Answer to:
When you are attracted to someone, do you tell them or just ask them out? I don't have the luxury of doing either one. I'm gay and live/work in an area where the few gay men I meet are either taken or closeted. Expressing such an interest in the wrong man could prove to be dangerous for me. I'll be glad when our society gets past that.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
How do I let my gay friend know that I'm interested? Since each of you knows the other is gay, and you're already friends, just telling him honestly that you are interested in exploring the possibility of a deeper relationship may work quite well. But it sounds like you may experiencing some fear of rejection. If that's the case, just drop little hints here and there. Greet him with a kiss (when appropriate); touch his forearm occasionally...

Answer to:
Do you find real-life "yaoi" type guys attractive? Ie, small waist, broad shoulders, thin build with a little bit of muscle, and pretty faces. Oh yes, yes, yes!

Answer to:
what signifies power in a relationship or in a person to you? For me its size, whats it to you? Character

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Are you aware that you are taking the wrong path while you are on it or only after you reach your destination? Happy Sunday, Rosie! It seems to me that a supposed "wrong path" that gets me to my destination isn't really "wrong," but merely an alternative path.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Would you watch American Idol if Howard Stern was a judge? Probably not. However, I'd give it a couple of looks to see if he is capable of behaving himself, then make a decision. I hope AI producers are intelligent enough to get someone with musical experience and expertise. (I was surprised when they chose Ellen because of her lack of such experience, but she has surprised me with her insight and knowledge. I sometimes wonder if someone is feeding...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Would you watch American Idol if Howard Stern was a judge? Probably not. However, I'd give it a couple of looks to see if he is capable of behaving himself before making a final decision. I hope AI producers are intelligent enough to avoid someone that controversial and to get someone with musical experience and expertise. (I was surprised when they chose Ellen because of her lack of such experience, but she has surprised me with her insight and...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Optimists look for/expect good and pessimists look for/expect not so good. Why would anyone want to be a pessimist? Happy New Year, Rosie, madear! I see pessimism not as something people want to be, but as a result of a jaded growth process. When one is disappointed often enough, he naturally begins to expect to be disappointed, and, wallah, a pessimist is born.

Answer to:
Who will win the NFL Super Bowl XLIV (2010)? Who Dat?

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Would you be OK on your own or do you need to be in a relationship with someone? I would LOVE to be on my own for a while.

Answer to:
Chicken wings have always been my favorite part of a chicken. What's yours? I'm a leg and thigh man.

Answer to:
How easy is it for you to admit you were wrong, off base, mistaken, misguided? Do you own up to it or hope you can avoid it? It's pretty easy when you've had as much practice at it as I have! Happy Sunday, Rosie!

Answer to:
I understand liking those who think as you do better than those who don't. How much better? Is it "them-us" and you have no use for them? My best female friend is my future ex-wife (fxw). We obviously don't see eye-to-eye on enough things to keep us together. My best male friend is an atheist, while I'm a Christian. My "pendulum" swung from wanting to convert him to wanting to run away as fast and far as possible. I've chosen to be his friend and live my life before him, letting him glean what he may from that. I truly...

Answer to:
Will you be working on Christmas Eve? If you are, what time do you finish at? Share your answer...

Answer to:
Among your family/friends group, are you a leader or part of the pack? Do you comply with whatever "the leader" decides without question? I'm the youngest of three children in my family, and both of my siblings have always been very strong. So I learned early to fall in line. I don't really like being a leader in most circumstances, because I'm generally too concerned about what other people think, how they will respond, or how they will be effected. I don't necessarily comply without question, but I don't want to assume...

Answer to:
If someone ignores you for a very long time and then suddenly shows concern for you, do you buy it or discount it? Neither, at first. However, the attention is suspect until it proves to be genuine, and will be discounted if it proves to be more self-serving than helpful.

Answer to:
When is the best time to let a girl know you "love" her if she has a boyfriend? Six to twelve months after she stops dating him and starts dating you - unless you have an established history.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
When is the best time to let a girl know you "love" her if she has a boyfriend? Sorry - extra click

Answer to:
Which of these you think guys is hotter? Guy A is hotter, but guy B looks more trustworthy. Actually, I wouldn't be surprised to learn that they are the same guy - just different times, clothing and poses.

Answer to:
Does a girlfriend have the right to forbid her boyfriend from watching pornography? She hasn't the right either to forbid or demand anything. She has control only of her own actions. She has the right to make her feelings known, and then to stop seeing him if he insists on watching pornography.

Answer to:
Are you able to ignore character and just focus on a person's accomplishments? That depends on the person's position. For example, in a sports figure, accomplishments count while character is none of my business; but in a minister or elected official, character outweighs anything else. I know that my answer sounds "black and white," but I acknowledge that there are numerous shades of gray.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Is there any movie you've seen many times that always picks you up, perks you up and lifts you up? I have two: "Beautiful Thing," which has a wonderful Mamas and Poppas soundtrack; "Harold and Maude," which has an awesome Cat Stevens soundtrack. And, yes, the movies themselves are good, too.

Answer to:
Are you easily able to detach yourself from things/people that no longer work for you or do you cling to what used to be? There are a few relationships that I remember fondly and regret losing. I'd even like to rekindle some of them if I had the opportunity. So one might say that I cling to these people in my mind, but when it was over for them, I cut my losses and let them go.

Answer to:
Have you ever eaten an entire chicken alone? Was it cooked? Eating chicken is illegal in my state...no matter how hot he is.

Answer to:
Why is bisexuality not widely accepted by the homosexual community? Tigueron makes a good point with the statement "...you have to make a choice in order to make a commitment." There is a lot of competition in the dating world. Concerning any one person, most of us feel that there it is bad enough that we have to compete with "everyone" of one gender. If that person is bi-sexual, we have to compete with "everyone" of BOTH genders. And that leads to twice...

Answer to:
Do gay people have rainbow poop? Yes! And you should smell it...uummmm...sweet as fruit punch!

Answer to:
Do you think that the asker should be pts-paid, if they can select the best answer for past Question's from their date? What in the world are you talking about?

Answer to:
How can I forget a childhood nightmare or memory? I cant stop thinking about a story I read once and a recurring nightmare I once had.Why? I think that working through the cause and effect issues involved would be helpful. The best way to do this is with therapy. A therapist can help you discover why the story bothered you so much in the first place and help you deal with the issues it stirred up. S/He can also help you uncover the basis of the nightmare and the cause of its recurrence. If therapy is not an option, you might...

Answer to:
How successful are you at figuring things out? Does complexity turn you off or challenge you? I do feel challenged by complexity, and sometimes spend too much time trying to figure things out. What I don't handle well is a combination of complexity and pressure, like when someone is standing over me or when I have a time deadline.

Answer to:
Just gave my 16 year old son a 4 min .ass whipping with my belt, came home from work and found him and his girlfriend in our house, both just about naked together in a tight embrace kissing. I sent her home and let the belt fly across his ass. was I right How did you get him to be still for a 4 min. whipping? Did you tie him down, sit on him, hold him over your knee? Was he bare-ass? Did he try to get away, or have you instilled such fear in him that he just succumbed to his beating? Was his ass the ONLY place you struck on his body, or did the belt land anywhere it could make contact while your flesh and blood tried to escape your wrath? ...

Answer to:
Did you have a "thing" for a famous person when you were young, and if so, who? Olivia Newton-John. I swooned every time I heard "I Honestly Love You."

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Who out there is very confused and unhappy with the new Answerbag? What's going on?!!!! Well, I'm not exactly thrilled, so far.

Answer to:
ABer's are you giving any "thumbs up" or are you ignoring that option? I've ignored it until now, but I started using it on your question. Any idea yet on what good it does?

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
AB please bring back "edit" quickly! Anyone else agree? I agree wholeheartedly!

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
i need to move further away from home in order to continue farther education...this is wrong grmatically may i know wat is wrong in it???? Yes, its wrong...on sooo many levels. "I need to move farther away from home in order to further my education" would be better for the statement in question. As for the rest, "This sentence is grammatically incorrect. Would you kindly tell me what is wrong with it?"

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Why is the new AnswerBag like sex? I don't get it.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Do you find the new AB user friendly and easier to navigate ? Old AB wasn't perfect, but its the AB I fell in love with. I like some of the "additions" but I'm lost; right now it seems more difficult to navigate. It will have to "grow on me" before I can say I like it.

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
In addition to keeping track of your AB Friends, do you track other AB members as well? Do the non-friends track you back? I tried tracking a "non-AB-friend" for a while. It became difficult to find him sometimes, so I finally sent him a friend request. He accepted, so it's a lot easier now.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
If you changed your AB name to "NO ONE," then wouldn't you automatically be credited for answering every single question FIRST, when it says, "NO ONE has answered this question yet?" Mensan, sometimes you make my head hurt. And I love it. In the case of unanswered questions, it could be said that everyone is no one, no one is anyone, anyone is someone, and someone will finally answer that question. And besides that, I don't give points to No One!

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
Some people think they are "something special"....are they? Oh, they're special alright: a legend in their own minds. :-)

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
I'm trying to stop jacking off.. but sometimes i find myself unconsciously rubbing my peepee.. How to stop this... Try wrapping barbed wire around your hands.

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
When you drink alcohol do you drink to be socialable or do you drink to get drunk? Yes! Unless I'm driving, then only to be sociable because sometimes I need the help to be "socialable."

Answer to:
Can you separate romantic and sexual interests? Only if the sex is a one-time thing. I tend to start feeling romantic toward guys I see more than once. Not always true, but more often than not.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Should I go to the gym right now, or go for bike ride, or jog... or just continue to sit? Jog to the gym and sit on a bike there.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
When I'm reading over ABer's questions, sometimes I read just enough to know that it is a type of question I don't care for and skip to the next one. What kind of questions do you skip over? .

Answer to:
IF You Take Your Time To Answer Someone's Question On A/B ; Should They Take the Time To Give You POINTS? Yes, just as one should give points to a question he feels is worth answering.

Answer to:
If you really really want someone to like you and all they do is ignore you and treat you like crap despite your effort, how do you get over it? Just imagine how miserable you'd feel if you were the kind of person someone that cruel did like.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
A friend says I have a boring screen name. What do you think? .

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
How do can I find work and an apartment in another State, Nebraska, when I don't live there yet? You answered your own question by asking it on the internet. You can look for work and an apartment right on-line - some apartments even offer virtual tours. Good luck - hope you find just the right thing for you.

Answer to:
HELP! I need a 'white elephant' gift for a Holiday party this week! I've been looking and looking and can't find a white elephant! Do you know where I can find one? (humor intended!) Sorry, but I have no idea what a white elephant would want for Christmas. Maybe a bag of peanuts?

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
My rents think Im sad cause i have bad grades, i have bad grades cause I cant concentrate, and I cant concentrate cause I dont really eat much or "sleep enough" (actually sleep more, but always tired). Really, its the other way around What should I say? Sounds like a combination of depression and Attention Deficit Disorder to me. You should talk to your doctor.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What do you do when you are the only one at home? Things I wouldn't want anyone else to know about, teeheehee.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What should you be getting done right now but your playing on your computer instead? I should be cleaning up the clutter heap I live in.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Do you think it is appropriate to "scold" other AB members for not responding quickly enough to suit you? I think it is very rude. Since you have no idea what someone's personal life is like, why would you scold anyone for something like that? Would you? It does seem very much inappropriate. Each of us should realize the there is life outside of AnswerBag. But its the idea of "scolding" that makes it offensive. There may be a circumstance in which a person feels a "need" for a prompt response (perhaps they're in a crisis, or wanting us to do their homework for them). That would not give one the right to scold, but...

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Will someone please explain to me the "logic" (or lack of same) that went into the creation of this toy in 1987? I'll be damned if I can figure it out! [See the LINK below this question, when it shows up.] Thinker may have the right idea. That mouth might be useful if its pliable. Knowuddamean?

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
My wife and I have separated, but remain married for the sake of the insurance. What keeps you and your s/o together? Oops! Should have been a comment. Why do I keep doing that?

Answer to:
Do your wants outnumber your needs? If you accept the idea that we have only two needs, i.e., shelter and sustenance, then yes, wants definitely outnumber needs. The problem we have is that our wants beget "perceived" needs which, in turn, beget more "perceived" needs. The process repeats itself until we feel we have only one want left: we want our needs to be met.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What's your favorite nonsensical or "screwed-up" adage? Mine is, "A rolling stone makes Jack a dull boy." Comedian Stan Laurel once cracked, "You can lead a horse to water, but a pencil must be lead." So what's yours, if any? "There's no adage like an old adage." "Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can hurt forever." "Early to bed and early to rise, makes a man healthy, wealthy and wise" but "Late to bed and early to rise really isn't very wise." "If its not one thing, its your mother." "I'm so far behind I'm...

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
How often do you feel as if you are the Star of the Show and how often do you feel you're in the back in the chorus and no one notices you at all? I take different roles in different shows.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Do you think you are an effective communicator or do you have to explain yourself all the time to everyone? Sometimes I think I have to explain myself, only to be told "I knew what you meant."

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
There are two trays in front of you...you can only choose from one. A tray loaded with "doughnut holes" and a tray loaded with regular doughnuts. Which do you choose? The ones that are complete or the ones that are missing something? Well, you know, holes have no fat or calories, so I'd go for those. ;-)

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
What is your opinion of the Episcopal/Anglican news story? [Please see the LINK below this question, when it becomes visible.] http://www.rte.ie/news/2009/1206/anglican.html A second step in the right direction.

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
Could it be possible that you are liked/ loved by more people than you think you are? I'd certainly like to think so!

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
Doesn't it just grind your gears when an obviously gay man introduces you to his WIFE -- with a straight face? It may make me roll my eyes and snicker a bit, but I wouldn't say it grinds my gears. And of course I feel sorry for her.

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
How can I help my wife be less jealous of my boyfriend? My wife has a boyfriend, but I don't. I'll just have to keep looking, I guess.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What don't your parents like about your significant otter? Otters are cute and cuddly looking, but don't really make good pets. So, no matter how significant he is to me, they think I should let him go.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
This has GOT to be totally INSANE! Can you believe that this "Laptop computer desk" is being offered for sale on Amazon.com? What could they have been thinking? And with WHAT were they thinking? Can you say "tofu for brains"?

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Could you fall for this? [see link] My Dad fell for it. He worked for the same company for 45 years. He never did get "rich-rich," and he's going to die broke. I fell for it in my younger years, working as many as 10 years for the same company. Now I know better: "get rich slow" doesn't work any better than "get rich quick." Looks like I'm gonna follow in the old man's...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Want a donut burger? [see link] Looks like the perfect brunch to me! You get breakfast food, lunch food and dessert all in one "sammich." You asked "pouncey" if she wants fries with that. Fries are bad for you, man. Make it sweet-tater fries, instead. :-)

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Aren't stereotypes pretty much true - generally but not absolutely? They had to start somewhere; some factual basis must have existed in somebody's mind some time.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
If 3 people stayed in a motel that cost $30 @$10 each but the room was only $25.$5 was given to bell boy to return but kept $2 for himself.3 people got a $1 change each.where is the missing $ room $25 3 x 9 = $27, boy kept $2 = $29 $30 (Paid) - $3 (Refund) = $27 (Total) - $2 (Tip) = $25 (Room Charge) OR $25 (Room Charge) + $2 (Tip) = $27 (Total) + $3 (Change) = $30 (Paid) ____ Either way, the total room cost was $27.00, $9.00 per person.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Christians:In the bible it says God rested on the seventh day(Sunday) so why is Sunday the beginning of the week instead of the last? Yes, God rested on the seventh "day." No, the seventh day wasn't Sunday, but Saturday. I Hebrew tradition, the Sabbath (day of rest) began at sundown on Friday and lasted until sundown on Saturday. The Christian day of worship was changed from Sabbath to Sunday (the first day of the week) to commemorate the day of the week on which it was discovered that Christ had risen from...

Answer to:
What will you do if your friend insults you from behind?. Turn around and suggest he insult me to my face.

Answer to:
What have you done about which you now say "Never again"? Oops! What I originally typed was supposed to be a comment, not an answer.

Answer to:
Do you avoid conflicts or thrive on them? I tend to avoid conflict unless I sense a real need to take a stand.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Do you ever wonder if animals have thoughts? Or whether they just act on instinct? I often "assign" thoughts to my li'l dog based on his actions or the look on his face. His actions and facial expressions seem so "determined" that it's hard to believe that he isn't thinking. Yet, sadly, I think its mostly just instinct.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Is the solution to a problem always ahead of you or do you sometimes have to retrace your steps to resolve things? The short answer is "yes." It's often necessary to retrace one's steps to resolve a problem, but, because the act of retracing is yet to be done, the solution is still ahead of you.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Have you ever been "talked into" admitting something that wasn't really true? I've had a few friends whose verbal skills were so good that the could sound right, even when they were totally wrong. Sometimes this has made me question my own position, but more often has resulted in me saying I'm wrong just to end the argument. I hate doing that, but I hate arguing more. Happy Tuesday to you, too, Rosie, m'dear.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Are you too scared to call in sick? I'm afraid of not being believed. Thus, I've all too often gone into work sick, then either left early or called in the next day (or both). These days, especially, going to work sick isn't a good idea.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Is it okay to call some place to ask if they are hiring, before I go in and apply for a job? Or should I go in anyway and fill out an application regardless? If you're wanting to get hired fast to do a job you don't particularly have to enjoy, calling will suffice. But you will get a lot of "no" answers. On the other hand, a place that is not hiring when you call them today may begin hiring in the near future. It's better to have your application on file with them so that they can review it when they do start hiring than...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Do you think truth, honor, fidelity and morality are character traits of losers or winners? Even those who practice truth, honor, fidelity and morality will lose an occasional battle, but they will eventually win the war.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Tell the truth, folks: Have YOU ever opened up a glove compartment on ANY car, and actually found GLOVES inside? (I did, but only ONCE in my lifetime.) [The LINK shows what a US Customs inspector found in one.] I used to keep gloves in my glove compartment. But, of course, I wear them only in winter and grew to dislike putting them on when they were so cold. Now I keep them in my jacket pocket.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Why was "bail" invented? Good question, zender. I wonder - just wonder - if enough judges were being bribed that they decided t legalize it and call it "bail."

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Can you give an example of something that was "improved" and became worse, not better in your opinion? Remember "New Coke"? It was so bad they had to bring back the "old" Coke and call it "Coca-Cola Classic."

| 7 people like this

Answer to:
Which is worse for you...not being believed when you've told the truth or not believing someone whom you found out later was telling the truth? Well, both are bad, to be sure. When I disbelieve someone whom I later find to have been truthful, I feel terrible, of course, but I can apologize and ask for forgiveness and, it is hoped, make things right. But when I'm not believed even when telling the truth, then it feeds into my self esteem issues and really gets me down. Then, unfortunately, it takes more than getting an apology...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
I'm not making light of the tragedy in Parkland WA, but I am curious about something, and this is asked seriously: Until you read about this horrible nightmare, how many of you had never before seen (nor known about) the word, "BARISTA?" I thought I was just going to train in the bookstore cafe so I could help out when needed. Little did I know that I was becoming a barista. I went on to manage that cafe. Never again.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Are there things you should never say or do to a friend or does anything go? I hope that I will never say anything to a friend that will make him doubt the depth or sincerity of my friendship.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Excluding those that are harmful to you or other people, there are many paths in life and I don't think we should try to pull others from their path to walk ours, do you? I think that there are as many paths as there are people. Were I to succeed in pulling someone else onto my path, I'd thereby be forcing myself off of my path. Then where would I be? Now I also believe that we are responsible for trying to influence certain people near us to choose a path leading in the "right" direction, but we cannot, nor should we attempt, to...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Was it important for you to belong to a "clique" when you were in high school. I was in the "clique" of kids not allowed in any of the other "cliques."

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Have you ever been sued? Or do you know someone who has? I was once "named" in a lawsuit, but the company involved took care of everything. But no, I haven't been sued personally.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Do you think that there are too many laws these days? Wouldn't thinks be better if people were taught to use common sense more? Yes, things would be better if people used common sense more. But if you can't legislate common sense, I guess you can't expect people to come up with it on their own.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
After witnessing the debauchery of Adam Lambert's disgusting performance is it any wonder why people think homosexuals are immoral? What was so debaucherous about Adam Lambert's performance? So he kissed a guy. Two women kiss and nothing is said. Two guys kiss and all hell breaks loose. This is the penultimate bigotry. Don't think that because you feel that you have a moral or biblical basis for your belief that it isn't bigotry. It is. . Maybe you should have provided a link to the performance so...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
WHAT IS 6 MILLION DIVIDED BY ONE HUNDRED? 60,000. Don't you have a calculator - or a pencil?

Answer to:
Am in a financial crisis right now almost failing to pay house rent,school dues home expenses etc.Is there any one who can help me in this financial crisis? Only by offering advice. Get a job, or a second job if you're currently "under-employed."

Answer to:
Can you deal with brutal honesty? I can deal with honesty. But I'll handle it much better if it is presented with love and compassion rather than brutality.

Answer to:
What would u spend a billion dollars on? Nothing. I'll never have a billion dollars.

Answer to:
This is a riddle who ever gets it right gets points and ill rate all there questions and answers up as much as i can ok? the woods that are near your place how far can you walk into them? remember its a riddle... Half-way. After that, you're on the way out.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
All non-Christians are fools, for they deny the existence of the Biblical God (Pslam 14:1). What do you think? I think you alienate more than you win with attitudes like that.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
What would u do if we were being invaded by giant lobsters? Start melting the butter!

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What are four things in your life when it break does not make noise? My heart, my will, my spirit, the bank.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What is your favorite "unorthodox" Xmas tune? A couple of mine are embedded or linked. Attach some of your "non-traditional" ones for us non-Christians in your answer, OK? A Must Hear, every yea,r for New Orleanians everywhere' "The 12 Yats of Christmas." . http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=57niI8NPvkA&feature=related

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What is your favourite bird? Give your reason why. Among others, one of my current favorites is the Atlantic Puffin. Its cute, a bit strange, and beautiful all at the same time. I'm even thinking of changing my avatar to this picture.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
The average American man spends $20 a year on _________? Deodorant

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
"Ebenezer Scrooge" is alive, standing in front of you and says, "Xmas? Bah! Humbug!" So, how do ya respond to that? What would be YOUR "comeback" line to the old fart? How funny! That's just what everybody else says about Ebenezer Scrooge!

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
How frequently do you mylenate your terminal buton? Every time I read one of your questions!

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What mountains have you climbed? The mountain of Self Acceptance

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
If a man got gang raped by other guys while walking down the wrong street and you found out would you look at him the same? Also women consider if it was your boyfriend or husband. Boyfriends, husbands, even parents often look differently at women who have been raped. All too many people suspect that a woman "deserved" it because of the way she dressed or the way she acted. All too many people accuse a female rape victim of lying about the attack in order to cover up some consensual encounter. It's all despicable. So it is understandable that some would...

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Have you ever thought of any of your parents during masturbation? Eew! Yuck! Only that they might "catch" me. Other than that, eew! Yuck!

Answer to:
I'm in my 7th grade and there's a boy who i talk to and were like really good friends but i dont know i he's my friend or do i have another felling for him? Welcome to AnswerBag, sweetie. Please allow me to give you three bits of advice that I hope will serve you well. 1) Treat him as a friend for now. If stronger feelings are there, they will develop over time. And you have plenty of time. 2) Concentrate more on your spelling and other writing skills than on boys. The time will come when you will be glad you did. Boys will come and go, but...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
On the TV ad's for VW cars they say Das Auto what does das mean "Das" is German for "the."

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Do you always know exactly why you think or feel the way you do about things? If someone were to ask you to explain why, could you? Sometimes, but not always. I have a friend who challenges me when I can't (he thinks won't) defend my thoughts or feelings. Drives me nuts. (But that's a short trip already.)

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
How do you determine that your s/o is spending too much time with his/her friends? Where do you draw the line? My ex drew the line at my having friends in the first place.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
"Boss"...."bossy". Funny. I haven't had many "bossy" bosses, have you? I have had supervisors who were guiding me and training me and reviewing my work and very helpful to me but "bossy"? Not so much. Wonder how boss turned into bossy? What do you think? Pure speculation: "bossy" was an accurate adjective form of "boss" early on when "boss" referred to the head honcho of a group of slaves or other laborers conscripted into service. They had to rule with an iron fist or they'd loose their workforce.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Name something that human beings can experience, that Gawd CANNOT experience. Do you have any idea what it might be? And yes, there are probably SEVERAL answers to this. (I know of at least TWO, and I'll give my response on the evening of 11-28-09.) Sin, and the temptation to sin.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
What did the alien say to the cow? "Are you the one we seek, or should we find an udder?" Or maybe "Are you the one we seek, or should we find anudder udder?"

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Do you think the linked question should have been rejected? It was placed in the HUMOR category, and was, in fact, humorously intended. At first read I thought it pretty non-sensical, but not really worthy of rejection. Then I noticed that it is currently active, so I gave it some points and an answer!

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Hi my name is Candy (sweet as hehehe!) I'm 16, yes way I know sooooo old right! A big birdy flew past my window last night, yeah as if!! My mommy said it was a stork. Does this mean I'm pregnant? Coz if I am like I can totally live with that hehehehe!!! Pleeease let me know when you're sure. I want to be your agent/manager!

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Do you think most people feel lucky to have "escaped" their childhood? Or do believe most of us have very good memories of those times? I'm somewhere in between those two. I don't remember anything particularly bad happening to me in my childhood. But then, I remember precious little of my childhood.

Answer to:
Why do some christians object to Harry Potter and Frosty the Snowman? These stories demonstrate magical powers in an obvious fictional context. It is the Xtians who put forth their magical stories as fact! I've never heard of anyone having a problem with Frosty the Snowman. A reason that some Christians dislike Harry Potter is not so much that they have a problem with the fictional context, but that it may influence some young people to seek similar special powers, which may lead them to follow the occult or become Satanists, and so forth. They believe that the only spiritual powers worth...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Do you like gentle people? Are you one of them? Yes, and Yes. Those who can't be gentle irritate me, and I can't imagine myself as being anything but gentle - unless I get really, really irritated.

| 4 people like this

Answer to:
Why do so many people incorrectly write/say "PROLLY," instead of the proper/correct "PROBABLY?" Are they lazy, or do they have a speech impediment that prevents the correct pronunciation from being used? In informal speaking, I usually say "probly." But I know the difference and when it is and isn't acceptable. An English professor of mine used to say "You must demonstrate that you have learned the rules before you can earn the right to break them." In most of my writing, when doing public speaking, or conversing with customers, etc, I "probably" speak with...

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
I've searched the internet for a long time and I just simply want to see 'The Big Bang Theory' stated in a paragraph like an actual theory. Not a timeline, history, or overview of it. Is there anyone who knows where to find the actual theory stated? Sorry I can't really help with your question but, to introduce a little lightheartedness, I once heard someone summarize the Big Bang Theory as "God said it and BANG - it happened."

Answer to:
If an alcoholic is going to visit should I remove all alcohol from the home? Depends. Is he in recovery? If so, for how long? If he's been in recovery long enough to set limits and establish strength in his resolve, it probably isn't necessary to remove the alcohol from your home. In other words, "Remove the temptation; but if its no longer a temptation..." If he is not in recovery, then removing the temptation is a VERY good idea if he's...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Loss of appitite, boating and your poo is greenish sometime floating Perhaps you should not be boating at a time like this. . You have attempted to answer the question "What are your symptoms?" but you have not POSED a question. Care to try again? . Welcome to AnswerBag, Astoria. Hope you like it here, and remember to phrase your questions as questions; otherwise they risk deletion by Big Brother (haha).

Answer to:
What do you say when your s/o ask you what you want for Christmas? "Surprise me" "Nothing" "Just to be with you" and other answers that lead to disappointment, eh?

Answer to:
Is there any theory that states that matter is made of tightly woven particles/waves of energy? Yes. I think its called "The TehKewlGuy Theory."

Answer to:
How come whatever futility happens USA people calls the cops? Where I live in the EU most people don't do that unless there is real monetary or actual bodily damage. Not for stupidities like (SEE LINK) Also the police wouldn't charge, you'd get a warning. Your link is an article from the nzherald - in New Zealand which, at last check, is not a part of the United States. That doesn't mean there is no validity to your point of view, but perhaps you'd like to find a better example. . Americans are encouraged to call the police to handle matters that may escalate into property damage or bodily image BEFORE it gets that far.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
How would you read to a test? The same way you would read to a child. At least be in the same room, and read out loud. There is a problem, though: the test can't hear. :) :) :) Welcome to Answerbag!

Answer to:
Problems of culture I see that you just joined AB today. Welcome! Your questions are supposed to be worded as questions. This one ("Problems of culture") isn't even a statement. It's more like a chapter title in some sociology book. This type of thing sometimes gets deleted as "nonsense." You might consider rephrasing it so that it is a) a question and b) limited in scope so...

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
WHAT DO YOU THINK OF HUMAN BEINGS? Some of my best friends are human beings!

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
The screen turns dark after starting a game on my psp It means you're spending too much time on PSP and not enough time on AsnwerBag. (Your question is supposed to be a question, not a statement.) Welcome, by the way!

Answer to:
Do you like buttons, zippers, snaps or ties? I'm a "buttons and bows" kind of guy, myself. ;)

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
My bf keeps walking past girls and says theyre fit. even when hes on the phone to me he says stuff like "i walked past these 2 girls they were proper fit" it really annoys me and offends me too. how can i make him stop? im not jealous its jst aggravating Show him this question and tell him it's yours. Or you could pretend it isn't yours and ask him what he thinks about it, followed by a calm expression of your own feelings. The point is that if you don't tell him how you feel, he won't know there is a need to stop. As a typical man, he's clueless, you know.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Sometimes I embelish quite a bit when relating a story to friends. Is that wrong? Not necessarily, if you're trying to make a point, or practicing for a stand-p comic career. The important thing is that you remember the un-embellished truth and not start to believe the "lie."

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What causes old people smell? (And don't say poor hygiene!) I think its the steady build-up over the years of Ben-Gay, Aspircream and Dove soap.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
How do like your ice cream, frozen solid or on the edge of melting? Somewhere in between, but closer to melting.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Where do you long to be? Why? There are two "places" I long to be. Most immediately, I long to be alone. I've been "responsible" for other people for so long, even though the "relationships" as they were have long been dead. I feel ready to be responsible only for myself for a while. After I've been alone long enough, I long to be in the presence, i.e., in the arms of my future...

Answer to:
Why is it that everytime I ask for a french vanilla cappucino at a fancy coffee shop, they say "french vanilla latte"? Are they the same? The drink doesn't taste the same... but the fancy shops always give me a latte... why? The difference between a cappuccino and a latte is the amount of foam (from the steamed milk). The latte has about 1/4-1/2 inch on top, while a cappuccino has quite a bit more. Timing and temperature are very important in making a cappuccino, and adding a flavoring would interrupt the process. Also, mixing the flavoring into a cappuccino would remove the air from the foam, turning the drink...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Do you solve Soduku games on paper or totally in your mind only no matter how hard the game? I've never heard of anybody solving a Sudoku puzzle entirely in their minds. How could you even do that? And how could you tell if you were correct?

Answer to:
I have a lousy hand in guitar rhythm. can anyone suggest me a better way to learn rhythm? Try using a metronome.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
I am looking for a new career I would like to help people with their lives. Can you give me a few ideas? Helping others is a very commendable goal. I commend you for it! Just a few ideas off the top of my head: Anything medical Psychologist Social Worker Financial Counselor Call center specializing in suicide prevention, domestic violence counseling or intervention, etc. Teacher/Guidance Counselor Massage Therapist Best wishes in your decision-making.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Whenever I study I feel drowsy and sleepy? what should i do? First, be sure you get enough sleep at night. Then, before you start studying, do something stimulating, like jogging or jumping jacks. Getting your heart rate up a bit helps overcome the sleepys. If you get tired later during your study time, don't take a nap, but get up an get that heart rate up again.

Answer to:
When paying bills online, do you elect the paperless option? Only if the site will allow me to schedule my payment in advance. Otherwise, I tend to forget to pay it. I could print a copy of my bill, but I'd rather they pay the printing cost than to bear that myself. Yes, I'm more cheap than green.

Answer to:
Anyone here with any experience of Xanax for stress and/or panic attacks? My doctor gave me a prescription with the ominous advice: "fill this only if you ABSOLUTELY HAVE to". If that's all your doctor said, with no guidelines about what constitutes "absolutely have to," then I'd get a second opinion before taking the medication. For that particular drug, you might consider a psychiatrist or medical psychologist.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
If you wear glasses how far down the chart can you read with out them? For me, the chart is one big blur.

Answer to:
If you wear glasses and they really strong would you get weaker glasses and wear weaker contact lenses No. Either one is a hassle. Both would be twice the hassle. But... if you need contacts for distance and glasses for reading, or something like that, it might be worth considering.

Answer to:
Have you ever thought you were nice, only to find you were nasty? I've been nice and misunderstood as being nasty, especially here on AB. I've also been nice until my buttons were pushed, then became nasty. But actually being nasty when I thought I was being nice? No, I don't think so.

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
Have you ever thought you were nice, only to find you were nasty? I've been nice and misunderstood as being nasty, especially here on AB. I've also been nice until my buttons were pushed, then became nasty. But actually being nasty when I thought I was being nice? No, I don't think so. Oops! Looks like I accidentally double-posted this answer. Sorry about that.

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
Is there any type of hair that cannot be roller set? Very short hair. :)

Answer to:
What is the best method for moistening turkey? I heard on tv this week that you can marinate it in salt water for 24 hours. Too late for today's TG dinner, and I don't know how much salt to put in the water, so this probably isn't very helpful. Sorry, but I try.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Would you remain a loyal member of a church that preaches against scientific medicine which you know sustains your life? Interesting question, flame. I'm curious about what prompted it. If I were a member of a such a church, then I probably wouldn't have utilized the scientific medicine (and may not be here to remain a loyal member). And If I were utilizing scientific medicine to sustain my life, I probably wouldn't darken the door of such a church. My bias against such doctrines is probably...

Answer to:
How do i find people without paying for it Good question. I'll be watching for better answers than this one.

Answer to:
Guys...No erection without ___________(fill the blank) Viagravation (sadly)

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
If you pour bags of cement mix into a pool full of water will it set up? If so, how much mix would it take for an average pool? 4857 is my best guess.

Answer to:
What law do you most often break? Speed limits.

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
What do you have in excess? Stomach mass.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Do you ever answer questions with more questions? Were you able to do this for some time before the other person caught on to what you were doing? Why? Have you? Did you get caught? :)

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Is evolution a loud of crap is there the slightest bit of hard evidence for it (please don`t use the bone in the eye excuse)? Well, them that sling it are certainly "loud" about it.

Answer to:
I need to know everything about imperialism in the u.s Then you'd better start reading!

Answer to:
Should taxpayers fund opera? Nothing wrong with taxpayers funding the arts, of which opera is one.

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
Do you have a hook on the back of your bedroom door to hang stuff? No. Mine is on the front of my closet door.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
What is your favorite late night snack at a bar while drinking? Don't really know what they're called, but I like those salty mixes that include pretzel sticks, melba toast, chex and other crunchy delights.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Did you give someone a blowjob today? Only in my daydreams.

Answer to:
How do you keep a homemade sandwich from getting soggy if you bring it to work and dont want to eat for a few hours? It will have lettuce, tomato, onion, ham and cheese...and of course the bread. Put the lettuce and tomato (and maybe the onion, too) in a separate "baggie" and add them when its time to eat.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Please watch this collection of sound bites & news clips, then answer this question: Is Barack Obama, in fact, a MUSLIM? If not, then what is he saying in all of these news clips? Though it does give one pause to wonder, I don't think it conclusive or constructive. +3 (my max) for the sake of the trolls.

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
What household chores do you hate!!:) Any that involve anything remotely reminiscent of "work."

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
If everyone is so happy about the fact that the "gay community" now has a "voice" in society, they why did it take so long for that "breakthrough" to come about? Every group who has been denied civil rights has had to engage in struggle to achieve the equality they deserve. Think of how long it took women and African Americans to win the right to vote, etc. . The reason that the GLBT community has been denied equality for so long is that the issue carries a "moral" component not found in the other issues. Clearly, women don't...

Answer to:
Would you prefer to have sex only once a month if your partner were agreeable? That depends on how many partners I'm allowed to have. . (Yes, I'm joking - lol.)

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Which is more upsetting to you...being the Disappointer or the Disappointee? I'm sure we can all say that we've been both, and don't like either one. By far, I'm more upset when I disappoint those who have fair reason to expect more of me than I deliver. Of course, that's the ultimate example of being "both" because I become disappointed in myself for disappointing others. Happy Friday to you, Rosie!

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Why is there so much discussion of Mormonism on AB? One, maybe both, of two things: Some trying to recruit new members; Some trying to disprove the doctrine.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Is now a good time for optimism? Yes! Optimism is always appropriate, even if it's over some obscure aspect of an otherwise bad situation.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
On the Elevator of Life we are doing one of three things.... waiting for the doors to open, going up or going down. Where are you today? Lately I feel stuck between the twelfth and fourteenth floors, waiting for the repairman to come and get me out.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Is it possible to be a hypocrite and be unaware of it? Or is that part of the territory...hypocrites are always unaware of it? I believe that the true hypocrite "overlooks" his hypocrisy. He is too busy condemning others and justifying himself to notice the real state of his being.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
If we admire people for how they think we probably also like what they have to say. What do you think? In fact, I think that when we say "I like the way you think," we really mean "I like what you say."

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Do you ever get so caught up and involved in trying to make your point that you lose sight of it and veer off into other directions? All too often, Rosie. All too often.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Are you more apt to tire of predictability or unpredictability? Well, I generally find predictability boring and unpredictability scary. I tire easily of the boring, and try to avoid the scary altogether. Ooh. Something that is predictably scary would drive me nuts.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Do you take onions on your hamburger? Extra onions? I only like sauteed or caramelized onions on my burger. No raw onions, please.

Answer to:
Is there anyone you know to whom you would turn over all your thinking and decision-making? Only in the sense of a living will, or power of attorney in the event of my becoming mentally disabled. But in terms of retaining my mental capacity and submitting all my thoughts and decisions to another? No way.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
If spam or offensive answers/ comments are removed from a thread, then responses to them ought to be removed as well. Otherwise you end up with responses to non-existent comments, making the thread nonsense. Do you agree? Indeed I do, Rosie.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
At this point in your life does Christmas bring up sad feelings? Yes. In the last six months, my wife moved out, my younger daughter and her husband filed for divorce, my older daughter became disabled and moved back in with me, and, this past Friday, I buried my mother. I'm not looking forward to Christmas at all. :(

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Would someone with a split personality ever be aware of what the "other self" does? My wife was diagnosed with MPD before they changed the name to DID. It's gone both ways for her. Some of her alters' activities she remembers and others she does not. Through therapy, she has managed to "blend" several alters together, reducing the number with whom she has to deal. She still "switches" uncontrollably when certain "triggers" occur and,...

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
What is the longest distance you have ever run at one stretch and about how old were you when you did it? One mile in high school gym class. :(

Answer to:
Are you someone to be "reckoned with" or do you quietly go about your business, hoping no one notices you? Neither, I guess. I'm more of one who wishes the right person/people would notice me for the right reason/s.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
If you lived in a world of "do as you wish, no worries" what would you do differently? Some of the things that don't come easily to me now, especially things that feed my current fears of failure and rejection.

Answer to:
Do you justify in yourself that which you condemn in others? I tend to justify "speeding" by saying that I'm in a hurry, but fuss about anybody who has the nerve to pass me. (for example)

Answer to:
Are you more comfortable in an adversarial environment or one that is collegial? I loathe, despise, and feel very much at odds with an adversarial environment.

Answer to:
If it were possible to remove all posturing/preening from politicians, would anything be left? What? I think it just might be possible that we would be left with the Democratic Republic that our Founding Fathers envisioned.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What can I talk to my therapist about? (I get very nervous and talk gibberish if I don't plan it out) HELP!! You might consider talking about the fact that you feel a need to plan out your conversation, and why you get so nervous and incohesive if you don't. The good thing about therapists, is that they are trained to ask the right questions if you give them a starting point.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Do you know a 'Dr. Evil?' (someone who makes or tries to make your life hell) I have several who make my life hell without trying, and one who delights in trying (all in fun, of course).

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
How many of you have played Pac Man? I used to play PacMan in arcades, at pizza parlors, and eventually on my home computer. But now I haven't seen that game in many years. +3

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
When you hear the term financial advisor or investment advisor, what is your initial feeling, positive or negative? Oddly enough, the title "financial adviser" carries a positive connotation, while "investment adviser" carries a negative connotation for me.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Do you plan to retire, or are you already retired, and at what age? I doubt that I will ever be able to retire. I'm gonna have to work 'till I die.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
How many dates does it take with the opposite sex for you to have a pretty good idea that it is not going to work out? None. It can't possibly work out for me and anyone of the opposite sex. Unowhatimean?

Answer to:
What do you believe you will be experiencing one minute after you die? The beginning of eternal bliss in the presence of God.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
If I came to your house for a party at your private pool and stripped to swim and spend the day naked, what would you do? Depends on a) the guest list and b) how you look naked. If your nudity was inappropriate for the guest list, I'd ask you to get dressed and stay that way. If I like the way you look naked, then I'd suggest you stay dressed until everyone else had gone; then I'd join you.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
What's the most likely thing that could happen if I go for a streak (naked dash)? At this time of year, shrinkage: significant shrinkage. And rolling laughter from those who see you. The arrest and sex offender thing is even more unpleasant, but not nearly as funny.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What would think of a 24 year old male getting into a relationship with a guy in his 40s? My first thought is that he is looking either for a sugar-daddy or a father-figure. My second thought is that the "dad" is setting himself up for heartbreak. But if none of those is true, then I think they're both great.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
If we ban gay marriage isn't the next step banning gay sex? Wouldn't the next step then be making it illegal to even be gay? Then wouldn't the next step be treating gays as if they were inhuman? Society is more nearly moving the other direction. In some cultures it is and long has been illegal to be homosexual or engage in homosexual acts (as well as other sex acts they consider to be deviant). In Western culture many countries, states, and municipalities have outlawed sexual acts between members of the same gender, hence the trials of people such as Oscar Wilde and Quentin Crisp...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Sometimes you reach a point in a relationship (not limited to romantic) that you think "what did I get myself into?" When you reach that point, do you back away or go forward and hope things get better? How long do you hang in and keep hoping? While I might back away from pursuing a "deep" relationship, I tend to keep moving forward to see if there is anything salvageable in the form of friendship. I'm in one of those now, and I'll have to let you know how long I hang in there.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
The world is a very big place. Do you ever wonder if you should be someplace else living a different life? I often WISH I could be someplace else living a different life, but I don't necessarily think that I SHOULD be. I also think that I COULD be, had I made different decisions along the way. But I didn't, so I am where I should be based on the decisions I did make.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
How to deal with an excessively loud coworker who won't stop talking? I need help with this, too.

Answer to:
Solely for Believers in the Christian God: Do you believe Christ's sacrifice on the Cross saved His own people for sure, or do you believe his sacrifice provided the opportunity for salvation, but accomplished salvation for no one? What an interesting question. I had a little trouble getting through the terminology, but think I understand what you are asking. Using your terminology, I believe that Christ's sacrifice on the cross "provided the opportunity for salvation." It is forced upon no one, but must be received, as a gift. When Jesus was on earth, "His own people" were the Jews. They...

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
I love to play with myself until i ejaculate why cant i stop and why do it feel so good It's the endorphin rush.

Answer to:
I love to get a boner espically at night sometimes i cant get to sleep until i whack why is that Orgasm releases endorphins that calm nerves and relieve tension. That's why it can help you get to sleep. But be careful: it is possible to get addicted to the endorphin rush and thus lose some degree of control over your life.

Answer to:
I want to know why i get on hard so much i dont even be thinking about sex or people or nothing i just get on hard more than 10 times a day Completely normal during puberty and early adulthood. How old are you?

Answer to:
What is your favorite sitcom? Will and Grace

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Which number should come next at the end of this series 1/12, 1/6, 1/3, 2/3? a. 3/4 b. 4/3 c. 3/2 Each number is double the preceding number. 1/6=1/12(2); 1/3=1/6(2); 2/3=1/3(2); 4/3=2/3(2). So the answer is b. 4/3.

Answer to:
Which is correct usage: the boat sank or the boat sunk? Sorry, Gene H, but I'm pretty sure that it's Past tense: the boat sank Past perfect tense: the boat has sunk

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
If hate was a flavor what would it taste like? A delectable puree combination of black licorice, olives, rutabagas, anchovies, cayenne pepper and antifreeze.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Do you ever think about ways to improve yourself, ways to be a better person, or do thoughts like those make you uncomfortable so you avoid them? I do think a lot about ways to improve myself. Once in a great while, I actually do some of the things I think about. The biggest thing I need to overcome is the laziness that prevents me from doing the rest of them.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
When you are preparing your house to have guests visit and stay a few days is it a chore or a joy? Housework is a chore for me, regardless of the reason.

Answer to:
Would you want someone just like you to be in the trenches with you and by your side when the going gets tough? I would want someone a lot like me to be in the trenches with me: someone with the same dedication and commitment, determination, and ethical standards, but sans my secret attitudes.

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
What celebrity do you look like? Take this test. Click on link. I got Hayden Christensen 80% match. It was fun trying this, but my highest match rating was only 56%. That was Jimmy Page. I also got a 53% match for Marion Zimmer Bradley (whoever that is).

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Name something that is made from silk..... Faux flowers.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Is it your responsibility to try to get along with others or is it their responsibility to try to get along with you? Yes.

Answer to:
Why won't you support Gay reparations, compensatory $cash$ for homos who were not educated about human sexuality in high school and were basically misled that straight was the only option and left alone to grapple with a painful process of self discovery? Well, I don't support financial reparations for descendants of slaves, left-handed people forced to use their right hands, girls forced to wear dresses, or students taught that evolution is fact, either. +3

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Can therapists who engage in reparative treatment aimed at making gays straight be sued for malpractice? Not yet. But if it ever happens, I have two I can go after.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Can a Shrink ever legally get in a sexual relationship with a patient like we see on TV? It probably happens more than we care to think, but it's always unethical and illegal.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Does anyone have a problem with me giving my boyfriend a quick gay kiss on Main Street -- not as a political statement but because he makes me laugh when we are out walking the dogs? Fine with me, but I'm concerned for your safety. Unfortunately, some bigots still bash gays. Just refrain from giving him a "gay handshake" on Main Street.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Does it bother you when someone has very precise eating habits: constantly configuring the food on the plate and being sure to skewer three small bits of each food on a fork for each biteful? I don't think we've ever met, have we? So how come you know so much about my eating habits? lol

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Why are some gay people uncaring about whether gay marriage is legal or not? Maybe it's the word "marriage." I'm gay, but not interested in participating in the institution of marriage again. I do, however, care deeply about equality. I believe that domestic partners, straight and gay, should be entitled to the same rights and privileges as "married" people. I'm referring to things like tax advantages, family medical coverage,...

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
Could God ever be tangible? Well, He did become tangible about 2000 years ago. And He's still tangible - in an intangible sort of way.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
How many friends do you have? Three at my current job. Three from my previous job. Even though I don't see them nearly as often anymore, I think I could count on them for just about anything. Two more in my personal life, one of whom is my future ex-wife. Cool, Huh?

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Is it acceptable to fire an employee for being a Christian with poor boundaries? So what ARE the boundaries? Who says the employee's boundaries are "poor"? It seems that we've gotten away from our roots as a nation. This country was founded, in part, on the principle of religious freedom, and now we punish people for living their faith as they see fit. We've gone too far when we fire people for expressing their Christianity. . . . lol

Answer to:
Is what you have to offer others unique, special and worthwhile? Well Rosie, what I have to offer is myself. I am unique. I must be special in some way, even if not everyone sees it. And I think I'm more worthwhile than some would give me credit for. Sooooooo, Yes!

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Are you an orginal? Or do you pick out bits and pieces of others whom you admire and try to be like them? I'd say none of us is original, but all of us are unique. Everything we are is either inherited or learned. It's the combination - the way it all comes together - that is unique.

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
"End of Days" has been predicted as either 2012 or 2060...take your pick. Do you think it will happen in your lifetime or long after you are dead or never? Is that an extreme right-wing conspiracy promoted for the purpose of scaring us? Well, the Apostle Paul seemed to think it would happen in his lifetime, so why shouldn't I think it will happen in mine? I don't, but why shouldn't I? Huuummm.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Flashes of light...flashes of brilliance...flashes of sparkle. Does that remind you of anything? A lightening storm.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
You put up with it and put up with it and put up with it and finally you say "enough"..."that's it".."no more"! So, how long do you put up with it before you say 'no more'? Twenty-seven years and counting.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
You come home in the mood for love until you walk in the front door and _______? There's nobody there.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Why do people want fame? It brings with it stalkers and restraining orders and home break ins and hordes of paparazzi and no privacy and notoriety and sometimes death. Would you want to be living that kind of life? I'm way too lazy to deal with all of that.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Okay, which guy would you pick to date? A) Good looking, sweet, talented (amazing body) travels for work and is away at least half the year. B) Gorgeous, British, poetic visits the US several times a year but is anorexic. A couple of thoughts, if I may. First, from your descriptions, I believe that you have already indicated your preference. You speak of (A) using more descriptive terms, and using the word "and" before the possibly objectionable factor. With (B) you use "but" to introduce his anorexia. Your words seem to reveal the choice of your heart. . Second, you're asking...

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
How do you put a 1997 nissan sentra window back on track Send it to therapy. lol

Answer to:
Did u ever cheat in high school/ college/ university? Do u regret it? Yes and Yes.

Answer to:
Anyone on tonight who has been divorced or is thinking about splitting from their spouse? I'm currently separated from my wife and planning to divorce soon.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Do you forget names easily? I'm sorry. Do I know you? lol I'm terrible with names. Even when it really matters, names of new people just fly in one ear and out the other. But I've experienced a really embarrassing aspect of this malady. I had two highly visible jobs at the same time: managing a Christian book store and worship leader at a fairly large church. I'd communicate personally with a...

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Have you ever flipped a coin when you were making a decision or would you never do that? Often, but with a twist. Letting the coin decide for me reveals my true choice. I just THOUGHT I couldn't decide.

Answer to:
What is your favorite Gay quote? Mine is spaghetti is straight until you heat it up. "The Lord is my Shepherd, and He knows I'm gay." It is the title of the book by Troy Perry, founder of the Metropolitan Community Church.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
What are your favorite quotes? "It's easy to be nice to nice people." (c)

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Are you at work right now? What is you job? No, it's 5:09 am. I woke up a bit too early, but not early enough to go back to bed. My regular work hours are 8-4:30. BTW, I don't so much as check my personal email at work. Not only do I find that unethical, but I just don't have the time. Have a super day!

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Name something that is gold.... Silence

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Suppose you had the power to go back in time to the day before you were conceived, plus the power to select your parents, would you select a different mother, a different father, a different mother AND father, or keep the same ones who conceived you? There were many times in my youth and childhood when I wished for different parents. Now, however, I realize that having different parents would not have better made my life as I know it. Rather, it would have changed my whole genetic and social make-up. I wouldn't be who I am, in the place that I am. Who knows whether I'd even be reading and answering questions on AnswerBag? Of...

Answer to:
When you started wearing eyeglasses with 'progressive' (i.e. invisible bifocal) lenses for the first time, how long did it take you to get used to them? I never wore traditional bifocals; went straight from single vision to progressive. It took me a couple of hours to grow accustomed to them.

Answer to:
Have you ever said your prayers while completely naked? Well, not at church, no. But at home, sure. You might say: "God don't care what you're wearin', as long as you're communicatin'."

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
True OR False? You've used your washer or your dryer today? True for both.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Have you ever eaten at Red Lobster? Yes, many times. I think it's pretty good, but it's now been a long time since I've been there.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
"A US man is facing a charge of indecent exposure - after failing to get dressed before making himself a morning cup of coffee in his own kitchen." The woman who called the police is a peeping Tom, and Virginia is a fascist cesspit. Thoughts? (see URL) If visible for more than an instant by a casual passerby who is in a public access area (like the street or sidewalk), there might - I repeat, might - be cause for calling it indecent exposure. If the "passerby" has to stop and position him/herself to gain a point of vision, then he/she is a peeping tom. From what I read here, the latter seems to be more accurate; in fact, she...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What color is the vehicle you are driving? I'm not driving a vehicle. I'm sitting at the computer. However, the vehicle I drive when I am driving is silver.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Opinions, wed night went out and met a gorgeous girl nothin went beyond kissin but recently sent me a msg askin when the photo of us was taken at the near enough the same time her fb status chngd 2 summit like y do i make alot of stupid choices, r 2 lnkd I stop short of flagging your question as nonsense, but it is unintelligible to me. Could you try again, please?

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Do you know anybody in your family lived over 90? My grand-father-in-law died at the age of 100 years and six months. My Dad is now 91.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Here is your chance to "Hex your Ex" for Halloween! Is there a 'Hex" you would like to put on your "Ex"? Naw. She hexed herself by picking the boyfriend she's with now.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Which is more harmful? Believing a lie or not believing a truth? Believing a lie can have negative results in one's life; not believing a truth can have negative results in one's afterlife.. Of course many more comparisons can be made, many definitions given, and many outcomes postulated. But when you add them all up, both can have devastating effects, so they're both equally harmful.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Are Labor Unions a great help or a great hindrance to quality of life? There have been some good answers so far. I agree that unions served their original purposes: winning child labor laws; improving work place conditions and getting safety laws passed; Securing fair wages for workers. But having experienced such great success, their new-found power went to their heads and they kept pushing for more and more. Eventually, just to cover the costs of union...

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Any tru tv fans out there? I have been that oil rig show for a few weeks and haven't seen it for 2-3 weeks. What did I miss? I'm a trutv fan, but haven't been watching the oil-rig show this season.

Answer to:
What's more annoying...a whiny crybaby or a sarcastic sulker? Between the two, it's a dead heat for me. One person close to me is both. Drives me nuts, but that's a short trip.

Answer to:
If you are giving out Halloween candy this year, what kind and did you buy it already? I usually don't get visitors, but I want to be prepared, just in case. Since I'm certain to have some left over, I'll get one of MY favorites: Three Musketeers, Milky Way, or Twix. I'd love to find a mixed bag with all three.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
What is fragile? The male ego.

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
Isn't it annoying when work and marriage get in the way of your AB blogging? VERY annoying. And the need for sleep gets in my way, too.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
As the creator of a group, how do I post on the group's wall as the group and not as myself? Log in as the group. You might need to create a new profile for the group.

Answer to:
I love one girl. She is my best friend. We share our all secrets with each other. I want tell her that I love her but how? Wellll, it would appear that there is ONE secret you haven't shared. And that might be a good approach: "Suzy, we've known each other for a long time, have't we? We've been through a lot together, always been there for each other, and shared secrets with each other that no one else knows. But there's one thing I've been keeping from you. I know we can be...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
For those of us who miss seeing new episodes of X Files, what is a good new series to watch? I like "Fringe." It's sort of a cross between "X-Files" and "CSI."

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
HOW DO I GO TO MY QUESTION I ASKED TO SEE IF ANY ANSWER HAS BEEN RECEIVED While logged in, click on the blue "View my profile & activity" button near the upper right hand corner. Click on the "My Settings" tab, and be sure that the arrow beside "my watch list" (bottom of page) is pointing downward. That lists your questions, answers, comments and ratings. If they're not there, check the appropriate box on the right side of...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Why is sex always on the minds of the human race? 'Cause we're in a race to the happy ending!

Answer to:
I need to travel to Canada. What do I do to make sure I can spend money there? I know I can't just use my debit card, and I don't want to carry cash, and I don't have a credit card. Travelers Checks are made just for that situation. Major banks can sell them in Canadian Dollars.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
If he keeps ________________ he has to give back the f****** ______________? ... watching "Top Model" ... remote control!

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What is the male equivalent of a chick flick? Lesbian porn

Answer to:
Why are so many Americans obessed with homosexuality? From my experience in countries like England, France, Germany and the Netherlands people do not talk about it much and are more layed back about it. What makes it an important issue for America? Republicans and a few thousand variations of the Church Lady.

Answer to:
I frequently watch my girlfriends 4 year old son and it seems like every time I even look at him he has his hand down his pants. Now i know a lot of boys do this because i had asked my mom what i should do and she told me that i did it. What do i do? Do you still do that? No? He'll probably quit, too. (Just in case, make sure he's going to the bathroom often enough.)

Answer to:
Recently ive been isolating myself completely from people, analyzing every motion that happens by anything, replaying twisted and horrid events in my mind, am i going insane? I doubt that you're going insane, partly because you recognize your situation as being out of the ordinary. I would, however, recommend that you seek therapy before it goes to far.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
What are your hopes for tomorrow? That I'll get past the financial crunch I'm experiencing. That my daughter's physical rehab will work and she can walk again. That my Mom and Dad (stoke and Alzheimer's victims, respectively) will soon be past their suffering. That I will find a new s/o. . Sorry I couldn't be more "upbeat" on this one.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What about your past would you be embarassed for your friends to find out? I might have given a real answer to this question before I made friends on AB. :)

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Chips Ahoy or Oreos? I hated Oreos when I was a kid and didn't eat them for years - no, decades. Just a few days ago, I tried them again and really liked them. Now I'm anxious to try the new flavor. I've loved Chips Ahoy ever since they first came out. (What? You didn't know they're gay? Huh!)

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Who is the best scape goat you always use? My dog - when I fart.

Answer to:
Are there people or cultures where a small penis is a turn-on or sought after trait? I don't know about cultures, but I know of one person who thinks that way.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
I'm the beginning of the end,the end of time. I come twice a week, but only once a year! What am I? Very good. I really had to think about this one. You're the letter "e."

Answer to:
If you have absolute FAITH do you look both way before you cross a busy street? I have faith in God, not drivers. Having faith doesn't mean that you throw caution to the wind.

Answer to:
A man and his son were in a car crash. The father died, but the son was critically injured and rushed to hospital. When he reached the operating table, the doctor on duty looked at him and said "Oh god, it's my son!!!" How can this be? The boy's mother.

| 5 people like this

Answer to:
Does everyone have a story to tell? Yes. But does everyone have a story worth hearing?

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
My husband and i have three kids together,he ran out on us over a year ago.we have no contact.I currently have a boyfriend soon to be fiance after my divorce.Can me and my current boyfriend have a child before my divorce?or will it hurt me in court? What's the rush? Divorce is very hard on children. You need to see them through this difficult time and let them know that they are the most important part of your life. Let them get used to having your boyfriend around and make sure they are all going to be compatible before you marry him. THEN you may want to consider having another child. Sorry - I know this didn't answer your...

Answer to:
How do you protect individual folders on your computer with a password??? How would you protect an individual file on your computer with a password?? (specific directions please) Good question. I've been trying to figure that out myself. I hope you get some good answers. I'll be watching for them, too.

Answer to:
Have you ever seen a picture of yourself and think, That doesnt look like me? A couple of times, I think. Mostly I see pictures of myself and think "Gee, I wish that didn't look like me."

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Have you googled any of your old crushes/loves? Or ALL of your old crushes/loves? Yes, I tried to Googling one old flame but all I got was a gazillion links for a famous basketball player.

Answer to:
GALS! Didja know that you can get FREE breast screenings? Click the link for details. (No need to thank me; I'm happy to bring this FREE medical service to your attention.) Very good, Mensan! Once again, you didn't disappoint. Do you happen to have a link for a free prostate exam?

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
It's harder to do the work and very easy to take potshots at those who do the work. Which are you? The worker or the one who attacks the worker? I'm definitely a worker, but confess to taking my share of potshots at those who DON'T pull their weight.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Do you send out Halloween Greeting Cards? I don't (not even via e-mail), but I received the linked one [below this question] and thought it was kind of funny, in a way... That was sooo corny it was cute. And a actually laughed out loud. Thanks for sharing it.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
I had a moment at church today where all I wanted to do was shout to the world that I'm gay. I feel so comfortable with it and yet I tell no one. I don't know what to do. My parents won't accept it even when I have. Any help? For now, I'd recommend keeping it to yourself. In a couple of other questions you indicate your desire to join the military. Until "don't ask don't tell" is sent to the trash bin, you might want to keep on practicing it. Coming out now might hinder your military career later on. This was actually a difficult answer for me to give, as I am out, loud and proud,...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
The screenplay writer of MILK is/was (i have no idea) a mormon. he is also Gay. what is the mormons views on homosexuality? ANYTHING positiive? im not trying to be a jerk, just trying to learn. The movie "Latter Days" will give you an idea.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
I have a friend who is mormon. hes majorly homophobic and never in a million years would i come out to him. lately he has been making comments about AIDS. he says that the govt created AIDS to stop homosexuality. thisll sound dumb, but is it true? I'm sorry to say that it does not surprise me to hear such a lie coming from religious fundamnmentalists. Of course it's not true. Think of all the heterosexuals and children who have suffered and died from this dreaded disease. And think of how widespread this plague is in Africa. Any one who believes the government created AIDS to wipe out gays must also believe that the...

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
I am 16 years old and my penis when erect is 5 inches long and onli 3 inches in girth . i am also circumcised i am worried about how small it is , should i wait till i am finished puberty to see if surgery is the answer? There is no need to worry. You might have finished growing in height, but at age 16, you have not finished growing in other ways. I'm pretty certain that circumcision has no effect on penis length. It's only "excess" skin that is removed. PLEASE wait until you are at least 25 before making a decision about surgery. I think you'll change your mind by then, and...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What is the most 80s thing you know of? Big hair! And the big hair bands it inspired.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Do you think men who are fanatics about Big Boobs intellectually lacking? No, they're just near-sighted.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Ladies,... Do you like to hear compliments and recieve gifts from men when you first start dating? What compliments or gifts are Acceptable? If none please explain. True. Even though I blush when I get one.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Using only one word describe something that angers you. Now Munchkin, you know I can't do ANYthing with just one word.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Is black caulk better than white cock? Is that a trick question? Each is great for it's respective use, but I wouldn't want to use one to perform a task designed for the other.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Do you read whilst on the loo? Not often, but I do keep a Sudoku book and a pencil under the vanity.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
How do you deal with your s/o that insists on making a ass out of you in front of clients? (We're in business together) Talk, or walk.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
How many tasks do you do during a typical day? Too many to count, but one fewer than if I counted them.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Do you walk the line or cross it I try to walk the line, but cross it some of the time. I just hope I never have to try to walk it heal to toe with a policeman watching me!

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
When i scratch the top of my asscrack/lower back.. it makes me want to pee.. anyone else like this? anyone know why?? this is a serious question i have always been like this! No, I'm not like that. But it seems like it would come in handy before a road trip.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
What is your opinion on the show "Hells Kitchen" and the host? I hate that show. Even more, I hate that I watch it.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Name a sound that you might hear at night. frogs croaking; the "thump thump thump" of an overly loud auto stereo; the neighbors fighting or - you know (I live in an apartment).

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
What is the best way to discipline a teenager? I've raised two, and still don't know the answer to that question. But I did learn a few things I might share: In all things, discipline with love; Use "tough love" when necessary, but don't be too strict; Don't shove religion down their throats; and don't meat out punishments you can't carry out (example: don't say "you're grounded...

| 4 people like this

Answer to:
Have you ever had a stray or wildlife animal walk into your house? Cats, from time to time. And once a sparrow flew in through an open window.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
What month were you born? June 5

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Do you ever use coupons? I clip coupons when I find them, and I go through them before I go shopping. But I wouldn't call it "a lot of coupons". I've seen news stories about people who go to the grocery with a six inch stack of coupons. That's not me; I might have six coupons. Now I have even fewer: in an ironic twist, I discontinued my newspaper subscription because I wasn't reading...

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Have you been the victim of a DRing drive by lately? I don't think so. I'm usually hit by sniper fire.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Which clothing shop is your favourite store for buying clothes? Walmart is where I buy most of my Hawaiian shirts (see avatar). When I feel like being Uptown, I splurge at Target.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
My friends like to hold novelty parties and the latest one is a nude party. If you were invited to a nude party with friends would you attend? Have you ever been to one? Well, they'd have to be very, VERY good friends, wouldn't they? I think I'd be more likely to attend such a party where I know no one at all. But where would I keep my keys?

Answer to:
What do you think of when I say Routine maintenance? Spending too much money to avoid spending even more money.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Have you had the H1N1 shot yet? Yes! Check it out: http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8056472

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
How many of you have dropped facebook? and came over to Answerbag??? And why? I still do both.

Answer to:
What defines a NASCAR NUT...Like "If your wife ever said it's me or NASCAR and you now live alone" You might be a NASCAR NUT? If you dress only in primary colors and have a company logo patch on the back of your jacket, you might be a NASCAR NUT.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What's your favorite party food? Finger Sandwiches. But I'm very particular about whose fingers are used.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Whose voice do you never get tired of hearing? Mario Frangoulis a marvelous singer

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Do you think having too many choices is as bad as having too few? Not really. It's possible to narrow down your choices when you have too many, but not always possible to increase your options when you have too few. . When my younger daughter was in early elementary school, I took her to a local store to let her pick Valentine cards for her classmates. She was totally overwhelmed by the many, many choices. So I started in the upper left corner and...

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Could you, would you, give my seat back to me please!? But I really, really need it! I'm afflicted with "noassatall" and need all the help I can get.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What's the newest item that you have recently purchased? A loaf of bread.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What is your favorite type of car? Can't narrow it down to just one: 2010 Chevy Camaro 2010 Buick LaCrosse 2009 Buick Enclave

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Were any pyramids built in Central or South America? Yes, by the Incas and Mayans.

| 4 people like this

Answer to:
Should I commit suicide? doctors wont help, my parents are never home, I have no friends and have dreams about my ex that haunt me. eventually someday i might do it..... No, Jason, you shouldn't commit suicide. Nor should you allow some girl to control your life. You should, however, stop feeling sorry for yourself and go for your dreams. Let's see, you've mentioned being a musician and joining the military. Both of those are good ways of sharing yourself with the world and I, for one, would appreciate it if you would not deprive the world of...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Should I Join the U.S army? The marines have offered me to join and im not sure what to say. I would love to help my country and get well paid. If you have what it takes, become one of the few and the proud. If not, settle for another branch of service. None is easy, but all are worthwhile.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Would ou prefer Buying an Album of you favorite artist or illegally downloading their ongs from limewire or Napster?and why? I'd much rather buy the songs/album. Stealing music by downloading it or copying it from someone else's disc effects more than just the musician: it is stealing from every person at every level of the distribution process. From the janitor at the recording studio to the sales clerk at the music store, and every one in between, if they make their living from the sale of music, they...

Answer to:
Are you currently in a romantic relationship? No, but I'm looking.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Would you rather have love without sex or sex without love? Well, I've tried both, and neither is very fulfilling. But if forced t choose, I'd go with sexless love.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Non-LDS Christians: Does the Bible say that Adam and Eve had to eat the from the the tree of the knowledge of good and evil in order to know how to "Be fruitful and increase in number"? (And please tell us your Denominational or Theological affiliation) No. They were, in fact forbidden from eating the fruit of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil at all. . I am Christian,, formerly both Baptist and Assembly of God, but currently not denominationally affiliated.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Credit card company charging 80% interest on new credit cards. What do you think of this? see link (link here: http://www.walletpop.com/blog/2009/10/16/such-a-deal-new-credit-card-offers-a-mere-79-9-interest/ It's usuary and, as such, immoral. I don't know whom to disrespect more: the bank or the poor fool who accepts the offer.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Should my mother be invited to my sister-in laws wedding? Both she and my in-laws are paying for it. I'm not sure to which "she" you refer when you say "Both she and my in-laws are paying for it." But it sounds reasonable that "she" is your sister-in-law. Given that, my next question would be about how close your mother and sister-in-law are. If they were close, you probably wouldn't be posing this question. So, I've about talked myself into...

Answer to:
Who are you currently living with right now? My daughter just spent 11 weeks in the hospital and is now living with me while she continues her recuperation and physical rehabilitation.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
If you were glasses or other prescription lenses, how old were you when you first got your glasses? I was in the eighth grade, so that would make me about 14 years old. So, I've been wearing glasses for 43 years.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Hey! What's that big thing behind you!? Hey! Careful what you say about my wife! grrrrrr . Just kidding. My wife is lovely and slender.

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
Click the link right below this question, to watch an absolutely AWESOME display of Jump Roping! Have you ever seen anything like this in your entire life? Is there anything that cheerleading girls CANNOT do? [The embedded video is just "extra."] Totally awesome! Thanks for sharing.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
First thing that comes to your mind when you hear the word "Christmas"? Ugh! Gotta buy presents I can't afford - again.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What is your favorite way to fix potatoes? Use a hot-glue gun and a little touch-up paint. LOL

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Which is easier for you? Answering questions or asking them? I find answering easier, too. I guess I'm not all that imaginative for initiating a thought process with a question, but much better at capitalizing on the jump start others' questions give me. I also tend to draw a blank on new questions when I sit down at the computer; no problem thinking of them when I'm not where I can write them down, but once back at the ol' keyboard...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
When you receive a wrong number call, how do you respond to the caller? If someone calls for "Myrtle," for example, I usually say something like, "Myrtle? You mean you don't know about her? She died this morning. The police think it was murder." Okay, so maybe you do deserve a malicious answer once in a while, but you still won't get it from me. +3 is the best I can do for you right now. Sorry the downraters can't take a joke.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Wow. if i had known you were going to __________, i would have been here yesterday! ...be naked...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Gloves or mittens? Gloves. I don't think I've ever worn mittens.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
If you experienced life as a teenager before the ubiquitous cell phone...how do you think your teenage experience would have been different? good or bad? Just another new-fangled thing my Dad wouldn't have let me have.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Do you think nose rings are sexy? Not in the least.

Answer to:
What is one thing (if anything) you don't want to take off during sex. The condom.

| 6 people like this

Answer to:
Your perfect morning. what is it? Sleep in on a rainy morning. Pour my first cup of coffee and get on AnswerBag.

| 4 people like this

Answer to:
Why am i on ab when i have dishes to do, laundry to wash and work notes to write? Same reason that I'm here an hour after my bedtime. I LOVE it here!

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
How long does it take you to get ready to go out? (guys and girls) Depends on where I'm going and whether plans were made in advance. Anyway, it's usually between 15 and 60 minutes.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Do you think owen wilson is hot? he seems to cause much controversy among my female friends. some think he is HOT and some think he is very unattractive...thoughts? Well, I wouldn't kick him out of bed. ;)

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What would you do if you discovered that your house has been burgled? Call the police and don't touch anything until they say it's okay. Then start looking for a security system (new or upgrade).

Answer to:
What is your favorite spicy food? Jambalaya. ummm

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
All the men in my life have always preferred me without makeup. So it occurred to me that maybe women wear it to impress other women. What do you think? I think many women look better with little or no make-up. When my daughters became teenagers I told them that, if they chose to wear make-up, they should use it enhance their natural beauty - not to change their appearance.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What are some indoor plants that are easy to take care of? I don't have a green thumb but I do love house plants. Any suggestions please? Silk plants. Can't kill them, but you do have to dust them from time to time.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Are there some things you refuse to do, totally alone? Like for instance, watch a movie in a theater, go roller skating or bowling, attend SCA Festivals or amusement parks? (I won't do any of those things by myself. They're no fun at all, alone.) Play Tennis, Badminton or Ping Pong. As for tennis, I know I could hit the ball up against a wall, but that wouldn't be tennis, would it. It would be a good ol' game of "Hit a ball up against a wall with a tennis racket."

Answer to:
A GF of mine has offered to fix me some eggs, any way I like them. Why do Southerners think that eggs need to be "fixed?" Why can't they be "poached," "srambled," "hard-boiled" or "fried?" Do Southern cooks think eggs REALLY need to be "repaired?" If it ain't broke don't fix it? Or A raw egg still in the shell is not generally considered suitable for human consumption (tantamount to "broke"). Hence, it needs to be "fixed" to make it suitable for your delicate digestive system. Howzat, y'all?

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
The justice of the peace who refused to marry the inter-racial couple "for the sake of potential future children" should be ___________! Voted out of office at the next election, if he avoids prosecution.

Answer to:
Prescription meds, non-prescription over the counter meds, vitamins, minerals, dietary supplements, how many pills do you swallow every day? 10+

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
True or False? You are a kind-hearted person? True, until I feel put upon or taken advantage of.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
When I say "sudsy", what do you think of first? Too much detergent in the washing machine.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
What is one word or saying that drives you crazy? "Gimmie five!"

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What is one word or saying that drives you crazy? "irregardless"

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
For a very brief moment/time in your life, have you ever felt that you were the star? A few times, actually. I used to be a singer, and the applause and accolades were awesome.

Answer to:
I talk on the phone _____________times a day. 50 - 100. It's my job.

Answer to:
Do you enjoy a good debate? Well, my definition of a "good debate" would be one that I win, so "yes." Now if it looks like I'm not winning, that's a different story. I know and have known people who argue and debate with such an authoritative aire that they SOUND right, even when I KNOW they're wrong. I don't like that.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Who would win in a boxing match? Fred Flintstone or Barney Rubble? Depends on the rules of play. Barney can only hit Fred below the belt.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What would you think of a weather forecaster who predicts that it will be dark overnight? I think I'd expect one of his future forecasts to include the phrase "partly dark with a chance of being mooned."

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Today I feel naughty so i think that I will?(what)? Put a blindfold on someone and see what happens.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Name something red and sweet or something just red A Twizzler.

Answer to:
Which rocks more? Money or Funny? If I could make money being funny, that would be awesome! Seriously, I can manage to keep my sense of humor even when I have no money, so funny wins in my book.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What would you do if I blindfolded you? That depends. Are my hands tied to the bedposts, or are we in a different room altogether?

Answer to:
True or False: When you joined Ab, You asked a question first and then started answering. True. I got a nonsense answer and kept going anyway.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Yes or no, you carry a balance on department store credit cards? "No" Because I carry no department store credit cards.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Can you name something besides 'cash' that some people run out of fast? A burning building.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
What is/was your mom best at? Loving me!

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Say the first nice thing that comes to your mind! Cute avatar!

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Do you spend too much time trying to figure things out or not enough? Way too much. It's like procrastinating the beginning of a task by spending time "figuring out" how to do it.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Ever hear of a DGAS button? I have a friend who has one. It is figurative, of course, and he pushes it when he starts getting upset over something silly. DGAS..don't give a sh**!. He says it works for him. What do you use to decelerate when you're upset? I turn my attention to two things: my hands and my breathing. Concentrating on keeping my hands still retards the acceleration of, while making sure I keep breathing decelerates, my ire.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Does knowing the nutritional value of food influence your choices at all? It seems having that information available in fast-food joints hasn't really changed how people eat. Why? I pay attention to labels at the grocery store. But I know that there is nothing in the fast food world that is truly healthful, so I consciously throw caution to the wind on the (relatively) rare occasions that I eat there. And, yes, my visits there are more rare since learning of the fat and sodium content of their foods.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Seems The Balloon Boy was a hoax! Another parent exploiting another kid for fame/fortune/whatever. What punishment would you seek? Give 'em a reality tv show. That'll learn 'em!

| 5 people like this

Answer to:
Is a DVD that has variousTV Shows on it and was recorded using a Panasonic DVD Recorder copyrighted? The DVD is not copyrighted, but the programs on it are copyrighted. That means that you have unlimited use of the DVD's contents, but it is not legal or morally acceptable for you to re-copy the contents and give the new DVD OR the original to another person, not even for free.

Answer to:
What pets do you have and what are they called? "Mister" is a Miniature Dachshund.

Answer to:
Is your father still alive? Is he working or retired? Yes, but he is bed-ridden with Alzheimer's.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
How often do you resort to board games when you're bored? I would say you can play with me, but people would talk.

Answer to:
What/who was the last thing to make you feel nostalgic? Driving to work in the rain a few days ago. It reminded me of the feeling of warmth and comfort I used to get riding up to my elementary school on rainy days. Can't really explain why that was, but I liked it.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
If you owned a money machine, what would you buy? The judge who would be presiding over my trial for counterfeiting.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Is your television on or off right now? If it is on what are you watching? On. "Bait Car" on TRUtv.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
How to download christmas album for free? Cool move - ripping off Christmas music.

Answer to:
Are scores taken into account when you request mail from colleges on the PSAT? No, but writing skills are. Better bone up on that one, friend.

Answer to:
Be truthful....Have you smiled today? Yes - several times. I watched a couple of comedy movies and got a few laughs there. I've even smiled at some of the questions and answers here on AB - including a few of my own;)

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Is it possibal to get pregant while being on top during sex? if so why? Yes, because, like salmon, sperm can swim upstream.

Answer to:
I reside in my boyfriend's house for 3 years with my underage son, If my boyfriend dies, who has left a will, and left his daughter as the executor, legally when can she take possession of his home, and can she take my possessions too? We reside in Fla. She can take possession as soon as the will is probated in court. She cannot take your belongings as long as you have proof that they belong to you and not to your boyfriend.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
I want to travel, but i do not know where to go. So, Where are great places to go? Too many to cover them all. Try New Orleans, Miami, New York City, Los Angeles, San Francisco or Hollywood. Like theme parks? They're all over the place. Foreign travel? How about Australia, Japan, Italy, Greece, France, Great Britain or Brazil? Try our great National Parks; or how about a cruise - Caribbean or Alaskan would be my choices.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Are there any websites that sell actual cases for DVD movies? I just bought a bunch of used TV shows on DVDs, but none included a case. I don't want blank cases, but the actual boxes they come in? Sorry I don't know for sure, but you might try the corporate website of the studio or network of the original show, or the manufacturer/distributor of the DVDs themselves.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What is your favorite line in Video Games? "Game Over."

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What was that loud sound!? My butt yelling at me to get it out of this chair.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Which passage in the bible addresses the fact that it is wrong to help people who do not help themself? You may be referring to the adage "God helps those who help themselves." That is not a biblical passage at all. And not helping those who don't help themselves is not a biblical concept either.

Answer to:
Some lads in the UK will refer to women as 'Birds' do you do this or know of anybody else who has/does? Ever heard a woman say it? My lil sis refers to women as birds!! There's a scene in the movie "Beautiful Thing" in which a young British woman refers to another woman as a "bird" and the man she is speaking to tells her she shouldn't use that term that way because it's degrading to herself. Pretty cool defense of women by a man, I thought.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Has anyone had cheezey peas? what were they like? I don't know about cheezey peas, but I do love peas mixed into my macaroni and cheese.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Khristian Oliver, 32, is set to be killed on 5 November after jurors used Biblical passages supporting the death penalty... Is the American Taliban gaining power in the US? Is there any outrage? What do Biblical passages have to do with the American Taliban?

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Anyone know if one can move his/her hard line phone number to a voice mail box service? I have my telephone service bundled with my cable tv and internet services. My telephone comes with a voice mail feature. Or you could check the yellow pages under "answering services."

Answer to:
Do you feel old or young most of the time? Physically I feel rather old, but emotionally I generally feel younger than my chronological age. It's a good thing to be young at heart, but it kind of gets in the way when I let myself think that someone much younger than I might actually be interested in me.

Answer to:
Is monogomy fundamentally flawed? Certainly not! In fact it's a really good idea. Is it for everyone? I guess not, but it's still safer than playing the field.

Answer to:
Does anyone believe the technology for teleportation already exists, at least in theory? If so, will it become a reality in our lifetime? No and No. At least not for living beings.

Answer to:
Is it Christmas time yet? Walk into the "garden Shop" area of your local Walmart and you'll have your answer.

Answer to:
I am currently wirting a book pertaining to the ignorance of the everyday consumer. Would anyone be willing to give a hilarious or stupid quote actually said by a customer? I will write a dedication to you in the book. I was working in a Christian Book Store that offered engraving on leather Bibles. One day a woman brought in a previously purchased Bible and me "Would you autograph this for me?"

Answer to:
Have you ever felt God's presence? I can honestly say that there have been several times when I felt like I felt God's presence. It may have been some sense of emotion I was experiencing, but the sense of peace and joy was undeniable and wonderful.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
To the people who are bigoted hateful religious zealots, is "Gay" the new "Black?" For "hateful religious zealots," bigotry is non-discriminating.

Answer to:
My son sleeps in my house with his fiance. It disturbs me because they are not married, and I am a devout Catholic. She cooks in the house, stays over on the weekends and does nothing to help out with the house cleaning. Shouldn't she help out? Several thoughts to share: If she stays only on weekends, then she doesn't really "live" there and shouldn't be expected to act as though she does. Your religious beliefs are certainly strong and very important to you, but your son and his fiance obviously don't share them. Sorry, but you can't force them on him. But... It's your house, and your rules....

Answer to:
Was their someone in the past you were in a relationship with you wish you were with now There is one I person I haven't seen in years that I can't stop thinking about. I wish I could see him once more to see if we could rekindle the flame.

Answer to:
Are you more willing to tell people you agree with them than that you disagree? In person, I'm more likely to hide my disagreement. On AB, not so much. It's good practice for real life.

Answer to:
I suppose we are all prejudiced to one degree or another about one thing or another. Do you control yours or do they have a life of their own? I confess to having prejudices ingrained in me from my childhood. But I've grown to more mature attitudes in many areas, that included. Now I see that these things that I was taught are absolutely, positively, 100% wrong. Sometimes they rear their ugly heads for an instant, but I dismiss the thought and act on truth and logic. So, yes, I do control my prejudices.

Answer to:
Do you like fried pickles? I like pickles, and I'm sorry to say I love fried foods. I tried fried pickles once - at a New Orleans restaurant that claims them as a specialty. They were disgusting. Addicting in the moment, but disgusting. Never again.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
True of False, you manage money better now than just a year ago? True. I manage to run out faster than ever!

Answer to:
Is there a subset of Christians who support the death penalty for gays? How big are they? Yes. At last count, there were 69 of them.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
When logging on to Answerbag I always try to answer the top question on the home page,have you tried this exercise? No, not really, especially not as an exercise. My routine is more like RosieGHM Jetpacker's. First I check for responses to my questions, answers and comments, and respond to them as appropriate. Next I check for new activity from my friends and respond to them if I think I have anything worthwhile to contribute. After that I start reading over the unanswered questions and answer the...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What kind of people instill the most confidence in you....those who are calm, soft-spoken, choose their words carefully and are in control or those who are impassioned, pumped up and use words casually, even promiscuously? That's a really interesting question for me. I think both types have opportunity for abuse. I've been particularly vulnerable, in the past, to impassioned, pumped up salesmen offering used cars, business opportunities, religion, and everything in between. At the same time, the calm, soft-spoken person may use his carefully chosen words to deceive, too. All-in-all, though, I think...

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
If you suddenly became very wealthy after years of living paycheck-to-paycheck, would you still use coupons, check for deals, and try to get the most for your money? I don't think so, Rosie. It's such hard work these days just to stay even with the paychecks that my first inclination would be to take a permanent vacation from the effort. That does not mean that I would adopt a neuveau-riche-like opulence, but I would upgrade my lifestyle, after investing for the future.

Answer to:
How long does it take before you put away the laundry that you finally got done? Anything that goes on a hanger I remove from the dryer 2 or 3 items at a time just before the cycle finishes. Everything else I take to my bed and fold it there. I almost always fold it and put it away immediately, because it's easier; but I definitely get to it before I go to bed.

Answer to:
What's a twink? Your favorite kind of guy!

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
In addition to valid difference of opinion, what other reasons might one have for criticizing the words/actions of others? A narcissistic sense of superiority.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
We live in very uncertain times in a very uncertain world and there is little about which we can be certain. Oddly enough though, some people are absolutely positive they have all the answers and everyone who disagrees is wrong. How do they "know"? One of my favorite phrases used to be "I know that I know that I know..." I'm still very confident about a lot of things, but now acknowledge that there are far more things that I don't know. The problem I see with people who are so sure that they are right, that they believe all others are wrong, is that they don't know what they don't know. In fact, they...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Are you in tune with your subconscious at all or is that a foreign land you've yet to visit? Rosie, there are parts of my conscious mind I no longer seem able to find. My subconscious will just have to remain a pristine wilderness. ;)

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Have you ever met anyone on AB in real life that you weren't friends with before you went on AB? Not yet, but I have a short list of people I might like to stalk someday. lol

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Have you ever met anyone on AB in real life that you knew before you went on AB? You probably mean a chance meeting, right? No to that for me. I did convince a real-life friend to look at the site; he joined and is now trying to overtake me in points earned. So far, it's a friendly rivalry. So far.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
If you have posted an answer to a question, does it give you a feeling of pride and/or satisfaction ("accomplishment?"), to see that sometimes, your answer has MORE rating points than the question it answers? I imagine that it would, but I don't remember that happening. Frankly, I'm happy just to get some points. On the other hand, if I've put a lot of thought and effort into an answer, or thought myself to have been particularly funny, it gives me great satisfaction to be the "top" answer (in ratings).

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
What color is bile/venom/vitriol/hatred? Do people who hate realize that they are full of it? The problem with hatred is that it is chameleon. It changes color according to its host. The worst offenders are unaware of how toxic they are, because they are too busy justifying their rancor to notice.

| 4 people like this

Answer to:
Their is a certain truth that no amount of spinning or equivocating can change.. was the world better off because you were here or were you detrimental/harmful/destructive to it? What do you think? My first thought, Rosie, when I read this question, was "To answer this I must either toot my own horn or burst my own bubble." A difficult choice. My second thought was of how incredibly easy this question is to answer: the world is a better place because I was here, not just because of anything I've done, but because of the legacy I have given in the persons of my two...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
A gal I know bought the linked item [below this question] from a GF of hers & complains that it isn't helping her to get a man with whom she can have lotsa sex. The device, she claims, is called a "STUD FINDER." Why won't it help her find a guy to love? I don't use one of those things. I'm quite capable of finding studs with my hands. Of course I get hit a lot, but I'm getting used to that.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Do you know anyone who is so invested in "being right" he/she can never admit being wrong? I remember being wrong once. It was the time I thought I was wrong but was actually right. ;)

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Are you so sane that it's driving you crazy? No, but its making those around me a little nutzo.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Snowblower or Snowthrower? I'm from the deep South, and really have no idea. Is it possible that both are correct, depending on the design function of the machine? For example, a snow thrower would suck up the snow and throw it out and away, much like tree chipper. A snow blower would just blow the snow out of the way, much like a leaf blower. Of course snow is not leaves and would be much harder to blow. And...

Answer to:
When getting directions like, "Go four stoplights and turn left," do you always ask, as I do, "Is this light here 'Number Zero,' or 'Number One'?" (Assuming you are AT an intersection, when the directions are given.) Yes, but the other person usually looks at me like I'm stupid or sumpin. Fortunately, I usually get the answer I need.

Answer to:
Sometimes making fun of something terrible helps to take the "teeth" out of it. What do you think? I've often said that the ability to laugh at some aspect of a terrible situation can help us keep from crying uncontrollably about it. My Dad has Alzheimer's Disease, and my Mom has shed a LOT of tears over it. After a while, I started "showing her the humorous side" (translated "cracking jokes") and making her laugh. She really appreciated it and has even...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What if every one on this earth convert to islam? Christ would return for the rapture and have to go home alone!

Answer to:
As shown on the video, "The Millionaire" was about people who were suddenly given US$1,000,000 "tax free." What I'd like to know is, how could this money have been given to someone "tax free?" (The year of the video was 1955, with "Dr. McCoy" in it.) A detail as fictional as the story containing it.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Would you ever buy this "gum massager"? (try not to snicker . . . .) Sure I'd use it. I just wouldn't waste it on my gums!

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
I know you're not supposed to leave your kids alone in a car, but what about when you need to get gas? Serious answers only please. Try to plan your trips so that you purchase gas when your children are not with you. That failing, don't use cash. Pay at the pump instead. Even with that, be sure that the car doors and windows are closed and the engine is turned off while you are pumping gas. Otherwise you have a greater risk of causing an explosion and/or fire due to a spark from the engine, or even static...

Answer to:
What can you tell me about Fruit Flys? They are straight girls who like to hang out with gay guys.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
What if people were like dogs. and you just ran around and tryed to mate everyone. How stupid would things get??lol Its bad enough now, the way people flaunt their heterosexuality. I don't want to have to see them actually doing it. Yuck!

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Do you prefer movies or live theater? Why? While I like the intimacy and uniqueness of live theater, I ultimately prefer movies. Theater has physical limitation that can be overcome in movies by location, editing, special effects, etc. And I get to take movies home with me on DVD!

Answer to:
What is the best day you have had this week? why? Today. It's Saturday!

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Did you go through a period of time when you didn't have to take off your clothes for a physical exam? I had to be naked before 11 yo and from 16 on. From 11 to 15 only down to undies. I've never had to be naked for the whole exam. Certain portion on rare occasions, yes, but not the whole thing. I haven't even had t strip to my undies in decades.

Answer to:
Does sex increase the butt size of a woman and do men gain weight If so, why am I not skinny?

Answer to:
Im 16 and was talking to a friend of mine (18) about me aruging with my mum. He suggested that i come live with him and that we would be 'bachelors' together as he's moving out early next year. He apparenlty likes me but does this seem odd to anyone else? If it seems odd to you, that should be enough to make you say "No." That said: You are too young to move out of your Mum's home. You are too young to move into an apartment of your own. You are too young to move in with an 18 year old guy. He is too old to take responsibility for a 16 year old. If your relationship turned sexual, he could go to jail, and/or you could become...

Answer to:
My daughter is 16 and is in a relationship with a newly 20 year old she seems very very happy and he treats her with nothing but respect. He is a family friend so i trust him. there is no sexually activity. Is this illegal? Illegal? No. Unwise? Yes. Its not a safe situation for either of them. And, trust aside, how do you KNOW there is no sexual activity?

Answer to:
I love Rachel Maddow (MSNBC)! I want her to have my children although she is a lesbian about 40 y.o. Is that so wrong? Wrong? Naw. Disturbing? You bet!

Answer to:
Can your house be haunted by an odor? The odor isn't a haunting. You only smell it when YOU're there, right? ;)

Answer to:
Did you get a mortgage way out of your league? How ya doing now? My RENT is out of my league. Mortgage? Fagitaboudit.

Answer to:
Do your parents embarrass you? What?! On purpose? I haven't felt embarrassed by my parents since I was in my early twenties - with one exception: My Dad claimed not to remember my name when he publicly welcomed me back to church a few years ago.

Answer to:
Was the guy who tried to blackmail Letterman a Christian? What's wrong with sex with subordinates? I dunno about the guy. Sex with subordinates opens the door for charges of sexual harassment.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What's your middle name? (2009-09-30) I can't tell you mine, because its the answer to a common internet security question. But I am very proud of it.

Answer to:
Marge Simpson will be appearing naked in Playboy? What toon do you want to see naked next? Donald Duck already wears no pants; now let's see him bare-chested! Or would that be "bear"-chested?

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Do you believe in "Lust at first Leer?" Yes, but I believe even more strongly in "Leer at First Lust"!

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Some Atheists suggest that, because Religion in the USA is indeed a BUSINESS, that they should be required by law to report their income & pay their fair share of taxes on their capital gains. I agree with that. What are your views on that? There have already been several good answers, on both sides of this issue. My view is that religious entities should be required to submit financial records to determine whether they are properly operating under "not for profit" guidelines. Churches that properly funnel their income into charity or mission concerns should not be penalized. Ministries whose leaders drive Rolls Royce...

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
When one reads stories like this one about the one-legged Dove and the orphaned Bunnies [click on the link, below this question], how can Atheists continue to claim that a Gawd never existed? (It just seems so "illogical" of them, doesn't it?) Well, I've never understood the "logic" of Atheism, but a story like this just isn't enough to create an epiphany. If God intervened in the details of this life, that dove would have had two legs and that dog would have been on a leash. For me, belief in God is a matter of faith, not proof. And most everyone who has none considers faith to be totally illogical.

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
Other than just the 2 words, "I'M SORRY," what can you suggest as a caption for this cute photo of a Beagle puppy? (No, there isn't any prize being offered, but the points you get will show how popular your answer is with your fellow ABers, right?) Holdin' it, holdin' it - just 'till he picks me up. Then I let him have it! Holdin' it, holdin' it...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
How I get free internet access? Use a friend's computer.

Answer to:
Did you ever take it out unexpectedly on a date? Naw. Its actually rather expected to take it out when your pants start ringing.

Answer to:
Is anyone from the LGBT AB community planing to attend the march in Washington D.C. this weekend? I wish I could. Raise a fist for me while you're there, will you?

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Do you look better with or without clothing? Unfortunately I LOOK better with clothes. Bit I FEEL better without - especially if I'm touching someone else in the same state of dress.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
GUYS: If you saw a photo like THIS one, would it turn you into a regular Christian churghgoer? TO ANYONE: Is this a good way to try to get new converts for a particular religion? Is this a classic example of what is called "SECTS APPEAL?" I DID see a photo like THIS one - this is the one I saw - and it did not make me want to become a regular churchgoer. Now if His Lordship were to pose there...

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Just got big check in the mail from my last job. Want to take off for a quick vacation. Who wants to come with me and where shall we go? I think you should come to New Orleans to visit ME! I'm sure we can find something fun to do around here. If you get tired of the French Quarter and some of the best seafood on earth, we can board a ship and cruise the Caribbean for a few days.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
How often do you get IMs from people you don't know requesting to join your contact list? Do you ignore or add them? I don't get very many, but I do always ignore them.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
How would you describe your speaking voice? Do you have a good phone voice? An accent perhaps? I know that I can't stand listening to my own speaking voice on a recording. But I've been told that, on the phone, my voice is very friendly and calming. I guess it's a good thing that I have a job that involves a lot of customer service over the phone, huh?

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
GOOFY & PLUTO are both DOGS, yet GOOFY is the only one of the two who TALKS and WALKS ON TWO LEGS. Why is that? Why is PLUTO "more doglike," than GOOFY? Perhaps it was Disney's foreshadowing of Pluto losing its designation as a planet. (I know, that's dumb. But I just couldn't help myself.)

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
I didn't know where else to put this bit of insanity, but IF you're able to watch this all the way through, would you agree that this has to be the WEIRDEST video found anywhere on YouTube®? How would you like this guy living next door to you? Weird, yes. But I couldn't get over the great job of editing this shows. As far as him being my neighbor, I don't plan to move to Germany any time soon, so I guess I don't have to worry about it ... unless he moves here. I'd better go talk to my landlord.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
My former roomate came out to me as Bi, and i came out to him as gay, we both like each other, but he claims if we did anything it would be "awkward" because we were roomates? what should i do? Im really attracted to him? Im thinking of ending it. Hi, Brian~ Hope all is well with you. I'm just wondering how things are with you and your roommate two months after asking this question. Did you "do anything?" Still friends? Still roommates? If your answers are no, yes and yes, or if I had noticed this question while it was new, I'd have offered this advice: Generally speaking, sex between JUST roommates isn't...

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
Do you think that David Letterman should resign from his show in wake of his current sex scandal? Why or why not? No. He's an entertainer, not a minister.

| 4 people like this

Answer to:
What part of your body do you love the most? I'm a guy. Do I REALLY have to answer that? ;)

Answer to:
Why are there different religions if it's all the same god? It's not all the same god. There is only one true God. The rest are imitators. Here's my logic: Just as an example, Christians believe that God says Jesus is the only way to heaven. Other religion's gods say that Jesus is not the way to heaven, but that following whatever means they have established in their own "scriptures" is the way to heaven. If it's all...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
I want to switch my paid plan samsung to a different samsung Well good for you. Go right ahead. Oh, was that supposed to be a question?

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
How Big Should Your Penis Be By Age 17 Whatever size it happens to be. There is no standard. Just relax and fagetaboudit.

Answer to:
Would it upset you if your husband/wife/partner farted during sex? For the most part, no, because it would mean that he is totally relaxed and comfortable. There is a way that it might bother me a bit - and that depends on where my face is at the time.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Are you easily stressed or keep cool as a cucumber? I get totally stressed, in part, because I try so hard to APPEAR cool as a cucumber.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Can you fall in love quickly ? e.g. in 3 months? my boyfriend says he is in love with me and although I really like him alot, I feel awkward that I cannot say I am in love, what do I do as I do not want to lose him before I get to know him.? Yes, it's possible, but it's not likely. A couple of things to consider: Guys often play the "love card" to get sex. Don't give it to him until you are BOTH sure. If he really loves you, he'll be doing everything he can to win your love, not searching for greener pastures just because you're not sure yet. Good luck.

Answer to:
What s theme of story 'Just Lather, Thats All ' by Hernando Tellez I've never heard of it, but the title sounds like it might be a lesson in the unfortunate consequences of failure to follow directions. If you just lather, but fail to rinse, you're gonna end up with a BAD case of dandruff.

Answer to:
I know my avatar is small, but what does it bring to mind (assuming that you can see it well enough?) I just put URL up for bigger picture. Click link. Don't ask me why, but my second thought (after I noticed the teddy bear) was of Pip visiting Miss Havisham's house in Great Expectations. Perhaps the teddy was for Estella. (My first thought? "Ummm - he's hot.")

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What is the oldest television show you actually remember watching as a child? The Rifleman

Answer to:
I've considered myself to be a Republican more than a Democrat. Yet I vote for Pro choice and gay marriages. I'm "conservative" to an extent. My question is, am I the only one like this? There must be other "hybrids" out there. I'm with you, Lady G!

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
If you look to the right of you what do you see? A flaming group of Evangelicals.

Answer to:
What is your opinion on the subject of abortion? Explain please! I am basically pro-life. I believe that every woman should have the right to choose, but that she should choose BEFORE she jumps in the sack. This means that I must make allowance for rape victims. For that, I favor the "morning after" pill. One more thing: there is NEVER a legitimate reason for performing the so-called "partial birth" late-term abortion.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Let me correct a word from my riddle. I left it out and it is very important...Sorry this word is important...... There was a man who crossed a bridge, tipped his hat and drew his cane, and in this riddle I've said his name.....Whats his name? Andrew?

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Should the media outlets be responsible for the accuracy of adverts? I wish they could be, but I doubt it will ever happen.

Answer to:
The right holds on to christianity like a child holds on to a teddy bear, but they insist that charity to the poor, to children, to the downtrodden, et al, is bad. How do they justify the paradox? Where in the world did you get a notion like that? Christians believe no such thing. You should verify your "facts" before you spout them about.

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
If you went to a "free" photobooth, would you react like these people? Probably so, I'm embarrassed to say. Thanks for sharing that video; it's very funny.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
I want to know if when im like in my 40's if I will be attracted to men my age or if I will still still be looking at the 20 something yr. olds? Because as of right now I just dont see myself being physically attracted to anyone over 30... Well, my dear, if you're at all like me, you'll find that as your age gets higher, your standards will get lower. lol Seriously, you're always going to be attracted to hot young studs but, since they won't be as likely to be attracted to you, reality will set in and you will become more and more attracted to guys nearer your own age. But here's hoping you find a...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Who sings the jingle "if u want to be free, be free- if you want to be you, be you...".(its for the t-mobile "my touch" phone commercial) it sounds an awful lot like cat stevens to me. i have a small wager on this- my friend disagrees. does anybody know? You win! It was Cat Stevens. And yes, I'm sure. Now just how small is that wager? ;) By the way, If you like Cat Stevens music, you should watch the movie "Harold and Maude." The whole soundtrack is Cat Stevens, and it's a great movie, too - if you like dark humor.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
I help my boss with her college assignments. (I know, bad) She wants me to come and type some stuff for her. I dont mind doing it at work when I get paid but I do not want to spend my weekend helping. Any good excuses to get out of this without offending? When I was in college, I paid by the page for someone to type my papers. Perhaps instead of trying to come up with an excuse (which may come back to bite you), ask your boss something like "Shall we set a per page fee, or would you rather pay by the hour for my services?" Of course, that may bite, too, but it's just a suggestion.

Answer to:
If you go out for dinner and something you don't like is in your meal, would you dig it out? If you mean something like a fly or a roach or a black olive, you bet I would!

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Who wants to go bowling with me? I haven't been bowling in years. I'd love to go!

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Can you really go blind from maturbating? Sorry, I couldn't see your question.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Whats the street price for 20mg of Oxycontin? Your life.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Why is that black latina's go out with white latin men in huge numbers? I'll see your double racist chip and raise you a sexist chip.

Answer to:
I love my boyfriend a lot, but there's this other guy I the picture. I've only known my boyfriend for about two weeks, and the other guy for 2 years. They have both expessed their love for me.... WAT DO I DO? Welcome to Answerbag, Mari. I hope this doesn't discourage you too much, but look again at your question. You've known a guy for two weeks and already regard him as your boyfriend? How old are you? 8? 10? You should date a guy for several more weeks than that before seeing him that way. I'm sure you're a great gal and he is probably a great guy, but two weeks does not...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Which is a more mature outlook for a child's political views; to believe something just because their parents do, or to be into whatever is the opposite of what their parents believe? Neither outlook is mature in and of itself. To believe "x" because that's what Mom and Dad taught me is blind conformity. To believe "y" because it is the opposite of what Mom and Dad taught me is outright rebellion. The mature thing to do, when old enough to do so, is to weigh all options, decide for oneself, and be prepared to explain the decision.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What is a polite or humorous response to people who ask if they can take something from your garden? Something that will get the point across of "Don't you know it is rude to ask" without being offensive? Pat (the dull side of) a sharp garden tool into the palm of your hand, or firmly rub the handle of a hoe, shovel or sickle, look them dead in the eye, and say "Just once."

Answer to:
Is it possible that when you clone something you can change the age of it to whatever you may want it to be? Cloning is not the same as building. the cloning process uses existing DNA to develop a new embryo that is implanted into a compatible uterus, where it develops until it is born as an infant. So no, it is not possible to change the age at will. Research is in progress that some hope will lead to the ability to develop body parts individually and separately. It's a part of clone...

Answer to:
What do you want to change about yourself that you think, if the change happens, then you'll be better in person. (it can be a personality change or physical change.) I'd like to change my weight and body shape, but that wouldn't really make me a better person, would it? Better-looking, perhaps, but not better. Even as I typed that answer, it occurred to me that, if I would exert the self-discipline to loose the weight and change my shape, that exertion would make me a better person, if I carried it over into other aspects of my life. I think...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Which website do u visit most? Answerbag, of course!

Answer to:
Who is a better singer Donna Summer or Whitney Houston? I think they're both great. But if I had to pick one, I'd go with Whitney because I think she's performed a slightly wider range of musical styles.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Are rain gutters actually necessary on a house? I was thinking of having mine removed because they are just a trap for tree debris and I have to risk life and limb cleaning them out once a year. I don't think they're absolutely necessary, but they're pretty important and have some significant advantages. They protect you when placed over your entrances. Without them, the water flowing from the apex to the bottom can flow off the roof like a waterfall. This can obstruct your view out your windows and possibly cause damage to your garden, flowerbed or shrubbery, and...

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
What can you use Cloves for? I have a jar but have no idea what to do with them! Look for one with four leaves for good luck! :)

Answer to:
Do you ever make fun of yourself? Constantly. Laughing at myself is the only way to keep from crying.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What movie or scene traumatized you as a child (im assuming its from a horror but it doesnt have to be)? The flying monkeys in "The Wizard of Oz." I still have trouble watching that movie all the way through.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
What's one thing you can never seem to find, when YOU need it? My umbrella!

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Do you drink the milk left in your cereal bowl, or do you pour it down the sink? First, I pour more cereal into the bowl and keep eating. Then, when I've had enough and there's still some milk left, I drink it.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Does "thinking" energize you or deplete you? That depends on what I'm thinking about. If my thoughts lead me to try something new, or to a better way of doing something, it energizes me. If I'm thinking about things over which I have no control, but by which I seem to be consumed, then it tends to deplete me.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Do YOU keep anything under your mattress, or bed? What? There's nothing under my mattress, but there's plenty of dust under my bed.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
When was the last time you saw a rainbow? What were your thoughts? GaY pRIDE PARADE.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
How many retards does it take to shut up a fag? Depends on how many N(egroes)are involved. Just kidding! This is obviously not a serious question in this day and age. is it?

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What would be a funny business name for a store that sells eyeglasses? Jeepers Peepers

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
If Obama were gay who would he make a "cute couple" with? "Dick" Chaney

Answer to:
Whenever I see a black man with a white woman I get mad, does this make me racist or a bad person? After reading 24 previous answers (including one credited to me that I don't even remember posting) and their comments, I've come up with a different perspective for you. It was touched upon in the comment threads of a couple of earlier answers. I think its a matter of respect that you are reacting to, not race. When a man expresses disrespect toward "his woman,"...

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
How old were you when you gave a guy a blowjob for the first time? I was about 14. A buddy of mine and I agreed to experiment. I like it now a lot more than I did then.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
For the Guys: Have you ever given another man a BJ and if so how old were you when you first gave one I was about 14. A buddy of mine and I agreed to experiment. I like it now a lot more than I did then.

| 5 people like this

Answer to:
Whenever I see a black man with a white woman I get mad, does this make me racist or a bad person? It makes you a weird person with poor boundaries, Have a nice day!

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Why do gay people expect the worlds religions to throw away core values and belifes just to accept the gay life style? Why do they want to force their life style on the religious? Why do you assume gay people want that? I rather think if you apply your core beliefs to yourself and leave other people to their own choices, there will be no problem whatsoever.

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
Apportioment of price Is there a question here?

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
I am new to answerbag and wanted to know if there is a gay community here or just heterosexuals asking questions about homosexuals? We're really here, HLS - out, loud and proud!

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
How many openly gay, lesbian, or bisexual Answerbaggers are there out there? I'm gay - and happy, too.

Answer to:
My boyfriend is willing to give up on our relationship because he doesn't think he can be a good enough husband and he is stressed out with school and doesn't have time for me, but a month ago we are talking about marriage.....? Back off from the marriage talk for now, and give him his space. School is important, and if your relationship is meant to be, it will withstand this test of time. He's right about not being a good enough husband: school and other concerns have him preoccupied, and it would all be too much if he added marriage right now. Just remain supportive 'till he has his degree, then start...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
If you had to change your AB avatar, what would you change it to? Perhaps...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What does this mean: the number of good die as compared to the bad die. So far, it appears that 100% of good die, and 100% of bad die. So it's pretty even. (I assume that you are referring to people.)

Answer to:
When you see "street people" (homeless people), does it annoy you, do you feel sorry for them, do you feel guilty, do you immediately want to help them, do you ignore them, do you judge them? I do feel sorry for them, and I feel guilty for feeling annoyed. I most often wish someone would help them so that I wouldn't have them to ignore. But I don't judge them. I don't want to give them money because I don't want to contribute to a possible drug or alcohol problem. So I have, on several occasions, offered to buy them some food; I've had only one accept...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
When someone proves you wrong do you have a hard time admitting it? No. I'm used to it. I've been married for 27 years!

Answer to:
Is taking a break from your partner a good idea??im 19 and my fiance is 27, age was never an issue but l8ly iv noticed it.. i feel as tho im not ready yet to be so committed would takin a break make me realise what i really want? It seems to me that, in your situation as you describe it here, taking a break is a VERY good idea. I have at least two reasons for saying this: 1) Although 8 years won't seem like such a large age difference 30 years from now, right now it is quite a large difference. He has had a lot more life experience than you have, and you need time to finish your education and gain other types of...

Answer to:
How to stop panic / anxiety attacks ?? hi, I'm experiencing panic attacks and anxiety attacks and couldn't find a treatment or cure to help me. is there anyone who's been there and knows how can I live my life quiet again? thank you for the help See a psychiatrist or medical psychologist. They can give you therapy and prescribe medication(s) to help. Just be aware that the meds will treat the symptoms, and the is no quick cure.

Answer to:
What is for breakfast? Don't know yet. You buyin'?

Answer to:
Left over pizza is in the fridge...Do you heat it up or eat it cold? It depends: If I eat it for breakfast, I eat it cold; otherwise, I heat it up.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Have you heard of Cutco? Yes I have! A college friend sold Cutco knives for extra money, and my Mom bought a set from him. She still has and uses most of them. They've lasted for over 35 years.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Do you know the difference between being assertive and being aggressive? How about being a bully? What does it mean to you to,these differences? Just off the top of my head, I'd say that "assertion" is an attempt to influence, while "aggression" is an attempt to force. Bullies use aggressive behavior to try to boost their own self-esteem.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
What is an influence on who you will pick for a S/O? GENDER p;us the other excellent answers already given.

Answer to:
Would you rather go camping outdoors in a tent, or spend a night in a fancy hotel room? My idea of "roughing it" is a hotel without room service.

Answer to:
I love my bf but he keeps sayin he luvs his mate more than me i know hes joking but i dont like it when he says it then he said he thinks me and his mate should go out and his mate asked me and i dunno if hes joking. but i wouldnt leave my bf wats hapenin You could try distancing yourself from both of them for a while. If your bf is really serious about you, he'll seek you out and try to find out what's wrong. Whether you use the distancing idea or not, you should talk with him in a serious (don't sound mad - just don't sound like you're joining in on the "joke") tone and tell him how you feel. His...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
How would you go about giving a cat up for adoption if you couldn't properly care for her,but can't go through the ads because of a money issue? You can take it to the nearest animal shelter/Humane Society location. You could do a little more homework and find a "no kill" shelter if that's important to you.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Im 14 and only had one wet dreams is that normal? The fact that you have had ONE wet dream indicates that your body is functioning in that area. "Normal" is relative in the area of physical development, so you're doing just fine. There are other factors that may influence the frequency of wet dreams, but this is not the place for an adult to discuss that with a 14 year old. I suggest you ask your Dad, doctor, or other trusted...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Are un-circumsize peins bigger than curcumsize penise? please help :| No, circumcision has nothing to do with penis size.

Answer to:
Can you withstand a lot of pain until it eventually goes away? Or do you "crack" under the slightest discomfort and want PAIN MEDS . . . . . . . . . . .NOW? I have the pain threshold of a mosquito.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
How can I verify my MSN email address if I didn't get a confirmation email? On the contact list, my ID shows up as "*****@aol.com (E-mail address not verified). Thanks! Send yourself an email at the MSN address. If you receive it at MSN, you'll know the address is OK. If you get a failure notice, you'll know it isn't OK.

Answer to:
When was the last time you went to cinema and what did you see? 8/30/09 Inglorious Bastards 4 3/4 stars

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Does anyone know a site for beginners to learn how to read and write traditional Chinese? Try http://www.tutorming.com/webinar/freedownload/free.asp Please note: I have NOT used this site; I just stumbled upon it while researching another question.

Answer to:
What is the real Chinese symbol for prosperity? See http://www.living-chinese-symbols.com/chinese-symbol-for-prosperity.html

Answer to:
Why are none of my questions getting answered? According to my count, you've received, so far, 226 answers to 9 questions. Only one has no answers (sorry I can't help you with your breasts). Hope this makes you feel better.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What would you do if you caught your spouse/significant other cheating with somebody of the same sex? I'm not sure, but I'd probably either shoot them, or join them.

Answer to:
Is it illegal for an eighteen year old senior to drop out of high school? I don't think it's illegal, but I do think it's stupid. Stay in school and get your diploma; you'll be glad you did, and very, very sorry if you don't.

Answer to:
Is it wrong to be singing christian songs when i'm catholic? I just find christian songs more interesting and appealing. I used to believe that Catholic and Christian were two different things. I've since expanded my faith spectrum to include Catholics, gays, liberals and others I used to regard as "Godless." Does your question mean that you believe that Catholicism and Christianity are mutually exclusive? Sing the songs that make you happy, proclaim your faith, and that you believe are...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
How do you tell your sister that she is not invited into your home due to past experiences that have severed your relationship? If the relationship is severed, why does she even want to come? Could it be that she wants to make amends? Perhaps you should consider opening the door to your home - and your heart.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Why is it that the LGBT freaks in SF allow NAMBLA to have it's office there? is it because gays are into GROOMING boys boys into homosexuals. if you look at the FBI crime stats for the USA you will see that 85% of the known paedophiles are gay or bi men Sight your source, or keep your misrepresentations to yourself. You are woefully biased and obviously have an agenda here. I wouldn't be surprised to learn that you your self have a problem with your sexual identity. You should check your motives, and your heart.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Why do gay men go to Asian countries to have sex with 8 year old little boys For the same reason that, but with far less frequency than, straight perverts go to Asian countries to have sex with 8 year old little girls.

Answer to:
In south carolina can an employer make you take a drug test for a worker comp claim? As far as I know, it is true in all states that if being uninhibited by drugs is a requirement of your employer, then they can require a drug test for a workman's comp claim. At my company, a drug test is required for any work sight injury.

Answer to:
I failed a drug test for marajuana. I only smoke weed after work. Do you think i should be denied employment? I say the company has the right to set its criteria for employment. I suppose it follows that you have the right to smoke weed if you want to, but with that decision comes the requirement that you accept the consequences of your actions. Being disqualified for employment is one of those consequences. And there are worse consequences than that, too.

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
What is a good cause 2quit ur job and get unemployment?I quit my job becuz they were threating 2 take more than half of my pay 2 cover moeny I owed and money they though I stolen and when I told them no they proceed 2 tell me if u dont quit we will fire u Sorry to tell you this, but you're not going to qualify for unemployment either way. If you quit your job, you don't qualify; and if you are fired for something like stealing, you definitely won't qualify. Good luck to you.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What is your favorite bar? The Bourbon Pub in the French Quarter in New Orleans.

Answer to:
How do i know if my penne is too small? Comparerd to others in class, I'm quite tiny, but after I do grow, Don't know how much there's grows. Help me please. An adult friend was using my computer and decided it would be funny to ask a silly question; he tried to sign up for his own account, but it still went in under mine.

Answer to:
Guys - if your best friend had a broken arm/fingers and needed a nut, would you jerk him off? What if the situation were reversed? Are you kidding? For my best friend I'd move in and do whatever he needed. A better question would be "Would you wipe his ass?" If you'll do that, jerking him off would be no big deal. Frankly, I'd be pleasantly surprised if my current best friend would do the same for me. But I'm nicer than he is. (The answer to your next question is for another ab category....

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
My employer is eliminating my job. They gave me the option of re locating to another site, which I cannot do, or de mote myself to a different position, which I also am unable to do due to the training/scheduling. Am I eligible for unemployment? It seems to me that declining to accept either of the choices they offer would leave them with the single option of discharging you due to the elimination of your position. As long as you don't resign, or do something illegal or blatantly against company policy, you should be able to collect unemployment.

Answer to:
Is it possible to be gay but still have ocassional sexual feelings for certain women, or would than mean that person is Bi? When I was a young man, I had huge crushes on Farrah Fawcett and Olivia Newton John. From my childhood, I seemed to relate much better to girls than to guys. Throughout high school and college, I dated only girls, falling (what I thought was) truly in love with at least 4 of them. Oh yeah - and I even married one of them. But sexuality is a matter of the mind and emotions - not just the...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What are cephalic indicies? A brief but interesting article: http://www.history.com/encyclopedia.do?articleId=205112

Answer to:
I believe my mother is showing signs of becoming senile, as she is frequently bringing up bad memories of our family from over thirty years ago. She is hurting all of us in the process with these comments, but is it too late to tell her she's out of line? If she is becoming senile, especially if it is due to Alzheimer's Disease, it won't matter too much, because these conditions affect the short-term memory. If her bringing up these old, hurtful memories is the only sign of senility, then telling her might help. Want some "how to" advice? Don't tell her she's out of line. Rather, when she brings up one of these...

Answer to:
Can you be a by-the-book Christian and still advocate the death penalty? All opinions are welcome. It can go both ways. The death penalty is an Old Testament concept. But Christians, "by the book" or not, select some OT regulations as still valid, while rejecting others.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
What would be one event that you wouldn't want to have included in your life story? Any number of things that haven't happened, and that I hope never do. But everything that has happened to me, or that I have done, work together to make me who I am. If my story is worth telling, its worth telling all. Its my thoughts that would prove the most embarrassing - some of those I'll never tell.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What is the longest lasting drug for the money? i.e. what will fuck me up for the longest for the cheapest? Here's a good one for you. On July 30, my 28 y/o daughter took a prescribed anti-anxiety drug, then smoked a joint, then did some heroin. It f.....d her up good. She passed out and wasn't found for about 8 hours. While being treated in the ER she coded for 16 minutes. She spent the next 5 days in a coma, is still in the ICU and is receiving daily dialysis. We're very...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Do you believe you've had a better day when you think you've been of help to others or when others have been of help to you? A little of both. But the relief of being helped isn't as enjoyable as the satisfaction of helping.

Answer to:
Does your taste in friends run more toward the intellectual, the fun-loving/easygoing or the seriously involved with causes? Fun-loving, for sure. The others are too much work.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
I don't like "heavy" meals! I make very easy and simple ones. The other night I make "wide" flat noodles with red kidney beans and Parmesean cheese sprinkled on top! My husband LOVED it! And that's ALL that was on it! What's a "SIMPLE" meal YOU enjoy? MacCheese 'n' Peas A box of Deluxe Macaroni and Cheese, prepared according to instructions, mixed with a can of preheated peas. Let your imagination run wild for variations. Last night I microwaved 4 slices of bacon until crisp, crumbled it up and added it. It was great. I called it "Piggy MacCheese 'n' Peas." I've also tried "Meaty MacCheese...

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Who"s your favorite celebrity crush Lance Bass. Yes, I know I'm really weird.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
I used to be gay throughout my teen years and my younger years. But when i was 23 I converted to heterosexuality when i became a christian and im now 26 and engaged to a beautifull girl and i was wandering should i tell her im an ex gay or not mention it? I'd love to know how things have gone for jefftry since he asked this question on Oct 15 2007. For the sake of others who might be interested, one does not "convert" from gay to straight. At jefftry's age, there is a possibility that he worked out some gender confusion when he decided to go straight, but he did not convert. I've been through reparative therapy. And...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
I am so confused the girl i love i havent seen in a year and have never even spoken 2, and now there is this new girl i really like her but i dont know if i can let go of my first love. what should i do? Your first love will always be just that: your first love. You may never forget her, but you will get over her. There's a saying: "A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush." That means that the girl you see and speak to today is of far more value to you than the one you haven't seen in a year and with whom you have never spoken.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
I HAVE A "NET10" PHONE.. I WOULD LIKE TO SEND TEXT MESSAGES TO MY PHONE FROM MY COMPUTER.. WOULD YOU LET ME KNOW THE E-MAIL ADDRESS FOR ME TO USE WHEN SENDING FROM MY COMPUTER... I'm no expert, and don't even have a "NET10" phone. But I found out my phone's email address by sending an email from my phone to my computer. The phone's email address showed up in the incoming message. Maybe that will work for you.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Why do banks leave the door wide open but the pens chained to the counter? They are afraid people will make off with their pens, but feel pretty certain that the doors will not suffer the same fate.

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
I think i maybe gay or bisexual, but im in the closet, how do i go about finding other bi or gay people to talk to? You can always talk to me, Brian.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Who do you wish would work together on a movie? Bronson Pinchot and Mark Linn-Baker

Answer to:
Who was the worst movie psychopath of all time? Annie Wilkes (Kathy Bates) in "Misery" (1990).

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
I want to kill myself. i am alone, a virgin and have no prospect of ever getting laid. Is there any non-religious non family BS reason, why i shouldnt blow my brains out?(I bet i get only one answer). Light answer: You've advanced to AB Level 22 in just about 3 weeks! Sounds like a good reason to go on living to me! Heavy answer: You've danced around the question of WHY you think you have no prospect of ever getting laid. Go ahead. Admit it. Then, if its something you can fix, fix it. If not, accept it and move on; in other words, live with it (pun intended). As...

| 5 people like this

Answer to:
If a woman having an affair with a married man is called a mistress, what is a man having an affair with a married woman called? I came across this question when I typed one almost identical to it for my own curiosity. So many answers! Some very funny, or at least good-natured attempts. Several offered good words that may well have satisfied my curiosity, but the differed so much, that I still was unsure. So I decided to find out the old-fashioned way. I looked them up in the dictionary (on-line, of course). The...

Answer to:
If you could have any super power besides flying which power would it be and what would you use it for , and why? Sometimes I'd like to be invisible. Unfortunately, it's for selfish reasons: I'd like to go places I don't belong and see things I have no business seeing. If you know what I mean ;)

Answer to:
Has anyone here successfully stopped biting their nails? If so...What made you want to stop? I'm 57 now, and quit biting my nails about a year and a half ago. I was always embarrassed by my hands' appearance and tried many times to quit, to no avail. I was working in retail and every month had to peel price labels off merchandise that was going off-sale. It always made my thumb hurt to use it to remove so many labels, so I got to the point that I could let just my...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
My husband of 11 years has the worst spending habits of anyone I have ever met. It has caused us on more than one occasion to talk divorce. He has purchased 4 brand new cars (5 if you count the motorcycle) in the last 20 months. Divorce or not? First, I think you and your husband should seek financial counseling either from a professional you pay, or from a non-profit like Consumer Credit Counseling. Second, I think you and your husband should seek marital counseling from a board certified psychologist (not just a social worker who's hung out a shingle). Don't let divorce be an option until and unless your husband...

Answer to:
How do you open those half gallons of ice cream that are in square containers? where the flap is or on the side? does it bug you when people don't do it the way you do? Well it doesn't bother me for someone to open it the "other" way, but it really bugs me if the carton gets torn. I prefer to open it at the flap because it makes it easier to scoop out all the way to the bottom. I use a knife to pry the flap up, then to pry the top from the ice cream. It works pretty well.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
When cooking for cookbook reserch should you let your gest know why your cooking for them and asking so many questions? I think it's a very good idea. Otherwise, the guest might think the cook is just fishing for compliments; that wouldn't lend itself to very honest answers. I certainly understand the need for asking questions in this case, but an alternative might be to ask none and just see what everyone says on their own. Or, explain what you are doing and have the guests answer a printed survey...

Answer to:
Gay dad or gay mom? My kids have a gay dad.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
I start with the letter r, and end with the letter r,what are the 2 letters in between the r's ea

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Would you assume that a Satanist is evil? Satanists revere the very essence of evil. It follows that they are spiritually evil. It does not follow that they are "bad people." The evil can do good, just as the good can do evil. On the surface, there isn't that much difference between a Satanist and a Christian: it's just that Christians have received forgiveness for the evil they do.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Who is the greatest southern rock band? The Doobie Brothers!

Answer to:
I am a Christian, but I rarely go to church. My friend claims I'm not a Christian because I do not attend church and show respect to God. Is this a true accusation? If so, what would I be if I'm not a Christian? Going to church doesn't make you a Christian any more than going to a garage makes you a car. Your relationship with Christ is personal; your public expression of it is your choice.

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
Have you ever walked around your house naked? Whenever I expect to be home alone for a good while.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Can you give me a link to a question that you asked on AB more than 3 months ago to which you haven't received a single answer? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1514811 It wasn't 3 months ago, but it was on my very first day on AB, so can we count it anyway?

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
My friend who's a guy really likes me. I like him too, but not in that way. we've discussed a lot of stuff and come to conclusions that we would rather not sacrifice a friendship for a relationship. Would it be "wrong" or ho-like if we kissed? If you mean a quick peck as part of a greeting or salutation, you'd probably be OK. But if you mean making out, you'll be sending each other mixed signals that will become increasingly difficult to decipher. Eventually, one or both of you will end up being hurt.

Answer to:
Would you rather have a friend who is brutally honest but sometimes comes off as offensive. Or a friend who is untruthful that comes off as fake? I do have a friend who is often brutally honest and offensive. I'm trying to learn to live with it to a certain extent, and help him learn to be softer with his answers. But I'd rather he stay just the way he is than to replace him with a "fake" who really couldn't be called a "friend" at all.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What company should I work for? I'm a senior level HR professional, A real Estate Broker, A state-certified Educator, A Dale Carnegie Instructor, Management Consultant, and Computer Repair technician. You sound over-qualified to me. Perhaps you should join the AB staff?

Answer to:
What would you teach a rogue monkey? Nothing. If it's rogue, it won't sit still to learn anything.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Are you always truthful on AB? Yes - why wouldn't I? I don't have to answer any question that makes me feel it might be necessary to lie. Now if you ask if I'm always right...

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Do you use toilet paper atop the toilet switch before flushing it?I found it dirty to touch cuz other may have dirty stuff(they touched their genital,may have poop contaminated from wiping).I also use toilet paper to turn on the water switch for wash hand No wonder the toilet handles are so dirty, with so many disgusting people using their feet to flush. The bottom of your shoe is far dirtier than the handle would be if everyone used their hands (hence the name HANDle). Touching the handle with your hand won't be a problem if you're going to wash your hands; and if you don't wash your hands, you're the reason the door...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
When you consider water use, electricity, pollution, or any other relevant factors, which is more environmentally friendly, washing dishes by hand or using a dishwasher? I think that if you fill the dishwasher before you run it, that may be more environmentally friendly than hand-washing the same number of dishes. But running a dishwasher with just a few dishes in it is very wasteful.

Answer to:
Just dance like ______? ...nobody's watching.

Answer to:
There's a perception that in homosexual relationships, there is 1 partner who's more masculine, and another who's more feminine (one gives/one takes, one is butch,etc) I don't know many homosexual couples.Does this apply at all or is it a load of rubbish? Well, there are those couples for whom the stereotype is true. But in reality, they are the exception, not the rule. The basis of a good relationship is love, not role assignment. In any loving relationship, both partners give, and both take; each leads in the areas of his strength while the other follows in the areas of his weakness. That's what makes relationships work.

Answer to:
Why do people try so hard to impress the people they date? Why not just be up-front with who you are and what your goals for dating/life are, so if the other person isn't compatible or doesn't like you, you can just move on to someone who does? That's really a great question. I've often wondered the same thing myself, though without the eloquent expression. Whether it's in a personal ad or a personal meeting, I'm one who believes in being open and honest from the very beginning. Truth in advertising, if you will. But there is a problem with this approach. One date told me not long ago that I "reveal too...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What would the title be if someone made a movie of your life? As the Stomach Turns

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Can flirting be harmless? or can it confuse people who dont really understand what flirting is? Yes, flirting can be harmless, but I think that it is far more likely to be harmful. It can get one or both of you with a s/o; it can be offensive if it's unwanted; it can lead someone on to believe that there is more to a relationship than there really is; It can be downright hurtful if it's done in the wrong place or circumstance, especially if the two know each other and the...

Answer to:
If you are separated or divorced or widowed, and dating again after say 15 or 20 years, what difference do you notice in your "dating style" now and earlier? You needn't actually be dating at present, but should have dated after a considerable time gap. Even fewer young hot guys find me attractive. Consequently, I've had to "expand" my standards to include men I wouldn't have even considered when I was in my twenties.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
If you won a million dollars, what would you do with it? Pay my debts. Pay my kids' debts. Pay my Mom's debts. Buy a house. Buy a car. Make a few donations. Invest the rest for retirement.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Why when ever your a teenager u have to get bossed around? This may not be what you want to hear, but... Teenagers are: Old enough to be smart, but too young to be wise; Old enough to want to be an adult, but too young to know what that really means; Old enough to be responsible, but too young to accept responsibility; Old enough to know what you want, but too young to understand what you need; Old enough to act independently, but too young to be...

Answer to:
My boyfriend has 2 kids wit his ex. This makes us fight alot cuz i cant get over it. Hes willing to forget about them to make us work but i feel bad. We love each other alot but i dont want to deal wit all this stress. wat should i do? Frankly, you need to get over it. You shouldn't put him in the position of choosing between his kids and you. And you should think twice about wanting to be with someone who is willing to forget about his children. What happens if you have children together then someone comes along to make him willing to forget about YOUR babies. I usually use this statement to refer to cheaters, but...

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Husband is a construction/handyman. He does beautiful work for his customers. When I ask him to do some handyman work for me around the house, he does a very shabby job. Should I insist he do a more professional job or just accept what he does? Since you've posted your question in the Home and Garden section, I'd say you should try hiring someone else to do the handyman work around the house. But... Had you posted your question in the Relationship section, I'm not so sure that hiring someone else would be a good idea. Perhaps you could ask your husband if he knows anyone who could come do the job.

Answer to:
Would you want a heterosexual to be imprisoned for disagreeing or opposing your lifestyle? What should the penalty be? Not here in America, no. The fundamental rights that we wish we had should not be removed from others just for disagreeing with us. If there is violence or blatant discrimination involved, yes: let them go to prison. But if it's just an internal disagreement or verbal opposition, it's called freedom of expression, and we can only hope that some day the holdouts of the heterosexual...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
I got up this morning and ate ________? Corn Chex

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Im going to become the perfect mom, does anyone have any hints to what a perfect mom does? i cant love my kids more than i already do, and i have already got everything i can for them, there is nothing they dont own. I'm sure you're a great mom, but might there be a need for you to learn to say "No"? I ask that because of your statement "i have already got everything i can for them, there is nothing they dont own."

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What is the difference between theft, robbery and burglary? Does it have to do with the amount of merchandise stolen? I'm no expert, but I'll take a stab at this one. Theft is taking something that doesn't belong to you. Robbery is taking it from some one who doesn't want you to have it. Burglary is going into a place you don't belong and taking something that doesn't belong to you. Just a thought.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
If i guy isnt really social but is respectful and nice and talks when you start a conversation, does he intrest you. I like a guy like that with a great body as well, i just don't know about him socially? Today's "I just don't know" is tomorrow's "What was I thinking?"

Answer to:
Must own jazz albums My favorites are contemporary and mostly female vocalists: Chris Botti - A Thousand Kisses Deep Sasha Dobson - Modern Romance Madeleine Peyroux - Half the Perfect World Liz Wright - Dreaming Wide Awake Enjoy!

Answer to:
I have a really good memory, I can meet someone once or have someone tell me someones name and I wont ever forget it. OR I can remember peoples outfits from days ago, a lot of people think im wierd because I can answer those random questions.. am i? Not weird at all. I rather envy your ability to remember names. I once had a pastor who had only to dial your phone number once and could remember it from then on. Personally, I may not specifically remember some one's outfit, but I'm more likely to remember someone if they're wearing the same outfit as when I met them.

Answer to:
Would my boyfriend be able to get custody of my daughter, when he may not be the father and I see him as an unfit parent? It seems to me that the best thing to do is get a paternity test. If he is the biological father, he has parental rights. If not the biological father, he probably has no rights. If he is named on the birth certificate, things will be significantly more complicated. Good luck.

Answer to:
What do you do when you still failed after you've attended so many success seminars and read self-development books? You could give up, but I don't recommend it. Instead, consider redirecting your attention to another area. If you're referring to occupational success, perhaps it's time to change careers. If you're thinking of personal success, such as personality characteristics, consider redefining success with your personality in mind. Sometimes it is better to adjust our...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Can someone please explain to me what the percentages on our profiles mean (questions, answers, ratings given)? As I understand it, the questions and answers percentages are for the number of positive ratings points you receive compared to the negative ratings (negative points). For moderation, it's the percentage of points you received for what the AB staff considered appropriate compared to those you would have received if they had considered all of your suggestions appropriate. (Moderation...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Psychologists have suggested that we tend to be most critical about characteristics in others that we most hate in ourselves; do you agree or disagree with this statement? I find that to be true of secret behavior and/or latent characteristics. When it comes to more public activities, we tend to justify in ourselves what we condemn in others.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
What musician do you like the most and why? May I mention three? Singer Mario Frangoulis because of his crystal clear voice; Jazz Trumpeter Chris Botti because of his soft, seductive trumpet sound; Violinist Joshua Bell because of his awesome fingers.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Have you accomplish anything this past weekend? Well, let's see. I did two loads of laundry and played in the French Quarter. That count?

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
You guys, you wanna to see NFL bloopers? That was fun, thanks!

Answer to:
What is the rules from the IRS when you work away from home and have two houses? Your question isn't very clear, but I'm guessing that since you work away from home, you are referring to commuting costs. The cost of commuting between home and work is not a deductible expense.

Answer to:
Attorney General Eric H. Holder Jr. is leaning toward appointing a criminal prosecutor to investigate torture. Do you support a investigation? See LINK: I think the President has done enough to stop the practice for the future, and hashing over all that stuff again will be fruitless. Just my opinion.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Isn't it interesting that AB has a category for Sarah Palin, who lost a bid to become VP; but no category for Dick Cheney, who served as VP for 8 years? Maybe its because nobody wants to know any more about Cheney, and are still trying to figure out who Palin really is.

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
Who drives you crazy? Or do you car pool ? (more than one person driving you crazy) My fxw, her bf, and his xso. Need a translation? That's my future ex-wife, her boyfriend, and his ex-significant-other. Fxw can't leave my house and move into bf's because xso won't accept that she's out; she won't leave them alone, and she creates all kinds of trouble for them. Bf won't do what he needs to do to make her stop. So I'm stuck with fxw...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
I may be gay; now is it socially acceptable to be wearing man thongs(the underwear)? I don't know what being gay has to do with it, but if you want to wear a man thong, go ahead. But, unless you have the right package for the front and the right butt for the back, please don't let me see it. lol Personally, I don't have the right anything for it. :(

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What is your favorite childhood memory? Mine: My brother, sister, and I would pu cans..Once we got 10 we would get a pop and a candy bar and split it. One day our neighbor saw what we were doing and gave us about 100 cans. We ate until our tummys hurt! My older brother and sister and I had just finished eating dinner so our parents told us to go brush our teeth. For some reason, we ended up racing to the bathroom. My sister, the oldest, got there first, and I was second. So my brother and I waited "in line" for her to finish and come out. When she did, my brother grabbed my by the shoulders and pushed me to the floor, jumped...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
If i had sex everyday for 4 days before my period and got my priod as scheduled. can i still be pregnanr? My wife had one more period a month after she got pregnant. If you are at all concerned, take a pregnancy test. And from now on, use protection.

Answer to:
What does it mean if a guy gives you a side hug? Okay i haven't seen this guy in a while and i really like him and so he walked over to me and gave me a hug from the side but when he was hugging me i noticed he was looking down at my face too You said you haven't seen him for a while. The "side" hug is more of a friendship hug, and shows respect for you as a woman without risking a sexual interpretation of a frontal hug. The fact that he was looking at your face indicates that his motive was sincere.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
I have recently felt a pain in the bottom of my penis. I think it is due to while having an erection I had pushed it down and it could have irritated a muscle. I am wondering if anyone knows how to get it from hurting. By "bottom" do you mean at its base? And is the pain directly above your penis, or is it below or on one side of the base? I'm working on an answer for you.

Answer to:
Do you think you need to reduce your weight? Yes. I'm 5'10" and nearly 190#. You've heard of the "hour-glass" figure? Well I look like the space between two hour-glasses.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Do you think the sales tax in your area is too high? Yes. It's 9.25% here.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
If you had two sons or two daughters and no more children, what did you do with the name for the boy or girl that was never used? Do you miss that non existent person, or have you named a pet with the same name or what? What an interesting question. Thank you for asking. I have two daughters. I did have a name selected for a boy, and it makes me a little sad that I didn't get to use it. But I wouldn't trade either of my girls for anything. No, I didn't use the name for anything/one else, not even a pet. Thanks again for asking. Your question gave me a nice walk down memory lane.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
If FEAR was a color & a smell, which 2 would it be? Black Licorice

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
I am a pasionate songwritter for my own music but I have heard that if you notarize it, then that is a cheaper way to copywrite it if you were to sell your music. Is this true? If not what is the best way to copywrite lyrics without so much red tape? I'm surprised that you didn't get an answer to this question any sooner. I'm sure that a real copyright or notarization would be better in some ways, but I've heard of another option you might consider. Place a hard copy of your song into and envelope, write the title or a code name on the outside and mail it to yourself via certified mail. When you receive it do not open...

Answer to:
I am going to McDonald's this morning for breakfast. Should I order a Big Breakfast, a McGriddle, Hot Cakes and Sausage, or a Sausage and Egg Biscuit? My personal favorite is the Steak, Egg and Cheese Bagel. Sometimes I eat two. mmmmmmmmmmmm

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Is a long distance relationship even worth it?beause my bf lives and hour or so aways from me. we used to text and talk everyday but he quit what should i do and really is it worth it If you're not SURE it's worth it, it's not worth it. Long distance relationships seem to fit one of two cliches: "Absence makes the heart grow fonder" or "Out of sight, out of mind." Your bf seems to have fallen to the latter, so it may be time for you to start looking closer to home. Best wishes.

Answer to:
I want to write feedback to fox history channel. Does anyone knows their e-mail address or how to get them? Go to www.foxmoviechannel.com and, at the bottom of the page, click on "contact us."

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What is the first thing you do when you get home from work/school? I take my dog out for a walk.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Is judgement of others and or their beliefs and ideals simply done from lack of understanding or care ... In a world of constant change, is disagreement often found without judgement, or is judgement assessed simply by own self belief? I believe that judgement is a natural consequence of disagreement. Think about it: if I disagree with you, I am thereby judging you to be wrong. If I thought you were right, of course, I would agree with you. The question follows, then, "To what extent do we judge?" In the extreme, judgement is expressed in the form of "holy wars" or attempts at genocide. Some...

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
The Bible calls the Hell for demons Tatarus. The Bible also says that demons are disembodied spirits held in everlasting chains of darkness. Is then the having no physical body the Tatarus ( Hell ) for the demons? OK, I'll try a more direct answer to your original question. Understand that this is a belief and not a fact that I've researched and proven. No, I do not believe that the lack of a physical body is hell for demons. Angels do not have physical bodies and are gathered around the throne of God in heaven. Hell, for the demons and for anyone else who ends up there, is the state of...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Why does the thought of sex for guys seem to often messed up your logical part of your brain? According to Robin Williams, it's because God gave men two heads - a big one and a little one - but only enough blood to operate one at a time.

Answer to:
Whats the Best way to get points. Ask questions that will be answered by people who understand the concept of giving a rating to a question they considered worth answering. What? Did I just say that out loud? How embarrassing.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Have you ever had problems with possums? Only as roadkill.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Do you use the phrase LOL alot? Or do you prefer, haha? I probably do use "LOL" most often, but "hahaha" makes its way into my emails, etc. quite a bit, too. There's one more I use when I'm feeling especially giddy, teeheehee.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
As much as I love old machines, I've never seen this before. I wonder why it never caught on? Fascinating. I actually watched the whole video - and I'm not into old machines. I wondered for a while whether snow might become compacted between the "blades," causing it to lose traction, but it didn't appear to be a problem. Who knows why it didn't catch on - it's a shame, isn't it.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Isn't it funny how ET, Inside Edition, and the like shows "find" all these "LOST" videos when a story comes up in which a celebrity dies? Apparently, SOMEONE knew where they were, huh? (And probably got paid VERY WELL for allowing them to use them.) Yeah - and what about those "never before seen" videos. If they've never been seen, how did they know what they were about?

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
If you and I were stuck in a lift, what would we do? Chat politely, I hope. Of course, there's also panicking, shouting and trying to escape through the ceiling.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
My boyfriend lately started arguing with my 6y/o daughter and it ended with him calling her a B#*$% and a H@#. My boyfriend says it's because he thinks I don't disipline her, and for that his reason to cussing out my daughter i It looks like you didn't get to finish your question, but I'll answer what I think it might have been: DUMP HIM NOW! Please forgive me for shouting.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What are some classy classical pieces you would hear at a fancy hotel? Pachelbel: Canon in D Handel: Water Music Vivaldi: The Four Seasons These are all wonderful pieces of music.

Answer to:
Does anyone else hate chain emails? I just delete them. I mean the ones that say' if you don't send this to 10 people immediately....' What I really hate is receiving such a message from someone I know and trust, and reading it carefully thinking "Gee! Billy would really enjoy this." or "Wow! This would do Sara SOOOO much good!" only to get to the end and see that @%$*+^# message. I have thought of compiling a list of my 10 worst enemies so I could forward these things to them, but I decided that I...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What is a nine letter word that contains the letters: HITEUCONL? Touchline

Answer to:
Do you prefer short or long questions? Both. It may be my imagination, but I think serious questions about serious subjects tend to be longer.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What stopped you from commiting suicide? The same thing that makes me want to: An overwhelming fear of failure. If life sucks so badly that you want to kill yourself, just imagine how bad it would be if you tried and failed.

Answer to:
With all the information we now have on the differences between male/female brains, how can we continue to believe the idea that some of us are just born the wrong gender for our brains? Trans-gendered individuals aren't born the wrong gender for their brains; they're born the wrong gender for their bodies.

Answer to:
Are you a bacon freak? I do adore Bacon. Imagine it: a couple of eggs, over easy, a big spoonful of grits and a bunch of broken up Bacon all mixed together...mmmmmmmm. It's bad for you, though. I really like the turkey Bacon - much lower in fat. But my favorite Bacon of all? Why, Kevin, of course!

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Does it bother you when some of the AB'ers type in their own "shorthand?" Do you skip those questions if it takes too long to figure out what the person is asking? (No offense to anyone who does this) Yes it does. Yes I do. If I spend too much time trying to decipher a question, and become frustrated, I might down-rate it, and I'm trying to avoid doing that. So I move on.

Answer to:
What does it mean when your man tells you I am content after you just asked him : " Honey, are you happy ?" Think about it: you're asking a man to talk about emotions. You should be prepared for a muted answer. For him to say he's content is his way of admitting that not everything is perfect: that there are things about his life that doesn't make him ecstatically happy, but he's not miserable, either. In the broadest sense, he's happy; even though there are some things...

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
When you have hate in your heart for someone, do you believe that it holds you back in life as a whole? Hatred is the chain that binds the very worst part of you to what you think is the worst part of its object. You can never reach your full potential as long as you are bound to anything. You must release the hatred to break the chain.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
How many years have (or were) your birth/natural parents been married? My parents have been married for 63 years. Now my Dad has Alzheimer's.

Answer to:
I am in love wit a girl who lives in essex while i live in london.we began chatin 2 years ago andsadly have never met in person. we are extremly clse despite this an tlk almst every day.should i tell her how i feel and risk losing her orkeep it to myself I know your feelings for her are very strong. But you've fallen in love with a concept, not a person. Until you can meet, spend time together and get to know one another, you can't really say with certainty that you are in love with her. So I recommend that you keep your feelings to yourself for now, and try to make plans to meet in person as soon as possible.

Answer to:
I've tried a few times to socialize with people, but I just can't any more. I don't see people, I see liars and sell outs. Ignorant and thoughtless drones. How can I get a more optimistic view on humanity? I don't know you at all, so please don't take this personally. As humans, we tend to justify in ourselves what we condemn in others. Could it be that you should first gaze into a mirror, and then peer out the window? I've found that it's easy to be nice to nice people, and that accepting others as they are helps me to be more acceptable both to others and to myself. You...

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
What is a furry con? What happens there? What is there to talk about? Details please... I hadn't the foggiest notion, so I looked it up in Wikipedia: "A furry convention (also furry con or fur con) is a formal gathering of members of the furry fandom — people who are interested in the concept of fictional non-human characters with human characteristics. These conventions provide a place for fans to meet, exchange ideas, transact business and engage in...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
The hospital lost my dad's hearing aids when they moved him from the ER to his room, I lodged a complaint (filled out a form saying that they lost them) at the time. He was released and has passed away, can I still make the hospital pay to replace them? First, let me say that I'm sorry for your loss. Your situation sounds like a legal issue to me, but since you posted it under "ethics" I'll offer my two cents worth with that in mind. If the hearing aids were replaced before your dad's death, then the hospital should reimburse whomever bore the expense, even though they are no longer in use. If however, they were...

Answer to:
Is it just me or does school /college have to be so difficult? Some of what you are required to take is just to confuse you. I think if schools were geared toward the true subject and not so many little things more would attend as well as enjoy school. You make a good point. School sometimes does seem entirely too difficult. And the load of books kids have to carry in their backpacks is enough to give them back problems! But keep in mind that the varied subjects you are required to study are designed to broaden your education so that you can become a more well-rounded individual. And who knows? You may even be introduced to subjects that...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Have you ever heard a sonic boom made by a fighter jet? Yes. I grew up in Mobile, AL which is roughly halfway between Pensacola Naval Base and Keesler Air Force Base. I guess we were on the edge of their respective training air spaces. The boom used to scare me, but I got used to it. Now I haven't heard that sound in decades (living near New Orleans).

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Recently I met an exotic dancer who's nickname is "The Big Easy" she claims it's because she's from New Orleans,do you think she's lying? Well, New Orleans is known as "The Big Easy," so she might have taken that name for that reason. But I suspect that it would be better to answer questions like "is she big?" and "is she easy?"

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Are you going to stay home from work tomorrow to watch Michael Jacksons memorial service? aahhhm...that would be "no."

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
What do you think would happen if every gun on the planet just disappeared? A sudden outbreak of peace - even if it is short-lived. I'd like to think that such a miraculous occurrence would make people stop and think about the insanity of their actions. But that's probably just magical thinking.

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
I want to know if my friend is gay or bi or whatever. He just broke up with his girlfriend but he lets me jack him off and likes it. We never ever talk about it, we act like it never happens haha. What does this mean? I'm lost... I'd be interested in knowing how this activity started between the two of you. Was there any discussion before hand? (pun noted) When you are jacking him off, is he naked? Are you? Does he touch you at all while you're jerking him? I may be able to offer better insight or suggestions with the answers to these questions.

Answer to:
First gay sex story The story of my very first ATTEMPT at gay sex shows just how naive I was. It was the summer after seventh grade when I went to a music camp and roomed with my best friend. I don't remember how the subject came up, but he consented to my giving him a blow job. So off came his pants, and down I went to his penis. I got close and began to blow. That's right - I puckered my lips and...

| 5 people like this

Answer to:
The Bible calls the Hell for demons Tatarus. The Bible also says that demons are disembodied spirits held in everlasting chains of darkness. Is then the having no physical body the Tatarus ( Hell ) for the demons? The name "Tartarus" is from Greek mythology, not the Bible, though it means something very similar to the biblical concept of Hell. Now I don't think that the Bible "defines" demons as disembodied spirits. Demons are referred to as "evil spirits" and were thought to traverse the earth, "possessing" people (in the spiritual sense) and otherwise...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Who in your opinion is the most spoiled actor/actress in Hollywood today? I'd say Paris Hilton.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
My daughter's best friend was kicked out by his dad when he told him he was gay! He has no where to go. Should I allow him to stay in my house or is it breaking some kind of law by having a 17 year old in your house withoutnthe parent's permission? I suspect you'd be OK to do such a nice thing. I think that, in most areas, 17 is considered to be the age of majority for most legal issues. (Notable exceptions: alcoholic consumption, privilege to vote, ability to enter into a legal contract.) But your safest bet would be to a) try to secure the dad's written permission or b) seek counsel form a local attorney or family advocacy...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
The idea of Satan was created by the ancient Egyptians to try to explain why the sun goes down. Knowing that how can anyone logically believe in the existence of Satan. Satan's greatest accomplishment among men is to convince them that he does not exist.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
When my kids were little, they had cute names or words for various things - you know, adorable mispronunciations. Some of them we still use to this day. What are some cute names your kids came up with that you still use? Is it uncouth to answer your own question? I'll risk it. In our house, breakfast was beppers yogurt was yogrit spaghetti was pasketti and our favorite, oatmeal was openmeal.

Answer to:
What is something that you can say about your car, but not your girlfriend? I have a car.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
When you were little, were you encouraged to pursue the things you liked to do, or discouraged? Generally speaking, I don't remember being encouraged OR discouraged very much. But one thing does stand out. I wanted to learn to play the piano. I begged, pleaded, tried to make deals. But my Dad just kept saying no, claiming that we didn't have room for a piano, we couldn't afford the piano or the lessons, and besides, "You never stick to anything." All I can...

Answer to:
So i hadn't had my period in over a month and today i started. my cramps are way worse than usual and its not normal period stuff coming out but chunky white fleshy stuff and its clear and veiny with of course some blood... why is this? Lounds like a question for your local or state labor department.

Answer to:
I've fallen for a girl who is breaking up with a live-in boyfriend; she says she wants to be with me, yet she's taking her sweet time with the whole situation. Should I be patient? Or am I a naive fool? Yes, be patient with her, but don't put your life on hold for her.

Answer to:
If I were ever to shoot/kill an intruder in my home, what's the first thing to do afterwards? Seriously, with today's insane laws, should I hide my gun and ammunition offsite and claim ignorance and say I wasn't even home when it happened? NO! Please excuse my shouting. First, call 911. Then tell the truth. The truth is your only worthwhile option. Anything else just gets you into even more trouble. The best thing to do is your homework: contact local law enforcement or an attorney to find out exactly what the law is in your state/town. If your local laws are all that insane, maybe you should hide your gun off-site now....

Answer to:
Ive liked my friend for a yr now & she just split with her gf. I stayed at hers the other night & we slept together. I really want to be with her but she's sending me mixed signals. Some days she texts me non stop, other days she ignores me. what do i do? Seems like you've known her long enough to have an honest discussion with her. I think I'd start by asking her about the mixed signals. If that goes OK, then tell her how you feel. Your next move would depend on how your discussion makes you feel about the possibility of a future relationship, or whether you can continue your friendship. I've recently gone through a similar...

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Answerbag addiction, i find myself more addicted to this site everyday, i spent four hours on it yesterday and am already going on three today, any one else finding an addiction to this site might be a fair diagnosis? Answerbag has definitely taken the top spot on my list of cyber-addictions. I've already lost sleep, been late for work and procrastinated most of the important functions around the house. I love the questions and answers that make me think or laugh. I love to answer questions, especially when I think I'm really being helpful, possibly making someone else think, or maybe just...

Answer to:
Christians believe that homosexuality is a sin because it is unnatural, but isn't it just as unnatural to suppress natural sexual urges (abstaining from sex until marriage). Cavemen would not have waited, animals do not wait. So what is the difference? Wow, what a question! I could write a book trying to answer it completely. But let's try for a short version. The Bible doesn't acknowledge the existence of cavemen. Man was created in the image and likeness of God, meaning, among other things, that he had the ability to reason and communicate from the very beginning. Therefore he is held to a higher standard than animals. ...

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Is America ready for gays to be equal? America has made great progress in the areas of religious, racial and gender equality. But we're not "there" yet, even in those areas. So it's not surprising that we haven't made any more progress than we have in the area of sexual preference. It's time for (what I hope is) the silent majority to become vocal and drown out the voices of the bigots who perpetuate...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Should I follow you? Only if you want to go where I'm going (and I'm not at all sure you'd want to do that). But if you do, please say "Hi" at some point. Or here's an even better idea. Why follow? Let's just travel together and be friends.

Answer to:
I gave my final rent check. I have to give one month notice. The notice is 4 days short, but the check is for a full month. Will I be penalized? (Rent is not late, just moving out 4 days earlier from the end of month) Notice is from the date you give it and rent is paid accordingly. So if you gave 30 days notice on June 1, you pay rent 'till June 30. No problem if you move out on June 26. But if you gave notice on June 4, you should expect to pay rent through July 4. Otherwise, it would place your security deposit in jeopardy.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
If you could delete one user from Answerbag, who would it be and why? No specific individual(s), but... people who DownRate without offering an answer or comment; people who use so many abbreviations that you can't figure out what they're trying to say.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Is there anything cuter than a mini box of Milk duds with 4 duds in it? I think so - check out my Mister!

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
I am gay myself, but don't you just hate bitchy gay men? I try not to hate anyone, though some are more annoying than others. As for "bitchy" gay men? I find them humorous.

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
What impact did the Stonewall Riots have on the gay rights movement? It was our collective "outing," bringing us "out of the closets and into the streets." I remember chanting that slogan over and over in Gay Pride marches in New Orleans during the 1970's.

Answer to:
Your magical dwarf name?? add the first 2 letters of your first name to the last 2 letters of your last name and the middle letter in your middle name. gahai I like that. It should make a cool screen name.

Answer to:
What can I do to take care of water condensation from the central air conditioner dripping/leaking through my ceiling with less air intake into the unit? It's coming through the same general area but different spots. I'm no a/c expert, but two things come to mind. Be sure the air filter is clean; if not, change it. Be sure the drip pan isn't full of water.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
How likely do you think it would be for a 16 year old to date a 22 year old who she met 2 years ago when he was her camp counslor for a church event? Sex is out of the question, I'm waiting til marriage. So the legality isn't an object. I'd say it's highly unlikely that her parents would condone their dating. And if either of them cares about what her parents think and say (and both of them should care), then it's unlikely that they would date.

Answer to:
I looking for love, where can I find it? Where you least expect to find it.

Answer to:
Can you legally download movies for free? If so, does anyone know of any good sites? Try flixster.com.

Answer to:
Is there going to be a new star wars episodes in the future or is only 6 episodes of it? As I understand it, there were originally supposed to be nine episodes - a trilogy of trilogies, if you will. But, the last I heard, Lucas has decided to stop at six.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
What's your secret to enjoying life? Accepting myself as I am, and others as they are.

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
Would you rather have a million dollars or find true love? My perfect mate would have a billion dollars, so...

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Do you think of religion as a form of brainwashing? (I'm probably gonna get DR'd on this one, but I am just curious.) I think it would be safe to say that any religious or anti-religious instruction that doesn't agree with "mine" is brainwashing. That's just human nature. (Please understand that "mine" is used in a generic sense.)

| 4 people like this

Answer to:
Does a khaki shirt go with white pants I've seen people wear white shirts with khaki pants many times, and it looks OK. So why not the other way around? However, I don't recall ever seeing it before and can't quite imagine it.

Answer to:
I just asked the following question: http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1539986. In the "similar questions" area flagged up was: Have you ever wanted to commit suicide?" Does this answer my question? *LOL* Looks to me like the computer thinks that taking a walk when you hear thunder is suicide. Me? I'd just go for a short walk, and watch out for black cats, not walk under ladders, and refrain from throwing rocks at mirrors.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
How many of you think abortions are necessary? I think there are some physical issues for the Mom that may indicate the need for an early-term abortion in order to protect her life or health. BUT There is no excuse for a late-term abortion - ever. I know I'm opinionated about this, but it's what I think.

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
My husband and I are invited to a college graduation party for the son of very dear friends. The party is being given for both him and his girlfriend. We have never met the girlfriend. Are we expected to bring a gift for her as well? If it was a written invitation, you should take a gift for each named honoree. If it was a verbal invitation, I think you're OK taking just the one gift.

Answer to:
What is your air conditioner set at in your house?Mines at 75 degrees. Mine's at 75 too, but it's beginning to get a little warm in here.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
My last college is merging and therefore renaming itself. How should I refer to it on my CV/Resume when this happens? With the name of the school as it was when I attended, or the name of it as it is now known? How about... " 'New Name College' (formerly 'Old Name College') "?

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What is the most annoying question you can be asked while angry? Any question that requires more than a "yes" or "no" answer, but the most annoying would probably be "What's wrong with you?" or something like that.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What site do I go to to look up free criminal records and it actually be free and not have to pay? That's a good question. I'd like to find the whereabouts (not just criminal records) of a couple of people from my past, too.

Answer to:
No offence but, Are you a gay? Why would I be offended? Yes, I'm gay. Are you?

Answer to:
I see this a lot, but what does I'm a top or bottom mean in the gay world? There's more to it than this, but, simply put, a top likes to pitch and a bottom likes to catch. Do you need me to get more graphic?

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What makes a person Gay or Bi Sexual? Well, I've read the six other answers you've received so far, and found them to be quite interesting; one is particularly misguided, but that's OK. Sexuality is more than physical attraction. There are also mental and emotional elements involved. In fact, these are key to the issue, because sexual attraction is an expression of mental and emotional predilection (pre = before;...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What would you do with a PHD? The same thing I'm doing with my M.Div., I guess.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
So, I like this guy and he has a small crush on me. Only problem is that I'm a 17 year old bi male and he's 20 and gay. My mother would probably freak if I dated him. Age difference doesn't matter to, but I'm still kinda confused. Help? Menson's right, Anon. Hold off till you're 18. Besides the possible legal issues, it will give you both a little more time to sort things out. For example, if you're bi, maybe you shouldn't lead him on: he's better off finding another gay guy. And if you're inclined to date him, maybe you will reconsider your bi feelings (could that be the source of your...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Is there really a problem with being gay or really a problem with the world's acceptance of this? Think of it this way: If the world accepted homosexuality, you wouldn't have thought to ask this question. So, yeah, I think it's the acceptance issue that causes the sociological problems we experience.

Answer to:
Does domestic violence occur when no-one's looking? I'd say that's when it happens most often!

Answer to:
How much do you check out members of the opposite sex in public (or same sex as appropriate)? All the time. I know it's sick, but I play a rating game. I rate them yes; no; maybe; ok, but only if you really charm me; ok, 'cause I like your car; ok, I'm that desperate; hell no; and yes PLEASE. Sad, isn't it.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
When Michael Jackson's 9-1-1 call came in, the caller said there was a physician already at the location. Did they call a physician, earlier, instead of the paramedics OR was the physician at the scene because he was assisting in a suicide? Jackson had a personal physician, and, as I understand it, that's the doc who was there. It could be that the doctor was already on site, for example, in a full-time position. (Many eccentric rich people keep a doctor at their beck-and-call.) Just an idea. You have posed a very interesting question.

Answer to:
I want to remove the father from my son's bc since a dna test proves he is not the biological father. True biological father is unknown but my husband wants to be added and wants my son to have his last name, possible? Son was born in FL we live in TX. I'm not sure about how things work in Texas, but my own experience in Louisiana provides the basis of this answer. Consult an attorney, and have your husband adopt your son. The father of record will have to sign off on the deal, which he will probably be willing to do if he isn't a part of the boy's life. With the adoption, a new birth certificate will be issued showing you...

Answer to:
What would you actually find MORE exciting... a proper relationship or an affair? Speaking as one not currently in a relationship, I'd have to say a proper relationship would be more exciting for me now. If I were in a relationship, however, no doubt an affair would be more exciting, unless my relationship could stay exciting enough to keep me from thinking I need an affair. Looks like I'm in for trouble, doesn't it?

Answer to:
Whats john waynes real name? John Wayne was born Marion Robert Morrison in Winterset, Iowa. His middle name was soon changed from Robert to Mitchell when his parents decided to name their next son Robert. So his "real" legal name was Marion Mitchell Morrison.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
I have a tan or light wheat colored 3 piece linen suit. What dress shoe color would go best with this suit? Welcome to AnswerBag, Jermaine! In my view, your shoe choice would depend largely on the shirt you wear. If your shirt is an earth-tone, wear brown or camel shoes. If your shirt is a primary color, wear black shoes. IMHO, because I'm no expert.

Answer to:
How did Michael Jackson die? Heart failure, according to what I just heard on NBC news.

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
What is the thing which you cannot touch with Right hand? Your right elbow.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
There is something I want to give you. I'll enjoy giving it, but will be none the poorer for having given it. You'll enjoy receiving it, but will be none the richer for having gotten it. What do you think it is? Oops! I didn't mean for this to be an answer, but a comment for "Somewhere PII weighs a pie." "I compliment you for thinking of it!" We should be able to delete our own answers, don't you think?

Answer to:
My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 year. His child's mother (they were never married) passed away suddenly. Should I attend the funeral with him if he asks? Is this disrespectful to her family? IMHO, the only reason your attendance might be disrespectful is if he was cheating on her with you. If you weren't in the picture at the time they split up, your attendance will show compassion and respect. Bear in mind, too, that your boyfriend may want custody of the child and, if so, your attendance will afford you the opportunity to begin the process of becoming a part of that...

Answer to:
Have you ever had a pimento outside an olive? Yes. I practically grew up on pemento cheese sandwiches.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
How big is 12000 sq feet? Just a little bit smaller than a football field.

Answer to:
What is a problem you have, that you wouldn't wish on anyone else? My inability to manage my money.

Answer to:
Why do people take themselves so seriously? I think AB is a fantastic forum for any kind of question. That's why it's here! People who ask "serious life altering questions" should know that the answers they receive may not come from professionals in the field. They should accept the answers for what they usually are: honest attempts to be helpful from people who care enough to try. Yes, some people give flippant...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
How do I deal with my girlfriends child when he is misbehaving? That's a discussion you need to have with your girlfriend. She should take the lead, make the rules and set the example. Don't take too prominent a role unless you see marriage in your future, and if that is a possibility, be sure to reach agreement on child-raising methodologies before tying the knot. Hope this helps.

Answer to:
What is your favourite flavour (or combination of flavours) of ice-cream at Baskin and Robbins? Pralines 'n Cream is my all-time favorite. And my second choice? Vanilla. Go figure.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
A friend that I kind of liked as more than a friend now has a girlfriend. He now devotes all his time to her and I've been feeling a little sad. What should I do? I feel your pain. First, I think you should give them their space. Second, I think you should open yourself up to a new relationship. If you do find someone, but still have feelings for the first guy, then... Third, go on a double date with your new guy and with your old guy and his girl, preferably to dinner where you can talk and get to know each other. The goal is for one of two things...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
I really want to bring back MC Hammer pants, where do I begin? A sweat shop in Bangladesh? ;-)

Answer to:
What should I do if I see a tsunami coming? I thought of several answers in quick succession when I read your question. Some are serious and some are not. Move as quickly as possible to the highest ground you can find. If you're in a flat area, as I am in South Louisiana, move as quickly as possible to the tallest sturdy building you can find and get to the top floor if you have time. Start treading water. Start swimming. Grab...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Enter your question (Why is the sky blue?)solve 4-(x/x-2)=(-2/x-2) what potential solution was obtained? why this is is not a solution Phoenix is right. Pick one question, please. But if I were to pick the equation, I'd say: 4-(x/x-2)=2 (-2/x-2)=0 2>0, therefore, no solution.

Answer to:
Should you consider taking back your common law husband who cheated on you if he ended it? He is devasted and remorseful. Yes, you should consider it. But before you actually take him back, try just dating him again. That's a good way to find out if he's really remorseful and trustworthy. If you just let him back in now, you may be setting yourself up for having to kick him out again.

Answer to:
Should I let my husband go to his Ex girlfriends for their daughters birthday party? He cheated on me with this girl now they have a child. She is still wanting to be with him. My husband and children will be with her family and friends. Please Help In this type of situation, it has to be the child that matters. How old is the child? (If she's 1, it won't make that much difference.) Has your husband been an active part of her life so far? (If so, then he should be there now for her birthday.) Do you think that you could controll your emotions enough to go with him? (If so, that would keep both your man and his ex on the...

Answer to:
I currently pay child support and half of daycare expenses. My ex claims she pays $2000.00 a month to her own mother for childcare. Our son is 12 years old, about to turn 13. What is the maximim age requirement in the state of CA for childcare? I'm sorry I don't have an answer for your question. But your situation gave me an idea. Ask to see, or ask your attorney to request copies of your ex-mother-in-law's income tax return. If she's not reporting the income, something's amiss.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
What one thing makes your heart skip a beat? I've heard that your heart skips a beat when you sneeze.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Customer ordered ice from us on Monday to be delivered Wednesday this slipped my mind, should I call and tell them irder is in the way and ask what time their function is? First, be sure you can really deliver, and find out how quickly you can get the ice. Then call the customer with your question to see if the event is late enough for you to fulfill your promise. If you can, you look like the conscientious business man trying to do the best for his customer. If you can't, you need to do whatever it takes to make the situation right for your customer....

Answer to:
Do you kiss on the first date? If not, how long do you wait? I'll do almost anything on the first date. Now if I could only get a first date!

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
Watch this video, then answer this question, please: Is this for real, or is it a STAGED STUNT, done for laughs? I'm inclined to believe that this is an elaborate hoax, done by a very good movie stuntman. What do YOU think? I thought it was a pro when he got up after falling from the roof. I knew it from the reaction of the guy with the guitar. Then I questioned it when he hit the baby carriage, but decided it had to be staged when he was hit by the car and still got up and walked away, while no one at any point even attempted to help him. Amazing to watch, though, and he definitely deserves to be hired for the...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Name a famous Brit. How about James Purefoy?

Answer to:
To the LGBT folks: do you fit one of the LGBT stereotypes that you wish you didn't? (Me? lol. I have a limp wrist when I'm alone at home.) I'm like both you and DA BEN: sometimes limp-wristed and rather prissy when at home alone, apparently much less so in public. Many are surprised to find out I'm gay, while I'm surprised to find out they're surprised.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Do you use the term trousers, pants or slacks? I use "slacks" when I'm referring to "dressy" pants. I use "pants" for a more general reference to long-legged apparel, except for jeans, which I call "jeans."

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Do you think President Obama will ever fully "lick" his smoking habit? Do you think he wants to quit; or, being a habitual smoker since he was a teen, that he enjoys his occasional smokes too much? Is he a good role model for this struggle? He'll become a good role model if he really quits. Unfortunately, the stress of his current job will make quiting one of the most difficult things he's ever done. But I think he can do it.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
I need help. My good friend has lived next door to me all my life. This year, she has a new friend. She won't play with me anymore. Litarally every day it's the same thing. They won't let me play with them. I miss the good times. What do I do? I'm not really sure this will work, but it might be worth thinking about. With your parents' permission, invite the new friend to your house for an after noon. Play together and get to know each other, making sure that you make a really good impression with the things you do and the refreshments you serve. (Girls like that kind of thing, you know.) The hope is that your...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Heat index here is 106 (6 PM). Does anybody else dread how hot this summer is going to be? I dread how hot it's going to be every summer. This one certainly is starting out hotter than usual. It is my hope that it's just the current weather pattern (which will eventually end), and not a sign of things to come.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Do you believe the connection of homosexuality to HIV/AIDS has more to do with the lower priority of using proper protection than it does with actual sexuality? Yes. HIV/AIDS exists among straight people, too. Look at the high rate of the virus in Africa and among IV drug users. We're all thankful, I'm sure, that the rate of infection among blood transfusion recipients has reduced so drastically since the early days after the virus' discovery. But the "lower priority" you mention exists at the individual level, not...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Is it just me or has AB changed? If you're talking about the page layout, I noticed it too. In my view, it's not as user friendly as before.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Would you be fine with your brother/sister if they told you they are gay? My brother and sister were both fine when I told them I'm gay, so I feel sure I could return the favor - after I got over the shock, that is.

Answer to:
Im 20 years old im trying to find out why mouth has been on fire for 4 days it looks like i have strawberry tongue but not scarlet fever cause i dont have the other symptoms since i smoke i think it may be oral cancer but not sure Sorry I can't help you figure out what it is, but I have to ask: Have you been to the doctor?

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
(does any one know of a website to talk to friends Yahoo gmail hotmail facebook myspace and many others

Answer to:
My 7-yr-old cat's voice has changed overnight. He was sounding normal, and now his meow is much deeper and strained. He is acting completely normal otherwise. Any ideas what's going on? Puberty?

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Did you know Martha Stewart and Conan O'Brien are official soul mates and potentially had an affair in a barn? I swear, I've got the video here that proves it, take a look. Very funny! Thanks for sharing.

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
How old were you when you felt you could take care of yourself? Three. I was wrong, of course, but there was no telling me that then. By the way, I'm 57 now, and haven't yet made the full circle back to thinking I can take care of myself.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
What's the one thing people argue about the most?. I think married people argue most about money. People with more "platonic" relationships probably argue most about politics, and maybe religion.

Answer to:
Would you trust a female child carer over a male child carer? I think the general tendency is to trust females over males in the child-care arena, but that is probably just because it is a more traditional job for women. The key is to KNOW your child's care-giver, whoever it is. Do your research: ask for references and contact them, be sure a center is licensed (some states require licensing for individual childcare givers as well) and check for...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
I've attended semi-weekly meetings with people I once considered friends for several months. However, since the meetings ended, no one has spoken to me ALL summer. I'm afraid their friendships are only an illusion.Should I return when they begin again? How many of them have you tried to contact? If you enjoyed the semi-weekly meetings and can accept them for what they are, then go back. If you insist that they be the catalyst for extended relationships, but do nothing yourself to develop them, then you are living an illusion and probably shouldn't go back.

Answer to:
Is someone being ignored for an indefinite time period after repeatedly lying to, criticizing and harassing a friend with calls and emails a good example of comeuppance? (I'm asking this on behalf of my girlfriend) Being ignored would be a consequence. He'd get his "comeuppance" if someone else repeatedly lied to, criticized, and harassed HIM with calls and emails. However, if it is contrived, that makes it revenge.

Answer to:
I dont want to be gay!!!! can anyone help? From your other questions I gather that you're too young to know for sure. The truth is that, if you are gay, no one can change that fact, not even you. You may try to suppress it if you like, but it's like trying to keep a beech ball under water: you get very tired of the effort and the effort ultimately does no good. My best advice to you is just to cool it for now, and allow...

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
How many openly gay, lesbian, or bisexual Answerbaggers are there out there? I' a male whose closet had a revolving door on it for years. But now the door is locked up tight, with me on the OUTside. Happy as a lark. I even have a theme-song: (from the musical Oklahoma) "I'm just a girl who can't say no"! YeeeeHaaaaah!!

Answer to:
If an employer cuts everyones pay by 10 to 15 percent. Should they be allowed to buy another company if they can not take care of the employes they have? A very interesting point. I think maybe they shouldn't.

Answer to:
After being invited to someone's place for dinner, should you call the next day to thank them or is it enough to thank them as you leave? Actually, the appropriate thing to do is mail a thank-you note the next day. Make it personal and specific. I suppose that these days many may say that an e-mailed thank you is sufficient.

Answer to:
When you over-commit yourself and can't possibly do everything, what happens next? First, you fail at something. Then, it is hoped, you learn to say "No."

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
What arouses you most? Sensual touch

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
When i was about 8 years old, one of my teeth came out and i put it under my pillow, and got sixpence. now that i am a lot older, how much do you think i will get for my false teeth if i put them under my pillow?. A rude awakening

Answer to:
Name a famous Brit. Sir Elton John

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
All you gay guys if a gay man jumped on your back would you leave him on or toss him off? That depends: is he naked?

Answer to:
Can you control your temper? Yes. I used to fly off the handle very easily. Somewhere along the line I discovered that losing my temper: does nothing to help the situation; actually makes matters worse; turns others' opinions against me; raises my blood pressure; makes me feel badly about myself; just isn't worth it. Understanding these things helped me control my anger, and find more constructive ways...

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
Who is your favorite openly gay celebirty..man or woman? Agreeing with so many, Ellen Degeneras. But it looks like I'm the first to say Lance Bass. I had a huge crush on him long before he came out. Perhaps, if it were possible to "turn" someone gay, I could take some credit for it. Dream on....

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
If you wear glasses do they make your eyes look bigger or smaller, or do tey not chnge the size of your eyes at all? Glasses for far-sightedness make your eyes look bigger, but those for near-sightedness don't.

Answer to:
Is anyone out there an EX procrastonator? How did you stop? I've been meaning to stop procrastinating. I just haven't gotten around to it yet.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
What do you think of my avator pic? It's very small. But it's very nice, too, as I'm sure you are.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
What would you do if the Geico money stack was staring at you? Pluck it's eyes out and stuff it in my pocket?

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
Ever had a successful "just physical" relationship? I guess that depends on what you mean by "successful." If you mean an on-going nsa meet for sex and don't know each other in any other setting, no. If you mean he actually stayed for breakfast, then I've had several. :)

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Is Holy Communion of no significance because a sinful minister served it? I'm not Catholic and don't believe in Transubstantiation, so I can't speak to that side of this question. As a Protestant, I believe that Holy Communion is purely symbolic, i.e., the bread and wine represent the body and blood of Christ. Therefore, who serves it is of no importance. What matters is the heart of the recipient.

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
I cant seem to post questions right now. Is something wrong with the site? It seems to be working fine, now.

Answer to:
Is this 30 second clip funny or not? You decide. [Video embedded] Nope.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Do I have to report the price of merchandise that I sold on ebay as income on my Federal form 1040? Do I have to charge sales tax if the buyer lives in the same state as I do? If you sell as an individual and not as a business, you pay federal tax only if you sell for more than you paid for a particular item, and then only on the difference. And, if you sell as an individual and not as a business, you would not collect sales tax. If you are selling as a business, there is a whole different set of rules with which I am not familiar.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
I'm looking for some good jazz something like the intro to "all that jazz" from chicago the remake. anyone know any? Check out the sound track to "That's Entertainment." It has a lot of Broadway and movie music too, but some good jazz. I also like Miles Davis, but he may not be quite what you're looking for.

Answer to:
How would you feel about getting a massage from the same sex? That's the only kind I can really appreciate.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
I left my bf of 2 months to go swimming while he went for a walk by the river. I went to pick him up after and he was in a pub with two gay blokes he didnt know who had approached him in the street. It has shaken my faith in him. Am i wrong? It's happened, and you've talked about it. He surely knows how you feel and should have the opportunity to prove himself again. If he truly thought it was no big deal, then it makes sense that he wouldn't think it would be a big deal to you, so give him the benefit of the doubt. The important thing is to keep communicating so that you both may maintain trust.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Is it still possible to get a legal binding marriage with gays in all of the US or does it mean because of the 2nd amendment that it is outlawed to all gays? (Sorry, I put this as a comment earlier: I meant for it to be a separate answer.) You're probably thinking of "Proposition 2." Several states have voted over the past few years on propositions banning same sex marriage. Many of them have passed. They are not, however, votes on amendments to the U.S. Constitution. That's a much bigger deal than a proposition. States in...

Answer to:
Wat song do you think i should play while havin a three some with two girls and three other guys.there are six of us total You're not having a "three some," you're having an orgy. Just put on a porn video and go with whatever music they're doin' it to.

Answer to:
Am i gay? im a guy and i like to watch gay porn because i think i have a thing for penis's. but i really like girls. So what do you think? I like girls, too. But I don't "like" like them. If you like male genitalia, and enjoy gay porn, especially if you don't care so much for "straight" porn (this includes watching str8 porn and paying attention only to the male actors), then, yea, I think you're gay. For you, girls will make great friends, but they lack what it takes to make you truly happy....

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Im having a hard time accepting myself for who i am. Im a gay who doesnt really want to be gay and doesnt want to come out of the closet. What should i do i really need some help cause im afraid il be shunned by everyone and live lik a loner. Please help! I couldn't accept it when I was 16, either. There is time for things to change: maybe it's a phase, or maybe you'll grow to accept it. Either way, consider this - it's some advice I gave someone else in your situation just yeaterday. I hope it helps: find one girl around your age whom you trust completely and who can keep a secret; confide in her and, if she reacts well,...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
My dad is watching TV and I just heard of a restaurant called La copa de leche. (the cup of milk) What's the restaurant with the weirdest name you know of? A restaurant in Mandeville, LA called "The Broken Egg" opened a second restaurant in Covington, LA and called it "Another Broken Egg." The second one isn't in business anymore, but I understand they've opened another location in Baton Rouge, LA. I don't know what it's called.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
If we reverse "Roe versus Wade" do we also reverse any concept of PRIVACY found no where in the Constitution or U.S law until that historic case? No, but we do save lives.

Answer to:
I feel a certain urgency to life..time dwindles but what I have to say continues to grow. How do I say everything I need to say? Do you feel the same urgency? Create a blog, and you can say it all. No, I don't feel the same urgency, but that's why I like this site so much - it helps me narrow the scope of subjects and comment on the ones I think are the most important, or the most whimsical.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Why isn't there some sort of color code or something for minors on this site to avoid any 'adult' conversations and implications of actual adults? That's a good question, and a splendid idea. I hope the staff takes note.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
What will you do if president Barack Obama step-in your door suddenly? First, I'd tell him he can't smoke in my house; then I'd become cordial.

Answer to:
There was a minor league baseball team known as the Memphis Chickasaws. What exactly is a "Chickasaw?" A tribe of Native Americans, predominately located in what is now the south east United States.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
In Michigan, is there any way for a father to enforce the mother to use an "in-network" doctor for child's medical care? Deductibles on medical plans have risen and if an out of network doctor is used, the cost is much higher. I'm not a lawyer, and I'm not in Michigan, so take my suggestion with a grain of salt. There may be an easier way, but you can probably petition the court to adjust the custody order to include such a requirement.

Answer to:
Are you taking precautions against swine flu? Yes. I use hand sanitizer and wash my hands thoroughly and frequently.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
We humans as a group are not perfect. We could all stand some improvement..different areas to be sure, but improvement nevertheless. Shouldn't we focus on improving ourselves first before we tell others what they need to do to be better? You are so right. We are not perfect, not by a long shot. But it is our experience with imperfection that qualifies us to "advise" others. Think of it this way: Why learn from your own mistakes when you can learn from mine? If I focus on myself, I become a naval observer, and I don't mean the military type. Sharing the benefit of my journey, even though I haven't...

Answer to:
Do you think AB should also have a weekly leaderboard for those who have given the most uprates? Or is it just a waste of time and space? What do you think? No, it would just lead to abuse. And the earlier "wall of shame" idea wouldn't fly either, because there may be some legitimate reasons for downgrading.

Answer to:
Do you think space exploration is critical to our survival or a waste of money? I think it's somewhere in between. No, it probably isn't critical to our survival, but there's so much to learn that may prove beneficial that it isn't a waste of money, either.

Answer to:
I'm gay for my best friend. We have had sex quite a few times, but only cuz I persuaded him too. He doesn't want to anymore. He says he is straight, he thinks I am. Is he gay? What should I do? Respect his decision, and don't try to persuade him otherwise. If he's gay, he'll probably come back to you.

Answer to:
Im having a hard time accepting myself for who i am. Im a gay who doesnt really want to be gay and doesnt want to come out of the closet. What should i do i really need some help cause im afraid il be shunned by everyone and live lik a loner. Please help! Ask yourself "Why does it bother me to be gay?" Dig deeper than the fear of being shunned or ending up alone. Think cause, not outcome. What's the root of your discomfort with your sexuality? Know that it is common to feel what you are feeling. And you needn't feel that you are without hope in overcoming your negative feelings about yourself. You are who you are, my...

Answer to:
How many openly gay, lesbian, or bisexual Answerbaggers are there out there? Gay, and happy to take pole any time I can.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Im gay but i dont want to be and i hate myself so much for being gay that i cut myself to relieve some of the misery.What do i do?I dont want to accept being gay but i also dont want to live the rest of my life miserable and i dont want the label of a gay Wow, Anon. You're really going through a tough time. Byhtomit has given you some truly wise advise, too. I am gay, and went through many of the same feelings you are experiencing. To help me understand you, and "where you're at," I'd like to ask you some questions. What's the approximate size of your community? About how many students are there in your...

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
What have you ever lost, that a total stranger found and returned to you? My ATM card. I'd gone by a drive-up ATM, gotten some cash, and driven off without retrieving my card. About an hour later, I got a phone call at home from the lady who next used the machine. She took the card home with her, looked me up in the phone book, and called me, told me where she lived, and let me come over to pick it up. It was a great experience inhuman goodness.

Answer to:
Which song/s do you find the most annoying and why? The one I can't get out of my head at any given moment.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What advice would you give a man in his late 50s, 5 feet 9 inches, 150 pounds, who is married to a younger, shorter woman who outweighs him by 25 pounds? Your love for her should be unconditional. So just keep on loving her.

Answer to:
Does it irritate you when you feel like you have a great answer or question , but get no points for it? Irritate? No. Disappoint? Yes, kind of, sometimes. What irritates me is answers (or questions) that are unintelligible.

Answer to:
What is the most comforting thought you have? There's no need to worry about hanging onto Jesus, because He's hanging onto me!

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Who would you most like to hug right now? The best hug is with someone who reeeeally wants to hug me back.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Ever feel like a fool but laugh at your foolishness anyway? Give Examples... Of course! The way i see it, if I can't laugh at my own foolishness, how can I ever hope to tolerate yours?

Answer to:
Have you ever played matchmaker with your friends? Any success stories? No, but I wish somebody would play matchmaker for me! (I'm not doing such a great job on my own.)

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What item that needs batteries is nearest to you? My blood pressure meter.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Come on be honest.. what is your sexiest body part? i mean the part that you like to show off most. My brain.

Answer to:
What do you do when you are sexually frustrated? CraigsList personals

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
Who ate my donut? I confess. I ate it. But I left you the hole!

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What is the most common major among LGBT college students? (Just for fun) Gay men major in Fashion Design. Lesbians major in Auto Mechanics. Bisexuals major in General Studies. Trans-genders just keep changing their majors.

Answer to:
Gay men:W hats the fascination w/ straight guys?Yea, i know, if youre w/a guy who claims to be straight but is sexin w/you (gay man), he's also a little gay, but what's with the gay guys that are after the straight ones? Not counterproductive? It's the idea of the forbidden. We want most what we know we cannot have.

Answer to:
Is a man who is either bisexual or gay and have a very large penis born under a certain zodiac sign? Yes. It's the sign of the Lucky Bugger. :)

Answer to:
How can you tell if someone is on the DL (Down Low)? If you can tell, he's not doing a good job of keeping it DL, is he.

Answer to:
If you've ever been in a same-sex relationship, did/do you commit public displays of affection? If not, why? If so, how do people around you react? And if you're straight, how do you feel about gay PDAs? Why? There seem to be areas where same sex PDA is acceptable, but far more where it is not. In the areas where it is not acceptable, I admit to feeling embarrassed, and don't want to offend the general public, but it makes me angry at myself to submit to the double standard. But what makes me even more angry is the fear that a PDA in the wrong place will actually place me in physical danger.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Are you guilty of PDA? (public display of affection) I wish!

Answer to:
Are you an open book? Pretty much, yes. I've always been a talker. Ask me anything, and I'm likely to answer - possibly even giving more information than you really wanted. I recently had a potential boyfriend tell me that I reveal too much too soon, and now we're "just friends." Well, there I go again!

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
If your bi.. do you do the whole dating two people at once thing? Or do you consider it cheating? In my opinion... Regardless of your orientation, dating more than one person at a time is not cheating unless you tell one, or allow one to believe, that you consider the relationship to be monogamous.

Answer to:
Are there any signs a guy can look for to find out if a girl is "in the closet" or bi- sexual? Pay attention to his habits to answer questions like these: What movies and TV shows does he like? Shows with predominently male casts (Oz, Entourage, Bachelorette), scantily clad or buff men (Gladiator, Survivor, men's gymnastics), or strong gay story lines (Will and Grace, Queer as Folk) MAY be an indication of latent or closeted desires. Who does he look at and/or focus on when...

Answer to:
My guy friend told me and another friend of mine that he bought some sandles that were from the womens section. But they are so worn out that you can't tell that it came from the womens section. Everytime we ask (if he's gay)he rejects it. Is he? Could it be that he bought the sandals just because he LIKED them? I think the answer might be "yes" because you said they're worn out to the point of being beyond gender identification. Still not sure? There's one test you can use to know with certainty: walk behind him when he's wearing the sandals and watch his butt; does he swish when he walks? One more...

Answer to:
My boyfriend is bi, I don't mind. But he enjoys gay porn a lot more than straight ones. He said he's happy with me and loves me the most but I'm worried he's just not satisfied with me since I'm a girl. Can anyone guide me out? I'm confused :'( I suspect that by "gay porn" you mean guy on guy. I have two opinions to offer. First, have only "safer sex" with him, if any sex at all. If he's sleeping with other guys, he may bring home something you don't want. Second, guard your emotions carefully. In some cases, "bi" is the transition ground between straight and gay; the term one uses when not...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Do you as a gay ,les, bisex ,or transgender feel that because you are what you are that theres an obbligation or stereotype that you have to live up to? You actually answered your own question when you used the phrase "you are what you are." I am who I am, not some one else's idea of what I should be. If who you are happens to match some one's stereotype, so be it. But living up to some one's stereotype just because you are who you are is just as silly as trying to live the straight life when, inside, you're gay.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Would you ever be able to live without a computer now that you have discovered the world inside the machine? I could, but I wouldn't necessarily want to. Just don't take away my computer AND my television!

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
One line that you tend to live your life by ?if you get me It's easy to be nice to nice people.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
I'm not a Christian, but live a good life. I don't lie, cheat, steal. I give to charity, try to help etc. Do Christians still think I'm going to hell? Speaking as a Christian, I can say "Amen" to several earlier responses who cited scripture to support their beliefs. Jesus Himself said "I am the way, the truth, and the life; no one comes to the Father except through me." That sounds rather narrow and elitist, but it isn't, really. Just before He died, Jesus also said "It is finished." I believe that,...

Answer to:
What kind of person attracts you like a magnet...? One who seems genuinely to like me.

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
My daughter is turning one in 2 weeks.I wanted to get her a special daddy to daughter gift.what would you recommend I get her? Sorry, friend, but, at 12 months, she is too young even to understand the concept of "birthday," let alone the idea of a "special" gift. My suggestion is that you write how you feel about her, how wonderful your life has become since she came to be with Mommy and you, and how "special" she is to you. Sharing some of your hopes and dreams for her life may also be...

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
When Gawd commanded, "Thou shalt have no other gawds before me!" (Exodus 20:3) wasn't that an "admission" that "other gawds" do, in fact, exist? Why prohibit the worshipping of "other gawds," if there are none? It is human nature to seek out something greater than ourselves. The "other gods" to which God referred were the result of that search. Idols were and are created to be the physical representations of mankind's mental creations. So, while it is true that the "other gods" do not exist in reality, they do exist in people's minds. And the mind of man should never...

| 5 people like this

Answer to:
Is there a movie that you had watched more than 4 times? Harold and Maude Beautiful Thing Get Real All Over the Guy Mambo Italiano Latter Days