http://www.answerbag.com/profile/867055 New Answerbag answers from IllonaX Wed, 30 May 2012 06:35:53 -0700 Wed, 30 May 2012 06:35:53 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11495884 what is this style called?<br /><br />Ehh...I wouldn't really call that androgynous. That is a distinct male style, the only thing that makes it seem androgynous is that the guy is asian...sorry if that sounds racist. I don't know what the style is called, specifically. He's really attractive though x) Sun, 20 Nov 2011 12:03:49 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11495884 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11495864 How would you look at someone differently with a consensual human branding on their skin for the purpose of art instead of a tattoo?<br /><br />I actually like them a lot, and they can be a way to turn ugly scars into artwork where tattoos often won't work. I would get it if I weren't so chicken- every form of scarification I've heard of sounds really painful! (Some of them cut out chunks of skin and then set the whole thing on... Sun, 20 Nov 2011 11:58:48 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11495864 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11495747 What are some good exercises for the lower abdominal and 'love handles' ?<br /><br />Regarding the other part of your question, about the line: Do you sit down a lot? Or do you have a bad slouch? If either of these are true, it may simply be a crease due to bending at the waist. The remedy for this is to sit and stand up straight all the time, the line will fade away and it makes... Sun, 20 Nov 2011 11:20:40 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11495747 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11495707 I've recently lost a stone and the previously hard fat on my belly has become soft and jiggly. Is this a good sign?<br /><br />Yeah, that probably means that the fat is not as tightly packed in there as it used to me, the skin isn't so stretched anymore. Once you lose more and/or tone up, the jiggle will go away but this time it will be because you have muscles :) Source: My boobs do the same thing when I lose... Sun, 20 Nov 2011 11:09:12 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11495707 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11363016 Would i suit a pixie haircut?<br /><br />In my opinion almost anyone looks good with a short haircut, it's just a matter of how it's done. In your case, if you had a haircut like that I would think that you should consider a fringe of some sort, don't go all-over super short like Kiera Knightly. It will help balance your forehead and... Tue, 18 Oct 2011 16:59:19 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11363016 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11250744 If everyone reached enlightenment and were no longer reborn like in the buddhist faith wouldn't the world cease to exist<br /><br />I don't think so. As I understand it, even as souls work out their karma and move towards pranayama (if I'm using the correct term here, I might be mixing the word up), NEW souls are being formed out of the same great one-ness that the old, enlightened souls are returning to. Like a cycle. Wed, 21 Sep 2011 19:04:06 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11250744 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11250711 I said " i love you" (as a joke) and he disappeared...?<br /><br />Not sure if that was why. But he probably misunderstood what you were saying because it was over text. In person, it would have gone over and he could have known from your tone, but tone can be next to impossible to decipher in writing. I'd say in the future try to leave out the sarcasm or... Wed, 21 Sep 2011 18:55:33 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11250711 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10112404 how often should yout girlfriend give you a bj?<br /><br />See, this question isn't so great..She should give you a BJ as often as she's comfortable with it.. Now if you asked how often we gave BJs to our boyfriends, that would be easy to give a straight answer. Mon, 03 Jan 2011 04:52:16 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10112404 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10112400 why does my penis bend up when erect, almost touching my stomach?<br /><br />It's normal, dicks bend all kinds of ways..up down side to side..Up like yours is probably the most expected way though. Mon, 03 Jan 2011 04:50:51 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10112400 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10112390 If a guy says " you have a cute vagina" while being high does he mean it?<br /><br />Yeah, I'm sure he does. But even if he was thinking it while sober, he might not actually say it except when high because..Well you can pretty much say anything you want to when you're high or drunk. :P Mon, 03 Jan 2011 04:48:12 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10112390 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10093748 In Hogwarts, how far could you go as a muggle?<br /><br />The Sorting Hat would instantly recognize that you had no magical ability, I should think. Thu, 30 Dec 2010 03:08:33 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10093748 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10080532 Taking naked pics? (see description)<br /><br />Ok, for the last time guys...I don't care if they end up wherever they end up. It's just my naked body, it's not the end of the world. I wouldn't be sending them if I cared, because OBVIOUSLY someone is going to see them eventually, you kind of have to make that assumption. Mon, 27 Dec 2010 12:05:14 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10080532 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10075735 Will someone please just tell me HOW to shoot video with a canon rebel t2i?<br /><br />Nvm.. Sun, 26 Dec 2010 10:51:18 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10075735 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10072707 I have an ex which I have feelings for.....in an oddball way. Anyway when we first dated she broke up with me for no reason<br /><br />Who cares if she likes you or not or what her deal is if you like someone else? Anyway she sounds like she likes drama so screw her.. Sat, 25 Dec 2010 14:08:13 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10072707 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10066037 What song did you use for your wedding day?<br /><br />Not married yet...But I've been thinking "Hard to Concentrate" by the Red Hot Chili Peppers :) Thu, 23 Dec 2010 18:59:14 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10066037 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10062725 I have 8" uncut brown cock. Can women really feel the difference between cut and uncut cock?<br /><br />I'm not sure, but I have had one uncut and many cut...I feel like I did feel a difference but it might have just been the size since it was also the biggest. Uncut cocks used to especially turn me on after that but not anymore... Anyway, the guy can definitely feel the difference, supposedly... Thu, 23 Dec 2010 02:45:43 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10062725 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10062715 Do you love someone with Bipolar?<br /><br />Well, he's diagnosed with it from when he was younger, not sure he actually has it though. I think he might just have some issues from his past or something. Thu, 23 Dec 2010 02:41:20 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10062715 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10062699 Guys, if you found out your girlfriend..<br /><br />I forgave my boyfriend for cheating so I don't think that's necessarily a deal breaker. But the fact that they had done it more than once and I had to catch them/be told by someone else instead of them coming clean AND changing their ways, would tell me that I could not trust or be with them... Thu, 23 Dec 2010 02:34:01 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10062699 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10062695 what is worse to be involved with? i have known all of these personally<br /><br />I answered what I feel would be worse for me..But everyone has their problems and relative "suckiness" ultimately doesn't matter, it's how it affected the person in question. Thu, 23 Dec 2010 02:32:29 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10062695 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10062556 Which hottie would you rather spend a weekend with?<br /><br />honestly none of them look like anything special to me, just more of the same. I'll pass. But I did see one face shot of Doutzen where she looked gorgeous. Thu, 23 Dec 2010 01:20:45 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10062556 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10062547 horny boyfriend prtII..<br /><br />Honestly, if he can't accept this about you and love you for something other than sex then he is not a promising husband for you. Of course he has his needs and whatnot, but you know what you do/don't want to do and he needs to accept that and decide if it is worth it to him. If not then you... Thu, 23 Dec 2010 01:17:20 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10062547 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10062536 how do u feel about age difference in relationships? is there a limit to acceptable age difference? is there a double standard?<br /><br />The general rule is that you cannot date anyone who is under half your age, plus seven. So if A = your age, then A/2 + 7 = lowest acceptable age for dating Of course, I've totally broken this before, so, ya know... (with me being too young for the guy not the other way around) Personally I agree... Thu, 23 Dec 2010 01:12:48 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10062536 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10062532 Do you ever watch home movies and wonder, "how did they think that was hot!?"?? (talking about hair/clothes styles)<br /><br />At myself, yeah. xD Thu, 23 Dec 2010 01:10:12 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10062532 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10056777 Am I still in the game?<br /><br />Idk, I think that she might just like the attention she is getting from a younger guy such as yourself, as bad as that sounds. Women can get pretty insecure especially as they get older and society begins to tell them that they are no good anymore. She might enjoy flirting, but not really be able... Tue, 21 Dec 2010 22:43:27 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10056777 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10052636 Please help to deal with constant communication my BF has with his x-wife: he always initiates it like looking for excuse to keep in touch<br /><br />NYCgirl: Just because of what happens doesn't mean he has to hate her. It means that he didn't feel like he could trust or be with her anymore, sure, and maybe he couldn't feel the same way about her either. Hating another person isn't the only reason to leave someone, and if he really forgave... Tue, 21 Dec 2010 04:16:05 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10052636 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10052616 What would you give to have your first love back in your life?<br /><br />Ehh...I guess I have two first loves (I'm not really sure which was first, is all)...They are both in my lives as friends and nothing more, and that is how I like it. Tue, 21 Dec 2010 04:11:17 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10052616 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10052577 Is it love when?<br /><br />Oh, sure, it's love. It's also obsession, and unhealthy. I would know. X/ It's ok to love someone and want to make them happy, but you need to care for yourself and make YOU happy or you will be crushed in this world! Tue, 21 Dec 2010 03:48:11 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10052577 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10052543 Was my boyfriend right to break up with me?<br /><br />Try not to think of it as a wrong/right situation. You guys both made mistakes, and both of you guys' feelings are understandable. He broke your trust, then did so further by lying about it. If they were in fact arguments, he should have told you about it to be open and honest with you. But then,... Tue, 21 Dec 2010 03:27:38 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10052543 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10052502 i need help my bf isnt replyin 2 my txt or calls n my mum spoke 2 him idk what 2 do whether 2 ask mum wat she said or ask him wats wrong?<br /><br />I think if he's not answering you you might not be able to get an answer out of him, so what I would do would be ask my mom so I at least have an idea what's up and a better idea of how to approach the situation with my boyfriend. Tue, 21 Dec 2010 03:06:30 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10052502 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10052499 Ladies do ou always wear bra around your house during the day or do you not bothe and let gravity take is course?<br /><br />I usually wear a bra, but I take it off when it gets uncomfortable for a little while (not very often). But I have pretty big boobs, so I kind of need to and it's more often uncomfortable NOT to wear one. I wish I didn't have to always, oh well. Plus I just lost a lot of weight so if I don't they... Tue, 21 Dec 2010 03:03:17 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10052499 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10041426 Is it common for girls to send naked photos of themselves to boyfriends? What do you do when you break up?<br /><br />Ehh, it's common. I know because I know guys with collections of them that trade them like pokemon cards. I send my boyfriend pics all the time, I started because I moved across the country to set up a home for us so he can come up here. We miss eachother and we miss having sex so I send him... Sun, 19 Dec 2010 00:20:44 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10041426 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10038554 My girlfriend wants me to be dominate in the bedroom. Can anyone help me tell me what type of thing I should say and do.<br /><br />The other answers are good. Also teasing her is fun, try to make her beg and keep sort of an aloof or dominant air while you do it Sat, 18 Dec 2010 12:31:46 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10038554 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10016366 when, where, and who did you lose your virginity to?<br /><br />On the roof of a 14-story subsidized housing building in Brooklyn, with my boyfriend at the time. The ground was covered in gravel, we had downed a couple wine coolers, and I was bent over leaning against a pipe, doing it doggystyle, feeling rather bored. Classy! (We had tried to do it once... Tue, 14 Dec 2010 05:59:11 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10016366 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10016354 i'm really confused ok there's this guy and i dont know what to do about him....<br /><br />Well..I know it's hard to hear now but honestly he sounds like someone you don't want to bother mixing yourself with. You don't want to be all up in that big chaotic spaghetti mess of drama, do you? Unless you're into that kind of thing...It sounds like further heartbreak waiting to happen, and... Tue, 14 Dec 2010 05:56:02 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10016354 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10016340 Is it noble to sacrifice oneself to prove their love for someone??<br /><br />Only if someone's life is in danger AND your death actually helps them live rather than being futile bullshit. Tue, 14 Dec 2010 05:49:14 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10016340 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10016339 Ladies - why do you reject nice guys??<br /><br />A lot of guys who consider themselves "nice guys" have their own set of issues...Feeling put upon all the time and bitching about it without actually doing anything to stand up for themselves...feeling like they need a woman to validate their lives...jumping too quickly into the emotional side of... Tue, 14 Dec 2010 05:48:26 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10016339 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9988086 Gals: Do you remember the first time your man came in your mouth? Was it expected? Did you ask him to? Did he ask you? What was it like?<br /><br />I remember. It was my ex bf. I suppose I expected it, but I don't remember if I had warning or not. I do remember that it tasted AWFUL and I almost wanted to gag from the bitterness, but instead I swallowed. Luckily I have since 1. gotten used to the taste and 2. realized that not all guys taste... Wed, 08 Dec 2010 02:45:35 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9988086 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9988072 How many girls are going to masturbate today or tonight. What are u going to use to do it. And what are u going to think about while doingit<br /><br />Either a BDSM story or BDSM pics...thinking about my boyfriend doing those things to me. :P Wed, 08 Dec 2010 02:34:50 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9988072 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9988070 girls is it bad if a guy gets limp dick while trying to have sex while hes drunk???<br /><br />No, it's not bad, it's normal. Unfortunately a lot of women don't realize that, so they may end up taking it personally. Wed, 08 Dec 2010 02:33:56 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9988070 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9988060 Do curvy girls like short guys?<br /><br />I think that depends on the girl. Wed, 08 Dec 2010 02:22:33 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9988060 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9988058 when thinking about a sexual situation I get horney and hard playing with myself, but if I'm actually with someone I can't get it up, WHY?<br /><br />Are you nervous during sex? Sometimes, guys can't get it up because they are too worried about their performance. Wed, 08 Dec 2010 02:22:00 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9988058 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9986828 Are you the type of person who can eat anything and not gain weight?<br /><br />I used to be. But then I was put on a lot of medication and fed a lot of unhealthy food (and maybe hormonal changes had something to do with it too, idk) and gained a bunch of weight...I have been losing weight since then and I am pretty much the weight I was, but I've noticed that it is easier... Tue, 07 Dec 2010 17:44:58 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9986828 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9986819 My boyfriend always asks me what my fantasy is during sex and if I could have him fuck me one way right then, how would I want it?<br /><br />Well if you've told him your fantasy and he is still asking, sounds like he's not asking because he really wants to know. Maybe there is something he's hoping he will hear? Or maybe he just likes you to talk dirty. Next time, try to get HIM to share HIS fantasies (preferrably before he asks you)... Tue, 07 Dec 2010 17:41:37 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9986819 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9986789 Why are woman afraid of a guy that wants a long term relationship? They say they do on paper but run when the "right" guy is right there.<br /><br />Maybe those girls haven't been in a place in their lives right now that they want to get into something that committed. Or maybe they just don't think you're the right guy for them, as much as you say you are. Or maybe they were put off by your "clinginess" as the guy above said, because... Tue, 07 Dec 2010 17:32:28 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9986789 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9984156 PLEASE tell me these answers !<br /><br />Girls have many, many different ways of masturbating. That is just your way. The more you do it the more used to it you get, so if you want to you can try to teach yourself to feel other kinds of touch more just by using them and relaxing and concentrating on the feeling instead of getting off at... Tue, 07 Dec 2010 06:12:48 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9984156 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9984133 first time anal stories<br /><br />First time...lol...I was on a kind of promiscuous streak at the time, and I was hanging out with some guys from my GED class while on break. We drove around and smoked a blunt or two, and then somehow I ended up fucking one (two? I can't really remember. God this sounds bad) in the bathroom of a... Tue, 07 Dec 2010 06:06:12 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9984133 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9984122 Girls... Do you like to throat fuck? In other words do you like when your guy fucks your mouth like a pussy, what is it that you like?<br /><br />Yes I do...Sometimes it is hard for me to get the cock really deep down my throat on my own because of the angle...It helps if he forces it a little and basically fucks my face. I don't have a strong gag reflex and oddly I actually like the feeling of it going down my throat. But I would also... Tue, 07 Dec 2010 06:00:39 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9984122 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9984088 Ladies, do you like the word "pussy" to describe your vagina? Would another word be more appropriate? Is the word vulgar?<br /><br />Honestly I feel like the perfect word doesn't exist. Vagina or Vulva are way to clinical...So I settle for pussy or cunt which I like, but they don't fit for every occasion because sometimes you want a softer less vulgar word, which I have not found one to my liking. Tue, 07 Dec 2010 05:49:28 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9984088 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9984075 What thrill is there in seeing your partner have sexual relations with another? Too many questions touch upon this point. What's happening?<br /><br />I have a fantasy of my boyfriend fucking other women in front of me, or of comparing me to someone/calling me their name during sex. There is an aspect of humiliation or submission to this somehow (I am a sub)..Though I am still trying to pinpoint exactly what it is about this thought that's so... Tue, 07 Dec 2010 05:47:36 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9984075 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9984069 Have you ever been proposed by a stranger for cybersex? What percentage of such propositions have you accepted? Did they turn out well?<br /><br />Somewhere between 50% and 85% maybe? I've gotten propositioned a good number of times and sometimes I have gone through periods of accepting a lot..It's usually when I'm not actually getting laid on the reg though. I do enjoy it and I like to do it with new people to see their style...but I tend... Tue, 07 Dec 2010 05:43:20 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9984069 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9984054 im 23 and i im a good lookin guy and my girl is a lil worried that i like my ass to be played with. girls do u find that attractive?<br /><br />Sometimes I really do want to...I have had guys play with my ass but I have never done that back to them so I get curious. But my boyfriend isn't really interested in that..which is fine I guess because at the same time I don't know if I would know what to do once I was down there, lol. But I... Tue, 07 Dec 2010 05:37:20 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9984054 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9984040 Illegal Relationships..<br /><br />It depends. In some states, you can get the consent of the parents to get around this law. Tue, 07 Dec 2010 05:33:02 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9984040 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9983498 Have you ever been taken away in handcuffs?<br /><br />My boyfriend and I and a friend of ours were arrested for possession of marijuana..they put me in one car and them in the other and drove us on our merry way to jail...lol. It was surprisingly not upsetting, all things considered. Tue, 07 Dec 2010 03:09:02 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9983498 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9983481 im 20. havnt had sex. and i feel reall embarrassed when my friends talk about how they blew their girlfriends brains out.<br /><br />The best advice I can give is to try not to worry about that. I know it can seem like a huge problem and sometimes almost like the center of everything before you've actually had sex, and yes sex is great, but it's not some end-all-be-all that you need to be stressed about. It is an enjoyable... Tue, 07 Dec 2010 03:03:56 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9983481 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9983459 Is it best to work out before or after you eat breakfast in the morning?<br /><br />After, it gives you a chance to burn off some calories before they settle, it gets your digestion going, and it will most likely make you feel more active and ready to take on the day. Tue, 07 Dec 2010 02:56:21 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9983459 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9983430 i dunno what to do, we tried to have sex lolXD<br /><br />I agree, your body could be tensing up because mentally you aren't ready even though you want to be. Also, you may not be in a high enough state of arousal (you get wet, but also your vagina and vulva change shape a little bit). Maybe you should consider oral and outer sex and not worry about... Tue, 07 Dec 2010 02:44:14 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9983430 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9983408 why does this happen during masterbation?<br /><br />There is a stereotype that girls take hours to orgasm, but this isn't true for all women by ANY means. For some girls it takes only a few minutes, like you say, especially when you masturbate because you know exactly how to touch yourself. So yes, it's normal. As far as what it's like..You will... Tue, 07 Dec 2010 02:35:24 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9983408 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9983389 how do you know for sure if your ready to lose your virginity?<br /><br />Let's disregard the virginity factor for a minute. No matter if it's your first time or your hundred-and-first time, if you are having sex with a guy it should be because you WANT to. Not to be nice, not to stop someone from leaving you or being mad at you. It sounds more like you are trying to... Tue, 07 Dec 2010 02:29:59 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9983389 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9983368 Its a relatioship question more inside! Honest answers please!<br /><br />I agree that you should not date your friend. Although he may be a great guy, you just aren't in that place in your life right now it sounds like. And you are one step ahead of the game, because you are self-aware enough to realize that. Honestly, if you tried to force yourself into it because it... Tue, 07 Dec 2010 02:20:45 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9983368 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9983350 When is it considered cheating?<br /><br />You can't ask anyone that who is outside of your relationship, sorry. Cheating is what is "not ok" by the standards of YOUR RELATIONSHIP, and if you're not clear what that is, you and your gf/bf/whatever need to sit down and have a conversation to figure it out. Tue, 07 Dec 2010 02:14:46 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9983350 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9983346 Can I have two serious girlfriends in a healthy relationship?<br /><br />What attracts you about this other woman, exactly? Do you know? Tue, 07 Dec 2010 02:12:34 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9983346 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9983331 Men and boys: What type of underwear do you wear?<br /><br />I answered for my boyfriend. Tue, 07 Dec 2010 02:05:22 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9983331 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9970471 Is it really that offensive to think a well-endowed man could alter the size of a vaginal opening? Isn't that common sense?<br /><br />Not offensive...And yes, it's kind of true. But the vagina is made to stretch a LOT (as in, enough to fit a small human). It will generally shrink back down to its previous size, though it may take a little while. Fri, 03 Dec 2010 23:27:20 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9970471 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9970468 i have bumps on the Labia Majora they are not swollen nor do they itch.. any suggestions?<br /><br />Go schedule an appointment with a gynecologist if you're worried about your genitals. Only they can look and really give you a medical opinion, even if it is (maybe, maybe not, idk how you feel about it) embarrassing. It certainly couldn't hurt. Fri, 03 Dec 2010 23:25:33 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9970468 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9970443 Does a girl bleed when she has had sexual intercourse at a very young age ,like younger than five yrs old, without even having her period?<br /><br />Uh...Yes...blood during intercourse has nothing to do with periods. It would either have to do with breaking the hymen or tearing of the vagina. But more importantly, why do you need to ask this? A 5 year old should not be having intercourse with anyone.. Fri, 03 Dec 2010 23:14:00 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9970443 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9968565 Is it ok for your boyfriend to jerkoff right next to you and not want your helping hand or mouth??!!<br /><br />Agreed with curiosity, if it is something that really bothers you then it's probably not ok and you should tell him that. Which doesn't mean that he has to let you touch him, or has to not masturbate, but it does mean he can't do it in front of you AND not let you help, because it hurts you. ... Fri, 03 Dec 2010 13:33:26 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9968565 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9968545 Can you respect those who hate you with cause for at least having a reason? Why or why not?<br /><br />Yes. I get angry at people or actions, I don't "hate", but if I have wronged someone I am accountable enough to acknowledge that and respect it, and their feelings about it. Fri, 03 Dec 2010 13:28:10 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9968545 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9968542 How do you feel about touching your partner's sweat? Do you feel differently about it depending on whether it's during sex or exercise?<br /><br />No, it doesn't bother me...My own sweat bothers me more because of how uncomfortable it is on my skin. Not that I'd, like, smear myself all over them trying to mop up the sweat with my body or anything. Fri, 03 Dec 2010 13:26:34 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9968542 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9968533 Would you rather be cheated on, or be always suspicious that your loving and loyal spouse is secretly cheating when s/he's not?<br /><br />Obviously neither would be nice, but I'd rather be cheated on and know it so that I can move on with things. A relationship isn't worth much when there's no trust involved. And I ignored the other poll options. Since they weren't part of the original "either or" situation, and one seems less bad... Fri, 03 Dec 2010 13:24:30 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9968533 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9966574 what can help me pass a piss test by tomorrow evening im 5'7'' and 233 pounds. i only smoked like 4 bowls yesterday but alot this month!<br /><br />You could try buying a detox (online or maybe at a smoke shop)...but you are probably screwed...definitely if you don't use a detox. Hope this wasn't for a probation. Fri, 03 Dec 2010 01:21:10 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9966574 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9966565 If we are theoreticaly free individuals in an open society, should'nt beastiality be legal along with incest as long as it is consensual?<br /><br />How exactly does an animal give consent, when it can't speak? And children are considered too immature and lacking the faculties to give consent. I think this is at least just as true for animals. Fri, 03 Dec 2010 01:16:12 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9966565 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9966554 420 friendly Abers, what is your opinion on people who aren't?<br /><br />I respect their choice not to smoke pot. As long as they afford me the same courtesy, then we're all good. I just see them as any other person who has different preferences than I do. ("Oh, you don't like to go out dancing? I do, but that's cool, we have other things in common that we can share... Fri, 03 Dec 2010 01:10:55 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9966554 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9966546 special brownies..?<br /><br />Nope, it's not bad for you at all. It is a similar high, but it takes longer to hit you and it often feels stronger (though that may be because it's hard to tell how much pot you've eaten, and you can get carried away because you want to eat the food, and because it takes so long some people eat... Fri, 03 Dec 2010 01:07:43 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9966546 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9966543 Is smoking a joint unhealthy?<br /><br />Smoking ANYTHING is unhealthy, no matter what it is. It leaves residue in your lungs, which are just not made to inhale lots of smoke. However, the pot itself is not unhealthy (despite what some anti-drug people will say, there is still no scientific evidence that consuming marijuana is bad for... Fri, 03 Dec 2010 01:05:00 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9966543 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9966537 What is better for my health? A wooden or ceramic/glass chillum ??<br /><br />I'd get glass. It probably won't be harmful to use wood or ceramic, but I am totally sure that glass is a-ok. Also pyrex, which is what a lot of "glass" bowls are made of (it doesn't break nearly as easy). Though I think pyrex is usually used for regular bowls rather than chillums. Fri, 03 Dec 2010 01:00:00 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9966537 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9966529 Seriously, why do guys bounce their dicks on the woman or man they are having sex with? Does it feel good or something? Manly? What is it?<br /><br />I think it started with porn videos as a way to keep the guys hard (because it's pretty difficult to stay hard all that time, make no mistake). It does turn some guys on, not all of them though. I think it is a combination of the feeling (it's a different type of stimulation) and the idea of it... Fri, 03 Dec 2010 00:56:38 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9966529 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9966497 Would you agree that it is easier for women to attract men, Than men to attract women?<br /><br />Yeah, in general I do think so. Idk about keeping the man, but it's easier to attract them. I think maybe men are easier to please, but also there is a certain societal expectation that the man will ultimately make the first move. So women tend to be less willing to do so. Fri, 03 Dec 2010 00:39:37 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9966497 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9966494 Should I let him know how much he hurt me?<br /><br />I disagree with lbhardwaj. You do not owe him an apology. He doesn't owe you one for having feelings for his ex, though maybe he could give you one for using you as a rebound in the first place. But like you said, you don't expect one, you just want him to know how you feel. There's not... Fri, 03 Dec 2010 00:37:47 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9966494 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9966484 Is being faithful to your girlfriend or wife makes a man a weakling?<br /><br />I second jgeeky. Indeed, it seems to me that a man who cannot practice restraint or self-control (yes, we are all sometimes attracted to other people, but that doesn't mean we should act on it, your significant other ought to be more important to you than that little blond down the road, right?)... Fri, 03 Dec 2010 00:31:31 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9966484 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9966458 I'm the saddest I've ever been, can I get some advice? Need it fast<br /><br />Sit your parents down...Say that you know you are not allowed to date, but that you met someone that you really like (explain the things you did above, that he is kind and respectful) and he wants their permission and approval to date you. Tell them that you understand they want what's best for... Fri, 03 Dec 2010 00:20:46 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9966458 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9966449 Boys and girls how do you give a bj to your boyfriend?<br /><br />While reading this, keep in mind that it is important to be receptive to your partner, pay attention to how he reacts to what you do as you try different things, since different guys will like/dislike different things. One of the main things is to get into it, enjoy yourself, experiment and see... Fri, 03 Dec 2010 00:16:27 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9966449 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9966445 Is a "Snuggie" really a good gift?!<br /><br />Ok, I used to think Snuggies were the dumbest thing ever. Then I went to stay at a friend's house, and they gave me one, and I realized that it was freaking great, lol. I think it could be a good gift, for the right person. Not everyone would want a video game, not everyone would want a snuggie,... Fri, 03 Dec 2010 00:12:03 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9966445 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9965011 I have fat on my inner thighs that I want to get rid of. What excercises have the best results for reducing the fat in the inner thigh area?<br /><br />This is true, you can't spot burn. But you can do cardio exercise to get rid of fat all over (including thighs), and then work on toning your muscles up for definition by doing inner thigh exercises. try doing squats, but with your feet spread wider and turned out to work on inner thighs and... Thu, 02 Dec 2010 15:44:04 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9965011 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9964970 i can only get a erect penis only once..... and im afraid that woman will reject me.... what the hell can i do? woman all about sex?<br /><br />Hey, man, don't worry about that. If you mean that you can only have one orgasm at a time...well, that's actually true for most guys so you're normal. Women don't tend to expect more than one out of guys per go. If you really want to keep going, then take a break for a minute to let yourself... Thu, 02 Dec 2010 15:34:11 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9964970 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9964915 can girls get blow jobs or is that called something else?<br /><br />I think technically a blow job is only for guys and girls get "eaten out", but I've definitely heard plenty of people refer to a girl getting a blow job. It's just sort of similar, so people know what you mean when you say it. Thu, 02 Dec 2010 15:23:04 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9964915 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9964685 My gf told me she had casual sex with her best friend multiple times - "it meant nothing, i love him but not in that way". is this wrong?<br /><br />I don't think it's wrong. I don't think it makes her a slut. I think it makes her someone that's not afraid to do what makes her happy, and I admire how unapologetic she was when she was talking about it. Thu, 02 Dec 2010 14:38:20 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9964685 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9964519 what to do with my bf and his ex?<br /><br />It seems like he's not able to be all there in your relationship because he has some confusion or feelings for his ex. Maybe you should give him some time apart to work this out and decide if he really wants you and if he is ready to have you. Thu, 02 Dec 2010 13:55:15 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9964519 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9964369 Is dancing is a vertical expression of a horizontal desire?<br /><br />Sometimes. It depends on the dance...People dance for a lot of reasons. Sometimes it is about sexual desire, but others it is about expressing joy, about having fun, about celebration or worship or meditation, about health, about expressing and seeing beauty in sense that is not necessarily... Thu, 02 Dec 2010 13:13:19 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9964369 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9942948 Do you think it is possible to be in love 2 people at the same time?<br /><br />I think one of the saddest assumptions in today's society is that love is a limited thing...That it is not an abundant, unlimited resource that merely grows as it is passed on. Love isn't about being in a monogamous relationship, it's about accepting and enjoying another person for who they are,... Sat, 27 Nov 2010 15:01:35 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9942948 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9942944 Hey, i had a 10 day relationship, she was my first gf and she sorda chased me. Now she dumps me, how do i get her back? i chase her back?<br /><br />Well why did she dump you? Sat, 27 Nov 2010 15:00:04 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9942944 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9932808 How to give a better BJ to my love? Help Please.?<br /><br />This is an answer I wrote for another question, so some of it may or may not apply but I would suggest that you pay attention to the parts that offer alternatives to deepthroating (while deepthroating can be great it's not the only- or even the best- thing you can do to give a good blowjob). I... Wed, 24 Nov 2010 17:17:06 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9932808 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9932799 okay GUYS! my boy freind said dat i need to give him a bj and i want to get better at it any pointers?<br /><br />First, I agree- If you don't WANT to, then DONT! That said? Here is my official BJ advice: One of the main things is to get into it, enjoy yourself, experiment and see what he likes because all guys don't like the same thing. But, just like there are spots that tend to feel good to girls... Wed, 24 Nov 2010 17:15:31 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9932799 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9891647 After ejaculation, is it advisable to leave the semen to dry on its own on an uncut penis? Why do people always clean it away with tissue?<br /><br />Well, when it dries it leaves a disgusting sticky crusty mess. If you're uncut, this can get to be an even bigger problem because the gunk will get trapped under the hood and basically stew there in its own nastiness. Definitely a good idea to keep clean. Sun, 14 Nov 2010 21:22:56 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9891647 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9891633 Guys[married]: the first time[wedding night] you had sex, was it awkward clumsy? And over time does it become more natural.<br /><br />Well, I've never been married, and I haven't waited. BUT, I can say that sex tends to be akward the first time regardless of marital status, and not particularly mind-blowing. Especially, I bet, if BOTH of you are virgins. But it gets better as you get more comfortable with it, it can be great,... Sun, 14 Nov 2010 21:12:23 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9891633 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9891613 Women respond only: you keep yourself looking good for you or your man?<br /><br />A combination of both...I keep myself looking good because it gives me confidence, and that's all that really matters...But there are certain things I will do specifically for my man, as long as I don't feel strongly against them otherwise. Sun, 14 Nov 2010 21:04:51 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9891613 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9887752 If someone cheats and you actually had to see it (literally in the act) can it still be worked out? If so how? How to get the images out?<br /><br />This happened to my BF with his last girl. He dumped her, and he forgave his friend who he'd known since he was a kid and who was about to go to boot camp. This friend has hit on me since he met me, trying to get naked pics and cyber and saying he would want to date me. So he hasn't changed too... Sat, 13 Nov 2010 23:17:51 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9887752 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9875138 What race of girls are #1 (speaking about straight relationships) If none what are each one good at ... I wanna hear from girls n girls only<br /><br />Why would you even ask girls, unless you are specifically asking lesbian/bi/queer girls since they are the only ones that will have had sexual experience with other women? And you specifically said STRAIGHT relationships, so what are ANY women going to know about that, lesbian or otherwise? But... Thu, 11 Nov 2010 01:56:42 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9875138 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9875115 Does it turn you off when a girl has abs?<br /><br />Yeah...Honestly it does. Thu, 11 Nov 2010 01:44:20 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9875115 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9875113 You check your ex-boyfriend/girlfriend's Facebook page?<br /><br />Well, maybe once in a blue moon I will look one up...Not out of nostalgia, but more like, "Damn, I'm glad I'm not in THAT anymore!" Thu, 11 Nov 2010 01:42:50 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9875113 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9875058 giving good blow jobs?<br /><br />This is an answer I wrote for another question, so some of it may or may not apply but I would suggest that you pay attention to the parts that offer alternatives to deepthroating (while deepthroating can be great it's not the only- or even the best- thing you can do to give a good blowjob). I... Thu, 11 Nov 2010 01:08:32 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9875058