Answerbag: SoulFire's answers http://www.answerbag.com/profile/974919 New Answerbag answers from SoulFire Wed, 30 May 2012 15:12:30 -0700 Wed, 30 May 2012 15:12:30 -0700 Answer to How is the maturity of a 9-year-old kid from Baghdad (or Kabul) different from a 9-year-old from Beverly Hills? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8702169 How is the maturity of a 9-year-old kid from Baghdad (or Kabul) different from a 9-year-old from Beverly Hills?<br /><br />It really depends on the circumstances in which they are raised. If they had to take care of siblings earlier in life. Or if they were taught to use a gun to defend their family. Or if they had to provide for their family, for food, clothing or shelter. Maturity comes from the circumstances in... Wed, 17 Feb 2010 23:38:43 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8702169 Answer to Does my dad love me http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8702163 Does my dad love me<br /><br />Most parents form a bond with their children growing up in the process of raising them. Sometimes they forget to tell their children how much they do love them. Then something may happen in their lives when they realize they have not shown their children the love they have for them. You are 17,... Wed, 17 Feb 2010 23:32:17 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8702163 Answer to Is it okay for a 19 yr guy to have spontaneous sexual encounters? does gender make a difference? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8702159 Is it okay for a 19 yr guy to have spontaneous sexual encounters? does gender make a difference?<br /><br />I suppose if he/she does care that they might get STD's or make a woman pregnant and have to pay child support for the next 20 years. Or raise a child for well for 20+ years. Sure then go for it. Oh and make sure the person in question get his/her age cause if they are under age they could also... Wed, 17 Feb 2010 23:26:11 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8702159 Answer to Doesn't denying gay couples the right to marry perpetuate the view that same-sex couples are not capable of forming loving & lasting relationships,& thus same-sex relationships are not worthy of the same respect & recognition as opposite-sex relatioships? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8702150 Doesn't denying gay couples the right to marry perpetuate the view that same-sex couples are not capable of forming loving & lasting relationships,& thus same-sex relationships are not worthy of the same respect & recognition as opposite-sex relatioships?<br /><br />Yes it does. Wed, 17 Feb 2010 23:22:31 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8702150 Answer to Which side do you think God is on? I'm going to have a drink. http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8694825 Which side do you think God is on? I'm going to have a drink.<br /><br />"Don't add falsely words to my comments!" " then I'll just go "spend my time" to explain it to the open minded people instead who are lost and confused for the same reason the Bible says do not give what's Holy to the dogs." - It imply by using this passage in the bible that people who are not... Mon, 15 Feb 2010 21:05:08 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8694825 Answer to Have you ever slept between fleece sheets ? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8682909 Have you ever slept between fleece sheets ?<br /><br />I know I have slept in flannel and it's awesome. Not sure if I have slept in fleece, what the heck is fleece again? It fell out of my brain. Wed, 10 Feb 2010 22:38:49 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8682909 Answer to I know I have friends and family who love me. Is there any other reason to live? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8682906 I know I have friends and family who love me. Is there any other reason to live?<br /><br />Yes life is full of endless possibilities. The ability to create a wonderful life for yourself and others. The ability to find true love and live a life of it. We always have a choice to move on and create something great out of life or stay put and stagnate creating a rotten life. Or we can... Wed, 10 Feb 2010 22:36:38 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8682906 Answer to Apparently the Westboro Baptist Church is planing to picket the funerals of the plane crash victims in Boulder, your thoughts? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8682896 Apparently the Westboro Baptist Church is planing to picket the funerals of the plane crash victims in Boulder, your thoughts?<br /><br />I think it is anti christian, I really doubt they would feel great if people came to their funerals for their children and family and had to see people picketing their way of life. Christ said to do unto others as you would have them do unto you. It sickens me to see Christ's message defamed in... Wed, 10 Feb 2010 22:30:14 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8682896 Answer to what comes to you when i say "pittbull".? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8682891 what comes to you when i say "pittbull".?<br /><br />slobbery. Wed, 10 Feb 2010 22:25:40 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8682891 Answer to I want to have a romantic weekend with my boyfreind for my birthday on valentines day. How do I let him know that how I want to spend it? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8670555 I want to have a romantic weekend with my boyfreind for my birthday on valentines day. How do I let him know that how I want to spend it?<br /><br />Tell him what you want and ask him to plan it. Fri, 05 Feb 2010 14:00:24 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8670555 Answer to The sexual abuse of boys perpetuated by women shouldn't be concieved as a "rite" or "Intitaion". Sex abuse is harmful, AGREED? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8668640 The sexual abuse of boys perpetuated by women shouldn't be concieved as a "rite" or "Intitaion". Sex abuse is harmful, AGREED?<br /><br />I don't understand what you mean. Do you mean like women would have sex with teen agers as a rite of passage into adulthood? I think any sex with a minor is abuse. Male or female. Though I really doubt many teenage boys would agree. Most of them were horn dogs when I was growing up and would... Fri, 05 Feb 2010 00:56:44 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8668640 Answer to how do you feel about the man purse? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8668634 how do you feel about the man purse?<br /><br />Great, finally the men can carry around all our crap instead of the other way around. Fri, 05 Feb 2010 00:52:45 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8668634 Answer to Did Jesus Christ actually live or were the gospels just made up? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8668633 Did Jesus Christ actually live or were the gospels just made up?<br /><br />http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Historicity_of_Jesus#Greco-Roman_sources I believe Jesus was a real person. Though all the historical writings about Jesus were written after his death, including the gospels. Fri, 05 Feb 2010 00:52:08 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8668633 Answer to up for battle in a custody case 3 children i do not want to lose and will be representing myself..what do i say and/or not say? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8668587 up for battle in a custody case 3 children i do not want to lose and will be representing myself..what do i say and/or not say?<br /><br />Well you want to prove that you are the most capable person to raise the child. And you also want to prove why the other person isn't capable of raising the child. If they are doing anything illegal. If they are away on business. If they neglect the children in some way. If they don't make... Fri, 05 Feb 2010 00:07:15 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8668587 Answer to I have two sisters. The 1st can't stop talking and the 2nd will only ask questions but won't answer yours. Who is more irritating? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8668573 I have two sisters. The 1st can't stop talking and the 2nd will only ask questions but won't answer yours. Who is more irritating?<br /><br />The one who can't stop talking, at least the other one shuts up when you ask her a question. Fri, 05 Feb 2010 00:00:59 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8668573 Answer to what is linear and non linear writing http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8668570 what is linear and non linear writing<br /><br />I don't know for sure. But linear writing sounds like it follows a timeline and does not go back and forth in time. Non linear would mean it is not straight from beginning to end. Like pulp fiction. It starts at the end of one story, then goes to the beginning of another, then back to the... Thu, 04 Feb 2010 23:59:52 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8668570 Answer to Me & my partner hav bin having unprotected sex for 5 mnths and are tryin for a baby but no luck.Can any1 help please,or am I bein impatient? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8664607 Me & my partner hav bin having unprotected sex for 5 mnths and are tryin for a baby but no luck.Can any1 help please,or am I bein impatient?<br /><br />Make sure you have sex on the right days. There are 2-3 days you have on your ovulation cycle. http://www.ovulation-calendar.net/ . I recommend that you have sex every day until 3 days after your ovulation cycle. And during ovulation 2-3 times per day. It is easier to become pregnant if the... Wed, 03 Feb 2010 11:46:22 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8664607 Answer to which country is perceived as the most romantic amongst Germany ,France and Italy? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8664522 which country is perceived as the most romantic amongst Germany ,France and Italy?<br /><br />My first thought would be France, Paris is the city of love. But I have never been to any of them. Italy sounds nice, especially Venice. The romanic canal rides. Though I hear the water smells. Wed, 03 Feb 2010 11:14:06 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8664522 Answer to Why can't I be happy? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8650327 Why can't I be happy?<br /><br />It sounds like a chemical imbalance to me. Were you not talking about bipolar in another question? Did you go see your doctor and ask for medication to help control your moods? I'm on Celexa and it has helped me loads. Thu, 28 Jan 2010 23:39:18 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8650327 Answer to how do i begin to tell my mother i'm depressed? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8650320 how do i begin to tell my mother i'm depressed?<br /><br />Parents want to know what is happening in your life. Most don't know how to approach their teens. "Mom there is something very important I would like to talk to about. Can you please come to my room so we can talk in private. (assuming there are others in the house)" "Mom I trust you, and I... Thu, 28 Jan 2010 23:35:19 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8650320 Answer to What do you think would happend to fire in space? (If you had a lighter and turned it on in outerspace) http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8636620 What do you think would happend to fire in space? (If you had a lighter and turned it on in outerspace)<br /><br />Nothing, space is a vacuum and there is no air in it. Fire needs air to breath. All those movies and shows you see with explosions would not happen in space. Tue, 26 Jan 2010 23:51:47 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8636620 Answer to how do I get mold smell out of my leather coat http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8636608 how do I get mold smell out of my leather coat<br /><br />It might be impossible, mold is clothing cancer. Take it to the dry cleaners and tell them what you want. Tue, 26 Jan 2010 23:40:33 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8636608 Answer to What would you do if your teacher slap you in the face and spit on you? Would you kill him? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8636605 What would you do if your teacher slap you in the face and spit on you? Would you kill him?<br /><br />I wouldn't kill him, I would report him to the person in charge and have him kick out of school and it put on his permanent record so he could never work in education again. That would be a greater punishment. Plus I don't believe in murder, not good for the soul. Tue, 26 Jan 2010 23:39:11 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8636605 Answer to I live in the second floor of my house. I sleep during the day. But I don't lock my front door, so anyone could just come in. Do you lock? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8636600 I live in the second floor of my house. I sleep during the day. But I don't lock my front door, so anyone could just come in. Do you lock?<br /><br />Ahhhh yeah I always lock. I have bars on my lower floor windows as well. I was almost broken into once, but I had a security system. I put a nail through my sliding glass door that I drilled out. It was the only thing that kept them from getting in. They busted open the lock and pried down the... Tue, 26 Jan 2010 23:36:55 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8636600 Answer to In some countries you have to pick a religion & that religion is on your ID card. So officially you can't be a non-religionist. Suck isn't? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8636593 In some countries you have to pick a religion & that religion is on your ID card. So officially you can't be a non-religionist. Suck isn't?<br /><br />Really? In Canada they do a censes and ask for your religion. They say even if you are not practicing you should put down what you were born into. Me and my husband crossed it out and put Atheist when we were. He still is and I'm spiritual so I cross it out and put that. Screw them, I am who I am... Tue, 26 Jan 2010 23:30:52 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8636593 Answer to my face full of acne, pimples, and redish. it's very painful. What should i do with it? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8636592 my face full of acne, pimples, and redish. it's very painful. What should i do with it?<br /><br />Well you could go to a dermatologist. I heard the proactive works really well, you could try doing a regiment with that. But you have to follow the directions to the letter. Tue, 26 Jan 2010 23:29:18 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8636592 Answer to In Japan animation is a way of life, but in America most are taught cartoons are childish. Why is this so? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8636565 In Japan animation is a way of life, but in America most are taught cartoons are childish. Why is this so?<br /><br />Well for a while in America most cartoons shown were created for children. Though many adults still enjoyed them. I still love bugs bunny and the loony toons gang. Its like many things in North America they teach you that you must grow up and be responsible and work in the factory of economics.... Tue, 26 Jan 2010 23:08:08 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8636565 Answer to I think my ears are racist. I've tried to enjoy listening to Arabic, Jewish, Indian, Chinese, Polish,German musics, but I still prefer US's. http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8636550 I think my ears are racist. I've tried to enjoy listening to Arabic, Jewish, Indian, Chinese, Polish,German musics, but I still prefer US's.<br /><br />That is not racist it is preference. The only German band I do like is Ramstein. I love them. But I think it is because of the beat and his vocal styling. Plus even if you don't know the words they are easy to pick up so you can sing along. But for all I know they are singing nuke North America.... Tue, 26 Jan 2010 22:59:05 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8636550 Answer to Will I always have manic depression (bipolar)? Or does it eventually go away? Will I have to have treatment forever? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8636539 Will I always have manic depression (bipolar)? Or does it eventually go away? Will I have to have treatment forever?<br /><br />It doesn't go away unfortunately. Though I am told a really well managed healthy eating plan does help. Also regular exercise. I'm not bipolar but I am a step down from it. I only have to take a low dose med now. I went from 30mg to 10mg per day. With the healthy eating I find I can manage... Tue, 26 Jan 2010 22:53:39 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8636539 Answer to Need interpretation of dream http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8635535 Need interpretation of dream<br /><br />The the white truck may symbolize your grandmothers journey to heaven. And she is in the hotel room because she is waiting for everyone to say good bye before she moves on. The thing with your parents. Is your mother cheating on your father first off, in real life? How are your parents... Tue, 26 Jan 2010 13:48:35 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8635535 Answer to have to hug guyand i dont like intaimacy with another guy unless i love them and we have to do it and get a flippin grade on it worried! http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8635481 have to hug guyand i dont like intaimacy with another guy unless i love them and we have to do it and get a flippin grade on it worried!<br /><br />Tell your teacher you are not comfortable with physical contact. That pressuring you into hugging another person is a form of sexual harassment. Tell you are willing to do the ballad but you refuse to hug. It is my right not to hug a person. If you grade me poorly on this I will report you for... Tue, 26 Jan 2010 13:12:29 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8635481 Answer to WHAT DOES "WALK A MILE IN SOMEONE ELSE SHOES" MEAN? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8635479 WHAT DOES "WALK A MILE IN SOMEONE ELSE SHOES" MEAN?<br /><br />It means you cannot judge a person unless you experience that person's life from their point of view. Like you might meet a crabby person on the bus that was rude to you. So you might think to yourself that the person is an a-hole. But if you walked a mile in there shoes you may find out that... Tue, 26 Jan 2010 13:08:40 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8635479 Answer to What can a man dat does bathe often do when he finish bathe and his penis still have a little scent. Wat can he used? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8635469 What can a man dat does bathe often do when he finish bathe and his penis still have a little scent. Wat can he used?<br /><br />You may have an infection. You should go see your doctor and make sure you do not. Men can get yeast infections and they need special medicine to cure. Men should use a gentle soap to clean that area as the stronger manly soaps can throw off your PH balance. If it is your groin area, that is a... Tue, 26 Jan 2010 13:04:00 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8635469 Answer to Is texting generally ok just for random 'how are you" kind of chitchat and/or inviting someone to hang out? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8635418 Is texting generally ok just for random 'how are you" kind of chitchat and/or inviting someone to hang out?<br /><br />I chat and invite people to hang out via text. It really depends on the person, some people are not into texting and prefer a human voice. Ask your peps to see what they prefer. Tue, 26 Jan 2010 12:39:13 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8635418 Answer to how do you lose weight on your arms only? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8634248 how do you lose weight on your arms only?<br /><br />Do lots of arm weights. Mon, 25 Jan 2010 23:42:49 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8634248 Answer to If my Four Front teeth are extracted, will the doctor do the procedure "Implant" or "Crown"? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8634244 If my Four Front teeth are extracted, will the doctor do the procedure "Implant" or "Crown"?<br /><br />Maybe she means a bridge. When my husband had his tooth out he could either have a bridge or an implant. I think the bridge is a crown that is attached at the back of your teeth behind. At least that is what I think it is. Or possible dentures? Crowns have to be glued onto something. When... Mon, 25 Jan 2010 23:41:58 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8634244 Answer to What are some great way(s) to always make people feel that are just an amazing and great person. http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8634241 What are some great way(s) to always make people feel that are just an amazing and great person.<br /><br />Listen intently, smile greatly and show them appreciation through complements. Mon, 25 Jan 2010 23:37:06 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8634241 Answer to Do you know of any website that sells everything? (household items, beauty, electronics, school supplies...) http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8634099 Do you know of any website that sells everything? (household items, beauty, electronics, school supplies...)<br /><br />Ebay. Kijiji. Those are used items. There is also a site call freecycle that people give things away for free. Mon, 25 Jan 2010 21:34:49 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8634099 Answer to What do you say to a friend who told you finances are so tight they're thinking about going behind stores to look in dumpsters for food? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8634095 What do you say to a friend who told you finances are so tight they're thinking about going behind stores to look in dumpsters for food?<br /><br />If it was my friend I would suggest going to the food bank. Here they can get food for 6 out of the 12 months. And if she was out I would help her out within my capacity to do so. Can she not find a job, or is she not capable of working? There is government assistance in Canada that helps people... Mon, 25 Jan 2010 21:33:41 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8634095 Answer to If you could spend a weekend with your favorite 'famous' person (movie star, writer etc..) Who would... http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8634085 If you could spend a weekend with your favorite 'famous' person (movie star, writer etc..) Who would...<br /><br />James Cameron. He is brilliant, and I want to know how he manages to write such great movies and not get side tracked. Mon, 25 Jan 2010 21:29:41 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8634085 Answer to How do you delete items in a drop down menu on MAC? Like when you enter an item wrong, it's still in there each time you click the space. http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8634069 How do you delete items in a drop down menu on MAC? Like when you enter an item wrong, it's still in there each time you click the space.<br /><br />What program are you using, usually you just drag it to the trash can. Mon, 25 Jan 2010 21:22:47 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8634069 Answer to I endorse Bill Maher and Religulous, James Cameron and Avatar. Do you? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8630778 I endorse Bill Maher and Religulous, James Cameron and Avatar. Do you?<br /><br />I liked both. I found Avatar was one of the best movies I have ever seen. Sun, 24 Jan 2010 14:08:05 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8630778 Answer to can i make a deal with a credit card company to pay them off in full with a lesser amount than i owe http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8630772 can i make a deal with a credit card company to pay them off in full with a lesser amount than i owe<br /><br />Usually no, you would have to go through bankruptcy to get that. But you could get your interest rate lowered and have to pay less as there will be less interest being accrued. Though if you find a way without ruining your credit rating I would love to hear a way. Sun, 24 Jan 2010 14:06:02 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8630772 Answer to I have to write a speech about a kid in my class but the idiot... http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8630739 I have to write a speech about a kid in my class but the idiot...<br /><br />I have been asked to speak about "???". I have found his elusive nature adds to his mystery. Though one may assume that he is hiding something as he is aloft to all attempts to solicit a response to my questions. I wonder what is so terrible in his life that he is unable to open up to me, the... Sun, 24 Jan 2010 13:52:57 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8630739 Answer to what's wrong with me? help me http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8630678 what's wrong with me? help me<br /><br />Specifics would be need to diagnose the issues at hand. Sun, 24 Jan 2010 13:27:16 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8630678 Answer to I really like biggest loser and it motivates me to want to get in better shape than i am now.....but don't make requrements for such a show http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8630675 I really like biggest loser and it motivates me to want to get in better shape than i am now.....but don't make requrements for such a show<br /><br />I don't think there is a show. But you could just join a gym that provides you with a personal trainer. Or hire a personal trainer. Sun, 24 Jan 2010 13:25:44 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8630675 Answer to Is the white stuff inside an orange edible? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8630672 Is the white stuff inside an orange edible?<br /><br />Yes, just not very tasty. In fact the peel is technically edible. I have used orange peel shavings in some of my recipes. Sun, 24 Jan 2010 13:24:06 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8630672 Answer to why does my mother avoid me http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8630668 why does my mother avoid me<br /><br />What do you mean "Why does my mother avoid me?" give me the low down. Sun, 24 Jan 2010 13:22:50 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8630668 Answer to What do you think of the band named PeaceFactor? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8630665 What do you think of the band named PeaceFactor?<br /><br />It depends on the type of music. Hippy music, totally great. Metal totally sucks. Sun, 24 Jan 2010 13:21:45 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8630665 Answer to My roomate doesn't clean his mess or dishes, eats all my food when i'm not there, tell him to leave?, I already warned him.(i knew him 4ever http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8630662 My roomate doesn't clean his mess or dishes, eats all my food when i'm not there, tell him to leave?, I already warned him.(i knew him 4ever<br /><br />Yep tell him to get you. You warned him and he did not listen. It is time to follow thru with your warning or he will think you are a push over. If he doesn't go, next time he is out of the house, change the locks then start shoving his stuff in boxes and leaving outside of the door. Sun, 24 Jan 2010 13:20:36 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8630662 Answer to What do you think the script of life is? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8630658 What do you think the script of life is?<br /><br />To love or not to love that is the question. Sun, 24 Jan 2010 13:18:30 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8630658 Answer to Why should gay people be subject to popular opinion when it comes to their right to marry? Did I have a say in your marriage? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8630651 Why should gay people be subject to popular opinion when it comes to their right to marry? Did I have a say in your marriage?<br /><br />Amen! I just don't know why they care so much about the issue if it does not affect them directly. Sun, 24 Jan 2010 13:17:05 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8630651 Answer to I live in a very southern christian home and i struggle with gay thoughts. I will NEVER except bein gay. How can i become straight? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8629575 I live in a very southern christian home and i struggle with gay thoughts. I will NEVER except bein gay. How can i become straight?<br /><br />First are you just having passing thoughts about gay sex? It is very common even for straight people to have these thoughts. Just say to those thoughts, I know it seems new, strange, and exciting because it is like tasting the forbidden fruit. But I don't really want to taste the fruit, just my... Sun, 24 Jan 2010 00:36:23 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8629575 Answer to How do you deal with regret and guilt effectively? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8629540 How do you deal with regret and guilt effectively?<br /><br />Write down everything you shouldn't have done but did. Write down everything you should have done but didn't. Write down all the opportunities that you did not take. Write down what you said and did that caused you and others misery. Now write another list. I will not "everything... Sun, 24 Jan 2010 00:14:53 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8629540 Answer to Riddle: George & Fred walk into a restaurant. They order duck. Upon eating the duck Fred shoots George & then kills himself. What happened? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8629514 Riddle: George & Fred walk into a restaurant. They order duck. Upon eating the duck Fred shoots George & then kills himself. What happened?<br /><br />George and Fred are flying in an airplane when the plane crashes on a deserted island and only George and Fred survive. Starving and desperate they both go in opposite directions to look for food. Fred walks around the whole island and finds no living creatures. When Fred gets back he sees George... Sat, 23 Jan 2010 23:58:11 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8629514 Answer to iN A BAG THERE ARE 32 GREEN GEMS AND 32 RED GEMS. HOW MANY DO YOU HAVE TO REMOVE TO ENSURE YOU GET TWO DIFFERENT GEMS?? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8629505 iN A BAG THERE ARE 32 GREEN GEMS AND 32 RED GEMS. HOW MANY DO YOU HAVE TO REMOVE TO ENSURE YOU GET TWO DIFFERENT GEMS??<br /><br />2, each gem would be different. Unless you mean 2 different colors. Sat, 23 Jan 2010 23:48:29 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8629505 Answer to Is it normal to love to read suicide quotes, self-harm quotes, etc? They make me feel better almost like they make me feel welcome http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8629500 Is it normal to love to read suicide quotes, self-harm quotes, etc? They make me feel better almost like they make me feel welcome<br /><br />Welcome like how? Welcome to commit suicide? When I'm really depressed I listen to depressing music to cheer me up. It gets out all my pain and I am rejuvenated. Sat, 23 Jan 2010 23:46:05 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8629500 Answer to FML! My skin has decided to start breaking out and being extremely difficult. Any at home remedies to take care of it? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8629494 FML! My skin has decided to start breaking out and being extremely difficult. Any at home remedies to take care of it?<br /><br />Are we talking all over or localized? It could be an allergy. I had no allergies one day then I was allergic to everything the next day. 8 years of shots cured me. Sat, 23 Jan 2010 23:44:26 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8629494 Answer to Why do you think God does or does not exist? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8626535 Why do you think God does or does not exist?<br /><br />I met Got, great Spirit. Pure love and forgiveness wrapped in peace and bliss. It's the only reason I believe today, I was an atheist when I met God. Shocked the heck out of me. Fri, 22 Jan 2010 14:34:52 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8626535 Answer to I have bad thoughts when I was a kid it was about me hurting my family,friends,kids, now it has turned sexual.Its awful, help me. http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8626528 I have bad thoughts when I was a kid it was about me hurting my family,friends,kids, now it has turned sexual.Its awful, help me.<br /><br />Get yourself to a counsellor. You could have a disorder that needs to be treated professionally. Fri, 22 Jan 2010 14:32:34 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8626528 Answer to What book all wish to have read but no one wants to read? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8625156 What book all wish to have read but no one wants to read?<br /><br />Is the question What book to you wish everyone would have to read but know one wants to read? The Theory and Practice of Hell. It details what happened at the nazi prison camps during WW2. I cried and was physically ill reading it. I had to give a book report on it and could not finish it... Thu, 21 Jan 2010 23:24:28 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8625156 Answer to Does taking ecstacy once stay in your body forever? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8625149 Does taking ecstacy once stay in your body forever?<br /><br />It will go away after a few days. Don't worry it will not end up in your spine. Drink plenty of water and go on a healthy diet for a week or a life time (just for your health not the drugs) It is a myth that it will stay in your spinal fluid. It will show up in your hair though. Best thing... Thu, 21 Jan 2010 23:21:19 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8625149 Answer to Is it wrong to cheat on someone who's in jail? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8625127 Is it wrong to cheat on someone who's in jail?<br /><br />It is always wrong to cheat. Just break up with him and move on to your true love. Thu, 21 Jan 2010 22:58:56 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8625127 Answer to if you're getting off the bus and some guy grabs a ladies purse,(and runs) near you...What would you do? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8625107 if you're getting off the bus and some guy grabs a ladies purse,(and runs) near you...What would you do?<br /><br />Trip him, kick him or punch in the balls and give the lady back her purse. Then call the cops. Thu, 21 Jan 2010 22:39:37 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8625107 Answer to My Girlfriend is 12 years old im 18, we have been dating for 8 months, i was 17 and she was 11, we love each other very much is it ok? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8625105 My Girlfriend is 12 years old im 18, we have been dating for 8 months, i was 17 and she was 11, we love each other very much is it ok?<br /><br />Okay legally if you have sex with her you could be sued for statutory rape and go to jail It is really only okay if her parents are okay with it, are they? The problem is teenagers due to hormones and lack of life experience tend to make poor choices, which they regret in later years. She... Thu, 21 Jan 2010 22:37:57 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8625105 Answer to I have a good guy friend, I started helping him get over an ex, we would have alot of fun together, when we would go out drinking we would http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8625067 I have a good guy friend, I started helping him get over an ex, we would have alot of fun together, when we would go out drinking we would<br /><br />He likes you and wants to be with you. But he was hurt by his last relationship and can't admit that as he is scared to love again. By you asking him to move out he felt rejected just like his ex did to him. So he is transferring his ex's feelings on to you. Seriously sit down and say that you... Thu, 21 Jan 2010 22:17:38 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8625067 Answer to what happened??????? I left for a bir, now I am back... but it is all new!! How long ago?? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8625058 what happened??????? I left for a bir, now I am back... but it is all new!! How long ago??<br /><br />Beginning of december. There were a lot of defectors because they didn't like the new system. But your question has been asked to death. When it first happened there were hardly any new questions for 3 days. So my question to you is, your question was asked a hundred times, why did you ask it... Thu, 21 Jan 2010 22:11:18 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8625058 Answer to Why am I not enough for my husband? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8625056 Why am I not enough for my husband?<br /><br />There is such a thing as a sex addiction. But like the others said, are you willing to go through this with him, and is he willing to get help and change. Cause if he is not don't stay. It is not you, it is him. There are men out there willing to be monogamous. Not all of them want to be, but... Thu, 21 Jan 2010 22:08:45 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8625056 Answer to Should I get an iphone 3GS or Nexus One? Don't ask which do I prefer.. I am asking which do YOU prefer and why? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8625047 Should I get an iphone 3GS or Nexus One? Don't ask which do I prefer.. I am asking which do YOU prefer and why?<br /><br />I don't know anything about the Nexus, but I can tell you why I love the iphone. The keyboard is a little hard to get used to as you cannot feel the buttons, but once you get the hang of it, it's great as it can be used in landscape and horizontally. It has a cut and paste option as well. ... Thu, 21 Jan 2010 22:04:20 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8625047 Answer to What is your favorite common misconception? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8625012 What is your favorite common misconception?<br /><br />I don't know how common it is but on How I Met Your Mother they made fun of Canadian's for being afraid of the dark. What gives? Thu, 21 Jan 2010 21:44:03 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8625012 Answer to What happened to our education system? Everyone on this site speaks English. Why is it that there are so few that can spell it correctly? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8625007 What happened to our education system? Everyone on this site speaks English. Why is it that there are so few that can spell it correctly?<br /><br />Abbreviations came with the texting age as it is faster to text in abbreviations. With the keypads being smaller it made sense to shorten words. Some people on here are from other countries and are still in the process of learning English so they do not always spell correctly or use proper... Thu, 21 Jan 2010 21:42:25 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8625007 Answer to Your client has started eating breakfast and you haven't taken their blood sugar yet. What should you do? When would you give their insuli http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8624992 Your client has started eating breakfast and you haven't taken their blood sugar yet. What should you do? When would you give their insuli<br /><br />Well you should take there blood sugar as soon as you can. At least to see where it is. Then look at what they were eating. It take about 10-20 minutes for food to get into the blood stream unless they were drinking something sugary like orange juice. It depends on if they felt low before they... Thu, 21 Jan 2010 21:34:12 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8624992 Answer to Would you ever go to a club or party alone without anyone you know being there? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8624985 Would you ever go to a club or party alone without anyone you know being there?<br /><br />Not usually. My husband and I do everything together. Or I would go with a friend. But I'm not a party person unless I am the one throwing it or giving a presentation for it. Thu, 21 Jan 2010 21:29:12 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8624985 Answer to I'd like to find ways to get my voice heard about kidney transplants and keep comin up short. what are some ideas to open peoples hearts? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8624981 I'd like to find ways to get my voice heard about kidney transplants and keep comin up short. what are some ideas to open peoples hearts?<br /><br />What do you want to say about it? I know very little about the donation process. I signed my organ donor card if that is what you mean. Thu, 21 Jan 2010 21:27:48 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8624981 Answer to is it illegal to audio record a conversation with my doctor during an appointment? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8624978 is it illegal to audio record a conversation with my doctor during an appointment?<br /><br />Not if you tell him you are recording the conversation. Why do you want to? Thu, 21 Jan 2010 21:26:43 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8624978 Answer to we just got a kitten but it seems really sick and we don't have the money to get it fixed. Am I wrong for just saying we should put it down? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8624977 we just got a kitten but it seems really sick and we don't have the money to get it fixed. Am I wrong for just saying we should put it down?<br /><br />You should take it to the SPCA. They have facilities to heal it and will find owners that can properly care for her. Thu, 21 Jan 2010 21:25:06 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8624977 Answer to Can a divorced husband do his wishes for his divorced wife's funeral & bury her next to him? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8624972 Can a divorced husband do his wishes for his divorced wife's funeral & bury her next to him?<br /><br />Are you her executor? If you are divorced you would have no rights at all regarding her unless she gave them to you. It would fall to her immediate blood family if there was no one assigned. Thu, 21 Jan 2010 21:23:59 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8624972 Answer to i have met my birth mum once but she lied even though she believed wot she'd told me 2 be true do i give her another chance? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8624098 i have met my birth mum once but she lied even though she believed wot she'd told me 2 be true do i give her another chance?<br /><br />It depends, can you deal with her lying to you? You may want to get to know her better, but if she just lies about herself are you really getting to know her? It also depends if she is a situation liar or a compulsive liar. I have a sorta friend who is a compulsive liar and wouldn't be her... Thu, 21 Jan 2010 11:33:43 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8624098 Answer to How Can I Name A Star After Somebody? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8622997 How Can I Name A Star After Somebody?<br /><br />http://www.starregistry.com/index.cfm? Wed, 20 Jan 2010 23:55:55 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8622997 Answer to My best friend just landed an incredible job in Manhattan and I can't help but feel a little jealous, I'm ashamed to feel this way? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8622990 My best friend just landed an incredible job in Manhattan and I can't help but feel a little jealous, I'm ashamed to feel this way?<br /><br />Jealousy is a natural emotion. It is what you do with that feeling that matters. Wed, 20 Jan 2010 23:47:22 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8622990 Answer to What should i watch Twilight or Avatar? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8622978 What should i watch Twilight or Avatar?<br /><br />Avatar!!!!! It was one of the best movies I have ever seen. And it is in a new type of 3D that must be experienced in the theatre. I only found Twilight so/so. And I loved Buffy / Angel and True Blood. I find Twilight a very teenage vampire movie without a lot of depth and great acting. But I... Wed, 20 Jan 2010 23:39:15 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8622978 Answer to Are some people better than others? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8622976 Are some people better than others?<br /><br />Some people are nicer then others, I consider all people equal though. Wed, 20 Jan 2010 23:36:39 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8622976 Answer to How does every woman feel about your husband having his very own bank account that you have no access 2 what so ever. Account is in his own name and we have kids together http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8622975 How does every woman feel about your husband having his very own bank account that you have no access 2 what so ever. Account is in his own name and we have kids together<br /><br />Some couples do that and some don't. What is important is that you discuss all your finances and ensure you have all the necessities covered. Also make sure you know if there is any debt owing there like an overdraft. I think it is a little strange. But me and my husband give each other an... Wed, 20 Jan 2010 23:35:26 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8622975 Answer to is there anything to worry about if the glands eg boobs n armpit are slightly larger on the right then left hands side of your body? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8622965 is there anything to worry about if the glands eg boobs n armpit are slightly larger on the right then left hands side of your body?<br /><br />You should get that check out by a doctor. They could be plugged up and that can cause growths like cysts or even cancer. Wed, 20 Jan 2010 23:29:35 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8622965 Answer to If I said the word, "moist," would that gross you out? If so, why? Do you think that it is rational be grossed out by words? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8622956 If I said the word, "moist," would that gross you out? If so, why? Do you think that it is rational be grossed out by words?<br /><br />It may not be rational but people learn to associate words with personal experience. If the first time you heard reference to the word moist was the first day you got your period you may be grossed out by that word. Now if the first time you hear it reference was about the greatest... Wed, 20 Jan 2010 23:25:01 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8622956 Answer to Ever heard this AMAZING song that you thought everyone should love and you tell people about it and they either ignore you or don't like it? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8622951 Ever heard this AMAZING song that you thought everyone should love and you tell people about it and they either ignore you or don't like it?<br /><br />Music is subjective. If you told me you heard the best country song ever recorded I'd ignore cause I hate country. Now if you said that about a rock songs I'd be like I must hear it. But then if the persons voice was to high pitched I wouldn't like it. See subjective. Wed, 20 Jan 2010 23:20:33 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8622951 Answer to I doubt My computer access speed is slow http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8622946 I doubt My computer access speed is slow<br /><br />You can download speed tests from the internet for connection speeds. Thats about all I know about that. Wed, 20 Jan 2010 23:16:54 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8622946 Answer to Why do people sound kind of hoarse in the mornings? Does it really take longer for the voice to wake up than the rest of the body? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8622943 Why do people sound kind of hoarse in the mornings? Does it really take longer for the voice to wake up than the rest of the body?<br /><br />Do you smoke or does anyone in your house? Do you have asthma or allergies? Do you sing or scream a lot? Do you have a chronic lung condition like bronchitis or tonsillitis? Do you live downtown in a heavily polluted city? I have never noticed myself or my friends or family have... Wed, 20 Jan 2010 23:15:23 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8622943 Answer to I'm trying to make a pumpkin apple soup and the ingrediant calls for stock...I don't know if that means vegetable stock or something else http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8622921 I'm trying to make a pumpkin apple soup and the ingrediant calls for stock...I don't know if that means vegetable stock or something else<br /><br />Stock is a broth of what ever you choose. It can be vegetable broth or chicken, beef or even mushroom. For pumpkin apple I would think vegetable stock would be the best. Pretty much it means through a bunch of veggies, fruit or meat in a pot and boil. Strain out the food part and use. Wed, 20 Jan 2010 23:04:53 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8622921 Answer to Is climate change is going to determine our routine of life? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8622917 Is climate change is going to determine our routine of life?<br /><br />It will definitely effect our lives in the next 500 years. Climate change is a natural part of our earth's history. I do believe our modern age is helping it progress faster then nature may have intending, but what every the reason we are going to have to deal with it. There is a mass... Wed, 20 Jan 2010 23:02:06 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8622917 Answer to I'm scared that I'm actually legitimately crazy. HELP! http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8622907 I'm scared that I'm actually legitimately crazy. HELP!<br /><br />Sounds on the bipolar side, or perhaps a little less. It does not mean you are crazy, it means you have an illness that can be helped with medication. I used to go from super happy to super sad to blind uncontrollable rages. I would cry at the drop of a hat. And my doctor said I wasn't even... Wed, 20 Jan 2010 22:45:47 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8622907 Answer to a sentence you want to hear or hope u neaver will http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8622802 a sentence you want to hear or hope u neaver will<br /><br />I want to hear - You just won the big lottery and no one else did. I don't want to hear - Sorry ma'am your husband has died. I can barely type it without crying. Wed, 20 Jan 2010 21:23:31 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8622802 Answer to What do you think about a straight man using a man bag http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8622800 What do you think about a straight man using a man bag<br /><br />Dude's got stuff to carry too. As long as it is not pink with a leather cat in a bedazzled collar, or femmy I think it is okay. It's like a soft brief case with a shoulder strap. Wed, 20 Jan 2010 21:22:04 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8622800 Answer to do you know what sort of questions that i should come out during chating with someone i admire??? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8622796 do you know what sort of questions that i should come out during chating with someone i admire???<br /><br />Favorites - Favorite type of pet, favorite type of food. Place to live. Place to vacation. Place to eat. Aspirations - Do you want to travel? Are you more of a stay in one place sorta person. What is your dream job? If you had unlimited money what would you do? This way you can see what you... Wed, 20 Jan 2010 21:20:28 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8622796 Answer to Why does my family never want to listen to me? Why do they only hear what they want to say? Why don't they respect me and my business? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8620758 Why does my family never want to listen to me? Why do they only hear what they want to say? Why don't they respect me and my business?<br /><br />How old are you? And How old are they? At different ages different things matter. So when I young person asks something of an older person the older person does not always take it seriously. Or if you are "telling" your sibling to do something and your parents say not to do that. It is more... Tue, 19 Jan 2010 22:21:25 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8620758 Answer to Do you find that ice cream tastes better if you eat it right out of the pail ? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8620747 Do you find that ice cream tastes better if you eat it right out of the pail ?<br /><br />Sometimes, cause it is like a guilty pleasure, your parent's voice echoing in your head "Go put that in a bowl, so no one else gets your germs." But sometimes I like to make a sorta milkshake out of my ice cream in a bowl, it's just easier in a bowl. Tue, 19 Jan 2010 22:12:03 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8620747 Answer to is having sex before your married a sin? I'm christian and I don't see any where in the good book that it is a sin http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8620677 is having sex before your married a sin? I'm christian and I don't see any where in the good book that it is a sin<br /><br />Most Christian's I have run across consider sex before marriage a sin. I know this is one of the lines they use. When Paul says to "abide even as I do" he means be celibate. So if you are not celibate outside of marriage you will burn in hell. 1 Corinthians 7 "7:8 I say therefore to the... Tue, 19 Jan 2010 21:23:04 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8620677 Answer to i am 29 years old but cannot fix my girl friend yet. How can i do it? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8618552 i am 29 years old but cannot fix my girl friend yet. How can i do it?<br /><br />What do you mean fix her? Is she broken? That would be a doctors job to fix. Men and women do not change for each other, they only change for themselves. So if you want something different out of your girlfriend, find a girl that you want the way she is. Mon, 18 Jan 2010 22:39:20 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8618552 Answer to Can you have sex one week exactly before your period and have your regular period and have negative pregnancy tests and still be pregnant? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8618544 Can you have sex one week exactly before your period and have your regular period and have negative pregnancy tests and still be pregnant?<br /><br />Though it is uncommon it is possible to have a period, have a negative result and still be pregnant. Check out this website and the women's comments. http://www.babycenter.com/404_can-you-be-pregnant-and-still-get-your-period_7102.bc Was your period much light then usual? That could be... Mon, 18 Jan 2010 22:34:46 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8618544 Answer to I was in a wreck 4 days ago. I have major swelling and bruising. Very stiff, hurts MAJORITY bad. What is it?http://tinypic.com/r/2iggdpc/6 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8618523 I was in a wreck 4 days ago. I have major swelling and bruising. Very stiff, hurts MAJORITY bad. What is it?http://tinypic.com/r/2iggdpc/6<br /><br />Whip lash, see a doctor ASAP. It could even been internal bleeding. DO NOT put this off. Especially for insurance purposes. The sooner you go the less likely they can blame your medical issues on something else and get out of paying. Mon, 18 Jan 2010 22:27:27 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8618523