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Name one item on your desk or where ever you have your computer sitting?
a great photo of me!
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Name something that is a one-time use product that is just not worth the price you pay to use it only once.
a camera
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If you could blow any one thing up, what would it be?
a birthday party ballon
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Most people would be surprised to find out that I ______.
can't think of a thing...I am basically an open book
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what type of sound can you here right now?
my radio on my desk at work
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what IS love?!?!?!?
it is feeling excited about the person, around the person, feeling drawn to the person but it is also caring deeply about the person's feelings, their happiness, needs, sorrows, life goals, joys, whatever...its about wanting to give to the person without any expectations of gain but just to see them smile. its about wanting for them what they want for themselves.
when my bf has an exam coming...
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its just like sometimes i truely feel like i hate him , but i loved him so much how would i know if i still love him or not?
anger blocks love. I suggest you work through your anger and then the love will surface again. of course it depends on why you are angry at him, hate him. Whatever the issue, hopefully you can talk about it.
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If"love of money is the root of all evil" what is the root of all good?
no evil can come from genuine love and compassion. ok, so an obssesive 'love' can turn into stalking or worse but then I wouldn't really call that true love. It's a sickness. any evil that comes from so called 'love' is not possible to be genuine love. A man that beats a woman and says he 'loves' her is not capable of feeling true love.
Where is the compassion in these examples?
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Is revenge a good thing or a bad thing?
I think it is a bad thing because it is not worth the cost in my sense of dignity and self-respect. I choose the high road.
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Can you describe yourself in one word?
Magnificent
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Most things become soft when heated.. do you know of anything that becomes hard when heated?
granulated sugar
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Are white people really "blue-eyed devils"?
I am white and my eyes are brown AND I am not a devil. so the answer is NO.
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What do Americans think of English accents?Whats your favourite and which cant you stand?
I love English accents, the educated, sophisticated type not the under-educated type.
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I hate hospitals, I'd do anything to avoid them, is that normal?
I know that many people feel the same way.
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At what point did you realize you were in love? At what point did you realize someone was in love with you?
love at first sight twice, maybe 3 times. then another time a week. another a month. yes, they all lasted a long time.
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Is sex as good as you imagined when you were a virgin?
much, much better!
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What do you all think is the best way to get an ex back, letting her initiate all the contact or staying in touch every once in awhile?
number one - don't be wimpy! my ex-husband could've gotten me back if he had shown a lot of confidence in what he wanted from me. even though I ended it, if he pursued me with a great deal of cofidence I would've have found that rather sexy but rather he got wimpy and passive which had the effect of me loosing respect for him. his hope was that if he put no demands on me and just waited I would...
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She said I was everything she ever wanted and more. Felt being with me was where she was supposed to be. Then 2 weeks later tells me she's not into a long term relationship ..knows thats what I want and breaks up. Talk about confused
I don't know how old you guys are or how long you were together. but she sounds confused and may have gotten scared. she may not even know why she flipped out. She probaby did feel all of those things BUT it doesn't mean she is READY for a long term relationship at this time.
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Do you believe...'When you meet the right person, you just KNOW'.....?
yes, I just knew he was the one the moment I laid eyes on him. it happened at least twice in my life. in all cases it was perfectly mutual.
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My next door neighbor keeps calling me on a daily basis saying, "Let's have dinner." How do I tell him that I am not interested in dating him?
the same way you did here "I'm sorry but I'm not interested in dating you."
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...do you believe..'When you meet the right person, you just KNOW'...?
yes, definately. It was a sure thing twice in my life the moment I laid eyes in him.
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Do you believe...'When you meet the right person, you just KNOW'.....?
Share your answer...
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Is it harmful for a woman to swallow semen when giving a man oral sex?
not at all. I've been doing it for decades and I'm alive and well.
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If you are a woman, how do you feel when a man is obviously being condescending towards you? How do you react?
I feel annoyed and I straighten him out right away!
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For all the ladies out there, how offensive is being called a bitch to you? Does it matter if it's a man or woman giving the insult?
I find it very offensive. I can't quite expalin it but it's about the worst thing a persn could call me.
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What is your gender?
nothing to add, 100% female
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Have you ever met someone in person that you met online?
only about 25 persons! of those I felt strong sparks with two and fell in love with one.
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What has been your experience with moving an online relationship into real life?
in one case fell more and more in love with every step we took. I still love him.
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Would you consider marrying someone you met online, talked online with cam and voice for two years, and met in person twice for three weeks each time?
yes, I would if it felt right.
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What were you last stuck in?
a relationship gone wrong
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Who is to blame for the problems in your life?
me for not listening to my wise self. the wise self in me that has all the answers and the child in me that says 'I don't care what you say, I want to do to anyway! ha, ha, ha' whose crying now? not the wise self...
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What is something that you wish would slow down?
my age
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Tell me something WHITE you would find in a jar! What would it be?
sugar, silly..
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What's one thing you would never say "no" to?
a piece of moist cake with sweet icing, yum!
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What would you say is the most insane thing you've done this year?
I'd have to answer that in the adult section....
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What comes to mind when I say the word: SHOES?
my left shoe feels tight, just took it off. no worry my feet are odor free :) also, I have a hole in the toe of my gym shoes. got to buy a new pair this weekend!!
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WHAT IS REAL LOVE?
DOES TRUE LOVE EXIST?
I do believe that real love and true love exist. I see them as one and the same. I will just refer to both as 'love' for simpicity. I believe that love is first of all unconditional and based on wanting for the person what they want for theirself even if that means they move away from you. You care about their happiness, their joys and sorrows and do not try to block it. Of course, at...
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Okay i am new at this online dating and I met someone online . He asked for my # in a chat and I gave it to him. He called and we hit it off right away...his calls were every morning and at nite since it is an LDR. Only txts now hardly calls. What gives?
I knew a man like that once and I just called him asked why the txts and told him that if he wants to contact me he needs to call me. And he did start calling me. Some men are shy and txt are easier. but he needs to know you where you stand.
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After my ex bf dumped me, we stayed friends for awhile until I started a fiasco that ended our friendship a week ago. I sent him a sincere email of apology (I don't know his new snail mail addy) 5 days ago but he hasn't replied. What does this mean?
given that he "dumped" you in the first place, I suspect that the fiasco just confirmed things for him that he did the right thing. I would just let it go and move on.
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Is it wrong to ask your bf to show one of his msn conversations with his best female friend whom you don't know?
wait a minute, your bf has a best female friend you don't know? why not? I would NOT ask to read the msn conversation. you should trust him. but I would ask to meet the female friend. invite her over to dinner.
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How important is having "things in common"? If you feel a strong connection to somebody, have a great physical relationship, and love being in their company--but have very different occupations and interests--can that be enough?
no, having things in common is what builds the friendship component of a love relationship. The friendship part carries the relationship along when romantic love tones down.
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Is love enough to make a relationship work?
Nope. I learned that in my marriage. it didn't matter how much we loved each other we still could not solved our problems partly because we were inherently different in personality and outlook about what a marriage is. I felt that it requires work and my ex said 'no', its just there - checkmate!!!
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If you could decribe love in 10 words,what would they be?
mutual caring, sharing, joy, priority, committment, togetherness, giving, happiness, communication
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Who does your heart belong to?
mark
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Did the person you are with romantically have you at Hello?
yes, from day one!
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Are you still waiting for Mr. Right?
Nope, I found him and he found me.
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Girls if you where in public hada sore tummy you needed to take a dump to make it feel better but knew it was going to make a huge mess in the bowl (no way of cleaning it) also knew it would reek and the next person in is a guy would u? (unisex toilet)
In all that brain of yours, this is the question you come up with? OK, I might see if there's another toilet nearby, if not I would take care of myself first and foremost. sorry guy, whoever you are...
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I'm just wonderin'.It takes me 45 minutes to straightin my hair.How long does it take everybody else?
it takes zero minutes because my hair it naturally straight, too darn straight as far as I am concerned!
It takes me about 20 minutes to blow dry it and put body and curls IN TO it! I always wish I had naturally curly hair!
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Describe yourself in one word...that one word starting with the letter "R"?
interestlingly, I am very romantic but the word did not occur to me until I saw Nicole's answer. My first thought was 'Rebel' or 'Rukus' as in 'we're going to raise a rukus tonight...'
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Are you impeccable with your word?
I can't say my word is 100% flawless. But generally speaking when I make a promise I keep it. I will be tested tonight and hopefully nothing will slip out.
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Are you more beautiful on the inside or the outside?
I would have to say that I am as beautiful on the inside as I am on the outside
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What is a food you need to buy the next time you buy groceries?
whole wheat bread and peanut butter
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If Grocery Stores delivered, would you have your groceries delivered to your home? (They do the shopping and deliver)
They do deliver here in New York and yes, I have had them delivered. Few problems, 1) extra charge for delivery 2) they decide how to replace an item you ordered that they don't have on hand 3) they pick out the produce, not always the way I would choose it.
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Can someone reassure me that the world WONT end in 2012?
the world will NOT end in 2012, I promise. if you need evidence just look at every single prediction in history of the world ending, zero of them have come true based on the fact that we are still here and will be in 2013. I plan on living to at least 100 years old!
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Is the sun shining where you are?
yes, it is here in northeast, USA
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Good morning! Would you like milk and/or sugar with your coffee? Croissant or Donut?
coffee black and donut, please
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What one emotion sums you up at the moment?
disappointment
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Finding a DOCTOR - How did you pick your primary care doctor -- (random choice, other)?
First I looked for a doctor covered by my health insurance, next one very close to work and then where they got their training and their background. Sometimes, I narrow it down to a name I like the sound of.
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Where in your house would I find something "disorganized"? (mine:A junk drawer)
right now the most disorganized place is my dining room table that has 10 days worth of mail strewn about on it among other stuff!
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Is it really possible for parents to have a favorite child and show that child more love than siblings?
yes indeed, my parents sure did.
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Do you feel your parents had a favorite child between you and your siblings? Were you that lucky one? How did it make you feel?
yes, I do and it was me! it made me feel special but my siblings resented me for it and still do. I paid a price for it and at the same time gained some traits.
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Did any one make you feel special today? How?
yes, they did. a friend thanked me for being her friend and making the weekend more fun just by being me.
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If this applies to you: At what age did you first notice any gray hair on your head? If you have/have some, does it bother you at all?
I remember the exact moment. I was 40 years old with my then boy friend and riding in the car. I was looking at my hair in a miror and there IT was a gray hair just acting all innocent. my very first. I pulled it right out then and there!!!
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Does your age bother you?
nope
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What reason did you last turn down sex for?
I had dated the man about 4 times and just wasn't there emotionally. I didn't want to move the relationship up a step. I had a feeling if I had sex with him we would be in a relationship and I just wanted to keep it at the dating level.
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How do you go about asking an acquaintance for a sexual favor? Can I just ask them straight out if they would be interested in doing that for me and that I would do something for them too? Is ok to just ask for what you want?
there isn't, no way ho-za! I have been asked for sex by all kinds of men. what ticks me off is that they think that there is a chance I'll say 'yes' because they asked! I am very choosey and very picky when it comes to who I have sex with so some mere acquaintance doesn't stand a chance in hell!
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Do you have a pendent on your necklace?
yes, I do. I have a gold heart. in fact, I have several varities of gold hearts and switch them around.
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Were you married inside a building or outside? Where was it?
in a flower garden in new york
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Could you spend a whole day having sex?
used to do that a lot and has to be making love for me as well. I suspect I will do it again soon.
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Has ever knowing the consequences of your actions prevented you from performing that action?
yes, sometimes but not always
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Do you have a phrase that you say all the time?
can you be any more (fill in the blank) i.e., slow for the car going 15 miles an hour in front of me! to my honey, can you be be any more sexy! meaning he is so sexy its off the scale!!!
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Do you remember your first love? Does it make you sad to remember, or does it make you smile?
yes, I was 15. It makes me feel sad because we were not allowed to see each other and had to sneak which made it more romantic. all we did was kiss. but I really loved him. I've tried very hard to locate him over the internet. I even still remember his exact birthdate but can't find him. When I do think of him, I long for him or at least the feelings we shared at that tender age.
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Can you answer this question with a song title: What are your feelings toward your S/O?
All My Loving - Beatles
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What kind of person do you think you get alon with best?
intelligent, honest, genuine, solid types who enjoy a good laugh and like to talk. no quiet types for me.
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If you could dedicate this song to one special person, who would that person be?
my honey
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I am seeing this guy who is married and I am trying to break things off, but everytime i do, one of us calls eachother and it starts back up again. What is the best way to get over him, also I work with him, so its not like i just cant see or talk to him
I can understand what you are going through because once upon a long time ago I was in love with a married man I worked with. We didn't stop our affair until he moved very, very far away. Even if I had changed jobs it wouldn't have mattered. I had a pull for this man that was out of this world!
I suggest therapy.
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Do you smile everytime you think about your S/O?
yes...
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Would you be involved with a person who say's they will never be married again?
yes, I've been married already and I'm not so sure I want to get married again myself. but I would want to live together and share a home and life.
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Would you cheat if you thought that you can get away with it?
no, I would not if I love my man and made a solid committment to him and him to me.
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What should guys do on a second date?
If I am interested I would like it if the man touches my hand or holds my hand over dinner. Men are pretty good at picking up my vibes. I make my hands available without thinking about it when I want touch or touch the man myself.
I would like a good kiss but depending on the situation generally I won't go much further on the 2nd date. I try to take things slow but not always easy if...
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Have you ever had feelings for someone that were so strong it hurt?
yes, I love my brother so much it hurts
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White lies-----are they justified
if I were sheltering jews during WWII and the NATZI's came to my door looking for jew's I do not think it would be wrong to lie and say 'I don't have any in my house'.
In the above case everyone pretty much would agree protecting the jews would be a good cause. but there are other causes where others would disagree.
so really I think it depends on the cause. like...
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Is it acceptable for a woman to go solo to a bar?
why not? I used to do it all the time.
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What is the best thing thats happened to you and the past year
mutually fell in love with a wonderful man
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Is it okay to invite guests over for dinner and order take out?
it's fine as long as you tell them before they come over.
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Do you sing Karaoke at bars?
absolutely, love it!
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Ever had someone, that really ticked you off?
yes, but not for a very, very long time. it was a rude, uncooperative cshier in a store that caught me in a bad mood.
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What is one of your habits that's likely to irritate me if we lived together?
my double and triple checking just to be 100% certain I locked the door at night, the pilot light is burning on the stove, the windows are locked, the coffee pot is turned off, the iron is unpulled...
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What would make you fall out of love?
if he said he didn't love me anymore or he started treating me poorly or I lost respoect for him
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Can you choose who you fall in love with? If you cant---how come? isnt it up for us to choose?
I don't believe I can choose who I fall in love with because I believe it's based on two main factors -
who my parents were and how they influenced me and hormones.
if the chemistry is not there, I won't fall in love the greatest, most attractive man in the world!
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If you love someone, do you let him go or try to get his love?
I had a situation where we were very much in love and he had to move away. I just could not stand still and passively watch him walk away. I knew he loved me and I did everything I could to get him to stay with me. In the end it didn't work out but I am very glad that I pulled no stops. i have no regrets.
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Do you have a crush on anyone right now?
yes, I always have a crush on someone!
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Do you think the word "Love" is appropriate when talking about animals? ("I LOVE my goldfish and my goldfish loves me...")
absolutely! I love my cats dearly! and I committed to my cats for the rest of their lives. There are different types of love such as romantic love. that I feel for a man only. Then there's a love I feel for art and certain movies. I love how snow glistens in the moonlight.
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This isn't a question, I just want tell everyone how in love I am. I'M SO IN LOVE.
That's great! I'm happy for you! Scream and shout it out to the whole world!
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Why would a guy that you work with who has a crush on you get mad if you go away for a holiday? A guy that I thought liked me was angry when I got back from my trip, he stuck his face in mine and was talking rudely to me. Before I left he was all romantic
he sounds very imature with poor social skills. not good material for a realtionship.
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If you have a crush on a guy who is older thwn you how do you get his attention?
I did. he was 13 years older than me and I was in love with him. I didn't have to do anything because he noticed me on his own and loved me back.
If he hadn't noticed me, I would ahve just started talking to him to stroke up a friendship and take it from there.
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What does being in a relationship mean?
to me it means that we both agree not to date or have sex with other people and that we love each other and are committed to making the other person and the relationship the priority in our lives. And that we both strive to grow together as the relationshp grows.
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Do children have a right to complain?
a child had a right to all of their feelings and a complaint is an expression of a feeling so yes they do.
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I need someone to call me because I am having problems.....please call me 202-210-4044. Cody aka Ceelo
ATTENTION ALL:
DO NOT CALL this number there have been many camplaints regarding this phone number. I know because I just googled it!!!
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Who would you love to see in a centerfold?
the man I love
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How sleepy are you at the moment?
not at all. it's only 4:42 pm
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Is it pretty easy for you to wake up in the morning?
yes, I get up between 5:30 and 6 am every morning. I look very forward to getting up and getting the first cup of morning coffee and relxing while I lounge with the morning news.
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Have you ever gotten tired of sleeping?
yes, like every morning. I can't wait until it's time to get up and out of bed!
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Girls: Which guys of ethnicity do you find most attractive, and what is your race?
I am most attracted to men who resemble my father and my father is white and so am I. I am particuluary attracted to jewish men although, I was rasied catholic. also, my father had a hairy chest and I'm attracted to that in a man. that's one reason asian men don't attract me sexually. they are pretty much hairless. my father had a mustache. I love mustaches on a man.now, I'm...
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Have you ever dated outside your race? if so what was their ethnicity?
I am white and he was black, also there was an asian
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My husband says I b*itch to much. So he has left. He has been out partying and only comes by on his lunch break to see our kids and wont call me. He says he doesnt know what he wants. But then says he is still in love with me...and will work things out?
step 1. take a deep look inside of yourself and see if there is any truth to what your husband is saying.
step. 2 humble yourself and admit to your husband where your behavior may drive him out the door.
step. 3 ask for clarification if you need more information but do NOT be defensive.
step. 4 change your behavior. do not get into whose right or wrong, just adjust your behavior....
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Do men really believe Women get pregnant on purpose?
Actually, some men really do believe that and some women actually do get pregnant on purpose. But its rather foolish. I once got pregnant on the pill and my dearly beloved bf was convinced that I tried to trap him!We were both 32 years old, not kids. I felt angry and crazy that he would not beleive me. Eventually, he turned around and crying told me he'll do anything I want. I did not want...
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I'm going to compile a "divorce soundtrack." What songs do you think should be on it? (Video links welcome!)
I think that depends on how you feel about your divorce. If you feel happy and free that one list of songs. if you feel sad and meloncoly that another list. Something tells me your relieved about your divorce.
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Are you still in love with an ex? Did it hit you suddenly (when they got another partner?) Would you try to get them back?
yes, I am. I can't get him back. It's just too late.
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Are there any good reasons to keep pictures of your ex? If so, what are they?
I have lots of photos of my ex-husband. he was a very signficant part of my life. I still love him like a family member, not in-love with him though. I'm glad I've kept so many photos and the house we had, etc.
In fact, I have photos of all of my ex's. I like to look back over my life.
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After 14 years of emotional abuse, mental cruelty, using my kids as weapons against me, paying them to not visit me, non-stop slandering to them about me. How can I stop hating my ex-wife? Should I stop?
Hatred is not good for your physical or emotional well-being. I suggest that you see a counselor and do some anger work to release the anger. once you do that you will automatically stop hating your ex-wife.
I can understand why you feel that way you do but give priority to your peace of mind.
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How close do you live from your Ex (s)?
a couple of 1,000 miles from my ex-husband. Ex-bf's - I'm not sure where some of them are. the last two are near by.
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What do you do if your friend/roomate is always telling you about her marraige problems? I always try to give her uplifting encouragement, but what the hell do I know, I'm single!
if it were me, I would be a good listener. I might say
something like 'so I hear you say that....' and I might say 'it sounds like...' and 'I'm sorry you are having to deal with all of that.. you'll be fine' notice I'm not giving and advice here but rather being there for her.
on the other hand if you simply aren't interested in her...
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Spiritually speaking-Are we all connected to each other? Are we all One?
Yes, according to my belief system. I believe there is a continum of atoms or particules in all space so that connects us. Our energy vibrates through that continum so that negative energy keeps people away and positive energy feels good and draws people close and so on.
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Is it ok to have sex with other people when you are separated in marriage?
I think that depends on whether you want to reunite with your spouse later on. if you do want that then I would NOT have sex with anyone period!
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Does anybody ever look back and truly regret that they divorced their spouse.
The only regret I have is that we didn't go to counseling. But he refused to go until I left the marriage. THEN he said he would go to counseling, he said he would do anything! But it was too late. I was too hurt and too angry to go.
MY regret is that we never went and found a good counselor and worked on the marriage. Then I would know for sure that it would never have worked between...
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Anyone on tonight who has been divorced or is thinking about splitting from their spouse?
I have been divorceed since 1990. It was very painful but I just couldn't live with him after having tried very thing I could think of to make it work. I was downright meseriable so I made the heart breaking decision to leave and I did.
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Is there a politically correct way to compliment a woman on her boobs?
no way, unless you are in a serious dating situation!
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Why is Love and romance so complicated at times? Shouldn't there be a book somewhere to tell us what to do or not do?
because it brings up childhood wounds or issues for both partners.
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Do you have bed head when you wake up in the morn?
sure do, I kind of like the look!
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What time is bedtime for you during the week?
It used to be 9:30 pm but now I have a project I'm working on so I stay up until 10:30 to 11:00 pm.
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Do you still set your Alarm Clock on Weekends?
I never use an alarm clock. My body automatically wakes up at 5:18 am every single day uless I've been up very, very late which is unusual for me.
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How often do you have really bad nightmares.
it's been a very long time since I've had a nightmare. I cna't even remember when it was.
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Do you talk or yell/scream in your sleep?? Do u remember what your dreams r about? Do u wake up from this or has someone else woken u up?? How does your s/o handle it?? Do u just let it be or do u take a medication for it? I'm curious b/c I'm a talker:-/
when I was younger my sister used to tell me I would wake her up say strange things to her. Now I'm just told I talk or mumble in my sleep. Sometimes as I'm falling asleep or starting to wake up I'll say a short sentence real loud like 'what are you saying to me!"
It's starting to worry me because I never used to talk loud with one sentences that would wake me...
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Ready for a nap yet?
nope, I don't take naps.
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What will happen if I don't use it?
all of your teeth will drop out!
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Whats one thing you wish would/will be different?
I wish that it was time to leave the office. I still have 1.5 hours to go and feel too bored!
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Is anyone home?
my cats. me, I am at work!
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What should a woman do if a guy that she's not interested in asks for her number?
I would say, sorry but no thanks, I'm not available.
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Why do I think I Iook like the uglyiest person in the world when I look in the mirror but I have guys constantly telling me im gorgeous. Its like were looking at two different people. Does anyone know why that is?
you have low self esteem or your family told you were ugly or something like that.
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Have you ever sayed you loved someone and didnt mean it?
no, I doubt it. It's a different kind of love when I say I love you to a boy friend than it is to a girl friend or a family member. But I always mean it when I say it. I really mean it when I say 'I love you' to my cats and they know it!!
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Do you only help others if it's personal or because it is your duty?
Oh no! it pulls at my heart strings when I see anyone in need and I know I can help and I do what i can to help. It's a good feeling for all concerned.
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How much do a guy's looks matter to you?
it matters a whole lot that he looks attractive to ME. I don't care how he looks to others. He doesn't have to look like a movie star to look attractive to me. I'd rather he look more human and less perfect.
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Do u find that ppl pass judgement in regards to a question u ask? Do u feel that, because of this, they think that they are better than u?
I don't generally feel judged by my questions but if someone does feel the need to judge me based on a question. 1.) I ask myself is there any truth in the judgement. if not 2.) judgement is a way to push people away. 3.) people who judge others may do it in order to feel like they are better than other because of low self esteem.
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Are you listening to music, if so what type, and band are you listening to?
I wear t shirts she wears short skirts by taylor Swift
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Who is one comedian that really makes you laugh?
Jim Carrey and he's sooo cute!
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Could you describe yourself please - physically and emotionally
physically - slender, petite, brunette
emotionally - ever resilent, passionate, adventurous
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Have you ever had a mouthful to say but couldn't say a word?
this has happended to me a lot in my dreams.
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Whats one thing that you have always wanted and never got?
children
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Any thoughts on Polygamy?
from what I know, it works best when a couple has a solid relationship as a base and then agree to invite another or others to have a relationship with them. then they all sit down and have an open and honest discussion about ground rules and what everyone agrees on and is comfortable with.
I do know of poly couples that this works very well for. But it doesn't work for everyone.
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Have you ever been in a three way relationship,if so how did it work out?
yes, but it was a disaster.
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I recently met a Polygamist couple. VERY interesting. :-) Anybody have any polygamist friends?
I know some people who are polyamorous. I am not. I accept them as they are. They are the same as everybody else except in this one area.
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How would you like to be in a three-way relationship w/ a man & a woman?You are in love w/ both of these people,both people are in love w/ you,& both of these people are in love w/ each other.The three of you live together & all sleep in the same bed.
sounds cozy but one problem, I am 100% hetero so I couldn't see the bed part.
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What's Your Zen Moment of the Week?
sitting on the subway watching the walls go by...
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Who is the person you love first and foremost in this world?
that's a hard one. it's between my sister, brother and nephew. my heart goes out the most to my nephew so maybe him.
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I met a guy, he's got a gf who he lives with.we both are physically atracted to each other and will be meeting purely for sex. now im the single one here, should i feel bad knowing hes cheating on his gf? but i dont, and enjoy the whole thing?am i a slut?
I will not judge you, calling you a slut is a judgement. besides a 'slut' has to do with a woman who is promiscuous. you are just talking about having sex with one man here so you can't be a slut! I think it's more on the bf's shoulder's to be honest with his gf.
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Can a woman be too loud in bed?
I have to say 'no' as I go full blast in bed. It's a hell of a lot more fun for me that way. I've never gotten any complaints and fortunately my walls are sound proof!
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What age is getting to be a little old to have a first kiss?
there is NO age limit on the excitement of a first kiss!
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What type of gratification do women get by having a guy they have known for a short time (1-2 months) sleep over almost every night of the week?
I suspect it has to do more with emotional needs than with sex. It can give a woman a feeling of safety or being protected or not being alone or not being abandoned, etc. I doubt if she would want the guy to stay over every single night just for sex.
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How old were you when you went on your first date? * Where did you go? * What did you do? * Who did you go with?
I was about 15 years old. We went to a basketball game at out high school. The boy's name was Johnny and he was very sweet and very nice. I ran into him many years later and we recognized each other and caught up a bit.
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Where did you go on your first date ever in your life?
Actually, it was to a basketball game when I was in high school.
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Would you be offended if a guy asked you to go on a date and then didn't offer to pay for you?
yes, I would because when a man pays it is a symbol of interest in me. Otherwise, I think he is a cheapscape.
Also, when a man pays on the first date I think it sets a romantic tone to the dating relationship.
This is very important to me on the first date. On the 2nd date I'm more flexible about it.
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What have you done in the past or now that has helped you lose weight?
It's simple I set the number of calories I need to eat a day in order to loose weight and walk every day for 45 minutes. I do eat a highly diet. I eat no processed carbos, only whole grains. Only eat sweets on very rare ocassions. I eat lots of fruts and vetetables and low fat diet. I have lost 35 lbs and have kept it off by continuing my routine. It has become a way of life now and that...
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What is your favorite Thanksgivings' dessert?
pumkin pie with whipped cream
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Can you love someone TOO much?.. if so - how do you know when it is too much?
when you are overly focused on them rather than also focused on yourself. I feel smoothered already just by the question and the capital letters in TOO.
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Do you think it's normal to miss work to go to a son's high school graduation?
absolutely! what could be more important than to be there for your son at his high school graduation? I wouldn't miss it for the world!
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Have you met the love of your life?
Everytime I fall in love I believe I have and I have been in love on many ocassions throught my life.
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Do you think that it is true that you need to love yourself before you can love someone else, or you do think that you should love someone first and learn to love yourself through that relationship?
I think the deal is like attracts like. The more you love yourself, the more love you have to give and the healthier relationhsip you will have because you will attract someone who also loves themselve and has more love to give to you and to the relationship.
If you don't have love much for yourself you may have some love to give someone but its not going to be a very healthy type of...
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What city do you consider the most romantic?
Paris, France - the city of LOVE!
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What are you thinking of right now?
waiting for an important phone call. wondering WHEN the phone will ring!!! also that I'm hungary and I'm thinking about getting something to eat and having a glass of win after work. Wondering if I want to go out tonight or stay in.
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Is it true that nice guys finish last? If so, why?
if the nice guy is confident and assertive he doesn't finish last but if the nice guy is shy and people-pleasing then he is not going to get any where with me or earn much respect else where.
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Do aggressive men finish last?
depends on what you mean by aggressive. if you mean abusive, pushy, demanding, angry then I am not interested. but if you mean assertive as in confident then no. I love confidence and assertiveness in a man.
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Sweet-n-low, Equal, Splenda, or regular sugar?
I'll choose splenda as it is the safest non-calorie sweetner and I really don't need any straight sugar in my body.
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Who is someone you will never respect?
someone who is afraid to say 'no' to me or afraid to disagree with me, someone who has no 'backbone', someone who lies to me, a shoplifter, a criminal depending on the crime.
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Are you a confident person? What situations can or does happen that would take that away?
yes, I am a very confident person in most situations. I wouldn't feel as confident if I were asked to give a talk on a topic I don't know a lot about to a panel of experts who were then to critique me.
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When was the last time you smiled at a stranger?
I smile at strangers everydaY, wherever I go. It fun and feels great to turn a gloomy face into a smile.
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Sex: Over-rated or Under-rated?
Not according to moi! I think it's greeeaaatttt!!!!
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When haveing sex with a condom on the mans dick is not tuching the girls vagina latex is. so is sex with a condom realy sex?
of course it is silly!
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Have you ever had feelings for your best friend that were more than friendly?
I assume you meam same sex best friend. In that case, no. loving, caring, appreciative - yes. but if you're implying sexual then, NO
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I love my boyfriend loads but as shallow as it might seem, I just don't think I'm physically attracted to him. I don't want to leave him but it's really getting in the way of our relationship. What do I do?
I think the best thing to do is to be honest with him and tell him the truth. tell him that you don't feel physically attracted to him any more. sometimes just the act of honesty causes a shift. at any rate. he has a right to know what is going on in your head.
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What do you do when you like two people and can't choose between them?
I would base it on the one who mets my most important needs and treats me the best
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Yes or No, you have been so into a date that instead of going out you ordered food to be delivered instead?
Sure have done that, when we're feeling especially intimate and want to shut he whole world out. just me and him together....
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How long is too long to not live together before you officially move in? Does too much time mean it won't work out?
I don't think there is a rule for this. I dated my then bf for 3 years before we started living together. It really depends on the relationship. If the relationship is moving forward and feels good then that's more important. however, if one person is ready and the other is not the question becomes how long are you willing to wait? but I wouldn't use time as a reason unless its...
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Were you a girly girl or a tom boy as a child?
actually, I was the full spectrum. from tomboy to girly-girly. I loved to climb trees and build forts with leaves and fallen trees but I sure did love my dolls and loved wearing cute dresses.
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Did your first breakup destroy you completely?
my very break-up was with the guy I lost my virginity to. I was devastated for about 3 months. which now when I think about it is not a long time at all. but the pain ran very deep. after my last break up I wasn't devastated. I was very hurt but I have much more ego strength now than when I was 17.
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Who was the oldest person you ever went out with?
13 years older than myself. I totally loved him. But its in my past now.
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Have you or your partner ever had a condom break during sex?
In the past, I had a partner that had on a condom during sex that broke. we were lucky there were no consequences.
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Has anyone on AB had the swine flu?
not me, knock on wood!
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Have you or are you going to get the swineflu vaccine?
I will most defiantely get the swineflu vaccine. it has been tested in clinical trails and found to be safe. any risk far out ways risks of getting sick from the swine flu. there is a lot of mis-information floating around out there.
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What's eating you?
do I have enough money until payday? 2 days away..hope nothign bounces!
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What is something someone should do before they turn 30?
have sex; backpack across the US and Europe; fully enjoy being young, wild and free!
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If you love someone, would you let them leave you because that's what they think they want, or would you fight for them? (Fight figuratively, of course! :D)
I have done just that, "fought" for the one I loved in 2 separate occassions when they were ready to walk away. In the first case we ended up getting married. In the second case we he turned around and loved me all the more but in the end he left anyway.
But the important thing is that you are coming from a position of strength and confidence while you "fight" for the...
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Does it snow often where you live? also where do you live?
Yes, we get snow here and I love the beauty of snow! it brings back happy childhood memories. I love to walk in the snow and see it glitter in the moonlight.
I especially love it when it snows at Christmas time!
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Has your partner cheated on you? Have you ever suspected it?
nope
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What do you think of Wednesdays?
it's the turning point of the week, 'hump day'. feels great to have monday and tuesday behind me and thurday tomorrow then FRiday!!!
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Yes or No, you will stay home to give out candy on Halloween?
nope, I'll be out celebrating Halloween!
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When was the last time you were decently kissed? I mean, truly, truly, good and kissed?
sunday morning by my boy friend
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Who was your first kiss with and what was it like? did you like it? hate it? get weak in the knees?
my first real kiss, meaning french kiss, was with some guy at a party in the 8th grade. I don't even remember his name. I did not get weak in the knees because I didn't have a crush on him or anything. he was just some random guy.
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How do u know if a guy that u have been dating wants u to be his girlfriend, or how do u tell if he is just playing u?
he shows a lot of interest, you feel pursued, he backs up his words with actions, he'll usually say something like he wants to get to know you better and asks you a lot of questions about your thoughts and your life. he wants to spend a lot of time with you. he's willing wait until you are ready for sex.
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No matter what you do or say your s/o wont satisfy you in bed. YOur sexually fustrated all the time.. What are your options, would you cheat on them?
if he is not satisfying you on purpose he has big problems. leave him and find someone who is grown up and cares about your needs.
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Was there ever a person that kept bugging you, insisting that you were the one for them but you had NO affections at all toward them? What ended up happening? (? continued in answer)
many, many times. It really turned me off. I finally told them to leave me alone totally.
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Is rape ever justified? Why or why not?
what kind of question is that?!!! NO, of course NOT, NEVER, EVER!!!!
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Why do you drink coffee in the morning?
I am addicted to it! got to have it!!!! It gets me out of bed and I can sip on coffee as it wakes me up.
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How do you like your eggs?
I rarely eat eggs but when I do I like them poached with toast and salt.
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My 12 year old son is having very painful stomach cramps, what can i do or what medicine should i give him to relieve the pain?
I sure would want to rule out appendicitis! He could die! If it were my son I would want to know the cause and treat it accordingly. It could be stress or food posioning or a bacterial infection. but given that the cramps are very painful I would take him to a medical doctor asp!
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What is an example of something that is made out of leather?
a wallet
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Should parents resort to physical punishments when if kids never listen?
In my opinion, NEVER, EVER. I see it as physical violence and feel that it is morally wrong. I was never spanked or hit by my parents and I grew up to be a very decent, honorable person. I do believe that children ned to have boundaries set on them and consequences if they disobey. But there are other options besides spanking.
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Is it true that drinking too much water can be fatal
yes, it can lead to death. it is called hyponatremia.
the problem is that the excess water causes sodium in the blood to get way too diluted and the body takes the sodium out from the cells into the blood. eventually this causes the brain to swell and results in death.
But most people don't have to worry about it because it mainly happens to infants and athletes who loose more...
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Do women find it difficult to find partners who are sensitive, caring and good looking?
it depends on where you look. I find them. I think its a myth that men can't be sensitive, caring and good looking. My father was all of those things so naturally I believe that men come that way. My brother is all of those things. My bf is all of those things.
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Name something that once it gets wet it is ruined...
my hair!
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Can I get a second opinion from you?
sure, I love expressing my opinion. ask away..
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What is your stand on couples that fight? Do you think it can be healthy or destructive?
if they fight a lot I hate it. I find it very unsettling and I don't like being around them. I want some peace and calmness in my life. I grew up with parents that loved each other yet fought tooth and nail. I'm done!
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Are you a forgiver?
yes, I am. I never hold grudges against anyone.
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If you could be a successful professional in any field, what would it be (or if you are, what is it)?
captivating, expressive singer
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He said its a deal breaker for him if we spend more time talking about our relationhsip rather than having a relationship which has been very easy for us to fall into (getting into heavy conversations)
my question is what does it mean that he feels so strongly about this when he used to love the fact that I am so good at communication? Is he looking for reasons to end it with me?
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What does a psychologist do, as opposed to a psychiatrist?
a psychologist is trained in therapy and cannot prescrib medication whereas a psychiatrist had to go to medical school and does prescribe medication and can do therapy. I have both a therapist and a psychiatrist. my psychiatrist happens to be a very good therapist in addition to prescribing my medication.
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What do you know about the drug oxycontin?
it is a semi-synthetic opioid prescribed for severe pain
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If someone claims to have a fear of commitment, what is it they're actually afraid of?
ok, for me fear of commitment is about fear of being smoothered, of loosing my personhood, fear of boredom
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When you use a public restroom do you urinate all over the seat and the floor?
no way, sounds like somebody is drunk....
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Would you rather have sex with the person before or after you marry them?
I want to have sex with a man before I marry him to see how compatible we are sexually and of course if we get married I want to continue to have sex with him.
Besides, I think it is perfectly normal for a man and a woman who love each other to have sex, married or not.
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Ladies: (Since I've heard this from you the most), What is the difference between LOVING someone, and being IN LOVE with someone?
for one thing I can both love a man and be in-love with him. I love my bf romantically but I am not "in-love" with him. right now it feels too scary to fall "in-love". Loving him romantically means I have romantic feelings for him but I'm not out of control with my emotions. I love his looks, the sound of his voice, his personhood, his sense of humor, just being with...
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My boyfriend says he likes me, likes being with me, and cares about me a lot. But he doesn't say he loves me. If he loved me, would he say "I love you"?
I suspect your bf is being honest about his feelings. I think if he feels love for you he would have said so. that doesn't mean he won't get there but he's not there yet. I can almost hear the 'but' after he expresses his feelings.
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Okay so im dating this guy, and i really REALY like him....but i feel he dosent like me the same. what should i do to make im crazy about me?
for starters let go of your attachment to the outcome which in this case is this guy being crazy about you.
focus on loving yourself and enjoying life. take your focus off of him. that's not to say don't be friendly to him but the odds are he knows you are crazy about him and that is making him hold back from you.
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Is it okay to be a virgin at 16?
absolutely. 16 is still quiet young. it is your body and you get to decide what to do with it. I waited until I was 17. others that I know waited longer. you can wait as long as you want until it feels right for you.
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At what age did you lose your virginity or haven't you yet? And what age are you now?
17 and in love
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When was your last sexual encounter & with who?
last night with my boyfriend
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Recently my boyfriend and I were being intimate and I asked what he found attractive about me. His reply "Well, I'm not as into your breasts, but you have a nice butt." I feel awful, I also found tons of porn with big breasts. What should I
I must say, if my bf said that to me I would set him straight right off! that's a terrible and insensitive thing to say and he should know how it made you feel.
I would say something like "I'm glad you like my butt but when you said you are not as into my breasts I felt hurt, insulted..." whatever you felt.
I just urge you not to let it go because it will happen again...
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How do you REALLY know if your boyfriend loves you, or if hes just playing a game with you just to get a blowjob...?
3 weeks is not long enough for anyone to know if they REALLY love someone. Its doesn't matter how sexually active guy he is, most guys are for that matter! Don't have sex until he has proven himself by backing up his words with action.
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Have you run out of fingers and toes to count past sexual partners and can you remember all of them the way most of us can?
I need more fingers and toes than I have to count them all but if I took pen and paper I bet I could list them all.
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Do you always eat cranberry sauce with turkey?
definately on Thanksgiving
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When was the last time someone said to you "i love you"?
my boyfriend as he left my apt this morning
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When someone says that love is blind then why people are still falling in love?
because love is still blind!
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How do you react when you tell someone you love them and they smile or say "Thanks" instead of saying "I love you too" like they normally do?
That hasn't happened to me for a very long time, knock on wood, but I'm would probably say something like 'OK, well ah, you don't have to say anything..goodnight' and walk away from them.
or, I might ask them 'what do you mean when you say 'thanks'? I would rather you just speak your truth'.
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How can you tell if your boyfriend really loves you?
when he starts really putting himself out for you in a big way. he shows you that your feelings matter by his actions matching his words. he remembers what is important to you, the little things as well as the big things. this again via actions. the way he treats you makes you feel very valued. it's behavior, behavior, behavior..he calls you a lot... you always on his mind
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Name something that is very fast.
a car on a speedway
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Ladies and those of you who find men sexually attractive: what do you think of very tall, skinny gaunt men?
I am petite and slender myself so a very tall man is a bit daunting for me. I usually like men with a little meat on them and closer to the ground.
However, having said that, it's really what's underneath that counts the most. if the man's soul reachs mine and touches me that mattes more than the details of his body. how he treats me is also a huge factor.
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What do men think about during sexual activity?
interestingly, my man is very verbal outside of the bedroom. but it never occurred to me until now that he doesn't say much during sex except about the sex we're having. is that normal???
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What's good toasted?
bread
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What is your best moment in your life
the moment I was born
the moment I found my mother's lifeless body
the moment I got married
the moment I got my divorce papers
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the moment I tossed dirt into my father's grave
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Can you love someone and lie to them? And if you did lie can you expect that person to love you the same way again?
Can you? oh,do you mean can a person simontaneously lie to a person and love them? I think it depends on their character. But yes people can and do.
If the lie was about something really, really big like cheating, whether the lied to person can love the other person the same way again depends on a lot of factors but I do believe that it is possible in some cases.
I don't lie to...
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It always gets quiet when my friend and her ex boyfriend and i are hanging out together? We don't really know what to say to each other when he is around, is that normall?
I'm the type that always speaks up. in that situation, I would probably say something like 'I don't know about anyone else but I'm feeling really uncomfortable over here. how do you feel?' or "i feel like something is going on unsaid here and i'd rather it be said. do you feel that?' i'd say something rather than hang out weird. at least i would say...
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Do you think you'll see a day when all of your questions will be answered?
no I don't. the more questions I get answered the more new questions arise
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What kind of a first impression do you think you make?
warm, friendly, nice, approachable
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Why would knights wear WHITE SATIN?
so you could ask this question and make me laugh!HA!
I suppose they don't plan on getting dirty or anywhere near dirt....they are pure as their LOVE is pure and soft as silk..
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True or False: The color of Your fridge is red or grey.
false--- my fridge is pure, snow driven WHITE!
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I'm sorry, were you talking to me? (No.) Well then, please start.
I'm wondering if you need someone to talk to you. I lOVE to talk!! are you so sure you want me to start?!
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How do you think you will be spending Christmas this year?
with my family in new york
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What is today?
my sister's birthday!
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Is it Ok to call an older person just by their Name?
I don't know where your cut point is for an 'older person' but that aside I would say it highly depends on the person.
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Last name "Berry"...What would be a good first name?
cherry
mary
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HOW DO YOU START YOU BUSY DAY?
jump out of bed
get hot cup of coffee
lay of sofa and sip on coffee for an hour and read news
eat breakfast
take shower and sing in shower :)
make lunch
remember to get dressed
out the door--zip into to car ~~~
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Can you name something that people "fry"?
fish
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What is the song you most often sing in the shower?
Zip-a-dee-doo-dah, zip-a-dee-ay
My, oh my, what a wonderful day
Plenty of sunshine headin' my way
Zip-a-dee-doo-dah, zip-a-dee-ay
Mister Bluebird's on my shoulder
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True or False: Ab has fullfilled your satisfaction than what you had expected from it?
yes, sometimes I really get into it and don't want to stop, other times I just feel like I'm passing the time away.
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Have you signed up at stylechick.com yet?
don't know anything about it.
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Do you feel Answerbag is lacking in nakedness?
oh nooo, my goodness nooo....not AB
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Do you ever sleep naked?
always! wouldn't have it any other way :)
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Ladies what do you like to wear for bed?
Guys what do you like your women to wear in bed?
warm socks only, my poor toes get so cold at night!
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What color is your coat?
My 3 coats are: red, black, and purple
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What do you have in your cookie jar?
I very purposely don't have a cookie jar! If I did and put cookies in it, it would be a mixture and be empty in two days!
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A car is sinking in the river. The parents escape, but an infant is still inside screaming. Do you jump in water or not?
yes, without hestitation!
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How did you get into bdsm?
because my boy friend likes it and introduced me to it.
it became a way for us to play and have fun in the 'bedroom'.
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Are you more or less attracted to people of your own ethnicity based on your relationship history?
to be honest, to my own race more so than my ethnicity. I find that I am attracted to men who remind me of my father and my father happened to be white with a mustashe and hairy chest and full head of hair.
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Who is the third person on your missed calls?
my sister
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If a girl tells you to call her after 9:00, when after 9:00 or whats a good time to call after nine?
if I said that to a man I would expect a call any where from 9:05 to 9:20
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Who loves you more in life?
my mother
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Ladies,do you sleep with a lingerie?Why/why not?
no, I love to sleep in the nude always. I like to be totally comfortable when I'm in my bed.
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Do you like buzz haircuts on men?
No way. I like hair that I can feel and get run my fingers through. I love hair on a man. I like it loose and just long enough to hold on to. In other words I love a man with a head full of hair. my bf has the most perfect and beautiful head of hair I have ever seen! I am not talking about long, hippie hair here.
Maybe ear length would describe it, half way down the ear.
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Which country do you come from?
USA
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If I changed my avatar and username completely, would you still recognize me? In your case, did people have a hard time recognizing you when you changed either your avatar or username (or both)?
I seriously doubt it.
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North _____. What word (s) can you use to fill in the blank?
wind
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What does it mean if my girlfriend says "we are not married!!!"
your acting like you are a married couple in some way and she doesn't like it. so stop it! take note each time she says that of what was going on to provoc the statement. It sounds like she may need a little more sense of independence than you do.
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Why does my boyfriend constantly compliment other females and never me?. Also, is it right or normal for him 2 always 24 7 try 2 make jokes 2 me on how he wants 2 F**K them?
that's emotional abuse. don't take it for one more second. dump him asp.!
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What does it mean if a guy that I used to date all of the sudden texts me to 'check up on me to see how I was doing'. Even though I have moved on because we dated over 2 years ago. Because back then he ' wasn't ready' to date me for real.
it could mean many things. 1.) he's lonely 2.) he has fantasies about you 3.) he feels guilty or 4.) other
5.) he's testing the water
you know its quiet possible if you do respond to him he'll turn and run again. Or you could just text him and ask 'what's up?'. treat this totally casually because right now that's all you have.
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I met again with my best friend and went out with he and a few weeks ago said me that he was feeling something for me like when we were boyfriends (5 years ago), but he changed too much, I think he's a womanizer,I don't know if to trust,would you trust?
wait a minute you are a female and your best friend is a male, right? so how could you have been 'boyfriends' 5 years ago. I take it that he was your boyfriend?
OK, so now he has expressed an interested in you as he felt 5 years ago. No, I would not trust a womanizer off the bat. He has to earn your trust. Don't give him an inch until he starts to back up his words with action.
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My wife went to breakfast with one of her friend After breakfast my wife return home and at that time she got a text message from her friend saying that she miss her so much that it hurt. Do you think her friend is Gay which is a female?that my question
That something a 10 year old would say to their best friend which is normal at that age. Its don't have to mean she's gay. She may be overly attached or dependent on you wife's friendship.
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Why do i dont get noticed among girls. Girls come and talk to my close friend but they dont talk to me even if i am standing beside him. I am a very shy and quiet. But if i talk to these kind of girls, they praise me like hell.
it's hard to notice someone who is very shy and quiet. When I see someone like this I get the feeling that they don't want to be approached. You to be approachable if you want girls to notice you, smile a lot and laugh and be friendly. You can come out of your shell inch by inch. you might try smiling and saying hi to girls.
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Who would you trust enough to let her/him tie you up and spank you?
my boyfriend
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When I say "69" what do you think of?
1969 woodstock
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Am I worrying too much if I'm afraid to have people over my house this summer for a party cuz I'm too nervous someone will leave and get into a accident and I'll be held responsible? What can I do? I'd like to be able to have get-togethers at my house?
I think you are worrying too much. I know of one case in new jersey where the host was held liable for a car accident caused by an intoxicated guest but that doesn't happen often enough to worry about. also, the law varies from state to state.
I've had many, many gatherings over the years without a single incident. I wonder if there is something else you are worried about re:...
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What comes to your mind when I say FUN?
playing and splashing around in water
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What's the first thing that comes to mind when I say "midget"?
puggy fingers
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What is the cheapest thing in your house?
free fruit given to me by a friend
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What's your wallpaper (computer monitor)? Mine is the pic of Britney Spears when she was with Paris Hilton. You know what I mean ;)
me in a jungle
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Is there anyone in your life who annoys you so badly that it is almost agonizing? Is this person at school, work, home, or some other place?
no, I can't say there is...
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What s the main display on your computer screen? and your phone?
I actually had to check and see..my computer screen is me in a jungle in south america. my telephone has a picture of cherry blossoms on it.
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Which do you tolerate less - the incapable or rudeness in customer service?
rudesness. its easier to feel compassion for somone whose just learning and feeling nervous, or not very bright than it is for someone who is mistreating me.
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Wat are something that you usually forget?
my umbrella. if i take it with me i'm sure to leave it somewhere. so i no longer carry an umbrella.
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Do you think you are polite, and if so, why?
yes, I do my best to be thoughtful and considerate of others feelings. I realize that other people have feelings just as I do. I Smile and apologize where needed. patiently wait for the predestrans to clear the crossswalk.
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Do You Believe In Platonic Friendship?
between a man and a woman? There certainly are men I feel strickly platonic towards but do they feel the same I don't know. I can't say that I've had a close male friend that one of us at least didn't feel some sexual tension. but acting on it is another story.
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Do you ever wonder if the person you call your best friend thinks the same about you?
yes, I do but she saves me the trouble and tells me she feels the same way about me that I do about her and visa versa.
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Name 3 people who made you smile today?
my best friend at work, a close friend in an email, another co-worker.
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I have a person who wants to be friends w/me again after she had stopped because her bf wanted her all 2 himself. Even if I give her a second chance I feel she should make most of the effort. What do u think?
first of all I suggest that you have a heart to heart talk with her and spill it all, how you felt and how you feel now. no games. talk it through until resolved on both sides. that's what mature people do.
I don't think she should have to make most of the effort. that sounds rather childish and punishing. friendship requires a sense of equality and respect.
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What sort of people would be sorry when seeing my Q.s?
post a question first. maybe no one will be sorry..why assume the worst?
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Why can't we be friends? =)
I'll be your friend!
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How many people are in yer inner circle?
about 15 or more.
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Why is it easier to make enemies than friends?
I don't have any enemies that I know of. knock on wood. it would be hard for me to make enemies because it would go against who I am to do the things that make enemies.
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Why do some people have no friends even though they are nice?
its great to be 'nice' but that's not enough to attract friends. you need some confidence and good conversation skills at least. being approachable helps.
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I'm changing schools, and I am meeting a lot of new people. Sometimes, the conversation gets quiet, and I feel like I can't think of anything to say. What should I do when this happens?
sometimes I just blurt out how I'm feeling. sure enough someone else will have felt the same way and be glad I spoke up. or just turn to someone and say how are do doing today? and then say how it changing schools makes me feel. if i can't think of anything to say, i'll say that. turn to some and say 'I sure do want to say something here but ya know i can't think of a...
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What is your boyfriend/girlfiend like
he is awesome, kind, thoughtful, considerate, loving,
outgoing, excellent communicator, fun and playful, one of a kind!
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Are you the kind of person who will help someone up after they fall?
of course, I would
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Would you like to make a lot more friends?
I already have alot of friends and am always picking up new ones along the way.
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Have you been told that you are hard to get to know?
never, I am an open book. easy going and friendly
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How did you meet your best friend?
we were both on a date with a group of friends who were going to a dance. The whole group had stopped at a restaurant for dinner before the dance. my future best friend and I sat across from each other and instantly hit if off. we clicked on the spot.
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Ever wonder why your friends are your friends? What do you think makes people want to befriend you?
I know I have a lot of good friendship skills and feel very confident about that. I'm warm, I'm trust worthy, I'm real good at listening and giving back bits of wisdom, I'm THERE for my friends, plus I'm fun to be with and enjoy laughing....
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Do you shy away from meeting new people?
oh, no I enjoy meeting new people and making new friends.
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Do you find it hard or easy making friends?
actually, I have to say its basically easy for me to make friends and have people pursuing my firendship.
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Have you ever counted how many items the person in front of you has, In the Express Checkout Lane?
sure have. I'm the type that speaks up and will say 'looks you have way more than 10 items there!'
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Do you jump to conclusions or right over them?
jump and jump some more
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What is the perfect cup size?
8 oz. for moi
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Hot _________________! (fill in the blank ?)
Dog
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Name an item you would most like to have in your bedroom.
bottle of perfume
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_________________ sandwich. (fill in the blank ?)
tuna
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What did you accomplish at work today?
I figured out how to do a complex task. It was fun getting it to work.
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How big is your______________.
head
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Do you follow your mind or your heart?
I listen to my gut. It never fails me.
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What are some reasons why some people do not date smokers?
the number one reason I would not date is smoker is because 2nd hand smoke can cause cancer. No thank you! Also, it makes me cough. I don't like the smell and I don't feel like kissing an ash tray!
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Does not having sex with ur man affect the relationship
it depends on the relationship. long ago a man i was deeply in love with had sexual problems. we didn't have sex very often but we were deeply connected on other levels. so our not having sex didn't affect our love or our bond. but it affect my self esteem. is it me? am I not desirable enough? i would wonder, even though i knew intellectually what his problem was and it had nothing to...
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Why do you love your significant others smile?
oh yes, it melts my heart
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Do you believe your current S/O is the greatest love you've ever hand?
i did, but now confused about my feelings
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How bad is it for a guy to slightly shove a woman by the neck during a tantrum?
very, very bad. It is physical abuse. I have zero tolerance for any kind of abuse NO MATTER WHAT! If a man did this to me I would say 'goodbye' and be out the door real fast! if he did once, he will do it again.
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What's the 1st book title, that actually intimidated YOU?
if you mean by feeling hard to read and understand, I would say 'The Scarlet Letter' in 7th grade.
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If i was there right now, what's one thing, anything, that I could do, for YOU?
wash and style my hair
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Where do you get off?,... I mean..., acting like that?
I'm just being me....
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When you were loosing your baby teeth, did you ever tie a string to a tooth and a door knob then pull it?
I think I did do that...with a real loose tooth that I couldn't quiet pull out!
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When I say square, what do you think? One word please!
a nerd
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Is your waist measurement over 30 inches?
mine is also 26"
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What do you enjoy doing after you've had sex?
I enjoy gazing into each other's eyes and saying I love you and cuddling and talking intimately with little kisses back and forth. Just being close and feeling his body next to mine and then comes the beginging of round two...
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Do you enjoy sex more in bed or some other place?
I just love the coziness of the bed but find it extra exciting in the woods on a blanket.
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Have you ever had sex in public? If so, would you be willing to share your story?
the most public was under a blanket during the day at a public park. We had gone on a picnic and it was a little windy and chilly so we got under a blanket and next thing we knew we were doing it. It was quiet erotic!
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If you were only able to wear one item of makeup everyday, what would it be?
lipstick
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Why am I gay? I wasn't seduced, abused, raised to be gay, exposed to gayness at all before I discovered I was gay. What happened?
I suspect that it must be genetic.
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If your best friend told you that he (or she) was gay, would you be okay with it?
I would want to support her but would expect her to accept my boundaries as a hetero.
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Are you comfortable with your sexuality?
yes, I am very happily hetero
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Do you accept gay people for who they are?
it doesn't matter to me what someone's sexual orientation is as long as if they are a lesbian they don't look at me in that slimy way.
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Have you ever had a same-sex relationship?
never have and never will, no desire
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How do you stop worrying about being gay/bi when you know your straight?
why would I ever worry about it if I know that my heart and hormones are with men only.
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Do you find yourself looking at your own gender sexually
nope
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What type of earrings are in Your ear/ears...?
I have pierced earrings but didn't wear any earrings today.
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Do you like to wear rings?
yes, I feel empty without my rings on. but now that I have lost so much weight they just slip around my fingers all day.
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Platinum, gold, or silver ring? Which do you prefer?
gold
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Do/Did you get/have a high school class ring?? What does it look like?
i did have one until i lent it to best friend in hs and she claimed to have lost it. it was a gold band with an emerald stone.
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Is it true you are not wearing a ring on any of your fingers?
no it is not true. i happen to have a ring on 3 fingers.
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Would you rub my feet if I asked or cant you stand feet?
I'd be happy to rub your feet!
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Girls, honestly what do you expect us to say when you ask "does this dress make me look fat?"
I weight 106 lbs but sometimes I will put on a skirt or dress and feel fat in it. I a 'no' only if its an honest 'no' else I'd rather you say 'this other dress does your figure more justice, or actually I like the way you look in this other dress' something like that. I really want your help. The truth is the dress doesn't make me look fat but it gives an...
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Alright I kinda like this fella (guy) but I'm not sure if he has the same feelings towards me..Is there like certain signs to tell me that he is into me?
unless he's very shy, he will approach you, smile at you, he will let you know, he'll ask for your phone number, something
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What you love most?
it has to start with me
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Who loves more: you or your partner?
for once in my life I have found mutal love. we seem to love each other just as much as the other.
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What would be the last material possession that you would give up?
anything my mother gave me like a piece of jewelry of hers.
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Ladies if a woman came over to you in a bar or club and asked you to join her and her hubby in bed what would you do or say?
I would feel offended and say 'not interested' I feel angry at the thought. how dare she ask me, a perfect stranger to go to bed with her and her husband?. I would feel the same anger if a strang man approached me and asked me to go home with him and have sex. WTF?!
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How long is a 'jiffy'?
when someone says to me 'I'll be back in a jiffy' I'm thinking that it won't be long enough for me to get impatient for their return. It could be 5-7 minutes or less.
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Swhy do teens wanna grow up so fast ?dress sexy ,wear makeup,have sex, i wish i was young again no worrys ,no bills , .is it alot to do with media magzines and papers and soaps
I think part of the problem is that puberty is starting earlier now because of hormones added to meat and other environmental factors such as Bisphenol A released from plastic bottles that act like estrogen.
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How tight is your belt?
I don't like to wear belts. I have a small waist and don't want anything hanging on me.
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Ladies! If your name was 'Vanilla Ice' would you let me lick you?
no, you sound too cold, brrrrr!!
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What's your thoughts on underwear as outerwear?
I find it rather confusing and really don't see the point of it.
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When it comes to personal space, everyone has a different comfort zone. What's yours?
flexible. I am a people person and like to be close. Yet, I need to feel free to come and go in and out of my personal space. that is if someone is too close I can easily move away else I feel trapped. There are other times when I like being close with lots of people. again I need to feel free to move out if I stat to feel locked in.
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I threw a dart at the world map on my wall, where do you think the dart landed?
the odds are somewhere in the pacific ocean..unless you missed the map!
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What's a nice girl like you doing in a place like this?
I'm hoping I can help some people with my answers and have some fun answering questions. Also, it occupies my time while I wait for my boss to come up with an assignment for me.
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I hate dancin. Do ladies generally find that a turn-off?
I'm sorry to hear that... but generally when I hear this from a man I assume he just isn't good at it and maybe that's why he doesn't enjoy it. I always suggest private lessons taught my moi...as I am quite good.
But overall, It wouldn't be a deal breaker if there are other positives that balance it out. I can't always find everything I want in one man...
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Name the quintessential song that when upon hearing it, takes you right back to a particular moment in time....(and what was that moment?)
I love you more today than yesterday by the Spiral Staircase
This song takes me right back to the early days of being in love with my ex husband before we got married.
It takes me to the sunday morning we spent making love and then walked to the store to buy eggs and such to make breakfast. we were so in love then.
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What song has the deepest emotional meaning for you? Why?
Nights of White Statin by the Moody Blues because it sings about love with deep emotion
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Would you buy property and/or live in an area that had had a serious natural disaster (e.g. earthquake or flood) in (say) the last 25 years? If not, how many years of "disaster-free" history do you require or recommend?
no, I would not.
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Write it down now! Now what was so important that you had to write it down now?
I had a doctor's appt. today and was afraid I would forget to go if I didn't write it on a yellow sticky at work and put on the edge of my computer.
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Do you ever find yourself talking to machines if they are being uncooperative?
yes, I do. If the diet coke doesn't come out after I put my money in and I can't get my change I'll shake the machine and say "come on machine I put my money in you now give it back or give me my soda!!"
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Do you have any memories from when you were a kid, where you can't be sure if it's a memory of a dream or of something that actually happened?
I have a lot of memories that go way, way back. I do have one in particular when I about 1 year old and can describe details which i checked out with my mother and the details are accurate. But I keep wondering if the memory is real ...
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Do you have a memory that makes you cringe everytime you remember it? [embarrassing, horrific, painful, etc]
yuk! there was this time when I lived in the city and a giantic, I mean giantic roach crawled out from under my bed. I screamed! I could just see it crawling over my face in the middle of the night!
so I got into full hunter mode and went after the sucker with a jar and thin cardboard. Fortunately, it was a dumb roach because it didn't make a mad dash like they usually do when you...
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How old were you when you memorized your social security number?
OMG that was a long time ago. I would say when I started college and had to write my SSN on everything over and over again. so about 20.
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How can i improve my short term memory? my long is brilliant and can remember random things......
here are the things I know to do:
exercise
eat healthy
keep yourself at a healthy weight
do mental puzzles
read
limit alcohol consumption
learn something new
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If you were the last person left on Earth, what would you do?
I would hope to find some animals like cats and dogs to have as my family and then look for food and water. I would have no way of knowing that I was the last person left on earth so I would keep hoping to find another person.
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Are you who you want to be right now?
I stretch and grow a bit everyday. But I am the person I want to be as far as values go, my education and career go, my friendliness goes....
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Who is the sweetest person you know?
it would have to be me...or there's a friend I have that's very sweet.
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Can you describe your dark side?
Hmmmm....my dark side..I suppose that's when I get in a snappy mood which is not very often.
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What's your definition of a looser?
well, I really don't like to label anyone a 'loser' but if I did it would be someone who refuses to learn from their mistakes and move forward with their life.
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What do you make for dinner when you are lazy?
peanut butter with honey on whole wheat toast, yum!
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The cafeteria where I work is serving stuffed cabbage today. I've never had it - do you think I should?
Sure, I love stuffed cabbage! My mother used to make it and it has warm childhood memories for me. Who knows you might like it!
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Have you turn on the heat yet?
I don't have any control over when the heat gets turned on. Only the condo assocation decides. well, I think its about time given that it was 63 degrees F in condo last night! I had to go to bed to crawl under the blankets to get warm.
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What does it mean when you ask a guy if he loves you and he wont answer you?
he feels uncomfortable with the question and doesn't know what to say.
Either he doesn't love you or he doesn't know or he might and doesn't want to be pressured into saying it before he's ready.
Don't ask again, don't bring up the topic again.
If you have to ask then the answer if probably 'no'
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Name one thing you cant' resist?
cake with sweet icing
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Who was last person you told a secret to? Do you think they will keep it?
my best friend. yes, she will keep it a secret.
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Can you tell us something about yourself that your S.O. doesn't know?
not a thing!
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Is your computer positioned in such a way that no one can sneak up on you and see what your viewing, without you knowing?
oh yes, while I am on AB and such. I have a very private office.
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Do you share the secretes with your parter?
all the time, I can tell him anything
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How often do you eat alone?
very often but I never think of it as eating alone. I just eat at the computer if I am alone or while catching CNN.
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How would you react if your deepest secret was revealed to the world?
I would almost die but then realize that about 2 million other people have the same secret.
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Your most guarded secret is...............?
I don't have one because I am a very open person.
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How good are girls at keeping secrets?
it varies woman to woman. I, myself am 100% reliable at keeping secrets as is my best girlfriend.
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Do you have someone in your life that knows EVERY one of your secrets?
yes, bf
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Do you have a secret that not even your best friend knows?
I don't have a secret that NO ONE knows about. I have confided ALL of my secrets to safe people only.
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Do you think it is okay to lower your standards if the person you are falling for does not meet them?
it depends on what kind of standards you are talking about here. If its about values and how you are treated or use of drugs and alcohol then I would say no way. It does matter that you are falling for the person is their character falls short of your standards. e.g., If you want someone who is reliable and this person isn't then you will have big problems.
however, if its about looks,...
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Can you really NOT control who you fall in love with, or is that just an excuse?
if you work on yourself such as healing childhood wounds you may find you fall in love with different types. And attract healthier people.
You may not be able to control WHO you fall in love with....
BUT you can control what to do with your feelings. If the person wouldn't be good for you or they are in a realtionship you DO NOT have to act on those feelings.
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Are you looking for love or are you waiting for love to find you?
true love has found me, it tapped me on the shoulder and I turned around and there it was.
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I have given up on love anybody else feel the same?
never
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Name the ONE way you would NEVER wanna die?
buried alive is my worst nightmare!
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Are you more social online than you are with society?
actually, I'm MORE scoial in society than I am online. Its easier for em to interact with people that I can see and and hear and touch that with atvars and words.
I'm basically, a friendly and outgoing type that enjoys people and has an active social life.
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What's your biggest turn-on?
being slowly seduced romanticly
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Do you perfer to be called by your real name or nickname?
my nick name
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What is the sexiest accent?
british, french
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What turns you off?
bodies covered with tattos or even an arm covered with tattos and piercing anywhere other than the ears.
the bald look
a sloppy dressed man with poor posture picking his nose
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What colors are the butterflies in your stomach?
I never thought of them having a color. if i did I would imagine them being the color of my stomach - pinkish
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If you were to give your heart a name, what would it be?
constant
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Why is it people are often nicer when leaving? (Take it as you wish and give a deep thoughted answer)
I think because they don't want to offend anyone or hurt anyone's feelings by leaving. they also want to show gratitude that they enjoyed theirself. I think people tend to feel bad when they leave so they act extra nice to be sure everyone is OK with them leaving.
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What are you most proud of that you accomplished this week?
I did a live interview on TV, no kidding!
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I am feeling very sad. Can I hug you?
I'll give you a hug, you are the one feeling sad.
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Apart from having someone close to you die, what was the saddest thing that ever happened in your life ?
loosing my beloved cat to cancer was all consuming. I used to sing to him as he was dying. then I knew when it was time to have him put to sleep. I buried him in my parents backyard and put a lite candle there and a ring of stones to mark the grave. I feel the saddness now coming back to me and this happened about 14 years ago...
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What can you hear right now?
singing on my radio, the sound of my fingers typing in this answer and a fuzzy sound coming from somewhere, a voice in another office.
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"Survey" Said" We need a survey on "How many people really respond to them"?
that varies entirely on the type of survey and who is taking the survey. There many variables that go into survey response rates. There's the little postcard surveys that probably have a very low resposne rate. But that very different from a national probability survey funded by the CDC where there maybe a response rate high as 80%
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...first thing that comes to mind when I say peppermint?...
pattie
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When I say red, you say ___________?
my favorite color!
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Are you naked right now?
nope, I am at work and in fact have two sweaters on plus other clothes. it is that cold in here.
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Do you talk to yourself and if so, what do you talk about?
all the time like I was just saying "I'm so damn bored and it's only 2:20 pm". Sometime when I am walking along outside I am thinking my thoughts so hard I'll find myself say a few words out loud and then look around and feel really stupid.
At home I talk to cats out loud constantly and to myself like"I think what I'll do now is write an email to ...and...
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What's the first thing that comes to mind when I say the word "sex"?
boyfriend
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What do you think of bingo for a hobby? why is it an old persons game?
actually I'll play a game or two but ater that I get bored. I think for the elderly its a way of having social connections and the game is very simple.
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What things do you prefer doing naked?
making love
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Was the last person you told "I love you" a friend, relative or spouse/so?
my s/o as we got off the phone today.
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People who drive cars with stereos playing a loud, heavy bass noise, do they actually enjoy listening to this, or is it just for the attention-getting aspect of forcing it upon everyone else?
OH!!! the annoyance from HELL!!! You've hit the nail on the head!
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Is today the national graduation day for schools, or where is everyone?
well, its oct 1 now so everyone is in school or at work. excluding everyone else.
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What is it that really makes you sit up and listen?
Breaking News
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Do you ever feel sick but still go to work?
yes, unless its really serious
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My husband's favorite moniker for me is "LUCY"; as my mannerisms and awkwardness reminds him of her! What might YOUR spouse or significant other have given YOU as a moniker? Why?
MEG, I am so like Meg Ryan
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Ewwww You just stepped in something!!! What was it?
dog poop
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I am a sinner... what is the first thing that comes to mind when you read this statement?
the catholic church
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How many bottles of wine are in your home right now?
about 1/2 bottle
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Do you prefer your wine chilled or room temperature?
chilled
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What is the name of the Red or White Wine that you drink?
I like Yellow Tail from Austrialia. for red I like Merlot and for white I like Chardonay.
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I hate the taste of beer. Does everybody hate the taste of beer at first but eventually get used to it, or do some people like it or at least find it tolerable right off the bat?
I hated the taste of beer when I first tried it but then came to love ice cold beer on a hot summer day
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When was the last time you had a cold beer?
probably about 2 weeks ago at some social event.
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Is there anything more fun than a 5 drink minimum?
yes, a two drink minimum. I got drunk that way, no thanks. never again!
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Who will enjoy some allegro amaretto liqueur with me?
I'll share a toast with you. I love amaretto!
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What is the earliest you have put up your Christmas tree? What is the earliest you have taken it down?
two weeks before christmas day and then I hate taking it down because I love to look at it. Jan. 6th the earliest I've taken it down.
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What is the earliest hour you would have lunch?
11 am
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I make an old fashioned peanut butter fudge that is soft and creamy after pouring. It stay that way for about 8 hours but then it slowly hardens after a few days and I was wondering if there was anyway to keep it softer longer? Thanks
actually, I prefer my fudge a little harder than too soft but taht doesn't help you.
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How often do you eat mints?
only when I go out to a restaurant for dinner and they a bowl of mints by the door.
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What color are the squirrels in your region?
I have greyish with some brown mixed in squirrels and then there are the black squirrels here in the northeastern USA
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Do you like sensitivity?
do I like sensitivity in people, in art, in what???
I like it when my bf is senstive to my feelings. I think being senstive to others feelings is a good thing.
However, when a person is overly senstitive to what others say to them or about them can be a problem for them and for others around them.
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A farmer plows some land. Then, he plants 8 seeds. How many seeds are there now? 40 seeds. 16 seeds. 48 seeds. 80 seeds. 32 seeds. 8 seeds. 24 seeds. 64 seeds. 72 seeds. No seeds. 56 seeds. Or is there even an answer? XD
8 seeds planted in the ground.
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Jeans or formals
first thought was jeans because I like to be comfortable but I do enjoy dressing up and feeling like the beautiful woman that I am on occassion.
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Any opinions on the Whitney Houston interview on Oprah?
one, I didn't see so its hard to have an opinion on it.
two, I'm not a big Oprah fan.
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Does anyone have any ideas on where this could be? Not underground. Isn't in a boat or tree. Isn't in the water. Most people don't like it there. Hidden in a groove. Answer is not in a book. You should walk and never run to it.
don't have a clue! actually you have given me several clues...
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What is so great about valet parking? You drive 3 or 4 miles to a venue, get out of your car, give some guy a 20 and he drives it 200 yards and parks it for you. Could you not just drive the 200 yards yourself and keep the 20?
in that case, yeah, I can see your point. But they've probably reserved that space 200 yards away for valet parking!
So they give you no choice unless you feel like walking.
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If you went ot confession, told you sins, what penance do you reckon you'd get?
Oh, I'd get a free pass to the pearly gates of Heaven!
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Should Obama be worried that Berlusconi has met Michelle?
no way! I don't see what the attraction with Berlusconi is. I don't find him aluring in any way whatsoever. I think Obama has much more appeal.
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4 words you never want to hear?
I don't love you
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Who was the sexiest Disney Princess?
I'm guesssing, Jasmine
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When you look out your window what do you see
I am in my office and have a very large window. I see a green forest, part of a bldg and the blue sky with some white clouds floating above.
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How many times have you gone to the bathroom so far?
today i assume. that would be about 7 times
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If you could say sorry to one person who would it be and would they forgive you?
interestingly, there is one person that I need to say I'm sorry to and I have already done that this morning in a message. Will she forgive me, I don't have a clue. All I can do is say I'm so sorry for your pain bought on by my actions.
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If you hear police ambulance or fire sirens, you must do what?
serious me says, pull over to the side of the road and stop until they are gone.
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What is something you hated doing as a kid that you like now?Me is brushing my teeth.
if you reversed the question I would have an answer. I loved cleaning the house and organizing the laundry as a kid now I hate, well dislike having to do these things.
I got one! I always hated going to bed as a kid now I enjoy going to bed.
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Britiney Spears is_________________________?
cute
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Has something changed drastically today?
I lost one pound! down to 106 lbs now.
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Why do people jump on the band wagon?
enthusiasum is contagious, or social behavior just like monkeys would do when one monkey calls out a danger signal they all run in the same direction.
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I am a genie. Tell me three wishes and I will grant them. However, you must use two of your wishes on someone else. What are they?
that's easy
1. my sister is cured of cancer
2. my sister is marriage is happy forever
3. I am in perfect health for 60 more years
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What brand id your phone?
don't know what 'brand id' is?????
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First thing that comes to mind when i say...Liquorice...?
being at the movies and eating black liquorice
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Make a sentence using the words Pretzels, Charming, Smooth, Noon and AB. Can you do it?
A charming princess with smooth, shiny hair ate some pretzels at noon while answering questions about love on AB.
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When I say "milkshake" you say_______.
vanilla
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What word do you most often say in a day?
Hi, how are you today?
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Do you have enough free time?
yes, I do. I've arranged my life so that I have a good balance between downtime and social life plus the necessary self care tasks like, grocery shopping, doing laundry, cleaning house and such.
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Does it upset you when u have to say "No" when someone asks you for help?
I only say 'no' when I have a good reason and honestly don't feel bad about it because I generally very glad to help people.
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What comes to mind when I say, "Boolah boolah boolah, boolah boolah boo. "?
my little boy friend I had when I was 5 years old. he used like to chase me around trying to scare me and say those exact words! I had completely forgotten that!
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Friends with benefits,is it right?
I really don't think its a question of rightness or wrongness. Rather, I think each party has to be willing to be totally honest with theirself about their feelings for the other and their expectations.
That is the tricky part. It is so easy to tell one's self 'oh after we have sex for 2 months he'll get totally bonded to me' that's a set up for pain.
or for...
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I need to post a comment in my friend lovely picture
say what is honest and true for you about your friend
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What's the best way to stop loving someone?
After you've stopped contact and you must stop contact if you are serious here. Next you need to take them off the pedestal and see them realistically which is usually hard to do when you are in love with someone. but when you can strip off the honors and ribbons you have pinned to their chest it makes it a lot easier.
Make a list of the bad times, the ways he mistreated you, your...
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What would you do if I told I love you?
there are so many I love, I can always love one more including you! Afterall, love makes the world go around and around...
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When was the last time you heard I love you from your s/o? How did it make you feel?
about 3 days ago. It felt good, reasurring.
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Who do you wish you never fell in love with?
the man I was in love with when I left my marriage. I still see him around now years and years later and I don't get it, what did I ever see in him? Not only that all of his words of love and romantic things he said we would do when I was free never happened. we just dated for two years. Else I would have at least gone to marriage counseling with my husband which I didn't do then...
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When was the last time someone said to you "i love you"?
today as we were getting off the phone, my best friend.
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Has anyone you loved ever given up anything for you?
all other women.
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I do everything for my boyfriend, i clean his room his kitchen pretty much anything he asks me too, i love him, and he says he loves me and i knoww he does, how do i get him to show it more often?
stop playing mom - you are his gf not his mother. you do noy need to clean his room to earn his love. he should just love you for who you are as is.
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Have you met the love of your life?
yes
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Is it bad for your brain to think too much?
oh no, just the opposite. the more you use your brain the more brain reserve you have. thus when you get older and brain cells start to die you will have a larger storehouse and thus more brain cells will be left to function normally for you.
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Just curious....I had my Psychology class today and we talked about the brain, right and left hemispheres, and the differences between lefties and righties (like, lefties are more artisticly inclined). I am completely a right handed person, however, when
well you do know that your handness is not related to brain dominance (right/left).
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Use one adjective to describe your partner
loving
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What first comes to mind when you see or hear the words I LOVE YOU?
I see a big red heart
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How much is too much? When do you give up on Love?
When you become untrue to yourself and stop setting boundaries just to try to please the one you love. you whole world revolves around that one person.
give up on loving a person when you are not getting your needs met and your love is not returned in equal measure.
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Can my boyfriend love me and then not and then almost love me?
its unreliable love, you can't count on it. I wouldn't really consider it to be love if it shifts back and forth like that. Real love is constant and never changing only deepening.
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Why do you breathe heavily the first time you have sex ( for girls)
I breathe heavily everytime I have sex
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Why does my girlfriend bite me?
she loves you so much she wants to literally eat you up!
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Why was it so hard for me to find a birthday card and mother's day card for my mom today? My only thought is I'm trying to find the perfect ones and they didn't have much variety.
If I can't find just the right card I get one that's pretty and then write a personal note inside about my feelings for that person. I find the people love the personal tough from the heart.
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Do you like getting flowers as Gifts?
I love flowers as gifts or as any reason for that matter!
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Do you get excited for your birthday?
Just like a 10 year old! I gather up all my friends. have cake and ice cream, sing and dance and laugh until we're totally silly.
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Have you ever felt your brain quiver? Sometimes my surroundings suddenly strike me as very strange, then I get a sensation in my head that feels like my brain is *moving*. My heartrate and respiration increases, and I might even hear a buzzing in my ears.
I've had a weird sensation that I guess I could desribe as brain quiver and buzzing in ears but w/o the heartrate and respiration increase. In fact, I can make it occur. It only lasts a few seconds. Its been a long time since I've had that sensation.
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Why do monkeys like bananas?
bananas are very abundant and easy to eat, tastey and nutritious. I just love bananas myself, esp. with peanut butter -yum!
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Why do monkeys yawn?
in old-world monkeys yawning is more common amoung males, and amoung those monkeys higher up the dominance heirarchy. It could well be that in these creatures, like a baboon yawning has become a social signal of a different kind than in humans - a display of the canines and hence a warning to anyone thinking of causing trouble.
baboons are likely to yawn before fights, and possibly also...
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The maximum number of orbits in an atom is?
7 orbits
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It is raining heavily here , How is the weather in your country?
I'd be interested in knowing what country you are in. Here in New York, USA its cloudy.
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Have you lied on a resume? If so, about what?
No, I honestly can't say I've done that. No need, I have tons of experience and education in my field.
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How loyal are you? Do you flit from one thing to another as easily and as often as you change your socks?
I am very loyal. I still have the same best friend for 20 years. I maintain my political beliefs through out my life and so on.
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Do you always keep appointments no matter what or how you feel?
no, I do not. I try to be reliable as possible when it involves friends. I often make changes in doctor appt.s. But I honor my body first, If its a rainy night and I feel sleepy I know its not a good idea for me to drive 20 miles to meet friends and drive back even later. I could end up in an accident.
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Has anyone ever been killed by a beet? ( excluding allergies or choking)
nope, I wouldn't be here to tell the tale now would I?
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Girls, when you go to bed, where do you keep your right hand on your bf/husband body and why.
I sleep on the right side of the bed so its my left hand. I like to put it around across his chest.
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How can having responsibility for your own happiness be both a freedom and a burden?
For one thing I do not consider being responsible for my own happiness a burden. I enjoy taking care of myself and running my life. I enjoy creating a happy life for myself. I like being the captain of my ship.
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When you are sad, with whom you would like to be with? Friend or Lover?
Lover. for one thing I can cuddle up in his big strong arms and feel safe and loved. Its a very comforting feeling.
with my best girlfriend its not quiet the same story. She totally cares and is totally sympathetic but there is a limit to the physical comfort I can get. yes, I can get a hug and we could sit on the sofa next to each other and she could hold me but still does not equal being...
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Remember the contest between the Sun and the Wind..which one could make a guy lose his coat? The wind blew hard and the guy held onto his coat more tightly. The sun came out and off came the coat. Moral?Sunshine beats blowhard every time. Agree?
I think its more that trying to force an outcome makes it unlikely to happen as opposed to making the outcome naturally seem attractive. the choice comes from within the person.
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What reason would someone who needs help, not ask for help?
they may be in denial that they need help,
they may not believe that they deserve help,
they may be too shy to ask for help,
it may not occur to them to ask for help,
they may be embarrassed to ask for help,
they may feel like they are a burden or a nuisance,
they may not want someone to know that they need help
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Wise people say, "do not condemn, but try to find out as to why that person did a bad job".
If you found the cause to be lack of skill, how would you make him realize without condemning or criticizing?
Note that he shouldn't think you are bossing .
you simply say something like 'that's a great try and very creative. Let's approach it from another angle...
Always start out with praise and the positive. Certainly there's something in there that worked. Depending on the job, lets say it involved writing but was poorly written and confusing however they spelled very word correctly. You would praise them on their...
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For what reason did you last have to ask for someones help?
In grocery store there was an item on the higest shelf I couldn't reach so I asked a taller person if they could get it for me. Of course they did in good nature. and I said thank you very much and went on my merry way.
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I am curious as to how many of you have been involved in lifestyle BDSM?
If you are not familiar with this, please do not respond...thanks!
My bf and I are into this. At first I was the sub and he the dom but he really, totally wants to be the sub and wants me to be the dom. We totally enjoy it. It gets better as I get more experienced. Its improved our relationship in many ways.
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Women, do you have strong Os? What techniques give you a better/harder O (butterflying, spacing/parting, etc.)? This is masturbating or with a partner.
I don't know what those terms mean but I get the most intense orgasm with my vibrator because I have total control. But not to worry, dear lover, I still get fantastic orgasms during foreplay and intercourse.
With my lover, my emotions instensify my orgasms and he sure knows how to hit that G-spot and blow my mind away!
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How often do you masturbate? Be honest.
it really varies. when there is a man in my life I do it more often because I think of him when apart and I get aroused so then it would be 3-4 times a week.
but if no man, then my sex drive seems to take a nose dive and I may go for a couple of weeks without masturbating.
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My boyfriend wants to have anal sex, but I don't. He says I'm not adventurous. What should I do?
As always stay true to yourself. You do not have to do anything that you are not comfortable doing no matter what!
Your bf is trying to manipulate you into doing what he wants by saying you are not adventurous if you don't do what he wants. Don't buy it.
Your bf needs to respect your feelings. I agree you need to have a calm talk with him about how feel when he tries to...
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Do you have an adventurous spirit?
I sure do. Even though I'm often a scaredy cat I'll do pretty much anything for the thrill of it (within reason)
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What occurs when old information interferes with new information
first of all it depends on the source of the new infromation and how reliable it is.
It makes me think of the time when people were in great conflict about whether the earth was flat or as newer information found it to be round. It can be a paradigm revolution as then.
On a smaller scale if I always though my bf was faithful and trustworthy and honest,etc. (old info) and then the new...
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What kind of book are you: Mystery? Sports? Technical? Adventure? Poetry? Unreadable? Sealed? Open? Explain.
I am an open book. I am a very open and honest person. There is nothing about myself that I would not share with close friends and a lot of things that I would share on national T.V.
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Do you have any sounds that just freak you out and make you sieze up or flinch? If so what?
the sound of a man, simply because its ALWAYS a man, giggling change in his pocket drives me crazy!!
finger nails across a chaulk board...
leave blowers...
air raid sirens...
a radio station that is fuzzy
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What will make you freak out?
Hmmmm...some one jumping out of no where and screaming!
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I am told all the time that I am a pretty girl .I get alot of compliments, but what I dont understand is I feel terrible about myself.I really think I am horrible to look at most the time.Do you think people are just being nice, or am I messed up?
I think you are probably very pretty but suffer from low self-esteem. I don't know about your childhood. prehaps your parents or brother or such told you you are ugly or something like that. Wherever it came from it is not reality of who you are and how you look.
I suggest you work on your self-esteem and you will begin to feel the prettiness others see in you. You can begin by telling...
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When someone was poking fun at you (for example if someone said wow you're dumb) then they just said, "ha just kidding" do you belive them?
For one thing I know I am not anywhere near dumb. So it does nothing for me. I have very close male friend that is constantly saying things like, 'I love you, ha, ha, only kidding' I don't care for that kind of kidding.
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When you're complimented, do you just automatically say "thank you", or do you actually take what was just said into consideration?
Oh, I enjoy compliements and take them in. they make me feel good. Accepting a compliement completes the circle of giving and receiving.
I love to give compliements as well and see a person's face light up over something seeming small such as 'that's a beautiful sweater'. It makes me feel good when they receive it.
I am very genuine about giving compliements. I can...
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What do you consider too judge mental?
too judgemental? Hmmmm... OK, a child being called lazy for not picking up her toys when in fact she has a temperture of 101 degrees and so tired had to lay down in bed.
or, seeing a person with a genetic disorder that causes obesity and telling them if didn't stop stuffing their face and laying on the couch all day they would be like a normal person. But you are just making assumptions...
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Am i being ignored?
nope, I just looked at your atvar, read your question and all of the responses....here's looking at you!
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How do you walk away from someone your in love with but you know could possibly not be the right one for you, After 3 yrs into the relationship no major progress has been made, your still just 'dating' and you find yourself too scared
I firmly believe that you owe that someone the truth about your feelings. Its not fair to them for you to just keep staying because you are too scared. Be honest in a loving way. Who knows an honest and open conversation could lead to a new direction in the relationship but you must take the risk. Its the only choice as I see it.
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Does it bother you when you are being ignored by someone texting someone else while in your presence?
I just occuply myself otherwise.
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What are your feelings about people who choose to play with their iPods instead of talking to others at a social gathering?
I think its sad because I think that they feel safer playing with their ipod than interacting with people.
Hence, I feel that they are missing out on the richness of life hiding behind an ipod. On the other hand, I could be judgemental and say they all kinds of things but I won't because there's always a human being underneath who is plain scared.
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What do you wear when you are home alone?
the most comfortable clothes I have. If its medium temp. I wear a cute dark pink t-shirt dress, if its way hot, I wear nothing a tol. if its cold then my terry cloth robe and sweat pants.
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What do you keep near your toilet?
toilot paper
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Would it be disappointing if the person you and you s/o would have threesomes with got married?
I don't have a s/o anymore. but if I were in that situation I suppose I might feel relieved to have my s/o back to myself.
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Do you think there should be an upper age limit on sex? Humour welcome
absolutely NOT, come one this isn't even funny!!!!
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Do you plan on "gettin' any" tonight?
nope, nada, zero tonight
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At what age did you lose your virginity or haven't you yet? And what age are you now?
I was 17 and in love! I promised myself I would wait until I was in love and the man was in love with me and I kept that promise to myself. I am now 48.
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Is it cheating if you have a sexual encounter outside your relationship with someone of the same sex?
yes, definately
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Did you ever have sex with someone on the first date?
same here, sure have but don't remember whom they were. it was long ago when I would do that. now I want to get to know the man first and have an emotional connection.
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My fiance wants to try a threesome once but I don't and he says it will change me and that it will be fun but i don't think so, what should I do?
stay true to yourself always. your bf can live without you doing a threesome.
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Women only. Your husband or boyfriend wants you to have sex with other guys while he watches. Would you?
Every man I've ever known has this fantasy. I would only do it out of love for my bf even then its a big stretch for me as I am strictly hetero. When it came down to the moment I may end up backing out...
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This is sensitive but I'm not afraid to ask here goes: Do you think it's fair or unfair " B.E.T." ? I am curious how people feel. I won't be surprised if noone answers, but I'm asking anyway.
I have no idea what "B.E.T" is ????? can you explain??
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I'm afraid of being alone do you know how i feel?
I do know how you feel. But it is only a temporary feeling and you can move through it. Once you face it you will find there is nothing to be afraid of. You will feel stronger and have time to work on yourself and loving yourself more.
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My boyfriend tells me he loves me every night before he goes to bed, but I'm not ready to say it back... so I don't. How long till this becomes a problem? What other things can I say back to him besides "Alright" when he tells me he loves me?
when you say you are not ready I assume you don't feel love for him yet. I think you need to be honest with him about your feelings and tell him how you feel. Why live under the stress of waiting for him to confront you? A relationship needs to be built on honesty to suceed. Its not fair to him.
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Do you think if it's meant to be it will be without
forcing it?
I don't like the expression 'meant to be'. I don't know it sounds so final or something. but I do believe in fate playing a hand. when I think of fate I think of the energy of the universe is a part of it. but I do beleive that if relationship of love should never feel forced or its not real.
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When should you never turn away?
when you are angry
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Who makes you laugh?
my sister and brother
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When someone knocks on your door, and you don't wanna see them, what's something the person that answers the door might say?
not interested
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Can you name something you own that is "second hand" or a "hand me down"?
I've found some great clothes for dancing and making costumes at 2nd hand stores.
BTW, i just love your atvar!
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Hello is there anybody out there?
I am out here.
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Have you ever taken a can of soda/beer/whatever that someone is drinking and punched a hole just below the drink spout so that the next sip they take goes down the front of them? What was their reaction?
That's not in me. I would never do something like that.
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SInce everyone got annoyed at me last time. I'll word this as a question. How do you live your life without God? I do not discriminate against athiest's. Just pray for them. I have just never understood living your life without God. He died for you..
first of all, I do not believe in God as described in the bible. therefore I do not believe God died for me. It makes no sense to me a God would die for people 2009 years in advance. or at all for that matter. it is just a guilt trip to say he died for my sins.
I have my own spiritual beliefs that serve me just fine. I don't need the religious God. There are other ways of believing like...
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Tell me why I don't like Mondays? I don't like, I don't like, I don't like Mondaaays, hey hey.
I think mondays are jarring to the system. From friday 5 pm to sunday bed time my body is slowing down, mellowing out. Then suddenly, bam! I have to hop to it on monday morning. I think its a biorhythm thing or like jet lag.
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Whats the first thing that comes to mind in the morning
hot coffee
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Who would you call to bail you out of jail?
my sister
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Are you good at whistling?
not very good.
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What is something you would do for a million dollars that you normally wouldn't do?
walk naked down the street, although I'd probably get arrested.
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Would you ever lie to girlfriend/boyfriend?
no, I've made an agreement with my bf - no lies, only honesty. if I expect that from him then I have to give that back
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Do you drink your beer in the container it has come in (bottle or can) or pour it into a glass?
if it comes in a bottle, i drink it from the bottle to keep it cold. but from a can I pour it into a glass, don't like the can.
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Do you like to drink beer out of the can or the bottle or poured into a glass?
bottle
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Do you label people?
label people? Hmmmm... I hate to admit this but sometimes I go to a support group and I label some of the women as too 'housewifey'. They are the ones who seem to have small worlds and seem stagnated to me. I know its very limiting to label people but that is what I do there at least.
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What do you do when a very sensitive friend of yours, who is also friends with your other friends, gets angry and insults you when he asks you out but you tell him you're not interested?
I don't have friends that insult me.
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Why is it that when you are with your friends time flies but when you are alone time drags by?
Not true for me. Sometimes it can be in resverse. When I am alone time can fly especailly in the morning. I get up at 5 am and the next thing I know its 8 am! I get home at 5:30 pm and before I know it, it's 8:30 pm!! I That's not to say I never feel time drag like a Sunday afternoon between 3 pm and 4 pm is the worst hour for me if I have nothing special to do. Some how once its 4...
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What kind of energy are you radiating right now?(excited/loud/silly/sleepy/)..What could you say right now that would express what type of energy level you have?(for example if your excited about life you could type a jingle lol)
right now have to go the bathroom real bad but afraid if I get up I will miss an important phone call. feeling very impatient....+++++++++crossing legs++++
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What are you thinking of right now?
I am waiting for a phone call where I will be interviewed about an interested topic. I am wondering why the phone is not ringing yet.
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How is the weather up there?
we have sunshine with a few white clouds drifting about
and temperature in the lower 70's F
New York
USA
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True OR False? You've had a cup of coffee and a cigarette this morning.
False - only coffee, never cigarette!!
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Have you had a good day today?
yes, talked to a good friend, shared laughs with another close friend, went out to lunch with co-workers and hey - the sun is shining and its Friday!!!
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Could you, would you, be my friend?
sure
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Do you think it is wrong, cheap and/or arrogant for the guy to buy an engagement ring as a Christmas or birthday present? Or do you think that it's ok to do that?
if my bf proposed to me on Christmas or on my Birthday I would think its very romantic. I certainly would not think of the ring as a present though. The ring comes with the proposal. But I would be so happy and excited I wouldn't even think about other presents.
And if he saved all his money to buy me the ring that's sweet.
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The engagement ring I want is $15,000 with a real diamond and I am fine with a Cubic Zirconia which would only cost $1,300. My finace thinks it's dumb to do a fake stone. Would it matter to you if your engagement ring was a cubic zirconia?
I would rather have the real thing. plus I won't want to fool people with a cubic zirconia because the odds are they would think tisa real diamond. You can find a real diamond for less than $15,000.
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Is $30,000 too much for an engagement ring?
its all relative to your financial situation.
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To the women who are divorced: did you give your wedding ring back to your husband when you divorced? Do you still have it today?
Oh, I still have my wedding band. It is a memoir and reminds that a man once loved me with his whole heart and soul.
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I have to choose between two engagement rings that I like.Which one do you like better? pics in answer
can you have a third choice? I like the one on the left because it looks more femine but the band is too thin. I don't like the one on the right. it looks to masculine and angular for my taste.
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After a couple have been married for years, is it okay to trade her wedding ring in for something better or different? or is this considered taboo?
I'm too sentimental and romantic to do that.
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Does/Did your wedding ring have diamond(s) in it?
mine did not. at the time I was anti-diamonds but this time around I would like a diamond ring for sentimental reasons.
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Were you a virgin when you got married?
actually,NO but there was only one other man before my husband. I did not believe and stil do not believe in waiting for marriage to have sex.
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What is a mature age for women?
I would say when a woman is comfortalbe with her body and her sexuality in a healthy way and can talk about sex in an easy and comfortable way.
when she is genuine and honest, knows herself and through with childish games. When she has developed a sense of confidence in who she is and knows what she wants.
At the sametime she is loving and giving.
I think this happens for different...
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Is there anyone you don't trust yourself around?
no, I wouldn't hang out with anyone I didn't trust myself around. However, the closest I can come to this is not trusting myself with food/sweets during family holiday celebrations.
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When was the last time you saw a good catfight?
I never saw a 'good' catfight. I abhorr catfights!
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What is abnormality, and what are the biochemical causes of abnormality?
abnormaility of what? there can be different casues depending on what system you are looking at. abnormaility in genes and receptors can be involved.
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What causes resentment?
I see it as pent up anger or hurt. not speaking up about an annoyance for example. let's say my partner fills my plate last during gatherings and I feel hurt about that but never tell him. each time it happens I feel worse about it. it then becomes a resentment.
but if I tell him and say'honey, I notice that you tend to fill my plate last and then I feel unimportant'. it...
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Is it true that the way a person feels about themselves is reflected in the way that person generally treats their close friends and family members?
I think so. If I love myself (and I do) it is very easy to be loving to family and friends.
A person that doesn't feel good about theirself often feels that they have little or nothing worth while to offer or no one would want anything from them because it isn't valueable. it is very sad indeed.
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Do you have trouble looking people in the eye when they speak to you (because of low self esteem)? How can you get over this?
no problem whatsoever.
the only way is through. you can begin slowly with safe people. know that people enjoy eye contact and are missing out when they can't make eye contact with you.
you could also practice making eye contact with yourself in the mirror. tell yourself 'i like making eye contact with you'
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How do you get self esteem/ confidence?
good self esteem comes from treating your self with love and kindness and not allowing others to mistreat you. The more you learn to love yourself the higher your self-esteem. When you love your self you take care of your needs. Taking care of your needs is an act of self love. You may not be aware of your needs so the first step is to tune in and ask yourself what you need.
Eating cold...
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Any tips on how I can learn to stand up for myself? I am a walking doormat :(
start by saying "NO" to a request. Already you are not a doormat. A doormat always says 'yes'.
Learn to set boundaries. if someone asks you to do a favor for them practice saying 'I'll get back to you about it'. and then think about whether you really want to do the favor or whether you are doing just so the person will like you.
If you do really want...
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How do you act confident even when you are not
take a deep breath, hold my shoulders back and up right, and make direct eye contact. Just feels more confident to maintain good posture.
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I have never had the chicken pox, a nose bleed, or a cavity. Is there common experience, that you've never experienced?
Can't think of one. I've had all of those. Except I have never (knock on wood) broken a bone in my life.
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Do you have a digital camera?
sure do!
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What's one thing, that never gets done right unless YOU do it yourself?
clear out junk mail
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I would walk 500 miles just to see your .....?
smiling face and eyes
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There's nothing so good as ....?
hot chocolate on a freezing cold day
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How do you relax when you have loads on your mind
go for a long walk and think my thoughts
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What makes you scratch your head and just say " HOLY COW!!"?
trees knocked down on houses, cars and streets by a big storm
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Is your alarm clock set to music? What music or radio station do you wake up to?
I don't need an alarm clock with 4 cats. at 4 am every morning I wake up to a lick on my cheek and say a loud 'NO' and they understand its not time yet.
then at 5 am my internal alarm clock starts clicking, I feel restless and my cats start licking my face. But I stay in bed for another 15 or 20 minutes and then I'm out.
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What's something (non-sexual) that YOU would never lick?
toilet seat
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What's your favorite indulgence is?
fudge
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Every picture tells...?
a story
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Do you stink? If so at what?
tennis
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What is the first name the person you miss the most?
my mother
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What is your least favorite task you do in your home? Mine is dusting.
vaccuming
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What are some good reasons for a boss to fire an employee?
being constantly late to work
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Who is one person you never want to see on a postage stamp?
george bush
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Boys will be....?
boys
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Ur favourite personality?
confident and kind
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It takes two to........?
tango
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Should i be upset or mad at my girlfriend for her past?? I know 5 guys shes been with in her past. One of them was my good friend and it keeps driving me crazy!! Should I be mad at my girlfriend for her past?
I don't think so. she didn't belong to you then and she dosen't belong to you now. She was a free agent before she met you and you have no say in what she did before you.
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It seems like girls would rather have a bad relationship than a good one. I have been trying to figure out why, and I think it is because they love all of the drama that a bad relationship can bring. What do you think?
not all girls or women want bad, drama filled relationships! these women have a higher self esteem.
for those who end up in them it is not a matter of perference for a bad relationship but rather it's the type of men this type of girl/woman is drawn too and he to her. Often they lack self-awareness in their choice of men. Being treated poorly feels normal.
it all goes back to...
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If a good girl could be a bad girl for one night , and nobody else would know, would you be bad?
depends on what you mean by bad. but I would know even if no one else knows. so maybe not.
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I found my sister's friend's used thong in our bath and masturbated while sniffing it. later my mom walked in, said "oh, my dirty thong" and apologized for having left it on the floor! I CAME TO THE SCENT OF MY MOM'S USED THONG! how can i get over this?
try shaking your whole body while standing up to shake the feeling off.
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I was molested by my stepdad when i was 12 now his brother got out of jail and he touched my breasts last night....what should i do?
report him to the police if he is over 18.
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Girls: Is it normal for a sister wanting to see you naked?
no, I don't think it is normal. my sister and took baths together when we were little and saw each other naked all the time but there was no 'wanting to see one of us naked'.
now if a brother wants to see a sister naked that is definately not normal.
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Am i ugly?
not ugly. where did you get that idea???
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I think i am a girl trapped in a boy body!i am 15 i dont what to do i crossdress to make me feel better and i am to embarsst to tell my mom what do i do
talk to a trusted adult, a school counselor, a pastor...it could be a teacher..anyone trust worthy.
what you are expressing does happen. but you are only 15. you don't have to take any drastic steps. I think if you have someone mature and supportive to listen to you and understand you, you will feel a whole lot better.
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What are some of the signs that a man is transgender?
I know a person who was a male and is now a female. the bones are still that of a male and the voice is a bit deeper. she's not totally femine. she was in my circle of friends begining as a male and we all totally accpted this process as he gradually transferred himself to a she.
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Do you think tipping at a restaurant is necessary? Why or why not?
I do because their wages are so low. also it can motive better service if they want a good tip.
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Ladies,girls, and women. If there's a guy who is so depressed, then he hugs you very tight (it's better if you don't know him). what will you reaction?
I find this question kind of peculilar. I don't totally understand the question.
If a very depressed man hugs me tight that I don't know I would say get off of me. I don't know how this would take place. If a stranger approached me like that I would back away before he got that close!!!
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How do you feel and deal with people who offer unasked for advice?
I would say something like 'I see what you're saying. I'll just have to decide what to do'.
if its a good friend then I might say 'right now I really don't need advice, what's more helpful for me is
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Who did you bring to prom/debs?. was it a good night?
I really didn't want to go to my prom. I thought it was too corny but my best friend talked me into it. i went with a male friend. after the prom we drove to the beach at 5 am which is the standard thing to do here. I made my own dress and still have it. Is has a white bodice with red silk covered w/ red lace for the bottom part.
the friend I went with has killed in an accident years...
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Do you look at the toilet paper after you wipe your ass?
sure, there's survival value in that to the point that I believe it's become an instinct.
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What do i if a couple of boys like me andi tin juswant me 2 use me what do i do?
I'm wondering why you're even considering this?
I agree tell these two jerks to go to hell and stay away from you!
You would feel like a piece of crap if you let these guys use you. don't do it. you deserve to wait for someone special and there is someone special for you.
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How did you and your husband/wife meet? did you know when you first met that you really wanted to marry or be with for the rest of your life?
I met my husband when I was 18 and he was 23. I met him at my best friend's sister's house during a social gathering. My best friend invited me just to met him. When I walked in I sat down on the sofa right next to him.
I liked him right away. I was taken by his intelligence and good looks. I could tell he was a solid person. It was love at first sight.
But he didn't ask...
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If you ask your SO questions a lot about something they did wrong to you, what does it mean when they walk away or don't wish to talk much about it? Does this mean they are confused or don't care?
a lot of men have trouble talking about their feelings. this may be why he walks away. he doesn't know what to say or how to say what he feels. he may not even have words for what he feels.
it doesn't mean he doesn't care. he can still love you with his whole heart but be unable to talk about any topic involving feelings.
He may feel very uncomfortable with the topic. This...
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My boyfriend drinks a lot and when he gets drunk he hits me but i know he is drunk so i think it is okay but lately he has left marks on my body and then denies hitting me i am in love with him and preganat with his child what should i do
It is NEVER, EVER ok for a man to hit a woman no matter what!!! This is violent and is physical abuse!
Its bad enough that you are tolerating a drunk partner. On top of that you are using that as an excuse for him to hit you!!
No, No, NO my dear! You don't deserve any of this situation - no drunk - no hitting.
There is only one thing to do and that is to leave asp!
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When do i know my boyfriend really love me?
by the way he treats you.
does he call you regularly?
does he show interest in your day? does he go out of his way for you? has he introduced you as his girlfriend to anyone? is he sensitive to your feelings and respectful towards you? does he say "I love you" often?
you know in your gut if he really loves you. maybe he's not quiet there yet but moving in the right...
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When I started dating this guy he told me he loved you, then later become distant. I started losing interest and he said I had lame excuses and that our relationship is dead. What does this mean?
I don't trust this guy at all. He doesn't sound the least genuine. Its sounds to me like his ego got hurt or he knew he lost his power over you so he flipped the tables trying to get it back or get back at you. It has nothing to do with love. He sounds very immature and not worth worrying over.
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What is love? What makes you feel loved?
I just answered the question 'what is love?' so I'll skip to the part about what makes me feel loved.
When my partner put his arms around me and looks tenderly into my eyes
when he shows senstitivity to my feelings
when he remembers the little things about me that I like
he does something special for me just the way I like it.
he gives me a back rub after a tense...
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What is love?
Love:
you want for the person what they want for themself.
you care deeply about their happiness
you want them to feel free and safe to be who they when they are with you
you make it safe for them to tell you anything
you are there for them no matter what
you love them unconditionally
you feel joy in their presence
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What is the difference between also and too?
you can think of 'too' as meaning more than enough as in 'the dress was too big for the little girl'.
you can think of also as meaning inaddition as in
'we are have chicken pot pie for dinner. Also there will be dessert.
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IS IT WEIRD FOR A STUDENT TO SAY "I LOVE YOUR SHIRT" OR "I LIKE YOUR SHIRT" TO A TEACHER IN A EMAIL?
I certainly wouldn't say it in an email. totally inappropriate. in person, it would be better to depersonalize it and say 'great shirt' to the teacher.
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Is there a name for a phobia, of passing though a doorway? mainly one that's already inside a building?
I searched high and low for this but there doesn't seem to be one. must not be common enough.
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When did you feel really terrified? Did your worst fears come true?
I can't honestly think of an incident when they did.
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Are all your emotions "in check"?
I would say 'yes'. they are not going anywhere. I can feel them in my stomach dancing around. but not going to act out or anything like that. can't wait until tuis time to go home. less than two hours.
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True or False: You must love yourself before you can love another? I would think not, and I would hope not. But what do you think?
True, in order to FULLY love another you must love yourself first. you can not give away what you do not already have. yes, you can be in-love, you can love only to a certain degree without fully loving yourself.
but the more you love yourself, the more love you have to give. and the more you love yourself the more you accept yourself just as you are. in turn you can give this to your...
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I've been in love with the same guy for 5 years and I think he still likes me to but how can I be sure of it?
don't you really want to know if he loves you after investing 5 years of your love??? has he ever told you he loves you? if not why are you so invested? he probably does like you is that all you want???
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How you deny someone's proposal?
I would say 'I'm very flattered but I just don't love you'
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Why would my boyfriend tell me to go on trip by myself with our daughter? He said that if i wanted i could go without him and that if he were to go he dont expect me to go with him all the time. Why would he say this?
He may just need some alone time. I won't ask him to come.
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I need serious help, i have feelings for my ex but im not sure about them yet and hes telling me how much he misses me and wants to get back together unless i feel nothing, i dont want to hurt him again but i still dont know..what do i do? say?
the absolute truth. exactly what you have said here.
if you are so uncertain, the odds are that you will hurt him again.
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How many lovers have you had in your life?
I once sat down a wrote a list. There were about 20 on that list but since then I could add some more.
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Has anyone ever just stopped loving someone? Do you believe that it is possible to stop loving someone or have someone stop loving you?
yes, just one man of all the men I have loved. And I was really in love with this man. But that was 20 years ago and I still see him around but just don't feel any love for him any more. In fact, I don't know what I saw in him in the first place.
Its not the time thing though because I still love my ex-husband very much but not in love with him and care very much about his...
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Why do we say love hurts when in all actuality
love never hurts. It's the absence of love that hurts is it not?
that a good point. unrequited love hurts, abandonment by a lover hurts. but if I didn't love the person it wouldn't hurt. so it could just be short hand for love ends up hurting...like gene pitney's song:
"It hurts to be in love, when the only one you love
turns out to be someone who?s not in love with you..."
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Why love at all when all you do id end up getting hurt?
because you don't have to end up getting hurt if you take care of yourself. besides I believe its better to have loved and lost then to ahve never loved at all.
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What if you stay?
what if I don't stay?
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Do you ever considered not answering a question because of the person who posed it?
no because I haven't gotten the hang of atttaching questions to the person who asked them.
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A Prostitute is just a woman or man with a money personality. True or False?
false, its more than money. its the reason they get money. money for sex is called prostitution.
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If you could possess one superpower, which would it be?
the most powerful paranormal ability so that I could see exactly where anyone or anything I choose to is located. I would know exactly where Osama bin Laden is every second of the day. he could never hide any where.
I would know where every missing child is one by one and where every criminal is. no one can hide from me.
I would never use my powers to spy on innocent people or misuse my...
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Where do you find yourself singing the most? Car, Shower, karaoke bar or around the house
around the house
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What makes you feel sexy?
certain fitted under garmets and bare shoulders when I'm with my man with freshy washed hair on my shoulders
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What are you doing right now ? What time in the world is it where you are?
I am at work, sipping on coffee. I have no work right now so I'm passing the time away on AB. Also, waiting for a phone call from bf.
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What would a reality show about your everyday life be called?
There she goes...
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Did you ever write on the desk at school?
yes, probably a boy's name I liked or 'bored'
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Have you ever met someone in person that you met online?
I have met MANY men in person that I met on line. All of them seemed to be decent people but no sparks excepet for two. One of whom disappeared. The other who was the most special of all. Our meeting in person was majical and it felt like love at first sight. We have maintained our relationship for 5 months and our love grows. He as spoken of marriage.
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My boyfriend and i talk about getting married, but my boyfriend hasn't left his wife yet. what do i do? he says give me time. we have been together for 4yrs. what do i do>
walk away. he's not going to leave his wife.
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Im in love with my dad is dat so wrong
you haven't grown out of your Oedipus complex. all little girls tend to be inlove with their fathers. that is normal.
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What if you were a millionaire? would you get famous, spoil yourself rotten, or donate to charity?
do all of the above!
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If you won the lottery what would your first purchase be?
a luxury condo
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Next day pizza, eat or throw away?
eat it.
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My husband tells me I need to be slapped, or thrown through a brick wall because I don't listen. Is it normal for him to talk to me like that?
Absolutely NOT!!!! It is down right, clear cut ABUSE!
He has no right whatsoever to talk to you that way no matter what!
You deserve to be treated and talked to with complete respect ALL of the time no matter what! This is not love. Do not tolerate it. I suggest you leave. It batters away at your self-esteem and makes it hard for you to stand up for yourself.
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Can dogs see themselves in the mirror? I read that they can't.
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mirror_test
yes, evidently they can and they do. in fact, some dogs enjoy looking at themselves.
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My boyfriend wanted a kiss from me but I wasn't feeling it and I was mad at him at the time. Can being mad cause me to not be attracted to him for a while?
anger blocks love. did he know you felt angry at him? it would have been important jsut to say the words 'I feel angry at you for...'
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Have you ever wanted to apologize for something and not been able to? What was it?
no I can't say that ahs happened to me. if I feel that its important that I apoligize I always do it. it really has become easy to just say I'm sorry that ....
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How hard it is for you to say sorry to people that you hate like a sin ? (if you know that it's your mistake)
I don't hate anyone right now but imagining that I do, yes, it would be hard to say I'm sorry but I would do it none the less. I also imagine that I would feel better afterward.
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Does the person who says "I'm sorry, BUT...." really annoy you, too?
let's say the person say "im sorry i had to leave early but I had to take the subway today' It wouldn't bother in that case. if the person said "im sorry i hurt your feelings but i was just being honest"
i don't know the 'but' thing doesn't seem to be bothering me or I can't think of a good example of where it would. I suspect there is...
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For some reason I feel awkward about the eye contact I make with passing strangers. Do you have any advice for how to feel comfortable with it, what to think when you do it, and how to avoid confusion and anxiety of the impression they are getting?
Just smile when you make eye contact or say hello. I never worry about what impression they are getting. My experience is that 95% of people I smile at smile back. Peopel like to be noticed and acknowledged by a friendly face.
Don't worry about them. just think about the fact that you are contributing to a brighter day for the person.
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When you think about death, how does it make you feel? Relieved, indifferent, sad etc
clausaphobic. I have a fear of being locked up in a coffin.
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How many times have you been told to stop exaggerating?
that's something I hear said much. when I was I small child my father would tell me to stop exaggarating my feelings in so many words.
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Desktop or laptop? Why?
desk top at work and at home but would like to own a lap top.
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Would you learn more information about ancient Egypt if you will watch a TV documentary or read a book about it?
I would guess a book. but it would depend on the documentary and the book.
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Besides wake up, what's one thing, YOU often dread doing in the morning?
actually, I look forward to getting out of bed in the morning. what do dread is making my lunch everyday to take to work!
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What was your "closest" close call?
al, almost being hit by another car!
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Can you guess what I'm going to be doing tonight?
eat dinner
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What did you hear through the grape vine?
this is awful, but a friend's cancer has returned.
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Has one of your questions ever become the 'Topic of the Day'?
I can't even tell from these questions what the topic of the day is?????
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Does God really exist
IF, IF there is a god, I would think he/she/it wouldn't judge us. I would think they would love us, have compassion for us and want the best for all of human kind.
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Have you ever cleaned your house naked, or had someone clean your house naked?
sure, I love the feeling of freedom of movement when I clean my house in the nude. when my bf is over we usually stay in the nude. it feels so natural unless friends are coming to visit or we go out we put clothes on of course.
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I'm 18 and have never had a boyfriend. I'm saving my first kiss for my wedding day. Am I alone in this? Whenever I tell people about my first kiss they start attacking me. Is there a reason they cannot simply respect my choice, as I respect theirs?
It is your life and your choice but there are consequences. For one thing I would want to know that when we kiss there will be sparks. suppose you wait unitl you get married and then he kisses you and you feel nothing?
It does happen. you never know until you actually kis the person. I'm also wondering how long of an engagement you'd have. let's say you meet the right one and...
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How do I get my gf to do more girly things? like take care of blackheads, and grimy skin on her face, and possibly wear makeup? When I look at her face, I dont feel that attracted to her, even though her body weight and look are great, especially dur. sex
when your first went out on a date with her did you notice these things? I find grimmy skin a real turn off. I can understand how you feel. I may not have gone out with the person a second time. Did she just let herself go after the initial dates?
You could gently and lovingly talk to her and tell her she's hiding her beautiful skin but the danger is it could become a power struggle....
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How do I trust a girl who is out of my league? I've suggested being friends only, but she wants to date me. I like her a lot, but her great looks worries me. We live 2.5 hrs away. That's hard too.
great looks aren't everything. there are lots of women with great looks that make losey partners. so don't give that much power.
The reality of it is that you are NOT out of her league. that is an old feeling of yours that has to do with low self esteem. You as worthy as anyone else. Take time to build your self-esteem. Treat yourself as someone important because you are!
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I'm agnostic and my mom's side is strictly religious so they assume i'm atheist. How do i explain to them my beliefs in religion?
First of all you are a grown man, talk to your parents as an equal. if you want to share this part of yourself with them that is fine. Tell them straight out what being an atheist means to you but without making their beliefs wrong and without trying to convience them of yours. You might say "I respect your beliefs but mine are different. I believe that ..."
If they try to change...
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Whats the closest thing to any wildlife where you live, which is where?
we have deer, rabbits, racoons, chipmunks, snakes, birds, ducks, geese
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I went to my guy friend's cabin for a weekend. It was just the two of us. Nothing happened, and I don't have feelings for him. I know it looks suspicious, but nothing happened. Is this cheating?
do you have a bf? did you ask him a head of time how he would feel if you did this? or is this after the fact? are you just now telling your bf that you did this?
You didn't cheat accorrding to you because you know the facts but your s/o does not know the facts. it's really hard to answer this question with so many missing pieces. it really depends on how your s/o feels. I...
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I've been dating this girl for 2 months and I went to go see a movie with my ex and her family just as friends. I didn't tell my girlfriend, but she found out and thinks I was cheating even though nothing happened. Is she overreacting?
my question is why didn't you tell your gf? to show respect for her feelings I think it would have been best to ask her ahead of time how she would feel about you going to the movies with your ex and her family.
it does sound rather sneaky this way. I can understand why she feels upset or cheated on in some way.
you are in the early stages of your relationship, I would think you...
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Ok My boyfriend talks to girls in myspace, the girls always ask him "when are we gona kick it" and he always says "whenever". Everytime i ask him about it he says its just myspace im not gona actually meet them. Should i believe him or should i leave him?
if it makes you feel uncomfortable that should be the number one factor to your bf. it sounds like he's blowing you off. he sounds a bit selfish and immature not to care more about your feelings than his ego.
that concerns me more than whether or not he'll act on it. he may not. but if he discounts your feelings here then he'll discount them else where.
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My fiance and I have been dating for 12 years, but recently he hasn't been paying much attention to me. I was intoxicated recently and kissed another guy. Do I tell him, or just talk to him about how I am feeling lonely?
sounds like you need to have a heart to heart talk with your fiance about your feelings.
I would tell him that I kissed another guy, that's not so terrible in my opinion if it happened once. the more open and honest you are with one and other the more you build trust and deepen intimacy.
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I've been 'the other woman' with this guy for about a year, but he came to my house recently and wrecked my shower while he was drunk and on drugs. Should I tell his girlfriend?
Just kick this man out of your house and your life. do not give him another chance. there will only be a repeat performance.
do you really need a drunk man who uses drugs in your life who has a gf on top of it??!!!
you can bet his gf has seen his drunken, on drugs fits.
just take care of your life and forget him and his life. if you call the gf you'll get pulled further into the...
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We all know that it is wrong for a man to hit a woman but, would it be wrong for a man to hit someone who was born a man but had surgey to become a woman?
of course, it would be wrong. this is still physical violence and physical abuse!
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Are there any circumstances under which you would advise a woman to continue with a boyfriend who hits her?
absolutely NONE, NEVER, NO MATTERWHAT! No excuses
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What should you do if your boyfriend doesn't respect you, and phyiscally abuses you when you get into an agruement.
leave the relationship. there is never, ever a justification for a man to hit a woman, NO MATTERWHAT!
somewhere inside of you, I suspect you believe it is OK. It is never OK.
He will continue to be physically abusive to you. You do not deserve an ounce of it, not an ounce. The only thing for you to do is to leave at once. and go somewhere safe. if you don't have a safe place to go,...
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I do not know if i am in a absuve relationship my girl every time i talk to her i feel like i am walking on egg shells she dose not call me on my birthday i find out she called another guy she gets mad at me for finding out and dose other stuff like that.
yes, it sure does sound like emotional abuse to me. you are being treated like a piece of dirt. why stick around for that? why are you tolerating this treatment?
please don't tell me you love her, what is there to love??? It doesn't sound like she loves you at all. she may lack the capacity for love. She has no respect for your feelings and nor does she care about your feelings.
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My girlfriend keeps treating me like a pet. What am I supposed to do? I try talking to her, and she knows she's doing it, and wont stop. What do I do? I want to be with her! I just want to actually matter to her again. Help?
Ah, but you my dear are participating in this behavior by allowing it. talking is useless. all you have to do is not respond to her desire to treat you as a pet. she has lost respect for you because you have just passively gone along with this.
if you want to actually matter to her again then you must stand up to her like a man and set some boundaries on what treatment is acceptable to you...
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My boyfriend of 3 years tries to tell me what to do, and where I can and can't go. He threatens to break up and tells me I'm his "bitch". I stay with him because I love him but I dont want to keep going on this way. What should I do?
leave him at once, pack your bags and go somewhere safe!
he is being very abusive. he has absolutely no right to threaten you or demand that you do this or you do that.
just because you love him is not a reason to stay. you are paying a huge, huge price to stay, your dignity and self-respect.
he doesn't deserve your love, not one ounce of it!
repeat : this man is very, very...
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Ii need to know how to tell a guy that you like him but you don't think he likes you and i want to tell him but i cant because he is in 2 of my classes! how do ii tell him?? please help me!
You start by striking up a light conversation with him, tell him something about him you like. it could be the color of his shirt or he has great eyes, whatever.. see how he responds to you.rather than jsut blurting it out. test the waters...maybe he said something interesting in class...whatever you do, do this when you are feeling at your best, you're most confident self. remember that...
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I like this girl but she has a boyfriend should i just move on? or wait? or take action?
move on with your life. maybe one day she will be free but don't put your life on hold in the mean time.
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Ii love someone and ii cant even tell him.
someone please give me advice about telling him.
its hard to say without details. are you dating???
if not, do not tell him. if you are dating, for long??
i am guessing he has not told you he loves you. if he does love you the odds are he would have told you.
However, I did have a situation with a man that I was very close with and we were very attracted to. we had known each other for many years. he never uttered the words 'I love...
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Who would you like to play this song for?
my honey
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Are you a good flirt?
oh yes, baby!
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What's one technique a really good flirt might use?
I hate to give away my secrets but I'll give part of it. gently running my finger under a man's neck starting at he bottom and slowly going up and slightly lifting his chin and then looking directly into his eyes with my eyes slightly seductive. works every time!
I use this with men that I know and know that they like to flirt with me. I wouldn't do this with just any man. Its...
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Why do some women become very flirtatious when they know they will never see you again, as in changing jobs or moving far away?
because it is safe, the fever of rejection or scorn is removed and they feel free!!
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Are you flirtatious by nature?
yes, but I match the degree of flirting depending on the persona nd situation. I can be a light flirt or a heavy flirt but not a constant flirt.
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What makes you say, "I HATE it when that happens!"?
I go all the way downstairs to do laundry and forget to bring quarters!
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I tied a string around my fingertip so I wouldn't forget. I forgot anyways. What was I supposed to remember?
your birthday is today and your were going to buy yourself a present!
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What do you think about me? (2009-09-18)
based on what? I could make some assumptions based on your questions and your grammar but that's not really fair. I all I do know is the you seem to like to ask questions and you say you are a male.
I am wondering why you are asking this question, what is your motivation?????
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You're sitting at a cafe having coffee with your spouse and someone of the opposite sex comes up to you, kisses you on the cheek, grins and then hurries away. Your spouse seems angry. What do you say?
well! I never!
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Why is it you can never find a pen when you need one?
same reason you can never find your keys when you want to make a made dash out the door
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Star _____. What goes in the blank?
light, star bright
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IF you are not sleeping, working or eating, what is something YOU might be doing?
making-love
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What is something that would be a very bad idea to lick?
barbed wire fence
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If I were serving wench, and was a little tipsy, what would thee do?
i would get far away from you as possible
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Do you just want to ask "silly questions" somedays?
I'm not a 'silly question' type person.
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Would eternal bliss get boring after a while?
no, bliss by definition is not boring, bliss can be used in many different ways, the ways you interact with people, the ways you use your creativity, the way you show love.
You can still live your life and feel bliss at the same time. you can dance in a state of bliss and reach ectasy.
imagine making-love in a state of bliss.
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Oh yeahhhh... I wanna piece of that..., what could i be talking about?
a freshly baked chocolate chip cookie!
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What does it mean to fully give yourself to someone? I have talked to someone and he told me to do that, but I dont know wat to do. He says show me but i dont know what to show. What do i do. He says come up with a solution for it. What is the solution?
In the first place I would never give myself FULLY to anyone. I belong to me.
Yes, I would give my love to one man and committ to him and be faithful to him. I think its very important that each agree that the other is their 1st priority in life except for their own personal growth and self care.
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What would be the reason that a husband always puts his dogs before his wife? Acts as if he adores them and criticises her in spite of her efforts to be a good wife?
I think of 2 reasons right off the bat:
1. he's using the dogs as an escape from intimacy, that's his wall. dogs are safer.
2. he's passive-aggressive. he's angry or resentful at his wife and rather than say so he uses his dogs by giving them priority over his wife. He is punishing his wife.
maybe he's hiding something from his wife and if he keeps occupied...
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I'm about to date someone i really like and he likes me back, however he told me that he likes me and all but we have to hang out and see if the chemistry works. I totally agree with him but I'm afraid I'll ruin it. What can I do?
first of all stop worrying about YOU ruining it. Maybe HE'll ruin it! See him with the intend of asking yourself is he right for ME, is he treating ME the way I want to be treated?
In other words, turn it around. You don't have to win a contest at chemistry for him. See if the chemistry is right for YOU. take the pressure off of yourself to try to prove yourself worthy of this guy...
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Is love anything like mutual understanding if not what it is? Urgent! Please...
you can have mutal understanding with a close friend. but if you are talking about romantic love then there's more to it like mutual romantic feelings and longing. doing things to show each other that you care about them. caring about each other's happiness, joy's and sorrows. being there for each other. and such. feeling comfortable to be yourself, feeling loved, giving and...
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Did you ever go through a time in your life when you believed no one would/could ever love you?
yes, when I was going through a severe depression.
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What is the best way to tell your parents and friends that you are heterosexual?
ha, ha, ha - they already assume you are because the vast majority of the population is hetero.
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What is your favorite book?
"Anna Karina" by Tolstoy
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Would you go to a Harry Potter theme park?
no, never could get inot the harry potter thing.
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Do you have a favourite quote?? Is it yours or you picked it from somebody else?
right now my favorite quote is:
"A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out."
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Do you believe this?"what you don't know can't hurt you" and do you know who said this?please advise.thanks.
no I sure don't. let's say you have very early stage cancer that can be cured if caught but if you don't know it until it spreads it can kill you and its too late.
let's say certain of my behaviors is pushing my husband away and he doesn't tell me it could ruin our marriage.
'can't hurt you' is simply as I see it a form of denial. I can see this in...
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If I told you that you haven't lived until you have walked a mile in my shoes,,what would you reply?
tell me about the walk you have taken in your shoes
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When you circle something with a pen/pencil do you start at the top, bottom or side?
it really varies, sometimes the top,sometimes the bottom
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I was the other girl for 6 months. Now I am his girlfriend. I am having such a hard time trusting him that he won't cheat on me. It is difficult because I love him, and I tell him I don't trust, but I want to learn how. How do I trust again?
I do believe that a cheater can become a recovered cheater if they really WANT to. But they need to be committed to change and seek professional help to understand fully the underlying reasons they cheat and do the necessary work to grow out of those behaviors.
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Is it best to admit to cheating or keep quiet? Especially if you know your partner will break up with you when they find out.
Definately confess! Your partner has a complete right to know what kind of partner they have. Keeping quiet because they may breakup with you is a very selfish reason. you are living a lie if you don't tell your partner. Then what is your relationship based on. surely not honesty and trust!
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Is it bad that I take pictures of people walking down the street and then post them online (Flickr) while commenting on their outfits? (I do not post faces)
yes, I sure do. you're still using a photo of them even without their face, and making public judgments on them without their permission. I see it as invading their privacy.
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Do you still prefer to have photo's in an album or are you happy with your memories on your computer?
I really would like to have both ways. with an album I can sit down on the floor and go through them but with them on my computer I can edit them over and over if I want and blow them up when I look at them, etc.
its also very handy to have all my photos of recent years in one place that way if I'm looking for a good photo of myself or someone else then it's real easy to search.
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Who was the subject of the last picture you took with your camera?
a close friend during a party I had.
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Do you use lettuce more in salads or in sandwiches?
salads defiantely. that way I get lots of lettuce but on a sandwich there's just a few small leaves.
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What do you dressup for?
a fancy restaurant
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Do you feel compelled to logged into AB everyday?
yes I do
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Can you name a famous mouse?
minnie mouse
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When asked "what do you see in me?" by a loved one, what should I say? When it comes to love and blurting out wonderful things to her, my mind will fall into the darkness.
be honest and genuine. certainly there are things you see in her. it sounds like you get scared. Don't worry about saying the right thing, say what's true for you.
when you are alone take pen and paper and think carefully about what you do see in her. That way you have that caught off guard feeling.
it could be the little things that you notice about her or draw you to her. It...
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If you could tell the LAST person you broke up with ONE thing. . . . .what would it be?
I really don't care anymore
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Imagine your a mouse and a cat is chasing you...where will you run to, where will you hide?
in a tiny hole in the wall
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What are my chances of being murdered at the job by a co-worker and shoved into a wall or the ceiling?
just take the number of people murdered, shoved into a wall or ceiling by a co-worker and divide by total number of people who work in the US.
the US labor force consists of about 196 million adults age 18+. How many of these 196 million people have first of all been murdered on the job by a co-worker in a given year? Lets say the number is 25.
25/196,000,000=0.0000000003
OK so take...
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When i ask my partner a question or want feedback on something he anserws with vauge uninterested answers why wont he engage me in proper conversation anymore he still loves me and is very affectionate its like he carnt be bothered?
you've just described my EX-husband. after we got married he became less and less willing to talk to me about anything or answer any of my qauestions. the only thing he would say is that he has a deep and unselfish love for me.
In our case, it not because he did not want to be bothered but rather he never LEARNED how to talk to one's wife. his only role model was his silient father...
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Is it ever possible to genuinely like your adversary or is the most you can hope for civil exchange and grudging respect?
I happen to genuinely like my bf's ex. under different circumstances I'm sure we would the best of freinds.
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So my live-in boyfriend of two years is going out on a guy's night, which I am strictly not able to attend even though there will be girls present (not gfs); is it unreasonable to ask him to be home by 1 am?
First before I asked him what time to come home, I would ask him what time he thinks he will be home.
Otherwise, you sound like a mother. If he is a mature man and respects you he will treat the question with respect and say a time.
If he then says by 3 am then I think it is OK to say, I really don't feel comfortable with that. And negotiate a time that works for both of you.
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If a close friend (that has never lied to you in the past), called and told you that she knew your S/O had cheated on you several years ago and had just found out, would you believe them or would you need proof? What would you do, exactly? HELP PLEASE!!
First I would have lots of questions as to where she got this information. I would believe that she believes it or heard it. If she said so and so saw him with the other woman, etc.
I would want to talk to so and so for mroe detail.
I trust my best friend completely. However, I would also need to talk to my s/o and tell him what I heard.
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Have you ever lost a friend because he/she found out something bad about your past?
never, plus I don't have anything that bad about my past like robbing a bank or something.
If they were real friend and I've reformed I imagine they would understand and stick around. Else, its their issue if they can't handle my past.
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Would you quit being someones friend if they get to go to a foreign country and you don't or would you not be friends with and hate people that go to foreign countries?
why hate people that go to foreign countries? If I had an important friend that I valued I would want to continue the friendship no matter where she went.
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What's the best way to deal with being pushed out of your best friend's life when they fall in love and don't have time for you anymore?
first of all I would have a heart to heart talk with my best friend which I did when she got married. I happen to have lots of close friends but there is nothing like a best friend.
My best friend was very response to my feelings and took them into account. She told me that I wasn't loosing her friendship but gaining a family which included her husband. She included me more into her...
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How much do you mind sitting in your own pile of junk that's threatening to fall?
not quiet sure what the question is about...are you talking figuritively? do you mean that your life is a mess and its your mess and its about to fall apart in your face???
if that's what you mean, no, I wouldn't like that. I would do something about it before it fell.
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Are you an extrovert? How so or how not so?
yes, I am extroverted. My energy gets recharged and my spirits lifted from being around people rather than from being alone. Also, I am very friendly and have lots of friends. I enjoy talking to strangers and planning social events. I have an active social calendar. I am not shy at all. I will speak out and express myself without hesitation.
AT the same time I do a lot of introspection and...
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Do you ever think self-confidence looks BAD from certain people?
no, genuine self confidence can never look bad. it sounds like your talking about something else like agression which is not self confidence or abuse of power. genuine self confidence is not about pushing people around or stepping on people. it about simply believing that one is worthy and capable and loveable.
Its also about giving approval from within not looking for it from others.
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Is there a technique that I can adopt to move from being a "Detailed person" to a "big picture person"? I have moved to a senior role and discussion are centred at a higher level than I was used to respond at my previous job
I'm a detail person. my brain doesn't do well with the big picture. but if i simply had to look at it. I would have a meeting about the big picture and talk to lots of people, read anything related to it and take out paper and pencil and diagram what the big picture looks like.
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Are you a "look on the bright side" person? Your car won't start, but "at least it's during the day, near home"....your oven dies, and you think "thank goodness we're not having a party".. you're in an accident and say"we're so lucky no one was hurt!"
yes, I tend to think of those things all the time.
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Does YOUR future look bright?
yes, definately
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Do you fear being alone in the night? If so..How did you overcome that fear?
sometimes, but I double check that everything is locked and I have my cats for comfort. I reassure myself that I will be fine and the fear goes away.
I leave one light on in my house all night.
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Have you ever used one of your children's fears to your advantage? (and/or) Did your parents ever use one of your fears against you? Please explain.
no that's one thing my parents never did.
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Have you ever misplaced your tin opener?...what did you use instead?
I don't know what a 'tin' opener is but I suppose a screw driver.
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Who do you think is more beautiful angelina jolie or marilyn monroe
marilyn monroe
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What is the first thing you think of when i say "creativity"? (try to have a one word answer please)
painting
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What is te stupidest question anyone has ever asked you?
Mine was this chick who asked me "How do you spell of?"
True story.....sad, huh? lol.....and she was in the 6th grade.
the teachers always saying 'there is no such thing as a stupid question'.
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What's the first thing you think of when i say the word love? what about cheese? and umbrella?
a big red heart
holes
black
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I want to propose to my girlfriend, but all I hear from married couples is how "miserable" they are, and how "the spark" just dies after marriage. If it's that bad, why do people bother getting married anymore?
I think you are talking to the wrong people. try talking to people with happy marriages and what makes them work.
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Have you ever wandered why instead of "too" to intensify a feeling or agree, (e.g.: "Me too" or "That is too long") they will use "to" (e.g.: "Me to" or That is to long")? Why do some people do this? Is it ignorance?
I just assume a. they are lazy, b. they don't know better
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Do you ever feel "funny" telling people you met someone to date online...?
not at all
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If someone could stick a price tag on your back, what would it say?
priceless ..
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Will you state two truths and 1 lie about yourself? Don't say which is the truth and which is the lie and I will try and guess. :)
I was born in Virginia
I have travelled to Austrialia
I love brussel sprouts
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A 5'7" person walked up to you, would you be looking down at them, or up at them?
definately UP
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Do i have the right to be angry? he spends all day with this guy that i dont like, drinking and smoking, and when i come to pick him up, he takes his time, like 20 mins, and accepts to smoke some legal marijuana even though i asked him if we could go.
I would feel angry and very annoyed but more than that I would feel that I am wasting my time with this man. it seems that he is wasting his life down the tubes.why be around that? and remember, he's not going to change until and unless he's good and ready. which means you will continue to have these feelings over and over and over again. do you really want to live this way with a man...
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If I bought you an elephant, what would you name it?
theodore, I don't know why but it sounds intelligent like someone who wouldn't forget anything!!!
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I've known that the more working genes the more the creature is developed so is that means that women is more developed than men as it is known that they have extra working genes because her body has extra messions to do than men.
so what's your point? yes, it takes a lot to have a body to grow a fetus into a baby and to make milk.
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Insulin is a protein made in the pancreas. a human skin cell contain the gene but not the m-RNA?is this true?
not totally --
what has happened is that scientists have were able to produce cells in the skin that make insulin in response to changing blood sugar levels.
but human skin does not naturally contain the gene for insulin. the genes were injected into the skin.
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Are we born with freckles? If not, why do they develope?
people are born with genes for freckles. if you don't have the genes you won't have the freckles later on. its that simple. When adequate sunshine hits the skin it brings out the freckles. the freckles usually start to pop out in early childhood.
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If I was half black and half white but my skin color was white would it be possible to have a black child with a mother who was white?
yep, it would.
Skin color is determind by the amount of melanin in the skin. there are two types: pheomelanin (red) and eumelanin (very dark brown).
Both amount & type are determined by 4-6 genes which are incomplete in dominance. (this means that there isn't a dominant skin color gene)
One copy of each genes is inherited from each parent. Each gene comes in several alleles....
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If I was Bonnie would you be my Clyde?
sorry but I can't be your clyde because I am a woman. and that slot is already taken.
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Would you ever buy a pair of 'Gucci' shoes from Ebay?
depends on the cost
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Would you shave your head for $25,000.00.?
yes, ONLY if I could wear a really nice wig while my hair grew back in.
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Would you rather have a toilet that bucked like a bronco or a bigoted toaster oven?
what a choice! I don't want either. If I have to take one then I'll take the toaster oven because its easier to throw away!
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This one is simple do you think people that argue and
Tell you that you want something that you don't are obnoxious
And need to be quiet? Yes or no?
if someone tells me that I want to get a dog, i.e., and I don't. I will say once, no I don't. And refuse to talk about it any more. It really makes me mad when some tries to tell me what I want, no thanks !!!
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Ok so they say theres supposed to be like a sticky white liquid in your underwear, i get that and so does my friend. Hers is a heavy flow and mine used to be now it's slowed down a little which of us do you think is farther along?
in pregnancy??? I would think that since it happens during early pregnancy the one with it slowed down is further along.
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Who would like to give a gift like this?
my best friend
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If you had to loose one ability e.g sight, walking, talking ect - what would it be?
smell, while, I'd hate to give it up I love to talk and walk too much and sight is the very last thing I would want to give up. then I wouldn't be able to look into the eyes of people I love.
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Can you name two things that just belong together?
salt and pepper
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Are you a slave? Like in the Matrix?
not me, I'm not a slave!
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What is there an abundance of where you live?
water,
green trees and bushes,
cars,
people,
stores,
things to do,
hiking trials
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What is your approach to conflict Resolution is relationships?
for me, step one is to listen to my partner without interruption, without judgement. then repeat back to him what I heard him say. that takes the emotional load out of it. then express how I feel without his interrupting or judging me. he then tells me what he heard me say.
Of course we both take personal responsibility for our part in the conflict and use only 'I' statements,...
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Can polyamory work?
that depends on who you talk to. I know many people who would say 'yes' it works for them and many people would say 'no way'. I don't think it would work for me.
first of all parties have to whole heartedly agree to it. then there's needs to be ways of dealing with jealousy and other issues such that it is handled in a calm manner. It's best to for all...
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Why trust anyone?
I don't just trust anyone on the spot. Trust is built slowly by experiences with another person. I know I can trust my best friend of 20 years. She has never given me any reason not to trust her.
Some people are trust worthy and some are not. The secret is to find the trust worthy ones is by being trust worthy yourself.
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Do you allow your s/o to go through your email and phone at will?
no because that's a boudnary issue. it's my mail amd my phone. I would not go through his mail or his phone either. If there is a trust issue then hopefully he will talk to me directly about it and I will give him honest answers.
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Ladies, do you think guys look good wearing Dockers sandals? what types of shorts and shirts match w/ sandals like that? here is a pic of them on the Kohls store website http://www.kohls.com/kohlsStore/shoes/mens/sandals/casual1/PRD~416165/Dockers+Chandle
sorry, i would be happy to give you my opinion but the web site is not working or there's somekind of err with it.
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Are long beaded jackets out of style
I would say yes but I'm not a fashion expert.
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I'm about to propose to my girlfriend but I can't afford a diamond. Will she be disappointed if I propose without a diamond ring?
wow!!! this question sure did bring out the long answers!
I think its all been said. I agree with the idea of costume jewlery if money is an issue. I would be perfectly happy if my bf gave me a 'fake' diamond ring that costs $10.
in fact there are other very inexpensive rings like a 'genuine 1/4 Carat Diamond Cluster Ring' for $39.99 I found on the internet.
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Where did you propose or were proposed to
we had been living together for 3 years at the time. It was at our kitchen table over dinner. No candlelight or music but it was the emotions between us and the love we felt for one another that promted the proposal. Actually, I asked very plainly, no bells or whisles. It was spontaneous. The words just came out of my mouth, 'so, do you want to get married?' he said 'yes'....
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What's your marital status?
divorceed
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How did you ask your s/o to marry you?
so, do you want to get married? over mashed potatoes and pork chops. he said 'yes'
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So is it a good sign if we have gone and looked at rings and he has the card in his wallet with the number of the one I want and got approved for the financing? He also said he wants it to be a surprise and doesn't want me there when he buys it.
duh,what more can this guy do??? unless he's buying the ring for someone else???
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Is there actually a certain way that you should ask a hungarian person to marry you for example: asking the father or going to the family? Or is there a ceremony in which it is done?
I don't know where you live but if it's in the US then it should make no difference that she's Hungarian. I don't think you have to do anything different than you would if you asked any other person to marry you.
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If a man asks you if you want children, says you'd make a good mother,tells you that he hopes you don't marry anyone else, and sings to you on your birthday, does that mean he's into you or just flirting?
My guess is that he is definately in to you! My ex husband said things like this to me and sang to me.
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Are you a good flirt?
I think so, at least the men I flirt with seem to enjoy it and flirt back.
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Is everyone as sick as I am to hear attractive people whine about how "tough" they have it?
Honestly, it doesn't effect me. I like to hear the truth about what is going on inside of all kinds of people. I have heard some beautiful woman say that men are too shy to ask them out or they assume they are too busy. I actually feel bad for these women. It doesn't sound like 'whining' to me. I sounds frustrating.
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Hey GIRLS if a guy asked for your number but yuo wasnt ready for man would yuo think about him later when you was? Or outa sight outa mind?
if I wasn't ready when a man asked me for my number than I would just forget about him.
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How do you presonally get someone you're interested in, interested in you?
show interest in them.
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Saw a cool girl at the bar today:) Next time I see her; how do I talk with her and possibly ask her out?:) Thank you All:)
just relax, she's only human and has her own insecurities. take her off the pedestal. So far, you only think she is 'cool'. You don't know her. Think in terms of finding out about her rather than talking with a 'cool' girl.
Approach her and smile. Introduce yourself and show interest in her. Look directly into her eyes softly, without staring but with interest....
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Who was the last person you couldn't take your eyes off of?
my boyfriend
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What's the first name of the person you flirted with today?
Barry
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Do you like it when people flirt with you? Why or why not?
it depends on the person. I have a male friend and that is a part of our relationship. we have a lot of fun flirting with each other and laughing but we don't act on it. so, in short if I like the man then yes I enjoy a flirt but coming from a stranger in the street no I hate it. It feels cheap and too familiar for a stranger.
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What's the best way to approach a girl and ask her out even though you don't even know her. And your not in a night club or bar.
I would like it if the guy showed confidence and just walked stright up to me (but its ok if he's a little nervous, that shows his humaness). Then said something like 'HI emily, I am jake.' me 'Hi jake, do I know you?' jake: 'I am a friend of john's. I would love to buy you a drink. please say , yes' now if I happen to like jake off the bat I would say...
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Is flirting harmless? If you found out your SO was flirting via email -or- at work, would you be angry enough to end the relationship? Are you a flirt? And when you flirt is it harmless?
I wouldn't end the relationship over his flirting. We'd talk about it and how I feel, etc.
Sometimes it is harmless. other times it can lead to sex.
The main thing for me is that we talk about it. I am doing some flirting now myself and I will tell my bf. I do like to flirt but its not a threat to our relationship on my end. I doubt it is on his either.
It also depends on...
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If you saw yourself at a club or a bar, would you flirt with yourself?
for sure, I wouldn't be able to resist myself. Wink, wink and my knees are weak. I'm so easy to get. i just go home with me after one smile and a compliment. OK, I say I'm yours, do with me as you wish. I surrender..next thing I know I find myself at my place in bed with myself letting go with reckless abandonment...
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What would be your reaction if you were at a club, and a guy came over to you, slowly looked you up and down and then said to you. "You'll do."
I would say, I certainly will NOT! Not for you!
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Women, if a man wants to get your attention and ask for your phone number, what do you think the best approach he could use. Do you have a real example?
First he's off to a good start if he exhibits self confidence and flashes a smile at me. Then comes over to talk to me. Introduces himself and gives me a compliment. He then shows interest in me and if the conversation goes well then I think it's appropriate for him to ask me for my phone number. He'll say something like "I like you and I'd like to see you again. Are...
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Do you use SEX as a weapon to get what you want from a man?
I never use sex as a weapon. I have sex with a man because we love each other. But if it is not safe emotionally for me, I will not have sex with a given man. But I would never withhold sex as a punishment.
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How would you react if someone close to you asked you not to get them anything for their birthday or other occasion, but only wished to spend the time with you?
I would honor their request and tell them that its their birthday and they get to choose how they want to spend it. I am happy with anything thing they choose. I would like to have a cake for them though and ask them if they would like that.
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What would you do if you needed $10,000 fast and could not get a loan or get anyone you know to help you? *honest answers only please
sell my car if it was real serious
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What can i do i am never satisfied with anything?
yes, I am --- well, sometimes I am...
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Answer in haiku: What is the worst situation you have ever been in?
locked up in a small room in a police station when I was 21.
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Pick a card, any card. What is the first card that comes to mind?
4 of hearts
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Look around, what is the first red object you see?
a small teddy bear holding a red heart
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What is your favorite song and why?
'Come away with me' norah jones
the music and singing is soft and a beautiful love song.
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What's your favorite scary movie?
I don't like scary movies but if I had to choose it would be an old classic like the 'The Blob'.
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What is your favorite all time movie and why is it your favorite?
Gone with the Wind - can't get enough of that handsome, manly Clark Gable!!!
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What is your favourite song from Sgt Pepper's Lonely Hearts Club Band?
It's Getting Better
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How did you find yourself where you are today
drove my car to my place of work, parked it and rode the elevator up to my office.
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I would like to know what rights children have from 0 until the 'grand old age of 25'. can you help?
they have a right to their feelings, all of them. Its what they do with them is often the problem. They have a right to feel angry at mommy but they do not have a right to yell and scream in the store or to hit mommy.
they have a right to be treated with respect at all times. that includes no public humiliation.
they a right to set boundaries which varies with age. they have a right to...
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Recently, one of my clients, Jeffrey Hansford, has had a few tantrums about what a fellow (female) tenant at his hostel happened wear. For one thing, he would sooner see her in tights than socks. What can I do to help him prevent this?
lock the woman in her room with a clothes you ONLY want to see her in.
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If you really were what you eat... what would you most likely be?
a banana, I just love ripe bananas!
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What is your morning routine for getting ready?
1. feed cats
2. have coffee
3. watch CNN
4. have more coffee
5. make lunch
6. wash face
7. brush teeth
8. get dressed
9. out the door
now, I wake up at 5:30 am and leave my house around 8:45 am so I have lots of in between time for other things that vary day to day.
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What do you boycott?
grapes
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What item that needs batteries is nearest to you?
my radio. in fact the only object in my office that uses batteries.
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Have you met the love of your life?
yes,I have
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Young love is great. But can love get old?
love get old??? No way, age has nothing to do with falling in love. It can feel just as exciting and thrilling if not better with age!
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When was the last time someone said to you "i love you"?
3 hours ago
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If you have ever been heartbroken than just put your name down, you dont need to explain, just so i know im not the only one suffering
several times and I totally recovered each time no matterwhat! Emily
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My cat gets me up by pawing at me about 630 every morn. after i feed him i try and go back to bed he wont let me !! why?
my cats do the exact same thing! It seems to me that since they are up for the day, they want me to be up and join them. This is because they always want to be near me but they are done with the bed so the only way to be near me for me to get up!!!
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Would it be considered an insult to send a Happy Engagement card to one person and not acknowledge that person's significant other in any way?
I think it would be insensitive. it would sound like you don't care much for the other party in the engagement not to even acknowledge them. after all there would be no engagement without two people.
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If you purchased a so-called inspirational book and a sample inspirational thought inside it read: "It's okay to eat meatloaf!" Would you be happy with your purchase? Would you have any similar gems of your own to submit for publication? Share one?
Well, I certainly wouldn't find that very inspirational.
I would feel like I wasted my money. I would add:
the more you love yourself, the more love you have to give others.
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What is the most highest dream you’ve ever achieved, and how did you make it happen?
Highest dream? being on national television, CNN to be exact. I didn't even try to make it happen. It was a result of some important work I did.
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What is your dream the sinario you'd aspire to come true?
my dream scenario??? hmmmm I don't really have one at this time. I've just been taking it day by day. But thinking upon it I would say:
I have a dream home just above the sea where the skies are blue and the days are sunny. I share the days and nights with my lover man and we laugh and play in the sea.
I paint on the terrace while my honey indulges in his creative pursuits. We...
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Who is more interesting ? any SPORT or LOVE?
"Who"??? you what right? well, I find LOVE much more interesting than any sport although a times it can feel like a sport.
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If you were to get up and leave right now, how long do you reckon it would take someone in your life to notice?
5 to 20 minutes. I'm still at work. If my boss is looking for me, he sure would notice if I am not here!
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An old billionaire lives alone in a big empty house which no one visits anymore. A homeless surfer lives on the beach and knows everyone. Who is better off?
well, I would rather be the homeless surfer who knows everyone than alone in a big empty house. How depressing.
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Should boys be allowed to dress like girls in school if they want to?
I think this is up to the parents.
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Would you rather listen to rap music or a talk show?
I would choose ANYTHING over listening to rap music. yes, I would rather listen to a talk show any day!!!
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Would you rather read a book, watch a movie, or listen to music?
I would choose to watch a riveting movie with my bf.
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Is being jealous of another human beings looks a sign of low self esteem?
well, I think that depends on the degree of jealousy and frequency. Also, are you, lets say, ever happy with your own looks? Do you ever feel that you are gorgeous and beautiful? I would say if you are basically not happy with your own looks and generally jealous of others people's looks then yes, I see that as low self-esteem.
On the other hand, I think most people do at times see...
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Does knowledge have limits in your opinion? Is there some tangible/real limit to what we can know and try to understand?
I believe we are limited by our brains capacity to comprehend and by our senses. We have evolved to develop knowledge for survival so that there maybe be other levels and dimensions that we have no way of obtaining knowledge about that are not related in any way to our survival as a species. Maybe there are really 100 senses and we don't need the other 94. But we have no way of knowing...
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Who's are the top 10 most famous black men?
1. the president, obama
2. jesse jackson
3. colin powell
4. thurgood marshall
5. bill crosby
6. martin luther king
7. clarence thomas
8. ralph abernathy
9. sidney poitier
10.george washington carver
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Do you believe the law makes it way too hard to divorce in the U.S..do you think it takes too long and cost too much money?
not hard to get divorceed in NY. It varies according to state.
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What was it you meant to do today___________?
count my money
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ROCK HUDSON "fans": What is your FAVORITE movie with him?
Magnificent Obsession
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If you could afford to buy everyone in your town/city something worth 100 bucks and still remain financially warm. . .what would you buy them?
gold jewelry, alright on the small side but 24 carat.
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What is the chance of there being a volcano underneath my nieghborhood?
new youk, I doubt it. you scared me, I thought you said 'earthquake'. NY is on a faultline. yikes, and could have a major earthquake!
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Icecream, what's your flavour?
vanilla
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Do cosmetic surgeons have longer marriges?
only if have a good relationship
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Do you think fall (season) smells of nostalgia?
too me it always does. I think back to school starting and walking to school and kicking the autumn leaves the wonderful crip air.
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How would you customize your casket if money was no object?
white statin with minature pink and red roses as the pattern. with a small pillow with ruffles in the same fabric and a pink fannel blanket with embroidered small pink roses with tine green stems. soft music playing. a jug of water and escape route just incase!
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If you could fly anywhere in the world to be with someone for a day, whom would it be with? Someone out there knows my answer.
the man I met online and in person who I fell in love with and he with me.
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When was the last time you were utterly amazed?
when I met and fell in love with a man online and he felt the same amount of love and excitement about me as I did about him. I was utterly amazed that he could adore me to that extent that I adored him. It was very exciting and the chemistry was electric
between us...
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Anybody watching Derren Brown right now?
nope, he's new to me.
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My cat claws are out today. Im horribly irritated and am rather disgusted in myself. please say nice things to me to help me draw the claws back.
nice kitty, beautiful kitty, best kitty in the whole world, you are loved
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What comes to mind when you think of Monte Carlo?
playing cards
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Is marriage a the triumph of imagination over intelligence?
no, I won't use those words. marriage to me is about friendship, truth, love, trust and pleasure in each other.
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Has anyone ever said "you should sell that on eBay" and what was it?
oh yes, many times! an antique
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Are you should-ing on yourself? Why?
sometimes. I catch myself more and more often. its such a terrible habit. the 'shoulds' are my mother and father's voices. but more so my mother's. 'you should clean your room' is a big one! 'You should save your money!' 'You be doing something productive', etc, etc, and then there's the 'you shouldn'ts' 'you...
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Do you remember a day when you suddenly realized you were better at something than everyone you knew?
yes, it was drawing. I was the only child in my kindergardten class that drew a neck on people. Later I went on to win art contests.
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Your most used and loved childhood toy?
my Tiny Tears doll. In fact, I still have her but the rubber is falling apart. sad to say. I realy loved that doll and took her everywhere as a child.
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When a boy reaches puberty does he say goodbye to his boyhood and looks forward to his adultery!?
no, how cynical
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What is your favorite movie? band? color? food? just wonderinggg.......
Doctor Zhivago, Beatles, Red, Cake
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What time did you have to turn on the lights in your house or apartment last night?
5:30pm EST USA although there was still plenty of natural light I like it to be bright when I am home.
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Im under the boardwalk down by the sea a huggin & a kissen -where are you? (2009-09-10)
coney island
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Can you name something that can not or should not ever be changed?
first thought ---- a diaper
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4 words you never want to hear?
I don't love you
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Why have smoking bans caught on so easily?
more and more people are NOT smoking for oen thing. another thing is that the science is now sold behind cancer and smoking, including 2nd hand smoke. Why should someone increase my risk of lung cancer by smoking near me or in the same room.
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Ok, i have a small penis, its prevented me from getting alot of girls.. not because they turn me down, but because i get scared to show it to them, i freak out whenever things look like they are leading to sex. Its only 4 inches long, will girls laugh?
I can't imagine any woman laughing. That would be totally inappropriate. I was once with a man with a very small penis. The main problem was his attitude about it. He seemed to feel ashamed and embarrassed.
If a man has confidence that's sexy in its self.
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What do women consider as a small penis
is seems to be a hot topic! for me a small penis is less than 7" and also narrow. On the other hand I'll take a 6" penis that is wide over a narrow 7.5" penis. But I do want it to be long enough to touch my G-spot. I'm sorry but 4" or 5" is just too small for me too get much pleasure out of. That's reality. I am petite and I can't accommodate a...
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Can a girl feel when a guy pre-cums during sex?
nope, not at all. I can tell when he's getting ready to cum by the intensity of his movement. I suspect there's some pre-cum then but I can't feel it.
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Do you believe in circumcision for health or religious reasons (or not at all)?
one thing men should know is that there is a 60% decrease in HIV transmission in circumcised males compared to uncircumcised males. that's one health concern for uncircumcised men to consider.
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I got turned down for sex after she found out i was uncircumcised, i admit it stung my ego a little and damaged my confidence too. should i just get circumcised? or just man up?
I had sex once with a very uncircumcised man and never will again. It was awful. All that extra skin flopping around and he had to keep pulling it back. sorry, but I prefer a circumcised man and its also healthier for the man.
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Anybody can tell me that why im very very hard to orgasm... i make love with my husband more than 1years and only orgasm not more than 10times... but i feel very enjoyful when i on top.... something wrong's with me?
I too like being on top. It feels good and gives me more contol over my movement. If you are young it might take awhile until orgasms become easier for you. They usually are easier as a woman ages. When I was in my 20's I had a very hard times having orgasms but now I much older and they are very easy to have. It may just take time. The other issue is does your husband give you long enough...
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Is there a home remedy for vaginal odor?
no because, it's due to inflammation of the vagina which is the result of an infection. you need to see a doctor to find out what kind of infection you have. It could be an STD or other bacteral infection. you don't want to let it go. you need antibiotics unless it's a yeast infection.
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Can you sing better than your other half?
I LOVE to sing but I suspect the other half sings BETTER than I do.
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What is your favorite song/band at the moment?
Nirvana
Pink
Beatles
Eric Clapton
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What is a good song
Let it be - the Beatles
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Your favorite artist (dead or alive) is playing ONE song live just for you. Who is it and what song?
Paul McCartney - Michelle
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What is your favourite brand of lager?
samuel adams
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I say "Budweiser" you say?
merlot
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Why do people always seem to have freckles on their shoulders?
that's probably where they are getting the most sun. freckles pop out with sun exposure.
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Do you have freckles?
yes, I sure do.
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How do u get freckles?
first of all you have to inherit the genes for them. there are certain receptors in the skin that when the sun hits the skin they go to work,in simple terms,which results in melanin production. These are freckles.
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Do have freckles and wish you did not (my friend complains about hers)?
I have freckles and love them. they are a part of who I am.
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Who has a cool birthmark? Where is it?
I don't know if my birthmark is cool but it's on my back. It's good sized. I also have a small one on my right knee.
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Do you think Freckles are a sign of beauty?
I have freckles which really show when I am out in the sun for long periods but then they fade. I love my freckles. I think they are cute.
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I really love freckles and wanna have alot of them i have 3 only on my face but i wanna have more fast and naturally , i have fair skin and my mother have freckles and i am envying her on them so i think ican have them , please i need help.
nope, there is a receptor in the skin that makes melanin. there is nothing you can eat or drink to effect this receptor. the only thing you cna do is go out in the sun all afternoon.
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I really love freckles and wanna have alot of them i have 3 only on my face but i wanna have more fast and naturally , i have fair skin and my mother have freckles and i am envying her on them so i think ican have them , please i need help.
freckles are genetic and so are how many you have. they pop out when the sun hits yoru skin. there is nothing you can do to increase them without changing your genetic makeup which you can't do anyway. sorry.
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Where can i purchase alitol online?
alitol is a ripoff for $149. it is throwing money away. See consumer's Ripoff Report for yourself. It doesn't work!
www.ripoffreport.com/view.asp?id=197273
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I have fair skin with few freckles on my face but i want to have freckles on my nose fast , please help me getting them
I don't think there is anything you can do to GET freckles. I have them all over my face after a day out in the sun but I don't think I have much on my nose either. Its due to melanin production when sunlight hits the skin. You have to have certain genes to get them on your nose. I'm sorry but you have to live without freckles on your nose. I'm sure your just as cute as you...
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Why does love hurt so much?
I've often wondered why myself. When I've been in pain over someone I love I've asked myself 'what is this pain?' I can feel it in my gut. Why does it hurt so much when a man I love stops loving me or goes away? I don't understand it. I suppose it goes back to infancy and mother or even being born and leaving the womb.
We needed our mother to survive and in our...
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I just found out my daughter is smoking marijuana. I want her to stop, but just telling your teen ager to stop doing something is not realistic. Any ideas on what I can say or do to get her to think about what shes doing? What would have worked for you?
this is very tricky. I smoked lots of marijuana in my early college years but it did NOT lead to harder drugs for me nor did I get addicted to it. In fact, in my mid-20's I just lost interest in it.
If my mother had said anything to me about quitting I would've just rebelled. I doubt if talking to your daughter will get her to stop but at the same time I believe its a parents duty...
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If you found out your 15 year old daughter was pregnant would you make her have an abortion? Do you think aborting a life is right?
I would not make her have an abortion although I do believe that abortion is a woman's right and her choice. I would discuss all the alternatives and pros and cons of each with her including abortion and if she chooses abortion I would support 100%.
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Would you kick your 17 year old daughter out if you found out she was pregnant
never, ever I would I kick my daughter for ANY reason. My God what a question!!!
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I've been seeing this guy who is going to end his current girl to be with me. He treats me good but im not attracted to guys who are slightly overweight. What should I do? He is a great person but I have a problem with his weight.
I think you must be honest with him in a gentle way before he ends it with his. current gf.
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What would you do when you KNOW a guy is attracted and interested, but not in a situation to ask you out (i.e. being at work with supervision)?
well even though he's interested, he's not available. so, as I see it move on. if the situation changes and he can ask you out then go out with him. but what's the point if he can't act on his attraction to you???
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To an honest and compassionate reader, I am completely IN LOVE with a separated but married "boyfriend" after 2 years of separation with wife supposedly.What's worse 2 kidsHe lives in another country FAR away,! So I constantly question what is true and fa
OK, so you're wondering what is true and fa?
what is fa? false? It's really hard to say based on the little info here. How long did you know the man? How did it happen that he is so far away? What has he said to you? Do you have future plans?
I'm sorry I can't give you a better answer without more info. But it would be very easy for him to say anything that he thinks you...
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I’ve had 3 dates with a girl and we had sex once. I like her but I'm not really sure about a long-term relationship. Is it too early to be thinking like this? Should I just take things as they come or should I be forthright with her now?
I don't think it was fair of you to have sex with her given your doubts. but that done. Don't have sex with her again. I suggest that you have an honest and open conversation. You might start by asking her how she feels about the relationship and be honest with her about how you feel.
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At 7.5 inch is my penis to small?
i just started thinking about this and im not shure
no, you are just the right size for me. I can't handle them much larger.
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Ladies...What is the perfect size of a man for you?
About average (7-8")and on the wide side but not too wide. this is for practical reasons because I am petite and can't fit a larger penis inside of me as much as there have been times I've wanted to. the younger I was the larger penis I could fit inside. But I don't like it when the penis is extra wide. it just feels like too much. Its like the 3 bears. Not too big and not...
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Is maturbating a sin?
I'm Catholic, and I masturbate frequent. Since it's a sin to give in to temptation, is masturbating a sin?
no, no, no. I was raised Catholic too and the Catholic religion tries to destroy all pleasure in life. Mastubation is natural, normal and healthy. Why would god condemn someone for doing something healthy????
Back in the days when it was comdemned it wasn't known that it is healthy.
Studies have shown that in men masturbation
Improves immune system’s functioning, builds...
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Men have you ever answer a question about your penis size online? Ladies, the same thing about your bra size.
I have never come across a question about bra size. I probably wouldn't answer it.
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Did you know there's crap in your semen that makes you irresistably attractive to women? Besides the obvious- pheremones- what are we looking at or what's the name of these pheremones?
there is no 'crap' in semen. In fact, semen consists of 90% seminal fluids which include fructose and proteins, sperm is 1% of semen and the rest is trace minerals and other nutrients.
pheremones are not contained in semen. pheremones are picked up my smell via the nose.
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I gave my boyfriend oral sex and the shot out like a waterhose, and he said it was the best orgasm that he'd ever experienced. It was alot of liquid to be semen. My question is, was it urine or was it semen
its most likely semen. that's what comes out when a man has an orgasm.
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If a woman receives oral sex from a man, is that considered sexual intercourse? If a man goes down on her, is this consdiered sexual intercourse? why/why not?
oral sex is ORAL. It is not intercourse. intercourse is only when penis enters vagina. oral sex is mouth on genitals.
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Do women ever get erotic feelings when they are examined by a gynecologist?
I never have that feeling. I just want it to be over asp.
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Do you feel comfy with a male gynecologist?
I wouldn't use the word 'comfy'. I am Ok with a male gyn.
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What has been your biggest moutain in this life? How was the climb?
The White Mts of New Hampshire. Went back packing with then bf long ago and hiked all the way to the top of the mt. It was very rigorous and the only thing to do was to keep moving as much as we wanted to stop else we would not get there.
We snacked on chocolate and instant coffee during the steepest part of the climb. near the top it was very, very windy and with our back packs on we had...
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Grab the book nearest to you, turn to page 18, and find line 4, What does it say?
gang vi ... Scot
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I'm beating myself up because I cannot bring closure to a past relationship. I do not call or anything like that, it's just mentally draining me. Not a day goes by without crying or wondering what happened. What do I do?
First and foremost, please stop beating yourself up. You are only human and bringing closure does take its own time. You can't force it. How about finding some love and compassion for yourself instead. You are hurting and trying so very hard no wonder its mentally draining.
I know you want the pain to go away. If you stop trying to force it you may be suprised and find yourself in a...
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My ex has been sneaking around to meet me for, drinks, meals and sex for the past 5 months. His girlfriend knows we are still "friends" but has no idea. She is the one he broke up with me to be with. Do you think he desires to have me back?
first of all I would insist that he tell his gf the truth about you and him. stop having sex with him until and if he does tell her the truth. He needs to clean up his act before I would even consider going back to him.
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Have you ever been engaged and are you still together?
I have been engaged twice.
the first time we got married and it lasted 6 years. I left because I was terribly unhappy and did everything I could to make the marriage work but couldn't.
the 2nd time we never did get married.
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Would it hurt you to know that your partner loved their ex (during the relationship) more than they love you?
it certainly would. but then think about the reasons he loved his ex. the reasons could be all screwed up. This happended to me and his ex was an alcoholic, cheater, liar, violent, abusive, just plain awful - why did he love her so very much??? because of his dysfunction. So, it has nothing to do with me.
think about why he and his ex are no longer togther.
if you don't feel loved...
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Does anyone had any advice i’m in love with my bf and he’s in love with me. we both feel like we have never been this in love before… and my bf is my everything. and he says i’m his everything do u think we’re gonna last?
It's not possible to tell from this little amount of information. I don't know how long you've been together for example. I don't know if this is just romantic love talking or real love.
I hope for you that it will last but I've felt that way and found that love is never enough. I felt the same way before and it didn't last but not to pop your bubble.
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What do women want, anyway? We act like normal guys and they complain we don’t share our feelings, but then we catch the flu and share our feelings ("[moan] ... I don’t feel good") and they say we’re being big babies! Sheesh!
that's not what we mean and you should know better. sharing your feelings has to do with feelings about the relationship, about your partner, about your hopes and dreams, about your deepest thoughts, about yourself and such... so come on. you can do it. just open up very slowly and test the waters. you will find them quite safe and warm....
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Trust is vital in a relationship, but how exactly DO you build trust? I'm so tired of being jealous of my bf's exes from months/years ago; he doesn't like them at all anymore. How do I get over my own hurt from the past, move on, and give him a break?
Trust is built on open and honest communication. Did your bf cheat on you or something like that when you say 'hurt from the past'? Trust is also built on doing what you say you are going to do.
If your bf did hurt you then it sounds to me that you need to continue to communicate honestly with him what you feel and he needs to be there for you until you feel like you have gotten...
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How many of you have googled your SO exe's?
I have once but I am more inclinded to google my ex's. I'm not that interested in their ex's.
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If a guy says "I love you" first early in a relationship and you feel like they mean it because they've never said it to another girl except when they were younger, is there more of a chance that this guy is being genuine?
I want to repeat the importance of paying attention to your gut feeling when he says 'I love you'. The answer is inside of you. You already know the answer.
And the other thing is does he back it up with action, does he treat you like he loves you?
Do you feel like it would be fine to say "i love you" back to him? If not then I would be suspicious. If you do love him...
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Believe in me or you face eternal suffering, how is that "freewill"? So when someone is forced to do something at gunpoint are they doing it out of "freewill"?
they are making a choice but I wouldn't call it free will. rather, 'forced' will to live.
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How smart are you? Take this simple Common sense test and tell us your score.
Your Score: 10 out of 11
Your Rating: Wow! Come to work for us!
Your Projected Love Life: Your love life is mediocre. (I don't think so!)
the one I got wrong was: Divide 30 by 1/2 and add 10. What is the answer? I chose 25.
OK I see how that was done.
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What s the proof God exists?
there NO proof that God exists. saying that because man exists is no proof to me nor is the bible. I believe man arose through evolution. just because the bible says something doesn't make it true. also, the bible if full of contadictions and 100's of different interpretations.
Rather, I believe it's a matter of personal choice to believe or not to believe. No one can prove...
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Is there anyone who has been in a long relationship (over a yr at least) and broke up for a random reason that caught you off guard?
yes, at least it felt random to me in sense that it was totally unexpected. an ex bf who had been very loving to me during our 2 year relationship woke up one morning and decided he didn't love me afterall.
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When I was in 6th grade, the "in thing" to do was to go steady. So when a boy asked me to go steady, even though I didn't know him very well, I said yes. Did you ever "go steady" with anyone? How old were you? Did you really like him/her?
I went steady in high school. I was in love with him.
But I had my very first bf when I was 5 years old. I would say we went steady but w/o saying so. actually it felt more like a minature marriage. we did everything together and kissed and played doctor and even built our own little home, a tent in his basement. The relationship lasted about 2 years until my family moved away.
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When you left home how old were you? did you have a place to go or were you just itching to get out? did you ever go back (not counting visits)?
I left home when I was 21 and moved in with my then bf. I did go back many years later.
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Have you ever had a dry spell when there was no one around you wanted to go out with? Did you just hang around with your buddies until they got partners and you were left alone?
I have had that happen to me. But My friends were still hanging out with me whether they had partners or not.
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Have you ever walked around your house naked?
oh sure
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Do you normally research your answers on Answerbag, or do you only answer questions you already know the answers to? Or is it a bit of both?
once in a while I research a question if I don't know the answer to it and I am interested in the answer.
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Do you rate answers Yes or No?
if a particular answer has an impact on me I rate it else I don't.
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What do you rate yourself in hotness stakes 100 tops
100
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Do you know anyone whose life is perfect?
no, can't say that I do nor would anyone I know say that their life is perfect expect maybe the yoga director.
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It is not good to eat too much of certain kinds of fish because of toxins..does anyone know if shrimp have the same kinds of toxins and the amounts
shrimp has less toxins then other fish and is OK to eat twice a week.
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Can you describe yourself in one word?
first thought was - wholesome!
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What has been your experience with moving an online relationship into real life?
most of the time I enjoyed meeting the men and a few turned into brief dating relationships.
then one day, I met the 'one', my true love on a dating site. we exchanged emails and talked on the phone for about 3 months before meeting in person because of a distance problem. We knew we were in love before we meet.
But I have found that I never quite know how I'll really feel...
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Have you met the love of your life on an internet dating site?
yes, I did.
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What would you do and what would think if you were a member of a dating site and at least once a week a guy/girl would come by your profile but say nothing?
I would probably block them from looking at my profile and report them to the dating site. I once had a man that kept sending me 'hugs' way after I told him I am not interested. I reported him and it stopped.
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After meeting lots of people (online dating) and feeling the sting of rejection again and again, do you start to ask "what's wrong with me?" It's beginning to be discouraging!
Is there a part of you that is ambiguous about wanting to be in a relationship? if so it won't happen. Is there is a part of you that is not ready? check deep inside and take an honest look. I believe you attract people who are on the same level you are. Therefore, if you are ambiguous/not ready for whatever reason you don't want or are afraid of having a relationship you will attract...
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Why do people look for love on the chat line?
because real people have actually found love and gotten married via internet.
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L recently met a guy online whom l've seriously fallen in luv but l'm scared if he really feel d way l feel. we talk on phone most time a week, sometimes we chat. he saystrust me but l find it hard bcos l don't another heart break. pls what do l do?
have you met in person? if not do so asp and then you'll know if there's really something there. For him to say 'trust me' means nothing. you have to met in person. hold onto your heart until you can look into his eyes and see what you see.
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Who gets into your nerves everyday in your life.
my landlord
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What is meaning of name Gagandeep?
well, according to the urban dictionary it has 4 different meanings:
1. this person does not get as much as he gives. this person finds true love with someone who does not feel the same way. at times these individuals can be very aggitating and annoying...
2. this nicest person in the whole entire world. she is always there for u..
3. My bestestttt frienddd who is one of da most...
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How many mechanical pencils do you have?
forgot about those. have zero now.
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How do some Answerbag users have so much time to ask and answer so many questions? Don't they have jobs like the rest of us?
I do have a full time job. but I have a lot of down time in between assignments. I work very hard when I do work so I don't feel bad about my down time.
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Why don't Answerbaggers make a conscious effort to answer most of the 'unanswered' questions?
I do make a conscious effort to answer unanswered questions but there's a reason many of them are unanwered. I don't really understand some of them for one thing.
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Why don't the more prolific members of Answerbag answer my questions?
I tend to be pretty prolific in my answers. If I didn't answer your questions its because they didn't interest me or were in an area that I don't usually answer questions. but to find out the real answer for you I will take a look at your questions and see.
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I have a wonderful girlfriend of five weeks, and when we go out I pay for the dates. I don't mind paying, but I can't really afford it. How do I let her know that I can't keep paying for all of our dates?
I would tell her as much as I would I love to continue paying for dates with her I am running low on funds and wonder if she won't mind helping me by paying for part of the dates.
If I were the gf I would feel bad that my bf didn't speak up sooner. I would say 'of course, I'd be happy to help pay for dates, no problem'.
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I met a man recently, we spent a few hours together that I really enjoyed, and then out of the blue he asks 'when was the last time you made love?' How does one answer a question like that?
I would simply say "I'm not ready to answer that question at this point" or "why do you ask?"
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I met a great guy on a Friday and spent the whole weekend at his place. Then I didn't hear from him for two days, and only briefly the next night. Is he interested or was this just a hook up?
my guess is that he just took the sex and ran. He doesn't sound like a such a great guy to me. I suspect nothing will come it. I could be wrong...
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Now that I am in a happy and loving relationship it seems that some of my ex's are trying to get back into my life. Some of the break-ups with my ex's were even bad, so why are they trying to come back?
your positive energy is attracting them. At the same time, you are totally unavailable.
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What are your feelings on a person who is in a relationship, they live together, but they aren't married and are trying to have a baby?
as long as love each other and are deeply committed I have no objection what so ever.
I have close friends that started off this way and had children without being married. yet the man couldn't have been more committed to his woman and his children. eventually they got married. There are many reasons a couple may choose not to get married and not just, non-committal ones. marriage has...
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What will be the next stage of human evolution?
I am hoping for a spiritual evolution where the need for war and violent aggression is replaced with peace, oneness and love. I think too that humans will become more telepathic.
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Would you be mad at your s/o if you two were supposed to hang out and your s/o went to take a nap and ended up sleeping?
this happens. but if it happens too often it would frustrate me and I would talk to him about it. but just once I would let it go.
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Will this ever become a relationship? We seen eachother over months. We have taken it slow, but i feel im getting mixed messages. His very settled thought he was looking for something serious. I made him wait for sex longtime, his still hanging around.
First, good for you that you made him wait for sex. It sounds like you need to cause a shift in the relationship. Maybe he's gotten to used to things as they are and sees no need for change.
Are you seeing him on his terms? What are your terms? Are you being treated the way you want to be treated? If not spell it out, the way you want to be treated, in a nice way of course.
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Girl doesnt like me
do you want to say more about that? Else there are millions of more girls in the world. there will definately be another that catches you're eye. there is nothing wrong with you if you are thinking that.
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For the last month and a half. i have been spending the night by ex every friday. ok, 4 da past 2wks we have been spending almost everday together. now he is sending me msgs, saying how much he misses me. then dis past wkend, i dnt c him @ all. im lost?
let me get this straight. you have spending the night every friday for the past 1 1/2 months. for the past 2 weeks you have spent almost everyday together. his sends you messages that he misses you. but this last weekend you did not contact him and you feel lost. right?
OK, why didn't you contact him? did he try to contact you? Are you leaving something important out???? Do you have an...
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Pretty women likes to blow kisses to men, what do you think of handsome man blowing kisses to women?
sounds sexy to me.
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Tips to keep your mind off boyfriend or girlfriend if on space from relationship
I find that when I am involved in an activity I can totally forget about the person. When my computer was invaded with trojans and viruses, cleaning all that up took my mind 100% off my bf who is out of town. I find that any activity that requires some brain power will do.
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Why is it that girls have gotten the name for smelling and tasting "bad" and "fishy" down there, cause guys are pretty bad to! smells and tastes like expired oyster. i just think we r equally bad.if nething guys worse. any 1 else agree
the bad smell could also come from an infection. if I had a bad smell 'down there' I would see my doctor. Why go around like that?
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Do you know anyone that is always a bridesmaid, never a bride?
yes, I have a friend like that. but you never know maybe she'll be a bride tomorrow!
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What does it mean if a guy says he loves you but says sex is very important to him and to be with him you have to be willing to try anything when it comes to sex?
well, you tell him that that to be with you, respect is very important and so is free will! He's acting very manipulative and controlling. Put your foot down now and let him know he can't push you around with words of love.
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Should you be willing to have sex on a first date
in a word, NO, 'should be willing' what kind of talk is that???? why???
A woman's body belongs to her and there is no 'shoulds' or 'willing tos' in regard to sex. I'll reverse it, a man should be willing to wait until a woman is ready is have sex without putting any pressure on her.
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Have you had problems trying to log onto plentyoffish website
yes, sometimes I've had to login repeatedly
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What is a good website to do a background check on someone for not a lot of money?
depends on what state you live in the USA. Many states have free public criminal information searches for anyone who lives in the state. So check the state government web site of your state or the state the person lives in if they have one. I don't know about other countries.
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Is it normal for a guy to give you his phone number right away after only one e-mail? Shouldn't he talk to you via e-mail more before expecting you to call him?
I have done a lot of internet dating. I have found that it is very normal for a man to give you his number right away only after on email. Why waste time? I prefer it that way. I'd much rather just talk to the man than email back and forth. I can learn do much more by talking than emailing.
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Do you think it's good to make a guy wait 90 days before you get intimate with him?
the only man I made wait 90 days was the man I ended up marrying. I didn't choose 90 days it just turned out that it took 3 months until I was sure.
At this age, I don't think I could wait 90 days! But I sure could wait long enough until I felt secure in the man's love and committment however long that takes.
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Is it wrong to feel good when you know you are going to destroy someone?
feelings are just feelings. they are not right or wrong. although, if someone feels 'good' when they are about to destory someone I would think there's a lot more going on inside that person and it isn't self love and true happiness. I would suspect the 'good' feeling is masking another feeling like anger for example.
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On the yardstick of life, with levels of "Lousy", "Pretty Good" and "Excellence", do you always strive for Excellence or are you happy with Pretty Good sometimes?
I am happy with 'I'll do the best I can at all times'.
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How can we creativity and sensitivity to blend all the diverse parts of ourselves and the world into a unified whole?
by loving all parts of ourselves then we can love and accept others.
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Agree or disagree? The fastest way to change the answers you receive from yourself and others is to change the questions you ask.
not necessarily. changing the question doesn't always give a different answer. if the answers are coming from my gut I don't want to change them. I want to hear them. Its true on a simple basis. If I were to ask people 'do you like me'? I might get a different answer from asking 'what do you like about me?' If I asked myself 'what do you want to do to...
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I thought I had heard it all til I just came across what has to be one of the dumbest stories in my opinion. Your thoughts please.http://news.softpedia.com/news/10-Minutes-Of-Staring-Boobs-Daily-Prolongs-Man-039-s-Life-by-5-Years-72490.shtml
I believe this is entirely possible based on the principle that endorphines strengthen the immune system. no doubt a man staring at boobs would cause a rise in his endorphines. it could even go back to the reptilian part of the brain. the breast represented life for infants in cave man days.
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Have you came across egostic people in your life.
sure, many times. I just don't get pulled in by them.
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I tried to help my best friend get together with some guy by suggesting she write him a note. She took my advice but he didn't respond. Now she is upset because she doesn't think he likes her. What should I do?
well for one thing your best friend made herself very vulnerable by writing a note. I don't know what she revealed or said in the note but not getting a response is understandably nerve racking.
the truth is how he feels is the unknown. I think it would be best for your best friend to put an end to the suspense and gather up her courage. go up to the guy and ask him how he felt about...
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I have this best friend and she likes my ex,so do i, she also likes this other guy.today at school she got asked out by both of them and she pick my ex.i love my ex so much,but he hates me.
i tell him love him he just doesnt care.what do i do?
forget about your ex. he does not love you. the more you go after him the more he'll pull away and the lower your self-esteem. I know it hurts right now but you are making matters worse for yourself.
as for your best friend, where is her friendship ethics???? did she ask you how you feel about her going out on a date with your ex who you still have feelings for????
She is way out of...
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A girl has fallen lve with 1boybut he rejected.evnthough he rejected her love they weretalking well.one day fighthappened between them.the girl ask the boy toreturn the gift which she gave to himbut the boy doesnt return?eventhogh hedoesnthavelovewthher
it was a gift, it belongs to him now. he is not obligated to return it.
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How do you make someone love you with out affecting free will?
you can't make someone love you. the only person you have control over is yourself. rather than trying to make someone love you, how about focusing on loving yourself more.
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Does your (or do you) s/o say that "you always" or "you never"; is it fair to be described in such extremes?
no, it is not fair. to say 'you always' or 'you never' because it is a certain way to get polarized in a relationship and push the other person away. Now you are on opposite teams instead of the same team. Let's say a couple have been married for 20 years and the wife says to the husband 'you never washed the dishes in 20 years!' what is the husband going to...
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What do i do? This guy i was talking to just deleted me from his friends on myspace and i didn't do anything wrong. Everything was fine yesterday between us we talked for hours and today out of nowhere he deletes me. any advice?
were you talking on the phone? I would call him up and ask him why he deleted me, in a non-accusatory voice. rather I might say 'I feel confused when you deleted me'. I would say this without trying to change his mind.
If he doesn't want to give you a real reason, but just gives a vague answer I won't push the issue. Maybe he has a gf now.
At any rate you got your...
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My girlfriend broke up with me recently saying she needed time on her own and with her mates. But she said she still loves me and always will do but just wants to be mates. I love her so much and just want her back what do i do?
There's only one thing to do as I see it - back off. Start to focus on your life without her. Yes, she may well still love you and need time on her own as the same time.
In fact, when I left my marriage, I still loved my husband but needed to be on my own. I still love him but things would never work between us. That's when I learned love is NOT enough.
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Im 30yrs and my girlfriend is 25. We been together for 7 months. She told me she wants to buy house together & start her life with me in 18months. I am now told to slow things down because she feels under pressure. Is she going to end our relationship?
It doesn't sound at all that she is going to end the relationship. I think she just scared herself by talking about buying a house together after only knowing each other for 7 months. Slowing things down sounds very wise to me. I was 21 when I started living with my bf but we had dated for 3 years prior to that. 25 isn't all that young but rather its the length of time you've...
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How old is too old to wear miniskirts?
no age cutpoint as long the woman is hot
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How far should you go on a first date, in your opinion?
kissing
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How many public (national) holidays does your Country have a year?
we have 10 federal holidays in the USA
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Have you got anything in your life that you may give up once and for all easily?
being mean to telemarketers and sweetly just say 'no thank you, good bye now' and hang up.
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My wife has issues with sensitivity in her vagina. Dr says its from starting birthcontrol to early. Have any ladies had this issue and how did you overcome it?
I wish your wife was writing this question because 'sensitivity' is very vague. Does she mean easily feel pain? Does she tightened up easily? sorry but need more information. Exactly how young was she when she started birth control pills? I never had any such reaction but I may have been older when I started the pill. come back with more detail and can help more.
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Can someone with herpes have unprotected sex to have children, or is that a massive risk to take, even though they havent had a break out for a while? or stick with using a condom, or dont have sex at all.
given that you had genital herpes before getting pregnant the chance that your baby will be infected is very, very low. Also, women with genital herpes are examined carefully for any symptoms before giving birth. If you have sores or signs that an outbreak is coming at the time of delivery, the baby may be delivered by cesarean section to be sure it doesn't have contact with the virus.
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I have recently found small dark marks on the skin of my inner labia. They do not itch and are not raised. I also have a bad smelling discharge. Is this to worry about? I'm scared that it's vulvar cancer.
I doubt if its cancer. rather it sounds like an infection. go get it checked out.
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What are the symptoms of damaging your cervix or the insides of you vagina from sex?
I don't know what you'd have to do to cause damage but it seems to me that the first thing would be bleeding. If there's no bleeding and no pain then I don't think you have to worry.
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How do you get rid of a yeast infection without having to buy medication?
I really don't think you can totally get rid of it. else it will just keep coming back. the medication is only $12 or something like that. Its well worth the money.
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Is clit and/or pussy pumping dangerous for a woman. If so what are the negative effects?
I have to honestly say I have no idea what this practice is???? so can't be of much help here. can you explain?
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Is there some religion where women have to get circumcised?
as horrific as this practice is, it does indeed continue among muslims and jews in some parts of the world.
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Bartholin Cyst self rupture post care? I had a bartholin cyst rupture in the bath just now. I am wondering what to do for post care so it does not re-occur.
I think the best thing to do is to see your doctor so it won't get infected. Meanwhile do your best to keep the area clean as possible.
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Can a yeast infection cause a late period?
I've never heard of that or had it happen to me. your period is under control of your hormone not yeast.
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Does yellow discharge from vagina mean your due on your period?
it sounds like an infection to me. I've never had a yellow discharge before my period, a brownish one, yes.
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How can you tell the difference between an early light period, implantation bleeding, and bleeding after rough sex?
the sex must have been awfully rough to cause bleeding but if it did then I would think it would be the shortest in duration.
A light period would obviously continue. Do you have any reason to think you might be pregnant?
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Im going to a obgyn for the first time should i be nervous will it hurt
No need to be nervous. It's a very routine procedure. It always helps me to talk to the doctor about my concerns before he/she starts for the reassurance. You will be fine. You might feel a slight bit of pain for a feww seconds but if you take a deep breath the pain will lessen. Next thing you know it will be all over and you can be happily on your way.
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Does anyone know what an elastic like loop at the base of the vagina may be?
sure do. I have on one myself. it is called an E-ring. it emits very small amounts of estrogen into the vagina to help mositurize it and make the vagina more elastic after menopause. The whole goal being to make sex easier, pain free and MORE enjoyable once again post menopause.
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Is this weird? Sometimes when my girlfriend is on her period she will let me insert her tampon for her. I even offer to do it. Is this normal?
contrary to popular opinion here, I think its its very intimate and trusting of your gf. I don't think its weird at all. Most women have a hightened sexual arousal during their period. It may feel a bit sexally arousing to your gf which is fine.
Its no more weird than a man assisting his woman during childbirth and helping the baby come out of the vagina.
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Me and my boyfriend had sex all last month and he didnt pull out at all when we had sex. so i didnt start my period. am i pregnant
probably. you'll be suprised to learn how very easy it is to get pregnant. one time can do the trick.
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Do women ever feel manipulated into having sex, when the guy pays for meals, drinks, flowers etc? He may be sincere but if he just wants to get laid....
When a man has bought me flowers and a nice dinner and such I feel that his reward is the pleasure of my wonderful company. I don't feel that I must have sex with him in return, no way. On the other hand, if I really like a man a lot and we've been developing a relationship where we've reached the point that the relationship is ready for the next level, a romantic evening would...
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How does I 'wait' between serious medical tests and stay my usual upbeat, optimistic, in-love-with-life self? Help!!
I find it very hard to wait for the results of a serious medical test. I think that you don't have to pretend to feel something you don't feel. If you don't feel upbeat you needn't act upbeat.
I would say feel your true feelings and get as much support as you can for how you really feel. Being optimistic is great but if that slips you can have friends be optimistic for...
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Do you think (considering cultural factors) people in general are getting more or less in touch with their feelings?
I would say more people are getting more in touch with their feelings.
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Do you reserve your road rage for the younger inexperienced driver, the senior driver, or does it all go to the rude person on the phone?
I'm not a road rage type. Its not worth my serenity. I don't like to send negative energy out into the universe. Its a chain reaction. What does get to me is the telephone menus that ask me to say 'agent' for example and I say 'agent' in a nice clear voice and the recording comes back and says'I didn't understand, can you please repeat your answer'...
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Is it another Saturday night and ain't got nobody? And you got some money cause you just got paid. Oh, no?
Happy to stay home and save some money for a change.
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Acoustic or hard rock?
hard rock
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What mental disorders have 'extreme jealousy' and 'excessive overprotective tenancies' as characteristics?
it could also be a part of ocd, where a person cannot control their thoughts. my father had a phase where he was extremely jealous and paranoid of every man my mother looked at or didn't, for that matter, look at but he did not have Schizophrenia. paranoia can also be a part of depression. There are many things that could be going on so its best that the person with these traits be...
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Why do I keep biting on the inside of my mouth and keep cutting of little tiny chunks of my tongue? I can't help stopping it!! i hate it!
When I get real anxious about something I find myself biting of tiny bits of the inside of my mouth but it has never occurred to me to bit a bit of my tongue, ouch! my mouth is sore the next day. its been awhile now that I've bitten the inside of my mouth. I would say find out what your anxious about or focus on what you are feeling when you start to bite the inside of your mouth and...
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What if it's a guy that you like and he likes you and he comes back 2 1/2 or 3 1/2 years after you met them? And now he lives with you, and whenever the two of you talk it's no looking away eye contact?
are you saying you have uninterrupted eye contact when you talk? One thing for sure, you are both good at making eye contact and maintaining it. It could also be that you are falling in love. What happens during the eye contact is a key. Do you gaze lovingly into each other's eyes or just look into each other's eyes? Gazing is what people in love do.
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What color corsage should I wear for a shiny magenta/fuschia dress?
I think white would work out nicely.
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Does a drunk ever say anything he/she doesn't mean or does the drunk always say what was meant?
i think a drunk says what they mean but exaggarates it a lot. e.g., if they like the music a band is playing instead of saying 'I love your music' they might say 'your band is the greatest band in the world, the greatest band I have ever heard!!!'. In other words, i think they get very, very generous with their compliments and also prehaps exaggarate thier insults.
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#1 tells the world that he/she loves you so much, but you don't feel like he/she loves you. #2 doesn't tell the world he/she loves you, but when he's/she's around you, there's no doubt in your mind that he/she loves you. Which one do you prefer and why?
#2 because its more important to me to feel loved and to trust that feeling.
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Girls, do you love your bodies.
yes, I love my body. every bit of it.
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Has anyone ever told you that you're weird?
years and reas ago I used to periodically be told this. for reason it has totally stopped. I guess I'm not weird anymore, darn!
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Would you confess to your bf if u cheated
yes, I would. I believe that to build a truly remarkable relationship there are no lies and no secrets. Also, I think its important to discuss why it happended so it won't happen again. Even though there will be hurt and anger in the short term. I believe in the long term it will strengthen the relationship to fully explore why this occurred.
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When someone has a view that is different from yours, that has very strong opinions on your "lifestyle" and how wrong it is- do you tend to take it personally because you are part of that lifestyle, or do you just take it with a grain of salt? Why?
I figure that its only their opinion. It doesn't need to have any impact on me. I feel that the most important opinion on my lifestyle is my own. If I am comfortable with it then it doesn't matter if someone else isn't. It's OK to have a difference of opinion.
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For all the ladies that are bored with sex. What is it do you think your man is not doing or doing wrong?
my bf keeps me from getting bored by surprising me with sudden shifts in positions. Its never routine.
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Do you think how you view others mirrors how you view yourself? If you are open and optimistic, that is how you see the world..if you are closed off and suspicious, that is how you view the world. What do you think?
i suppose so.
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How do you masturbate?
It seems I can only get an orgasm with a vibrator. so I lie on my back and start off gently and slow for foreplay, don't want to cum too soon. I drag it out as long as I can and enjoy the sensations. That gives me a very intense orgasm! And of course, play with my nipples meanwhile.
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Do you masturbate?
sure do. its healthy and feels great!
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How often do Woman think about Sex?
I think about it everyday at least. When I have a lover which I do now, I think about it many times through out the day.
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Whats the different between a bath and shower. if im standing in the shower (water is running on top of me) and i wash both my body and hair does that mean im having a shower? if so i do this once a week is that bad?
huh??? you are describing a shower. it is not a bath. it is good to take a shower.
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I prefer a long bath to a quick shower do you
I have to admit I tend to get bored while taking a bath. But I do love to take long, hot showers.
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Is it just me, or are Friends are never there when you need them?
then they are not truly friends. My friends are there for me espeically when I need them and visa versa. To me that is part of a definition of being a good friend. But its important to remember that you have to give in order to receive. Be the kind of friend you want to have.
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What is your motto in life?
be careful for what you ask for, you just might get it.
It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives.
Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. Today is a gift. That's why it's called the present.
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What, in your life, is painful?
right now my lower 13th tooth!
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Do Females find the talkative/outgoing type of guys or the quiet/laid back type of guys better? and Why for your answer? Thank you All:)
personally, I most definately prefer the talkative/outgoing type of guys who are at the same time laid back. A quiet man will drive me crazy! That's why I left my marriage because my ex got real quiet after we got married.
I feel that a realtionship requires opena nd honest communciation and friendship as well. The talkative guy will keep me interested and help build a friendship. Also,...
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