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A man hits his wife and gets arrested for domestic abuse. A woman hits her husband, and no one takes it seriously. Why?
Because women are considered weaker and are not taken seriously. Does this make it not abuse? Hell no. But it's likely that this will continue to happen until both sexes are considered equal (if that ever happens). Nevermind that abuse in general is not taken seriously enough and the victims (no matter the sex) usually get blamed -- just look at how many people stood up for Chris Brown...
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What do you think about this experiment? Why girls who are more sexy can receive something for free easier than those less attractive?
Well, first of all, "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" and all. Second, it's because our culture places enormous importance on women's looks, to the point of firing a woman if she doesn't have enough make up on, regardless of her performance.
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What does a transvestite do at Christmas?
Same thing a non-cross-dressing person does, I imagine. Or a non-trans one, if you're going for the older definition. Either way, I've gotten the impression that both groups consider the term kind of offensive.
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How can you tell if the woman you married is telling the truth to you that she did not sleep with another man?
Either you trust her or you don't. There's not really a definite way of knowing these things.
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Not that it's a requirement to eat turkey for Thanksgiving, but since eating turkey is such a traditional way to celebrate Thanksgiving, do you think vegetarians celebrate it or does it go against their beliefs?Is it hypocritical for them to celebrate it?
All the other vegetarians I know just eat mock-turkey -- personally, I don't eat even that, since I'm not American and therefore don't have to celebrate Thanksgiving. :P
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Today, I sent my ex a txt msg "B, I love you"we had broke up for 2months still keep contact though, I don't know what 's wrong with me,that was the thing come to my mind when i woke up.he replied"really?can't wait to f you in bed one day"what should i do
Don't contact him again and go to a counselor -- if you are even considering going back to him after that he must have given you some issues -- maybe codependency -- assholes tend to have that effect on people, unfortunately.
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Why is it do you think? Women have the flu, but men have a special Man flu, there temp is always higher, there headache's are more painful, there bones ache much more than a womans, do men really get it worse than women OR can women cope with it better?
Lol, special Man flu? Is that like congestion of the balls or something?
How badly someone gets the flu and how they react to it has nothing to do with their genitals, it has to do with their immune system and personality.
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IF your lifelong friend with whom you've slept in the same bed with before, showered at the gym with before , went skinny dipping with , etc. ... after 15 years comes and tells you He / She is Homosexual ; How do YOU react?
Er, why should I care? Not in the sense of "I don't want to know anything about you," more in the sense of, why would it bother me?
I guess I'd shrug and congratulate them on coming out...
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How many different addresses have you had throughout your life? May I ask how old you are currently?
9, and I am 18.
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What age is too young for a child to declare their sexual preference? If your 3 year old boy says he wants to be a girl, would you dress him up in girl's clothes for the rest of his childhood?
That's not sexual preference, that's gender identity. I suppose I would dress him up in girls' clothing when he (or she, if she indeed identifies as a girl) felt like wearing it. It's not like the child is going to be traumatized by having worn a skirt at age 3, and they can always tell me what they want -- and later in their childhood, they can pick out their own clothing.
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Do you have much of a social life outside of your SO?
Not much, due to us living in Nowheresville and all my friends living a bunch of driving in traffic away. :( Also, my inability to find a job. I fucking hate Georgia. I am moving to a city as soon as I can.
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I caught you knocking at my cellar door. I love you baby, can I have some more?
No, I'm afraid your door has caused me to bruise my knuckles.
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Why do men cheat?
Same reasons women cheat.
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Can someone explain to me why it takes a woman over 2 hours to get ready? I can get ready within 30 minutes. What do they do during all that time? She says she wants to look 'beautiful', but I cant tell any difference. i mean, she is beautiful already!!
Despite having a vagina and ovaries, I get ready much faster than you. So am I a man, then?
That aside, women are often judged more harshly on their appearance, which means more maintenance for many -- make up, shaving, etc. -- but aside from that sort of thing, it depends on the person, not the gender as a whole.
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Guys only. Feminists say soldeirs who rape and torture women are living out every mans hidden desires. Do you agree with this statement?
I am just saying -- I am a feminist and I don't think that, nor do any of the feminists I have ever talked to. And you might want to keep in mind that there are male feminists as well... They would probably be very surprised to know that they're supposed to think that badly about themselves. :P
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Ladies: If you were having an all female party at home and a male (maybe me) said he would perform a striptease and masturbate on cam for you, would you be interested in this form of entertainment?
No, I'd rather we all watched a Miyazaki movie or something. Sorry. :P
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Why do some people still feel like white people owe black people for something white peoples ancestors did to black peoples ancestors 200-300 years ago? All American slave owners and slaves are dead. Does anyone else think that, that is racist?
I don't think they think white people "owe" them anything, other than perhaps equal opportunities and a lack of racism. Nevertheless, they don't get much of either, apparently.
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If marriage were a lifetime contract (except in cases of abuse or entrapment etc) and there was no divorce allowed, would you still get married?
Uh, no.
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How would you react if you found out that an ancestor was a witch?
I would be fascinated, and hope for their sake that they didn't live in a very Christian area. :P
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Do you use conditioner when you wash your hair? What kind?
I suppose it could be called that -- I rinse it with apple cider vinegar and water (as odd as it may sound).It makes my hair very silky, and it's inexpensive.
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I have an awesome friend who's vegan.
I occasionally like to have friends over to cook for them.
Where can I find some wonderful Vegan Recipes?
What sort of ingredients should i use a substiutes?
I highly recommend the Post Punk Kitchen website (theppk.com) -- I'm not even vegan, but I've made tons of recipes form there and they were all good. It also has an article on substitutions in baking -- like using bananas, yogurt, or flax instead of eggs, etc.
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If you could one thing to your ex what would you say?
"Hi! Hey, you should read this passage about the history of 'the Little Mermaid'..."
...Seeing as my ex happens to be my best friend, above all.
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Why do men like virgins?
Not all guys do -- it's just an old fetish in our culture that's largely there because of Christianity and misogyny.
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What is the last thing that you ate, that in preparation, needed a measuring cup, at least one measuring spoon, and an electrical appliance to prepare?
Rye cookies. :D
I still have a whole plateful.
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Hi, i have a ten year old step daughter that is a very fussy eater! My partner and i have found some of her dinner hidden around the house in the past and sat her down to explain why she shouldnt do that.We have found it again and she denies it
First of all, as some other answers said, don't pressure her to eat it. If you do, it will most likely just increase her issues with whatever food she is fussy about. Why don't you start teaching her how to cook? She'll get to make what she likes, you'll get to do nice things together, it's useful, and everyone will be happy.
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I've heard several people say they don't celebrate Halloween because it's a pagan holiday, well isn't christmas a pagan holiday as well?
Yup, at least it started as such. Most of the traditions -- Christmas trees, mistletoe, holly, etc. -- are of pagan origins. Santa Claus himself seems to be some combination of a saint (St. Nicholas) and the Celtic god Odin, and the practice of hanging of stockings is associated with the latter.
With the coming of Christianity, priests tried to convert people by merging Christian and pagan...
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My friend says I look disgustingly skinny and I look bulimic, which I'm not, and always says I have small boobs and doesn't see why my boyfriend is with me. He says that he loves my body, but what she says makes me feel like I am disgusting. What do I do?
Dump that friend, she sounds like an asshat. Even if you DID have an eating disorder, no one has the right to criticize your body. All people are nice-looking in their own way, IMO -- whether they are skinny, fat, small-boobed, large-boobed, hairy, hairless, etc. Sounds like she just has some issues that she is taking out on you.
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Can anyone tell me of a REALLY good anime series that is worth buying? I love anime but I want to make sure that I'm getting my money's worth.(all kinds of anime)
Mushi Shi -- about a Mushi master, Mushi being strange organisms, whose interaction with humans doesn't usually end well for the latter, though occasionally they may disagree (like the woman who would grow old every night and become rejuvenated in the morning).
Serial Experiments Lain -- about a girl (Lain) whose alter personality of sorts lives in the internet, and all sorts of...
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Did you honestly care when you heard that Michael Jackson died?
Nope.
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We had a wonderful time in the Lord today at church.No entertainment,just preaching Gods word.How can someone claim to be a christian,yet say their bored,of the old way of church.How can you be bored glorifying God?
Maybe those Christians don't think the Bible is the word of (the Christian) god, or that they're glorifying him by standing or sitting with a bunch of other people in a large building and not doing much else.
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I have a crush on my dentist. we are both women. i dont think im gay and have never had feelings for another women until now. ive had a few appointments this month for major surgery. i cant stop thinking about her. do i tell her? or find another dentist?
Well, if you have a crush on her, I guess you are gay, or bisexual. You don't have to have crushes on women left and right to be it. :P And really, human sexuality is pretty fluid
If she seems interested, you could ask her if she wants to hang out sometime, and let it go from there.
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I've had depression for about a year and half now, maybe longer. Anyway lately it's changed, instead of being down constantly, I feel ok sometimes but then my mood always drops guarenteed and it feels worse and more dramatic. what does that mean?
Maybe your brain chemistry is changing into a different kind of depression? I find that I have at least three different kinds.
You said in the comments that you can't do face-to-face therapy -- how about doing it over the phone? Do you think it's chemical, or situational?
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My friend's daughter tells me she is depressed and her mother won't listen to her about it. She is 11 years old. Can she really be depressed or is she just saying it for attention? (That's what her mother says)
Most kids don't get depressed for attention (and even if that was the case, the attention thing would be an indicator of a problem in itself). Even five year olds get depressed. I fell into a pretty heavy depression when I was 11 and I certainly didn't get help for it.
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When you are depressed whom do share your problems with?
Occasionally I share it with my best friend and sometimes an online friend but mostly I keep it to myself because no one can get my brain to stop messing up and making me depressed.
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Where did all the happiness go?
Down the drain. Or maybe I breathed it out with the cigarette smoke.
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What are you trying so hard to do?
Keep myself together.
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Were you physically abused as a child?
A bit.
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What's bad for you but feels so good?
Smoking.
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On scale of 1---------10 how happy are you today? 10 very happy to 1 not happy at all.
5-6.
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Why are black people so loud? I've noticed they tend to be louder (on average) than other races, why is this?
I, for one, have never noticed this. Perhaps they feel your racism and are trying to shut it out?
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Ladies do you enjoy the male attention, your breasts bring you?
Mmm, sometimes, and it depends on the kind of attention and from whom. For the most part, they're just a body part, like my toes or my nose... not the wonders of the world with me added in as an afterthought.
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Why is most pornography aimed at a male audience?
Because men are less judged for sex-related stuff -- they aren't generally badly judged for having lots of sex, or put on a pedestal for having none. Women are told to be as "pure" as possible. Men have been viewed as "more sexual" for a long time, so when pornography became more popular and mass-produced, men were the target audience -- they still are, for the most...
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What's up with all the "Imagine" worship? John Lennon has written far better, more intelligent songs.
They probably decided to play it on the radio a bit more than the other songs, and that got more requests, and then it went on... I know some thought goes into what song to introduce to people as a "hit".
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Do your nipples have satellites?
How do you think I listen to the Russian radio?
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All the men in my life have always preferred me without makeup. So it occurred to me that maybe women wear it to impress other women. What do you think?
Eh, some might do, and there is certainly tons of pressure on women connected with usage of make. I have no doubt been affected by it, but now I put it on out of habit and because I think it looks good on me. I don't care much whether someone else likes it or not, at this point -- it's more important to me that they're an interesting person (and if they are, that they find me...
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Does it annoy you how people seem to put the US economy and the lives of American soldiers above those of innocent people when talking about Iraq?
Yes. But I'm not surprised.
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Does the thought of an eccentic, accented man yellings "BABOONS!" make you laugh, as does I?
Yes, you both amuse me. :P
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Does masturbation affect a girl's sexual purity?
Purity is a social construct. Her genitals aren't a product to be evaluated and checked for "impurities". Also, masturbation is good for everyone and their sexual and mental health.
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If a girl constantly flirts with you, when she knows you are in a committed relationship, how do you get her to stop?
Tell her you are in a relationship and that you aren't comfortable flirting while in one.
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Have you ever suffered the wrath of a ginger woman?
No, but many people around me have, ever since I've dyed my hair.
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Do you eat vegetables every day?
Not every day, but nearly. Sometimes I'm lazy and it's just too cold to stand around in the kitchen (also, our kitchen is depressing).
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Ive been a loner through out my childhood and was picked on by everyone. Do you think It could be the same for the rest of my life? People seem the same to me.
Not necessarily. I mean, you may remain antisocial, if it's in your nature -- you may even enjoy it, and there are definitely people in the world who are nice and interesting and non-asshole-ish.
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Do women fart?
No, darling, we emit perfumed rainbows. Also, we poop butterflies. Didn't ya know?
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Do guys find dread locks on a girl attractive?
Well, not all guys like the same thing, first of all. Second, I don't know what I would feel like as a guy, but as a bi woman, yes, I find dreadlocks attractive.
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Would you choose prison or home imprisonment with your partner?
I'm already pretty much in home imprisonment with him, because I don't have a job or a car... Not that I mind his company, but I AM getting cabin fever pretty badly. Stupid economy, stupid lack of money.
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What do girls look for in a man?
Not all women want the same thing, just as all men don't.
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Do you remember what you got for your birthdays while you were a kid?
Um... I think I got a very ugly dress one time. And another time, I got a jump rope. My favourite things were always books, though.
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*Wipe. Wipe. Wipe.* I don't want to use up this whole role! Will the poo ever stop?
No, your ass-pores will forever leak it.
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Is stalking a female always wrong?
Stalking ANYONE is wrong and the fact that you are even asking this question shows that you need some help. Get it.
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Are you more comfortable with males or females in your personal space?
Probably females, I haven't had bad experiences with other girls being in my personal space. Yet, anyway.
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Would you rather cook everything you eat from scratch or buy it frozen?
I'd rather cook it from scratch. The only things I buy frozen are ice cream, peas, and out-of-season berries. Usually not frozen meals, though I guess they have their place when I feel lazy and depressed.
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What is your special homemade mac and cheese recipe?
Make pasta. Put in a little butter and spices. Grate in a hard and salty cheese. Consume.
Delicious AND simple.
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Was the last thing you baked in the oven a dessert? (cookies, cake)
Almond cookies.
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Have you really messed up on a recipe? What happened?
Yes, bread. I broke a plate trying to get it out of the bread pan.
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What is the healthiest salad dressing?
They're all healthy, so long as no one sprinkled in a pinch of salmonella for seasoning.
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Favorite spices for an egg
Rosemary. It tastes delicious, especially if you add in garlic when you're frying them.
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What are a few basic meals i could teach my fiance how to cook? he is clueless when it comes to cooking.
Oatmeal, scrambled eggs, pasta (since all you have to do is throw it into boiling water), stir-fry, mashed potatoes, roasted vegetables. Good luck with teaching him. :P
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Do you keep your salad dressing in the regrigerator?
No. I make it on the spot -- you know, pour some olive oil on, then whatever kind of vinegar I want...
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Is it wrong to pour champagne from your bottom on a first date?
It's not wrong, but wine is definitely more romantic. It's a plus if you can fart roses, as well.
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What do you like to bake when you are in a good mood?
Cookies (shortbread) or muffins.
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Before refrigeration, how did people keep yeast around for baking, and where did they get more?
Cellars; stores or markets.
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What is the difference between shortbread and shortcake?
Shortbread is a very buttery cookie made from flour, butter, and sugar, and shortcake is a spongy cake with more varied ingredients that are in very different proportions.
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When cooking in an oven, Do you cook by smell or do you use a timer?
Timer, as well as the look of the food and the knife test (you know, you poke one in and if it comes out dry, it's done...)
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How can you know if a relationship is unhealthy, like an addiction? I mean isn't it a good thing if the person that you are with makes you happy?
Of course it is. But if it feels like an addiction, it does sound like a problem, because in my experience relationships are nicer when you are in them because you WANT the other person rather than NEED them.
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I want another baby but my husband does not ... he got a vasectomy about 8 months ago. he has 3 kids alrady who live with us and i am a stay at home mom... but i dont know if i can be with him b/c i really want another childd.i feel incomplete. help?
Maybe it's not my place to say this, so I'm sorry if I offend you, but shouldn't the reason for wanting another kid be something other than "I feel incomplete"? Children aren't supposed to complete you, they are separate human beings... though maybe I misunderstood what you meant.
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My friend and roommate died about six months ago. I still have days where I feel like I'm not going to make it because I miss him so much. Is this normal?
I would say so.
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Do you feel that if a man and woman live together before marriage that you can tell how they will be when married?
Or a woman and woman, or man and man... But yeah, it will save them from the unnecessary pain of marrying each other and then finding out that they can't deal with being in the same house.
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Girls/Guys: Is it cheating if you have a GF or are in a relationship.And you have one of your ex's or girls-friends come to u one night when they're sad or depressed, and you comfort them and they spend the night,WITHOUT sex. I dont think its cheating.
Uh, no. It's called being friends. I'm surprised by the amount of people who consider this "inappropriate". My best friend of -- what, 8 years? -- happens to be an ex of mine, but there is nothing inappropriate about either one of us spending a night at the other's house, or comforting each other, or hanging out with each other in general. If I am in a monogamous...
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Ladies: How does it make you feel about hearing a man hitting a woman? And then, how would it make you fell if a woman hits a man? Please give an explanation why, not just yes or no.
Frustrated on both accounts. Unless it was in self defense, it is abusive behaviour.
Women get told from when they are little that they are weaker than men and that they don't have as much power as them (not just physically), so sometimes they get the message that if they hit someone else, it's funny or pathetic or doesn't carry any weight. The fact is, whether the man or woman...
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What comes to mind when i say Italian Cuisine
Gnocchi.
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Considering that America is the most powerful country in the world in a number of different ways, if you had the opportunity, what new subject would you put in American classrooms that you think would benefit the rest of the world in the long run?
"What it is like to live in a country other than U.S.", complete with month long trips to other countries. Unfortunately, that's not likely to happen. But it might stop many Americans from being stuck up.
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White Christian males how are you dealing with discrimination under Obama's New America?
Oh noes! You poor babies! Are you afraid that a black guy or a woman might get chosen over you for a job, based on nothing but being better qualified than you? Or, perhaps, that more people of a different ethnicity, religion, and gender will get into the government?
I suggest you read this:...
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What does cocaine smell like?
Sweat and lost souls.
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A friend of mine has a question and wants an answer. His wife has requested to hang out with "guy" friends she knew before they got married. She says they will only hang out in public places and nothing will happen. Is this appropriate behavior?
NO! Keep her under lock and key! Shadow her every move! If he lets her out of his sight, she might trick him and TALK TO SOMEBODY! IT'S FOR HER OWN GOOD, I SAY!
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My girlfriend frequently makes comments about how good looking other guys are, whether it be on TV or in public, when I am present. I find myself feeling deeply insecure. I am not a possessive person, but I really dont like this. Is this normal?
Tell her nicely that it makes you uncomfortable; communication in relationships does tons more than being silent as a marble statue.
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I hate when people say he had his way with her after a one night stand. She had her way with him too!! Maybe that's all she wanted. Sexist?
It's a crappy expression. If it was a one night stand and not a rape, it was consensual, so no one had "their way" with anyone, they had consensual sex. Then again, the people who say that probably think all sex outside of a marriage is evil and women who have it are sluts. Bleh.
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If the book of instructions on figuring out men or women was 1000 pages would you read it?
I don't need a book to figure out another gender, I can just talk to them -- they're not aliens.
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I have a friend who's washing machine is broken. Can she use her dishwasher to wash clothes? I told her it should work.
I think she'd be better off doing them by hand.
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Reaction time is a factor in this, so please pay attention. Now, answer as quickly as you can. It’s your birthday. Someone gives you a calfskin wallet. How do you react?
Say thank you to not hurt their feelings and then never use it.
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Can you name a song with "Georgia" in the title?
Georgia Georgia by Eliott Smith.
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If this sudanese woman gets her 40 lashes would you watch?
Hell no. I don't wish to watch anyone suffer, and I doubt she wants anyone people to watch her suffering... so I'm not contributing.
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Im a white female and im dating a black man. I've been called some pretty nasty names,How do i deal with that?
Treat them the same way you would treat an annoying little kid -- ignore them or respond with an occasional witty and haughty remark. That's how I deal with bigoted assholes, usually.
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Is there anything that was once considered supernatural that is now considered scientifically factual?
Periods, probably.
And storms.
And airplanes.
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Is it true that " 'nice' guys never get laid?"
No. It doesn't depend on how nice the guy is, it depends on whether there is someone around who likes them or find them sexy and whether they guy responds in the same way.
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Would you always support your teenage minor child,even if you think they're wrong? Another adult makes them cry,but you don't think the adult was being mean,and you felt that your child was wrong in the situation,and you just tell them to get over it.
You mean in an argument? I would support them if I agreed. If someone made them cry, and I thought they weren't being mean, I would probably them (the child) to explain to me what they found hurtful, and go off of that.
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Honestly whats wrong with me and why do i act this way. I always feel like im below others that every thing that goes wrong is my fault, i blame myself for my grandpas death, i am bulimic and i always turn to ways to harm myself i wanna stop but i cant...
Well, first of all, it's not your fault that you are the way you are. Most people who have these sorts of problems have had bad things happen to them and/or live in an unhealthy environment, and never had the chance to figure out healthy ways to deal with stress. If you do live in a bad environment, think of ways to get out of there. If possible, find a therapist. If not, there are forums...
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Should I feel bad for slapping my ex-boyfriend (when we were together) in the face when he would constantly say mean things about my family and verbally abuse me and in arguments calling me really bad names?
It wasn't a good thing to do -- the only good reason for hitting someone, to me, is in self defense. I understand why you did it -- I've slapped someone once before and I am not proud of it, at all -- but I suggest you look into ways of controlling anger, rather than feeling bad about it. Maybe look into some therapy -- it would help you both to deal with the after effects of an...
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Some people think I am sexist because I have said that I would never go out with a woman who doesn't act feminine. It is not that I don't respect women and girls who compete with men, I am just not attracted to them. Is that sexist?
My guess is they consider you sexist because you seem to equate femininity with not "competing" with men. If that is so, and you do not want to date women that have jobs, are strong in any way, or just speak their minds, then yeah, I would consider that sexist. If you just are attracted to women that are (what is popularly considered to be) feminine (high heels, dresses, etc.) --...
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My hair is really straight with no volume. How can I make it more voluminous and not so droopy?
Eat a balanced diet, use good shampoo. And by "good shampoo" I mean one that doesn't have a assload of weird ingredients.
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So,since some people need to hurt you to make themselves feel better,Phycologically speaking,What is this Mental Condition called?*
"Assholery".
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Would you send a dish back if it did not taste good or you received the wrong food?
If it didn't taste good, no -- it seems asshole-ish to me. If it was the wrong dish, then probably. Unless it looked better than what I ordered.
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Whats an s/o?
Significant other -- like a girlfriend, boyfriend, or spouse.
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Im already pretty skinny, but i want to be SUPER skinny, and lose weight fast, i dont have all the time in the world to work out, and i have been skipping meals...what should i do to lose those extra 5 pounds..
Darling, fat is there for a reason -- to keep you alive. Learn to like your body the way it is, bit by bit. If something in your life is stressing you out or is out of your control, find a way to get out of the situation or get counseling. Anorexia is not good for you, even when you are denying it.
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What exactly does it mean to have a "Rich Cultural Heritage"?
A lot of very old and depressed relatives.
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Why dont nurses/midwives tell you how breast feeding feels. it felt so good I was afraid I was a pervert and no one talks about it.
Honestly, though I've never been pregnant or a mother, from what I hear there's not a lot of support or information given to new mothers. Judging from this, and the rates of undiagnosed PPD and PPP, it seems the doctors and nurses only concern themselves with the physical aspects -- "is the baby out? is it ok? Ok, well, get out now." Dunno if that's true for midwives or...
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Someone just labeled me a fanatical Christian! I think that is a good thing. What you do you think? Would you like to be known as a fanatical Christian?
Good god no. The fact that you think this is a good thing is in fact a sign that whoever called you that is probably right. And that is a bad thing.
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Do you ever hear the phone ring inside your head after it's been picked up?
Among other things.
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Do you have a Little Red Riding Hood fetish?
I do not maintain an attraction to pieces of clothing, no matter how little, how animate, or how brightly coloured they may be.
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Would you believe me if I told you I'm wearing pants?
No, you have a very pantsless reputation. Also, you burned them. Apparently.
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If someone was being abused and sexually assaulted in the hallway of your apartment building, would you call for help or just go back into your unit?
I wouldn't only call for help, I would do everything in my power to stop the assault. I have been sexually abused myself, and I would be outraged to see it happening to someone else.
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If you were raped or sexually abused as a child and have been disgusted by sex as an adult, please share the techniques and methods to get past the hurt to have satisfying sex in a loving relationship?
Well, first of all it helps if you have some sort of a safe word to signal that you want your partner to stop. Figure out what exactly about it triggers you-- for an example, if you are triggered because it seems impersonal, do something with your partner that would make you feel more loved and like it's not just something happening to your body -- kissing, eye contact, whatever. Or if...
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You hardly ever hear of a female sexual child abuser. What is it with men that they are always the perps? Is it the male sex drive gone wrong?
I hear of plenty, particularly mothers, but people always think that mothers can't do this sort of thing... it's not about the sex drive of a particular gender, it is about control issues and disregard for someone else's wellbeing.
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How can I forgive someone who sexually abused me when all I feel is hatred and rage?
Don't focus on forgiving, focus on yourself and on healing. Part of healing is going to be anger, that's completely normal. If you forgive them at some point, that's all fine and dandy, but it's certainly not a requirement and putting pressure on yourself to do it is apt to just make you feel upset or more angry.
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Sexual abuse when you are a child...why do people not remember until later in life?
Most people block it out... also, if you are abused by someone in the family, it's likely they will be around until you are grown up and can move away. Once you move away from the source of abuse in your life, your mind feels safe enough to actually process it. I realized have PTSD when I lived with my parents, but it got much more pronounced when I moved out.
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In the US, society looks down on swingers, treats them as sexual deviants, perverts, but most non-swingers cheat and society treats cheating as no big deal. At least swingers are honest and open. What do you think?
"Swinging" is completely different from cheating... in my experience, most people consider cheating bad, and they also seem to think "swinging" is the same as cheating. I think people are just uneducated on relationship stuff... meh.
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THEY say that the average woman in America is a size 14/16. Is the average women you know a 14/16, smaller or larger?
Um... the average woman I know is probably from 120 to 140 pounds, not sure what size that is. I have to say, though, sizing is not all that consistent, at least not in the US.
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I say "melt", you say ___________________________.
"--my lover, melt, she said; melt, my lover, meeelt!" :D
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What's the name of the last book you read?
The one I finished was "The Seven Underground Kings," and the one I am reading currently is "Tutta Karlsson, the first and only, Ludvig the 14th, and others". It is a Swedish children's book...
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If you could recommend 5 must read books, what would they be?
That's pretty hard...
1. 1984
2. The Mists of Avalon
3. Ronja the Robber's Daughter
4. The Chocolate War
5. Jessie and Morgiana (unfortunately the likes of anyone on here getting to read it is pretty slim, considering it is in Russian, not well known, and I have never seen it in any online stores)
So, if you would rather me put something that you COULD read, Master and Margarita.
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Do you think its wrong to spank your child?
No. There are other ways to get your children to listen to you an behave that don't involve physical punishment (however painless you say it is). Just like I would not hit a friend that I am angry with if they do something stupid or just don't listen to me, I wouldn't hit a child. It's a lazy way to deal with a problem, and making someone ashamed is never a good way of...
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Are a couple hard boiled eggs and a slice of wholewheat toast a good breakfast? Why/why not?
Seems good, put a bit of butter of the bread and have the sandwich with soup... though that's more of a lunch thing, I guess.
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I've recently heard that wearing push-up bras can cause long term damage to your breasts. Is there any truth in this?
Probably.
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Why do alot of people ignorantly assume that only straight couples can "properly" have sex? The anus can provide sexual pleasure for two men, and the vulva is great for tribbing. Don't you think?
Certainly! Sexual pleasure is sexual pleasure, it doesn't matter whether you achieve it through the prostate, the clitoris, etc. -- there is no one "right" way to have sex.
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8-year old girl raped by 4 boys between ages 9-14. Girl is shunned by family and told it's her fault!How should the U.S. deal with immigrants that come to our country and have such a different belief system that they would think their daughter's at fault?
Um, why the hell do you blame this on the immigrants? Have you ever actually met any rape victims? Most of the time when someone gets molested or raped and they tell their parents, or ANYONE, they aren't believed; often they are shunned. I have known many many US citizens to whom this happened. Methinks you are just trying to justify your dislike of immigrants as a whole.
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Girls....Does Anyone else get Post-PMS....I feel like i get all the symtoms of pms right after my period! weird. Anyone no anything about this?
Yeah, it happens sometimes -- your hormones can be PMSy at any time during your period, it's just that it's more likely to happen before it. That happened to me a little while ago, it was pretty irritating, but it went back to normal the next month.
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Can a women live in a house without a mirror?
Uh, yeah. No one's vagina is going to whither if they don't get the chance to look at themselves.
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How many books do read in a year and how many do you think you have read in your life?
Ummm, well, I think I read approximately 12 books in the last week or two, so that's about 24 a month, and 288 a year... but how much I read depends on what books I have around and how interesting they are, so it varies.
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Have you ever found a live snake in your house
Yeah... I failed miserably at catching it, because it was very adept at throwing itself away from me and the broom, and now it's somewhere in my house... I hope it'll be alright. :(
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You have to choose one as a pet -- rat, snake or hedgehog -- which one would you choose? Are you male or female?
Hmm... well, hedgehogs are really cute -- we used to feed a family of them back in Russia -- but they are illegal to keep here... rats are cute as well as smart, so maybe that. As far as snakes, I would like one... but unfortunately, the closest I have to a pet snake is a wild rat snake that is somewhere in my house, hiding.
I'm female.
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Does anyone else find strippers disgusting and disrespectful to themselves?
I don't... and I would probably not be particularly friendly with anyone who did think this way, because I would consider them an asshole with issues.
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Who has read Fahrenheit 451, and what is it about?
Books and censorship.
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Do you think a bully would feel pleased or bad with themselves if someone they hassled commited suicide/randomly died? When I was bullied, the ppl were always so vicious that I wouldn't have been surprised if they had threw a party during my funeral!
Maybe some types of bullies would care, the ones in books that in the end just turn out to need love and help and so on... but not the real ones I've met in life. I remember someone was talking about a girl dying, on the school bus... and they all just laughed at her death.
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They think they have stopped bullying. Do you still have bullying at your school?
They are idiots, they can't see the bullying going on when it's under their noses.
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What do you associate Peru with?
My mom, she goes down there occasionally.
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What have you learned today? and how did you learn it?
I learned a lot about the Blockade in Leningrad, the cannibalism and the massive death rate in that time, that girl that left a nine page diary recording the deaths of all her family members during it, the Purge during Stalin's dictatorship, and the following leaderships and their effects. It was mostly through Wikipedia. Now I feel slightly depressed...
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Is there such a thing as a homosexual relationship wherein both partners share the same gender role (e.g., both males are masculine or both males are feminine)? If so, how is the dominant partner decided?
Just because you are in a homosexual relationship doesn't mean people play at "feminine"/"masculine" roles. And neither one has to be dominant.
I'm bisexual. When I went out with my best friend, we both remained girls. Neither of us grew an imaginary penis. We just acted like ourselves. But even now, in a heterosexual relationship, it is an equal relationship, and...
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Is a 16 years old girl too young to have a boyfriend in your personal opinion?
No.
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I say Cold Stone you say____?
Creamery.
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What appliance would you most like in your kitchen?
A stove top with four working spiral things... Or a bigger window, so I could see.
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Okay, I am going for a pregnancy test tomorrow because my period is three days late. I was on the pill and everything. I have no idea what to do. My boyfriend says he will help me through it. Any advice?
It's not my place to give you advice on what to do about it, but if you are pregnant, do consider your financial situation and what you would be able to handle, and don't do anything because of guilt or outside pressure. However, it is very possible that it is late for other reasons -- stress, late ovulation, hormones messing around, etc. I would try not to get to stressed about it...
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What do you need more right now? A Cozy Bed, A Hot Date, An Airconditioner or A Prepared Dinner?
A prepared dinner. I am too lazy to heat up things right now. ><
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What do you always run out of, in your kitchen?
Brie. :(
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Do you think it okay for a 16 years old girl to go just go to high school and then come home and never go out with friends after school?
Yeah... being a teenager doesn't suddenly make you a different person, forcing her to go out and "socialize" when she doesn't feel like it would just make her feel annoyed and more antisocial.
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Can you use black cohosh to help with your symptoms for your period?
I've heard of it being done before, but in my experience, it just made my uterus feel... shaky. For lack of a better word. To be fair, in the old times they did use it during childbirth, probably for that very reason.
I suppose, though, that the effects would differ from person to person.
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PETA has asked Pet Shop Boys to change their name to something more animal friendly. What do you think?
PETA is known for being a stupid organization. I hate that some people associate them with vegans and vegetarians, considering no vegan or vegetarian I have ever met actually liked PETA, due to their stupidity, misogyny, etc.
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How do you feel about a law banning the smacking of children? This is likely to become law in New Zealand, despite there being a majority of the public against the bill.
I feel, or rather, think, "Hooray!"
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How important is it for parents to foster an environment wherein children can speak openly to their parents?
Very.
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Why are attractive women so evil? They're prone to making false accusations and gold digging.
Yeah, we all know that your positive opinion of someone's boobs automatically makes them a bitch. Duh! Maybe the problem is you.
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Do you think being gay is a sin?? I think so because i think it's psychological more than physical problem..so no one is born gay..and he can be cured just like other disease??what do you think?
Good god, go live in a monastery if you think like that, and don't influence the current status of gay right lest people like you cause them to disappear completely.
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Why do people often refer to overweight people as being, "fat and ugly" and refuse to realize that a lot of overweight people are pretty; but you never hear anyone saying someone is, "fat and pretty"?
Well, I was going to answer this by talking about assumptions that people have, but after reading some of the answers, I'm just going to answer with "people are ignorant assholes". Not all of them, obviously, but I'm sure you get my gist...
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If your significant other were a vegetarian, would you follow the same diet? What if your significant other were a vegan?
I am already vegetarian. I am not vegan, and I don't know if I would be able to become one permanently, but if I did, it would be my decision. However, I will support them in their food choices, and as I do like plenty of vegan food (Post-Punk Kitchen was my introduction into cooking things other than breakfast foods), I'd have no difficulty cooking for us both and sharing most food.
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Have you ever felt that diets are necessary, or that people are fine the way they are?
If by diet you mean all those weight loss plans... no, I've never really liked them. If a person eats well and exercises regularly, but is still overweight by social standards, well, maybe it's time for people -- the overweight person included -- to come to terms with it and like them for the way they are. Though I wish people did that at any weight, really...
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How are points calculated for children (she's 12) following the Weight Watcher's plan?
12 is much too young to be going on diets, her body is still growing and changing.
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People that try to eat healthy: If you mess up in the morning and eat pizza for breakfast or something like that, do you just call the day a bust and quit trying until tomorrow?
No... I am trying to eat healthy, not become bulimic (again). Eating bread, tomato stuff, and cheese isn't going to kill me; all of those things contain important vitamins and nutrients. As long as I don't eat pizza every meal, every day (and I would get sick of it fairly quickly, anyways -- at least my body would), I should be ok.
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President Obama has nominated Regina Benjamin for Surgeon General. She is clearly overweight herself. In a nation plagued with obesity, should health officials have to be healthy and trim?
"Surgeon General" sounds like it has to do with surgeries, not nutrition. Not only that, but being overweight doesn't signify an unhealthy lifestyle -- plenty of skinny people are unhealthy, and plenty of chubby or fat people eat well and exercise regularly.
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On a scale of 1-10, how emotional are you?? (1 being completely non-emotional. 10 being super emotional.)
7, I guess.
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Hitler-evil or genius? Good or bad? We are not talking about what he did in the Holocaust. We are talking about him as a person. Why?
Actions are not separate from the people that make them happen. What he did was part of who he was. Whatever he did before the Holocaust, the very fact that it happened makes him a pretty horrible person, in my eyes.
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Volkswagen or Ferrari?
Illuminati is right, vw owns bugatti, and that is the top of the top car, WAY better than ferraris
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What's the Unhealthiest thing you've eaten today...?
Probably either the coconut ice cream with a bit of fudge or the cinnamon role... but honestly, I don't think anything (with an exception of creepy processed foods which I avoid both because they are gross and on principle) is unhealthy, when eaten in moderation.
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My friend took vicodin with allot of cough syrup is she going to be ok or should do something?
Best to take her to the hospital, and I think it's also important to try and keep her awake and get her to drink lots of water until then or if it's impossible. Seems to be a good rule to follow for any overdoses and the such. If they sell activated charcoal tablets around where you live and you can't get to the hospital, maybe you could give her some of those -- they absorb...
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What would you say or think if your boyfriend told you he got a lap dance at a strip club on his birthday? Would you be mad?
I would be annoyed. I don't think I'm particularly jealous, possibly less so than him considering I've had an open relationship that pretty much taught me that as long as you an your partner have a good connection, jealousy is pointless (it is that way to me, anyway -- I know not all people are cut out for open relationships or have good experiences with them), but I think strip...
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Those of you outside Australia ... Do you hear much news relating to street violence on our city streets? (in particular > Melbourne)
Only if my online Australian friend mentions it... which he hasn't. Possibly because he lives in Perth. Maybe there is less violence there...?
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Am I the ONLY person who can't STAND Carrie from "Sex and the City"? She takes everyone for granted, and all she does is gripe about men while the rest of her friends actually have real problems.
I can't stand Sex and the City, period.
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My mum bought a house in France and to our amazement some of the walls were carpeted...what odd things have you come across when viewing or buying a houses?
Odd window placements... instead of, you know, being in the middle of each wall, they would be sort of squished together in a corner, or be very small and sit at opposite corners with a huge stretch of wall in between. A huge grate covering most of the floor in a hallway (that's in our current rental house)... a tiled living room... a living room made entirely of wood -- floor, walls,...
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Is it true that a serious relationship would ruin a good friendship? :(
Not in my experience... I went out with my best friend for two years, then we had a mutual break up, and now we're back to being best friends.
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You are going on a picnic: What is in your picnic basket? Don't forget dessert!!
A salad (with bell peppers, onions, balsamic vinegar, feta cheese and the such), a portabello mushroom and pesto sandwich, some brie (what can I say, I like cheese), some nectarines, these chocolate cake things, the name of which I do not know but have made before, or maybe some earl gray cupcakes, and either root beer or lemon water. If only I had the money...
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Im 17 & i had a one night stand with this guy. were the same age. i knew him for 3 hours, then we had sex at his house. he almost got me pregnant. i call him & he ignores me. he was sending me nasty emails. we havent spoke for a year. why did he leave me
Because he is an ass. Not because he had a one night stand, but because of the nasty e-mails and the refusal to communicate.
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What is your idea of a real man?
Someone with the gender identity of a man...
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Do you really wanna know about some gangsta shit?
I ain't talking gangsters
And that east coast-west coast shit
No one calls me homeboy
I'm the Clerkenwell kid.
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Do Australians have a higher TMI tolerance?
Maybe higher than Americans, but not higher than Russians.
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Why do so many math-oriented people have trouble dealing with people?
I don't know about that. My boyfriend's brother is at the top of his class in math and generally loves it, and he is also one of the "class clowns" (or was, before he graduated)
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Let's say you see a gay couple in public, and someone is either giving them dirty looks, or giving them a hard time i.e. calling them names, or acting gay themselves to taunt them. What do you do?
Tell them to fuck off.
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Do you have PRIDE?
Yup!
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What do you tell a young girl who thinks she may be a lesbian?
"That's great! When did you come to realize it?" and so on.
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I see than an Indian court today ruled that gay sex was legal in a groundbreaking decision overturning laws dating back to the British colonial era. Is this about time?
Oh yes! I'm very glad for all the Lesbian/Gay/Bi Indian folk.
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Here's a trick question, how does a bi be monogamous and still remain bi?
Bisexuality is not a state the state of a relationship, it's sexual orientation. I can be attracted to both men and women but only choose to go out with one person, whether they are of the same sex or of the opposite sex. That's like asking, "Why would someone gay or heterosexual want a non-monogamous relationship? They are only attracted to one sex!"
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Can drugs(antidepressants, weed, alcohol etc..) ever be good substitutes for therapy, dealing with problems?
Antidepressants, as someone has said, are not drugs, they are medication. If your depression is situational, then therapy will probably help the best, though you may need something else occasionally, but if your depression is due to a chemical imbalance, antidepressants may be the best thing. Then there are mental disorders that cannot be cured with therapy... schizophrenia, for an example....
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Why are able bodied folk so afraid of dating a physically disabled person.
I don't think I am... I've never been in the situation where I had the chance to, but I should hope it wouldn't make much difference than if they were able bodied.
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Do you believe that the poor are only in the situation they are in because they are lazy?
It's one of the stupidest beliefs I have ever encountered.
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My younger (8 year-old) brother is really getting into Spore, he's made a prodigous amount of different creatures and buildings. I think it's great - it has an incredibly effective way of stimulating creativity. What do you think?
I think you are PERVERTING him, Dylan! Take it away, quick! He might start believing in evolution and science and stuff!
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What is your worst movie of recent years? - Just to get you started, my top two are 2. Meet the Spartans and 1. Planet of the Apes (Mark Wahlberg)
Any Apatow movies, from what I've seen... then there was some stupid survival/comedy/"thriller" movie where some black guy turns out to be secretly white, it was very bad as well... there are probably some worse ones, but I haven't been keeping up, I would get too depressed.
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How is your mood today? NO sun, Partly Sunny, Mostly Sunny, FULL Sun!!!
Rainy and thunderstormy with the occasional break.
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Push up bras yay or nay?
I don't like them much, they are uncomfortable and often feel like they are made of cardboard or something. But it's hard to find any pretty non-push up bras... bleh.
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Alright i have so many questions on this relationship advice section but okay my gf is bisexual and she says that i am attractive but not in a i wanna **** u way should i be feeling like insulted or something like that or depressed?
I can't tell you how to feel...
Maybe she meant that she doesn't want to hump you every time she sees you? Whatever she meant, what does her being bisexual have to do with it?
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Are you a "good" person because you believe in the concept of a god? Are you assured of a favorable eternal state because you believe that a god exists?
I do not believe in a god, but I try to be a good person and I think I succeed, for the most part. My father is extremely religious, but he is also an abusive psycho. It depends on the individual, not on their religious beliefs or lack of.
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Is your biological father a part of your life? Why or why not? If not, how long?
No. He was abusive for the short time he was (until I was four, and then for a month or two when I was in 4th grade). Then he disappeared. When I contacted him recently, he basically told me he doesn't want to be my father. I do not want him to be part of my life any longer, and I sort of wish he had died when I was little or something -- at least then I could maintain the illusion that he...
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My father raped me when i was 18 he started touching me when i was 15 i nobody ever told me about sex so i he made me believe it was okay for him to do so, i let him. Now i rarely speak to him, i dont have friends, dont want to file charges, what to do?
I'm so sorry. :( Make sure he has no way of getting near you... if you can, find a therapist specializing in rape and family abuse and the such.
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How can I help my 20 year old daughter to forgive her father who with good intentions always got her toys from the thrift shop instead of new when she was little? Now she feels worthless because she didn't get new things.
Um... tons of awesome things can be found in thrift stores, make her go to a good one and maybe she will realize that. God grief.
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How do people walk away from their children, and never see them again?
Poverty and/or shame in some cases, selfishness and cowardice in others... my father hasn't talked to me for years, ever since I was little. Recently I found his e-mail again and sent him a message. He replied back with various insults and proceeded to tell me that I was part of what pushed him to leave and that I hurt him and that "the father you knew died long ago".
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Does anyone here have resentment against their father?
I do. I resent him for abusing my mother, I resent him for abusing and neglecting me. I resent him for never caring about me. I resent him for being selfish. I resent him for valuing religion over his own daughter. I resent him for the things he said to me when I finally contacted me, and I resent him for not taking responsibility for his actions. I resent him for passing any of his genetics on...
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Does anyone else have a tiresome relationship with their father, as an adult?
I have no relationship with my father.
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Which one do you like better? Jeff Daniels (actor) or Jack Daniels (whiskey)
Jack Daniels, please.
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What would you do if most of the women you work with try to make you feel bad, because you're much more self assured, pretty and get a lot of compliments from men(colleagues)?
Check if I am acting snobby.
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Is it wrong to force others to be vegeterian?
Yes, it's wrong to force people to do anything they don't want to do...
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My uncle told me that I am not yet fat but that if I don`t watch it my arms will soon be as big as his thighs. I told him he was tactless and he said ``don`t be rude``. ME?? Wouldn`t his comment break the rude scale?
Yes. But he sounds like an asshole, and assholes tend to be hypocrites.
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Do you use a thimble while sowing?
Er, sewing? No, I find them annoying. :P
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Have you made an article of clothing that you can wear?
Yes, a skirt, a shirt, and a dress. I have also altered some clothes.
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Would it be better to have a window in front of your sewing machine so that the window is at your back or would the light be better to sew with if you were facing the window?
If the light is behind you, you will be blocking it partially...
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Where did you learn how to sew?
I was taught some basics in first and second grade, and then taught myself the rest from the internet a couple of years ago.
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What's on your sewing project to do/ wish list?
Well, I have been needing to finish a jumper skirt thing for a while (all I have left is some button loops and the straps) and I really want to make a sky blue pencil skirt with embroidered flowers all over it next.
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Have you ever started to knit something but haven't finished?
Not knit, but crochet... I have several randomly-shaped and unfinished bits of crochet work lying around. I think I have only finished one thing so far. ><
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An individual has just been diagnosed with type 1 diabetes. He makes the comment "I guess I will have to give up eating desserts." Is this a true statement? Provide an explanation to support your answer.
No, nor does he have to use Splenda -- s/he can use sugar as long as he watches over what he eats. When people think of blood sugar, they think of table sugar, but actually blood sugar is affected by carbohydrates in general, so something like potatoes could have the same effect as sugar.
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What is the first thing that comes to mind when you see a fat guy wearing a T-shirt that says "No Fat Chicks"
Douchebag.
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I need help asap. at home my life is hell i get yelled 95% of the time and im depressed 100% of the time unless im with my boyfriend.and i know he loves me he even asked me if i was ready to move in with him. but i know hes getting tired of all the drama.
I'm assuming you live with your parents, then? Well, I wouldn't be quick to assume he's getting tired of you -- he may have difficulty dealing with the fact that your home life is bad, since it's making you unhappy, and he probably feels frustrated because he can't make your life better, but it doesn't mean he'll leave you.
Once you move out, it gets a lot...
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Don't you think I'm so sexy? I'm just so fresh, so clean.
You are only clean because you drowned yourself and you have been floating in the water for the past couple of days. Sorry, I'm not into necrophilia...
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I'm 15. I'm shy, not allowed to wear makeup, have never been kissed, and I have the smallest boobs ever...any words of advice?
Erm, just keep doing whatever it is you enjoy doing with your life. Amazingly enough, there are women out there who have small boobs and are happy anyway. :P
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Have you ever been told that you were fat?
Oh yes, plenty of times, unfortunately. Most of my family -- except for my mom -- consistently either implied or said outright that I am fat -- my grandmother was particularly creative in doing it, comparing me to a horse, a pig, a cow, etc. This was when I was 11 or so, and I was chubby, but my grandmother's comments (I didn't even recognize you when you got out of that plane, you...
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I bought my boyfriend a butt plug and I want him to wear it for me when we go shopping at the mall. He said that no girl would ever ask her boyfriend to wear a butt plug so I decided to ask you girls on here, do you think he should wear it for me?
Only if he enjoys it.
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What do you think of mothers who put their young daughters in beauty pageants?
They are obviously blind to what sort of things children enjoy and don't enjoy. Poor kids.
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Did you know that the average human mouth is dirtier than a toilet seat (in terms of bacteria)?
Well, people do clean them with liquids strong enough to actually eat away at the pipes, so I'm not surprised. I'd imagine most of the bacteria in your mouth is not produced by fecal matter, though (unless you literally talk shit).
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Do or did you ever argue with your parents?
Oh, did I!
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In 100 years will humans evolve to use the other 90% of their brains?
As people have said already, people already use that 90% of the brain.
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Do you think its wrong for a guy to like to wear womens clothes and makeup at home in private?love dressing up in a pretty dress ,silky pantyhose ,lingerie,heels ,perfume ,shaved legs and relaxing dress this way.
Not at all -- or in public, either, though of course if you are in a closed-minded part of the world you may get some crap for it. But wherever you do it, it's quite normal; have fun. :)
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What home remedies can i use to increase hair volume?
A lot of times if you just use better shampoos and conditioners it will improve the health of your hair... a lot of the ones you find in stores dry out your scalp and make your hair generally unhealthy and addicted to the product. If you've ever looked up the "no poo" thing (where people stop using shampoo) you'll notice a lot of people saying that for a week or two after...
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Where can i buy henna powder?
The best place I've ever found online was Hennaforhair -- the lady who made the site did her P.h.D on henna and also had a lot of information on it's history, how it works, and how to use it, as well as some other products. I get a henna/indigo mix fromt here to dye my hair auburn.
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Does breast size matter? I am an A cup, I'm in proportion because I'm thin, but I know that most guys like big breasts. I always think to myself that I feel bad for the guy that ends up with me :(
My question:does breast size really matter?
It matters to some people, but there are plenty that like small breasts, and even more that couldn't care less. :P
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Husband says something wife feels is insulting. She slaps him hard across the face. Is that domestic violence? What should he do?
Yes. Get away quickly. When she is more calm, suggest counseling.
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I am a muscled bodybuilding strong man, the other day I was at a theme park where there was about 50 ft high, I tried to climb it and so did my friend, a girl, she got to the top, yet i made it about 3/4 of the way up before i lost my grip. How?
50 foot high what? Maybe she had more agility... not sure what being a girl has to do with it, though, I've known some women that were stronger than any men around.
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Sharing is a nice gesture...What would you like to share?
I'll share some coffee liqueur with you, if you want. :P
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Is romance always in the air in Italy?
Not as long as my father lives there.
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Are all cigarettes equally bad for your health?
No, some have less additives, and if you roll them yourself they have no additives at all.
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Are you straight,bi-sexual,gay, or neither?
Bisexual.
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I keep hearing that men should get in touch with their "feminine" side, but I haven't heard that women need to get in touch with their "masculine" side. Why does this opposite gender rule apply to only men?
Because there are so many people that are convinced that women aren't feminine enough as they are -- probably ones that want to get into the FLDS church. Anyway, fuck gender binary, let people be people regardless of gender.
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What are you wearing?
Serious Clothes. They are frowning at this question and considering the appropriate response.
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Should white people start breeding like rabbits so as not to become the minority in the USA?
White people aren't exactly in danger of becoming a minority anytime soon.
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Is cohabitation an acceptable alternative to marriage or is it just getting free milk instead of buying the cow like my mother always used to say?
It's a smarter alternative, in my opinion -- all marriage does is get you a ring and some papers, and if you decide that it just can't work out, it will be tons harder to separate.
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OMG!!! My ____ is on fire!
Ass.
http://indigocharm.deviantart.com/art/A-haiku-90993876
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Im nt askn a qstn! jz wna post smthn... i lost sum1 tht i luv so much bcuz i lied to tht person so mch! n when d time tht im tryin to mke things right, sumthng came up n i did not even do it! tht sum1 didnt blive me anymre. hurts a lot.
Kind of funny that the category this is posted in contains the word "communication," since this question fails at it so blatantly...
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My boyfriend says there is no difference between being married and living together for life as life partners. I do disagree. I believe there is a lot more to marriage than he seems to think. Any comments on this? What do you think? Any help?
I think the only difference is that your relationship is more recognized by doctors when one of you is in the hospital, and if you decide to break up, it's harder to do it. Personally, I don't really care if I have a ring or not, I love my S/O either way, and I really dislike the cultural attitudes that come with marriage. However, I know that for many people it's important, and...
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Will Russia's retrial of the Politkovskaya murder bring justice
You know, it seems it isn't likely to. :(
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What do different language call the sun
Russian -- solntse (the l is silent) -- солнце.
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If I told you I was a smoker would you dislike me?
No, I'd say, "Want to share a ciggie?"
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Have you ever found yourself becoming sucked in by a cult?
The 4th Way. Technically I was too young to be accepted, but I was becoming a bit brainwashes and a lot of the cult members talked to me and the such.
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What kind of girls do u like bettr? Redheads Blondes or Brunettes??? Guys only
Why guys only? Do you consider lesbian and bi girls to be figments of imagination?
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'Men are polygamic'...what do you think?
Umm, no. Well, there are men that would like to be polygamous, but there are women as well; it does not depend on gender. On my part, I've met more men who were in or liked monogamous relationships than women. Also, polygamy and polyamory are not the same thing as sleeping around with a lot of people (though there's nothing bad in that as long as you aren't hurting anyone), done...
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What is your first name?
Masha-- without an R, mind.
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If you could be anywhere in the world you wanted to be right now, where would you be and why?
I would be either in NYC, Athens, or Russia. The first one because I miss it and I miss being out of hillbilly land, the second one because it's fun and I miss being out of hillbilly land, and the third one because it's my home and I just plain miss it (except for my grandparents, seeing as they are assholes).
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I'm 19 years old and a high school drop out. I need to know if I still have a chance at getting into a college with a GED. I seriously want to pursue a career in Game Design. Are there classes I can take before I apply to have a better chance, ect?
Depends on the college, some accept GED people and some don't. You can probably get some free design/animation/3D programs online and experiment with them; also, draw a lot, since they look into that.
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I broke up with my girlfriend last month. Yesterday, I checked my friendster. As usual I went to see who view my profile and I saw her there. She made a new account and all her picture was her naked and masturbating. What is she trying to tell me? pls hlp
She isn't trying to tell you anything, unless your labia can make sign language or something.
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Is it already too late for me to learn how to cook at my age? I hope to hear some sincere and good advice.
It's never too late to cook!
You can start with basics (well, they are basics for me because they are what I started with) -- stir frying, making oatmeal, frying eggs, that sort of thing -- do you know how to do those?
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Have You Ever Been Discrimanated Against For Any Reason At all?*
Yes -- being bisexual, being of the female persuasion, and being Russian (as odd as that one is).
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What do you think of a man who cannot cook for himself?
Good grief. Does he venture from his mom's house much?
I mean, come on, he has to at least know how to fry eggs, or stir fry some vegetables or mushrooms, or make oatmeal... or rice... well, the first one doesn't apply if he's vegan -- though even then, I've tasted good substitutes before -- but you get my point.
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When a woman says to you "You don't own me" what more do you need that she is cheating or about to?
What does this have to do with cheating?
If a woman said that to you, maybe you were acting really controlling.
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With more couples waiting to adopt (2 million) than abortions (1.2 million), isn't adoption also a viable choice? ---- If it's really pro-choice (not pro-abortion), why is abortion the main alternative cited for unwanted pregnancies?
First of all, as someone who is pro-choice, the whole reason I am pro-choice is that I believe what a woman does shouldn't be decided by someone else. So if she wants to abort, I will support her decision just as mcuh as if she were wanting to give it up for adoption.
That aside, reasons someone might rather abort:
1. They don't want to go through 9 months of bloating, nausea, pain,...
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Should Partial Birth Abortions be legalized in all states? Why or why not?
Yes. 1. It's the woman's body, she decides what to do with it, 2. Partial Birth Abortion is a pretty misleading term, it's not like it happens a week from the baby's birth -- it happens at the 24th week or after, and is usually done to save the mother's life or because a baby wouldn't survive anyway, or would be in pain (ex: anecephalia -- do you really want to...
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Me&my bf were having sex and he took me from behind. It hurt a little bit because i could tell i was 2 dry so it was like a rug burn feeling &the next morning it hurt to pee and i found a cut in the mirror. Is it possible to get a cut from being 2 dry?
Sounds like a tear to me, in which case yes, it is possible. Give it some time to heal, and next time, tell him to turn you on more and/or use lube before having sex if you are too dry.
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Someone told me that if I take a hot bath, it can start my period*or jump-start it* if I am going to get it soon anyway. Is this true and how does the water help it start? I know baths can pause the flow as well so I am confused.
I have never hear dof that and how no idea how that would work, since water seems to keep it in... maybe it would stimulate your uterus or something?
Sex tends to bring it on, and parsley (lots of it) is known for making you start early, as well.
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Are young girls today growing up to fast. I ask this question because my 12 year old cousin wants to have sex shes done evetything else sexualy. I dont know whether to tell my Aunty or not. ADVICE PLEASE
Teach her about sex. She is going to be having it whether she tells you/her mother/whoever or not, might as well make sure she does it safely.
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Why am I getting no pleasure from intercourse? I have had sex 3 times with my boyfriend and each time I felt nothing. The only feeling was something being inserted. I have only felt pleasure through manual stimulation of the clitorus by myself.
Well, the reason some women feel pleasure during plain vaginal intercourse and some don't is because there is a whole inner clitoral structure consisting of nerves and so on, and with some people it comes really close to the vagina and with some people it doesn't. It's quite normal. Tell your boyfriend that clitoral stimulation is what gets you off and show him how to do it; he...
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I'm a 16 year old male and im having trouble having an orgazm during sex, and sometimes even keeping it up. i am straight so i know thats not the problem, and im definetly not small. what other reason could this be happening?
Um, sexual orientation and dick size have nothing to do with it, christ. Masturbate alone, maybe you just have performer's anxiety or something.
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Why does my girlfriend's vagina shake after i take my penis out?
Muscle spasms, probably. Quite likely if she just had an orgasm -- happens to some people.
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I'm too small, only 6" erect and 3 - 4" flaccid. Most women like 8" or more. Do pills work? How much is surgery? I'm very embarrassed by this! Average is not exceptable, Today, women all know what men should look like. I don't want to be a joke anymore.
Most women I know, including me, would/do find 8" or more painful. Sure, there are ones who prefer bigger sizes, but it's not the whole female population, and you are already above average. If someone is joking that your penis is too small, they've probably been watching too much bad porn (fake boobs, faceless hairy men, etc.).
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I have been systematically destroying my own life in direct relation to PMS for years... My cycle is irregular and I can't track it on a calander... I get hit by this truck every month to the detriment of something I need, or love. What do I do?
Try birth control pills -- I hear for many people they do wonders for PMS -- or maybe a mild antidepressant or something... or herbs. For a while I took 5-HTP whenever I got depressed, it worked quite well; maybe it would do the same for PMS.
I get very bad PMS occasionally, I usually just smoke a lot and drink Kava Kava tea.
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I have pimple like balls on my labia minora, they dont itch or bother me but I conserned about it. They come and go, and the only time then do bother me is when I have tight clothing on. What are they?
Could be ingrown hairs, if you shave, but it sounds more like the right clothing is giving you a bit of a rash...
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If a woman's nipples do not get erect, is there any cure for her impotency or should we not care as long as we get her to have sex?
First of all, not everyone's body is the same; second of all, it does not mean she is "impotent", and if she really isn't turned on maybe you don't know your stuff; and third of all, if you regard all women merely as sex objects which may occasionally be defective and which can't decide to have sex (rather, you have to "get" them to have it, apparently)...
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Why do guys find our vaginal scent appealing when alot of women worry their smell isnt normal?
I think it's because a lot of women are taught absolutely nothing about their vaginas when they are growing up, and not many talk about theirs amongst themselves; men can't really ignore their penises and are taught a lot more about it as a result, and are more encouraged to talk about theirs (like comparing sizes and so on), as a result I think a lot of women end up feeling sort of...
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I had sex three days after my period finished my bf masturbaited around three hours prior to having sex we had sex he said he didnt come im so scared
If he really didn't come, the only thing you have to be worried about is pre-come. Go get a pregnancy test...
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My man wants me to ejaculate (squirt) for him very badly, however I can't do it. When he's stimulating me, it feels like I have to pee very badly, however, nothing comes of it. Do I have to concentrate on a muscle or just relax everything? What do I do?
Not all women can squirt. If you have never been able to do it, maybe you don't have that ability; there's nothing wrong with that. If you want, you can try masturbating (alone) and see if it happens when you're more relaxed. I've never done it, but I'd imagine it's not something you can control, though.
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My inner labia are darker and hang out from my outer labia. My bestfriends outer labia cover EVERYTHING, her inner labia and her clit, is mine horrible? Hers just looks like a line where her outer labia meet and cover up everything perfectly. HELP!!!!
Both of your labias (labia?) are normal. It's like faces... you and your friend don't have the same exact face, I'd imagine, unless you're long lost identical twins or something. Your labia is perfectly fine, don't worry about it. :P
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If you color your hair, do you have it done professionally or do you do it yourself?
I colour it myself -- or rather, get my boyfriend to do it for me. I use a mix of indigo and henna, so I end up with a nice auburn, usually.
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Could a dandruff control shampoo actually cause someone to have more dandruff?
Yes, some chemicals in it often cause your scalp skin to get very dry.
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my scalp is very flaky and itchy. besides shampoo what household items could i use to treat it?
You could wash it with apple cider vinegar (preferably mixed with water) which helps the pH of your hair and scalp get to normal, if that's where the problem is coming from; I also hear that a tea made with rosemary is really great for dandruff, though I haven't tried it as I don't have it.
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My natural hair colour is a dark brown, after getting it died a lighter brown I got sick of the regrowth and decided to dye it back to my natural colour. But now my hair is black and I absolutely hate it. Can you please tell me ANY way to get it lighter?
Well, other than bleach, you could try washing it with chamomile tea -- I hear that lightens your hair over time.
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Who believes in De-tox?
No, I believe it's crap; my body is not toxic. Of course, there's nothing bad about, say, eating lots of vegetables for a while -- it always makes me feel more awake -- and maybe if you're not eating for some spiritual ritual (I imagine people wouldn't want to eat too much before consuming peyote), but I'm not going to subsist on cranberry juice or something to chase...
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My friend says he will ONLY date and marry an American - no matter what. Does that make him a racist?
No, just makes him annoying.
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My face been really dry latley. tryed vasoline and everything!! how can i keep it smooth?
Hmm, well, if you are using soap make sure it contains glycerin -- a lot of brands extract the glycerin from their soap while making it; glycerin moisturizes your skin. I've found that if you search for individual sellers that make soap themselves (I usually look on etsy), they don't do that (and their soap smells nicer, too). Use lots of moisturizers or just light oil that your skin...
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The other day i kissed a married man he told me he liked me for ages but i have a bf of 5 years now i can't get him out my head. Anyone have any ideas how i can get him out my head? I do like him so i really don't know what to do? I also gave him a hand
Try to distract yourself -- maybe do something really great with your boyfriend. Take something you've been wanting to do for a long time -- I dunno, a trip or going to some restaurant, whatever -- and do it (and hopefully have a good time enough to forget about him at least temporarily); also, a counselor might help. Keep busy, do things like exercise, or write poetry, or paint... good...
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Half ___? What do you think is the missing word.
Jack.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NrD--gJ9U08
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Which straight actor has most convincingly portrayed a gay character?
I don't think either Natasha Lyonne or Clea Duvall are lesbians, and they did very well in But I'm a Cheerleader.
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If you get your ears pierced and you then no longer wear earings, will the holes close over.
Depends on when you stopped wearing them. I wore earrings for a long time after I got my ears pierced the first time, and those haven't closed even though I barely do anymore, but I only wore my helix ring for about two weeks before losing it, and that one closed. :(
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Do you want to see the movie "Bruno"?
Noooooo!
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What's the funniest sitcom you've ever watched?
The IT Crowd, easily.
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Men, or women who like women: Which do you find sexier - women with long, flowing hair, or short, spunky hair?
If I could, I'd give you extra points for including lesbian/bi women in your question, a lot of these types of questions don't and it makes me feel like a mythical creature or some sort. :P
To answer it, I tend to find long hair pretty but short hair is what I often consider more "sexy". Mostly, though, their personality and general manner (if that makes sense) tend to...
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Do you use salon shampoos or the ones you can buy in stores at a reasonable price?
I've been using one I bought in Earth Fare for the past couple of months (it's an organic stuff sort of store, so the shampoo has no laureth sulfate, etc.), which cost about $10-14, but lasted me a long time and worked very well. Once that ends, I'm planning on making my own shampoo.
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Should AB concider removing the negative points button. I never downrate anyone I don't see the need if I think it's a dumb answer or question I don't give them point the negative points are being missused about 80% of the time.
No... first of all, if the person comments and tells you why they found it unhelpful, you can get some interesting discussions.
If they don't explain their down rate, well, it doesn't particularly hurt me, and I don't see why it would.
The negative points button is there to help rank questions by the users' collective opinions.
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How much of a joke is barack as a presaident, answer quick cause the socialism site that ab is will stop any type of anti bama retoric!!!
Um, is this rhetorical?
Obviously, socialism is TEH DEVIL.
And Obama isn't particularly socialist, anyway, as far as I know.
I have my issues with him, but I much prefer him to McCain.
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History is full of white people being the bad guys. You got white people invading the natives, you got Hitler, H-Bomb, Nuclear Bombs, USA & Israel vs. Palestine, Communism & Afghanistan, then iraq...list goes on. How does white world feel about that?
I don't think what people before me did is my fault, and as a Russian I don't feel Communism is my fault, either, because I never supported it, nor even lived during it; my grandparents were victims of Stalin's ideas and were quite brainwashed -- either that, or they were suffering, but were in denial. In some ways, this reflected on my life. I do, however hold myself responsible...
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How come some people can do something like kill but not get the right punishment! I think if u kill some1, u should be killed that same way, unless it was self defense! Ex, Susan Smith should be put into a car and rolled into a lake like she did her kids!
This resounds too closely to me with the "the rapist needs to be raped" idea (I have been raped, but I wouldn't wish it on anybody, not even the rapist -- and I haven't forgiven him). I would rather them just stay in jail.
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Hypothetically, let’s say that he did molest them. Who would you feel should be held MORE accountable, Michael Jackson or the parents that allowed their children to go to Never Land Ranch unsupervised for sleepovers?
Michael Jackson, unless the parents knew that they were being molested.
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I use a towel for 2 weeks before washing. My frIend thinks it's disgusting, she gets a clean one every day. I say I am clean when I exit the shower and so is the towel. Please help and chime in with what you think is proper.
Sounds fine to me. As long as you hang it up to dry afterward.
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What would you do if somebody walked up to you and said "you're not inedible"?
I'd say, "Sorry, I'm in a monogamous relationship, but how nice of you to offer!"
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Is marriage a valid excuse to let yourself go? i.e not taking care of your body.
I let myself go all the time! You know, as in not care what other people think of my body and eat however /I/ want to eat (whether it's something healthy or junk food). I am even ok with my body gaining or losing weight! And my boyfriend still loves me!
To quote a lady called PortlyDyke:
"I have not only "let myself go" -- I have let myself go all the way.
I highly...
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Are you living in the hole?
Yes, Georgia (US) is quite the hole.
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As an adult who still wears night diapers, what is the best way to avoid diaper rash?
I've heard Aloe works well.
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Who will wish me & other Canadians a 'HAPPY CANADA DAY'?
Happy Canada day. :P
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Should we all speak the same language, English on Earth?
Hell no. Each language has a whole culture behind it, to force everyone to speak one language would be destroying all that culture and all the etymology tied in with it.
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My Girl wants to hang out with this guy, just as friends.They have ''got it on'' in the past.(we were not 2gether). I do not aprove, but she says I dont trust her. No guy wants to just hang out! Is she dumb? or wants to cheat on me? What should I do?
Wow, you know, amazingly enough I have hung out with TONS of guys, and most of them were my FRIENDS, that I DIDN'T have sex with, and they never tried to have sex with me either! Also, I have hung out with my ex before, WHILE going out with my current bf, and we did absolutely nothing sexual -- you know why? Because we broke up for a reason! So even while it's possible that she could...
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Maintaining a healthy lifestyle maybe considered too expensive, do you agree or not?
Not really -- it depends on how you do it. Vegetables and fruits and so on are pretty cheap, and a lot healthier than canned things. Probably even cheaper if you get a small vegetable garden for yourself and get them from there, instead.
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What are your views on breast feeding.......
Whoever's breasts they are gets to decide what to do with them. If someone breast feeds, that's good for them and I hope people get over their fear/sexualization of breasts enough to not pester them when they have to do it somewhere public. If someone decides to use formula, also good for them, and I hope people don't pester them with judgmental remarks, as I've seen happen...
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Is highschool better than middle school? cause im just about to go to highschool and im scared to DEATH!!!!!
I found it to be better; I hated Middle school horribly.
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What do you say about a wife who cheated on her husband and then got pregnant by that man. She blames her husband because he was doing drugs. I say she is a whore who can't take respons. for her actions. She believes everyone owes her. Psycho?
Well, while I can imagine it's hard to be with someone who is on drugs, she could have divorced. Unless the drugs made him violent... anyway, I think they are both wrong, and if their relationship got that messed up maybe it's for the best if they got divorced. I wouldn't call her a whore, though -- not only are those types of words misogynist, but I also don't think she...
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Is having lunch with someone else cheating? What about dinner?
Um, no.
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Is haveing the need to clean at night,everynight at the same time, a symmpton on OCD?
Well, I can't speak for everyone else with OCD out there, but I think if it bothers you intensely when you don't, then maybe it is. When I'm having OCD fits -- if that's what you call them -- and I don't do something the way I "need" to, my stomach starts hurting and feeling scrunched up and I get very anxious.
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Is it possible for a person who didn't have a good home life to be compatible with someone who's family-oriented? I grew up with psychologically abusive parents, so I don't put much stock in family life, but my bf wants to be with his family all the time.
I think so; I'm doing well with my boyfriend thus far. I grew up first with my intensely verbally abusive grandmother (and a grandfather who didn't care enough to stand up for me), then my parents, who were very neglectful and occasionally ventured into physical abuse. I don't HATE families in general, but not having contact with mine never bothered me, whereas my boyfriend has...
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If a guy says he can't afford to buy a girl the ring she wants (it's $600) and offers to buy a $100 one instead, then later on he announces plans to buy a GPS and a new car stereo, does the girl have a right to be angry?
I'm not sure if I have the right to decide what feelings she has a right to. Personally, I would be annoyed/angry at him for lying -- I can certainly understand not wanting to spend money on something, as I am poor (also, I don't have much in the ways of marriage values, so I can't fairly say /exactly/ how I would feel about the ring itself), but I would be irritated about him...
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If you woke up and someone you didn't know was swishing his/her tongue around in your mouth uncontrollably, how would you react?
Probably punch them.
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My daughter drank so much that she ended up in the hospital, what is the proper punishment? She has been grounded for the past 3 months but I don't know if shes learned anything
Isn't getting so sick that you get put in the hospital punishment enough? If this is what happens when you ground her, maybe it's time you think about dealing with this in ways other than punishing her... grounding someone doesn't teach them anything, you would be better off talking to her and compromising on things. Like, all teenagers are going to drink, but you can ask her not...
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Would you swallow--and not chew on--a small jar of leeches for 10 grand?
Hell no, even looking at them grosses me out. What if they latch onto my insides before reaching my stomach and start sucking the blood out of the back of my throat or something? That's probably not physically possible, but still... creepiness.
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If you were gay would you make your partner get a sex change, or yourself, or stay the way you are?
What a stupid question. If you are a gay man, you are a man who likes other men. If you are a gay woman, you are a woman that likes other women. Liking someone of the same sex doesn't make you someone of the opposite sex inside. The only way I would get a sex change is if my gender identity differed from the gender of the body I am in; it has nothing to do with sexual orientation.
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How do you think you'd react if were outside one morning and Azruul, a flesh-eating, bone-crushing, soul-shredding demon from the darkest recesses of hell, flew up to you and asked you for directions to the local grocery store?
Probably tell him the directions. :P
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Do you speak French?
I have been trying to learn it, so I know a bit of basics, but it will be another 10 years or so before I even come near to speaking it fluently. :( Still, it doesn't stop me from flouncing up to my boyfriend and exclaiming "Mon petit choux!". :D
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What do you think about ABer Zack's avatar choices?
I think he likes very, very, very, very large breasts (not something I will ever understand, personally, but everyone has different preferences). Also, I feel a sort of sympathetic twinge of back pain when I look at them, poor things.
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Do you look young for your age? What foods do you eat?
Depends... I am 17 and some people think I look around 20, others think I am 14 (probably because I am short).
I usually eat some vegetables (onions and bell peppers, particularly) a bit of fruit (especially lemons, I love them), a good bit of cheese (brie, when I can afford to get it), and bread/muffins/bagels.
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How is a tincture prepared?
You stuff a bottle with herbs and pour alcohol over them and let it stand for a month or two.
Of course, it can get more complicated... a lot of people make it with a ratio of 1:5 in the weight/volume of each, and if you are making it with dry herbs, you have to add a little water in. But basically, that's it.
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Do you think the word "rape" is overused in inappropriate ways?. I think people are becoming numb to the severity of what rape really is.
Yes, I really hate hearing people saying stuff like, "man, I raped [insert name of video game]" or "he totally raped my ass in Call of Duty" or something, referring to just winning. It makes me want to throw something at them.
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Far fewer women playwrights get their plays produced - yet a new study shows that discrimination may not be the major cause and the bias that IS seen isn't what's expected. Does this mean we shouldn't make assumptions about gender differences, like pay?
Not only is this trying to blame women's lack of success as playwrights and so on on other women rather the society's faults at general, when actually it is very difficult for a woman to go through film school as opposed to a man, and women get very much discrimination from other men in the same field ('“Men rate men and women playwrights exactly the same.”' is...
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Been with my man for 4 years we argue a lot and i have trust issues wid him he has now told me he has lost love 4 me and dislikes who i am now that has broke my heart we are still together and he says i have to change but im not entirely to blame help
If he tells you outright that he no longer loves or even likes you, I see no reason to stay and try to please him.
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I hate all men. They are macho shovanist pigs & expect women to be slaves. How do u feel about these words?
I think the person who says them must have been hurt/abused by lots of assholish men.
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Married men: What do you expect from your wife ? It seems to me once you get married you want someone who will clean all day, cook, iron, wash clothes, take care of kids, work, and never complain about it ! please shed some light.
No, he is just a sexist idiot. I hope for other people's sakes that he remains single.
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My husband watches an anime called Bleach in Japanese and it is annoying. What does your s/o watch or do that is annoying to you?
Naruto (???), and all of the Apatow movies.
He makes up for it (sort of) in liking Miyazaki, though.
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On a scale of 1-10 how bad does it tick you off when someone of substantially low intelligence acts like they are smarter then you?
5-7.
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Feminism has still got a fair way to go. What are some basic issues in society that prove this?
-Not much legal protection for sex workers
-The scary prevalence (sp?) of the Madonna/Whore complex
-Women have to work much harder then men in various fields to achieve the same level of recognition (ex: Chefs)
-Women are expected to fit various traditional roles because of their gender (mother, sexy and desirable woman, chaste virgin, etc.) and when they do not fit them, whether...
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Do you wish you knew any body from Ab in person?
Yeah, there are a couple, but the most interesting ones all live in different countries so it's unlikely that we will ever meet.
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Are blonds really dumb?
If you believe stereotypes like that, you must be dumb.
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Should we 'mourn' for ''Mikey the Molester'' yo?...
No.
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Why is it a requirement of anorexia to be whatever number underweight? What if they have everything but instead of losing it, their metabolism slows, they stay the same weight, and then just die? They had "EDNOS"? Isn't that a little stupid?
No idea. Personally, I think of anorexia as a mental disorder rather than a physical one, though it can certainly have physical consequences. Which is why I object to people saying things like, "I had anorexia" referring to a loss of weight rather than the actual disorder.
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I say Ireland, you think?
Intolerance!
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How dangerous is an anti-deer electric fence? There's one in my neighborhood, and I always feel the urge to touch it, but I don't fancy winning a Darwin.
I don't think it's dangerous, but they hurt like fuck. I touched an electric fence in a horse pasture twice, when the current was going (it sort of pulses) and I ended up sort of screeching and being thrown back. It felt like my heart was skipping or something, too, but then again it has that tendency generally.
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Do you think that heritage can affect preference on food, living, climate, and such?
I'd say that it would affect what your body works best with. For an example, someone from a culture that didn't consume much dairy would probably have a bad reaction to it. I've read that people from Japan have a bigger something or other (an organ, forget which) because they have been eating rice regularly for centuries, so their bodies grew to accommodate that. Also, someone...
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Do You Think Being a Vegetarian Makes you skinny?
No. There are fat vegetarians, chubby vegetarians, medium vegetarians, skinny vegetarians... all kinds.
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What are some good teen books? I like ones that are raw and could be real, something like suicide, rape, eating disorders...ect. realistic fiction.
Speak (rape)
Long Live the Queen (abuse, PTSD)
The Hanged Man (rape, eating disorders) and other books by Francesca Lia Block
Drowning Anna (bullying, suicide)
I've read lots more, but I can't think of them right now.
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Where do you suppose J.R.R. Tolkien got his idea to write the trilogy "Fellowship of the rings"?
Celtic mythology and the such. You see elements of it in his books.
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Why do meat eaters always compare their act of killing a cow/pig/fish/chicken to the act of killing a carrot for justification of their actions?
Fortunately not all meat eaters do it, but those who do are usually convinced that meat is the best food in the whole world and if someone doesn't eat it they are a wimp. Or it could be they just never had a science class. :P
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What is the worst thing about being a vegetarian?
Putting up with assholes.
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What are your thoughts on tofu?
It's good if it's made right. I went to the Grit (a Southern vegetarian restaurant) the other day, they make it like I will never be able to... bastards.
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What proof is there in the harry potter books that Dumbledore is gay?
I don't think so. Being gay doesn't automatically make your personality "gay" somehow, nor does it make every friendship you have with someone of the same sex a romantic one.
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If you read the Harry Potter series, whose death horrified/hurt/depressed you the most? (if you haven't read 7 and plan to, spoilers may be contained in these answers)
Sirius, easily. He was one of my favourite characters, and he never had the chance to be fully happy again, after Azkaban and being cooped up and all that...
Then, of course, Dumbledore... and Lupin and Tonks! I thought Tonks was awesome. :(
And Fred, I thought he would be off limits.
I also had the sad thought, after Lupin died, that now the whole group -- Sirius, Harry's dad, Lupin,...
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Have you read 'Harry Potter And The Order Of The Phoenix'? Whats your opinion of it? Do you have any doubts? When did you read it? What about the other Harry Potter books?
Yes, it's my favourite book in the series that I've re-read multiple times. The other books are very good, too, mostly the later ones because in the first couple, the characters aren't as developed and the plot isn't as twisty.
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Vegeterian. What's the point? Does it really make a difference?
Yes. If enough people are vegetarians/vegans/eat meat sparingly or generally support good treatment of animals, many places start being more vegetarian friendly and so on, and people around that area are (more) likely to start a farm where the animals are treated well.
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If vegans/some vegetarians don't eat meat, why do they want to eat stuff that's shaped like meat? (like a veggie burger, a veggie steak, veggie hot dog, etc. )
Many vegans and vegetarians LIKE meat, they just don't want to eat it because they dislike how animals are treated or don't want to eat something that was killed.
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Generally speaking, are vegetarians more or less healthy than non-vegetarians?
Depends on what they eat... people from both groups can be unhealthy. Vegetarians just have to watch their protein intake more.
Either way, it's very easy to eat lots of junk food.
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I can't sleep. What time is it by you?
6:02 AM. I can't sleep, either.
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I am currently listening to one 17 year old explain to another 17 year old what a "latte" is. Would you care to guess the number of "like"s and "kind of"s in the conversation? When did the transfer of knowledge through conversation become a lost art?
No. Crazily enough, I'm 17 and don't say "like" and "kind of" in every sentence, nor does anyone I know.
Many hundreds of years ago, maybe a thousand...
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Girls, Which one do you like? Flowers/Chocolates/Perfumes/Teddy's?
Books. Flowers are nice, I suppose; chocolates I can always get myself, same goes for perfumes (and anyway, no one but me knows what kind of perfumes I like), and the only stuffed animals I like are those Giant Microbe ones (particularly the Flesh Eating Disease -- so cute!). I prefer for whoever I'm going out with to know my tastes rather than just get me a teddy bear because he thinks...
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Why can't women love men for our minds?
Oh joy, more gender-enveloping questions! Since, obviously, all women (and men) are exactly the same.
I'd say I love my boyfriend for the whole of him, not just a part.
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Is child molestation ok if you invented the "moon walk"?
Apparently, according to about 80% of the US, it seems. Has everyone gone insane with denial?
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Can anyone help me on how to lose alot of weight fast i am 14 and i weigh over 200 pounds i need help can you help me.
Don't lose the weight fast, it can be very unhealthy. I'd say you should identify what's making you have on the weight -- overeating, lack of exercise, genes, thyroid stuff, whatever -- and see if you can work with that. Though if it's genes and you are healthy already, I'd say the best you can do is learn to accept your body, which is always a good thing to do.
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What are some extremely difficult books to read?
Everything I've read by Leonid Andreev so far has been very boring...
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If police are allowed to outfit themselves in body armour with truncheons and tasers and the rest when they attack protestors, shouldn't protestors be allowed to have tasers and body armour too? It's just not fair otherwise.
Since when is the police force fair?
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My husband prefers a soft toilet paper and I prefer a 'rougher more scratchy' one. I have asked around and many women prefer a more 'scratchy' toilet paper and most men admit to preferring a 'softie'. What do you prefer to wipe with?
Softer... I sense a penis forming. :P
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Is it true that black men like relationships with white girls because it is less dramatic than with a black woman?
No, that sounds pretty stupid and bigoted.
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For those of you who love to cook, what are your 5 "must-have" herbs/spices that you could not give up?
Rosemary
Oregano
Black Pepper
Cardamom (nom nom nom)
Cinnamon
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Why are retarded people so happy all the time?
Good grief, you must not know many.
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Do you feel sad about farrah fawcetts death?
No, since I didn't know her... but she seemed nice enough.
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Ok, its friday night and the tv is full of Michael Jackson tributes (yawn), who wants to join me in getting drunk and watching horror films?
I'm game as long as they're actually scary, not just full of gore. (The Haunting FTW!)
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To what question would you always say no?
"Want to go to church with me?"
"Do you have two heads?"
"Would you like to have some steak?"
"Don't you just love the South?"
"Can I eat your shirt?"
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What are some positive and negative effects of living alone or cut off from others in your opinion? Do you think the effects vary with the age/sex of the person?
In my experience you become emotionally stronger, but also more reserved and possibly more angry, you sort of store the anger. I think it would vary more according to personality -- some people wouldn't mind living like that, others do.
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Are you a vegetarian for ethical, or diet purpose?
Ethical. I dislike diets.
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What is the most dominant emotion in your life?
Anger/Annoyance.
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Im so upset. can you cheer me up?
I don't know if I can cheer you up, but I'll send good thoughts and hugs your way. Or some truffles, via telekinesis. :P
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Would you be upset if your boyfriend kept naked pics of an ex in his bedside table even after expressing your dislike for it? my insecurity or disrespect?
Sounds very disrespectful to me.
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What would you do if your partner wanted a baby, and you was on the pill and couldnt tell him, because he'd said if he found out you was he'd finish the relationship?
I would finish the relationship first, because I don't want to keep secrets from someone I love, and I don't want to be with someone who doesn't respect my reproductive choices and places a higher value on my uterus and what it can do than on the rest of me.
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Do you think people who were molested as children always grow up to live twisted, messed up lives?
No. Ever since I've gotten away from my abusers, I am leading an ok life -- somewhat PTSD riddled, but not twisted or messed up. My best friend's stepmother also seems to be living a very good life, and she is one of my role models.
All it did was make me realize all the more how fucked up the people were who did it to me. I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy, much less inflict it.
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Hi iam 18 and have suffered from anorexia from the age of 14, i have been hospitalized about 6 times getting as low as 34 kilos . I am now alot better but still have had no periods . what BMI do i need to be for my periods to return ? and will i get them?
I think the BMI is 19 -- just keep trying and I'm sure they'll come back once your body weight is normal and it's functioning well enough. Also, congrats! It's a hard thing to battle against, and I commend you on doing it.
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The FDA just regulated cloned meat as consumable. Will you eat cloned meat?
The FDA also allows HFCS and MSG in foods (that don't need it -- hummus doesn't require corn syrup!) without any labels to indicate it to the buyer, kept stevia off the markets for a long time because the people from Splenda paid them a bunch of money, doesn't appear to have any problem whatsoever with how farm animals are treated and what they are fed (corn and antibiotics), and...
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What advice would you give to a smart 12 year old who reminds you of yourself, hates school and is ready to give up?
"Get home schooled".
School is pretty horrible nowadays...
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I'm Canadian and as such watch far too much American televsion and film. I've noticed that New Jersey is often the butt of jokes that make it sound like the worst place this side of Hell. Why? Is it really that bad? If not how did it get this reputation?
I hear that, too, but the one time I went there it was quite pretty -- it was some part of it with cobble-stone sidewalks and old houses, and an Italian sandwich place (and their sandwiches were delicious). Though I'd imagine not all of it is like that...
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My wife will not "allow" herself to be photographed in the nude for my own viewing; She feels it is sinful. So here's my question: Is it sinful if the pictures are not for anything else but for her husband?
I don't believe in sin. However, she could be uncomfortable with it, and if she doesn't want her pictures taken, you should respect her wishes and not try to coerce her, since it IS her body, not her husband's. Also, it's common sense when you think about it -- most nude pictures end up on the internet.
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How long does it generally take to reach a family consensus on "What's for dinner tonight?"
No, because me and my boyfriend have such different tastes that we eat separately. That's when we bother to eat dinner, anyway, usually we just snack of something junky or odd.
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Do you have hair?
No, I have snakes.
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Do you think it okay to rub a pregnant friends belly? Or is it imposing on her privacy?
I would only do it if they asked me to. It does seem like an invasion of their personal space otherwise (though I don't really have the desire to rub anyone's belly, pregnant or not, anyway), and I've known plenty of pregnant women who felt like they became public property when they got pregnant due to everyone touching them and judging what they ate and so on.
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I don’t remember meeting even one Afro-American at my LDS church. Why not? Moreover, in LDS-related videos, there are hardly any Afro-Americans in them at all. Why, and what IS the LDS’s stance towards Afro-Americans?
Could be just the demographics of your area. Also, I recall reading somewhere that Mormonism used to have some racist teachings, though they took them out later; I know that FLDS still preaches them, though, and more. Meh.
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My brother & I both were severly abused as children; We both were told we'd never recovery & medications might help but it doesn't help me! Why do people always so easily say, I got over my abuse in therapy & you aren't the same& you think differently?
I have no idea why they say that; I think maybe if they do, they are either in denial or never had PTSD in the first place. In my experience -- and so far in the experience of those of my friends who also have PTSD -- it's something you have to deal with all your life. You may feel better occasionally, or heal in some way or another, but some imprint of it will remain in your life.
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I've been having cravings for milk and/or chocolate milk for weeks now, and drink a fair amount a day, maybe 1/2 gallon a day. WHY?
Vitamin deficiency and/or a subconscious desire for semen? Well, I haven't seen much brown semen in my life -- actually none -- but anything is possible.
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Have you ever felt ashamed of what people in your society, state or country did? I hate it when because of some bad people the name of a country gets dirty.
Sure, I think everyone has that experience, since every country I can think of has done something bad at some point in time.
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How do you ask a question on AB?
By sticking your head in a barrel of piranhas and preaching christianity to them.
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Im in a relationship with a girl as im gay, she has never been with a girl before only men. We've been going out for a year now, says she loves me and never wants to be without me but still says she is straight. Is that possible?
Only if she doesn't actually love you, but I don't know of many people who are willing to pretend to love someone for a whole year for no reason. Well, except old timey deeply religious couples. She might just be in denial about her sexuality.
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Do you as a gay ,les, bisex ,or transgender feel that because you are what you are that theres an obbligation or stereotype that you have to live up to?
No, I actually feel like I need to defy all the stereotypes, because people assuming they know me just because of my sexual orientation annoys me to no end.
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I am a lesbian but I hate other lesbians. It seems they are all artsy farsty, vegan feminists, who really annoy me. I think I am destine to be single because I cannot bare the whole process of hanging out with them to meet anyone. Is this normal/bad?
Oh, I agree with you completely. Those lesbians that like, have a different diet from yours, and like art, and want women to have equal rights as men. How dare they show their faces! And as we know, it's the influence of other vaginas that turns them vegan, artsy, and feminist, definetely not outside factors. Oh, this definitely justifies you hating hundreds of people based on their...
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If I'm 17 and want to come out of the closet. What should I do?
Start by coming out to the people who you believe are most likely to accept it, first, and your closest friends, then go from there.
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Is it ok to be 13 and a gay make in a realy anti-gay school?
Well, sure, but you may get a lot of BS from other people. When I was in middle school and people found out that I'm bi, they shouted out pretty much every stereotype out at me and tried as hard as they could to make my life hell. So if you come out about it, it may be very hard to deal with the reactions of people who were raised to be bigoted or are just ignorant.
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Do you think a guy shaving his legs are disgusting or disturbing?
No, and I can't comprehend why someone would...
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When did you last cook for a friend?
I heated up some chicken noodle soup and made a tuna sandwich for my boyfriend yesterday. I don't usually cook for him, since I dislike handling meat (I'm vegetarian, and he isn't), but he looked very tired and depressed; I figured it would make him feel better.
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Are gay people normal?
Good grief, I hope you aren't being serious. Yes, gayness (and bisexuality) in humans is normal, just like in dolphins, dogs, fruit flies, albatrosses, etc.
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Pro-choicers: could/would you marry someone who was pro-life?
No. Even if you find the thought of abortions horrible and evil and whatnot, history shows that when it was illegal, women tried to do it anyway, they just killed or hurt themselves in the process. I don't think I'd get along with someone who is fine with that.
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Have you ever experienced an 'epic' fart?
Only in my dreams, where I made a fart that sounded like a tea kettle while dining with Barack Obama.
Otherwise, I have only experienced them through Commrad, who can make his farts sound like demonic voices giggling.
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What's a good example of "what I don't know can't hurt me"?
Being a minority of some sort (black, asian, gay, a foreigner, etc.) in a really redneck place and not realizing people there were bigots, so when you think you've said something funny and they start laughing, you don't realize they are laughing at you, not with you.
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How can someone so young sing words so sad?
He is a eunuch.
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What is New York like, i'm really keen to know what New York is like, the city the outer streets, the ghetto etc?
If you mean the city, I've only been to Manhattan, but it was pretty fun. There are about a billion different restaurants and so on -- cupcake shops, pudding shops, all sorts of cuisines, etc.; about a billion odd little stores, like one that had baby bat skeletons and so on in the window, and another that was just full of... earth. And at one point, some guy just jumped in the middle of a...
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Why do I always get little red bumps when I shave my bikini area? And how do I get them to go away?
Do they hurt without cuts? If they do, and you have been having unprotected sex, you might need to see a doctor. Sounds more like ingrown hairs, though, you sometimes get them from having. In which case, you might need to get a new razor, a better shaving gel, or stop shaving for a little while and allow them to heal.
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Me and my GF are going to have a big talk about living together tonight. What are some important areas to cover in the talking?
Boundaries/personal space
Bills
Cleaning -- who does what
How to handle fights
What to do if you two end up breaking up (pessimistic, I suppose, but it's good to know how to handle it just in case)
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Why did the population of so many major American cities decrease during the eighties?
Many evacuated to get away from the horrors.
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Has anyone ever told you that your love is sweet, like a honeybee, but like a honeybee stings you've gone and left me?
No; fortunately I stopped talking to him before it got to that point.
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Define: 'intellectual bukkake'
Brainwashing?
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What is the pyschology behind the moustache?
Ah, you have hit upon one of the most discussed topics among the psychologists and historians of today. Some debate that it is the attempt to replicate a vagina, au natural. Other adamantly insist that it is the semi-permanent equivalent to the body language that comes with lying -- covering your mouth, touching your nose, etc. And yet others -- me amongst them -- agree that heavily moustached...
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My friend and I have been really good friends for the past year, I count her as one of the best friends I have ever had. She understands me and everything. We have no trouble being open with each other etc. Would a relationship be a bad idea?
If your friend seems to like you back, go ahead. I dated my best friend for two years and it went very well -- we broke up in the end because we had lost the romantic feelings for each other, but after about a month of oddness, we got back to being best friends as if nothing happened.
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(I am not in this situation, I just wondered what other people's opinions were) Have you ever known anyone who sexually molested a teen and they never got caught? If you did would you turn them into the police if the family of the teen asked you not to?
Once when I was twelve, my best friend went to her neighbour's house and he tried to molest her (fortunately, she ran away before he could do much). Neither of us ever reported it... there is so much abuse around where I live, and nobody except for the victims cares, it's sad and depressing.
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Are you older or younger than your partner, and by how much?
Younger. For about three months he is 3 years older than me, but then my birthday comes and it's two years.
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How do you feel about used gifts? Not just regifted junk, I mean things like vintage jewelry, discontinued collectibles, or a first edition book. Do you think a gift should always be new?
No, I like used things, like odd and cool things you find in thrift stores and so on.
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How can atheistic ugly girl cope with life ? I just cant understand, how can teenager ugly crippled female without faith live happyly.
Ugly is a matter of opinion. Perhaps she doesn't find herself ugly, or she does but is relatively happy anyway. Faith has nothing to do with it, and there are thousands of people who live very happily without any religious convictions.
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Are you a Omnivore, Herbivore, or Carnivore?
Herbivore. Well, for the most part -- I eat Altoids, and those contain gelatin...
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What is something women do more often than men?
Have periods, I'd imagine.
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Are guys more addicted to sex than girls?
No. Sex drives vary from person to person, regardless of gender, guys are just taught to talk about it more.
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Why do men look for a challenge in every girl?
Do they? I wasn't aware that all men are exactly alike.
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My girlfriend watch porn, just like me, and i dont like her watching it. Although my fren watch too, but it seems perfectly alright for me. But when i imagine her watching it on her com at home, i feel uncomfortable and weird. what should i do?
Get educated on women's sexuality in order to feel more comfortable with it.
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His made me cry. Do you get upset when animals are hurt? Or do you look the other way?
I get very upset.
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I love my wife deeply and miss her every second she is gone but My question is. is it normal to look at other women and imagine yourself having sex with them? Sometimes I think about cheating on her but I never do, should we seek out therapy or should I?
Well, I think it's normal to have fantasies, and it's fairly normal to want sex if your partner isn't there. However, if you feel you might cheat on her, why don't you talk to her about it? Do you think if you could connect with her sexually in some way, even though she is not there (from what I gather, she is not), like through phone sex or something, you would not consider...
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My BF smokes skunk from when he gets up in the morning to late in the night. I know he has to want to cut back for himself, but how can I help?
Help him be busy to occupy his mind, provide emotional support. Though in the end, it's him who has to help himself.
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My husband is addicted to opiates. He promised he would quit and did for a while. he lies to me and sneaks. I find pills hidden. He says he will get help, I dont believe him. We have not even been married a year!! I feel so alone and dont know what to do!
Ugh. I've been addicted to opiates -- well, Lortabs -- before, after an accident, but after two extra weeks or so of taking them, I noticed the withdrawal symptoms coming on every day and I realized I was addicted and quit, though it was hard. Is it possible to get your husband any support, if he refuses to look for it himself? Opiates make you feel really good, which must be why he...
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I tried pot once and now my veins ache for it. I really feel dead since I do not know how to get more or even what to do. Can you help me?
Your VEINS? Erm... if you are that upset about not having pot, maybe there's something wrong in your life and you should work on improving it. Or you have depression... or perhaps that pot was laced with something, because pot is not physically addictive.
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What do you think would happen if I just ignored my controls and started giving into to my impulses to suck my thumb, even in public? I'm an adult.
Nothing... well, I wouldn't care anyway.
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A headline on Yahoo right now is: "Train your boyfriend using animal tricks". If it was instead: "Train your girlfriend using animal tricks" would a lot of women get upset?
Actually, I'm a woman and either one would piss me off pretty badly. It's insulting to human intelligence, and I don't understand why there's such a disconnect between so many men and women (which is usually full of stereotypes like "nagging prude of a wife" and "lazy slob of a husband") and why so many people encourage it. Don't they have opposite...
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I am 15 and my dad is now in jail for molesting and raping me. I am addicted to sex and pleasure because he taught me to want it all the time and that it was okay. Should I tell someone what I am addicted to or what?
I think any sexual problems you have are going to be tied up with other crap caused by what he's done to you. I suggest you get some general support, like a therapist who specializes in these sorts of things.
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What do you do when your S/O says.."Sorry Honey...We can't do it tonight"?
I would be ok with it, maybe ask him how come. Obviously I may have some pent up sexualness, but I can take care of that myself, and I'm not going to blame my SO for it or pressure him into doing it. Consent is sexy. :P
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I am not a Christian but my girlfriend is. She believes in God's Will and she feels she is moving further and further away from becasue i am all she thinks about now and not God, and she now feels she needs to end us, what should i do?
If I were you I would let her go. Not only is she going too be unhappy if you stay together, but it seems she would rather not be with anyone due to her devotion (or whatever it is) to her religion. If she can't have priorities in life other than her religion without getting freaked out, I think you would have to sacrifice too much for comfort to stay with her.
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Does anyone know any natural cures for strep throat? I get it a lot and I hate medication. Thanks!
Lemons
Honey
Marshmallow (herb, not confection)
Fennel
Anise seed
Horehound
Slippery Elm
Hyssop
Honeysuckle
Elderberries (if you use those, I'd recommend you make them into a syrup first, I hear eating them raw can cause a bit of indigestion and so on)
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Oye chica, would you like a tamale?
If it has crushed Lortabs in it... maybe then my cramps will go away. The Magic Tamale!
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What do you think of this statement? "Abortion is premeditated murder"
I think it's stupid.
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What is the last book you' ve read to completion? Did you learn something from reading it?
The Handmaid's Tale (re-reading, more like).
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Why do clots come out when your on your period
Just bits of old uterine tissue, nothing to worry about.
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Attacks continue on Romanians in Northern Ireland. Why is racism so often accepted when aimed at Gypsies? See LINK:
Because people are stupid, I have lost faith in the majority of them long ago. And Ireland is not exactly known for tolerance. :(
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We were both really excited when we thought we had a baby on the way i am almost 18 and have a good job car and about to move out of my moms house into an appt wit my boyfriend he is 19, i really wana be pregnant how do i get pregnant quick? were ready =]
By having unprotected sex.
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If your stepmother beat your mind and body every day, relentlessly, as you were growing up and now, 20 years later, she's trying to make up for it, would you forgive her or hate her still until the day you died?
No, I would not forgive her, at least knowing myself today. I could be nice to her, I suppose, but it's likely I would not want to contact her very much. And I think that's just fine.
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Ladies, What are some of your tricks to losing weight and keeping it off?
-Being poor
-Satisfaction with your body no matter what weight it is currently
-Exercise
Personally, I think it's better to be healthy than skinny (those two don't always go together).
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Im a single mom iam 19 years old and i got drunk at this party a couple of weeks ago it was my first time getting that wasted!!But i have this friend who keeps on telling me that im a bad mom i was just haveing fun? So does that really make me a bad mom?
As long as your child was with a competent babysitter it doesn't matter. And if it wasn't, well, it wasn't the most responsible thing to do, but it hardly makes you a bad mom unless you do it alll the time and neglect your child, which it doesn't sound like.
I know this is an old question, but I saw a lot of answerers were being jerks and I wanted to give my less jerky...
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How important is money in your life right now?
Very, because I don't have any.
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I just found out that my bf doesn't think people are all equil. I'm a firm believer that nothing makes anyone better than anyone else. Do you think a relationship could work like this?
It could, but it would just be very difficult at times. Me and my bf hold very different views about racism and misogyny -- I am a feminist and generally against discrimination, and he grew up in the South surrounded by attitudes that are absolutely appalling to me. We get on well, but occasionally we get into pretty heated arguments.
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Do you have ugly children?
I would tell you if I could see them, but unfortunately I would need a microscope to look at eggs.
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Are liquor stores open on Sundays where you live?
I live in Georgia. That should be answer enough.
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What do you associate with wine?
Cheese, a certain cult, a guy named Steve, and my parents (well, my mom and now ex-stepfather).
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What are some natural ways to cleanse and detoxify my body?
Er, taking a shower? And pooping.
Your body is naturally as clean on the inside as a body is going to get, there is no need to "detoxify" it.
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Have you ever been in a play? Who did you play?
"Eleanor" Scrooge (they changed him into a girl since I was playing him), with which I had a lot of fun collapsing and crying regretfully, then some person from Midsummer Night's Dream, then an evil stepmother. I was in drama club in middle school.
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My friends used to drink they started now only they drink beer they r compell me to drink along with them i want to be a good person bcos i want to keep up the faith that my parents i used to be there at the place with them but how can i not drink pl hlp
If you don't want to drink beer, tell them to bugger off, it tastes horrible anyway. However, drinking beer has nothing to do with being a good person.
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Can a cheap meal be a good meal as well?
Yup. Macaroni + canned crushed tomatoes + spices + mozzarella = yum.
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I hate doughnuts. Is there anything you hate that most people around you like?
Cupcakes (with very few exceptions) -- just bland cakes with overly sugary icing that makes me feel like I'm about to become diabetic on the spot. Doughnuts are halfway ok, I suppose. Meat, oreos, peanut butter, pancakes, waffles, most fast food-ish pizzas, etc, etc. Actually, I think if you just asked my boyfriend about the foods he likes, his answer will be my answer for this question....
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What makes you "odd" or "different" or "special?"
I am Russian, vegetarian, bisexual, and atheist, and a feminist. And I like books, gasp. Where I live, that makes me extremely odd and different (dunno about special, most people around here seem to think I am a leper of some sort).
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So I know some people who "claim" to be bisexual, but I think it is just an excuse to mistreat women... which is done quite often by the one I'm speaking of... What's up with this?
Excuse me? I don't remember ever mistreating women because of my bisexuality.
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Me and my girlfriend been together 4 years now she is 23 im 38 she is bisexual im lesbian we fight constantly her attitude my insecurities i love her but i know it will never be what i want in a women because of her being bisexual
Huh? What, are you convinced that because she is bisexual she will want an extra guy or something? Wanting an open relationship doesn't have anything to do with bisexuality.
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Why do some guys say it's okay for girls to be lesbians/bisexuals, but it's not okay for guys to be bisexual or gay? It's the same thing.. anyone agree?
Because people, in this case some guys, think that everything in the world depends on what they are sexually attracted to. It is quite annoying ( On that note, as a bisexual girl I'm sick of guys assuming that I will make out with a girl for them or something -- anytime I've made out with a girl, it was because we liked each other, not because we wanted to turn someone on) And yes, I...
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Bisexuals Dating Bisexuals?
After reading through quite a few threads from a bi site findbilover.com, I'm aware that some lesbians prefer not to date bisexual women, why?
Unfortunately, even in the lesbian and gay community you will find misconceptions and bigoted attitudes about bisexuality.
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Why do women wear bra's is it for Society or the public to look good for others or for personal comfort or Vanity to look a certain way in shirts and tops? If you dont wear a bra in public how will people react and would you care what they thought?
Women may wear bras for any of these reasons:
For comfort
To look good
To not have their nipples poke through or because the shirt irritates them
To not be called a "slut" or some other derogatory name used by people who find women somehow offensive
To not have their breasts stared at
They may not wear bras because:
It feels more comfortable
It feels less confining
They...
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Girls/ladies, please tell us the guys/men, what do you like and how you be treated like queens, so that you happy and we happy.
I don't want to be treated like a queen, I wanted to be treated like a respected equal. I think the best relationships are those in which you can keep up interesting conversations and have chemistry.
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Why aren't you married yet? How do you react?
I am 17 and also I am against the social constructs of marriage, at least when pertaining to myself. If someone else is getting married, I will congratulate them and be happy for them, but for myself, I don't feel like I have to get married to prove that me and my SO love each other.
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What are some free online games that I can play to reduce my Answerbag addiction?
I've always liked Submachine, myself.
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You complement someone on someting like "I like your purse",and they response back by saying "Thanks,too bad you won't ever afford it" what would you say?
I'd say, "That's ok, I only said it because I figured even someone with your looks needs to be complimented SOME time."
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Have you ever cut your own hair? Did you do a good job on it or did you screw it up and have to stay indoors until it grew back again?
Yes, I do it all the time. Comes out quite fine.
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Name one thing you will find in your kitchen
Vinegar.
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Any tips on how to help me overcome cutting myslef? I really want to stop cutting. The main reason is because it happens on impulse when I feel depressed or just really overwhelmed. Last time I cut was about 5 or 3 days ago. Help.
Well, for one, if your depression is situational, try to get away from what is making you stressed. Also, try and find other ways to deal with it -- punching things (but not people, preferably), singing, etc.
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The other night, when me and my girlfriend were having a bit of sex, she tried to stick her finger up my bum. I nearly hit the roof! I mean, what am I supposed to think of a girl who'd want to do that?
Oh dear. Is your hand developing a mind of its own and taking you out to dates?
Your prostate is sticking its head out and eating your arse. Like a wrinkly, hairless bat. That is what you should think.
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How can I stop a cake from sticking to the cakepan?
Oil it or use baking paper.
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Two years ago I was raped by a boyfriend, and I've been insecure ever since. My new boyfriend of 1 year looks at porn which makes me feel even more insecure. I can't trust him to stop, though he said he would. What can I do?
I know this question is old, but I'm going to answer it anyway, for the benefit of the questioner or anyone else in a similar situation...
Well, of course I would recommend counseling, first off.
From what I've seen, there's plenty of porn that seems creepy and/or degrading; if you want you can try and find some non-degrading porn (made by people who actually enjoy...
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A question about rape? rape is when someone has sex with u even tho u dont want to. and sex feels good. so even tho u dont want tht person to be having sex with u, wouldnt it still feel good b/c its like sex?
Sex doesn't always feel good, especially during rape. Arousal sometimes happens during rape, but this is because it's your body's typical response and it's not something controlled by your mind. If you didn't want it to happen, it's rape.
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How is it possible for a woman to rape a man, and not statutory rape?
By holding him down and doing it when he doesn't want to.
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If rape isn't about sex, how come we don't get women going around raping people with dildos? Or do we?
Women rape, but it seems that they just do it less and it's under-reported. Because of our culture's gender stereotypes, most men aren't eager to talk about that sort of thing.
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It seems castration is popularly favored as a method of punishment for raping a child, but less so as punishment for raping an adult. Do you agree? If so, why?
I know it seems like the perfect solution to many, but the fact is, not having genitals won't stop someone from raping again (and not all rapists are men, either). I read once about a girl being raped with a pair of chopsticks, castration wouldn't solve anything there.
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Do you think is dumb for a teenage girl who was raped to stay queit about the rape,when the suspect goes to the same school as her?
Ugh, no, it's self defense. She shouldn't be held responsible for being RAPED. When you are raped, you don't particularly want to tell people, especially if you do at one point and no one believes you, or calls you a slut or something, and even if you take it to court he won't necessarily get convicted. Reporting it is a brave thing to do, but I am not going to blame the...
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I was conversing with a friend about different kinds of rape, and he insisted male rape doesn't exist. Does anyone else agree with him? And (of course) why?
Oh christ. Of course male rape exists; the event of rape isn't choosy for gender. It can be male on female, male on male, female on male, or female on female. Still rape.
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I am a person who loves sex, but I am unable to have an orgasm unless I masturbate. My wife was almost raped once, and now two years after we have been having sex regularly she cannot have sex without feeling like it's almost rape. What do we do?
As everyone has said, counseling, and also, in my experience as someone with PTSD it would help if you let her take control of the situation (like have her initiate it instead of you and so on). Also, make it very clear that any time she feels the slightest discomfort, you will stop. If she doesn't feel like having sex with you and you want to masturbate, I think maybe it would help her to...
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Is it okay to fantasize about rape but then think that when someone is really raped it wrong?
Of course! Dominance/submission sort of fantasies and relationship is very different from actual rape.
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Your partner starts having sex with you while you are asleep - a few people I know dared to call it rape, some downgraded it to "a form of violation" or something akin to rape, but not rape. What do you think?
I'd suppose it would depend on the particular relationship and the people's boundaries. Personally, I would only be into it if I asked him to do it previously (and vice versa); otherwise the consent is undetermined until the person wakes up, which doesn't sound too great to me.
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Rape is always a terrible thing, but I'd rather it were me than a child, a virgin or an elderly person. Anyone agree?
No, I would rather it be nobody. I've been raped already and I wouldn't wish it on even my worst enemy.
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Is dying your hair supposed to sting your head, or does it happen to people with sensitive skin?
Sensitivity can be it, but you also have to keep in mind that most dyes are pretty chemically, and sometimes you have to bleach your hair first, which technically isn't very good for your hair. Or you could have an allergy to an ingredient.
If you're trying to get a natural looking colour, I recommend henna -- you can often combine it with indigo to get various shades of red or...
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What site are you on right now besides Answerbag?
Etsy and Pandagon.
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What is your take on breast implants?
If someone wants them, well, whatever makes them happy, but I also think it's a sign of how crappy our culture is -- they need to get used to breasts however they look naturally. Also, I would be concerned, because while there are breast implants that are safer than silicone (since it can poison you), doctors apparently don't always tell their patients about it.
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When something is made fresh and is described in just the right way, doesn't it always sound so much better than the mass-produced foods that we eat so much of?
Quite. Well, except for my bread. All the times I've tried to make it, it came out... questionable.
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I was spank when i was younger, now that i'm older i'm grateful, because those spankings saved me from a lot, i think the reason most kids are ungrateful about getting spanked is because the law is on their side do you agree or disagree?
No, I'd imagine they are ungrateful because it hurt and/or because they didn't understand why someone who claimed to love them spanked them and/or it didn't change a thing.
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Which country have you spent most your life in?
Russia and US pretty equally, though possibly a year or two more in the US. I dunno.
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How does this sound to you as an appetizer.......fresh sliced ripe mangoes w/goat cheese and topped w/walnuts.....drizzled w/a good balsamic vinegar?
Hmm... it sounds odd, but like it might be quite good. I dunno if I'd be able to eat much of it, though, as I have a pretty fast acting allergy to walnuts (not too horrible, but my tongue gets painful and swollen).
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Is gin medicinal?
Depends on how you use it. I's imagine alcohol can help with shock and the such, and it's well known for taking away anxiety. :P Also, you could make a tincture using it.
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To the females of AB. Is the term MILF derogatory to you in any way?
Yeah, if you find someone attractive you don't have to go around talking about how "fuckable" they are, and the term seems to have been made up by someone who lives by the belief that once someone has children, they can't be attractive as a person, just as a "mother". Blegh.
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The National Organization for Women placed Letterman in its "media hall of shame." for make a joke on Sarah Palin's daughter, why is there no National Organization for Men, he would have got away if it was Palin's son?
Because men don't have a history of being suppressed, I'd imagine.
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I'm 15, and I am disgusted with the way my generation is, in almost every way. Does anyone else feel ashamed and embarrassed? I feel a bit alone on this.
I used to be, but then I realized most adults have the qualities I dislike as well. So now I just dislike most people. :P
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Ive had a few gf's before but No-one seems to like me anymore btw im 12. im stuck what do i do to get a girl to like me
Dearie, you aren't going to get many lasting girlfriends at 12, and whether people like you is mostly luck rather than your own doing. If someone doesn't like you, you can't make them.
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Whats better do YOU think? Muffins, cupcakes or cookies?
Cookies, particularly shortbread.
Cupcakes are usually a bit too sweet tasting for me... with an exception of a few.
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Is it OK if a guy touches you?( and you're not going out with him)
Sexually? Unless it was done with your very obvious permission (like, "Yes! Fondle meeeeee!" or something), no.
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Do you think kids below 14 or even 18 for that matter really NEED their own phone?or is it just a want?
I'm under 18 and I need a cell phone. And yes, I do NEED it, seeing as I don't have a house phone.
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My bf started drinking shortly after our friend died. I had broken up with him around that time. We're back together but he keeps on drinking. i've tried telling him that alcohol/drugs don't solve problems. he still does them. how can i stop this?
Well, you can't control what he does and change him, but you can point him to an AA program or a counselor.
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The water is raising and you are told to get out. What, other that your partner, children and pets, what is the first thing you will grab and take?
My bookcases. Somehow. I don't care how, but I'd take them.
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My huband does not want to watch our kids while I work ...he wants me to quit my job that I worked so hard to get and I really like what I do what do u think?
I think I do not like your husband, even though I don't know him.
Ask him why he doesn't want to watch them, he only has to for four hours and it won't kill him.
If all else fails, hire a babysitter.
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My relationship has changed drastically. I feel like my bf doesn't take our relationship seriously.I feel like he isn't trying anymore and like he's distant.Emotionally and personally. When I tell him this, he just blows it off. What can I do to help us?
Sit down and ask him why he is doing it, and if he is unwilling to change maybe it's time to move on, because you can't do all the work in a relationship.
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At what age did you have your first crush?
4 or 5.
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Are you a drinker, puffer or smoker?
Smoker, definitely.
Though I occasionally have a small drink.
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Do you eat when you're feeling , depressed, angry, anxious, or stressed?
I used to. I'm on Welbutrin now for my smoking (it doesn't do much to prevent depression), and it makes me have an aversion to food, so I want to eat but at the same time I can't be fucked to.
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Every little girl has a fantasy husband, for all you married women, is your husband like your childhood dreams?
Do they? I must be a boy, then.
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Hey ladies, who was your worst boyfriend ever? Why? are they on AB?
The one before this one, seeing as he was kind of rapey and an a misogynist asshole. But maybe he will fall into a pothole and starve. :)
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My girlfriend is jealous because of me hanging out with other girls, so i tend to do it less often now...i basically do it because i love her...is this an okay thing for a teenage relationship?
No, it's not good for any relationship. It's a controlling attitude and jealousy never makes a relationship better.
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Does it seem very strange that the man who killed Dr. Tiller actually receives supportive letters to his jail cell for his outright murder of another human being?
No, unfortunately, but it is very angering and discouraging for those who want to believe that the world is better than it really is. Both the killer and the people who condone the act are horrible people in my eyes.
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Is six weeks into a new relationship too soon to be sleeping together more often than apart (ie 4-5 nights together, 2 apart)?
It depends on how you feel, not on the time. If you are uncomfortable with it, by all means, talk to him/her about it.
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If you have 100 friends or more what do you call them? (supporters,fans,soldiers,etc)
Annoying.
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Should a person be able to commit suicide if there severely depressed?
It's not for me to decide, or for anyone else but them.
Sometimes all medications fail, and nothing changes, and no one knows how to help anymore.
I dunno.
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Susan Boyle has reportedly been admitted to a clinic to be assessed under the Mental Health act. Do you think the Print Media is to blame?
Could be, if they were writing mean things... and I'm sure it's depressing to read what thousands of people think of you, since I'd imagine you'd start feeling like you have nothing private anymore. Poor lady.
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What age do you think teenagers should be allowed make up their minds about going to mass or staying at home, instead of being forced to go by parents/guardians.....?
As early as possible. Religion shouldn't be forced on anyone.
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What is blooming in your garden this June 2009?
Well, my Bee Balm is on the verge of blooming, and I have about a thousand yellow flowers in my lawn that are similar to dandelions, but are tall.
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For pasta lovers everywhere,Tomato or Pesto?
Pesto!
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What's a recipe for pesto without nuts (pine nuts, almonds, etc.)?
Just exclude the nuts from a normal recipe. :P Pine nuts are expensive and I tend to be allergic to nuts anyway, so I exclude them from the recipe, and I just throw stuff in until it tastes right.
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If you found out that someone who you chat with regularly through comments and questions on AB spent some time in a maximum security prison for some past offense, would you think poorly of them all of a sudden?
Depends on what they did. The only thing that would definitely change my opinion of them for the worse is if it was for rape.
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When you are shopping, what irritates you most: not finding the product you want, no one around to help you, cost of product, or fill in the blank________?
No one being around to help me. In the fabric section of our store, the sales people are supposed to measure the fabric out for you and attach a price (with some sort of a machine), but the people of that department are never around so each time I've gotten fabric I had to wait for about 30 minutes or repeatedly calling the manager and finally the manager giving up and coming over and...
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Ok serious Question here no sexism Please... What percentage of women play simple or stupid when they are extremely bright not to scare men or their husband or boy friend away?
nfortunately, a lot of women probably do it, and the ones that do usually have an asshole boyfriends and grew up with everyone telling them what a "real woman/wife" should be like or some BS. THAT's sexism; unfortunately a lot of people don't realize this because they grew up with it. It makes me quite angry when I see other women acting this way -- if a guy is scared away...
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My mom really hurts me alot. I cut myself and sometimes i think about suicide so much that it's getting to me! I dont want to die but i keep like feelin like no one cares for or even loves me.Am learnin to love myself, but my self esteem is always lowered
I know how you feel, I was in the same situation when I lived with my parents.
Look up your state laws -- in some states, you can move out at 17, or get emancipated. Is it possible for you to stay with a relative for a while?
If she is physically hurting you, you can call the police, but if it's verbally it's a lot harder to get people to believe you (at least in my experience)....
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"Jesus Christ!" "Oh My God!" "For God's Sake!" "Holy S..t!" Why do so many exclamations involve Christianity & Do you use these exclamations often?
Because the church has been converting people for about a million years, and now it's caught on and even non religious people say it.
I like to say things like "Holy Jesus Christ's pantyhose!" they're a lot more fun.
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I am 24 years old and I am always in pain. My back, neck legs.....basically ALL my joints. Do you think this could be due to me not being active enough and sitting at a computer desk at work all day or do you think I may have athritis?
Could be either one. Or maybe you have fibromyalgia, if you are depressed as well.
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Do Dikes/Lesbian not like to wear perfume or is this just a sterotype?
"dikes"? Do you mean "dykes"? What are you, a frat boy?
Why don't you go out into the real world and meet some lesbians, and then decide for yourself.
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How does one anally penetrate a cheese?
Develop intense hemorrhoids.
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Is Hell just a fear-mongering, man-made concept?
Yes.
Do you know, I just read the other day about a priest who thought it out and decided hell just doesn't make sense if you believe in a loving god, and it's all a scare tactic. I'm not religious, but I admire him for questioning his religion and coming to such a logical conclusion. :P
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Do you think all public bathrooms should be unisex? They have them in the college dormitories.
I don't really care.
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An intruder is trying to break into your home. You have a license to possess a firearm. You are cocked and aimed at your doorway. Once they enter, would you warn them, shoot to mame, or. . . . . . .shoot to kill? Could you do it unwaveringly?
Maim, I suppose, but I'd imagine I'd be so panicky that I wouldn't really be thinking about that.
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There's been a lot of negativity, distrust, and emotional uproar on the Bag lately. Can you take a moment to say some kind words about an AB'er who has made a REAL impact on your life?
Hmm... well, there's Perfectly Flawed, who I met on AB, I talk to her on MSN and she often made me feel better when I was depressed and she is a very understanding person; then there's, er... actually, I'm not sure what his current AB name is, he changes it a lot, but it used to be Sakhalinski, and then it was Harry something something... anyway, I talk to him on MSN as well, and...
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What is your honest opinion on England and/or Britain as a whole?
They are obsessed with calling red haired people "gingers", and they seem to have less religious bigots than the US.
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Do you have a second home?
Yes, my home in Russia.
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Why would someone who owns a time machine ever be in a rush?
To stop someone from destroying it?
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Why do people still read books now that we have TV?
TV bores and annoys me. Also, with books, you can choose tons of different feelings and genres...
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You are doing some computer work on a computer. You stumble across naked pictures of the customers wife on his hard drive. Do you look?
No, I generally like to act towards other people as I'd like them to act towards me. Not only are you invading his privacy, but you are looking at someone's naked pictures who would probably not want you to. It's an asshole-ish thing to do, in my opinion.
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If nigga is such a racial term to African Americans, then why do they still use it? Shouldn't we just forget the word and move on?
It's a psychological thing, taking back a derogatory name. I'd imagine it's like if you were called a bitch or an asshole all your life by an abusive family member; a lot of people, later in life, would half jokingly refer to themselves in that manner because it would make them feel more in control of it, but would mind someone else calling them that.
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Why do women complain about men not raising the toilet seat when we pee? If you want it up, leave it up and put it down when you need to sit.
I thought it was the other way? putting the seat down after you do it?
And if someone is complaining about you not raising the seat, you must be peeing on it... and I think anyone would have a problem with that, man or woman.
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Do you think it is selfish and ridiculous that a woman has an abortion because she says she can't bear to give her child up for adoption because that would be giving up her child?
No, it's perfectly understandable. First of all, nobody should be shamed for having an abortion, and second of all, why don't you try being in her shoes and seeing how you feel.
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Do you think that if there were more women than men this world would be a better place?
No, I think the world would be a better place if they got along better.
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How many men on AB could care less about most sports, like I do?
My boyfriend doesn't care. Which is fortunate, as I don't care either (though I did like horseback riding, when I took lessons).
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Good girls sleep alone. So what do you fellas think of that?
I think that's BS... sex is not naturally "bad", and women are often pressured to think the opposite, to either be "sluts" or virgins. I prefer to have a more healthy attitude towards sex, myself.
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What would the earth be like without humans?
Beautiful.
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What will you do if your girlfriend or boyfriend turns out to be a transsexual?
Support him fully, but I would worry about why he didn't tell me earlier in the relationship.
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If a girl (or guy) is just a Booty Call or Friend With Benefits to you, would you be flattered if they showed jealousy about others who were interested in you? Or would that bother you? Would you only like their jealousy if you had feelings for them too?
I would be flattered, particularly if I had some feelings for them -- well, unless they showed jealousy purposely and tried to be possessive or something -- but if it was getting that personal, I would talk to them either about getting into a romantic relationship or breaking our sexual relationship off.
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Am I wrong to still be paranoid? The stalker was put in jail 18 years ago. He got out 3 years ago and the law lost track of him about a year ago.
Well... I would be worried. :/ Could you pressure the authorities to find him and keep track of him?
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Is it normal for an Exboyfriend to ask you not to talk to or befriend his friends? Is it normal for him to get upset with you if you do befriend one of his female friends?
Sounds a bit suspicious to me, like he's trying to hide something from this female friend of his.
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What would you do if you're partner asked you: "Wouldn't it be great to bring somone else into our relationship?"
I would ask him for what purpose he wants to bring someone else into it (love? sex? boredom?) and whom; ask if this he really wants this or whether this is just because of something in our relationship, and if it's not the latter, I'd tell them I'll think about it taking into account what he said.
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Name one thing you Waste Money on.
Food (particularly snacks, like kimchi or shortbread cookies), books, and cigarettes.
If I could, I would purchase about a million books (and also a ton of things from Etsy).
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I have orgasms off and on all day and night for no reason. i can be reading a book, sitting in a chair talking to friends, watching tv, etc. and will have orgasms. some stronger than others and sometimes very soft ones.is there something wrong with me?
I know I've heard or read about that before, but I can't find the article anymore. The closest thing I could find to it now was this: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Persistent_sexual_arousal_syndrome
and
http://www.mymultiplesclerosis.co.uk/misc/orgasms.html
I hope this helps -- I'd imagine it's quite annoying to have random orgasms while you're doing something unrelated.
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Do men find overweight women attractive?
There are plenty that do.
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Is it ultra-gay to have a girlfriend and hang out with a girl all the time?
"Ultra-gay"? What are you, 6?
No.
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Would you support the "Say NO To Plastic Bags" campaign in your community?
I would if it existed. I have more plastic bags than I know what to do with.
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Are men and women equalls?
Yes. Unfortunately, they are not always treated this way.
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I am a fully committed and devoted Christian.My walk with God is good and I was not sure who to turn to about this so I randomly picked you.My situation is that my grandpa past away a few weeks ago and he was a buddhist.While I am a Christian and I believ
Well, imagine if the situation was reversed and it was you who died and your grandfather had to take care of your funeral. Would you rather him follow his beliefs, or yours? If you would rather him go with yours, then it would probably be more respectful to go with his.
And I'm sorry your grandpa passed away.
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If you could only have 3 Movies in your movie collection, which 3 movies would it be?
Hmm... That's hard.
Heavenly Creatures
Heathers
Cabaret
But I'll probably change my mind in about 5 minutes.
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I took my cild to see several movies over the holidays. She liked all of them but her favorite was Ben Stiller's movie. I believe the title is "Night in the Museum". What is your (or your child's) favorite children's movie?
When I was little, I was absolutely obsessed with "My Neighbour Totoro" and "Fairy Tale: A True Story". I used to watch the former every single day, for a while. Then it was "Secret of Roan Inish" and the lesser known version of "Secret Garden".
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Does anyone really mean that they like people despite appearance?
Yes. I've had the experience of not finding someone too attractive, but having them seem more attractive to me later because I liked their personality or we had "chemistry", as people call it. And vice versa.
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Why do people say that a carbonated beverage will help with an upset stomach? My stomach is so queezy I've drank a 20oz. of Sprite and I still feel like I'm gonna throw up. No helping here.
Maybe they meant ginger ale? That's supposed to help with nausea, although most ginger ale you find nowadays doesn't actually have any ginger in it.
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What is it when a girl uses the bathroom and when she wipes on the tissue is white thick slimy stuff?
Just regular vaginal secretions. Or could be you're ovulating. Either way, it's quite normal.
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Whats a cheap but delicious dinner I could fix tonight?
Pasta salad:
Pasta
Salt & pepper
Tiny tomatoes
Olives
Olive oil
vinegar
Whatever else you feel like throwing in.
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Meat, vegetables or both?
Vegetables. And cheese. And then chocolate afterwards. :D
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What things do you think men don't understand about women? What don't women understand about men?
Both genders don't realize that they are more similar than different, and that just because the other gender has a certain set of genitals and whatnot doesn't mean they have to fit into a mold.
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Why do organic food cost more?
Because it takes more effort to grow it. For an example, take meat... the reason non-free range and so on meat costs less is because the corn they feed it is very cheap -- they can just stuff them full of corn and other stuff and sell them. On the other hand if a cow eats grass, it's healthier, but I think it takes longer for it to be ready for the market, and it costs money to keep it...
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You see a couple holding hands walking down a street. The man is older, in his 50's, fit and thin. The woman is younger, 20's, and heavier. What do you think?
Why, am I supposed to think something in particular?
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What plants are safe to eat?
What, like wild ones? Err.. chickweed, dandelions, strawberries, elderberries, blackberries, raspberries, plantains, baby cattails and their rhizomes... really, you could fill up a book with all the plants that are edible. :P
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In the church you hear many people say that they do not know how people in the world (non Christians) make it without Christ. So, if you are not a Christian, how do you make it? What sustains you ? How do you make it?
That's kind of ignorant of them to say, IMO.
I rely on myself, and, to a lesser extent, on my friends and boyfriend to cheer me up and provide me with advice when I need it. And I am sustained by food. :P
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I opened my wrist up with a butcher's knife today and I think I may have cut through to the tendon. I was able to control the bleeding substantially, but I can hardly move my hand now. I can't afford a doc right now and I need some help. What should I do?
Ugh, stupid expensive hospitals. Are you sure you can't get help from anyone as far as paying for it?
If not... well...
I think the best I can advise you (not being a doctor) is that you HAVE to keep it clean and change the dressing often. You could stitch your would up, but then again your wrist might be injured from the inside -- though since you can't afford a doc you won't...
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How many sweets did you eat today?
Half a box of those Rafaello ball thingies. They're crazy good, but that amount of sugar tends to make me feel a bit ill. But still, yum.
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What product should be taken off the market?
Stuff containing High Fructose Corn Syrup, MSG, and other creepy unhealthy things. I can tell when something had HFCS in it because I start feeling sick-ish and get a headache (and also by the taste). And I'm tired of finding it in places where it shouldn't be. And as far as MSG goes, I like the tiny amounts I get from mushrooms and so on, not the bizarre, concentrated,...
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Why do Asian women pursue White men more than other ethnic women pursue white men?
Wooo, stereotypes!
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Girls, when you bend over for something, do you get pissed when a man looks down your top or up your skirt?
Yes! Unless it was really an accident (though he'd have to be pretty convincing) But if he was trying to do it, he's certainly not going to get my approval.
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I have about 2 lbs of fresh cherries, what can i make with them?
Hmmm... cherry pie, cherry wine, cherry cordial, cherry ricotta muffins, cherry syrup, cherry preserves... er... that's all I can think of right now.
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If your partner woke you up at 3am wanting to take a long drive just to "get out of the house", would you do it?
Probably, I have nothing else to do. :P Well, except sleeping, but why would I be asleep at 3 AM, anyway?
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I started a Victory Garden today with Beefsteak tomatoes and potatoes. Next week I will plant lettuce. Do you have a garden and what do you grow to eat?
Sweet peas. I am also growing some culinary and medicinal herbs.
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I am doing a reasearch on creativity among teenagers. Could you tell me how many teenagers you know you think scrapbook? Proportionally? A lot, not so many? Is it a hobby, just a way to kill time? Please be as exact as possible!
I think if you are doing research on creativity, you should include other crafts in it. I don't know any teenagers who scrapbook, but I know many (myself included) that sew, make jewelry, draw, etc.
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Do you know someone who has or had a Cuckoo clock?
My grandparents and some of their friends do.
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Do you think people are going over board with homeopathic remedies recently? Why do they think modern medicine is evil? Is it b/c of homeopathic brands using advertising that contains that propaganda? Human and pet medicine wise, I mean.
I just think it's funny, considering the philosophy of homeopathy is to get all the active ingredients out of the base -- for an example, if you get some sort of a "homeopathic" herbal sleeping pill, it will only contain about 0.00000000000000000001% of the substance.
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Who is the most important person in your life?
Me.
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Does menstruation gross you out? Why or why not?
No, because I get it, and anyway it's just blood.
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What do you think about "virtual child porn"? Should it be legal or illegal? (virtual child porn includes cartoon drawings, young-looking adults etc - no real children involved)
This is an interesting question. I think some studies should be done on whether looking at virtual child porn would prevent someone who is a pedophile from acting on his/her desires and hurting children. A lot of people say the solution for child molesters and rapists is to cut off their genitals, but they will still have that frame of mind and they can always rape with something else. So if...
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Why can't we have immunity to negative thoughts?
Because sometimes negative thoughts are what shows you that something is wrong in your life, much like the nerves in your skin warn you of pain, and they can cause you to move forward in life and gain experience.
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Despite the best efforts of our schools, if Dad hates others ethnicities, will Junior probably do, too?
Yes. I live in Georgia, and I have met loads of people who are otherwise smart -- but racist. It really angers me.
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Are you earth friendly?
Somewhat. I try to be, though it's hard because I live in a place with no recycling and only one store around: Walmart.
Meh.
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Is there any ginger in ginger ale nowadays?
Only in select brands, you probably wouldn't find them in a mainstream supermarket.
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So what are people planting in gardens this 2009 season?
I planted Skullcap, Nettles, an Evening Primrose, some culinary herbs, and some sweet peas.
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Girls do you like when your s/o calls you Baby?
Not me. Fortunately, he doesn't, he calls me sweetness instead.
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My plan is to get you sloppy drunk so ________________. What words can you use to complete the thought?
"--that I can rape you."
Not to be a spoilsport, but honestly that's the first thing that comes to mind. Since I've met people who think that way before...
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This might sound stupid but do male cats have nipples just like a female cat?
Yup.
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Why did you throw that away?
Because it's cat vomit.
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My friends think i'm weird because i don't care if a girl has slept with other guys before me. she is who she is and we all make mistakes. Am i right or wrong in this situation?
You are right! Though I wouldn't call all sexual situations mistakes, only some of them. Anyway, it's probably only better for you two if you have a sexual relationship, because she can teach you new things and she has experience.
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What do you think of men wearing pantyhose?
Nothing wrong with it.
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Why do Americans sue other people so often over what is basically trivial.
They are a bored and angry people.
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Why girls (almost all) adore chocolate ?
Am one of them
EVERYONE loves chocolate! My boyfriend can eat a whole bar in about five minutes, while it takes me about two to three days (I'm talking about big bars here).
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If you had a pet you loved like a brother who as a child you believed listen to your troubles & cared; when he died you cried & grieved more than for your very abusive father; Is this an aweful way to feel, to think more of a pet than a parent?
Not at all. The pet never abused you-- I would feel the same way, myself.
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Why do Christians 'cherry pick' the science they accept? Like, accepting the science behind airplanes and computers but denying evolution or the age of the universe. How can anyone believe god made light from distant stars 'in transit' but use a computer?
They are a strange and mysterious people, with unexplained logic and ways of thinking.
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Why don't people appreciate the fact that God sent Jesus to die for their sins?
Because many people in the world don't follow that religion, and you need to RESPECT that -- then many more people will respect your views as well.
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Do you know someone who abuses a child or where you abused by someone as a child?
I was, and most of the people I know were, for some reason. Maybe we are all magnets.
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What are you planning to do this weekend - work, relax, party or get that pile of ironing done?
Clean... eat... sleep... smoke... make things.
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What do you have way too many of?
Plastic bags. I am planning on turning them all into plastic yarn and making something with them, but I am lazy.
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Would you consider Morse code the original "text messaging"?
Mmm, it doesn't have quite the same connotations with it. From what I understand (and correct me if I'm wrong), Morse code was mostly used to send out important sort of messages, sort of like a telegram but not necessarily so urgent. Text messaging, well... not so much.
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What would you do if you started growing a cactus out of your head?
Turn it into a fashion statement. Particularly when it blooms.
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Do you like Obama so far as president?
He's alright -- he has taken some good steps forward but he has also neglected some important issues. But we'll see how he goes along. At any rate, at least he's not McCain. :P
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With what formulae for dealing with stress were raised? "Forget it"? "Pray about it"? "Sleep on it"?
"Forget it," "DEAL WITH IT /NOW/ YOU UNGRATEFUL CHILD," and occasionally "sleep on it".
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( I am a fit 65 want to be slave i have been a good slave inmy life is it possible to find someone in my age group?)
Probably, there are no doubt plenty BDSM-ish/Dom-Sub sort of sites, try to look for some local ones.
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Is it ever ok to have an affair with a married person.?
Well, if the married couple have an open and polyamorous relationship, yes. If not, then no, but I try not to judge people who do it because I have never been in their position and I'm sure it's a confusing enough situation already.
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My friend's boyfriend is always trying to get her to show off her body to his friends. I can tell it makes her uncomfortable but she never says anything. Should I say something to him?
Talk to your friend about it and tell her to be more assertive about the fact that she doesn't like it, and if he still continues on, she should probably break up with him.
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What is the only thing that a man can give to the woman, but women can't give to the man?
I'm sorry to pop your bubble, but unfortunately you can't dump all women in the same category...
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Is it racist to say you won't/will only date members of a certain race? You don't hate or wish/inflict harm on that race, but sexual/romantic contact is out of the question.
No, it's a preference. However, it can be quite limiting.
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Why is no one offended that matt89 has a nude avitar, or that artiz is being rude to me? Or that I am getting singled out?
1. There is nothing wrong with nudity, and you can't see anything "offensive" in that avatar anyway,
2. If you think a member is being rude to you, talk to the admin, though they will probably think you are stupid, because nowhere do I see Arisztid being rude to you, and
3. You are the one being rude, to both Matt89 and Arisztid.
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Why is the bible unacceptable to you?
Unacceptable in what way? I find it an interesting (and often disturbing) read; I just have absolutely no desire to use it as a guide to my life.
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When discussing slavery in the USA, why is the fact that Africans were responsible for selling the other Africans into this US slavery never mentioned?
It's mentioned in some places, not mentioned in the others.
It's interesting that a lot of answers on this tend to basically say, "aHA! you righteous black people, you were lying! Shut up now!"
First of all, while yes, they were already slaves, I think you should consider the differences in their slavery at home and slavery in the US. Yes, slavery is slavery, but one...
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Why aren't you men be more blunt if you're interested in a girl? I found out tonite that a good friend of mine was interested in me but never said a word. I would have gladly gone out with him instead of the loser I picked. Some of us don't get hints
That's not a man problem, a lot of women do that, too... anyway, maybe he acted this way not because he was generally shy around girls, but because you are his friend, which tends to complicate things.
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I dont hate anyone for their sexuality and I believe gays should have most rights as us others. But I also feel that its too much right to allow them to get married. If your allowed to marry the same gender why not your dog? Im NOT being rude btw!
1. You are an idiot.
2. Cars and hamburgers are not people and cannot give consent.
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Do you think changing your environment to a safer more structured situation is the best medicine for PTSD?
It definitely helps you deal with it better.
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Why are guys so obsessed with having sex?
Um, same reason girls are.
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Do you think that this looks disgusting and that she needs to eat?
I am more concerned with what she thinks of herself and whether she is being helped.
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How old do you have to be to go to a club in georgia?
18 to 21, depending on the club.
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Is 19 to young to be living with a friend and brother at their home? My dad's an acloholic and moved out and my mom and I live together. But my mom says she wouldn't ming going back with him if I wanted to live with my friend? What's the right thing to do
Move out! Any age is old enough if you need to grab a chance at moving away from an abusive person.
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. You're the reason I get up, brush my teeth, and use the showers.I know it seems as though I cant function without thoughts of you on my minds.You've brighten my day in your own special way, Like a rainbow that brights the sky.Can you finish this with 1
1 what?
I think the most appropriate ending here is, "I am your stalker and I'll kill myself (and you) if you don't want to be mine." Oh dear.
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HR 875, HR 814, SR 425, the omnibus bill, and soon, HB 759 will also criminalize the possession or use of herbs used in cooking and homeopathic remedies. Do you support this legislation? Why or why not?
What! Really? That's BS. If I want to grow nettles/chamomile/comfrey/whatever, and use them, I will, and I don't see anything bad about doing it. And it's obvious everyone will, if they don't realize that they are obviously idiots.
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I have an extremely sore bunion or perhaps gout on my left big toe. Any homeopathic recommendations for reducing the pain?
I'd imagine the best would be pain-reducing and calming herbs (like white willow bark, meadowsweet, skullcap, passionflower, Valerian, etc.) and some herbs that are good for the skin, like plantain, chickweed, comfrey and yarrow.
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Know any herbal remedies for joint pain?
Well, chili peppers and the such are supposed to be good, as well as arnica. I had a sudden onset of gout the other day (which was odd), and I kept on a poultice of plantain tea, which really helped, so maybe that would work with other kinds of joint pain as well.
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How has your Dad made a difference in your life? What is one trait that he instilled in you that you are most proud of?
He has taught me... er... umm... can't say, I've only seem him a couple of times in my life.
Stubbornness and resisting abusive people, I suppose.
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If it had been possible, would you have ever wanted to REPLACE either one of the parents you had, with someone else?
Oh yes. Both. Though I wouldn't be able to tell with my father since I haven't seen him in years, anyway.
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If I reached down the front of your trousers and pulled out a badger, would you be embarrassed?
No, I would be angry for you stealing my badger, and proceed to pull out a porcupine from yours to prevent your masochistic delights.
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Why do people think My Chemical Romance is gay??? When I talk to people about MCR, they're always like, "You know theyre gay, right" or, "I hate those gays!"
I don't think they're "gay" (unless I find out that they actually are), I think they're stupid.
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Are you a fan of sushi or absolutely not?
I love it.
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What are some things that REALLY get to you about your signigicant other? (i.e. constantly picking a fight or watches your every move then asks 20 questions about what you just did)
He eats unhealthy things on principle (and also refuses to buy any meat that states the animal was treated well)
He doesn't understand anything about PTSD, at ALL (and I have it)
He can be very stubborn for no reason
He is slightly racist (though a LOT less than most people in this town)
He is scared of teaching me how to drive -- I'm 17 and I can only drive once I'm 18 in my...
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Is it ok to never forgive your parents for destroying your childhood?
Yes.
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What is the most common subject in guy talk?
Last guy I hung out with talked about aliens, social problems, and weed a lot.
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There is an 'Xtreme Jesus' church (see attached link for their website). Are they being serious?
I wouldn't doubt it-- they are American.
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I slapped a man across the face. Is that ok?
Well, why did you do it? In what circumstances?
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Isn't intellect sexy?
Combined with wit, yes!
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Does being in love with someone who is bi put you in competition with the ENTIRE human race?
No, that's kind of stupid. I'm bi, and I'm hardly attracted to the entire human race. I'm picky with both sexes, but even if I wasn't, people have preferences.
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What dreams did you have in your childhood?
Fairy tale-like ones.
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Digital cameras seem to rule the world these days. When was the last time you use a film camera?
Couple of years ago when I was visiting my grandparents, since I forgot my camera at home.
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What was your favorite toy as a child?
Do books count as toys?
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Is Swiss chocolate any better than the rest of the worlds?
No, but it is good.
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What is a piece of classical music that you just feel like cranking the volume up for?
Halls of the Mountain King ( as someone else has said as well).
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What natural things will give you more energy?
Coffee. And food.
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Is it possible to be in love with two people?
Yes, hence non-monogamous relationships.
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Why men never feel satisfied with one partner
Wow.
Again: stereotypes much?
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My guy likes it when i play with his asshole during sex, should i be worried he is gay? Or do guys really enjoy it?
Um, no, if he were gay he wouldn't be having sex with you, I imagine. For many people that's an erogenous zone, and also many guys enjoy asshole-related stuff because of their prostate being there, and apparently prostate stimulation feels really good.
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Are thin lips on men ugly? Are there any attractive famous men who have thin lips?
No... the lead singer of the Chameleons has thin lips and he is quite sexy.
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Women: do you FEEL beautiful?
Sometimes.
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What's the yummiest vegetable? I vote for corn on the cob.
Either asparagus or onions. or cabbage. I dunno!
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Do you think it toughens kids up when they are teased and bullied?
Maybe, but it can also make them racist, prejudiced, bitter, cruel, depressed, and suicidal.
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Do you think its a good idea for students to debate moral issues in school?
Yes, but keep in mind there will always be someone shouting out stupid things in the back of the class.
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I have a pet mouse who has been badly injured. I may need to put him down. Is there anything I can give him that will let him pass peacefully? I can't afford to take him to the vet to be put down but I don't want him to be in pain anymore. Please help.
In some states you can get Halothane, an inhalant used in euthanasia, and probably the most painless way of putting down small animals like mice. I found this link on it: http://www.rmca.org/Articles/euthanasia.htm
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Jay Leno's jokes are sexist and offend women. Why is this allowed?
Free speech, I suppose, and the fact that tons and tons of people out there are sexist. Of course, free speech also means people can make fun of him as much as they want. :P
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I met a woman at work the other day, no real talking or anything, but her beauty was breathtaking. by noticing am I cheating?
No. If it was, everyone would be cheaters.
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Do children need religion?
No, they can choose whether they want to be religious or not later in life.
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What foods are not on your normal grocery list?
Meat, yogurt, raisins.
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What are your positive percentages for your questions and Answers?
95%.
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Which is the best to say: " I love you because I need you" or "I need you because I love you"?
Neither.
"I want you because I love you" would be a bit more accurate.
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Why girls like to do shopping?
Stereotypes much?
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I don't want children. I'm useless in evolutionary terms, but am I better or worse for our society?
Better in that you're not contributing to the overpopulation.
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My relationship has come down to me and my boyfriend staying in separate rooms and talking to each other on yahoo messenger while we are in the same house. I like it here. I love him. But he is lazy and is just not the man I met anymore. Any advice?
Threaten him with a break up. If he doesn't care, well, it's time to act upon that then.
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D you get aroused while shaving or trimming your pubes?
No, I'm not into razors.
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How can I give my girl multiple orgasms? Are there any special techniques? Is it really as easy as this article says it is?
Ugh, "perfect clitoris"? I never knew there were requirements.
Anyway, you can't apply the same technique to all women (or men). Find one what she likes and do it -- it's THAT simple -- you don't need a blog to instruct you.
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Is sex outside of marriage good or bad?
Nothing wrong with it. I never plan to marry (I don't really like the connotations that come with the idea), but I have sex regularly and it's pretty damn good.
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Correct me if I am wrong but Playboy is only for men, right? Why do women like playboy as young as 16?
No idea, maybe they are lesbian or bisexual? Though then again I'm bisexual and I dislike it -- too air-bushed looking and just feels sleazy (not because it's naked ladies, but I guess just the presentation). Meh.
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What does a sexy man look like?
My boyfriend. And also Victor Tsoi.
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How do you feel about prostitutes?
I think it should be legalized and decriminalized; I also think something should be done so that people become prostitutes of their own will and because they would sincerely like to, not because it's the only way to pay the rent, and so that they would be safer, but that's probably asking too much.
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My new boyfriend thinks that I should get my clitoris pierced. He says that most men think this is sexy but I do not agree. So, men, I'd like to know what you guys really think about this so that I can prove him wrong!! Every answer counts. :)
Well, I'm a girl -- and though I'm bisexual my answer isn't exactly yes or no -- more like I think if you're doing something to your body, it should be to please yourself, not someone else. :) I doubt he would be keen on getting his dick pierced if you thought it hot...
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My friend is 19 years old and has had 14 sexual partners. She lost her virginity at 15 and has had 2 serious boyfriends since then. Would she be considered a slut, or an addict?
I would consider her healthy.
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What's the most amount of orgasms you've had in one day?
I think it was around 5.
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How many cans/bottles of pop do you have in your house right now?
None, I don't like it.
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Has anyone picked fruit for themselves?
Yes, my grandmother has a garden.
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I smoke a half pack of cigarettes a day but don't consider myself addicted to cigs, as I can go long periods of time without "craving" a cig and because if I'm smoking weed, I won't smoke any cigs. What is your opinion on this and addictions in general?
How odd.
I have been able to control all of the addictions in my life, except cigarettes.
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I have a silver locket my girlfriend gave me, we want to put a photo inside- the problem is I'm one of those people who almost always keeps my necklace on. Is there any way I can make the image very durable/waterproof so that it won't get ruined in water?
You could cover it in a layer of polyurethane after sticking it in, that might work.
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One of my hobbies is doing counted cross-stitch. I'm a guy. Most people consider this a more feminine pursuit. What do you think of this hobby for a man?
I think anyone that seriously thinks that hobbies have genders is pretty stupid. Go you-- you are a lot more patient than me if you can cross-stitch. :)
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Dopamine or serotonin?
Dopamine, since I'm addicted to cigs.
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What parts of the body do you shave? Be honest.
Legs
Arms (occasionally)
Armpits (occasionally)
Pubic area (more of a trim, really)
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Hooray! It's dandelion season! Who else likes to eat them?
I've eaten them a couple of times, but mostly I've been drying the leaves for future medicinal use and making oil infusions out of the flowers -- it's great for soreness. :)
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How many different forms of Sugar do you have in your house right now? (brown, powder, granular, splenda.....etc.)
White
Powdered
Dark brown
Honey
Molasses
I wouldn't call splenda sugar, though.
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Who has flowers blooming in their garden now?
I do -- there are dandelions, periwinkles, white roses from the previous owners, and sage flowers.
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Quick: A natural household remedy to get fresh poison oak off a cat? (My cat got out and I'm super sensitive to poison oak!)
If you have any jewelweed (touch me not) growing around where you live, that's supposed to be good; so is plantain or chickweed (and they grow in most places).
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I have a piece of glass in my foot and cant get it out i have no insurance to go to the doctor any ideas
Ugh, that's horrible. Well, I dunno if it's still a problem, but if you can get absolutely no medical help, you could try plantain leaves -- they grow everywhere, and they tend to draw things out of your skin. At the very least, it will relieve any pain and swelling. You could crumble up some leaves and strap them to the wound, or make some tea out of them and soak up a cloth in it to...
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How bad is it to drink alcohol with a strep throat?
Not at all, unless you're taking meds.
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Is crampbark safe for anyone?
I'd imagine so, it's basically just a muscle relaxant.
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My Vitex tincture says Dry Herb/menstruum ratio: 1:4. Contains certified organic grain alcohol (70-75%), distilled water & Chaste Tree extractives. Is this a quality tincture?
It seems to be, though the date when it was tinctured would be more telling. Though tinctures keep for many years, they can lose their strength after a while (depending on how they are kept).
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Where can I buy skullcap leaves?
Mountainroseherbs.
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Would you like a remedy for depression? I woke up today and told myself I won't do what I did yesterday. I'm going through depression yet I'm now encouraged! I believe we just need to keep ourselves busy with what matters.
Unfortunately, that does not work for me.
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Did your first episode of depression have a reason behind it? What age were you?
I don't think so. It came on around 10 or 11, though it has shown some signs of coming on before.
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What is it like to live with OCD?
Well, mine is fairly mild --and by that, I mean sometimes it's fairly faint, but then other times it comes on so bad that I am unable to do anything without a knotted up stomach. Then it's horrible -- for an example, I get irrational fears that if I don't do this weird little ritual everytime I have a bad thought, someone I love will die; I compulsively have to blink my eyes or...
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I have severe ocd. I am under 18. There is substantial evidence that nicotine can help with ocd symptoms. If you were my parents would you let me consume nicotine? A kid, how should I approach my parents?
Yes, since it does help, in my experience.
You could ask them if you could go on a nicotine pill or something instead of smoking... since I doubt they'll be too happy about letting you smoke. And show to them the evidence so they won't think you're just making it up, as parents tend to do.
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Have you ever had a panic attack? Do you still get them? How has it affected your life?
Yes, and I just had one some minutes ago, caused by OCD. I feel like shit.
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Ladies:Would you prefer your man or woman to call you baby or honey?
If I have to choose one of those, honey -- I really wouldn't want to be called baby, just seems weird.
I think the only affectionate terms we've used for eachother, though, were "sweetie"/"sweetness" and "you bastard". :P
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I wont a baby at 15 and i am ready for it as i know how hard it will be i have looked after kids all mylife and i have so much tender loving care to give. i just scared of my mum making me have an abortion. what do you think?
You need
1. A steady job
2. A steady relationship with whoever you want to be the father -- not just because you want a baby with him, but because you like each other and can solve problems without arguing too much.
3. Some sort of degree, even a high school diploma or a GED diploma, will help you out in getting a job
4. And finally, it would be a lot better if you were considered an adult...
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What's a good, useful gift for a boyfriend?
Well, what sort of things does he like? Mine likes computers and video games, so I either get him cool computer things or something that has to do with video games he likes in particular (like a Mother 3 shirt or something). It all depends on his tastes.
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How do you seduce an older man im 15, hes about 35. how do i get him to want me. please dont criticize me or say its wrong, not interested in hearing it.
Well, any judgement aside, this is problematic legally, because he could get into tons of trouble -- are you -- AND him -- ready to deal with that?
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What DIY skills is it useful for everyone to have?
Sewing, wiring, cooking, woodworking.
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Are you a DIY person, or do you get a man in?
I'm a DIY person -- if I don't know how to do something and my bf does, I get him to show me and then do it myself.
Unless it's something boring and I'm lazy. :P
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Does anyone have any good DIY fashion projects?
Ways to change around a T-shirt into something else.
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Is there a sight that shows me the DIY stuff i could do with stuff i have lying around my house?
Craftster
Cutoutandkeep
Threadbanger (for sewing, mostly)
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I lost my wife and it hurts so bad. i took her dream she says. she has always wanted children. it just never happened. we never prevented of anything. now that i older i dont want another child and i told her that. she got mad and said i broke her heart
I'm sorry. :( It's not your fault that you and her have different wants.
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When we know that nicotine is considered a stimulant, how is that Cigarettes can calm people down? Should cigarettes not be making smokers more agitated?
Well, as far as I know, nicotine is not a stimulant. It affects your dopamine levels -- dopamine is what makes you feel euphoric; they are also affected by stuff like cocaine, sex, and eating good food. It's pretty much the good mood chemical in your body, making you feel relaxed.
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My wife complains that I don't spend enough time with her, but whenever I ask what she means or what she'd like me to do about it she says I should just know. What should I do?
Spend time with her, and I don't mean just sitting next to her doing your own thing, but actually talk and the such.
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I'm 20yrs old and looking for a place to move out to. My 15yrold "love interest" wants to move in with me whenever I get the place. Is that legal?
Though this varies state by state, in most the age of consent (the age when she can legally be in a relationship with you) is 16 or 17, and the age when she can move out is 17 or 18. You'd have to look up your state rules.
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What comes to mind when when I say ,'expensive'?
Almost everything. But in particular -- furniture and wooden floors.
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Why can't I marry a man if I wish to? (I'm bisexual)
Because many countries around the world are stupid about this sort of thing. :(
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What are your biggest body issues?
I occasionally see myself as a hippopotamus. I used to have bulimia and I'm mostly recovered now, but I do encounter the occasional trigger...
Also, I don't like my hair too much, and sometimes my face, too.
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Were you traumatized by Janet Jackson's nipple?
No, I'm not generally traumatized by nipples, since I have some myself.
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My bf of 4 yrs left town suddenly, saying he was visiting family and would be back in a week or two...left a string of "i love u" messages the first week, ended contact the second. it's been a monthsince he's been gone, with no contact at all for a week
Maybe something bad happened to him?
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What was the last medicine you took?
Welbutrin.
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When your in a grocery lane... lady in front is holding dollar bills but scrunging through her purse to pay in loose change; have you ever said anything? What would be an appropriate thing to say,asides from"Hey b*tch your holding up the line.."
You say that, pause, and let her punch you in the face. :)
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My boyfriend told me he is bisexual, is this something that will go away? What should I do?
Um, no, it's not.
Nothing.
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What can I wear with a faded black t-shirt?
Faded black panties and some flesh eating slugs.
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What's up with women in Adam Sandler films?
They are products of his imagination.
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If "up my bottom!" is the answer, what is the question?
"Where is my sanity?"
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Have you ever had a strange desire to write the word 'Brad' on your armpits, so you can have Brad Pitts?
No, but I do often imagine Brad Pitt as a set of giant, walking, hairy armpits.
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What's naked scuba diving like? Any particular health and safety considerations?
Considering those tiny evil jellyfish you Australians have swimming around your continent, I wouldn't suggest it.
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Are you a fan of Vladimir Visotsky?
Yes, but it looks like I have made you much more obsessed with him than I could ever be. :P
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To complete the installation, it is necessary to take off your pants. Do you want to do this now? |Yes| |No|
I did it several hours ago, already, seeing as it was necessary to do in order to sew them into something else.
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Define: 'ethnickers'
Knickers that claim to have an ethnic background.
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Where are you right now, and what is the weather like outside?
Sunny but slightly cloudy, in the high 60's.
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Could I have a serious answer as to where there is a "free" site for first name meanings?
Behindthename.com
I didn't know there were non-free ones, that's ridiculous.
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What is 4 items in your bedroom closet?
-Clothes
-Journals
-A bag of cassettes and CD boxes
-a bag of clay
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Can you describe how you feel today in one word?
Lethargic.
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What are 3 of your favorite vegetables?
Cabbage, since you can do so much with it, radishes, and artichokes.
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Did you recently get a new job?
No, but I will hopefully get one later this week.
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If someone says "I appreciate you" what does that mean exactly? That this person likes you, understands you , is willing to give you the benefit of the doubt? Or are they just words..boilerplate.....fillers.. ...meaningless?
Probably that they are glad that you exist and are who you are
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I lost my cat in the fires, i want a kitten but my bf reckons he hates cats. how can i change his mind and let me get a kitten? his sister has a cat n he plays with it n gives it cuddles
Well, if you can pay for it, then it's not really an issue of him "letting you".
Ask him why he hates them -- the only really good reason I can think of is if he were allergic, since cats don't require much maintenance, and if you get one that's already been to the vet and the such, not much money either. My boyfriend told me he dislikes cats because they want...
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My boyfriend thinks he knows EVERYTHING. He just tried to tell me sugar doesn't make you gain weight. We argued forever and he came up with all these bs reasons why. Then he tried to tell me a speed bump made his alternator go out. What should I do?
Stop caring about it. If he really wants to believe something that's not affecting your life, well, nothing wrong with that.
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Do men get scared of women who are genuinley sweet caring and loving beings, and really treat others with respect? because it seems like all the women who are disrespectful get men.
Well, I love my bf and I treat him with respect... and he's still my boyfriend, so no.
I think this is the same sort of thinking as "women only like assholes", i.e. generalizations.
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If I come out as being bisexual and my "friends" want nothing to do with me does that then mean they were never really my friends?
It would mean they WERE your friends... and now that it turns out they are narrow minded bigots, they no longer are, or should be.
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I'm hungary. Are you?
No, I'm Lebanon.
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What is an ingredient or recipe that would be used in Mexico?
Quesito, or so I hear. It's extremely delicious.
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What are the little things about your S/o that you notice and love? eg, a certain giggle at specific things....
How cute he looks when he curls up like a cat and accidentally falls asleep. :P
Also, when he accidentally messes up what he's saying (ex: "mice reet" instead of "rice and meat") and then denies that he did it.
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Is it just me or is the younger generation inventing a new way to spell?
No, half of the younger generation just insists on acting like idiots, and the other half is too ashamed of them to admit their age online.
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Do you think parents can be ignorant at times?
Everyone can be ignorant at times.
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What habit do you have that is costing you money? For me, it's eBay and Amazon, making purchases online while I'm half asleep.
Going to Earth Fare (a shop nearby that has really good food), buying herbs online, going to Barnes and Noble.
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What should you do if your kids swear?
Explain to them why you do not want them to swear (also, I would tell them that once they reach a certain age, they can swear to their heart's content, but right now they're kids and they'll have to wait).
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Whats the worst thing you did in school?
Skip almost all of my classes, almost every day in my last year of high school.
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I like to shower with my S/O often, feels like it is the only time we get time to our selves =] what do you do wiht your S/O that feels like 'you time'?
Go out to eat, watch movies together, sleep. :P
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I was abused when i was little, i wana tell my bf but i dont know how. its a tuchy subject. and pretty full on cause it was my dad. how do i go about telling him?
If you really trust him, just sit him down and tell him that you need to talk about something that's a difficult subject for you.
I hope you are away from your dad and that you have somebody supportive to help you out. *hug*
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I don't think Lindsay Lohan is very hot. Do you agree?
I don't really care about celebrities, and most of them look sort of bland and generic to me, anyway.
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Some people think that because you are a certain race you should act a certain way. some people say I "act white" when I am black and it gets on my nerves because I believe I am a person not a race. Is it acceptable for society to lable races?
No, it's stupid. I imagine their ideas of what people are supposed to act like are based on things on TV and people that try to act as closely to stereotypes of themselves as possible. If I acted according to the stereotype of my ethnicity, I would have to be constantly getting drunk off vodka and playing around with bears or something. People who think that way are obviously quite ignorant.
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GIRLS HELP! my entire body hurts and i have this huge headache and i don't feel like doing anything. yes, it is that time of the month for me. what should i do to make myself feel better?
That sucks, I'm sorry. Have you been eating fairly healthily? I find that around that time of the month, drinking milk tends me make me feel better, probably because of the calcium; you also need extra magnesium around the time of your period (and I'm pretty sure a lack of it can cause headaches).
I also recommend curling up in bed with a good book and a cup of tea. :)
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Ladies: Does your man ever get "b*tchy"? I mean like mood swings, hanging up the phone, snapy words, storm outside kind of thing?
Nah, not really. There were a few times when we got into arguments, but that was both of ours' bitchiness, and at worst we wouldn't talk to each other for an hour or so afterward to have some cooling off time. I know he gets stressed and moody sometimes, but instead of becoming aggressive, he usually just acts really tired and depressed.
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Is there a psychological classification for those who want to please people and hate it when some people reject them?
I dunno about psychological classifications, but it's likely they have low self esteem.
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I am in love with a man who has some deep issues,i realize now what all the commotion was about early on in our relationship,i told him today i could be there for him but as his friend, i so love him but he needs hel, how can i help him?
You can only help him if he accepts it. If he isn't willing to try and confront his issues, and they're impacting you negatively, then I think it's best to cut off the relationship until he is ready to take care of himself.
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How can u help someone who has ptsd, and he will not choose to let go of his past? issues with his ex wife, he has panic attacks and stress, i use to think he was this big arrogant man but now i know he is so insecure. Does anyone know about anxiety?
Well, it's pretty hard to "let go" of it when you have PTSD, I say this from experience. Whether you like it or not (and chances are, you wouldn't), you'll have flashbacks and dissociative episodes. It's not a choice to have this happen to you. The best thing for him to do would probably be either to go to a therapist that specializes in PTSD, or get some...
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So your with a guy that wont kiss you when you smoke. Is there anyway to still smoke but yet not have your breath smelling like smoke without carrying a bottle of Listerine with you lol?
Well, I've heard chewing some parsley makes garlic breath go away, maybe the same is true for nicotine breath.
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How often do you go to fast food restraunts?
Rarely, unless I start craving Sub sandwiches.
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Do you always hand wash your dishes after every meal?
Not after every meal... Either me or my boyfriend wash them at the end of the day, because we are lazy. But yes, I do hand wash them -- never had a dishwasher in my life and it seems weird to me.
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How to get through 2 weeks of something you don't wanna do but you have to do it? ways of coping?
Have something enjoyable to do as a reward each day, that's what I do.
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Will a kiss result in pregnancy?
....and this, ladies and gentlemen, is why we need better sex ed classes.
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Is your s/o good-looking?
Yes, extremely.
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My boyfriend told me my butt was big and jiggly. I am not a big girl and so It kind of upset me. Now i feel insecure about myself. Anyone had something like this happen to them?
Yeah, though not in a relationship.
He didn't necessarily mean it in a bad way -- the only way someone's butt isn't going to be jiggly to a degree is if they exercise all day and every day. If he meant it as an insult, well, he's a douchebagel and needs to get over it.
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Girls, why you keep your hands between your legs, when sleeping.
Same reason some guys vaguely hold on to their package when they're asleep -- comfort.
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What's cheaper a girlfriend or a hooker?
Your eternal soul. So you might as well sell it to me, I'll strike you a good deal.
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Lucifer,Satan or Beelzebub?
Beelzebub, it sounds funnier. :P
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Studies show that gay teen suicide attempts are four times that of heterosexual youth. Why do gay teens attempt suicide and how can gay suicide be prevented?
Could be...
their family rejecting them
people in school/college/whatever rejecting them
friends rejecting them
Bullying
abuse
not fitting in with what they are often taught is "normal"
It would probably help if people were more educated. You know, like in sex ed and by their parents. And it would doubtless help if everyone was surrounded by a more positive attitude in...
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Is there any grl 4 me out there dont care who but are u there?and i really meant grls....
If you learn grammar and spelling, no doubt there will be some.
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Politically correct or politically incorrect ~ which are you and why?
I am neither.
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Ladies... Did you ever rape a men?
No, but a man raped me and then accused me of doing it so that his ex wouldn't get mad at him for having sex with me. :(
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Are there any foods that a lot of people love but which you think are nearly tasteless? Avacados and eggplant, for me.
Green tea.
As for eggplant, I just think it's gross.
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At what age did you move away from home?
17, as soon as my birthday came. That was just about 7 months ago, and I'm glad I did it.
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Can a married couple really live without sex? Some people on AB think so..I just don't get that. How can it be..
Different people have different wants. Some people may want sex every day, other, never. So yes, it can work, it just takes the right sort of people -- though that sentence can be applied to almost any sort of relationship.
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"We have no right to judge other people!" Why?
Because you haven't went through everything they have, therefore you can't know exactly how they feel.
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If near death experiences aren't real, how come Atheists see hell and Christians see heaven?
I don't remember hearing about any atheists who saw hell.
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Do you look down on people who have had an abortion?
No. I don't care whether she's had an abortion, I don't care if she's had twenty, I don't care if she took her uterus out and threw it over a fence. It's her money and her body, and the only thing I'm going to base my opinion of her on would be her personality.
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What do other ladies think when they see a guy (obvious) dressed in womens clothes shopping in a womens wear store?c
I'd be happy that they're living life the way that makes them feel more like their true selves.
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Do you think that obesity will one day be fashionable?
Well, if one looks back into history, it used to be -- when being rich meant being overweight. However, that was when being poor meant that you didn't have much to eat except for what you planted yourself. Nowadays, "poor" food tends to use the least expensive ingredients, which tend to be the most unhealthy. The rich, on the other hand, are able to buy healthier and organic...
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What is most dangerous to a person's body in your opoinion: LSD, Meth, Heroin, Cocaine, Ecstacy, Inhalants, OxyContin, Shrooms, Alcohol, or Marijuana? (i'm doing a project)
Meth, heroin, and cocaine all seem about equally dangerous.
Then there's Oxycontin, and inhalants (which just seem stupid),
Then ecstasy and LSD -- drugs that will have lasting negative effects some of the time,
Then alcohol,
Then shrooms (from what I hear, they don't tend to make you violent, unlike alcohol)
Then marijuana, the worst effect of which is a mild "weed...
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Why is it socially acceptable to make fun of obesity? I thought this was a disease.
Because people are assholes and also because they assume that all fat people are lazy, when a lot of times it's because of some sort of body malfunction, or a medication, or a disease. I had a friend who was pretty much anorexic, without the losing weight part -- if she ate a sandwich, she would feel it was too much for the day, and with that style of eating the most she lost was ten...
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How many of you use the same towel when you get out of the shower to wipe your butt among other places along with your face? And if you do..do you throw it into the laundry after one use or do you reuse it multiple times?
Yes, who doesn't? I reuse it, because I wash my butt, and therefore it's clean after a shower. :P
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If He pulls out (without a condom) what are the CHANCES of getting pregnant. I know there is precum so i know it is possible. I want to know the chances, not if it is possible. And also can semen leak from the anus to the vagina and get a woman pregnant?
I'm not sure about the scientific chances, but I've known people that never got pregnant using that method, and I've known of people who got pregnant the very first and last time they did it. So I guess it's just chance and luck.
I dunno, it might get on the vulva, but I imagine it would be harder for it to actually get inside the vagina.
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What do you think about the psyche of those on AB who say killing a cow is no different from killing a vegetable?
They are probably people who are deeply offended by vegetarians.
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Do you think its gross if girls don't shave their legs during the winter?
No, I could care less.
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I have shortness in breath, tigtness around my chest and a wierd sought of smokers cough, but i smoke like 1 smoke a day. My chest feels a bit tight, i am tired and my head is throbbing a little. I am not wheezing, could i maybe have mild case of asthma?
How long have you been smoking?
It might be bronchitis... but I'm not a doctor.
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I decided to pierce my belly button on my own but i have tough skin and couldn't get the ring in, so i just took it out. now the holes look all scabby n black and its all red around it and swollen and it hurts. is it infected? and if it is what can i do?
YES it's infected! Go to the doctor and put something anti-bacterial on it in the meanwhile.
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I am 42 years old and woke up this morining with my pants wet and didn't even know that i wet in them i just don't know why i wet my pants can someone give me some answers i feel very ashamed of this and sometimes wet my pants during the day
Aw, don't be ashamed, it happens to a lot of people and it's not your fault. You probably have some sort of a bladder issue, a doctor would probably be able to diagnose it.
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What happens to a women's body to cause her hormones to go out of wack during PMS, is it a rise or lowering in estrogen or testostorne?
I think it's heightened estrogen.
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What effects your choice to eat what you eat? Do you pass judgment on what others eat? Does it frustrate you when people pass judgment on what you eat?
Well, I am a vegetarian, and by great luck I also really like vegetables (and pickled things -- I can eat a can on kimchi in one sitting). I don't judge other people for eating meat, but I can't help but judge someone when they eat unhealthily, especially if they are proud of it. Perhaps it is because I was raised in a place where people rarely ate fast food or canned things (except...
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What can I do if I have a panic attack at work and don't have any medication?
Going somewhere where you can be alone helps, like going to the bathroom. Also, this is an exercise one of my friends taught me:
Looks around you and name five things that you see
Five things that you can hear
five things that you can smell
five things that you can touch/feel
Then four things you can see
4 things you can hear
4 things you can smell
4 things you can feel
and so...
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Do you have a tattoo? if so, where? and of what? any significance behind it?
Two, both homemade, so they look a bit grainy. One is on my hand, near my thumb -- it's a spiral and it doesn't have any significance behind it that I know of, it was sort of instinctual. The other is an ankh on the inside of my ankle, and I made it to symbolize that I was going to start accepting life more(I have depression and was deeply suicidal around that time).
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Can marijuana act as a natural stimulant (e.g. Ritalin, Concerta, ect)?
Maybe, but definitely not in the same way as those two.
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What is one thing you do to lose weight?
Be lazy and occasionally depressed. :P
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Ladies~What do you dislike most about menstruating?
Increase in depression. In a tie with very bad cramps -- so bad that I can't see.
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Now it's martini time...shaken or stirred?
Doesn't shaking it make it a different sort of drink, what with that whole "don't bruise the gin" type of thing? Anyway, I'll take either one, I don't care. :P
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"I know I should exercise and I want to, but when I get home from work, I feel too tired to do so, so I don't. Then I feel guilty that I didn't." Sound familiar?
Replace "work" with "school" and it sounds like my eating disorder years.
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If a man is missing (born without) a pectoral major muscle (thats his big chest muscle) on one side of his chest, would it matter to you?
Not really.
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Are there any herbal alternatives someone can use to help when withdrawing from a crystal meth addiction?
I'd imagine milk thistle and dandelion would help with your liver, licorice is supposed to help with adrenal stuff, and you could also take some calming herbs like Valerian and skullcap.
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Know of any natural pain killers for internal pain?
This is kind of too late an answer, but some natural pain relievers would be skullcap, white willow bark, and meadowsweet -- the last two contain similar chemicals to aspirin (in fact, they were the basis for developing aspirin), but they don't mess with your liver.
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Does anyone know how to make their own tinctures?
Here's a guide: http://www.healthynewage.com/making-herbal-tinctures.htm
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What is black cohosh?
A plant that's usually used for things such as cramps, uterine problems, menopause, and to help with giving birth.
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Any suggestions for chronic sinusitis for a teenage boy?
I read an article not too long ago that divided the remedies according to what kind of sinusitis it was -- if it was leaky, astringents like goldenrod, goldenseal, ox eye daisy and plantain were good; if it was stuffy, yerba mansa (no idea what that is, though), goldenseal, garlic, and sage were good, and if it was the dry kind he recommended mucilaginous herbs like slippery elm or marshmallow....
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What are some home remedies for a chesty cough, achy chest and cold-type symptoms?
Plantain (which is really easy to find, since it's an invasive weed), coltsfoot, slippery elm, marshmellow (not the confection), anise tea. When I had bronchitis I drank chamomile, anise, and slippery elm teas and they helped a good deal.
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What is an herbal remedy for anxiety?
Chamomile tea is a pretty mild one
So is Valerian
Lemon balm
Kava kava (my personal favourite)
Skullcap (I hear it's also good for when you're quitting smoking)
Passionflower
Motherwort (it calms you down without making your thinking fuzzy)
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What is your favourite healing herb?
Kava kava, because it's great for calming anxiety, and plantain, because they made the horrible pain from the blisters I got when I started working go away.
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Can you recommend any good herbal supplements for improving your mood?
St. John's Wort is a really popular one.
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What's your idea of mental abuse?
Name calling, guilt tripping, manipulating, that sort of thing.
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Is it considered mental rape when your husband takes a naked picture of you and trades it on the internet for other pictures without your permission? Do I stay or do I leave! Feel like I was mentally Raped by the one person I loved and trusted!!
It's considered being an asshole at the very least.I can't decide for you what to do, but personally I doubt my relationship with the person would go too swimmingly after that.
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So, what are your thoughts on sex, politics, or religion?
In a nutshell:
Sex: good
Politics: needs more gay rights, less bigotry against -- well-- everyone, free medical care
Religion: Meh.
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Porn is wrong or I'm wrong?
Depends on the kind of porn.
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Resentment over porn & no sex, how to get over it? I'm so angry with my boyfriend. He hasn't approached me for sex in months but I know he's yanking it to porn & men's magazines. How do I drop the attitude and stop being so freaking angry with him?
Why should you drop the attitude? There is nothing wrong with porn in itself, but it sounds like your boyfriend is using it as a means of escape form reality. Have you tried asking him why he watches it rather than having any sex?
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I am a straight female who is only attracted to men. Women turn me off. Why do guys today like women who are Bi? I wouldn't like a guy like that. Any guys like straight females anymore?
Most guys that are attracted to a girl just because she is bi have a frat boy mentality. I'm bi, but my bf has never cared and that's fine with me -- it doesn't mean I'm going to go around kissing other girls for his benefit or to cheat.
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Why is it we women don't have many Women Porn Sites on cable but yet the internet has loads for us to look at? I hope this changes soon!
Because cable is lame. :/
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We can identify quickly if someone is abusing us emotionally. But are you Are "Emotionally Abusive" to others?
I don't believe so. I was raised with emotionally abusive relatives, so I avoid any of the things they do/did -- guilt tripping, name calling, ignoring peoples' boundaries, etc.
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Which school of thought do you adhere to: that pornography empowering to women, or that it's demeaning?
It depends on the porn. There is porn that is creepy and rapey, and the woman is obviously not enjoying it. Now if the porn includes a woman that is doing it safely, of her own free will, and is enjoying it, then it is quite good.
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What is the difference between feminism and misandrism, and why do so many people mistake the latter for the former?
Feminism -- wanting equal rights and standards for men and women;
Misandrism -- hate of men.
I think it is usually either because of ignorance on what feminism is, or because they are against feminism, so they try to equate the two.
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Do you believe that feminism is still necessary, even after equality has been obtained?
Problem is, it hasn't.
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Is professional prostitution (as opposed to someone forced through coercion or economic necessity) a morally acceptable choice for a woman? for a man?
Well, I'm sure it wouldn't agree with some people's morals, but to me that sounds perfectly fine.
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Ladies. do you sometimes use that "time of the month" just to be a.....meanie?
No, I don't do it on purpose. However, around that time I do tend to be very depressed; if something annoys me regularly, I get very irritable about it rather than try and hold it in, and sometimes I get very, very, very bad cramps -- the "I want to scream and cry and curl up in the fetal position" kind, which would make anyone a bit irritable.
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Do anti-porn feminists believe that a woman does not have the right to choose to pose nude?
Well, I think to them it's negative objectification, particularly since lot of women in the porn industry are abused or coerced. Personally, I am not anti-porn because there is porn out there that involves women actually enjoying themselves and doing it of their own free will, but I understand that to many of them, the negatives outweigh the positives.
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I was just fired from my job because a woman said she overheard me say, "I like to watch porn." I don't even remember saying it. Why are women so uptight?
You shouldn't make such generalizations because of one woman. I am fine with porn (as long as it's not rape porn or something), and so are many other women I know.
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How do feminists claim women aren't being treated as equals in todays society?
Well, let me tell you what I have observed and experienced:
Women aren't taken as seriously as men because they're considered to be more emotional
If a woman is angry, people automatically assume she's on her period
If a woman has a lot of sex or talks about sex, she is viewed as gross or "unclean", whereas in men, it's expected
If a woman dresses in clothing...
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Why are pictures of naked women bad or anti-feminist?
They are not generally, it depends... if a woman decides she wants a naked picture of herself (whether it's intended to be sexy or not) taken, and it happy about it and whatnot, there's nothing wrong with it.
If she gets bullied or coerced into it and then some person spends an hour airbrushing it in photoshop, then there's an asshole somewhere in the equation.
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Should a man be embarrassed if a woman is more athletic than him?.
No.
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Why are women treated as sex objects, is it the way men look at them, or the way they present themselves?
It's the way some men and some women look at them.
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If the goals of feminism were achieved and equality among sexes reached. Wouldn't women still have the power of sex and therefore have more power than men? If equality means absolute equality then what would men have to balance out the power of sex?
What do you mean by women having the power of sex? Both men and women can seduce people.
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What rights to men enjoy that women can't?
The right to not shave, walk around shirtless, talk about body functions and their sex life, have lots of sex without being judged.
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Shouldn't the Violence Against Women Act (VAWA) become the Violence Against People Act (VAPA)? (Since women attack their partners just as often as men.)
If so, they should make organizations aimed towards men abused by women aimed towards women as well.
I see your point, and it would be nice to have an organization that targets all abuse situations -- male on male, female on male, male on female, female on female -- but I also think the point of organizations aimed specifically at one sort of situation is not to demonize the gender of an...
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Do you think the "Lifetime" channel is bad for women?
I've seen a few okay things on there, but for the most part it's a bunch of bull-hockey. Too cheesy, uses the same formula. Then again, most movies I like are ones people haven't heard of.
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Do men hating "feminists" give a bad name to the real feminists, the ones who fought for better living conditions and human rights? I heard one on the radio saying that "it is better for women to stay single forever, because all men tend to be abusive "
Just because they call themselves feminists, doesn't mean they are, it should be fairly obvious. This lady just sounds like a victim of abuse with anger problems.
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Do feminists have more fun?
As with all groups, I think it depends on the person.
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Is it wrong to offer chivalry to a feminist?
As a feminist, I think both sexes should be chivalrous to each other -- it's called being nice.
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How can you stop cutting yourself if you can't seem to stop?
Use a different outlet, and, more importantly, try to change what is making you cut, if you can.
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Is this considered rape? i kept telling the guy no and to pull out before he did anything and hes like its ok and fucked me anyway even though i was crying and begging him to stop
Yes, that is rape. :(
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Have you ever silently went along with some sexual activity because you felt frightened or intimated by someone?
Yes.
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It turns out many boys over the years have been raped or sexually abused by an older female. No they did not enjoy it. In many cases they were sexually tortured. Why do men like to think they enjoyed it and why does the public ignore it?
Because they are ignorant on what makes rape rape, they don't know that arousal is not the same thing as consent, and guys never really talk about that sort of thing (to my knowledge).
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Is there a home remedy that can repress sexual urges. (specially when some one's getting them a few time a day). i'm a female.
Chaste berries are supposed to.
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I found a lump between my vagina an my inner thigh. Can somone tell me what it is?
It's a lymph node.
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My brother says he was playing with himself, felt something "pop," and bled when he climaxed. Now he says it hurts to get an erection or to urinate. What should I do?
It sounds like he did something to his urethra. Get him to a doctor, for god's sake.
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Will kava kava show up on a drug test?
Only if it's a drug test made specifically for screening out kava kava.
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Im at worl sick with the flu...Im not feeling to awful, but do want to get better faster. Do you know of any remadies that taste good and help? What do you do to get over the flu?
Elderberries. They're supposed to be quite great aginst several strains of the flu virus, in any form (fresh, dried, syrup, whatever). And I hear they are delicious.
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Are there any old remedies to help stop a migraine & help somebody sleep?
Lavender oil rubbed on the temples works for a little bit; you can also try chamomile, passionflower, lemon balm, yarrow, or meadowsweet (it has aspirin-like properties) teas.
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I have lost my voice, but my throat doesn't hurt, and i don't have a cold or anything, just a minor minor cough thats it. Does anyone know anything that could help me get my voice back?
Tea with honey. If you have access to herbs, try slippery elm, licorice, sage, or marshmallow root.
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What do you deprive your body most of?
Meat, as I'm a vegetarian. :P
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Ask a question about Drugs & Herbs
my husband wants to grow female type breasts. he told me there are herbs that will minick estrogen which in turn will make him grow breasts is there any truth in this? i told him if he wants to try have at it.
I believe so, though neither I nor anyone I know has done this.
Some herbs that mimic estrogen are red clover, motherwort, chaste berry tree (vitex), saw palmetto, cramp bark, wild yam, black cohosh. Fenugreek increases prolactin, and saw palmetto decreases the body's levels of testosterone.
If you look up herbal male to female breast growth and the such, there are a couple of sites...
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Can alcoholism be treated with herbs?
Well, if you are trying to stop drinking you can use some herbs to make it easier to go without (skullcap, valerian, evening primrose, passionflower) and some to help improve your liver and kidneys and the such (dandelions, milk thistle). Other than that, I dunno.
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When you're really really sad/depressed, what do you do to cheer up?
Smoke, eat, make myself watch or read something comforting or funny.
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I have a dissociative disorder not otherwise specified and went to therapy for 4 years. I am so incredibly lonely. At night all I dream of is trying to find someone nurturing who will accept me, and my child alters. Can you help me? Please.
If there is no one you can turn to, try (hard as it may be) to be your own -- and your alters' nurturer. Try a little at a time. I don't have alters, so I'm not entirely sure what it's like to deal with their emotions as well as your own, but I imagine little comforting things would help. My ex-girlfriend had DID, and I remember that one of her kid alters liked cocoa and...
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How can I stop having flashbacks?
Identify what triggers them and avoid the trigger at all costs, unless you feel ready to deal with it. There are also exercises that can bring you back to the present (at least to a limited degree), like holding ice or naming all the objects in the room that are red, or by smell, that sort of thing. It would probably help to get a therapist or any sort of outside help, really. Good luck.
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How does a person let go of the past & of something that happened? It can't be changed but how do let it go and move on?
You don't have to force yourself to let go of it. If something bad has happened to you, you have to deal with it in stages, going through all the emotions, and it helps if you have someone to help you. Once you deal with it -- which may take years -- you may be able to feel better about it.
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Why do the people in the mental health field think that anti depressants are the only thing that will help you. They won't help you with issues, they just want you medicated so they don't have to deal with you. What is it with that?
They probably just want more money, so they push drugs on you.
Sure, there are times in life when antidepressants are appropriate. When my depression gets unbearable and I am in a haze of suicidal-ness, I generally have to have SOMETHING to pull me out of it and keep me ok, just until I can regain my own footing. However, anti-depressants aren't going to "solve" your depression....
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Does anyone have something they do that seems like Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD)? Or maybe really have been diagnosed with it?
I have never been diagnosed with it, but I know I have it -- I've had ti since I was little. I am by no means a clean person, due to depression, but I am very paranoid about touching things like cabinet handles and sitting in public buses (I'm afraid that there might be some crumbs or something in between the seat and the back of it). I have gotten a panic attack before because I had...
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If you found one of your loved ones rocking back and forth,(in an attempt to soothe themselves) how would you react? Would you be concerned?
I would hug him (with his permission), make him some tea or something calming, ask him what's wrong and try to help him out.
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I come from a family of alcoholics, and have an intense fear of alcohol as a result. I tend to project that fear against my husband. When we're in public that embarrasses him, because I come off as a "typical bitchy wife". How can I stop?
By fear of alcohol, do you mean that you're afraid of drinking it, or you're afraid of your husband drinking?
Your husband needs to understand your issue with it and not call you names, but instead help you deal with it.
If you don't want to drink, you certainly don't have to; if it's your husband's drinking that you're worried/scared about, maybe you could...
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People who cut themselves... do you get a dopamine or any kind of "buzz" from this?
I don't cut anymore, but when I did, yes. It's an emotional release, and I often felt excited and light headed afterward.
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I cut myself. I have been for two years, I am fourteen years old. I am scared to tell anyone my parents already have to deal with my sisters deppression I don't think they can handle a cutter. What should I do?
Cutting isn't an illness, it's a symptom of other issues. Why do you cut? Is there a way to change it, and how? Figuring those things out helps.
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How come it's 'Okay' to be a feminist, but not the be a 'masculinist'?
Feminism is wanting for the women to have equal rights as men.
I have no idea what Masculinism is. Wanting to have the same rights as women? That would be silly, I doubt guys want to be set back in their rights. Wanting more rights than women? That's assholery. *shrug*
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All you Feminists, I have a question: If cooking is "demeaning women’s work" then why are most of the world's best chefs men?
I am a feminist, and I don't consider cooking demeaning -- just the notion that it's the woman's "natural place" to do it. I like to cook not because I am a woman, but because I find it fun.
I've no doubt there are just as many good male cooks as female cooks. However, from what I hear, it's nearly impossible for a woman to become a chef because, according to...
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Why does it seem like the whole world is increasingly becoming tranny? You can't tell if a woman is a real woman these days!
How is a transsexual woman not a "real" woman?
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What are the do's and don'ts for dating a feminist?
DO treat her/him (yes, men can be feminist) with respect, how you would like to be treated
DON'T be sexist
Oh wait, that's the rules for dating any woman -- actually, it's those are good rules for ANY sort of relationship.
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When a woman calls another woman a bitch, she's not offended. But when a man says it, why do women get angry and uptight?
What! Last time another woman called me a bitch, I got fuming mad.
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Why do feminists use the word misogynist so often?
I use it because I need some word to explain what I often see around me.
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I've really hated being a girl for a few months now. Knowing that I'm a girl makes me feel sad. I feel like i wish I was a boy. I'm emberessed to be having these thoughts, anyone have any advice or in the same situation?
Well, try to sort out why you feel this way. Is it because of the way you are treated based on the fact that you're a girl, or because you just feel like you should be a boy?
If it's the former, you can try to confront the people who treat you unfairly or avoid them all together.
If it's the latter, think of what would make you feel closer to your actual identity -- cross...
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What is the goal of modern feminism? Equality, female superiority, or just to stick it to men and boys?
Equality, respect, no more double standards or insulting stereotypes; to encourage women, from a young age, to be independent, to promote sexual equality (no more "slut" calling), availability of birth control and the such, and many other things.
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Have you ever been in a situation where people were condescending to you? How did you handle it?
Many, many times.
When I was younger, I would get upset and not say anything.
Now I get angry and show it very clearly, for the most part.
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Do you ever get tired of defending what you believe in?
Yes. Where I live, everyone is a bigot, so I get pretty disheartened sometimes and just want to crawl under a rock away from them, and sleep.
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Why do many girls post questions asking why "guys only want to get into a girl's pants" when in fact they also want sex, and many times want it even more then the guy in high school?
Well, most girls and guys are trained, as they grow up, to fit and/or believe in stereotypes. So girls are taught all their lives that they should be "pure" and not have sex until marriage, and that guys will manipulate them into becoming a "slut", and guys are taught that they should get as many girls as possible or they aren't a "man". Not everyone buys into...
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What do you think of feminists?
I am a feminist. It worries me that many people (both guys and girls) are convinced feminists are anti-man dykes with hairy legs when they've never even met a feminist and wouldn't recognize feminism if it danced naked in front of them with carrots up its nose.
I may not agree with older-generation feminists on everything, but times back then were different, and I am thankful to...
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Does reverse discrimination exist as other than a PC term? What does reverse discrimination mean to you and do you agree with the concept?
No, there is only discrimination. People who use the former term seem to think the only kind of discrimination there is is white against black, so if a black person is racist it becomes a "reverse", but in truth, discrimination is discrimination, no matter what race is doing it and what race is on the receiving end.
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In your experience, are there any conversation topics that men are able to talk about openly, but women are berated if they dare speak about them?
Bodily functions (farting, burping, peeing, menstruating, etc.), sex, and "men's" topics like sports and cars and the such. Well, actually, on the last two they're not berated -- just ignored or not taken seriously.
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Why can only black people say nigger and if a white person does they are racist?
It's a psychological thing. When people get called derogatory names a lot, taking them back and using them makes them feel like they have some control of it. Though personally, I don't think I would use it even if I were black.
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I had herpes 2 years back on my upper lips and the blisters were gone(treated) within a week of their appearance. Does that means i won't be able to kiss a girl ever?
You can kiss, just not during the blistery period.
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What does falling in love with someone feel like?
Tingly.
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Denying your partner sex: Is it an indirect method of breaking up or just a way of keeping it special?
Well, usually if I deny sex it's because I'm not in the mood for it, more than anything else -- not any sort of insult. He's free to wank away.
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Who would make a better President of the U.S. , Bill Oreilly or Rush Limbaugh and why?
Are you kidding me?! Neither!
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My tooth is really reacting to heat. It is very sensitive if i drink something hot or eat something warm. What could that be?
Could be a cavity or an infection in the root of the tooth... last time that happened to me, turned out I needed a root canal.
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Did you know tomatoes used to be considered poison,and it was only after they were rumored to be an aphrodizeac that people began to eat them regularly?
Yeah -- and people refused to eat potatoes for the same reason, since they ate the part of the plant that actually was poisonous.
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I am 19 and the man I am dating is 52. A 33 year age gap. What would you say as a friend or outsider to this relationship?
Whatever makes you happy.
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How do I get my boyfriend to let me have more orgasms during sex? I try to get my hands down there to touch myself, as just his penetration doesn't lead me to orgasm, be he doesn't like the feeling of my hands down there. It's not fair! Help?
Well, if he gets behind you, on top of you (not sure what that position is called) he can easily do it for you, just tell him how you like it. If he doesn't want to do that, and won't let you do it yourself even with the knowledge that you won't orgasm otherwise, maybe it's time to dump him.
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I've felt emotional pain for a long time and I am getting really sick of it. It is affecting my relationship as well as the way I interact with others. How can I fix this problem?
Well, what causes it (if you don't mind me asking)? The way I usually fix my problems is a lot of self analyzing and getting away from bad environments and people to somewhere where I feel safe.
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Were Regina Spektor and 99 Luft Balloons the height of Russian music for you until you heard this guy?
Um... well, Regina Spektor has lived in the US since she was little so most people back in Russia don't know her (from my experience -- I had to look her up), and the lady who sang 99 Luft Balloons was German.
Glad to know my tastes (as far as the liking of Vladimir Vyssotski) are getting around, though. Also, to answer your question, no -- my favourite Russian bands are currently...
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What did your grandfather do for a living? Mine- Real Estate Agent
Engineer on dams. Still is.
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How offensive are shows like Family Guy and South Park in comparison to all that other vulgar entertainment out there?
What vulgar entertainment?
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Why do women get grouchy when men look at them sexually, like looking at their tits, their ass, or body? Men never get upset when women look at them sexually?
What, like leering? Perhaps because they like to be viewed as a whole person rather than a pair of boobs floating in the air.
I've no doubt there are men who do. I think, however, most women don't yell out degrading things at the guys passing by, so guys don't generally have a reason to feel too threatened.
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I just found out I'm 2 weeks pregnant. Since I didn't know, in the past two weeks I have: smoked a few cigs, had 2 glasses of wine, and smoke pot twice. Have I hurt my baby? Do I need to stop taking Lexapro?
What!
Er -- probably not; probably yes.
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Why do people smoke after they have sex? I cant figure it out!
To keep up the dopamine high.
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It's funny how Obama claims to be a christian,yet he has not even nor will try to get Christ back into schools,or in our government,yet he was in a hurry to get abortion and gay rights passed.How can he claim he is a christian,when he is clearly not?
Well, you see, Obama is quite smart in that area. He realizes that, 1. Our country is not founded on religion, and there's event hat great rule which allows people to choose their own religion, 2. Whether he agrees or not with abortion, when it is made illegal a lot of women end up dying trying to do it themselves, and it should be realized by everyone that it's the person's...
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Is being 17 and going out with a 23 yr old bad...?
Not if you have a good relationship.
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"Be yourself" - How useful, really, is that advice?
Very, but it has been repeated so much by people who have no idea how hard it is or what it means that it has become a cliche.
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I saw a funny T-shirt today that said "It's your Hell. You burn in it." Thoughts?
I'd like that shirt.
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Is it possible to survive with all the bones in your legs removed?
Sure, but not walk.
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My man hits me and never says sorry what does that mean.It makes me feel guilty like I am the one who made him do it.
It's not your fault, at all. No matter what you do or say, it is never ok for him to hit you. He probably has some psychological problems -- ones that you can't help him with, because ultimately it's up to him to go and see a therapist and confront his issues. You need to get out, fast -- doesn't matter where to, as long as it's a safe place.
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Why do so many people it seems these days have such low self esteem?
It's the same amount as always, they just talk about it more.
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Where are the coffee beans, my brothers?
Oh, sorry, I was making myself some testicles out of them.
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If I was to grab your S/O rear, what would you do to me?
Raise a quizzical eyebrow at you.
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Do vegetarians get meat cravings?
Some do. Personally, I think I've only craved meat two or three times since I became vegetarian (2 or 3 years now). At the very beginning, I once ended up eating a piece of bologna (I hadn't had anything to eat in a long time and it was the only thing around), which used to be something I loved, but it made me feel sick just because of the taste and smell.
There's a big...
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Personally, I see viewing porn (alone) as cheating. You're lusting after other men/women, and claiming that you're not actually with them seems like a poor justification. If you don't agree, will you please explain to me your point of view on this?
As long as you don't flame me. :P
To me, cheating is when you agree to a monogamous relationship and then start another (whether sexual or romantic) relationship with someone else. So, it has to involve someone else and their lusting/loving/whatever back.
I have no problem with my SO thinking someone else is attractive, because it happens to everyone and I view putting mental blocks on...
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There is this girl in my school who is gorgeous independent and sharp. i try to use my body langauge cocky comedy but i feel like im tryin to hard and annoying any tips on how to win this girls heart?
Stop trying to put on an act, just come up to the girl and try to make friends with her.
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Why is it that smokers have no respect for others?
Why is it that you feel the urge to make blanket statements?
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Why is it OK to teach our kids in school about leprechauns easter bunny and not God?jesus?"
I don't recall any of my schools ever teaching me about leprechauns OR the easter bunny.
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Should pro-choice services be allowed to advertise on television?
Yes. Information on options are always a good thing.
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Why do people who don't believe in GOD or the bible costantly answering and commenting on something they don't beleive in?
Because people who do believe in god (in all caps, for some reason) are constantly addressing atheists in their questions.
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Athiests: Much to your surprise, you meet a diety on your way to work. Who was it, and what did you talk about, if anything?
I met Perun... he dodged a bit of lightning at me (due to being in a bad mood), but I dodged and managed to run away.
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Are you wearing a ring?If you are,did someone gave it to you and what does it mean to you?
Yes, it's a silver ring with 9-point stars/snowflake type things engraved all around it. I don't remember how (or when, exactly) I got it, I think I found it -- it's my sort of good luck thing, except not quite as light hearted and superstitious as that. I'm not really sure how to explain it, I just always have it on.
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Do any women think that the extreme male body-builder physique is sexually attractive?
No doubt, but not me, personally. I like a bit of leanness, myself, I don't care if the guy has much muscle or not.
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Do you think the police watch Answerbag?
Probably, but they probably don't do shit -- I remember there was one time when some person kept asking questions that seemed pretty sexual-abuse related (meaning they sounded like a perp) and the worst that happened to them, as far as I know, was being banned.
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I'm 27, educated and attractive. What do I need to do to bag a rich guy? I'm sick of dating broke asses.
How about you become rich yourself and not take your issues out on other people?
That, or you could call up Hugh Hefner. He's a douchebag and you'll probably have to fondle his wrinkled balls and do some deprecating porn acts for him, but he's rich! You'll get your wish.
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Are those around you in the mornings Grouches?
No, my boyfriend is really good about waking up early -- unlike me. I've had some friends that were actually genuinely afraid of waking me up, just because of the way I look at them when they do.
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Hi, i am 17 years old and i am 5 foot 3 and i weigh 163 lbs, should i lose weight or accept my weight? (please be honest).
Well, if it is that way when you eat healthily, I wouldn't worry about it. But even if you don't, and you want to change it, I'd say learning to like your body is always a good thing to do, no matter what you decide to do with it.
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Do you think that your mom is best woman in the world?
Ha, no, far from it. She was cold and occasionally abusive, and often uses the excuse that she's "being assertive" for being selfish and neglectful. Sure, she has some good sides to her personality, but every time I'm around her I freak out too much inside to notice them.
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Do you downrate just because you disagree with a Question or a Answer?
Yes. Keep in mind that the things I disagree with are usually the kind exhibiting a good amount of bigotry and/or pure assholery.
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Do you like fondue? Have you ever been to a fondue resteraunt.
Yes, and once. It was the Melting Pot -- it was delicious, but crazy-expensive -- maybe I'll go there on a special occasion when I'm a bit richer.
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Do you own a jewelry box?
A couple, they're all presents.
One from my father, of green painted wood -- Switzerland
One from a lady I knew, of red silk -- from Korea, I think
One shaped like an egg and another of carved wood that's from the 50's -- both from Russia
And some cigar boxes, though I mainly use them to store herbs rather than jewelry.
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What would u have for supper? You've worked hard all day trying to eat right and your had ur daily exercise and now its supper time, u want something good, light, and feels u up for the rest of the night. What do u eat?
I'd have some roasted vegetables of all sorts with salt, pepper, and olive oil.
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♣ Can you describe AB glitch in one word? ♣
Dementia.
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Are you a teenager?
Quite.
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I am 13 and my mom caught my girlfriend giving me a hand job and now my girlfriend doesn;t want to anymore what should i do
Find a better place for handjobs, I guess.
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If women don't like for men to stare at their chest then why do they flaunt it?
They don't always flaunt it, sometimes they just have big chests and anything other than a turtleneck becomes revealing. As for girls who dress with their chests showing, whether they do it because it goes with their style of fashion, or they want you to look at it, I'd imagine most wouldn't want you to STARE, just catch a glimpse. Staring tends to make people feel a bit...
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Ladies:Why do women not tell men when something is wrong or when they want something? Sometimes they even say that we should already know what they want. How is that possible? I've heard many women say that they themselves don't even know what they want!
I usually tell people what I feel/want, unless I don't want them to be upset or worried for me, or I am very angry and have to wait it out so when I do explain myself, I don't explode.
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Older men at work keep giving me their number and touching my ass. I'm a very innocent girl who wears my proper ugly mcds uniform. Most of my bosses think I should be sweet about it. I am in a steady relationship that I take quite seriously. what do I do?
File a sexual harassment suit. Both those men and your boss are assholes.
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Muslims around the world celebrate Eid al-Adha to mark the end of the Haj by slaughtering sheep, goats, cows and camels - any problem with this?
And Americans slaughter animals all throughout the year. So compared to that, I don't find the Muslim customs in question particularly problematic.
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What are some good books i don't really care what genre i just need some good books to read
Wicked - Gregory Maguire
Catch-22 - Joseph Heller
Job: A Comedy of Justice - Robert A. Heinlein
Master and Margarita - Bulgakov
Moominpappa at Sea - Tuve Jansson
etc.
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How old would your daughter have to be before you decided that it was Ok for her to wear make up on a daily basis?
Whenever she wants -- it's her body. My only concern would be if someone was pressuring for her to do it, and that she uses relatively good make up (I'm not talking good in the "expensive" sense but rather in the "lead-free" sense).
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Have you ever had something that has left a bad taste in your mouth..and what was it?
Very concentrated motherwort tea. It's great for anxiety and insomnia, but I have learned to always dilute it with water -- otherwise it's so disgustingly bitter it almost makes me throw up.
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What were some of the songs the people who raised you would sing around the house as you were growing up?
In translation from Russian:
"Crimson bells"
"Little birch"
"Captain"
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Is it irrational to not want medication as a solution to depression?
Not at all.
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Splenda or cane sugar?
Sugar! As long as you consume it in moderation, it's not bad for you. As far as splenda, though, I'm pretty paranoid about consuming something not only fake, but mostly made of chlorine, and it tastes horrible anyway.
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Why is it if a man hits a woman he's bad? Why is it if a woman hits a man he deserves it? Can't we all stop being sexist and end the violence once and for all?
I have never heard anyone say that if I woman hits a man, he deserves it, but if I did, I'd tell them to go to the therapist. The only reason anyone should hit someone else is in self defense.
I think the reason that idea has come around is because women are considered "the weaker sex" so some assholes out there probably thought, "haha, that girl hit him! girls can't...
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Why are Atheist so hateful to those who believe? Does this mean that believers are more loving in nature?
I have some Christian friends, and I'm certainly not hateful to them, and it helps that they don't push ideas like that onto me or call me hateful.
Hah -- I wonder how would you apply that idea to this guy I knew -- he was a priest, apparently a very good one, but he raped a friend of mine -- his own daughter -- until she was 17. Darling, your amount of "lovingness"...
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What would the world be like if men had periods instead?
There would be more and probably better anti-cramping medication.
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Is there a difference between men who enjoy watching women raped in Porn and men who actually go out and rape?
Well -- I imagine men who watch rape porn can't be all grouped together, because some may watch it because of a rape fantasy that they know they wouldn't re-enact in real life, and then there are those that actually want to rape. I say this because there are people out there that enjoy role play with their SO and the such -- so they're the kind of people who may act out rape,...
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Do guys seem to lose enthusaism in a steady relationship and if so, why?
It doesn't depend on the gender.
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How would you feel/what would you do if your parents said that the family inheritance (property, assets, etc.) will all go to your brother because 'he's a boy'?
I'd be so angry I'd disown them and not contact them again. Not because I want the money so much, but because I'm tired of bigotry.
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Many countries have a dish which typifies that country or region. What dish typifies your area?
If you mean my real country, then it would probably be either salted cabbage, or mushrooms soup with potatoes. Or vodka, if you wish to go into drinks.
If you mean the place I live in now, I'd say anything fried in a lot of grease until it becomes frighteningly mushy.
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What is the diffence between communism and nazism?
Communism is the idea that society can be classless and free of oppression and based on common ownership, an idea that unfortunately doesn't seem to work in real life.
Nazism is the idea that straight, Christian people with blonde hair, pale skin, and blue eyes are better in every way than other humans, and that the other humans are a danger to the society and must be destroyed.
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Is it true that people can't forget their EX Partner even if they are going steadily in a new relationship?
Well, unless they have memory loss. I remember all of my exes. However, that certainly doesn't mean I want to be in a romantic or sexual relationship with any of them -- I'm very happy with my current relationship.
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Why do most people who want to lose weight always look for the weight loss answer in a pill form instead of removing their bodies from the couch and breaking a sweat by exercising?
Because it's easier.
Though sometimes people really can't lose weight even if they exercise and eat well.. In which case I think it's better to just stay healthy and accept your body the way it is.
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My ex-boyfriend from high school tried to get in touch with me after 11yrs.I'm married now,is it wrong to call him?
No. Personally, I try to stay friendly with most of my exes.
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Do you hug a BIG body pillow at night?
I dunno, I've always thought my boyfriend was too lively to be considered a pillow.
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What would you do if someone you helped took advantage and stole from you?
I would confront them about it and force them to give whatever they stole back.
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A ugly,poor,sick guy have a beautiful girlfriend.is it possible?
Yeah, people have different standards of what's attractive, and not everyone cares about money that much.
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I'm 17 & have gone from crying everyday to not being able to cry at all. My life seems hopeless, I feel so empty & alone but nothing bad has happened. This has been going on for over 1 month. How do I get out of this? I just want to be happy.
Well, it could be a sudden onset of depression, or hormonal problems (I'm not saying that just because you're a teenager, though), or something bothering you in the back of your mind... Has this ever happened before, and did it come on slowly or all of the sudden?
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Is there still mass bigotry in the world? Where? (I will stay out of this one, except to monitor comments.)
Yes, there's tons -- I could go on forever. But one good example would be the raping of lesbians in Africa-- I don't remember which part, but a bunch of guys are convinced it will "reform" them. It's pretty sick.
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Lets see wasnt the good old U.S.A. founded on religions?
Nope.
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I've been with my girlfriend for 2yrs and I think the spark between us has faded. We never talk like we use to, and now, I feel like she's too pretty for me and she'd be happier with someone else. I love her so much. I need help on what I should do now.
Try spending some time apart -- it gives you time to reevaluate your relationship and sort of get emotionally stable. If you think she's too pretty for you, well, it sounds like you need to work on your self esteem. Also, talk to her about what she thinks of the relationship -- communication is what makes a relationship, in my experience.
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Do you think teenage girls can actually be in love?
Yes, and it pisses me off when people say it can't be real because they're "immature". I had a two year relationship starting from when I was 13 or 14 (we split up mutually and peacefully and are still friends), and am currently 17 and living with my boyfriend. If I can have a job, be on the lease for a house, and argue without shouting and slamming doors, I'd say...
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Is nudity in art porn?
No.
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What one thing would make your life easier?
More money. And being 18, because if you're under it, most people don't hire you because of some crap rules and because they assume you're still living with your parents and don't really need it.
Sorry, that's two things.
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Do u find woman with hairy armpit hot?
If I find them hot as a whole, then yes. But even if I don't, I have no problem with hairy armpits -- the only reason people find it so gross around here is because they're programmed to think that women should be hairless and perfumed at all times (just look up all the scented sprays for vaginas). Also, to those women who say hairy armpits on a woman are unhygienic (??), then I...
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What religion (or lack of religion) do you follow and why?
One that I invented just for myself. Except for a main deity, which doesn't exist.
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How do you make rice pudding?
This is the recipe I follow, except I put in less milk and substitute cinnamon with cardamom:
http://www.elise.com/recipes/archives/001427rice_pudding.php
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Do long distance relationships really work for teenagers in high school?
Yes. Do long distance relationships really work for adults?
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The use of anti depressent medication has become a bit controversial. I have taken these meds. and have benefited from them. Have you taken SSRI's and do you think you have benefited from them?
After one week of taking Lexapro, I ended up cutting myself for the first time in almost a year and started making up ways to kill myself. So, no.
But it works differently for everyone.
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I am overweight which adds to my depression. Just started anti depressants which is adding weight like crazy. Tell me how exactly is taking meds which is adding my problem helping my depression..it just makes me more depressed with my weight gain? anyone?
They're supposed to help you by working on the chemicals in your brain, the imbalance of which causes depression. Weight gain is a side effects of some of them -- I suggest you look up which antidepressants don't do it (for an example, I'm taking Welbutrin right now, which probably has made me lose some).
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I'm having a caramel Bailey's, what are you having?
Chai tea.
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Do you know any word in another language? (Not in English)
I could write a novel in Russian. Then again, it's my first language.
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I am having hot flashes and cramps. Are these signs of being pregnant? If more detail is needed I can give it.
Hot flashes make it sound more like menopause.
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Atheisits- Since you dont believe in god how/ why do you think we are here?
Evolution, and there doesn't have to be a purpose, but you can make one for yourself if you want.
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What do you think about this? In Michigan, A woman isn't allowed to cut her own hair without her husband's permission.
That's stupid.
Here in Georgia, sodomy, oral sex, sex toys, and certain types of condoms are illegal... unfortunately, the last two laws are fairly new.
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Ok i think my four yr old may possilbly is being molested and im not exactly sure how to deal with this i know Im going to take her to the docs asap but how do i bring this up to the doc im a young mom and terrified for my child and completly confused
Get her away from any people that you think might have done it. If the doctor finds symptoms of molestation -- or if the child says something that sounds like a clue -- it may be time to contact the police. You could try asking her questions, but don't ask any leading sort of questions (like, "Did ____ do this?").
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Hi girls, when you got a sudden itching in a private places, what you do.
If it continues for more than, say, a couple of minutes, and it's not from hair growing back from shaving, then I assume it's probably a yeast infection and take some acidophillus (sp?) pills or eat some yogurt.
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My boyfriend and i have been having unprotected sex(he pulls out) for over a year, i've never gotten pregnate, and before me he was with his girlfriend for 8 years and she never got pregnate, is he infertile, or has he mastered pulling out?
Probably the first one, since there's pre-cum. Be careful, though.
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I have hair growing inside my vagina lips and it is so annoying, i am a freak can anyone help?
You're normal. Body hair is normal. If it causes irritation, just cut it off very carefully.
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Is hugh hefner a stereotype, or is he cool?
He annoys me.
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Hi girls/ladies, you got a choice for sex with three guys, one is very cute, but his dick is very small, the other is average looking but medium dick and the last one is very ugly, but he got almost 14 inches, which one will you choose, be honest.
I'd choose the one who had the most similar sexuality to mine, I imagine. Though 14 inches is not a good thing.
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Ladies... I am a guy who wants a girls to use a strapon dildo with me doggystyle. I am straight and i love everything about girls but this is a fantasy of mine. Does this mean i might be bi?
You're bi if you're attracted to guys as well as girls. From your question, I'd say you just enjoy sex toys and prostate stimulation.
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When i have sex with my husband, he always bites my neck, and my nipples, and it's not a gentle bite, it's always a hard one, sometimes it really hurts, but when i tell him to do it gently he'll bite even more harder, what shall i do about this?
Tell him that you'll bite his balls exactly the same way if he keeps doing it.
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Your teenage son/daughter comes home from school and tells you that they are gay. What do you say? What do you do? How do you feel about this?
I'd say that's cool and that if they have a girlfriend/boyfriend, they're welcome to come over any time.
I'd probably feel neutral.
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Do guys really prefer slutty girls over good girls?
Yeah, we all know there are only two kind of girls out there: "slutty" and "good". Hello, Whore/Madonna complex.
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What is a good age to start havin sex?? 15?? 16?? younger or older?? for my children..
Whenever they're ready.
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What would be your reaction to a person who said that girls/teens who wear short dresses and skirts are "asking" to be secretly filmed from below because they are flaunting themselves anyway?
My first impulse would be to punch this person.
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My boyfriend wants to have sex with me, I'm not so sure, because I'm only 14. We've been going out since April, but things haven't gone very far yet. What should I do?
Don't have sex because someone else wants to, do it for yourself as well.
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Why is it that when i boy has sex, he gets praised, but when a girl has sex, everyone punishes her and views her as a slut, even though it may be her first time? ASAP!!
Double standards. Just ignore the idiots who believe them.
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I don't think masterbation is right but, my friends keep urging me to masterbate. Should I or Shouldn't I? (Please tell me if it has something to do with health.)
Kind of weird that they're URGING you to do it, but that aside, masturbation is actually good for you -- at the very least because it ups the chemicals in your body that make you feel happy.
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Why do guys only want that one thing from girls?
That's stereotyping. Everyone wants sex, not just guys, and how important it is to them is determined by their hormones and personality, not gender.
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What would you do if your 12 year old told you she was ready to have sex?
I would get her to choose the kind of birth control she wants to use, talk to her about the importance of being assertive in sexual relationships, and answer any questions she has.
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My son is 16 yrs. old, I was picking up his laundry in his room, and found 10 condems.He is pretty open, and I don't believe he has a girlfriend now.Why so many condems?How do I talk to him about having sex, just to have sex? CONCERNED MOM
Well, they do come in packs. :P
Just ask him how he views sex and tell him your opinions, and go from there, I guess.
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What age was it when you lost you "v-card". And whats the youngest, a teen should ever think about going to have sex? in your opinion...
15. I don't think thinking about sex is something you can control much, but I think that they should be educated about it as soon as they start being interested in it, and without judgment.
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I'm a virgin and im about to be 13. My girlfriend said that she is ready and im ready to. Do you think i should go for it or no? If yes give me advice or if no tell me why.
Sure, but use protection. Get someone to buy condoms for you -- you don't want the risk of pregnancy.
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How many fragrances are in your collection?
About 8, in the form of essential oils.
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Do you think that looking at pornography is cheating?
No.
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Would the world be a better place if more people smoked marijuana?
It would certainly be better if it was legalized and people were educated about it.
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I'm self conscious because I am 5' 10 but always want to wear heels, but my friends think it is to tall. What do you think?
Wear them with pride.
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I made Macaroni salad this evening, and it came out bland. What do you normally put in yours?
I usually put (other than the macaroni):
Tiny tomatoes
Olives
Oregano
Garlic-y olive oil
Apple cider vinegar
Capers (sometimes)
Grated cheese
And it is delicious. :D
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My husbands BF (50 year old guy) hates me, called me a b*!*ch to my face. My husband refused to stand up for me and insist on staying friends with this guy. Am I right to be so angry? It's eating me up!
I would be furious.
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Have you ever sleeped with some one cuz you felt sorry for them?
Ah, the "pity fuck". No, and I don't plan to.
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Who do you have the urge to write a strongly worded letter to?
My father.
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MY WIFE AND I RECENTLY GOT MARRIED AND SHE JUST DEPLOYED TO IRAQ LATELY IVE HAD SEXUAL DREAMS ABOUT OTHER WOMEN AND I WAKE IN COLD SWEATS FEARING MY WIFE HAS LEFT ME BECAUSE I CHEATED IN THE DREAM I HATE THIS FEELING WHAT SHOULD I DO TO STOP IT?
Could you turn off the caps lock, please?
You can't control your dreams, nor are you actually cheating -- don't pay any mind to them.
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Would you have a problem going to a doctor that you knew was cheating on his spouse and yet he claimed to be a "christian" and had christian music playing in his doctors office? (he got caught in the act by his wife!! LOL)
It's not my business what's going on with him outside of the doctor's office.
I would have a problem with his Christian music, though.
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Ok so i am a lesbian and my girl friend cuts. she is unwilling to seek professional help. I need her to stop!!! her cuts are getting to be about 6 in long! she moved last year so she is an hour away but I see her a lot! How can I help?
Find out why she does it (troubles at some, abuse of some sort on the past, depression, etc.) and help her figure out what she would like to change about her life to make it better. The problem is not just in the cutting, cutting's just a symptom of something bigger being wrong.
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Which Hollywood couple are you sick of hearing about?
All of them.
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I found rolling papers in my mom and step dads room. i wasnt like snooping, but i was in there bathroom and looked ontop of the cabnet(just had a sense to do it) then seen it. im not sure what to do. and i dont want jump to conclusions or confront them.
Maybe they're rolling their own cigs, or maybe they need them to make some joints. Either way, I don't see how it's anything to worry about.
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I feel really depressed tonight. I keep thinking about the bad things that have happened to me, any ideas/jokes/comforting words to help? I'm not picky, just desperate
How bout these? They tend me make me smile.
*hugs*
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What do you think of a creed that tells parents their newborn babies need to be baptized so as to be "cleansed of original sin"? Do you find this sort of thinking morally unacceptable and offensive?
I don't believe in sin and I don't believe on pushing religion on children (or anyone, really), so, yes.
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I think I may be bi-sexual, is this something my family ever has to know? They can be quite homophobic.
If you have a same sex partner, then it's possible they'll find out anyway. :(
Other than that, well, tell them (or not) whenever you feel ready to deal with their reactions. It doesn't have to be now.
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I was raped 2 years ago, but still consider myself a virgin, is this wrong?
No. Rape is about control of other people and violence, not sex.
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A lady at work just had a baby which made all the other mothers talk about their reproductive experiences. How do you feel about women talking about bearing children in all it's natural, sticky and bloody detail?
Fine with me.
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I am a 61 year old woman, and I have been bleaching my hair with bleach for years now. It is a platnum blond. And I wonder if it can cause brain damage? I am starting to get things messed up. And I am a little worried. I can't remember dates
I doubt it's the bleach. For many people, around that time of their life is when they start having memory problems; I think it depends on whether you're genetically predisposed to it. If you're worried, though, maybe you should go to the doctor -- I suppose anything is possible.
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My bf and I have been together for 4 mos and live togther. Turns out he still talks to his ex gf. He said they ended on good terms. Does anyone find a problem with this? What should I do? I dont like that he talks to her, but should I say something to him
I don't think there's necessarily anything wrong with that, personally. Me and one of my exes ended the relationship because neither of us felt romantically for the other anymore, but we remain very good friends. Why don't you get him to introduce you to this ex of his? It will probably make you feel a lot better -- maybe you'll even become friends, who knows.
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No matter what kind of shampoo and conditioner i use, my hair does not change (still not nice, shiny or silky). What can i do to make it healthier?
Make sure you eat healthily and generally lead a healthy life style.
Also, many shampoos often create a chemical dependency in your hair and many have ingredients that harm your scalp. You could try and find a better shampoo, or use non-shampoo ingredients on your hair (such as castile soap or solutions of baking soda in water and vinegar in water -- crazy as the last two sound, they work...
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Are bisexual men and women born bisexual or is it learned?
Born. I was attracted to girls as young as in elementary school (not sexually, then, of course), around the same time as I started getting crushes on boys. I never "learned" it from anybody.
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Are child beauty pageants wrong, i think so!
Yes, it's just the parents living vicariously through their children -- I think it's very selfish of them.
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Can we adopt the Japanese custom of having our wives walk 5 feet behind us while in public? I sure could use it.
Um, how about not. The Japanese have a lot of misogynist customs and ideas in their society (just look at those rape games and hentai), and we don't need to add theirs to ours (which are also aplenty). If you don't like your wife, divorce her.
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If you met somebody and really really Loved them, then found out they go to Nudist Camps, and expect you to go with them - would you...?
I'd try it out and see how I feel about it.
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TIn Fellowship of the Rings did Galadriel's ring create Lothlorien, or did it exist already? Also do the other rings, which were forged when the One was forged, depend upon the power of the One to have power themselves, or is their power not reliant upon
It existed already, and they had power of their own.
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Do you think adults have taken all the fun out of being a kid for kids?
Yeah, I think a lot of adults can be overprotective (Don't play on the driveway, Timmy, you might get snatched up by a kidnapper! Don't sit in the grass, you might get bitten by a bug!").
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Do people who have started smoking cigarettes in the last decade think that you can't get cancer from smoking? serious question.
Why would I?
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Is Forrest Gump a great movie, yes/no? (I love it)
Bleh, I found it to be a bit mediocre.
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What would you do to keep your S/O satisfied?
It's not my job to satisfy someone else. I like us doing fun things together, doing each other favours; if one of us is unhappy with the way things are going, we try and talk it out, but none of those things are done with the purpose of 'satisfying' him, on my part.
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What is something with spots or dots?
A poisonous mushroom (i.e. amanita muscaria).
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If there was one part of your facial features you could change, what would it be?? only one!
I'd make my eyes bigger.
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Why, when you ask a religious person to proove there is a god, do they say, "proove there isn't"? Why can't they just answer the question?
Because they don't know how to prove it.
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Congratulations, you have just landed a job paying $100k per year. What's the first thing you'll buy/do? + ratings to all who answer
Help my boyfriend pay off his debt, and then save up and buy a house.
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My gf cuts herself and pops pills. She has alot of home issues. She has cut back alot since shes met me but she still does it. she said thats shes trying to stop but when shes around friends she BEGS for pills like viciden, kolipens, loricets. and razors.
While the first instinct may be to get her to a counselor, if she lives with her parents (which I assume cause the home issues) that can be problematic -- if they are abusive, they may deny that she has a problem, refuse to pay for it, or the counselor may take their side and not make her feel any better (abusive parents can be very convincing to other people, unfortunately).
I'd suggest...
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How many different ways can potatoes be prepared? Can you name some ways?
Mashed, baked, fried, deep fried (ew), and used as dough for making savory pies.
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Help, I gave my gf a lame to her but cool to me gift for her birthday, a video game (that i play), I did take her out but she is still pissed off - how do I make it right?
Did she not like it because she doesn't play, or because it doesn't fit with her notion of a good present?
If it's the former, find out what she would like to get and get her that. It's best to get people presents that are cool to them, whether they are cool or lame to you. :P
In the end, though, it's only a present, not a symbol of how much you love her.
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Does the world seem more difficult now that technology is progressing? People are more impatient and more rude/pushy it seems. Thoughts?
I think people have always been rude and pushy, now that we have internet we just get to see more of it.
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What do you have that you wish you didn't?
Part of a broken bed frame in the living room.
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Why do
people flirt with people other than their s/o if they are in a relationship?
Why not? It doesn't necessarily mean that they don't love their SO.
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What words would you use to describe your partner?
Funny, caring, annoying. :P
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How would you feel if one of your best friends became a child molester?
Confused, sad, angry, worried.
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It occurred to me that I have a crush on my philosophy teacher. It's totally innocent & everything, nothing beyond philosophical rants for a bit after class or back and forth emails my thoughts on some of the readings. But I feel like maybe it's not okay?
I think it's ok; most people get crushes on a teacher eventually. I think it usually becomes a problem only if you get into sexual relations with them -- but you said it's pretty innocent, so I wouldn't worry about it.
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I think I might be bisexual, what do I do?
Proceed with life as you normally do. :P
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Stop for ONE second....Think of ONE thing about your Significant Other that makes you smile...The FIRST thing you thought of......What is it.....
The bizarre faces and sounds he sometimes makes at me.
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I planted some herbs. Something has eaten my cilantro, it left nothing but the stalks. I don't want to use pesticides. I want an organic garden. What would eat the cilantro and nothing else, and how do I stop it from happening again without pesticides
Try to find out whether it has a companion plant (a plant that would repel whatever vermin tends to eat another plant -- for an example, I've heard tansy sometimes planted near cucumbers and squash to prevent them from being ruined).
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When was the last time you got beaten up by your parents?
Around 7th grade or so. Fortunately, I now live away from them.
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Is it hard for you to empathize with women who stay with an abusive husband/boyfriend?
Yes -- though I do understand why they do it -- but after having a friend keep going back and back again to get beat up, I want to push her off a cliff.
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If I eat a candy bar or a couple of cookies after lunch every couple of days, am I ingesting too much sugar?
I doubt it. You could check on the back, I think you're supposed to eat about, I dunno, 30 grams a day?
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I have done 3 bmi tests which say im underweight, i need ways to put on weight, anyone got any suggestions?
Well, the first thing is that you can't always trust BMI tests -- I've known a lot of people that were perfectly normal looking and healthy, and they were overweight/underweight according to their BMI (some of them, because they had muscles, which weigh more than fat). If you feel healthy at your weight and you eat normally, I wouldn't worry about it.
If, however, you feel even...
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I know I'm still young, but I have a serious commitment problem. I found the right guy, and I know I'm right, so don't question that, but I just can't seem to get a relationship to last with him because I don't like feeling so tied down. How can I stop?
Well, you could suggest an open relationship -- meaning you can get into sexual relations with other people than each other, but you are monogamous as far as the romantic part of the relationship; you could decide to wait to get into a relationship, or you could get into the relationship and see if that goes away after a while.
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Ladies and gents: what if your man (or yourself) had testicular cancer and one of the side effects to having the testes removed was growing c cup sized breasts, would you still have the surgery done? ladies how would you treat your man?
Of course, there's no question about it. I imagine at first I'd be a little uncomfortable about boobs being on his (very guyish) body, but I'm sure I'd get used to it shortly.
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If you doodle while listening to something, you will retain 50% more of what you heard than if you don't....at least that is what I just heard a couple of minutes ago. Do you doodle? How is your memory?
Yeah, I heard that not too long ago, as well.
To answer your question, I doodle a lot... but my memory is crappy, anyway. Ah well. I feel early onset sclerosis setting in.
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When life hands you lemons.....(fill in the blank)
I eat the tasty things.
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Can homegrown penicillin be used to safely treat an infection?
Please don't.
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Where are some good sources for buying quality herbs in bulk?
As far as stores, I like Earth Fair, though I think it's only a Southern US sort of chain.
As far as online:
http://www.mountainroseherbs.com/;
http://www.botanical.com/ seems pretty reliable as well.
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Where can I find ideas for natural (homemade) salves?
Here are some sites:
http://www.liferesearchuniversal.com/nature2.html
http://herbalistlisazahn.blogspot.com/2008/07/yarrow-oil-salve-and-tincture-how-to.html
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