being unfaithful. Checking his voicemail will only make matters worse. If you are fairly certain he's cheating just kick his sorry ass to the curb or pack and get out of there yourself.
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Should New Jersey have same-sex marriages?
If 2 people genuinely love and care enough about each other to want to make a lifetime commitment to each other such as marriage I see no reason why the fact that they are both the same sex should be a barrier to their happiness.
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When a guy tells you that the reason he can't bring you over his place is because him and his room-mate "Don't do that", is that believable or is something else going on?
Maybe him and his roommate have an arrangement not to bring girls back to the apartment or maybe the roommate is actually his wife or another girlfriend.
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Is it correct to be non-judgemental actually?
Only God has the right to stand in judgement of anyone. Therefore it is correct for us as humans to be non judgemental
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When was the last time you cried?
The other day when I looked over at where my girlfriend should have been sitting at the Thanksgiving table and she wasn't there because she passed away last year.
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Who had a bad thanksgiving time this year....?
Mine was not so hot. I lost the girl I loved and planned on spending my life with right before Thanksgiving last year and its still a struggle for me to accept that she is gone for good.
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Just what would you REALLY like for Christmas?
To die so my heart can stop breaking because then I would be back in the arms of my sweetheart who I lost to cancer a little over a year ago. Before anyone panics though I am not suicidal. U know if I took my own life it would gurantee I would spend eternity without her and I don't want that. I just wish God would take me already so I can be looking into her eyes and holding her in my arms...
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What is the worst thing that can happen during a walk in the woods?
some Guy in a. Scary hockey mask carrying a running chainsaw comes chasing after you and your girlfriend.
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I am 15 years old but i have a problem a 28 year old likes me but i am 16 in two weeks what should i do
I like how most of you have this Guy pegged as a degenerate perverted child molester without knowing all the facts. Many teenage girls look much more mature than what they really are. If this girl looks a lot older than 15 and she has never told the Guy she is a minor that doesn't make him a pervert. I recently read somewhere that more than 60% of girls between 13 and 17 who have some...
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Can an atheist show their love for others? as Jesus said, "Love one another just as I have loved you."
Christians do not have a lock on showing love and compassion for their fellow man. Everyone no matter what their beliefs are is capable of showing love and compassion for another.
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I am in-love with my friends brother he is 7 years older than me but we get along great he flirts with me and we hang out more than i hang out with my friend (his sis) and i went to this party and no one was talking to me but himILOVEHIM! what should ido?
Sweetheart if you were 18 or older then a 7 year age gap would be no big deal. Seeing how you are only 12 though it is a really big deal. If your parents found out about him I am sure they would not be thrilled. He could get into serious trouble just for being with you and I'm sure you wouldn't want that. Try to steer clear of this for about 5 or 6 years and if your feelings for him...
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What is one good reason why i shouldn't kill myself.
Sweetheart I know how you feel. The woman I married and believed I would grow old with cheated on me almost 11 years into our marraige and then blamed me for it claiming I was too busy trying to be a good employee and good church member that I had no time for her. Then I get involved with a psycho who tried to control my life. I finally find the girl of my dreams and she goes and gets incurable...
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Why can God not stop people with addiction problems?
Because God gave us all free agency to choose for ourselves and if he intervened every time we chose to do something that was bad for us it would not be truly free agency now would it?
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Can Morality Exist Without God?
I know of a couple who is atheist yet they live fairly moral lives they are honest to a fault when they do their taxes. Neither of them has ever cheated on the other in over 25 years of being together. You will often find them at one of the local soup kitchens helping to feed the homeless and less fortunate. Many times they have taken in Foster kids and refused the state stipend that most...
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At the risk of being crucified, I have to ask, why are there woman who still don't know how to cook and clean?
I would imagine equal rights had a lot to do with it. Up until the 2
1840's or so women were led to believe that their only purpose in life was to become a housewife and bare lots of babies for their husbands. So from the time they were old enough to understand mom taught them to cook clean and sew. Now with so many women having demanding jobs outside the home thanks to the equal rights...
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Why do female entertainers put more efforts into looking slutty rather than concentrating on their talent?
Because for some like Brittney spears and mariah Carey all they have is their sex appeal. If it wasn't for Tommy mottola making mariah into a superstar shed probably be a headlining stripper at some exclusive gentlemens club. As for Brittney don't even get me started.
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Who is your hero?
Every man and woman who proudly wears the uniform of any branch of the united states military. They and the families who stand behind them and support them are the true unsung American heroes.
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If you could have just one thing given to you right now, other than money, what would it be?
for a friend of mine to be able to stop looking down on herself for past mistakes be able to see herself as the beautiful kind sweet person she really is, to stop believing that she needs to be someones girlfriend or wife in order to have value and worth as an individual, and to realize she deserves so much more than what she has gotten from all the losers who only see her as a hot piece of ass...
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Severe punishments (executions) are you pro or against?
For. I bet some who say they are against would make an exception if someone they loved was raped viciously tortured and then brutally murdered
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My husb.& i bought a home in SC and were planning a move in 3 weeks. I saw a job application confirmation in his email in IL that he (at first) said he didn't know where it came from. His ex was the pw on the job site. When I Q. He attacked me verbally >>
Sounds like he never got over her and he is probably planning on trying to win her back. If he got that upset with you over a simple question then something is most definitely rotten in Denmark
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My husband uses his ex girlfriend's name as his internet password and I think that it is very disrespectful to me. He sees no harm in it but i do. we got into a heated argument about it. Am i wrong and just overreacting about the whole thing?
It is totally disrespectful to you and I wouldn't be surprised if he has some sort of unresolved feelings for her. Especially if she was the one who broke it off with him. I will admit though that I use my last girlfriends .name for a lot of my passwords because it is easier to remember one password than several. Then again I am not currently in a relationship and also even though I still...
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Do you have a secret crush on someone?
I'm too old to have a crush on someone. I do have secret feelimgs fort someone but she wont know til she removes her head from her ass and realizes that she doesn't need to be in a relationship to be happy and feel complete as a person.
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If someone at work jokes with you, walks you to your office, smiles at you and stops in a couple times a day to say hi, does that mean they like you or could they just be friendly? I thought he liked me but he just wont ask me out. He's not shy.
Sounds like maybe he is interested but maybe he thinks you are taken already. I know if I see a fairly attractive female I generally assume they are already taken til I find out otherwise.
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Does it bug you when women breast feed in public?
nah and with the way a lot of young females dress today making no real effort to cover themselves up at least when they are breast feeding there is a legitimate reason for their tits to be out in the open.
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I would really like to know what is it that men wish women knew more about? Any ideas? Maybe this way we can better understand men. Unless one is required to think like a man.
I for one wish most women would know that us men are not psychic or mind readers. If we pissed you off somehow please don't assume we know exactly what we did. The thing that pisses me off the most is when a friend or family member of the female gender is in a foul mood with me and when I ask what is wrong I either get an answer of nothing do not worry about it or you should know followed...
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Does anybody have any words of wisdom to live by?
Never go to bed angry at a loved one. You may not get another chance to make up.
Life is too short to hold grudges. Let go of your pride and forgive those who hurt you.
Focus on the good things in others and spend less time concerned with their flaws.
Never be too busy to help someone in need
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Gentlemen, do you assume that women who do not find you attractive are lesbians?
That would be about 99.999% of the female population so no I wouldn't assume that since I know there are not that many lesbians out there.
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Is it weird if you keep a journal?
Absolutely not. I kept a journal for the 2 yeara I was a full time Mormon missionary in the mid 1980's. I only wish I would have continued doing so.
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You're eating some delicious alphabet soup. You look down into your bowl and see a message spelled out. What is the message?
Give up loser. You aren' meant to find true everlasting love in this lifetime.
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What mends a broken heart?
It depends on how it was broken. If it was because you fell for omeone who wont return your love you need to realize that as much as you may want to you can not make someone love you if they don't already feel it in their heart. Thee faster you accept that the faster your heart will mend.
If it was broken by someone who cheated on you the fastest way to mend is accept that it...
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Do you feel the need to get revenge when someone wrongs you?
Revenge solves nothing. Sure you might feel good for a bit that you got back at someone who hurt you but a decent person will eventually feel remorse for getting even instead of just letting it go. The best revenge is to move past what someone did to hurt you and not let them have the satisfaction of knowing they hurt you.
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MEN: Would you dump a girl for making you wait a while before having sex?
Nope. Matter of fact I would dump the girl who was ready to drop her panties too quickly
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Name 5 Things Most Single Men Think About?
Sex
Beer
Sports
Food
Money
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What would your reaction be, if your daughter (over the age of 18) told you that she was in love with a man 30 years older than she?
I probably would not be keen on the idea and would probably try to reason with her but in the end it is ultimately her choice and if she is being treated well by her beau all I can do is be happy for her.
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How can a loving God send people to Hell?
You got it wrong. God doesn't send anyone to hell. We send ourselves to hell by choosing to be disobedient to his commandments. You can't be a fornicator an adultetrer a thief a liar a murderer etc and expect to go to heaven. If you choose the things of the world over the things of God that is your choice to make. Afterall God did give us all free agency to make our own choices. With...
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What religion (or lack of religion) do you follow and why?
I am a member of the church of Jesus Christ of latter day saints or a Mormon if you wish. I spent the first 20 years of my life as a Catholic and have investigated several. Churches and religions before meeting the elders. I found that the Mormons came the closest to answering all of my questions about my purpose for being here and what happens once this mortal existence ends.
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What do you want for Christmas 2006?
nobody can give me the one and only thing my heart truly desires. This will be my second Christmas without my sweetheart who passed away one year ago this coming Saturday. I wish I could have just one more Christmas with her but I guess ill have to wait to God calls ne back home for that. :(
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What do you want for Christmas 2006?
nobody can give me the one and only thing my heart truly desires. This will be my second Christmas without my sweetheart who passed away one year ago this coming Saturday. I wish I could have just one more Christmas with her but I guess ill have to wait to God calls ne back home for that. :(
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What did the fly on the wall/ceiling hear about your love life?
Its non existant
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What one thing sets you apart from everyone else...basically what do you think makes you special?
Absolutely nothing at all. I am no better or worse than anyone else.
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My bf thinks i dress 2 attract other men. I only do it though coz I like looking nice. He however doesnt want other ppl to see whats his but i dont think i dress revealing. sometimes i wear a lowish cut top/dress if im going out. Is this so wrong?
It sounds as if he is trying to control yo. First it starts with how you dress then its where you can go and can't go. Who you can and can't talk to etc. Put your foot down now before it is too late. Once you let him have control over one aspect of your life he will take that as permission to control every aspect of your life. Also men who usually exhibit that sort of controlling...
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Is tity fu*k possible with real boobs?
How old are you first of all? By the sound of your user name I'm willing to bet you are about 14 or so. Don't you think you are a bit too young to be engaging in any sort of sexual activities? An intimate relationship is something that is supposed to be reserved for someone special not done just because all the other girls are doing it and you don't want to be thought of as a...
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What is a store you shop at, That none of us would know about?
Unless you either live in or near kennsington Maryland or are an active Mormon who lives in the Washington d.c. temple district and actively visits the temple you would not have heard of an lds bookstore called this is the place.
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Who do you seem to piss off a lot?
Those who are out to prove that Mormonism is a cult and not a sect of Christianity
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If you lose everything at this moment, what do you still have of value in your life?
My faith in my god
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AB user, Major Tom, lost his wife Megan to an accident involving a bus, just 8 hours ago. Would you join me in expressing our condolences to him on the loss of his life partner just when he was planning his retirement with her in 2 years time?
Major Tom my heart goes out to you on the loss of your beloved Megan. Next Saturday November 14 will make 1 year since the girl I was hoping would e my wife lost her nearly 6 month battle with cancer. She was only 24 and had so much life left to live. I like you have wanted to give up on life. Many nights I found myself begging God to let me die because life without her was just too hard. I...
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What do you call the red stuff you put on spaghetti, sauce or gravy?
Technically it is sauce but in many Italian home in most of the northeastern states of the u.s.a. it is referred to as gravy for some odd reason.
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How did you decide what your fake name would be (the one you're using on this site, for example)? Was it inspired in part by your real name, or is it completely different?
It is the title of one of my all time favorite poems. It teaches us that no matter what our lot in life is every soul has worth in the eyes of our master lord and Savior Jesus Christ.
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Should Hideki Matsui have been awarded the MVP of the 2009 World Series given that he only played in three games?
Its not his fault. Matsui is what they call a designated hitter and unfortunately the stupid rules of the national league don't recognize designated hitters therefore he was not allowed to play in games 3 - 5 on philadelphia a national league park. If it wasn't for that dumb rule the Yankees probably would have wrapped it up in 5 games instead of 6.
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What annoys you most about the opposite gender and are you male or Female?
I'm male and what annoys me most about females is when they assume that all us men are pigs and dogs that need to be kept on a short leash because we can't be trusted. I especially hate it when a woman assumes that if she lets me buy her lunch or dinner that I'm going to be expecting her to get naked and have sex with me. Believe it or not ladies there are still some gentlemen...
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What is commitment to you? (in a relationship)
Being there for each other in the bad times as well as the good ones. Putting your partner's needs aheadof your own. Learning to overlook the small stuff that causes so many of the big fights. Giving your 100% to making things work. Being willing to do the small stuff that makes your partner happy even if you find it boring stupid embarassing etc. But most importantly making sure that you...
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Why is the existance of god such a debate, could it not be fine either way
I am a believer in God. I could care less if someone chooses not to believe. I think the reason it is such a debated issue is because many on both sides of the issue are way too focused on trying to force their opinion on the other side.
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Is Jehovah’s Witnesses a False religion
I am not one myself and while I disagree with most of what they believe in I would not say their re ligion is. false.
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I'm into a guy who is way shy, and I'm PRETTY SURE he likes me, but I also know he'll never make the first move, and I don't want to. Is this just doomed?
I agree with the confused one's comment. Many times when someone is shy it's a sign of low self esteem. If you want to get through toim and win him over pay him honest and sincere compliments. Let him know how special you think he is. Build up his self confidence and I gurantee you will hook your man.
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I left my husband and he took my kids out of state the police wont help me because we are still married,I miss my kids how can I get them back?
How long were you gone from him before he took the kids out of state? Also why did did you leave to begin with? I promise you if it was because of another man or woman in case you decided you're lesbian he is going to make you out to be the biggest whore in the world and any judge in their right mind would question why any good decent fit mother would abandon her kids. Please...
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Have you ever hurt someone and now wish you could apologize to them?
Yes there is someone who did nothing but try to be a real friend to me. Instead of me accepting that and letting things be I went and pushed her away by assuming she was going to br no different than everyone else in my life who treated me like garbage. Even though everything she did showed otherwise. I guess I really hurt her because as much as I have tried to apologize to her she still wont...
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Do you ever think about ways to improve yourself, ways to be a better person, or do thoughts like those make you uncomfortable so you avoid them?
I think about it all the time. Fortunately for me I have a handy little guide that helps me to know how to become a better person. It's called following the example set for us all by Jesus Christ. I just open up the Scriptures and read about the perfect example he set for us all and I do my very best to follow his example each day in my own life.
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How do you overcome shyness? I am so shy I can hardly talk to people. I'm 33 and guys flirt all the time but I haven't been on a date in years because I can't talk to people without blushing and getting uncomfortable.
Alot like you and im I'm 47 I think you just need to work a lirttle on your self confidence is all
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How does the muslim world produce so many suicide bombers?
First let me say that being a suicide bomber has absolutely nothing to do with being a true Muslim. Usually the ones who eventually end up as suicide bombers are first brainwashed by radical extremist clerics who convince them that their lot in life is all the fault of the greedy Jews and the evil Westerners who blindly stand behind them, their Zionist policies, and their Zionist state. Often...
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Would you finish somebody else's drink (out of there glass etc )?
It depends if it was someone I knew real well then sure.
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Should divorce AND gay marriage be illegal?
Sure but only after they make being an overzealous religious nutbag who tries to cram their deluded sense of moral values down everyone's throats punishable by death.
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What was the year of your 1st birthday?
1963.
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Would you consider doing a background check on someone you were dating?
If I was planning on running for office or I was rich and concerned about getting ripped off. I would get one Doonesbury, done
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Your little sister just got beat up by her boyfriend.....what would you do?
Make sure he has sufficient life insurance so my sister won't have to worry about how she will pay for his burial after he takes a few shotgun blasts to the head.
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Okay, you broke up with your s/o and got the ring back you gave them. What do you do with it?
Anything you want except giving it to another person. The tackiest thing you can do is recycle a ring you got for an ex. That's. Why I slipped the one I got for my last girl on her finger right before they closed the lid on her casket.
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What is wrong with NOT believing in god?
There is absolutely nothing wrong with it. That is the beauty of God giving man free agency. You can believe in him or not. The choice is yours.
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Have you ever made a promiss that there was no way you could possible you could keep it?
Well a little moreover than 11 months ago I made a promise to the girl I was planning to marry that I would not waste my life crying over her and I would move on to love someone else if I lost her. Yesterday made 11 months since. She died and I still haven't let go and moved on yet
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A gal I know bought the linked item [below this question] from a GF of hers & complains that it isn't helping her to get a man with whom she can have lotsa sex. The device, she claims, is called a "STUD FINDER." Why won't it help her find a guy to love?
If she wants a random Guy just to scree her brains out she can go to any bar or night club and I gurantee you the guys looking for just a little pussy will be all over her like flies on dog shit on a hot day. If however she wants a man she can settle down and make a life with she should consider church singles functions or maybe volunteering for something where there is sure to be lots ofmen...
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Do you feel sorry for people who live on the street?
Only for those who are homeless through no fault of their own
. I don't feel sorry for those who put their drug or alcohol addictions or other addictions such as gambling etc ahead of their financial responsibililitu to their landlord or mortgage company. They are homeless because of their bad choices and I have no pity for people like that.
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Will you dumped your girlfriend/wife if she called you ugly?
It all depends. If it was said one time in the heat of an arguement I would let it slide. If however she is constantly saying it then it could be considered borderline mental abuse and thar is usually grounds for a divorce.
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In heaven, who or what on earth would miss most?
Nothing. And no one I would be back with the love of. My life so there would not be time to missanyone or anything
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How do i remove a broken driverside door hinge mercedes benz (2009-09-26)
If. You can afford to drive a $60 plus thousand dollar luxury car you certainly afford a.Mechanic to fix it.
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Do you think that single people like being single?
I am single but not real fond of it. Unfortunately being in a relationship right now would be a big mistake for me.
This Monday 9/14/09 will be exactly 10 months to the day that I lost the girl I wanted to spend my whole life with. She passed away and I feel like I have not fully let go of her yet. So until I feel like I am over her and ready to move on the biggest mistake I can make for...
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Who is the most loving person in the world for you?(parents friends or girlfriend etc.)
for me it was my last g/f. She always had this way of making me feel completely loved even when I was an ass and didn't deserve her love.
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Why r u breaking up with me?
Breaking up with you no you're mistaken I was about to ask you to marry me now back away from the sharp objects sweetie. No one needs to get hurt. lol
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What were u doing today..8 years ago?
Watching all the horror unfold at the World Trade Center from my office window in Queens NY.:( I lost my best friend from HS that morning.
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What is the biggest mistake you have seen your best friend make?
Turning her back on me and giving up an almost 2 year very close friendship because her lesbian lover can't handle the rumors about me having deep feelings for my friend that go beyond just simple friendship.
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Would you date a flat chested girl?
I don't date girls for the size of their chest. If she had alot of the qualities I look for in a partner why should I care if she had no boobs.
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Is it wrong for a older woman to date a much younger man? she is 39 he is 21
Sweetheart as long as you both love each other and are both mature enough not to play child parent with each other in other words he doesn't become dependent on you for everything and you don't try to run his life like he's your kid instead of your b/f then I see no issues with your relationship.
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Are you sure you're not cheating on me?
Wow I wasn't even aware that we were having a relationship for me to be able to cheat on you lmao
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I'm 19 years old and I have never had a boyfriend. I'm not sure why because I see girls who are less pretty than me with boyfriends. I've never even had that close of a guy friend either. Am I giving off some kind of stay away from me vibe?
Maybe you're giving off the I'm a stuck up little bitch who thinks she is God's greatest gift to the male species and losers need not apply vibe. Just a thought
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What would you do or say if someone accused you of something you did NOT do, but they kept insisting that you did?
I recently lost a good friend because of false accusations. Everyone swore I was madly inlove with her because I always stood up for her to people who liked to talk trash about her. She swore the rumors had to be true because too many people were accusing me of harboring these hidden feelings. She stopped being my friend because she believes everyone who thinks I'm inlove with her. I just...
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What is it when people remarry 3 - 4 times. My ex married 3 times wanted to marry me but we seperated 4 months ago and he is now marrying another woman. Is this a mental health issue, he used speed heavily and now drinks heavily.?
Some people have a fear of being alone and their religious or moral values won't allow them to just move in with someone without being husband and wife first. So they jump into a marriage they are not ready for just to avoid being alone.
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When was the last time you attended a funeral?
Almost 10 months ago when I buried my girlfriend. It was by far the most difficult funeral I ever attended
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My ex-boyfriend from high school tried to get in touch with me after 11yrs.I'm married now,is it wrong to call him?
Well that would depend. If he has made his intentions known and he is looking to rekindle what you once had it is very wrong especially if you still have feelings for him.
If on the other hand though you know that you love your husband and it's over between you and this former lover unless again he has made it clear he expects to rekindle the past there is no harm in calling him to...
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What do u do when your madly in love with a celebrity that doesn't know u even exist?
Get serious psychological help before you end up behind prison bars for stalking
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How sexy do you think you are on a scale from 1-10? 1 being a nun (unless you find that hot.)
honestly probably a 1 or 2 maybe even lower who knows
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Have you ever had your heart broken by the same person more than once?
Nope I live by the mantra screw me over once shame on you screw me over again shame on me. I generally don't stick around long enough to get screwed over a 2nd time.
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Will Lucas Smith go down in history as the person that said, "The Emperor has no clothes on?"
First let it be known I am not an Obama supporter nor do I particularly care for his politics. However the claims Mr Smith makes mean nothing. Obama Could have been born in Kenya as the video claims however they are forgetting one fact. Both his parents were citizens of the U.S. at the time of his birth therefore making him a U.S. citizen
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When you need a shoulder to lean on, whose shoulders do you turn to?
I lean on the one person who has always been there for me throughout most of my life and who has never turned his back on me even when I chose to turn my back on him. My Heavenly Father of course. He is always there when I need him and loves me no matter what.
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Why im jealous about her by this way even when the people shake her hand Think why they touch her hand why don't say only hi :( duno :(?
Dude if you're going to get all paranoid over someone just shaking your g/f's hand then you don't belong in a relationship. Take my advice and stay single before you end up in jail for killing either your g/f or some guy who pisses you off because he touched her hand.
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How do I punish my 15 year old daughter, Taylor for bedwetting, she is way too old to be doing it
Instead of figuring out how to punish her you should be taking her to a urologist immediately if not sooner. At her age it could be a sign of a serious physical problem like a urinary tract infection or something more serious.
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If a guy has cyber-sex with a girl and he has a gf...but he tells you it was just a fantasy and thats it, is it really just that, or is there more? Will it end at that or continue?
If this relates to you personally you need to sit down and have a very serious chat with your boyfriend to find out what is missing in your relationship that he feels the need to cyber cheat on you with someone else. It's very disrespectful and no way for anyone to treat someone they are supposed to love and care for.
If you are the one cybercheating with a guy who already has a g/f...
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Honeslty guys do you prefer sluts over good girls..I dont think you want to admit it but i THINK SO...
Sweetheart just because your man burned you doesn't mean all guys are the same. I will not lie I have been with one or two girls in my life who could be considered sluts but beyond the sex there was nothing else going on to sustain a healthy long lasting relationship.
When it comes to romance and real love I prefer the nice decent girls because there is more than just hot nasty sex...
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How do u no if some1 iz interested in u?
I wouldn't be able to tell you. Short of someone coming straight out and telling me they liked me and wanted a relationship I would never know.
I have misread signals so many times and ended up with my heart broken in the end that the only thing that works for me now is a woman being direct and to the point if she wants to date me.
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Are those people in your past whom you remember most fondly the "Movers and Shakers" or the quiet ones?
the quiet ones
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Do you think you can tell if someone is lying or whether they are being genuine?
Obviously I have a hard time doing that. About 18 months ago I met this really great woman at work. We hit it off instantly and became great friends.
She would always give me great advice was always telling me how much she loved me and how glad she was that we were friends then she decided she was meant to be a lesbian. She hooked up with this other girl at work and they have been heavily...
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How much rejection can a person take before giving up on dating? Should I just give up on finding love altogether? I'm 49, should I just resign myself to life alone?
I feel the same as you do hon. I married my first real girlfriend she turned out to be a lying cheating slut.
Got involved with a woman I met online she turned out to be a psycho with severe trust issues who made my life hell til I woke up and realized I deserved better
Against my better judgement I got involved in a romantic relationship at age 46 with a 23 y/o it was by far the...
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I want to date outside my race...am I wrong for that. Black men have turned me off so bad I'd rather be single for the rest of my life then date one of them again. But I am very attracted to Italian men, am I wrong to think this way?
I don't think you are wrong in the least bit. If that is what you prefer then so be it. No one has a right to judge you or tell you that you are wrong for preferring a certain type of man.
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Does rejection ever stop hurting?
Eventually it does. You wake up one day and realize that the person who rejected you is a loser who wasn't worthy of you love anyway and you move on to something much better.
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Has anyone in your family ever stolen your identity? What did you do about it?
Fortunately no but if anyone did it would depend on how close to them I was and how much damage they did.If it was someone I loved very much and the damage wasn't alot I would be angry but would probably forgive them.
If I didn't care much for them or the damage was way beyond what I could ever fix you better believe I am prosecuting to the fullest extent the law allows.
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Does your Mother-in-law remind you of Doris Roberts' character 'Marie' from "Everybody loves Raymond"?...LOL...
No but my almost future father in law did. My g/f was his baby his pride and joy the love and light of his life and I think he sometimes forgot that she was a grown adult capable of making her own choices and decisions in life.
I think he still saw her as hios sweet innocent little girl who still needed him to watch out for her and protect her from the men of the world
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Why do men go after younger women, cant they find women their own age? Or are they threatened by the work of having a woman, so the idea of a younger women seem less work?
From some of your comments and the tone of your question it sounds like your boyfriend/husband dumped you for a younger model. He was an ass for doing so and mark my word he will eventually regret his mistake.
With that being said not every guy who gets involved with someone significantly younger than themselves does it to prove something.
I was almost 41 when I met my last g/f who...
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Are you single? If not, do you miss the single life?
I'm single and it sucks. Unfortunately I lost someone who I loved with all my heart nearly a year ago and still haven't recovered fully from losing her way before she should have been taken. Because of that I feel the biggest mistake I could make right now would be to get involved with someone else when I am still not over losing my last g/f
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Name any one thing you want back in your life?
A friend who turned her back on me because her girlfriend couldn't handle me admitting I had feelings for her and felt I was a threat to their relationship
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Do you know any guy who never wears a belt?
I only wear a belt when I am dressed down (jeans, shorts etc)which is only on Saturdays Sunday through Friday I wear either a suit or dress slacks and a shirt and tie when I dress like that I use suspenders as opposed to a belt
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How long did you stay with your cheating spouse/partner before you finally left the relationship?
Not very long maybe 6 months if even that after I found out she was cheating. I tried but I could not just trust her again and it caused alot of friction in our marriage which I felt was unhealthy for my son who was almost 10 at the time to see so I made the difficult decision to leave and eventually divorce her so my son wouldn't have to grow up watching his parents constantly fight and...
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Should I lose more weight to impress my boyfriend, we've been together for more then a year and I'm scared he's getting bored of me.... So guys, should I shed somemore pounds? (If no, what should I do?)
Never ever change a single thing about yourself to make others happy. If you are happy with yourself then find yourself a man who can be happy with you just as you are. There are lots of men who would love you for the person you are inside without much concern for what is visible to the naked eye.
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Do you still visit your relative's grave?(Parent or person that raised you)
My Mom who I love and adore is still alive at almost 71 years of age. My dad or as I call him the sperm donor has been dead for almost 22 years and he can go to hell for all I care.
There is one person's grave hpowever who was almost related to me that I visit quite regularly in the last almost 10 months since her death and that is the girl I almost married.
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What qualities do you look for in the other person when dating or for marriage?
I would like someone who is kindhearted. Who can look past the outside and see someone for all the beauty they posess inside. Someone who has a sense of humor and can laugh at life when things seem darkest. Someone whgo will accept me as is and not try to mold me into what their idea of the perfect boyfriend is.
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What would be the impact on health care costs if obesity, smoking, drug abuse, and alcoholism were eliminated?
While all of the problems you listed do contribute to the high cost of health care in the U.S. they pale in comparrison to the real scourge of the healthcare system. Greedy lawyers who sue doctors and hospitals for every little thing therefore driving up the costs of malpractice insurance.
If there weren't so many damned greedy malpractice lawyers in the United States ready to sue for...
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What genre book are you reading right now?
I'm reading a book called Symbols and Shadows Unlocking a deeper understanding of the Attonement. I guess it's genre would be religious.
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Are you now, or have you ever been involved in a love triangle?
Don't know if this counts but I have some pretty strong feelings for someone who is taken. I won't tell her though. My lips are sealed for now but if her and her partner ever break up you bet I'm going to jump all over that.
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Do you know who your child's father is?
I am the father of my son poor kid looks just like his old man so no denying he's mine lol.
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Are you currently cheating on your spouse?(I won't tell them!..LOL)
That requires having a spouse and since I don't even have a girlfriend that would be a no.
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I have a 2 year contract with my cellphone comp and I need a new phone mine is broke. My brother has insurance for his against theft. If he says his phone got stolen they will send him a new one (which I will use) Will they burn his SIM CARD OR OLD PHONE?
More than likely your brother's carrier will disable the old sim card once the new one is activated therefore that idea will not work.
If the phone just stopped working and it has been less than a year the phone is more than likely still under warrenty and you should be able to get it fixed through the warrenty.
Also if you originally purchased the phone with a credit card you...
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If you could wake up tomorrow speaking a foreign language fluently, which would it be?
Seeing how my Father's family if from there I would say Italian
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Why are the good guys always gay?
Not all of us are gay. I think the problem you may be having in finding a straight good guy is alot of us are not what most women would consider hot so we get passed by because most of you women are looking for looks as well as a nice personality.
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Guys, do you wear panties?
Nope don't wear regular underwear at all. As a Temple worthy member of the LDS Church I wear my Temple Garments or as some jokingly call them Mormon Magic Underwear
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Is it legal to seek revenge after your ex rips you off like could you make life difficult for her
You probably could so long as you don't cross the line and get stupid but in all honesty why bother? What will you gain from getting revenge on her other than feeling good about getting even for a few brief moments?
She probably thought she was hurting you and screwing you over good when she did what she did. The best kind of revenge would be to just let go and not let her see that...
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I say companies and the rich don't actually pay taxes. You say?
That is not entirely true. They may not pay their fair share but the majority of corporations and the wealthy pay some taxes.
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What is a smell that reminds you of a loved one?
White Diamonds perfume. It was my last g/f's favorite. I can still smell it every now and then and all is right with the world to know she is at peace now and no longer suffering in pain.
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Who would you say is the most beautiful person you have ever seen?
My beloved sweetheart who paased away almost 10 months ago. I never saw anyone even close to as beautiful as she was. Then again I was inlove with her so I guess I was a bit prejudiced lol.
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Who is your most difficult relationship with, and why?
The father of the last girl I dated and came close to getting engaged to before she was suddenly taken home by God.
Two reasons 1 he is only 2 years older than me and 2 I brainwashed his sweet innocent daughter into getting baptized into the non biblical jesus worshipping cult called The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints (Mormon)
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What mends a broken heart? this could be funny or serious... =]
When you figure it out let me know so I can fix mine.
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Is it bad to have bloody stool?
It could be nothing serious or it could be a sign of internal bleeding or worse intestinal or colon cancer you need to see a doctor at once.
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What famous person died in this century that you would have liked to meet and have a coffee with?
Former President of the United States Ronald Wilson Reagan. I admired him a grea deal and think he would have been an interesting person to speak with
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Guys: What do you prefer in a girl...make up, fake nails/tan, hair extensions etc or a natural girl? Can you see true beauty?
I like a natural beauty thank you. all this fake make up nails hair tan etc is totally unecessary.
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If you had an opposite sex friend you were very close with for longer than you have been with your s/o and your s/o didn't like how close you were with them and asked you to back away from them who would win your s/o or your friend?
Hands down my friend would win. I could care less if I ended up single for life. I despise jealous partners especially when I have done nothing to make them jealous of my friends. If they can't handle me having female friends they can take a hike.
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Date, marry or remain single?
Well seeing how I am 47 in a dead end job where I will more than likely end up always making just enough to barely exist I would say my prospects for dating and getting married are very slim.
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I was fired for "Gross Misconduct" in that I used the "F" word toward a fellow employee. It was said in this way "Why the "F" did you do that"? it was said where no customers heard it, it was just between he and I. 8 days later I was terminated
So let me get this straight. You used profane language in the workplace towards a fellow employee and you are wondering why you were fired.
Most companies have a zero tolerance police towards abusive and profan language in the workplace irregardless of whether ot not it is used towards a customer or co worker. More than likely your company had such a policy and you violated it by using the...
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Would you give more tips to male waiter or female waiter?
I tip the same most of the time irregardless of sex however I have occasionally given a female waitress a little bit of a larger tip when she has been overly flirty and friendly with me.
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Do you think it's selfish for a teen to give up their baby for adoption?
No I think it is a very couragous decision on her part. Moreso than just having it legally murdered through an abortion.
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Can you smile even when your heart is breaking?
I do sometimes but am not always sucessful.
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If you could meet (in person) any other Answerbagger, who would it be?
you for starters lol just kidding or am I? muahhaha lol
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In your life, is there a friend, who you connect with so well. That it feels as if you're two parts of the same whole?
There was someone like you descrie until recently. Unfortunately I made the mistake of letting her know that I had feelings for her that went deeper than just simple friendship and her lesbian lover forced her to cut me off as a friend because she couldn't handle her being firneds with someone who had feelings for her even though I promised as a honorable individule that I would not...
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Yo, your wife spent the night with me last night, you ok with that?
you mean my ex wife of almost 13 years you can have the slut hope she didn't give you any std's
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Is there anything you would willingly give your life for?
My faith and my loved ones.
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What kind of people do you hate to argue with? For me is ignorant, stubborn, small minded dumbass people who think that the world revolves around them.
I hate arguing with certain Evangelical Christians who believe that anyone who doesn't interpret scripture exactly as they do is not a true christian and in fact is not a christian at all but a cult.
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I cheated on my boyfriend of 11 months. I told him about it and he said that he would give it a chance. Tonight he came in, after 3 weeks of us making a go of it and said that it was too hard. I love him so much. How do I win him back?
Sweetheart you should have thought of that before you opened your legs and let another man who wasn't your boyfriend fuck you. It's too late now for winning him back and I can't say I blame him. You cheated, You were wrong, and now you are paying the price. Learn from your mistakes move on to someone else and don't cheat again.
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Do Women like to target men who are not single?
Some women just like some men have no pride or shame when it comes to who they are attracted to and weill purposely pursue someone they know is taken simply becuase usually all they are after is a good fuck and with someone who is already in a relationship there's a good chance that they don't have to worry about the person wanting something more than just a roll in the hay.
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What nationality are you? List all please?
I was born in the United States as far as my ethnic background goes my father's family is from Italy and my mom's family is from Ireland
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What is the largest age difference in dating acceptable by you?
I'm 47 so it would be 29 years younger at max seeing how any lower would be illegal
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What are some things to bear in mind when deciding to enter into a relationship with a 22 year age difference?
Think about how you feel about each other. Can you both overcome the stares and rude comments form those who don';t think it's appropriate? Will you be able to refrain from acting the role of parent and child? Do you think your love for each other is stron enough to overcome the obstacles you will face?
Last year shortly after my 46th birthday I got romantically involved with a...
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When the LDS Missionaries proselytize around LA, do they ever visit Compton and Watts?
The 1st priority of the mission president is to ensure the safety of the full time missionaries. I am not sure how Compton and Watts are now but I remember when I was in the area back in the Mid 80's it was like the wild wild west there with constant shootings all the time.
If it is still as dangerous as it was back then I am sure unless they had an appointment in that area they would...
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Does anyone else miss their significant other right now?
I've missed her like hell ever since 7:12 PM on Friday, November 14, 2008 the moment she took her final breath on this earth n I will more than likely continue to miss her until the day we are back in each other's arms again for the rest of eternity.
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Ladies, if you have a guy friend that you know for 4 years and you like him and you ask him for a shoulder/neck massage from time to time, would you get mad if one time he gives you a quick kiss on the cheek after a massage?
Dude I know you addressed this to the ladies but I can't help putting my 2 cents in here. Any girl who would get pissed over you giving them a simple quick kiss on the cheek after a massage is not your real friend.
If she got pissed over something as innocent as that it means she is taking the kiss to mean you like her as more than a friend and her getting mad is a sign she...
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Whats the best way to talk to a random girl on say, a train? without looking like a perv or weirdo.
Show interest in something she is wearing or carrying. For example if she is reading a book you could say something like what's that you're reading or if you know what it is and you're familiar with it start a conversation about one of the characters you found interesting.
If she's wearing perfume ask her what kind of perfume she is wearing as you like the smell and...
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What would you rather have. sleeping with 5000 attractive people, or sleeping with one perfect person 5000 times?
I'd chose the one perfect person. I had her for a few brief months til God had other plans for her. I wouldn't trade that time with her for anything in the world.
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Aren't long distance relationships just stupid if you really think about it?
If you're talking about completely or mostly online relationships then yes they are very stupid.I would never get involved with a girl online who lived more than a 2-3 hour bus or train ride from me. If I have to fly to her that gets quite expensive and I wouldn't be able to see her face to face as much as I would want to and having a completely online relationship is the most...
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What percent of women are attracted to older men?
It depends on the range in age we are talking about. if it's just a few years I would say probably like 99% of females go for older guys. If your talking the 18 or 19 y/o dating a 30ish or older guy then the stats are a bit more lower.
You don't see alot of May December relationships anymore as you did 100 or so years ago. Back then it was very common for 13 or 14 y/o girls to be...
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I have the latest 80gb ps3. The only problem is that it only has two usb ports. Is there an external device that allows me to have several usb ports that can connect to the ps3? I have multiple stuff to connect to it at once. . .thanks in advance.
Check with someone in the electronics department at a place like best buy. I know that they do sell external usb hubs which can provide additional usb connections for a pc but I am not certain if it will work for the PS3
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Whats the difference between the HTML and URL?
A URL Short for Uniform Rewsource language is just basically a web address you know www.answerbag.com etc and so forth.
HTML Which is short for Hyper Text Markup Language is a form of code used in designing a website.
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Do you and your SO think a lot alike or are you the classic example of "opposites attract"?
In relation to my last s/o since I am not currently in a relationship for reasons that will shortly become obvious we were a classic case of opposites attract.
She was 23.5 beautiful to the point of literally being able to have pretty much any guy she wanted outgoing friendly great sense of humor didn't take life so seriously.
I was 46 a bit on the chunky side very average...
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I really want to be in a relationship. It's been a really long time but I don't even have anyone in mind and no one I would ever consider going out with is intersted in me. What should I do?
Stop being so damned picky. Take time to get to know someone for who they are inside and maybe you won't find the outside so unattractive. Looks aren't everything and in time they will fade however a beautiful personality is usually forever.
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Guys what would you REALLY think of a woman who showed all on a web cam?
Hey whatever floats her boat unless of course she was my wife or g/f then she better only be showing all to me otherwise she won't be my wife or g/f for very long after I find out that is what she is doing.
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What's your definition of "heaven on earth"?
It used to be in the eyes and arms of my beautiful sweetheart til a little more than 9 months ago when she passed away.
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Is it normal for a married person to get emotionally or sexually attracted to somebody else? My husband is a sweet guy who says that he loves me lot.
It's usually a clear indicator that there is serious trouble in the marriage or something is lacking. If it's you that is feeling this way toward another person then I would sit down and ask myself in all honesty what is lacking in my marriage that I am finding myself attracted to this other person.
Once you have the answer then you sit down with hubby and be as honest as you...
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My fiancee talks at least once a week to her ex from 22 years ago. She tells me they just talk and that he never asks to meet. He is married too. Would this be cheating?
Unless they are telling each other that they love the other and mean it in more than just a friendly way or they are having intimate conversation talkingt is not cheating.Sunds to me like you are jealous of her talking to her ex. Let me tell you from personal experience. Keep that shit to yourself because if you say something every time her talking to another guy upsets you she will think you...
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Does part of the Utah Sales Tax go to the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints?
I highly doubt it
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The husband who is writing an old love platonically, admitted to his wife that the Old Love said she loved him as always in the one phone call they had before the e-mails. Wife knew about the call but not that little item. Does this change anything?
Just because he admitted that his old flame admitted she still has feelings for him doesen't necessarily mean anything. Maybe he is just trying to make his wife jealous to see if she really does love him. You really haven't provided enough detail to say whether or not this wife has anything to be concerned about.
Unelss he is telling this old flame he loves her too or she has...
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What do you think of a man who is just divorced, meets a woman online, then in person, and in two weeks states his undying love and that they are partners for life? He's 60.
I'd say he is desperate. I could care less if they had a 10 year online relationship. It is impossible to know within 2 weeks of meeting someone in person that this is the person you want to comitt your life to unless you are lonely and desperate for companionship.
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Are you married?
Unfortunately no. Haven't found someone desperate enough for a husband to want to marry the likes of me.
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Im in love with a man who is engaged to someone else. he had asked me before but i wasnt ready. now i am. he says he want to be with me yet i am aware they are planning a wedding. what do a do?
Sweetheart you gave up any claim to him the day you decided you weren't ready for a comitted relationship with him. He has someone else now and even if she isnj't yet his wife you need to back off and find someone else. If you choose not to heed this advise you will regret it somewhere down the road.
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A friend of mine told me, everyone has something ugly about them,as well as something beautiful about them, do you agree?
I guess that's true especially in my case. From a physical standpoint I am not very attractive. From an inner qualities standpoint most things about me are beautiful however I do tend to have a short fuse which results in my sometimes saying things I regret later on out of anger.
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My friends brag about having sex with their boyfriends. Both of them swore to stay virgins until they graduated...they both broke their vows. i have kept my so far. i love my boyfriend of two years, i want to, but i swore to myself i wouldnt. HELP!!!!
First off sweetheart unless you were in the room with them and wittnessed your friends having sex how do you know they aren't lying to you just to be show off's? If they actually did break their vow to remain virgins that's their problem.
Don't let the fact that your friends may or may not have lost their virginity make you do something you may end up regretting later...
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They say revenge has a price. I say revenge is so sweet, no matter what the price it's always a bargain. Revenge isn't wrong it's justice. Do you agree or disagree and/or what are your thoughts on this statement?
Personally I think revenge is for losers. The best kind of revenge is moving on with your life and not letting the person who hurt you see the pain they caused you. Make them think you are so over it and you have moved on. That is the best kind of revenge.
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People talk about fake breast, but I say if they can be touched they are real. What do you say?
Well you are partially right. The outside is very real. It's what's underneath the outer layer of skin that makes them fake.It used to be silicone but ever since the big controversey a few years back I am not sure what they are using thses days to make em bigger.
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Is it wrong to ask ur boyfriend of two yrs not to takl on the phone with other girls? espeaily ones hes been involved with
If you're that insecure why are you still with him? If he is having intimate conversations with them or saying inappropriate things that is one thing. But just holding normal everyday coinversation with them there is no reason for you to be jealous.
I'm going through the bullshit you're trying to put your b/f through from my best friends lesbian lover. She's jealous of...
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Is socialized health care in America. Good or
Bad?
It's a bad idea because of the sheer cost alone would destroy the U.S.Economy What all you assholes that are screaming for socialized medicine fdail to realize is that it has to be paid for somehow.
In a place like most European countries the population is nowhere near that of the U.S. So it is not a strain on the economy and people are not being taxed large portions of their income...
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Do you ever want to go off on a customer at your job?
I'm an administrative Assistant for a debt collection agency so I don't have external customers to deal with. I deal with all levels of management and the collectors themselves and there are a few I have wanted to punch in the face on more than one occasion.
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I am dating a guy for almost a year now. He claim to love me but he is living with another woman. I did not know that he is living with a woman when we first started dating. He spends alot of time with me and have introduced me to his family and friends.
Is he romantically or sexually involved with this woman he is living with or are they just roommates? If they are just roommates then you are good. If they have a relationship then as hard as it will be for you you must dump him.
If he lied to you about not having another girlfriend already what else could he be lying about. Also if he is willing to play this girl dirty with you what...
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If you could go back in a time machine would you help Jesus escape prosecution? why?
Even if I wanted to try Jesus would not let me. He knew all along that it was part of Heavenly Father's divine plan that he and only he was to be sacrified on the cross so that mankind could be saved from the spiritual death brought into the world by Adam and Eve's disobedience to God;'s command that they not eat of the fruit.
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Where do you come from?
I was born and raised most of my life in Brooklyn NY
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Do guys like when us gals know how to cook?
While I am a really good cook I do love it when the person I am involved with has some sort of understanding of what is going on in the kitchen. She doesn't need to be a suzy homemaker but it's nice to have someone who at least knows how to boil a pit of water without burning it lol.
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Who would be the man of your dreams? why?
Since I am a man that would be the woman of my dreams. She's kind hearted, sweet, has a great sense of humor,looks past the outside packaging and sees people for who they are in their hearts, affectionate, Physically she would be around 5 ft or so. Preferably with dark hair and beautiful green eyes age and body type don't mater much so long as she is over 21. I do prefer a real woman...
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What is your favorite scripture in the Bible?
'Greater love hath no man than this, that he lay down his life for his friends". John 15:13
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What is a good joke to tell her on a first date
Well unless They are either Muslim,from the Middle East, or are sympathetic to the plight of the palastinian people th
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When Osama bin Laden died, he was met at the pearly gates
by George Washington, who slapped him across the face and
yelled: "How dare you try to destroy the nation I helped conceive!"
Patrick Henry approached, punched him in...
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Are you shy or outgoing?
shy til I get to know you then you will wish you could get me to shut up lol
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How can I tell my parents im with a black guy without them getting really mad? they always told me not to date anyone out of my race...but i love him so much and he wants to meet my parents..what on earth do i do??
If you are over 18 and on your own screw them it's your life. If this guy makes you happy then that is all that you should be concerned with.
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Do you phone God when you want a chat or do you wait for him to phone you? ;)
I talk to God several times a day. I thank him for all that I have and for his great love for me even when I don't feel I truly deserve it. I ask him to tell my sweetheart how much I love and miss her and how I am not angry with him anymore for taking her home before we had a chance to really build a life and a family together. I ask him to help me to be an instrument in helping to bring...
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What would you think if i said i was in love with somebody who was 4 times my age?
If you are 18 or older good for you. I hope it works out. If you are under 18 in many places your love interest would be considered a child predator and could face a long jail sentence.
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Fellow AB'rs:Did you know that God loves you so very much, and that what he has to offer is ETERNAL and completely and utterly life changing?
I know How much he lovee me and you and all of his children. His love for us was so great that he gave us his only Son Jesus Christ and allowed him to suffer in the garden and die on the cross so that we may be washed clean of our sins through his Son's holy blood.
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What do kids ask that make there parents hearts drop to the floor?
For me it was 9 months ago when my girlfriends 5 y/o nephew asked me why everyone was so sad and why his Auntie couldn't get up from the funny looking bed (a casket) and come play with him.
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When was the last time you went out to eat?
Last weekend I went out to eat with some friends at my favorite local diner.
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Where do you love to go out to eat at and will go back over and over again?
There's this little Italian place in South Philly called Mamma Maria's that I just love and I can go there every day if I was wealthy enough to afford it .
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If you could have one thing, anything, what would it be?
To have a friend I lost awhile ago because of some dumb shit I did back. I realize now what a fool I was and would give anything in this world if she could just believe how sorry I am for being such an ass and forgive me for my mistakes
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Would you be a great person to marry?
It all depends on what the woman is looking for. If she want's a hottie with a great body and smokin hot looks or someone who is loaded and can spoil her rotten with the finer things in life I would be a rotten catch for that kind of woman.
If however she wants a man who is kind and sweet and would make her feel like a queen and go out of his way to make her happy I guess I would be a...
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What does one have to do to be considered a waste of human life to you?
rapists and child molestors people who lie and manipulate others just to get what they want people who think they are God's gift to the opposite sex (or the same sex if they're homosexual) and that they are above most people.
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Are you single & why are you?
yeah but it's by choice so i'm happy about it
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Do you want someone so badly,...but know they will never be yours?
Well yeah. I'm crazy about a great friend from work but she has recently decided that she has been lying to herself about being straight all her life and has accepted she is gay and has started a relationship with another woman at work.
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What do you think of open relationships, does anyone know anyone who does this and does it work for them?or do you have this sort of relationship?
Not sure if this qualifies but a friend of mine used to get off on his wife fucking other men. Sometimes she would go out with the men alone and come home with their mess still inside of her and tell him every sordid detail while they had sex and other times they would entretain her lovers right at home as he either got to watch or got to listen in from the living room as she was getting done...
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Does love comes only once in our life or it comes a several times
It took 46 years to walk into my life. Well actually it walked into my life when I was 40.5 years old but it would take me 3 years to realize that and almost another 3 years to let others opinions not affect me.
She was just barely 18 when we met and it was at her 21st birthday that I realized I was falling inlove with her.It would take me near 3 more years to tell her because of fear of...
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By age 16, how many partners had you had?
0 I didn't have my first real girlfriend til I was 21. I was 24.5 years old 3 plus years lattwer when we got married and until the night of our wedding we never went beyond just some kissing and a little heavy petting.
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Have you had a Blizzard?
It's been a long time but yes I have had a blizzard and from what I remwember of it it was quite delicious.
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When you are on a date, which food is no good to order?
If it's a first date I wouldn't worry so much about smelly foods as I don't plan on getting more than a handshake after the date is over or at tops maybe a goodnight kiss on the cheek. I would however stay away from anything that is messy like ribs as I don't want to leave a bad impression on my date whenI'm covered in bbq sauce or something like that.
If I have...
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If your s/o had a friend that you knew was romantically interested in your s/o but you knew your s/o loved you and would never give this person the right time of the day yet they wanted to remain friends with this person would you be ok with it?
It would be so easy for me to say that I would trust her and not have an issue with it but in reality I think to be honest I would be somewhat uncomfortable with my g/f (if I had one)remaining friends with someone I knew had romantic feelings towards her. And it's not so much about trusting her but more about being uncomfortable with the other guy feeling that way about her and not...
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My husband says he'd never cheat, but I found out he'd been to a strip club - friends wanted to go & he couldn't say no. He won't talk about his "visits"- says it was at least 4 years ago. Should I worry?
The real problem here is not the fact he went to the strip club but that he had to blame his friends for doing it. I am 47 and can honestly say I have never once set foot inside a strip club or nudie bar or any other place like that. I have had friends that bugged me to go with them and I have always politely turned them down. Why? because I think they are a total waste of time and money.
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What is up with all these married people having affairs then leaving their s/o to be with the other person? Use to they never left for the other one.. What has gotten into people lately?
I think that it's always been happening just hasn't been publicized as much in the past as it is now. I like to refer to it as the grass is greener syndrome.
Married women/men hook up with someone and think at that particular moment that they are better than their spouse. The do and say all the right things so eventually they leave for this other person.
Guess what though....
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How many people do you love?
Romantically? just one unfortunately she is married so that's never going to go anywhere. In the general sense of the word I love many people.
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When it comes to affairs, the focus usually shifts from other marriage problems to "The Other Woman"... Do you think it is fair that "the-other-woman" is most likely going to be blamed for breaking up a marriage?
I think if the other woman knew from the start that the man she was screwing belonged to someone else then she does share a portion of the blame forallowing herself to be selfish enough not to give any thought to the wife or g/f of her lover. However I don't think she should be burdened with most of the blame. That should lie squarely on the man who did the cheating.
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Why are so many girls (not all) turning into sluts these days?
Well if enjoying having sex with multiple partners makes a girl a slut then it must make guys degenerate pigs.
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If a person lives the best he/she knows how, but does not belong to a Church, will they still go to heaven?
I believe that God will judge people by the intents of their heart and not by what church they go to. If yoiu're basically a good person and respect others I think God will look at that alot more than how many times you attended worship service
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Where are all the places you have lived?
I was born and raised in Brooklyn NY til I was 22
moved to California to serve a mission for the LDS Church was in Canoga Park Camarillo Santa Maria and Valencia. Went back home to Brooklyn got married moved to Provo UT to attend BYU lived there a full academic year then moved back to Brooklyn where I remained for almost 15 more years then moved to current residence in Philadelphia PA about...
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Do you know the zodiac sign of the last 5 people you dated? Is there a pattern?
I've only dated 3 people in my lifetime. My ex wife was a Pisces the girl I dated after my divorce was a cancer and my beautiful last girlfriend who recently passed on was a libra.
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Will you admit to openly flirting with someone on AB?Thank you for you answers(:
There are one or two ladies I like to flirt with. It's all in fun as I think they are actually either married or involved with someone so no harm.
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How Many Of You Call your boss by his first name?
Yes all the time
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What is best done in private?
Masturbation.
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What horror movie killer is scariest?
Leatherface from the Texas Chainsaw Massacre.
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You are unique, adorable, special and loved...everyone says so. Someone comes along and says you're not any of those things. Whom do you believe? The many or the one?
Unfortunately I believe the one :(
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Has anyone ever singled a person or group of people out on AB? I see questions of "who do you like most?", but have there ever been ones such as "Who do you least like?" or "Who do you wish you could block?"or"Don't you think that garster is a jerk?"
If I had my way I would block all the idiot evangelical neo nazi christians who spread lies and misinformation about what Mormons really believe.
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Men what are some things that you think women over react about in relationships? things you may do or certain situations or things that may be normal for men but you think women just dont get?
I have always gotten along alot better with women than I have with men and as a result about 99.99% of my friends are women.
I lived with someone a few years back who had some serious issues with this. No matter how hard I tried to convince her that they were just friends she just didn't trust me and tried constantly to destroy my friendships by telling bold faced lies about me or...
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You accidently send naked pictures of yourself to your parents instead of your better half.....what should you do?
I don't have to worry about that sort of stuff. My mom is 70 and doesn't own either a cell phone or a computer. Another reason for no worries is I would never allow myself to be photographed nude to have those kind of pictures to accidentally send and if I found out my partner took some of me unknowingly I'd be extremely pissed off.
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If your office had a casual day, what would you like the dress code to specify?
My company is casual dress every day unless there is a client coming into the office which only happens maybe 3 or 4 times a month.
I have worked long enough though that I still come in Monday to Thursday dressed in a shirt tie and dressy slacks and shoes but that is me.
The company does spell out specifically what is and is not acceptable yet the majoprity of the young girls that...
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Is there anyone who you would give your last Rolo to?
There ain't that much love in all the world. Touch my last rollo and it's cause to be executed on the spot in my book lol
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Should u forgive your lover for anything that has happened in the past before u got together
The past is just that the past. It usually has nothing to do with you so no need to forgive someone for what happened before you got together.
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What did your mom pack in your lunch box for school?
I started school back in the late 60's I took my lunch through 1st grade then I think they came out with the school lunch program so I ate school lunch after that.
My mom would pack sandwhiches along with a cupcake or cookies and a piece of fruit. Sopmetimes it would be peanut butter other times tuna fish and other times some sort of lunch meat like spiced ham or olive loaf etc.
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Do you have a Target store in your area?
There's about 6 of themn all within no more than a 1/2 hour's drive from my house.
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Hey guys, when was the last time you cried? and what for?
A couple of days ago when I got an e mail from an old mutual friend of me and my last g/f telling me how sorry he was for my loss and he included a link to this poem.
"If Tomorrow Never Comes"
If I knew it would be the last time
that I'd see you fall asleep,
I would tuck you in more tightly
and pray the Lord, your soul to keep.
If I knew it would be the last...
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Why do we all listen to sad songs when were going through stuff
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Sometimes it helps to have a good cry when you are feeling sad and sad songs I find help me this is one that I've listened to alot since I lost my girlfriend almost 9 monmths ago to cancer.
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How come I can't find a good man?
Maybe as another user pointed out you are too picky. Maybe you're focusing too much on what the guy looks like and not enough on what he is like inside. Just a thought
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Who is the current richest man/ women on earth
I could be mistaken but last I heard Warren Buffet overtook Bill Gates again
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I used to be gay throughout my teen years and my younger years. But when i was 23 I converted to heterosexuality when i became a christian and im now 26 and engaged to a beautifull girl and i was wandering should i tell her im an ex gay or not mention it?
Being gay or straight is not a choice asshole. You are either in serious denial about your still preferring men while trying to make it appear you have decided to go straight for God or you never were really gay to begin with just fucked up in the head and confused as to which sex you wanted to be with
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What is the best way to show your parents that you are an adult. Im 18 years old and I pay for everything yet I am still treated like a little kid. How can I explain or show them this.
It sounds like you have a job so that is a good start. However if you are still living at home with mommy and daddy then unfortunately it's their way or the highway.
If you want to truly be independent and respected as an adult get yourself a roommate or two or ten if you have to and move out on your own. This will not only show your parents you are grown up but it will be a great way...
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I know of Eskimo kisses and butterfly kisses...but what other silly kisses are there?
fishy face kisses lol
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What would you do to gain revenge on your cheating partner?
Go on with my life and not let her see the hurt and pain she has caused me.I think that's the best revenge of all
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What is the name of the flower you saw last?
I am not good with the names of many flowers so I will answer with the last flower I saw that I knew the name of. It was the bouquet of pink and white roses I laid on my sweethearts grave the last time I went to visit back on Memorial day weekend.They were her favorite colors
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Do you think staying in with your bf or gf when they are home sick as opposed to going out (lets say its the weekend) is the right thing to do?
For me I would not be able to enjoy myself if I went out and left my s/o at hom in her sick bed. That's if I had one lol.
When I have a s/o I hate to even go to work or Church and leave her home sick let alone go out and have fun without her.
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If all the text messages on your cell phone were made public, would you have anything to be embarrassed about?
only if my best friend's lesbian lover saw them since I shamelessly flirt with her through text mesaage.
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I've heard so many different things on this can you get pregnant just by kissing someone?
The only way for you to get pregnant is if a man's unprotected penis makes contact with your vaginal area and there is a leakage of semenal fluids in that are. Beyond that it is almost impossible to get pregnant any other way that doesn't involve a lab or doctor
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Im a white female and im dating a black man. I've been called some pretty nasty names,How do i deal with that?
Sweetheart I know what you are going through. Though my situation is a bit different than yours I am a middle aged man (Just turned 47) abd about a year ago I was in the best and most love filled relationship of my life with a very beautiful and sweet young lady who was half my age.
I got called child molestor rapist pervert dirty old man cradle robber I had people I believed to be friends...
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Men, what say you...Cute girl, top a little low, bit of cleavage going on...Sexy or sleazy?
It depends. If it's just a little then kind of sexy but if it is all hanging out and leaving little to the imagination in my opinion it's sleazy especially if you have huge ass titty tattoos on em.
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Men, how many times a day do you masturbate?
Depends on how horny I get. Some days none at all other days I can do it 8 9 sometimes even 10 times. Don't have a special someone right now and seeing how I have a difficult time seperating sex from love it's difficult for me to just use someone to get off with.
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What is the worse possible concievable ending to a really great day for you?*
Getting a phone call telling me someone I loved just died.
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Do you hate because I'm black(Partially),Beautiful(So I've been told),or a bad liar(I have to admit)?*:)*
Charlie I like you. The few times we have interacted have always been positive and even when we occasionally disagreed you were still adult about it. So why would I hate you for stupid insignificant stuff like what your race is or what you look like or the fact that you can't lie very well. I think you're a pretty cool person and none of that other crap really matters to me
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What would you do if you saw a girl getting beaten up by a man?
If I had my Cell Phone I'd call the cops if not I would find the nearest payhone and call the cops. I however would not intervene in any way.
I used to do that but every time I did I would get the girl spitting in my face or punching biting and kicking me telling me to butt out so I learned not to get involved anymore.
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If someone has traditional/religious values and speaks up on behalf of them, why would you assume that he/she is a bigot?
Because all Christians who go around preaching that it's wrong to be gay and that gay people will burn in hell for eternity are bigots.
First of all where is all this so called evidence thatbeing a homo is a sin. Just because it says so in the bible doesn't mean it is right.
Remember the bible was no written in english it was written in hebrew and greek and I believe also...
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If you had to choose between love and no money or money and no love for the rest of your life, which would you choose?
I would take love with no money any day
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If there was one thing you could wish away in the world what would it be and why?
I would wish away loneliness because everyone no matter how uunattractive they may be deserves a chance to be loved by someone
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If I could remove one character defect/flaw it would definitely be _______________.
my severe low self esteem
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Have you ever had a friend that you really didn't know if they fell in love with you, or just being goofy? How do you tell?
I wouldn't know. I have had my heart broken too many times to take anything seriously anymore. If one of my female friends were inlove with me the only way I would know is if they came out dircetly and told me beyond that I would never know as I no longer read things into their flirting and teasing like I used to.
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How much should you tip your waiter or waitress when you go out to dinner?
Almost always 20% unless the person is rude. I sometimes give more because I hate to give change for a tip so I usually round it off to the next dollar. For example if I spent 32.50 for a meal that would make the tip at 20% 6.50 I just leave 7.00
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Is it ever ok for a man to tell his s/o that he is uncomfortable with the way she dresses when they are out in public together? Especially if the way she dresses draws alot of unwanted attention from lots of other men?
This isn't for me but actually for a friend. His girlfriend likes to wear really slinky sexy outfits that show off her more than ample breasts and accentuate her butt area. He is uncomfortable with this and doesn't like that she has alot of guys checking her out when they are out together.
I told him he was being an overprotective ass and as long as all they were doing was...
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When do you DR? Does your DR mean you don't agree with the response and that's how you express it? Why are people so upset getting DR'd & calling members trolls and cowards for it? It boggles my mind. If its that bad why have it? What does it accomplish
The sole purpose for the staff creating the dr was to allow members to let others know their answer was in no way helpful. However most people use it as a way of taking points from a valid legitimate question or answer just because they don't agree with it or don't like the asker/answerer
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Have you tried Macdonalds new angus burger.I didn't like it.What about you?Hardees is the way to go for thick burgers,if they only had Macdonalds fries.
I tried it and it isn't bad I just don't like whatever they put on it. It looks like a micture of mayo and mustardbut not sure if that is what it is. The next time I get one I am going to ask them to just put some ketchup on it instead and I will let you know how that went.
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What advise have you been given in the past that you wished you listened too?
About 4 years ago I fell head over heels with a girl who would not become my g/f til about a year ago. That was because I wouldn't listen to a good friends advice at the time that age is only a number and how sometimes you have to take risks when it comes to love.
You see when I 1st fell inlove with her she was just barely 21 and I was almost 44 and I felt dirty and disgusting for...
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Have you ever been afraid to lose someone that you love?
Yes and in the end my fears became reality when she lost her battle with cancer about 9 months ago at just barely 24.
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Is it bad to eat a LOT of green apples?
It's highly doubtful consuming a large amount of green apples will do any significant damage to you. However if you eat enough of em it will probably result in a nice case of diareah
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Why are there so many Mormon haters on AB? For those of you who hate us what is your problem? What has any Mormon done to you to make you dislike us so much?
This question as some have mistakenly interpreted is not about those who would disagree with what Mormonism believes. It is one thing to disagree with what I believe and everyone has the right to believe as they wish. The label Mormon Hater is geared not so much to those who respect Mormonism but just disagree with some or most of their doctrines.
This label is geard more to those...
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Ever wonder how old the oldest ABer is? Or how young the youngest?
not really. I have however assumed some of our teen members were alot older because of the wise and mature answers they sometimes give. I'm 47 so I know I am older than the average age here but I also know I am not the oldest here or even close to it.
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People call me gay i am not gay im tired of it what can i do to make them stop
I've dealt with that most of my life. I have been a very sensetive person who is intouch with his feelings and emotions and most people mistake that for being gay because I don't go around screaming yo baby nice ass or great boobs when I see an attractive female with a nice body.
People think I'm gay because I don't get all hyped up when one of the local sports teams is...
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Who do you miss the most in your life that has left you? Not necessarily a lover.
My last girlfriend.she left me unwillingly about 9 months ago. She didn't want to go but it was her time so she had no other choice.
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What is/was your favorite 80's sitcom?
Family Ties
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What team do you always root for, to lose?
The Cowboys they suck.
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Does your birthday land on any famous person or celebrity's birthday?
I just found out I share the same birthday with Megan Fox of course I have 24 years on her but we still have the same month and day of birth just different years.
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When you think of love who do you think of? (first name that comes to mind)
Ashley
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Who to you has been the most inspirational person in your life? Famous or not famous? And why?
My last girlfriend. She was diagnosed with terminal cancer but refused to give up the fight. She lkived every single day to the fullest and fought very hard to live.
Even a few days before she died when the Elders gave her a blessing and told her that her time has come to a close and to stop fighting God's will she kept on fighting to live.
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If you could get someone back in your life who would it be and why?
My beautiful girlfriend who was called home all too soon at just barely 24 years old almost 9 months ago. She had too much to live for to die so young.
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If a friend of yours were to walk in on you naked (or half naked) would you freak out or just continue getting dressed while starting a conversation?
I would only freak if it were a female as I believe the only one who should see me naked is the woman I am in a relationship with and seeing how I am unattached right now no one gets to see the goods lol
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I don't want to get serious with anyone with kids, is that a bad thing?
Not at all that is your choice. I don't wish to get serious with a woman who thinks it's ok to cheat on her s/o when she isn't happy with how things are going in her relationship or who thinks that it's ok to have a fwb when she is in a loving comitted relationship. That's my preference just like yours is not dating men with kids.
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Are dirty women, really more fun?
If you are just out for sex or don't mind sharing your future wife with your friends family neighbors and every other guy/girl in town I guess they can be more fun.
Most dirty girls though can't comitt themselves to a monogomous relationship so for someone like me who wants something more than sex I wouldn't find them too appealing
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What are you afraid of?
finding out that I fell short of being worthy to spend eternity in Heaven. It's been hell not having my love for the last 9 months I can't imagine being seperated fromher for the rest of eternity as well.
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Guys:why dont you like girls that are saving there virginity till marriage?
I have no problems with a girl who wants to wait til marriage.I think it shows alot of maturity to be able to have that kind of self control.
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It would mean the world to me If I could find that guy that could take my breath away. That could pick this porcelain doll up And mend all of its cracks and chips. I've so much love I wish to share But so little people that I'd like to share it with.
Ikimmy when I was 15 a long long long long time ago I felt the same as you did. I thought I was the ugliest guy in the world and no girl in her right mind would ever want to give me a first look much longer a second one. I had really severe acne. I had buck teeth. I wore really thick glasses I was skinny as a rail and had no muscles whatsoever. but in spite of not being attractive on the...
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Does a very large social life bring more stress or reduce stress?
I would imagine more stress especially when there are 2 or more parties going on at the same time for people you equally love. How do you choose who's party to go to and who's party to blow off.
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Some people get mad when someone (not their s/o) can't pick up their cell phone or it's turned off. Is this fair?
I think they are the one who is being unfair expecting that someone has to have their phone turned on every minute of every day and answer it just because they are calling.
I'm with the Chief If I don't feel like answering my phone I don't and if someone is going to get mad about it then don't bother calling me anymore and the problem will be solved.
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What is the most amazing smell in the world?
White diamonds by Elizabeth Taylor.I can still smell it every now and then almost 9 months after her passing and it lets me know she is not really gone but is still watching over me and making sure I'm alright.
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At what age do we reach our sexpiration date?
I am 47 and still get aroused when I see an attractive female I'll probably still be getting it up when I am well into my 90's probably need the help of viagra by then but I can't imagine myself not still getting excited by an arttractive female at that age lol.
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You are having a bath and the lights go out...what the first thing that comes to mind?
It depends if I were a woman who lived by myself and was in an isolated area where my closest neighbors where half a mile down the road I woiuld suspect a crazed sex offender stalking me and looking to make me his next victim.
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How important to a man is the size of a woman's breasts? Is too small or too big a turn off?
Honestly size is not an issue for me. Though you would think I like big boobs becase every one of my 3 girlfriends had big boobs. The only reason for that is I tend to gravitate towards more natural women and not the fake women you see gracing the covers of fashion magizines and mens magazines. You know the ones with the perfect size 2 waists.
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Im sixteen and a 38E bra size. i want to get them reduced but its alot of money and my mom does not think its neccisary yet she yells at me for my chest hanging out of all my shirts
do u think i should get them done?
Breast reduction surgery is only non covered by insurance if there is no medical need for it and it is merely cosmetic.
If it can be proven that your big breasts are causing you other serious health issues tyou should be able to get the surgery without having to pay for it or having to pay a fortune for it anyway.
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When, where, and how old were you when you lost your v card? do you regret it now?
I was 24 and a half and a new husband the first time I lost it.Fortunately for me my now ex wife was not. It would have sucked if both of us didn't have a clue as to what was going on lol The only regret I have is that I didn't get to know her better before I rushed into marrying her would have saved me a divorce and 10.5 years of a miserable marriage
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If you are serious about taking music at university but you don't think you parents would agree and want you to take something in science would you do what your parents think is best for you or do what you really want?
It all depends. I know you aren't in the U.S So I don't know what kind of help they offer in your country. If you are well off and your parents are paying for your tuition then I guess you are going to be stuck taking what they want you to take.
If you are not well off and your country provides financial assistance to attend college then apply for everything you can get and major...
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How many sexual partners have you had this year?
Unless Rosey Palmer and her 5 sisters counts that would be 0
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For a million bucks would you actually slap one of your parents?
If my dad was still alive I'd do it for free. I actually grabbed him by the throat when I was a teenager and threatened so slice out his heart with a carving knife and feed it to him bit by bit if he ever put another finger on my mother. My dad was a no good womanizing drunken wife beater and the best day of my life was when he took a massive heart attack watching tv and dropped dead.
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Should someone who stabbed his girlfriend 213 times be able to use provacation as a defence to down grade from murder to manslaughter?
What? Are you kidding? What the hell could have provoiked someone to stab another individual 213 times? This asshole needs toi be charged with nothing less than 1st degree pre meditated murder and should not even be given the option of life in prison without parole as a sentence. Once he is convicted he should be taken immediately to the gas chamber and executed.
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'This is fan mail. "to any one". Is there anything you would like to say, to someone?
To President Obama Capitalism has worked very well for the United Stated for the last almost 150 years stop trying to change it with all of your socialist policies.
If someone wnats what I have let them get off their lazy ass and work hard for it like I had to do. The government has no business giving hand outs to those they deem as less fortunate.
The reason most of them are less...
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Is there a difference between making love and having sex?
Yes most definitely. Sex doesn't involve feelings or emotions the way making love does. Yoy can't make love to someone you just picked up in a bar 5 minuters ago and don't even know their name. All that is about is physical attraction and lust and sexual desire.
Making love can only be done with someone you have a deep intensely emotional connnection with. It's about...
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Tonight Dr. Phil had " a man who likes to date much younger women". How much younger can a woman be before the yuck factor gets to be too much.
People who are gorssed out by older significantly older people being with significantly younger people need to get a life and learn to mind their own God Damned Business. Just because your 50 and think it's gross to be dating a 20 year old doesn't mean I have to feel the same way.
As long as both people are over the legal age of consent where they live there is nothing gross or...
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Is intoxicated cheating forgiveable?
For me no. For someone else maybe so. It's all up to the individual and what they will put up with. To me being drunk is not a valid reason for cheating it';s just a poor excuse.
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The girl I like doesn't think that she's worth it. I know at the end of the day its down to low self esteem but what can i say that can assure her?
I know where your girlfriend is coming from. I too have her problem. Unfortunately there is nothing you can do or say that will make it better premenantly.
You need to understand that if you are serious about gettin involved with her she is always going to go throuygh having self doubts about why you are with someone like her.
She may very well be a very beautiful girl but saomwhere...
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Is a lady less classy if she has tattoos?
It depends. A lady having tattoo's only makes her less classy if she goes around flaunting the ones that should only be seen by her MD Gynocologist and s/o. Beyond that having tattoos in and of itself doesn't make a woman less classy. I'm sorry I know some men won't agree with me but I for one crertainly don't want to see a woman's titty tattoos I think any woman...
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How far away did you moved when you first moved out of your parents house?
The first time I moved out of my parents home was when I was 22 and called to serve a full time mission for the LDS Church. I spent 3 weeks in Provo Utah at the MTC before heading out to the California Ventura Mission. That was 25 years ago and one of the greatest experiences of my life.
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When you do deep thinking, what are you usually thinking about?
Well for the last almost 9 months most of my deep thinking has been about trying to understand what divine purpose Heavenly Father needed my sweetheart for that he had to cut her life short at just barely 24. What was so important that only she could do it? Why did it have to be her? Wghy couldn't it have been someone else who had a chance to live a long fulfiling life? I know it sounds...
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If you have a boyfriend and are reasonably happy about it but you like someone else is it better to stay in the relationship and avoid hurting yourself and your boyfriend or take a risk and break up?
If you find yourself attracted to someone other than your boyfriend that is a clear indicator that things are not as great between you and your b/f as you want to believe they are otherwise you wouldn't find yourself attracted to someone else.
The first thing you need to do is get an understanding of why you are finding yourself attracted to this other guy. Does he have something your...
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What's your view on lending money to friends or family?
I only loan what I can afford to lose if it isn't paid back and usually when I help someone out I don't really expect to get paid back. If it happens great if not no biggie.
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Do you agree or disagree with this statement?:MOST black women have bad attitude problems.
I agree with it as much as I agree with the statement that most white females are stuck up little bitches who think their shit doesn't stink and every man that as much as smiles at them wants to bed them down. That would be no agreement at all for the record.
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Do you watch the videos on www.youtube.com very often? If so what kind of videos do you enjoy watching?
I like to watch alot of LDS music videos especially alot of the songs that have been performed at EFY
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Do you carry a picture of your partner with you
about 7 of my faves on my Ipod Touch. I reall should delete them though. I'm only torturing myself by still having them there and having the constant reminders of what we had once upon a time.
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Whats worse: regretting your child didnt have a 'normal' family or losing the person of your dreams?
Losing the person of you dreams but for me it would have been alot easier if I lost her to a breakup instead of Cancer. At least 9 months after the breakup I could have accepted that it's really over and have moved on with my life already.
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Who do you think is the most responsible in an affair? The cheating partner or the person they are cheating with?
I would say the person cheating. Often the person they are cheating with is clueless that they already have a spouse/s/o and often don't find out til sometimes years and years into the relationship because they are such good liars
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Why do some guys, knowing that you are not only not available, but not at all interested in them, continue to flirt with you?
Redcatt there is nothing wrong with a little harmless flirting. Now if they are crossing the line from just harmless flirting to being obnoxious and refuseing to take no for an answer when you let them know you are not interested in a relationship then I would firmly tell them you are definitely not interested and if they continue to pursue the issue you'll take whatever action necessary...
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My girlfriend doesnt tell me things because I've had some trust issues with her. This sucks for the relationship. How can I fix that? Will it just take time? I cant stand knowing she doesnt tell me things. Its my fault, I know. Please, anyone?
If you have trust issues with her either seek professional help from a trained mental health professional to help you understand why you have these issues and how you can best deal with them or get the hell out of the relationship and don't get into another one until you can learn to trust other.
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Guys, do you rember how old you were when had your first orgasm?
It depends if you are just talking in general I was probably 11 or 12 (when I started to masturbate) if you are talking about from actual intercourse with another person though I was 24.5 years old on my wedding night October 11, 1986 when I had sex with a real live person (my wife) the first time.
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Is it normal for a girl to get smacked around hard by a guy at least once? (weather its her dad, brother, or signifcant other)
It may be the norm but it's definitely not right.
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What are good excueses you can give when trying to give an explaination for how brusies showed up overnight? (lets say on your neck)
It depends on why there are bruises on your neck. If they are hickeys from your b/f or g/f sucking on your neck there are alot of creative excuses like I accidentally put the vacum hose on my neck or something equally silly.
Something tells me though that your bruises are not from hickeys. If that's the case thenplease get help. You have to understand and believe it's not your...
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First date idea; taking her to an upscale Jazz club for drinks and a jazz performance. Is this too heavy for a first date?
It depends on what we are talking about here. If you're talking someplace where it's going to set you back for one night what some people make in a week then I don't think it's a good idea.
If you are spending a good deal of money on the first date you could leave her with the expectation that you are going to be looking for her to show her appreciation for you having...
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What would you say if one 16 year old told you that he/she is dating a 30 yaer old?
It depends if it's legal for that 16 year old to be dating a 30 y/o I would wish them luck and mind my own business.
In most U.S. States however the legal age of consent is 18 therefore the 30 y/o would be putting themselves in jeopardy of being sent to prison for a long time So I would try to talk sense into the 16 y/o by asking them if they really want to see someone they love go...
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"I know they say if you love somebody, you should set them free. And I know they say if they don't come back again,then it's meant to be." True or false?
I believe it's true but this is my spin on what I think that quote means.
Lets say I am with someone for the last 20 years and I am still as inlove as ever with them but their feelings toward me have changed and they aren't sure if they want to continue in a relationship with me any longer. Rather than my guilting them into staying or making them stay with me it would be best for...
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Will the Steelers and Patriots be the top teams in this year's NFL?
Nah the Eagles have the team to beat in the NFC this year.I predict the Eagles will be repping the NFC at the superbowl
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Do you have any photos with famous celebrities or any autographs? Can you post them here?
The closest thing I have to an autograph of someone who is famous to me and every other Mormon is a signed 1st edition copy of Mormon Doctrine and my mission call letter personally signed by President Spencer W Kimball who was the President and Prophet of the Church at the time I received my call in August of 1984.
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What color is your underwear?
same color it always is white. As a Temple Worthy member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints I wear my Temple garments under my regular clothes.
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Over the last few days I've been questioning who my real friends truly are. I know it sounds crazy but, if you know someone for a years and you considerate them your friend would it bother you, if they date an ex boyfriend/ or girlfriend of your's(whatev
It all depends. If the breakup was initiated by an ex and I still loved them and my friend knew that and went ahead and dated them then he wouldn't be a good friend. If I dumped the girl because of something that bothered me about her then I could care less if my friend started to date her.
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What do you do if you ask your coworker if she knows a phone number, and she responds: look it up in the phone book. would you be pissed?
I'd ask if they had a problem with me or with me asking for a number and wait for their response.
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I have a friend I want to call so BADLY, we had a falling out, it's been months, I thought I lost their number, but today I found it, should I make that phone call or not?
It depends on how things were left off. If they made it very clear they wanted nothing whatsoever to do with you I would just leave it alone and try to get past it. The only thing calling will accomplish is pissing your former friend off even more and making them think you are a stalker.
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Would you dump your s/o if they gained a lot of weight or it would not bother you? Be honest.
I wouldn't dump them but depending on how much weight they gained I might have a hard time being sexually attracted to them.
If we aer talking 50 75 lbs not much of a big deal but if we are talking about a girl going from lets say 200 lbs to 450 to 500 lbs it would be difficult for me to want to make love to her. I do like somewhat larger women but even I have my limits.
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Would you ever date someone who is married
Only if they lied to me and told me they were single but once I found out I don't care how heartbreaking or hard it would be to lose them I would do the right thing and dump her like a hot potato.
As someone else already said why would I want a married woamn who would leave her husband for me. If she would screw her hubby over for me what makes me think she wouldn't do the same...
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I was told that the wife of a very close relative of mine was cheating on him, for the second time. she has been caught before, and i guess she's at it again. I was asked not to say anything, but he's like a brother. What should i do?
If you know the wife of this relative confront her with your suspicions and let her know you aren't going to tolerate her making a fool out of your relative and that she has a choice to make. If she want's her lover then she needs to come clean to her husband and leave and if she wants her husband she has to dump the lover.
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Only Bibles from Christian book stores; I Have been told that the translations are all corrupt. That is why the book of Mormon was written. Where is an example of the Christian Translations being incorrrect?
Nice to see you are up to your old tricks of Misquoting and misinterpreting what Mormons have told you. Any Mormon who has told you incorrect translations of the bible were the reason for the Book of Mormon being published is an idiot and is doing more to discredit the Church than people like you.
I suspect however no member of the Church has ever directly told you this but as usual it is...
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Why do women think they are always too fat?
Because of the media's image of what is supposed to be perfection. When was the last time you saw a plus sized model gracing the cover of one of the major fashion magazines? When was the last time you saw a plus sized girl get nomonated by playboy magazine as playmate of the year?
The media makes it appear that for a woman to be beautiful she has to be no more than a size 6. If...
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Has anyone ever asked you if you are gay? Were they direct about it?
Let me clearly state for the record that I am very comfortable with who I am and I have no problems whatsoever with homosexuality. I completely support their right to love who they want to. It doesn't affect my life personally so I honestly don't care. With that said I persoanlly amd 100% heterosexual and highly doubt I will ever find myself attracted to another man.
I however am...
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Would you die for your country?
Yes in a heartbeat without hesitation
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In your home, How many pictures of "YOU" are there hanging up?
None hanging up and a couple of me with my beautiful late girlfriend on my desk and on tope of the fireplace.
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Is it bad if your friend forces you to give him head?
If he forced you it's called rape or at the minimum deviant sexual assault call the cops on his ass. Anyone who would force someone they consider a friend to suck them off is no friend.
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Think of a famous movie and replace one of the words with "cheeseburger".what can you come up with?
The Chronicles of Cheeseburger (The Chronicles of Narnia)
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How do i get a girl who already has a boyfriend to like me?
You don't. You leave her the hell alone. She has a boyfriend already. I am sure there are plenty of other girls just as good if not better than her who are single and avainable. Just because he's only her boyfriend and not her husband doesn't give you the right to be a selfish prick and try to steal her away from him.
I'm sure you wouldn't like it very much if some...
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Stop for ONE second....Think of ONE thing about your Significant Other that makes you smile...The FIRST thing you thought of......What is it.....
My last g/.f who passed away 9 months ago almost had the most amazingly beautiful eyes. I swear every time I looked into them I could see perfection in them.
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What kind of person are you if you have an affair with someone who is married or in a committed relationship?
Depends. If you knew all along they were married or in a relationship them you are a selfish self centered ass who only gives a shit about you and what is good for you
If they lied to you and you had no clue they were a bullshit artist then you are a victim of a lying sack of shit.
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MEN- do you find curvy women like me attractive??? I always wondered how men can like a variety of women- skinny big short tall etc.. I'm 5' tall a size 12 with a big a** and very full figured!! Im not a model for sure but how would women like me be rated
I'd give you a 10. I love real women. Can't get into the skinny supermodel types.
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I need new jokes for this year's show. Can you help me? Story jokes work the best -- nothing off-color, please (primarily a senior audience). Can you please tell me your favorite clean joke?
This is one of my favorites
When Osama bin Laden died, he was met at the pearly gates
by George Washington, who slapped him across the face and
yelled: "How dare you try to destroy the nation I helped conceive!"
Patrick Henry approached, punched him in the nose and
shouted: "You wanted to end our liberties but you failed."
James Madison followed, kicked him in...
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If someone told you that if you didn't kill someone that they would kill you, would you do what you were told or die? (Assume you have no escapes, or other options and the person you have to kill could be anyone, not necessarily someone you know.)
They would have to kill me as I would not survive more than a few hours in jail once I get convicted of Involuntary manslaughter.
The law and the police will not care that I only did it to save my own life I will more than likely still be held criminally responsible for my actions and I couldn't possibly survive in prison.
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When was the last time someone said to you "i love you"?
Romantically wise would have been November 13,2008 the night before she passed away from complications related to cancer.
Just a generic non romantic I love you just a little while ago when my best friend who is also a co worker and a female texted me to say she was thinking about me and that she loved me.
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How many silblings do you have? If you could change it, would you want more or less?
I have 2 both a little younger and both losers. If I had my way my mom would have stopped after me.
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When God was handing out ______, I must have gotten in line twice?
Kindness and compassion
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Is it normal to start resenting all of the cheating partner's friends? Why or why not? Will this go away?
Well that all depends. If his buddies helped him and even encouraged him to cheat on you and covered for him then you have every right to be pissed at them.
If this isn't the case or you can't beyond a shadow of a doubbt prove that they did that then you are overreacting by resenting your cheating ex's friends.
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My girlfrind has my e-mail password and I've always told her to check it if she wants but she'll never let me look at her e-mail is she hinding something
Dude there is no rule that says just because you were an idiot and gave up your e mail password that she has to do the same. If you love and trust her there should be no need for you to have that information. Her e mail is private and not for your eyes. If she chooses to let you see that is her business but just because she is your girl doesn't mean you automatically have a right to see...
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Never say never? Why not?
7 Years ago when I turned 40 I swore on a stack of bibles I was never going to be one of those foolish middle aged men trying to recapture their youth by chasing after a girl young enough to be my kid.
Fast forward 6 years and I found myself very much inlove with a girl half my age and in a very wonderful 6 month relationshiup that unfortunately ended with her passing away from cancer...
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I am 20, my boyfriend is 47 but looks much younger. I have lied to my friends and family (said he's in his late 20's). Should I reveal his age or keep hiding the truth? I'm afraid they will dissaprove if they know.
Why are you so afraid? Are you still living at home and depending on your parents for your support? If that be the case then you need to get off your ass get a real job and if needs be get yourself a couple of roommates and get your own place then who you choose to date is none of your parent's damned business.
I am the same age as your boyfriend and if I was your boyfriend I would...
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Besides "am I pregnant," what other questions are impossible for ABers to answer?
One of my favorites that I think is impossible to answer is is my b/f/g/f husnband/wife cheating on me Especially over something stupid like they hide their cell phone from me.
First off what makes you think just because you are in a relationship with someone you have a right to see their text messages cell phone calls and e mails.
I am willing to bet the same idiots who think they...
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Do you label people, like 'preps', 'emos', 'death punk' or 'scene'? Why? And do you think people should?
I hate labels. The label I hate the most is when some so called Christians have to label others who believe in Christ by the name of their religion .
For example I saw a question where the asker stated they were Christian and the girl they liked was Catholic. Last time I checked Catholics were Christians too so why lable her as a Catholic as if she isn't a Christian as well.
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To the guys out there, what do you think of girls that are promiscuous? some guys are so into them. Are you?
While promiscuous girls don't do a thing for me if I were to meet a girl who had all the qualities I wanted in a girlfriend but she had been very promiscuous in the past I would not let it stop me from pursuing a relationship with her.
I would let her know that I am not easy and it is going to take time for me to feel that I am ready for our relationship to be taken to an intimate...
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I just want to see something... Are any of you Christians that don't date?
I am a christian who has dated in the past and was married once. I currently don't date by choice. I lost my last girlfriend to cancer about 9 months ago and I am just not ready to get back out there into the dating scene right now.
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Hold up... wait a minute!! You ________ my ________?
stole my heart
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What should schools do when students have an asthma attack?
If it is previously known that the child is an asthmatic it is the parents responsibility to have the appropriate form fillied out by the child's pediatrician so that the school can be provided with an extra rescue inhaler to give to the child in such a case.
In the state of Pennsylvania school nurses cannot administer any type of medication the child needs for any health issues until...
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I am Christian. My crush is Catholic, and I want to know what she believes in as a Catholic. We've been friends since the beginning of this year, and we've only met once. We talk over Facebook. Would it be rude if I asked her?
It would not be rude at all for you to take a genuine interest in finding out what she believes in and just to set the record straight Catholicism is just another branch of Christianity.
What would be rude though is if after she shares what she believes in you put her down for it or ridicule her beliefs just because you don't agree with them or don't understand them.
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Who thinks 4 years difference in a relationship is a big deal? my family is pretty much banning me from my boyfriend because he is 22 and i am 18 (almost 19). who agrees that age is just a number?
Sweetheart age is only a number. 7 years ago when I turned 40 I swore that I would never be one of these idiots trying to recapture their youth by hooking up with someone who could be my kid.
1 year almost later I met the most amazingly intelligent and mature 18 year old at work. We hit it off and became very good friends. We had many great conversations together about life and religion...
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How old where you when you first started to date?
Yes I know I am a loser so don't need it pointed out to me. I was 21 when I had my first real girlfriend
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How can I convince my best friend that her boyfriend is a controlling jerk & she needs to leave him?I have so much evidence.She always tells me how horrible he is to her,then when I suggest she break it off, she defends his actions!It's frustrating!
I am sorry you are going through this. Your friend is an idiot who probably believes somehow that how he treats her is deserved on her part. You and I know it isn't true but you'll never convince her she is wrong.
She has to wake up on her own and realize how he treats her is not her fault and she needs to get away from him asap. He will never change unless he recognizes that...
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Is it true that when you hate someone, by time you can get in love with this same person?
If you truly hate someone that is probably not even remotely possible. Now it is possible to hate something about that person and as time goes on they change and you now find yourself falling for them but to fall inlove with someone you completely hate I doubt those feelings will ever change.
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Why do so many people seem to think that catholics are not christians? If being a christian means to "believe in Christ" aren't catholics christian by definition?
It seems that most Evangelical Christian groups think that anyone who does not agree with their narrowminded interpretation of the bible is not a christian. I am a member of the Chruch of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints (Mormon) and I deal with being told I am not a true Christian on a daily basis when people find out what my religion is. I've learned to close out mindless morons who...
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Me and my girlfriend recently had sex. Like an idiot, I didn't pull out. She was on top, we were both drunk and I had got off earlier that say(if that makes any difference). No birth control/condom. What are the chances I got her prego? =x
I'd say there's a pretty good chance you knocked her up. I won't say anything else because I am sure there will be plentu of people judging what morons you and your girl are for having iunprotected sex when you didn't want or weren't prepared to have kids.
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What unexpected things can happen when a couple is making out in public?
Well that depends. If it's just harmless making out probably not too much but I had an embarrassing situation happen to me oh about 23 years ago. I was in a secluded area of a park or what I thought was secluded anyway and it was pretty late like around almost midnight. I was with my ex wife who was then my fiancee and we got into a pretty hot and heavy makeout and heavy petting session.
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What is every parent's worst nightmare?
To my beautiful late girlfriend's dad it was her getting involved with a man almost as old as him
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If you could just POOF have any career in the world, what would it be?
Well it's not a career but actually a job. President of the United States. Problem is most people wouldn't vote for me because of the things I would stand for.
1 If I were President the first executive order I would issue is that anyone from a non english speaking country that has been here more than a year and has still not learnedthe most basic communication skilll will be...
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What do you think of Taurus the zodiac sign?
I am one and I think we make very loyal partners
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What do you think of an 18 year old dating a 26 year old?
I don't see any issue with it. You are both adults and if you love each other fuck what others will think or say. If he makes you happy then go for it.
I wish I would have taken that advice when I realized at age 44 that I was falling inlove with a former co worker who was only 21 at the time. Instead of having only 6 happy months together befor her untimely passing I would have had a...
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If you dont feel like talking to your s/o, is it wrong to ignore their calls? Or should you answer and say, '' I dont feel like talking to you''?
I think flat out ignopring someone you are having issues with is very childish. If you are angry with someone no one said you had to deal with them right there and then but at least give them the common courtesy of letting them know I am mad right now and I think it's best we talk when I have had a chance to calm down so as not to say things in anger that I will regret later on.
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Why is downrating on AB frowned upon so much?
Downrating itself is not frowned upon if it is done so because the answer was not helpful. If I asked how do I set the clock on my PC and someone gives me instructions on how to make the most delicious lentil soup that is not helpful to what I am asking and therefore deserves to be downrated. I probabably personally would choose to just not give them any points rather than give a negative...
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How do you know a ghost is near?
I can usually smell her perfume and since my windows are closed all the time and I have no females in my house I know it's her.
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Would you date a christian girl, who was very traditional.. and wanted to wait until marriage to have sex. someone who didnt drink or do drugs, swear..loved children.. and is 19 and still is yet to have a bf. also a very sweet girl.. but shy.
If I wasn't old enough to be the gir's dad I definitely would give her a shot. Sex isn't everything and waiting for marriage makes if that more special when you finally do get it.
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I'm 19 years old and never had a boyfriend. Is this a turn off? Do you only like girls who haved dated tons a guys/hooked up with them? Im a very sweet and pretty girl. I never dated b/c i had depression for yrs. is this unattractive 2 u guys?
My opinion doesn't really count seeing how at 47 I am more than old enough to be your dad but if I were close to your agew I certainly would not be turned off by the fact you never had a boyfriend or that you suffered from depression.
I didn't have my 1st real girlfriend til I was 21 and have suffered from depression before so I know what you are going through. I however also...
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If a guy picks to be with another girl over you, does that mean she is prettier than you? My self-esteem is at an all time low. The guy I got involved with chose to be his ex gf who cheated on him while drunk cuz she got counselling over me.
Sweetheart I read some of your other questions. At the age you are 99.999% of guys think with (sorry for the blunt language) their cocks instead of the head on their shoulders. It's all about sex for a guy in his late teens or early 20's
Your guy picking his whore ex over you has nothing to do with her being prettier than you and everything to do with the fact he knows she will...
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Relationships - should you be content on your own before entering into one? Yes or No - explain your answer
Yes one should be content with being alone before getting into a relationship. If you are not content on your own you are doomed to keep going from one bad relationship to another.
People who get into a relationship just to be able to say they have a b/f/g/f husband/wife are doing nothing to help themselves and everything to hurt themselves.
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To all who have had a mate (partner) pass on If God could grant you one more day with them what would you do? What would you say to them?
I would spend it tellinmg her how much I love her and how it breaks my heart to be seperated from her. I would hold her in my arms and not let go til the very last second.
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Have you ever thought "I Hate Myself for Loving You"?
yep I have
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Which hurts the most? Saying something and wishing you had not, or saying nothing, and wish you had?
I accused someone of ignoring me awhile back because that was how I really felt at the time. I did it one time too many and lost someone who I loved and cared very deeply for as a friend. I have tried to reach out and apologize many times since then but my attempts have all fallen on deaf ears. So I would have to go with saying something that I now regret is worse for me because it ended up...
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I say "honey", you say _____________________.
sweetheart, darling, love of my life you pick the one you like best lol.
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I am 7 weeks pregnant. I was living with a boyfriend and on July 3rd he abused me at home and he went to jail. I moved out of state right away - across the country. Feeling safer and wondering should I tell him I am pregnant. He scares me and hurt me
No and if I were you I would pray I never need to go on public assistance. If that should happen most states will make you take the father to court for child support as a condition of getting state help Here's hoping you find a real man who will fall inlove with you and accept your child as his own and provide for you and your baby
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How old were you on your last birthday?
47 I am older than dirt now lol
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What is the fastest you have ever driven in any car? My max speed was 325km an hour. (203MPH)
I was in a car once with a missionary companion who was doing near 80 on a main road in Saugus California. Guess he forgot he wasn't home drag racing at the Bonneville Salt Flats.
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When looking for a significant other, do you want someone with morals? Say the girl you were interested in had a past of drinking problems and cheating. Would that bother you?
The drinking would be the least of my problems with her. As far as the cheating goes it depends. If she';s a hoe who can't keep her legs closed and just has to fuck every guy that catches her attention then I would steer clear of her. If she did it once or twice and was remorseful for her mistakes then I wouldn't let it affect my wanting to e with her.
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When was the last time you were on a plane? where were you flying to and from?
About 3 weeks ago. I was flying to visit an old friend who lives in Utah and flew back home to Pennsylvania.
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Do you have an attack plan for an intruder?
Yeah I have a plan show em some dirty pics of my ex wife. That's enough to have em on the floor writhing in agony as their eye sockets are burning form the horrid sight lol
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State one occupation which usually has a "graveyard shift"
Bus Driver or Train conductor in a Major U.S. City lkike NY or Philadelphia.
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Would you be a great person to marry?
Only for a woamn who is not obsessed with a man's looks and body. I'm bot changing anything physically about myself just so some phoney can like me. I have alot of good inner qualities that if women would take the time to get to know me instead of judging me for who I am on the outside they would see.
Maybe I don't have the looks of a greek god and maybe I have more like...
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Is skateboard without a helmet and knee pads cowardly or smart?
It's neither. What it is is very stupid and having a death wish. Even the most skilled skateboarders sooner or later fall off their board.
While knee pads and a helmet may not completely protect you in every case not wearing them can almost always gurantee that what could have been a minor fall will turn alot more serious and even maybe deadly when you choose to ride without them.
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Do you like to cuddle?
yes very much so I even prefer it to sex sometimes lol
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Guys: Do you like a girl who can be one of the guys more than a girl who is more girly (Not stuck up, just girly.)?
Personality wise I could care less however If I have to kill her to get her to wear a dress or a nice blouse and skirt that would be a bit of a turn off to me.
I am not saying she has to dress feminine all the time mind you but if I am taking her to a nice resturaunt I surely don't want to go in a suit and tie and she is there injeans a flannel shirt and steel toe boots
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How old are you?
yes 47
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My finance and I are arguing all the time because I dont want to live at his parents house and the he told me the only way he would marry me is if I live there and not where I live now paying my own bills like I have always done it seems a bit controling.
He sounds like a real momma's boy. If he is unwilling to budge give him back the ring and tell him to take a hike. The last thing you need in your life is a man who is always going to put momma first.
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Pink looks good on men?i dont agree what do u say?
I've worn pink shirts and ties in the past. I am comfortable enough in my masculanity not to care what other people will think of me for wearing pink.
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Are you a simpleton or high maintainence?
As long as there is food in my fridge a dry warm roof over my head and all my utilities are paid I am happy. I don't need big fancy things to make me happy.
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What to say when you hurt someone
It depends on what you did. If it was something simple like forgetting plans you had and stood them up Usually a simple I'm sorry is good enough.
If however it was something more serious like you cheated on them a simple I'm sorry is not going to cut it. By the way since you didn't say what you did these are only examples I am throwing out to show the difference between...
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Can I buy you as my pet?
unless you don't mind having your leg humped all the time I wouldn't make a very good pet
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How would You feelth If a friend of same gender told You he/she wants You badly?
I would be very flattered but would have to explain to them how I am not attracted to other men and probably never will be.
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What is your homepage? mine is http://www.stuff.co.nz/
Do you mean what is my favorite website the one I visit most frequently outside of ab? It would be www.lds.org and www.mormon.org
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As a baby when you cry do you know what you are trying to say
I'm wet, I'm hungry, I'm hot, I'm cold, I pooped and need changing,something hurts like hell,I want to be held,
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Do you ever compromise your answers here on AB for fear of being DRed. I have found that most of my religious opinions get hammered, what dose that say about Christians here?
I never compromise my answers out of fear of being downrated. As far as what it says about Christians. I am a Christian but unlike many here I realize that everyone is entitled to their opinion. I don't have to agree with that opinion but as a decent human being and a Christian I should respect their right to have that opinion.
Unfortunately many Christians here think the only opinion...
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What if you found out for sure without a doubt whatsoever that God really does exist, really does love you more than anyone else did/does, and really did send His Son to die for you so that you could live forever with Him? What would be your reaction?
Oh But I already know this for sure. I have no doubt God exists. I know he loves me very much because of the fact he sent his only begotten son to die on the cross for me so I might live forever with him. This I have no doubt of and don't think I ever had a doubt about it. Even in the times when I turned my back on him and followed my own path I knew deep in my heart that he loved me.
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Why are guys so attracted to boobs?
Only little boys are obsessed with boobs and I am not just talking about chronologically here. There are many who are considered men Chronologically but who have the mentality of a 12 year old.
Real men realize there is alot more to a woman than just how big her boobs are and they love her for those other things as well.
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She's all I can ask for as a person, I can't stop thinking about her, I wrote poems to and about her, she helped me achieve Reason & Sensibility. Do I love this girl?
It sounds that way to me. Either that or you care very deeply for a good friend but I am leaning more toward you love her.
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My boyfriend of 5 years(off + on)mentioned y/d that he would like us to carry on as we are, acting like a couple seeing each other etc but not to be in a relationship. He says its not because he wants to see anyone else just doesnt want the hassle of a gf
Don't fall for it hon. Demand that he either commit to being in a relationship with you or you are moving on. You have invested way too much time to let him play mind games with you.
Doesn't want the hassle of a g/f basically means you're good enough to comitt to for the being there for each other type shit but not for the sex. He's looking for an out to be able to fuck...
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Why do men feel the need to insult a woman they find unattractive?
You give them too much credit by calling them men. Those are not men. They are very insecure little boys who have to make themselves feel better about themselves by insulting someone they see as not attractive.
Real mature secure men would never ever insult a woman for any reason. They also know there is no such thing as an unattractive woman because real men see women for who they are on...
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Has anyone on AB hurt your feelings or flat out made you angry?
No one has hurt my feelings but there are a few who make me angry. I can name 3 off the top of my head. Joseph Smith is a fraud, Mister IT, and the one true church.
They all make me angry because they spread lies and misinformation about mormonism and when they do tell the truth they do it in such a manner as to make it sound evil and sinister.
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Why are there lots of bad and mean people in this world!?
I wouldn't necessarily say there are lots. It may seem that way to you but in the grand scheme of things the amount of bad or evil people is very small compared to the world's population.
Those who are bad or mean are that way for many reasons such as not being taught better by the adults in their life, Getting involved with the wrong crowd, They see being kind and good as a...
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How did gtravels know i had a pet chicken?
Shhh don't tell anyone I said this but she is a very magical and all knowing Penguin.
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Have you ever discussed anything kinky with your partner?
Well my ex wife used to tell me how she had this secret fantasy to see me giving head to another guy. I told her that would happen when pigs grow wings and fly
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I say hot, you say _______________________.
beautiful girl in black lacy lingeire
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Do you think people like me convicted of a crime should be made join the army instead of getting jail time?
For less serious offenses I think it is a great idea. But for harder offenses no way. I mean think about it do you really want someone convicted of being a rapist murderer or child molestor watching your back.
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Guyz help: i think my bf is lying about having other friends from girls how could i knew if hes lying or telling the truth?
So what's exactly is the problem. I think it is very healthy for him to have opposite sex friends. If you suspect these friends are more than just friends then maybe you need to dump him. Why be in a relationship with someone you feel you can't trust. Better yet instead of being jealous of his female friends go get some male friends of your own and maybe you won't have so much...
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Do you refrain from political or religious debates?
I don't mind political debates so much because I find most of the time that I can at least agree to disagree with most people without it getting into name calling.
Religious debates however I tend to shy away from as most of the debates I find myself in are not does God exist or along those lines but I usually find myself drawn into debates with dumb closed minded ignorant...
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What would you say if somebody comes to you and say "I would really like to take you out"?
I would be wondering where the hidden cameras were or how much they were paid to play their silly little joke on me or maybe it's be kind to nerds week again or I would wonder if I was their next pity project because those are about the only waqys any normal rational sane person would ask me for a date.
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Text my phone 2185910308 i want to make a new friend. i live in minnesota and my names alyssa!!
Honey what you are doing is dangerous. There are alot of sick twisted people out there who will take advantage of you. Giving out personal information like that is not very wise of you.
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Many of our kids can't read well enough to do well in school so they drop out. Whom do you blame? Society, government, teachers, school systems or parents? Whose responsibility is it to prepare kids for school?
I blame them all. Each element you have named shares at least some of the rssponsibility of the dumbing down of our kids.
Society is to blame because they make being uneducated look cool. Books movies tv shows even popular music glorifies being uneducated. They make the thug life look cool and popular so of course kids are gonna think why should I bust my ass to get an education and work...
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I am disgruntled with the current selection of Republican candidates for President and since it is too late to do anything now I have decided to explore the option of running myself in 2012 Who would vote for me? funny answers are welcome.
I am also considering a run for President. Here is where I stand. Those who agree with me please show your support by voting for me.
I plan to completely eliminate welfare benefits for those who refuse to work in exchange for their benefits. stop making excuses about not being able to find a babysitter for your 4 year old. If you gave him the strap across his little ass once in awhile when...
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Dump via Text/Email or just stop calling/talking - Which is worse?
I think just stopping to call is worse than brewaking up via e mail or text at least with thwat you have closure and you know where you stand.
When someone just abruptly stops calling you don't know what to make of it. Did their phone break did they lose your number somehow did something happen to them etc.
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Should men and women have Bachelor/bachelorette parties?
Having a party to celebrate the end of your being single is not in and of itself wrong. What is wrong is some of the things that go on at these parties.
Many people think that cheating requires actually doing the act but you can cheat without ever having penetration.
Kissing or making out with someone in a way you would only normally kiss your s/o can be considered cheating Touching...
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For the guys: is a man ever really too tired to have sex?
It has happened to me before especially working a 16 hour shift and having tio be back in less than 8 hours for my regular shift again.
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Am I stupid for staying with the boy who cheated on me?
Charlie everyone is entitled to their own opinion. I don't think Annonymousgirl is stupid for staying and I don't think she is stupid in any other way. She is quite intelligent matter of fact. As far as her staying it takes alot of courage to reach into your heart and forgive the person you love and who you once believed loved you for doing something so hurtful I would have a hard...
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How can i start dating again. i just got out an unhealty relationship. i feel alone can i get some advise?
Sweetheart the very worst thing you can do is jump into another relationship right now. You need to give yourself time to heal and to understand why your last relationship was such an unhealthy one. If you jump right back into another relationship chances are this one will be unhealthy as well.
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Do you think that we are in serious danger of a terrorist attack in the US now more then ever, since 9/11?
Yes because we keep meddaling in other nations affairs instead of minding our own God damned business. If North Korea wants to wipe South Korea off the face of the map let em it's not our problem. If Iran wants to develop a nuke and eliminate Israel off the map let em it's not our God Danmned problem.
The United States has done far too much worrying about everyone elses problems...
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For marriage. Which should one settle for. Love or Financial Security?
I have a close friend who settled for financial security and she regrets it now. Sure she has a nie home, drives around in a nice car, has a vacation home at the Jersey Shore, dresses in designer clothes but she is lacking love and intimacy and because of it has taken up 3 different loers in the 18 months I have known her. No I was not one of them thank you. I have more self respect for myself...
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Am I stupid for staying with the boy who cheated on me?
AG you aren't stupid you are a kind decent person who has chosen to forgive the man you love for doing something that shows anything but love. That doesn't make you stupid. It makes you a better person than me because I couldn't be that forgving.
The only way I would think you were stupid for staying with the guy is if you felt somehow you aren't going to do any better...
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Do some people accept their partners having other lovers?
If you mean in the past of course. With people becoming sexually active at much younger ages today than 30 or 40 years ago it is almost impossible to get involved with a woman who has never been with someone else before me.
If however you are talking about at the same time as me then hell to the no.I don't do the casual dating thing if I am with someone it means I am their and theirs...
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Guyz how i can hack windows live id please hepl its urgent?
I'm not helping unless you tell me why it's so important to know. I have my suspicions and if I am right you are trying to confirm a s/o is cheating on you. If that's the case I am not helping you to catch a cheater. If you have that little trust in them pack up your shit and leave. Confirming what you already suspect is only going to bring you more problems than you are probably...
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Would you rather drowned or be shot?
shot in the head at point blank range where I wouldn't feel it much and the death would be instant
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My mom doesnt want me dating black people but i rly like this one kid and he is mixed and he likes me..but he is afraid to date me cause of my mom what do i do?????HELP
Your mom is wrong in being the way she is but that's another story for another time. My answer to your question will depend on how old you are. If you are still fairly young and depend on your parents for support unfortunately you will need to try your best to play by their rules
If however you are 18 or older there is nothing stopping you from getting a job and getting a roommate or...
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How do you heal from being hurt by someone you love?
I am sorry you are going through this. It sucks when someone you love and trusted betrays your trust and hurts you beyond what words can describe.
Forgiving someone is not always easy. It takes courage and alot of strength to forgive someone who has deeply hurt you but in the end it shows you are a decent human being for doing so.
Some will tell you that forgiving someone shows...
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Is it bad for your self esteem to stay with someone who cheated on you?
Unless you are staying with the cheater because you think it is somehow your fault they cheated or you feel that this is the best you're going to get so why bother then no staying with someone who cheated on you is not necessarily bad for your self esteem.
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What can i guy do to get back at the guy your wife sleeps with?
Show him you have moved on and it doesn't matter to you anymore even if it still does. Revenge ior getting even or exacting payback will only show you to be like a little boy who had his favorite toy stolen by his best friend and is trying to get back at him for it.
Just leave it alone and be happy you found out many men don't ever get to find out their wife is cheating on them...
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I am a 23 yo single mom to an infant & just started dating a guy who is 24 years old (47yo). He has a 10 yo & 17 yo. My mom doesn't approve. Is this age difference too much? Will we not have enough in common for it to last? We like each other a lot.
Unless you are still living at home and depending on your parents for the bulk or all of your financial support it is none of their business who you choose to date.
I went through the same bullshit as you. I was 46 last year when I started dating my 23 y/o girlfriend. Her mom l;oved me instantly and knew I only had her daughter's best interests at heart and that I truly loved her.
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I always wondered this "if someone was a real true friend they would ___________________?
Do like my true friend did. I listened to someone that I never should have listened to who told me something about her. I asked her if it was true she misunderstood then I misunderstood stuff she said we ended up not talking for a few days but in the end she forgave me like a true friend always does.
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Is there someone particular you wish was in your life now, but isn't.
Yes a great friend who I lost a little over a year ago by being stupid and listening to my head instead of my heart. I accused her of something she wasn't doing and now she has rejected every attempt I have made to apologize.
I can't say I blame her she took my crazy shit as long as she could and then just gave up on me. I only wish she ould see how truly sorry I am for that and...
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*THE WORST THING YOU'VE EVER HEARD AN ADULT SAY TO A KID.....?
My son was almost 14 on the morning after September 11, 2001. I spent most ofd his life trying to teach him there is good and bad in every group of people and that he needed to have an open mind and not judge a group by the actions of a few.
The morning after my job was closed to give those who lost loved ones a day to grieve. One of my co workers had 8 members of her family wiped out on...
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If NUNYA was a animal, which animal would you think she is?
I Think you would be a cute adorable beagle puppy.
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I say "The Simpsons" you say?
"Don't have a cow man"
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To whom-among the old lovers of yours- you can't speak in flesh?
My last girlfriend. She passed away a while ago after a brief battle with cancer.
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Mature or good looking?
Maturity over good looks any day. Who wants to have to go around wiping someone's nose and other parts after them all the time.
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Do you ever dream of that fairy tale relationship?
I had that fiarytale relationship for nearly 6 months and it would have been alot longer had 2 things not happened.
1st I was inlove with her for more than 3 years before I even told her how I felt and we ended up together. I didn't say anything because she is almost 23 years younger than me and was only 21 when I first realized how serious my feelings for her were. I was scared that...
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Do guys like hurting womens?
The ones who are little immature boys who never grew up and think it's all about them and the world is supposed to revolve around them and them alone more than likely get great joy out of hurting and controlling women.
The one's who are grown up and mature and realize not everything is about them or revolves around them would probably rather die first than ever do anything to...
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If ur married to a man tat is ur everything hav one kid with him and is pregnant with another for him but he cheats and beats u,and ur afriad tat if he keeps on doing it he might hurt ur unborn baby.u no he not a bad guy. he a great dad/husband.wat to do?
GREAT GUY MY ASS!!!!! You must wake up and realize you are not a bad person. You are not ugly. You are not lazy. You are not useless and you are not the million other things abusive men tell you to weaken you to the point of thinking they are great and you aren't worthy of them.
You're husband will continue to do those things to you as long as you remain in the relationship and...
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Is it ever acceptable to dump someone by email?
Sure if you're a loser with no guts to do it face to face like any respectale decent person would do it.
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What words can someone say to you that would be like a slap in the face?
Everytime I see or hear the words Mormons are not Christians because they worship a different Jesus therefore they are a cult. I'm sick and tired of all the ignorant people who don't bother to take the time to do a little research about my faith and rely solely on what is mass produced on every anti mormon website out there. I for one am about sick of it. We worship the EXACT SAME...
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My fiance is in jail and i was struggling finacially, i met a married man at work he knows my situation he is very rich and was just claiming to help me and now he tells me he loves me. he is a great guy we have lots of fun. i'm 27 he is 39. what to do?
Honey I know you know deep down in your heart what the right thing to do is. He is married and is just looking for a side piece. Yeah he'll probably provide better for you than the jailbird but think of his wife and if there are any kids involved his children.
Plus if this loser actually did leave his wife for you (which is very unlikely because no man likes giving up half his shit to...
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I maintain that LDS / the Mormon religion is a cult and not a Christian religion. It tries to keep people from leaving the fold. It espouses many non-Biblical ideas, like you get to heaven by works. Do you agree or disagree, and WHY?
People make me sick who blindly agree with stupid questions like this without doing some research on their own first.
As to those who are justifying their opinion based on the scripture in revelations The book of Mormon first off does not add to the bible. It enhances it. Secondly everyone who believes that scripture is referring to the bible itself needs to do some research on the history...
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When was the last time you encountered ignorance and how?
A couple of days ago when I saw most of the people who answered this question agreeing with the asker's opinion http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1576035
People make me sick who blindly agree with stupid questions like this without doing some research on their own first.
As to those who are justifying their opinion based on the scripture in revelations The book of Mormon first off...
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How do you know if your loved, without hearing the 3 words?
I love you are 3 words that in my opinion get overused way too much. If someone wanted me to know they loved me they would have to show it in their actions.
My last girlfriend made me feel loved each and every day just by her actions. For example she would write me a little note every day and leave it somewhere she knew I would find it just to tell me how specdial I was to her and how...
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Hi, my boyfriend is already married, couldnt divorce his wife bcoz of his family, i divorce my husband to be with him, my bf says he loves me but not as much as his family, i cant live with out him, pls suggest wot i need to do, i love him so much
You are selfish and inconsiderate and think of no one but yourself. You not only ruined your marriage and family by screwing around with this low life piece of shit but now you want to ruin his life as well?
If you really love him as you claim you do then you will do whatever it takes to leave him alone. He is someone elses man go find one of your own who is not involved with someone else...
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What is your addictive habit that you do everywhere you go? (Like smoking, but preferably something that isn't bad for your health)
I am a big time fingernail biter.
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Have you ever felt so humiliated because someone found you "repulsive" , and rather then keep their distance, or not get involved, they chose to become very close display the many ways they were not attracted to you?
I don't know if this is close to what you are asking but I am not a very arttractive person in the physical sense. I look like a geeky nerd and have been told more than once by a woman that I reminded them of some of the sick degenerate losers they have seen on AMW or a wanted poster in the post office for being some sort of sexual predator be it a rapist or child molestor etc.Add to all...
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What would you say or think if your boyfriend told you he got a lap dance at a strip club on his birthday? Would you be mad?
I know this question was geared towards the ladies and I'm a man. Here is my perspective on it.
I know I will gets dred by most of the guys for my answer but who cares.
As a man who is currently not in a comitted relationship with someone here is how I feel. If I did have a g/f or wife and I went to a strip club and got a lap dance for my birthday she would have every right in the...
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Did death and sin supposedly enter the world through one man?
Yes actually it was one man and one woman. By Adam and Eve defying Gods orders not to eatthe forbiden fruit Physical death and sin were brought into the world. Had they not sined they would have lived forever in their perfect innocent state in the garden
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Have you ever had the satisfaction of getting even with someone that screwed you over and how?
No I haven't and I never will and here's why. REVENGE OR GETTING EVEN IS FOR LOSERS!!!
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Ok, which are you, a student of high school, college, tech school, graduated a long time ago from where & when? Which?
Graduated High School 1980 Started but nevr finished college several times. Finally garaduated from Community College of Philadelphia Summa Cum Laude May 2008 Will graduate Summa Cum Laude with a Bachelors degree in May of 2010 from Temple University.
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Girl rubs up against you, out somewhere, it's your move, what do you do?
Tell her she has the wrong guy that I don't have random indiscriminate sexd with a woman I don't know much longer one I am not inlove with.
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I love a girl for 2 years. i told her that and she dident accept. now i know her home adress.just it. and i want talk to her but i cant find her alone.and she live in a big apartment and i cant find a time to talk to her.what should i do?
Danger Will Robinson DANGER!!!!! STALKER ALERT STALKER ALERT.Steer clear of her. If you don't and she is a smart girl she will swear out and order of protection and have your ass busted by the cops if you even try to get near her. Dude there are plenty of fish out there why waste your time on someone who has already made it crystal clear she wants nothing to do with you
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What side of the grass is greener,this side or the other side?
Neither actually. The grass is no more or less greener on the other side than it is on your side. It's just an optical illusion that too many find out too late about when they wake up and realize the truth that the grtass is exactly the same as what you had just in a different backyard this time.
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Guys: Has it ever bothered you that a lady walking in your direction on a deserted street is probably wondering if you're a rapist? Ever cross the street so she wouldn't have to worry about it?
I have walked behind many a women alone on isolated streets late at night and never really gave that much thought. I''m sure some of the women have though because I have noticed a few who have crossed over or who have turned a corner I know for a fact from seeing them before that they don't live on so maybe in the back of their mind they thought I might be a rapist following them...
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How can I tell if someone is being honest and sincere or if they are just trying to use me to obtain a green card? See my answer for the full story.
Several months ago I met a girl online who lives in Ghana. We started communicating here and there then it became a couple of days a week then it became almost every day. While I don't consider myself hideous looking I know I am very very very far from being considered good looking especially by a girl who is drop dead gorgeous.
Recently she started telling me she is falling inlove...
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I heard that if you deposit a large amount of cash into your bank account, they will asks you where it is coming from, what if someone sends you a check with say $15,000,and you cash it and deposit it in your bank account, will they question you anything?
I am not sure it may make a difference what type of check it is. All I can tell you is my own experience.
My Uncle (mother'as brother) died several years ago. He had a nice amount of money. After taxes attorney's fees and other expenses there was about $850,000.00 left in his estate split between 10 surviving brothers sisters nieces and nephews. He was never married so he had no...
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Why am I so stupid?
Angel you are not stupid. Making bad choices even in the face of knowing better yet doing so anyway doesn't make you stupid. It just makes you human
I don't know you from Adam but from the little I have read from your questions and answers you sound like you are someone who follows their heart without thinking of the consequences first. I want you to know you are not alone.
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I did it. i told him goodbye. i cant take the lies and the cheating anymore. so why do i feel like i wish i were dead?why cant i stop crying?why does it feel like no one understands?i have called all my friends and everyone is busy.no one cares about me.
Well I see this was asked over 18 months ago. I hope by now you have moved on and realized you are so much better off without him in your life.
As for those so called friends I hope you found yourself some new ones. Ones you could depend upon to be there for you when your heart is aching and you just need a friend to talk to. I wish I was your friend at that time I would have been there...
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Have you fallen in love with your best friend?
Not quite. I do have very strong feelings for her that go alot deeper than simple friendship though. Unfortunately she is married and unless she somehow divorces him I guess those feelings will have to be secret.
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Are you in love? Who's the lucky person?
Well not quite there yet and hoipe I never do get there at least until she is divorced anyway but I do care very deeply for a co worker who has been an amazingly awesomne friend but unfortunately is married
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Do you tend to attract people with your looks or with your personality?
well seeing how my looks are in the toilet I guess it's my charming personality that wins over their hearts.
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Is it true that men just want sex?
No that is false. Real men realize there is a whole lot more to a relationship than just how much sex they are getting. Little boys who never grew up and act their shoe size instead of their chronological age now that is true of them.
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Will you scratch my itch?
Depends on where it's at. If it's somewhere that only your husband or b/f should be touuching you then sorry can't help anywhere else and I'm there for you babe.
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What are your favorite war movies?
The Patriot with Mel Gibson.
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What would you do if your s/o found your account on ab?
I don't have a s/o and if I had one and she found my account so what I haven't done anything or said anything that I need to be ashamed of
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Do you have a secret stash that no one knows about? what is it?
Yeah but it's not something that is very exciting. I hide them because I wouldn't want people who don't understand my thoughts and feelings in them to make fun of me. They are old Missionary Journals from when I was a young Mormon Missionary.
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Do you get turned off by people who try to impress you thinking that it might get you to like them? Why or why not?
I sure do. I don't need to be impressed by what someone does for a living or how smart they are or how much stufff they have etc and so forth.
If a girl wants to get my attention and get me to like her all she has to do is be herself. I appreciate that more than someone who tries to impress me with their overexaggerated accomplishments.
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Is there truly a somebody for everybody?
Actually I personally think there is someone for everyone except me. I think God is trying to tell me Give up loser there is no one out there for you.
Why do I feel this way well let's see. I'm close to 50 have had romantic interests in close to 100 different women since I was 13. 97 of them told me various things as to why we couldn't be romantically involved from they...
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How much can you love someone you haven't physically met?
Depends on the kind of love we're talking about. I have a few online friends I love as much if not more than my own family and there is almost nothing I would do for them.
However I get the feeling you are referring to romantic love that can sustain a long lasting romance. In that case I doubt it is possible to truly and honstly have real romantic love for a person you have never met...
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I think I'm in love with my boss. Is this a bad thing?
OK now if this is the same person you were talking about in your most recent question about being inlove with a co worker then my answer is stay the hell away from your boss. You have absolutely no business dating someone in a position of authority over you and it can ruin you professionally if you were to get involved.
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I'm in love with a co-worker. Is it a bad idea to try to pursue a relationship?
That depends. If either of you are in a position of authority and the other is just a regular worker it's bad news and I would do all I can to get over this person asap.
If both of you are more or less on equal levels professionally then you may want to consider it so long as you can both deal with the downside of dating a co worker when the relationship fizzles out.
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We went out three times and the chemistry was there so.... we had sex. He hasn't called me yet. Why hasn't he bothered to contact me afterwards?
I have to go with everyone else and say you gave it up too easily and now that he got his rocks off he doesn't want anything to do with you.
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Is there a new law in florida that states that they will no longer put the non custodial parent in jail for non payment of child support?
Haven't heard about it but to be honest I think it's wrong if the did. Anyone who makes a baby and then expects someone else to pay for raising it is a loser and deserves to go to jail for failure to support their kid.
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At what point do you say enough is enough in a relationship/marriage?? You made a commitment, but come on, how much cr_p are you suppose to take before you cry uncle?
It all depends on what kind of crap we are talking about. If by crap you mean someone who is abusive towards you or who constantly cheats on you I would say you don't have to take alot of that crap.
I don't think God would punish you and hold you accountable for ending a marriage because your spouse couldn't keep their cock in their pants or their legs closed in the case of...
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Guys, when looking for a girlfriend, do you want someone who is good with kids- or does that not mater?
since my son is grown and on his own and I have no real intentions of fathering any more kids I could care less if she is good with kids.
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What is an excuse that someone might use to get out of going on a date with someone?
Here's a nutty Idea. How about just being honest as to why you don't want to go? It will hurt alot less than them finding out you made up a story to avoid telling the truth because you didn't want to hurt their feelings.
I am very very very far from being considered hot sexy hunky handsome or even passable for cute and I know it. There have been women that I have asked out...
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Do you think the women who flash their breasts at Mardi gras would do so anywhere else? Or are they just caught up in the moment or for that matter just drunk off their butts?
Alcohol makes people lose all inhibitions. With that being said I doubt the Mardi Gras flashers would not flash their tits somewhere else other than mardi gras if they had enough alcohol in them.
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If it could save each state a million dollars a year, should Medicaid stop paying for circumcisions?
No they shouldn't because in the long run Medicaid will end up paying a hell of alot more for constant treatments for urinary tract infections and in the end would end of having to pay for circumcisions anyway to stop the constant infections uncircumcised boys would get.
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I work a day job full time at 13 dollars an hour and cant meet my rent/bills, I'm newly single with no friends or family that can help me financially at all. I'm beautiful, in shape and only 25, and I'm thinking about becoming an exotic dancer....
Sweetheart please don't take this as me judging you because believe me I know how hard it is to survive on what you're making. However I don't think that you're becoming an exotic dancer is the answer to your problems.
First of all it is a very dangerous job to have. Most men who find out yopu do that for a living will automatically assume you are an easy target for...
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How do you know if someone really loves you?
If it's someone I am already in a relationship with it would be by the little things they do for me out of love and not because they feel obligated to.
Outside of that Unless they were direct and to the point with their feelings for me a brick building could fall in on me and I wouldn't know that they loved me.
I used to be a loser who thought anyone who showed me any sort...
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What would u choose ur love or ur life?and why?
It depends. If the person I loved was in danger or became extremely ill and I could save her life but it would mean me having to die I would give my life up for her in a second no questions asked because that's what people who truly love someone do. They put the person they love ahead of themselves.
Besides it reminds me of one of my favorite scripotures from the bible. Greater love...
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When is the last time you didn't sleep at all for a whole night?
The night my g/f passed away close to a year ago.
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Is there anyone else out there who has never cheated?
While I have so far resisted the temptation to cheat on someone while in a relationship I would be lying if I said I would never do it. I don't know what the future holds and if I will continually be able to suessfully resist the temptation to cheat. I can hope that would be the case but I can't say for sure that it definitely will be the case.
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Would you ever forgive a cheater if they cheated once? How about if the affair was for two months?
Forgiveness and remaining with a cheather are 2 seperate things. Everyone makes mistakes. There is no one here who can say they are perfect and would never cheat because you never know what you will do until put in that position.
With that being said I think in time I would forgive them. Would I stay in a relationship with them probably note because once a bond of trust is broken like that...
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Why does he treat me like I'm nothing for him?
I am taking a guess in the dark here based on another question you asked and assuming you have had your heart broken in the past by a boyfriend who cheated on you or betrayed your trust in some manner. This has probably caused you to become clingy and needy with this new guy always calling him, wanting him to be with you every spare moment he has, jealous of any girl he as much as says hi to.
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Does it irritate you that people down rate your questions/answers on AB because they are jealous of the points you got?
No but it irritates me when people whine about being downrated and assume the reasdon they are being downrated is because someone is jealous of them and give no thought to the fact that the reason they are being downrated is either their advice sucked or they made assumptions about the asker that were not true and judged them based on those assumptions.
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Which statement do you agree with? When you truly love someone you fight the temptation to cheat....when you truly love someone you are never tempted to cheat?
Being tempted to cheat doesn't mean you don't truly love your partner or that the love you have with them is not true love. It just means you are not perfect and as an imperfect human you are subject to temptation.
Acting upon that temptation and actually cheating on someone you claim to truly love shows anything but true love for your partner. It doesn't necessarily make...
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Your underwear; what it says about you?
I don't wear underwear. As a faithful member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints who has served a full time mission for the Church and also has been married to another member in an LDS Temple I wear my garments. What that says about me is that I take the Covenants I made before God in the Temple very seriously.
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It was one in the morning and this guy i like calls me and i answer the phone and he asks me about something insignificant that happened 2 days before....he wanted to know if i had texted him 2 days before...which makes no sense. Did he just want to talk?
I would say it's a good sign that he was probably looking for a way to break the ice with you. I sure as hell know I wouldn't be calling someone I didn't like at 1 AM just to ask about some insignificant text she sent me 2 days ago unless I was a nutcase (which btw i'm not)
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If you could choose anyone, who would you pick to take away for a dirty weekend?
someone who I am crazy about but unfortunately she's married so all I can do is dream til she decides her marriage is over then all bets are off lol.
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Has anyone ever met someone they talked to online? How did that work out?
Well this probably doesn't count because I actually knew her from real life before computers became popular but I recently spent 5 days with a young lady that I've mostly kept in touch with over the last several years by phone and email/im's since I live in a Northeastern State and she lives in Utah.
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How can i convince my parents to let me have a guy over who is only a friend, when they are not home. - ive asked before and they said no. (im 15)
You never will. I am a parent myself though of a boy not a girl so there is not as much for me to be worried about and he is a few years older than you also so he's on his own.
You may see this as your parents not wanting you to have a life but that is not the reason.They were once young too believe it or not and know what can happen when a boy and a girl are left alone.
Being...
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Have you ever gotten a kiss you did not expect?
Yes I went to kiss someone who was a good friend of mine onher cheek as I usually did one day and she grabbed my face and gave me a big wet one on the lips. It was a total shock for me lol
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Ever had sex in a public place - if so where?
Almost. The closest I ever came to it was when I was dating my now ex wife. It was pretty late at night and we were sitting on a park bench making out pretty hot and heavy. she had her hand in my pants stroking it. I had her top undone and her bra pushed up sucking on one of her boobs while playing with the other and the other hand was down her pants fingering her. We were about to go for the...
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Which part of a woman/man do you notice first?
Her eyes especially if they are green. I love green eyed girls.
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Are you hott or cute?
Well that depends on how much alcohol you've consumed lol
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What is the first name of the person you love most?
My best friend Ashley.
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Have you ever loved someone how didn't love u?
Yes I am there currently sort of. What I mjean by sort of is to my knowledge she has no idea that I feel this way about her because I won't tell her. Why you might ask because she is married although according to her not very happily. That still doesn't give me the right however to make her life even more complicated than it already is by telling her how I feel about her.
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Would you rather have wild sex or make love?
Making love anyday. Anybody can have wild sex with anyone. I can walk into a bar pick a girl up and take her home and have wild sex with her all night if I was that kind of guy. It doesn't mean I love her or find her attractive or even care about her.
Since I am not the kind of guy who has random wild sex with just anyone I choose making love to someone I love and care for very deeply
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Why are some men so selfish?
Because they were taught to be that way by their parents and by society.
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What would you do if I told you that you are hott?
Take you to the nearest Optometrist get your eyes examined and get you the strongest pair of glasses money could buy so you would stop lying to me.
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Do you ever wonder if the AB relationship police would tell your s/o to break up with you if he or she posted questions about you on here?
I very rarely ever tell someone to leave their mate. When I do it is usually because their mate has established a pattern of behavior that doesn't show love and respect for them such as cheating on them numerous times or being physically or mentally abusive towards them.
In those cases it is best to leave because the partner has established a pattern of selfish behavior that very...
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What does a chemist do?Do they get to be paid big?Do they still get paid even though they did not get to do what they should do?(Like when he/she wants to find a cure to cancer but failed)Pls answer.
It all depends on the field they are in. Some jobs for chemists pay alot better than others. Now as far as your last part of the question who said there isn't a cure for cancer or Aids or a million other deadly diseases that make the Pharmacutecial companies trillions of dollars a year in unnecessary drugs.If the cures were made public the pharmacutecal companies would go bankrupt and...
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For $1 million would you be willing to never again see or talk to your best friend?
My Friendship or lak thereof cannot be bought for any price.
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My one true love ,the love that will never let me down is ? (aby answer welcome )
God. He has never let me down.
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What would you do if your s/o only had one sexual fantasy, to have a threesome with you and another person of your gender?
I don't have an s/o but if I did and she told me her fantasy was to do me and another dude that would be the last day she would be my so. She's be dropped quicker than a scalding hot potato.
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If we woke up in bed together tomorrow morning, what three words would you say to me?
what the hell
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Will girls want me more if i got a nose job cause my nose is big and if i got a nicer body, like if I got a nice lean six pack and bigger arms to go with it. only thing is that my face is laging behind cause o my nose. my eyes too, i wish they were green?
Dude listen to the other anonymous who said if you have to change they aren't worth it. He/she is 100% right.
There is a girl out there somewhere who will love and accept you just as you are without having to change one thing about yourself.
If girls can't see you for the person you are inside then that is their loss. Don't change you will only regret it later on.
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Do you think people can ever change or do you think its all an act?
It depends. Some things can be changed without help. There are some behaviors though that no matter how strong someone believes they are cannot be changed without intense psycological help such as abuse.
The reason so many abusers repeat the cycle of abuse is because they think they can stop on their own. Unfortunately the only way most abusers will ever stop is when they recognize they...
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What do you think about when you go to a funeral?
I think of some of the happy times I shared with the person who passed away and how much I will miss them. I think of how they are in a far better place than any of us could ever imagine and how they would want us who are left behind to not be so sad for their loss and to go on with our lives.
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People will be crying all over me, what can i do to make them feel better, when they are crying because someone they love has died?
Why will they be crying over you? I hope it isn't because you are planning to do something really stupid like throwing God's most precious gift of life away.
You obviously recognize that there are at least some people in your life who love and care for you so why would you want to hurt them by doing something so stupid thoughtless and selfish as comitting suicide.
Whatever...
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Life is so complicated don't you wonder why people can't be more honest and straight forward?
I agree. Unfortunately some feel that it does more damage to be honest and straighforward than to lie so as not to hurt someone's feelings.
What those people don't realize is that they are not helping you by lying in an effort to avoid hurting your feelings. Eventually the truth will come out and when it does it's going to hurt a hell of a lot more to find out you were...
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I am so sad today, please can you be happy so i know someone is?
I am happy even when I have no reason to be. As bad as things get for me at times and as much as I want to give in to the temptation to be down in the dumps I remember this. That I am a Child of God and even if not another soul in this world loves me or cares if I live or die My Heavenly Father cares and he loves me. His love was so great for me and you and all of his children that he...
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It does not pay to fall in love, does it?
For all the ups and downs. All the hurt and pain that falling inlove brings when you finally find that someone who loves you back it is so worth it.
Does a little kid give up trying to learn to ride a bike just because they fall and scrape their knee a few times? Does a baby give up on trying to walk just because they fall on their butt a few times? Doe a normal rational adult give up on...
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Why would you date someone if you wanted him or her to change his or her religion?
Wanting or expecting someone to change their religion for you is very wrong. If your religious beliefs are that important to you that you want your potential life partner to share them then try meeting somneone at your church instead of hooking up with someone who doesn't share your faith.
The most unfair thing you can do in a relationship is get romantically involved with someone who...
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How would you tell a close friend you know longer wanted anything to do with them?
You have the damned nerve to call yourself a friend. Ending a friendship simply because you don't agree with the way she is living her life. You are no friend at all.
A real friend would recognize that your friend needs help and do everything in their power to be there for them and encourage them to get the help they need rather than abandon them simply because they don't like...
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Hi! My girlfriend currently has $70,000 in student loans with Sallie Mae. She has no other debt. She is also disabled and recieves social security. We are planning to get married in New York state in the weeks to come. How will her loans
As far as you becoming responsible for her debt once you are married the only way they can make you pay is if you file a joint tax return. If the loans go into default one of the options to recover on the debt the governemnt has is offsetting income tax refunds. If she files taxes seperate from you then they can't touch your refund but if you file together they can offset the entire...
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I recently did some very deep soul searching and realized I have some very strong feelings for a very good friend who is unfortunately married. How do I keep myself from being selfish and telling her how I feel?
To Useless thanks for some sound advice without resorting to judging my intentions. To the rest of you who answered and made assumptions about what my intentions were might I suggest you stay away from answering these types of questions if you can't give objective advice without judging someone's intentions.
The last thing I want to do is be a home wrecker that's why I asked...
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My sister is running away from her abusive husband and she's coming to stay with me. What should be the first thing to do to keep her and the kids safe from him?
Don't listen to all those who told you to get a restraining order. It's just a worthless piece of paper that the cops very rarely wnat to enforce.
Go out and buy yourself a high calliber shotgun and if the bastard comes within 100 yards of your property blow the mother fucker's head clean off.
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What has been the closest US presidential election?
I could be wrong but I believe it was the 2000 election in Which George W Bush won the crucial state of Florida by less than 500 votes thus gaining enough electoral votes to become president.
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My wife calls me a fat slob & pig because I burp when eating. To me this is to say I like her cooking. What do you think?
It depends are you rude and don't excuse yourself when doing so?. It's not poor manners so much to burp because it is only natural after all but if you do so without excusing yourself for it then you are just plain rude.
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How was your weekend?
Mine was awesome. I spent the last 5 days visiting an old friend who lives in Utah. We drove up to the mountains near her home in West Jordan Utah and watched the fireworks. It was a beautiful sight to see.
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Have you been on a plane in the last 6 months?
Yes just today I flew from Salt Lake City UT where I spoent the last 5 days visitng an old friend back to my home town in the North East USA.
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This is a question for men do you have a friend who is a girl and if you do did you ever have a crush on her?
My best friend is a girl. Yes I have a tremendous crush on her unfortunately she is very married and I would never be selfish enough to reveal my feelings for her as long as she remains with her husband.
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What would you want me to pack in our picnic? Is there anything you wouldnt want me to pack?
You can bring the Potato and Macaroni salads I'll bring the homemade fried chicken and some fresh fruit for dessert.
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I am pregnant and expecting my baby in 14 weeks. I am not on benefit, so what money will me and my baby get to help us out?
You'll get zippo if you don't go down to your county assistance office and apply for everything that you qualify for. They don't just hand out benefits you have to go sit for hours on end at the county assistance office and fill out tons of paperwork.
If yoiu aren't willing to do that then you better be prepared to either get a job and support the baby yourself or find...
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Your date is about to leave to go to the bathroom at a restaurant or movie. You’re afraid that she’ll abandon you and not return. Can you ask her to lend you her necklace, phone, or etc. for collateral to ensure she comes back?
No it's not ok to ask. If it's that obvious that they aren't enjoying themselves let em go. There are plenty of other fish in the sea. You don't need to hold on to someone who is making it so obvious that they don't want to be with you.
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Do you love yourself, as much as you love others?
I am sure that I love others way more than I love myself
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Do you go more for looks or personality in your special someone?
It's look 15% personality and other things 85%
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If you're in a serious relationship, is it wrong to be somewhat attracted to another person, even if you would never consider dating them or doing anything about it, and you love your partner very much?
If you are having feelings towartds someone other than your partner it is a warning sign that there are serious problems in your relationship with your s/o.
Head these warning and try to fix what is broken with your relationship rather than pursuing something with this other person.
The grass may look greener with this other person but believe me if you dump your s/o for this new...
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Philly Cheesesteak, French Dip Sandwich or Caesar Salad?
Any of them will do right now. I just got in from a long flight from visiting a friend in Utah and I'm starving
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I said some pretty cruel and judgmental things to my ex bf's girlfriend because she emailed me telling me how much they loved each other and were meant to be after he dumped me for her. She was just trying to help. I said sorry. Am I a bad person?
No you didn't she was trying to rub your nose in it and it hurt so what you did was a normal reaction. At least you were a better person and apologized for ripping into her.
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What do you call a guy who never gives up hope with a friend, no matter how much she turns him down (for years), and still gets excited if she shows him any attention? Is he in love, infatuation, what?
There is no way he is inlove with her. Infatuated maybe. Obsessed probably but not inlove. He needs to wake up and real;ize that she doesn't feel the same and probably never will so it's better to just give up and move on.
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Multiply the number of the month of your birthday by 5. Add 7. Multiply by 4. Add 13. Multiply by 5. Add the day of your birthday. Subtract 205. Write your answer. Your answer should show the month and date of your birth.
yep my answer is 516 which is my birthday
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When is the last time you cried over a ball game?
The 2004 ALCS when the Stupid Yankees blew a damned 3 games to nothing lead over the Red Sox and thus their chance to go onto the world series.
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When you don't let something go, have you become a stalker?
Not necessarily. I once had a really great friend I met online. I met her at a time in my life when I was going through alot emotionmally. She was a great friend and someone who I could always turn to when I needed a caring listening ear.
I used to fear losing her because I depended on her so much. She would tell me time and time again nothing would ever chase her away then one day...
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I hate all meat eaters! They kill innocnt animals. How do you feel about these words?
Grow up and get a life. It's nice that you have chosen to not eat meat but not everyone is sharing your choice that doesn't make them cold blooded killers.
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So I just took a chance...and got rejected. What do you have to cheer me up?
You took a shot that's what counts. If you didn't you would have spent the rest of your life wondering what if I took that shot could it have worked out etc.
I was inlove with a girl for 3 years before I confessed my feelings to her. Fortunately for me it worked out and we ended up as a couple.
Unfortunately for me shortly after we ended up as a couple she was diagnosed...
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If you emailed the girl your bf was involved with before you to give her a better perspective as to why they couldnt be together and how much you two loved each other and were meant to be, and she was mean back, do you think it would be deserved?
Yes it would be deserved because you're rubbing her nos into it. More than likely she still has feelings for him and by you writing and telling her how great you two are together you are rubbing salt into the wound. Leave it alone and go on with your life with your man.
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Excuse me,why are you naked?
I was about to get into the shower unless you have a problem with that lol.
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Would your Dad even care if someone wanted to marry you?
Seeing how I am 47 and make my own choices plus my dad has been dead nearly 22 years that would be a big no
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If you could do anything Or wish for anything that would come true, what would you wish?
Actually not to sound greedy but there are 2 things. The first would be that a formner friend who I still care about and think of constantly would see how sorry I was for the stupid things I did that ended up costing me her friendship and she could find it in her heart to give me a second chance.
The second thing is that my friend who I love more than life itself would finally make up her...
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Why should you have to tell every single person you break up with why you want to break up with them if you do? Do you really owe everyone you choose to break up with a reason for the break up? If so, why?
First off if you are breaking up with them because of something they do or say that annoys you chances are you're not the only one that is bothered by it so it is only common courtesy to point this out to them so hopefully they will take a long hard look at themself and try to correct the issue so it doesn't affect their next relationship. Loogk at it this way. If someone was...
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Never date a guy who ......................?
Someone who is conceited and stuck up. No I am not talking about someone with good self confidence. There is a huge difference between a person with self confidence and someone who is stuck up and conceited. A self confident person doesn't allow their self confidence to make them treat others like shit.
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When was the last time you were a shoulder to cry on?
It seems like this happens to me pretty much on a daily basis.
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How do some women end up with unwanted pregnancies? surely not everyone is foolish to have unprotected sex. I know a friend of my friend who was relatively brighter than most my friends and she also ended up pregnant. But how?
Either your friend's friend was stupid when it came to using protection or the protection she and her partner used failed to do it's job. It happens. Unfortunately the ony completely foolproof method of ensuring you don't get pregnant is not to have sex at all.
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Can you describe your last relationship in 3 word?
the best ever
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What sound don't parents want to hear?
Their daughter moaning from sexual pleasure.
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I've been giving my all to benefit someone in my life, but I feel I'm not getting anything in return - I feel so drained, what do I do?
The answer depends on who this person is. If this person is your s/o then maybe it is time to dump their sorry butt. If you're always the one giving your all to the relationship and they do nothing in return to help maintain it then it is tiome to say goodbye and find someone who understands that a relationship is a 100/100 proposition and that when they don't give their 100%...
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Do you think it is easier to recover from the breakup with your true love, then it is to recover had your true love died? And why?
At least when you break up with someone especially if the breakup was initiated on their part and not yours you can hold on to hope that one day when both of you have grown up a little more maybe you can get back together again.
When you lose someone to death that is permenant and though you may be together in the next life death is a permenant seperation from the one you loved at least...
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WHEN I GO TO LOOK AT MY FRIENDS LIST THEY KEEP DISSAPEARING,WHAT IS GOING ON?
One of 3 things is happening.
1 An AB glitch which from what I hear is quite common.
2 They have decided they no longer wish to be your friend and have removed you. I wouldn't lose any sleep over it if I were you.
3 Their account was a sockpuppet account and has been nuked by the staff.
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Visionquest 26 inch DVD t.v. combo keeps turning itself off after 5 to 10 seconds.
check the menu and be sure you don't have it programed for sleep mode
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It's interesting why is it mostly creepy, old men that whistle at me and generally comment on how I look? is it because I only attract those type of ppl or what?
I don't know you from Adam so I can only assume you are geeting this attention because you like to dress provocatively. You know couple of buttons in the right place undone to show off your boobs low rider jeans with your thong sticking 3 inches above the waist line etc.
While I won't say you don't have a right to dress how you wish I will say you donb't have the right...
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Do you think that there is anything wrong with Michael Jackson? Do you think he is guilty or innocence for child molestation?
yep.
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Is it illegal to celebrate Independence Day in the United Kingdom? Or does it just attract dirty looks?
I highly doubt it is illegal and as far as attracting dirty looks unless you aren't American I highly doubt you'd get many dirty looks for celebrating.
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What was your worst gift you were given for christmas and was it off your "mad aunt"?
I have never been given a bad gift. Sure I've gotten my share of hideous ties or things that end up at the bottom of the closet collecting dust. How then you might ask is it that I say I never got a bad gift?
Because they were given to me by people who loved me and who thought it was something that I could use. How can I think the gift was bad when the person took the time to think...
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Do you blush?
yes very easily. Especially when people teas me about crushing on a very married co worker.
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I have a co-worker that is also a good friend. We act as a couple in the way we talk and act. People tell us we should go out. Nothing as ever happened between us. He likes me a lot. I love him to death. Should I tell him how I feel?
Sweetheart take this advice from someone who has been there. I met a very beautiful young lady about 7 years ago. We became instant friends. We at together all the time hung out with other people from work quite a bit. Even after we both moved on to other jobs we still hung around with other former co workers a few times a year.
About 3 years into our relationship I realized I was falling...
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How would you feel if you had a friend that would rather sleep on a uncomfortable cot that is way too small, when he could sleep in a double, comfy, bed with you, but won't? Total rejection, hidden feelings or what?
He may have hidden feelings and is afraid that things might get out of hand if you were to share a bed.
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What would you think if a male friend called you (a girl) each time your favorite song was ont the radio, be it 3pm, 11pm or 9AM?
I would think that maybe he had a crush on me and was too shy to come right out with it so this was his way of trying to get close to me.
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I'm a petite girl and I love my perky little breasts, but I really want big boobs. Should I get implants or not?
Vanessa Why do you think you need big boobs? If it's to attract a guy screw him. He's not worth it. Any man you have to change your physical appearance for is not worth your time.
Be happy with what God gave you. Do you realize how many women who have naturally big breasts would love to change places with you? Big boobs can bring alot of health problems including back troubles so...
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Can a relationship born from an affair last?
Very rarely Usually the cheater gets bored with the person they cheated on their former partner with and they find yet another.
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Over 40 and never even been kissed. Is there something wrong?
Nothing wrong other than maybe you have your standards set a little too high and need to relax them a little if you have hopes of ever finding someone.
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Can you name one person in your life who you wouldn't miss if they disappeared.
There is no one in my life that I would not miss if they disappeared. Even those who have brough me a great amount of pain would be missed if they suddenly disappeared.
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The Supreme Court is now hearing a case as to whether execution by lethal injection is cruel and inhumane punishment. that it takes too long for one of the three medications to react in the body and causes extreme pain, before death. whats your opinion?
Tough shit. Did the heartless piece of shit think about the pain and torture they were inflicting on their victim(s) when they brutally murdered them? Did they stop to think of the torture and pain they were inflicting on those who would be left behind to deal with the sensless death of a loved one no they didn't so why should I give a rats ass if they suffer any pain as they are being...
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What is your testimony?
This
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Are you in love with your friend?
Not inlove with her but do have some extremely strong feelings for her. Unfortunately I'll never tell her how I truly feel about her unless by some miracle she suddenly divorces her husband
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When you break up after a long relationshop does your heart feel like its getting stabbed, or some other feeling?
When I found out my wife of almost 11 years was cheating on me behind my back it felt like my heart had been ripped right out of my chest.
The next 2 times I would feel this way would be first when my last g/f was given the news that she had terminal cancer then when her mom called me one friday night as I was preparing to go to see her to tell me she had just passed away.
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I called my man for 'booty call' and he told me he was too busy,i told him i would go to plan b,not to worry.he immeditally said that he would try to get away.do you think he was jealous of me thinking about going with someone else?
Unless he knew what you meant by plan B I gurantee you he assumed you meant you would get someone else and he was jealous of the thought of someone else having sex with you.
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Where, are you going to see fireworks on July 4th, 2009?
on tv
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Do you think being asked your hand in marriage on Valentines Day is tacky?
I proposed to a former girlfriend on Valentimes day. What's wrong with that.
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Suckling breasts for milk(erotic lactation,adult breastfeeding,ANR )in Lovemaking,Do this fantasy makes you 'Turn On'?Have You Tried it?
Sorry but that just turned my stomach even thinking about it much longer doing it.
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Who has seen our 'official' flag for the 'fallen'? i think its great, what about you?
I just now saw it and it almost made me cry. I think it is very admirable that someone designed a flag to remember those who have made the ultimate sacrifice for our great nation.
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I am 22 years old girl & i am intrested to marry my cousin who is 20 years old, can i, please suggest me
If you live in the United states it may be illegal. Most states don't allow 1st cousins to marry. There could be exceptions to the law if your particular religious beliefs make it acceptable .
I know in Islam it is often acceptable for cousins to marry each other. You would need to check with your local government to find out if this is acceptable or not.
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Things you would not like to find in your bed?
Well if I had a g/f I would have to say my g/f with another man or woman.
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How can i try and get my ex back?
It depends. Does your ex still have feelings for you?If your ex has made it crystal clear that you are through then I would focus on finding someone else before you get branded as a stalker.
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What would you do if you LOVED a person but, do not want to sleep with them? And they love you and want to sleep with you?
I would be honest but I would choose my words carefully. I found myself in just such a situation awhile back and I guess I didn't do such a hot job of explaining my reasons for not wanting to be sexual with them at that particular moment. They ended up thinking it was because I didn't did them attractive enough to want to make love to them and that was not why.
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Would you vote for a president who isn't Christian?
That depends on what you mean. If you mean someone who is Muslim or Jewish or Hindu etc then yes. However I have a sneaking suspicion that this is not what you are trying to get at with your question
I have a funny feeling though that this question is a veiled reference to the presumption that Mitt Romney will run again in 2012. If my assumption is correct then you are totally and...
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If i have moved out the house for 6 months does that give my husband the right to have an affair?. as he says for that time we were not married anymore?
It depends. If there was an understanding that the move was to give each of you time to decide whether or not you wished to continue with your marriage then he had no right doing what he did.
If however there was the impression that by your leaving the marriage was over and it was only a matter of time before the divorce papers came then he was not wrong in what he did.
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How did you celebrate Independence Day?
Having a cookout at my friends house
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Why are the good looking guys assholes and the average looking ones are so dam sweet?! Why cant there ever be a package deal!?
Here's a few questions for you. Why do you have to have both? What makes you think you deserve a good looking guy who is sweet? and while I'm at it why can't you just be happy with the average looking guy who is sweet?
The one bad thing about AB is Avatar pics are so small that it's difficult to see them real good unless you have the vision of superman. But judging from...
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When a girl gets out of a long term relationship how long should she wait before moving in with another man? She has two kids and he has two kids and he is not divorced yet.
If the he is you the worst thing you can do is get involved with someone before the divorce is final. Especially if you are hoping to get shared custody of your kids rather than just visits every other weekend.
Take it from someone who has seen it happen to a good friend. She will drag your name through the mud and do all in her power to prove you were messing with your new g/f while you...
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Will you marry me?
become a female and I might consider it otherwise you're out of luck lol.
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What guys here actualy like going to the strip club?
Never been to one and never will go. If I want to see some girl dancing naked I can get myself a g/f and have her do it for me.
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How do you find a guy who will spend quality time with you and like you for you, not your body.
It depends on how old you are. If you are fairly young (teens or early to upper 20's) It will be nearly impossible to find a guy who will love you for you. Most teen and 20 something guys are only interested in having a good time and getting laid. Very few are looking for a serious comitted relationship at that age.
If you're a bit older try just being yourself and things should...
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How old were you when Tetris came out? (june 6, 1984)
I just turned 22 about 3 weeks earlier
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Does poor diet contribute to acne?
Diet is just one of the many contributing factors to acne. There's also poor hygene. Stress, Genetics Etc. Each of these in some way contributes to acne.
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Is cohabitation an acceptable alternative to marriage or is it just getting free milk instead of buying the cow like my mother always used to say?
In my personal opinion Co Habitation sends a bad message which is I think I'll love you forever right now but things could change over time naybe I'll meet someone else who I'll have stronger feelings for and I don't want all the messy legal entanglements of a nasty divorce if I decide I no longer love you.
Marriage is not something that should be entered into lightly...
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Would you marry your cousin?
If you would have asked this about 34 years ago when I was 13 and my Cousin was like 21 and had a smokin body I probably would hae said hell yeah.
Now I'm all grown up and know incest is wrong and besides she's in her mid 50's now and everything has gone south so she's not as hot as she used to be lol.
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If me and you are going on a date....Am I driving or are you driving?
You can drive so long as you promise not to take me to some secluded out of the way spot and try to take advantage of me.
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What is the most elite military force in the US armed forces?
I would say Delta Force or Green Berets. But Navy SZeals are right up there too.
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Football season is SO close now. What are your guesses for a possible Cinderella team this year? How about a team that drops from good last season to bad this season?
I think the Eagles will be the team to beat this season in the NFC East
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Should African Americans be compensated for slavery?
Sure and while we;re at it why don't we compensate the descendents of the Japaneese Americans we stole property from and threw into concentration style camps during WWII. And while we're at it lets compensate the descendents of the Native Americans we stole from lied to and cheated out of land.
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Would you still marry someone even if their parents didnt like you?
I almost did. My late fiancee's dad hated me because I was significantly older than her. Not quite old enough to be her dad but somewhat close. Plus he hated my religion and viewed it as a cult instead of a sect of Christianity.
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Guys what do you look for in a woman for marriage?
Kind
Sweet
Intelligent (doesn't need to be a rocket scientist but at the same time want someone who can uphold an interesting conversation about alot more than just who the latest celebrity hunk is)
Caring
understanding
not jealous of every woman I as much as say hi to
can see me and love me for who I am inside.
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Guys: Do you look at boobs first to make sure you like them before you ask a girl out?
While I won't lie and say I ignore a girl's breasts I do not make decisions as to whether or not I wish to date her solely on the size of her chest. If she's sincere and sweet and has a bubbly personality I could care less if she was flat as a board.
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When's the last time you really cried?
Last night when I woke up after a beautiful dream about my last g/f and realized she's never coming back
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Married Men: Do you wear your wedding ring?
When I was married I harrdly ever wore it. I knew in my heart I was married and remained faithful to my wife through our nearly 11 year marriage.
She was just the opposite wore the damned thing religiously and still didn't stop her from cheating on me in the end.
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If you could have lived during a different time and in a different place, when and where would it be (ie. In Europe during the Medieval Times)?
Either Jeruselem at the time of Christ's crucifition or Boston MA on 18 April, 1775
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As of right now, do you miss anyone and who is it?
A former friend who chose to shut me out of her life for good about a year ago over a stupid misunderstanding. I know I need to get over it and accept the fact that we are no longer friends but easier said than done.
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Do Jewish people take Passover off? What if you/I can't?
Unless you work for a business run by observant Jews it's highly unlikely you will be able to get off any time for passover unless you have accumulated vacation or personal time and want to use it.
There are no laws that require an empolyer in the United States anyway to give an employee paid time off for any religious holiday. They can't deny an employee the right to use...
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IS there somebody that understands you?
Yes my best friend Ashley. She knows me better than I know myself sometimes. I only wish that I could clone her so I wouldn't have to lie to her about how I truly feel about her.
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How do you take your mind off of missing someone?
Try to occupy your mind with other things and not think about them so much. It's not always easy and there are going to be some days that you just can't help but think about that person but absorbing yourself in other things usually helps alot at least for me anyway.
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Why is it that married men don't wear their rings? How was I (single girl) supposed to know that he (supposedly happily married) when he openly flirted, asked for my number and had a brief make out session in the back of a shared cab.
Next time a guy comes on to you and asks for your number before jumping into a hot and heavy make out session with him you might want to ask first if he is married or otherwise involved or if you don't want to come off as offensive there are a million ways to access if he is already in a relationship without coming out and directly asking him.
Of course you can never really know for...
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If you meet someone online can you have real feelings for that person without ever meeting them in person?
I highly doubt you could actually fall inlove with someone you have never met face to face. You can be inlove with the image of the person you have built up in your mind from your various online interactions but you can't be in true relationship sustaining love with a person you have never spent a moment of face to face time with. That's my 2 cents worth for what it's worth.
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Would a relationship work if the other person lived 3000 miles away? How could you make it work?
Distance can put a major strain on a relationship but if it is someone who you truly love and cherish then the distance might not be so bad.
If this is someone you know from real life who used to live by you and now has moved away then at some point you will have to make a choice as to who will move to be near the other.
If however this is someone you have met online and have never...
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Would You Like to view a Deceased Love one on Cam inside in a Casket and watching them Decompose?
Might I suggest you pull your head out of your ass next time you want to ask a question like this one. Then again maybe you get off on trying to see how shocking you can be in your questions.
There are many people here who have lost a loved one including myself and I highly doubt that most of them would want to watch their departed loved one decomposing. That's just plain sick and...
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Question for guys: when you look at a girl (thruthfully answer) what do you first see in her? or what is the first thing you look for?
Her eyes. You can tell alot about a person just from their eyes.
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If Michael Douglas can marry someone 20 years younger then why can't I?
If you're younger than 38 but older than 18 there are laws that prohibit that.
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Would you go up and Randomly kiss someone for 50 Bucks?
Nope not even for $50,000,000,000,000.00
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Did you know ive been saving ALL my money to take you there... where...?
Israel.I've always wanted to go on one of those Church guided tours of the Holy Land. To walk where Jesus walked. To see the garden tomb where he was buried. To see the Mount of Olives where he preached one of his first sermons.
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Do you think it looks weird when you see a chubby man with a skinny woman? vice versa?
Not at all. Obviously they see something in each other that makes them want to be together so I think it's admirable that they can overlook what is outside and see their partner for their inner beauty.
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Married men: What do you expect from your wife ? It seems to me once you get married you want someone who will clean all day, cook, iron, wash clothes, take care of kids, work, and never complain about it ! please shed some light.
Unless I am a total invalid and can do absolutely nothing for myself then no and even if that were the case I would never expect my spouse or s/o to be my servant.
I would hope that she would want to do things for me out of pure love for me but it is not something I would expect her to do.
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Guys: when a woman excepts to be your mistress would you still have any respect for her? Would you be able have a serious relationship with this woman?
I would never ever in a billion years have a mistress. If I were married or otherwise involved in a loving comitted relationship with one woman and found myself suddenly attracted to another that would be a wake up call to me that my relationship was in very serious trouble.
Instead of trying to pursure a relationship with this other woman I would do all in my power to work on my...
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I'm pro abortion. Tell me why that is wrong?
Freddy I have no issue with you supporting a woman's right to end God's most precious gift of life. You are well within your right to support it just as I am well within my right as a Christian to be opposed to it.
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How old were you, and them, when you first asked someone on a date?
I was almost 21 when I first got up the guts to ask my future ex wife out on a date
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Why did none of you tell me about Keith Urban before? *drools*
Sorry Alisa You'll have to fight Nicole Kidman for him and I don't think she's gonna let you win.
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Why would a guy lie about cheating on his girlfriend?
Fear of losing her if she knew the truth.
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What are things you do that make you a great friend?
I am there 100% of the way for my friends. I'm not the trype of friend who would bail you out of jail if you got arrested. I'm the type of friend who would be right beside you in that cell laughing my ass off about how crazy and stupid we were to get ourselves there in the first place.
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What kind of communicator are you?(take the quiz)
You Communicate Passionately
You speak from the heart. You can't separate your feelings from what you're saying, even in a professional context.
You tend to speak dramatically, with lots of passion and emotion. It's easy for you to get swept up in what you're saying.
You like to connect with people early on so that you can personalize what you are saying to them.
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Whats the largest amount of money youve held in your hand at once?
In cold hard cash $10,000.00 in other form $35,000.00 cashiers check I brought to the closing table when I bought my house.
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Why cant people just let others believe what they want to believe and not harrass and insult them about it??? ex: saying that people who believe in God are dumb and have no brain.... isnt that a little un-called for? anyone agree?
Christians need to be willing to adhere to that advice as well. I am so sick and tired of them bitching and moaning when they are called dumb and stupid for believig in God yet they seem to have no problem telling those who live their lives in contrary to the teaching of the bible that they will burn in hell for eternity and that they are sodomites and godless creatons.
If Christians want...
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Guys if you found a girl who you thought was beautiful, smart and gave you emotional support, was warm and loving, but is married would you persue her. She stirs your heart, makes you feel alive, would you try to break up the marriage and take her for u?
No that doesn't show true love for someone. True love means you want what is best for that person and putting your feelings and your own selfish wants and needs ahead of the fact they already have someone they have chosen to be with shows anything but love for that person.
Sometimes truly loving someone means knowing when it's time to let go and allow them to be happy with that...
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The girl i like likes 3 boys. I am one of them.(thats a start!) One has a girlfriend, one is my best friend who doesn't like her, and the other is me of course. How can I improve my chances?
Let her know how your best friend feels and convince her of how wrong she is for chasing after the other guy because he already has a g/f Good luck with that
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Men do you wonder about the girl that got away? Do you ever wish you can change things and be with her? Are you unhappy in your present marriage and think about the one u really wanted to be with? Does it keep you up at night?
I am single by choice at present. I often think about someone who stole my heart away from me at a time I was grieving over the loss of a past love.
She came into my life and made me feel things I swore I never would feel for someone ever again but unfortunately I got a little carried away and managed to scare her off.
I've tried so hard over the last year or so to apologize to...
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Okay, i am getting a little mad at everyone who is so agaist MJ...he had a hard life and did the best he could...put yourself in his shoes could of you done any better? He was the KING of POP and i think you should give him credit.
I don't care about how good of a musician he was. None of that matters in comparrison to the fact he was a pervert who preyed on little children.
I don't wish ill upon anyone usually but when it comes to MJ I'm glad he's gone. One less sick motherfucker looking to prey on kids in the world.
Please don't misunderstand if you choose to remember him for his...
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Single or with someone else? What's better?
Both have their advantages and disadvantages. I however prefer being in a relationship to being single but only when I am ready for one.
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"Jealousy is pointless." Do you agree or disagree? Why?
I agree. Jealousy is a sign that the jealous person is insecure about their partners love for them. If they were certain that their partner loved and cared about them there would not be any valid reason for them to be jealous.
Jealousy shows that the person who is jealous fears that their partner will find someone they like better than them so they try to push everyone out of their...
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How many US Presidents have there been, and can you name 5 of them off the top of your head (no googling!)? Please list them.
Techincally there have only been 43 presidents of the US. How you ask when they refer to Obama as number 44? Because Grover Cleveland was elected 2 times each to a single non consecutive term. He was the only President in U.S. History to have this happen. He was first elected in 1884 and then again in 1892.
George Washington
John Adams
Thomas Jefferson
James Madison
James...
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If god grants you just one wish, what would you ask for ?(Do not attempt any more wishes as your only wish....!)
Same thing I have been wishing for since the day my one true love was taken by him which is to join her in Heaven.
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If love is forever, why there are so many divorces?
Because people are too damned quick to throw in the towel. It seems that for most people it's alot easier to just give up than put in all the hard work and effort into making a relationship work.
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What is the dumbest thing you have done today?
Been denying rumors for months about having a crush on a very married co worker. Today a mutual friend asked me when I was gonna start dating again and get married I said when they make an Ashley clone. (that's the name of the co worker I have been denying I have a crush on)
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Married men: What do you expect from your wife ? It seems to me once you get married you want someone who will clean all day, cook, iron, wash clothes, take care of kids, work, and never complain about it ! please shed some light.
Is this the same jackass who thinks all women belong barefoot and pregnant. If I were you I'd be ashamed to admit a moron like that was my friend.
Your friend needs some very serious professional help from a mental health professional. I suggest you ebcourage him to get it before it's too late.
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Would u someone u met in a chat room?
Would I what? Date someone I met in a chatroom? If I got to know them real well and felt comfortable with them I would definitely consider it.
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Married men: What do you expect from your wife ? It seems to me once you get married you want someone who will clean all day, cook, iron, wash clothes, take care of kids, work, and never complain about it ! please shed some light.
It's no wonder your friend is still single with his attitude towards women. If he continues to go down that road of thinking might I suggest you think about investing in a lifetime supply of Vaseline and tissues as well as some pron magazines and dvd's as that is about as close to a real woman your friend will ever get with his attitude.
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Have you ever voiced your opinion publicly during an election campaign & what campaign?
Yess this last Presidential Election.I didn't like McCain much but felt he was far better for us than what we ended up with.
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If the one you "loved" was seconds away from being shot by a mugger, would you jump in front of the bullet to save her/him knowing for certain that you would die?
yes I would
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Would you ever lie to me or hurt me?
All I can give you is my solem word as a God fearing man that I will do my best to never do that however I would be lying if I promised you I would never do it and then at some point did it.
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What famous person would you most like to slap?
Britney and Paris both need a smack back to reality.
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If you were selling yourself on ebay, what would the ad say? Feel free to be creative! :)
47 year old slightly used male for sale. Very loyal and loving. Compassionate and caring. Great with kids. Doesn't take well to being cheated on.looking for owner to accept and love as is.
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My boyfriend punch me in my face my face was swollen for a week this is his third time hitting me. WE broke up he said that he is going to change for me. Im starting to see the sweet guy he used to be should i trust him
The only way I would trust him is if he gets professional help for his problem. People who abuse their partners rarely ever change on their own without help from a mental health professional.
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Stay single or get gf, bf?
For now stay single but one day I will get a g/f when I feel ready to be in a relationship again and not before then.
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You have a friend that keeps coming to you with their problems. One day they tell you to mind your own business because they don't value your advice anymore Chalk it up to a bad day? or end the friendship & say I can't help you anymore?
Personally I chalk it up to a bad day However I would be careful about what advice I give them in the future.
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If a guy says he can't afford to buy a girl the ring she wants (it's $600) and offers to buy a $100 one instead, then later on he announces plans to buy a GPS and a new car stereo, does the girl have a right to be angry?
Honey I'm not saying this because I'm a guy. This is because this is how I feel about the situation. I assume by ring you are speaking either of a promise ring or an engagement ring.
The cost of it should not be as important as is what the ring stands for. It's a symbol of his love for you and his promise and comittment to be yours and yours alone for the rest of your lives....
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Does "for better or worse" mean that no matter how miserable you are, you must stay until you die a miserable death?
For better or worse only covers becoming unhappy or dissatisfied it doesn't cover physical, mental or emotional abuse or continued infidelity.
If your spouse is abusing you or is a compulsive cheater then file for a divorce and be on with your life. If however you are just bored with your partner and they aren't exciting to you anymore remember this.
The grass always looks...
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Would you rather stay home or go out on major holidays?
It depends on the holiday. Christmas Thanksgiving and New Years I prefer to be home entertaining friends and family. I don't care about Memorial day Labor day and July 4th I can stay home and grill or go out to a friends for a cookout doesn't bother me either way.
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Can you complete this sentence? "Revenge is ...... "
for losers. Why put all your time energy and effort into showing someone that what they did botherd you so much that you are seeking to get even.
The best kind of revenge is showing them that you forgive them for whatever it is they have done and move on with your life. It's what Jesus would do so I choose to emulate my life after that of my Lord and Savior.
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Do men not know when they are physically unattractive (summertime shirts off-big tummy)-or do they not care?
Like women don't do the same? What's up with all the girls/women who are really a size 10/12 or bigger trying to shove their asses and everything else into a size 6.
Do these women realize how unsexy they look in a pair of low rider jeans with big rolls of fat hanging over the sides of their jeans especially when they compliment the look with a top that doesn't cover their...
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Name a piece of music or song that special to you and your partner
This was mine and my one true love's favorite because she truly was beautiful not only physically but inside as well to me anyways.
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You offer me a ride home. I get in your car and you start the motor. What will I hear come out of the car radio?
you have a one in 3 chance that it will either be Contemporary Christian, Country, or Oldies
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What does a Mormon temple look like inside?
I've only been inside 3 in my life. The one in Idaho Falls Idaho when I was a student at Ricks College now known as Brigham Young University Idaho. The one in Provo Utah when I was in the Missionary Training Center for 3 weeks and my home Temple in Kennsington MD aka the Wahington DC Temple
To my best recollection they all pretty much looked the same. Lots of murals of Christ or...
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What do you do that makes others angry with you? Why do you do it?
I refuse to accept that I am not a Christian and that I worship a different Jesus than the rest of Christianity.
Just because I'm Mormon doesn't make me any less of a Christian than anyone else who believes in Jesus asd the Messiah. And as far as the different Jesus thing goes, Just because I believe some things about him that are not taught by mainstream Christians doesn't...
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Guys would you object it the Female Nurse who was giving you a Bed Bath, was once a He...?
Nah as long as they were doing so in a professional way I could care less.
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Do you actually treat people like they treat you?
For the most part yeah. However some have treated me like crap without good reason and I still treated them with kindness because it's how my Savior would want me to be towards everyone.
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Would you ever date your best friend?
In a heartbeat if she was single and available
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Would you trust your boyfriend and your best friend alone together?
Seeing how I am a heterosexual male that would be my girlfriend and my best friend. I don't have a girlfriend right now but if I had one then the answer would be absolutely not.
Not because I wouldn't trust her but because I wouldn't trust my male best friend seeing how he is nothing but a manwhore.
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What do you do if you loves someone but they love someone else?
Well that all depends. If they are involved in a relationship with that someone else then you back off. The worst thing you can do is let those feeling make you selfish and inconsiderateby pursuing someone who is already in a relationship.
If they aren't with that person however then I would tell them how I felt about them and let them make the choice as to whether or not they wanted...
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What would you do if your best friend kissed you?
I think I would die seeing how my best friend is a co worker who I am absolutely crazy about but won't say anything to her because she is married although not very happily but that still doesn't give me the right to make her even more confused about whether or not she should leave him by confessing my feelings for her.
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Just for a sec pretend u are a 14 year old that is overweight and all the guys at school just like u as a friend because u are not skinney have any answers i need some help here people?
Sweetheart that's because they are all little immature boys who can't see past what is outside. I promise you that one day you will find someone who when they look at you will see the beautiful young lady you are inside and not care about what is outside.
It may not happen anytime real soon but sooner or later someone will see you for who you are in your heart and not care about...
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What does President Barack Obama's race have to do with anything?
Absolutely nothing at all. Neither does his religion. Don't get me wrong I am a conservative Republican so you know damn well I didn't vote for him and not because he's black or because he is supposedly really Muslim but because I don't agree with him on many issues. I think however that too many people are making a big deal over nothing about him being black and about him...
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Do u think the person who rejected t your love will regret it One day?
Yes because to that person looks takes preceedence over personality and she always winds up getting involved with losers who treat her like shit.
That doesn't matter to her though because they are all so good looking and that is all she can seem to focus on. Good looks mean more to her than how the person treats her.
One day when she grows up and becomes an adult mentally and...
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Do you get teased alot?
Yep I'm an easy target for teasing. Half of my co workers think I'm inlove with my best friend at work and constantly tease me about it.
I learned not to let it bother me anymore because the more people see it bothers me the more determined they are to believe there is at least some truth to it.
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Girls:Why do women constantly asking men, "Am I fat?"
Guys: isn't that a damned if you do/damned if you don't question?
There is a semi tactful way of telling her. I personally prefer real women with some meat on their bones to the unrealistic Victoria's secret supermodel types.
If the girl I am with asks me if she's fat and she is I will tell her You're curves are in all the right places and I love and accept you just as you are so what does it matter if I think you're fat or not....
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How to attract and keep a nice guy?
I'm a nice guy and here's what it takes to attract and keep me.
1)Be yourself. If there is one thing that turns me off it's women who pretend to be something they are not. Be proud of who you are and don't try to be something you're not and I promise you'll have me for life.
2) Don't take advantage of my kindness or to put it in more simpler terms...
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Date, marry or remain single?
Married once didn't work out been single awhile now so maybe I'll give dating a try and who knows if I meet the right woman I might even be able to be convinced to get married again
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Who just rang my door bell?
A couple of those Mormon Missionary fellows. They seem to think your soul needs saving. Then again those Mormons think everyone needs saving.
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If someone called you 'beautiful,' would you assume that they wanted to pursue a relationship with you? (Assuming that the flatterer isn't related to you.)
First since I am a man I highly doubt anyone would call me beautiful. Handsome maybe but that is very unlikely as well since I am not someone who is usually described as handsome by most women not related to me or a close friend who feels obligated to lie to me just to help boost my self confidence a little.
Now to answer your question. I would not assume they wanted to pursue a...
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What is something you probably not say to a terrorist threatening to blow you up?
Muhammed liked to do it with pigs.
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