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What was the best thing about New Year's Eve? I let go of all my troubles, sorrows, and fears that I gained somehow throughout 2010. Like literally at the stroke of midnight it was as if a switch was hit and it just diminished any negativity that once was wearing me down. I'm ready to shed my skin, and take on whatever 2011 presents, and throws at me.

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Do you trust your heart or your head more to lead you in life? I lead with my conscious because that's what I face the most.

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Women would you fight another woman over a man Only if it is to defend his honor, not to win him over.

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how often do girls masterbate? I used to have sex on sort of a consistent basis, but now that I haven't been, I feel like I could do it all day. Of course, I have a job and a life...not really making that possible lol, but I am not afraid of pleasing myself. It's healthy and there are less feelings involved.

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What is the most out-of-date piece of technology that you use on a daily basis? I still start my car with a key, does that count. Now you can either remote start it, and then put the key in, or even press a button with no key at all.

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Have you ever been hit by a car? Yes actually. I was walking on this little pathway they call sidewalks around here, and a little old man clipped me with the mirror of his car. It hit so hard, I literally flew like 10 feet in to nearby grass. Me being me, I just got up and walked it off. He stopped, and got out, and was just the littlest old man; apologizing up a storm. I kind of actually felt bad for him that he hit me, so I...

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Do you find it hard to listen to someone who has an annoying voice? Only if they didn't know what they were talking about.

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Are girls as confusing to guys as guys are to girls? Because we try to cater to men...and they don't even know what they want.

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Smokers, do you get annoyed when people you just met tell you to stop smoking because it's bad for you? No because it's true...

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Is it a good thing to make someone talk when they don't feel like talking? Not really. Sometimes people need that shoulder ..and others don't. You have to feel out the situation before you go prying.

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What is it you like best about your S/O's personality? What do you like the least? He is a brilliant person in general. He has a wide ranged personalitu that I find beautiful... ..with only one trait that I don't hardly care for, which is his lack of consideration.

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What do I do if I'm dating someone. But I like someone else? Help please? Be honest. That is the best way.. you can't hold on to one because you fear losing the other. The worst feeling is guilt, that's why if ever your confused ..it's probably a good idea to just be alone. It's not fair to any of you.

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Do men ever feel guilty? I have come to learn that men only feel guilty when it is favorable to them.

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As a female, is it good to have a lot of friends? Keeping your "circle" small is the best route. I am the type of person who enjoys my privacy..and to me it seems as though the more friends you have, the less your business is your own.

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Is there something that you use in your cooking that probably most others don't? *Love* hahaha, no but really.. who wants to eat something from some grouchy person, who doesn't even appreciate the goodness their about to make another feel? I love cooking, I am one of those people who wants to see your face when you take the first bite. Lol.

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Do you get over break-ups fast ? You have to. I'm not the type to get out of a relationship, and run to find the next dude to love and be with me. But, I can't talk to that person anymore. Even if I love them to itty-bitty pieces, I can't be friends with them, and I can't fantasize about "making up" with that person. If it's over, it's really over. And for me personally, no matter the love I have for that person, I have to cut...

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Whats your favorite pickup line? The funnier the better Some dude the other day said to me... "Hey girl, I seen you before...... You were on the magazine". To me, all pick up lines are kind of corny..but he was trying to compliment me, and he kept it clean, so I give em' props lol.

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U get a letter from ex, who apologizes 4 things that happened years ago. They want forgiveness & to be friends. What do u do? If he couldn't apologize when it counted, everything in the letter means nothing.

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How do you react to woman who tell you your full of anger?? Would you just want to tear out their little teeth out and rip their ears off ?? The 2nd part of your question, kiiiiiindaa makes me feel as though, she hit the issue right on the nose.

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Tell me how you give love without giving presents ? I give love, with my presence. That probably sounded really arrogant, but I don't know a better way to say it. I don't turn my back on love, or my family and friends. I have my own life, with my own problems, but I always make sure I am there for each and everyone of them because I love and care about them.

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Do you think Honesty is not the best policy today? I believe it IS the best policy. I don't live in a dream-land, so don't sell me any.

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greatest feeling youv ever felt? greatest achivement? I just graduated college, which normally people would say is their great achievement. Don't get me wrong, It felt good and I was proud of myself to a certain extent, but I really did it for my mother. I don't think I have made or endured my greatest achievement yet. However thus far, I would have to say that it's being able to wake up, wear a smile, and maintain positivity within this bullshit...

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How long to you use a cell phone before you update it? Until it doesn't work anymore...I am way too clumsy to own a high priced-high tech phone. As long as it can make and receive calls, I'm good.

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How do i deal with a broken heart, especialy when the girl who broke it did it for another guy... :'( So what are you missing out on? Not loyalty, not honesty. Having a broken heart is hard, we all go through it at some point in our lives, and we all deal in a different way. For me, getting over or through a heart break is to just weigh in on my gains and losses. Sure there has been times that I have been disappointed, but only one time I can actually say I had a "broken" heart. He cheated on...

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Have you ever been completely honest with your feelings and then been rejected? Whenever I try to talk with the man I've been seeing for 2 years about "commitment", I get rejected. I don't try to get into the whole "serious talk" scenario much, because who wants to always talk about relationships problems; however, I always get the same result. I never ask for anything more than I already have, and he never gives me anymore than he has. I guess the love that I have for him...

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would you consider it's cheating if your spouse masturbate? I consider cheating, cheating. Playing with yourself is healthy, and if your partner isn't around, it's better to fulfill yourself, then look elsewhere.

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Ok this may sound silly but my husband says I love you- which is great, but it seems its kinda repetitive several times in an half hour.. Some woman would die to hear "I love you", and know that their man actually means it. I understand that it might not feel special anymore after hearing it so much, but how could you not be absolutely grateful? I don't hear it often enough, and it might bother me from time to time, but when I do hear it I appreciate it. And when I don't I wonder. So take the time to be gratified with the fact...

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Whats your (or a friends) most annoying habit? One of my girlfriends ALWAYS either turns my song down in my car, or changes a song she isn't feeling. It's like ........GIRL DON'T TOUCH MY MUSIC!!!!

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What's your favourite insult? laughter. I laugh it all off.

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i am in r'ship with a lier.who lied to me abt his career.i dont knw wht els has he lied about.i love him.but i dunno wht to do.plz help It's up to you to decide if you're willing to find out if everything is as it seems. But, I do know that we as females (not myself particularly) put pressure on men to have to be dominant in their field of work. It's like a pride thing... maybe he wanted to impress you at first, and it just got out of hand. If it's worth it to you then you should be able to look past it, so long as you guys...

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Have you ever made a really stupid move and done something like turn up naked to your lovers place for some action...and it all goes comic? I spent like 100$ on this whole sexy get-up for the man i've been seeing for like the last two years... silk robe, stockings with bows, corset.. heels ...all of it...which to me was nothing because I wanted to try something new and do something that I thought he'd might like... let's just say I didn't even get any that night. and I still don't even know why lol.

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Are women more likely to love Mr. Fix-it, the bf who repairs the car, the sink, furnace, toilet, lawnmower, roof, windows? To me it doesn't matter...I'd rather love the honest man..... broken hearts aren't easy to fix.

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What do you think they're is to much of in the world? Self Righteousness.

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Do you believe idle time is the devils playground? It can be, or it could be the path of something brilliant, it's what one does with their idle time that counts.

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Would you get offended by someone calling you a "dummy", even if it was meant as a joke? Why or why not? Not really lol. Dummy is too much of a funny word to be mad afterward. I'll call myself a dummy. It's stupid I don't like.

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Why cant I keep my eyes open? Maybe you have nothing to look forward to.

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Is losing everything not so bad once you realize you never "deserved" anything? I only think like that when I lose something I've won (like money) or something that was never mine to begin with.

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I'm 16 and pregnant. How do I get from under my mom? You have to do what you honestly think is best for your child, and then yourself. Anyone who doesn't or cannot understand your decision from that point on, doesn't matter.

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What are you thinking about these days? The reality of all situations around me.

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would you have intimacy with an alien let him kiss all over and would do that to him Most likely not, I would chill with them though!

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Ladies: How would you react if at a baseball game, your boyfriend dives out of the way of a foul ball and you get hit? I can take one for the team.

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Can you speak any language other than English? If yes, what is it, and how did you learn it? I can speak Spanglish! Lol.

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What causes loneliness? Your mind, and the perception you have about life.

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Do you ever feel like your past is following you everywhere you go? No, because I control my today.

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Are women's rights equal? Maybe in a constitutional matter, but in society , we have a ways to go.

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What is your favorite season, and why? I love them all. Each season offers you something that the other one couldn't. I like seeing how each season changes the environment.

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Is "what one doesn't know, won't hurt him," phraseology encouraging white lies? That saying was probably made up by some ignorant coward. The truth hurts, it's life. Whatever happened to "Honesty is the best policy"?

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How often do you think about yourself before thinking about anyone else? I usually have more regard for other peoples feelings, than I do my own. Which to me is how it should be, but more so now I am realizing that my feelings need to be counted too.

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Will you hide your pride if you are in pain? Sometimes, and sometimes you need to use your pride to get over that pain.

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Have you ever played in the mud? Of course. When I was younger I used to play "house" and all I ever "made" was mudd pies. lol

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Is it better for k-6 graders to be in school more or to be with their parents and families more? I think that in that grade and age bracket, would be the best time to install family values, because when they grow up it's something that they will appreciate on their own. They'll appreciate the time spent together, and want to be a part of that bond. I especially think that it's too late once they become teenagers and hit high school. That's why you gotta catch em ' young.

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What causes girls and women to talk way too much? They just talk talk talk. I'm fairly quiet, unless I've consumed alcohol, or redbull!! Then I have a million things to say.

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How do you bring yourself up from a bad mood? I just try to think about how I make others feel around me, regarding my attitude and how I am feeling that day. People can sense that, and I'd hate to be the one to put a damper on things.

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Will your next sexual encounter be protected or unprotected? Why? STRAP IT UP! ALWAYS PROTECTED!!

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Can a man love three women at the same time? Or a woman with three guys for that matter? Trust me. I've come to learn that one man can love many women at one time. When men don't do it openly, it's because they fear hurting each one. When a female does it, she doesn't do it openly because she fears loosing out on what each one offers her. Also I think that Men and woman have this thing about variety. I get it, i really do. But that's what dating is for, and that's why you meet...

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im cheatin on my bf with my x were in love he has a girlfirend but doesnt wanna dump her 2 make her feel bad cus they were bff be4 what 2 do Your going to lose either way, so it doesn't really matter what you do. You reap what you sew.

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I'm really happy today because__________________? today happened!

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why does life hurt so bad???? Because we're only human.

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Ladies, do you prefer men with hairy pubes, trimmed pubes or no pubes? Why? As long as I'm not having to move hair to the side to get to the goods, I'm okay.

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What makes a perfect steak? THE COOK!

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Should I wait for him or just end the relationship? That is the thing about love. You have to be able to sit through THICK and thin! If you can't handle someone at their worst, you don't deserve them at their best.

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How do you deal with loving two persons equally at the same time? You can't help falling in love with the two of them at the same moment. You avoid this feeling, and situation by not getting caught up. You shouldn't put yourself in a place where you'd have control over two hearts but yet lose control of your own. It's not right, or healthy and it's drama filled.

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A relationship can not be successful without this one thing, what is it? loyalty

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What is your idea of romance? Would you enjoy that type of romance? Are you male or female? My idea of romance, is just doing something out of love. Something out of the ordinary. It doesn't have to be anything lavish, or extravagant. Just something to let your special person know you've still got it for them!

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I am 14 years old and I am completely flat chested. Any help? Since you're only 14 not having breasts yet might seem like the end of the world. You think you want to be noticed because of them. But trust that when they do come, your going to be trying everything you can to keep them covered.

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If i was a millionaire,.... (please complete:)) Everyone around me would be too!

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Who irons your clothes? I try so hard. It's like the ONLY domestic thing I haven't been able to get quite right.

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if its love, then why does it hurt so much? Because it is a universal feeling, therefor the feeling of it can be universal.

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How to make kids at 13 to be polite?!!! When people aren't polite, it's a learned factor of their personality. It doesn't necessarily mean that they have rude parent's or haven't been raised right. It just means that they aren't appreciative of all that they have. They don't understand the value of what is being given to them, so they don't know to be thankful. Or their manners aren't all that well. Give and take with them. If they...

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When your momma says no, do you do it anyway? I use to as a child, but now as an adult I've learned that "Mother knows best"!

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What's your slogan? " My world will still turn "

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If you could change one characteristic about yourself, what would you change and why would you change it? It would be that I think too much. I am always thinking ahead, and then get anxiety because I fear the unknown. Lately, I've been more at one with the "now" and the reality of all situations regarding myself, and my life. So I guess it's an acknowledged change in the process!

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Some of my girlfriends ex's things are still here. He wants to come get them. She offered to mail them but apparently he keeps insisting. Either the breakup between the two is fresh, or they've both been anticipating this situation. I don't understand why there would still be things he feels are necessity, that he must have back. Why haven't they long been gone, or returned? Maybe I don't get it because I personally don't like little "forget-me-nots" lying around my house of exes. They would make me sad, and I don't like to...

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what would make this world a better place for you and me? Respect.

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shoulda, coulda, woulda??? Been there, done that, did it

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Have you ever been glad to be proven wrong? What happened? Happens all of the time. I sometimes think worse case scenario, and feel relieved to see everything has turned out okay.

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What do you to make yourself happy? I think of how blessed I am able to have control over my happiness. I have a good life, and there are people out there who don't. They can't find happiness any which way. Or depression lies among their environment. I however am thankfully able to have the chance to be happy and make due and always look to the brighter side. I've learned to not sweat and nor give time to the pettier things in life.

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Can some one give me some ideas on a painless suicide If you're committing suicide, why would you care how much pain you inflict??

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What is a good antidepressant?! the sun, sex, and friends

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What is a good answer to a totally unqualified woman who labels other people's children 'hyperactive' and girlfriends as 'obsessive'? If they're not trying to label you, but rather give advice, I understand. But if it's coming from some bad place, That's when you ask to see there medical license. When they have that confused look on their face, like wtf?! is when you tell them to mind their own business and pass judgment elsewhere. You have to literally be straight up with certain people to actually get it and get them stuck...

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Are you a fan of Justin Bieber? Who's he? ............no really... lol who is he?

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If one has suffered from depression before is it likely that it could come back again? There's no shame is getting medication or being treated, but you have to realize that it's all in your head. Everything we do, think, and are whole existence of ones self, is in our heads. That's the root of the problem when facing depression. It's always easier said than done, but you have to recognize the things you do, have an effect on your own personal 'world' and the world in which you're...

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If the Bible were never written would you still believe in God? I don't know if I'd know the name "God" or "Jesus", but I would definitely believe in some type of creator mightier than life itself.

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Can we change our destiny, or will destiny change us? You can't change what is to become, of anything really. There is always going to be an outside 'thing' that won't let you. We don't know our destiny, because it's just what is destined. That's why they say to let nature run it's course.

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After you come home from work or school, how long before you pull your shoes off and slip into something more comfortable? Immediately. Especially when I know that I am about to get settled, and basically nobody is ever here but me, I am stripped before I hit my room.

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What do you do when life is difficult? honestly... take a shower.

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What happens if you hang a Nazi flag outside your house in the US? Is it illegal? I don't know that it is illegal or not, but it doesn't seem like a brilliant cause and effect idea.

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Do you think that happiness consists not in getting what we want, but in wanting what we get? Yes, and the reason being for that is because sometimes what we get becomes what we want. Sort of like the Pavlov study. The dog gets accustomed to getting something every time he heard this noise. Now every time he hears the noise, he wants it. He expects it. We as human are often the same way. It's kinda like "never knowing what you have, until you don't have it anymore. I know I went off on...

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When has being right, been the wrong thing to be? When you've compromised the pride of someone Else's. I like to be right, who doesn't? But, I like to be wrong too, so that I can learn and revise. Also, I am not about hurting someone's pride for my own personal acknowledgments.

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How come no one has tried to be a real comic book style superhero? And will any one ever do it? Because we have jobs and shit. Within those jobs i am sure we all serve a purpose somehow to someone as a 'hero'.

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how do i make my boyfriend, my bitch? You're the reason a lot of men have commitment issues.... why not just castrate him? That would be easier. You cannot make a 'bitch' out of man, because then that man is no man at all. Men are not suppose to bow at our whim, and do as we say, and vise versa rightfully so. Why would you even WANT to be w someone who succumbs who they really are for the one they're with? Obviously he isn't a...

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My bf says he feels like a filthy beggar cause I say no to sex. it makes me uncomfortable. he gets it like four times a week and still wants I don't know if I just like satisfying 'my man' or myself, but..I can't ever grasp my head around how and why women tell their men "no" to sex. I can understand if there is a clear reason you both know you cannot have sex, but if he's wondering what's going on w some type of lack in the bedroom; he's obviously interested in having sex w just you. Because he can go sleep w whomever and sleep w...

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Do women tend to give better advice? Not necessarily, I have gotten brilliant advice from intelligent men before, as well as females. I just think that women think more, so I think they could better give advice from a thousand different perspectives.

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Girls: Does size matter? Not generally, to myself anyways. I mean I know it probably sounds like a lie, but it's true. I mean I don't know personally the "experience" of it, because the men I have been with have been well endowed; however what matters is what you do with it. I wouldn't not be with them because of it. But with that being said they better have sick head game!!!

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Girls when you watch porn do you get horny watching the guy or girl? I watch both. For me it's not that I am into the guy or the girl at all, but rather what they're doing. If I am watching it by myself, I am usually fantasizing that it's myself and the man I'm with in real life. The hardcore, the sensuality and the lust is what I am paying more attention to.

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Is it practical to worship a thing that has no personhood (life, emotions, will, or intellect)? Why worship a thing that is not a person?

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I sneezed really hard and I urinated a little. Is something wrong with my bladder? Shit happens, change your draws and keep going about your day.

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who's a hot male actor? I would say Vince Vaughn. He's sexy to me for some reason.

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You are given a task at your job. You don't have the skills, experience, or mental capacity to complete the task. What do you do? I would dive right in and try to get it right the first time. If i know that I need help, I am going to ask for it, so that I don't need help in the future; because I would learn the skill..get the experience and gain the mental capacity to do the task at hand.

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Whats the best diet you've ever heard of or tried? I've cut out pork completely about 4-5 years ago..Too much sodium.I eat a lot of chicken and try not to eat too much red meat. I think the best diet or way to become more fit is just reading about what is good for your body and what's not, and recognizing what the toll and effect things have that you put into your body. Self awareness plays a huge role in our representation and body type in...

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What Does Your Bedroom Say About You? That I'm clean, feminine, and somewhat organized. lol

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What gets you going when the going gets tough? The smarter half of my brain, and my mp3 player!

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I am not emotionally attached to my gf of 2 yrs. I've tried to break my walls but I enjoy being single. At 29yrs old, should I break up? Me as a female, and personally, I wouldn't want to be with someone that isn't "emotionally attached" to me. Not because I want to have some type of control or any other reason with deviance, it's just because that's what a "relationship" is. Anybody can have the physical..anywhere..but having your heart in it is a major necessity..for me anyways.. if I can't have that I don't want it. Age...

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I'm always tired I need a good energy boost, any suggestions? Redddbbbbbuuullll!!!!

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Is it practical to worship a thing that has no personhood (life, emotions, will, or intellect)? Why worship a thing that is not a person? You should "worship" all that gives you life. Which may be living and breathing beings and a lot of other big and small "things" that can never really show you the role they play in part of your existence; therefore you don't appreciate it's beauty and it's importance.

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Is it practical to worship a thing that has no personhood (life, emotions, will, or intellect)? Why worship a thing that is not a person?

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Period. i hate them ...........lol

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Who do you most respect? Myself

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What happens to my body if I don't eat? It ruins everything. We as human beings don't just have things in our bodies that provide for us. Everything we intake serves a greater purpose. Not getting the nutrients we need, breaks down our immune system and makes us more susceptible to getting sick. Not to mention what it does to your hair and skin. I can go a while without eating much at all because of my almost non-existing appetite....

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Wwhat does it mean if you have to go urinate more than 6 times a day? I go like.. atleast 30 x.... Six seems low to me, be thankful. lol.

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If an aborted baby is born alive, but gets thrown in the trash and then dies, isn't it the same as if the abortion was successful? Why should the abortionist be charged with murder if she was just doing her job? To simply put it.. if they're suppose to be a doctor, shouldn't they know whether the baby is living or is deceased after the procedure. And if the fetus was alive after said procedure, they'd more likely be charged with manslaughter in the first rather than murder; for the simple fact of being dumb and not so good of a doctor to be able to call life or death.

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My bf is going out of town this weekend but didn't ask me to go with him, I feel he is going to meet another woman. Should I ask him? Don't jump to conclusions right away. Let him do him. You do you, I mean Be faithful still, don't do anything out of spite.. But just know that every dog has his day. And if he's doing wrong by you, he'll have his.

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What's your greatest expectation? That I'll always live to see the next day. It's also the greatest thing that I am most grateful for.

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If you were candy what would be your flavor and what name would you go by? If I was a candy, I'd be a juicy peach tasting hard candy. That never melts. Call me Savory.

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I lost my temper and_______ it just broke. lol

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Knock! Knock! ... I'm at your door and It's pouring with rain ... my car has broken down and I need to use the phone, do you allow me in? I would normally probably say yes, but I know there's creeps around here and I've seen way too many movies, soo they can give me their name and the number they need to call for help THROUGH the door. They can stay dry in their car. lol

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What do you define as "trust"? Who do you trust the most and why? Loyalty & Trust are like the the soil to establishing any type of relationship. Lies are unnatural, so if it's unnatural it can't grow into something beautiful. To me, if I just don't have it for you.. then I can't fully respect you. It's like love is love, that's all fine and well.. but loyalty is everything.

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What does a woman feel when she goes into an orgasm? Is faking it a good way to do? haha I know for myself, that it's like a bolt of pure pleasure throughout my entire body. I feel like I can't move right after lol. Almost Completely stuck. And, if a guy is actually paying attention to your body, faking it would not be a good thing to do; because he'd be able to tell.

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When you close your eyes and picture your mother what feature stands out most? Her big smile!! It comforts me sometimes, in the sense that everything will be okay. It makes me feel good inside to know she has happiness in her life.

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What is it about Death that most are afraid of? The feeling. I am not quite afraid of death but more so how it's going to feel. I obviously don't want to die, but when I have to, I almost wish it to be instant so I won't have to have any pain or suffering; as selfish as that may sound.

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Should I be buried by deceased wife in existing plot and monument or by new wife? Children by deceased wife, new wife can not have children. My mother has this case. Smartly enough my mother and father bought their plot around the time that my father first got sick. He later on died, where he was placed in the mausoleum, where my mother's plot is also in the same one with him. My mother now has a new boyfriend. She says they have a promise, but she's not getting re-married and she is still to be placed with my father. So it's kind...

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MY DOG HAD HER 1ST PUPPY 45 MINS AGO IT WAS DEAD ;[ IS SHE GOING TO BE OK??ITS TOO LATE FOR A VET,WHAT CAN I DO ALL THEY ALL GOING TO DIE? My chihuahua had 3 puppies, her first and only pregnancy, and they all died. We were later told by a vet that when that happens; that trying to rub the puppies may get their blood flowing again. I don't know how true it is, It kind of makes a little bit of sense, but I'm not 100%

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I think it's bad karma to only want to be a good person so that you can have good karma. What do you think? I agree to a certain extent. Just like I believe karma to be true to a certain extent. That's like going to find a missing dog because of the reward. The "doing good" just to "do good" in life has sincerely died down. Everyone acts, and moves thinking what can I get if I do this? Which basically contradicts your whole demeanor of trying to do "right". I think that the morale of "karma" rarely...

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You have the choice to save a computer programmer, doctor or lawyer. Who would you save and why? Thankfully this is a hypothetical question, but I would choose to save the doctor's life. Reason being, is because a doctor can save a lot of other people. Not that the other two's lives don't matter, it just kind of makes more sense.

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What are some romantic catch phrases for a girl at school that I like? (not any mean or imbarrassing ones please). How about, "Hey, can I talk to you for a second?". It's genuine, and shows your interested. Sometimes simplicity is more romantic than "the works" of words.

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Have you ever thought about damage for your health that hormones (you take with birth control pills) can cause? Will you have healthy kids? To be honest, I do not believe in birth control. Pill wise. Shot wise..patch.. Whatever. I am a good old fashion condom girl. I've just always felt like it'd mess me up somehow. Everyone has their opinions about it, but why chemically change something in my body when it's JUST as effective as NOT using it. My sister-in-law just had her first baby, that she got pregnant with using Bc pills. I'm...

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If you found out your OB/GYN was a lesbian or your Urologist was gay, would you still continue to follow with that physician? Yes, and I think it'd be unethical if you chose not to.

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I'm 17 and my bf is 27...is it really that big of a problem if there is 10 years difference? I feel your situation. I look at it (personally) like this... You can't always go by "Age ain't nothin' but a number", though true, the numeric fact stands. He's older, I'm younger.. blah blah blah. But, I am more than confident that I can do just as "badd" as the "grown woman" can do. I don't think like a female my age would, therefore i don't categorize myself with that age bracket (19)....

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How do you gain your full potential ? Recognizing your faults, and administering your own feelings. Also, recognize and embrace the potential you are already aware of. Everything falls into place gradually.

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Will you be remembered when you die? I'll bet my life on it.

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how do i tell my boyfriend how i feel about him not making enough time for me ? The best way to try and get through, is to express and hope that a change can be made. Or that some type of medium can be accomplished. I've been in that same place, and I've come to terms with it. I mean, I have a life too, I won't wrap all of my time and thoughts into a guy. Whether it's a must or an option that we can't spend too much time together. I've learned first hand that it's not even...

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whats the best way to get over someone who you've been with for over 2 years? I think maintaining some sort of reality of the situation, if not a full check, is the best way to deal.

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Do you keep in touch with certain people for the sentimental value of what therelationship once was? Is the relationship past its relevance? I'm not one of those people to keep ex's in my contact list. Call it childish, call it whatever you wanna call it, but it's just not for me. I mean if we're cool after the aftermath that's nice, but I'm not trying to be friend you. Whatever we had is just that, had, past tense.

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Are Homemade Cards Better then Bought cards? I myself think so. It actually takes a little time and effort. And It's not a card that about a half a million other people have too.

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Is a man more attractive if he earns enough so that working outside the home would be optional for you? (Assuming he's someone you would date) Absolutely not. I don't want a man to be able to support me. However, I do want to see that that man can support himself. I like working, and I like to make my own money too. I'll stay home for awhile when I settle down and have children. Until then, I'm clockin' in.

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What do you do when you're at a party and have small boobs, you're surrounded by busty girls in cleavage and your BF likes big boobs better? You don't really do anything. I have nothing against females who are bigger chested then I. But, I tend to see most bustier women flaunting it all day long. Which, hey, do you if it's what you choose. But, that's not what I want to suggest, personally. And, I have other things I can flaunt besides my body parts, so if my man wants to look, let em' ; but he's leaving with me and my small...

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why do some women stay angry even when they have admitted they are in wrong and use emotional blackmail to get thier way Because those women are emotionally and personally insecure. So they cannot and absolutely refuse to walk away from the situation, not having the upper hand.

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i'm not sure how to tell my boyfriend's friend that i'm faithfull and just want to be chill. How do i explain myself? You don't have to explain yourself. Period. Just tell him to back up off of you, and squash it there.

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What would you do if a 50 yr old man hits on you n your only 19 Happens all the time. Who cares though? Their not doing any harm. Men are men at all ages, doesn't mean I am going to leave w that man; but I take it as flattering. Ease up.

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Do you believe that the most valuable information is learned outside the classroom? Absolutely. Education in classrooms teaches you the basics of life, but I don't feel it generally teaches you the need to know necessity facts. Most schools are limited in which they can teach and speak about. Or they sugar coat shit. Everything is touchy feely now a days and kids eventually learn the hard way on the streets.

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me, my soon to be fiance are going to be having our own place together but we need stuff but we have little money any ideas or help for me?? Do everything in moderation. Get what you can, when you can. Don't feel like you have to have some plush, lavish, place right away. It's not even what makes a home. It's stressful. But Just support each other, and do as best as you can.

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"When an elephant is in trouble, even a frog will kick it." What does this mean??? I interpret it as meaning, that the most biggest people can be taken advantage of in their time of vulnerability, even by more smaller beings. ....lol maybe.

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What is the most soothing sound to you? Running water. It's really weird and unknown to my own self why it helps, but I'll go into the bathroom sometimes to just sit in there with the shower on for a minute. It really eases me.

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How to make self happy everyday? I've gone through a lot of things, in what technically has been a short life. I've felt every type of personality, I've experimented w being different characters through out growing up; trying to find myself. And, I finally have. Truly. I know where I want to be and what I want to do. Sure, I don't want to be in a bakery, working my ass of for people who don't appreciate hard work. But...

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Do you think women both psychologically and pysiologically need a variety of sexual partners even if she's in a relationship? Yeah, but whether she chooses to act on those thoughts, when in a relationship; is what defines her character as a woman.

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Which is correct, :"She looks like me" or "She looks like I"..? She looks like me, You only say I when you're speaking of you and another person. Not when you're describing a person. Or yourself. Or it could be "She looks like I do". It's proper. But, what's really "proper" these days anyways huh?

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If you could own any pet in the world what would it be? They shouldn't be pets, But, I would want the biggest non-poisonous spider there is. That can be tame behind a cage. But that's why I wouldn't wanna keep it as a pet. But I am really REALLY afraid of them. So I would want to overcome that fear...... Someday. lol

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What is the key to success? Mentality, Drive, and will-power.

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What did you do today for the sake of happiness? Did it ultimately satisfy? Today was my first day off from both all of my classes, and work in a week or so. So my happiness today, was cleaning up and out and rearranging my house. And to top it all off, a night out with my ladies!!!

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What is your personal Exercise Routine for the week? I try to eat as healthy as possible, but I love to cook so it's hard to not fry something through out the week. But, along with eating right and eating once or twice out of the day, I go to the gym that My apartment complex offers. If I don't have a chance to work out that day, then I try to at least do crunches before bed. Now, that it's winter I am in complete fitness overdrive.

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Do really sarcastic people ever get on your nerves? Sometimes. The people who are overly sarcastic, all of the time; are usually the people who have a hard time with reality and dealing with the situations they're in. Which is perfectly fine, but having a real grip helps too.

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Do women get grossed out by hairy chests? I don't think men should shave any of their hair off. Except for facial, private areas, and a hair cut. Chest hair is very minor, and I like playing with it lol.

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How is your sex life lately? Is it exciting or bored out of your mind..What are your plans to spruce is up a bit or two...What do you have in mind? The little bit I do get, Is just lovely!

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IF your s/o told you it was OK to go out and have an affair ; would you? Hell no, I don't need someone's approval to be or sleep with anyone. But, with that being said.. also I do not believe in cheating. Period. A man is either going to say that to see what you'd do, like testing you; he's having an affair himself, or he plain doesn't care. I'm not with any of those.

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Spiritually speaking, are loners happier? I know that I myself have points where I don't want to be around or talk to anyone. And I've been upset and I've been completely happy when going into that mode. I need me time too. I need to see things and think sometimes without any life disruption. The WHOLE WORLD needs alone time. Then maybe people won't be such a holes.

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A lot of people say "I don't care what anybody thinks of me". Can this really be true? I don't know how it is for anybody else, but I only care about what the people I love and care for think of me. Everyone else, I am sure, has a character invented for me already. I'm not worried.

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Ladies. .have you ever flashed by accident I've never flashed anybody..But one time I was at the local amusement park and I was on this bungee water slide, it's really steep and you use just your body. I went down it and when I got to the bottom, my friends all had this jaw dropped facial expression. I then noticed that my bathing suit top was completely up. Not to mention this dude life guard standing right there, I was...

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Me and my girlfriend are spending a few weeks back home in England after New Year, do you think she'll like my hometown? If she appreciates seeing New and different land/cultures of the world, she will.

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How does not sleeping affect you the following day? I get sluggish, but somehow I get great spurts of energy because I am under the pressure of "This has to be done today, and this...." My body says you need to crash, but my mind and schedule absolutely shuns the idea of sleep.

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When people attempt to manipulate you how do you react ? Have you ever just looked at them and sternly said, NO ? What was the reaction? Did you enjoy it? I can normally see through and tell when somebody is trying to be manipulative with me. Do I always speak on it, no. But, that doesn't mean I'm not 3 steps ahead and 2 paces to the right. If it's minor, I let that shit ride out; because it does not phase me. If it's really just some ugly situation, then I choose to not deal with that person.

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How will you know if your partner is satisfied after you made love? I know I've satisfied my man well, if he doesn't even want to move out of the bed right away afterward. Lol

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Women....do you know what men want? I think I have a pretty good idea of what men want, but mostly I am not concerned with what MOST men want. Just mine!

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What is the best compliment that you can give a man? "That was great" !!

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Do you agree to this-If we get what we want, its good. If we dont get it, its even better!? I agree indefinitely. Reason being is because if you never really actually have to want for something, you'll never know the value of the things you do have. Not only is working for or towards what you want hard, but it's also teaching you life lessons and hardships.

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How many people have still got a land line at home? No, my sister and I both have cell phones so a home phone would be a completely unnecessary bill.

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Why did bill clinton get impeached? Let's face reality. He got whatever he got because he was a damn good president and got probably very good head. Not too many were quite fond of it, so they let some irrational asshole who was probably completely sexually deprived fuck up the whole country.

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Do you want to more about Islam? I would love to learn more about Islam as well as every other culture/religion/way of life. I am not limited nor exempt to any new learning's of others different from my own.

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Have you ever found yourself believing your own lies? I only ever lie to myself, if I even do that. But, I do tend to do it sometimes; so I guess yes that somewhat makes me a candidate.

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Do you think for the next four years we will see nothing but reports on what Michelle Obama is wearing? Of course because most Americans believe that not only in general, but in the public eye appearance MUST be everything. Forget about the personality, they can be the dumbest asshole as long as her purse matches her shoes. These people who are constantly reporting on the "dos and don't s" of fashion, are the same people wondering why their 5th grader is being called fat, or ugly....

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Do you judge people by their relatives? Absolutely not. For one, I am nobody to ever judge someone regardless of any circumstance. It's not my place. But, I cannot judge someone by their relatives because I do not want to be judged based upon my own. I love my family, and they mean the world to me. But... I am my own person and I live to be known for what I do, not what they do.

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Did any of your relatives enter the U.S. through Ellis Island? Where were they coming from? A lot of my father's side of the family, came from Cuba and Italy/Sicily and he use to tell me all the time about their trials and tribulations going through Ellis Island.

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Is there a word for the sudden urge to leave somewhere/someone/something? "Merk","bounce","skate","get the fuck outta dodge"... lol

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Do you ever get the feeling the joke is on you? Actually, more frequently now than before.

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If your relationship were a painting, what would it look like? Paint me a word picture. I would have to say, a blank canvas waiting for a masterpiece to be completed upon it.

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How many times do you have to hear "I'm Sorry" before you accept it? Apologies get old, if you hear them enough. You start not to accept them from certain people who have reoccurring things to be sorry for.

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Fruits or vegetables? I love them both!

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Regardless of the reason, I need to evict a tenant. Can I just send him note stating that I am selling my house and that he has 30 days to vacate? Or do I have to give a reason? The lease is month to month. I don't think that you have to tell them why at all, because it is periodic tenancy. Meaning like week-to-week or month to month. However, a landlord cannot terminate the tenancy except at the end of the month and only after 20 days prior written notice to the tenant.

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Do you ever take the time to stop and admire a beautiful sunset? yes, as well as nature's many other splendors.

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Do girls like it when you treat them like crap? To keep it real, some females actually DO like being treated like crap. They actually DO like it for their man to fuck up sometimes. The reason being is because it gives them an avenue of some type of advantage, or upper hand so to speak. It's childish nevertheless, but it's all in the way that person thinks and carries themselves.

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What would you like to do with your mother? lol Have long talk with her. About my life.

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What, in your opinion, would be the worst possible way to die? In fear.

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Has anyone ever flashed their privates at you? Yeah, this dude I didn't even know in one of my classes my first year of college flashed his junk to me on his cell phone. It's not cute to me. And, I was a little offended that he even got the impression that it was something I really wanted to see lol. It's usually the "tools" of the bunch to do these things.

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Would you rather be naked right now? Definitely, but considering that Rochester weather sucks, It's too freezing to me to not be layered up.

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With what youre doing now, are you guilty of putting something off? That's one way of putting it.

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What made you the angriest last week? A lot of things anger me through out my days and my weeks, but I feel as if reflecting upon them too much make them present. When they should remain in the past.

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What is your opinion on days that the sun isn't shining? You have to make your own sunshine!

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When was the last time you cut some ties that were binding you? I don't think anyone will ever be able to cut all their ties and tie their loose ends. Life, is one big ball of tangled yarn. So thick, you can't even cut it. You have to basically just... "Roll with it".. everyday, as it unravels before you.

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What do you assume when you see someone dining alone? Anytime that I go out to eat, with someone or a group of people, it really does bother me to see a person eating alone. I don't know why exactly, but it makes me feel some sort of sadness for that person. And, I'm sure some of them are perfectly happy people. But, I can't help but wonder sometimes.

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What is your best way you "relax" I would normally say an elixir of some type. But nowadays, that's not even cutting it. If I had to say one thing that's been a " Ever since I can remember" r&r escape; would be the shower. With the lights off. A candle if you'd like. I don't even necessarily have to be in it. Just Sitting in the bathroom, with only the the noise of the shower eases me.

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If someone you knew was getting ready to enter into a new romantic relationship and ask for your advice, what advice would you give? Do what you want to do, just don't get attached.

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Whats the lamest pickup line somebody has ever said to you? They're all lame, and never uniquely pertain to me.

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Do you think an 11 yr. old girl is too young to wear makeup? Outside of her house, Yes. Inside, Playing around; not at all. Little girls are going to admire the glitz and glamor of being a girl growing to become a woman. Not always, but usually. So they're going to want to play around, let them. You shouldn't however allow them to publicly be "done up" as a woman might be.

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It used to be known that the guy was the provider, and the girl focuses on housework and/ the raising of a family. With all these changes in society nowadays. What is your preference in a relationship? and what still seperates the man from the woman? When I have a home, husband and children I want to be a "housewife". That's how I was raised. I think it's great for women to be established outside of their marriage, but that's something you take care of before the whole family commitment ordeal. That's why I am on track now with my education and money making, So I can be all that. I want to be the Gardner, and...

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Have you ever taken a mud bath? The closest thing to any form of bath other than bubble I've taken has been oatmeal. It was great. It felt so weird but It really helps your skin.

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what was the first time u got drunk? 12 or 13. I think that's probably why I barely like to drink these days.

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What would you do if you got cheated on I would more than likely keep it moving. I can't be with someone who would want to cheat on me. I've been there and done that already. And, I don't like the person it made me back then. It would be hurtful, I do have feelings; but I kind of feel like I've already dealt with some of the most painful things that I will ever endure. In and outside of relationships. So, I would...

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Can you name a place where racism is not a problem? Racism may not be a problem in like "second and third party" situations, but as a population of THIS world; there will always be racism and discrimination of some kind.

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Have you ever lived in a haunted house? It seemed like every house I grew up In was haunted. Either that or it was the fact that I was gullible and my older brothers and sisters would always torture me lol.

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Where is the best place to have sex? It's always fun to try new things and be spontaneous w your man. In that case I'm down. But, normally I'd prefer a bed. You know?

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Whens the last time you got some? like a week. always feels like forever though.

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I'm becoming a rapper but can't think of a rap name. What are some good names that havent been used, and how could I think of one? (this is a serious question) You have to choose something that you feel strongly represents who you are. Your Ora. The type of mood your music is. A lot of these "entertainers" now a days have the wackest names because it's catchy or it's "cool", but yet holds little meaning to whom they really are. Just keep it you.

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If you had a tail, what would you use it for? Probably play with it or do something seductive, like Penelope Pussycat.

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What is the oldest television show you actually remember watching as a child? Every and anything on nick@nite back then and TV land. My mother was like an addict for those networks.

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Is your life simple or complicated? Why? My life is and will probably forever be complicated. I probably wouldn't have it any other way. Life is too short to be simple. And, you know.. there's nothing wrong with being simple either. I guess it's a combination of the hand your dealt sometimes and preference. The best things in life are complicated. I feel like I can handle them all.

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What can happen in the blink of an eye? Life.

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My boyfriend always urges to watch porn...is this a red flag that he desires to be with other woman and im not enough for him? Look, men like porn. Maybe it's not a porno but what you would say "smut". I don't mind it. I never fall insecure because of the females in them, nor everyday females. I think for women mostly it's about not feeling good enough. Or that it's got to be cheating, because he wants to watch other women. Maybe he wants foreplay. Embrace it and become open. Whatever your...

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True of False, have you made a significant change in your life in the past 3 months? Absolutely. Everyday doesn't have to be some sort of significant change, but I try for better everyday; it has to be something significant for progress of better change. It's like Cause and effect.

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I am a christian newlywed, greatly attracted to my husband, and haven't been doing a great job of keeping sex on the brain and find myself rarely in the mood. What can I do to keep it more "top of mind" and help my body develop a greater level of desire. To be honest, I don't agree much, if at all with the others. That is your husband now. So within your own faith it's not wrong to be intimate with your HUSBAND, no more than it is to kiss him. You shouldn't have to set a timer or "scheduler". Where is the romance and passion within that? Think about your husband, and the way it feels when you ARE in the mood. When...

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If outside of jail, where do bad guys typically live? Next door to you, down the street from you.. three houses down from that dude. Bad PEOPLE in general are all over the place. You can't really take anybody for face value anymore these days. The funny thing is, is that the worlds most worst "best" criminals aren't even behind bars.

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Why do we wake up in the morning? Because we we're blessed with another day.

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When asked "what do you see in me?" by a loved one, what should I say? When it comes to love and blurting out wonderful things to her, my mind will fall into the darkness. I'm the type of person where if I were to do that chances are they'll take some offense to what I say. I can't sugar coat anything really. I mean, I could. But, why do it? For me it's about not only being able to love this person for their good qualities, but it's just as important for me to be able to love them for their imperfections. People don't want to be...

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If you were abducted by an alien, and they said you could bring just 1 thing with you to outerspace, what would it be? A picture of my family.

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Sweat pants or wind pants? Sweat pants, the sound of windbreaker anything makes me cringe!

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Why can't I seem to trust my boyfriend of 4 years? I think everything he tells me is a lie. I can't help but check his cell and look for clues. All his friends are disrespectful and I don't see why he hangs with them. Am I insecure? I think it has to do with a dash of insecurity, but a whole lot to do with self defense. It's not so much about being insecure that he is doing something; it's more so about the fact that if he does.. you don't want to feel devastated. That's why you look through his phone. You want to know. Females have to realize that we have no right. That's his personal shit. I...

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My girlfriend and i have had a bad few months, now she has gone away for a week or so on a roadtrip or something, she said we are still together but she needs a break and wont answer her calls, what does that mean? is that just a polite way of dumping me? It's actually not polite at all. Some females are skeezes these days. She basically wants to do whatever she wants to do for the time being without feeling any type of guilt. Then when she's ready to do the "you and her" thing again she'll come around. It's honestly up to you whether or not you choose to deal with these methods.

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Where is your peaceful place and why? My peaceful place is on a piece of paper. Whether it be in a journal, or rhymes. The Times I feel poetic. It all gives me a sort of a step outside of my own self. I don't feel any stress or pressure when I write.

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What do you think of when I say "Bottoms up.". Face down.

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Would you rather be a person who runs an experiment or be the person experimented on? Any type of situation applies. Neither until I know what the experiment entails.

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What is the difference between economic growth and development? Economic growth is basically the accomplishment of Economic Development. The development is the "plan" and the growth is success.

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Mr. Weatherman, what is your forcast,________________________? Sunny, with a lot of brew.

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I love taking a bath. Any suggestions to make a bath even better? I love bubble baths. I wish I had time to take at least one bath a day. It's not the same as a shower. I put a lot of things into my baths. Lol. I'll throw some lotion into it, a little bit of baby powder; dash of baby oil. I add a little bit of bubble bath, among other smell goods. Then, just soak. If you can find any type of solace from it, that's the cherry on top of it all....

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Should I stay or should I go? Married 22 yrs., 6 mo. ago discovered husband had affair/s for last 6 yrs., unprotected. Says he loves me, wants to keep marriage & family. Last 6 mo. he's been doing all the "right" things. Six years is a longggg time! I always say stay in your marriage unless you're life is in danger. But, I feel some type of way now. If you're HUSBAND has been cheating for 6 years, regardless the number; give his ass the boot. Unprotected besides. I wouldn't care if I was showed his and or her papers stating their clean. It's not the point. Marriage and sex between two people should be sacred. I...

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Which would you perfer a vow of chastity or not speaking ever again? Never speaking again. Whatever brilliance I have is not limited to speaking so I could definitely manage.

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When you are doing something that you know is really not right, do you seek the opinions/approval of others to feel better about yourself or do you hide it from others because you don't want them to think ill of you? Most of the time I have good judgment. If I cannot decide on my own whether something is morally right or wrong, I automatically know it's wrong. Something minor, where approval or opinions may be needed to make a decision on my behalf is different. Nobody can really make you do the right thing they can only suggest. So mostly I try and kill 2 birds with one stone and do the right...

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My boyfriend of 2 years has been sending text messages to a friend about eating together, seeing each other, and that she looks beautiful. He says he loves and I'm the only one for him. Is he cheating, or am I overreacting? My best suggestion is forget about it. It might sound crazy, but it's actually the most sanest way of going about your situation. Men are going to do what they want to do regardless. If you accuse, nag or make him feel defensive; he's going to rebel. You're not his wife, so what ties does he really have with you? So unfortunately when they make up their mind about something,...

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Why does this happen to my husband? my husband gets an erection when he showers with our 2 year old son, he has never thought about doing anything perverted I don't want to imply anything like the other answers. However I do just want to state that the male "anatomy" never lies. Sexually. An erection comes from stimulation. Same as "morning wood". Same as the defense of women raping men cases. You cannot force a man to become erect, unless he's stimulated. An erection is about both the physical and psychological.

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How do you describe your life in a word? Meaningful

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What is another good word for "stoned"? blazed, geeked, bent, skeed.. to name a few lol

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So how many times have you thought about sex today already? Today as in after 12 am last night.. Tons.. a little this morning, and right now due to this question lol.

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How did you survive the violence that you grew up in or with? Minded my own business.

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When i say condom, what's the 1st thing that comes to mind? "Use one".

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When we wake up in the morning, we have two simple choices: go back to sleep and dream, or wake up and chase those dreams, what do you choose? Wake up! Nothing comes to a sleeper, but dreams. You can't sleep on life !!!

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Have you ever felt so tired, sleepy and jet lagged that you hallucinated things like a kangaroo on the highway? I've never experienced that, but I was with my sister when she did. She was just done. Like she was real tired. Didn't want me to drive, "she was fine". We were driving down this street and she like HALTED the car. Thank god for seat belts. When I asked, what are you doing? She replied to me, "I have to let the family of deer cross, hold on". !!! No deer, I swear.....

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Which gender is more insecure: men or women? I think men a little bit more than women. Women just tend to show them a little bit more than men do. Yeah, some females are insecure about their looks..their relationship, whatever. But Men are insecure about being men. They are afraid that if they do this "thing" whatever it may be, it will make them "less than a man". Their constantly thinking about their manhood. And,...

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Do you always use your manners, such as please, thank you, and no thank you? Why or why not? I do. Please always shows that you want something, respectfully. "May I have it Please", "Please, Give it to me" "Please be careful" ..The reason being is because it shows sincerity, and sort of something like gratuity if you will. Even if I don't have to, or the gesture, meal, flowers...whatever.. Wasn't a big deal... it to me still counts. I don't...

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If a group of thieves broke into your house during the night, would you ever consider using a firearm? Wound or kill? No, reason #1 I don't own a gun. I have plenty of Ginsu knives but we all know how that gun and knives fight go down. Secondly, I would definitely assist. them with moving anything they'd like to take from my house with a smile. Thieves aren't murderers. Murderers are people who go and knowingly kill people. It's already premeditated. It's their thing. Thieves want...

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Where do you put your hands when you are sleeping? I always sleep on either side, with my hands rested in between my legs. I don't know why, It's just always been like that. It's like my "safe spot". lol

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Was there a food you loved so much as a child you wanted it every day? I loooved Bologna and mayonnaise sandwiches, now just even thinking about it ruins my appetite.

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When you were a kid, did you and your friends pretend to be characters from a TV show, movie, or book? We used to pretend we were Charlie's Angels. A couple of girlfriend's and I always use to re-enact the latest music videos on MTV. It was so serious to us too.

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Were you raised by someone other than your parents? How was it? I was raised by a lot of different people (including my parents) and in a lot of different households. I guess growing up, I always hated it. But now I appreciate it, because I got to view things differently and I wasn't accustomed to just one type of surrounding.

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Can you name a celebrity that both sings and acts and is great at both? Jamie Fox

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Do you ever wonder if you might be the problem and not everyone else? I often feel like that, that i might be the problem or have the problem. But then again.. anyone around me are people I care for (friends/family) so if they're not trying to help me out in some way; whether it be advice and so on...i feel they might be adding to the problem. It might sound selfish but I know that is how I am when it comes to people i love and they have an issue. I want to...

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Is a tattoo worth the pain? I actually went and got a tattoo covered over the weekend (ex's initials)it was very painful physically but emotionally, it was soothing for me.

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What the hell have I gotten myself into? I ask myself that same question, everyday.

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First thing that comes to mind: Real men ______ eat pussy!

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What very sincere promise did you once make but failed to deliver on? To not go back to this place that my father told me not to go again, and i did.. and he went into cardiac arrest while i was there. He died later on that night.

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Do you distance yourself from someone that you believe has problems? Are you afraid that it's contagious? No, that's immature, and it's heartless

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Do you know somebody who tries to manipulate you, but doest succeed, but keeps trying? There is always going to be someone or people that try and manipulate you. I usually just keep my nose open for the bullshit. Usually works.

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What makes great sex? A great connection w the person your having it with.

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How do you look at life? how do you handle what life throws at you? I handle it day by day, and i pick and choose the things I feel like dealing w that day. Some things are just there, that don't necessarily have to be dealt with right away but never let these "problems" go un noticed. also... I handle my life by deciding what is more important and what is not worth my time, effort, or emotions.

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Whats the best diet you've ever heard of or tried? The watch what you eat and exercise diet.

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What one thing should every man know about women? No matter how lady-like, educated, sane or nice we might be. We do not.. like to be fucked with!!

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Your 18 and cant live home anymore never wrkd dnt have a car or any other place to stay and you can only go to a community college or a trade skul. so of course they dnt have dorms. what do u do? and dont say job corps. Look for local shelters, as well as a job. Living with or off other friends may put a strain on your friendship, especially if you're always in close quarters. Or if at all possible reconcile issues that are keeping you from being able to live at home.

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Will you state two truths and 1 lie about yourself? Don't say which is the truth and which is the lie and I will try and guess. :) -I am a Criminal justice major -I am satisfied with things right now -I love heels !!!

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King or Koontz? King FTW!

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You have one million dollars and must split it amongst two charities. Which two do you choose? The American Heart Association and the National Kidney Foundation.

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What is the perfect woman? The one who is imperfectly perfect.

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Whats the best thing a woman can do to get a mans attention? Not seek any attention at all.

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Do you want someone so badly,...but know they will never be yours? Something like that.

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What was the longest you have gone without Sex? how did you break your cold streak and did it live up to your expectations I went a whole year after my first relationship ended, and then six months after my last relationship ended. I won't have sex with anybody that I don't plan on being with intimately or exclusively. And it always lives up, because going without it for so long makes it that much better when I do choose to be with someone again.

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Should I kiss him? I am Muslim so its against my religion but I am really attracted to him He asked me if he could so he is respectful. I been hanging out with him 4 2 months. but I am going back to school soon so nothin can come outta it. is it worth it? It's forbidden because it's lustful. I don't know if I'll sound ignorant but I've always believed that the Muslim have rules to protect their daughters. Lust is a "sin" in any form, great or small. Now Religion is always a sticky subject, because everyone has their own belief or opinion of the subject itself. But, if you believe in your religion.. then a boy,...

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How do you boost YOUR self-esteem? I maintain my physical and emotional health. I use to be heavier, I didn't like it.. went to the gym, I go everyday-every other day now. I often feel distant from those I care about or love, So I always remember that when i need them; they'll be there. Maintain everyday like it was your job. Your job to look great, feel great, speak greatness and thrive FOR greatness. It honestly IS...

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Fill in the blank: The most unusual thing I've ever used duct tape for is __________ . lmao

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Do you talk with your self? All of the time, because sometimes I either need to hear myself say it to believe it.. also because I can think better out loud at times too.

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What's one knot you can tie? The one I get in my stomach, every now and then.

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Can you sleep without your pillow? I can sleep with out pillows, blankets.. I don't even need a bed. If it's not concrete, I can fall asleep on it.

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If someone close to you commited a crime, would you turn them in? If it's going to put any of my family in jeopardy, the situation would vary either way.

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Can men live without women? No, woman was made for man.

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Have you ever had so much on your mind that you couldn't sleep? Sometimes, and sometimes not so frequent. But, I find that after I've been up for awhile racking my nerves, Sleep is the best medicine and I feel 100% better in the morning!!

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Have you ever felt like people would be better off without you? I don't necessarily think people are better off without me, but I believe that some people are better off without each other. Like one doesn't compliment the others personality or lifestyle and vise versa. And too, sometimes I think certain people need somebody like me in their life; whatever role that might be.

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Tell me,how much does it take to drive a person 'Insane' in your opinion? What do you think it would take for you to go there? To Complete madness?* Prolonged lies. It's one thing to tell me something that you think might hurt me or make me "go mad"; but it's another to continuously lie claiming it's an omission.. when it's pure cowardliness enabling nothing BUT lies.

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Girls how would you react if you found a stash of porn under your boyfriends bed? I'd be mad that he stashed them, and didn't offer to share!

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What if a guy tells you everyday that he loves you....sounds fishy? He probably means it... some say it when they feel they need to, and some men just say bullshit thinking that it's what the female wants to hear.. I'll pass.

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What is one thing that you find hard in life? Dealing with liars.

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How many sexual partners have you had this year? 1

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Are homeless poeple homeless or houseless? Some people who live in houses are HOMEless. A house and a home when you think about it, are two different things. You can walk into a house and not feel like it's "homely", meaning where is the love? That is just some food for thought.

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What's the greatest advice that you have ever recieved, and who was it from? "Fuck em'.. Fuck em' all" - my mother! Can be applied wherever you feel necessary.

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Why do some people naturally talk extremely loud? this question is about my aunt and she can hear great! She can even hear when you whisper stuff so its not that. She even talks loud when she is talking regularly like she is yelling I'm only loud, when either I want to be heard, or when I'm with loud people and cannot get a word in edge wise. I am quiet, when I am with more quiet, reserved, low keyed kind of people. We all have different volumes, for different people, functions and groups.

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If you were a leader would you condition your followers to ensure perfection? No,I would condition them to succeed. Perfection is not always progression.

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Are you actively involved in your community? subconsciously I am. Like picking up trash I see. Or letting an elder lady sit on the bus. I talk and greet people, I embrace new faces. I try to speak education to everyone I meet. In some form or way I feel that I help out the community, by changing someones outlook on whatever; one person at a time.

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Should parents be one step ahead of their kids? Yes and no. Sometimes it's for their child's own good and other times parents take it a step further and disrespect the privacy of their kids and wind up losing their balance they have with them.

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Would you blame parents for problem behavior on the part of some teenagers? I would say a lot of the time actions are learned at home, but I also think a lot of children pick up bad habits from other kids. Which is formed from the way kids are disciplined. So in a sense ..yes and no.

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I hate women because i am single. it is their fault for not being interested in me. Since i hate women and have given up on any relationship, is it acceptable for me to be a misogynist and treat women like crap? A women can feel when a man is scorned. Nobody wants to deal with somebody who is always angry for another persons actions. Not only that but we can also sense when you hold some sort of resentment towards women. It's in the way you speak to her, the way you look at her, the way you approach her. Maybe you lack any REAL support from a women and that's your problem.

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When you are in a relationship do you always give 100% of yourself, or do you hole back a little to keep from getting hurt? You can't really put a percentage on how much of yourself you can give to a person. I mean it's hard to say because if you 100% fully give yourself to someone you're never going to have a backbone, leaving some sort of gateway to be formed for getting hurt. As long as your making the person you're with happy and as long as you feel happy in return.. numbers mean nothing.

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What is the best thing that every happened to you? Every morning that I wake up, Is the best thing that has ever happened to me.

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What is your opinion of people in gangs? They're just people who feel that they don't fit in any other place, or have nothing too significant to look forward to. So they try and relate themselves with gangs and groups they feel share the same similarities as them. It's all about acceptance.

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Which is more pleasurable to men, a tight or loose vagina? I am sure men prefer tight. Nobody wants to feel like they're throwing a hot dog in a hall way.

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What do you think of open relationships,polygamous,swinging,etc? I don't think it's natural. I mean I understand that it might be hard (no point intended) for men to be monogamous but it's like if that's what you want; I don't want to deal with you. Some women can handle it and could care less. That's because they enjoy doing the same thing. But, If I myself am not going out and sleeping with other men purely because it's...

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If you had your way with your s/o, how many times a week would you all have sex? If it was my way... I'd do it like I brush my teeth, when I wake up and before I go to sleep. Everyday. And if he still had it in him, I'm down for in between meals. lol

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Describe your love life in three words or less. @ times i feel like ... Who needs one?

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Are you usually defiant or you take the easy route of submission? I am defiant whenever I feel the need to be, I wouldn't say I ever really take the "easy route" and submit, unless it's in the bedroom. Even then, I still have to play my own part.

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Do you feel shunned? Yes sometimes and a lot before but it's those same people that shun me; that want to care now that I don't give a fuck anymore.

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If you could get someone back in your life who would it be and why? My father and it's selfish of me because he suffered tremendously the last couple years of his life; but I love him and miss him terribly. I wouldn't want to bring him back unless I got to choose that he'd be healthy if I did so. If not, then I wouldn't.

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If your childhood had a taste, what would it be? Cherry kool-aid.

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This weekend I've been sleeping about 12-16 hrs a day and have been eating a lot while I'm awake! I'm usually not getting a lot of sleep.I dont know why I'm going on an eating binge..? I think you might have iron deficiency anemia. It causes you to have more of an appetite and causes weight gain and heavy sleepiness. I think it's caused from losing large amounts of blood. Maybe from a period, if there is no other blood loss from your body.

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My friend thinks she's not bulemic, because she only makes herself get sick when she knows she's eaten to much. I don't know how to help her, she's not fat she's 5'7 maybe 140lbs. Guys are tripping to get another look at her.. Is she bulemic? Why is everyone always so quick to jump to their medical books? I've had to make myself throw up once or twice after eating only for the simple fact that I seriously had a stomach ache. I don't know If what I had was spoiled or If my stomach was just way too full, but not everyone has to be bulimic. I actually HATE! throwing up. So, what does your medical book say about that? If she...

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Have you fallen down this summer, where were you and what caused it? I fell UP the stairs earlier. And, I was at my old elementary school earlier this summer on the play ground with my nieces and nephews and I remember telling them to be careful of this one step because I always fell on it when I was younger. Don't you know two minutes later, I fell from the exact step from my past that i JUST warned them about. My little niece almost died of laughter.

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What would you take with you if you could bring one thing when you die to the afterlife? I wouldn't bring anything. It's not natural.

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Who to you has been the most inspirational person in your life? Famous or not famous? And why? Three people come to mind quickly.....My parents have both played great roles in inspiring me. My father still does even though he's passed and my mother always knows what I should do, and has by far the best advice anyone has ever given me... As far as who's inspirational to me in my life now, I'd have to say the man I've been seeing for a while now. He's beautiful and...

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Would you check your s/o's email out of curiousity? Never, that is a total invasion of privacy. Even if someone could do it knowing they'd never get caught, it's still wrong. I would feel ashamed in myself, because it's childish, insecure, and petty.

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If your friend kept tellin lies to ur bf and ur bf sort of believed them does that mean ur bf doesnt trust u or something . but the lies are like ....shes goin to cheat on u I don't think that it means he doesn't trust you, but a girl and her friends bond is usually close.Girlfriends tell each other things. So whatever her friend or a close friend of hers may say might be true. So, he probably just thinks she is trying to be a good person, when in all actuality it's the opposite. ( if what she says is UN true) you need to re evaluate your friendship...

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When you were a kid, what were you in trouble for the most? I got in trouble a lot for talking back and saying the word "freaking". Both of my parents hated it because they knew what I meant by saying freaking.

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Whenever you were a child in gym class, were you picked relatively early, moderately towards the middle, or were you one of the last to go? I wasn't like the most popular girl in school, but I was one of them.. So whenever we had gym class it'd either be a boy who really liked me that picked me or it was one of my friends. I never got to be a captain though.

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When you were little, what's one thing you were scolded for? Stomping up the stairs or slamming the door after I was yelled at. My father absolutely HATEEED it. If we did it, He'd make us open and close the door 100 times or if we stomped up the stairs we'd have to walk up and down them 100 times. Some people think it's harsh, but let me tell you I never slammed another door or stomped on the stairs again.

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What is your favourite quick dinner to make? Fried chicken with black beans and rice.

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What would you do if you looked in the obituaries and you were in it? Definitely not cross any streets that day!

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Who runs the house you or your s/o? If I am going to live with a man. I want him to run the house. I want to be able to make decisions too, but it's not a women place to completely rule the household unless she is otherwise obligated. That is the mans job, a woman's role is to keep it up. I don't know, my parents were old fashion.

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Richness: banker, player, contractor or.... or being a good man. That is richness.

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When was the last time you went out for breakfast? Last week and it was brunch. lol

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I am a soldier currently deployed to Iraq; my third trip. I often find myself happy one minute, and angry the next. I feel lucky to have my wife one second, and the next I start an argument with her, then I am depressed. What the heck is wrong with me? It sounds like Postpartum depression. A lot of people have it. Whether it's from giving birth, where the mother wants NOTHING to do with the child after it's born. Even though it might not be a reason that has to do with anything at all. It's a chemical imbalance caused from various reasons. Caused from a death of a close person or family member and definitely in the case of...

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What is something makes you angry or irritable while shopping? SLOW PEOPLE. I don't know why I walk so fast. I just do and always have. Whenever I am walking it's with conviction like I have a premiere to get to or something. So when I am in the mall or some place crowded like that it irritates the hell out of me to try and pass up SLOW walkers or people just lolly-gagging like there's NOT 1000 other people walking around.

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Why is it a bad idea for a married man to cheat with three other women? Adultery & Karma.

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Ladies:Have you ever had a guy just whip out his hard cock in front of you without warning?how did you react to it? Yes and it was grotesque. If it's my man, then that's foreplay for me.. Anybody else is just not tempting or stimulating. I find it disrespectful and pitiful.

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Do you ever dream of that fairy tale relationship? Maybe it's a fairytale, maybe it's a dream come true and I just don't know it yet. I don't want a fairytale. I want one man that I can love, be devoted and supportive to. I want to challenge and in return be challenged back. I want there to be enough love that even when he's wrong I in some form or way can still hold my ground and still be able to give him that love,...

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Is television harmful? Absolutely. It's harmful with it's content and it's harmful to families. A lot of American families spend most of their time around a television and less time around a table. There are families that don't eat dinner together, but rather just scatter around the house eating in different places or in the living room with the t.v on. I like t.v sometimes. I only ever watch it...

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Can a woman beat a man in fighting? Maybe professionally. Maybe if she's bigger. Maybe if she is about the same height or has the same strength as said man. But, i believe most of the women who "win" fights against a man is basically because he either let her or he wasn't putting up a fight period. Woman were not made to fight men, they were made for men.

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Why are attractive women so evil? They're prone to making false accusations and gold digging. I don't agree with the false accusations and gold digging, but I do believe a lot of attractive women get to be so "evil" because they don't have a man to put them in their place. They go about their day with men trying to get at them all day long, that she only reflects herself off of her image and nothing else. A lot of beautiful women have ugly ass attitudes and it's...

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I believe in women's intuition. Do you? If so, why do you think women have it? As do i, It's always been something that's been our blessing and our curse. I know it's been that way for myself at least. Whenever my ex cheated or was into some funny business, I NEVER had to snoop. Not only because I am not a personal space invader.. but also because it was a pit of my stomach feeling or some way the information would get to me without me even thinking about...

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Why we feel that this life is so long? Life only seems long to those who either have nothing going for themselves or someone who has nothing to live for. People who enjoy life, and do have something to live for; find that life is just completely too short!

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What do you do when you are depressed? Take meds, hide, cry, get angry, for some examples. If I am truly depressed about something, or distraught.. I sleep it off. Either that, or I always think that things will and can only get better from that point on out. It works every time.

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Should any kind of porn bother the women who are in a serious relationship? No. I am so sick and tired of females on here complaining about there men watching porn. What the hell is the big deal? I could understand if you're not getting any, and he's getting himself off. But, why are you not incorporating yourself into the situation? It doesn't make you any less of a female and it's not degrading just because you choose to participate w your man....

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I have insecurity and anger issues. I'm too fast to assume things, too impatient and i get upset too easily. This hurts my gf a lot, who is also insecure we argue a lot but we love each other. How can i change my habits and attitude? Any tips please? First of all, it's hard to really accomplish anything for your relationship when you have added pressure from carrying her emotional baggage too. It sounds as if you have issues of your own and people can't just change who they are automatically. It's give and take and ultimately your only covering up what's bound to be a complete meltdown. Find peace within your own self,...

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My man hates giving me oral, and only does it wen he is drunk cos he hates the taste. how do i make it taste better? i keep up the good hygeine but it doesnt seem to be enough. Real men eat pussy.

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At the start of my relationship my bf and I were having sex almost everyday now we are about 7 months into our relationship and i'm lucky if we have sex once a week What Can I Do To Get Him Interested Again No need, He's sexing someone else. There is NO way you're wanting more sex than him. I mean, well maybe. But, that happened to me when my Ex started cheating. That's how I knew, because he never passed my pudding up. It's always hard to assume though. But, it's definitely something to pay more close attention to.

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What is something you'll never forget? The way love feels in it's most truest form.

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Can you watch a scary movie at night before going to bed? I just watched the haunting in Connecticut, by myself..in an empty house! I am no longer sleeping in my basement!

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What leftovers in the 'fridge, always get eaten? Anything that I home cook, even when i try to save it for someone the wolves always come and sniff it out.

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What would you give up if you found out you had 30 years of life left on this earth and you either had to give up sex or you could never again be on the internet via any means? I am sorry but cyberspace would definitely get the boot.

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What is someting that is better when it's empty? My house. JUST ME!

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If one questions everything will there be time left to find an answer No, because even if they did find the answer.. they'd probably question the validity of that too!!

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Have OCD much? Not really..I have OCD about washing up after sex..and maybe a little when it comes to dirty dishes outside of the sink.

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What is hard to swallow? at times.. the truth.

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Would you like to go up to the crown of the Statue of Liberty? I got the pleasure of being able to go on it during a trip for my b-day. It was great! The view was amazing and it was an ease to the mind. NYC is beautiful! I felt some sort of comfort inside of the statue of liberty. Maybe the meaning of friendship still lingers through out the marble. After all that is why we got it from France, no?

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I've always been excited by my girl being with another man. the lady i'm with always jokes - "that's too good to be true - there must be a catch?!". she now says she wants to do it... but not with anyone we KNOW. do 'real' male pro's exist? I am sorry, that I am going to have to preach but I am left no choice. First of all, why does sex and stimulation always have to take the purity out of a relationship!? Why is it that you feel you NEED to fulfill this fantasy?? Why is she OK with it? I know people are kinky and "whatever floats your boat" but I could NEVER sleep with another man while I am seeing or being intimate...

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Sooo my bf is like totally seeing other girls nd i know i em not the only 1 he talks ot duyring his day but i dont really care. bc im his girl. i dont think he knoes but does that make me careless to not tell him? Your relationship seems pointless... Why are you asking us? You need to ask this to yourself.

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Where were you when you smelled the worst body odor you ever experienced? Who was the smell wafting from? Once at a Jada Kiss concert and all the time when I go to the local clubs. Comes from the crowd.

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Do you think office gossip is a good thing or a bad thing? I fell victim to office gossip just yesterday. I was the one talking, maybe too much. Someone brought up a good point about basically not mixing personal with personnel.

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Does the scent of a person attract you? Definitely. It's something that intoxicates our senses and stimulates our body.

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When you were a kid would you have been better geting yell or getting hit like with a belt stick cord etc and why? I honestly now appreciate the "whooping" my father used to give me for disobeying him. I think if he just yelled at me, I wouldn't of learned as quick as I did. I would never personally whoop or spank my kids, but I definitely understand why he did it.

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Would you ever put your child in beauty pageants and what age is too young? I definitely think parents especially mothers over exploit there children in beauty pageants either because they were a beauty queen or they weren't chosen to be beautiful enough to be in one. A lot of parents live through their children, and want them to do things they were unable to do. Which is fine you know? But, when is enough enough and when is it too much.

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So my b/f is seeing other girls. i know it. and why dont i care? like why do i not make a big deal out of it? am i careless? Sorry I couldn't finish the question... but this was asked by an AB user..that had no answers. So i was wondering...... I understand all these crazy questions and I just don't understand why females put themselves through this kind of mind game. If your fine with being a multiple, more power to you. But then again, I would question the love you have for that person and the love that...

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I hate all women; why does this have to make me a bad person automatically? Because a woman gave you life. Woman are worth more than being a girlfriend, or a good lay or dates. Not only that.. but beside every GOOD man is a GREAT female. Maybe you hate woman because you lack any REAL support from one.

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Why can search warrants be used in some cases but not in others? Sometimes there is not enough evidence or probable cause. Other times, a case is just not strong enough to be privileged with a search warrant.

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Is it possible for us to read our partners mind? I don't believe it's possible. What i do believe to be possible is reading into a situation and what a person says.

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Do most couples cuddle after being intimate? Most of the time I'd like to, but sometimes I don't even want to be around the person afterward. It has absolutely nothing to do with them, It just happens to be a feeling i get every now and then.

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I had a guy last night ask me to brush my teeth after giving him a blow job. Is that weird? First off, If he was just "a guy" why wouldn't you want to on your own? Also, Some men don't like to taste there own shit on a females breath. Some do. It has nothing to do with what you swap or catch from one another. It's like after I have sex, I immediately have to go to the bathroom to wash up; even though I use protection. It's all about cleanliness.

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What might a poor person, not have? A rich spirit.

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I say crazy, u say ________ Aren't we all?

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Fill in the blank: Stop the __________!!!!!! Bullshit.

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What do you have or what are you doing now that you never could have guessed you'd have or be doing several years ago? Still be dealing with a lot of the same issues as before. Also, Happiness. I never thought that I'd gain back true happiness in my life. Now, I have found it within myself.

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What are you 'thinking' about at this exact moment? Reality.

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What's The Stupidest Tattoo You've Ever Seen In A Person Body? I hate when people have their sign as a tattoo. It's so impersonal. There is billions of people walking around with your exact sign, and most likely have that exact same tattoo. If you're going to mark your body, make it so that it has some sort of significance that only you can relate to.

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Why do I get emotional over simple things... or get irritated and upset too.. like my bf will say something that might bug me but i let go of one day and the next i'm crying over and I can't control myself? It's because your holding your tongue too much. Women are always afraid to speak on how they really feel because they fear what their man might say. You should never halt your emotions for anybody. I am more than 100% sure that If he had a problem he would speak on it no matter how he thought you might feel about it.

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What are turn ons to men that they just cannot ignore Some insecure girl, throwing her pussy in his face for attention. Most cave, but some men actually have standards.

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What did your mother do wrong? She never asked me what was wrong enough.

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Have you ever been so disgusted at yourself for letting your heart leap out of your chest that apathy seemed again the only plausable solution?* I never used to be, but lately it seems to be a burden I carry on my shoulders more so now from time to time. Shutting off that emotional switch sometimes really does make a difference in the way you allow your heart to follow what your head says.

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What's an amorous offer you can't refuse? Great sex with that one person.

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Do you have a secret that is so shocking that it would damage or destroy your relationship with your significant other? Everybody has secrets. Some that should have light shed on them, and some that should never be spoken upon. I have secrets too but there nothing drastic and I don't think that they'd damage anything in my life. If anything, it might make people be more aware of awareness around them, but I just prefer for it to be my own.

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What are your favorite quotes? "All that we are is a result of what we have thought, only you can create your own reality". -Buddha

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What would you like a little bit more of? Q.T

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I feel that im having depression, i was told many times to go to a psychologist but i never did. everytime i decide to go i dont, i think it's for very wick ppl. i changed, dont want to go out, meet ppl, even want to die at times .what to do? You're only weak when you cannot admit your not always strong. Going to see a shrink or somebody who knows more about what is going on with you than yourself (mentally) may be a phenomenal idea.

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How can one control their negative emotions? How can negative emotions impact on actions? It's all about the "Law of attraction". When you live positively all your going to allow is positive things to come your way. When your feeling negative, all you will allow is negativity to come into your life. It's like.. If you're looking for trouble, you're going to get it.

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What do you have a zero tolerance for? Abuse of any kind. Verbal, physical, mental, emotional and subliminal.

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I have a wonderful girlfriend of 8 month's and for two week's we have been fighting how do i keep her in my life? Give each other space. I am assuming if you are unaware of any problem, it might be her own. Try and communicate better with her as to why this is occurring so frequently. If she doesn't respond well, give her space she didn't necessarily ask for and she what happens from there. It can't hurt.

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What should you be doing instead of answerbag-ing? I came online to get research for a paper of mine, and to type more in my book.. and completely got sidetracked.

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Have you read the book AND watched the movie "The Count of Monte Christo"? If so did you like the book or movie better and why? We had to read the book in French class. It was in English, so It boggles my mind as to what it had to do with french class. But, he allowed us to watch the movie the very last class. It was a great book and I loved the fact that the movie brought everything to life.

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If you got a new style that you loved but your significant other hated would you keep it or change it? If I loved the way I looked I would keep it. Nobody can really make you feel more beautiful than yourself. I know if my other half changed something about them, that i didn't necessarily prefer.. I'd accept that. That is what love is about, accepting flaws and all.

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What is the worst thing a partner has ever said to you? My feelings never get hurt easily, but something that hurt me the most was when my ex told me he never wanted a child anyways after i had m/c.

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What is the link between sexual abuse and stealing? You're depriving somebody of something that is theirs. Whether it be an object, or dignity.

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What's the best way to cook earthworms? GROSS!!!

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What is a police man, who is not in his uniform dress is called? Undercover or Off-duty police officer.

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What do you do with your old clothes you don't wear anymore? I drop them off at my local fire station used clothing drop-box! Same with old shoes.. ect.

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There are just two kinds of people, those who ______________, and those who ______________. "There are just two kinds of people, those who FAIL AND FALL, and those who FAIL AND RISE".

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What should a man do when he's physically attacked by a woman, stand and take it? Walk away? Or hit her back? Walk away. Standing and taking it will hurt his pride, and hitting her back will only degrade him in the end whether he realizes it or not.

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What is something that might motivate a man to loose weight? Looking and feeling great! Not to mention the more you LOSE the more you GAIN a healthier lifestyle.

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Most Heart Touching Song listen by you after break up? Honestly..my last break up was because I ended it. But, it felt like he did because he gave me no other choice. The song that helped me most.. Lost your mind by Beyonce.

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Do you tend to attract people with your looks or with your personality? I believe people approach me based on my looks, but I believe they stay around because of my personality.

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Have you ever been electrocuted? I was once shocked before while on the phone during a thunder and lightning storm. I felt a charge through my mouth and it caused my hair to literally stand straight up in the front. It was the most scariest and one of the funniest memories I have.

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Who ended your last relationship? You or your s/o? I did, There comes a point when love just is not enough.

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Do you think it is okey to be exposing your children to singers like Miley Cyrus who takes nude photo's of herself and just moved in with her boyfriend who is a lot older than her? Your child is inevitably going to be exposed to things whether you allow it or not. A child is a child, and they learn very quickly. It's not your job to try and stop the world from happening around her; it IS your job to point out to her what she should and should not follow people doing. As a matter of fact, show her how to be a leader. That way she can teach others..

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Who keeps your ego from getting too big? Someone who has a bigger Ego than I. They always sound and act so foolish and have a tendency to be very vain. Someone like that makes me very humble.

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Do you believe that the answer to most questions are right under your nose? Yes but we as human beings never want to recognize truth, especially if it's not the answer we're looking for. We often lose sight of the answers "beneath our nose" because we're not looking for it. We're in search of things to hear or see that will make us feel good, even if it's not good FOR us.

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Do you have something that you would die for to keep? I would rather die, than lose my dignity or anything that would kill all respect I have for myself. Anything else that must go, inevitably will

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If a shrink were to examine you today, What do you think he would say is wrong with you? I care too much about people that don't care enough.

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If you could eliminate one daily responsibility in your life what would it be? Taking the garbage out. I love to clean, but I always feel like where is a man when you need one?

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If you write a letter or journal, do you prefer handwriting using a pen or pencil or do you prefer typing? I prefer writing my book by hand. It's more personal. I believe you can tell a lot about a person by their handwriting. Of course too I have typed my book up, because it cannot be published in pen. But, I have always loved hand written letters. It reminds me of old movies where the female receives a letter from her man in war. If we were able to type back then I think it'd be a little...

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My husband of 24 years told me he can't be married to me anymore because I kicked our 20 year old son out of the house because he called me a 'bitch'. Any ideas as to wether his wanting out of the relationship is just about our son. I think a bond between a father and son is very strong. So i don't believe it's something that doesn't have to do with the situation at hand. I don't think that your anger is wrong, but i do believe that it may have been a mistake for you to throw him out. That does not condone his actions or foul mouth towards his mother, but maybe your husband is like damn. If she can...

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What are five things a woman should do to be a good wife? Remain the same person he fell in love with remain faithful have good housewife skills fulfill his sexual needs give and show loving support

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If I told you to put on your "Comfy Clothes", What would you be wearing? My birthday suit

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Is punching someone in the dark a victimless crime? It is a victimless crime if the person punching just punched anybody. Like if the lights were out and they just swung. If they shut the lights off and specifically hit one person, then its not a victimless crime.. bc it was a direct discrimination towards that one specific person resulting to assault.

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Which crime do you think is harmless? Possession of Marijuana.

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Ladies: do you like being told you are sexy, beautiful or pretty? It depends on how it's said to me..or how a man approaches me when saying it. It's always nice to get compliments, and it's great for you those days your feeling not so good about yourself. But, there comes a point when it gets to be too much. Something you start to not want to hear because it's said so much.

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Is there any development without destroying nature? No, because everything is built around technology. Technology as great as we think it is, it's slowly ruining the natural things still left in the world. Nothing is really man-made anymore, so we pollute just to accommodate our "technological needs"

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Ladies: what's wrong with just solving the problem? Isn't it best to solve it as soon as possible, and THEN talk about how you felt about it? There comes a point, when talking can do only so much. The way i see it is if I have a problem that i feel is going to effect me greatly; I will tend to it. If not, I say fuck it and let it ride out. No use in always having to analyze things constantly.

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What can i guy do to get back at the guy your wife sleeps with? Nothing. Be the bigger person. Revenge is ugly. Let karma handle the both of them.

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What song right now, best depicts your current state or condition in life? If you believe -Musiq SoulChild Good girl -Chrisette Michelle Just fine -Mary J Blige Let's talk it over -Lil wayne Breaking the habit -Linkon park Who's loving you -Michael Jackson

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Do you have a "Code of Honor" about somethings and would never do anything to jeopardize it? The honor I have for myself.

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If a person makes a good impression on you, is it more likely a physical thing or is it a personality thing? I think when meeting someone for the first time I definitely believe that people look first and foremost at how you carry yourself. Are you presentable? Second, but no less than the physical; i believe a persons personality makes a great difference in the way someone views you. I can immediately tell when someone "good looking" has a bad attitude or an ugly personality. So i believe...

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Is yoga a part of your daily life? I recently JUST got into yoga. I bought a mat and a dvd and use it at the gym facility my apartment complex provides. I don't do it everyday just yet, but i definitely find it to be very spiritual and relaxing. I don't want to speak to a single person shortly after I am done for I fear they might ruin my Zen. lol

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Has anyone ever hurt you to the point that you couldnt cry? Like just numb or something? I first experienced this "numbness" you speak of, when my father passed away. I cried so hard in the hospital bed with him before they wheeled him to the basement. I cried all the way up until his funeral, then at his funeral i couldn't drop one tear. I felt terrible. Like i should be rowing myself in a river of my own tears, but i just was all dried out. I also felt that way...

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Can you have sex during your first trimester?? Or does it increase the risk of miscarriage? && Can you go tanning? There is a lot of things you should not do when pregnant as I am sure you know. But, tanning prb falls under the same reasoning as to why you can't get in a jacuzzi either. As far as sex, your baby is always protected by the amniotic fluid; so sex is safe.

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I need help what can i do to make my bofriend doesnt go out with other girls he say ther r just friend but i dont want him to go out with them he says i love u and only u and theyare just friend but i cant help it i dont want him too go out with them You will never keep or have a steady relationship with those kind of insecurities. I have plenty of guy friends, that if my man were to ever have a problem with it; i know i can honestly say "they're just friends". Not all men are scum bags. He should definitely be unhappy with the distrust within your relationship. Limits and restrictions to not sit well with men. Getting him to...

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If you dont mind sharing.... whats the worst relationship mistake you've ever made? Chalking everything up as a mistake. I look at everything now as a lesson.

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What do I get for $1.00? Four quarters.

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If by law you had to have a tombstone when you were buried, what would you ask to have written on it? She had it all.

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What mood are you in? Sick as hell. Needing research for book. This site helps. I want my bed and a couple sea sickness pills.

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How do you get healthier looking hair? I take real good care of my hair. I don't usually stick to one kind of shampoo or conditioner, it's mostly various kinds that all do the same thing. There is a difference in having healthy hair and having healthy LOOKING hair. Trim your ends from time to time to cut off any dead or splint ends, allowing your hair to grow faster and healthier. Also, it sounds crazy and may be...

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If Dildos could Speak.......what would they say...? "You need to get laid lady".

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Be honest ladies, do you have a toy for YOURSELF? I have like 3 or 4 different colored and different job performing toys. One thing that makes me angry about them all, is the job never gets done. Sorry ladies, you can't send something battery operated to do a mans job.

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What do you do/say when u talk to an ex of 3-6 months who ends calls in "ilove u" whilest haveing a bf/gf who you are dear and have stong feelsing for, but still feeling alittle for the ex? There is an obvious reason you are not with your ex or tried to pursue any solution to the problems within that relationship. It is the exact same reason that you are now with someone new. Old feelings die hard. New feelings open up new doors, for life and lessons to be learned. Don't make the same mistake over and over again for love will surely not be kind to you the next time around.

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My boyfriend has 2 kids wit his ex. This makes us fight alot cuz i cant get over it. Hes willing to forget about them to make us work but i feel bad. We love each other alot but i dont want to deal wit all this stress. wat should i do? Something that has to be said is that you don't have a problem with his kids, you have a problem with the baby momma. The problem that his baby momma will always be in the picture because he has kids with her. One thing that you shouldn't be happy about is the fact that he has agreed to push his flesh and blood out of his life, just to please you! How does that make you feel? What...

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I remember, when i was young, seeing a 'no trespassing sign' for the Diamond match company... do you remember something similiar? I was maybe 6 or 7 at the time. And my friend said i could come over to her house after school. I rode my bike all the way to the apartment complex where she lived, I saw a sign that said "neighborhood watch community" I turned around and rode all the way back home. I felt sad, because I thought that meant i wasn't allowed.

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Which sound from your childhood used to (and still does!) make you cringe? i.e. the sound of a fingernail on the chalkboard. The bouncy ball.. I know it sounds crazy but i HATE the sound it makes for some reason. I took my little niece to the park earlier and she had one of those huge bouncy balls and for 10 minutes straight i felt like ripping my hair out all the while smiling and saying "are you having fun sweetie"? You always have to have patience with children even if something they're doing is...

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You open your door. There's 2 police officers standing there. What is your first thought? "who the hell ordered strippers"?

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Why are people fighting all over the world? The reason everyone is always in a frenzy or a fight with someone is purely based on different opinions. A fight of any kind originates from different point of views and then accumulates and escalates to something way more.

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Have you ever fainted or had a blackout? I have felt faint before, but I have never actually fainted. I was at a girlfriend's house yesterday and we were all hanging outside after class and one of my friends fainted right in my face. It was crazy. What was crazy is I was the only one looking at her when her eyes rolled into the back of her head. She looked at me with low eyes and I didn't think anything of it, and then she...

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This guy I like tells me he loves me, but he wont break up with his girlfriend! Is he just playing me? This is the same thing with married men, who have "mistresses". You are there because it is convenient for him. Of course he is not going to leave her, but if it did ever happen where they weren't to be together anymore, it's comforting to him to know he's got one to fall back on. So "i love you" is to keep you around for as long as possible.

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Guys: Have you "ever" gone out of your way to cause a woman to be interested in you, then when she finally responds, you back off completely? My room mate just told me there are guys that do that. Is that true? Why would someone do that out of curiosity It's all about their ego. Men make it a task to themselves sometimes to pick out a female that is attractive, see how far he can either get them to go or see how far they can make them fall; only to discontinue any sort of emotion or feeling they once showed. It boosts their confidence to see someone drool over them, and it boosts them even more when that person try's to call or reach...

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Why do some men get nervous and feel intimidated by women they find really sexy and beautiful? Is this biological or just mental? I would agree with mental. The reason being is because I feel with male or female, when they are with someone very attractive they feel either they are non-deserving of said person; or they feel that this beautiful person has a great chance of hurting them. For some reason, people believe that "prettier people" are wanted more. Which could be true, but there is such thing as a...

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We started out in love, we ended up in_________? Lust

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When your boyfriend dumps you for another girl and when that girl dumps him and then he wants you back what do you say "Kiss my ass"

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What's a sure sign that it's gonna be a bad day? Not when you think or say "it's going to be a good day", but when you WORK for it to be a good day.

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What will you always be? Respectable, driven, and classy

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I am 16 years old with a 4 month old baby. Can I sue my ex boy friend who is 19 for child support? Listen, Everyone on here is saying "statutory rape". Cop out. Was it consensual? If so, it's not statutory rape. I am sorry I don't care what the book says. A female should never ever try to get one over on somebody just because the law says you can. You knew what you were getting into. Second. Yes, you can sue him for child support. He is of age to legally be obligated to...

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Would you end a marrage if your spouse had sex with someone else? Or would you try to work it out? No, You're never suppose to leave your husband or wife. When you're in a relationship you have that option of deciding whether to leave or not. That is why marriage is marriage and a relationship is a relationship. Getting into a marriage, you should know that even though there is always the option of divorce you should never act or use that option. When you're married, you...

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What are the shoes you feel most comphertable in? Any pair of my heels, it's so natural for me to wear them that when I wear sneakers i feel butch. LOL

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What motivates you to wake up each morning and keep going each and everyday? A brand new day wakes me up every morning. Sometimes i feel that the day before, i've done something.. said something, or have encountered some sort of THING that had made the rest of my day not so complete. But, the fact of the matter is I HAVE CONTROL OVER MY LIFE. YOU have control over your life. Your thoughts, negative and positive. If you go to sleep, and say to yourself tomorrow WILL...

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What is there an abundance of where you live? There is an abundance of lack of jobs.

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How many people out there are living alone? ARe you OK with that? Are you lonely at times? What do you do for entertainment? I grew up with a large family. There was 12 of us living in a two bedroom duplex. So you can paint of a picture of how cramped it was. But, i loved it. My family was always there, I helped my sister raise her children as she could not at the time. No matter where everyone went during the day, I felt comfort at knowing they were home by night. Now, I am 19 and I live with my older sister in a...

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If YOU came with Instructions what would they say? Handle with care.

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What is the one question that you should never ask a woman? For a three some. Most men, not all.. but most want to encounter a 3 some with the woman they love +1. But, you should leave that question to the female to ask. If you don't, and you do ask.. She is either going to think she is lacking in the bedroom or she is going to think you're unhappy with being intimate with just her. It's a touchy subject.

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Do you ever miss your ex? I don't miss my ex, I miss the feeling that I had when we were together. I think it's more so i miss being with someone that actually treats me like a girlfriend. My ex treated me like a queen, aside from his cheating and wrong doings, he never treated me like a stranger. But, how you want to be treated is only a small portion of things needed to sustain a healthy relationship.. Still...

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How long has it been since you last, you know (wink, wink)? Almost 2 LONG WEEKS! The longest I have gone without having sex after I lost my virginity was 6 1/2 months. I hadn't had sex after my last relationship until I started seeing someone. Now, I feel like it's going to be another great amount of time before I receive pleasure from a man, which im A ok with. I'm starting to get off on just being free.

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Agree or disagree: "Age is no guarantee of maturity."? I completely agree. I am sort of in a situation right now, where My age versus this man I've been seeings age is about 8 years. I don't know what kind of females he has dated or been involved with in the past. He always refers to my generation as dumb, or refers to us being different and gaped by generational reasoning. Which, ok i get it. But, no matter the persons age or numerical...

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What word do you wish people used more often? Love instead of hate. Can instead of cant. Will instead of should. Do instead of don't. Ours instead of mine. We instead of me.

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What does the voice inside your head tell you? The voice inside my head, screams words that are often left unspoken

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Do you think it is the man or woman's responsibility to bring the condoms when getting intimate? I wouldn't say someone has more of a responsibility to bring them than the other. But, I know that for myself personally I am sexual with only one man. I usually assume he has them. If he didn't.. then a store trip would be made because I only use them when I am with him. Other than that, I have no other need for them.

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What's the worst thing you can say to a man after he gives a poor performance in bed? I believe the worst thing you can say after having bad sex is anything. I don't think you need to say much. If you feel it was bad, I am sure the other person can sense and feel the same kind of grief as you. I don't think telling someone or making remarks to someone who performed not so well is very decent, especially when it's a man. I mean, come on. Most men pride themselves...

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If you felt like you were falling in love with someone, would you tell them, or would you hold back your feelings for fear of rejection? I believe that if you feel like you're in love with someone, you have to sort of feel out if the feeling is mutual. I have only been truly in love once before. I mean I am still young, but not young minded. I believe i know the difference between being IN love and just loving someone a great deal. If you feel that you need to tell that person, do it. What is there to really lose? If you...

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Do you use a person's name often during conversation with them? Or is their name something you only use at greetings and goodbyes? I usually only say someones name in a conversation, when I am being serious; or would like to be taken seriously. I hate when someone says my name with a lot of meaning for no reason. I don't know why, I guess I just don't like for someone else to use my name with authority!

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Would you let your ''best friend'' go, if you found out she kissed your guy, even on the cheek, & knew you would have a problem with that? If she were to hide what she did, doesn't that mean she knows it's wrong? My guy is angry for what she did. I wouldn't completely end my relationship with my best friend. We can't base our decisions upon something bad that happens to us, because it will always be irrational. You have to not only look at her wrong doings, but also your boyfriends. What was the situation, where they could be left alone for something like this to happen, which I am sure you have already considered. I believe...