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Why do men turn into slobs after getting married
I didn't turn into a slob when I got married.
In fact, most guys I know didn't turn into slobs when they got married either.
Your problem is that your perception of him changed; where you were once infatuated with him, now you're hyper-critical - and, unlike when a man becomes hyper-critical, you know the forces of societal misandry will be there to rub your shoulders while you bitch about the...
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What color would you like to paint Obama's face?
Gone
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Is chivalry dead nowadays?
"Chivalry" ought to be dead, in the sense that while men are routinely lampooned and ridiculed - publicly and privately - many see women as deserving to remain on their pedestal ; that's obnoxious.
Now, if there were a genuine politeness between the sexes, borne of kindness, respect and a general attitude of affection, replacing the sexism of chivalry, that would be a good thing.
Good things...
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What was the difference between then 60s Chevy Corvair or Chevy Corvette? Did one have the engine in the back?
Corvair had the engine in the back.
Ralph Nader wrote a book about the Corvair...
It was entitled "Unsafe at any Speed".
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Why would a person remain with a religious group when it is clear that what is taught is not in agreement with God's Word?
When one really thinks about it, what did Jim Jones or David Koresh have that kept a devout following, even to the point of dying just to remain?
Was it powerful, irrefutable doctrine? Not likely.
Was it a magnetic, alpha male personality in the leader? Maybe in part.
Many folks who get slavishly caught up in notorious cults come from backgrounds where they felt unwanted or unloved.
The sense...
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My ex used to tell me that I am fragile yet voluptous..can you be fragile and voluptous at the same time.
&do men prefer thin or curvy
I guess it depends on how you define "voluptous".
I've seen small framed women who had huge breasts and shapely hips, yet, as the term "small framed" suggests, their arms and legs were skinny and they just generally LOOKED like a strong wind would blow them away.
They could could have been hearty as a bull, for all I know, but they certainly didn't look that way.
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With Obama's threats to the court, d'you expect him to make his inevitable grand call for nationwide riots when they dont rule his way?.
I doubt he'll actually CALL for riots, but the conduct of his administration over the Trayvon Martin shooting makes me less than confident that he'd step in and enforce the law.
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Have you known anyone who was REALLY smart, yet down to earth? The WWE-watching beer-swigging rocket scientist type?
I'm not sure that watching the WWE or excessive alcohol consumption denotes a person who is "down to earth", unless your standards are quite low. That doesn't mean that those types aren't likeable, btw, just not the salt of the earth.
I consider people like engineers to be smart and down to earth - there may be a few who swill beer and watch the WWE, but I doubt that is the norm.
People who...
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i am a fowl and my name is like a country's. take off the first three letters and you have something to unlock a door what am I?
Screwed at Thanksgiving?
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Does it Bug you to get a "Wrong number" phone call and you have to convince them that your not that person?
A local pizza joint has a phone number identical to mine except two of the numbers are reversed.
Then, as luck would have it, they printed a flyer with their number on the front and MY number on the back.
So I get calls from folks expecting me to make them a pizza in 20 minutes.
I don't get aggravated with THEM as much as I do with the restaurant owners, who took a "what do you want me to do?"...
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Guys: Is it more attractive for a girl to have a bigger bust, or for a girl to be flexible?
I've not seen many ,err...., "mammoracks" so big that they actually were an impediment to flexibility.
Big sloppy bellys, on the other hand?
Not flexible (unless jiggling does it for you) and not for me.
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Thou shalt not use her name in vain!
Gee...
I thought you were referring to the emerging trend of Goddess worship.
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When will people stop saying the police didn't do much of anything at all with the George Zimmerman case?
Certain race mongers won't be happy until Zimmerman's head is on a stick - and even then they'll not be completely satisfied.
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What do you get when you decide to judge anything?Isn't it better left to things that have all the knowledge in order to judge it properly?
Sometimes you get to live when you might otherwise have died.
You'll often have to make judgements without the benefit of having all of the facts.
In a case like that, you can always refrain from a harsh remedy.
For instance, you may see a person that looks dangerous. You don't KNOW one way or the other, but you are ( and should be) entitled to make a personal judgement and then take a...
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Apparently Reagan regretted becoming Republican. What do you think of that news and his reasons like his discomfort with using God?
I'll not just assume what we see quoted are thoughts expressed by Reagan himself.
The bulk of what is written there surprises me very little; it represents the character and decency of Ronald Reagan - something that everyone except those who absolutely loathed him knew to be true.
He would not have been comfortable with the idea that the Republican Party, or any other political party, is the...
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Republican author of FL Stand Your Ground law says it shouldn't protect Zimmerman. Do you agree? Why or Why not?
From what we've had reported to us, it sounds as if Zimmerman pursued Martin.
That's not "standing your ground".
What's bothering me more about this, other than the (seemingly) obvious tragedy, is that the typical liberal blowhards are making hay out of the racial aspect, and, as always, the gun control/ self defense aspect.
Obviously - if we're being told the truth- Zimmerman may have...
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Are you timid about talking around other people? If so, why? For me it's years and years of having others ignore me or discount what I say
Nancy,
I'm 50 years old and I've been timid about talking around other people my entire life.
It's especially debillitating for a man to be this way. I'm not trying to be sexist or anything, it's just how it is- even women expect men to "speak up" and judge them negatively when they don't.
Where I go to church, the men are expected to speak publicly, and those who are more reticent are...
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Why are men so guarded and protective of themselves? Why don't they want us to know them?
Maybe it's because we don't consider ourselves to be all that complex...or, the stuff you want us to open up about we consider trivial and boring.
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What if I'm really attractive, and the hot girls just think I'm out of their league?
Then you probably don't want the continual frusration/unhappiness associated with pursuing or maintaining relationships with stuck-up women.
If you could continually live with that garbage, then you wouldn't be asking this question, now would you?
So learn from yourself.
Find a woman who isn't s self-professed "hottie". She may actually burn your hands she's so hot.
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Which muscle car in the present was designed poorly?
Of the two you cited, I think both are clever designs, aesthetically.
The Mustang, has that cool retro look - and since we see them all over it's obvious that car buyers love the design.
The Camaro has a caricatured look that reminds me of the old Hot Wheels toys, and I think it's way cool. My hat is off to Chevy for their bold design.
Both of them, without doubt, provide their owners with...
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Why do stupid people look so pleased with themselves?
Probably because they don't know any better.
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If the GOP makes birth control illegal then the Federal Government will own women's bodies. Isn't that 1812? Are they cavedwellers?
First of all, this is a human rights issue, not a women's rights issue, though I realize that feminism has convinced women that men should have scant choice about whether or not they father a child, particularly after a child has been concieved.
Second, the reason this is at the forefront of anyone's mind is twofold: The Roman Catholic church has opted not to roll over and play dead in dealing...
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So here's a group of guys hanging out in the locker room telling offcolor jokes about women and laughing. Wonder who they could be? GOP?
I've heard plenty of off color jokes about women coming from staunch leftists. The most prolific ogler and off color remarker I know is a Republican- hating union officer who rates women by their skill at giving oral sex.
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Do you think women who reject feminism and encourage male chauvinism are traitors?
Bootsie,
When you say "chauvinism", are you thinking more of "chivalry"?
Anyway, obnoxious, hard core feminism (naked or thinly veiled man hating or competition with men) is a very tiresome ideology- but so is male chauvinism, and there aren't many guys who want to maintain the old order.
"Chauvinism", after all, was more strenuous for men, IMO, than it ever was suffocating for women.
Now,...
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Do you ever feel bad for a banana or whatever that grows and gets eaten and never gets to be anything but a banana or whatever?
It would be worse if they did NOT get eaten.
Even more dramatic:
Late last summer, after Hurricane Irene knocked out the electricty, grocery stores were throwing out thousands of pounds of meat.
It's a good thing that cows, for instance, don't stand around, chewing their cud while pondering the meaning of their own existence.
I mean- imagine the crisis in identity for cows - having read about...
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I'm about to do a porn scan on my computer...I've been married 10 years and my husband is 31. What are the chances I'll find porn?
Well...
with the background information you given, I sense that you think any man married for ten years must be an untrustworthy lout.
Anyway, I'm 50...married 28 years to the same woman, and the closest thing to porn to be found on my computer is the raunchy stuff some people ask on A'bag.
So, with the wealth of damning information you've given, we can only interpolate from my example, which...
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Should a man have the right to call some of the planet his or should the other man have the right to go wherever he wants?
Who will enforce the right of the second man to go wherever he pleases?
Whoever enforces that right "owns" the piece of the planet to which you are referring.
Usually that "someone" is government.
Now, what you suggest in your second example has been tried, with disastrous results- misuse (or underuse) of land, leading to famine and, consequently, murder. After all, once government decides...
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"I want to open it all by myself." What do you feel this way about? Why?
I always felt that way about my report cards from school.
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MEN: when is it appropreate for women to share their inferior opinions?
Inferior opinions?
Funny thing about opinions; they've been compared with anal anatomy. Everyone has one, and once you get close enough, you'll realize that most of them stink.
The ones that don't stink are inexperienced.
I share a well founded opinion of mine:
It is inappropriate to spell "appropriate" with an "e" where your "i" should be.
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Is marriage actually, a "right"?
Any man has the right to marry a woman- and vice versa, in any jurisdiction.
Now if you want to throw identity politics into it, then you've complicated the whole thing by demanding extra privileges for those who want to marry someone of their own sex.
Group think and identity politics is sucking the soul out of western democracies.
It's gotta stop before our culture is a smoking hulk.
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Is there any REAL proof that Jesus even really existed? Things that aren't real include the shroud of Tourin and the Jesus Box and the like.
Johnny come lately here...
The Jews, who hate Christianity, admit Jesus' existence in their foul writings of him in the Talmud.
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Do you think the world would be a better place if it was ruled by women?
There is certain evidence to suggest that in certain parts of the world, like the US, women already do rule.
The alpha men might sit in the big chairs, but to stay in the women's good graces, they make rules for the beta men to obey.
10 percent of men are "alpha". They do the bidding of 100 percent of women, and 90 percent of the men have to adjust their expectations.
Women rule.
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What do you think/feel when you hear about women talking about "training" men?
Women who speak amongst themselves of "training men" are the female equivalent of men who refer to their wives (again, amongst themselves) as "the old ball and chain".
The difference now is that a man who speaks so unlovingly will not be supported in many circles.
The woman will, however, have politically correct sympathy - even admiration - from many women and even some "mangina" men. Can you...
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Men: Do you view the idea that "men don't like cuddling" as a myth? Why or why not?
If "cuddling" means things cannot progress to sex then cuddling can be very frustrating for a man.
Note that I did not say that cuddling must progress to sex. It's just more relaxing, comforting or whatever if he knows she's not going to turn him down.
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Have women become dominant over men in the USA? If so,how far do you think it will go in the future?
Yes.
For the second part of your question, read this:
http://www.singularity2050.com/2010/01/the-misandry-bubble.html
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Is marriage more advantageous for men than women? I think it is, since men get so many more benefits to it?
If men benefit so greatly from marriage, then why are the social conservatives running about screaming "man up!" at every guy going on thirty who'd rather play video games?
Does a man get a "cook" and a "maid" when he takes a wife? If he does, then there's a 60 percent chance he has to listen to her whine about doing all of the work.
I would say that the cook and maid benefit is largely...
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Why are men of this generation so mean and cold? Is it because feminism went too far?
Certainly some men are "mean and cold", but there are at least as many, if not more, who are wary of what women can do to them.
You must understand that women, in the western cultures anyhow, are legally superior to men, in no uncertain terms.
You must also understand that in justifying this legal superiority, most feminists will claim- often unapologetically- that women are morally and...
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What is your take on the film "The Outlaw Josey Wales"?
I love when Josey spit tobacco juice on the carpet bagging snake oil salesman's white suit.
"how's it on stains?"
hee hee
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Will the world end in 2012 or will we wipe ourself's out?
No man knows the day, not even a clairvoyant Mayan.
Someone sure knows how to make a buck predicting doom.
Just to hedge my bet: I'm dating all of my checks to be payable on 12/22/12.
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Is someone, somewhere, trying to figure out how to prosecute doctors for delivering "nude babies"?
Probably.
Those are the same people, ironically, who have no quarrel with the idea of having some TSA agent- paid about $15 an hour- grope their crotch for wanting to board an airplane....soon to be a train, a bus, an elevator, to enter a theater....
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As education is inversely proportional to religiosity, is it being in a religion that makes you un-academic or the other way around?
Now who told you that?
It may be of interest to you that virtually EVERY notable institution of higher learning was founded by religious men.
You shouldn't be confused by the attempts of educated atheists or agnostics to paint those who disagree (ie, the "religious") as somehow "ignorant".
That's intellectually dishonest.
The most ardent intellectual snobs are those trained in non-verifiable...
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WHy do white(european descent) people divorce so much? MOST white nations have at least 40% divorce. why?
In the US (at least), 2/3 of the divorces are initiated by women.
Feminism fought for, and won, No-Fault divorce- where little, if any, justification for wanting a divorce is needed to obtain a divorce.
No-Fault divorce is certainly not "no pay" divorce. The legal costs for the divorce proceedings themselves are cheaper, it's just that the paying goes on for years and years- usually for the...
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Roman Catholic Archbishop of Grenada Spain, Javier Martinez, said it is ok to rape women who had an abortion.What do you think about this?
So two wrongs make a right?
I guess you can't expect much better from a church that prohibits its clergy from exercising normal male sexual energy by getting married, virtually ensuring that over time, only pedophiles and other wierdos will become Catholic clergymen.
Smart thinking, Mr Pope!
**So yes, it makes perfect sense that a woman who has had an abortion, can be raped without...
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26 yrs husband pays bills rent&food considered a gift or present for wife therefore she rec NO gift on special occasion? NOTHING
If it has been going for 26 yrs this way then he was probably a cheapskate from the very beginning.
Meaning:
She should have known better- the fault for the disappointment is as much hers as it is his. How many times have we heard "he should have known better" when she took off with the milkman. What's good for the man works for the woman too.
Anyway, it's certainly strange; and I wonder if...
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Why is Chevrolet the best car in the world?
A better question would be "Why would anyone THINK that Chevrolet makes the best vehicles in the world?'
Even General Motors doesn't (really) believe that.
They don't even make the best cars for the money.
I was always a big MoPar guy- I still have a few- and I was never so deluded as to think that Chrysler made the best vehicles, though for the money, they were among the best, along with...
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Why can't the weekend be the weekbeginning?
You're assuming that week"end" means something like week"finish". The weekend, remember, consists of two days (duh!), each at one end of two different weeks- Saturday is the finishing day (or finishing END) of the first, Sunday the beginning day (or beginning END)of the second.
Bet you're sorry you asked.
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Men do you love to talk highly of women and bow down to them like goddess?
There are certain women of whom I'll speak very highly- very few though, and those are women that I've known for a long time and in whom I have the highest confidence.
I have the same attitude about other men, by the way.
I'll bow before no one but God, and those women of whom I think most highly would NEVER require me to treat them like idols (or as a "goddess", as you've put it). They'd be...
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Pastor Ted Haggard returns with his wife, a new church & more open theology. What do you think of him now?
Forgiveness?
Sure.
Restoration to leadership?
Shouldn't happen.
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Are guys always nervous around pretty girls? Guys need to step their game up!
If they knew half the truth they'd be more disdainful than nervous...
The truth being that the more attractive a woman is, the more she's been entitled to be a vindictive b!tch.
So, next time you meet some guy who isn't nervous at your awesome presence, consider the possibility that he's onto your game, and considers you a misandrist pig.
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Overall, do you think the intergration of races, in the sixties, has benefitted our societies??
Has it truly brought us closer together??
Integration would have been more successful with the absence of left-wing agitators, who always like to stir up hate and discontent, in order that they might:
Divide
Conquer
Thrive
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How much nicer is it to to Heck than to go to Hell?
"Heck" is somewhere in Kentucky, and Kentucky is a pretty place. "Hell", on the other hand, is said to be a place of eternal torment.
So, I'll elect to go to Heck, Kentucky.
However, some snob from Manhattan might consider the idyllic condition in Heck, Kentucky to be eternal torment, so my "Heck" could very well be their "Hell".
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Mozart ft Beethoven, Elvis ft Frank, Susan Boyle ft Pavarotti, Michael ft Timberlake or Bieber ft Gaga?
I'm assuming "ft" means "versus" or "compared to".
Beethoven in the morning - Mozart concertos in the afternoon. How's that for a cop-out?
Elvis had a better voice, IMO. Sinatra would go flat quite often and I consider the sappy showtunes for which he was famous to be absolute torture.
Susan Boyle vs. Pavarotti? I've got to go with Pavarotti.
Michael-Timberlake-Bieber? I'd rather listen to...
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So how are the Religious thinkers going to try and explain this ?
"believed to have played a vital role in the creation of the universe after the Big Bang."
"BELIEVED"
I guess it's all in what you BELIEVE; no?
Is that the best you can do?
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What do you think about the proposed NTSB ban on all texting/phoning while driving nationwide? Do you support it or not? Why?
It's going to be almost impossible to enforce, but I support it.
Texting or talking while driving has been shown to be as, if not more, dangerous as DUI. Why do it?
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Screw Iowa and New Hampshire! Anyone agree? Why should they always get to go first? And screw the electoral system.
Somebody has to go first; and it's probably better that the two who DO go first have few convention delegates.
Let's say that New York and California went first. Those two states have huge influence, and therefore, they'd have huge influence over who the presidential candidates will be, since the candidates who come out the losers in those two states will likely fold up their tents and go...
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How does shes looks?
Both shes are cute.
Now you're going to tell us that one of them is a guy.
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Do you think computer programmers wake up everyday thinking they're better than everyone else? Or is that only doctors?
Gee Bromide,
you're being awfully tough on computer programmers today.
Do they wake up thinking they're better than everyone else?
First off, I'm not sure they ever sleep, so "waking up" is not likely.
Second, I've never met a computer programmer who didn't think more highly of the (computer) comprehension of non-programmers than they should have. That often leads to the somewhat irritating...
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Are you surprised to learn someone may be a computer programmer who you used to like?
I've known and liked many people who turned "evil" and emerged as computer programmers.
I still like them.
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Guys: what do you think about girls that keep saying "men are intimidated by them", would that annoy you?
It depends in what way men are percieved to be intimidated by women. If they are trying to say that I'm intimidated by them in a professional/technical setting, then yes, that annoys me. I'm as proficient/ qualified in my craft/discipline as my female peers. They simply don't intimidate me.
If women are saying that men are intimidated by them in the sexual/dating/mating scene?
That just happens...
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Whwn they say "girls mature faster then boys" does that mean their more superior?
RCLAY,
still struggling with the English dialect that most of us are familiar with?
To answer your question:
Girls mature (physically) at an earlier age than boys do. That tells me that they are simply suited to be parents at a younger age, although modern society has trashed the minds of many young women (if not most IMO) to the point that while they may have the curves and the hormones to...
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As the head of the house you discipline your husband? Do you also discipline other men who live there, such as friends or relatives?
Nice, sexist question there Andy.
Anyway- can you imagine the uproar if some "ladies" answered in the affirmative?
Actually, I can't.
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Do you ever feel your spouse settled for you because there was nothing else?
Unless he or she is clearly looking to move on and up, there is little benefit in thinking this way- and even if he or she IS looking, for that matter.
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A male friend of mine stopped his wedding because he said,"she didn't know how to touch me". Do you think he was being fair?
It's a bit strange, no doubt, but let's wonder to ourselves:
If she doesn't know how to "touch him" and indicates a refusal to learn, then it's probably more fair to dump her before the rings are on than to hope she'll get into "touching him" afterwards and then feel compelled to dump her when she doesn't.
Alternative viewpoint.
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Souldn't the world quit saying that women can find dates easier then men
There's a problem with the scenario (man and woman on the street) that you've given:
Folks on the street, conducting their daily business, are WISE to avoid the probing glances of strangers, no matter what the intent.
If you confine your examples to situations where it is common for men and women to seek each other(bars and clubs), then your conclusion would be different.
It's relatively easy...
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Could I use the tires from my boat trailer (7 years old, used a total of 14 times) on my car?
Unless the tires were originally purposed for use on a car ( ie the trailer or axles were home made and actually used car tires) then no, don't use them on your car.
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Should a young man be subjected to shaming if he wants to forego marriage?
I appreciate the responses, but, as I've said in my comment to "Andy B", I'm afraid I didn't word the question clearly enough.
My bad.
You've all (as of 10/13/11 at 5:55 PM) stated perfectly reasonable positions related to an individual's decision "should I marry?" or "should I marry him /marry her?".
What led me to (poorly, I guess) ask the question is this:
Lately (or over the past two...
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I know what is right-wing extremism, but what exactly is left-wing extremism?
I'm just as curious as to what YOU identify as right wing extremism.
But you asked first.
So I'll do my best to explain my own opinion.
That being: there is NO difference in the outworking of extremism, other than who the extremist hates.
I've long been convinced that rather than political ideologies occupying positions on a line, they are on a circle that's only visible from one side (to most...
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Why do liberals call conservatives as neocons when conservatism is now clearly in ascendancy?
I'm not a liberal myself, so don't misunderstand...
but,
Most "conservative" politicians/pundits these days are actually neo-conservative.
The classic liberal remembers when conservatives were:
For a strong military, yet not trigger happy.
Neo cons, with their abundant willingness to utilize the military, have actually weakened our military's readiness and morale.
True conservatives do not...
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What do men think of divorced women
I realize that divorce is the "easy" fix for troubled or inconvenient marriages and that many women (and men) have divorced for trivial reasons.
If she divorced one guy over minor things, ( legally speaking, there needn't be any reason) what makes me think she wouldn't divorce me too?
I'm not perfect, so try as I might not to have annoying tendencies of my own, I still do- so I'd be looking at...
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Can you shoot a gun to kill your lunch?
I'd like pizza for lunch.
Oh where to shoot first?
To answer:
Yes I can and have killed my own dinner; shot the deer, "killed" the green beans by picking them, murdered the 'taters by boiling them- killing their offspring in the process.
I'm hungry....
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The tea party has the GOP by the yingyang and keeps squeezing real hard. Is the tea party in complete control of the GOP now and forever?
Is the Tea Party in complete control?
They obviously are not; the infighting among nominal Republicans is evidence of that.
Frankly though, I think it would be a good thing if the Tea Party were in control.
Remember: the Tea Party- at it's grassroots- is made up of folks who identified as Republicans and Democrats (probably a few "other" as well) in the past.
They only want a return to...
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Should Muhammed Ali have been put in front of a firing squad? Along with Bill Clinton and Al Gore?
I never heard that draft dodging was a capital offense, but then again, President Jimmy Carter (?) pardoned them all, so we never got to see exactly how draft dodgers are punished.
It's been a long time, but I seem to remember that those guys were looking at lengthy prison sentences- not firing squads.
Anyway, since Carter pardoned them all (famous ones and not so famous ones), the question...
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How many of you believe that a person's religious choices are theirs business and religious fanatics should be imprisoned for harassment?
Harassment?
On what basis?
Let's say I'm religious (I am), and I read your goading question. Are you not impeding my religious freedom by implying, in omitting from your question that which actually crosses the line between religious expression and harassment?
By your own standard, you are harassing me.
You'd state your true position more capably by simply demanding freedom from (rather than...
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Is it wrong to create a child if you cant afford it?
We have to be careful generalizing about a thing like this.
That's not to say that it doesn't annoy me to pay a copious amount of taxes to support the children of people who concieve KNOWING that they cannot support a child.
However...
Depending on how you reckon it, it takes anywhere from 18 to 24 years to raise a child. That's a long time, and as we've all seen in the last few years, what...
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Adultery is crime or not? Who should be punished for that crime man only? Or man n woman?
Adultery was a crime in many US states until about thirty years ago.
Thirty years ago, no fault divorce became popular-and prosecuting adultery was no longer an option for a cuckolded spouse.
A coincidence?
I think not.
Who should be punished?
Certainly the married parties should be punished, and the unmarried parties should also be punished if it can be proven that they had knowledge of...
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Where is the low pressure side a/c in a ford f150?
Try looking at this:
http://www.autozone.com/autozone/parts/2005-Ford-F150-1-2-ton-P-U-4WD/A-C-Receiver-Drier/_/N-jn8syZ91sfu
I did some poking around and found out that the charging port on the Fords is usually on the A/C drier.
The link is a picture of the drier, so you'll know what it looks like. Usually those things are somewhere near the radiator, but I have seen them on the firewall...
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Where is the low pressure side a/c in a ford f150?
If the air condiioner works, feel the underhood refrigerant lines while it's running. The cold lines are the low pressure side.
I assume you're asking because you need to recharge the system. Along the low pressure line, you'll find a plastic cap. Beneath the cap will be what looks like a tire valve. That's where you put in the new refrigerant.
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Dems are gonna try to make Paul Ryan the "Nancy Pelosi" of 2012. Make him responsible for everything vile/evil. Poetic justice?
Rosie,
When you're discussing politics or (modern) government, it's best to leave words like "justice" out of it, since real "justice" is an inconvenience for politicians.
Does Ryan deserve to be villified this way? I don't think so.
Nancy Pelosi has made a long career of taking from "A" in order to buy a vote from "B".
Now, since "B" has lived his/her entire life with his/her little birdie...
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If Earth is only about 6000 years old -did God accelerate the speed of light from distant stars so they would become immediately visible?
For this question to be faith-challenging, you'd have to establish which stars were visible and when, by some ancient record.
Has anyone ever seen an astronomical map 6000 years old? If so, can you, or anyone, attest to it's accuracy?
I doubt it; so this question is useless.
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Engaged couples. Would you ever consider returning the word "obey" for BOTH of you in your marriage vows? Why or why not?
What could be sillier than vowing "mutual" obedience?
"Obedience" is not some word that can be easily distorted, in it's meaning, by PC nonsense.
"Obedience" implies a relationship where one leads and the other obeys- there's no sense in trying to sugarcoat that by speaking in terms of something as nonsensical as mutual obedience.
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Ever driven on a public road? You're a socialist!!
The building of public roads and driving upon them is NOT an example of socialism, nor are availing oneself of police and fire protection or the umbrella of security provided by the presence of the military.
Those are concrete examples of the government providing for the public good and common defense- as outlined in the US Constitution.
The government dabbles in socialism when it interferes...
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Is the front axle geared the same as the back axle on a 4-wheel-drive vehicle?
Unless the vehicle is a 4WD tractor (big tires in back, small tires in front) the axle ratios should be the same.
People often ask a question like this because they wonder why they've been told they shouldn't run in 4WD on a hard, dry surface.
Even though the axle ratios are the same, there are other variables.
Four tires, all the same size?
It may say they're the same, but they're not....
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Does what you think is true say more about you than what you think isn't? Or are they equally revealing?
I think it reveals how diligent you are in study (whether considering the true or untrue ), which is quite important, but not much else.
I know many fine people who aren't as aware of certain things as I am-or as other people that I admire.
It's frustrating sometimes, but it helps me to understand that some of the things of which I'm aware (hence affecting my what's true and what's not true)...
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Why sexual desire declines as the times goes on with one man/woman?
Couldn't tell that by me.
I'm near 50 years old- she's 48- and we've been together almost 27 years. Sex is better than ever.
To what would I attribute that?
Probably it was that when I was sizing her up as a wife, sex wasn't the first item on the list- though I'll admit that her face and figure were not unattractive. I could tell she liked me.
As a result, we're not constantly sniping at one...
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I did cheat on my husband a lil more then what I said. Should I tell him or let it go .were so much better now after I caught him talking
You caught him talking?
Ooooh that is bad.
Your cheating pales by comparison.
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Do you think marriage is corrupt in these days?
Marriage itself isn't corrupt, but the state has made it a bad deal for men. No fault divorce, coupled with bias toward women by the family court in the division of assets and assignment of child custody has made getting married too risky for men.
Besides, with women flopping their legs open two hours after meeting, there's little incentive to risk losing everything a man has worked for by...
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I believe that women should have equal rights like men and be equal 50/50 by sharing the household and childcaring. i need a counter argument and refutation on my thesis statement. i need good convincing reasons( refutation)
When you consider the fact that women can have a man arrested and taken from his home with the mere drop of a dime, you should be able to conclude that women do not have equal rights-
They have more rights than men; and please spare me the emotional nonsense about men needing not worry about that if they treat women right. Laws are laws, and men are at the short end of the stick where DV,...
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Toronto Police “women should avoid dressing like sl*ts in order not to be victimized” What do you think of that statement?
Did the Toronto Police advocate a law being passed forbidding bralessness, low neck lines or short hemlines?....
Errr....NO
They simply said that not dressing provocatively will lessen the likelihood of being assaulted. That sounds like good advice to me: no more offensive than advising one not to walk through a bad neighborhood with hundred dollar bills hanging from one's pockets.
Maybe you...
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My 2000 Dodge Durango won't start. I have a new computer in, new spark plugs, spark coils, c converter, um new battery.any ideas?
Are you sure the fuel pump is working?
Dead fuel pumps make for "no start".
With the key in the "run" position, open the fuel filler cap, put your ear to the opening and listen for the humming/whining sound made by the fuel pump.
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Was Jesus just really upset about everything requiring the killing of an animal?
No-in spite of your obvious attempt at giving some Christian credibility to your viewpoint, Jesus was NOT motivated by undue love for animals.
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I've tried to get my wiffe in the mood for sex a lot of different ways but we still only have sex on her schedule. What should I do?
Do you do things that benefit HER (other than sex) ONLY when you're in the mood?
I'll bet you don't feel like doing lots of things that benefit her- things that are sometimes dangerous, usually take longer , and there's no way you'll begin enjoying yourself halfway through these things; but you do them anyway, because it's part of your responsibility to ensure her well-being and happiness, as...
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Why do women seem to want a guy when he already has a girlfriend? I don’t understand her. We are friends and I asked her once if she see me as her boyfriend. She didn’t say anything and I understood it’s not going to happen.
Women typically want something once another woman validates it's worth. In this case, that "something" is you.
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If a man wears a ring on his wedding finger, and then doesn't wear a ring on his wedding finger, but on the opposite hand, and then doesn't wear the ring at all....What does that mean? Is he married or not?
Every guy I've known who did this did it to signify his broken heart. She either died or left him.
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What does it mean when a married man "absentmindedly" fiddles with his wedding band in front of you so it's half-on, half-off his finger?
It could just mean he's nervous.
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What do you call a state that no longer allows its elected representatives to cast votes?
Better question:
What do you call 14(?) legislators who refuse to face the fact that their philosophy of government is folly- and a majority of the voters know it- and then refuse to go the club meetings so a vote (which they DESERVE TO LOSE) can be taken?
Answer:
Wisconsin Democrats
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Should we close all aging nuclear power plants? There are 23 plants in the U.S. almost identical to those in Japan.
I hope those who advance the idea if closing nukes just because they're old enjoys shivering in the dark.
You obviously have scant idea of how "unsafe" the process of shutting one of these things down and de-fueling really is.
If you're scared, be more scared of your own willy-nilly thinking, I sure am.
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Why did Jesus said, Destroy this temple, and in three days I will raise it up (John 2:19)?
Jesus was referring to his crucifixion and resurrection.
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Since other animals such as wolves and swans mate for life, does this mean they love each other the way we do?
Wolves?
The alpha male wolf has a harem-his pack. You call that superior luvin? I guess you'll be fine and dandy with the societal plunge the West is about to endure, where among other things, women who consider themselves too good for men who've suffered the brunt of economic disaster will more readily share the sexual services of an alpha man with several other women.
Who da thunk feminism...
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Do you think the older generation should be listened to regarding the future of the United States?
Frankly, the older generation allowed the situation to degrade to the point where it is now, and the younger generation is allowing it to become even worse- so all are to blame.
We should work together- toward getting BACK to what made this country great.
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Yet another shooter yells 'Allahu Akbar' and kills people. Why does Obama have such trouble recognizing a motive?
Probably because he knows the guy from "church".
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can you swap a 255/50r16 for a 225/50r16? Will it be way too narrow?
Go to a website such as Tire Rack and find out if the two sizes will fit on the same width rim.
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I have a 2004 Crown Victoria PI,cooling fan not working (tried AC trick) replaced 50 amp fuse and new fan assembly, what is next?
Never worked on a Crown Vic, but your use of the term "fan assembly" has me guessing that it is an electric fan.
Usually there will be a (thermal) switch on the "cool" (outlet) side of the radiator- probably in the hose or a fitting to which the hose is attached.
You haven't said if you're getting any codes or "check engine" light display. It's possible that the cooling fan circuit is...
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What is a good answer when a guy doesn't really ask if a woman will marry him, but instead is evasive about it and asks instead, "so, are you going to marry me?"
How about this?:
I am a pampered, modern, Western woman.
I, through my direct involvement in feminist politics or through my appointed feminist leaders, have asserted my rights.
I have abandoned patriarchy and DEMAND you, sir, do the same.
I, by my silence, have asserted that "a woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle"(because that's the attitude in vogue) - meaning that, while I'll...
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Ejaculating in a women is that a common excuse for a women filing a false report of rape?
By the very nature of the term "false rape report", the sex act itself need not have occured.
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Do you think likening how God communicates with us, to how a tv/radio works, is a good analogy?
Yes.
God communicates with us via the conscience. We always need to remember that we are recievers- not transmitters.
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Who do you want to win the Supper Bowl?
Whoever is the hungriest should win the "Supper" Bowl.
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Why the rate of divorce women are increasing than before ?
Because women are generally treated better than men by the Family Court. They usually get a huge chunk of the ex' paycheck, they get custody of the children, they get to stay in the house, the better of the two cars.
In essence, they believe they'll be nearly as well off as when married.
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If a 60+ year old man forced a 10 year old girl to sit on his lap while wearing a night gown, is that considered child sexual abuse?
Why would a 60 year old man be wearing a night gown? That's just wierd.
Seriously- if the girl felt uncomfortable (without being coached), then it's a matter to look into.
If it was not like that for the girl? There are some way overzealous imaginers of molestation everywhere we look these days, but it wouldn't harm if the girl was warned at how inappropriate such contact appears, and how it...
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Is it okay to sleep with someone outside of my marriage if I have tried everything I can to get my husband to sleep with me?
He's wearing hmself out with masturbation and porn.
As for you: is it possible you're thinking about sex all of the time because you don't know when you'll get it next?
I think so. (you're not a sex addict, you're just a normal 22 year old)
As for dealing with him: Remind him that he's RIPPING YOU OFF when he masturbates over some centerfold. What can it hurt to tell him like it is, because...
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What does the bible say about inter-religion marriage?
The Bible teaches us not to be "unequally yoked" with an unbeliever.
Many, myself included, feel that this admonition extends beyond marriage - to business partnerships and the like.
Living together isn't the answer either. For one thing, the act of living together is looked upon as sinful (ongoing fornication), so as a Christian, I believe you'd want to avoid that.
Second-depending on which...
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Does every man need a woman when his life is in a mess?
Quite often, if a man's life is a mess it's BECAUSE of a woman.
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Have you (ladies) ever stood at an airport with wind blowing gently through your hair (bald ladies don't answer)and felt soft and loving?
Not a lady here....
anyway, what with the recent measures taken by the TSA, you'll have to clarify which hair you're talking about.
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I heard a man say, "Whats the point of trying to be a friend to a woman if they are better than you are?" What are your thoughts on this.
Maybe that guy only knew women who felt that they were superior.
Have you ever heard the question "If a tree falls in the woods, and there's no one there to hear it, does it make a sound?"
There's another, rather facetious question that follows that pattern. "If a man says something, and there's no woman around to hear him, is he still wrong?"
Sure enough, many women get their hides pretty...
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Why would a guy say he loves you , could see himself having a family with you , and then break up with you the next day ??
He feels like he could be entrapped by his own feelings for you.
Let's say that most of his older male relatives and aquaintances have miserable relationships with women.
He probably never understood how a man could get sucked into something so bad- until he met you.
Not that you're miserable, mind you, but most girlfriends who turn into bitches don't start being bitches until the rings are...
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Why is it, when a man has something that breaks, it was defective, but a woman with the same problem must have done something wrong?
I never knew of any such rule.
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What can one president do the next can't reverse like universal HealthCare?
Drop a nuke.
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My wife thinks I'm crazy. Should I be concerned?
I must admit checking the OQ's profile:
"Male, Christian, married, senior, veteran, college grad, failure, sinner, neurotic"
You don't sound crazy to me - just honest.
Maybe the crazy thing you did was marry her?
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My son said "arguing on the internet makes both sides look like imbeciles." Opinions please.
I always heard that arguing on the 'net was like the Special Olympics.
No matter who wins, they're both retards.
I swear I'm not clever enough to have thought of that myself, so please don't dump on me for that.
What is it that Larry the Cable Guy says at a moment like this..."bless all the pygmies down in Africa..."
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my guy wants me to cane him?please ladies share yr experiences with me
If you're gonna cane the man, be sure you take the big rubber tip off the end...you might lose it in there, and wouldn't THAT be a story in the ER?
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How would you feel about an organ tax?
Slow day, huh?
Are you prepared to monitor my cholesterol intake so all of these innards I selfishly cling to will be in suitable working order for that guy who actually needs them?
So let's say that you have the government rob me of an "excess" kidney, and then I lose the one you spared.
Is anyone going to make an impassioned plea for me?
Have you ever seen a person with one lung? A person...
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Is inequality caused by luck inherently unjust?
Maybe it is and maybe it is not.
What is unjust- with certainty- is when WE DECIDE to balance the scales, using our suspicion that he/she "got lucky in life's lottery".
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Why are there only male angels mentioned in the Bible? No fermale ones?
Maybe there are no female angels.
Lucifer (Satan)-said to be a fallen angel- is MALE.
I doubt we'll ever hear a woman rant on about sexism in the church concerning that.
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I try having sex with my girlfriend when she sleeps.Ladies have you ever woke up to your man or another guy fucking you?did it turn you on?
A word of warning Josh:
In many jurisdictions, what you describe is called RAPE. Not every woman would choose to file a complaint, but you never know.
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whats that mean if ur wife says she would do a mmf for you but she doesnt really want to do it. but would b/c its my fantasy?
I've got a better question:
What does it mean that you asked?
Seriously!
Do you realize how many guys there are whose wives won't have sex with them at all? Here you are leaning on her to have sex (of any sort) with not just you, but some other guy at the same time.
I suspect that your end-game, if she goes through with it, is you and two women...
That's just wrong, and you need to wise up...
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would you sleep with your sisters husband if know one would ever find out?
No way...
First of all, I'm a very straight guy.
Second, I can't stand my sister's husband. I almost feel bad that she has to sleep with him.
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Is it illegal to disguise yourself in pulbic? Such as wearing a wig and a fake beard?
Are women who wear wigs or men who wear toupees breaking the law?
How is a real beard any less a disguise than a fake one?
It's not illegal (yet!)
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WHY WHEN MOST WOMEN ARE DUMPED THEY MOVE ON BUT WHEN MEN GET DUMPED THEY TRY TO KILL THE WOMAN WHO DUMPED THEM AND/OR THEMSELVES?
More men become SUICIDAL than homicidal- and it's easy to understand.
After she moves on with his heart, most of his money and most of his life, he's left penniless-living in Mom's gargage- so broke he can't possibly move on to a new love interest or a new "anything", unless warming ones hands over a burning barrel and sleeping under a bridge are your idea of "moving on" .
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At what age is a woman at her best?
A woman who is making the most of what she's got (which is all any of us can do anyway) is at her best.
If I were pressed to nail down a specific age?
I'd say that a woman between 35 and 40 is the hot ticket. Brains and beauty, still feeling pretty good, the pinch of menopause not here yet...
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At what age a man at his best?
I'm going to be 49 in a couple weeks... the answer is...
49...
:p
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I wanna merry the love of my life, i would give her anything in the world. i sob up when i propose, any ideas...
Well I'm glad to hear she took the bait no matter how much of an SOB you are....oh wait...that's not what you meant when you said you "sob" up....
Just kidding.
Hope it goes well. And if her Dad pitches a fit over the whole deal, just assure him that if his house catches fire, you'll be sure to not show up.
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Wife won't let me masturbate. Also won't have sex with me. What can I do besides cheating?
This has got to be joke.
Does the woman shadow your every move?
It's not that I actually advocate masturbation, but it seems a bit unreal that she'd actually know what you're doing-especially with the excess "alone" time you must have.
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did he just use me? class we spoke evryday, sat nxt 2 me shared my book i send him a msg on fb he never responded.seemed that he liked me
Maybe he prefers talking face to face. Maybe he hasn't checked his FB account.
Lots of possibilities besides him "using" you.
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What may be the medical foretellings of a bodily discharge that is one part piss, one part fecal, two parts puss at half moon?
You're the mother of a werewolf....
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Do referees and umps ever ask, "Do these white pants make my butt look fat?" Why aren't there women refs/umps?
No, they don't ask...because they already know it makes their butt look fat...and that's probably why there aren't any woman refs/umpires.
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After surviving cancer, I no longer love my husband. What should I do?
There was a time when decent people wouldn't admit to being so ungrateful.
Reel in your exhiliration at being cancer-free and enjoy your new lease on life with the one who helped you get this far.
You OWE him that.
I'm a Christian. I don't believe in "kharma", so to speak, but I do believe that God weighs every account. God has spared you the finality of death. You cannot return that favor to...
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Do you feel that good husbands are often ridiculed as wimps?
I've never had anyone call me a "wimp" for being decent with my wife. I've heard guys express sympathy for a guy whose wife treats him like a naughty puppy. I've expressed such sympathy myself, and I have utter contempt for women who act that way.
I suppose that makes me a misogynist, but the list of offenses qualifying a man as a "misogynist" is long and growing-soon enough, every man will be...
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What incentive is there for any man to marry unless he wants to be a white knight and support and love her without anything in return?
I realize that my other answer didn't actually answer the question- other than to explain one way, as a man, to have emotional satisfaction from a marriage.
Many of the other's answers seem focused on the emotional benefits of a marriage.
Those benefits are not guaranteed, and they never have been. They cannot be legislated, and they never could.
There was a time when a man agreed to protect...
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Red Light ticket
Before a policeman stops anyone, they run a check on the car: is it stolen? is there a possibility that the driver is wanted or dangerous?
So he waited while you did your business at the drive through. He probably could've bagged you then and there, and you'd be upset about that. The possibility exists, however, that he couldn't legally stop you on private property-I doubt it very much...
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What incentive is there for any man to marry unless he wants to be a white knight and support and love her without anything in return?
I'm no White Knight myself, and I've been married for a long time.
How did I manage to not get screwed (at least not so far)?
I followed the basic principles of "Zeta Game", long before I'd ever heard of "Zeta Game".
The guidelines are simple:
If a woman is the child of divorce herself-watch out, she's been de-sensitized to the idea of divorcing.
If a woman constantly berates men, even if...
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Why, only AFTER high school, would a girl suddenly start conversations with you?
Maybe, after not seeing you every day (like at school), she realizes that she misses you and wants your company.
Sounds like a good thing to me.
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Why do right-wing loonies disrespect conservatives by using that label?
Which label?
Are you saying that "right wing loonies" disrespect "conservatives" by calling themselves "right wing loonies" or by calling themselves "conservatives"?
I often wonder why so called "conservatives" show themselves so ignorant of their own (claimed) core beliefs by saying that those who have participated in something like..... a Tea Party event are "loonies" of any stripe.
Real...
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green energy projects have increased energy costs by double digits for the comsumer? are we getting screwed by energy companies?
Screwed by the energy companies?
Possible.
It's just as possible that the taxes, imposed on energy companies to fund "green energy" projects, are what is screwing you.
Did you ever wonder why the energy companies hadn't involved themselves in "green energy", if "green energy" is such a "make sense" proposition?
"Green energy" isn't viable on a large scale. More energy is expended building and...
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Who should you love more -- your spouse or your children? Why?
You're going to love both the same, but the way that will bear itself out is what seems to confuse many people.
Mom and Dad AND the kids need to understand that it was the love between Mom and Dad that put the kids there, and it REMAINS the pimary reason that a stable and secure family exists.
All will agree that a child feels the most "loved" (and really is the most "loved") when they are in...
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Does running out of diesel in my 1993 Toyota Hilux 4x4 damage my fuel injector pump?
How long did it run without fuel?
Silly answer, huh?
Once the injector pump runs dry, the engine stops (thus the pump stops too) so I wouldn't worry about excessive damage.
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What US political party would Jesus be a member of?
Why?
Political parties attempt to define "truth".
Jesus Christ IS TRUTH, so he is a "political party" unto himself .
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What evidence is there that Jesus lived as per the bible? Outside of the bible, no bible references.
How many literary references do you expect?
Jesus was on earth at a time when travel/communication was very slow. It should surprise no one that the account of Jesus' life is limited to the Bible.
Also, whether or not the Jews admit it, Jesus was a central figure in their society, being the promised Messiah. While Jesus has become very important, to people worldwide, since the time when the...
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Why should we label a woman a tease or a prude because she doesn't put out? Why should we label a woman a slut or a whore because she does?
A prude?
Not really.
A tease?
I've referred to certain women as "prick teases" before, but that was because they ACTED as if they were going to give "it" to a guy when I KNEW they had no such intention.
If it were me asking, I'd ask why some women/girls act that way- to which I'd speculate that they enjoy the attention and the material benefits of leading a guy along.
I have four daughters. To...
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Men: What is your take on the book "He's Just Not Into You"?
Being a guy, and seeing the book is intended for female readership, I've never read the book.
I doubt that many guys have read the book, so you'll have really slim pickin's when it comes to informed answers about the book.
Being that most books intended for women will appeal to their solipsistic nature, I imagine that it advises the woman that unless he jumps at her every whim, that he's just...
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Why should I have to wear miniskirts or short shorts, tight tops that show my cleavage, and heels just to be accepted?
If it's bugging you, then maybe you're looking for acceptance in the wrong crowd.
There are groups of people who actually would rather a woman NOT dress that way; they feel that while a woman's body is indeed a beautiful thing, the more private parts of it are best left to her husband.
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Why do women say men are so lazy?
From reading, and commenting on, many of the anwers already provided, I'm reminded of a few things.
First, many guys are never taught to pick up after themselves-their mothers either pamper them(and their sisters) too much or they just can't wait for the kid to "get with it" so Mom picks up the mess herself, every time. This will certainly give a wife the impression that "he's lazy".
Strangely...
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Is the wearing of wedding rings a dying tradition? Should it be? Should married people feel obligated to wear them?
The idea of marriage itself is what's dying, not the wearing of rings.
The wearing of rings is still a good idea-since any honorable person will scan the hands of the man/woman they are admiring and then back off when they see a ring.
To that end: why allow an embarassing situation when an honorable person mistakenly makes advances?; why allow yourself the temptation by giving the green light...
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Is there any evidence to support the idea that fossil fuels could exist if the Earth was only about 12,000 years old?
No.
There are those who believe that petroleum is abiotic-dead dinosaurs having nothing to do with it.
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why is the religious right apparently becoming so desperate to 'kill' president Obama?
"Kill" him?
Wow, that's a strong analogy.
I've seen them EXPOSE his policies. If doing that "kills" him, then it's knowing the truth about his policies that may "kill" him, rather than the religious right.
I think you're desperate to "shoot the messenger".
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Why are women so evil?
Since so many have pointed out obvious evil, of which both men and women are capable, I'd rather address what I'd wager is the asker's real question- that being, why do women break hearts-and here comes the distinctive part-while society offers a "you go grrrl" to her and a "take it like a man" to him?
Some women are evil, in that specific way, because the laws/society ALLOW THEM TO BE "EVIL"....
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A wild animal attacks a human while out hiking and that animal is then hunted and killed. Why?
Should we take a heavier hand with humans who kill other humans?
I think we should. We'd have far fewer truly dangerous two leggers walking upright if we did that.
Without a doubt, a dangerous human being is a greater danger to other humans than any animal.
However-
There are, and should be, advantages to being part of the dominant species called "humanity".
The entirety of Earth, as we learn...
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If im a victim of rape at 16 and somewhere in my twenties i decide to get married,do u think i shud tell my husband what happened
Yes.
There are likely to be problems with the way you approach sex with your husband. He needs to know what he's getting into.
Telling him before there is serious talk of marriage is the only fair thing to do.
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Men do you think women who can drive a stick shift really well is kinda sexy?
Not necessarily.
What does shifting gears have to do with being "sexy", anyway? To me, it just means that if said woman was my wife, I'd have more options when shopping for a used car.
Frankly, there's nothing that difficult about it; I can do it quite well, and I've never drooled over myself as being "sexy".
Being able to operate a sewing machine without stitching your thumb?
That's tough to...
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What do you do when your better half want's to kiss you and you have snot dripping out of your snoot?
My snoot?
LOL
Well, I just say "pardon me dear, but I must excuse myself to wipe the snot from the snoot...when I return, feel free to kiss me up all you want, and any other naughty thing that crosses your mind".
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How do sperm banks DEVALUE men?
Remember when they (the feminists) said " a woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle" ?
One poster took particular umbrage with how I imply that certain "fish" have realized that there's at least one thing for which they need a bicycle- and now they'll use medical science and the permissive attitude of our culture to get what used to require a bit of femininity and a little more love for...
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Which religion has the most sexually liberated women?
Christianity, from left wing to right wing, from ancient times to modern.
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Do you believe the customer is always right?
In terms of how a customer is treated by sales and technical personnel, they should be treated as if they're right, and skillfully corrected into actually being right when they're hopelessly or dangerously wrong.
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My wife accused me of cheating 5x in 4 months, i never cheated on her and told her but she goes through my email and phone what should i do
Five times since you've been married? (four months ago)
Plenty of answers here want you to take the blame, my friend, so once you're done adjusting the wife's halo, done some soul searching and you've actually determined that there isn't something you've done (even if you were a player when you met her), consider this:
She's a narcissistic, controlling human being who played YOU, and the...
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What the odds 1 night stand woman ill try to steal some of your so she can use it aft u leav to try an gt pregnan so u giv her child suport?
It's not probable, but it's possible.
So....
either stay home,
or make sure your (stuff you didn't actually name) remains in your control.
Problem solved.
Unless, of course, you're asking because you already got the "I'm pregnant and it's yours" notification.
Then, it's "get a lawyer".
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كم كان عمرك حين أول ممارسة جنسية؟
Welcome to Wal-Mart?
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what would you call a girl who is only 17 and has had 8-9 sex partners in the course of 3-4 years?
"Easy"
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my truck turns off when I stop, and stutters when , what could be the problem?
Not many clues offered there, chosen, but I'll go out on a limb and say it's a vacuum leak.
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how is a police intersepter diferent from an ordinery car motor
Police package engines are different, and they always have been, but in different ways, depending on the era:
Generally, in the "pre-computerized, non-emissions era", the police engines were rebadged muscle car engines.
For instance, a 60's or early 70's Dodge Charger R/T would commonly be equipped with a 440 Magnum-high compression, higher valve lift/longer duration camshaft, high pressure...
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Why do I feel like a wreck everytime me and my boyfriend have a conversation? Why can't I love him though he's so sweet.
Maybe he's too sweet- so sweet you think he's a pushover. That's a problem if what you mean by "why can't I love him" is that you can't imagine a "future" with him.
Everyone wants to know where the boundaries are.
What will it be like, in your case, when you finally push the right buttons and get him angry?
Will all of the sweetness evaporate, never to return, or will he remain reasonable and...
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which can be very harmful to the female body Natural Progesterone or Synthetic Progesterone?
A woman's body MAKES natural progesterone, so it stands to reason that synthetic progesterone could cause problems.
Plants and animals also make natural progesterone.
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For the men; Which group of women do you think is better looking?
Andrea Dworkin took her man-hating rage to the grave a little while back, so she's off the list...
I'd say that the Democrat lineup would stand a chance at "most intelligent" at the Westminster Dog Show.
But I wouldn't want to insult the dogs.
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How much truth is there that many adult men are sexually attracted to teenage girls? Don't adult women in their 20s look and act better?
For me, it's a major triumph just to experience complete emptying at urination.
In light of that, a twenty something is just a adult teenager who can't find a job.
I raised my kids.
I don't want to be sleeping with someone elses kid.
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Could we stop thinking it`s the "end of days" and start demanding the agencies that are supposed to protect our water do their jobs!!?
Here's the thing:
One sign that the "end of days" may be upon us is that governing agencies don't do their jobs.
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When did being educated start getting you classified as elitist?
It never has.
What usually happens is that an educated person will, knowingly or unknowingly, look down on those with lesser education.
However, some of the smartest, best educated people I've known never disrespected those who have little formal education.
As they say, when one gains knowledge, they realize how much they don't know. They also realize that many folks truly have attended the...
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Who coined the term "emotional affair"? And, when did it become tantamount to adultery? Do you think it's so much psychobabble?
I'd guess the person who coined the term was someone trying to describe an extramarital relationship that didn't include sex.
When did it become tantamount to adultery?
There are a few possibilities.
What if, for reasons of age and infirmity, a couple's marriage can no longer include sex? It would seem that in this situation, the emotional component of the marriage becomes an even more...
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Your husband hates sex, what would he have to do to avoid sex?
He could eat lots of garlic...
I know that works for my wife-garlic is a fail-safe man repellent.
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A month after marrying your wife, she lets you take her virginity. As you remove her pants, you see her erect penis! What are your plans?
Darn it!
Dude:Who paid for the honeymoon ?
I say let "her" keep her virginity...head back to the preacher and explain the whole thing to him.
He may have trouble believing it took you a MONTH to make this gruesome discovery, but at least he can attest to the fact that "she" presented herself as a woman.
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What are the symptoms of premenstrual syndrome?
A pup tent in the back yard?
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Are there any other options besides turning him in? i have posted this in other categories,just need opinions!?
He raped you if it went the way you said it did.
You were right to say no to him.
What to do about it?
I think there is a time limit for reporting a rape, but I doubt that he knows anything about that stuff. The reason I even mention that is this:
I wouldn't want to be alone with him ever again if I were you, and you'll need to tell him so.
You at least need to tell him that what he did was...
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Why aren't men more accepting of women's looks?
Accepting of women's looks for what purpose?
For picking a mate? Excuse me ma'am, but there's not much left to which a guy can feel entitled anymore. If looks are his thing, then he's a fool for going just on that, but that's his prerogative.
If he's got a beer gut and manages to score a ten, then who should we blame, him or her?
I've been told by many women that I'm actually quite handsome....
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My husband has told me that he does not feel appreciated. Yet when I ask what I can do to make him feel appreciated he said that he does not want to give me a checklist (recipe). .. What makes a man feel appreciated?
I rarely allude to the world of cinema, because it's usually a load of crap, but at the end of Saving Private Ryan, the elderly Mr Ryan tearfully asks his wife if he's "been a good man".
In this day and age, men are constantly portrayed as idiots, fools and villians-by the entertainment/news industry, the advertising industry, the courts and by government as a whole(supplanting him as...
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A 20+ year study has found children of lesbian parents have fewer behavioral issues than their traditionally raised peers. Thoughts?
I read a bit about this survey, and I remember that most of the data was collected fom the parents themselves.
These lesbian parents knew, by virtue of the survey in which they were participating, that their progress was being tracked, and any negative feedback would put into question their validity as parents.
So, conciously or unconciously, is it within the realm of possibility that most of...
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Why would a state enact a seatbelt law, but repeal a motorcycle helmit law?
More people who only drive cars are sheep; if they can be convinced that wearing seatbelts makes you safer (it does) then they stupidly go along with government telling them that they MUST.
People who ride motorcycles tend to be more independent in thought and are usually better organized...and, the fact is that the wearing of helmets saves relatively few lives, when compared with seatbelt...
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I like the way low rise jeans feel when they slide down in the back to reveal my butt crack, is this weird?
It's only weird if you're not a plumber.
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How can I trick women into thinking that I'm already taken so as to make myself more attractive to them?
It seems you've been either rebuffed in several different ways and/or received suggestions for your ill-conceived enterprise.
However, you didn't get to hear this idea:
Dress up like a Roman Catholic priest. That'll do the trick, and you might get out of a traffic ticket or two.
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Why don't girls get blamed for the fact there are homosexuals?
Simple.
It's not their fault.
I've had a problem with women ever since I was...ten years old, I guess.
I don't trust them with my feelings easily.
The biggest issue with any of this?:
I was/am sexually attracted to them; I knew that would make me vulnerable.
Not trusting women never made me even think about getting laid with another guy; so these guys who are blaming women for their...
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Are you men on marriage strike like I am due to unfair, onesided misandry marriage laws? *see sources*
Personally, I am not on a marriage strike. I've been married a long time.
Indeed though, there are many men who are on a marriage strike.
Not only is it a bad business risk, it's an emotional risk as well. The state assist her in emptying your pockets, then they'll provide the means to take your children from you, and they'll guard the door while she tears your heart out.
For those reasons,...
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Sarah Palin has blamed "extreme environmentalists" for the catastrophic Gulf oil spill. Agree or disagree?
She's at least partially right because it's the environmentalist hand wringers that have forced drilling in mile deep waters.
If this disaster had occured in 400 feet of water, they could have had it contained within a week-maybe less. Every effort made by BP and the government "experts" has been hampered by the harsh environment in which they're working.
While we're here, let's ask ourselves...
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My marriage hasn\'t been consumated, i love my wife but she won\'t have sex, what should I do now?
If you really haven't consummated, and you haven't because she plainly doesn't ever want to, then you can get an annullment-being one of very few who actually qualifies.
I suppose you could give her the heave-ho even if she's not having sex because she can't, but that would be a bit cold.
Frankly, if the two of you are not having sex because she doesn't want to and never will, I doubt your...
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Why are men "guilty till proven innocent" when it comes to rape or crimes against women?
I've been busily commenting on this thread, so I figured it was time I ventured an actual answer.
Maybe SiDDD needs to rephrase the question. I'll tell you why.
Look at the answers you're getting. Everything from denial of the situation, assertions that it's all rape, and on and on.
The perception, whether well founded or not, that men will not be treated fairly when dealing with women in...
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Should I leave my wife now or later?
I'll bet you ask yourself this question daily, but why did you EVER marry when you had a thing for someone else?
It's moot now, as far as I'm concerned.
You say that your leaving will give your wife a hard time emotionally. How can that be true, yet there's no point at which the two of you can gain a foothold and mend your marriage?
Personally, by that admission, and your admitted "torn"...
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If no water was available could I pee in my radiator?
Well....
yup. If the engine is hot, it's best to add the "water" while it's running, so be careful for steam blowback, and in your case, touching the fan would be a big no-no.
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What's the difference between "government" and "governance"? Is the latter less democratic than the former?
"Governance" is how one goes about discharging the duties of "government".
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Is Russia a victim of unfair hostility among Western powers today, and if so, isn't that America's fault?
The United States nearly bankrupted itself preparing to defend against nuclear attack by the Soviet Union.
She had to sell the USSR wheat and grain because the USSR started by killing farmers and then, employing their wrong-headed economic philosophies, removed any profit incentives to encourage better agricultural practices-while at the same time amassing a huge weapons stockpile in order to...
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A married friend (and ex-girlfriend from high school) says she is having romantic dreams about me; regrets getting married. What to do?
Run.
Hanging around will make her marriage miserable for both of them, and you might as well digest this: her husband's happiness takes precedence over your own, where she is concerned.
The best thing you could do, if you actually care about this woman, is to assure her that you'll not play any role in the breakup of her marriage. It's bad form and it's immoral.
If she made a bad choice,there's...
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Should women look after their man?
I have three cubicle mates. We often work on the same projects together, share the same concerns and sometimes even share likes/dislikes. We're all guys who like girls so I'll stop right there...okay?
The point is, people can share a pragmatic, working relationship without really caring for one another in that deep "I wanna make your life the best it can be" sort of way.
True, as LadyS has...
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How do you think my mom would react?
It sounds like your close male friend won't be welcome in the house!
Your sister's track record bears your mother out, by the way. I know you probabaly don't like hearing that, but it's true.
If you really want to:
A) Keep seeing the guy in the way that your mother (seems to) approve...
and
B) Have your parents' blessing in a future, complete, MAN and WOMAN (rather than boy and girl)...
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Did Tiger Woods deserve to be beaten by his wife (if it really happened)?
It's not that we wouldn't understand her wanting to clobber him, but if it's wrong for a man to react that way if his wife is a philanderer, then it's wrong for a woman. Any lesser standard of behaviour for her is a blatant contradiction of the (stated) objectives of feminism.
No double standards please.
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As a parent or teen, at what age do you think a child should be able to have a boyfriend/girlfriend?
When they're old enough to be on their own, to shovel their own way out of the mess they make with their super-charged hormones.
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In your family who stays home and who works? Mom or Dad?
She stays home.
I go out.
WE BOTH WORK.
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Is it really possible to be truly moderate or is that just a ruse people use to get elected and then their "true colors" come out?
Actually, I find that most political candidates are outspokenly polar, while most political officeholders are sickening moderate- and where has that gotten us?
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Have you ever had a long-standing relationship undermined by someone? Was it ever restored or did you just have to walk away from it?
No, but there have been times where I had to head this sort of thing off.
Is it always worth it to make an effort? Are we always entitled?
I think that depends on the relationship.
The only one for which I have fought vigorously is my marriage. I believe a spouse is absolutely entitled, if not OBLIGED, to put up a spirited fight.
In one case, a (male) co-worker of hers was constantly...
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So. . . . . . .just how much force . . . .IS. . . . 16,000 PSI?
The force equals the pressure (16,000 pounds, in this case) multiplied by the surface area-
One square inch would equal 16,000 lbs of force; Two square inches would equal 32,000 lbs, and so on.
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Why do men get nasty in their old age? Is it that they can't perform sexually anymore? What is it?
Actually, Catherine, the drop in testosterone not only makes him sexually unable, but it also affects his mood. He'll be nasty, much like a woman can sometimes be as she navigates the dark tunnel of menopause.
The difference for the older man?
There is no "passing through" this tunnel for him. It just gets darker and darker.
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since all mainstream media does is manipulate and spin information to fit their agenda, why aren't more people boycotting these stations?
Because the spin and manipulation works very well!
We have to face facts: The truth of most matters is very ugly and it takes years of patient learning-dealing with unpleasantness that we are usually powerless to address- to actually be conversant in the truth.
It's never neat and clean. Often, there are no "good guys" and "bad guys"- at best, just self serving pragmatists who are out for...
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Men: what kind of wife would you rather have? (poll)
I didn't vote, mainly because of the two choices, which you seem to have worded in an attempt to describe mutually exclusive traits.
Why would an "obedient" wife (more on that later) not necessarily be energetic and creative?
Frankly, I'll take one of each please-wrapped up in the same woman, of course.
"Obedient"?
I haven't read your profile (maybe I should), but if you're like many of the...
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I want a larger and stronger erection, but I don't want to take pills... any natural solutions?
Eat lots of SPAM.
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What\'s the fascination in bagging an older woman?
Funny how some feel the guys are all trying to "bag" an older woman, and others feel we're all hunting in the high school parking lot.
By the way, how old is "old"?
19? 91?
Someone old enough to drive?
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Why are some men attracted to anorexic women? Why can't we all be attracted to normal, curvy, size 12 women?
Why are some men attracted to other men?
Why do some women pretend to be men and say that sex is dirty disgusting and dangerous?
Go figure.
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Guys: What is it about a girl peeing that so excites you?
It means that once we finally get out of the house, she won't be asking to stop at a grocery store (they have the cleanest bathrooms) so she can relieve herself.
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Government does not operate in vaccum but most operate within the confines of a certain ingredient.Discuss.I please need a honest anwser.
The questioner needs to be aware that the answer is based on the (faulty) premise of government actually behaving as it should.
Indeed, government should not operate in a vacuum. The confining ingredient is the rule of law.
If the US government actually obeyed the Constitution, then it would be very difficult to say that it operates in a vacuum.
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my boy friend is really athletic but acts all sweet to me and know one but me whats your commets on that
What correlation is there between athleticism and a sweet disposition?
Without knowing what you REALLY meant by your question, all I can say is this:
Even the fiercest warrior has someone with whom he'll be tender. Be glad you're that special to him.
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Why do American students not learn a foreign lanquage in elementary school like most other countries?
Simple- it's about business and geography. It's not about pride, arrogance or ignorance.
I already saw several good answers addressing the "business" aspect of it, so I'll speak to "geography".
The United States is a big place.
One can drive for days and expect English to be spoken wherever he/she goes, whether you end up in the United States, Canada, and much of Mexico.
Europeans need only go...
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why do men pee infront of girls
Other than seeing a drunk whiz on the hood of a woman's car in a traffic jam, I can't say I've ever known of a guy to deliberately pee in front of a woman.
Well, I must admit that I do it, but she does it in front me too, so we're even.
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Guys - Are you intimidated by smart women?
I never administered an IQ test to any girl for which I had an interest, but if she turned out to be a real dingbat, I'd lose my patience with that really quick.
"No sweetie, you hold the OTHER end of the fork...how 'bout a hamburger?"
My wife is a very smart woman, and I have great comfort in knowing that I have such a capable partner. I haven't figured out what she ever sees in me.
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guys only would you rather have a girl that...
All of the above.
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Would I ruin my life if I got married at 18?
It's too early.
It's not that you haven't found the love of your life-perhaps you have. It's simply this: There are enormous financial pressures (mainly) that are overwhelming (married) people much older than eighteen.
That's tough on a marriage, and you may wind up hurting yourself and your chances of having a nice life-with the very same person- by trying to do too much, too soon.
So, out of...
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Guys: is it normal for a mature man (35 and over) to have sexual fantasies about teens under 15 (like 10-15 yrs?)
I do it all of the time!
Of course, I'm remembering girls that were 15 when I was 15, and even then, I realize that it was just a silly fantasy, even back then.
Three of my four daughters are eighteen or older, and my youngest is more than ten. It fully gives me the creeps to think of someone that young in a sexual context.
Once the "deed" was done (and I didn't get arrested or shot by her...
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What illness you had that you hated the most?
First of all, I think I've been blessed where my health is concerned, but...
I have had sarcoidosis for the last six years ('04 was when I was diagnosed).
It is in my lungs and it hurts when I take a deep breath. It is in my spleen, where it sometimes does not bother me at all, sometimes it is a very "full" feeling, and sometimes it is quite painful.
It is in my eyes, and they often burn and...
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Is there anything anyone would like to aske me before I wave goodbye?
Pick up some milk on your way home...
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Do you think military wives, at least those of officers and NCOs, should be fitted with chastity belts while their husbands are away?
I've seen, with my own eyes, the wives of submariners hitting the town, getting laid and so forth when hubby has only been gone a week!
So, the question may be a bit silly and suggest something archaic, but the questioner has a point.
There are a few factors not always considered; among them is this: The woman doesn't love her husband, never did and never will. Often, military men (especially...
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Do you think wives should be required by law to sit by the window, looking dumpy and pining away while their husbands are away?
Nope, they should get dolled up, hit the town and be huntin' for a man.
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Men: Do women really hold out on sex often? I don't, and I am told that's rare, but I can't imagine that most women use sex as a tool to get what they want, or just don't have it at all.
How many women "hold out on sex"?
Many say they never do that, but it's clinically and academically proven that a woman's sex drive is full of peaks and valleys, and a peak can dip to a valley if the emotional situation isn't to her liking.
Why did I bother to say that?
Doesn't it stand to reason that the feeling of self-denial (as if to admit that she's missing out too) would be lessened, or...
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Do “college educated” women and women in general use sex more often than men for their career development and advancement?
By the term "use sex", I take that to mean actually offering and engaging in sex with superiors, which I don't think really happens that often.
If the term was intended to mean the use of "sexuality"-ie, the way she dresses, acts and interacts; yes, that happens more often but there are two (at least) things to remember.
First, she's gotta have it to flaunt it. Many women are not blessed with...
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what is the best gear ratio to run in the differential of a car that will be just a high performance street car.
Anywhere in the 3.5 to 3.9 range should be good.
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What do you think about the Southern Poverty Law Center demonizing the 9/11 truth movement by grouping them alongside nazi and white
The Southern Poverty Law Center is nothing but a bunch of political hacks who've cleverly included the word "law" into their name.
So what are they?
They're nothing more than another political advocacy group. They happen to be in favor of big government, free condoms (if you want 'em) and free lunch for the kids you make (if you pass on the condoms).
Anyone who disagrees with them is "hateful"-...
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Feminism in general and women’s studies programs and courses specifically are often critiqued because they are deemed “political.”
Women's studies programs ARE political (rather than objective) in nature, so the criticisms are well founded.
Now, if such programs were dedicated to "gender issues", with the specific goal of strengthening the bridge of understanding between men and women-rather than widening the gulf, which is what actually happens- then the criticisms would be less deserved.
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what are some of the weaknesses of American democracy?
Democracy itself is a weakness, which is why the founders established the nation as a representative republic.
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if a man at the gym often tries to talk to you but u catch him looking at you does he like you or is he just being nice
He's tries to talk to you AND you've caught him checking you out and you're wondering if he's just being nice?
We're nice to people to whom we MUST speak; When it comes to the ladies, we only check out the women who we hope will speak to us.
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I love her, she loves me. Me and her hope it would be forever, but im afraid it wouldn't be. I want it to be like this, help me!
It isn't going to just HAPPEN by itself.
When you hear that a relationship is hard work, you're hearing the truth; You want to keep it like it is?
Don't do it.
Strive to make it BETTER every day. Some days you'll strike out, other days you'll hit a home run-be ready for that.
Just make sure you both know you're in the game, and you're pushing to make it better, instead of settling for keeping...
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Plymouth Superbird or Denny's Superbird?
Plymouth...with a Hemi!
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The GOP's strategy of making elections about HCR seems to have failed in FL. Should the GOP focus on HCR repeal in the fall elections?
Making HCR repeal a platform issue is bound to be political suicide in a place like Florida, so I wouldn't necessarily consider what happens there to be a harbinger of things to come elsewhere in the US.
However, people being what they are,they'll get used to an idea such as HCR (even if it's fundamentally bad) by trying to look on the bright side. Furthermore, the real impact to individuals,...
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Women, if you are/were taller and stronger than your boyfriend or husband, how do/would you control him?
Who says they have to be taller and/or stronger?
I'll take three guesses.
The first is a three letter word that begins with............"S"
The second is three letter word whose middle letter is "E"
The third is a three letter word whose last letter is......."X"
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Why do so many people think "liberals" will take their guns when the largest gun control bill ever came from a republican Brady after the assassination attempt of a republican president, Reagan?
The Brady Bill may have been named for the morbidly wounded staffer of Ronald Reagan, but it's still a liberal initiative.
Did the OQ notice that the Brady Bill never got any traction until a liberal president (Clinton) took office?
The reason people are more concerned with the loss of 2nd Amendment freedoms when liberals are in power is that liberals OPENLY TALK about how to get around the 2nd...
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when the people vote republican or something like that will the world end because of it? an what does republican mean?
Let's see here.
For the last twenty years or so, Republicans have had strong influence in national government-holding the White House AND a majority in both houses of Congress for certain periods during that time.
Yet we're still here to remember it all.
Certainly we should remember that the Republicans didn't do everything they said they would-or even the things we wished they would, but I...
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How are vouchers and charter schools constitutional?
Vouchers are only more constitutional than the public school system, which is totally UNconstitutional.
The more constitutional thing to do would be to allow parents to keep their money in the first place, making vouchers needless.
I'm not actually familiar with how charter schools are funded, but I suspect it's some sort of melding of public money with private money.
If that's the case, it's...
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Are people who think that rape is a victim´s fault usually conservative? I consider myself conservative and this shocks me.
I think you're confusing the idea of separating the true victims from those who make false allegations with "blaming the victim".
I think anyone who is remotely aware of the scores of different ways that one can be accused of rape these days has to be a bit skeptical.
Due to the fact that sexual contact, whether it's being called "rape" or not, is usually of a very private nature-there is...
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Should the US and its NATO/UN allies try to purchase old Russian/Soviet military hardware to prevent its falling into the wrong hands? Keep in mind, a Juliet-class guided missile submarine sold for $200,000 in the 90s...
Falling into the wrong hands...
hmmm...
Driving an explosives laden dump truck into a building and competently operating a nuclear submarine are two entirely different things.
I understand the concern, but we've got bigger problems on our hands.
Honestly, if we want to rid ourselves of terrorists, then maybe we should BUY a few nuclear submarines for them. We could just hand them the...
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A potentially dumb question here, but what's the difference between NATO and the UN?
NATO is a military alliance,meant to defend the member nations, and ONLY the member nations, from attack- primarily by what was known as the Warsaw Pact nations (Soviet Union and her satellite states).
UN is ostensibly a global peacekeeping entity, even though they enlist military help from member nations.
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Is it ok for a 18 year old female to date a 14 almost 15 year old male. The male has given consent to the relationship.
A 14 or 15 year old, of either gender, cannot legally give consent, so unless this "dating" experience excludes any possibility of sex, then no, you can't do it.
And.....
even if there IS no sex, people talk.
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Are Americans hopelessly sucked in by vacuous pablum? All form and no content? Passing by the Nobel prize winner for Britney?
The Nobel prize winner and Britney are about equal in gravity, IMO.
Truth be told, most of us knew who Britney was long before we ever HEARD of our Nobel prize winning president.
Our obsession with dingalings like Britney allowed decievers like the Nobel prize winner to assume positions of power.
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Do you think it's right that a person can be charge for bullying someone who winds up committing suicide?
I was bullied myself when a teenager.
I never thought of taking my own life, but things were different then.
There was no internet, no Facebook- none of that stuff.
I know my own daughters participate in Facebook, and sometimes they get quite upset at what is said there.
Now, assuming that this poll/question was prompted by hearing of the Phoebe Prince suicide, I can imagine that being the...
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What does it mean when a guy kisses you on the forehead?
I kiss my wife on the forehead when one of us has a cold....
She's about a foot shorter than I, so at certain times her forehead is as low as I can go!
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How long were Mary and Joseph married prior to the conception of Jesus? And why didn't they consummate their marriage?
Mary and Joseph were in a legal arrangement known as betrothal.
Betrothal was a binding agreement, which usually lasted a year or so for those who were young/never married, and significantly less for those older or widowed.
If they had consummated during the betrothal?; They took a dim view of that sort of thing back then.
And...
no one would ever have heard of them, since her child could...
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After you have been married for a long time do you still get a warm feeling inside when you think of your partner, or does that wear off over the years?
26 years.
Warmer than ever.
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Is this rape??
That guy is playing wih fire.
If she says "no", it's time to get dressed and head home.
She can accuse him of rape even if she eventually says "yes", believe it or not.
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Why do people get all butthurt when another person's ideas go against their own?
Butthurt?
There's a new one.
Many people need affirmation in what they believe, from as many people as possible. It's like a lifeline, or oxygen.
As a Christian, I'll argue 'til the cows come home where something is important to me, even to the point of asking myself why I bother; I may inadvertently deny someone the affirmation they crave, but as for myself?:
I'm used to being disagreed with,...
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Do you avoid asking questions if you fear the answers will make you unhappy or do you ask away and let the chips fall where they may?
It depends.
If there is nothing I can do as a result of having the answer, and all the answer will do is make me miserable, then I don't bother asking.
If, however, I anticipate being able to make a change, and/or help the one I'm asking to make a change that will bring about more satisfaction and happiness, then I certainly will risk temporary unhappiness.
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If you were beheaded & your rolling head has 2 remaining minutes to talk, what would you say to the people watching your execution?
"I'll be back"
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Is it a disgrace to have a former Nazi as head of a church?
Is it a disgrace for a former persecutor/killer of Christians, named Saul, to become an Apostle (Paul)?
I think the word "former" (rather than "Nazi") is quite important here; don't you?
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Was wondering is it considered adultery if your wife sends nude pics of herself to other men.
Jesus Christ said that if a man looks lustfully at a woman then he has already committed adultery with her in his heart.
If that lustful emotion was what she was shooting for, then I suppose that she,in turn, is guilty of adultery in her heart.
Now if you're only interested in the "concrete" answer: Technically, it's not adultery, but she's obviously two flicks away from it.
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If an older woman chasing a younger man is called a "cougar" and a young girl chasing an older guy is a "hampster". What are the male equilavent to these names?
The man chasing the younger woman is called a "dirty old man". The young man chasing the older woman is usually chasing her for a paycheck, and he's called a gigolo.
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What's the male equivalent of a good time girl called?
Bill Clinton
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Orin Hatch says we cannot allow the government to tell us what we can and cannot buy. Do you agree?
I actually agree with him, to a point.
Where I disagree (maybe)?
In many states, to hold a driver's license or keep a vehicle registered, one must maintain proof of financial responsibility. Usually, people do that by getting car insurance. Other (rich) folks can satisfy the demand by proving that they hold, in escrow, a sufficient amount of money to pay damages in th event of an accident.
It...
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Are you content with the current two-party system of government? Would you like more than Independent as a viable third-party choice?
You do have more than "Independent" as a choice.
They become "viable" one voter at a time, so vote with your conscience, for the right person for the job, instead of the one who offends you the least but can win.
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Does Talmud encourage pedophilia? Does it permit sex and marriage with 3-year-old girls
I'm probably going to incur alot of anger here, but...
I've heard that it actually does permit such things.
A quick Google search indicates that there is some validity to the question.
The Talmud is a HUGE, multi-volume work, and most available copies are written in Hebrew; such entries would be kept quite obscure, for obvious reasons.
Of course, and this is very important to remember,...
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Ladies, asked my hubby if he would be scared to undergo a c-section? See my description for his response.
He shouldn't have said that he doesn't worry about it because he doesn't have to go through it.
You have to admit though, the question is a little baked. There is no equivalent operation for a guy, so you probably caught him way off guard asking him if he would be scared of having a C-section!
He didn't answer very well, to be sure, but there's no sense in stewing about it yourself.Cut him some...
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What causes an acryic headlight to turn cloudy?
Heat, damage from the sun and wind etc.
You can sand and polish those until clear again. Products (in kit form) are available in auto parts stores for this.
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What would you tell a girl who let religion (Mormonism) get in the way of her strong love for someone?
I'm not Mormon, but I can tell you that ignoring religion when considering a partner is a bad idea.
As much as it may hurt, she's doing the right thing by letting her religion "get in the way" if religion means that much to her.
Religion is part of who we are.
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Seems to be bad blood between Tea Party members and the conservative wing of the GOP. Does anyone know why? Aren't they on the same side?
The Tea Party, started in conjunction with the Ron Paul campaign, correctly sees the screwing that both major parties have been giving the American people.
Now, the Republican Party, eager to gain traction after their stunning, and well deserved(for allowing GWB to trash the Constitution) loss, is attempting to climb on the Tea Party bandwagon, grab the reigns and steer it right into the muck...
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I am a 15 yr. Old male, Ive only seen other penis in porn and in the lockeroom, I was wondering if my penis compares to other guys my age
Don't obsess over it!
You'll only make yourself miserable and weird (I mean that in the most helpful way).
The modern demand, among women, that a man produce a huge penis or you're toast give you the ability to see who the mean-spirited, nasty broads really are.
They try to compare that with guys sizing up a woman's chest, but let's get real here: A woman's chest is something that can be...
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My husband and I have been together 5 years now. I gave my virginity to him. He had been sexually involved with 7 other people. I know all of the logical reasons why it shouldn't matter, but it still hurts. I know that I need to just "get over it" but how
You didn't get to pick who you fell in love with did you?
For that matter, neither did he.
Do you ever wonder how many people, men or women, actually marry virgins anymore?
Sure, it's the ideal-it's really the way things should be- but I think you realize that it's rare.
I was a virgin when I met my wife. Funny thing was, I never expected to get a virgin, I never thought of myself as "rating"...
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What did Jesus mean from this straightforward statement?
Jesus was speaking to Jews when he said this; Jews were resistant to Jesus because they thought that to heed Jesus' teaching was to be in violation of their monotheistic belief.
The point of Him saying "this isn't something I made up" was to emphasize the true alignment of His teaching with the monotheism of Moses.
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If you woke up in the middle of the night sexually aroused & a stranger was in the room, would you go for it & forget all your morals?
"go for it"?
Only if "it" was a telephone or a gun....
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Why do men live on the down low when they have a wife? Where is their conscience? How sick and twisted is that?
What do you mean by "live on the down low"?
I'll assume that you're talking about a guy who cheats.
I'll also assume you're looking for "reasons" rather than "excuses", because there really isn't an excuse.
Reasons:
Is she a demanding nag?
Does she deny him sex at every turn?
Does she deny him any sort of affection at all?
Does she not give him the time of day, preferring her friends or...
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How would you fill an old bulldozer tire in order add an additional 200 lbs, for a strongman tire flipping contest?
Bulldozers don't have tires.
Without knowing how big the tractor tire actually is, it's hard to say what would add 200 lbs.
Some tractor tires are filled with calcium for extra traction.
I suppose you could make a mud slurry, cut a hole in the tire sidewall big enough to pour in the mud and then fasten a patch over the hole, but if the tire is of any real size, that'll add alot more than 200...
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A little story and a message from us women to all you men out there. Ladies and gentlemen, what do you think? haha (see answer)
And THAT, ladies, is why we're so afraid of long walks by the water.
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Ladies: Would you eat you own afterbirth? Men: How would you feel if your wife wanted to do this?
Whose afterbirth is it really?
The child's or the mother's?
Long before they were making uterine smoothies, certain cultures used afterbirth to make soup in order to celebrate the arrival of the child;
that way, you could watch your mother-in-law eat the stuff.
That's gotta be better than watching the woman to whom you give open mouth kisses eating the stuff.
Uhhh...Mom, you've got something...
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Men, does your wife make you feel wanted?
Do you mean "wanted" like the guys pictured in the Post Office, or "wanted" in the affectionate/sexual sense?
The answer is "yes"...sometimes in both senses :D
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If Adam and Eve believed that the Magic Learning Fruit turned them into Gods, why didn't they stand up to God at first?
They didn't believe that the fruit would turn them into Gods.
They believed Satan, as he lied, telling them that God would somehow FEAR them once they ate of the fruit-further reassuring Eve that "thou shalt not SURELY die" if she ate. That's trickery, in that even Satan didn't say she WOULDN'T die or WHEN if she ate, or what LIVING would be like, for that matter.
What God had said about the...
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MY ONE YEAR OLD GIRLS KITTY JUS DIED TO DAY. KITTY HER BELOVED. IT'S A BIG ROT. RIPED KITTY APART. CAN I PRESS CHARGES ON DEVIL DOG OWNER
Is there a leash law in your community?
If so, then the dog wasn't under the control of the owner, and you may file a complaint.
Honestly, it's probably not worth getting a lawyer, but you may be able to sue the dog owner in small claims court-especially if they were in violation of any leash law.
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If you image google your real name, does a picture of the real you show up?
No.
I Googled a mugshot of a guy who looks like he got thrown down a flight of stairs, put my name on it and posted it online for Classmates.
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My dad chose his wife over his own kid
You're probably not going to like my answer, but please understand something: We're only getting your side of the story.
Here's a truth. How well it applies to you is something you'll have to judge-again and again.
First of all, when it comes to my wife (who happens to be the mother of my children), I chose her first.
Hopefully, she'll be next to me after they're on their own, and in the...
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Is the saying that man is the household head still true today or both husband and wife are equal?
Is the man the head of the household?
Not usually.
Husband and wife equal?
Impossible.
More than fifty percent of the time, one will win out over the other, so anyone telling you that it's a fifty/fifty deal is living in a dream world.
Back a hundred years ago, it was assumed that the man was king of the castle, so any "power" struggles that ensued began on that premise. Usually, the husband...
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What is worse tyranny or oligarchy?
Tyranny can be arrived at by any system of government or social order. Some are less susceptible, of course, but even in a democratic republic such as the US, it can and is slowly happening, mainly because the electorate has their collective head in the sand.
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What makes a transmission slip?(other than a control module)
Well...
could be low fluid level, improper fluid,
or worn out clutches/bands, which often leads to embrittled clutch/hydraulic servo seals.
Could be an internal hydraulic leak, a worn pump, a weak pressure control spring...
maybe even a worn out torque converter
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what are your views on arranged marriages?
Aren't all marriages "arranged" by someone?
I understand that you're referring to marriages arranged by somone other than the couple.
Frankly, the way so many "Western culture" marriages end up, I don't feel as if we have alot of business throwing rocks at those marriages where the parents pick the partners, although I'm eternally grateful that my mother didn't get to pick my wife!
To be...
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Christians spouses only: Is "sex" a dirty word in your marriage? Do you/your spouse have reservations about sex with each other? Why?
No problems here.
There have been some excellent answers (for which I must give some "likes"), especially where the subject of "withholding" and/or "defaulting" is brought in.
Sure, it seems as if the Apostle had defaulting in the sex department in mind when he wrote 1 Corinthians 7, owing to the context; but defaulting in the other areas is just as unwise/wrong.
One lady, "gardengirl" made...
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Why do feminists call everything they don't like rape? i.e. Play boy's are "eye rape"
If we accept the assertion that rape is about power, rather than sex, then wouldn't it follow that anything that counters rape also constitutes power?
If that is so (and I believe it is), then it also follows that expanding the definition of "rape" also adds power.
If that, in turn, is so(and I believe it is) then the fear ,in a thoughtful man, of a false rape accusation is also power to the...
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Question for good, loving, dedicated husbands: Do you ever feel like the "other men" look down on you for your moral choices?
It's difficult to "look down" on someone when your vantage point happens to be in the gutter.
Frankly, I don't care what they think; I'll have what they want when they're old and creepy and no woman of any age wants them.
For the record, however:
I am not pussywhipped (at least as much credit to Mrs for that)
I am not a wimp.
Fag?
Let them DARE say that to my face.
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How do i stop a wife from cheating in our own bedroom?
What the heck; hide in the closet and then stick a shotgun up his rectum in the midst of the act. Since you've no intention of pulling the trigger, an ice cold steel pipe will work just as well, providing you can simulate the sound of a pump action shotgun.
You can lube it a bit with some K-Y, since you're not really going for physical harm.
Be ready to remove it quickly, since you don't want...
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What can a nice man like me do to turn you ladies on?
Why do you want to turn them "on" at all?
Don't you actually believe they don't like being turned on?
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Have you done anything to control global warming?
Yes.
I cease exhaling twenty times per minute.
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Men: Why is it that men are attracted to thin/slender women such as models or celebrities? If you are or aren't, please explain.
Generalizing a bit aren't you?
There was a question going about a while back about why men like breasts. Who knows? When we can nail down why people have favorite colors then we can tackle the breast issue.
To your question:
Is some of it cultural encouragement? I believe you could make a case for that, but you'll always find a guy who has had minimal cultural influence, and nothing else...
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Men, do you prefer to take the initiative to approach a woman or the other way around?
I'm quite a traditional guy, but I've never understood the stigma associated with a woman initiating a relationship.
There are those of the traditional ilk who feel that a woman who "starts it" will naturally not allow the man any leadership in the relationship, but I've always wondered how these same folks feel about the relationship they have with an employer.
Most of us have to approach the...
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How come all the good women are married?
Simple!
They're good women.
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Will Earth be a much more peaceful and happy place after the Rapture since all the Christian fundamentalist will be gone?
Silly question.
There will be no pretribulational "rapture"-no secretive whisking away of the Christians (fundamentalists or not) just before the really bad stuff starts happening.
Nope; we're stuck with each other until the bitter end.
Hate to break it to both sides of the argument, but that's how it will be.
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What does it mean if you find a skull on your lawn
Since the species of the specimen was not specified, I'll guess you ran over a chipmunk with a lawnmower.
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What helps the earth continue to go around the sun.
Here's one no one will "like":
How can anyone be sure that the earth is going around the sun?
It might be the other way around, for all we really know.
Anyone wanting to dispute this needs to find a known, fixed point of reference to be sure, and to date, there is no known, fixed point of reference.
Heleocentric theory is just that.
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Have you quit beating your wife?
I can beat her at basketball, football or any contact sport ("tackling" is fun), she always beat me at thumb wrestling though.
Really embarassing.
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how can a ugly guy get a sexy girl
Tiger Woods knows the answer to this one...
Having a really big bank account will probably help.
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My family just buried me grandmother and my sister is in town. My cousins want us to get together with them tonight. My boyfriend is furious and is threatening to go out if I'm not with him. Is he wrong?
His "threat" to "go out" is a component of abuse?
Furious? He shouldn't be furious; I'll agree with that.
If his "going out" (to do what, or with whom?) is a threat to you, then it's possible that you're as controlling as he is.
Is he supposed to sit home and loyally pine away for your company? Is that the only satisfactory response he can produce?
It certainly sounds as if the control...
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I hate being single, but i also hate women BECAUSE i am single. How do i resolve this issue? (Shrinks dont seem to work).
It's no secret that women are pretty good "people readers", and this self proclaimed hatred is easy to see even if you hadn't talked about it openly.
I've heard it said, and I'm inclined to agree, that when one party offends another, it is often the OFFENDED who becomes a bigger problem to him/herself and those around them.
You've got to admit that HATING women is wrong, even if some of them...
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When you are angry at your spouse or s/o, who is the worst person to talk to about it?
It depends on what you're angry ABOUT.
If you're angry because he/she is a slob around the house, is selfish in the sack, or some other thing that most people can handle without becoming abusive or even homicidal, then talking to him/her is the best way.
If it's something that has you angry to the point of possible violence, or some other thing that could cause permanent damage, then talking...
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Men, do you look at your wife differently after she becomes a mom? Is she just as attractive to you before she gave birth?
More or less the same.
That's the way you have to do it!
Believe me, she can tell if you're looking at her differently, and from the "vibes" I'm getting in the question, it seems as if this change in perspective is one for the worse.
I have four kids. Frankly, I was always relieved to see her body returning to "normal" after 9 months of continual expansion.
I never had a problem of not...
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Do you commute to work by bike? If not, why?
Ride a bike to work.
I'd actually enjoy that ,weather permitting. Biggest problem is that my commute is over forty miles one way, and I'm required to be at work before dawn.
I know that some folks believe everyone should live within five miles of the workplace, but in this constantly changing workplace/economy, who can predict where they'll be working?
This is not to mention the important...
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If you accidentally kill the attacker while acting out in self defense, how long do you get locked up? I heard 10-20 years before?
If your actions are found to be truly in self-defense, then you won't be locked up at all.
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My boyfriend is dying from lung cancer and we are getting married. What does the world think of a woman who marries her dying partner?
I think more of you than if you dumped him!
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My boyfriend wishes to wait until marriage to have sex. That's fine, but he qualifies everything involving bellow waist as sex (i.e. no fondling down there, oral, etc.) I'm a little bummed. What should I do? (2009-11-22)
I once heard a psychologist liken a newly formed male/female relationship to a car resting atop a hill-with no brakes.
Continuing his analogy:once the couple initiates physical contact-something as innocent as holding hands- it's as if the car is pushed off the crest of the hill and begins hurtling, at increasing speed, toward whatever waits at the bottom of the hill- intercourse in the case...
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Are men on a "marriage strike"?
The word "strike" implies the sort of organized effort usually associated with labor unions.
Men, where gender related issues are concerned, just are not well enough organized to orchestrate a "strike", be it against marriage, Valentine's Day or any other thing.
However, the OQ used the word to decribe a reluctance to marry.
In that sense, they are on strike.
That's not the whole embodiment...
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Why are marriage laws so unfair to men? When will this resolve itself? I don't plan to ever marry under today's misandry laws.
Hey,
I find kind of weird that you, the cuddly chocolate buyer, are asking this question.
I also find it quite telling that in spite of your " I don't want sex from you ladies" pronouncement, the women who've responded so far haven't made any note of your attempt to tell them what you think they want to hear.
You aren't going to figure them out, at least not completely, so save yourself some...
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Do we still need affirmative action?
Affirmative Action was never intended to drone on in perpetuity. It was supposed to give the disadvantaged a "jump start" at a time when overwhelming bigotry existed in many areas of the US- so bad that blacks, in the main, faced a future not unlike the serfs in the Middle Ages.
Affirmative Action has done all it can do; that much should be obvious, since two generations have come of age since...
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Which organ do you find to be more repulsive, the penis or the vagina and why? State your age, gender and sexual orientation.
God made every part of us.
None of it is repulsive, except for the nasty attitude.
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Is it too late for me to learn how to meet women ?
Hey old fella!
19 and you still don't get it, huh?
I never thought of myself as smooth with women either, but sooner or later, the one who is actually programmed to put up with you will be in front of you.
From what you've said about yourself, it sounds as if you talk too much, to be quite honest.
Women usually like to talk, so maybe you should simply show your interest and let the lady...
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Do you consider a sexless or celibate marriage to be deeper, more loving, spiritual, healthy, etc? I most certainly do!
If you consider(as I do) a marriage to be like a three-legged stool, with the legs being finances and homemaking, spirituality or activism, and intimacy, then you'll see that removing any of the legs makes occupying the stool all the more challenging.
Specifically to the question:
There are times, even in the best relationships, where sex is the last conduit of love still intact. Foregoing...
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Can men occupy their time easier than a woman can, when they want to take their mind off something?
No.
A man may not be consumed with anxiety over something that really bothers a woman, and vice versa, but once a thing has sunken in and begins to bother any of us, the challenge to lay it aside, "act normal" or "get your mind off of it" is just as great for either gender.
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What do guys think of dark brown hair (almost black) and blue/green eyes?
As long as the hair isn't growing out of her face, I'm sure it's quite pleasing.
What do women think of a green, hairy face, a black unibrow and buggy eyes?
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Why are Virtually ALL Average to Attractive Women Shallow?
Honest replies. No sugar-coating. Reveal Thy True Nature.
I actually have to take certain issue with the assertion that "virtually all" average to attractive women are shallow.
In your use of the word "average", if I understand it to mean at least the middle third of all women, in terms of physical attractiveness, you got to be saying that virtually one third of women (not even including the knock-outs or the ugly-but-delusional) are shallow.
I...
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Do you think an obese person should have to buy two seats on an airplane if they cannot fit into one? Any other ideas?
There is one thing to consider besides the offended, oversized human: The normal sized human wedged into the seat beside him/her.
If the "biggie" doesn't have to pay for two, then the airline will surely sell the adjacent seat to someone else.
Now, we could ask "why should the obese face this discrimination?" or "why shouldn't the airline be required to give them a two-for-one deal?"
Yup....
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Are suvs safer to drive than cars?
SUV's are blackballed, in terms of safety, for two reasons: People think they can drive them like cars, and....when the weather is bad, they seem to think they can go faster than anyone else.
Going faster actually NEGATES the safety benefit inherent in a 4wheel drive vehicle. 4wheel drive allows one to go SLOWER and yet still make it up that slippery grade.
I've never driven an SUV in...
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Want to get my penis pierced but wife said no ... Help me.
I could ask in return "are you nuts?"...but I won't.
Here's my opinion: Your penis already is equipped with the one hole it really needs. Use it and be happy, forgetting about voluntary disfigurement.
Sure, I suppose you could pull out the offending item ,if it doesn't turn her on when inside her, when it's time for whoopie, but what if something goes wrong?
What about infection?
Is...
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I love Women but I've never had a Girlfriend. I Want a sexy beauty but seems impossible , should i just give that idea up and get anyone?
Hate to break it to you, but you've wasted a good portion of your best years wanting to gain what can be lost in an instant-physical beauty.
Sure, most of us are (lucky?) enough to see the one we love(as in spouse/partner) grow old, the years (and gravity) taking their inevitable toll, but as I've already alluded, one terrible accident can scar a pretty face, one cancer diagnosis can deform a...
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Are most Japanese women lesbian, is a big percentage of Japanese population lesbian??
I'm going to pen a completely useless answer here.
I'm no expert on Japanese culture, but the idea that most Japanese women are lesbian seems a bit far fetched. You asked another question, stating that the figure was 80%.
I find that hard to believe.
I've always held the notion that Japanese women were the submissive, do for your man type. I guess I need to crawl out from under that stump...
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Why do some men buy flowers and gifts, but some don't do that at all?
This may sound like a complete cop-out, but if I am any example, guys have a terrible time knowing what to get, and the problem worsens with age.
It doesn't help that most of us LOATHE shopping, even for something WE need. I hate it so much it makes my skin crawl-I nearly have a panic attack when I'm in a store!
This Christmas shopping season has been absolutely terrible for me, what with...
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My GF is jealous about a bunch of porn movies, porn sites, random porn actresses.
"she doesn't seem to understand (your) grief and needs and all"?
I suppose that the pixelated beauties with whom your GF has to share you provide this?
"Yet I think I have a grudge against her. I dont think that I am the one to be taught stuff and nursed here"
Grudges and an unwillingness to learn are the mark of pride and immaturity.
I'll bet she is a great girl; if you're too proud...
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Can a wife be a good friend? Any personal experience?
My wife is my best friend of either gender, no question about it.
She's seen me at my ugliest and she still sticks around-never had another friend like that.
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do you think being "captain of the ship" should require tremendous responsibilty? Or should it be all authority and no responsibilty?
This reminds me of one Honeymooners episode where the landlord had kicked Ralph and Alice out of their apartment.
"This is war Alice"..."and you're the Private"..."I'm the General".
It's getting cliched, so I'll keep my answer really short. Authority and responsibility are inseparable, whether a person is literally the Captain of a ship or the head of a family.
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What would you do ladies if you were engaged & fiance your wanted you to sign a prenup,& in the prenup it states that you MUST weight 130 lbs or less and if you get pregnant you have a certain amount of time to lose the weight?What would you do?Honestly?
The way the courts seem to favor women in divorce settlements, I wouldn't blame a guy for wanting a prenup for his or his extended family's financial protection. I wouldn't blame a woman in the same situation either, to be fair.
When the terms of the prenup include stuff about weight and appearance?
Ever hear of "catch and release"?
Throw him back and keep fishing.
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My wife is very pissed off that I am on AB and have made friends and have emailed one of them, privately for some advice (a girl). She read all of my questions,etc and feels very uncomfortable with me . She will, I am sure, be reading this. What to do?
It doesn't surprise me that she's upset if you're being that pro-active in having a female confidant other than her.
You're skating on thin ice, whether that's your intention or not.
Not long after I began posting on A'bag, some woman e-mailed me, asking to meet me for sex.
I had no idea who it was; maybe A'bag had nothing to do with it, but I was at least able to truthfully assure her that...
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What does it mean when a man refers to his partner as "the wife" instead of "my wife"?
I think it's sort of careless to refer to someone you supposedly love that way, so I don't do it, but I'm not sure there's always malice or even real disregard in the guys who do, any more than when women refer to their husband as "the old man".
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What does it mean if your husband jumps over you on his way to bed instead of going around to his own side?
We used to have a bed frame on which I used to stub my pinky toe all of the time, so I usually would climb over Mrs on the way to the pillow; I might even grab a feel on the way over, just to see if she was game....
(Usually worked too)
I never jumped over her really-at least not on the way in.
Jumped over her on the way out, no feel or nuthin', because I had to puke.
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I would love to get married...but geez! Im scared to death! Most people seem to be very "unhappy" being married, and all I hear is how miserable it is. Anyone truly happy?
Unlike the changes to this site with which I am UNhappy, I am happy in my marriage, and I have been for a long time.
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I would love to get married...but geez! Im scared to death! Most people seem to be very "unhappy" being married, and all I hear is how miserable it is. Anyone truly happy?
Share your answer...
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CHANGE! , or bye bye to some great AB'rs , bye bye to AB sponsers,, bye bye to AB . ...agree?
Personally, I don't like it. Harder to navigate...dull graphics and so on.
I needed to spend my time in a more productive manner anyhow, so I'll not be around too much.
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What does the phrase, "Lady Driven" mean?
If this question were in the "Relationship" section, then the term would be a polite alternative to "hen pecked"....
A "lady driven" car will have the obligatory dented trunk lid from her backing into things, the rear-view mirror will be loose/wobbly because she's been wrenching it every which way while putting on her makeup,and there will be two quarts...
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CHRISTIANS True or False: 'The fact that there are so many Christian denominations and groups on earth shows a need for divine revelation of which one is right' & start your answer with a very clear and distinct "True" or "False" before you explain it.
True.
Jesus Christ prayed that His people would be one (John 17) in belief.
The Bible itself actually does provide this divine revelation; unfortunately, humans being humans, we all, in spite of the most conscienteous efforts, tend to emphasize certain aspects of God and/or doctrine at the expense of other doctrines.
Even though these doctrines actually dovetail with each other, our...
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Do all men really think they deserve a supermodel or pornobabe?
I don't think I deserve either type of woman.
I haven't been that superficial, so I don't deserve to endure having a woman who puts herself out there for all of the other guys (and apparently lots of women too) to ogle.
So the answer to the question is NO, not all of us think we deserve to be punished with the care and feeding of a supermodel or pornobabe.
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Why does it seem like some men perpetuate the dirt bag male stereotype yet turn around and say they're "different" from all the others?
Why is the male stereotype that of a "dirtbag". Who constructed the stereotype?
Having said that, I'll acknowledge the fact that there are lots of people I would call "dirtbags", and about half of them are women.
However, your question was about dirtbags that happen to be men, so, I must surmise that, at least in the case of the O.Q., there is a marked lack of...
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Does anyone have a fool-proof and safe method you use to keep critters out of your vegetable garden? I've heard of some organic products that are supposed to work, but I've not tried those yet.
We used to sponsor the local deer/rabbit population until we put up a 6 foot fence.
The top uses 2"x 4" mesh to keep the deer out, and there is chicken wire from about 18" above ground to 6" below ground for the wabbits...
Kinda ugly but it works well.
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What does it mean when a girl suddently ask 'what u up to?' when texting. She talks to me nicely. But is it sarcastic. What is she thinking?
It's just another way of saying "how ya doin'?"
It's an innocent little greeting and nothing more.
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Ehhmm...excuse me guys, but just curious in sex, which do you prefer, girl on the top or you on the top?
Mrs often takes the top at my request; the view is breathtaking for me and she likes to be able to guide the action from the upper vantage point.
So it works out well.
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Are men bothered by the task of taking care of their female mates emotional needs? When is a good time for the women to approach her man with her emotional needs?
If you're actually making a "task" out of it, then yes, it's bothersome; I actually do think that some women make a task out of it BTW.
As for the second part of your question:
Maybe it would be better to explain when NOT to approach him with your needs.
Definitely not in the sack, unless your emotional need happens to exist in the sack-and then the first approach...
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The surviving members of the Bee Gees keep throwing stones at my greenhouse & peeing on my Zucchinis. What can I do?
You certainly have a urinary theme going on in your latest questions.
You could resort to keeping the zucchinis in the greenhouse, so when the Brothers Glibb want to pee on them they'll have to pee on the greenhouse instead.
That means what?
That means you can hide a video camera somewhere in the greenhouse and get pics of the Glibbs whilst peeing.
Then you can sell the pics to the...
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I have met this great lady, but she is a bit older than me. I`m 40 & she is 71 plus she is homeless and smells of pee. What`s the best way to introduce her to my parents?
Face it dude; you only want this gal for her money.
Hose 'er down and tell Mom n' Dad that she's looking for bridge partners, unless she's too old for them too.
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What kind of woman knowingly gets involved with a high profile man who is married?
The same kind of woman who married Tiger Woods.
He may be able to swing a golf club, but let's face it: without the big bank account he isn't getting to first base with either his wife or his girlfriend.
Tiger should get a better mirror...it might have helped him realize that those bank accounts he'll soon be splitting are what landed him the doll to whom he is married.
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Why do men hate when women tell them they're "cute"? Its still a positive complement.
It depends who the woman is, but usually, if it's someone you're interested in, it isn't good news to be what a woman calls "cute".
Babies and puppies are "cute", but a woman doesn't have serious romantic thoughts about either babies or puppies.
When a woman says a man is cute, he might as well resign himself to being a source of entertainment for her,...
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Some say, "" Its better to be hated for who you are than to be loved for who you're not." Why is this? What good is that hatred?
Face it folks; no matter how loveable we may think we are - and perhaps most other people think we are - there will be a few who inexplicably hate us.
Pretending to be "someone else" is alot of work; the added bonus is that we will STILL have people who'll hate us.
If we are trying to make ourselves into something we're not, in order to pursue a romantic relationship?...
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I am a young girl that is constantly getting "checked out" by grown MEN. So to the guys out there: Do you care about how old a girl is when you are hitting on her?
I'm a grown man that was constantly getting "checked out" by my nieces.
They know me, and even if they didn't know me, I don't look younger than I am.
Now, in the process of me catching THEM looking at me in a way that really made me uncomfortable, could they have surmised, in their own immaturity, that I was checking them out?
I hope not, but I suppose it's...
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Is television bad for the family or does it bring them together? why?
It can be either, depending on how a family uses it.
If a family has a shared favorite TV show ("Monk" is a favorite with my family), then the TV is the gathering place when that show airs.
Do you share, as a family, an affinity for a certain sports franchise?
If so, gathering to watch their games on TV is a happy time, a good thing.
Certainly though, TV can be destructive,...
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Ladies....men will not ask a female out or talk to them because they are intimidated by their looks, why?
Why do most people, regardless of gender, fear to speak when the pressure is on?
When we have to speak publicly-even before a friendly group of people- we are nervous; we wish we could be anywhere else, mainly for fear of looking silly.
How many have enjoyed speaking in court, where our future well-being is at stake, knowing that the judge, well versed in the letter of the law, is listening...
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Guys, if national health care is enacted in the US, should mandatory paternity testing be part of it or not? Please give your reasons.
MANDATORY testing?
Even when the Dad is (presumably) known?
Imagine: A married woman gives birth, and her child has to be tested and, naturally, compared with her husband.
While that will certainly put an emotional strain on the husband, the stress on the woman, due to the strong possibility of any infidelity being discovered, is much greater, so this question really should be asked of...
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Men, if you thought your girls was playing mind games with you, how long would you wait before leaving her?
Wouldn't it depend on why you think she's playing mind games, or how long it's been going on?
More to the point:
If he reaches the conclusion that she's messing with his head, and there's no reason to believe it will ever change, he should cut his losses and get out promptly.
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Over the past several months it has become clear, to me anyway, that we're losing many of our rights and freedoms in this country. It's downright scary how this administration is pushing toward socialist government.
What are your thoughts on this?
I've seen much anger toward the Bush administration in the answers, and I have to agree with that anger.
I may have been more comfortable with Bush in his attitude toward the 2nd Amendment.
Unlike Obama, Bush never was quoted as saying disparaging things about gun owners, the religious and those in rural areas, implying that we suffer from mass psychosis.
Let's face it however,...
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Is it true the Illuminati or New World Order type people want to exterminate 90% of the population world-wide? How are they going to kill all these people, and how can I ensure that i'm among the 10% who get to live?
I'm not sure that the financial elites-who make up the Illuminati and the New World Order crowd- really want to kill 90% of the world's population.
That's more a fringe element of environmentalism. I will urge the reader not to hate me for saying that if you think I'm talking about people who advocate recycling or things of that nature.
Focus on those who are in...
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Hey guys! im single and looking... would you date me? (see link for pics and a brief description)
I'm green and hairy...happily married...probably old enough to be your Dad.
But if those three items were not true (well, the last two anyway), and you gave me one second of your attention, I'd be smitten.
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What is the most embarassing exam that can be done by a doctor or nurse?
The snap of the rubber glove...
Doc- "roll on your side please...relax...so...what's your golf score?"
Male patient- "I don't play golf actually..."
Doc- "are you feeling any discomfort when I do this?" (wiggles finger)
Male patient- "I hate you right at the moment"
Doc- "as long as you don't tell me you love me right...
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Could your life be a novel? By that I mean, if a story of your life was written, would it be a good book?
"I laughed-I cried...I couldn't wait to put it down!"
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Is it just in America that the "smartest" people have the lowest self-esteem?
Just in America?
I doubt that.
Smart people, and more importantly, those who have wisdom to go with their intelligence, are keenly aware of their own shortcomings.
That's not really low self-esteem; it's introspective honesty.
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Gentlemen, do you assume that women who do not find you attractive are lesbians?
No.
If they hate me passionately for being a man?
Lesbian!
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Is religion used to control people?
Sure!
People need some sort of controlling influence; and as long as you're choosing to be "religionized", then there's nothing wrong with that.
Governments control people too. Funny thing is-it's much less common to hear someone complain about being "controlled" by a force that they do not choose and cannot ignore.
But if a preacher says something you...
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If God knows all past and future, then he knows who is going to heaven or hell anyway. So why the 'free will' game?
Why the free will "game"?
It may have been said already, but the Bible was written in a way that accomodates the limitations of human intellect.No one will be saved against their will, we can say that much.
Can anyone share the mind of God? Even without any professed belief in/about God, we must wrestle with the concept of eternity(past or future), for instance.
That's...
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What did you enjoy as a child that no longer exists?
The non PC cartoons, like Bugs Bunny and the Roadrunner; even the re-runs they still show on TV are sanitized, to make them PC, to the point that they're not funny anymore.
Beyond that kind of thing?
There were things/conditions that I knew about back then- even if, not being an adult, I wasn't able to avail myself- that I wish could return:
A government more honest...
People in...
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How Many Hours of Sleep Do You Need Every Night?
Since I'm almost always tired, I guess it's more than I get (about six hours).
Actually, six hours would probably be sufficient if I was really asleep all of that time; I often just lay there awake, thinking about stuff, unable to sleep.
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Christains and other `believers` seem to be allowed to walk up to me and tell me that if I do not `believe` I will go to hell and only bring ´bad` things to this planet.
They call it freedom of speech but how is it not just pure provocation?
Pretty bold,huh?
Aside from making any assertions (here) about the factual or nonfactual nature of a statement like that, they certainly leave much to be desired by the way of tact. Yessir they do...
I wonder though; is anyone nearly that offended when, for instance, a proponent of global warming apocalypse walks up to them and tells them that if they do not share this belief and...
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What do you think...Do single moms have the same chance in the dating world as women with no kids?
There's nothing wrong with the question being worded the way it was - nothing at all - but it has led to lots of gynocentric answers where the unfairness of life for single mothers is concerned.
True enough, it's usually a woman who bears the burden of single parenthood. Blame the courts, blame the father who was no more ready to wipe his own nose than are the guys who don't...
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Who do you think is more conniving: men or women?
I think women tend to make more use of conniving; but that's because they are also more skilled in relationships...
tricky tricky.
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Why do married men love having guys' night out, but women tend to abandon girls' night after they get married?
Guys night out...
Hmmm...
25 years and "guys' night out" was usually deer hunting, which is not done at night (not legally anyway), or maybe a baseball game (the ladies are invited).
I'm tired at night, and I usually don't feel like going anywhere.
Now my wife?
Quite a few outings with the girls.
I'll be truthful.
It used to bug me to no end to see her get...
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Is it a good thing that men and women will never completely understand each other?
Whether it's good or not, it ain't changing.
What's really bad is when men/women start hating each other, or get unreasonably impatient because the other doesn't completely understand.
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Should men learn how to cook or just women? (Please don't take this offensively, women.)
Sure, men should learn to cook.
Knowing my way around the kitchen allows me to spend more time with my wife. If she's unable to prepare a meal (not there or sick or whatever) or she needs help (like for holidays), I get a kick out of helping her-and I think she gets to enjoy herself a litle more when I help carry the load in the kitchen.
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Should all types of religious education be banned to all children under the age oh 16 years old including in the home?
Posted in error folks: sorry
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Do you think I'm pretty? I know its stupid for a 23yr old to ask, but growing up I was teased for how I looked & now I got glasses, which didn't help my self-confidence. Please, no stupidity answers, honestly. Are you an adult or a four year old child?
I'll be honest here.
Even though I have green matted fur and I'm no expert on fashion makeovers or anything like that, I think that a longer hairstyle, in a more natural color, would probably help.
Having more hair to work with would help frame your face and diminish what some might call "harsh features"- at least I think it might help. My ever patient wife could probably...
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Most men dislike................?
It's a dead heat between Oprah Winfrey and digital prostate exams...
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What is caligynephobia
Fear of those early morning infomercials-you know the ones-where a bunch of women who eat 900 calories a day are doing Pilates?
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Why does my wife choose to go out to dinner without underpants or a bra with a short dress on and tops that show her nipples?
Who knows?; I bet you don't have much trouble with inattentive waiters though....
It sounds as if she's a bit of an exhibitionist who is trying to get attention.
You've got to be careful how you handle this, because she might just think you'll really like it. I can imagine that there's a part of you (get your minds out of the gutter!) that really does like it.
You...
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Are all women freaking crazy or just the ones I know?
They're all nuts;
it's a good thing,too.
If they weren't, they wouldn't want much to do with us...
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Would you describe yourself as being "tolerant?"
I'm very tolerant, if you actually take the definition of the word "tolerant" seriously.
There are many people with whose habits and lifestyles I disagree vociferously. I feel that their very presence in society is harmful to me and my family, but I tolerate them.
Liberals say that they are "tolerant", but by the very definition of the word - with it's...
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Why are men so impatient?
We're no more impatient than women.
We just happen to be particularly adept at showing our impatience by causing property damage....
;p
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Should all types of religious education be banned to all children under the age oh 16 years old including in the home?
No.
You've got to be kidding. This would mean that not only could parents not take their kids to church, but it would also prohibit them from discussing religious or spiritual matters between themselves when children are present, lest the children recieve the banned instruction via osmosis.
Also, it cannot be denied that many laws-at least in Western nations- are based on the...
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Does the top of your tire move faster than the bottom of your tire when driving?
Yes it does, when considered globally, meaning this:
If we consider the words "move faster" to be equal to "move up the road" then it's easily seen that the "top" of the tire is covering a greater distance for a given amount of time than any other point on the tire.
If we were to paint a white dot at any point on the circumference of the tire, and then...
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Obama Haters: IF by the end of his first term Obama has turned the economy around, begin to reduce the deficit (or pay off debt like the last Democrat ), ended the wars, and gotten a decent medical plan going... would you consider voting for him?
First of all, I doubt that he can do all of that.
Second, and more to the point: The man is dangerous to our freedom as individuals and our sovereignty as a nation. Sovereignty is the means by which a nation guarantees it's citizens whatever freedoms and benefits were procured; all of the items the original questioner cited as reasons to vote "for", whether one agrees with...
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Why did bill clinton get impeached?
He got impeached for lying under oath in a deposition hearing.
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I love men but a bit confused because I had a bad experience as a kid. I mean do all men want to rape women but majority of men hold back? I want to know the truth. Only men answer.
Any sexual experience that the woman does not enjoy, even if she consents, is a disappointment.
Normal men (that means most of us) want sex, but more importantly, they want women to want sex with them.
They WANT to be WANTED.
They don't want to FORCE.
Even the hint that she doesn't want it takes a great deal from the experience emotionally- even to the point of physical inability...
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True or False. Men sometimes say things to women that deserve a slap or hit.
False.
The wording of the question itself is sexist, seeming to paint a picture of woman as always a diminutive saint - worthy of meting out corporal punishment that is deserved but doesn't actually hurt.
Most men, myself included, will allow a woman to hit them, whether they "deserve" it or not.
That doesn't mean it won't hurt, especially with today's...
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WTF is goin on w attractive guys who have no confidence with women? How's that even possible?
Not all attractive people are that impressed with their own looks.
Due to our persistent standard that the man initiate romance, the problem for the man (any man, attractive or otherwise) is more pronounced.
I think we must admit (women in particular) that while the handsome prince, unaware of his own "hunkiness", is indeed an intriguing creature, the guy who is convinced...
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Could you describe yourself please - physically and emotionally
Physically?
Why I have green fur and bug eyes...
Don't believe that?
6'2" 200-205 lbs.
Hair-started out dark brown, then kinda graying, now kinda whitening...
Salt and pepper beard (more salt lately).
Gray/hazel eyes.
Emotionally?
Surly and mistaken-for-mean on the outside.
Loyal friend on the inside.
I'll only take just so much and then it's game on....
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For all you men in relationships: Do you talk about other women a lot when your with your friends?
No, other than speaking in extremely general terms.(is/isn't this one/that one attractive...is/isn't she a nice person)
Expressing specific desire for sex with other women, which is where I think the question is directed, is not a healthy thing to do.
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Why have we lost the old code of Chivalry?
Assuming that you're referring to gender based chivalry, we lost it because the recipients (generally speaking) no longer wanted it.
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I have heard that showing kindness means one is weak. If true, does that mean being cruel is a sign of strength? Strength of/ in what? Character? Intellect? Spiritual growth? Leadership?
It isn't true that if one is kind then one is weak. What is true is that many people construe kindness for weakness.
Believe it or not, I was raised to be kind to others and, more importantly to this question, to not take advantage of the kindness of others.
It soon became obvious to me that the only way to get through one's day, unmolested, was to be cold and aloof (at best)....
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Where is the best place to meet a nice guy in his late forties to mid fifties?
Depends on what you want him for!
If you just want to say "Hi!"
I'll say "Hi" right back.
If I gave you what I think you're looking for, I wouldn't be too nice anymore, and my wife?
Happy trails.
There are lots of men, of all ages, who are taking college classes right now, trying to reassemble their lives in this economic disaster.
Find a...
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Do you ever remove friends because you disagree with them politically, religiously, morally, et cetera?
I have real life friends who disagree with me on those things.
I dumped one A'bag "friend" because he wasn't content to merely disagree; he had to take the lowlife route and deliberately distort some things I said when he asked the rest of the board what they thought of me (he linked the discussion in his questions.
That's no way for a friend to act.
Outcha go!
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Do guys like girls with glasses? I wear glasses, not nerd ones, they are square-like plastic ones, but I need to know if it is like a big turn-off or something?
Every girl I was ever attracted to wore glasses except my wife, and now she wears them too.
They're not a turn off at all. They give a woman another chance to "accessorize"; some actually make the shape of a woman's face more pleasing.
There's another bonus:
When she takes them off, I look better too.
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Do you think most men buy into the media's "women should be thin" BS? Or do you feel most will prefer what they find attractive to them, regardless of what Hollywood says?
Women should be healthy. Usually that translates into "thin", but those waifish looking sticks that are used as runway models?
Ehhh...
Not this guy.
My wife has never been obese, but like so many women that have had a few kids, getting back to where she was is darned near impossible-to the point of emotional misery.
I did encourage her to lose some weight, but that was in...
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So I seem to be having a heated argument with a fellow ABer. Have a look, and tell me what you think? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8125977
Hmmm...
So you, on the thread you linked, feel qualified to assert your opinion that those who've rejected thoughts of gay sex as "repulsive" are actually repressed homosexuals-and you held forth on topics ranging from human psychology to evolution in an attempt to legitimize your position- and you have to ask the rest of us if the argument itself is "heated"?
At...
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I am a good looking woman, just divorced and dating...the last 2 guys were hot for me at first, then fizzled off before we could have sex. wtf am i doing wrong? i am smart, funny, sexy, business minded and rich...what is going on?
Well...so much for the "guys only want one thing" nonsense!
It looks as if the ones you had been snagging can't get past your self obsession.
True enough, there are a few hedonistic tomcats out there; those are the type the questioner really needs at this point.
Decent, lovable guys (you know, the kind that supposedly don't exist) are going to get a sampling of this...
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How often do men pay attention to their penises?
I'm not sure why you're asking this question, but here goes:
A guy is always aware of his penis. That's not to say he dwells on these thoughts.
It's among the more vulnerable parts of his body, along with his testicles, so he learns from a young age to protect it.
Having knowledge of this vulnerability, it makes me laugh when certain feminists say that a man uses his...
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Why do men in relationships avoid conversation when being addressed about a particular situation, is it something that all men do in order to avoid confrontation if its not what they want to hear
The last sentence of the question suggests that a man is always in the wrong or he always has incorrect expectations and that his wife/girlfriend always is the duly appointed correcting schoolmarm.
Okay....
Often enough, it's not about what we don't want to hear, but what we'd rather not have to say, concerning HER shortcoming.
Who here likes swimming with a man eating...
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True or false? Liberals tend to be less tolerant of opinions of others than conservatives are?
TRUE.
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I do not believe in the "Rapture". Those of you that do, can you convince me with Bible scripture that I am wrong?
Just a comment here:
The Bible clearly describes an event where Jesus Christ takes believers, alive and dead, to be with Him.
There isn't much argument over that general teaching.
When the word "rapture" is used, many people equate it with the errant teaching that says believers,living and dead, will be whisked from this world before the troubling events described in the...
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What body part hurts you far too often?
My spleen...
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Women complain that we look at them as sex objects, yet many of them go and get breast implants?
Just my opinion, but women-I'm talking about straight women here- admire breasts as much as men do, if in a different way.
Let's consider the woman who has endured a mastectomy. Many of them opt for reconstruction. Is it entirely because they want to be restored to sexual desirability, or is there more to it than that?
There's nothing wrong with wanting to be desireable. If...
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Would it be weird if you like someone, knowing they like you too~ but you act like you don't like them even though you actually do~!!?
You're obviously quite young to be expressing yourself this way.
So, is it "weird"?
No, it isn't merely weird, it's dishonest (no matter what the motivation) and manipulative.
Take the burden of wonder from that other person and hang it on your own neck for just long enough to tell them the truth. Make a pattern of honest discussion part of your life, discarding...
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Men: Do you really feel a need to 'spread your seed' or is that just a myth?
Those who promote the idea that every man is hopelessly, helplessly biologically ingrained with the desire to copulate with as many women as possible in order that his genes be spread far and wide has a mighty dim view of humanity as a whole.
According to them, all of us-men and women- are no better than animals.
I'm no animal. I have no desire to put my seed anywhere but in the little...
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You drive to Walmart or any store and as you pull up in the parking lot you see people come running out of the building screaming,what do you do?
If they're all screaming in Spanish, I park my car and do my shopping while enjoying the new, quieter Wally World, absent the street market mayhem that usually is part of the experience.
Okay, go ahead and scold me for that...
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Proposals: Should They Be Public or Private?
Private.
Airplane fly by's and all of the other examples of overly dramatic, smarmy nonsense make me cringe.
I always wonder if those involved in such showy proposals will make a splash half that big in an effort to actually stay married.
Statistics say they won't.
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Ok so my Mom who told me I was an accident and should have been aborted & my bother who tried to score every woman I date visited yesterday and said they loved me, WHY would they lie to me in such a way?
People say awful things when they are under stress.
Your mother must have had a weak moment, perhaps enhanced by too much alcohol, when she hurled a locker room insult at you.
Your brother?:
Alpha male who hadn't grown up yet, no matter his chronological age, and if he actually scored any of those women then they deserved each other.
Hopefully he's grown up a bit.
As for...
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Should my wife keep her cell phone, journals, computers and various other thing completely Private? She gets upset at even the thought of me looking at any of these things. I feel if there is nothing to hide it should not be a big deal at all.
I think it's a little odd, but you have to remember something:
Your wife isn't living in the era that existed 100 years ago, where a woman's identity was absorbed in her marriage, to a far greater extent than that of her husband.
It may indeed be hypocritical, on the part of most women, in that if the shoe were on the other foot, she'd be demanding access to those...
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Do you believe Al Gore that there may be a 200 foot rise in sea level within the next 5-10 years?
No; whether it's 20 feet or 200.
I find it hard to believe that there could be that much ice that isn't already waterborne (melted or frozen would make no difference, in terms of sea level).
If he honestly believes that so called global warming will cause such a cataclysmic development, yet his own carbon footprint exceeds that of entire neighborhoods...
He's a liar, a...
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What's your advice for someone about to get married?
1) Learn how to fight. I'm not talking about how to deliver the knockout blow, I'm talking about how to "fight" constructively. Don't criticise them for something they can't change. Offer help in the things that they can/should change but need help.
Always give them a way out of trouble-make it clear.
Learn what it means to forgive; sometimes it's you that...
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Married People, how is your sex life on a scale of 1 to 10 using the rating system below.
Nine.
That's my story and I'm sticking to it.
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Can a man sue his wife for sexual harassment because of continued unwanted sexual advances?
I suppose you could, but what you really need is:
A) to start loving her for whoever (or whatever) she is...
B) to get couseling ,rather than a lawyer, to pursue what I said in "A"
Read the A'bag pages! See how many guys wish they had your problem.
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I am a real girls girl, love wearing dresses & doing girly things & I wondered if men prefer girls like that or if they want tough girls who play football etc. I cannot even throw a punch, I have never hit anyone ever & would not even know how 2!
I like girly girls. My wife is one.
The only challenge is getting her to go to ball games and races and stuff like that.
Even a girly girl can like baseball...:)
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Guys: What do you think of women who are not good-looking? Are they unlovable?
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Women (or men) who aren't ever going to grace the cover of a fashion mag are just as lovable, perhaps more so, in some ways.
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Sexual violence against women and girls is happening too much. Is this a fantasy that all men have and some act out on[getting turned on by sexual vioence towards women/girls]? Do all men want to hurt little girls in their fantasies?
There's no bigger sexual turnoff, to most men, than a woman who doesn't want him.
There are very few men sexually/emotionally capable of what you describe.
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If Satan knocked on your door and asked to use your bathroom, would you let him?
It would be tough to identify him right away.
You'd probably get your first clue when he asked you to swim in the toilet with him.
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Does growing older sadden you?
Sometimes it does, usually when I consider the many things I have not and will not accomplish.
But it could be worse; I could be much younger, not only having yet to endure the mistakes of youth, but also having to endure a future much more hostile than what I faced when I was a younger man.
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Do you believe women should never be trusted?
There are women with whom I would entrust everything.
Then again, there are women who cannot be trusted at all.
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Is it ok to give my dog a small amount of alcohol
I once had a vet tell me that vodka will counter the ill effects of the dog drinking anti-freeze.
I try to avoid both situations.
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When you fight ware is the first place to to punch or hit?
The longest lasting effect is when you get your lawyer to hit them in the wallet.
But I know that's no fun...
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Should a man know where his wife is at all times? (and vice-versa)
I'd certainly like to know, but only out of concern for her safety; but there's only so much we can control in life.
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Are women better at multi-tasking? (Read my answer first)
Hmmm...
I guess I'll have to remember that the lady in front of me on the highway...
Yeah, the one weaving over the lines while yacking on her cell phone.
Yup, her...
She's just execising one of her strengths....
Pfff...
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Men: Do you cry, or hold it in? Women: Which would you rather they do? Again men: If you cry in front of your lady, how would you rather she handle it? Play it down or comfort you?
Sure I cry now and then. It always gets my green fur all matted and everything, so I try to keep it to a minimum.
Actually, I don't cry very much, and when I do, it's for other people. I never feel like I'm holding it in; in fact, there have been times when all of the women around me were bawling, and I'm just standing there, clueless, not getting it...
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Why are men inferior to women?
They're not, unless you really believe that Homer Simpson represents typical manhood.
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Do guys hate telling their s/o where they're going?
I don't mind telling Mrs where I'm going and when. In fact, I usually ask if she'll join me, providing that it's appropriate.
She deserves as much credit as I, since I've never had her dump a pile of attitude on me for wanting to go here or there.
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Does your town have a leash law? Do you encounter off-lead dogs frequently in your neighborhood? Does it freaking piss you off?
My town has a leash law.
However, my property abuts the town line, and the abutting town has no leash law. The neighboring riff raff dogs wander back and forth, chasing cats and raising hell.
I even had one steal a piece of 2" PVC pipe I was preparing to use.It was four feet long; probably would have been comical to watch that mutt trying to run back home between all of the trees,...
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One for the guys... why is it that when I feel my grossest and ugliest (no makeup, slouchy clothes, dirty hair) that's when men seem to hit on me the most? What's the deal?
First, you're probably not that ugly or gross.
Second, you look cute and approachable,so in they come.
Have you ever given one of these guys a positive response?
When I was a younger man, it seemed that the women that attracted me most were the ones who were "tomboys" when we were kids.
They just seemed so comfortable with me-you know, real life-long friends, for whom...
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Guys, if a woman physically harmed you, would you hit her back or call the cops?
Call a doctor, and then a lawyer.
If you tell the cops a woman hit you, they'll just laugh and hit you some more.
If you can PROVE she hit you, then she'll have to go to counseling, where you'd be looking at jail time.
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Do men ever discuss their relationships problems with eachother?
It happens alot, but usually when we're doing something else, like working or fishing. Face to face is too touchy feely.
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Gentlemen was your wife sexy after your children were born? My daughter-in-law is in disbelieve that my son still finds her sexy.
Yes.
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Why do men like to look at women that dress provocative but want their wives or girlfriends to dress respectfully it just doesnt make sense?
Using a phrase such as "like to look" is unfair and less than accurate, IMO.
A better way of saying it is that men "notice" women who dress in a provocative way.
Also, the question deserves to be asked: What exactly is considered to be "provocative"?
Speaking as a man who is a bit older, I can offer my own perspective, but it's still just MY perspective.
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Why are some men so sexists? Even when it comes to women being visual. WE ARE JUST AS VISUAL AS MEN!
Blondie, why do you insist on attaching a negative connotation to what you believe to be a mistaken attitude on the part of men?
Further, how does this percieved "sexism" manifest itself?
By the way, I think you're wrong in your assessment. Look at the pages of A'bag and you'll see, more than once, the question asked "why do attractive women end up with...
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Earth's population has more than doubled in my lifetime. What should we do to stop overpopulation?
Stop subsidizing nonproductive nations and nonproductive people.
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Are you complemented more on your looks or your personality?
Looks, sad to say.
I'll admit that in spite of my self depricating manner online (green shaggy hair, googly eyes, unibrow, crack a mirror when I walk by), I've been told by several women that I'm nice looking.
I'll let them be the judge of that, I guess.
I've never had one tell me that I'm a nice person though. Some of the same women who compliment my looks say...
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If there was no religion of any type, would there still be Republicans supporting gang rape?
I'm not sure what religion has to do with it, but you'd better ask the same thing about Democrats....
http://digg.com/politics/Franken_s_Anti_Rape_Amendment_May_Be_Stripped_By_Inouye
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What gives a Christian Evangelist the right to come up and tell me that I will go to hell and damnation if I don't believe in Jesus Christ? I mean, come on, CE's do you really believe you have the right to do this?
What gives a vegetarian the right to tell me I shouldn't eat meat?
If you're so sure the evangelist is wrong, then why are you asking a whole bunch of strangers to side with you?
Something else to think about:
That evangelist doesn't know whether you'll be receptive to the message or not.
Should he forego giving the message to one who actually wants it, just to avoid...
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Does anyone out there suffer from beard/mustache dandruff? Any good remedies?
I used to have lots of itching and flaking in my beard, so instead of using bar soap in my beard, I use shampoo.
It rarely itches/flakes now.
I think it works better because it rinses out more easily.
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Why do men leave the toilet seat up?
I'm going to say something terribly sexist.
Did you ever notice that when you see a car with the back all dented in, it's usually being driven by a woman?
It's the women who complain about getting a wet arse because the seat was left up.
There's a pattern here, in that women cannot or do not look when they are backing up.
Flame away ladies! :-))
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Why do men hate shopping?
I've always felt like "shopping", though a necessary task, is like a black hole where time vanishes forever.
I'd say that if I could remember and compile the most agitated moments of my married life, they usually take place in a store.
SHE "We need to stop at (name of store here)...
ME "what are you getting? Got a list?"
She names off several items...
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Men: When, in your opinion, will women make sense? Women: When, in your opinion, will men make sense?
Just when I get it all figured out, my name will show up in the obits.
When we make perfect sense to each other, the fun is over because we will have become androgenous.
Who really cares? I know I don't; I'd just be happy to see the mutual hate and mistrust subside so we can have fun again.
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I'm thinking about getting me three wives. What should I expect?
Eeny,Meeny,Miney, Moe (that'll be you), catch a tiger by the toe, if she howls don't let go and out goes Y-O-You (Moe)
Might as well get four. Then you'd have an all-girl pit crew.
You can be the gas man.
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Does evaporation produces a cooling effect?
Evaporation removes heat. Any liquid will remove heat when it evaporates, but some will evaporate at lower temperatures and at a faster rate.
The reason you shiver when you're wet (or feel cooler when you sweat)is the water evaporating off your skin. When there is excess moisture in the air (humidity) your body will not cool itself as well because less evaporation takes place.
Dab some...
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My best friend touched me on the shoulder. Could I be pregnant?
Three important questions:
1) Are you female?
2) Is your friend male?
3) If answer to #2 is "yes", did said friend touch your shoulder from the inside?
Unless you answered "yes" to all three questions, you're not with child.
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My 6 month old daughter fell of the bed this morning, and is sleeping more than normal. She has been sleeping on and off today alot more than normal and sleeps usually an hour at a time. Is that normal?
Doctor!
NOW!
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Would you vote for a free car from the Government to help out the auto industry, so you get something for your money?
Who pays for the "free" car?
It's no wonder we're in such deep trouble....
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My boyfriend of 10 years broke up with me. He says I'm not the right one for him. He still calls me "honey" but he's very cold to me when we talk. Is he doing this out of charity? He still cares about me, but does he still love me?
10 years?
I guess you can't say he likes to make impulsive decisions.
It probably sounds cruel of me to put it this way, but that's like taking a ten year test drive and deciding not to buy because you heard all of the rattles and squeaks.
You're a patient lady, I'll give you that much. Most women would give a guy about one tenth that much time...and then SHE would...
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Do you think it's wrong to like your second cousin?
Where I live, it's perfectly alright, even commendable, to LIKE your second cousin.
Just don't get to liking them too much; get my drift?
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Who is better looking? Me or the last turd that came out of your butt?
I don't even like the woman, but there's no need of that.
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What do "you" mean when you say "chosen people of God"?
First, it doesn't matter what I mean when I say it.
It matters what the Apostles say about it, what the Prophets say about it, what Jesus says about it.
I'll try to paraphrase what those authorities say:
Abraham,David,The Prophets and all of the unnamed Old Testament saints were Chosen-because of their faith.
The Apostles and all of the true Christians are also...
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Since Gentiles must accept Jesus as our Saviour to get into Heaven, then is it also required for Jews to do the same, since they are God's chosen people?
The Jew and Gentile have no "wall of partition" between them any longer.
They are intended to be one people, with one Christ, and this question belongs in this section every bit as much, no, MORE than it does in the Jewish section because armies of Christians have an errant belief (at least in their practice) that the Jew still has a separate covenant.
You might as well hand the Jew...
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Is it really right to call someone the Prince of Peace when they say this: "Do not think that I came to bring peace on the earth; I did not come to bring peace, but a sword. For I came to set a man against his father..."
Jesus did NOT come to bring peace on earth, in the sense that the Jews expected an avenging Messiah to come, disperse their enemies and institute peace.
Even if He had come to do that, there would be no room for peace until those enemies (at that time, the Romans)had been forcibly removed. Not a peaceful prospect.
What He had come to do was give internal peace in a troubled world, in the...
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What does it mean when you put the stamp upside down on the envelope?
You're a scofflaw, a ne'er-do-well nonconformist, or you're in a hurry?
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Why do some women believe that men are not as smart as they are?
It depends on the woman!
If she's a young woman, maybe she's remembering not-so-far back to her early schoolage years, when girls usually do outperform boys (the boys catch up later).
If she lives in a slum neighborhood, where female headed households are the norm, and the men screw like tomcats, hang around on street corners and do drive-by shootings?
Couldn't blame her...
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Why do men favor dumb women?
Dumb women are boring since they can't talk.
Dim witted women are a turn off. They're too incompetent to be trusted with the important things in life, so if a man is like me (marriage minded), he can't afford a numb-skull, no matter how well she fills out a bikini or how easily she gets between the sheets.
Part of it, at least for me, is my own ego.
I don't want a...
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What makes a woman sexy? Let's asume you are married, and you go to Starbuck and see a woman in line. What does she need to have or do for you to keep thinking about her?
I might NOTICE someone, but for me to keep thinking about her?
She needs to have my wife's name and address (ie, she needs to be my wife)
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The jury found the young woman guilty of manslaughter for causing 3 car wreck while talking on the cell phone. What would be a fair sentence?
I'm so inclined to lock her up for a really long time, but it might be more useful for her to serve weekend sentences for several years. One day a week, she should be speaking to high school students about the danger of talking/texting while driving. Her weeknights should be spent visiting hospitals and funeral homes to see the carnage caused by all types of careless driving.
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Is it becoming more common and acceptable for married men to not wear a wedding ring?
Was it ever NOT acceptable?
Years ago, when, in my opinion, marriage was taken more seriously, alot of guys worked with their hands at jobs that made it dangerous to wear jewelry of any sort, so they went without.
I don't wear mine, because I worked at a dangerous job for years, and now it just doesn't fit.
One of these days I'll have to remember to have a jeweler resize it,...
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Do police officers in your country/state routinely carry guns? Does it make you feel safer?
Yes, they carry guns.
It makes THEM safer, and by extension, society is safer and by further extension I feel marginally safer in my person.
Since I am ultimately responsible for my own safety, the police being armed makes little personal impact, unless one of them happens to be near if I am attacked.
Of course, that means that I should be free to carry a concealed firearm.
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After giving some wisecrack answers to some questions and receiving some d-rates for them, am I just asking for it or has the humor become lost?
Are you here for the thrill or the points?
The thrill is what counts, because, in all honesty, the points system is just a popularity contest.
There could be someone telling you to stuff dog turds up your nose so you won't smell the skunk.
If they're popular?
Bravo! Brilliant word of advice there; fifty points for you!
If they're not a smarmy suck-up?
Well,...
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Why did the alies stand back and let the USSR take east Europe?
The truth is that FDR wasn't really that far from the Soviets idealogically, so he would have had little inner conflict persuading the US and our Allies to settle at Soviet occupation of Eastern Europe.
While repelling them from Eastern Europe would be no small task, those of you who feel that the US (at least) could not have pursued it are at odds with the writings of US commanders who...
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Why do some Americans who claim to love America so much, show so much hated toward American's that don't agree with them?
"Hatred" is both a strong and overused word lately.
To the spirit and intent of the question:
It never ceases to amaze me how easily some people forget that the US was born in blood and gunfire - gunfire that was not exchanged by people who expressed overt hatred for each other, before, during or after the conflict.
It was LOVE of freedom, family and principle that brought men...
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What is the rule of Law? Is it a political statement or is it the the Unmodified Constitution?
The term "rule of law" applies to the thought that, as a Republic, the United States was a "government of laws; not of men".
This was held in contrast to the European monarchies, from which the US sprang, where kings and queens would rule arbitrarily-owing no explanation to anyone except the Pope, and even then, the Pope was limited in his ability to take real action.
...
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Do Americans hate Obama because they're racist?
I don't like Obama, but it's not because he's black.
Not liking the man because he's black would preclude me from admiring men like Alan Keyes, Thomas Sowell and Walter Williams.
These are men I admire very much, and they happen to have skin much darker than my own.
I don't like Obama because he's driving us into the arms of international Marxists at an...
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Is a small dog is a big responsiblity for 16 year old girl??? my sister wants a dog a small dog?
It depends on the sixteen year old more than anything else.
My second daughter is a born nurturer-it just seems as if things thrive at her touch, whether we're talking people or animals.
She has always been the "go to" girl for the animals we've had over the years, even when she was much younger than sixteen (she's 22 now).
My oldest daughter?
Nice as she is,...
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Can married men just flirt without wanting sex? There is this married man who has been flirting with me for about a year and half, and has shown me that he cares about me,but has not has not taken any furher,and to this day is still flirting with me.
You could look at it this way:
A successfully married man has learned how to talk/deal with women, since he has had lots of practice.
Could it be that the polish he displays is being mistaken for flirting?
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What makes a women lose interest in sex?
Some guys would say it's a marriage license, but I'll let them say that...
:))
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Can men enjoy cuddling as much as sex?
Good cuddling leads to sex.
It's the way we're wired.
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Is New Hampshire any different from Vermont?
Yes, New Hampshire's terrain is a bit more rocky and rugged, and the mountain peaks higher than what you'll find in Vermont, but both are beautiful.
They are both relatively small, so you can easily drive through large portions of both in a single day.
Visit both places.
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Do you think that having separate bathrooms for men and women, classifies as "sexist"? Why or why not?
Frankly, if the stalls were constructed with discreet use by either sex in mind, I think unisex bathrooms would actually be better.
I'd rather be asked to "please be neat and take a seat" for number one, than to have some Tom, Dick or Harry standing next to me!
Maybe we'll meet some nice lady while washing our hands...
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Why do some men use the term "feminist" as an insult against women who don't agree with them?
It's possible that some women are realizing that being labeled a "feminist" isn't a good thing.
Is that because women have the right to vote, the right to own property, or are entitled to equal pay?
I think some feminists (men or women) would like to have it be that simple, but other than describing the rare knuckledragger who actually wants an uneducated, barefoot and...
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Do high heels make you look like you have better posture?
I get sort of knock-kneed when I wear pumps. So I don't think they help my posture one bit.
I had a heck of a time finding them in size 12, and the crotch on those panty hose keeps sinking down to somewhere between my (hairy) knees.
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Are you a MUSLIM?
Gangster, why are you down rating folks for honest answers?
If you had asked a question like "what do you think of Muslims" and someone had recommended bombing you all back to the Stone Age, which might set you back at least two weeks, then I could see the point in your aggressive down rating campaign.
Having read parts of the Koran, I think that Islam is the ONLY religion in...
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How do I get my 11-year-old sister to shut up and stop singing?
My sister never stopped singing. Oh, I protested and ranted away, and all it got me was lectures from my mother, who favored her to begin with.
Then my parents paid her way to college...my brother and I got zilch.
There was no such thing as an IPod then either, so inserting earplugs was the only way to go.
Go with the IPod.
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Are there more single women than men?
Women make up 51% of the population, men make up 48%. The remaining 1% are so-called "gender neutral" politicians.
So, owing to the fact that women drive us into the dirt nap a little quicker (with significant input from the gender neutral politicians) and there's more of 'em to begin with, I'd suppose there's more of them single...until you count in the ones...
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My girlfriend thinks i like her just for her looks. What can i do or say to prove to her that i care about her for her.
You might as well try putting a bag on her head and then dancing with her, because you're in the deep doo-doo no matter what.
It's just going to take time-time enough for you to see her when she has a bad cold or a big fat zit on the end of her nose.
Until then?
Enjoy the view.
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Has science found or proved that the earth stood still for a day .....like the bible talks about when God kept the sun from going down so his people could win a war?
Actually, the Biblical account said that the SUN stood still...
It's a matter of faith, so science cannot prove or disprove it.
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Is ignorance bliss when someone in a relationship believes a boldface lie, or is it a reflection of that person's absolute trust and loving heart to always expect the other person to have the best intentions?
It may be bliss indeed..
but it may also lead to blisters and antibiotics.
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Is keeping the wrapper from a sandwich a girl ate considered stalking? She did drop it in a public trash can, and it was on the rim, not actually in there with the other trash.
Get help dude.
Imagine how weirded out she'd be if she KNEW you're rummaging through trash and hair clippings for souvenirs.
You realize that you're setting a pattern in motion whereby women, even women you don't know, will control you...
and then we'll hear about you doing some awful thing on the evening news.
I'll sit there and wonder "was that the...
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I am the only girl and I have 3 brothers, My mum lets me do less stuff then my brothers on my own, like staying out late. I am very trustworthy and good to her, how can I reinforce to her that she doesn't need to worry about me?
She'll worry about you forever, because she loves you.
She certainly worries about your brothers too, but she knows that they are less likely to be raped or otherwise sexually used, and that if trouble comes their way, they can take care of themselves, especially if/when they do things together.
I have four daughters, the two oldest are grown up, and I still worry about them.
I call...
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When a man acts romantic, tender, sensitive - women usually flip for them because it's such a desired, out-of-character way for them to act. Is there a version of this that women do that drive men crazy? (In a good "I want to marry this woman!" way?)
A woman who genuinely likes men (and we can tell), one who looks you in the eye, one who wants to be your sidekick, not your boss, not your servant or activities planner.
One who wants to be half of a "WE"...
Very tempting
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Where are the men out there who don't "oogle" attractive women?
The prettier they are, the more careful I am not to stare, especially when they move in certain ways that reveal the more private parts of their bodies-even though I'm sure it makes for enjoyable viewing.
I'm not sure why I learned not to ogle.
So if you're a cutie and you see a green hairy guy with googly eyes and a unibrow...
fear not, dear lady.
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Is it true that the patterns that your feces smears make on the inside of a toilet can tell your future?
I think it says a bit more about your past.
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On average, why do women seem to be more analytical than men?
Just because women tend to read more into a thing than what's really there doesn't make them more analytical.
It makes them tricky to deal with, and that's all.
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I know that women hate being women from time to time, but what id like to know is do men hate having to be men from time to time?
I hate the way the government, the media and the courts tend to TREAT men, but I don't hate being a man.
I can't do anything about it anyway...
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Men: do you think you could handle some of the things a woman has to go through, menstration, giving birth, menopause, etc.?
Probably not.
So what shall be done about it?
Wanna switch bathroom keys?
I'll bet if you could switch, you'd find out that there is just as much misery over here-the primary difference being that no one wants to listen to a man gripe and moan about problems specific to being male, let alone asking the opposite sex if they think they could "handle" it.
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Have you ever wanted to go to Macau?
I've had several Wal Mart shirts that were made there, and I've had this secret (so far) desire to go there and explain to the ladies who made them that American men have arms that are more than 20" long.
But, owing to the fact that it's just far cheaper to shop for clothing at a better place than WallyWorld (is that possible???) than it is to travel to Macau....
and...
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Why is it that when a small group of men see an attractive woman pass by, they speak about her loud enough for her to hear? Do they want her to hear, whether they say good or bad things about her? Do they just want a reaction from her?
If they knew she had such big ears I bet they'd gawk at someone else.
Obviously these guys are not in a setting where they could be punished for voicing their approval.
It's odd to hear this sort of complaint when, ironically, it was sexual harassment laws that sent all of the nice guys into hiding, leaving only the jerks to do the talking for them.
sigh...
They want her to...
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Are Americans losing their religion?
Yes.
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There is a large buffalo sitting on your couch. What do you do?
I'd ask my wife how long her mother has been here.
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Sobering thought....those who really dislike Obama must really really dislike those who voted for him. Wonder how they handle members of their own family who voted for him? Can they forgive and be kind? Are they hostile and angry at their relatives?
I really dislike Obama.
I really dislike Bush for making Obama seem palatable.
I really dislike McCain, just for the heck of it.
I really dislike FOX News for dismissing Ron Paul as a foil headed kook, because Ron Paul was the only one who has a real clue.
I can't possibly bear a significant grudge against all of those voters, and it's a good thing.
I drive a fairly big truck,...
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Do guys really have competitions to see who can p*ss the highest? Exactly what "victory" do you gain from that? and why do guys have to challenge each other to EVERYTHING?
Such competitions are usually preceded by a beer drinking contest:
The beer fuels body and mind.
There is also a morbid compulsion to find out who'll hold the tape measure.
Myself?
I always strive for accuracy.
Distance and height are for cave dwellers...or maybe Yankee fans.
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Why do men (generally) prefer blondes?
I don't think we actually do; it's just that blonde hair really stands out, like a bright red dress.
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Why Hindu's are soft hearted, warm and very welcoming people?
I struggle to acknowledge the factual inference in the question itself.
I've found Hindus to be anything BUT soft hearted, warm or welcoming, but maybe that's just the Hindu's with whom I've had contact.
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Why do guys like asian women?
Lots of interesting answers here, but not this one:
Guys like women who like men, be they red skinned, yellow skinned, black skinned or white skinned.
Is it possible that among Asian women, it's not yet fashionable to project a misandrist attitude?
That could be.
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Some people say they are fine with homosexuality, but not with same sex marriages. What is the reasoning behind this ( no bible talk)
No Bible talk?
I guess you don't really want to hear the bulk of the objection, but I'll try anyway.
I'm not "fine" with homosexuality, but I'm not laying awake nights thinking about it either-I'm willing to live and let live.
Same sex marriage is always brought to the attention of society as a matter to be VOTED upon, as if seeking my validation or...
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MEN: Why are you so grossed out by the thought of PMS and menstruation when you spend hours watching bloody, violent movies? Aren't you men suppose to be tough and rugged? ( Girls are welcome to answer too. )
Menstruation doesn't gross me out.
It's sort of disappointing, since she doesn't want sex then, but it doesn't gross me out.
PMS?
My wife doesn't suffer from PMS, hence I do not.
Some women are even worse than usual before,during and after, leaving the guy in their life with one week a month of relative tranquil, but "grossed out" isn't the term...
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I wanna get screwed by 4 guys at once...is that weird?? (im a guy btw)
If you throw in the women, there are 543 in Congress that screw all of us daily.
And then there is Obama....
And the state gov't.
And the town..
And the garbage man...
4 would be a relief.
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Is it true that marriage is the surest way to kill a couple's sex life? Wouldnt it be boring to have sex with the same partner forever?
No and No.
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Are you behaving because of fear of god or because of the law?
Fear of God is manifest in respect for the law, so one could be doing both.
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Why do you eat animals?
There are several reasons.
1) They taste good.
2) They eat things that I cannot eat, or would rather not eat, and convert those things into something that I can eat and want to eat.
3) They eat what I have grown for my own consumption, and I'm getting my money back somehow.
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Do you know in person grown up men who claim they don't want to have a child as it's 'too much hassle' for them but if their g/f insists on birth control they feel insulted? Do you understand them?
Admittedly, it's been a while since I was of the age where the women my age were really fertile, but back in those days, the word among the guys was NOT to leave it up to her.
As they say:
You want it done right, do it yourself!
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MEN: How many towels do you use when you shower? My boyfriend uses one for his body, then gets another for when he shaves. Is this normal? (I find it annoying!!!)
I start with my hair and move down-same towel.
I hang it to dry and use it again for a second day, then I start anew.
I have had a full beard for years, so I can't really remember what I used to do, but I'd probably shave before I showered, and wipe my face with the undershirt that was going in the wash anyway.
Gross huh?
But that's me.
If he's otherwise a good...
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Why do men have to put up false pretenses?
It's the code. It's required by law.
If you think every man you meet is lying to you about everything then maybe it's time you warm the bench.
Let someone in the game who actually LIKES men.
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My boyfriend demands to be 'breastfed' everyday before he goes to work and when he comes home from work. My nipples are sore but he insists. Recently, he asked me to go for breasts enlargement treatment. Please help me.
I assume you're not actually lactating since you put quotes around the word "breastfed".
Just a few observations here:
I've accidently gotten a taste of human milk during normal lovemaking.
Cows have it better.
If you actually are lactating, there must be a child involved as well. Sooner or later you'll have to pick between the two.
Maybe the one who bites...
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I have a cold, and orange snot. Why?
Why do you have a cold?
Maybe you caught it from someone else.
Why do you have orange snot? (Yuck!)
There's probably blood in it, making it look orange. If it stays orange or gets completely red, you'd better stop wasting time on A'bag and see a real doc.
Also, sometimes, if you're in an area where there is alot of pollen in the air, it'll make your mucus a sort...
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I have decided to punch a kid who has always made fun of me. The only times I see him are at football and in school but I am afraid i would get in trouble if I did it at those places. What should I do?
When I was in high school, there was a group of bigger guys that always picked on me.
One was into martial arts. They would get high on cocaine in the mornings before gym class, and they would do worse things than make fun of me.
I distinctly remember once being dragged around by the neck with a coat hanger while the gym teacher just watched.
(MORON!)
It was usually three onto one, and like...
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Who was the most famous person you talked to? What did you/they say?
Ronald Reagan.
I didn't say much.
He thanked me for being there and asked me for my vote,
which he got.
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I have been with a guy for almost 2 months, but he still hasn't asked me to be his girlfriend. How do I know if he is serious about me or just going on dates, every other weekend, just to have a good time?
I was with a woman for quite a few months and I never asked her to be my girlfriend, she kinda figured it out on her own.
I skipped the girlfriend question entirely and moved right on to asking her to be my wife.
And she did. :D
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I was being walked down the isle to get married by my brother, but he was forcing me, and at the altar I met a guy I used to be in love with (he's gay) and I ran away got in a car with a stranger trying 2 escape, who later in the dream I fell in love with
Stop eating spicy foods before bedtime.
So what was the question?
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My pitbull has killed our kitten, and puppy in the past, is this enough evidence, to put him down?
It's certainly evidence that you cannot handle this particular dog.
If I were you, I would contact the rescue league for that breed (check it out online) and explain the situation.
Pitbulls aren't for everyone, but they (the rescue league) will more than likely be the ones who'll know someone who can actually handle the dog.
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What was the name of the band that caught fire on stage a few years ago?
February 2003
"Great White" used pyrotechnics that ignited inappropriate sound insulation installed in The Station Nightclub in West Warwick RI.
100 people were killed in the fire, including a member of the band.
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Do you men find powerful women i.e. Hillary Clinton sexy
Oh Hillary!
You're most beautiful when you're angry!
Your quivering lip when outlining a "vast right wing conspiracy" made me wwwwant you! (made me want you gone)
Powerful women are sexy when they are classy. Hillary is brassy.
Powerful women are sexy when they don't make their contempt for 49% of the population (uhh,that's the guys for you statistically...
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Men what do you find repulsive in women?
Repulsive?
Strong word.
I don't like women who make it obvious that they don't like men.
I'm not talking about lesbians either. I'm talking about heterosexual women who seem, truth be told, to only enjoy the phallic potential of a man, possibly accompanied by the love of his wallet. Sure, most non-thinking guys would love to be some dominatrix' sex toy. Uh huh....
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I plan on buying a new car once i return home. I was looking into quite a few cars, and i was thinking maybe Challenger SRT8? What do you guys think?
Judging by your screen name, I'm guessing that you've been fighting where the oil is, so you're entitled to burn some of it once you get home.
Safely please.
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First encounter..the person is rude/insulting. ...you remain polite. Second encounter, the person is surly....you remain polite. What do you do if there is a third encounter?
It sounds as if the possibility of a third encounter is out of your control, so...
The encounters have gone from rude/insulting to merely surly.
It sounds as if your politeness is actually working to improve the encounters, so stick with it, at least once more.
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Do you think the republicans will ever find a republican republican enough to suit them? Whatever it is that republican means anymore.
If you mean by "Republican enough", someone who actually believes we should honor the Constitution, that actually want smaller government and more genuine freedom, there is a guy who is more Republican than they can handle:
Ron Paul
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Would you go and watch "Hillary Clinton: the Movie"?
Why would I want to waste two or three hours seeing that?
I've had the last twenty years of that miserable shrew's life unfold before me, daily!
Yep; some Marxist moviemaker's attempt to put a likeable side on a feminist hag.
No thanks.
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On which subject AB users should be careful before answering the question.?
The ones that ask where you live, what you do for a living, or any other questions that yield personal information.
People can hurt you with that information.
Religion?
Politics?
Sticks and stones...
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How do I get my hubby to stop talking sports to me? I tell him that I don't care but he continues to like I'm truly interested.
So, only the things YOU want to talk about are important to the relationship?
I hope you don't say that he "never communicates".
I'm quite a baseball fan myself, and when she'll sit down and watch a game with me, it's special. Sometimes, she and my four daughters sit with me and watch the game. I'm watching the game, interested in the pitch count, the...
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Patrick Swayze, who liked him? I sure did. What was ur fav PS movie?
I liked him, and I particularly admire him for staying with the same wife over the years.
That's indeed rare for a guy who no doubt had women who threw themslves at him.
I liked "Red Dawn", "Ghost", and (was it?) "Roadhouse", but the one role he played that I thought was the most significant was as Orrie Main in the miniseries "North and South"....
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I am a 15 year old girl, and Saturday night I was at a party. I didn't drink and went home at 2am. A girl from the party filed a rape report, and now I may be talked to. Can I get in trouble, legally, by admitting anything, like the curfew breaking?
Just tell the truth and don't worry about it. It sounds like the police will have bigger items to worry about anyway.
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Why don't men stop and ask for directions?
I'll stop and ask directions when I need to, but arriving at that point is not an easy thing, and here is why:
It isn't ego or pride-at least not for most guys.
It's about not wanting to advertise a position of genuine weakness.
Think about it. The person you ask will be on their own home turf, unless you're having a REALLY unlucky day.
They become a potential...
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Why do men, even unattractive men, think that they are qualified to make comments about women's looks?
The question itself smacks of contradiction.
Not only will she judge a man's looks, she then attempts to pluck out his eyes and sever his tongue, mainly on the basis of what she sees.
Did some toad not render due deference to the princess?
I've got a counter question:
Why do men, of ANY level of attractiveness or income, allow attractive women to walk all over them?
If you...
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Do you like your women like you like your coffee?
Yep.
Cold and still into the "pot" after all these years.
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Do men make passes at "girls who wear glasses"?
Why not?
My wife wears glasses.
Sometimes she tells me I'm handsome, but it's just codespeak for "help me find my glasses, the room is getting blurry".
Actually, I ALWAYS had a better chance with a woman who NEEDED glasses but wasn't wearing them at the time.
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Are evil people smart enough to do just enough good to throw you off?
Not all evil people are clever enough to throw anyone off. You don't have to worry about them.
The most destructive evil people are the proverbial "wolves in sheep's clothing".
Those are the scary ones, since they specialize in fooling a majority of people just long enough to be granted even more influence.
Watch C-SPAN and you'll see a truckload of that type.
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Do you like a submissive woman or do you like the more controlling/dominate type?
Depends what I want her for....
If you're talking wife material? I'll take the sweet one please.
If she's an ER nurse and I'm bleeding to death?
Where's that controlling battle axe?
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Why do some guys like chubby/big girls?
Odds are, she can cook.
It depends on what you call chubby. If she's 15-30 pounds overweight, she's not chubby, she just needs to develop an affection for the salad bar.
If she's a fat slob that makes a draft horse scream for horror at the thought of her riding him?
Okay....go ahead and downrate me for that...
What is that blasphemous little prayer that Larry the Cable...
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Guys what are your oponions on girls and eating disorders?
I knew a girl, when I was in high school, for whom I had the hots.
And then I found out she had an eating disorder...
This poor girl ate pizza, starting at the crust, working her way to the point.
What a turn off.
Ask a stupid question (yes, contrary to what your homeroom teacher told you, stupid questions do exist)and you'll get a stupid answer.
Next question: Is rabies sexy?
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My mom does not approve of me dating, and she's very irrational, So ive learn to keep it a secret. However, all my girlfriends have wanted to meet my mom. (Including the current one)
What should I do?
Your mother isn't necessarily irrational, just because your rationalizations don't hold water with her.
She knows things that you don't. One thing she knows is that your own hormones will have you toying with a time bomb when you think it's only a little flame.
Ask your GF to wait until you're old enough to get out of whatever trouble you may get yourselves...
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Do guns kill people or do people kill people? (not leaning to either side)
That's a true statement.
Now, as is evidenced by some of the responses here, there are those who feel that an evil person can kill more easily with a gun.
There is truth in that statemnt, but there's another side to that coin.
There was a time, before manufacturing technology made firearms affordable to the common man, that simply being bigger and stronger than your victim made...
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Shouldn't "Thou should not molest children" be one of the 10 commandments?
The law, as defined by Moses, all has basis in the Ten Commandments.
The writings of Moses (the first five books of the Bible) forbid the defiling of a youngster, with the punishment being death.
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At what age do girls realize they have power over boys?
The age when they see their father act like a weak kneed wimp when faced with a demand, from her mother, that even SHE (the girl) can see is ridiculous.
I saw my father do that, and I vowed never to allow a woman to treat me that way.
I've managed to steer clear of many cute (or pretty) women, who also happened to be controlling shrews.
Cuteness alone doesn't cut it with me....
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Single men have all the inclination but none of the opportunity-married men have all the opportunity but none of the inclination-do you agree
Married men have all of the opportunity?
That's quite a generalization. There are lots of married men who had more opportunity (with the women they married) BEFORE they married.
It seems that once the "I do's" were uttered the "door" was shuttered.
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What is the best time for sexual intercourse is it early in the morning or at night.
When you're young and (seemingly) always energetic, anytime the mood strikes you is good.
When you get older?
You may find that at night, you're too tired to perform very well (at least as a man), so mornings might be better, or mid-afternoon.
Not while trying to watch a baseball game...
or after watching the news (depressing)
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The Christianity relies on the concept of transferability of 'sins'? If one can't even transfer a car-park or Lotto ticket, how could one 'bear others' sins'? Trick or con?
God defines what sin is, so it only follows that He can also transfer the guilt of sin to one who is sinless-Jesus Christ.
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Is it possible for a man to breast feed his child , if the wife can't for health reasons. I have been told it is if the father takes some drugs like estrogen
Even if this were theoretically possible, the kid needs milk NOW, not after Dad spends years "developing" the ability to breast feed.
The fact that it would take years of ingesting unnatural amounts of a female hormone to develop (just like a takes for a girl to develop the womanly ability), makes it seem unlikely that the man would retain his ability (or desire for the necessary...
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Men - You've just met a gorgeous woman. She's sexy, long legs, soft lips, dazzling eyes, smily and cute, nice curves, a real goddess. When you try to approach her, you discover she has a weird voice, nasal and squeaky, like inhaling helium. What happens?
If you haven't approached her yet, how do you know her lips are soft?
If she inhales enough helium, she'll pass out and then you should move on the fat phone sex girl will the sultry pipes.
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What can you do to keep a train from crashing?
Don't leave the station.
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Why are people agaisnt emergency medical treatment for ilegal immigrants? Racism?
I hadn't heard that anyone is against providing care for ANYONE when a true EMERGENCY exists.
However, go into most emergency rooms and you'll see that there are those there who are not in need of emergency care whatsoever.
That's aggravating enough, but when we know that the taxpayers will be sent the bill for a significant number of them, that's more than reasonable...
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Do the needs of the many outweigh the needs of the few
No.
In a properly governed society (like the United States USED TO BE), these "needs" are continually being weighed to see if both can be accommodated, with a strong inclination toward individual freedom.
If both cannot be accommodated, then a strict study of constitutional law and morality is begun, by which the best (not perfect) solution can be reached.
The needs of the many...
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Men, do any of you out there feel it is wrong for your woman to wear jeans or v-neck shirts that show very little? What do you think about a man that tries to dress her up on a daily basis? Mostly, wanting her to wear loose clothing constantly?
MY woman?
That reminds me of a joke I was part of at one time.
The church I attend teaches against women wearing "that which pertains to a man". Somehow, they've constructed this to mean that women shouldn't wear pants. I actually disagree with that, but to get along, we go along, when we attend meetings.
The rest of the time?
I caught the pastor's wife in public...
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What do guys think of Feminists, do you think they've got a malicious touch to it or do you support them?
Before one launches into an essay about a man's (or this man's) attitude toward feminists it's important to draw some distinctions.
Not all women who call themselves "feminists" are aware, or even want to be aware, of the attitudes prevalent among the hard-core, militant types who lead the movement.
If they think feminism begins and ends with things like equal pay,...
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Is it true that mowing the lawn at night, saves gas?
No.
The mower may run more efficiently in the cool, dense air, but when you see the lawn in the morning and realize how many spots you missed....
you'll have to do it again!
So much for saving gas.
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Why would a man fall for a woman that is a man hater?
Some guys do indeed like a challenge, but I don't like to repeat the same challenge on a daily basis.
It's more than I can handle.
When I was a teenager, I worked in a nursing home with what seemed like the most concentrated bunch of misandrists I could ever encounter; thirty some years later, I still haven't run across a bunch of women to top that group, at least among...
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Has the mainstream media become nothing more than stenographers for the obama administration?
Other than FOX, I've noticed an over-the-top meanness developing in the Obama Defense League, manned by his waterboys/girls at MSNBC, CNN and all of the over-the -air network news.
They far exceed the Bush apologists who manned the desks at FOX during the Bush administration.
Anyway, it's not surprising that they act this way; most of them have been spoonfed left wing philosophy...
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Why does every man(99%) is looking a woman with lust?
This question is an oversimplification of the issue.
First of all, I don't believe that 99% of men look at women with lust.
I think that roughly a third of men evaluate all women lustfully, a third will evaluate the attractiveness of women and then look lustfully on the ones they consider attractive.
The last third is made up of the guys who don't have any use for women (for a...
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First, the people closest to Jesus go to the grave and find no body. Then later they encounter him and don't recognize him. So, what happened to the original body?
I'm not sure of the intent of this question, but it is intriguing.
If you saw someone (alive) that you had seen die, wouldn't you say to yourself "nah, gotta be someone else"?
There's not a person in this world, I will confidently assert, who has EVER seen a man die, and then seen him walking and talking afterward, so no one can really say that "yep, I'd...
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A blind girl sent me a sexy letter; I am now embarrased around her, and avoid her. The problem is: she has amazing hearing and I am paranoid that she will recognise my footsteps. Everytime I see her, I now trot like a horse. What should I do?
I think a better question for you is this:
Why is it embarassing that a "blind girl" has a crush on you? (you brought up the fact that she's blind)
Would it be embarassing if she were not blind?
Have you considered the possibility that she thinks she "sees" something in you?
Don't make her wrong in her assessment, just because she's blind.
...
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If a woman looks directly at a man is she being too forward or sexually aggressive?
Too forward?
Guys are always complaining about how women never just "say what they mean" or tell us what they want.
You can't have it both ways.
Sexually aggressive? Unless she's tugging her clothes off at the same time she's giving that "come hither" look, no; she's just giving the guy a clue that an advance on his part is welcome.
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What is one thing women should learn from men and one thing men should learn from women?
I have an interchangeable bit of knowledge:
We're all in this together, and if we were exactly the same, we'd be bored and learn very little, so do your best to appreciate him/her.
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Can a girl beat up a guy?
An equally trained guy?
I'd give the edge to the guy.
A girl trained in martial arts should be able to take a guy who isn't or she's wasting her money.
Alot of guys will hold back, in most circumstances, having been taught to never hit girls, and they usually come out the loser for it.
There was one time, when I was a kid, when I didn't hold back.
I was at the...
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Do guys care about anything besides sex? What?
If a woman is asking that question, the guy in her life probably isn't getting emough sex.
If he was starving, all he'd think about is his next meal.
If a guy can be assured that he'll eat good and that he'll not have to beg for sex, he'll suddenly become a more "well rounded" person- tending to and enjoying other aspects of life- to the annoyance of his...
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All men out there, do u like when girls cries?
I hate it when a woman cries. It's the most helpless feeling in the world, especially if it's my fault.
You feel like when you were a little kid and you broke your balloon. Hopeless!
I've had people bring carburetors, disassembled down to the tiniest part, in a cardboard box.
"Could you put this back together?" Intimidating? Yes ma'am, but it's nothing...
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Anyone believe women are sex toys?
P.S. Im not giving my opinion, because I want see what you people say....be HONEST
I don't, but I think a certain number of WOMEN view themselves, where the sex act is concerned, as little more than a warm bodied masturbation aid.
Now, I don't have stats here, and I'm not going to burn an afternoon looking for them, but a certain number of women will turn their husbands down for sex, telling him to please himself in the bathroom sink.
Even if a particular...
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If hubby's friends spent time with other women & hubby NEVER engaged in this he just did his work/church & reading, would you wonder about it or just be thankful that he does not engage? Would you wonder more if you asked him about this & he got testy?
I have aquaintances, with whom I'm on friendly terms, who act this way, but these are not men with whom I spend my FREE time.
Would some people say that these are my "friends"?
I suppose that they might, and in the sense that I'd help them out if they asked me for help, they ARE my friends.
If my wife asks about their (adulterous?) habits? I don't get testy, as...
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Would you see it as an insult or an honor if you were to wash your g/f panties and bra too?
I've bought 'em.
Might as well wash 'em.
As long as I don't have to wear 'em.
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There was this small family with two little girls and a b'ful mom and not so h'some hubby. A guy stnding nxt to me strted staring at the mom and all this while he kept smacking his lips. Do women get attracted to men with wet lips or smack their lips?
Might want to modify that question to read "do women get attracted to men with bloody lips?"
What a pig.
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Why do women stare at their boobs while walking in public?
I've never noticed women doing that, but if they do, it's probably got something to do with that recurring nightmare about showing up for class naked.
As long as they don't stare at 'em while they're driving...
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Why wasn't Hitler stopped?
Hitler had answers for real problems that Germany faced as a result of the Treaty of Versailles and, dare I say it, the opportunistic bankers who were ruining the economy.
Whether he was a dastardly man or not, he put Germany back on her feet, if only for a short time.
If he had contented himself to merely re-arm?
He would have died of old age.
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Why do women who make sexist comments all the time complain about sexism?
Because we live in a man-hating society, where the media, law makers and advertisers do the same thing every day.
They're just conditioned to do it, and rare is the woman who will consistently resist it.
Flame away, ladies.
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Why does Christianity discourage the appreciation of physical beauty?
It doesn't.
It treats the appreciation of physical beauty in this way:
Don't make a judgement of character, calling or authority by your assessment of physical beauty.
That's the extent of Biblical warning where physical beauty is concerned.
The prophecy in Isaiah ch 53, concerning Jesus Christ, where He is described " there is no beauty (or comeliness) that we...
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1 year old battery loses volts-in the morning car will not start since battery is about 10 volts
You've probably got a low grade short circuit somewhere, most likely involving a circuit that is independent of the ignition key switch.
Those types of things are hard to find, even for a trained technician.
If you have a voltmeter, (somehow you knew that you only have 10 volts) you should see what voltage is present while the engine is running.
If the voltage isn't between 13-14...
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Do men who actually want to be with someone even exist anymore, or is everyone just interested in getting laid, coz it sure seems that way! I'm giving up.
It bears repeating, so I will; You're probably looking in the wrong places.
If you frequent a pick-up bar? You'll have some guy sniffing around to pick you up for sex, after which you'll have to find a ride home.
Everyone may laugh, but warming a pew once a week will put you in the presence of guys who want BOTH sex and a long term relationship, with the same woman no less.
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Will drinking orange juice and milk one right after the other make it curdle in your stomach? Why/why not? If it does, how long should you wait?
There's plenty of acid in your stomach naturally, so adding more (orange juice) shouldn't make much difference.
Is it a yucky TASTE combination? I would say so.
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Well to sum it up. I broke up with my girlfriend, because I met this girl I really liked...This happens alot I like to shop around... Well, this new girl didnt want to date me. WTF..this doesnt usually happen.And now my former Girlfriend wont take me back
It's nice to know that there are decent, honorable young men out there.
Too bad you're not one of them.
Sounds like you ran afoul of at least two girls who figured out what I just summed up in two sentences.
Tough luck, Casanova.
Maybe your "shopping" experiences will be a little more conservative from now on.
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Hubby says when he and I are in church, I should NOT put my bag between us but on the other side of me so he and I can sit closer together, does this matter?
You sit at the end of the pew. Put your purse between you and the end board, with hubs on the other side.
Soon enough, there will be a little one who'll want to sit between you, so make the best of it now.
If I found out my church was inhabited by kleptomaniacs, I'd find a new church.
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Do you think it is possible to make someone completely happy and satisfied in a marriage? Or is that an unattainable fantasy to get everything you need, want, and desire from one person for the rest of your life? (I don't need advice- just curious)
"No" to the first part.
"Yes" to the second part.
Thank goodness that there's reward in making the EFFORT to be "that someone" for him/her.
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What can i do for my wife for our 5th wedding annv. I am on a low budget and live in a rual area in Mo. and she is prego. Any ideas....
All of our money (very little to begin with) was locked up in a defunct institution when our 7th anniversary rolled around.
I had ten bucks in my pocket.
I took her to the local A&W drive in- a place we used to go alot when we were dating.
We had root beer and hot dogs, and we shared a box of fries.
We had to pick up one item at the grocery store on our way home, and while we were...
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How can christian apologists find excuse for the following biblical contradiction !!!? ....
Jesus says to love your enemies, bless them that hate you (Matt 5:44), then he curses his enemies (Matt 12:34, 23:15, 17,19, 27, 33, Luke 11:40, John 10:8).
Did Jesus "curse" his enemies, or did He simply tell them the ugly truth?
Jesus didn't speak in a vacuum. There were onlookers; specifically, His disciples, and others who deserved to hear the truth.
There's a verse in the book of Proverbs that deals with the idea of speaking the ugly truth.
Proverbs 27:6 (King James Version)
"Faithful are the wounds of a...
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Do you think we will see the come of Jesus soon?
It's foolish to predict with any dogma. Many sects and denominations have made themselves look foolish and have disillusioned their followers by making rash predictions.
I DO think, though, that the increasing trend toward global government, political correctness, worship of the earth (environmentalism) and general hostility towards people of true faith indicates that the return of...
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What happens to a dogs testicles after you get them taken off?
They collect them in a baggie, freeze them and post them on Ebay.
Then, cult groups buy them and make a ceremonial soup (some groups insist on stew) with the doggie aggots as the main ingredient.
They feast on the jewels as they dance before the bonfire (on which the soup/stew was cooked), worshipping whatever it is they worship (old trees?).
One of the assembled cultists will play...
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My wife wants to neuter the dog. It think its animal rights violation. Can we cpompromise?
As long as she's not looking to neuter YOU, I don't see what the problem is.
So here's your compromise:
You keep 'em.
Sorry Rover...
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Guys would you be for or aganst a law that bands women from wearing cloths?
Whether she's a supermodel or a supergrandma, all women look better when clothed.
Just think of it guys!
You know how much your lady obsesses over her (percieved) shortcomings. Can you imagine how bad it would be if she was prohibited by law from wearing clothing?
And then there's the week of "the curse"! "No clothes" would make that a rough one.
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Why is it so hard to find a woman with a sex drive? Every woman I've ever met never wanted to discuss sex. They've all said that they never ever think about having sex, either. They only want love and romance from a relationship. Is this seriously true?
You're probably being too forward about it.
Women seem to like to be wooed; it's just the way they are. Those that are hanging signs out (not literally!) for sex are in the minority, and they'll wind up driving you nuts once your own gears start spinning a little bit more slowly.
Also, women don't usually have to "mash the gas" in their relationships when it...
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Was Jesus tough, did He always speak kindly?
Jesus was not hated for nothing.
He accused the moneychangers of making the temple a "den of thieves".
He called the Pharisees a "generation of vipers" whose father was the devil.
He told the Pharisees that they would make the one proscelyte they won over to be three times the child of Hell as they were.
Not very nice, and those who always spout the tired...
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Why don't Christians consider logic as important?
The Christian doesn't put logic on a par with God.
The worshipper of logic can't follow logic to the "nth" degree either.
Consider the world we would have if we DID follow logic to it's conclusion:
If you're bigger and stronger than your neighbor, the logical choice is to overpower him and take his goods, his woman, his land.
That is how the animal kingdom...
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Chrestians! After 7 days the holy month of Ramadhan will start...is it wrong to ask a chrestian friend to fast with us for one day just to share and give it a try..and i will invite him to the dinner at the sunset with my family..
It's not wrong of you to ask, but it would be wrong for the Christian to accept.
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Would you rather spend a day in the woods or at the beach? Why?
Woods any day.
Yeah, the girls were fun to watch at the beach,...but;
I have skinny ugly legs, so wearing shorts was out for me.
Sitting at the beach wearing blue jeans and work boots,which I have done when my friends wanted to go to the beach, made me stick out like a sore thumb.
None of that pressure out in the woods.
Besides, I like to hunt and fish and enjoy the multitude of...
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Christians only: What would be the church's greatest vulnerability if a worse economic or political crisis were to hit us here the US? What should we do about it now?
It depends on what you call a "vulnerability" or who you deem to be part of "the church".
To be a born again Christian means that you are, in fact, invulnerable to material threats. "The church" (or as I've come to prefer, the "Kingdom of God in Christ")is a spiritual kingdom, at this point in time. There is no external force that can change...
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Would someone who is a conservative please tell me exactly what a conservative is?
Conservatives have gotten a bad name lately because of the activities and policies of GWB.
W was not a conservative at all-he was a neo-conservative, which, for all intents and purposes, is a completely different thing.
William Kristol, a sort of "charter member" among neo-cons, and one whose writings have codified the movement, describes a neo-con as a liberal who was beaten...
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Can man can stop domestic violence?
Sometimes he can, unless, of course, he happens to be the victim.
Most men are simply not believed when they report abuse, and they're often the one arrested instead.
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Is there really a difference between men and women drivers?
Statistically? Yes.
But that is only because they don't tend to take chances the way that men do.
Of course, there are some women (one of whom is in my carpool) who'll misread the stats to say that they have more raw skill, and drive accordingly. My aquaintance is more agressive behind the wheel than any of the three guys in the carpool, yours truly included, and riding with her...
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Are you strong enough to face ME?
Myalgic Encephalomyelitis?
Probably not.
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Guys: Do you compare your wives/girlfriends during sex physically to the women in men's magazines?
Yeah.
She's three-dimensional.
She's warmer. She knows me and somehow actually loves me, which is not an easy task.
So the chicks in the dirty mags will have to settle for being taped to some other guy's locker door.
I don't care for them.
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Name one thing the government is good at.. and not something bad they do well but really something that you think the goverment is good at . or has a good result
Government is usually quite good at the things that ONLY THEY CAN DO:
Defense, infrastructure, law enforcement.
Most everything else they do could be done better by someone else.
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The guy I'm supposed to marry(arranged marriage)was chatting with me, and during the conversation, he said"did you gain weight because you look fat/bulky in your pictures (don't mind),is it just your pictures or umm"I'm 21,5'7,125pounds, what should I do?
Tell him your Dad was testing him by sending pictures of your double-wide cousin.
Beyond that?
If you're 5'7" and you only weigh 125 lbs., grab a cheeseburger and a big chocolate milkshake!
Then, send him a text message and tell him all about it.
You can blame me if you want to.
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My wife finds me wierd I want her to tell me an erotic story (starring her)while we are laying bed to see how worked up she can get me with just her words and imagination do you think I'm wierd
Not weird at all, as long as she's the star.
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Why is it that parents seem to be more strict with daughters then sons? I believe my brother gets away with way more then I do.
My sister got away with chasing me out of the house with a knife after she bashed me over the head with a carpet sweeper.
Favored little princess.
Of course, all of that was before my parents helped her get through college.
My brother and I had to pay our own way.
Maybe your brother is making out better than you, but it isn't always so.
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Why do some extremely attractive women go out with ugly men?
Some people don't put a premium on looks,and by saying that, I'm not referring to the one being looked upon, but the one doing the looking, as they evaluate THEMSELVES.
If a woman is attractive, but was not trained by her family and friends to esteem her looks too highly-to not measure herself too greatly against the men she meets, then she may find herself with a guy who...
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What does a woman have to show you to impress you? What she knows or her boobs?
Nice wheels and a good paint job (you guess which is which) may get my attention, but it's what she's got under the hood (the brains) that seal the deal.
If some gal is dumb enough to show me her intimate parts as an introduction?
Well, let's just say that I don't carry a camera, and she certainly isn't getting my checkbook, so what I see will be the end of it.
No...
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Do atheists who claim that Christians are delusional realize that they are calling President Obama (a 20+ year churchgoing Christian) delusional? Or, do they say it just to be insulting?
They're admitting that Obama is hypocritical, since he shares the (typical) worldview, as a matter of practice and policy, as an atheist.
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May we call the demise of Senator Edward Kennedy the end of an era?
I'd rather call it the end of an "error", but he has a son who's just as bad, if not worse.
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What is the phobia of confronting someone called?
Ahmascadieuw.
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Guys - when was the last time something made you scream like a woman? You know you've done it.
Pitch, volume, or intensity?
Actually, I can't remember screaming like a woman. Ever.
If I'm frightened I either assume the fighting stance or run like crazy.
Screaming is for doomed femmes.
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Has anyone ever asked you what you are mixed with? I was asked this the other day at work by a co-worker and after the slang was identified, he meant was I possibly bi-racial due to my complexion & coal black hair? Does that sound rude or not?
Kinda rude.
When I meet someone new or want to know them better, I ask them about what their interests are and that sort of thing, and I'm not Miss Manners.
If I'm looking at a puppy, I might ask what he/she is mixed with.
Give the guy another chance though; he's probably nervous.
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Do you think women think about their s/o more then men? Due to the fact that women are better at multitasking and can think about many things at once perhaps?
Who says women are better at multi-tasking, for a fact?
Just an observation, but I've noticed alot of self-proclaimed multi-taskers can't seem to get ONE thing completed.
When you start using superlative terms (such as the words "more" or "better") then you're implying superiority.
Women do not think about their S/O's any more than men do.
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When i was young, my christian parents would not let me participate in halloween. At school in primary school, they refused to let me learn about buddhism and other religions. They refused to let me watch harry potter. Are you like this? And WHY?
When I was a kid, my parents allowed me to participate in Halloween activities, and my wife and I allowed our kids to do the same, until our new pastor taught us of the truly evil origins of Halloween.
So, in order that we not teach them to celebrate evil, we stopped allowing the Halloween stuff. Looking back, I wish that I had had someone to give me better instruction when I was a kid.
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I hate working , i mean i HATE working , how can i make money and be lazy at the same time?
Seek public office.
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Is it possible for someone who is currently alive to haunt a former place of residence?
I always thought it was called "breaking and entering" or "squatting"; but what do I know?
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Why Do Women Ignore Advice From Men?
Generally speaking, women are taught to view men as potential rapists, as members of the "patriarchy", as semi-functional morons who still try to pee standing up.
Did I miss anything, ladies?
Why should a woman heed advice from a man when he might tell her that " yep, the only way your gonna get through this (problem) is to swim through the (metaphorical) swamp full of...
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Do you think that if someone accuses someone of raping them and it's PROVEN beyond ANY doubt that the person accusing someone of rape is lying, that they should get the same sentence as the person would've if they had been convicted of rape?
Yes, plus a lawsuit for defamation of character.
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Since women seem to want to prove that they are as masculine as men, should men start becoming feminine, since women no longer want to be that?
Do ALL women want this?
I don't believe so.
Why should men abandon their God given masculinity to fill a partial void on the femininity side?
They shouldn't!
What they should do (and what many will do) is shun masculine women whenever possible.
You might have to work with them, but you don't have to socialize with them.
Most such women are perfectly happy with...
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Is it an indication of weakness for a man to tip his hat to a woman? Is he a doormat to conduct himself with traditional gestures of respect toward "liberated" women of today?
There are many liberated women who would argue that ANY act of polite chivalry is disrespectful of women.
My father and the previous generations of men were those who always tipped their hats, yielded a seat, held the door etc.
When I was about ten years old, in the early days of what we now call (radical) feminism, men began to be rebuffed, and even rebuked for such behaviour.
As a...
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Is it creepy to wear your would-be muggers tooth around your neck as a souvenir of victory?
No!
Sorta cool, if you ask me!
As long as it's not still in his shrunken head of course.
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If we killed every person who was inferior (the handicapped, etc) wouldn't it both strengthen the human gene pool and reduce human population (two things that we need desparately)?
Maybe it would be better if those who advocate population reduction(under any premise) be the ones to go first.
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Is cash for clunkers a good deal?
No.
It's another gimmick that will only add to the debt we'll have to pay off.
Also, even if you get $4500 off, you still are personally in debt for the balance.
If you're driving a qualifying "clunker" (Not one of my cars is less than eight years old and NONE of them qualify) then you probably can't afford an additional $300-$500/mo. expense, even if BO...
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What is the fastest you have driven, in what and why? Would you do it again? Do you think it a good idea and are you accident proof?
145, 340 Dodge Demon.
I was racing a Dodge Challenger and he was doing 140.
And no, I wouldn't do it again.
Probably one of the stupidest things I've done, since it was on a two way road zoned for 45mph, with driveways on both sides and a very sharp curve at the end of a 3/4 mile straight.
I haven't had many accidents (one to be precise, with a belligerent jackass on a...
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My 95 honda civic is Overheating and going threw coolant I have changed the water pump, radiator, thermostat, hoses to and from the radiator and have even gone as far as replacing the head gasket. Any other Ideas? Or should I shoot it.
You didn't mention whether or not you're finding coolant in the oil.
That could lend a clue as to where it's been going.
If you didn't check the cylinder head/cylinder block mating surface for straightness/flatness, you may have changed the head gasket without fixing the underlying problem.
Sometimes, the cylinder head will develop cracks that allow cylinder pressure...
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Guys when I don't make eye-contact with you I DON'T want to talk to you. Do guys not understand this?
Couple of pointers:
You need to gather all of the eligible females in the world(and even the wannabe's) and construct an official, universal code book-kind of like what the Navy uses for signal flags. Once there is agreement on the "code", you, as a favor to the chicks who'll only get the memo,sign it and pass it along, AND to all of the...
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Just totally theoretically, if a guy kept chickens in his house, what would be the chances that they could actually murder him in his sleep if they took a mind to? Goats?
Murder him?
Murder is an act reserved for humanity, but I suppose a gang of malcontent poultry could, by happenstance, peck at the wiring in the house and burn it down with him in the sack.
Of course, that would likely be termed a "murder-suicide"- but it makes no difference, since there isn't a jury that would convict.
Now goats?
Goats might be able to kill a man when...
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A teacher once told me there's no such thing as common sense, because everyone has their own perspective on things. Agree or disagree?
Disagree.
Everyone may have a unique view of the world, and they may have a unique idea of how they'd like the world to work, but most of us can draw the imaginary line between what we would like and what will actually work.
That is what common sense is.
People like this teacher had better stay in their cozy little cocoon.
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My husband and I got into a huge discussion in which somethings came out about how he sees me and I realize he doesn't know me at all. I always thought of him as my best friend and now I am heartbroken. I have a hard time just looking him in the eyes.
Look him in the eyes anyway.
You still think of him as your best friend, which is why it bothers you so much.
Make it bother him too. Looking him in the eyes will do just that.
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Men ...Do you automatically go into "Defense Mode" when a lady tells you ..."We Need 2 Talk" ?.....
If a shark asked you to go for a swim, would you be defensive?
No one tells you "we need to talk" and actually means that WE will talk.
What they mean is that THEY will talk and YOU will listen, and if YOU dare speak in disagreement, then YOU don't communicate, and WE still haven't talked.
So yes, when a woman says we need to talk, she might as well be leading us to...
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Why do most women who like guys just make eye contact with the guys and wait for things to happen. I think if women think they are really equal, they should have guts to face rejection as well otherwise they are the weaker sex. (no offence)
Weaker sex?
Maybe their just smart enough not to throw the baby out with the bathwater.
That's a pretty sweet deal you know; all of the percieved benefits of being a man without the accompanied, universal fear of rejection by the opposite gender.
I'd cling to tradition if I were a woman too, seeing that I'm actually very shy.
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It has been said that menopausal women "find their voice". What does this mean, to a man? Will she not care what he thinks, since doesn't want sex with him anymore?
Sorry about the link. I tried to edit the question to make it work right.
Here goes.
http://www.womentowomen.com/menopause/postmenopausal.aspx
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No flirty pat on the booty while I am doing the dishes.. I initiate sex. He is a sweet man, very quite, loves our family. BUT I am feeling so upset about this.. Any advice?
Maybe he's afraid he'll wind up doing dishes if he gets close enough to smack your butt while you're at the sink.
If he's sweet and quiet, I'd say he's not agressive in any sense.
If you always initiate sex, why should he do it.
You didn't say, and I'm not asking, but if he has been with other women, he's probably had to hound them for sex-...
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Why is it that when a husband complains about his wife, he is communicating. BUT, when a wife complains about her hubby, she is nagging and bitching? Are his feelings/concerns worth more than hers?
It's the cumulative effect of the volume of "communicating" done by women.
Most guys don't talk that much-we probably should talk more, especially when we can only think of something nice to say, since women seem to need constant affirmation.
When we feel we need to say something, it's most likely because some "thing" worthy of complaint, has happened....
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Why do guys get sympathy pains when they hear about someone getting kicked in the testicles?
Maybe this counter question should be asked:
Do women feel sympathy "pain" when they see a guy take a crack in the balls, or do they laugh on cue like on the funny video shows?
Do men feel sympathy "pain" when they see a woman in labor?
I know I do.
Hey, I feel terrible for my wife when she's on days two and three of the monthly curse.
Maybe someone should ask of...
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I don't believe children should be taken to Church/Temple until they are teenagers when they can decide for themselves if they want to go? Do you agree with me?
No.
Kids don't like to eat vegetables either. Should the parents wait until they're teenagers before tempting them with vegetables?
I also wonder who will watch the kids while the parents go to meetings. Will they have to wait until their wayward teens decide that church is okay, or will Mom and Dad have to wait until Junior reaches adulthood, when they can go to church before...
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Why do men freak out when women with long hair chop it all off?
A woman's hair is her crowning glory.
True, I've known many women who actually looked better with a shorter hairstyle, but most, in my opinion, look better with longer hair.
I also think of it this way: Long hair affords a woman alot of different "looks"-it's like an adjustable outfit!
How many outfits would the average woman want to just throw away?
Now, I...
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Ew I hate sex! How do I satisfy my horny wife? What are some ways to satisfy her besides sex or anything of a sexual nature? How do I get her to understand that I married for love, not lust and that marriage isn't about sex? Why does she get horny anyway?
Frankly I think this question is a load of hooey.
Just in case it isn't, I'll say this:
If you love your wife, and she wants sex, give her sex, even if you think it's "icky". If you think sex is the "ickyest" thing you'll have to endure as a married man, the you're in for a rocky ride.
I have to take issue with your statement that...
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My husband says he'd never cheat, but I found out he'd been to a strip club - friends wanted to go & he couldn't say no. He won't talk about his "visits"- says it was at least 4 years ago. Should I worry?
You'll have to take his word for it that he didn't cheat then or at any other time.
However, there's nothing wrong with you expressing your disappointment at his choosing his friends' approval over his loyalty to you.
If my 'friends" insisted that I join them at a strip club or forego friendship?
I'd find new friends.
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Time out or spanking? Why?
He that spares the rod hates his son!
God gave us well padded behinds-a place where firm, consistent correction can be administered.
Show me a kid who gets "time-outs" and I'll show you a brat.
Sorry if I step on anyone's toes.
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Do you think that if the libido decreases with age, it is advisable to prop it up (pun not intended) with medication? Or should one accept reduced sexual activity with Grace?
If one or both partners is unhappy with the frequency/quality of sex, then any attempt to improve it, by any means, shows a commitment to the health and happiness of the relationship.
NOT attempting to improve it, at the expense of happiness, shows contempt toward the relationship.
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What you ever Welded anything?
Woodstoves, snowplows, trailers.
Lotsa stuff!
I'm often found wearing a welding shield- I assure you I look better that way too!
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Am I the only one who thinks that people should stop breeding dogs and start adopting the ones who need homes in the shelters?
You're not the only one, but it's also none of your business if other people want to breed dogs that suit their preference.
I've adopted dogs before, and I see value in doing so, but lately it's so difficult to adopt a dog (or cat) that you might as well find a breeder.
Perhaps this difficulty is not found everywhere, but it's the norm where I live.
There is also...
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If I was anti-Socialism, should I be against police and fire departments?
I'll assume you're an American citizen in my answer.
Socialism, capitalism, communism and probably a few other "isms" we've not heard much about are ECONOMIC systems.
It's true that government can influence, or even decide, which system is followed, but as an American citizen, the question need not be so complicated.
Why not?
Because the primary function of...
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Is it appropriate for a christian woman to ask a christian man for a date? We are both widows.
I sure wouldn't mind, if I were in his position, if you walked right up to me and asked.
There's certainly nothing wrong with you doing just that.
However, there must be something you know about this man that makes you think he might not react well to a forward approach.
If you were to send him a little card/note, gently explaining how you'd like it if he asked...
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A girl you've liked for ages says to you 'if you beat up my bf i'll go with you' but you know you've got no chance of winning, what do you do or say?
Why do you still LIKE someone like that?
As the lonelydragon already mentioned, fighting for this reason is nothing more than a silly, mano a mano contest-comparing masculinity. Perhaps it's a worthy fight,five thousand years ago, to prove your ability to provide for and protect a woman.
I'm not actually suggesting this, but imagine:
Let's flip that on it's head....
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How many more people are killed by lightning as the result of climate change?
More people are likely to die over leftist induced hysteria over climate change.
Not very helpful, I realize, but I'm in that sort of mood...
Flame on.
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Why are most women more emotional than men?
I don't think there's that much difference.
There may be explanations for whatever real difference there is (hormones, etc.), but to a greater extent, conditioning makes a difference in how men and women express emotion.
I can become very emotional: I can't watch "Saving Private Ryan" without shedding tears-maybe I feel safe crying then because war is a...
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If Feminists are about equality, why are they not called gender-equalist?
The core of feminist activism isn't about equality at all, as Masculist and J a P, have already answered.
The real danger, however, is that there are women who actually believe that the Betty Friedans of this world are fighting for EQUALITY, and they, as a result, give their vocal support and votes to the man-hating politicians that NOW endorses.
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Why would a man how is married to an attractive, petite woman cheat with a plump, plain woman? Even though the man enjoys a regular sex life with his wife.
Well...
I know a guy who was in this very situation: Married to a very attractive woman. He met a woman online who turned out to be as wide as she is tall-but she's nice to him and makes it known that she wants him in her life.
His wife wouldn't do that.
Sure, the guy didn't do the right thing, but that kind of story should serve as a wake up call to attractive women (and...
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How do you overcome your pride?
One look in the mirror does it for me...
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Is it true that there once was a man from Nantucket?
There indeed was a man from Nantucket, but all bathroom poetry aside, the man moved to Martha's Vineyard and then to the mainland...Hyannisport, to be specific.
Then he became a US Senator...and that's where the dirty bathroom humor began.
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Our society is couples-oriented. It's very marriage-oriented. It feels like a falsehood that we're hanging onto, because in reality, people have other partners. In reality, [many] marriages end in divorce. Why not open marriage? --
I'm going to say something very UNhelpful.
I'll bet that most of you who desire "open" marriage would throw the book at someone who considered your ownership of...say... your car, to be an open, fluid concept- taking it for a spin, even when you may need or want it because they're bored with their own wheels.
You'd be mighty PO'd, ESPECIALLY if they had...
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Should we trust engineers to govern society?
Should we rule in (or rule out) ANY specific group from governing?
Frankly, I can't see why engineers, as a group, would be any worse than the pandering yes-men (or women) who are governing society now.
After all, engineering is a results-driven profession, with engineers being held personally responsible for disastrous decisions they may make.
Wouldn't it be a heartstopper if...
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If a woman who goes after younger men is called a cougar, what is a woman who goes after older men called?
A nurses aide?
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What regime should I follow to keep my feets clean, smooth and strong?
I think following the Obama regime will keep your feet strong-since when he gets his way we'll all be walking.
Clean and smooth?
Not so much.
Try using a "PedEgg"-it's like a mini cheese grater that scours the dead skin off your feet.
Then, I suppose you could use any number of lotions or soaking routines to keep 'em soft and sweet smellin'.
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Men only! How many of you treat women with love and respect and don't see women as inferior? Society tells us all men are evil, but I beleive there are a lot of good men around.
That's a really tough question for any man that actually pays attention to the world around him.
The questioner acknowledges the man-hating segment of our society-most evident in media and, to some extent, in the courts and government.
It's easy for the happy-go-lucky type of guy to receive warmth and friendship from women, thus he feels at ease, unthreatened, and unchallenged...
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Why do Pentecostal chruches only want you to date Pentecostal ppl?
The Bible instructs Christians not to be "unequally yoked with unbelievers".
Now, Pentacostals seem to believe that unless a "Christian" adheres to Pentacostal doctrine and claims to have the accepted (by Pentacostals) "born again" experience- wherin they are slain in the spirit and speak in tongues (a foreign language they cannot otherwise speak), that they are...
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Do you think crimes against children and the elderly should carry severely stiffer penalties than the same crimes committed against able adults?
No.
Equal protection under the law should be the standard.
Laws that favor one group over the others are unconstitutional.
If, for example, you think murdering a child should cost someone twenty years, but murdering a healthy adult should only cost you fifteen, I'll go you one better:
Death Penalty in either case.
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What do men think just after Sex
Where's the remote?
Is it under her pillow?
I can't come right out and ASK at a time like this!
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When can a teen boy around 18 expect his libido to return to a more normal state?
Your libido travels with you, so if you're in a state like..say...California, it'll never be normal.
An 18 year old guy can launch more rockets than NASA, so "normal" is relative.
When will you be able to think of something besides sex?
Hmmm...
Probably the first time you see clumps of her hair in the shower drain.
That oughta work....
for a few minutes.
The...
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How many married men here on AB are still madly in love with their wives? How long have you been together?
25 years here...
Better than ever.
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Those confused people who think Jesus=God, how do they figure a peace-loving Jewish guy was burning entire cities down just a few years earlier (Sodom, Gomorrah, etc...) That doesn't sound very prince-of-peace-ly.
Jesus said "I and my Father are one" and the Jews attempted to stone him for making himself to be God, so those of you who claim to have read the words of Jesus-and that he never claimed to be God-must have skipped a few pages.
Why would the Prince of Peace burn down Sodom and Gomorrah?
Because He loves justice every bit as much as he does peace. Ask yourself: How can there ever...
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The writers of "I Love Lucy" portrayed marriage as "a trap". I know the times have changed, but do you agree?
"I Love Lucy" may make marriage look like a trap-the same thing could be said about "The Honeymooners"- but I doubt the writers of the day intended to make marriage look that way.
What they DID manage to do, however, was reinforce a negative stereotype where the marriages of our parents and grandparents are concerned- Every man is an ignorant blowhard (Ralph Cramden) and...
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A man and a women get drunk at a party ,, both go lay down on the couch have sex, she claims rape what do you believe??
I believe that he's in big trouble, since an intoxicated woman cannot give consent-and she's the one claiming rape.
The only question left is "how severe will the sentence be?"
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Why does communism only work in theory?
It only works in theory because humanity is imperfect.
That could be said of any government/economic system, by the way; but communism appeals to the least productive and least morally inclined that humanity has to offer, so it's the quickest way to hell in a handbag.
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Do you have sexual intercourse with your spouse while they are sleeping? Do they even know what happened?
Gotta be careful about admitting that guys!
If she can sleep through it then what does that say about you?
PLUS!
Some states call that "Rape". A sleeping woman can't legally give consent.
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Has your wife every let you use her body to masturbate? ie, no touching, kissing, just intercourse with a set time limit on you finishing
If you can have intercourse without touching, you should be writing books instead of posting on A'bag.
I suppose, to answer the question, that it's happened (no time limit though)...and she's used me now and then too. So we're even.
And happy.
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A cheating Wisconsin man was ambushed by his wife and mistresses who lured him to a motel, tied him up and super-glued his penis to his stomach. Too much or is he lucky he didn't get the Bobbitt treatment?
Saw that.
What an ugly mob that bunch was! If that was the best I could do, I'd quit before I started!
To the question:
The scare'em harem is in enough trouble already. It's a good thing (for all involved) that they only glued it.
It should, however, serve as warning to guys who like to swim in the sheets with multiple, ugly bar flies.
Don't do it-or they'll...
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We have firends that are constantly touching each other while in public. It has become very annoying when we are out with them. They have been married for 26 years so it's not like they are in a new relationship? Are we wrong in being annoyed?
Would you rather see overt signs of marital distress?
If they have been together for 26 years and still have a spark of youthful enthusiasm, you should ask how they maintain it, rather than be annoyed.
Good for them.
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If a affair is ended and never discovered and your wife is blissfully happy, does it matter? Should it ever be confessed?
If the dress makes her look fat, are you supposed to say that it makes her look fat?
If she's blissfully happy, and you're not toting around some STD or paying $400/month to feed a little bastard child somewhere...AND you can keep your fly zipped up when you're not at home, then the only one who needs to know is God, and He already knows.
Just don't fool yourself into...
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Dont you hate those redsox fans that only became fans in 2004 or 2007?
That's quite a lame reason for hatred.
There are lots of Red Sox fans, mostly New Englanders, who always rooted for the team.
Seeing owners who were as serious about winning as the current Red Sox owners allowed the more casual fan to become more interested.
It became "worth the time" that it takes to follow the team through a long season, and seeing that the so called...
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So Manny Ramirez and David Ortiz were among the major league players listed as having tested positive for performance-enhancing substances in 2003. Should the Red Sox have to give up the 2004 World Series trophy because they cheated?
The test was in 2003.
The series was in 2004, so it's likely that steroid usage was on the decline, across the league.
There were, no doubt, users on every team with which the Red Sox had to compete.
I'd say it's a wash.
And...who would the trophy be awarded to?
The Cardinals?
The Yankees, for whom Alex Rodriguez and Jason Giambi were playing?
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In sex what is better, hubby "hard" & trying to hastily get penis in you before he goes soft, then getting frustrated/annoyed when he can't get in fast enough, or taking his time to get in & you giving him blow job every time he goes soft in the process?
What is better is finding out why he can't stay in the game long enough to get in the end zone.
He may need to see a urologist.
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My friend told me she owuld get me a dildo for bday gift hubby says that if she does this he will call her & tell her that the gift is indecent in a nice way, should he do this?
Does hubs watch porn and masturbate?
(you don't have to answer that)
How would you feel if he did?
(you don't have to answer that either)
If a friend of his offered to buy him one of those lifelike sex dolls, how would you feel? Would you tell his friend that you object?
(again, no answer required)
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Why is it that any question I ask saying ANYTHING positive about women or asking about domestic violence sparks large amounts of hostility from the men on AB? i dont get the same reaction from the women on mens issues. Whats the deal?
Because, Bryce, you willfully ignore the whole truth of the matter and, in a cowardly and cliched way, make any man (myself for example),who wants the whole truth discussed, out to be a misogynist, wife beating, wife raping bastard.
Not surprisingly, most of the "experts" in your field support this nonsense.
Here's a story about an abused man in CA. Know him Bryce?
Is he one...
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I'm confused. I've heard that those swirly light bulbs may actually be WORSE for the environment because they contain mercury. Is that true? Should I stick with regular light bulbs?
The flourescent (swirly)bulbs are harder to dispose of than the incandescents. The exact reason for that I don't know, but if something is hard to dispose of, it's because it contains toxic chemicals.
Whether or not your health will be harmed if you happen to break one of those bulbs is not really part of the equation.
They do require less electricity than incandescent bulbs, so...
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Can a man truly love a woman who is not his type? (im not a cowgirl, not below size 3, not under 25 yrs old, etc)
Never had my eye on a cowgirl before,so I'm not sure how alluring they are...
Not under size 3?
Size 8 -14 and a nice attitude...
or are we talking about shoe size here?
Under 25?
That would be like raising someone else's kid. I demand a woman!
(uh, I have one, but you knew that)
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What celeb, to you, is over-rated?
They're all over-rated.
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At what age do we reach our sexpiration date?
For a guy, it's when he looks down and utters to his other "self"- "Well, that's another fine mess you've gotten us into"
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Why do Christians believe that God is all powerful and can do all things when there is biblical proof in Judges 1:19 that God cannot do all things?
Apparently, God chose not to relieve the Israelites of the valley people.
God is not, and never will be, a genie in a bottle-there for the purpose of granting your wishes or bearing up under your scrutiny.
I believe that God CAN do all things,just as I can do SOME things.
That doesn't mean He WILL do all things, just as I will not necessarily do ALL things of which I am capable.
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For all you religious folks, I would like to sell my daughter into slavery, as sanctioned in Exodus 21:7. In this day and age, what do you think would be a fair price for her?
Can't get her to help around the house?
Your query would best be pursued with the local synagogue, since the measure you describe was practiced in Old Testament Israel, with the law of Moses (Genesis through Deuteronomy)serving as the law of their land.
Modern Christianity doesn't operate under ancient Israel's "constitution", so the question is not suitable (or...
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What is the best way to show your man you love him? Some tips to show I care on a daily basis?
Take his collar off and let him run free....
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Why do so few men take women seriously?
I take women quite seriously.Know what it gets me?... Alot of women who despise me, because I, apparently, give them too much credit.
I overestimate their ability to discuss serious things-especially things that affect gender relations-without them wanting to bite my head off should I disagree with them.
I envy the guys who don't take women seriously. They're ignorantly blissful.
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Has American society shifted from being patriarchical to being matriarchical? Why do you think so?
Yes, but the odd part is this:
We've become matriarchal while our society has been taught to disparage motherhood.
That is probably because acknowledging and honoring motherhood cannot be done without acknowledging and honoring fatherhood (patriarchy).
That ties in with the "why" part of the question.
Strong father figures-or more importantly, acknowledging and...
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My dog just ate a whole box of CO-CO Puffs and i hear that chocolate kills dogs, what do i do!!!!?
Dunno, but the dog will have tasty smelling farts.
Beyond that, just keep the CoCo Puffs where Fido can't reach them.
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Do you feel that if a man treats his wife well, he is "stabbing his brothers in the back" in an effort to ensure the right to "park his firetruck in her garage?" (as stated by an ABer)
Do you consider one to be a "friend" who willfully distorts what one says?
How about it Bryce?
How about it Lady?
I'll be charitable here. If reading comprehension is so lacking in either of you, than a college education isn't worth much.
At least not to you Bryce.
Let's beat a dead horse.
A man who treats his wife well can also see the lack of "equal...
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Name a movie you have watched that touched your heart.
Saving Private Ryan
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Does any body know how long the average 21 yr old male stays married?
Until he's 22...
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What do you think would happen if the Masculinists succeeded in legalizing marital rape, court ordered abortions and greatly reduced domestic violence laws? Would women be safe to marry? Would YOU marry?
Frankly, I think a MAN is crazy to marry, under the current laws.
That's why alot of them won't marry.
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I see that I'll have to repeat myself some more for Bryce....
For a man to be accused of "marital rape", he need not have committed the thigh bruising, forced entry type of intercourse that most people associate with rape.
There are men in their graves...
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Is there any other dimension other then x y z?
There sure is, but try expressing another dimension WITHOUT xyz.
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"Science is based on tested proof or empirical evidence. You conduct a test or experiment and then observe the results." Are you aware of any religions that are based on actual proof?
No religion is based on proof, but what passes as "science" these days is absent of observable proof, as well.
We only have to look as far into the Bible as the Creation account; belief in the Genesis account takes faith, but not an unreasonable amount.
Of course, the theory of evolution is flatly at odds with Genesis.
Do they have any irrefutable proof yet? Not yet.
They have...
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How to Be the Almost Perfect Wife And what does a man want from his wife
I've spent a long time arguing with Bryce over one of gardengirl's answers, forgetting to answer the question.
What does a man want from his wife?
He wants the same things he owes his wife:
Due benevolence-honesty, honor as a man and human being, a kind and cooperative attitude in all things and an earnest effort to preserve one's own health and appearance.
To not be...
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2/3 of divorces are initiated by women. Should society train men to initiate divorce more often?
2/3 of (American) divorces are initiated by women because
A) The clergy and religious denominations have fallen flat on their faces, in the face of feminism, where it comes to teaching the expected permanency of marriage, and the expected celibacy after divorce.
B) The courts and political leaders have vied to become surrogate father/husband figures. We can thank Karl Marx for that one-and...
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MY WIFE IS CONTESTING DIVORCE BECAUSE SHE SAID THAT IT IS S SIN TO DIVORCE. THERE IS NO DIVORCE IN THE BIBLE. IS THIS LEGAL IN THE STATE OF FLORIDA.
I happen to agree with your wife, but the State has assumed the authority in the matter. At any rate, you've apparently initiated the divorce and she'll clean you out, small consolation to her, but it'll be the best she can do.
Usually, it's a man pleading for the mercy of the court or that of his wife.
No divorce in the Bible?
Divorce is not only dealt with, but...
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Gay Men and Straight Women can be and are best of friends. How come you never hear of Straight Men and Lesbians as close buds?
All of the lesbians with whom I've had aquaintance hated men, as far as I could tell. That sort of precludes friendship.
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When I have sex with hubby, it hurts when he goes in, after about 5 mins the uncomfortable feeling is gone. Is your guy supposed to jab his penis in you, or should he be gentle when first going in? Me & hubby have been married 8 wks I was virgin before.
I never had the problem of "going soft' when I was younger, and it's still not too bad now.
One thing that will flatten me is stress and distraction. If he's up late working or he's upset because his favorite ball team lost, well he's got a limited time only, if he can even "rise to the occasion" at all.
Unfortunately, it's you asking the...
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My boyfriend of 3 years said that he can't marry me because I filed bankruptcy 4 yrs ago (became disabled, couldn't work), and I would not be approved for a mortgage to buy a home w/ him... Said "maybe in 6 yrs if your credit is better." Opinions?
Apparently, you have SOME income that he needs. If that's NOT the case and I were him, I'd just buy the house myself and then marry you.
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If there was a war of the sexes. What gender would win & why?
Both would lose.
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Why is it often assumed that if you don't perform well in school, you either do not work hard or you can't be bothered? It is also assumed that you are "stupid"; not only within school, but within other aspects?
The reason that it's assumed is that school performance is a common measure of someone's work ethic and ability to learn.
We all hear about famous inventors or business leaders who did not do well in school-some dropping out-but these individuals PROVED their abilities in an unmistakeable way by rising to the top of their profession.
It can happen that way, but if you're a...
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Guys, do you ever find yourself staring at a woman's legs?
Staring at woman's legs is very dangerous. This is only realized when at the end of the leg stare, you work your way up and find the eyes staring back at YOU!
BUSTED!
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Do you men think that these measurements of a woman is too big, too small, or just right? 38-36-40..OR do you think that she is porportioned well? even if she does have a little bit of a stomach..what do u think? please be honest!
Since you only asked about physical appearance:
Work on the waist. You'll look better and feel better too.
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My 1992 Jeep YJ, when I turn the key to start the Jeep it turns over and I can hear the starter rotating, but it won't turn over. Why? All the electronics work fine (lights, stereo, etc.). What could the problem be?
It's probably the starter drive. The starter drive is what connects the (turning) starter motor to the engine flywheel and turns it over.
It's located inside the starter assembly.
Good luck.
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In England they are suggesting that people littering from their car should be given points on their license, whats your opinion on this?
In the US, fines range from $200-$500 for tossing garbage out the windows of your car.
The roadsides are much cleaner now.
I've never heard of anyone getting zapped for throwing something bio-degradable (apple core,for instance) to the roadside, but I don't reckon that a cop wants to rummage through the ditch to see if that object you threw was indeed an apple core or a wad of...
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Do you think sex essential in marriage? What would you do, if you love your partner, but sex you have is just too bad and doesn’t improve? Would you leave? Would you cheat? Would you forget about sex and live your life without sexual satisfaction?
The sex act is what makes a marriage a marriage.All of the other stuff can legitimately be done between two people who are not married, by any moral code
If you and your spouse are physically capable of sex and one of you is too stubborn, mean spirited,lazy or wrapped up in football to get together with the other and tear one off, on a regular basis, then he/she is defrauding the other.
...
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When it comes to having sex with a woman, does the appearance of her body really make a huge difference? I have had 2 children and I am not fat, but my stomach has been severely scarred and I cannot tighten the very bottom of it. I am afraid to show any g
It depends on the reason that the man is with you to begin with.
If he's hunting for one nighters, then it's more likely that he'll stick around for one night and move on.
My wife burst her appendix when she was thirteen years old. The surgeon dared not stitch her abdomen in the conventional way, preferring to tape the incision closed in case he had to go back in and clean...
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Is there any way for a man to come out on top in this scenario, your wife / gf comes down the stairs all dolled up & says "Well.... how do I look?"
Easy...
"you look ready"
and (my favorite)
"I see you've got your man-lures (earrings) ready for action"
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Does the length of a marriage depend entirely on a woman’s capacity to tolerate nonsense?
Maybe it does. Maybe it depends on man's ability to do the same.
Maybe the real answer lies within each of them striving to make the other happy.
Yeah...that might work.
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Why is a woman slapping a man in comparison to a man slapping a woman considered acceptable?
Because we have huge double standards in society.
We've all heard that overt abuse(such as slapping) by a husband ALWAYS means that more rigorous abuse is taking place behind the scenes.
Somehow though, there is a disconnect when the overt abuse goes the other way.
Hmmm.
Of course, a woman slapping a man is downright acceptable when compared with other forms of retaliation. Ask...
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My greatest fear is that there is no PMS. Because that means that this is really her personality. Thoughts?
Whether it's PMS or her personality, don't enlist to live in her barracks!
Figure it this way: If it's PMS, the before, during and after is going to add up to almost two and a half weeks out of every month, leaving a week and a half of sanity and tranquility.
That's the better of two scenarios and don't forget, if it's her personality AND she suffers from PMS......
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When driving, whats the most you ever exceeded the speed limit by?
145 in a 45 mph zone.
Bad boy, lucky to be alive.
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What is a "perfect wife"?I dont deny sex,can cook,do not bitch ,take care of frigging everything and it seems like the hubby is still not really happy.Have never asked him to change a bit.Oh,I also do work.
Perfection and humanity are mutually exclusive.
You say that you've never asked him to change: Try that at the same time you ask him what's bugging him.
The late Michael Jackson sung some profound words
"I'm looking at the man in the mirror; I'm asking him to change his ways..."
We all need to change something about ourselves.
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Why is my boyfriend not proposing to me when we have been together for 2 years, we know we want a family and a life together, we are christian and believe in no sex before marriage and no living together until we are married? I cant wait any longer!
Talk to his mother, if you can. (unless she doesn't like you)
There's the best possibility that she can steer him to the altar and have him thinking it was his idea.
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Why do some men get so hostile toward the idea that thier wife wont have sex with him because she feels unloved by him? Is it really that complicated to understand?
Is it complicated to understand?
If, as the questioner has acknowledged, it is actually COMMON for this situation to exist, then apparently it IS complicated to understand, for both genders.
Let's admit something here, both sexes will use sex, or the witholding of it, to get "something" from their partner. For most men, that strategy is usually short-circuited by our own...
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My 99 Jeep Grand Cherokee Ltd. needs a new drive shaft and rack and pinion. Can I replace the drive shaft first, and repair the rack and pinion later?
You certainly can, but if I were you, I still wouldn't want to DRIVE the thing, since the rack and pinion is part of your STEERING system.
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Are you dissapointed with Obama?
No, the Marxist tool is doing everything I figured he would, except possibly at a faster rate.
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It was just revealed that the Obama EPA suppressed an internal report that there has been no Global Warming since 1950. What do you thing about this?
Very interesting.
To all who doubt there's any truth to this assertion (no warming since 1950) I'd ask this:
Did you doubt so strenuously the charges that the Bush Administration overstated Iraq's WMD capability/intent?
Betcha didn't! As costly as the war in Iraq has been, it will pale in comparison with what we'll endure once the "green" machine has us...
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Married men: What do you expect from your wife ? It seems to me once you get married you want someone who will clean all day, cook, iron, wash clothes, take care of kids, work, and never complain about it ! please shed some light.
Better question:
Is he rich? There aren't many guys out there who can pull down enough dough to ALLOW a wife to cook, clean,make babies and do nothing else.
Your friend is either completely stupid or he's just not interested in what he finds out there in modern womanhood. So, he has his standard line, guaranteed to repel most women.
Sounds like it's working for him.
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My son leaves his toys (knights and monsters) all over the floor. He is nine and we have told him four times that if these toys will go away for good. My wife thinks I should walk on them with my cowboy boots to teach him a lesson. Is she right?
I can understand your frustration, but crushing the toys will only work to a point:
The boy will only understand punishment. There is something to be said for throwing in reward for his co-operation.
My opinion?: Find a secure place where you can lock them up.
If he will not pick them up, take ONE toy and "store" it for him.
Continued lack of co-operation on his part will...
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A pastor was preaching about love in chappel, and he said the following words: "Girls, let me give you an advice, if a boy doesn't believe in Jesus, he can't love you." Later, he said "people from the east are evil". What do you think of that?
People from the east of what?
I'll assume he was reffering the east coast of the US.
He shouldn't paint with such a broad brush. There are decent, church going, God fearing people who live "east". They are outnumbered, if you reckon by political representation, by those who are not church going or God fearing.
So, I think I understand what he meant, but it was...
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Is the GOP doomed by hopeless devotion to Palin? See LINK:
One refreshing thing about seeing the Republicans out of the White House and "on the ropes" so to speak, in Congress, is that they start acting and talking like the freedom-loving individualists that I associate with Republican (or better yet, conservative) ideals.
Is the GOP doomed? Who knows?
They were damaged, but not by devotion to Sarah Palin, who is more of a novelty than...
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Last night my husband locked me out of the house (10:30 pm) when I was bringing my dog for a walk, because he was mad at me. He has done this before and it isn't safe, does anyone have any suggestions to make him stop?
What a jerk...
Make him walk the dog, or clean the rugs if he won't, or get a key made.
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Why do boys have it easy in life than girls while going through puberty?
Boys, as so many have already stated, have their own anxieties when dealing with puberty.
Take the group showers in gym class for instance:
There's anxiety about the size of his genitals compared to the others...how much pubic hair and stuff of that nature.
Actually these anxieties may diminish with the passing years, but they never really go away, since, as any man will tell you,...
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Are single women experts in knowing what a good man is?
Single women are still looking for a perfect man while married women know there is no such thing...and vice versa.
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Men, do you use a Menstrual Cycle Calculator to keep track of what's happening inside of your women?
No.
There's a calendar on the bedroom door with what looks like bowling scores on the corners of certain dates.
The dates are:
The date that her last (or current) period started.
The date that her next period is predicted to begin.
She asks me to keep track of these things because (apparently) I'm better at it than she.
It also helps to know when she'll have her period when...
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Great father (kids love and respect him), great provider, treats you well, but since a temporary separation, seems to only love you like a friend not like a lover anymore. Would you divorce?
Why think of divorce, if he's a good father, provider and friend?
Sounds to me as if there were too many strings attached where sex was concerned.
The separation taught him that his life was more stress-free without having to angle for sex with you.
He learned to do without it, and now you'll need to re-introduce the sexual aspect of your relationship where all of the strings...
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Wife works to support home. Husband unemployed. Her 32 y/o son lives with them. She has so much work, she has to bring it home. She is starting online college. Husband feels neglected. Couple is not talking. Married 3 yrs. Divorce or not?
FoC, does your wife claim to be a follower of Christ as well? If so, there may be value in seeking counsel from your pastor.
You need to be brutally honest with someone who can look you both in the eye, at the same time.
You need to have someone "in person" hear about the "no sex", the leeching stepson, all of it.
Divorce?
How neglected will you feel then? How much...
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Married Men: Do you wear your wedding ring?
No.
After almost losing my finger a few times in a dangerous job (ship building) I took the ring off.
I don't work a dangerous job anymore, but my fingers got fatter (and the rest of me), so it no longer fits. I could take it to jeweler and have it re-sized, but every time I'm reminded of the situation (like right now), I'm not in a position to go get it done.
I have the...
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Should foreigners be allowed to practise arranged marriage in America?
All marriages are arranged- by someone.
Now, if some strange guy with a strange accent informs you that he's chosen you for his son..
Run.
Fast.
No need for more laws or prohibitions. If "arranged" marriages are working (and many actually do) then why mess it up for those who practice them?
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What if we had no traffic lights and relied on driver judgment, what do you think would be the result?
It's bad enough WITH traffic lights!
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If you died, how long would you expect your husband / wife to wait before getting engaged?
They say a year is considered proper, but I told her if some guy comes along earlier than that, ready to dry her tears, then let the critics focus on someone else.
Most who'll criticize haven't been through the experience anyway.
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If you were a SAHM & your hubby reminded you that "I'm the sole source of income around here," would you be hurt? I take that remark as a dig that I don't do anything "important," but just stay home. I'm disabled, so it's not like I stay home by choice.
I am the sole source of (monetary) income in our household, but I could never do what I do at work and at home if Mrs. wasn't "keeping the home fires burning".
What she does- and I'll wager, what you do- is important, and if I were you, I'd invite him to take a crack at doing it all by himself for just two days.
He'll change his tune.
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Are mail order brides better than the girls from home?
If the phrase "girls from home" means ones sisters, then by all means it's better to go postal!
Seriously though, a woman from your hometown is a much safer bet, even though there are probably lots of nice girls "somewhere beyond the sea".
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Should a man have to inform his wife before he gets a vasectomy?
It would be NICE of him to inform his wife, but a law REQUIRING her to be informed, which would actually amount to requiring consent, is over the top.
I informed my wife of my intent to be "vasectomized" when she was in the third trimester of her sixth pregnancy (two miscarriages), because I was tired of her sexually manipulating me for "one more".
She got over it; so...
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Married men: if a DNA test showed that your 2 month old was not your biological child, what would you do?
Well....
since Mrs. Old Guy had her tubes tied ten years back, I guess I'd be in the clear...not having to explain why that woman and child are living in the garage.
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My neighbor just met me on Saturday and now she's coming over to hang out daily, fixing me dinner and helping me organize my stuff. Should I introduce her to Little Payton?
Does Little Payton have a Social Security card and all of his shots?
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My 2000 ford mustang shakes when i go under 55 and when it's at a dead stop. I just replaced the fule filter, put 4 new tires on it and did a tune up and changed the oil. can someone please help.. i don't have much money right now ; I love my car and don'
The car is computer controlled. Therefore, the computer can be accessed with a scan tool.
Some auto parts stores (Auto Zone, for example) will scan your computer for no charge if you can drive the car to their store.
That should help you get on the right track in finding your problem.
Call around and find such a store.
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How often do in-laws ruin marriages?
As often as the couple allows it. Your first obligation is to your spouse: to defend him/her, to prefer to spend time with him/her etc, etc.
If one allows his/her family to interfere, then they are as much to blame as the "outsiders" to the marriage.
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Should one marry a girl who has no parent?
Unless this woman claims to have dropped in from outer space, or claims to be the result of a lab experiment, then I can't imagine why you shouldn't marry her.
She's likely had a long history of heartbreak and disappointment.
If you're in love with her and she with you, then you don't want to be just another disappointment.
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Do you think this would have turned out different if it had been a man that did this instead of a woman??
www.newschannel5.com/Global/story
I'm not sure if the legal outcome would have been different, but I'm confident of this:
The media coverage would have been widespread. Nancy Grace, obnoxious individual that she is, would have voiced her disgust in nightly installments.
This wouldn't be the first time that I heard about it either.
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Hubby had to show me how to iron his shirts, while he was doing it I asked him if he was disappointed and he asked if he looked impressed cus of the fact that his wife cannot iron his shirts? Am I an embarrasment?
It's a good thing you're not married to me!
We'd both stand clueless at the ironing board, then I'd get fired for showing up at work with wrinkly shirts.
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Black clergy who oppose same-sex unions take issue when the fight for legalization is compared to the civil rights movement. Do you think the marriage rights are a civil right? See LINK:
Black clergy remember that the civil rights movement, as it relates to them, was about race.
You don't get to choose your race, and there isn't any dishonor, perversion or sin involved with being black. I can see why the clergyman would be offended at being likened in this way.
Most clergyman believe that homosexuality results from a willful choice.
It's not the same, not by...
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Why when you release the clutch slowly in frist gear with no gas the car moves, but if you release it fast it stalls? What exactly is happening when stick car stalls?
It's the same as me handing you a 50 lb bag of dog food, and then dropping the same bag of dog food onto your shoulder from 15 feet above you.
The engine, even at an idle, can handle the gradual load (even as you ease out on the clutch, the car starts moving.
Just loading the engine suddenly will stall it unless you've got a very powerful engine or very low gears in the drivetrain.
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What did people do before cell phones were invented?
Kept both hands on the wheel and drove in silence (and safety).
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Would you prefer a flatulent woman who enjoys fast food, coke & fragrant entertainment, or a woman who is a little less flatulent culturally but who can build & put up a set of handcuffs in under an hour on a Sunday morning & who makes a mean cunnilingus?
A TALE OF TWO SISTERS
I took an old fart to the symphony on Saturday night. We stopped at McDonalds for burgers and coke.While we were there, she clenched a fragrant rose in her teeth and danced on the table.
There were kids eating Happy Meals so she, much to my pleasure, kept her clothes ON.
Where did you get the rose, I queried?
"From my younger sister, who is only 69. She dated a...
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Can you give specific examples of how to be "girly" and "play hard to get?" I know these two attract men in general, and I'd just like a few ideas on how to do it in a positive manner. :-)
Girly?
You know how to do that. (it's magic that only a girl/woman can perform)
Slutty? We can probably help with that, but why go there?
Hard to get?
Over rated. In this day and age when women(particularly attractive women) are often suspected of being gold diggers (miserable long term partners), why immediately ADD to that suspicion by projecting an air of being...
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She punched me in the chest really hard. Now I'm broken hearted. What can I do?
Not much except bedrest.
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Why can't Tom Arnold stay with a wife for more than five years?
Why are you picking on Tom Arnold? Most of those entertainment types are like tomcats, and the women aren't any better.
I get alot of laughs out of Tom Arnold, but honestly, I doubt the guy can hold on to a THOUGHT for five MINUTES, never mind hold on to a wife for five years.
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Is pornography as harmful to men as it is degrading to women?
I'm intrigued by the evidence that in societies where pornographic images of women are commonplace, fueling a natural desire of men, men are penalized the most severely if their efforts to satisfy that desire are unwelcome.
Also, doesn't the enhanced desire that porn will cause leave a man more likely to be manipulated by a woman who uses sex as a tool or a weapon?
We've all...
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WHY IS IT SO DIFFICULT DATING WHEN YOU ARE A STRIPPER?
The same reason it is difficult to sell a rental car.
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Men: When you first see a woman naked, what are you most curious about?
What is there to be curious about at that point, other than when the drugstore clerk tells me to buy the magazine or put it back?
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My boyfriend is not into kissing, cuddeling, hugging, basically being lovey. And it really hurts me that hes not. Is this normal? He blames it on the way he was raised...?
I was like that myself.
Try not to be hurt about it, because if he is the way I was (and still am to a certain extent), he may have the best feelings for you, only he's afraid to express them physically.
The guy is like chocolate waiting for the right hands in which to melt.
Make sure that those hands are yours. Go slowly, earn his trust (he doesn't want to get hurt) and before...
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Why do women expect men to read their minds?
They expect it because they think they can read each other's minds.
I've been married long enough to hear my wife re-tell many an account of the disastrous results of assuming what "she meant when she said this or that to the other woman". Kind of makes me laugh when they say that world peace would suddenly be upon us if women ran the entire globe without the benefit of the...
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If women expect chivalry, what do men expect from us?
DO (younger)women expect chivalry anymore?
I don't think they do EXPECT it, but in my experience, they usually act more amused than flattered when chivalry is offered to them; as if to say "your treating me special won't spare you my contempt for you or your gender".
Therefore,I don't even bother holding a door for a woman who looks to be under 50 years of age.
Older...
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Men- why are you always asking why your wives aren't the same as they were when you were dating. I mean, come on, isn't it obvious?
Why should it be obvious if men have to ask?
I know we're supposedly demented idiots who eat lead paint chips while watching football.
Of course, that isn't true.
To the question:
First off, you're painting with a broad brush again; there could be many answers. Some will be reasonable, others, not so reasonable.
The question is a little vague, but I feel safe in assuming...
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If you have heard the recent news about the man who donated a kidney to his wife, and they are now getting divorced because she cheated and he now wants his kidney back, tell me should he get his kidney back? I think so.!
He'll be lucky to keep his house, let alone get the kidney.
So...
I'll be the judge.
She keeps the kids and the kidney.
He gets the car and the house. If he should die of kidney failure, the ungrateful whore should be charged with manslaughter.
Then she'll have a place to live.
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Why do married men cheat all the time?
Why do so many A'baggers paint with a broad brush?
I ought to keep that question in my profile so I can copy 'n paste it.
Why not ask why certain men cheat?
Why did your hubs cheat? Or are you afraid (or ashamed) of the answer?
Make no mistake about it, the spouse who cheats (he or she) is in the wrong, but there is usually swill in both buckets.
If you stick your face in...
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Me and my gf just got into a fight-she wanted to show my friend the new bra she had just bought (still in the bag), and i told her "no, he doesn't need to see that", and she called me controlling and said if he couldn't see it, neither could i.
Take your cue and head for the door. Let your friend deal with the bra and everything inside of it.
Her telling you that if HE couldn't see it then YOU couldn't see it either is the surest sign that you'll be a pathetic, pussy whipped guy if you're foolish enough to pursue the relationship past TODAY.
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Why do most women talk about doing violent things to mens genitalia, if their man is unfaithful? You never hear a man saying he'll do something violent to a womans genitalia do you?
Women talk about male mutilation because in our man-hating society it is acceptable.
Katie Couric once said, while interviewing a jilted woman, that "we ought to be able to castrate them".
What?
No outrage? No accusations of gender based hate speech? Not in this lifetime. Katie Couric is the cute, perky woman many American women aspire to be. What she said is considered...
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What would you do if,the governor or president said that divorce is fake,and there is no such thing as divorce,meaning you are still married to who you thought was your ex husband or wife?
What would you think if Jesus Christ said so?
He did, when he called those who remarry while the ex is still alive "adulterers".
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Married gals, if you thought your husband was having an affair... would you set fire to his genitals?
"I just wanted to burn his penis so it belongs to me and no one else. ... I didn't mean this to happen."
How stupid is that?
That's like burning your own car so thieves won't want it.
I've got news for this loo loo.
Even if the poor guy had lived, the only way you would ever get any use out your hub's genitals is if you help him take a leak.
This is a...
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Why do men always go for a womens looks/size first?.
Why do so many A'baggers paint with a broad brush?
The question is of the same caliber as "why are attractive women ALWAYS conceited, manipulative gold diggers?"
Human beings make basic judgements by what they SEE, whether they're evaluating a potential mate or a source of mortal danger (for example).
Have many men done themselves harm by choosing a physically...
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When a women complains of being beaten up, would you automatically put the blame on the man?
No.
All citations of how a woman can "push your buttons" aside, a woman only has to pick up the phone and call the police, and he is headed off to jail-even if he never touched her.
That is reality, no matter how some might try to squirm their way around it.
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Some one said to me "Marriage is a relationship in which one person is always right and the other is the husband!", is it right?
Well, with the misandric divorce laws in most western countries, it is right (as in "correct").
Morally right?
No.
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What does it mean if your husband treats you like a child?
Maybe you're acting like a child. That's always the unpopular possibility in this "make me feel good no matter what" society.
Maybe his dad treated his mom like a child.
You need to ask him why he treats you like a child and then buckle your seatbelt while you wait for the answer.
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The trouble code on my '96 Intrepid shows random multiple cylinder misfires. What could cause this?
If there are no other codes being shown ( cam position sensor, crank position sensor, etc) then it could be something as simple as bad spark plugs or an intake manifold vacuum leak.
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Is it true that few women admit their age and few men act theirs?
I freely admit my age because I actually look ten years older than I am.
As for ACTING my age?
How are we supposed to act at a certain age? Is there a chart you ladies keep hidden away by which to track our progress.
Hmmm
Let's see here...
He just turned 52 (not my real age :P) so he's supposed to walk with a cane? Have E.D.? Never have a laugh?
Never watch baseball?
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Why do women want equal pay and yet not take the responsibilities that come along with that. When it comes to pay, they claim they're equal, when it comes to responsibilities, they claim to be weaker?
Why do women want equal pay?
Who wouldn't?
I'll incur alot of feminine wrath here, but I'm on a roll today and I just don't give a rip.
I've worked with women who had the same job title and the same pay, who couldn't do the work.
I worked in the shipbuilding industry (shipfitter) for many years.
I never met a woman that could do the jobs that any one of...
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Why don't woman today respect their husbands?
Lots of answers here, all over the map.
To those who think that some women have no respect for their husband because she has an income equal to or greater than her husband:
You must think that in days past, husbands had no respect for their wives, simply because they were not breadwinners.
Not true.
You also have no concept of how a respectful relationship works, in that those who have...
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Why do most men like to be lazy around the house and say they work all day?
If you watched me around the house, you'd probably say I'm a lazy cad.
But you don't know me, any more than you know "most men".
I've gotten to the stage in life (late forties) where I'm feeling useless around the house myself.
But I know that I shouldn't.
I get up at 4 AM,commute one hour, work a ten hour shift, then an hour and a half commute...
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HOW MANY CFM ARE CAR HEATER BLOWER MOTORS
I'm sure that varies model to model, but I can tell you this much: I used the squirrel cage housing and impeller from a Ford Pinto with the motor from an old house fan to move air through the plenum on my wood furnace.
Typically, the blowers sold for that purpose will put out around 300 CFM (they're noisy and expensive) and this Rube Goldberg setup put out slightly less volume...
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Why does every one want money when Jesus said it is easier for a camel to go through an eye of a needle than a rich man to go through the gates of heaven?
Everyone wants money because everyone NEEDS money.
The desire to have enough money is not the same as the desire to be rich at any cost. (the love of money)
Now what Jesus was talking about when he said that refers to the many encumberances that rich folks have and non-rich folks will never fully comprehend.
The rich young man that Jesus had just spoken with walked away disappointed...
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I had an affair and want to save my marriage...what do I do. I have hurt my wifes heart and I want to do anything to save our marriage and make her happy!
If she's willing to go with you, spilling your feelings on a third party (clergyman, specifically) may help you communicate your intention to make things right.
There's something about talking to that outside party, making him witness to your remorse and renewed resolve, that may help:
You-to maintain your commitment.
Her-to see your willingness to be "witnessed" by...
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What is the percentage of men who are mama's boys? (You can come up with your own statistic, I'm not asking for a scientific study or survey. Just base your answer on your experience)
I think that depends on the culture or ethnic group to which a man belongs.
Some societies are very matriarchal, and the men from those societies often cannot sever the apron strings.
I am from basically English/Western European stock, pragmatic and independent.
We may care for our mothers in a practical way, but we don't have much trouble with telling Mom to butt out of our...
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Is it really true that even today American can't accept that dropping the A-Bombs on Hiroshima & Nagasaki was totally wrong? But they actually think that by brutally killing over 500 000 civilians they saved lives? I would call that patriotic denial.
Totally wrong?
No.
You do realize that the Tokyo fire raids actually killed more people?
This reality is why there are those who (rightly) say that lives were saved by dropping the bombs.
There was more than ample evidence of the willingness of the Japanese to fight to the death. This evidence was amplified by the Kamikaze attacks on US ships etc.
The same mindset is also evident in that...
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Do women prefer jerks?
No,
they prefer rich, educated jerks.
Otherwise, I'd be swamped with adoring women.
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What do men like to hear when they do something right but it doesnt work? (ex they work on something and they expect a compliment)
If it's done right then it will work.
If he tries really, really, really, really hard but he just can't get it right, then give him an "A" for effort.
On Monday, call a contractor.
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Why do women remember exactly what i said three months ago, but i can not remember what i had for lunch?
Dunno how they do that.
But KNOWING they do that is why it pays to not talk too much.
They can't beat you up with what you didn't say.
It's like walking a tightrope with a woman at each end.
One has shears and the other has a knife, and they'll both remember everything you say (even under your breath) as you sweat it out trying to keep your balance.
Of course,...
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If a woman having an affair with a married man is called a mistress, what is a man having an affair with a married woman called?
Depends who's wife he's with.
Should he be with my wife,
he's called DEAD.
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My husband told me that he wanted to seperate because we were on different agendas, he wants to not pay rent at his home where he lives but instead pay rent at a building where he is starting a church first of all he does not have a ministers liscense and
You don't need a minister's license to start a church.
He says you're on different agendas- is this true?
If so, does the separation only bother you because he doesn't want to pay rent?
Is it his intention to live at the church building?
If so, you could go live with him there, even if you ARE on a different agenda.
Just a thought.
Now, for the deeper stuff.
A...
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Does christianity forbid sodomy or oral sex? Excuse my words in this posting.I know there are different interpretations but is there any literal biblical evidence that if it isn't "normal" intercourse it is considered sinful?
The only specific reference to forbidden sex deal with incestuous relationships, homosexual relationships and sex during a woman's period (part of Old Testament law).
There are many folks out there who numbly say that only sex which will lead to procreation is valid.
I would have to ask them the following:
Is sex that occurs outside the "ovulation window" then sinful?
How...
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Does turning on a car's AC in the winter, and turning the fan speed all the way up make the heater work faster?
No, but there is still the benefit of keeping the seals and moving parts in the AC compressor lubricated, so if you've been doing that, keep doing it; If you haven't been doing that, then start. You only have to run the AC for a minute or so, once a week, to accomplish this benefit. Running the AC for a more prolonged period will only burn more fuel.
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Guys only please, and be honest. Do men ever really fall in love? Or is a relationship justa matter of convienence to you?
What is convenient about a real relationship if a man isn't wired to fall in love?
If all a guy wants is sex, then prostitutes are cheaper in the long run, and they never say no. I mean no offense in saying that. It's just true.
Men want to be loved as much as women do. Men feel loved when there is sex.
Now, why do guys tend to be bedhoppers?
Your guess is as good as any, but...
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Are all men after sex?
No...
we enjoy thrill of jumping through fiery hoops with sufficient flare to impress a woman into enetrtain the thought of having us mow the lawn.
If the grass is greener then fixing the door hinges will make the squeak to cease.
So quiet will the squeak become that friends will want to borrow us, so to prove you're right about your handyman, off he goes to build Susie a sundeck for...
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What a woman do actually expect from her husband?
If you can get women to actually formulate a response to a question like this, you've accomplished the impossible.
All women are different.
Some are nice, reasonable human beings, like _Aska_.
Some, and I'll echo the writings of feminist extraordinaire Valerie Solanas, want a husband to be a lawn mowing dildo.
Does that offend?
Some of you ought to listen to yourselves.
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My boyfriend and i were dating for one year. he wanted a "break" and then i told him to take a hike. then i tried getting him back and he blew me off. its been off and on and now he's with another girl, but he's telling me he still cares..help?
He wanted a break, you told him to hike.
He still cares, for some reason.
Sounds like you blew it.
Be more thoughtful next time, before you rebuff some guy, even if his request sounds unreasonable.
It's better than burning bridges.
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Why cant the American government leave the Native Americans alone,Considering they are actually the TRUE founding Americans!?
Which America are you talking about?
I'll assume you're talking about the United States government.
It's interesting that the question addresses harassment of American Indians.
It's the same bunch of liberals who harass everyone else in the US, so all we can say is "welcome to the crowd".
For those who feel that the Indians (oops, "Native...
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Why would a new self contained timing belt tensioner collapse after 15 miles then seem normal after taking it out?
The only thing I can possibly think of is this:
The hold down fasteners were not tight enough and the entire tensioner slipped away from the belt.
Or (not to be insulting), the plunger wasn't compressed when it was installed.
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When the roads are icy, is it gratifying to see over-confident drivers spun out on the side of the road?
No.
Would you want someone to gloat when they see YOU doing something stupid and pay the price?
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Is raping a woman any different than a woman getting pregnant on purpose without the man's consent? Please think about how each changes the life and attitude of the other and reply with your comments...
Well, you're going to get a wide range of answers for a question like this.
Now some will say that the man consents to the pregnancy if he consents to unprotected sex, and that is a commonsense answer.
However, there are those egalitarian folks who inadvertently have made this man a rape victim in the following way:
They say that consenting to sex because of emotional or...
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I always take a shower everyday with my wife, its almost a ritual, is that weird?
That's quite a ritual you've got going there.
You're saving some resources in the process, so you're also going green.
I wish I had a bigger shower....
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Why would a husband lie? My husband lies to me about stupid things. Why?
I know it in his voice every time he does it.
My mother used to ask me what I was "thinking about" or what I had "planned" or other benign sounding stuff like that.
She would then use that information against me at a later time, if she didn't tease and ridicule me right away.
That went on until I was about fifteen, when I finally learned to be more cagey with Mom, just to avoid being picked on.
It took several...
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What would you do if you wanted to break up with someone but they will end up crying?
If you care about them crying, why do you want to break up?
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For the non-believers-when people start disappearing (all the christians) from the face of the earth (which is the rapture) will yall believe that Jesus is real or will you still be in doubt that God really exists and still doubt that the bible is a true?
There will be no disappearance, no so-called "secret rapture".
When Christ makes his return, all will be forced to acknowledge Him; the Bible answers your question in this regard.
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How do you think the world would be right now if women ran all the countries?
It is run by women.
Don't let 'em kid you.
There might be a guy in the big chair, but there's a woman who's got him by the you know whats.
Boy am I in trouble now...
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Is it ok for a guy who is 18 to date a girl who is 13 yrs. old?
Sure!
Just bring your spoon and soap on a rope.
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My husband wants me to fulfull his fantasy which consist of bringing another female into our bedroom. I want to please him as much as i can but i don't know how to take this. Do you think it would ruin our marriage?
Call your mother.(She watches only, no disrespect intended here)
That way it'll be miserable for him, and he'll have that other woman in the room.
I feel like a prince when I hear how weird some of these guys are.
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Texas is a great place ,if...........?
...you stay on the pavement.
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Guys: Would you stop watching porn if you knew it offended and hurt the feelings of your wife or girlfriend?
Duhhh.
I shouldn't say that, I guess.
Even if a woman doesn't express any hurt over it, you KNOW they would rather you didn't look at porn.
So I don't.
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Have you ever been followed by someone because of their road rage?
Yes, but back in those days, it wasn't known as road rage.
As a teenager, I lived in a shoreline town on a large lake in central New Hampshire.
All summer long, we were inundated with tourists. Some of them were quite rude to the natives.
One evening, I had pulled into a pizza joint to pick up my order.
A car with Connecticut plates, being driven by a guy who was at least 100 lbs...
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Should slaughtering animals with deep incision with a sharp knife on the neck, cutting the jugular veins and carotid arteries be banned?
Would a dull knife be more acceptable?
Just kidding.
Is there any way of being slaughtered that isn't distressing?
If you somehow anesthetize the animal, I doubt that the meat would be suitable for consumption.
I really would hesitate to say that the means of slaughter you describe should be banned.
The reason that it's still a common practice is that the tools involved are...
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1993 lesabre starts fine runs good at first then misfires severely at normal temp. Codes are 26, 41, 56. Had cat checked but was fine. First started while on the freeway and suddenly started misfiring. Now smokes and smells rich.120,000 miles.
I don't know why this question got D-R'd.
Did you find out what those codes mean?
Normally,the car's computer system runs on default settings (referred to as "open loop")until it warms to operating temp, so if it runs okay until it's warm, then there's something wrong with one of the sensors.
For my 2 cents, I'll say its the oxygen sensor,...
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Is my wife cheating she is now working with a guy who is the son of a woman she cleaned house for the seem to be freinds
Are you friends with your co-workers? Being friends doesn't mean there is anything further going on.
As long as she still enjoys being with you and you still have a nice intimate life, then I doubt there's much to worry about.
If you get "over the top" with your concern (worry), then you could wind up driving her right into his arms.
So say a prayer now and then and...
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I love cars. do you?
Sometimes I love 'em and sometimes I hate 'em. It all depends on which side of the car(top or bottom) I'm looking at.
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Men, is it possible for a guy to NOT look. Is it possible for a man to be so wrapped up in their partner that no other woman matters? That they literally lose interest and start thinking all other women are ugly?
A man will notice; he may notice twice.
A good man will not ogle, and there is the difference.
Will another woman matter? She shouldn't matter in the way that you seem to imply.
A good faithful man will NOT lose interest because he thinks all other women are UGLY-this is important- he loses interest because, in spite of whatever shortcomings, real or percieved, that you (or he) may...
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Is a car an asset or a liability?
Depends on the car and on your need for owning one.
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Should Oprah Winfrey accept that she is a big woman? The results of her diets don't seem to last too long and isn't that unhealthy?
I suppose she should, but more important than that, the rest of the world should cease being so enamored with her, since she is a hollow-headed, racist, man-hating feminazi.
Go ahead and downrate.
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When a woman catches her husband cheating and they split why is the man verbaly abusive?
Hmmm.
He cheated. They split.
Then he was verbally abusive.
Verbal abuse would seem (to me) like a relatively minor offense at this point.
Why did he become verbally abusive?
He probably has alot of things to say:Things he should have said before cheating that he can't say now without being abusive.
He can't stop himself now that it's started. It's sort of like...
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If your car’s stick-shift can’t get into first gear because of some kind of gear-shift malfunction, despite pressing the clutch, will it work if you use a sledgehammer to FORCE the car into gear?
No.
Will it shift into any gear other than first?
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An automotive alternative produces electricity at all times when rotating. What happens to excess energy in the operation of an engine? Is it shunted somewhere? If so, where?
I'll take a stab at the electrical aspect of the question:
The voltage regulator, which feeds and meters the amount of voltage INTO the alternator, operates on the basis of the "need" for more/less voltage back to the battery and thus all of the electrical devices operating at a given time.
The alternator does not necessarily produce electricity whenever it rotates. There...
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Why do husbands tend to get sulky when their sick?
Most guys are used to feeling pretty good most of the time, so when we don't feel well, it's quite depressing.
Consider something ladies: Since the age of twelve or thirteen, most of you have had a menstrual period every month. Now, whether you think that it's a fair deal or not, you become accustomed to functioning with the discomfort.
I may be using a poor example, since many...
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Adultery is a misdemeanor crime in some states: should it be?
Yes, if only for the fact that it would put the act out of reach for those who wish to remain law abiding.
Listen folks; adultery wrecks lives, usually it wrecks the lives of those NOT rolling in the sheets.
Arrest and conviction of a crime is nothing to sneeze at. Jobs are harder to get (and keep) when you have a record. That "life wrecking" aspect of an arrest record seems to be...
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I am getting married in an Anglican Church, but my fiancee's best man hates religion and openly mocks it. I have spoken to my boyfriend about it, but he really wants him in the wedding. How can I make sure he doesn't ruin the wedding with his big mouth?
What is your fiance's attitude toward religion? Generally speaking, the best man is the groom's best friend.
I may have what I would term a "cordial" aquaintance with someone who is openly hostile to a thing such as my religion, but a guy like that would never be my best man and would never even be an invited guest.
Having said all that, remember that the majority of the...
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At what age do men start caring less about sex?
It's not so much that you care less about it, but there does come a time when you realize you're not a kid anymore, and that sex every night is something you couldn't keep up with anyway.
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Is it ok to rape and beat my wife...and im a man so i rape and do what the fuck i want to her cause she mine....... shes blowin me right now.
Gotta wonder why you registered as a female.
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Can women decode men's behaviour?
Man say:
I'm hungry- means man hungry
Man say:
I'm horny- means man like you
Man say:
I'm tired- means man need quickie, then sleep.
Man say:
I love you- means man tired and horny
Man say:
You're beautiful tonight-means man watch Oprah or man cannot find glasses. Check mirror to confirm.
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What's the best punishment for cheating?(Mention differently for a guy and that for a girl)
It used to be death..
for either one of 'em.
Now it's life imprisonment, for the one who didn't cheat.
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If you could have a muscle car from the 60's - what would it be?
'69 Hemi Charger.
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What is the point gap for a 1980 ford f 150 with a 300 ci motor?
I could be wrong, but a truck of that year shouldn't have points.
It would have electronic ignition, which means that within the distributor there is a Hall Effect Sensor.
Hall Effect Sensors will have a "reluctor gap"
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If you were the last man on earth would you stay with your gf or even wife?
If I were the last man on earth I'd have so many problems that the last thing I'd want to do is have all of the women on earth angry at me for two-timing them.
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Hi i want to ask if i modify my car like an air filter and the complete exhaust will it use more gas? let's say the mods will be the same weight as the stock or even lighter?
You didn't say what kind of car you have, but usually those type of modifications,particularly a free flowing exhaust, will increase fuel economy.
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My husband is overweight and will not do anything to get back into shape. Am I a horrible person because I'm just not attracted to him anymore? I still love him but in a "brotherly" way more than anytnhing. he would be so hurt if I said anything.
Sometimes what we need is to be "so hurt". Saying something might save his life, if he's become so overweight that it endangers his health.
My wife has never been a tub, but there were times when she carried more weight than she should have.
I didn't want to hurt her feelings either, but something had to be said.
You're all going to think I'm a heel for what...
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Just bought a 2008 chey HHR 18000 miles on it first day home with it I go to take it out and key goes in and out but won't turn tryed everything the 800 service number was no help they just say jiggle the key... any answers out there?
"Jiggle the key" might sound like a pretty lame answer, and no one blames you for being upset, but did you try it?
I've had the same thing happen, and putting some turning pressure on the steering wheel is one of the things that usually does the trick if I shut the ignition off with the steering wheel turned extreme left/right.
Now, if there's no tension on the...
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If men need so much "variety" then why do you guys even bother to get into relationships?
Let me start by asking the questioner this: If men (as in ALL of us-that's how you worded the question) need all of that variety, then why do YOU bother starting a relationship with one of US?
As to my answer: I've got echo Schroeder on this one. Any woman who even makes an attempt at keeping herself attractive, doesn't make her husband feel as if he's intruding when he...
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If a strict Republican and Democrat got married, what do you think the chances are the marriage would last? I'm sure some do, but how much do you think political parties matter?
If two people are THAT serious, then they'll begin to realize that the two parties are nothing more than Socialist Party "A", and Socialist Party "B".
Not worth ruining your marriage over it, since it's likely that you both take the issues more seriously than do the hacks who represent your party on C-SPAN.
So what to do?
Lovingly find a third party; at...
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I just remembered liter or cubic inches in car engine please explain to me if you would big block small block and straight engin and how they work? I used to know these things before the state helped me.
The answer to the big block/small block question will vary by manufacturer/ year/ and even the use of the engine (car or truck)
Typically, the blocks of any given manufacturer will be divided into the groups "big block" and "smallblock"
The same basic blocks are usually used for several different engine sizes within the respective groups.
Straight engines? As their...
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Is it strange to have a close relationship with my Daughter-In-Law even though my Son had abandoned her and the kids?
It's not strange (as in socially unacceptable). It's rare and admirable.
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Why do people fall in love with those who dont love them back and ignore those who truly love them?......or maybe its just me
People always want what they can't have. It's not just you.
I've known my wife (of 25 years) since I was eight years old.
She used to tell her mother that she'd marry me someday, even when she was just a little girl. Right up through high school and into young adulthood, she was my good friend, but nothing more.
I was infatuated with other young women, those I was too...
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I have a 2005 chrysler mini van. The tire size is 215/70R15. Some one gave me a set of 205/70R15. is it safe to put this on my car. I don't see why not, the size of the diameter is not changed?
The rim diameter may be the same, but the actual diameter of the tire is different.
How big a deal is it?
You'll certainly have slightly diminished fuel economy because of the smaller diameter tire.It's possible that the ABS computer will be slightly out of whack, but the computer actually counts revolutions and compares them to vehicle speed (also known by revolutions), so if all...
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Are humans arrogant to fight nature? eg, building storm defences, mowing the lawn, cosmetic surgery, etc.
Just to give something other than a humanistic perspective:
God instructed Adam to subdue nature, to have dominion over it; so our natural inclination to "fight" nature comes from the supreme Creator, and is not a manifestation of arrogance on our part.
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When I add sandbags for extra weight in the bed of my 4 wheel drive PU, does the placement of the weight make any difference? all up front? Over the wheels? back against the tailgate? any ideas? Thanks. Bill
Between the rear wheels and the back of the cab.
Placing to the rear of the rear wheels will poise a giant dead blow hammer waiting to strike in a frontal collision, as well as lifting the front end, thus reducing steering response.
The only time I would place the weight all the way back would be to counter-balance a snowplow, of which you made no mention.
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Im thinking about buying another car.... but the guy who is selling it doesn't have a title for it.... i was wondering.... what is wrong with not having a title? and why do i need a title for the car?
You'll need the title to register the car, so unless you only want the car for a decoration...
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My daughter's 1 year old Pug began vomiting last Thursday (Thanksgiving)night and he has not been able to take any significant amount of solid food since then. See first answer for more...
We're quite careful about not allowing our dogs to have bones of any sort, but it's possible that in the holiday cooking frenzy that he scarfed up a turkey bone. No one saw him eating a turkey bone though.
The little rascal finds the cat's litter box irresistable (yuck!) and I was wondering if ingesting the litter, with it's clumping properties, could obstruct the...
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What do men really want? why do they always act like they don't like you, then they do, when they act like they do is when they only want sex?
Go easy on us ladies.
When we spend time around you, in any amicable situation, it won't take long before we're longing for you physically, even if we've "been with you" thousands of times.
That's the power a woman has over a man.
Don't despise us for it, just be aware of it and enjoy it.
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If your Wife (house wife) wants you to give more time, how one should manage?
Is she working when you're working? If not,see if your boss will allow her to fly too, providing you're willing to pay.
That would be a blast if the boss will let you do it.
It's doubtful, I know.
If you have other liesure activities, you may have to pare them down to bare bones, in terms of how much time you spend, unless those activities might be something she'd...
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My husband says he needs sex to feel loved and wants me to give him oral sex but does not give me any in return.He wants me to play with him,but won't touch me at all,he gets hard puts it in and gets off,its all about him not me why is this.He is 48
Do you ask for what you want?
I'm not assuming that you did or didn't, you just didn't say.
Your husband says he needs sex to feel loved. That's not an uncommon thing for a man to feel or say, and for him to have (apparently) said this to you it just makes me wonder if he thinks that you don't like sex at all.
Maybe he's a minute man because he thinks you...
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I'll regret asking this one HA! How many times should you forgive the one you love? Through broken promises, infidelity...can "love" really make it through it all? After 12 years.....?
Love forgives again and again, so it shouldn't surprise you that you keep coming back.
Love also, however, seeks the benefit of it's object, so getting the issues resolved is a must. If you've got the forgiveness down, resolution should be relatively easy.
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To the married people here: do you think the decision to get married has been the hardest one you've made in your life? To the single people: why aren't you married yet?
It was one of the easiest decisions I ever made, and one of the best.
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If your Wife (house wife) wants you to give more time, how one should manage?
Give more time to what? As opposed to what?
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My husband doesn't want us to have Santa involved in our Christmas ever, he was raised to think it was pagan and Santa took away from Jesus. I had Santa and I loved it and I want my kids to have him. We both feel strongly. What should I do?
I had the account of Jesus' birth as the main backdrop at Christmas when I was a kid, but we had Santa Claus over for Christmas too. My parents always emphasized that Santa was for fun and that Jesus was the real reason.
My wife and I similarly emphasize Christ in Christmas; We never play up the Santa Claus stuff ourselves, but we allowed our kids to watch all of the Santa based TV...
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Do you think (wary old guy & Brian I both like guys
Forget it sailor boy.
You're not my type.
And my wife would kick your scrawny arse.
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Do boys or men like hair or no hair on a girl down there?
Lotsa hair. No hair at all.
Whatever she's comfortable with.
However, if a gun was put to my head, demanding an either/or answer, here it is.
Lotsa hair. I've seen how the skin often looks irritated when she shaves the "bikini line"(?). I've asked her point blank if she's shaving ANY of that for my benefit (she doesn't ever wear bikinis, so I'm the...
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If you have a 4x4 or a big truck/ suv do you feel like runing the little cars of the road
In a word: NO
My truck is a tool, not a weapon.
I don't feel any more aggressive when driving my truck than I do when I'm driving my Civic.As a matter of fact, I'm usually more mellow in my truck because I feel less threatened.
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What attracts you guys to a girl at the gym. I work out pretty hard, sweat a lot (I'm fit, toned, no bulging muscles or anything) and lots of guys look at me and smile but NONE will approach me (except for this one old crazy guy). What's the deal...
For years women have complained about being hit on wherever they go.
Contemporary men have heard this all their lives, so the nicest ones won't say a word, unless they happen to be crazy or old.
You all wanted to be in the driver's seat, and now you are. You'll have to make the first move.
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What does it mean when a guy says he is confused? He says he doesnt know exactly how he feels about me (as in he doesnt know if he wants to be with me). Guys can you help me understand what is going through his head.
He may have passed that feeling of novel infatuation.
Everyone goes through that, and it is confusing, especially if you're young. It doesn't mean he no longer cares for you,(that's why he's confused)he's trying to figure out what this new feeling really is.
It probably sounds lame, but the best thing you can do is try to assure him of your feelings about him (if...
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Is there such a thing as being too patriotic?
Too patriotic? Not likely.
The problem comes when "blind patriotism" has us acting like flag waving idiots.
There are times when every nation, every state, every town and even every family need to exercise extreme "patriotism" by use of conscientious self examination.
Being human, we all need to realize that no matter how much we may love our family, or our nation, that...
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Are massive breasts on a woman boring to you? Would you ask or approve your wife or GF getting implants?
It's strange how I never hear anyone ask, in a similar context, this type of question regarding a man spending hundreds of hours at a gym, sculpting his body beyond what is necessary for good health and function- to make himself look like a Roman Gladiator, when he is not.
To the question:
Massive breasts boring? They are what they are, so my answer is no.
Would I ask my wife to get...
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I am a trainer at the largest gym in our town. A couple of weeks ago my wife asked me if i would be interested in fighting another trainer there for her and a couple of others to watch. What is the motivation behind this?
Is your wife critical of the brutality that the Roman Empire displayed in their "bloodsports"?
If so, she's sort of hypocritical.
Motivation? Who knows? Maybe it's the same as men watching beauty contests or strippers (both stupid and degrading).
Fighting is something done only when necessary. It's not for entertainment.
That's my two cents.
Don't...
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Can women scientists clone themselves? If so, why do we need men at all?
I don't know if women scientists can clone themselves, and I'm sure that there are women out there who wish all men were dead or castrated.
Maybe an equally pertinent (and unkind) question would be this:
If women scientists plan to clone themselves and kill or castrate the men, then why not kill the women?
If the question offends you, remember who asked first.
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Why do women often say one thing and mean another? It's confusing for us guys.
I don't think they realize that they're actually speaking in "female code"-which is something that will confound even the most astute gents.
Don't worry. In about thirty years you'll be able to decipher the code with about fifty percent reliability.
Until then, just hang on for dear life. Why should you have it any easier than the rest of us. :D
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Did you marry your best friend?
Yes.
I didn't realize it at the time, though.
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A virus wipes out all men on earth, leaving women unscathed. Does pornography continue in some form, or is it really only a response to male sexual drives?
Buy stock in DuraCell.
That'll be the next big thing.
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My parents have been married for 33 yrs. I happened to come across his faves on his computer and found that he has a profile on sev. dating sites and lists himself as seperated. I need to know what or how to tell mom. I know he is talking/dating women
Better talk to Dad first. Let him know that you came across this stuff.
By having him know that you have an inkling of where he's been sniffing around, you may "scare him straight" without Mom ever needing to go through the hurt of knowing.
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Ladies, pls help my friend: You're married 7 yrs & have 4-yr old boy. Husband has lost interest in you: no sex, no fun. You're empty & unhappy. Is it worth divorce to seek own happiness? Or is reducing boy's time w/ excellent father too high of a price?
I ain't no lady, but taken on face value, a man that refuses to fix what's wrong with his marriage (no sex, no fun) whether it's a medical, emotional, or moral problem, is NOT an excellent father.
Boys learn alot about how to treat women from their fathers.
Even if a 4 year-old cannot understand the adult nature of these problems, he sees that it's apparently alright for...
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Is it possible to remove a broken rod from my 1.9L 4cyl engine 92 saturn and still drive it?
You could remove a broken connecting rod and the piston that it was attached to, but it's likely (extremely likely) that something else was terminally damaged when the connecting rod broke.
Anyway-if you decide to try this, you'll have to remove the cylinder head to get the piston out, unless, of course, the piston was pulverized.
Take the oil pan off first and check. You'll...
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What can Christians do to ensure God is in their marriage?
God is part of every marriage; He instituted marriage.
Now, all I can add to the insightful advice already given is that the couple remember that they are brother and sister in Christ. They were before they were married, and they will be at the end of this life.
Remember how God expects his children to treat and forgive each other.
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I need opinions: I turned onto my street and so did the car behind me. she then followed closely behind me.(SPD LMT 30) she attempted to pass me 2x. I braked as I was getting ready to turn and she hit me causing my van to move forward. more in answer.
You need to see an attorney before you talk to ANYONE at an insurance company.
The other driver, from what you've said, appears to have been overly aggressive-to the point that this entire incident will be regarded as "road rage".
I understand that you weren't the one who started it, you weren't the one who was "raging", and that you were probably rattled,...
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Guys,do you really want a sex slave or do you want a woman to play hard to get?
No self respecting person, male or female, wants to have to jump through hoops to get affection/sex from a partner.
That gets old.
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Why is it that men don't always have equal rights to women in Society? Now there's a discussion question.... :-)
Ask this question of Joe Biden, the soon-to-be Vice President of the US.
He authored the Violence Against Women Act.
Now you may ask "what's wrong with that?"
Consider the fact that men may be jailed and deprived of their civil rights without due process, all as a result of VAWA.
Many jurists question the constitutionality of VAWA, so it's not just a bunch of...
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During an argument, my daughter's boyfriend purposefully broke her $250 cell phone. Do we have any legal recourse in the state of Missouri to force him to replace it? He is refusing to.
Sounds as if you'll have to take him to small claims court.
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Why is it that most good looking guys are jerks? Do they think that their good looks compensate for the lack of character?
Good looking guys get away with being jerks because there are always enough good looking women stupid/shallow enough to fawn over them no matter what.
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Would you get married while still in college?
Alot of couples used to get married while still in college, and most of them had successful marriages.
That was then.
Most people aren't ready to be married before, during, or after college because they're too self-centered.
Their student status has little to do with it.
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Why do most men want to get married?
I wasn't aware that most men want to marry. In that regard, the question is a bit unusual.
Most men who want to get married are the products of a loving stable home, and they see the marriage that their parents have and want that for their own life.
Most of these men may engage in pre-marital sex, but they don't feel right about it; their religious training has instructed them to...
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I want to put a small Snowsport snow plow on my 2005 rav4,but nobody makes a front mount hitch receiver for a rav4. What is the reason for this
jamesgalardo is right.
Isn't the RAV4 a Camry derivative? If so, not only is the driveline not strong enough, but niether is the frame.
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IS THERE ANYONE WHO HAS HAD A BAD EXPERIANCE WITH USED MOTOR OIL THAT HAS BEEN FILTER AND USED 50/50 IN THERE DIESEL ENGIN.MY TRUCK IS A 2007 DURAMAX
50/50?
I never heard of it being mixed that heavy, at least not with diesel fuel.
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The Automotive manufacturer's CEO who beg for the bail out flew to DC using private jet instead of commercial first class. They made excuse that it's based on company's SOP. I heard from this afternoon news news. Thought?
Galls ya doesn't it?
Truth is, however, that most of those big companies own a business jet or two, along with a pilot and crew to fly it.
They're paying for it whether they're riding in it or it sits on the ground.
They just have to put fuel in it.
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Do you get all excited when a woman tells you her breast size?
Excited? Nah.
It just means I'm shopping for underwear...
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What are some fun things to do with a condom?
Fill one with a mix of acetylene gas and oxygen. Tie it off and tape a loooong strip of toilet paper to it.
Light the toilet paper on fire.
Run.
More explosive than sex.
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Do guys need to be made to feel like a man from their girlfriends or significant other? This is an honest question, any thoughts welcome.
I never needed anyone to "make me feel like a man".
Now, making him GLAD he's a man is another thing altogether.
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I was eating a burrito with the unfolded end pointing down. My then gf chastised me for eating it that way which was the beginning of the end for us. Has anything this stupid ever happen to you?
If THAT was the beginning of the end then it sounds as if you had your sentence commuted.
Write a letter of thanks to the governor for his mercy, and then be as sloppy as you want.
Good luck finding a girl who isn't a controlling nitpicker.
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Why do so many men feel that housework is a woman's job? Is it just laziness?
I don't know that I qualify as "so many men" but I'll speak for myself:
I'm at work or on the road twelve hours a day. It's been like that for a long time.
She's home, by her own choice. Had she chosen to get outside employment, I wouldn't have to be away so much.
If she's waiting for me to do housework after I get home, well the house is gonna...
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If a plane can travel 440 mph into the wind and 500 mph with the wind, find the speed of the plane in still air.
If we assume the wind speed is the same:
(500 + 440) /2= 470 mph
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I need to draw a 28 sq foot circle to the scale 0f 1/8 inch = 1 foot. How long does the radius need to be?
1 3/4 inches
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DO YOUR SPOUSE COME BEFORE YOUR MOM-CHILDREN
You can't really put it that simply.
Your marriage DOES come first, but the way to make it come first is an ongoing series of judgements.
Sometimes you do have to forego time with your spouse so one of you can be with a parent or child when they are in need of your assistance.
However-and this is the tricky part-you have to judge when the need has been satisfied. You have to decide...
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If people get married, does that mean they must have children? Some people think that. I would like to be married somebay, but I never want kids.
Of course you do not have to have children.
Expect TONS of pressure from parents and in-laws though.
I have four kids and I finally had to tell my mother-in-law to butt out of our business. She was relentless. She was one of many who DO judge the worth of a marriage and the character of the couple by how many children they bear.
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What can you do to prevent sexism?
It's too late to prevent sexism, since it already exists.
It's important to note that sexism isn't just a problem with men's attitudes about women, but also the reverse.
We'll never completely be done with sexist thought; as a matter of fact, a little bit of sexism is healthy and even a pleasure, manifest in the mystery and intrigue that makes men and women curious...
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Men asking their girlfriends dad for permission before proposing is: old fashion or the right thing to do?
It's old-fashioned and the right thing to do.
My son-in-law asked me, and I really appreciated the gesture.
Moreso now than ever, the parents may have to deal with the fallout of a relationship gone bad, so letting them have their say beforehand is a good and wise thing.
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Have you actually prayed for someone?
Yes, I've prayed for those close to me and for those I've never met.
I've even prayed for some A'baggers when it seemed as if only God has the answer.
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Can the law legally pull over a 'muscle' car stating that it is in violation of local and state obscenity laws if the driver knowingly purchases the 'muscle' car for the express purpose of cruising in public?
WHAT????
Where else are you gonna cruise?
For that matter, what is cruising? Driving slow in public.
Now, if you're blaring that obnoxious, filthy rap "music" from your musclecar while you cruise...
Or you've got a nude supermodel surfing on the roof...
Maybe.
Are you sure you're not leaving something out?
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Why men hides their emotions?
Have you ever watched a fish flopping around in a boat?
A man trying to express his emotions is nearly as inept and helpless.
If he is dealing with a woman, with whom th relationship is of high importance to him, he'll be more reluctant to swim in the "emotions" pool, because from experience he knows that the odds are great that he'll screw the whole thing up and lose...
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Iam 21 and would like to find out what its like to be teased by a 40+ woman for having a small penis, are any women into that?
Why is a woman that old getting a look?
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What is the major reason the US got involved in the Persian golf war?
I'm gonna get shelled for this but here goes:
We are involved in the Persian Gulf ('91 or '03, makes no difference) because the Zionist Jews (many of whom are also called NeoCons) want us to take out the enemies of the State of Israel.
"Oil" is a good answer, but even "oil" is just a cover for the reason I've given above.
They (the Zionists) will...
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SO...is global warming for real? if so, why are the South Pole caps not melting or melted?
There are certain evidences that have some people convinced of global warming.
I think a better question is this:
If the earth is warming, is it due to human activity?
That's where the liars and crooks come out of the woodwork, trying to get the simple minded to surrender their dignity and freedom as human beings.
Environmentalism, to use a broad term, is the brain child of modern...
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What would you do if your boyfriend spit on you during a fight?
Find a new boyfriend.
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When you get into your car, do you ever get the 'feeling' you will have an accident? You then decide to drive more carefully.
Sometimes I do.
I am of the personality that often gets edgy, and I'm not sure why.
I do recognize when I feel agitated now, which is different from when I was younger.
I try to drive more cautiously and be more patient with other drivers when I feel that way. If the feeling is really severe, and there's someone else who can drive, then they get the keys.
Now, if I've just...
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Guys, do you dislike it when a girl calls you "cute"?
With a gray mop like mine, I'll take anything I can get.
Even when my hair was brown, cute was good.
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Can a man go thru life being faithful to one woman?
Yes, assuming that the term "thru life" means from the day of marriage forward.
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Should adultery be illegal? (Im serious!)
Yes.
It used to be, and because of that, a cheated-on spouse had a better chance of suing the "other" for damages, so at least there was significant possibility of some sort of punishment.
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If within a marriage one partner denies the other sex (just because they are angry), can they morally still demand that the other refrain from seeking sex outside marriage?
In response to TwiceShy's comment:
"when married, our bodies are not our own"?, Is this true?
It depends on your belief system. Many will make a claim of godliness and then support a spouse who uses sex (or witholding sex) as a weapon.
In the Apostle Paul's first epistle to the Corinthians, chapter 7,
verses 2 thru 5 read as follows:
2)...to avoid fornication, let...
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If within a marriage one partner denies the other sex (just because they are angry), can they morally still demand that the other refrain from seeking sex outside marriage?
Hitting your partner below the belt because you're angry is an immoral act in itself. Sorry if I'm not progressive enough for some of you on that.
When married, our bodies are not our own. If you can't live with that thought then don't get married.
Having said that, the jilted partner is still not free to seek sex outside.
That's why using sex as a weapon or...
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How do I solve the equation: 7y=3y-56
7y=3y-56
7y-3y=3y-3y-56
4y= -56
4y/4 = -56/4
y = 14
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Men: Do you think that you reach a point in your lives when you decide you want to settle down and have kids or is it just a case of the woman in your life influencing this decision? I personally believe that men have all the power in this regard. Views?
It's not an either/or question.
My desire to settle down led me to seek a relationship with a woman.
The decision to have children, however, is much more involved.
Men certainly do not have "all the power" in this regard.
Remember, children are the possible result of an activity that most men enjoy immensely.
Women have been known to abstain from this activity unless all...
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Anyone ever fix their windshield with one of those repair kits from Kragen? I just have a small pit and am hoping I can fix it. Shops etc charge so much for a few minutes work?
I've used those before.
I never saw any real improvement in the appearance, but it should keep the chip from turning into something worse, like a star or a crack.
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Who's idea was it to strap an ill-fitting, cockeyed floor mat to the back bumper of your car to prevent scratches and scuffs? Yea, your bumper is scuff-free, but you can't tell because IT'S GOT AN ILL-FITTING FLOOR MAT STRAPPED TO IT! Sheesh....
Alright!
I'll come clean.
It was me.
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Guys, how do you feel about your girlfriend having a male gynecologist? I try to not let it bother me, but it does. Do you feel the same?
Male gynecologists and obstetricians are still in the majority, so I guess you need to get over it.
Look at it another way: Do you honestly think that her doctor spent a quarter of his life in training just so he could have a peek at your wife's/girlfriend's "nether" region?
The guy sees the naughty parts of hundreds of women every week. I frankly wonder how those guys...
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Are there any advantages to pre-arranged marriages?
There are different ways of looking at the issue.
What is the divorce rate among couples whose marriage was arranged by their parents?
Those folks tend to be on the outside fringes of our society, so hard facts may be difficult to unearth.
We could ask ourselves this: How much valuable time-time that could and should be spent developing ourselves as individuals (schooling etc.) do instead...
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How do u win a guy that only beleives in dating people in the same religion... grrrrr... plz help im so confused n i reali like him n he likes me but because of his religion he dosent wanna go out with me... sigh :( plzzzzzzzzzzzz help me.
You're not going to win.
If you manage to woo him somehow, then he will have abandoned his faith. In the end, you'll both lose.
Let's put a more constructive twist on this.
What is it about this guy that you really like?
Have you considered that maybe what you like about him is a byproduct of his faith?
If that's the case, then you should examine the faith for...
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If you were married for just over a year to a man 16 yrs older where there had been issues with his infidelity and you found out he now has terminal cancer, would you let him "live life to the fullest?"
Why not?
This assumes that you,me or anyone has the right to deny someone "life to the fullest".
If you were to exact some sort of righteous revenge on the guy at this point, then the gossips will have their tongues wagging long after he's gone from this life.
He's going to meet his Maker and Judge really soon; nothing you can do to him now will compare with what he...
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Do you think the 2009 Dodge Challenger and the 2010 Chevrolet Camaro are outdated?
Both cars are quite up-to-date in terms of technology.
They are both doomed to be victims of really bad timing, when economic circumstances are considered.
I'm betting that most people who'll be able to afford to own/drive either car will choose something else, other than the few MoPar/Chevy collectors who'll want one for the intangible(for now) collectible value that these...
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When I use to drive my car at 50 mph, the rpms ran around 1500. Now they run around 2000, and this is also at any speed my rpms have risen. What is the cause of this? Can this be easily fixed?
Well you've either got slipping clutches ,the transmission isn't shifting into OD or the torque converter isn't locking up.
Not cheaply or easily fixed, although the "isn't shifting into OD" might not be so bad.
If the car "feels" the way it always did it might just be the tachometer is in error (doubtful).
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If u have very good experience workin on cars, how do u fix negative camber on the front of a 1995 civic sedan?
Good experience?
Most of my experiences working on cars have been miserable.
If the camber is out on your Honda...
I suppose you could have a bad lower ball joint, but usually, with MacPherson strut cars, caster and camber is adjusted by moving the top of the strut backward or forward (caster) and inboard or outboard (camber).
The fasteners are accessible on the top of the inner fender...
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What causes vapor lock?
Vapor lock is typically experienced during warm weather, when fuel in a vehicles fuel lines will vaporize.
A positive displacement (in-tank electric) will have no trouble with vapor lock.
The old mechanical suction type pumps do not do well when vaporized fuel is in the lines, since vaporized fuel is not as dense as liquid fuel.
The situation is nearly the same as when such a car has run out...
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Do you think that Sex is love? How many people stay in loveless marriage but just stay cause they are having sex.
Sex in itself is not love.
Sex in a loveless marriage? Just my opinion, but the sex in that case is an expression of love, even if that love is extremely faulty.
To a couple in that situation: if you're happy with that arrangement, then there's no reason to leave.
Couples for whom the sex was the only (romantic) reason for staying have sometimes built (or rebuilt) the...
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I have been married for only 3 months and i lost my sexual appetite im only 20 im supoused to be wanting to have sex at all times, and i love my husband and dotn want to lose him for this
Everyone gets tired.
As good as candy may taste, you can't eat it every day without it becoming "everyday".
Since you're so young,and concerned with how your husband will feel about this, I figure you've got a couple of choices.
1) Your youthful body will accomodate this activity on a daily basis, even if you're not looking forward to it like you once did,...
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My 2000 Mazda Protege smells like gas and is idoling rough. Spark plugs are good. Any ideas? lauralcrafton42@yahoo.com
Leaky fuel injector o-ring.
Get it fixed; there's a risk of fire.
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You are alone, driving on the interstate in your new car. you floorboard the gas pedal to check the top speed your car will go. is this drag racing?
It's not drag racing.
Of course, if you make the claim, to the arresting officer, that you were racing a UFO, then you may have a good insanity defense.
Just a thought.
High speed runs are best made late at night, when the gendarmes are tucked in bed, along with almost everyone else.
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Can a cop issue a ticket based on a eye witness account but did not witness the event himself and what are the chances of defending?
If you admit to a traffic violation, the officer can issue a ticket.
If you hadn't admitted to a violation, and the officer gave you a ticket on the basis of someone else's account, you've got a reasonable chance of defending yourself in court.
Talk to a lawyer just to be sure.
Lawyers aren't cheap, but they should know their way around a courtroom. They will be able to...
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On your brakes do you pump the pedal with the valve open, or with the valve closed. then you open it to relize the fluid?
Bleeding brakes?
Unless you have a tube running from the bleeder screw into a container of clean fluid, always have someone pump the pedal until it's firm, and then open the bleeder screw.
Repeat this process, making sure that you keep a sufficient amount of fluid in the master cylinder, until no air bubbles are in the fluid leaving the bleeder screw.
Pumping the pedal with the...
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True/False? I believe it is a good idea to withhold sex as a bartering method to get chores done around the house.(answer for yourself or your significant other)
If you want to train another person to express hatred toward you, then start defrauding your partner that way.
Think about it: If you've already concocted in your mind to abstain from sex because, in your opinion, not enough got done today, then you're prepared for the night of loneliness.
The other person, on the other hand, has to handle frustration and disappointment.
If that...
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Why it is overlooked and even outrightly denied that some of the heroes in the Bible were homosexuals? The story of Jonathan and David is one of the more obvious cases.
Someone else already mentioned this but it is worth repeating:
Old Testament writing, in particular, is extremely harsh in it's treatment of homosexuality.
Check out Leviticus 20:13 for quick reference. See what it says about what should be done with men who lay with each other as a man would lay with a woman. Not pretty.
Note that it says nothing about a kiss, as strange as two men...
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If someone told you that they would buy you a car, but you had to a) only spend about $20,000 and b) buy the car brand new from a dealership, what car would you buy and why?
Honda Civic.
Hands down best car for the money.
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I believe we get divorced because we spend too much time together with the other person, i also think thats why were not attracted to our siblings and extended family. agree?
To the first part of the question:That depends on the two people involved.
I would have to say that most marital breakups of which I have any personal knowledge involved "growing apart"-not the other way around.
Your "extended family" example bears ME out on this one. You spend less time with them, you grow apart, you care less about cousin so and so.
Siblings?
The...
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I have a wife but I don't have sexual relations with her, she is not unattractive or anything, but for some unknown reason I do not have a desire to have sex with her. It is very painful for her because It seems like I'm hot for any other woman but her.
So what's the question?
You've told us what you're doing to her.
Stop ripping her off!
She's not supposed to get sex from anyone but you.
If you were a car you'd be covered by the lemon law.
Honestly ask yourself how you would feel if the shoe was on the other foot.
You need counseling.
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If its 11:30 PM Dec 31 in Texas and 12:30 AM Jan 1st in New York and you have a New York driver's license that expires Jan 2007, does that mean your license has expired?
Face it dude;
Even IF it really was 11:30PM, 12/31/06 in Texas,and your NY license expires 1/1/07, you're not gonna make it home on time.
Just turn yourself in and throw yourself at the mercy of the court.
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What would be better for auto restoration, MIG or stick welding?
MIG welding is better.
That's what most bodyshops use today. The small diameter filler wire allows for less heat input. Less heat input equals less warpage.
So, if you're looking to buy welding equipment for working on cars, go with a MIG setup. Usually a small machine is all you'll need for a home garage. They come ready to use what is called "flux-core" wire....
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Do men find women less attractive the more intelligent/qualified she is?
If a woman is only interested in me because she's too stupid to know any better then that is a poor reflection on both of us.
I like smart women. They're fun to talk to and the romantic "victory" is even more sweet.
Marrying (or considering for marriage) a dingbat is like paying to babysit someone else's grown up daughter.
I don't think I could stand it.
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Men tend to wind up with life partners who look like their mother, while a woman is lured to a partner who looks like her father, scientists reported on Wednesday. Does your spouse look like your parent?
No.
I would never marry someone like my mother! I was drawn to my wife because she is so UNLIKE my mother in the way she looks, acts and in her attitude towards men.
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If your husband stayed in a hotel room with a coworker and said it was to save money, would you believe him?
If that's the first time he ever showed any interest in being thrifty, well...nope!
Even if he's trustworthy and she is too, it's just a dumb idea.
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Do you think Detroit's automakers should be allowed to fail?
I wish I could get the "comments" feature to work for me!
NASCAR is a minor factor, but a real one.
Each manufacturer will spend about $100 million a year for it's cars/teams to be competetive.They usually take that money from their advertising budgets.
Now admittedly, $100 million is a drop in the bucket compared with $25 billion.
The thing that irritates me, and from...
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Do you think Detroit's automakers should be allowed to fail?
As a matter of practicality, no.
However, even as a lifelong Chrysler enthusiast, I have to admit that the corporate money grubbers have been asking for big trouble, ever since the Arab oil embargo in '73-'74.
There are many valid criticisms of Detroit; some have been expressed here.
Lots of blame to share; the UAW, the corporate bean counters who actually dictate design and...
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Have you met the love of your life?
Yes.
I heard her call me for supper, so I'd better get going.
Seriously though; When I look at her/think about her, I can't believe that God could be so good to me. I don't deserve her.
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Do you want be raped
Nice going.
Some of us old guys are trying to make friends out of the ladies out there.
We need them.
Then some jerk asks a question like that.
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01 duramax-what is the wire coming from my manifold
If it's the intake manifold you're talking about, my money says it's for the intake air grid heater.
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Where is the fuel pump located on a 2000 dodge caravan 4cyl.? how do i get to it? Under the seat?
You'll most likely have to remove the fuel tank. The pump and sending unit are inserted into the top of the tank.
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Where is the fuel pump located on a 2000 dodge caravan 4cyl.?
In the fuel tank.
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Is what women think of as affection men consider foreplay?
A healthy guy will become aroused while kissing, cuddling and the like.
It's only natural then, that he will at least attempt to take the game to the bedroom or some other horizontal surface.
Take it as a compliment. You turn him on, even if he's just looking at you (long enough).
It's not just a physical thing either. I'm at the level of progress (age) where my...
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Guys: Would you rather date a high maintenance girl or a country girl?
The best ones live on dirt roads.
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My wife starts ever argument "Ya know what your problem is" What is a good response?
I guess my initial instinct would have me saying something like "not yet, but I bet you'll tell me".
Of course that would be sarcastic and nonproductive.
The question itself is sarcastic and nonproductive, since most people would correct the problem if they KNEW that they had one.
Walking off is just going to make her madder than she is.
Just shake your head...
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Will overrunning of engine cause cam shaft breakage
By "overrunning" do you mean overREVVING?
I suppose it's possible, but it's more likely that something else, such as a piston or connecting rod, would break first.
Just my guess, but I would say that a broken camshaft is more likely caused by oil starvation. Insufficient oiling could cause the cam to sieze in it's bearings; any of the moving parts will be damaged...
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Guys: Whats a chick flick that you actually like watching?
The best movies have something for everyone. Pure mush? Uhhhhggh.
Pure action? Stupid.
There's a western flick that stars Robert Duvall and Kevin Kostner.
There's an unfolding love story for the ladies and one of the best "good guys get revenge" gunfights I've ever seen.
Duvall also did another one with Thomas Hayden Church about a group of Chinese girls that...
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Widowed for 14 months am i still married wife died and was wondering if i was still married to her
No sir.
You may have the deep emotional attachment you always had, and you may keep it forever.
Morally, spiritually and legally, however, you are no longer bound to her.
This may bother you some, but it also means that if another lady is sent into your life, you'll be free to pursue happiness with her, without guilt from any source.
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Why is it that men can't resist grabbing your butt?
I've never had a man grab my butt. Huge relief, since I am a man.
I've never engaged in butt grabbing myself. It seems a bit bold to me.
I'm not a hand grabber or wrist squeezer either, so maybe I'm disqualified to answer.
Maybe you're spending too much time around the wrong type of men.
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Are men clearly better drivers than women?
If ability with spatial relationships were the only factor, then yes, the typical man would clearly be a better driver.
However, we know that spatial judgement does not encompass the entire task of driving.
Also, improvements in automotive technology have largely eliminated any superiority (as drivers) that men displayed in terms of physical strength and (usually) taller stature.
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I am looking to buy a 440 dodge engine. I found one but it is a 1972 out of a chrysler Imperial.I'm thinking it is a low hp motor.What is the difference & can I get stock parts to upgrade it to the high hp engine
I can't get the "comment" feature to work lately on this board so I'll have to add an answer.
In addition to the Carter AFB, Mopars also used the Carter AVS (Air Valve Secondary) on early 440's. Later 440's, like all later Mopar four barrel engines, had the Carter ThermoQuad.
The TQ was similar to the Rochester Quadrajet that you mentioned, in that it was a...
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When will Americans have the good sense to outlaw fire arms?
Good sense?
I'm aware that the questioner is not a US citizen. Are those not living in the US subjected to such rampant anti American propaganda so as to believe that the only "sensible" thing to do is ban firearms?
It's as if you think that there is a perpetual gunfight going on everywhere in the US, and that we must be senseless not to attempt to destroy them all.
...
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If a friend told you a secret and made you promise not to tell anyone, would you tell your partner? Is there such a thing as a "marital privilege"? For example, when I tell a friend something, I just automatically assume that they will tell their partner?
Above "marital privilege" is "marital obligation". I give this example:
My wife and I used to live in a fairly rural area, next to a campground.
We had two small daughters at the time.
One day, this fellow who was going to be staying "next door" asked me not to tell anyone that he was under suspicion of child molestation and rape.This was before there was a...
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Why is it that alot of women wont admit when their wrong?
Because they're human, and humans don't readily admit fault.
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Why is it nothing good ever comes after the words "Sit down, we have to talk"?
Because the one being told to "sit down" probably hasn't been listening for a while.
I don't actually agree that nothing good EVER comes after that.
I guess if you NEVER listen, even after sitting down, then nothing good ever comes of it.
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Discuss It : Can a marriage be healthy (for both) without involving sex or sexual actions/desire?
It can and it does, but it's completely unrealistic (and unfair to the partner who wants sex) to expect it to be healthy and normal in any given circumstance.
Every effort should be made by both partners to fulfill the desires of the other, sexual and otherwise.
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What race of people are strongest?
If you mean by "strongest" to say "most athletic" or "typically able to lift more weight" or "possess longer endurance", I would have to say that those of African descent fit that description.
That's not hate, folks.
It's a candid observation.
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Is it right for and 18 year old girld to date a 33 yr old man?
As a matter of fact, back in the so called "Puritanical" good ole days,when a young woman's father had alot more say in who she could see, Dad would prefer an older man for his daughter.
More settled down, better provider etc.
There's nothing wrong with it at all.
However, we're not living in the egrarian good old days anymore, where young adults grew up faster,...
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Guys... what do you think about a girl in her mid twenties, she is very cool, nice, modern, attractive, but she is virgin, and she has never kissed?
If you have to ask, then leave her to someone else.
The attributes you describe used to be considered the ideal woman;
Most guys have given up on the idea of finding someone like that.
Sex? Some of you think she won't like sex. It might just be that once she's found "the one" and lets her tiger out of the tank, she'll be insatiable!
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Why can't people "support" Obama as our new President ,happy or not that he won & stop talking about what a rotten job he will do or what will happen to him in office. We are Americans..why can't we support him. He MIGHT actually bring REAL change. !!
I don't plan on breaking any laws. I don't plan on overthrowing the government with a coup.
I'll be paying my taxes.
And paying...and paying.
Yes, I'll be supporting our new President.
Even as I bitch.
And that's enough.
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My bf hates gay guys. I have gay coleagues at work and he hates when I bring up the topic of gay people. I ddon't get it. The gay guys are nice at my work and we get along. I think they are cool. why does he feel this way?
I was raised with the belief that homosexuality is wrong, and I adhere to that belief.
I was also raised by the Golden Rule, to which I also adhere.
In the case of casual, workplace aquaintances, I'm unconcerned about anyone's sexual activity unless they hit on me. That happens rarely and I've never had another man approach me.
I've worked with and for homosexuals and...
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Am I living with an unreasonable wife? I watch the baby 25 hrs a week. I work 35 hrs a week. We have a good sex life. I take out the trash. Why is it that she has a problem with me wasting a little free time now and then with a game of Madden?
How much time is "a little"?
The hours add up fast, and before you know it, she feels like she's only good for cooking and screwing, assuming your sex life is as good as you say.
You might want to try playing Madden half as much as you do now. Spend the difference talking to her.
Tough, I know, but you married her; not Madden. Who knows?, Maybe your "good" sex...
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N cHas anyone ever seen a weak/bad battery load an alternator down which in turn would cause the fuel pump not to spin fast enough causing my 1989 chevy silverado to cut off a few minutes after starting or not starting at all. Alternator is good.
If the starter has enough current, then the fuel pump should have plenty of current.
Look for a clogged fuel filter.
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I kissed my exgirlfriend and now I want to divorce my wife. I feel depressed. I want to start a new life. and I don't know if I love my wife anymore. Does anyone knows what is going on with me?
From what you've said, you're acting like an infatuated teenager.
That's what's going on with you.
YOU feel depressed?
Imagine how your wife would feel.
Go ahead and start a new life. With your wife.
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I am looking to buy a 440 dodge engine. I found one but it is a 1972 out of a chrysler Imperial.I'm thinking it is a low hp motor.What is the difference & can I get stock parts to upgrade it to the high hp engine
The biggest difference is the camshaft and cylinder heads.
I never checked out the ports or the valve sizes, but it's possible that they're the same. The main difference would be the valve springs.
The 440 Magnum (for Dodge, Super Commando for Plymouth)also had a windage tray that is sandwiched between the block and the oil pan. All you need is two pan gaskets and the tray. Easy...
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If barack obama gets to be elected, will someone try to kill him?
I don't like him, but I don't want anything bad to happen to him either. I don't think there will be any attempt on his life that comes anywhere near being successful.
Security for VIP's is much better than it was in the 1960's, when so many leaders, of both races, were killed.
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Why do women use sex as a tool to get what they want from their men (behaviour or material things)?
Three heartwarming answers from three nice ladies.
The question should read "Why do SOME women use sex...?"
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Because they can and it works.
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Women marry for sex. It's our chance to be comfortable and have as much as we want! So men marry us and get all the sex you want! What's your problem?
You're a rare one Blondie. From other things you've said, I believe you're telling the truth concerning yourself.
I doubt, however, that many women actually will say they "marry for sex". More, I suspect, would say that they participate in sex to stay married, even if they enjoy sex.
What's the problem?
In spite of your obvious enthusiasm for sex, I'm...
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What reasons do men stay in a marriage but continue to seek attention outside of it? Are they really that unhappy and staying for the kids? Dont they feel bad coming home to their wives? What are they looking for and if they are unhappy why not leave?
There have lots of answers as to why they're not happy.
Do they feel bad coming home to their wives?
Some probably do, but there are just as many who have felt bad about coming home long before they decided to seek affection elsewhere.
Why do they stay?
M-O-N-E-Y
There are lots of guys who are paying dearly to a woman they never cheated on, who never gave them anything but grief....
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Do you think obama can really take away our gun rights revoke our 2nd amendment with the help of the democratic senate
Obama has already said, in a moment that he believed was "off the record" that he feels that gun ownership itself is a symptom of psychosis.
If one is determined to be psychotic-no-merely suspected or ACCUSED of being psychotic, their guns are automatically confiscated.
This already happens folks.
The 2nd Amendment will remain as words on paper, but the practical reality is that...
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Men what would you rather have; sex with no strings, sex with someone you love and who loves you very much, no sex or sex with another man?
I'll take option number two, providing that "someone" is a woman.
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I've never had a boyfriend or even been on a date. The loneliness is so overwhelming and depressing sometimes that I could cry for hours about it. I've been told that "my time will come" and to not rush things..but I am 21 now. I just dont know what to do
Your time WILL come.
In the meantime, do things that make you feel good about yourself, in terms of how you look, what you know and even who you know. Take a class, find a church. Alot of guys that you'd like to meet are sitting in the pews every Sunday, waiting and wondering what's taking you so long. There are bound to be some keepers lurking in church.
You're 21. Your best...
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My wife keeps teasing me about my "Flat Ass", i get a little self conscious about it, is it un-attractive to have a "Flat Ass"?
You could do "squat" type weightlifting to build up your glutes. That'll stop the flat ass jokes.
Maybe...
Flat asses look worse on women. As for the guys-the most unattractive thing about a flatty is if you got it by sitting on it for too long.
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What do you think about men who are picky eaters? does it say something about them?
By picky eaters, I assume that the guy won't eat things that he's not allergic to, going hungry instead.
I'd say this: He's probably a spoiled Mama's boy and you'll spend your life cutting his steak for him. You'll no doubt see the same trait emerge in other areas of his personality.
My mother forced me to eat stuff I hated sometimes, yet I survived long...
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Should there be a windfall profit tax on the oil companies when their profits go above a certain amount?
When the oilmen on AB can determine what a true windfall is, then the question can be considered.
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If I didn't find any visible cracks in the head or gasket, but know there's a problem (cylinder 2 was half full of water) what do I do now?
You should check the exhaust and intake ports for cylinder 2 if you haven't already; if there's a crack in one of the ports, the coolant could leak into the cylinder around the valve.
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Why is it that women can have dating preferences about a guys physical characteristics(able to discuss them freely, w/out them being labeled as offensive) but if a guy has physical preferences for a women, he's labeled as superficial?
It's called a "double standard".
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Does it seem that men just run in every direction from a hard-ass kind of women? Maybe it's just me...
One doesn't prove his manhood by voluntarily subjecting himself to the company of a woman he cannot stand, hard-ass or not.
He may just prove how stupid and unrealistic he is.
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My wife of 13yrs slept with at lest 8 men 7yrs ago since then we have had 6 kids she says she is not sorry but wants us to stay together i still love her what should i do
Were you at sea or something while she was making the rounds?
Six kids!?
Even if the oldest one is the offspring of the last guy, you can't afford to NOT stay together.
You know, she could have slept with the whole barracks but you'll be the one paying.
She wants to stay with you, so you stay with her. Get some counseling (demand it), because it would do both of you a...
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Can a guy (18) and a a girl (14) be just good friends? would you think it was weird?
It's not really weird, but it's not wise either, especially for him.
The two of them shouldn't spend time alone until she's at the age of consent, even if there's no sex going on.
People talk, and when people talk, reputations and lives can be damaged.
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Finish this sentence : Sarah Palin....
...probably wished she never picked up the phone when John McCain came callin.
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Too bad for her that she didn't get a chance with a strong candidate.
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For older couples with 10-50 yrs of marriage: Can you love the one your married to but not be in love with (not feeling fulfilled, hard to be compatible) or is this just normal? Is there such a thing as true love and really being and staying in love?
You prove your love when you DECIDE that your love will cover negative feelings while you work to soften or eliminate the causes of those feelings.
You may never completely eliminate those causes, and everyone has them.
Those that stay together are the ones who decided to tough it out, to overcome, who DECIDE to let love cover a multitude of sins.
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If a woman was to hit you out of anger and you defended yourself. would you to be at blame or a bastard ? (Granted no parties involved where hurt.)
If a man defends himself in this situation, he'll be charged with assault, simply because he's a man.
You might not be a bastard, but you're getting a ride in a police car and you're certainly getting the blame.
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I have a '92 honda accord lx, it doesn't always start. my fuel pump doesnt always kick in. i just recently found that when it doesnt kick in that the green square around the D4 position on the dash is flashing. when it flashes it wont start. need help
The D4 is flashing because you've got the gear selector lever in the D4 position.There's a safety switch that prevents starting with the selector in anything but "P" or "N".
Put in "P" (Park) and it should start.
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I am a female women always compliment me saying i look good(pretty) men do not why is that?
If you're usually in the presence of men who read the newspapers and are aware of things like sexual harassment law then these guys know enough not to say anything about a woman's appearance.
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My whole truck is shaking side to side i balanced tires i brough new roters new ball joint and its still jumping side to side please help
Telling us what model/year your truck is would have been helpful.
There are lots of answers already given that are plausible.
If your truck is of the 1994 and up Dodge Ram 4x4 variety, there are all sorts of bushings and linkages that connect the front axle to the chassis.
The most troublesome one is known as the "track bar" that stabilizes the truck from side to side motion.
So...
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1993 Ford Escort 1.9L eng. / Would the heater core be located inside the big black box, behind the glove compartment or behind the radio in the center of the dashbord.
Usually that's all one unit, but there's so much stuff under the dashboard that you can't see that the two "boxes" are both part of the same unit.
If you look under the hood, you'll see two rubber hoses, both about 1 inch in diameter, that connect at the firewall. If the engine is running, these two hoses will become hot. Those two hoses feed the heater core, so...
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A woman has been charged with impaired driving for driving a Zamboni on an ice rink while drunk. Your thoughts?
Frankly, watching the Zamboni is usually pretty boring, so having a drunk woman do the driving might be more entertaining.
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Is it weird when you have sex with a guy and he takes off his own clothes, she takes off hers and he doesnt touch her with his hands at all? He says i mean a lot to him, but it doesnt seem that way to me. (male opinions would be great)
Here's an idea:
Try working on his buttons (you go first) and see if he'll reciprocate.
He might be one of those guys who actually reads about false rape accusations and figures he'll be safer if you undo your own.
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Will men ever understand the opposite sex?
Why should men be different from women in their lack of true understanding of the opposite gender?
The main thing with men is that we freely admit that we're usually at a loss when deciphering the female "code language".
One nice thing about older women is that they've learned to speak plainly about things that are important to them, so get off the condescending...
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Why in America are couples usually married by a religious leader, such as a minister or priest, but divorced by an attorney? Does this reveal anything about their culture?
Because "marriage" is an institution of God. Divorce of a consummated couple, for which there is no Godly provision, involves a new contract for the dividing of assets and child custody.
Follow the money.
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If you went to a cross-dressing costume party, who or what would you go as?
A bearded lady. On stilts.
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Why do girls always blame the man for everything?why is it always are fault?lol
There are alot of good answers here and guess what guys?; the answers that were the most thoughtful and well worded defenses of men happened to be written by (those who appear to be)women/girls.
That's good news for us, since we're not allowed to defend ourselves without being called misogynists.
It's remarkable as well, since most of the prominent female news reporters,talk...
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How many horse power do i get for changin the headers? and how does it give horse power i tought they were just pipes :S?
If the car already has dual exhausts with iron manifolds, then you're not going to see an appreciable gain in HP (by switching to tube headers)unless you run your engine over 4500 rpm, which, in a street driven car, isn't too often.
What you WILL gain with tube headers is lower ground clearance, possible steering gear interferance, possible overheated starter (slim chance),leaky...
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My neighbors house gets showered by our headlights,his whole house is lit-up when we come out.He always comes out parking lights only and I want to do the same. I HATE THIS CRAP.The headlights don't need to come on automatically,someone PLEASE give advice
Disabling the headlights for your neighbor's benefit is a nice thought, but it's a dangerous idea overall.
Mechanical devices FAIL, and usually at the worst possible time.
Here's a better idea: Talk to your neighbor. Express your appreciation for his approach to the situation; tell him you'll try to remember to do the same for him. Then, just do your best to remember.
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How is ABS different to a regular disk brake system?
ABS, being controlled by the vehicle's computer, will apply and release the brakes (rapidly) when the computer senses a wheel is skidding.
This is a safety enhancement that has made "safer" drivers out of all of us.
I learned to drive in a car with OLD drum brakes over thirty years ago, being taught to pump and steer to correct a skid. That's the correct way to do it if...
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My fellow men: would you rather be in love with a very beautiful woman or a very cute woman?
If you've gotten to the point of being "in love" then why does it matter?
Why not ask if you'd care if the woman in love with YOU is very beautiful/very cute?
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Is it legal to have sex in your car on you own property? What about the bed of a truck?
I caught a couple "enjoying" each other on the hood of a Firebird parked on my property one night.
Shined a flashlight at the car and then turned it off when I realized what they were doing.
The gal was mighty ticked off (she threw a couple rocks at me) but the guy was apologetic. Could have called the cops but I didn't. I was young once too.
If they drove the 'bird to...
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I am a single parent of two very well mannered, happy, loving and giving young men. We are in desperate needs of a wheelchair assessiable van. I am a stay at home parent taking care of a 12year old w/ brain cancer. Please can someone help us?
The local chapter of the United Way should have someone who can direct you to some help. It never hurts to ask; that's why they're there.
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What do you men think about breast enlargement surgery and would you prefer women to stay true to what nature has given us?
If a woman's chest (or lack thereof) really gets her down, and she knows the risks and has the money, then why not?
Nature gives many women pale lips and a less than ideal complexion; no? Do we say she's dissatisfied with what nature provided her if she wears makeup?
I understand that a boob job is more drastic but the principle is the same.
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What is the #1 complaint men have about women?
Gotta be careful about this since a complaint refers to something you wish you could change about women.
Like everything else in life, there's no free lunch once you start changing things. You know, push it here and it pops out in five other places you didn't expect (or want).
I would say that the thing women need to change the most is this:
They seem to place their trust in...
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Men.. I'm embarassed and confused - please help me? (Question is in the answer).
He's 41 and he's never been married or anything like that?
If that's true then he feels as awkward as you do, and it's possible that the difference in your ages is making it even more awkward (for him anyhow).
The guy is probably shy about the whole subject of dating and mating, so if you're open to the prospect of a romantic relationship with him, it's time...
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My 99 silverado 2500 6.0 with 153000miles new fuel pump and intake gaskets last winter runs great uses no oil. but after normal driving the manifolds glow light red,does my exhaust system have anyhitng to do with this? should i be worried?
I had that happen with tube headers on Road Runner I used to drive (a long time ago), it was caused by a vacuum leak that I was hiding by setting the idle high.
What it sounds like is that your truck is running on too lean a mixture.
What I can't quite figure though is that the computer hasn't simply adjusted the fuel spray to correct the problem; it's possible that it...
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Has your wife ever bought the condoms?
Yes, and I've bought the tampons,pads,bras,panties and pantyhose.
I guess we're even.
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Why do some people think once they are married they should be together 24/7?
Most people who think they want to be together 24/7 never get to try it out because the realities of life prevent it.
Having said that, there's nothing wrong with a couple preferring each other's company. After all, a common part of the vows is "forsaking all others". We could say that the vow is mean't for the sexual realm, but there's nothing that says it will...
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Men do you fantasize about raping and hurting a woman? Do you fantasize about sex with love and affection?
The thought of sex with a woman who does not want me is a complete turn-off.
So it really hurts when a woman, such as your wife, doesn't want you, but forcing the issue won't change that.
I'm not alone in that attitude either. One of my co-workers, who has a four woman harem, actually feels the same way, so it isn't just us monogamous Wary Old Guys.
Now, have we...
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Are women bigger slobs than men or vice versa? I know for sure that women's public restrooms are always much more disgusting than men's. Who do you think is the bigger slob?
Don't forget that the ladies have a biological compulsion to "take a seat". Would YOU want to sit there?
That's why they tend to carpet bomb.
At least that's what my wife and four daughters told me.
Ain't been there myself. Never watched either.
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I have a s 10 with a oil pan leek would eny one know how to fix this with out welding (and i dont mean the pan to the engien)?
You've got an onion in your oil pan?
What comes next?
Sorry, just busting on you a little. Leaks are drippy; leeks are good in chicken soup.
You don't want to weld the pan? Welding oil pans can be tough since they're thoroughly impregnated with oil (duhh).
So...
I would hit the junkyard and see what they've got.
If you don't want to go that route for some...
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Why is an attractive, confident woman not enough for some men?
Antonia,
Let's say that you meet a guy online. You've never seen a picture of him and he's never seen you.
He may be able to discern that you are confident, assertive, sensitive, sweet and on and on, just by your conversation. By your conversation, he'll gain a confidence in you (or he should). Several weeks/months later he sees what you look like.
If at that point he...
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What's a good way to improve the MPG of a muscle car?
Coast
Seriously (though coasting certainly helps), you'll need to do alot of little things that will improve the driveability while still allowing that musclecar performance. Tire pressure, cruising speed, engine well tuned.
Do you have a good, free flowing exhaust system? I realize you probably have duals, but is the heat riser valve working correctly? That will make a difference.
...
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My husband and I got into a huge fight this morning before I went to work. We both said some horrible things to each other and it was over something really stupid. I want to make it all better and I'm not sure what to do. We love each other very much.
"We both said some horrible things to each other and it was over something really stupid. I want to make it all better and I'm not sure what to do."
There's a start.
Just say what you said to us and go from there.
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Guys...since when is 8 a plus size? Do we all have to be anorexic?
You've got to be kidding!
8 is a plus size?
8 is a nice size.
10 or 12 ain't bad either.
So go ahead and have seconds!
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For men, You guys already got chance(s) to suckle your woman on bed. My question is ,if she is lactating can You breastfeed from her?
If you've ever read the Grapes of Wrath, the image of what you suggest was drawn for us by Steinbeck. In the closing lines of the book, a woman,(was her name Rose of Sharon?) who had delivered a stillborn child and was lactating, breastfed a man who was on the verge of death by starvation.
I've tasted human milk before, As you may know, a lactating woman will leak copiously when...
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Are women attractive to men when they're over the age of 45?
Sure!
Why wouldn't they be?
They've got experience. They (should)appreciate a good man.
They've known sorrow and joy, so the tiny wrinkles around their eyes are something to be regarded with admiration.
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Do you ever get freaked out when your driving?
I wouldn't say that I get "freaked out", but I do get mildly alarmed when I forget where I am.
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What would you do if an axe murderer asked for your hand in marriage?
I'd wear a suit of armor in case he wants to add to his hand collection.
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I have a Supercharged 383 Stroker. I broke a valve spring and it started making a clatter noise about 2000 RPM. So i put new springs on and it still makes the noise. But i only replaced the broke springs. Is it possible that the others are coi
Check for bent pushrods or damaged rocker arms.
Your question seems to have run out of space, but I'm betting that you wanted to ask if it's possible that you got coil bind in the springs or dampers.
If you've got a hydraulic cam/lifters, you might not realize that you have coil bind when checking it statically. When you rev the engine above a certain rpm, the oil pressure...
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Hello,
I have a Chrsyer 2002 sebring. The battery cable's came loose . I unplugged it over night, but now it runs rough. No check engine light yet. Can you offer any advice ?
thank you
God Bless
Answering a question with another question is not what you were hoping for, I'm sure, but I'm wondering: How did the battery cables come loose?
It could be that whatever caused the loose battery cables is what is now causing the engine to run rough.
If the car runs well enough to be driven, you should take it to a place like AutoZone or possibly Advance Auto Parts(check their...
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Found sugar in my gas tank, changed fuel pump 4 times and cleaned out the fuel system and my car still wont start! Any opinions?
Have you tried a fuel pressure test? Hook up the gauge and turn the key to the "run" position and see how much, if any, pressure is available.
You mentioned Dad and brother cleaning many fuel system parts but didn't mention the fuel pressure regulator in your list. If the sugar is making the fuel pressure regulator sluggish, it's possible that it's sending the fuel...
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Are men really able to stay faithful or can they just not keep there hands out of the cookie jar?
I've had the "cookie jar" opened for me a few times but all I could think of was the one who was waiting for me at home.
Couldn't bring myself to cheat, and I am not a perfect man.
It's entirely possible for us (or some of us)to stay faithful.
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My husband and I have not had sex in a year and a half. Always makes excuses. He's 45 with no health problems. Is he Gay or having an affair. I'm at the end of my marriage with no love or sex.
It's possible that he's under stress. You know, there's a certain "tripping point" in terms of age, when life's stresses have a physical effect on a man that he never experienced before. One of the responses to stress is sexual inability. I've had it happen myself, but not for a year and a half.
Whatever the problem is, he's disrespecting the...
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1998 dodge ram 1500 that will not start after a good rain or a good washing, something is getting wet ,it takes 1-2 days to dry out and then it will start . Is there a sensor I should be looking for or maybe the distritutor cap , any help would be great..
Check the connectors on the computer, located on the passenger side of the firewall, near the hood hinge (difficult to see). There could be water getting in and fouling up the inputs/outputs.
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When I turn my steering wheel to a certain point my car starts to make a squeaking noise. Is it rubbing against something?it doesn't do it when i'm driving, just when I'm sitting in the same spot.i checked it out and there's no mice getting runover. help?
That sounds as if it's the drive belt for the power steering pump slipping on the pulley.
It should be checked for proper tension if it squeals as easily as what you describe.
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Women get a lot of pleasure out of sex. Why do some men think sex is only pleasureable for men? The vagina has more nerves than the penis and our breasts get stimulated when touched. Are some men that dumb?
No, in fact not very many of us are that dumb. The statement that you make concerning the stimulation level in your erogenous zones is a rare thing to hear or read. I don't think you're slutty just for being plainspoken about it at all. It's nice to hear, because sometimes we wonder if you ladies really want anything to do with us at all.
Consider a few things. The National...
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How do you tell your ex (recently broken up) that you are pregnant?
She: Hey, remember your parting shot at me?
He: I guess so.
She: Well I know you were poking fun at me but I took it seriously. Your paternity kit is in the mail, along with my lawyer's card.....
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How do the following parts differ in regards to gas and diesel engines: piston, cylinder head, injectors, pumps, fuel lines, and component pricing?
The pistons and cylinder heads on a diesel engine will be much more ruggedly constructed than those in a gasoline engine. You may be aware that GM tried to convert smallblock V8 gasoline engines to diesel with mediocre results (to say the least).
Injectors? Most (possible ALL) diesel engines use a "direct injection" system, where fuel is sprayed directly into the combustion chamber...
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Is it okay for a husband to complain about his wife to his friends?
If the reason for the complaining is obvious to the friend(s) then not only is it okay, but it is essential for the man's mental health. Same goes if the shoe is on the other foot.
By "obvious", I mean this:
If your spouse berates you in front of others, then it's obvious to those folks that you have something to be feeling bad about.
Everyone needs a sounding board,...
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My brother is joining the army and won't take the teddy I bought him when he was a baby. Can I get an injunction to make sure he takes it? Does his refusal to take it mean he hates me?
He's seen MASH and doesn't want to be compared with Klinger.
Wearing a teddy in the barracks is definitely taboo.
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Are there any people out there who believe that a person should not be judged by their weight or ANY body features?
It depends on what the purpose of judgement is.
We may fully agree that a person is a fully valid individual no matter what they look like.
It's foolish and unrealistic, however, to expect someone to overlook features that they find objectionable when looking at a romantic prospect.
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Why are women so worried about guys watching porn? Provided it does not interfere with the fundamental relationship, who cares if a guy is jerking off to porn on the side?! What does it matter?
Porn and strippers represent a form of emotional abuse.
Some women (or people in general) handle abuse in a very stoic manner. That doesn't change the fact that it's abuse, does it?
Even if a woman is secure in her looks and sexual adequacy now, there will come a time when she won't hold a candle to the naked beauties he's masturbating (per your suggestion)for.
How...
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Ladies - What does she mean when she says she wants more freedom? Married for over 9 years.
"Freedom" is a big word, taken literally.
It might mean she wants to go shopping with her friends.
It might mean lots of things, some of which are innocent and some of which are innocent now but may turn into a real problem in your marriage.
If she won't specify what SHE means by the word "freedom", then you should at least pass the time when she's off...
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If for every time a man ejaculated a thermonuclear reaction occurred would people still have sex?
Even if they all joined a convent, there would be some teenage kid pushing the red button in his sleep.
We're doomed...
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Would you swim laps in a pool of guerilla semen for $100,000?
How much would you have to pay the person that collected the juice?
I guess we'd have to clarify what species we're talking about here.
You could hire a team of dedicated prostitutes to collect semen from "guerillas". Guerillas are soldiers who fight wars in a non-conventional way.
Them gorillas are fiesty critters. Jane Goodall will have her work cut out for her,...
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Where is it in the bible that a woman is not to be with a woman sexually and man is not to be with a man sexually
In Romans chapter 1, the Apostle Paul addresses the issues of gay and lesbian sex in negative terms.
Leviticus 20:13 addresses the issue, instructing the nation of Israel to deal with men who lay with men as with women in a most punitive way.
There are more....
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Why do guys shy away from single mothers? Do they think we're unattractive because we have children?
I've got kids, and I think their mother is quite attractive.
I've seen other people's kids. I've seen how they're allowed to act and wonder how in the world their parent(s) put up with it.
Maybe I see the mother. Maybe she is quite attractive, but putting up with those kids and (possibly) being told that I could have no say in their discipline/behavior modification...
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Why do some men treat women as if they are not their equal and think women should do all the cooking, cleaning and taken care of the children,etc?
Maybe these guys think there's nothing demeaning about that sort of work.
Are you saying, by implication, that a woman who does these things is not an equal?
The wording of your question leaves me to wonder.
There are alot of things I'd rather not be doing during the course of a typical day. I get to do these things because I have the technical ability to do them or the upper...
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What song(s) sing about subcompacts?
"In a Yugo" by Paul Shanklin. It's commonly featured on the Rush Limbaugh Show as the lead in for the SUV Update.
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If the oil companies supposedly keep buying up patents to engine designs that save a lot of fuel, why did they not buy up the patent for today's hybrids?
That's a question bound to unleash a boatload of suspicion and cynicism.
I happen to think that the oil companies, who employ the best geologists that money can buy, know full well that there is plenty of oil yet to be tapped into.
Why spend the money gobbling up a "feel good" technology?
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Do you think the EPA gas mileage is far off?
I drive a 2006 Sonata with the V6 engine it averages about 15 mpg in the city and 26 on the highway, when i bought it in 2006 the EPA sticker was 20 city 30 highway.
The EPA averages are calculated under very controlled circumstance/conditions, such as a manufacturers test track, with automotive engineers , professional test drivers and EPA personnel present.
You, as a consumer, can only use those figures realistically when comparing one model against another.
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What is the difference between a 5.7 litre hemi and a dodge 318? Which one would get better gas mileage?
The latest 318's (I don't think they make those anymore) supposedly put out around 240 hp. The 5.7 Hemi is around 340 hp.
The two engines, everything else being equal, are about equivalent in terms of fuel economy. What gives the 5.7 an edge for fuel economy is the availability of cylinder de-activation. Dodge Charger,Chrysler 300 and maybe the 1500 series Dodge trucks have this...
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Whay do people buy large, gas-guzzling SUVs and trucks if they're harder to drive, more expensive gaswise, and bad for the environment?
There are lots of reasons people buy these type vehicles.
Some people feel safer in big vehicles. I have a Honda Civic and a Dodge 2500 4x4 Diesel. Guess which one I drive most often (Honda). Guess which one I feel safest in (Dodge).
I have a 700 foot driveway to plow. Honda is useless for that; Better take the truck. I have to haul a trailer for 200 miles? It's the truck again.
Are...
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What song would you want played at your funeral?
There is a part of Handel's "Messiah";
Taken from the book of Job, it is entitled "I know that my Redeemer liveth".
If I remember correctly, it is performed after the "Hallelujah" chorus.
It's quite difficult for the average person to sing, so for the gathered mourners to hear it while I'm laid out in roses isn't too likely.
One of my...
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Suppose you have an attractive cousin, and the cousin is also attracted to you. Suppose both you and your cousin are adults. Would you have non-procreative sex with your cousin? ( My answer, is *NO WAY*)
They call that "incest", and it's illegal in most places.
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Are stay at home moms and stay at home dads more likely to have a spouse that cheats than when both work outside the home?
I'd have to say that it would be less likely, since the home arrival of the breadwinner is something more closely observed, in terms of time variation etc. The loss of income (taking time out during the work day) would be more noticeable (to the cheated spouse)in a one income household. That should serve as a deterrent, no?
Wouldn't you agree that if both spouses work outside the...
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I need to fix the lower ball joint on my car.. can you buy those without the control arm? anyone know where?
I've never heard of needing to purchase the control arm with the lower ball joint, but I suppose it's possible. If you're being told that you must buy the ball joint with the control arm, then there is a good reason for it. Maybe special tools or excessive force are required to remove the old ball joint and install the new one.
Are you sure you're not referring to the...