http://www.answerbag.com/profile/9760 New Answerbag answers from Anonymous Wed, 30 May 2012 15:16:31 -0700 Wed, 30 May 2012 15:16:31 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10015 I'm seeing this person -- she's 21, and I'm 18. Is that 3 year age difference a big deal?<br /><br />Finally a question in this section that I can say no there is not a big deal. Between 18-21 most people are on or around the same levels of maturity and will continue to grow psychologically at similar rates. Usually an age difference of around 2,3,or 4 years is not a problem. If you were 18 and... Tue, 26 Oct 2004 16:45:53 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10015 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10014 My best friend who is 16 just started dating my cousin who is 26. I'm very concerned about this... am I over-reacting?<br /><br />NO YOU ARE NOT! Don&#039;t even try to convince her that it is wrong. Go directly to your parents, his and hers. If you try to talk to your best friend and cousin first, it could just cause more trouble to build up between the 3 of you. They will probably both be upset when they find out that you... Tue, 26 Oct 2004 16:32:06 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10014 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10013 What can I do to convince a 17 yr-old girl that her 36 yr-old boyfriend is not right for her?<br /><br />Explain to her that you want for her to be happy, to start with. Just so she knows that you aren&#039;t just trying to ruin it for her. Then explain that you are very concerned for her. Tell her that you think that she should be dating someone closer to her own age so that she will be able to... Tue, 26 Oct 2004 16:24:25 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10013 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10012 Is it out of the question for a 17 year old to be interested in or fall in love with a 23 year old?<br /><br />A 17 year old should be dating some one closer to their own age and maturity level, like a highschool friend. Some one who shares the same interests and concerns, like homework, chores, etc. A 23 year old should be too, like someone else who is out of highschool, is in the process of or has... Tue, 26 Oct 2004 16:01:27 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10012 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9987 The girl with whom my boyfriend had sex once is saying that she's pregnant by him. Her boyfriend is saying the baby is his. What should I do?<br /><br />I am assuming that they had sex before you got together? If not, dump him now and get out before it gets really hairy! Once that baby is born there is probably going to be a lot of trouble between the mom, and 2 potential fathers. Like paternity tests, etc. If he cheated you should get out now... Mon, 25 Oct 2004 16:41:04 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9987 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9986 My wife and my former best friend spent the day together recently. They both lied about it at first, then admitted it, but said they didn't have sex. Is this cheating? Can I trust her anymore?<br /><br />It shouldn&#039;t be considered cheating until she admits that she kissed him, or more, but I wouldn&#039;t trust her just yet. The best thing to do is sit down and talk to her and ask her what is going on, like if she feels that there are problems in your realtionship, is unhappy with the sex... Mon, 25 Oct 2004 16:22:00 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9986 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9984 I cheated on my boyfriend and I want to forget about the whole thing. I think it would do no good if I told my boyfriend but I don't want to be dishonest. Should I tell him?<br /><br />TELL HIM!!! Please tell your boyfriend, especially before you have sex with him again. I had a boyfriend who cheated on me (had sex) with another woman and then had sex with me again without telling me that he had cheated. I found out shortly after, from his friends little sister who happened to... Mon, 25 Oct 2004 14:43:50 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9984 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9983 I blacked out and don't remember kissing my ex right in front of my current girlfriend. My current girlfriend said it's not something she wants to break up over, but I'm devastated. How can I get over this and move on?<br /><br />Ask yourself, am I going to be a guy who always has fun living in the moment or is it more important to me to step back and think about the consequences? If you chose the first option, then you should probably break up with your current girlfriend and not even read any more of this because you... Mon, 25 Oct 2004 14:04:07 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9983 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9982 My three week-old spits up quite a bit after eating. He has gas, cries a lot and has watery, yellow stools. I have given him gas drops which gives him temporary relief. What could be wrong?<br /><br />It could be that he has an under developed digestive system. Take him to a pediatrician and suggest an MRI or exploratory. Mon, 25 Oct 2004 13:32:47 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9982 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9981 My cat tends to urinate or poop right next to the box, but not in it. What can I do?<br /><br />Some cats are really picky about the litter box being clean. I have a male cat who will do that if he thinks he is going to get anything on his paws. Try a scoopable litter and clean the box frequently to please her. If that does not work, try putting her in the box, hold her paws and make her... Mon, 25 Oct 2004 13:28:54 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9981 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9980 I shaved my head with a razor, and now my scalp is somewhat swollen and is very sore in back. When I turn my head, I can feel tightness. What can I do?<br /><br />It is probably what is called razor burn. Put some aloe vera gel on it and it should help. Next time you shave your head, make sure that you use a brand new razor blade, maybe even two, one for each side of your head. Also, you might purchase a shaving cream or gel that has aloe vera in it which... Mon, 25 Oct 2004 13:20:29 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9980 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9979 The engine in my car won't turn over. Besides the battery being dead, what could be wrong with it?<br /><br />It could be the starter, alternator or ignition switch, they all take part in starting the engine. Have it towed to an auto shop and tell them that your need to have these things checked out. Mon, 25 Oct 2004 13:13:03 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9979 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9978 If a bottle or can of soda was never opened, would it still taste the same 50 years later?<br /><br />It depends on the product and what type of preservatives are in it. Mon, 25 Oct 2004 13:10:58 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9978 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9977 I found a cat two days ago that had been hit by a car. She is eating and drinking a little and she purrs when I pick her up, but she is not pooping. What should I do?<br /><br />It is possible that the accident may have caused damage to her instestines or internal organs, like a blockage. If that is the case than you would have to take her in for surgery which can be very expensive. Other than that, it might be that she was starved previously. If she was then her stomach... Mon, 25 Oct 2004 13:04:12 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9977 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9976 My teeth are so sensitive that I can't even get them cleaned. Neither Sensodyne nor ControlRX helps. I brush twice daily with a soft toothbrush and floss every day. What can I do?<br /><br />Ask your dentist for a prescription floride tooth paste. It can really help to strengthen the enamel on your teeth which in turn provides more protection for the nerves, causing you to experience less sensitivity. Mon, 25 Oct 2004 12:50:49 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9976 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9975 Is it harmful to a child's psyche to throw up in front of them?<br /><br />It can be, but that depends. If you have the flu or something and explain to the child that you are simply ill like they some times get and that you will get better, then they will usually understand and will want to help you get better. If you explain that it is because you are pregnant and... Mon, 25 Oct 2004 12:46:17 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9975 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9867 My area has very hard tap water, and it killed my fish. What can I do to keep this from happening?<br /><br />The most convenient thing to do would be buy a water filtration system. Britta makes one that works great at eliminating bacteria, polutants, chlorine, etc. All you have to do is put the pitcher under the tap and fill it up, there is a filter inside that cleans the water as you fill. Then you can... Thu, 21 Oct 2004 13:56:06 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9867 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9864 I can feel something just below my left ribs. Sometimes I also feel a burning sensation there. Is this cause for concern?<br /><br />Yes, especially if it is painful. Ribs cover not only your lungs, but also other organs like your intestines, liver, kidneys etc. It is possible that you have an infection in one of them. You could also possibly have a hernia (tear) or cyst (growth) in there. Talk to a doctor and tell them what... Thu, 21 Oct 2004 13:45:31 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9864 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9824 For a young person, what is the best way to start saving for retirement?<br /><br />Opening a savings account seperate from your normal account would be a good place to start. Every time that you get a little &quot;extra&quot; money, put it in there and leave it alone. Once you have at least a $1000 or more in there you can take it out and put it into a credit deposite. You... Wed, 20 Oct 2004 11:01:50 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9824 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9823 Who are 'hermits'?<br /><br />They are people who generally stick to themselves (avoid social contact) and stay inside of their homes except for when they have to go out. You could compare the word hermit to the word loner. Wed, 20 Oct 2004 10:38:54 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9823 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9821 Are there any persons in the world who have no fingerprints?<br /><br />I do not believe so naturally, but there are criminals who burn or cut off their fingerprints to leave less evidence at crime scenes. Wed, 20 Oct 2004 09:14:57 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9821 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9820 What are some home remedies for making teeth whiter?<br /><br />Using actual baking soda with your tooth paste can help quite a bit and it is probably the least expensive way to do it. You can of course by bleaching kits at about any grocery/drug store, but they can be expensive. Wed, 20 Oct 2004 09:11:57 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9820 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9811 I have heard that different brokers charge different office fees. What fees are normal, and which are negotiable?<br /><br />All broker fees are negotiable, if the broker chooses to negotiate with you. Brokers represent many companies that they can place you with. They use the information that you provide them with to find the company that would be best for you, then they act as the middle man for you, writing up the... Tue, 19 Oct 2004 14:28:42 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9811 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9804 My tongue often dries up while I perform oral sex on my girlfriend. It is irritating for both of us. What can I do?<br /><br />The friction can often cause that to happen, so don&#039;t feel bad. There are things that can help! You can actually purchase flavored massage oils and gels that you can use on the vagina, at just about any sex/lingerie shop. Just a little dab gets the job done right because water/saliva... Tue, 19 Oct 2004 13:41:15 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9804 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9736 My face is swollen as I am using steroids for some vision problem. How can I reduce the swelling?<br /><br />You might try using pamprin or midol which are generally made for women to use during PMS. Steroids make your body retain water and that is probably why you are swollen. One of the uses for for midol and pamprin is to reduce swelling caused by water retention. Mon, 18 Oct 2004 13:29:50 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9736 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9703 Why do I turn red whenever I speak to somebody? How can I prevent it?<br /><br />Redness or blushing usually stems from being nervous or embarrassed. It sounds like you might have a nervous or social anxiety disorder. Ask yourself if the redness is more common when you are speaking with someone that you DON&#039;T know well, then it is when you are speaking with someone that... Sat, 16 Oct 2004 10:49:29 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9703 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9701 I'm 22. Can I increase my height through food and exercise?<br /><br />My older brother (age 30) eats healthy foods and excercises and he kept growing taller until he was about 24. But my younger brother (age 25) stopped growing taller at around 19 though he eats healthy and excercises, too. I think it is really a matter of what your own DNA/genetics have... Sat, 16 Oct 2004 10:38:48 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9701 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9700 Is antibacterial soap harmful?<br /><br />It can be harmful if used too often, like as a substitute to normal bar soap or body washes which mainly wash away dead skin, oil, sweat and dirt build up. Not only does antibacterial soap wipe out the above and bad bacteria, but it also wipes out bacteria that your body is used to having around,... Sat, 16 Oct 2004 10:18:48 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9699 Is it safe to lick the flaps of a large quantity of envelopes during one sitting?<br /><br />I agree with mp116&#039;s answer about the possibilities. But, you can also buy these little bottles with a screw on cap that has a little sponge on the end of it, specifically used for sealing envelopes at Staples, Office Depot, or just about any place with office supplies to avoid taking the... Sat, 16 Oct 2004 10:01:13 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9699 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9668 My boyfriend's mother is openly hostile toward me. We can't figure out why and have asked her point blank with no success. What can we do?<br /><br />I know it hurts to be in your situation because I have been there myself. My fiance&#039;s mom used to hate me because she was jealous that I am the #1 woman in his life now, even though I was always totally nice to her and the rest of the family. Jealousy is usually the reason a person does not... Thu, 14 Oct 2004 14:00:52 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9668 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9641 A 17 year-old girl I know is dating a 36 year-old man. Is this something to be concerned about?<br /><br />I would have to say yes. A 36 year old man is usually ready to settle down and build a family (have children), and if he is interested in someone who he is old enough to be the father of, than he is probably pretty immature for someone his age and the girl would probably mature beyond him within... Wed, 13 Oct 2004 12:06:50 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9641 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9640 Is it true that elephants never forget?<br /><br />I&#039;m sure they probably do eventually, but they do have extremely good memory. Elephants are one of the most compassionate creatures in the animal kingdom, and they even mourn the death of family members. Wed, 13 Oct 2004 11:54:43 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9640 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9639 If you are dealt a pair of tens, jacks, queens, or kings, and the dealer is showing a 6, should you split the pair?<br /><br />Yes. Most likely the dealer is going to bust on 6 or lower, so if you split 10&#039;s you have a good chance of winning on 2 hands instead of just one hand. Wed, 13 Oct 2004 11:52:26 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9639 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9638 My 1979 Camaro 350 isn't as powerful as it used to be. I adjusted the carburetor and timing, it stalls at low rpms, and sometimes the oil light comes on at idle. What could be wrong?<br /><br />Try checking out the fuel filter. Wed, 13 Oct 2004 11:50:50 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9638 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9637 What can I do to make my skin look clearer?<br /><br />St. Ives medicated apricot scrub used twice a day works wonders. I used to have really bad skin but since I started using it, it has looked great. You can get it at Longs Drugs or most any other drug store in the skin care section. Wed, 13 Oct 2004 11:47:50 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9637 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9619 What is the proper way to defrost a mouse?<br /><br />Put it in luke warm water until it is not frosty any more and is warm to the touch. Not hot water though as it can cook it and a reptile would reject it. About as warm as you would bathe a baby in. Tue, 12 Oct 2004 16:26:49 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9619 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9618 How can you tell if a kitten has lice?<br /><br />Comb through its fur. If you see any bugs on the comb or fur that do not look like a flea then you will know. Tue, 12 Oct 2004 16:23:20 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9618 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9617 What can I do to cure an infected earlobe?<br /><br />I am assuming that it is an infected piercing, right? Well, first of all make sure not to wear earings until it is healed. But as far as curing it, using hydrogen peroxide on it twice a day usually works great. Try to avoid rubbing alcohol though because it tends to dry out the skin and the dead... Tue, 12 Oct 2004 16:03:00 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9617 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9616 How do you masturbate?<br /><br />There are many ways of doing it, but it is obviously different for men and women. For men, most commonly they will use their hand. Sometimes they will use lotion or other lubricants on their penis for smoother motions. They wrap there hand around their penis and move it up and down for... Tue, 12 Oct 2004 15:54:01 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9616 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9615 How can I find out how much a 1985 Mercedes 380SE, with a given number of miles on it, is worth?<br /><br />www.kbb.com, it is the Kelly Blue Book official sight and it gives you the retail, trade in and private party values for all types of vehicles. It first asks you the year, make and model. Then it asks you to rate the vehicle in poor, fair, good or excellent condition and gives you the guidelines... Tue, 12 Oct 2004 15:40:00 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9615 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9614 I have tried every product to correct my oily skin, but nothing has helped. Is there any medicine that can make my skin produce less oil?<br /><br />Try St. Ives medicated apricot scrub. You can find it at Longs or almost any other drug store in the skin care section and it&#039;s not expensive. My skin used to be very oily too and I had really bad acne that I tried everything on. But, I started using this stuff about 7 years ago and saw... Tue, 12 Oct 2004 15:31:09 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9614 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9613 What countries are the primary producers of garlic?<br /><br />Italy and America. Gilroy, California is actually called &quot;The Garlic Capital.&quot; It is grown in mass quantities in Gilroy and you can smell it everywhere when you are there. Tue, 12 Oct 2004 15:23:46 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9613 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9612 Is there anything that tastes good mixed with Bacardi 151?<br /><br />I am sure there probably are more good Bacardi mixers but my favorite Bacardi drinks are: Bacardi 151 and vanilla coke Bacardi 151 and pine apple juice Bacardi 151, Hypnotic and orange juice. (Hypnotic is a fruity alcohol you can get at most liquor and grocery stores). Tue, 12 Oct 2004 15:17:14 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9612 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9611 Why do my ears hurt when I have a congested nose?<br /><br />Your sinuses are connected to your nose, ears and tear ducts (eyes). That is why you can feel pressure in your ears when your nose is congested. You know how when you cry your nose runs? It&#039;s the same thing, they are all connected. Tue, 12 Oct 2004 15:13:52 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9611 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9610 Is there a way that I can change the taste of my vaginal fluids? My boyfriend says I taste sour.<br /><br />Douche frequently to clean out any sweat build up. Also, using a flavored lubricant can mask the taste. You can get a bunch of different flavored lubricants at almost any lingerie or sex shops. Tue, 12 Oct 2004 15:11:07 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9610 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9609 What is "chronic" exactly?<br /><br />Really good green marijuana. Tue, 12 Oct 2004 15:07:30 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9609 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9608 How do I remove mold odors from leather?<br /><br />Febreze works wonders! Tue, 12 Oct 2004 15:06:49 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9608 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9607 What exercises relieve stiffness and backache from sitting at a computer all day?<br /><br />There are a few things that you can do to relieve stiffness and back ache. Frequently stand near your desk and touch your toes. That will help your lower to mid back. Another good one for your whole back is to sit straight up in your chair, turn your body at the mid section to your left and... Tue, 12 Oct 2004 13:59:31 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9607 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9493 I lent my car to my friend and they got into an accident. My auto coverage is only liability. Can I add the comprehensive and collision coverage into my policy after the accident?<br /><br />I agree with the answer provided by Andersen777, but some insurance companies will not put comprehensive and collision on a vehicle that has been totalled/has a salvage title. If your vehicle was totalled and you still want to put full coverage on it, then ask your insurance company if they will... Thu, 07 Oct 2004 14:19:09 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9493 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9482 When someone is described as a "player", what does that mean?<br /><br />A player is also defined more commonly in this day in age, as someone who cheats on their mate. Wed, 06 Oct 2004 18:20:09 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9482