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Serious for women: with a man I don't like I sometimes try not to orgasm, or try to hide them from him and sort of not like myself
Do you feel guilty that in sexual situations your body overrules your mind, and you find yourself helpless to prevent that from happening? And is trying not to orgasm, or at least appearing not to, a way of getting even with yourself?
Also, your view about a sexual connection in this question appears to be at variance with your views posted severally elsewhere on Answerbag, that sex to you,...
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At what age do you think people should outgrow cartoons?
If Walt Disney had outgrown cartoons, .... I dread to think further.
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Honestly, what do you think the appropriate time limit should be before sleeping with someone, in our "Modern Time".
There isn't an appropriate time which you could measure in terms of hours or days or weeks.
The appropriate time is when you feel you are ready for it, meaning (i) you want to give yourself to him, and (ii) you are fully aware of the consequences.
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hi im new here... i have a question that i would like to ask... My birthday was yesterday and my boyfriend took me out to eat and a movie..
In heated moments "accidents" do happen. Your man can't be "blamed" for it, for he did what comes naturally to any man. You can't be blamed either for you did what comes naturally to a woman. You probably wanted it to happen deep down in your heart, but when it did you probably got too scared of the consequences. That's very natural too.
The important thing was he pulled out after the slight...
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What are some sexy things I can say to my boyfriend to really turn him on and get him in the mood. I have said alot but I need some new material.
"Bring out the woman in me."
"My body is yours, and yours alone."
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What's your favorite song that's about "fire" or "heat?"
Ritual fire dance - by Manuel de Falla
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What word comes into mind when you hear the word "home"?
Wife.
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Do you feel, with me, that cleaning your home is too private and personal a task for outsiders to do?
Why do you feel so? Are you afraid that the skeleton in your cupboard will be discovered?
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How to discern whether a man is committed to a relationship?
In this matter, a woman's intuition is probably her best and most reliable guide.
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Why are many men unaware of when a woman has an orgasm or even whether we have them?
They are probably too overly focused in getting themselves off quickly to even consider the needs of the person under, or over, or beside them.
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Why are/were "Cowboys" called cowboys and not Cowmen... ?
Coz cowboys n injuns sounds bett'r than cowmen n injuns
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If hope is a poor mans bread ! Where do you put the butter ?.. :)
If hope is the bread, then faith is his butter. Now, despite being a poor man, he gives the buttered slice away to another less fortunate, ... that's charity.
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If you accidentally cut off one of your fingers, would you fix it back on with staples?
Superglue is better.
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What would it take to bring the whole world together in harmony?
A lot of will power to restrain oneself from imposing one's own ideas and perspectives on to other cultures.
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If you were stranded on a deserted island, who or what 2 things would you want to have with you? :D
Gwyneth Paltrow and Deepika Padukone.
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I'm a girl. Does having a high sex drive mean higher than average testosterone levels? And no I'm not manly...
It's probably your great fondness for your current man that has affected your sexuality.
However, whatever the underlying reason, always remember that you are what you are. Don't spoil it for yourself by too much analysis.
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Have you ever caught a butterfly? Was it pretty?
I was in grade 3 when a purple butterfly settled on my desk at school. I caught it by its wings and held it for a few seconds and then let it go. I could see from its leg movements that it was struggling to be released.
Sorry for a not too interesting answer, but that's what happened.
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What is better on the outside than on the inside?
A sycophant.
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Why are men allowed to be involved in debates concerning abortion law? Shouldn't the issue be decided by women alone?
This is a social issue, and 50% (or thereabouts) of society are men.
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While masturbating, my orgasms feel like my vagina is swelling. I uncontrollably push during climax, too. Is this normal?
I don't know if this is "normal", but it's certainly very graphic.
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How did your incest relationship start and who started it?
I'm not telling.
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I love pussy but I'm straight pussies turn me on dick fucking is not good for me. Pussy I love to make it wet I'm a girl too. Advice! Plz!
You don't need advice. You seem to know exactly what you need and what you want.
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ok so i had sex 2 weeks ago and i used a condom with flavor and now my female parts burn and itch plus skin is coming off it is horrible
You know you've always been allergic to strawberries in any form - fruit, jam, icecream, etc. Yet you ... !!!
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Are you a SEX time bomb
Do you mean that if I don't have sex soon, I might explode?
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why no videos or pics of guys laying or "humping" on girl's feet ?
Perhaps you could make the first one.
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My penis is 5" long and has a 6" girth. Can you rate it just from those details please?
5 x 6 or 5/6, whichever you prefer.
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I've always wondered... what websites do women masturbate to? Leave a link to your favorite site!
Their imaginations are fertile enough NOT to need porn props for the purpose.
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How can i get my dog to mount me?
You're really funny, man, real funny.
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I want to watch my wife get gang banged by strangers. She likes the idea, of course. What's the best/safest way to arrange this?
Encourage her to go to lonely alleyways where she might get raped, and you may watch from a distance.
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Should I feel my mom up??
Yes, and she might give you a dressing down.
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Help sexual malfunctions...see description.
How much younger than you is he? He's probably afraid that with you being more sexually experienced, he might be subject to comparison with your other lovers, which makes him very nervous.
ED may be a problem with him and other women too, and perhaps he's looking for "understanding" and "guidance" from an older woman.
It's really up to you to help him overcome his diffidence.
Maybe he needs...
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which woman doesnt love the consequences of making love? (Not the kids stuff but the practical stuff i mean)
I don't know whether to answer "LOL" or "TROLL".
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Need advice from another woman. Hi there. I'm a married female, 26, and need advice about a possible problem.
The next time you meet her, when you part give her a light "spontaneous" peck on her lips. See how she reacts. More important, see how you feel about it.
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Did you know,England technically has the most advanced potatoes in the world.I just found out we've been having them Chipped for years :p
I like your crisp humour, NJ
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Are there any collective Noun's for Individual Nationalitie.If not,Can you come up with something like. A "Brilliance" of English :)P
A poppadum of Indians (their very fragile egos)
A sul of English (their stiff upper lip)
A spaghetti of Italians (their tendency to get entangled)
A casino of Chinese (their propensity to gamble)
A beef of Argentines (pretty obvious)
A gourmet of French
A swig of Russians (their ... I'd rather not elaborate)
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Ever have an ABer ask how old you are and when you tell them you never hear from them again?
It's probably easier to be candid about certain aspects of your life with people in more-or-less your own age group. Perhaps for the younger generation, discussing intimate matters with someone old enough to be their parent may prove embarrassing, much as you might want to help them by sharing your own experiences.
Not a general rule though, as a young lady in her early twenties has been very...
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When do you like being married? When do you not like being married?
Like: Knowing i have a loving partner.
Not like: When i want to stray, and my damned conscience pulls me back.
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Do girls "just want to have fun"? Why do so many young women seem to have trouble being serious?
Effective contraception.
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What urge, if any, do you feel right now? Why?
To see once again the photograph you placed as your avatar pic recently.
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Which bands do you consider exciting? Why?
The Vienna Philharmonic Orchestra.
Now ... do I really need to give a reason why?
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Why are men so guarded and protective of themselves? Why don't they want us to know them?
Could it be that economic independence has given women a certain confidence in themselves, which men have over the past few decades grown to "fear"?
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I've been counting my "Blessings" but can only think of two...!...How many do you think there should be ?.. :)p
Name them ;-)
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An army of ants, a sleuth of bears, but WHAT do you call a group of zombies?
An otom of zombies.
otom = one too many.
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Does anybody actually read any more? Don't try to start a conversation about a good book...the other person will think you crazy...
YES I DO.
I started reading late, when I started college and realised others were so much better informed than I. Never gave up after that. It's been almost 45 years that I've been reading - mainly non-fiction, though.
And if there's a gene for reading, then I've passed it on to both my children.
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Would u marry someone u didn't love but for reasons like talking, safety or reliability? Why or why not?
Many years ago, I saw a movie starring James Stewart, who played the father of a young woman. A young man whom she is very fond of approaches him for his daughter's hand. Here's how the conversation proceeds:
Stewart: So you wanna marry my girl. Why?
Young man: Because i love her.
Stewart: Because you love her ... Well let me tell you, son, you don't have to love a girl to marry her. You just...
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Is it okay for a woman to only want males as friends & nothing more? Is this possible/likely?
It is certainly "okay" and also "possible" to have a "lifelong male friend". And it could work quite well if the man is like-minded in this respect, and sees you in the same light as you see him.
I say "could" and not "would", because there's always a chance that with time your genuine mutual trust in each other may grow to a point when you might WANT to "entrust" your body to him. It's a...
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Is it wrong to call a spade a spade?
It's even more wrong to call it a diamond or a club.
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Aren't you forgetting something?
No, I don't remember ever forgetting anything.
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Give Him____________?
... enough rope, and he'll go and hang himself ?
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If there is a "no mans land" where is it?
The island of Lesbos - whence is derived the word lesbian.
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A person thinks evil thoughts 24/7 but never acts on any of them. Is he/she good or evil? Is it only our actions that count?
He'll cross the Rubicon soon enough.
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Is the orgasm the greatest thing ever in the whole world EVER?
Yes, for the few seconds it lasts.
And when it's all over we feel it was no big deal. Nevertheless, we look forward to the next "no big deal" moment.
Verily, strange are our ways!!!
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Would you rather go to Syria or Iran???? You must pick one!
Iran. My ancestors migrated from there to India seven or eight centuries ago.
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Do you know anyone that has the letter "U" in their name?
My late father.
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Girls, you like to get licked in the little hole where your pee comes out, and do you like being licked in your navel?
I wonder what made you ask this. I am not disapproving ... just curious.
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Why is 'f*ck' classed as crude/vulgar? It's the only single word for having sex that adapts to all parts of speach and tenses.
True, and there are two points I would like to make.
First, I read in a book on word origins, that it is perhaps the only verb which has come down to us unchanged through Old as well as Middle English.
Second, I still haven't figured out the exact meaning of the expression: "f*ck off". I know the context in which it is used, but haven't quite grasped the significance.
Will someone care to...
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I love listening to a lot of opera, how do you feel about it?like it? or does it sound like screaming to you?
Before the advent of DVDs I listened to opera (not too many, though) on CD, following the drama through the accompanying booklet.
But after DVDs came along with the on-screen translations, my few opera CDs have hardly been played.
A music critic once wrote that opera is the supreme kind of music. I beg to differ.
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It's ten until 12 on a Sunday. Can I go buy beer now?
Isn't freedom free??
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"Isn't freedom free??"
Your question reminds me of a song i heard in a touring Moral Re-Armament stage show years and years ago. It's one of only two songs I remember from that show, and the words and tune still ring in my years. It went like this:
Freedom isn't free;
Freedom isn't free.
You've got to pay a price
You've got to sacrifice
For your Liberty.
I think that show was called "Up, up...
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Do most of you Americans know any other expression than, "Oh my God"?
I'm not American, but I fail to get the point you're trying to make through this question.
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How deep and long can a penis go into a girl with no hymen before she loses her virginity? Just going in isn't like taking him coming.
To me, a girl loses her virginity when her vagina is penetrated by someone (man or woman) other than herself. Whether the penetration was by a finger or a penis, whether it was shallow or deep, whether or not her hymen was ruptured as a result, whether or not ejaculation took place -- these are immaterial. What really matters is that the girl allowed another into her body through her vagina.
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If you catch a Magpie stealing Jewelry from your house ! Can you drag it before a Beak ! or would it just be it's own judge of things..?
That would be the authentic "Thieving Magpie" (La gazza ladra).
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What is more fun than sitting in a Beethoven symphony with suit and tie?
Sitting in a Beethoven symphony with suit and tie, and listening to beatles on the ipod.
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DEER AB,
Me no speak engrish wery vell. somone herp me prease? I no understand yu wery vell.
tenks yu.
MR. CHU FATSOY
Zat meks too off us. Butt I can giv u lots of herpes wenever you vont.
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Do pimps pay taxes?
I do.
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What's your favorite movement from a symphony?
The third movement of Beethoven's 7th.
The last movement of Sibelius' 2nd.
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i'm curious as to why there are no modern classical piece of music that reaches the level notoriety as that of fur elise?
I'm sorry I don't quite get the "notoriety" part of your question.
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Could you suggest a beautiful classical guitar music?
Tarrega: ... something alhambra.
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Your favorite classical music?
Dvorak's 8th and 9th symphonies
Shostakovich Ballet Suites 1,2,3
Bizet 1st Symph
Prokofiev 1st Symph
Mozart Eine Kleine Nachmusik,
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and so on
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Which country has the most emotive and uplifting National Anthem...Out of all the ones I've heard ,I would say The French is the best.
British wins hands down.
And I'm not trying to flatter you.
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Do you know such sites that they list arranged classical music by another composer?Sorry for the poor English.
I want to answer you, but am not sure what you're asking. Let's try rephrasing that question, shall we?
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If you are a parent, do you enjoy having your father and/or mother involved in the child's life?
To the extent that that they don't indulge my children against my or my wife's wishes. That's the way it was with us.
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my husband had a long term affair and is having a hard time letting go of his girlfriend should I trust that he is committed to me?
How long have you been married?
For how long before that was he in that relationship?
Why did you marry him knowing he was so attached to the other woman?
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Hey mister, can you tell me, where a man might find a bed?
In a bedroom !!!
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Can you see the smugness in pictures of Steve Jobs? I almost wanted to hit the screen this morning when they showed pictures of him.
Yes, always did.
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If you once liked someone of the same sex, and later liked someone of the opposite sex... does that make you bi?
Psychologists say that most of us go through a similar "phase" at around the age you mention. So there's nothing unusual in your query, nor is there anything to fret over.
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Do you meet folks who are perpetually angry when you see them? If it's not one thing it's another that angers them? Do you know why?
Yes to your first two questions; No to your third.
The mind boggles.
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Can a girl have her period even when she is pregnant?
Has something happened in your life for the first time?
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A family member has just woken up from a 5 year coma, what would be the first thing you tell him/her?
Good morning (or afternoon or evening)!
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Trust is_____________?
... fast becoming something of the past.
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Would you like to marry my ____________?
... stud horse with your filly?
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I watched a naughty movie the other day and the girl kept saying OMG OMG !!really what does she expect him to do
The unuttered words were: "Thank you so verry, very much for the experience".
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What do you like thats "Juxtapose"...?...:)P
Your feet.
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do you have people in your country who sell stuff in the streets? In my country we do.
Yes, and they are the ones who contribute to the economy as well as the entrepreneurial spirit. I know of a man who stood on the pavement ion the 50's selling plastic pens, and who progressed to setting up his own plastics moulding factory making household items like mugs and buckets. His sons took the firm further into special purpose plastics and mouldings, and are a today major supplier to...
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Have you ever tape recorded the sound of a toilet flushing?
No, but I have that sound on a pre-recorded tape with other sound effects like a motor car screehing to a halt, steam locomotive, etc.
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What or who makes you weak at the knees?
Gwyneth Paltrow
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Did you know that smoking can cause your nipples to fall off??
lmFao
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Does anyone out there have a tattoo that they regret?
My friend's son has a religious verse tattooed on his forearm, which he now regrets having as this could go against him in the event of a communal disturbance.
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Can a guy pee inside a girl?
I don't think so; but even if he could, it might not be good for the girl healthwise.
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What was the last thing you watched? what will you watch next?
Last Sunday afternoon I watched three parts of the 4-part BBC serial "In the footsteps of Alexander the Great". I guess I'll see the last part next weekend. I'm now tempted to read the book by the Roman chronicler Arrian, which was one of the sources of the material shown in the program.
After this I want to see either the musical "Pennies from Heaven" or the Stephen Fry series on his travels...
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Do you own a lava lamp? If so, what colour is it? And how big is it?
No. I've never liked those globs.
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If you walked into a unisex bathroom and found a pair of womens panties on the floor what would you do with them?
Never had the experience. What would you expect me to do with them?
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Why do I feel like crying lately?
A couple of things you have admitted to in your profile might be the cause.
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What's your favourite part of a woman's body and why?
Her belly button.
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What is your favourite thing to drink? And how often do you drink it?
Water. Not as often as I should.
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Do you think it's unhealthy for a female to look at cocks on the net? Just curious. :)
No. We all eat poultry for health, so I don't see how merely viewing it on the net can be unhealthy.
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How important is age, in regards to relationships, to you? What do you think about couples with a large age difference?
A close AB friend got married recently for the first time to a man 16 years older.
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If I had ten more friends I would have the same amount of friends to days I've been on AB! Just thought you might like to know! :)
If this is an invitation to your friends list, count me in. But remember that your 10 new friends will come ver an interval of a few days, by which time you would probably need more friends to equal the number of your days on AB.
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Why do you judge others sexual relationships, are you jealous perhaps that its not you doing the dirty deed?
A consensual sexual relationship has been a norm in many societies for several decades now.
Why do you consider it a "dirty deed"?
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How do u sex a woman right
Dont try to "lead" her. Learn to "follow" her. She will guide you best.
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When will NOT turn the other cheek?
I turned the other cheek once, and got slapped again, even harder. If i can't learn from this experience, then my years have been wasted.
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How do you explain that thing under your bed?
They are my girlfriend's panties which she shoved under the bed as she hurriedly left the bedroom when my wife made an unexpected appearance yesterday afternoon.
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The downside of comfort is____.
... sloth.
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Have you ever found somebody elses sex toy or their stash of toys?
Unfortunately no.
But it sure would be fun to discover the real person beneath the veneer of propriety.
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What's the last thing you rubbed?
The corroded copper oil lamp I found in the old kitchen drawer. I rubbed it to give it a shine, and hey presto! a sexy female genie appeared in a state of semi nudity, and offered to be my slave for the rest of my life. I cannot reveal what transpired later for it would be straight to the penalty box for me.
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What will you be doing this time tomorrow?
Probably what I am doing this time today. Hope you're there too.
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Who wants to be my pizza delivery guy?
Not I if you're going to shut the door in my face after having paid me.
However, if you're going to beckon me in, then ... well, that's quite different isn't it!
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How do I put everything into perspective?
Sometimes changing our perspective might be the best solution.
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How many loony's do we have here?
Infinity minus 1
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Some of your friends dropped by to visit then you felt embarrassed because you forgot ________________ was in plain sight.
... the recently used condom ...
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In your lunch break at work you have the chance of sex, but you haven't got time for both lunch and sex. Which would you choose?
Lunch. Who wants a rumbling tummy in the middle of a sexual encounter?
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Can you describe yourself in one word?
ME
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Dumb question: Can the word "dumb" be a verb?
Let's see if we can conjugate it.
I dumb
You dumb
He dumb
She dumb
We dumb
They dumb
IT'S TRUE. We are ALL dumb.
Hence the conjugation was quite in order.
Hence it is a verb.
QED (Quint-Essentially Dumb)
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Do prostitutes tend to have stable, happy marriages?
I think so. My cousin fell in love with one and married her 20 years ago.
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What's your dream house??
No idea. Always woke up before just as it was about to come to view.
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When do YOURS and MINE become "ours"?
If I were a carpenter,
And you were a lady
Would you marry me anyway,
Would you have my baby?
That's when.
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What do you like to look at?
The mirror.
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What is something worth arguing about with your spouse/s.o.?
Almost anything.
Couples who fight together stick together.
The arguments often prove a good tonic to keep the relationship alive.
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would you really, truly, honest to goodness change any aspect of your life? How and why?
"I am that I am"
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Wen someone says,"he/she has natural talent." Would the person have to work any less than another for the aspired goal? How so?
A "natural talent" only gives you a small headstart in the field. Only practice can develop it further.
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Are you an entertaining person? Do you amuse others with your outgoing personality or do you wait for others to amuse/entertain you?
That's for others to judge.
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Happy as a/an _________ in _________?
angel ... heaven
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Within the greater scheme of things, what is your role?
Suffice it to say: I am the centre of my universe.
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Is today the day?
... that I am to bed my neighbour's curvaceous wife?
No, that was last Saturday.
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You cannot give people information they do not want. When do you stop trying?
What we usually try to give to people who do not really want it is not information, but unsolicited opinion.
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I became paranoid about the possibility that God is watching me and everything I do and think all the time so I_______________.
... drew the curtain.
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Is it day or night?
Look at your watch or clock and you'll find out. If you don't have one handy, look out of the window. If you're in a windowless area, your biological clock will soon tell you. Have a little patience.
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People who can't afford a pc and must use the library computers, cannot access adult websites at all they don't even have a seperate area
Without meaning any offence to people who are forced to use the library computer, I would advise them to get into the saving habit.
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Do you know anyone who is the
"Master of Disaster"?
Fund managers are reputed to be so.
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Why does it seem to take longer to walk home in unpleasant weather than it does to walk home from the same place in pleasant weather?
Does it for you? For me it's the other way round. In unpleasant weather I tend to walk faster to reach home sooner.
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Taking a break is a very good thing to do. Whether it is a break from work or a relationship or a situation. Do you return refreshed?
Refreshed and ready for another break. Merry Christmas, Rosie.
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At what age did PARENT become PAY-RENT to for you?
Never.
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Will you get off of me?
I've never gotten on you to begin with.
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Do you try to improve your memory?
I honestly can't remember if i ever did.
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Do you want some pickle?
No thanks. I'm already in enough of a pickle myself.
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Will you try not to break my record?
Why should I interfere with your enjoyment of good music?
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Do Elephants talk Mumbo Jumbo ! When they make Trunk calls....or is it Bellow them....??...hehe
I don't like elephants. They keep blowing their own trumpets.
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Whats the exact opposite to a good Samaritan....Is it a Bad Samaritan...??
No it isn't Bad Samaritan.
It's natiramaS dooG
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What Would My 11 Year old Boyfriend Want For Christmas
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How will you feel if your girlfriend of 3 years get pregnant and your both 17 N 16
If she gets pregnant by me, I would dump her for trying ensnaring me.
If she is pregnant by someone else, I would dump her for the slut she proved to be.
Heads I win, tails you lose !!!
Considering I'm past 60 this is a hypothetical situation for me at least, and hence my hypothetical answer.
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Do not________
... answer this question.
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What would have happened if Jesus was never crucified and lived to a normal-length age for his time period?
I've read he wasn't, and he did.
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What does 666 means
Six hundred ans sixty-six. It's the price in your local currency of a ticket to hell.
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Will my girlfriend get pregnant?
Whether she gets pregnant or not, I must say the question is novel and original. Did it take you very long to think it up?
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Who pees more.....Men or Women?
Judging from the much longer queues outside the ladies' restrooms in public places like museums, it appears that women feel the greater need.
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How do you think is the hottest woman of all time? Men's Health Magizine rated Jennifer Aniston the hottest woman ever! Do you agree?
Sophia Loren,
Gwyneth Paltrow,
Sandra Bullock.
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Have you ever taken a bath with a hooker?
Yes, for she was quite a Pretty Woman.
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Is European economics all GREEK even to the experts?
And now it's Latin as well.
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Why are women so intimidating?
It isn't the woman who is intimidating; rather it's the man who is diffident about being able to satisfy her needs that makes her appear so.
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Is it wrong that I like being called a slut in bed?
Not at all. It only shows you enjoy sex in its most honest and rawest form without the frills of bedroom "etiquette" expected of "decent" women.
It's very unfortunate that a woman who obviously enjoys the act is the target of such disdainful labels, whereas her male equivalent is often the target of adulation.
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What date will you always remember?
My third date. Don't ask me why.
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Why should your friend Jack stay away from the airport?
About 25 years ago there used to be a satirical column in the Indian Express by a George Menezes; and I remember one particular article which is pertinent to your question.
It was during the time when plane hijackings were happening a little too frequently. In the article, George Menezes was flying and the stewardess announced the name of the pilot, who happened to be old his college friend....
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When would you feel like someone is using your home as though it is a free hotel?
Never. I'm very unsocial in that respect.
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What's on top of your fridge?
An old and rather heavy porcelain jar from the 20's. When our kids were younger, it held lollipops/sweets, one after dinner as dessert for each of us. It used to be on the fridge because it was too high for them to reach.
But for several years now, the jar has been empty. I suggested to my wife that we put some lollipops into it one of these days, and give my children a surprise. Haven't sucked...
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What do you find hard to let go of? Why?
Nice friends on AB, for a start.
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How many decades have you lived thru?
6.2
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Do you use a mouse or a touch pad for your computer?
Mouse through the USB port of my laptop. Keyboard too. Can't get used to the touchpad and laptop keyboard.
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Which do you prefer on a lady? Full eyebrows or thin ones?
Pencil thin. Very voluptuous.
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Femmes, how do you peel a pretty girl from her dykey girlfriend?
Would you rather have the pretty girl for yourself?
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Please tell me a polite, yet direct way to tell people to get off of the stairs so that I may descend?
I'm sorry I didn't quite understand your question.
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How many friends does a person NEED?
Ideally, none if the person is strong enough. Otherwise, two.
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What can I do to better get along with my mother-in-law? She is perfectly polite but opposed our marriage and barely acknowledges it.
Be equally "perfectly" polite with her, at the same time "barely acknowledge" her presence.
You must develop the art of "seeing through" a person, if you haven't already. By this i don't mean gauge her character and intentions, but to pretend she just isn't there.
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Do men naturally feel closer to and care about a woman having had sex with her?
In the shorter term, perhaps. Over the longer term, probably not.
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What type of things do you say to your partner when in the thro's of passion?
Actions speak louder than words.
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12 ______ .
12 men good and true make a jury
12 Wise men of Gotham
12 make a dozen
12 inch pizza is not enough for me
This last one prompts me to add another, but i shall refrain.
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If you were stranded on a desert island, what 3 things would you take? (me - MP3 player, chocolate and a torch)
(i) A copy of Robinson Crusoe to learn how to adapt to my new environment,
(ii) My pair of glasses so I may be able to read it.
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Do you find it easier to spell while writing or typing?
My speling is qite gud. I have no problum eitther wey.
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As a parent how do you deal with sibling rivalry?
So long as it does not go way out of hand, resulting in gross power play to the utter detriment of one or the other, I would advise reticence and observation. Let the kids establish their own equations. You'll see yourself in them.
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What would you classify as "A Vulgar Display of Riches?"
Loud and wasteful wedding receptions. But then that's one of the ways one can "get rid of" ill-amassed wealth.
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Does Woman gets horny like man ? or hardwired to be impossible ?
As for man, so for woman.
When biology reigns supreme, all else falls by the wayside.
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Why am I attractive to girls? I am a straight women ,married and have a child ?
Might there be a sexual adventuress trapped within, desperately seeking an outlet?
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My alphabet soup is talking to me! It says: ____________________.
"The quick brown fox jumps over the lazy dog"
"Pack my box with five dozen liquor jugs"
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If you could walk the red carpet with a celebrity who would you like as your partner? Which function would you like to attend with them?
Gwyneth Paltrow.
Any function, so long as GP agrees.
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What is your favorite dish to take as "packed lunch"?
Toasted scrambled egg and ham sandwiches.
OR
Bread and paneer (cottage cheese)
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How do you deal with people who bite their nails? If you are an ex-nail biter how did you quit?
Until the age of 15 I was a compulsive nail-biter, and the one person whom tried (in vain) to rid me of this habit was my uncle, a bachelor, my father's brother, 16 years his senior, who lived with us.
On 4 Aril 1965, he died quite unexpectedly, and from that day on the habit disappeared. In the words of an old lady acquaintance, my uncle "took it away" with him.
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A friends husband offered me $100 to show him my breasts and I did. Was I wrong to do that?
$100 just to look? Not even fondle?
The man is either a fool, or doesn't know the value of money.
Either way, I don't believe it happened. But I like your fun question. :-)
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Divorced single women ex remarried, recently had sex with ex,s friend the ex found out and is mad.Does that mean he still cares about me?
Ex has remarried and has no "rights" over you any more, if at all he had any earlier.
He is mad because he is hurt and angry that another man, his friend no less, has obtained access to your body which was once his exclusive possession. His anger, which is probably more at his friend, is being directed to you because he does not have the spunk to stand up to him.
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By sleeping with her father you did NOT cheat on your friend. If her father was separated or divorced or widowed at the time, then the question of guilt does not even arise. If her were a married man, then perhaps you might take consolation from the supposed fact that things were not right sexually between him and his wife, and you provided him with that much needed, though temporary, sexual...
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Men,Do you think less of a women who are willing to have sex on the first date?
No, on the contrary, I admire a woman who acts according to her own mind's dictates instead of conforming with society's expectations of her behaviour.
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Does "humiliation" ever pay a positive dividend?
Humiliating someone else -- almost never.
Being humiliated -- yes. It can provoke us into retaliating strongly which can be a good thing, provided you keep your head on your shoulders and not let emotions take control. Being humiliated brings out my best oratorial powers, with acidic remarks galore. That can be very enjoyable.
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Do you think your answers to questions change with time?
If they don't, there's been no learning.
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Why are the simplest of questions sometimes the most difficult to answer?
C'est la vie!
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In one word what does your dress sense say about you?
I've had my flings with fashion in my youth -- (not too) long hair, flashy flower pattern shirts, bell-bottom trousers, even slightly high-heeled shoes. I guess if earrings were the norm for males then as it has become recently, I might have tried that out too.
But for the last two or three decades all that has changed, and in one word my dress sense would indicate me as "conservative".
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The older we get, the more set in our ways we become. What are you "set in your ways" about??
I'm 62, and as i've grown my outlook has become broader and more tolerant in many respects. However, having been brought up in a middle class household, I still find myself "clinging on" to certain middle class values, e.g. norms of behaviour, which unfortunately seem to eroding fast particularly in urban areas.
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What responsibilities does a grandparent have towards their grandchild?
To be someone to whom the child can turn to anytime.
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Have you ever parted with a dear thing of yours for a good cause?
What you've asked for is considered "noble"; but no, I haven't.
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Is wearing your heart on your sleeve and being openly emotional....a sign of weakness or strength?
Neither. There are some circumstances in which you can control your emotions, and some where you cannot. It's perfectly acceptable whichever way you react.
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If you knew without a shadow of doubt that your best friend has been stealing from you all the while....what would you do?
Maintain your friendship. Let bygones be bygones, and keep an eye on your own things in future.
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What would you say to somebody who is on their death bed?
Silence is probably best.
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If a friend betrays you, then is it his rascality or your gullibility?
More on rascality. Trust is the basis of a friendship. It was your TRUST in him/her that was betrayed.
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If you're a girl and you like dirty talk, what do you like your man to say to you?
If I could once again be thirty
I'd sure be great at talking dirty;
However, now i'm much too old,
And of a generation which considers it much too "bold".
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Girls, do you ever read magazines like Maxim or Playboy to see what they talk about, Guys, do you ever read Cosmo, or other woman's magazines?
My wife subscribes to a "woman's" magazine, and i read it quite regularly. It covers a lot of issues, not necessarily all pertaining to women, and gives a good insight into many contemporary events and other things.
It's been a long time since i read Playboy; but several years ago, apart from the pics, the articles reflected a very high level of journalism. I hope thy have maintained that...
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Does a woman have to wear high heels to be sexy?
No one really NEEDS to do anything.
But if you want male heads turning towards you as you pass them by, heels do help. And they needn't be too high either.
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What's a good way to get yourself killed? (For funny answers only.)
Softly with a song.
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How can you make sure you have a passionate marriage?
It takes two to tango, my dear girl.
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Older women: at what age did you begin to have less interest in sex? Was due to lessening desire or accomodating yourself to less activity?
Take life as it comes (pun not intended), without letting others' opinions and experiences prejudice you.
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Dating much younger men I longed for one of my age. Now having secured him I find myself wanting to be with young men. Any hope for me?
Old habits die hard.
All the more reason for you to carefully weigh the pros and cons in your present relationship.
Be thoroughly honest in your self-assessment, or you'll come to grief in time.
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Men - do you become bored when, during sex, a woman requires a long time to begin orgasming?
More frustrated than bored. At nearly 62, I don't quite have the "staying power" I had say 10 years ago. So though I wish we could carry on longer, it's at most 10 minutes before exhaustion takes over.
Sorry if my answer disappoints.
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Is alcohol a habit,addiction or disease ?
Neither of them. It's a drink.
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A function is like a marriage, and to have a function you have to have a relation, but if it's an arranged marriage, with no relation, than
I would go a step further and say that any sexual relation is a function. Pronounce f(x) as a single word, and you'll see what i mean.
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What are your top 10 favorite romantic movies?
An affair to remember
The King and I (musical)
A touch of class
Come September
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Why there is so many contradicting verses in the holy bible?
Read "god is not great" by Christopher Hitchens.
You'll find your answer there.
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Do you believe there is a such thing as heterophobia? Have you ever witnessed heterophobic attitudes?
My young sister-in-law (now 54) was brought up from infancy in a household of women, and exhibits strong heterophobic behaviour. Mind you, she is NOT lesbian. She is a virgin with no sexual experience whatever, one way or the other.
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the "Kinsey Personality TesT" told me I was a "Kinsey Zero". Is this some kind of hetero-phobic bullshit???
Error No. 1: You went through the "Test"
Error No. 2: You let the so-called "results" affect you.
Error No. 3: You're not letting yourself be the final "judge" of your own personality (sexual or otherwise).
Error 4: Sexually repressed BECAUSE you're heterosexual? That's your interpretation. I don't think the test report would have said so.
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Why am I always so lonely and depressed and in need of cuddles?
Because you're you, and we all react to certain situations in our own unique way. Don't worry, you'll get over the depression with time.
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does it ever seem like your period comes at the wrong time, when you most want to have sex???
In my younger days my wife and i did go through periods of frustration (pun intended) like you're going through.
Sometimes a short break of abstinence helps you resume with a renewed vigour. Trust me, I speak from personal experience.
One more point. You shouldn't be bleeding when your cervix is accidentally "hit". Please get yourself checked out by a gynaec.
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What do you like about the state of Virginia?
The orange foliage and thou. Not necessarily in that order.
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Men: how many of you are secure enough to let your wife or S/O enjoy sex with other men if she wishes to?
I think the concept of marriage and a one-to-one relationship is itself based on the basic insecurity you ask about. After all, all said and done, it has always been a male-dominated world, and the fear of of being "left without" in a competitive world has probably much to do with the formulation of such strictures as marriage vows, and making the "institution" a "sacred" one.
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What are your top 10 western movies?
Gunfight at the OK Corral
Last train from Gunhill
Gun Glory
Texas Rangers (my very first Western as far as I can remember)
McKenna's Gold
Shane
Hang 'em high or High Noon (I don't remember which)
The Big Country
The fastest gun alive (1950's remake, I think)
Westbound (starring Randolph Scott)
How the West was won
The Virginian (TV serial)
The High Chaparall (TV serial)
There there was one...
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Is it still premarital sex if you never marry?
This is a SUPERB question.
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Best way to very, very humorously ask for sex?
Boy to girl: "If i take you out, will you take me in? It's only fair."
or
Girl to boy: "Take me out, and I'll take you in. Isn't that fair?"
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Why is it difficult for women to communicate what they want in sex?
Why do they blame the guy for not reading their minds?
Because it often happens that when we do not shed our inhibitions when we shed our clothes.
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How much does cancer scare you?
Those who don't have it are much more scared of it than those who do.
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How much does cancer scare you?
Share your answer...
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When do you know it's time to get rid of bananas?
After you've used them in ways other than they were originally meant to.
LOL! Couldn't hold myself back on this one.
Sorry, no offence intended.
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What does treating a man like a man mean to you? What does treating a woman like a woman mean to you?
Treating a fellow human like a fellow human. Period.
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Is it possible to get guys who want you sexually to not want to have sex with you? If so, how?
Probably the best thing to say that you're in a deep long-distance relationship already, that the two of you cybersex regularly, and that's the way you want it for the present.
Alternatively, you might tell them you're into a deep same-sex relationship, and that's what you find best meets your needs.
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How uncomfortable do you feel when somebody is sitting beside you or behind you while you're at the computer?
I've made friends on Answerbag, and with some our friendship has gone to a stage where we exchange some very personal confidences. I would certainly resent any intrusion of the type you mention while I am thus engaged. I therefore choose my time (often very late at night or very early in the morning) when I am assured of privacy.
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How would you feel if it was your fault somebody committed suicide?
Let's take a hypothetical situation.
A young woman has fallen for me and threatens "for the last time" that if I do not leave my wife and go to live with her, she would end her life. I steadfastly refuse, as I've always done. She slashes her wrists and bleeds to death. Is it my "fault"?
Let's take another hypothetical situation.
I make a woman pregnant, and when I get to know of it I "dump"...
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Have you been practicing eating smaller and less frequent meals so that when you are desitute you'll be used to starving?
Your question reminds me of a line Penelope cruz tells Ben Kingsley in the movie Elegy. She reappears before him after two years with a hair shorter than it was earlier. When he comments on it she says: "I cut it a little everyday so that by the time it's it's all gone I'll be used to it."
This is the way we get to know she is on medication for cancer. I thought that was quite a poignant line.
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When did "person of interest" replace "suspect"? Is it a legal thingy? Can a "suspect" sue and a "person of interest" not?
The media is being extra careful. Here in India too it's a craze to include the word "alleged" or "allegedly" in almost every sentence, so as not to give the picture of certainty, although in many cases it's quite obvious. The word is often italicised. The readability is hampered, but we have to grin and bear it. Have a nice Easter, Rosie.
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When did you and your current partner start having sex?
35 years ago.
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What, if anything, wakes you up during the night?
My damned prostate has been playing up for about two years.
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Do any AB member share their private life through messages on this site?
Yes. A wonderful lady has found me trustworthy enough to share certain private matters, and I feel privileged for that.
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Where did the expression come from....Costing an arm and a leg....??
Commercial sale of body parts? LOL!
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Name something that never dies?
Certain memories.
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What is the most important lesson you've learned in your life so far?
Two lessons:
My wife taught me thrift over the years.
Silence is golden.
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What do I do if I think my wife is masterbating or cheating on me when Im not around?
You can safely ignore the first thought; if the second one persists, then it's time for some very serious introspection.
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Would any women pay to have there pussy licked?
Some elderly women do, and the men (usually young) who get paid to do it are called gigolos.
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I suffer with cramps in my legs and feet at night. An elderly man in my town told me to put a bar of soap under the sheet at the foot of the bed. Yes, I know it sounds crazy, but it works. I've had no more cramps. What about the soap stops the cramps?
Should the soap be in its wrapper or unwrapped?
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Has there ever been a story about you in the newspaper?
About four years ago when my company donated an ambulance-cum-van to the Cancer Patients' Aid Society of India, I was interviewed by the local paper.
If that may be considered as a "story", then ... yes.
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Homosexuality has been around for centuries (if not longer)... So has pedophelia and incest. PLEASE READ!
I don't think the question of "normalcy" arises here.
A person may be overweight; it's not "normal" but is accepted.
A person may have a birth deformity; it's not normal, but it's accepted.
Similarly, a person may have a sexual attraction for the same sex; it's not normal, but it's accepted.
Paedophilia is not normal, and it's NOT accepted because (i) it isn't usually consensual between two...
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Do you like mussels? I do.
Many women find "cockles and mussels" a great combination.
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Do you consider terms such as "slut" and "whore" degrading to all women?
Ever acceptable to use?
A person who calls a woman a slut or a whore shows by his use of these words that he despises prostitutes.
I was taught in school that a prostitute should not be despised; instead, she should be pitied and felt sorry for as a victim of her circumstances.
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There's a girl who has confessed her love to me. what should I do to tell her I'm not interested without hurting her feelings?
You'll need to "engineer" your response to make it appear that you are not the right man for her. That a long term relationship will prove disastrous because, with time, she will find that your personalities are less compatible than they appear at present.
Tell her that you will always be there as a close friend and well-wisher, that her well-being and happiness will always be your prime...
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What if you never get what you want out of life? How do you handle that?
God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
Courage to change the things I can,
And the wisdom to know the difference.
- Reinhold Niebuhr
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Ladies: if older man treated you to a holiday in his home city would you feel you should have sex with him out of obligation or gratitude?
Sex out of obligation or gratitude? No.
If you have sex with him (or any other man for that matter), it should be because you want to. Period. The emphasis is on two words: YOU and WANT. Nothing else matters. And if you do not wish to gratify him sexually, it's your privilege to refuse without feeling that you've treated him unfairly; unless, of course, you had both previously agreed...
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who's your favorite rock band?
The Mount Rushmore Quartet.
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Are we born knowing absolutely nothing?
No. The tortuous process of going through the birth canal is itself a huge lesson on the traumas which await once you're out in the open.
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Are we born knowing absolutely nothing?
No. The tortuous process of going through the birth canal is itself a huge lesson on the traumas which await once you're out in the open.
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Are we born knowing absolutely nothing?
No. The tortuous process of going through the birth canal is a huge lesson on the traumas which await once you're out in the open.
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IS there anything that's truly safe?
Your secret in my heart. And I guess mine in yours.
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When you own a land, do you own the whole downward depth within the diameter of the land extending to the core of the earth as well?
Pray hard you don't strike oil when you dig for your new home's foundation.
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Which is sexier on a woman?
Can't resist the belly, and the button on it.
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Paper understands pen. Do you understand?
Well, if paper and pen understand each other really well, the pen will leave an indelible mark on the paper. Especially if the paper had not been written on earlier.
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If Curiosity didn't kill the cat, what or who would have?
Well if you don't think it was curiosity, I'm sure you should have a fairly good idea who did. Please share.
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Would you kill one life to save another?
Yes if it's a dangerous mosquito, or a rabid dog, or a rat, etc. I would.
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why are some people having a hard time accepting blacks and white dating and having children? I mean whats wrong with that?
For the same reason that other people have a hard time accepting Protestant and Catholics, or Shias and Sunnis, or Hindus and Muslims, or White Americans and native Indians, or ... making a life together.
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Can you solve differential equations?
Yes.
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What makes you feel like a real boob?
I guess when I get manipulated ;-)
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Is someone who says "golly" automatically a bona-fide idiot?
By golly, what an idiotic question! :-)
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What causes tha wind to whistle sometimes?
It's the same principle which get s you to whistle -- air being forced through a very small opening or orifice. In the case of the wind the orifices are the little crevices in or between your windows panes.
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What, if anything, would you give up to be 21 again?
40 years of my life.
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What is the best route to the truth?
Let yourself be governed by your heart rather than your head.
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What do you call a guy, who didnt pull out?
Probable (or potential) father nine months down the line.
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Is it foolish for me to feel hurt when a close and valued ab correspondent drops me?
No. Feeling hurt is understandable, and not foolish. A good AB friend stopped corresponding suddenly on a whim of her new-found long-distance AB lover, and refused to respond to any mails.
(Shrugs shoulders) So be it.
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When was the last time you felt overwhelmed? How did you handle the situation?
The last verse of Paul Anka's The Longest Day never fails to "overwhelm" me, especially when I sing it to myself.
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What do you look like?
This.
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Why are attractive people so often to be thought of as less intelligent?
It's the way non-attractive people "compensate" for their own physical shortcomings.
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Why is it hard for successful women to find husbands?
Despite the phenomenal strides women have made in the past few decades as economic contibutors, and despite all the words uttered about equality of the sexes, it still remains very much a "a man's world"; and men are very conscious of the tables being turned against them. Hence "successful" women tend to be seen as potential threats, persons who in the long run will be seen by society as...
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How would you feel if your brother or sister told you you are ugly?
Has your mother ever told you you're ugly?
Been there.
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who do you think is the sexiest actress?
Gwyneth Paltrow
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Do you ever feel like there is no hat that suits you?
Is the "hat" of your question literal or figurative?
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Why do I keep having this dream that my ex is getting married? He's not even engaged to anyone and he's single.
Do you still love him?
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If you see a man opening a car door for a woman, does it means one of two things: it’s either a new woman – or a new car?
There is a third possibility. He hopes to have a glimpse while she is sitting or coming out... ;-)
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who do you think is the sexiest actress?
1. Gwyneth Paltrow
2. Sandra Bullock.
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If you could make anything you want your transportation, what would you choose?
Beaming, as in Star Trek.
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All those who believe in God, do you all believe in Bible???
I trust that by "believe" you mean "accept without question".
To begin with, i am not a Christian by faith, but did attend a Jesuit school. Later on in life I found myself wanting to read books on religion, and I found in the Bible a very good guide on how to conduct my life. There are many passages in it which i find tedious, as when it rambles on and on about someone or the other's progeny...
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Do you think my girlfriend is curious about anal sex? ;)
As if you haven't already ...:-P
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Why wont my Wife Sleep with other men when she told me she enjoyed it and it excited her before our marriage.
Your wife is taking her marriage seriously, as she ought to.
If one spouse starts becoming "free" in sexual relationships with others, it would be an incentive to the other sppouse to also seek equal freedom. And that would be the end of their commitment and marriage.
Your wife has a good head on her shoulders.
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Does 'need' and 'want' sometimes get confused?
Sometimes? Almost Always!
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Where do we go when we die?
Have patience, and all will be revealed in due course.
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people are not given a chance to choose their religion but it is forced to them at their birth.do you think this is fair?
Religion (whichever it may be) imbibes certain values. If at a certain age when the thinking reaches a certain level of maturity, a person finds the need to change, then so be it.
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Porn is boring. Agree or disagree?
Clever device to get an admission. :-P
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Since the inception of the Internet why do certain white people continue to always ask the same questions about black people in forums?
Some old habits are hard to break.
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Does constantly invoking the name of an historical religious person make one "better" than those who don't? Do those who do so think so?
No. It only shows you do not have a mind of your own.
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Good things come to those who wait. Do you agree?
I'll go with Ambrose Bierce (The Devil's Dictionary):
"Patience is but a minor form of despair disguised as a virtue."
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guy's (and lesbian/bi ladies) when you were 14 years old, what would you do if your sexy blond teacher tried to sleep with you?
At 14 I would have certainly slept with her ... in separate beds -- perhaps even separate homes.
As for playing doctor ... I would have loved to be her gynaec. Only, at that age I did not know gynaecs existed.
Woe is me ...!
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What lessons learned from the year past will you live this new year?
That 1 brickbat can undo what 5 bouquets did.
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What is "SPAM"on A.B.....I really don't know ?
Go to the question on this link
http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/2386590
and see the answer by hnm51.
That's spam.
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What are the symbolic relationships of the four basic elements to the ascension of the soul?
Earth -- Have rock steady character
Water -- Be able to adapt to the environment (as water takes the shape of the vessel)
Fire -- Be alive at all times and strive to "reach greater heights of achievement"
Air -- Be the agent of sustenance of others around you.
Thank you foryour question. Made me think along these lines for the first time.
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What is #1 on the list of things you would like to do before you die?
See the aurora borealis.
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Are wind chimes a pleasure or an annoyance?
Solid steel ones sound like differently tuned orchestral triangles, and I can listen to them for hours in the silence.
The hollow aluminium ones sound no different from "Twice on the pipe (tonk, tonk)", and my answer is (an emphatic) NO.
I have this Christmas been presented with a set of wooden windchimes from South-East Asia. I have yet to put them up, and I suspect they will sound somewhat...
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I loss my 'v' last year n I never have felt pleasure during sex Wat is wrong?
You're probably overcome by regret or guilt. You must learn to accept it as an irreversible event in your personal history, and MOVE ON. Don't gloat over it so much. Life has much more to offer -- even by way of sex.
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Is there any way I can find out If he wants me to suck his dick without bluntly asking him (btw we have been casually seeing each other)
Actions speak better than words.
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What happens if he puts it in AFTER he cums ?
You're kiddin' !!!
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Me and my girlfriend both are younger then 18 and we had sex for the first time awhile ago, can you explain some new positions we can try?
Google sexual positions.
I hope you are both atheletic enough for some of them.
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My fiance is afraid of me giving him oral. How can I fix this?
He is probably more embarrassed about it than afraid. The "standard" posures of you going down on your knees will surely put him off.
You two will probably be best off with 69, you on top. It would give him an opportunity to reciprocate in like manner. That takes away almost all the embarrassment.
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Would any women enjoy laughing at a mans little cock via webcam? Just asking as it has been something I have always wanted to try.
Try what? To show the "little rooster", or to laugh at it?
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What do you consider your greatest erotic body feature?
I haven't a clue, because my own body doesn't arouse me.
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Why is it that most South Asian Girls dont like giving head ? I've always noticed that most women from that part of the world arent into it
Because boys and girls here are taught from childhood to "put every thing in its proper place".
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I sent off for a penis enlarger the other day! Why did someone send me a magnifying glass?
It's questions like this that keep me from quitting AB. Well done.
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I've got a few questions about giving my first handjob...?
1. I think you already know the answer.
2. I think you already know the answer.
3. I think you already know the answer.
4. I think you already know the answer.
5. I think you already know the answer.
6. I think you already know the answer.
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wat is the best way to tell ur parent u wanna have sex?
From your question it appears you are below 18; so your parents are young enough to have engaged in pre-martal sexual activity themselves. So knowing that their daughter (I presume you're a girl) is sexually ready won't be something new.
It's a good thing you are close enough to your parents to WANT to tell them, but are at a loss about how to go about it without getting yourself into a...
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i'm a girl and when i'm on top and i insert my boyfriends penis, it causes him pain? anyone know why? or what i could be doing wrong?
An erectpenis points towards the mans body. If, to insert it within you, you pull it towards you, i.e. away from his body it will cause him pain.
You must learn to angle yourself so it slips into you comfortably. It's best when you are almost lying on him, but resting your weight on your elbows while kissing him at the same time. Then let him push it up your vagina with his hip movement. You...
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why do the girls get mad when i tell them that they should be checked after we have sex i mean i just want her to be safe for the next guy
Because you are telling them to "lock the stable after the horse has bolted".
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How do I suppress my libido?
Been reading other responses and the dialogs which ensued. Looks like you're looking for sexual variety, but not from different men.
Well, I can only suggest you google-image something sexual (your choice what you google), and save the links in a separate file. You can easily have more than a hundred links, each showing a different aspect of sex, and then when your mr Right comes along, the...
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A person simply being a "nice person" is not a good enough reason to date him or her. Am I the only one who thinks this?
It does not necessarily mean that the same "nice" person isn't judging you likewise. ;-)
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Is drooling offensive, as a response to seeing something yummy?
Why is this question under sexual techniques? Does "drooling" have a sexual connotation as well?
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Why do so many people who get rejected get so rude and then wonder why no one wants to date them?
Their rudeness is probably their anger directed at themselves for overestimating their own "worth" in the first place.
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Ladies, are using the excuse of menopause not to have sex with your husband?
It's not necessarily an excuse. Some women genuinely feel "less of a woman" after menopause, have greatly reduced libido with very little lubrication, if any.
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Guys do you think of another girl while your making love to your wife? Is the sex better or worse when you do that?
Yes, it happens because the mind cannot be controlled. You cannot prevent a thought from entering your mind, because when you think of preventing it, it already has.
Some women consider it very naughty to allow it to happen.
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Do you believe that souls recognize each other? Can you love someone for no apparent reason, but you inner being just has to be with them.
There's seldom a "reason" (apparent or otherwise) which makes you love someone.
Your question brings out what love is beautifully: "Your inner being just HAS to be with them."
Merry Christmas, Catherine.
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Would it be possible to communicate everything using only questions?
Many years ago my communications professor taught us that you can communicate anything by a series of questions whose answer is either a "yes" or a "no".
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Why do you think most guys get turned on by girl on girl action but girls don't feel the same way (most of the time) about guy on guy action?
Keeping "girl on girl action" aside, it's quite acceptable to see girls greet each other in meeting or parting with a hug and a kiss. Two close male friends lightly embracing when they greet each other is "somewhat acceptable", but exchanging a kiss is just not "nice". Maybe it's just me, but that's my opinion.
You may extend this to the "action" you mention in your question.
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What is the best way to break up with someone?
Directly, without hesitation.
Don't blame your partner for the breakup. Blame yourself.
If you cannot blame yourself honestly, invent a reason.
Let the break not leave bad tastes in either partner's mouth.
You never know when you may want to get back together again.
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What is with people who talk negatively about their husbands and wives?
Lack of self-confidence, feeling of inadequacy.
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Assuming both sexual partners are adults, what is the best way to treat a virgin man or a virgin woman?
Obviously they value thier virginity and are not casual about who they lose it to. Losing one's virginity is a once-in-a-lifetime experience, and a very memorable thing for everyone; and it's best to have happy memories about GIVING it willingly to someone rather than LOSING it to them.
The virgin partner needs to be treated with patience and with understanding. To them it's when the minds...
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What does "chemistry" between two partners mean to you?
An understanding and acceptance of each other for what they are. The yearning to be together as much as possible. Making sex a natural and integral part of your relationship. It just happens without your having to make it happen -- as if it was naturally meant to.
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What do you do if you strongly suspect your mother is jealous of you?
In what respect do you think your mother envies you?
Your looks?
Your intelligence?
Your sex life?
Your social circle?
Tell me.
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Is there any cure for anger?
Yes. When you feel the anger building up, count backwards from 10.
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Are girls as confusing to guys as guys are to girls?
Ask Professor Higgins ...
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WHY DO PEOPLE TRY SO HARD TO BE SOMETHING THAT THEY ARE NOT? knowing its not worth it at all they go on searching for an answer.
Most people give up trying when they realise "it isn't worth the effort". But the fact that these people strive continually means that they haven't yet reached that "breaking point". So it's best to let them continue till they achieve what they had set out to, or reach the limit of their endurance and give up.
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who do you prefer to be in control while having sex?
Sex, as part of love, is not about control. It's about harmony and synchronisation and adaptation. Each partner adapts himself to satisfy the other's sexual needs, and if being bossed around or having your hair pulled is your "need", then by doing so your partner is simply adapting to please you, and not controlling you.
Role playing, which is yet another form of adaptation, is a major turn on...
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Is it normal for a guy around the age of 45-50 to get an erection from making out? Want to get the facts right for a story I'm writing.
How else?
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I have always been told that I look like Madonna. I think she's ugly and nasty looking. Should I be insulted?
Were your observations on Madonna's looks really necessary?
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Why am I always being underestimated, even by people who know I'm smart?
People often treat us as we "invite" them to.
Think about it.
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Why do guys talk about how hot other girls are, and not compliment you?
There are two things about compliments: First, if not given sincerely or given well, they can be misunderstood. Second, not many people are good at giving them.
Could it be that guys don't compliment you because they are afraid you might suspect an ulterior motive? And could it be that they praise other girls because they want to impress you about their own desirability with the opposite sex?...
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Do people in general look down on cougars? I'm in my forties and can't seem to be in sync with men in my age group.
Your question prompts me to ask you another:
Are you already in a relationship with a considerably younger man, and are fed up of people attaching this rather derogatory label to you; or are you contemplating getting into one, and are afraid people might deride your "behaviour"?
Which is it?
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Is it wrong to think of your boss sexually?
(only girls please)
I think you're leading him on and enjoying his attentions. I foresee you'll go further if you haven't alredy.
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What is your favorite line in a movie?
"Tomorrow is another day."
YOU guess the movie, Elizabeth.
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Parents: Is there anything your kids could do after they have left home that would make you not want to talk to them anymore?
It's a hypothetical question, so I'll give a hypothetical answer.
We ring their doorbell, and they politely ask us to excuse them and not come in as they are entertaining friends.
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I am a devout Christian Lady, but is it a sin that I sometimes think of our Lord whilst making hanky-panky (!) with my hubby?
Depends upon how you think of the Lord. Is it: "Oh Lord, he's prematurely ejaculated again!"?
Or is it: "Oh Lord, I'm so sore and he doesn't even cum!?"
Or is it: "Oh lord. when will he learn to foreplay me right!"?
Or some other?
No, it's not a sin.
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how do leabains have sex?
Google it.
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Guys: Would you be willing to be in a relationship with a woman that already has a child?
I am already in one.
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What are a man's sexual responsibilities?
It takes two to tango, and the sexual responsibilities of a man would be very similar in nature to those of a woman.
Sex is the most intimate union of two persons. When consensual, it is perhaps the ultimate expression of complete trust of each partner in the other.
It should be enjoyable and fulfilling to both, so that they feel that their union was worth making.
Whether it would happen...
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Why do certain people say things like "Real women have curves" and "Real women have meat on their bones"? Skinny women are real, too!
Whatever a woman's physical endowments, they are irrelevant in the bedroom. More men should realise that.
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Ladies: What makes you feel "slutty"?
A "slutty" woman is not to be despised. She's merely looking for the one relationship which has thus far eluded her.
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Why do you think so many people today are anti-religion (Christianity especially)
Religion often infringes upon our basic human rights, by taking away our freedom to choose, by either imposing a compulsion or a forbiddance. The heads of most religions get sufficiently carried away by the "powers" they assume to start playing God, much to the resentment of the humble common folk.
Being against any particular religion (you mention Christianity in your question, but it applies...
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Can someone point out that there are more than 20,000 errories in the Bible?
Read "god is not great" by Christopher Hitchens.
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in a life or death situation, would you sacrifice yourself to save a friend, or would you let them die and save yourself?
Let them die and save myself, so i can get a second opportunity to sacrifice myself to save another friend, whom I would again let die and save myself for a third opportunity to ...
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If you were given 50 million dollars that would magically disappear in 48 hours what would you buy?
Shares in multinational bluechip companies.
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Would you feel safe with a woman leading your country?If both a man and a woman shared your political philosophy,for whom would you vote?
Yes I would feel quite safe ... provided she was post-menopausal. PMS can play havoc with decision making capacity. My country, India, had one of the world's finest leaders in Prime Minister Mrs. Indira Gandhi.
Regarding whom I would vote for, sex is the least important criterion (again assuming the woman candidate is post-menopausal). There are other attributes which would determine my...
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What personality trait in a person is most likely to ruin a relationship?
Egotism and domination, for one.
Complete submission to the partner, for another.
Both are extremes which doom a relationship.
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When making decisions do you follow your head or your heart?
I'm strongly intuitive.
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Women: Is it worse to be called a "slut" by a man or a woman? Why?
I think ...
A man calls a woman a slut out of lust. Awoman calls another woman a slut out of envy.
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At what point do you believe the unborn becomes a "person"? (As in, more than just a "life" or "a part of the mother").
In my humble opinion, this happens when the varioous organs and body parts get differentiated, say after two or three months from conception.
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Should the juries in women's rape cases be fathers with daughters? Why or why not?
No, because then you will be putting an emotional slant to their assessment of the situation.
What's important is that the members of the jury should be able to examine the evidence presented before them and decide if rape was committed IN LAW. The judge is there to help them understand what LEGALLY constitues rape; and rape in the legal sense may be very different from rape as we genertally...
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When do you feel two people who are dating "really" know each other?
Every person has certain secrets s/he would keep to themselves.
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How old were you when you first learned about Abortion?
About 15, during sex education lessons at school.
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If you were a Doctor, would you receive Abortion training? Why or why not?
Most certainly yes. As a doctor, my first duty would be to save lives, and if abortion is the way, so be it.
Would I perform an abortion if a life was not at stake? Not being a doctor, I can't say for sure, but I probably would.
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Women: Do men who like to watch women jog ever turn you off from jogging or is it just me?
Turning off (or on for that matter) is entirely within your own hands. Men enjoy seeing women jogging for "obvious" reasons; and it's up to you whether to ignore them or let them so dominate your mind, as, perhaps, to spoil the rest of your day.
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When you hear someone who compliments you a lot compliment someone else, how does it make you feel?
If I am ever, complimented, it must be for something I'm good at. I have no problem if someone is complemented as well.
Stretching this point just a little further, if you KNOW you're good at something, you will often find yourself helping others to be just as good as yourself. You will not be plagued by suspicions that you might be surpassed, because you KNOW your own strengths.
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Men: Would it offend you to receive flowers? Women: Does receiving flowers ever offend you?
If a woman were to send me flowers, say on my birthday, I would accept them happily. If a man were to send me flowers, I would still accept them happily, but I must admit to a twinge of embarrassment, unless of course it were a close relative like a father, brother, son, etc. Though why I would be embarrassed I cannot say.
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When is curiosity a bad thing?
When you're a cat ... (think about it)
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When is it bad to cry? When is it good to cry?
It's bad to cry when you're dealing with an extreme crisis, for you need your full concentration on the work at hand, and crying will only weaken (if not completely deflate) your will and resolve.
At any other time, it's quite normal, perhaps even desirable, to seek emotional release in tears.
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Why do people treat me like I have some deep emotional scar just because I was sexually assaulted in the past?
Perhaps you tend to "wear your heart on your sleeve".
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What would cause a very straight girl to suddenly want to have a girlfriend?
The "very straight girl" may not be as straight as she might like to believe. There may have been a certain predisposition towards same sex to begin with, which was being suppressed because of social norms, but which had to "break out" sometime.
If you're talking about yourself and your own feelings, you may message me privately and we can talk about it.
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What is the most ridiculous fad that you can remember?
Upturned shirt collars in the early 1960's.
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If you were having sex with a man and couldn't perform on top cause he is too small how would you explain that?
Always remember one thing. Never hurt a male partner's feelings especially in a sexual situation.
An experienced, understanding and sexually mature woman would consider his feelings and "explain" that she prefers him on top as she is the submissive type and finds it difficult to dominate. Besides, it turns her on more. The man who "knows" she is being sympathetic will genuinely love her for...
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If a married man watches porn every night, is that a healthy marriage or is there something sexually wrong with him or her?
There's nothing wrong about him watching porn.
So long as he releases into his wife, and not into his own hand or a tissue.
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why wont my boyfriend eat me out?is that normal?
Perhaps he has his own psychological issues based on his own upbringing, wherein he feels he might be embarrassing you by looking and feeling so closely at your most "private" parts. I would suggest you help remove that inhibition by perhaps persuading him about how flattered you feel that he wants to see you intimately and how ready you are to be intimate with him. I don't know ... give it a...
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Why do people used the words "I'm not perfect" for a reason to sin?
In our professional lives we often commit an irregularity and then regularize or ratify them later on. So it is in our our personal lives. We are regulaizing our irregular acts.
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how can we understand infinity?
or no point in trying?
The Egyptian-Greek mathematician Euclid defined a point as that which has no dimension. In other words it has no length, no breadth. We represent a point by a tiny dot on paper. But if you see that dot through a magnifying glass, you will realisethat it does have a tiny legth and a tiny width.
Well, you might make a faint mark on paer with a very sharp pin or needle? Is that strictly a point?...
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Me and my husband rarely have sex, once every 2to3 weeks. At first it was 2to3 times a day. After 7months now its changed. Is that normal?
Hi, icsugar.
After i logged out of Answerbag, I logged in to yahoo, and saw this posted. Here's the link.
http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/life-style/relationships/man-woman/Too-stressed-for-sex/articleshow/6525328.cms
I know the article looks at stress and sex in India (where i live), but the basics hold for anywhere.
Wiz
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Me and my husband rarely have sex, once every 2to3 weeks. At first it was 2to3 times a day. After 7months now its changed. Is that normal?
There's always a possibility of his "getting it somewhere else", but it may not be so.
There are probably two factors at play:
First, his 14-hours-a-day work schedule (including several hours of commuting ... by car?) might truly be putting a huge strain on him, which gets him very fatigued. I've seen this happening quite commonly among today's young generation, who make big money but pay a...
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I am a heterosexual male and I love watching girl on girl porn. Am I weird?
No you're not.
And if you watch carefully, you might even pick up tips on how you can better satisfy your woman's needs, and make sex for her more fulfilling.
Bisexual women find their female partners make sex for them more fulfilling than their male partners.
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is good to have sex with your bf if your with him for a week
I read in one of your comments that you're 19. At 19 you're ripe for a sexual relationship ... IF YOU WANT TO.
There are several factors which should help you decide for yourself.
Your sexual/relationship history.
How often you've been with him in the week that you've been together.
How far you two have progressed towards a sexual union.
Is he pressuring you into going to bed with him?
What is...
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hehehe i just masterbated LOL
Well, good for you!
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Is it ok for a girl and her brother to masturbate together?
I'm sure this happens much more often than we get to know about it. Many siblings of the opposite sex share the same bedroom, though sleep in separate beds, from very early childhood, and when they grow old enough to explore their own bodies, masturbation will be indulged in, first in private and later in the other's presence, swearing themselves to secrecy.
At present they don't look at each...
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Should i change my avatar name whem i'am Ninety.....??? hehe
"Nice cups" ? Hehe
Or perhaps (and I hope not) Nice saucers?
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Why am I dismissed as being a)"bi-sexual" (though I clearly love men) or b)"extremely selfish" (for not being exclusively with a woman)?
People label others because they are frustrated and feel left behind. Ignore such labels and live your life as you want to.
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Do you use sex, subtly or obviously, at work? How?
A couple of decades ago I enjoyed good chemistry with my female assistant, though i must admit I did not even lay a finger on her in any sexual way. But the general perception in others' eyes was that we were " carrying on" outside working hours. This was revealed to me in the form of a questiuon after the young lady was married and gone.
To answer your question, no, I have never used sex...
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What is something about which you are a perfectionist?
My speling in any thing i rite.
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Complete this sentence: I hope that I live long enough to _________________________.
... beat my father's record off 88 by two years (at least). That would be a fairly convincing margin, don't you think?
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What is a profession that you would you feel guilty about pursuing?
Sales. I spent a few months moonlighting as salesman for an encyclopaedia whose worth I didn't believe in. Needless to say, I was not successful.
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What lie have the greatest number of people probably told at some point in their lives?
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What is something you've tried that you would NOT recommend to others?
Riding on certain roller coasters.
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If you had the time and money to pursue any hobby, what would it be?
Travel.
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Would you classify any person as a "failure"? If so, on what grounds? Or would you not apply this term to anyone? Why not?
Who are we to judge another? Our "judgement" is coloured by our own perceptions of ourselves. If we deem someone a success, there is a trace of envy; if we deem someone a failure, there is a trace of contempt. Either way we show up as failures - to ourselves.
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What's something that can spoil a good mood for you?
Nagging about my not taking enough exercise.
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When was the last time you were pleasantly surprised?
When I heard that a certain (quite attractive) lady had remarked to a mutual friend that she wished she was my wife. Made my day like probably nothing else.
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What is something that you feel is underrated or undervalued?
I have already answered this question, but I woud like to again.
The role of a full-time housewife - or homemaker, as the current euphemism goes. She has multiple skills which continually draw on her intellectual and emotional strengths. "Mmanagement" students can learn much more by merely observing her for a month than they would in a year at a B-school.
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What is something in which you have invested a great deal of time and energy?
In bringing up my children, now 31 (son) and 25 (daughter) respectively. And what rich dividends that has paid me! Thanks be to God.
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What is something you consider beautiful that tends to be overlooked?
A genuine close friendship between a man and a woman. Society somehow never accepts that a platonic relationship can exist, and always tries to detect sexual undertones.
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When you treat yourself to something special, what makes an ideal treat for you?
I can never treat myself alone. It is too "flat". Someone must be there to share the treat with me.
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Do guys/girls sex chat using/sharing photos of actresses, pretending to be a common person?? Is that a crime??
It could be if the actor or model chooses to press charges of impersonation, or tarnishing their public image by associating their pictures with sexchats.
I think it probably is more exciting to let each partner in the chat draw up their own mental image of the other, and let that image correct itself over time as the chat relationship develops and progresses.
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Who can teach me how to cyber sex????
I know what it is im just not sure how to go about it?
im bisexual
As for anything else, practice makes perfect.
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Do you consider having sex hard work because humans have too much tedious and unspontaneous foreplay before banging each other?
Foreplay is as much part of sex as the post-penetrative part ("banging" as you put it), and if you find it tedious and unspontaneous then I'm afraid you're missing the point ... almost entirely.
You should probably cut down on the quantity (frequency) and focus more on the quality. One 30-minute session will be much more gratifying than five 6-minute sessions, both for yourself as well as your...
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Gentlemen, if men like women so much, do they make fun of their flaws behind their backs. ie: muffin tops and stretch marks
On the contrary, I find muffin tops (But not too much of an overhang) and stretch marks quite sexually arousing in a matured woman, especially if she carries them with self-confidence.
And let's face the fact: Men also go as much out of shape as women. So let's just accept ourselves and each other as we are.
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Is it true that women sometimes sleep with a guy out of pity? Ladies, have you done it?
If a guy has to be slept with out of pity, then he must be a real wimp. And a girl will sleep with a wimp only if she is desperate for sex herself.
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Are you happy?
Yes, your questions have made me.
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what makes a good painting?
When it comes to art, I just "like" a painting instinctively. Irrespective of what genre it belongs to.
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why do people ask questions on answerbag?
Quite simple, really. You can't have a bagful of answers if you didn't have a bagful of questions. :-)
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whats the best way to punish a thief?
I am more in favour of reforming a person rather than punishing him; for only by reforming him can you get him to become a productive member of society.
A superb example of this (albeit a fictitious one) is the episode of the Bishop's candlesticks in Victor Hugo's Les Miserables.
The book is available as a free download.
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are you very tolerant?
Yes and no. It depends upon what I am supposed to tolerate.
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who is (should be?) more submissive: men or women?
Do you mean your question in the normal everyday sense or a sexual sense?
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what's the point of getting to the leaderboard top on AB?
None whatever.
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im 30. i cant make up on the profession i want to work in/job i want to have. is it normal???
It may not be "normal" because most people at 30 are fairly clear about themselves and their aspirations. But it is not unususal either, in the sense that many persons are undecided because their previous choices have led them to disappointment or dissatisfaction.
I was stuck in a rut, a 9-to-5 job for several years before I decided to start moonlighting at teaching at 40. Eventually I gave up...
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Help! is this suitable for a personal statement in a CV?
No, it's too stereotypical. Besides you will open yourself to too many "critical" questions, with demands for examples from your own personal or work experience. You need to tone it down considerably and word it so that these points come out in the oral interview rather than let the interview be based on them.
In your CV you must stress on how your personality matches the nature of the job...
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Name one word with two different meanings .....each meaning the opposite of each other......
Fast.
This horse is fast. Meaning he runs at great speed.
This colour is fast. Meaning it doesn't run at all.
Howzzat!
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What is something that you feel is underrated or undervalued?
The role of teachers in a person's life.
The saying: "Those who can, do. Those who can't, teach." makes this fact amply, and very sadly, clear.
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why are some people more lucky than the others?
The general perception is
"The other man's grass is alsways greener,
The sun shines brighter on the other side."
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your opinion: traditional male/female roles.
It's a fine line line between them, which becomes finer with every passing year.
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your opinion: traditional male/female roles.
It's a fine line between them which becomes finer with every passing year.
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I think understanding should serve a helpful purpose. What if it serves a hurtful purpose? Is understanding always a good thing?
Always.
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If good things come in small packages, is smaller better and smallest best? Examples?
Lord help me today, show me the way,
One day at a time
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What would you do when they come for you?
Well ... if you gotta go, you gotta go.
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If we can laugh at ourselves more, maybe we can learn to laugh at others more rather than get ticked off at them. Think it's worth a try?
I differ with you on a technicality.
If we can laugh at ourselves more, maybe we can learn to laugh at others more
If we can laugh at ourselves more, we can learn to laugh WITH others more.
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If the women is stronger/bigger than the man and shes attacking him do you think its alright for the man to hit her back?
All's fair in love and war.
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Death is inevitable/final for all of us. Once dead, one cannot undie and live again. Anything inevitable/final you can undo?
No there isn't ... at least to the best of my meagre knowledge. It's called entropy - the change from the ordered to the disordered.
For example, if you break an egg (order to disorder), you cannot make it whole again (disorder to order). Your hair can change its state from combed to tousled (order to disorder), but not from tousled to combed (disorder to order).
Everytime a change from order...
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We take things for granted until we see others deprived of them and then momentarily we appreciate. Why momentarily? Why not constantly?
Keep giving thanks for whatever little you have or get ... And your question will soon become irrelevant.
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If we didn't support the early sexualization of young girls they wouldn't do it. Why do we?
Early sexualization (I like that word) of girls as well as boys is a social side-effect of the contraceptive pill invented 50 years ago.
I don't think the trend can or will be reversed, except by some new viral mutation which selectively and fatally attacks persons under 18.
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The who, what, when, where is the easy part. It is always the why that trips us up. Why?
Tripped!
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If you could attend/could have attended any University in the world where would it be and what would you have studied as your Major?
Harvard. Economics and Political science.
Sadly I couldn't go there 40+ years ago. Too expensive.
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how often do most 50 year old women masturbate
I asked my wife 56 this question. She became all embarrassed and blushed and gave me a friendly slap on my wrist saying: Dont ask silly questions. But I shall persist and get back. Watch this comment thread.
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The Tv show called Captain Pugwash with Seaman Stains and Master Bates.Did you realise the sexual connotations.Were they thick or niave.
A man took his family to meet Abraham Lincoln when was touring.
"Mr Lincoln," he sais; "I am Mr Bates, this is my wife Mrs Bates, my daughter Miss Bates, and my young son Master Bates."
Well, it's nothing to boast about," replied Mr Lincoln.
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Why do people exclaim `Oh Boy`....rather than `Oh Girl`.....would not more people look if the female excalmtion was used....hehe
Oh girl! here we go again. Ho-hum!
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Do you have a strong sense of "self"? Do you know what you will and will not accept or do you take each situation independently?
One needs to take situation independently, but the uderlying values remain firm. A little flexibility, perhaps, for convenience, but never crossing the line.
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Jim(my guy)says "men are more show offy than women"! Do you agree? Women wanna impress men, right? Don't they "show off" too?
Both sexes do it. Only, men are gregarious, women more subtle.
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Jim(my guy)says "men are more show offy than women"! Do you agree? Women wanna impress men, right? Don't they "show off" too?
Both sexes do it. Only, men are gregarious, women more subtle.
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Jim(my guy)says "men are more show offy than women"! Do you agree? Women wanna impress men, right? Don't they "show off" too?
Both sexes do it. Only, men are gregarious, women more subtle.
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Ideally good kids should be your best contribution to the world. What if they're not? What is the next best thing?
To live respected, and die regretted.
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Is it healthy if you compete with yourself more than with others?
People who say they compete with themselves are usually losers when it comes to competing with others. It is a convenient crutch they fall back on when exposed.
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Complete the sentence: It's not my fault that _______________________________.
... that she muddled her pill schedule.
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what do you say after sex?
Sometimes, "the less said the better" can be very wise counsel.
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How often do you consult a dictionary either in print or online form? If often, do you recommend one dictionary over others?
I swear by Chamber's Dictionary; but not the on-line version.
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My husband and I hung some curtains on a varnished wooden pole with wooden pole rings. The rings "catch" on the pole. Any suggestions?
Change the rings to about a quarter to half inch larger in diameter.
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What comes to mind when you hear the phrase "farmer's daughter"?
The song from Oklahoma (I think) which goes something like:
"Cowboys dance with the farmer's daughters,
Farmers dance with the cowboys' gals."
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I am 25 and my partner is 46. We only have sex about once a week. Is this normal??!
There's nothing like normal or abnormal here. It's whether both of you are content with the way things are.
Your question reveals a difference in your needs. While once a week MAY be okay for a 46-year old (though at 46, my frequency was often a little more) you're too young to settle for such infrequent sexual encounters. It's more like every night or at least every other night at your age....
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Okay. . . so HAVE I lost my mind? I just watched GunsNRoses "Sweet Child of Mine" video and liked it? I'm in my 50s! CRAZY???
No, not crazy at all.
Either you're young at heart, or you refuse to grow up. Take your pick. ;-)
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Will YOU consume food after its EXPIRATION DATE? If so. . . .how much further PAST it will you consume it?
No, and have a terrific day today. ;-)
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Complete the sentence: Someday, I just might________________________.
... give in to the temptation to spend "quality time" with an ABer who I know adores me.
But it's likely to remain only a "might". I doubt if it will turn into a "will".
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Who is someone famous you idolized or had a crush on as a child or teenager?
Mr 3rd grade teacher, Miss Fernandes.
She gave me a foot fetish which has lasted all these years. I've yet to come across a woman whose feet would match hers.
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Besides dying, what do you most dread?
Paralysis. I've seen my mother go through it in her last four years.
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What's the name of the gesture where you spread the fingers of your right hand, raise your hand to your face, put the pad of your thumb on the end of your nose and flutter your four fingers of the same hand? You'd normally do it as a taunt.
It's called "thumbing your nose" at someone (or sometimes something).
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OUT OF ALL THE MILLIONS OF PEOPLE HERE IN U.S . WHY CANT I FIND ONE SINGLE GIRL WHO WOULD LIKE TO SLEEP WITH ME?
If you can't find a single girl, look for a married one.
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Hand me that________before I _________
... Resignation letter before I change my mind and become your accomplice in embezzlement.
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Why do young men enjoy ejaculating on womens' faces?
Just as new games get invented from time to time, new sexual "games" also come into existence. Ejaculating on the face is probably something "different" to break the monotony of ejaculating into the vagina (which is the best place to ejaculate) or in a woman's mouth which has been the fashion lately.
To me the best place to ejaculate is deep inside her vagina or in a condom.
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How can I persuade two of my former boyfriends who know each other to be with me together and, if possible, double penetrate me?
... And i fully share their shyness. I wouldn't do it in front of two women either. To me it's a strictly one-man-one-woman thing.
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Ladies, please be honest: are you "boy crazy" like me?
This question is for the ladies, but I hope you don't mind if i answer it from a male perspective. There have been a few times (very few, infact, and mainly among known acquaintances) when I have sensed a woman signalling her "desire", quite involuntarily, I'm sure. And I must admit it's a great feeling to have aroused such vibes. I'm not sure if the ladies found the attraction "irresistible"...
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Ladies - how do you handle natural impotence in your men 60s and older due to aging? Do you persuade them to take drugs for it?
The libido does decrease with age, no doubt; but persuading a man to take drugs to overcome impotence will only dent his own sexual self-esteem. He knows his weakness, and to be told that he has one and should do something about it might be more than he can take.
If your man is going through this phase, I would suggest you reassure him that you accept this natural consequence of aging, and that...
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Complete the sentence: I have been waiting a long time for_________________________.
... new business.
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Do you think you've ever been at an advantage or at a disadvantage because of anything about your physical appearance?
I am a teacher by profession, and many have said i look somewhat professorial (grey hair and all), which I guess is an advantage.
My birthweight was just a little over 4 lb although i was born full term. My hands are small compared to my forearms which are long and thin, which I'm very conscious of and consider a decided disadvantage.
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Complete the sentence: After all this time, I can't believe that I still________________________________________.
... haven't got myself into an adulterous relationship despite several opportunities along the way.
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Complete the sentence: After all this time, I can't believe that I still________________________________________.
Cannot spin a top or fly a kite right every time.
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Who else here is considered the black sheep of the family? Do you know why the family looks at you in that way?
Always been. I don't know why.
Positively disliked by some, tolerated by others.
My aunt (father's elder spinster sister) genuinely loved me, but she died when I was 10.
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Do you prefer modern or antique furniture?
I go for what I feel will fit in with what I have.
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What is one question that is too personal to ask most people? (No, you don't need to answer it, and, no, I won't either).
Just answer "Yes" or "No". Have you stopped beating your wife?
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Aside from SEXUAL magazines. . . .tell me some good ones to subscribe to and WHY?
The British magazine "The Economist" is the one for me. It covers world events to just the right level I need. It might suit you too.
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My friend says, "If one is a scientist. . . .then. . . .by design. . . .they must be an atheist!"! I don't agree, though! Do YOU?
The scientist searches for expalnations of what he observes. But if he cannot proceed further in his quest without assuming the role of a higher Being, he should have the courage to admit it, at least for the time being until another discovery is made or explanation proferred, which would carry the quest a step further.
To take a very simple example, we know that Gravitation follows the...
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There have been LOTS AND LOTS AND LOTS of great singers. But I am hard-pressed to score ANYONE above JAY BLACK! Any suggestions?
Well, I'm hard pressed to to score ANYONE above Placido Domingo (male) and Connie Francis (female).
How we danced to Connie Francis! ... and Peggy Lee ... and Rosemary Clooney ... and later the Beatles (wipes teardrop from corner of eye).
Do you remember the tune Time is Tight? I think it was played by Booker T and the MGs, but ain't too sure. It's ringing in my ears as I write this.
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Women masturbate as much and maybe even more so than men.Why does society make it that men are more sexual? Women are sexual beings too but we always had to hide it. I'm sick of this attitude!
And so am I.
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For other women - have you ever had an orgasm with a partner, or even come anywhere near close to orgasming? I haven't ever, and I'm pushing 50 now....I really think sexual pleasure is only for men, not ever for women. We are just here to service men.
Even at 50, it's not too late for you to make a turnaround. But both you and your man (husband, i presume) must be willing to accept that you need sexual counselling. There's nothing to be ashamed aboiut it, and many more couples are in need of it and even avail of it than they would care to admit.
You will need to persuade your husband that taking counselling is not a slur on his sexual...
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Men respond only: would you keep a female sexual partner who does nothing for you?
This is a nice question, spritzer.
If she cannot perform sexual acts because of some medical reason, then it would be most unfair and grossly immoral to dump her for something she cannot help.
But if she refuses sex as a grudge or as a bargaining device (and some women do behave this way), well that's another matter and needs serious sorting out, whatever be the final outcome.
Hope my...
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Is there anything in the Bible speaking against lesbians? (Please provide scripture as reference.)
Why do you ask? Are you one, or do you think you might be?
Be honest with yourself, and never mind any religious proclamation, pro or anti.
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Should I stay with my husband or be single and date the other guy non-exclusively?
Looks like you already know the answer.
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As a woman, how can I make my vagina smell and taste sweet without emotion lotions?
Keep it clean and let it smell natural.
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I have never had an orgasm with my G-spot. Is there anything I can do to increase my chances of reaching orgasm, but without using my clit?
Use an appropriate dildo if you're trying to achieve it by yourself. Or else, ask your partner to help you get there.
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How many kingdoms are there !!and what are they
I know I'm answering this question very late, but I've only just seen it for the first time.
They say when the world will come to an end there will be only five kings left.
The King of England,
The King of Spades,
The King of ...
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.
:-)
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Where does the saying `that was a close shave ` come from...?
The crotch of someone I know.
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how do you know when you've gone two far....????
You've gone "two" far, when you've both past the vertical tango stage, and are tangoing horizontally. Hehehe ;-)
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Is a zebra a black horse with white stripes or a white horse with black stripes...????
Neither. It's not a horse. It's a zebra.
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Where does `Sods` law originate from....??
It was first stated by a Son of the Soil.
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Can Cardinal birds commit Cardinal sins.......god know what cardinals sins are though ....but it sounded good
The head of the Phillipines church some time ago was Jaime Cardinal Sin, or Cardinal Jaime Sin. Do you know even a smattering of French?
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If i took my shoe of in my Avatar....would you be offended ....or even want me to .....???
We've seen one end of your right leg long enough. Now let's see the other end. ;-)
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How can you tell if a quiet guy that never talks to you likes you? I don't really like him, but he stares a lot.
First appearances can be deceptive. He may be a better person than you think he is, but is too shy to approach you.
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When was the last time you felt terrified and all alone?
Nine years ago.
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What's the meaning of this dream?
Dreams usually show up your deep seated desires or your deep-seated fears. You will have to work that out yourself.
I might be able to help you explore this further if you could tell me a little more about yourself.
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What's wrong with marrying a dying man or woman?
Nothing wrong at all. It's a purely personal choice, and both of them are going into it with their eyes wide open.
The sad part is that if one of them is very rich, society tends to pass an adverse judgement on the other. But that's usually a result of envy.
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Are you a racist if you do this?
No that person needn't be a racist, but s/he's sure immature.
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What you think: should she leave him?
It's a made up question, and pretty silly.
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Why is it women cuss when having orgasm?
"Fuck me like never before" is hardly a cuss.
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Men respond only: what you like to hear when a woman is having an orgasm?
The involuntary gasp when she cums.
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Complete this sentence: I'm proud to say that I never_____________.
... stolen.
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I'm now 28. I'm bi, well more so les. Ever since I was 22 my then 15 yr old little sister started Sexually Dominating me.is this normal?
You've just established a very different equation with your sister, and thereby had a side of your personality revealed to yourself. There is nothing normal or abnormal, right or wrong about who you are. Each person is a certain type, and the earlier you discover yourself, AND COME TO TERMS WITH YOURSELF, the better only for you.
You have already freed yourself from mental trauma by owning...
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Do You regret the past ? You can't change it. Why feel regret ? isn't it a waste of time and effort ?
Contemplation on the past is a guide to the future.
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If no one in the world knows anything about sex. But everyone has that instinct. How do we know how to use it?
You've answered your own question. That's PRECISELY what instinct is all about. Sex education is primarily directed towards prevention of abuse of the sexual instinct, not how to use that instinct. Instinct is what comes naturally without prior instruction.
For instance, did anyone teach you HOW to masturbate? No. One day your hand just "found" its target. Yes, someone did tell you later...
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May I refuse to inherit the earth?
You better do, because I'm not moving out.
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What is the best 'anything' that could insulate you from the hassles of life?
Permanent amnesia. :-)
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What was the last DVD you watched and thought, “that story is shite… the special effects are woeful …the acting is terrible…”?
It's an old movie I saw for the first time on DVD a few weeks ago. "The War of the Roses" starring Michael Douglas.
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What's your favorite place in the whole world ?
Amsterdam or Rome. Rome has the edge.
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Im a 25 slightly above average looking guy like Luke Wilson, I get a 40 year old hooker whos an 8 on 1-10 scale how much should she charge?
You don't seem to have a sense of self-worth, do you? ;_)
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When i lie down to go to sleep,i hear REALLY vivid voices that say things. it usually stops me from falling asleep. overactive imagination?
Yes, I have similar experiences too. Please go to the link below where I've posted a question related to it.
http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1530428
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I was watching the History Channel re: "space" aliens building the pyramids and have concluded Erich Von Daniken is RIGHT! What say YOU?
I saw a tv program a few years ago which showed pyramids on Mars too. They couldn't have been "natural formations" for that would violate the laws of math as we know them.
But then perhaps they might be following another math out there. ;-)
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If you could be the most knowledgable person in the world in any one area or subject, what area or subject would you choose?
International relations.
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It's been said, "NEVER JUDGE A BOOK BY ITS COVER"! But sometimes I think you CAN! What say YOU?
When you "judge by the cover" you will find yourself consistently right or consistently wrong. By consistently I mean 75% or more times.
If you're consistently right, then good for you.
If you're consistently wrong, then you know that the truth is more probably quite the OPPOSITE.
So you CAN judge by the cover. Not merely sometimes, but most times.
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My classmate keeps using foul words all the time. When I advice her, she asks me to shut up. what do I do?
Shut up.
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Everyone I meet thinks I'm weird and I'm getting worried about it. Whatshould I do?
Keep worrying, or try to change. It's up to you.
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I need advice on how to cheat on my girlfriend can any ex cheaters out there teach me a thing or two?
Easy. Sleep with another woman, and don't tell your gf about it.
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how do you masturbate if your a girl ?
It will happen on its own, and you'll exclaim to all around you:"Hey! I've just masturbated."
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What do u think of a 15 year old girl being with a 39 year old man? What do you think of it!
That they are father and daughter, or uncle and niece, etc.
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To the parents out there...what age do your "kids" have to be before you stop feeling responsible for their choices?
We taught both our "kids" to be responsible for their choices when they were about 11.
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Do you believe that true genius exists? If so, can it be defined, and how would you define it?
According to me, true genius is the ability to see the potential in a given situation, or to discern a pattern in a given set of observations (not necessarily physical or numerical).
The conclusion may later be proved wrong, but the fact that a person could "see" the potential or pattern in the first place is itself a remarkable feat of the mind.
Thanks, Lucinda, for forcing me to think about...
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Can you accept apologies readily from someone, or do you have to have time to get over the hurt and resentment of their behavior?
It depends upon whether the initial hurt was caused wilfully or accidentally.
It may also be that a hurt was not intended but was seen by me as a hurt. That complicates the issue further. But such things do happen in real life. As you may have already experienced.
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Have you been a city boy/gal all your life or have you always been a country bumpkin?
City.
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What was your hottest teacher's name?
Teresa Mattoss, Eveline Fernandes
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do you think people should stop having sexual intercoures at a young age?
They are being bombarded by sexual messages all around. How can they resist in such an environment?
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The darken portion around my breast nipples is increasing.. Suggest me how to control darkening of skin around nipples
It may be a result of hormonal changes. Get yourself checked.
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Retarded Nipples?
Get your breast checked out. Don't ignore.
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Why do people complain about the "ADULT" section on AB if they dont
want read about that section..Than go get a life or maybe get one?
They're prudes.
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My girlfriend broke up with me four days ago after over a year of dating and I'm devastated. What can I do to expedite my getting better.
Stop whining.
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Why is my same sex best friend flirting with me when she says she's not interested in women?
Are you sure it isn't you who perceive her to be flirtatious, perhaps feel an attraction for her? Nothing wrong in it. It does not make you lesbian. More women are attracted towards other women than men are to men.
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WHY DO YOU GET BI AND LESBIAN WOMEN WHEN MEN R SO MUCH MORE HORNY THAT WOMEN?
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
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Does anyone else find it offensive that in the year 2010, we are still having debates such as "Are people born gay"?
I don't think it's offensive at all. We are slowly coming out of a long persistent conditioning about sexual orientation. Many people who realise they might be gay are struggling to accept themselves and get themselves acepted in society. It's only proper that we question where the origin of homosexuality lies - whether with ourselves, or in the environment we live in. It all leads to a better...
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Is it normal to look up your sister's skirt and down her shirt???
Yes, quite normal. But don't venture further.
And if you do, keep it between yourselves.
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Do you believe "The Lord" would be pleased if the streets were piled high with the mangled corpses of homosexuals?
All things bright and beautiful,
All creatures great aNd small;
All things wise and wonderful,
THE LORD GOD MADE THEM ALL.
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I get wet watchng lesbian porn am i a bisexual?
No, pure and simple.
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I have fallen for my best friend problem is we are both girls.I have never fallen for a girl I am straight.Somebody help me?
Don't be ashamed of your own feelings, and don't fight them. A fight against yourself in one you'll never win.
And don't believe anyone who tells you she is 100% heterosexual. She just plain isn't. It may be that she has never had a gay relationship. But that doesn't mean she does not have even slight gay tendencies.
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Guys, how do you control yourself in the office when a pretty girl passes you by. What thoughts do you have of her during the day?
Looks like you still turn heads, don't you, Hmmm?
Well, I'm not surprised. Not at all.
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Guys, how do you control yourself in the office when a pretty girl passes you by. What thoughts do you have of her during the day?
Looks like you can still turn heads, doesn't it, Hmmm?
Well, I'm not surprised. Not at all.
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Do YOU believe the BEST foreplay begins. . . . . .OUTSIDE the bedroom with the way a couple TREATS each other?
The best sex happens when the woman wants it. And to get her to want it, her man must treat her with the respect she deserves as a woman. If the woman does not get the desire to be more intimate, then the sex which follows will be matter-of-fact and routine, not the subliminal thing it could be.
In more mundane terms, the woman should be sexually aroused by her own desire and anticipation while...
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What sort of man still lives with his mother in his forties
There is nothing wrong for a man in his forties living with his mother so long as he does not let her dominate his life ... or his wife.
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what if your about to get intamate with a guy and you discover he has a small penis, how do u turn him down without hurting his feelings?
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I've tried to be the good husband and talk with my wife about my concerns with her controlling our sex lives but nothing helps. Now what?
Being the "good husband" may not really be what she wants. Perhaps she prefers more aggressiveness from you.
Try the approach of putting your foot down and being dominant. Perhaps she will admire that quality in her man. And you needn't dominate only in sexual matters. The loss/reduction of her dominance in the bedroom will probably be a happy consequence.
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I've accepted myself as homosexual however I feel insecure about opening up to men. What is wrong and what should I do?
In today's world being gay is not a matter of shame. You have one very strong point in your support. You have, in your own words, ACCEPTED yourself for how thnk you're oriented.
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I'm bisexual. Is that wrong?
There is no law which forbids you to enjoy the best of both worlds.
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What is a good way too finger a Teen girl
First learn to finger yourself, and enjoy it.
Because if you finger a teen girl, and things go out of hand (pun not intended), you may find yourself getting fingered as a guest of the state (read prison).
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Why did my Iranian friend react so negatively when I asked her if she wants to get stoned with me?
Nice play on words. You're a proper gander alright. :-)
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Is it odd to want to watch my boyfriend have sex with another woman? And how would I convince him to do it?
Make sure you have another man on standby. Just in case ...
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Do you like giving head? Why or why not?
Do you like receiving head? Why or why not?
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What difference have you made to the world?
At the very instant that I was born, I increased the world's population by 1.
I was born at about 7.50 p.m. At around that time, I understand, the Finance Ministry of india took the decision to devalue the rupee for the very first time.
Talk about history makers!
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Why does ice cream melt so quick.....??
Because you put your hot lips all around it. Not to mention the way your tongue works on it. Anything would soften and melt ... eventually. hehe! ;-)
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What is the most beautiful single sentence or short phrase you know or can come up with yourself?
"Promise you'll call me."
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If you could set your own schedule, what time would you want to go to bed? What time would you get up?
9 p.m., 4 a.m, respectively.
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Are there any topics or issues that almost everyone else seems to know more about than you do?
Yes. How to read an Accounts statement.
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Do you feel obligated or pressured to show respect to someone or something although you don't truly feel respect for that person or thing?
Respect, no.
Deference, yes ... sometimes to my elderly neighbour.
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If you had to be stuck in a room alone all day and could have just one object with you, what object would you choose? Why?
Just one day? A bed.
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Out of all the women you know personally who have had children, which one was the oldest when she gave birth? How old was she?
A woman I know gave her first and only birth at 43 or 44. Her husband was about 6 years younger. She's 59 now.
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If tomorrow you decide to give something up, what will it be and why?
Working for a living. I'm tired.
But that's something I shall give up tomorrow. Today I can't afford it.
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I'm 13 and i masturbate. Should I tell my parents? How do I break it to them?
Of course you should. Show them how you do it. Maybe they can correct you if they find you going wrong.
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Is it illegal to fall in love with an animal and marry it?
huh? hahaha
Yes it is. I married my pet cockroach and my wife sued me for bigamy. The judge let me off with the Indian currency equivalent of a $50 fine, and a stern warning.
Between us, I've broken the promise I gave to the judge and am presently in an intense relationship with Elizabeth, a stray lizard who sneaks into my bedroom every other night.
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What should a mother do if her teenage son is secretly wearing her worn panties?
I would advise the mother to go to Wikipedia and read about the Oedipus Complex.
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What types or aspects of creativity do you value or admire in others? How about value in yourself or wish that you possessed?
In my college days, a friend and I wrote a notebook full of our self-composed dirty limericks. Some of them were really, really vulgar. Would that qualify as creativity?
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Besides sex, what is something you would do naked if you could get away with it?
Have a bath.
Sleep.
Go to a nudist beach.
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being a single lady, is it wrong that i release all my sexual energy on here?
No it's not wrong at all. That is precisely why this category has been provided -- for us to release our excess sexual energies.
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I think my penis is too small, however my wife never mention it to me
Be thankful then.
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What are some suggestions for creating a "nautical" look in a bedroom?
Several years ago I had picked up an electronic box (probably made in Thailand) which could be set to produce a variety of sounds like birds chirping, derisive laughter, etc. One of the sounds was that of sea waves breaking. It was very pleasant and soothing if played through your stereo at the right volume. It stopped working after about a year, and I junked it.
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What can you do to stay true to you and not let the bad guys/gals corrupt you? How do you ever know for sure whom to trust?
Trust your conscience. Nothing else matters.
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Is there a double standard? Do you ask questions/ answer questions here that you wouldn't normally because you are anonymous?
Sometimes. And I find anonymity also brings out honest answers to them, which have resulted in very fruitful discussions on personal matters, and good e-relationships.
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If someone accidentally SAT on a freshly painted canvas NUDE that was still WET, would it become a great work of ART?
What ... the canvas or the butt?
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How strong--or how weak--is the connection between excelling in high school or college and succeeding in later life?
Our high school and college years are when we learn to build relationships with people of both sexes, and get to learn about ourselves in the process. If our foundation in this department is strong, we'll sail through life confident of our ability to overcome almost any obstacle. But if our relationship building between the ages of 17 and 22 was shaky, we'll take a long time to persuade...
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We can extricate ourselves easily from interaction/communication but not from memories. Is that a good thing or a not-so-good thing?
The need to extricate from a memory arises only if we cannot accept the fact or event that the memory continually reminds us of. Once we accept that fact or event as an indelible part of our experience and personal history, the need to extricate from it abates. It also helps to deliberately re-live that memory preferably with someone you have full and absolute trust in, and go through a...
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Quantum mechanics is one science we use to understand the universe, what mechanics do you use to understand you?
The dynamics of your relationships.
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So. . . .we all know one day we're going to die! While we're in the "peaceful" repose (assuming you're NOT cremated), science continues to improve! If you COULD be BROUGHT BACK FROM THE DEAD looking like you're in your 20s, would you WANT to come back?
Yes, definitely ... PROVIDED ... a certain other lady is also put through the same process.
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So. . . .we all know one day we're going to die! While we're in the "peaceful" repose (assuming you're NOT cremated), science continues to improve! If you COULD be BROUGHT BACK FROM THE DEAD looking like you're in your 20s, would you WANT to come back?
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How does one know if they have PETECHIAE? Is it bad?
Mill, knowing you as I do, I don't think you really want to know. I'm reading something else. Don't ask me what, for you know that too.
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Will you lament your parents' "passing". . . . . .or feel NOTHING? Why?
I took both my parents' passing away literally as "a matter of fact". They were old, they had to go. I was 51, I took their going in my stride.
The earlier one learns to do this, the better.
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As a GROWN UP. . . .let's say PAST 35yrs., and a parent still belittles you like a child. . . .is it best to SPEAK UP. . .or stay SILENT?
I would recommend silence ... accompanied by your doing what YOU feel is the right thing, irrespective of whether your parents approve or not.
At 35, every person must know his OWN mind.
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Can I worship blowjobs and God at the same time?
If you get religion and sex mixed up, you're heading for disaster.
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Can romance, such as cuddling, dating, kissing, slow dancing, etc be a bigger turn on than sex?
It's possible ... provided both partners are in agreement about it. But usually one or the other wants it to culminate in a sexual relationship, in which case it can be disastrous.
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My boyfriend and I have had sex but now he doesn't want to do it anymore. What does this mean?
He may have an impotency issue. If you really care for him, confront it, reassure him of your love and support, and work on it together.
If you do not have strong feelings for him and sex is what you primarily want, you may be better off with someone else with a stronger libido. But be sure not to hurt him if you terminate the relationship. An unfeeling remark can be a great blow to his own...
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My wife told me she's not in love with me any more. She said we are not like partners in a relationship but more like just friends who watch for one another, (we don't have sex any more, maybe twice a month), so... What should I do? I am in love with her.
She's probably cheated on you already. Sorry to be so blunt about it.
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My wife told me she's not in love with me any more. She said we are not like partners in a relationship but more like just friends who watch for one another, (we don't have sex any more, maybe twice a month), so... What should I do? I am in love with her.
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is it wrong to be aroused by my mother?
There is nothing wrong in being aroused, even if its by your mother. Whether the arousal is taken further into a sexual relationship (lesbian I guess) is entirely between you and her, and the mutual feelings you have for each other. It is quite normal to express love through the sexual act, and if the target of your love is your mother, and you both choose to express mutual love through a...
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What behaviors and attitudes, specifically, do you expect of a so-called "nice" person?
A nice person is one who accepts you for what you are ... warts and all. And, perhaps more important, one whom you would accept totally and completely in a similar way.
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Is there someone to whom you would tell absolutely anything? Or will some things always remain guarded secrets?
It is said that every man has a deep, dark secret which he would rather not make known even to himself.
If he doesn't, then he is not a man.
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Do you, or would you, attend your high school class reunions? Why or why not?
Not particularly. Barring two or three, I didn't care for any of my classmates. And they didn't care for me either.
At class reunions they relive their "childhood" by being extra boisterous, and recalling incidents I would rather forget, etc. So I stay away.
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SO-o-o-o just exactly WHY is it SO-O-O "sexy" in a movie when guys are lined-up and WALKING IN "SLOW MO" toward the camera?
If in your youth you had read a sex instruction book under the blanket, you would have read that you should do everything in slow motion. Particularly undressing yourself and your partner, kissing , caressing, etc. Slow mo is always sexier. I've followed that maxim always.
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if you could make things appear out of thin air, what would you cause to materialize first?
My idea of the perfect woman.
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So. . . . . . .just how much force . . . .IS. . . . 16,000 PSI?
The only way I can show you what 16000 psi means is by giving you a T-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-I-GHT HUG.
Got the feel?
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Without incriminating MYSELF, LOL, I'D like to believe that ABUSIVE MEN are REINCARNATED as . . erm. .WOMEN! How about YOUR thoughts?
Tch Tch.
Now there'll be no more battle of the sexes, because you've just waved the white flag. :-)
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What are the most important rules and ideas that you want others to keep in mind in terms of email etiquette?
If I'm not interested in taking a matter beyond a certain point, please don't keep pestering me. If I want to go a step further, I shall ask for it.
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One of the BIGGEST wastes of money in a MARRIAGE or CLOSE "living together" RELATIONSHIP is FLOWERS? They wilt, die, and gone! Agree?
Flowers may wilt and die, true. But the memory of the moments when you give them, or are given them, never will.
Disagree.
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What is the best advice or facts to tell someone who is going to jail?
Your life is in danger every moment. Take great care of who "approaches" you.
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How did you come up with your AB username? Does it mean anything significant to you?
Before AB I was on Yahoo Answers under a different name, and gave what I thought was a lighthearted answer to some trivial question. The asker was, for some reason, highly impressed, and we got into a conversation and became good friends, which friendship has endured -- not on Yahoo but over private email. At one stage she had remarked: "I think you've grown an extra wisdom tooth". Hence ...
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Ladies, do you like men who jerk off? Do you like to watch?
I know this question is for ladies. But if a man jerks off it shows he has sexual energy seeking release. What are the ladies doing for him then? Just watching? ;-)
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My husband and i had sex 3 days after my period. I am having pregnancy symptoms like abdominal cramps and lower back pain. Am i pregnant?
Not very likely, but possible.
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Thank you for the music...What music are you thankful for?
This http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hASDPhh43xE
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Who is the most joyful person you know? Would he/she say the same thing about you?
One of my students. She's about 17. Bubbly and vivacious. I wish she were my daughter. Yes, the feeling is mutual. She's told me things she would never confide to her father.
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Some play Devil's Advocate all the time. Do it often enough and you forget/aren't sure what you really think. What do you think?
A few years ago i was a very unwilling member of a so-called "marketing team", where the premises on which certain negotiation strategies were based were so obviously in error and away from reality, i couldn't help but play the devil's Advocate to open their eyes to their eroneous thinking. I was often seen as negative, and "arguing for the sake of arguing", until ... after the negotiations...
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How many things in life are intrinsically valuable and how many things are only valuable because we say they are?
It depends upon the circumstances.
A century ago oil had almost nil "value".
Half a century ago, we started relising maybe it has some value after all.
A quarter century ago, it had value because we said so.
Today it has become intrinsically valuable.
... Yet we don't do much about it, do we?
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Do you see yourself, overall, as unusual or as relatively normal? Why?
On what criteria would you base such a determination?
You ... tell ... me. (in private)
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Would you agree that SEX is very healthy? Why would you not want to have it if your married?
Sexual tensions build up in all of us, and need to find release. Married couples achieve this release in each other, but after several years, monotony sets in. In which case it can become very dull and bland, almost a like chore. Obviously the frequency will go down.
Another possible reason could be a medical condition: either on the husband's or wife's side. Erectile dysfunction with age is...
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Is it cheating if it's online ?
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Do you think vaginal sex is more "respectable" (less slutty) than oral on the first intimate night?
Personally, and it's only a personal opinion, yes.
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If a woman 36 tells a man 41 she would like to know him better before she slept with him, would he think she had serious sexual issues?
Not necessarily, but if she persists beyond two or three dates, then perhaps she does have issues. This is,of course, considering her age, and the level of sexual experience and maturity that is usually expected to go with it.
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How long can a married man hold out before he considers sex with a knock out beautiful woman who desires him?
Only until he can overcome his fear of the consequences.
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What Favorite movie you like of Richard Gere !
Chicago.
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How many MUTTONHEADS have YOU encountered in your lifetime!
I've counted thousands of sheep jump over the fence in my attempts to get some sleep. :-)
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Guys: Numerous posts here are about women getting sexual with dogs. Would you be aroused or put off by a woman having sex with her dog?
It's neither a turn on, nor a turn off for me personally.
I doubt if a naked female dog owner could bring her dog to a state of sexual excitement. If he licks, he's simply responding to a smell.
In this matter, contrary to the laws of physics, unlike poles repel. Only likes would attract.
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Do YOU have a "lucky bamboo" plant? Has it brought YOU luck?
For more than 30 years, my bamboo has been "planted" in the same patch of soil -- sometimes mowed, sometimes heavily overgrown.
Yes, it is lucky ... in a way ... for in all these years it has never really had to look for new soil to get itself planted into.
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Have you ever wished you were placed elsewhere in the order of your siblings? Where and why?
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Did you deliberately mess up your life in an important, irreparable way, just to spite your parents? How?
My wife's cousin did. He wanted to be a lawyer but was "forced" into dentistry because his father was one, and a fully equipped dental clinic was available to him. He rebelled by failing continually to be expelled from dental college, and unfortunately did not qualify for admission into law college. Today he is a bank clerk.
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Has the spring aroused YOUR "SPRING PEEPER" or is it STILL waiting to be aroused?
"You make me feel so young,
You make me feel like (my) spring has sprung ..."
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Is there a patrticular discussion topic or issue on AB that you strongly wish would disappear--or at least be rendered invisible to you?
Yes. Continual derogatory criticism of the currentr U.S. President and his policies.
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If some could bring characters from film, TV, and books to life, but you could stop one character from coming to life, whom would you stop?
Uriah Heep from David Copperfield.
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Do YOU espouse the treatise "KAMA SUTRA" (aka Kamasutra)?
Tried one or two weird positions. Either our bodies weren't supple enough, or it wouldn't stay in.
Conclusion: Nothing like the good ole missionary, man on top, or some mild variant of it.
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Are cats more comfortable with cat scans than dogs?
CATS CAN be more comfortable with a CAT SCAN
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Are cats more comfortable with cat scans than dogs?
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Does YOUR paramour cause a tumefacient in YOUR phallus?
The lady is a tramp.
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I have heard men say, "Just because I had an affair, DOESN'T mean I DON'T love my wife!" ! Is that even POSSIBLE?
Yes. Love for the wife comes from the heart. Lust which leads to the affair comes from about two feet lower down. The separation is large enough.
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Tell me something YOU think will come to be in the NEXT 500 YEARS! What's YOUR suggestion?
The calendar will read 2510. (Hopefully)
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Have you had good luck with "INTERRUPTED SCREWS"?
Many years ago (I was 27 or 28), a senior colleague at the office got married and went on honeymoon. He was in the midst of a very serious negotiation when he took leave, but the customers insisted on his presence at the negotiating table as he was the only one who really understood their requirements. He had to be recalled from his honeymoon, and he and his wife flown back from Malaysia or...
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Do YOU think controlling PROSTITUTION is done more out of protecting the PUBLIC AS A WHOLE from VENEREAL DISEASE or for moralistic reasons?
It's such a beautiful question. I've written several answers only to delete them one after the other, because I'm just not satisfied with the end result. Perhaps I'll attempt it some other time.
Watch this space.
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How close have YOU come to "VENUS' FLYTRAP"?
Do you mean the plant, or is there a double entendre?
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What books do YOU believe should be part of the "INDEX EXPURGATORIUS"?
None. If a book is published, it meets someone's needs, even if it's a perverted need. I have a right to information of any kind, just as i also have a right to choose not to take in that information. I do not want to be told what's good for me and what isn't.
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Are most of the unhappy experiences of your life your fault or someone else's?
If we are honest, the finger points at us.
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Do incurious people have enough answers to suit them or are they simply afraid of what the answers will be if they ask the questions?
Probably neither. They may just not be interested.
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How long should you keep breathing life into the sins of the past before you let it go and move on?
If you keep staring into the rear view mirror while driving forward, you're sure to meet with disaster. Let bygones be bygones.
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When you don't have a clue, what do you do?
Trust my intuition.
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Should I get a new keyboard? ..This one does not know how to spell.
No. Check the language you're using.
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If all you have is a nightlight then a 40W bulb seems bright/a 100W bulb is frightening. What watt bulb do you use/prefer?
10W.
Quite honestly I prefer an oil lamp. Most soothing.
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a wasp flew in my house and i dont know how to get it out...and i dont know where it is, what should i do??
It's probably gone by now.
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Whats the worst job you've had?
A really bad handjob?
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methods on seducing
In AB4adults, there's a sub-category on seduction.
Post this question there.
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If you made a clone of yourself, would you go out with yourself?
I'm not gay.
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I have a huge crush on my student-teacher. He's leaving in one week. Should I tell him and how?
Tell him you've enjoyed his lessons, and you'd be missing him sorely. Ask him if he wouldn't mind if you emailed him occasionally. And get his email address. Good luck.
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Guys, describe what you consider the perfect female nipples.
(.)(.)
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how do i suduce someone? i have always wondered what the best way to suduce someone is and i have my eyes on a guy... any pointers?
If a guy has caught your eye, you'll have to play it by ear. LOL!
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In doggy style and side positions I have trouble finding her hole or putting it in.
One suggestion. Begin the usual way (missionary, you on top). Once you have coupled with each other, you both roll over to side by side and take it up from there.
As for doggy, dont start with her on all fours, as her vagina muight be too low (and inaccessible) for you. It is so for some couples. Start with spooning and enter her from the rear. She'll need to raise a leg to faciltate your...
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How can be a gigolo
If you can, with your words and your touch, make a sex-starved frustrated woman of 50+ feel like she is a beautiful, sexy, and highly desired 35, you're a natural gigolo. Plus, you should be below thirty, preferably around half the woman's age, and be willing to make her weird way-out whacko fantasies a reality. A body of an Olympics bronze medallist gymnast will be a huge help.
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Ladies how to pass urine
If at your age you've never passed urine, you've ... got ... a big ... problem!
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Why do I find "jokes", overall, a CHORE to listen to?
You are not alone.
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What do you think YOUR chances would be for a shot as a news anchor if your LEGAL "first name" was P-H-U-C-K-E-R?
My second answer.
I'd prefer the surname Knightley to go with it.
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What do you think YOUR chances would be for a shot as a news anchor if your LEGAL "first name" was P-H-U-C-K-E-R?
I'm glad you mentioned the foreign background, for there's a village in Austria with a very interesting name. Here it is. See for yourself. http://elmundodeassyria.files.wordpress.com/2009/10/r9nwsqpipp5aglfh7kjfieswo1_500.jpg.
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Why do men INSIST on believing that their sexual ability is everything to a woman?
Sorry to say this, Mill, but women are mainly to blame here. Today's young woman is much more demanding sexually than her forebear three decades ago. And since the onus of performance lies squarely on the man's shoulders (actually much lower down), many men get nervous about how their performance would be judged. And with the sexual promiscuity prevalent, comaprisons are inevitable.
Women are...
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BY THE PREPONDERANCE. . . . are men more intimidated by a woman's LOOKS or BRAINS? And how does he feel if she has . . . erm. . . BOTH?
Are you more intimidated by a man's LOOKS or BRAINS?
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If you could dive to any depth in the oceans what would you like to explore?
I read in a science book that the water at the bottom of the oceans' deepest valleys is very dark, very cold and very still. I'd like to see that for myself.
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How /why did certain foods come to be designated as "breakfast" foods?
If you examine the things we traditionally have for breakfast, it is food with high fibre content like cereals, fruit, etc. This helps to clear the system of the stuff which had accumulated in our bodies through the previous day.
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Parents: do you ever seriously wish you had never had children? If so, why?
No I haven't, because God has blessed us with a loving son (30) and a loving daughter (24).
But I have often thought of whether I would have craved for children if we didn't have any. And the answer is a decided NO. I don't think I would have been particularly miserable without them. There is hardly anything that life has to offer which requires parenthood as a necessary qualification.
And,...
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Who is the best pop music group or artist today, and why do you think so?
The best pop music group in my humble opinion is the Vienna Philharmonic Orchestra, when they play popular Viennese dance music at their Annual New Year's Day Concert in the Golden Room of the Musikverein, Vienna.
Get a DVD, and you'll be more than convinced.
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My friend (age 35) wasn't ready to date till recently due to past rape trauma, is now ready to move forward. Any advice I should give her?
No advice. None whatever. She has overcome her trauma and is ready to move forward. Let her be.
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You're visiting "family" in THEIR home and are telling a story from your past. They RUDELY divert their attention. What would YOU do?
It's happened to me before, and more than once. I've stopped in my tracks. Then, later, when they apologise for the diversion and ask me to continue, I tell them coolly I've lost my thread.
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I believe in GOD! But do YOU ever feel religion and GOD were "made up" to maintain a sense of "rule" and discipline amongst people?
The French philosopher Denis Diderot was visiting Russia on Catherine the Great's invitation. However, the Empress was alarmed that the philosopher's arguments for atheism were influencing members of her court, and so Euler was asked to confront the Frenchman. Diderot was later informed that a learned mathematician had produced a proof of the existence of God: he agreed to view the proof as it...
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Why do I think about sex ALL the time.. I dream about it, And think about it at school...am I a slut???
No you're not. We all go through that phase at about your age. I went through it some decades ago.
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My boyfriend is so depressed, and won't talk to anyone but me. But i'm out of things to tell him. How do I cheer him up?
Sit next to him on park bench. Hold his hand. And remain there with him in silence for as long as it takes him to break it. All he probably needs is someone to be with him.
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Would you fuck me if i walked up to you on the street and told you I\'d give you mind blowing head? Or would you think I was scary?
None of the above. My answer is No, I shan't, and that's because i don't like receiving your head. What if you have lice! LOL!
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Does anyone here really like my profile pic?
Yes I do. It projects your personality beautifully. You come through as radical, bold, honest, and devil-may-care I am what i am. Congratulations, Skaila.
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Do you or would you like to play with a blindfold during sex? If so, what are your most memorable experiences or fantasies?
Quite honestly, never done it; but can surely fantasize.
Three men and three women, fully clothed, all blindfolded and gagged (no sounds permitted either). Groping in the "dark" to identify their own partners in whichever way they can: the more sexual, the more exciting. May feel under the clothing, but no removal. Once you identify your own partner, "remember" them and move on to find another...
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If your "real-life" friends/peers were asked to read your AB submissions and guess who wrote them, would they identify you?Why or why not?
Probably. My "style" would betray me.
Given a stack of randomly chosen AB answers, would YOU be able to guess which answers were mine and which another's?
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Men, what is the sexiest thing you've ever seen a woman do/have without trying to turn you on?
A girl at the office, not finding her handkerchief, quite innocently wiped her fogged glasses with the raised hem of her miniskirt. And it was done quite innocently on the spur of the moment, I assure you.
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If a cheating spouse is a louse, and a bunch of them are lice, does that mean their partners need to be deloused(deliced)?
Excellent double entendre, Rosie. You take the cake. I hope it was intentional.
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Would you say your word usage is colorful or does it tend to be more black and white with no gingerbread, bells or whistles?
Judge for yourself.
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We are drawn to or repelled by people so we either seek them out or avoid them. Is it mostly intellect or emotion that is the driver?
Intuition. More commonly known as "vibes".
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What is the opposite of Classy? Boorish? How many Classy people do you know?
Two. Myself and the man in the mirror.
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Why should life be wasted on those who fail to appreciate it?
Their behaviour is a learning experience for you, and they therefore contribute in their own way to your personal growth.
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When you are in control of yourself and can choose your reaction, do you usually choose calm, logical or do you just let 'er rip?
In the situation you describe, I act out the reaction I want to convey.
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Do you think a Slacker or Quitter would make a good leader? Why?
It depends upon the situation. A person might be a slacker or quitter because "life" might not be exciting enough for him. But give him a challenge and he'll shine through. Managers who are lax and "ineffective" in everyday management, have often been found to excel in crises.
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If told you could live 30 healthy years longer IF you never engaged in any form of sex again, would you agree?
NO!.
Would you?
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Guys: what are the main criteria you use to decide whether you will ask a woman you go out with for a second date?
It all depends upon how serious the relationship is intended to be. I would ask a woman out if she fulfills the following criteria.
1. She must be a good conversationalist, and have an opinion on a variety of topics. She should not be reluctant to disagree if she feels she has strong points to make.
2. She must be vivacious, not dull. A sense of humour is essential. Must be able to take a joke...
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How do I convince my bf that now I do want to do some of the sexual things which I turned him down for in the begining of our relationship?
Tell him you'd like totry something new -- something he likes very much. Then go ahead and make the appropriate moves.
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Is it disrespectful for a gay son 27 years living with his mom to bring a man into the home to sleep with?
Very.
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I think my boyfriend raped me. What do you think?
Want my advice? Get back with him. You're both very young, and your sexual hormones are very active. Losing virginity is often painful, for which you were unprepared; and for a boy of 16 to withdraw once he is inside is almost impossible. Answer his calls, he seems a decent enough young man.
Hope it ends happily for both of you.
As for the rape thing, forget it. You're two young passionate...
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hubby would rather look at porn than have sex (im not fat, not prude, dont say no to sex) Is it b/c hes a porn addict or b/c no love for me?
He may be loving you a lot as a person, but looks like he's a compulsive masturbator. Masturbation has a higher priority forhim over sex. He needs help in that department.
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when a man doesnt want to have sex, why do other men assume that his wife must be fat, ugly or no good in bed? (thats total nonsense)
Every man has this fear of onset of ED lurking in the back of his mind. What you say in your question is just a way men "wish away" what could become a reality for them some day, by projecting it as caused by a woman's (usually non-existent) deficiency.
Are you a victim in this respect, LadyS?
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Question for good, loving, dedicated husbands: Do you ever feel like the "other men" look down on you for your moral choices?
The kind of people you mention aren't necessarily cheaters. They are more like losers deluding themselves that they are machos, whereas they appear to be crying "sour grapes".
I have my principles, and I live by them. As the old song went
"If you don't happen to like it ... Pass me by."
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Do you think the idea that "men are designed to have sex with as many women as possible" in any way conflicts with the idea that (cont)
A woman can also have sex with as many men as possible. The only difference is that, assuming both have sex once every night, a woman can produce at most one (usual) or two (twins) or three (rare) in a span of nine months, whereas a man can sire upto 270 (technically). This would hardly be a family, I must agree with you.
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What is the absolute best sex you've ever had? Details, details more than welcome!
Not in such an open forum, Lucinda.
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is it necessary to have sex with our bf?
No it is not.
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can a guy make himself a boner so that he can make the girl think hes turned on even if he isnt but just wants sex?
No. The "bone" has a mind of its own.
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My husband wants me to stop coloring my hair and let it go completely gray! Should I be worried about him? LOL
I have this thing about womwen who have grayed before their time. Let your next avatar show you how you are. I'm sure you'll look very attractive. At least to me.
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If every family member of YOURS betrayed you in some form or another. . . . .INCLUDING YOUR PARENTS. . . . . .how would you feel?
Let me answer it briefly. Repeated exposure helps build an immunity.
Do I need to say more?
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What sex position would work for 4 men and 1 woman, like all 4 men penatrating the woman at once?
One up each nostril, one in each ear. Leave all her other orifices alone.
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Could a virgin girl get pregnant just by passing her bf penis on her's???.... please answer seriously and urgently .
Not VERY likely, but don't make a habit of it. For soon the "on" will turn to "in" ... and that is when the trouble will start.
Take care. :-)
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Is foreplay really needed?
Nothing is "really needed". But it's fun to indulge in.
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Ladies have you given a guy a thigh headlock..You just didn't want him to ever stop doing it to you?
Great question. What made you think of it? ;-)
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How is your partner lately in bed? Boring, not focused, no passion. Did you ever think it just might be YOU. Think about it!
Why do ask this question, catherine?
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Are you technologically DEFICIENT if you can't put something together WITHOUT the "owner's MANUAL"?
I'll answer this question in two parts.
First, as an ex technical manual writer (and a very good one too, even if i say so myself), I agree with Moongrim that the manual should be read BEFORE you start "fiddling" with the gadget.
Second, I remember when i was about 16, my father taught me how to dismantle a bicycle down to nuts and bolts, save its parts in a logical systematic manner, and...
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Are you technologically DEFICIENT if you can't put something together WITHOUT the "owner's MANUAL"?
Share your answer...
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What are YOUR thoughts on the movie "UNFAITHFUL" with Diane Lane; i.e. subject matter, acting, hunks involved, music. . . etc. etc.?
The story line was pretty pedestrian, but the sex scenes were hot. I can't write more in this public forum.
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Of all the questions posted here, which one do you consider the "best," however you personally define "best" in this context?
I assume you're restricting me to the questions you have posted. Then it's
"What is the naughty, politically incorrect, or too private thing you wish would answer a question so you could say it and get it out there?"
on March 3rd, 2010
This question forces you to think of what you've missed out on. Whether that particular situation can be corrected is a different matter, depending upon many...
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To what extent do you believe in Fate, and how would you define it?
Difficult question, and very deep.
I often wonder whether we really do make our own fate, or are we "destined" to do it.
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What songs remind you of past sexual "good times" or could be considered "theme songs" specifically for your sexual self?
I don't remember the title, but it went like this:
"You just call out my name,
And you know wherever I am ..."
If I'm not mistaken it was sung by Carole King.
Another one was The Carpenters' "Rainy Days and Mondays (or was it Sundays?) always get you down".
"Try to remember the kind of September" Johnny Mathis??? I don't recall the singer.
They remind me of the "sexual good times" of the...
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Imagine that someone introduces a new woman, 40, who has never married. What stereotypes or beliefs about her might various people have?
I would see her as a woman who knows her mind; who has deliberately chosen not to follow the herd and get "attached" to a man for the sake of social "correctness"; a woman who loves her freedom to choose her own way of sexual life, whether celibate, slut or lesbian (no offence intended either way, please).
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Women: if you could give men world worldwide a tip on giving good oral sex, what would you tell them?
Being male, do I qualify to answer this question?
I would say watch some lesbian porn. There's a lot to learn there.
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What is the naughty, politically incorrect, or too private thing you wish would answer a question so you could say it and get it out there?
I wish I could answer this here, but other eyes are watching.
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Imagine having 48 hours during which you lose every inhibition, moral restraint, shyness, etc. sexually. What would you do?
I've been reading some of your questions and answers, and if I were to drop every inhibition, etc. I'd ask you to cyber me.
I assume, of course, that by a lucky coincidence you choose the same 48-hour time slot to lose your own moral restraint.
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should i feel guilty for not tossing him off when he licked me out?
You don't say what you DID do instead.
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I have been receiving answers to my questions lately that are very thoughtful and responsive. Has that been your experience as well?
A thought provoking question will elicit a thoughtful answer.
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Do think PLATO was just an "extraordinary" writer or do you think his dialogues "TIMAEUS" and "CRITIAS" actually have MERIT?
I read a little Plato (in the Jowett translation) following the recommendation by Will Durant in "History of Philosophy"). I found him just about tolerable.
Atlantis could be a very real city once upon a time, as have been several others, some in India too.
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People die for all sorts of reasons! Do YOU believe that REGARDLESS how a person dies, it just simply means their EXPIRATION DATE came due?
This is a metaphysical question, to which only a subjective, unreasoned answer may be given.
And my answer is : Yes, I BELIEVE so.
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Why is it that when WOMEN get some "power" under their belt, they get this MACHO attitude about them?
YOU are a woman. YOU tell me.
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Knowing what you know of LIFE, would you have ever VOLUNTEERED for this "journey" or would you had preferred your parents SKIPPED SEX?
Ours not to make reply,
Ours not to reason why,
Ours but to do ... and die.
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Are you aware that you are taking the wrong path while you are on it or only after you reach your destination?
I have a keen sense of intuition in these matters. I trust it more than my reasoning powers in making important decisions.
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How much of yourself are you willing to sacrifice/give up to belong?
I'm a bit of a loner (like my fellow Virgoans), and am happy to be so.
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Are your children trustworthy? Are you?
Yes and yes. Most definitely on both counts.
Moreover, I believe that if you trust someone, they will repay your trust and prove themselves worthy of your trust. I shall keep trusting a person until s/he proves herself otherwise. Never mind what price I have to pay.
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I think we are entirely too enamored with "experts" and theories. What do you think?
It's the price we pay for the highly accelerated scientific and technological progress we have made in the last few decades. They say that the total body of knowlege we possess doubles every six years!
The well-known designer and architect R. Buckminster Fuller argued very eloqently in favour of the generalist rather than the specialist as being the need of the hour. And that was 30 years ago!
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You just walked into a library and were told you have to spend 10 HOURS in just ONE section! What section would you choose?
Art.
Historical monuments.
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I was wondering if. . . .in the HISTORY OF MANKIND. . . .a man and a woman have had heart attacks AT THE SAME TIME while "making love"?
I am not sure about the simultaneous heart attacks, but I've heard of a case in Israel about 40 years ago, wherein a woman engaged in an adulterous relationship suffered a vaginal muscular spasm so tight, that she and her lover had to be separated surgically.
It's a little difficult to believe, but I'm told it's true.
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Rain gently falling is a WHITE NOISE I find very cathartic! What "white noise" brings YOU solace?
The sound of the distant sea.
Waves breaking over rocks, with the occasional shrieks of seagulls.
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Was GOD necessitating the crucifixion of his own SON for the redemption of mankind, the ULTIMATE form of "child abuse"?
Mill, if you have an open mind ... and it's a very big IF, ... I suggest you read the first half of "god is not great" by Christopher Hitchens. It's an eye-opener of a book, if you take it dispassionately, and think you can "respect" the author's views even if they are at variance with your own.
But I'm afraid you'll get "pissed off" by what the author says, and i shudder to think what weapon...
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MAKING LOVE. Do you see it as a case of "action and reaction", or do you feel two bodies merged as one and moving in unison?
No, my friend Marky, you know me well enough to know what I meant. :-)
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Make out sessions with my bf gets passionate n he gets turned on. i feel horny but i dont get wet. does this mean that i am not turned on?
Sexual arousal works differently for a woman than for a man. A woman's arousal indicates emotional involvement, sometimes quite deep. By monitoring these so-called "signals" of arousal, you are only distracting yourself on irrelevant things.
Remember the golden rule in sex, for women as well as men: The more you fret, the worse it gets.
Indulge in more foreplay, exchange love talk (dirty talk...
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I have heard that everyone undergoes a physical as well as philosophical . . . .CHANGE. . . . .every seven years! Is this TRUE?
Are you deliberately giving your age away?
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What causes a person. . . .any person. . . . . .to be so deeply OPINIONATED about what someone else does or thinks?
Thou see-est the light ... at the end of the tunnel.
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What is more important to a middle-aged man, love or money?
Care and companionship would probably count above other more material things. A man of average means soon turns into a slave to a woman of wealth. Sad. Because he loses his dignity.
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Is there any way to help someone pay their karmic debt?
No. To each his own.
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How do I let a man know that if he asked me out, I wouldn't say no?
Well ... I'm 60, and haven't dated a woman for donkey's ears since I got married. But if I weren't married and met you, and let's say we both feel we could give us a try, you could, perhaps deliberately "lengthen" a pause in our conversation, by remaining silent a trifle longer than necessary, and look at me with a slight smile, and a face that says "what you're saying seems to make sense, let...
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Are there other free online sources to search newspapers like Google News Archive Search?
Every decent newspaper has its own website and an on-line version. Check out the paper you like.
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Why do fools fall in love, why do they fall in love?
The first part of your question answers the second.
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Do girls like it when guys get an erection when making out?
Silly question.
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What do i do while my boyfriend fingers me?
For a man and a woman who have gone thus far, anything goes.
Que sera sera
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how do i get n to make a women cum with the g spot
Every normal woman comes with a gspot at birth.
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Which nationality of women have the prettiest feet?
Can't say about nationality; but in general the darker skinned races have women with more shapely feet.
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If there is LIFE. . . . . .then why must there be DEATH? And if there's DEATH. . . . .why must there be LIFE?
Julian Huxley, the eminent biologist and brother of the writer Aldous Huxley, gave an excellent reasoning on this very issue. I have it in a book by him somewhere in my home. Let me find it, and I shall get back.
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Someone had asked what they should do to ENTICE their husband to have children! The query made me angry! Should it have?
I don't think there's any immaturity or stupidity entering into this. It's natural for a woman to want to be a mother (after all we define the female as the one which bears the children). It is also natural for her to feel a little scared at the prospect of going through the 9 months of "carrying" followed by the intense pain of labour. It is also natural for her husband to feel himself "not...
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If you died today. . . .can you HONESTLY say that you've known TRUE HAPPINESS during your lifetime?
No.
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Do you think each of us is meant to serve a PURPOSE in this life. . . . . .or do you think it's just all HAPPENSTANCE?
The answer depends upon whether one believes in reincarnation. I have an open mind on the subject, with a tendency towards belief. There is enough evidence in its favour to reject it summarily.
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Without being in a "depressed" state, have you ever quietly thought . . .with GREAT mental equanimity. . . "Okay! I'm ready to go!"?
No. Not before I meet you in person. Just once.
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I always think of Ireland as having the deepest and most lush landscape green on earth! Would that be correct?
Yes. Been there, seen it on a bicycle tour in 1973.
The term "40 shades of green" is very apt to describe the Irish landscape.
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Is there something wrong with me? I want to be raped, Like for real.
I believe many women fantasize about getting raped; but when it really happens it's an emotionally shattering experience.
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What new, innovative thing do you do in bed to heighten your partner's excitement and pleasure? To enhance your joint sexual experience?
Do you remember the title of the cartoon you watched? Sounds like something worth trying. Only I don't think my wife is physically fit enough for such "sexercise". Perhaps i should practise it with you first to build up my stamina (LOL)!
Say hi to R from me.
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When I and my boyfriend kiss, he sucks my earlobe and his hands go under my shirt, once he even removed it and unclasped my bra and started to lick, suck and bite, does he want sex?
The fact that he's goe thus far with you tells me that YOU want sex, never mind what HE wants. So why ask this silly question?
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Guys only: are u prefer 2 have a virgin gf or not virgin? why?or why not?
IF I were to have a woman at my age, I would prefer one who's 40+. And a 40+ virgin can have hangups which may ruin everything. No thanks.
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Watch me fuck ur wife
You could have said the same thing with much more finesse.
Let's just blame the hormones, shall we?
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I'm wanting to introduce my wife to the pleasures of bringing another Man/Woman into our bed. What's the best way? She is pretty conserv
If she is conservative, I suggest you "conserve" her for yourself.
Lead her not into temptation, for thine shall be the regret.
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I mastrubate a couple times a day is that good or bad? i am a girl. when i ejaculate it is clear is that good or bad? i was also wondering if you could give me so tips on mastrubating?
A "squirter" who does it twice a day needs tips? You should be giving the answers, not posing the questions.
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Im a girl and when ever i masturbate in never feels like ive properly cum and i try really hard but it just makes me sore how can i acheive to atleast squirt by myself with out useing water or a vibrator just me?
The more you fret about it, the more it will elude you. It will happen when it has to happen, and will be a most pleasant surprise. For the present, enjoy the journey. :-)
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I want to impress my boyfriend by squirting really far i can squirt just not super far... ive being trying really hard to figure out how ive looked at videos and ive practiced nothing works does anyone have any tips for me?
The distance you squirt is not important at all.
The fact that you do even a little will satisfy any man that his "mission is accomplished".
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Men, think of me as an average woman you don't know, and I challenge you to say something to try to turn me on.
Is this an interview to select a cyber partner?
H-m-m-m?
Lucinda?
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Is anyone else NOT eating meat today?
Superb timing and wordplay, Britney.
I like your wit.
WELL DONE. :-)
Be my friend.
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Can you stay standing up all the way thru an orgasm? I mean with no help and not holding on to anything. I've been trying to do this.
What's your compulsion to stand through an orgasm? Wouldn't you prefer to have it lying down, when you can just let yourself go?
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How many weeks of the year do you normally take a holiday/vacation?
Two, or sometimes three.
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Who is your favorite movie director?
Karan Johar.
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Which country do you think has the best designed flag?
France. Simple, aesthetic, pleasant to behold.
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Do YOU enjoy watching the Olympics? If so. . . . . . . . . .which sport?
Yes.
Gymnastics, Diving, High jump.
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"Around the World in 80 Days"! Is that a fair enough time to make such a trip?
Do you enjoy Michael Palin's travel DVDs? Well, he did travel around the world in 80 days, and you MUST, simply MUST, see the BBC DVD of that title. And others too of Michael Palin's travels. I have a few of them.
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LOTS of "ingredients" go into making a marriage work and sustain happiness. Would you agree a CLEAR CONSCIENCE tops the list?
There are some things you keep entirely to yourself because that is your personal history, and has no bearing whatsoever on your present relationship. Such things need not be revealed. And it shouldn't prick your conscience either. For example you needn't reveal who your former lovers were, even though one or more may be known to your spouse.
Then again there is the case of cheating. I don't...
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"Around the World in 80 Days"! Is that a fair enough time to make such a trip?
If you keep looking at your clock and your calendar, you're not going to see much of the world you're going around, are you?
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I used to ENJOY interacting and communicating with teenagers YEARS AGO! TODAY. . . . .by the preponderance. . . . .I don't! Why?
My profession forces me to interact with teenagers on a daily basis, ... and I love it. They are very knowledgable, very mischievous, very clean at heart, and very sweet and wonderful. I love them all.
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I used to ENJOY interacting and communicating with teenagers YEARS AGO! TODAY. . . . .by the preponderance. . . . .I don't! Why?
My profession forces me to interact with teenagers on a daily basis, ... and I love it. They are very knowledgable, very mischievous, very clean at heart, and very sweet and wonderful. I love them all.
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Do YOU believe that "money" is the root to all evil?
If the preposition "to" in your question were preceded by "route", then yes, it is the route to half the evil.
Lack of money is responsible for the other half.
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Do YOU feel the ULTIMATE VALENTINE'S GIFT would be one where your spouse or significant other EXCUSES you from it ALL TOGETHER?
Your question appears to me to be replete with wordplay and double entendres; so i woudn't dare to answer.
But then perhaps I'm reading more into it than you intended. Can't say which for sure.
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What's your favorite Mel Brooks Film?
Silent Movie.
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I submitted a query that wasn't offensive in ANY way and replete with information. But it didn't post or list in my profile! WHY?
That's the way the cookie (pun very much intended) sometimes crumbles (pun intended again).
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Do you think women are OVERLY emotional. . . . . .OR. . . . . .men just aren't emotional ENOUGH?
Yes, some women can be extremely emotional ... to the point of silliness.
A close AB American friend "fell in love" with someone across the Atlantic (also an ABer). He felt "jealous" of my dialogues with her ON AB as being "flirtatious". In order not to offend him (and thereby lose him) she imposed a communication blackout and virtually threw a beautiful friendship away. I tried to reason...
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Can YOU make a delectable dessert from only TWO ingredients? What is it?
Crushed watermelon and vanilla icecream.
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I swore my "ex" was the "devil incarnate". . . .and an ARIES! Would this affect YOUR choice in a future mate if they were the same?
Are Aries and Saggitarius astrologically compatible?
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Would you consider having an affair with a friend? What is the good and bad thing about it, no strings attached?
Look before you leap ... especially before you leap into bed.
Sexual tension will be relieved, and mental tension will replace it. Especially if you've never cheated before.
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do you get mad when your s/o comments about someone of the opposite sex on television? why?
It probably boils down to the fact that, all said and done, a man is the giver and the woman a receiver in a sexual relationship.
If you ponder deeply on this, you might reach the answer you're looking for.
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im under the age of 18 and i had an affair with someone who is. does that make me a bad person?
Our opinion doesn't matter.
If your partner thought you were good, then ... well, you were good.
If your partner thought you wwere bad, then ...well, you were bad.
Ask your partner.
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I'm a closeted male bisexual and plan to break up with my girlfriend. Will the breakup be easier or worse for her if I tell her I'm bi?
Decidedly worse. Because then she would be really worried where the penis she let into herself had wandered.
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Is having sex over the internet normal
There's nothing normal or abnormal about anything. It's what you think is right for you that matters.
Normal and abnormal are others' perceptions of what you think is right.
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My girlfriend often picks up little sweet gifts for me such as flowers or little stuffed animal as a nice surprise. She doesn't like flowers herself, or stuffed animals,she is more of a "butch" kind of lesbian. what can I get to surprise her?
How about a different strap-on? Or a double dildo?
Somethings you can both enjoy together.
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How can I tell my parents and my friends that I'm not sure if I'm a lesbian or not? I'm 20 years old, a university student. Thanks.
Let me ask you a few questions, Kazzie.
0. Which country do you live in?
1. Do YOU think you're gay or straight?
2. Have you had sexual experience with a girl as well as a boy/man?
3. Are you confused about which you enjoyed more?
4. Why do you want to talk about your sexual prteference with your parents?
5. Is there a pressure upon you to get married?
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Is building something brand new always better than tearing down something old and rebuilding it or is there no difference at all?
Your question applies to physical things like concrete structures, or abstract (though very real) things like relationships.
The fact that rebuilding is being considered indicates that the old has lost the utility or relevance it once had.
I say: Let bygones be bygones.
Start afresh. Either rebuilding the old, or starting something brand new. Depending upon the circumstances.
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If you had to sleep with someone you despise in exchange for one thing, what is it you would demand?
A fully paid-for world cruise for two.
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Why do women of today sleep with every man they meet?
No, they don't. They sleep only with those men they WANT to sleep with.
And if a woman WANTS to sleep with every man she meets ... then that's that.
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Why do women give up their vagina to every man in a relationship?
No, she doesn't give up her vagina. She takes in a penis.
There's a big difference between the two ... if you care to think about it.
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What do you call a woman who sleeps with every man she dates?
"A woman who sleeps with every man she dates."
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How do you feel about race separists, why?
We have two separate things here: Legal rights and duties and obligations, and personal prejudice.
On the first point, I'm very clear. All citizens of a country are equal in the eyes of the state and of the law, and there should be no attempt to segregate them on this basis. The Orwellian dictum"All men are equal, only some are more equal" no longer applies, and should not apply.
The...
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Have you ever regretted losing a dear friend? How did it happen?
My answer is in the form of a question I've posted recently, and which you'll find here.
http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1896234
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What does a dream about my deceased husband having an affair mean?
You probably suspected your husband of having trhe occasional fling, but were too scared to confront him. Now that he is gone, your mind is freer, and it shows up while you're asleep.
Never mind about it now. Let bygones be bygones, and look forward to the years ahead.
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How do you get over a seven year relationship without getting involved with someone else? how do you keep yourself from getting back together with them if they come around? any advice is welcome.
Seven months have passed since you posted this question. If it was about yourself, how have you coped? Tell me.
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When people are down in the dumps are you better at commiserating with them or cheering them up?
A person who is down in the dumps does not want to be there alone. S/he wants someone there for company.
It's good practice to commiserate first, so s/he feels there's someone who "understands" their predicament. But gradually, very slowly and gently, one must try to raise their spirits and bring them back to "normal", whatever that means.
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Are you ever aware of the impression you make when you are in the throes of some emotional upheaval? Do you ever think about the aftermath?
Yes i am, and i do a bit of play acting too.
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Have the things/people that "float your boat" changed recently? How and why?
I'm sorry I don't fully understand the key phrase in your question.
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Do the weeds in the ground and thorns on the rose impact your appreciation of the flowers or is that the price you pay for having a garden?
Every prick by a thorn is a lesson of sorts, isn't it?
And if one keeps getting pricked, then one's a slow learner, isn't one?
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What causes you to hang in a long time with some people and leave right away with others?
Vibes.
Intuition is much more powerful than people are willing to admit.
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Do you admire others for things you lack or things you have in common?
May I be honest?
I admire others for things we have in common.
I'm envious of others for the things they have, and which I lack. I can't help it, Rosie. It would be dishonest to deny that emotion.
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If you leave someone/something of your own free will because you are unhappy do you also want to destroy what you left behind? Why?
When you move on, of your own free will as you say, what you leave behind comes along with you, as part of your personal history. You can't wish it away.
Our maturity lies in accepting that past, but not letting it bog us down from moving into the future.
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The drive to survive among us is very strong. So why would anyone do anything to harm/hurt/destroy oneself? Isn't that unnatural?
Such an act is actually a call for help: "Help me survive, I can't cope alone."
It's not unnatural.
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The drive to survive among us is very strong. So why would anyone do anything to harm/hurt/destroy oneself? Isn't that unnatural?
Such an act is actually a call for help: "Help me survive, I can't cope alone."
It's not unnatural.
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What are your lovemaking secrets?
There's only one way to find out, catherine
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Do you have kids? Do you agree with locking door to you & your hubbys bedroom as you sleep at night? Yes or no, state your reason.
When our kids were young, we did lock the bedroom door for the duration that we ... erm ... erm ... "slept" together.
An when it was over and we were "dressed" again, the door was unlocked, and in fact kept a little ajar to allow them access in the middle of a night, say after a bad dream. (To be quite honest, we loved it when the children sometimes slept with us. My son used to ask: "Mom,...
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What is the most common type of panties in highschool girls?
What do you mean: "IN highschool girls?"
Panties are worn on the outside.
Some are meant to go IN, they are called thongs.
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Anyone agree with me that limiting questions to140 characters REALLY SUCKS?!
(Nobody answers these questions in the AnswerBag category.)
If you read carefully, there is an option called "add description" if the question exceeds 140 characters. Use thatoption and you can post a really detailed query.
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______+______=______ (fill in please)
Sexual intercourse + condom = 0
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Does the fact that your child is enjoying a healthy active sex life while yours is now on the wane depress you?
I think you have misunderstood the question. A 30 year old daughter is also your child.
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Today my girlfriend and I decided to have sex but I had a nervous problem staying hard Ive had this before with a woman I didnt wanna have sex with. Whats the problem she is ready am I? I've been waitinf for her to be ready and now that she is Im not.
This would happen if you've given your woman the false impression of having been a bit of a Casanova in the past. Now that you're confronting the real situation, you're going to pieces afraid you might not live up to her performance expectation.
Come clean. Tell your gf about your previous experience, and if she's understanding (note I didn't say "if she loves you"), she will help you overcome...
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My boyfriend seems to be more turned on by my anus than my vagina. To what extent is this normal? Could he be gay and not know it?
I don't think he is homosexual; just muildly perverted. Depends on his personal history.
Do you have vaginal sex at all?
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Is it okay to cheat when you are constantly getting rejected at home and your needs are not being met in the bedroom?
If your partner is not the physically violent type, you could at least threaten to cheat.
For better impact you could even lie to him that you've been approached for a cybersex relationship, and might even enter into it under an assumed name.
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Guys, would you have a seriously relationship with a girl that had sex with you on the first date?
Your question implies that girls who have sex on the first date are viewed as morally loose. Not necessarily so.
Let's face it, the desire for sex is as strong in women as it is in men. It's just that this woman doesn't like to "play games" of courtship, but is honest enough to get to what she wants. I think such a woman has a tremendous honesty, integrity and strength of character.
Society...
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My guy and I have sex 2 times a week.When I give him oral sex and he cums, he can't get hard or perform later.Why?He says he's drained.Help!
Believe him, when he says that. It's easy for women to lubricate and be ready again. Not so for men.
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My Girlfriend of 9 months has suddenly stopped having sex with me... completely. She just isn't in the mood anymore. Why?
The emotional bond is not there anymore. Only the two of you would know why. Talk it over, or, more likely, prepare to move on.
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What will happen if i'm not sexually attracted to my boyfriend?
Then he'll find a woman who is.
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A "hyena" is defined as a sexually aggressive teenage girl. Can a sexually aggressive adult woman also be considered a hyena?
How about hymena?
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What to do to attract a man 23 years older than me (I am 27,he is 50 ..he is a doctor, I am a medical prof at the same hospital)
Send him your personal email id and ask him to email you back. He'll reply.
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How can I have sex with a guy without getting caught?
This question was posted 13 days ago, so you've probably done it already.
I also read that you're 12 and he is 15. At this age i strongly advise both of you not to connect below the waist. I would suggest that if you're still a virgin, you try to remain one.
You're probably too horny to resist the temptation, in which case I suggest you both masturbate yourselves before each other, and...
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When invited to stay in a friends house (in their guest room with your partner). Is it ok to have sex while staying with them?
We usually ask for an old rag or a few old newspapers. People usually catch on, ad give you a knowing look.
Sometimes, in order not to soil the bedsheets, we have done it on the floor.
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WHAT DOES SEXUAL INTERCOURSE LOOK LIKE
Try a pornsite or google for pictures.
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Im a 13 yr old boy my bro is 16 and his gf is 17 and she is really hot. I caught her cheating on my bro and said I was going to tell him
Wanker!
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why a boy & a girl attracts towards each other about sex ?
If your mom and dad did not get together, you wouldn't have been here to ask this.
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My boyfriend wants a "break" and says it's because he is confused- where do I go from here?
Be prepared for any eventuality.
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Why are you fixated on incenstual sex?
I'd prepared an answer but have decided to erase it.
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I want money power status and a new mercedes from a man, why should I care if I love him or not? Maybe its better to fake a relationship.
With your money, and your power, and your status, and your new mercedes, but no love, you'll feel empty, hollow, unfulfilled if there's no love.
And if the fake love doesn't work and ends up in the courts, you might end up losing it all -- your money, and your power, and your status, and your new mercedes.
Amor vincit omnia.
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What if I told you that I was going to tie you up and oil you all over and bite off your balls. Would you love me then?
No.
I'll also take you off my friends list if you did that.
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When is not BIG enough?
When the condom covers the testicles as well, I guess. That's when you can say it. ;-)
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Please.. i really need someone to talk to right now about some stuff that has been going on..i need advice...
Three people have answered, several hous have passed, and you haven't bothered to acknowledge.
Are you serious?
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Do you like getting suggestive e-mails? Why or why not?
I haven't received many, only one or two. But i do like getting them.
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How much do you tolerate in your marriage? Are you going to call it quits?
Catherine, I'm right here before you. My arms are outstretched.
Walk straight into my loving hug, shut your eyes and stay there for as long as you wish.
If you're more comfortable and wish to stay longer, walk with me while still in my embrace to your sofa. Throw your shoes off, and curl up close to me.
Shut your eyes and sleep in peace, your head on my shoulder, and your arms around my...
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Men what are your techniques for giving a woman an orgasim?
Please go to this link. It will give you my view of the emotions I experience while making love. I can provide more specifics, if you want, in private communication.
http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8565945
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Have you ever seen someone in the nude when they must have thought no one was around.. and what were they doing?
Yes, a couple on a lower floor in the building next to mine. It was early morning, and the man was lying in bed on his back reading the paper. His wife was sleeping with her back to the window, her arm over his chest.
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Who would you most want to see step out of your television and right into your bedroom?
Gwyneth Paltrow or Penelope Cruz
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what is your favorite thing to smell?
A woman's underarm, with or without deo.
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Men what are your techniques for giving a woman an orgasim?
Catherine, is this question a veiled invitation to cybersex? ;-)
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Men if you cant give your s/o an orgasim why would she even want to have sex with you...she 's not getting anything out of it why bother. How can you make her sexual experience a good one?
Long duration foreplay, caressing of entire body can get a woman aroused beyond belief ... at ... any ... age.
Ever considered oral or finger? I believe it can be just as mind blowing, perhaps even more. Being a woman, you should know that better.
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I'm just wondering how many of the OLD ABers are still around that were PRE the "rework". Could you answer this query if we were "friends"?
Yes, Mill, I'm around. I've answered some other queries of yours too.
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I have neck fetish and my younger sister (22y) is having very long and sexy neck. I want to kiss/lick her neck. how to do that if she agree?
Get her to agree first, and she herself will tell you.
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what is the best condom to use
If the cap fits, wear it.
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Why is my girlfriend ashamed of showing me her breasts?I'm allowed to touch them but she won't let me see them.
She isn't ashamed, she is plain shy.
And she might be scared that one thing might lead to another, and she would find herself in a situation she is not yet ready to handle.
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Is sex the only thing a guy looks for in a girl? (By the way I'm a girl)
It may not be the only thing, but it surely is the first thing. All else is secondary, until the relationship blossoms and he starts noticing there's more to the woman than what she has to offer below the waist.
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Can you have an orgasm without cumming? (I'm a girl)
Do you mean can a girl climax and not squirt (ejaculate)?
Most girls get orgasms without ejaculation, and if you're one of them, you shouldn't despair. Don't go by what you read on AB or see in porn videos. It's all exaggerated stuff. I wouldn't be surprised if some women who claim to squirt profusely are either virgins or even weird men.
If it has to happen, it will happen one day,...
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I am wondering on How do I know if I am really good at giving oral to my man?
Ask him for tips on how you might improve. If he gives those tips, you know where you're lacking.If he says you're fine, then you know that too.
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Why would a guy tell a woman he just started to date that another women was trying to seduce him into sex?
Because he is a fool.
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I think I m over whom I thought was my 1st love. I m crazy 4 my new bf so why do I still think of my ex daily like I did b4 i got over him?
First spark will always remain your first spark. That fire will never be extinguished.
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Men, What age do you prefer women to date? and why?
19.
There's a certain maturity that a girl reaches at that age which makes her ripe for her first sexual encounter, which is bound to follow soon after.
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how would you feel if you met someone new ( and on a intimate level) only to find out later they told you a lie like a fake last name?
It depends on how deep that intimacy was and how much i enjoyed it. I might decide to forgive, ... or I might break off.
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I've been seeing this guy off and on for a few weeks now. But he gives me different signals every time,how can i truly tell if he's into me?
Well, he can get into you only if let him in.
How far he is into you, ... that your body will tell you.
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Girls: Would you confess to the man you love that you're in a secret gay relationship of several years with just one very special woman?
You shouldn't have posted this question, for you were sure to invite judgemental responses from people who do not know you or your background.
You had mentioned this girl to me in private quite some time ago. At that time you were very dissatisfied with the successive relationships you had got yourself into. But I had got the clear impression that you were getting into relationships with...
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ARe you up till 3 am thinkng about how you screwed up your life? Are you thinking about the one who got away? how are you dealing with it?
I've made many mistakes in my three-score years and paid for them, some heavily, some not so heavily. But one has to come to terms with them, and accept them as part of one's personal history. Most important, we learn about ourselves and about others, and how we misjudge them.
When one accepts reality, one is freed of mental and emotional torment, and one gets the courage to go on along the...
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SCENARIO:You've worked hard, disciplined yourself with finances, sacrificed and SAVED! Do you NOW "spoil" your OWN children? Why or why not?
NO!
The only wayI would "spoil" them is by not stinting on giving them a good education.
In November my daughter turned 24. I gave her Rs 2000 as a gift (a moderate sum) with the proviso that she is to use it to buy books which will further her education or career in her chosen field. Not to squander it on Daniel Steele stuff. When my son and daughter-in-law heard about the gift and the...
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Why do anesthesiologists ask you to count backwards from 100 when they put you under general anesthesia knowing you WON'T make it to 95!?
It's probably a remnant of an earlier time when anaesthesia was in its relative infancy, and chloroform or ether were widely used. These had to be sniffed deeply, and the only way the anaesthetist could gauge if the substance was taking effect was to see if we could count backwards.
With modern techniques, this may not be really necessary, but either (i) it's followed blindly and without...
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Men if you inherited 320,000.00 from your moms estate, and all of a sudden your unloving wife wants to have sex with you? What do u think?
Abhorrent as you may find such behaviour, it is not surprising.
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If there were more men then woman in the world 6 to 1.....Would you consider having sexual intercourse with a family member?
Six times as many men than women? Can you imagine the social problems this will lead to?
Not possible. Men wil murder each other for women long, long, long before this ratio is approached. Situation will be extremely dangerous at 1.5 : 1, let alone 6 : 1.
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Whats your favourite word in the english lagwidgh? And yes i know im bad at spelling!
Bad? Your plane whorible.
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...are you going to say two thousand and ten or twenty ten?...
I'll say 2010. ;-)
HNY.
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Are you a tit for tat person ...?
In a light-hearted way, yes. If you give me your tit, I'll give you my tat. LOL!
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What is "tribbing"?
I've already given you an answer. Here's a direct link to the same video.
http://tour.sapphicerotica.com/samples2/sample.php?sample=9&nats=newmember:Partnership:SE,0,0,0,0
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What is "tribbing"?
Thank you for your question. Until now I didn't know what tribbing was till I made an active search for it and came up with a number of pictures. I've found a video which illustrates this explicitly and beautifully.
Here's how you get there.
Click on the link below. You'll see two naked lesbians kissing.
At the end of the fist paragraph you'll see "More..."
Click on it. You'll see two...
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my gf is a virgan and i rlly rlly dont want to hurt her so PLEASE give me some advice on how to keep her happy during sex without the usaul pain. And i have a above average sized penis so i rlly need the help
If she really wants you to penetrate her, she will gladly endure a little pain the first time. She knows it will hurt her a little the first time, and in her heart she is eager to experience it. If she has pleaded with you to be gentle with her and not hurt he, it's only to arouse you (and herself) more so that penetration will be even more joyful. Remember that her ecstasy at being penetrated...
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Do you share naked pics of your s/o with others?My wife showed pics of me masturbating&fucking myself with a dildo, to her gf. Non of wife
Very indiscreet of her, I must say.
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Did you ever tell your husband or wife that you had a bi experience in the past? Was honesty the best policy?
My personal view is that the past should be buried. Previous sexual experience, of wahtever orientation or intensity, should not crop up in the present relationship, or it will soon come to grief.
Humans, men as well as women, have this nasty habit of continually digging up the partner's past and making either vocal or silent judgements about them. Often these prove to be very wrong, often...
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I cannot send a message, but I can receive them. Any idea what is wrong or what I am doing wrong? I was able to send them a couple days ago
There's some glitch in sending from the outbox.
Instead, go to the intended recipient's profile, click "send a message" and proceed. Message will go through.
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Am I the ONLY ABer who STILL can not UPLOAD a NEW avatar photo? I have sent an email to the AB staff and have received NO ANSWER! Help?
Question is now irrelevant.
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Do you use under-arm deodorants and body sprays on a regular basis, if so do you *look up* possible side-effects or just go ahead and use them?
Nothing to beat talcum powder. I love the fragrance, and so far I haven't heard any medical objections to its use.
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I have a biological family that has been, for the most part, rude and abusive to each other and to me. I DON'T condone it! I DON'T placate it! And I DON'T tolerate it! I have walked away; emotionally, mentally, and physically! Why don't MOST people?
People do need to connect with other humans. Many would sacrifice their happiness to cling on to their connections rather than form new ones.
Sometimes,circumstances and responsibilities force us to endure.
And sometimes, the price for breaking the old connection can be literally very high.
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Tell me something WHITE you would find in a jar! What would it be?
A part of my body that I leave behind. ;-)
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Ladies do you like your man to nude while fucking you or are you ok with some clothes on? And do you like to be fully nude ?
Here's a second answer to your question. It's from a man's perspective, but applies equally well as a woman would see it.
When a woman becomes naked before me, she is silently telling me she trusts me completely. So completely that she does not hide anything from me, and I see her as she really is. As a man, i find it makes the woman extremely endearing to have her full confidence and trust....
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I am a virgin, but ready to have sex. My boyfriend is very big is size and he is a virgin too.
But i ' m afraid of it hurting alot, is there anything I can do to make it more comfortable my first time?
You've probably had it already, but in case you haven't, here's my answer.
Your bf's size doesn't matter. You'll be surprised how well your vagina will accommodate him.
It might hurt when your hymen is broken (if it isn't already broken during exercise, or masturbation). The pain varies from woman to woman, and you'll just have to accept it when it happens.
If you've already had sex by...
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A boy and girl not educated in sex matters are on an island alone, will they naturally learn how to have intercourse and other sexual things
See the movie Blue Lagoon.
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ARe you a hot passionate sexy person?
Here's a second answer to your question.
It's true my wife and i once enjoyed a very torrid sex life, learning from each other as we went along. But time takes its toll, and we are both now much, much mellower in sexual matters. God has blessed us to be together for 30+ years, and sex takes a back seat in our relationship. It's not totally discontinued, but much reduced compared to what it...
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How important is kissing to you? Do you find it better than the sexual act itself?
A genuine passionate kiss from a beloved in times of extreme stress can be mentally and emotionally very soothing. It assures you that someone is sympathising or empathising with you in your current stressful condition, and that can be a great boost to your confidence in tackling the situation. Sex doesn't have to follow.
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Do you ever make love to a guy and really are thinking about someone else while doing the act.? How many people really think of someone else while making love?
We all fantasize to some extent, and there's nothing wrong in it. Only take care not to blurt out his name in an uncontrolled moment of extreme passion.
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How does on mend a broken heart?
One doesn't try conciously. The more you try to "mend" it, the more you open the wound, and the sharper the pain becomes.
Time is the best healer in such matters, with the very important proviso that you allow it do its healing work. This is very difficult, I admit, because of the tendency to keep reminding ourselves that the heart is broken. It requires a certain strength of mind and...
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Can a man ever get over a woman he loved? Or does it torment him?
That depends upon the man's level of maturity. He can certainly never forget a woman he once loved, and there's much to say in favour of keeping the old memories alive. Every man needs to fall back on those memories froim time to time. I guess that's true for a woman too.
But whether he allows those memories to "torment" him, as you put it, depends entirely upon whether he has grown up over...
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Men are you intimadated by a woman love? Are you scared of your emotions and you back off..Why do you do that?
Let me share something with you. Two women have declared "love" for me, and are even ready to go all the way. They've said so themselves. i feel quite honoured and privileged about it. In fact i feel very flattered. And if i was unattached, I might have reciprocated very positively.
However, I am married, and so is one of them, and one has to draw a line somewhere. It is not a matter of...
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Men how would you make me fall madly inlove with you, what are your secrets to seduction?
Sincerity in our relationship, and a a genuine desire to make you feel good about yourself, I think is all you really need.
A woman can overlook many faults or defects or handicaps in a man if only he comes through to her as genuine, and not a fake with ulterior motives. His desire to give to the relationship evokes a reciprocal desire and joy of giving in her, and then there's no saying how...
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Ladies are diamonds a girls' best friend?
No, I think a dildo is a very strong contender for that honour.
Most women can do without diamonds, not without a dildo.
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How do you get over someone who screwed you around?
It takes two to tango. You had your share of the fun and frolic too. So "screwed you around" isn't really a fair allegation.
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During a break-up, is it unethical to take back a present you gave to your now-ex?
Very. And it's equally unethical to return one given to you.
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Ladies do you like your man to nude while fucking you or are you ok with some clothes on? And do you like to be fully nude ?
I wish you had used the word "naked". "Nude" sounds too prim and proper, almost artistic. It somehow does not gel well with "fucking" in the same sentence.
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How do you discover good qualities in other people?
If you LOOK for good qualities you'll find plenty of them in almost everyone.
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How do you know if a woman is single?
In this day and age, being single is nothing to be ashamed of. If a woman is single, she'll tell you so in no uncertain terms. And if she is interested in you, she will let you know that too quite directly. Those days of guessing games are past, at least for the time being.
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What does it mean when a woman did not seem interested in what I had to say the first time we met suddenly became extremely interested in everything I had to say and appeared to be "clingy" the next time we met at a party?
She is probably going through a very lonely phase, and needs a man's emotional support. Be a little sympathetic towards her, and she'll be your true friend.
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Which sex posture most like by the women?
The most favoured by men and women alike is also the most natural. Missionary, man on top.
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Are women more discriminating about their choices of sexual partners than men and, if so, why?
Yes they usually are. This is because a woman is the "receiver" of a sexual relationship, and she is therefore extremely picky about whose fluid she lets in. She usually needs a strong emotional bond with the man she allows to penetrate her. With some women, especially with a very strict religious upbringing, this feeling can be strong enough to lead to vaginismus, either general or selective.
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Do you think I am more a woman now that I have orgasms w/ my bf? I thought I never would.
In a way, yes. In the sense that you have now had the total female experience.
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Do you think tall pretty women are attractive?
I find tall women very sexy.
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I dont believe in LOVE anymore....I think its all bullshit, people are phonies, what do you say?
Unrequited love is bullshit. Reciprocated love is truly beautiful, and as a man I'm not ashamed to say so.
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Why are men afraid of being really loved?
A man with confidence in himself isn't. You're generalising too much.
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I got an orgasm only twice and it was when my boyfriend was eating me out. I can't get one any other time. Is that normal?
Yes as well as no.
To orgasm during oral is very normal. But to orgasm ONLY during oral isn't really.
Maybe you should both reposition yourselves so that your clitoris gets stimulated by his penis. You might find removing your pubic hair might enhance the stimulation. A little trial and error from both of you can bring you the pleasure you crave.
Good luck.
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Me and my boyfriend stopped sleeping together because I'm not comfortable with it. Now he is jealous because his friends get to sleep with their girlfriends. He says I am cheating him. He says all he does is give and never gets back. What should I do
What should you do?
You both have a lot of talking to do.
Get started on that first. Sex can wait awhile.
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Have you ever made love on the floor under your Christmas tree?
I ... saw Mommy screwing ... Santa Claus
Underneath the Chritmas tree last night ...
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Some women don't like to finger themselves or be fingered ...any idea why ...?
It's a private, personal thing. Just as some women don't go for anal.
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Do you feel Mutual Masterbation which doesnt lead to full-sex is a waste of a love-making session?
No. So long as it is acceptavble to both, and it brings a man and woman emotionally closer, it's a perfectly good way of releasing sexual energy.
Some men indulge in it because they are afraid to make a girl pregnant.
If you do, don't feel guilty.
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Do older women like to masterbate ?
Yes they do, although they may not admit it because they were brought up to consider it as a taboo. If you're a woman and close to your mother, ask her.
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I lost my virginity to this guy who is my friend. he says he likes me and that he wants to go out with me but he hardly talks to me anymore. and when we do talk, it just a text message. What does this mean.
Maybe he didn't enjoy it. You cannot be blamed as it was your first time. He should be a little more understanding of your circumstances.
Never mind,girl, practice will make you perfect. Don't be despondent.
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Can my partner urinate inside of me, durring intercourse?
I don't think so. At least I can't pee until after I've ejaculated, no matter how strong the pee urge is.
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Best age to lose virginity?
My advice: Focus on your career first, for sex can easily deflect you from it and ruin your future.
I know this advice is a little old fashioned, but you won't come to grief.
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Do women pefer to have an orgasm by intercourse or manual manipulation or does it matter?
It often depends on her mood. If she feels merely horny, she might prefer the finger, either yours or her own. Yes, sometimes a woman prefers to masturbate even if she has a male partner right there. Just accept it.
If she feels emotionally unfulfilled, she would much rather have a man penetrate her and bring her to orgasm.
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Last night had a dream that i was dating this asian girl and that not only did she give me a handjob while i drove her to work; but when we got caught in a traffic jam we had sex in the car;plus other couples near were doing it too what does it mean?
It means you're making it all up.
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How do I tell a neighbour she is stopping me from sleeping with her bedroom antics? It's not funny now and I'm being woken up at all hours.
It's a very delicate thing, and if she is the adventurous type, be prepared to be asked to join in.
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I can get an erection when im with my gf but if we just sit there for even a little bit i lose it...and idk what to do im only 17...any ideas? and if i try and put on a condom before sex i lose it also
Don't try to impress your girl about your size or hardness, because the more you try, the worse it will get.
What you experience can also happen if your girl is sexually more experienced than you are, for then you have that extra anxiety that she would compare you with her other partners, and this would go against you.
If your girl gets impatient for you to penetrate her, this will...
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At what age is it considered unusual (offputting to a potential first sexual partner) to be a virgin? for a girl?
There's nothing to be "put off" if a girl has a passed a certain age without sexual experience. It shows she has waited long enough to find a man she can trust to care for her feelings at this most important and crucial event of her life, someone with whom she can bond physically and emotionally.
I would consider myself honoured if a girl wants to lose her virginity with me.
I don't know...
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How can i get a guy to cum faster when im going down on him? ^-^
Caress his balls very gently. Longer nails help. Email me.
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How is your sex life lately? Is it exciting or bored out of your mind..What are your plans to spruce is up a bit or two...What do you have in mind?
Wish I knew, Catherine.
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Were you born a jerk, or did it take years of fine-honing your skills?
To say I was born ajerk would be to insult my parents. So I'd say I must have picked up my jerkiness somewhere along the way. In this battle of Nature vs. Nurture, I think Nurture wins hands down.
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If you were writing a user's manual on how to live with a woman, what tips would you add to it for the guys out there? Let's see if we can set some of these guys straight! At least here on AB! :^)
"A lick of your dick may drive you ec-stat-i-cal,
But dildo is a girl's best friend ..."
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If we had to sleep on one bed, would I be able to trust you?
Yes, you can trust me to make my moves. And wouldn't you LOOOOOOOOVE that!!! ;-)
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Do you kiss your beloved under the mistletoe?
Mistletoe, no.
Cameltoe, YES!!! YUMMY!!!
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Men do you prefer you wife to be a slut or a virgin when you take that plunge in holy Matrimony?
Neither. Ignorance is not always bliss in sexual matters, and too much familiarity takes away the fun of discovery. Some prior sexual experience is essential if life together is not to be one of unpleasant shocks.
Imagine marrying a "slut" and she starts comparing you and yours with others she's "known". Or a virgin, and then discovering she suffers from acute...
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OMG a MIRACLE just occurred in my life. Now I was told spiritually that I was going to recieve a miracle and I would know when it occurred. I got it. Has this ever happened to you?
Tell us more, Sharona. This is exciting.
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Are you always short of power sockets?
I've read your dialogue with demorgans, and note that you've been an electrician. Then perhaps you should be able to give me an answer.
If the ring system of household wiring has distinct advantages over the tree system, why are so many houses (at least here in India) wired by the tree system?
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Guys, since I did this for the ladies, it's only fair to do it for you too. If you were writing a user's manual on how to live with a man, what tips would you add to it for the gals out there? Let's see if you can teach us a little something too.
'Tween guys and gals there's give and take,
At times it's real, at times it's fake.
"Man smart, Woman Smarter" gals say is true,
No ma'am, trust me, we see right through you.
;-P
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What one emotion sums you up at the moment?
Irritation for not having received a much-awaited email.
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If you are one of those who believe the destruction of the world is coming in 2012, what are you doing to try to improve your odds of survival? Have you already started?
Que sera sera.
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Men - do you prefer to woo or be wooed?
A little of both actually. :-) You?
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Make our day! What did you do for your fellowman today?
I lied so another man could save his face.
Later, in private, I told him never to get himself, or me, into such a mess again.
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Are there any animals that knowingly and intentionally commit suicide?
The lemming. They regularly jump over a cliff and drown themselves in the water. Probably an instinct to keep their numbers down.
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In re-examining my life, I see that I have more female friends, than males. It used to be, when I was a kid, that most of my friends were males, but I seem to get along better with females. Will someone please explain the "why" of that to me?
Simple. You've grown up. :-)
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Men - what do you envy most about women?
The fact that they can fake arousal (with lubes) and orgasms. Men can't.
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When I wake up in the morning, it would be great to have ________ in my bed next to me.(?)
I shall call her ***, and I hope she feels the same way about me too. :-)
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I am turned on by seeing a girls cameltoe...especially in swimsuits...do girls like when guys can see there CT?
I think so, yes. I have seen a girl in a swimsuit subconsciously use her finger to make a camel toe where there wasn't one earlier.
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Who is your fantasy, and why?
:-)
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Have you seen the new form Spam has taken? This new AB user has been posting links to website ads as comments to old answers. How to flag Spam posted this way in comments? User profile: http://www.answerbag.com/profile/?id=1154648
It's an old thing, Suby. I've seen several spams for dating sites on AB.
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BTW~You look FANTASTIC when you _________!!! What word(s) can you use to finish the statement?
... are driving.
My wife has told me so umpteen times.
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Ok so during sex with my boyfriend it was going great until i suddenly just became dry and we had to stop. why did this happen?? keep in mind im onyl 16
You're probably feeling guilty. Take time to unwind yourself. Talk to a close confidante, someone older and experienced, ideally your mother, if you're comfortable with her on such issues.
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Is it right to have sex before marriage?
It's not wrong, provided you practise safe sex, and do not become promiscuous for that would ruin everything.
First, you'll find it difficult to develop a serious relationship.
Second, you might marry the wrong person.
Third, you might catch a discease including HIV, which you will on to someone else.
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Your experiences/thoughts on anal sex?
No experience. No thought.
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Will you ever really try your deepest, most well-hidden sexual fantasy?
Doubtful. Geography prevents it.
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Is there a difference between making love and having sex?
You will "know" the difference when you experience it.
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Do men like to be submissive or in control?
Whatever works for that moment, is all i can say.
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Have you had sex with someone you did not find attractive?
Not physical; but I've found many "unattractive" women (if attractiveness can ever be defined, that is), have a strong magnetic raw sexuality about them.
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If your boss dropped some food on your pants and started picking it up, is this sexual harassment? What would you do?
Depends on where exactly on your pants he's picking. And ... more important ... whether you're enjoying it. ;-)
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Is difficult for me to orgasm and my guy gets upset becoz i dont get aroused. can you suggest me so that i can enjoy sexs better
You might need more foreplay. You two can work it out. Follow Icy's advice.
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Is it wrong to say 'Thanks' after sex? A guy said it to me and I didn't know how to take it. It didn't seem ironic or anything and he was a nice guy but why say 'Thanks' as though I did him a favour?
Since he was just "a guy", he merely thanked you for providing him a hole to masturbate in.
You probably enjoyed that moment too. So ignore his remark.
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My boyfriend of almost 2 months told me he needs to have sex with a prostitute unless we have sex soon , like in 2-3 weeks, because it is his sexual need, I was mad so he promised to wait for me because Im a virgine but Im still confused. what u think?
If this is a serious question, which i doubt, i shall give you a serious answer.
Be extra vigilant. Whether you give in to him or not, he's almost certain to "sow his seeds" elsewhere -- with other women or prostitutes.
You run a very high risk of contracting discease, including HIV.
This man may not be the man for you. I know love is "killing", but we don't...
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My boyfriend licks my armpits and sometimes my asshole too which i cant guess if i'm enjoying it or not.
does other couples do it?
Shaved or waxed armpit, yes.
Asshole, no.
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So me and my girlfriend have been doing sexual things not sex but everything but sex in her room but her parents don't want her door closed, so what should we do about being sneaky now?
How old is your girlfriend?
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Sometimes when i'm having sex i pee myself is something wrong with me?
A woman might be able to tell you better, but I've heard it's almost impossible for a girl to pee during sexual intercourse, before she has orgasmed. And at or after orgasm it isn't peeing but female ejaculation, also called squirting. If you're a natural squirter, your partner is a very, very lucky man indeed.
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Is this question short enough?
Years ago I had read about a review in the Daily Telegraph of London of a book on "How to be Brief." The review went: Good.
Whether it is true or apocryphal, I like the wit. :-)
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What is one good reason for not viewing pornographic images?
Too much pre-cum on the pyjamas. Looks horrible.
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Did your sex life change after you had children?
This is a good, serious question, but I'm just not in the mood to be serious. I'll come back to it some other time. Please excuse me for now.
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What do you woman think about me being a 25 year virgin man im waiting for special girl or future wife i just think there is more to a woman than just sex. i have morals and dont believe in sleeping around, i rather have love over sex
How many women have you been with so far, and found you didn't "love" them?
Now ponder over why you're a virgin still.
Something seems amiss.
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How do women get raped?
Man: May I please rape you?
Woman: Oh yes, please, you're very kind.
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What makes you wet?
Dark areolas and Kate Winslet in the nude do make my mouth water, if that's what you want to know.
Other parts of the anatomy are also affected, but your question doesn't cover them.
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From experiences I have heard, a lot of women get raped when they are intoxicated and being driven home by a male. Would it be better to call a cab?
My advice: If rape is inevitable, lie back and enjoy it. :-)
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I slept with my best friend. she was in love with me, one thing led to another and i told her i didn't want anything more than what we had as friends. she is all over the place. all my friends have blamed me and lost all respect for me, some hate me.help?
Ignore. She was as much a party to what happened as you were.
I presume she went into it with her eyes open, and she shut them only when she "came".
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How long have you gone without sex?
How long have I "went" without sex?
With sex or without, I never GO; I always COME.
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What is the one thimg you hate about condoms?
Having to wear them.
But, then, with one on, I last much longer.
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Are your orgasms loud or silent?
Silent.
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When you dream about the perfect bed-mate, who do You 1st think about?
I shan't name her, but shall we settle for Gwyneth Paltrow or Kate Winslet?
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Did you get lucky last night?
Not last night, but the night before.
Very lucky. And I still haven't got over it. :-)
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We always leave a little bit of ourselves behind with those whose lives we touch, for good or not so good. Shouldn't we try to leave more of the "good" and less of the "not so good"?
"The EVIL that men do lives after them; the good is oft interred with their bones."
And we don't argue with Shakespeare.
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What kind of girl are you attracted to?
At my age, a girl doesn't attract me; a woman does.
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What are your criterias for being a "good lover?" Having asked that, is it more chemistry or know how? Are both? Also, does a "large boat" help?
Chemistry comes first. The fulfilment of making love is not of the body, but primarily of the mind. When two minds unite, the bodies follow, and the result is all-encompassing for both partners.
With chemistry, there is a genuine desire in each partner to gratify the other, and this plays a major role in achieving a win-win situation in bed. The phrase "good lover" is often...
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Am I a selfish husband if, I have E.D. and refuse to see a Urologist? I prefer to be au natural and don't like pills, so am I being selfish if I expect my wife to cool her jets from here on out?
(i) Does she accept your ED as a problem?
(ii) Is she okay with non-penetrative sex? Do you think she might look elsewhere for gratification?
(iii) Does your ED have a physical or psychological cause, and are you under treatment for it -- not the ED but the CAUSE of it?
(iv) How long have you had this difficulty, and what was your sex life like earlier?
(v) Apart from the sexual aspect, do...
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Do "RIDDLES" give you a headache or do you enjoy them?
An unqualified headache.
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"He hit me. . . . ."; "She slapped me. . . . ."; "He cheated a ZILLION times. . . . ."; "She doesn't (whatever). . . . ."; "He doesn't come home. . . . . ."; "She buys too much of that. . . . . . ."! Are we all just a BUNCH OF WHINERS without RESOLVE?
You've asked a number of questions related to whining in some situation or the other. Why? Are you surrounded by whiners?
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What do you think are some good names to name a child? eg Fred, James, Stephen, Jane etc
Julian for a boy,
Ava for a girl.
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How hungry are you?
Hungry enough to eat you, NUN. LOL!
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Do muslims scare you?
A DECIDED NO.
Read Taleb's "The Black Swan". It says something like this.
90% of terrorists today may be Muslims. But people often invert this in their perception, and wrongly believe that 90% of Muslims are terrorists.
Most Muslims are very law abiding people, focussed on getting on with their own lives like all the rest of us. Don't berate the community wrongly.
Read...
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Your television just went on the "brink" and only ONE channel will come in! What channel do you HOPE that is?
Either of the two channels we have which show world cinema 24x7. or Fox History.
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Should parents tell kids about siblings who were aborted?
Superb question.
The answer is yes, when they are old enough, i.e. more than 15.
And also the reason why they were aborted, WHATEVER THAT REASON MAY BE.
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Grab the book nearest to you, turn to page 18, and find line 4, What does it say?
"How to exercise your PC muscle."
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Are we nearly there yet?
I have just come. Have you?
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Have you ever travelled on the Orient Express?
Yes, in 1974, from Paris to Istanbul, when it was dirty, filthy and a shame to travel on. I didn't realise it was so bad until I actually travelled. But now I hear they've restored it to its original sheen and glory.
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Can you complete this ....?
If it were up to me, I'd have more ______________ and less _____________.
Barb, It's only recently when I was looking for an answer I'd given you long ago that I realised you're the old Mrs C. Thanks for having me back as your friend. I was wondering where you had disappeared! :-)
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In your opinion, what is the best American State and why?
Vermont, for its fiery orange foliage.
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To me, Bing Crosby brings back the "traditional" sound of Christmas music. The way Christmas SHOULD feel! What singer does that for YOU?
Val Doonican
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I once read Edgar Allen Poe's, "The Raven", with such fervor and emotion, my teenaged son got up and put the television on MUTE to enjoy it! The ENDING was spellbinding to him! He said he got "goosebumps"! Tell me something YOU have read with EMOTION?
The Indian Railways timetable. I had an earth-shaking orgasm at the end of the fifteenth page. That was years ago, and I've never had such a one since.
Which reminds me ... I am travelling to the North next week. Must find out what time the train leaves Bombay.
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Do you belive your religon has all the answers?
Do you think any religion has any answer?
It's all dogma, based, ultimately, on an expectation of blind faith.
And relgious discourses and discussions are usually an eyewash to project religion as a "democratic" thing, and thereby make it more acceptable.
Mind you, I'm not questioning a personal belief in the existence of God, and the individual's view of...
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Recently when I was shopping for DVDs, a woman (elderly) walked up to me and asked, "Do you mind if I ask you why you shake the boxes the DVDs are in?" ! I told her, "Because they could be broken!" ! What the HELL else would I be shaking them for? DANG!
Well ...
If I can be Sir Lancelot with a curtain rod, you can be a tambourinist with a DVD case.
And a very pretty one too, may I add.
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My hubby says NO to my every request (from medication to sex.) I want a kitten. Should I just go get it and not bother asking him?
Your question is deeper than you make it out to be.
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What's the best thing about being you?
You tell me, CT. Make me feel good.
I need a boost. Give it to me.
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If you could have 2 superpowers what would you have?
To be a good gymnast
To be an irresistible magnet for women.
Alas, they will have to wait till I'm reincarnated. If I remember to ask God to grant me these two boons.
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Does spare ejaculate have any useful application around the home or garden?
Winkie, I get the feeling you're playing with the word "ejaculate". I think you mean it to be something quite different from what it is commonly construed to be.
Unless, of course, you want us to be creative in our answers.
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How can you heal a trama from the past, one you try to forget but comes back as either nightmare, or flashback.
You don't. You accept it as part of your personal history, and live with it; but YOU MOVE ON.
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What could trigger back pain?(humor welcomed)
Kama Sutra may be literature (of sorts); but that doesn't mean it has to be taken literally. :-)
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What do you guys think about kissing on the first date?
If you keep on thinking, you'll never kiss.
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How to ask a girl for one night stand?
"Will you please stand for one night?"
Don't forget the "please".
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Why is having sex with a married man so exciting?
It's a game of "Who's superior?" played by the "other woman" on the wife, without the wife even knowing it. The man becomes a pawn in the game, giving in only to his animal instinct. He thinks he is "smart" in having gotten the attentions of another woman behind his wife's back, but once he's had his "release" he realises that it was...
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Assuming your children are grown and now out of the house, if your WIFE or "significant other" stood NAKED in front of the Christmas tree with a BIG RED BOW tied around her NAKED body, would that help to "up the ante" on AFTER CHRISTMAS SALE SHOPPING? ^_
A big Bordeaux red bow will certainly help to ... erm... "up the ante" ... right there by the Christmas tree.
As regards post-Christmas shopping, that would be in direct proportion to how often the ante was upped.
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Your mother has, for the most part, ignored you most of your life; made fun of you; ridiculed you; judged you; and hurt you physically, mentally, and emotionally! In her "senior" years she wants YOU to care for her and NOT your siblings! Now what?
You care for her.
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MEN: Seriously now. . . . . .you're walking down a street and a BEAUTIFUL WOMAN catches your eye. You fantasize KISSING HER when "lo and behold" she stops right in front of you, puts her arms around you, and begins kissing you madly! What WOULD you do?
The alarm bell will ring, and I'll wake up with a smile on my face, which is sure to raise my wife's eyebrows.
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When you see yourself naked do you think God i'm sexy or do you just sigh?
Neither. I turn away from the mirror.
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If you had to spend 24 hours in a locked room with your loved one, what would you do?
Solve crossword puzzles.
Well ... ask a silly question..., they say. :-)
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Whats the reason for a man to be cold in his affections for you, when you know that he likes you? What is behind that?
He probably fears losing what he already has.
You might react similarly if you and he were to swap places.
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Why are men facinated with woman who have full lips such as(Angelina Jolie)..Why is that such a turn on?
Lips kissed in public are an indicator of lips kissed in private.
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Is there any point in having regrets?
Yes. Regrets help you appraise yourself, and prepare you to deal with situations more effectively.
But you must take care not to let them overwhelm you.
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How do you decide when to stop looking and commit to someone?
Follow your heart, is all I can tell you.
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Ive met a man who's been in a loveless marriage for past 8 years because of his 2 children, I admire him for doing the right thing, I don't want to be the reason he leaves, but I think to live a lie is worse than a clean break for all. comments please!
I assume you've had clandestine relations?
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In a small country, the Queen saves all the persons who don't save themselves. Who saves the Queen?
God.
It's their National aspiration expressed in song.
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ATTEN: ALL CHRISTMAS CELEBRATORS!!!!! Don't you think it would be nice if we could give all of our fellow ABers a "Christmas gift" by sharing a peek of ourselves for, at least, ONE WEEK prior to Christmas; not in our profiles but on our AVATARS?
In addition to the avatar picture I would like that we reveal our real names, age and occupation to our AB friends. Would you agree?
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Whenever I hear the old adage, "FORGIVE AND FORGET", I want to REMIND the person saying it that the MIND was DESIGNED beautifully to REMEMBER. . . . . EVERYTHING! So . . . .while I may be able to forgive. . . . . . FORGETTING is an impossibility! Right?
Where there's a will ...
Of course you cannot forget; but you can "forget". That is certainly in your hands.
It is entirely upto you whether you continually stoke the fires to keep them burning, or extinguish them entirely by pouring water over the entire episode. Of course, you will surely remember that there once was a fire; but you will also remember that it is now...
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What is a well established idea that you still cannot grasp?
Principles of economics and finance.
My son must be fed up to his teeth trying to get those ideas into my thick head.
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I can't sleep...does anyone have any home sleep remedies that don't involve pills?
Take up a comfortable position, head slightly raised, as with a double pillow.
Starting with your toes and slowly moving upwards, relax every muscle of your body. Toes, heels, ankles, calves, knees, thighs and so on. Yes, play dead, if you have to. By the time you reach your tummy it'll be morning.
Trust me.
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When you see an email from ______ in your inbox you smile?
demorgans of Answerbag
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So, what do you think? I LOVE this character!!! lol!!
HAPPY THANKSGIVING, EVERYBODY!!
Happy Thanksgiving, Phil. May all your prayers be answered.
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Is it appropriate to breastfeed in public? Are there some places where it is more/less acceptable than others?
Breast feeding is a very natural function, and in India it's done everywhere especially amongst the poor. The sari is draped over the bare breast so that the mother's "modesty" is preserved. And we usually avert our eyes when she changes from one breast to the other and exposes herself for that instant.
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Among all mammals and birds, both genders usually make sounds in the same pitch. Why is it that human males and females have voices that are different in pitch?
What you hear is probably not the same as what they hear. Perhaps they can differentiate amongst themselves too, and OUR voices might sound as of the same pitch to them.
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Do you still have any toys from your childhood?
One. A key-wound cock which pecks on the floor as if picking up wheat grains.
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Why does a man who has everything purposes want to mentally hurt a good woman to him? Why does he do thoughtless things to her when he knows she loves him?
It's a question of point of view.
Every man and every woman looks after their own self-interest. Every act has a price. Maybe he thinks the price of pleasing the woman is too high. Maybe he does not want to lose the security of his own present state by venturing out, even if he has a strong genuine feeling for the woman.
The woman, possibly trapped in an unhappy situation, would...
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You married DR. Jekyll and ended up with Mr. HYDE what the hell happened? Ladies who are you sleeping with now and are you staying in the marriage?
Time reveals a lot, Catherine. Mostly it reveals things about ourselves, and our past delusions.
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Do MEN dance because they like it or JUST to be sociable and a way of getting to know a woman?
Dancing, ultimately, is a public, vertical display of intention to perform a private, horizontal act.
"Good" dancing prepares both partners for it physically and emotionally.
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If you were to write an autobiograhy, what would you call it?
I, ME, and MYSELF.
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Besides Fig-Newtons, what other kinds of Newtons are there?
There are isaacs and forces.
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Sorry...didn't mean to ask this question.
I was wondering what had gotten into you. How could you have even thought of such a thing! I'm glad you corrected it before it went out of hand and embarrassed me no end.
;-).
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As an ADULT now, do you see your life with your parents as "LOST OPPORTUNITIES" or "FULFILLED EXPECTATIONS"?
Either way, I'd rather let bygones be bygones.
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Robert De Niro, Al Pacino, or Dustin Hoffman?
All are equal among equals.
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How would you describe your role in life in four words or less?
A facilitator of futures.
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Would you ever have the guts to walk away from your current life and leave it all behind?
What alternative to the frying pan do you offer?
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IF YOU COULD BE A LETTER OF THE ALPHABET. . . . . . . . . . . . . . which "letter" would you like to be and why-y-y-y-y-y-y-y-y-y?
S. Been fascinated by its shape since kindergarten.
I hope that's a good enough reason.
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The HAWAIIAN ISLANDS were made COMPLETELY OUT OF LAVA that has spewed-up through the ocean over thousands of years! Am I the ONLY ONE who sees NO FUTURE in owning a home on the islands given the propensity of the land to just CRUMBLE APART?
Visit Capadoccia, Turkey, and you'll answer your own question. If not in person, make a net visit to that place.
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What does real love feel like? Does anyone really have that or is it an illusion?
Real love is when you can't that person out of your head for all the positive reasons.
Not to be confused with sexual attraction.
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Did you embrace the accent you were brought up with or have you tried to change it?
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What is your favorite ________?
... opera.
Tosca -- G. Puccini
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What's something you SHOULDN'T take to bed?
A grudge against your S/O.
Alas! Not all live by this maxim!
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Did you embrace the accent you were brought up with or have you tried to change it?
I lived in England (London) for seven years before I returned to India.
Sense of humour? Big change?
Command over the English language? Definite improvement.
British accent? No way. I didn't even try.
A brown skinned man trying to ape an "English" accent only makes himself look ridiculous.
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Have you ever been so broke that you have actually considered reusing a condom?
Yes. Several years ago, when I couldn't afford pre-lubricated condoms, I used the non-lubricated ones twice. First, the normal way, and then after turning them inside out.
Voila! the second time it was lubricated.
Even before that, when I couldn't afford condoms at all, I always had a tin of rubber solution ready.
:-)
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What year were you born? Is there anything special about the year?
1949.
I'm told India devalued its rupee for the first time the next day. LOL!
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Name me things that you can pull.........?
<smiling, tongue in cheek, looking askance at you>
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Do you have a MURKY past.............?
I've heard somewhere that every man has a deep dark secret which he would rather hide even from himself if that were possible. Otherwise he's not a man.
I guess it holds for women as well.
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Want to find out what people on here think about you? Type just your name in an answer so that people can comment with adjectives. I'm not responsible for what people say about you.
Wisdom Tooth wears a Kirman COAT.
My friends call me Wiz.
Nice idea of a question, I must say, Momma.
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Would you rather be hanged or hung?
Well and truly hung. :-)
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Have you ever had an orgasm while screwing in a light bulb?
Yes I have. It was turned on, and the effect was electric, to say the least.
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If we were on a first date and I gave you a kiss and bit down and sucked the lower lip right off. What would you be thinking of? How would you react fellows?
In ... that ... case ... I'dratherscrewmysisterinsteadincestornoincest.
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Have you ever used any slimming aids?
No.
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Guys describe in detail, looks and personality the PERFECT WOMAN in your eyes?
Between 45 and 55.
A lovely smile, with a decent (not necessarily perfect) set of teeth
A slightly unsymmetrical face
A little plumpish, with perhaps a slight paunch
Full lips
Well manicured and slightly fleshy feet
Well shaped finger nails (NO nail polish)
Breast size not too important
A slight whiff of perfume helps
Believes in God, but not over-religious.
Should be reasonably...
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Guys describe in detail, looks and personality the PERFECT WOMAN in your eyes?
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How old will you be in 2030?
81.
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When will you learn?
When you will teach.
Ready when you are.
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Do you agree with the statement"No pain, no gain"?
Absolutely. Everything has a price.
If you're scientifically inclined, gain without pain is equivalent to a violation of the law of conservation of energy.
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They say, "Marriages are made in Heaven. But so is thunder and lightning!" ! Agree or not?
In a performance of Franz Lehar's Merry Widow, I've seen a short ballet danced by a couple to the tune of the Gold & Silver waltz by the same composer. It showed them going through several years of marriage (the words in the title referring to the major wedding anniversaries). The first couple, youthful for the first 25 years, and the second, more elderly, taking over seamlessly...
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They say, "Marriages are made in Heaven. But so is thunder and lightning!" ! Agree or not?
In a performance of Franz Lehar's Merry Widow, I've seen a short ballet danced by a couple to the tune of the Gold & Silver waltz by the same composer. It showed them going through several years of marriage (the words in the title referring to the major wedding anniversaries). The first couple, youthful for the first 25 years, and the second, more elderly, taking over seamlessly...
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Why do people "fall in love" with people that LOVE animals if they DON'T want animals in the house around? Dang?
No direct connection. They are two independent things.
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What makes you feel used?
When I get manipulated to do something I don't want to, for example to accept a certain position I'd rather stay away from.
Doesn't happen often, but it has happened before.
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So. . . . . .when you're IN THE MOOD. . . . . . .which would you RATHER listen to. . . . . . . ."BLACK VELVET". . . . . .or. . . . . . . . Ravel's "BOLERO" (said to be THE sexiest music to make love by)?
Black velvet, I dunno. Bolero? NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!
You'll go all out of sync when you "pick up speed" a few minutes down the line. ;-)
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Ladies: While trying on clothes in the dressing room, has anyone ever opened the door and accidently saw you naked? What did you do or say?
It's very rare, though not impossible, that a woman will become completely naked while trying clothes in the dressing room. At the most she'll be down to her bra and panties -- unless, of course, they don't usually form part of her attire. And I doubt very much if today's ladies will be too shocked if someone opened the door while they were in a state of semi- (or even...
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Why do you suppose most MOTHER-IN-LAWS and DAUGHTER-IN-LAWS. . . .DON'T. . . .get along but most FATHER-IN-LAWS and SON-IN-LAWS . . . . .DO. . . . . .get along?
Without wanting to be disrespectful, I think women in general find "letting go" very difficult. The mother and the wife are engaged in a perpetual tug-of-war for the RIGHT to a man's affections. The poor son can only find solace with his father-in-law, who well understands the situation -- having gone through a similar one himself -- and empathizes with the young man.
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Parents: If your 21-year-old moved back in with you so that they could save money for graduate school, and while they lived with you would be working & attending university full time, would you still charge them rent?
No. To my mind, such considerations do not apply to my own flesh and blood.
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I met my husband when I was 19yrs old. I lied about my sexual partners. I told him that there were only 3 others but there were 8 others. I recently told him the truth after 8 yrs and he wants nothing to do with me. What can I do?
Tell him you lied to him about your previous partners, because you loved him too much for him to dump you as a slut. But you've tried to come to terms with this one untruth over the years, and your love for him cannot let you continue to live this lie. So you decided to come clean, HOPING he would understand.
Tell him also that you've never cheated, and do not intend to whatever...
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Why do we still love someone knowing they dont love us back..Why do we torture ourselves?
Sometimes, our circumstances force us to HOPE.
And unrequited, unreciprocated love can be very painful.
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Has there been instances in your life when you played Devil's Advocate?
More often than I can remember.
It's most important to do it, for thereby we try and prepare ourselves for the "worst-case scenario". My immediate boss hated this habit of mine prior to an important negotiation, telling me I was being unduly negative and putting the whole team in a negative frame of mind. But it did pay off on several occasions, so he tolerated my...
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Is a man with a huge ego exhausting?
Only if you LET him exhaust you.
Remember, you get treated by others the way you subconsciously "invite" them to treat you.
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Why does a man end up having a cold heart?
You use the words "end up". This implies that the man didn't have a cold heart to begin with. Something went wrong, and his feelings changed.
In the mid '60s, when I was about 16, I saw a Moral Re-Armament show touring India. And one of their songs went something like: "If you point a finger at someone, there are three pointing back at you."
I'll...
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What are some good reasons NOT to get a tattoo?
It depends. There are two sides. Listen.
A travelling salesman went on tour. But before departing he painted a duck on the inner right thigh of his wife, close to you-know-where. While the cat was away the mouse did surely play, and the duck was rubbed off because of continual "nocturnal friction".
On the morning of the day her hubby was due back she remembered the duck he had...
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Whats the best thing about being British...?
Irrespective of what others say, I, from India, admire and love the British sense of fairness.
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ARe you a hot passionate sexy person?
YOU ... TELL ... ME!
(and make me happy.) ;-)
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I received a great "answer" from a wonderful ABer today regarding "extended" families who fight. They said, "You can lead a horse to water. . . . . .but you CAN'T make a dysfunctional family normal!"! What are YOUR thoughts on this?
To an engineer, an ideal machine is one without friction. It doesn't exist. Friction is the norm in nature, whether it be in a machine or in a family. The BIG difference between the two is that in the one case it's the OUTSIDER which puts in the lubricant to smoothen the movement of its various parts, whereas in the other it's the INSIDERS themselves who must WANT to do it. VERY...
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Men give 10 good reasons why you cheat?
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:-)
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Women: Do you love your period? I do, it's 1 of the best things about being a woman!!!!!!!!
My answer given above was sarcastic Vaporeongirl, but I think I know what you mean from your dialogs with some other ABers.
What you're trying to get across is that the fact that your having periods (never mind the discomforts associated with them) reassures you that you're capable of fulfilling your role as a woman -- reproducing and propagating the species, which is what being...
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