http://www.answerbag.com/profile/86002 New Answerbag answers from Ullyses Wed, 30 May 2012 06:27:12 -0700 Wed, 30 May 2012 06:27:12 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3551059 Have you ever had a threesome? If so, what was it like?<br /><br />I disagree fundamentally with Wickels, though I respect her point of view. For me sex is not just sex, but an emotional bonding that is one of the cornerstones of a relationship. If I were to have a threesome I would have to be emotionally attached to that person - male or female - and so... Tue, 22 Jul 2008 14:34:09 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3551059 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3550980 I want to give my husband oral sex, but he says he doesn't like it. Before being married to him I had done that with boyfriends and they loved it. How can I convince my husband to let me? He is really uncomfortable with it.<br /><br />The truth is that if he&#039;s uncomfortable with it then you shouldn&#039;t push him all the time. It&#039;s a reversal of when a man having sex with a woman becomes rape. If he doesn&#039;t want it and has made that plain then it&#039;s wrong for you to pursue it so passionately. That said,... Tue, 22 Jul 2008 14:25:33 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3550980 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3550906 If a girl have only anal sex and she is virgin is there any chances of getting pregnant?<br /><br />Other than the extremely slim chance of sperm dripping across your vagina and some getting in there is basically no chance of becoming pregnant this way. However! If you are practising anal sex you must be very aware of the health issues involved. Hygeine is extremely important and STDs,... Tue, 22 Jul 2008 14:17:58 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3550906 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1093887 If you had a chance to spend one more day with someone close to you that had died, who would it be and what would you do?<br /><br />Thank you very much Mental Mum. The pain never goes away, but you learn to live with it and stop second-guessing what might have helped change things. Someone once said &quot;You have to live for the living, and not for the dead&quot;, and I have two other sons and a daughter. Because I know how... Tue, 17 Jul 2007 15:41:17 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1093887 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/835481 I'm a 20 year old female with a 1 year old daughter...is it wrong that the only type of relationship that I want is a monogumus sexual one? I dont want someone always around me...telling me how to raise my kid and what to do with my life.<br /><br />I may have the wrong end of the stick here, but what you seem to be asking for is to have &quot;sex on a stick&quot;, whenever you feel like it, but without making a commitment. While I know you have made a commitment to your daughter, I would question what message you are sending to her. If you... Mon, 07 May 2007 07:37:07 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/835481 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/835449 I am a 23 yo single mom to an infant & just started dating a guy who is 24 years old (47yo). He has a 10 yo & 17 yo. My mom doesn't approve. Is this age difference too much? Will we not have enough in common for it to last? We like each other a lot.<br /><br />Age is not the most important thing in a relationship. If there&#039;s something about him you find special, then he may be the one for you, so why not give it a go. The only &#039;but&#039; I&#039;d add is this. Remember that age difference can cause pain and sorrow in later life. When... Mon, 07 May 2007 07:23:19 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/835449 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/828255 What one thing you would include on a scavenger hunt list?<br /><br />A favourite of mine from our last Hunt was to get a car registration plate (with the permission of the owner. We were awarded points according to how personalised or unusual the plate was - so garage plates were hardly worth anything, but the team that secured the plate &quot;VAT 45&quot; were... Sat, 05 May 2007 03:19:11 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/828255 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/790659 Can re-establish trust after repeated cheating (years ago) and (now) watching porn (alot) and sneaking to do it? Would that nagging doubt ever go away?<br /><br />I was once told that the secret of a successful marriage is to have an extremely short and selective memory. If you will always remember what has happened in the past then you will colour every future judgement with that. In that case you will always have your nagging doubt. If, however, you... Thu, 26 Apr 2007 06:45:02 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/790659 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/790630 I think i am adicted to internet porn...My husband has been working long hours and i find myself looking at pics and masterbating ...is this normal?<br /><br />You&#039;re likely to get two polarised answers to this. My opinion is that it isn&#039;t a problem as long as you don&#039;t let it interfere with what togetherness your husband and you have. Looking at some of these pictures may even give you ideas of new things to try. You need to be aware... Thu, 26 Apr 2007 06:32:54 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/790630 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/785767 What makes the wet spot<br /><br />When you have sex, or make love, the female genitals usually generate lubrication, and this, mixed with male ejaculatory fluid and sperm, can overflow the vagina and drip between your buttocks and onto the bed, causing a wet spot. Wed, 25 Apr 2007 07:14:02 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/785767 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/785760 Why are men so excited at the idea of a woman putting their balls in her mouth<br /><br />A man&#039;s testicles are well protected by the body. If body heat increases then they descend to remain at as constant a temperature as possible. If it&#039;s cold they snuggle closer to the body. There are also many nerve endings around the testicular area to allow them this extra feeling, so... Wed, 25 Apr 2007 07:11:19 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/785760 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/785738 Do men care "who" they have sex with or just that they "have sex?" Is it at all exclusive for them.<br /><br />I&#039;ve had a look at some of the questions you&#039;ve been asking, alien(inastrangeland). I think you are having big relationship problems. Whatever advice you might glean from here will not stop the fact that you need to get professional relationship counselling (or more likely your partner... Wed, 25 Apr 2007 07:03:03 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/785738 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/785695 When a man looks at a lot of porn does he begin to find his partner less attractive when it comes to sex, since love and sex do not necessarily go together in a man's mind?<br /><br />I don&#039;t see why a man would find his partner less attractive through watching lots of porn. My partner and I occasionally watch a film together, and have been variously amazed, revolted, tickled and inquisitive about the acts depicted. There are acts we agree that we do not want to try, and... Wed, 25 Apr 2007 06:41:45 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/785695 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/785140 Ok, how do i put this?on my pubic hair there is this wierd substance?(its like growing on the pubic hair hoenstly idk what it is, and im not sexually active,well not down there. any ideas?im kinda scared<br /><br />I can&#039;t help you with the information given. It&#039;s very evocative, but not very descriptive. I&#039;m going to make a stab of a guess, and decide that you&#039;re female (from when you say you&#039;re not sexually active &quot;down there&quot;). I&#039;ll stop short of asking for a... Wed, 25 Apr 2007 01:51:08 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/785140 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/785120 What's the nicest/funniest thing a person has ever said to you?<br /><br />As this is in adult, I&#039;ll go with the adult theme (otherwise the question would be better asked elsewhere). The nicest thing was my now wife, when we first met. The first time we had sex she gasped and told me I was too big for her. Luckily, with patience and some lubrication, she was... Wed, 25 Apr 2007 01:39:22 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/785120 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/785103 Why do men defend their actions with "we are made that way" then get so angry when they are told they're acting like they're always on the hunt for sex all the time?<br /><br />My morals are probably different from yours. I don&#039;t see wanting sex as being a &quot;hunt&quot;, and would get wound up at the picture that produces, almost like a poor woman fleeing some sex-crazed maniac. Men think about sex a lot - it has been said that the average male thinks about sex... Wed, 25 Apr 2007 01:21:46 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/785103 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/781324 Any suggestions for a 'sustainable way of life that doesn't depend on fossil fuels'?<br /><br />Starting from the point we&#039;re presently at, I&#039;m not sure if we can be sustainable without some culling. There are too many people living, and I don&#039;t intend offering myself as a sacrifice. Of course, we managed for millenia without recourse to fossil fuels, so we could maybe... Tue, 24 Apr 2007 08:17:55 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/781324 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/763769 What is the best book you've ever read and why.<br /><br />For me the best Sci-Fi would be Isaac Asimov&#039;s Robot/Empire/Foundation series, rather than a single book. Likewise A Series Of Unfortunate Events by Lemony Snickett is the best childrens&#039; series I know. The most interesting book I have probably read, though, would be The Master And... Fri, 20 Apr 2007 01:26:58 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/763769 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/749844 Does jerking off a lot make you cum faster when you have sex?<br /><br />The answer could be Yes, or No. No, because you are desensitising the nerve endings by masturbating so often, so you are less likely to have physical stimulation. Also you have spilled most of your seed, leaving relatively little for orgasm during sex. Yes, because sex is mostly in the... Tue, 17 Apr 2007 06:45:14 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/749844 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/749829 Is it possible to not have an orgasam at all. i have fingured myself plenty of time and it seems almost impossible!<br /><br />Yes, it&#039;s quite possible to not have an orgasm. There are two things that help, or hinder, masturbatory or sexual pleasure - how many nerve endings you have around your genital area (How sensitive you are), and your brain (what thoughts you are having). If you have relatively few nerve... Tue, 17 Apr 2007 06:36:32 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/749829 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/744648 I have been married for 5 months and with my husband for 3 years but i am running out of sexual techniques any advice or new techniques for me to try?<br /><br />You can take or leave my advice as you choose, but I think you are perhaps trying too hard. Occasionally doing something a bit different is good, and it helps to keep love-making exciting, but trying to always do different things gets quite tedious in itself. If your partner doesn&#039;t know... Mon, 16 Apr 2007 07:14:25 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/744648 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/744551 What embarrasses you the most?<br /><br />Not much, but mostly because I don&#039;t put myself in situations where I am likely to be embarassed. Things I can think of that might be embarassing (in an adult context) is being defacated on, being urinated on, having a public circumcision, and being made to eat and/or drink body waste.... Mon, 16 Apr 2007 06:31:25 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/744551 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/744529 I was having sex with a guy and he peed in me, yes I know gross, but what should I do?<br /><br />If he peed in you without asking and you don&#039;t like that sort of thing, then you should dump him and move on. Some people enjoy peeing in, or on each other, and have &quot;golden showers&quot; and drink urine. It is a fetish similar to other fetishes. If you don&#039;t like that fetish,... Mon, 16 Apr 2007 06:19:21 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/744529 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/629763 Does it make you sad when you get a negative point for a well thought out answer?<br /><br />To my mind I always write godd and well thought out answers. Of course it depends on my mood as to how I actually answer a question, but there are very few that I would change significantly when revisiting them. If somebody isn&#039;t happy with the way I have answered a question, or simply... Thu, 05 Apr 2007 03:12:34 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/629763 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/625859 Has Answerbag lost its touch with this new layout? Im sure its cost them some fans.<br /><br />Joel and the team are not deaf to suggestions. They take people&#039;s comments on board and try to make the site the best that it can be. If some people have decided to walk, rather than communicate, then they were probably suffering from AB fatigue, or were looking for an excuse to leave and... Wed, 04 Apr 2007 05:52:19 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/625859 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/625679 Why is it called "the" Ukraine?<br /><br />This is purely a Western European construct, as there are no articles in the Russian or Ukrainian languages. Ukrainian people refer to Ukraine as YKPANHA (with the N the other way round), pronounced OOKRA-EENA. There is no &quot;the&quot;. Wed, 04 Apr 2007 04:32:33 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/625679 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/625667 My boyfriends likes rough animalistic sex which is how it is most often but I don't enjoy it much, I prefer it slow & romantic. Sometimes it starts off like the latter but turns into the former. How do I get him to keep it slow without saying anything?<br /><br />I&#039;d say you can&#039;t change how he acts without talking to him. Of course there are ways you can help him to understand. One possible way is to start slow and romantic and tell him at that point how much you love it when he is slow and caring, and make a point of having a really strong... Wed, 04 Apr 2007 04:21:21 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/625667 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/625652 If i use a massage device to masturbate will i really go crazy,lose my mind,any bad side effects mentally?<br /><br />I&#039;d like to know who told you this nonsense. It&#039;s like being told that if you play a particular (usually rock) song backwards at a particular speed then you can hear the devil telling you to do something bad. These are what we call &quot;Urban legends&quot;, or &quot;Urban... Wed, 04 Apr 2007 04:08:14 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/625652 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/625635 What is the difference between protocols and rules in a D/s relationship?<br /><br />Put at its most simple, rules are what you can or can&#039;t do, and protocols are how you do those things. The rule might be that you are allowed to beg for food, and the protocol is that you always start with the words &quot;Mistress, dear mistress....&quot; Wed, 04 Apr 2007 03:52:38 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/625635 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/625631 Where do you draw the line between making love and f*cking? (excuse the expletive)<br /><br />I would define fucking as addressing a purely physical need, in either one or both partners, while making love fulfils an emotional/spiritual need as well. There are times when my wife and/or I just need a good fuck, and others when we fully engage in the emotion of intercourse. That&#039;s... Wed, 04 Apr 2007 03:47:58 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/625631 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/625626 Are there any woman who don't like their guy to ejaculate inside of them? Any guys who don't mind pulling out? I don't mean to interrupt his pleasure, but I hate having it leak out of me for HOURS after. It's starting to affect my enjoyment of sex. . .<br /><br />I don&#039;t mind pulling out to ejaculate. I&#039;m not guaranteeing this will work for you, but my wife devised a plan to allow me to understand. After sex she would put on lovely knickers, and then she would place them on my pillow the next day, with a note asking me to wash them as it was my... Wed, 04 Apr 2007 03:42:51 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/625626 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/625618 My boyfriend and I have sex a lot. Well I have been having vaginal burning and pain after intercourse. And dryness and pain during the second or third time during the day. I had a bladder infection that was treated but i am afraid its the pill..help?<br /><br />It may be the pill, as there are quite a few side-effects associated with different contraceptives, including erosion of the cervix with prolonged use. It may just be that your hormones are naturally finding a different rhythm and this is leaving you drier. Of course without more info, such as... Wed, 04 Apr 2007 03:36:28 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/625618 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/625543 Who masturbates<br /><br />Almost everyone who has achieved puberty. It&#039;s a natural act and, as long as you don&#039;t become addicted to it, it is actually healthy for your body - both for men and women. Wed, 04 Apr 2007 02:35:29 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/625543 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/625535 What not to say after your wife has a baby?<br /><br />That wasn&#039;t really sore at all - I&#039;ve been through more pain when I stubbed my toe. He doesn&#039;t LOOK like me! I met this charming couple of guys, honey, and they&#039;ve agreed to video these moments. Meet Kurt and Gunther. They say they make blue movies. Wed, 04 Apr 2007 02:28:45 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/625535 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/605119 Can you ever recover from a broken heart?<br /><br />Yes. The broken heart is when you feel like your genitals have been ripped out through your body, and there&#039;s an ache that won&#039;t go away in your breast. By contrast, I found love again, and I can only try to describe it. With my first look at this woman my heart swelled and felt like... Fri, 30 Mar 2007 07:07:43 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/605119 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/604569 Are the NAVY SEALS the best out of all the millatary<br /><br />http://www.strategypage.com/dls/articles/2005731213321.asp As discussed, the answer depends on how you define &quot;best&quot;. The articles picks out the SAS, but it also states that the SBS are the elite form of the SAS. For me the general failing with US special ops units is that they are... Fri, 30 Mar 2007 02:45:06 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/604569 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/601159 How do i heal the wound in my heart after meeting my husband of which we have been married for 12 years in bed with a lady who is 20 years and he 1s 40.We have 4 kids and he says that he loves me more than anything else is it because of bear as he says.<br /><br />You have major issues. You also won&#039;t like what I&#039;m going to say to you. Before you can expect someone else to love you, you have to love yourself. Your grammar is terrible, and appears symptomatic of a regular under-achiever. I think you have done nothing with your life, you&#039;ve... Thu, 29 Mar 2007 10:14:42 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/601159 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/600655 If a boy (10-15) masturbates;how many time does it takes for the semen to come out<br /><br />Firstly, I think you&#039;re too young to be on this part of the site, and I&#039;ve noticed &#039;age creep&#039; on here lately. There&#039;s an age verification process you&#039;re meant to be honest about. Now, because you&#039;ve asked the question I&#039;ll give an answer. When a boy... Thu, 29 Mar 2007 08:00:45 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/600655 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/600339 In the last month, several "superbaggers" have left AB. They seem to be predominantly adults. That may be irrelevant. They have found the discourse "disappointing." Any theories on why the exodus? Has AB become "insensitive or hurful" to you?<br /><br />I&#039;m taking the opposite stance to stableboy, and his dog. I have periods when my workload is too great, and I can&#039;t get time to read through all the questions to find those that appeal to me. Very subjectively, I have found less good questions lately, and it appears that the apocryphal... Thu, 29 Mar 2007 06:04:18 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/600339 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/599951 When was the last time you had sex?<br /><br />Tues, 27 Mar. In bed with my wife. Numerous positions (but I&#039;d been away for a couple of days, so we were happy to see each other). Thu, 29 Mar 2007 01:35:39 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/599951 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/599917 How girl musturbate<br /><br />There are two areas of the female genitals that generally have a plethora of nerve endings - the clitoris on the outside, and the &#039;g&#039; spot on the inside. stimulation of these areas will usually lead to orgasm. stimulation is normally achieved by rubbing or vibrating the areas. Some... Thu, 29 Mar 2007 01:08:33 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/599917 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/599903 This guy in my class has been harassing me for a years now. every time i confront him with the truth, he denies doing it. any advice?<br /><br />Here&#039;s a slightly different perspective on the situation, based on experience. It could easily be the case that this guy is autistic to some degree. Many people at the near end of the Autism spectrum function perfectly well in society, but have certain behavioural issues. One of these is... Thu, 29 Mar 2007 00:58:18 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/599903 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/595011 Is there a birth control for men<br /><br />Yes, it&#039;s called a condom! There is a male pill, but I don&#039;t know how effective it is. Wed, 28 Mar 2007 06:51:09 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/595011 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/595002 How often can one masturbate in a month or in a day. secondly what are the risks of contracting any diseseas<br /><br />The answer, quite frankly, is unquantifiable. One person may masturbate once, but for 20 hours, and still not reach orgasm, while another might masturbate regularly three times a day and orgasm each time. Basically you can feel free to masturbate as often as you like. The main problems tend to... Wed, 28 Mar 2007 06:46:42 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/595002 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/561091 What word would you put in the AB dictionary? (Please include definition.)<br /><br />Footword - the changing word in the phrase &quot;... Upstart of Demand Media&quot;. Im sure it goes unnoticed by most of the &#039;Baggers, but I like to see what new adjectives are found. Thu, 22 Mar 2007 08:00:37 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/561091 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/560691 In 50 words or less, tell me your story.<br /><br />Born, educated, my teacher war right - &quot;could do better&quot;. One failed marriage, but three beautiful children. Then &quot;SMACK&quot;! Bowled over by a beauty. Now a step-dad. Life is great, and I&#039;ve done better after all. Thu, 22 Mar 2007 05:39:16 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/560691 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/560677 Would you have sex on top of your car?<br /><br />I would, and I have, at least on top of the bonnet. In the winter, in the dark, a warm engine is very welcome. Thu, 22 Mar 2007 05:35:44 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/560677 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/560377 How do you know when your having a orgasm?<br /><br />I have no idea if you are male or female, so I will assume you are female for reasons that will become clear. If you are a male your orgasm is usually accompanied by an ejaculation of sperm and other fluid. If you are a female then you may find a fluid discharge, occasionally at great... Thu, 22 Mar 2007 03:27:47 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/560377 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/560356 (1) What is virginity? 2 What is the gain of losing your virginty during an unprotected sex? 3 What is the diagram of a female like before and after losing her virginity.4 Do you think there is hundred (100) percent assurance that you are not HIV positive<br /><br />I&#039;ll assume you&#039;re old enough to hear this. 1 Virginity is when a person has not has full penetrative sexual intercourse (the penis has not entered the vaginal passage. 2 Humans are the only animals that use any form of protection to have sex for other reasons than procreation.... Thu, 22 Mar 2007 03:14:42 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/560356 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/560338 Are there any free porno films on the internet?<br /><br />Yes, there are loads of places to get free porno. Usually the films are split up so you need a joiner of some sort to watch them in any kind of sequence. As spunts said, though, I don&#039;t know how old you are, so I&#039;m not going to point you in the direction of free films - I&#039;ll let... Thu, 22 Mar 2007 03:04:13 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/560338 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/560326 How do you break a women's cherry?<br /><br />The expression is &quot;to pop her cherry&quot;. It refers to the hymen - a small stretch of muscle that may, or may not, already be broken through other activities (such as gymnastics, horseriding, etc.) If it is still intact when the woman first has sex (sometimes called deflowering) then the... Thu, 22 Mar 2007 02:58:17 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/560326 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/555177 Why do people have anal sex?<br /><br />Hi Violet. Judging by your username (and I may be wrong) I don&#039;t think you are old enough to ride the ride. However, you have asked the question so I&#039;ll try to answer it to the best of my knowledge (that being better than ignorance). I&#039;m a man, so I don&#039;t know how sex... Wed, 21 Mar 2007 08:23:09 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/555177 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/555111 Describe your most pleasurable sex you've had?<br /><br />I&#039;m not going to ramble for the pleasure of any perverts who enjoy reading erotic stories - there are plenty of sites for them elsewhere. My most pleasurable sex was on the second day with the lady who is now my wife. I met her online, and we exchanged emails for some months before... Wed, 21 Mar 2007 08:05:37 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/555111 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/555061 For the past one year I have not had sex. Is it harmful not to have sex? My husband does not come near me. Meanwhile so many admire me outside. They tell me that I am a very beautiful woman. I dont know why my husband does not see the beauty in me.<br /><br />As per my other answer, you are in a very depressed state, and I think you are in a situation you desperately need to get out of. Assuming that you haven&#039;t changed too much from your wedding day, I think that something has maybe gone wrong in your husband&#039;s head. I knew a quite... Wed, 21 Mar 2007 07:53:27 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/555061 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/554929 I have a very serious problem. Since I married my husband, he has been destroying my image, telling lies against me even if there is no querrel between us. I dont know what to do? I have four kids for him. He is denying paternity of my 3rd child.Advise me<br /><br />Please note the general disclaimer that answers are only individuals&#039; opinions. To my way of thinking you have a serious decision to make, and it has the potential to change your entire world. By the sound of it your husband is some kind of power freak. He is domineering and can only feel... Wed, 21 Mar 2007 07:23:04 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/554929 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/554545 My hubby loves anal sex.. ie he wants it done to him. He has many toys and some are huge! The other night I put my finger in his anus and I realized that it felt like a vagina.He has no bowel control problem now, but will he, someday?<br /><br />Your analogy to a vagina isn&#039;t too far from the truth. The circular muscle there is called a sphincter, and it works by contracting to close and relaxing to open. Like a vagina, if you are holding it open for periods of time and not exercising the muscle area as part of your daily routine... Wed, 21 Mar 2007 05:34:56 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/554545 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/554522 Is your portrayed personality on answerbag an accurate reflection of your personality in real life?<br /><br />I like to think so. &quot;Above all else, to thine own self be true&quot;, reflects how I feel about being part of AB. With me, what you read is what you get. Shakespeare also wrote &quot;Oh what a complex web we weave when first we practise to deceive&quot;, and those who hide their... Wed, 21 Mar 2007 05:25:10 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/554522 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/554430 Should guys dominate sex?<br /><br />Whatever floats your boat. As long as both, or all, partners consent to the act then there generally isn&#039;t a problem. Some women love to be dominated, while others prefer the role of dominator. There&#039;s no right or wrong answer. Wed, 21 Mar 2007 04:34:36 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/554430 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/554424 Describe your sexual fantasy?<br /><br />This really depends on the mood I&#039;m in. Some of my fantasies actually sicken me at other times. When I explained to my wife some of my wilder thoughts, and how I feel dirtied by them occasionally, she told me that fantasies are just that, and that the reality of any of them wouldn&#039;t be... Wed, 21 Mar 2007 04:31:42 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/554424 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/554418 Who thinks singwell and Pattija dhould be barred from Answerbag?<br /><br />I have no idea what on Earth you&#039;re talking about. Why would they be candidates for being banned? Perhaps they troll, and I just haven&#039;t been hit by them yet? I&#039;ve had a discussion with singwell previously, and he was incalcitrant in his standpoint, but that doesn&#039;t mean he... Wed, 21 Mar 2007 04:26:15 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/554418 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/554408 DO you like to be texted a lot?<br /><br />I&#039;m not sure why this is in Adult, but I&#039;ll answer it from an adult perspective. Like many other people (and all children) I used my mobile phone to excess when I first got it, and got to the stage of almost blow-by-blow accounts of any occurence. Then I realised something. When I... Wed, 21 Mar 2007 04:21:33 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/554408 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/486802 Which is better? "honesty is the best policy" or "better left some words unspoken?" support your answer pls..<br /><br />Honesty. You want supporting evidence - here is my anecdote: When I was quite a bit younger, and with my first wife, my office at work was having a discussion. I said some slightly uncomplimentary things about my wife, in fun, and was unaware of who was listening to our conversation. That... Thu, 08 Mar 2007 06:13:20 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/486802 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/466772 If a married couple has a child should one parent stay home and raise that child?<br /><br />In an ideal world? Yes, it&#039;s so very important for the child to know its family and to bond with them. There are an overwhelming amount of studies showing how much better a child develops with one, or both, parents rearing it. Of course our society is selfish and money-grabbing, so if... Mon, 05 Mar 2007 01:23:11 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/466772 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/463548 I have some cutlery with hallmarks I can't identify. If I read them correctly they may be Swedish and from 1908. Can someone help identify the marks? There is a R in a circle, a gothic D, a gothic A and a fancy S. Any thoughts?<br /><br />Here&#039;s a couple of pics, for what it&#039;s worth. Sun, 04 Mar 2007 07:04:49 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/463548 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/455760 If you were a telepath would you read minds? whose mind would you read?<br /><br />Of course I would read minds - what&#039;s the point of having a talent like that and bottling it up. As to who&#039;s heads I would get into - that&#039;s a different proposition. I&#039;d probably invade a few as I learned to control my powers, but after that I&#039;d use it mostly to check... Fri, 02 Mar 2007 07:30:54 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/455760 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/444909 Who is your favorite American Idol judge?<br /><br />Simon Cowell. He is honest in a way that the American judges seem unable to be. He is also, although, people don&#039;t seem to realise this, the record producer who is giving the contract to the winner, so he has a very vested interest in picking the best of the bunch. Simon started Pop Idol... Tue, 27 Feb 2007 07:46:37 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/444909 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/444888 Does the skin over penis goes back till the end if ur virgin? does it imply on ur first sex i'll bleed profusely? i seek clear answers!<br /><br />I&#039;ll try and give the clear answers you seek. The skin over your penis is called your foreskin. The foreskin should be able to pass, unhindered fully back from your penis to expose the entire head, or glans. A lack of ability to do this is really the only reason for someone to have their... Tue, 27 Feb 2007 07:29:22 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/444888 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/444878 Have you ever touched someone in the wrong place when they were sleeping?<br /><br />I&#039;m not sure what you mean by &quot;The wrong place&quot;. I have woken my wife up, on more than one occasion, because I felt extremely horny and wanted sex with her. She has been very obliging. She has also woken me up previously by arousing my member so she can scratch an itch. Is this... Tue, 27 Feb 2007 07:23:08 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/444878 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/444875 I wonder is there somebody who never been in love?or must all ppl be?<br /><br />No, people don&#039;t necessarily have to be in love. Look at it this way. Some people are genetically predisposed to find others of their own sex attractive. Some people are genetically predisoped to find those of the opposite sex attractive. It naturally follows that some will find both... Tue, 27 Feb 2007 07:19:25 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/444875 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/444864 I only orgasm via the g-spot with my partner both during intercourse and foreplay. but i seem to not be able to orgasm via the clit. as much as he tries...no luck. why is that...what can we try? please help!!<br /><br />First - you don&#039;t need help. Many women are unable to orgasm through stimulation of their clitoris. One reason may be that there aren&#039;t enough nerve endings going to your clitoris to make it sensitive enough to be stimulated to orgasm. An alternative is that you have too many nerve... Tue, 27 Feb 2007 07:13:15 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/444864 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/444837 I've been dating this guy for a month, we have both fallen for each other. he just told me about his secret life of selling weed. hes been doing this for 5 years. am i at risk for trouble? what should i do? i know i should be realistic, help?<br /><br />I&#039;m not sure how the American justice system views accessories to a crime. That, by the way, is what you are. Now please don&#039;t get me wrong, it is unlikely that very bad things would happen to you through the police system. If you are not part of the selling yourself then you really... Tue, 27 Feb 2007 07:00:07 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/444837 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/444713 Which are the sexual fantasies that you have had fulfilled, and which ones remain to be fulfilled<br /><br />I&#039;m sorry to disappoint you in the details. I&#039;m nearly forty and those sexual fantasies that I have had that are practicable, I have fulfilled. Those that disgust me in my saner moments, or are just pure fantasy, have stayed as fantasies and will continue to remain so. I have been quite... Tue, 27 Feb 2007 06:04:22 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/444713 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/430253 What form of energy will we be using in a hundred years?<br /><br />It would be nice to think that we may have cracked how to produce a sustainable fusion reaction. Unlike our present fission recors, which require heavy elements that get split to produce energy (I&#039;m not doing the science bit), and result in bad things like radioactivity, fusion reactions... Fri, 23 Feb 2007 06:33:17 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/430253 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/429750 Do you ever see news reports of accidents etc, and think, "I wonder if that was really an accident, or if some espionage got out of hand?."<br /><br />Yes. For those who live in UK there was the case of the top scientist, Dr David Kelly, who challenged the government over its assertion that that Saddam Hussein had WMD (prior to the Iraq conflict starting). He &quot;committed suicide&quot; by allegedly cutting his own throat then slashing both... Fri, 23 Feb 2007 01:30:23 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/429750 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/429677 My long time girlfriend & I have reached a point in our lives where we have decided to go separate ways .. but remaing friends .. I am an extremely positive person .. & I am not very upset as some would think .. do you think this is a bad outlook or not?<br /><br />Your question is about your outlook. I think that having a Positive Mental Attitude is usually a good thing. Finding the good in a situation can help you, and those around you, tremendously. If you have been lucky enough to notice that things are not as you both would like them and to do... Fri, 23 Feb 2007 00:42:46 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/429677 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/425767 Once I was rubbing my clitoris and then i became like really hot and stuff.... did i have an orgasm or something?<br /><br />I think you are still quite young, and probably shouldn&#039;t be on this part of the site, but as you have asked the question I will try to answer for you. When you rub your clitoris, or other parts of your genitals, you can get aroused. This is when you start to feel quite hot and your... Thu, 22 Feb 2007 06:34:58 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/425767 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/425744 Did the holocaust really happen?<br /><br />I await the negative points and comments on my views. Yes the holocaust happened. It happened, but it happened over 60 years ago. There is a need to let go of this tragedy. It is now history and should not affect our present day as much as it seems to. To give a parallel, I am part of the... Thu, 22 Feb 2007 06:27:49 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/425744 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/425713 Which is the best place online to find women for flings or satisfying fetishes?<br /><br />What seems to be the most popular are Adultfriendfinder.com or, for your fetishes, Alt.com There are many other sites that may, or may not, be helpful in searching out your particular fetish, but the two I mentioned are large enough to have a reputation they wish to keep. Smaller sites may not... Thu, 22 Feb 2007 06:17:19 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/425713 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/425697 What is the most common religion?<br /><br />With over 2 billion people worshipping in their various sects, Christianity is the most common religion, followed by the various areas of Islam (1.3 billion). What&#039;s interesting to me is that the third largest segment of the populace is either fervently UNreligious or undecided. Here&#039;s... Thu, 22 Feb 2007 06:13:44 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/425697 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/416971 When you go on a job interview and the interviewer tells you to tell him about yourself, what do you say?<br /><br />When an interviewer says this, they are actually giving you a chance to sell yourself and to show you have done some research on the company. You will be expected to give a brief synopsis of your life so far, highlighting areas that could be considered strengths in the position for which you... Tue, 20 Feb 2007 07:18:51 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/416971 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/416480 How much money do you spend on your mobile phone every month?<br /><br />I am shocked! I bought &pound;10 worth of credit on 22 July last year. I have just looked at my credit, and I only have &pound;2.71 left. It&#039;s scandalous! Tue, 20 Feb 2007 01:23:16 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/416480 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/412204 I hear that doctors didn`t advise to put powder after nappy changing and they prefer lotion..is that true and why?<br /><br />http://www.preventcancer.com/consumers/cosmetics/talc.htm http://www.ivillage.co.uk/pregnancyandbaby/baby/babyhealth/qas/0,,30_157313,00.html An interesting link for you. I don&#039;t stand by its efficacy, but it may answer your question. I have not yet contracted cancer, and I was dosed... Mon, 19 Feb 2007 07:15:32 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/412204 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/412131 How did you choose your Answerbag name (assuming its not actually your name, that is!)?<br /><br />This question&#039;s been asked before. My name is Ullyses - deliberately the incorrect of Ulysses, the hero of myth. Ulysses upset the Gods and was cursed to not reach his home for 10 years after his part in the sacking of Troy. He wandered in the wilderness for ten years before coming back... Mon, 19 Feb 2007 06:52:10 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/412131 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/412077 If you were kidnapped with a group of strangers with you on a bus and woke up being told that you must all kill each other and there can only be one survivor within three days or you all die would you do it or would you try to retaliate?<br /><br />Very &quot;SAW&quot;like. If I assume the parts of your scenario that you haven&#039;t put in the question then my answer would go something like this: In the days of the Romans, gladiatorial games were held, often with several people fighting each other until only one remained. The ones who... Mon, 19 Feb 2007 06:25:36 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/412077 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/412050 If someone responds to a question with a humorous answer, when is it appropriate to give not helpfull points?<br /><br />At the end of the day you must make this decision yourself. My suggestion would be that if it fills the brief - i.e. it answers your question - then it is either to be left alone or uprated. If it is humorous, and makes you laugh, then it is probably also worth uprating. If it is malicious or... Mon, 19 Feb 2007 06:12:27 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/412050 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/412035 My wife says she wants more control of the decisions in our house hold, but then nothing gets done. what should I do?<br /><br />I think you have uncloaked yourself by using the word &quot;control&quot;. That&#039;s what this is all about. You have been in control, and feel that you are the best person to make all the decisions. It is a form of dictatorship. Your wife wants to be included in the decision-making process,... Mon, 19 Feb 2007 06:03:39 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/412035 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/412019 Can an email be stopped or delayed during transmission from sender to receiver?<br /><br />Yes. Your e-mail is not sent directly from your computer to the recipient&#039;s computer. It goes, as a minimum, through the server of your internet service provider and the server of the recipient&#039;s ISP. At either, or both, of these servers it may be flagged up as a possible junk e-mail or... Mon, 19 Feb 2007 05:54:59 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/412019 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/411918 What do you think is more important... quality or longevity of life?<br /><br />I have to say that as I grow older my answer is slowly changing. I have had reasonable quality of life so far. I&#039;ve done things in my time that not everyone gets a chance to do. I&#039;ve had ups and downs. And I&#039;m not yet 40. When I was much younger I couldn&#039;t comprehend the... Mon, 19 Feb 2007 04:30:56 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/411918 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/390867 Will it be a good idea to have “auto refresh” feature for the AB home page?<br /><br />I actually don&#039;t think so, although I understand where you might be coming from. When I was a little younger I was a member of a couple of chat rooms, and found the main chat room forums to be most annoying - usually because the refresh rate meant you would be halfway through a sentence... Wed, 14 Feb 2007 07:47:58 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/390867 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/390360 Are you able to get over the loss of someone dear to you. If so, how?<br /><br />If someone is very close to you then you never get over it completely, but time does eventually dull the pain. It&#039;s just over 12 years since I lost my son. I went through all the different emotions, from burying my head in the sand to unconsolable despair. After a time I was able to talk... Wed, 14 Feb 2007 04:24:06 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/390360 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/486068 What is a MUD?<br /><br />MUD - Multi User Dungeon. This is a term used to describe a genre of (usually) online games where many individuals access a core server from their own terminals and interact with each other. This does not preclude the use of computer interaction, but means that true friendships or enmities can be... Mon, 12 Feb 2007 03:43:43 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/486068 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/485872 What is a lucidity?<br /><br />Clarity. Conciseness. Straightforwardness. Wed, 31 Jan 2007 07:54:41 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/485872 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/486025 What is a Orgasm?<br /><br />Orgasm is the point of ejaculation, in both men and women. Many women don&#039;t realise they are ejaculating, as they tend to have very little fluid displacement, but some get very wet. Men know they have ejaculated because they ejaculate semen within their fluid. Like women, though, different... Thu, 18 Jan 2007 06:19:26 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/486025 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/486027 What are Clitoris?<br /><br />The clitoris is the (sometimes) small nobbly bit found near the front of the labial lips. It is similar to the head of a penis, in that it can become very sensitive and a source of pleasure to its owner. Thu, 18 Jan 2007 06:16:18 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/486027 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/486023 What is a Climax?<br /><br />The peak, summit, or most exciting part of something. With reference to orgasm, it is termed a climax because it is the peak of emotional intensity. Thu, 18 Jan 2007 06:13:30 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/486023 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/486006 What is a rim job?<br /><br />A rim job, or rimming, is when one person gives sexual gratification to another person by using their tongue in and around the partner&#039;s anus, or rectum. Mon, 04 Dec 2006 02:16:53 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/486006 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/485901 What is a Odd?<br /><br />Odd is that which is unusual or out of place in a given scenario. Mon, 27 Nov 2006 03:29:56 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/485901 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/485995 What is a Fuck?<br /><br />The act of fornication. Knowing someone in the biblical sense. Sexual intercourse. Coupling. Also used as an expletive or replacement for other words when vocabulary is not sufficient. Thu, 23 Nov 2006 03:31:12 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/485995 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/483869 What is an offside?<br /><br />Added to the other definition of offside, a player is not considered to be offside if he is in what would normally be deemed an offside position when a foul is called and remains where he is. He can accept a pass from an indirect freekick and score legally. Tue, 31 Oct 2006 08:24:49 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/483869 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/485980 What is a golden goal?<br /><br />A golden goal is when, during a cup tie (not a league match) there has been no score during normal play and extra time has been allotted. There is normally 15 minutes of play at each end, but a golden goal ends the game with the scoring side automatically winning. Tue, 31 Oct 2006 08:21:49 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/485980