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I have been told that suicide is selfish, weak and cowardly, however I think that it is a primarily selfless act and that it takes a great deal of courage and strength to confront death and overcome the instinct of self-preservation: What's your opinion? Dear Jeff, June 5th it will be 3 years since you committed suicide. I'm not sure what to say or what to think. It still effects me. You have made me and unwilling member of a club that I do not want to belong to. I'm shaken a little this week. Don't know how to handle it. I am in love now with someone else. Tim is a wonderful man, he picked up the pieces. He will never hurt me and...

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What can I do to help my husband quit smoking pot every day? He has smoked daily for almost 12 years. He does not drink alcohol at all but smokes cigs and says he wants to quit. Try a hypnotherapist. They helped my friend quit smoking and helped me lose 166 lbs.

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I heard on the radio today, that one out of four couples don't sleep together, they have their own bedrooms. What are your thoughts on that? I think it depends on the couple. Some people you sleep well with...some you don't.

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My husband and I are not seeing eye to eye on something and I need some help. My husband says we do not need to shower every day and I say we do. So who is write on this? I don't shower everyday. I have sensitive skin and it needs a break from products. I shower every third day.

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Are your toenails painted? what colour? Bubblegum Pink

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Should divorce be only between 1 man and 1 woman? ; ] Good Question! Although, I think I'm not answering what you asking. Divorce is between alot more people. The divorce effects all the immediate family members, siblings of the divorcees, friends of the divorees, etc. Its really a community event creating different feelings among far more than the 2 divorcing people.

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If you really thought you saw a ghost, what would you do? After I fainted? or Before? LOL I have seen one once. It was scary but not scary.

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Are you and Christian Bale 'done' professionally? Yes. I work in the film industry and these tirades aren't limited to actors. My boss had one last week, he looked like an ass just as Bale did. And, if I have a choice, I will not work with him again. Sure what the DP did was stupid, but no one deserves to be treated like that.

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Does anyone else feel like they are obsessive compulsive at times? could just be minor? hahahahah YES! Thank God I am a little. It works for me.

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How can I make my ex girlfriend go back out with me. She thought I smothered her. Chances are you are fundamentally different. If she thinks you are smothering her then she needs a different type of man. If you are the type to smother (show great affection and concern)..there ARE women out there that like that. I think this is a mis-match and you wouldn't be doing either one of you a favor trying to make it work. In the long run you will have a more broken heart as...

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I need help with a Valentines Poem. Can anyone think of something cute, short and sweet to day? I'm getting him a scriptwriting software and I would love to incorporate that like Scripting our future. I did this but it isn't romantic There once was a man with a scrip He thought he was mighty hip He made people laugh He was such a gaff And everyone loved his quip or this one, but its lame This script for love Your love of script Love this script for my Love is the script

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Should I just divorce him? I have been with my husband for 7yrs married for 2yrs. He has changed and become a better man, but all i can think of is the past and all the ngitive things that happend. Should i just getover the past or get over him? That's something that only you can answer. But you will need some serious help if you choose to get over the bad behavior. I find it hard to forgive once someone has hurt you too much. Maybe make a pros and cons list. Get some help for the list with people that know you. Starting over is really hard too. But I'm not saying you should settle. Maybe make a pros and cons list of...

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What do you think is the best valentines day present you can surprise someone with? If you ask a woman, she will tell you romance. If you ask a man, he will tell you sex.

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Help with a card. I bought my bf a script writing program, because he wants to be a screenwriter. I want to say something about writing our future or writing for our future. Can you give me suggestions? This script for love Your love of script I Love this script for my Love is the script too lame?

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What is an appropriate Valentine's Day gift for a guy who says he wants nothing (but has a gift for his girl)? I had such a hard time with that one for his birthday. He refused to let me buy him anything. So I booked a pedicure for him (he had never had one) and when we arrived, he was reluctant, however, when he finally gave in, he loved it and goes for them now and then.

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If you celebrate Valentine's Day with gifts, what are you giving a 'significant other' this year? He has always wanted to write a script (he writes books) and I bought him the Script software for writing scripts and a book on how 25 scripts got made into movies for better or worse. I was going to do a card, something about writing our future...need help with the card.

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Are people born gay? I believe is can be both. I believe people that are true gay/lesbian and have no interest in the opposite sex are born that way. I believe that there are people who call themselves gay/lesbian that make the choice based on it being the "in thing" or perhaps they are "curious", however, I do not consider them true gay/lesbians.

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Any scorpio men out there has any of them been with a leo woman if they have how do they see leo woman thats for peple who go by star signs I am a Scorpio woman, the two loves of my life have been Leo men. According to astrology its not supposed to be a good match. I have always been attracted to Leo men and they have always broke my heart. One committed suicide. One broke my heart but then came back and we are very much in love...hopefully he is my last boyfriend.

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How should i spend valentines day with the one i love when i have no money to spend? i no it s not all about money but it means theres so many rescrictions!! I did a picnic last weekend....in the moonlight. Its still winter here, I took hot chocolate in a thermos, some sandwiches, and a sleeping bag. We cuddled under the stars on a picnic table at our local park. Talked about our dreams and the future. We didn't stay long, but it was far enough away that it felt like we were in another world. Away from the everyday troubles of money and...

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Have you ever wondered if you need medication because you're obsessing so much about your boyfriend? We're best friends and I just enjoy him all the time. I'm 39 and I feel 16. I hate being this out of control! WTH is wrong with me? Yes!!!!! Been there, done that. Its gets better with time. I'm 44 and still feel like a love sick 16 yr old.

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What is your favourite thing to have on Toast? peanut butter and banana

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If you are having a cheeseburger, what do you have to drink with it....soda, beer, water? strawberry milkshake

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Is it common that people with psychological problems try to avoid getting into a relationship? Hell No! They need someone to torture/abuse

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What does the g- spot feel like? A walnut apparently. We took a G-spot seminar it was incredible!!!!!! http://www.libidoevents.com/event/181 You should try to find on in your area. It blew my mind how much I didn't know about my own body.

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Why do women oppose men wearing condoms? I prefer no condom, however, I have to be in a long term relationship to get to that phase. With condoms, I need alot of lube, I find them drying.

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Do you girls out there mind chest hair on a guy? I love it. I love the feel of it on my back when we spoon.

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Ladies: Would you date a guy who went to strip clubs? No. Its different if I take him on a special occasion, but I wouldn't date anyone who frequented them

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Ladies, does your man help around the house? Do they do enough? He tries. He can cook, but I prefer to do the rest

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If you were caught in the nude what would you say Come on in.... the water's fine.

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If I told you my husband walked out in 1999 and that was the last time I saw him and I still haven't gotten a divorce, what would you say? I would say its time to get a divorce. I put mine off for 10 yrs after not seeing him. Mostly I think so I wouldn't rush into another marriage. You will be glad you finally did it.

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What is the difference between maybe yes, maybe no or just maybe which to me means either of the first two? Maybe always mean no for me. I just don't want to get into it with the person. So Maybe it is.

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Married People: How long did you wait until you had sex with your spouse for the first time? Sorry, I didn't mean have sex with your spouse. I'm trying to figure out how long you were dating before you had with the person you eventually married.

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Ladies, would you sleep with a guy on the first date? if so, why? no

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Singles: Are you hesitant to date someone with kids because of potential drama with their ex? Definitely

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Can you fall in love with someone who you are not physically attracted to? Yes and no.

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After a person turns Fifty are they too old for to fall in love? Not at all.

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What bothers you the most about divorce? That its so easy for people to walk away from their commitment. That its too easy for ill equipped people to marry.

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My wife devoted enormous amounts of time to her career and i've felt abandoned. even before this, i knew we worked on paper but didn't emotionally connect and it's caught up with us. she says she's changed however i've found other outlets.what do i do? You need to go to counselling. You should try to be honest with each other and see if you can work it all out.

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My ex-wife still has my last name because of our child. She just had a newborn by a man she is no longer with. If the father doesn't sign the birth certificate, will she have to give the child my last name or will she be able to use her maiden name? Wow, I don't know the answer. But thats a hard one. I wouldn't want someone using my last name that isn't related.

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Do you think people give up too easily on marriage? What if the two people had problems and exhausted their options for years - counseling, for example - and nothing worked? Yes, I think people give up to easy on it. I mean...if you promise forever....does it really mean forever for now? Sad, sad, sad. Maybe people don't get to really know the person before they marry them. Maybe they should have a test to see if you know the other person. If I were King, I would banish divorce, its too easy for people to walk away from their commitments.

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If a divorce was like an explosion or melting from overheating, what would be like the coolant that prevents these? The coolant has to be the love you once felt for this person, the love that made you promise forever. And, then you need to realize that things didn't work, but you need to show the respect for the person you once loved. Easier said than done.

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If you have to leave your wife for another woman how would you approach that with your spouse Wow, that is a mess. You should go to a counsellor and see if you really want to destroy this woman and your family for some bit on the side. Really what kind of a woman has an affair with a married man, she is no catch and if history repeats itself, which it does, she will likely cheat on you. Before you do this, you need to get some professional help to make sure its what you really want...

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Will you hate me if I say I love your sister? Yes

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Are you in a marriage/relationship where one party seems to control the sex? Interesting. So far we have both been mutually on the same page. But there have been a few times, when I haven't felt like it, but did it for him anyway.

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Has cheating become an acceptable behavior? It appears most people that I know cheat on their spouses and they make it seem like it's no big deal. Have you stayed with a cheater? NEVER. I would never stay with a cheater. I would never be a cheater.

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Ladies: Pretend you are really stubborn. You broke it off with your s/o and months later realized it was the biggest mistake you ever made....what would you do? Tell them! You have nothing to lose, you are already broken up. My BF broke up with me and came back 5 weeks later saying it was a big mistake and that he loved me. We are happily in love again.

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Have you ever felt so heart broken ,that it really feel's like your heart hurt's? Yes. I refused to give up. I knew he was the man for me. He came back 5 weeks later and we are happy and in love.

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Ladies if someone came up to you with 5million dollars in a case and said this can be all yours but you have to walk away from your relationship with your b/f or husband and never see them again what would you do I would pass on the money.

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Would you ever participate in a three some? Never. And I am really really open about that type of thing. I would be a guest star, but I would never want that in my relationship.

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I cheated on my then fiancee and now wife, havent told her and now know i will never do it again, should i tell her? Never! It will only help you. You deserve to carry this burden. Why punish her with it. You never recover from a cheat. It might work out, but you will take a piece of her heart that will never grow back. It will always play in the back of her mind.

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How can a cute girl be sexy without looking like tramp? Sexy is all about attitude not as much about looks. Be confident, smile, and use your eyes.

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Have you ever tougue kissed a coworker on a drunking night but you are still able to be friends after? Not yet....but Christmas is coming...lol

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What is the best feeling you have ever had? BEING LOVED!

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Where do anal-retentive people get their information from? They pull it out of their ***! LOL

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"What does your spouse or partner do for you to let you know they love you, other than the words "I love you." He seems to listen to everything I say and watch everything I do. The other night I wasn't hungry for a big meal, so I had a banana and peanut butter on toast. The next time I was at his place, he had bought bananas peanut butter and asked me if I wanted some for breakfast. He does things like this all the time.

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If you give negative points, are you man/woman enough to leave a comment? I think I've only given negative points once. And the thing was so blatantly deserving that I didn't bother to comment. But now I see I should have, and if I do it again I will.

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My fiance's best friend just died. My fiance was there for him and his wife until the end. Now the widow looks like she got too attached to my fiance a even sent him a text msg saying "I miss you". Is my fiance cheating on me with the widow? Death does strange things. I lost my fiance in June. I thought I fell in love with a friend. He was there for me all summer. But, I'm not sure I was in love with him, so if it was residual love I had for Jeff. I don't know if your fiance is cheating, or just being a friend. You need to talk to him about it.

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Is it true that men like women who are helpless and need to be saved? No, I think men like to feel needed and useful in a relationship. But so do I.

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What kind of arguments on AB get you the most angry and upset? I get annoyed when people DR your answer just because they disagree with it.

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Which serial killer is most documented and has had the most psychological studies done on him/her? Jack the Ripper

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First thing that comes to mind when i say"Angelina jolie"? CRAZY

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Who do you want to kiss? my Tim

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Who is the last person you kissed today? I haven't kissed anyone today....but looooook out tonight.

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Should your girlfriend get upset if you get your wife pregnant? becareful. she might decide to have one of her one. then you would have two upset women.

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What would you do with my power? I would return it to you so you could be stronger.

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Why has it become socially acceptable to be rude to smokers. for the same reason people are mean to us overweight people. they feel superior and think its a will power issue. don't sweat it they are ignorant of addiction

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Which category do you fall into? a non smoker, an ex smoker, or a smoker? non smoker

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Do you feel better when you cry alone? Or in someone's arms? I'm not crying this year. I did enough last year, and luckily in was in the arms of a wonderful man.

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What's your favourite bit of Bohemian Rhapsody? someone reminding me about it on AB. WOW....forgot I loved it.

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What diseases can you associate with McDonald's? Not sure about disease, but for me they are McLAXATIVE

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Who do you think is the 'Sexiest Man Alive'? My TIM

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Whats going to be your next car? Finally, an auto question I can answer. My next car will be a hybrid.

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I would love a pair of really high heels but find them really hard & a bit painful to walk in. Any tips or advice? Yes, start small. I did. And a chunky heel or wedge. You can work your way into the sexy ones.

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Ladies: Does wearing high heels hurt your feet or any other part of your body? its weird, I've worn heels for so long that my back hurts when I wear flat shoes

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What should you do if you are deeply in love with someone and they don't even know it? Should you tell them, even if you aren't together? It can't hurt. I've done it. You will live either way.

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Does unconditional love really exist? do you have a dog? then yes.

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Are you waiting for the Great Pumpkin? I just bought that DVD!!!!! Its my fav. I'm waiting for my pumpkin

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Did you ever have a cynical person that was divorced or single watching your wedding video with you? perhaps even though they are cynical, maybe it was the little bit of sunshine creeping into their negative heart that kept them from dying with decay for one more day.

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Have you ever left a cake out in the rain? I don't think that I can take it Cause it took so long to bake it and I'll never have that recipe again

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This is for the girls: what makes a guy sexy to you? A man that wants me and isn't afraid to show it is sexy.

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How do i know when my horse has accepted the bit? or how do i know when my horse is on the bit? Well...you should be able to feel it in the reins and his response. Is he trying to forge ahead, is he responsive to the bit? Its hard to explain.

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If there was a new Addams Family film to be released, who would make the best Uncle Fester? Michael Chiklis

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How many people on this site have an Apple Macintosh or a Macbook? iMac

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Do you think the Apple commercials for Macintosh are misleading? No, I LOVE them!!!!

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When is your birthday? (year optional) Mine is January 21. Does anyone share my day? Mine is HALLOWEEN!!!!!!!

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What is your favorite poem? Time does not bring relief Time does not bring relief; you all have lied Who told me time would ease me of my pain! I miss him in the weeping of the rain; I want him at the shrinking of the tide; The old snows melt from every mountain-side, And last year's leaves are smoke in every lane; But last year's bitter loving must remain Heaped on my heart, and my old thoughts abide....

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Have you met the love of your life? Yes, but I've lost him twice before. I'm really hoping he stays for good.

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Mum or mom? mummsy

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What would you least like your kids to become: a musician, an actor or a comedian? really? is there any other choices? anything at all? maybe sewer cleaner? rat bite tester? anything?

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When was the last time someone said to you "i love you"? Last night. My BF, turned me around and looked me in the eyes and held me and said "Melissa...I LOVE YOU" he doesn't say it often, but this time I really really felt it.

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What's something that nobody can ever take away from you? My fear...I keep trying to give it away..lol

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Do you think that this picture of Jessica Alba was photoshopped? (Her head on someone elses body.) Doesn't look like the Jessica I remember. But after you have a baby, I hear it does odd things to your body. She was fuller in the chest before.

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Are women attractive to men when they're over the age of 45? I am completely smitten with a 51 yr old.

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This beautiful girl caught my eye. How do I approach her? I don't want to ask her out because I believe people should be friends first. I'm pretty extroverted, so it's not a shyness issue. I don't want to be awkward. I just really want to get to know her. I am soooooo tired of this type of question. I tell all my guy friends just approach her. What the worst thing that can happen. Women aren't inheritantly mean. Just ask us. I hear all the time from my friend...oh that guy is checking you out....then talk to me. Why do I have to spend lonely nights because you boys are afraid, and if I ask, I'm considered too forward.

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Why do men always wait so long to call girls back? My opinion is that he either isn't that interested or I'm not. I want a man that isn't afraid to show he is into me.

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Do you think that Answerbag should show you WHO downrates or uprates your questions? YES!

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What song is stuck in your head right now? Paper Planes

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Have you ever felt like you just don't want to live? Yes, luckily it didn't last long. But I know that despair and its almost impossible to see your way out of it. But the one thing I did was think ok....one more day. I can take my life anytime, but not today. Lets see what happens tomorrow. I think back to before wonderful events and people in my life and realize that if I had done it then, I wouldn't have known them or...

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If someone super hot came up to you and started groping you, how would you react? I would tell them that's not how I like it, if they'd like to try again.. it will start with dinner Saturday night.

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When your husband has touched other women inappropriately, goes to night clubs and tries to pickup other women, tells you your not what he wants anymore, goes to strip clubs on a reg. basis, drinks every nite excessively, is he cheating? Yes. I'm sorry. Have you read Dr.Laura's "The proper care and feeding of husbands" You can bring him home.

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Have found little blue round pill. One side has a large W with a V in the middle. Other side had a D then a cut line with a #10. What is it? Was it near a rabbit hole?

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Is there any drug or sure fire remedy that I can use DURING an anxiety attack that will quell it very quickly? ativan

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When was your last panic attack? This afternoon....thank you Ativan

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What would be your first impression when you saw a person wearing a turban? Do you have anything against people who wear turbans? Be honest please. I really would have no opinion either way. Take the person for how they treat me.

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Where's your favorite place to pleasure yourself? on bf's face... oops

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Best love poems? Time does not bring relief; you all have lied Who told me time would ease me of my pain! I miss him in the weeping of the rain; I want him at the shrinking of the tide; The old snows melt from every mountain-side, And last year's leaves are smoke in every lane; But last year's bitter loving must remain Heaped on ... Read Moremy heart, and my old thoughts abide. There are a...

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Do any of you get sick and tired of being rejected all the goddamn time? There's nothing wrong with me physically. I have a great body, I'm 6'3, I dress nice, I groom myself, I have a relatively outgoing demeanor and a pleasant disposition...WTF GIVES? Yes. I don't get it. I'm a great catch.

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Do you ever miss someone so much it's almost a physical pain? Yes. Everyday.

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What happens to people that have crushes on one another and never know? nothing

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My boyfriend says I am, " to kinky". What do I do? teach him or find someone who appreciates it.

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If you have plans to be cremated, what do you wish to be done with your ashes? I want to be buried with a flowering tree planted on top of me.

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I am a lesbian who is proud of who I am. But in order to be myself I have to live in the big city where there are others like me, so I have moved from my ex-husband. He is now angry because I am taking the kids with me. Am I right that this is gaybashing? No this isn't gaybashing. You have made a choice to live elsewhere. If he isn't pleased he can take you to court and apply for custody. He just doesn't want to be far from his children.

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Would knowing that a person had or influenced a previous partner to have an abortion affect your opinion of them? Yes. Its says alot about them and their judgment.

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If you don't have money for an abortion, can drinking a LOT of liquor give u a miscarriage? no, but it can make a damaged baby that it sounds like you will give up for someone else to take care of.

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I'm 4 weeks pregnant. My partner wants me to have an abortion. He says he is too unstable to be a father unfortunately he suffers from depression. My morals tell me not to abort. My partner has given me a choice abort or he will take off . Please help. If you want the child, have it. He sounds like he would leave eventually anyway.

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Totally theoretical question, if a woman is pregnant and wants an abortion but the father doesn't believe in it should the mother be forced to keep the pregnancy and give for adoption. I mean on one hand it is his child too and on the other it's her body Yes, there have been courtcases won on this. The man can insist on having custody, but good luck on it. He would have to move really fast.

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My teacher is always telling me im lieing when i am certainly NOT!! he gives me detentions and makes a fool out of me in front of everyone. i confront him and he says im arguing and gives me another detention. im sick and tired of this. what do i do? Ask your parent to request a meeting with the principal and the three of you sit down and discuss it.

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I met a girl at a bar a few weeks ago. Things went well. She recognized me last weekend and we talked for a sec, didn't get her number, so I facebooked her. I want to get her number or take her out. Should I ask through facebook or wait to see her again? Ask her out.

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Women, what do you find least attractive in men that isn't a physical trait? The fact that what they decide is the only thing that matters.

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Ladies who are so inclined: What makes you feel all "girly"? a man that treats you like a woman

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What do you think of men wearing bras? I wouldn't want to witness it.

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Is it gay to stick your finger in a guys ass? I mean you can do it to a girl, so whats the difference? In my experience I haven't met a man that didn't love it.

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Is it ok for you to go to a strip club and get a lap dance when you have a girlfriend? only if she is with you

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My uncle , married for 15 years cheated on his wife by sleeping with her sister and now his wife has left - do you think he can possibly save the situation? no...I can't imagine that is a repairable situation.

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I have a sick feeling in my stomach that something not good is going on with my s/o. What would you do? Talk to s/o. Have you ever had this feeling before? That will help direct the answers here. What type "of not good going on" do you think it is? Like he is having affair, physical ailment, professional problems?

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In your opinion, if a man tells his gf he does NOT want to be a father and she assures him she's on the pill, but she still gets pregnant, does that man have to pay child support anyway? Birth control pills are not 100% effective. People have been on them and got pregnant. By having unprotected sex you are putting yourself at risk, infact even vasectomies are 100%. So since you accepted the risk I assume you would be liable. But, talk to a lawyer. If she hasn't had the child, perhaps you have some legal say in releasing parental rights and having it put up for...

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A man says he is jesus how do you respond? I'd ask what nationality is that?

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What size penis do most girls like? Size doesn't really matter to me, unless he is too big. It more about how he holds me.

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My ex-husband's new g-friend is having an issue with me> He and I have reamined close as well as our familes and we continue to do "family events" together. She is uncomfortable with this and we are meeting friday to have coffe, what do I say to her? Nothing, stay away from her. She is never going to be your friend. She is threatened by you. Ask him instead, how he feels about her? If she isn't a flash in the pan, then you might talk to him about how best to deal with it.

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So how do you try to move on when your inlove with a jerk who can care less about you but still tells you things that leave you confused? Let me know when you've figured it out.

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Do you ever go to the movies by yourself? Yes, I was 22 and leaving my husband of 8 months. He was a drinker and smoker and refused to go to movies with me. So I went on my own. Have never looked back. Better alone, you don't have to see what others want to see.

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Is there a condition that frightens you the most? LOVE

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Are men with grey hair attractive or just look old? My favourite man ever has salt and pepper hair. I'm madly in love with him.

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Do you think it's right for parents to perpetually assist their adult children financially? no, it isn't, but thank god for parents.

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What kind of date do you enjoy? Moonlight picnics on the beach

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Can you answer this question with a question? Can you clarify your question?

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On what date were you married? If you don't remember, does your s/o (I'm just taking pole)? October 3, 2009. Don't know who I'm going to marry, but thats the date.

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When awarding points for answers to another person's question, do you always look through every answer? Yes.

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What is the cutest video you've ever seen on YouTube? Where's the rent?

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Do you like to pose nude for artists and/ or photograpers? I haven't, but I would

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What is the most hurtfulliest thing someone ever told or did to you? When my fiance committed suicide, his ex wifes friend said to me "If he loved you so much, why did he do what he did?'

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My boyfriend signed up for internet dating sites, but never actually met anyone through them. Is it still cheating? YES! Thats how I met a cheating man .. years ago. He never told me he was engaged.

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How would you describe your chest in terms of a dairy product? two bags full...lol

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I have been giving head to a criminal defense attorney 12 years my elder for 6 years. I was 21 then, now I'm 27. He has never taken me out, given me anything. I always drive to his place. Can you help me explain why I beat myself over this? You really need to figure this out. But only you know why

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Saturday morning ... Is the freshly brewing coffee aroma drifting around your domain? What breand is your choice? ... instant from the jar, filter drip, or freshly ground espresso from a machine? freshly ground, then perked. but only when I have a sexy naked man over. I don't do coffee.

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Tom,Dick and_________________ get a wax

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How do i make it work? new batteries

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Do you believe a cluttered desk is a sign of a genius? not for me...usually it means I've been damn lazy

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What do you think about when showering? Men.

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I keep missing my ex. How do I improve my aim? I about to get mine this weekend. Bastard, will be sorry he treated me that way. lol

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Why is it in our society that people seem to judge on what others have/ look like first as opposed to their fundamental character and decency? Its always been the way...where do you think they got the saying "nice guys finish last"

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If you're gonna try to save someone, should you make sure they are worth it? Save me...I'd make a great pet.

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Are you writing a book? I wanted to write one.... called... "I'm not coming out of my trailer until..." Yes, I work in the film industry. Bloody Actors..hmmp

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Why are tall, dark and handsome guys so irresistible? I don't know ... but they make me melt. Wait, so do to tall Blonde ones... oh wait, I kinda like the geeky types... and... who can resist the bad boys. ... Damn.. I think I like them all.

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As a woman I have noticed... it doesn't matter what I look like... if I am in a "thin" or "fat" phase... men always only seem interested in a serious relationship when I'm making good money... is it just me? Really? Cause I make decent money, and I find they only want sex.

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I was laid off from my job a few months ago. I have tried and tried and tried but can't find work and am falling into a NASTY depression. Does any kind soul have any advice? Because I am ready to take my own life if it gets any worse! Think outside of the box. I have a feeling that you are going to do something that you never thought of. Have you tried a temp agency? The end of October is bringing big changes for alot of people.

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Should a 7-year-old girl wear make-up? NO

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Is it cute to see your partner angry? my ex had the cutest stutter when he was flustered,...I loved it

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I'm inexplicably sad. Can you help make me happy? they actually aren't tarot but Celtic guide cards

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Ok...been thinking about a baby for a year now. Single, 43, almost ovulating...who wants to be a baby daddy? ok..I'm being silly, but really, would you ever volunteer for such a position? Maybe I should find a nice gay man that wants a baby...we could share it.

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House md or grey's anatomy? grey's

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I'm inexplicably sad. Can you help make me happy? yes. you have something coming your way very shortly. I did a tarot card for you and it shows be changes probably by the end of the month, and they are positive ones.

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I went to the doctor and she told me that my cervix is swollenn could i be pregant maybe you have something stuck in there

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What would you think if you saw somebody tattooed with "made in china" on their back? that they were made in china

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Why cant i find my soul mate? Apparently because you are looking...or thats what they tell me.

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Is it almost fashionable to be a bi-sexual woman? um... I've never kissed a girl.. but that would be as far as I could go.

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Name something you've given up on and/or gave into recently? my ex

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What's a good Birthday present for your on-line lover? An Online vacation? how about an online strip tease....send one pic an hour

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Do you have esp? I have something...lol

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If you had to, would you marry a person who's addicted to sex or a person that's addicted to weed? sex.... I could deal with that

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Since i moved in w/ my BF, now EX, he went psycho. Forces me 2 do things. can't leave the house etc. we have a shared lease but he paid the dep. he said he won't leave till i pay him the deposit + 400 4 labor..how do i get him to leave? call the police or leave yourself

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We are having a beach party, what can we do for fun? beach twister

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Would you feel bad hitting a dog even though it always ran around the neighborhood and the owners didn't care. I understand it's not the dog's fault but would you feel bad for the owner, especially if the are irate about it? My dog was never loose, but one day when sitting in the yard with my mom, she saw a cat and flew across the street after it. She got hit by a car and the man never bothered to check on her. I would have appreciated him at least saying he was sorry. She cost me $10,000 in surgeries. I fully admit it was our fault, but he could have at least checked on her.

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What is the common alternative name for Henry? Hank

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Does anyone have a dog that is NUTS for socks? My 8mth Miniture HUsky/Pug Cross constantly trys to steal socks from my kids feet, the laundry basket even form our sock drawers. Anyone experience anything like this and know how to stop it? Apparently this is common. I read in a book that the socks carry the most scent. That them carrying it around is like us carrying a picture of someone we love. I can't remember the solution, but look up the book called "Good Owners, Great Dogs" It had sooo much advice and now I have a wonderful perfectly adjusted dog.

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Are you proud of the rack you have? yep....love it

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Which do you feel the most vulnerable to: self loathing or delusions of grandeur? self loathing

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What goes well together like bacon and eggs? A beautiful naked man

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BANKRUPTCY: would it not be easier for many people to declare bankruptcy instead of trying to pay their debts for months and STILL get in trouble? What are the downsides to Bankruptcy? I did it once. I wish I hadn't. You lose alot by doing it and it takes awhile to recover.

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What Movie that was released in 2008 would you Recommend that others watch? Ghost town

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What crosses your mind when you hear someone talking on a cell phone very loudly? knob

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My boyfriend said this on his Facebook status, "Mark is loving living a life of loving living... yes." What does that mean? sounds like he is having a good time.

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Im trying to find out how much a local business makes per year-- Is this public record?-Any suggestions as to how to go about getting this info? only if its a publicly held corp.

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How often do you change your earrings ... or other jewelry that you wear? Usually wearing the same ones ... pearls. Will change to go out.

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If you could see Pantera live with all of the members(including Dimebag) or have 1000 dollars, which would you take? money

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What color do you like to paint your fingernails? clear on fingernails. Either, dark, pink or red for toes.

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What do you think is the right attitude when someone breaks with you? You despair in front of them, or you stay firm as a rock? a rock...then you can hit them with it...lol joking

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Have you found the love of your life or are you still looking? I found 2. One died, One left me. I hope there are more.

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My girlfriend cheated on me once when she was drunk at a party and i kicked her out. I don't know what to do now though, I love her and want her back, but I don't know if I can ever trust her again. She says that she regrets it and begs for forgiveness. You need to ask her what assurances do you have that she won't do it again? How can she prove it to you? Its not your job to find a way. She did the damage, she has to think of a way that you can count on her again and how she can prove it to you.

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Why do crazy people do everything naked? hahahahha yes....my ex is CRAZY and he loved to walk around naked.

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What is ur goal right now in life? to have a baby and be happy

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What are your favorite quotes? she laughed his joy, she cried his grief a line from an ee cummings poem.

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What are u planning on doing this Saturday? I going to sleep with my ex boyfriend who is still trying to make his marriage work and then hate myself the next day...lol. Probably not, will likely have a pampering spa weekend.

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Do you think it is healthy to have friends with benefits? Have you or would you do it? What are the pluses and minuses to it? The big minus is when you fall in love with them and they move on

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What makes you stronger? Anger. It seems the only time I can be strong and defend myself is when I am furious.

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Ever fallen in love with someone you shouldn't have fallen in love with? Yes, and I have my heart ripped apart daily by him.

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If you are infected with Herpes... do you think that one can still live a happy life? like have family and kids? Yes, I dated a man with it. I never got it. But he had been previously married and had two kids. Apparently the wife did have to get it from him before having the kids because the doctor said it was important that she had an outbreak prior to getting pregnant instead of risking contracting it while pregnant.

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Has anyone ever split and got back together and it worked? We split because he had unfinished business with his exwife...now 6 weeks later he is back. Well....turns out I was wrong. Seems he just wants to sleep with me and have me pamper him while he still tries to work it out with his wife.

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Would you give up 1 million dollars to be with someone you could love forever? Yes!

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Who is Joe the plumber? was it from Green Acres?

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Any date ideas for a guy who has a girl flying half-way across the country to see him? They've known each other for 10 years, haven't seen each other in 5 years. A romantic candlelit picnic in the park.

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If you've had your heart broken, and then at some point you find the person you're meant to be with, does the heartbreak you previously went through seem petty or unimportant? Or does it just feel like something you had to go through to get where you are? Its something that you have to endure...everything happens for a reason.

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Do you know how wonderful you are, can you put it into words? Yes, I am an incredible person, warm, caring, loving, passionate, smart, funny, attractive.

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Do you think that kissing in public is okay? YES!!!!!

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I am 41 and SUPRISE im pregnant (Crying) I want to keep the baby but am afraid for my health and that I am to old. Do I keep my child or do the unthinkable? I really want to keep it. Help! This question was from July...is there an update?

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What would it take for you to go back to your ex? In a second. Infact I'm hoping to.

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What would you do if you came home and found your partner in bed with someone else? leave

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What's the longest you've gone without being in a relationship? 7 years

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Are you in a relationship? I hope so. We had split up, but he wants back together, we have a date Saturday night.

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Are you currently infatuated with anyone? Yes. Tim

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What do you do when you think your relationship has gone sour after 10 years? How do you keep the spark going? Would love an update? How are things going?

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What's the most romantic thing to do for a guy? I took my boyfriend for an incredible meal and to a strip club (my one and only time)...I bought him his first lap dance ever. He was very very appreciative.

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Have just found out 2nite that my husband, who left the marital home sept 30th 2008 to sort out his head, I asked we go marriage guideance, has been trying to start a relationship with one of my close friend back in Nov! he hits me & is mentally cruel? I'm sorry, it must feel like your heart has been ripped out.

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OK today October 15th is my Birthday. How many AB'ers think they can guess my true age? I've talked to a few out here on AB, who seem to think they know. Would you want to dig deep into my A&Q's or just take a guess at it?..Good Luck :-)...........M.C.S 36.... tell us

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How do you get over a guy you loved? find a new one

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I have searched online, but cannot find a place to buy Scott Toilet Tissue in Colors. The only store in my area that sold it, just closed. Does anyone know where I can buy this product online, please? Thank you. my understanding was they discontinued colours because of health reasons.

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How long has it been since you've seen the ocean? a few hours....live on the ocean

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I want to die. What is a creative way to kill myself? I understand, but I don't have the answer you are looking for. Maybe risk yourself to death...go skydiving, heli-skiing, swimming with sharks. But be careful, you might enjoy it and want to live, thats what happened to me.

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Why are kitchens such stressful places around meal times? What can you suggest to make meal preparation go smoothly? timing....write it out potatoes take 40 minutes brussel sprouts 10 minutes steak 8 minutes or whatever write it out and use a timer. Eventually you will get the timing down pat include prep time for each item.

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How long ago was it that you got your last friend request? today...some random person that hadn't ever answered on my questions. yes I accepted.

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Do you have something that once belonged to one of your relatives before they died? What? Bonus ques: what will you in turn do with it? Yes, I have my fiances suit, leather jacket, voice recordings, and some shirts. I had boxed them and plan to hold on to them for about twenty years and give them to his sons.

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Do you think its possible to live alone in life? I've been doing it and I hate it

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What would you like to see under the Christmas Tree in 2008? The love of my life with a big red bow around his...head

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Do you obsess about things that reduce your level of inner peace? Without a doubt. Forget the common sense thing

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How do you get over losing someone you're still in love with? I'd lost two this year, one to death, and one just left. Although I was engaged to the one that died, I'm having a harder time with the one that just left. no real answers.

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When did you finally realize that it wasnt the end of the world to end with someone you love? I haven't

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Would you paint a room in your house red? Black wall in bedroom and black bathroom... don't be afraid to play with unconventional colours

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Would you paint a room in your house red? yes, but better than that I have a black wall.....and a black bathroom...I LOVE it.

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Have you gone weak in your knees by just looking at someone? Yes, Definitely. Twice. Once with my Jeff....my god he was a beautiful man. And once, when I met Tim...I saw him smile at me in a coffee shop and I thought, why can't I find a man like that.

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I call my boyfriend at least three times a day - in the morning, going to work and coming home - but he only calls me sometimes. Is there any reason why he only calls once in a while? Yes, its balance. You call him so much, he doesn't need to call you. If you didn't call as much, he might start calling you.

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Can anyone tell me if my puppy who is 5 months will eventually stop hanging off the tail and ears of my other dog. He is corrected every time he does it but still continues. is it just a puppy thing. Yes, he will. The older dog will eventually correct him. You need to let this happen.

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Why do ALL women love Brad Pitt? We don't. I love this man.

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Has an ending of a friendship ever left you feeling suicidal? WOW....I know this one. My fiance committed suicide in June. I fell in love with a friend who helped me through it all. We dated for 4 months and he left me. I was suicidal. But in retrospect, I think I hadn't healed from Jeff's suicide and it hit me harder than it would have. I got help. A failed relationship is definitely not a good reason to commit suicide. I...

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How do you impress a girl on msn You get off MSN and meet her in person.

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Where can I find a "this guy sucks, don't date him website"? dontdatehimgirl.com I have a funny story...I met this man online. We got along really well...he is a chiropractor. I thought "hey, I'll add him to my facebook" while I was waiting for him to accept..I checked out his friends. There was one girl who didn't have privacy settings, so I clicked on her, and her status says she is engaged to this man. We had just had the...

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What do you say to someone who is sad they cant find a relationship online, but after a first date if they dont feel an amazing connection, they move on to the next first date, and on, and on? I say... you have to kiss alot of frogs. Thats just the way it is.

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I'm having a problem writing an attractive dating profile. Everything I write comes out either too cheesy or too romantic. What do I do? be cheesy and romantic...its who you are. xo

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Have you ever used an internet dating site? And if so, what is your opinion on it? Do you think it's possible to meet someone you might actually want to be with? Yes, I've met two people I wanted to be with. It didn't work out, but I fell in love with both of them.

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Do you think internet dating is a good way to find a spouse? I hope so...because I work long hours and don't know how else to meet one.

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What's the best dating site for finding sex partners and how many have you had from meeting people online? Plenty of Fish...lots of loose morals there. But don't add me to your favourites...lol

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Let's say that I am 42 years old, a televangelist, my 'old ball and chain' just divorced me, and I need a hot new wife, like right now. Is it okay to advertize on the Internet for a very good looking girl around twenty five, who has a nice sexy body? Absolutely....providing you are hot and wealthy and don't refer to her as the "old ball and chain". Sounds to me like you are just hurting.

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Has anyone found their soulmate through internet dating? I met my soulmate online, but it turned out tragic. I haven't had a successful experience online yet. I often wonder if they really exist.

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If someone breaks up with you but tries to keep in touch every other month, would you return the texts or calls? or just let it go.... Let it go. I've been through this. He calls and says he still loves me, and thinks of me everyday, but doesn't want to get back together...just strings me along. I've now changed my numbers and email. I'm not strong enough to just not answer.

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Do you put on your seatbelt before or after starting the car? after

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You'd most love to rub elbows with the cast of ____________. oooh corrie.....les battersby...lol

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I am in an emergency response class, and we were going over suicide recently. My book claims that men would kill themselves in a more violent way than women would. So, my question is, how would you kill yourself? and are you male of female? since, I am no longer suicidal...I was planning with pills, until I did the research and found out I was more likely to just end up in hospital. Then I thought hanging. The problem is there is such a high failure rate, you really need to make sure its going to work first.

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Do you think its selfish to have a baby rather than adopting one? no, I think its selfish to keep getting pregnant and giving these babies away. In this day and age, there is rarely a reason. (Don't yell at me, I said rarely, not never)

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What are your thoughts when someone wears sunglasses inside? poor idiot...has no idea that not only does he look stupid, but trashy.

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Please someone help me with this my boxer has got a cluster of bumps around his stomach and ribs lots of them we had a cat a few weeks ago and gave him ring worms at first i thought that that is what it is . i think he is dieing pleases someone help me sounds like fleas to me. sensitive to the bites. Take him to the vet.

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Are cute french girls that work at cafes in england always really friendly? or just today? You need to go back there and ask her out. You have nothing to lose.

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Have you ever found your look alike? NO...but I constantly have people tell me I look just like someone they know. Guess I have a common look.

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Romantic relationships are ___________. the only thing worth it

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Does anyone here know or has met a famous person? If yes, who? All the time in my work. Its interesting depending on the person. They are like everyone else...some are jerks, some are nice.

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Is there life after blowouts? definitely! That's when it begins. When the air is clear, and you can either recover or move on.

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If your boyfriend worked as a bike messenger for a living would you be embarrassed?? (bike messenger is one who delivers packages riding his bike) Probably.

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Every Halloween kids come to my door without any costumes on looking for candy (all ages). This irritates me to no end. I feel they should at least make an effort to dress up or paint their face. Does it bother you as well and do you refuse them candy? HAHAHA.... my sister and I used to have one of us slumped in a chair like a dummy and if the kids were too big we would tap the person dressed like a dummy and they would jump up and scare them.

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Do chicks dig scars....really? Not specifically. Although they add character and learning the story behind them will sometimes bring you closer.

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What would a man do that would attract a woman head over heels? Don't be afraid to show her how much you like her. The most attractive thing about a man is how much he wants you. My weak point has always been flowers being sent to my office.

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What's your favorite form of physical activity? Sex

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What's the best way to escape a serial killer? Change the DVD, or walk out of the Theatre.

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MY HUSBAND OWES BACK CHILD SUPPORT. WHEN HE FIRST STARTED PAYING IT HE OWED $17,000 WE HAVE BEEN TOGETER 17 YEARS HE HAS ALREADY PAID ABOUT 50,000 HE PAYS 65.00 DOLLARS A WEEK THAT IS $265.00 A WEEK, HIS CHILDREN ARE 33 AND 36 YEARS OLD.NEED TO STOP THIS. well perhaps if he had paid it when he was supposed to he wouldn't still be doing it. What about all those years the mother made ends meet without any help? was that fair?

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Why do I keep dreaming about my ex-boyfriend who died a few months ago? Well...I've been going through that too... Its a sign of grieving. My fiance died in June. I understand.

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What do girls mean when they say something makes them melt? oh my... well an example...the first date I was on with Jeff...he keep looking at me...I said "what"...he said "you have no idea do you...you could have anything in the world right now, I would give you anything". That made me melt...The thought that this incredible man would feel that way about me....it melted my heart...no walls no games.

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Girls, honestly what do you expect us to say when you ask "does this dress make me look fat?" You should say...I think you look sexy and pull us close and kiss us.

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Would it be a big turnoff if your boyfriend liked to be spanked over your knee? Yes. Not into that. But some people are....no judgment.

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I HAVE A FELONY CHARGE ON MY RECORD THAT OCCURRED IN 1997 SINCE THEN I HAVE NOT HAD ANY ENCOUNTERS WITH THE LAW. WHAT CAN I DO TO HAVE THIS CHARGE REMOVED FROM MY RECORDS. I ALSO HAVE A BACHELOR'S DEGREE IN CRIMINAL JUSTICE STILL CANNOT FIND A JOB If you have a degree in criminal justice...shouldn't you know what to do?

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What turns you on in a man? A man who isn't afraid to let you know how into you he is.

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Why are women not crazy about short guys? Hard question. I'm short myself. But I think there is some sort of psychological thing for me that I feel like a tall man is a protector. Its horrible to admit..but that is the truth. I am only 5'3" and I won't date anyone under 5"11"

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Girls: Do you prefer guys who wear suits, or guys who are more casual dressers? I always had a thing for men in suits...until I met the man in leather and skull rings. He was completely not my type, but he made me laugh. Then I accidentally fell in love with him.

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Why aren't women interested in sex? who said they aren't? My last boyfriend complained he couldn't keep up

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Do dominant women/girls prefere their guys in briefs or boxers? Boxers

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What do women want from a guy sexually? No need to be explicit. To be into me.

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My wife only likes to come once when we make love, i can, and have given her more than that. Is this normal? Once is good for me. I think I've only done it twice once...but its uncomfortable the second time. I love to make sure he has multiple times. But I prefer just once

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It's no secret that men love womens undergarments. What is the most attractive underwear for men to wear? boxers without a doubt!

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When do you finally feel like a woman? When I'm in the arms of the man that adores me.

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Is it true women only want what they cannot have? nope...I had what I wanted...

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Why do people pin all their hopes and dreams on their Bf/Gf? well....I really after all is said and done...all there really is ... is LOVE. We all want it. Its all that really counts in the end.

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What do you do when you know you should move on because you know you deserve better but you just dont want to. You cry and are in pain, and can't sleep and make the wrong judgment calls and time will go by and you will get over it and you will look back on it and think...how silly was I ... of course I deserved better.

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I want to stop thinking of him, how can i stop thinking about him. This is really painfull. i lost him to a red headed slut. What do i do. Pleases help!!!!! I'm soooo sorry for your pain. I was in that same place a month ago. Its so hard and I don't think anyone can say anything to make a difference. The only thing that helped me at all was ready the book "He's just not that into you" and time. It took alot of crying myself to sleep, not knowing how to go on without him and pathetically calling him regularly until I got...

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What do women want from men? A strong faithful loving protective companion

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What do you find more attractive a circumsized or uncircumsized penis? circumsized

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Women, what do you find least attractive in men that isn't a physical trait? refusal to bend to my will...lol

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What would a woman think if her man brought home some items from a sex toy store? Actually, Jeff did that, he bought me some porn for women and a massage candle. I didn't care much for it. But I thought it was incredibly sweet that he was trying to do something for me.

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For the straight ladies. I love looking at good-looking nude men, porn and Playgirl. Any other ladies here get turned on by a sexy nude male? No really. I prefer a real man and thats into me.

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Girls, what special places do you love being kissed and touched? I don't mean the naughty bits. e.g. I love being kissed on the back of my knees, anyone else like being kissed there? the back of the neck....makes me crazy

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Does giving a woman the traditional items of chocolate and flowers as gifts show a lack of imagination? Do women still like these things or are there other things they prefer? Sending flowers to her place of employment....always a winning move.

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Ladies, when you see an attractive man walking in your direction, do you look at his "package?" Never

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How old can a guy get before he is no longer considered sexy? oops the camping pic didn't come up... here it is..very sexy 51 yr old

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How old can a guy get before he is no longer considered sexy? well....as we age they age. The sexiest man I ever dated was 51. Damn...phew...just thinking about him now...wow...he was sexy... wait...I have a pic. One is camping...and one was after a very long weekend.

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To the ladies....Whats the sexiest colour eyes in a man? any colour with dilated pupils...because then he is into me. lol

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Women: Do you like cooking? Yes. I love making a meal for a man. Especially if they appreciate it. I have dated for too many years...and met a lot of divorced men. They have all complained that there was a lack of sex and cooking in their marriage. If I had a good man, I would never let him be unhappy.

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Why are women today turned on by Black men and other women? Women from my time liked Hot Naked White Men and would never look at another woman! Who is brainwashing you girls? I'm not sure you can generalize like that. I think women are just opening up their sensuality and being able to choose whatever they please.

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Ladies: Do you find Bodybuilders sexy or not? not overly muscled...but some is nice

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Ladies do like men who shave their legs,or arm pits, If not Why? I prefer a man natural. I like a hairy chest and legs, unless they are too hairy...then just trim a little

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My best friend, who I am in love with, she knows this but just wants to be friends, and I are going to a festival next weekend. Is it okay if I buy her a gift while we're there or will that be akward? You can do what you want. But realize that she's not into you. And that is not likely to change.

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If i let another guy kiss me and touch me without making love to me,is that cheating on my boyfriend? YES

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Are there any good men out their? Yes, I believe there are.

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If someone has life insurance can suicide be covered by it? no. suicides voids the policy

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What do you do when you think your relationship has gone sour after 10 years? How do you keep the spark going? Have you tried new romantic things? Maybe a couples retreat? Something where you can remember things you appreciated about each other.

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Does walking in flip flops help build leg muscles faster? Actually, my sister told me to clean house in stilettos...that helps.

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I want to attempt knitting, what is a simple way to get started and what are the main things I will need to purchase? (I'm new at this) I learned a few years ago when my sister had a baby. The best thing is go to a shop and buy a ball of yarn and couple of knitting needles. Depending on what you want to knit I would buy a book with some simple patterns. For example, I wanted to make baby blankets, there is a really simple baby blanket book, its everywhere. Most of the beginner books have instructions in the front on how to...

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Women: especially normally conservative ones, Have you ever taken nude or partially nude photos of yourself for a boyfriend or someone else and did this make you feel more sensual and empowered or were you embarassed? I LOVED it. Yes, I had a number of them taken. I had one framed for him. And some wallet sized.

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Tarot card readers: Do you see me in a loving relationship anytime soon? Thank you. Its funny, because I have been talking to a man online. He actually is a counselor...and we are supposed to meet on Tuesday. But then my fear set in and I'm not sure I should meet him. I'm thinking from that reading I should take a chance.

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Why are (most) people so superficial? I am willing to talk to anyone but I know so many that let gender/race/age/religion/etc prevent them from doing so. We are a fickle bunch. But we pay for it. I have limited who I communicate with and when I was lost, found myself, understandably alone. Even with all the pain, I'm not sure that I would change.

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Females: When you see a really attractive guy, do you let him know (if your single of course) that you're attracted to him or do you shy away/not let him know? I think that men like to do the chasing. So I would wait for him to make the first move.

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Should I wear pantyhose with a red cocktail dress in mid-october? And if so, should they be nude or black? Nude. Stockings always polish a dress.

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If you were at a party and you met a potential date---conversing with him/her all night long---how would you react if when that person got really drunk, began crying and screaming over his/her ex and mentioning suicide/death/etc before passing out...? I would thank god I only wasted a few hours with that person. They aren't ready for a relationship. You would only end up hurt.

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Are you ready to rule? Always!

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Should the accused get a trial to test their case before AB Staff when concerning lifetime Bans? I can't imagine a lifetime ban? WOW...what could a person do to cause that?

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Sex with my wife is dead, but with another woman I'm a machine...a colleague said. He claims to be still in love with the wife but for sex. Any advice I should give? he should find a way to make her feel sexy and bring the spice back to his sex life

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What are you going to stock up on for the Second Great Depression? LOVE and lots of it. lol...get it? depression... sorry.

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How many of you that are married ever went through a period where you just ? didn't even like your spouse? I'm not talking about 10 minutes or one day I'm talking about weeks or months that you didn't like the person you are married to? Good Question. I've never been married. Does that happen and then you fall back in love?

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You wake up and you are very very hungry. You can have any breakfast. What is your choice? Bacon and Eggs

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What kind of gift would be good for a bride to give the groom? The only suggestions I find online are cuff links or boudoir pictures - neither of which interest me. Is a 'traditional' gift my best option? (Watch, money clip, etc.) Any ideas? I would be more concerned that you are marrying a man that and you don't know what would make him smile. You should be able to think of something, anything that would bring a smile to his face.

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Have you ever taken a motorcycle trip? Yes, it was amazing. My first time on the back of a motorcycle and we went to Whistler for the weekend. My butt was numb, but it was an awesome experience. The coolest thing that I didn't know, is that cold streams of air come down from the mountains in certain areas. We would be driving alot sweating in the sun, then drive through a blast of cool air. Something you don't notice...

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Pretty girls: Do you have to have a good looking guy in your relationships? Fair question. I'm not sure I'm a girl, but I've been told I am pretty. And I have to have a man that I am physically attracted to. Of course, that attraction changes with their personality. I have dated physically stunning men that because of their personalities I no longer found them attractive. And I have fallen in love with a man that I wasn't that attracted to in...

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K so I wanna know, my friend told me today (and she's a tarot card freak) that you aren't allowed to buy your own tarot cards, that someone else has to buy them for you (gift like). True? She said it's superstitious if you buy your own... I've been told that too. I have many decks. And the most accurate one is one I bought myself.

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Is romance a necessity for you? Absolutely. I couldn't be in a relationship without it.

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What book took you the longest to read? 100 yrs of solitude. It's been about a year now....just can't finish it.

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If you noticed you and a close friend are drifting away (mostly due to them causing it) would they care if you asked them about it? I find friends are like allergies. You grow in and out of them. People change, priorities change, friendships evolve. Sometimes you grow in and out of the same friendships many times over the years.

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Do you ever get the "im horny" feeling at the totally wrong time? if so when! God yes, its called hormones. Usually during ovulation. It seems to get worse the older I get (currently 43). I think its my bodies way of trying to get me pregnant before its too late. lol

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The Greatest Love Song of all time? For Once in My Life For once in my life Ive got someone who needs me Someone Ive needed so long For once unafraid I can go where life leads me And somehow I know Ill be strong For once I can touch what my heart used to dream of Long before I knew Someone warm like you Could make my dreams come true For once in my life I wont let sorrow hurt me Not like its hurt me before For...

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What would your version of hell be? I lost my fiance this year to suicide...that is my daily hell, and unfortunately, I am living it.

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How can i know if the one i love..loves me back real love? its in her eyes. Look deep into them. You will see it.

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This guy that i like that im trying to get over doesnt like me back it think, but everytime i drink i call him and its making me look pathetic. i dont want to stop drinking so what do i do? You have to hit rock bottom. You might want to read the book "He's just not that into you". It will put things in perspective and you will hopefully have enough self respect to stop this behaviour. The reason I know this, is because I did this with my ex-boyfriend. I read the book and realized how pathetic I was.

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If UPS brought a package boldly marked "ANTHRAX" to your place of employment, what would you think? isn't that the name of a band? lol

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What is the best way to approach a girl you find attractive on the street and get her number? Better yet... in this time of crazy people, and internet meetings. Why don't you give her your number and email. Just say "I'd like to get to know you, but I'd like you to be comfortable about it. Email or call me if you've like to meet".

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In Japan 1-5 adults are prone to suicide, mostly based on financial woes, & they have the highest rates in the world, what do you think about this if anything? Wow. That is shocking. It must be too high cost of living. You would think the government would step in. Doesn't Norway or Finland have a high suicide rate too?

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Girls, what would be a good text message to wake up to from a guy friend to get you to maybe like that guy a little more? not really anything romantic, just nice. I laughed like hell when I got one from a friend that said "Are you naked?" It made me smile and think of him differently.

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What's your most powerful flirting tool? a smile

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I'm gay, but why are many people trying to get me to be bi? Do you think I should be bi? You should be what you want to be. Don't live your life for anyone else, especially at the expense of your happiness.

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Look down, are your feet crossed? or flat on the floor? flat on the floor

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Has anyone else beside me noticed, that there some incredibly insane patriotic idiots on AB? I have noticed that there are many many people, all with different opinions. I would hope that we would be tolerant of opinions that differ from ours and not call them names.

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I was bailed out of jail but when i went to court i was remanded back to custody,later convicted,sentenced and a year later was released but now i still owe the bondsmen about $800 and they've threatened to arrest me can they do that I could be wrong, but if you haven't skipped bail, don't they get the money back from the court? Either way, if you owe them money, they can not have you arrested if you have done your sentence. And threatening arrest for unpaid fees is illegal and they should be reported. I would suggest you talk to a lawyer/public defender.

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How many credit cards have you maxed out and which ones? 3 maxed, Visa, Mastercard and Sears. Just took a line of credit and about to pay them all off.

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Has cheating become an acceptable behavior? It appears most people that I know cheat on their spouses and they make it seem like it's no big deal. Have you stayed with a cheater? NEVER! I wouldn't tolerate it, and would never do it. If you need to experience other people sexually then you did to spice up your married sex life instead

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Besides addiction, are there any bad side effects from using cocaine on a social basis? you mean besides the legal factor?

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If a guy who has split from his girlfriend 2 weeks ago asked you out,what would you do,are you just the rebound girl? run like hell. been there won't do it again.

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What would you outlaw if you are in control of a monarchy? DIVORCE. Make people think about their choice before they commit and make them live with their commitment.

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Where is the most adventurous place you can make love to your partner? um... picnic table while camping...restroom at the tea house...and my only once favourite, in front of a group of people at a bath house.

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Do I have to tell people that I met my boyfriend on a dating site? what about telling them where you first met him in person if it bothers you to say you met online.

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Was I right to go back out with him? I got back with my boyfriend, we have broken up 3 times and decided to give it an other go I love him like hell but was I right to say yes to him? cos everyone else says I'm better of without him. no. if he can hurt you like that 3 times...what will be different now? he is just looking around and getting lonely...comes back until he thinks he can do better again.

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Have you ever done something horrible so the person will stop contacting you? I left a nasty message about how much I hated my ex and never wanted to speak to him again as long as I lived. I am praying this will stop him from calling and hurting me Yes, well, I have contacted telus and now have call block will block his numbers when I get home tonight. My cell provider doesn't offer it. Set up my email to return his emails as undeliverable and delete them.

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When will a women walk on the moon? I'd like to think we'd get up there and organize the place. Look at all the unused space.

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Ok,so i was on the birthcontrol pill,but i missed a few of them. and my period is about 6 weeks late. ive gone to the doctors,and taken pregnancy tests,even got my blood drawn to check. all the pregnancy tests are negative.whats wrong with me!? Ask to be sent to a gyno. I had this happen to me. Depending on your age it could be anything from stress to diet, to reaction to the pills, in my case they thought I had endrometrial cancer. They did a biopsy and there was no cancer. They never found out what it was, guessed that it was hormonal imbalance and put me on BC pills to regulate. You need a specialist to rule out anything...

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Why do people stay in bad relationships? Because they weigh their choices and decide that they prefer it to going it alone

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Do small dogs annoy you? only ill mannered ones. Actually the owners of ill mannered yappy dogs make me annoyed

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Do "soul mates" really exist? Yes, ABSOLUTELY!!!!! I've had one, and hope to find another.

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Ladies:When it comes to makeup, do you prefer the emphasis to be on the lips or eyes? Eyes...need to keep lips easy for kissing.

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What song best describes your mood today? Get over it! I need to move on

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My boyfriend is a drug dealer, and i hate it and really want him to stop because its really dangerouse, but the money is really good and we need it, and thats the only reason why i havnt said anyhting about it, but it cant keep going on, what should i do? You need to get counseling to see if this is really the life you want. This isn't a good life choice for you. How would you explain this all to your child in 20 yrs when they want to do drugs and live with a drug dealer?

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Sometimes don't you just wanna be hugged and nothing else? I need a hug!! YES!!!!!! Especially when I wake up in the early mornings and no one is there.

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What makes you end a friendship? Great sadness in how much they've disappointment me

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How and where did you meet your soulmate? I met mine online, but it didn't work out. Also met another one I fell in love with online, also didn't work out. Thinking the online dating isn't any good. Anyone have a positive online story?

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Should Sarah Palin appear on 'SNL'? Yes, it would probably increase her ratings. Like when Halle Berry showed up at the razzies to accept her award for Catwoman. It would should some character.

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Hi i havnt gotten my period for 7 weeks. I took three ept's and they show negative. what does that mean. It means you should see a doctor to rule out other things. Depends on your age too.

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My 8-year-old daughter wants to know why Elves have pointy ears? (And, I might add, pointy shoes?) When a newly born baby elf arrives in the North Pole, Mrs. Claus bathes them in newly fallen snow. Now, they're quite wet so she hangs the baby elf on the clothesline and she puts a clothespin on each ear and they dry beautifully in the warm sun. Once they're dry, Mrs. Claus removes the clothespin and - voila! - they have pointy ears.

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How old were you when you met the love of your life? Are you still together? How long did it last? 43 and no, not together anymore.

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My neighbor upstairs stomping very loudly at night time (up to 4 am) over hardwood floor. I cannot sleep. Our condo has a rule, that require 80% of floor to be covered by carpet. But managment does not care. What can I do? send a big naked hairy man up there to bang on her door and tell her he's trying to sleep take the damn shoes off.

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Are you ever scared to express how you feel? No. Unfortunately they tend to give you negative points for it...I wonder if its like that in real life too. Could explain alot.

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Sending a final break up letter to a guy - should it be short and sweet or explanatory? We were together 2 years and it was deep - just too hard now. I'm sorry, I agree with the letter or a phone call. I can't imagine the pain and dragging out of setting a meeting in person. If it were me, I'd prefer the bandaid ripped off quickly.

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Would should I feed my pet baby dragon? Trolls

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Do you ever send handwritten letters anymore? Yes. Always a handwritten note when it needs to be sincere.

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What does your maybe mean? More.....yes, or More.... no? Mine means more no. Its a way of avoiding saying no when you don't want to upset someone.

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What do you do when you know you've crossed the line to get something you wanted? no nothing like that. nothing illegal or immoral just putting myself ahead of someone else with information that I just came across

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What would you say or do if i told you i was a witch? merry meet

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What can a witchcraft spell do? do you perform them? or can you teach someone how to do it? Yes, there are many great resources. Wicca: A Guide for the Solitary Practitioner is a great starting book

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Do you want your ex to be happy or miserable? I want him to hurt like he hurt me

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Does holding onto memories of a deceased s/o (letters,card,photos, etc) make it more difficult for one to move on past the loss of their s/o? Would it be best to just burn it all so you won't be tempted to keep looking at them and keep reliving the past? Don't do that. Hang on to them. My therapist had me put them all in a box and tie string around it and put it away. Once in a while I pull it out. But in 10 yrs and you have no physical memories how would you feel?

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I have images flash in my head that happen, or feel like they have/had. Sometimes they are dreams. Whats wrong with me? Start writing them down. You need to develop the skill if you have it.

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Do you prefer to sleep Naked or do you like your PJ's? nope, always a nightie, a short one. Hate PJ's and long ones.

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Looking for a qualified tarot reader to do a tarot reading for me? I was born September 5th 8:00 a.m. in Shanghai China. Discontent, Dissatisfaction, Seeking, Searching, Conclusions Sooner or later in our evolutionary process, each of us begins to realize that it's not the having that fulfills our soul, but rather it's the act of creating that brings us satisfaction. Contentment in what we've created - no matter how grand - inevitably subsides, and our creative juices once again long to flow....

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Tarot Card readers, without knowing my question, would you please draw a card for me and tell the first thing that pops into your mind? Unconditional Love, Acceptance, Fulfillment, Nurturing, Affection There's no need to feel unloved. The Divine Mother is present, urging you to open your heart and drink from her cup of unconditional love. You're her beloved and treasured child. Feel her endless flow of Divine love streaming toward you. Any self-rejection and self-criticism you may be feeling at this time are wounds...

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Who on here uses tarot cards? If you do can you do a quick reading for me? Decisions, Confusion, Quandary, Ambivalence, Juggling You're faced with many choices and aren't sure what to do. Leave or stay in a job? Terminate or recommit to a relationship? Stop or continue a creative project? Go to work or stay at home with the kids? Life is an endless stream of choices, and doing what's best is never a simple thing. Fortunately, your Higher Self...

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I did a three card tarot reading and got strength and then two cards that both could mean either disaster or gifts and happiness. what does this mean? EXPERIMENT: I am blinding reading for people online. Please let me know if it accurately reflects your current situation Life Force, Seduction, Libido, Sexuality, Attraction Your sexuality is awake and on fire, and your lustier appetites are in search of satisfaction. You're attractive, seductive, and powerful, and a "green light" of availability to a sexual partner is...

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Tarot card readers, what do you see in the cards about my job situation? I will another one for you shortly

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I would like to learn how to read tarot cards, and I went to the book store, but as I stood there looking at their selection, I realized I don't even know where to start, could you please give me some advice? EXPERIMENT: I am blinding reading for people online. Please let me know if it accurately reflects your current situation Unconditional Love, Acceptance, Fulfillment, Nurturing, Affection There's no need to feel unloved. The Divine Mother is present, urging you to open your heart and drink from her cup of unconditional love. You're her beloved and treasured child. Feel her...

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Did you ever get a tarot card reading and have stuff come to pass as read? EXPERIMENT: I am blinding reading for people online. Please let me know if it accurately reflects your current situation Imagination, Nocturnal Dreams, Daydreaming, Reverence, Fantasy You Divine Inner-Child spirit is knocking at your door, inviting you to step away from a serious life filled with too much work and drudgery and allow yourself some well-deserved playtime. Your life is...

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IAM STARTING TO LEARN HOW TO READ TAROT CARDS IAM A HUGE ASTROLOGY FANATIC . WHICH ARE THE BEST SET OF TAROT CARDS TO READ ..? EXPERIMENT: I am blinding reading for people online. Please let me know if it accurately reflects your current situation Deprivation, Withholding, Paranoia, Stinginess, Frugality You're overly concerned about your resources and may feel the need to conserve every penny. Your fears may even be inviting you to manipulate others in some way. The trouble with this strategy is that...

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What does my love life have in store for me? EXPERIMENT: I am blinding reading for people online. Please let me know if it accurately reflects your current situation Survival, Suspicion, Endurance, Vigilance, Perseverance Your Healer Guides surround you and lovingly embrace your injured spirit. They want you to recognize that the psychic attacks you've suffered through the unconscious, negative behaviour of others have left you...

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Where can I buy the Ancient Minchiate Etruria Tarot online? ...I really want to find it for my boyfriend... (Pictures: http://www.aeclectic.net/tarot/cards/ancient-minchiate-etruria/) EXPERIMENT: I am blinding reading for people online. Please let me know if it accurately reflects your current situation Community, Tribe, Family, Camaraderie, Kinship Your Spiritual Ancestors are gathering around you at this time, holding you in their light and connecting you with your spiritual family here on Earth. Your soul is now seeking the kind of love and support that comes from...

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Is there any magic behind tarot cards? experiment...trying to read people over the internet...let me know if the card reflects your current situation. Death, Devastation, Surrender, Defeat, Humiliation Give up. Walk away. Know when to surrender. Stop beating a dead horse, trying to resuscitate it. The situation is over, and you must move on. Your Guardian Angels are surrounding you as the reality of the situation settles...

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If there are any tarot card readers out there, can you please let me know if Rick and I will talk and see each other again. I last saw him August 29th 2008. My Experiment continues to see if I can read for people online. Please let me know if it is close. I've only pulled one card on your situation. Shadow, Anger, Vengeance, Violation, Spite Although no one likes to admit it, we all have our dark sides and shadows- those less-than-flattering facets of our personality that take delight in abusing and shaming others and wielding power in...

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A clairvoyant recently told me that my g/friend is just a phase and to forget her as I am destined to be with someone else. We plan to get married and are very much in love.This is really bothering me. Any thoughts? My Experiment: trying to see if I an can read for people online. Let me know if the card reflects anything in your current life. Family, Security, Elation, Peace, Family Harmony The Holy Spirit is touching your soul, bringing about a deeper sense of peace and security. The challenges of the recent past are met, and, thankfully, you've survived. Due to the Holy Spirit's...

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Does any one here own a deck of deviant moon tarot cards? Experiment: I'm trying to blind read for each person on here. Let me know if the cards reflect your current situation. Life Force, Seduction, Libido, Sexuality, Attraction Your sexuality is awake and on fire, and your lustier appetites are in search of satisfaction. You're attractive, seductive, and powerful, and a "green light" of availability to a sexual partner is...

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Tarot card readers: give me a reflection on whether I should take the teacher's aide position. What do your cards say? EXPERIMENT: I am blinding reading for each person here. Please let me know if it accurately reflects your current situation First, let me say that the cards had a lot to say to you, but I insisted on only one and this is it. Hope it helps Judgment, Precision, Rationality, Analysis, Discernment This isn't a time to act under an imagined sense of urgency. Keep your emotions from...

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Is having your tarot cards read a bad thing? RANDOM EXPERIMENT: I am reading blinding for each person with a question in this section. Can you let me know if it reflects your current situation? Self Control, Restraint, Detachment, Composure, Relaxation Your Higher Self is advising you to keep your emotions in check through these times of change and transition. Be on guard, as well, against being manipulated emotionally by the fear...

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Why do some people seem to make a career out of sulking and feeling miserable most of the time? Hey, its job that I'd be happy for someone to take away from me immediately. I have never had a hard time in my life until this summer, and is just doesn't seem to be getting any better.

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How often do you cry yourself to sleep? Last night was the first time, but I suspect it won't be the last.

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Have you been despairing in real life lately? Why? Yes. I'm a mess. I lead a really quiet no drama life for 43 yrs, then I lose the only two men I've ever loved. One to death, one went back to attempt a patch up with his ex.

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Do you think it's a sexist belief that a man should protect/defend his lady? NO. I love it. My ex used to be very protective when we were walking around the city.

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A real friend is one who walks in when everyone else walks out. Do you have a real friend? NO. I thought I had two best friends. One I've heard from 3 times since a tragic event in my life and the other only twice. The event happened in June.

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OK, contacting his exwife after my fiance committed suicide. I would like feedback on the note I want to send her. Should I do it? See below M, This might not be the best idea, and I would completely understand if you aren’t responsive. I feel that I want to open the door for communication. I know that your wound is far deeper than mine. I understand now, just how ill Jeff was. The whole thing took me by surprise as the man I met never once showed any signs of depression. I suppose, an act, which clearly he...

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What does project management mean to you? Its basically what I do. But I do it in film production. I thinks it time to apply those skills to another industry....Anyone looking for an incredible project manager?

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My girlfriend seems bored, like, not as into me as she was before, what are things i can do to rekindle the fire of our relationship? A moonlight picnic. Light some candles in a park, wine, cheese tell her to meet you there.

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Can any one tell me his/her first date experience? yes, his name was Benson Green and we took the bus to see the movie Grease, on the way back I was afraid he would get off at my stop and try to kiss me, so I jumped off the bus two stops before my place. It startled him and he didn't get off the bus in time. phew.

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If you were rich and I were poor would you still be my friend? maybe not. I dated a rich man once. I felt like I had to make a point of not taking anything from him because I didn't want him to think I was after his money. It turned out to be too stressful for me and we split up.

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Have you ever felt sorry for an ex? Yes, I broke one man's heart once. I felt horrible for a long time. Recently he caught up with me on FB. I was really happy to hear he is happily married with two kids. He met someone he deserved. I don't feel as bad anymore.

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What's the best thing to do to get your ex back? I haven't gotten him back. I wish I knew how. But he won't release me either. I asked him to tell me that he didn't want me in his life anymore and he refused.

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Would you kiss the last person you kissed again? no.. he was a toad

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Do you think there should be a suicide bereavement category? It really is a different kind of grieving. Would anyone thinking about suicide look there and if you saw how much the ones left behind hurt, would it sway your thinking? Definitely, I need some suicide bereavement support group. Last night I cried myself to sleep after going and raining in the rain for an hour where Jeff hung himself.

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How many of you Answerbaggers are just here for the points? nope not me. genuinely interested in what people have to say and thankful for the great advice

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Do you keep some sort of snack around your computer? I have spilled too many lattes on my computer.

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Do you think people who ask questions on here just want you to say what they want to hear, and not your honest answer? I find that the ones that don't like what you have to say will give you negatives points, instead of accepting it as an opinion to the question they asked. Then are some like me, that hate it when you are right and I am wrong, but respect it anyway, and accept it as the butt kicking I needed.

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What's the most incredible thing you've ever done? I did something horrible and outed a cheater. He was cheating on his wife with my girlfriend, then started cheating on her with someone else. He was a musician and one night he drove his wife's car to the bar we worked at. It was really dark and we knew the wife would drive the car to work in the morning. He left the car unlocked and we slipped a pair of women's panties in under...

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Do you have problems keeping, or staying in a relationship? yes. I have always been unlucky in love. I never cared before, but lately it hurts.

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I need a good girl friend me too. someone to talk to. my current friends suck

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Is it possible to get energy from the moon i.e. lunar power? The moon energizes me, but in a more toxic way. I get moon drunk..lol

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I really don't think I'll ever fall in love again, and it has me so incredibly down...what can I do? Will this feeling every go away? Let me know when you find out. I spent last night crying myself to sleep over it.

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Called the ex last night...trying so hard to take my own advice and stay away, but do you ever get the COMPLETE CRAZY's and can't control yourself from calling him? Any suggestions on how to stop that train of thought mid crazy? Still crazy, talked to him this morning. I told him he needs to help me get closure, he needs to tell me that its over, to stop contacting him and that he doesn't want me in his life. He refused, he said he can't say. He said to stop contacting him but he can't tell me he doesn't want me in his life. I told him he had to say it, I needed closure and if he cared for me at...

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My husband died almost a year ago. Since his death I have dreamed of him holding me, kissing me and making love to me. People think I am crazy when I say this. Sometimes I dream of him looking out a window, am crazy or what? NO YOU AREN'T CRAZY. My Jeff died in June. I feel him all the time, especially if I wake in the middle of the night I feel him hold me. When I cry I feel him wrap his arms around me. When I sit on a certain spot on the sofa and am sad I feel him hold me and kiss my forehead

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OK Adult men, please tell me. Great date, he kisses you, talks about future things to do together, then you never hear from them again. This has happened a few times Not that I knew them well or am too worried about it...but it seems odd to me. bloody hell...the negatives again. I'm just asking. It happened again this weekend. Great date, plans, and its thursday, not a peep. Why do you rate my question negative because you think its nonsense. If it was nonsense to me I wouldn't ask it.

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What mood are you in right now? annoyed with partial sadness

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When was the last time you spoke to your sister? This afternoon.

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Can two people "take a break" and then get back together? We BOTH still love each other but he wants to "make sure it's right". You don't take a "break" to make sure its right. Why would you want to hurt someone. You take a break because it isn't right. But,...sometimes when you do take a break you realize what you've lost.

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He wants a "break" to see if we are really meant for each other. He still loves me, but "isn't sure" about our future. He cried when he told me. We've been dating 1 1/2 yrs. I'm so sorry. I'm not sure how to comfort you. Perhaps he will be back. I had one do something like that to me too. Only he calls me once a week and tells me he still loves me and thinks of me everyday. Only he doesn't want to get back together. I got upset and told him not to contact me anymore. Who knows why people do the things they do. xo

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If the person you loved were to walk into your house right now and tell you they loved you, what would you do? I'd tell him to get out, he's hurt me enough.

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What's will all the negative points today? I keep getting negatives for reasonable answers that are my opinion and directly answer the questions. Is it because people aren't open to others opinions? Do you give neg points if you don't like the answer? Thank you all you positive people out there. But truly, this isn't about points, but trying to understand. Maybe I am looking too deep. Perhaps its just another internet game and it is about the points.

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What would you think of a man who has sex with or attempts to have sex with his girlfriend while she's sleeping (knowing she takes sleeping pills), and then gets defensive, argumentative and sulky when she wakes and is angry about it? yes, its rape I agree with everyone else. if it was me, you wouldn't still be the bf in the morning.

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What's will all the negative points today? I keep getting negatives for reasonable answers that are my opinion and directly answer the questions. Is it because people aren't open to others opinions? Do you give neg points if you don't like the answer? more negative points...lol. I really don't get it. Guess I missed something.

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What's will all the negative points today? I keep getting negatives for reasonable answers that are my opinion and directly answer the questions. Is it because people aren't open to others opinions? Do you give neg points if you don't like the answer? Here are some of the answers that got negatives...just not sure why, and ideas? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4171727 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4173088 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4172558 just a few examples

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When do you stop listening to your parents? what? someone say something? seriously, I hope to listen to my mom for a long time. stopped listening to dad when he passed.

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Are you spending as much money now as you were at this same time a year ago? Not at all. Rough year with all the strikes will probably have made only 2/3 of what I usually make.

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Which word is more insulting: prostitute or whore? whore prostitute almost sounds like a choice that some makes after weighing the cost/benefit factor. Of course it isn't and most prostitutes probably don't have a choice.

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Do you think answerbag people are a good or poor representation of the way most people think? Explain. I think there are as many differing opinions are there are questions. And that people are on here for different reasons. I personally am only on here at work, because I am bored to death. So with me, you have the opinion of a bored employee.

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How can I get my cat to stop jumping on the dinner table while we're eating or the kitchen counters when we're preparing food? He's so naughty! The only thing I've been doing is locking him up in the bedroom, but surely I can train him somehow? foil Scrunch up foil and place it on the table, they don't like the texture and when they jump up there, they will be unhappy about it. After a few jumps, they will realize that they don't want touch it and will stop jumping up. But make sure its on the table before you sit down. They have to associate jumping on the table with the prickly tinfoil

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Did you ever get +100 points in one day? yes, over 200 today so far. seems I'm not in the mood to work

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Do you trust blacks? Seriously in 2008 are we really asking this question?

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Vendor checks mailed on sunday, today is thursday and my vendors have not gotten the check. post office said its delayed due to heavy volume of mail and that mail should reach destination by Saturday. My boss is unhappy, will I get fired? depends are you online at work asking us? or from home?

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Anyone else got a troll on their block? its probably all the troll bait you have.

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Why can't you get into area 69 without doing anything wierd like going into walls then jet packing that takes hours maybe you should bring her flowers...lollolololol

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What is your best excuse to get out of a speeding ticket? The only time I got out of one was when I was honest. I apologized and said I was wrong. He let me go.

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What is the most erotic movie you've ever seen (no porn please)? The Sheltering Sky. I had no idea what it was about, saw it at the Toronto Film Festival. I tingled the whole way.

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If a cure for the common cold was discovered, but it only worked in suppository form, would you take it? yes, especially if it came with a cute man

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How would you feel about dating someone that had a child? It would depend on the age and the situation. I have done it in the past, but given a choice, I wouldn't do it again.

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How long after a break up are his/her friends ok to date? well...if you don't care about hurting person then anytime. However, what kind of friend would that person have been. And if they have such few morals, would you really want them?

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What do you do if you long for a husband or bf to love, but your face is terribly scarred from acne and you doubt that anyone would ever want you? The love of my life. He overlooked my flaws from day one. And when I asked him if he still loved me even though... I was told he loved me especially because of that. So what I am trying to say is that someone, the right someone, will love you no matter what.

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Why is it that a woman expects a large ring. When for most.i said most .they've been "used" time and time before by boyfriends. Then once they realize that SEX aint enough a "compromised" guy must treat them like gold, a Good guy. when she wasn't in past Its really unclear what you are saying. Perhaps you need to state your case clearly and in full sentences.

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I cheated on my boyfriend of 3 years and lost him. I know what I did was wrong and totally out of character for me. I can't get over the break-up because I just can't forgive myself and it's been 2 months. Any advice? You should seek counseling to find out why. I think you know why, but you won't admit it. Its not a nice trait to have, you may want to get some help to change that about yourself.

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Why do men cheat? A man who cheats is damaged. A whole person would be man enough to walk away before he would cheat.

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If you found love miles away would you move to follow it? I have. It didn't work for me. But it might for you. I ended up falling in love with the city I moved to and still live here.

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If diamonds are a girl's best friend, what is a guy's best friend? I thought a dog was man's best friend?

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What is the naughtiest thing you have done in a changing room? my boyfriend

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Who do you think the final Cylon is? I know...but I've signed an NDA...can't tell

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Personally, what's the best cure for depression? Happiness. Now the question is where do they sell? Next best thing is inspirations. They are hard to find. I recently was reminded of an old blind dog that inspired me. He would go on hikes faithfully and blindly trusting his owner. He would put one foot in front of the other with his toes splayed apart and just keep a slow and steady pace. When I would get down and couldn't...

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How long has it been since you had chocolate? DAILY... I have a problem. :-(

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If money got tighter, would it be hardest to give up your little luxuries or those big splurges? Little luxuries....would die without my daily latte

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Who is your favorite celebrity? Sharon Stone....she's nuts but I love her

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Do girls find it sexy if a man wears a thong? NOOOOOOOO Boxers=yes

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Which is your favourite short story writer and why? Hemingway, I like his moodiness.

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Are you ever JUDGMENTAL? YES, I use my judgment in everything I do. Its not always good.

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Do you play mind games to get a reaction out of someone? Only if they deserve it.

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Do you wear your stereotype proudly like: white trash, redneck, ghetto? yes, born on Halloween.... very dark, mysterious...except with you all my anonymous pals.

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What do you look like? this is what I look like

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(This Applies To Anyone) What Makes A Person Attractive? (Not Physical Looks Or Anything Like That) The biggest thing for me, is that look in their eyes. The one that devours you. That will make anyone more attractive.

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If a guy i hv never met calls me a long distance call, does it mean he cares for me or loves me? A guy that has never met you can't know if he loves you until he meets you. Clearly he has some interest though.

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How many women does a man have to sleep with before he is called a whore? um...maybe only telling people how many makes her the whore, what people don't know won't hurt you.

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I was feeling nauseous for about a week...stopped the day b4 my period was due.... 5 days late now and haven't been nauseous the whole time... could i still be pregnant? Had a few other symptoms all but tender breasts? Instead of stressing and guessing...run out and get a pregnancy test. It will rest your worries immediately.

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My mom gave me til tonight to have my room cleaned in order to have a friend over tomorrow night. I'm cleaning now and she comes in saying that it isn't done and to call off the plans. How/CAN I convince her that her change in 'deadline' is unreasonable? Maybe you should be cleaning and not online. I'm sure you noticed your room was dirty before now.

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What is your favorite childhood nursery rhyme or story? THE TALE OF CUSTARD THE DRAGON By Ogden Nash Copyright Linell Nash Smith and Isabel Nash Eberstadt Belinda lived in a little white house, With a little black kitten and a little gray mouse, And a little yellow dog and a little red wagon, And a realio, trulio, little pet dragon. Now the name of the little black kitten was Ink, And the little gray mouse, she called her Blink, And the...

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Winkyn, Blinkyn and Nod was my favorite Nursery Rhyme. If anyone has a copy or can give me the web address of a book vendor who sells a Nursery Rhyme book with that poem included, I really need a copy for my grandson. I recently went to a used book store looking for old poetry books. I was in just about every child's poetry book. Try the used bookstores for an older book.

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Why do i always sabatage relationships? Fear, self loathing

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Would you want to know if your s/o cheated on you? God. I can't imagine. Of course, if you know you have to end it. If you don't know, and will never find out, is that better? Hard question. I was with one man that told me he had cheated, but told me years after we broke up. I don't think I could stay with a cheater. But hearing all this scares me and makes me think, maybe I am better off alone.

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Have you ever had hopes and/or dreams in your life that were shattered to tatters? What were they and what happened? Yes, the dream of being happily married with a family. Got too old, and haven't met the right man...or maybe I'm not the right woman

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Without naming names, who would you consider narrow-minded on Answerbag? (Descriptors may work as long as their anonymity is protected. If you decide to name names anyway, then that is at your own peril.) Definitely the over zealous religious types. I've seen some pretty narrow minded responses quoting the bible. If you have a subject that you don't approve of, don't answer. You have no right subjecting a negative, condescending scripture instead of an insightful suggestion. An example question was "Does anyone know a good medium in Vancouver" I got quotes from the...

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What do you do when you're depressed? (ie: binge eat, starve yourself, smoke or drink excessively?) EAT EAT EAT non stop

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Can I add anything to mashed potatoes, apart from butter and milk to make them more interesting or tasty? cheddar cheese, sour cream, green onions or dried porcini mushrooms in the water you boil them in, then garlic and Parmesan

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Vancouver BC. Need one attractive, kind, fun, (prefer taller) man willing to date heartbroken, funny, smart, somewhat attractive, good woman, 44 yrs old, no kids, never married. Does anyone have any of these around? Toronto ok too, have family there. I am mildy overweight, but working on it (like everyone I know)

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After almost two years, my guy is changing the way he is toward me. The things he used to do for me have decreased and he hardly says the sweet things he used to. He says its his schedule but I feel he is falling out of love with me. Am I overreacting? No you aren't overreacting. Women sense these things. Whenever I have thought, am I over reacting and ignored it, I've been sorry. We often know before they do. Now is the time to step it up, change things, make him fall back in love with you.

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What kind of mother allows her 16 year old daughter to have a 28 year old boyfriend? The kind who lost parental influence long ago.

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How many plays have you been to and which ones? Me and My Gal Camelot Midsummer nights dream Cats Copacabana Frankenstein Carmen Swan Lake Nutcracker

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Where and how do i meet guys? let me know when you find out. people will tell you the old standard crap, do things you like, take up a sport or a hobby. I haven't had any success with the online thing, but you could try maybe you will.

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If your S/O asked you to leave AB would you? Yes,...but...how would they help you fill your time...wink wink nudge nudge.

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Can you hate someone and love them at the same time? Definitely! I'm going through that right now. Hate and Love, hate what they did to me, still love them.

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I'm pissed off today, are you pissed off today? Its been a brutal few days...yesterday was national stupid people day. There is one man and bounces passed my desk with a pocket full of change many times a day...yesterday I wanted to beat him with his jingling change.

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Your towel accidentally slips off you while a window cleaner is cleaning your windows. What do you? slowly turn around, bend over without bending my knees and pick it up, look back over my shoulder and smile.

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I am trying to get over my ex but I am so attached to him that I have what I can describe as anxiety attacks if I don't see him. He's like a drug. I don't know how to cut contact without going nuts. What can I do? Anyone else like me? oh and the other thing that really helped me was that book "He's just not that into you" ..I had begged, and seduced and called and emailed. Then I read the book and I was ashamed of my behaviour. Of course he lead me on with the "I still love you and think of you everyday" crap. But the book is right. He looked at me in my face, took stalk of all my qualities and...

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I am trying to get over my ex but I am so attached to him that I have what I can describe as anxiety attacks if I don't see him. He's like a drug. I don't know how to cut contact without going nuts. What can I do? Anyone else like me? I got medication, went to therapy, had a reike massage, and went to a physic.

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My boyfriend told me today that he loves me, but he just doesn't want the responsibility of a relationship. He's 25!!! What the hell? When do they grow up? He talked about marriage! What did I do wrong? Or is it him? do not blame yourself. people grow at different rates. sometimes they use that as an excuse, sometimes they come back, sometimes they don't. I know its hard, because I jut went through that with a 51 yr old man. they never grow up. But it was just an excuse. He just wasn't that into me as the book goes.

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What were you doing the last time you had a first time? well...you probably can't really say on here. but it was with my ex-boyfriend and I am 44 and haven't ever done that. It was incredible and I'm a little shocked we did it.

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SHALL I GET A TATTOO OF STARS AROUNF MY NIPPLE? ouch

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Do you sometimes just hang out naked around the house? oh my...I had a boyfriend, I really loved that man. He loved to be naked. He would wander around my place naked and I would be so embarrassed that the he would stand in front on the windows naked. I was afraid the landlord would see him. I miss him and his embarrassing memories so much.

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What would you write on the moon for everyone to see? love is all that counts

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Do feel like a beautiful person? not anymore

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What is the average time to be a couple before getting engaged? Or what do you think is acceptable? 6 months to a year, depending on your age. The older you are, the faster you are likely to know what you want.

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How would I sue my ex-spouse who is a candian citizen? In what courts would you file? I know my ex-wife will not fly in for court, so how would this work? I am a US citizen and the divorce took place in FL. sue them for what? That will make a difference in how and what you have to do.

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I am 44, female, and have been single 10 years. I can't seem to meet a nice guy. Men say I am beautiful and I have a great job. I am kind of old fashioned and don't hop into bed until I've known someone a while. What's the secret? I'm going to be 44 this month, I have been single most of my adult life. I fell in love the first time this year, but it didn't last. I am independent, smart, funny, they say I am pretty, I just don't get it. I don't think I will ever find love.

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It's the first of October and there are loads of halloween questions up here, why is it such a big deal un the US? For such a God fearing country you guys seem obsessed with celebrating the occult. Please explain it to us English. um...Halloween is my birthday, good to know you don't celebrate in the UK. I will stay here and enjoy the spectacle of it all. :-)

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When was your last massage? Sunday

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Have you ever had an embarrassing flatulation moment? Yes. I had slept with a new bf for the first time and my farts woke me out of my sleep. He was still asleep or pretending to be. Very embarrassing.

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What stopped you from commiting suicide? I got tired of being the victim. I can't really explain it except that nothing was going right in my life. Finally the last straw pushed me in the opposite direction of where I was heading. I woke up and said enough. Although I don't think I will commit suicide, I certainly still have weak days.

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What is the dumbest way someone you've known has died? suicide

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What do you hate? emotional pain

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What do u love? Men

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Have you ever know someone who committed suicide? Yes. I met my soulmate, we moved in together 4 weeks later, he proposed. He was going through an ugly custody battle with his ex wife (we met long after they were over). The day he died, he called me from the lawyers office and said that her affidavit was so vicious and predatory that he thought she was trying to get him to kill himself so she would get everything. That was the first...

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Would you commit suicide if you looked like this? I have to tell you, I belong to several suicide bereavement groups. And some of the most beautiful people you have ever seen have committed suicide. Here is my Jeff

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A friend of mine was scolded for wearing dresses all the time. Her prof in Female studies told her that women worked hard for centuries for the right to not have to wear clothes like that. What should her response be? Thank you for working to give me a choice. I choose to wear this.

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I do this all the time and dont realize it but why do we put periods in between words.....like this? My answer is more of a question...LOL Do you think in 50 yrs the ... will become part of acceptable writings. And that LOL will become a new word written and accepted in university papers?

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I saw my ex-fiance in my dreams and I approached her with a blackrose. What does this symbolize? deep deep love that you will never forget

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What's the worst thing a person can say to someone who has just lost a loved one? OH.....yes! My fiance committed suicide and someone once said "If he loved you so much, why did he do what he did?"

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What kind of gift can you give someone who just lost their mother? Be sure to follow up. I found everyone is concerned when it happens. Then they all disappear.

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Have you ever dreamt about your death, or had a dream in which you actually die? What did you think when you awoke from the dream? Yes, and it was odd. I remember thinking, ok I'm dead now. I guess I'll be leaving my body soon, and I left my body, then I thought, I guess I'll be floating above my body, and I was floating above it and saw my body..then I woke up.

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If you had to thank somebody for something they've done that hurt you in the past... who would you thank and why? My previous fiance, who died, and I would thank him for loving me and showing me what love was and that I was lovable.

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Tarot card readers: give me a reflection on whether I should take the teacher's aide position. What do your cards say? no. there is something else you should be doing

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Is my wife cheating? What should I do? I found the phone number/address of an ex boyfriend in my computer's search history. I also found a speed dating service on facebook that she visited. I'm considering getting a spy cam and gps tracker for her car I can't imagine how you feel. You must be lost. I would talk to her about it and ask if you can do marriage counselling. Even is she isn't cheating, you need help to get past the suspicions. Tell her you need some help and would she work with you on it.

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We just got a horse two days ago, never had grain feed, never been in a horse trailer, never harnessed, not alot of hands on communication, and gotten along with her sister, of which, she's never been in corral with. Could foaming of the mouth, be nerves? Be careful with introducing the grain. I would start really small, oats only NO sweet feed. Could be digestive. Did you have it vet-checked before purchase?

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What does a woman have to do to make sure her man doesn't cheat? Choose a man with morals and make sure you both want to do whatever it takes to keep each other happy.

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What is your sign? Scorpio Dragon Caution

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When was the last time someone told you that you are beautiful? I can't tell you how lucky I am. I get told that alot. I don't feel it or believe it. But I do get to hear it. The last time was yesterday, from a friend.

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Is there something from your past that meant a lot to you, but is meaningless now? Yes, Ian McNaughton. I was devastated. I completely fell in love, I was maybe 10 or 11. He was the lifeguard at the pool, didn't know I existed. I used to think I was going to marry him. And whenever, I get my heartbroken, I think of Ian and how I thought I would never live through the heartbreak, and how I can't even remember what he looks like now.

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Does anyone do crossword puzzles on a daily basis? If so, which one? yes, I do an online one. I love it http://www.uclick.com/client/can/fcx/

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Where are the pictures of your ex? In a box in the closet

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I have a beagle mix and if he gets away there is no catching him. I'm a block from a busy street so I worry he will get in the traffic and get hit. He always comes back. Do I act happy to see him or scold him? Also...strongly recommend a book called "Good Owners, Great Dogs" really helped me.

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I have a beagle mix and if he gets away there is no catching him. I'm a block from a busy street so I worry he will get in the traffic and get hit. He always comes back. Do I act happy to see him or scold him? I have this one!!!!! First you don't ever scold them when they come to you. I started with calling my Golden Retriever in a specific tone that I use only for this. And I have super special treats for that tone. In an emergency, ignoring, whatever she is doing, if I call her name in that singsong way, she comes flying because then she knows she gets that special treat. And I keep...

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If you were going to a 1978 theme party, what would you wear? Glitter and lots of it.

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As an adult, have you lost your ability to experience childlike joy in simple things? no...this summer, I learned to stack rocks, skip stones, play frisbee. I just wish I still had my playmate...any new ones out there in Vancouver?

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What is the best way to deal with a bullying boss at work? I used to fantasize about putting laxative in their coffee and while they were chewing me out, I would imagine their expression was about to change any second.

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Does sleeping in separated rooms mean the beginning of the end of a relation ship? yes. unless there is something newly unbearable like new snoring.

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Is it ever too late to change who you are? No. But it isn't call change when you are older. It's not so much something you can just force. It's more of an evolution, you change because of circumstance, not sheer will power. Not to say that you can't change by will power, but I find those changes never stick.

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What's the most expensive thing you've ever lost? I lost a 1/2 carat diamond earring. When I got replacement ones I ended up with the next size up 3/4 carat each. Then I lost one of those.

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What's a way to try to get back with my ex boyfriend? go buy yourself the book "He's just not that into you" see if he is someone you can get back or not.

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I am in an emergency response class, and we were going over suicide recently. My book claims that men would kill themselves in a more violent way than women would. So, my question is, how would you kill yourself? and are you male of female? see other answer

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Why is is that when some people like me get a girlfriend, they turn out to be the "wrong" kind of person? I mean, my first girlfriend cut herself, and others just didn't make the right choices for life? I found that negatives things started to effect my judgment and the vibe that I put out there. I was attracting the wrong type of person. I am in therapy trying to right things. Sometimes you need a little more help than AB. Don't be afraid to ask for it.

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I need help for depression? Any suggestions? Its hard. A few weeks ago I was looking up suicide methods. I have had a really really hard year. Lost my soulmate to suicide. Lost my new lover that was helping me through it all (he left to try to make it work with his ex). Lost my friends, no one wanted to support me through the trauma. Lost my job, I was a mess for months and they didn't want to take me on the next project...

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I'm planning to buy a black kitten and I really like the idea of calling he/she Sabbath. What are some other unique names for a black cat? Minnaloushe! I've always wanted a black cat and name it that... THE CAT AND THE MOON by: W. B. Yeats (1865-1939) The cat went here and there And the moon spun round like a top, And the nearest kin of the moon, The creeping cat, looked up. Black Minnaloushe stared at the moon, For,...

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Have you ever had a very vivid dream and not been able to go back to sleep because it was really bad? Yes, I have recurring one. About my pet, and my forgetting to feed it, coming back months later, and the animals still loving me, being happy to see me, but being near death. I wake devastated and crying.

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What for thanksgiving?? Who all is coming to celebrate with you? No school :) Are you going to stay fit during this holiday? Going back east to visit my family. Very excited

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Me & my ex have been split up for 2 years w/ a kid when the divorce pprs came through & we were tryin to work things out when I found out he was sleepin with a woman 12 yrs younger than him. I dont think she knows that we were tryin to work things out! well...someone needs to tell the poor woman. I have been on the receiving end of this ... it hurts. I was dating a man that had been through out by his ex 8 months earlier. After 4 months, I was head over heels in love. Out of the blue, he decides that after 20 yrs of marriage he owes it to he ex to try to work on things. I was blown away. There was minimal mention of the ex until that...

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What makes a dream a nightmare from your point of view? when you wake and you are shaken by your dream

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I just got an e-mail from the AB staff saying that one of my mod flags was not approved, I looked at the question I flagged as nonsense, and the question had been removed because it *was* nonsense. Has this happened to anyone else? really? because there are some pretty nonsensical questions on AB.

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Campbells soup song mmm mmm good God, whenever it rains I want tomato soup

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HELP! I just adopted a 2 year old german shepard. He is the most well behaved dog I have come across in ages. Until we get in the car! When the car is still he is fine. But as soon as we start moving he barks, paces, and just freaks!! Any suggestions? When I got my dog someone gave me a book called "Good Owners, Great Dogs". I had been a professional horse trainer and already knew alot about animals, but this book had amazing positive reinforcing ways of correcting problems that I never thought of. I have since given the book away, but you should get it.

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What song would you want played at your funeral? All Through the Night Sleep my child and peace attend thee, All through the night Guardian angels God will send thee, All through the night Soft the drowsy hours are creeping Hill and vale in slumber sleeping, I my loving vigil keeping All through the night. While the moon her watch is keeping All through the night While the weary world is sleeping All through the night ...

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Did anyone inspire you today? Not today. But I'd love to tell you my inspiration. I went on a hike with my previous bf and his 12yr old blind dog. That dog kept going the whole time, slow and steady, never doubting always one foot infront of the other, toes splayed apart. Never stopping, never giving up. I thought I was going to pass out part way, because the trail was really hard and the old blind dog passed...

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If you had a life eraser would you erase the past or leave it be? ohhhh thats a tough one. I might tweak a few things.

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If your had to pick your partner out of a line up but could only see the naked bodies (no faces)... could you? without a doubt

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Would you be sad if you died tomorrow? No.. it would be a relief

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I'm dating a single parent. He said that he will "never" marry again. (Trust issues that are getting better with me) However should I wait for marriage to live with him? I'm afraid that once I'm in, it will never happen. Am I being unreasonable? You need to go buy that book "He's just not that into me" If he isn't seeing marriage in his future, and this is something you want, you need think about this relationship. Men are pretty basic and they tell us what they want and don't want. We make excuses and then we are hurt later. It's like the story of the little girl with the snake. He talks her into...

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I am interested in learning about Moon Magick. How can I improve my moon rituals? Thank you for the question. I have always felt tied to the moons. Rahlaer's answer was very insightful.

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If airlines start to charge passengers by their weight, will that make more people take the weight-loss initiative? really? are you that deluded? what type of question is that? If people aren't going to lose weight for their own health they sure as hell don't care about paying a few extra dollars to an airline.

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Ladies, would you leave your husbands if they constantly lied to you and stayed out all night? they don't work or help you pay any bills either? Are there children involved? If so, then you need to think it through. If not, throw his ass out. He will have to shape up or ship out.

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My ex-boyfriend broke up with me, telling me I was too "comfortable." He's 30! When do guys start wanting a girl who is nice, honest, loyal, and who doesn't play games? Go buy yourself the "He's just not that into you" book. It will help you alot. It helped me. If a man can take stalk of your assets and still decide to leave you, hurt you, upset you...he isn't for you. YOU DESERVE BETTER

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Any suggestions to a man who is married w/ kids and isnt in love with his wife anymore but is with someone else. if he divorces wife he may lose everything he worked hard for and has no place to go? And no this has nothign to do with me. Get rid of the other woman. He has a commitment to that family. They should be his first priority, too bad that he isn't happy. He will lose almost everything and make a lot of people unhappy. He should stick it out until the children are 18 unless there is physical or emotional abuse. Too many people are too selfish these days.

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I'm 21 and my father overdosed and died when i was 10, and im still feeling the anger, hurt, sadness ect. Mostly im mad at him for leaving me and hate myself for that, and i still cry myself to sleep..... is this normal what should i do :( Yes this is normal. You should talk to a suicide bereavement counselor. My fiance committed suicide and left behind two little boys that he loved more than life itself. A person who can commit suicide is not a well person. When Jeff committed suicide, I asked a friend of mine (who attempted suicide) how could he do this and still love me and his boys. My friend told me that he loved his...

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I have been dating a single dad who has joint custody of his son. I know that his son should be first priority but I am largely ignored until his son leaves. How should I handle this situation? Find a new man. I have been there and done that. Of course their child should be their first priority. So, if you are happy being 2nd best then stay. But it won't change and at some point the child will feel competitive if he shows you any attention. The divorced dad already feels tremendous guilt and will always error of the over doing for the child.

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Even though Pit bulls have a bad name would you buy one? no. Nature plays a huge part in animal development. I could never trust one. They are bred to be aggressive. Sure you can nurture them to be less aggressive but it will always be in background.

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Can my husband's ex-wife move in her boyfriend to live with my husband's two minor children living in the house? It sounds like she makes a habit of this. If you did not question it the first 3 times, when they were younger....what makes this time different? Clearly and unfortunately the children are used to a revolving door. I'm not sure you would have a case since you haven't done anything about it the last 3 times, but check with the lawyer. You're only hope to save them from the...

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I met a man, fell in love, he proposed 4 weeks into it, 2 weeks later committed suicide. I feel he was my soulmate. His exwife pushed him over the edge with the custody issues. I feel like I want to be friends with her now, 4 months later.should I try? I can't explain it, but I really feel close to her, and I know she isn't to blame, he was ill. I just feel like we both loved a very troubled man and that we might find comfort in each other.

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Whats the biggest tragedy that you have had to face? losing the man I loved to suicide

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Of those that are lonely, what can you do to make life less lonely? Has anyone tried volunteering?

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Why is everyone circumcised!? I don't know why.... but I LIKE it

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I have a heart of ________? Fire. Its passion burns me all the time.

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Can long distance relationships work out? in reality, not just theory. I've had two. One lasted for 6 years until we moved to the same city. Then it lasted 3 weeks.

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Can my husband's ex-wife move in her boyfriend to live with my husband's two minor children living in the house? um... didn't your husband move a new wife in to live with those same children at some point?

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If love was not named love, what do you think it should be called? impending doom

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What do men actually want in a relationship because I am obviously doing something wrong? I have been looking for that answer for 43 yrs. I met and fell in love for the first time when I was 43. It ended badly, I met and fell in love again, also ended badly. I have finally experienced love and somedays its worth the pain. I don't know if I will find it a third time. I'm not expecting too.

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Would you date someone that had been married before? What if they have or had a child with that person? And finally, when would be the best time to find out? First date? after couple months? Yes, I would date someone, only after they have been divorced a year. I didn't listen to that advice and was burned twice by it. I don't know if I would date someone with children again, it would depend on their ages and the situation. I have done it before and it isn't an ideal situation.

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Do you believe that a dead spouse will hang around and watch over you? I feel my fiance around all the time. I hear him answer me, I feel him hold me, I feel him comfort me. Maybe I'm losing my mind, but for now I'll take it.

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What is your Favourite poem about the Moon? THE CAT AND THE MOON by: W. B. Yeats (1865-1939) The cat went here and there And the moon spun round like a top, And the nearest kin of the moon, The creeping cat, looked up. Black Minnaloushe stared at the moon, For, wander and wail as he would, The pure cold light in the sky ...

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What is your favourite poem that is short and sweet? The Duck Behold the duck. It does not cluck. A cluck it lacks. It quacks. It is specially fond Of a puddle or pond. When it dines or sups, It bottoms ups. Ogden Nash

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What is your favorite poem by e.e. cummings? anyone lived in a pretty how town (with up so floating many bells down) spring summer autumn winter he sang his didn't he danced his did Women and men(both little and small) cared for anyone not at all they sowed their isn't they reaped their same sun moon stars rain children guessed(but only a few and down they forgot as up they grew autumn winter spring summer) that...

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What is your fave poem- by you? Unbearable pain in the light of morn Through the night the anguish is born Emotions raw and searing the heart How do I find the strength to start These are the things that come to me A fear that I will never be free A lover awaits with a heart of gold Can he save me from the love of old I had never written a poem in my life until I wrote this after my fiance committed suicide. My...

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Do you believe in karma, and why? Yes, I have Parking Karma. I have always been kind and considerate with my parking. And guaranteed when I need or want a spot...one appears.

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Which American actress has Kate Hudson as her mother? I thought Kate only had a son?

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I am 7 weeks pregnant and I passed a blood clot yesterday and had a pink discharge today. Are these symptoms of a miscarriage? Wait.... not necessarily. Get to a doctor. My friend was in tears, absolutely sure that she had a miscarriage. Went to the doctor and all was fine. She now has a 6 yr old wonderful little girl.

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What is a good attention grabbing "title" for a suicide prevention poster/flier? It's basically a sheet with prevention hot line numbers on it that people can tear off if they need them. Well.... let me tell you something. When I was in a suicidal phase, I googled ways to commit suicide. And they are pretty smart. They would have 10 easiest ways to committ, 100 fastest ways to..., top methods...etc., then I would go to the site and it was a bloodly suicide prevention site. So if you want someones attention that is thinking about suicide, you have to offer them something...

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Do you allow your heart or mind to control your feelings for someone? Heart everytime. Wish I knew how to do it the other way.

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Help...I keep having dreams about forgetting to feed a pet I love and coming back and finding it near death but still loves me and happy to see me. What does it mean? I posted this question a number of days ago. I was talking to someone who had an interesting thought. They said that a pet represents unconditional love, and that I have been starving my love, I haven't been giving it freely and been hiding away, not taking care of myself.

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For the men on here, I want to give you a situation and i want to know what you would do. Lets say she didn't cheat on you or do anything bad against you, you broke up with her, because you said you needed space. Would you ever decide to go back? I would run out and buy that book "He's just not that into you" I did and it helped me turn my head around on it. I was in a similar situation. But as the book says, he looked into your beautiful face, summed up your assets and he CHOSE to break your heart, he chose to leave you. If a man wants you, he isn't going to risk losing you.

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Help...I keep having dreams about forgetting to feed a pet I love and coming back and finding it near death but still loves me and happy to see me. What does it mean? Its isn't letting me post another comment...so here is the balance of the dream. I am going about my everyday business quite happily and don't even remember that I have this pet. When I come across it in that state, I am devastated and wake up crying. It shakes my whole day.

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Will someone who loved you love you again? I'm counting on it. Although he says he still loves me, even though he is trying to make it work with his ex. Says he thinks of me everyday. Its really hard.

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When are you the most grateful? I am healthy, I have a loving mother and sisters, I have a good job, I have a wonderful home.

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You still want to be with your ex? Yes or No and why? Yes, I would take him back in a heartbeat. I actually am stupid enough to wait around for him.

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Have you or someone you know ever gone to anger management and did it do any good? Yes, it didn't really work. For Anger Management you need to know you are getting angry and why. I found it would just flare up and I couldn't see the signs. I was angry for most of my life. Then a couple of years ago I went to a hypnotherapist, it changed my life. In conjunction with cognitive therapy, I have dealt with my issues and if you met me today, you would be shocked to...

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Who do you know that has a tortured soul? I used too. But I'm not playing victim anymore.

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Do you suck? Yes, and usually I get no complaints!

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What can i do to make me happy and get my mind off of my ex boyfriend? When you find out let me know.

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Who do you talk to when no one wants to listen? Answerbag

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Is it difficult for you to express feelings towards a person that has suffered a loss? Its amazing how difficult it is for people. I lost my fiance in June, and I felt like I lost my friends too. They were rarely there for me. He committed suicide so they found it difficult to deal with. Its now damaged our relationships.

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Is Canada still the place to flee when your running from the law? Yes, bring your parka for when you cross the border...honestly....what do you think its the wild frontier?

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How do you keep ants from invading a picnic? What if you put something yummy that ants like in the dirt a few feet away

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Would it change your perception about a person if you discovered he/she was a former drug addict? Yes. I honestly don't think I would allow myself to get that close to them. I would be afraid of a relapse.

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Cheese and onion pie, mushy peas and chips right now! what is your desire? hmmm cheese fondue with bread

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Are you a difficult person to get to know? No, unfortunately, what you see is what you get, no hidden agendas

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So I have a friend with benefits... is this bad? And have you ever had one and how did it turn out? Yes... It never goes well. One person always ends up wanting more.

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Do you know of a diet that works? Depends on where you live. I lost 166 lbs on the Dr Bernstein plan. You lose 16 to 20 lbs a month. It was awesome

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What is that song you want to post for that person that broke you heart to say I have moved on? here is mine Get over it by Amy Winehouse

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What's the worst/funniest thing to say right after you pee? :) um...well I said to a BF, WTF you just peed with that thing get it away from me.

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Do you think insurance (protects against rips,tears,stains-will repair or replace if needed) on a couch for 5 years is worth the extra $80 it's going to cost me? Never...they always find a way out of it.

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I sometimes have a dream about someting then a few days it comes true. what does this mean? Sometimes that happens to me. But its not usually exactly what I dream. There is some variant to it. You should right down all your dreams when you wake first thing each morning. Keep a log and see if there is a pattern.

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What is something that you have never done, that you would like to do this year? Get out of Debt

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If a woman is dry during intercourse wouldn't it hurt the guy too? Especially when a woman is raped and she is not wet. Yes, I am still sore from the dryness two days later.

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If "falling in love" was a nice thing, why do people use a painfull verb to describe it ?? (Fall).. LOL....yes, its true. I fell ... hard, and it was completely accidental..didn't see it coming.

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If you miss someone who is no longer a part of your life ~ what is it that you miss about them? I miss you holding me when I was afraid I miss you walking protectively around me on city streets I miss laying my head in your lap on the beach while you did the crossword I miss the way you stuttered when you got flustered I miss the deep dark mysterious man that I would find in my room watching me sleep I miss your laugh I miss your boy-like playing (frisbee, skipping stones, etc) I...

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Do you invite drama into your life? I was just wondering that myself. My life has been calm until this spring...now its one drama after another. Need to break the chain

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In general, are you having trouble in the dating department?:) Dating I do ok...its hanging on to the ones I like that I suck

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How do you know youre realy in love i want to know im get in married in 3 months You will know when it happens. Took me until I was 43 to really fall in love. But now I know what it feels like I will never accept less

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First thing that comes to mind when I say...Tall, blonde....? His exwife from hell

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Is it rape? I don't remember anything and he says it was consentual. See below for details. THE DETAILS its a confusing situation. I'm not sure if it was really a date rape. I was missing Tim and grieving the suicide of my fiance last year. I had taken two ativans and was going through my fiance's things when I came across his bottle of Jack Daniels. I don't drink, but I had a sip and another and another. Around 9pm a man I had dated in the past but never had sex...

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I was basically date raped Saturday. I feel so stupid. I want to call my ex because he is my only real friend. But he is trying to make things work with his exwife. do I call and talk to him or would it be a bad idea? I do hope to win him back oneday its a confusing situation. I'm not sure if it was really a date rape. I was missing Tim and grieving the suicide of my fiance last year. I had taken two ativans and was going through my fiance's things when I came across his bottle of Jack Daniels. I don't drink, but I had a sip and another and another. Around 9pm a man I had dated in the past but never had sex with called...

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Why hasnt my gf introduced me to her friends? Either you are not the man she wants in her life, or she is waiting long enough to ensure you are the right one.

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My ex and I broke it off 5 months ago. We started dating other people. He denied sleeping with anyone, I've been open that I have. He is moving back here in one month, he has a GF whom he's dumping. He wants me. What to do? I was on the opposite end of this. I met a man that had been separated for 8 months. We fell completely in love. When his exwife found out, she pulled out all the stops to win him back. And my broken heart is proof it worked. I don't know why people can't be free before they move on to hurt others.

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I miss my ex. He's moved on. Don't think i can get him back. Wish I could forget. I think I'm in love with the memory of him (in our good days). How can I put things into perspective and realize the man he is now is not who I would want to be with? :( Its painful, if you figure it out let me know. I am still in love with a man that left me in a mess.

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I hate my ex more than any of my others. However, I'm beginning to think it's only because I loved him so much. Is this stupid to think? no.. when Jeff died, the therapist told me that you grieve the relationship as deep as you loved in it. You obviously loved him alot and therefore will grieve the relationship alot.

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There is this new term "gray rape" where the person is not really 100 percent sure if they were raped? What kind of baloney is this, either you said no and resisted in some way or you didn't. What do you think? Well.... It could be a date rape type thing. It happened to me Saturday. I am still grieving the lost of my fiance. Saturday was a rough day for me, I had taken two ativan's but they weren't helping. I unpacked Jeff's things and was going through them when I found his bottle of Jack Daniels. I'm not a drinker, but I had a sip, and another and another. But 9pm I was...

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How much money do you make a week and what kind of a job do you work? Yes, 3 yrs

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Do you mourn the passing of Summer or do you celebrate the arrival of Autumn? I LOVE LOVE LOVE Autumn. But this year, I am missing the Summer.

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Have you ever let the failure rate keep you from trying suicide? thats not what I was asking... I was asking if you've thought about it and decided against it because you were afraid of not being successful.

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Have you ever contemplated (but not attempted) suicide? Lack of knowledge. I don't want to fail at it.

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Have you ever lost a job because you lost your temper at work? no, but have basically just lost it because of depression. I work freelance and my fiance committed suicide in June. I haven't kept it together very well. Now my boss has a new project starting and I am not welcome.

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How much money do you make a week and what kind of a job do you work? $2500/wk Film Coordinator

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Unemployed, uninsured, flat broke. IF my first suicide attempt fails, how will any resulting medical cost be handled? I don't want to leave my family stuck with MY debt. Will hospital go after family? Are states/hospitals obligated to help? Seriously. You people need to respect a persons decision. If they want to commit suicide that it their choice. Clearly that person would be happier. If you are talking immediate family, I suppose they would be liable. If you are talking parents/siblings, no. Just do your research

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Would you live in a house where someone passed away? If not, why not? Yes, and I will. My fiance hung himself at his exwifes house...as soon as she sells I'm buying. I just want to be close to him

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When did you decide that you would never, ever do something again? Every single day, right after I have that piece of chocolate

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Are you 100% sure that, if you're in a relationship, and somebody better came along, you would never leave your loved one? Yes I am... because I won't be a relationship again unless it is the real deal. Then nothing would tempt me away.

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Do you hate rogers? (phone, cable, internet...) GOD YES!!!!!! Rogers is the antichrist. I can't wait until my contract is up so I don't have to pay $500 to get rid of them.

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Girls Would you Rather Swallow a Load Or have it On your Face? Depends on the man and how much I care about him and what he wants.

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What can be wrong with a female if she burns when her boyfriend ejackulate in her. does it burn during? or after? I've had urinary tract infections and sex will sometimes cause them for me. Especially if there has been an anal play prior.

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Has anyone else resigned themselves to the fact that the only person they ever fell in love with they can never be with, and they'll never fall in love again? The heart is such a wretched thing. We all hurt and want things that don't always work. I fell in love twice in my life, and had them for too short of a time. I'm nervous about falling again...but the good was so good, it outweighs the bad.

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I am nearly divorced & have started to seriously want some male company. I'm finding myself v attracted to younger guys - they seem so fun & untainted - but I'm scared I'll get hurt. Shall I go for it & take the risk, or wait for a sensible relationship? It is so hard when things end and you have a new lonely feeling. When my fiance died, I went straight into the arms of a friend, who turned into a lover. Now that time has passed I wish I had taken the time like you have. Instead I am heartbroken again and resuffering both the original loss and the current one. But that said...I LOVED and LOVED strongly. They were awesome experiences....

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Do you think you will be single forever? I have a gut feelings that I won't be, and thats what keeps me going. However, I am 44 and have been alone my whole life, except the odd boyfriend. I don't know if I would live will someone now.

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Tongue in you ear ... Does it tingle you or not? ... Have you had? ... Do you do? ... Would you? not a huge fan...prefer an earlobe nibble and some whispering in the ear.

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My ex is still receiving mail at my house. I have a PPO against him, therefore, I don't want to call him to come and get it. I tried writing "no longer at this address" and putting it back in the mail. It keeps coming back. What should I do? yes holding at post office is good...but you would instead do a change of address with the post office and have his mail forwarded to his new address.

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Which feral animals do you hate the most? oooh easy...the feral dock dogs...better know as Jack Russells....yuck

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Best excuse for getting to work/school late? oops

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How many sleeping pills is anoverdose This is a hard question. Apparently they have changed sleeping pills so they rarely will kill you now. I am thinking it would take far more than you have.

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You've just been shot, you know you are dying; I kneel down next to you and lift your head. What do you want to tell me? ok.. I'd give up the 11 herbs and spices.

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I'm an unattractive teenage girl (not lying - I know I am not nice to look at, mostly because I am obese) If my looks changed, do you think a guy would show interest? They never have. Honesty please? I'm a big girl I can handle it. What can I do? I was obese most of my life. I am still about 30 lbs over weight. Last year I lost 166 lbs. I am overwhelmed by the attention that I am receiving. I am now in therapy trying to learn why I hide behind my weight before I gain it all back. I am 44 yrs old. This is a life long struggle. You might need to try to get some help.

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Who here uses a picture of them self in their avatar? Me too

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If you like someone and you can't have them should you flirt with them? Yes, Flirt....you should flirt with everyone all the time. Nothing more fun and stimulating than flirting.

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If someone u really care for asked u to wait for them to straighten their personal life out (ie recent divorce) would u? Even if you doubted it? This one killed me. We fell completely in love. When she found out she did everything she could to win him back. He asked for sometime and I said no. A few days later be begged me to take him back that he loved me and wanted to be with me. A week later, she won, she had everyone talk to him and tell him how she had changed, and although he says he loves me...he says he owes it to her to...

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Is love really worth the heartache When my soulmate committed suicide, I thought I would never love again. But I was ok with it because the love we had was so great that it was worth the pain I was going through. When I wasn't looking I fell in love with my best friend. It was the most incredible love affair, but when he ex wife found out (they had been separated 8 months) she decided to win him back. She did. He...

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What are your thoughts on anti-depressant cases that have related to suicide? Yes, I believe they can cause it. My Fiance did it. He told me that the medication made him feel worse. But it was a condition of him being able to see his kids. He had to take them. Effexor and Cipralex were the culprits.

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If someone actually intended to commit suicide why would they tell people about it? I don't think they would. At least not anyone they knew or anyone that could stop them. What would be the point in that. Those are attention seekers or calls for help. Someone who is really going to do it...will research it quietly.

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If someone comes on AB saying that they want to kill themself, do you think it is helpful that within 1 hour their question is flagged and removed as "Spam/Offensive"? You know...sometimes its easier to say it to strangers. Not really looking to be talked out of it..but just to hear it out loud and make sure you want to do it. If you tell anyone you know they will stop you and it will be a bigger drama. Best to keep it quiet. I have only vented it on here today. I am not doing it today. But I have no doubt that I will do it. I'm not sure why I...

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What would you do if you walked in on someone hanging his or herself in a room? let them be.

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Have you ever thought of hanging yourself? yes. Thats how my Jeff did it.

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Have you ever contemplated (but not attempted) suicide? I have ... I am. And I have to say I don't want anyone talking me out of it. I will do it, its a matter of time, when I have figured out how to be successful at it. I don't think that you should try to talk people of it. If they are that unhappy, they would be better off. The we drag down with our pain will be better off. Remember Darwin...just let us be.

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MY MOM COMMITTED SUICIDE AND I WAS WONDERING IF ANYONE COULD SHARE SOME THINGS THAT YOU WENT THROUGH WHEN SOMEONE CLOSE TO YOU COMMITTED SUICIDE? My Fiance committed suicide. I thought that maybe he didn't really love me. Maybe he was just trying to appear normal. Maybe I was his facade. Maybe I wasn't worth loving, or sticking around for. And now, I am sad and hurt and thinking he had the right answer, I should to it too.

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How would your reaction be if a person you were trying to help told you that you can't because you cannot relate to what they are going through? I would tell them they are probably right. Help me to understand.

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If you could say something to stop someone from committing suicide what would it be? What if you change your mind?

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Which age group has the highest level of suicide? A) 12-21 B) 21-35 C) 35-50 D) 50-65 E) 65-90 C 35-50

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Do people commit suicide overnight? What kinds of things do people experience to lead them to do this? Why do they seem so normal sometimes on the outside? I had never thought of suicide in my life until lately. I met a man, he was my soulmate. Apparently he suffered from depression when he was younger, and he was going through an ugly custody battle. Two weeks after he asked me to marry him, he hung himself at his exwifes house. Apparently having someone close to you commit suicide, makes you susceptible to it. I have been thinking about...

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How hard/easy your life has been? and do you think it will change? I have been very lucky...I have good health, great parents and siblings, good job, but love has eluded me. At 44 I am thinking about ending it. Its too hard to spend your life alone, without love.

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How do you think you will die? hanging

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Kinda a stupid question I know, but I'm like falling apart completely right now...like a complete mental breakdown...I know it sounds unreasonable, but I just want to give up everything and die. To those that know me, why not? ok. this may or may not make sense. But I feel this way regularly. What I think is...I can't bare the pain...they would be better off without me...no one would miss me. ok... that might all be true. But I then make a deal with myself. I've given myself permission to do it. But I must research it, and I must do it in the least destructive way to those left behind. Once I have a...

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Can anyone tell me why I'm so damned annoyed at every idiot today Yes... I can't. Every 6 weeks it is officially "stupid people day" and you know its coming. And there is nothing you can do about it. Sit back and enjoy the antics. It's like a drunken New Years Party...yep they are all stupid, but tomorrow they will be sane, so try to just laugh at it.

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Have you ever thought of running away and never coming back? Yes, and right now I am thinking about it even more.

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What are the chances of someone aged 40 or over finding a partner? I'm not sure its great. At least not for finding that true love that you want to marry. Once we are over 40, I have dated toooo many men with far too much baggage. And the ones you meet without baggage....really have it, they just don't know it. So I think you can meet someone, but it will different from the passionate crazy love that we had when we were younger...it will be...

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How can I get over it without breaking down completely? I really loved him and he has decided to try to reconcile with his exwife. He says he loves me, but owe her because they had been together 20 yrs We never had any hard times. His divorce was final in a couple of months. She hadn't even talked to him until she found he was dating me. Then she pulled out all the stops. He swore they were over. In fact it was the marriage counselor that suggested he start dating again about a month before he met me. I had recently lost my soulmate to suicide and was a mess. Tim picked up the...

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What are the signs that ur bf is trying to get distant from you? God, after 40 something years I am unfortunately getting good at this one. When they aren't the same. When they used to call multiple times a day and now you have to call them. When they used to suggest dates and now you have to make the suggestions. Any they used to do that they no longer do and when you question it, it becomes a ...oh I'm tired, or I'm working too hard, or...

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My ex came round kicking off while i was online talking to my new partner. When i told her what was going on i told her, the ex can't handle the fact i've moved on, well thats what i think. She lost it told me the ex was getting to me and went offline. Well....I can't blame her. I was in her position. I loved my boyfriend with all my heart and he said he loved him too. But his ex...they had been together for 20 yrs and I was afraid he would go back to her. Despite his protests and his telling me how I was the one for him...as of this morning, he made the decision to go back to her and try to make it work. I told him before that...

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My BF's exwife is cyberstalking me and making me nuts. She recently changed her FB name to my BF's last name. Their divorce will be final in a couple of months but she has decided she wants him back and I am concerned that she is becoming delusional Actually, the question was should I be concerned. And the answer is NOT ANYMORE. Seems they had been talking behind my back and have decided to try to make their marriage work again.

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Why would a woman suddenly take soon to be ex-husbands last name? Well...turns out we are all wrong. Seems he's been talking to her secretly and has decided to give their marriage another chance. I guess they aren't all crazy after all. It was me who was crazy trusting him.

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My ex came round kicking off while i was online talking to my new partner. When i told her what was going on i told her, the ex can't handle the fact i've moved on, well thats what i think. She lost it told me the ex was getting to me and went offline. I'm confused by you question. Where was your ex? Are you living in the same place?

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I have been dating my bf for 3 months. He has been separated from his ex for 5 years but is still not divorced. He says he just hasn't got round to doing it. Should I be concerned? I was in this situation years ago. After a year of dating him, I told him he had 3 months to begin divorce proceedings or it was over. He never did and I ended it. Years later I ran into him and he admitted that as long as he was married he had an excuse to not get that serious with anyone. And if I hadn't ended it, he would have as soon as he found someone else anyway. I was a...

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Have you ever seen an ex GF, Wife, BF, Hubby, Lover or whatever in an online personals ad, like Match, Yahoo? If so how did you feel? Was it a sex site like Adult friend finder? Not me, but my friend was on lava and met this man...they got along but he had no picture up. When she finally saw a pic it was her really good friends fiance....not very nice at all.

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My wife, soon to be ex, has pushed for a divorce. Now that I have finally accepted it, its not okay with her. she is saying things like "i'm glad you think its okay to move on" cause she sees other females writing me on myspace. bu I am dealing with this in a different way. My bf was thrown out by his ex wife last November. She never spoke to him until July when we she found out we dating. Now she wants him back. When he posted pics of us she lost her mind. She is calling him crying and and recently decided to take his last name, enough though she never did while they were married. It has come between us once because...

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Why does an ex husband absolutely refuse to have any relationship with the ex wife after he's gotten the divorce? I think people should just move on, unless there are children involved.

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Why would a woman suddenly take soon to be ex-husbands last name? No, I think its a game. Once she found out about me, she decided she wanted him back.

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