Answerbag: Smile loves California's answers http://www.answerbag.com/profile/643265 New Answerbag answers from Smile loves California Tue, 29 May 2012 22:24:02 -0700 Tue, 29 May 2012 22:24:02 -0700 Answer to If asked, "What is your greatest flaw?" at a job interview, what would you say? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11897196 If asked, "What is your greatest flaw?" at a job interview, what would you say?<br /><br />Be honest. If you have to lie to get the job" it will end in disaster anyway? Sat, 25 Feb 2012 00:13:52 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11897196 Answer to Do you ever talk to yourself when no one else is around? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11897174 Do you ever talk to yourself when no one else is around?<br /><br />Absolutely! And on occasion, I even listen to myself. Fri, 24 Feb 2012 23:57:19 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11897174 Answer to What's your opinion of docking a puppy's tail to "breed standard" after he's almost reached full size? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11897158 What's your opinion of docking a puppy's tail to "breed standard" after he's almost reached full size?<br /><br />Is there a reason to dock it: such as repetitive damage to it, etc. think of it as something like circumcision, would you do it at a mature age without a good reason? Fri, 24 Feb 2012 23:38:04 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/11897158 Answer to What does a lighting designer do? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10852993 What does a lighting designer do?<br /><br />In addition to the great answer you already have, a lighting designer can simply plan the lumination in any given space. Take a large building, the recessed lighting, can lights, direct lighting. . . or task lighting accent lighting, etc has to be planned. Someone has to do it. Lighting stores... Thu, 16 Jun 2011 22:22:11 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10852993 Answer to What do you think about nudity? Is the nude human body something to be ashamed of? What about nudity in art? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9798893 What do you think about nudity? Is the nude human body something to be ashamed of? What about nudity in art?<br /><br />I think whether nudilty is acceptable or not is determined by the culture. I think the phrase that "the human body is beautiful" is true, but doesn't mean it's okay to display it. There is nothing to be ashamed of as long as it is presented in an acceptable manner, place and time. The same... Sat, 23 Oct 2010 21:30:57 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9798893 Answer to is it normal to spot brown blood 3 days after my period has stopped http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9798878 is it normal to spot brown blood 3 days after my period has stopped<br /><br />Yes, nothing to worry about. Sat, 23 Oct 2010 21:25:53 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9798878 Answer to Do you support Wikileaks? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9797198 Do you support Wikileaks?<br /><br />I think they are carrying the right to free speech too far. They are endangering the lives of others. I think the word "espioage" fits. Sat, 23 Oct 2010 11:28:09 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9797198 Answer to Do you accept: Forgive them for they know not what they do? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9797169 Do you accept: Forgive them for they know not what they do?<br /><br />I do, becasue you don't know what you don't know. That statement doesn't run true if someone is ignoring or pretending to not know how others are affected. Sat, 23 Oct 2010 11:19:31 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9797169 Answer to Am I using the semi-colon appropriately? Some argue that if it was not for Otto Von Bismarck; Germany would not have been unified. http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9797157 Am I using the semi-colon appropriately? Some argue that if it was not for Otto Von Bismarck; Germany would not have been unified.<br /><br />You only need a ",". Sat, 23 Oct 2010 11:15:27 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9797157 Answer to does it bother you when someone shoots and kills a perpetrator and is found justified? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9656527 does it bother you when someone shoots and kills a perpetrator and is found justified?<br /><br />That depends on the situation. Was the person's life was at stake, where they protecting children, etc. No matter what I think, if they were found justified in a court of law, by their peers, then maybe they were really justified. Wed, 15 Sep 2010 21:47:35 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9656527 Answer to Emotion is the enemy of Reason. Agree or disagree? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9641142 Emotion is the enemy of Reason. Agree or disagree?<br /><br />I haven't read the other anwers yet so I'm guessing there are similar answers. I disagree, because reason and emotion actually work together for the best outcome in two different ways. One, our sense of reason should consider emotion. For instance, how will this decision affect others,... Sun, 12 Sep 2010 09:31:31 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9641142 Answer to Im 14 and want to become a nudist. Would it be socially acceptable if i walk around the house naked with my parents home? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9183155 Im 14 and want to become a nudist. Would it be socially acceptable if i walk around the house naked with my parents home?<br /><br />For those of us who aren't nudist, it probably wouldn't be acceptable. For me it's not acceptable for a teenage girl to walk around her fathter or brothers without closthes. I would talk to those in the nudist community to find out what they think is acceptable and what the rules are. I'm sure... Sun, 13 Jun 2010 10:16:07 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9183155 Answer to What is the worst emotion? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9181807 What is the worst emotion?<br /><br />Hmm . . . that's a tough question. Every emotion has it's usefulness, so I would say that none of our emotions are worse than others. I would say that it's what you do with that emotion that can be horrible . . . or not. Sat, 12 Jun 2010 23:22:27 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9181807 Answer to What can you learn from the book "Twilight" by Stephenie Meyer? I learned nothing, eh? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9181795 What can you learn from the book "Twilight" by Stephenie Meyer? I learned nothing, eh?<br /><br />Learn to use your imagination. Learn to get caught up in someone else's story and forget about your own for a while. Learn to not fall in love with a vampire in a small town such as Forks. Learn to value a wonderful father who is doing everything in his power to love his daughter yet let her... Sat, 12 Jun 2010 23:17:58 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9181795 Answer to Do people force you to be rude/insulting just by their actions or words? Is it always their fault for bringing out the worst in you? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9178328 Do people force you to be rude/insulting just by their actions or words? Is it always their fault for bringing out the worst in you?<br /><br />That fault belongs to us and us alone. Granted someone's actions can create certain emotions in us, we just have to be in control of those emotions. Sat, 12 Jun 2010 09:27:12 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9178328 Answer to How "party loyal" are you? Your party's candidate makes you cringe. Do you still support him/her or opt out at voting time? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9178319 How "party loyal" are you? Your party's candidate makes you cringe. Do you still support him/her or opt out at voting time?<br /><br />I'm not party loyal at all. I vote for the person, not the party. I consider myself a conservative economically and a liberal socially. The two often contradict each other and the decsion becomes difficult. For example: in the last presidential election year, I didn't vote for president, but... Sat, 12 Jun 2010 09:24:03 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9178319 Answer to Are any Christians praying for God to rain fire down on the heads of all non-believers, then make sure they don't die from it, just burn? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9178308 Are any Christians praying for God to rain fire down on the heads of all non-believers, then make sure they don't die from it, just burn?<br /><br />That wouldn't be very Christian of them!! Sat, 12 Jun 2010 09:20:53 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9178308 Answer to Could the BP oil disaster cause a Civil War between coastal states and land locked states? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9178281 Could the BP oil disaster cause a Civil War between coastal states and land locked states?<br /><br />I think that thought is far from coming to fruition. I think most of America supports the coastal states in this situation and feels pain for the people who live there. Granted the main reason for our Civil War was due to a differnence in economies (farming vs industry), I don't think that... Sat, 12 Jun 2010 09:13:06 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9178281 Answer to After years of hiding/transferring/ignoring pedophile priests the Vatican is apologizing. Why now? Fear of God's wrath perhaps? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9178245 After years of hiding/transferring/ignoring pedophile priests the Vatican is apologizing. Why now? Fear of God's wrath perhaps?<br /><br />They are loosing followers. Hopefully they will soon realize that celibacy isn't natural and shouldn't be forced on priest. Sat, 12 Jun 2010 09:04:18 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9178245 Answer to How do I convince you that I am NOT God? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9178238 How do I convince you that I am NOT God?<br /><br />No convincing needed here. God probably does't have time for AnswerBag, so if you're here, then you're not God. Not to mention that if you don't even believe you're God, then you can't expect us to believe you're God. Sat, 12 Jun 2010 09:00:44 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9178238 Answer to how much child support will i have 2 pay if i make 60k a year? 2 kids. my soon 2 be x was a stay @ home mom 4 21 yrs. no education... http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9178226 how much child support will i have 2 pay if i make 60k a year? 2 kids. my soon 2 be x was a stay @ home mom 4 21 yrs. no education...<br /><br />I can't answer this question with any certain percentage at this point, but I think you need to be prepared to pay allimony as well. If she stayed at home for 21 years while taking care of the family ,she will need help making a living. I don't think the allimony should be long term, or a large... Sat, 12 Jun 2010 08:55:39 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9178226 Answer to Is anyone in heaven yet? do we not have to wait for judgement day first? or is there a judgement day for each individual? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9178204 Is anyone in heaven yet? do we not have to wait for judgement day first? or is there a judgement day for each individual?<br /><br />I'm in heaven. I enjoy and relish every moment. I think it's all in how we look at life. Our judgement day is every day. We have to find a way to enjoy, make a difference, learn, love others, be loved and love ourselves. Once we learn all those things, "heaven" is easier to find right here... Sat, 12 Jun 2010 08:49:58 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9178204 Answer to Is it a good skill to be able to forgive yourself if you hurt others on a regular basis? How do I master this skill? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9178185 Is it a good skill to be able to forgive yourself if you hurt others on a regular basis? How do I master this skill?<br /><br />"A good skill" . . . yes. But . . and there is a huge "But". Forgiveness only works when you try really hard not to do it again. So, you can't hurt others, forgive yourself and repeat the same offense over and over. Once you hurt someone, realize your mistake, forgive yourself (because you... Sat, 12 Jun 2010 08:45:50 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9178185 Answer to Are geraniums hardy? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9114502 Are geraniums hardy?<br /><br />Yes, very hardy and they grow very fast. Mon, 31 May 2010 07:57:24 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9114502 Answer to Is it a good thing that Im 15 but look 17, act 20 and has the maturity of a 30 year old? Why am I not a regular teenager? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9111779 Is it a good thing that Im 15 but look 17, act 20 and has the maturity of a 30 year old? Why am I not a regular teenager?<br /><br />Whether it is a good thing or a bad thing is irrelevant. You are what you are. Love yourself but learn yourself. Know that others may see you as older, so this may get you into situations you really don't want to be in. I bet you enjoy things many of your friends do, but if you had rather be... Sun, 30 May 2010 20:35:03 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9111779 Answer to My 23 year old son is playing house in my home. I dont like it. What do you think? Am I being to hard? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9111766 My 23 year old son is playing house in my home. I dont like it. What do you think? Am I being to hard?<br /><br />I'm assuming I know what "playing house" means. No matter, it's your home and for you to decide what right for your home and what's not. You make the rules. Sun, 30 May 2010 20:28:47 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9111766 Answer to No offense meant, but don't memorial day flags, parades and such just serve to glorify war and death and perpetuate violence? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9111753 No offense meant, but don't memorial day flags, parades and such just serve to glorify war and death and perpetuate violence?<br /><br />I don't think so, they all represent the incredible men and women who gave their lives to preserve our way of life . . . liberty, freedom to elect our government, freedom of speech, freedom to display a flag or not display a flag. In many countries your question wouldn't have been allowed... Sun, 30 May 2010 20:21:27 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9111753 Answer to How do I kill mosquitoes in water gardens? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9106886 How do I kill mosquitoes in water gardens?<br /><br />Get some frogs, they will eat the misquitoes. I had the coolest toads in an old water garden, they not only ate the misquitoes, the ribbitting was awesome! Sat, 29 May 2010 21:43:20 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9106886 Answer to Can I lie about my age on a resume? I am 25 and never had a job. I am scared that nobody will hire me because I am too old. http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9106853 Can I lie about my age on a resume? I am 25 and never had a job. I am scared that nobody will hire me because I am too old.<br /><br />Why are you putting your age on a resume? I've never put my age on a resume. By the way, you aren't too old. Many peoeple don't get jobs until getting out of college, which could be anywhere from 22-26 or so. Don't sell yourself short. Sat, 29 May 2010 21:29:24 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9106853 Answer to I can\'t seem to push myself to do simple things. I end up surfing sites or doing nothing at all. Any idea how to break this cycle? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9106844 I can\'t seem to push myself to do simple things. I end up surfing sites or doing nothing at all. Any idea how to break this cycle?<br /><br />Make a deal with yourself. Use your computer time as a reward. For every hour you spend doing something great outside, you give yourself 30 computer minutes. If that doesn't work, remind yourself that heart disease is the number one killer of Americans, so . . . get outside and work on the... Sat, 29 May 2010 21:26:43 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9106844 Answer to Its time to stop _________ ? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9106837 Its time to stop _________ ?<br /><br />picking your nose in public. That should only be done when you are alone in an elevator, in your car by yourself, while you are walking the dog in the dark, any other time you think people aren't looking (but really are)! Sat, 29 May 2010 21:22:43 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9106837 Answer to If the answer to life is 42, what is the answer to death? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9106827 If the answer to life is 42, what is the answer to death?<br /><br />The very minute you count on the answer to life being "42". You have to find the answer to life yourself. It's different for each and every one of us. Sat, 29 May 2010 21:18:45 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9106827 Answer to What should i do if my guinea pig sneezes a couple times a day? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9106811 What should i do if my guinea pig sneezes a couple times a day?<br /><br />Try changing his bedding. He might be allergic! Probably not . . . but why not try a change. Sat, 29 May 2010 21:13:51 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9106811 Answer to my interview in Macys was tuesday and I was told I'll be having a second interview with the manager this week but I did not hear from them? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9106804 my interview in Macys was tuesday and I was told I'll be having a second interview with the manager this week but I did not hear from them?<br /><br />It's time to make a phone call. Show them that you really want the job and that you have initiative. I would be unimpressed with the one who didn't follow up, even if I told them I would call them. In this economy, you can bet that many others are checking back in. Good Luck. Sat, 29 May 2010 21:11:49 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9106804 Answer to Right-wing evangelical preacher Jeff Owens says,"burn and shoot fags" Is that a Christian attitude? Is he a messenger of God? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9106790 Right-wing evangelical preacher Jeff Owens says,"burn and shoot fags" Is that a Christian attitude? Is he a messenger of God?<br /><br />No, that's not a Christian attitude. Christ would have never acted or even thought this way . . . not if he's represents the Christ that the Bible portrays. If he's a messenger of God, then I want a different God and messanger. Jesus may not have endorsed homosexual relationships, but he loved... Sat, 29 May 2010 21:07:50 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9106790 Answer to Which do you value more obedience or independence and why? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9106754 Which do you value more obedience or independence and why?<br /><br />I value both equally. There has to be a balance. Too much of anything can be a bad thing . . . so, I put no more value on one than the other. I see obiendience as something I have to do for myself- to maintain a happy and healthy life. My independence (thinking for myself) provides me with... Sat, 29 May 2010 20:54:51 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9106754 Answer to Why do we fear the outsider/stranger/the one who is unlike us? Maybe we could learn something useful. Why are we so afraid of everything? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9105121 Why do we fear the outsider/stranger/the one who is unlike us? Maybe we could learn something useful. Why are we so afraid of everything?<br /><br />It's human nature. But it's one thing to recognize our differences and another to fear them. We, as humankind, are afraid until we learn to embrace differences. It's a tough lesson to learn and often is never learned. I think many of us are fearful and others of us recognize. Prejudices are... Sat, 29 May 2010 09:46:50 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9105121 Answer to Of movies you've seen, is your "All-time Favorite Movie" also your " The Best Movie You've Ever Seen?" http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9038670 Of movies you've seen, is your "All-time Favorite Movie" also your " The Best Movie You've Ever Seen?"<br /><br />No. My favorite is Gladiator, the best movie I've ever seen was Schindler's List, The Green Mile or Dances With Wolves. Sun, 16 May 2010 21:11:36 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9038670 Answer to Who has more rights: me or my neighbor's barking dog? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9038624 Who has more rights: me or my neighbor's barking dog?<br /><br />If there is a noise ordinance at a certain time of night, you might have more rights after that time, say 10:00 pm. Most neighborhoods have one. Sun, 16 May 2010 20:54:50 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9038624 Answer to how do you make yourself throw up http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9037431 how do you make yourself throw up<br /><br />May I ask why you ask this question? Sun, 16 May 2010 11:48:54 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9037431 Answer to what do you do when a mother doesnt want her daughter and doesnt have a father http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9037424 what do you do when a mother doesnt want her daughter and doesnt have a father<br /><br />That depends on who you are to the mother and the situation. Share a little more info. Sun, 16 May 2010 11:45:35 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9037424 Answer to Have you ever heard the sound of silence? How does it help spiritually? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9037418 Have you ever heard the sound of silence? How does it help spiritually?<br /><br />Pretty close, maybe not complete silence as it's very hard to replicate. You can always hear your breathing. Being as close to silence as possible does really assist with spirituallity. I seek places where the only noises are natural noises, those found in nature. Complete silence is still... Sun, 16 May 2010 11:43:53 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9037418 Answer to What's in the news lately that really gets you agitated for whatever reason? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9037411 What's in the news lately that really gets you agitated for whatever reason?<br /><br />How those who don't live in Arizona are so adversed to the new immigration laws? Those of us who don't live there can't pretend that we know how they feel, so we don't know how important this issue is to them. Many of them are living in fear everyday due to the drugs and kidnappings that have... Sun, 16 May 2010 11:39:32 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9037411 Answer to What is the worst state in the USA and why? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9037384 What is the worst state in the USA and why?<br /><br />The worst state in the US is a state of chaos! Sun, 16 May 2010 11:30:55 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9037384 Answer to Would you think it unprofessional for a doctor or nurse to cry over someone's illness or death? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9037380 Would you think it unprofessional for a doctor or nurse to cry over someone's illness or death?<br /><br />No I don't. They are human first and doctor's second. Seeing emotion from a doctor would validate they did everything they could do. Often emotion makes us work harder. I understand that lack of outward emotion my help the situation, but it could also hurt. I do agree with Marky Mark that... Sun, 16 May 2010 11:29:43 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9037380 Answer to How can men successfully encourage more women to take a vow of silence? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9037364 How can men successfully encourage more women to take a vow of silence?<br /><br />. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .. shhhhhhh! My momma taught me, when you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all!! :-) Sun, 16 May 2010 11:22:57 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9037364 Answer to What do women really want for Mother's Day? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8989537 What do women really want for Mother's Day?<br /><br />Acknowledgement of the great job they are doing or have done is the most important. Flowers, a candle artwork from children or something sentimental are always good gifts. The key is to think about the gift and not do what's necessarily easy but to do what helps show how you feel. Tue, 04 May 2010 22:36:19 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8989537 Answer to If 'Meatloaf' had a back-up group what would be a good name for them? "Meatloaf and the_________ http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8933721 If 'Meatloaf' had a back-up group what would be a good name for them? "Meatloaf and the_________<br /><br />Meathloaf and the Baked Potatoes!! Wed, 21 Apr 2010 21:50:50 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8933721 Answer to I have naked pictures of my ex girlfriend and I that I took with my camera in my house. She recently found out that I had sent them via email to a friend. She is now threatening to sue me and said I should hire a lawyer. Does she have a case? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8880948 I have naked pictures of my ex girlfriend and I that I took with my camera in my house. She recently found out that I had sent them via email to a friend. She is now threatening to sue me and said I should hire a lawyer. Does she have a case?<br /><br />I sure hope so. That was something person between the two of you, you had no right to share those photos with others. That was a pretty low move on your part. Sun, 11 Apr 2010 09:47:57 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8880948 Answer to Don't you think it's better to take a permanent solution to a temporary problem than try endless temporary solutions to a permanent one? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8880935 Don't you think it's better to take a permanent solution to a temporary problem than try endless temporary solutions to a permanent one?<br /><br />Yes, but that depends on how imminent the situation is. Our economy may be a great example. Threat to human life may need a temporary solutions until the situation is under control. Then implement a permanent solution to prevent the same situation from ever happening again. Sun, 11 Apr 2010 09:43:36 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8880935 Answer to Why do so many people think Jesus had pale skin? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8762521 Why do so many people think Jesus had pale skin?<br /><br />I think we choose to visualize him as caucasian due to the classic artist who portrayed him in paintings. Most people who are paying attention realize his skin color was darker. Tue, 09 Mar 2010 18:29:52 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8762521 Answer to Can a parent love one child more than the other? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8762512 Can a parent love one child more than the other?<br /><br />Yes, anything is possible. I would hope that they just love each child differently . . . not one more than the other. Tue, 09 Mar 2010 18:24:41 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8762512 Answer to If you could save anyone from suffering in any way shape or form would you? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8762392 If you could save anyone from suffering in any way shape or form would you?<br /><br />No, those who suffer the most are often the happiest and most grateful. With that being said, I wish I could remove much of the world's suffering, but I think we all have to do our share in order to be better people. Tue, 09 Mar 2010 18:22:34 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8762392 Answer to Why is my aunt so mean http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8761970 Why is my aunt so mean<br /><br />Maybe she has a thorn in her paw! At first I thought the answer was cute, but then I realized it may be true. . . maybe she really does have a thorn in her paw. My guess is that she loves you and it probably hurts her that you are ruining your life (hence "the thorn"). And yes . . . pot... Tue, 09 Mar 2010 18:20:35 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8761970 Answer to My mom makes me call all my elders by "sir" or "mam"She said my elder are anyone whose older than me.I thought the elders were only people age 65 & over.So Im confused,is she right,are elders anyone whose just older than you are or are they over age 65? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8761954 My mom makes me call all my elders by "sir" or "mam"She said my elder are anyone whose older than me.I thought the elders were only people age 65 & over.So Im confused,is she right,are elders anyone whose just older than you are or are they over age 65?<br /><br />No matter what the true definition of "elder" is, or what we think it is, your mom thinks it's someone who's older and that's all that matters. By the way, calling people by "sir' or ma'am" isn't a bad thing. It's polite and respectful. Tue, 09 Mar 2010 18:12:40 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8761954 Answer to Have older people always moaned about the "youth of today"? Are young people getting steadily worse or do we just get less tolerant with age? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8761934 Have older people always moaned about the "youth of today"? Are young people getting steadily worse or do we just get less tolerant with age?<br /><br />It's about change. The younger generation is different and often different is difficult to understand. I wouldn't say that the generation is getting worse. They may be losing appropriate verbal communication and the sort due to technological advances. This may be okay for them eventhough it... Tue, 09 Mar 2010 18:07:13 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8761934 Answer to How often do you use the "Guilt Trip" on your kids? Does that make you feel guilty? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8761922 How often do you use the "Guilt Trip" on your kids? Does that make you feel guilty?<br /><br />I can't say that I used it often, but if I used it, then there was a good reason. Tue, 09 Mar 2010 18:01:48 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8761922 Answer to Do you ever get depressed when your birthday is near? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8761918 Do you ever get depressed when your birthday is near?<br /><br />Nope, it just means I'm another year smarter (hopefully anyway)!! Tue, 09 Mar 2010 17:59:09 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8761918 Answer to My kids twitch while they are asleep. It's not constant, but but happens right before falling asleep and waking up. Should I be concerned? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8713908 My kids twitch while they are asleep. It's not constant, but but happens right before falling asleep and waking up. Should I be concerned?<br /><br />I'm 40 and still twitch right before falling asleep. I turned out okay! ;-) It actually lets my better half know when I'm out for the count. I sleep like a baby and am very at peace with my life, so I wouldn't worry. I see the twitching as a release from the day and my body and mind preparing... Sun, 21 Feb 2010 22:38:32 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8713908 Answer to IF your so called "best Friend' tells everyone what you told her not to tell. Is she my best friend? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8713893 IF your so called "best Friend' tells everyone what you told her not to tell. Is she my best friend?<br /><br />Best friends usually watch out for each other, but maybe she just can't keep a secret. Know that about her and don't tell her things that you don't want to get out. We all have our weaknesses, you are just learning hers, but I bet she has some great qualities(or else she wouldn't be your best... Sun, 21 Feb 2010 22:33:46 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8713893 Answer to My Grandmother thinks I should start reading the Bible to 'restore my faith in Christ'. I firmly don't believe in God, but she is constantly trying to get me in church. How can I tell her that my beliefs are my own without hurting her feeli http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8713869 My Grandmother thinks I should start reading the Bible to 'restore my faith in Christ'. I firmly don't believe in God, but she is constantly trying to get me in church. How can I tell her that my beliefs are my own without hurting her feeli<br /><br />You don't have to tell her. Just listen to her and tell her that you will when you are ready. She needs to know that you are listening to her and that you value what she says, she doesn't have to know that you don't agree with her. The realtionship is more important than being right. You will... Sun, 21 Feb 2010 22:22:46 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8713869 Answer to Hey can you call me sometime? (813)998-2367 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8713824 Hey can you call me sometime? (813)998-2367<br /><br />Sure, I do need to call in a to go order . . . two cheese burgers with fries please. Oh, and don't forget the chocolate milk shakes!! Sun, 21 Feb 2010 22:08:26 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8713824 Answer to Could someone give me a non-religious reason to not kill myself? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8713810 Could someone give me a non-religious reason to not kill myself?<br /><br />Yes. There is someone who will blame themselves for your suicide. Don't do it simply for the people who love you and the people you love (I speak as the daughter of a suicide). Suicide is final, there's no making it right or redoing it. Life always has something better in store for you, but... Sun, 21 Feb 2010 22:02:08 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8713810 Answer to Is music going down hill in terms of quality? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8713792 Is music going down hill in terms of quality?<br /><br />In my opinion it's not going down hill, but I am listening to different music these days. . . Colbie Caillat, Jason Mraz, John Mayer, John Legend, Jack Johnson, etc. Sun, 21 Feb 2010 21:54:52 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8713792 Answer to What would you do if Paris Hilton popped out of your birthday cake? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8634205 What would you do if Paris Hilton popped out of your birthday cake?<br /><br />I believe I would ask for a new birthday cake. What a good way to ruin a perfectly good cake! ;-) Mon, 25 Jan 2010 22:54:31 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8634205 Answer to How do you lose a few pounds??? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8629448 How do you lose a few pounds???<br /><br />I stopping drinking tea so sweet and cut out all sodas. I also started running, about 10 miles a week or so. I didn't have to change anything else. Sat, 23 Jan 2010 22:57:19 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8629448 Answer to Im a freshman and the high school i go to will undoubtedly lead me down a terrifying road (drugs). My parents won't believe me. Help me? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8629425 Im a freshman and the high school i go to will undoubtedly lead me down a terrifying road (drugs). My parents won't believe me. Help me?<br /><br />You are the one who has control over whether or not drugs are a part of your future. No one but you. If you really wanted, you could find drugs in any school and any lifestyle. You have to decide that there aren't room for drugs in your life, and don't even let yourself try them. Trying them... Sat, 23 Jan 2010 22:46:19 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8629425 Answer to On my drums,whenever I hit my base or any of my toms,the beads on the bottom of my snare rattle,anyone know how to stop it? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8602439 On my drums,whenever I hit my base or any of my toms,the beads on the bottom of my snare rattle,anyone know how to stop it?<br /><br />"Tune your set fella", says designer. Just kidding! He says to try to tighten the beads. Sometimes they can be adjusted with the dial that is on the lever that clamps the springs up. Try that first. If all else fails, put a piece of tape on each end of the springs. You can't release the... Mon, 11 Jan 2010 20:57:08 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8602439 Answer to Why do i still have ringing in my ears two days after a NIGHTCLUB!!? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8599938 Why do i still have ringing in my ears two days after a NIGHTCLUB!!?<br /><br />It might go away, but it might not. You may have done a little damage to your ears. You can wear ear plugs when you go to clubs and listen with you earphones at a lower volumn. I lost a portion of my hearing when I was five and it is really affecting me now. Take care of your ears and you... Sun, 10 Jan 2010 19:52:43 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8599938 Answer to My son is 4.5 years old. He still wears a diaper at night. Should I be concerned? Sometimes I think he does it knowingly b/c he doesn't want to get out of bed at night. How can I motivate him to stay dry? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8599921 My son is 4.5 years old. He still wears a diaper at night. Should I be concerned? Sometimes I think he does it knowingly b/c he doesn't want to get out of bed at night. How can I motivate him to stay dry?<br /><br />If you think he's doing it because he doesn't want to get out of bed at night, offer him a positive reinforcement for sleeping without the diaper- maybe a certain treat the next morning. Sun, 10 Jan 2010 19:46:50 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8599921 Answer to Can animals understand humans? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8599912 Can animals understand humans?<br /><br />Yes, some of them absolutely can. My dog definately understands what I'm telling her. The pitch of my voice, my eye movements, my hand gestures, body language etc. We can often understand someone who speaks a different language just by their hand gestures. Sun, 10 Jan 2010 19:42:45 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8599912 Answer to Write 5 truths you have learned in life. http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8587843 Write 5 truths you have learned in life.<br /><br />Things are never quite what they seem. There is always someone who can do it better. There is always someone who can't do it as good as you. Paying attention or listening to loved ones is a lesson we don't learn soon enough. The secret to life is to be true to yourself: learn who you... Wed, 06 Jan 2010 19:46:30 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8587843 Answer to Im 15, overweight i weight 189,& have high cholesterol how do i lose weight fast and lower my cholesterol?? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8587771 Im 15, overweight i weight 189,& have high cholesterol how do i lose weight fast and lower my cholesterol??<br /><br />Exercise! I find that when I exercise, I eat better. So you get better eating habits and excercise all at the same time. Start by running a short distance (or whatever exercise you choose). Each time you run, run a little further until you get to your desired distance. You don't have to run... Wed, 06 Jan 2010 19:13:05 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8587771 Answer to i was due a period 3 wks ago and it hasnt come, i have lost lots of weight and not been eating much could this be the reson? should i worry? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8587758 i was due a period 3 wks ago and it hasnt come, i have lost lots of weight and not been eating much could this be the reson? should i worry?<br /><br />Not eating could be why you haven't had a menstral cycle yet. Why aren't you eating? That might be the real problem. How much weight have you lost? Wed, 06 Jan 2010 19:06:14 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8587758 Answer to How do i know if I'm losing my hearing? my ears ring, one ear tends to go 'blank' sometimes. what can i do to stop this? should i learn sign http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8587755 How do i know if I'm losing my hearing? my ears ring, one ear tends to go 'blank' sometimes. what can i do to stop this? should i learn sign<br /><br />Make an appointment with an ENT (Ear Nose & Throat) doctor. You're hearing is too important to risk. There might be something they can do to make the hearing loss stop. Wed, 06 Jan 2010 19:04:33 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8587755 Answer to Do you think it was inappropriate of President Obama to call Kanye West a "Jackass" for his stunt at the grabbing the microphone from Taylor Swift when she won her VMA award? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8566413 Do you think it was inappropriate of President Obama to call Kanye West a "Jackass" for his stunt at the grabbing the microphone from Taylor Swift when she won her VMA award?<br /><br />I think it's appropriate to think and respond like a normal human. He saw Kanye's action as assinine and responded as such. I applaude him for having a real emotion, exactly what many other Presidents wanted to do in other situations but didn't. Mon, 28 Dec 2009 19:29:27 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8566413 Answer to Is there a box of macaroni and cheese anywhere in your house? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8566405 Is there a box of macaroni and cheese anywhere in your house?<br /><br />Nope, only home made mac and cheese in this house. Mon, 28 Dec 2009 19:19:56 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8566405 Answer to Why do you clean your room? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8566403 Why do you clean your room?<br /><br />I'm a little OCD, so cleaning my room keeps me sane. I don't sleep as well when my room is too messy . . . my mind can't seem to rest like it should. Mon, 28 Dec 2009 19:18:20 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8566403 Answer to Should paternity testing be mandatory on all new births? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8566401 Should paternity testing be mandatory on all new births?<br /><br />The reason over 30% are not the father is because they are having the tests done for a reason- meaning that there is doubt. Most men know they are the fathers and have no need for testing. Mon, 28 Dec 2009 19:16:22 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8566401 Answer to Is it ok for a four year old to sleep in the same bed as her parents? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8566392 Is it ok for a four year old to sleep in the same bed as her parents?<br /><br />Yes, but that depends on if it's every night and if he/she can sleep by themselves. If they have to sleep with their parents or they can't sleep, then there is an issue . . . for the child and for the parents. The child needs to learn that it's okay to sleep by themselves and the parents need... Mon, 28 Dec 2009 19:11:44 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8566392 Answer to Can atheists be good parents? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8562587 Can atheists be good parents?<br /><br />Sure! We all have the ability to be great parents, no matter our religion or no religion. Sat, 26 Dec 2009 23:01:26 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8562587 Answer to how do i convince my parents to let me get chickens http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8562570 how do i convince my parents to let me get chickens<br /><br />Talk to them about what you have to gain by having chickens. But the most important is convince them that you will be responsible and care for them the way you need to and that they don't have to do anything. Be sure to follow through!! Sat, 26 Dec 2009 22:51:06 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8562570 Answer to My husband has been having an affair with my best friend and i have just recently found out by accident. How do they look me in the eye every day as if there wasn't anything going on? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8562566 My husband has been having an affair with my best friend and i have just recently found out by accident. How do they look me in the eye every day as if there wasn't anything going on?<br /><br />Now it's time to not think about them, think about yourself and what you are going to do. It sounds like you have some decisions to make. Sat, 26 Dec 2009 22:47:59 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8562566 Answer to Girls:What would you do if you came home and found a guy in your bedroom sucking on the foot of a pair of your dirty worn pantyhose? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8562559 Girls:What would you do if you came home and found a guy in your bedroom sucking on the foot of a pair of your dirty worn pantyhose?<br /><br />Offer him a tooth brush and mouthwash, because he sure will need it . . . and maybe a padded room to go along with them. ;-) Sat, 26 Dec 2009 22:40:20 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8562559 Answer to What is success to you? Are you successful in life? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8560890 What is success to you? Are you successful in life?<br /><br />My definition of succes is happiness and I'm happy. Therefore, I am succesful. Fri, 25 Dec 2009 23:46:20 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8560890 Answer to Does the carpet match the drapes? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8560868 Does the carpet match the drapes?<br /><br />I haven't had draperies in years or designed them in a space in years. I would only design a space with draperies if it were a very traditional space or if the draperies were needed to darken the room for sleeping or viewing screens (such as tv's or projection screens) or to keep out the cold.... Fri, 25 Dec 2009 23:38:26 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8560868 Answer to What stores are open on Christmas day? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8560850 What stores are open on Christmas day?<br /><br />CVS was open today, early at that. Fri, 25 Dec 2009 23:29:05 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8560850 Answer to We almost have a foot of snow here in South Jersey. What's the weather like in your neighborhood? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8547154 We almost have a foot of snow here in South Jersey. What's the weather like in your neighborhood?<br /><br />It's going to be 60 here today, San Francisco. I'll admitt I miss the snow, but not the ice that we often got in North Carolina. Enjoy the snow!! Sat, 19 Dec 2009 10:43:18 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8547154 Answer to We almost have a foot of snow here in South Jersey. What's the weather like in your neighborhood? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8547153 We almost have a foot of snow here in South Jersey. What's the weather like in your neighborhood?<br /><br />It's going to be 60 here today, San Francisco. I'll admitt I miss the snow, but not the ice that we often got in North Carolina. Enjoy the snow!! Sat, 19 Dec 2009 10:43:17 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8547153 Answer to Olive Garden or Red Lobster. Which is best? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8547144 Olive Garden or Red Lobster. Which is best?<br /><br />Olive Garden, but can we move those awesome cheese biscuits to Olive Garden, to go along with their wonderful bread- then we would have the best of both worlds. Sat, 19 Dec 2009 10:36:25 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8547144 Answer to what is your favorate food http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8547138 what is your favorate food<br /><br />Bacon! Sat, 19 Dec 2009 10:34:35 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8547138 Answer to Where do designers get their inspiration? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8547132 Where do designers get their inspiration?<br /><br />I'm a very technical designer, aesthetics comes after function . . . unless the aesthetic is the function. For instance, if a company's main objective is to woo young, energetic employees, then they may want a very "techy" look- then the appearance becomes the function. So, to answer your... Sat, 19 Dec 2009 10:31:39 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8547132 Answer to Does anyone know if there is a company in progress of making a completely electricity powered car for the public? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8547120 Does anyone know if there is a company in progress of making a completely electricity powered car for the public?<br /><br />I'm answering this question because I want to follow the answers. I was under the impression that there were electric cars being used in Europe. Maybe the difference is that they aren't "completely" electric. Thanks for asking the question. Sat, 19 Dec 2009 10:23:22 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8547120 Answer to Name some countries you rarely hear about in the news: http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8537019 Name some countries you rarely hear about in the news:<br /><br />Luxembourg. Thu, 17 Dec 2009 21:31:46 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8537019 Answer to Im 13, is it too old to start gymnastics? I also dance, so that might be an advantage http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8537009 Im 13, is it too old to start gymnastics? I also dance, so that might be an advantage<br /><br />You can never be too old to start something you really want to do. Go for it!! Thu, 17 Dec 2009 21:22:35 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8537009 Answer to What are you motivated by? Fear, compassion, self-interest or principle? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8536989 What are you motivated by? Fear, compassion, self-interest or principle?<br /><br />Fear, when it's dark outside and there's a certain stillness in the air . . . I'm motivated to run. Compassion, when I'm walking by that really cool boutique and there's a good sale. . . I'm motivated to help out the store owner and buy something really cool. Self-Interest, when there's... Thu, 17 Dec 2009 21:11:12 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8536989 Answer to If this is the new AnswerBag I'm gone - what about you? What a piece of doo! http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8524795 If this is the new AnswerBag I'm gone - what about you? What a piece of doo!<br /><br />It will get better. Hang in there!! Sun, 13 Dec 2009 19:53:14 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8524795 Answer to Of the ABers that have left or plan on leaving, which one do you/would you miss the most? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8524483 Of the ABers that have left or plan on leaving, which one do you/would you miss the most?<br /><br />I don't think there's just one. It's the community as a whole that will change because of the many losses . . . but maybe they will come back and AB can be once again!!! :-) Sun, 13 Dec 2009 17:50:29 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8524483 Answer to A man in a WalMart store got ticked off with someone's crying child and slapped it. He did not know the mother or child. What would you do if a stranger slapped your child? No vulgarities please. http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8524403 A man in a WalMart store got ticked off with someone's crying child and slapped it. He did not know the mother or child. What would you do if a stranger slapped your child? No vulgarities please.<br /><br />I don't know the situation, but if everything is as simple as it seems, I would probably press charges. Sun, 13 Dec 2009 17:22:49 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8524403 Answer to What were the highlights of 2009? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8524390 What were the highlights of 2009?<br /><br />The changes in AB!! ;-) Nationally: . . . . I'm embarrassed that I can't think of a positive event. Negatively: Tiger's situation will the in the year's highlights. Personally: I lived another wonderful year. Sun, 13 Dec 2009 17:17:44 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8524390