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What is the most important experience in life or education? There are many things you will never experience without education. The plus side is, if don't get the education, you will never know what those things are!!!

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What is the average rainfall per year in a savanna? google it...

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We have few bid proposal, The owner of one company is the homeowner. any legal problems/conflict of interest Your question is not very clear. What would be the conflict of interest? So a person owns a company and this same person also owns a home...many company owners own their own home. I don't know where your bid proposal comes in or how it relates to being a business owner that also owns a home.

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can i be with a 21 year old guy in oklahoma when im just 16? It depends on what you mean by "be with" him. I don't know OK laws but in MO, if he touches you in a sexual manner, he can be charged with a crime. If he is found guilty, he will be on the sex offenders list and his life will be hell (as it should be). If he doesn't have enough sense to leave you alone, he couldn't possibly be worth the grief that you would go through in being questioned...

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My boyfriend and I had sex I was 17 and he was 29. Is that considered statutory rape? Can he still get in trouble for it now that I am 18? In Missouri, yes, he can still be charged with statutory rape and go to jail...the statute of limitations hasn't run out. Even at the age of 17, you cannot consent to sex with someone over the age of 21. If he were under 21, he would be considered your peer and it would not be illegal. Such a conviction would put him on the sex offenders list and limit his ability to be around children...

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coolest name for a small town you have ever heard? Bland (Missouri)

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How can teenagers prove that they are mature and responsible? it's nothing you have to prove, you just have to be it- by doing what you are suppose to be doing, when you are suppose to be doing it, where are suppose to be doing it,with who you are suppose to be doing it with and for the reasons you are suppose to be doing it-all the while with the ability to handle whatever unexpected comes your way in a manner that is legal and for everyone's best...

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Does depression cause sleep loss? And loss of hunger? just google "depression symptoms"

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Why is Obama just so dang awesome? ummm, i hadn't noticed that he was...

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Are summer jobs good for teenagers? wow, so the professionally researched answer says employed teens use more drugs. I have observed and studied teens both personally and professionally and I have to say, I've seen more unemployed teens use drugs out of boredom, no hope for the future and no sense of purspose or direction than kids that are employed with hope for a future, a purpose and a mission in life. learning to work for...

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how to spank a 10 year old girl? some of these answers are disturbing...wish i could be there when your kids pick your nursing homes!

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what does it mean if a guy leaves you over and over and the only thing that he did not change is the hateful way he speaks to you? it means you have taken him back over and over so that he could verbally abuse you and leave you again and again. are you not capable of seeing who he is...he has clearly shown you who he is and yet, you take him back...what part of misery do you like?

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Do you socially isolate yourself? if so why? kind of...i don't do much to create opportunities for personal social interaction...why? because i get ALOT of interaction with people on my job and because there's a lot of garbage i won't put up with in mypersonal life and as soon as i see the garbage coming i get rid of the source. i'd rather be alone than be mistreated, disrespected, diminished, financially controlled, etc.

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Answers from ADULTS only! Would you let your 15-year-old daughter's 20-year-old boyfriend spend the night and sleep in her bed with her at your house? OR would you let her go to his parents' house and spend the night with him in his bed with him? just an update...she's 16 now and dad gave her permission to date a 22 yo...sunday night, dad shot and killed him...

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Christians: Can you please pray for Moongrim? It is an "unspoken" Prayer Request. Thank you! what exactly are we to pray for regarding moongrim? you're question is not clear so i'm going to report it as nonsense. if you are trying to cram Christianity down his throat, that is not a very Christian thing to do...as a matter of fact, it is setting a bad example of Christianity.

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Since our parents took the obligation of spending at least 18 years raising us,should it not be our obligation to take care of them in their old age,as apposed to sending them to homes for the elderly? There is nothing wrong with an elderly person living in a home designed specifically to meet the needs of the elderly. I have family members living in such homes and it is wonderful to know they are taken care of while I have to work and look after others. Since their day to day needs are met by others, I am available to take them out for lunch and other fun things. If I had to spend my...

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How do i hack a computer? with an axe

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We have relationship problem. We have talked and always ended up with frustration and no where. How can i initiate a talk and words to use for effective and comfortable communication that will lead us to solve our problems? First define the problem...if you can't agree on what the problem is maybe the problem only belongs to one of you... If you can agree on what the problem is, see if you can agree on what the desired outcome is...if you can't, then you don't share the same values and priorities... Then see if you can decide on what will most likely give you the desired outcome.

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Why do Christians have such a hard time admitting that they REALLY don't know if there is a God/Heaven? Because it would be contrary to what they believe on faith...duh!

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I have a daughter that is 19 years old who is living at home. She got kicked out of college for drinking. She continues to violate our rules and curfew of 1am and sneaks out etc., What do you do to control her, punish her, so she plays by the rules? you can't control her, punish her or force her to live by your rules...what you can do is put her out...if she won't live by your rules then she needs to go get her own place where she can make her own rules. if she can't get her own place she can go to a shelter...depending on where you are at or where she is willing to go, Covenant House is a great place for...

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The man i have been supposed to be engaged to has had a fledgling buisness that in the last three weeks has taken off and since he has abused me and discounted my concerns. he says i should wait for him should I?has anybody out there ignored who they love what are you waiting for? to be abused again? I've never ignored anyone i've loved but then again, i've never loved anyone who has abused me...you see, as soon as they abuse me, i don't love them any more...why would i want to love someone that abuses me?

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As very unlikely as it sounds, is it possible for a couple to get divorced, but still stay in a relationship? yes

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I read that 63% of Americans have worked either part time or full time for McDonalds. Are you or have you ever been an employee? not me

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Someone talked about me today and I didn't say anything (because I'm not confrontational), but now I am starting to get mad. Should I go ahead and say something? no...challenge the thoughts you are having that are supporting or fueling your anger. people have the right to talk about you or anything else they want to talk about...just like you do - would you want them telling you what you can and can't talk about?

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Have you ever lost your car in a parking lot? yes...at EPCOT one time. security helped us locate it.

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Do you find this funny or offensive? neither...i can't be bothered.

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Is AB one big popularity contest, just like high school? not for me...i could care less if i were "popular" on AB...i come to speak the truth as i know it and i don't expect everyone to like it.

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There is a girl who is my friend and i wanted to borrow a book from her and she asked me to come to her house collect it from and told me she is alone home at that time. When i went to her house she didnt invite me in. What does this mean? it means you are reading stuff into things that isn't there.

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Would you consider someone a quitter for getting a divorce? no...not under any circumstance would i consider someone a quitter just for getting a divorce. no matter what i know about the situation, chances are i don't know the whole story.

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What is your reaction to the news that A-Ha has broken up? oh, i didn't know they were still together...

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I am in love with a narcissist. What do I do? decide not to be in love with a narcissist.

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How do you test just how strong someone's feelings are for you in a relationship? become terminally ill and see if they stand by you as you leave this world.

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How do you tell someone you don't love them without hurting their feelings? make sure you are telling someone that doesn't care if you love them or not.

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Do you think its possible to completely block out all memories of being sexually abused as a child or do you think you'd at least remember some detail? yes it's possible

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Race car drivers have safety systems that allow them to walk away unharmed from horrible crashes. Why don't we all have this type of safety system? race car drivers have life insurance companies that have a lot of money at stake if these guys die...that's not the case for most of us...they probably require the safety systems

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How important is someone's financial status in decinding to date them, on a scale of 1- 10, 1 is not at all, 10 is absolutely crucial. 10...however, i do not define financial status entirely by how much money they have...how they manage their money is more important to me than how much they have. i am not interested in someone that lives beyond their means or does not pay their bills on time...i have known people who have money but play games with paying bills then race to pay the bill before the lights get cut off...not my...

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What is the least dangerous sport? is napping a sport?

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What is something in your neighbors yard that you will not find in your yard? chickens

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On a scale of 1 to 10, how bored are you right now? 0...i don't get bored...i can always find something to do...as far as i am concerned, only boring people get bored.

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Is it all right never ever to forgive people who caused a lot of grief? you don't have to forgive anyone of anything if you don't want to but you are the one that ends up burdened with the heavy load...the person you don't forgive, they go on with their life while you carry the grudge...forgiveness isn't about letting someone else off the hook, it's about freeing yourself from carrying the grudge.

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Why is education a fundamental right in the U.S. but not health care? education is not a fundamental right...kids are required to go to school by law up until a certain age and after that point they are on their own...once high school is finished, education is only available for those who are willing to pay for it or can get someone else to pay for it if they can't or won't. even for children that are required to go to school, if they do not maintain...

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Why doesn't the U.S. offer health care when it is a human right? who said it is a human right?

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If you don't trust your Government enough to follow its recommendations for your own best interests, why are you here? Why not go elsewhere? Isn't Elsewhere the place you would really rather be? although i don't trust my government it is still better than most and for now, provides me with more freedom than most governments even with it's limitations/restrictions...however, i don't trust that it's not trying to take more and more of my freedoms everyday. how is it you believe the goverment knows more about what is in my best interests than i do? just because the...

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What would Christians do if an we discovered aliens that were more advanced than us and they didn't believe in God or heaven? i am a christian and i would witness to them...

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We bought a computer that came with Vista. We hate it. So we downloaded the Windows 7 Beta. But it won't run and says it's expired. Now we're stuck on the expired desktop with no way to get back to Vista, and Windows XP won't install. What should we do? LOL...sorry i can't do anything but laugh...Vista is so much like my old Windows 98 and my dad's XP, i don't understand what there is to hate about it. I also dont' understand having a love-hate relationship with an operating system...when i got my new computer, i dreaded learning Vista because of all the flap i heard...it's been no big deal...it is so similar...i have...

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I watched a comedian who first thing said "I want to thank God for his blessings" then went on to curse for over 2 hours. Could this have anything to do with why people are not interested in God? They see it all as hypocritical? it could have something to do with it but if someone really has a relationship with God they know behavior like that is indicative of someone giving their Christianity lip service. he can thank God for his blessings but that doesn't mean he is saved. some people use seeing Christian hypocracy as an excuse to not embark on their own journey to develope a relationship with God and it shows...

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Have you ever asked a question on here and thought to yourself "I'm gonna get so many answers on this one" and then you ask the question and wind up feeling like a dork because no one responds? Lol I have!! i have asked questions that i thought i would get many responses to and have gotten one or none...but i don't feel like a dork because no one responds...what's the purpose in feeling like a dork? what evidence do you have that says asking a question that gets few to no answers means one is a dork? is AB a popularity contest? if so, how is it measured here? not by points...a point...

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The last time you was sick, what was the diagnosis? strep throat

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I have always wanted to know, if life has a end how do you know when your time comes so you know when its time to have your last party? i am not concerned with a party in this life...my party begins the moment i have taken my last breath!

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Why does my cat love sitting on pieces of paper, often when I'm busy but also when there is some on the floor: she curls up on the tiniest piece. She also loves to sniff and rub books. someone mentioned something about a cat's natural attraction to natural things...my cats do this with leather too. they will crawl in someone's leather purse if it's left open...even if they have to pull everything out of it first to get in! they will sleep on leather shoes and belts. i have a leather bound photo/memory book that one cat will pull off the bookshelf to lay on...

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What is the mouse entrail that the cat will not eat? i think it's the stomach but i'm not sure...i just know i don't like picking them up...

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Does death scare you? Are you affected by other's death? no...becoming helpless, dependent on others, unable to contribute scares me...pain and suffering scares me...but being dead does not scare me...i will be in the presence of God immediately after i draw my last breath. i am affected by the death of others...even if they are saved, being separated from them until we meet again is hard and if they aren't saved, i grieve for i know the...

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What do you think the top three questions are that a couple should ask each other and discuss before entering into marriage (besides "Will you marry me?" - Thought I'd beat some of you to the punch =P)? how long before entering into marriage are you talking about? i think those questions should be addressed before becoming engaged. that is what the dating process is for. and there are so many things that are important that listing any three as the top ten is impossible...values/priorities, children/education, finances/debt/retirement/vacations, religion, career/educational goals (it can...

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Its your anniversary & you forgot! When they ask you "Do you know what day it is?" What do you say? well if i forgot, i guess i'd say, "i don't know."

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Do you like ketchup or mayonnaise with your french fries? mayo please w/lots of black pepper!

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What's the last thing you baked in your oven? brownies with M&Ms added :)

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I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years and we have always been so in love and perfect together. He went out and told me he had gone back to a random girls and cheated - not sex but other stuff - and he is so upset about it. How do I forgive? perfect? what is so perfect about going back to random girls for "not sex but other stuff"? what is cheating that is "not sex but other stuff" anyway?

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My boyfriend was txting a friend and obviously keeping me from seeing, this friends is female who we have argued about as even when i told him i am woriied about their relationship, he blew up and we have had arguments, y is he keeping the txts secret? my phone is personal. no one should pick up my phone and go through my messages or caller id. if my BF/H doesn't trust me, we need to break up. also, i would never go through his phone and if i ever feel the need to, it will be time to break up. if i can't trust him, he's got to go!

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Okay so my boyfriends friend gets really mad when i ask my boyfriend about who all he has been sexually active with while we were broken up, he says its not my buisness BECUASE we were broken up. Now that were together i thinki have a right to know, rite? first, it's none of your BF's Fs business. second, what he did when you were committed is none of your business. if you are concerned about your health (STSs), having the names of his sex partners will not tell you if he has an STD or not...there is no need for him to reveal the names...he should go directly to the clinic for testing!

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What do you do when your partner has a diffrent view on cheating? who is right and who is wrong? is it okay to take money from another girl and sell her a false hope at a relationship, but not have sex with her? is this cheating? first, exchanging money is not the equivalent of a romantic relationship. sounds like someone is getting scammed and it sounds like your man is a con-man. this man would not be my business partner or my romantic partner!

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I used to smoke weed and have tried lots of other drugs. one time ago i had a serious panic attack.before this i would call myself a veteran smoker of pot now i get panic attacks alot it seems like i know ill get one and put myself in one please help? it's a cannibis induced psychiatric disorder...it actually has a DSM diagnostic code...if i could locate my DSM at the moment, i've give you the code...but anyway, it's the result of brain damage from the drug use...residential care facilities are full of people that can't take care of themelves because of it...

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I suffer from some anxiety, and have had one panic attack. It's a very odd feeling, in which it's tough to change your thoughts from positive to negative. I know many people who suffer from anxiety, does anybody on here? And how do you live your life? i have anxiety but i wouldn't say that i "suffer"...have probably had it all my life but was first diagnosed in 7th grade. i will soon be 50 so, i've managed it for a long time. my school counselor did an excellent job explaining anxiety to me so when i had my first panic attack i knew what was happening and it didn't scare me. i use cognitive behavior therapy to...

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Do you ever feel bitter about past relationships? How do you keep from being bitter generally? no...if i ended it, there's nothing to feel bitter about and if they ended it, it's not a problem because i simply do not want to be with someone that doesn't want to be with me...why would i?

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What to do when you think you love someone, have a baby by them, but they are in prison and you have found someone else.. and you cant remember what it was like to be with the other person! i tried to wait on him but i cant remember ne good memories? slow down...you've already made one bad choice...spend some time in therapy and figure out how you are making decisions regarding who you are having sex with, change the way you select partners so you don't end up with another baby daddy in prison.

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A parent is automatically qualified to discipline a child, So everybody else should mind their own business, True or False? FALSE...define "qualified". if simply being a parent automatically qualified one to discipline a child there would be no child abuse.

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Do you keep ashtrays in your house for guests who smoke? in my house, no...but there is one outside on the deck.

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I am my husband's third wife and he has four children from previous marriages. One of his daughters, age 20, lives with us and I feel she is the cause of dissension in the marriage. He sees me as the problem. Should I get a divorce after 5 years? your husband is the problem...he doesn't have appropriate boundaries with his adult daughter. unless she is a full-time college student, she has no business living there...and even then she could still get a job and have her own place. many many many people manage to attend college full-time and work full-time...hell, some of us even did grad school full-time while we worked full-time....

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My husband is in the marines i want to file for a divorce but im not sure if he will pay rent for our apartment while we go trough the process..can he not pay rent if he dont want to? i have no job and a stay at home mom for my 2 yrs old baby the bottom line is, you must be prepared to take care of yourself and your baby before filing for divorce...this means pay your own rent. even once divorced, you can't count on child support. please ignore the comments indicating that you have some kind of obligation to stay married to a man because he is serving our country. we have no idea what being married to your husband has been...

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My boyfriend of 10 years broke up with me. He says I'm not the right one for him. He still calls me "honey" but he's very cold to me when we talk. Is he doing this out of charity? He still cares about me, but does he still love me? is he doing what out of charity? what do you mean, "does he still love you?" didn't he just break up with you? what part of this are you not getting?

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I need name ideas for a cleaning business i am trying to start... any ideas???? help! how about NO SPOT LEFT BEHIND?

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What might I find in your garbage bag? kleenex, lots and lots of kleenex...i have really bad allergies and sinuses.

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Can the Police always be trusted to protect us? no...

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Why is it that so many couples (married or serious relationships) nowadays seam to have this mentality of "his" money and "her" money? whatever happened to it being "their" money. money is power and they don't want to share their power...also, it is foolish to put your money toghether if you are not married.

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I have been talking with an aber from canada, i had no clue about the problems, not enough family dr.s (10 min rule, underpaid, and overworked.) and the skyrocketing cost of meds. if you live in the usa are you concerned this might happen to us? yes...it will happen...obama will use it to add to the destrction of america.

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Which sins are forgivable by the Pope? who cares what the pope forgives...it's only what God forgives that counts for eternity.

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I had my brother, 19, arrested for breaching an apprehended violence order to protect me from being harrassed, physically abused etc.. my family hate me for it, does anybody think I did the right thing? I didn't know what else to do, he's been warned. yes, you did the right thing...if the rest of your family wants to enable him, you can't stop them...you may have to put some distance between you and all of them.

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If your pet suddenly talked and asked for a beer, what would you say? get a job!

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What is a CASA volunteer? court appointed special advocate...similar to a guardian ad litem (i think i spelled that correctly)...someone that looks out for the child's best interest in court cases.

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I've been with my boyfriend now for 3 months and I want to break up with him because someone from my past came back into my life. How do I break up with him without breaking his heart like his last g/f did? this is exactly why people should think long and hard before getting into a relationship...you will break his heart but that's what he gets for chosing you, someone that is willy nilly and immature.

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Where is the best city you've visited so far and why? oh wow, that is hard to answer...rome, venice, paris, berlin, boston, key west (do you consider that a city?)...all for different reasons.

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Do you always have a particular goal when interacting with others? yes as does everyone else...all human behavior is need orientated...i am also aware of the needs others are meeting when they interact with me.

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Recently my boyfriend and I were being intimate and I asked what he found attractive about me. His reply "Well, I'm not as into your breasts, but you have a nice butt." I feel awful, I also found tons of porn with big breasts. What should I well, you asked...you can feel aweful if you want but that is your choice...if he had lied to you, you would be unhappy about that...so the way i see it is you set yourself up. also, it's clear that your boyfriend may not be all that into you...it's up to you what to do...can you live with someone like this the rest of your life or do you deserve better?

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What is worse: A country where everyone gets "adequate" healthcare or a country where some get the best healthcare in the world while tens of thousands die or go broke because of lack of insurance? first, define adequate...second, why should someone who doesn't work or contribute to the system get the same care as someone who busts their butt and has done so for years...third, why should the working person have to pay for the services consumed by the ones that don't/won't work?

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Me and this dude started going out two days ago we know each other but we also know the same people he is afraid to give me his all cause of our connections how do i get him to stop bein afraid and let me in so my relationship can go forward you're kidding right? you've only been going out for two days and you are rushing things already...you are setting the relationship up for failure...give it time to grow and mature.

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Do you have any siblings? three brothers (1 deceased)

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What do you think about Mormons? lost...

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What was the last thing you bought from a grocery store? biscuts and sausage...made biscuts and gravy for breakfast.

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Have you ever looked out at the night sky and wondered that at that moment someone was probably being killed somewhere in the world? yes and i'm also aware that in that moment somewhere a child is born, somone got engaged or just received their first kiss, someone got a surprise or a gift, someone said something kind or committed a random act of kindness, someone said goodbye to a loved one, someone had a lucky break...and so on...

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Other than my cellphone and laptop, what else (that we commonly hold dear) should I not bring to Navy Training Camp? you hold your cellphone and laptop dear? that's sad...

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Have you ever thought of starting your business and working for yourself? yes...i started my business 3.5 years ago...i am so glad i did.

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If I own a website and start selling a product that I made such as t-shirts, do I have to make it a small business? Just wondering about things like taxes, claiming things and where to get started. Thanks sounds like you need to hook up with your local Small Business Administration

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The USPS is talking about closing 3200 Post Offices. Do you think that is right? it's right if they can't financially sustain themselves.

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Does a person with histrionic personality disorder get tired of putting on a show? nope...

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My boyfriend & I have been living together for about 4 months, & he has a 4 yr old son. His ex-wife comes around to pick up & drop of the boy. She tells me she hates me & disrespects me on the phone. My boyfriend doesn't say anything to her. What do I do? and your question is...

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My eggs would'nt peel right, I put in cold water until cool and the shell still sticks like glue. What am I doing wrong. Is it the chickens fault or the cooks fault? i find fresh eggs difficult to peel...i buy eggs and let them sit in the frige for a week or so, then i boil them and the shells come off easily...and it doesn't seem to matter how i boil them (with salt or without, chill in cold water or let them cool on their own, etc.)

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There are so many varieties of pasta; what's your favorite? squid ink

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How long has it been since you've taken a nap? about 8 hours ago...

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I read an article a while ago about the growing popularity of nap time and 'sleeping pods' in the workplace. Has anyone experienced this to be true, or do you still have to hide under your desk to take a nap? i am self employed and i frequently take naps at work...it's a lifesaver!

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Do you ever take a nap on a Sunday afternoon? yes...

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Have you ever intended to take a short nap and it went much longer than planned? yes...

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Do you usually take a nap during the day? yes, i've always been a napper!

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Nap mats are on the floor, in 60 secs I'm turning off the lights. Are You Ready For A Nap? i'm always ready for a nap!

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Did you ever have trouble (then or now) getting to sleep? What did (or do) you do to help you sleep? i use melatonin, a cd titled "sound sleep solutions", and various other hypnotic cds.

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Do you ever pray for guidance then end up getting your answers in dreams? yes...and sometimes i wake up and the first thought i have would be my answer/solution.

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Why do prayers go unanswered? they are answered...you may not like the answer but they are answered...

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Can you spot the undercover cop in this photo? i don't get it... (LOL)

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What is your state known for? caves...meth...

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What do you think of the tradition of some mothers of giving their maiden name or another relative's surname as a middle name to their new born child? Like "Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis", for example? i think it's a great way to show respect for their family history/coonection

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What nickname were you called as a kid? Did you ever live it down? Mine was freckled butt squaw...i don't know if i've lived it down or not...i'm not sure how i'd know if i did...

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If you knew for a fact that you could get away with it would you cheat on your spouse or significant other? no...i would know and i also know that no one ever really gets away with anything...

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Would you feel like a fool if you found out that your husband of 11 years had a profile on a dating sight? no...but he'd feel like one by the time i got done with him.

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Would you ever like to be a private investigator for a living like Joey Greco who goes around catching cheating spouses? yes...a friend and i used to tell guys were were PIs working for women helping them figure out if their husbands/boyfriends were schmucks...we called ourselves "The Lady and The Tramp"...and then we'd start arguing over which one of us was the lady and the tramp...we would make some guys really nervous!

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True of False, have you made a significant change in your life in the past 3 months? true...my former foster kid moved back in with her 4 year old...they will be here for 6 more weeks and then they will get their own place.

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Have you ever 'positrolled'? yes...

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Can I thank whoever posi-trolled my postings today!? That was really nice, whoever you are! Thank you!! me too! thanks to whoever you are!

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Have you ever been guilty of posi-troll "stalking" someone on AB? Have you ever been the "victim" of a said "stalker"? How do you feel about it? yes, yes, i hope they are pleasantly surprised

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Can we we REALLY trust The Book of Mormon when LdS scholar Royal Skousen has pored over the available original manuscripts & identified about 600 corrections that have never appeared in any standard edition & about 250 of them affect the text’s meaning? no....

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My daugther is 20 and expectting her firt baby she lives with her boyfriend and his family.She just want have anything to do with us .It's always his family.We gave her a car to use.We offer to help anyway.The baby is due anyday now. I'm so upset what is you question?

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Are you computer literate enough to survive on your own? unfortunately yes and too many people know it so i help them with theirs too...

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Will you be going to Rio to watch the Olympics, or are the 5,000 annual murders enough to keep you away? i won't be going and it has nothing to do with murder numbers - sport competitions are not my idea of a vacation - a city busting at the seams with other tourists doesn't sound like fun to me either.

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About a month ago I found out that my fiance was talking and texting a woman at his work. He had her listed under a different name, a guys name. This went on for about 3 months before I found out, and even though he won't admitt it, I'm not entirely sure ok, so now we know you are engaged to a schmuck...you're not entirely sure about what? i have two for you...why are you still engaged to him? he is showing you what the rest of your life will be like...actually, this is probably mild compared to what is instore for you...so why are you still with him to even write us about this? did you have a question?

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I think my room mate is a hooker,how can I test her? test her for what? hiv?

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How To Buy Ipod Shuffle For FREE ! Can U Please Tell Me The Websites Where I Can Buy FREE Ipod Shuffle if you are buying it, it's not free...

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I heard that wearing tampons can cause cancer. Is it true? no...where'd you hear that?

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What is the longest journey you have done by car one trip in miles/kilometres? 3,077 miles...st louis to portland via a very scenic route to take in s dakota(rushmore), montana, wyoming (yellowstone, cody, jackson, tetons), idaho and the columbia river gorge...

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Ive lost my car keys some where in the house any ideas retrace your steps from the last moment you recall having them...

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How do I know that Jesus and God are real? faith

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My boyfriend is very cynical and is constantly negative about everything, and even though there is a lot of truth in what he says, I am sick of hearing him repeat it. How can I tell him I don't want to hear these things? you tell him, straight forward that you can't take it and that as soon as he starts in, you will leave...and then you must do it...you must leave the room, the house, the resturant...where ever you are, you must get up and leave...always have your own transportation so you don't have to put up with this... if you live with him, be prepared to spends some bucks on hotels...when you are...

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My boyfriend lies about mostly everything. And the sad truth is that I know the truth and he still lies when I point this out. How do I get him to tell me the truth? I already know it but I want to hear it from him. Not his stupid lies. you can't. so your choices are live with it or get rid of him.

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If you ask a question on AB looking for advice to a problem someone else is having in their life, without naming names, is that a violation of their confidentiality (even though everyone on here is anonymous)? i don't see how it could be...unless you are professionally bound by confidentiality and enough info is given that others would recognize the person by the situation.

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Do you have a secret that not even your best friend knows? yes...several of them...one secret is 21 years old and the other secret is 25 years old. and i will take them all to the grave with me...

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If you could wake up tomorrow in the body of someone else currently living, would you do so? Whom would you pick? yes...tina turner

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Would you like to congratulate me on finishing all of my breakfast? are you kidding? why is that such a big deal for you? do you have an eating disorder?

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I would like to frame part of the lyrics to a song to put on my husbands work desk (To dream the impossible dream lyrics). Does anyone have any cute/creative ideas of how I could do this other than just typing it up on some colorful paper? use a nice font and print it on vellum paper...use a print or piece of gift wrap, handmade paper or anything that you like, as a background...frame in an 8 x 10 frame or larger...you can also have it professionally matted if you want it in a larger frame.

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My team at work is disgussing this years Xmas Lunch.. the thing is i'm not invited because i'm new. To be honest I think it's rude to be excluded from the group.. What are your thoughts on this? tooty, you have choices. (1)you can continue moaning about this and be miserable OR (2)you can see them for the shallow inconsiderate schmucks that they are and be happy that you aren't apart of that. it is YOUR choice...but you can't change them. AND if this is the organizational culture, maybe this isn't the job for you. there are many toxic work environments so you won't...

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Can a school secratary legally open other staff members mail, or can the Athletic Dir. open coaches mail, and/or packages? i think it depends on how it is addressed and the secretary's job description...if the job description and company policy says she opens all in-coming mail, with the exception of envelopes and packages marked personal or confidential, and all staff are made aware of this policy, then i don't see how it could be a problem. same with the AD...if it's in the policy... when...

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Should Lady Obama spend more time in the kitchen and less on stage? Barack could use a few pounds. ummm, that would be NO! If he's going hungry, that's on him!

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Are tomatoes fruits or vegetables? it's not about what i "think"...it is a fruit.

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If your boyfriend outright tells you that you're "better in bed" than his ex-girlfriend, would you be flattered? or would you be offended that he's comparing you to her? i wouldn't be offended but it tells me his social skills are lacking...i'd ask him what his purpose/motivation was in sharing that with me...why was it important to him for me to know that? what does he want to come of that information?

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Is it right to keep grandparents away from their granchild if they made all their kids miserable growing up? i think therapy is in order...if you had been through therapy and worked out your issues, you would know what would be the right thing for you to do. there isn't enough info here for us to determine if it's an appropriate decision.

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Do you keep cash hidden in your home? Where? nice try!

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How to cure being too wrapped up in what others think? Like not being able to stop it? find a cognitive behavior therapist...you can address the thought distortions that support the way you are feeling and you also would benefit from working on your boundaries.

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What do you keep near your toilet? an extra roll of toilet paper and a box of kleenex are on top of the tank, the trash can, the bowl brush and a plunger (just in case!) are in the corner by it.

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If you found a book of every girl your current boyfriend has slept with and their ratings... would it bother you? depends...if he had stopped keeping track before or when he met me so that i wasn't in the book, i'd chalk it up to immaturity and assume he's grown up...if i were in the book, i'd hurt him and if i were in the book with others entered after me, he'd die a long a torturous death...

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Can you please describe your last phone conversation in 3 words or less? exhausting, frustrating, pointless

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Have you ever regretted asking a question, because you worded it wrong, didn't really know what you were asking, got 80 answers, it started arguments and controversy, and now are constantly haunted by it in your feedback? please don't ever regret anything involving AB...perspective, keep it in perspective...this is a website of strangers...live and learn but don't regret...it isn't worth the burden regrets create.

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What makes your favourite mug your favourite? i like the shape of it and bright, bold, colors...the design is whimsical cats...

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What are 2 bad things about home ownership? i'm in agreement with most everyone else...taxes and maintenance/repairs.

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If money was no object; what style of engagement and wedding ring would you choose ? (If you are all ready married would you ever up grade if you get rich? ) my choice is in the question. that's the same pic posted by someone asking if $30,000 was too much to spend on a ring...guess there'll be two of you out there with $30,000 rings! i'm fine without a ring...

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Could you really be comfortable in a bedroom like this? ahhhhhhhhhh, yes

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I strip myself naked in front of my ex everytime he hurts me. I don't know whether it is out of frustration or grief. I was molested as a child and am not sure whethet it is sexual pain routing back to that. He is very domineering. Help! what is going on that you are still associating with your domineering EX? he's your EX....there's a reason we refer to someone as EX. You need professional help...this is not something for ABers.

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Do you like it when people flirt with you? Why or why not? no...because i have been called horrible names for not returning the "flirt", and i've been called a horrible names when i refused to have sex/go home with the guy when i did return the "flirt"...

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Whats somethings bad to say on a first date? guy to the girl, "hey, do you have any money on you?"

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I've been dating this girl for 2 months and I went to go see a movie with my ex and her family just as friends. I didn't tell my girlfriend, but she found out and thinks I was cheating even though nothing happened. Is she overreacting? no...not only should you have told her in advance, you should have invited her along...if your ex and her family weren't up for that then, their motives are questionable and you shouldn't have gone.

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Should food be free to all Americans ? Why don't the Democrats attempt a "universal" food program for all ? Food is certainly more important to ones health than 'free' drugs. no...because it's not reasonable...and nothing is free so i don't know what you mean by "free drugs"...someone is paying for it-maybe not the person consuming it but someone is working their tail off to provide it (taxes). i work hard to pay for my food and my private healthcare insurance coverage...and i pay taxes to pay for those who don't want to/can't pay...

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If you had the opportunity to have your own museum, what memorabilia would you have in there? if i could have my own museum it would be about me of course...it would have the story of my birth and through out my life to date, pictures of me with narratives to provide background on the photos...it would have all my vacation pictures and memorabilia...pictures of friends and family with narratives telling about the role they played in my life and what they mean to me...i would document my...

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It's my opinion that atheism is a type of religion? It's a belief in nothing. Probably a stronger than the Christian or Jewish religion, since they are steadfast in their non-belief. i can't believe 52 people have responded to this...it's not even a question...i see the question mark but a question mark does not a question make...

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Will you please give me a point or two so I can go to bed happy having attained a new level? i don't usually give points to people phishing for points but you look like you need some sleep...here ya go and good night!

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Have you ever received calls from +841267234747? When I answer it sounds like an open line but no one is there and when I call it back I just get a long tone. Does anyone know what this number is? just LOL again at the DR troll! have you ever heard of a life? didn't think so...it would be a waste of oxygen on you anyway.

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What makes it so difficult for some people to say what they mean and mean what they say? LOL and the troll cruising through my profile DRing things is too pathic to have anything to say!!!

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Do you remember candy lipstick? did you like it? I loved it but haven't had one since i was a child. (it's not a gum but i can't find the perfect catagory) LOL @ the troll browsing through my profile DRing my stuff! Coward...LOL!

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When regulators shut down a bank like recently done in MO, KS, & IA, can a person still get the stuff in their safe deposit box or is it just gone? LOL at the troll!!! on a spree are ya?

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I have a serious case of compassion fatigue...any advice for me? LOL@the DR troll!

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Is $30,000 too much for an engagement ring? depends on how much the man makes...

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What are you thinking of right now? posi-trolling

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Are you financially stable? i have enough for me to be comfortable with...but i know how to stretch a buck!

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If you saw three women walking into a mens restroom, what would you think? oh oh, someone's not paying attention...

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Does chocolate milk sound good right now? yes...

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How much flak would I get from the users of this website if I said; OBAMA SUCKS? no problem from me!

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Green OR Red Apple? Fuji apples are my favorite...they are kind of pink...

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When you are a stronger woman you get called a bitch. When you are weak, you get stepped on. Do you ever win? Babe In Total Control of Herself! that is a winner! the only ones who don't like that are the ones that want to step on you and you won't let them...is it really so bad being being disliked by people like that? i don't think so.

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Do you have a criteria before you decide to make someone your partner? Or do you see beyond that? yes, i have criteria...and i can see beyond that...i can see that because i have criteria and i stick to to it, there's a better chance for a good future than if i were to have no criteria or ignore my criteria and hold out for some magical fantasy to make everything bliss.

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How common is it to get lipstick on your collar? if there's any corrolation between the number of times i listened to connie francis sing about it and the number of times it actually happens, it's very common! do you remember connie francis singing "lipstick on your collar...bet your bottom dollar you and i are through cause lipstick on your collar is gonna tell on you" ? did you have it on a 45?

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If there is no solution, what do you do? pray

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Do you or anyone you know have Fibromyalgia? a very good friend of mine has it and it is so hard watching her struggle with the condition...she is losing hope and it is heart breaking.

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I just want to find a sexy...gool looking..good in bed man...who TREATS me right...is that too much to ask? your priorities may be a little turned around...the guy who treats you right will be sexy and attractive to you...and if the relationship is good, the sex will be good...

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Did you drop out of school or did you make it all the way threw to 12th grade? i made it through high school, college and grad school...i doubt i'll get a phd

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A friend set me up on a blind date several months ago with her bf's best friend. My date was a nice guy & we dated for 2 months after that. I ended it because it just wasn't right for me. My so-called friend refuses to speak to me & says I have issues? this is the risk you take when you let a friend set you up...i'm not sure what your friend is thinking but if she's not speaking to you because you broke up with the guy she fixed you up with, she's twisted...you may very well have issues (because we all do :) ) but this one isn't yours! i am sorry your friend is doing this to you...it's disappointing enough when a...

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What was the last can of food you opened? canned milk for mac'n cheese

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My teacher treats everyone like students but he treats me like more than that, he always asks me how do i feel and stuff like that, i always try to avoid talking to him because I'm feeling uncomfortable... What should I do or say? Help please (Im 16&male) talk to your school counselor about it...he/she might have some insight into this teacher and past teacher-student relationships involving this teacher. the counselor can also help you decide if you need to get your parents involved (it doesn't hurt to tell your parents anyway)...and the counselor should be able to coach you in how to respond to your teacher appropriately to keep the...

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My boyfriend recently left because of a family crisis. Now he won't return my calls, e-mails, or IMs, but still spends hours on Yahoo! with a profile that lists him as "Single and looking." Is he cheating? if he is spending hours on yahoo and isn't keeping in touch with you...kick him to the curb...at the very least he is being inconsiderate and the worst is that he has ended the relationship without telling you...either way, you don't need this...

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I have my boyfriend's computer password but he doesn't know. I found that he did a search for "bored looking to get laid." I can't say anything because then he'll know. What do I do? the best thing you could do is to be the woman you want to be...there's a bool "women men love. women men leave"...i would suggest reading this, deciding which kind of woman you want to be and then behave accordingly. as far as the manner in which you found out about his search...what was going on that you felt the need to put a keylogger program on your computer...it's not...

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How do i find out if my boyfriend is talking to other women? i flagged this because it is a duplicate but when reporting it as a duplicate AB can't find the duplicate...

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Name an animal with only 3 letters. nag

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Name an animal with only 3 letters. sow

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Name an animal with only 3 letters. bat

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Religious one's, if you've been in a Biology class and are learning about evolution, but strongly believe in creationism, how do you handle it? i answer the questions on the test using the information the teacher taught in class...one can learn about evolution and not believe that it is the end all. keep in mind, the teacher isn't looking for what you personally believe...

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I had an affair with a co-worker which didn't last long. Since then his wife found an old email and now wants revenge. I still work at the same place, and she is here a lot. She only knows my name. What should I do so that I can relax? these are the consequences of choosing to mess around with a married man...so relax and enjoy it.

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Do u think your boss is an A hole? Why no, i am self-employed

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How do i find out if my boyfriend is talking to other women? this is getting funnier all the time...my answer got removed and doorsfan was the one using all the profanity...

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Me and my bf have been together for a yr and a half almost. He used to treat me pretty bad for like 9 months straight (not physical, emotional). And now my dad said he would never aprove of us getting married...how can i get him to like my bf again? i can't believe you would stay with someone that treated you bad for 9 months...and you want you dad to put his stamp of approval on a man that would do that to you...that's twisted!

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How do i find out if my boyfriend is talking to other women? LOL@DR...again! i know i shouldn't find ignorance so entertaining...that is one of my shortcomings...

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My sister causes me deep emotional pain and I can't deal with it any more. I tried telling her this but she just shoots me down and tells me how stupid I am. She even went as far as to say that she wishes that I was a miscarriage. What should I do? you need professional help to learn to set boundaries and deal with people like your sister and your sister needs help challenging her twisted thinking...once you are old enough to put distance between the two of you, you can heal and go with a great life but if she doesn't get help, she will be stuck with her miserable self her entire life.

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Is Enlightenment and Salvation the same? not even close!

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Do you always give points to the person's questions you answer? i try to remember to...but sometimes i wait and see if they respond to my answer...so if i've answered one of your questions without rating it, please let me know...i'd be glad to do so...

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How can someone who is married advise someone to NOT get married without makng it look like they don't like their own marriage? his own marriage has nothing to do with how he advises someone else...unless of course this person is going to be marrying his wife!

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Have you been in love with someone who treated you like dirt? Still, you clung to them. Why? no, i can't say that i have...i can't love someone that treats me like dirt.

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How do i find out if my boyfriend is talking to other women? i can promise you that he is speaking to other women...what do you expect him to do if the cashier is a woman? or the bank teller? or the receptionist that answers calls he makes? grow up and get real!

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I've recently filed for divorce, and my husband has been seeing another woman since before I filed. Is this considered cheating? it is cheating up until the day the divorce is final.

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I have noticed it more (especially since it has happened to me) that television and movies throw in infidelity quite often, as if it is so common. Is it really THAT common? Is this one of my naive moments? the media is normalizing it for us by conditioning us through exposure...yes, it is very common and getting more so all the time.

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A women on the bus today, said , "That a good women has to love shoes", do you believe thats true? no...

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A man on the radio was complaining about black women that are deceptive because of their hair weaves, girdles, make-up, etc. Do you feel that when you wake up the next morning the woman has "hoodwinked" you because she is very different "natural"? many women do this...not just black women...so what is his point in complaining about black women?

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Women: How do you react when you see your boyfriend without make-up for the first time? i wouldn't have a boyfriend that wore makeup...a friend, yes but a boyfriend, no.

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Can you be atheist and "believe" in the scientifically unsubstantiated effectiveness of homeopathy? the two are not related...of course one can be an atheist and believe in homeopathic treatment.

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Hope someone can help me here with out being judgemental i had a emotional affair with a 26year old guy i was separeted from my husband of 29years i have two kids one 23year old and one 20year old. the advice is that i want is how to let go of my affair make a decision to let it go and then follow through with behavior that supports that decision...you don't say what your focus is...is it to recommit to your marriage? if that is the case, that is where you need to put your energy. i recomment two books..."The Marriage Book" and "Women Men Love, Women Men Leave"...get a therapist and work on yourself...work on being...

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Individual suffers more in his lifespan than he enjoys?do you agree? no...

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Have you noticed that really lazy people will do anything to get out of doing anything? no but what i have noticed is that if i give a lazy person a difficult job i will learn the easiest way to get it done.

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How does a military wife who left her abuse husband get the money he gets for her if he not answering her calls?And the military knows he beats her and now she is homeless and has no income?Help ASAP!! i don't think he can be made to give it to her...she can get herself into a shelter or go live with a friend and get a job until she can file for divorce at which time, he will loose the money he's been getting for her. get your own attorney...one provided by someone else will not have your best interest at heart.

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I started my first affair two weeks ago. Hopefully I’ll quickly learn enough to avoid getting caught by my husband. Can men tell when you have just had sex? I have a horror of coming in after having sex with my guy and my husband wanting sex. living with the horror and the stress of leading a double life are the natural consequences of your choices...as will be his response when he catches you...

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Well my i just told my girlfriend i was gonna let her go (mutual break up)... any advice? if it was mutual, why did you have to tell her that you were letting her go? wouldn't this have been something you agreed on together? what are you looking for advice on?

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My friends military husband is very abusive.He beats her and wont give her the money. She has reported it to his commander and they wont do a thing and im afraid that by the time they act were be burying her. What does she do? Who 2 talk 2?Need help ASAP! she needs a therapist and NOT one employed by the military...the military is not going to help her leave him...as a matter of fact, the military will give him ideas on how to get her to delay leaving his sorry ass...

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I've been in love with the same guy for 5 years and I think he still likes me to but how can I be sure of it? ask him...would you settle for being "liked"?

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Was Kanye West drunk when he embarrassed himself? who cares...they key word here is "ass"

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What is your favourite way of eating corn? i like it fried with red and green pepers...

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Would you ever get a tattoo like this? i can say no without even looking at the pic...i will never get a tattoo...

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Are we living in the Age of Stupid? yes and i predict the stupid will inherit the earth as they reproduce more...and there is a genetic connection...

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My boyfriend is buying my car from me and he was late making the payment. Almost 3 weeks. He didn't pay the full payment and he doesn't pay the insurance. He was 275.00 short. We got into a huge fight one night because he kept acting if he was hiding some ummm, where's the question? this is just a story about a really dumb decision...

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Desktop or laptop? Why? lap...

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I fell madly in love with a girl, and she loved me for the first and last time, but left me for God. What can I do or say to this? I basically helped her change her life and every song I write is for her. there's not much else you can do except keep writing songs for her or move on...you deserve someone that wants to be with you so don't waste your time longing for someone that doesn't want you.

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Do you count yourself as a true friend? of course...i am my own best friend.

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My ex who i dated for 2 years, started dating his best friend a few weeks after our breakup. Now he's talking about how she's "allergic to latex" and how he's getting laid all the time to his friends, when i can hear him clearly.Is he doing it on purpose? probably...but it's really tasteless.

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What do you have in your hand? nothing...i'm typing

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If I bent over, what would you do? (class is preferable) ask you to massage my feet while you are down there...

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Do you know in person grown up men who claim they don't want to have a child as it's 'too much hassle' for them but if their g/f insists on birth control they feel insulted? Do you understand them? yes...what i don't understand are the women that stay with them.

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Why do men have to put up false pretenses? same reasons women do...

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My boyfriend always turns me down in the bedroom. I've only get sex when he is in the mood, and only every once in awhile. We used to have sex all the time. Does this mean he is cheating? i suggest reading the book "Women Men Love, Women Men Leave" and see which you are and where you can make changes...

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My wife is texting all the time with a guy at work. Last month they texted each other over 3500 times. Is she cheating on me. people generally have a narrow definition of cheating but the truth is anything that detracts from your primary relationship is cheating the relationship...i'd say texting over 100 time per day definately takes a great deal of time away from the marriage and would be considered cheating.

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Please help me find a website that offers free classified ad? I badly need to find one now. Thanks in advance. i'm wondering why it has to be free and have you don't a google search for such a service?

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Who do you think is the most responsible in an affair? The cheating partner or the person they are cheating with? the one that is in a committed relationship is the only one that is responsible...if they both are in committed relationships, then they are both responsible...

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Yesterday my friend invited me to go golfing w/ her, her boyfriend and his friend, but before I could go she said I should change my clothes becau she didn't want her boyfriend seeing all that I had on display(which wasn't much)What would you have done? you know, many golf courses have an expectation of dressing a certain way...maybe she didn't want to tell you that you weren't dressed appropriately for the golf course and she blamed it on her boyfriend thinking maybe that would be less hurtful then saying you aren't dressed appropriately for the course...

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What is your dog's name? Or what would make a good dog's name? i don't have a dog and i think the name needs to fit the dog...my neighbor's dog comes to visit...her name is Cinnamon but i called her lucy for years before i knew her name...she is this big red clumsy awkward but sweet and beautiful dog...she will always be lucy to me.

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What motivates you to be generous with other people? when it comes to BIG gestures of generousity, i am moved by God to share what he has blessed me with...

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What is the worst beating you have ever taken, physically,mentally or otherwise? mine was mental...i had an alcoholic boss for 10 years...she was twisted.

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How many more payments till the house is yours?is there light at the end of the tunnel? 12 x 6.5 = 78 more payments....it won't take me that long though...that is based on paying the regular payment and i pay more than that each month.

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Poverty is______________? cultural and multidimensional.

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How many affairs would you allow your partner to have? "allow"? an adult doesn't need anyone's permission to have an affair...

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If you found out your husband was having an affair would you want to know every little detail of what went on. no...i don't need to know the details to know we have a problem.

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What is a first date nightmare? i had a friend in florida...on their first date he took her out into the Gulf of Mexico on a little sail boat and it sank...fortunately, they were rescued pretty quickly...

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What is a first date nightmare? i totaled a first date's brand new car before he even made the first payment...he got drunk so i was driving on backroads that i was not familiar with...a honkin' big truck came up over the hill, flashed me with blinding lights and off the road i went...if we had made it to my place he was going to sleep it off in the car!

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My husband has been in jail serving life with possibility for being accesory to commit capitol murder at age 16.how much time does a person serve in alabama if sentenced to life with parole possible i don't understand...so, he was found possibly guilty?

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Did anyone ever hear about the 1998 or 1999 murder case of Darlie Routier? She was convicted of savagely murdering her 2 sons. Anyone ever think that she was inoccent? sounds like there's plenty of room for reasonable doubt...if here defense wounds were not considered, i don't see how anyone could say she treated fairly by the system...

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What can I do to prevent my baby's daddy from ever getting his hands on our daughter? Even when I'm no longer here, I wouldnt want him to take her.He has never been a part of her life and Im affraid that if nething ever happened to me she would go to him. is this about you or your daughter? what makes you think he would want her if he has nothing to do with her now? or are you the one making sure he has nothing to do with her now and you are afraid that with you out of the way, that could all change?

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What is the best living arragements for children when the parents divorce? I thought about nesting, but most everyone tells me that it is impossible. what is nesting?

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Why is it important to be aware of your social class and position? each social class has it's own culture or "hidden rules"...if you know your own you probably know how to recognize the others...if you recognize and understand the cultural differences when interacting with them you will be more successful in establishing relationships outside of your own. reading "a new framework for understanding poverty" can help you with this...it...

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Where'd you last get a really bad cup of coffee? my parents cannot make coffee...it is so weak it looks like tea...

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Why does my husband tell me to 'figure out a way to make money' when it was his choice for me to quit my job and stay home with kids? Every argument I get slammed for not working, and he never shows any respect or thanks for giving up my job. here's a way to make some money...leave his sorry ass and take half of his assests with you...that should shut him up.

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Is Germ-X be a good alternative to a shower when camping? ummm...there are places i think it would sting...i've used baby wipes...

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Do you see the potential problems that you'd have in a relationship before you ever date them? ummm...those are the ones i don't date...

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What is your dream job? And if you have a job now, what is it? My dream job is being a teacher, and I don't have any job for now! my dream job is being a therapist in private practice and i'm living it!!!

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Who got you your first job? me...

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What was your first paying job? worked the bowling alley snack bar...$1.50 hour...i was 14.

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What television show do you have ABSOLUTELY NO INTEREST in...? there's so many of them...i don't watch much tv so i really couldn't tell you...

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Is it a sin to pay more than $10,000 USD for a car? no...

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If my house goes into forclosure and the bank sells it, do they have to sell it for market value or just the amount of the loan? they can sell it for whatever they can get out of it and even if that amount is less than the amout of the loan...i don't know if they can come back to you for the loss or not...that would be a good question...

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I've been 'the other woman' with this guy for about a year, but he came to my house recently and wrecked my shower while he was drunk and on drugs. Should I tell his girlfriend? tell his girlfriend what? that you are the other woman, that he wrecked your shower, or that her boyfriend is an addict? i'd keep my mouth shut and ditch him FAST.

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We all know that it is wrong for a man to hit a woman but, would it be wrong for a man to hit someone who was born a man but had surgey to become a woman? now children, hands are not for hitting...duh, no one should be hitting anyone!

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Are there any circumstances under which you would advise a woman to continue with a boyfriend who hits her? if she thinks he would kill her if she left...

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Are parents responsible if their children regularly don't go to school? that would be yes...

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Do you have a loving cat that talks to you ( meow way lots ) but sometimes just turns nasty on you? Mine does that. Very annoying .Any idea why? 3 out of 4 of mine are like that...i don't have a clue why

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Do you like cats? ALOT...i have four now and that's my max...but one day i want a congocoon...

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What kind of Bed do you sleep on? aaahhhh, i love my bed...queen sized pillow top

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Whats one of the funniest words known to man kind? crapulous crap·u·lous Pronunciation:ˈkrap-yə-ləs Function:adjective 1 : marked by intemperance especially in eating or drinking 2 : sick from excessive indulgence in liquor

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Is it appropriate to give my business cards to people I've just met, or should I wait until they've inquired about my line of work? i don't...i wait until people ask because in my business (mental health) people might take it wrong...but i overheard a ceo the other day...when a job-fishing young woman asked for his card he asked her why should he give her one.

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If a company is going out of business, and a husband and wife who both work there sell their stocks before anyone finds out it is going out of business, what is the name of the crime? if they sell it before ANYONE finds (out including themselves) they've not done anything wrong...

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What do you think about using the power point software in teaching English? i think it's a great use of technology in the class room...

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Teachers, do you know that you hold the power to make or break your students? and administration has the power to break teachers...

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Do Police Really Eat Doughnuts? yes...i was homeless my senior year in high school so i got a job working 11pm-7am at dunkin donuts and i was frequently by myself...it was the safest place i could have been with all the cops coming in...they looked out for me.

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Do you like cream filled donuts? If so which ones? i worked at dunkin donuts my senior year of high school and my favorite was the chocolate cream filled powdered surgar donuts...make my mouth water just thinking about it...although, i've never turned down a classic krispy kreme!

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A woman I work with brought a big box of doughnuts to a meeting. They were all super sweet ones with icing and sprinkles, and I don't like sweet stuff (I'd prefer a bagel). Should I have said anything? no...at the next meeting you should bring bagels for everyone.

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Does your computer take good care of you, or is it mean and nasty and often times not there for you at all? oh yes, my computer takes very good care of me...it has never let me down!

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This guy and i agreed to be just friends with benefits. now we are talking all the time, he calls me maybe 3 times a day. he tells me he is thinking about me. i like him. he says he doesnt want a relationship right now due to a bad break up. help me!!! help you with what? he wants the sex, you give it to him...your phone rings, you answer it...he doesn't want a relationship and you have sex with him anyway and answer the phone...what is not clear to you?

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I was just flagged and threatened by a COAT. Are they supposed to do this? See: http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7720566 you're kidding right? you ask if you can violate some one under the sexual health catagory and you're offended because of the way they said no? get real and grow up...if your question was meant to be funny then the answer was too. you don't know that's who flagged your question anyway...

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What is a good major city to move to for college? (anywhere in the U.S.) it depends on where the best college/university you can get into is located.

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My boyfriend has distanced.he has stopped caring and calling me.this started when i told him i was still a virgin and would like to wait still i am married.he says i am immature for that.i love him and would not want to loose him what do i do if you don't want to lose him then you are going to have to compromise your morals...you can't have it both ways...your morals or a schmuck that doesn't love you enough to repsect your choices...it's your choice. and you know something, if you give in to this, he will disrespect your wishes, and dismiss your needs and wants for the rest of your relationship...however long...

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What color are your pots and pans? silver

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How do you know if a man REALLY loves a woman? i don't think you ever REALLY know...

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Say you got totally drunk one night with your roommate and ended up in bed. You like her as a friend, but you already know she's just not for you. Now she won't stop asking for it again and insists we can do it with "no strings." What should I do? oh, the consequences of poor decisions...you know something? i have more confidence in you than you do in yourself...i truly believe that if you can get yourself into something, you can get yourself out of it...you can handle this...

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What was your biggest (price) purchase so far? Was it worth the money you paid? my education...yes (my education costs more than my house!)

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Do you think Kayne West was out of line during the VMA's? absolutely

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What shouldn't you do on a plane? vomit

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Why don't people realize all Jesus hung out with was hookers and theives and stuff? what is your point?

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When can money not help you? when you lack integrity

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When can money not help you? when your heart is broken

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Is it ok for a woman(32) that has a relationship but living alone to have male friends over till 10:30 at night? Is this reason for an issue or a break up? asking "is it ok" sounds like you are seeking permission for a 32 year old woman...she doesn't need anyone's approval (including yours) to do anything...and no, this isn't a reason for a break up and it probably isn't even a reason for an issue.

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How do you feel about people who "know people in high places"? They get the advantage, the break, get to go to the head of the line? Do you think it fair to take advantage of who you know? Would you? it may get someone to the head of the line but if they don't have what it takes they won't stay there and that "person in high the high place" will probably have to distance themselves from the putz to keep their high place.

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Do you talk to your pet like some people talk to their infant babies? no...i talk to them like i talk to everybody else...

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My 28 year old daughter has recently been calling my new husband "Darling" and "Love," and wants to be his best friend. How do I discourage her from overstepping the father-daughter relationship boundaries? your husband needs to tell his step-daughter that she is being inappropriate...if he doesn't see it, you have a problem with him and one that is bigger than you realize.

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Why do the Hells Angels look like a bunch of gruff, vicious looking men? Why do I never see even one "businessman-type" amongst them? hells angels are known for being anything but business like unless you call drunken brawls business like...they usually look the part...

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I remarried 11 yrs ago and my daughter was 3.Over the years my husband has become more and more nasty towards her, and picks on her constantly or totally ignores her. Counseling hasn't helped. How can i deal w/ this? first, who's been going to counseling? if it hasn't been him, there's your first problem. second, you have a repsonsibility to protect your child...kick his ass to the curb until he straightens up!

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Why are married women more friendly and approachable, while single women are more cold and distant? what evidence do you have to support this?

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Does this game have to end? Can we begin to find our beautiful selves again? what are you talking about?

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I allowed my long-distance girlfriend to hook up with another guy because it turned us on. Now she really wants to do it more and go further with the same guy. What does this mean? it means that you don't know much about what makes for a good relationship.

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When my 14 year old daughter tells me "She hates me"..what is a real creative way to respond to that? Teenagers I would also love to hear your opinions:) it is not my job to make sure you love me but it is my job to set limits, keep you safe, look out for your best interests, etc.

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Do/Did you live with both parents? both of them until i was 17...then i went out on my own...my parents will soon be married 53 years.

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How come I can't get over the doctrine that says all people that aren't Christian, and maybe some people who honestly profess themselves as Christians, will go to hell? because it's not what you want to hear.

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Who would like to join me in asking answer bag to have a message system to let us send private memos to eachother? i would not use it and would ignore any messages...

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Have u ever been a victim of theft? yes...a few times

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How do you cope with the lack of diversity in the work place? i am self employed...it is just me...there are no diversity problems to cope with.

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I just turned 18 and my girlfriend is 15. Is it illegal for us to have sex? We're not, but her mom is so against me and I want to know if it is legal or not for us to be together. We are about 2 and a half years apart. in missouri it is not illegal unless you turn 21 before she turns 18...then you have a problem.

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My girlfriend tells me that she still has feelings for her ex and she doesn't know whether to break up with me and go back to him or not. Everything i know tells me to dump her but thats the last thing i want to do. Any help would be much appreciated. if you know what to do but aren't willing to do it, what are we suppose to do for you? we can't dump her for you or resolve her feelings for her x.

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Do you like Rockabilly music? What song/which artist? is johnny lang considered rockabilly, blues or country?

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The people who are placed in the position of 'oldest living human' seem to die alot. Could the position be cursed? yeah, that's what it is...you're an idiot.

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You have a friend that refuses to wear a seat belt, do you tell them buckle up or get out or do you shrug and go on risking a ticket or guilt if something should go wrong? it's very simple...just like with children...the car doesn't move until the seatbelts are fastened...and then do it.

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Name one animal which lays eggs turtle

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I cheated on my boyfriend of 5 years about 3 months ago. He never found out. It only happened once, and I feel horrible! It's really starting to eat me up inside. My boyfriend loves me to death, and I love him the same. How can I ever get over this g it is impossible to avoid the consequences of our choices...if you keep it a secret be prepared to have it eat you up from the inside out with guilt...if you tell him be prepared to lose him or have it thrown up in your face for the rest of your life as he may not end the relationship but he may use it to gain power in the relationship...it's too bad people don't think about these...

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Silly name for a pet frog? prince

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What do you think about this idea for the AB? When you get a Friends request you have to put the reason why you denied them or accepted them. What do you think about that idea? bad idea...i would just ignore the reguest.

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Silly name for a pet frog? legs

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My boyfriend is a school teacher at middle school, and when his students ask if he has girlfriend, he tells me that he ignores them or tells them it's none of their buisness. Does this mean he embarrassed by me? no...its about boundaries

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Ok im a good girl, my bf says he likes that but some times he says why cant you be a girl gone bad. for example im doing hw and he says that or wants me to ditch school for him, and my answer is always no. do you think he will get tired of me one day? i hope you tire of him.

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How far will you go to help a homeless person? i have two young women living with me now, one with a 4 year old...one was living in her car and the other was 3-4 days away from living in her car with her child. they pay no rent but they have to prove that they are saving 50% of their income and both are college students (one full-time, one part-time). in exchange for rent/food, they do everything around the house except my laundry...well,...

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Be creative. If you were homeless and had to stand on a street corner with a cardboard sign, what would you write? when i was homeless i didn't have time to stand on the street corner so i would have had to tape my sign up on something but it would have to say "homeless, employed and attending high school...too busy to stand here."

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Have you ever been or known someone homeless? yes and yes

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Do you have pets at home? yes...i have four cats.

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Do you have pets? How many? 4 cats...DaMomma, Bentley, Mercedes and Rolls Royce

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Is it important to be punctual in your first date? Why? tardiness is rude, inconsiderate, and disrespectful to say the least which is not the kind of impression or message i want to send.

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When someone seriously tells you they are very intellegent how do you reply? i say nothing...they have the right to be wrong and they will figure it out on their own time or if they aren't intelligent enough, they won't

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Who was your first best friend and how long were you friends? her name is sandra...we met in 1st grade...we only see each other a couple of times a year but we still consider ourselves friends...it's been 44 years.

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It is early in the morning. Why are you here on answerbag instead of rushing out the door to make that hellish commute to work? i only work monday-thursday (rarely on friday and even more rarely on saturday and NEVER on sunday)...but if it were a monday-thursday morning my answer would be because i am self-employed with a home office and a second office where i see clients only 4 miles from my home...my first client is usually at 2:30.

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I broke up with my ex 2 weeks ago,shortly after i found out i was pregnant and i already moved on and found a new boyfriend.My ex now thinks he isnt the father and the new bf is, what should i do? The only guy i have EVER slept with is my ex... these are the consequences of your choices...i have confidence that you can deal with it...you see, i believe that if you can get yourself into it, you have the skills to get yourself out of it or deal with it. so this is what you do, after you have the baby, you take him to court for child support...that will require a paternity test which will answer the question once and for all...until...

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I think i might be pregnant and im way too young, my parents are so so strict and so are his, im so worried, what will i do?i wanna run away :( i usually get my period the first its already the second! :( these are the natural consequences of the behavior you have chosen...buck up and face the music.

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If a kid gets to his parent's gun and another kid is shot, the parent(s) go to jail. To curb teen sex if a kid gets pregnant or an STD why not toss the parent in jail for that? Maybe it will make the kids think harder 1st. maybe it would encourage parents to put more age appropriate limits on privledges and to supervise them more closely. the only problem is...where are we going to get the money to build the jails to house these people and what do we do with all the unsupervised teens while their parents are in jail? what if we fined them the cost of the welfare their child needs to provide for the baby or...

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You can donate a body part, leave it to science, give it to a friend or relative. How come you can't have body autonomy as pregnant women? They can wipe out a baby they have only 1/2 the DNA, so how come I can't sell a liver etc of which I have 100% of? very good question...the supply would certainly drive the price down for the seller but the demand for the procedure would drive the doctor's price up.

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If you had a choice to rule the world with Hitler as your consultant, would you? there is something to be said for keeping your friends close but your enemies closer!

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You get a chance at a job of a life time, all you have to do is show up & HQ. While waiting to board your flight you meet the finest guy/gal you ever seen and he/she slips you a key card and tells you be at the hotel in 30min. You take the flight or not? I take the flight...but what does HQ mean?

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How can you really have "at will" employment if you can't terminate a person because they are no longer needed etc, because doing so might mean they will run and get a lawyer and sue you, causing you lots of money to defend yourself? I have only worked for one company that properly used "at will" employment...every other company i worked for set themselves up with a policy which includes a lengthly process of correcting and documenting performance issues that by the time they terminate someone they have given this person all kinds of ammo to come back at them with...the one company i worked for understood at will...

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It's said money doesn't matter when it comes to love. But if a guy is strapped for cash, would he still pursue a girl, who is also his college classmate, who he thinks is rich? Would he decide to keep her as a friend? Do guys really have to "pay to play"? it depends on if he is strapped temporarily or if it is a persistant way of life for him...it also depends on if he his pursuing her because he thinks she is rich or if he is pursuing her and he just happens to think she is rich.

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What is the best way to get rich? there is more than one way to be rich...read "A New Framework for Understanding Poverty" and you will better understand the concept. I am not sure how this question applies to the catagor of "money matters and dating"....

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Would feminist push gender equality in birth? If a man wants to be a dad, she don't, he gets paid for no being able to a father, and if he don't want to be a father but she want to keep it he can get a legal abortion and pay no child support? i see that in 2 hours no one has dared responded to this...i know i'm going to take a bashing from some for saying this but here goes...it's too bad people are even having sex with someone they are not committed to and wouldn't want to have a child with. if he wants to be a father then it is his responsibility to communicate that up front with a proper commitment a plan for...

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Do feminist hate being women and the only way they can feel elevated and good about being women is to try to put men down and get them under foot? i am sure this is the case for some. being the best Godly person one can be would not include putting another Godly person down...it may mean setting limits with ungodly people but setting limits doesn't mean one is putting them down.

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Why is it that people (mostly Christioans and Catholics) try to change the faith to fit current lifestyle instead of changing themselves to adhere to the faith they chose? it is my opinion that people do this out of misguided notion of what a Christian really is...

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If you had to choose ONE, would you rather be rich, famous, unimaginably hansome/pretty or a genius? a genius...but honestly, i am pleased with what God has blessed me with.

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How can I get my ten year old brother to stop cursing before he gets in some serious trouble with my mom? He says its coll and all his friends curse but if my mom hears him he'll be in a world of trouble. Should I just let him get caught by mom? his behavior is his choice...do not protect him from the consequences of his choices...he knows what the right thing to do is so the rest is up to him.

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What do you have a whole drawer full of? socks

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The Question with only one correct answer: " Are You a Believer ? " The correct answer is another question i.e. " A believer in what ? " Any Comments? nonsense.

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Who makes your face light up in a smile when you first see them each time? my great neice Maddy and my former fosterkid's little girl Michelle.

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I am 41 and SUPRISE im pregnant (Crying) I want to keep the baby but am afraid for my health and that I am to old. Do I keep my child or do the unthinkable? I really want to keep it. Help! sounds like you have your answer...you want to keep it then keep it and the other option is unthinkable...God bless you and your baby.

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Would you kick a gay person out of your church if you owned one? no one personally owns a church...

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Is it bad to have a answerbag account cause my boyfriend got mad? if your BF is bad because you have an AB account, tell him to grow up! and you would be wise to heed this as a warning...he's possessive, jealous, and controlling...unless you are willing to live with that for the rest ofyour life, dump him NOW!

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What are you going to do this afternoon? i'm going to work the snow cone stand for our church block party to kick off our revival.

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Where is your money at right now? some of it is in various bank accounts, some in safe deposit box, some is hidden where it takes tools to get to and there's a very generous staff of mad cash in my purse.

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What are useful things to pack in your car for a long road trip? I only want to take things that can be used but that won't take up lots of space. everyone gave you great tips but no one mentioned music...be sure and take some of your favorite CDs...radio reception isn't always the best in some areas.

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I know a quick easy way to get lots of points on AB; I saw a lot of question about the asker congratulating another user on AB for becoming a Sage, Maestro, etc. This indeed got some freebies, what do you think? I might start congratulating.....lol :) i never give points to those questions...to my knowledge, that is not the purpose of AB.

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What type of questions do you think start augments? it's not the question that starts the argument...it's someone that doesn't like the answer.

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What is your most wild theory? that the ignorant/stupid will inherit the earth because they reproduce more.

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Who was the last person in your family to go to jail? no one in my immediate family has ever been in jail...i have one cousin that i know of that has spent time in jail and I have about 70 cousins...

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You're kidnapped,they demand 3 million dollars ransom for your safe return !! What would your family do? Hopefully, nothing...i wouldn't want them to...what they would have to give up to get that kind of money would ruin the rest of our lives...if my kidnappers kill me, my family can sleep good knowing that i am saved and have gone to be with my maker.

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Does your TV love you? uh, that would be no...

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Have you ever been out of your country? Why yes, because i can...

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Someone told he thinsk i am a freak the boy he keeps on looking at me and form this day he is still looking at me last week he was hanging around me and could not keep his eyes of me and now he is igorying me? sounds like a bunch of nonsense to me...really, who has time to be concerned with someone looking at them or ignoring them?

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Are your spices organized? yes...

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Does Viagra still work after 4 years of expiration date or should I throw them out? ask your pharmacist...

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No matter how much we try, can we as individuals ever satisfy each other's expectations indefinitely, or do we end up proving a disappointment to each other given enough time? it is not even remotely reasonable to expect anyone to meet indefinate expectations...

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The Bible has said in many places that a woman should not have authority over a man and that they be silent in church unless speaking to other women. Are women pastors and preacher biblical or man's doctrine? exactly which scriptures state this? i must read them in context to understand the application.

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WHAT IS THE BEST WAY TO GET RID OF MICE IN THE HOME ,I HEARD SOMETHING ABOUT USEING PEPPERMINT adopt a barn cat...they are fantastic hunters!

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Is it possible to be a sociopath and still be a nice person? well yeah, how do you think they get close to their victims?

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Should i still wait for my ex to change his mind to be in a serious relationship with me who i still like and want to be with, he says he still likes me and wants me, but he doesnt want the girlfriend - boyfriend thing no one can make this decision for you...however, for me, it is a waste of my time and energy to want someone that doesn't want me. i dont' care what he says about liking you and wanting you, if he isn't with you then he doens like you enough or want you bad enough to be worthy of you! move on and make yourself available to someone who does and will!

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I'm 19 and still living with my parents. They clearly stated that they do not want me sleeping at guy's houses. How can I explain to this guy I'm seeing that I can't sleep over?! I told him once but he keeps insisting. You say "as long as i'm living under my parents' roof, i have a responsibility to them. once i am financially indepedent of them, i can do as i wish...but until then, this is how it is." if he does not accept your answer, then he does not respect you and you need to dump him. if he succeeds in wearing you down and getting his way, he will use this tactic again and again...

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If you don't understand something, do you keep asking questions until you do understand or just give up? if it's important to me to understand, i keep asking and do not give up!

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Why are people agaisnt emergency medical treatment for ilegal immigrants? Racism? i am not against it if they can pay for it...but why should my tax dollars go to benefit someone that is here illegally? please explain that to me...

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Can you show anger without being rude? yes...

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What are the keys to a successful marriage/relationship? there is no secret to a happy marriage...lots of research has been done about it and many books have been written...two of my favorites are "Women Men Leave, Women Men Love" and "The Marriage Book"

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My 13 year old daughter has a crush on her science teacher, who is 15 years older, and said she hopes to be his wife one day and have kids with him. Is this normal? she is just fine...fantasizing about one's "crush" is not uncommon...i'd rather my 13 year old entertain a fantasy about an unattable man or celebrity than be acting them out with a peer. a man of his quality is unattainable only for the time-being but when she's older, she will most likely find the same qualities attractive (educated, employed, respectful, etc)...i...

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We have a 13 yr old daughter who wears 2much makeup. We dont want her wearing dark eye makeup, esp eye liner. It looks cheap on her young, pale complexion. She openly defys us and wears it, not even trying to hide it. It's a constant battle. What to do? pick your battles...OR fight it to the end. you are the parents, if you are buying it for her, don't buy it...if she's buying it with money you give her, take it and don't give her any more money for a period of time as a consequence...refuse to let her leave the house with it on...if she's buying it with her own money you can still take it...but honestly, i'd let her...

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Did you buy milk, bread, soda, or anything, for that matter, yesterday? the only thing i bought yesterday was lunch.

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Obama passing new law to allow searching of PC's, Laptops, and media devices. Loss of freedom or a needed intrusion? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6yPmtQDWZ1s&feature=related LOSS OF FREEDOM!!!! TRY THIS...http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mqfuZ7hiap0&feature=PlayList&p=90E4B1DE83E24FAD&index=0&playnext=1

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Obama is losing the Independent voters. How will this affect the next election? O will take away our rights to vote before the next election...

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Will Obama be reelected? we will probably lose our right to vote under O...

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If Obama signs a Federal Mandate into law saying that all people must buy insurance or be fined, is that not a "tax increase on people making under 2000,000 dollars a year"? If I remember correctly that is what made George W Bush #1 a one term looser! yep, a poorly disguised tax increase...O is going to ruin us...universal healthcare doesn't mean healthcare universally! people will die waiting for services just like people die now because they don't have insurance or don't pay for insurance but under the new plan it will be an equal opportunity to die from lack of healthcare. the people that are working and working and...

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Is food a human right like Health care? neither are human rights...i work hard at being self-employed for the privledge of having food on my table and private health insurance...why should i have to work harder/longer hours to pay for those who don't want to work hard for it? I have worked for my own spending money since i was 12...and went out on my own just after turning 17 (rented from a slumlord but i was on my own)...i...

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Christians what encoragement or advice do you have for fellow christians on AB? Remember, it's God's approval you are seeking.

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Do some Americans really think a national health care system, gives yous Death Panels? If yes, thats so stupid its not even funny. every insurance company has them...they just don't call them "death panels". I've known several people that died because their insurance company would not pay for a liver transplant or a heart transplant. These decisions are made by groups or panels of people that work for the insurance carrier. What do you call those people or groups that deny life saving procedures? I...

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Have you seen what the Democrat have in mind for our new health care bill? Check out this link and let us know what you think. i think it stinks...our government is out of control and it's only going to get worse before Obama gets out of office...our government runs everything into the ground...business management is beyond our government's comprehension...look at the post office...healthcare will be no different. our government is destroying us.

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Do you know how lucky you are? lucky, no - blessed, yes!

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Can you imagine a world without divorce? Would you think it would be a better world... for the children, for the parents...? not unless people quit marrying for the wrong reasons...children would rather be from a broken home than living in one.

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What is your favorite all time movie and why is it your favorite? Dangerous Beauty

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If i were to properly tie a noose, and find the right height, would hanging myself be a painless way to die? how quick would it be? how likely that some one would be able to stop me? I plan on doing it in a secluded area. i don't think it's all that quick...otherwise so many people wouldn't live through it when it goes wrong. as far as painless, i would think it would hurt...where is this secluded area you have scoped out?

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Why do all women hate me? Is it because they can tell im resentfull that no woman has ever been interested in me? you can be resentful if you want but no one will want to be around...a bad/negative attitude doesn't do much for a date...i know you are shy, resentful and expect the worst, so that's what you get...the worst.

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Why are some people judgemental and self righteous about commiting suicide? Its my life i can terminate it when i want; what right do people have to judge me or suicides for this? wow, i can't believe you are still at it...what exactly are your protective factors?

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I cheated on my boyfriend, told my best friend, and then she went and told my boyfriend. Now he's crushed and all of my friends won't talk to me. He said he won't dump me. How can I help us get over all of this? "your" friends won't talk to you? i don't understand that...it's not like you cheated on them...oh well, we reap what we sow.

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How would you feel if you met a 24-year-old who happens to only be of a Junior standing in college? feel? i would feel nothing...what is there to "feel"? i wouldn't make any kind of judgement based on this limited amount of info either.

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Can an employer legally cut your pay unannounced in an effort to get you to quit so they don't have to pay unemployment insurance benefits? to my knowledge, unless you have a contract stating otherwise, yes, they can...as long as it is still at least minimum wage.

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Have you ever gone to a psychic? yes, it was a joke!

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Who loves to smoke cocaine like me not me but maybe this explains your voodoo curse...

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If wife does not fullfill her husband desire then should he look for other woman and how. no he should not...he should figure out what he is doing that keeps her from wanting to fulfill his desires. if he's rude or inconsiderate, she isn't going to want to be intimate with him.

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Would you like your parents to live next door to you? i live across the street from my parents and both of my brothers live within 1.5 miles of us. it's working out very well...especially as our parents get older and need us more...it is so convenient to look in on them, pick stuff up at the store and drop it off, etc.

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I am 26 years old and i live with my parents.My dad constanltly bullies me and attacks me mentally to the point where i am emotionally abused.He calls me names and i never do anything bad or wrong to them.He even hits me once in awhile.What can i do? there's no excuse for you to be living at home...even if you are in college, you can work full-time and go to school full-time and live on your own...i did it and thousands of others do it all the time.

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Is Houston worth it? what is it?

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Is it still domestic violence if the victim didn't get injured? (i.e. - s/he hits him/her but no injury resulted)? yes...i've counseled women who have orders of protection against them because they have abused their boyfriend/husband.

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If you new your friend was having an affair, (being used) would you tell the spouse of the one your friend was cheating with? no...for one thing it's none of my business...and for another maybe his wife knows, doesn't care but doesn't want to think others know.

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Several people on answer bag have lost their sense of humor..will you help me look for it? there's no point...i can't fix their problems...

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If i sleep with 3 different guys in two weeks, does that make me a slut? uh...that would be yes...it that bothers you, then change...if not, then don't.

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My dad refuses to put the toilet seat down after he pees. He tells me I'm a germophobe and to do it myself. His excuse is ''its my house!" Is this poor manner? Im a girl, and i dont think i should have 2 do it. this is the beauty of having your own place...you can be gross if you want to and you don't have to be gross if you don't want to...get your own place!

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How much do you enjoy silence? it is golden...

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I was stretching today and I collapsed what was the cause? stretching

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Should people of between 50 and 55 be forced to retire from their jobs in order to make way for younger workers? no...

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You organized a 1 on 1 meeting with someone, both agreed to meet. On the day of meeting you are on time and expecting them turn up on time also but you do not know they will not turn up at all. How long are you prepared to wait until you decide to leave? depends...professionally, i wait 10 minutes, check voicemail messages and if there's no word from them, i leave. personally, it depends on the person. i have a few friends who are chronically late so i plan to be late accordingly. otherwise, i wait about 30 minutes.

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Do you think it makes a man appear less masculine when he stays home with the children and his wife works? only if the housework and childcare isn't getting done.

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What will the United States be like 10 years from now? there may not even be a US...

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Is there a way to legally hide some of your income from an ex-spouse because of their greed to increase child support when you are already paying an exorbitant amount. if you don't want to pay child support don't have sex with women that you aren't committed to and confident that they are committed to you as well...a man never knows if a woman is being honest about her birth control/fertility and men are just too vulnerable to being trapped.

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What should landlords do if one of their tenants dies? every application should have an emergency contact listed...if that info is no longer current, then the police or coroner's takes over. as far as the stuff...that would depend on the state laws...when i worked in the apartment industry in FL we would "store" the stuff for 30 days before disposing of it.

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Why is it that American relationships so fragile? people enter relationships for the wrong reasons and have unrealistic expectations.

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Go to www.urbandictionary.com & type in your name. What does it say? a gorgeous looking type of girl.

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Why do many couples go off each other and seperate after they have a baby? Is it because they are now responsible mothers and fathers living a demanding parental lifestyle and not the same people they first fancied when they first met ?. they get married for the wrong reasons and/or have unrealistic expectations.

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Christians, if the rapture were to occur tomorrow, would you be left behind ? Are you saved and living for God or saved and living for self ? (not judgmental just searching) i am a Christian and i became a Christian by being saved. your question makes me wonder if you understand Christianity as i do...once saved always saved...which means all who are saved will be taken in the event described in the Bible which we commonly refer to as the Rapture.

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What to do or say when someone compliments you? say thank you...what do you do?

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Is it irresponsible to have lots of children? it's not responsible to have more of anything than you can take care of...children, pets, stuff...

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Have u experienced s/o in a relationship who seems to have a manipulative nature, who twists yr words and events in their advantage and even believe their own version of the "thruth" and blame u? How do u remain friends after break-up n take unfair blame? as soon as i experience someone like that i make it my mission to stay away from them but if i didn't discover this until i was in a relationshp i would cut off all contact when i broke up. i do not need that nor want it in my life.

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Do you ever eat at a restaurant alone? yes...

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Have you ever blamed your parents for troubles in your life? "they didn't do right by me." "they didn't raise me right." Just as examples. no, i learned very early to take responsibility for myself...that's why i left home at 17 years and 2 months.

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What is something that might make your heart pump faster? trying to catch a chipmunk that got in the house

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What are the signs if a girl checking you out she picks you up and waves your behind over the scanner...

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What it the perfect idea of a vacation for you? a tropical island vacation on a private beach...no phone, no internet, no alarms going off, no appointments other than the one at the end of the week to meet the plane at the airstrip to take me home.

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I'm in love but I don't think the guy likes me.I talk to him all the time but I havent talked to him in a week.I've dated him before and I'm trying to get him back but he keeps saying I don't know.How can I get him back?I really love him!! IF you really love him then want for him exactly what he wants for himself...even if that means not being with you. let him go...quit wasting your time...what is going on that you want to be with someone that doesn't want to be with you and doesn't even have the backbone to be honest with you...the only thing he does't know is how to get yout accept that it is over.

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Why would a man leave his dream girl? because he woke up and saw the reality of things.

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Is the goal of all religion PRIMARILY to be a "good" person? Why or why not? I cannot speak for all religions because i am not familiar with all religions. i can tell you there are few goals in the Baptist religion or at least this is what i understand the priorities to be...once saved the goal is embark on a path of spiritual growth to become more Christ-like...and to witness to others so that they may have the same opportunity.

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Do apologies alone matter? Can you just accept them, or do you need more? i make it easy for people to apologize to me...i accept them and need nothing more.

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In your estimation what is sin? my estimation has nothing to do with it...it is all determined by God and spelled out for you in the Bible. i suggest reading and studying the Bible to figure that out.

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Can you change someone perception on something? no...only they can do that for themselves.

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Would it be wrong to use some of my son's b-day money (he'll be 2) towards paying for his birthday party? YES...boundaries and self-restraint are needed here. put the money in savings...someday he will need a car, books for college, etc. if you can't afford to throw the birthday party then don't OR scale it back to what you can afford...how big of a party does a 2 year old need anyway. the party would be more for you anyway.

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During your life, have you ever changed the way you think? oh my gosh, YES! fortunately, as i have lived, i have learned.

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Who is most likely to make a mountain out of a molehill? the National Enquirer

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Do you think its right to be able to buy Red Bulls, candy and other non essential food items with your food stamp card? no...toothpaste, laundry detergent and toilet paper are more important than those things and you can't buy those things.

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Do you think this will be the HOT new toy for Christmas? You know where all the parents are beating each other up to get the last one? NO...i'm not a barney fan but if you want people to see the video just ask if people think it's funny...this is not a hot new toy.

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Should women Love, Honor, Worship and Obey their husband/partners? if they are truly Godly men and their men behave in a way that can be loved, honred, worshipped and obeyed.

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My bf has chosen not to work, leaving me to pay all the bills. He just had a visit to the E.R., he wants me to pay his bill. Should I? no...why is he your boyfriend?

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What do you often Pray for? i most often pray for God to give me the right words to say the really difficult things at the right time.

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Im a counselor and I had a really bad day at work to the point where I don't know what to think, to the point where I question my ability, does anyone have anything that can cheer me up? what would you say to one of your clients if they walked in and said this to you?

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What were idle threats your parents gave you, that you knew they would never follow through with? Example: I will knock you into next week. my parents didn't make threats...if they said it, we knew they'd carry it out...

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Does spanking your child cause him to hit other children? research shows that spanking children increases the likelihood that they will hit people they see as smaller and weaker than they are. some of the people that say they were spanked and claim they do not hit others, probably really do hit others...they hit those who are smaller and weaker (less powerful) than they are and they call it spanking. there are other ways to redirect a child's...

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My teenager has a 10 year old cat, I have threatened to give it away several times, because she refuses to clean the litter box on a regular basis.I know this would break both their hearts so I haven't done it, but I am at my wits end. Am I just too soft? has the cat been with your family since it was a kitten? if so, that would be cruel to the cat. if you were going to get rid of the cat for this reason, you should have done so the very first time it happened. also, if you've had the cat for 10 years, what has suddenly happened that you can't put up with this any longer? i have no idea how old your daughter was when she got the...

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Do you think diaper punishment is a good idea? no one in their right mind would think diaper punishment is a good idea...

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Im not Christian, but I thought the PassionOfTheChrist blatantly exploited the story of Christ & people's devotion to him. Does anyone else think it's lame for some guy to make millions shooting a gore film about the suffering of many people's "savior?" I don't think it was a gore film...i think it captured just how brutal life was then. I also don't think it's lame for anyone to make money off of their work.

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Have you ever known anyone with false teeth? yes, several...

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When was the last time you ate out in a nice restaurant, not fast food or buffet? last night, 8/28/09, Cheesecake Factory...it was pretty nice...the red velvelt cheesecake was amazing...

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Do you think it's ridiculous when people post questions just to argue with you when you answer them? yes...some people come here looking for validation, not answers...so when you don't tell them what they want to hear, they get their panties in a wad...

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Why do some youngsters choose a life in crime? Don't they know crime doesn't pay in the long run? they are groomed/conditioned, either knowingly or unknowingly by others in their environment...immediate gratification (they don't believe they have a future so why plan for it or why work for a future payoff)...sense of entitlement...narcissisism...it can be related to brain damage...it can be motivated by a need (need to belong, need for drugs/food). there are many reasons...read...

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At what age would it be appropriate to teach one's own child how to drink alcoholic beverage responsibly? research shows the younger someone is when they start drinking the more likely they are to become an alcoholic. in some countries it's illegal to give children alcohol. the only way to drink responsibly is to not drink at all. as someone said, you can't forbid it but you can let them know what you expect, set a good example and not drink yourself, not provide it for them and not...

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Tonight I found out I was the "other woman" with my best friend who's been lying to me for weeks about being broken up with his g/f. I confronted her tonight and we yelled at him, he said nothing. He's my neighbor. How do I handle seeing him? this is why it's not a good idea to date a neighbor...i don't know if you rent or own but you can break the lease or sell the house and move.

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Do you say yes when a guy ask you to dance, and do a two- step even if you don't feel like it? i can't imagine not feeling like it...

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My husband is not working due to laziness. He is making it tough for me because i work, and support the family. He is also brain washing my kids against me. I have no love for him. Can i divorse him on these grounds? in america you don't have to have a reason to get a divorce

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Is it wrong to give children alcohol with dinner? ya know something, knownothing? you weren't even the one my comments were really directed at...you weren't the one that originally brought up children in iraqi...geez...we agree that there are very good reasons not to give children alcohol...how did this get so derailed?

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Why does a guy tell you he wants you back while all the time he was seeing someone else? told me he planned on us going back out but he needed to get his life together. got mad when I was suppose to go on a date + said he couldn't be with anyone else. i don't care what he says, behavior doesn't lie...he isn't behaving like he wants you so move on and cut your losses

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What can I do to make my husband stop spending too much time talking to his two ex-girldfriend? We 've been married for 20 years, he seem to love me because he doesn't want to leave me or divorce me but he talks to his exes more than he talk to me. Help! nothing...just leave, go on with your life, have nothing to do with him until he can demonstrate that he is done with those relationships...this will be harder if he has children with them.

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Parents: if there was a required reading list for parents-to-be, what book(s) would you want to see on it? Parenting for Dummies would be the first one...

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...what is your favorite "punctuation mark" ?... !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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What's wrong with referring to women as girls? it's condescending

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What TO DO I feel Alone? Im 15 years old and i slept with i dude that is 37 and he gave me and STD.So my Mom put charges ong him and i really didnt want to do but there waz much i could do. Now im Scard that he would say some thing or hurt me. help plz your parents might want to get an order of protection to keep him away from you and you may have to take precautions to keep yourself safe from him. he is the adult here and he crossed the line. it is so very important that he be prosecuted for this so maybe he will be prevented from hurting others. i am so sorry this happened to you...it might help you feel better about yourself and your...

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If a man moves into his GF house to live permanently, and she has paid off the entire mortgage, should he pay rent, or money for the privilege of living in the house? he should pay rent and at least split the monthly utilities...because she will have to look after her investment and make sure taxes, insurance, and maintenance is taken care of...he should pay enough that she can save some of it toward long term expenses such as roof replacement and carpet/floor replacement...he's using those things while he's there and should contribute to the...

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Please help me! I have an freeloading boyfriend that doesnt want to leave my apt. He became very negative for the past 3mnths now...I took notice of it & realized that he is a worthless piece of sh!t and looking to live off hard working people..what 2 do? i have all the confidence in the world in you...you figured out how to get yourself into this, i know you can figure out how to get yourself out of it.

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I miss my boyfriend sleeping next to me. He stays up all night on AB, and sleeps while I work in the day. Am I wrong to be upset and want him to be next to me at night? i'd be more upset that he wasn't working...what a loser

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7 years ago my next door neighbors mom hurt me very much by accusing me of something very bad... How do I cope with this in a way that isn't harmful to myself... I have had clinical depression since I was 8 which was when It all went down... Any help? this calls for a professional. tell your parents you want to see a professional for help with this. if you have insurance, call your insurance company...there should be a number for mental health on the back of your card...give them an idea of what your problem is and they should be able to refer you to someone in their network that has experience dealing with such problems.

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Do you think blasphemers should have their tongues cut out? Why or why not? no...because i don't want mine cut out because someone doesn't like my Christian perspective.

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What means more to you Christmas or Thanksgiving Christmas.

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Don't you ever wonder how older people have no problem making funneral arrangements for themselves? no...it's the kindest and most responsible thing they can do for their survivors...and it's a sign that they are dealing with reality.

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Why is what happened in this news story, a "bad" thing or a "big deal?" The dude was DEAD! So what? Some bodies are CREMATED, ya know! i think if they had gotten the family's/widow's permission, this would not have been an issue...i'm not sure. i know it's against the law to abuse a corpse. i am sure an extra long coffin would have been more expensive...how do we know that the widow didn't agree to it to avoid having to special order a casket, wait for it's delivery and pay the extra expense?

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Do people really need to look at a deceased person in a casket? Wouldn't a nice collection of photographs while they were alive be more suitable? for me, it makes it real...it is part of the acceptance process of grieving and it in no way replaces any of the wonderful memories i have of the person. i was with my brother when he died...ALOT of us were...so i saw his body at that time too. being with him at that time was an unselfish act for all of there...it was by far the hardest thing any of us there have ever done but it was more...

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Your blind date just arrived & u go to open the door ...... He has a stain on his shirt .... What do you say or do ?..... just observe him throughout the date like i would if he didn't have a stain on his shirt...by the end of the date i would have an idea of what was going on with him.

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Can you believe a mother can forget a baby in her car?read this http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,306556,00.html how could you possibly forget your baby in your car? what do you think should happen to the mother? it happened here in st louis once...tragic...parents were both doctors...it was determined to be an accident...i am still very sad for the parents as they have to live with this for the rest of their lives...i don't see how a jail sentence could possibly help the situation. people need to be careful when they start pointing their fingers at others...their life isn't over yet and they...

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How could I make my bf know that if he proposes one day I would like it to be with a ring (I don't care if it's not expensive) just because of its symbolism, without actually telling him directly? if you are not willing to tell him what you want how are you going to have a successful marriage...playing games and mindreading won't do it.

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You find a domestic dog loose in your chicken yard, with a dozen birds laying dead and one in its mouth. Do you think it's reasonable to shoot the dog? Or would you just ask it politely to not kill all your animals? it is reasonable and legal to shoot the dog (although that is not what i would do)...asking it politely not to kill your animals is pointless.

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Now that Ted Kennedy is dead, will Massachusetts bars and taverns go into mourning? what is your point?

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Why do people hit their children? because they don't know any better and they are either unable or unwilling to learn to do better.

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If a sales girl stays at work longer to help me, does she like me? no...

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Does anyone even care about the victims in the war in Iraq? yes...but not every thread is the place to go on and on about it.

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When is the last time you cleaned your walls with murphy oil soap? i have drywall and rock...not appropriate for those surfaces

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Would you feel successful if someone whom you wanted to fail did? but i don't want anyone to fail...there is more than enough success for everyone...success is not a limited commodity...their failure in no way adds to my success...as a matter of fact-if you use the old addage that a chain is only as strong as it's weakest link, we (as a country) are only as successful as the least successful of us.

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Would you be against slave labour in prisons in California? no....

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Why are you a good person? because i have to live with myself

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Are you pro or anti gun control? anti gun control

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Satisfied with Obama's halthcare plan? not at all

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Have you ever been in the position of knowing someone didn't like you and not knowing why? yes...it's really none of my business so i just go on with my life.

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If someone relentlessly complains or finds fault with you, demanding you change, would you think they liked you? no...and i'd put lots of distance between the two of us because there is no reason for someone to relentlessly complain or find fault with me...i'm not perfect but i won't put up with that!

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Is it wrong to give children alcohol with dinner? in the US it is illegal...even in the privacy of your own home...if your children are old enough to tell someone that this is happening, you are running the risk of having the children removed from your care. AND i know of babies that have been removed from their parents care because the parents were putting alcohol in the bottle or sippy cup to get the children to go to sleep. the parents...

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Does anyone have someone on AB that you can't stand hearing from yeah...some people just don't know what they don't know...i just unsubscribe to comments when they appear.

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Have anything to say to Talimze as she rests in the Penalty Box? not a thing...

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What food are you afraid to eat from fear of getting your fingers caught in your mouth? that is not a fear i have ever experienced...what about you?

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If you were a flying elephant whos head would you poop on first? obama's

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Do you get yelled at a lot? no. i haven't been yelled at since i quite working for a woman that was (and i'm sure still is) an alcoholic which was the summer of 2005.

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When was the last time your car/truck broke down? What was the problem? last winter - had to buy a new battery...not a big deal at all...drove to Auto Zone, bought it and they put it in for me.

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Do you think i'm pretty? see my answer for pic i will say not really without even looking at the picture...the fact that you are asking takes away from any physical beauty you may have.

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Why do women need four adult male witnesses to prove rape? Where is a woman going to get four non-participating male witnesses (assuming non-participants would have helped her and stopped the rape)? that isn't the case where i live...

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Who invented the steam engine? have you googled this?

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Which science lab at Rutgers New Brunswick is easier? The Intro to Biochemistry Lab (313) or the Genetics Lab? I haven't gotten a clear answer on this one. Thanks. i wouldn't expect there to be a clear answer on something like this...it depends on the person...some people find biochemistry easier and others will find genetics easier.

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Recently, Barrack Obama has recently said that if elected, he will pass funding legislation that will make the government pay for much of our college, and will also pay for daycare for parents... What is your opinion about these ideas? my opinion is that those working in this country don't make enough money to pay for all of this even if they took 100% of our money and left us with nothing to live on...but hey, we'd have crappy healthcare, daycare even for people that don't have kids and college for people that don't make the grades...

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A married 36 year old woman meets a 15 year old guy and fall in love is this wrong? it will get you on the sex offender registry!

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Do you think that "intellectual stimulation" is overrated? no...

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Where do modern nazi feelings come from? Everyone is told that these things are wrong there whole lives, so how can theses people think its ok? you are sadly mistaken...everyone is not told these things are wrong their whole lives...they are groomed, condition, brainwashed...and they know it's not ok which is why many hide under hoods and sheets.

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Does your car odometer reads over 100,000 miles? yes, 117,000 and running like a charm!

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Should we teach our teachers well? that's a no brainer!

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Hey guys ... if you found out that your new fiance had cheated on you while you were dating, would you call it off? were you dating exclusively at the time? had that been made clear or did you just assume it?

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What do I say to my Pastor when I ask him if he will marry me and my fiance? "Pastor, would you perform my wedding?"...why is this so hard?

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Is 18 too young to get engaged or at least move in with your boyfriend/girlfriend? Been with my boyfriend off and on for over 4 years (since I was 14). Advice please. the "off and on" comment is more concerning than your age...but you are too young to be "playing house" and i know you won't agree with that until you have lived and learned. unless you are ready to do his laundry, cooking his meals and cleaning up after him for the rest of your life, don't do it.

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When you see people smoking in a car with little kids in the car, what do you do? Do you say something or ignore it? i don't even notice...it's not illegal...they aren't my children...what do you do?

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Hi, could you please tell me how fast an average man would have to be traveling to run through a brick wall? Thanks! depends on the construction of the brick wall.

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Is three weeks into a new relationship too soon to be considering living together? yes...really, how well can you know this person after only 3 weeks?

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Are you addicted to using your phone with calling or texting? NO...my phone is on silent all the time...i return calls at my convenience. most text i delete after reading the first 3-4 words as they are nonsense that has been forwarded-much like email, i delete most emails based on the subject line...if it's forwarded nonsense, it's deleted without even opening it.

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How do you get rid of trust issues (based entirely on past relationships on not current)? read the book Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway and it will change the way you feel about "trust issues"...your issues aren't with trusting others it's trusting yourself...knowing you will use your best judgement and impliment boundaries accordingly, accepting that you can't control others, and confidence that you can handle whatever life throws your way.

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Im fed up with single life, Anybody else feel this way? All my friends are now in relationships, im the only single female left out of them all, why is it so hard for me to find somebody? no...i'm better off than 90% (or more) of the people i know that are in relationshps.

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My boyfriend admited he wanted to view a porn channel linked up with a wman being brutally raped, i asked why he wanted to watch this as i couldnt understand why he would want to watch such a horrible thing, his reply was that he was curious, i am not hiv there is no question here...

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What are three things you can't do? i can't whistle i can't do a back flip i can't speak a foriegn language

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My daughter wants to start dating, she says all her friends are and that she had been invited on a date to the cinema next week. But I think she is waaay to young, she is only 11. Should I let her go? dating at 11 is different than dating at 16. you don't say how old the boy is, how the date will be paid for, how they will get to and from the cinema OR who else will be with them. i would let my child go IF, i knew the boy and he was her age within a year, IF i knew his parents and found them to be appropriate parents, IF there would be an adult or other kids there, IF the movie was...

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Do you think part of the problem is we live in a very judgmental Society? I have an Autistic young Adult son and friends who are high functioning Autistic/Aspergers they are very intelligent. Do they have the right to be unique? To be imperfect? yeah, i'm not sure what problem you are referring to...honestly, i think society is too tolerant of garbage and it drags us all down. As far as your other questions...everyone is unique and imperfect, not just your son and his friends.

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I'm thinking about doing a foundation degree in psychology as i didn't meet the admission requirements of the university of Aberdeen. I got 3 D's the condition was 3 C's. Could you please help me with looking for some places that could give me an offer? between the 3 D's and this question, i have come to the conclusion that you are lazy. do the academic world a favor, don't bother. a degree in psychology is useless anyway unless you go on to get a PHD and your apparent lack of desire and effort indicates you would never do the work to get that far.

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Why does everybody major in PSYCHOLOGY? not everyone majors in psychology. i didn't...but the people that I know that did had not researched it very well...none of them knew that a 4 year degree in psychology did not make them a psychologist...they had no idea that they needed a PHD and a state license!

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Theres this guy i like and last night i was on msn & i said i had a boyfriend but then i said i was kidding then he said oh good cause i got worried for a sec. what do you think that means ??does he like me? is english a second language for you?

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What is the biggest mistake you ever made and would you take it back if you could or do you believe that everything you do is who you are and you will be better for it in the long run i have no regrets...i am who and what i am as a result of everything in my past and i'm ok with who and what i am today and what i will be in the future.

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Ladies: I cannot believe I got a DR on this answer. What do you think? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7449987 why are you hung up on getting DR'd for that? You've got 48 points for your answer so far...what do you expect? surely you know there are idiots out there!

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If humans were ethical would they charge more than what their products and services are worth and then lobby to pay employee salaries/benefits wage=work? who determines the worth? is your opinion regarding the worth of something more valuable then mine? something is only worth what a person is willing/able to pay for it. i don't know what you mean by "and then lobby to pay employee salaries/benefits wage=work".

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If your partner strangled your cat to death while you were visiting your family, how would you react? he wouldn't be my partner any longer. i would make a police report...file an order of protection to keep him away from me and future/other pets. pray that the state pressed charges for animal abuse.

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'True altruism doesn't exist.' Can anybody challenge this statement? i believe your statement is true. for something to be altruistic there has to be no benefit to the person performing the act. the least of which would be the benefit of knowing you've done the right thing or knowing you've done something to help someone...the sense of self satisfaction is enough to render the act as less than altruistic. Also, all behavior is motivated by...

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My nephew will be put up for adoption after his birth in just 30 days, and his mother is an alcoholic who also occasionally smoke pot throughout the pregnancy. What are my ethical obligations to this child (I am also a pastor)? i am not familiar with the ethical obligations of a pastor. how long have you known that she was smoking pot while pregnant? was she also using alcohol while pregnant? if you've known this all along, isn't it a bit late in the fetal development process to prevent problems? i would think the damage is already done. are you considering telling the adoptive parents? what point is...

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Mom's seem to tend to favor their sons. Dad's tend to favor their daughters. Agree or disagree? How was it in your family? Who seemed to favor whom? Did it create a problem for you? EDIT: my original answer wasn't showing up and i didn't feel like retyping it so i just responded a second time with a very short answer here. i see now that my first answer is showing up...please take your points away.

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My friend had an alcoholic boyfriend, they broke up as he was lieing about drinking, she met another guy down the Gym and they ended up hitting it off. SO much so that she slept with him, she then slept with her ex a couple of days later. What to do? how do you let this guy down? she could say something along the lines of, "i'm afraid you misunderstood my behavior. i'm really not interested in anything more with you." What do you do about the x? you say nothing of why he can't be trusted...but honestly, trust is more about herself than him. if she had confidence in her ability to handle anything life threw at...

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Me and my ex been with each other for 3 years we broke up like 3 weeks ago then i got back with her but we started to fight agian but i know she loves me but she told me that she was not happy any more then we broke up she told me she needs time apart? what is your question?

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Do you ever feel as if you are being "played".... Manipulated by some unseen force...as if Someone Else is pulling your strings? no...

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How often do you think Grandparents should Babysit for their Adult children? i would hope that the adult children didn't need to be babysat...but as far as babysitting their grandchildren, they can make themselves available to babysit as often as they want or as infrequent as they want...there are no rules about things like this.

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Is it ok to wear a grey dress which is just above the knees and black tights under the dress for a funeral? yes.

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The word 'self-' can be collocated with_____. impose

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What's one thing that just makes you wanna cry? the thought of how my mom and dad cried when my oldest brother died. i love him and i miss him but seeing their pain of burying their oldest child was devastating...even writing this makes me cry.

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How can there be love in the world if you are forced to be with people you don't love or forced to do things you don't love? i can only answer for myself...no one forces me to do anything. even the things i'm not crazy about doing, get done because i choose to do them. i'm not sure i understand the connection you are making between love in the world and being forced to do things...frankly, i don't understand how anyone forces anyone else to do something. so, does this mean there lots of love in my...

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The word 'self-' can be collocated with_____. made

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The word 'self-' can be collocated with_____. taught

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The word 'self-' can be collocated with_____. discipline

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The word 'self-' can be collocated with_____. control

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Do you ever have people abuse your apology, if so how? no...i apologize and forgive others so to lighten my burden.

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My good friend Princess is moving from a 2400 sq foot home to a 800 sq foot town home! What would be a good House Warming gift? a spa/massage gift certificate...moving is stressful and downsizing can be even more so!

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My son is in jail for a simple probation violation, his urine was dirty. the judge is trying to give him 1 year. Is that reasonable and is there anything I can do to help get him out sooner. He has already served 48 days. no sympathy here...by why don't you try digging a tunnel under the fence?

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Do you think the bible is too complex?If so,does this explain why to you? no...not if you study it.

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Do you think Cable TV plays an important part in your cultural and entertainment life? not mine...i don't have it

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My boyfriend is friends with this girl. The girl and i had a big fight over him in like janurary, so we hate each other. But i like him a lot and i think she still like him. He promises me he doesn't like her but they talk all the time. What should i do? grow up

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Why do so many marriages end in in divorce so soon these days? Some barely last a year or two? What's wrong? Your theory? people get married for the wrong reason(s)

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How do you know if your depressed or if you have bipolar disorder? I'm not sure because i'm always down, but have a great life, i just feel alone & it sucks. I cry all the time. But randomly i can get really excited and happy and then depressed again. this really isn't the place to get a medical diagnosis...go to a professional

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Does Revitol's Acnezine work? Well I've tried Proactiv (for 4 months) and it seriously did not work...in fact I think its getting worse so I stopped using it a week ago. I'm gonna try giving Revitol's Acnezine a shot, because my skin is apparently too. you may not have acne...it might be rosacea. go to a dermatologist for a proper diagnosis. if you are treating rosacea with acne products it will make it worse.

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My daughter is running for fair queen tonight, I am stuck in a cast and have a bad knee, I cannot stand up. I can't walk the fairgrounds and I don't have a wheelchair, it's pouring down rain, I can't go. Should I feel guilty? what is there to feel guilty about? i can understand feeling like you are missing out on something but that's not the same as feeling guilty...

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What is your opinion of brides now letting their bridesmaids choose their own dresses? My sister is considering this for her wedding. the bride can do whatever she wants...afterall, it's her wedding.

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Television has become boring to me. It just seems to me that there aren't really any new creative shows on TV. The only shows I tend to watch are educational shows, and sports broadcasts. Any explanation on why TV has become boring. tv became boring to me a long time ago...i have just found other things that are more interesting to me.

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My GF is helping a friend after an operation but the friend is being very demanding and unreasanable and has put major pressure on my GF, there is no one else but my GF is now sick herself but this friend is not wanting her to do everything, she had enoug what is your question?

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What do males do when they lie? is this a trick question?

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Is it rude to have a Destination wedding and ask for every one in the wedding party to pay their own way there and their own accommodation? or is it the responsibility of the groom and bride to pay for it all? yeap, it's rude...but people ask and people pay up...i wouldn't!

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Republicans, Democrats. Can't we all just get along? no...the only way we'd get along would be if i let them walk all over me...and that ain't happening!

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Be honest. Do you truly like olives!? honestly, i truly like black olives.

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I am thirteen and just broke up with my sixteen year old boyfriend people think I slept with him but I didn't now I'm dating one of my friends who is thirteen and he wants me to put-out because he thinks I'm not a virgin anymore. what should I do? HELP kick him to the curb!

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I'm hoping by hanging out as friends with my ex either he'll decide he still loves me or I'll decide I don't love him, do you think it's possible for it to work out that way? it's more likely that you'll end up feeling rejected. you can decide you don't love him without hanging out with him.

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What color is the last towel you used to dry off with? purple

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Is it wrong to let your children decide for themselves if they want to believe in God? how can you stop them from deciding for themselves?

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If prefer only Mexicans to date and be romantic with, does that make you a Mexisexual? yeah, right...that's exactly what it makes you.

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Are we all motivated to do things for our own gratification to some extent? well, yeah...what other reason is there to do something?

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Okay hypothedicly u wana be with someone and that someone is single but that someone doesnt wana be with anyone how would change his/her mind i wouldn't bother...why would you want to be with someone that you have to change their mind before they would be with you?

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How do you prefer your steak? Rare, MR Medium, MW, or Well Done? black and blue

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Would you leave an abusive relationship, even if it meant being alone forever? yes...it's not realistic to think you would be alone forever...even if you didn't get into another relationship that doesn't mean you are alone. i am surrounded by friends even when i don't have a boyfriend

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Do you think that after years of being seperated from someone if you found out they cheated while you were together it would still hurt? no...it was over a long time ago.

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Ive been puking blood, and its been happening for a while now...why is this? i get really dizzy from loosing so much and ill loose about 2 table spoons a hour. why is this? i really don't think is the place to get a diagnosis...go to the ER NOW

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What concert hall is famous for its acoustics? the shelton in st louis

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Does God love sinners? yes.

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Do you have a photo scanner? yes.

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I have a "friend" who only calls when she need/wants somethng and now she is pregant and is calling almost every day. She askes all the time for things. she can afford to get things her self. I kinda want to help her but my mother in law says im crazy. is it really helping to do for someone what they can do for themselves...i don't think so

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If the governemnt had a machine that could read everybody's thoughts, and used it to identify people planning to commit crimes before said crimes were committed, do you think that would be a good thing? depends on what they call a crime

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I am baking cakes, what sort of cake would you like? red velvet, please

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Can you name one spice in your kitchen that you use most frequently? adobo

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How would you describe your day today?( in less then three words) blessed

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What chemicals in the brain make you sleepy at night? melatonin is one of them.

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Do you love your own country yes, but our government scares me.

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Do girls like bad boys or is it just the confidence that they possess? first, it may depend on how you describe a "bad boy"...but not all girls like what is generally referred to as "bad boys"...i don't see them as confident...i see them as stupid...and what looks like confidence is evidence that they are too stupid to know how stupid they are. some women think they can change them...i think that's what the attraction is...but the...

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Which of these organizations do you give to regularly and which not at all: (a) Your church? (b) Your alma mater school? (c) A world mission? (d) A conservation organization? Why? the only place i give regularly is my church...i do give to organizations caring for abused/neglected animals sometimes...i have already paid my school for my education and i know all too well how nonprofits manage their money so there's many i won't give to at all...

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If I don't want my pet anymore can I kill it (legally) in my backyard instead of filling the pound with another unwanted dog? NO...only a loser would get a pet and then dispose of it in a thoughtless careless manner. a person should not get a pet if they are not committed to caring for it the rest of it's life.

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Have we become a more Violent culture? Is there any thing the individual can do to stop this trend? yes...stop conditioning yourself and your children to accept violence in your/their life.

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Who else agrees that they should give u more chances before u get put in the penalty box not me...i don't think they do it quick enough!

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Can somebody please tell me a cheaper option of having a hot bath instead of booking into a hotel? I dont want to ask friends either. I dont know if there is an answer to this one. I only have a shower but want a bath all the time. Its not fair!!!! arrggh Buy one of those oblonged galvanized cattle watering tubs...heat the water over a fire...other than that, i don't think there is a cheap option unless you are willing to mooch off of others. i don't know if you rent or own but if taking a bath is that important to you, why did you buy or rent a place that didn't have a tub.

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I can't believe there are people who think they can say anything insulting they want and then just apologize for it and be forgiven.People's feelings don't work like that. You can never take some things back. Do these people watch too many soap operas? there is no excuse for bad behavior...especially, repeated bad behavior.

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Did you have an invisible friend when you were a kid? no and i never understood the kids that did.

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Are vegetables/fruits extra food made by plants/trees for themselves no...the fruit/vegetable is usually a means of "reproduction", ie. it contains the seeds for producing more plants.

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My man got upset becuz i am sumtimes sleep when he gets off work@11pm cuz I work 8am-5pm&don't answer his call.well last nite he didn't call me&didn't answer my call..says it happens to me, but i think thats unfair since i get up early!! what do you think i think you both need to grow up...it is unreasonable to think people have to answer the phone just because it rings or just because it's YOU calling. i think it's ridiculous to expect to be able to tell another person when they can and cannot sleep.

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Did your dad ever take you camping or fishing? oh yes.

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Hey guys, when was the last time you cried? and what for? a couple of days ago when I watched "Marley & Me".

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What is a specific beverage that you sometimes crave? milk, coffee, rootbeer, diet coke...

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Which do you use the majority of the time to drink out of in your home? Glass glasses or Plastic glasses? (Plastic like tupperware. Not disposable ones) glass...i don't own any plastic cups.

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Going to fly from Beijing to California. What should I do on the plane for 14 hours? you are kidding, aren't you? surely you can figure this out all by yourself...if not, how do you manage your time in general? do you have someone that tells you what to do all the time?

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If so many ppl hate cheaters, why do so many ppl turn their heads when they see / or hear about it? i don't know that your statement is true...but assuming it is...maybe because it is none of their business. it is not my place to tell others how to behave. they have to decide for themselves what kind of person they want to be. AND maybe the person being cheated on knows it and doesn't want to be confronted. so it's just better to mind your own business.

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I am scared I might be pregnant. I didn't have sex, but I fooled around. He was jerking off and possibly could have wiped some precum off with one of his fingers and used the same one to finger me. tender/bloated breasts, light stomach cramps, lactating what is your question?

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I slept with this guy and he broke my heart. its been months and i still love him. but he hates me cuz of his gf. she doesnt like me for some reason. what do i do? my heart just cant let go. and i dont want to let go either marissa, is this the same guy that got you pregnant and you had your embryo removed and put into your friend's mother for her to carry the baby for you so you could continue making money?

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I used to kinda date this guy and now im gonna have his son. i have a surrogate and when i try to tell him about our son he doesnt believe me. what do i do? hes in a whole nother state and his gf doesnt believe me either. im only 18 hes 21 and his gfs 17 What is this procedure called? It's not invetro and it's not artificial insemination...what is it? I am trying to research this procedure...this could eliminate the need for abortions. if a girl gets pregnant and doesn't want the baby, she doesn't even have to carry it to be able to put it up for adoption...all she has to do is have the embryo removed from her uterus and...

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What are some gestures of affection that both women and men could appreciate from their partner? a wink with a heart warming smile.

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How do you tell a girl that you kind of like her How about going up to her and saying, "you know something, i kind of like you."

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How often do you get up early enough in the morning to see the Sunrise? probably half of the time...

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Should doctors be earning less? NO...not until the cost of doing business, insurance and education included comes down.

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What is the best way to show your parents that you are an adult. Im 18 years old and I pay for everything yet I am still treated like a little kid. How can I explain or show them this. the best way to show them that you are an adult is to have a full time job or own your own business which provides income sufficient to provide yourself with your own home (house/apartment), have your own car (one they did not buy you), pay for your own insurance (vehicle, homeowners/renters and health), pay for all of your own utilities and car repairs, buy everything you need to maintain your...

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Do you invite friends and relations to come and stay with you? Yes, quite often. It gets crowded sometimes but for short periods of time, that can really be fun. The ones that go to bed early get the bedrooms and the others get the sofa beds or the air mattresses. One fall, we even pitched a tent in the back yard and some of the kids "camped out"...they loved it.

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The key to life is loving yourself first and then everything else falls into place. Agree or disagree? Not necessarily...it's a start but not the end all. I know people who love themselves that are narcissistic and/or unmotivated that contribute nothing but grief and strife those they interact with. I also know people who struggle to love themselves and still manage to bring great quality into their lives and the lives of others.

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What stopped you from commiting suicide? i've created a very nice life for myself...friends, family, pets, my own business, my own home, no garbage in my life, etc.

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Why am I getting responses sent to my email (it is turned of) but nothing shows up on my activity page? it just started happening to me too...over the weekend my mailbox was flooded with emails...i'm still getting some

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I just peed. flagged as nonsense...

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How to catch troll on here? why bother? what a waste of time...

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If a married couple is sparated with no communication for so may years, are they legally divorced?? And if so, what is the time frame? Nope.

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My boyfriend is 25, hasn't finished college, and tho he's got a stable job he's just getting by and making ends meet. He's the sweetest guy and loves me a lot but I have bigger ambitions. What would you do in my place? tell him what you want out of life...if it conflicts with what he wants, move on. i know the economy is hard right now but there are people who are making a fantastic go of it. i am self employed and am doing more than just making ends meet. if i can do it so can others. now, it may take him some time to get to where you want him to be but what is his plan, is he executing the plan and...

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How would you go about finding out the truth of something? be patient...the truth always comes out

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Do you believe in private property? of course. i couldn't call it my home if it wasn't private...it wouldn't be my car if it were public property...they wouldn't be my clothes or my stuff if they weren't private property. to not have private property would me no one would own anything...what kind of security would that be? why work hard and take care of things if they aren't mine.

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What type of batteries do you use? whatever the gadget calls for...AAA, AA, C, D, 9vlt., giant square one for big flashlight...and several different of the little disc type batteries for 4 watches, 2 scales, a mini flashlight, a pedometer and other things.

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Has praying ever worked for you? yes...i don't always like the answer but in the end, it has always worked out for the best. i often pray for the strength to manage His Will, the wisdom to recognize His Will and the patience to wait for His plan to be revealed to me.

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Could someone explain to me the Beanie Baby craze of the 90’s? sorry, i cannot help you..it is something i don't understand either!

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If you were looking for a new pet (dog, cat) would you: A) go to the shelter / pound? B) look in the paper ads C) go to a pet store D) answer a "FREE TO GOOD HOME" sign in someone's front yard... or....D) pick one out of a box in front of a store WHY? all four of my cats are strays that have come to me...so if i were looking for a new cat, i'd just be patient as it's only a matter of time until another one comes along...people are so cruel that they just dump their pets out along the road...

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I'm sick of this never ending depression nothing works! Should I just commit suicide? NO, you should not commit suicide. If you have truly have medication resistant depression and have tried psychotherapy, why hasn't your psychiatrist done ECT?

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I've known this girl 5 yrs. Never lived close.The few times we saw each other we kiss, cuddle, etc, she knows I have always liked her. She lives here now. She called as soon as she got here, wanting to meet up. Is she interested? I'm getting mixed signals you really need to ask her or you could try the magic 8 ball...just google it.

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My mom knows i am bi but doesnt want me telling other people. How do i tell her that i am proud of it and dont wanna hide it without beinng rude? let's put it this way...i don't run around telling people that i am heterosexual and i'm proud of it...why do you feel the need to run around broadcasting your sexuality?

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When your finished watching a movie do you ever watch the credits? yes, quite often...

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I took a pregnancy test and it showed two lines but one was a bit fainter than the other. does that mean i am pregnant. and if so what do i do now? read the directions...it should tell you how to interpret the results...do you really want a bunch of ABers telling you what to do if you are pregnant? if so, i say, go to a doctor, get prenatal care and put it up for adoption.

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Do you believe that over achieving kids, you know.. the ones who can recite the US Constitution at age 4 grow up to be happy successful people? reciting the us consitution isn't necessarily a sign of over achieving in and of itself...not to mention there are many many many over achievers that can't recite the constitution. I think over achievers can be happy...just like under achievers can be...happiness is a choice and success is such a uniquely defined experience.

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Would you ever get back with an ex if you had the opition to again? no...what's done is done.

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Would you ever buy an item off Ebay if the seller states :"No returns accepted", have you? If you don't receive it, under such circumstances, would Paypal not refund you? depends on the item whether or not i would buy it...and if the item hasn't been described properly by the seller, that isn't the same as a "return"...and paypal and ebay will help you get your money back. i bought a pair of black capri's that were stated as a women's plus size...when i got them, they were misses...no "W" after the size. the seller...

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My friend advised me not to introduce a boyfriend to friends, unless you're really "secure" with the relationship. I thought it was odd for her to tell me this. Your thoughts? If I were you, I'd ask her why. If it's because you can't trust your friends to be appropriate with him or don't trust him to be appropriate with them yet, that isn't a good reason. Might as well learn these things sooner rather than later. If it's because (as another answer states) you always introduce your boyfriend as the love of your life and you have a new...

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Do you use your credit card online? yes

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What things have you thought about today? are you kidding? i'd be here until the sun comes up if i tried to name them....

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If the guy you are dating tells a girl he knows that he is having relationship issues and feels he is doomed to be a bachelor, is that normal chit chat or him trying to get attention from the other girl? you need to ask him...

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All my friends say i smoke too much weed.. how much weed is too much weed? any at all is too much for me...

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My bf of 5 yrs has completely cut me off from the world. He doesn't want me to talk to anyone, now he's trying to stop me from talking to my parents also. I've no freinds left coz of him. I want to leave him but he wont let me. Please help me. you are an adult...you do not need his permission for you to leave...if you wait for that, you won't ever leave.

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Why is it that people(trolls) on here on (AB) have nothing better to do then go down the list and DR peoples answers and questions? why do we have nothing better to do than AB (whether trolling or not) is the real question?

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I am getting a lot of downrates at the moment - why? I'm not sure what you are whining about...i've checked about 20 of your answers/questions and they are all in the positive. I think you are just fishing for sympathy points. If what you say is true, get over it and keep AB into perspective...it's AB...hopefully, it doesn't determine the quality of your life.

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Brainstorming time.. How can we bankrupt the churches? I like turning in everything they do to raise funds to the IRS no matter how mundane even if it's a kiddie carwash for gawd. Make em account for every penny. Other ideas? what is your point? and just how successful have your efforts been? exactly how many churches have you succeeded in bankrupting?

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Who does the laundry in your home? each of us do our own...but i end up doing the kitchen towels, rugs and "household" stuff like that.

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10 things you hate about the world? pollution (including littering), animal cruelty, crime (of all kinds), hate...i can't think of 10 things i hate...

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What does it mean when someone is easy to pick up? Like, you just say "hi" and they are in love..lol ummm...it means that they are easy to pick up...

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How do you feel about those who despise you as a person? What do you specifically pray for them that "despitefully use you"? i don't have any feelings for them as they are no part of my life.

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What is something you put on a coffee table? i have a candle and 5 remotes.

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When is the best time for parents to get a divorce. when the kids are very small like 1-2 or when they grow up 17+ divorce hurts no matter when it happens...how the kids handle it depends largely on how the parents handle it. children would rather be from a broken unhappy home than live in one...so if the parents get divorced they better make certain that they are happy and not act like idiots trying to manipulate each other with the kids and fighting with each other.

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My grandson was arrested for aggravated battery with a weapon.He backed over a persons foot when she was leaning in the car and scratched him on the shoulder.do you think the state attorney in florida will drop the charges? How are we supposed to know? You might want to try the Magic 8 Ball...just google it...it would know more than anyone here would.

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If one of your parents had been unfaithful when you were a child, would you want to know now? Do you want to be privy to all the inner workings of your parents' marriage? Or is it never any of your business? no, no, it isn't any of my business unless i have half siblings...

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Do you think it's really possible to just forget your child is in the back seat? For some reason, lately, there has been a lot of stories about parents 'forgetting' their kids. I don't really buy it. of course it's possible...so you think they are offing their children by intentionally leaving them in the car? I hope there is no one here that has done this because I can't image the struggle of living with this everyday...and to think there are people out there that believe it was done on purpose...because the child was unwanted...that would just add to the devastation..

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What if you were my mom, and I showed up how I really thought and felt. How would you react to this, Honesty! Its in a comment below. Some language! Madalyn is my little sister who betrayed us. Max x abusive step dad I am so glad you have a plan to take you away from the life you are currently living. Do you have to get your degree before you leave home? I worked and went to school full-time and didn't live at home...from day one through graduate school...you can do it too!!!

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I have a neighbor who asks to borrow everything from toilet tissue,soap,butter and tampons.How do I tell her no without being rude? if saying no is rude, i hope she never comes asking you to kill her husband...

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If there are more then 13 people (some family some not) staying in your house (appartment) would you say that's too many people in one place? depends on the people and the size of the place. some of my fondest childhood memories are of summers when my aunt and uncle would come from NC with all 5 of my cousins. my mom and dad were about the only ones that would take them all in for more than a couple of days at a time so they were with us most of the summer...and i had 3 siblings...and we had a 3 bedroom house with 1 bathroom! so...

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Why do (some) people think just because your older means your wiser? because it's true

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My boyfriend is not treating me right, he doesn't meet me or call me only except in the special cases like when he needs. His friends say he is ok and there is nothing to worry about n he loves me a lot but I'm afraid if he is fed up with me. what to do? you are afraid he is fed up with you? why aren't you fed up with him?

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Why does he treat me like I'm nothing for him? he is showing you who he is...he is someone that does not respect or value you...his behavior does NOT lie!!!

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Do you think you'd be great at customer service? only if the company allowed me to do whatever it took to make the customer happy

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Whats a summer job you had as a kid? (I was a lifeguard) fireworks stand, six flags, babysitting, took care of various neighbors animals (horses, chickens, dogs, cats, fish, etc.) while they went on vacation

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I used to have what i thought were reasonable erections and now over the last 4 years i have noticed i have lost over an inch in erection size. Becoming a self confidence issue. What could cause this? weight gain

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I always planned to save myself for marriage. I started dating this guy and fell in love. we had sex, but I knew that he was the guy i would marry. Do you think it is wrong that i had sex with him b4 we got married? why do you care what i think?

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I desperately need help. My ex is smothering me. I was very clear when I told him we were over but he still calls me constantly, calls me pet names, and is basically planning our future together. How can I tell him to leave me alone without hurting him? STOP LISTENING TO HIM!!!! cut him off...block his number...change your phone number...get an order of protection if necessary and then don't violate it yourself. what are you doing even talking to him? you aren't going to be able to avoid hurting him...you are hurting him as it is by even talking to him and giving him the impression that he still has a connection with you...i...

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How can I get myself to end a relationship w/ someone who treats me bad when even tho he treats me bad he is still the best thing I have in my life.I don't have any place to go or anybody to count on for support.What do I do?I don't want to lose him. you are so conflicted...how can you want to leave the best thing in your life? you don't want to lose him but you want to end the relationship...sorry, you can't have it both ways. i say these things to point out how distorted your thinking is...get a therapist, untwist your thinking, make a plan, create a support network and execute the plan. that is how you end it.

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Does the break up have to be agreed upon by both parties? no...that would result in a hostage like situation

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How can I end a relationship with my boyfriend without breaking his heart? if he loves you, you can't. i don't like breaking hearts so i chose very carefully before i get into a relationship...but it still happens sometimes so whenever we enter into a relationship, we must accept the risks invovled and the risk is that we may be disappointed or get hurt OR that we may have to disappoint or hurt someone. hopefully, he's a big boy and understands the...

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Would you rather be hated for who you are than be loved for who you're not? not possible or reasonable...for example, i'm a hard worker....so how can someone hate be for being a hard worker but love me because i'm not lazy? they are both loving me and hating me for the same thing. or let's say i'm kind...why would someone hate me for being kind but love me for being unkind?

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Are you intimidated that the person you mentor/counsel may one day outshine you? Are you willing to let him/her express his/her full potential? NO...as a matter of fact, i think it shows that i chose my mentees well...it means that i can recognize potential, nurture it and let it take on a life of its own that i do not have to control

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Is it wrong to be upset with someone who keeps changing plans [as in has done it last minute 4 time in the past 7 days]? If not...What can be done to try to get them to understand why your upset, if you've already tried talking to them? you are not wrong to be upset but why would you keep making plans with this person? they have shown you that they cannot be counted on...so, if it is important to you for things to go off as planned, simply do not make plans with this person...look to others you can count on. you may never get this person to understand but you can chose to change your expectations of this person

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If you see someone else yelling at someone that you don't like, do you join in? Do you gang up on people? Why? no, no and because it's immature and rude

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Imagine Heaven if you will. Imagine there's a beautiful beach there. Imagine a child builds a sandcastle. Do you really think God would be able to resist the urge to kick it over? yes...what is your point?

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What is the largest work of art in the world? mmmm...i know the St. Louis Basilica is the largest piece of mosaic artwork in the world...

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Can you think of one song with the word 'Moon' in the title? dancing in the moonlight...does moonlight count?

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My father passed away...how can I keep his memory alive? i am sorry for the death of your father. there are some great ideas here...if you do a scrapbook, remember it doesn't have to stop with commemorating/documenting his life or his life with you but it can go on to continue momentoes of all the things you would have shared with him. you don't have to limit it to photos either...you can put a swatch of his favorite shirt in there or his...

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I just want to know if im the only man tht thinks alot of women now a days in america r controling n treat men like dogs (this is not a hate women speech its just an honest ?) could be the women those men choose or it could be the way the men behave but not all women do that and not all men act like dogs...but then again, some women treat their dogs pretty good...

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I think America is drowning in it's own greed and incompetence. Do you agree? many americans are trying to fill their souls with stuff...which can look like greed. the foolish choices made out of the desparation with which they pursue this endeavor can look like incompetence. one poster said that greed is the motivating factor in america...that is probably true for some also...but look what it motivates them to do...look at our mortgage industry and all of the...

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I have a friend who wants to have a sexchange what should i tell her, she also looks like a man to. i have flagged this question...

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Can someone become a christian without reading the bible or going to church? First, we need to define what "Christian" means... http://www.gotquestions.org/what-is-a-Christian.html I haven't read every answer, but there's a great deal of incorrect information here. I would suggest studying the Bible and researching the answer for yourself rather than asking AB...that is what the Bible is for.

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Do you think that it's wrong for a church to kick someone out that is new, when Catholic people say treat your neighbor as you would treat yourself. (I bring this up because this recently happened to my boyfriend at my church.) I am very uneasy with Catholicism...my sister-in-law tried to get her grandsons into vacation bible school and they were not allowed because they don't live with in the parish boundaries. so if i understand it correctly, if you are catholic, you can't go to any church you want for certain things, you have to go where they tell you...which i find really strange. so i believe it is...

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What are some of the worst ways to end a relationship with someone? murder...not good...

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Why would polishes bubble. i have different brands and they all do this. is it the summer heat? or is it the technique? opi,zoya , all of them are doing this the polish could be old, could be putting the second coat on before the first is dry enough and the coats may be too think...or if the polish dries too fast like out in the sunlight or in the breeze

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Which sport do you feel really isn't a sport? wrestling

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Why is it that been able to consume a lot of alcohol is seen as something to be proud of? that may be the case in certain social circles but not in all...

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Can Godly christian coupels watch adult movies that can educate them on how to make a fulfilling love making or sexual intercourse. Or is it sin to watch such thing how do you think people figured out how to have fulfilling sexual relationships before print or video? watching that stuff in the name of education in the pursuit of sexual fulfilment is lame.

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Tom likes indigo but not blue, onions but not turnips, forms but not shapes. According to the same rule does he like tomatoes or avocados? tomatoes not avacados

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Has anyone else notice all the spam on here lately? I flag all I can but then my moderations % always goes down. This sucks!! yes and i hadn't noticed that flagging spam lowered anything...well that sucks! here i thought i was doing AB a favor by flagging the garbage...i even told a newbie that flagging spam was a good thing to do...

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My daughter yesterday lied to me. I knew she was lying and asked her if she was telling the truth. She thought about it and said "Mommy, I'm lying, but please believe me anyway!" Would you have "believed" her anyway? What would you have said? lieing is human nature...we do it to meet our needs...to avoid disappointing someone, to avoid rejection/to fit in, to avoid consequences and to get what we want...i would have tried to figure out what need she was trying to meet and addressed the need...and talked to her about how to get her needs met without lieing.

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Many of our kids can't read well enough to do well in school so they drop out. Whom do you blame? Society, government, teachers, school systems or parents? Whose responsibility is it to prepare kids for school? ultimately, it is the parents responsibility to raise their kids in such a way that they can be a positively contributing member of society. if parents were to start reading to their children from very early on and create a love for reading in their children...and be patient enough to let their children read to them, they would be much better readers...but many parents can't read...one...

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If someone knocked on your bedroom window in the middle of the night, would you see who it was, or pretend to be sleeping? i'd get my gun...i live in a rural area...no one has any business coming to any of my windows in the middle of the night!

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How bad is it if the person you were talking to online has their account deleted and wont reply to your text messages. I have hope that he is just out with friends and doesnt have time to text. ummm...i don't know that it is bad or good...it just is. you don't say how young or old this person is...maybe they have gotten into trouble with their account/texting and their parents have made them delete their account...if they are older, maybe their spouse is behind the issue. sometimes, you just don't know why...but it's not good or bad...it just is.

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Who else gets sick of questions here that assume we can answer all the relationship problems of questioners without even meeting them or knowing anything about them? many times, they are looking for a fortune teller...and sometimes i refer them to the magic 8 ball! those are the questions that annoy me.

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Are you sad that you will die one day without ever meeting alot of great people you have spoken to online? no...i'm busy counting my blessing-counting what i have rather than what i don't have

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Do you think the only reason we die is that we accept it as an inevitability? no

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If you found out a friend of yours didn't have long to live, would you spend as much time with them as possible or would you stay clear of them not sure what to say? my oldest brother had become one of my best friends during his four year battle with cancer. i spent as much time with him as HE needed (it was about him/his needs)...much more toward the end. he was divorced and his girlfriend bailed on him because he wouldn't marry her while he was terminally ill.

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If your bf says he wants to kill himself what do you do? take him to the neares emergency room and tell them what is going on...or call 911 if he won't go with you.

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I sleep in the nude and I sleep walk any advice? as long as you don't go outside, you can manage this pretty easily...just warn everyone in the house that if they hear you up at night, they turn the lights on at their own risk! i'm reluctant to tell you to put key locks on your bedroom door, others bedroom doors or the outside doors...what if there's a fire? if you go outside just make sure someone's got your pin number...

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What's a guy really saying when he breaks up with a girl cuz he's 'too busy' to have a relationship? it means he's just not that into you and he's looking for a way out...i wouldn't take it personally.

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What colors do you think look sexy on the oppisite sex? when i guy can wear a pink oxford and still look masculine, you know you've got a real man!

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Have you ever needed something, or someone, so badly that the thought of living without it or them filled you with such despair and anguish and emptiness that you aren't sure you could keep on living without it? no...fortunately.

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I know they're both not great, but if you could choose between a Kia and a Hyundai, what would you choose, and why? I'm looking for a cross-over or small suv or van. i have a 2003 hyundai elantra with 117,000 miles on it. i bought it new and it's the best car i've ever had and less than i paid for a Toyata Camry in 1988...and yes, it's been a better car than the Camry.

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What is another way of curing acne if all the stuff on the market doesn't work? you might be dealing with rosacea which means traditional acne treatments will not work and may make things worse. see your dermatologist...if you are seeing one and your condition isn't improving, acne may not be the correct diagnosis. http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/rosacea/ds00308

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What have you neglected to complete this week? my billing

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Would you adopt a senior pet instead of a kitten or puppy Here is an interesting article about elderly cats Anyone thinking about getting a pet should read it: http://www.tributememorial.net/HowDoYouSolveAProblemLikeAmelia.html yes...actually, i would like to adopt an adult/senior cat from a person that is terminally ill. i have too many cats to do this right now but someday i will. i would like to meet the owner and i'd like for the owner to come see my home...i want the owner to know how their cat will be taken care of after they are gone and i'd like for the cat to be able to stay with their owner until...

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Have you ever had a dream in which you died? How did you die? Have you died more than once in the same dream ?(like a dream within a dream within a dream etc.) i have dreamed several times that i died from being shot...the only thing the dreams have in common is that i wake up feeling like i know what it feels like to die...and i'm OK with it.

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This guy I like tells me he loves me, but he wont break up with his girlfriend! Is he just playing me? what part of this are you not understanding? the writing is on the wall...

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(Hypothetical question, not happening to me.) Say if you're in love with someone but they're gay or lesbian, how would you deal with this? Knowing you could never be with them because of their orientation, would you tell them how you feel? i choose to not fall in love with people that are unavailable to me...what a waste of time and energy that could be better spent elsewhere.

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Is it better to be single or married? Why? define "better"...research shows that women are happier singe and men are happier married...but more single women with children live in poverty than married women with children do.

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Do you think men or women have an easier life? first i think you'd have to define "easier"...research shows that single women are happier than married women and that married men are happier than single men...why do you think that is? i can tell you that the periods of my life without a man in it have been easier than those with a man. without a man, i am doing the laundry, cooking, cleaning, shopping, etc. for one...so i...

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There's this girl who all my friends like, but i really DONT like her! It's that girls birthday and they want me to put in $25, but i dont want to waste my money on her. She doesnt even talk me! What do I do? I dont want to cause too much friction... you must be honest in your actions and kind with your words and say that you aren't comfortable with doing this...and you don't owe them any long drawn out explanations as you do not need to justify your decision. trying to justify your decision will only give them the opportunity to overcome your reasons to giving and you don't even want to go there because going there...

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Are you like a delicate flower in so far as you have a tendency to wilt if you're ignored? not hardly...although i can manage being in the spotlight for a short period of time, i don't need all that much attention as i prefer to be behind the scenes...someone might ignore me but they won't ignore what i do...not to mention, i can be very persistent...it's twisted thinking to think that EVERYONE will ignore me anyway.

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Today my counselor tried to say I don't have any emotions (she indirectly said this on purpose) "maybe you don't think I have emotions or appreciate that I do" how the hell do these people get in the profession there in? alot of hard work throughout about 6 years of college and two additional years of professional training...on going training to the tune of about 15 hours per year...

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I'm disgusted with people and how they treat eachother socially to the point were I think its bother and waste of energy to try and relate or coexist with them. Do you think thats wrong? Better yet is this way of thinking leading me down a bad path? if you are disgusted with people you do not understand human nature or accept the limits of being human...your expectations are not reasonable. of course you would be unhappy if your expectations are unreasonable. this is a classic example of thought distortions. read and work through the book by Dr. Burns, "The New Mood Therapy"...change the way you think and you can change your...

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Look around, what is the first red object you see? a red silk bag that i carry my Bible in...a friend brought from China for me...it's in the dining room on the baker's rack to my left.

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What's your favorite kind of lip balm? i'm a burt's bees fan...i like the shimmers.

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Why ... do you think it is that most ABers including yourself don't use a picture of themselves in the avatars? anonymity

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Do you think Rihanna is good? i don't think she's good or bad...she just is...

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True OR False? You generally have more than 2 cups of Coffee in the day? false, i rarely have more than one cup a day, if i have coffee at all...

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How long does it typically take to rebuild trust in a friendship? And what should one do while that trust has yet to be rebuilt, aside from being always honest? Should one accept the distrust as a consequence of dishonesty till it can be earned back? how long...well, that is determined by the person who you are trying to rebuild trust with...they call the shots here. All you can do is be an honest open book. and if you are going to rebuild the lost trust, you have no choice but to accept that the distrust in a natural consequence of the dishonesty.

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Im fed up with single life, Anybody else feel this way? All my friends are now in relationships, im the only single female left out of them all, why is it so hard for me to find somebody? not me...and you may be the lucky one...give it ten years or so before you start feeling left out

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What was the last bug/insect you found in your house? Did you throw it back outside or kill it? a grand daddy long legs...picked him up by one of his legs and gave him a free flight out the door to the grass...the coolest thought was last night when a huge katydid came in through the cat door...i scooped him onto a flyswatter and looked him over real good before i put him outside on the deck railing. you should have heard the fuss he threw when i first tried to get him on the...

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What are 3 lessons you have learned so far in life? feel the fear and do it anyway...if you learned something from the process of pursuing a goal, you haven't failed even if you didn't get the intended outcome...ALL behavior serves a purpose, even lies...ultimately, we are all getting through life the best way we know how.

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What do you think of people who drive in two lanes? they have issues and i don't need to make their issues mine.

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Would you ever date a divorced person? Why or why not? of course, as long he and his ex are respectful of each other and are adults about it.

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I have dealt with hemorrhoids for the last couple of years. Within the last month I have noticed every once in a while a little bit of bright red blood on the toilet paper when i have a bowel movement. I also noticed what appears to be a skin tag right on oh please, have you really come to AB for medical advice? it could be hemmorroids or it could be cancer... http://cancer.about.com/od/analcancer/f/Analcancersympt.htm

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Why are middle-aged to older men so obsessed with dating twenty-something girls? because girls in their twenties are easily impressed/duped...it's a great ego boost to a man that has fallen short of where he thought he'd be by this time in his life. middle-aged men typically have more money than men in their 20's and are more easily impressed by what it will buy. these middle-aged men typically don't measure up to middle-aged women's...

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What is the easiest way to get a boyfriend? if he's easy to get, he ain't worth having...if you are easy to get, you ain't worth having...if it's easy you are looking for, brace yourself...life is going to be hell.

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2/3 of divorces are initiated by women. Should society train men to initiate divorce more often? people get married for the wrong reasons to begin with...even counseling has a hard time making a wrong decision right. society should train men and women not to make dedcisions out of fear...fear of being alone, fear of being broke, homeless, without insurance...fear leads people to make very poor decisions and it's really hard to get good results from a bad decision. Also, society...

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My boyfriend and i have been going out for over two years now but i feel like his family are coming in between us. He just moved in with his sister an she's making it difficult for him to see me. It's really bringing me down. can someone give me advice? she can only make it difficult if he allows her to...he has choices. if limitations on seeing you is a stipulation on him living with her then he needs to make and execute a plan that would give him the ability to live elsewhere...a cheap apartment, rent a room from someone with no family ties, get a roommate to share an apartment with. if his sister is in deed doing this, it is an abuse of...

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How would you go about handling a love triangle??? Is it worth the trouble? i would bow out...that's the only way to handle it that is worth it.

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Can you name a song title containing the word HEAVEN...? the edge of heaven by wham http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dy14ywPAnLQ

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Can you name a song title containing the word HEAVEN...? Breath of Heaven - Amy Grant http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qgVBPsYVljM&feature=related

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Can you name a song title containing the word HEAVEN...? Heaven's Just a Sin Away...http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TJWfM7dS5-M&feature=related

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Guys: If you were really pissed off or annoyed and your s/o what could they do to make it all go away and for you to not be mad at them anymore? (asuming your not mad at something thats considered a deal breaker) this question is twisted. it makes the s/o responsible for their partners feelings and no one is responsible for anyone's feelings but their own. if someone is mad, it is not anyone's responsibility to make it all go away for them... i can't image living a life where someone else was responsible for my feelings...talk about having no control or being out of control of your...

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We have been married 5 months, 3 months after we were married he told me he was meeting a woman for lunch , and flirting with women, my husband has a sexual addiction, I asked him to leave and it has been 5 months, he said he no longer wants to be married so what is your question?

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HELP! My boyfriend is addicted to this online game SecondLife to the point where he makes a schedual of when him and I can spend time with one another, what should I do? find someone that makes you a priority and schedules other things around you!

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Is it ever appropriate to leave kids alone in the car? depends...on the weather, the age and developmental functioning of the child, the location (the hood, your driveway, the mall), the length of time, child's trustworthiness, child's ability to respond to things responsibly, etc.

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Should people who are just fat but able to walk be allowed to have handicapped parking status? simply being obese would not justify handicapped status...however, the effects of it would...bad knees, bad back, heart and breathing problems, blood pressure, etc....so you'd have to define "able to walk"..."able to walk" what distance and at what risks? i kind of think you would use the same igorance to judge me and my mother if you saw us out...just looking at my...

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How many people here have had Ethiopian food? I have...Addis (in the Loop). Loved it!

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My BF seems obsessed with funerals, and lost friends. He visits his parents' graves weekly for years. What is he getting out of this? he may have issues with death...maybe even his own mortaility...what does he believe about death? how does he feel about his own death and the life he wants to have until then? does he have anything to feel guitly about regarding his parents/friends deaths? even guilt over surviving, can be problematic for some people.

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Do you believe acting is a talent? yes.

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If you leave your house at the age of 17 can your parents have the police get you and bring you back in the state of West Virginia? call the police in your area and ask them...here in MO, they would not come and get you. the parents should report you as a runaway in case you body turns up unidentified somewhere but the police will not go out and look for you or pick you up...now, if you get caught breaking the law, you can be forced to go back home by the juvenile court OR if the crime is serious enough you can be...

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Me and my boyfreind had a child when he was 16 and i was 17 and ...now im 18 hes 17 and our daughter is 4 months old..can i get into truble for being with him in MO, no...i don't know about the laws in you state

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How do you know if your boyfriend of 2 years wants to have a baby but keeps pulling out he's not being honest with you...just telling you what you want to hear so you'll spread your legs. he's your boyfriend and you are trying to get pregnant? OR he may want to have a baby but does he want to have it right now and with you? if he want's a baby so bad, why hasn't he married you and why would you want to have a baby with someone this guy? this is just...

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Is it cheating when your husband texts another women all day long all day? if he's doing this all day long, when is he attending to the needs of his marriage and wife? and children, if they have any...

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The Salvation Army in my area has set up bell ringers and kettles in July. Do you give money to this organization or are you afraid of it being stolen by the ringer? i do not give to SA-i have my favorite charities and i give to those. I did a practicum at SA-to cultish

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Did you go to church, today? yes and i'll go back this afternoon/evening...

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Is there something your parents did that you've never forgiven them for? oh yes, there's no point in not forgiving them for doing the best they knew how...i know they love me, they doesn't understand me, but they loves me.

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Someone invited me to their model agency but am I pretty enough? Pictures: http://i30.tinypic.com/14izudi.jpg or http://i31.tinypic.com/2n0ra5y.jpg or http://i31.tinypic.com/ipvdw4.jpg Please be sincere Edit: I'm 15 y.o. I think it depends on what kind of modeling you want to do...yes, runway models are usually very tall and rail thin but there's other types of modeling. good luck...shoot for the moon. if you miss, you just might end up on a star!

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What is the best benefit you would ideally want from your job? freedom to do it my way-and i have created it! HOORAY FOR SELF-EMPLOYMENT! i schedule my own appointments, and use a laptop and cellphone so that i am not chained to the desks at either of my offices.

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Have you ever written to, or received a letter from, someone in prison? received-did not respond...received a letter at my place of employment from a guy that got my name from the website of the nonprofit company i worked for. i contacted somebody at the prison, made a complaint and never got another letter from him again. then i also got one from a former client-did not respond. i have no desire or need for such relationships.

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What makes a guy fall for a girl? forgetting to tie his shoelace...

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I and several friends of mine are under 21, but are considering throwing a party with alcohol (nothing too strong, fellas). Could the police arrest us in our own house, provided we stayed in the house, collected car keys, et al? what would make you think that you are exempt from the law because you are doing it in your home?

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What would you do if obama showed up at your door? i'd open the door and say, "i'm sorry, there's no one here by that name" and close the door...

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Should President Obama introduce a second stimulus package? doing what has already been done will just get us more of what we've already got...no i'm not sure who is benefiting from what he is doing...i've not benefited and i don't personally know anyone who has...

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My best friend just got back, I'm now happy! Are you happy at this very moment? Think about it... think about it? is that suppose to be a difficult question that requires contemplation? i was happy until i read "think about it" and now i'm puzzled...wondering if i'm missing something...

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Why do you keep changing your AB username? i don't and won't...can't be bothered.

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I like reading but my problem is, if its not twisted and tormented it doesnt keep my attention such as Chuck Palahnuik "Fight Club", "Rant", "Choke". What other author's do you suggest that are twisted and out of their minds like him. i've not read those so i'm not exactly sure what you mean by twisted but i enjoy Laurell K Hamilton...shapeshifting, vampires, etc...she has another series with fairies and such...

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I love to sing, but I have stage fright. I can sing great alone or in front of my mom, but when others ask me to sing I choke up, thus choking up the talent. What places can I go to to sing. I know the more you do something the easier it becomes. choir is good...karaoke too-get your friends to get up there with you.

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What do polar bears do while waiting for the ice to form? polar around...why do you think they call them polar bears?

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What is something that will always turn you off, on a date? bad breath

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Why does it seem that all guys who treat others, including their girlfriend, poorly always seem to get whoever they wantm while guys that treat others with respect don't? it seems that way because these guys only want people/girlfriends that will allow themselves to be treated poorly.

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Whats your favorite type of pie (apple, pumpkin, cherry, etc)? Tippins German Chocolate Pie...OR punkin pie

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Do you believe that the poor are only in the situation they are in because they are lazy? no...poverty is a culture. read "A New Framework for Understanding Poverty"...you will come to understand the the complexity of poverty and that it is not purely economic. it is actaully multi-dimensional. you will also learn that there are two different kinds of poverty, situational and generational.

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Why are people poor? there's a book called "a new framework for understanding poverty"...you will never look at poverty the same way again...it is a culture...it is so much more than a lack of money. (mmm...i think i'm going to run out and get a krispy kreme...)

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Why do young people these days use so many abbreviations, drop words, etc. when typing? Is that what they are learning in English class in school these days? Do young people even know how to write in standard English anymore? lazy...no...some do and some don't

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My real name has 6 letters in the first name, middle and last name, what is interesting about your name? i have 19 letters all together... 1-b,d,i,r,t,u,y 2-a,l,m 3-e,g

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How can you tell when your friend is lying to you? when the truth comes out...as it always does.

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Is it ever okay to have a friend try to find out information about somebody you like so you don't have to ask the person directly? i wouldn't say that is ok or not ok...it's just immature.

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What do you say to people who continue to be persistant, even after you've told them straight and simple? and even after you stop talking to them. i would say, i have politely told you that i'm not interested and i am not sure what part of "i'm not interested" you are unable to comprehend but i am tired of being polite about it. so,this is how it's going to go down. either you will drop it or one of us is leaving. do you have a preference?

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Whenever i am in a busy place i am aware of how i am walking, why people are looking at me and i can't eat cos i don't want people to hear me eating. This is all when i am on my own, i am fine with friends. I feel so self cautious! how can i stop this? accept that people really aren't paying as much attention to you as you would like to think...

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If you meet someone online can you have real feelings for that person without ever meeting them in person? yes, your feelings are real but one must be cautious because it's easy to create a reality in our hearts and minds based on what we want when there is no physical/experiential events to challenge what we have created in our minds/hearts.

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How many of you have people you saw as your brothers and sisters(not blood related)?. For example, i grew up with a friend of mine during childhood. We're a year apart and we say we're Brothers.I also consider 2 18 yr girls as my little sisters. i call those people my family of choice. i have a couple of mother and grandmother figures, big sisters, little sisters...all women though. i think that's because i have three brothers (close to all, although one is deceased) and no sisters.

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Has anyone been friends with two adults who dont like each other? did you find that eventually you became closer to one than the other? (e.g., having to only invite one to an event that you would usually invite both?) does the awkwardness ever wear off? i have different groups of friends...the conservative ones don't like the artsy or liberal ones. and the artsy ones are too far out there for the liberal ones. i have friends that work for various nonprofits and the ones that work for this one don't agree with the philosophy of the ones that work for that one...and it goes on and on... it is rarely awkward because i manage to keep...

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What does it mean for someone to not to want to cross the line of you being their potential girlfriend i didn't know there was a line for being a "potential girlfriend" :/ so help me understand this....what is the order of progression for a relationship...friend, potential girlfriend, then girlfriend, fiance and finally wife? what exactly goes on during that potential girlfriend phase?

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Im a virgin im getting married im 16 years old my husband is 40 im scared and worried about pleasing him in bed i nw he is not a virgin can any oe give me as much advice as you can im getting marrie in 20 days ? thanks in advance for your help what i want to say is, run for the hills...but i know that is not being culturally sensitive. i find it hard to wrap my brain around why a 40 year old man would want to marry a 16 year old girl...what is wrong with him that no one will arrange for him to marry a peer or why he isn't already married...unless he murdered his other wife or wives...i know that's acceptable in some...

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If you had 50,000,000$ to spend in 3 hours only...what would you buy? --the unused $$ is no longer yours-- go online and pay off my student loans, my home, my brothers homes, contract to have my parents home made handicap friendly, prepay all of our electric bills for $30,000 each, buy 25 Hyundai Elantras for gifts (one for me), set up college funds for 25 people, book a few different trips for two (take some different with me on each trip), then buy prepaid credit cards and gift cards from...

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Have you ever worn a swimsuit to work? yes, july 19, 1996...my first day on the job as a program director was to take a group of 16 teen girls to a waterpark...the outting had been planned by my predecessor. oh, i forgot, when i lived in florida, i'd wear my swimsuit under my work clothes so i wouldn't have to take the time to change before heading to the beach...got off from work at noon on sundays and was on the beach...

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Why do Americans act like they own the world? i don't know why some americans feel this way. i live beneath my means on a small piece of rural land in a double-wide which will be paid for in a few more years, but my educational debt is enough to make a person choke (it's the darkest spot in my life)...i am glad i live in america, appreciate the freedoms i have but deplore our arrogant government-but i have been known to defend...

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How to deal with other guys who flirt your crush? what's there for you to deal with? she's the one that has to put up with the silly boys. just smile at them because you know that she has chosen you!

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Is it wrong/bad/evil/mean to placate some who is having mental "problems" by playing into there disorder, in order to achieve a greater good? when dealing with someone with mental illness, sometimes you do what you've got to do to cope yourself.

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Is it possable to become a doctor if you didnt do good job in high school but you go to community college and get straight A's over there? I wanna be a doctor cause no one believes in me at all so i wanna prove them wrong. yes, of course it's possible.

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Ladies, if you are married.....and on vacation......hubby miles away and no one would ever know.......You meet a man on the beach.....handsome.....witty.....and you guys click....would you consider showing him your boobs? no...how old are you?

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If you found out your spouse was cheating on you, would you be more upset with her/him or with the person s/he cheated with? it only makes sense to be upset with the one that you had a commitment with...

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Is it Worth Seeking Revenge on Men/Woman, When a Partner Cheats? it would be a waste of my time.

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What is your favorite book? Mine is Watchers by Dean Koonz, and if saw the movie and never read the book, they are completely different, two main chars were middle aged, dont know why they casted corey haime and Nikole eggbert mine is the Bible. did you get to read my comment about flagging questions before it was deleted? did you notice all of the spam is gone?

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Name 2 things you will not tolerate in a relationship? how many times can i answer this question? i have a whole list of deal breakers!!! criminal behavior of any kind drug/alcohol addiction disrespect/domestic violence/anger issues poor money management skills inability to keep a job those are so important to me that i can't even begin to pick which two might be more important than the others.

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If your child is doing something they shouldn't be doing do you want to know so you can correct them? Or would you rather not know? depends on their age and what it is...many things that come with natural consequences and i don't have to do or say a thing...

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Did you like Michael Jackson before he started bleaching his skin, and touching little boys? i can appreciate MJ through all of his phases...the touching little boys comment is unwarranted. did you know that there are 1903 pages of transcribed testimonies from 41 witnesses regarding his case? and did you know that the jurors couldn't find enough evidence in there to convict him of even one of the ten counts he was charged with?

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What "people" food do your cats enjoy that you never would have figured cats to like? Budwiser (RIP) loved Doritos and Cheetos...Broadway (RIP)loved broccoli stalks...

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Where can i meet a lady who appreciate me for what i am? that depends on what you are...

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When you look at someone like Michael Jackson..would you find him ugly because of the way he looks?Or his attitude(child molesting) or both? neither...i need to start cutting and pasteing this...there are 1903 pages of transcribed testimonies from 41 witnesses...and there wasn't enough evidence to convict him for even one of the charges...not even the lesser charges which the prosecuters added to try to catch a guilty verdict if they failed to get him on the more serious charges. so either the jurors were a bunch of babbling...

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How can people be so sad about Michael Jackson's death yet want pedophiles punished to their death? because they are two separate issues! i guess you are making the assumption that mj was a pedophile...did you know that there are 1903 pages of transcribed testimonies from 41 witnesses? and there wasn't enough evidence in there to convict him of any of the charges...not even the lesser charges that the prosecuters hoped would hang him if he were found not guilty of the more serious...

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Strange that so many are ignoring or forgetting Michael Jackson was a pedophile, isn't it? I am sadder for the passing of every common hard working decent person who died that day rather than his sick ass. Do you understand? no i do not understand. there are 1903 pages of transcribed testimonies from 41 witnesses...if the judge/jury couldn't find enough evidence in there somewhere to convict him, it must not have been there. so no one is ignoring the fact that MJ was a pedophile because the evidence isn't there to support it as a fact. your feelings and your opinions are not facts...but they do reveal...

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We had a tragedy in our city last week. Four men broke into a home with guns and machetes and threatened to kill a young man and his sleeping younger brothers. He shot and killed one of the men who broke in. Should he be charged with manslaughter? no...

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I asked this girl out and she said she wasnt looking for a realationship but then a couple days later she goes out wit a guy wud u be mad and what should i tell her nothing...just because she's not looking for a relationship doesn't mean she has to crawl under a rock...there's nothing wrong with going out on dates with guys as long she doesn't have a commitment with any of them.

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How often do you get bored? never...only boring people get bored.

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How do you get rid of the hair that cat leaves behind on everything in your house? i just walk around in my best black outfit and it just all jumps on for the ride!

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My long haired kitty has a multitude of knotty mane and is in misery. What can I drug her with to allow me to shave her hair? ask a vet if you insist on doing it yourself

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I've got a jar of _________ marchino cherries :)

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Favorite way to travel? (ex plane, boat, car, etc...) when i have the time, i love road trips...so i'd have to say by car.

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Are you sure you know what you're doing? of course, could do it with my eyes closed!!!

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Kids love doing things with their parents. What is your fondest memory of doing something with both or one of your parents? going to the baseball games on bat night, cap night, shirt night, etc...we went to them all. going on vacation...roadtrips! my mom teaching me to sew and my dad teaching me to change the oil on my first car. my mom teaching me to make chicken and dumplings...and playing hot box with my dad and brothers...my dad having to take my first fish off the hook for me...going to six flags as a...

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If you could relive the past year of your life knowing all that you know now, what (If anything) would you do differently? i would have taken more time off from work...

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I don't know what to do!I'm my boyfriend's first girlfriend and it feels like I'm bossing him around and he never tells me if I am or not all he does is tells me he loves me,he holds me,and he takes me places I want to go.I love him to death what do I do? if you don't like the way you are treating him, then change the way you are treating him. if you are both ok with the way you are treating him, then what is the problem? sounds like self-created drama just for the sake of drama...

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I'm currently engaged to the man of my dreams... everytime we go out somewhere woman always stare and smile and gawk at him like I'm not even there. He always flashes the ring on his left hand but they still flirt right in front of me. Why? what kind of ring is he wearing on his left hand if you two aren't married yet? my response to "why"...because they can...get real! if you've hooked up with a hottie, do you really think you are the only one that notices? who cares who flirts with him? he's going home with you, isn't he? if he acts like you are there, what do you care if these women act like...

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How do you gain confidence and get rid of your insecurities? i have gained confidence through achievement and mastery (persistance and commitment to not quit until i have figured it out), accepting responsibility for myself and my choices, understanding that life is a balancing act and 90% of anything is still excellent...there's no such thing as failure if i learned something from the process...and realizing that not all feedback is worth it's...

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How many here were real strong fans of Michael Jackson? i am a fan...didn't like everything he did but i recognize he was amazingly talented.

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Why Do Women Get Cheaper Auto Insurance Rates Than Men? it's based on statistics and risk analysis...men statistically drive faster, commit more traffic violations, have more accidents and more severe accidents than women.

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Ensign's parents gave mistress's family $96k. This wasn't a bribe, it was charity to help them through a tough time. Believe that? See LINK: if no laws were broken and it was his parents' personal money it's really none of our business who they gave it to or why...

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Have you ever helped you kids out money $$$$ wise after they turned 18? my parents haven't helped me financially since i was 17 years and two months old (and i'll be 50 this year)...that's when i left home. they taught me (better than they realized) that i can do it myself! that is by far the greatest gift they have given me.

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Why do people lie? Once they lie to you, they can never be your friend. people lie to avoid disappointing someone, to avoid consequences, to fit in/avoid rejection, to get what they want by manipulating information and to avoid hurting another person. this is human nature. if you fail to understand and accept that, you will be very lonely. why someone lies tells you more about the person than the actual lie itself...examining the motivation will tell you the...

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I dropped out of highschool in grade 12, but on my resume i put that i graduated, is there a good chance that this will end up biting me on the ass? would an employer really fire me from a job if they found out i put incorrect information on my resume? yes and no, the employer can't fire you for what you put on your resume but most employers require you to fill out an application. if the application doesn't match your resume, they can withdraw their offer or terminate their interest in you as an employee if they haven't made you an offer yet...why on earth would they hire someone that they know is dishonest? if you put false...

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Is saying "I love you" a sign of insecurity? not necessarily...only if the person is saying it to see if the one they love will say "I love you too"

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Which of these would you pick for dinner: 1. sauteed veal scaloppini and shrimp with lemon and white wine 2. pan seared ahi tuna w/sesame seed crust ginger teriyaki and lemon 3. stuffed breast of chicken w/mozzarella, prosciuitto in a wild mushroom sauce? #2 would be my first choice, #1 would be my second choice and #3 I'd have to order without the proscuitto or at least pull some of it out...just not a fan of proscuitto

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I want to buy a new computer but I am not sure if I should buy a home computer or a laptop. I currently have a home computer but I am on the go alot and I could be entering college in about a year. What would be the best to buy? i would say laptop for the same reasons others here have stated...i switched to a laptop as my sole computer last august and i wish i had done it sooner...i will never go back to a desk top. you can get a laptop to do anything a desktop can do...even storage capacity can easily be addressed with the convenience of memory sticks. i own my own business, have two offices and love not being...

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Were you touched by the speach that Michael Jacksons daughter, Paris, 11 made? It was very moving. it wasn't a speech...i was touched by her comments and it was exactly what i would have expected a daughter to say about her daddy at his funeral.

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Females, if you were dating a great guy who was fun, loving, intelligent, caring, gregarious, philanthropic, and selfless, and one night, you discovered on him, as he rested, horrible self mutilation scars all over his body, what would you do or think? if they are scars that tells me there is a great deal of emotional pain in his past. i would wait for him to tell me about it...he will when he is ready.

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I won't date people from other races. Does that make me a racist? Be honest please. i'm sexist because i only date men!!! no, that's not racist any more than having a sexual preference is sexist.

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DRUG OVERDOSE OF OXYCODONE, HOW MANY PILLS FOR A FATEL OVERDOSE why are you asking?

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Have you ever left an unopened can of Coke in the car during the middle of winter and have it explode all over the interior? How about a 36 pack on a flat from Costco? yes and no.

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What does it mean when a girl cheats on you, sleeps with a second guy, then tells you she loves you and tries to work it out, sleeps with the second guy again, and now is with a third guy who now lives with her after just a week? it means she's just not that into you! it also means, you don't need her!

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My 18 yr old daughter met a guy in a chat room from out of state and in the military and she now calls him her boyfriend though they haven't met face to face she wants to fly to visit him what should I do? all you can do is tell her what your concerns are and acknowledge that utimately it is her decision and she is the one that will have to live with the consequences (good or bad). help her come up with a safty plan...someone needs to know everything about him that she knows...including but not limited to his email, phone, address, parents info, branch of the military, his CO, and he needs to...

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Since separating from my husband of many years I have discovered he had a 'secret life', involving prostitutes and drugs. Should I confront him? (I have no 'real' proof). I wanted us to work things out but he refuses, is this the reaason? if you have no proof, how did you make this discovery? only he knows the real reason he doesn't want to work things out but the bottom line is, he doesn't want to...move on. and even if he wanted to, why would you?

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What are four items you have on your dresser/nightstand? nightstand - candle, lamp, coaster, book dresser - candle, flowers, picture frame...only 3 things...

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I found out that a married friend had an affair with another man. She says it was a one time thing that she regrets. I don't know her husband very well, but he's a decent guy. Should I keep quiet about what I know, or tell her husband? you need to keep your nose in your own business...

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Is anyone else utterly and completely disgusted with this life right now? no...

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We just got invited to a wedding where you have to pay $100 a head to attend. They want the check with the RSVP. Do we still get them a gift, cash or otherwise? Truthfully I`ve never heard of this before. i would RSVP with "No, we will not be attending but i'd like to offer you a tip in lieu of a gift. Requesting guests to pay for their attendance is in poor taste. Best wishes; I hope your greed doesn't get in the way of a happy life together. Respectfully, BROADWAYTHECAT"

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How can I get over my fear of clowns? go to clown college and study the art

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What are appropriate clothes to wear to a memorial service? i don't think there's any hard and fast rule...it depends on the person being memorialized. my brother was a cowboy at heart...most of his guy friends wore new jeans with their best western shirts, their best cowboy hats and their best cowboy boots. some of the women wore boots with their western skirts or jeans and their cowboy hats...and some wore tennis shoes...because we (except...

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What do you still have to learn about yourself? i don't know...once i learn it, it can't be on the list of what i still have to learn about myself though...

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Girls who lie,bitch ,start rumours about you giving you a bad name i hate them .what your opinion i don't have time to be bothered with them...people who know me, know better and i don't care what people think that don't know me.

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Do you ever "cachinnate"? (KAK-e-NAYT) lol...yes, you caught me...

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Does anybody have ideas of stuff that i can put in my rabbits cage for fun? fun for you or fun for the rabbit?

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I was speaking to a guy on msn that I met through a friend but we've never met in person. He had his web cam on and coversation was fluent and i decided to turn mine on and he went offline. Except for me being a minger, what could be a reason for this? :( if you are truly a minger it could be that he is superficial.

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Can you control your own mind? If so, how? yes...by taking responsibility for your choices...do some research on cognitive behavior therapy.

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Is South Park only offensive to those who need offending? south park is a waste of my time.

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Why is the world coming 2 an end all good things must come to an end...

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Do you like when people just leave a comment such as "Thanks +5", or do you prefer actual feedback? i consider "Thanks +5" feedback.

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If you received obscene, violent and threatening phone calls from a stranger would you call the police? yes...because of my line of work, you bet i would.

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What three things are you most likely to find in your handbag? cash, cell phone, car keys

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Would you like a guy whos a freshemen 6 foot 2 can dunk has a six pack is ripped as hell and is nice i would not like him based on those things alone...

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Can you recall what you were doing today when the time hit that once in a century mark: 12:34:56 7/8/09? taking a nap

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If somone with a disability teases you, is it okay to tease them back? it depends on the relationship.

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Is global warming affecting all planets? ummm, wouldn't that be universal warming?

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Should Los Angeles taxpayers pay $4 million in costs for the Michael Jackson memorial service? no...i don't understand why the family isn't paying for it...that's what my family will have to do.

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Anybody else agree that Olive Garden is GROSS? over rated, yes...gross, no

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Why would someone remove you off their friends list? Really..??? If you ask my opinion, I think you should get a life. ummm, if you had a life would you have noticed?

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Which country do you think will be the future superpower? china.

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Where do you draw the line with disciplining your kids? It seems like I’m always telling my daughter to listen or to stop doing something. I just want her to turn out well, but I also want to let her be a kid and enjoy her childhood aside from being abusive (verbally or physically),i don't think there is a line to be drawn for discipline...you do whatever it takes to help your child move through the phases of development so they can become a productive contributing memmber of society. lack of discipline has nothing to do with letting a kid be a kid and it also doesn't equal enjoyable childhood

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If your stepdaughter came up to you and asked you about her period and you were her stepfather how would you take this and would it embarrass you? i would hope you would send her to her mother

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Is hiding in the closet with your computer a good thing and give you more privacy to do things? it's not that it's a good thing or a bad thing...if that is a satisfactory way for you to meet your needs, go for it.

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If your wife spent more time with another guy online more than you would you be jealous and want to hurt the guy? hurt the guy? which one are you married to? what kind of commitment does he have with you? she's the one damaging the marriage, not him.

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My boyfriend lately started arguing with my 6y/o daughter and it ended with him calling her a B#*$% and a H@#. My boyfriend says it's because he thinks I don't disipline her, and for that his reason to cussing out my daughter i sounds like you need to take a look at your choice in men...after you kick him to the curb.

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Why is it so hard to find a woman who isn't pretentious, fickle, shallow, or selfish? work on making yourself the best person you can be and you might attract a differnt type of woman

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I have an abusive father who will end up hurting me if I displease him about certain things. He has not beaten me since I was young (12), but his abusive behavior has escalated. How should I go about protecting myself and building a case against him? report him to your state child abuse and neglect hotline...a google search should locate the phone number for you. OR you can leave home...check out covenant house new york...they have many locations across the usa. call 1-800-999-9999

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Which is older, the USA, or official American government interference in religion? ummm, i think the USA would have to have been established before it's government could interfere with anything, including religion.

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Who do you need to forgive and why? no one at this time...i've forgiven everyone and myself for everything up to this point...

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Find the missing number 5 7 6 8 7? i don't know what's missing but the next in the sequence would be 9

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When I was young I got spanked for doing something bad, What where some of the things you got spanked/Punished for? just like you...for doing something "bad".

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I am so sad I have this problem with this zit on my nose,it hurts so bad and go ahead and pop it but try to do it without any coercion what is your question?

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What's the deal with this (see photo)? Answer 4 of 2? it's so blurry i can't make anything out of it...

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Can You Forgive Yourself And Others? yes, there is no reason not to...why would i want to carry those burdens through life?

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Do you think Obama's approval rating will keep going down? yes...i don't see things getting any better.

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If you were a fluffy little mouse, just imagine the state you would be in constantly thinking about being eaten by the neighbours cat, how does this make you feel about the dangers in your life? i would make it my life's goal to make friends with the cat so that i could live my furry little life to it's fullest!

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So if you cant change a personality then is it true that thier are to many menacing ones with harmful intentions? people can change their personality if they want to...no one else can do it for them or command them to do it. a good therapist can help someone reconstruct their personality but the therapist can't do it for them. as far as is it true that their are too many menacing ones with harmful intentions? as far as i am concerned, even one with harmful intentions is too many.

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Has anybody tried buying anything from www.lookrichforless.com ? I want to buy some of their stuff but because it is SO cheap I'm concerned about the craftsmanship of the watches. Thanks i've not bought anything from there but i figure you get what you pay for...if it's craftsmanship you value, i'm not sure "cheap" is the way to go.

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Why is obama praising a junkie pedophile like wacko jacko. do you reckon he would equally praise the wacko if he was white,.,.,.not just bleached i am not an obama fan but maybe obama hasn't seen the evidence that MJ was a pedophile...i don't think he was ever convicted of pedophilia because there wasn't enough evidence to support the charges. as far as being a junkie goes, your choice of words shows an enormous lack of understanding and compassion regarding the complicated nature of addiction and medical treatment in...

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Im living in an abusive relationship when is it time to stop trying to make it work? the first time he abuses...

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Should we have a "Please Rephrase the Question" function here or what? that's an excellent idea...we also need a "this is not a question" option.

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Why would any family allow a child to speak at the funeral for her father with millions and millions of people watching her? why not? no one forced MJ's daughter to speak...forbidding it would have been minimizing her feelings, unnecessarily controlling and selfish. if it didn't bother her that millions and millions of people were watching, why does it bother you?

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Do you take off your bra when you're sleeping? no...i take it off way before i go to sleep.

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Do you think most Pro-Lifers are also in favor of Capital Punishment? i can't speak for most prolifers...i can only speak for myself. i am prolife and i live MY life accordingly, which means i don't get pregnant. i am also in favor of capital punishment and i live MY life accordingly, which means i don't commit crimes punishable by death.

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If I was god, how could I prove it to you? Note: I am not saying I am god, I am just curious as to how it could be proved that someone is god! God would capitalize his name for starters...if you were God, you would be here setting up your Kingdom and you'd have nothing to prove because you'd already be surrounded by Believers.

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Theists, Do you ever thank God for the things you do & DON'T have? My friend mentioned that some people only pray when they need something which I don't think is true, do you? of course some people don't know how to use prayer. i thank God multiple times a day for what he provides and delivers me from.

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Why do underage young women believe a young man when he says I love you when all he wants is his pleasure? i hate to tell you this, but women of all ages fall for this one. it is because they need to feel loved because that need is not being met in a healthy relationship.

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Would you have an affair with your friends husband..This seems to be some kind of epidemic all over. How do you fall inlove with YOUR friends spouse? no, i would not do this...i don't know how to fall in love with my friend's spouse.

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Have you ever had a guy pick another girl over you because he liked her more than you..then later on down the road he started to like you a lot, and asked you out..would you date him if you liked him or would thatbe degrading? it's not degrading to me that he is intellectually slow.

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What is the difference between abortion and killing death row inmates do we have that right in the eyes of God? we studied this not too long ago...i wish i could remember the scriptures. society does have the right to execute one that has commited horrific crimes against others. if you don't know the difference between the two situations, AB isn't going to be able to help you.

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What do you say, or do to someone you are newly dating who says "Ive been hurt before , and you've got to prove your love to me before I can believe it"? thanks for showing me who you are right up front...it saves me a great deal of time. good luck with that...so long.

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My ex-bf and I are very close but he has a gf. Sometimes he comes over to my place and we cuddle and talk, no sex. Else we talk on the phone. His gf doesn't know about our close friendship. Are we having an affair? what is with you? why is he your ex if you still want cuddle with him? how would you feel if your current bf were doing the same with another woman? he's a slime ball and you are just enabling him...

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Do you agree with Congressman Peter King about not paying enough attention to our fallen service men and women, but praising the life of a pervert? I agree with him and I think if you agree you should email him and let him know. No...where is the evidence that the life of a pervert has been praised?

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I had some photos of old girlfriends on my computer. they have been there forever, my live in girlfriend came across the old photos and freaked and said i needed to delete all of them. should a person delete old photos? not until you are ready to let go of them...and if that is never, so be it...unless they are in the style of porno-that's different.

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Do you think that anyone who has a Abortion will and is going to Hell? No....if you understood being Saved and understood God's mercy and grace, you would know the answer to this question.

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Do you think that there is anything wrong with Michael Jackson? Do you think he is guilty or innocence for child molestation? no...i always thought it was about a pay off.

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Did you watch the Michael Jackson memorial service? i am watching it on msnbc.com now...i've already watched clips of it...Brooke Shields was absolutely eloquent...Paris Jackson was precious. i'm looking forward to seeing it in it's entirety.

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Would you vote for a president who isn't Christian? no...

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Does it seem a little stupid when people ask questions online about killing themselves? I always think why aren't you asking a professional? Call a suicide hotline! Does anyone else feel the same? i believe AB can be a great source of support for someone that has lost a loved one to suicide. i do wish that when someone contemplating suicide came here expressing such desires that everyone would encourage them to get professional help...that frequently does not happen. i have seen people be encouraged to kill themselves and i've seen people tell the suicidal person not to trust...

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Obese, balding, arrogant men are about as sexy looking as a ________? a bowling ball

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What is one thing that is UNattractive to you, when you are single and looking? poor hygiene/grooming (edit - a criminal record is pretty unattractive too...along with poor grammar, drug/alcohol/cigarette addiction...oh, there's a lot...)

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Who annoys you in your family? for the most part, no. My sister-in-law doesn't return phone calls as fast as i would like, ocassionally my mom and dad send me to the store for something they forgot and my younger brother's girlfriend is a mooch...in the scheme of things, that's NOTHING!!!

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We are travelling on a vacation to Europe next month and faced with a long flight schedule. My 15 year old daughter is coming with us and she has a habit of getting "caught short" on such trips. Would it be reasonable for her to wear diapers on the trip? that would be, NO!

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What's the best way to get a good wife? mail order? be a good husband...

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If you had a moment where you were looking back at your entire life would you be happy with the life you had, or would you dwell on the things you should of done? I am happy with the life I have lived so far and I plan to continue living my life in such a way that I can say this 20-30+ years from now.

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Can you name one person in your life who you wouldn't miss if they disappeared. i feel so bad saying this because my younger brother would be devastated but i wouldn't miss his girlfriend at all.

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I called my man for 'booty call' and he told me he was too busy,i told him i would go to plan b,not to worry.he immeditally said that he would try to get away.do you think he was jealous of me thinking about going with someone else? nothing like blackmail to strengthen a relationship...

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What do you do when your friends sto hunging out with you because they tell you that your girl is no good is crazy and theydont want their wivesto get involve with her because she drinks a lot also didcocaine and they are not comf and they tellyou t0brke i would look closely at my choice in a mate to see if my friends' concerns were valid. if she does drink alot and has a history of illegal drug use, i'd have to ask myself, what am i thinking?

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Do you like waterfalls? Why or why not? yes...beautiful works of nature...i love the sound too

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Why will you not let me borrow your money? If you don't have enough money to meet your needs, you aren't going to have enough to pay me back. If you can't manage your money to meet your needs, you aren't going to be able to manage to pay me back. If you are meeting your needs, there's no need to borrow money from me. If you want something that you can' afford, you won't be able to afford to pay me...

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Why is the average gay dude more handsome than the average straight dude? I've never seen any research to support the idea that average gay men are more handsome than average straight men. Not to mention, how does one define "handsome" since it is a personal preference? I can tell you from my years of experience of managing large apartment communities that, in general, the openly gay men (that I knew of) were typically better groomed and had stronger...

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Were you put on earth to serve a purpose? yes

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Parents: If you set your diaper-bottomed child on the conveyor belt at a register line and the cashier asked you to take them off, how would you react? the cashier wouldn't have to tell me to remove my child because, i wouldn't put my child there in the first place.

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So I have some issues from my past that ive been trying to deal with. I sought counselling through the college i attended and found a great counsellor. Was just beginning to work through it all when she cancelled about 3 appts on me, what is your question?

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What do you think about the doctrine that Christians shouldn't listen to secular music? i know that what i enjoy listening to has changed during the course of my spiritual growth...it's not that Bible says Christians shouldn't listen to secular music. this is the easiest way to explain what i know to be true http://www.gotquestions.org/secular-music.html

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What are your parents opinions on your current job? they are proud of me and my accomplishments but they don't really understand the mental health profession...they also don't understand being self-employed.

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Does your cat let you bathe it? Not a chance! they will let me sweep them...one will let me vacuum her but bathe...now way!

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Which one of your five senses would let you know first that there's a zombie on your premises? I'd have to say smell too!

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Would you believe your significant other (now) if they said they wanted to go hiking, alone, on the Appalachian Trail... or ANYWHERE for that matter? yes, my best hikes have been alone...hiking/camping alone in Grand Canyon National Park has been the best vacation of my life...better than a month in Europe and that was fantastic! i think everyone should experience that.

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My buddy says I am "humiliating" myself when I model nude in front of an all girl art class. He says the girls don't say anything, they draw from the model, but deep inside they feel I'm totally degrading & humiliating myself. Do women agree? Feeback? this women thinks your buddy has issues...don't let him make them yours!

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If scientists created a machine that could resurrect the deceased as newborn infants, how would that make you feel? creepy...i wouldn't want anything to do with it.

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Is it wrong that after work I prance around in the nude? Is it even worst if I said that I like it? if you work at home, this OK...if you're still at the office, well, that's a problem. if you are at home, it's ok to like it but if you are still at work and you like it, well that's likely to add to the problem.

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What question would you like to ask your pet? where have you been for 3 days?

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Have you ever kept wanting someone that didn't want you? no...it's a waste of time and energy

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I just had a baby and I'm very insecure about my post-pregnancy body. My husband swears up and down he still finds me sexy. He wants me to wear lingerie for him but I feel gross. Am I being stupid? Do men notice flaws in the heat of the moment? you aren't being stupid but you are having a difficult time adjusting to your new body. give yourself time and wear the changes proudly...your body has just completed an amazing feat!!! He loves you...the only thing that matters about your body is that it is YOURS!!!

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I have lived with my girlfreind for 3 yrs. I do not pay for anything except occasional groceries and dinners out. She now wants me to start paying the bills. I own another house and my money goes to that house. Why should I have to help her? oh, just leave her over it...you'd be doing her a favor!

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Whats the first business you were a manager at & what was the business? at 16, i was the manager of the Spanish Shop at Six Flags Over Mid-America, if that counts...other than that I didn't have the title of Manager until I was 24 and became an apartment manager.

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I have a 3000 sq ft home, tile thruout, i vacuum every second day, and have 3 dogs, any recommendations on what brand and what it has to offer..my husband wont buy me a roomba. honestly, i think you would need a few roombas to cover 3000 sq ft...ask for a maid to come in and vacuum every second day...the roombas would pay for themselves in no time. you can also ask for a Filter Queen (if they still make them) or a Kirby for the maid to push around.

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What do you need to be happy?(take the quiz) It says "success", i think "sense of mastery or accomplishment" is a better way to describe it for me...here's what the results said: You are a responsible and serious person. You like to do things well. Reaching your goals is very important to you, and you don't like getting sidetracked. You feel great when you are mastering new tasks and solving problems....

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Do you think it is possible to fall back in love with someone that you had fallen out of love with? If so how do you think it happens and how long do you think it could take? yes but only if both parties are committed to the process. first, both of you need to know your deal breakers, in the absense of deal breakers, it can be done. spend about 20 hours a week interacting with each other...if there are other people present it takes two hours to equal one hour of togetherness. examine your expectations and complaints regarding your partner...are they realistic and...

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Are you going to play with firecrackers this weekend? No, but i'll be "supervising" a bunch of young "adults" (19-20 yo)...mostly i'll just be available to call 911 or take one of them to the hospital if they do something stupid!

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Will you always be there to help me out? no, that is why we need a support network!

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Do you think it is alright for a stepfather to install spy software on his partner's daughter to make sure she doesn't do anything inappropriate/unsafe? if she were supervised while on the computer, this wouldn't be necessary...sounds like lazy parenting to me...

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Look at the site below and tell me why you think someone having read this, should believe that the bible has a place in our lives. It highlights cruelty, violence, continuity errors, and plain absurdity throughout. http://www.skepticsannotatedbible.com/ i don't have time to start going through it but have you watched the news lately? it highlights cruelty, violence, definately has continuity errors and covers stuff thatis plan absurd. the stuff that is in the news becomes history as are the events in the Bible.

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What time do you go to bed? depends...i really like to go to bed early (8-9pm) and get up early (4:30-5:30AM)...but it's hard to go to bed early when i work until 7:30, 8:30 or even 9:30 at night.

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The last time you were drunk did you do anything stupid & what was it? i haven't done that in years...i can't even tell you when the last time i drank too much was but i'd have to say, just doing it was stupid.

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When was the last time you went to an IKEA outlet? What did you buy? the end of March 2009 - didn't by a thing...i don't get the attraction.

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What the cheapest thing you ever do in your life? take a nap

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Can you give me a name of an island? Dalphin Island

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What happens when the past catches up with you? you own it, make ammends if necessary (do your time, pay resitution, make your apologies, etc.), learn from it and continue living.

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Did your child hood have a good or bad effect on your adult life? i'd have to say no...i am what i am today because of my childhood so even the rough times were worth it!

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What was the last book you bought? i just bought/gave an out of print book as a gift...can't remember the name of it but it's a coffee table book on the history and renovation of St. Louis Union Station.

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"I pledge that under my plan, no one making less than $250,000 a year will see any type of tax increase," Who fell for this line? I didn't...but looks like it's going to knock me down anyway.

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Have you worn bell bottom pants? yes...even wore elephant bell bottoms...frightening site; it was in the 70's!

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Can you tell me something about yourself ? Something you wouldn't tell your co-workers or your spouse? i am persistent!

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Do you like your living room? yes, i do...i need a new couch but i like the color and style...and i don't like to go shopping...but i'm going to have to do something about it soon!

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Would you contact the police if.....? This happened to me this morning. yes, i would have made note of the lisence plate # and the description of the car, gone straight home and called the police after the first incident.

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Do you have any extra batteries in the house & which ones? AAA, AA, C & D

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What spices do you use most often? black pepper

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If someone came up to you and said to you 'hey, you, I don;t like your girlfriend, I think you need a new one. I could be your girlfriend', how would you respond? i would say, "your opinion of my girlfriend has no bearing on my decisions, you do not determine my needs and you will never be my girlfriend with social skills like this."

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I have a date with a one eyed girl tomorrow night. Do you have any advice for me? if she's a purple people eater, you might want to think twice about this date if you are a purple people!

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Been with my man for 4 years we argue a lot and i have trust issues wid him he has now told me he has lost love 4 me and dislikes who i am now that has broke my heart we are still together and he says i have to change but im not entirely to blame im hurt leave...this relationship was over a long time ago.

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Can you name a place that starts with the letter " L"? Lynch Street Bistro, Lambardo's Trattoria - restarants in St. Louis and Laclede's Landing is a hot spot for nightlife in st. louis

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Can you name a place that starts with the letter " L"? Louisville and Lexington, KY

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Can you name a place that starts with the letter " L"? Linn, MO Leslie, MO too

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How do you not care wat people think about you??? i really need to know cuz i care too much about what people think so plz help me..thanks because you can't do anything about their thoughts...they have a right to think whatever they want whenever they want...just like YOU do. do you want someone telling you what you can and cannot think about anything?

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Does logic alone prove that there is a God? no...it is by faith

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I wear fake eyelashes every day, i cut mine because i thought my eyes would look bigger and brighter & the fake ones would go on & look better. i feel so stupid, fingers cross they grow back ! do you think they will :(? they'll grow back...live and learn.

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Do you have a gun in your house? If you do have a gun, why do you choose to own it? If you do not own a gun, why don't you choose to have one? yes...i am responsible for my own protection.

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Have you been following all my questions about my hopeless relationship all night? hahaha. HONESTLY. honestly, no.

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My 15 yr old daughter is dating men on internet. What woud u do? pull the plug

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Some people say all immigrants should be deported. Do you agree? no, immigrants have come here through proper channels...people that are here illegally need to be deported.

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My wife says hitting the kids with books is good for them & teaches charater. Do you agree? lol...no

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I'm a 14 year old girl, but I've only ever been into older guys. Like men in their twenties. Thoughts as to why this may be and how I can find love when I'm like 16? what is wrong with these guys that they can't get one of their peers? they have to resort to using little girls...disgusting. if they are over 21, they are breaking the law in my state and would end up on the sex offenders registry for the rest of their lives. finding love when you are 16? you'll be used by then at this rate...

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Other than breakfast, What do you use bacon for? cut a head of cabbage into large wedges...press butter into crevices, salt & peper to taste, wrap a piece of bacon or two around the wedge then wrap in aluminum foil...cook on the grill or bake in the oven until soft.

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My son wants to dress as nazi for costume party. Is there something wrong? this is questionable...it is definately in poor taste...so it depends on who's at the party...would they find it amusing?

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I just started to use nuvaring, I took it out about a week & 1/2 ago to have my period, then replaced it. I was wondering what are the chances of getting pregnant using nuvaring and how soon I would be able to find out. aren't these question you would have asked your doctor when it was prescribed?

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Is this for real!?!!? Check out the YouTube clip what clip? EDIT - was just able to view the clip...unfortunately, i think this is real. video game addictions are very real and game addicts typically have very poor social and coping skills.

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I hate all men. They are macho shovanist pigs & expect women to be slaves. How do u feel about these words? you are making poor choices...

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Children: is it really worth it? it all depends on what you want out of life and why you want children.

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Is it ok for a 13 year old girl (not me) to be fingered. i dont think it is whats ur opinion? if you have to ask, the answer is no.

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I'm struggling with the death of our dog. My head says it was the right thing to put her down before her illness devastated her completely. My heart says I should have spent more money on treatment, gone to yet another vet for an opinion, etc. Pls. help! I am so sorry for your loss. You gave your dog the greatest gift of compassion an owner could give. He trusted you to look after his best interest and you did just that...you made a selfless decision and relieved him from a body that was failing him...you set him free.

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Would it bother you if your bf/gf was possessive of you and didn't allow you to talk to any of your friends on the phone? Specially those of the opposite sex? that person would never earn the status of boyfriend with me!

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Feminists: Why can't you say men and women are equal? They are equal. They are just not treated equally.

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Should I be mad at my boyfriend for lying to me about how much my engagement ring was, and I find out its from walmart after I tell everyone how much it was? no you should not be mad at your boyfriend. it sounds like the two of you are too immature to be getting married.

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When you go shopping, do you go because you have to or want to? i go when i need to...i don't ever want to go shopping and no one can make me go but i will choose to go when i need to...

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I was evicted for not paying rent... how do i fix this or find housing? i am 20yrs old. you might be able to find a slumlord that would rent to you and you may have to accept this substandard housing until you can prove yourself. an eviction becomes part of your public record (like a bankruptcy), i am not sure how long it is on your record. also, i don't know where you live but Covenant House might be able to help you if they are in your area or you are willing to go to...

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My boyfriend andi have beentogether for ten years now andstill notreal committment. i know that he isdoing something outsideo ur relationship and i know that its with someone the he works with. tell me what to do no one can tell you what to do...what you do depends on what you want out of life...what do you want and does this guy fill the bill?

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Would you rather pig out on potato chips for a meal or go out to eat at an ethnic restaurant? (French, Chinese, Asian foods etc...) an ethnic restaurant, please!

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Im having baby with my botfriend of 2 years but i just find out that he been mess around with couple women what should i do? what should you do about what?

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How common is workplace bullying? i worked for an alcoholic bully for 9+ years...i did't realize the toll it was taking on me until i was having a hard time functioning...i was so depressed...it took me about 3 years to recover from it.

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Want to take The It's Its There Their They're Quiz? See the link 10/10...knowing what is correct and taking the time to do it two different skills!

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Have you ever gone through a phase where you simply aren't attracted to anyone? that would be yes...

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Are me and ray gona get married? and when? we are not the magic 8 ball or psychic. please tell me exactly how you expect us to know?

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Are you the type that has to be right everytime? no...we all have the right to be wrong...and if we are wrong, we'll get it right when we need to.

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Looking for a bible timeline which will tie up events with meaningful dates.For instance showing that the day Jesus rode into Jerusalem was also the day the passover lamb is inspected. Anyone know if such a work exists please? go to the Guidepost website...i believe they have a Daily Bible arranged in chronological order.

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Do you use answerbag as your own personal therapy? yes...

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My son 17 year old son refuses to get help for his anger and pot addiction problems.....as a single mom-what can I do? report him to the police...is he driving high? does he bring it into your home? if he is doing these things and you are not reporting it to the police, you are supporting his illegal behavior. i know i hear all the time from parents that they don't want to get their kid in trouble...he's already in trouble or you wouldn't be talking about this!

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I enjoy helping and talking to others to sort out problems, helping in general, but I'm no good when it comes to blood/bodily fluids, what are some good career options based on this info? social work...the opportunities/variety with in that field are vast...if you get tired of doing one thing, you can transfer you skills to another type of social work.

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What is the best way of keeping your kids entertained during school holidays? let them entertain themselves...

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Can anyone help me on how to lose alot of weight fast i am 14 and i weigh over 200 pounds i need help can you help me. talk to your parents and see if they would support you in going to weight watchers...losing it fast is not a good idea unless you are under doctor supervision and then you wouldn't have to be asking us what to do...

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What is a good letter to write to my former host family? Thank you.

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If you could tell your mother ONE thing at this very moment.....what would it be? Love you!

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Who directed "Ghostbusters"? you can probably look that up on Netflix or google the movie credits.

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What would you do if chicken ever started selling for 20.00 per pound? hope that my income had increased proportionately!

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What is your favourite summer dessert? 'strawberries & cream'. ice cream

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Can the questions a user ask tell something about that user? yes, it can reveal maturity, distorted thinking or lack of thought distortions, poor or intact boundaries, relationship and social skills, moral development, problem solving skills, how they manage personal responsibility, etc...

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If you found out the people around you doesn't need you anymore,Would you leave voluntarily or you wait for them to say something? if they didn't need me anymore, that would mean we could have fun...i would be waiting for them to say where they want to go, what they want to do for fun now that they were meeting their needs themselves.

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Last night I was at a concert which was held outside. The eight piece band was playing dance music and the bass was really strong. I could feel it in my entire body When you are at a concert is it normal to feel the pounding of the bass? if the base is too loud, yes

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My ex just called me today to say bye coz he was leaving to his summer vacation and to hang out sometime when he gets back and im beginning to think he wants to start fresh?... it was kinda random because i havent heard from him for 5 weeks. i see the question mark in there but there is no question...what is your question?

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Do birds make good pets? not for me...i have four cats.

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What part of your body hurts right now? my back...i need a new couch

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Why do married people or people in relationships lose interest in socializing with friends and meeting new people? if their main motivation for socializing was to pair up, their mission is accomplished. it is possible they no longer see the point.

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What should you do when you lose your current job, but your not to educated? get enrolled in school full-time or a trade program, then keep looking for a job...you can work and go to school at the same time...select your education wisely so that it leads to opportunities for employment.

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Parents pressure and Demand grandchildren. I'm 30 & single. What to do? i would say, each and every time they bring it up, "thanks for letting me know how you feel. i will keep that in mind."

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Should the promoters of the Michael Jackson concerts in London offer a full refund? of course their money will be refunded...i am sure the promoters had MJ insured...it would have been poor business not to have their headliner insured.

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What are the special rules of your house? people who use drugs aren't welcome, no smoking in the house, no raccoons in the house and the cats rule!

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I juz had a miscarriage and 2 mins after i told my bf he and he did'nt even comfort me then he said he wants to b alone for 3 mths . He promised he will talk to me again.And if in that time someone loves me plz give them a chance. What does this mean? get far far away from him and stay far far away from him. i am sorry for your loss but at least you won't be bound to this man as the father of your child for the rest of your life

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Why would a 86 year old woman buy contraceptive pills? you will probably have to ask her to really find out but with the longevity there, i'd bet she's raising her great granddaughter or maybe even great great granddaughter...i'd bet she's just not up to doing this for another generation...hence, the birth control.

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9 abusive relationships in 2 years. I'm only 14. WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH ME!? where are your parents? why aren't they supervising you?

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Im 4 weeks pregnant and ive only been with my partner for 6 weeks hes 23 and im 20 so were both still young, i told him last night i was pregnant and he doesnt want me to keep it as were both not ready,i dont want an abortion, wat do i do? regardless of what decision you make you will live with it for the rest of your life...so think this through. i'm glad to hear abortion isn't what you want...just don't let anyone talk you into it. it is not the quick fix some people think it is...i don't know a great deal about adoption but i know of a child who has been adopted and his mom is in is life as an...

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What's the oddest thing you've ever seen cooked at a barbecue? conch...in the cayman islands

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What kinds of summer and after-school jobs did you have before adulthood? babysitting, then worked at the snack bar at the bowling alley and then worked Six Flags Over Mid-America all through high school.

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Who was this Michael Jackson guy who died? he was a son, a brother, a father, an uncle, a friend, a musician and entertainer...and other roles in life.

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When someone answers a question with "I don't care" are they leaning more toward yes or no? this sounds like a question for the magic 8 ball...http://web.ics.purdue.edu/~ssanty/cgi-bin/eightball.cgi

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What's your favorite word that you rarely hear? crapulous

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What was the last movie you watched? yes, man...it wasn't my choice...it was funny but i would have picked something else.

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Why celeb's don't learn from each others life mistakes? Jackson said to his wife Presley that he might end up his life like her dad. That exactly what happened - drug overdose. Is the drug's power stronger than a desire to live? Some1 pls explain? people learn in different ways...some must experience it themselves while others can learn from observing or listening...and some are just incapable of learning period. this is people in general, celebraties aren't any different!

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Anybody else having fun reviewing all the back-and-forth arguing about whether MJ has actually passed yet? I mean, it's sad, but people get pretty defensive. i wasn't aware this was going on...i don't watch TV much...but i figured it would turn into a fiasco similar to Elvis and the rumored sightings, etc...

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What don't you like about the country? the city people that come out here to dump their trash or they move out here, try to incorporate so they can require permits, charge fees for all kinds of ridiculous stuff and tell me what i can't do on my property...

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What don't you like about the beach? the tourists that feed the seagulls!!!

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If you saw a ghost and you told and nobody believed you, would you a)shoot yourself in the head b)jump infront of a bus c) drown yourself in the sea d)sit under a tree and smoke weed all day long? none of the above...i'd just go about my life...

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Pretty girl gives me number, I text her but she don't cal back. Does she like me? you're going to need to refer to the magic 8 ball for that one...http://web.ics.purdue.edu/~ssanty/cgi-bin/eightball.cgi

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Who just rang my door bell? MEow!

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What kind of neighbor do you have? that's not the case here...it's sort of rural so i don't have tons of people real close...my parents aren't low-lifers (across the road), the closest family is a vet and stay at home mom with 2 girls, the next closest is her mom, and the next closest is home builder and his wife is medical administration...going the other way, up on the hilltop-he manages the repair shop for...

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Do you think having 14 kids is way to many ? (this is no joke) it depends on the parents, their resources and their support network.

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Should I feel bad for wanting my boyfriend and his kids to move out. I just really don't want them there any more. I can't stand all the arguing and the kids behavior. I used to be a happy person but I feel no joy about anything right now. no you should not feel bad...get out...it sounds like you have become situationally depressed. take care of yourself and leave! OR make them leave...whichever!

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How can i steal from my sister laptop what do you want to steal from her laptop?

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Do you think some one who has never been married or had children should work as a child care advocate or a family advisor? yes, there is so much more to being a parent than birthing the child. most people have children for selfish reasons, which impacts parenting and most parents don't know the first thing about child development. also, just because someone hasn't had children doesn't mean they don't have extensive experience with children...i've been a foster parent, an aunt to 4 and a...

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Can I ask you something? would you be honest? yes, maybe...i may not want to hurt your feelings, i may not want to disappoint you or i may feel the need to avoid getting in trouble with you...

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Are you a better friend to others than you are to yourself? no...one of my coping mechanisms is to be my own best friend.

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Have you ever made someone a mixtape? What was on it? yes, i've made them for many many people...what was on was determined by who i was giving it to and sometimes for what purpose...

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What is your first thought when you see a man with a very long beard? zztop

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Im white and i dont find black people attractive. its not like i think any lower of them im just not physically attracted to them. so why do people call me a racist? i think you are just asking for trouble when you make a statement like that. i'd keep that to myself just like i would i didn't find short people attractive.

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How can you reduce the risk of being hurt in love? choose wisely...people will show you who they are through their behavior, watch for it and don't start putting up with something that you aren't willing to put up with for the rest of your life.

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If I never get married and have kids, am I missing out? no matter what you choose, you will be missing out on something...so it's your choice. if you have children, just don't have them for selfish reasons. if you don't have children, your life doesn't have to be void of children. i don't have children of my own but i've been available to be a fanstastic aunt to 4 and great aunt to 9...i've been a foster parent...

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How come some women (and not just ugly ones) can pull out all the stops in attempt to look sexy, but still don't quite manage it? deleted...i was in a sarcastic mood and thought my sarcastic answer was funny. i have taken advantage of the opportunity to delete it...i should have just passed this question by...