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My boyfriend is going to be sharing a room with an old female friend. He bought a new pair of heart boxers for the trip. What should I do? I assume you have already told him that it makes you uncomfortable, so the only advise I can give is to trust him until he proves you wrong.

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Where specifically does the blood for a male erection come from? From his brain. As soon as the "little" head kicks in, the "big" head kicks out.

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How would you feel if you husband/ boyfriend has ED? My husband has ED and it sometimes (For about 5 min) frustrates me. But I have never told him this as I think its bad enough for him that this is happening without me adding to his feelings of unworthiness. The only real problem it is causing in our relationship is that he keeps on thinking I am going to find another man because of this and ends up accusing me of "fishing" for another man....

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Is there any negativity around you thats turning you into a bitter person? Yes, I wake up next to him in the morning (nag nag nag) go to work with him (nag nag nag) go home with him (nag nag nag) and tomorrow I get to do it all over again. Oh Goody.

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When I'm in a BAD MOOD in public, people just leave me the HELL alone with NO directive from me. My husband said, "That's because when you're in a BAD mood. . . . . .it's written ALL OVER YOUR FACE! People KNOW to get out of your way!" ! How about YOU? Lol. Yes I have the same thing. My mother says we have "The Face"

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I am married (12yrs since i was 17yrs) & dont think i ever really loved my H. now i have 2 boys 3&5 and am wanting to get out. i feel like i have wasted my life in a marriage that is only 1 sided but i am afraid of what it will do to my boys. am i selfish Yes you are. Sorry I know that sounds harsh but the full impact of this will only be felt much later. Listen to the song "I've never been to me" by Charlene. Its says it all.

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I have a drinking problem. How can I help myself without getting another person involved? Been there where you are. I just got to a point in my life where I realized it was doing me more harm than good and I stopped. There were times when I thought, what the hell am I doing this for, but in the long run it was better for ME. As time goes by it does get easier. I also had no urge to involve anyone in my madness. Good luck to you and you have already helped yourself by posting the...

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What is the difference between a cheetah and a leopard?

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How intelligent do you think you are? why? Not very. No one make the mistakes I made and still consider themselves even remotely intelligent.

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Do you believe that those who think they are smarter than everyone else are? You get street smart people and book smart people. My personal opinion is that the ones who think they know better than everyone else, normally don't.

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Do you have a song that makes you get teary eyed when you hear it? "He aint heavy, he's my brother" The Hollies.

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To those who are 35 or older. Do you believe the older you get the wiser you become? Are you smarter now then you were 10 years ago. "Getting old is mandatory, getting wise is optional"

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What discovery about your mate would cause you to seek a divorce without even considering reconciliation and/or marriage counseling? I actually did not see the "Any of the above" area. That would be it for me.

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What country are you from. Tell me something very unique about your country. South Africa. Castle Beer and the Springboks.

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i'm not who he thought i was will he ever be happy? I think the question should be - will you ever be happy?" And the answer would be NO. You are going to spend your life bending over backwards to please him and it's never going to be good enough. Find someone that knows who YOU are, not someone who has an image built into their tiny brains of what a woman should be like and then every woman they meet that don't live up to it, gets this "You...

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If you had to live on one type of food for a month, what would it be? Steak, eggs and chips with a salad.

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How easy is it to piss you off? Now days, very easy. I think I'm just tired of incompetence, wise asses and people who live by double standards. People who have no respect for others but expect you to respect therm. Husbands who treat their wife's like shit but expect their house to be clean, lawn mowed, garden tended to, animals fed and bathed, washing washed, food on the table in time, office running smoot

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I'm bored w/ the Internet nowadays, but was pretty excited at age 13. Refresh our memories - what websites did you go to when you were 13? We did not even have TV here yet when I was 13, never mind internet. Lol

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How did you first learn about Answerbag? Good question. I can't even remember. Must be the age creeping in. Lol. I surf a lot so that could be it.

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How do you know if someone is suffering from depression? Unfortunately there is no fixed rule. People show different symptoms when depressed. Some may become more drawn back, cut themselves of from all friends and society while others could go the opposite way. They start drinking, partying all the time, in general doing things they never use to. Only a professional would be able to diagnose depression properly.

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Ladies (and guys I suppose): Would you put your picture on a site where people could rate you on a scale from 1 to 10? I would yes. But only if it is rated per category. lol. 1. 16-18yr olds 2. 19 - 25 etc............. I would fall under the "Nearly done" category.

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What have you got in your garage that you really don't need? My husband.......Lol. No, sorry, just about everything that is in there.

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A bird pooped on my neighbor's BMW and he's blaming me because the bird was sitting in my tree. Do I have to pay for his car wash? He must be kidding. Blaming you for the bird pooping on his car. Now I have heard everything. Tell him to get a life.

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If this is the last dance, will you save it for me? Seeing that you ask so nicely. Yes

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Which discussion topic makes you most uncomfortable? To many people trying to FORCE their opinion and beliefs on others.

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A friend didn't believe in GOD! A few wks before he died, he asked me to help him say an "Act of Contrition". Was he a hypocrite? I don't think he was being hypocritical. There are many things we scorn at, or do not believe in until it hits you right in the face. Fear is a terrible bed partner and tends to change you mind about a lot of things you believed / or did not believe in.

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Do you PREFER jobs where you WORK ALONE . . . . .or. . . . . . . with a TEAM? W-H-Y???? Alone. I tend to be very unfocused with others around, especially if they are noisy. And sooner or later someone has an issue with someone else or with something and I do not have the patience for it.

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Do you PREFER jobs where you WORK ALONE . . . . .or. . . . . . . with a TEAM? W-H-Y???? Alone. I tend to be very unfocused with others around, especially if they are noisy. And sooner or later someone has an issue with someone else or with something and I do not have the patience for it.

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Except from social contacts like email, facebook and things like that, what do you mostly use your computer for? Gaming.

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Are you one of those people that sneaks out silently or one that goes out with a bang? Depends. If I did something wrong... Sneaking. If someone else did something wrong.... BIG BANG

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Do you consider your appearance to be attractive to other people? Nope

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Not many things we can do on our own. Most things take cooperation from others to accomplish. So why aren't we nicer to one another? I think it is because ,basically ,humans are selfish and as such will not do anything for others unless they, themselves, benefit from it somehow. There is a lot of bluff and BS going around which makes it so much harder to spot the sincere ones. But that is just my opinion. Lol

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Can a married woman have a guy friend? This, for me, requires two answers. 1. Yes, if she is in a strong, mature marriage in which the husband accepts it for what it is i.e. friendship. 2. Yes, if the main reason she is into the friendship is friendship and not an attraction.

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My boyfriend has a talkative family and im shy. His family thinks im being rude because I dont talk all the time, I want them to like me? Let your boyfriend explain to them that you are not being rude but just not as talkative.

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Why do we say "bless-you" when someone sneezes? Would it be bad manners not to say so? My grandfather told me that the saying originated during the big flu epidemic, as sneezing was the first sign that you had contracted the disease and millions died from it. How true it is I can not say but I loved listening to his stories and it's as good an explanation as any. Lol

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i have a dark secrete which i can't tell anyone which make me feel guilty advice? My best advise would be to find someone you can talk to. A thing like that tends to eat away at a person. Good luck

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do you think women need many clothes? Need?... NO, want....YES

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Why is it hard to figrue out females? Its not that hard. We get all excited about nothing ...... and then we marry them.

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Why do birds line up on power lines? They are recharging for the next assault on your vehicle standing under the tree.

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Why do birds line up on power lines? They are recharging for the next assault on your vehicle standing under the tree.

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Should I go to year 12 at school, or should I drop out? It would be a waste if you dropped out. In this country you can no longer find a job without Gr12, not sure thee by you though.

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i have just started to cheer up after my long period of being depressed but now i feel guilty for being too happy how can i stop this guilt? Whoa. Beware of this circle. Depression is like a big, unhappy, miserable monster that will do anything to rob you of joy. The fact that you were depressed for so long has left you in a certain comfort zone and now that you have left that zone you are feeling guilty because you have entered into unfamiliar territory. Embrace it, live it, eat it if you can (lol) As the saying goes "misery...

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Why would someone abuse a drug and hate that drug when they're the one that couldn't use in moderation? They hate the hold the drug has over them, and hate their own weakness for not being able to resist.

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Should a kid be required to wear a belt when they go out and what should be the consequence for not doing it. Okay, I'm going to fall for this one and answer. Unless their pants is about 6sizes to big and there is fear of "indecent exposure", I really can not see the reason why they should wear one. If the pants IS to big, the consequences will come by themselves if the pants fall off.

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Would you buy a Toyota? Yes, and I did.

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Imagine your partner confesses that they haven't felt "giddy happy" about anything since long before you met. What are your thoughts? I have not felt "giddy" about anything in a long time and that is just simply because life has worn me down. But if my partner said something like that to me I would most probable take it personal.

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What is wrong with my lover if he cannot take rejection or if he thinks i'm making fun of him, he even get aggresive and abusive towards me without wanting or intending to do it. and afterwards he cannot remember how it happened and why he done it. My husband kicked in three of my ribs and then could not, "conveniently", remember doing it. I don't know what is WRONG with them but I sure know that they are not RIGHT in the head.

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I haven't had luck with dating sites or meeting women. Is it true that if I don't look someone will come around? Should I keep trying? Whether it is true or not I can not say. What I do know from experience is that, when you are not looking they seem to crawl out of the wood works. Maybe it is the "Don't care" attitude that attracts them.

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Is it odd for a guy to get along better with girls than with other guys? I am a woman and I get along better with men. Is that odd? Nope. So don't worry about it. It eventually makes you a better partner because you understand women better than those "Macho" men.

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What do you say to your child when they lament, "I didn't ask to be born!"? I normally just tel mine, "no you didn't, but I wanted you to be born."

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What do you say to your child when they lament, "I didn't ask to be born!"? I normally just tel mine, "no you didn't, but I wanted you to be born."

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I love my fiancee so much, but he get easily frustrated and says hurtful and foul things, he makes sarcastic jokes against me almost every day. How can I get him to stop? It hurts to stay and hurts to leave. Is there an answer? He won't stop. Leave and hurt for a little while or stay and hurt forever. Sorry if it sounds cruel but I have had 7 years of wishing it would stop. Reasoning does not work, trying to make them see how much it hurts you does not work either. They LOVE hurting you, they don't love YOU.

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No matter what you do to me, I could absolutely never _______________ (I think). give up my children.

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What’s the Most Romantic Kind of Weather? For me it's rainy weather.

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When’s the last time someone said something genuinely nice to you? What was it? A person I had not seen in 9 years told me "You are still as sexy as ever". After no compliments for years and "you did this and you did that", or " you're getting fat", I must admit it certainly made my day. Oh, the vanity of a compliment deprived woman. lol

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When you recount your experiences with an operation if asked, do you understate to not frighten anyone or overstate for dramatic effect? Understate. There is nothing worse than going for an op frightened out of your mind by horror stories.

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After 9 months of having a baby. my vagina hasn't close up as yet. Wat can I do 2 close it up so my boyfriend has a great sex feeling, The muscle stretches. A good exercise to tighten the muscle would be - while urinating - to pinch off the stream at intervals. Once you get the feel for which muscles work there, you can exercise the muscle anytime and anyplace. It takes a bit of time but the reward is worth it. I hope this helps.

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Now that you are all grown up do you think your parents were actually smart people when you were a kid No. And this is said with love and respect.

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What is a 21st century housewife? A glorified housekeeper with more modern equipment to help her clean.

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Am I the only girl in the world whose mother in law is absolutely hateful, intrusive, bitchy, disrespectful, and unsupportive? Nope. We actually have a huge club. Just thinking of a name for it. Lol

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is it true putting cheese in your sock increases orgasm length and strength? No. If that were true cheese sales would be at an all time high.

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Why are Women Trying to Eliminate All Unworthy Males? This extermination is done very subtle, through a clever tool called rejection. My personal opinion is that we are not to far removed from the animal kingdom. No female would mate with a male she does not deem worthy of siring her offspring. Maybe it has nothing to do with rational thought but pure instinct.

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If you're married, did you end up marrying someone similar to your opposite-sex parent? Unfortunately my dad died when I was relatively young so I have no way of really knowing. He might be a little like my mom though. O hell, now I understand!!!

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Which organ do you find to be more repulsive, the penis or the vagina and why? State your age, gender and sexual orientation. The organ I hate most? Hmmmmm, let me see. The brain.

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How would you treat a two-faced person? I would ignore both faces.

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What's up with quiet people? What are they thinking? Your question reminds me of a story about a little boy who never spoke for 5 years until the day he told his mother "I don't like peas" (or some veggie), when asked why until that day he had never spoken, he replied, "you've never given me peas before". Some people just speak when they have something to say and not just because they hate silence.

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Ok so what is it exactly that attracts women to married men? Why can't they just get their own men??? I believe these type of people have commitment issues to begin with. My EX had an affair and when I found out I divorced him so he was free to have his sordid little affair but she lost interest. Lol. Go figure.

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You are missing money, your spouse was home sick at the time, would you continue to search or assume it was spouse? "Assumption is the mother of all disasters". I would ask.

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i broke up with girlfriend about 2 weeks ago and i cant get her out of my head and she has no interest in me anymore what should i do ? It seems to me you broke up with her to , maybe, teach her a lesson and now it has boomeranged on you. You have no closure and she has not trust in you anymore. This would not make for a good future relationship. Move on.

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How do I put an arrogant, selfish, egotistical person in his place? By ignoring them. They really hate that.

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Would you rather be in a sexless but loving or loveless but sexing marriage? You can only choose one! Explain the reason for your choice? Living a loveless life has taught me the true value of love. Sex you can get from anyone, but LOVE? That is something so special, so gentle and giving. But wait, I'm getting carried away here. Lol. Love over lust any day.

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If your spouse insulted your cooking, would you feel hesistant about cooking the same dish for him again? Hesitant? Hell girl. That would be the LAST meal I cook for him. My hubby tried that one and ended up cooking for over a year.

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I was a free-spirit before I met this guy. Now I'm afraid to leave my front door. I want the passion for life back. I want to enjoi the beauty I'm surrounded by. I know it's there, I just don't feel it anymore. How can I conquer this fear for good? I feel for you.

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What to do with an emotionally and verbally abusive girlfriend? Get rid of her. Pronto.

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Why is it so hard to please my wife I wish I had an answer for you. But I am in exactly the same position, just I am the wife who never seems to be able to do anything right in her husbands eyes.

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If you could go back in time, would you marry the same man/woman, and why? Sorry but no. Nasty marriage.

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Confused - someone to shed some light? An old friend of mine popped into the shop (after 9 years) to say hello. Hubby was there and I introduced them. Big tantrums and now I am having an affair and he is acting more nasty than usual. His ex has been phoning him on his birthday for 7 years and when I suggested that it might not be appropriate, he really got peed at me. Why is this acceptable but an old friend popping in (whom I...

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Why should it NOT bother me when my boyfriend looks at porn? I have researched and tried to accept it, but every time it kills me inside. I am sure some would give you hundreds of reason why you should NOT be bothered by it, but the fact remains you are and will be as it is not only degrading to you as a woman, but brings about feelings of insecurity that should not be there in the first place. Either ask him to consider you and stop or find yourself someone that respects you and your feelings. Good luck. And don't force...

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Why should it NOT bother me when my boyfriend looks at porn? I have researched and tried to accept it, but every time it kills me inside. I am sure some would give you hundreds of reason why you should NOT be bothered by it, but the fact remains you are and will be as it is not only degrading to you as a woman, but brings about feelings of insecurity that should not be there in the first place. Either ask him to consider you and stop or find yourself someone that respects you and your feelings. Good luck. And don't force...

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What is the most bizarre nursery rhyme you know? Spider, spider on the wall You really know bugger all You're sitting on a wall that's just been plastered And now you're stuck you stupid bastard.

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Why do you think that some people will go out of their way to be mean to another person, even if they don't know them? You see others as you see yourself. People who are mean etc. to others are that way because they do not like themselves so they do not like others.

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Females: What is it that gets on your nerves the most that men do? When they "think" for you. AAAAAAGGGGGGHHHHHHH. Drives me absolutely bonkers.

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For the females, what physical feature of the male do you like? V-line and butt.

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Why is it that people date whites when they have done horrible things to the world? Because they are so cute and cudly.

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Why do woman act scared & make a big deal out of small cockroaches when all they have to do is stand on them? For the same reason men do when they see a spider in the house

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What does your spouse or partner like most about you? By the sheer volume of comments I receive on a daily basis I think NOTHING.

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How are you and your spouse most different? As far as I can tell after 7 years? In all areas.

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My girlfriend is pregnant and is really pissing me off. She thinks I wont do something about it but her face isn't pregnant! Right?! Exactly whose approval are you looking for because you wont find it here.

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id love to wear womens bras and pantys all day and im a fella. Well, good for you. But for the life of me I can not figure out why you would want to wear a bra. They are like a midieval torture device designed to make a womans life miserable. I, as a woman, don't even want to wear them. Lol

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What do you do when you're at a party and have small boobs, you're surrounded by busty girls in cleavage and your BF likes big boobs better? Think about it like this. At 40 your boobs will still be small and perky. Big boobs sag quicker. So you will still be sexy at 40 and not worry about boob size anymore.

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Women: Do you have any respect for a man that you perceive to be weak or malleable to your influence? This is not weakness in a man. The person using their, so called "power" is the one that deserves no respect.

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Im in love and im bout to get married to my women in mach.. all of a sudden my girlfriend that i had when i was lik 7 texts me sayin she loves me.. i talk to her and i like her.. today she sent me a naked pic.. how do i tell her im gettin married? The "all of a sudden" strikes me as a bit odd. Have you thought about the possibility that she actually knows your getting married and is just trying to ruin things for you?

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Why do I feel guilty for wanting to spend time alone and not with my SO? (It's all me feeling like I am ditching them) You should not feel guilty. Even thought you are in a marraige you still need alone time. (All depends on what you do with it of course, if you need it to go out clubbing etc. there is a problem) What most people do not understand is that when you get married you do not all of a sudden turn into the other person or become welded to them in any way. You still remain an individual with a need...

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Is there any way to know what is inherently right and wrong? Or must right and wrong always be something defined by a majority? I belive that most people know instinctively whether something is right or wrong. Call it gut feeling or whatever you want to. Even a little child knows when it has done something it should not have (lol, you can see it in their faces) even without prior experience. From where it stems I would not even try to speculate but I know it is. Society has it's own ideas about what is right and...

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Should Religious Symbols be Displayed on Public Property? Why should any religious symbol not be allowed to be displayed? As far as I am concerned people make to big a fuss about nitty gritty things and forget what is really important.

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Would you take a phone call from work on Christmas? No, I would not. The rest of the year is devoted to work. That one day is devoted to my family.

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Do you think its mean if you give someone a gift and they return it the next day saying they hated it? It's not only mean but downright rude.

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Oh geez!Christmas in just a few days and still I can't find a gift for my wife.Any suggestions?She won't go to a day spa, won't wear jewelry Perfume

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What's the cost of a decent normal-mans haircut in your area of the world? haircut only! R 45.00. That is approximately 331.00 US dollars

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How many close friends or relatives do you have that you feel very comfortable confiding in? One, My sister

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Have you ever been invited somewhere only to arrive and find out that you were not really wanted there? What happened? We were, relunctantly, invited to a barbeque. On arrival all the women hid in the kitchen and refused to speak to me. As I am not really the kind of person who gives a s.... I sat outside with my husband. Eventually the bitch brigade dragged themself out from the house and joined us. After they had had about 2 glasses of wine each bravery took over and the "unwelcome" attitude started. I...

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Is it wrong to think the world is a hostile place? To think it is not wrong. To live your life as if the world is a hostile place is a waste o precious time. There are actually good things out there but focusing on the bad things makes you blind to the good ones.

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Do we really make choices, or, are we at the mercy of our thoughts? Does a choice not stem from a thought?

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"Ultimately one loves one's desires and not that which is desired. "Friedrich Nietzsche What does Friedrich Nietzsche mean by this? I think it's like the dog chasing the car. I has no real desire to catch the car but enjoys chasing it non the less.

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What is the meaning of malicious? Spite with violence

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What colour of eyes do you like best? Brown eyes. I have green.

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Women - what do you envy most about men? Their ability to ignore all chores and just plonk down on the sofa.

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What should I teach my bird to sing? "If I were a rich man"

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Why does a tiger have stripes while a leopard has spots....don't they both serve the same purpose...camouflage? A leopards natural hunting grounds are normally between trees, so the spots help them blend in more with the dappled effect of the leaves shadow etc. The area which an animal hunts in would normally affect the type of camouflage used.

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what do i do if my boyfriend loves me. if i leave him he would die but i like some one els, i am afraid to leave him i dont want to hurt him He wont die. People have a way of getting over it and going on with their lives. Better than living a lie.

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If you found a bag full of money, would you keep it? or Give it to the Authorities? Authorities? hA HA HA HA (Sorry) No I would keep it.

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I would love to get married...but geez! Im scared to death! Most people seem to be very "unhappy" being married, and all I hear is how miserable it is. Anyone truly happy? Shame. You must not lend your ears out to old farts like us. Marraige is and can be the most wonderfull thing. To begin a new life with another person is like magic. When you get there make sure you have chosen correctly and enjoy it.

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Can I still ask questions regarding poop? Lol. I am just as damn frustrated with this.

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What does it mean if your boyfriend has tons of pictures of his ex's and girls he use to talk to? i don't like it. he never looks at them really just keeps them in a box but it just bugs me. he says it's for "memories" I had one of those "keep photos in a box" type of guys. Memories? I saw them as trophies. We ended up breaking up because in the long run he proved to be a womanizer.

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Is it wrong for my s/o to take money from me then not give it back because of his drug addiciton? He says that as his woman, I should "understand" and keep giving him money. Strange how they can turn everything to their own advantage. No, it is not right. Taking your hard earned money to feed his addiction is my anyone's standards wrong.

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What causes a dog to healthy and loose so much weight that it looks anorexic? (In 2 days) Depending on the age of the dog it can be a few things. Catflu or tickbite fever is my guess. The dog could loose so much weight in such a short period simply because there tummies run non stop and they de-hydrate.

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Should I hook up with a coworker? Hooking up is not the problem. It's what happens if it does not work out that becomes difficult. Lol

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What is the best way to deal with rumors being spread about you (especially ones that are untrue)? Even though it is extremely difficult at times, just ignore them. You get people that, no matter what you do or are, will always find a bit of nasty to spread around. Jealousy, thats all.

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Why do guys only look for pretty girls and not girls with a great personality? it just dont seem right. no matter what i do they always go for the pretty snobby girls. Maybe you are going for the shallow guys to whom looks are everything? There are guys out there to whom personality is more important. (I know, my son is one) Make friends with them and leave the shallow one's. They will just make you feel bad all the time.

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Me and my gf argue about the pettiest things almost everyday.she and i are getting tired of it and want to stop but how do we?i want to save our relationship b/c i love her and we want to make it last. My husband and I have the same problem. We are both strong willed and refuse to back up. This does not make for very many happy moments. Our points of view also differ like day and night. One has to back down or it will never stop. After a while, even though you love one another it becomes impossible to be together. "Agression begets aggression"

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What do YOU think of the new AB? I'm not sure. Change has never been without some pain. I just have to figure this out and just hope I can do so before getting too irritated. Lol.

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My breasts have stretch marks on them what can I do to make them disappear? If the stretchmarks are not to deep massaging bio oil and or "Happy Event" in will definetly make them lighter.

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My breasts have stretch marks on them what can I do to make them disappear? Share your answer...

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How can I get my guy to understand that I'm an emotional person and he can't necessarily treat me like "one of the guys" or even as he would like to be treated? He's not an emotional person, and he doesn't know how to sympathize with me when I'm upset. Even though we would love our s/o to understand how we feel there are some men that are just a "man's man". That is why it is so important to have girl friends. They understand exactly how we feel.

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Is healthcare a right or a privelege? It is everyones right to have access to decent healthcare.

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Do you feel old if someone addresses you as sir/ma'am? In our culture the younger generation do not address you as sir/mam. They address you as uncle or aunt. When I worked in a different town and the young ones addressed me by my first name, I, sometimes, got a little annoyed but since moving to a new town where everyone under 35 addresses you like that, I must admit, I am feeling ancient. Lol. No matter how many times I tell myself that "I...

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Did your sex life change after you had children? Only in the beginning. But that is more because you are tired most of the time taking care of a new baby. There after it is more a case of being a bit more discreet. Kids have the oddest times that they wake up and waltz into your bedroom.

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What would you reveal to me, your age or your weight? 45 and 60kg - 1.64m tall(Sorry I don't know how much that is in pounds) Could someone tell me please)

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What made you get up this morning? Other than the fact that I have been asking myself that same question all day? Lol. The cockatiel screeching his head off for food. Nasty.

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Whats your s/o's best physical attribute? His legs and butt.

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What is one thing you will never understand even if you tryd? People.

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If I told you that I can walk on water what would you're response be? While your out there, there is this rare species of fish that ....................

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If the rapture don't happen pretty soon will you start seriously questioning your Christian beliefs? Nope. Because God's time is not my time.

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When will cheating on your spouse become acceptable to society? We men are tired of getting caught with our pants down and having to explain ourselves. Just leave us alone and let us do what we want to do. Stop hating. What you do with your penis is your problem. It's what you do to the person who you cheated on that is the problem. Egotistical people like you don't have the foggiest the damage you cause to another person and then to have the audacity to say "stop hating" . You're kidding, right? How old are you? 10.

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My husband is not remorseful for having an affair with my best friend instead he tells me to move on. will i ever know the truth? i have so many unanswered questions? Until your husband does not explain, apologise or even remotely attempt to do so, you are not going to have any kind of closure. The worst about a partner having an affair is the questions it brings to you. "Was it something I did that drove him into her arms? Why did I not see it coming? Why? Why? Why? Was I not good enough?"""""" So for him to just tell...

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If you were given the option to take an elevator up three floors, or walk up the stairs the same three floors, which would you choose? Walk. I'm petrified of elevators. Lol

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Which smell do you like best: freshly grated lemon rind or creosote? Strangely enough - both.

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If you really dislike a person, but don't want to be rude, what would be the best way to say 'go away i don't like you'? Depending on the person, situation, etc. Maybe the best way would just to tell the person that "some personalities just don't get along and unfortunately yours and mine don't". Bu then what do I know. I just tell them to go away. Lol

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Does your heart need just a bit of anti-freeze or do you like the appeal of a cold heart to protect you from heartache? At this stage of my life a "bit" is not going to do it anymore. Although I am not cold hearted I just basically stay away from anything and everyone that could step on a very vulnerable heart. It becomes a "Catch 22" situation. Your heart is soft but your fear is greater, which leads to isolation. Go figure.

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Are you willing to let your pride suffer for love? What pride? Lol

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Worse pick-up lines ever....."Are you an angel? Because I think I've died and gone to Heaven" "What's a nice girl like you doing in a place like this"

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How can an introvert person become an extrovert? By realising that no one is better than you. That you are an interesting, fun and worthwhile person.

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+6 Why do studies show that men are happier these days than women? What could be the factors? Maybe because the full weight of problems do not rest solely on their shoulders anymore. Women are sharing that responsibilty now.

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I am thinking of getting a Yorkie from a rescue organization. Do they make good pets? Are they really as yappy as people claim, and are they prone to biting? Also, do they make good lapdogs? Thanks for your help! Depending on what size Yorkie you take, you will get yourself a loving, loyal companion. I have a standard sized female who loves everyone. She has never bitten. growled or snapped at anyone and she is 4 and a half years old. They do need quite a bit of grooming though but do not shed. I adore my Yorkie and would never get another breed.

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I am thinking of getting a female Yorkie. Can anyone suggest some good names that aren't too cutesy? My Yorkie bitch is named "Cindy".

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Can anyone see the point of Yorkshire Terriers? It all depends on what size Yorkie you take. I found the little teacups and minitures tend to be very yappy. But I have the standard size and she is an extremely lovable, quiet dog. We live on a farm and unfortunately have a rat and mice problem due to the sheep, cattle and chicken feed kept in the shed. They are extremely good hunters when it comes to vermin. Other than that they are also...

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What is the best breed of dog if I wanted a toy that is very loving and loyal? I have had many different breeds and by far the best Toy I have found was the Yorkie.

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How many words does your dog understand? Only one - Beeno

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My dog is a UKC Grand Champion, a Rally Novice, a Good Canine Citizen and a certified therapy dog. What's your dog do? Chases rats, frogs, flies and moths. Sniffs out eggs (and eats them) Challenges the huge dog next door and empties a room in a flash.

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How curious is your cat?if you have a cat Had a cat that was very curious but now it's dead. "Curiousity killed the cat"

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Generally speaking, do men have a problem with overly talkative women? In our household the roles are reversed. The man is the talkative one and the most annoying thing is that they want to talk at the most inappropriate times.

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Do you get offended when someone says you don't have a life because you spend a lot of time on ab ? ( some of us have lots of brain power and are full of life but not physical strength, does that make our life pointless ? ) Nope. Even for a beginner I spend a bit of time here. This seems to be the only place where I find stimulating "conversations" in any case. Let the simple minded look after their own and keep on gracing us with your presence.

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What Was The Scariest Moment Ever In Your Life? Getting dragged towards a car by two men in a parking lot.

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If you could take one object from your burning house, what would it be ? (love ones and animals are save already) My photo album.

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I told a woman that I work with that I think the local weathergirl is cute and she told me that it was wrong for me to think that because I am married and all pleasure should come from my wife. I can't control who I think is attractive. Am I wrong? There is nothing wrong with finding another person attractive. Wedding rings and blindfolds do not come as a set.

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When was the last time you had a Good Time? Uhmmm. Let me think. 19...something. Lol

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Why are some people wearing the same clothes with only some sporadic changes? Maybe it's all they can afford.

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Does having a good or bad hair day affect your mood? Yip and today was one of them. Was in no specific mood when I woke up until I battled my butt off to get my hair to lie the way I want it too. Mood changes to irritation in the blink of an eye. Lol

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When nothing in life is enjoyable anymore how can you atleast pretend to be positive for the people around you? Me, I just go take a walk in nature, be quiet for a while and come back with peace in my heart. I don't pretend to enjoy the old things anymore, I found different things to enjoy. Simple things.

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If you could choose one from the animal kingdom to characterize you, which would it be and why? Cheetah. They are gracefull and although they could hold their own in a fight they avoid confrontation as far as possible. They also mate for life.

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How good are you at understanding people....? Can you look at someone & know they're your sort of person? That they're decent or not as the case may be? I thought I was but after ending up in a major abusive marraige, I seriously don't trust my own judgement anymore. Lol

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What happened to nice people? The bad people ate them.

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How do you feel about pretentious people? Can you tolerate them? For how long? I tolerate them for about 2 hours (proven) and then I leave, as my husband and son start looking at me with that "don't even think about it" look. Lol

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Can you name all of your faults? Yes. Impatient, short tempered (says my son), anti-social, dislike rudeness and disrespect. Hows that?

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Do you believe humans can harvest forest resources in an environmentally friendly way, or should national forests be left in their natural state in which resources are not used to benefit humans? When it comes to natural forests they should leave well enough alone. Enough land has been set aside to plant trees for use by people.

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What is the first thing you notice about the opposite sex? Eyes and mouth. There in lies the truth. Lol

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What type of questions do you avoid with a passion and refuse to answer? Religion and politics.

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Hey guys, i been messing around with a married man, and is like gives me everything i ask, should i feel bad for using him.. as a matter of fact i am 25 and he is 21, but he says he just like me as a coolf friend you know with benefits, Wanted to say "Shame on you" but the fact that you have to ask if you should feel bad already tells me that you have no shame. you will get your just deserve in time, my only hope is that there are no kids in his marraige who have to suffer because "Daddy" is spending his money on a kept woman.

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Why is it when you are waiting for something it never comes? Because a watched kettle never boils.

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POLL: If you had to pick one - where would you live - by the mountains or by the oceans? Mountains. I love the serenity.

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It's beginning to look a lot like Christmas, because you see ______________? empty wallets.

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What do you think if a 35yr old married man hangs out with guys and chicks who are 16yrs-22yrs old? Getting old for him is not an option. Lol

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Do you speak any other language other than English? Afrikaans. Fanagalo.

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What is ten feet below you right now? At the rate they mine here. Coal.

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Why do men stare at other women knowing they have a woman next to them? Women like pretty clothing and men like pretty women.

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Do you think it is rude to cut people off in the middle of their stories and conversations? Yes, it shows their lack of interest.

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Fold your hands. What thumb is on top? Left. Interesting.

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Any testimonies of how God displayed His love in your life? When I look back at my life and realise how many times I should have died and did not - to me that is the testimony to Gods love.

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Who is the meanest nation? South Africa. They burn each other in tyres.

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Are all of your beans in one can? Nope. Been shaken to many times.

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Do all men cheat? It feels like it to me sometimes... with all the temptations out there... strip clubs, internet porn, escort services, flirtatious co-workers, etc. it seems like most guys have some sort of sexual vice. No not all men do. My husband has had many women try and tempt him into it, and I'm not saying he didn't enjoy that, any person would, but he has not given into the temptation. In fact, he is still trying to figure out why they are tempting him. Lol

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Have you ever been cheated on? What did you do? Was forgiveness an option? Yes. Divorced him after I forgave him. The trust is gone.

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Loving you is .........? exhausting.

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What is something you wish you didn't know? That a lot of people lie. Makes it hard to trust.

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What the hell happened to you? Old age.

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What is the first thing that comes to your mind when I say "slut"? Where are you hiding my hubby?

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How do you answer 'Describe your weaknesses' in a job interview? I actually said "I don't suffer idiots gladly" Never got the job. Lol. Did not like the guy.

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What would Confucius say about your life? She who get stuck in turnpike deserve bang on head.

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Has anyone ever advised you to complain to your boss--even though NOTHING is going to change, but "at least your boss will know how you feel?" Did you do it? Did your boss CARE how you "felt?" Yip, been advised and done that. And no, other than humour me he did not give a damn.

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How old were you the first time you caught yourself talking like your parents? 40ish. I sounded just like my mother.

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Are you more comfortable with someone who always tells you what is on his/her mind or do you prefer those who hold back, play their cards close to the vest, and keep you guessing? People who keep you guessing like to keep you unbalanced. Not for me thanks. On the other hand people who always insist on telling you what is on their mind has a downside to. To much information is also not good. I like people who know when to speak and when to hold their peace.

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Im having panic attacks while driving my car, especially down hills, all of a sudden this started. has anybody here ever had it or heard of this? Bless you for asking and all answering. I seriously thought I was loosing my mind when I started fearing driving anywhere with my husband and getting panic attacks. Now I know I am sane. Lol

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Who or what is the biggest power drain of your mental resources? Unfortunately my dear hubby.

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Am I being unfair?My wife and I talked via phone, I asked her what she wanted, she said she wanted to adopt a child.I said no that it was insulting she wanted nothing to do with my sons that she need to prove her ability to mother them.She hung up on me. After reading this whole thing and all the answers and comments I cannot withstand the urge to answer. You, sir, are either a very bad commedian or a brilliant emotional abuser.

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My 20 yr old daughter recently became engaged to a young man that the family really likes. Since engaged, they argue quite often over different things. It worries me a great deal. Any thoughts on this? Is this normal? Wedding is in 7 months. Certain personalities just clash but that does not mean the marraige wont last. My hubby and I disagree on many things on a daily basis and we have been married for 7 years now. Even though the arguments sometimes get very frustrating we would never part as love binds us together.

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Did you miss out on someone who really loves you? Now you have regrets, how do you handle that, does it keep you up at night? Yes. My soulmate lives in Germany and I here. Wanted me to move there but I had to make a choice. Kiddies were still small. I lived with the choice I made as my kids are my everything. But now that they are grown up, I sometimes think what my life would have been like living with my soulmate. I don't regret the choice I made as a mother, but as a women I do.

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Which do you prefer joyfulness or peacefulness .. , why ..? Peacefulness. Noise drives me nuts.

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Do you care much about how people view you, or just live life? I just live. No matter what you say or do, people will view you exactly as they wish to, so just live. You have one life, this is it.

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What do girls really want when they first meet a guy? Honesty.

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What do you do to make the world a better place to live? I stay out of its way.

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If I put goldfish in slightly salty water for 10 mins, will it get rid of slimy white stuff on it? Don't think so. It sounds like the poor fish has, what we call, ich. You get a cheap remedy at the petshop to treat them. It is also contagious to other fish.

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What do girls really want when they first meet a guy? Food

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Do men who do household chores seem more attractive and sexier to women? Not really.

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What would you do if someone you were talking to just gave a loud fart and a satisfied grunt, and then was like like nothing had happened.? Die laughing.

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How does someone marry a game character? Are we mad? Yip. Stark raving bloody mad.

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Girls, at what age do you not want to be referred to as a girl anymore and instead referred as a woman, lady, miss, etc? 80

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Cash or Credit Card? What do you carry in your purse? Neither. I carry a Debit Card

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Do you think it's better to hold some things in or just get it off your chest? Some things are better left unsaid.

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Finally found an auto mechanic I trust. What's more, he's willing to entend credit ie. IOU. Why do I have such a hard time taking advantage of the courtesy being offered? Maybe it has something to do with being too independant and hating to ask and receive help even in justified circumstances.?Maybe.

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Give me one word to describe how you feel right now? Irritated

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I keep reading about how to commit suicide. And every one says " isn't there some one that loves you and would miss you?" In my case NO, I just lost the only person I love. So can any one help me die? Unfortunately not. But given a chance I am sure we can come up with some good reasons why you should live.

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Do you like your mother inlaw, if not then why? No. Our personalities are way to different.

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Does your S/O stick up for you when their (the S/O's) family belittles you? Actually, I think they stick up for me when he belittles me.

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What turns you off? Soggy bread.

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Are there any South Africans registered here? Yip. Standerton. Mpumalanga

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Well, the other day was my birthday and no one from my husband side called to say Happy B-Day. How would you go about solving this situation? I have been married to my hubby for 7 years and none o his family has ever wished me a happy birthday, wished that I would go away, yes, happy birthday? No. But I can in al honesty not say it has ever bothered me. What I would suggest, if you aren't already, is sending them cards or wishes on their brithday. Maybe they will return it in kind.

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Have you ever taken someone back who had cheated on you? Why or why not? Did it work out? If not, or if so, why? No I did not, for the simple reason that a relationship is based on trust and I was not going to spend my life wondering if he was going to do it again. You end up driving yourself nuts and them away in any case. Not worth it.

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My BF blew me off on my birthday to hook up with a girl he met online who offered him sex but he doesn't know that i knew everything cz that girl is me and that i was testing him so what do i do now? Confront him, but also learn the danger in "testing" someone.

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Do you believe in customer service? Yes, very much so. The one thing we promised ourselves when we opened the shop was that the day we found it necessary to become "crooked" or sly, was the day we would close shop. Our after care service is of utmost importance as the lack of it, elsewhere, is very frustrating. Although I must admit sometimes it becomes very difficult to keep a decent relationship with some customers...

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What is a worst part of being a dog groomer? Getting in a animal who's coat has become so matted that it shears off like a sheeps. And when you eventually get it all off the poor animal is coated in fleas and ticks and all sorts of creepy crawlies. I guess one should be gratefull that they eventually brought the animal in but its still sad to see the neglect.

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I have a duck egg incubating. It could be a muscovy but may not. We re at day 29 and I dont detect any movement or sound coming from egg. Do you think it sounds like the duck has died. How much movement should I expect. I have 23 Muscovys and their eggs only start hatching at 35 days. Before then I did not see any kind of movement.

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After being sick & feeling better my daughter & 9 mo old granddaughter found out they'd been exposed to H1N1 prior to being sick. Now my daughter is taking the baby for the H1N1 vaccine. I see no reason for this now. Any input is appreciated. Better to be safe than to be sorry. No?

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You're eating some delicious alphabet soup. You look down into your bowl and see a message spelled out. What is the message? Stop smoking weed.

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Where's the whatchamacallit? Here.

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Can you name something you understand but can not explain? Life and the purpose of it

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How many people do you work with in your job and what is your job.? 4. Co-owner of a motorcycle shop.

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You've gone on holiday. You're unpacking. Something was forgotten. What's the worst thing it could be? Hairdrier and toothbrush

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My wife was raised by her mother; she's never mentioned her father and I've never asked. What are your thoughts about this? She obviously does not mention him as there are big issues there. I would, as Daniel said, have been curious. But then again, I do not mention my father either, he has been dead since I was 13 and talking about it is pointless.

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How does our brain make ideas? Brain? You telling me I have one of those?

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What do you think of prostitutes who start the job as virgins? The same thing I think of Prostitutes who start as non-virgins. It's sad that women have to resort to this to earn a living and my heart goes out to them. "But by the grace of God, there go I"

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Never underestimate the power of ________. the one eyed king.

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Have you ever been hit in the face with your own boob? I wish. Not enough boob.

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Have you ever judged a contest? Yes. As a SPCA Inspector I was asked to judge at a dog show. Needless to say the goofiest boy with his mutt stole my heart and no one else had a chance. They never asked me to judge again. Lol

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What have you hid in a safe place, and now....YOU can't find it? My car keys. Two years and a broken window later, I found them. Go figure.

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When you cry, do you hide your face from others or do you want them, or a specific person, to see the pain that they have caused? Pain and tears are private.

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If you could be born again and with another gender would you do so or chooose the original one without ever knowing what the other is like to live in? I would want to come back as a male and marry my husband, who would then be a woman. Hell hath no fury

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What can I do when I get addicted to a game? Play it until the end.

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Is it normal to crave alcohol at times of the day you would not normally consider drinking once you have told yourself you are cutting down? Yes, its normal. When I stopped drinking (without counciling) and I only drank weekends, I started craving a beer in the mornings and I never drank in the week. So don't beat yourself up about it, the mind is a funny thing.

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I kissed my exgirlfriend and now I want to divorce my wife. I feel depressed. I want to start a new life. and I don't know if I love my wife anymore. Does anyone knows what is going on with me? It sounds like a mid-life crisis to me. Most of our friends went through that and now all are married to other woman, (Younger). At a time when we are settling down and relaxing because our kids are grown etc. they are raising babies and going bankrupt keeping the new wifey in all the luxuries they "think" the previous wife had.

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I have a supervisor who stares at me rudelly and tries to deamean me in front of others. What rights do I have as an employee, as to her behavior towards me? Sorry I am not familiar with the laws of other countries but here by us there is a "Grievance Procedure" which you can fill in at HR against harassment and / or any form of abuse etc. Try that.

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Do you find that dating over 40 is not as fun (like at 20)? How do you zero into what type of character this person truly possesses and bypass the superficial stuff? Or can't you? It don't think it will be as much fun. Your outlook on life has changed and different things are important. The second half of your question has got me a little stumped. LOL. Food for thought.

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Just thinking. Imagine situation when you go out with your hubby and another woman is openly flirting with your husband in front of you and ignoring you completly. What would you do? How to keep your dignity but don't feel bulied into a corner? I don't have to imagine. I've been in that situation numerous times and find the best way to deal with it is just to ignore them completely. Most of them eventually go away. The totally disrespectful ones who refuse to go away I befriend. "Keep your loved ones close and your enemies even closer". They eventually go way as well. LOL

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I walked into my house last night and there i see my wife kissing another man, instead of confronting her i walk out and start drinking this situation away can someone tell me what i should do now I'm sorry that you had to be hurt that way. I would have done the same thing.... actually I did and I'm a woman. I went to the pub, had a drink, put my wedding rings into the empty glass, got up and went home, phoned him and told him where to collect his stuff. End of story. But thats just me.

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When your relationship is/was on the rocks or there have been problems in it, do you find that you are more and more attracted to other ppl? possibly developing feelings for these other ppl? Most probably. When needs are not met within a relationship it does not mean that the needs just go away. Looking outward is normal, acting on it until you are out of the other relationship, is not.

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If a secret admirer found you online and asked you to send him nude photos of yourself, would you? It sounds more like a secret stalker to me.

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Does mood swings make libra men difficult to love? Mood swings makes anybody diffcult to love.

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Do you think mind games are a turn on or a turn off? xx A turn off. People who play mind games insult my intelligence.

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Is there something to it when he says: your my youngest gf. your the only girl i've dated with brown hair.. Is this him saying he doesn't really care for me? No I don't think that is what he is trying to tell you. Men, in general, just make observations.

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Should i let my boyfriend go out? hi me and my boyfriend have been going out for 8 months now. and im just wondering he asked today if he can go out tomorrow night to play poker with his co workers. i work tomorrow night so i cant go. should i let him go? Let him? Girl, the fact that he had the decency to ask should tell you a lot about him. You can't babysit him 24/7.

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What is the worst date you ever went on? Mine was this chick that on our first date kept thinking I was leaving her. Every time I went to the bar for a drink and went to go pee, she was insecure I was gonna ditch her. Which I eventually did. Worst date was going to visit some of his friends and ending up spending the whole night chatting to his friend because he, the BF, took the wife for a spin on the bike and only came back two hours later. (Must have been SOME ride)

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Is it true that you should never trust anybody 100%? I trust everyone 100%. The choice is up to that person whether they live up to that trust.

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Is it wrong for me to ask a boyfriend to cut off all ties with his ex? Such as emails, texts and phone calls? and who have no kids or other business together. I can understand being friendly if you run into a ex, but deliberately keeping contact? I don't think its wrong. Whats the point of her being an ex then.

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What to do if you are happily married for 10 long yearsand sudeenly you meet someone who you feel closer emotionally and physically to than your spouse what will you do?what if you have kids? I would do nothing. The hurt you cause, especially to the kids, is just not worth it in the long run.

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Is it okay to have a relationship with ur manager? Having the relationship is not the problem. What happens when you break up seems a bigger problem.

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Should straight people go `Gay` for one day a year? No. Where's the point to being straight then.

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Would you get jealous if your significant other has an emotional relationship with someone of the opposite sex? Yes and I'm not even ashamed to admit it. We are allowing to many outside influences into our relationships and this all not to look neurotic, jealous or old fashioned.

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Is it true that if a man hits a woman he does not love her? Do you think he could hit her and still love her? Love and respect in a relationship go hand in hand. A man that hits a woman has no respect for her and therefore has no right to profess love.

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What is the one thing you DO NOT tolerate in a relationship? Infidelity.

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Has your GPS ever gotten you lost? Going to a pub and grill in Johannesburg the thing told us we had reached our destinationn. We were still at a toll gate.

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What word or phrase to you use to describe the relationship you have with "that special someone" (wife, girlfriend, s/o, etc.)? Mostly I use "Hubby" or s/o.

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To my fellow bra-wearing sufferers: have you ever wanted to rip off your uncomfortable bra and run screaming through the streets shouting your newly found bra-less freedom? I simply refuse to wear one. As I say to my s/o when he comments about it. "If you like them so much, here, you wear it"

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Ladies, what's the difference between hot and cute? Hot is Vin Diesel in "Fast and Furious" Cute is the next door neighbors kitten

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Girls... how do you prefer your guy to be... meaty, or skinny? Meaty. I like to have something to hold onto. Maybe because I'm skinny.

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Women, do you fell uncomfortable or flattered or other when someone stares at your chest or cleavage? Uncomfortable and slightly peed.

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Women: do you find men on motorcycles sexy? Why or why not? Yes. It gives off a "Devil may care" attitude.

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If you were out in public and a stranger suddenly yelled "everybody dance now" would you do it? Nope, to conservative.

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When you get the opportunity to hear it... what does silence say to you? Bliss.

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How can you tell if you ovulate when your period is not normal? Try taking your temperature. It's at its highest when you ovulate.

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Whose voice would YOU like to hear on your GPS? Vin Diesel. But then maybe not, I would be so busy listening to that, oh so sexy, voice that I would never get to my destination. Lol

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How do you conclude that one is emotional? what would you suggest honestly for that person to toughen up? Come live in SA for a while.

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If you and I woke up in jail together, using ONLY 4 WORDS, what would you say to me? Oh hell, you didn't.

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What is a must do when you visit Africa for a holiday? Depends on what part of Africa your going to.

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What makes us have the will to keep going? The belief that something good may happen tomorrow.

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How do you get over someone when you don't feel like dating anyone else? Focus on your needs. Pamper yourself, watch a lot of movies and die your hair pink. That sad lost feeling will eventually go away. Just focus on something else.

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My controlling and emotional abusing boyfriend that I am afraid of and want to dump lives with me and our to kids. So what do i do then? (2009-11-13) Change the locks on his ass.

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Lips that touch ______ will never touch mine. Frogs

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What is your motto in life? Mine: It's boring in bed, might as well get up.

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If you could only pick one thing, what is it about your significant other that keeps you with them? His laughter

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Sometimes people insult me by calling me a bully. Should I beat them up? Of course you should. Bully

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I am 21 yrs gay. i lik undergo gender change operation as i am planning to marry my partner. but i am worried about the society...pls help me with ur views... Society will always find fault. No matter who you are or what you do. Do what makes you happy first and let society worry about their own shortcomings. Good luck.

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What should you do when you're pushing your car do the aisle in a grocery store and some one has left their cart blocking your way? I move their cart for them. Got some dirty looks doing that but it's better than telling hem to move it and end up in an argument with a stranger.

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Why are strangers such A-Holes? Was it something their parents did to them? We bought a motorcyle shop and as first time business owner I can only confirm that they usually are A-holes. Whether it was their mamma's,pappa's or whoever, I wish to hell they would take their sodding misery somewhere else. Some are nice though. Lol

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Once you cross a line, is it possible to go back? What's done can never be undone.

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When was the last time someone said to you "i love you"? and meant it? A while I suppose.

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When was the last time someone said to you "i love you"? and meant it?

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What would be the hardest thing about loving you? My need for alone time

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Which type of shopper are you? A hit and run type. I don't like shopping - unless its for something nice.

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Is volunteering worth the time it takes? The thing with most people who volunteer are that they are passionate about a certain thing and this is normally the area of volunteering as well. I volunteered at the SPCA for years and the time it took did not really bother me much as I loved working with the animals and making a small difference.

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What is something hard on the outside and soft on the inside. I am trying to come up with an analogy to explain to my s/o the way I am. A nut.

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Are you gullible? Unfortunately yes. I still believe, after all the times I was proven wrong, that there is good in everyone. Duh.

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What makes you say Oh NO! or Oops? Oops is a word I use a lot (Now that you mention it) Normally when someone did something and I don't want them to feel bad about it.

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What do you think is the cutiest thing in the world. My husband. When he is in a good mood.

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I attract deviant men who are determined to show me how modern and caring they are prior to marriage and chauvinistic and abusive after marriage. It's happened 3 times. Please help, so it doesn't happen a 4th time. Recommendations helpful. Lol. Sorry, a client walked into the shop and I had to end it quick. His take on the matter is that if you are a person with a lot of self confidence you attract people with low self esteem as they somehow hope that it would rub off on them. But after a while your self confidence becomes a threat as it does not rub off. This is when the abuse etc. starts, when they pick away at your...

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Would you be a great person to marry? Nope. I make a much better friend.

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What do you think of remarring your s/o? Uh UH. No. And you can't make me do it.

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Would you marry someone that was rich and loved you very much, but you not attracted to them and did"nt love them. Yes. My grandma use to say. Marry for money and work for love - not marry for love and work for money. Love is something that grows as the years go by. It's the "in love" feeling that people miss and that eventually goes away in any case. Real love grows with time.

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Who should move out of the house, the cheater, or the cheated? The cheater. Why should the cheated give up their comfort, stability etc. just because the cheater had no values or selfrespect and did not think for one moment what they were doing other than following the path of least resistance.

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If you knew for a fact that you could get away with it would you cheat on your spouse or significant other? Getting away with it is not the problem Having to live with yourself after being so deceitfull is the problem - so - no, I would not.

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Hi. My husband looked at another girl, he forgot that I'm next to him. when at home I asked him why you looked at that girl, he answered because she is beautiful. he made me feel that I'm ugly for him, for him, I know I'm not ugly.he doesn't respect me? Looking at another has nothing to do with the respect he does / or does not have for you. I will point out a beautiful woman to my husband. Beautiful is Beautiful and as I told my husband one day when he commented on this (his 1st wife was very jealous) "marraige did not make you blind". I have no problem with him looking at the menu, he just may not order.

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My hubby has been sittin on the couch all day. Now all of a sudden he smells urine, and swears the kids snuck in and pee'd on the couch. Does your spouse make up things to complain about? Lol. Sorry but it sounds so much like my hubby that I had to laugh. Its all they seem to do all day long - sit and think of things to bitch about. And as your question proves - sometimes they think up real weird things.

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Want to find out what people on here think about you? Type just your name in an answer so that people can comment with adjectives. I'm not responsible for what people say about you. Aries RSA

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Have you discovered anything in your life? Yes. When push comes to shove, you're the only one going over the cliff.

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What is your number one cause of stress? Play computer games. There you get to shoot things and blow sh... up. And all this while you're having fun.

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Are all Aries extremely strong willed with a temper like fire? I find that this describes most Arians whos birthdates are middle April, as you move to the sides of the scale the personalities are influenced by which ever sign flanks Aries. (Sorry, my English has forsaken me, and obviously my brain to.)

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I would like to hear from other victims of domesic violence, can you share your experiences with me? The only thing I can share with you is that it leaves you with nothing.

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I attract deviant men who are determined to show me how modern and caring they are prior to marriage and chauvinistic and abusive after marriage. It's happened 3 times. Please help, so it doesn't happen a 4th time. Recommendations helpful. What is your starsign?

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Boyfriend got mad cuse i put his lighter in the wrong spot he yelled at me left came back shoved my head which hit my infant sons head who i was holding later he pulled my hair twisted my arm then tells me its my fault. can he be saved or should i run? Saved? Leave him to wallow in his own muck and bail. Your baby has one Momma and thats you.

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If a man has ever hit you, did return to them? Yes, Moonshine, a man did and yes I stayed with him. The beatings did not stop, it got worse until I stopped him. Now it did but emotionally and verbally the abuse continued. If a man hits a woman it is because he does not respect her as a woman. No man who respects a woman would even think of doing that. Look at yourself in the mirror. You are a woman. Soft, gentle and made to nurture....

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Do the people you live with listen to the TV way too loud? Always, My hubby has some ear damage from working in a factory and now does not hear so well. Mostly I can not watch TV with him as his "comfortable" is my total deafness.

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When they say on TV, "You may find the following images disturbing", does anyone actually look away? Surely that would make more people look? I actually get up and leave the room, I have no desire to see the pain and suffering of others - be it human or animal. It haunts me for a very long time.

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I have heard folks say long hair on a woman over 40 does not look right. I'm over 50 and my hair is down past my waist and is a natural medium brown. I do not color my hair. Have a tiny bit of gray at my temples. What is your opinion on this? Some women look gorgeous with long hair no matter what the age. I, unfortunately, am not one of them, a cheap face lift for me is a short haircut.

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A dozen TomTom GPS voices to choose from and the only one I really like is the "British woman". Why is that? Different tone of voices appeal to different people. Maybe the tone of her voice is "Music" to your ears. Lol. Squeeky or high pitched voices drives me nuts.

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What do u do to make youe mom and dad stop fighting? There is not much you can do. Just don't get into the habit of thinking it has something to do with you or that it is your fault, because it's not. "Grown-ups" sometimes do things without thinking of the effect it has on others.

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Why do we all have to go through hard times? Because Adam and Eve did not know a good thing when they had it.

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Whats the biggest mistake of your life? Divorcing the father of my children

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Where are you from? And what time is it there? South Africa. 15h00.

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Coke or Pepsi? As a child I use to love Pepsi. Now we don't import it anymore. Did for a while, but did not really take.

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Women, what turns you off most in a man? Aggression and whining.

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What is the most dangerous thing you have ever done, on purpose? Live

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What makes a women lose interest in sex? When your husband finds wrong with everything you do, are, dream and say. But when time comes for a bit of sugar, you are just right. To late buddy. Not interested. There is a very good saying that I would like to share. With a woman it's "Make love to my mind before you make love to my body"

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Ladies how many of yous like it when you partner gives you a hug and you can feel his hard on poking into you? Depends on what mood I'm in, or what I'm doing. Really don't like it when I'm elbow deep in dirty washing.

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The best part of being a woman is______? having boooooobs.

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What physical things turn you off instantly? Bad smells.

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Why is it good to be honest? Because lies always come back to bite you in the butt when you least expect it.

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People who drop their used gum in the street ! Should they be smacked? Yes, as soon as you unglue yourself from the pavement.

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Do you have any pet peeves about driving? When people tailgate you even though there is more than enough space for them to overtake.

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What is your top pet peeve in the kitchen? When someone peeks in the pot and says something stupid like "Why don't you........ Hey, cook it yourself.

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What is your biggest pet peeve. When someone explains the same thing over and over like you are some kind of brain dead moron who, maybe, did not get it the first 10 times. Man, that really gets my goat.

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When you first look at someone, do you notice the eyes, hair, or teeth first? Eyes and mouth.

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What does perseverance mean to you? Do you have any? Still being married to my grumpy, negative husband.

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What colour would you prefer yellow or blue or red or green ?( I'll give you an analyzation of your personality through knowing the colour you like most;) Green. If my s/o does not stop me all the time everything I own would be green.

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When you hurt yourself, physically do you get angry/violent, or sad/despondent? Or do you remain calm and try to breathe through it? I actually get the giggles when I hurt myself as the stupidity behind the whole thing is ironic.

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Are you a loaner or do you like company? Loner. People bite.

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What kind of book are you: Mystery? Sports? Technical? Adventure? Poetry? Unreadable? Sealed? Open? Explain. I always thought I was an open book. But recently I told someone that they don't know me very well (after 7 years) and was told it was because I don't let anyone know me. Huh. Maybe I'm unreadable.

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Ladies: are you a girly girl or a tomboy? How does that affect your relationships with men? Tomboy. I love dressing so it is not like I dress like a tomboy, I just do a lot of things girly girls would not do and would classify as "Tomboyish". I think it affects my relationship with men a lot as there are not a lot of things I "need" them to do as I can do most of it myself. I find that this makes them feel like I don't need them for anything whereas girly...

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At what point is the "It's none of my business!" attitude taken too far? When a person dies on the street and you had walked past him/her with that attitude.

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Should we avoid talking to girls who get breast implants, they have low self esteem and are spoiling it for the rest of us? Avoiding talkin to someone because you think they have low self esteem seems a bit ridiculous. And what exactly are they spoiling for you?

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Why are so many fathers protective of their daughters? (but not their sons) It seems they continue to think of women and girls as "the weaker sex". I'm not so sure that they see them as the weaker sex. Maybe because they are men and know how men think causes them to be more protective over their daughters.

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When would you take someone saying 'sorry' to you as an insult? When you had to remind them in the first place what it was they are suppose to be sorry about.

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Why is it when older people go inside a store, they stand in a catatonic trance in the entryway? Mostly we're trying to remember what the hell we were doing there in the first place.

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What small thing can you do each day to help our beautiful planet? Don't make unprotected fires.

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Most women think that men are____________? not worth fussing about.

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Do you think you are special? Nope.

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When was the last time you did a random act of kindness for a stranger? ( and what was it) Today. I fired a incompetent worker. Random Act of kindness to myself.

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If there's no _________ in heaven, I'm not going! Space

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What would you do if you miss someone you know ignore you? Wonder what the hell is wrong with me and get someone to miss that misses me right back. :)

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What are the characteristics of a "Real Man"? I suspect it's a bit like "beauty is in the eyes of the beholder" Every person idea of what a real man is differs (and I suspect as you grow older, it changes). Mine is a man that respects his wife and children, supports his family to the best of his ability without loosing sight of the other important things. A gentle man who is not afraid of speaking when the situation calls...

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Do you believe that THERE'S A RAINBOW ALWAYS AFTER THE RAIN? Metaphorically speaking - Nope. In reality, yes unless it's dark. So maybe no.

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Anyone afraid of getting stuck in an elevator in your apartment building? What's scarier, alone or with neighbor(s)? Yes, I am petrified of getting stuck. I would rather climb the seven floors. (Healthier in any case) But if I got stuck I would rather be alone. I would hate for anyone to see me go to pieces.

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A person who is known and has a record for assault, rape, etc... is found to be living in a house with 6-8 decomposing corpses. Should they still be presumed innocent until proven guilty or just considered guilty and sentenced straight away? Guilty. There are to many loopholes in the justice system and to little justice.

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What are the warning signs of credit card addiction? When "Just for emergencies" becomes everything you see or want.

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Concerning race relations, are black people (in America) too sensitive or too easily offended? I know, I know. You said America. But as I don't live there, I don't know. I do live in South Africa though where, as I am sure you know, race relations is a HUGE issue and I can truthfully say that, Yes, they are.

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Why love and happiness is hard to achieve? Love an happiness? Two different things. You either love and you're miserable. Or... you're single and happy. Viola

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Nostalgia Poll: Frank Sinatra or Dean Martin? Old blue eyes, hands down.

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Im confused. I am what girls want imo (i write romantic poems for them, dedicate myself to them, im intellegent, and i have goals) and yet once i think ive found a legit gf, they soon have a problem that gets in the way and they break up with me. Help me. You have to kiss many frogs before you find your prince (or in your case princess) The right one will come along.

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Would you work for Jesus if he came back today? It would be a great honour. So yes.

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Do you like the way you get angry? Years ago I never use to get angry but kept it all bottled up until it all exploded into one huge atom bomb. (Hated myself) Now I try and deal with the situations as they arise but end up sounding like a bitch 24/7. (Dislike that even more)

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I put a friend of mine life in danger (and others)when anger overtook my sanity last Saturday, I haven't function well since. I drove the car at great speed without any caution for anyone's life. Anger over reasoning without time to walk away, help? (0 an Wow. I can just imagine how you feel now. Guilt and all. But we are all human and sometimes do things that goes against everything we believe in. Forgive yourself, ask them to do the same. Deal with your anger issues NOW. "Anger is just one word away from Danger"

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Ladies(or/and men) u go on a date 2 the movies and he asks for the smallest bag of popcorn and asks 4very little butter bcuz it cloggs ur heart(he actually says that) and 2 bottles of water. Seriously.How would u react? I must admit that I would immediately wonder what is wrong with this person.

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What month were you born? April 12

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Do you read whilst on the loo? Yes. It gets most boring staring at the wall.

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What is it you like about sheep? They are gentle creatures even though they are extremely dumb. (We live on a farm)

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Do you like Corned Beef? Only on the rare occasion when I am starving and there is nothing else to eat. As the saying goes "hunger is the best cook"

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Could you believe in love again? To answer truthfully - I don't know.

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I am a theist. What do you have to say to me? Hello, how has your day been?

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Christians: Why do you hate Atheists? As a Christian person I believe that everyone is entitled to believe what they wish. It is not a case of my way or the highway.

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12 years ago my husband was arrested for hitting his1st wife across the face.He went through concelling after that.He has never hit me but he does pretend he is a bit controlling. Ordering me around and then saying"No hun,I'm just teasing."Is this a sign? May I ask? Have you refused him when he orders you around to the point where he becomes frustrated?

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Say the first nice thing that comes to your mind! Uhmmmm........ Sorry, not a good day. I'll try again tomorrow.

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How can I get my wife to purge? There is no interest in excercise. at all. and she eats too much and doesn't want to stop. or slow down. Her body is very efficient and stores fat/energy well while using very little. Its minor now but I see her future... I don't think its a healthy way of staying slim. I am naturally slim and have always been even though I eat like a horse. I don't exercise, have two grown sons and am a very healthy 45 year old woman who still wears the same size clothing I did when I was 18. Maybe you should stop worrying so much about how she's going to look in the future and appreciate her now.

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How do I get rid of the odor around my vag? I find that Betadine douche works best. It has a germ killer in that could be the cause of the unwanted smell.

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How do you find happiness? This going to sound like a cliche but you really have to find happiness within yourself first otherwise you will never be happy if you look to others to provide it.

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Do you believe in the saying "Once a cheater, always a cheater"? My first reaction would be to say, yes. But I am sure there are people who cheat once and never again. Sort of "Lets try it" thing.

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Complete this:People would be lost without_________? Street names.

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Do you think Christmas spending has got out of hand and would you like to go back to simple inexpensive gifts? With my paycheck? Yes. yes and yes please.

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How many pets do you/have you had in total? Two dogs, 22 Muscovy ducks, 5 Pet hens, 2 Parakeets and then various frogs and snakes that invade my house when it rains.

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Is humor an aphrodisiac? Could a good sense of humor always give an advantage to men when it comes to being attractive to women? Oh yes. A guy with a good sense of humour would catch my attention.

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If you were ever abused by a man, do you now have a lot of anger towards men in general? is this normal and how do you overcome this? During a 7 year marraige I have had my nose broken numerous times, 3 ribs kicked in, punched, kicked. etc. Do I have anger towards all men? No. But I do not trust them to be my protector anymore.

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You enter a dark cave. What do you see inside of the cave? Nothing. I'm night blind.

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Girls,ladies, if you like some one what do you do? Run as fast as I can in the opposite direction. I make bad choices.

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What does your S/O do that just totally pisses you off? Accuses everyone of moving his stuff around when HE misplaced it. Come to think of it, he just pisses me of, period.

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If YOU came with Instructions what would they say? Caution. Does not play well with others.

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An old friend committed suicide. I feel conflicted,like I can not understand how do you get to that point,where is no way out? As someone who has been there, done that, and luckily lived to tell the tale, I can tell you that it creeps up on you like a thief in the night. That is why a lot of people say that they never even noticed something was wrong. The turmoil inside the person who commits suicide just becomes so overwhelming one day that they do not even think about suicide any more, they just do it.

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Has a c.d ever been so beautiful, yet so sad and poignant that you almost can't bear to listen to it, without tears streaming down your face? Yes, but only because it is a reminder of something very dear to me that I have lost.

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What sort of conversations usually happen between you and your S/o after a big night of dirnking? We start of with normal conversations about this and that and end up in a major argument about this and that. We don't drink well together.

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Do men and women have mismatched libidos? The majority yes. It was proven, by some clever people, that 60% woman have a very low libido.

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Why would a strong girl feel better about herself by beating up a weak girl? Because she has a smaller brain thatn the weak girl.

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What is the first thing that pops to your mind when I say "Car"? Damn. It needs a service.

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Do you ever throw coins in a fountain and wish? why? Desperate time calls for desperate measures?

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Why do women think that they can change men? I suspect for the same reason men think they can change woman

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Can extremely harsh words, spoken in the heat of an argument, ever be completely forgotten, or just forgiven? Forgiven yes. Forgotten. Unless you get total amnesia you never forget anything. You think it's forgotten until the next argument. Boy oh boy, you'll hear of all the terrible things you said in the last 20 odd years.

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Where did the practice of answering the telephone only after the second ring come from? Maybe woman started it when a guy phoned them for a date and they did not want to seem to anxious. Lol

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Christmas gifts: Would you rather give and/or receive a bunch of small presents or a one big present? Depends. If the big one was a car and the little ones lingerie or perfume or whatever. Hey no contest. Gimme the car anytime.

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I found out my wive kissed another man while she was out. It was a coworker and she said she does not want to talk about it but just said dont work, it was nothing. But I feel like I need to know the details to be able to move on. Shld I let it go? Saying "I don't want to talk about it just does'nt cut it. As she was the one who hurt you she owes you some kind of explanation.

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Although I cry along with all the others when I see babies dying of hunger I need to ask - why are people having children when they can not feed them? Please don't stone me for the question. I really wonder about it.

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Do you think that wife should shout while she is performing sexual intercourse with her husband? Only if the next door neighbour does'nt mind.

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While in a relationship, how can you tell if your partner is insecure? When they constantly ask where you've been, whom did you talk to, what did you do, why were you so long, why are you dressed up so pretty, where did you go, etc and then not believe a damn word you say if and when you have the inclination to answer all the millions of questions thrown your way when you dare go to the shop to buy food.

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Has your s/o ever tried to make you choose between them or your children? Not in so many words no, but they do come at you at an angle which eventually forces you to make a choice.

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Im on the verge of tears, Do you have anything that can cheer me up? Yea, have a look at my paycheck.

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For those of you who got married because you or your partner got pregnant. Do you ever resent that child? O hell no. He has been my pride and joy for many years now.

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How can I tell my husband that I want a divorce? He is an alchoholic with a bad temper and I'm scared to make him angry! You don't. Get laywer to tell him when you are safely tucked away somewhere. Sorry, I know it sounds like the cowards way out but I had one of those and he scared the hell out of me. (Alcoholic, that is)

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What does a friend do when my best friends are fighting about everything Ignore them. They need to sort out their own differences.

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Ladies how would you react if a man told you he left his wife for you? Sorry people but I'll have to answer this differently. However you feel is not the point to me, what were you doing playing around with a married man in the first place, is what bothers me more.

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Finish this statement: "Men who hit women are ____________________?" Assholes

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My boyfriend of 3 years is chatting to a lady he met on a dating site, just before we met. she`s in america,we are in south africa. he says he hasno intention of meeting her but it makes me ncomfortable. am i being silly for worrying? Silly? No. We are all human after all. Just a question. He has been chatting to the lady for 3 years and nothing has happened and he is still with you. Do you not think that what he says might be true?

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The sign says, "Enter at your own risk". Do you? Yes, how else am I going to know whats on the other side. Lol

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Is there something in life that you just don't seem to learn and keep making the same mistakes? Do you have a plan to change it? Yip, I keep on getting married and yes my plan to change it is to not get divorced again. Lol

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People sometimes refer to others as 'common'. What do you think is 'common'? Having an all out screaming match with soemone in public places to me is "common".

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Has anyone noticed that passing on certain area drains your energry level? Jip. My work area.

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If you could fall out of love with your s/o, would you? and for what reason? I don't think falling out of love is a choice you make, it happens. The reason why this happens is numerous, mental or physical abuse, incompatibility, etc

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Do you think that a year of counseling should be mandatory before a couple marries? Maybe six months. I think most young people go into marraige with the "happy ever after" idea firmly implanted. But as all married people know there are quite a lot of "worse" moments as well and I find that most people are not prepared for them that is why we have such a high divorce rate.

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A blind girl sent me a sexy letter; I am now embarrased around her, and avoid her. The problem is: she has amazing hearing and I am paranoid that she will recognise my footsteps. Everytime I see her, I now trot like a horse. What should I do? Lol. Sorry but the picture of you trotting like a horse just to try and disguise your footsteps is hysterically funny. You should feel flattered that this girl even thought so much of you as to send you such a letter. Why hide from it. She just might be your next best friend.

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How does somebody not realise when their partner has fallen out of love with them? Easy. We see what we want to see and that which we see and don't like we make excuses for.

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My husband is a bipolar and in his manic phase he gives me silent treatment and when I try to talk to him, gets irritated and abuses me. This is second time now. First time he did not spaek to me for 4 months. It's been 7 days now, he has not spoken to me I am sorry that you are in a situation like that and please understand that I am not making light of your situation when I say - I sometimes wish my husband will not speak to me for months. When he opens his mouth it is to complain, insult or accuse.

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Ive recently broke up with my boyfriend + now that im out the relationship realise alot of his behaviour was abusive+manipulative.I want to help him realise this to protect other women+allow him to be happy long term but dont know how? The abusive type of person will not admit that they are abusive as it is always the other persons fault.. Talking does not help. I am blue in the face trying to do that already and all you get is " You made me ..........

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If your spouse or S/O has cheated on you, how did you find out? Did you forgive? How? His lover answered his phone while he was "supposedly" at a work funtion. I went to the pub, had a drink, put my wedding rings in the glass, went home and put all his stuff on the pavement. Forgave him and then divorced him.

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How did you find your soulmate? Nope - still looking.

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When you go to a restaurant , do you save room for dessert? Save room? Uh uh. Make room rather.

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One of my best friends has a wife who is very outspoken. I usually admire that in a women. I do not like to "guess" whether people like me or not. Do you like someone that speaks his/her mind? Why or why not? Unfortunately I am a very outspoken woman as well and must admit it gets me into a lot of hot water. Lol. One thing I would like to mention is that there is a fine line between being outspoken and just plain rude and to many "outspoken" people cross the line. I dislike rudeness.

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Did you ever DUPLICATE the same mistake over and over and over? Yes, marraige

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Believers: Do you enjoy the prospect of non-believers burning in Hell? No. Any person lost to such a damned place is a great loss.

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Why did the chicken cross the road? To visit his "flat"mate.

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If your life were a book, what would the title be? Dejavu

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Why do some people still feel like white people owe black people for something white peoples ancestors did to black peoples ancestors 200-300 years ago? All American slave owners and slaves are dead. Does anyone else think that, that is racist? As a citizen in a country going through the same thing I have to, in all honesty, say that the idea of apologising for something I had no part in, is utterly ridiculous. I personally feel that it is just used as an excuse for power grabbing and self enriching. Incompetance is rewarded under the disguise of empowering the previously disabled. Oh please, give me a break.

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At what age do you think you start to slow down in life? 45

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Why woman's stay in relationship after being abuse? Who else is going to want a woman with no self esteem who has become afraid of everything. Better the devil you know than the devil you don't know.

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What would be my sex drive after the folowing comments from hubby -------your boobs are droping like those of tribals should have married a girl much younger than you Wow. Thats about as low as it can get. Sex drive zero. Cold shoulder 100%. Ass

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Is there anything you would not wish on your enemy? What is it? My husband

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I jus lost a baby 2 n half weeks ago.. i told my ex and he flipped.. he asked me wat i wanted him to do.. i told him to do watever makes him happy.. and then he complained how he hasn't been happy.. i feel horrible.. i wanna b there for him.. I am asuming he became your EX because he is a selfish, self centred, egotistical person. Nope he deserves no "I wanna be ther for him" BS.

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What does it mean, when a woman asks a guy if he wants to have children? It means.... do you or don't you want to have children.

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Could you live without TV for a week? Yip. But I would be dead tired by the end of the week as this is the one place I get the most sleep.

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What is wrong with adultery? In the eye of the adulterer, nothing. But how about STD, aids and all the other disgusting diseases the adulterer carries home to his/her unsuspecting mate. The incredible hurt he/she causes the other by their selfish act. The lifelong damage caused by their hormones to their families. Don't even get me started!!

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I am getting married,but have feelings for a coworker, who is married. I am meeting up with him soon, just the two of us.I enjoy his company,fantasize about him, but know that nothing should/could happen. Am i crazy,or is this n You sure you ready for marraige? This is not critisism but it does not seem that way to me.

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Why is it that sometimes I want to choke the very life out of my husband, and sometimes I love him to death and can't live with out him. Do all married people feel that way or is it just me? LOL. As I told my hubby the other day. "I sometimes really dislike you but I always love you" Even though we love our spouses, etc. we do not always like the things they do and this should not be confused with our love for them.

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I'm disgusted with people and how they treat eachother socially to the point were I think its bother and waste of energy to try and relate or coexist with them. Do you think thats wrong? Better yet is this way of thinking leading me down a bad path? It becomes very difficult becuase any person feeling the way you do tend to isolate themselves and become less tolerable to others. I know this by experience and its a very lonely road to travel. FEAR is the main player in this sad game.

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If you have to give 3 words to describe your beautiful country, what are they and why? Beautifull Wild Unique

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People call me gay i am not gay im tired of it what can i do to make them stop Nothing. Some people just love putting other people down. You know you are not and thats all that matters. Those who care about you know you are not. Why let a-holes who care nothing about you as a person upset you. Its so not worth it.

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My boyfriend(now broken up) recently - cheated on me, Beat me, took advatage of me, yet took me for granted, treated me like shit while he was tired of me. Next time he calls for the last time i want to say something powerful, what should it be? When he starts yapping about all his problems, which they normally do just tell him that you thinks he is congusing you with someone who actually gives a shit. (My apologies to anyone I offend with the sh... word)

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In three words describe your boss. I-DI-OT

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To all dog lovers/owners - What is your favourite breed and why? Yorkies for their tenacity, Golden retrievers for their gentleness and intelligence.

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Did you have to struggle to get everything you now have in life or was it all handed to you on a silver plater? Silver platter? Yeah right. I would be nice for a change though. Lol

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What would you think of someone owning cigarette cases, lighters and ashtrays made of Gold? That they are stinking rich

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What kind of bullshit are you white trash writing down These strange symbols you see are called "words" Written words.

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Are you sad Michael Jackson is dead? I enjoyed his music and the death of any person is always tragic.

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Which of these sets of WORDS is CLOSEST to saying "I LOVE YOU"? "I LIKE YOU A LOT"; "I CARE FOR YOU"; "I NEED YOU"; "I CANT LIVE WITHOUT YOU"; "I ACCEPT YOU AS YOU ARE" or "I BELONG TO YOU" I care for you

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Why are people afraid of death? Some think a better life comes after it, so why are these people still scared to die? I personally am not afraid of death, not since I was 7/8 years old. I don't fear death as much as I fear not being alive.

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I'm having relationship problems with my boyfriend. One big issue is that I can't console him when he's upset or stressed. I guess I'd like to find out how other women console their men. Mine I leave well enough alone. Most men don't like admitting they have a problem I make him coffee, give him a big hug and when he is good and ready (and he wants to) he will tell me what it's all about. The worste thing we can do is try and help.

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which is ur favourite colour? Light green, dark green, olive green, neon green ... Yes, I like green.

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Why is considered to always be okay for a woman to hit a man? It is never okay. Many woman (Abusive ones) use the fact that a man is not allowed to hit a woman as a shield to smack, bite etc. their s/o. My personal opinion is - if a woman wants to hit like a man, then she should take punishment like a man.

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DO WOMEN BECOME AROUSED OR ENJOY WATCHING MEN FIGHT? i am not judging anyone so please ladies be honest. I am trying to gather info on a study i am doing. Nope. I hate aggression.

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Why does bad news travel faster than good news? Because the path is lubricated with sh@#

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Do you think thong bikinis are appropriate for the beach? Would you wear one? If I had the body - yes

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Why do humans seek a sense of love when it can lead to such heartache? Because we were created to love.

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I know that men look at women and it's completely ok, but my boyfriend likes to engage other women through eye contact and suggestive smiling. This really bothers me as i see it as innapropriate, especially when he's with me - what are your thoughts? Womanizer. Unfortunately the thrill is in the chase and seduction.

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How many know how to spot a controller? What are the tell tale signs that may seem like he/she is showing concern but not? When they want to start spending all their time with you under the pretence that they can't go a minute without you - thus depriving you of time with friends/family etc. Because they eventually alienate you from all.

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Why do gay guys always stare at my boyfriend?? He is really good looking but are they just admiring his good looks or thinking he is gay? All in all why would they stare at a straight guy? I'm sure they are just seeing the same thing you saw in him and if he's handsome i'm sure the woman stare as well.

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My birth sign is Aries. What should my personality be? Vivacious, tenacious and above all just you.

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How do I tell my husband that I want a divorce. He is madly in-love with me; but I am no longer in-love with him. I don't want to lead him on any longer. What do I do? How do I even approch him? Should I start an argument to make it eaiser? I'm lost! HELP I fell out of love with my husband 15 years ago and told him I wanted a divorce. To this day I have lived to regret this. As I grew older I realised that being "in love" is nothing compared to having a man who respects you.

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Would someone please tell me what I could have been thinking when I got married? LOL. I think that same thing many times.

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If your divorced, who got custody of the kids? My ex and I shared custody and for 15 years it has worked wonderfully.

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My wife wants me to cook and clean otherwise she gets divorce. What should I do, isn't that her job? Lousy mail order brides... Oh man. Lmao. Sorry. My husband was medically impaired six months ago and he does the cooking and cleaning in the week and I do it on weekends as I work full time. It's not such a big thing if you share.

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Parents: You have to leave your 6 yr. old son with childminders all day and you don't know any of them personally. Who'd you feel the most comfortable leaving him with; a) a male homosexual couple b) a Catholic Priest c) two Mormons d) Britney Spears? Without a doubt the Male couple.

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Do you mean well,but often don't do so well?* As my dear mother always says, "the road to hell is paved with good intentions" Lol

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If you were told that you won your towns bride of the month award, would you be nervous about going in to the store that sponsored the contest to get your picture taken for the local papers? Ah, what a wise man. Lol. U go girl.

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Other than breakfast, What do you use bacon for? You can wrap strips around big marachino cherries, pin ends together with toothpicks and quickfry for entres. I normally put it on the fire for a snack before a braai. (barbeque)

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If you were told that you won your towns bride of the month award, would you be nervous about going in to the store that sponsored the contest to get your picture taken for the local papers? Hell yes. But it's a once in a life time thing so i say - go for it.

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Why are men pain in the backside It's a genetic thing.

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Could you live with only having one meal a day? For as long as I remember I have only had one meal a day. Not through poverty or anything as sad as that, just because thats the way it always has been.

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Why is it a bad idea to get drunk on your wedding day? You might actually get married.

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Have you ever come across a name dropper? What did you think of them? Yes. Pathetic

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Just moved to a new place that is near the highway. The sound of traffic is a nonissue for me but everyone I've had over gripes about it. Am I just odd or is anyone else out there able to just ignore most background noises? I sleep blissfully through any kind of noise. Its light that gets me.

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Whats the first thiing that comes to mind when i say.. Cheesy discharge? Ugh

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Does anyone know of a quotation that has to do with class having nothing to do with the amount of money a person makes but rather something more to do with a person's good character, no matter what their status in life is? You can't make a silk purse out of a sows ear?

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How do you know when you have outstayed your welcome? When you wake up with Grandma's teeth in a glass on the bedside table.

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When I think about somebody asking me how I am etc but I can't place who they are, I keep meaning to next time just apologise and ask them to tell me where they know me from, but I usually just end up blurting out "I'm fine thanks, how are you?" Why? LOL. Inbred manners perhaps.

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Im 14 years old i will be 15 in august it seems like every one of my friends lost their virginity and they were young i want to lose my virginity before 15 because i feel thats to old is it?and what should i do? You should only do what you know is right. Losing your virginity is a big deal and a decision you will live with for a very long time. Make the right one, okay.

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Do you believe that actions speak louder than words? If so, why? Yes. To many people say "I love you" to the person they have just beaten half to death.

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What is Psychological horror? Going to work everyday

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Can you name a place where racism is not a problem? South Africa

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What are the best and worst things about your job? The best is, I have a job, the worste is, I have a job.

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What is something that it NOT very fun to do naked? Skipping

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Can you describe your family in no more than three words? Adams Family

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In three words describe your boss. Full of Sh*@#

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What's the dynamics/ personality of a woman who goes into another woman's marriage and cheats with her husband? She is currently married but seperated with four kids that she dosen't have custody of, she is high maintence.What type of woman dose this? The selfish kind. Both of them.

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What do you think started out as a good idea, but turned into something very corrupt? Governments

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Do you think cutting is a sign someone is suicidal? No. People cut for different reasons, but the closest I ever came to an explanation is that the pain inside needs to be released in some way, so why not try and cut it out. Does not work, I know this as a person who used to cut.

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When people hurt you: do you forgive and forget? Or do you just forgive but dont forget? I have always found this a very strange saying. Unless you develop total amnesia it is impossible to forget. It is how and what you do with it that makes the difference. Forgiving? Yes, we are all human.

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Have you ever ran in to a person that used to abuse you, Did you cower or did you stand tall? I'm still married to him. Ha ha ha. And believe me I'm no coward.

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Do you feel sympathetic towards the homeless? But by the grace..........

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If a begger came to your door wanting food and a blanket and ask if they could sleep in your garden would you help them? I did. Took him into my house for three days, washed his clothing, fed him, found him a nice place to stay, a job. Two weeks later found him back on the street. Hey, but I would do it again.

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Have you ever stood in a line for something for longer than an hour? Hey, I live in South Africa. Anything under an hour is a bargain.

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Are parts of south africa really dangerous to non whites visiting or living there, or only dangerous to whites? Cesspool????? Bugs, snakes and dangerous animals worldwide don't care about your nationality. I have lived here for 45 years. Other than the odd flea (courtesy of my dogs) I have to date not been attacked by anything or anybody...... Wait, thats not true. We had a Merino Ram that did not like me to much on the farm.

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This is a question for fellow South Africans. Where do you think our country is headed? Just looking at the condition of our roads, health care, crime in the police department, corruption in the government etc. I would say its not going down the chube, it's gone. Our government is to busy lining their own pockets to bother with the "little" things and no BS spouted at election time will ever change that.

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Which sort of people do you think live in South Africa? I live in South Africa and I can assure you we are very normal people.

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Would you marry me to get me out of a difficult situation, i.e. poverty etc. Ha Ha Ha. Sorry. No. Let me rephrase. Would you marry SOMEONE for the above reasons?

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I have -£43 and its 4 weeks until pay day.thankfully i have paid the bills. but what do i do now? Scary. But here in good old South Africa that is a lot of money you have left. I could buy a month's groceries with that.

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If you have changed, is there anything you miss from who you used to be? An extremely abusive marraige was a rude wake up call. I miss trusting people the most.

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Be creative,your making a poster to protest against high taxes.what will it say? HA HA HA

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If someone tells you that your friends are not that important do you feel like "well, then I am not important either". Since your friends are a part of you, does that mean that if they are not important, neither are you? (I was actually told this). No I dont. My friends are not how I see myself. They are my support - not my identity.

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If YOU came with Instructions what would they say? Caution. Does not play well with others.

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Did you ever hear the saying:"Never argue with a drunk?" Yip. The higher the alcohol level the lower the brain cells.

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Would you think me less of a man if you knew i'd been physically abused by my ex girlfriend? No, no and no. Just a pity it had to happen to you. It changes you inside. Hey, but we survive. Ha ha

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Ok i have a serious problem. everytime an advert for appeal for africa comes on tv i burst into tears. it's actually gotten so bad that it happens when im out of the street and theres billboards. what can i do? Go and live there for a while and see if you still feel the same.

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Do you have to stop yourself from correcting bad grammar? Nope. I just correct it.

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