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Do you send at least one text message a day? Nope, I almost never even have. It's ridiculous in some cases. Portable PHONES are to TALK with. However if you are in a place where you don't want your conversation to be an open invitation for snoops, or you are actually being considerate of others around you, then its great and makes sense, but how about those MORONS who text while driving!?!? Is there any thing more irresponsible...

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I am 20, my boyfriend is 47 but looks much younger. I have lied to my friends and family (said he's in his late 20's). Should I reveal his age or keep hiding the truth? I'm afraid they will dissaprove if they know. If things are good and working well, why do you feel you need to potentially "rock the boat" with your friend's and family's disapproving opinions? Do you really feel you need to burden both you and him with them (opinions)? They like him, you like him, he likes you. Sounds like all is well. If it is meant to be revealed in time, it will be without any effort on either of...

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Why does it seem that it is socially acceptable for a woman in her mid 40's to be dating a man in his early 20's but if a man of the same age does the same with a woman of the same age he's labeled a rapist, pedophile, dirty old man ,pervert etc? Because society has joined in support of the "new" feminist movement to "empower" women and girls and emasculate men at every possible opportunity. Also, women are notoriously hypocritical. Dismiss the lot of em and don't focus on societal effort to manipulate how you live and enjoy your life. Remember, the best thing about being 40 is that you can finally date women...

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Are girls with red hair a turn off? Its dependent on the person who they are trying to attract. Personally in my past I was not inclined to find redheads attractive(of course there were several who in retrospect, I realize now were vying for my attention). Now a days it's not all too frequent that i do, but I have seen some that I would find attractive. It a matter of preference and taste. To some people they are a...

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Every time i lose a bet my husband has to shove it in my arse, he is very well endowed and he hurts and knows it, i have a willing gay friend who says he will hide until hubby is tied down and then give him some pay back, Am i going over the top? If you agreed to this then you are at fault and on some level, enjoy it. If this is physically "forced" upon you then you are being victimized by your husband. If you've suffered childhood sexual abuse, you may necessitate such behavior to accommodate a skewed psychology. If you don't like it tell him you do not want to this any more. Getting a gay friend to rape him,...

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Will they ever be able to develop some sort of wireless electricity? ('they' being scientists) Nikola Tesla did, a long time ago.

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I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 31. He has always dated older women and I can tell he sees me as a child. He expects things from me that he got from older women. I want it to work, but is he likely to change? Don't listen to the bitter, old, bag, who obviously was dumped for a younger woman and who talks about men not changing. Anyone who wants to change can. Though it isnt always easy and it certainly doesn't happen over night. You shouldn't really expect him to change, nor should he expect you to, if neither of you ever say anything to each other about it. If he has...

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If a guy takes a girls virginity, is she less likely to cheat on him? It is entirely dependent upon the individual in question. With many women, the emotional attachment established in their first experience with sex can be powerful enough to secure their fidelity to their partner for the duration of the relationship. However there are many mitigating circumstances that can come into play. First and foremost is their dependence on the opinions of their...

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Do you think Saddam Hussein got of easy? He did. The problem with using penalty of death for punishment is that there is a process that the mind must go through when we commit errors, that as a result of death, it can not. Whether you believe in "Holy scripture" or the laws of physics (both actually one in the same) every action has a reaction. Now if the reaction is not allowed to occur, what then happens? ...

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How do you decide if you wanna get back with someone who cheated on you? By deciding if you are willing to allow them to do the same thing again or not. If you get back together with them, you can probably count on it.

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What is a full service escort or a gfe i'm really surprised no one else knew or answered this correctly. "Full service" in regard to escorts, actually means that they will do anything sexually, including anal sex. Although it does not necessarily include forms of fetishes.

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Is it illegal in the state of kansas to date a 14 year old girl when the guys 18 years old? To date, no it is not illegal. If it involves engaging in sexual activity, well then see below; The age of consent in Kansas is 16. K.S.A. 21-3503, 21-3504, 21-3505 and 21-3522 prohibit sexual activity with minors aged 14 and 15. 21-3504. Aggravated indecent liberties with a child. (a) Aggravated indecent liberties with a child is: (1) Sexual intercourse with a child who is 14 or more...

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I'm a 23 year old girl and have a crush on a 15 year old boy, there's real electricity between us, is this weird? I have no intentions, but I'm just wondering am I like a peodophile?? This has never happened before, he's just different... Ok if you are in some position of authority over him (ie. Teacher/instructor, coach, nurse to a loved one, etc) then you are really kind of just desirous of exercising some kind of "power play" to put in the simplest terms. NOW the most common mistake that many people make is to associate you (or your desire) as pedophilic. In actuality you would be called an ephibophile, which is a...

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Any words of wisdom for taking my mixed boyfriend to meet my "you're too young to be dating" parents, and my "no dating outside of your ethnicity" father? Ok the main reason (believe it or not) that MOST women date men (or women) that their fathers do not approve of, is that it is one of the BEST/WORST ways for a woman who has suffered some form of "trauma" (specifically sexual & or other form of abuse) at the hands of said father, to essentially say "F.U!" This rarely goes over well, as I'm certain you eventually...

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Ok. So my boyfriend used to like my ex best friend. My ex best friend never liked him, but she's told me before that she doesn't like when guys get over her. She believes they should pine after her forever. She's now extremely jealous of me and...(inside) Making her an ex best friend was probably a good start. I'm curious as to what ended up actually happening here. Why? Who knows.

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What is the fundamental flaw in human nature? Pride - or greed? The Ego

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Do you have a secret ABmirer? Hard to say. I think they are keeping it a secret.

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Do you ever feel like your world is crashing down on you?? how do you make it better? I just think about the hundreds of millions of severed heads of these non-existent contributors to my little Universe of "reality", that will be impaled on steel rods and surround my kingdom. Once I regain my rightful throne in the afterlife, of course.

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"Men are big babies", how true is this statement? Not really true. It's one saying that I find is generally spoken by women who should be in diapers themselves. The ones who throw a tantrum when they don't get what they want (in a relationship), usually say this. I suppose though, in some cases, everyone is at one point or another.

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Why shortcuts in life are long routes in life? They tend to set you back.

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My boyfriend is about 17 years older than i am and the generation gap is starting to show. i'm afraid it may get worse and ruin a good thing. Should i just hang in there? Are there any tips on how to deal with this situation? I'd suggest both of you exploring NEW interests together that neither of you is partial to. That is to say, perhaps cultural interests that can expand your horizons simultaneously and that do not weigh heavily on generations (art, music-opera,classical, etc). The idea is that you both explore interests that are either archaic to both of your generations, or those things that are not in...

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Okay..so when i was in high school i had this teacher who was 39 at the time and i was 14. I never had an attraction to her at first but then it just happened all of a sudden. I fell so so hard for her. I went to her house like everyday after school and w Didnt know that 14 year olds could attend high school you might want to try the Penthouse forum with this one....

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Why is it that a woman expects a large ring. When for most.i said most .they've been "used" time and time before by boyfriends. Then once they realize that SEX aint enough a "compromised" guy must treat them like gold, a Good guy. when she wasn't in past Because good guys are generally suckers. Most of those types of women go through a whole armada full of bad guys, until they start to notice all the other worn out tramps who are older than them and still doing the same things (only with far older and less attractive, or wealthy, guys) They then begin to see their very possible and pitiful future and make haste for a sucker to treat them...

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"Infidelity appears to be on the rise...women appear to be closing the adultery gap and cheating on their spouses more often". This is supposedly according to new studies. If true, why stay married? Because the courts wont give a man a fair shake in a divorce even when the whore he is trying to divorce has done "it" with everyone in the state AS WELL AS their mother's!

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I'm constantly criticized & met with sarcasm,here on AB, because I am a police officer. So many seem to have a problem with authority/police, Why?...theres laws, break them, theres repercussions, it's not that difficult to stay out of trouble is it? It actually can be difficult, especially these days. i don't expect that the growing financial turmoil will make things any easier, on either "side" of the fence. Although historically in my youth, I often found myself on the opposite end of the law, I also found that most officers I encountered, showed me a respect and extended a courtesy, that was not extended to my peers....

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If I raped someone 20 years ago but was never convicted in court, does that make me a rapist? If you know in your mind you raped someone and accept it as that then there is very little question to what you are. Although, you are not a CONVICTED rapist, you undoubtedly will deliver a more fitting sentence for your crime to yourself, from yourself. this is law and can not be avoided.

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At least one state has decided to apply the death penalty to pedophiles who molest children. Is the death penalty an appropriate sentence for this crime? It generally is something that is "inspired" because the molester has been a victim of some form of abuse him/her self. It hardly seems a crime fit for death, unless it results in the death of the victim. It is most certainly understandable that most would feel it is a crime worthy of this punishment, as the scars it usually leaves on the victim can outlast the sentence handed down by...

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Do you think it's normal that the sexual abuse case about my Youth Pastor/Teacher (33 yrs) and me (16) has been with the State Attorney's Office for over 2months and I still haven't heard back yet? No, I think these things take time when they reach that level. Especially where government is concerned. They may be trying to get more evidence and acquire testimony of similar incidents from other victims, in order to build a stronger case for the prosecution. Its going to take time. Don't expect to be done with this one until you are 18-19. At the very least. Good luck

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Can you answer this question with a question? Who wants to know?

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What is there an abundance of where you live? PRETENTIOUS, INTRUSIVE and SELF RIGHTEOUS ASSHOLES! Welcome to Seattle.

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If you really were what you eat... what would you most likely be? A vegetarian burrito, salad, or bowl of french vanilla ice cream with heated frozen strawberries on top.... Most say i taste pretty good anyway.

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Is it ok for a guy who is 18 to date a girl who is 13 yrs. old? Obviously there is and was a reason that 13 year old girls generally begin menstruation at this time and although in Judaic law, they are technically a woman at this point, the law of the land definitely frowns on this. At least within the confines of the United States. However, if your family has a prearranged marriage situation, with her family, you may be able to swing it. My advice...

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Why do men like younger women? Actually, the appeal of young woman to older men is a long standing internal conditioning that has existed since ancient times. It is only in relatively recent years that it is frowned upon (and usually by older women and emasculated men). In those days of not so long ago, the belief that a younger woman was less apt to have experienced another man and thus be free of disease and the other...

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Would you ever consider dating someone half your age? Sure, Im 40 now and its totally legal!

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What kind of mother allows her 16 year old daughter to have a 28 year old boyfriend? Probably one who did the same thing, or was abused or molested as a youth. I dated this girl when i was in my early 20s who was 15. She told me when we met that she was 19 and it was in a niteclub, so i never even considered that she COULD be lying. In any case i found out different later and also found out that her dad had molested her and her step sister. The mother left him with them...

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What kind of mother allows her 16 year old daughter to have a 28 year old boyfriend? Probably one who did the same thing, or was abused or molested as a youth. I dated this girl when i was in my early 20s who was 15. She told me when we met that she was 19 and it was in a niteclub, so i never even considered that she COULD be lying. In any case i found out different later and also found out that her dad had molested her and her step sister. The mother left him with them...

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I am an 18 year old boy dating a 15 year old girl. Is anyone else here in the same situation? I did it when I was 18. technically it might not be legal where you live, but morally its really just a matter that should be more dependent on the maturity that both of you share. I've met several young women who have a great deal more maturity than women twice their age because of their experience. Basically if she is still interested in playing with dolls and Holly Hobbie cookware and...

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I am 20, he is 50, is that ok? It's mainly up to you at this point. You are both adults and you should bear in mind that ALTHOUGH there are health conditions that can exist at his age, that may create issues in the future, it has been scientifically proven that a relationship with a young woman can not only PROLONG a man's life, but can increase his vitality as well. Just as he can share his knowledge, wisdom and...

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Imagine that your ex-partner is still in love with you even though you have firmly ended the relationship. Would you consider accepting an offer from them for no-strings-attached sex? Well if the sex had been good previously, it would be nice because you already have an established relationship with that person. Its not like a complete stranger. However, IF THEY KNOW you liked the sex, then maybe they are using it to lure you back. Remember you broke it off with that person FOR A REASON and as far as "no strings sex" with an ex, you are just fooling...

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Do you think it's rude of people to sit in their car and honk over and over until the person they are picking up finally comes out of the house? Absolutely! they disturb the entire household and the entire neighborhood. There is a way to get some satisfaction though. there is a device like a mortar launcher that fires eggs. Well I think you can use your imagination from that point. Get the neighbors together to erect a sign, or petition your town council to put up a noise violation alert. You can report the offender to the local...