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I'm 15 and very much contemplating suicide. I know asking for quick methods gets no answers, so instead what are good reasons to live? The bad things in my life outweigh the good things and I don't want to fight through them to see how worse life will get
I'm sorry that you're having a rough time.
The hope is that the bad things in your life outweigh the bad... ONLY IN THIS MOMENT IN TIME. If we're lucky, we can look forward to a long, good life. This present time may wind up being only a blip on the radar of your life.
I hear that you're in pain, and I'm old enough to be your mom and what I want to tell you...
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Im 20 and ive had more than 50 partners. and had sex more than 800x. does that make me a whore? if so. cue to me bein disease free should my gf feel bad about havin sex with me?
Blech, I wouldn't want to be your girlfriend until you boiled that thing in water or something! Don't be so proud of yourself.
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Im 16, & lost my virginity when i was 13. This may seem like alot and really bad, but ive had sex with 13 people , does that make me a whore?
Listen to me. It doesn't matter what people would call you. You have an opportunity at any time to stop what you're doing. People do foolish things when they are young. It sounds to me like you think that by being sexual with this number of boys
that you've been foolish too. It's never too late (or too early) to change how you live your life. You're a smart...
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I like this guy who is 26 i am 13 and i am pretty sure he likes me back. should i confront him? do u think when i am 18 we could have a relationship? do u think he will say something? what should i do?
I think it would be wise for you to wait until you're 18 and if you still feel the same way (which you probably won't) then ask him then. In the meantime, look for boys more your own age.
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Im 15 and I've been trying to get along better with my mum, we've been fighting non-stop, i keep asking to do activities together but she unwilling but she does stuff with my 2 older sisters and my younger bro. she makes it obvious that im the least fave.
I'm sorry to hear this. What I would do is speak with the brother or sister you
are closest to, and ask that they be your advocate and explain to your mom that you're feeling left out, and what your desires are. Maybe that would help.
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What do you know now that you wish you'd known when you were younger?
That almost every bad situation and bad feeling in life does not mean that it's going to last "forever". There's hope.
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My husband is leaving me because of our children what should I do?
I'm so sorry. Your husband is a jackass.
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What has surprised you the most in life so far?
That marriage is something that you always have to work out. That there's never a day where you can or should say, "okay, I've arrived!!"
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Do you think jumping from a tall building would be a fun way to do yourself in or a scary way?
What a sad question to ask only a day before 9-11, where we remember
almost 3,000 deaths, and HUNDREDS of deaths by those who had to jump from their
building because there was no way to rescue. It must have been absolutely terrifying.
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Is 21,090 mg of Ibuprofen, Lithium, Seroquel, and Lexapro leathal in a 115 lbs woman? I'm not suicidal, although I'm sure it seems that way, but I am curious. I've already gotten available help (therapy and such). It's just a question that bothers me.
Your curiosity worries me. Is there someone new you can talk to?
The problem with drug quantities is that everyone is different. What can kill one person can "just" put another in a perpetual coma, or do other extreme damage
and not kill them.
I believe that your curiosity is actually a cry for help. I wish you the very best,
and will be praying for you....
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What do you think of suicide?
I understand the thought that you can escape everything, that you can just have
final peace and quiet. I have experienced suicide by people close to me twice in my lifetime, once as a child and once as an adult. What I've come away with is that
those people were being very shortsighted, thinking that their present situation was going to be their PERMANENT situation, and that their death...
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Can I have 3 points then I can go to bed. :)
there ya go!
Enjoy.
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If you were a celebrity what kind would you be?
I would be the kind who goes on shows like Howard Stern's and reveals WAY TOO MUCH about themselves, and it would haunt me for the rest of my career, LOL.
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My bf dumped me over msn. No explanation after 2 yrs. Now I'm trying desperately to call him because I feel like I never got a chance to speak. He just won't pick up his phone. Is it wise for me to keep trying, for my own mental state?
I think that if you need closure, if you need to be heard out, then write him
a letter and mail it. You won't know for sure whether or not he will actually read it
(he probably will) but I think that writing it out could be very therapeutic for you.
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What foods would or do you like to eat as left overs
Corn on the cob, straight out of the refrigerator. YUM!!
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I am a sensitive woman in my 30's and I tend to cry when I am frustrated, angry or hurt. My boyfriend often laughs at me when I cry and says it is comical and that I act like a child. Is this inappropriate, especially to someone he loves?
I think you both need to learn how to communicate better. I don't think that you
should make a blanket statement about being sensitive. Many people are sensitive without crying all the time. I think you need to try to learn how to put those tears into words so that you can be viewed as an adult, and treated and supported as an adult.
Do I find it inappropriate that your boyfriend...
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Whats a bad way to get rid of a dead pet fish?
serve it as sushi
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Does anyone get or know anything about tonsil stones and what someone can do to get rid of them?
I dip a cotton swab in peroxide and then rub it against my tonsil in an upward motion so it dislodges the debris.
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What does getting baptised mean to you?
I was baptised as an adult, and it was the best day of my life.
It means that you are declaring, publicly, that your heart is one with the Lord
and that it's your desire to be a new creation in Him. It was a thrilling day for me,
getting up before the congregation, giving my testimony (scary!!!) and then getting
dunked. It was awesome.
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If you had to, who on tv would beat the crap out of
I would be happy to beat the crap out of Kathy Griffin. She's her own greatest fan.
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Who is more emotionally sensitive... A lady or A Man?
I think it depends upon the individual. I know many men who seem "extra" sensitive,
and I know women who are very unemotional. I doubt there's any corner on sensitivity.
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Whatever happened to mr ed?
There are conflicting stories involving of the death of Mr. Ed.
One version is by 1968 the horse playing Mister Ed was suffering from a variety of health problems. In 1970 he was euthanized with no publicity, and buried at Snodgrass Farm in Oklahoma.
A second story, which also occurs in Oklahoma, is a horse that died in Oklahoma in February 1979 who was widely thought to be Mister Ed, (it was...
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Any ideas what this could be: painful urination, lower stomache pain and back pain, breast pain. Ive been back and forth to the doctors and antibiotics help for a couple days then the pain gradually comes back.
Sounds like a kidney infection. Do you have any fever?
The breast pain sounds like a symptom unrelated to all of the others.
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Can chomping on ice cubes all the time cause problems with your teeth or gums?
Of course it does. I see it every day at the office. So many cracked teeth!
If you find yourself COMPULSIVELY chewing on ice cubes instead of just "wanting to", you may have what I had, and that was an iron deficiency (anemia). If this is true for you, a simple blood test will let you know.
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How do you know if a baby boy has an erection, and how noticeable are they? im watching a 10 month old boy today
Why do you want, or need, to know that??
Are you going to care for him any differently if he does??
I'm concerned about your question.
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Why my husband keep saying that is normal to call his ex girlfriends after we get into and argument? He said : I can't talk with you and I need somebody who i can talk with??? Is this normal?
Nope this isn't normal. You are supposed to be the "somebody" he can talk to.
I think it's just easier for him to think that they are able to hear him better, since
they don't have the day to day stresses that you both have, as a married couple.
I'm hoping that your marriage is rather new....is it?
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My boyfriend is willing to give up on our relationship because he doesn't think he can be a good enough husband and he is stressed out with school and doesn't have time for me, but a month ago we are talking about marriage.....?
I'm sorry to hear this. Your boyfriend sounds very overwhelmed. This doesn't mean
that he doesn't love you. I think it may be best that you not fight for this relationship right now, and give him the time he needs to get his act together.
He may actually be giving you quite a gift, since isn't it better that he be this concerned than being a boyfriend who is stressed out,...
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I broke up with my boyfriend 2 mo's ago. I did love him once, but we grew apart. no matter how hard I tried, I couldn't fix it. Now, I'm seeing someone else - and he's calling me begging me to come back. I feel bad, is that normal?
Oh yes, it's definitely normal. I think it would be rather heartless for you NOT to feel badly, you know?
That said, as you already know, all because you feel badly doesn't mean that
you should go back to him if it's a relationship that you feel has no future.
Be strong and continue to move on.
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What are some reasons NOT to become a doctor?
I don't believe that it's lucrative anymore (if you are interested in making money
in your profession, as opposed to "just" being a public servant) with all that's going on with the changes that are coming
to health care.
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Are there the serial numbers on guns from gun shows. how old do you have to be to buy one?
Yes, there are serial numbers on guns at gun shows. Sorry, I'm not positive about how old you need to be, to buy one.
Why are you interested?
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What comes to mind when i say "Florida"?
my big, smiley face !! That's where my in law's go for THE ENTIRE WINTER!!!!
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15 years ago I was told I had a skin reaction between my fingers to the coating that they put on new tires. I recently got it again but have forgotten what to do about it. It is very painful and itches like crazy. Can anyone help me with this?
Sounds as if you MIGHT have a reaction to latex. I believe that an allergist can
test you for it.
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My elbows have had these small pimple like bumps since i was a kid. I've tried moisturizers and medicated creams like Hydro-cortisone cream but nothing gets rid of them. i know it's not eczema b/c i had that as kid on my legs and although my elbows look s
I don't know what this is called, but I have it too. What works is medicated powder, like Lotrimin. NOT the ointment.
My understanding is that it is one of the symptoms of a thyroid issue, and I do have hypothyroidism. You might, too. A simple blood test will tell you.
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ON A SCALE OF 1-10 (10 BEING HIGHEST OF COURSE) HOW DO YOU THINK YOU LOOK FOR YOUR AGE?
I'm 49 and I think I would give myself an 8 1/2. I barely have any wrinkles yet
(thank you, genetics!) and I'm told that I look a good ten years younger. I'm sure
it will catch up with me, but for now that's my answer, LOL.
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WHAT WAS THE LAST "GOOD DEED" YOU DID FOR SOMEONE AND HOW LONG AGO WAS IT?
At the grocery store this morning I offered to take an item down from a higher shelf that an elderly woman was eyeballing, and didn't seem to want to ask for help.
She was very grateful.
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You are a volunteer. Are there times when you are ready to tell those you help to go screw themselves?
No, and I'll tell you why. I never allow myself to get forced into helping.
I help when I can, and as I can. I don't let people guilt-trip me into doing more than I want or am capable of.
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People who have had eating disorders: do you ever find yourself missing some aspect of it?
Oh yes. I am a recently recovered binge eater after 35 long years of addiction,
starting from the time I was 13. I miss the actual food, the taste and the amount of it. I also miss it because it acted as medication for what ailed me...now I deal with my problems without the food, which is certainly a better, healthier solution, but
very tough until you build up that "food won't...
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How do i defeat depression?
I am a true advocate of medication. I hear you saying that you want to
"fight" (and win) your depressive symptoms. I think that great and sometimes it's not enough.
Schedule an appt with your physician, that's my advice, discuss your symptoms
(write them all down so you don't leave something important out) and see if you
would benefit from a little chemical...
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Birthday is a special and happy day..Most people can't wait for that day to come..But i feel that day is a sad day..Because that was the day my parent started their suffering in order to raise me...And i still couldn't do anything for them..Is it right?
You are a sweet soul but you shouldn't be feeling at all guilty.
It was your parents actions that produced you. Along with "suffering" comes
GREAT JOY in being a parent. It would be a gift to you parents to CELEBRATE your birthdays, since they have sacrificed (as all good parents do) to have you in this
world. Embrace that. You're special !!
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I went to get my bday gift from friend but there was misunderstanding & I did not get it from her workplace, she was off on Friday she COULD HAVE brought it to me, I do not know why she did not, should I assume she is being lazy in bringing it to me?
No, you shouldn't assume anything, you should simply ask what happened.
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So, if ive been dating a guy for a week.. (but, loved him for months) what should i get him as a 16th birthday gift? - nothing too expensive..
How about a video game? I wouldn't get anything romantic. If you want to give a mushy card, that would be nice.
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My Cousin's “Big 40”Male, programmer ( also has a website that he’s hoping to leave his job to do it ft) newlywed w/ child. He loves sports. He’s been trying to get in shape since he is turning 40. He is having a Big bash. Need to get a gift?
I'd get him a quality heart rate monitor.
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What makes you so grumpy today?
When people start trying to have deep conversations with me when they know that I am tired. That gets me so annoyed! LOL!! I get cranky when I'm sleepy.
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Do you know if a uterine fibroid can cause weight gain? and why?
I had a 19 cm. fibroid (the size of a five month pregnancy) and it only weighed
three pounds.
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Does a virginal woman need to get pap smears?
My understanding is that a sexually active woman should go for an exam and pap smear the year they are sexually active (and every year thereafter) and a virgin should go by the age of 21.
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I had a doctor's appointment this morning to get the results of the bone scan from yesterday. I am CANCER FREE! Yayyyyy! Thank you, God! This doesn't mean it won't ever come back, but for now ... no more cancer! : D Will you help me celebrate? : ))
God bless you, I'm so happy for you!!!!
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Help! What would be a good food to make for a 50's theme dinner party?
I would do hamburgers and french fries, with bottles of Coke.
I would serve the burgers and fries in plastic baskets.
Sounds like a fun theme, enjoy!!
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What is your favorite song and why?
My all time favorite song (since I was a teenager and I'm 49 now) is Superfreak
by Rick James. It totally appealed to my wild side back then, and now I still feel
"superfreaky" from time to time, LOL.
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Are you sick of the song "Some were over the rainbow"? because it has been sung over hundreds of times by many different artists
I love THIS version, take a listen!!
I find the song very uplifting. Gives me goosebumps!
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When you in school whats the biggest thing you got in trouble for?
I didn't like another girl and I threw her glasses in the garbage.
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Ive just split up with my gf, how do i get over the hurt, and pain, and upset?
You just have to go through it. In time you will feel better.
Sorry you're having a rough time right now.
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When was the last time someone loved you, not your possessions, but you?
My husband does. I have nothing to offer, really, and we've been together for over
30 years.
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Do talking therapies really help, or do they just exacerbate problems? (i.e. a problem shared is a problem *doubled*)
Lovely question. I think that for some it helps, and for some, it hurts.
As far as I was concerned...it really helped very much.
I invested in six months of therapy as a present to myself when I turned 40.
I had a LOT of issues about my father. Through therapy I was able to see the situation with new eyes. There was psychic pain involved, but that pain did
produce growth in me. I feel...
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What is your longest relationship time with a partner?
30 years this April. It's still a really viable, loving, hot, relationship.
I'm a lucky woman.
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When you were a kid and your feelings were hurt, did you ever imagine yourself dying and your family feeling horribly sorry for how they’d treated you?
Yes I did. I'm almost 50 now (::whispering:: and sometimes, I still do!).
I think we just want to be loved, and validated and appreciated.
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Do you feel obligated to socialize with unlikable family members or relatives?
Of course. I do it for my husband's sake, for my parents' sake.
Sometimes we have to do things we don't like to do. That's part of being an
adult.
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How old is too old to have braces on your teeth?
My mother in law was in her seventies. She's 80 now and still wears a retainer
on the lower teeth, lol....
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Is there anyone who gave birth and it was NOT the most painful experience of their life?
As a basis for comparison, could a mother describe an experience that was as or more painful than giving birth?
I stepped on a rake with a heavy wooden handle and smashed myself on the side of my face and under my chin. That hurt more than having a baby, for me. The lump on my chin was about the SIZE of my newborn, though, LOL!!
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Hey you, are you dining in or out today and what are you having?
We brought in pizza tonight, from a new place in town. The crust was nice and thin
but there was too much cheese and not enough sauce. It's nice not to have to cook
but I need to find yet another place!
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What is better family guy, futurarma or simpsons?
No comparison. Family Guy is the most witty, cutting edge cartoon on TV today.
The others are truly lame when compared to the Family Guy yardstick.
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I left my wife and son for another woman. I gave up everything for her. I love her more than I have ever loved anyone before. After a month she kicked me to the curb. Now I am alone, sad, and heartbroken. Any great advice for a dumb ass?
I don't think you need advice, you made a bad choice and now you are reaping the consequences. Just be a great Dad, and in time maybe you will meet a new woman
who you can find love with, again.
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Why does my 14karat gold ring make my skin itchy and incredibly dry?
It may not be your ring at all. I found that, because I wash my hands with my rings on, the soap gets trapped underneath the band and I get a rash from the soap.
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Where can I find skin lightening creams without hydroquinone in them?
I have porcelain skin with a few freckles on my face I want to get rid of and a discoloration on my neck, but I'm scared to use anything with it in it after hearing it causes cancer.
I haven't heard that myself, but maybe if you're concerned you might want to
try natural lemon juice. I hear that it does work over a period of time.
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I'm not religious at all, but I dreamed I was Mary Magdalene and was sitting under a tree with Jesus holding his baby in a sheet. Jesus took the sheet from me, the baby disappeared, and Jesus was upset. What could this mean?
Wow, that's some dream!
Are you having any inclination toward religion? I always think of babies being
representative of a "giving birth" to something new. I just would guess that you
were giving birth to the idea of believing in Jesus yet you feel undeserving,
so He takes the baby from you and is disappointed in you??
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Overeducated says he is eating birthday cake for Sunday dinner tonight. Will you join me in wishing Overeducated a Happy Birthday?
HAPPY BIRTHDAY, Overeducated!
Thanks so much for being so understanding of my situation (regarding the
bipolar Dad). You're swell. :-)
blessings, Sue
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I told one of my coworkers that I liked the new guy in another department and she told him I liked him. I keep seeing him walking by my area now and he stares at me and one day he smiled. Does this mean he may be interested? I also found out he's single.
Yes, I think it means he may be interested!!! What a perfect opportunity for you to start chatting with him more. Good luck!
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This girl and I kissed and made out, but she doesnt think we should date.. Because she thinks I live to far away from her, is there anyone who can help me try and change her mind, or advice? I only live 5 minutes away from her,
If you live five minutes away then she's lying when she offers the excuse that you're too far away....she seems to be regretful that she's kissed you. All you can do is ask her why, and then if she continues to tell you nonsense, just let her go. Some girls
are very fickle, and once they get a guy they don't want him anymore. Was it a good kiss?
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Does my teacher like me? He:
1. Has taught me for 4 years
2. Stops me in the hall, library, town, etc to talk for literally hours
3. Calls me pet names (honey,dear)
4. Jokes about how I may as well date him because he's the same age as my bf
&more
Yes, he likes you.
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I feel no emotions for my family, friends. i use to love football and music and could feel wot they were sayin in the songs but not now. am 17 btw i dont feel lik killing my self but i just feel numb.. can di be fixed so i will get my feeling back
I guess the big question for you is, what changed? If you used to love football
and music and now you're feeling so bothered that you think of suicide, what's going on in your home??
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If your family hates and abuses you, you have no place to go, no job or car, would you stay until you finished school or leave to go live in a shelter?
I would absolutely stay.
My question for you is, why does "everyone" hate you?
That's a rather sweeping statement. And what sort of abuse are we talking about?
Sexual abuse should be reported to the authorities.
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Best diet to reduce the belly fat?
Go low carb. I did South Beach a few years back and it was amazing how it
took care of the belly fat, while I still enjoyed wonderful meals. If you don't want
to do an actual diet, just cut out bread, potatoes,pasta, and white rice and you will see the benefits within a month.
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What does this guy mean I was wearing a blue jean shirt buttoned. Felt uncomfortable this guy on the internet told me to get naked. Other people he wants naked pictures of me.
I'm not understanding...are you online with a webcam, and so people are seeing you??
The internet is FULL of lecherous people who want to see others naked.
Don't do it.
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How many times a day do you lose something?
I think I lose my glasses EVERY single day!
There's one pair that I know the exact location of, however. They fell into the toilet at work last month, and I flushed them out to the Manhattan reservoirs.
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Wife tells hubby what she is making for dinner. He gets home to find the menu has changed. Hubby gets pissed because he had his taste set for first selection. Wife gets pissed because she feel hubby is not appreciative. What do you think?
I think in a perfect world, hubby would come home and eat dinner without whining, and then after dinner, casually ask if his wife could make the first dinner selection the following night, that he was looking forward to it. The hubby's anger sounds like disappointment. Makes sense to me since he didn't get what his tastebuds were waiting for all day. Yet to get mad isn't a good...
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Can you share with me the silliest thing you love to do?
I love opening the blinds in my bedroom and laying on my bed in the late afternoon when the sun is JUST RIGHT, taking a cat nap.
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Do you ever talk to people online about your personal problems, or to get an opinion from a 3rd party because you know they will be honest?
I do !!! I have gotten some of the best advice of my life, chatting with others online.
It's really amazing.
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I lied to my gf .. i told her that i've had sex but i'm a virgin i want to be honest and tell her the truth what do you think ?? should i tell her .... i don't want her to be mad ....?
Tell her. She won't be angry with you if you simply say that you were very embarrassed to admit it, before.
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If one was to hang themselves what would be best to use? A Nylon or synthetic rope, or a natural hemp or manila rope; would it make a difference in breaking the neck? What diameter of rope would work best?
This is a very dangerous question to give answers to. If anyone reading (or posing the question) is looking for a how to, PLEASE ask for help immediately. Your problems may seem overwhelming, but they are not if you get the attention you need.
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I need to buy a new baking pan for my neighbor, but i don't know what brand it is or what type its called. I think it's technically a "jelly roll pan" But its non stick and has a hollow chamber in the bottom. What kind of pan is this?
It's actually called a jelly roll pan!! You can find a steel one at williams sonoma.
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I dont under stand at times i look at my baby and i love him so much.but theres times i just hate him
You sound like you are feeling very overwhelmed. It is difficult to be a new mom
when you HAVE a husband to share with. I can understand how being a single mom
would be so much harder.
You are not crazy to feel as you do. Babies change our lives in so many ways.
Please talk to another new mom or a family member and let them know you are
having a rough time. Maybe they can watch the...
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Why is it considered that women gossip more then men?
I think it's just a generality, because women talk more than men (and that is a
known fact).
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Were you once a quiet person? What made you open up?
When I was a young person I was quiet and serious. As an adult (in my 20's and since then) I grew more open. What made me open up was feeling so good about
sharing with people and developing relationships that I haven't shut up since, LOL.
I HIGHLY recommend it.
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What was your worst illogical childhood fear?
I was afraid my heart would stop beating. I used to check it all the time.
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Can self harming be an addiction to emotional pain?
I think that self harming takes what is an emotional pain, and MAKES it a
physical pain to try to deal with it. It is a way that some cutters, for instance,
says makes them feel real, and alive. It is something that needs to be taken
VERY seriously and treated very quickly. There is always some sort of trauma
behind a person's desire to self harm.
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How effective is cognitive therapy in treating anxiety disorders? has anyone been to cognitive therapy and can tell me what it is like?
Cognitive therapy is incredibly helpful. I am claustrophobic and a New Yorker who needs to go into subways and elevators all the time. At first it's terribly upsetting.
After awhile, though, you realize that your worst case scenario is NOT happening.
Each subsequent time you are a bit more relaxed. That relaxation makes a huge difference. I would not say I am cured, but I am in a much...
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I've read that Passive Aggressive Personalities emerge from years of conditioning. Does this mean that it can be de-conditioned/de- commissioned? How do you do this please?
I think that one thing that can be very helpful is for you to get into the habit of telling the truth. If someone has hurt your feelings, tell them so. If you are asked
to do a favor and don't want to, then just say no rather than do it and then be resentful. I think that the more you get used to expressing your emotions and seeing that you are respected for that, the less you will want...
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I thought I posted this. If double sorry. I think I might be a control freak based on symptoms, but I want to get help. I tried therapy but that only made it worse, are there any websites, or forums that anyone might know where I can find answers?
I'm no professional, but what I know about being a control freak is that the person is actually just wanting to control their circumstances because they are afraid of being out of control. This seems like an anxiety issue to me. I would google the words
"help for anxiety" and see if that can be of help to you. Best wishes.
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I had bad anxiety since i was 13 people were shocked when they saw me now im 17 and people are still the same way do you think im do young to have anxiety problems.
Unfortunately, no, I don't. In fact, there are TONS of people many years younger than you who have anxiety issues. It's so difficult to live with them, isn't it?
Sometimes therapy can be helpful. Maybe you should consider it. Ask your parents to find a doctor who can help.
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What stain is hard to get out of clothes?
beets
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I'm getting orange spots on light colored TOWELS only after washing. No other clothes are affected. I am suspecting inferior dyes or materials in the product as they have been purchased at discount stores.I wash in hot water with no bleach.
Does your washing machine have any areas of wear inside? I think you may
be correct, but another thought is that maybe these stains are rust stains...
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I was wondering how to clean mold from a lace curtain.And preventing it from growing back if possible. Thanks
If the lace is white, I would fill a basin with bleach and dip it, and then rinse with cold water. I'm not certain how to prevent its growing back, I guess keep it away
from any moisture.
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Can you buy no boil lasagna noodles at any grocery store ? I always used the kind you have to boil and never heard of no boil type.
I live in the East and I see the no boil lasagna noodles at Stop N Shop.
I don't use them myself, but I hear that they are very good!
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I need to lose about 100 pounds, and I'm a type A personality, and under a huge amount of stress. How can I motivate myself to get the weight off and keep it off?
I think that if you consider the benefits of exercise as far as reducing stress,
you'll wish you did it years ago. Don't even think of working out for weight loss.
Think of working out as a way to take the anxieties of the day out of your body.
I think you'll be very surprised at how good you feel, and the weight loss will
be a natural byproduct of it. Good luck!
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Are there something from your childhood and you still love them?
Yes!! The cookie called the Mallomar. When I was a little girl in the 60's those cookies were SO MUCH larger!! My sister and I always pulled off the marshmallow
tops and spooned milk into the wafer bottom, lol. They were delicious. Still are.
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I have a scar with nerve damage thats right on the top of my eyebrow. there's sort of this patch of hair that grows higher then my eyebrow due to the cut.. i've heard that waxing isn't good.. what can i do when plucking to make it not so sensitive?
You can rub a bit of Ambesol, the product you use for tooth pain, on the spot
and it will offer a bit of numbness for a short time.
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Please help? i have been with my gf since a year and we really loved and still love eachother but this is what happened, she told a guy online that shes single and she also said to him 'how come a fit guy like you is single?
Yikes. Lying and telling someone you're single when you have been with someone for a year does not sound very promising to your relationship. She also sounds pretty shallow, to think that just because someone is fit, they have to have found someone. Sorry you have to deal with this!
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She says Im the best she has ever had. Problem is she is the only one i've ever had. Do I trust her on this?
Just take a compliment, buddy. Why make this a trust issue?
Keep practicing until even YOU know that you're good.
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What type of negativity do you indulge in most often? Obsession with problems, comparison, competition, or lack of appreciation?
Nice question! I tend to dwell on how much I do for others compared to how much they do for me. I'm a perpetual martyr on the outside, and can get really negative
and resentful on the inside. I'm working on it, though!
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I was invited to a wedding by a girl I have been seeing for the last month. I accepted. Do I offer to pay for part of the wedding gift to the bride and groom? Do I pay half, all, or does she handle it. What is proper etiqette?
Nice question! My feeling is that you are meant to be her escort, and that is
all you need to offer. It would be totally lovely were you to offer to pay for half
of the gift but I do see it as her obligation. I do think it would score you some
big points if you offered, though. Have fun! You sound like a great catch.
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What contitutes an attractive man?
A man who doesn't try too hard, who is comfortable with himself,
a man who is courteous without it looking like butt kissing, a man who seems to actually be listening when a woman is speaking, who remembers "the little things",
is not jealous, and who has a good sense of humor. Regardless of what the man
looks like (unless he's Elephant Man, of course) I would find a man...
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I keep getting girls to like me, without wanting them too. it happens in such a small time frame too. how can i stop this or at least slow it down, without changing myself?
It may not be you! You could just be unknowingly surrounding yourself with
desperate women! :-D
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Is it appropriate to send a thank you to medical professional for doing a procedure in a way that it took up more of her time, but resulted in less discomfort for me afterwards? Would it be considered presumptuous, like thanking her for doing her job?
my hubby is a dentist and LOVES when he gets notes and phone calls like this!
It totally makes his day.
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Is it Duck season or Wabbit season?
dukk thetton !!!!!
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I just wanna love and be loved is there somthing wrong with that?
Of course not! It's what EVERYONE wants!! It's what life is all about !!
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Is it normal for kids to sleep all day when they dont feel good or is that bad?
It can be normal, but if you're not positive why they are not feeling well, it's best
to take them to the doctor.
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At what time in a relationship, is it appropriate to break wind in front of each other.
I waited TEN YEARS!!! I don't advise it, LOL !!!!!!
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My wife and i have problems with her not feeling she gets 100% of my attention. but i really do. and the only time she feels this way is if my family asks for my help for something. like my mom. and she gets jealous. i dont understand it. please help.
You DO understand it !!! Your wife is jealous and insecure.
It's not realistic of anyone to expect 100% of their mate's attention.
Be kind and loving to her, honor her, but don't expect to "fix" what are actually her
problems (being jealous and insecure). That's something that only she can work on, if you ask me.
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How does a person get rid of bags under their eyes from staying up all night, and getting very little sleep? My 14 year old has these. It's not a prettty site.
Why is your 14 year old staying up all night??
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Curry sauce or sweet and sour sauce?
Ahh, I read your question and started salivating, LOL.
There is something really special about the zing of curry sauce. Sweet and sour
sauce is "nice", but so benign by comparison. Give me some jumbo shrimp
with onion and sliced peppers and baby corn with a spicy curry sauce and some mango chutney on the side if it gets too spicy, and I'm THERE !
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How do you pray to God? Do you just ask for things, do you say the Lord's prayer, do you sit quietly and listen...etc
I do lots of different things, but I always start by thanking God for the great God He is. I pray for other people's health, etc, I pray for peace for our nation, I ask
for God to continue to bless me in my relationships and with my finances, and lots of times I cry and apologize for my broken areas and my humanity and I thank Him with a whole heart for loving me even when I don't...
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How do I get my husband to eat healthier while he's at work?
You can offer to pack him a lunch each day (that works for my hubby) but
other than that, he needs to make that decision to eat healthier on his own.
Then when he comes home from work you can make your exceptionally healthy dinner.
Do yourself a favor and don't become his mother or police officer. My husband
bugged me for YEARS about my weight, and let me tell you, I was no...
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Life can be wonderful or not so hot...which is it for you now?
For me, today, it's wonderful. But you might ask me tomorrow and I will tell you that this same life is not so hot. Life is so about how we perceive it. There are days like today where my focus is on my loving husband, my daughter who is an asset to society, no debts, extended families that love me, a God who does too. Other days
my perception can be that my husband is not as loving as I...
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Have you ever had Steak and Eggs for breakfast?
Yes!!! The very first time I ate steak and eggs was on my first airplane ride.
My uncle took me to California (from NY) to celebrate my 16th birthday, isn't that
a great gift??? It was 1976 and the flights still served actual meals, not just a dozen nuts in a bag you can't even open. I was so excited to be on a plane, and it was just thrilling to me to be doing something so casual...
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I have been dating a guy for four years and he has cheated over and over again and i keep taking him back, now i find myself resenting him and not in love with him anymore, but i cant leave because i feel bad that i will hurt him what do i do?
I think you need to read your question as if you did not write it, and see for yourself that you are worrying about hurting HIM after years of putting up with him, hurting you. You don't deserve this. And quite honestly, your boyfriend doesn't deserve a girlfriend who wants to break up with him and the only reason she doesn't is because she's worried she'll hurt his...
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What two words do you wish God says to you in the end? Mine is: "I understand."
I knew you could be the woman I imagined you'd become, due to My Love for you.
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What is the best thing God gave you?
There are SO many things. The only way to sum it up is to tell you that God
took all of my mistakes and worked them out for my good. One huge
"for instance" is that when I was 19 I got married to get out of a dysfunctional household. Love was not my primary motivation. But God took that situation
and drew me AND my husband to Him, and now my 30 year marriage is full of love and...
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About a year ago i've come to notice so unusual white spots on the inner side of my upper lip and noticed that present day its stating to grow on my bottom inner lip/cheek. My question is could this be thrush? and if so could it be brought on by smoking?
I don't know about thrush and smoking, but my father had white patches in his mouth from smoking and was told it was leukoplakia, which is a pre cancerous
legion. Google leukoplakia and see if the photos resemble what you have.
Go to the dentist OR the doctor for them to take a look, too!
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Do you think its unattractive if a 16 year old girl whose 5'3 weighs about 140 ibs?
What would be more helpful to you, I hope, is if you look at this as an issue of
unhealthiness rather than unattractiveness, The next time you go to the doctor
for a check up, ask their medical opinion about your height and weight. Then
if they feel it is a bit high you can maybe start exercising and eating better.
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If your spouse was having an affair, would you want someone to tell you? Would it make a difference who told you?
I would ABSOLUTELY want to know, regardless of who it was.
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I am getting married,but have feelings for a coworker, who is married. I am meeting up with him soon, just the two of us.I enjoy his company,fantasize about him, but know that nothing should/could happen. Am i crazy,or is this n
I think this is really dangerous. You have NO WAY of knowing that
"nothing will happen". Why is he meeting up with you, ALONE, anyway?
My question for you is, are you having cold feet about your wedding?
If you have doubts, my advice is to do what is right (as opposed to what is easy)
and put off the wedding. You are in no mind set to be a good spouse.
It's great...
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Who do you belevive is the most sexiest actor/or actress alive right now?
Although I don't like him as a person, my boring, obvious answer is Brad Pitt.
George Clooney comes in a very, very close second. (I just wrote that in case he reads this, gets jealous, and calls me, LOL)
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I am looking for a receipe for a lemon sponge pudding, I would like to be able to cook it in a slow cooker
Crock Pot Lemon Pudding Cake Recipe
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Oven Temp ~ high Baking Time ~ 2 - 3 Hours
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Beat egg whites until stiff peaks form set aside.
Beat egg yolks and blend in lemon peel juice and butter and milk. Combine sugar,...
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I need to purchase a new washer/dryer, there is a set that I can get at a really good discount, it's called the Maytag Bravos, does anyone have that set? Do you like it? What do you like most about it, and what do you like least about it?
I recently bought the Bravos washer. I didn't need the dryer.
What I like about it is that it doesn't have that big agitator in the middle of the
tub like my old machine did.
I expected it to be quieter than it is (it sounds like an airplane taking off)
but I wouldn't say it's especially loud. It uses far less water. It cleans my clothes
very, very well and I...
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Ok can someone please help me This morning i spilled syrup on the couch and our couch isnt leather its like a tan soft material any ways i have tried alot of stuff and it still wont come out.
Maybe this will help you:
How to Remove Maple and Corn Syrup Stains
by the Editors of Consumer Guide
Maple and corn syrups are packed with sugary goodness. Whether pouring maple syrup over a short stack or using corn syrup to sweeten a treat, both are delicious additions to any food. Where they are not welcome is on household surfaces. Follow these tips to remove syrup stains.
How to...
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I'm 52 and been married for 21 years and have two boys. Over the last year, I've discovered my bisexuality. My mother and I are very close for I'm her only child. Should I tell her that I'm bisexual?
I am in your age range, and I would not tell my mother. I think that your
sexuality is your own, and if you "need" to tell someone because you want
some sort of warning or validation, you should tell a good girlfriend. I don't think
it's appropriate to tell your mother. What are you looking for, her approval?
It sounds like you're not going to leave your marriage...
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To all the mother's out there; I was really disrespectful to my mom last night because of a stupid dare from my friends. My mom actually spanked me and I'm 16. Would you spank your teenage daughter for being disrespectful?
You acted like a child so your Mom treated you like one. I think that's very fair.
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What were your happiest times in life so far?
I think that the happiest times in my life were when I was raising my daughter,
who is now 23 (well, 23 and a half as of yesterday, LOL!!). It was such a wonderful
way to spend my life. So fulfilling!!!
Now I am back in the work force and I am enjoying these times, but when my
girl was growing up, THOSE were the days, no doubt in my mind.
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Can you deceive yourself? Why or why not?
OF COURSE!!!
Here's why. We all have perceptions, ways of seeing the world. For instance
if I have been abused as a child, I can deceive myself by thinking/believing
that "all men are out to hurt me". In my heart, that is my truth. So yes, we
can all deceive ourselves until we know better. That is quite a process!!
Nice question.
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Where in the bible does Jesus mention an "age of accountability"?
There is no actual age of accountability mentioned in the entire Bible,
unfortunately.
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I am an athiest. I LOVE getting into religious discussions and minor arguments with people but have found VERY few people that can do this without getting so worked up they want to scream or vomit. Why do you think this is?
I guess it just goes to show how passionate people are about what they believe.
It's hard not to be reactive. Sounds like you are in the minority!
I have a question for you. As an athiest, do you say that you believe in nothing?
Or do you not believe in God yet you believe in something alternative....
I wonder if people get their dander up when they believe in "something"...
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Does it hurt when you have a tooth taken out?
You will feel pressure, but if you are numb you shouldn't feel actual pain.
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Besides when I was a baby, I have never burped before. If I hold in my flatulence, no matter how much pressure builds up, will I burp?
LOL, no.
My 23 year old daughter has not burped since she was a baby, either!
She has what the doctor calls an "atypical epiglottis" and I wonder if that accounts
for it. It's not a worry at all. Do you make noises in your throat that SOUND as if you MIGHT burp?
She does, LOL.
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Whats you favorite scent for home cleaning? (pine,lemon, orange..etc)
My new favorite is lime. It's so fresh smelling!!
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Wednesday is my boyfriends birthday and I have no clue wat to get him. We have been together for two months but I still cant figure it out. I will take all the help I can get. Someone please help me?
I would go the generic route after only two months. For instance if he likes
video games, I'd buy him one. New favorite movie like The Watchmen? Get him
that and buy a box of microwave popcorn and promise an evening of "movie night" to celebrate. Don't buy anything overtly expensive. Go slow and steady with the relationship (not that you were asking for opinions on THAT,...
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In my past i slept around now in my current relatoinship my partner doesnt trust me.what can i do to gain her trust
There's a few things you can do. You can give her time, and by your behavior
it will prove to her that she can trust you again. Also, you can give her additional
access to your private life (since you messed up) such as letting her see your
text messages, computer history, etc, as she sees fit.
I know that these are usually areas where we all want privacy, but I truly feel that
if...
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Am I the last of the "ironing dinosaurs"? I hate it but find it an "evil" necessity. Some people find it cathartic. How do YOU regard it? "Evil necessity" or cathartic?
Both !!! I love that you can also see an option of ironing as being cathartic.
I tell everyone that it is a very Zen sort of chore for me. I feel the same way
when I mow the lawn. Sure, it's a chore, but there is a rhythm to it that is relaxing and the finished product is something I'm always so proud of, even if it doesn't last for long, LOL.
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How often do you change your kitchen sponge?
I can't say that I change it more than twice or three times a year, but each week I place it in the top shelf of my dishwasher with a load of dishes and that cleans it up and preserves it quite nicely.
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How can I get black, water stains off the siding of my house?
Rent a power washer or hire someone with a power wash truck to do this for you.
The black stains are dirt and mold....I have them on my house too. They come
off with the power washing, but without that pressurized water I haven't been able
to get anything to come off by hand.
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I have put a loaf of bread to defrost on my kitchen work top and with it being wet it has stained pink! is there any way to get it off? Im desperate
Get a Mr. Clean magic sponge. It should take off most, if not all, of the coloration.
Sorry this happened!
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How can I get permanent hair dye out of linoleum
Use a Mr Clean magic sponge, that's what I use. It DOES take off a tiny bit of
color and shine, so be prepared for that, but it will take away most of the dye's color.
I have these cool plastic knobs on my bathroom cabinet and got black, permanent
hair dye on one of them just a few days ago. Used the Mr. Clean sponge for just a few swipes and it looks great now. Only I know that...
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If a guy tells you have a nice smile then continues to smile at you does that mean he likes me? (he not only smiles but stares like his whole world has just lit up) What should i do? i find him very cute!!
LOL, it sure sounds like he likes you. Just make regular conversation, be yourself!
I bet he won't take much persuading. :-)
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I have a problem with premature ejaculation. How can I stop myself from ejaculating early?
I've heard of a couple of things. One, wear two condoms. It will reduce the
friction enough for you to last longer. The other is to masterbate first, and then
make love to your partner after you've recovered.
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My son is having some kind ofb drainage problem with his eye what should i do
It's PROBABLY a clogged duct. Personally I would take him to the pediatrician.
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I have something in my eyes, foggy and somehow transparent, it has some "coils" and floats to wherever I see in a certain shape. What's that? Will I be blind?
Sounds like you have what is referred to as "floaters". LOTS of people have them
(including me). It's a totally benign thing, just annoying. I see them more when I am stressed or tired. This is no indication of becoming blind!
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Will the sty medicine make the sty go down and eventually go away for good?
My opthalmologist recently told me that over the counter stye medication is
only helpful for pain. He told me to microwave a baking potato and put a clean
cloth around it and then place it on my eye (be sure it's not too hot, of course!)
for 20 minutes at a time. The potato will stay warm far longer than using a wet
wash cloth.
Hope you feel better soon!
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How would you comfort a teen that thinks he has no skill to take on the world? what if there is no way to comfort?
This is so tricky, as a parent. Some teens do seem inconsolable.
Do you as his parent have a skill? Maybe the best thing right now would be
to teach your teen YOUR skill.
Best wishes to you both..
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Why do people fully dress themselves (long sleeves, long pants, etc.) and underdress (short sleeves or sleeveless, shorts, etc.) their young children and babies? What is the rationale?
Oh my gosh, doesn't that just kill you to see????
When I was a young girl and my daughter was a tiny baby, I used to carry her
in a baby carrier with her wearing a homemade wool sweater IN my coat during the winter. I thought that she was warm enough between my coat and our mutual body heat. When I think back on that, over twenty-odd years later,
I can't believe my stupidity!...
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How long does it take a girl to do makeup in the morning?
It takes me less than ten minutes to do a full face. :-)
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How do I know my wife is faithful, very sexy and not getting sex?
I think you have to decide to trust her. If she's given you no reason NOT to
trust her, then you have to look at why you are feeling so insecure. Talk
to your wife about this so that she can reassure you.
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Pride is nothing more than the inarguable conclusion that you are correct. So if you are incorrect, and you admit it, then at the moment of your admission, you are in fact correct. So why are people "too proud" to admit that they are wrong?
Keep in mind that you can have false pride, too!
I think that being humble and accountable is very hard for lots of people, that's why they won't admit it. Also, it can sometimes depend upon who you're admitting that to. If you're admitting it to someone who is going to make you feel foolish, then
it's in your best interest NOT to admit it.
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What do you eat, that is sure to give you indigestion?
Raw onions get me every time. They are SO DELICIOUS going down, but once they're there they make me sick for hours, LOL.
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Is it boring to be the only child in a family?
My daughter is 23 now, but she always said she was very happy as an only child.
I think that even children in large families get bored once in awhile.
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What does it mean when a guy asks you if you want to be his safe haven and he is married. please i need detailed explanation. he said i am the only safe haven he has and he told me i am not just your friend.
A safe haven is a person with whom one feels comfortable sharing everything.
This is a lovely compliment.
That said, RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN because this man has obviously formed
an emotional attachment to you that he is supposed to be forming with his wife.
This is bad news on many levels.
I'm sure you are pleased to be this type of person for this man, but this can
come...
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When you first join a new group, do you tread softly, quietly and respectfully until you figure out what the rules are or do you jump right in and try to stand out immediately and let the chips fall where they may?
Great question!
I jump in with both feet and make my presence very known.
I have never gotten a poor response from this...not yet, anyway!
I have to say that even though I jump right in I am not at all disrespectful.
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We have firends that are constantly touching each other while in public. It has become very annoying when we are out with them. They have been married for 26 years so it's not like they are in a new relationship? Are we wrong in being annoyed?
You're entitled to feel anyway you wish, but I wonder if you are both annoyed
because deep down you feel a bit jealous, that you wish YOU were still in that
stage of marriage.
Unless they are touching inappropriate body parts while they are around both of you, it seems like sour grapes that you're upset with them.
This is a GREAT question though because I think that...
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Based on your own experience with your parents, what is the best advice you can give to new parents with regard to how they parent?
My advice would be that if you ever have to choose between being a parent and being a friend...choose the parent. It's not as fun, but it's essential.
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What would you do to gain revenge on your cheating partner?
I'd move his parents in.
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Can you sum up the bible in two words?
God's Love
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I moved to NY to be with my now husband and his daughter. we have a one yr old son together. i'm homesick all the time and wish i could live at home again (MA) he won't move bc he's afraid of losing his daughters custody, am i being unreasonable?
Yes.
The daughters, unfortunately for you, need to continue to be your husband's first
priority.
I totally hear you when you say you're regretful and unhappy about the move.
Please let it offer SOME consolation when I say, "you did the right thing".
There is so much to do in New York (I am also a New Yorker) and if you give it a chance, I know you'll be...
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My husband thinks that birth control is something he shouldn't ever have to think about. What do you think?
I think he's a selfish guy.
However, you wouldn't be the first woman to have the sole ownership of birth control. Been there, done that ...and it's not so terrible.
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How much (roughly) weight do you need to lose to drop a dress size?
For me personally, every ten pounds sends me into a smaller size.
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Why is it that the guys i DON'T want, luv me, but the guys that i DO want just arent that interested?
Maybe you're trying too hard with the ones you like, and the ones who like you
do so because you are showing your true personality.
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How often should married people say "I love you"?
I don't think there's a hard and fast rule. I've been married almost 30 years and my
husband and I say "I love you" every single day, sometimes more than once a day.
To be honest, I don't "need" to hear it or say it this often, LOL. My husband is a sweetie and it's just in his daily vocabulary, you know? But all because I don't need to say it...
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Isn't prayer presumptuous? If God has a perfect, divine plan, why would you pray to him to alter his plan to take your own personal desires into account? What makes you think your plan is better?
LOVE this question!
I'm a Christian who prays. The way I look at it is that by praying I'm not trying to bend God's Holy Will to suit my own needs, but if I view him as my Father, then I know that if I told my earthly father what my wants were, because he loves me
he would want to listen to me. If he had a different plan for me then of course
it's his final decision,...
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My mother passed away 2 wks. ago. My parents are divorced. My father is remarried. My stepmother wanted one of my mother's tables. She asked my father to ask me if she could have it. My father also wants some of the things. Is this rude of them?
I don't think it's rude, but I do understand your feeling slightly offended by it.
It must feel as if they just want your mother's "stuff" and are not focused on the
fact that she has just passed away. I'm sorry for your loss.
Do what you are most comfortable doing. You don't "owe" your Dad and his new wife anything, if you want my opinion.
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My boyfriend is always wanting to hang out! I love him dearly, but we never get breaks from each other, and since I'm the oldest in the family, I have responsibilities that occupy my time. How do I get him to back off without hurting him? Help please!
Just be honest! Tell him that you don't want to hurt his feelings and that you
have responsibilities that need taking care of. If he reacts very poorly, you can
guess that he's an insecure guy.
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MY HUSBAND IS BI-SEXUAL ONLY WHEN HE'S UNDER THE INFLUENCE THEN HE SEEKS OTHERS ON OUR CELL PHONE
I think that for many people, alcohol allows them to "be their real self".
If this lifestyle is okay with you, please be sure that he's using protection.
Your life depends upon it!
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What the hell happened to Madonna, she looks like something from `The dawn of the dead`?
Ugh, I know. I think she's feeling desperate that she's aging.
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So whats on the menu tonight? im ready to eat
Meatloaf and homemade mashed potatoes. It's almost 10:30, come back tomorrow!
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Have you ever been grocery shopping and suddenly realized you're pushing someone else's cart by mistake?
Yes, MANY times!! Once I even wheeled away a cart that had someone else's pocketbook in it! LOL !!
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Do you bag your own groceries or wait for the cashier to do so?
I bag my own, to do my cashier a favor. I have to admit that in a perfect world
the cashier would say "thank you for bagging". I do feel that it is part of their job
requirement, and if I'm doing them a favor by packing, it would be polite to say thanks, and encouraging for the next time.
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I am really suffering of being alone.what should i do?every day i ask God to help me find my soulmate.what should i do?
There are lots of Churches that offer singles Bible studies and get togethers.
Put yourself out there! God will bless you it you take action instead of suffering...
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Who is your favorite character in Family Guy. Mine would be Stewie or Peter.
I think Lois would have to be mine, since I think it's HYSTERICAL that Peter
is such a jackass, but she still adores him and is hot for him~!
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I just got my tattoo and its 3 days old and its starting to flake on one of the things what do i do i know i should leave it alone but what should i do to avoid ruining it ??? help please?
Call the place where you got the tattoo, they will know exactly what you should do!
What does your tat look like?
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I’m writing a story; characters already developed, how do you like these names
Girl: Alice, Cedille, Dahlia, Gemma, Honor, Lourdes, Paulina
Boy: Atlas, Court, Elliot, Griffin, Kick, North, Pike, Wyatt
Any favorites/combos? Ex: Alice & Pike
I love almost ALL of the names!!! I am not crazy about Cedille.
The others are awesome!!
Best wishes with your story.
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What would be a good name for a heat wave that were to go through your area?
Long Island Lolita.
Ah, never mind, that one was taken by Amy Fisher years ago.
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My husband say's that there is nothing that he likes about me, and he is with me because he is hoping that I will change. Ex. get a job when my son starts school ex... I dont know what to think when he says things like this, so many years invested?
I'm so sorry that you have to deal with this.
I've never said this on AB before, but I think you need to either leave him or
see if he'd be willing to do some marriage counseling with you. It seems humanly
impossible that he likes NOTHING about you. I wonder if he really hates himself,
and he's just putting that all on you.
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What would it take for you to give all your *bad* habits up for one month and what might some of those habits be?
My biggest "bad habit" is that I make assumptions about people
I am always trying to fill in the blanks and make sense of why they do or say what they do. I think that I give myself lots of unnecessary grief because of it, and I
also take offense where none should be taken. An example would be if I say hello to someone and they respond with coolness toward me. My first reaction is...
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Imagine this situation: A thief comes to your house and you have a gun . what will you do? are you gonna 'em a shot? :d
I am indeed.
Let me tell you that I HATE that I own a gun. I am a woman. But if someone breaks into my home and intends to do harm (and how would I really know that? I certainly
won't be asking, "are you going to steal from me AND rape me and my daughter before you leave?") then yes, I will shoot them. I won't WANT to. I'd hope they'd run as far and as fast as...
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Do you think i'm pretty? see my answer for pic
I do think that you are VERY pretty. Now you have to work on making your inside match your outside by having confidence that you are valuable. Looks are nice to have, and you've got them! Now make the inside a beauty to behold. Long after your looks fade, your character and personality will still be able to shine.
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I had an i.v. in, earlier tonight. Now there is a swollen bruise on my arm where the i.v. was. Will this go away, or get infected, or anything?
It will go away. Are you alright? Why did you have an IV?
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Were the Bee Gees the ugliest ever boy-band?
I thought Andy Gibb was cute! The rest? Not so much.
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Girls if your men are loving and supportive to you, do you respond to them more in a sexual manner..Do you want to have Rock n roll sex with them?
Oh yes! When I feel listened to and understood I definitely respond favorably.
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My hubby isnt sexually attracted to me in any way, how do I get him to want sex from me?
Why isn't he sexually attracted to you now, what changed???
Was he ever attracted to you in that way? Has he actually SAID he's not
attracted to you or do you just imagine that's how he's feeling?
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My doctor is giving me 2 options for weight loss - colon hydrotherapy or colon cleansing pills. Which path should I go on?
Neither. Plain ole diet and exercise is what is going to work.
How much can be in your colon, realistically, five pounds? What if you want to
lose more than that, then what are you supposed to do?
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I'm 17yrs old and have been trying to get pregnant for about 1yr now. I have had 3 miscarriages is this due to my age, or the amount of caffine i drink? and how can i ensure that i get pregnant?
why do you want to get pregnant at 17?
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How do lonely, neglected housewives pass the time?
Volunteer. SO many people need your loving arms in service.
You will feel so good about yourself by doing this.
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What is hard to swallow?
my mother in law's post roast.
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Physically, it is possible to remove or hide a scar. Can this happen psychologically as well?
I think it can, but you need to have a certain willingness.
In my own life several things have helped me to remove psychological scars.
The first was to get out of victim mentality. "Poor me" will only get me so far.
Being a victim for me felt very comfortable for many years. After that long while,
I realized it didn't serve me anymore, it just held me back. I can blame...
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My girlfriend is a 23 year old dental assistant, I'm 27 and her boss is 37, he invited her to go boating with him and his friends, is it normal and okay for my girlfriend to hangout with him?
Interesting question. My husband is a dentist, I work as his assistant. I do know of many bosses who want to cultivate a closer staff, so they have these
excursions. If your girlfriend is his only staff member, I agree with you, there's no reason for her to hang out with him/them. It's inappropriate. Yet if your girlfriend and other co workers are invited, that's less suspect.
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What was something you did when you were little that you are completely embarrassed about now?
I told one of my mother's friends that I hated her and she was ugly!
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What can I do to love my husband again. He repulses me. The way he talks, acts, looks. I want it to be like it was 6 years ago.
Maybe the question is, what was so different, six years ago?
I imagine that he talked and acted pretty much the same, right?
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How did you tell your mum you got your period?
Just say it! There's NOTHING to be embarrassed about !!!!
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Is it safe to put the stone pot from a Crock Pot in the dishwasher?
Yes, it's perfectly safe. I put mine in all the time!
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Saturday was bday, friend got me dildo & other items, I told her I would pick gift up from her, hubby told me that rushing over there to get this stuff made me look desperate, he says I have real thing at home. Does this make me look desperate?
I'm glad you asked, because in my opinion you need to be asking a far different question, and it will help your marriage.
Your question should be, "why does my husband think that picking up a dildo, etc
will make me look desperate when HE SAYS I have the real thing at home?".
My answer would be, because he's trying to tell you something, my friend!
No man wants to...
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Does the size of the penis matter in making love? Is it that the bigger the penis more the woman enjoys
Technique is FAR more important than size (to me), but a larger penis does feel better.
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Have you seen clitoris?
Yes, I saw her on Dancing With The Stars last season.
Clitoris Leachman.
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I 19yrs old have unprotected sex with my bf almost everyday. when ive peed for the last ten days i get brownish or rarely sometimes bright red blood on the toilet paper. Its not my period. Why am I bleeding? Am i Pregnant? Am i having a miscarriage?
It's hard to know without going for a check up. You may have a urinary tract infection.
The bigger question is, why are you having unprotected sex?????
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My girlfriend thinks all i like is her body. How do i show her i love her much more than that?
Aren't you sweet!
If you are spending most of your time being sexually intimate, my advice is
to start going more places together, sharing more interests, to show her that
you love her not just for her body.
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When was the last time you had a slurpee? What flavor?
Last time I had a slurpee was in the movies, I think it was last summer.
I saw " He's Just Not That Into You" (and I was just about the only one who
liked it, LOL)
I got a large blue one. Is that raspberry? That's sort of what it tasted like.
My mouth was blue for the rest of the day, all that food coloring must be
REALLY healthy for ya, LOL. Instead of a straw I...
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Many christians that i know tell me they have a very strong relationship with God but rarely read the bible. They sing worship songs and go to church often but do not actually care for God's word. Why do so many christians not want to read the bible?
I read the Bible in order to do Bible study and to understand sermons,
and I also feel that I have a strong relationship with God.
What stops me from reading the Bible all the time is that I find that there
are so many ways of God that I am not on the same page, about. I feel a sense
of disloyalty to God by not feeling able to uphold His Holy Word.
I think the Bible is interesting...
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I am in love with an unhappily married woman, of 33 years, who left her husband and moved in with me. She admitted having two previous affairs during those 33 years. Both were with married neighbors: Can I trust her to never cheat on me?
Oh come on. NOW you're wondering???????
Are you having second thoughts about her moving in with you?
That's what it sounds like. It was fun when you were with a married woman
and now it looks like she just wants you.
If you are having second thoughts, please don't put that on her character.
Just say you made a mistake.
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If you could sing a duet with any vocalist, who would it be and what song would you choose?
Cool question! I would love to sing a duet with Nat King Cole, and the song
"Unforgettable". His daughter Natalie Cole made a music video of it (she duets
on the video although he's long dead) and I just loved their voices together, and
that song.
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When did you resume your sex life after having a baby?
About eight weeks later, but that was only because my husband was getting antsy.
As far as my body was concerned, it was still too soon....
Be sure to check with your doctor before you're intimate again...
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I have fallen for a former co-worker. We are both coming out of long term bad relationships. When we seem like we're ready to start dating she shuts down. Her ex wants her back and is begging her. She says I'm so nice and surprise her. Do what? Back off?
Yes, I would back off, for now. Don't give up... just delay and keep your own
options open, while you're seeing how her life simmers down. She has way
too much going on right now for you to develop a stable relationship with her
anyway, it seems.
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If I asked your parents "Tell me about your son/daughter" what do you think they would say?
I think they would tell you what they tell me all the time. That
they are so proud of the good wife and mom I've become. That means
so much to me!
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My boyfriend fingered me after i gave him a handjob and he might have got some jizz on his hands. im 13 days late for my period. btw- im 15. could it be stress or a lil one on the way?
Gee, I don't know...I think I WOULD worry about it. It's not impossible.
It's highly unlikely, but not impossible.
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My friend is a slut. on myspace she has a photo caption that says "call me so i can prove it to ya!" what does it mean? all answers are appreciated. thnx..
I think that what it means, mostly, is that she's needing attention.
I know that it must seem pretty disgusting to you, but if you can, you
should feel badly for her. She must be pretty messed up to be looking
for guys that way! I'm happy that you know better.
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You do know that you're beautiful, don't you?
Awwww, shucks. ::blushing::
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Complete the sentence: The world is...?
full of beauty, if you look underneath all the shit for it.
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When is fun no longer fun?
Fun is no longer fun when it turns into an addiction.
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Do you believe in the phrase "Perception is reality?"
Totally. How I "feel" about something is my reality. It's my truth.
It may not be correct, but it will be real to me.
I really struggle with this aspect of my personality. It's very difficult to
take childhood baggage and assorted emotions out of everyday goings on.
I desire to have a clear vision, but it's very, very tough. Maybe that's the
human...
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Do you tend to attract people with your looks or with your personality?
I think I attract them with my looks, and then keep them around with my
personality. That's the hope, anyway, LOL.
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I had relations with a married man 1 yr ago. I know the wife, should I tell her.
ABSOLUTELY NOT. This was your mistake and his. Don't make this her heartache
and her problem. Hopefully he smartened up since he was with you. You have
absolutely nothing to gain by telling her, and I think it would be extremely cruel,
if after all this time you did.
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Is it wrong to cry for an ex-love who did you wrong in the most worst way possible? I just found out my ex-fiance passed away, and yes I did cry for him.
It is not wrong in the least. You had history with this man and now he's dead.
That's very sad. You are crying for him, at his very best.
I'm sorry he hurt you, and may he rest in peace.
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What is the best way to lose weight quickly? do you know any diets that effects quickly?
There are absolutely no quick fixes. Please be willing to do what it takes,
cut your calories and exercise. That way you can make it a lifestyle change
rather than a quick fix.
I just lost over 20 pounds recently, and it's not always easy, but you can do it
if you want it enough. It took a long time to put ON the pounds and it is going
to take a long time to take them off, and...
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I have a lower back ache. What's the best way to relive the pain without drugs?
My father goes to a pain management specialist and also for acupuncture.
He's getting some relief with both. (he has neuropathy)
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Do you like your father-in-law?
I ADORE my father in law!
Don't get me wrong, there are times I'd love to wring his neck, but all in all
I think he's fantastic.
He just turned 84 and has such a joy for life! He is always excited to learn new things and be social. I think he has more energy than my husband, who is 30 years younger. My father in law is proof that age is just a number.
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Whats your favorite ice-creams?
chocolate mint chip. DROOL !!!
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Whatever you do, NEVER_________(fill the blank)
blow dry your hair while you're sleeping. It even says so on the safety tag!
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Does that hurt?
Just a little, the first time.
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Who is in favor of repealing all seat belt laws?
My husband and I were just talking about this. He thinks it should be
up to the individual whether or not they want to wear a seatbelt. I am
worried about minors. So we agreed that if it were our choice, there
would be a mandatory seat belt law for children under the age of 18,
and anyone over that age would have free will to be as stupid as they want.
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What is YOUR interpretation of the verse, “Many are called, but few are chosen?” (Matthew 22:14)
sorry, not Eng's comments...Jesus is God's comments.
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What is every parent's worst nightmare?
losing a child to illness or accident.
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While your spouse/gf/bf sleeps, you have the power to change three things about them. Any three things at all and they will have no memory or recognition of their former condition. What three things would you change and why?
I would make him a more optimistic person, so that he would be generally happier
about life
I would make him more adventurous so that we can have more fun together
I would take away his perfectionistic nature. No one can live up to it.
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Is it bad that i have been getting drunk everyday for the past week? Im in college so this should be normal right?
I feel as if you're asking this question because being drunk every day is not
something you're all that happy about.
Sure, there are some college students who drink. But there are JUST as many
who do not. It would be wise for you to look for a different crowd to hang out with,
if the only recreation you have is to drink. Also, don't let peer pressure get to you!
If you...
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My ex said lets just be friends. She sends me the most randomest msgs and also worrys about me? She said she still loves me and cares but thing is she broke up with me.Whats goin on?
Sounds as if she's having a tough time letting you go.
At this point I think that you need to decide what YOU want to do.
You could probably try to get her back since she's still acting so attached to you,
or you can take this opportunity to ask for some time to yourself, so that you
can get used to your new single status. Not everyone HAS to "be friends" once
...
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Does God have an immediate/extended family; is God one-of-a-kind?
God has a son, Jesus! And He considered all of us who know Him, His children.
And yes, God is definitely one of a kind!
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Do you think we are too accessible with all of this new technology (cell phones, email, facebook, etc), increasing the chances that someone will cheat? Why or why not?
ABSOLUTELY !!! The possibilities are endless now. So much temptation.
It used to be that you had to really go out of your way to look for trouble.
Now you can find it, sitting in your own home!
The upside to this is that there are probably thousands of couples who
have found love via the internet, and I am happy for them.
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If your dad got back from a business trip and you had noticed a pair of frilly panties in a side pocket of his suitcase, would you have told your mom?
Great question!
No, I don't think I would tell my mom, but I WOULD tell my Dad that I'm onto him.
Hopefully that will scare him into doing the right thing.
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Who is in better physical condition, you or your s/o?
My husband is thinner than I am, but I am in better physical condition. :-)
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Do you Believe in Free Will or Choice?
Of course! Otherwise we would just be God's puppets, and that's obviously not
what's going on....
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Which sleeve do you do first when putting on a jacket? I am right handed but I do the left first.
I am left handed but I do the left first, LOL.
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I have been married almost 4 yrs, and was away from home. I signed up on a singles online site, meet a women, didnt have sex, but kissed and touched. I then lied about it to my spouse. I am getting help from thearpist. I love my wife and kids, what should
I appreciate that you're getting help from a therapist.
You made a big mistake...don't do it again.
Be the great husband and dad that you know you can be.
Just learn from this unfortunate occurrence. Give your wife as long as she
needs to leaarn to trust you again, even if that means letting her check your
internet history, phone bills, etc....
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What would a new ride at the fair called the Marriage Ride consist of?
It would be a roller coaster, no doubt about that!! Lots of exhilarating ups
and terrifying downs !!
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Would the world be better if there were no complaints?
Absolutely not. Some complaints bring about change, and many times,
change is a good thing.
Don't get me wrong...constant complaining is absolutely toxic. Yet
relevant complaints, shared in order to bring about good change...that's very worthwhile, in my opinion.
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I have a problem with being too judgmental. i told my guy friend he could do better than a cheater, as they dont make good wives. i said ur 2 smart for drugs, stupid ppl do them. apparently this is wrong 2 say?
It's actually great advice. Maybe the way you are saying it, the tone you are
using, is making you sound as if you think you are better than him by saying so.
I don't think that you have a problem with being too judgmental. I just think
that you should try to gauge who will be happy that you told them, and who
will get insulted that you did. Obviously this guy is in the second...
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Best kiss of your life?
I think the best kiss of my life was my very first kiss. I was 13 and my
boyfriend's name was Joseph. We were just hanging out on the front steps
of his parent's house one evening. I was sitting between his legs on the step below his. Very cozy.
I remember just *knowing* that he was going to kiss me....I had been
his girlfriend for many months.....and my knees started shaking...
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What's something you should never use as a towel
a porcupine
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My wifes panties had a good amount of white and clear fluid in them when i got home from work. she claims it was from masturbating with her panties still on. is this possible or is she fooling around
Yes, it is absolutely possible.
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What is YOUR interpretation of the verse, “Many are called, but few are chosen?” (Matthew 22:14)
That God has not Predestined all to come to Him.
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My boyfriend is a big flirt in person and on the internet with women sexually subjectively. He has cheated on exes in the past , should I worry he will cheat on me as well?
Of course you should. If it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck...it's a duck!!
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Can you sum up The Bible in three words?
God loves us.
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Name something worth dying for
freedom
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Do you have any dumbbells in your house?
yes, my husband <GRIN>
Actually we have quite a few sets of dumbbells and we use them often.
The new thing is a kettle bell, but I tried one recently and didn't like it at all.
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I HAVE A BROKEN LEG AND IT HURTS SHOULD I REMOVE IT OR NOT
You want to remove your leg? I suggest you don't. You may need it once it heals!
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I am 26, and trying to figure out what a "reg" period is. I had a period in april, then had another one in june (56days later) then had another this month (45days later) Is this normal for someone my age??? Will they become more "regular" with age?
You're definitely old enough so that your periods should be well regulated.
I would suggest that you go for a check up. Your thyroid may be to blame.
It's amazingly common!
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What do you think about churches going into pubs/bars and holding Easter Services? They did it here.
I think it's awesome. I believe that there are many people out in the world who
are wanting a connection to God but are turned off to organized religion.
If relationship, not religion, meets them literally "right where they are", then
the results can be amazing!
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Can you describe the taste of victory?
tastes like chicken!
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If there was a rule book for your life, what would be the first rule in the book?
Rule 1 : there are no rules.
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How do you think you need to better yourself?
I need to take criticism better. I tend to get all angry, and then I miss the message and the chance to improve.
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Why do some women talk baby talk to me, when I'm a grown man?
It's sort of a secret intimacy. It's meant for only the best of reasons.
You must be a cutie. Enjoy it, it's not meant to imply that YOU are a baby.
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Name a really good habit that you have and that you are proud of?
I'm incredibly punctual.
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Im 17 and my boyfriend is 20. we have agreements on him not going clubbing but yet he wants to go out to the casino with his mates and leave me at home alone. i think i have an attachment issue? i cried for 5 hours straight after i tried to keep him home
I think it would be better for you to date someone more your age.
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My boyfriends mother passed away for years ago and her moms best friend continues to call and check on my boyfriend almost everyday.We started our own family and I take very good care of him. Is it wrong for me to not want her calling all the time?
I think this should be up to what your boyfriend wants.
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What should I say to the chick my Ex boyfriend hooked up with after she appologized which was really nice and cool. I want to show her a really good side of me.,..how exacly should I say it?
I wouldn't say a WORD to her. You don't need to impress her with how wonderful
you are. What is the point?????
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I masturbate by shoving objects in my vagina. while im doing it, i rub my clit. i never thought it worked, but it feels pretty good. is this normal?
It's normal, just be sure that whatever you're inserting is clean.
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My aunt is visiting soon. my mom tells her everything i do. i broke a window, had sex, skip school, beat up my mom she has a bald spot, i drink, shoplifted, & lie a lot. how should i act when my aunt comes to our house? im embarrassed;
Well, I think that when your aunt comes and you're feeling embarrassed,
you should ask her if there's a way that she can find someone for you to talk to.
It sounds like you are needing some attention, and you are acting out in very
harmful, damaging ways. I am worried about you, and certainly for your mom.
It's important that you learn how to use your words and speak your...
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What are your logical thoughts on the concept "Meant to be" as in love
Personally, I don't buy the term "meant to be". I think that there are lots of people who could potentially be our soul mate. I don't think it is one person in the entire universe.
I guess "meant to be" is a meshing of two people who it looks like, even to the outside world, are right for one another.
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What's your favorite song about rain?
It's Raining Men!
Oh...that's not really about rain, is it.
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Does volunteering in the field you want to go into help, if it does, how does it?
I think it's crucial !!!
Here in New York it's called interning. I think it gives you a real taste of the pros and cons of the field you're interested in, and then you will know for sure if you want to go further. I can't think of a better use of your time, no kidding!
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What have you seen that you wish you had never seen?
my father hit my mother
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Bleeding from breast
Go have it checked out, of course, but I had this and it was a benign situation.
An intraductal papilloma.
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Is envy ever a good thing?
Yes, if it encourages you to strive for what someone already has.
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If you had a say in it, what's one rule or feature you'd like to see in prison?
absolutely NO luxuries.
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What is the difference between an oral thermometer and a rectal thermometer?
the taste.
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Fill in the blank: ____ ______ ___ _____ ____?
You Are Desperate For Points
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Would you marry the perfect(smart, beautiful, sweet) wife or husband that never gets horny? Ladies, wouldn't it be a dream not to have a horny husband nagging you every night for sex? Instead, he would show his love by doing your chores, cuddling, etc.
Send your husband my way. I don't consider a husband who wants nightly sex
to be "nagging".
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Is Nick Arrojo leaving What Not To Wear?
Yes, his replacement was just announced. Some handsome black dude.
Personally I won't miss Nick.... will you??
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Does anyone have any potty training ideas?
how old is your son??
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Where is a good place to go on like a double date- but still be able to talk and get to know the guy? For teenagers?
bowling
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Its been 3 months since i stop smoking cigarettes, i know i wont touch another. what do you think?
I believe you !! Keep up the wonderful work!!
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Do I smell?
you smell JUST LIKE FLOWERS!
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Do you think people with genetically inherited diseases should be legally prevented from having children?
I LOVE this question!!!!!!!!
I don't think that people should be prevented legally. but I do think that people should take this very seriously and have genetic testing done when possible,
to see what the odds are of having a child inherit the disease. Personally, I think
it's a burden to put an illness on another if it's avoidable.
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My husband constantly talks about "open relationship" or not wanting to stay in this marriage. One day it's I love you and want/need you... the next it's I DONT WON'T this but I love you. Help.... im confused
I don't think you're confused at all. You're seeing ALL of the red flags here.
I think you have to consider getting out. Under no circumstances should you agree
to an open relationship. All that means is he wants to screw other women with YOUR permission. That's not okay.
I'm sorry that your husband is destroying your marriage.
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Ladies: do you like being told you are sexy, beautiful or pretty?
awwww....thanks. lol
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What does it mean when a guy asks you to do alot for him but then nothing for you?
It means he's selfish.
You already know this. Find yourself someone who will treat you better.
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What do you believe about God? (As in, what do you believe his personality is like)
Well, I believe that God finds me lovable even when I cannot. That He wants the
very best for me. That He wants me always to talk to Him and know that He is with me, every step of my life. I believe that God allows us to be idiots and make mistakes. That's what Dads do!
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How hard has life been for you? How about now?
I think life is all about outlook and perspective. There are days where I look
at my life and think it's definitely had very hard moments. On other days when
I examine my same life, I also think of the lives of others I know, and then what
looked hard in my own life, when viewed against someone with a harder life....
I feel I had it easy!
I do know that every single thing in my...
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What would you like to do that you haven't done in a long time?
Have my mother read me a story.
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My gf is 12, she took her cloathes off(till she wos in her bikini) went on the table and started dancing for 9 years old boy! i am 15 years old and i am her bf, she said she will not do that again, and instead she'll dance for me, what do you think?...
I think you should probably find someone your own age. They will be
more mature, hopefully, and not be looking for such immature and inappropriate
attention.
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My husbands says it would be great if we had an extra room so we could have separate bedrooms. What do you think of that?
It would make me sad.
My parents slept in separate bedrooms because my Dad had back problems and sleeping issues. They had a loving and viable marriage, still do... but if I had my wish, I would have wanted them to have single beds in the same room.
My husband and I share a bed, but even if we didn't I love knowing that we
can chat in the middle of the night and have those...
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How much privacy should one expect in a marriage?
To be honest with you, I sort of liken it with how much privacy ones child should get in a household. If the child is upright and trustworthy, then they should be given 100% privacy unless and until there are red flags that encourage investigation
and loss of privacy. I feel the same way about marriage.
My husband is a great guy, very moral and trustworthy. I give him his privacy because I...
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Wife had an emotional affair with an old friend. Lied about it till I found out the truth. Dealt with the pain, but at a second glance and further assessment, I realize I do not love her anymore. We have a 5 year old child, married 7yrs. Divorce her?
Just be absolutely positive that you are not still stinging from the betrayal.
If your ego isn't bothered at all and you are making a non-emotional decision
to leave your wife, then I guess you should.
I just want to say a couple of things. Emotional affairs are very wrong to do, but
people who do them are craving validation and attention. It does NOT mean that your wife...
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Let's say repairing a relationship where someone cheated is like a car: you either fix up the old one or buy a new one. What would you do? And what car would you end up with?
I'd buy the new one.
As you know with cars that have been battered around, the integrity of the whole vehicle is weakened, not just the drive shaft, if you get what I mean.
I'd go with the new car and hope it had a strong, faithful engine.
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What is so good about having a discreet affair?
There's really nothing discreet about having an affair.....because YOU will always
know that you did.
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What are five things a woman should do to be a good wife?
be respectful
be a soft place for him to fall when he's troubled
be sweet and kind to his parents...whether you like them or not. That goes
for his children, too, if this is a second marriage.
give 100%. Don't wait for your husband to give "his 50%" before you "reciprocate"
don't blame every bad mood on PMS. Be accountable for what you say and do,...
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Is it love when I get a tingling in my private and in my arms often when I think about my boyfriend?
You MAY love your boyfriend, but I believe that your body is signaling lust.
Don't confuse the two !!
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If I was to cover you in chocolate, what would you do?
giggle hysterically in anticipation.
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Are you, or are you not? Please give an explanation as to why you are or aren't.
I am. I'm not proud of it...but I am.
I used to think I wouldn't always be, but the older I get, the more I am,
so I'm trying to embrace it. If I weren't, I don't think life would be as much fun!!
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This is a question I am asking. I am crazy to think I can save this brand new marriage after my new bride tells me three days after our big expensive wedding that she is now in love with her baby's daddy. He has a girlfriend and does not love my wife.
You are a GOOD man. And no, you are not crazy. I'm hoping that your wife is just feeling a tiny bit of "buyer's remorse" because she realizes that she made a big decision in marrying you. And truly, the fact that your wedding was expensive has nothing to do with this much bigger issue.
She's a dope, if you ask me, because to marry a woman with someone else's...
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Does any body know how long the average 21 yr old male stays married?
I can't tell you what the average is, but MY 21 year old male is still going strong,
over thirty years later.
If I can read between the lines, though.....you do not sound ready to be married
if you're having this thought. If you already ARE married, just realize that marriage
is hard work, but that a great marriage is a wonderful life's investment.
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Is it ok to start looking at boys my mom suggests/ 'introduces' when I'm just 23? (potentially for marriage) I am single.
Sure it's okay, if that's something that YOU want to do. If you're only doing it
because you're feeling pressured by mom, then I would tell her sweetly to back off.
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How do you mark your personal property so that no one will take it? I personally like to mark mine by peeing on it.
LOL, I think peeing on it is a GREAT idea, especially if it's your lunch!
Bon appetit!!
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Is there a movie that you had watched more than 4 times?
Men in Black
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How big is your penis supposed to be at the age of 15?
There really is no "supposed to" when it comes to penis size, either when you're 15, or when you're a grown man. Just like there's no exact size for a teenager's, or a woman's breasts. Be happy with what God gave ya! You are young, so don't worry.
You're not done growing yet.
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Do you think it is alright for your partner to be on or surfing a dating or singles site?
I guess it all depends upon what you mean by "partner". If you are married, then
I do not think it is alright. If you're not, then I still don't think it's alright, but
I feel that since the commitment issn't official and binding, then technically they still ARE single, so personally I am a little less bothered by that scenario.
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Something that should definitely NOT be texted or emailed?
naked photos, no matter HOW tempting it is!!!
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Ladies, how do you feel about having guns in the house?
Honestly? I hate it.
My husband has been a gun owner all his life, taught marksmanship in his younger years, and he has a love and respect for guns. He has taught me how to shoot and I own my own gun. They are very securely locked up.
I hate the "idea" of them....but God forbid someone broke into my house and
was expecting to harm my daughter? I'd be the first one to go...
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I'm 21 yrs old. I have cancer but i dont know what to do. I have been keeping this from my family and my friends pretending that i'm fine. I don't know who to tell coz i'm not ready. I'm so confused and scared. I don't want them to worry.
You are 21 and have cancer. This is not the time for you to be concerned about how everyone else is going to take your news
.
Allow those who love you to support you. You're making a huge mistake, in my
opinion, by choosing to leave them out like this.
What sort of cancer have you been diagnosed with, if you don't mind my
asking?
God bless you, Sue
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Why has there been a surge in gun sales in the US over the past year?
Nope, it has nothing to do with the economy.
Under our new President, people are getting very worried that gun ownership laws are going to be changing. My understanding is that if you already own a gun you won't have to give it up.....but there may be restrictions for new ownership down the road. That's what the surge is all about.
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How to Win an Argument With a Woman?
Just agree. You KNOW you're WRONG! LOL
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Can you name a band or a music artist who's stage name is a food?
The Cranberries!
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Okay so, i seem to want what i cant have, i can be totally into a guy, and love them for months and months, but as soon as i get with them, i get bored of them and move on.. i really love this guy at the moment, and i dont want that to happen again. help?
I wonder if you just enjoy the conquest, the win of a particular guy's affection
and don't really like the guy that much to begin with. I'm no therapist (although
I DO play one on the internet LOL) but it sounds to me as if you are a bit insecure
with yourself. When you get validation but "getting the guy" you realize it's not what you want, after all.
If...
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Karen and I just celebrated our 40th wedding anniversary today. Do you think I should keep her?
LOL, I do indeed. So far, so good!! Congratulations.
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My boyfriend and i had friends over for dinner. At one point my boyfriend said something inappropriate and i instictively gave him a light slap on his back..his reaction in front of everyone was "If you do that again i will hit you soo you will fly"! HELP
You embarrassed him, that's all. Don't make more of this than need be.
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Should a divorced couple return all the wedding gifts and cash after only a 2 year marriage?
I would not. If the marriage were VERY young, like a few months, then
I would consider doing this. After two years I would not.
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What seafood dish are you best at cooking?
I make a sublime shrimp scampi. It's so easy, too!!
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What do you do when your relationship is on rocky grounds...again? How do you prove yourself to be worthy enough to keep your boyfriend? What do you do to make him happy again?
I think this is an appropriate time to get out of this particular relationship.
It sounds like a bad one for you. You should NOT have to *prove* your worthiness.
Find someone who will appreciate you and not make you grovel for their love and
attention. Your boyfriend is a creep.
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Have you ever cheated on your spouse/girlfriend/boyfriend and regret it badly and never done it again?
Yes, that has been true for me, but I have to admit, the inclination to do it is
always present. What I'm trying to say is that I am acting with more integrity,
but in my heart, I would like to cheat again.
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Would a girl still have a crush on you even she watched you get took down by someone bigger?
Absolutely! But I'm sorry that you had to be humiliated like that.
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Where is the best place you have had sex?
in my parent's bed, LOL!!
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My wife masturbates in bed beside me when she thinks i am a sleep and i dont think she wants me to know what does that mean
I agree with you, I think she probably doesn't want you to know.
What it means is that she might be having a tough time falling asleep, yet
she's not awake enough to want to be intimate with you. I'd leave it be.
I hope you don't feel insulted! I am almost positive that is not her intention.
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Being 'Wise' is not being 'Old', right?
You can be old and be a total DOPE.
Wisdom is supposed to come with having life experiences, and learning from them.
Not everybody does :-)
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Do you think a guilty conscience can be purged of guilt of do you think that a guilty conscience will always HAUNT the individual?
I think that it can only be surged of guilt if you apologize.
I am noticing this has been freeing me up quite a bit lately.
Even when I apologize and the person says they don't remember it
or it's no big deal, I feel it's a big deal for me to be accountable for what
I've done.
A guilty conscience is a terrible thing to walk around with day in and day out.
Free...
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If there are people in your life that you are mad at... will you ever forgive them?
I was mad at my father for many, many years.
What I found out was that I did not have all of the information I needed.
In my case I was not told that my father had mental illness, it was a big skeleton in the closet.
Once I knew the full truth, I was able to make some adjustments in my thinking
and point to specific situations and give my father a little bit of grace about his
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Can I wear a short sleeve velvet black dress to a August wedding?
Good question. I'm not sure that I would, if the dress looks heavy and you have other choices.
I totally understand the temptation, since the dress is short sleeved. Do you think
you will feel comfortable in it? Maybe that is what should decide.
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What do you think of the name Ollie for a girl? (olivia means flourishing)
Different!
Do you liker the name Livvey at all? That sounds more like a female name
and you're still working off of the Olivia meaning....
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Who likes This Name?
1st Name: Amayah
Middle Name: Regon Leigh
Last Name: Dunn
Honestly? It's a bit of a mouthful. Personally I like Amayah Leigh Dunn.
I think that's a very pretty name.
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Why does my boyfrind call between my legs a pussy?
Because your boyfriend is a pig and you need to find someone more mature.
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My tits are just developing everything was good but now one is bigger is it because my boyfriend plays with it more?
Most women have one breast slightly larger than the other, no worries.
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Ladies, how long should I wait for my wife to figure out if she wants to remain married? Im 23 yrs old and have been waiting for her for 11 months but she said she still doesnt know what she wants right now. Shes turning 24 late this year.
I am all for marriage, but if she's unwilling to go for counseling then I think that you've waited long enough. You sound like a good man. Sorry you married a lemon.
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What was your favorite color as a kid? And what is it now? How many favorites did you have?
I actually have the same favorite color at age 49 that I had when I was a small child.
It's Crayola yellow orange. :-) Such a sunny color!
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Jesus said I am the way the truth and the life,no man cometh to the Father but by me.So why do so many who believe in Jesus,say people can get to heaven by other ways?The main one being oprah.Isn't John 14:6 plain
Yep, I think it's plainly stated that you cannot come to God except through Jesus,
since he's the filter through which our Holy God can look at us and be in relationship with us. Jesus took on the sin of humanity just for that Purpose.
It is exclusionary, but hey, don't shoot the messenger.
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Hey Guys... this is the enemies board.
.
Can somebody tell me where the enema section is?
.
Love that topic!
the enema section is to the rear.
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I broke my fibula and i need to get a cast tomrrow. any suggestions on the color?
Sorry to hear that! I think I'd choose blue.
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Whats the best thing thats ever happened in your life?
When I had my daughter.
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I know it was wrong. I'm married and my married boyfriend just ended it to get counseling with his wife for the kids sake. He wants to stay "friends" and talk every so often. He says he still loves me, but has to try counseling. What do I do? Walk?
Yes, you walk. It's the best way to prove that you want your married ex boyfriend
to get on with his life. There's no point in staying friends. With friends like him, who needs enemies?
I appreciate that you have the willingness to allow him to make amends to his family. I hope that you find someone absolutely wonderful and unattached the next time around. It you stay involved,...
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Im a 12 year old girl but i look way older and alot of older guys ,like 15 and 16 say im hot and stuff .and i like them too ,but im worried if i go out with them they will try to do nasty stuff with me.what should i do?
What a smart girl you are to be asking this question.
Here's what I would do. If they told me I was hot I would say, "thank you, but
I'm only 12" and then walk away.
You are SO on the right track, I'm so impressed by you!!
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A Storm is blowing in. Do you have any storms blowing where you are? You can take this question any way you want.
No, my mother in law just left, LOL.
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How would you react if your S.O. forgot your anniversary?
I would feel badly about it. I would TELL him that he missed it, too.
Just to offer up the information so that he can make it better, not to slap his hand.
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What do you always have a stockpile of?
tuna and toilet paper. :-)
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How old were you in 1980?
I was 20. It was a wonderful time in my life, I got married that year.
We've been going strong, since. :-D
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Be honest. Have you ever watched a Michael Jackson video to try to learn to do the moonwalk/the Thriller dance?
Never ! But I grab my crotch, just for the fun of it, LOL.
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My mother-in-law hurts my partner more when he is in contact with her than when hes not speaking to her, I personally think that he should make more effort with her, but he keeps getting hurt when she rejects him, should he cut all ties with her?
I don't know. However, I think it needs to be your husband's decision and no one else's. No matter how old we get, we always want our mommy to love us.
Please show him extra compassion because this is a very great hurt and loss....
stand by him, whatever he decides.
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An old friend of mine was complaining that he had horrible pains that no doctor could find. He began praying and it didn't do anything. At all. Period. Why would that be, my good Christian pals?
I think that God works in many different ways. I also think that suffering, and hardship, are evident on this side of Heaven. It's easy to lose faith when it seems like God is ignoring you. It's at this very fork in the road where we all have the opportunity to stand in faith.
Keep taking action by going to all different sorts of doctors while prayers continue.
God has a Plan,...
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Should a woman separate from her husband if she discovers he had an emotional affair? The couple has been married over 30 years.
Absolutely not.
I will be married 30 years soon, and although you have my assurance that I would be very angry and saddened if my husband did that...honestly, 30 years is a long time! It becomes easy not to share intimacies with our partners if we grow out of the habit of doing so. Then someone comes around who wants to listen to them, who
is sweet and caring, and there's an...
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Why do people get emotional at weddings?
I cry at weddings for a few reasons. When it is someone rather young, I cry because the passage of time seems so quick since they were just a young child, I cry because I am a sucker for a new beginning. Sometimes I cry because I wish I still had what they have. I'm in a great marriage, but to have that new-marriage smell, LOL...that's once in a lifetime.
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If we were born sinners then what is Jesus?
Jesus is the filter through which God can look at us and love us and be in relationship with us. As "mere humans" we are loaded with sin. God is so Perfect and Holy that He cannot look at us. So God made a way. He sent Jesus to die for our sins
and then whomever believes can have a relationship with God. Perfect plan!!
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I called my man for 'booty call' and he told me he was too busy,i told him i would go to plan b,not to worry.he immeditally said that he would try to get away.do you think he was jealous of me thinking about going with someone else?
Yes, I think he might have been jealous. The more important question you might be asking, though, is why you don't think you deserve better than a booty call.
A relationship that is about mutual respect, enjoying one another's company, AND
having sex is what you should be looking for. You are so worthy of this. Don't settle
for less.
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You think its unfaithfulness if you're married for less that a year with your husband and sometimes ur ex-bf will just strike on your mind?
I do not consider this being unfaithful. This is simply having a memory.
Marriage, especially the first year, is TOUGH! A teensy part of you might
occasionally wonder what your life would have been like with someone else.
Focus on enjoying your new marriage and loving your husband.
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I need some level headed advice. I have two friends, and both of them are dating. The girl wants to break up with the guy. The guy has no idea and is happy with her . Do I tell him, or do I let it play out. I wish I didn't know about this, but I do :-(
Let it play out. First, it's really none of your business, even though you mean well,
and secondly, your female friend may change her mind, and then you've opened
up a can of worms that can lose you a friendship!
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Can swallowing blood from a nose bleed make your poo black?
Swallowing blood from a nose bleed CAN make you bowel movement black.
Keep in mind, though, that if it happens for more than a day there may be
something else going on. Don't be afraid to tell your parents about this, okay?
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My friend was surprised when I said that my mom wanted me to eat a lot because I work out. She also compared my body to a certain celebrities body and said that certain celebrity was skinnier than me. What is she trying to tell me about my body?
It sounds like she wants to make you troubled that you're not thinner.
Girls like her really stink.
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What ever happened to boy bands?
The Jonas Brothers still exist....
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Ladies of a fine age: Besides showering and changing your clothes, constantly, what methods do you use to manage your hot flashes?
It sucks, doesn't it?
Although I work in air conditioning I have a small fan on my desk and that helps.
I also found that wearing my hair up feels better. Otherwise there's very little
I've found that works consistently.
Ahh, the joys of being a woman, they're endless!!!!
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Do people ever say things to you that don't make much sense,then when you ask about it,they completely ignore you,or avoid the topic by switching it? What do you think could be going on with this?*
Some people are just full of crap, and when you want them to explain themselves
they simply can't. People love to hear themselves talk.
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Do you have a mean streak?
I do, and I used to be quite proud of it, but the older I guess the less I like it,
the more guilty I feel about it, and the harder I try to behave and think in a manner
that is kinder and more correct.
I think the bigger question is, what is the mean streak all about? For me, it's about
hidden anger and resentment. Maybe even a bit of jealousy.
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I have headaches almost every day. My mom said it might be because I have long hair and its heavy on my head but I don't think that's it. What else could it be?
Have you had your blood pressure checked lately? Sometimes the headaches
can be from high blood pressure. Also, changes in barometric pressure can cause
headaches.
Our guessing isn't good enough, you really should go for a check up and take it from there.....
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God made Man a ________?
yearning in his heart that only God, can fill. That's why addictions are ultimately so
harmful and unfulfilling to us. I tried to fill up the own hole in my heart with Oreos
for 35 years.
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Why is life so difficult?
I look at life as a test, of sorts. Every situation tests the sort of person I am, deep down inside. It's easy to be our best selves when things are going well, you know?
When things are rough, though, who are we, someone we are proud of?
I have learned so much more about myself in the hard times than in the easy,
but of course, we ALL want that easy kind of life. That's human...
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I was thinking about giving my daughter-in-law a gift card for her birthday instead of a gift she may not like. You think she prefer a gift card or a check?
Personally, I would prefer a gift card. To me giving cash feels as if the person
took no time to think about what I would want. It feel hasty. I would much prefer
a gift card.
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If i was a damn good artist for a day, i would draw _____?
a portrait of my daughter.
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Is it odd to still think often about an old flame, if 1) you are married 2) they are married 3) you have not seen them in over 15 years?
I think it's pretty natural. I think that when we've been married and life is a bit routine, coupled with the fact that it's hard to remember the bad stuff and easy
to remember the good fifteen years later, it's not odd to think about an old
flame.
I do think that it would be wiser to spend your thoughts trying to spice up
your relationship with your mate. You may...
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Can you name a song with the word "Song" in the title?
The Song Remains The Same by Led Zeppelin
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Is it already too late for me to learn how to cook at my age? I hope to hear some sincere and good advice.
Regardless of your age, you can learn how to cook!!
A friend of mine is almost 60 and has been feeling badly about not knowing how to cook, so I started teaching her. In a very short amount of time she is making some
great dinners and soups and she is SO proud of herself!!
Just follow a recipe and you will have success time and time again.
If you are looking for something in particular,...
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Has anyone else had braces put on to fix tmj ? My wife wore a splint for a while which she said helped but then they decided it would be best for her to wear braces. Is this a normal thing i've never really heard of people getting braces for this
My husband is a dentist, and he says that if braces change your bite, it can also help your TMJ problem, so you are getting good advise here.
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I'm 20 and took braces few months ago. What if they don't really help instead make everyting worse. Have I done the biggest mistake of my life?
How have they made things worse, can you offer extra information??
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A friend of mine just got braces on her top teeth only and has a pretty noticable lisp, I think she has an expander or something in the roof or her mouth too, how long will it take for her lisp to get better?
In a matter of a day or two she will get used to it. At first it is bulky and
tough to manage!!
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How much are the tiny brackets for braces wholesale?
Why do you want to know that? Are you going to put them on, yourself? <smile>
The issue is not how much the appliances cost. The money paid for orthodontics
is money you are paying for the doctor's expertise.
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How old is too old for braces? I am 25, am I to old?
I swear to God, my mother in law will be 80 in September and SHE is wearing
braces on her lower teeth. You're NEVER too old.
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Is It OK to Have Sex for the Sake of REALLY Good Sex… With No Relationship Commitments?
Of course it's okay as long as both people feel the same way about not wanting commitment.
It's also okay to have great sex AND a commitment!
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I need to tell the world I am no good. Whats the first thing i should do?
Here's the thing....if you are TRULY no good? The world will know without you telling them.The trick for all of us is to focus on, and encourage, the good side of ourselves,so that we can be helpful to others and proud of ourselves.
I am betting that you are not as bad as you think you are.
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My daughter want's to date really bad,but i feel like she will get carried away and when he dumps her...her world will be crushed and i dont know what to say should i let her go out or no?
Since this question is in the preteen category, I believe that your daughter is
too young to be dating. I think you need to monitor her maturity as she ages
so that you won't have all of the worries you're having. I believe this is your
conscience telling you very clearly, Mama, that your daughter is too young to be
dating. Just say no.
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Is farming naked a bad idea?
Farming naked is perfect if you're using a hoe. :-D
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What's the most you paid in a salon?
Oh my gosh, I'll never forget this. I went to Manhattan (NYC) for a haircut,
at a place called Pierre Michel. I don't even think they are in business anymore,
we're talking about over 25 years ago. I paid, at that time, $65 for a haircut
(I was young and money flowed like water, LOL). I remember when I was walking
out, someone in the salon smiled approvingly and said,...
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Umm i am really nervous i think that i cheated on my boyfriend but im not sure if it counts as cheating i cybered online with another dude and well you know but only for 4 or less minutes and i left does it count as cheating?
I think that if you are feeling nervous and guilty about it, then yes, you have
done something wrong. It doesn't matter how many minutes you did it.
This is advice you didn't ask for, but just let this situation allow you to think
about whether or not you want to stay with your boyfriend. I would not bring this
up to him because you have my word, all it will cause is a big...
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Well everytime i bend down in the hall theres this boy who i think stares at my butt. what does this mean!!
It means you should stop bending down in the hall.
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What is the best thing for a headache?
If you can't get any sex, try an Excedrine Migraine. Works great!
Cheaper than if you have to buy the sex, too, LOL.
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I made a mistake the night my son got killed i went to sleep after working 12hour on my job i neaver fall the sleep after will i ever forgive my self for this
Janie I am so terribly, terribly sorry for your loss. There is probably nothing
worse than losing ones child, it's a horrible tragedy.
Honey, you have nothing to forgive yourself about. Had you been awake,
your son would still have been killed.
I am so sad for you. As a mom, I understand how you want to blame yourself for this. But you have to know, this was nothing that you...
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What is the dumbest thing you have done today?
I was looking around for my glasses, which were on top of my head the whole time.
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Ladies, when you see a pretty girl in public, do you get jealous of her? What types of girls make you most jealous? Bleach blonde girls with a perfect body and face Brunette beauties with exotic looks etc...
I can't say I really get jealous, because in my mind that means that I get
angry at her for being pretty or having a great figure, but there are certainly
girls that I look at and say, "wow, I wish I had her ..fill in the blank).
I am generally impressed by blonde women who are relatively thin yet have
big (natural) boobs.
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I give all my children (under 10) alcohol at dinner. They like it, but wife doesn't. Am I wrong for letting them drink?
I don't think that a taste of alcohol if there is a curious child is a bad thing,
but I don't quite understand why you would want to make this a daily occurrence.
My concern is that we have no idea what their relationship with alcohol will be,
when they are older. I can hear that it has been no problem for you personally,
yet I think it's a slippery slope. I think that a...
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If you were a dessert, which one would you be? why
I would be sweet and gooey, like a caramel infused brownie. YUM!!
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"Sheesh, Now where did i put the ________ ?"
baby?
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My 15 yr old daughter is dating men on internet. What woud u do?
Are they boys her age, or actual "men" ???
There's a huge difference there, in my opinion.....
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Do you think, that if you met your parent(s) when they were younger, before they got married/had kids or whatever, that you would have liked them and their personality/attributes etc?? Would you get along with them?
I think I would have liked both of them. My Dad is very outgoing and entertaining
and sweet. My Mom is "nice" Very loyal and kind.
My Dad was a dance instructor, and I like dancing. My Mom did secretarial,
and that's what I do as well.
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Would you feel bad for telling a girl she hung out with her parents too much after finding out her mother suffered from breast cancer?
Yes, I think I would. It's easily remedied with a quick apology.
If you actually know the mother, you might even ask if there's anything you can do
to help.
You're very sweet to be feeling badly about this.
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What do you think of the notion of faith? Don't associate this with religion. What is faith of its own accord?
Faith is the optimism that comes without worrying.
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Can you name one meal that can be made with ground beef as the primary ingredient?
tacos! Just made them for dinner tonight, in fact :-)
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If you were to write a self-help book consisting entirely of one sentence, what would that sentence be?
Get out of victim mode, become accountable, and all the rest will fall into place.
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I'm having relationship problems with my boyfriend. One big issue is that I can't console him when he's upset or stressed. I guess I'd like to find out how other women console their men.
Sometimes my husband is inconsolable, and I have to be okay with that.
I didn't break it, so I can't fix it, you know what I mean?
I console my husband by listening to him, agreeing with him if at all possible
without compromising my own integrity, allowing him private time to relax and play a computer game or watch a movie, don't add my own stuff to heap on top of his
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Can you complete this sentence? "Revenge is ...... "
best left for God to handle.
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Why do people put extra loud mufflers on their trucks/motorcycles or have a car stereo so loud I can feel it in my house as they drive by?
because they are attention whores!
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What do you think of Abraham speaking through Esther Hicks?
I think it's a bunch of bull.
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Does "for better or worse" mean that no matter how miserable you are, you must stay until you die a miserable death?
Don't be so dramatic.
You are 50% of your marriage. You want a good one? Do your part.
I'm sorry that you are unhappy but I am betting that you're not the only
unhappy one in your house.
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Will you pray for god to bring peace, unity and real love back to my marriage?
I will CERTAINLY be prating for you. God does require action on our parts,
so please also be proactive to make your marriage a better one. There are lots
of great Christian marriage books, and the movie Fireproof is one I would recommend to you both.
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My husband has always wanted to have sex w/ another girl. The opportunity presented itself this weekend and he took advantage of it. I was completely against the idea of it and knew that. He tells me I'm wrong for being upset. Am I?
You're kidding, I hope.
PLEASE don't allow your husband to brainwash you.
What he does was downright wrong! YOU are wrong for being upset?
Oh my gosh, that makes me so mad I could have a stroke just sitting here.
You deserve so much better than this disgusting excuse for a man.
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Do people that tend to babble allot, like the sound of their own voices so continually talk,don't have many important things to say, they dislike silence,or for other reasons?
I love this question!
I have a coworker who is a continuous talker. When she's not talking to ME she is talking to herself, lol. When she's not talking, she's singing or humming. She seems to absolutely abhor silence.She is also a very loud talker who has bad boundaries. Stands too close, etc.
I think there are a couple of reasons why she does it. One is that I honestly...
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My older child is a bed-wetter, is there anything I can do to stop this unwanted problem?
Take your son to the doctor. This is not as uncommon as you may think.
Also, don't give him much to drink before bedtime and don't make him feel
ashamed of himself. How old is your child??
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Ladies, if you could give only one tip to men on how to be more attractive, what would you say(Everyone please try and give a different answer)?
Be very mindful of your hygiene. Brush your teeth, keep your hair and body clean,
check your nails from time to time, LOL.
That said, don't go nuts! You don't need to manicure every inch of yourself.
Just be clean and smell good, don't get all feminine on us, LOL!!
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What can I do about my empty nester husband? He mopes around like he lost his best friend and our daughter still lives at home after graduation and does not plan to atten college until spring!!
I think you need to try to have a little more compassion. Everyone reacts differently when our kids are getting ready to leave the nest. Maybe his early
reaction is his way of making sure that by spring he will be mentally prepared
to let your daughter go.
My husband was incredibly sad when our girl went off to college. He was sad
on and off for a couple of years, honestly. I never...
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How do you deal with rejection? i really really dont know how :(
I think the best thing is to feel, deep inside, that it's THEIR loss, not yours.
Of course, that's not at all easy, but if you can, you can easily move on.
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I liked a gal and asked 4 her no. she said no cause she was just divorced and all that. but now she wont be friendly is rude and aloof. she has a good heart so wahts the deal/ should i just forget her and not talk? there is tension now between us.
I think you should leave her alone. And actually I think she's doing you
quite a favor by not wanting to jump into a new relationship after just getting divorced. She needs time to process what has happened without the interference
of someone new.
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I juz had a miscarriage and 2 mins after i told my bf he and he did'nt even comfort me then he said he wants to b alone for 3 mths . He promised he will talk to me again.And if in that time someone loves me plz give them a chance. What does this mean?
Honey, if he used and abused you, you should want to change your phone number!!!
Don't allow him back into your life. You deserve better.
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Do you think it is normal behavior to complain?
I do think that it's normal to complain occasionally, but many people seem
to get addicted to that behavior and then I think it's normal behavior for me
to want to strangle them, LOL. Toxic!
Sue
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Have you ever come home after a long day,and just CRIED? Did it help?*
Of course!!! And yes, it helps so much.
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Do you cover up mistakes or own up to them? be honest now
This is a cool question.
If I make a mistake and the person I have to tell is someone who I know will
not be happy about it but WILL offer me grace in the situation, I will definitely
own up. If I make that same mistake and the person I would need to tell it to
acts as if the mistake was huge when it was small, and intentional if it were unintentional, then I have to admit that I would be...
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Im 4 weeks pregnant and ive only been with my partner for 6 weeks hes 23 and im 20 so were both still young, i told him last night i was pregnant and he doesnt want me to keep it as were both not ready,i dont want an abortion, wat do i do?
Tell your parents that you are pregnant and then investigate adoption.
God bless you for not wanting an abortion.
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Parents pressure and Demand grandchildren. I'm 30 & single. What to do?
I'm sorry that you have to deal with this.
They are so wrong to be pressuring you I'd like to smack both of them.
Tell them very clearly that you will not allow this conversation anymore.
And if they start talking about it again, leave the room.
For them to try to force you to get married and have children for THEIR benefit
is so selfish.
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Favorite Warren Zevon song(s)?
The only one I can think of is Werewolf of London, or something like that.
Was that Warren Zevon?
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What's the oddest thing you've ever seen cooked at a barbecue?
Oh my gosh, I saw an entire pig cooked on a spit!
It was so disgusting, with its ears flapping around at every turn. GROSS !!
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Do you always thank a host?
Of course!!!!!!!!! Who wouldn't?
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If you attend a friends party, would you call them the next day to tell them how much fun it was, or wait for them to call you?
I would call them. It doesn't have to be the very next day, but there's no
reason to stand around waiting for them to call you.
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I invited 6 couples to a restaurant to celebrate my boyfriends 60th birthday. Is it tacky to assume that everyone will pay for themselves? I would be bringing a cake and paying for corkage for my boyfriends special wines.
Well, I'm not sure it's tacky, but if I were your guest I'd be surprised to hear I
was the one expected to pay.
I think that if you want to celebrate, the people invited are there to share your
joy (and bring a birthday present). If you ask them if they would be willing to pay
for themselves before you invite them, then that is a different story, of course.
If you are...
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I'm a 44 yr old single mom, and I've put everything into my children/grandchildren and volunteering. I don't have any real female friends. I would like to meet some female friends, for friendship only, how would I go about it. Thank you :)
I'm in your age range and I think that what I would do is join a book club
or a Bible study (if you are so inclined). I think I'd also find out if there were
any local walking groups. That way there's no pressure, you can chat with people
and see if there are any potential friendships there. Or join a gym and ask which classes the women around your age take.
Good luck!
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How to attract and keep a nice guy?
Meet them in a wholesome place, like the library or an art gallery...not a bar.
Be friendly yet not overly friendly.
Be attentive to the conversation and ask questions. People love talking about themselves.
Be a nice girl.
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My face is chubby but the rest of my body is skinny. How can I even the distribution of my fat?
You can't. However, if by chance you are bulimic, your chubby cheeks can be
a result of that.
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What's one food that you don't get often, but absolutely love?
eggs benedict! ::drooling::
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Can you name a song title that has only one word for its title?
Yesterday by the Beatles
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Which are more pleased with her\his job? Male pornstars or female pornstars?
I don't know who is more pleased but the male stars have a tougher job if you ask me!
The women don't have to "be ready", you know what I mean? <wink>
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Do you know anybody that is over 85 years old?
Sure do! My father in law is. He is SUCH an awesome guy, he has such a zest for life!
He is up on the latest technology and has a curiosity about everything. He still
drives (even at night, he's quite a catch in Florida, LOL) and is a tax attorney who is still practicing. I can only hope to be half as energetic both of mind and body when I am his age. He rocks!
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Why do people assume that God is a male?
In the Christian Bible, God is called "The Father" so I presume
that must be why....
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My husband tries to be intimate but i keep pushing him away lately. I feel terrible because he is a great husband, but i just don't feel like having sex with him.I just told him how i felt. Now he is ignoring me and won't talk about it. What should i do?
I think that you should stop waiting to "feel like it".
I often say yes when I would prefer to say no, but I just "act as if" I want to, initially,
and then I am almost always very pleased that I did. :-)
I think it is not just a "feels good" sort of thing when men want to be sexual with their wives. I figure that my husband is with me until death do us...
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When is the last time you got a genuine compliment? What was it?
This morning, my husband told me that he could feel my ribs.
Which is quite a compliment since I recently lost 20 pounds. :-)
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Do you think Micheal Jackson should have a candy bar named after him ? Maybe they could call it a "Wacko-Jacko-Bar", what do you think ? (humor wanted)
Not sure what I'd call it, but if would definitely have two ingredients.
Fruits, and nuts.
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If Arnold Schwarzenegger was to whisper in your ear, what whould he say?
Eets not a TUMA !!!
(it's not a tumor, LOL)
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Where can I find a list of music that will take me back to 2005? everybody get me what I want and stop wasting my time shut the hellup lazyballs look it up lazy. I only want the nice people to answer this question.
http://top40.about.com/od/bestandworstof2005/ss/top100songs2005.htm
Here's a great website for what you're looking for.
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How many ice cube trays do you own?
Handfuls!
I use a bunch of them to separate my earrings, LOL.
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If you could choose a song to die to, which would it be?
What A Wonderful World by Louis Armstrong.
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I heard on the radio today, that one out of four couples don't sleep together, they have their own bedrooms. What are your thoughts on that?
When I was growing up, my parents (who otherwise had a very loving marriage)
slept in different rooms. Although even back then I imagined they found the opportunity to be intimate, I felt sad for them.
As an adult, married a long time, I love mornings where my husband and I snuggle and chat and then go back to sleep. My hubby is quite a snorer, but even so, I couldn't see sleeping in...
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When's the last time you felt "in love"? Where you had the "butterflies in your stomach"?
I felt it this morning with my husband.
We've been married almost 30 years, not bad, huh? :-)
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At what point should I tell my wife that I got my ex-wife pregnant?
yesterday!
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If you felt that you regret your marriage is this need to be concern about?
I think that everyone, at some time or another, has regrets or at least
wonders what their life would have been like had they not chosen their
husband or wife.
I think it's reason for concern if your regret is an every day one. And even then,
I think you need to look at your expectations. Some people get married and
expect every day to be full of romance. With jobs and bills to...
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How many of you ABers have parents who are still married? (which is rare now a days)
My parents have been married 53 years and my in laws have been married
almost 60 years! I am so thrilled to have this sort of legacy. My husband and I
will be married for 30 years. :-)
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If love was a flavor, what would it taste like?
marshmallow creme.
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If no sin is too big for us to overcome then why is it that we seem to 'not' be able to cope with some?
I think that all sins are easy for us to be forgiven of, by God. We cannot overcome them in our own power. I wonder if you are talking about our personal areas of brokenness. There are some things I've done that I have great shame about, so
they sort of take on a life of their own and seem uncontrollable and insurmountable.
Because I am a Christian, I know that all I have to do is...
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Have you converted to a different faith & why?
I was born and raised Jewish, and became a Christian when I was 32.
I read the New Testament and saw how many ways it was a sequel to the Old Testament and not just a book on its own. I saw how covenants mention in the
Old Testament came to fruition, in the New. It made me see that the God that the Jews have been waiting for is, indeed, the suffering Messiah of Jesus Christ.
My conversion...
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Does anyone REALLY realize that God wants a relationship and NOT religion? Religion is a way to actually keep us away from God!
Your question is a BEAUTIFUL statement.
Amen !!
Sue
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Do children need religion?
I believe that they do, but I believe that they need spirituality rather than
religion. Religion is about rules. And although I am a Christian, I love that
God is all about relationship. That is what I have given my (now grown) daughter.
I think it's important for us humans not to think that we are the end-all and be-all.
There is a Higher Power, and we need to have love and humility....
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What is one thing every teenager should know?
That feelings are fleeting. You may feel horrible in the moment, but it will pass.
I find it so exceptionally sad how many teens commit suicide each year. If only
they realized that in the grand scope of things, they had so much to live for.
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Frank Sinatra one of the greatest entertainers of our time...I did it my way(song) please interpet what that songs means to you?
What a cool question this is!
I believe it's about a man who has had a journey with ups and downs
and he realizes that it comes with the territory. And ultimately, he is
pleased with the choices he's made, and owns them all, and owns his
life. I always found that song very inspiring.
Another song I found inspiring was the one Jerry Lewis sings at the end of
each...
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Various sects of Christianity have been adamantly stating that the "End" is imminent since, literally, the earliest days of the faith. The Bible says that no one knows when this will occur. After 2,000 years, why do people keep insisting that they know?
I agree with you, they shouldn't. I am a Christian and know that it is Biblical
that Jesus will return "like a thief in the night". There will be no warning sign for that actual event.
I imagine that the point of some Churches pointing to the "end" is because
it's so crucial that people come to the Lord before it's too late.
Sue
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If you told your christian youth leader that you were feeling extremely suicidal do you think they would they keep it to themselves - i'm 18.?
I think that the most important thing is that someone get you some help.
The worst possible scenario for you is if they WERE to keep it to themselves, although I understand that you want to keep it private.
You are obviously hurting. Please open your heart to getting the help you need. Your life is of SUCH value, and although you are so unhappy that you want to die in this moment, the rest...
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