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Is it just me or does the new Answer Bag suck?
It sucks so bad. Iused to go on answerbag all the time and now i never do cause its so bad. The set up is terrible and confusing. The old answerbag had a great set up where it was simple to see answers and questions.
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How long do you have to be apart from your s/o before you start to really miss them?
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What does it mean when you and your boyfriend are always fighting and while your fighting he always says so its over now and i never say its over.Does he want it to be over.I asked him and he said he wasnt trying to heard it what do i do.
It probably means he has considered it before and is at the point where he may be confused if he wants to be in a relationship where there is constant fighting but is unsure what to do because at the same time he is hoping things can still work out between you guys. Thats the key thing... I think he still must have hope but that will probly keep diminishing if you guys dont work out your...
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Which do you prefer, Basketball, Baseball or Football?
My sport is definitly basketball!
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Would you relocate to another that's completely different from the one you live in now just so you be with the person you love? An example being moving from NYC to Omaha, NE. If yes or no Why?
Yes becuase i would be happy wherever as long as they were there with me.
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Do fairytale romances ever really happen? I need a mericle....
I wish they did but it seems unlikely. The closest i have seen is my mom and step dads marriage. I wish i could have a marriage as happy as theirs when i get married!
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Aside from Granny Smith s, what other apples are considered cooking apples?
Gala... sooooo good
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Do you think that love can truly be equal in a relationship or do you think that one person always loves more than the other?
I think the reason of unequal love is a cause for many relationships ending but i do believe there are those that are equal and those are the ones that least happily ever after.
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True or false humans have red blood'
only when exposed to oxygen does it turn red.
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Is there such a thing as "too much" self-esteem? How do you determine when someone esteems himself/herself too highly?
When they are too egocentric but usualy those ppl are hiding just how very insecure they are. In the case of those who truly believe they are the greatest, you can tell their self esteem is too high when they make everyone around them feel badly about themselves.
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I miss kissing....My s/o isn't much for it....Do any of you have this problem too?
YES YES YES! I have exactly that same problem and i really hate how its like that. He used to kiss me all the time but now that its not new anymore he doesnt like to. Like who doesnt like kissing honestly!
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Do you have traits more along the lines of jealousy and posessivness or are you more free spireted and aloof when your in a relationship?
unfortunatley i tend to be somewhat jealous and posessive....I dunno y its just my nature and possibly my immaturaty right now.
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How old were you and how long had you been going out for when u ralized she was the one?
REALIZED***
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Do you hold a special importance for your romanitic/love relationships or do you view them as just one of many relationships in your life?
I find that I do becuse its a different kind of love. Its one that you only feel and experience with that person and its the person that you would usualy wish to start a family with so i just feel differently towards it.
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What is one 'little job' you never trust your partner to do right?
I wouldnt really trust him to decorate anything. For example if he were to decorate the christmas tree, it would probly look like a 4 year old did it.
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Guys: do you love very deeply but dont really show that you do? If so does it cause problems in ur relationship such as your s/o questioning if you really love and care about them?
Thats definitly an issue i have in my relationship
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What is a healthy dating period before considering becoming engage? Before getting married?
I would have to say at least 3 years. In my experience thats how long it took me to really know someone and also come through obsticles that were really hard on us. ist at this time when we started having problems. We pulled through but in many cases it often doesnt work that way.
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My bf and i have been together for 8 years. we never go out but he go's out with the boy's or out to the bars/pool hall...meets other people whats up?
If that has always been the case, it may just be how your relationship is (not saying that thats a very good and healthy relationship). If this has only been happening recently, then i would definitly talk to him about it. It could be because of an impending problem between you guys, even one you may not even be aware about.
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If you happen to have money, how do you know a woman doesn't want to marry you for the lifestyle you can give her --- that she would marry you even if you were broke?
Unfourtuatly you would never know for sure unless they loves you before you became rich or before they knew you were rich. Also I think you would deep down know if a woman was genuine because she would not expects anything out of you.
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Why do some people dream every night, and others dont dream at all or rarely?
Everybody dreams but there is only a certain stage of sleep in which you dream in which is called REM. The only way you will actualy remember your dream is if you wake up while in this stage of sleep or right after it.
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Me and my boyfriend hang out constantly at school, we're unseperable, yet we never hang out at weekends and stuff. do you think we should we hang out more outside of school?
I definitly think you should hang out more out of school and spend less time hanging out at school. Spending less at school make you want to see eachother more outside of school where there is more opportunity do do things you enjoy and try new things. Also a good time to have alone time where you can bond together and just be the two of you.
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I had a great girlfriend, but I just don't know why, seemingly overnight, I wasn't attracted to her at all anymore, I feel like trash. Why did this happen? I broke up with her to 'do the right thing'.
It was probly just the lust factor for you. You obviously didnt love her so when the lust wore away, all your feelings were gone (since the feelings never really went all that deep anyways).
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Besides yourself, Who are 3 other main charactors in your life story?
I would have to extend it to 4 main charactors and they would be my boyfriend and my parents. My best friend would be right up there as well
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Turkey and chicken, foodwise what are the differences?
The taste. I can tell a difference in the taste quite a bit but if you cant you would probly be able to if you ate a piece of chicken then immediatly after ate a piece of turkey.
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In your opinion, what is the worst ever fashion?
I am hoping the mullet doesnt come back in style or that wierd poodle looking hair that some women wore (and some still do). I like the look of high waised skirts that look all buisnessy but theres something about high waisted pants that i just dont like. Talk about long bum disease!
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Do you think your s/o loves you as much as you love them?
I have my doubts at times...
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Does it scare you to try to trust someone?
Sadly yes it does. In terms of my parents that is easy and non scary to trust them, but in terms of ppl i let into my life i have a very difficult trusting them. Im not sure why but i guess i am just really afraid of getting hurt in the end.
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Do you know, really know, that you are currently with the 'the one'?
I dont really know. There are things about him that i love and things that are not so great so i guess its a matter of if i am willing to put his faults behind me and accept them. He is "the one" right now and only time will tell if he is "the one" in the future and forever.
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What are the colours on your tree?
Its sort of like a red and gold type theme, basically like the warm colors
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Does first love ever dies?
Im still with my first love and as of now i couln't imagine my feelings ever going away. I've never been in the situation to actauly test that theory though
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For the girls that have a problem with their bfs going to strip clubs, why do you have such a big problem?
The thing i have a problem with is that sure meybe my bf will look but not touch but who says the girl wont just go over and pland her naked ass right down on his lap.... forget it...those girls are unpredictable and i would not be okay if they so much as touched my bfs arm
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My boyfriend recently went to a lapdancing club on a stag night. He said each guy had a girl dancing in front of them but no touching. I don't believe him as he's been distant ever since. We're both in our 40's and been seeing each other 2 years
I am 20 and i feel the same way! sure they may go and not touch the stripper and all that since they are in a relationship but who knows if the stripper will touch them... What if she just decided spur of the moment to sit her naked ass on their lap. I would not be the least bit okay with that!
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How much time do you spend with your gf/bf?
We usualy hang out both nights of the weekend and once a week night. We dont live together
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Me and my gf of 3 & a half years broken up on Oct 8th 2009 it's been a complete wreck for me, she keeps telling me she don't feel the same for me but i refuse to give up she is the most amazing girl i ever met i really wanna patch things up help? please!!
Sometimes people dont realize what they had until they lost them. Maybe your not giving her a chance to experience it. She says she doesnt feel the same anymore so if you keep trying to talk to her it will just annoyer her and oush her further away. Stop talking to her and get out and do your own thing. She may be taken aback that you stopped calling and stuff and it may actualy make her miss you.
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I have been married 7 years now and my marriage is at a standstill. We've become more friends and less intimate. I have an old flame back in my life and I'm engaging in inappropriate conversations. I cannot find the same attraction w/hubby. What do I do?
You need to get the spark back into your marriage. Your not getting your needs met from your husband so your starting to look elsewhere for it which isnt a good thing.( if you really want your marriage to work). If you can, try going on a vacation with your husband or even a weekend get away. Try spontaneosly jumping him one day at a random time to do the deed. Drss up and go out. Wear...
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So me and bf broke up. I dont know how to handle this. I really love him. And i'm sure i cant do this.He means alot to me and i had so much i wanted to do with him. Help,please?
Yes it will feel like you cant get through especialy if he is the one that wants this break up and you do not at all. You will get through it. Time heals all wounds. Surround yourself with friends, go out have fun, try to enjoy your freedome. Just get your mind off him as hard as it is. You will find love again. Who knows, maybe you and your ex will get back together down the road.
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How would you propose to your girlfriend if it were the case?
Im a girl but I can tell you how i would like to someday be proposed to: I do like the traditional get down on one knee sort of thing. I dont neccesarily need this big production. It can be at even an unsuspecting time like while going for a walk in the park. Maybe say something like " You know I live you so much and i've loved you for a long time. I really would like to spend the...
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Can you suggest some unconventional first date ideas? No dinner / movie. Something fun please.
Rock climbing
amusment park
concert
the zoo
go carting
sporting event
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If people are in love and married is it normal to have feelings for another person?
If you have a little crush on someone thats probably normal but if it develops into something more serious then that it would be a proble. If you start questioning if you still want to be married to the person, if you are seriously thinking about having a relationship with the person you have "feelings". If you are married, all or your romantic love should go to the person your...
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My boyfriend wants me to prove that i love him..but i don't really now how. any advice
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y does he need you to prove it? If theres a resonable reason why he feels your not making him feel "loved" then you need to ask him y. If its just because hes insecure then no matter what you do you are always going to need to "prove" it to him. Maybe theres something more specific that he wants from you that would make him feel like you really love him.
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Does your bf/gf ever cancel plans on you? Doest in make you so mad?
I hate it couse it gets my hopes up and i really look forward to doing something with them and when they let me down it really doest feel good. Like dont ditch me please!!
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Do you think that it is adviseable to have face lift at the old age?
I think to each their own but i personally dont like how it looks when they cant even make facil expressions! Im not against a little bit as long as its natural.
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Why would a woman sleep with someone else’s man knowing how hurtful this is to another woman? For goodness sakes….she’s a woman too. How can women hurt each other like that and don’t care?
Some women are really conniving and get a thrill out of sleeping with someone elses guy. Not saying the case for all women who get involved with guys in relationhips but i know some are like this
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What is the stupidest/silliest thing you have ever done when drunk?
Hmm there have been a few but the most recent was last weekend on my b day i got on stage at the bar with the band and "played" the tamboreen and just danced around. Im usualy really shy and would never do anything like this so im proud of myself haha. I have had quite a number of hilarious drunk whipeouts too
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Why do men cheat?
Many different reasons:
- Some just have a personality where they are narccisistic and think they deserve and can get anything they want
- Some may have been not getting their needs met and instead of breking it off they went somewhere else to get it (whether it be emothinal or physical)
- Some are weak and have no will power when presented with temptation
- Some dont really care about the...
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Is your s/o ALWAYS the last person on your mind when you go to sleep and the first when you wake up?
Mine is for the most part
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How do you know that he is not into you anymore? What are the signs.
He will not care to spend time with you anymore and the times you do spend together, it will not feel the same. If he has the same schedule and was always able to make time for you but now he is just "really busy", hes just not putting in teh effort anymore.
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Does it mean you did not love the last person you dated if you could immediately see other people right after breaking up?
Ya i think it depends. Sometimes its just to get the otherperson off your mind
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Why do cheaters say the affair meant nothing?
ya i dont get it either....like it makes it any better. STUPID! and it does mean something...it means they were f*****g someone else
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My boyfriends parents think that I dont talk to them and that I avoid them I dont try to im just a quiet and shy person i talk to them if they ask something Im not good at making conversation either, I dont want to come off snobby though what should I do?
Im really shy too. Just make sure ur polite and it shouldnt be too big of a deal. Also maybe get ur bf to explain to them that your really shy and just take a while with being comfortable around people, and one you come out a bit your the nicest person. Or something along those lines at least
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Are you ever jealious if you specail someone chats alot to girl or boy you dont no from when he was younger at school .
yas a little part of me does. I act like it doesnt though cause i know theres nothing for me to worry about unless a line is crossed and it becomes flirty or something. But ya I feel a little jealous lol
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How important is sex too you in a relationship
Its important for a number of reasons: Its a way that i feel really close and connected to my bf. Its a type of affection that only occures between us.Its also fun!, and it also makes you feel wanted by your s/o and that always feels nice.
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What valuable life lessons have you learned from your s/o?
My bf has taught me many lessons of resposibility. Especialy with managing my money. He is a very responsible guy and hes showing me how to be more independent.
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Embarrassed to bring my boyfriend home. - embarrasing house + parents.
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I can see how you may be embarrased of those things but its actualy a good idea that you do bring him. If he really likes you he wont care about that sort of stuff. My boyfriend was embarrased of all that and still is but it doesnt effect the way i feel about him at all. In fact it makes me love him even more.
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State whether you are male or female and if you want to get married or not. Why or why not?
Famale - I want to get married because i want to have that sense of family and and that extra step of commitment. I have nothing against those who do not want to marry though.
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I was with a guy for a month, and he said he loved me and wanted to get engaged, but we broke up a week later. We still talk and I want to be with him. What should I do?
I have to tell you honestly that if you do get back together dont get married yet! It may seem right but its way to soon. Me and by boyfriend never had any problems till a year into our relationship and and it was extremely hard to get back on track. you dont know how compatible you can be n the long term yet. What happend that caused the break up. It seems like you guys are confused if one...
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Why do men want to jump into bed with you but make you wait for years until they are 'ready' for marriage?I've been with my b/f three years and I'm fed up of waiting for the ring.Will he ever ask?
You have to ask yourself a few questions first: Is he financially able to support a family? Does he have a career? Is he finished his education? If the answer is no to any of these i can see why but if theres nothing else holding him back, you may neet to ask hm if he sees hmself being married in the future (or near future depending on age when he thinks is appropriate)Also if none of his...
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If you have a boyfriend and you give your number to somebody else that you have a crush on is it considered cheating
its not physically cheating but it is a betreyal.If you wouldnt want you s/o to do it to you then you know its wrong and you shouldnt be doing it.
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What are someways to bring back passion in your relationship?
Aperantly doing something exhillerating together can cause those emotions. Like going to a theme park or going white water rafting, or if your really extreme going bungee jumping or sky diving. Somethiing that gets the adrenalin pumping and is exciting.
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Why is sex always on the minds of the human race?
Its always an interesting topic. I also dont think its on our minds as much as we think it is. Studies actualy show that guys talk about sports more then sex. WAY MORE.
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I feel like im fading away from my boyfirend. I mean i love him i really do but i just feel really weird around him now. like when i see him i get really happy and then after we kiss i just dont wanna be around him anymore. What should i do?
You may be becoming bored with the relationship, espescialy if things have become rutine with you guys. You need to find ways to spice it up. Also if you guys spend a lot of time together, it would help to do your own thing for a while and spend less time together so when you do see eachother its better and theres more to talk about. Relationships go throgh phases of highs and lows but if this...
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I love my boyfriend so much and he tells me that he loves me and he cares about me and everything but I have problems trusting people and its messing up our relationship he tells me that he would never do anything to hurt me. what should I do?
I have the same problem you do and its really hard to deal with. If there is no reason for you not to trust your boyfriend which is the case for me, i think it just may yake some longer then others to gain ppls trust. its been over 3 years and i truly feel as if im getting better. I also believe some ppl just have that sort of personality and i dont think there can be much you can do about it....
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I grew up with no father at all, my hubby grew up with an alcoholic, cheating, abusive, misogynistic father. Do you think the fact that neither of us had a positve male role model is part of why we cant agree on what is acceptable behavior?
Yes it could play a big part. My bf didnt really have a very good family life and I had a very good one. Now we have very different views on a lot of things. I think how you grew up has a very big impact on what you think later in life.
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If i want to postpone my period a week... is it ok to take the placebo pills after this week or do i have continue with the new pack that i started to skip my period
I tried this before: I just skipped the placebos and started taking the medicated pills when i should have started the placebos in hopes that it would stop my perion. Ya...It didnt work and i ended up getting it anywyas and then i got it again like 2 weeks later. I think it takes a while for your body to get accustomes to it before it actualy changes your time of the month.
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This past weekend when I went to my girlfriends home she handed me a list of cleaning chores to do . She went shopping with her sister for a few hours and when she returned was angry that I hadn't finished. What happened?
Woah, thats a little demanding. Next time she comes over to your house give her a list and go golfing with your buddies and see how she likes it. Im not too sure i can teel you what came over her
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How to show bf or huby i aint clingy
Just go out and do things and make your own plans every so ofen. Dont depend on them for your entertainment. Also if you are alyways texting or phoning them, cut back.
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How far in a relationship is it ok to start having sex
whenever you are ready. Contrary to popular belief there is no evidence that supports that if you jump into it too soon, the relationship wont last.
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Woman do you enjoy being hit on?
It makes you feel really good about yourself and its flattering but im really shy so i usualy feel akward haha
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Is there something wrong with txting a boyfriend or huby to much
yes definitly. It can ruin relationships. You need to have something to talk about when your face to face so if your constantly updating eachother what is left. also he may get the feeling that your checking up on him and stuff wich also isnt good. If your in constant contact with eachother theres not a much to look forward to when you guys see eachother. Im not saying that you shoudnt text...
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How do you get back at a bf who broke up with u cause u put ur head on a buddy's shoulder but he only did that so he could be free to date someother girl? ps he broke up with u on your bday! and said he loved u and almost convinced to have sex with him!
Get yourself out there and act like it never bothered you in the least. Look hot, date someone hotter and way better then him, have the time of your life! And if he ever has the nerve to want you back , even better cause you can just tell him to screw himself and you would never consider going out with such a douche bag ever again!
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I am shy in extreme so I panic just by imagining my wedding day (if my bf proposes one day, of course..).All that atention focused on me is something I just can't deal with. Has any of you gone through the same?
If the situation ever comes up, just have a little wedding.
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Hey, why aren't you married?
well im only 20 so I am waiting to finish university and then have a year or so of working to be able to be okay financially. Then its just a matter of will he ask me..... Its hard to say haha.
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Do you think married couples should have access to each other's email?
I dont think its should be like a written rule or anything but I think that it shouldnt be a problem to share or have access to one anothers if they have nothing to hide. I think it would be sort of suspicious if it was kept all secret.
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Should you let your girlfriend continue to have contact with some one she had been cheating on you with after you have gotten back together and told her you are unconfortible with that
I would say that isnt fair to you at all. If you are giving her the privledge of staying with her after cheating on you, she should respect that request. I mean she shoud be kissing your ass in all ways right now. I would straight up tell her that you will break up with her if she doesnt respect that of you.
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What is the best way to get fit for cycling up hills?
I would probly say doing a lot of squats and lunges to get your legs very stong for peddaling up hill. Also Doing cardio could help for the endurance part of it.
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Is it cheating if a married man has lunch with another woman? (He can't mention it to his wife because she will over-react and make untrue assumptions)
Its not cheating if you have no interest in this woman at all and even safer if she has no interest in you. The problem is you are in a way decieving your wife by not telling her. If your not doing anything wrong you should have nothing to hide. Sure it may still bother your wife but just explain that you wanted to be honest with this cause you would hope she would do the same. Also what is...
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Women......beard or no beard?
no beard but i do find some stubble sexy
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Megan Fox: gorgeous or not?
I think she is BUT I saw some before and after pics of her and she has had some major plastic surgery. Boobs, lips and possibly nose. So it takes away the authentic part of what real beauty is.
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What are your pet peeves about your mate?
He always has to be right. Its the most annoying thing to argue with him. AND if you are ever proven wrong he will never let you live it down but if hes wrong he will just give a little smirk and act like its whatever.
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You've had an "office job" for 10+ years. Your best friend who has no experience working in an office lands an "office job" and is making twice what you are!! Are you genuinely happy for her/him?
I think it would only be natural to feel jealous.You would prpbably think it wasnt fair.
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My boyfriend stopped answering my calls, he finally called after I left a message that i was worry about him; he told me that his ex girfriend had moved back into town and he wanted to keep things at a low profile because he is very confussed? what t' h
He still has feelings for her and has probly been talking to her about getting back together. Its very selfish of him to just ignore you and not giving you an explanation. The way he is handeling the situation just shows what kind of guy he realy is. I would just break up with him, but if you really dont want to do that then i would ask him to just meet you somewhere to discuss what he wants...
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Hand on heart - are you good girlfriend/boyfriend material?
Yes I am I love to do little things for my boyfriend and i would never do anything to betrey him in any way.
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Is it true that marriage is the surest way to kill a couple's sex life? Wouldnt it be boring to have sex with the same partner forever?
If you love them and the sex is good then it shouldnt. Theres always things you could do to spice it up if it gets repeatative. One thing i noticed: My bf and i have been dating for 3 years and we both still live at home. My parents went on vacation so he basically moved in for 3 weeks. I thought great were gunna have all this time for sex! Yeah... seemed to have less then usual. We would just...
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Does anyone have an object that they are hiding from their partner/bf/gf? An old love letter? A pornographic tape? A teddy bear? A cheesy poem? Confess, and I will forgive you :-)
A note i wrote him but never ended up giving him. I dont know why i still even have it.
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How long were you with your current partner before you slept with them?
a month. had known eachother for a year before.
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Is there anyone you will love, no matter what until the day you die?
My first love. Im still with him, we started going out when i was 16 and im now 20 and i think that no matter what happens between us i would always love him.
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Can an attractive girl and an attractive guy ever be platonic friends?
I think so yeah. I mean there may always be that thought that wow that person is so hot but doesnt have to turn into anything. It might make it more likely to be a flirtatious relationship but im sure thay can be friends all the while.
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How to make my boyfriend miss me and want to see me? hes taking me for granted. I make myself available always, he makes plans with friends, and when hes not 'i'll be there anyway'. How to make him appreciate me and resist being available 24/7.PLEASE HELP
Just start doing more of your own theing. It may be hard but the next time hewants to hang outtell him you have other plans. Make other plans for a week straight so you will be busy. Take up a sport or some sort of class. I has the same problem you do. I still sort of feel that way but im getting better at not always revolving myself around him and his schedule.
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Have you ever checked the sex and cheating websites for your husband/wife? (i did, found my hubby and several other men I know)
Did you mean you checked the websites like craigslist and stuff? Those kind of websites?
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How likely is it for an introverted person to have a sucessful relationship with someone with an outgoing personality?
I think it can work out. I wouldnt say im an introvrt but im really realy shy and my boyfriend is super outgoing. He sort of helps me feel more comfortable with being more outgoing.
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Do you think it takes seconds to fall in love but a lifetime to figure out love?
I think the whole thing is a slow progression from beginning to end. I think your feelings slowly progress into love over time, then that love will be continuously evolvign ( and you will be progressively figuring it out), and then if not careful, things will happen that will create the progression of falling out of love. Its all a slow process.
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Say your friend owes you $100, she has a bday coming up, without ANY mention of the $100 she owes she calls you up & SERIOUSLY asks you to loan her $80 to go to beauty salon, would you think she takes you for an a** by doing this to you?
Yeah thats sucks. You should just be like I really cant because untill you pay me that 100 dollars back, im sort of strapped for cash.
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Do you think its crazy that I took my boyfriend back after him hurting me 4 times?
Bad idea yes, crazy? No.Many ppl do this when they cant let someone go. Its hard letting go of something that has become so close and familiar to you.
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What colour nail varnish would suit very pale skin?
It depends on the kind of vibe your stying to send out. I wouldnt go too bright though. French manacures suit every skin tone and then some softer pinks would go. If you want an edgier feel i would go with a plum color as black may be too harsh.
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When was last time that you had a wonderful time.
I tend to have a wonderful time most of the time but the last time i had an extremely fun time was at the beginning of the month when i went to a blink 182 concert. I was on the floor and it was just crazy and all these mosh pits were going on. I love being rowdy!
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Aren't long distance relationships just stupid if you really think about it?
I wouldnt want to get into one knowing how hard it will be but lets say my current bf of 3 years had to move away, then I would still want to stay with him long distance. Since its already a serious relationship, I know it will only be a matter of time before we would just move in together or something so we wouldnt have to be long distance.
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Do you have trouble saying "I love you"
I would never say it if i didnt feel it but when i feel it i have no trouble at all letting the person know!
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Is it true that every girl will eventually fall for her FWB and the guy won't care or is that just a stereotype? Will at least one person always get hurt or is that just a stereotype, too? Personal experience stories preferred, please.
Its probly not true to say that they always will but there is that thought that women generally have more of an emotional attachment to sex then guys so its probly easier for them to develope feelings
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What is the difference between romance and love
Romance could be something used to get the other person to want fall in love. ( or maybe just get into their pants) Love is a feeling and romance is an action sort of thing
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Guys, when a woman wears a low cut top showing cleavage what goes through your mind and what do you really think about a woman that wears low cut tops?
I am a girl and i just have to say that I dont wear really low cut tops but i have big boobs so unless I wear a turtle neck everyday, most things show off my cleavage. Shirts that a small chested woman can wear that wont show a thing will look revealing on me. I dont wear these things cuase im trying to get attention, I just want to wear nice things and im not going to not wear certain things...
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What is the reason that sometimes we instantly like people as we have known for long time ,and other people we dislike without any reason.
I think it can be intuition. You just deep down know that you will get along with this person or not, but you cant put a finger on why. Its the intuition talking
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Do you wish your s/o was more romantic?
yes and if anyone has any tips on hinting that you would like them to be let me know!
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My hands get really sweaty when i hold my boyfriends hand.. any advice?
Its probly both your hads sweating together cause the body heat makes it really hot. Not a big deal dont worry about it
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What's a fun alternate term for "cool?"
sweet!
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My girlfriend is more interested in her friends then me, is that ok? or am i doing something wrong
I feel this way a lot but with my boyfriend and it can leave you feeling sooo crappy. I dont know your exact situation but its brobably a good idea to just let your gf know (nicely) how she is making you feel. Some ppl just dont put as much value on a relationship as they do on their friendships.
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Why is love so difficult?:´(
When something can deeply effect your emotions, there will be difficulties
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Do you like to see very elderly couples holding hands and obviously still in love?
Ya its sooo cute and awesome!
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I have been in a long distance relation ship with my boyfriend for 3 months. Yesterday he told me that he likes another girl (a lot) at his school, but he says he loves me.I keep thinking he will cheat on me...What do I do?
I would break it off. Even the fact that he likes her a lot means hes spending a lot of time with her and getting to know her. He may have already gone further. I would end it because thats not fair to you at all.
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When things go wrong do you run away or fight it?
FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT
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For those who are not married: Is your relationship a priority? Why or why not (and how long have you been dating)
I have been in a relationship for 3 years and it is a huge priority to me. I love this guy very much and he is very important to me so i value the relationship with him so much. Im the kind of person who puts a lot of value on my relatiopnships.
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Do you feel weddings are just a big party nowadays, or do you still believe there are a sacred event?
I dont think about it as much as a sacred event. I think of it as a celebration of two ppl being married. Theres more mening behind it then just a party but at the same time its just for ppl to have a great time and celebrate!
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How do I remove brace cement off my teeth from left over braces at home?
Im not sure I would advise you to try cause you might ruin the enamal. The orthodontist should have removed it all after you got them off so if theres still some left i would make another appointment for them to romove the cement that was missed.
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How do i get the girl who i like to open up? I want her to tell me about herself and her life but i dont know how to ask. I've known her for a short amount of time so i dont wanna sound too invasive or wierd. How should i start?
A good way to get ppl to open up is to open up about yourself to them. If you do that then most likely the conversation will just flow with her telling stuff about herself aswell. When you share stuff with her, she will feel closer to you and be more inclined to share stuff about herself.
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My wife says that if is uncomfortable for a woman to not have pubic hair, but has not confessed to ever having tried to shave her pubic area. how can i ask/get her to shave her pubic hair and go hairless. it really turns me on?
I find that its more uncomfortable with it. The bad part is the stubble that grows back and razor burn.
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Where's the best place you've had sex?
In the park and another time we were walking home from a party close by my house at night and we did it up against the side of a raondom house haha. The showers pretty hot too!
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Me and my man have had a rough relationship. He told me he can never love anyone like me,but he can't be around me all the time b/c it leads to an argument, but would love to if we didn't fight like we do. Is this a bunch of rumble jumble or is it valid?
I have to say its valid. If you guys get into an argument every time your together, of course hes not going to want to be around it. I have seen that guys espesially tend to stay away from conflict in relationships. It will push them away. I know this because it happend in my relationship. We were always arguing so my bf would distance himself which would make me more upset and bring up more...
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Is losing 570 calories a day a good amount to lose or not?
Do you mean cutting out 570 calories a day from your diet?
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My wife and i have problems with her not feeling she gets 100% of my attention. but i really do. and the only time she feels this way is if my family asks for my help for something. like my mom. and she gets jealous. i dont understand it. please help.
There may be a deeper reason y she feels that way then it being about you helping out your family. Have a very civilized talk about it and if you bring it up ex: Hey I want to talk about y you dont feel im being very attentive to you because I really dont want you to feel that way... you will get brownie pionts because it will show you care about her feelings and she will be surprised that she...
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How does a woman who's needy ... stop being needy... (man needy)?
Oh my god I would like a few pointers on this aswell! Somethings to try though is getting a hobby like sports. It will take up some of your time, you will meet new ppl and will have less time to focus on being needy towards a man.
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How can i make her understand that even though we are getting divorce I LOVE HER AND IM IN LOVE WITH HER,LOVE HER KIDS .and that i miss her very much.shes acting like this dont hurt her a bit and im dying to see her having so much fun.and not missing me
If you initiated the divorce she may be doing this just to show you that shes fine without you. I know when my bf of 3 yrs broke up with me I acted like I hated him and was better off without him one day and the next I would be bawling to him that I think hes making a big mistake. So the point of that storey is that even though I acted like I hated him and like I was better without him, I was...
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I broke up with my girlfriend of over 2 years bout a month ago, this past monday one thing led to another and we ended up having sex, and we have been hanging out everyday "as friends" for the past week. What should i make of this? I broke up with her btw
Well If you have no intention of getting back together with her I would stop hanging out with her cause she may be getting another idea. A month doesnt seem like a long enough time to get over someone you were with for 2 years, especially in her case since you broke up with her. If you are wanting to get back together, talk to her about it and see what her take on it is.
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If a guy says hes going to call you does he actually mean it?
sometimes its just a natural thing to say even if they dont really mean it. If they are actualy into you and would like to see you again then they will definitly call you.
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Iv just found out my bf of 5yrs has been cheating. I only found out because i found a txt! He slept with her in his bedroom at his parents. She told me he told her that he had broken up with me 3mnths ago! He regrets it. Am I a fool to take him back?
Yes you would be but i have never been in that situation and I can imagine how hard it would be to break up even though you were so hurt though. But as hard as it is its whats best cause you obviously deserve better and he may do it again.
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Why do dudes always going clubbing.
Well I know all my single guy friends like to go there to look at all the girls and flirt with them (they always shy out of doing more then that hehe). My boyfriend will go at times (very seldom) with big groups just to socialize and have some drinks in a big group.
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I have been dating a guy for four years and he has cheated over and over again and i keep taking him back, now i find myself resenting him and not in love with him anymore, but i cant leave because i feel bad that i will hurt him what do i do?
How many times has he hurt you? You clearly deserve better and if you hurt him this one time it still probly doesnt make up for all the times he has hurt you. You deserve to be with someone who can stay faithful and committed.
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I think if a man cheats on his wife or girlfriend she is entitled to a "free pass" What do you think?
Sure two wrongs dont make a right but i think they should feel what they did to their s/o. That is if the person who they cheated on wanted to do it.
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How would you fee if your s/o looked at your profile and saw what you were asking and answering?
I would feel like dying becasue so many questions are in regards to him haha. So mortified!
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Is there a double standard between your s/o and you--something one can do, but when the other does it, it's not acceptable?
If I go to the bar without him he could care less but if he goes without me I get a little aggravated (i dont let him know though). Its cause I love to dance so I go with my friedns to dance. He hates to dance and even if he did guys dont dance together like girls do so what does he wanna go there for!
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What if a guy tells you everyday that he loves you....sounds fishy?
I think thats pretty standard in a relationship. But I also may be a little biased cuase my guy very rarely says it to me so I wish he did everyday. It could also be how he says it and when he says it thats making you not feel quite right about it.
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For those of you who are in long term relationships (like over a year at least) do you still find that you think about your s/o a lot throughout the day?
Its been 3 years and I seem to think about him A LOT throughout they day! Sometimes i think its abnormal
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Me and my girlfriend are in a very good relationship right now. the only problem is my jealousy problems. i trust her and all but i get really mad when guys look or say something to her and i worry alot that someone will make a move on her. how do i stop?
Well if you trust her then you know that if someone did make a move on her she would just wave it away and say sorry I have a boyfriend. Thats what I do. Also when other guys look at her and say stuff, take it as a compliment to yourself in having a smoking hot girlfriend! Shes all yours
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When do you think you should meet your s/o parents?
It depends on how serious the relatinship is or who serious you anticipate it being. Lets say its starting to get serious, then maybe a month or so after you started going out. It also depends on where they live. If they live in the same city as you it should be sooner then if they live out of town or in another state, etc. It could also depend on who much your s/o sees the family. If they dont...
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What is the main issue in your relationship? (if there is any)
For me its that me and my boyfriend are pretty different in how we see relationships. I put a lot of importance on mine where it seems like our relationship is not a priority to him. Also I'm all about affection and he is more cold. Its really very hard to compromise
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Are your moral values revealed by whom you choose to have sex? Is your decision to have sex inextricably linked to your morality? Why or why not?
In a way: if your having sex with a bunch of really scummy ppl I would say it would that person has low morals but I dont see anything wrong with having a one night stand. I think the bigger question of morals is being faithful when your in a commited relationship.
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Ladies: Let's say that your boyfriend rates your physical beauty on a scale on 1-10 and gives you a 9. Would you be pleased or offended?
It sounds like it would be an honest answer as opposed to "baby i think your an eleven"...
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If you don't get along with (or possibly hate) an in-law is it in your best interest to pretend to be nice to them in front of others, so that you don't appear nasty (or bitter)?
I would try to be as civil as possible to avoid conflict.
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Why love has become like mechanical and have not emotional as the times goes by.
Ya its sad but ppl stop trying and just go through the routine of being together. Its what loses that spark.
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Do you feel you are not good enough for s/o?
Its sad but sometimes I think HE feels that I am not good enough for him. Maybe its not the case but he sure makes me feel that way at times
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Who here feels that their s/o is getting the upper hand in the relationship? Who do you feel this way?
Yep. Im more effectionate towards him and am there for him more then he can be there for me. I also seem to miss him when hes away which is hard, but its easy for him cause it doesnt really seem to bother him if we are not together.
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What is more likely to ruin a relationship for you, someone that smothers you or someone that doesn't show you enough affection?
Soemone who doesnt show me enough effection definitly because im going through that right now with my bf of 3 yrs. Its really taking a toll on me
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Have you ever felt underapreciated and unimportant to your s/o? What made you feel this way and were you able to work it out together, or did you end up just leaving them?
I feel really unapreciated right now. He never says he loves me anymore (not that he said it ofen before) and his soccer team has become more important to him then me .( we have been together for 3 yrs and he has been on this team for a few months). It seems liek he is happiest when he is with the team and i feel that I just dont do anything for him anymore. He doesnt make me feel important to...
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To the non smokers out there, could you be with someone who smokes. I could never be with a girl who smokes, no matter how attractive she was. I just think its disgusting and a huge turn off. Does anyone else feel this way?
Yeah I couldnt be with anyone who did either.
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If spouse admitts to cheating during an argument and then claims it was just out of anger to hurt me, which has happened 2times in 10 mo. Has he really cheated?
Definitly! You cant just go and sleep with someone else everytime you get angry. Theres absolutly no excuse for it that would make it okay
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Is 18 too young to get engaged or at least move in with your boyfriend/girlfriend?
Been with my boyfriend off and on for over 4 years
(since I was 14). Advice please.
It may seem like the right thing to do since you have been together for so long but young relationships are so much different from older mature relationships. After high school and stuff is the time where ppl usualy go through the most change whether it be their personalities, their hope and dreams, or just what they want in life. I would personaly continue to see how it goes for a while
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Can you have a fantastic, living together relationship with someone and not be in love with them?
Well ya you can live with someone you dont love, it can be great fun. Roomates and friends who live together for exapmle have a great time I can imagine. If you are talking about someone you are in a relationship with though, I think for a truly healthy relationship (thats long term and serious) you should definitly be in love with the person. Somethings obviously missing there if your not.
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Long-term relationship can be both boring and cosy but both are privileges. Do you agree?
If you have a good relationship I dont think it would be boring. I have been with my bf for 3 years and we still have so much fun together. And at the same time you have the comfort of that person. Its a win win situation I woudl say
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Who here thinks about others while having sex with their s/o?
I never do. Im in the moment
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My ex and her bf have broken up aug. 19th. should i text her and let her know im there for her? or not say anything at all and let her be, maybe wait until she talks to me, idk. i dont even know what to say to her if we do talk
It depends...Do you still have feelings for her? Cause if you do that she may get the impression that you do and thats y your contacting her again once the split. It also depends if you think she still has feeligns for you. Because if you really dont and are just doing this to be nice, she may get hurt, and if she doesnt but you do, you could end up being hurt again.
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What very sincere promise did you once make but failed to deliver on?
I promised I would stop bringing up problems from the past in a relationship.....yeah I brought them up again eventualy
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Is it ok to think about others while having sex with your partner? I do and it doesn't change the way I feel about him...
I mean I would be deeply offended if i found out my bf did that.
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Is looking good the best revenge to you ex?
Its one of the things but another good way of revenge is going out with someone extremely HOT! it will probably piss them right off
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How many ppl have ever taken a break from either previous relationships or their current one? Did you hook up with anyone else during the break?
I went on a break with my boyfirend for a month and I never did anything with anyone else.
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Do you "go Dutch" when dating?
Ive been in a relationship for 3 years. At the beginning by boyfriend would usualy pay for everything exept for the odd time when he would give in to me insisting I pay. Now its really even I would say. I never expect him to always pay.
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How do you know that your in love and not in influation, how long do you wait to know your really in love?
Usualy in the infatuation stage, its all about being with that person, and having a great time, and you just cant get enough of them. Love goes on a much deeper level like feeling really proud when they do somethng admirable or feeling really sad just becasue they are feeling sad. You want all their dreams to come true just as much as your own and you make sacrafices for them.
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A guy/girl that you are interested is neglectful at work. Deal breaker?
It may signal that he may also be neglectful in a relationship. sometimes though if your so infatuated with the person, you probably wouldnt think about and see past it. Thats why relationships are always so good in the beginning. Its not till after that you realize the flaws, some that would even be deal breakers.
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I have been married for 4 years and together for 10. We have two lovely children but I am not happy any more. There is no romance or fun and when I have tried to talk to him about it his exact words are " I don't want to talk about it" any advice?
Seems you guys have lost the "spark". Its quite important to have because its what keeps ppl happy in relationships as you can probably see from what you are experiencing. It seems like you may contributing more then him since your the one who thinks there is an issue. Maybe to get back that lovin feeling, take a vacation or even a weekend getaway would do. Plan different things to do...
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How often do you have to celebrate your aniversary with your gf/bf every month,every year,or when? and why?and what do you do to celebrate?
me and my boyfriend just said "happy 3 month" on our 3 month, celebrated our 6 months by just going out to dinner and then after that we just went by year.
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HHHHEEELLPP!!!!! im proposing tomy girlfriend in two weeks time. Im proposing on a boat during a sun set trip. she is quite shy and other people will be on the boat. the excursion agency are willing to help me with champange etc. just need to know how to?
Well there may be a spot on the boat that is more private. Maybe ask her to go with you to "check out" the front of the boat er something. Then just tell her something like I love you so much... and then get down on one knee and ask!
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What was your best sport growing up?
Definitly basketball
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By age 16 how far had you been with the opposite sex (or same sex)?
lost my virginity at 16
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Do men always sleep with their babys mother? My friend was dating a guy with a baby and he cheated on her with the baby momma. he calls her crazy and says he hates her but this is the second person he has done this to. is he still in love with her?
I would say there are still feelings there for him to keep going back to her.
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..How much would you be willing to spend on your dog's health (medical/vet bills, therapies, medication,etc) ???
(o . O)
My parents spent probly almost 10 grand on my then 1 yr old dog for it to get hip and leg surgeries. Shes part of the family and she developed problems so young that they figured it would be worth it. It was cause shes now 3 and is such an awsome dog. Her legs are basically 100%!
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Why should someone who "has it all" marry you? What could you possibly offer him/her?
Because maybe they have everything but you!
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What is your stage name? Use the name of one of your pets as your first name and the name of your street as your last name. (Example: My first dog was "Ginger" and my Street was "Lake Shore Road" making my Stage Name: Ginger Lake, very sexah)
Gracie Gordon or Louie Gordon
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As a girl, I have more friends who are guys than girls. I tend to prefer guys as friends because there is way less drama. Does anyone else have more friends of the opposite gender? What are your reasons?
Yes I have way more guy friends. I just find that my sense of humor matches theirs then most girls I know. There just so crazy and do such stupid stuff its hilarious. I find that they are less serious then most girls a I know so you can jus relax and have a more chill time with them. And its not even like Im a tom boy or anything. Im pretty much as girly as they come.
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Im a 20 year old college student. Ive accomplished a lot for my young age. I have been in college since I was 16- and am currently finishing up my BSOE degree. Im seeing a man that is 31, we are remarkable together. should I worry about our age difference
It may be looked down apon by some but I dont think its that bad. As long as you guys have common interests despite the age differnece. Many people are at different points in their lives at 20 then when they are 30 but if yours manage to atch up then I dont see why you guys wouldnt work out together.
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Girlfriends mom doesnt like me how can i win her over?
It depends. Is there a reason she doesnt like you? Cause its oftn that a first impression is the most important so if you blew that, then its going to be hard wo win her over. If its cause you are a bad influence or are into soem "bad" things, you probly wont win her over. If shes just difficult then make sure you are very respectable, help clear the table after dinner if you are...
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Me and my girlfriend fight a lot. We have been dating for 10 months now. Is this just a phase of our relationship or will it be relentless
It could just be a phase but you should really try to solve these problems before they start to escalate. Me and my boyfriend never fought once for the first year and then after that we started fighting more and more and the problems just got so overwhelming that we broke up for about month after 3 yrs. were back together now and the issues seem to be solved but it was really really hard to...
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Did you ever wonder if your parents felt the same about each other before their divorce as you and your s/o feel about each other now?? Does that scare you? Cause it scares me!
Yeah it makes you think that no matter how happy you are now in your relationship, it can start to go downhill at any time and eventualy fall apart. You just have to be able to maintain that loving feeling and both ppl have to be willing to keep putting effort into the relationship so it can grow together as opposed to grow apart.
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Divorce when the children are 5 years old is common, what age is best for the children? When they are too young to understand, or old enough to cope?
It would be best when they are too young to understand. I was 2 when my parets divorced and I dont remember them being together so I never had to go through any grief.
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In a long-term relationship which do you think is the more important; great sex or a great friendship?
I think a great friendship becasue the majority of time will not be spent having sex. The majority of your lives together will be spent doing other things, so if you have a really great friendship, your lives together will be really enjoyable, and that is the foundation that will keep you together.
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What would be your ideal mate? What are the necessary requirement that he or she would need to satisfy your everyday needs?
He would need to be trustworthy and attentive to me. Also have a sense of humor cause i like to laugh. He also needs to respect me and not take himself too seriously but still be serious in situations where you need to be serious.
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Can you imagine what life would be like if getting a divorce was no longer an option? Once you married you HAD to stay married for life.
Well it sort of used to be like that in a way. There were lots of marriages i think that the people just sort of went through the motions and put up with it even though they were unhappy.
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Do you prefer that your lover says he loves you or shows that he loves you?
I pretty much need both. I am in a 3 yr relationship and my boyfriend shows that he lives me, but very rarely expresses that he does.He grew up in a house that didnt display a lot of affection so I love yous were not really said. He has said it before but not too ofen. It would be really nice if he said it more cause it kind of bothers me that he doesnt.
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What is the sexiest accent?
I really like austrailian!
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Ladies, would you rather date an accountant or an engineer?
An engineer cause Im already dating and in love with one!
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A question for Conservatives: A woman chooses to abort a fetus that she knows she cannot afford...or...a stable homosexual couple adopts a child. In your mind, which is worse?
Neither are a bad thing in my mind
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What does it mean if my boyfriend says he loves me , but does not act like it. For example, going on dating sites (online bootycall) ,talking to other women online about meeting up, Do actions not speak louder than words?
No actions definitly speak louder then words. He may be just telling you what you want to hear. I think its best to PAIR words with actions. Although actions are more important,I think you need both to have a really happy, secure relationship.
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Is it possible for a man to live with a woman he has a child with but be in a relationship with someone else?
I think it would cause a lot of problems. I imagine it would be very uncomfortable for the girlfriend.
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When are going to settle down in our life .
If you mean lie start a family sort of thing, I would have to say Hopefully by at least 28. I dont want to be an older mother because I dont want to worry about little kids at an age where I should be just chillin
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What do you think about people who don't spend very much on engagement and wedding rings? I'm against marriage but I never have understood people who get married only spending a few hundred dollars on rings.
I just think it depends on the taste of the person recieving it. Its going to be something that you wear for the rest of your life (hopefully) so you are going to want it to look nice, and probly not cheap. I mean if you can afford something thats a little costly but gorgous then I say ya buy it, its a pretty special thing. But if you cant really afford something then I dont really see anything...
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What kind of person would you refuse to work with?
I hate the snoby suck-up kind. I dont know if any of you have ever watched the reality show The City on MTV, but the girl that she worked with on the show I could NOT Stand. I would have hated working with her.
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Do you have a middle name, if so is it the same as a parent or grandparents name?
Madison, and it was going to be my first name but my grandma didnt like it so my mom made it my middle name instead.
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Ladies, girls: do you want to hear about the ex? Are you curious how you compare?
I always am curious but I think sometiems I would not like what I heard. Its like you want to know but at the same time it hurts thinking about your guy with someone else, even if it was in the past.
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Ive been going out with this girl for one day and i realize i dont like her anymore so i want to break up with her but she is sweet and i dont want to hurt her feelings i havent mentioned anything like this to her. I need to know how to break up with her.
well if you have only been going out for 1 day she may be pretty choked but i dont think she will be too bent out of shape about it
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Do you think during sex or do you just let your mind wander
Im a woman so sometimes my multitasking brain wanders a bit. Not about other ppl while im doing it just about other things. Its usualy related to the moment like body hangups or Hope nobody can hear us type of things but ive never been completly off on another planet thinking about what to make for dinner the next day or anything like that.
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When giving space after a break up, how long is long enough? Do you contact that person at all? She said her feelings have changed, but she still wants to be around me and cares about me, I think she is unsure about what she wants. Any suggestions?
Yes she doesn not know what she wants at all. I hate to say it but it is only stringing you along if you continue to hang out for her cause if you still have feelings for her, it is giving you a false hope that you will get back together. I would back off for a while so she can see that she cant have her cake and eat it too. If she wants to be with you she can be but if she doesnt then you will...
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What do i do when i find myself driving my girlfriend away by being really jealous and controlling over who she hangs out with and always jumping to the conclusion that she is cheating on me and we have only been dating for almost three months.
Are there reasons why you think that? Like are her friends bad influences in that sence, or has anything happened to you in past relationships that are causing these feelings? Cause those are valid reasons to assume certain things although it is not always right to assume.I just know how it feels cause I have been in that situation before.
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My wife does not like a female friend of mine who recently broke up with her husband I want to help her out but my wife really does not like her what can I do
Thats a tough one. Is there any reason that your wife doesnt like her? Cause if it has to do with maybe you guys having previous history or something like that she may feel really uncomfortable with you helping her get through this time since that would be sort of emotional bonding between you and this female friend. It kind of comes down to whos more important to you. If its your wife, which I...
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Would you be angry if your hubby never called when he was or is going to be late?
If they said they would be somewhere or be home at a certain time yes I would be a little ticked if they didnt call. Its a considerate thing to do. For example if you need to know when they will be home cuase your making dinner er something, its kind of nice to know if they will be late.
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Would you ask your boyfriend to stop seeing your best girlfriend, if he starts taking her side everytime you complain about her?
I actualy had that problem too with m bf. He always took my friends side and it made me feel betrayed by him in a way. I told him how i felt eventualy and I cant really remember now the last time I had a problem with something envolving that. I wouldnt tell him to cut her out of his life unless it seems like there is something more going on between them. It could create more problems for you. I...
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Who was your first boyfriend or girlfriend? Where is that person now?
I met my first boyfriend when I was in Highschool. We started dating when I was 16. Im now 20, and where is he? Still with me!
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How to tell my parents that i have a boyfriend? - they know ive had boyfriends due to my friends, but ive never told them, or told them anything about them. im quite shy at talking to them..but, i want them to know about him. help?
I was actualy that way too. I just felt wird about my parents knowing that kind of stuff. 3 years ago I got into my first relationship (im still with the guy) and my parents just kind of knew cause I was always hanging out with him and stuff. One day my mom was just like is he your boyfried yet? I was just like yeah. And it really wasnt as weird as I thought. He started coming over for dinner...
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I just discovered my live in boyfriend sent provacative emails back and forth to female former co-worker . When I confronted him he said it was nothing more than a fantasy relationship and it was over. Should I dump him?
ya! as if he said it was a fantasy RELATIONSHIP. He basically just addmitted to you that he was in a relationship with this woman tha was just for fun. He should want to be in a relationship with only you.
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Has it been an emotional roller coaster ride for you this year?
Oh yes definitly
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When it comes to dogs which do you prefer big ones or little ones?
I like big dogs but i also have a french bulldog which is on the smaller side but it still has a cute tough look so I love that kind of dog too.
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For those who are unmarried: how would you like to be proposed to?
I have to say I like the traditional get down on one knee thing.
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Why do some people still feel like white people owe black people for something white peoples ancestors did to black peoples ancestors 200-300 years ago? All American slave owners and slaves are dead. Does anyone else think that, that is racist?
Thats the same thing we have here in Canada but with our native population. I am always bringing up that point. I just dont think its fair that I have to personaly pay back for things that I have not done to ppl who have not been wronged just because of something that happened way in the past.
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Does someone's weight play a role in your decision to date them or not?
Yea as shallow as it is but I just wouldnt be attracted to someone if they were too overweight or even too skinny for that matter.
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I broke up with my ex 5 years ago he didnt act like he loved me then and yet now hes sending me messages saying he loves me,what is wrong with him?
He may have just dated around and realized that you were what he was looking for and nobody else he dated could compair. He may had taken you for granted while you were together and now is realizing that he lost something that was very valuable to him.
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Girlfriend complains that their is nothing to drink. She says, "don't go get anything, I will just go in the morning." You don't listen, of course, and walk a few blocks to the convenience store. Are you wrong to go against her wishes or what?
Not in a situation like this. She may even deep down want you to go to the store for her but is just saying she wil go the next day to not seem demanding or to be nice. Just going ahead and doing will probly mean a lot to her.
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My boyfreind left me 6 mounths ago, but I still have a srtong affection of him. I just want him. Is there a chance to get him back?
There is unfortunatly nothing you can do that will get him back becuase he lost feelings for you. If you keep trying to get him back, it will most likely push him away even further. If you want, talk to him about it once but if he still has no inerest, stop pushing it. His feelings for you may come back when he realizes your actualy gone. It sort of depends on the reasons he broke it off too.
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Don't you ever feel like taking your desk outside and working from there? Especially when the weather is perfect, natural light, cool breeze :)
yes especially this summer cause during the week the weather is beautiful and then on the weekends its rainy and cold so I never get to enjoy the nice weather that our short summer brings!
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Has your boyfriend ever cried in front of you? What was the reason?
Ya we broke up for about a month and he cried during the breakup (even though he was breaking up with me) and in the 3 years we had been together I had never seen him cry over anything. He always treis to have that tough guy exterior. Were back together now though.
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Ew I hate sex! How do I satisfy my horny wife? What are some ways to satisfy her besides sex or anything of a sexual nature? How do I get her to understand that I married for love, not lust and that marriage isn't about sex? Why does she get horny anyway?
Well its a natural instinct to want to have it. Your obviosly missing some sort of something thats making you not want it at all. There is absolutly nothing wrong with your wife but there may be something not right with you. I would go get your hormones checked cause you could have an imballace that causing your lack of disire. They have all sorts of medications you can take to get your...
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How much do girls like to get poems from their boyfriends?
It would be a little over the top to always get poems cause it would lose the effect but if i ever got even one poem from by boyfriend ever, I would be blown away. I would LOVE it if my bf ever wrote me one.
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Is okay when you dont like yourboyfriend watchingporn when you have sex alot? i justdont like it. idont likehim thinkingabout having sex with othergirls and watching it becausei know thosegirls arehotter than me and i dont feel good enough when he does it
Ya I dont like it either! Like are they imagining themselves haveing sex with the girls they are watching cause that makes me feel a little disturbed haha.
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My boyfriend is in the marines, he drinks to much, he tell me he misses me, that he likes me so much, only when his drinking, does that mean he dosent really miss me, or like me, and its just the alchol taking over him?
Y my boyfriend is usualy more expressive that way when he has been drinking aswell and for him I know he has a hard time daying those types of things so when he has a little liquid courage in him he has an easier time. Hes the kind of guy who grew up without affection so he feels almost akward expressing himslef. Maybe your boyfriend is the same way. He means everything he says, the alcohal...
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Do you think that women who set out to be virgins until they are married have a higher chance of getting married at a younger age? Seems like it to me.
Seems like it to me too. The only two poeople I know who got married right out of highschool were waiting till they were married.
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What does MOFO mean?
Motha F*cker
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Women: Why do you get so self-conscious when your boyfriends watch porn? Some women I've spoken to think it's cheating. Why do you believe it's cheating? I just don't get it.
I think its couse your getting pleasure out of something other then her. Getting off to something other then her. Fantasize about porn stars possibly too and that thought makes feel not as good
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What do you think are the major contributing causes to happiness?
I think it is:
Good health
Good friends/family
proud accomplishments
Money ( I really think that helps with happiness a lot if the previous things are covered aswell)
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Do adults have their own "popularity game"?
I dont think its as much about popularity as it is status. Who has the better house, car, kids, etc.
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Im giving my sister a dinner party at a nice restaurant for her 30th birthday, is it ok to ask guests in an invite to pay for their own tab?
I think so.Its not like a company where the company pays for the whole tab. Yhey cant expect you to cover everyones.
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My 14 yr old son just told me he's gay.No surprise but he's told his friends at school, mostly all female. He doesn't want to hide it and wants to be open about it, even at school! That's what scares me, kids are cruel. Please help & advise!!!
Its hard to say how they will react at 14 cause its still an immature age but i think for the most part he will be accepted. And yeah girls love gay guys and always want to be friends with him. I dont think you need to worry about him being lonely and without friends.
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When you enter a retail store (clothes/electronics, etc.) do you prefer to be left alone by the salespeople or do you want their immediate attention?
I prefer to be left alone! i worked in a clothes store for 2 years and they always damanded you to go up to everyone in the store. I found it so stupid we had to do that. Most just got annoyed anyways being asked by each person in the store if you were doing okay. I never did it unless my managers were around.
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Why is it so hard to let go of the person you love even though you know they are no good for you?
Its the familiarity and comfort of that person now. You dont want to leave that aspect of it.
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Which is worse, one night affair or long term affair? and why?
The long term cause i can imagine that it also comes with deep emotional attachmets. Its one thing to be cheated on but imagine your s/o falling in love with the other person or developing actual feelings that causee the affair to go on. Both are super bad though obviously.
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How many chances is enough?
Maybe like 2
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Are all relationships made of dominate and submissive pairings, independent of gender?
I think for the realtionship to work the smoothest, they would have to be about equal. Maybe one parter is more dominant in some aspects while the other is more in other areas, or just as a whole they are equal on everything but i think that would be the most successful relationship. Otherwise the more submissive parter could feel resentment towards the more dominant one sooner or later. Ive...
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Does anyone still believe that dating is still to find a spouse and not for a "good time"? or is that old fashiond and irrelvent?
I think a lot of times its to have fun but also with a thought at the back of the mind that you may find someone you want as your spouse eventualy. But i dont think people go on like "wife hunts" or "husband hunts" kinda thing
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A girl dated a guy close to a year, she asked her b/f if he liked her son, he said yea hes a good kid, like him a lot, she asked do ya love him? he said I dont love him, one day I probably wil, do you think they should be a package deal love em both?
I dont think it has to be a pakage deal. He fell in love with the woman and if he gets the time to bond with the son a lot i think that will lead him to love the son one day. But you cant just honestly love a child just because you love their mother.
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My bf is the best man to his friends wedding. They plan for a strip club then casino, then home. The grooms brother said to instead hire 2 hookers for the groom to have sex with. My bf said no but Im still afraid my bf could be like this man. What do I do
Wow thats pretty disgusting. I dont think your boyfriend would be like this cause i dont think many guys are. Not many are dirty enough to sleep with a hooker especialy when they are already in a relationship.
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What's something you 'look away from'?
When an animal gets killed like on tv or in a movie. Or in real life too but ive never had to experiance it.
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My boyfriend have been together for 3 years do you think it time for us to get married?
The amount of time you have been dating is a factor but its not the only factor. Age is also a big one i think and also if you guys our financaily stable to start a family and all that. Also it has to feel right. You have to be able to agree on all the big issues like children, money or alse it will cause problems eventualy. Can you picture being with this person for the rest of your life? Can...
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We dated for 3years and have been separated for 3years, I brook up with her because we needed to follow our dreams with out any attachments. I never stopped loving her and we have stayed in touch and on good terms should i tell her how i feel?
ya but i would feel a little offended if my boyfriend broke up with me because he didnt want the attachment anymore after a while. I would feel that i must not have meant very much to me. But if you say you are on good terms and all that then i say you should for sure go for it. You dont want the opportunity to be with this person again to pass you by. They could be feeling the same way and its...
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I've been with my bf for 5 months. We have been on holiday together & i have introduced him to my mum.i thought things were serious, but it seems like he dont want me to meet his mum. He keeps making excuses everytime hes due to visit her. what can i do?
It might not be 100% becuase he doesnt want to be serious with you. Maybe he is really embarrased of his mom/family and just doesnt want to deal with that whole ordeal.
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What's a good attitude adjuster?
a baby
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How come some girls dont have that many girl friends?
I know for my situation i only have have one true friend and shes my best friend. All the other girls are i talk to and shop with are my boyfriends friends girlfriends. Its not that they arent fun to hang around but i get along much better with the guys. I find my sense of humor to be more along the lines of my guy friends and its just a better time with them. Thats y i get along with my best...
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A little money can be invested to make more money. If a homeless man found $10, how could he invest that $10 to make more money?
Ya but it would take so many years to actualy become something significant that theres really no point.
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What do you think about living alone: lonely, empowering, or somewhere in between? Why?
I think it depends on the person. For me I think i would feel really lonely. I like being around ppl most of the time.
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Don't we create the poor by having too many children?
No not in general. People who can afford to have children are not causing harm by doing so. Its when poor ppl have children. They bring them into a lifestyle of poverty and chances are those children will take on that same lifestyle when they are grown up.
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Am I being a hypocrite? My fiance crossed the line with his ex (flirty emails,etc) so I told him he had to break ALL contact if he wanted to be with me. Now he wants me to do the same with one of my male friends that I once dated. So?
If you are still having a lot of contact with your ex that could possibly make your fiance feel threatend just like you felt, then you would only be a hypocrite if you felt that you shouldnt have to cut off all contact but he still did. If you can both agree to keep talking to or both agree to cut off all contact, then nobody is being a hypocrite.
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Have you ever ended up in a serious relationship with a person you had a crush on or were infatuated with before you started dating?
Yep. The person im with now i had such a big crush on in grade 11. It was the littel school girl crush where i was so shy around him and just really akward haha.
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Are you a jealous person? My boyfriend is sooo jealous and its ruining our relationship.
Yes im definitly the jealous type and it has caused problems in my relationship too. Its really hard to control it but i think im getting better. I think a lot of it for me is a maturity thing.
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I have only been intimate with one person- my husband. How about you?
Im 20 and the only person iv "been" with is my current boyfriend of 3 years.
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My boyfriend and I had a bad argument last night and during the argument he told me that he "was going to propose to me in October, but now I've ruined it." We've been dating for 2.5 years & live together. How can I get through this? I'm crushed!
If it was just an argument or fight, which is completely normal in all relationships, then its going to be okay. You guys will obviously make up and im sure if his plan to propose to you was in October, he will still follow it through. He may not do it in October anymore since you know now but maybe a month sooner or later.
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Is it OK for a man who has been married for 40yrs and has a wife who no longer wishes to have sex - to go to a prostitute? Don't tell me to talk to her about my needs. It goes straight over her head.
No its definitly not ok. Its still commiting adultry. But its also not okay that you guys never have sex anymore so something has to be done. Whether it bothers you enough to get a divorce thats up to you.
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Should you feel comfortable telling your spouse your ultimate fantasy without being afraid of hurting them
Well just make your fantsy involve them. Dont be like my ultimate fantasy would be to have sex with _____. Tell them what fantasy you would like to play out with them whether it be dressing up or something else.
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Can I get a ticket for smoking my tires on my own land?
you may get a reckless driving charge but im not too sure.
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I have been in a relationship for 11 months now, and I am starting to notice he spends less time talking to me than he does other things, he rarerly holds my hand when we go out, gives affection, but when we are alone he does. Is he still into me?
yep its around the time where that "spark" starts to die. DONT LET IT! try to keep doing special things and all of that. Dont stop putting in effort cause once it dies it wont be as enjoyable anymore. I believe that it never has to die though as long as both people but in an equal amount of effort to keep it going.
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Do women look at a guy and imagine having sex with him
I cant really say i do but i hear that men do that when they see attractive women.
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My husband says he'd never cheat, but I found out he'd been to a strip club - friends wanted to go & he couldn't say no. He won't talk about his "visits"- says it was at least 4 years ago. Should I worry?
I wouldnt worry about the strip club thing. It didnt mean he cheated on you or had an intent to. But of course hes going to say he would never cheat on you. What do you think he would say..."you know,i may cheat on you someday so let me apologize in advance just in case?"
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Why do so many marriages end in in divorce so soon these days? Some barely last a year or two? What's wrong? Your theory?
I honestly think that ppl are not nessesarily more unhappy now then they used to be, its just that divorce is more acceptable now. PPl back then were still misserable too but they just put up with it. I also believe more and more now ppl just give up through hard times. You can ask many happily married ppl that have been together for like 20 years plus that they probly had a huge rough patch...
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What is the best party of all time? why?
Im from Canada and in my provice theres a thing called the Dauphin Country Fest every year. Its a five day outside concert that has big time country singers perform. Everyne just tents it. Its literally just a 5 day party throughout the whole camp ground. CRAZY!
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What is a food that you use to like and now don't?
mushroom soup and tuna. Always used to eat those when i was little but now its just so gross to me.
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Why do so many marriages end in in divorce so soon these days? Some barely last a year or two? What's wrong? Your theory?
There are certain situations like getting married too young and too soon. But there are other reasons like being too selfish and lazy. The idea is not to let that "spark" go. You have to work to keep things going strong. If not it falls by the wayside and people can start resenting eachother. People just let go of those loving feeling so soon sometimes. If two people are madly in love...
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Being called fuckable? compliment or just sceezy...
I would not not take it as a compliment at all. To me it just says: "I guess they would do."
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How can i make my self more eye catchin in a gd way to women passin by?
What always makes me notice a guy is if he is dressed really well with nice hair. I go for like the abercrombie and fitch type though so it would depend on the peoples tastes who you are trying to get noticed by.
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Do you and your SO think a lot alike or are you the classic example of "opposites attract"?
We have the same views on some important aspects of life, like how we want to live our lives when were older (were only 20). We are opposites in personality though. Im very shy and quiet while he is very outgoing and loud. Hes also very independednt while i am not so much. I guess our opposite personalities kind of compliment eachother though. Hes also a sort of emotionaly hard because of his...
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My boyfriend talked to a coworker and they got a too personal and began sharing explicit pictures, details of what they wanted to do to each other, he also asked to "hook up" with her but she refused to take it that far. should i count this as cheating?
Oh yes! it may not be on a physical level but its definitly an emotional one so far.
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If your s/o doesn't pay you many compliments do the ones they do give you seem sweeter?
This is how it is for me. I still wish he would give me more though.
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Which cause do you advocate hardest for? (I.E. child abuse, homelessness, etc.)
I am really against animal cruelty. The way some people can torture and kill animals just for fun is beyond me. Things like puppy mills and dog fighting are some of the things that just bother me so much. Theres just so many stories you hear about out there that make me sick.
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Is it cheating to go to a strip joint and get a lap dance
I think of it this way. If my guy was at a party and some random naked girl was grinding on him and rubbing her tits in his face it would be the most disrespectful thing to me. Just cause she has the "title" of stripper does not make it okay in my opinion. Single guys go right ahead if thats your thing but i think for all you guys out there who have a girlfriend who finds that stuff...
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My b/f of 6 going on 7 years (I'm 22, he's 24) says he'd like to get married "Someday" but he doesn't know how long that will be...is this an evasion answer meaning he never wants to get married or how should I take this?
Try kind of hinting at when you would be ready. Do it in a way thats kind of like a time line for ex). I want to have kids when im at least ___, but id like to be married for _____ years before I have kids. Most people are engaged for at least a year before they are married, and it could take a while to become pregnant. (also 9 months of being pregnant). Sometimes guys do think about that kind...
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If you are sick at home and your boyfriend leaves you there and goes out having fun all weekend, is this a good reason for you to get upset or is it being unreasonable?
Wow that just happened to me too I was sick this past weekend too and my boyfriend went out instead of staying in with me too. I was really upset by it becase i would have wanted to stay in with him if he was sick at home. He knew I was going to be sitting in all by myself all weekend but he never cared. His priority I guess was going out with his friends. It really makes me think about how...
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When you let go of a love so they can be happy, would you really be happy for them, or just do it because you know they are better off? What if they found someone else?
Isnt the reason you let them go so that they could find someone else? If you didnt think you were right for them....
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Do you think staying in with your bf or gf when they are home sick as opposed to going out (lets say its the weekend) is the right thing to do?
Its not that i would feel obligated to or anything but i would want to stay and help look after him and just keep him some company. I think its the right, caring and considerate thing to do.
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What is something you shouldn't put in the freezer?
lettuce
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How long should the honeymoon phase of a marriage reasonably last if the newlyweds had a period of friendship before they dated/engaged?
Try to make it last forever if you can.
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I just let go the person I love the most. I feel so bad because I had to and she dont have a clue, she wont even listen to anything I have to say. Im lost and dont know what to do?
You must not love her if you let her go. I dont believe in the saying "if you love someone set them free..." i believe if you love someone you would fight to be with them no matter what. I dont know exactly why you have to let her go but if you love her then dont!
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What is more important to you: happiness at work or higher pay?
Probly happiness at work cause you are there for the better part of your day and your life so to dred going everyday would make life misserable. To be able to look forward to actualy getting up and going to work would be such a blessing!
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Should all wives give thier husbands blowjob at least once in a while
No if they dont want to they dont have to do it. I think more power to the ones that do it though. Guys like it
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What is the best song to dedicate to a cheating boyfriend?
silly boy by rihanna and lady gaga. Not as much about cheating as it is about a dumbass guy who was a dick and wants the girl back but shes not having it. (although there is a verse that says "but i think your hands have strayed" so i thought i would consider it for you!
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I'm going to marry my g/f after we're done with grad school. She's Catholic, but doesn't follow it... will I have to convert and raise my kids as such? I don't follow a religion, so that might be weird.
You dont have to convert at all. Just raise your children on what morals you guys both agree with.
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Where are you going after you die?
I wish i could say heaven but i really dont know. I have had an incedent where i "died" for like 8 seconds and i cant recall seeing any "white light" er anything so thats kind of depressing. But ya never know. Life itself is pretty unbelievable so i guess life after death is not completely out of this world
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I broke up with my girlfriend,we talked we were gonna get back together,i found her at her apartment with another guy,a friend she says but only admitted to sleeping in the same bed together and she says nothing else happened..what do you think happened?
Its hard to say. She may very well be telling the truth though. If she was really hurting from the breakup, it may have been a comfort to have another guy beside her to attenpt to make up for the fact that your not going to be the one to do it anymore. Many girls will jump right into things like that, not for the sexual aspect but just for the comfort of having someone again
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Do you shop online while at work?
All the time. Its either shop online or go on answer bag. Im just a summer student so theres not much for me to do.
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What are some funny ways of saying you are going to the toilet?
I find it funny when ppl say they have to take a "steam"
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Should arguments be avoided?
Unnessesary ones should be. Like the saying goes, choose your battles. If arguments over petty little things add up it adds unnessesary burden to all types of relationships whether it be romantic, friendship, work related, etc.
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Do we live in an age when unnecessary things are our only necessities?
Oh ya! Like cell phones. PPl never used to have them and they did just fine. Now its like if mine dies or i forget it it at home it just ruins my day! I feel lost without it . Its rediculous but its how our young generation is now.
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Is it true that men cheat more than women? Based on your answer Please tell why you think so.....
There are websites designed just for men to have extra marital affairs. 'Nuff Said
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What do men look for more in a partner: beauty or brains?
They look for beauty to get with the girl, and if she has brains aswell they will be more likely to want an actual relationship with her.
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If you had to choose, would you rather be with a very fat or very thin person? Why?
Very thin. It just seems so hard to be really fat in society. Plus i think i would feel more unhealthy. I would rather be able to eat a lot then diet and stuff too!
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Men: What kind of perfume do you buy your wife / girl-friend?
if you like it, she will want to wear it cause she will want you to think she smells good. So if you get it for her and say "i love how this smells" she will like it!
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Men: What kind of perfume do you buy your wife / girl-friend?
I like the guess perfume.
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What Is the Average Lifespan of Dogs With Cushing's Disease?
My dog who was a chocoalte lab got diagnosed with cushings disease when she was about 4 or 6 i cant remember cause i was younger. She lived to be 12! I think we caught it early though and she had to go on pills for the rest of her life but she was healthy and could do stuff any other dog could.
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What comes to mind when i say "flirting is harmless"
.....but it could lead to something less harmless
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Aside from sex what purpose does dating or marriage have I have never been married please explain what the difference is and why it matters to be married or not? I know the religious reasons please do not list them.
Becasue you have someone to confide in and the feeling of clossness with this person is awesome. Its like having a best friend who you love to hang out with and have a fun time with, but can also be sexual with and cuddly with. Its like the whole package
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My boyfriend used to love me, but now he says he doesn't know what he wants. He still sees me, but all I do is cry. What's wrong, and can we fix it?
Well it could be that whenever you see eachother, it isnt enjoyable becuase your always crying. This has happened to me and its so hard to just act normal when you do hang out knowing everything he has said to you (that he doesnt know what he wants). It just probes us to keep asking every chance we get. For my situation, it led to us going on a break for a month and then breaking up for like 2...
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Is anyone out there 'the other woman'? How do you cope with this?
Cope with it? Why the hell would you have to cope with it? You shouldnt have gotten involved with someone who already had somebody else in the first place. How do you think the person being cheated on is feeling or how they would if they found out. They are the victims, not you
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Which is WORST: FEAR, or EGO, or ANGER, or SHAME?
shame or fear
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Is it unusual for a 35yr old man to only have teenage friends...late teens and early 20's?
Are these friends of his male or female?
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Is it unusual for a 35yr old man to only have teenage friends...late teens and early 20's?
yes, yes it is
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What color eyes do you have naturally?Do you wear colored contacts?
I have green eyes and they sometimes turn more of a yellowy color. I dont wear color contacts. Ive tried just for fun but i cant put contacts in haha.
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Do you develope little crushes on other ppl while your in a relationship? If so how does it happen?
I wouldnt say crushes where im thinking about them all day and stuff but i do find others attractive and cool personalities and think wow this person is just all around cool. But nobody who gives me the butterflies like my bf.
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How would i ask girl out if she a little out of my league
Dont think of her being out of your league. Whats the criteria for "your league"? Just go for it like you would asking anybody out. Your courage to do it in the first place will be reccognized
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I plan to marry my g/f once we finish graduate school... she wants to live close to her family in New England. She's Catholic, but hasn't followed it since she was young. How likely is it that I have to move and convert when we marry?
Well it may be likely that you would have to move if being by her family is really what she wants. But i dont see why you would have to comvert or anything, i mean she already likes you as is.
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What does it mean if a guy tells you he likes you and wants to get to know you better but says he's not ready for a relationship because he just got out of one?
There could be a number of reasons: He may very well like you but if he doesnt want to be with you it couold be that he is waiting to see if he may get back with his ex. It may also be that he just doest want any relationship now and just wants to be single. I just think that if he really liked you and wanted to be with you, he would be with you. Maybe in time though if you are willing to wait...
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Only women:if you were dating a guy,and you worked in a bar on the weekends,but your bf didnt come in because he didnt want you to wait on him and his friends,1.would this upset you? 2.would you tell him to come in?3. what would this say to you about him?
I would want my bf to come from time to time. I wouldnt want them to abuse the privledges and think they would get drink and food hookuos all the time, but ya i would like it if he would come by sometimes.
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Im in love with someone who i think really doesnt love me although she plays the role well. Weve been going out for a while but i think i should let her go. I love her so much the thought of letting her go is really killing me. How should i handle it?
What makes you think she doesnt love you?
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A guy says that he is straight, but then when he talks he is always smiling at me even when he walks by always smiling and semi flirting, I like him but what should I do? I don't want to loose his friendship. I have his number, what is the next steps?
Does he know that you are not straight? Cause it just seems so weird to me that he would be acting like this towards you if he was straight and clearly knew you were not. Most straight men would be(no offence)akward in a way possibly at fist knowing that. They would definitly not act flirty. So who knows with this one.
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How many guys here have cried over a break up?
My boyfriend did when we broke up (we got back together since then though)
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I've been seeing my g/f for two years and it recently turned into a long-distance relationship... being that I'm 22, my folks think I'm too young for that and I should be dating instead of being tied down. I really love this girl... what should I do?
Well you say that you love her so why would you end it? Your parents may give you their oppinion but they arent the ones in the relationship so they cant decide whats best for you, only you can. If you think that a long distance thing can work with you guys then i would try it, you dont want to end something that you may regret.
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Do you discuss politics at home with spouse and kids?
im 19 and i discuss politics with my parents a lot.
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Should i live a single life avoiding from getting constantly hurt, or keep searching for the woman which will take lots of pain and time to find?
There is nothing like the feeling of love once you find it. Its nice to know you have someone with you to enjoy your life. That kind of intimacy that can only be shared with a s/o is an amazing feeling and even if you do get hurt along the way, its worht it in the end.
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Where (countries) are white people the minority?
Well in this case, minority doesnt mean less of, it means the less powerful. So its basically like asking where is a country where white ppl are less powerful
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How many pets do you have and what are they?and how old are they?
I have 2 dogs, ones a french mastiff and the others a french bulldog
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Right now in your life, would you rather be single or would you rather be in a relationship? Why? And if possible what is your age?
I am 19 and i like being in a relationship. Ive been in one for 3 years and I love him and i love the comfort of having someone there. We still have our own lives so its not like im being restricted in any way.
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Whats the most saved in a shopping trip, with coupons?
From american eagle i get monthly discouts of up to 40% off from having some sort of account with them. One time when it was 40% off i saved 200 bucks because i spent so much haha.
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Is it illegal to say cunt in Canada?
No why would it be?
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Would you care if a politician had been in jail when they were younger?
Depends on what they did. They may have come out a better person because of it, you never know!
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Why is the divorce rate so high in the US? Do you think it has something to do with the Culture?
Yes it has everything to do with our culture. Divorce is not looked down apon anymore. Its becoming just a normal part of lifes mile stones. Since its not hard to get one anymore, ppl see it as an easy way out. Before you could only get divorced if you could prove a spouse guilty of adultry or being abuseive. Now you just file it for irreconciable differences. Now that women are established in...
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Will you join me in advocating that marriage is a great thing?
Yep i love the idea. If you love somone why not do it and start a family.
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How has birth order among you and your siblings affected your life?
The only. I guess you can say it has made me sort of spoilt. Im not saying i always want things. I would never ask, I just always got. Im also not very independent because i got my parents complete attention and always had things done for me. Its hard now to learn it on my own but im learning more and more.
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Do you have sex on the brain everyday? Why is that? Is it that your not getting it or, is it that your getting it ,and it ain't good? Please explain?
Completely normal and it doesnt mean that you arent gettig any or it isnt good. In fact you may think of it more if you are always getting it and its so good.
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Why do we need to talk to ex's they are ex's for a reason?
If you are still close with that person adn can be friedns with them still i see no problem with it
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Since when did "cheating" come to include, like, everything? Didn't cheating used to be actual adultery?
I think it depends on the couples personal bounderies. What one person may believe is cheating, someone else may not. It just depends on what you can tollerate and what you can not. It also depends on what would hurt you if your partner did or what would hurt them if you did it.
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Dont trust her, but I love her. What do I do?
Is there a reason that you dont trust her? Has she done something to betrey your trust in anyway?
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What type of reaction is expected from your s/o when marriage is suggested or asked? What type of reaction is wary to you?
Well since we are still young its not really somethng we talk about in detail. He has also seen his parents go through a very bad divorce so it has sort of clouded his idea of marriage. I do know that he does eventualy want to and to have kids and stuff nad he always tell me he always wants to be with me so if i put 2 and 2 together im assuming he wants to marry me someday. I would be wary if...
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Do you think corruptions will end if they increase people's salaries?
No. I think no matter how much someone makes, they will always want more.
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Do you think world peace is acheiveable? Why or why not? If so, how would we get there?
No i really dont think so. There are too many different religions and the extreme religious radicals will always be fighting eachother. Its one topic where its absolutly impossible to get ppl to agree on. Maybe if ppl would agree to disagree but like i said, the "extreme radicals" will never do that. On another aspect apart from war, i think we just live in a greedy society so it will...
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When was the last time u had a fight with ur bf/gf?
Last thursday. It wasnt really a fight as much as we just got pion eachothers nerves really bad.
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What is an game, activity or tradition from your childhood that is now obsolete or no longer relevant?
Pogs were gretty big at one point.
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Can you truly be in love with someone if you've only talked to them for 15 minutes, or are you just building him or her up in your head?
I believe you can be in LUST with them but definitly not LOVE.
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How Much Fun Are You on a Date?
If its a first date, probly not much fun haha. Im so shy and i would be really nervous. If i know the person more and could open up more i would be a blast. I love to have fun!
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My ex & I split up 2 months ago & live in diff countries. We're 30. He says he really wants me back now. I know he is in a casual relationship that he keeps private What does it say if he's ready for good, but he's still got a thing on the side?
This think on the side may just be sort of a "substitute" for you. Im sure that if you wanted to get back with him he would be happy to end that relationship. If you do decide to make it clear that you want to be his one and only again.
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What's your favorite part of your S.O.'s body?
Its all good but i love his face. Very good looking
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Why is it so much easier to drink a six pack of beer in two hours, then it is to drink a six pack of pop in the same time?
I would have to say cause pop is so sweet you just get sick of it after a while.
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My girlfriend slept with someone else. Everytime i ask a qustion about it now she says that shes told me everything and im to believe her or its over. Is there more to what really went on? What do i do? I love her but id rather loose her than be lied to.
What more is there then sleeping together. Unless you meant they slept in the same bed, not "slept together"
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How long has your best friend been your best friend?
a little over 8 years
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I always hear people say that every marriage has its ups and its downs. Can you give me a personal example of the ups and downs in your marriage or long term relationship?
Im not married but am in a long term relationship. The ups are when everything is good and you really have fun with eachother n matter what you are doing. The downs are the ruts you get into over different issues. For me it was my trust issues that got in the way. I dont know why i developed them but i did and my bf did stupid things too (nothing like cheating or anything)We almost didnt make...
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Do you think if you move in with someone that eventually there might be a wedding in the future?
Its not a guarentee no
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Do girls ever feel under pressure to perform well in bed or is it just guys?
I sort of do. I feel like if im on top, i cant go fast enough for him. I just dont think its possible for girls to go fast becuase of the angle they have to do it at
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Do u think family guy is stupid i think its funny.
I love the randomness of it.
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Who here thinks the movie the hangover is HILARIOUS?
Sooooo funny! Laughed through pretty much the whole thing.
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What is another term you can give me for a "beer"?
Brusky, Brew
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How do you define worldliness?
Someone who has experienced living in many different cultures around the world.It could also be someone who has just traviled to many different places and seen what all the different cultures are about.
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Why do humans seek a sense of love when it can lead to such heartache?
I think its beause we all feel that when we find that love, that its going to be forever and your not going to have to experience the heartach of it ending. Unfortunatly many times it does end, and the heartach takes over. I also think that through all the heartach, there will be that one person who you will find someday that will be forever.
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Is it wrong to seek a woman outside your race more than to seek one within your race when most of the ones of your race in your local area have less core values in common with you than ones of other races?
You will seek what ever your "type" is. If your "type" happens to be of another race theres absolutly nothing wrong with purposly only seeking that race.
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Why does the relationship come before the kids in marriage #1, but the kids come before the new relationship in marriage #2? It should be the relationship is first no matter whose kids are whose. Kids grow up and move away!
While the kids are still under the care of their parents they will be the number 1 priority. If they are not your children but your spouses, they will be their number 1 priority. It doesnt matter if its your 1st, 2nd, 5th marriage, Most people would say their children come first.
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Socialism cares about the wellbeing of others and is compassionate; capitalism cares only for greed and evil...who agrees?
Socialists are just jealous of the more succesful people and only want a peice of their success without having to work for it themselves
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Just how much do girls like seeing guys naked? Popular culture would have us believe that women don't like seeing guys naked. However from my own personal experiences i would say that most women love seeing a well endowed hot guy in the buff.
I love seeing my guy naked!
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Is it a Woman's World?
More so now but not equaly just yet. Men still earn more for the exact same job with the same qualifications but its definitly improved.
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What if you went to sleep and never woke up but in your dream you woke up feel like you’re awake?
You wouldnt have a dream if you were dead though
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How could you deal with your s/o in the millitary? Would you try to stop them from joining if you don't want them to be in the millitary?
I would honestly say i would try and convince them not to go.
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What is the name of the stadium that you live in your city?
The MTS centre
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If you were exiled from your country, which other country would you look to head for and which would you avoid?
I would head the the states. I would avoid afganistan
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Need a good name for my bar. It has a late 60's early 70's music theme. I kind of want to keep the name some what hippie music related using the artists. Any ideas?
Free Bird
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Why is it ok to have an abortion? Would you murder and infant if you saw one laying there in its cradle? Same thing? Yeah it is.
The fetus isnt developed enough to feel anything in the earlier stages. They cant breath on their own so they are just a part of the mother. You cant even compair it to just going and murdering a baby in its crib. I believe that mothers should have free choice in what they would like to do UP to a certain stage in the pregnancy.
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Is the economy improving?
I believe that it is.
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Do you agree with "spreading the wealth"?
No, you get what you work for. Everything i make from my job, i deserve.
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Give me a Name beginning with the Letter S - that you like please...?
Sydney
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Have you been hated by anyone?
ya my boyfriends ex because he was in love with me and not her
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Anyone get along well with your in-laws?
Well they arent in laws because we arent married (yet) but my boyfriend and my parents get along so well. They treat him like their son. My family is also very easy going and jike around a lot so its easy to fit in.
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How long do you see a couple's marriage lasting who married after only knowing each other for a week?
you dont even know who someone truly is even after a year so there is no way you can in just 2 weeks. I dont think it will last very long at all.
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I always planned to save myself for marriage. I started dating this guy and fell in love. we had sex, but I knew that he was the guy i would marry. Do you think it is wrong that i had sex with him b4 we got married?
Not in this day and age. Im not against people who do save themselves, but in my opinion i dont think its a big deal. Sex is supposed to be fun and enjoyable along with hving the intimate so especialy when its with someone you love i dont see anything wrong with that.
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Give me one good reason not to be scared to fly on an airplane.
More ppl die from coconuts falling on thier head.
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American advertisements are exploiting flaws in the Canadian healthcare system to demonise universal healthcare. What do Canadians think of this?
As a Canadian I would have to say that i am not a fan of our health care system. My mom had a life threatning heart condition in which she would have died if she had not been able to go to the states and pay for some medical help. Sure if theres nothing ever wrong with you and you never need to use the system it alright even though your heavily taxed for it. Its unnexeptable though to have to...
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Are their many rich in Canada...? how well is it for entrepeneurs to start small and end up big in Canada...? does their socialist healthcare system suppress the peoples PROSPERITY...? u can be middleclass income but never upper income?
I know very wealthy people who live in Canada. The area where i live is full of very wealthy and prosperous people. I have to say though that the people who are very successful and wealthy do not agree with the solcialist attitude of how some things such as health care are run here.
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How would you improve the American image abroad?
Im from Canada and i can honestly say that in my eyes there is nothing wrong with your image. I grow up in a family that has always been pro american. I hear too many ppl say that they are arrogent but im just like they ARE REGULAR PPL! I have gone to the states for vacation every year since i was 7 and we are always meeting ppl there who are really nice and who we have stayed in tough with...
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Which tax is the most immoral-Income or sales?
Income
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If you're Republican do you think George W. Bush had a successful Presidency? Or do you wish he never became President?
I think he did a pretty good job considering what he had to face. Dont forget he has many advisors who were the ones who could be better to blame for a lot of the things that he did that did not turn out too well. He was president in a time that would have been hard for anybody to deal with.
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What is something you would see in Amsterdam but not in America?
People smoking weed in restaurants
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What are some really bad names for people? I've heard about a guy in the navy named Paul Enis. He was Captain P Enis. There's also a Private Parts. What are some other bad names?
When we were young me and my friend joked about one our frinds moms bfs names. Him name was Harry Knot. The mothers last name was Dick and her maiden name was Strummin. So if they married and lets say that guys take the womans name, then his name would be HARRY STRUMMIN DICK KNOT!
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Do you believe in the right to terminate your own life at any time and for any reason you want to?
Thats a hard one. I think many times the loved ones of the person who commit suicide suffer so much from it that its almost inhumane to cause that for someone. Its a little selfish. Also I think there are other ways to handle situations then ending your life.
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A lady at work was preg with twins & was on bed rest 3 months ago. I found out she had the twins about a month ago, but 1 twin died. She also almost died and had a blood tranfusion. Should I send a sympathy or congrats card?
Maybe just send a blank card with a nice picture on it where you can maybe write your own little message.
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How long do you usually wait to tell someone you love them?
like 6 months. i usualy wait for them to say it first and then if i feel it too i will say it.
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Does my boss have a right to know where I'm going and what I'm doing if I leave my work area during business hours?
If its during your breaks then i think not.
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Which zodiac sign has the sexiest people?
Scorpios are known for being very sexy and mysterious.
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Someplace which normally has long queues
Disney World
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Anybody into astrology: is there any sign who you damn near hate, cant stand or seem to fall out with the most? ;^)
Im scorpio and I seem to get along with most people. And the ones i dont get along with i dnt know their signs. Does anybody know who im sopposed to get along with the least?
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Do you have any wholesale club in your area, like Sam's Wholesale Club, BJ Wholesale Club or Costco?
Costco. Love it
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Do you have a tendency to make a short story long, or vice versa?
Oh hell no I make even the shortest storys long.
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Why are people from the UK cooler than people from the US? (because the weathers colder, hahaha) Your thoughts?
Love the accents so that makes them cool but i think ppl from the states are cool too (im from canada). I think im pretty cool too!
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What is something that you complain that you don't have enough of?
affection from my boyfriend :( although he is becoming more affectonate!
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How did you meet your sweetheart and how long have you been with your partner?
We went to highschool together and had class. My best friend sarted "seeing" his best friend so we started "seeing" eachother too.
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In how many countries do you have relatives that you have met?
I am from Canada and i have met relatives in the states and sfrom scotland. My dad is actualy from there and moved here when he was 9. I also have grandparents from the Ukrain so i guess in a way from there aswell.
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Which girl would you date? Girl A Is 5'2 115 pounds very fit, has porcelain skin like a doll brown hair below her shouders and sky blue eyes and blushes ALOT. Girl B Is 5'9, golden tan, blonde mid length hair and green eyes cute face, but nice body
Who has the better personality? Also how tall are you?
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Are you guys worried about the Bamas' health care proposal?
Im from Canada and i can tell you that public health care is not all that its cracked up to be. My mom had a life threatning heart condition that she would have died from if she had not been able to go to the states and pay to get it checked out. Plus its not like its completely free, we have to pay high taxes for it, even if we dont need anything. Many ppl here end up abusing the health care...
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What was your thought/feeling when you saw your present spouse/beau for the first time ever?
He was in one of my classes when we were in high school and i thought wow this guy is so loud and obnoxsious, but hes funny and really HOT! I always thought he was one of those bad boys, maybe older then me, just failed a grade or something. Totlay wrong about that one! Hes really smart and a respectable guy whos now going to university to be an engineer!
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If you HAD to choose between a "pure love" and a "true friendship" what will your honest choice be?
Pure love cause im assuming that would contain a true friendship within
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My girlfriend tells me that she still has feelings for her ex and she doesn't know whether to break up with me and go back to him or not. Everything i know tells me to dump her but thats the last thing i want to do. Any help would be much appreciated.
Well other then that theres nothing else you can do except wait around for her to decide if shes going to break up with you or not. If she still has feelings for her ex theres nothing you can do to change that. You can give her anything and do anything she wants but until shes over her ex its not going to matter to her.
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How long does it take a man to fall in love?
I took a psychology class that said men actualy fall in love faster then women....Shocked the hell outa me!
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Is my grilfriend cheating on me? We havent had sex in about 8 or more weeks. Theres always a new excuse to why we cant. 2 of her ex's call her about everyday sayin how much they love and like her. I've asked her about it, but she says they're just friends
Iv heard theat its more common for the cheating partner to want sex more if they are cheating on their significant other. Its almost as if they are compensating for it in some way.
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How old were you when you first fell in love?
16 and still with him 4 years later.
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Do you love your significant other still? If not, are you living with them waiting to find a way to get out of the relationship? Do they know? If not, how long have you kept up the charade?
Theres always ups and downs but way more ups so yes i still love them very very much.
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What makes your friends your friends? Have they done anything special or do you just enjoy their company? Is it image? Do they make you look cool? Do you share something in common? Tell me please :)
My bestfiend is my friend because we have the exact same sense of humor and outlook on life. If im with her, i know i will have a supper fun and hilarious time. My other close friends are the girlfriends of my boyfriends friends. We got to know eachother more and more from always hanging out in a big group together. I probly wouldnt be friends with ppl like they are if it werent for my...
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When someone says "I'll never find love"...... why do we almost automatically say "Yes you will"?
Ya i dont know. I think a better thing to say would be "not with that attitude you wont".
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Should I get my GF a gift for our one year? I have already book a weekend trip to Burlington VT, A room at a 4 star hotel and a sun set dinner cruise on the lake . Is this enough or should i still spring for a gift of say under $100?
That already seems like a big enough gift to me!
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I love my girlfriend. Been together about 3 months. About six months ago she broke up with her ex-boyfriend. Right before we started dating she tried to get back together with him and was denied. He didn't love her anymore. (Continued in thread...)
I would let go. It would be hard put it seems like this is hurting you too much. She may very well love you but she clearly still loves her ex (or hasnt gotten over him yet). Its not healthy to be in a relationship when your not over your ex at all. Maybe if you break it off with her, she will start to miss you too. She will realize then that she really needs to make a decision on what she...
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Do you agree that theres a fine line between love and hate? Explain:
This is the way i see it: the people you love the most have to most power to potentialy hurt you. Its the worst betreyal being hurt by soemone you love. Therefor I think it would cause more hatred for that person than if it were someone you didnt really care about.
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What criteria do you use in choosing a boyfriend or girlfriend?
Im not gunna lie looks is one thing becuase its what causes that innitial lust and chemistry. I also really like a guy whos funny and caring. They have to have good morals and respect. That way i know they would have respect for me and wouldnt do anything to disrespect me.
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How do i get my boyfriend to message me?! I always have to text him first!
Maybe since you always do he is expecting one from you all the time. Try just not texting him, he will wonder y you didnt and then he will probly text you first instead.
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I'm at the beach with my boyfriend walking looking for shells. Three attractive women are walking up from the beach. Boyfriend, stares (no biggie) then stops, turns around, and continues to ogle for back view -creep, no biggie, disrepectful? Help
Ya the fact that he made it super obvious and actualy turned around is pretty disrespectful
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What is the most embarrassing thing you have done during sex or the person you were with did?
I got the hugest cramp in the arch of my foot mid action haha. It was with my long term boyfriend so i found it extremely funny but if it was with someone i didnt know as well i would have been really embarrased.It lasted like 2 minutes but luckly it didnt kill the mood too much and we were able to continue on ;)
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Is Vegas realy as full of temptation as they say? (temptation that leads you to cheat or other naughty things)
Oh well thats lame. Well i will just go and upgrade everything then!
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If I don't call a girl back, is that considered being an ass?
It depends, If your like ya well ill for sure give you a call and then dont thats kind of being an ass. If you just werent feeling it and didnt want to talk to that person again then thats whatever.
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Is it as a sign that the relationship will not work out long term if you tell her you love her but she says she's not sure and needs to think about it?
I think that means it will probly work out better. Shes being honest with you which is a very good sing. If she were just saying it to tell you what you want to hear, she may do that in other situations where you need the truth aswell.
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Am i crazy because a a year after breaking up with my boyfriend of 5 months i'm still not over him?
Nope definitly not crazy.
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I caught my boyfriend looking at porn, i voiced my concerns to him by telling him i felt disrespected, not good enough and felt compared. He told me he admires the girls. I am left in tears and he says i'm over-reacting gets angry at me. What should i do?
Well its normal for a guy to look at porn from time to time. My bf does sometimes and i cant say it doesnt bother me because it does, but i dont make a big deal of it cause its not like he has an addiction or anything. What i did find interesting here is that your boyfriend said he admires these girls. What does he mean by that? Like what does he admire about porn stars?
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What would u wear if it's 2hot for u 2 sleep in your room & u sleep downstairs on a couch down there & this guy you like sleeps down there? A) lace nightie b) wool pyjmas c) boxers and tank d( sweats and long sleeved top e) underwear and tank
Id go with cute little girl boxers and a tank. You dont want it to look like your trying to hard
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How long were you with your S/O before you had your first fight?
a year
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Is it okay for my boyfriend to keep a picture of a woman he cheated on me with? I keep finding it and he keeps hiding it, why can't he just throw it away?
Im surprised he would do this. He must not feel that guilty about it. Most guys who cheat and feel guilty want nothing to remind them of what happened. Thats so unfair to you. Hes lucky enough you took him back so he should not be pushing his luck with this picture.
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Why are women attracted to bad boys?
Theres something sexy about a bad boy. In the long run though i would rather have a nice boy who treats me and others well.
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I'm very interested in a good friend at work; he's married, however he's obviously also smitten with me. We really enjoy spending time together, and do so a lot. Knowing that he is married should I still consider this? How can I give the ri
Hes taken plain and simple. Not available to you so whats the point.
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I'm very interested in a good friend at work; he's married, however he's obviously also smitten with me. We really enjoy spending time together, and do so a lot. Knowing that he is married should I still consider this? How can I give the ri
I would stay away. He may flirt with you but it doesnt mean he wants to be with you. Getting involved with a married man is dangerous. Plus why would you want to interfere with their marriage.
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Do you feel that if a man treats his wife well, he is "stabbing his brothers in the back" in an effort to ensure the right to "park his firetruck in her garage?" (as stated by an ABer)
Do friends usualy want each other to treat their wives like shit?
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Are you the only one who gets your sense of humor? Am I the only one who thinks that's the saddest thing ever?
No my best friend and i have the exact same. We laugh at the randomest stuff. My boyfriend thinks were actualy crazy sometimes haha.
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Living together before marriage. . . do you believe this to be a good idea?
Theres 2 sides to it. You can get a glimps of how it will be living with this person day to day to see if its really how you want your life to be. But then iv heard that sometimes ppl who live together before marriage will get married and be like okay...what now? this feels no different. It kind of loses the excitement.
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I have been dating this girl for two months, and want to break up with her. I'm grounded and can't see her in person, but don't know if breaking up by phone or email is the right thing to do. Also, I still want to be friends with her. What should I do?
wait till your ungrounded
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My boyfriend & i have been dating for 8 months and have not said i love you im in no rush, but everytime i want to say it i hold back afraid that he wont say it back. is that normal? should i just say it when i feel right and not worry about his response.
Ya i waited about that long for my bf to say it to me first. You never know though he may not be saying it either out of fear that you wont say it make. Someone has to do it first!
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I have a girlfriend, but I have recently met a girl that I really like. She has a great personality and I don't feel as much attraction towards my girlfriend since I met this new girl. I think my girlfriend's life would fall apart without me. What do I do
Do you love your girlfriend? Cause you may just have a crush on this girl. You may just have a lot of lust toward her that is clouding your image of your girlfriend. This girl is a definite threat to your relationship so if you think the right thing to do is still be with your gf, then i would sort of distance yourself from this other girl. Think about it: you may leave your girlfriend for this...
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Does "love" just accept all things about a person even if it is to his/her detriment?
I dont think it accepts everything. You have to for the most part love everything about that person and make a few ecceptions to certain things that arent quite that great but dont bother you too much. You wouldnt love the person if they had to many bad qualities to try and "accept".
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Is your significant other "McDreamy" or "McCharming"?
McDreamy. Hes definitly not as charming as i wish he would be lol. ( although he does have his moments)
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What are things men do that women find annoying?
Try to act way to "manly" infront of their friends even even ifit means they have to act like jerks towards their girlfriends
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Should men and women have Bachelor/bachelorette parties?
Ya but i dont think you can just act "single" at them. You are still in a relationship even though your not married yet. I think same rules should apply. Thats why i think the whole stripper thing is overrated and cliche. Your technically not single so...
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Does your partner know when you feel hurt/upset without you having to say anything? how do you know?
Y athey definitly know. Im usualy really quiet and im always laughing and smiling and if im not or if its forced they can tell right away and ask me whats wrong.
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My husband wants a divorce but we still love each other. I dont want one. He thinks people don't change and were too different. I know this is a mistake. But Should I just let go?
It depends on what these differences are. Some things about ppl dont change but other things do. Just look at the things that are effecting your marriage and see if those things could truly be changed. Its also really up to BOTH ppl to make that change happen and they both have to put in equal the effort otherwise it probly wont work out. Best of luck
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My gf and i have been fighting so i asked her 2 stay at her moms. I love this girl 2 death but i feel i Carey her on my shoulders 100% of the time. she lies quite often 2. She would like to spend the night tonight and im haveing thoughts of breaking up
Well if you really love her and just wish she would stop depending on you so much you could give her another chance but let her know that she has to stop it or else you just cant do it anymore. That happened to me but i was the dependent and my bf said thats enough. we went out for 3 yrs, he broke up with me for about a month (sort of) and then we tried it again and i knew i had to change ( and...
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Do you allow your s/o to go through your email and phone at will?
never needed to on our parts but i do know a couple who has to look at eachothers text messages and calls before the other person answers to it. Its just rediculous. Makes me angry, no trust.
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What is conflict?
basically its a disagreement
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To girls: What the favorite cologne you like to smell on a man?
I love the abercrombie and fitch cologne. You can smell it even when you walk into the store.
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If your spouse has stopped making love to you, but is satisfied with the marriage, would it be better for you to have an affair and not tell them, or get a divorce which would devastate them?
It would be better to just spice it up a notch and make them want to have sex with you. If its a crash in their libedo it could be due to a hormone imballance which can be cured by taking hormone suppliments perscribed by your doctor. I think it was either Oprah or the doctors where i saw this and everybody who had this problem says the hormone suppliments changed their lives.
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Why does he say he needs space :(
It can be one of two things: You guys are always together and he needs more time to himself and to do other things or it can be the cop out of i want to break up with you.
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What would like to, or do, gamble on? Do you win much?
I love roulette. I used to win everytime i played but im afraid my luck has run out. I dont really play it anymore cause i stopped winning. I also like the spinny machiens just cause i think they're fun.
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What is the first food that comes to mind that begins with the letter "w"?
WEINER! And no my mind it not in the gutter!
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What's your favorite mode of transportation besides a car?
Golf cart for sure!
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Can you handle subtitles?
Ya but i dont end up seeing anything thats happening on the tv
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Do you have/want a dog? What kind(s)?
I have a French mastiff and a French bulldog. Im not French just coincidentaly my dogs are hehe.
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Is it wrong for a women to date her ex boyfriend if she is merried
No not at all doesnt everyone date even when they are married? I mean its only a promise to be faithful, who cares..... No shit its wrong
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What are the chances that a small break from speaking (1-2 or 3 days) will improve an otherwise volatile long distance relationship? Stress has been weighing on the little time we have to speak daily, and the arguments are getting less bearable. Thoughts?
I wouldnt consider 2 or 3 days a break. It could help maybe for a while but i dont think it will make a difference in the long run.
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When your boyfriend dumps you for another girl and when that girl dumps him and then he wants you back what do you say
Go F**K Yourself!!
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If my husband met a gorgeous stripper who went out of her way to tell his boss she likes him and wants him away from me should I be worried?
If your husband was into her too then maybe ya. If he is just wutever about it because he would rather have you then your all good.
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My boyfriend and i got in a argument. When i drop him off at home he slammed my door. He knows how much i hate that. So when i got home i textd him saying he broke my door. He really didnt but he felt super bad and im acting super mad..is that mean of me?
Its kind of funny. It sadly feels really good after getting in an argument and then that person does something that makes them feel bad about it. ( even if they didnt actualy do anything)
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How long does it take a girl to know I am the one she wants forever? I know its different for every girl... but there is always a minimal
She may think that after even 3 months that she will want to be with you forever. People change thought so the person you are now may not be the same in even 1 year from now: she may not like that person anymore, or... she may like it more. She has to see that you are able to grow as induviduals and as a couple together.
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Have you guys ever had a relationship that lasted from highschool all the way till marriage?
Well Ive been with my boyfriend since 16 and im now 20 and were still going strong. My aunti is married to her highschool sweetheart. I think these are the hardest relationships to maintain though because you're going through such transitioning stages of your life. Its hard to change together sometimes.
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I'm trying to attract a great looking guys' attention. He's absolutely gorgeous. I'm thinking about showing more skin than normal. How far should I go?
Its actualy quite the opposite of what you think that would attract him. You need to leave a little mystery.Ive heard guys find shoulders sexy so juat wear a shoulder bearing top or something. Dont let it all hang out. It will make you look to desperate and cheap (no offence)
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My ex is getting angry cus im not talking to her anymore. I still have really strong feelings for her but i feel she's messing with me. She's always trying to talk to me. She touches me on my back occasionally and listens on my convos. What is goin on?
She may still have feelings for you too or is confused about what she wants.
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How do you know that the person your with is who your going to be with for the rest of your life?
You never know. You may think you will be with the person you are with forever, but its not always the case. Things change.
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After how long of being together do you think that you should start talking about getting married?
I think its more about what stage are you at in life? If your at a stage where your financialy stable and mature enough to get into marriage, then i would say at least 3 years. That gives you a long enough to learn the real them. You will also see if you too are either growing together or growing apart in that frame of time.
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Do Friends With Benefits Make The 'Best' Friends?
Im not saying it couldnt happed but usualy friends with benefits arent that close. It may just make things too weird.
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Do you think you could marry someone of the opposite political party (i.e, if your liberal, dating a strong conservative or vice versa)?
I think it would cause a lot of conflict. I think it could work if you agree on the main issues and keep your political opinions to yourself for the most part. I think if one or both were strong on one end r the other, thats where i think issues would come up.
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Would you have a hard time marrying someone with the same name as your father/mother?
It would be weird i would think. Id have to come up with some sort of nick name for them.
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Ladies! What is the most attractive part of a mans body?
I like when they have a nice strong back where you can see the muscles.
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Did you date a lot during your school years?
Not really I had a boyfriend for all of grade 12 and were still going out going into 3rd year of university.
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What are some things you found very useful to have with you in college?
A clip board. Makes writting on those tiny desks a lot easier!
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Is there such thing as a fun chore?
I like windexing
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If someone can't say sorry does it mean they're not?
Not always Lots of time thay just dont have the courage to own up to their mistakes. It takes guts to admit you were wrong and say sorry and some ppl just arnt strong enough to do that.
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Do you think that it is right and proper for a husband to divorce his wife if she refuses to have sex with him? Mark 10:4 "Moses permitted a man to write a certificate of divorce and send her away.” or is a husband suppose to suffer Mark 10:9
Aperantly it is a right. Also for the woman to. Its supposed to be part of the marriage. Not saying if one night they just dont feel like it thats wrong but if they actualy refuse to have sex with you ever.
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Is it legal to marry a cousin?
Ya you can do it but its really looked down apon as you can probly imagine
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What's your most unhealthy habit?
I bite my nails. Its so germy but i dont even realise im doing it!
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It's night, youre walking alone in your city, you see a bunch of young hooligans/junkies coming in your way, how do you react?
Get all flustered and pretend to talk on my phone
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Have you lost more friends due to a disagreement/fight or from simply drifting apart gradually?
I guess its always been drifting apart. Maybe some minor dissagreements have led to the drifting apart but its never been from a big fight.
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How long do you think you should be in a relationship with someone before it ok to let loose bodily functions (i.e. passing of gas and belching)?
My boyfriend actualy took 2 and a half years before he did that. Im not one of those girls who really care about that thoug. He could have done it as soon as he wanted. I on the other hand dnt know if i ever will haha.
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What are the worst pranks you can pull on coworkers?
If you work in a really tall building you and some other coworkers could ducktape one in particular in their chair, roll them into an elevator, and push all the buttons.You bout tape a sign to their chest saying something funny on it for a little extra. (Ive seen it happen haha)
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How long have you known your significant other?
4 and a half years
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Took this girl out last week who is really shy. She lives in another state, but moving soon. Her friends says shes likes me, just doesn't know me enough to date. How much pressure should I put on her? We talk mainly over texts several times a day.
As i am i shy person myself i would not put too much pressue on her. If she likes you she will want to get comfortable with you, it will just take time. Maybe go out in a group with some of her friends and some of yours. Since her friends are there too she may feel more comfortable and may be more able to open up to you. Its just harder and taskes a little longer for shy ppl to feel comfortable...
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Was the first person you had sex with a virgin? And did your first time partner know you were a virgin?
he was not but he knew i was.
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Have you ever used pulling out?
ya all the time but im also o the pill so its not as risky
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Something happened yesterday not related to me, and my GF is very sad. What's a way to cheer her up in our long distance relationship?
Since its long distance, go visit her if possible. Im sure she would really appreciate that.
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How did you feel when you first had a sexual thing happen with the same sex?
Drunk haha. And Happy that i was going to get 100 bucks for it. Oh the good old college days
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Do women still like romantic guys? It's hard for me to believe sometimes because all the women i know end up with the men who would rather treat them like trash and be verbally abusive.I'm a romantic guy who loves to give flowers,give selflessly.
I LOVE ROMANTIC GUYS!
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Who has been your greatest source of unconditional love?
My boyfriend. He puts up with a lot from me (and i do from him) and he still loves me despite the stupid things i do and have done. (Nothing EXTREMELY stupid though, ive never done anythin too too bad)
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Which of the following are you currently: single, friends with benefits, complicated, divorced, widowed, in a relationship, engaged or married?
In a relationship
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Do arranged marriages work out better than marriages based on falling in love? Are there statistics?
There are statistics: they show that arranged marriages have way lower divorce rates. BUT that could be due to factors such as being shunned by family members if you happen to get divorced. I know in those cultures, families offer no more support to family members that get divorced. Cultures in which they do arranged marriages may also have different expectations of what a marriage should be.
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Have you ever been in real love? Like head over heels?
Ya its been 3 yrs and i still would say i am. Hes always on my mind and he makes me smile for no reason, i just do when im around him.
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Given a choice, would you pick a love marriage or an arranged marriage? Why?
I believe in love marriages but i have heard that many ppl become quite happy in their arranged ones. They end up falling in love with the person they had to be with. I would never marry someone unless i was in love with them. I will coose my own husband thank you very much!
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My hubby tells me that I need to dress more like a married woman when we go to church. When I was single I wore alot of skirts and blouses, now he wants me to wear skirts and pants suits, he says skirts and blouses are single womens clothes, really?
Thats rediculous. There is no such thing as married woman clothes. Clothes are personal preference and what you like.
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Does anyone here fully 100% trust their special someone?
Id like to say that i do but there may be a 1% fraction in the back of my head asking me hmmm i wonder what whould happen in this situation....
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What are the signs that your boyfriend actually wants to be with you and isn't just filling in time untill someone better comes along?
If he talks about future plans with you. Not just like what you wanne do next weekend but more along the lines of hey we should go on a vacation together next year, etc.
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When you are in a relationship, are you still looking for someone better even if you're very much in love?
No definitly not. Even when im out without him i am still thinking about him as opposed to looking for others who could be better.
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What do you think is the most important thing to accomplish before you get married?
Establishing yourself in a career so you can support a family.
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My boyfriend, to whom I'm commited for years, has told me that he wants to go with his buddies and sleep with prostitutes in his next trip to China. I'm brokenhearted. Is he saying this because he wants me to break up with him?
well i dont think anybody would be okay for thier boyfriends to be doing this so he must have had the notion that you may break up with him for it. Maybe he thought he could get away with it or that maybe you wouldnt mind (if hes an idiot). You should leave though because if someone loved and respected you they wouldnt want to do this. Also if they had respect for themselves they wouldnt have...
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Name 2 things you will not tolerate in a relationship?
infidelity and disrespect
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I hate it when my bf talks about other girls & how hot they are. it makes me feel like my body doesnt satisfy him enough. like i have to look like a supermodel, measure up to them in order to make him happy. am i wrong for feeling like this?
No he should respect you more and not do that. I would feel inadequate too if my bf always did that.
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What are some good movies to watch with your bf... Comedy, romantic, and action??? Give titles plz!
the hangover is hilarious if you feel like having a laugh together. My bf actualy didnt mind hes just not that into you either and thats a chick flick and he usualy hates chick flicks so maybe he wouldnt mind it either
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I don't know whether to wait for him or not. he says he's really busy right now, working to get his life back on track financially. but if he really wanted to be with me he would dispite this right?
you would think so. I would just get yourself out there and have fun and maybe if he sees that you will move on if he doent want you now and not be there waiting for it to be right in his terms he may think wow i dont want to lose her and he will want to be with you.
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I was watching this wedding on tv,and the new bride tells her friend "It always better to marry someone who loves you more than you love them" what are your thoughts about this? Do you agree?
i dont think you can really measure who loves who more because they may express their love in different ways. I think in serious relationships espescialy marriage the love should be well rounded between both partners.
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My best friend is moving to another school on the other side of the country, i need to get her a present, any ideas?! Something good that she will remember ect.
Make her a scrap book. Scrap booking is very popular these days and they have all sorts of cute little decorations to put in them. It something that you also have to work on yourself so it mekes it really meaningful.
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Adult ABers - Starting now, how long could you go without having sex?
It depends on the situation. If im away from my s/o then its kinda like i cant it sucks but ill live. Now if im around him i wouldnt be able to for very long. I just get to worked up around him and always want it ;)
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Do you believe that cheating is possible before marriage? Why or why not?
I think if you have made the commitment to be exclusive with no matter who you are with then its cheating. Whether your married or dating if you made that promise to eachother and did not keep it its wrong. You are still going behide their backs and doing things that would cause them a lot of hurn. If the relationship is open then its not cheating for there is an agreement that its allowed.
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In your opinion, who is a better friend? a) a funny person b) a serious person c) a helpful person d) a giving person?
Its hard to just pick one cause i think the best friend would be one that is well rounded in all areas. It also seems that in most groups there is at least one of every type listed there. I personaly have so much fun with funny ppl though. Wouldnt get a long with serious ppl.(except for times when you have to be serious)
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What do you think of colored diamonds or gemstone wedding rings?
I think they are very pretty but i would not want one for my wedding ring.I like the traditional white diamond, Its more significant
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I am about to cheat my girlfriend for the 3rd time with my ex, i really love my gf, but its been a long time since ivent had sex with ex, my ex is uglier now, but since we live in diferent cities and my gf is away, and my ex is temporally here...
Thats really selfish of you. Do your girlfriend a favor already and break up with her so she doesnt have to continue to go out with such a selfish inconsiderate boyfriend. You dont really love her cause you would not put ppl you love through this kind of hurt. Just break up with her and then you can have all the sex with your ugly ex that you want.
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I'm really concerned about my friend, Just 2wks before his current rel he was still crying over his ex of 2yrs. Now he says he's loves this new girl but they've only been together for 3mths. I don't think he is over his ex how do I get him to slow down?
Hes mistaking the lust he feels for this new girlfriend for love. In my opinion i dont think he is over his ex, so with this new person he has become attached so quickly to sort of get that loved feeling back. He may really like this girl but just tell him not to move to quickly and let things develope naturaly and hopefully this isnt just a way to patch up the whole his last relationship left.
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Do you agree you shouldn't talk about past relationships with your current significant other?
I think in the very early stages of a new relationship you sort of get all that stuff out of the way. Not super detailed but just what happened between the two of you sort of theing. It can be helpful in finding out what the person your with is like in relationships and what they want out of one.
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What does it mean when ur girlfriend tells you she doesnt know and is counfused about her feelings towards you?
It could be that she wants out but i know sometimes i feel this way when that innitial "spark" goes away. If you guys still hang out i would try to get it back with cute little gestures.
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If you could have just one thing given to you right now, other than money, what would it be?
a mansion thats worth a lot of money. I know its greedy but oh well
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Black, Or White?
this just makes me think of clothes: black for winter and fall, white for spring and summer
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Is there a absolutely sure way of meeting a compatible partner without the randomness of going to bars?
well if your in school like university there are alot you could meet there. Also you never know you could meet someone at a bar who isnt just looking for a one night stand. Just be leery but if someone who seems cool wnats your number give it to them. If they call you have a date, you never know.
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I cheated on my girlfriend, how can I regain her trust?
its sad to say but you may never. Thats the price you have to pay. It may seem like things are getting better but there will always be that thought at the back of her head.
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My ex-bf and I are very close but he has a gf. Sometimes he comes over to my place and we cuddle and talk, no sex. Else we talk on the phone. His gf doesn't know about our close friendship. Are we having an affair?
in my opinion yes. Its more of an emotional one then anything. He should be cuddling with his gf not his ex.
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Using no more than five words, describe your first true love.
hot
smart
strong
caring
forever
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At what age do you think it is too old to become pregnant, and parent that child?
Well I know that after 35 there is a significant increase in your chances of having a child with down syndrome, however it is still a very very small chance. I think that 40 would me the oldest. You want to make sure your healthy and fit to raise this child as they grow up. Also do you want to be there when they get married and have kids too? That would be something you have to consider.
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Are you a romantic?
Ya i love the whole fairytail aspect of love. Its sad cause its not really reality but i would love it if it was.All the romantic movies and stuff, i would love it if thats how things went down in my life.
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Where were you when you had your first kiss? Do you remember how old you were? And lastly, do you remember their name? (Just initials is fine)
Yep it was in a park, i was 16 and i remember his name cause im with him now 4 years later! we started dating 6 months after that.
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Me and my boyfriend broke up on wednesday, when was your last break up?? why did you break up?
It was last month. After going out for 3 years we just started fighting way too much and we were pushing eachother away. My bf finally told me his head just wasnt in it anymore and siad he needed a break/space which turned into a break up (should have seen that one coming). The "break" was for like a month, but the break up (official) only lasted like 2 days haha. Were back together now.
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How often do get asked out? When was the last time you said no?
I get asked out a lot and the last time i said no was on the weekend cause im already taken ;)
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What would you do if a girl that you don't like because she likes your bf, sended nude pics of herself to your bf, and he said it was sweet, and he wanted to compare you both, and wouldn't delete the pictures?
I would definitly end it. It just shows that he isnt respectful of you. Its so inconsiderate and it just shows what kind of person he is. If he acts like that in this situation, what is he going to act like in other, similar situations.
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I just found pictures and video of my boyfriend having sex with his ex. He said he didn't know he had them (we live together). What is the best way to handle this?
wow i cant even imagine how i would feel. Its hard enough thinking about my bf with his exes never mind seeing it in acion. Tell him you wish he would get rid of them and if ur into it maybe make a little video of yourselves. Then its your memories hell have and not the other relationships.
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If your boyfriend asks his ex not to call but she still does, is she a psycho?
i wouldnt say a psycho. Maybe shes just having trouble letting him go. Think if you were in a situation where your ex was with someone and you were not over him. It would be a difficult thing. She should however respect what he is asking and stop calling.
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Would you be upset if your s/o went out mini-golfing and for ice cream with a friend of the opposite gender?
Ya this seems like something really date-like.
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Kissing with braces [or kissing someone with braces]... how weird is it!? :P
i had braces and you actualy cant really notice it.
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When is the last time you played tennis?
yesterday! i love tennis
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I've been told I'm on the verge of anorexia. I don't understand though. Sure, I restrict my diet but I am a normal body weight, I still have my period... surely anorexia is being extremely malnourished and haven't had a period for 3 months etc... help? x
go on the internet and check your bmi. Anorexic is being 15 % what should be your normal weight.
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Britney Spears or a free oil change?
how about brittney changing my oil?
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I'm seeing and hearing things. Does this mean I'm insane or is it normal? I don't like talking about it to friends because I don't know whether they'd just think I'm crazy...
When are you seeing and hearing these thing? I may know the answer depending on when. IS it right as your waking up or falling asleep?
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Its Friday!!! What are your plans today? TGIF!
BON FIRE!
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What do you do that's just Lazy ? I am so lazy I have ordered a pizza just so they can bring me a soda and I won't have to go to the store !
when i get changed i throw my clothes on the floor until theres such a big pile i just have to clean up. I laways regrett it cause im stuck with all of it to clean at once. I hope its just a phase.... i never used to do it.
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Billy Mays died, what does this mean for JaboOody Dubs?
nobody sells like billy mays
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Have you ever run away from home? where did you go?
yep i packed up my little bag and went and sat down at the side of my house. Im pretty sure i went back inside after like 10 minutes.
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Do children perceive time differently than adults?
I remember when i was in elementry school we had luch for half an hour: it seemd like soooo long. We would play out in the school yard for what seemed like hours. Just thinking about it now its just blowing my mind that it was only HALF AN HOUR!
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Do you have a favorite gesture or hand-sign?
i really like the good old thubs up. I also love just ginving out high fives!
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Which is one is more healthier, chinese food or soul food?
Chinese cause theres so many vegetables. Chinese ppl never seem to be overweight and i think some of the longest living ppl are chinese.
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What is the best pick up line you ever used?
wow your eyes are the same color as my lamborgini
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What is the most romantic way to win your lover back?
write a wicked love letter expressing everything that you feel. Also is your ex a girl or guy? i think depending on that they may find different things romantic
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Hypothetically...if my ex changed the things i didnt like and gave me more room to do w.e. i wanted....and likewise for me too....wudnt it work out? we're still in love and were willing to make it work but will it? do i give it a chance?
If they changed the things you didnt like and if you changed the things that they didnt like then yes. I find its really hard to change thoug. Sometimes what you want and what your partner want clash. Me and my boyfriend went through this a month ago and decided to give it a try and its been going great even though its sort of hard still. You dont want regretsthough so i would have another try...
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Do ppl ever tell you you look like someone famous? if so who do ppl always tell you you look like? ( and i mean you get it a lot, not just like one time)
iv gotten carrie underwood a few times.
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What was your last major life event?
The break up of my 3 year relationship. It was my first break up and its the worst iv ever felt. Were back together now though so im happy!
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Why wash your hands upon leaving a public toilet, when the last thing you touch is a tap, the same tap everyone touches before washing theirs. If you don't use paper to turn the tap off & open the door. Will you not leave with more germs than your own?
I think their solving that problem by coming out with more and more of those sensor things that you just stick your hand under and the water comes on
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Im engaged to a recovering alcoholic who also had drug addictions before. Now, he is not drinking/taking drugs. Recently hes seen a psychiatrist for counsel & they've perscribed him a benzodiazepine which can be addictive. Should I be worried?
The thing with benzodiazepine is that they will work for a short while but then they will have to keep taking more to get the same effects becuase the body gets used to them so quickly. Just keep trak of how much he is taking and if possible try and get hi to recover on his own.
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How often do you look at yourself in the mirror?
besides for when i get ready pretty much everytime i pass one hehe. I think its human nature just to take a quick little peak at yourself.
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Do you smile alot, or are you one of 'those' people that do not?
I always smile. I cant help it sometimes and i feel goofy cause i cant whipe the smile off my face sometimes.
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What do you consider your greatest talent?
icant read music but could play any song on the violin right after i hear it. Or even i dont i can still play it (i taught myself the song from titanic without hearing it on the violin)
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Is there such a thing as hanging out to much? Me and my girlfriend talked none stop for about 4 months, and we hung out everyday for those 4 months except for maybe 3 times. We just recently quit being able to talk none stop.. Are we growing apart?
No probly not. At first both ppl just want to be around eachother all the time cause its so new and exciting. After awhile it gets more comfortable and less exciting and theres not as much need to spend all this time together. Sure you still like to hang out but now you have to make up for lost time on the things you sacraficed while spending all that time together. This could mean hanging out...
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Do you enjoy music and movies that originate from a different country than your own?
I love carribean music with the steel drums and what not. Always reminds me of being on vacation
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My girlfriend broke up with me and i still love her and i cant get over her any advice?
your probably still stuck thinking about all the good times. Its hard but you have to start thinking about the bad ties and the bad qualities and ways that your better off without this person now. If you think she may not be too sure of her decision to end it, go on like your totaly okay with it, go out have fun and if she hears of this she may want you back.
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How do you know if a person doesn't love you?
they wont go out of their way for you ever
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My boyfriend has been responding to people and posting ads on craigslist and has been trading pictures. I went as far as texting some of the other numbers he texted before and they said they hooked up. My boyfriend said he did nothing, can I beleive him?
Even if he didnt hook up with him, the fact that hes on that site is reason enough that hes not a good boyfriend.
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Girls; Do most of y'all put physical appearance before personality when looking for the right guy? Because I don't think ANY girl is attracted to my skinny, nerd-like exterior. Pesronality wise; I'm kind, freindly, creative and hard working.
Dont worry i have a freind who always goes for that type. So if your personality is awesome then i think you would definitly be someones type. Everybody has a different taste.
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If a guy or girl you used to be in a relationship texted one of your friends out of the blue to hang out, are they hoping to get close to you again or hopefully talk back to you somehow?
Its hard to say. If your friend is of the opposite sex to them i would make sure they are not trying to get with your friend or have developed feelings for them.
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What is the hottest name for a girl?
Katrina or Madison
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My boyfriend says there is no difference between being married and living together for life as life partners. I do disagree. I believe there is a lot more to marriage than he seems to think. Any comments on this? What do you think? Any help?
I dont think there is much of a difference however i for sure want to get married. I guess i just think of it as being more "complete" in a family sense. It also just seems more permenant to me even though divorces are so commen. I'm a girl so i also always invision my wedding day and i really want that.
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What do you think of promise rings for couples that are still in high school?
I personaly dont think you should make promisis that young. Im still young (20) and i always wished my boyfriend would get me one when we were in high school (we have been dating 3 years). Now im kind of glad he didnt because we just went through a huge riough patch were we broke up for a month cause we have just changed so much. This is the age where ppl change so much. You will not be the...
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Would you marry a smoker?
No.Cant stand the smell and ppl who smoke seem to look really run down. Always hacking up their lungs. Cant imagine kissing a smoker would be a very good experience either. Too big of a turn off to get involved with a smoker let alone marry them. I also want my husband to be alive and healthy when were say, 60 years old.
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My pal & his bird are trying for a baby, he's 19 she's 18 - only been goin 3 months & he's cheated twice, he even said she's a rebound. What can i say to stop him from bringin a baby into such an imature relationship? This is very out of character 4 him!!
Wow thats messed up. Why do they want a baby? Tell him that once he has this baby, hes tied to this girl for life. If he isnt serious about her why would he want that. Also let him know that he would be missing out on his young adolessent life my having this baby so young. Tell him to wait till hes established in life, in a loving relationship he wants to stay in and is serious in life, and...
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You only want sex, not a relationship. You're probably already prepared to spend money, so why not just pay a pro?
I would lose a lot of respect for myself if i ever had to pay someone for sex. I find that its kind of sad.
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Why don't people trust? Is it based on evidence or just insecurity?
I think in some situations its based on evidence (like if the person gets caught in a lie, has cheated , etc) and in other cases its based on insecurity ( maybe your insecure because the friends are bad influences, or ur insecure about your body, etc)
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What is the title of my relationship to my cousin's child?
Its first. Secound cousins would be the relationship of your cousins children to your children.
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What is the title of my relationship to my cousin's child?
You and your cousins child are also first cousins.
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I've been with someone for 4 years, we both have careers and are successful. I'm ready to settle down and commit, but he keeps thinking of excuses. Shouldn't you know if you want to be with someone after 4 years? Help!
Well how old are you? Some guys have a sort of age where they want to get married at. Like iv been mith my bf for 3 years and he has always said that he thinks 27 would be a good age for him to get married. So if were still together that would mean we would have been together for 10 years before we got married. Maybe he never wants to. Again some men (and some women but i think its less common)...
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If love is forever, why there are so many divorces?
Since divorces are so easy to come by these days, people dont see the need to try and make things work if they start to crumble. Before divorcce was so looked down apon that ppl would try very hard to stay in it. I think ppl who are truly in love would rather work through things as opposed to divorcing. People also change throughout their lives and the person they used to be just isnt the real...
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I cheaded and now I dont no what to do??? I am married with four kids and I love my husband I cheated a long time ago and now he has found out :-( what should I do
Not much you can do. You basicaly have to wait and see what he wants to do.
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Why is it that what goes around comes around?
yep i really do. Might not be for years and years down the road but i believe its true.
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When my boyfriend wants to go to his buddy's house once or twice a week, he asks me if I will be upset if he goes and I always tell him "no" even if it does upset me. I think I am just jealous. Is this only my problem or is it his too?
You may feel jealsous becuase maybe you feel he spends more time with them. If thats the case you have to let him know how your feeling. 3 nights a week sounds like quite a bit of time to just go chill at his buddies. Try making it a happy medium of chiling with just you, chilling with his guys, and then hanging out in a group or something.
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Women have a fear of being rejected by men, so what advice can be given to women on what not to do when approaching a guy of interest?
pretty much dont be ugly haha just kidding (sort of but not really). confidence is huge
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Are we all, in some small way, attracted to same sex? I am 29, married, never had a m-2-m experience and very fulfilled. However, I sometimes fantasise about m-2-m and I visit gay websites and chat on cam with other guys. I reckon this is normal - do you?
I think its normal to think ppl of the same sex are attractive but i think you may be venturing into a different territory by going on the web sites and chatting. Yu might be bi.
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If you was hung upside down for 24 hrs would it harm you.
you would think so. All that blood rushing to your head cant be good for you.
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What would you do if you saw your partner making out with someone else in a club?
I would probly make the hugest scene ever and throw a temporary tantrum at him. I would then leave and tell him i never want to see him again.
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Is it wise to ever think that you could change another person.?
I think you could become somewhat of an influence. Maybe your lifestyle can shape theirs into something better that they want for themselves too. Certain things i dont think can change though especialy if they dont see a need in that aspect of themselves changing.
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If your in a relationship and you are thinking about cheating should you end your relationship?
ya its less painful for the person your with. Sure they will be crushed that you ended it but i cant imagine the hurt they would feel being cheated on
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How old is your best friend, & how long have you been friends?
She is 20 and we have known eachother for 8 years. Also my boyfriend who i have been with for 4 years.
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Borsht. Its Ukrainian.
That was totaly supposed to be an answer to a question hahahaha
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My bf of 2 years this morning said 'we need a break' totally out of the blue. He says he thinks we will get back together he just needs some time alone. Then why would he do this?¬!? :(
I know it has been a while since this post but i just wanted to ask what ended up happening? Did you end up back together and if not how do you feel about that? Im asking because listing to you is like listening to myself. I was in the same situation where he wouldnt give me a time limit, it was out of the blue, said he still loves me and doesnt want to lose me, and that we will get back...
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Why do girls/boys cheat... even though they really love the one they already have...?
You would have to question whether they really did love the one they were with.
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What is your party trick? (i.e. something you can do that amazes people!)
Supply the alcohal if possible. Make all different cool drinks. That should make for a good turn out
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What do they say is the problem, that is when your not with your partner you miss them and when they are here you wondered why you missed them?
That you only want what you cant have?
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How can u build a trust between a couple
Not lying about anything whether it is a small thing or not. If you get caught in evin little lies that arent anything big, that person may wonder what else yuo could be lying about. Just be truthful and respectful. Respect is another big one. Show eachother that you have a lot of respect for one another.
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I keep having dreams that my best friend/roommate and my boyfriend that lives with us as well are sleeping together behind my back. Now I'm getting paranoid. Should I be or is my dream telling me something?
Sometimes we dream of things that really have nothing to do with what is going on in the dream. Maybe your just getting adjusted to them living together now too and possibly beccoming closer as friends. Maybe you feel a little jealous that its not just you and your boyfriend living together. There could be many reasons for it. you cant help what you dream.
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Do you worry often that when your partner is out with friends he/she is cheating on you?
I used to because of the people he hung around (i know he would never cheat but i was worried about what he was doing) He doesnt hang out with those people anymore and I have no problems now. I know i shouldnt have based him on his friends but it was hard not to.
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Family: should you keep them close and love them even if they treat you more like an enemy?
If they treat you bad I would not want to be close to them. I think you choose your family by having close friends. If your family also happends to be awesome thats great but if there not i would surround myself with people who do care and even though may not be related, feel more like family anyway.
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My boyfriend has a lot of friends who are girls. He slept over at one of their houses last night and it makes me uncomfortable. Where's the line between me being obsessive and there actually being a problem?
I would be really uncomfortable with that too. If he thinks your being rediculous about it, reverse the roles and ask how he would feel if you slept over at your guy friends houses.
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Why do people bother couples? Ex. friends or family
Bother as in how? I know my boyfriends friends bother me in the fact that if my guy does anything even slightly nice for me they all jump down his throat about how 'whipped" he is. Its so annoying and sometimes it makes my boyfriend act like a jerk to me when were with a group.
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Ive been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. He doesnt take me out anymore even though I drop hints, the duldrums have set in, he doesnt even buy me a coke, I pay for everything....am i being selfish? what happened to chivalry?
This could just be how your guy truly is, or it could be him taking you for granted. He may think that he has you therefor does not need to put anymore effort into the relationship. You have to tell him that you dont feel appreciated like he made you feel before.
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Married men: What do you expect from your wife ? It seems to me once you get married you want someone who will clean all day, cook, iron, wash clothes, take care of kids, work, and never complain about it ! please shed some light.
I am no femenist but why cant men clean up after themselves? Women dont just stay home anymore. They are out there making money just like thier husbands. Why should they have to do everythin. How hard is it to clean off a plate? If the person i was with expected me to get home from work and then do everything that would not fly well with me. I would cook but if he wants to be a slob and not...
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What are the dangers of not expressing ones needs in a relationship?
You could end up being really unhappy becuase your needs arent being met but you already love your parter nad have the comfort of the relatonship holding you back from finding someone who meets your needs. ( assuming that your current doesnt) If you express this as you go,your partner may be able/willing to respond to these needs
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Women:when a guy that you are in love with breaks up with you, do you go after him and try to proove things can work, if so are you relentless to a degree, if not, what do you do?
In my situation we went on a break for a month and i let him be. Nothing was resolved from it though and everytime we would see eachother it would be another arguement. He broke up with me (after having a really hard time deciding what he should do) and i told him he would regrett it and that hes making a stupid mistake. I told him that i was dissapointed he was just giving up because i thought...
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Do think the woman should always wait for the man to say 'I love you' first?
I dont think so but i did (not to be a hypocare) I just didnt want to say it and then have him not say it back or just say it back to not hurt my feelings. Thats how i knew when he said it to me he really meant it.
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Can you describe yourself in one word?
bored
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For those of you in relationships, do you think about your significant other like A LOT? Are they the last think on ur mind when you go to sleep and the 1st when you wake up?
Yep always first and last thing on my mind. Sometimes i think im unusual about how much i think about my boyfriend. You would think after 3 years i wouldnt think about him as much as i did when we first started going out but i do!
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Is your relationship currently stable?
Its a little rocky but i thinks its becoming more stable again. Hopefully
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Do you like guys more with long shaggy hair, or a short simple haircut?
I like the shoter simple cut. Maybe a little bit spikey but subtle.
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Do you think the world is over-reacting over the Swine Flu epidemic?
Ya. Its like any regular flu. About 500 000 ppl die from regular flus each year. Of course ppl who are older or ahave weak immune systems are at a higher risk. I=This isnt some crazy flu thats going to whipe out the world. Its like any other type.
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Im a guy, and im planning on getting a few piercings, what piercings do girls find sexy?
Eye brow rings are sexy
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My boyfriend says he loves me just as much as he loves his friends. I dont know if its just me, but isnt that wrong?! i shouldnt be at the same level as his buddies. Or is that how it is?
I think it may depend on how long you have been together. Also the love for you should be a who different kind of love than what he has for his freinds. It should be romantic love aswell as all the other forms.
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Im 20. i've been dating this girl for 3 yrs. she is very beautiful. we love each other soo much. however recently i've been wanting to date other girls 2, coz i wana meet other ppl b4 i REALLY get to be serious with just one. but i dont want to loose her!
How old is the girl? Is there any other reason you may be having doughts about staying with her?
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What is the fastest you've fallen in love and stayed there? Do hot flames really burn out quick?
I fell in love with my boyfriend it seemed after the first 3 months. We never said i love you till about 6 months though. Honeymoon type stage seemed to last a year and then problems started coming up in the relationship. I miss the honeymoon stage!
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Been with my man for 4 years we argue a lot and i have trust issues wid him he has now told me he has lost love 4 me and dislikes who i am now that has broke my heart we are still together and he says i have to change but im not entirely to blame im hurt
Wow im in the same situation. We have been trying to work it out and so far its going okey. He blames all the problems on me and says i hev to change but there are things he needs to do too. we'll see how it goes i guess.
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What should I do my girlfriend met this guy at a camp for the first time and they went out on a walk together and the guy kissed her and she kissed back?
Break up with her
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People in relationships, do you ever have wish you were single? What are the reasons that casue you to want this? Do you go through phases of it and if so how long do they last?
No I love being in a relationship. I love they guy im with and wouldnt have it any other way
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If you are in public with your partner and you catch them looking at an attractive member of the opposite sex(or same sex, for gay couples)would it bother you?
I just dont want to think that my partner is mentally undressing that person and envisioning having sex with them. Thats what iv heard guys are doing when they are checking out other girls.
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How old were you when u first got drunk?
I was 16 when i first yarfed my guts out from drinking
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If you were going to get married were would you go
tahiti
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How long do you think it takes to get to know someone really well when you have been commuicating online for the mostpart? Do ppl really get to know someone well that way?
you may find out alot ABOUT that person but i dont think it would give a good indication of who they really are.
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Would you be upset if your boyfriend kept naked pics of an ex in his bedside table even after expressing your dislike for it? my insecurity or disrespect?
That would bother me a lot too. I would want him to throw them away. Sure keep other memories but not naked pics.
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2/3 of divorces are initiated by women. Should society train men to initiate divorce more often?
No society should not trian men to initiate divorce. If they wanted one they would get one. Society should train ppl not to get divorced and if they really dont think they could see themselves with someone forever then they shouldnt ge married. Stuff happens and ppl get divorces but why wopuld we want society to train ppl to have divorces. Thats sort of counter productive.
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Is there a downside to being born incredibly attractive?
you get labeled a slut and bitch just couse of you rlooks even if you dont act/dress slutty or bitchy. Also you know that the majority of guys who are "interested" in just want to get into your pants.
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If someone has a diffibulator and pacemaker, will it drain the battery on a cell phone? Should she be using the cell phone at all?
No they wont but the cell phone may desensitize the pacemaker if you are using it on on the same side as your pacemaker
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Who here thinks dancing (like grinding type of dancing) with someone other than your significan other is cheating?
ya its pretty much sex with clothes on
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Women: When your boiling mad at your s/o whats the ONE thing that would melt you?
juat for them to be like im sorry i live you so much and then give me a really big hug.
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Do you think it's possible for two people to fall madly in love and stay that way for life, or do you think it eventually passes no matter who you are with?
I think it is but it takes a lot of work from both people. Effort has to be put in a lot and what usualy kills this is i think that people start to take eachother for granted.
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Are you being loved like you should be loved? If not what is it that your s/o is not displaying to you? How does that make you feel?
I feel lately that im not being as loved as i used to be by my boyfriend. He just doesnt make me feel like a priority anymore. Im not saying i want to be his ONLY priority but it would be nice to feel like i was ONE of them.
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What sign are you? What signs do you get along well with? What signs do you not get along well with?
Right on im a scorpio too!
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Are you still with the person you started dating at 19? if not what happened to ur love?
Yep. We actualy started going out at age 16 and now were am almost 20 and he is 20. We are starting to become different peope though. We are both changing its just a matter of can we change together or will we change and drift apart.
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What exactly does my b/f mean when he says the ones who prove to you that they need you in their life are a pain in the arse?
the people you are closest too are the ones you get mad at the most.
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How do you know that the person your with is who your going to be with for the rest of your life?
You never know. Even if it feels like it right now people change. I always thought i would be with the person im with right now forever but were slowly growing apart and doing different things with our lives. Wish i could change that fact but i cant.
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What is a huge "turn off" for you?
smokers and people who try too hard to act like they are super cool
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Why do ex-girlfriends sleep with your friends?
if the girlfriend and the friends were jerks and disrespectful i guess that could be a reason
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Why do ex girlfriends still hang around w/you and your friends after they have broken up with you?
If they are friends with the same people as you. Or if any of your friends have gfs that shes friends with. If thats not the case maybe she just cant let you completely go.
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What color shirt goes with tan/beige pants that have brown stripes running through them?
i kinda like a lighter blue (depends on the shade of the pants and the color of the brown stripe though)
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How long were you with the one who gave you your first real kiss?
3 years and im still with him! I was a late bloomer haha. ( we were seing eachother for about a month and then it ended for a few months where I kissed other guys so he is my first but not only)and then we got back together and now its been 3 years.
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Why do women go crazy about a man who can play an instrument? Why not go crazy about a man who can mow the lawn?
If he can mow the lawn with his shirt off then hell ya id jump right on that too! hah just kidding (maybe)
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Do you tend to attract people with your looks or with your personality?
My looks: Im way too shy to show my personality right off the start
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Why are most people so extremely shallow when looking for a mate to date? Is it because of the nonsense media and society, or is it something else folks?
I think its cause its initial attraction that draws us into someone if we dont know anything about them. All we know is that they are good in the looks department. If you know nothing about someone and they are unnatractive, you probably wont have the desire to go meet them. On the contrary if you know this person and they may not be the best looking but they have a great personality, I think...
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Do you sleep with ex's? I ran into mine today, and I'm not sure what I want to do...
If you know nobody will get hurt from it. Example: if you or your ex have feelings still, that would cause some problems i think.
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My boyfriend is going out of town overnight and he messages a girl giving her his work cellphone number telling her to contact him so they can get together should I be concerned?
Was he keeping the message and this plan to meet up secret from you?
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Is just communicating with another person cheating? What if you have never even met her in real life?
It depends what you are talking about while communicating. If its on a deeper level it would definitly count as emotional cheating if it reaches a certain level.
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Isn't it wise to keep a platonic relationship secret from an extremely jealous wife who thinks everything is cheating, to avoid problems at home?
Keeping it a secret would makeit seem like you are doing something wrong. That would make it worse. Get together all 3 of you or in a group so she can get more comfortable with this person. If they can become friends too it would make the situation easier.
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How many times removed, can cousins legally get married?
You could marry your first cousin if you wanted to. Its very looked down apon as you can probably imagine though
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How many times a day do you talk to or call your GF/BF?
Usualy we talk at least once a day. It alternates who texts/calls first though.
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Guys: What is the best gift your girlfriend has ever givin you?
Beer of the month club!
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My dog just ate a grape that I dropped. It's just a normal everyday green grape that you buy at the grocery store. He only had one. Is that going to effect him in any way?
I heard grapes actualy arent good for dogs. Just one wont do anything though. They would probably have to eat a lot for any effects to occure
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Are you an only child??? What is it like?
Yes im the only child
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When did you realize your relationship had lost the 'falling in love' infatuation? Did it become something more or something less? Share:)x
The biggest difference i found was the need to see eachother all the time. It sucks though cause for me i still loved hanging out with my boyfriend but it wasnt as big of a deal to him if i was there or not. He got too comfortable before i was at that point and it caused problems
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Are you with the man/woman of your dreams?
I thought i was but im slowly figuring out that the person im with really isnt very good for me :(
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Who can make you laugh very easily?
My boyfriend and my dog louie. Hes a French Bulldog and does the funniest things!
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Would you date a Canadian?
Ya they have really HOT girls there
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Girls, how important is style to you in a potential bf? If a guy knows how to dress, is it a major turn on?
Its not the most important factor but i think its a bonus if he does. People have different ideas of what a good style is for them. For me i like them abercrombie and fitch boys ;)
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I hate when guys use the whole "ur so whipped" thing. Many guys i know are like "man ur so whipped" if one of thier friends does something nice for thier gfs.Anyone else have experiance with this/ know wut i mean?
Ya my guys are like this too. It seems like my boyfriend wont act really that great towards me infront of them cause they are so bad with this. Its like one night if he wants to just stay in and watch a movie with me, he is "so whipped". Since when was beingn nice to ur girlfriend being whipped?
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Why do some women think they have to dress sexy to be attractive?
All the girls in mens magazines and on tv that men seem to gawk at are dressed sexily(for the most part) so we think that is what makes us desirable to the opposite sex. If we feel we are desirable to the opposite sex, it makes us feel good about ourselves.
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Guys: How many times have you been in love? Do you believe there is only one true love for you?
I learnt in my psychology class that men are more likely then women to have beliefs that there is only one true love and report being in love less times then women have.Surprising hey! They also say men fall in love faster and women fall out of love faster.
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Blonde, Brunette or red head?
I like blonde girls. They seem to just catch my attention more. If i walk into a room there are always so many brunettes that the blond ones just stand out. They are not as commen as brunettes and therefor i like em!
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What similarities have you and your other half got?
We are both extreamly stubborn. It can really clash sometimes
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If you are a shy girl,what types of guys will often be attracted to you?
Im really shy and what i notice is its usualy the really loud and outgoing men that are attracted to me
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Why do girlfriends specifically say" give me your honest opinion" then get mad when you give it to them. we know you dont really want the truth. but how can you get mad when you get what you ask for?
We really do want your honest opinion but i think deep down we are expecting it to be what we want to hear. So when its not what we wanne hear we get a little choked about it.
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Should I care if my man isn't romantic? (I love to have romance in my life too)
Is there a way for them to become more romantic? Like maybe if you act romanitc they will sort of "learn" from your actions?
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Could you stay in a relationship knowing your not loved?, but otherwise have a good relationship?
If you really loved the person even though they didnt love you it would be hard to leave. I think it would be unhealthy to stay in though. They would do best if they left and found someone they love and who loves them back
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Can you name the person you love right now? just there first name
AJ
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Why does it seem like when you're single you can't find anyone, and then when you finally get in a relationship, all of a sudden you have a ton of people that want to date you too?
I think it has a lot to do with that "you only want what you cant have" thing. Its like your more appealing to them cause ur taken so they know they cant have you. ( that is if they know you are taken)If not you may just notice it more when us with someone cause you know urself that you cant have the other person since ur already with someone.
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My girl frend loves me but i dont completly love her i dont want to upset her but i want to brake up what should i do?
If you think you can eventualy love her then tell her that you dont just throw those words around and that you want her to know that when you do say them you truly do mean them. Cause you know how some ppl are, they will say it even when they dont mean it. How long have you been dating for though?
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I am 15 years old. We are never alone! I see her at school, and I take her to the movies and stuff, but we are never truly alone. Neither of our parents would leave us alone at each others houses. Im getting frustrated! Where can we go?
go canooing. It will be just the two of you out on a lake
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Girls what would you do if you found out your s/o was texting explict stuff to other girls?
for sure flip
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Is it cheating if a married man receives a lap dance?
I think of it this way: If this was some random naked woman at a party dancing naked on someones boyfriend, that would be cheating. Just cause they have the title or a "stripper" doesnt really make it any different. Its still a random naked woman dancing on ur boyfriend.
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What if your bf jus dumped u, and now callin u beautiful and says he wants to see you. and then the nxt day, he kinda blows u off.. guys help mw with this one. i really love this guy..
Seems like he just wants to have his cake and eat it too. Hes keeping you around on the back burner for when ur the last resort. Souns harsh I know but same thing happened to me. Its not fair to you at all!
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How do guys really behave on ther "boys nights"? ( This question is for guys in serious relationships and for any others opinions)
But do any of you ofen betrey your girlfriends in any way? whether it be flirting or other things?
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My boyfriend brokeup with me today because he's very unhappy with the way his life is. He told me that he doesn't want to hurt me. We were together for 3 years Now, has anybody broken up over something like this? what should i do?
He thinks the grass will be greener on the other side, which is not always the case. If he realizes this he will come crawling back and you can decide if you want him or not.
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If an ex dumps you and says they are not inlove anymore. But is constantly texting saying they still care and dont want to lose you. What would you say?
Exactly the same situation i was in. Not fair to you. You have alredy lost that person because they dont love you anymore. They are enabeling you from letting go by giving you a false sense of hope. Just in case being without you is not what they had invisioned, they want you there just incase they want to come back.
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After 2 months of break up, she sends me txt asking if i want her to keep her distance or can we talk again? it was her choice to break up, does she want me back or does she just miss me ? i told her to leave me alone, now its doing my head in again!
She may have found that the grass was not greener on the other side and is regretting her decision to break up with you.
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Does the thought of your recent ex being with someone else drive you completely crazy?
We just broke up this week so it would be unbearable. Dont even want to think about it
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Is there a good way to break up?
Dont drag it on longer than you want. Dont do cruel thngs to try to get the person to break up with you. Dont pull the whole "break/space" crap becuase even though that person will be crushed by hearing that, it will give them a false sense of hope that the relationship will continue once you have had your space. Be straight up and honest and keep the persons feelings in mind to. This...
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To people who have been through a breakup, who do you think feels more sorry the breaker or the breakee?
It depends on the situation. If the breaker broke up because of something the breakee did then i think the breakee would feel more sorry about it. If the breaker broke up because they just didnt want it anymore er something i think they would feel more sorry for breking the one they loves heart ( if there was love to begin with) Thats my situation. Im the breakee and im in part wrong and feel...
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Have you ever stayed/got back together with someone who has broken your heart?
I am really wanting to get back together with someone who has really broken my heart. Its funny how I still want to be with someone even though they hurt me so bad.
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What would you do to win your significant other back over after they 'feel' like they have been lied to and have become so stressed out over other things they just want you to leave them alone? (This has nothing to do with cheating)
This is so wierd because im in the same situation with my boyfriend. He feels that way about me and says that I will never be able to convince him that I will change. It has to do with me bringing up past problems and always relying on him. He broke up with me and i can say that i really have changed from it but he says its too late. I think with enough time though he may come around. Maybe in...
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How can my boyfriend of 3 yrs just break up with me and then immediately after be cool with being friends? Does that mean he has no more feelings for me so is comfortable enough to just be friends or could he still have feelings?
Sometime when a guy breaks up with a girl, they are already emotionaly detached from that person long before they decide to make the break. They already went through the emotional grieving part silently while in the relationship so once they break it off they are alredy at the point where they are cool with just being friends. I wish there were a way for you to know for sure if this is the case...
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What are some good break up songs to listen to that will make me feel better and not cry?
Silly Boy by rhianna and lady gaga, its about being taken for granted and the person wanting you back. the lyrics are good and so is the music.
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How can my boyfriend of 3 yrs just break up with me and then immediately after be cool with being friends? Does that mean he has no more feelings for me so is comfortable enough to just be friends or could he still have feelings?
Just a side note: I still have feelings for him and want to be with him so its just too hard to act as only friends right now when i want to be more then that.Maybe he is just acting this way out of habit but im just not sure. I hope he still has feelings but im starting to think that its because he relly is okay with being just friends and nothing more. Its just so weird though cause it was...