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if you are 14 and your parents are divorced can you decide which parent you want to live with?
Only three states have that law, and even there, they have significant limitations. This article will teach you about what you can ask for.
squidoo.com/Custody-TheChildsChoice
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In the States your s/o say's you are the father, you put your name on the childs bs, then you find out later you are not, still liable?
Yes in many states. In Kansas, once child support is ordered, it cannot be overturned, regardless of circumstances. In Missouri, the man has 24 months to learn he is not the father.
http://squidoo.com/ChildSupportFraud
http://squidoo.com/MandatoryPaternityTesting
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Does a male victim of attempted rape receive less sympathy?
Yes, and worse, he can be ordered to pay child support to the woman. According to Professor Peter Anderson, of the Institute of Human Sexuality, males can be drugged and the woman still have sex with him. Drugs do not curtail the ability to have an erection, as is often noted during surgery. It is a form of Priapism. Also, young males can be molested by women and be ordered to pay child...
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CHILD SUPPORT: If someone you know is lying about their income to avoid paying the correct child support, can you turn them in??? see desc.
He likely got the job since the last time the order was reviewed. There is not law that says he has to report that he is now working, any more than there are any laws that require mothers to actually spend the child support on the child. They can dump the child on the grandparents to support and raise, or tell a new boyfriend that she is not getting any and needs him to support the children.
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We'd have 50% fewer abortions if people that are against abortion weren't also against contraceptives. Agree/Disagree? Why?
No, as the women do not care. They know about contraceptives. It would take a complete idiot to not know about them in this society. Unless you want to force women on to contraceptives, or force men to get a vasectomy right out of high school.
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I am almost 16 years old. Is it possible to be un-adopted and live with my coach? She really cares for me. I hate my family!
Most 16 year olds do. It's a part of being an immature child who will not reach full maturity for another 8-14 years, depending on whether you are male or female.
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Do I have to send my daughter to see her father when he lives with a child sex offender?
How do you know the woman is as most are not required to register as such, even if they had molested five boys while being HIV+ in Missouri?
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Are you men worried that if your wife divorces you, youll be taken to the cleaners?(bye house, car, children, money, freedom)
No, as I know my rights. That's the problem, men don't learn their rights, and they hire the first attorney they talk to.
Http://Getting_Started-Fathers_N_Family_Law.Dads-House.Org
Http://Attorneys-Hiring_The_Right_One.Dads-House.Org
Http://Divorce.Dads-House.Org
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Could my husband go to jail for unpaid back alimony?..after their divorce she was put in jail on another issue shes out now and wants money
Going to jail may have been used as grounds for suspend the Alimony. Did he ever talk to an attorney.
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Which of the following is true regarding child support in California when the paying parent is incarcerated (assuming a court order is not
Put on hold, according to Judge David Grey Ross, Commissioner of the Federal Office of Child Support Enforcement
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In the state of California, if the parent with primary custody wishes to move out of state, what are the requirements?
Approval of the other parent, and/or the courts. But, not without also being required to provide a $5000 cash or certified bond.
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What rights does an unwed father have in the state of louisianna?
None, nada, in any state, until granted them by the courts.
Http://Single_Fathers_N_Paternity.Dads-House.Org
Http://Getting_Started-Fathers_N_Family_Law.Dads-House.Org
Http://Attorneys-Hiring_The_Right_One.Dads-House.Org
http://CHILD_SUPPORT_QUIZ.dads-house.org
http://Single_Fathers_N_Safe_Haven_Laws.Dads-House.org
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Jim owes child support in arrears of $3,000. Which of the following is true when applied to Jim?
None of them until a court rules on it.
http://Child_Support.Dads-House.org/
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Can they garnish my whole paycheck for child support
Under federal law, it ranges from 50-65% of your net.
http://docs.dads-house.org/Fed_Dir-Child_Support_Garnishment.pdf
However, this does not prevent a judge from ordering more than this amount, with you just falling into arrears for the balance. This was a fairly common occurrence in Hawaii back in the 90s when military men were ordered to pay child support. The courts would take into...
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Can law enforcement legally refuse to enforce a court order for child possession?
The reaction of police has evolved as a result of the extremely high rate of mothers denying fathers access to their children, roughly 60% in the late 80s and early 90s. In the last decade it has dropped to 45%, though still high. The problem that arose is the amount of calls they were getting on this and the amount of time spent on each call. To force the exchange means not only time in the...
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Are there any laws in the state of Mass, that require divorced parents to each provide a bedroom for their child at each resident?
No state has laws addressing this, nor could they legally be required to do so.
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How many children are allowed in a two-bedroom apartment in Maine?
State law does not address this, nor children of different genders, occupying the same room. No state does. I know a California father who had to move his wife and four children into a two bedroom apartment from five bedroom house after being hit with 15 years of retroactive child support on a child he never knew existed. Over $160,000.
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i HAVE A WARRENT FOR LATE CHILD SUPPORT. IF THE POLICE CAME TO MY HOME AND I DIDN'T ANSWER COULD THEY JUST COME IN MY HOME FOR THAT?
The warrant does not include a search and seize. Why are you in arrears?
http://CHILD_SUPPORT_QUIZ.dads-house.org
http://Child_Support.Dads-House.org/
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I get 845.00 of social security, How much would I pay in childsupport, for one child in California?
If you get SSI, it cannot be garnished.
http://Child_Support.Dads-House.org/
http://CHILD_SUPPORT_QUIZ.dads-house.org
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What is the law/consequence if a 17 year old has sex with a 23 year old, in the state of virginia? (with consent)
Despite the age, it falls under the infidelity law.
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Do you feel the Non-custodial parent should be incarcerated for failure to pay their child support? Why? and Why not?
Yes, provided everyone who owes a debt that goes to court for collection is also jailed for not paying. Actually, Florida is considering doing just that with the success of sending people to jail for a child support debt.
Take this Quiz on Child Support:
http://CHILD_SUPPORT_QUIZ.dads-house.org
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my son is 18 and a father himself he lives with his mother and goes to college part time do i still have to pay his mother child support
That is dependent on your court order, and state law. In New York, you have to pay until age 21, even if he didn't live with the mother. See the article at this link
http://Child_Support.Dads-House.org/
Take this Quiz on Child Support:
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A friend owes quite a bit in Child Support in CA,if he reconciles with the mother of his children is he still responsible for the arrears?
Yes, plus substantial interest penalties. The state gets 15% in federal matching funds for all child support owed, and they are not going to give up easily on any source of funding in this economy.
http://Child_Support.Dads-House.org/
http://CHILD_SUPPORT_QUIZ.dads-house.org
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my child is not in US but she wants me to pay $400 monthly (I pay $200). child lives in another country (born in US)with mothers parents.
First, the US has jurisdiction over child support, however, if you are not paying by way of a court order, than you are not paying child support, you are giving gifts. She can still file fro retroactive child support. You need to file to make the order legal. The amount is not the issue here as child support guidelines are not mandatory.
http://Child_Support.Dads-House.org
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My baby's father lives in Kentucky and I live in Georgia.would it be best for me 2 go 2 kentucky and put him on child support n georgia?
Georgia does not have long arm jurisdiction over him so you have to go to Kentucky. You can try to file there, and Child Support Enforcement will be perfectly willing to try it, but if the father is smart, or talks to an attorney, he can easily dispute any claim of jurisdiction under the UCCJEA.
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A dad has life-changing opportunities overseas & wants to live there, do u think it's ok for him to, if he has a 4 y/o (living with mum-ex)?
No, that is a dumb idea, and you can tell him I said so.
Http://Children_Of_Separated_Parents.Dads-House.Org
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I married in Arkansas I have since seperated.I was wondering if our marriage is legal in the UK and would I now have to file for divorce.
Yes, however you would need to file within the US.
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Is it kidnapping,in the state of Florid if a child doesn't want to go back to the custodial parent and do we have to force them to go back?
Yes, you must abide by the court order unless you have conclusive evidence of abuse. Do not forget that children do reflect your desires, thinking that is what you want to hear. Have you consider an alternate form of custody?
http://bird_nest_custody.dads-house.org/
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Knowing fully well she would return to Texas in a Year, my ex-wife files for a divorce in NYork. What are my options now 2yrs. later in TX?
If you were not served, than you need to appeal all decisions and request a new hearing. Here's some links to help.
Http://Getting_Started-Fathers_N_Family_Law.Dads-House.Org
Http://Attorneys-Hiring_The_Right_One.Dads-House.Org
Http://Divorce.Dads-House.Org
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Do you think there should be public prayer in schools?
Christ once asked who was the more blessed, the man who daily prayed at the eastern wall, for all to see his faith, or the man who prayed at home, alone, for no one to see? Prayer is not something for public display, it's meant to be a private communication between a person and God. Nor is it meant to be repetitive. The people didn't ask Christ to "Teach them a Prayer", they asked him to...
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Why must Elizabeth Edwards wait a year before she can file for a divorce from John?
Many states have minimum requirements of this type. Here's a list:
http://www.totaldivorce.com/process/requirements/waiting-period.aspx
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My child's dad,(who is not my husband),owes me child support arrears. Is my soon to be x-husband entitled to part of the arrears?
This one I'm going to run past my advisers as I have never thought about this possibility. He may have a claim if he has been providing primary support for the child.
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what age can my 14 year old son can make dessisons onto staying with his father an extra day or two
There is no statutes addressing this, so the issue is for the courts. At his age the judge will likely take his opinion into consideration, so the issue is whether you want to go to the expense of making a case out of this. An adjustment in the custody, and child support, orders can easily be made using a certified mediator. You register it with the Clerk of the Court and get a hearing date....
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Do you feel the Non-custodial parent should be incarcerated for failure to pay their child support? Why? and Why not?
What is a the cause of the failure to pay? Is it because only women are given the Federal Child Support Handbook that say Child Support Enforcement will represent either parent for free for a modification? Millions of men are out of work, and those that owe child support think that they have to hire an attorney to get a reduction.
Is it because that, while a mother can get a hearing to...
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the mother is an unfit mom but she hasnt given birth to the baby yet, do i have to wait until born to start filing for custody or can i now?
In Utero Custody
http://docs.dads-house.org/InUteroCustody.pdf
Http://Getting_Started-Fathers_N_Family_Law.Dads-House.Org
Http://Attorneys-Hiring_The_Right_One.Dads-House.Org
Http://Single_Fathers_N_Paternity.Dads-House.Org
Http://Father_Custody.Dads-House.Org
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What are my chances of getting full custody of my unborn child?
First, it depends if they live in a state where he is the presumed father. Unfortunately, this would not prevent her from nailing you for retroactive child support, up to 23 years from now.
http://married_girlfriend_is_pregnant.dads-house.org/
If they don't live in one of those states, your chances are the same as most men who shack up, very little. In all cases where the man is not married...
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If a married woman gets pregnant by another man can both men be the legal father for child support reasons?
In 20 states, the husband is consider the father under Equitable Paternity. Of interest in this, a New York man is paying child support to his ex-wife who is now married to the father. In other states, the husband is not the assumed father if she cheated. He can demand a paternity test at the time of the birth.
However, even in cases involving equitable paternity, this may change in the...
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In Indiana can a non custodial parent take a minor child out of state with out the custodial parents permisssion?
Yes.
During your court ordered visitation, YOU ARE THE CUSTODIAL PARENT!
However, this would not curtail the other parent making a false allegation of kidnapping, and/or putting a restraining order on you before you leave, so you need to provide the other parent with a letter of intent and your Itinerary. Make a copy and have it inserted into the case file. It would be read if she tries a...
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What does a home study consist of, what do they look for, and what is red flags? I'm not adopting, this is so my son can live with me.
This is interpretive as it fully depends on the interpretation of the person performing the home study. When the person comes, you will want witnesses there in case all that happens is a cursory viewing is done and a bad report written up. If legal in your state, record them without their knowledge.
http://www.ehow.com/how_5912703_it_s-use-family-law-cases.html
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what are the laws for custody if there is no court order in place
Married parents have Joint Physical Custody, though without papers, it is virtually unenforceable. Where they are unmarried, the mother has Sole Custody and Control at the time of the birth, and can stop the father from seeing the child. However, if he has possession, the police will not get involved anymore without court orders. Of interest, In Utero, it's joint custody, and a father can...
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My 17 y/o nephew passed away and his parents can not agree on burial arrangments. They have joint custody in Arkansas. Who decides burial?
Fortunately, in my 21 years of experience, this is not one I've been approached with. With both Joint Physical and Joint Legal, the parents are required to decide on all matters concerning the child, however most often in Joint Legal, the primary residential parent just does what they want to do without regard to the other parent. I assume in this case it is Joint Physical, which means they...
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My son's biological father say's he's thinking about signing over right's to my son, which is fine with me, how do i go about this?
It must be stipulated through a motion to the courts, and must include child support. This can be done Pro Se using a certified mediator to produce the document.
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what\'s the temporary custody laws in georgia?
The same as any state, the parent in "physical possession" of the child can file for an initial "Temporary Custody Order". This is the primary reason mothers get custody. They file first, than by the time the a hearing gets held on a permanent order, the judge does not want to change what the child has become use to.
Http://Father_Custody.Dads-House.Org
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what's the temporary custody laws in the state of georgia?
The same as any state, the parent in "physical possession" of the child can file for an initial "Temporary Custody Order". This is the primary reason mothers get custody. They file first, than by the time the a hearing gets held on a permanent order, the judge does not want to change what the child has become use to.
Http://Father_Custody.Dads-House.Org
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Why is it men have No rights when the child is Inside the womb but outside he has the right to pay her?
Okay, I have 21 years experience in this, so I can state this a little more clearly.
First, men who are not married to the woman they have sex with, resulting in the conception of a child, have NO ASSUMED RIGHTS to that child in any Civilized Country. Germany is currently considering a change in the law to grant single fathers the same rights as married fathers, when separated from the...
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I have been paying child support and the child moved in with me over a year ago, what can I do?
Have you talked to child support enforcement? After 30 days you could have requested a modification and for the support to be stopped.
To learn a father's rights, join Dads House. It's free to join, access all materials, and you associate with other fathers going through, and have already gone through, the same issues. We have an Educational Manual that teaches everything that needs to be...
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My husbands ex wife is living with her boyfriend. Is this legal when their 2 yr old child is in the house? West VA is where she resides.
West Virginia has no specific Infidelity law, other the issue of adultery. This issue will need to be raised with the courts.
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Can a person's drivers license be suspended due to nonpayment of child support in Wyoming?
Yes, this is a requirement under the 1986 Child Support Enforcement Act, which applies to all states. Of note on this, Michigan is now suspending the driver's license of custodial parents who are violating the other parent's visitation rights. We hope to get that passed on all the states.
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Once illinois dept. of child support freezes my exhusband money from SSI 6 years backed how fast will we recieve the money for the children?
SSI cannot be attached for child support
http://www.acf.hhs.gov/programs/cse/new/csr9310.htm
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Do I owe child support for a child that I was told I didn’t father? I Requested a paternity test but was denied by the mother.
You need to file a motion to determine paternity. She can wait up to 23 years to file for up to 18 years of retroactive child support on you. Here's what you need to know.
Http://Single_Fathers_N_Paternity.Dads-House.Org
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my friend is going to court for 2nd Degree Sexual Assault of Child Felony C and he is 19 what is going to happen to him?
I assume he was having sex with his girlfriend, who was under the age of 16, and got her pregnant. An Ohio girl got 36 months for doing that, but males usually get 5-7 years. The girl in Ohio was award child support, which the boy's parents must pay, and he cannot have custody because of his age.
In Oklahoma, a man who did this has to register as a sex offender, even though the girlfriend...
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Situation: 2 kids, foster care with mothers friend, not returning to parents. Dad wants to move kids to 2 parent home with less kids.
The children should be with a parent.
Http://Getting_Started-Fathers_N_Family_Law.Dads-House.Org
Http://Attorneys-Hiring_The_Right_One.Dads-House.Org
Http://Father_Custody.Dads-House.Org
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will it be hard to get custody from my son mother aunt
First, do you have legal rights to the child? Paying child support does not grant you any rights, and single fathers have no assumed rights to their children. Even with court ordered rights, as the primary residential, or custodial parent, the custody order is a part of her estate, so it transfers to a relative, or whomever she designates as a guardian. It could just as well have been a...
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i am 17 and want to move in with my dad and live in the state of ohio do i have to go throught the courts to do that?
I have 21 years in this, and yes, this would have to go through the courts, which means you would not get a hearing date until after you turn 18, presuming you like in the state where the age of majority is age 18. If you live in Mississippi, than yes you can as you can't leave home until age 21.
http://custody-a_childs_choice.dads-house.org/
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Do you believe unmarried fathers have enough rights in gaining the custody of their kids......or is it right or just the state sides with the mother automatically?
Single fathers have NO ASSUME RIGHTS in any state except Arizona.
Http://Single_Fathers_N_Paternity.Dads-House.Org
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my husband wants shared parenting so he dont have to pay child support is that possible i live in ohio
And exactly who would be supporting the child while in his care?
Would the child have a roof over his/her head?
Would the child be fed?
Would the child be clothed?
You would not be paying for that, so who would?
Isn't that also child support, or do you believe parents with custody have no financial obligation?
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How can I get custody of my daughter back if I can\'t afford a lawyer? She is 13.
Back from whom, foster care?
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how much child support will i have 2 pay if i make 60k a year? 2 kids. my soon 2 be x was a stay @ home mom 4 21 yrs. no education...
There are too many factors to answer this. Child support guideline vary from state to state, and what deductions will you asking for? Alimony is deducted off your gross before calculating child support. Is this divorce really necessary?
Http://Children_Of_Separated_Parents.Dads-House.Org
Http://Divorce.Dads-House.Org
http://Child_Support.Dads-House.org/
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At 16 can my son leave his mothers house and move in with me, without the courts approval?
No
http://custody-a_childs_choice.dads-house.org/
Http://Father_Custody.Dads-House.Org
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What do I do if I pay child support and the mother don't let me see the kid
Fight for your child by learning what to do.
Http://Visitation_Rights.Dads-House.Org
Http://Getting_Started-Fathers_N_Family_Law.Dads-House.Org
Http://Attorneys-Hiring_The_Right_One.Dads-House.Org
You can file a motion pro se with the help of the state.
http://www.pueblo.gsa.gov/cic_text/family/childenf/noncustodial.htm#plans
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how can i win full custody of my child?
Preparation, lots of preparation, including finding an attorney you mesh well with.
Http://Getting_Started-Fathers_N_Family_Law.Dads-House.Org
Http://Attorneys-Hiring_The_Right_One.Dads-House.Org
Http://Father_Custody.Dads-House.Org
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At what age is a child officially able to receive child support?
The obligor can file to have the child support go directly to the child once he/she reaches the age of majority for their specific state.
http://ch16-age_of_majority_laws_by_state.dads-house.org/
http://Child_Support.Dads-House.org/
Take this Quiz on Child Support:
http://CHILD_SUPPORT_QUIZ.dads-house.org
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can a mother sign any one on the birth certifacate a of a child mother or father
She can't put a different mother's name on it, but she can put any man's name down as the father.
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when your 12 do you have to go too court to move in with your dad.
No, you have no clear choice in this matter.
http://ch09h-child_choosing_custodial_parent.dads-house.org/
If your mother is not open to this idea, you father will need to file a modification request. Have him contact me at Dads House on what to do.
http://dads-house.org/
In the meantime, you be good. No acting up or disobeying your mother. Causing problems can be used against the move....
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How far in arrears do you have to be in child support in the state of Oregon before they put you in jail?
You don't get put in to jail for arrears.
http://ch11f-child_support_contempt_hearing.dads-house.org/
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Can I win custody of my daughter?
To learn a father's rights, join Dads House in Yahoo Groups. It's free to join and you associate with other fathers going through the same thing.
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Http://Ch03a-Daily_Journals_In_Family_Law_Cases.Dads-House.Org/
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How can I get my custody/child support case moved from Wisconsin to Michigan?
Why is that needed?
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WHAT DO I DO IF I GOT MY GIRLFRIENDS SISTER PREGNANT WHEN ONE LIVES IN SOUTHERN MARYLAND BUT ME AND MY GIRLFRIEND LIVE IN TOLEDO OHIO
Worse case of overshot I've ever hear of. Nailed her from hundreds of miles away.
You have NO LEGAL RIGHTS to the child, even while paying child support. To learn a father's rights, join Dads House in Yahoo Groups. It's free to join and you associate with other fathers going through the same thing.
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can my boyfriend get charged or put in jail because he is 27 and i am 17 turning 18 in June?
Depends on the state.
http://www.avert.org/age-of-consent.htm
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Im meeting with my Son's Father tomorrow about moving to Oklahoma how should I bring it up to him?
Offer this for long distance visitation
http://ch10c-visitation-parents_living_over_100m_apart.dads-house.org/
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What should I do and how should i go for the right to see My Grand Kids?
http://ch10f-visitation-grandparents_rights.dads-house.org
http://www.grandparents.com/
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i am 18 and i live on my own. I moved out of my mothers house when i was 16,and she wont give me my child's support that my dad pays.
She's under no legal obligation to do so without a court order. But, if you do this, than your mother will also be ordered to pay her part. Both parents are obligated, not just one. Go with you father to child support enforcement to request the changes.
http://ch11h-child_support_ends_at_what_age.dads-house.org/
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i am 18 and i live on my own. I moved out of my mothers house when i was 16,and she wont give me my child's support that my dad pays.
She's under no legal obligation to do so without a court order. But, if you do this, than your mother will also be ordered to pay her part. Both parents are obligated, not just one. Go with you father to child support enforcement to request the changes.
http://ch11h-child_support_ends_at_what_age.dads-house.org/
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do I take my kids dad to court for childsupport? they are 7 and 4 and he says I would lose them becuase he makes more money. what to do?
Due to the basic bias in the system, it takes a lot of money for a father to win custody. Equal consideration has to be purchase at a price, but no father goes for custody to avoid paying child support, as he can still be ordered to pay.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20090920192207AA2kvLm
Only 15% of custodial fathers are awarded child support, of which only 7 out of 1000 will...
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Do inmates owe child support while in prison in Ohio?
Judge David Grey Ross, Commissioner of the Federal Office of Child Support Enforcement
"One of the ways is to recognize the fact that a person who is incarcerated has the right if they have an ongoing child support order, to move the court or move the administrative agency to reduce that order since they no longer have the ability to pay."
http://www.fcnetwork.org/5thconf/5policy.html
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Can Dads Get Full Custody of Children?
Yes, with preparation, and not trying to prove the mother to be unfit. It's there's not an overriding security or safety issue, take at least 6 months to prepare. Be nice to the mother, regardless of what she is doing to the father. Clear and convincing evidence is needed, not allegations.
Ignore the claims about fathers getting custody. This is not so much a result of court rulings as it...
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What kind of lawyer do you need to fight a restraining order?
As regards a restraining order related to family law, you will need a family law attorney, but there are things you need to be doing first to prepare. It should be noted that they are generally easy to get, as David Letterman learned, costing him $10,000 to get set aside.
http://people_mag-letterman_fights_restraining_order.dads-house.org/
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hi,what should i do if my ex-girl friend adbanded my two kids with me she hasnt called for them at all. what should i do?
Your first problem is that you have NO LEGAL RIGHTS to the children until granted them by a court, so you still owe her child support. At any time she can take the kids back away from you and nail you for child support, retroactive.
You need to file a motion for parental rights, custody, and child support, right away. Go to child support enforcement and request them to file against the...
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a custodial parent who voluntarily relinquishes the right to receive child support is not eligible to receive child support again?
Depends on the wording of the original order, but even than, she can go to another state and refile. This is often done by mothers claiming non-payment of child support. They jump state to state filing, though the father is current in the original state.
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Can I legally adopt my 33 year old daughter in Ohio?
Yes, the most Relevant Ohio Statute: § 3107.02
I would like to know the history on this. You are actually lucky in that they mother could have hit you with retroactive child support about 15 years ago. I've seen many cases of that.
Write me at george.mccasland@dads-house.org
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My child is 16 about 17 and I suspect that she is having sex with a boy who is 18 or 19 not clear of his age. What are my rights as a parent
Depending on state laws, you could file charges against BOTH OF THEM for underage sexual activity. A Kansas Mother did that to her daughter and boyfriend. You could tell him that she's trying to get pregnant in order to get child support from him. According to a study released on the Tyra Banks Show, 20% of sexually active girls, over the age of 12, are trying to get pregnant.
What I did...
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my sons dad is just taking a interest in my son and his school how much involvement is he allowed as far as trips,groups and meetings
Allowed? Do you plan to be a Gatekeeper mother?
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mother is disputing cellmark results, sent me letter saying I have 14 days to agree to another dna or she will app to court can she do this
Is she paying for it, and will you be using a certified clinic? Is she disputing that you are the father, or not the father?
To learn a father's rights, join Dads House in Yahoo Groups. It's free to join and you associate with other fathers going through the same thing.
http://Dads-House.org
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Are you out of compliance in court ordered child support.. in the rears and ex trying to put foot up one?
Not if you know there's FREE LEGAL REPRESENTATION AVAILABLE TO MODIFY CHILD SUPPORT.
To learn a father's rights, join Dads House in Yahoo Groups. It's free to join and you associate with other fathers going through the same thing.
http://Dads-House.org
Child Support Modifications & Arrears
Negotiating The System
http://ch11-Child_Support-Negotiating_The_System.Dads-House.org
Modifying The...
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Does anyone know how to get gov assistance without having to file child support?
Sound like he is paying you, only in cash. If they file against the father, than you can't double dip, as they will than intercept any payment. I've seen these cases frequently over the years.
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how do i get child support from someone over in iraq who hasnt paid for over a year? child sevices said they cant till he gets back.
I assume this is the result of shacking up? The military has stopped taking the word of single women claiming a military man is the father of her child due to a more than 50% rate of false claims. The problem is once he's ordered to pay, he cannot get it stopped even if he's not the father.
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if a mother who is fighting for custody of her child takes the child out of state to be safe can she be charged with kidnapping?
This is a standard tactic to avoid the father getting custody, while claiming abuse. I've seen a lot of it in 21 years.
http://www2.highlandstoday.com/content/2010/mar/17/la-state-dismisses-16-felony-charges/
http://ch09j-child_custody-child_taken_out_of_state.dads-house.org/
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Can someone get supervised visits if child lives out of state?
Why should that be necessary?
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ex has givin some hints she needs $. I pay more in child support every month than I am required. What do I do?
What have you done about the false allegations?
http://ch12b-abuse-false_allegations-preparing_4_one.dads-house.org/
http://ch12c-abuse-false_allegations-defending_against.dads-house.org/
As for child support, you shouldn't be giving more than the needed amount. If she needs more, ask for receipts on what have been paid already.
http://ch11e-child_support_trust_funds.dads-house.org/
To learn...
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Should a father and a mother have equal rights to custody of a child?
No, the child should have equal custody of the parents.
http://ch09g-child_custody-bird_nest.dads-house.org/
http://docs.dads-house.org/WhenTheKidsGetTheHouse.pdf
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should a noncustodial mother have to pay medical insur as well as Child support?
Only 15% of custodial fathers even get awarded child support. of which only 7 of them receives any. The amount will be 5-10% of the mother's gross income, while fathers pay 18-55%. Worse, 9% of custodial fathers are still ordered to pay child support.
http://Dads-House.org/
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my bf had a child a couple of years ago the lady told him the child was not his she took him to child support and he was ordered to pay why?
She could have waited 18 yeas than filed for a retroactive amount.
http://ch11m-child_support-retroactive_order.dads-house.org/
You have NO LEGAL RIGHTS to the child, even while paying child support. To learn a father's rights, join Dads House in Yahoo Groups. It's free to join and you associate with other fathers going through the same thing.
http://Dads-House.org
PATERNITY
Paternity...
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What do I do if I pay child support and the mother don't let me see the kid
Do you have any legal rights to see the child. Single fathers forfeit this right, and no, ignorance of the law is not an accuse. Paying child support grants you nothing in the way of any rights. You have to apply to the courts for permission to see your child. By the way, if you're giving her money without a court order, it's a gift and not support. All states have laws like this one in...
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Do you think its pathetic that a noncustodial parent complains about having to pay child support, while the custodial parent pays for everything when the noncustodial parent can't or wont pay?
They complain because they have ZERO control over it, and while there are government provided enforcement programs to enforce child support, are are none to enforce access rights. Further, a father can be required in all states to pay child support while having ZERO parental rights.
According to the US Dept. of Health & Human Services study, "Survey of Absent Parents" over 60% of mothers...
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Who do you think is the more common perpetrator of domestic violence against men? Why?
Men are the victims in 39% of the cases.
http://docs.dads-house.org/Men-Dont-Tell.pdf
http://docs.dads-house.org/Ref_Studies-Assaults_By_Women_On_Spouses.pdf
http://www.csulb.edu/~mfiebert/latimes.htm
http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/30482695/
http://reactions_2_women_abusing_men_in_public.dads-house.org/
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I've been a father to a child for 2 years and found out that im not his father, how do i tell him that im not his "da-da"?
You are, and after two years, you can be held accountable for the child, anyway.
http://article-paternity_fraud_rampant.dads-house.org/
http://docs.dads-house.org/NY_High_Court_Equitable_Paternity.pdf
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my babys biological dad wantd me 2abort her&didnt contact me thru the pregnancy,he also uses cannabis and cocaine,can i stop him seein her?
You shouldn't as the damage is far worse not having a father. If there's a problem, set supervised visitation.
All Children Deserve Two Parents
Georgia Supreme Court Chief Justice Leah Ward Sears has noted, children born to unmarried women and to those in cohabiting relationships "must often overcome increased risks of poverty, education failure, child abuse, delinquency, emotional distress...
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how would you stop a 14 year old savin a kid toy u wanted thrown out, how would you make sure it stayed in the trash, breakit,inwith diapers
Do you know how many mothers threw out the kid's toy that later turned out to be valuable as the years pass?
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For those of you who are parents, what percent of the responsibility for who your children have grown up to be rests on your shoulders?
100% when it comes to fatherless children.
All Children Deserve Two Parents
Georgia Supreme Court Chief Justice Leah Ward Sears has noted, children born to unmarried women and to those in cohabiting relationships "must often overcome increased risks of poverty, education failure, child abuse, delinquency, emotional distress and mental illness....the lack of a father’s guidance in...
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I think you know you did something right when your children grow up to have happy, useful, productive lives. What do you think?
Yes, but children need to remember to tell their fathers that they appreciate them. With moms, you say you love them, but men think in differently. We think in terms of accomplishments. As much as the mushy stuff is nice to hear, what we really want to hear i that we have done a good job.
http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20050619
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How often do you use the "Guilt Trip" on your kids? Does that make you feel guilty?
Gatekeeper mothers like to use the 9 months of pain argument.
http://gatekeeper_mom-time_magazine.dads-house.org/
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Can a parent love one child more than the other?
You can love a child, such as an adult child, but you can also not like them much. Your child may be a murderer. You still love them as your child, but you don't like them much for their actions.
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Could you REALLY honestly love someone else's child as your own/ (a stepchild)
I thought that, but than a few years back, my stepfather said I was his favorite child, so I wrote this.
http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20050619
I give this to people consider being a stepparent
http://living-n-step-families.dads-house.org/
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What\'s the best way to teach your children that profanity is not a mature thing? Any help on this topic is welcome!
When I was young, soap was used, but these days you could order vomit or soap flavored Jelly Bellies.
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My friend asked me if I would father a child with her. What should I do?
Regardless of any agreement you may have, you would financially responsible. Men who gave to sperm banks in England can now be sued for child support.
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Me and my girlfriend are coming up to 18 years old. She wants a baby. I would gladly have kids with her but is it too soon?
Yes, by at least six years.
http://to_be_or_not_to_be-a_virgin_until_marriage.dads-house.org/
http://whats_the_right_age_2_marry.dads-house.org/
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Should a mother stay at home with her young children rather than working outside the home?
A parent should stay home, but mothers become angry at fathers staying home for the kids.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HqTjGCGicC4
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SMUOduGv6b0
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What kind of a father would put their child up for adoption if found to have birth defects?
Well, in November of 2008, the Bishop of the Church of England stated they shouldn't be allowed to live. Also, how does a father abort a child? He has no say so in the matter.
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How many people over the age 18 still get spank by their parents? If so how and why?
Why, do you think they are adults at age 18. Not even Christ was. He wasn't mature enough to leave home until age 30.
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Should we introduce concentration camps and gas chambers for paedophiles?
According to the American Psychological Association, it's a sexual orientation.
Exactly when should this be done. Last Summer, the child sexual abuse sentence of a Georgia man was commuted at the request of the now adult children, who said their mother had lied. The courts had refused to hear the case. The father had served 15 years in prison. Should he have been sacrifice? He does still...
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What do you think was one of the most difficult things your parents taught you?
Always wearing clean underwear in case you're in an accident.
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Im 20, at what point do you tell a guy your a virgin and you wanna wait til your ready?
I still remember the days when the question would be how to tell him you're not a virgin. How times have changed. Consider the problem of guys who are waiting bringing this up. If he makes no moves in that direction, than he may also be waiting, so it need not be discussed. And yes, there are a lot of guys who do listen to their parents about such things. According to studies done by the...
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What some do to their children is evil. Imagine growing up in a hate-filled home. Where can they learn to "love thy neighbor"?
Children cannot be evil, as evil does not truly exist, just as darkness does not exist.. Attitude and character are learned behaviors, and if the child's home life lacks the light of goodness, than than what if left is a vacuum that sucks in all that is unlit and not good.
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Can my ex boyfriend and his mother take my baby for a dna test without my consent?
He just did what I tell all fathers to do because there's a 30% rate of the results coming out negative.
http://article-paternity_fraud_rampant.dads-house.org/
As for supporting the child, until paternity is confirmed, no man should, as the money cannot be recovered. I'm working with testing companies to run TRUST, BUT CONFIRM TV commercials. This company has already begin doing it....
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Is it fair that my husband continue to send his ex child support once his son moves in with us?
You need to make an official request to have the support modified. Free legal representation is available from Child support Enforcement.
http://child_support_modifications.dads-house.org/
http://www.pueblo.gsa.gov/cic_text/family/childenf/noncustodial.htm#food
To learn a father's rights, join Dads House in Yahoo Groups. It's free to join and you associate with other fathers going through...
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does child support end if the child gets married
Yes, but you must request a modification to stop it
http://child-support-ends-when.dads-house.org/
http://dads-house.org/
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I PAY CHILD SUPPORT AND MY SON LIVE WITH ME AND HE WORK HE HAS 19 AND SHE HAS 21 AND 3 KIDS,AND THE MOTHER RECIVED THE MONEY AND SHE TAKED?
First, it depends on the state law.
http://child-support-ends-when.dads-house.org/
But, it is right that a motion to modify support needs to be filed, most don't know that under federal law, free legal representation is available from Child Support Enforce Office.
http://www.pueblo.gsa.gov/cic_text/family/childenf/noncustodial.htm
http://child_support_modifications.dads-house.org/...
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my dad and my mom have fighting over custody of me thowe my dad is smarter, has a better job, and is sober, mom won kuz shes female. thought
Neither you or we know the full story behind why she won. You were not allowed at the hearing to see what evidence was presented. I educate fathers how to fight for custody and have seen thousands of such cases. You don't mention what you said to the judge when interviewed in chambers.
You could start asking about getting Bird Nest Custody of your parents.
http://birdnestcustody.org/...
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I am in a custody battle right now and my Boyfriend and I are wanting to move out of West Virginia?
These type of allegations happen in 80% of cases, and we have only your word for the test. Also, drugs addicts don't fight for their parental rights.
I hope he is causing problems, as 60% of mothers who move their children away from the father beginning violating his access, according to the US Dept. of Health & Human Services study, "Survey of Absent Parents".
I know this as I'm teaching...
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are there any girls out there who have a dumbass ex!?? mine is soo stupid! guys suck
A person is drawn to those who reflect the best qualities of themselves.
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When visiting my kids in Japan, should I accept their mother's invitation to stay at their apt (in kids room)? My wife says no.
Are you the young man we heard about in the news, whose child was kidnapped by the mother?
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Are most divorces caused by stress?
No, most are from getting married too young, and/or living together prior to marriage.
http://whats_the_right_age_2_marry.dads-house.org/
Should We Live Together?
What Young Adults Need to Know about Cohabitation before Marriage
David Popenoe and Barbara Dafoe Whitehead
Rutgers University Study
Cohabiting couples breakup three times more than married couples. Cohabiting couples that later...
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my wife filed for divorce and i don't want to divorce her what should i do
Unfortunately, if that's her desire, there is little you can do to stop it. If you refuse to cooperate, she can request a summary judgment in her favor. Here's some thing to help.
http://dads-house.org/
http://divorce-first-aid-kit.dads-house.org/
http://daily-journals-in-family-law.dads-house.org/
http://chronological-statement-4-attorneys.dads-house.org/...
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Is it fair that my husband continue to send his ex child support once his son moves in with us?
Contact Child Support Enforcement. They are obligated by federal law to represent either parent, upon request, for a child support modification, which is what this will be. But, you should still file a separate motion to modify custody. To learn your rights, join Dads House in Yahoo Groups
http://Dads-House.org
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i am a div mom who has had custody of my son for 4 yrs. son wants 2 live w/dad cuz he nevr gets 2 c him. would i have to pay his dad ?
Should you? Yes
Will you be made to? No likely
Only 7 out of 1000 non-custodial mothers pay child support. It should be noted that only 150 out of 1000 non-custodial mothers are ordered to pay child support, most of which are due to fathers not seeking it due to the Urban Myth started by Marcia Clark of OJ Simpson fame. That was what she told the national media when Gordon Clark, a...
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Is OK to take my daughter away for a while without my ex's consent??
Just what does he think you are planning to do, and does it involve leaving the country? If this was within the US, I would recommend that the two of you make an agreement as regards this trip, with the clear declaration on your part that this trip is not with the intent to relocate the child away from the father. You would both take that agreement to the Clerk of the Court to certify your...
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how can i get my child support stopped if i have my son full time and the mother is not complying to cps rules and we have not had contact
First, contact Child Support Enforcement. They are obligated by federal law to represent either parent, upon request, for a child support modification, which is what this will be. But, you should still file a separate motion to modify custody. To learn your rights, join Dads House in Yahoo Groups
http://Dads-House.org
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can a child neglect charge that was dropped in superior be recharged in family court?
I've seen it frequently done to fathers trying to get custody. It's an effective tool to disrupt his efforts.
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Can half brothers and half sisters get married in Georgia? even when they didn't know each other due to adoption?
This is going to become a growing problem that needs to be addressed with 30% of paternity tests showing mothers have no clear idea who the father of one or more of their children is. Add to this the number of women who use Sperm Banks to have children, plus the growth now of single men hiring surrogate mothers to have children for them. One has to wonder how many couples do not know they are...
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I am a bio dad of twins 6 months. The mother is married and her husband sign paternity paperwork. DNA prove I am the father what can I do?
To learn your rights, join Dads House in Yahoo Groups
http://Dads-House.org
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I discovered 2 of my 5 husbands were having gay sex with each other behind my back, so I divorced both of them. Did I do the right thing?
Apparently you turned them Gay.
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Do they really put people in jail if they don't pay child support? I was wondering if they do that in ca.
I hope not as they have had to release 6000 none violent rapist due to lack of money to keep them in jail. Do you think they should not start on releasing the violemt ones to afford putting him in jail?
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how to divorce an unwilling wife after 15 yrs of marriage 12 yrs son?
If she does respond, than default orders can be entered, but if the father does not have possession of the child, he cannot be awarded custody without her appearance.
DO'S & DON'TS OF DIVORCE
http://divorce-first-aid-kit.dads-house.org/
http://docs.dads-house.org/DivorceCheckList4Dads.pdf
http://divorce-initial-precautions.dads-house.org/
GETTING STARTED...
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is there states inwhich adultery is actually a misdemeanor?
Virginia
§61-8-3. Adultery and fornication; penalty.
§61-8-4. Lewd and lascivious cohabitation and conduct; penalty; when persons presumed to be unmarried.
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Is shared parenting workable by family law?
James Cook, the father of Joint Custody, was a friend. I knew him for 20 years. He passed away a year ago. He help me in 1993 in developing this for the fathers manual I was developing.
http://joint-custody-case.dads-house.org/
Jut before his death, he was considering the evolution of Joint Physical Custody to Bird Nest Custody, to address the issues of children being switch back and...
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im 14 can i file a petition in tn to terminate bio moms rights?i havent seen her since 2007 except 3mos in 2008 for court ordered counseling
You don't standing in the court for doing so, this would need to be done by your father, but why is it important? This also suspends al financial obligation she would have.
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HUSBAND SIGNS FRIEDLY DIVORCE, WIFE WANTED TO USE WAIVER TO BEAK HER PROMISSES CAN HUSBAND CHANGE TO CONTESTED BEFORE THE FINAL JUDGMENT
Yes, but keep detailed records on her intent
http://recording-conversations-n-use.dads-house.org/
http://divorce-first-aid-kit.dads-house.org/
http://dads-house.org/
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What age do I stop paying child support in Kentucky?
http://child-support-ends-when.dads-house.org/
http://child_support_modifications.dads-house.org/
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at a child support hearing can i ask that the father sign over all parental rights and drop the case?
Yes, but I would teach him not to and a lot of mothers use it as a scam. They just go to another state and refile.
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can my daughter be taken away from meby her father if my boyfriend has a misdeameanor record.
No. I teach fathers how to get custody, and I would tell them that would be a dumb reason to try.
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My ex lives in TX. my child is emancipated.Does anyone have any legal expertise/advice for child support collection?
Just maintain the claim and be glad you're not the father, as than you would be out of luck, since deadbeat moms get away with it, as 95% refuse to pay their orders.
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The child is emancipated, but the $130K is for arrearage only. not trying to collect for any point past that
Was there a question?
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Whats the point of living when u cant see your children grow up?
Why are you not seeing it?
http://dads-house.org/
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How old will your child be when you stop paying child support in mississippi?
http://child-support-ends-when.dads-house.org
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Is there a Lawyer in the state of OHIO that will to help get back the money I have spent on a child that DNA testing has proved is not mine
No state will do that, and can still require you to pat child support.
http://challenging_paternity_due_2_fraud.dads-house.org/
http://dads-house.org/
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Me and my boyfriend live in Texas. We're bi. He's 19, I'm 17. Since the sex age here is 17, is it considered crime for same sex intercourse?
You're fine, though too young to be sexually active in the first place. Are you with the national group to abolish the polygamy laws to allow you to have a group marriage and be married to both sexes at the same time?
Sec. 21.11. INDECENCY WITH A CHILD. (a) A person commits an offense if, with a child younger than 17 years and not the person's spouse, whether the child is of the SAME or...
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Retroactive child support is it the law? Both parents have legal physical custody. Father says he's always provided care mother says no.
Anything the father pays can be considered a gift, guaranteed if she's been on Welfare. I had a case of that here. Despite receipts and canceled checks, he was ordered to pay $24,000 in retroactive child support, plus a large fine for punching the judge, so never pay without a court order. Child support guideline are not required. You can mediate an agreement and file the results with the...
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Do you pay child support when you have joint custody?
James Cook, the father of Joint Custody was a friend of 20 years. He passed away last March.
http://www.newsweek.com/id/174698
His goal with it was not related to child support, and n his day there were no child support guidelines, just most Alimony payments, which combine the two, but was tax deductible. When thy separated out child support, the father could no longer take that part as a...
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My child support is a couple hundred dollars behind but only becase my son started school and his mother wouldnt buy the required uniforms and I had to. can send in reciepts for them to deduct the amount?
You can try, but generally it's considered a gift.
To learn your rights, join Dads House in Yahoo Groups
http://Dads-House.org
CHILD SUPPORT
http://Child_Support_Modifications.Dads-House.Org/
http://Child-Support-Outside-Guidelines.Dads-House.Org/
http://Child-Support-Trust-Fund.Dads-House.Org/
http://Child-Support-Contempt.Dads-House.Org/
http://Child-Support-Ends-When.Dads-House.Org/...
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Is it required to pay 3yrs back pay for child support in NC if mother just filed and father has been providing care with 50/50 custody
Yes, anything giving is a gift without a court order, up to 18 years worth.
http://docs.dads-house.org/Federal_Child_Support_Laws.pdf
http://responding-2-a-child-support-claim.dads-house.org/
http://child-support-establish-amount.dads-house.org/
To learn your rights, join Dads House in Yahoo Groups
http://Dads-House.org
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What does a divorce attorney do?
How to choose an attorney
http://choosing-a-family-law-attorney.dads-house.org/
Interviewing
http://interviewing-family-lawyers.dads-house.org/
http://chronological-statement-4-attorneys.dads-house.org/
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Who pays travel expenses for child custody in new jersey?
Properly, it should be the parent that moved away.
http://visitation_4_parents_living_over_100_miles_apart.dads-house.org/
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can my ex husband take my children, who I have custody of, to live with him abroad?
Legally, no. He can attempt to kidnap the children, if he goes to a country that a signatory to the Hague Treaty, they can be returned. The reverse is not the case. The only country that returns a child kidnapped by a mother is Cuba, who never signed the treaty. Not even the US will honor a foreign custody award to a father.
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At what age can a child choose custody in ohio?
Age 18, but as for an opinion, consider an alternative.
http://child-choosing-custody-parent.dads-house.org/
http://docs.dads-house.org/WhenTheKidsGetTheHouse.pdf
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Why can't I pay back the state for the temporary assistance for needy families but the dad can?
He's obligated to pay it back, even in cases where the mother was committing Welfare fraud.
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She has been found in contempt 3 times and a judgement against her within 1 1/2 yrs. yet i still get screwed. Why?
What is the issue being addressed? If it's denial of visitation, the moment the judge rules tat she's in contempt, you hand him a motion for change of custody. A contempt ruling is considered a CHANGE OF CIRCUMSTANCES and custody can change right than and there. If your attorney didn't do this, he/she is not doing their job. To learn your rights, join Dads House in Yahoo Groups...
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Can you go to jail for not paying child support?
No. You go to jail for contempt of court in ignoring a judicial order. But, the states and not afford to easily imprison ones in this economy. California had to release 6000 non-violent rapists two weeks ago. The had run out of white collar criminals to release.
Only 11% of fathers owing child support refuse to pay. According to Judge David Grey Ross, former Commissioner of the Federal...
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Do you need to provide a social security number in order to get divorced,she says she needs it to give to the lawyer?Cleveland,Ohio.
As said on the other answer, let the attorney do it. They likely need it to subpoena tax records from the IRS. Beyond that, are you prepared for this divorce? To learn your rights, join Dads House in Yahoo Groups
http://Dads-House.org
DO'S & DON'TS OF DIVORCE
Divorce First Aid Kit
http://Divorce-First-Aid-Kit.Dads-House.org/
GETTING STARTED
Daily Journal...
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My husband has never been late on making a child support payment to his ex-wife. He is facing a possible lay off and will be without a job. Will I be responsible for making his child support payment since I am working?
For future reference on this to anyone reading this.
Some useful links
http://icanhaz.com/ChildSupportModifying
http://icanhaz.com/ChildSupport-OutsideGuidelines
http://icanhaz.com/ChildSupportTrustFund
http://icanhaz.com/ChildSupport-Contempt
http://icanhaz.com/ChildSupport-EndsWhen
http://icanhaz.com/ChildSupport-Taxes
http://icanhaz.com/ChildSupport-SpouseIncome
Answer to:
How could men get away without paying child support?
They don't, only women do. Out of 1000 non-custodial fathers, 110 refuse to pay. Out of 1000 non-custodial mothers, 993 refuse to support their children. And worse, 90 of the still get child support.
According to Judge David Grey Ross, Commissioner of the Federal Office of Child Support Enforcement, 62% of fathers pay their court ordered child support in full, which includes the 9% of...
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Can we get alimony & child support from a husband's VA Compensation & SSI Disability payments? He has no other income or assests available.
SSI is not attachable.
http://www.acf.hhs.gov/programs/cse/new/csr9310.htm
The reason he's on SSI is because his VA Disability is not enough to live on, and you want to cut it further. The US Supreme Court ruled the VA Disbility benefits cannot be attached, but most states ignore it.
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How much income is taken for child support in California?
There's also other variables, such as the income of a second spouse.
http://waits4u.com/dad/Calif-Child-Support-Page.pdf
http://www.childsup.ca.gov/NoncustodialParent/tabid/62/Default.aspx
To learn your rights, join Dads House in Yahoo Groups
http://Dads-House.org
Some useful links
http://icanhaz.com/ChildSupport-NewClaim
http://icanhaz.com/ChildSupport-EstablishingAmount...
Answer to:
How long does child support last in florida?
Here's what you need.
Age That Child Support Stops
http://www.ehow.com/how_5926776_age-stop-paying-child-support.html
To learn your rights, join Dads House in Yahoo Groups
http://Dads-House.org
CHILD SUPPORT
Modifying Child Support
http://www.ehow.com/how_5951975_prepare-child-support-modification-reduction.html
Departing From Child Support Guidelines...
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How do i fill out the child support worksheet when it asks you about basic child support obligation? It is my self services packet for AZ.
This will help. To learn your rights, join Dads House in Yahoo Groups
http://Dads-House.org
CHILD SUPPORT
New Claim To Pay Child Support
http://www.ehow.com/how_5922904_respond-served-claim-child-support.html
Establishing Child Support Amount
http://www.ehow.com/how_5926518_establish-must-pay-child-support.html
Modifying Child Support...
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My b/f's ex constantly harasses him for child support & it's never been late. Family Court suggested a restraining order. Any thought?
Yes, but I'm more concerned with what she may be saying to others, as well as his child. Is she doing what most mothers do, telling everyone within reach that he's a deadbeat? To learn your rights, join Dads House in Yahoo Groups
http://Dads-House.org
CHILD SUPPORT
Modifying Child Support
http://www.ehow.com/how_5951975_prepare-child-support-modification-reduction.html
Departing From Child...
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What are the chances of pregnancy should a condom full of semen get stuck inside a female?
No different than not using a condom, it still has to swim through a 100 miles (from the perspective of the sperm) of molasses to reach it's goal. Just remember, if you're not married to her, and she gets pregnant, you are obligated to pay child support, but you still have no rights to the child.
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wages were garnished 4 child sup arrears which has been satisfied. how & what do i file with the court now 2 stop garnish..without a lawyer
If the child has not aged out, than the garnishment will remain for the standard payment, but a modification will need to be made to that amount. If the child has aged out, and your total obligation is met, than the garnishment needs to be removed, but you may not be yet done. Most states wait until the principal is paid, than charge interest penalties of 3-15% annually. You need to get a...
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How do I go about getting full custody of my daughter?
Because you now have primary possession, you can file for a modification in the order, AND for child support. A simple modification can be done Pro Se. This company can help you with the filing and what to do in court. They also work on these issues. A number of my members have used them.
http://www.helpyourselfdivorce.com/
To learn your rights, join Dads House in Yahoo Groups...
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how do i find out if i have a lien on my federal taxes due to delinquent child support.
If you have arrears, you have a lien. Fathers should take enough deductions during the year to not have a return, as it can be taken even when current in child support.
http://www.ehow.com/how_5926767_deal-concerns-child-support-obligors.html
To learn your rights, join Dads House in Yahoo Groups
http://Dads-House.org
CHILD SUPPORT
Modifying Child Support...
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At what age can a child choose custody?
http://birdnestcustody.org/
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At what age can a child choose custody?
As an alternative, the child should ask for joint physical custody of the parents.
http://www.ehow.com/how_5922243_propose-other-child-custody-arrangements.html
http://waits4u.com/dad/forms/WhenTheKidsGetTheHouse.pdf
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I pay 450/mth in CS. I have a son with my wife & we are on 1 income. My ex is pregnant with twins and wants more $. can we get it lowerd?
If she denies you access, getting her held in contempt of court is grounds for a change of custody. To learn your rights, join Dads House in Yahoo Groups
http://Dads-House.org
CHILD SUPPORT
Modifying Child Support
http://www.ehow.com/how_5951975_prepare-child-support-modification-reduction.html
Departing From Child Support Guidelines...
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Is it hard to reverse child custody orders in minnesota?
For fathers it can be if they properly prepare.
GETTING STARTED
http://www.ehow.com/how_5909856_keep-use-family-law-cases.html
http://www.ehow.com/how_5909867_create-statement-family-court-attorney.html
http://www.ehow.com/how_5912703_it_s-use-family-law-cases.html
ATTORNEYS & YOU
http://www.ehow.com/how_5922881_choose-rights-family-law-attorney.html...
Answer to:
Can hidden home video be used in court to prove domestic violence?
It's very necessary when men a trying to prove the wife was lying, or a perpetrator, as they are in 39% of the cases.
Articles
http://waits4u.com/dad/Men-Dont-Tell.pdf
http://www.ioffer.com/i/Men-Don-t-Tell-1993-DVD-120764273
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LlFAd4YdQks
http://www.mediaradar.org/WCHWMDS_excerpt.php?segment=4
http://www.kctv5.com/video/19928567/index.html...
Answer to:
How long does it take to get an uncontested divorce?
If there's nothing to settle, everything can be done using a Certified Mediator. You register it with the court and get a court date for a judge to review. You both will be placed under oath and asked if you agree to all the provisions in the document. The judge will than sign off, but many states have a waiting period before it's official.
http://icanhaz.com/Mediation4FamilyCourt
Answer to:
What does a divorce attorney do?
Choosing a family law attorney
http://icanhaz.com/Lawyer-Choosing
http://icanhaz.com/Lawyers-Interviewing
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I have an 11 yr old daughter, we live in Ga. She wants to live with me, but her mother won't let her, is ther anything i can do?
Only Texas has a law specifically addressing this.
http://icanhaz.com/Custody-ChildChoosingParent
Her view "could" be a consideration, but don't plan on it. Prepare a custody challenge based on the best interest of the child. Also, consider alternatives like Bird Nest Custody. To learn your rights, join Dads House in Yahoo Groups. There no cost and all materials are free....
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What are the laws on domestic violence in Texas?
If a woman attacks a man, and he defends himself, he gets arrested. There was a good segment on this on COPS.
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How do I petition Florida courts for paternity testing when I live in another state?
Remember that paying child support will not grant you parental rights. That's a separate issue. To learn your rights, join Dads House in Yahoo Groups
http://Dads-House.org
Here's several useful links.
PATERNITY
http://icanhaz.com/A-Fathers-Rights-Movie
http://icanhaz.com/SingleFathers
http://icanhaz.com/PaternityNewClaim
GETTING STARTED
http://icanhaz.com/DailyJournal...
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Why would ex-husband. after 6years of not seeing his child.and me not bothering him at all . Now start to lie to court . saying i am keeping him from his child. when he NEVER have. Why not call to talk too me. Also he is remarried.
Why do women who are getting child support claim to the courts that they are not? Some tihings cannot be explained.
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I am trying t0 relocate to the same state as the non custodial parent? i live in Florida she in Tennessee we want to move to Tennessee . i have mailed her by certified mail 2time they came back to me unclaimed also the sheriff has attempted to serve her.
You will need to file with the court and demonstrate you have made all required efforts to serve her and need a default judgment.
http://dads-house.org/
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Is it true in Florida that if me as a mother have not filed for legal custody even though I am the custodial parent that their dad can file and get custody if he is a felon?
Not if they are looking for him, but if he's served his time, than yes.
Answer to:
In a TPR Hearing can a family member who is not an attorney represent the defendant?
No, they can only aid in it.
Answer to:
How can i start afresh out of my home town with my children when there dad's holding me back.
Holding you back, or doesn't want his children taken away?
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standard tx custody/visitation agreement, there is a term that states wed night visitations can take place during the "regular school term"
I hope you did.
To learn your rights, join Dads House in Yahoo Groups
http://Dads-House.org/
Some useful links
http://icanhaz.com/ChildSupportModifying
http://icanhaz.com/ChildSupport-OutsideGuidelines
http://icanhaz.com/ChildSupportTrustFund
http://icanhaz.com/ChildSupport-Contempt
http://icanhaz.com/ChildSupport-EndsWhen
http://icanhaz.com/ChildSupport-Taxes
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In ca, if me & my son father agreed in mediation and custody was not determined, is it automatically 50-50?
Yes, but why not consider Bird Nest?
http://icanhaz.com/BirdNestCustody
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can father of kids who has residental custody take kids away from mom after he allowed them to with her two yrs when kids dont wish to go
Yes, if no official custody change was done. I see this happen a lot with fathers, usually right after filing to have child support stopped because he has possession of the kids. The mothers want the support, but not the kids.
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x and his mother who supervises visits has ignored court order for me to have visits with my son what options do i have?
These should help.
http://icanhaz.com/VisitationDenial
http://icanhaz.com/VisitationDenialEvidence
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can children be taken away from custodial parent if custodial parent wants to move out of state and non custod parent is fighting it, Or-Ca?
Yes, as often it should be as it makes it much easier than to deny the other parent access to the child, over 60% of the cases according to US Dept. of Health & Human Services study, "Survey of Absent Parents".
http://wiki.answers.com/Q/Long_Distance_Visitation-What_is_a_Standard_Long_Distance_Visitation_Order_as_regards_custody_and_visitation_between_a_separated_parent_and_the_children
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Is it normal for your partners ex-wife to sleep over so that he can spend time with his children?
It's also called Parental Alienation Syndrome. The boy has to learn there's life beyond mommy.
To learn his rights, join Dads House in Yahoo Groups
http://Dads-House.org/
http://icanhaz.com/VisitationDenial
http://icanhaz.com/VisitationDenialEvidence
Mom Loses Custody For Alienating Dad
Ruling a 'wake-up call' for parents who use kids to punish ex-partners
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My partner has 2 kids from a previous marriage we often have the oldest son over for the weekend but the youngest is only 4 & a real Mummy's boy. She says the only way we can have him sleep over is if she sleeps over too! How would you feel about this?
It's also called Parental Alienation Syndrome. The boy has to learn there's life beyond mommy.
To learn his rights, join Dads House in Yahoo Groups
http://Dads-House.org/
http://icanhaz.com/VisitationDenial
http://icanhaz.com/VisitationDenialEvidence
Mom Loses Custody For Alienating Dad
Ruling a 'wake-up call' for parents who use kids to punish ex-partners
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Have you ever angry enough to run-over your ex?
I see an article in this month's Psychology Today endorses this type of revenge on a cheating man.
Answer to:
What do i do if i want to pay child support but the mother of my child refuses to let me?
Force the issue. To learn your rights, join Dads House in Yahoo Groups
http://Dads-House.org/
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kGLp0wYgd6E
http://wiki.answers.com/Q/Single_Fathers-What_are_their_rights_to_the_child
http://wiki.answers.com/Q/Paternity_Case-What_to_do_if_informed_you_have_fathered_an_out-of-wedlock_child
http://icanhaz.com/ChildSupport-EstablishingAmount
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My ex has said I should have supervised access to see my daughter, how does this work and on what grounds can she ask for this?
Depends on her reasons, but this tactic is common among Gatekeeper mothers.
http://tinyurl.com/GateKeeperMoms
To learn your rights, join Dads House in Yahoo Groups
http://Dads-House.org/
Some useful links
http://icanhaz.com/VisitationDenial
http://icanhaz.com/VisitationDenialEvidence
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My exwife wants me to sign over my rights to our kids, I don't want to, but with my family's current financial state, I may. What do I do?
Any situation can be overcome.
To learn your rights, join Dads House in Yahoo Groups
http://Dads-House.org/
Some useful links
http://wiki.answers.com/Q/Child_Support_Modification_or_Reduction
http://icanhaz.com/ChildSupport-Modifying
http://icanhaz.com/ChildSupport-OutsideGuidelines
http://icanhaz.com/ChildSupportTrustFund
http://icanhaz.com/ChildSupport-Contempt
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Answer to:
How do I defend against an order of protection at a hearing in Illinois?
http://icanhaz.com/FalseAllegations-Defending
Answer to:
What jurisdiction does a guardian ad litem have in regards to a child's right to choose which parent they want to live with?
They can be a problem if bias or believes the child is too immature to make the choice. As such, the parent should not rely on it.
http://icanhaz.com/Custody-ChildChoosingParent
http://icanhaz.com/BirdNestCustody
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Can I get custody in Pennsylvania of my 11 year old brother if I believe our mother is neglecting him?
You will need to file a Child In Need of Care Motion with the court noting your evidence, which I hope you have been collecting. These links are related to helping fathers get custody, but they are just as applicable in your case.
GETTING STARTED
http://icanhaz.com/DailyJournal
http://icanhaz.com/ChronologicalStatement
http://icanhaz.com/RecordingConversations
ATTORNEYS & YOU
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Should I spend money on a lawyer, rather than give it to child support?
I'm in KCMO. To learn your rights, join Dads House in Yahoo Groups
http://Dads-House.org/
Some useful links
http://wiki.answers.com/Q/Child_Support_Modification_or_Reduction
http://icanhaz.com/ChildSupport-Modifying
http://icanhaz.com/ChildSupport-OutsideGuidelines
http://icanhaz.com/ChildSupportTrustFund
http://icanhaz.com/ChildSupport-Contempt
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Is there a statute of limitations on child support? Or can a parent sue for back payments after the child is an adult?
http://icanhaz.com/ChildSupportRetroactive
Up to age 23, depending on the state, retroactive up to 18 years worth, or more if the child is disable. Judge David Grey Ross, Commissioner of the Federal Office of Child Support Enforcement opposed this program.
http://dads-house.org/
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Mother doesnt want any child support,even though i am willing to pay. what should i do? what if she changes her mind down the road?
Yes, she can wait up until the child is 18-23, depending on the state, to file for retroactive child support of up to 18 years worth. Fight for your rights. To learn your rights, join Dads House in Yahoo Groups
http://Dads-House.org/
PATERNITY
http://icanhaz.com/A-Fathers-Rights-Movie
http://wiki.answers.com/Q/Single_Fathers-What_are_their_rights_to_the_child
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My son and his wife have a son but his wife had an affair two years later and got pregnant. My son agreed to raise the child as his own but wife has been totally estranged from him since the affair. If he divorces her can he get custody of his son?
He can learn how. First, Join Dads House. There's no cost.
http://dads-house.org/
He can file for temporary custody, pending a full hearing later, while in possession of the child. Here's several links to help.
GETTING STARTED
http://icanhaz.com/DailyJournal
http://icanhaz.com/ChronologicalStatement
http://icanhaz.com/RecordingConversations
ATTORNEYS & YOU
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Can I relocate with child out of Florida if non-custodial parent moved to another state six months ago?
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she doesnt want me to be in my childs life and doesnt want any support. can i get in trouble if she changes her mind down the road?
Yes, she can wait up until the child is 18-23, depending on the state, to file for retroactive child support of up to 18 years worth. Fight for your rights. To learn your rights, join Dads House in Yahoo Groups
http://Dads-House.org/
PATERNITY
http://icanhaz.com/A-Fathers-Rights-Movie
http://wiki.answers.com/Q/Single_Fathers-What_are_their_rights_to_the_child
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What's your Opinion on Deadbeat Parents who dont pay child support?
The term is universally used, regardless of the cause. With 80% of all layoffs being men, most have a problem with this and are not told there's free legal help available to get a reduction, so they think they have to save up for any attorney.
http://wiki.answers.com/Q/Child_Support_Modification_or_Reduction
http://tinyurl.com/DeadbeatDads-AreThey
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If a parent isn't paying child support, should they still be allowed to see that child?
Yes, because of the two, fatherless children cost society far more than those not getting child support. They account for 90% of crime.
http://wiki.answers.com/Q/Fatherless_Children-What_are_the_affects_on_Children_and_our_Society
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=siYERfu5Mvk
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Can a mother continue to collect child support if she remarries, moves in with new husband and has daughter living alone in another apartment?
Why not file for custody based on the child not being supervised?
http://icanhaz.com/Custody-CanFatherWin
http://dads-house.org/
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My b.f. is being put on permanent disability. He also makes child support payments. Do you know how he would be able to continue his payment through disability?
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To learn your rights, join Dads House in Yahoo Groups
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Some useful links
http://wiki.answers.com/Q/Child_Support_Modification_or_Reduction
http://icanhaz.com/ChildSupport-Modifying
http://icanhaz.com/ChildSupport-OutsideGuidelines
http://icanhaz.com/ChildSupportTrustFund
http://icanhaz.com/ChildSupport-Contempt
http://icanhaz.com/ChildSupport-EndsWhen
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Can i temporally stop paying child support legally due to being out of work for surgery on my neck
To learn your rights, join Dads House in Yahoo Groups
http://Dads-House.org/
Some useful linkshttp://icanhaz.com/ChildSupport-NewClaim
http://icanhaz.com/ChildSupport-EstablishingAmount
http://wiki.answers.com/Q/Child_Support_Modification_or_Reduction
http://icanhaz.com/ChildSupport-Modifying
http://icanhaz.com/ChildSupport-OutsideGuidelines
http://icanhaz.com/ChildSupportTrustFund
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Do I still have to pay child support if the mother is no longer raising my 14 yr old daughter. She lives with her grandparents?She also wants more child support from me. I have not been able to get close to my daughter. The mother has always relocated.
Why not file for custody? As for child support, file to have it transferred to the grandparents?
http://dads-house.org/
http://icanhaz.com/Custody-CanFatherWin
http://wiki.answers.com/Q/Child_Support_Modification_or_Reduction
http://icanhaz.com/ChildSupport-OutsideGuidelines
http://icanhaz.com/ChildSupportTrustFund
http://icanhaz.com/ChildSupport-Taxes
http://www.paskids.com/
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My wife doesn't work and her ex is having custody changed since stepson decided he wanted to live with him. Can he have her start paying child support and if so, is my income considered? (2009-12-04)
Not in most states, but she could be ordered based on a presumption of what she should be earning if working in her profession.
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have been married for 2 years, can the wife get alimoney or part of my 401k? and will i have to pay child support, but the child is not mine
If the mother has no other source of child support, a judge can order you to pay for the benefit of the child. I see those cases frequently.
How to choose an attorney
http://www.ehow.com/how_5922881_choose-rights-family-law-attorney.html
Answer to:
How long does it take to become a divorce lawyer?
Family law is not a required course to become an attorney. Most do not, planning to go into a corporate law firm, but when they do, they get struck with all the cases the more experienced attorneys don't like doing, family law. Most laws schools only offer a rudimentary course in it. It's rare to find a family law attorney who planned to be one from the beginning.
Answer to:
How do I defend against an order of protection at a hearing in Illinois?
http://www.ehow.com/how_5927368_prepare-possible-false-allegation-abuse.html
Answer to:
When a child is 12, can the guardian ad litem's opinion overrule the child's decision on which parent they want to live with?
Yes
http://www.ehow.com/how_5922335_determine-enough-choose-custodial-parent.html
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I was recently taken to court for child support. Do I have to file seperately for visitation because they live in a different state?
Yes, you have to do it in LA. Join Dads House to learn your rights.
http://dads-house.org/
Some more useful links
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kGLp0wYgd6E
http://www.ehow.com/how_5917027_rights.html
http://www.ehow.com/how_5922658_determine-good-child-visitation-schedule.html
http://www.ehow.com/how_5922808_determine-living-100-miles-apart.html
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Answer to:
Incest between father and daughter, who was the one who initiated the sex and why? What happened to you that you needed this intimacy with your child?
An actress recently was interviewed on The View who blamed her father for allowing her to mount him while he was passed out drunk. She was drunk also, but since he didn't fight her off, it was his fault according to the ladies.
Answer to:
Why don't men come to there own defense anymore?
Because if the do, it must mean it's true. The same applies to issues like child support and domestic violence. At least 62 out of 100 men pay their child support in full, but only 7 out of 1000 women do. Worse, less than 40% of fathers are allowed to see their children on a regular basis, yet they are told it their fault for fatherless children. A women is battered by a man ever 15...
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My wife and i decided to divorce on friendly terms,she has not been a good mother to our 2 year old son,my mom and dad have him most of the time,will i still have to pay her support if i and my parents have him 98 percent of the time?
Yes, until the order is changed.
http://wiki.answers.com/Q/Child_custody-_can_fathers_win
http://dads-house.org/
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When parents force their kids to have 1 parent, should it be a crime against humanity?
Yes, as fatherless children account for 90% of crime, yet our government refuses to enforce the rights of fathers to see their children.
According to the US Dept. of Health & Human Services study, "Survey of Absent Parents" over 60% of mothers regularly violate the access rights of fathers, cutting off all contact between the children and their fathers within five years. Unlike child...
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How do i get a expartay
Make a falso allegation like most women do.
Answer to:
What is the legal age for a minor to choose a parent to live with in Delaware?
To the above answer, I would add these.
http://wiki.answers.com/Q/Child_Choosing_Custodial_Parent-At_what_age_should_a_child_be_allowed_to_make_this_choice
http://wiki.answers.com/Q/Child_Choosing_Custodial_Parent-What_are_the_alternatives
http://dads-house.org/
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I am $20,000 In child support arrears, is there any way to get that redused?
As for the previous comment.
A 19 year old Texas boy has been ordered to pay $19,000 in retroactive child support on a child he did not know existed. Should he just pay up the arrears? A man is unemployed, like so many in this economy, but like all men paying child support, there's free legal help to get it modified. Should they just pay it up? How about a man whose disable?
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If my child support and devorce orders do not go hand in hand with visitations what do i go by?
I would need to know more about what the difference are to answer this.
http://dads-house.org/
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My wife doesn't work and her ex is having custody changed since stepson decided he wanted to live with him. Can he have her start paying child support and if so, is my income considered? (2009-12-04)
You can't be forced to pay it, but it can be considered in setting the amount.
http://wiki.answers.com/Q/Second_Spouse_or_SO_Income-Can_it_be_used_in_calculating_a_Child_Support_Modification
http://wiki.answers.com/Q/What_does_a_stepparent_or_potential_stepparent_need_to_know_in_relating_to_any_stepchildren_and_to_avoid_problems_later_on
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Can my ex refuse to bring my children back to the state of Illinois for Christmas visitation due to her having a medical excuse? I see this as denying me visitation. Our agreement states that she is responsible for getting them back for visitations.
A little late for this, but I would say it depends on her excuse.
http://wiki.answers.com/Q/Long_Distance_Visitation-What_is_a_Standard_Long_Distance_Visitation_Order_as_regards_custody_and_visitation_between_a_separated_parent_and_the_children
http://tinyurl.com/VisitationDenial2
http://dads-house.org/
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When there is joint custody an I'm the custodial parent. Can I take a job outside the state of Indiana and take my child with me?
No, I teach fathers how to prevent this.
Answer to:
My brother wants a divorce and has 2 children.His wife brings the kids to her boyfriends house. Can he stop her from taking the kids there?
Not likely, but he could fight for custody.
http://wiki.answers.com/Q/Child_custody-_can_fathers_win
http://tinyurl.com/DivorceFirstAidKit
http://dads-house.org/
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Mom full custody 3 kids under 6 wants to move states away. Dad has order of protection supervised visits and pays c.s. Can he do anything?
Restraining orders are easy to get and requires no evidence, so that claim means little to nothing. In November, a New York man, dressed as a woman, got a restraining order issued on himself, even though he used all the same info on both the petitioner and respondent lines. A New Mexico woman got a restraining order against David Letterman for harassing her through the TV while his show was...
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CAN A LIVE IN BOYFRIEND DISIPLINE MY 3 YEAR OLD SON, IF I DONT CONSENT TO IT? I AM DIVORCED AND MY EX'S BF SAID HE WILL IF HE WANTS. CAN HE?
Provided it's not abuse and benefits the child in learning right from wrong, yes. I'm a national fathers rights rep, but let me tell you that all adults are responsible for keeping a child on the right path. The "it's not my problem" attitude is not working. The fact is this that for now, this adult in in your child's life, and I do hope he helps keep the child on the straight and narrow,...
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WHAT CAN BE DONE OR WHO TO CONTACT WHEN I HAVE 100% CUSTODY AND ANOTHER STATE WON'T HONOR THE COART ORDER?
I assume you must be the father. Join Dads House and let's see what we can do.
http://dads-house.org/
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In Oregon, At what age can a minor decide where they would like to live??
http://wiki.answers.com/Q/Child_Choosing_Custodial_Parent-At_what_age_should_a_child_be_allowed_to_make_this_choice
http://wiki.answers.com/Q/Child_Choosing_Custodial_Parent-At_what_age_should_a_child_be_allowed_to_make_this_choice
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In Missouri - Does CURRENT & PAST child support stop if the father signs over his rights?
You can file in Missouri to have the support put on hold, plus the mother allowing it is a Class D Felony under RSMO 565.156 §5. I'm in KCMO.
http://dads-house.org/
http://tinyurl.com/VisitationDenialEvidence
http://tinyurl.com/ChildRefusingVisit2
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Why am I not getting child support???
It's called Welfare, and in this economy, you have a much greater chance of getting a job than a man.
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im 11 years old i live with my dad in illinois and i want to move with my mom how old do i have to be please help
http://wiki.answers.com/Q/Child_Choosing_Custodial_Parent-At_what_age_should_a_child_be_allowed_to_make_this_choice
http://wiki.answers.com/Q/Child_Choosing_Custodial_Parent-At_what_age_should_a_child_be_allowed_to_make_this_choice
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Can you have child support lowered? Even if it is 'back pay'?
She needs to get it adjusted, provided she can show a valid reason for taking a lower paying job.
http://wiki.answers.com/Q/Child_Support_Modification_or_Reduction
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Which is the most violent religion in the world?
Christian
Christians will kill Christians for many reasons. The Germans of WWII were Christian. As were the ones in the 20s who believed a blockade of Germany would cause the population to starve to death, leaving the country open to settlement.
It was Christians who fought Christians in the Civil War over farm resources long before the Proclamation of Emancipation.
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Besides 'not being home', what's one way to deter 'Jehovahs' Witnesses'?
The best way to learn what to do to stop JWs is to contact a synagogue and talk to the Rabbi.
Ask him how the ancient Jews got rid of the Christian Jews when they went from house to house telling their brethren that the beliefs, rituals, and holiday observances that they have followed for hundreds of years was no longer valid?
I’m sure they had ways to get rid of the Jews, who...
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Have you ever donated blood to someone to save his life?
No, as it's no longer needed, and has not been in years. It's mostly big business now. You might donate, but large corporations make hundreds of dollars off each pint.
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Im secretly bi and i don't want to be made fun of.........should i tell or keep it to myself? no one knows but you guys reading this question....not even my parents.
It is a problem as not even the Gay community fully accepts bisexuals, and will not fight for the rights of bisexuals to enter unto pluralistic marriages.
But, at you age, it really should not be an issue, as you should not be sexually active, nor seeking companionship. Despite what teens may think, you're no where near being an adult. Females don't reach adulthood until age 24,...
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How should i tell my mom and the guy i might be pregnate?
"Mom, I think I need to go live in a home for unwed mothers to have my child and than give it to a loving, intact, home"
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What age do you think you should be for beginning to be sexually active?
Age 24 for females.
Age 30 for males.
http://tinyurl.com/ToBeOrNotToBeA-VirginUntilMarr
http://tinyurl.com/RightAgeToMarry-2
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Why is modern society so against the normal human nature to copulate soon after the age of puberty?
Because that's not when you're sexually mature. It's just the beginning of the final developmental stage. Girls don't reach full sexual and emotional maturity until age 24, and males don't reach it until age 30. At age 24, females are fully mature and enter their peak reproductive period, which last four years. This is when the female body is fully ready to carry a...
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Are you a Teenager (17-19) and attracted to people that are 6-7 years older than you? Why do you think you are attracted to them? Is it because of their sexual "experience?"
The American Psychological Association have also found there's a sexual orientation toward being attracted to much order persons, but for girls, six years is normal as they don't reach full sexual maturity until age 24, but males don't reach it until age 30.
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Me and my girl had sex 4 days before her period i pulled out be4 i nut in her but after i nut she pulled me back inside her. how likely is it that shes pregnant and how long do she have to wait to take a test
You do know that 1 in 5 sexually active girls over the age of 12 are trying to get pregnant.
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What is the chance of a girl being pregnant
one in five of sexually active girls over the age of 12 are trying to get pregnant.
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Is it illegal (statutory rape) for an 18 yr old male to have sex with a 17 yr old female by Oregon laws? Would that change when he turns 19 and she remains 17? Does it change anything if they are engaged?
163.315 Incapacity to consent; effect of lack of resistance. (1) A person is considered incapable of consenting to a sexual act if the person is:
(a) Under 18 years of age;
(b) Mentally defective;
(c) Mentally incapacitated; or
(d) Physically helpless.
(2) A lack of verbal or physical resistance does not, by itself, constitute consent but may be considered by the trier of fact...
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Why do you think it is bad to have sex if you are under the age of 16?as long as you were a condom and take all neccesary precautions why is it so bad?what is your oppinion and why is it that way?
http://tinyurl.com/ToBeOrNotToBeA-VirginUntilMarr
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Ok so ive been with a guy for three years and his nine month old is living with him along with the babys mother.....yes i love him....but am i making the right choice by stickin around?
You could jut join them and have a pluralistic relationship. You could make history by suing for the right to marry. But, you might tell him that living there or not, he has no legal rights to the child.
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I don't like the 69 position. My partners are scared, i guess, to give me head 1st so they say "we can do it the same time". I don't like it that way because I cant give them my FULL BEST head when i'm trying to get my nut in. It just doesn't work for me.
You do know that blow jobs do not prevent pregnancy, as a Florida Doctor learned the hard way. Now he pays $1200 a month in child support for getting his pecker sucked.
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How can I make him have ses with me?
You don't
http://tinyurl.com/VirginUntilMarriahe
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I was in love with a boy it was all perfect but .... we broke up :s and he start dating someone else.. then he dumped her but she's pregnated!!what should i do if we still love each other?
You're infatuated with him, but not love.
http://tinyurl.com/Q-What-Is-Love
Give him this
http://tinyurl.com/SingleFatherRight
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My mom found out that my boyfriend and I had sex, and now I'm not allowed to go to his house and we're not allowed privacy. Because of that, it makes him feel like I don't love him or care about him anymore, which I do very much. How can I show him that?
If he believes choosing to honor your mother's limitations means you don't care for him, he's not the person for you. As for LOVE, that's not possible at your age.
http://tinyurl.com/Q-What-Is-Love
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Define happiness,love
I spoke on this with a Rabbi once, and he presented some interesting insights.
First off, for those in their younger years, love is not an emotion as much as it's a desire.
The human brain does not yet have the conceptual ability to understand and truly feel love until well into the 20s. Prior to that time, what you are feeling is the desires, wants, and needs of a youth. It's...
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I believe 13 is too young for sexual related activities. Do you believe this is correct? Why or why not?
http://tinyurl.com/VirginUntilMarriahe
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Do you think a man will try to reconcile with his wife
who has just put a huge lawsuit against her husband
just to get out of the huge lawsuit?
because hes a cheap bastard?
Why would he want to get back together with a greedy bitch?
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I am not legally separated. My husband won't let me take our kids out of state on vacation. How can he stop me?
With an injunction he can as in most of these cases it turns out she has actually moved. Offer a substantial cash bond to prove you will return.
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My daughter is divorced,has custody of her 2year old,if she leaves him with her mother ,to go out of state,till the father signs papers for the child to go ..can the father pick the child up ,if he finds out the mothers out of state.what happens to the ba
Yes, as he should.
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I left my husband and he took my kids out of state the police wont help me because we are still married,I miss my kids how can I get them back?
Welcome to the equal rights movement.
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Can I have the father of my child parental rights taken away?
Not without court approval.
http://tinyurl.com/FatherlessConsequences
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My daughters father who has never seen her filed for child custody because I am making him pay child support.He is married and his wife is making him do this to spite me.I take very good care of my child. Is it possible for him to get custody?
In most of these cases he was denied access, or knowledge of the child, so yes.
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I have a relationship with Jehovah Witness woman, and she got pregnant, now she's back with her husband, and they will try to hide my child from me when Hi's born, what I have to do to have fathers right on the child? and be responsible for him.Pls Help!
I assume this is meant to be a bash Witnesses question, as it has no relevance to the issue.
Regardless of the religion, if the husband is willing to accept the child as his own, I would recommend leaving it alone, as it's still far better for the child to be raised as a part of an intact family. I'm a fathers rights representative and educator, but my first priority will always...
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If i move out prior to filing for a divorce and i have a 14 year old son, am i risking anything? I live in california
Never leave, unless ordered to by a court. Yes, you will find yourself on the outside looking in, for years.
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Do you think Philip Garrido will get any parental rights over the two girls of Jaycee Dugard?
Single fathers in general have no rights to their children, even when living with the mother. It can cost thousands of dollars to purchase those rights from the courts, and even than, the mothers can easily violate the orders with near immunity. Do you really think he would have any chance against that with the millions of fathers living in the glass encased subbasement of parental rights?...
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After a divorce, should both parents have access to their kids providing that there is no record of abuse?
The problem will always be false allegations of abuse. Fathers will be accused in 60% of the cases. Most frequently it's because the mother has a new boyfriend or wants to move away.
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My wife and i decided to divorce on friendly terms,she has not been a good mother to our 2 year old son,my mom and dad have him most of the time,will i still have to pay her support if i and my parents have him 98 percent of the time?
http://tinyurl.com/Custody-Can-A-Father-Win
Go to Dads House in Yahoo Groups. There's a free manual there that will teach you all you need to know, and association with others involved in similar cases.
http://Dads-House.org/
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What parental rights does a convicted registered sex offender have at public schools?
It depends on the level of the conviction
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My child's father is not making child support payments. What can I do to enforce it?
You do what fathers can't do trying to enforce their parental rights, you get free government help their a fully funded government agency that will chase him to the ends of the Earth, and the end of time, to make his pay, even when he doesn't owe anything. At least the vast majority of fathers pay, compared to only 5% of mothers.
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How old does a child have to be to decide which parent they want to live with in the state of Idaho?
Age 18
http://tinyurl.com/A-Childs-Choice
http://tinyurl.com/ChildChoosingWhichParent
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I owe support for my son in california. i have been raising 3 children alone in oklahoma how do i resolve this issue so i can start a small business
Go to Dads House in Yahoo Groups. There's a free manual there that will teach you all you need to know, and association with others involved in similar cases.
http://Dads-House.org/
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My niece's Ex has visitation rights, behind on Suport & often comes late pass his pick-up time. She has been told that she has to change her plans and wait on him if he calls & tells her he will be there in an hour late. I believe this wrong
That's why Bird Nest Custody is better.
http://tinyurl.com/BirdNestCustody2
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How many years to your 50th birthday?
49 years
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Do you think that since over 50% of first-time marriages end in divorce we should reconsider the entire concept of marriage?
Yes, it should be made illegal to live together or be married prior to age 24.
Should We Live Together?
What Young Adults Need to Know about Cohabitation before Marriage
David Popenoe and Barbara Dafoe Whitehead
Rutgers University Study
Cohabiting couples breakup three times more than married couples. Cohabiting couples that later marry have a 46% higher rate of divorce than those who...
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If a COURT doesnt display a governmental compelling interest to seperate a child from a parent, on what grounds legally can it do so?
Fathers have been asking that for decades.
http://dads-house.org/
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How easy is it to prove adultery? I heard you have to prove there was penetration. Is that true? Can adultery be proven by emails between 2 people that never mentioned sex?
Since it's not applicable in a divorce, what does it matter?
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I was in the process of getting divorced, and my wife at the time bought a townhouse without me even knowing. She closed on the townhouse before our actual divorce date. What can I do and what rights do I have?
It was rather dumb other to do. What does your attorney say? Check this site out for help. No membership fees.
http://dads-house.org/
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What are a father's rights to a child when there is no custody in court or anything documented?
Married father-Equal
Single father has no rights
http://tinyurl.com/SingleFatherRight
http://tinyurl.com/DivorceFirstAidKit
http://dads-house.org/
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My ex wife says thet im violating the divorce decree so she sues me once a month it seems! IS THERE ANYTHING I CAN DO TO STOP THIS RETARDATION
File a frivolous motion complaint.
http://dads-house.org/
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In Connecticut, does the supporting parent pay child support when the child goes to college or college support or both?
If there is an unmarried child that’s reached 18, is a full-time high school student and lives with one of the parents, the parents will maintain their respective support if the child needs it, until the child completes the twelfth grade or reaches 19 years of age, whichever comes first. If the child becomes emancipated, the obligation to pay support ends.
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My brother's soon to be ex-wife keeps dragging on their divorce, even though she is pregnant by another man and openly admits it. He has paid her $800 for 3 months maintance and now she's going after him for half of her lawyer fees. What are his options?
Fight it. To learn how:
http://dads-house.org/
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What are grandparents rights in florida?
check these links
http://www.grandparents.com/
http://tinyurl.com/A-GrandParents-Rights
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CAN I GET THE NAME OF GOOD LAWYER WHO CAN GUIDE ME TO TAKE DIVORCE IN NASIK CITY
Find one yourself
http://tinyurl.com/FamilyLawAttorneyChoosing
http://tinyurl.com/FamilyLawAttorneyQuestions
http://tinyurl.com/SuggestAttorneyAgreement
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Who has to pay alimony in the state of fl
With more women working than men, hopefully a lot more women in the coming years.
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My mom and stepbrother are fighting my stepbrother called her a bad word and it hurts to see my mom get called that
Get this for them
http://tinyurl.com/StepFamily-LivingIn
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Who has custody of a child before you go to court?
Single mothers have sole custody in all cases until court ordered otherwise. In a marriage situation, the parents are equal until ordered otherwise.
http://Dads-House.org
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How is alimony payments calculated in clifornia
That's a cases by case basis, but figure 0-50% lower if it's the man asking for alimony, which a growing number are in this economy.
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Do you know anyone that has gotten divorced more then 4 times?
Elisabeth Taylor.
Three times from Richard Burton alone
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Do i have to pay spousal support after me ex remarries?
No, but they should add also when she's cohabiting.
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If I add my husband to my bank account, can his ex-wife or the government have access to that money if he were to not pay his child support?
Women should always keep their assets separate, whether he's on an order or not. At any time, he could get hit with a retroactive child support order on a child he never knew exited, and your assets are forfeit.
http://tinyurl.com/ChildSupportModifications
http://tinyurl.com/ChildSupportDepartingGuideline
http://dads-house.org/
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Have you ever failed to pay child support, if so why?
With an 80% layoff rate of men, and six men for every job, there are a lot of these cases. Tate are beginning to complain about judges jailing fathers who are waiting for a modification hearing, as it's overloading the system.
http://www.ajc.com/opinion/content/opinion/stories/2009/06/21/sacksed_0621.html
http://tinyurl.com/ChildSupportModifications
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Can masterbation somehow stop a girls period? *_*'
Good and bad is interpretive. Excessive masturbation can lead to intimacy problems, but there is a time when it SHOULD be done twice a day.
When my oldest began her first period (22 years ago) she came to me for help. We went to the library and did some research on it. One of the things we found was that masturbating twice a day in a warm shower during menstrual cycle can significantly...
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Can masturbation make your period longer?
Good and bad is interpretive. Excessive masturbation can lead to intimacy problems, but there is a time when it SHOULD be done twice a day.
When my oldest began her first period (22 years ago) she came to me for help. We went to the library and did some research on it. One of the things we found was that masturbating twice a day in a warm shower during menstrual cycle can significantly...
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Can you masturbate while on your period?
Good and bad is interpretive. Excessive masturbation can lead to intimacy problems, but there is a time when it SHOULD be done twice a day.
When my oldest began her first period (22 years ago) she came to me for help. We went to the library and did some research on it. One of the things we found was that masturbating twice a day in a warm shower during menstrual cycle can significantly...
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Children court's gonna terminate my parental rights from my 2years old son who has japanese citizun.what can i do? can i go back to mt country with my son?
No, as that would be kidnapping, and not just parental abduction, as you would no longer be the parent.
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If my divorce papers state that both parents must agree who the child stays with outside of normal arrangments, is my ex in contempt if she refused to notify me that she was going out of town and that my child was left with the grandparents?
She's in violation. It's up to your presentation of evidence to determine contempt.
http://dads-house.org/
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How close do you live from your Ex (s)?
#1 600 miles
#2 30 miles
#3 1800 miles
#2 Comes to taking me shopping on occasion.
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IF HUSBAND MOVES OUT GETS AN APT MAKES LESS MONEY THAN WIFE IS HE STILL RESPOSIBLE TO HELP WITH MORTGAGE PAYMENT NO CHILDREN IN MARRIAGE
Not if his name is not on the mortgage.
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My 8 year old child is currently in temporary custody with the father's mother. We only had the papers noterized and signed by us, no courts or anything else. It's been about 4 mos. Can she legally keep my child?
It is an interpretive point and I'm not sure how the authorities would address it.
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Does a texas peace officer have to make an arrest if he sees injury?
I assume you refer to domestic violence. Watching an episode of COPS, only if it's a man who did it. Also, even in a clearly false allegation case where the neighbors says that she's actually the abuser.
It was film in San Antonio.
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If a man would like to father a child, but does not have a woman in his life, are there any agencies that match a man willing to donate sperm to impregnate a woman and co-parent as well?
Actually, there's a growth industry in surrogate mothers willing to have babies for men. It was in the news. Just Google it.
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Don't you feel sorry for your kids when you divorce? Or is it just you that you feel sorry to?
Parents frequently don't consider this aspect.
Stanford University - Divorce, Nontraditional Families, and Its Consequences For Children
"We know that children of divorced parents have more emotional and behavioral problems and do less well in school than children who live with both their Parent."
http://www.stanford.edu/~rmahony/Divorce.html
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Non custodial parents, would you sign a petition to stop Child Support from lumping your overtime, extra part time income, or a second full time job, above a normal 40 hour week, into your Gross Income?
yes
In 1998, a father who was working 80 hours a week to put his wife through school was ordered to continue working that to pay child support when she left him for a fellow student.
He committed suicide two years later due to not having the time to see his children as a result.
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My husband expects me to be equally responsible for paying child support to his ex-wife; I say that is his responsibility, that he should not have an attitude toward me if I am not wanting to pay towards it with my hard earned money. What do you think?
Since this obligation reduces his available spending cash, isn't that how it works out in the end? This question sounds more like a mother wanting to go after the income of the father's new wife, which I see happen often, especially in California.
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If you were Kate, would you go back to Jon Gosselin? His change of divorce plans would have nothing to do with getting cut out of the reality show, would it?
Why should Jon get back together with an abusive spouse?
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What do you make out of this? My ex-girlfriend made my ex-wife a friend on facebook? In the scheme of things, no big deal, but is that "hitting below the belt" a bit?
Like in the case of the guy whose wife got together with his mistresses and they super glued his member? That was below the belt.
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Can a judge suspend all visitation and order a complete psychological eval before visits resume without physical proof of any wrong doing by the father can he allow an EOP against the father who was the victim in the fight she is using to get the EOP
Happens frequently because of the ease of getting restraining orders as David Letterman learned.
Ease Of Making A False Allegation & Getting A Restraining Order
http://www.people.com/people/article/0,,1143004,00.html
Go to Dads House in Yahoo Groups. There's a free manual there that will teach you all you need to know, and association with others involved in similar cases.
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Can the noncustodial parent take the children out of state for visitation?
Yes, unless specifically restricted by court order.
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If I have joint legal custody of kids can their Mother prevent me from getting their hair done at a salon?
No, but it's never a good idea to cause problems.
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Got temp custody of 2 kids when ex got arrested for felony 2 assault charges dismissed w/o prejudice go to court monday for custody do i stand a chance
If you're the mother, you still get the children. If you are the other, you don't get the children for allowing yourself to be abused.
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In Florida, how long does it take to get a divorce if there are children involved but both spouses agree to all terms? About how much would the cost for one attorney be to file the paperwork?
http://tinyurl.com/MediationUsing
http://tinyurl.com/BirdNestCustody2
http://tinyurl.com/JointPhysicalCustody2
http://tinyurl.com/JointCustodyMaking-A-Case
http://tinyurl.com/CooperativeParenting
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How many fathers have full custody of their children, and how many fathers receive child support from the mother?
Actually, 15%. The problem is attorneys telling them not to try.
http://tinyurl.com/Custody-Can-A-Father-Win
http://dads-house.org/
http://birdnestcustody.org/
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If neither parent have full custody of the kids because they each were ordered by the court "split custody" one week w/ the father and one week w/ the mother please tell me how or why is it right that the father is paying child support weekly?
You can try to change it using a rebuttable presumption.
http://tinyurl.com/ChildSupportModifications
http://tinyurl.com/ChildSupportDepartingGuideline
http://tinyurl.com/ChildSupportTrustFunds
Go to Dads House in Yahoo Groups. There's a free manual there that will teach you all you need to know, and association with others involved in similar cases.
http://Dads-House.org/
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How do I learn how to raise, love, and communicate effectively with someone elses children?
http://tinyurl.com/StepFamily-LivingIn
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I want to adopt my wifes son.. how much does that cost. the father said he would sigh his rights to me
It could be done pro se. check this site.
http://www.aboutthechildren.org/
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I had a child at 15,the father disappeared abroad,to escape responsibility....csa couldnt find him..the child grew up and through an agency she found her dad,now living back in the uk.hes never paid a penny,and csa arnt intrested in him,as it was 23yr ago
Because of the exceptionally large number of women who get pregnant, not tell the man, than 18 years later file for a retroactive order, a limit on when they could be file had to be established.
You make it sound like he was a deadbeat. He wasn't. He was a child who had a child with a child, who should have put that child up for adoption. Males don't reach fill maturity until age...
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Hi my question is about my 10 year old step daughter? A little back round first. I just married my wife about 4 months ago. My Wife is very passive, she only talks to her daughter, does not discipline her. By the way the father spoils and the daughter man
http://tinyurl.com/StepFamily-LivingIn
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I am married. i have been seperated from my husband for more than a year. I have been with my boyfriend for 7 months. I miss my husband and he misses me. both of them give me different things. what do I do??? We have 2 kids.
Start dating you husband. Take a chaperon. No hankypanky, touchy feely, or let's try it again. Date for a year. And, keep your panties on. Try to find what it was you had. In the meantime, consider a bird nest arrangement for the kids.
http://tinyurl.com/BirdNestCustody2
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What Arizona form do I use if my ex will not obey the court order other then chid support and visitation.
What's the issue being addressed?
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Are there any circumstances where bankrupacy can cut down child support arrears. My son was in jail and owes thousands back child support to the point he can't live on what he makes. He is paying support now. He does not know much about the law
No, but depending on the circumstances that caused the arrears, he could file for a reduction.
http://tinyurl.com/RetroactiveArrearsModification
Go to Dads House in Yahoo Groups. There's a free manual there that will teach you all you need to know, and association with others involved in similar cases.
http://Dads-House.org/
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I suspect people who wait till marriage to have sex have a higher success rate... anyone know where I can find stats on that?
Should We Live Together?
What Young Adults Need to Know about Cohabitation before Marriage
David Popenoe and Barbara Dafoe Whitehead
Rutgers University Study
Cohabiting couples breakup three times more than married couples. Cohabiting couples that later marry have a 46% higher rate of divorce than those who did not cohabit prior to marriage.
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If a parent has been sent to prison before your child support case has been heard in the state of new jersey can you still receive money even if he is serving time in PA
Not from him.
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Should parents be held responsible when minors commit acts of violence?
That would depend on th circumstances.
Fortune Magazine - Fatherless Families & Crime
“Ominously, the most reliable predictor of crime is neither poverty nor race but growing up fatherless.”
http://money.cnn.com/magazines/fortune/fortune_archive/1992/08/10/76732/index.htm
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I WILL BE 16 YRS. THE END OF THIS MONTH, i HAVE A 9 1/2 YR. OLD SISTER .MY MOM HAS SOLE PHYSICAL CUSTODY & SHARES JOINT LEGAL CUSTODY,& WE LIVE IN MICHIGAN.WHAT DO I NEED TO DO TO HAVE OUR VISITATION REDUCED W/ OUR DAD,HE IS VERBAL & EMOTIONALLY ABUSIVE
First prove this is not Parental Alienation Syndrome.
http://tinyurl.com/AlienatingDad
http://www.paskids.com/
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Im writing a thesis on family law in Australia. Interested in peoples views on childrens living arrangements after divorce. Who should they live with? should the parents share custody? what type of arrangement is best for the child
Neither. They should live with the children.
http://tinyurl.com/BirdNestCustody2
http://waits4u.com/dad/forms/WhenTheKidsGetTheHouse.pdf
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Im writing a thesis on family law in Australia. Interested in peoples views on childrens living arrangements after divorce. Who should they live with? should the parents share custody? what type of arrangement is best for the child?
Neither. They should live with the children.
http://tinyurl.com/BirdNestCustody2
http://waits4u.com/dad/forms/WhenTheKidsGetTheHouse.pdf
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I lived with a woman for 4 years. She has a boy now 16. The kids father was involved in his life the whole time I lived there. She has taken me to court for child support. The 2nd time in court they ordered me to pay $344 a month. How did this happen?
She's double dipping. I would like to hear more about this at Dads House and let's see what can be done.
http://dads-house.org/
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Marriage just doesn't seem to last anymore.Is it because divorce is easier and socially accepted,now; or are we morally inferior to prior generations?
Yes, and getting married too young. As a society our rate of maturing has slowed as the average life span has gotten longer, so you can't compare it to even 50 years ago.
http://tinyurl.com/RightAgeToMarry-2
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I am 8 months pregnant i need to know if my husband can isgn the birth certificate even if the supposed father of my son does a DNA test would that matter or what? and also he is trying to take my son away how can he prove me a unfit mother?
For him to sign would be paternity fraud. Though not strictly illegal right now, we are working on making it so.
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I live in CT my sons dad lives in FL. How would I go about getting him to sign over legal rights? He wants nothing to do with our son and doesn't want to pay child support so I don't feel he should have any legal rights if he wants nothing to do with him.
It needs to be approved by the courts, which he will need to attend.
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Stat taken in 1991: 90% of fathers with sole custody never recieve any child support... 50% of all child support is paid in full, 25% in partial. so why is "deadbeat dad" the group hated on when women are statisticaly worse?
In 2001, Judge David Grey Ross, Commissioner of the Federal Office of Child Support Enforcement was speaking at the Annual Bethesda (MD) Conference of the Children's Rights Council. He stated at the time that more than 70% of court ordered child support was paid regularly, but more needed to be done about the enforcement of the rights of fathers to see their children.
http://dads-house.org/
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If a mother continues to keep getting back together with a man who has been abuseif mentaly and now phisically, and childrens aid has steped in, what are the chances the bio dad could get soul custody?
That depends on his prep work. To learn how, go to Dads House in Yahoo Groups.
http://dads-house.org/
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23 yr HS teacher carries on relationship w/ 3 F students. Girls come to his house, they play strip poker, get drunk, he has sex w/ two 15yr girls, 14yr girl watched in same room.Can he get unsupervised visitation w/ his baby against mother's wishes?FL law
They don't make this restriction on female teachers who do it.
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Can a wife contact the husband's divorce lawyer and can the husband's divorce lawyer charge the husband for the call that the wife made?
If the wife has declared herself Propria Persona.
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My husband I have been married for almost a year, and between the 2 of us, we have 4 kids. I have mine 24/7 which he knew about, and his are over every weekend. His kids mother is re-married. How can I get him to see that it's too much for me?
I assume you are denying the father of your children access, since you have then 24/7, so you expect her to do the same thing?
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In my current custody order my ex was allowed to move to NC, and she did not let me see him for 2 years and when i filed the contempt papers. I found out she had moved to California without informing myself or the courts. Was she allowed to move?
Once allowed to move the first time, there's little to prevent additional moves. Get for contempt for denial of access, than change of custody as that's consider a change of circumstances. to learn how, go to Dads House in Yahoo Groups.
http://dads-house.org/
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Why is the divorce rate so high in US, even when most couples know each other for a few yrs before getting married?
http://tinyurl.com/RightAgeToMarry-2
http://tinyurl.com/ShouldWeLiveTogether-StanfordU
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My stepdaughter is very disrespectful to me and my kids when they come over. My husband tries to correct her, but she apparently doesn't get the discipline at home. I have to deal with it every weekend. Any advice?
go over this with her
http://tinyurl.com/StepFamily-LivingIn
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http://dads-house.org/
http://www.youtube.com/user/StepfamilyCards
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My step son is refusing to visit his father out of state for visitation. My husband always takes into account his sports school activities. He rearranges visits to accomadate him. But he has decided that going to a party is more important. What can he do?
file a motion to enforce.
http://dads-house.org/
http://tinyurl.com/VisitationDenial2
http://tinyurl.com/VisitationDenialEvidence
http://tinyurl.com/ChildRefusingVisit2
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If your husband or wife still spoke to their ex spouse practically daily would you put up with it? Also, what do you think the continued contact between the former spouses means? Do you think they still love each other or might be seeing each other?
that we're friends
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How can I be cordial with my (soon to be) ex-wife but not risk her EVER trying to come back to me? she abused, cheated and ran away with BF#3... I am certain she will regret within 2 years and want to come back. I wish her well... just not with me!
There's wider issues here. She might get vengeful and attempt a false allegations to try to get the child back.
http://dads-house.org/
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My Child's mother and I have gotten married, but IDHS is saying that I owe back child support. Is this money going to go back to us or is the state keeping it? This is crazy.
If it's owed Welfare, than the state.
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Why would a father set up the biological mother of his son after 27 years. With spiteful actions though out my 2nd marriage before I found out.
For the same reasons mothers do it. They get stupid, or was taught the habit by their divorced or single mothers.
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I have sole legal and physical custody of my son in the state of Maryland. His father has visitation rights. I want to know can he lose his vistitation rights if he is currently attending drug and alcohol rehab?
You want to punish him and your child for the father doing the right thing?
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Can you ever feel the same way about a stepchild as you do your own children?
No possible. It's value would plummet as a result, so no amount would be enough.
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My boyfriend has a child in mississippi and his ex wife got remarried. so does that mean that his child support can be dropped if another man is taking care of his child
No, but it can be raise because he has an S/O.
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My baby's father hates my boyfriend spending time with my daughter, is it true that he can actually legally stop him being around her?
My boyfriend isn't a danger to her or anything,my baby's father just doesn't like him!!
Not without a court order, but there's a 60% rate of mothers alienating children from the father after they get a new S/O or husband. This according to the US Dept. of Health & Human Service study "Survey of Absent Parents". As such, he should be nervous about the contact with the child. You cannot guarantee this won't happen as most mothers say that.
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How do we let our 8 year old know that it is not his choice who he can live with in a child custody case; when his mother is telling him he can. He is so stressed out.
No child, on any age can, in any state, except Texas.
http://tinyurl.com/A-Childs-Choice
http://tinyurl.com/ChildChoosingWhichParent
She's attempting parental alienation, likely tell the child that he must not love her if he does not express that choice. She can have an order placed on her restraining her from this behavior.
http://dads-house.org/
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How do men cope with divorce?
They commit suicide seven times more often than women under the same circumstances, and the severe depression drives them into making poor choices.
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Im 19. I was with my bf for 2 years. Broke up with him a year ago but we still good mates. One drunken night I slept with him and am now pregnant with his baby. I don't really want to be with him just coz of the baby. Wat should I do?
What's best for the child? Watch the video.
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I live in AR. My ex has visitation rights with a record of spousal abuse, and an OOP on him. My soon to be new husband doesn't live in this state. Is there a law or statute or prior court ruling that will limit his visitation rights when I move away?
Unlike mothers, fathers who have abused their wives rarely abuse the children, so violating their rights of access is unneeded. As for a restraining order, those are easy to get, as David Letterman learned, and costly to defend.
http://previews.tinyurl.com/Letterman-False
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Do you believe the law makes it way too hard to divorce in the U.S..do you think it takes too long and cost too much money?
For female filers? No
For male filers? Yes
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Do divorce lawyers make good spouses?
Any attorney trying to make it in the field needs to put in a lot of time in it, regardless of the type of attorney they are. That's the main drawback.
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How do you know your ex-wife has been using your child support for her selfish needs and not on the children?
A common complaint made by fathers paying child support is that all the money they are paying is not being spent of the child. Unfortunately, there are a number of factors they tend to forget, such as housing and related costs. But, in denying a father's claim, the mother is also making a number of false assumptions, like that the father is the only parent obligated to spend a specific...
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Would you still be there for your ex if they needed you?
Mine has twice been there when I ended up in a coma and on life support. Divorced in 1996.
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My ex stopped paying child support about a month ago. Would it be legal for me to withhold visitation, until my ex resumed payments in the state of Virginia?
Of the two, denying a child access is far more damaging to a child, and society in general, than any amount of non-payment of child support.
http://tinyurl.com/FatherlessConsequences
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I been married 7 yrs & my hubby has an xwife with 2 kids 13, 10. He hasn't seen or talked to his because his xwife is vindictive. He is going to see his kids & I'm not allowed, she told him "kids don't want me round". She is also remarried 3yrs. HELP!
For now, let it be and let him rebuild his contact with the children. Go to Dads House to learn how to further deal with her in case she causes further problems.
http://dads-house.org/
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If you are divorced how long it take you to get used to being alone again? how long were you married?
In my 20 years of working with fathers, and divorced men in general, I find they frequently can go through years of depression, often making stupid choices as a result. One of those is a suicide rate 7 times higher than women as a result of a breakup.
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My ex has not paid child support for about a month. Would it be legal to withhold visitation,
until my ex resumes payments, in Virginia?
Of the two, denying a child access is far more damaging to a child, and society in general, than any amount of non-payment of child support.
http://tinyurl.com/FatherlessConsequences
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IM AN IDIOT WHO JUST MARRIED SOMEONE WHO OWES TONS OF BACK CHILD SUPPORT..HES ALSO IN PRISON FOR THE NEXT 2 YEARS...AM I GONNA GET STUCK WITH HIS CHILD SUPPORT??/ IM A WAITRESS WHOS PAYCHECKS ARE LESS THAN 300 EVERY 2 WEEKS PLUS TIPS...
There are numerous reasons for owing back child support. Two weeks ago, a 19 year old Texas boy was ordered to pay $14,000 in retroactive child support to the mother of his 11 year old daughter living in Illinois. At age 8 he was well developed as his sitter figured out. Ten years is the statute of limitations for her to be charged with anything.
Also, men who have been laid off their...
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Can a convicted registered sex offender in Florida receive unsupervised visitation w/ baby against the mother's wishes?
Yes, as there are different levels of the offense. A father in California just got his sentence commuted due to evidence his children were manipulated into making the allegations. The children are the ones who sought his release after ten years in jail, but he still has to register as a sex offender because he was convicted. Should he be denied unsupervised visitation with them?
A Florida...
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My divorce says joint legal custody with my ex wife being the custodial parent. I get him 6 friday to 6 sunday. Every single day she makes an excuse why she cant bring him to school and I have to drive 25 minutes to her house just to drive him 3 blocks.
What's your intent? You could just play nice and record the fact for a later challenge for custody. To learn how go to Dads House in Yahoo Groups.
http://dads-house.org/
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Is it necessary to have uncontested divorce papers notarized?
If the two of you are not together when registering it with the court, than yes.
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I remarried 11 yrs ago and my daughter was 3.Over the years my husband has become more and more nasty towards her, and picks on her constantly or totally ignores her. Counseling hasn't helped. How can i deal w/ this?
Choose better, though my mother said the same thing about my stepfather, but I wrote this about him in 2005.
http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20050619
http://tinyurl.com/StepFamily-LivingIn
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My mom/parents blackmailed me into signing custody of my children over to them what can i do about this?
File a custody challenge
http://tinyurl.com/Custody-Can-A-Father-Win
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My son and his wife have a son but his wife had an affair two years later and got pregnant. My son agreed to raise the child as his own but wife has been totally estranged from him since the affair. If he divorces her can he get custody of his son?
It would be best to be the first to file for custody while in possession of the child. Go to Dads House in Yahoo Groups to learn everything he needs to know.
http://dads-house.org/
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My boyfriend and his ex-wife are still on good terms and have two daughters together. This keeps them in contact with each other daily. I know he loves me and would never cheat on me. How do I get over the fact that she is still part of his life?
http://tinyurl.com/StepFamily-LivingIn
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My husband's ex-wife has custody of the kids and he has vistation, can she move out of state without his permission?
He needs to file an immediate injunction.
http://dads-house.org/
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Why when usually when a family gets divorced the kids usually go to the mom even know that sometimes the father could be the better one to live with
Because attorneys tell them they can't win.
http://tinyurl.com/Custody-Can-A-Father-Win
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I have been married for 8 years, i have not seen or talked with husband for 7 years, i want a divorice, how do i get one.?
Are you sure he's alive?
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What do you when you have simply outgrown your spouse ? The immature actions & responses, the anger when things don't go their way? Just because he provides for our family he thinks that's his meal ticket to treat a situation however he feels like?
If he's under 30, he hasn't reached full maturity yet, while you have.
http://tinyurl.com/RightAgeToMarry-2
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Can you ever feel the same way about a stepchild as you do your own children?
http://tinyurl.com/StepFamily-LivingIn
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Guys how would you grade your babies mama?
When Moms Are Gatekeepers
As many as a quarter of all new moms are actually blocking their husbands' attempts at involved fathering
http://www.time.com/time/nation/article/0,8599,1219962,00.html
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Divorcing husband, prior to him leaving residence we signed a settlement agreement (I drafted) witnessned by a notary which states neither party shall receive spousal support. He now wants support. Claims doc is fraudulent. Can he be awarded support?
Wives do it all the time with prenuptial agreements.
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How does divorce affect kids?
All Children Deserve Two Parents
Georgia Supreme Court Chief Justice Leah Ward Sears has noted, children born to unmarried women and to those in cohabiting relationships “must often overcome increased risks of poverty, education failure, child abuse, delinquency, emotional distress and mental illness.”…….the lack of a father’s guidance in children’s lives...
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Can a mother move a child out of the state of ohio with out a court order and not telling the father about it if not what can I do
he can get an injunction
http://dads-house.org/
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HOW OLD DOES A CHILD HAVE TO BE TO MAKE HIS MIND UP IF HE WANTS TO SEE ONE OF HIS PARENTS IF THE PARENTS ARE DIVORCED
http://tinyurl.com/ChildRefusingVisit2
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My ex boyfriend is taking me to court over access to our 12 month old daughter.What i'm wondering is, AFTER court will things ever be ok again, as before all this started we got along great. Or will the fact that we went to "war" over this still be there?
Offer to mediate
http://tinyurl.com/MediationUsing
http://tinyurl.com/JointPhysicalCustody2
http://tinyurl.com/JointCustodyMaking-A-Case
http://tinyurl.com/CooperativeParenting
http://tinyurl.com/BirdNestCustody2
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When a child's parents can't agree when it comes to access to the child, what happens in family court?
the judge should order Bird Nest Custody
http://tinyurl.com/BirdNestCustody2
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My ex wants higher custody payments but she earns more than I do and is not declaring her rental income. How do I prove that she has another source?
You should know that making more money does not necessarily affect how much you pay, and it depends on her costs. Iy primarily affects the percentage cost of extras, such as insurance. And, child support is rebuttable. In 1993, during the OJ Simpson Trial, LA County Prosecutor Marcia Clark filed for an increase in child support against Gordon Clark. It was awarded due to her additional...
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I am 6 months pregnant and the father wanted me to have an abortion from the begining. Can he get custody?
Should mothers after failed abortions?
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If my x-wife has custody of our daughter for 15 years, then decided to kick her out of her home and tell me to get custody asap and has not seen her for 9 months now without any monetary ass., what r the chances of me being denied custody?
http://tinyurl.com/Custody-Can-A-Father-Win
http://tinyurl.com/CourtWatchers
http://dads-house.org/
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I am the bio-father of 2 children 11 & 12. same mother. I have visitation for one. the other knows me, but was kept secret out of wedlock. Can i still get visitation
Yes
http://tinyurl.com/SingleFatherRight
http://dads-house.org/
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I really don't understand why my step mom dosn't spend time with me i know she has 5 other kids but i wish i could share my fellings with her
Sit down and do this with her and your father.
http://tinyurl.com/StepFamily-LivingIn
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Do you think Philip Garrido will get any parental rights over the two girls of Jaycee Dugard?
If the genders were reversed, than yes.
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I filed divorce papers against my husband for abuse in 2007 made a report police once in Cali) never finish up our divorce cause not enough money,if i decide to move to my original country Canada (my family are) Can i file divorce and
Yes, woman do that all the time after making false allegations of abuse. The country can than yank jurisdiction, than by the time the man disproves the allegations, the country or state has jurisdiction due to residency.
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I got married 2 years ago in CA. A week later, my husband left, and I never heard from or saw him again. He wasn't a US citizen and we never consummated our marriage. Can I get it annulled or do I have to file for divorce?
Are you sure he wasn't killed
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Do I have to put the fathers name on the birth certificate in order to recieve child support?
No, a Michigan woman got retroactive child support against the father who was 12 years old when she got pregnant by him. She didn't apply for child support until after the statute of limitations ran out on statutory rape.
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IS there any way i can help make my baby's father and my boyfriend get along, and also get them to stop treating my daughter like a possession to be fought over?
This is one of the reason not to date someone with children.
http://tinyurl.com/StepFamily-LivingIn
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What is a recipe for divorce?
http://tinyurl.com/ShouldWeLiveTogether-StanfordU
http://tinyurl.com/RightAgeToMarry-2
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My husband was court ordered to pay child support, even though he did not have a job at the time. He since then has not been able to find a job because he is now disabled and therefore, hard on us to pay. Can he go back to court and refile?
http://tinyurl.com/ChildSupportModifications
http://tinyurl.com/ChildSupportDepartingGuideline
http://dads-house.org/
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How do I find hidden marital assets
http://tinyurl.com/HiddenIncomes
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Do you believe that a persons chances of getting a divorce would increase if their parents divorced when they were a child?
Yes, by 400% as it creates a growing number of children growing into adults with behavioral problems.
All Children Deserve Two Parents
Georgia Supreme Court Chief Justice Leah Ward Sears has noted, children born to unmarried women and to those in cohabiting relationships “must often overcome increased risks of poverty, education failure, child abuse, delinquency, emotional distress...
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Can you imagine a world without divorce? Would you think it would be a better world... for the children, for the parents...?
With the exception of physical violence, divorce damages children far more than anything happening in the family and leads for even more problems with each passing generation. At the minimum, there should be mandatory Bird Nest Custody.
http://tinyurl.com/BirdNestCustody2
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What should be done about 19 year old who owes $14,000 in child support to mother of an 11-year-old girl? Whether the father or not, he has to pay once order is in place in 20 states, and had until child was age 2 in the other states. So he's hooked.
He says he's not the father. The mother likely just picked a name and got a default order, as is quite common. If they allow him to get out of the order, they would be opening a major can of worms they are not ready to handle with 30% of men paying child support learning they are not the father. Women's groups have been pouring money into opposing men being allowed to get out of these...
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How can somone get there step mom to stop putting down their mom who is dead?
http://tinyurl.com/StepFamily-LivingIn
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Can I sue for alienation of affections in the state of Wisconsin?
http://tinyurl.com/AlienationOfAffectionLaws
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I owned my house before we got married but the police say he doesn't have to leave unless he actually causes me physical harm. He's verbally abusive and destructive of my property. How can I make him leave?
Get a restraining order using a false allegation as most women do. It's real easy, as David Letterman learned, costing him thousands to defend.
http://previews.tinyurl.com/Letterman-False
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If you have considered this guy your dad your whole life, but he is not your real dad and does not have any legal guardianship over you, Can you move in with him?
Not even if he was your father, as single fathers have no rights to their children until granted them by a court, and even then, not without a court order. He would be charged with harboring a runaway, and possible kidnapping.
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I live at home, i pay my mom rent. I want my boyfriend to sleep over but my mom always says she's going to call the cops on him and get him kicked out and in trouble if he does. Can she actually do that and get away with it? even tho i want him here?
Yes, as it's her property and it would be considered trespassing. Plus, even if you were both underage and sexually active, he and/or both of you can be charged with sex with a minor. A Kansas mother did that to her daughter AND boyfriend.
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My wife cheat me & I want a divorce, but she says no. What should I do? I don't want to pay her alimony.
Whether you have to pay alimony is dependent on your state laws. Here a limited list. Check out Dads House to learn more.
http://dads-house.org/
Alimony
http://www.helpyourselfdivorce.com/alabama-alimony.html
http://www.helpyourselfdivorce.com/alaska-alimony.html
http://www.helpyourselfdivorce.com/arizona-alimony.html
http://www.helpyourselfdivorce.com/arkansas-alimony.html
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How long do you need to be married to recieve alimony in Arizona
http://www.helpyourselfdivorce.com/arizona-alimony.html
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I live in Washington am the custodial Parent of a 15 year old and would like to move to another State. What paperwork do I fillout before I move. The father lives out of the country and no longer follows the parenting plan as far as visitations.
Actually, since he doesn't live there, you can just move, than transfer jurisdiction in six months.
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How does alimony work in the state of California? What is it based upon?
http://californiadivorce.info/legal.alimony.spousalsupportoverview.htm
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Even if you do not sign for the divorce it is legal. I did not sign any papers. Is it legal?
A motion can be file by the other party for a default decision.
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Can a person divorce you with out you signing the papers?I just was sent a decree in the mail is that right I did not sign anything
Did you skip the hearing? If so, yes.
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Can spouse who was unfaithful still get alimony
No Fault Divorces are now the standard, so likely.
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I pay alimony to my x. However not more then a year later she has a child from a "friend" of mine. Is there anyway to fight the alimony due to that?
This would not be dependent on state law, but on case law from pass challenges. Pay a law student or paralegal to do the research for you, before hiring an attorney to charge you $200 an hour to do the same thing. If there is a preponderance of case law in favor of this, than hire an attorney. I would like to know the results of the research to add to my materials for fathers rights.
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How is alimony calculated if you were married 19 years,have 2 kids, and he made 2.5 times my salary monthly?
That's a decision for the judge. If he gets custody, any alimony you get would increase your child support obligation.
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Why is me wife's ex entitled to claim allimony from me for THEIR children. The kids were in her care, but I returned them to him as he is refusing to provide fiancial support. Now the court is entertaining his claim against me.
"The kids were in her care, but I returned them to him as he is refusing to provide financial support. Now the court is entertaining his claim against me."
YOU returned the kids to him because he was refusing to provide child support??? Aside from the fact that YOU have no such power or standing in the court to do that, I question any part of this claim.
Me thinks this was...
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I am divorcing my husband of 9 years in VA. Prior to him leaving the residence he signed a settlement agreement witnessned by a notary which I drafted The agreement clearly states neither party shall receive spousal support. Now (1 1/2 years later) that I
You plan to violate that agreement?
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Does it seem right to you if, after a divorce, the wife gets most of the children. She takes on a new boyfriend while still recieving payments from her ex. The ex gets limited visits with his kids while the new boyfriend gets the wife, the kids and pay.
This happens when fathers don't take the time to learn their rights and fight for them, because some attorney tells them that mothers always get custody.
http://dads-house.org/
Manual
1. Children Of America
http://waits4u.com/dad/ChildrenOfAmerica.pdf
file:///C:/Users/George/Documents/Manual%20Internet%20Files/ChildrenOfAmerica.pdf
Ch01-Writing Legislators
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I want my baby but not her mother. She wants me apart of the pregnancy than she don't. She leaves me texes about getting wasted she is smoking and has even been arrested for being in a fight while Pregnant with my baby I am going nutts. I want my baby.
File for custody now.
http://tinyurl.com/InUteroCustodyChallenge
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Is it wrong for me to want my son father to participate more in my son life?
No, but did he give up because of you early treatment of him?
It starts out when the children are babies and the mother takes the child away from him accusing him, "You're not holding the baby right!"
When he tries to change a diaper, The mother pushes him out of the way, "You not doing it right!"
When he tries feeding the child, "You're just making a...
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I am my husband's third wife and he has four children from previous marriages. One of his daughters, age 20, lives with us and I feel she is the cause of dissension in the marriage. He sees me as the problem. Should I get a divorce after 5 years?
http://tinyurl.com/StepFamily-LivingIn
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Do courts today still favor the mother in divorce cases?
They favor the evidence, but too many attorneys are to lazy or won't admit they have no idea how to represent a father, so they tell the guys that the judge is anti-father.
http://dads-house.org/
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Do men get screwed by the courts in divorce?
Not if they took the time to learn their rights.
http://dads-house.org/
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My ex fiance and I separated about 2 weeks ago, we still talk on the phone about 4 hours a day. She says she needs her space to find who she is and wants me to find who I am. She always tells me to go out and have a good time. Is this bad?
If you were living together, his was likely to happen.
Should We Live Together?
What Young Adults Need to Know about Cohabitation before Marriage
David Popenoe and Barbara Dafoe Whitehead
Rutgers University Study
Cohabiting couples breakup three times more than married couples. Cohabiting couples that later marry have a 46% higher rate of divorce than those who did not cohabit prior to...
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I am 22 and my fiancee is 28. We have been together for almost four years. He is now telling me that he doesn't want me to miss out on my youth and maybe we shouldn't be together at all. Is this a sign that it's over?
This is inevitable.
Should We Live Together?
What Young Adults Need to Know about Cohabitation before Marriage
David Popenoe and Barbara Dafoe Whitehead
Rutgers University Study
Cohabiting couples breakup three times more than married couples. Cohabiting couples that later marry have a 46% higher rate of divorce than those who did not cohabit prior to marriage.
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Is the fact that the supervisor for my child visitation is the my x's mother and she hates me doesn't speak to me and has blocked me a a corner, bumped me and called me a f--Bitch considered a bias person?
Yes, you should have an independent party. If you live in a state where it's legal, record what she says to you with her knowing.
http://tinyurl.com/CanWeTape
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Hello i owe 40k in back child support from when i was in the navy for 2 yr my daughter is 16 her mother moved her out of state i have nev made as much as i did in the navy but was charged high back pay can i get it lowered i dont see my child :(
How the hell did you get that far behind while in the Navy, or is that from since you left? If so, you should have gotten a modification years ago. To get it lowered now:
http://tinyurl.com/ChildSupportModifications
But, that won't affect the arrears.
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If there is no custudy can i take me kids from there mom in kansas and take them to teaxs
Not if you're not married. YOU HAVE NO LEGAL RIGHTS TO THE CHILD IN 49 STATES, AND NEITHER KANSAS OR TEXAS IS THE ONE. You would be arrested for abduction, and not even parental abduction. Watch video. I've been a fathers rights educator for 20 years in Kansas, but moving to Austin when I can afford to.
http://dads-house.org/
http://tinyurl.com/SingleFatherRight
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I live in NY and my wife wants a divorce. I don't. Do I have to sign the papers or can I just remain married to her on paper?
As stated by Happy Dance, they will do it anyway, so you need to learn what you should be doing. You make no mention of children, but if there are any, you would be handing her all your rights. Here's some links to help.
Ch06-Do's & Don'ts of Divorce
http://tinyurl.com/DivorceFirstAidKit
http://tinyurl.com/DivorceCheckList4Dads
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My daughter is dating a man who just got shipped to afganastan.hes been seperated(legally) for 3 yrs. wife will not sign the papers. He pays Child Support. she wouldn't let him see the kids before he left. what recourse? can he sue to MAKE her sign?
Though it concerns me that she's dating a married man, regardless of how long he's been separated, advise him to join Dads House in Yahoo Groups to learn what he can be doing.
http://dads-house.org/
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Me and my step dad have not been getting alone and it is causing me and my mom to fight everyday. and i turn 18 in 5 months so is it lagal in texas to leave home at 17?
yes, any time after age 16 you can rent an apartment, but you must be self supporting.
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Why isn't a law for federal spousal support orders to be followed in every State? How would I go about changing the Law to make that happen? My ex-husband owes me $118,569.69 in the arears. How can I get that?
Because in this day and age, alimony is being phased out, as it should be, as it's unequally applied.
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My husband just called. He said he found a ticket for our daughter to go up to New York to see him and he asked me if I could afford $200.00. The ticket is $400.00. I don't feel I should have to pay any of the cost. Your thoughts?
If you're the one that moved. you should pay all of it.
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Are divorce records in the state of florida public record. if not how can one go about finding out if an individual is divorced?
Yes, unless specifically sealed by court order. When Marcia Clark, the Los Angeles County Prosecutor in the OJ Simpson trial filed for divorce from Gordon Clark, I got a copy of the case before she could get the case sealed.
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Is your divorce a happy divorce? Are you friends with your ex? Is there bitterness and harassment?
Well, the first (1974-1980, 2 kids) I was happy when she finally got nailed for embezzling in 2004, though for $240,000 she still managed to get weekend jail for a month.
Number 2 (1983-1996, no kids) I'm still friends with and still talk to her weekly. When I was on life support and in a coma a year ago, she was at the hospital every day, though she lives 30 miles away. She's...
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I have 3mth. daughter w/ my BF. He has a 4yr. girl w/ his ex. Every holiday there's an issue bcause his ex insists on being around and I refuse 2 be there2. It's just 2 uncomfortable. I hate being in this situation,any advice?
I've worked with single fathers for 20 years, and this is a repetitive problem I've seen a lot, and is one of the problems with having a relationship with a divorced/single parent.
Playing nice is always the best policy. Your children are siblings, and you being uncomfortable with her could make her uncomfortable with the child being around you at all, or worse, in the event of...
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Why is my husbands ex wife not moving on?I have been married for about 2 yrs and he has a 14 yr old son from his former marriage(he stays with us). His ex wife is constantly in touch with my husband-the pretext of course is the son.Either bday / holiday..
I cannot add to Miranda's comments, but I would like to give you this to address any potential future problems with the teenager before they happen.
http://tinyurl.com/StepFamily-LivingIn
http://dads-house.org/
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In a divorce. In 7/07 we had a car accident and the case is about to settle me, soon to be ex and our 4 kids were in the car but since he was the only one working and his was the households sole income are me or the kids entitled to any of his portion?
Any portion applicable to the children should go into a trust fund for them. As to whether his portion would be applicable as community property, as you were not involved, nor had to work to support the family as a result of the accident, so to the judge, such a claim may appear as you being greedy, and he would be right.
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I am a young man planning to get married soon i have a care which i am paying for and a apartment that i am building on family land. if the marriage does not work and we do a divorse what will happen the my care and apartment
Well, your question shows you're too young to get married.
http://tinyurl.com/RightAgeToMarry-2
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Marrige is over we just doing the devoice but what are my rights i now PAY the morrige and the rates .we sleep in sepret rooms have done for 3 years but if i leave the house what rights do i have are daouhter is now 14 . so dont know where i stand i go
Don't leave.
Divorce Rates Drop as Couples Stay Together Due to Tight Finances
http://www.foxbusiness.com/story/markets/industries/divorce-rates-drop-couples-stay-tight-finances/
Stay Married And Save The Planet
http://www.reuters.com/article/oddlyEnoughNews/idUSTRE51N4ST20090224
http://tinyurl.com/BirdNestCustody2
http://dads-house.org/
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NH Supreme Court appeal. I have filed an apppeal on a Superior court's final devorce decree with a parenting plan. child is under a guardianship, and there was no temporary orders in superior court, does the probate court order stay as well?
So, what are you appealing?
http://dads-house.org/
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Should I get a divorce? My wife and I fight all the time. We don't speak for days. We have 3 children, 3 houses and a bunch of stocks. I think I want to get separated, but am worried about losing my shirt in the divorce proceedings. I am in Pennsylvania.
Well, you could, and perhaps you should since that seems to be more important to you than losing your kids, or you kids losing their family. You life might be bad, but a divorce will be far worse of your children, and that's the priority here. Barring physical violence, no amount of arguing has a greater affect on them, than a divorce.
Fix your problems, or deal with them, but...
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I am a sigle father thinking about rejoining the Coast Guard. I got out 9-10-2002 with an honorable discharge. If I were to re-enlist would I have to give up custody of my daughter?
Since you're not deployed in the same manner, it's lesser of a consideration, but you could be assigned to a different state, resulting in the issue being raise about moving the child away from the mother.
http://dads-house.org/
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Does a 12 child that lives in Texas be forced to visit the non-custodial parent if he chooses not to?
No, the law addresses custody only.
http://tinyurl.com/ChildRefusingVisit2
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I live in TX, am unemployed & my soon-to-be ex(11yrs) is employed. I WAS the breadwinner & paid for her school & I'm letting her keep the house (we have a son). her IRA is 3x the amt of my 401k. will i have to pay maintenance if she is worth more than me?
Not alimony, but you may still be required to pay child support. Why are you letting her keep the house? Let the child keep it and get joint physical custody of you.
http://tinyurl.com/BirdNestCustody2
http://dads-house.org/
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Is there a law in Ohio stating that the custodial parent has to return half of the child support to the non-custodial parent if visitation is 4 wks or longer? I thought it had to be 6 wks or longer but had to return half for 4wk visitation.
Neither, as it has to be addressed in the order. In Missouri, after 30 days, you can stop paying. Often what judges do is deduct the amount fir the time period from the yearly total, than average out the payments over the year. You need to read your orders.
To learn more, join Dads House in Yahoo Groups. It's free.
http://dads-house.org/
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Did you ever wonder if your parents felt the same about each other before their divorce as you and your s/o feel about each other now?? Does that scare you? Cause it scares me!
Unfortunately there's a significant difference. They made the decision to get married, whereas having a significant other means you're just shacking up, and your chances of breaking up is much higher.
http://tinyurl.com/ShouldWeLiveTogether-StanfordU
Also, 85% of those who get a divorce, got married too young.
http://tinyurl.com/RightAgeToMarry-2
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Not divorced yet but have a child. Mother of child is threatening to go to another state. Is she allowd to leave state with my son? and when we do get our divorce and she stays in texas. how would the custody work? I heard she could get full custody? (20
If this is her intent, file an Injunction ordering her not to remove the child from the jurisdiction of the court. As for her getting custody, that fully depends on your preparation, Now, you would be the father wanting to move to Florida, that a mother was complaining about in Yahoo Answers? The question is similar, and she's in Texas.
Consider Bird Nest Custody, where the child...
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My boyfriends daughter is causing us to argue he just started get n her once he found out she was his she is okay with my kids n i, one minute n then ungrateful the next he does not correct her, he wants her to move with us n i raise her she has a mom,
First off, I hope he's made all the necessary legal moves to address his rights and responsibilities. Pat her child support without a court order is not legal or safe.
http://tinyurl.com/SingleFatherRight
Go to Dads House to learn more.
http://dads-house.org/
As for your situation, this should help.
http://tinyurl.com/StepFamily-LivingIn
http://www.youtube.com/user/StepfamilyCards
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I only get s.s. disability money,if i divorce do i pay alimony
Not likely as your earning capability is neutral.
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MY CHILDS FATHER COMES TO MY HOUSE EVERY TUESDAY AND WEDNESDAY THAT HE IS OFF TO SEE MY CHILD NOW HE WANTS TO TAKE ME TO COURT FOR VISITION SO HE CAN TAKE MY CHILD AROUND HIS GIRLFRIEND WHICH I HAVE A RESTRAING ORDER AGAINST AND SHE ALSO HAS A
For court ordered visitation? Yes, but the restraining order would still apply, so she could not be there when the child is.
This could be settled through mediation.
http://tinyurl.com/MediationUsing
http://tinyurl.com/VisitationSchedule
http://tinyurl.com/StandardVisitationOrder
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My daughters father comes to my house to see my daughter eveytime he is off now he is takin me to court forvisitation i have a restraning order on his girlfriend for me and my child and she has a acs case does he have a case against me
For court ordered visitation? Yes, but the restraining order would still apply, so she could not be there when the child is.
This could be settled through mediation.
http://tinyurl.com/MediationUsing
http://tinyurl.com/VisitationSchedule
http://tinyurl.com/StandardVisitationOrder
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Dont you think its sad when two former lovers cant put their petty differences aside for the sake of their child, and instead drag each others names through the mud, go to court when its unnecessary and bring the child into the arguments?
Yes, but inevitable as cohabiting has a high failure rate.
http://tinyurl.com/ShouldWeLiveTogether-StanfordU
What's best for the child is Bird Nest Custody, as than the child is not forced to choose.
http://tinyurl.com/BirdNestCustody2
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Why do I have my ex husbands boxer shorts in my laundry basket?
You got drunk and went on a boxer raid.
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If my boyfriend and his childs mom share joint custody of the child, and the mom changes her address, is she required by Missouri law to tell him the new address?
I'm in KCMO.
How is he getting the child? If she's violating his access rights, than yes. If not, than only if designated by court order.
He should consider joining Dads House in Yahoo Groups to learn all his rights.
http://dads-house.org/
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I live in Tennessee and there is no common law. My boyfriend of five years is threatening to throw me out. Is there anything I can do to keep from being thrown out in the street? I have no money and no family.
That's the known benefits of shacking up.
http://tinyurl.com/ShouldWeLiveTogether-StanfordU
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What is up with all these married people having affairs then leaving their s/o to be with the other person? Use to they never left for the other one.. What has gotten into people lately?
Well, the women still do it, but than tell their husbands the child is his, when it isn't.
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My love cannot leave a bad marriage because of his son. He is afraid she will meet someone who will not treat his son well or that his son will really like him. Their life is filled with apathy and mistrust. How can I make him see this is bad for his son?
Well, I hope you don't have any children if you think destroying this child's family is what's best for him. Do you have any idea how many of those in prison were not raised in an intact family? Over 90%.
Stanford University - Divorce, Nontraditional Families, and Its Consequences For Children
"We know that children of divorced parents have more emotional and...
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Divorce when the children are 5 years old is common, what age is best for the children? When they are too young to understand, or old enough to cope?
There is no good age, it still does significant damage. I've worked with divorced and single fathers for 20 years.
Stanford University - Divorce, Nontraditional Families, and Its Consequences For Children
"We know that children of divorced parents have more emotional and behavioral problems and do less well in school than children who live with both their Parent."
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When you divorced, did you realize after it was too late that you had the love of your life and you let it go?
Yes, but it was too late.
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Can you imagine what life would be like if getting a divorce was no longer an option? Once you married you HAD to stay married for life.
To do that, they would need to first make it illegal to live together or marry prior to age 24.
http://tinyurl.com/RightAgeToMarry-2
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If u r arrested in Florida on a warrant for non-support,& the judge gives u a purge to pay to be released,are there any other options if ur unable to pay while in jail & have no one on the outside?
No. Remember the case in the news of the man who served a year for non-payment of child support? And, he wasn't even the father of the child.
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My great grandson is being abused by his mothers boyfriend.dcf in florida is handling the case.We haven't heard anything in over a month.The mother won't return our call's when we try to check on the baby.Is there a legal way we can find out how he is doi
Unfortunately, no. But, have you considered speaking to the child's father about getting custody, assuming the BF is not the father? In only 15% of the cases, does family services even consider placing the child with a separated father. Don't assume that he's uninvolved and not paying child support, as that's a common claim made by single mothers. You can learn who he is...
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Do most unhappy married couples do not get divorced because they cannot afford the legal fees?
Also because they put the best interest of their children first.
Stanford University - Divorce, Nontraditional Families, and Its Consequences For Children
"We know that children of divorced parents have more emotional and behavioral problems and do less well in school than children who live with both their Parent."
http://www.stanford.edu/~rmahony/Divorce.html
Divorce Rates...
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How do I prevent the father of my son from getting full custody? He says he only filed for it to make me mad & never makes any attempts to come see his son but is accusing me to the court of not permitting him time to see him
It depends on the evidence. As 60% of mothers deny the fathers access to the children, this complaint is quite common, but generally, the courts do nothing about it. I teach fathers how to collect evidence.
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Can i get an order through the court system in iowa for starting child support without a lawyer?
There's free government programs to help only women do this.
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Will I have to pay attorney fees? Wife's income is over twice as much as mine and her attorney is asking me (Pro Se) to oay her attorney fees. Does that make sense?
That's a standard motion in every divorce. You show the judge evidence of her income and make an argument against it.
http://Dads-House.org/
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I've always felt that the justice system should punish those who have cheated (with proof) on a married spouse, whether it be in damages or better cuts of the divorce settlement. What do you think of this?
They did, but women's groups fought to have the Alienation of Affection laws abolished. Only a few states still have the laws. I believe Arizona is one.
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Should group marriage be legalalized? If not, why not? ... And if you said yes, should employers be required to provide full spousal benefits to a single employee's 57 husbands and/or wives and all their children?
As Gay marriage becomes the norm, than so should the rights of other sexual orientations, of which there are several. This would require addressing the rights of bisexuals, as well as those attracted to cousins, siblings, and a parent.
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I have no job will be staying with parents after a divorce will they give me my daughter her father wont even spend time with her and he lives in the same household
Won't or gave up?
http://tinyurl.com/MomsAsGatekeepers2
http://tinyurl.com/MomsAsGatekeepers
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Any guys out there paying child support to a child proven nottobe their biological child??curious..
30% of fathers currently paying child support is on children that are not theirs, some of which never had sex with the woman.
http://tinyurl.com/PaternityFraudRampant-Article
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My father got divorced 10 years ago and his ex-wife got the court to make my father pay her lawyer fees and court costs. I am now going through a divorce. How can I get the same result?
Thank goodness, that's been changing. Sorry, my fault for that.
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My daughter thinks when she turns 17 she can do what she can make her own decisions. Is this true.
Here's a couple of things of use in this.
http://tinyurl.com/TeenPrivacyRight
http://waits4u.com/dad/circleoflife.pdf
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When i was in a nursing home, my brother went to the bank to cash a check for me and only brought me part of the money. HE SAID he could not get it all at one time and would bring the rest to me. HE NEVER DID! I am still recovering (ill).
Why isn't the nursing home handling your money? That's whose handling mine, and I just get cash from them.
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I haven't seen my son 3 times in 4 years since he lives in Wisconsin and I live in Arkansas. If I give up my rights, do I still have to pay child support?
Why not fight for him?
http://tinyurl.com/ParentalRightsGivingUp
http://tinyurl.com/VisitationDenial2
http://tinyurl.com/VisitationDenialEvidence
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At what age can a child choose wich parent to live with in the state of florida
Age 18
http://tinyurl.com/A-Childs-Choice
http://tinyurl.com/ChildChoosingWhichParent
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My Grand Daughter has been going through a custody battle with the grandmother on the father's side, he is in jail. Today she won temp custody, why would they give the children to her and not keep them with there mother? The chidren are 1 and 2
Apparently your daughter has issues that concerns the court and the best interest of the children.
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If you marry someone, but have a parental rights and/or restraining order against that person, will getting married automatically cancel those?
Doesn't matter because you would have already violated your own order by having contact, and thus should be arrested. Restraining orders are a two way street.
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Can a 12 yr old in Texas be forced to visit with th non-custodial parent for the weekend?
Yes, as it's generally evidence the child is suffering from parental alienation syndrom.
http://tinyurl.com/ChildRefusingVisit2
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Can a father get custody of his daughter if the mom doesn't work, have a car to transport the baby to and from the hospital, and own place of residence but, he does. what can he do to prove the mom unfit?
You don't. You put together evidence as a whole, and present it to the Judge. Why not go for joint physical or bird nest custody?
http://tinyurl.com/JointCustodyMaking-A-Case
http://tinyurl.com/BirdNestCustody2
http://tinyurl.com/Custody-Can-A-Father-Win
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How can you prove a mom to be un-fit as a parent?
You don't. You put together evidence as a whole, and present it to the Judge. Why not go for joint physical or bird nest custody?
http://tinyurl.com/JointCustodyMaking-A-Case
http://tinyurl.com/BirdNestCustody2
http://tinyurl.com/Custody-Can-A-Father-Win
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How can you prove a mom un fit if she doesn't work, have her own place, and just hangs out with her friends? i'm trying to get custody of my daughter but, everyone said women always get the kid.
You don't. You put together evidence as a whole, and present it to the Judge. Why not go for joint physical or bird nest custody?
http://tinyurl.com/JointCustodyMaking-A-Case
http://tinyurl.com/BirdNestCustody2
http://tinyurl.com/Custody-Can-A-Father-Win
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My husband was awarded temporary custody of my three children because I moved out of the home. I have since moved into a home down the street from my children. I was the primary caretaker prior to moving. How likely is it that I will get custody back?
You abandon your children, so that's not going to look any better than when a father leaves, though most are ordered to by the mother. Why not go for Bird Nest custody?
http://tinyurl.com/BirdNestCustody2
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My husband has temporary custody of my 3 kids. His house is filthy and unhealthy. My kids are unsupervised and are living in an unstable atmosphere. Will DCFS remove them from his home and give me custody if I report this?
If the roles were reversed, I would say no. They would just put the child in foster care and order the father to pay for it, but in your case, there's a good chance simply because you're the mother, even if the allegations were false.
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Would you take an abusive wife back if she promises it won't happen again but refuses to go to counseling, and says it was your fault? (A divorce would leave her basically destitute)
No, because they don't change, even when ordered into counseling. They think of it as woman empowerment.
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What do you think is a good visitation schedule for a baby 8mos. of age? Is it good for baby to spend the night away from the prmary care giver before age 1? Do you have any research I can read about it?
http://tinyurl.com/StandardVisitationOrder
The only limitation is if you are nursing, otherwise it's best for the child.
All Children Deserve Two Parents
Georgia Supreme Court Chief Justice Leah Ward Sears has noted, children born to unmarried women and to those in cohabiting relationships “must often overcome increased risks of poverty, education failure, child abuse,...
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Why does it take an abused woman or man so long to end the relationship or marriage?
For men, especially with children, they have no place to go. Plus, she can than accuse him of abuse. Also, who would believe him?
http://tinyurl.com/MenDontTell
http://www.ioffer.com/i/Men-Don-t-Tell-1993-DVD-99681269
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Can an abusive man really change?
It depends are whether he was really abusive, or responding to abuse, but got arrest for it anyway.
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So, I have divorced parents, and I have to go to court soon. I want something to do with my dad, but my mom hates him with a passion. My mom is gonna hate me when i tell the judge i wanna see my dad. what should I do? Life is gonna be hell with her after.
That's a usual tactic. It used in the 60% of cases where fathers are denied access to their children.
http://tinyurl.com/ParentsBreakingUp
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Has anyone ever been married young, left their ex-wife/husband, to meet somebody else for it to last? How long did/has the second relationship last(ed)?
my mother and stepfather will have been together 50 years in February.
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Why do men hit women?
In 55% of ER admissions of women injured in domestic violence incidents, they attacked him first, so apparent most are responding to an attack.
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What is the legal age of a child to choose which parent he/she want to live with in Texas
With some limitations, age 12. It's the only state with a law.
http://tinyurl.com/A-Childs-Choice
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Can you think of any reason that the abused could be at fault for the abuse?
In studies of intake ER forms of women injured in a domestic violence incident, 55% said they started the physical side of the argument. If they had not started it, there would be far less women injured.
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I'm in Arkansas and my child is with his mother in Wisconsin. I haven't seen him but 3 times in 4 years. I pay child support for him, but if I give up my rights, will I have to still pay child support?
Why not fight for your rights?
http://tinyurl.com/ParentalRightsGivingUp
Join Dads House to learn how.
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/DadsHouse/
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Would you feel guilty for divorcing an abusive mate if they are financially dependent on you? What if it meant going from living in a nice house to renting a room?
That's why most male victims of Domestic Violence won't file for a divorce.
http://tinyurl.com/MenDontTell
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If your school pacement and residential parent of your minor children and the other parent dies while your in a custody case, what happens?
Depends on related factors. She can Will the child to her boyfriend and you would have to fight him for custody.
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My S/O has to go to Texas for a child support review. His ex went to Vegas and left their son with his gma. His mother said his sons clothes were in bad shape and bought him more. He wants to het him more while he is there. Should I be upset?
I would be asking why he isn't filing for custody, but your question makes me wonder if having you as a stepmother may not be beneficial.
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Is there grandparents rights in north carolina
http://www.grandparentsrights.org/
http://tinyurl.com/GrandParentsRights
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If you are in the middle of a custody case and the other parent dies what happens? should I have the case dismissed and file a motion to appoint soul custody to me?
Yes, as the other parent could have Willed the child to someone else.
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What advice would you give to someone getting divorced?
http://tinyurl.com/DivorceFirstAidKit
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I fight with my step father for time with my mother. Am I wrong?
Why don't you, your mom, and stepdad review the following.
http://tinyurl.com/StepFamily-LivingIn
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What would be a good gift to give my future step children on our wedding day? We want them to feel special.
While you're contemplating this, I would like you to read this.
http://tinyurl.com/StepFamily-LivingIn
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Would you stay in a loveless marriage for the sake of the children
Considering the damage done to the children, as a result of a divorce is so great, how you feel carries little importance.
Stanford University - Divorce, Nontraditional Families, and Its Consequences For Children
"We know that children of divorced parents have more emotional and behavioral problems and do less well in school than children who live with both their Parent."
...
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About what percentage of the people you know have had a divorce?
Since I work with divorced and single fathers, about 40%.
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Can an abusive man really change?
Yes, with effort and counseling. Unfortunately, the same is not true for abusive women who take on the attitude that men deserve it.
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My 17 yr old daughter has been living with my Ex husband in the state of NY. He has physical Custody while we share joint custody. She wants to move to our home ( 1 hour away from his), he orginally consented and has now changed his mind? What can She do?
Nothing, it's up to you now.
http://tinyurl.com/A-Childs-Choice
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Is it alright for a christian man that has been divorced to get married again?
It's not appropriate if there was no adultery involved in the divorce. Of course, he can just explain it away figuring that he can commit a willful sin and than ask for forgiveness for it to be okay.
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Why do guys think the grass is going to greener on the other side?
They learned it from their divorced or single mothers, which is the most common source of dysfunctional males. But, looking at the rates of paternity fraud, clearly the women follow the same pattern with nearly 1/3 of paternity tests coming out negative.
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Can my ex girlfriend stop me seen my kids for no reason, can the courts make a visitation order for me
If you have no court orders, you have NO LEGAL RIGHTS TO SEE THEM.
http://tinyurl.com/AFathersRights-TheMovie
http://tinyurl.com/SingleFatherRight
http://tinyurl.com/PaternityOrdrCompletingRequest
http://tinyurl.com/PaternityOrderHowToComplete
If you have court orders, you need to learn what to do.
http://tinyurl.com/VisitationDenial2
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What are the best ways to recover from a verbally abusive relationship?
Stop Whining, Start Living
Dr. Laura Schlessinger
http://search.barnesandnoble.com/Stop-Whining-Start-Living/Dr-Laura-Schlessinger/e/9780060838331/?itm=2
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Is a bus a proper place to ask a woman out?
A couple got married recently on the bus where they met.
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My boyfriend is going for full custody of his son. He works odd hours and needs someone to watch his son (which will be me). Does it look better in a court if I'm just his girlfriend or if I'm his fiance?
By now you already know the answer, but this should help.
http://tinyurl.com/StepFamily-LivingIn
http://www.youtube.com/user/StepfamilyCards
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How can I forgive someone who sexually abused me when all I feel is hatred and rage?
Bad Childhood--Good Life: How to Blossom and Thrive in Spite of an Unhappy Childhood
Dr. Laura Schlessinger
http://search.barnesandnoble.com/Bad-Childhood-Good-Life/Laura-Schlessinger/e/9780641893902/?itm=9
Stop Whining, Start Living
Dr. Laura Schlessinger
http://search.barnesandnoble.com/Stop-Whining-Start-Living/Dr-Laura-Schlessinger/e/9780060838331/?itm=2
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Men and ladies, what is your first reaction when you see a man verbally assulting and belittling his wife, S/O in public?
Here's a video comparison
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In the US a women is physically abused every 7 seconds. 45% of ER visits by women are due to dom. violence. Do those figures bother anyone else?
Yes, because they don't include that every 6 seconds a man is abused by a woman, and that in ER admission interviews, 60% of the women stated THEY started the physical side of the fight.
David Letterman
Ease Of Making A False Allegation & Getting A Restraining Order
http://www.people.com/people/article/0,,1143004,00.html
Men Don’t Tell
A story by the daughter about her...
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Is it illegal for a parent to keep a child from the other parent if the parents have joint custody?
Even with sole custody and visitation rights
http://tinyurl.com/VisitationDenial2
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How do you start over again after a destructive relationship with your parents. Btw I'm 16.
Bad Childhood--Good Life: How to Blossom and Thrive in Spite of an Unhappy Childhood
Dr. Laura Schlessinger
http://search.barnesandnoble.com/Bad-Childhood-Good-Life/Laura-Schlessinger/e/9780641893902/?itm=9
Stop Whining, Start Living
Dr. Laura Schlessinger
http://search.barnesandnoble.com/Stop-Whining-Start-Living/Dr-Laura-Schlessinger/e/9780060838331/?itm=2
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Why should a man have to pay child support if the woman was the one who wanted a divorce? Why should he pay for the %&*#'s child when she could have stuck together with him?
That's a separate issue, and should there be no justifiable cause, than he should go for custody.
http://tinyurl.com/Custody-Can-A-Father-Win
http://tinyurl.com/JointPhysicalCustody2
http://tinyurl.com/BirdNestCustody2
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Is the divorce rate of interracial marriages higher or lower than that of same race marriages?
From 20 experience of dealing with divorced father, I've never had even one case involving a white male that was married to a black female.
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Whats the legal age in california a child can choose to live with what parent?
http://tinyurl.com/A-Childs-Choice
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Have u ever raised ur hand on ur wife/husband/gf/bf? If yes, why?hw did u feel after the act?
read this
http://tinyurl.com/MenDontTell
watch this
http://www.ioffer.com/i/Men-Don-t-Tell-1993-DVD-99681269
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Is it true abusers enjoy to give other people pain? That they deliberately do it just to see you suffer? Or do they abuse becuz they are insecure? What causes them to hurt others?
No so much in men, but in female abusers, I would say yes. That's the pattern I often hear about from female police officers, who perform the majority of arrests on female abusers.
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What is your opinion of Dr. Laura?
I've known Dr. Laura since 1993. When she referred divorced & single fathers to contact George in KCMO, that was me.
People may not like her opinions issues such as shacking up, but from 20 years experience in dealing with the results, I have to agree with her. Here's something I posted related to it just last night.
http://tinyurl.com/paternity-challenge
She has...
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MY WIFE WANTS A DIVORCE BECAUSE WE FIGHT A LOT AND ALSO BECAUSE I LOST MY JOB ABOUT 4 MONTHS AGO AND HAVENT DONE ANYTHING SINCE NOW BECAUSE SHES THREATENING TO DIVORCE ME...SHE SAYS WHY NOW BECAUSE I DONT WHAT TO LOSE HER I AM ONLY 23YR OLD
It's becoming very common in this society. I have a CNA here at the nursing home writing about her experience and how she had to fight to keep from doing the same thing out of frustration. Here's an article I found on it.
http://health.usnews.com/articles/health/living-well-usn/2009/07/22/recession-tip-for-wives-lay-off-your-laid-off-husband.html
If there are kids, let me...
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My friends parents just got a divorce. i want to help her get through it, but i don't know how. what should i say to her? should i give all my attention to her 24-7, or just when we really get into the topic, and when we're alone? tell me everything! plzz
Send her this:
Not knowing the specific reasons for their decision to get a divorce, trying to tell you what to do, would be difficult in the least. However, perhaps you can educate them a little on the damage done to children because of a divorce. Yes, even parents need to be taught lessens, so let’s start with this:
"We know that children of divorced parents have more...
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My ex husband and I divorced 4 years ago. We have recently reconciled. Neither of us cheated while married nor did we ever go out with anyone while divorced. According to the Bible do we have to get remarried or in God's eyes are we still married?
I had to ask my mother, a Jehovah's Witness on this one. In the eyes Jehovah, since you didn't commit immorality, you are still married, but Christ said to obey and honor the laws of man, provided they don't conflict with God's Law. In this regard, they don't, so to honor the laws of man, you should remarry, which can be done through a Justice of the Peace.
I...
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If your parents are divorced, is life harder for you (and your siblings if you have any)?
It will be, but it need not be. Tell them you want Joint Physical Custody of them.
http://tinyurl.com/BirdNestCustody2
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How old do you have to be in Texas to legally move out of your parents house without their permission?
Age 16 if you can demonstrate self sufficiency.
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My license is suspended for being about 2,000 dollars behind in child support.I've been paying everytime I've been working.For the past 8 months I've been unemployed. I have a court date at the end of September. My question is can I get driving privileges
Why did you wait until you were behind to file, or did you file back than and have been punished, anyway?
http://tinyurl.com/ChildSupportModifications
Layoffs, courts put some dads in jail
By Glenn Sacks and Dr. Ned Holstein
http://www.ajc.com/opinion/content/opinion/stories/2009/06/21/sacksed_0621.html
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What was the defining moment that made you overcome your domestic violence shackles and leave him/her? What suddenly made you strong enough to leave?
Seeing the pot of hot coffee heading toward my head.
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How do you get on with your Step-family...?
I didn't get along with my stepfather, but I wrote this in 2005. He's now 81.
http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20050619
You could use this.
http://tinyurl.com/StepFamily-LivingIn
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Im living in an abusive relationship when is it time to stop trying to make it work?
Depends on your intent and goals. A restraining order need not be permanent if the person gets help.
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Can you still be in highschool and be 17 in the state of texas and move out without your parents concent?
Yes, you can rent your own place at age 16, as my oldest did to get away from her mother.
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My brother died and his g/f had his baby.my niece asked me at what age can she decide who she wants to live with?her mom drops her off with people and leaves all the time.But won't sign custody over.What can we do?
It can't be anyone in your family because unless he was awarded parental rights prior to his death, he had no legal rights to the child, which includes his family. The only state that has that law is Arizona.
Sorry
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Does a restraining over rule child custody to the other parent who has 75% of the child?
Yes, that's why false allegations are used so much the keep fathers from getting custody.
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In Oklahoma what is the legal age for a child to decide what parent the want to live with?
http://tinyurl.com/ChildsCustodyChoice2
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My ex girlfriend in Texas filed for a common law divorce. I had already won a Identity theft,and theft of my 401k case against her .So after I won this she filed divorce papers I was never notified of this so she was granted a divorce .I need to contest.
You need to file an immediate appeal on the grounds you were not served.
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My husband of 2years works a very long, hard day and for the most part comes home shouting with a horrible attitude. I usually cater and try to understand his irraticies-almost walking on eggshells. I know I dont' deserve this. How should I handle this?
Managing Your Man’s Stress
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/22425001/vp/29236440#29236440
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Your partner seems to be developing a pattern of verbal abuse toward you. You have already called them on it, but the problem continues to worsen. You really love them.... what do you do?
In my case, I ignored it. Than she threw a pot of hot coffee at my head.
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Has there ever been a case of a woman going to prison for not paying court ordered child support in Missouri?
That would require a case law check as the media doesn't report women arrested for non-payment like they do women. I'm in KCMO and have not heard of a case in 20 years of working with fathers, but I don't monitor every individual county court house. On a related, under RSMO 565.156, it's a Class D felony to deny the court ordered visitation rights of the other parents, but...
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When having first, third, and fifth weekend visitation and the first weekend (friday) is the 31st is that considered the first weekend?
As it would not change the number of weekends you get for the next month, it can go either way.
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Im currently in a custody battle over my son if the noncustodial parent were to get more parenting time-visitation with my son would that change the amount of child support i receive?
That would be dependent on the amount and your state laws. In California, it is connected, but creates a situation where the mother will deny the father access just to get an increase in support. The reverse doesn't happen as less than 15% of custodial fathers get child support, of which 5% ever get any of it, and another 10% are still required to pay child support.
In most states,...
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If you saw a woman hit a man hard several times (in public), what would you do?
Call the cops. Wait to see if they arrest the man, than tell him that he can now sue them for false arrest.
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My babys father is trying to get custody of a child he wanted an abortion done and he went so far as to letting a girl beat me up while watching bc "i was not pregnant anyway". my son has no father on the birth certificate nor his last name. wht can i do?
How can he be fighting for custody from prison for getting you beaten up?
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My Aunt & Uncle adopted their grandson, my Aunt just passed and my Uncle can't control him and is really too old to take care of him, he is 17. His real father is willing to take custody of him. How do you go about handing over custody?
He can't get get custody. it would have to br guardianship.
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I have 2 kids,same mother, one has lived with me and my mom for 3 yrs. He was just taken by his mom form my mom. Can my mom get custody of him with proof he has lived there. I am overseas and would give my right's to my mom til I return. Louisiana Case.
No, because at this point you have no legal rights to the children. You never did. Give your mother you POA to represent your interest and take the following actions on your behalf.
http://tinyurl.com/SingleFatherRight
http://www.g2rdistribution.com/
http://tinyurl.com/AttorneyInterview
http://tinyurl.com/ChronologicalStatement
http://tinyurl.com/BirdNestCustody
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What parental rights does a non custodial parent have? What is the difference between parental rights and custody?
That is fully dependent of the court orders, if any.
http://tinyurl.com/FathersRights-TheMovie
http://www.g2rdistribution.com/
http://tinyurl.com/DadsHouseGroup
http://tinyurl.com/SingleFatherRight
http://tinyurl.com/BirdNestCustody
http://tinyurl.com/JointPhysicalCustody
http://tinyurl.com/VisitationSchedule
http://tinyurl.com/VisitationDenial2
http://tinyurl.com/Custody-Can-A-Father-Win
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Is it ok for a guy to hit a girl when she strikes first and multiple times and is meaning to hurt and you warn her not to?
If he takes any action to defend himself, and/or the children, from the violent mother, that considered domestic violence on his part according to the VAWA.
For a good example of this, watch the movie, MEN DON'T TELL.
http://www.ioffer.com/i/Men-Don-t-Tell-1993-DVD-99681269
http://tinyurl.com/MenDontTell
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When a women complains of being beaten up, would you automatically put the blame on the man?
Over 50% of physical domestic violence is started by the woman, hitting him and daring him to hit her back, according to interviews conducted in ERs. And, beaten up is not the common circumstance. A single punch from a man can injure a woman enough to send her to the hospital. Men shouldn't beat up women, but they also need to be taught to not let themselves pushed by a woman into...
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If a boyfriend spent the last year living with his girlfriend n her daughter,and the last 5years he has helped raise her daughter,can he go to court and try to get some sort of visitation rights to the daughter after the boyfriend and girlfriend breakup?
Ultimately, it's up to the judge. In Pennsylvania, a stepfather won custody. The problem against him is that he wasn't married to her. Even if he was the father, he still would have no parental rights until granted them by a court. Only Arizona grants single fathers rights similar to married fathers.
He may need to do a case law review for your state to see if there's any...
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How do you get over your ex husband. We were married for 26 years & have 3 children. I still love him and I'm lonely for him. I'm 46 so my body surely doesn't look like it did when I married him when I was eighteen. Who will ever want me now?
Have you considered asking him for a date. No hankypanky or touchyfeely. Just date. If you can't keep you panties on, take one of the kids as a chaperon.
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Is it necessary to get married..?
Benefits of Marriage
According to Bridget Maher of the Family Research Council, the current U.S. marriage rate is the lowest it has ever been, men and women are delaying first marriages, the divorce rate has doubled since 1960, and the number of cohabiting couples has increased by more than a factor of 10.
Yet Maher’s research shows that marriage benefits children through...
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What do u do if ur parents r divorced and u miss ur dad and mom?
http://tinyurl.com/BirdNestCustody
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Why do all women now in days treat men like dogs its not right n many women act like we have to do wat they say when they say it, ladys wat did we all do is it because some men r jerks?
Because they can and worse.
Men Don’t Tell
A story by the daughter about her father, a Platte County (MO) Sheriff Deputy
http://Previews.tinyurl.com/MenDontTell
Reaction To Women Abusing Men In Public
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LlFAd4YdQks
‘What do I do if I’m being abused by my wife?’
Dr. Saltz advises a man contemplating whether or not to leave his...
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Is a single incident of domestic violence a good reason to divorce? (My wife hit me last night and I am moving out today)
No and stupid if you have children. If there's a concern, file a restraining order against her for her to move. Right now your ass is grass and you gave her the lawn mower. She can now file against you.
Get into counseling with her.
If there are children, write me.
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The children have moved back in with their father, now the mother would like to have a document (just notarized due to financial reasons from her side) stating this and no child support payments, where can i find such a template?
It would not be legal unless submitted to the family court judge for approval.
Use a certified mediator and than file it yourself.
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Are divorces really that expensive? (If so how so?)
Because the adults don't take the time to learn how to interview attorneys and put together evidence on their own.
http://deltabravo.net/custody/attyquestions.php
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What should I do if a parent to my nephews that I have guardianship of will not return the kids to me. He is a sex offender and never been part of their lives and he is in Arizona and Im in Arkansas.
The first question that pops to mind is why you sent them in this case? Why didn't you ask for supervised visitation? There's a whole lot of untold information in your question. If this claim is true, and on the face of it, you should lose guardianship of the children to another relative or the state.
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I'm a widow who has remarried a man that was divorced. His exwife has repeatedly made comments to me about my "dead husband" i.e., "you should have stayed with your dead husband', "tell your dead husband Happy Father's day". How would you deal?
You could remind her that the lack of ability to express an intellectual thought, or make positive expressions is not just found in the dead. But, she was right about Father's Day. I encourage children to make a list of why they appreciated their father. First, go to the grave and read it to him, than volunteer to do something special for the fathers in nursing home who have outlived...
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The stepmother's role often is ambiguous and under appreciated, and frequently it carries unrealistic expectations. How can I be a caretaker and a key emotional connector in the family if the children don't accept my influence?
Here's what you need.
http://tinyurl.com/StepFamilies
My thoughts on my stepfather
http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20050619
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I have a 3 month old son and I live with my boyfriend.He has a 4 year old daughter.We have developed a great relationship.My boyfriend wants to constantly buy his daughter dresses and stuff but nothing to our son. He gets mad when I say something about it
Now I'm sure you remember what you did to your father as a child. That worn area around your little finger is not from wearing rings as a child.
This is a tough area, as it's also a gender issue between the children.
Off hand, I would recommend a phone call to Dr Laura. Tell I said she was the best authority on this one, but don't mention you're shacking up....
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I owe thousands in back child support. Does the obligation to pay ever lapse?
No, unlike parenting time violations by mothers, there's no statute of limitations on enforcing child support violations by fathers.
Why are you behind in your support? Refusing to pay is dumb, but if you are laid off or off due to injuries, you could have filed for a reduction.
http://tinyurl.com/ChildSupportModification2
If one of these reasons are why you're behind, or...
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What steps do I need to take in trying to change my custodial parent to my mom? I have everything that I need to know and what I need to do. I just don't know how to get started.
Just what do you think you know?
http://tinyurl.com/ChildsCustodyChoice2
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Why do people abuse?
For women, because they know that society thinks it's acceptable to abuse a nan.
Men Don’t Tell
A story by the daughter about her father, a Platte County (MO) Sheriff Deputy
http://www.abs-comptech.com/~aewhale/men_dont.html
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Do you feel police officers are more or less likely to commit Domestic Violence?
ale officers are one of the highest risk groups to be a VICTIM of an abusive wife. The woman lets him know that all it takes is one allegation from her and he loses the right to own or carry a gun, whether the allegation is true or not under the VAWA.
Men Don’t Tell
A story by the daughter about her father, a Platte County (MO) Sheriff Deputy
http://Previews.tinyurl.com/MenDontTell...
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I am a single father with physical custody of my daughter, her mother is threatening to take her back. We have no court orders and we were never married. Can she take her from my home?
GET YOUR ASS DOWN TO THE COURTS MONDAY AND FILE FOR CUSTODY BECAUSE WITHOUT A COURT ORDER, YOU HAVE NO JUDICIAL RIGHT TO THE CHILD, CUSTODY OR VISITATION. SHE CAN TAKE THE CHILD TODAY AND THERE ISN'T CRAP YOU CAN DO ABOUT IT, PLUS SHE CAN BE AWARDED RETROACTIVE CHILD SUPPORT GOING BACK TO THE BIRTH OF THE CHILD.
Is that strong enough an answer?
My god, how many of you idiots...
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Is it more acceptable for a woman to be abusive than a man? Should a man have a higher tolerance for abuse than a woman?
I assume you mean we see abuse of women as a problem but not of men? Well, how often do you see it made a joke of in TV? Men who are abused, which account for 39% of the victims, are considered wimps, but they are far from that. Check these links and the video below.
Men Don’t Tell
A story by the daughter about her father, a Platte County (MO) Sheriff Deputy
...
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Hubby and i got into an argument and i threw a pillow at him. The zipper cut his lip and he went balistic hitting me. He blames me - saying that he was abused after trying to defend myself after.
I have my doubts about the claim, but studies show that 60% of all domestic arguments that lead to violence was started by the woman attacking the man and saying he's a wimp because he won't fight back. Then, when he does, he gets arrested. This is why female officers should always be a corespondent on any DV call. They are more likely to see the truth behind a case than the male...
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Why woman's stay in relationship after being abuse?
For the same reason men, who make up 39% of the victims, do.
http://www.abs-comptech.com/~aewhale/men_dont.html
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I have been in a relationship for 8 years and want it over. The problem is that I have two children. My family is in California and need the support system and that is where I want to go.
You could go, but he could and should file an injunction to return the children. As for being verbally abusive, I've seen far too many cases where that is overly used and interpretive.
If you can't live with him, consider Bird Nest Custody.
http://tinyurl.com/BirdNestCustody
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Can i take out a loan to pay for child support
I can see this being done to pay off arrears that are collecting interest as high as 9%, but not for regular. If you need a modification, file for one.
http://tinyurl.com/ChildRefusingVisit
If you have arrears due to a layoff (not a firing or resignation), or injury, under certain circumstances you can file a modification on arrears, also.
"Our goal in issuing this PIQ is to...
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I thought you had to pay child support until a child was 21 in new york state. i just read someone else's answer that it is until 18 "unless" the child is still going to school. does anyone know for sure. is it 18 or 21?
Below is a link to the laws, but remember that all child support is REBUTTABLE, means that you can make a case for paying a different amount, or not at all.
http://www.child-support-collections.com/child-support-laws.html
http://tinyurl.com/ChildSupportModification2
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Why are so many relationships failing?
Three primary factors. Living together instead of marriage, living together followed by marriage, and getting married under the age of 24.
Rutgers University Study - Should We Live Together?
Cohabiting couples breakup three times more than married couples. Cohabiting couples that later marry have a 46% higher rate of divorce than those who did not cohabit prior to marriage.
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Do you ever notice that time errodes bad times and you find yourself missing an unhealthy relationship ? How do you stay strong?
Yes, my last wife was a violent bipolar. I had to send her away three years ago. Now she is stable and on her medications.
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I was raped at 16, my mom sent me to a mental hospita because she told the police i was going to kill myself, she told the town i had lied so she would get attention she has never said sorry n it still hurts should just move on n forgive her
Sounds like Münchausen syndrome by proxy
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Münchausen_syndrome_by_proxy
There was a Topeka, KS mother who actually arranged for the rape as a result of this mental illness.
It sounds like she is in need of treatment.
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I am the non custodial parent of an 18 yr old. my child support payment were stopped and 1 month later the childs mother died. am i legally responsible for anything else?
Why were the payments stopped? Was the child adopted? If not, they could be restarted, retroactive.
http://tinyurl.com/SingleFatherRight
http://tinyurl.com/Custody-Can-A-Father-Win
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My(19) new bf(20) has an 18 month old son. The mother is unstable and doesn't raise it so it lives with the mom's mom. I'm just worried how the family will feel about a new girl and potential mother figure. How should I meet them for the first time?
I've worked with divorced and single fathers for 20 years, and I can tell you from experience of hundreds of cases, YOU SHOULDN'T.
A relationship with father at both your young ages is a formula for disaster. He doesn't reach full maturity until age 30, and you will not reach it until age 24. He was mentally and emotionally ready to be a father, and you're not ready to...
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Do you need a lawyer to file for divorce in Michigan?
Yes, but don't hire the first one you talk to.
http://deltabravo.net/custody/attyquestions.php
If you two are agreeable, you don't need attorneys.
http://tinyurl.com/Mediation-Choosing
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If my daughters fathers name is not on the birth certificate and she has my last name. WHen i get married can i legally change her last name?
If the father is paying child support he can object and file for the child to have his last name. Properly, the stepparent should adopt the child to avoid future problems. Just remember, not just because you like a person, it does not mean they will make a good stepparent.
http://tinyurl.com/StepFamilies
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I would like to get custody of my daughter. About 8 yrs ago when I got divorced the courts said that I was an unfit mother. She is now 14 and wants to live with me. What would I have to go through to get custody of her?
Consider Joint Physical or Bird Nest Cost
http://tinyurl.com/BirdNestCustody
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At what age can my daughter choose to live with another parent without the other parent's consent?
http://tinyurl.com/ChildsCustodyChoice2
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Paying support for a baby that i learned is not mine in PA. I cant afford atty since all my money is going for support and back child support. where can i get help? I am 20 yrs old
Contact Kevin Sheahen in Pittsburgh, but I would think it could be done Pro Se using forms similar to modifying support.
http://tinyurl.com/NCFC-Pittsburgh
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My daughter dad do not call or visit her but he do pay child support should i leave him or should i go to court to make him visit her?
Send him these:
FATHERLESS FAMILIES
All Children Deserve Two Parents
Georgia Supreme Court Chief Justice Leah Ward Sears has noted, children born to unmarried women and to those in cohabiting relationships “must often overcome increased risks of poverty, education failure, child abuse, delinquency, emotional distress and mental illness.”…….the lack of a...
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Can you include letters of support from people to the Judge when submitting forms for a motion for modification of child custody and child support? Letters stating why they feel it would be in the best interest of the child to not go back into a harmful s
What you speak of is a "Friend of the Court" or Amicus curiae brief.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Amicus_curiae
See also
http://tinyurl.com/Custody-Can-A-Father-Win
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Can you include letters of support from people to to the Judge when filing a motion for modification of child custody and child support that support your position why the child returning to his mother may not be safe and in his best interest?
What you speak of is a "Friend of the Court" or Amicus curiae brief.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Amicus_curiae
See also
http://tinyurl.com/Custody-Can-A-Father-Win
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My daughter is 11 and we live in NC. She has lived with me solely for those 11 years and has visited her dad off and on. She now does not want to see him, but is too scared to tell him that. At 11 can she choose not to visit him?
Children wishing to refuse to see father
http://tinyurl.com/ChildRefusingVisit
All Children Deserve Two Parents
Georgia Supreme Court Chief Justice Leah Ward Sears has noted, children born to unmarried women and to those in cohabiting relationships “must often overcome increased risks of poverty, education failure, child abuse, delinquency, emotional distress and mental...
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Do I have to drop off our son for visitation with his mother to anyone but her? She wants me to leave him with her inlaws and she will not be present. She has everyother weekend visitation but lives far away. Our custdoy order states that if
Unless there's a specific concern about the person, you do not want to be creating difficulties of this type as it could come back to bite you if you were to remarry.
I would recommend mediating a modification to this issue and registering it with the court. Use a certified mediator.
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If custody was never established by the courts and the only order set was one from Dept of child support brought by the state on the behalf of one parent , to provide support to the other, do both parents have the same custody rights?
No.
First, for a married couple, the establishment of child support provides for a presumption of custody by the obligee, usually the mother, as fathers rarely get awarded child support. In the case of an unmarried couple, the mother automatically has sole and exclusive custody of any child. The father has no assumed rights until awarded them by a court.
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If for example a person has an income of $150,000. Pays child support of $980/mth for 1st child. In TX how do I figure out what I would pay for a 2nd child from a different marriage? I also pay insurance.
They would combine the cases than split the payment.
http://www.tferfw.org/html/Home.htm
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My baby daddy works in kuwait at a fire station and is not paying child support for a child in the usa how can I collect from him
Hague Convention on the International Recovery of Child Support
http://www.internationalfamilylawfirm.com/2007/11/hague-convention-on-international.html
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With the growing rates of reported Paternity Fraud involving children born in the last 20 plus years should mandatory paternity testing be done on all new births?
Man jailed for not supporting someone else's child
http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20090716/ap_on_re_us/us_wrongfully_jailed
2006 Article - 7 states with laws
Paternity Fraud Bill Provides Relief for Some Men - Florida
http://previews.tinyurl.com/Florida-Paternity-Challenges
2009 Article - 30 states with laws
Missouri governor signs bill allowing paternity challenges
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What would you think of someone who didn't want their S/O's child around? Child is a bit on bratty side, but mother doesn't have custody and doesn't see child much...
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES
http://previews.tinyurl.com/StepFamilies
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We have had custody of my husbands daughter for about 4 yrs now, her mom served 2 yrs in prision and has been out a yr, and has not seeked any visitation or pd any support, can she regain custody, if the child request thats where she wants to live?
A Child's Choice: What Is The Right Age For A Child To Choose Which Parent To Live With?
http://previews.tinyurl.com/A-Childs-Choice-In-Custody
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My fiance is threatening to take full custody of our child. I do not work at this time, and would like to move out of the state since I do not have any family where I currenlty live. Does he have any chances of winning custody? Can I move?
BIRD NEST CUSTODY
It’s a form of access or custody where the children stay in the former family residence and it is the parents who rotate in and out separately and on a negotiated schedule.
The children simply live at "home" and the separated or divorced parents take turns living with them there, but never at the same time.
The core element of this arrangement is that...
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As the non-custodial parent of a minor child, the custodial parent is violating the court ordered schedule of my parenting time with the minor child, so what results can I expect in Montgomery County, Ohio if I file a motion for Contempt
Visitation Denial
Part of the problem with getting visitation enforced is knowing what to do to prove your case, and how to remind the judge of their responsibilities. Let me start with the judge.
Always take people with you to court who are not there to testify. Make sure they are sitting where the judge can see them, each equipped with a tablet and pen to take notes. It’s best...
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Help!! Can my brothers ex girlfriend leave state with his 1st born child n 2nd unborn child...? without filing for custody first? niether has sole custody. we are in memphis,tn and his girlfriend ran off to san jose,california. his gf is illegal
Single Fathers
As a single man, you have NO ASSUMED RIGHTS to the child. Watch the movie trailer at the link below about a single father. ᵅ
But, some recent material shows there’s a possible option that you could file for custody even before the child is born, in the state where the child was conceived.
Get an order enter forcing a DNA test, unless one has already been done.
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If a wife who holds a degree is abusive and has been convicted of child abused claims she is a victim of years of abuse. what can i do?? i have been abused for 12 yrs from my wife and am being brought up on false charges what can i do about this?
This tactic is very common.
David Letterman
Ease Of Making A False Allegation & Getting A Restraining Order
http://Previews.tinyurl.com/Letterman-False
Men Don’t Tell
A story by the daughter about her father, a Platte County (MO) Sheriff Deputy
http://Previews.tinyurl.com/MenDontTell
Reaction To Women Abusing Men In Public
http://Previews.tinyurl.com/WomenAbusingMen
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Do you know "Abuse is Abuse is Abuse"? Do you know there is NEVER any reason for one person to abuse another? Do you know that there is NEVER anything you can do to force another person to ABUSE you?
Actually, over 50% of domestic violence was initiate by the woman striking the man first. Look it up.
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Local article-hsbnd and wife fighting DFS who wnt to term parental rights for 3 kids based on 4 yr old dghtr claiming sex abuse. Girl is now 6 and has recanted story and said was a lie. 2 older sis's have always said was a lie. I say gv bk to parents.You?
Kids recant abuse claims after dad jailed 20 years
"Spencer’s sentence was commuted....after questions arose about his conviction. Among other problems, prosecutors withheld medical exams that showed no evidence of abuse, even though Krause [mother] claimed the abuse was repeated and violent."
http://previews.tinyurl.com/Adult-Kids-Recant-Abuse
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You hardly ever hear of a female sexual child abuser. What is it with men that they are always the perps? Is it the male sex drive gone wrong?
In 2005, the pedophile conviction of a Missouri woman, who has sex with five 13 year old boys while being HIV+, was overturned on the grounds that women cannot be considered pedophiles. Her record was expunged. She couldn't even be charged with exposing them to HIV, as the law only applies to men.
Very few states will attempt to convict a woman as a pedophile. Usually it's just...
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Do you think it is okay for a six year old to still be sleeping in the parents room? do you think that makes the parents child abusers because they have sex in front of the kid even though the kid is "sleeping"?
Six year old? Do you completely lack any knowledge of history? Do you know how many pioneers, not to mention Native Americans, lived in one room structures? Do you think they stopped their daily work to survive on the plains to have sex while the kids still worked in the fields?
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Why would someone make a false rape allegation?
For money
http://www.kctv5.com/video/19928567
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My child is due in February and the father is threatening to file for joint custody. If this happens I will be filing for full custody. What are my odd of getting that if he has two open drug cases and has history of drug abuse and addiction?
You choose to get pregnant by this guy. Does that make you any better a potential parent?
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I am a father who would like to get custody of my 1 year old daughter. I have found out my exwife smokes mariguana. How could I get custody of my daughter. My exwife isnt working at the moment either.
In case it has not yet been done.
Child Custody
Many think the courts are rigged against dads, but in reality, it is more about attorneys unwilling or lacking the knowledge to truly fight for the father's rights. This is why it is important to learn how to interview and hire the right attorney. It is also important to do as much as possible on your own and not pay the attorney to...
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I am considering moving out of state. im the non-custodial parent. What type of visitation can i get? Will i be able to transport my child out of state for that visitation?(NJ to GA) Legally, what problems/issues will need to be addressed?
Though moving away from your child is a dumb idea, here's what you needed.
Long Distance Visitation
You should know that the highest rates of denial of court ordered visitation takes place when it involves long distance visitation. You should file an Injunction to prevent the move pending a full court hearing. If you want to learn how to do all this go to Dads House in Yahoo Groups....
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I want to know once going through the child support case and being put on childsupport how do the vistation of my child goes ? do i have the right to go get my child anytime i want to visit him?is it a law?
Single Fathers
As a single man, you have NO ASSUMED RIGHTS to the child. Watch the movie trailer at the link below about a single father. ᵅ
But, some recent material shows there’s a possible option that you could file for custody even before the child is born, in the state where the child was conceived.
Get an order enter forcing a DNA test, unless one has already been done.
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What is it called when a mother receives child support through a court order, and it comes from a great-grandparent's funds after he dies as long as the mother cares for the child?
Sounds like a trust fund, but never heard of the need of a court order.
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My husband just found out he has an 11yr old child. he was never told or listed as birth father. does the mother have the right to ask for child support. what do we need to do.
I assume by now you've been hit with the retroactive support. To learn his other rights, go to Dads House in Yahoo Groups. When you join, you’ll receive a link to an educational manual that will teach you what you need to know. Take the time to learn what you can and should do.
http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/DadsHouse/
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZZkuqnQJVLM
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What is your opinion? Do you think grandparents have more rights to care for a child than the father? The father just got visitation time and has the time to care for child while the mother is at work, but the grandparents have been watching child since.
This is why First Right of Refusal needs to be included in any custody order, and why attorneys leave it out. It generates income later on.
If you want to learn how to do all this go to Dads House in Yahoo Groups. When you join, you’ll receive a link to an educational manual that will teach you what you need to know. Take the time to learn what you can and should do.
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What is the thing you have done that you are most proud of? Conversely, what is the thing you most deeply regret?
My 20 years of helping divorced and single fathers learn what their rights are.
That I lacked enough life experience to take control and sustain my first marriage for the benefit of my children. Their lives would have been much better and my youngest may have used her intelligence to benefit society instead of sucking off it like her mother did.
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I am in violation of a support order and I have a doctors note that says I can't work for a month and maybe longer and support collection unit wants to put me on probation for a year'can they do that and violate me if I have a doctors note
Layoffs, courts put some dads in jail
By Glenn Sacks and Dr. Ned Holstein
http://www.ajc.com/opinion/content/opinion/stories/2009/06/21/sacksed_0621.html
Child Support Adjustments
You need to know that the child support guidelines are not set in stone. They are just guidelines. You can make a case for not paying so much.
1988 Public Law Record
SEC. 103. STATE GUIDELINES FOR CHILD...
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If a noncustodial parent doesn't pay child support they usually get their license suspended. How can the custodial parent find that out?
There's a minimum they need to be behind, or be held in contempt. Too bad they won't do the same thing to parents violating visitation orders.
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If you dont even know that you have a child and get papers in the mail for child paternity from a girl you were with 16 years ago and you find out the child is yours how far can they go back for child support in new york
You need to know that the child support guidelines are not set in stone. They are just guidelines. You can make a case for not paying so much.
1988 Public Law Record
SEC. 103. STATE GUIDELINES FOR CHILD SUPPORT AWARD AMOUNTS.
(A)(a) GUIDELINES TO CREATE REBUTTABLE PRESUMPTION.-Section 467(b)
of the Social Security Act is amended-
(1) by inserting (1) after (b):
(2) by striking,...
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If the father of my child has a court order to pay child support, but he is currently unemployed. If he is married to another woman, and she is working.Can she be ordered to pay child support?
No, but his support needs to be adjusted to match what he getting in unemployment. You could offer too put together a motion to modify so that he stays current and you continue receiving support.
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What do you think should be done with parents that are considerd a dead beat and why?
The term has been adopted by the media to refer to fathers who are owing child support arrears, without any regard for why there are arrears. A San Diego Navy Commander is $80,000 in child support arrears. How did he get that far behind? Because he wasn't informed that he had a daughter for 15 years. At this point he was ordered to pay retroactive child support. It was based on his current...
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What is considered a dead beat parent to you,and What do you think should be none with them?
The term has been adopted by the media to refer to fathers who are owing child support arrears, without any regard for why there are arrears. A San Diego Navy Commander is $80,000 in child support arrears. How did he get that far behind? Because he wasn't informed that he had a daughter for 15 years. At this point he was ordered to pay retroactive child support. It was based on his...
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How can I live in peace when my ex-boyfriend and his disrespectful family keep harrassing me. He does not pay child support and expects me to let my nine yr old go with his 20yr old neice, his family hasn't had any contact with my daughter in 2yrs.
As said above, child support and visitation are separate issues, but you don't mention if you even have an order in place. But, all single fathers need to know they have no legals rights to their children without a court order. Only Arizona has that law.
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If a parent gives up parental rights to there child can they still legally demand access if they pose no risk to the child?
Ask, yes.
Demand, No.
You forfeited that.
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I will be getting a step son in a year when i get married and i need to know how i am supposed to deal with the mom!! she is a real big bitch and we have been fighting for visitation since i was preg with my son, how do i handle the other female?
This is a little late, but still useful.
http://previews.tinyurl.com/StepFamilies
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In the state of texas if you are going threw a divorce, and you have cildren, if one spouse can prove that the other spouse was unfaithful during the marriage would custody of the children be awarded to the faithful spouse?
Not in and of itself, but Texas is the only state in the country where Custody can be decided by a jury. The evidence would be more effective in a jury trial.
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My hubby's ex-wife was to take step-son back on Sunday-2 days ago-and we have yet to hear from her. Her phone is disconnected. We don't have her new address, as she's just moved. Where can I file a complaint in TX? CPS? Attny Gen? Isn't this abandonment?
Contact TFER
http://www.tferfw.org/
Make a police report so that you can't be accused of parental abduction. If this goes on for a couple of weeks, file an emergency change of custody order.
I am a little concerned that she may have moved out of state while you had the child, so that the child didn't know what was happening. You might file for a temporary custody now until...
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Me and my husband are seperated and he wants to get the kids this weekend. We don't have any court orders yet and i want to know if there is any way that I can make sure that i get my kids back at the end of the weekend. Is there any way i c
Deny him the kids and that can be used as evidence that in the future you will be causing him problems with access to the children, as I teach fathers about. You have no greater right than him to them.
How about you leaving for the week?
BIRD NEST CUSTODY
It’s a form of access or custody where the children stay in the former family residence and it is the parents who rotate in...
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My newborn daughter lives with her mother, now is refusing me visitation is this legal, can I go get my daughter and keep her for a few days legally
Single Fathers
As a single man, you have NO ASSUMED RIGHTS to the child. Watch the movie trailer at the link below about a single father. ᵅ
But, some recent material shows there’s a possible option that you could file for custody even before the child is born, in the state where the child was conceived.
Get an order enter forcing a DNA test, unless one has already been done.
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My husband was contacted by his 14 almost 15 year old daughter and she wants to come live with us. She is unhappy with mom - she mom drinks a lot, is gone a lot, and when she is home, she yells at the daughter. Will the courts consider all of this in SD?
A Child's Choice: What Is The Right Age For A Child To Choose Which Parent To Live With?
http://previews.tinyurl.com/A-Childs-Choice-In-Custody
Child Custody Challenge
http://previews.tinyurl.com/Custody-Can-A-Father-Win
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Is there a new law in florida that states that they will no longer put the non custodial parent in jail for non payment of child support?
The problem that is arising in every state is the choice of whether to release criminals in order to jail fathers, though never mothers.
This is an economic choice due to dwindling taxes.
So, which should be in jail, the father owing child support because he's been laid off his job, or a mugger?
Layoffs, courts put some dads in jail
By Glenn Sacks and Dr. Ned Holstein
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My ex has FINALLY been served by the Attorney Generals Office (he's been dodging) for child support. We have a court date next month but Im sure he is not going to show up. Since he's been "served", does that mean he'll go to jail if he does not show?
No, the judge will likely enter a default order. I've seen frequent cases of that done to active duty military men, because they can't return to fight the order. Most often they are not the child's father, but they are stuck paying child support.
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Electric bill, Rent or Food? If you could only pay for one, witch would it be?
Rent
You can grow your own food, or go to a pantry, and you can do without electricity for a while.
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What do you feel your main purpose in life is?
To be the very best member of the PITA Club
Pain In The Ass
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Is is right to have a Dad and 3 sisters and they never call or help out in anyway and I only make $22,000.00 a year. They dont even try to bring over a jug of milk and the oldest is 8 years older than me. Is this right?
Well, we stopped calling my daughter because she was always needing money for something, yet she has the latest toys, like a cell phone with all the bells and whistles. He phone bill is $180 a month, but she has trouble paying the electric bill.
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Rights of step child under US law?
What rights do you wish stipulated?
http://previews.tinyurl.com/StepFamilies
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My daughter will be 18 i six months, and she went to visit her half sister for the summer and when I called to ask her when will she back this month she told me she wasn't so I was wondering could I get in any trouble with the law if I went and got her?
I would have to agree with Shemarq.
I know you're in Missouri. I'm current in Kansas City until I move to Texas. You could force the issue, but you may end up with the state taking custody of her.
This will create a difficulty as regards child support in routing it the the supervising adult. After she turns 18, and if she goes to college, than the child support will go...
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Are Amber Alerts being abused when used for tracking down parents who take back their own kids from the State?
Yes, I've seen several of them. A Platte County Judge refuses to honor father custody awards from Texas because they use juries there on custody cases. They father, fed up with trying to register the award, went, picked up his child, and took him back to Texas. An Amber Alert was issued, along with a federal arrest warrant. The father dropped off the child, than returned and turned...
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Why don't women have to register for the draft?
Likely because they know most lack the courage to serve and may get pregnant on purpose to avoid it.
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I had lunch everyday with a friend who is a Jehovah's Witnesses at work. Recently she has just stopped going to lunch with me with no explaination. I read that JW's don't tend to mix with non-JW's. Could this be why - she has realised I won't convert?
Was she trying to revert you? Jews, or other non-Christian religions, convert to Christianity. Witnesses are trying to take people who claim to already be Christians back to the original teachings before they got distorted. That called reverting.
Did you think of just asking her why she stopped? I'm sure you've had other people do things regularly with you, than stopped. Why...
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What do Jehovah's Witnesses belive that is different from other Christian religions?
Consider checking the PBS Independent Lens program "Knocking". It was produced by the gay son of a Jehovah’s Witness. There’s some YouTube clips below. http://knocking.org/
The Bible aside:
They believe in obeying the laws, even the inconvenient ones, like not speeding when late for work.
They pay their taxes, even though there are many ways to avoid them, as...
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Jehovah Witnesses: How do you feel when other Christians claim you are not Christians?
I would imagine they feel the same way as the first Christian Jews did when told by their brethren that they that they were no longer the blessed among God's people as they were no longer following traditional beliefs.
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'What makes you think there is only one religion that is right?
Well, that's what the first Christians taught, after Israel lost the blessing of God. Were they wrong?
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Is there one, single piece of testable evidence that clearly points to a creator god?
The Human Brain
Science knows that the human brain has the capacity for storing memories that will take at least 10,000 years to fill. What evolutionary pressure could result in the capability, or need, to have that much storage capacity to far exceeds the ability of the human body? Did human once live that long, but no longer? Why doesn't our supposed closest relative, in the theory...
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My bf's daughter had a baby at 15, the paternal grandma filed a nonparental custody. I want to counter file, what are my chances? I live in Washington
It's not likely you would have standing in the court as you are unrelated to the child's mother. You're not even married to the grandfather.
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In 1992 I got a drug charge. Will this get in the way of filing for nonparental custody of a minor child? I live in Washington.
Not is you can demonstrate you've remain clean and legal ever since than. I assume you're a stepparent. What are the grounds and reasons for you wanting custody? Also, what about the biological parent?
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Do boyfriend/girlfriend or new spouses of non custodial parents have visitation rights? and if the parents have to be evaluated by Childrens Services to determine if they are allowed to see the child(ren) shouldn't the stepparent or bf/gf of nc parent?
Perhaps, but so should a potential new mate of the custodial parent. Would you approve of that?
A Stepparent needs to develop a relationship with the child, but first they need to understand what they are getting into. For this reason I had this created.
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PREMARITAL EXPECTATIONS
http://previews.tinyurl.com/StepFamilies
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In the state of Oregon, how old does a child have to be in order to choose what parent they want to live with?
A Child's Choice: What Is The Right Age For A Child To Choose Which Parent To Live With?
http://previews.tinyurl.com/A-Childs-Choice-In-Custody
As an alternative, why not ask for Joint Physical Custody of your parents?
Tell them that you want to remain in a home, and each of them there for three weeks, than switch. Once night a week, the parent not in residence takes you out to...
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My mentally handicapped daughter is pregnant due to a rape. As grandparents are we allowed to assume guardianship for the baby? We have legal guardianship of her.
Not automatically. You will need to apply for guardianship of the child. I assume you have a POE on your daughter?
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My husband is on my daughters birth certificate even though he is not her biological father. can we get in trouble for falsifying a document even though paternity was not established at the time? we live in VA.
It's called Paternity Fraud, and even though you may not be prosecuted for it now, that time may come, and it is my hope that it does. Here's a example why?
In the 90s, the husband of a 42 year old mother of their 14 year old daughter is divorcing her due to her infidelity. He files for custody, for which he has a good chance. She counters that he is not really the father of the...
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There has been a lot of talk about socialism lately. What do you feel about the direction the U.S. is going? Do you feel that more regulation and government control is the answer? Or do we need a to take a fundamental capitalistic approach?
Socialism, which is not the same as Communism, work very effectively for the Netherlands, but is highly opposed by upper income individuals.
For Socialism to truly work, elections should be discontinued and replaced by a lottery system, with mandatory education through age 22. Especially in civics.
In a Lottery, every citizen would be required to serve if chosen. They would do so for a...
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What's the weirdest pregnancy craving you have heard of?
For Little House On The Prairie fans, they will remember the cravings of Nelly Oleson (Alison Arngrim) during her pregnancy on the show. At the time, the show was featuring a diner that was owned by the Olesons. The diner doubled as a cafeteria for the cast and crew, so many of the kitchen stocks were real, like the vat of maple syrup.
During one such episode, the Nellie character dipped...
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I'm currently engaged to the man of my dreams... everytime we go out somewhere woman always stare and smile and gawk at him like I'm not even there. He always flashes the ring on his left hand but they still flirt right in front of me. Why?
Looking at the birth rate numbers for male children over the last 30 years, the availability of healthy, breathing males is decreasing daily. Especially in the middle and upper income levels. You are in competition for the best males, and many females will do anything to crush you.
It's becoming a war out there and the males are the reward for the winners.
With the increasing death...
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What's the best way to get a good wife? mail order?
Stay out of the bed of any female until you're fully mature.
See my answer to this question to understand:
http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7060852
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At what age did you think you were no longer a child and could live on your own? Where you right?
At age 18, but I was wrong. Currently I'm past the half century mark and in the last 20 years I've been studying behavioral development, as well as reading adult developmental studies.
THE FEMALE SPECIES
Females don't reach full emotional, hormonal, and physical development until age 24. Their whole view of the world, and those around them, changes at this point.
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If my wife leaves the state with my children, will I still be hit with the same levels of child support and/or alimony as I would if we remained in TX and divorced? She does not have a job in the other state, just family, so no real reason to leave TX
Why are you allowing her to remove the children from the state? You could file an injunction to have them removed. If you file a voluntary child support order now, than Texas will retain jurisdiction. If custody order are file there, before she's been out of the state for six months, than they will will also have jurisdiction on it.
What are your goals in this matter? Don't you...
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Complete this sentence: Life is like _______.
Being committed to a prison without committing the crime.
Live in a nursing home.
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While the rest of the world is advancing, what are creationists doing?
Advancing in what way? Longer lifespans? Higher IQs? Perhaps returning back to what humans were like at the time of the creation when lifespans were hundreds of years and humans used 100% of their mental capacities.
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Can I compel my wife to leave our home? We're about to be divorced (finalizing August 4th). She has no job and no means to support herself. Right now she's a stay at home mom for our two minor children. What can I do?
I am wondering why you wish to separate the mother from the children, and what arrangements you have made for their care?
Why not consider giving the child joint custody of you?
The children need to remain in the home and each parent can live there for three weeks, than switch. Once a week the parent not in residence takes the children out to dinner. While in the home, the parent does...
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When do you stop paying for child support?
Child Support Laws - At What Age Does Child Support Stop?
http://www.child-support-collections.com/child-support-laws.html
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Fiance's ex has full custody with an open agreement that he can have his son whenever he would like. We were going to take him back Wednesday, and she was ok with that. At 2 am the cops came, she was outside, never tried calling,can we take her to court
Well, you shouldn't have turned to child over unless she had papers saying that he was in violation. Far too often the cops take the word of the mother without asking to see the orders. You might be able to file a complaint with the prosecutor's office that she made a false report to the police. The custody order mat need to be clarified. As for proving denial.
Visitation...
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My husband has a special needs daughter of 24. He's required to pay child support indefinitely, however, he was not awarded visitation as his daughter is an adult. His ex refuses him any contact with her. He has not seen her in 3 years. What could he do?
I've never addressed this issue, so I've referred it to a fathers rights attorney. I'll post her answer when I get it.
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I am 25. My father recently got a divorce. 3 motnhs after the divorce, he was arrested for possesion of illegal substances. His ex-wife then refused to allow his daughter to come over, but he continued to pay full child support. Is this legal?
If his visitation orders are still in place, than he can file a motion to enforce, but she mat respond with a restraining order. If he has a problem, he should offer to abide by a supervised visitation with random test by family services. If she not agreeable, it may require a motion to modify. He will want to avoid her filing a restraining order.
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If I am paying Alimony, can I change my W-4 to pay less taxes? Or is there any other form that I need to fill out?
Yes. Talk to your accountant of how many deduction you can take to account for the lower taxible income.
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Ex-spouse is awarded part of my pension. i am supposed to send her a monthly check (after I receive mine) Can I claim any tax benefit for this like you can when paying alimony?
Yes, like any alimony, it's tax deductible fir you and taxable income on her. Hopefully, she reporting it.
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Slapped my husband when he provoked me by saying he could $%^ anyone he wants to now that he wants out of the marriage. He was bullying himself into our room, insisting he sleep in our bed, screaming. Im 5'6" he's a 6'1" ex football player. Thoughts?
you committed domestic violence, regardless of your size difference. His behavior is inappropriate, but your reaction handed him custody of any kids under the provisions of the Violence Against Women Act. You'll be treated equal to a man.
Men Don’t Tell
A story by the daughter about her father, a Platte County (MO) Sheriff Deputy
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At what age can a child legally decided who to live with under South African Law.
A Child's Choice: What Is The Right Age For A Child To Choose Which Parent To Live With?
http://preview.tinyurl.com/A-Childs-Choice-In-Custody
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Can you call your child in arkansas once a daywithout getting harrasment charges?
It would be best for it to be in the custody orders.
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Can anyone tell me at what age can a child decide which parent they want to live with in the state of Arizona? Also a link would be helpful to the site showing the onformation.
A Child's Choice: What Is The Right Age For A Child To Choose Which Parent To Live With?
http://cabaraoke.newsvine.com/_news/2008/12/01/2165344-a-childs-choice-what-is-the-right-age-for-a-child-to-choose-which-parent-to-live-with
The child should demand Joint Custody of them, and not the other way around.
They can be told that the children need to remain in the home and each parent...
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If someone steals your sperm and gets pregnant do you have to pay child support? What are the chances you will lose in court, if the woman is attractive? if the woman is weird ugly? would it made a difference?
Yes, cause of conception is not a consideration in paying child support, as a Florida doctor learned in 2007. Though he lost his appeal on the child support, he won on the right to sue her, but that only works if she has anything to take. In her case it was as she was also a doctor.
Though not under the same circumstance, but related to the idea that cause of conception is not a...
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I would like to know if my child mother is currently locked up for a violation of a restraining order against me can i get temporary custody of my child even thoe i have not been legitimized yet.
Since you have a restraining order, your first attempt could be to request a modification of it to include an emergency temporary order for custody. This will be pending a full hearing whereby you can plead your case.
You'll need to know how to prepare and hire any attorney.
Child Custody
I've been a Father’s Rights Advocate for 20 years.
Many think the courts...
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I would like to know if my child mother is currently locked up for a violation of a restraining order against me can i get temporary custody of my child even thoe i have not been legitimized yet. (
Since you have a restraining order, your first attempt could be to request a modification of it to include an emergency temporary order for custody. This will be pending a full hearing whereby you can plead your case.
You'll need to know how to prepare and hire any attorney.
Child Custody
I've been a Father’s Rights Advocate for 20 years.
Many think the courts...
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Are you Voting Christian?
If you vote for Jesus as you only true king and ruler, than yes. No one else deserves your vote.
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If a man says that he doesnt want to get married, should a woman leave him if she wants differently? Or could a man change his mind?
Is he's under 30years old, than yes.
THE RIGHT AGE FOR MARRIAGE
Leaving out the opinions on this, I’m going to cover the facts of what’s it’s like to be in a “LONG TERM” relationship.
It is a statistical fact that relationships involving people who co-habitat and/or get married prior to age 24 have an 85% failure rate. Biologically, this is when...
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If you know it is not TRUE LOVE why are you staying together?
How do you know it isn't?
What is love?
I spoke on this with a Rabbi once, as he was riding in my taxi.
First off, for those in their younger years, love is not an emotion as it is a desire. The human brain does not yet have the conceptual ability to understand and truly feel love until well into the 20s. Prior to that time, what you are feeling is the desires of youth. The...
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Why do women seem to be more acceptable towards men who have children, yet men seem to not want to date women who have children. Men would you seriously date a woman who have have children, or does it depends on the amount?
In 20 years of working with divorced and single fathers, and watching studies, it's not a good idea statistically. I'm not saying it hasn't worked, as I have a stepfather for 50 years, but these day they just don't stick. Worse, they frequently lead to the destruction of the relationship between children and their biological father.
With the growing shortage of...
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Come on guys it's been six days since Michael Jackson's death and I see nothing. Where's all the Michael Jackson questions?
Michael Who?
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Im 17 and my mom wont let me go anywhere even if it's just down the street.. i tell her where im going and wont let me go. can she legally do this at age 17?
I assume you've given her cause for concern? Legally, yes she can. Do you have some assumption you're an adult or even an almost adult? Jesus Christ was not an adult until age 30, are you more mature than him?
You only reason male are considered LEGAL adults is because they can be drafted. But, they are drafted at that age because their brains are still just so much mush. This...
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Im a alaskan father who was awarded full solelegal and sole physical custody for my 8 year old daughter... this order has been in affect for 3 years can i motion to terminate her rights? she threatned to take me back to court last week does she chance?
You need to be prepared for a challenge.
Start keeping a daily journal of all your activities. The most common way to prevent a father from getting his rights through the courts is a false allegation, usually sexual. Over 60% of divorcing father are accused of child sexual abuse, of which only 4% are found to have any relevance, but there are no penalties for doing so. A daily journal is...
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My son was born in NJ and my then boyfriend signed the birth certificate, we both know through DNA that he is not the father. How do I have him removed from the birth certificate?
First, you committed paternity fraud. I'm not sure how to get the name removed, but you better do it soon.
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In Pennsylvania, is it legal for a licensed Therapist/counselor to counselor a 3 1/2 yr old child without consent of both parents, when both parents are active in raising the child?
This is common when a mother wants to accuse the father of abuse and shops around for a psychologist to agree with her.
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Have any AB members had visitation rights ordered that forces you to allow grandparents access to your child?
I've helped grandparents get visitation rights.
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I am 16 years old with a 4 month old baby. Can I sue my ex boy friend who is 19 for child support?
You could sue him for support even if he's only 12 years old.
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My girlfriend and i own a house together and have a child together. What are our options for our separation as far as the house and child are concerned?
Bird Nest Custody
The children should get joint physical custody of the parents. It's a form of access or custody where the children stay in the former family residence and it is the parents who rotate in and out separately and on a negotiated schedule.
The children simply live at "home" and the separated or divorced parents take turns living with them there, but never at the...
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Do step parents have any say in custody hearings in the state of Oregon?
Like any citizen, if they have knowledge that is needed in any type of matter before the court, they should approach the attorney to offer to testify. If they are concerned about testifying on the stand, they can submit a Friend of the Court Brief.
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Without my child, and know she is being abused, I am having a tough time living? Suggestions?
Many think the courts are rigged against dads, but in reality, it is more about attorneys unwilling or lacking the knowledge to truly fight for the father's rights. This is why it is important to learn how to interview and hire the right attorney. It is also important to do as much as possible on your own and not pay the attorney to do it.
Part of the problem with getting your rights...
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Can my ex emigrate with my child without my consent
In the US she needs the permission of the court. An Injunction needs to be filed to stop her, than taken to the State Dept. to bar the issuing of a Visa for the children.
Child Custody
I've been a Father’s Rights Advocate for 20 years.
Many think the courts are rigged against dads, but in reality, it is more about attorneys unwilling or lacking the knowledge to truly...
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Can my ex emigrate with my kids without my consent
In the US she needs the permission of the court. An Injunction needs to be filed to stop her, than taken to the State Dept. to bar the issuing of a Visa for the children.
Child Custody
I've been a Father’s Rights Advocate for 20 years.
Many think the courts are rigged against dads, but in reality, it is more about attorneys unwilling or lacking the knowledge to truly...
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My friend wife left over two months ago with his son and got a lawyer. Now he is being told by her/ lawyer that she can take away his custodial rights if he doesn't get rid of the girlfriend he just started dating. Is this true they live in London, Ohio
Though stupid to be dating already, she can't do that. She could request that he not date or have overnight guests while the son is with him.
Child Custody
I've been a Father’s Rights Advocate for 20 years.
Many think the courts are rigged against dads, but in reality, it is more about attorneys unwilling or lacking the knowledge to truly fight for the father's...
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My ex husband obtained only emergency custody of my son and now wants to enroll him in a different school and district than mine. There is not even a date set for the trial to determine who shall have permanent custody. Can he do this legally?
Yes, this is a common practice by mothers.
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How can I afford a lawyer if I cant afford child support? I cant find a job, I owe back child support, I cant go back to Texas because they will arrest me. I have tried legal aide being a woman with no income they still wont help me.
Legal Aid does help women, but never men, but with the current economy, there have been budget cut backs result in many Legal Aid programs being canceled. Besides, what is it you need a lawyer for? If you're behind, turn yourself in and serve the time. At least while in jail the arrears won't increase. If you're needing a modification, that can be easily done Pro Se.
Now,...
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In a domestic violence situation can the police speak with the my minor children without my permission or knowledge
As they are not the target of the investigation, yes. This is very important in determining if this is another false allegation of domestic violence, but it's usually female police officers who do it.
A female officer is more likely to spot a false report than a male officer.
A good movie on this was MEN DON'T TELL starring Peter Strauss, based on a true story. Because the...
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My husband was just made aware of the fact thathe has a 13 yr old daughter. Mother is suing for 13 yrs of back child support. We have the email in which she notified him "that you have a daughter." Will the court grant all that back support in this case?
Yes she can under federal law, up to 23 years. In Missouri there's a five year limit. California is 18 and Michigan is 23. In Michigan it can be awarded even if the woman had sex with an underage boy, provided she waits until after the statute of limitations on statutory rape to file for child support. The last case I saw there was 14 years retroactive against a 27 year old man.
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I've been paying child support in IL since 2006. On Dec. 3, 2008 it was ordered that my obligation to pay be terminated. Payments are still being taken from my paycheck. Letters to officials not working. Overpaid so far $1316. What can I do?
Before seeing an attorney get a printout from child support enforcement.
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I currently pay child support and half of daycare expenses. My ex claims she pays $2000.00 a month to her own mother for childcare. Our son is 12 years old, about to turn 13. What is the maximim age requirement in the state of CA for childcare?
You have three good answers above, especially by gwh6552. I confirmed it with a father's rights paralegal. She may have been defrauding you all these years.
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I do not want visitation or custody. Why am i made to go to court when i do not want either?
Because you're still responsible for child support. Unlike mothers, you can't abort your responsibility to the child.
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My fiances ex just told him he may be the father of her 1 year old daughter. Another man signed an AOP and is on the childs birth certificate. Will my fiance have to pay child support if another man signed an AOP?
Yes, but she can wait up to 18 years to file, after the man has raised the child on his own, than get up to 18 years retroactive child support on your fiance.
Paternity fraud is becoming very prevalent. In the 90s, a Michigan woman countered a custody claim during a divorce that her husband of 20 years was not the father of the 14 year old daughter. She than file 14 years retroactive...
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Can the father of my unborn baby (my husband) get custody after the baby is born?
He can file for custody now in the state where the child was conceived. A California man has filed there for an unborn child whose mother lives in Texas.
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I'm afraid that my husband is going to try and take custody of our child after she is born. He has no problem lying if it will get him what he wants. I fear that he will try to prove that I am unfit in some way. What constitutes "unfit?"
The question is not whether you're unfit, but why you want to keep his child. Try Bird Nest Custody.
http://cabaraoke.newsvine.com/_news/2009/06/23/2961111-jon-kate-what-now-happens-with-the-plus-8-answer-bird-nest-custody
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How can i find reliable lawyer in Ukraine (Crimea) to help me with child custody, sole responsibility court order
Before interviewing your first prospective attorney, come prepared. Get your LITIGANTS NOTEBOOK organized into the nine (See article "Steps To Take...") recommended sections and if time permits, type in double spacing, your notebook information.
1. How long have you been in practice?
NOTE: We recommend that no one be cons idered who has n ot been practice at least 3 years, 5 years...
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What do you tell a absent parent when they come around seeking visitation after five years?
This is not uncommon in cases where men have been forced into fatherhood, most often at too young an age. Males don't reach full maturity until age 30, while females reach it at age 24.
Often by the time they mature and realize they want to be a part of the child's life, they end up feeling so guilty about not doing it earlier, they feel it's too late. It's never too late.
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WHY DO HUSBANDS LIE?
WHAT MAKES THEM LIE? CAN THEY HELP THEMSELVES? OR IS IT INATE? MUST THE WIFE LEARN TO LIVE WITH IT OR CAN THEY CHANGE? WHY WOULD HE DESTROY HER REPUTATION? TRY TO HAVE HER COMMITTED FOR HIS ACTIONS? RESPONSIBILITIES?
For the same reason women do it. Because they want to and have no self control, as is evident by the growing number of cases where men are finding they are not the father of their children.
Now, why did you create two different IDs on here to post similar questions?
http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6987836
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WHY DO MEN LIE TO AVOID RESPONSIBILITIES? WHY DO THEY LIE TO THE PUBLIC ABOUT WHO THEIR WIFE REALLY IS? WHY DO THEY TRANSFER WHO AND WHAT THEY ARE ONTO THEIR SPOUCE? WHY RUIN THEIR WIFE TO PUBLIC?
For the same reason women do it. Because they want to and have no self control, as is evident by the growing number of cases where men are finding they are not the father of their children.
Now, why did you create two different IDs on here to post similar questions?
http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1549302
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What country would my deadbeat CANADIAN ex-spouse have gone to, to avoid child support? (He's disappeared the past 7 months, no longer works at his old job....his friends tell me he's left the country...?!...ie. what countries could he have skipped to?)
All the same countries mothers kidnap their children to to avoid the father getting visitation rights enforced.
No, that don't work, as that's nearly every country, including Canada. Well, just look up the Hague Treaty. That will tell you.
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Its the dads visit.Our papers say that holidays take precedence over scheduled visits.instead of 9-5 it is 3-6.i made plans to take my her to the circus that morning.He called today wanting to have his whole day.The tickets arent refundable,what do i do?
Fax him that page of the order.
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Houston texas,divorce when spouse is resident of another state
Was there a question?
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Why is it that married men don't wear their rings? How was I (single girl) supposed to know that he (supposedly happily married) when he openly flirted, asked for my number and had a brief make out session in the back of a shared cab.
For men I don't like wearing any rings, or a watch. Also, as men generally worked more dangerous jobs where a ring can cost them a finger or a hand, it's not as common as it is with men. Granted, many men now work non-hazardous jobs like women choose to do, it was not so many decades ago that that the vast majority worked only dangerous jobs.
As for wearing a ring, married women...
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Has anyone read the star trek novels about captain Mackenzie Calhoun and the star ship USS Excalibur? wouldn't that make a much better movie/series then another prequel?
Though I long since lost track of the series, I very much enjoyed them, and at the time thought they should have been made into their own series.
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Des anyone else think the new Star Trek movie is attempting to imitate Star Wars?
Actually, more like Battlestar Galactica in the internal design of the ship. Like Star Wars in the use of warp speed in that you really can't see the light transmissions of the stars at that speed. Also in that it takes less time to get from one star system to another, at anything greater than warp one, than was represented in any of the previous movies or series. In that Star Wars was...
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I am working through a divorce and parenting plan. Currently my two teenage boys are split. One week with me and the other with her then we switch. I think this is not the best for the boy's and should be two me and two with her rotating week? Help?
How about Bird Nest Custody?
http://cabaraoke.newsvine.com/_news/2009/06/23/2961111-jon-kate-what-now-happens-with-the-plus-8-answer-bird-nest-custody
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Can a man love and treat a child that is not his like it is his own child?
Stepparents
Here’s what needs to be discussed on stepfamilies.
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When the marriage will create a step-family, this is especially important.
People considering marriage often have different ideas of what they...
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My children have an easy going.caring stepfather-the eldest 14 is really rude to him sometimes,tips on expectations and how to better their relationship please!
Stepparents
Here’s what needs to be discussed on stepfamilies.
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When the marriage will create a step-family, this is especially important.
People considering marriage often have different ideas of what they...
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I have a 2yr old and her father and i split 50/50. his girlfriend is around a lot.. i found out from one of our close friends that he is telling our 2 yr old to call this new girl mommy. what can i do to help my baby to not be confused.
The child won't become confused. It is just a word. What she feels in her heart while in your presence compared to her is the difference.
Might I suggest that you send this to her to avoid future problems.
Stepparents
Here’s what needs to be discussed on stepfamilies.
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they...
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How can you be a good step parent if you are only 7 years older then the child? What if the child doesn't see you as an athourity figure at all?
Stepparents
Here’s what needs to be discussed on stepfamilies.
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When the marriage will create a step-family, this is especially important.
People considering marriage often have different ideas of what they...
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My husband's ex tells their son he doesnt have to listen to me & that I am the cause of all the probs. I try to be nice, but she's always harassing me / our children, calling them worthless bastards. How do I deal with her and get her off my back?
Stepparents
Here’s what needs to be discussed on stepfamilies.
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When the marriage will create a step-family, this is especially important.
People considering marriage often have different ideas of what they...
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So, I'm almost 19, and my soon to be step sons are almost 12, 10, and almost 8..... Anybody got any advice on how to prepare for this one???? (My fiance had his first at 14, so it's not like he's 40 or anything)
Stepparents
Here’s what needs to be discussed on stepfamilies.
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When the marriage will create a step-family, this is especially important.
People considering marriage often have different ideas of what they...
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My husband had an affair 3 years ago. I found out a year ago and stayed. He hasn't seen his daughter from that affair since she was born 2 1/2 years ago now that I know i think he should be involved.How should we be involved when she lives far away?
Single Fathers
As a single man, you have NO ASSUMED RIGHTS to the child. Watch the movie trailer at the link below about a single father. ᵅ
But, some recent material shows there’s a possible option that you could file for custody even before the child is born, in the state where the child was conceived.
Get an order enter forcing a DNA test, unless one has already been done.
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I have = cust. of my 3 yr old daught.seperated from X 6 mo's, has new boyfriend.I know I'm a good father. evertime i get her she goes nuts, but always happy to leave to mom.Just said "I want to go back to my Jonnie(bfriend) n mom. Let her go for good?
Could be a sign of Parental Alienation Syndrome
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Stay at home or working parent. where is the grass greener?
For who, the parents or the children?
7 Myths of Working Mothers: Why Children and (Most) Careers Just Don't Mix
Suzanne Venker
http://search.barnesandnoble.com/7-Myths-of-Working-Mothers/Suzanne-Venker/e/9781890626532/?itm=31
In Praise of Stay at Home Moms
Dr. Laura Schlessinger
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My 14 year old just started talking about living with her dad. Teenagers, she says it isn't about not wanting to be with me, just wants to spend more time with him. Is it about me?
No this is common, though some think the grass is greener. I'm a fathers rights rep. I wrote this on the subject.
A Child's Choice: What Is The Right Age For A Child To Choose Which Parent To Live With?
http://cabaraoke.newsvine.com/_news/2008/12/01/2165344-a-childs-choice-what-is-the-right-age-for-a-child-to-choose-which-parent-to-live-with
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My boyfiend and father of three children just found out he had another child with a one night stand. This all happened before we were together. Is it wrong for me to want my boyfriends parents to not be in contact with the other woman?
This will be the least of your concerns if she demands retroactive child support, all the way back to the birth of the child. Give this to him.
Single Fathers
As a single man, you have NO ASSUMED RIGHTS to the child. Watch the movie trailer at the link below about a single father. ᵅ
But, some recent material shows there’s a possible option that you could file for custody even...
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If my baby mama has a boyfriend who helped end our relationship even though did my share of wrong and she let me back in my son life do i have to get along with her boyfriend to be able to see my son even when i said i wont disrespect him? is that right?
It's a good idea not to cause tension, but your access should not be based on that.
Single Fathers
As a single man, you have NO ASSUMED RIGHTS to the child. Watch the movie trailer at the link below about a single father. ᵅ
But, some recent material shows there’s a possible option that you could file for custody even before the child is born, in the state where the child...
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How much does it normally cost to go to family court to seek at least joint custody of a child in SC?
It need not cost a lot.
Mediation
WARNING: LONG WINDED OLD FART
An uncontested divorce or paternity action need not require the two of you to hire attorneys. You need only find a Certified Mediator, hack out the agreement, in detail, file it with the court, and set a hearing date. On that day the judge will swear both of you in, ask if you both agree to the terms set down in the...
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In the state of nebraska what does split custody mean?
50/50 joint physical, or Bird Nest.
Joint Custody
Equal Time - A Teen’s Views On Joint Custody
How I divide my life between my divorced parents' homes. By Charlotte Juerge - Newsweek - Dec 15, 2008
http://www.newsweek.com/id/174698
Father Makes Two - James Cook (Deceased 03/09), Joint Custody Assoc.
By Margot Roosevelt, Nov. 11, 2003, Time Magazine
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Who has stepkids and what is your relationship like with them?
Stepparents
Here’s what needs to be discussed on stepfamilies.
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When the marriage will create a step-family, this is especially important.
People considering marriage often have different ideas of what they...
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How badly does your patners ex bug you and how do u cope?Especially when their are kids involved?
Stepparents
Here’s what needs to be discussed on stepfamilies.
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When the marriage will create a step-family, this is especially important.
People considering marriage often have different ideas of what they...
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How do I deal with my step-child when their mother has blamed me for everything and has turned them against me, she has made it so i can not hug or touch them without her yelling child abuse.
You have more than one problem here. She's trying to defame your character and possibly alienate the child from the father.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PQIXAjC_v50
Have you considered suing her for damages? These claims could affect future employment.
Have dad write me at the address at the bottom on dealing with her. This is for you in being a stepmother.
Here’s what...
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How do I connect with my 12 year old stepdaughter? I feel she resents me even after her father and I have been married for 6 years. Every attempt that I make is shot down by her or I'm underminded by my mother-in-law.
Here’s what needs to be discussed on stepfamilies.
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When the marriage will create a step-family, this is especially important.
People considering marriage often have different ideas of what they expect from...
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What role does a step-parent play when both biological parents are active in the child's life?
Here’s what needs to be discussed on stepfamilies.
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When the marriage will create a step-family, this is especially important.
People considering marriage often have different ideas of what they expect from...
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My wife refuses to accept my son or want to have anything to do with him. She kinda just wishes he would go away. What should i do?
Here’s what needs to be discussed on stepfamilies.
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When the marriage will create a step-family, this is especially important.
People considering marriage often have different ideas of what they expect from...
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My daughter and BF's daughter got along fine, now they are constantly getting on each others nerves. Telling on each other or hurting each others feelings and making each other cry. My daughter is 6 his is 4. What do we do? We really care about e/other.
Here’s what needs to be discussed on stepfamilies.
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When the marriage will create a step-family, this is especially important.
People considering marriage often have different ideas of what they expect from...
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I have two step daughters, aged15 and 16 and one son (their half brother). Am a terrible person if i want to go away with just my immediate family? Myself, spouse and son? They think so. Any opinions?
Here’s what needs to be discussed on stepfamilies.
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When the marriage will create a step-family, this is especially important.
People considering marriage often have different ideas of what they expect from...
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Why do the majority of fathers get more respect from their children then mothers? (in a 2 parent home)
How often do mothers threaten the children with "Wait until your dad get home"? Perhaps it's not respect, but she has taught them to fear him.
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My daughter doesn't like her step father how do I get her to respect him?
Here’s what needs to be discussed on stepfamilies.
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When the marriage will create a step-family, this is especially important.
People considering marriage often have different ideas of what they expect from...
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My husband and I have been together for 6 1/2 yrs married for 4. This summer that were arguing about their daughter, who by the way isn't really his. And his ex says that nothing to do with them and the daughter is none of my business.
Here’s what needs to be discussed on stepfamilies.
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When the marriage will create a step-family, this is especially important.
People considering marriage often have different ideas of what they expect from...
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Is it okay for a step-father to spank his step-daughter
Here’s what needs to be discussed on stepfamilies.
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When the marriage will create a step-family, this is especially important.
People considering marriage often have different ideas of what they expect from...
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How common is it for dogs to eat homework?
This boy's dog ate the boy's way to go on a school trip to Peru.
http://www.twincities.com/news/ci_12712356?source=rss
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When you eat your dinner, do you sit at a table, or eat it off your lap,
Off a bedside table as I live in a nursing home. Sometimes with the roommate sitting on a bedside toilet and smelling up the room.
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What is the easiest job you've ever gotten paid for?
Being self employed, picking up dog crap.
It's a job no one likes doing, and even in these economic times, is willing to pay someone else to do. With the explosion single/unmarried women in their 20s to 40s, with a dog or dogs, instead of a man and/or children, it's becoming a lucrative business that can bring in $20,000 a year for part time work. Takes only a few tools which...
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What would you like to be called the symbol of........?
the one in whom the revolution starts, for "In every revolution, there is one man with a vision".
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Do still have any toys from when you were little, & can you name one?
Yes, blocks of wood.
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This girl i know breastfeeds her son and he is almost 2. Isn't that a bit crazy? She said her grandpa breastfed untill he was 4!! I mean, isn't that weird and creepy?
Actually, two years is the recommended minimum, but four years is recommend by the World Health Organization. It's only creepy in societies where the mother/child relationship has been replaced by the rights of mothers to hand over the principal raising of their children to day care so that they can work and buy more THINGS.
And before feminists jump on me, a stay at home dad is just...
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I believe my wife has been using drugs, I have taken the hair test and past. If she fails the test, do I get custody of my girls? She filed for divorce al ready.
Child Custody
I've been a Father’s Rights Advocate for 20 years.
Many think the courts are rigged against dads, but in reality, it is more about attorneys unwilling or lacking the knowledge to truly fight for the father's rights. This is why it is important to learn how to interview and hire the right attorney. It is also important to do as much as possible on your...
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How do u not have an ugly divorce?
Mediation
WARNING: LONG WINDED OLD FART
An uncontested divorce or paternity action need not require the two of you to hire attorneys. You need only find a Certified Mediator, hack out the agreement, in detail, file it with the court, and set a hearing date. On that day the judge will swear both of you in, ask if you both agree to the terms set down in the document, than everyone signs...
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My sons mother told the judge she makes $80 every 2 weeks in court over child support. I know she makes well over $400 a week. I had my lawyer subpoena her pay stubs and now she is calling me scum for trying to pay her less? who is really wrong?
She's wrong, as it is not likely to result in you paying much less. The difference in income would not change the base amount you pay, only the percentage of extras, such as insurance, day care, special schooling, etc. But, what it does do is shows that's she willing to commit perjury thinking she may gain from it. This bodes ill will for the future of her obeying your court...
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Steps to do in filing a divorce.
Prepare, prepare, prepare.
If you're a man, be ready to be accused of domestic violence.
If you're a father wanting custody, be ready to be accused of child sexual abuse. And if any friends who can testify of your behalf, they will be accused also.
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Ok more to go on...she left him. she drew up the divorce papers. and now that he has found someone who makes him happy (me) she is completely disrespecting me in every way possible. she has even started throwing herself at his parents and holding the kid
For 20 years I've worked with divorced and single fathers
Part of the problem with getting visitation enforced is knowing what to do to prove your case, and how to remind the judge of their responsibilities. Let me start with the judge.
Always take people with you to court who are not there to testify. Make sure they are sitting where the judge can see them, each equipped with a...
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Women: would you divorce this guy? Good father, good provider, kind and loyal, but you feel neglected due to his working very long hours running a business.
In this economy you better feel lucky. Do you feel that your feeling are more important than the hard that a divorce would do to the children?
All Children Deserve Two Parents
Georgia Supreme Court Chief Justice Leah Ward Sears has noted, children born to unmarried women and to those in cohabiting relationships “must often overcome increased risks of poverty, education failure, child...
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Why do women hit men?
Men Don’t Tell
A story by the daughter about her father, a Platte County (MO) Sheriff Deputy
http://www.abs-comptech.com/~aewhale/men_dont.html
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Would you think me less of a man if you knew i'd been physically abused by my ex girlfriend?
Consider this case.
Men Don’t Tell
A story by the daughter about her father, a Platte County (MO) Sheriff Deputy
http://www.abs-comptech.com/~aewhale/men_dont.html
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In the US a women is physically abused every 7 seconds. 45% of ER visits by women are due to dom. violence. Do those figures bother anyone else?
Yes, just as it happens to men ever 6 seconds, but they fear reporting it as they will than be charged with the crime.
Men Don’t Tell
A story by the daughter about her father, a Platte County (MO) Sheriff Deputy
http://www.abs-comptech.com/~aewhale/men_dont.html
http://www.ioffer.com/i/Men-Don-t-Tell-1993-DVD-99681269
Pitcher's Case Throws a Curve at Common Beliefs About...
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Has anyone else been in the situation of seeing a close friend stay with an abuser just because he/she said 'sorry'? Did you try to help time and time again? Or were you cut off completely until they'd had enough?
Men Don’t Tell
A story by the daughter about her father, a Platte County (MO) Sheriff Deputy
http://www.abs-comptech.com/~aewhale/men_dont.html
Pitcher's Case Throws a Curve at Common Beliefs About Abuse
Los Angeles Times - Article Scan
http://www.csulb.edu/~mfiebert/latimes.htm
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What do you think about this anti-domestic abuse billboard? "It happens when nobody's watching"
The usual politically correct crap on the issue. Over 39% of victims of domestic violence are men, yet you never see ads addressing that. Attached is a good example.
David Letterman
Ease Of Making A False Allegation & Getting A Restraining Order
http://www.people.com/people/article/0,,1143004,00.html
Men Don’t Tell
A story by the daughter about her father, a Platte County...
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My gf moved out only taking a few thing "needing space" she found out she has pre-cervical cancer and she's pregnant 7 weeks. I don't know what to think of all this what are the odds she'll be back? She still keeps in touch. I'm just leaving her alone.
This may be the cause
Rutgers University Study - Should We Live Together?
Cohabiting couples breakup three times more than married couples. Cohabiting couples that later marry have a 46% higher rate of divorce than those who did not cohabit prior to marriage.
http://marriage.rutgers.edu/Publications/SWLT2%20TEXT.htm
BUT, YOU HAVE GREATER CONCERNS
As a single man, you have NO ASSUMED...
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If you moved out, but didn't believe in living together before marriage, would you give your boyfriend or girlfriend a key to your place?
Take this into consideration first.
Rutgers University Study - Should We Live Together?
Cohabiting couples breakup three times more than married couples. Cohabiting couples that later marry have a 46% higher rate of divorce than those who did not cohabit prior to marriage.
http://marriage.rutgers.edu/Publications/SWLT2%20TEXT.htm
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Should I move in with my boyfriend? We used to live together but split for 3 years and just got back together. He wants me to move in to give it a "proper go"
Take this into consideration first.
Rutgers University Study - Should We Live Together?
Cohabiting couples breakup three times more than married couples. Cohabiting couples that later marry have a 46% higher rate of divorce than those who did not cohabit prior to marriage.
http://marriage.rutgers.edu/Publications/SWLT2%20TEXT.htm
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I have a fiance of a year. We currently live together. I do love him, but lately I don't feel that passion anymore. More and more I'm beginning to wonder if I am settling and if I can live with that. I don't think I can. However, we have a lease together.
That happens frequently when cohabiting.
Rutgers University Study - Should We Live Together?
Cohabiting couples breakup three times more than married couples. Cohabiting couples that later marry have a 46% higher rate of divorce than those who did not cohabit prior to marriage.
http://marriage.rutgers.edu/Publications/SWLT2%20TEXT.htm
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How long do people usually wait until they move in together in a relationship?
Take this into consideration first.
Rutgers University Study - Should We Live Together?
Cohabiting couples breakup three times more than married couples. Cohabiting couples that later marry have a 46% higher rate of divorce than those who did not cohabit prior to marriage.
http://marriage.rutgers.edu/Publications/SWLT2%20TEXT.htm
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What is a suitable amount of time for a non-committal "trial living together" with a GF before moving everything in , and moving out of your old home?
Consider this first.
Rutgers University Study - Should We Live Together?
Cohabiting couples breakup three times more than married couples. Cohabiting couples that later marry have a 46% higher rate of divorce than those who did not cohabit prior to marriage.
http://marriage.rutgers.edu/Publications/SWLT2%20TEXT.htm
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Should I feel bad for wanting my boyfriend and his kids to move out. I just really don't want them there any more. I can't stand all the arguing and the kids behavior. I used to be a happy person but I feel no joy about anything right now.
Cohabiting is never a good idea, especially as it relates to children.
Rutgers University Study - Should We Live Together?
Cohabiting couples breakup three times more than married couples. Cohabiting couples that later marry have a 46% higher rate of divorce than those who did not cohabit prior to marriage.
http://marriage.rutgers.edu/Publications/SWLT2%20TEXT.htm
LIVING IN...
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Should I feel bad for wanting my boyfriend and his kids to move out. I just really don't want them there any more. I can't stand all the arguing and the kids behavior. I used to be a happy person but I feel no joy about anything right now.
Cohabiting is always a poor idea, especially as it related to children.
Rutgers University Study - Should We Live Together?
Cohabiting couples breakup three times more than married couples. Cohabiting couples that later marry have a 46% higher rate of divorce than those who did not cohabit prior to marriage.
http://marriage.rutgers.edu/Publications/SWLT2%20TEXT.htm
Before ever...
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Men still dominate everything even though women have come a long way. We have our own porn/Playgirl/Guys Gone Wild but we want as much as the guys. 90% of women said they do. So why is there still sexism when it comes to everything?
The Myth of Male Power
Warren Farrell, Ph.D.
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0425181448/qid%3D975177336/sr%3D1-2/104-6721580-1475141
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Why Are women obsessed with Feelings? "I feel this" "I feel that" WHy? Why? Why?
It's strictly biological. Women filter their thought process from emotion to logic, which in the male brain, we use logic first, than emotion. This is why we need each other. Women need the strength of our logic, while we need their strength of emotion. Of the two, we carry the greater need, as without their strength, our lives are shorten.
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In the animal kingdom the male has the beauty and attracts the female. I am female and feel this way about men! Any others feel the same way?
Up until 100 years ago, in many cultures it was still that way. In Hawaii, the Hula was originally done by men in order to attract a potential wife. The same applies to many of the current ballroom dances, though one began as a means to break the ice in houses of prostitution.
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Will any and all women take advantage of a man if they let them?
Young Women Playing Older Men
Female, Age 20;
Slender, But Not Skinny;
Dresses Well, But Not Overly Sexual;
Education: 9th Grade, No College;
Pregnant Twice, Both Miscarried;
Lives In Section 8 Housing;
Occupation: Playing Older Men For Money.
In my travels as a taxi cab driver I'm seen all types of people. I see people from both ends of the economic community, from the low to...
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Is it true that women are more horny when they are pregnant?
Now all of them. It mostly happens in woman who were past the age of full physical, emotional, and hormonal maturity, when they had their first child, which is age 24. Pregnancy prior to that age is forcing the female body to perform actions it's not truly ready for.
As for those who do, it doesn't happen during the whole pregnancy, but at a point when the female body has adapted...
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Why do men freak out when women with long hair chop it all off?
Because long hair on women, regardless of their age, always looks lovely.
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Do women get insulted when they're called perverts, or is it like men been called sluts?
With my oldest sister we used Prevert as she didn't even wait until puberty to get perverted. And that was in the early 60s.
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Can anyone help with do-it yourself divorce papers?anyone know of a paralegal or anyone that will help for a small fee
Look for a document prep service.
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What Would happen if i didn't do my custody visitations in 2 months
You mean other than me taking a bat upside your head?
The problem is not what happens to you, but what happens to the children.
All Children Deserve Two Parents
Georgia Supreme Court Chief Justice Leah Ward Sears has noted, children born to unmarried women and to those in cohabiting relationships “must often overcome increased risks of poverty, education failure, child abuse,...
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I want to divorce my husband and his name is not on lease how do I get him to leave?
That fully depends on your squatter laws in your state. In some states, if you own an empty rental and someone got in to stay the night, you have to process a normal eviction to get them out.
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After two yrs of my ex not visiting our daughter and with no letters cards etc for her I have moved out of state. She has since revealed her dad was mean to her during visits. She wants free from him as he is a severe alcoholic, and pot head.
She has not seen him in two years and claims this? Sound a lot more like parental alienation syndrome.
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If I have sole legal custody of my daughter, can her dad take custody from me? He is 5,000 behind in child support, not complying with supervised visits, has not yet done court ordered parenting class,
i have a restraining order against him.
Is this actually a valid question, or are you just complaining about him? You answered your own question.
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I live in Illinois . I am legally divorced from my exhusband sine mar 09. He moved to Alaska in Aug of 2007 with another women and her 3 daughters.He has not seen my son since. He has asked the courts to force my son who will be 17 in Dec 09 to visit him
And what problem do you have with that? The experience alone of visiting Alaska would be worth it.
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Should the cheating partner in a marriage who leaves and takes the family away be liable for suing for emotional damages inflicted on the innocent mate?
You're talking about an "Alienation of Affection" lawsuit. Most states have abolished that law. Research it on the internet.
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In iowa divorce under the guidelines that they go by in deciding full or partcial custody, 1-10 can someone look them up and elaborate on each of these?
This should help.
http://74.125.47.132/search?q=cache:XyN6HKcdN5IJ:www.abanet.org/publiced/practical/books/family/chapter_12.pdf+iowa+child+custody+guidelines&cd=6&hl=en&ct=clnk&gl=us&client=firefox-a
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My wife filed for divorce after 9 1/2 years, I (Pro Se) filed a response, went to pre-trial, and we disagree about property division (real & personal), so trial is in two months. She made at least twice as much as me-can I still ask for alimony?
You can, but consider that only 15% of custodial father get child support, and another 10% still have to pay, so don't get your hopes up. Of those fathers who do have child support orders, only 5% every get any, so what do you think the rate would be of women actually paying their court ordered alimony? Also, don't forget it's taxable income.
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I have two kids and i moved out of state with them and the father took me to court for visitation rights and he got them he hasn't paid child support in over a year should i let him still get the kids?
Your choice is to damage or not damage your children's future. Just as fathers cannot stop paying when they are denied access, you can't if he's not paying, though I wonder if he stopped paying because you took his children away?
All Children Deserve Two Parents
Georgia Supreme Court Chief Justice Leah Ward Sears has noted, children born to unmarried women and to those in...
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I have a 2 year old child with a man whom I never married. We went to court for support &visits now he owes more than $1500.00 in arrears and now wants every weekend overnights. Will he get them?
That's about one or two months of non-payment, providing he hasn't and the state simply has not forwarded it.
Visitation is a separate issue and messing with it affects your child's overall future.
All Children Deserve Two Parents
Georgia Supreme Court Chief Justice Leah Ward Sears has noted, children born to unmarried women and to those in cohabiting relationships...
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Have you heard of women who want a baby and marry an unsuspecting man basically as a sperm donor, then divorce him, take his stuff and force child support for the next 18 years? How can a man protect himself when the courts always favor women?
There are easier ways to do this. A woman targets upper income men to have sex with when she is most fertile. You have 2-3 children from 2-3 fathers, each making a full child support payment, and she can bring in over $10,000 a month of nontaxable income. Pardon me, child support.Plus, as a low or no earned income mother, she can apply for low interest home loans.
Now, as a backup plan...
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How do you except the fact you cant see your kids as much after a divorce when you were with them everyday.
It's very hard, driving a lot of fathers to suicide. That's why I teach them how to get Joint Physical Custody, or Bird Nest Custody.
http://cabaraoke.newsvine.com/_news/2009/06/23/2961111-jon-kate-what-now-happens-with-the-plus-8-answer-bird-nest-custody
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Do you know anyone whose wife or husband left them & they went crazy?
Does men committing suicide 7 times more than women after a breakup count?
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I am a military wife going through a divorce my spouse is having a affir with a coworker same unit same office.For at least the last 5yrs and there is a child I think it is his they kept it quite for a long time.But last year I found out what now
Are you a wife in the military, or the wife of someone in the military? If he's in the military, why haven't you reported this to his commander? He can get into trouble for that.
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What are the positive and negative sides to marriage?
Benefits of Marriage
According to Bridget Maher of the Family Research Council, the current U.S. marriage rate is the lowest it has ever been, men and women are delaying first marriages, the divorce rate has doubled since 1960, and the number of cohabiting couples has increased by more than a factor of 10.
Yet Maher’s research shows that marriage benefits children through...
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Is there any ideal marriage? If so what is ideal marriage?
First, you have to start with being the right age.
THE RIGHT AGE FOR MARRIAGE
Leaving out the opinions on this, I’m going to cover the facts of what’s it’s like to be in a “LONG TERM” relationship.
It is a statistical fact that relationships involving people who co-habitat and/or get married prior to age 24 have an 85% failure rate. Biologically, this is...
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My fiace and i have a awful sex life! MAYBE every 4-5 days, and i want more! when i ask him why has always has a new reason why we dont, he responds anywhere from his sex drive is down to being irritate that i ask why the lack of.. is it me?
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Medical studies show sex is best in the morning and it improves your health.
http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/woman/article899012.ece
The end of the day is a bad time for fun. Your body is at its lowest levels of energy and oxygen. Your immune system has been in active mode for at least 12 hours, and the...
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I have a very high sex drive my wife is complete opposite.I always want it and she never wants it,she also says i make her feel pressured into doing it.I get very frustrated and mad when i dont get it.She doesnt work and is always to tired for me.Help?
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Medical studies show sex is best in the morning and it improves your health.
http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/woman/article899012.ece
The end of the day is a bad time for fun. Your body is at its lowest levels of energy and oxygen. Your immune system has been in active mode for at least 12 hours, and the...
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I feel like my husband is bored with our sex life. I have tried nighties, candles, etc. Are there any other things I could try to put the spark back in our sex life?
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Medical studies show sex is best in the morning and it improves your health.
http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/woman/article899012.ece
The end of the day is a bad time for fun. Your body is at its lowest levels of energy and oxygen. Your immune system has been in active mode for at least 12 hours, and the...
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MY SEX LIFE IS BEGINING TO BECOME DRY I TRY TO SPICE THINGS UP BY PUTTING ON A SEXY LONGURAY BUT MY HUSBAND DO NOT MOVE ANY IDEA WHAT I SHOULD DO?
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Medical studies show sex is best in the morning and it improves your health.
http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/woman/article899012.ece
The end of the day is a bad time for fun. Your body is at its lowest levels of energy and oxygen. Your immune system has been in active mode for at least 12 hours, and the...
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Would a man really marry a woman just because she gives good head, even if he isnt attracted to her?
Are you thinking that this may prevent pregnancy? It doesn't.
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What if a friend asked u to be a bridesmaid in wedding they then call u and tell u how they are not in love with the man but u tell them loves grows & they have a good guy so marry him, would you stil be a bridesmaid for them?
Actually, that is true.
What is love?
I spoke on this with a Rabbi once, as he was riding in my taxi.
First off, for those in their younger years, love is not an emotion as it is a desire. The human brain does not yet have the conceptual ability to understand and truly feel love until well into the 20s. Prior to that time, what you are feeling is the desires of youth. The same...
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Is eighteen too young to be married?
Yes, as is 19, 20, 21, 22, & 23.
THE RIGHT AGE FOR MARRIAGE
Leaving out the opinions on this, I’m going to cover the facts of what’s it’s like to be in a “LONG TERM” relationship.
It is a statistical fact that relationships involving people who co-habitat and/or get married prior to age 24 have an 85% failure rate. Biologically, this is when females...
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What adjective phrase would you want inscribed onto your spouse's tombstone? (Please keep your answer clean and in good taste.)
I go and die and all I get is the cheap headstone. I wanted a Granite Mausoleum.
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My wife will not "allow" herself to be photographed in the nude for my own viewing; She feels it is sinful. So here's my question: Is it sinful if the pictures are not for anything else but for her husband?
Being a sin is a matter of religious perception, but likely she's also concerned whether copies will be made. You could offer to let her print it, using a watermark setting. In this manner, if someone tries to copy or scan it, they would only get garbage. Than she destroys the original file.
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If you had it to do over again, would you marry your spouse?
If I were taken back, I would only make all the same mistakes I did. If I were equipped with what I know now, I would have waited 12 years and not marry until age 30, to a 24 year old female. Possible divorce rates begin dropping off after age 24, with the lowest points being at that age difference, when the male reaches 30. But, making that choice I wouldn't have my daughters.
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Do you buy a newspaper everyday or just on Sundays and why?
I read the Kansas City Star online
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In California what can happen if you are served with papers for contempt charges of not paying child support.
What has already been happening is the amount has been collection 10% COMPOUNDED interest penalties. And, there's no statute of limitations for collection, no matter how old you are, so not retirement until it's paid.
Though California is letting many criminals out due to not having the money to house them, states are obligated under federal law to jail those with more than $5000...
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In Michigan, is there any way for a father to enforce the mother to use an "in-network" doctor for child's medical care? Deductibles on medical plans have risen and if an out of network doctor is used, the cost is much higher.
I assume you're being billed for the deductible? Ask for the form that you signed at the doctor's office stating that you would be responsible to pay the deductible. The person who signed it is responsible.
As stated above, you could also file a Motion to Clarify the requirements that you provide medical coverage.
To learn more how to protect your rights go to Dads House in...
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Does a man that has a step son that he was going to adopt, but now is not due to probably getting divorced, have to pay child support? See explanation in first question.
Generally, no, but there are cases where stepfathers have been ordered to pay child support. If you've been a significant part of the child's life, go for custody.
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I’ve been a Father’s Rights Advocate for 20 years.
Many think the courts are rigged against dads, but in reality, it is more about attorneys...
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My ex-wife is moving to Georgia with the kids. I live in Ohio. What should I do?
You should know that the highest rates of denial of court ordered visitation takes place when it involves long distance visitation. You should file an Injunction to prevent the move pending a full court hearing. If you want to learn how to do all this go to Dads House in Yahoo Groups. Upon joining, you will receive a link for downloading a 200 page educational manual that can teach you what...
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My boyfriend has a two year old son with his ex.The ex wont let him see his son without her there because her parents said he cant.Shes 18 but still live at home.Can she do that?What rights does he have?
As a single man, you have NO ASSUMED RIGHTS to the child. Watch the movie trailer at the link below about a single father. ᵅ
But, some recent material shows there’s a possible option that you could file for custody even before the child is born, in the state where the child was conceived.
Get an order enter forcing a DNA test, unless one has already been done.
DO NOT PAY ANY...
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Is there any way I can stop paying child support since I don't see the child?
Not even if you had no rights to see the child, you cannot stop.
Are you refusing to parent the child, or being denied access?
If denied, there are things you can be doing.
If you want to learn how to deal with this go to Dads House in Yahoo Groups. Upon joining, you will receive a link to an educational manual that can teach you what you need to know. Take the time to learn what...
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Should children have a say in custody arrangements?
They should have a say, but unless they live in Texas, they should not be lead to believe that what they want will actually happen. Only Texas has that law.
As for having the maturity to make such a choice, that's another issue.
A Child's Choice: What Is The Right Age For A Child To Choose Which Parent To Live With?
http://previews.tinyurl.com/A-Childs-Choice-In-Custody
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If the noncustodial parent has to work on his visitation day, should his parents (grandparents) be able to come and get the child and keep her til the parent gets off work. Or should the parent wait til he gets off work?
Yes, if for no other consideration than being an example to the child in showing honor to the authority of the court.
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My husbands daughter wants to come see us but her mother won't let her. What age does a child have to be in Oklahoma to have the right to see their birth father either they have the rights as a father or not?
As a single man, you have NO ASSUMED RIGHTS to the child. Watch the movie trailer at the link below about a single father. ᵅ
But, some recent material shows there’s a possible option that you could file for custody even before the child is born, in the state where the child was conceived.
Get an order enter forcing a DNA test, unless one has already been done.
DO NOT PAY ANY...
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Dads, what do you want more than anything else for Father's Day?
In addition, or in place of any gift, make a list of the reasons why you appreciate him. Perhaps have it inscribed on a wall plague.
Please don't get a joke card. In my 20+ years of working with fathers, it has been rare that a joke card that makes fun of his abilities is really appreciated.
I wrote this to "Dear Abby" for Father's Day, March 19, 2005.
APPRECIATION...
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Did you buy a Father's Day gift already? Could you suggest one for undecided buyers?
In addition, or in place of any gift, make a list of the reasons why you appreciate him. Perhaps have it inscribed on a wall plague.
Please don't get a joke card. In my 20+ years of working with fathers, it has been rare that a joke card that makes fun of his abilities is really appreciated.
I wrote this to "Dear Abby" for Father's Day, March 19, 2005.
APPRECIATION...
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What's a really bad gift to give for Fathers Day?
A joke card. In my 20+ years of working with fathers, it has been rare that a joke card that makes fun of his abilities is really appreciated.
In addition, or in place of any gift, make a list of the reasons why you appreciate him. Perhaps have it inscribed on a wall plague.
I wrote this to "Dear Abby" for Father's Day, March 19, 2005.
APPRECIATION FOR JOB WELL DONE IS...
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Happy Father's Day to all AB dads! What's the most significant part of fatherhood for you?
That now as a grandfather I get to buy the most noisy toys to send to my grandchildren.
In addition, or in place of any gift, make a list of the reasons why you appreciate him. Perhaps have it inscribed on a wall plague.
Please don't get a joke card. In my 20+ years of working with fathers, it has been rare that a joke card that makes fun of his abilities is really appreciated.
I...
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For those who were close to their Dad and have lost him, will you honor his memory on Father's Day? Or is his Birthday or another Holiday more meaningful?
Make a list of the reasons why you appreciated him. Have it inscribed on a plague and placed on his grave.
Remember, there's a lot of us fathers sitting in nursing homes whose children live too far away to visit. Contact an activities director about volunteering Sunday morning. Read the list out loud about why you appreciated your father.
I wrote this to "Dear Abby" for...
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What will you be grilling on Father's Day?
In addition, or in place of any gift, make a list of the reasons why you appreciate him. Perhaps have it inscribed on a wall plague.
Please don't get a joke card. In my 20+ years of working with fathers, it has been rare that a joke card that makes fun of his abilities is really appreciated.
I wrote this to "Dear Abby" for Father's Day, March 19, 2005.
APPRECIATION...
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Who is going to do the grilling on Father's Day?
In addition, or in place of any gift, make a list of the reasons why you appreciate him. Perhaps have it inscribed on a wall plague.
Please don't get a joke card. In my 20+ years of working with fathers, it has been rare that a joke card that makes fun of his abilities is really appreciated.
I wrote this to "Dear Abby" for Father's Day, March 19, 2005.
APPRECIATION...
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What's the best father's day gift you have received
In addition, or in place of any gift, make a list of the reasons why you appreciate him. Perhaps have it inscribed on a wall plague.
Please don't get a joke card. In my 20+ years of working with fathers, it has been rare that a joke card that makes fun of his abilities is really appreciated.
I wrote this to "Dear Abby" for Father's Day, March 19, 2005.
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Happy Father's day to all fathers! How will you celebrate this day?
I'm in a nursing home with children 600 miles away, so I'll be on here.
In addition, or in place of any gift, make a list of the reasons why you appreciate him. Perhaps have it inscribed on a wall plague.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BVQP6GL-Ps0
Please don't get a joke card. In my 20+ years of working with fathers, it has been rare that a joke card that makes fun of...
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What are you planning for your dad on Fathers Day? I am planning a weiner roast :-)
Add to any gift a list of the reasons why you appreciate him. Perhaps have it inscribed on a wall plague.
Please don't get a joke card. In my 20+ years of working with fathers, it has been rare that a joke card that makes fun of his abilities is really appreciated.
I wrote this to "Dear Abby" for Father's Day, March 19, 2005.
APPRECIATION FOR JOB WELL DONE IS WHAT...
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What do you get your father in law for Father's Day? I was going to give mine a card with money...he has been my father in law for 1 month.
Add to any gift a list of the reasons why you appreciate him. Perhaps have it inscribed on a wall plague.
Please don't get a joke card. In my 20+ years of working with fathers, it has been rare that a joke card that makes fun of his abilities is really appreciated.
I wrote this to "Dear Abby" for Father's Day, March 19, 2005.
APPRECIATION FOR JOB WELL DONE IS WHAT...
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Does ENGLAND, UK Celebrate Father's Day?
Add to any gift a list of the reasons why you appreciate him. Perhaps have it inscribed on a wall plague.
Please don't get a joke card. In my 20+ years of working with fathers, it has been rare that a joke card that makes fun of his abilities is really appreciated.
I wrote this to "Dear Abby" for Father's Day, March 19, 2005.
APPRECIATION FOR JOB WELL DONE IS WHAT...
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Do Catholic priests celebrate Father's Day?
Add to any gift a list of the reasons why you appreciate him. Perhaps have it inscribed on a wall plague.
Please don't get a joke card. In my 20+ years of working with fathers, it has been rare that a joke card that makes fun of his abilities is really appreciated.
I wrote this to "Dear Abby" for Father's Day, March 19, 2005.
APPRECIATION FOR JOB WELL DONE IS WHAT...
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Would anyone really want George Michael to be their "father figure"?
As opposed to no father at all?
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Do you celebrate father's day?
Add to any gift a list of the reasons why you appreciate him. Perhaps have it inscribed on a wall plague.
Please don't get a joke card. In my 20+ years of working with fathers, it has been rare that a joke card that makes fun of his abilities is really appreciated.
I wrote this to "Dear Abby" for Father's Day, March 19, 2005.
APPRECIATION FOR JOB WELL DONE IS WHAT...
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Father's day is coming up! My husband and I aren't parents yet, but we will be and because of that, we honor each other on mother's/father's day. What can i do or get for him this year?
Add to any gift a list of the reasons why you appreciate him. Perhaps have it inscribed on a wall plague.
Please don't get a joke card. In my 20+ years of working with fathers, it has been rare that a joke card that makes fun of his abilities is really appreciated.
I wrote this to "Dear Abby" for Father's Day, March 19, 2005.
APPRECIATION FOR JOB WELL DONE IS WHAT...
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If you are like me, and never had a Father or a "Dad" of any kind, what do you do to cheer yourself up, on Father's Day, when everyone else is talking about that super-special guy in their life?
Remember, there's a lot of us fathers sitting in nursing homes whose children live too far away to visit. Contact an activities director about volunteering Sunday morning.
I wrote this to "Dear Abby" about my stepfather for Father's Day, March 19, 2005.
APPRECIATION FOR JOB WELL DONE IS WHAT FATHERS WANT TO HEAR
DEAR ABBY: Today is Father's Day, so why...
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Married guys: If your family(wife,and two teenagers) asked you what you wanted for fathers day and you said to go into the woods by yourself and explore nature for the weekend taking pictures, would they be mad?
No, they would have, with the hard days I had while they were growing, they knew of my need for peace. For myself, it was floating down the Sacramento river, on a raft with camping setup on it. Leave on Friday night from Red Bluff, Ca and I'll call you Sunday where to pick me up.
Add to any gift a list of the reasons why you appreciate him. Perhaps have it inscribed on a wall plague....
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What is a gift that your father would never want to receive on Father's Day?
A Speedo
Add to any gift a list of the reasons why you appreciate him. Perhaps have it inscribed on a wall plague.
Please don't get a joke card. In my 20+ years of working with fathers, it has been rare that a joke card that makes fun of his abilities is really appreciated.
I wrote this to "Dear Abby" for Father's Day, March 19, 2005.
APPRECIATION FOR JOB WELL...
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Fathers, are you looking forward to Father's Day, June 21, 2009 and why?
I look for to only as a time to teach people that honoring one's father need not be wrapped up as a gift.
Add to any gift a list of the reasons why you appreciate him. Perhaps have it inscribed on a wall plague.
Please don't get a joke card. In my 20+ years of working with fathers, it has been rare that a joke card that makes fun of his abilities is really appreciated.
I...
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I am trying to come up with something fun to do...what are your Father's Day plans?
Add to any gift a list of the reasons why you appreciate him. Perhaps have it inscribed on a wall plague.
Please don't get a joke card. In my 20+ years of working with fathers, it has been rare that a joke card that makes fun of his abilities is really appreciated.
I wrote this to "Dear Abby" for Father's Day, March 19, 2005.
APPRECIATION FOR JOB WELL DONE IS WHAT...
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Happy Father's day to all fathers! How will you celebrate this day?
I live in a nursing home. My oldest lives 600 miles away. I was suppose to be moved to Austin two weeks ago, but none of the nursing homes there will accept my insurance. So I'll be on here.
As for you.
Add to any gift a list of the reasons why you appreciate him. Perhaps have it inscribed on a wall plague.
Please don't get a joke card. In my 20+ years of working with...
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FWhich do you think is more celebrated, Mother's Day, or Father's Day?
I feel Father's day is under rated but thats my opinion?
Well, Father's Day is still the highest day of the year for collect calls. Mother's Day is highest for long distance calls.
Articles leading up to Mother's Day about how great mothers are. Articles leading up to Father's Day about Deadbeat Dads. Esquire Magazine this week is on deadbeats, only.
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Happy Father's Day what did you get father,husband,boyfriend for Father's Day?
Add to any gift a list of the reasons why you appreciate him. I wrote this in 2005. It was published in Dear Abby.
APPRECIATION FOR JOB WELL DONE IS WHAT FATHERS WANT TO HEAR
http://www.uexprAdd to any gift a list of the reasons why you appreciate him. Perhaps have it inscribed on a wall plague.
Please don't get a joke card. In my 20+ years of working with fathers, it has been...
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What did you do for father's day?
Add to any gift a list of the reasons why you appreciate him. Perhaps have it inscribed on a wall plague.
Please don't get a joke card. In my 20+ years of working with fathers, it has been rare that a joke card that makes fun of his abilities is really appreciated.
I wrote this to "Dear Abby" for Father's Day, March 19, 2005.
APPRECIATION FOR JOB WELL DONE IS WHAT...
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Did you have a good Fathers Day weekend?
Add to any gift a list of the reasons why you appreciate him. Perhaps have it inscribed on a wall plague.
Please don't get a joke card. In my 20+ years of working with fathers, it has been rare that a joke card that makes fun of his abilities is really appreciated.
I wrote this to "Dear Abby" for Father's Day, March 19, 2005.
APPRECIATION FOR JOB WELL DONE IS WHAT...
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Can I get a shout out to all of the active duty servicemen in harm's way right now who aren't able to be with their families this Father's Day? What father could make you prouder, than one who lays his life on the line for our way of life?
Add to any gift a list of the reasons why you appreciate him. Perhaps have it inscribed on a wall plague.
Please don't get a joke card. In my 20+ years of working with fathers, it has been rare that a joke card that makes fun of his abilities is really appreciated.
I wrote this to "Dear Abby" for Father's Day, March 19, 2005.
APPRECIATION FOR JOB WELL DONE IS WHAT...
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Did you wish your Father a happy Fathers day today?
Add to any gift a list of the reasons why you appreciate him. Perhaps have it inscribed on a wall plague.
Please don't get a joke card. In my 20+ years of working with fathers, it has been rare that a joke card that makes fun of his abilities is really appreciated.
I wrote this to "Dear Abby" for Father's Day, March 19, 2005.
APPRECIATION FOR JOB WELL DONE IS WHAT...
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What do you get a deadbeat dad for fathers day?
Go back and look up all the articles and news reports on DEADBEAT MOMS being arrested on Mother's Day for non-payment of child support and send it to him.
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What did you get your dad for fathers day?
Add to any gift a list of the reasons why you appreciate him. Perhaps have it inscribed on a wall plague.
Please don't get a joke card. In my 20+ years of working with fathers, it has been rare that a joke card that makes fun of his abilities is really appreciated.
I wrote this to "Dear Abby" for Father's Day, March 19, 2005.
APPRECIATION FOR JOB WELL DONE IS WHAT...
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What is s good gift for Father's Day for your man/your baby's daddy?
Add to any gift a list of the reasons why you appreciate him. Perhaps have it inscribed on a wall plague.
Please don't get a joke card. In my 20+ years of working with fathers, it has been rare that a joke card that makes fun of his abilities is really appreciated.
I wrote this to "Dear Abby" for Father's Day, March 19, 2005.
APPRECIATION FOR JOB WELL DONE IS WHAT...
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What is a unique father's day gift idea?
Add to any gift a list of the reasons why you appreciate him. I wrote this in 2005. It was published in Dear Abby.
APPRECIATION FOR JOB WELL DONE IS WHAT FATHERS WANT TO HEAR
http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20050619
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Do you cook a special meal for your Father on Fathers Day or take him out to lunch?
Add to any gift a list of the reasons why you appreciate him. Perhaps have it inscribed on a wall plague.
Please don't get a joke card. In my 20+ years of working with fathers, it has been rare that a joke card that makes fun of his abilities is really appreciated.
I wrote this to "Dear Abby" for Father's Day, March 19, 2005.
APPRECIATION FOR JOB WELL DONE IS WHAT...
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I need to get my husband a gift for father's day any ideas?
Add to any gift a list of the reasons why you appreciate him. I wrote this in 2005. It was published in Dear Abby.
APPRECIATION FOR JOB WELL DONE IS WHAT FATHERS WANT TO HEAR
http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20050619
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Are you taking your dad out on Father's Day?
Add to any gift a list of the reasons why you appreciate him. Perhaps have it inscribed on a wall plague.
Please don't get a joke card. In my 20+ years of working with fathers, it has been rare that a joke card that makes fun of his abilities is really appreciated.
I wrote this to "Dear Abby" for Father's Day, March 19, 2005.
APPRECIATION FOR JOB WELL DONE IS WHAT...
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Any creative ideas for gifts for Father's Day instead of the usual shirt/tie/tools/etc?
Add to any gift a list of the reasons why you appreciate him. Perhaps have it inscribed on a wall plague.
Please don't get a joke card. In my 20+ years of working with fathers, it has been rare that a joke card that makes fun of his abilities is really appreciated.
I wrote this to "Dear Abby" for Father's Day, March 19, 2005.
APPRECIATION FOR JOB WELL DONE IS WHAT...
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Can I have some input on what to get my dad for Father's Day? He has everything, likes nothing anyone gives him. His Christmas present is still in storage..hasn't even looked at it. Help?
Add to any gift a list of the reasons why you appreciate him. Perhaps have it inscribed on a wall plague.
Please don't get a joke card. In my 20+ years of working with fathers, it has been rare that a joke card that makes fun of his abilities is really appreciated.
I wrote this to "Dear Abby" for Father's Day, March 19, 2005.
APPRECIATION FOR JOB WELL DONE IS WHAT...
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What is a good father's day present?
Add to any gift a list of the reasons why you appreciate him. I wrote this in 2005. It was published in Dear Abby.
APPRECIATION FOR JOB WELL DONE IS WHAT FATHERS WANT TO HEAR
http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20050619
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What are you getting your dad for fathers day?
Add to any gift a list of the reasons why you appreciate him. Perhaps have it inscribed on a wall plague.
Please don't get a joke card. In my 20+ years of working with fathers, it has been rare that a joke card that makes fun of his abilities is really appreciated.
I wrote this to "Dear Abby" for Father's Day, March 19, 2005.
APPRECIATION FOR JOB WELL DONE IS WHAT...
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Does any one know of a good ideas for fathers day? also some ideas for the bed room would be awsome i want to give him an good fathers day ....
Add to any gift a list of the reasons why you appreciate him. Perhaps have it inscribed on a wall plague.
Please don't get a joke card. In my 20+ years of working with fathers, it has been rare that a joke card that makes fun of his abilities is really appreciated.
I wrote this to "Dear Abby" for Father's Day, March 19, 2005.
APPRECIATION FOR JOB WELL DONE IS WHAT...
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June 21st is Father's Day. Does your family have any Father's Day traditions?
Add to any gift a list of the reasons why you appreciate him. Perhaps have it inscribed on a wall plague.
Please don't get a joke card. In my 20+ years of working with fathers, it has been rare that a joke card that makes fun of his abilities is really appreciated.
I wrote this to "Dear Abby" for Father's Day, March 19, 2005.
APPRECIATION FOR JOB WELL DONE IS WHAT...
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Would you give a father flowers on father day!!!
Add to any gift a list of the reasons why you appreciate him. Perhaps have it inscribed on a wall plague.
Please don't get a joke card. In my 20+ years of working with fathers, it has been rare that a joke card that makes fun of his abilities is really appreciated.
I wrote this to "Dear Abby" for Father's Day, March 19, 2005.
APPRECIATION FOR JOB WELL DONE IS WHAT...
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Father's Day is nearing: have you bought your card yet, are you making one this year or sending an e-card?
Add to any gift a list of the reasons why you appreciate him. Perhaps have it inscribed on a wall plague.
Please don't get a joke card. In my 20+ years of working with fathers, it has been rare that a joke card that makes fun of his abilities is really appreciated.
I wrote this to "Dear Abby" for Father's Day, March 19, 2005.
APPRECIATION FOR JOB WELL DONE IS WHAT...
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What did you wish for from your kids on father's day?
Add to any gift a list of the reasons why you appreciate him. Perhaps have it inscribed on a wall plague.
Please don't get a joke card. In my 20+ years of working with fathers, it has been rare that a joke card that makes fun of his abilities is really appreciated.
I wrote this to "Dear Abby" for Father's Day, March 19, 2005.
APPRECIATION FOR JOB WELL DONE IS WHAT...
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Can you think of a good Father's Day present for a dad who hates everything?
Add to any gift a list of the reasons why you appreciate him. Perhaps have it inscribed on a wall plague.
Please don't get a joke card. In my 20+ years of working with fathers, it has been rare that a joke card that makes fun of his abilities is really appreciated.
I wrote this to "Dear Abby" for Father's Day, March 19, 2005.
APPRECIATION FOR JOB WELL DONE IS WHAT...
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What is a gift that your father would never want to receive on Father's Day?
Stupid joke cards
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Father's Day is coming up. It'll be my hubby's first Father's Day (our son will be 10 mos. old). What could we do to make his day special?
Add to any gift a list of the reasons why you appreciate him. Perhaps have it inscribed on a wall plague.
Please don't get a joke card. In my 20+ years of working with fathers, it has been rare that a joke card that makes fun of his abilities is really appreciated.
I wrote this to "Dear Abby" for Father's Day, March 19, 2005.
APPRECIATION FOR JOB WELL DONE IS WHAT...
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I just checked two local newspapers, three TV news websites, all the area baseball fields, and the county parks, and no one is listing a SINGLE event on Father's Day. There were a hundred and fifty gagillion Mother's Day events last month. What gives?
You will note that in most questions on gifts for him include the word CHEAP.
If you check the mens magazine, ESQUIRE, there are no positive articles about dads, but there is articles about Deadbeat Dads.
Father's Day is still the #1 day for collect calls.
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How can I let my Dad know I really appreciate him this Fathers' Day?
Add to any gift a list of the reasons why you appreciate him. Perhaps have it inscribed on a wall plague.
Please don't get a joke card. In my 20+ years of working with fathers, it has been rare that a joke card that makes fun of his abilities is really appreciated.
I wrote this to "Dear Abby" for Father's Day, March 19, 2005.
APPRECIATION FOR JOB WELL DONE IS WHAT...
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Are you doing anything special on Father's Day?
Add to any gift a list of the reasons why you appreciate him. Perhaps have it inscribed on a wall plague.
Please don't get a joke card. In my 20+ years of working with fathers, it has been rare that a joke card that makes fun of his abilities is really appreciated.
I wrote this to "Dear Abby" for Father's Day, March 19, 2005.
APPRECIATION FOR JOB WELL DONE IS WHAT...
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Do you try to find father's day cards that don't say "love" and don't use phrases like "greatest dad" in them?
Add to any gift a list of the reasons why you appreciate him. Perhaps have it inscribed on a wall plague.
Please don't get a joke card. In my 20+ years of working with fathers, it has been rare that a joke card that makes fun of his abilities is really appreciated.
I wrote this to "Dear Abby" for Father's Day, March 19, 2005.
APPRECIATION FOR JOB WELL DONE IS WHAT...
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Do you miss your dad?
There's a lot of dads and granddads sitting in nursing home without their family near by. My own daughter lives 600 miles from here. Though we've been trying to get a transfer, in eights months, we have yet to find a place willing to accept my insurance, so I sit here alone.
Consider spending the morning as a volunteer at a nursing home. Contact the activities director about it....
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What is a good meal to serve Dad on Fathers Day?
Add to any gift a list of the reasons why you appreciate him. Perhaps have it inscribed on a wall plague.
Please don't get a joke card. In my 20+ years of working with fathers, it has been rare that a joke card that makes fun of his abilities is really appreciated.
I wrote this to "Dear Abby" for Father's Day, March 19, 2005.
APPRECIATION FOR JOB WELL DONE IS WHAT...
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When you divorced or left your S/O did you get the bad end of the stick or did you feel it was a fair deal?
That would be a very interpretive issue. Rarely would one say they came out ahead.
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To those that are divorced or seperated, have you found that there is still a lot of stigma about being divorced or seperated, or have people come to terms that it happens and thus deal with it appropriately
You've got to be kidding. These days divorced mothers are called single mothers, as if they an unmarried mother could be equal to a married or divorced mother.
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My husband and I have differences and we're separated but still living together (difference bedroom). we have a small child and both share to pay the mortgage and can't afford to rent an apartment plus paying mortgage. Any suggestion what I shou
Divorce Rates Drop as Couples Stay Together Due to Tight Finances
http://www.foxbusiness.com/story/markets/industries/divorce-rates-drop-couples-stay-tight-finances/
Stay Married And Save The Planet
http://news.yahoo.com/s/nm/20090224/od_nm/us_divorce_odd
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What can I do to prevent my baby's daddy from ever getting his hands on our daughter? Even when I'm no longer here, I wouldnt want him to take her.He has never been a part of her life and Im affraid that if nething ever happened to me she would go to him.
Assuming you haven't been denying him access, the usual way is to make an allegation of child abuse.
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My ex keeps telling our 9 year old daughter that he is going to court to get custody so she can live with him. What can I do to get him to stop involving her? It's really starting to scare her.
The father does have a right to fight for increased parental rights, even full custody, but he should not be involving the child. I teach fathers how to prepare for a custody challenge, but they first have to learn not to involve the child. I have some documents you can email him addressing this.
A BILL OF RIGHTS FOR CHILDREN OF DIVORCE
BEGINNING VOCABULARY
50 PHRASES TO ENCOURAGE YOUR...
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I am a 26 year old women that live in Pennsylvania. My 15yr old and my 12 yr old sibling have been living with me for the past 2 months. With our mother knowlegde. How would I go about getting legal custody of them.
After sixty days, I would think you could get guardianship and child support fairly easy through the courts. You don't mention a father, but all it should take is contacting Welfare and request benefits for them. As their sister, your income is not as big a consideration.
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Shared parenting issues concerning a 15 year old and an 12 year old can a father get sole custody because one child doesn't like the rules that mom has and if so how difficult is it?
A Child's Choice: What Is The Right Age For A Child To Choose Which Parent To Live With?
http://cabaraoke.newsvine.com/_news/2008/12/01/2165344-a-childs-choice-what-is-the-right-age-for-a-child-to-choose-which-parent-to-live-with
Basing it on the rules is not appropriate. How about Bird Nest Custody of both?
It’s a form of access or custody where the children stay in the...
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In an divorce,who gets the custody of a less than one year old child
Typically the better parent, though some states still have the tender years doctrine. In Kansas, it can even be used to take a child away from a widowed father.
Though I teach fathers how to fight for custody, I recommend Bird Nest.
It’s a form of access or custody where the children stay in the former family residence and it is the parents who rotate in and out separately and on a...
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In Divorce, is stay at home mom required to have a job to win child custody?
No, only stay at home dads are.
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What age in georgia can child decide not to see non-custody parent anymore?
At the same age the child has a right to refuse to spend time with you.
http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1515301
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I have had custody of my 4 children ages now 19,16,14,14 for 9 years there mom has never given me a dime she pops in and out once a month 3 of them could care less see her or not. Should I go after child support ? Or just leave it the way its been?
Yes, whether you need it or not. If you don't, it can be used for emergencies or college. But, know that only 15% of fathers get child support awards, of which only 5% ever get paid. Also, if you make more money than her, you could end up be ordered to pay her.
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How long would it be to call it abandonment when spouse of 5 kids is gone,in MO.?
Are you a mother or grandmother? You've posted several questions, most bashing dads. Also, do you live in Alabama or Missouri?
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My sons father gave me a check for 5k for a one time child support and we signed a paper saying I will not go after him. It was signed because he said if I didn't he would take my son. He lives in FL I live in IL. Can I still go after child support?
Are you a mother or grandmother? You've posted several questions, most bashing dads. Also, do you live in Alabama or Missouri?
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What happens if the father of my child doesnt show up to pick him up. and months later he shows up and no call. can i deny the vistiation and can i take him to court
Are you a mother or grandmother? You've posted several questions, most bashing dads. Also, do you live in Alabama or Missouri?
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Does my child father have any chance of getting custody of the baby if he used to beat on me?
Are you a mother or grandmother? You've posted several questions, most bashing dads. Also, do you live in Alabama or Missouri?
Even if he never beat you, it can be blocked.
In 1995, a father who simply defended himself by grabbing the arms of the mother to prevent her from scratching him in front of the child, was denied custody appealed to the Michigan Supreme Court. Two female...
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In British Columbia, how old does a child need to be to decide on visiting the non custodial parent?
Canadian Mom Loses Custody For Alienating Dad
Ruling a 'wake-up call' for parents who use kids to punish ex-partners
http://www.thestar.com/article/576619
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My girlfriend is pregnant and she now wants to return to Poland. Do I have any rights as a father?
This only applies if you're in the U.S.
As a single man, you have NO ASSUMED RIGHTS to the child. Watch the movie trailer at the link below about a single father. ᵅ
But, I was recently shown some material that shows there’s a possible option in that you could file for custody even before the child is born, in the state where the child was conceived.
Get an order enter...
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The mother of my children is dating a registered child molester! she has accused me of stalking because I do watch to see if he is around my children also neighbors are telling me. she filed for a restraining order. will she get one?
A true allegation is not required for getting a restraining order at David Letterman learned the hard way costing him thousand to defend.
http://www.people.com/people/article/0,,1143004,00.html
If this is your normal route, than you can prove it, but that may not stop her from getting the order. You may need to prepare for a custody challenge, not file one right now. Unless something does...
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If a child is removed from a parent's custody in Kansas due to abuse/neglect on part of the parent or spouse and is placed in custody of a grandparent in Illinois, can that parent simply assume custody of the child upon the grandparent's death?
I lived and work with fathers in Kansas for 20 years, and no, the child would go to some other relative or foster care. Of interest, they will place the child with anyone except the divorced or single father, without regard for his history or home life. They don't check it or ask him, but he's still required to pay child support. More if the child goes into foster care, while the...
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How far can an ex collect for back child support, example, court order was done 1998 can she collect from 1998 to 2008? And also if the child will turn 18 is the parent legally responsible to provide college support, medical, vision or dental insurance?
It depends on what you're asking. As for anything after 18, High School or age 19 is the cutoff.
http://www.child-support-collections.com/support_laws/california-child-support-law.html
Modifications are only retroactive to the filing date, but if this is a new order, than it can be retroactive up to 18 years, under federal law. Some states limit it to less years, provided the mother...
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If a parent has joint custody of their child and they choose to enter rehab does that parent loose custody?
As said above, not necessary the case, and if you are the other parent, I hope you are helping and providing encouragement.
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I am thinking of breaking up with my husband and our son has my last name and his father isnt on his birth certificate so legally he has to remain in my custody and my husband cant take him right
Well, in 20 years, I have seen a case where this is an issue, but I certainly would teach the father how to get at least joint physical custody.
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I live in NY. I am a unwed single mom of 2. My oldest sons father is petitioning for full custody. If i turn full custody to him will i lose my parental rights as the child's mother?
No, of course not. You would have the same rights as you've allowed him up until now, unless you go for joint custody. You don't need to do it by hiring attorneys, either.
An uncontested divorce or paternity action need not require the two of you to hire attorneys. You need only find a Certified Mediator, hack out the agreement, in detail, file it with the court, and set a...
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How do i change my daughters last name to my maiden name? The alleged father is UNIVOLVED and NOT on her B/C.
If he's paying child support, than this may not be possible, and since 60% of fathers with court ordered visitation get denied access, and completely cut off after 5 years, him not seeing the child isn't surprising.
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I want to leave my husband and take my two kids what do i need to do first
First, admit you're a failure as a mother, wife, and example to your kids. I'm sure you have your reasons, which may be true or not. I've heard them all in the last 20 years, the most common of which he was abusive, but in the light of day, there are hundreds of times more allegations that actual cases. This young woman learned that with her own father, a Platte County Sheriff...
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The alleged father of my baby is suing me for custody of my unborn child. We were never married. He is in CA and I am in TN and have been since November. I didn't think anything could even be filed before she was born. What should I do?
What's the case file number. This should prove interesting to monitor.
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My ex-girlfriend is pregnant with my child. She has threatened me with not being able to see the baby when it's born. What can I do so that I am able to see my baby after he or she is born?
Only Arizona grants you any assumed rights to the child. Everyplace else, you have to fight for your parental rights in court. But, I came across something recently where you can file for custody now in the state where the child was conceived.
http://www.hiltonhouse.com/articles/In_Utero_Jurisdiction.txt
Even if you have to wait, you can start preparing now by learning how to collect...
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I am pregnant, not married, and over the age of 18. If I were to die in child birth, would my baby's father be able to obtain custody of the infant? I live in Texas so any advice given please do so under Texas state laws. Thank you So much!
No, he has no presumed rights to the child. Only the court can grant him that right, which can take months and even years. The relatives of the mother would get the child and he would need to file a custody challenge. Only in Arizona does a single father have a right to take a child home from the hospital, whether or not the mother passed away. A friend's son did that.
This is...
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My daughter is only 19 mos. but I know the day will come when she will ask me about her father who has never called or tried to see her. He showed up for a child support hearing so he knows about her. What do I say to her that will hurt her the least?
Send him:
Fatherless America : Confronting Our Most Urgent Social Problem
David Blankenhorn
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Stupid Things Parents Do to Mess Up Their Kids
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I have joint custody of out 2 year old son. He gets him 4 hours a day. I want to go on vacation with my son. Im not leaving the state its 3 hours away. His father said no. Can I still go?
Apparently, you neglected to make provisions for this. It may require a modification. What is his reasons for not allowing you to go? If you wish, I could write him about it.
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The father of my child decided to go out of town for fathers day instead of coming over to see his daughter. I know for regular visits he is allowed make up hours. But if he chose to go out of town instead, does he get to make up his Fathers day hrs?
There are times when a baseball bat can come in handy in my work with fathers. You don't say why he's going out of town? Is it a part of his job? In this economy, with 80% of layoffs being men, turning something of that sort down is not a good idea.
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What can I legally do if my 11 year old daughter comes to visit me in Connecticut from Idaho and doesnt want to return to her father who has custody (only because I agreed for a quick divorce). I have custody of our son who is 2 years old.
I assume you've been using the "You don't love me if you want to go back to your father" gambit on him?
You have to obey the orders ore it's kidnapping, which could cost you the other child. Only Texas has a law allowing a child to choose. Elsewhere, a judge could listen to the opinion of the child, but the judge is under no legal obligation to follow it. If it...
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My daughter dad do not call or visit her but he do pay child support should i leave him or should i go to court to make him visit her?
Send him these:
All Children Deserve Two Parents
Georgia Supreme Court Chief Justice Leah Ward Sears has noted, children born to unmarried women and to those in cohabiting relationships “must often overcome increased risks of poverty, education failure, child abuse, delinquency, emotional distress and mental illness.”…….the lack of a father’s guidance in...
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My daughters father who has only seen my daughter once is wanting visitation because I am making him pay child support. Can I make it so that he can only get her during the day and not over night until they develop a relationship?
You can't make anything. That's the judge's job. I find it interesting how many times I've heard this excuse in 20 years that the father wants visitation simply because he has to pay child support. If he didn't care to support the child, why would go to the enormous expense of trying for visitation? Even if he gets it, you can violate it on a whim, and unlike child...
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My brother owes back child support (5000.00) and has a current warrant because of it. when he pays his child support in full will they still make him serve time in jail or can the warrant be lifted at the time he pays it?
That is fully dependent on the judge, as the warrant is for Contempt of Court as a result of not responding to summons to address the arrears. He can also be charged with a federal felony. Why is he behind? Did he refuse to pay, or did he get laid off?
First, you need to know that the child support guidelines are not set in stone. They are just guidelines. You can make a case for not...
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I want to move out of state with my son. Do I need his fathers permission to do this. We have never been married but have lived together for 2 years, but now I dont wish to continue the relationship and want to live near my mother.
You may not need his permission, but the state would retain jurisdiction and he could file an injunction to have the children returned, as I would teach him how to do.
Why do you feel it necessary to punish your children in this manner?
All Children Deserve Two Parents
Georgia Supreme Court Chief Justice Leah Ward Sears has noted, children born to unmarried women and to those in cohabiting...
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I have been living with a man for 9 years, never legally married. However, I have been told we are married through living together for the 9 years. Is this true or false information? We live in Florida.
Sorry
Common Law Marriage States
"Currently, only 9 states (Alabama, Colorado, Kansas, Rhode Island, South Carolina, Iowa, Montana, Oklahoma, and Texas) and the District of Columbia recognize common-law marriages contracted within their borders. In addition, five states have "grandfathered" common law marriage (Georgia, Idaho, Ohio, Oklahoma and Pennsylvania) allowing those...
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If a man and woman live together for 25 years in the state of North Carolina, when the man dies does the woman have any spousal rights?
No, because you're not a spouse. You're in the wrong Carolina.
Common Law Marriage States
"Currently, only 9 states (Alabama, Colorado, Kansas, Rhode Island, South Carolina, Iowa, Montana, Oklahoma, and Texas) and the District of Columbia recognize common-law marriages contracted within their borders. In addition, five states have "grandfathered" common law...
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Is it illegal to live together as a man and woman in the state of florida?
No, just not very smart.
Rutgers University Study - Should We Live Together?
Cohabiting couples breakup three times more than married couples. Cohabiting couples that later marry have a 46% higher rate of divorce than those who did not cohabit prior to marriage.
http://marriage.rutgers.edu/Publications/SWLT2%20TEXT.htm
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Per my custody agreement, my ex-husband is to pay 1/2 the travel expenses for our daughter, but he has decided not to pay for her last two trips. Can I file a claim with the courts?
The easiest way is small claims court. I've shown many fathers how to do it.
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My ex and I share a daughter who is almost 2 years old. When we split up I moved back to my hometown about 45 minutes away from where he is. He has no car & no license due to a previous DUI. He doesn't visit her - can I get full custody? In California.
I assume you moved that far away knowing he couldn't come get the child? Than you claim he's not seeing his child so you can increase his child support, as is provided for under California law.
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My ex-Husband and I share custody of our 2 ½ year old and we just went to mediation and he is not following the judgment. What can I do? I went to the court house and they say just get a layer.
You need to clarify what he's not doing.
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Does a sperm donor have a right to custody when he hasn't seen the child since she was 9 months old (we were never married) and my husband has been supporting the child since she was 2. She is 8 years old. we were 15 years old when he was born,
Young men have a great deal of trouble in dealing with the notion of becoming a father, which is a good reason why they shouldn't until age 30. That's when he reaches full maturity. You won't reach it for another year, which brings up another problem. Over 85% of divorces involve people who marry or cohabited prior to age 24, so your chance are slim of remaining with your...
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My boyfriend has joint custody of his one year old son, and gets to see him every other weekend. Although I know his son is his #1 priority, and his time with him is very important, is it too much to ask to give me a quick call/text when he's with his son
What is your intentions in the matter? Are you looking at marrying him and being a stepmother to the child? Have you expressed this to him? If this is not your intent, than his time should be spent alone with the child. If it is your intent, here's something you need to read and consider.
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot"...
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I have sole physical custody of my daughter and joint legal with supervised visits. I am wanting to relocate out of state because i would have a good job and all of my family and support is out there. Would i be allowed?
He can file an injunction to prevent it, as he should.
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My ex-wife has sole physical custody of my son and we have joint legal custody. I would like to modify the visitation plan so that we have 50/50 time. What has to be proven or shown to make these changes?
It is similar to getting full custody, though I prefer seeing Bird Nest Custody used so the child is not shifted back and forth.
I’ve been a Father’s Rights Advocate for 20 years.
Many think the courts are rigged against dads, but in reality, it is more about attorneys unwilling or lacking the knowledge to truly fight for the father's rights. This is why it is...
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I recently went through a custody battle. the ending result was visitation that was agreed upon by both parties. Joint physical, joint legal with me the mother as primary. How much more 'pull' legally does being primary give me as far as
As you denying him access? Making decisions on the child without his input? You can, but I will teach him how to get the orders enforced.
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How do I get my unborn child's father to sign away his rights? I'm living in the UK and he in SA. We've never been married and I don't want him as a part of my child's live. What can I do?
The distance and the lack of enforcement of foreign orders on the part of England should make it a non-problem. J.K. Rowling took her children from France to England, in violation of custody orders, and was never punished for it or denying the children access to their father. That was when she was leaving them alone in the apartment so that she could go down to the coffee shop to write, so...
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Ex-wife has custody (joint). She left Illinois recently, moved to Colorado. The child is in Illinois with grandmother (doesn't have legal custody). The Dad wants custody (lives in Texas where the papers are filed). Can he go get the girl and keep her?
Yes and no. He should file an emergency motion for temporary change of custody based on abandonment by the mother. He will likely need evidence. He can legally tape any conversations he has with the mother, without her knowing. He can only record calls he initiates to the grandmother, not calls from her.
http://www.rcfp.org/taping/
Once he has the order, he takes it to the Clerk of the...
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My daughters father who has never seen her filed for child custody because I am making him pay child support.He is married and his wife is making him do this to spite me.I take very good care of my child. Is it possible for him to get custody?
Is he filing for custody or joint custody with parental rights. Have you been denying him access, that being why he had to file? Over 60% of fathers are denied while the mother claims he didn't want to see the child.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AraaYVuyQIepo30IOIETnLfsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090215125106AAOZjwO
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I'm a father that's trying to get custody of my child that my Decease wife grandmother took. how do I go about getting my child from the great grandmother
A child can be willed to someone other than the ex-husband. I've seen many such cases, in the last 20 years, including cases where they were willed to boyfriends, not the dad. In states like Kansas, which still has a version of the Tender Years Doctrine, she could have taken the child even if you and the mother were still together. Or is that the case here? I note you don't say...
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Can a judge rule my childs father custody without a paternity test? And if i get child support does his father have to see his son? if so how often?
If you're getting child support, you acknowledge he's the father, and he has a right to file for parental rights and access. Properly, that should be 50% of the time. Or more if your intention is to violate the orders. But, why punish your child like that. Watch this.
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What type of rules apply for child support of a second child from a second marriage if I am about to get a divorce. I pay child support to my 1st wife for one child. I have a second child with my 2nd wife and we may be getting a divorce. What rules apply?
Some states allow for modification when there's another dependent child.
Child Support Calculator
http://www.alllaw.com/calculators/Childsupport/
Child Support Laws - At What Age Does Child Support Stop?
http://www.child-support-collections.com/child-support-laws.html
Now, how did you screw up a second marriage? How about fixing it?
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I'm a father that's trying to get custody of my child that my Decease wife grandmother took. how do I go about getting my child from the great grandmother?
I’ve been a Father’s Rights Advocate for 20 years.
She can will the child to anyone, including a boyfriend. I've seen many such cases. You will never to challenge the custody. Now, in states like Kansas, they have a Tender Years law allows for the maternal grandmother to take a young child, in the event of the death of the mother, even in cases where the marriage is...
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If my wife commits adultry, does this have any bearing on getting a divorce or how does it affect me in getting child custody?
It has little affect on the divorce, but custody is a different issue. In and of itself it may not be a deciding factor, but as a part of combined evidence as a whole, it may tip the balance.
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I’ve been a Father’s Rights Advocate for 20 years.
Many think the courts are rigged against dads, but in reality, it is more...
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My partner divorced for 2 yrs,we have been together for 2yrs,briefly split for 3 months& he moved in with a bunnyboiler, basically the x wife hates me & to infuriate things more she wont let him see kids & takes them round BB house,what are his rights?
For 20 years I've worked with divorced and single fathers
Part of the problem with getting visitation enforced is knowing what to do to prove your case, and how to remind the judge of their responsibilities. Let me start with the judge.
Always take people with you to court who are not there to testify. Make sure they are sitting where the judge can see them, each equipped with a...
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I have 2 children with my ex and we were never married. He is petitioning legitimation for more rights. I allow them to spend weekends with him. He tells me there's a lot of wear and tear on his vehicle and if I want child support to bring my kids to him
You can object to this, but do you want to do that to your children?
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If my cheating spouse brings boyfriend around my 3 kids prior to divorce and before they know of divorce and spends night with him while children are there what affects does that have on me getting custody? What affects could that have on the kids?
That would depend on the judge. Document it. Also, consider writing a letter stating your objections.
Sign it and make three copies. Mail the original Certified Mail and the other with Delivery Confirmation (75¢ + postage). If she rejects the one, she still receives the other. Whether the Certified Mail confirmation card or the Certified letter comes back, attach it unopened to a...
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In nys does child support stop on the childs 18th birthday if they are not going to college?
Generally, the obligation ends when the child reaches 21 years of age. A child over the age of 21 will also automatically be ineligible for child support if that child is removed from disability status by a court order.
http://www.child-support-collections.com/support_laws/new-york-child-support-law.html
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I am 16 & pregnant, i want to move in with my boyfriend. my house is not a good house to raise a baby,my boyfriends house is much safer & can provide alot more. what can i do?
Give the child a normal life through adoption.
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In the State of Texas under domestic violence if the State has charged you will the charges be dropped if the couple gets married
No, it's mandatory that the man be charged and prosecuted, even if it's obvious she lied. There's a COPS episode from five years ago that showed that in a San Antonio case. Though the male officer believed the woman, the female officer found that the bruises were the size of her own hands and neighbors, which the male officer did bother to interview, said she was the abuser and...
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Can a father in college be put on child support even when he still is not supporting his child?
He can be ordered to quit school and get a job, but he will still have no legal rights to the child. Only Arizona has any laws that assume the shacking up man has any rights to the resulting shackee. Until a court rules otherwise, the shackee's mother has sole custody.
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My son and his girlfriend have a baby and they live in Florida. She is legally married still. DCF took her away, my son is not considered her father until after the divorce is final. He has no rights, please advise
He wouldn't have any rights even if she were divorced. Only Arizona grants men who shacked up and produced a shackee any assumed rights to the child.
As a single man, you have NO ASSUMED RIGHTS to the child. Watch the movie trailer at the link below about a single father
Get an order enter forcing a DNA test, unless one has already been done.
DO NOT PAY ANY KIND OF SUPPORT FOR...
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How old do u have to be to decide if u want to live with your mum or dad?
A Child's Choice: What Is The Right Age For A Child To Choose Which Parent To Live With?
http://cabaraoke.newsvine.com/_news/2008/12/01/2165344-a-childs-choice-what-is-the-right-age-for-a-child-to-choose-which-parent-to-live-with
The child can demand Joint Custody of them, and not the other way around.
They can be told that the children need to remain in the home and each parent...
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Why would the child support agency put a levy on my bank acct for back child support even though I am paying? I still have a family to support other than that child...
They shouldn't as long as you're making at least 1½ child support payments per month.
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How can i go about having Kansas assume jurisdiction over my Child Cutody (joint) to file a parenting plan without having to hire an attorney that I can't afford? We all now live in Kansas for years now...
Take a current, certified copy from the Clerk of the Court in the original jurisdiction, to the Clerk of the Court in the county of residence and register it. Child support enforcement will also need to be notified in the county where the payee lives.
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I live in the US, after a divorce can I move to Australia with my kids? What can their father do?
I would help him file an injunction to stop you or get the returned.
All Children Deserve Two Parents
Georgia Supreme Court Chief Justice Leah Ward Sears has noted, children born to unmarried women and to those in cohabiting relationships “must often overcome increased risks of poverty, education failure, child abuse, delinquency, emotional distress and mental...
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I am thinking about getting a divorce and have 3 children with my husband. I'm wanting to move to Australia, do I have the right to take my kids with me and share custody with him, if he would allow it? If he wouldn't, what rights would I have?
Watch the video on whether you should.
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If i can prove to the courts there was a verbal agreement on visitation, and now she has broken the agreement can this be used against her in court?
You know what they say about verbal contracts. Here's what a single father should do.
As a single man, you have NO ASSUMED RIGHTS to the child. Watch the movie trailer at the link below about a single father
Get an order enter forcing a DNA test, unless one has already been done.
DO NOT PAY ANY KIND OF SUPPORT FOR THE CHILD UNTIL A DNA TEST IS DONE, AS IT ACKNOWLEDGES YOUR...
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My son ran away from his mother's house and she made him come home. She took him to the police station, now he has a court hearing, and the cop said he is going to go to jail. He is 17, can he go to jail for running away?
Have you considered going for custody?
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I’ve been a Father’s Rights Advocate for 20 years.
Many think the courts are rigged against dads, but in reality, it is more about attorneys unwilling or lacking the knowledge to truly fight for the father's rights. This is why it is important to learn how to interview and...
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My kids father hasnt seen her since june 14, 2007. He has court ordered visitation but it was progressive b/c he disappeared from her life for over a year. He stopped going to the visitation office, they terminated visitation. can i say he cant see her?
Men, particular those well under 30, often have trouble with fatherhood. It scares the hell out of them. This is because they don't reach full mental, emotional, and hormonal maturity until age 30. Females reach it at age 24.
This is why it's not a good idea to have children, cohabit, or get married under these age. For a young father, it some times takes time for them to...
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Kids grandma has court ord.visitation w/them,my son's been talking to a theropist,it came out that she was negleting him,i filed a modification in family court with a letter from theropist about the neglect,judge dismissed it wit prejudice,can he do that
Yes when evidence shows that you had been manipulating the children to say these things, and especially if you had be doctor shopping until you found one that agreed with you. These practices are very common with mothers who object to their children having access to their paternal family. It's called parental alienation.
Mom Loses Custody For Alienating Dad
Ruling a 'wake-up...
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One woman called Dr. Laura a couple of days ago and said that while she was parked, sitting in her car and talking to another woman in the passenger seat, her four year old started jumping and cracked the car's windshield with his head. Do you buy that?
Oh God Yes. My oldest, at age two did that in 1977. After that, she kept trying to see what else she could break with her head, including her uncle's jaw. How that kids survived to the woman she is today, I have no idea.
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Do you have a pet name for yourself? If so, what is it? If not, what would it be?
My customers called me Papa Bear
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I am a female, is there anyway i can get my sex drive to go higher? ive tried everything to help me "get in the mood" for my husband, but it just seems like my body never coperates
Have you tried in the morning?
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Medical studies show sex is best in the morning and it improves your health.
http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/woman/article899012.ece
The end of the day is a bad time for fun. Your body is at its lowest levels of energy and oxygen. Your immune system has been in active...
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I am a gay guy living with my partner we have been together for 4 months now. sexually i think my sex drive is much more highert then his. we have on average like 10 days without having sex there was one month when we didnt have sex at all.
Have you tried in the morning?
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Medical studies show sex is best in the morning and it improves your health.
http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/woman/article899012.ece
The end of the day is a bad time for fun. Your body is at its lowest levels of energy and oxygen. Your immune system has been in active...
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I am seeing someone and recently we have been spending a lot of time together, and really enjoying each other, however the sex has slowed down alot. Is it ok if he wanted it 3/4 times a day and now for a few days he's not that bothered? He's 23, I'm 26.
The norm is interpretive due to differences in the affects of a work day or week. Since male reproductive abilities is linked directly sexual abilities, stress and oxygen depletion from a day's work affects their abilities. In females, sex and reproduction are separate.
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Medical studies show sex is best...
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What is a realistic idea of most men's sex drive? Are my expections too high or did I just happen to find the only two guys (the only two I've ever been with) that can go weeks without it... :-/
The norm is interpretive due to differences in the affects of a work day or week. Since male reproductive abilities is linked directly sexual abilities, stress and oxygen depletion from a day's work affects their abilities. In females, sex and reproduction are separate.
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Medical studies show sex is best...
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Poll: How often do you and your significant other have sex? I used to think sex with my BF was limited to the 2x/wk we saw each other. But we're now living together and it's still only 1-2x/wk. How often is the norm for most couples?
The norm is interpretive due to differences in the affects of a work day or week. Since male reproductive abilities is linked directly sexual abilities, stress and oxygen depletion from a day's work affects their abilities. In females, sex and reproduction are separate.
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Medical studies show sex is best...
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Do men have typically more sex drive than women?
No, but they are more affected by the stress of the day. They perform better in the morning.
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Medical studies show sex is best in the morning and it improves your health.
http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/woman/article899012.ece
The end of the day is a bad time for fun. Your body is at its lowest levels...
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I have been with my bf for 2.5yrs&we moved in 2gether after only 4mths,since this time our sex life has gone downhill to only once or twice a mth now.No passion ever. i have tried talking to him, he always says things will change&he doesnt want to talk?
Have you tried in the morning?
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Medical studies show sex is best in the morning and it improves your health.
http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/woman/article899012.ece
The end of the day is a bad time for fun. Your body is at its lowest levels of energy and oxygen. Your immune system has been in active...
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How long could you live without a life partener?
Females have the same average lifespan, married or single. Married men live 20 years longer than single men.
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I have sugested a sex night to my husband (Wednesdays). This is to be a "must shower" day, forget about the PC & TV. I've done the spray-on tan, bought a little something to wear & even got edible lotion. What do I do or say if he claims to be too tired?
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Medical studies show sex is best in the morning and it improves your health.
http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/woman/article899012.ece
The end of the day is a bad time for fun. Your body is at its lowest levels of energy and oxygen. Your immune system has been in active mode for at least 12 hours, and the...
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Is the world's intelligence decreasing or is it's common sense?
Intelligence? Maybe, as the people having the most children has the average lower intelligence. As for common sense, that has pretty much been the same for millenniums.
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When people get to Heaven, will they be greeted by The Trinity singing "we are deities if you please, we are deities if you don't please"?
Or neither. They will just sleep in the grave until the resurrection.
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My dad is getting married and he already moved in with is girlfriend and im really jealous of my soon to be step brother and i dont know what to do? please help me!!!! :(
Forty years ago I didn’t get along with my stepfather. I wrote this about him in 2005.
http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20050619
Here’s what needs to be discussed on stepfamilies.
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When...
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How do you deal with a step-son who does not like my wife of 15 years? He is constantly making trouble for us and it is starting to interfere with our marriage.
Forty years ago I didn’t get along with my stepfather. I wrote this about him in 2005.
http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20050619
Here’s what needs to be discussed on stepfamilies.
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When...
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What will I do, i can't help myself get jealous with my stepdaughter same as her,she was jealous at me too.i've been married for almost 5 months but our marriage was getting worst because of this problem....how can i fix this problem? what will i do?
Forty years ago I didn’t get along with my stepfather. I wrote this about him in 2005.
http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20050619
Here’s what needs to be discussed on stepfamilies.
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When...
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I have this problem with my husband and my stepdaughter...maybe i'm so hyprocrate but i'm so jealous with my stepdaughter...its just that my husband have plenty of time on her than I.We argue everyday regarding that matter...what wil i do?pls help me....
Forty years ago I didn’t get along with my stepfather. I wrote this about him in 2005.
http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20050619
Here’s what needs to be discussed on stepfamilies.
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When...
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I have been married for a year and have a 3 y.o. My hubby is more strick w/ my son than w/ his and my son now lives w/ his dad. My son does have problems, but my hubby obviously plays favorites. I don't want my 3 y.o. to go thru a divorce. What 2 do?
Forty years ago I didn’t get along with my stepfather. I wrote this about him in 2005.
http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20050619
Here’s what needs to be discussed on stepfamilies.
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When...
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Is anyone in a mixed marriage with his/kids, her/kids and has a completely happy home with few quarrels?
Forty years ago I didn’t get along with my stepfather. I wrote this about him in 2005.
http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20050619
Here’s what needs to be discussed on stepfamilies.
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When...
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If you are in a blended family, does your spouse play favorites with their own kids?
Forty years ago I didn’t get along with my stepfather. I wrote this about him in 2005.
http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20050619
Here’s what needs to be discussed on stepfamilies.
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When...
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I have been married for 2.5 years to the love of my life, we have a 4 month old son and I have 2 kids from the past. My 8 and 7 year olds are autistic and have behavioral issues but are mentally 3 year olds. How can we agree on discipline?
Forty years ago I didn’t get along with my stepfather. I wrote this about him in 2005.
http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20050619
Here’s what needs to be discussed on stepfamilies.
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When...
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Is it okay to teach a kid to call another man daddy if the child is only 1 years old but never been around there biological dad.
Forty years ago I didn’t get along with my stepfather. I wrote this about him in 2005.
http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20050619
Here’s what needs to be discussed on stepfamilies.
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When...
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My step-daughter is coming over for the first time tonight she is 14 what are some things we could do that will be an ice breaker?
Forty years ago I didn’t get along with my stepfather. I wrote this about him in 2005.
http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20050619
Here’s what needs to be discussed on stepfamilies.
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When...
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Are you a step-parent or child?
Forty years ago I didn’t get along with my stepfather. I wrote this about him in 2005.
http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20050619
Here’s what needs to be discussed on stepfamilies.
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When...
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Are you a step parent and if so how involved are you in your step child's life. In otherwords if it your responsiblity to do most of the rearing or does your spouse since he/she is the parent?
Forty years ago I didn’t get along with my stepfather. I wrote this about him in 2005.
http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20050619
Here’s what needs to be discussed on stepfamilies.
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When...
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According to my stepfather, my stepbrother walks on water and his son levitates...how do i handle this if my own mothers judgements are based on her husbands?
Forty years ago I didn’t get along with my stepfather. I wrote this about him in 2005.
http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20050619
Here’s what needs to be discussed on stepfamilies.
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When...
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My boyfriends daughter is causing us to argue he just started get n her once he found out she was his she is okay with my kids n i, one minute n then ungrateful the next he does not correct her, he wants her to move with us n i raise her she has a mom,
Forty years ago I didn’t get along with my stepfather. I wrote this about him in 2005.
http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20050619
Here’s what needs to be discussed on stepfamilies.
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When...
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My step kids won't except me, They don't have much to do with their dad because they see me as being in the way, I feel like giving up because I don't want to see my husband hurt but I love him too. What should I do
Forty years ago I didn’t get along with my stepfather. I wrote this about him in 2005.
http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20050619
Here’s what needs to be discussed on stepfamilies.
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When...
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Need advice ! Is it only natural for a step-parent to feel different about their own children than they do their step-children or is it a reason to leave a marriage?
Forty years ago I didn’t get along with my stepfather. I wrote this about him in 2005.
http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20050619
Here’s what needs to be discussed on stepfamilies.
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When...
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How do you make blended families work ? Everyone feels like they're not being treated right. Can't we all just get along?
Forty years ago I didn’t get along with my stepfather. I wrote this about him in 2005.
http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20050619
Here’s what needs to be discussed on stepfamilies.
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When...
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My b/f says he wants to spend the rest of his life with me but then tells me that my relationship with his kids isn't where HE wants it to be. He wants me to love them like they're mine, which I do, is he just dragging his feet?
Forty years ago I didn’t get along with my stepfather. I wrote this about him in 2005.
http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20050619
Here’s what needs to be discussed on stepfamilies.
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When...
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I can't handle my boyfriends 7 yr old son he gets whatever he wants is allowed to act however he has no respect for me or my eight year old son and his father says he is so much fun when we are not around Should I walk away or what should I do
Forty years ago I didn’t get along with my stepfather. I wrote this about him in 2005.
http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20050619
Here’s what needs to be discussed on stepfamilies.
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When...
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Does anyone have a stepchild who has become disrespectful of her stepparent & the parent like overnight?
Forty years ago I didn’t get along with my stepfather. I wrote this about him in 2005.
http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20050619
Here’s what needs to be discussed on stepfamilies.
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When...
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What do you believe the boundary is for a step-parent to reprimand your child?
Forty years ago I didn’t get along with my stepfather. I wrote this about him in 2005.
http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20050619
Here’s what needs to be discussed on stepfamilies.
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When...
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Step-moms: do you often feel left out of the family?
Forty years ago I didn’t get along with my stepfather. I wrote this about him in 2005.
http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20050619
Here’s what needs to be discussed on stepfamilies.
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When...
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Is it okay for your kids to call another man daddy if there biological daddy has never been in there life. Would it be disrespectful to there biological daddy or okay since he's not around?
Forty years ago I didn’t get along with my stepfather. I wrote this about him in 2005.
http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20050619
Here’s what needs to be discussed on stepfamilies.
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When...
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How do you deal with a step child that hates your guts?
Forty years ago I didn’t get along with my stepfather. I wrote this about him in 2005.
http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20050619
Here’s what needs to be discussed on stepfamilies.
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When...
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My husband has 2boys & 1girl(age 12) from exwife.They are close-knit family,show affection with hugs, kisses.I m not comfortable with behavior of my man &his daughter.She follows him to other room, then I see they hug&kiss. I m worried&jealous.What to do?
Here’s what needs to be discussed on stepfamilies.
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When the marriage will create a step-family, this is especially important.
People considering marriage often have different ideas of what they expect from...
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My husband has a 2 & 3 year old. They are beautiful little girls. But, I am jealous of them b/c they get all his attention when their down. Is it wrong that i'm jealous? I'm going to stay at my mom's tonight to think it over and get some space.Is that ok?
Forty years ago I didn’t get along with my stepfather. I wrote this about him in 2005.
http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20050619
Here’s what needs to be discussed on stepfamilies.
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When...
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I hate my step mom, she is evil.What can I do so that my dad would break up with her?
Forty years ago I didn’t get along with my stepfather. I wrote this about him in 2005.
http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20050619
Here’s what needs to be discussed on stepfamilies.
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When...
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What do i do my mom had just died like 2 months ago and my dad found a new girl and she is my new step mom and he always treat me like i am dirt
Forty years ago I didn’t get along with my stepfather. I wrote this about him in 2005.
http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20050619
Here’s what needs to be discussed on stepfamilies.
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When...
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Can you ever feel the same way about a stepchild as you do your own children?
Forty years ago I didn’t get along with my stepfather. I wrote this about him in 2005.
http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20050619
Here’s what needs to be discussed on stepfamilies.
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When...
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Why am I always getting left out? My stepdad never takes me anywhere and he doesn't tell when he's leaving so I'm always stuck alone in the house while my little stepsister goes out shopping and crap! Not fair!
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When the marriage will create a step-family, this is especially important.
People considering marriage often have different ideas of what they expect from each other. Discussing expectations prior to taking that big...
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How do you get on with your new teenage step children?
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When the marriage will create a step-family, this is especially important.
People considering marriage often have different ideas of what they expect from each other. Discussing expectations prior to taking that big...
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How do I get out of this dilemma without a divorce!? My stepson (20 with no regular job) wants to more or less move in with us in a 2 bedr unit. Husband thinks OK but won't upgrade size of home. Husband likely to use home deposit money to finance sons edu
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When the marriage will create a step-family, this is especially important.
People considering marriage often have different ideas of what they expect from each other. Discussing expectations prior to taking that big...
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Are there specific qualities you would want in a step mom? Is one of them that she makes your dad really happy? Please give me some examples of good and bad step mothering so I can avoid being a bad one.
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When the marriage will create a step-family, this is especially important.
People considering marriage often have different ideas of what they expect from each other. Discussing expectations prior to taking that big...
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Should I be upset w. my hubby when he refuses to discipline him? He's my step son & I say things when his dad isn't around, but his dad always tells me to handle it. He rarely gets on his case for slacking.
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When the marriage will create a step-family, this is especially important.
People considering marriage often have different ideas of what they expect from each other. Discussing expectations prior to taking that big...
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Am I the only one to get wound up with having to put up with my husbands 16 year old daughter?
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When the marriage will create a step-family, this is especially important.
People considering marriage often have different ideas of what they expect from each other. Discussing expectations prior to taking that big...
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What should I do about my bratty step daughter? Her and my son do not get along
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When the marriage will create a step-family, this is especially important.
People considering marriage often have different ideas of what they expect from each other. Discussing expectations prior to taking that big...
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What do i do when by boyfriends teenage daughter screams at me. and boyfriend does nothing about it.
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When the marriage will create a step-family, this is especially important.
People considering marriage often have different ideas of what they expect from each other. Discussing expectations prior to taking that big...
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How do I let my teenage step-son's talking back roll off my back? He doesn't do it to me but can be really disrespectful to his dad. It's hard for me to listen to. I know it's not my place to get involved. How can I disconnect so that I don't get mad?
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When the marriage will create a step-family, this is especially important.
People considering marriage often have different ideas of what they expect from each other. Discussing expectations prior to taking that big...
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How much time is normal for my husband to spend with his newly found daughter? We have two young babies together and both work fulltime. It is about 2 times a week now but she wants more and wants one on one only. I feel a bit put on...
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When the marriage will create a step-family, this is especially important.
People considering marriage often have different ideas of what they expect from each other. Discussing expectations prior to taking that big...
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I Love My husband to death he has a previous child from his last marriage but i just wish he was never born i feel terrible but no matter what, I cant stand it when hes here. Does that make me an evil person? And what can i do to not feel this way?
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When the marriage will create a step-family, this is especially important.
People considering marriage often have different ideas of what they expect from each other. Discussing expectations prior to taking that big...
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My 15yr old son is disrespectful to my wife and tends to lie. He also seems to take pleasure in seeing others suffer when stressed or hurt. I have only had contact/custody of him for the last 2yrs and no disciplinary actions are effective. What to do?
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When the marriage will create a step-family, this is especially important.
People considering marriage often have different ideas of what they expect from each other. Discussing expectations prior to taking that big...
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Me and my husband confront almost everyday.it's because of his daughter.i love my husband but i can't love/accept her daughter.maybe i am too selfish or what, but i can't control myself being jealous at her especially if he give her much attention than I.
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When the marriage will create a step-family, this is especially important.
People considering marriage often have different ideas of what they expect from each other. Discussing expectations prior to taking that big...
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Why do my stepdaughter tells her father what to do and he does it. when she say jump he jump. what can i do about this.
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When the marriage will create a step-family, this is especially important.
People considering marriage often have different ideas of what they expect from each other. Discussing expectations prior to taking that big...
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My husband treats his kids differently than mine. He seems to be resentful. What do I do?
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When the marriage will create a step-family, this is especially important.
People considering marriage often have different ideas of what they expect from each other. Discussing expectations prior to taking that big...
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I have been in a relationship for 2 years with a single father. I keep going round and round with the decision if I can become a stepmom. I sometimes enjoy spending time with the child, and there are other times I can't stand her. What do I do?
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When the marriage will create a step-family, this is especially important.
People considering marriage often have different ideas of what they expect from each other. Discussing expectations prior to taking that big...
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Ive met a girl that has 2 lovely kids, i really like them and there mum, but the kids still have contact with there dad and im worried i'll be 2nd best even though they see me as a father figure
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When the marriage will create a step-family, this is especially important.
People considering marriage often have different ideas of what they expect from each other. Discussing expectations prior to taking that big...
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How to keep my stepmother at a reasonable distance (ie very far from me) without moving? Thank you to answer: my mental health is in danger!
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When the marriage will create a step-family, this is especially important.
People considering marriage often have different ideas of what they expect from each other. Discussing expectations prior to taking that big...
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Why am I always annoyed by my step daughter acting bratty and spoiled?
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When the marriage will create a step-family, this is especially important.
People considering marriage often have different ideas of what they expect from each other. Discussing expectations prior to taking that big...
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My mom just married a new guy. His family treats my syblings and I badly. They act like we dont belong. Does anyone know why they would do that?
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When the marriage will create a step-family, this is especially important.
People considering marriage often have different ideas of what they expect from each other. Discussing expectations prior to taking that big...
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When do parents have time for sex? I'm in a new marriage and our sex life is suffering because I'm constantly afraid that the 14 year old will hear the bed. Ideas? How do you do it?
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When the marriage will create a step-family, this is especially important.
People considering marriage often have different ideas of what they expect from each other. Discussing expectations prior to taking that big...
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What not to say to your step children?
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When the marriage will create a step-family, this is especially important.
People considering marriage often have different ideas of what they expect from each other. Discussing expectations prior to taking that big...
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I have a stepdaughter which is 18 yrs old and she will not leave the house unless she is going to school. me and husband needs some privacy time mainly on weekend what do we do?
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When the marriage will create a step-family, this is especially important.
People considering marriage often have different ideas of what they expect from each other. Discussing expectations prior to taking that big...
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My ex G/F has stopped me seeing my kids and blocks my attempts to phone them or text ;ie at xmas ect. legally i am meant to have them at weekends. She has told me she is marrying her new partner and he intends to addopt the kids. Can they do this.
Generally, not without your permission, but in states like Missouri, if she can block your contact for six months, than yes she can.
For 20 years I've worked with divorced and single fathers
Part of the problem with getting visitation enforced is knowing what to do to prove your case, and how to remind the judge of their responsibilities. Let me start with the judge.
Always take...
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Do you like your step-parent ? why or why not?
I wrote this about my own stepfather.
http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20050619
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When the marriage will create a step-family, this is especially important.
People considering marriage often have...
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Is that ok to married someone with children?
Is that ok to stil stay married eventhou the step children don't like me?
I wrote this about my own stepfather.
http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20050619
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When the marriage will create a step-family, this is especially important.
People considering marriage often have...
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How do I handle mouthy step-children, when my spouse does not correct them when they speak harshly to me? I've tried to correct them myself and my husband tells me I'm to sensitive. I'm not, they're very rude...
I wrote this about my own stepfather.
http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20050619
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When the marriage will create a step-family, this is especially important.
People considering marriage often have...
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How do you get on with your Step-family...?
I wrote this about my own stepfather.
http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20050619
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When the marriage will create a step-family, this is especially important.
People considering marriage often have...
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Do you think it's appropriate for the kids to call the second wife 'Step-Mom' when the real Mom is still alive?
I wrote this about my own stepfather.
http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20050619
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When the marriage will create a step-family, this is especially important.
People considering marriage often have...
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I feel really down when my step daughter is at our house at the weekends. Im only 22 and All my boyfriend wants to do in his spare time is see his little one. I would be exactly the same but I find it really hard. Am i selfish.
I wrote this about my own stepfather.
http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20050619
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When the marriage will create a step-family, this is especially important.
People considering marriage often have...
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Are you a step-parent or a step-child? Are there any problems in your family?
I wrote this about my own stepfather.
http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20050619
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When the marriage will create a step-family, this is especially important.
People considering marriage often have...
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If you grew up with stepparents did you get along and what do you wish they did differently?
This is the best reference material I found on the subject.
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When the marriage will create a step-family, this is especially important.
People considering marriage often have different ideas of what they expect from...
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Would you make a good step-parent, or a wicked one?
LIVING IN STEP-FAMILIES: PRE-MARITAL EXPECTATIONS
Before any couple "ties the knot" they should talk about what they expect from each other and from their marriage. When the marriage will create a step-family, this is especially important.
People considering marriage often have different ideas of what they expect from each other. Discussing expectations prior to taking that big...
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Dr. Laura says we need stay at home moms but doesn't that affect advancements for women?
Advance all you want, but if you have children a parent needs to stay home with them. It can just as easily be dad, but women become very spiteful supporting a stay at home dad, even though more children are in the care of stay at home dads than all the children in day care.
A good example of just such a spite woman was Marcia Clark, the Los Angeles County Assistant Prosecutor for the OJ...
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What do you think about Dr. Laura?
I've known her since 1993, meaning I've been on her show, radio and TV, in Los Angeles. She can be aggravating, but that's the Jewish Mother in her. Her first and primary concern are the children. It is a statistical fact that children of single and divorced parents overall do worse than those of intact, married couples. And if you ask what about intact cohabiting couples,...
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Why do so many people dislike Dr. Laura? Who is she? What's she done?
I've known her since 1993, meaning I've been on her show, radio and TV, in Los Angeles. She can be aggravating, but that's the Jewish Mother in her. Her first and primary concern are the children. It is a statistical fact that children of single and divorced parents overall do worse than those of intact, married couples. And if you ask what about intact cohabiting couples,...
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Dr. Laura Schlesinger says that when a couple divorces and have minor kids each one should not even try to start a relationship with anyone until the kids are 18 years old. "It is too traumatic for the kids". Isn't that quite unrealistic?
I've worked in father's rights issues, most full time, for 20 years. Realistic or not, it is the best option, which is why I promote Bird Nest Custody.
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I'm curious as to what the public's view of Dr. Laura Slessinger is...Do you agree with her outlook on things? Just curious.
That a rather broad question considering te variation in our society.
I've known her since 1993, meaning I've been on her show, radio and TV, in Los Angeles. She can be aggravating, but that's the Jewish Mother in her. Her first and primary concern are the children.
I do agree with most of her views, such as single parenthood. It is a statistical fact that children of...
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What is your opinion of Dr. Laura?
I've known her since 1993, meaning I've been on her show, radio and TV, in Los Angeles. She can be aggravating, but that's the Jewish Mother in her. Her first and primary concern are the children. She comes down hard on everyone, each of which thinks they are being singled out as a group or individual. She dropped an anvil on me when I let my work get ahead of my marriage to my...
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