http://www.answerbag.com/profile/617804 New Answerbag answers from Waiting for Illumination Wed, 30 May 2012 02:53:59 -0700 Wed, 30 May 2012 02:53:59 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9701255 How can I muster enough to leave?<br /><br />You are not really clear whether it was your husband who humiliated you or his lover's husband (and WHY would you ever listen to him?). But whatever. IF you are going to make it work, then you need to be able to process it all, IF you are to process it, you will need to be able to talk to your... Mon, 27 Sep 2010 14:37:51 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9701255 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9701239 For people who have gone to the Untied Kingdom or who live there. What are some good and fun night clubs.<br /><br />In ALL of the United Kingdom? That's a little like asking if you know any good nightclubs in the United States of America. Mon, 27 Sep 2010 14:31:49 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9701239 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9387318 Girls: what was going through your mind when you lost your virginity and a penis slid inside you for the first time?<br /><br />Pervy troll Sun, 18 Jul 2010 19:01:23 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9387318 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9322900 Should offensive criticism of religions be banned?<br /><br />Nope. Religion should be banned. Anything that encourages people to fantasize about reality in a way that could give them permission to start killing people, a holy war, Armageddon, etc., should be outlawed. Wed, 07 Jul 2010 05:45:39 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9322900 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9303812 How to put an end to being horny.<br /><br />masturbation Mon, 05 Jul 2010 21:16:01 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9303812 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9303809 wife and i are very shy when it comes to talking about sex, need help on how to approach her about we can open up.<br /><br />Start slow and ease her into a short and playful discussion about something you'd like to do. Mon, 05 Jul 2010 21:14:52 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9303809 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9303790 If a guy|girl leaves u because ure "too horny",does that make sense?<br /><br />Sexual compatibility is very important. If you are going to spend the rest of your life with someone, it's a good idea to find someone with a similar sex drive. Imagine that you want sex everyday, and you marry someone who is happy having sex once a month. Neither of you is going to be happy. No,... Mon, 05 Jul 2010 21:07:54 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9303790 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8997287 Would a man who is curious about male bisexuality only perform oral sex on a woman with very large breasts?<br /><br />Share your answer... Thu, 06 May 2010 14:53:15 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8997287 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8926990 When I see someone who is more talented in something than I am, I totally lose my confidence. Why?<br /><br />When you compare yourself to others it will make you both vain and bitter. There will always be greater and lesser people than yourself - so it's a no-win situation. Comparison is odious. Embrace yourself for all the wonderful qualities that make up the package called you and embrace others for... Tue, 20 Apr 2010 11:06:56 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8926990 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8860155 Has anyone commited suicide before? And what way did you try it? Was it by yourself or with someone else?<br /><br />Yes, I killed myself about 6 years ago. I was alone, in a car. I used a vacuum cleaner hose connected to the tailpipe of my car, into the passenger window. The car was running and I was duct taping up the gaps in the window. I don't think I managed to finish before I passed out. Other than the... Tue, 06 Apr 2010 11:37:22 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8860155 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8859659 My wife once asked me if I would ever cheat on her. I replied that i would if it was Shania Twain but added that she would only need to give me the nod and it would be all over. The question is. Would you describe that as cheating or not.<br /><br />Would I describe fantasizing about Shania Twain "cheating"? or would I describe having sex with Shania Twain with your wife's permission "cheating"? in both cases, NO. (your question is kinda unclear) Cheating is about having an understanding or assumption about sexual exclusivity, then going... Tue, 06 Apr 2010 07:45:28 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8859659 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8841479 How hard do you spank your sons? Hard enough to leave stripes and welts. Enough to leave a cherry red butt. Enough to leave a pink butt what<br /><br />Can you say "kinky"? Thu, 01 Apr 2010 07:26:30 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8841479 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8841476 At what age should you start curbing "naked time"? My daughter is 4 (almost 5) and it's starting to bother my husband a little. I always ask her to wear her underwear...she's inside her own home, NEVER outdoors, so I don't see what the big deal is.<br /><br />Hey there I read the other answers and comments and here's something you might want to explore for his peace of mind, and for your daughter's safety. Don't blow your top here - there is no judgement. Ask him if it's possible that part of his discomfort has a sexual edge to it. There are men who... Thu, 01 Apr 2010 07:24:30 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8841476 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8835603 who here would kill his girlfriend and the person that they were cheating with and then throw them in the river outside? I NEED ANSWERS FAST<br /><br />I think only the psychopaths here would do that. Or, perhaps the sociopaths. Dude, you should seek therapy to deal with your anger issues. Tue, 30 Mar 2010 18:53:52 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8835603 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8835594 how do i ask my friend if he wants to try anal sex???? we are both straight,but we have given eachother head and handjobs.<br /><br />Right, you're not straight - either of you. I wouldn't even guess you were bi. I would say you are both gay, and you should get some advice and counselling before you continue your sexual relationship - cause you also sound pretty young. I hope you live in a big city and can find a place to get... Tue, 30 Mar 2010 18:52:15 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8835594 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8835562 More men will pay for sex than women. Is it because some women want it with a special person? Most men and women have strong sex drives. I do know women who would pay for sex and I know men who just want it with someone special. So I guess it's not a gend<br /><br />Almost all sex workers are for male clients. Even the men - they're called rent boys and their clients are men. Why? because women can usually get all the sex they want for free, and women, typically, want to have sex within some kind of relationship (realise that I am generalizing here). Men, on... Tue, 30 Mar 2010 18:40:23 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8835562 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8835556 My wife said she was "turned on" after viewing an email from her friend that had pictures of 80 half naked women showing off their boobs, asses, thongs, ect. She has a libido issue so this surprised me. Is she lying? If not, what do you think it means?<br /><br />Why would she lie, and how would we know if she was some kind of freak who would lie about something so meaningless? Maybe she's a dyke, maybe she's bisexual, maybe she just gets turned on by nudity. If by "a libido issue" you mean she has a low libido, then you just might want to find a way of... Tue, 30 Mar 2010 18:38:13 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8835556 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8835545 I think my friend saw my girlfriend naked naked...<br /><br />I think you will have to kill him. Don't bother talking to him, since he will probably lie anyway, and you know, men who see a woman naked, especially a woman who is walking around a shared apartment, where there are other people, naked, they all have to be either killed or turned into stags. You... Tue, 30 Mar 2010 18:35:09 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8835545 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8835525 Me,my wife talked about doing more she wanted to wait a month,we have but how do i bring it back up in the right way, without sounding pushy<br /><br />you talked about doing more . . . what? I am gonna assume here that you're talking about frequency of sexual relations. You want sex more often, she want's it . . . what, twice a year? You will need to give more information if you really want some advice. But I would say - you're going to... Tue, 30 Mar 2010 18:30:27 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8835525 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8835504 i was wondering Can u get prego by swallowin sperm? i said no and my sisters said yeah what do yall think?<br /><br />I think this is the problem with "abstinence" education people. If there are any parents out there, please go out and tell your children about the basics of human reproduction. Any reproduction actually. You and your sister should go to your parents and ask them, nay beg them, to educate you.... Tue, 30 Mar 2010 18:24:02 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8835504 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8835482 What does this mean?! His reaction was weird!<br /><br />I think you are asking the wrong people. Maybe he was really excited? nervous? Only he would know the answer. Tue, 30 Mar 2010 18:16:10 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8835482 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8835476 I want my wife to sleep with other men, even strangers, but she isnt into it. what can i do?, has anybody ever been in this situation before<br /><br />It's called a cuckolding fantasy - google it and read all about it. Tue, 30 Mar 2010 18:14:40 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8835476 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8835438 What should I do with the fact that my fourteen your old son may have got his fourteen year old girlfriend pregnant .<br /><br />*shrug* What you should have done was instruct him about birth control and sexuality. What you should have done was cultivate an open and honest relationship with him so that once he started dating you could help him navigate the tricky world of teenage relationships. What you should have done... Tue, 30 Mar 2010 18:04:53 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8835438 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8835411 Im now wondering what causes some people to lose their natural aversion to sexual stuff? We all start out innocent and pure especially women<br /><br />You haven't always been disgusted by sex. That is in no way a "natural" reaction. I would suggest that you may want to unpack your disgust and figure out what happened to you that has caused you to believe that sex is dirty, disgusting and dangerous. Tue, 30 Mar 2010 17:53:41 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8835411 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8835392 You are in a relationship with someone whom you have a deep love for, would you say there is a problem if there is no sexual intimacy?<br /><br />There are all kinds of relationships that do not involve sexual intimacy. Friendships, parental, sibling, etc. If you have never been sexually intimate with the person, then I would say you were friends, and you may well love them deeply, but your relationship is not one that would be commonly... Tue, 30 Mar 2010 17:47:43 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8835392 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8806738 What can I do to make my Boyfriend want to come home to ME?<br /><br />How old are you? How long have you been together? What is the nature of your commitment? These details help in the consideration of a good response. My guesses are: a)young b)not long c)not much In which case, I would tell you there are plenty and I mean PLENTY more fish in the sea. Women are... Tue, 23 Mar 2010 09:30:46 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8806738 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8802965 What is the difference between Intelligence and Knowledge?<br /><br />Share your answer... Mon, 22 Mar 2010 12:52:27 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8802965 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8781691 Does mastaurbation make your penis not grow<br /><br />No. Someone is telling you fables to scare you off of masturbating. Masturbation is a perfectly healthy activity with no negative impact on your health or well-being. In fact there is some evidence that men who masturbate to orgasm frequently have less risk of testicular and prostrate cancer.... Tue, 16 Mar 2010 04:24:02 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8781691 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8773993 How do I lick my girlfriends breasts?<br /><br />goin out on a limb here, but I would say - with your tongue. Sat, 13 Mar 2010 16:14:38 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8773993 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8773990 I'm 6.1 Inches In Length And 4.8 In Girth, Is This A Good, Bad Or Small Penis Size For A 19 Year Old?<br /><br />Bad news for you - you are longer than average. (Average being 5.1–5.9 in in length and 4.85 in girth) Oh, the bad news? women whose partners have smaller than average dicks report greater sexual satisfaction. Guys with small members try harder, perhaps. Sat, 13 Mar 2010 16:13:40 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8773990 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8773906 If you have been with a man 7 years & for the past 3 years you have only had sex twice & you get turned down always. What do you do?<br /><br />Ask him what the fuck is up. Tell him you won't live in a sexless relationship, that he may want to live without, but you don't. Then you give him the choice to either go to therapy to work it out, start putting out in hope he gets his groove back, or let you seek something on the side (if you... Sat, 13 Mar 2010 15:33:46 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8773906 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8773890 what is it legal to do sexually if im 14 and shes 14?<br /><br />You should check the laws of your jurisdiction - they differ from state to state and from country to country. There are all kinds of ways you can enjoy sex together if you are both wanting to and it's legal and safe to do so, without vaginal intercourse. The only reason I would advise against... Sat, 13 Mar 2010 15:29:18 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8773890 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8773879 location crank position sensor<br /><br />38° 53' 53.3" north 77° 02' 09.9" west Sat, 13 Mar 2010 15:23:42 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8773879 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8773675 How does one make a comeback from a bad breakup?<br /><br />One takes a break from dating, takes up a few new hobbies, gets lots of exercise (to deal with the lack of sex) reconnects with friends, grieves over the loss of the mate, and, over time, develops an understanding of what went wrong, takes one's share of the responsibility for the problems and... Sat, 13 Mar 2010 13:21:42 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8773675 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8773669 Why am I attracting bad relationships ?<br /><br />Without more info it's hard to answer your question. What makes your relationships "bad"? Sat, 13 Mar 2010 13:19:29 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8773669 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8773665 What does it mean when a guy tells a woman that he likes her more than a friend?<br /><br />I love you more than unicorns! Don't be a retard, what do you think it means? Sheesh, youth is wasted on the young. Okay, here it is. It means that he likes her more than a friend and would like the relationship to become sexual. He says it that way because he wants to know if the woman feels... Sat, 13 Mar 2010 13:16:14 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8773665 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8773661 When having sex with my boyfriend, whom I love, Im worried what he might think and cant stop. Help.<br /><br />What are you worried about what he's thinking? That you're boring? That you're smelly? what? Talk to him and tell him what it is that you're worried about. What's the worst that can happen? He'll say "yeah, I am thinking about how boring the sex is" Then you can BOTH do something to fix it. yay! Sat, 13 Mar 2010 13:12:42 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8773661 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8773651 is it dangerous to insert plastic in the vagina?( like instead of a condom)<br /><br />I take it you mean like Saran-wrapping his cock, rather than using a condom?? I wouldn't say it's "dangerous" unless you call getting pregnant or an STD a danger. Condoms are frankly pretty high-tech devices intended for fitting over a cock and preventing the passage of sperm, bacteria and... Sat, 13 Mar 2010 13:09:02 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8773651 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8773637 can people have sex with cats? such as: lick womens pussys?<br /><br />Yes, animals can be trained for many things. And you didn't ask but, yes, it's wrong. Animals can be trained to do these things, but it's wrong to use them for sex, since they have no ability to consent to sexual acts. Sat, 13 Mar 2010 13:03:32 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8773637 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8773615 I want to recieve anal sex, how do l do this without going to hell or getting a disease? Where do l go to find the guy?<br /><br />I don't think you go to hell for anal, but maybe you believe in some fucked up religion. Disease prevention for anal is called "safe sex" and if you visit your local Family Planning outlet, you can probably get info on that. Heck, if you google "safe sex" you can probably get loads of... Sat, 13 Mar 2010 12:54:36 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8773615 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8773613 Why do ladies prefer to facesit when receiving oral from their man? Is it a control thing?<br /><br />Uh, what's your sample size? I don't know anyone who prefers to "facesit", and with all the guys who have gone down on me, not one has said "wow, what a treat, someone who lets me be on top". Sat, 13 Mar 2010 12:54:02 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8773613 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8773604 what are rules for staring at women at the gym. too the point that his face turns red and he doesnt blink or smile. he just stares hard.<br /><br />That's creepy, and you should tell him so. If he doesn't stop, then tell the people who run the gym. Sat, 13 Mar 2010 12:51:10 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8773604 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8633798 Do you think the earthquake in Haiti was a natural disaster or a man-made act of terrorism? See: http://manmadeearthquake.lookera.net<br /><br />Conspiracy theorists make me chuckle. If you have ANY experience in government at all, you would have a clue how hard it is to get two analysts to agree to any plan of action, never mind whole departments, or sections. If they would agree to a plan of action, their ability to execute it AND keep... Mon, 25 Jan 2010 18:30:11 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8633798 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8633784 Do you think the earthquake in Haiti was a natural disaster or a man-made act of terrorism? See: http://manmadeearthquake.lookera.net<br /><br />Share your answer... Mon, 25 Jan 2010 18:20:28 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8633784 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8578575 I just had a break up and i m feeling blue ...... i want to suicide what should i do?<br /><br />Stop being a drama queen (or king) and suck it up. Everyone feels shitty after a break-up. You'll get over it. Killing yourself is the most stupid selfish thing you can do, and you won't feel better, or affect her life. What you will do is destroy forever the lives of the people who really... Sat, 02 Jan 2010 23:15:38 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8578575 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8578557 What if your ex left you a Facebook message saying "a plague be upon thee vile seductress wench, and a plague upon thy future generations"?<br /><br />Damn, that would be awesome. I love the idea of being a vile seductress wench. I would think the guy is cool, and would probably try to seduce him again! Sat, 02 Jan 2010 23:04:48 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8578557 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8577697 Are you debating on leaving because of the "new" AB?<br /><br />Sucks mightily. None of my "friends" (who were long time users) have any recent activity, and this is the first time I have been on since the changes. I likely won't be back too often. There are a lot of new users who will come and play, and AB is simply in it for the $$. What to they care about... Sat, 02 Jan 2010 15:21:09 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8577697 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8526942 i realy like this one guy in my school we talk and stuff but i dont know hes a senior i am a freshman. what should i do??<br /><br />Learn to spell and write well - that will take you farther, make you happier, wealthier and more fulfilled than any guy. Mon, 14 Dec 2009 14:28:27 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8526942 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8526932 For black and white couples... What is a good name for a boy and a girl of a mix baby?<br /><br />Chocolate milk Mon, 14 Dec 2009 14:25:45 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8526932 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8526928 ____________ is for wimps.<br /><br />Healthcare Mon, 14 Dec 2009 14:25:09 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8526928 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8450522 If your a guy and a girl tells you that they love you before you tell her is that ok? Or should the girl wait for the guy to say it first?<br /><br />People are SO ignorant, there are absolutely rigid RULES that govern love and relationships. Para A, Section 3, subsection 56 of the Book of Love states as follows: &quot;The male is required to say &quot;I love you&quot; first. If the female says it first, the entire relationship contract is... Thu, 03 Dec 2009 14:43:02 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8450522 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8450462 Is it better to have children in your 20's or 30's?<br /><br />Late 20s to early 30s. Having things in common, being a good parent and having the energy to do things with your kids and your grand kids has more to do with the person than the age. There are a lot of people who are starting families in their 40s, and they will have different advantages,... Thu, 03 Dec 2009 14:36:42 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8450462 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8440668 I am a very shy girl around guys but of course when u drink its a different story lol..i put myself out there especially for this one guy. i know i will b drunk n he might be there i want to do something but i dont want it to be awkward any help?<br /><br />Wait til you&#039;re a grown up. Wed, 02 Dec 2009 14:27:33 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8440668 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8440643 I met this really nice man upon a dating website hes 46 and im 17 nearly 18 is it wrong?<br /><br />Yes, yep, si, oui, indeed, absolutely, positively, without a doubt. Not only wrong, but if he is trying to meet you, or already has, AND he knows your age, you should probably report him to the police. Now. Wed, 02 Dec 2009 14:24:42 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8440643 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8440612 Is it against the bible for black and white marriges?<br /><br />People are stupid (or smart) and use the bible to justify many many things. They use it to justify their prejudices, their belief in God, their thoughts, their decisions, etc., etc., it&#039;s quite problematic. But if you want to see if IT&#039;S REALLY IN THE BIBLE (not that it should matter... Wed, 02 Dec 2009 14:20:58 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8440612 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8382194 True or false, lingerie makes a great gift?<br /><br />Wasn&#039;t so great for my dog. USED underwear are preferred and only cotton. Wed, 25 Nov 2009 14:41:27 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8382194 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8381482 If your best friend told you they were in love with your S/O what would you do first?<br /><br />Sometimes you just can&#039;t help who you fall in love with. I would appreciate her honesty, and assume she was telling me not because she wants to act on her feelings, but because she wants me to know what&#039;s going on and engage my help. So, I would talk with her and help her to... Wed, 25 Nov 2009 13:22:03 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8381482 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8381434 This guy im casually seeing has an empty house.he told me he has gotten a key cut for the house for me.why do you think he is giving me a key?<br /><br />Cause he&#039;s married, and wants you to use the house as a love nest. Surprise him and use it with someone else! Wed, 25 Nov 2009 13:17:27 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8381434 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8356959 My friend (a girl) called Jesus a fag as a joke. I blew up. I called her every mean name I could think of. Am I wrong? Should I apologize? I feel I should, but don't really want to.<br /><br />yep, you&#039;re a jerk. Sun, 22 Nov 2009 20:53:54 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8356959 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8356934 Does anyone here want Jesus to return? I don't because think about how many holy wars started by him merely bringing peace. Now when he returns he is going to kill the atheists, the gays, the Jews, and all the non-believers and send them to Hell.<br /><br />There&#039;s that loving god thing again. Crazy isn&#039;t it how contemporary Christians confuse Jesus, God, the God of the Old Testament? Sun, 22 Nov 2009 20:51:03 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8356934 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8356888 Why do so many atheists hang out in the Christian catagories?<br /><br />Because we&#039;re looking for a coherent discussion that supports Christianity. Sun, 22 Nov 2009 20:42:19 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8356888 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8356823 I just found out my bestfriend has brain cancer she 16 and we both rele care about each other i found out two days ago i'm still in the emotionless shook state is that normal and how do i talk to her about it?<br /><br />Meet up with her, sit her down and apologise for being a dope. Tell her that you have no idea what to do to help her, or how to talk to her about it, but that you love her and want to be able to support her, and most of all you want to continue being her friend. She&#039;s gonna feel really weird... Sun, 22 Nov 2009 20:33:00 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8356823 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8356793 Ok, I am seeing this guy. He is great, and possibly someone i could see myself with for a while.The thing is, he is Native American and Puertorican, and in my parents eyes, Black.What should i do i want to be with him, but I dont want to lose my family?<br /><br />The question is, What should you do with your family and how do you address their racist attitudes? Sun, 22 Nov 2009 20:28:41 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8356793 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8318766 I'm trying to delete a file but my computer won't let me. It says I need permission, permission for what? I'm the administrator. How do I delete it?<br /><br />What&#039;s the file? If it&#039;s a data file, it could be read-only, or otherwise protected. In windows, right click on the file and check out the properties. That may help solve your mystery. It could also be a virus, trojan, or some other kind of malware. If you google the name you may... Wed, 18 Nov 2009 14:18:23 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8318766 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8318726 If you had a choice of dating someone who was healthy emotionally, versus someone with bipolar or depression, all other things being equal, who would you prefer?<br /><br />Someone with bipolar or depression is mentally ill, not emotionally ill, so your comparison is off. If however, you are asking if, all else being equal, I would rather date someone who is mentally ill or mentally well, umm, then I don&#039;t think I need to answer that. It&#039;s like asking... Wed, 18 Nov 2009 14:11:44 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8318726 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8248886 How can a man please a woman without touching her( with anything) in the bed room?<br /><br />Leave her to sleep Tue, 10 Nov 2009 15:29:31 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8248886 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8248878 Isn't it deceitful when a man won't tell his wife that he's putting up the house they have in another country up for sale, she finds out through other people?<br /><br />Yes? Tue, 10 Nov 2009 15:28:35 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8248878 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8248870 What did/would you say after you lost your virginity?<br /><br />I thought we were having popcorn with the movie. Tue, 10 Nov 2009 15:27:34 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8248870 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8248854 How hard is Harry Potter in Your opinion?<br /><br />Depends on whether his wand is in his hand. Tue, 10 Nov 2009 15:26:15 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8248854 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8248842 The guy I have a crush on is visiting prostitutes. What should I do?<br /><br />Go with him? Tue, 10 Nov 2009 15:24:35 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8248842 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8233169 How much of a debt do we owe to veterans?<br /><br />It&#039;s an interesting question, and one that I am sure will get all the flag-draped patriots drooling. Anyway that should offer up a less than wholly respectful and embracing response will get DR-ed. But I think people go to war for all kinds of reasons, some because they get off on the... Sun, 08 Nov 2009 21:14:09 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8233169 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8233070 Can you give a 3 year old Xopenex HFA and then also children's mucinex<br /><br />Ask your Doctor. Sun, 08 Nov 2009 21:03:04 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8233070 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8233050 Do you believe in fate or is life just a bunch of unrelated random occurances?<br /><br />I don&#039;t believe it&#039;s either. There are random occurrences for sure, but most things that happen are related to things that happened before. For instance, if you hadn&#039;t asked this question, I would not be typing this answer. I may have instead gone downstairs for a hot chocolate,... Sun, 08 Nov 2009 21:00:21 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8233050 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8233013 How can i talk to my mom with out arguing with each all the time? we argue over about silly little things and never lets it go! what can i do to make her shut up and listen?<br /><br />I understand that you are saying you and your mother argue a lot and it makes you feel frustrated. You wish she would shut up and listen to you. However, people tend to not let go of something if they feel their point is not being heard. If you wish to be understood by your mother, seek first... Sun, 08 Nov 2009 20:55:36 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8233013 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8232968 Have you ever dated a guy who always needed his mothers approval about anything?<br /><br />I think everyone cares what their parents think. We would all love to have mutually caring and respectful relationships with our parents, and if that&#039;s the case, then I would think someone would seek out a parent&#039;s support on big decisions. But to seeking &quot;approval&quot; is somehow... Sun, 08 Nov 2009 20:49:13 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8232968 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8159433 Ive been a loner through out my childhood and was picked on by everyone. Do you think It could be the same for the rest of my life? People seem the same to me.<br /><br />The trick is to find a place where you are wanted and needed for your skills. I wonder if you have ever been diagnosed with Asperger&#039;s. Children with this disorder tend to be bully targets because they just don&#039;t fit in and have a very different way of processing information than the... Sun, 01 Nov 2009 18:03:44 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8159433 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8159324 What are some good ways to get back a girl that has dumped you?<br /><br />Great success and happiness is always the best revenge. Sun, 01 Nov 2009 17:52:22 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8159324 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8159229 How long is elvis dEAD AND HOW OLD IS HES EX WIFE PRISILLA NOW<br /><br />Priscilla, born in 1945, would weigh in at 64 years OF AGE. ELVIS IS DEAD FOR THE REST OF TIME. Sun, 01 Nov 2009 17:43:38 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8159229 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8109615 I caught my little brother stealing money from my mom's purse. I made him put it but I'm wondering if I should tell my mom? I was also thinking about making him tell her; which one is better?<br /><br />Here&#039;s another solution. Sit him down and give him the talk. Let him know that what he did was very wrong, that giving into temptation like that would break something very precious - trust. When someone&#039;s family stops trusting them, that is a very bad place to be. Explain it that way,... Tue, 27 Oct 2009 11:52:57 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8109615 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8109520 Can you wear a but plug all day my girl friend wants me to stick one inside of her while we have sex<br /><br />so, you&#039;re planning on having sex all day? I don&#039;t get it. But hey, whatever works. Tue, 27 Oct 2009 11:43:15 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8109520 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8109432 Due to husbands abuse I am now paying hospital bills, how can he be held responsible<br /><br />Call the police and file a complaint. Tue, 27 Oct 2009 11:34:23 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8109432 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8109421 I weigh like 250 pounds and im in a size 16-17 in pants my boyfriend says i have a beautiful face but if id lose some weight id be drop dead gorgeous.should i be mad?should i find a guy who likes me the way i am?<br /><br />Sounds like he likes you as you are (he is your boyfriend after all) and appreciates your many attributes, but thinks you should lose some weight. At 250 pounds, unless you&#039;re seven feet tall, you are fat, if you are under 6&#039;6&quot;, you are obese, and if you are average height... Tue, 27 Oct 2009 11:32:21 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8109421 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8109341 Something you might find in the dessert<br /><br />Chocolate (wondering how long it will take for Certified to get it) (&quot;IT&quot; being either the error, or the fish s/he seeks to hook) Tue, 27 Oct 2009 11:21:03 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8109341 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7889853 Do you believe that abstinence is the "right" thing to do?<br /><br />I love Bill Maher&#039;s take on Abstinence : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e24fYOXzk1I&amp;NR=1 Too funny. So, trumpet your abstinence but know that it&#039;s totally unrealistic. Fri, 02 Oct 2009 17:39:40 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7889853 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7889777 My friend is coming over for the weekend. He always likes to take me to watch women dance nearly naked. I just feel like an old pervert going to places like that. I am 43. The women are usually in their twenties. How do I tell him I do not want to go?<br /><br />There&#039;s an amazing conspiracy amongst men about porn, strip clubs etc. Rare is the man who will stand up and say &quot;It&#039;s just not my thing at all&quot;. I worked in a 100% male environment (excepting me), where some guys thought it was okay to post porn on the walls. As the only... Fri, 02 Oct 2009 17:28:25 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7889777 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7854655 Tell me why I don't like Mondays? I don't like, I don't like, I don't like Mondaaays, hey hey.<br /><br />Totally off topic here, but you commented on my &quot;not feeding the dog - give me points&quot; post (which has since been yanked) saying the hardest way to get points was to put up a question asking for points. In fact, over the past two days I posted two questions asking for points.... Mon, 28 Sep 2009 13:53:12 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7854655 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7847364 Do all atomic motions stop at Absolute Zero?<br /><br />All molecular motion stops at absolute zero. In theory. Sun, 27 Sep 2009 18:10:00 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7847364 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7838223 I really want to talk to and get to know this girl where i work but im afraid of talking to her because i am the security guard at the place she stays at once a week. not professional to hit on her when she jus want to get to her place. what do i do?<br /><br />Can you talk to her and get to know her without &quot;hitting on her&quot;? Some guys have a problem doing that, seeing a woman or approaching a woman from a non-sexual angle. It&#039;s a pity really, cause it would allow you to get to know her a little without making either of you uncomfortable.... Sat, 26 Sep 2009 15:45:56 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7838223 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7838163 Since I have nothing to offer women, would it be a good idea to prepare myself for a life of perpetual lonliness?<br /><br />Well, given that you think all white women are bitches (saw your response in another thread) I would suggest buying a poor Asian woman and bringing her home to be your life-long mate. However, from what I understand, once you dress them up and feed them a bit, those mail-order brides can become... Sat, 26 Sep 2009 15:39:05 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7838163 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7835452 I'm feeling generous and I want to flap my fairy wings and shower someone with points since I won't be on all weekend. Who wants em?<br /><br />Don&#039;t know if you&#039;re still feeling generous, but I have loads of neglected Q and A that could use a sprinkling. Cheers! Sat, 26 Sep 2009 09:11:15 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7835452 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7835432 I give max points to all who answer my questions and to all questions I answered. Does it mean I'm a Point Fairy?<br /><br />Nope, I would say what makes you a point fairy is that you randomly give points to discussions of which you are not a part. Sat, 26 Sep 2009 09:09:41 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7835432 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7835402 If I pass out free points would you want any?<br /><br />yep! Sat, 26 Sep 2009 09:06:30 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7835402 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7834875 Are kids ever too old to get a good night kiss and be tucked in?<br /><br />I don&#039;t think so. For my kids it&#039;s the time for a quiet chat. They are in their 20s now, and living on their own, and when they are around, they usually go to bed way later than I do, but if there is an occasion where they go to bed an I am still up, I will usually pop in to say good... Sat, 26 Sep 2009 07:38:10 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7834875 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7834830 How many proposals of marriage have you had in your lifetime?<br /><br />Three, none of which were of any interest to me, unfortunately. I did get married once before, but he didn&#039;t propose. Now, I want to get married to my current guy, but he doesn&#039;t believe in marriage, and once we live together we&#039;ll be married in his eyes, so I don&#039;t see... Sat, 26 Sep 2009 07:29:05 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7834830 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7834771 Is keeping the wrapper from a sandwich a girl ate considered stalking? She did drop it in a public trash can, and it was on the rim, not actually in there with the other trash.<br /><br />Okay, now I know you&#039;re joking Sat, 26 Sep 2009 07:20:24 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7834771 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7834729 I miss my ex terribly today. I just want to call him, but I'm sure he's with his new girl (of 3 weeks) having fun and I will just look like a needy loser. I know I should just distract myself, but I can't get him out of my head. so sad. :( what to do?<br /><br />You know what to - distract yourself, but not by spending time in front of your computer. Call a friend right now, make plans to do something fun. Go. Now. Sat, 26 Sep 2009 07:14:03 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7834729 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7831833 Ok in high school i have this girl that everytime we pass by in the hall she either says hi or asks for a hug we only know each other from the hall way and dont have any classes together so why could she all of a sudden have an interest in me<br /><br />I would say she would know better than we would. Ask her. Fri, 25 Sep 2009 19:57:19 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7831833 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7831751 Is having your status on myspace as single the same as having a profile on an adult website?<br /><br />Nope, not at all. But if you&#039;re in a relationship it could be a problem with your partner. Fri, 25 Sep 2009 19:46:08 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7831751 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7831491 My 9 year old daughter has become very passive agressive, ignoring my requests. She gets angry very quickly and is starting to have an "attitude with me." How do I talk to her and avoid conflict.Let her know Ilove her and how do i discipline her?<br /><br />Well, firstly, conflict may or may not happen, but that&#039;s okay. Could it be your desire to avoid conflict that has created in her the passive aggressive attitude? Perhaps there are unsolved issues that she needs to work out, but conflict avoidance has taught her to hide her feelings. Just a... Fri, 25 Sep 2009 19:14:11 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7831491 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7831463 Why does my dog chew her bedding and how do I stop her from doing it? I have two other dogs and toys, she also does this when I'm home.<br /><br />Sounds like she needs to get out more. Dogs chew out of boredom. several walks of 15 minutes per day are better than one long one, and for people who use the back yard as their way of taking their dog out, well, that just doesn&#039;t work. They need the stimulation of the different smells, other... Fri, 25 Sep 2009 19:10:34 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7831463