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If I think my dad is cheating on my mom, should i tell her? BLACKMAIL TIME. I think I would tell my dad that I heard him say that he was "taking a nap" with a chick. Then I would ask him what that means? Then I would tell him that I want something really expensive to keep my mouth shut. I would also tell him that I've told a friend too. So, that if anything happens to you or he threatens you in anyway that the friend will go to the police.

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What should I do about my husband keeping things from me? Statistics will tell you that 66% of men will cheat on their spouses at some point in their relationship. I would say that it's time to end this relationship and move on. Any secrecy on the part of your husband nullifies the trust in your relationship. I wouldn't try to "fix" it. Just get out.

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I have no idea why,but why do I feel rap-ed even if I never was?what could cause this?(nothing offensive please Im having a bad day already) Because you give yourself to men to whom you have no attachment. Recreational sex is not good for the soul of a woman.

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Do you look happy? Well, apparently when I was at Starbucks the other day a guy said I looked "sleepy" and said maybe I needed some coffee. Already had some. I think he was flirting.

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What's the most erotic part of your face? My voluptuous lips. Especially when I smile.

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Will you give me some good advice please? Never trust a liar. Lock the doors of your house and car. (Even when you are home). Do not eat fast food. (Your body will thank you). Eat your veggies. (Your body will thank you). Get enough sleep. (Your body will thank you). Keep your friends close, and your enemies closer.

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If you could put yourself in an envelope and post yourself somewhere, where would you go? I think I'd like to go to Venus. Just to look around. Or maybe Saturn, or Pluto. Any of the planets in the constellation, Orion. Now if your just talking the "Earth". Alaska, Germany to visit a friend of mine. Paris. Colorado (my son lives there). Florida. Wouldn't that be cool...if it could be done. Lot's of places to go....

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How can you recognize a true friend? I like this definition best from Urban Dictionary: A friend is someone you love and who loves you, someone you respect and who respects you, someone whom you trust and who trusts you. A friend is honest and makes you want to be honest, too. A friend is loyal. A friend is someone who is happy to spend time with you doing absolutely nothing at all; someone who doesn't mind driving you on...

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How do you make a woman who has BREAST CANCER feel better about herself when she is sad, and don't want to live anymore?? She's most likely depressed. I would go with her to her doctor. I think the best thing that can help someone out of this situation is to be there for them. Everyday if need be. A friend in need, is a friend indeed. Her husband is a complete ass. And of course I'm not wrong in my assumption. Women take too much blame on themselves.

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What would you name an albino alligator? Casper.

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Do you think that the human soul is just one huge mystery? Why or why not? No mystery at all. According to the Bible.... Genesis 2:7 And the LORD God formed man of the dust of the ground, and breathed into his nostrils the "breath of life"; and man became a "living soul". Body + Breath = A living soul. Your body without this "the breath of life", dead. Genesis 3:19 In the sweat of thy face shalt thou eat bread, till thou return unto the ground; for out of it wast...

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What's your favorite way to beat the summer heat? Drink ice water. Dress in lightweight cotton clothing. Put my hair up. And stay out of the heat if possible. It's a 100 degree's today and I'm staying indoors in the air conditioning.

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Found out BF of 10 yrs has an ex he never ever mentioned. He was with for years. She's contacted him and he never told me. What do u think? Secrecy is never good. And even worse now that the girlfriends knows...not wanting to discuss it. I wouldn't feel very comfortable about it. But I can give you a piece of advice that I read someplace that you should even be a better girlfriend at a time like this. And be confident in your relationship. Maybe is was really painful for him. And he will eventually tell her about it, now that it's...

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Why do I have such "old looking" hands? I'm only 23.. (female) I can't imagine that your hands look old. I think it's just something that your fixated on. Are your hands wrinkled? Moisturizing at bedtime would be helpful in addition to other times in the day. Neutrogena make a hand cream that was originallly made for fishermen, I think. It's one of the best. Those alcohol based hand sanitizers are harsh.It could be that the soap you use too. Are you...

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Have you ever gone skinny-dipping? When I was eighteen, I went fishing with my boyfriend of a couple of months. We weren't having any luck. The place we went was pretty far off the beaten path....or so, I thought. We waded down into the water and my clothes got a little wet. (And my boyfriend splashed me too). So, I decided to take them off and let them dry. I have to admit swimming naked does feel great. It's very liberating. I...

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Do you think God judges you on a daily basis and makes an account of your sins? How else would he judge you. Matthew 12:36 But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment. Unless, there are some days when you don't speak at all, every word is being judged. That's why you ask for forgiveness on a daily basis. Some people think that once you are saved that you can live your life with abandon and do...

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Ladies, would you wear these shoes on a date? My first impression was that they look like the shoes worn in porn that appeals to men with a foot fetish. If that's not the impression that you want to put out there, then my suggestion would be to not wear them. Men do judge women by what they wear. Double standards do still exist. There are women men take home to meet mom and there are those that they don't. Which category do you want to be in?

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Should it be illegal to feed homeless people? Compassion for humanity. What a crime. Christ had compassion for the poor. At the wedding in Cana where he turned the water in to wine....the servants were the one's privy to that miracle. The shepherds in the field....were the first to know of Christ's birth. The poor have a special place in the heart of God. Pity that some people are totally unaware of this.

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My friend's haircut went a little bit short; how can we make it get bigger? (We have until Monday) I would suggest either a wig or hair extension's.

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baby names! ok so im trying to pick out baby names for my child, and i cant decide on a middle name help! kyle pisana middle name?? The middle name should have 3 syllables. Such as one that rachellelynn mentioned. Kyle An-thon-y Pisana. Then it has a nice sound. For instance. My first name is two syllables, then one then two. Such as Mar-y Ann Mo-bley. Here's a link to a site that will generate a middle name for you. At the top of the page is middle names. http://www.babynamegenie.com/baby-name-generator/ Hope this helps.

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Should evolution be stopped taught in schools? Evolution is still a theory. Even Darwin himself found flaws in his own theory. The "theory of evolution" has evolved itself though, changing the wording in documentaries and such...from the word "theory" to as though it's a fact. You have to pay attention to catch this subtlety. I think if there were a BALANCE of theories as to how the world /universe was created even Christians wouldn't have...

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how do i maximize space in a REALLY small room? Here's one sit for you......http://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=maximizing+space&aq=f You can also look up lots of video on youtube.com. put in "maximizing small spaces".

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Is a beauty pageant mom who gives her 8 year old daughter botox injections guilty of child abuse? Children at that age can be coerced into just about anything. If the child did ask for botox, I imagine it was only because the mother was doing it. Eight year old children do not have wrinkles. I would bet that this ditsy mother was doing it because she was influenced by the other mother's already doing it. This is probably not an isolated case. The pageants need to have rules against this. In...

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ladies what color should i paint my nails It depends on what color your complexion is and the time of year. http://chicacouture.wordpress.com/2011/05/03/whats-hot-3/ or.... http://www.ourvanity.com/in-detail/best-celebrity-inspired-nail-color-ideas-for-spring-2011/ I like pinks, berries, navy myself. I have olive skin.

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What color shoes should i wear? You probably have several options with this dress. An open toe black patent leather slingback. How about silver, or a medium pewter. Antique gold. You could always take the dress with you to the store. Hold it up to you while you try on the shoes.

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Is it wrong to wear RED to a summer wedding? Anything that draws attention from the bride use to be considered a no-no. Red does seem a little harsh for a summer wedding. It's actually a very nice dress though. You have good taste. I suppose it could draw attention away from the bride. Here's a suggestion for the type of dress that may be more summery....

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How long will we have to wait for the "good" muslim leaders to issue statements of congratulations and support for the death of OBL?

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We need my dad's blessing to get married, but he says to wait a yr. We are believing God for it a lot sooner though. Anyone relate? If you are truly committed to getting married...what is one more year when you will be married a lifetime? I'm sure that your dad has a good reason for saying to wait...maybe he's planning on something nice for your marriage such as paying for your honeymoon and he needs time to save the money. What's the rush?

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I'm having a future problem with my girl friend talking with one of her long time guy friends. There's alot i need to say about this issue. Not sure where to start We're pretty much courting. She says keeping close male friends in a marriage is'nt a prob Your girlfriend is obviously not on the same page that you are. How does she feel about you having close girlfriends? Marriage is a commitment to each another. It's not you, your girlfriend, and another guy. You need to find someone who thinks like you. Cut her loose. She's not ready for a commitment to anyone. She's immature and lack's loyalty. I have an interesting link for you to read:...

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What is the problem with having more than one girl\boy friend at the same time? It makes like more complicated than it needs to be. If you aren't "exclusive" with one person it's called dating.

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Do you believe the "Age of America" will end and the U.S. economy will be overtaken by that of China in five years in 2016? The U.S. has been building up China's economy for years while tearing down it's own. Our market has been flooded with their goods. Though cheap they certainly are not top quality. Too bad we can't put the inmates in jail's/prison's around this country to work making those goods and offset not only the junk that comes in to this country but the expense of keeping them locked up.

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What is your motto? To thine own self be true (truthful).

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What is it with people who don't listen when you tell them not to wake you up? Maybe the problem is that you don't act unpleasant enough. You could put a sign on your door that it's connected to a bomb and any knocking, ringing doorbells or such will cause it to go off before 10am. You probably can't do that in reality. At least on the door outside your house. Another suggestion you can do though (inside).....get a big squirt gun, the huge ones that hold a lot of water...

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How many women raise hell over these guys who leave the toilet seat up? and is it that hard for women to put it back down? I raised three boys. It's irritating when you get up in the middle of the night bleary eyed and the seat is left up and you fall in. It's not like we (women, that is) have the option of standing or sitting. But there is a solution to this....there is a seat that actually lowers itself after being raised. http://www.kaboodle.com/reviews/the-considerate-seat-self-closing-toilet-seat. Another...

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slut is wrong when player isnt? The double standard still exists. I won't say that all guys would think you were a slut if you slept with say....fifty guys. But most would probably be uncomfortable with that. You probably wouldn't be considered girlfriend material and meet the parent's. "Some" (maybe most?) men can be the biggest hypocrites. And to add to this, women will call another woman a slut too. Shame on them. With...

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What do you think of the Bush doctorin'? Could you clarify your question? Are you taking about the "Bush Doctrine" (foreign policy). Or being a doctor out in the bush? LOL.

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Are you rude to telemarketers when they call your home or business? Why or why not? I try not to be rude to them, after all they're just trying to make a living like anyone else. But I do try to stop them before they do their whole spiel. Why waste their time and mine. I figure if I don't waste their time they can move on to a person possibly interested in what they are selling. My BF on the other hand will get rude with them. Another thing.....why not screen the calls coming...

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What does it mean when a guy ignores you? Real simple. He's not interested. Guys generally don't play hard to get. There is only one exception...and that is if he's painfully shy.

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Do you believe God (Krishna) answers prayers? Antigone, I don't remember your question having Krishna in it. Did you change the question?

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Do you believe God (Krishna) answers prayers? The truth is no. Some prayer's are not answered because we don't live in accordance with God's will. There are conditions. First you have to be willing to do the things that he asks. To know what the conditions are, you have to read the Bible. If you ask (pray) to know his will in all sincerity and belief, he will make a way for you to know him. One of my favorite verses is.....Jeremiah...

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who in the world would want to cheat on their wife with a old person? You might want to ask Prince Charles and Camilla.

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I have a cum addiction and desperately want a kid and a guy that has cerebral palsy wants to have sex with me and wants kids as much as I do I think you should take care of your "addiction" before you have a child. It's not easy raising children by yourself. How will you support yourself? Have you ever taken care of children? Who will help you raise the child? The only persons opinion on the possibility of your baby having cerebral palsy is a doctor. Seems as though your a bit confused. First you say that the guy wants a kid as...

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How can I "teach" myself to swallow pills? I am like, physically disabled at swallowing pills so I can't take about half of the medicines out there. Try milk instead of water. The creamy consistency helps it go down easier.

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When I chew, I accidentally swallow my spit. Is there anything I can do to stop swallowing it? Are you talking about using chewing tobbaco? If so, it's probably as bad a habit as smoking. If this is the case you need to go online and look at mouth cancer. It's nasty stuff. You could end up with little left of your jaw/face. Good health is priceless.

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I CAN'T STOP BITING MY NAILS!!!!!!!!HELP , I WANT TO SO BAD!!!! I suppose you could start thinking about how dirty, hands really are. Especially up under you nails. I mean your hands touch everything. Stuff other people have touched after using the bathroom and haven't washed their hands. Like light switches, door handles, grocery carts....etc. And you can't wash your hands constantly. And cell phones are actually dirtier than toilets seats. You probably...

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What are some of the better 100% free online dating sites? Wish I knew the answer. I was on Singlesnet for a while. Of course, not everyone on there is Single. I believe that you can try out some of the sites that you ordinarily pay for, free on some holidays. E-harmony used to do that. I'm not sure if they still do. I've heard Match.com is good but not free. I don't know if they have a free trial or not. Just a heads up on some things. Be careful on...

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Should being a paparazzo be declared a capital crime? Where would the stars be without them? Publicity good or bad is still publicity and keeps them in the public eye. Or, they're long forgotten. Stars make enough money to hire bodyguards and can afford the best security. The paparazzi are also making a living. They feed off of each other.

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she sent the wrong text to me... I would stop being so available to her for a while. Don't answer your cell right away. BTW, if she's saying "that's so adorable" that's not bad. But she should be able to explain what she was talking about. And that's reasonable.

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How would you really feel when someone rejected you, rejects you when you tried to make peace with them and they keep on rejecting you? If someone rejects you, it's time to move on and not dwell on that person. I have a very helpful tip. Every time that person comes up in your mind say "no" to yourself. This gets easier after a while. One day you will no longer think about them anymore. And it won't be so painful, I promise. This person is not worth your time and effort.

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What is in my so-called girlfriend's mind? Why is she doing so? xlibna, I would like to know some specifics before giving you any advice. What is going on as far as the jealousy? Can you give me an example? How is she criticizing you? What type of questions is she refusing to answer?

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It hurts my feelings bad when my husband jerks off to porn/other women. He's promised to "try" not to do it, but how can that not hurt?? I think that you should have some guy with a very sexy voice call your house and talk dirty to you in front of your husband. Have him call you from a cell phone. Maybe even one that you pay for. Tell him that you need to get off too but porn doesn't do it for you. See if he's as understanding as he wants you to be. Men lie and try to make women believe anything. And because women are trusting...

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Why do men lie so often? Men lie because they think women are stupid and will swallow the lie....hook, line, and sinker. Men lie because they want to. No one holds a gun to their heads and makes them do it. It shows a true lack of character. And it would be remiss of me to leave out their lack of maturity. Studies do show that men lie more than women. Here's a link...

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Why do some girls lie when trying to reject someone instead of being straightforward and saying no? Often girls/women lie rather than rejecting someone outright. They do that out of a kindness thinking they are sparing the person's feelings. Most girls/women think that anyone with a kind heart would do the same. And any kind of class. It's a socially accepted lie. How do you know that the girls in question are lying anyway? Be thankful that they care enough about you...not to embarrass you...

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Is Cohabitation good? Give me some best reasons Cohabitation can be good if your sharing an apartment. But for loving relationships, not so good. I've provided a link....Statistics that prove it hinder's your relationship...http://www.suite101.com/content/living-together-before-marriage-a139472

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3somes, when he pushes could it mean I'm not enough or he wants to cheat without cheating? I don't want to but he keeps bringing it up! A guy will keep pushing for something until you tell him a definite "NO"! Your being too wimpy. For Pete's sake stand up for yourself. And tell him if he brings it up again you'll replace his ass!

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Is it ok for my boyfriend to have taudry pictures of girls on his phone that he is friends with and send pictures of him to them. Is there a point to having a relationship with a guy who has naught pics of other girls on his phone?. That's bullshit and your a coward if you put up with that. Lose the loser!

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my daughter is 12yo, should i let her know about femdom methods or sex i usually apply on my husband???? Inquiring minds want to know what your talking about. What are "femdom methods"? No such word. Your daughter is 12. . Do not go overboard telling her "methods" of any sort. Get a book on sex that is age appropriate and let her read it.

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SITUATION HERE!! My girlfriend's sister sent me this message, and I don't know what to do. :) I suppose that your GF didn't know how to tell you just to be yourself. You seem like a great guy. So, go for it. Be yourself.

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I have been completely taken with my sister' husband. The first thing that is wrong with this picture is that your in it. Butt out. When a married person starts confiding in another person beside their spouse it's wrong. The exception is a counselor. Their problems are "their problems". You should excuse yourself from the situation and suggest to him at the very least that he should confide in a counselor.....who is able to see both sides of an...

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I believe in One God, But I believe there are other Angels/Deities/Invisible Forces/Jinn. While I do believe in God I very much feel I need to be closer to him (As in a certain type of religion, where I can worship and converse with like-minded people) I The Bible does speak of these other forces. In fact Jesus told the priests, the scribes, and the elder's..... Matthew 26:53 Thinkest thou that I cannot now pray to my Father, and he shall presently give me more than twelve legions of angels? I believe a legion was 5,000. An angel also spoke to Daniel the prophet (Old Testament Prophet). His name was Gabriel. Truly if you wish to know the...

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Are most people so stupid that they believe in supernatural forces watching over them, like angels? I think it's funny that some are so quick to put people down that believe in angels. Although, the very same people can believe that an alien race from another planet created the human being and not be called nuts. (Would that be the pot calling the kettle black? ) Nature is random? I don't know where you live but I can pretty much depend on leaves falling from the tree's in autumn, snow being...

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Who Takes more time when it comes to taking a decision , men or w women? I would suspect that it's women. Have you ever seen a man use a remote. I've always wondered how a guy can flip from station to station at lightening speed and decide they don't want to watch a particular station based on a nano-second of viewing.

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Do all men act like heathens behind their GF's backs? Well, Blanche as a matter of fact "some" (all?) men do things that if their GF's discovered it...... most of their GF's would either leave them or cheat on them. And they would deserve it. If they act like scum treat them like scum. If only doing the types of things behind their back that they do behind yours.

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Do Jews go to heaven if they are good and that stuff? No one, Jew's included go to heaven based on their own merits according to the Bible. Because Romans 3:23 says.... For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God. Everyone is deserving of death. Jesus laid down his life that all may live. Christ (the "messiah") has already come but the majority of Jews deny him as such. Some recognize by reading the the book of Isaiah, Chapter 53...

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What do you think of women who are control freaks and tell you what to do even before you start doing it? I was getting a cup of coffee Wow, so you equate women being helpful as control freaks? Hmm. Have you ever thought of counseling? Seems as though you have some deep-seated issues concerning women. Could you put a sign on you head so we could differentiate you from the men that actually like women. Or, something a little more permanent like a tattoo? Do you always refer to women as "control freaks", "bossy bitches",...

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For all the complaining that "some" men do about little girls performing to a Beyonce Song..... What and deny all the pedophiles something to look at? Even George Stefanopolis said he thought that he should stop looking at the video. And of course their parents were doing some back peddling saying that it wasn't meant for a worldwide audience. Some people are so in denial.

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if I got this right one miner drops his wife for a mistress ? How do you think the wife feels ? How would you feel in such situation ? The man's an idiot. The wife should feel relieved that she's rid of him. Like someone else mentioned she could make some money off the tabloid's and book deal and live comfortably after that....while the mistress is still living with the idiot. They deserve each other.

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How do I convince my mom to accept my boyfriend? If you trusted someone and they did what you did.....sneaking around behind their back would you trust them? Probably not, huh? And your still sneaking around with him too. Does your mother know your still meeting him down the street? If that's the case you are not only STILL disrespecting your mother....your BF does too. Why should she change her mind? You also mention to another ABer that...

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How can i get my mother to stop frreaking out just because she found a used condom in my trash? Let me get this straight.....your thirteen? And you're obviously having sex. Your mother is not overreacting. She's right, you know. You are not grown. Do you think you have the ability to take care of a child? You ever babysit? How would you like to have a child to take care of everyday. And when your tired, you still have to take care of them. Your life would be miserable. I would have done a...

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What can I do to get along better with my parents? I'd like to get on better terms with them before I move out; i don't want to leave on bad terms. Move out first. Work on the relationship later. Need more details.

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How can I deal with my controlling Parents? I am Single Mother of 32 and have recently split with my partner. As I am financially dependent on them they believe they can puts terms and conditions in place such as not allowing me any contac What's the rest of the story? How old is your child/children? Do you have a job?

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I had a restrictive childhood: no tv, internet, car, phone... My parents were controlling. So I was stuck at home most of the time... My parents were controlling too. I couldn't wait to be free. Since you "had" a restrictive childhood it is time to break out of the prison. So, are you living on your own now? Have a job? A car? You obviously have internet access or you couldn't have asked the question on AB. Do you think you need counseling? You do know that you can answer my question by clicking on post comment below my...

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My father saw me naked...Now i feel VERY embarrassed? It's totally normal to feel embarrassed. You know.....your mom was just trying to make you feel better and it didn't help. Basically if you stop thinking so much about it so much, the embarrassment will go away. We've all had embarrassing things happen. It's a little tougher when your thirteen. If your mom says anything again you should tell her that you don't want to talk about it. And...

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What does it mean to truely love someone? Love is.....acceptance. However this doesn't mean that you should accept anything that you don't believe in just to have a relationship.

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I love a guy call Lawrence I never called him but sms him cos I know that he is always very busy at work I know that he dont even have the time to answer my call he just treat me as a friend only I wanted to be by his side I know that he will not love me If Lawrence thought of you as more than a friend he would ask you out? Only go out with guys that do the asking and that you like. This is the only way to be happy in the long run. And until you find the one you want to have as a BF keep dating different guys. By the way...guys like to do the chasing. It's always been that way and always will. There's an e-book called "Dating Without Drama" by...

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Why is the N-word considered racist while "cracker" is not? Since when? Yes, cracker is a racist word invented by black people. Along with the word "honky"/"whitey" (derogatory words for Caucasians). And the word "hoogie" (pronounced (WHO-G) racial epitaph used to describe whites in the deep south), "white devil" (A racial slur against white people, typically by black racists).... Other racist words invented by black people. Black people are as racist...

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Why do some people blame everything on racism? Because it's easy to do. Maybe someone (you?) should have spoken up and said that you aren't black and your waiting too. So, shut the f**k up.

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Doesn't it make you angry when you are accused of being racist and you are not? I worked in customer service and The "race card" has been so overused it's overdrawn now. If it's a black person telling you this, tell them that your great-great (great?) uncle was Frederick Douglas. That should shut them up. At least for a while. LOL. The "race card" is a bluff. Bluff back. Believe me, even black people accept the one drop rule.

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What is your opinion of people who are married but start conversing with the opposite sex online? Isn't that cheating? Are they talking to people that they know or are they purposely starting conversation with women and it's of a sexual nature. How to handle this problem Laaayla style. Start having men that you know call your house for you. Walk into the other room while your having conversations. What's good for the goose is good for the gander.

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I am in a new relationship.He used to see other women that didnt know about eachother. He met these women through work. Should I trust him? This is a red flag if there ever was one. If you knew that a person had been arrested for stealing would you trust them and leave your purse lying around? Your heart is more valuable than a purse. It has been my experience that people who are deceitful hardly ever change. At least you know. A smart woman/a woman that loves herself would refuse to get involved with such a man. Avoid the...

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He says he doesn't look at porn but... First thing to know about guys is their incredible ability to lie and try to make you believe it. You want to know the truth. Now I'm not suggesting that you do this because after all it is illegal. But....you can send him a blank document. That document will be a spy program. I think the one that can be sent as a blank document is "SpectorPro" but I'm not positive. All he has to do is open it...

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i fell for my fuck buddie. we hang out all the time so have a good friendship. he doesnt want a realtionship but maybe later.. what do i do? Truth is you put yourself in a position to be USED. The "fuck buddy" system is great for the GUYS.....who can separate sex and love. It's very difficult for most woman to overcome the 'falling in love feeling" for with the guy that they're sleeping with. The reason behind this is......your body releases chemical's that cause attachment. So, what happens is this....the guy is having a good time...

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I'm a 48 year old male.Why don't people help me when I tell them I'm going to commit suicide because I'm still a virgin? If you haven't committed suicide by 48 because you are a virgin....chances are you won't. So, do you want help with the suicidal feelings or getting laid? I would think that getting laid would be the easier of the two. Not that I'm advocating breaking the law but.......have you ever thought of escort services? I'm taking your question at face value. The movie's already been done.

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What do you do when you have no life, no friends, no job, nowhere to go, and nothing to do? Well LonelySloane you can count on me to be your friend. So, now you can say you have a friend. I'm on your side. I've been in your position and I truly know how it is. Pretty much when you have nothing it's not as if everyone is going to try to be your friend. Most of the time. Human beings can be so shallow. On the other hand there are some worthwhile people in this world. I lost a decent job...

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My boyfriend had a threesome with a girl that was my friend and her husband, before we got together so i feel ill never trust that girl again. She keeps coming around, and I have put my foot down with her and him both. Am i right to feel this way? The way you feel...is the way you feel. If your BF doesn't have the balls to tell the woman to get lost you need to leave him. Honestly....why prolong the agony, there are plenty of people who believe in a one on one relationship. I checked the date on the question. Are you still with this guy, or have you moved on?

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Do men feel proud of themselves when they manage to pressure a girl or a woman into having a threesome? If so, why? Of course they do. Why would you think otherwise? If you feel pressured to do something that is totally against you own moral code then you need to stay away from this person. You also need to get some emotional support from a counselor.

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How do I get this guy to leave me alone? jpcool09, I hope by now this boy has stopped harassing you. There are some people who don't know how to take "NO" for an answer. You need to tell him that if he doesn't leave you alone you will go to the principal. But first you need to tell your parents. Anyone who puts their hands on you could be dangerous. A good guy wouldn't be doing this to you. And YOU really, really need to stop...

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Easy signs of a liar are...? They can't look you in the eye. Another good one is that they can't keep their hands still. If you want to check out if a person is lying.....never ask a question that they can answer yes or no to. Ask an out of the blue question beginning with either, Why, When, or What. Such as "Why did I see you coming out of Sally's house this morning?" Then look for the absence of eye contact and trying to...

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When someone invites you to a meal at a nice restaurant, is it okay to order the most expensive entree on the menu and a couple of expensive drinks to boot? It's pretty tacky and low-class in my opinion to order the most expensive item on the menu and expensive drinks to boot. The word that comes to mind is "Gold-digger". What are you planning on giving this "someone" in return? If you act like it's a business deal then in "some" men's minds it will be. What else would you expect?

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How expensive of a meal can a woman order and still reserve the right to not have sex with her date? Hmm....I wonder how many dates you would have if the women knew beforehand that if they spent over a certain amount they "had" to have sex with you? Maybe there would be no "takers" at any price. LOL. Another thought.....since you equate mere dating with expecting sexual favors maybe women should just set the price so high for men such as yourself so as never to have sex with you. Ever. Why not...

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What will you think of a person who leaves the message in three different languages on your answering machine? They are trying to be funny. Laugh. Enjoy the fact that you have an intelligent and amusing friend. Or a nut job as a friend.

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DO YOU AGREE THAT KILLING FOR PEACE IS LIKE SCREWING FOR VIRGINITY ? I would suppose in some cases you might have to kill to create peace. Were the Mongol hoards stopped? You may even have to kill to maintain peace. What do you do when someone disturbs the peace? You make them stop. Screwing never creates virginity, quite the opposite. Your analogy is off.

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why do they say that this is the land of the free when really there is nothing for free? Being free has to do with being able to say what you want to say without being thrown in jail, especially politically. (Freedom of Speech). Being free also has to do with being able to protect yourself from physical harm. We have the right to "keep and bear arms" (have a gun) for our own personal protection. We also have freedom to worship or not worship as we wish. Many people in the past...

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Would you call someone a liar, either directly or indirectly, just because he/she spoke of an experience you've never had? No. I would only be suspicious (and then imply that they were fabricating a story...lying) if the person embellished a bit too much or if they were saying that they were abducted by aliens. LOL.

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Do you like this quote by Leo Tolstoy? "To regard Christ as God, and pray to him, are to my mind, the greatest possible sacrilege." Christ according to the Bible is God in the flesh. The first book of John in the New Testament. It's not sacrilege at all. You know of course, that Tolstoy in the end was a Christian, right? Don Gorgeous George.....have you personally tried to find out if indeed there was a God and if there is a "son of God"? Do you have any religious background? I only ask because I think the desire to find...

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Leo Tolstoy said "True life is lived when tiny changes occur." What do you think he meant by that? Well, when you are happy with the way things are....things don't have to change much, do they?

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33 Chilean miners trapped. 5 had g/f's show up @ rescue site- 1 had 4 (Tiger not trapped). Problem-wives there too. Observations? Very funny, lol....Tiger not trapped. In my opinion, looks like at least five deserve to be trapped. Nah, I don't have any sympathy for them. I would think that the "five" probably hope they never get rescued. LOL. And is it torture enough for them to know what might happen if they are rescued? Hmmm. The women, in the meantime if they are smart would think up some very good revenge. Tar and...

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Hes my friend with benefits but it feels like where more? Ive fell hard for him :( Mimi7759, Dear.....there's a reason that "friends with benefits" doesn't work out and that is.....as a woman when you are physical with a man your body releases chemicals that cause attachment. This makes the "friends with benefits" situation a no-no for women. "Most" men can easily have sex with a woman with no feelings of attachment. When you tell a man that you are okay with the "friends...

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High school sucks, All the people are ass holes so I don't want to be friends with them. What should I do? When I went to high school many years ago I felt the same as you. Believe me, it's common to feel that way. People are pretty shallow, especially in high school. I went to the first reunion (5 year) and never went to another one. People were just as stuck up then as they were when I went to school with them. I stuck with it and graduated. I was the first in my family to graduate from high...

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Should babies born to illegal immigrants be granted citizenship in the United States? The only children that should be considered citizens are ones who are born of parents who are U.S. citizens to begin with.

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Old fashioned doesn't necessarily mean behind he times, right...? What do you think? Not necessarily. The things that you value may be out of sync with what's going on in the world today and possibly your age group but that doesn't make you wrong. Considering the valueless ideas that permeate the world and society in general today...."old fashioned" seems rather refreshing, to say the least. Walk to the beat of your own drum.

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Are you vulnerable to the opposite sex? Up to a point. Just recently a guy wanted to make me an offer I couldn't refuse. Or, so he thought. He was going to buy me a car, pay all my bills, if only I would keep a smile on his face. That.....I could have done easily. And except for the fact that I already have a boyfriend, I probably would have.

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I hate Barack Obama with a passion, and whenever people hear that, they automatically call me racist. They don't realize that you can hate a black dude without being racist. Any suggestions? I don't hate Obama. But I do dislike his politics. It's much easier to say "I hate Obama's politics with a passion" than the man personally. Do I think he's an arrogant jerk. Sure, lot's of people do. Do I think the job is too big for him. Apparently, so. Do I think that he cares what the American public thinks or wants........ of course not. Is he plunging us into debt that we will never...

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Would you consider your partner masturbating on webcam as cheating? If your partner has to masturbate to a web cam to get their jollies they are just a plain weird freak. You know it, I know it, basically the whole world knows it. They are the kind of people you see on the evening news. LOL. Cheater's......and Weird.

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Is it wrong to think about maybe break up with someone and go back out with your ex? is that viewed as cheating just to think about it? How did things work out for you? People consider things all the time. That's how we make decisions. It's not cheating to consider breaking up with someone. You had probably forgotten about all the drama of the other relationship. That does tend to fade when your not around the person anymore. Hope you patched it up with your BF. There are some things you should keep to yourself, you know....

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I like this guy but he gotta gurl.Every weekend she Out of town seein her 23 yr ol son so she say. Is she cheatin.He can come to her. If this guy already has a gurl (G I R L) you need to butt out and .mind your own business and find your own man.

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Would it bother you if your man kiss another woman on her shoulder,or would it bother you if a man kiss your woman on her shoulder? If your man is running around behaving like this you need to set his ass straight. In either case they need to keep their lips to themselves and their own SO.

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My girlfriend claims to love me, but just doesn't want me physically. Would it be cheating if I found someone else to mess around with? Is your girlfriend gay? She doesn't love you, bud.......well, maybe like a brother. You may as well be dating your sister. LOL. LOSE the loser chick and get real.

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Is it cheatin when he go wit u n got sidelines? What I would like to know is why on earth would you settle for someone like this? You must not think much of yourself. A guy that loves you doesn't need sidelines. He's the highest form of JERK I've ever heard of. And if you fall for this BS you would have to be be the dumbest chick I've ever heard of.

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If you were 38 and in an up and down relationship would you stay and have a baby or be single and maybe never have one I take it that your not married? Living together? You've been with this guy for nine years of your life and no commitment? As in marriage? Have you talked to your man about the fact that you want a baby? If you haven't you need to. You also need to tell him that you want to bring a baby into a totally committed relationship that includes marriage. If he balks at any of this it's time to move...

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How can i gain trust from my boyfriend after he cheating behind my back? You do have the wording of the question backward. But that's okay. It should be....how can HE gain your trust back. And IS he trying to gain your trust back? If not, I wouldn't waste my time on this guy. He doesn't deserve it. People that want to have a relationship with you DO NOT CHEAT. It's as simple as that. It makes a difference how you found out too. If he confessed to you then that's...

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should i tell my dad about my mom cheating on him or what idk if i should or not? Boy, this is a tough one. You are in a position that no one wants to be in. I wouldn't tell your dad, just yet. Or, maybe not at all. I think it would be wise to talk to your mother though and tell her that you know she's cheating on your dad. I think if you tell her that you know maybe she will come clean to your dad. But I wouldn't take sides, after all it's their relationship. There may be...

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When I was trying to log in to my Yahoo account my boyfriends account was still open. If there were more to the story MsSmartAss, such as a window popping up out of nowhere for getiton.com and your boyfriend couldn't look you in the eye when you asked him about it would you still give the same advice? At twenty years old I doubt that you've had the same experience with men that I have.

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After a talk, is it okay to use a keylogger to spy on my girlfriend, when she exhibits very strange behavior on the PC. (She said I make her happy). I have did this already, and have found dirty chatting. Was it warrented? Hi Dark Fiber....I'm one of those people who like to know how the story ended. For me personally if you think someone is cheating, finding out is important. My mantra is....if you have nothing to hide, you hide nothing. So, what happened to you and your girlfriend? Are you still together? Details, please.

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Are white people the scum of the Earth? Not any more or less than any other race.

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Ladies, I've decided to write a book called Men: The Nature of the Beast. Any ideas for chapter titles and/or content? Love it. Oh my gosh another guy with a sense of humor. Thanks.

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Should a female teacher be fired from her job at a religious school for conceiving out of wedlock? If this is true....how did anyone find out that she conceived three weeks before she was married. Having a baby three weeks early is not unheard of. Or, three weeks late for that matter. Apparently she must have let someone know about her condition. And if she indeed came forward to "confess" she's not very smart. Who wants a "dumb" teacher who can't even look out for her own interests? In...

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Is it okay / appropriate to give a Father's Day card to a teacher I respect and appreciate a lot? Yes, if you write in it that you respect and appreciate him as you would a father. What has he done for you specifically?

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What's the best insult to your best friend who stole the love of your life? For one this person was NOT your best friend. That is unless you consider people who do things behind your back, friends. And truly the love of your life? The love of your life would feel the same about you. And this person obviously didn't. I know your in pain. But after a while that pain will go away. As long as you stop dwelling on it. The way to do this is: every time you think a negative...

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Do i forgive him? thank you so much everyone who answered my other questions!!! Bad, bad, bad situation. Abuse like this never stops. I know because I married a guy who was abusive early in our relationship. My life was a living hell. And you can count on yours being hell too if you stay with this guy. He may even end up killing you. Abusive men can and do kill their wives and girlfriends. If you are pregnant I would suggest that you get an abortion. If you don't this guy...

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I want to have sex for the first time with a guy that feels the same way. But I feel bad for doing it at 15. What should I do? It's been said that young girls play at sex to get love and boys play at love to get sex. Once your virginity is gone, well it's gone. No getting it back. You can't have it both ways. You can't give in to a guy then pretend your a virgin on your wedding night.

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HOW DO I READ MY HUSBAND'S TEXT MESSAGES WITHOUT HAVING ACCESS TO THE ACCOUNT Call the phone company and ask them how you can request a printout of text messages if that's possible.You don't have to say that it's your husbands phone and get into all the whys, and wherefores. You could always ask a male friend to call for you and get the info. You might be able to access the info on line and never actually speak to anyone. Which would be even better. You will probably...

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I have a bf, and Im an escort, I dont get attached,nor "get off" is this still cheating? Does he know? He should. You may call your self anything you like but in reality your just a prostitute. People get to use your body for a price. Your heart is dead, and you lie to yourself.

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how can a find out id my boyfriend is still sleepin with his ex? Does he have a car or his own place. I have heard you can buy voice activated tape recorders. Leave it in his car. You might want to put some Velcro on it though. Attach the hook side to the back of the tape recorder. You can then stick it to the carpet under the seat. Chances are if he has his own place they aren't meeting there though. You could stake out her house. Or have friends drive by...

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If you found out the person you were dating had a history of child molestation but was now in therapy for it would you stay with him? I would find the nearest exit. People who have this particular problem never get better. They cannot be rehabilitated. It is a constant struggle for them even in therapy. How would you like to come home and find out he's watching one of your neighbors kids or a family member and later the parent says that he molested them. And you could be implicated. How would you like to spend time in jail....

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Current boyfriend wants me to "hold my head up" when ex is around. All Id rather do is avoid the situation to avoid any confrontation that would allow my boyfriend to flip out (which has happened before). Valid point for him to be mad or am i ok to avoid? I know this is an old question. But for anyone coming across this .....Your current boyfriend is wonderful and I will tell you why..... He wants you to feel good about the relationship you have with him and he wants you to be proud to be with him. There is a reason that your not with the "old" boyfriend anymore, right? You have every right to be happy. Fake it till you make it when coming...

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How many times should you ask "What?" before you just nod and smile because you still didn't hear or understand a word they said? After asking someone "what" a couple of times and I still can't understand I just pretend I do. I do have some hearing problems. My boyfriend will be at the computer with his back turned to me. I have asked him to repeat something to me several times. Believe me it's annoying to me too, to have to ask someone to repeat themselves.

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How can I quit watching porn? I am going to college soon and I don't want porn to distract my study. I can't really give you a "cure". But porn is addictive just like any drug. It's damaging socially according to the following link....http://www.realclearpolitics.com/articles/2010/04/08/the_social_costs_of_pornography_105089.htm Another link that might be of interest to you...http://jeremy.zawodny.com/blog/archives/008063.html

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What to do if my boyfriend watches porn? I think the worst thing you can do is to be with someone who obviously doesn't share your values. I can promise you that if you were to marry this guy he would continue to watch porn. That's a given.

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Is it wrong to feel like you're boyfriend is cheating when he watches porn? If your BF knows you have issues and he does this stuff anyway he can't care that much about you. That's the bottom line. It's all about him. I would tell him not only what you found out but how. You found out innocently enough. It wasn't like you went looking for it. At least at first. I wouldn't tell him about finding out about the rest of it. And the fact that he's lying to you isn't good....

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My boyfriend and I have had sex but now he doesn't want to do it anymore. What does this mean? If he's making excuses not to have sex with you there is a reason behind it. That's not normal. The only real way to find out is to talk to him. I think it's a little strange that you said he's not gay. How do you know? I would at least consider it a possibility. That, or he has some serious sexual hangups.

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i suspect my husband is either in love with my sister or is sleeping with her. How can i be certain of either. What reason did you have to suspect that your husband was either sleeping with your sister or in love with her? Has anything happened since you posted this question?

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Please help. I think I might be pregnant or something might be wrong. details -> Chances are you aren't pregnant. I would suggest making an appointment with your doctor to be sure and to also check out any other possibilities.

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Why are people using answerbag as a hook up site? Someone sent a message to me not too long ago and asked if I was interested in explicit sex. I never responded. For some people any site is an opportunity I suppose. Strange, I never really considered answerbag a "hook-up" site. I off the market anyway since I'm in a relationship.

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Does it bother you when people don't say thank you? When people don't acknowledge that I've helped them in some way it is irritating. However, I don't let it ruin my day. I just think they are classless people. I mean how long does it take to say "thank you" or wave when someone let's you in front of you when your driving? Common courtesy like common sense isn't so common. I think people should refer to it as un-common courtesy/sense don't you?

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Is it unmanly of me if I just want to cry? In the state the economy's in right now in the U.S (the world) I wanna cry too. But seriously....I don't consider it unmanly at all. Human, yes. May I make a suggestion...this coming Saturday, pack a lunch, go to the park and enjoy nature for the day. Sounds like you need a break. And believe it or not......this really works.

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Why do people who normally don't want government regulation now want the U.S. Federal government to step in and clean up BP's oil spill? Fact is....apparently government regulation didn't work. Or I guess I should say inspecting the oil well didn't work. It was inspected....right? Maybe the question should be changed a little to....if the government can't be trusted to really do inspections do you think maybe someone else should handle the job. Does anyone else find it strange that BP's largest donation (ever) was given to...

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Can you tell me ways for a ten year old to earn money Pet sitting or dog walking. Make crafts. Lemonade stand. Bake cookies. Help the elderly. Mow grass. Car washing (ask a friend to help).

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My friend advised me not to introduce a boyfriend to friends, unless you're really "secure" with the relationship. I thought it was odd for her to tell me this. Your thoughts? You were right to think that this was odd. I agree. You still with the BF?

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I'm 23 and the guy I'm dating is 38. We get along great, it's been about two months now. I'm worried that if things get serious, he might propose. I know its early to determine something like that, but we did talk about it. Why should I not get involved? Well, what do you feel that you have in common with the guy? He's fifteen years older than you. You haven't really lived your life. It's really way too early in your relationship to talk about marriage. You barely know each other. The way you worded your question it doesn't seem as though you want the guy to ask you to marry him or be involved with him.

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I am 22, female, interested in an man who is 23. Met him through a mutual friend. Just starting to get to know him. We have been on one date. I really like this one. Any advice? On whether or not I contact him? Do I play hard to get? Thanks. Never call a guy. For the most part guys don't call right away anyway. Even if the date was a good one. Relax. There's a book called, "Dating without Drama" written for women. I suggest you read it.

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I have a crush on a woman with a boyfriend. Right now we are just friends. What can I do to make sure I have a chance when they break up? The only way to make sure you have a chance is to continue to be her friend. Listen but don't make any harsh comments about her current BF. What makes you think she's going to break it off with him or is this wishful thinking?

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I have made mistakes in the past !! when do i call him? Never chase a guy. Ever, ever, ever. Let them chase you. Honey, it still looks as though you are just a booty call. Time will tell. Just noticed your question is from January. So how did it work out?

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Ladies: if you wanted to move in with your boyfriend, would you directly tell him thats what you wanted, or would you drop hints so that maybe he would ask you to move in? Statistics show that women who live with their boyfriends never marry them. The old saying of "why buy the cow if the milk is free" is unfortunately true, more often than not. Of all the people that I've known to live together they eventually split up. There's no commitment and why should there be. There is also no financial security either. If after years of living with him he could break if...

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Is it a sin for Catholic men to see women in bikinis at the beach? I guess that depends on what you base your faith on. In this case it doesn't matter whether the Catholic Church is telling you or the Bible. They both agree. Jesus said the following: Matthew Chapter 5 (King James Version) 27 Ye have heard that it was said by them of old time, Thou shalt not commit adultery: (he was talking about the 10 commandments) 28 But I say unto you, That whosoever...

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what is one to do when they have no reliable friend or family connections; no community? Please don't make fun of me. That would unhelpful Check out your friends category upper right. You'll see a request there.

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what is one to do when they have no reliable friend or family connections; no community? Please don't make fun of me. That would unhelpful Ellizw, AB is kind of a community. Let me be the first to welcome you in that case. I take your question very seriously. There's a site called postsecret.com. I still look at it most every Sunday. It might help you to feel less alone in the world. But I have some other idea's. Usually if you go to the same grocery store, same gas station...basically the same places people take notice that your...

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I know this is a weird question but I want to know anyway. (see description) Tie a rock to it. LOL. Just kidding. The real reason (in my opinion) why most women are dissatisfied in the bedroom has to do with lack of technique and not understanding how a woman's body works. It has nothing to do with the size of your penis. And truly diameter is more important than length unless your like 2 inches.

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My son in law can only achieve sexual ecstasy whilst dressed as Snagglepuss,but my daughter is only turned on by Yogi Bear? I think counseling is in order. You first.

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HELP!! Worried ive ruined all chances with a girl i really like! NEED ADVICE! QuerieMeistro, I started to add my two cents to your question and realized that you wrote this a month ago. As is usual for me, I always wonder how it went with the advice. So, what happened? I noticed that you didn't post any comments. You do know that at the bottom of the answers there is an area that says No comments, next to that there is "post one"....click on that to respond. Thanx.

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Curious @ work 1 night, I e-mailed a prostitute from Van, B.C. with no intentions. - I'm from Miss, Ontario. Never cheated in my life. Been with my g/f for 3.5 yrs, she got into my e-mail, saw the response & wants to break-up with me. I LOVE HER SO MUCH!! I would break up with my boyfriend too. For a girlfriend to look at your e-mail you must have been doing some suspicious stuff. She wouldn't have looked otherwise. I don't know what your definition of "LOVE" is but I bet her's isn't that her boyfriend is contacting prostitutes. CURIOSITY KILLED THE CAT. Or, in your case probably your relationship.

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My relationship with my g/f fell apart because my situation with work. I'd really appreciate some advice and to help me work through this. Hi Eddy_323 2, I would love to answer your question but I need a little more info. What's going at at work that broke you up? I don't know how long you've been on this site....but to respond look at the bottom of my answer and where it says No comment, next to that is "post one". Click on "post one" and write your answer. Hang in there, friend.

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Does He really loves me? I would say that he's legitimately busy. The thing is....why aren't you? Why are you putting your life on hold at 25 for someone who doesn't have the "time of day" for you. Doesn't seem to me as though you are on his list of priorities. So, here's what you do. Stop calling, texting, whatever your doing to keep in contact. Make yourself unavailable because you will be. Get busy and live your...

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i have a Girlfriend and i love her very much but i have feelings for other girls. what can i do to stay neutral , and is this normal ? I think you should tell your girlfriend this because then she can also confess to you how many other guys she has feelings for too. Maybe she'll even break up with you and go with one of them. Then you would be off the hook. No more problem.

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What show is this theme song from? "Bwap bwap bwow nup... bwap bwap bwownup bwownup bwow" And then I think it starts again. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1WqazleR3FE

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What show is this theme song from? "Bwap bwap bwow nup... bwap bwap bwownup bwownup bwow" And then I think it starts again. I think it's from the same show my grandfather used to watch when he would turn the channel and all you would see is snow. Or the theme song from Jerry Seinfeld.

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Do you think it's weird for a person in their 20's to not be interested in partying, going to clubs and bars, and drinking to get drunk? Why ....because they have a brain and decide to keep it intact? Sounds extremely intelligent and mature to me.

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Is it OK to wear sheer hose with everyday skirts? Bare legs don't look too good right now Of course sheer hose are fine this time of year. After all it's not summer yet. There are also products that can give you a little color gradually when you are ready to go without the pantyhose. You may want to invest in a pair of white cotton gloves to put them on. It can keep you from accidentally snagging them

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What can be the most wonderful part in this life? Knowing that there is a Creator. That there is purpose to life. Bringing a child into the world. Nurturing them, teaching them. Seeing the world through their eye's. Amazingly wonderful. The beauty of nature.

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Is it ok to be racist if you're the minority? Apparently, so. Especially in the U.S. It would seem that "some" people who are of a minority are the bigger hypocrites when they do the same thing they accuse other races of doing. And just to name a few of the offenders: Al Sharpton, Jesse Jackson, Louis Farrakhan, and "some" black comedians. Yup, they're racists. And the thing with hypocrites is they don't "GET IT" that they are guilty of...

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What jewelry should I wear with a strapless dress? It depends....if your dress is rather plain you can go all out with a stunning necklace. It should be above the top of the dress. If your dress is elaborate I would stick with a plain pearl, gold, or silver necklace.You can add a cuff bracelet in gold/silver, or a plain pearl bracelet also. Not anything too dainty. I would skip earrings. Let your hair be the last accessory.

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Is serving out of cooking pans tacky? Yup, real tacky. I know it's extra work to make food look appetizing. Some dishes can be cooked in an attractive dish and hence no need for a separate pan. Salad's can be put in a nice bowl. I think Reynold's make's liner's for crock pots. You can use foil pans to cook some things in and throw them away and put the food in a nice dish. Pyrex makes nice glass bowls with lids in case there are...

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How do I get a creepy old guy to stay away from me? We're in the same social club so I don't want to make too many waves. By creeping him out. You can ask him what to do about your dog having diarrhea. Or bring up any disgusting topic whenever he's around. Or, eat a lot of garlic before you go. Only pop in the breath mints after he leaves. Or, pass gas when he's standing next to you and then walk away. There's any number of things you can do. LOL.

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There is a ruckus over a photo shoot of Miss USA hopefuls. Do you think that the objection is valid? (details inside) The Miss USA pageant. Hmm... Since when have women stopped being objectified by men? Did I miss that news flash? That sleazeball, Donald Trump is involved isn't he? Some women will do anything for a buck. And that buck is coming out of some/ most? men's pockets. Of course, as a man yourself you know there is a whole industry devoted to men and their voyeuristic and "hands on" tendencies. It's...

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Should Loaded and Concealed Guns Be Allowed in National Parks? Apparently the possibility of an attack from a wild animal is a possibility http://www.nps.gov/yell/planyourvisit/bearenc.htm. I remember hearing a story of a young woman who was a black belt in one of the martial arts and a 60 year old man attacked and killed her in a park. She was there to go for a "run". If someone wishes to do you harm a nice secluded place like a national park is a good...

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is chatting on a singles date site cheating What? You really don't know right from wrong? If the person that your in a relationship with does it too would that bother you? Why be in a relationship if you are involving others? Break it off with the guy that your with because your not mature enough to have a real relationship. Your a child.

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Did my husband cheat on me when, after going out drinking with friends after work, he ended up with a woman coworker who just was dumped. The real problem with this is your husband drinking to excess and going out with mixed company in your absence. He probably only told you because he was afraid that you would find out by another means. For a woman to be able to go down on a guy, first she has to.....unbuckle his belt? and unzip his pants. If she was drunk too, I do not imagine that would be an easy task....considering your...

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my wife masterbated with guy friend. They didn't touch each other. Would you say this is cheating? She says it's not sex. It it walks like a duck, talks like a duck and acts like a duck.....it's probably a duck. Or in this case...sex. The rules must have really changed since I've been married. Does your wife take you for a complete and utter fool? She must. And you are...if you believe her. Please stop being a fool and kick her cheating ass to the curb.

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Will he forgive me for talking to a past lover while we were broken up? Okay, so you broke up with your BF for a while because he has a lying problem. Good for you. That's exactly how you SHOULD handle it. The very minute you give in on BS with a guy you will always have to deal with more of it. What you did with your own time when you were apart is your own business. And if your ex-lover tells your current BF, so what. The only thing is......you were using him and...

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Can I be forgiven for an online affair? Well, since you weren't technically his girlfriend at the time I wouldn't tell him. Believe me, it is extremely doubtful that if he did the same thing he would tell you. Being emotionally unfaithful means you are in a relationship (which you weren't at the time) and giving your emotional time and energy to someone else. People who are telling you that you were being emotionally unfaithful do...

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How can you find the full street address of someone who lives on a private street when you don't know their house number? for 100% free? ;) You might be able to look them up on white pages.com with a first and last name and the city. Also, if you know the correct name and city you can look them up on www.zabasearch.com for free. It gives the address. If its a common name though there might be a lot of say....Mary Smith's. You can put their name in quotation marks on google such as "Mary Smith". But to tell the truth I never had...

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Are you for or against the new Arizona immigration law? For it. The cost of providing services for illegal immigrants is outrageous. http://kevincolby.com/2008/07/27/the-cost-of-illegal-immigrants-to-the-american-taxpayer/ The "new" law just supports what was already in place. With approximately 100,000 "illegal" immigrants having already left Arizona....it's working.

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In the last decade, has Al Sharpton furthered anti-black racism or helped to heal anti-black racism? Anyone who doesn't realize that Al Sharpton is an absolute idiot needs their head examined. He only furthers his own agenda and that is to remain in the public eye. He is no Martin Luther King Jr. nor will he ever be. He does a great disservice to all black people. I think it would be great if black people stood up and said, Al Sharpton you DO NOT represent me.

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Where in the Bible does it predict the future? Citations. Prophets had the ability to know the future. Their ability to do so was God given. Some of the things were conditional. Such as the city of Nineveh. Had they not turned from their wicked ways the city would have been destroyed. On the other hand, those who's abilities were not God given were desrtoyed/killed such as those who claimed to speak to the dead. The following is from the book of...

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I don't know if it is illusion or delusion but some of us think we are always right, never wrong. No one is always right/perfect...right? Someone could definitely be delusional if they think they are always right. Everyone is entitled to their opinion. No matter how right or wrong they may be. Is anyone right 100% of the time? Sorry to say, no one I'm acquainted with.

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I am getting really angry e-mails from a guy called 'Al Qaeda', threatning me with things like 'jihad' and 'beheading'. What should I do? Tell the joker that you work for the FBI and that you have forwarded all his/her emails to be investigated. Tell him/her that the FBI is taking this as a very serious matter. Inform him/her that they will likely be charged with terrorism and may be sent to Guantanamo Bay until a trial date is set in the distant future. LOL.

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Do you think humans are evolving to become more compassionate and collaborative; rather than selfish? All one has to do is open up the paper, watch the evening news or look at the internet. More compassionate and collaborative? I believe that quite the opposite is true. People are becoming much more self absorbed. The Bible has some interesting things to say about the state of human beings in the last days of earths history. 2 Timothy 3 1This know also, that in the last days perilous times...

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Why are there a lot of heterosexual males that are more comfortable having bisexual men performing oral sex on them then gay men? A guy who lets another guy perform oral sex on him is NOT heterosexual. He is bi-sexual at the least. At most....a sexual opportunist with no boundaries. Or a narcissist. Or just a plain ol' homosexual who pretends to be straight. Denial: a defense mechanism postulated by Sigmund Freud, in which a person is faced with a fact that is too uncomfortable to accept and rejects it instead,...

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my biggest fantasies is sucking a straight guy off. Would any of you straight guys let a gay guy suck you off? i'd expect nothing in return Curious question. If a person was truly straight they wouldn't even consider this. They would have no interest whatsoever. There is nothing you could do for them and their bodies would not respond out of repulsion. What you are really talking about is a seemingly straight guy with gay tendencies. The term is bi-sexual. Ruin your fantasy?

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Would my friends ever forgive me if i committed suicide plz no mean responses im not joking Emo_lover, I hope you know that people do really care about you. Your family, friends, and your friends here on AB. Please ignore the mean spirited people...they don't understand. There is hope for you,emo_lover. Please call hopeline at 1-800-SUICIDE /1-800-784-2433. The website is www.hopeline.com. Let us know that your okay, please.

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in my family my sister and i walk around naked..,is this ok If you have to ask the question I would think you know the answer. Brothers and sisters do not walk around naked in front of each other. Put your clothes on. Most people require a certain degree of privacy about their bodies after a certain age. This boundary is being ignored. Your invading your sister's privacy. And she's invading yours as well. The only time this is acceptable is when you are...

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Am i the only one like this? Some things that you mentioned seem like personal preferences to me. Though the rest seems like a classic example of depression. I do agree with most of the things that Art_Of_Holographics_Heart_Mechanics mentioned. 10 minutes of exercise will give you an hour of feel good endorphins. Junk food/ caffeine is bad for brain function. Prayer and meditation are also good although I don't endorse...

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Why are weirdos so weird? Because they are outside of the social norms that we expect of people.They probably grew up under different circumstances than you. I find that people that are "different" are interesting. I used to live in Lexington, Kentucky. There was a guy who had all these hood ornaments on his car. The whole hood of his car was covered. It was different. Kind of strange but interesting at the same time.

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can it cause depression when someone realizes that they are going to spend they're life alone? I would think that would be a definite possibility. But the chance of being alone your whole life is not likely. I've thought that way at times myself. Your not alone. The cure is this....do not isolate yourself. There are things you can do to lift yourself out of the doldrums. You can become a regular at a restaurant, or coffee place. People who work in these places generally acknowledge their...

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how can i get my white clothes really white It depends on what fabric that your clothes are made of and if the manufacturer recommends bleach. I would check the label. Bleach can weaken fibers if you use too much or use it too often, putting holes in your clothing. If you can use bleach, either put it in the bleach dispenser (if there is one on your washer) or make sure it is diluted first by allowing the washer to fill up and agitate a...

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If a child is raped and becomes pregnant and wants to keep their baby should they be allowed to or forced to have an abortion? At eleven years old the girl is still a child herself, with the mind of a child. And most children love babies. The thought of possibly doing away with a child may be more traumatic that having the child. Although she has no real idea what she is in for. I do not imagine that Mexico does not have the morning after pill to take care of such a situation. It's possible of course that no one knew...

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if there were no laws would most men/boys rape women/girls? If there is no law against it or another man to stop them it's a possibility. Rape still goes on despite laws against it now. If given free reign over women...well I wouldn't want to be a woman under those circumstances. There are still a certain amount of men today that do not understand that no means no when it comes to sex. At least one of the reasons that more women don't get raped is...

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So how closely does the NEW movie "CLASH OF THE TITANS" follow the 1980s version (or did the orginal come out in the late '70s)? I believe the original Clash of the Titans came out in 1981. Actually it's quite different. It seemed as though Perseus was another character in the movie altogether. There were three instruments from the gods, a sword, a golden shield, and a helmet.The encounter with the witches was far more interesting along with how Medusa was killed. Although the special effects were interesting the first...

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Are girls conscious of their breasts and do they have agreeable sensations in them outside love making? Pretty much only when they're being touched in some manner. Other than that, I don't think of my breasts any more than I do my elbow.

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Ok so I have slept with a several girls after my ex and have broken up... The kind of intimacy that you speak of takes time and a special bond. Booty calls don't qualify. What I would like to know is...how do you know your ex still feels the same? She's with a new guy now who she is hopefully forging a new intimate bond with. Best friends are hard to come by....especially when they also happen to be your girlfriend. Hopefully if will happen for you again....special...

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Me and my bf split 3 weeks ago but now he is already dating another girl but he says he still has strong feelings for me? Apparently, it would seem as though he's found a way to get over his "strong feelings for you". I think you should too. What are you waiting for? Guys usually do one of two things when they split up with a girlfriend: 1. Drink it off and pretend it doesn't bother them. Or... 2. Get back in the game. He picked #2. Past time to move on. On a positive note, honey....there are many fish in the...

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I need major boy advice!!! Please give me your opinion!! Wow, that's a bit of a dilemma. On the one hand the girl is smart and decides the guy isn't for her. And even though she initiated the break up it's still upsetting. On the other hand the guy (upset, but not for long) seems to be saying one thing yet doing another. Saying he still has feelings for his ex while dating his exes best friend. Yikes. Which he later admits he liked while he was...

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I need major boy advice!!! Please give me your opinion!!

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can someone actually get tickled to death? I guess anything's possible if you can't catch your breath if someone is tickling you. And if you have an underlying heart condition or something. Actually I've heard that tickling is torture. Probably shouldn't do it to anyone.

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Should I meet my boyfriend's ex? I definitely think you should go and keep your feelings to yourself for now. I admit I wouldn't feel terribly comfortable either. As a woman....I would go all out to look good on this occasion. Your relationship is young. Now...if he takes you around and introduces you to everyone he knows there...it's a good sign.And if he's especially attentive, even better. If on the other hand he deserts...

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why would a guy that you KNOW likes you act like he doesn't like you at all? And you "know" he likes you because? The real question is...do you have time for someone who plays games? Ignore the fool, life's too short.

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More than friends? (please read description) To tell you the truth.....if you told this guy that you are interested in another guy why would he think that you would be interested in him? Then, he goes on to tell you girls he could be interested in. If you want to be someone's girlfriend this is not the way to go about it. Never settle for less than being someone's first pick. E-V-E-R. If he's telling you that he would have a crush on...

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What would you do if you have UNLIMITED money? I would travel, shop, build houses, have a multi-million dollar yacht. Build a humongous log cabin in Colorado. I would have a nice swimming pool with Cabana boy's. Men, I mean. I'd have a masseuse on staff, a housekeeper, my boyfriend could still cook though. On the other hand, you could help a lot of people. Pay for surgeries people couldn't otherwise afford. Buy the necessities of life for...

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What would you do if you were accidentally locked inside The White House overnight? Wouldn't that be fun. I'd raid the refrigerator. Take pictures and plan on selling them to the highest bidder. Sleep in Lincoln's bed. Nah, I probably would do much sleeping. Sit in the President's chair naked. Call my friends and tell them where I'm at. Sneak around listening to everyone's conversation's. Put a sheet over me and pretend I'm a ghost. Wander around looking at everything. Just to...

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Who should be locked up? Murderer's, pedophiles, rapists, the criminally insane, physically abusive men and women, mentally ill people who won't take their medication. Corrupt politicians. Tiger Woods, Jude Law, Peter Cook (Christie Brinkley's soon to be ex), and Sandra Bullocks philandering husband, Jesse James. I think they should all be locked up naked with only gay magazines to look at. Maybe we should throw Elliot...

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I purchased a Ruger LCP about two months ago for backup/deep concealment purposes and must say I'm impressed, great pistol for its price and purpose. Anyone else like this little 'pocket pistol' or have other similar pistols you like? I've shot a friend's Ruger LCP. It was basically like a lot of the smaller 380's with a lot of recoil. It's a nice looking little gun. Very concealable. But I have to admit I got spoiled when I shot the Sig P-238. In fact my friend bought one the same day that she tried it she was so impressed . I did too. But because of the popularity of it (and mine's the fancier one, rosewood grips), mine...

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what is the smallest caliber handgun you would carry for self-defense? My first carry gun was a .380 Bersa. Actually it was a gift from my boyfriend. I had a problem with it at the range one day after I cleaned it. A spring had came loose and the trigger wouldn't work. There's a saying that goes...one (gun, of course) is none (if it doesn't work) and two are one if one doesn't work. Now, I regularly carry a Ruger SP-101, which is a revolver. Hammer-less, which...

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I have known a few homosexuals who also consider themselves to be practicing Christians. I was wondering how it is that they can justify this as Christianity seems to condemn their lifestyle? Actually the Bible does condemn homosexuality. If anyone thinks that they can continue to "live in sin" and not forsake it....they are WRONG. Jesus plainly told people to "go and sin no more". Example follows: John 8 (New King James Version) 1 But Jesus went to the Mount of Olives. 2 Now early in the morning He came again into the temple, and all the people came to Him; and He sat down and...

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I screwed at work, in school, everything. Feeling useless, very depressed, feel that my learning ability s limited. Can anyone save me? I have a few suggestions for you. Some have to do with diet which can affect your mood and ability to think straight....such as eating too much sugar, drinking caffeine and alcohol. Eliminating these from your diet will help tremendously. Drink plenty of water. Did you know that just 10 minutes of exercise can make you feel good for an hour. By exercise I mean plain walking. Sunshine also has...

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How much hair do women like on thier men? I can't imagine women are fond of hairy backs, but what about a hairy chest, or other body hair? Although I do like a hairy chest....a hairy back makes a man look like an animal. That's a turn off.

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My boyfreind told me that he liked another girl witch is my best freind and i dont want to break up but im so up set sometimes i think about it but i still love him should i break up So how'd this work out for you. What I would have done.....is I would have went out with his best friend. And then I would tell my best friend that he told you that she has a funny smell or something else that would make her furious at him. Who would she believe?

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How does one make a comeback from a bad breakup? I can tell you that I've been in your shoes. Truth is time heals all wounds or at least makes them less painful. It can take about 12 weeks to get over a break-up. At least the emotionally painful part of it. If you were with the person for a lot of years it may take longer. Biggest thing is to keep busy. The dialog in your head needs to be positive. Do not kick yourself thinking that you...

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What do I do when a guy attempts suicide for me breaking up with them? His problems are deeper than you just breaking up with him. If you go back with him it would be emotional blackmail. If you talked with him you could be giving him false hope that you will get back together. This is a tough one...you may want to talk to a counselor who may help you since this is a serious situation. Good luck.

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Why do pretty girls always date really ugly boys? Because they're dependable and they don't jerk you around.

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Is there something wrong with me? I was dating this guy for 2 yrs, he asked me to marry him, and then 3 months ago he dumped me without giving me a reason. Why can't I get over it? Why does he still call and tell me he loves me? Sometimes I'm curious what has happened since a person wrote a question months ago. I will tell you what the first thing that came to mind when I was reading your question....and that is that this guy is playing games with you. You get over a situation like this by cutting out all contact. Some women get caught up in the drama of "now he wants you", "now he doesn't". Only you can put a stop...

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Okaa I just broke up with my boyfriend because I was begging to think I was losing interest,but now that its over I like him even more can someone help.? You should tell him what you've told everyone on AB. I would be very sure of your feelings before you let him know though. Make sure you really want to get back with him. You don't want to break his heart twice.

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I NEED HELP WITH THIS ONE!!! *** Relationship Question*** Please HELP! Well, this is a tough one.... I personally wouldn't do it. How old are her kids? If she's not spending time with her kids she's a selfish person. Then again it's very tiring to have to do it all yourself. Is her ex in the picture with the kids? I'd think long and hard before I moved into that situation. Beside, what if things didn't work out, then you'd be out of a job, no place to go, and...

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My girlfriend is depressed, i want to support her. (read description) Well, it's possible that's she over medicated. That would explain her unwillingness to do anything with you. I wouldn't take it personally...it's the drugs. Does she live on her own?

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When a guy watches porn, would he think of having sex with the girl on the video, or imagine his S/O in the place of the porn girl? (personal opinion) I've heard that it's pretty hard for a guy to think of anything else but the woman with him. But then again, men lie so much I'd hardly believe anything that comes out of their mouths.

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Ive had 3 guys ive been with say that I suck in bed, But if i sucked in bed they wouldnt keep on coming back for more would they??? A guy would do it anywhere, anytime, and with anyone or anything. You are being used as a depository for their sperm and nothing more. Stop having sex with these idiots. Find you a real boyfriend and don't have sex with him until he knows the color of your eyes without you having to tell him.

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If u are a girl and real belive u like a guy would u have sex or give head 2 a guy or touch his dick? If you like a guy it's best to let him get to know you first before you even think about sex. You should hang out with him at least for six months steady before having sex. Only have sex with guys who know what your favorite color is, the color of your eyes, what kind of movies you like, etc. In other words if they do not know you as a person do not have sex with them. HAVING SEX WITH A GUY...

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What would you do if a girl tells you that she will not have sex with you because your dick is too big and it hurts her? First things first.....are you using your dick like a ramrod? Are you giving her enough time to become turned on before you stick it in? Women naturally lubricate when turned on. Also when a woman is turned on her body will be able to accommodate your big one. Always take "time" to please the woman first. Do not rush. You might try using additional lubrication such as Astroglide. I wouldn't...

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where do i find my dick? I don't know.....where do you think you left it. LOL. Pretty much if you don't know I can't help you. Although a good set of tweezers and a magnifying glass may help.

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I dont mean to continue bringing up about my boyfriend looking at porn & then lying to me about it.. but it hurts me sooo bad.. we have an amazing sex life. but now i feel so sick to my stomach sometimes when i look at him bc it hurt to see the pix.? wtd If looking at porn was so "normal" why do guys lie about doing it. The fact that they say that every guy does it is just an excuse and some guys have a million of them. Fact is at least half of all women hate the fact that their boyfriends look at porn. Men are pretty selfish creatures when it comes to sex. It's all about them. I bet if you told him the next time he lies about looking at porn...

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Is it really too much to ask that a husband NOT look at porn? No more than that it's too much to ask for you to be faithful to your husband. What if you told him that the only way to get your jollies was to see other men? The body actually goes through the same physical responses when a man looks at porn as if he's doing the real deed. Most men will try to excuse their behavior when it comes to porn and are in much denial that it's an addiction. Common...

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Since I moved in, I can't do much right in his eyes. He wants me to do everything his way--like the same activities, use his cleaning methods, change my personality, & work around him. He doesn't really try to adapt to me. What should I do? The first part of this problem is that you moved in together before you got to really know him. It sounds as though you two really just don't belong together. On his part...this is very controlling behavior. Once a guy has a foothold with bossing you around it never stops unless you say something. And that something is the word, NO. I would probably give him a chance after you talk to him and...

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Is there something wrong with me Problem is, now your looking from the outside in. You've forgotten how this guy really was. And there may be a tinge of jealousy. Perfectly normal. He hasn't changed. She just doesn't know him like you do. But give her time and she'll find that he's the same person you know him to be. You don't have to second guess yourself. You did the right thing in ending your relationship. I would suggest...

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My husband and the girl he is having an affair with have people following me so they make sure I don't catch them. Is this considered stalking or harassment? What can I do? Just thought of something funny. Why don't you have one of your friends with similar coloring and build come over to your house and put on your clothes. She could leave in your car. And you leave in hers. Just kidding. I suppose maybe you aren't aware of the fact that you can put a GPS unit in your husbands car and you can follow him by computer. You can then find out where he's at every moment...

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if you wait for a girl that you like to talk to everyday is it considered stalking The only time that it's stalking is if it's unwanted attention. For instance, if someone has told you to leave them alone and you don't, it's stalking.

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Would you vote for a candidate who had been an unfaithful spouse? If you can't be faithful to your spouse....can you be faithful as a public servant? Doubt it. It's all about personal integrity. You see.....to cheat, you also have to lie. And if a person can lie to someone they supposedly love and cherish, what do you think that person would be capable of doing to the people who voted for them. My guess would be the "same".

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Are men the unfaithful sex?

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Did you ever hear your parents having sex behind their shut bedroom door? How old were you, and how were you affected by the sounds? Since one of my bedroom walls was also their wall...I obviously heard things going on. What I remember was my mom telling my dad to stop, but she was laughing. So, I figured they were having a good time. I only remember actually hearing anything a couple of times. Mostly though they went up to their bedroom in the afternoons for alone time. It was just a usual thing for my parents. I wasn't...

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Two restaurant patrons were arrested on a charge of theft when they refused to pay a $16 mandatory tip that was part of their bill. They claim they had bad service. Isnt a tip supposed to be given if you think the service is good? I read the article. It was probably put in place to keep college students from stiffing the waitress. The time to complain about lousy service is before paying the bill. Then again considering that the place was very busy some of the lousy service may have been due to that.

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How would you end a relationship in a mature way when you've reached a dead end? Once you've made the decision to go I would think that's half the battle. The other is to talk to the person in neutral territory. You can only control your own response you won't be able to control the other person's. You would have to state that you have come to a dead end and why without being judgmental of them. If you happen to live together it would be smart to have a new place to live...

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People die for all sorts of reasons! Do YOU believe that REGARDLESS how a person dies, it just simply means their EXPIRATION DATE came due? I believe that when it's your time, it's your time. This is what the Bible shas to say, Ecclesiastes 3 1To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven: 2A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up that which is planted; 3A time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up; 4A time to weep,...

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Can you account for your movements between 6pm and 8pm yesterday? Let's hear your alibi. Interesting question. To begin, I was working prior to six o'clock. I actually clocked out around 5:30. Because we were having a huge sale I looked around a bit. Then I walked to the back of the store to get my coat and purse. I stopped to talk to two of my co-worker's. I checked the clock and it was around 5:45 by the time I left. I walked to my car to begin the drive home, which takes about...

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How far in advance do you plan anything? Are you ahead of the curve or lagging behind it? Depends on the situation. If it's an event that I really want to go to.....being a woman of course, I like to plan ahead what I will wear or take.....If it's something I'm not particularly interested in, I do a lot of footing dragging and procrastinating. Doesn't everybody? LOL.

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I'm in a relationsip with a man who tells me he needs to do a favor for his ex wife and babysit the kids at his ex's house. Any Advice??? Well, then you should go along. Anything stopping you from doing that? Is there any reason that he can't babysit his own kids at his own place?

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Why does it seem like some men perpetuate the dirt bag male stereotype yet turn around and say they're "different" from all the others? Actually when they're a dirt bag and say that they're "different" from other men they are speaking the truth. They are "WORSE".

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I am struggling with credit card debt. What is the way to relieve from it? This is probably not the best answer but until you stop making the payments the credit card companies won't deal with you. But stop making payments and all of a sudden they will settle for a smaller amount, waive fee's etc, etc. I would only try this if The Anonymous Witch's answer won't work for you. Her's (his?) answer might work.

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Is there a proper word for when you find someone sexually desirable but find them physically and personally unattractive? I was just thinking.....is that really possible.....then I thought of this guy that was the manager of the company (restaurant) I worked for. Couldn't stand the guy, don't remember that he was particularly good looking but there was this sexual attraction for him. I didn't sleep with him. Glad I didn't....a word for that? Crazy horny! (and you heard it here, first) LOL.

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My husband and I have been married for 12 years. No matter what I try, he never wants to initiate sex. What should I do? I've always thought that guys that "never" initiate sex are gay. Then again he may have had a lot of sexual trauma when he was younger. Have you ever asked? It's also a possibility that he just has a low sex drive. Or, he watches too much porn and can't get it up for the real thing. I bet that happens more than women realize. Men can condition themselves only to respond to porn. The best thing...

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Who do you have on speed dial? No one. Who is so important that you need to speed dial them?

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Would you consider having an affair with a friend? What is the good and bad thing about it, no strings attached? An affair is always a bad idea, although it can seem like a great idea in the beginning. For a woman there is no such thing as a NSA relationship. And the reason is this: a woman's body releases chemicals that cause her to be attached to the person she's sleeping with. There are studies that have been done on this. I know this personally because I had that kind of relationship. A woman will...

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I had doubts about my GF and decided to check her email, she is seeing an old lover, i want to confront her without saying how I know.. how? Well, if you tell her that someone saw her out with her lover she will deny it. Though I'm sure she would wonder who told you. The way you worded your question leads me to believe that you plan on staying with her. After all, if you decided to leave why would you worry about telling her how you found out she was cheating. You could always tell her that you know and not divulge how you found...

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This is for men do you still think of your affair even though you are back with your wife. Though you didn't provide your gender, I would guess that your a woman by the question. No man in his right mind is going to admit that he thinks about a woman that he had an affair with after he's back with his wife. It's been three days since you asked the question and absolutely no response from a guy. That should tell you something. Men on the whole never admit to wrongdoing unless caught...

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I accidentally found files in the past on the pc that were horrible (incest, children, animal porn) I am not suggesting this because it is totally illegal....but there are programs that will tell you what a person is looking at on the computer. Webwatcher and Spector Pro are two that I know of. So, if you choose do this well, that's your choice. It is possible that what you think you were about to look at on porn sites turns out to be something else. Once might be believable. More than once...

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near 2 year relationship. just found out he had 2 one-nighters and lots of makeouts during our LDR period (5 months).. im 24, hes 27 Truth is he's just another lying, cheating, bastard. Time to walk, honey. It's not going to get any better. You'll never find the person your meant to be with as long as your with this jerk. One thing though. Put him on don'tdatehimgirl.com and alert the rest of the female population as to what kind of a**hole he really is.

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My girl had a miscarriage. Is it possible to do a DNA test to see if the baby was mine? Please all answers are helpful Yes, you can definitely determine whether or not the baby was yours by a DNA test. That is unless it was disposed of. Then of course, you'll never know. I don't think you are heartless. You must have a reason to question whether or not the baby was yours.

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I'm thinking about breaking up with a woman that I truly love. Any advice? A person who expresses no apologies for having wronged you and has never asked for forgiveness believes they haven't done anything wrong. Really. She's not going to change, you know. I think I would call her bluff though and talk to her boss and see if in fact, you were ever banned from the premises. All it takes is a phone call. You might want to have a friend call and then after get on the...

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2 years in & now he doesnt want kids, when he said he did at the beginning. What do I do now? Has your boyfriend ever been to see a counselor? Maybe some individual counseling and couples counseling. Seems as though there is a whole lot going on with your guy. I wish you the best.

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Been with bf for 6 months. Very nice decent guy. Not very physically attracted to him. Not in love with him yet. Should I break up? Let's see if I'm understanding this right: His is genuinely nice, respectful and caring (and he loves you). How many of those do you think are just walking around? Not many in my experience. You agree on the big issues. But.....he has no style. What and you can't buy the guy some clothes? He's a sloppy kisser. This is just technique. Anyone (okay, most anyone) can be taught how to kiss. Using...

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I caught my boyfriend packing viagra in his cosmetic bag for a business trip, is he cheating? He said it was to give to a friend. Did he sound defensive to you when he told you he was giving it to a friend? Defensiveness is a sign of lying. Anything is possible but probably not plausible. And if he was only going to give it to a "friend" why didn't he tell you beforehand. Sounds fishy to me. You could always ask the friend and see how he reacts. And look right into his eyes when you ask. The other thing is when you ask...

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Fear of Commitment or the Wrong Person? I guess I would like to know what you mean by feeling trapped? I would think that this is more a matter of this not being the right match for you. We all put our best foot forward in the beginning of a relationship. After a while that changes and we get to see how a person is in reality. I doubt you would be feeling this way if you were right for each other. Good Luck.

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boyfriend troubles... So, I want to make sure I'm getting this right. He wants to break up with you but he still wants you around. Why? Dear, you have been in what is commonly referred to as a rebound relationship. You are the person who was just caught in the middle of him breaking up with another person. I would move on. Date other people, of course. If you are meant to be together, you will be eventually. And...

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im h14 and im in love with the girl of my dreams(she is also 14) she says she also loves me.. im pretty sure shese the one!!!! Even when I was your age...I never felt as though I found the person of my dreams. The fact that you feel that way is wonderful. And she loves you too. I sincerely hope it lasts.

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is it true that letting your boyfriend have a "fuck buddy" while your away make your relationship stronger? What and there's something wrong with "Rosie Palm". If you can handle the fact that a "fuck buddy" may turn into a permanent thing for him go ahead. I wouldn't. Does this mean you also get one, too? Is this his idea or yours? I bet it's his. If it's his idea tell him that you reserve the right to have one too. See how he likes that idea. I bet, not!

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I'm "friends with benefits" with my ex because I thought I'd feel less abandoned that way. It feels like all we do is have sex, and it's not so fun anymore. I really like him as a friend, and wish we can hang out without the sex. Any advice? From his perspective all he is doing "is" having is sex with you. Then he goes on his merry way and see's other people. Your hoping for more. It's not going to happen. Friends with benefits is a crock of shit for any woman. Even if you think you can handle it, most can't. And your finding that out now. The reason is...that men can separate their feelings of love and "just" sex easily. Women...

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What do you think of "friends-with-benefits"? I'm assuming by you name that your are a woman. Friends with benefits doesn't work for women and really and truly only benefits the guy. I've had personal experience with this and it doesn't work. Or, at least it didn't work for me. I became attached and had to fight the feelings that were developing. I'm going to take some wording from a book called "Dating without Drama". It's about the...

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I feel sorry for this girl because she's ugly. Should I tell her? Sure if you want to be known as a real jerk for the rest of your life. Then again maybe she thinks your ugly too and she would feel free to tell you so. If not on the outside, definitely on the inside.

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How come women get to be sexist but men get in a alot trouble when it slips and women don't Because probably what they're saying is true in a general sense and guys know it. Such as, that men lie. Now of course it doesn't mean that every man on the planet lies consistently and there isn't a soul without integrity. But studies have proven that this is true, that men lie more than women about a variety of things. As far as men go...I guess it would depend on what they are saying that is...

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How many squares of T P do you use after you finish your job in the bathroom? Who counts? I use as much as it takes to do the job.

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Was your FIRST day in school in the FIRST GRADE traumatic or eagerly anticipated and you enjoyed every minute? Well it was many years ago. I had went to kindergarten the previous year at a different school. I don't remember the first day particularly. But I do remember the tornado drills. We kneeled on the floor and covered our heads with our hands. The other thing I remember is being in the library and hornets being in there. I was terrified. The teacher tried to tell me they wouldn't bother me if I...

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One lump, or two? In my tea....two please. On my head, none. LOL.

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Why should it NOT bother me when my boyfriend looks at porn? I have researched and tried to accept it, but every time it kills me inside. Truth is, it does bother you. That's not going to change. Neither, is the fact that your boyfriend looks at porn. My suggestion would be to break it off with this guy. Watching porn...is obviously more important to him than you are. That's what it boils down to, after all. Never settled for behavior from a guy that kills you inside. Ever. As a woman you are worth more than that. If you start...

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is there a way of finding out if your neighbours are convicted sex offenders? I believe there's a site called family watch dog. You'll be shocked at how many are listed. Not all are men either.

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Is it wrong that i was with my ex for over 2 years when he cheated on me? and just now broke up with him for it? Maybe it took you that long to figure out what kind of jerk he really is. Better late than never.

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My boyfriend asked for a break and also mentioned doing steroids. He's been having mood swings and displaying aggressiveness. I love him too much to let him go. What should I do? I guess the big question is...why is he doing steroids? I think you should back off the relationship until he decides to get off the steroids. He may be afraid of what he could do to you. That's dangerous.

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My boyfriend lives with his ex girlfriend,her sis,her bro and one other guy. They went out 10 years ago and now their friends.Their friendship threatnes me and makes me feel like he or she isnt over each other.WHat can I do? I need help. First of all you need to talk to your BF about this. Let him know that it makes you feel uncomfortable. You should listen to your gut feeling about this. Sometimes you pick up on things because something is going on. If he tells you your being silly you can always give him an example such as spending the night over your ex-boyfriends house. Why isn't he able to have his own place, anyway? To...

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How do I interpret the guy I'm dating saying he LIKES me, cares about me and has VERY STRONG FEELINGS for me but is NOT in love with me? I would interpret this as a warning that "he's just not that into you" and find someone who is.

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can you read this and offer some advice? : http://messageboards.gurl.com/n/pfx/forum.aspx?tsn=1&nav=messages&webtag=gl-relations&tid=291042 Most guys are pretty selfish when it comes to pleasing their partner. That's why most women tire of sex with their guys. You need to teach this joker a lesson. As in doing whatever you do to him and leaving in less time than it takes to make him happy....if you know what I mean. You need to tell him that while men are like microwaves, women are like slow-cookers. You need to tell him that...

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My wife told me i have no balls, because i dont work hard for us, help me. I am depressed. What's she adding to the equation? Is she talking financially or relationship wise?

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How do I get passed hurtful things my boyfriend said during a fight? I guess that's why people should be mindful of what they say especially when they're mad. It's obvious that he didn't mean it or you wouldn't be back together. But if it's still bothering you I would talk to him about it. Before you got back with him, he should have apologized and taken back what he said. If you don't talk it out it will cause resentment eventually.

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If George Washington was married to a nine year old girl, how much would that fact changed your respect toward him as a founding father? How could anyone have any respect for men who marry children?

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Do you think honesty should be enacted into law at some higher levels of government and business? Like a morals clause? Damn would there be the turnover. LOL. It's amazing that even with people who sign contracts with morals clauses they still do what they are inclined to do. I would think that Tiger Woods lost a lot with his philandering ways. I would surmise that a "morals clause" was probably part of his endorsements. But that didn't stop him. At all.

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Ladies:what would you do if one of these guys came up to you crying and said "Iam having a really bad day. can I have a hug?" http://media.photobucket.com/image/criss%20angel%20smile/mindfreakchick/Criss%20Angel/chicken7.jpg?o=11 http://media.photobucket.com/image/johny%20depp/beautyandpain150/johnydepp.jpg?o=16 http://media.photobucket.com/image/zac%20efron/findstuff22/Best%20Images/Entertainment%20and%20Celebrities/Celebrities%20Adjusted/BESTZAC-EFRONeditedit.jpg?o=1 I would suppose that no matter who they were or what they looked like I would feel uncomfortable about some stranger crying and asking for a hug. But then again I am a sympathetic person. The last time something like this happened to me... a guy from one of those crazy religious sects asked me for a hug. Of course I found out years later they believed in sleeping with people to try to get them...

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Is the recession over? I live in Michigan. I personally don't believe that the recession (depression) is over yet. At least not for people in Michigan. I believe someone told me there will not be a full recovery for "years" to come. I finally found a job. It's minimum wage and less that 40 hours. I know of a woman who went to college to be an ultrasound tech and she's working in a daycare. Recession may not be the...

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Will human beings still exist in the year 2000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000020/ Yes, some human beings will exist for eternity according to the Bible.

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Do TV shows affect a person's moral values? I've always heard..... garbage in, garbage out as far as what you choose to watch, read, or otherwise be influenced by. Although I would think that if a TV show was distasteful to you in the first place you wouldn't watch it. Then again TV is a very addicting habit to a majority of people. You can sit there and watch one show and pretty soon your watching another. Probably one you didn't plan...

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If the Bible(written by MAN not God)says so much about freewill why do Christians and the like constantly try to run peoples lives? The following was taken from: www.bible.ca/b-science-evidences.htm All scripture is "inspired" by God and is profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, for training in righteousness; that the man of God may be adequate, equipped for every good work . (2 Timothy 3:16,17) The word "inspired" (theopneustos) in the original Greek language literally means "God-breathed". When the...

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My boyfriend cheated on me but he told me a couple of days later and apoligized. I got really upset but told him i'll give him a second chance. Now I'm cheating on him and I don't know if I should tell him or not. Should I tell him? What if he breaks up w I know everyone is going to give you shit about this but I think the situation is hilarious. I even think this is great. And I think you should tell him. The reasons why: 1. Your even. 2. Now he gets a chance to know how it really felt to you. 3. You get to apologize. 4. He should accept it, after all you accepted his apology. 5. You get to start your relationship over now that you are on...

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A guy I was seeing has a girlfriend (don't know her) but i was lead to believe they were breaking up. I was just played, should I tell her? I'd tell this other woman in heartbeat. You wrote the question was written 20 days ago. Have you done anything yet? If not...I'd tell her what he was telling you. She may want to blame you. Then again maybe not given the circumstances. I'd bring a friend with me in case anything gets out of hand. Good Luck.

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My boyfriend cheated on me, told me the week it happened, but broke up with me because he couldn't even face me because it happened... This is what I would do to help out with his guilty mind. You have your own little drunken fling. Then you can tell him your even and he can stop feeling guilty because you've done it too.

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Cheated on girlfriend I think you should let your girlfriend see your question to all of us on AB. Wouldn't it be funny if she also had some confessing to do. There's an old song and one of the lines is something like this....who's making love to your old lady, while you were out making love.

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I found several emails that my boyfriend sent to random strangers on Craigslist, responding to personal ads. There's no evidence that he ever met up with anyone and he swears he didn't. Would you consider this cheating? Should I break up with him? Yes, your boyfriend is cheating. And chances are that he's lying too. And yes you should break up with him. Better now than later after you've contracted some kind of disease from these people he says he hasn't met up with.

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I don't know if this is cheating... You didn't cheat. But confiding things that are going on within your relationship with a person who is the opposite sex is probably not the best idea. That's how most affairs get started. Actually, your boyfriend is partly to blame.

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My boyfriend is flirting with another guy on skype. What shud i do. He said things like 'you must be gay, your way too pretty to be straight Your profile doesn't mention whether or not your a woman or a man. Need to know this before I can answer.

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I am engage and my partner said i'm cheating with other men, is he trying to tell me somethingthat he don't want to come straight out with, or is it he who is doing the cheating? When another person accuses you of cheating more than likely they are. There's a term called transferance. It's when a person is doing the actual deed but they blame you for doing it. So, in other words he may be cheating on you. Or he may be wanting to break off the engagement. I'd start investigating. Something's definitely going on.

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is he cheating? my fiance joined a site called sexsearch on the 4th of jan & said he was single he even use a pic i took for his profile? Your fiance is cheating on you. And once a cheater always a cheater. Get out now. I'd be afraid that you might have some kind of disease being pregnant. It could affect your child. And your first action should be to get to a doctor and have yourself checked out. I wouldn't tell him about the doctor visit until you get your results back. I'd call off the engagement publicly and tell all my...

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If you like somebody for 5 long years, is it love or just a long-term crush? And you never dated before. So, it's been five "long years" has it? What are you waiting for? I would think that this is more than just a crush. Crushes come and go. Five years though,...I think you must be in love with this person. If the person is married or has been in a relationship during the past five years it's time for you to seriously move on with your life. I take it that your in no position to tell this person...

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I found out my BF was chatting to guys on the net and I'm unsure how far he goes with it because he says he wants to keep it 'Separate' from our love life but I can't be in a relationship with secrets. I am paranoid as it is. How do I find out the truth? So, your BF wasn't being up front with you about his chatting with guys on the net. So, he's a closet homosexual (no one is truly bisexual, there is a preference) and he is using you to cover up that fact with his family and friends. I'd out the bastard. Your not paranoid by the way. Paranoid people do not have anything to base their suspicions on. Honey, you do. And there's no reason to be in...

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How do you know if your man is cheating on you? im just not sure. Pretty much if a guy changes his habits you can be sure something's going on. That's usually what makes a woman suspicious in the first place. And according to this detective I saw on TV, he said that if a woman suspects that her guy is cheating she's right 90% of the time. That's a huge percentage. So, if you feel as though something's going on, I say check it out. You may even be pleasantly...

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Women: when reading those magazines, do you really think that there are 101 ways to please your man? Basically that's a no. Men are simple minded creatures. And honestly who has the time. And who cares that much. LOL. Not that I don't try to please my man. He just ain't gettin' 101 ways. LOL. What would be more productive is if a "man" could learn even a few ways to please a woman. Men for the most part lack skills in this area. Ask any woman. Especially the guy's who brag so much. Boy, is...

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I don't know which is worse? Being the one with the broken heart? Or being the person that breaks the hearts? I've been in both positions. I think though if given a choice, I'd rather be the heart breaker than the person with a broken heart. Here's why...when someone breaks your heart you have put a certain amount of trust and love into the relationship. So you've put your trust and love in the wrong person. Sometimes you even feel like a fool. And it just plain hurts emotionally. It takes time to get...

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How do i find out if my boyfriend is talking to other women? If its just casual talking there's nothing wrong with that. But I have a notion by your question you mean more than just talking. If you think your BF is cheating on you there are many ways to find out. Just google, how to catch a cheater. Usually, but not always of course, if you suspect somethings going on it is.

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what do you do if u HATE ur bf's ex but he insist on being friends with her cuz they were such good friends before and he cannt let it go??? Well, I'm going to give you the same advice I gave another girl. And by the way her BF's ex is out of the picture now. This is what you do...start calling all your ex BF's that you can. A lot of guys can't understand why you don't want an ex in the picture until it happens to them. The one girl I advised to do this was talking to an ex and started crying because it brought back old memories....

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My wife and I sometimes kiss our eleven months son in the mouth since we've seen movies of American parents do this. Is it ok? Do you do it? I don't think it is good to kiss children on the mouth. It's more appropriate to kiss them on the cheek. The mouth contains all kinds of bacteria. If you have problem teeth you could be spreading the bacteria and eventually causing your child to have problems too. If you have a cold/or flu you can be spreading it to your child. I've always thought it was disgusting to kiss a slobbery baby on...

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My friends dating a two timer how do i help her The way I would help my friend is finding out when her boyfriend is meeting up with the "other girl", then I would conveniently show up with your friend. I wouldn't let her know that's what you plan on doing though. Nothing like seeing it for yourself. She's really going to need your friendship then. Expect that she'll need some time to get over it. Then, I would introduce her to a better guy....

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My bf masturbates to rape porn. He says it isnt what it seems like, and i shouldn t be hurt. Thoughts please??? My feeling is that it's sick. Can't understand this one. He's disturbed. I'd trade him in for a different model. Anyone who gets off on someone else pain well,.......

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I just found out that my boyfriend has been using a fake account and talking dirty with girls on funblog.com but will never meet them wtf?! Well, anyone that goes behind your back isn't worth having. So, do your own thing too. Like dropping him like a rock. Now I wouldn't boo hoo over it. I'd get right back out there and show him how it's done. I'd be seen with a different guy the minute you dropped him. Even if you had to pay the guy. I'd be looking damn good too. You deserve better. Guys like this never change.

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Last year my now fiance went on a lads holiday and came home early due to a message that was posted on his profile from another girl thanking him for the night before. has he cheated on me or am i just being paranoid? Paranoid is a word that guys usually use when you are accusing them of something. If you feel something's not right, it probably isn't. I think you should definitely investigate. You posted this question six months ago. How are things going for you?

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If you Father left you and your Family (when you were a baby) Then you met him when you were grown - what would your reaction be? My son is going through this situation right now. The father he grew up with will always be his father. The other guy, I don't know. They have a lot in common. They just don't have that father/son dynamic. He just found his bio-dad on facebook about a week ago. He has two half-sister's and two half-brother's he's never met. My son will be 20 in February. His father was never around. Had never...

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is throwing up good for you? If your body is getting rid of something bad I think its good although not pleasant. If you overeat and that's your solution, that's bad.

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My girlfriend of 3 months sais she loves me however she is constantly hiding text from me and lying about it. she is in my bed everynight . she also text people till 3am with me in the room and mostly guys is she cheating? People with nothing to hide, hide nothing. I'd tell her goodbye. You deserve better.

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If a bf is emailing, chatting (on computer) taking walks with, and argueing (email)with an old girlfriend, has her number on his phone ("their just friends"), through email asks if she is "getting any" and asks to know her secrets - Is he cheating? I would think so. What I would do is this...and it's worked before for another ABer. Start having your ex call you while your boyfriend is around. In other words start doing to your BF what he's doing to you. They never understand unless the shoe is on the other foot. I suggested this to another person on here and she took my advice. Guess what it worked! Her BF stopped behaving like a jerk....

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Saw this on my man's page frm another woman:"thanks for showing me how much you care about me baby, you're the greatest!" The day this was posted we were supposed to spend that weekend together, but didn't. Is he cheating on me? If your guy knows that you are able to read his "page" then I'd ask him what the hell she's talking about. And don't be shy about it. Confront him. Now if your guy isn't aware that you can see his "page" uh, you might want to do things a little differently. And check things out without letting him know you suspect that something is going on. I've heard about a book recently called "Warning...

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How would I know if my guy of almost 3 years is cheating on me? It hurts not knowing, Please help PLEASE There's a book called "Warning Signs". I suggest you order it and read it. Usually though if you get a feeling that something's going on, it is. Trust your instinct. I once saw a detective on a program and he said that 90% of the time when a woman thinks her man is cheating on her she's right. Good luck to you, SiLLyLiLCuTie.

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How do i catch my husband online with other women? Well, Diane. Did you ever manage to catch your husband online with other women? I'm surprised people didn't give you the answer I would have expected. There are programs that will show everything he has looked at on the computer. Including his emails. Hope every things okay.

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What's the worst thing anyone ever said to you, & why? I don't know that there is once "worst" thing anyone has said to me. There are several. I will edit my answer later today.

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One year ago I was abandoned by my husband of 21 years for a much older unattractive woman he works with who is also married. We are now divorced due to this and I have been having a hard time with feeling betrayed and rejected. Does it ever get better? Tiger Lily....BTW, love your screen name. Cool. I read your question and realized it's been over a year since you asked it. So, how are you doing? Things going better for you, I hope. The saying that, Time heals all wounds is true. The mind has this amazing ability to recover from trauma if we let it. I've found that after a period of mourning over a situation if, when a negative thought came...

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Do you have a big butt that you're proud of? I'm a white (mostly, some Indian....Cherokee) and I have a big butt. I never really thought much of it until I worked for a Black dentist. Black men love me. And European men. One time there was a guy who was trying to write out a check for the receptionist. I was sitting in a rolling chair.... with my back to the desk putting away charts on a lower shelf. My co-worker told me that this guy was...

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is it good to move in with your boyfriend when your 18 or not? From personal experience, it's a bad idea. And from the experiences of my sister's and my brother. My dad always used to say that people who lived together were just "playing house". If you are thinking that eventually the two of you will get married, 9 times out of ten it doesn't happen that way. Statistics show that people who live together.....don't stay together. The commitment just isn't...

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How can I teach my husband a lesson? Your husband isn't a man but a boy. I guess you could go to his superiors and have a talk with them. Shame sometimes works but expect fall out if you do this. But for the moment you need to contact some agencies so you can get some food. Churches, food banks, social services, etc. You definitely need some help with your budget if all you have it ten dollars in the bank.

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women how can u make a guy do want you want. any tips appreciated That depends on what you want him to do. What do you need to know and be specific?

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Did the people of Haiti really make a pact with the Devil and that is the reason for the earthquake? I've never heard that Haiti made a pact with the Devil. But what I do know is this....God, did condemn Sodom and Gomorrah because among other things they were sexually immoral. Given that some time ago I read that 1 in 16 Haitians were infected with the AIDS virus, it would seem that sexual immorality is part of their society in a big way. The tsunami that hit a few years back was supposedly...

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I think that my fiance is cheating on me. how can i know for sure before i ask him? Okay, so your question is from 3 months ago. I always wonder how these things turn out. There is a book called Warning Signs. Usually though if you have the feeling that something isn't just right it isn't. Listen to your heart. He's not going to admit to cheating. No man will. And then he will be even more careful. Keep your suspicions to yourself while you check things out. Just google, "how...

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How can i trust my boyfriend? i have no proof that he has cheated on me but deep down i get this bad feeling he has..... i dont want to ruin our relationship over a "feeling" I have no idea why a person would want to dismiss what they feel in their heart. Your heart is telling you something. Women are very good at detecting a guy that's cheated/or cheating if she gives into that feeling and starts investigating. I once heard a detective say that when a woman thinks her guy is cheating she's right 90% of the time. The man does this for a living. He's an expert. I...

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My boyfriend thinks i should be ok with him talking with his girl "friend" on the phone late at night. he moved in with me and i am really upset about this. i told him it upset me and he got mad. how do i deal with these feelings of his relationship Of course your so-called BF thinks you should be okay with talking to his "friend" late at night. (He could be banging her when your not home). And as long as your willing to put up with it, he will continue to do it. If he really cared about you he'd stop. He doesn't. The real issue is the "late at night" stuff. My ex used to call me "late at night" after his wife went to bed. It wasn't my...

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I was just on my boyfriends myspace without his permission and I read messages he has sent to a whole bunch of these girls he doesn't even know saying they are hot and that he wants to bang them. How do I confront him about it with him getting mad at me? Please tell me you are not going to stay with this son-of-a-bit**? Dear, you must definitely start thinking more of yourself than that you deserve someone like this. This guy is not going to change. Not today, not tomorrow, not ever. If you believe that, you live in a fantasy world. I would definitely play a few games with this game playing guy before you leave, though. I'd start dating other...

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could you ever wish for the end of time to get here fast? If your talking about my personal life span, some days yes, but most of the time no. I just need a break...change of pace, rest. Mostly, I'm sick of this life and the way it is. Sick of all the evil, selfishness, and greed. Peoples inability to tell the truth. Lack of love and compassion for others. I don't believe that there will ever be an end to time. An end to time as we know it. Yes....

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Why would a guy search for hookers, save their pictures and also call them if they did not intend on seeing them? Does this get guys off or did he actually go and meet up with her... If this is your guy you need to do the obvious....break it off with him before you get a disease you can't get rid of. And do other girls the favor of putting him on the site called don'tdatehimgirl.com. Then make an appointment with your doctor, or go to your local heath departments clinic and get checked out. Pronto. If this guy has you convinced that he's just looking and nothing else, I...

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i am 16 and depressed because i am only 5'4" do you know about pills that can help me to be taller??? I'm only 5' 2 3/4", not even quite 5' 3". It has never stopped me from what I wanted to do in life. Never stopped guys from being interested. After all it's not your height that they're looking at but everything from the neck down. LOL. You know that the best things come in small packages? Diamonds for one. At least 50% of women are 5'4" or under. So, you have a lot of company. Focus instead on...

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Can oral sex affect your throat? You can get the same diseases in your throat that you get other places in your body from STD's. The same Human Papiloma Virus (HPV, for short) that causes cervical cancer can also cause cancer of the throat. It might be a smart idea using flavored condoms to protect yourself.

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Me & My Guy we've been talking for a year.A couple days ago he comes to my house pleading to have sex with me ( we have never had sex) after I said no he ask did I want to get pregnant & he was serious.Why would he ask me that?He already has a baby mama. This guy wants to get away from the baby mama and wants to involve you to do it. And getting you pregnant is the trick. If your smart you would get away from this nut case. He wants to use you as an excuse because he doesn't have the balls to walk away from this other girl. This question is from a month ago, hope you didn't fall for it. What did you end up doing?

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What do you do when you're at a party and have small boobs, you're surrounded by busty girls in cleavage and your BF likes big boobs better? Well, has he told you that he likes big boobs better? If that is truly his preference and he has told you so, you may think about moving on to another guy who likes you as you are. No sense in wasting one minute of your precious life on someone who desires something different. That will not change for him if that's his desire and it will eventually make you miserable. All you can be is yourself.

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Some say that if women stopped behaving like sluts men would be forced to be monogamous. Tell the truth, guys, would you enjoy forced monogamy? In this regard, women can honestly be their own worst enemy,. By giving in to a man sexually and not holding out for something better. I've kind of come to this conclusion myself. After all, why buy the cow if the milk is free. Women of previous generations seem to have known this. And women wonder why men do not want to commit. Commit to what, when what they desire is to have sex with you and...

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Found out my boyfriend has been calling a chatline. Do you think this is cheating. Otherwise he is a wonderful boyfriend and I know for a fact that he has not physically cheated on me. Please help me understand this. Certainly emotionally cheating. Even if it's not physical. Does he think it's okay to "get off" while your talking to another guy? I doubt it. Since this question was posted seven months ago, what's happened since then? Just curious

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What to do or say when someone compliments you? Plain and simple. I say "Thank you".

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Can I kill you? Please see a shrink, you obviously need one.

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Why is everyone making a big deal about tiger woods? i don't blame him. every girl he cheated with is just as good, if not better looking then his wife. she is obviously a psycho bitch. the only mistake he made is marrying her. right or wrong? Maybe they shouldn't. I think though that his wife should be given equal time to fooling around. She gets to fool around with the same number of men (and times) while he has to watch their child when she's out having a good time. What's good for the goose is good for the gander.

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What do you think of the new layout of answerbag?? I actually hate the new layout. What the hell were they thinking. It's difficult to find anything. Not user friendly at all. I used to tell people how great a site that answerbag was. Yup, that's "was". Can't find a place to login unless I answer a question then it will let me login. They (the dumb asses who created the "new" version should be fired. It's like when the grocery store changes...

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If I bake you some cookies, what kind would you want? I would like chocolate chip with walnuts.

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Dear fellow ABers! As AB has completely changed, how do you feel about it? Are you satisfied with its new outlook? I hate that people with nothing better to do have not just made some changes but have screwed up the whole site. Hate it. I wish the pencil pushing idiots would get fired.

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Has Tiger's Birdies put him in the Rough? Most companies endorsements have a "morals clause". No company wants to be connected with a guy who can't keep it in his pants. If they ignored his behavior, they would look like they condoned it and that's bad for business. Especially if that business comes from women or they have input. The cats (no pun intended) out of the bag now and though Tiger might be trying to do...

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When will cheating on your spouse become acceptable to society? We men are tired of getting caught with our pants down and having to explain ourselves. Just leave us alone and let us do what we want to do. Stop hating. As long as it would be acceptable to see other guys banging your wife...sure. What's good for the goose, is good for the gander. No one as far as I know has ever held a gun to a guys head and made him get married. Marriage is supposed to be a commitment between two people not three, four, five....etc. If you can't be faithful maybe marriage is not for you. With your attitude the women...

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My boyfriend had lied to me repeatedly about contacting another woman. Yesterday I snooped and found recent naked pics of her plus some other pics and letters. I confronted him and he said I was disgusting for snooping. Who is more in the wrong here? It has been my experience that when a guy gets "caught" he will deny it til the end. In fact my ex had a boss that told him that even if you get caught in the "act" deny it. You are not disgusting for snooping. Women have this sixth sense that works wonderfully if we listen to it. You did. But what I would think is terribly wrong is if you decide to stay with this guy....

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What is a pet peeve of yours? When people talk about trusting a partner on AB. Even when everything points to the fact that a person is being cheated on....people say you should blindly trust the partner and ignore the obvious. I think people like that are absolute idiots.

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I have my boyfriend's computer password but he doesn't know. I found that he did a search for "bored looking to get laid." I can't say anything because then he'll know. What do I do? I have another idea for you. Put your profile on the sights he's looked at. See, if you get any responses from him. Then you can meet him and break up with him at that point. I think I'd make it a very public break-up.

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Ladies, when you get home after a long day of work which would you rather receive... a romantic dinner on the table, roses on your bed or a nice foot massage? I work on my feet an average of 7 1/2 hours a day. A foot massage would be heavenly. And dinner. Wouldn't have to be romantic. But that would be a pleasant surprise. With flowers....over the top.

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Will my heart heal from being broken? My ex cheated on me. How can I move on? Time heals all wounds. Sometimes you almost have to force yourself to move on. Or at least that's what I've found. Usually we all have too much time on our hands. That's part of the problem. Dwelling on the past keeps us locked in there. Keeping busy helps. Eventually when the pain goes away (and it will, I promise) you'll feel like dating again. Oh, and just because someone...

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Do you think people who stink really bad know how bad they smell ? This chick at my old job was so musty she could take your breath away and I thought " how could she not know ?" They couldn't possibly know how bad they smell. I worked with a girl that I had to hold my breath around. I thought I would pass out before I could get away from her at times. The management had to talk to her and she was so mad and insisted that she bathed regularly. I didn't believe that was true for one second. It can also be that they wear dirty clothes which compounds the...

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I am in love with my girlfriend, but I have watched porn sometimes during our long distance relationship. Is that considered cheating? Hmmm...would it be okay if your girlfriend masturbated to some guy talking dirty to her on the phone to relieve her sexual tension while she's away from you. I mean after all she wouldn't be cheating either.

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What would you do if you found out that your fiance and father of 1 child and 1 on the way was sleeping with men in your home while you were at work and all he does is try to hook up with others and look at porn while you are away? If it's your home then you can show him the door. And say "See this is the door please go out and never come back. Then I would probably put him on a site like, don'tdatehimgirl.com.

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I found my boyfriend masterbating to porn. we have a great sex life I thought. I am open to almost any and everything. I feel like he cheated on me? Why would he feel the need to do this? Because a man's dick and his own pleasure will always come before you. Didn't you know that silly girl? I think what women need to do is have a guy call them and talk dirty to them while they masturbate. Then that way a woman can say well you need the visual while I need someone to talk to me. Oh, and it means nothing honey, really. Do you think guys would buy that?

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My girlfriend gets upset because i find visual images of other women sexually arousing. She wants to be the only one to turn me on as she says that's how it is with me. Is she just being unrealistic? Your sending a message to your girlfriend that somehow for you she's not enough. My advice, keep sending her that message and at some point she will find another guy who isn't so much into visual images as you are and might actually care more for her than pornobabe. Which I think she should do anyway. I mean why give up your satisfaction to make her happy anyway? She's not...

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What do you think Obama should get for Christmas? A lump of coal in his stocking.

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Do you believe porn corrupts the heart? If someone prefers it to having real relationships with real people, then yes. One guy told me that eventually guys who watch too much porn can't perform normally with a real woman and will need Viagra. No guy watches the same porn all the time. They have to have more and more. Seems like a drug to me. Too bad they don't devote the time spent on watching porn to their S/O's.

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My boyfriend would rather watch porn than have sex with me. when i says something he gets mad at me and says i say that if we dont have sex for a week, the thing is we use to have sex 2x a day. i dont mind he watches it but do i have the right to be mad? The problem here is that your boyfriend is a "porn addict". First sign is that he's not having sex with you and prefers watching porn. You do know that's not normal, right? I can promise you that it's not going to get any better because he's in denial that he even has a "problem". All addicts do that. What you really have the right to do is to leave and...

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Is there a better porn site than tube 8? The girls on there are so skanky! I have a question for you. If there weren't skanky women in porn what would you be watching? Being in porn is not a "career" choice for un-skanky women. Especially anyone that has good self esteem. Oh, yeah and they're faking it 99.99% of the time. And just in case you didn't know....it's not instructional for having real sex with a real woman. Maybe the reason...

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I think it was smart and classy of Mrs. Obama to have chosen a dress designer from India to create her gown for the first State Dinner honoring the leader from India.The gown was gorgeous. What do you think? Smart or conniving? Thoughtful or political? I would have thought that the idea was classy if other first ladies hadn't come up with the idea prior to Michelle Obama. Do I think in that case that it's a political move, of course I do. And very transparent. I would think when you are in the "public eye", every move is political.

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Your daughter invited her boyfriend over. Will you sleep with your s/o in the hall and lend them your bed? Like mother, like daughter. If you aren't married, why would the daughter think she has to be?

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What feminine virtues (if any) are uplifted by shows like Bridezillas, Bad Girls Club, or Girls Gone Wild? Are women any more respectworthy because of these? If not, why are feminist and women's lib groups silent about them? About as much as men's virtues being lifted up on the "Maury" show taking lie detector test showing that their sleeping with their wives best friend, cousin or whoever. Or, sites on the internet for married men who want to "hook up". Or, porn (aimed at men for the most part) of every description possible. Feminist and womens lib groups decided they might win a few...

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I am afraid of rejection; so afraid i wont even approach a girl i like. What to i do to not take rejection so personally? Maybe you should start with your approach. But first...are you a likable guy? In other words do you have friends of both sexes? And do people like you in general? Being friends first is a good place to start. This is something you going to have to just get over. It's a fact of life, dear. I've been rejected before too. And it doesn't feel good to anyone. But you can think of it...

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Ok, I am seeing this guy. He is great, and possibly someone i could see myself with for a while.The thing is, he is Native American and Puertorican, and in my parents eyes, Black.What should i do i want to be with him, but I dont want to lose my family? I'm bothered a bit by what you wrote, that "I could see myself with for a "while". He doesn't rate anymore than just a "while". The fact that you are concerned that you would lose your family over this is another thing. Do you still live at home?

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I'm old fashion and I've waited for him to ask me out....he would have by now if he were interested right? It's been three months, he's NOT shy and he does flirt and I flirt back. If a guy is really interested in you he won't wait three months to ask you out. Honestly. I wouldn't count on the flirting to mean anymore than joking around. Time to move on, dear. There are billions of men on the planet do you really have time to wait around for just this one? Doubt it. And the truth is guys like to do the asking. They like the chase. It's always been this way...

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Why are women so annoying We try real hard? If you find women annoying maybe you just don't like women. Maybe you should try men. LOL.

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Iv'e bn with my bf 4yrs yesterday Just fell out again as he wont commit Also just found out he's been like this with all his x gf's Clearly he is in huge denial How do I make him see it If this guy hasn't wanted to commit to anyone else why do you think that he's going to want to with you? There's a pattern here, do you see it? Your not going to change him. The truth is either your going to have to accept him as he is or move on? If you are looking for a more committed relationship...he obviously isn't the one to have it with. Sorry to say this...but...

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I never had a girlfriend and fear that I never will. I like girls but every time I take a risk I wind up feeling humiliated and worthless. Im 21 and I feel like I will never meet a beautifull girl. What should I do? With all the women on the planet chances are that you will meet one. Actually several. Your best bet is meeting someone at work and becoming friends. Although we are everywhere. LOL. The way to ask a woman out is this: when you are having a conversation, you could say....you know, I was thinking about trying this new restaurant over on main street, would you like to come? Or, you could start...

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Is there anything to be gained by emailing an ex? Broke up 4 momths ago, she emailed me 2 weeks ago boasting about doing really well and saying she hoped I was well. We were living together prior to the break and thought that was it for us!! Anything to be gained? I guess it depends on who did the breaking up, or was it mutual? As for me...I don't understand if you couldn't get along in a relationship why on earth would you want to continue to be friends? Or, I liked your personality I just couldn't stand when you were a bitch/bastard. Are people so devoid of real friends they can hang out with that they have to go...

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When have you ever hoped that you were wrong about something? Yeah, I had hoped I was wrong about my boyfriend cheating on me. But he said something to me last night that actually confirmed it even more for me. He said to tell someone that you cheated (had a fling and it's over) is selfish and it accomplishes nothing. Basically, in the end I can't count on him being honest with me. Now or forever. But I think it's more selfish and...

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Would you prefer a bath or a shower? If time permits a bath is pure luxury.

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What would you consider to be emotionally cheating in a relationship? Always being there for friends of the opposite sex and being so involved with their lives that you forget about your S/O I think would be considered emotionally cheating. When you give all you time and energy to other people. Somebody has to be first. Hopefully that's your S/O and they know it. If you neglect your S/O in favor of other friends of the opposite sex you may just get what you...

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Please watch this collection of sound bites & news clips, then answer this question: Is Barack Obama, in fact, a MUSLIM? If not, then what is he saying in all of these news clips? Okay, so it's a bunch of clips probably out of context. Two things are bothersome though...the fact that he wasn't wearing the pin of the flag. And the fact that he bowed to a Muslim king. That was a major faux pas. Why would a president of the most powerful nation on earth bow to another? And where on earth was his adviser on matter's such as this, on that day?

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Are you a hot black girl interested in white guys? Why? No, I'm a white woman. Or, I should say mostly white. Have a little Cherokee in my background. But my black girlfriend told me there are reasons why a black woman dates outside of her race. One is that they want their children to be "pretty". Another is that black men are cheap and won't spend a dime on them. They figure white guys will treat them better financially. Sorry...

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Is the concept of "burning in Hell for all eternity" something a "loving & caring" Gawd would do to the average sinner? I can understand Adolph Hitler (& certain time share salesmen) going there, but other than those folks, who really "deserves" Hell? An eternally burning hell is not supported in the Bible. However it's one of the errors that most Christians still believe. The Bible does state that what happened to Sodom and Gomorrah is what will happen to sinner's in the end. In the Bible the word "forever" does not necessarily mean for eternity. If that were true Sodom and Gomorrah would be still burning. Because the...

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Who is the worst person you could possibly cheat on a partner with? Why would you want to know? What are you planning? LOL.

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So after talking about infidelity I convinced my girlfriend to admit to cheating. But right after she flipped it over on me saying that it was a test to see if my love is unconditional what am i supposed to make if this? Wow, is she slick. I'm impressed. LOL. That's almost as good as her blaming you for her cheating. What you are supposed to make of this is...that she's smarter than you are. Or, at least she thinks she is. And she's convinced that you are going to buy her line of bullshit. Now if you are smart and I hope you are...you need to kick the bitch to the curb. Not literally, of...

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Found out that my bf cheated on me twice at first he lied to me and said nolt happend and then told me the second time he tryed makin excuses sayin we was on a break, we wernt what should i do? i relly love him his a great step dad 2 my lil girl Once can be a mistake. But twice. On purpose. Why would you give of yourself to someone who obviously doesn't deserve it? It's one thing to cheat, quite another to lie about it too. Truth is you don't have much of a relationship if that is going on...despite the fact that he's a great step dad. I would distance myself from this lying, cheating, bastard. Your child deserves...

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My boyfriend cheated on me but he told me a couple of days later and apoligized. I got really upset but told him i'll give him a second chance. Now I'm cheating on him and I don't know if I should tell him or not. Should I tell him? What if he breaks up w I'm taking it that most people think you are horrible. But I think this is perfect. He cheated on you in the first place. Now your cheating on him. I would say your even. Tell him. At least now he can sympathize with you on how it feels to be cheated on. Whether you stay together after that...well?

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I lied to my girlfriend about using a condom when I slept with another girl. I also spent the night at another girl's house but we didn't have sex. My girlfriend doesn't believe me. How can I earn her trust back? So you had your fun and now you want to come crawling back like the dog you are? LOL. She's never going to trust you again. My question to you is....why should she?

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My boyfriend had lied to me repeatedly about contacting another woman. Yesterday I snooped and found recent naked pics of her plus some other pics and letters. I confronted him and he said I was disgusting for snooping. Who is more in the wrong here? Liars and cheaters always try to put the blame on the other person. You are no exception to that. You knew in your heart that something was wrong and you investigated. Plain and simple he said you were disgusting because he was "caught". At this point it doesn't matter who was more in the wrong. Any person who lies to your repeatedly is not worth having as a boyfriend. This guy...

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Would you like to see ALL tobacco products made illegal? What and deprive the fools who smoke and chew despite knowing what it's doing to their health? In case you didn't realize it I'm kidding. I can't imagine people from coast to coast all going through withdrawal at once if all tobacco was made illegal. Can you imagine what would happen? I wouldn't want to run into a person that involuntarily had to quit smoking. Talk...

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Should I try to look better so my bf wont leave me cuz it feels like im not good enough for him The answer is absolutely not and I'll tell you why. First of all you are good enough as you are for the right person. Is your BF doing or saying things that makes you feel as though you are not good enough for him?

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I am going to write a book on relationships, what chapter should should I put in it? How to tell if a guy is a lying, cheating, son-of-a-bitch and a million ways to make him wish he was dead. LOL. Just kidding.

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Do you imagine how your boyfriend/ girlfriend had sex with their exes? I can't imagine my boyfriend having sex with his ex. For one she's butt ugly. For two she weighs about 400 pounds. He weighs over 300 pounds himself. Must be like two whales mating. LOL.

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If your best friend told you they were in love with your S/O what would you do first? Do you mean before or after I kicked their ass?

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If your b/friends ex is pregnant,it his baby,concieved before he got together with you,while still going out with her.he says its you he wants and will be there just for the baby,what would you do,would you walk away or stay with him? I think I would want to talk to his ex. Does she have hopes of getting back together with your boyfriend? I guess I don't like the idea of a guy getting a girl pregnant, walking away from that and replacing her. Of course I realize there may be extenuating circumstances. You know she's always going to be in the "picture". Can you handle that? By asking the question in the...

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I like this guy, but everytime i try to talk to him, he answers in one word answers, does this mean he doesnt like me? or i annoy him? I would think that the guy just isn't interested. Please, do not waste your time on this one, he obviously isn't worth your time. And the guy that is....he's out there. And you won't find him by hanging around Mr. One Word. Good Luck, Chles!

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If someone at work jokes with you, walks you to your office, smiles at you and stops in a couple times a day to say hi, does that mean they like you or could they just be friendly? I thought he liked me but he just wont ask me out. He's not shy. Guys, in general don't make a point to talk to you unless they're interested. The real deal is...what are you doing? Are you making it plain that your interested in him by giving him you full attention when he does stop by? A guy will ask you out if he interested and if he knows your interested. There's no rush is there? Sounds like things are going good.

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Ladies: Does porn make you feel insecure? Not so much insecure as that men in general seem to never be satisfied with what they have. I guess if the shoe were on the other foot and your S/O was constantly oogling other guys how would that make you feel? As in everyday, all day long? Wouldn't you wonder at some point...why am I here?

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How do I get guys to like me and not just want me for my body? First you have to let guys get to know you minus the sex. If your dating a guy that you like put off sex for at least 4 months. If he's still around then you'll know he's patient and he's interested in you for more than your looks. Any guy that can't hold off for that long without pressuring you isn't worth having. This period of time will also help you determine...

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How do you confront your boyfriend about him hiding things from you, things that you know but he doesn't know you know? I suppose you could say you "heard it through the grapevine". LOL. No seriously I wouldn't reveal the source but...make sure you discuss it when he's in a good mood and in neutral territory. Good Luck!

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Do you think it is fun to tap your brakes if someone is tailgating you? I think it's a blast to see their faces. Actually what's better than that is to turn on your lights during the day...it has the same effect without the possibility of getting rear-ended. Usually when I tap my breaks it's because someone is on my rear-end. I don't do it for fun, I do it because I'm irritated. Another little trick I have when I'm driving is when I see someone in my rear view mirror and...

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Pregnant with married friends baby, he is absolutely horrified that I cant simply terminate and that I actually have feelings. Since finding out he thinks I am selfish and prepared to hurt others, how can I get him to see the effect that a termination has Apparently this man doesn't know where babies come from. And he's a friend? The truth boils down to this...as long as he wasn't caught fooling around with you he was fine about the whole thing. As far as infidelity goes it hurts everyone eventually somewhere down the line. Some things you can't escape. The decision really rests with you though. Your the one that's...

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My bf thinks i dress 2 attract other men. I only do it though coz I like looking nice. He however doesnt want other ppl to see whats his but i dont think i dress revealing. sometimes i wear a lowish cut top/dress if im going out. Is this so wrong? You say in your first sentence that your BF thinks you dress for attention in other words. Then you admit to wearing low-cut tops and dresses when you go out. I think that he might possibly be right and your in denial about your need for attention. Most men would consider wearing low-cut tops and dresses as advertising the merchandise. After all he remembers meeting you wearing the same types...

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I just hit my boyfriend what should I do Real simple. You need to seek counseling. Why did you hit him, though?

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Did I violate my BF's privacy by snooping in his cell phone when he left it unattended? he was texting someone like crazy I asked who it was,he said a guys name I said Oh. Yeah ok, it was a woman it was a customer of his he said they r friends... umhmmmm Well, Fact #1 is you "knew" something was up. Women are great at this by the way. And men think they are being so slick. Fact #2 He openly and unabashedly lied to you. Is it okay for your BF to lie to you? I don't think so. My advice would be to dump him. Now and not later. Why....he obviously is not ready for a relationship in which he can be truthful. You can waste your whole...

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My wife had an affair, and wants a divorce. she has told her family her side of the story but not that she had an affair. Should I contact her family and tell them the truth? should I tell her boss because there is a conflict of intrest at work? I forgave Okay, so it would seem that somehow your wife is coming off smelling like a rose and has managed to keep her "secret". And your looking like the "bad guy" in this scenario. Time will probably reveal itself shortly without you having to do a thing. But if you must tell someone I would tell the family. I wouldn't interfere with her job though. That would be taking it too...

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My husband of 19 years was having an emotional affair. I think differently of him but still love him. Men hit on me all the time but Ive been true to him. I recently met a 26 year old man and having bad thoughts now. We did kiss. Am I a bad person? At the very least you are no more a bad person than your husband is. How did you find out about the "emotional" affair and are you sure there wasn't more to it? Turns out your husband is not the person that you thought he was. Your disappointed because you put your trust in him and he wasn't worthy of it. You say that your husband is "trying" but he won't go...

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My Girlfriend has a friend who she hasnt met in person yet. and they have a online friendship. im constantly seeing "love you" in their messages and she tells me hee sees her as a sister. and thats just what he says. do i have the right to say no more? I think it's odd to have an online friendship with someone you don't really know. And putting "love you" seems a bit strange. But then again people let their guard down when they're online. What did you mean that your GF hadn't met this guy yet? Is she planning to? People can pretend to be many things online that they are not. This could be dangerous. Is she aware...

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What is the BIGGEST misconception about the state you live in? I live in the state of Michigan. The biggest misconception of people that don't live here is that there are jobs to be had and that people aren't trying hard enough to find employment. My ex thought this. I did eventually get a job after looking for a couple of years. It's minimum wage. Forty hours a week for now. After January it will be part time. Then I will be at what is...

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My friend says he has the erotic dreams about me. We dated briefly a few years ago but it didn't work out. Now, he just calls to check on me...etc what does this mean? Those must have been some dreams. I think he plans on living out those dreams in real life if your willing.

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My husband and I have been married for over 20 years. Yesterday he made the comment that, "sex doesn't mean that much anymore". I always thought we had an active and healthy sexual relationship so the comment has bothered me. What does he mean by it? I guess the only way to find out what he meant by that is to ask him.

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My boyfriend has been hinting at question that he's going to ask me when he come to see me (long-distance relationship) but he said that he has to ask my dad a question first. Any ides what he's going to ask my dad? It would seem as though the guys getting ready to ask you to marry him. But I could be wrong. I guess you'll just have to wait and see. If he does pop the question...what will your answer be?

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My girlfriend regularly receives pornographic sms jokes in her mobile phone from a boy, whom she has known for many years. She says there is nothing wrong in receiving such jokes and does not tell the boy to stop sending. What should I think? You know sometimes people can't understand why things upset you until it happens to them. Turn the tables. Start having a friend that happens to be a girl send you explicit jokes. Somehow I don't think your GF will like that.

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Hiw do u make ur ex bf jelous? I've heard that the best revenge is living well...in other words being happy. So, go out and get yourself a "new" BF.

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Is it too soon to have a guy that you have known for 1-2 months spend frequent nights around small children ages 2 and 4. Also, is it too soon to think that this person is the one for long term? Yes, to both questions. The guys that tend to stick around are the one's you don't give everything to right away. As in sex. What's wrong with getting to know the guy out of the sack as well as in it?

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My roomate is incognito. She was last here 10/31 & b4 that in & out & her stuff is still n the room. Now rent's due & Im wondering if I should expect rent since her stuff is here? Wud u be pissed she didnt let u know her plans & didnt pay for Nov. rent? Well, if the rent is due and you can't find her...looks like your going to have to pay the rent by yourself. If you don't hear from her within the next week...I would take her things to storage and find a new room mate.

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What would you do if you walked into an elevator and it smelled like someone farted. Theres one person on the elevator already what would you do? Lol, if the door hasn't closed I'd walk right back out. If the door closed...how long can you hold your breath?

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Sometimes you reach a point in a relationship (not limited to romantic) that you think "what did I get myself into?" When you reach that point, do you back away or go forward and hope things get better? How long do you hang in and keep hoping? If your feeling "what did I get myself into", it's time to be thinking "how do I back out easily". I don't know why we "settle" for relationships that we have to keep hoping will get better, when deep inside we know their not going anywhere. It's time to get out. Now.

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Am I being too uptight if I am bothered by unwanted flirting? Greetings like "hi sexy" and being called pet names by guys who don't know me very well. Have you tried giving them the disgusted look? Or just plain ignoring them? It always worked for me. In your lifetime you will probably have so many guys saying things...who has time to really listen. You are under no obligation to respond to people you are not interested in. No smile, no acknowledgment that you even heard them whatsoever. Is is possible that the way you dress could be giving...

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I'm having a hard time learning to live with the fact that my boyfriend looks at porn. It feels like a form of cheating to me and I feel inadequate now in the bedroom. Is there a place for porn in a relationship? What are your thoughts? Why do you feel you have to learn to live with it? Does he know how you feel, yet he does it anyway? It is so unlikely that he is going to change. You might want to find a boyfriend who finds you more interesting than pornobabe.

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My live in boyfriend of almost 5 years, would rather masturbate then have sex. He masturbates all the time, home, work, in the car. Two hours before I get home from work, even though he knows I am always in the mood for sex. Uh, he's got problems. He doesn't care about your needs. Find someone that does.

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Everytime i confront my boyfriend that he is watching porn he denys it and gets mad y? when i know he is becasue i hear it thru the phone. i have a fake profile who he tells everything to but he doesnt know its me. Solution: find a guy that can be truthful with you and likewise you with him. This guy isn't it.

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Would you have a problem with your boyfriend making a profile on an adult/hook-up site when you haven't been getting along and you're supposed to be working out your problems? Ummm, sounds like your so-called BF has made his choice to work out your problems in another way, with someone else. Now it's time for you to make your choice. Did he buy into your idea of working things out? It wouldn't seem so. How did you find out about the adult/hook-up site?

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Who should move out of the house, the cheater, or the cheated? The cheater should be thrown out on their ear, of course. But before you do consult an attorney.

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Why do little girls love to try and be with older guys when they know they are in a relationship and arent even legal to date them? Little girls sometimes like to think that they are grown. And "little girls" should be told by "grown men" to run along or you'll tell their parents. In fact, telling the parent's may be the solution.

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I believe I am being stalked by a cop. He drives by my house sometimes parking on my block in his patrol car. He doesn't even work in my town. He drives by me when i am on the way home from work. I have broken no laws. What does this mean? Well, before you go accusing anyone of stalking: Is it possible that he's visiting someone in a house close to yours? If he's going in the same direction as you and knows someone on your block that's not stalking. Has he approached you in anyway or spoken to you? I'd still keep my eyes and ears open though. Let a family member know what you suspect. Make a record of his car...

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My ex got me pregnant 4 months after he got his girlfriend pregnant. He denied she and the baby existed. I've since had an abortion and she's had the baby. I don't know her, but should I warn this girl about him? Yeah, I'd tell her in a New York minute. It would be a kindness letting this girl know now what a creep the babies father really is. The heartache she will experience now will be nothing compared to what's down the road for her. What she chooses to do with the information will be up to her though. You will have done your good deed.

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My girlfriend dated an ex for 3 years. Still talks to him multiple times a month. Only talk when I am at work and she is at school. She deletes her texts-crappy phone. She played April fools joke on him saying she was pregnant. Suspicious or no? If the April fools joke was that she was pregnant with your child that's fine. But if she was claiming she was pregnant by her ex, then she's cheating on you. You can't play a joke like that on someone unless there's the possibility that it's true.

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My fiance tells other women he is still single. He doesn't mind telling other guys he has a woman, though. He has a bad track record. He has two kids with two different women and has used around 36 women just for sex in the past. Is he untrustworthy? Duh...are you kidding? So, what makes you think that your the woman who's going to turn this guy around? Thirty-eight women have probably tried and failed. Can you stand the truth? I'm thinking probably not. Truth is this guy is going to make your life miserable. That's a "given". You going to probably get knocked up and be tied down with kids while he's roaming...

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What is guaranteed to put a smile on your face? When my boyfriend is laughing. Or starting to. Before he actually laughs his body starts shaking. I also love the way his face crinkle's up. It makes me happy to see him happy.

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What's the ideal outside temperature for you? This is an easy one. 75 degrees and low humidity. The perfect temperature.

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Would you give up sex for life for $1 million? Which would you choose if you could have either? Sex forever, or $1,000,000? I wouldn't give up sex for $1 million. Money stresses people out. Sex eases the stresses of life. I would be one unhappy woman if I could not longer has orgasms.

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What's the first thing that comes to mind when you see someone talking to his/her self? It depends. If they are talking to themselves and answering in an angry manner or talking fast I think they're nuts. If it's someone I know and I believe they're not nuts I ignore it or laugh at them.

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I have my boyfriend's computer password but he doesn't know. I found that he did a search for "bored looking to get laid." I can't say anything because then he'll know. What do I do? Two things. Confront him and then dump him. The only real solution.

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My boyfriend has attempted to cheat in the past via the Internet, but he didn't. He says if he does cheat on me it's because I drove him to it because of my insecurities. What should I do about this? Anytime a guy tells you that you are insecure when he has tried to cheat and you know about it...is playing minds games with you. Anytime a guy uses the words: insecure, crazy, or paranoid you can be sure he's up to something. So, are you still with this guy?

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My girlfriend e-mails this guy she said she dated for a month, but it didn't work. She says she is going to hang with him when he gets home, and I'm not allowed to come. Is she cheating? Well, tell her while she's hanging with this guy and you are not allowed to be there tell her you'll be hanging out with your old girlfriend. That should do the trick.

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If you had the chance to read ur bf's emails and txts, would you? A person who has nothing to hide, hides nothing. And that has nothing to do with trust. If your not doing anything you have nothing to hide. People who are secretive are usually (but not always, of course) up to something. That has been my experience. If it walks like a duck, and talks like a duck, it's probably a duck! LOL. And would I read my BF's emails. Yup. And yes, there's...

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My boyfriend has an Internet female friend that lives in a different state. I saw an archived message asking "what if I asked to give you oral sex." Is it a possibility that he could cheat on me? I guess I'm a person who likes to "turn the tables", so to speak. Let him come across a "fake" message from a guy that says he'd like to perform oral sex on you and see what happens. Sure way to bring up the conversation on the archived message. Was the girl asking the question of your BF or was he asking her? To say the least it's totally inappropriate if you...

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Is it ok for my boyfriend to have pictures of his "best friend " that is a girl and they are hugging and of pictures of her alone on his cell. do you think its ok?do you think he is cheating on me? or am just overreacting? I guess there's only one way to find out if there's more to it than just "friendship". Show him pictures of a male friend of yours. Make sure he's gorgeous, of course. Make sure he's hugging you, too. Or, giving you a kiss on the cheek. Your excuse is...that you can say he has pictures of his "best friend", after all. It would be hypocritical of him to...

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My boyfriend spent the night at my friends house, and I found out that her boyfriend wasn't there and that they slept in the same room. When I questioned them they had different stories. Is it likely that my boyfriend cheated on me? Why don't you sleep over your "friend's" BF's house too? Or, he can sleep at your house without your boyfriend being there. The fact that your boyfriend and your "friend" cannot keep their stories straight means something probably happened. Now it's time to turn the tables. Like I said her BF should spent the night at your house. Or, you at his. Then you...

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I dated my ex for 2 years, we broke up 7 months ago and now he wants me back! He has hurt me so much in the past, but it seems like he has changed and so have I so should I try it or should I leave it alone? From personal experience I can tell you this is not going to work. The fact that he has had little regard for your feelings in the past means that he's that "type" of person. A leopard does not change it's spots. He is what he is. Do not break open that "can of worms" again.

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What are some good ways to get back a girl that has dumped you? That depends, why did she dump you?

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So after you have broken up with a girlfriend of 2 years is it better to wait a few days and call her or wait for her to call me? the intention is i want to be back with her what should i do? So, were you hiding the fact that you were contacting other girls? If nothing was going on you should have been able to calm her fears by letting her see your phone at any time. What was really going on? If you were doing something on the side you deserve what you got. Must have been some reason that she thought you were seeing other girls.

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Helpp!! me and ex split up 2 an half month ago meeting him for 2 weeks after said alot of horrible/nasty things to him after that ..he now has a new girlfriend he has been with 3 weeks but i miss him and think about him at least a few times a day help? Your question kind of rambles on. Am I getting this right....after you? broke up with him you met with him and said a lot of nasty things to him? Two things...if that's the case, why would he want you back? He has a new girlfriend too...so, you've been replaced. I think you need to move on with your life. Your relationship with him is over. Something helpful though...every time you...

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So its been a few days since me and the love of my life have broken up today was the first day that i didn't try to contact her over and over if i call her tonight would i be making a mistake? So, what's the reason behind her breaking up with you? In other words...what did you do? I would say to leave her alone. Your not gaining any points by contacting her. And trying to contact her will probably do nothing but drive her away. Doesn't seem like her family is in your corner either? Why's that?

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My gf just broke up with me after 2 and a half years because she says she cannot trust me, i've eroded the trust and she wants to just be friends but maybe in the future have a relationship. im so scared of losing her i cant eat or sleep its making me ill There are some things you just can't go back on. You really wouldn't want to try to be in a relationship with your ex. She's not having it. And she's not going to change her mind. So, you did what you wanted to do and now your paying for it. I have no sympathy for you. You don't deserve it.

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My bf cheated on me with 2 lads last friday @ a party.He wouldn't tell anyone we were together & said he only kissed me cause he was drunk.I am female & my now ex is bi.Him & the other lad were acting like a couple. I love him,should I ever take him back? So, you basically think you can reassign his sexuality? Yeah, like that will ever happen in your lifetime. So, your into loving someone who will "never" be able to love you back. And he totally disrespects you. That would make you a masochist. You know, someone who is into pain. Unless, your also into possibly acquiring HIV I would say you just might want to leave this one alone....

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On a break, my boyfriend spent four nights with a girl. We then got back together and resolved my committment issues, but I am having trouble getting over the thougt of him touching someone else and it's causing problems. Is there any hope for us? I suppose when it's a break it should truly be a break. However, when you say "break" to "some guys" this is what happens, he hooks up with someone else. Makes me think he wasn't all that into you. One second out the door and he's with someone else. He wasn't exactly missing you apparently. This one of the reasons why women do not think guys have any...

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I'm still in luv with my x-bf & i don't no what to do. He use to hurt me mentally and fisically. We have a baby girl so i can't stop seeing him. I've tried moving on and have found someone else who is lovely but why can't i get rid of these feelings. What you feel is not love. It's a feeling if only he would change into _____ then life would be wonderful. And that's not going to happen. There's also attachment because of having a child with him. Thinking he is going to change is fantasy not reality. The feelings for him will eventually fade. And this will only begin to happen the minute you stop fantasizing "what...

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Are you, or are you not, in your own home right now? Right now I'm at my boyfriends house. I've been living with him for almost two months because I got a job nearer to his house than mine. I will be going to part time soon and won't be staying as much as I do now. He keeps asking me what my schedule is going to be and I don't honestly know. I wish I could get a job closer to my own house (really my moms).

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If you were able to cure one problem in the world (sickness or other) what would your mission be? Men lying to the women in their lives. Sort of like in the movie Liar, Liar. LOL.

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Have your supervisors/bosses generally been helpful and supportive or have they mostly just been bossy? Sometimes when people are given authority over others they get a bit pompous and, well, pushy. How would you rate your supervisors/bosses? Bosses, helpful and supportive? My bosses would get an F- for the way that they treat people. For instance, there was a young girl that had just vomited and need to go home, the manager asked her to stick around to see if she felt better. All the while putting the other employee's at risk if she had a virus. She did go to the doctor's and found out she had food poisoning. Nice, huh? I...

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Im a guy and my grilfriend had a party the recent friday. i wasnt able to go cuz i was caught up at work. but she knows i dont like drinking, She told me she wouldnt drink. But she did. And freak dancing with other guys.How do i react to this problem The way that you react to the problem is this: do something that she doesn't approve of. When she complains tell her that she does things you don't approved of but that obviously doesn't stop her. And she can't have it both ways. If you don't approve of drinking and she does....at some point you will probably part ways, sad to say. A person that believes such as you do...

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There's guy who is in one of my classes, and i really like him, but we never talk to each other (he doesn't have anything to say to me). I've tried to strike up a conversation before, but he's not really interested. Help? A guy who is interested will let you know. He's obviously not that into you. Here's the Help: Move on to different territory. Life's too short to be hung up on someone who's not interested in you and never will be. That's life.

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Do you feel that one should ALWAYS tell the truth? Why or why not? I've read that there is actually a society where people tell the truth all the time. Though..lying is socially acceptable. Have you ever heard of an honest politician? 60% of all married men will eventually cheat. Of course cheating includes lying to your spouse. I read where there are studies that men lie more than women. In fact a guy I work with said that with lying it's like a...

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Tonight Dr. Phil had " a man who likes to date much younger women". How much younger can a woman be before the yuck factor gets to be too much. I don't know....can she pass for his daughter, grandaughter, or great-grandaughter? We've all seen these pathetic men and their pathetic younger women. If he wants to play "daddy" and she wants to play "daughter" then two sick people have "found" each other. That's a match made in heaven. Or, someplace.

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I'm 15, my boyfriend is 18, and he broke up with me because of my age. He is afraid someone will find out we had sex, but that was over two months ago. Is there any possible way to prove we did have sex? Your boyfriend did the right thing. I know it hurts that he broke up with you, but he could go to jail. Did he know that you were just 15? Any actual proof that he had sex with you is gone. Now the rest is up to the two of you to keep your mouths shut. From now on, be up front about your age. That's "real" maturity.

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I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 31. He has always dated older women and I can tell he sees me as a child. He expects things from me that he got from older women. I want it to work, but is he likely to change? Men have this "gene" that is contrary to change. In fact they severely hate the idea of a woman trying to change them. So, here's the deal. Find someone that appeals to you just the way they are. Why would you expect a man of 31 to see you as anything else except a subservient child. You really need to get out and experience more of life and have fun. If your idea of fun is...

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What is your view on a 14 year old girl dating a 29 year old man? The fourteen year old needs counseling (seriously) and the 29 year old man needs to be in jail, permanently. They both have problems.

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Why is it called a letter opener? You use it to open an envelope, not a letter. Well, if all someone sent you was an envelope you'd be disappointed. And presumably someone has sent you a letter or some type of correspondence. Even if it's just a statement from the bank.

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"Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass...It's about learning to dance in the rain" What do you think of this quote? How does it relate to you? Love it. It's true a person has to learn how to deal with what comes your way in life. It's an optimistic way of looking at things.

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My boyfriend says he fantasizes about having sex with women he sees or meets. Sometimes he even gets aroused. We live in a beach town where there are many almost-naked beautiful women. I look great myself. Will he act on this? Or is it Well, as long as it's open to discussion tell him his brother, cousin, dad, uncle turn you on too. And they make you all wet and tingly inside. Somehow I don't think he's going to like it. But I'd do it anyway. What's good for the goose is also good for the gander. Your boyfriend should keep his "fantasies" to himself. Your boyfriends a jerk. I'd replace...

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I'm sleeping with a married man.I'm 26, single&very independent.He's 30, 2kids, established.We've been having sex for a yr w/no expectations,but now says he loves me.Where is this 'relationship' heading?I'm not sure how I feel about him,I know its wrong I slept with a married man for over a year. It's an empty way of life. And your settling for a roll in the hay every now and then. You realize you don't have a "real" relationship. You can't go to the movies, restaurants, without fear of being "seen". That's no life and it's empty. And every encounter is at his bidding (his availability). You do have...

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My fiancee befriends guys so I try to take it in stride. When she left this morning on some errands I had the feeling she was actually dropping by someone's apt, so I dropped by and she was there. His face was very red and her sweater was off. Paranoia? I can see why your in a dilemma. You didn't know your fiance was going to stop at this guys house until you discovered she left a message on your answering machine. Although that doesn't completely rule out fooling around. When you got to his apartment his face was red and you girlfriend took off her sweater which revealed she didn't have a bra on. I think it's time for a...

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My girlfriend of a year went to college this summer and cheated on me with a guy. She says that it is because iIam not there. Now she is home she wants to be back with me but still "friends" with him. How do i know that she will be faithful? I always thought that absence makes the heart grow fonder. I think you know the answer to your question...you just want someone else to confirm it for you. Okay, so here it goes...this girl is not the faithful kind. Now how she can blame you is a mystery to me. But there is such a thing called transference. It's when you feel guilty for doing something and you blame the other person....

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Why do girls dislike me? I am cut like a statue of Jesus. I am nice as hell and I approach wimins all the time. Should I order a woman from Russia or Ethiopia? Oooh, honey. Have you seen how women in Russia age. If you want to end up with a woman that looks like Gorbachev in a babushka be my guest. Or on the other hand a starving Ethiopian? Neither are pretty pictures. Please keep your finely cut abs in this country. And procreate here. Do you have a picture of your fine self?

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Why is it that most women between 35-43 can't look like Courtney Cox? Maybe if they did they would not catch thier man out dipping his wick in a honey pot that wasn't their's Looking like Courtney Cox is certainly no guarantee that a guy will not cheat. I've been told frequently that I look like her. To no avail. Most men will cheat at some point on their partner's in their lifetime together. But things are even now since I slept with his best friend. What's good for the goose.......

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No matter what you do or say your s/o wont satisfy you in bed. YOur sexually fustrated all the time.. What are your options, would you cheat on them? I guess it depends on what your asking them to do. If it's something they find utterly repulsive no amount of talking is going to change things. Cheating isn't the answer. But leaving is. Spare your partner the trama. Are you sure another partner is the answer though. Maybe the satisfaction part is all in your head. And not really in their inability to satisfy you. I'm assuming...

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I live with my boyfriend and hes a barman that works late nights,,,my problem is i cant sleep untill hes home,have i a problem? Are you worried about anything in particular? For instance, that he's okay and he made it home. For this you can set an alarm to make sure he's home by a certain time and still get more sleep. Are you worried he's doing something he should be doing? What's your real concern?

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I got told that My GF's leaving NYC to move to me in Canada. How can I emotionally support her while she adjusts to living so far from family, and crazy NYC life, how do I turn an adolescent relationship into a successful adult relationship.(i'm lesbian) I'm a little confused by your question. Who told you that your GF is leaving NYC and moving to Canada? Did she tell you, herself? Is she actually moving in with you or close by? Seems as though you have a lot more to think about than just the emotional part of your relationship. Although...it nice that your concerned about the emotional aspects of your relationship.

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I like my house finances organised and budgeted on a regular basis, especially so I can plan for holidays etc. My partner shows no interest in this method and just hands me money when it suits him. Should I feel frustrated? I take it that you didn't discuss this before you moved in together. Finances should "always" be discussed prior to someone moving in. It's not going to be easy to discuss it after the fact but here's a few ideas. It's always easier to ask for a smaller amount of money each week than a huge lump sum. Sit down and figure out his portion of the bills. Break it down...

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I have a fiance of a year. We currently live together. I do love him, but lately I don't feel that passion anymore. More and more I'm beginning to wonder if I am settling and if I can live with that. I don't think I can. However, we have a lease together. This is a prime example of why living together does not work. There's no real commitment in your relationship. is there? No reason to try to rekindle the passion. After all, your not married. At some point the lease will expire. It wouldn't be fair to stick your fiance with the financial responsibility. Passion fades with all relationships unless you decide to work on it. No two...

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Do you feel that if a man and woman live together before marriage that you can tell how they will be when married? Statistics prove that if you live together the chances of making it to the altar are actually slim to none. How do you make a "sort of commitment" when living together into a life long commitment? The answer is you don't. There are no dress rehearsals for marriage. And ladies, this is a really bad idea especially for you. The old adage of "Why buy the cow, if the milk is...

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Once you have entered into a new relationship is it appropriate to display the deceased spouse's pictures, to include wedding, about the house? I suppose in some ways it would seem inconsiderate to a keep the pictures around. But then again, it's not like the spouse is going to be resurrected anytime soon. There's no competition. Unless you bring up how deliriously happy your life was together all the time. It would be probably be more appropriate to put at least some of the pictures in an album.

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What's the most important thing to a successful relationship? Trustworthiness. In my mind that means being able to trust your partner even when your not in their physical presence. Knowing that they act the same whether it's in front of you or when your not around. I know for instance that my boyfriend was asking (probably his ex, but maybe not) out when we were having some problems this past July. He also denies "chatting" with her. I was...

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The word 'paki' is seen as offensive. I get called a scot or a scoty.. and i'm sure you have short names from where you are from. So why are those words not offensive but this one word is? :S To tell the truth I had to guess that this word referred to a person from Pakistan. And I took it from your question that it was said to a person of that descent as an insult. On a day to day basis I don't refer to human beings in derogatory terms. It's not part of my speech. My children at one time or another have been called names. We lived in the South (U.S.)for thirteen years,...

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Is it possible to find a man who doesn't like porn? Yeah, there are actually men who like to have sex with real women. And not a film and their own hand. Amazing. They are actually better in bed too. Guys who watch porn are terrible in the sack. It's all about them. Really selfish individuals. They think porn is some kind of instructional video. What a joke! And then they wonder why their partner doesn't want to have sex with them....

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When my girlfriend finds out I was watching porn and sees the girls I was looking at she is hurt but then asks me to tell her what I liked about the girls I looked at. (women) would you ask the same and persist? (men) would you be willing to answer that? I think your girlfriend needs to replace you with a guy that thinks more of her than you obviously do of "pornobabe". Women live their lives always comparing themselves to other women. Sticking pornobabe in her face doesn't help anything. Your not too bright are you?

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My boyfriend would rather masturbate to porn instead of having sex with me. He says it's because he's gained weight and is too lazy to have sex when the out come is the same. What do I do? Leave him to "pornobabe" and find yourself another boyfriend. He's addicted to porn. Somethings in life are worth fighting for and others such as this situation are not. Get out before he sucks the live out of you. YOU DESERVE BETTER!

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Why is porn wrong? Because it objectifies woman. Turns them into a "thing to be had" instead of a human being. The majority of women (if not all) who are in the skin trade were molested as children. And what's really wrong with that is men who look at porn could care less about them. And the same men who look at porn are the same one's who in a minute will call a woman a slut or a whore. Seems...

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Is alcohol a healthy drink? Sure it is. Just listen to the medical community on about how good it is for your heart. Of course, if your liver, kidney's, brain etc. could talk they'd tell you hell no. On average as you get older 50,000 brain cells die every day. When you drink it's 1,000,000. It doesn't take a genius to figure out you've increased the rate of death to your brain cells many times...

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Should i trust my ex even though he dated one of my close friends a while ago and recentely called her but was honest about it and tells me that he only wants me? (we have been friends for 4 years and know eachother well) That would be a little strange to say the least that your ex dated a close friend. I think I'd be done at that point but, if you wanted to date him I'd take it very slow and wouldn't commit to anything. I'd still date other people too. You'll find out shortly if he's playing games with you. Then again sometimes moving on is a good thing. The fact that you asked the...

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Is internet chatting is cheating? I guess it would depend on what you're talking about. Is it sexual in nature? I guess if you would feel comfortable with your S/O looking over your shoulder at what your saying then probably not. If your S/O was doing the same type of chatting as you do, would you be okay with that? If you can't be open in your relationship and you have to "sneak" around be it chatting or...

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I would consider myself pretty but I'm definitely not the hot girl. I am 14&guys always call me fat & ugly. I flirted with this guy alot last year but that was probably the closest I've ever been to a guy. Do all guys at this age just care about looks? All guys always care about looks no matter what age they are. My boyfriend says that all men only look at women from the neck down. All guys can be jerks at one time or another. Sounds like you've come into contact with more than your fair share. I know it's hard to ignore guys who call you fat and ugly but give it a try. They are not worth your time. Years from now you probably...

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Do you think the Obama Administration should avoid publicly criticizing opponents like Fox News and Rush Limbaugh? If the Obama Administration attacks anyone it draws attention to the fact that all the other news media may somehow be in his "pocket" so to speak. There's an old saying that if you can't stand the heat stay out of the kitchen. That applies to Obama and other's like him. Any time you are in the public eye your going to get grief. It's a given. And if your policies...

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My h doesn't accept he has a porn addiction. He has viewed webcam porn as many as 50 women in one month. He's texted different women from chat rooms and masturbated to them. Now he downloaded a strip itune video on his iphone. When does it stop? As long as your husband doesn't accept that he has a problem he's not going to change. Not today, not tomorrow, not ever. Are you basing what you are going to do in your life waiting for him to change? It's difficult when your caught in the middle of a situation. My advice is to just leave and move on with your own life. You will be much happier for it. So, now what are you...

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Are men that shallow & perverted as we put them out to be? I am 14 and I always hear guys judging girls on their looks and telling perverted jokes. Is this because of their age or is that how they are? Yep, sorry to say you are learning this so young. Not all men are like this but finding one's that aren't are definitely a challenge. It isn't an age thing. Most men grow up in homes where respect for women is non-existent. Always get to know a guys family, then you will know what you are dealing with. If the father in a home has no respect for his wife or women in general then...

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If you told your husband that he had an inappropriate relationship with a female friend and ask he stop all communication and he swears he has but then he wishes her a Happy Birthday via e-mail what would you do. I know that this question is from March of this year. Hope everything is going okay for you. If your husband has continued to do this I have a solution for you. Start having male friends call your house and walk into another room each time they call. Do it..til it hurts. When he complains tell him you asked him to stop communicating with this woman and he hasn't. All bets are off when...

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I've been engaged for 18 months. I'm a white American (he knows Im Atheist but I don't mind pretending I'm Christian), he's a Muslim Pakistani. He still hasn't told his family that I even exist. We are in love, but should I put an expiration date on this? So, you have to pretend to be something your not? And he hasn't even told his family about you? Oooo. Both very bad signs. In my opinion these two things are the expiration date.

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Am black and my boyfriend is Indian. he loved me 1st and asked me to marry him. i took sometime and thought about it and eventually got to know him better and now i really love him and want to marry him but his family wont accept me beacuse am black. help Even though you won't be marrying his family...you kind of do. Don't let anyone fool you on this. Some things you might want to keep in mind. How would you feel if his family "never" accepts any children you might have? Never includes you in any family celebrations? Love does not conquer all. Also it's not fun to feel like an outsider all the time. I'm white and I...

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My officemate's phone has a loud, annoying ringtone that's gone off 15 times in the last 10 minutes, but nobody's complaining. How do I get him to stop without calling attention to myself? Make yours even louder and more annoying. When your officemate says something...say that their phone also annoys you. And you will agree to tone it down if they will.

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How can I get my girlfriend to not be insecure. She thinks I am going to cheat on her or leave her. Its odd because I asked her to marry me and she paused... then said yes. How can I get her to relax? Guys can make women feel insecure because of their own actions. If your head spins around like Linda Blair in the "Exocist" when another girl walks by, that's not good. If you aren't putting her first and your "friends" with every ex you've ever had...again not good. If you act secretive about phone calls and being on the computer, well... For some reason...

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NEED QUICK ANSWER: my gf is enough rich but i m not n wants to marry me. but i cant give her everything coze i m not rich. how to break up with her???. You want to break up with your "rich" girlfriend? Because she's pressuring you to get married?

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What makes humans better than animals?(And don't say we where made in Gods image because i don't believe in any god.) When is the last time an animal thought about making sure you had something to eat? Or brought you in from the cold? Would you let a person of less intelligence...(let alone an animal) tell you what to do? Animals don't put us on the endangered list. In fact as far as I know they don't make lists.LOL. Shouldn't species of more intelligence have dominion over species that have...

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Why is evolution better than creationism? It's not. Darwin pointed out the problems with his own theory. Why don't we find any intermediate species between the ape and mankind. There isn't any in the fossil record. That's peculiar to say the least. Maybe there isn't a missing link. Actually there should be many missing links. But there is no evidence. And the one's that science says they have (had) have...

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What makes the Seventh Day Adventist Church, Mormons, and Jehovah Witness a cult more than other christian groups? American Heritage Dictionary NOUN: 1. A religion or religious sect generally considered to be extremist or false, with its followers often living in an unconventional manner under the guidance of an authoritarian, charismatic leader. 2. The followers of such a religion or sect. 2. A system or community of religious worship and ritual. 3. The formal...

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Who is the last prophet of god? Her name was Ellen G. White. She wrote the book "Desire of Ages". One of the finest books ever written on the life of Christ.

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So here I am again doing other peoples work. I'm told it's because I'm realiable and they know I'll get it right. Should I just be flattered and wait for my hard work to pay off, or should I put an end to this? Are you being compensated for doing more than your fair share. I've been there and done that and it never worked out well for me. In addition it made others look better, more competent than they actually were. If possible I'd get out now unless your being paid well to do your job.

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I am in love with a narcissist. What do I do? You may love the narcissist but they are so in love with themselves...do you think there will ever be any room for you. Doubt it. Three's a crowd. No, I'm wrong... .with a narcissist two's a crowd.

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My bf and I are very sexual, and do role play etc. He knows I was sexually abused by my "dad" and he tried to do this same role play. I got totally upset and it turned him on more, he say's I need to do this to confront this & to heal. Is this healthy? To answer your question, no it's not healthy. This is a very dangerous game to play from an emotional standpoint. Have you ever considered counseling? I had a friend who had been sexually abused by her father from about five years old. She eventually moved out of state. She was a different person. She was so much happier not dealing with her family. You need someone to talk to...

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How can I tell my husband that I want a divorce? He is an alchoholic with a bad temper and I'm scared to make him angry! Do you have any place else to stay? Has your husband been physically abusive to you? If he has...you need to be in a safe place first. But I'd still consult a lawyer in the meantime. The first couple of weeks after a breakup are the most dangerous for a woman. But do not let this keep you from doing what you need to do. And that is to get out of a bad situation. Good luck.

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I made my husband move out the house, now he wants to take everything, claiming since he bought it, then it is his to take. He bought me a computer as a christmas present, Should I let him take the computer? I guess I would like to ask, how do you "make" someone move out of their house? It's time to get a lawyer. One thing you have to remember though is...the more you fight over the more it's going to cost you in the long run. Can you afford to replace the computer? Even if you can't, most local libraries have computer's that you can use. I'm not sure that you are...

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How come so many minors who know as much about sex as a chimp knows about playing poker end up in the "Adult" section asking about sex tips? Are the monitors sleep at the switch? It's a sign of the times. We live in a sex obsessed society. I think what has really hurt society is the fact that no one is at home with the children anymore. Everyone's out trying to make a buck and keep up with the Jones. Children can't have a frank discussion with their own mother or father about sex. Parent's need to start when their children are young teaching their...

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How fat do you believe this gal is? Do she need a diet of some type? Anyone who would think any of the girls depicted are fat needs his eyes examined. It's a shame men in this country have such a fixation on Olive Oyl.

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Which classic would you choose: Logan's Run, or Blade Runner? Loved Logan's Run. It's one of my favorites. Another all time favorite was "The Day the Earth Stood Still. I was terrified of the robot when I was a kid but I loved the movie anyway.Still do.

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Would you feel like a fool if you found out that your husband of 11 years had a profile on a dating sight? I'd put mine on there too. With a different picture, of course. Lead him on. Then meet him with divorce paper's in hand.

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Is it cheating if a married man has lunch with another woman? (He can't mention it to his wife because she will over-react and make untrue assumptions) Emotionally, yes. They have the commitment to each other to be honest and truthful. When you lie for any reason your not honoring your commitment to each other. What ever happened to forsaking all others. Isn't it a part of the marriage vows anymore? How would he feel if she did the same thing to him and had "dates" with other men and she didn't tell him. What's good...

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Would you consider your significant other looking at porn behind your back cheating? I think I would tell them it's okay if they emotionally cheat if I can physically cheat. I think that's totally fair.

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Would you consider your significant other looking at porn behind your back cheating? Your body reacts physically the same as if you are with another person when you are looking at porn, right? What if your partner thought it was cheating and felt that because you were cheating emotionally they could cheat in the physical sense? And they called it even? I think that would be fair.

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What would you do if you caught your partner cheating on your bed? I'd kill him and then call my lawyer. Then the police. I'd claim insanity, of course.

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What would you do if you were married and someone came up to you talking about ive been with your partner for a year already Before or after I killed them. LOL. Just kidding. I'd be doing some investigating. Then I would take them for as much as I possibly could financially. They'd suffer in other ways too. I'd make damn sure of that.

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Would you ever like to be a private investigator for a living like Joey Greco who goes around catching cheating spouses? I would love to. Seems like it would be a lot of fun catching cheaters.

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My husband is away fromme now and I can only talk 2him 10min. a day.. if im lucky or through letters. Its been a year already and hes always acusing me of cheating... it really hurts. I told him it was over because I can't take it any more. did i do wrong There is such a thing called transference. This can happen when a person feels guilty about cheating themselves and accuses their partner of cheating. Where is he that he is away from you and you have very little communication? If you don't mind me asking.

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Can you be unfaithful if you're not married? Don't you need to be married to commit adultery? Unfaithful is the act of not being faithful. If you said that you would be "exclusive" to each other sexually and then you weren't.....you would be considered a cheater and unfaithful in your exclusiveness. I do believe the word adultery is the word used only if you are married.

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If i am legally married can my husband put me out of his apartment. especially when he knows i had an eviction prior to our marriage and it is hard fro me to obtain an apart. If your name is on the lease he can't just put you out. Even if your name is not on the lease I don't believe he can just kick you out. You need to consult a lawyer.

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I found hornybook.com account for my husband he said that was long time ago, i found msg (flirts) on may 2 2009 and may 3 09, if he wasnt active on this account for years how come he get flirts and why not any time before that why only in may.. help plz I've got a better suggestion. Put a program on your home computer such as Web Master or Spector Pro. These are programs that will tell you exactly what he's looking at. Or, at least that's what I've heard. Then there will be no doubt about what your husband is, or is not up to. It's the only way to be absolutely sure. It's perfectly legal to do this. If you find...

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My partner cheated on her with me then cheated on me with a co worker for 10 months during our 3 yr relationship , now he is crying and wants me to give him another chance. I'm hurt bad, What do you think i should do? In my book...it seems like you got what you deserve. Now you know how it feels to be cheated on.

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My husband has sent pictures of his penis to women online. His excuse was he did that only to get naked pics of women so he could masturbate. I think husband has porn addiction. He is distant and we rarely have sex. He refuses it's a problem. If you are rarely having sex yet he is exchanging pictures with other women he's a porn addict. That's one of the signs. Your going to have to make some tough decisions. He's in denial if he says he doesn't have a problem. If you can afford it get counseling for yourself...first of all. This will help you to deal with the situation, or help give you the courage to leave the...

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My wife is a real sweet girl but she has no interest in sex from any angle, not even simple lip-lip kiss. what do I do? buying sex is expensive, extra-marital could destroy my marriage...anything else? Well, first of all you have to be honest with her and tell her you need this to be happy in your relationship with her. Tell her you don't want to cheat on her in any way and that you love her.I would say all this in neutral territory outside your house. I admit that I think she's being unrealistic if she expects to not give you sex and that you won't look elsewhere. On the other...

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Women,you walk into your house and you see your husband/boyfriend with another woman topless and he s*cking her nipples,what do you do? Take a gun and blow both their brains out. Then call my lawyer first and the police second. Of course I wouldn't really do this. Well, maybe. LOL.

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Im taking my gf to homecoming, but her bff doesnt have a date, and sheexpects to dance with her as much as with me. they are both bi and have had sexbefore. my gf is exclusive 2 me, but is it right for me to be jealous and not want to share my date? My first thought is for you to find a straight girlfriend. I think your perfectly in your right mind to be jealous and not okay with this arrangement. If it was her ex-boyfriend that had sex with her and he wanted to tag along that wouldn't be okay would it? This isn't any different. Are you sure that your GF is exclusive to you? Really? Because I doubt it.

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Do you or have you ever checked out someone crimmal record before dating them? I haven't personally. I know of people who do. But I have checked out "don't date him girl". It's wise these days to check out everyone before you date them if you can. Most criminals get released at some point. Even murderer's. At least according to the Detroit Free Press.

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How do I ask him out? You can drop a subtle hint like you wanted to go see a movie but you don't like to go by yourself. And ask if he'd like to come. Then after that I wouldn't ask anymore and wait for him to ask you out. And only do this if you think he's too shy to ask because guy's like to be the one doing the asking. It's always been that way and will always be that way.

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Is it wrong to kiss on the first date? If there's a difference between just meeting someone and then a date after that it's okay. But upon first meeting someone? Why is everyone so casual about swapping spit with someone they don't really know? There have been more guys that I dated that I didn't feel comfortable with on first meeting them but they always wanted a kiss. A kiss is a very intimate to me. And...

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I'm about to propose to my girlfriend but I can't afford a diamond. Will she be disappointed if I propose without a diamond ring? If your girlfriend is worth having she will understand. I think I would say it like this: I love you with all heart and soul and I want you to be my wife forever and always. Tell her the truth that if you could afford it...you would buy her the hope diamond because she's worth it. I'm not sure if you realize that you can buy a ring on a payment plan. You could also check that out. But...

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I want an open marriage, my husband doesnt. He cheats quite often, but doesnt want to tend to my sexual needs. Any suggestions? LadyShakespear...What exactly is really an open marriage? Apparently you do have one. Or at least your husband does. What is good for the goose is usually good for the gander, you know. Being passive never works with a man. You do realize he's too busy doing his "thing" to take care of "your thing". He's a selfish person. I take it your okay with his...

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Why are teens better at driving than adults? Says who? I think statistics prove quite the opposite. Teens and seniors are the most dangerous driver's on the road. In fact a young girl I work with just got into an accident the other day. She fell asleep at the wheel and ran into a semi-truck. She's okay...thank God.

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Do you believe there is One God? Or there are more? What I now know is really beyond just a belief and faith. I KNOW there is a God. Actually three entities in one...The Heavenly Father, Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit. They are all of one mindset. They cooperate completely with one another. Did you know...1 John 5:7 says For there are three that bear record in heaven, the Father, the Word (Jesus Christ), and the Holy Ghost: and these three...

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My boyfriend seems to take me for granted. I make time free during the week but the weekends are always for his mates, not for me. I'm the one asking to date lately and i'm wondering if i should stop being available and wait for him to ask me out now? x And the solution is....I would also be making other plans midweek as well as the weekend. Men (and women) can be totally inconsiderate. Here's a tip...men hate to have someone chasing them. They like to be the hunter's. Are you giving him the opportunity to be the hunter? Someone can't take you for granted unless your giving them the ability to do so.

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OK ... someone tell me how to tell if a co-worker is just a flirt or more than that? Well, does the co-worker flirt with everyone all the time. Or, just on occasion with particular people?

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Is exchanging romantic/sexual emails with someone long distance considered cheating? (even though nothing will probably come of it) If the partner doing the emailing tells the other partner right off the bat, is it still wrong? Just because you aren't cheating in the physical sense doesn't mean you aren't cheating on an emotional level. The body/mind still respond in the same way. That's why Jesus said to look on a woman and to lust after her you've committed adultery in your heart (mind). Any time you give your emotional and real energy (time) to another person in place of your SO your taking...

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What did you dream about last night? Several things. I was dreaming that I got a divorce from my husband (I've been divorced from him for about seven years) and then I was in the shower and I looked down and I was married again and wearing the wedding band I actually do still have. The other part of my dream I noticed all these beads strung between two tree's. I reached up to grab them and it whisked me up into the air...

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Everyone always talks about discrimination of gender, race, or sexual preference. But how do you feel about discrimination of weight? being skinny? Being fat? I am on the heavy side myself. It seems to be a form of discrimination that's acceptable, even in 2009. Two people (management) have made comments "assuming" I want to lose weight (the job is very physical). Whether I do or not is my business. We also have an extremely thin girl that started just recently. Although I have noticed...I haven't said anything about her to anyone...

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In your opinion, How common is your first name? (not your AB username) My name is the eighth most common name for women in the U.S. There are 972,650 who have the same name. But I am unique in other ways, of course. LOL.

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In your opinion, How common is your first name? (not your AB username) For my age bracket it's in the top ten. My middle name too.

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Blondie & Dagwood Bumstead now sleep together in the same double bed, but when the comic strip series began, they slept in separate twin beds, with a nightstand between them. In what year were they first shown, sleeping in the same bed? I didn't find out the answer. Okay, I admit I didn't look. I wasn't aware that they originally slept in twin beds in the comic strip. I've read that comic strip for years.

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Can you imagine Pres. Obama uttering this statement [linked] that is being attributed to him? I would love to see him say that. That is sooo funny! Mensan...you slay me with your humor.

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As far as the "WORST SONG EVER" goes, would ya'll agree that the attached one probably qualifies for that title? (I've not heard anything worse...) What I would like to know is....where do you come up with all this stuff? The song was so terrible I couldn't listen to all of it but I did kind of laugh at one part. I think teenagers would probably find this hilarious. Especially boys.

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I have a fiance of a year. We currently live together. I do love him, but lately I don't feel that passion anymore. More and more I'm beginning to wonder if I am settling and if I can live with that. I don't think I can. However, we have a lease together. It can be a drudgery living with someone on a day to day basis if you don't liven it up a bit. That can take some creativity. It's no different no matter who you are with. Relationships take work. I always thought that if two people were really compatible that was all that was needed for things to work out. Not so. Try seeing if changing things up a little helps. If it doesn't...

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Wat would u do if every time u told ur man or gurl something like say u wanted to do ur hair an make and get dressed up wat u u do if all he ever does is say who u trying to look good for then start an arguement and then accuse u of cheating Well, I would either say that I was trying to look good for myself. Or, I would say I was trying to look nice for them and give them a kiss. Which would be a good way to handle it. There is a term for people who accuse you of cheating when they are cheating, it's called transference. They transfer their feelings of guilt onto you. That's one explanation. The person could just be...

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Ben Smith alleges that The President is a ROBOT. Click the link below this question and view the video he uses to illustrate his point. Is he right about the POTUS? Boy, that's very strange to say the least. I read a few of the comments too. One is that Obama is a one-term president which I also believe.

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Can married men just flirt without wanting sex? There is this married man who has been flirting with me for about a year and half, and has shown me that he cares about me,but has not has not taken any furher,and to this day is still flirting with me. The only reason it's hasn't gone any farther is because "you" haven't allowed it. Not because he wouldn't want it to happen. But should you ever call his bluff..I'll bet he would go for it. Care to test my theory? Actually...it's best to leave it alone. Married men are the worst. A married man that is flirting with you "is" thinking about sex....

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My boyfriend wants me to get on birth control but I'm against it, and he doesn't want to use a condom. I say no sex til we figure it out, but he's threatening to get with someone else. Is he bluffing or could he cheat? Stand your ground. If this guy is worth anything he will not pressure you into doing something against your will. Let me spell it out for you. Your boyfriend's a jerk. And apparently only wants one thing, well two. One is to control you. The other is your relationship on his terms. Your feelings and opinions don't matter.

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I've been dating this girl for 2 months and I went to go see a movie with my ex and her family just as friends. I didn't tell my girlfriend, but she found out and thinks I was cheating even though nothing happened. Is she overreacting? I think she should be more than mad. I think she should dump your deceitful a**. You didn't tell her for a reason and that reason is that your a piece of sh*t for a boyfriend. And you know it.

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Have you seen this revolutionary cell phone? I can hardly wait to get one! It does almost everything! Do you know where it can be ordered? [See the embedded video, or click the link below this question, to learn more about it.] It's AMAZING!!!!! You find the funniest stuff. If there were such a cell phone it would be impossible to carry it, right?

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What is the main cause of women to become frigid? I've never been frigid but I would have to think it has to do with a man being inexperienced in bed. If a woman isn't satisfied she may think this is all to sex. And therefore taking that attitude she'll become frigid.

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Do you think if it's meant to be it will be without forcing it? Definitely. Life does have purpose. Some things are a learning experience. Sometimes you meet good people, sometimes you don't. If it's a relationship...that definitely can't be forced.

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If I say the word "Virgin", what is the first thing that comes to mind? Madonna, of course. Only the song though...like a virgin. Bet she can't remember her those days.

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What do YOU consider to be the perfect vacation spot? I haven't been that many places but...my favorite spot is in the Great Smoky Mountains. It's a place called Cades Cove. There are old log cabins, a mill, churches with graveyards. It's actually in a valley. An absolutely beautiful and peaceful place to visit. My in-laws used to live just outside the park. There are lots of places to visit in the area.

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I know a gal who would LOVE to wear the T-shirt shown in the link below this question. Do you know an online company that sells this exact one, so I can buy it for her? Do you also know where I can find the woman modeling it? (I think I'm in love!) I can't believe you found my picture. And your in love with me, too?

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If i sleep with 3 different guys in two weeks, does that make me a slut? I never felt like a slut no matter how many guys I slept with in any period of time. You do what you want to do. As long as you have the guy wear protection. It would be smart to know guys for more than say...a few hours. LOL. There are some real freaks out there. You know scary people, doing some scary things. For women though...if you have had sexual experiences at a young age your more...

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So i like this guy and we kinda talked and i asked him to be friends and then he said i creep him out and am stalker-ish. and then i left him alone for a month and hes all nice. WHAT DU U THINK???? is he over it or wat? ANSWER PLZZZ! r we still friends?=[ This is what happened...he thought you were stalker-ish. You left him alone for a month and he found out that wasn't true. Keep doing what you've been doing for the last month. And leave him alone. You can't catch a butterfly by chasing it and you can't catch a guy the same way either.

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Are relationships becoming just a joke? I've noticed that more women have responded to this question. And except for one guy that mentioned his wife made a mockery of his marriage, I've yet to read the word "commitment" from any man. I've read that most men aren't interested in relationships.Seems to me "some" (all?) men think they deserve eighteen year old super model's. And they live...

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I broke up with my boyfriend who cheated on me but I am so miserable without him. Months now, we still comunicate. Any advice? It's normal to second guess your decision to break up with your boyfriend. But the truth is you did it for a good reason. And every woman on the planet would agree with you for doing so. The key to getting over him is this: every time you have feelings that you miss him remind yourself of the hurt he caused you by cheating on you. Not to mention the fact that he could have given you an...

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You are about to give a loved one a very special gift....something he/she has dreamed of having for a long time. Do you just simply give the gift or do you set up an elaborate, fancy occasion and make the presentation something spectacular? I guess if it were me, I'd like the all out variety of the elaborate occasion. Especially if the gift is for a woman. Presentation is everything. I once told a guy who was going to give his wife a gift (a gun) to put it in a box and wrapped it nicely. Adding a cute key chain for the lock. Screwball...put it in a Victoria's Secret box and the woman thought she was getting lingerie, of...

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Shouldn't AB have a "GIFT SHOPPE," where ABers could redeem some of their earned points for gift items, such as coffee mugs, T-Shirts, bumper stickers and other AB LOGO items? What's the "point" of having them, if you can't use them to trade for things? Love your idea. Absolutely. I'm hooked on this site too. Like you commented...on another person's answer, it would be advertising for AB. After all, there are sponsors on this site and they're making money....no doubt, so why not. It would also be additional advertising and that would be a smart thing to do in my opinion. I think you could call that a win-win situation.

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Of all the photos available of baby animals anywhere on the Internet, wouldn't ya'll agree that THIS photo HAS to be, "the cutest of the cute?" [See the photo link, directly beneath this question, then say "Awwwwwwww!"] Definitely, awwwww inspiring. Who knew you were such a mushy person (in a good way , of course), Mensan. Sweet picture.

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Do you find racial jokes to be funny? Good jokes probably have a little bit of truth in them and that's what makes them funny. They are part of the human condition and that's why they make us laugh. I guess it really depends on the joke if it's funny or not. Some racial jokes I do find offensive. My son who's bi-racial told me this one...it's kind of corny. Why are black basketball player's so tall?...

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My neighbor is married and she keeps throwing herself at me. Her husband is never home I quess he works a lot. I'm 25 and single she is about 40. She is very aggresive about a week ago she grabed my u know what. I really don't wanna get shot. Help? What I would like to know is...how did she get close enough to grab your "you know what"? This would definitely be a dangerous game to play. Think about it this way....how would you like to be her husband.... busting your a** working and coming home to find your wife in bed with some guy? Do you think he would take it "kindly"? Personally, I think you would deserve what you...

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Why do young girls want relationships with older men? I have had 3 young ladies express wanting to have sex. I am flattered by this but do to age differences did not pursue it and politely told them for this reason I couldn't pursue this relationship. When I see a much younger woman with an older man...I always think they're looking for "daddy". Or, very interested in his wallet. More importantly, what's inside it. Some girls at a young age know that what a man is interested in...is between her legs and she will take full advantage of that. I would have been sickened at the very idea of an "old" man when I was...

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I am in my early 20's. I've been married 4 years. My husband was physically abusive for the first 3 years of our relationship. He isn't anymore, but he's generally an unpleasant person. He won't let me work in a public place or go to school. He won't let Your husband doesn't have to physically abuse you anymore. You are under his complete control. If you are waiting for him to change...It's not going to happen. It's a fantasy world. Actually, you can look forward to years and years of this same kind of treatment. When you decide you've had enough....this is what you are going to have to do: leave and never look back. Ever....

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My husband as been texting this woman ever day and he changed is info on facebook to say he did not no how much longer he be married could he be cheating he say they r friends .then why can,t i read there text messages and im,s on facebook Did you know...it's perfectly legal to put a keylogger on your computer if your married. One of the top ones is supposed to be webwatcher. Google it. It will track all the communication and give you his passwords to his email accounts and his facebook account. Call the phone company and see if you can get a copy of the text messages. "If" you find out there is something going on...

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Have you ever been in such a terrible mood that all you want to do is lie in bed all day and remove yourself from the world? Is it better to take a mental health day every so often or should you get up and try and push yourself into a good mood? Yes. I think it's absolutely vital to take a day off from the world. Everyone needs time to recuperate. Why push yourself to be cheerful when what you need is rest. Mentally and physically. Did you know the Bible speaks of a day of rest? It's called the Sabbath. And it's from sundown Friday evening to Saturday at sundown. The Bible also states that there is no work to be done on...

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Me& my x had been 2gether 4 about 8mons but we had been on & off almost 3yrs wel we broke up & not even a wk later he was wit sum1 i found out she was 10wks pregnant. i was so hurt & stil am even though its been over 2mons. what should i do? Think of it this way...even if he were to get back with you, this might be his baby. I really doubt you would want that much drama in your life. You will eventually get over this. And when you look back your going to think, "THANK GOD", I'm out of that situation. You deserve so much better. The only thing is that you need to convince yourself of that. It does take time to get...

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Is it right to check my ex's myspace and facebook profile, its only been a month since he broke it off. i dont know what to do please help? I am going to tell you some good news and that is....you will get over this...I promise. It takes about twelve weeks approximately. It could be slightly longer if you've been together longer that a year, possibly. But your hurting your own progress. So, first of all do not look at his myspace and facebook profiles. The next is to get busy with your own life. Were there friends that you...

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After break-up the other person wants to be friends, but I need some time and haven't replied yet after two weeks because I need to think about myself first and it would hurt to be in touch as of yet. On the other hand am scared to lose him. What do I do? I'd like to answer your question. But I have one of my own...who broke off the relationship?

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I like her but I just can't marry her because of her race. Do you think I'm racist? To begin with you should probably love her and not just like her. I guess if you loved someone you wouldn't care about race. What's the real issue behind why you can't marry her?

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You've probably loaned things to people and never got them back...they move or loan it to someone else or "lose" it. Have you ever said "no" to someone who asked to borrow something? Of course. And it's a persons right to not let someone borrow something. I have a nice jewelry collection. What I do instead is to tell the person where I get my jewelry then they can buy their own. I hate it when I don't get my stuff back.

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When people say to you "have a good day" do you believe they are sincere or are you convinced they don't mean a word of it? This is almost in the same category as, "How are you?" No, one really expects you to go on and on how things are going for you. Have a good day can be a little nicer though. Unless, you hear someone saying it over and over again.

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Friend of mine was going to perform for me via webcam. I'm only 16 and she is 14. I got nervous of the government finding out and putting me in jail so as much as I hated too, I called it off. And what is the probability that the Government will find out? Smart guy. Your 14 year old "friend" has issues. What would you do if instead of the government finding out her parents and your parents, found out?

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Why are women advised to play hard to get when so many men are afraid of rejection? No man wants a woman that nobody else wants. Or is easily had. What this means is no sitting by the phone waiting for his call. If your friends want to go out...no staying home and waiting hoping he'll call. This isn't rejection. Its smart. And it works. Have you ever noticed that when a woman is seeing someone then other guys are more interested. The reason is: she doesn't look...

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How can I ask a man to open the car door for me? I really like it, it makes me feel taken care of. Every man I've dated in the last 5 years has done this for me but I don't want to seem like a spoiled brat! Please help. :) I think you should just tell a guy, if he doesn't automatically do it. The way to ask is, It makes me feel special when someone opens the car door for me. Then when he does it, remember to thank him. If he does it automatically then you can say, You know, you make me feel really special when you open the car door for me, thank you. People who are appreciated will continue to do what you...

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I catch my boyfriend visiting a dating site and looking at 100 different woman! he even download a picture with the intention to upload it in the site. he promised he never contacted any woman and that he was just curious. I'm confuse. Any advice? It would be one thing to catch a guy looking at porn and women that are basically unattainable. But he's looking at women that he can meet and date. No one looks at a dating site because they're curious. If that were true why would he also be downloading a picture to upload it on the site. He's lying to you. My advice: Lose the loser.

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Ok so my girlfriend told me that she gets more pleasure from me using my fingers then when we have sex. Said its cause im to big and using my fingers hits the right spot. Never in a million years would have thought i would hear that.Anybody else told this About 70% of women DO NOT have an orgasm from penetration. It's all about the clit and the g-spot. Of course there are "other" spots too.

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Do you like to see very elderly couples holding hands and obviously still in love? One of the joys of life is seeing elderly couples holding hands. I think it's wonderful when two people are still with each other after many years. That's true love.

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Besides love, what is the most important thing in a relationship? A good sense of humor, good sex, and a willingness to work things out.

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My Fiancee has an ex boyfriend who is trying to steal her from me. they dated 3 years ago and they both broke up on bad terms. now he is back and trying to take my fiancee away from me, what can i do so this doesnt happen? Hanky, it might help if I knew what the ex is doing specifically to try to steal her from you. Then, I can give you a better answer. Hang in there.

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Why izzit that Lois Lane was never able to figure out that the only difference at all, between Clark Kent and Superman, was a pair of eyeglasses? I mean, is he all that good about hiding his identity from her, or does she have an IQ of 17? The real reason is this...women don't pay much attention to nerds. They look no farther than the flannel shirt, the thick glasses, the pocket protector, or the whatever. Yeah, in some cases women are shallow too. Women want a hunk not a nerd. True story...I worked for Builder's Square in 93'. There were two guys. Guy #1 had the nice haircut, the tattoo's, and I thought he...

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My boyfriend made me have anal sex when I didn't want to do that. I dont really care because we have sex so much all the time and I loved him a while now. I dont feel attacked like if a stranger did this and took something from me. Is this still rape? When someone forces you to do have anal sex against your will it's rape. You may love him, but I don't think he loves you or respects you.

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If you start having sex, but then ask the guy to stop and he doesn't is that still rape? I'm a woman and I think it would be cruel to ask a guy to stop f**king me just after we got started. Shouldn't you have said no prior to having sex? Why did you ask the guy to stop?

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What do you do if you care for someone you meet online more than the person your dating? The person you are talking to online is part fantasy. You have imagined all sorts of things about them that may or may not be true. So, what happens if you meet this person and they turn out to be nothing like what you thought. And in the process you lose the person you are dating? Would the person you are dating in that case be worth losing?

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What would U do if U found UR significant other looking at a picture from his past? Explanation... his wife is dead, we live together N he was deleting old pictures, but I am pretty sure he has seen this 1 over N over again! What am I doing? Drinking! I think this is one time you can look at something in a positive light. Your SO loved someone at least once in his life. This guy was deleting pictures from his past? He wants to move on with his life. Your the one in his life now. Must mean he wants to move on with you. This one sounds like a keeper. Have you ever missed someone that died? Let him have his memories. Knock off the drinking....

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My boyfreind of almost 2 years still lives with his ex from 15 years ago (a 2 year relationship). I trust it is plutonic. He doesn't want to live with me, although he is more often with me. Do I accept this or break up? The entire time this guy has been your boyfriend he has lived with his ex? Does the ex know that he's seeing you? Why doesn't he want to live with you? I personally would not be able to deal with this kind of arrangement. It's probably one of the craziest things Ive ever heard of. I think the guy just has his cake and is eating it too.

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My cat is swaying and staggering, but showing no signs of poisoning. Almost as if she had a stroke or head trauma, with no signs of injury, either. Just happened. She was outside, maybe 10 minutes. What could it be? How is your cat doing?

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Is it cheating to have conversation and coffee with a friend that you had a brief relationship with. My boyfriend broke up with me because I met this man for coffee and lied about it because he is so extremely jealous. There's nothing to be said about knowing that something bother's someone and you do it anyway? Mean and spiteful, huh? It's as though you said a big "Fu** you to what you think!" You deserved what you got.

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Does a drunk ever say anything he/she doesn't mean or does the drunk always say what was meant? I've heard that a drunk says only what they've thought out beforehand. Drunken lips sink ships. LOL.

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I just got a job a privately owned pet store. The othere employees are kids (20-23) & they have me doing all the hard work. How should I handle it? The owner is a bitch & she plays favorites. Your in a "no-win" situation. Keep this job temporarily while looking for another.

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What to do when it seems your boss dislikes you? Find another job.

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In three words describe your boss. He was a former boss. "The Demon Seed"

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My job fired me and then refuseed2give me a seperation letter unless I give them a resign letter....but I didnt quit.So now Im going2have2 force them in2 giving me a seperation letter and im sure they are not going 2 put on there that I was fired.? I was fired from a job. I put in for unemployment. I also put in a letter stating some of the things that were going on at the job. I got the unemployment. In fact on the bottom of the letter that stated I was going to get unemployment they couldn't find a reason behind the firing. My boss was interested in a woman that he had recently hired and she was instrumental in getting me fired. In...

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Was Ted Kennedy a hero or a thug....why? A thug. Who else gets off when they kill a woman? Did you know that Mary Jo Kopechne lived for two hours in an air bubble in a car on the bottom of the lake while Senator Kennedy worried about what was going to happen to "him"? Years later his favorite topic to joke about according to Ed Kline of New York's Times Magazine was Chappaquiddick. If you want to read about it and...

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Have you ever went on a nature walk in the Mountains? Yes and it was the last time I went for a walk in the mountains. My in-laws used to live on the edge of the Smoky Mountains. My husband (now, my ex) told me about this water fall that was on the other side of a creek. The first time he talked me into going there I saw a dead copperhead on a rock. I turned around and went back to the car. About a year later he talked me into going back. Big...

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Should I let him go? See link, question is also at yahoo Wow, from my point of view things don't look good. It would probably be best to end the relationship in my opinion. You deserve better. And you won't find it as long as your with this guy. I would tell him all the reason's that your leaving though. Then leave.

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If someone cheats on you, do you give them a second chance or drop them just as they are. I decided to post twice. I used to be a cheater so I know what I'm talking about. Once you cheat on a person it becomes easier to cheat. Your conscience stops bothering you pretty soon after you are in that mode of thinking. The guilt of the cheating goes away. You might even think that the person getting cheated on "deserves it" somehow. It's really just an excuse. I have...

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If someone cheats on you, do you give them a second chance or drop them just as they are. Cheating is selfish. It means that a person's own desires are above anything they feel for their partner. Lying goes along with cheating. To forgive cheating and lying is a tall order. On top of that do you trust the person after the fact? Then there is the hurt you feel having been cheated on? Is it worth staying with the person who cheated? It would probably be better to be with a person...

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My wife is texting all the time with a guy that she works with. Last month alone they text each other over 3500 times. She wants to spent time at his place one a week alone. She says that nothing is going on between them. Is she cheating on me? It would seem that any women who is texting another guy that much would have to be neglecting her husband. Seems like she's calling the shots. Your wife is not acting like she's married. Even is nothing is going on at this point...how long do you think it would be before that happens? My thoughts are that she is cheating on you. If not physically then, emotionally.

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What colour nail varnish would suit very pale skin? The best way to judge this is to hold the bottle of nail varnish over your hand. Red can be beautiful against very pale skin. Pale colors are nice too... peaches and pinks.

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Does excessive perkiness annoy you? Only when I'm in an unperky mood myself. Yeah, then it tends to annoy me.

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Do you think the voting age should be 50 or older? this would restrict voting to people that have experience with issues and not just opinions... Twenty-one would be better than eighteen. Fifty or older probably not. I like a mix of ages.

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It's been over 6 months, and my fortune, which read, "An unexpected windfall will be yours," has not come true. Can I sue the fortune cookie company for something? (They LIED to me, as far as I am concerned.) What and the windfall isn't in the love department? Or, in the friends department? I suddenly have a taste for Chinese food, hmmm....how'd that happen?

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I think my friends girlfriend is up to no good, should I tell him? If you can stand to be in the middle of a bad situation. He might possibly side with her and then you would be out a friend. If something's up he'll eventually find out. It usually doesn't end up well for the person telling.

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Is it bad to live together before marriage? Statistically speaking....YES!

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If a man moves into his GF house to live permanently, and she has paid off the entire mortgage, should he pay rent, or money for the privilege of living in the house? He should be paying half the utilities, cable, phone, and food at least. He should also be doing some of the housekeeping, and his own laundry. Also some of the cooking, taking out the garbage, mowing the grass... The best things in life may be free but your household expenses aren't one of those. Easier to talk about beforehand than when he's already living with you. If he's...

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I've been seeing someone for about 2 months. He left some shorts here that he wears to bed, so I casually left a sweatshirt at his place. Within 3 days he handed me my sweatshirt to take home. What do you think this means, and what should I do about it? I'd be checking this out if I were you. It could definitely be that he's just being considerate...but why not find out for sure. I'd leave a pair of panties in a place that another woman might find. How about in the glove compartment of his car. Or under the pillow on the other side of the bed. Or just on the other side of the bed itself...on the floor. Tuck it partially under...

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I've been having dreams of my boyfriend cheating on me, and found he was in fact cheating. Were my dreams premonitions? Your dreams were just the manifestation of something that you already knew deep down. It came out in your dreams because you were unable to deal with it while awake.

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My ex boyfriend's friend came out of the blue and told me that he's liked me for a long tym but could not say anythind because of his friend. I dont want to date him because he is my ex's friend but i like him. wat advice can u give me Do you think that your ex wouldn't date one of your friends? If you like this guy, see him. It's no longer your ex's business.

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I thought my BF was cheating. He swore he wasn't. I have given him a chance because I don't know for sure. How do I know if what I have with him is real or if I am set up to be a fool? How do you get over the insecurity, the lack of trust? So, you just took his word for it. Did you know that women who think that their BF's/or husbands are cheating on them are right 90% of the time. This doesn't mean you are insecure or lack trust. Listen to your gut feeling. The fastest way of finding out is to leave a voice activated tape recorder in his car. Or check out who he's calling. Show up earlier than he expects. I found...

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My boyfriend lied to me a few times abt the fact he watched porn secretly; i feel sad abt it cus he is being dishonest..like why does he had 2 do tis? & after he watched porn secretly ; he would wake me up frm sleep & have sex wiv me.. is this right? My ex told me that all men lie. Tell him that the next time he looks at porn he can satisfy himself. And if he wakes you up to have sex with you after he's looked at porn turn in to such a witch he won't do it again. Tell him to wake up the girl in the pictures. LOL.

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I hate my body, but I'm not overweight. I dislike things that I can't naturally change (e.g. small breasts). Thus, I hate that my BF looks at pics of sexy women or porn. My jealousy is destroying the relationship, and not even therapy has worked. Help? You need to change boyfriends. Problem solved.

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I have repeatedly found pornography in my husband's computer. When I talk to him about it he apologizes says he won't do it again, but today I found some again. What should I do? All men lie. Or maybe it's just all the one's I know personally. Maybe you should start lying to him about stuff too. Like you were out with the girls. Sure you were. LOL.

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A guy I was seeing told me he loved me after 3 weeks. During our 3 month relationship he told me this at least 6 times. When confronted with it he would say it was just something he says, or he didn't mean it. What does this really mean? It means he's an idiot. LOL. Or, maybe not. Did you tell him that you loved him too?

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Me and my ex split up about a year ago i did end up taking her back after she cheated on me we have been togather for about 4 months and she still wants tosleep with the other guy that she left me for. we do have to kids togather what to do Right now....go look in the mirror and tell yourself you deserve better than this. You do. It seems like divorce is going to be the only solution for you. Unfortunately. There are decent people out there. But you'll never find one as long as your willing to put up with this woman. Good luck!

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I let my ex who is now married move in with me for only a week (his wife is on deployment)and he left his stuff at my house but spent the night somewhere else, which i think is another woman, should i tell him to take his things with him where he sleeps? Definitely. I would tell him to come and pick it up by a certain time too. Would you want his wife coming back finding his stuff at your house? That could be really messy. Would you want to be in the middle of that? I wouldn't. Too much drama.

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Is there a way to find out the name of someone by having their cell number, this number is on my fiances phone bill and when I called it was a girl... how can Ifind out who it is? The direct approach is the best. You could always just ask her how she knows your fiance. And say to her...you realize he's engaged to be married. Better to find out now than when your married. True story...I had a friend who's husband must have fooled around on her constantly. He worked for the sheriff's department in Lexington, KY. She found a bunch of numbers in his pockets....

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Could my girlfriend be cheating on me based on something she said in her sleep? She mumbled something about legs, made blatant slurping noises like a seduction, then said "strap it on me mama", (which leads me to believe she may be with another woman). I doubt that your girlfriend is cheating on you based on something she said in her sleep. Whatever I think about just before I fall asleep I usually end up dreaming about. If I'm thinking about sex...I have a sexual dream. I've had all different kinds of sexual dreams. They mean nothing. You have no control over what you dream about.

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Question for CHEATERS: What kind of things do you say or do to keep your partner from finding out that you're cheating, and why do you stay in the relationship even though you're sleeping with other people? Let me state for the record I don't do it anymore. The only reason I won't say how I did it is that I don't want to help out anyone that's cheating with my tips. Not that they need help, of course. Cheating is awful because you're lying to yourself as well as your partner. I did it because my (ex)husband treated me horribly. He was verbally and physically abusive. There...

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If a man has small hands, and big feet, how big is his penis? Small hands and big feet? I haven't found the size of a man's hands and feet to always translate to a bigger penis. And sometimes bigger isn't always better. Despite what guys think.

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Have you ever really scared somebody? I scared my sister really bad one time. We were taking the trash out for the next day. We had to walk from behind the garage to the street. About 75 feet. I sneaked up beside our front porch. As she was walking through the gate with a bag in her hand I said, "Boo" really loud and she must have jumped a foot off the ground. I died laughing. I have a better one...this is awful. I was...

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My parents once told me they went . . . .30 DAYS. . . . without even talking to each other even ONCE! How the hell do couples DO that? What's the longest YOU'VE ever gone without talking to YOUR spouse or "significant other"? I must have had to talk to him at some point but we didn't talk/talk for 2 months. I couldn't stand it anymore because quite frankly I needed some sex.

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Have you ever drank milk straight from the cow? I've had it before it was pasteurized. I think that's about as straight from the cow as I want it. Ew.

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Ever had a foodfight? Yes and I started it. My boyfriend at the time took a long time getting some food where he worked. He brought back the wrong thing and I threw it at him. I was pissed, then he threw it back at me. It wasn't fun like in the movies.

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Im sixteen and a 38E bra size. i want to get them reduced but its alot of money and my mom does not think its neccisary yet she yells at me for my chest hanging out of all my shirts do u think i should get them done? I had a friend that had a breast reduction. I saw her breasts before she had the surgery done and they looked awful they were so large. Of course, she wasn't sixteen either. The surgeon told her she was going to put her nipples back on top where they belonged. I saw them after, the surgeon did a wonderful job. My friend also had deep places in her shoulder's from years of the weight...

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A boob job is yours for free. Would you do it? Only if I didn't lose sensation in my nipples (very important). And if I could have saline implants and there were no visible scars.

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How can you tell the difference between breast implants and the real thing? With implants there is usually a noticeable edge. Especially if the woman is pretty thin. A guy I know says they don't feel "right" either.

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If a movie is extremely violent, are you still able to "enjoy" it if the storyline is good and the acting is great? How much does violence turn you off? Hmm...I just watched Kill Bill last night with my boyfriend. I had never seen it before. It seems to be a movie where it's overly violent. I'm not thrilled about people's limbs being cut off and blood squirting out like a fountain. It's not really my kind of movie to tell the truth.

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This sister is NOT for real, right? She's just pretending and blustering, correct? Please tell me that this gal is NOT REAL, OK? The funny part is that some people really think like that. Then, reality sets in. With any good joke there is always some basis in fact. She's good. Hilarious.

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Do you believe that the day will come, when the only way to read a daily newspaper, is by using a computer monitor? (So many papers are "folding" [no pun meant!] or are becoming "online only" publications, that print papers will cease to exist.) I believe the day is closer than we imagine. What a shame, huh? Especially, love reading the Sunday paper. It's a ritual. The thought of not having a paper in hand is somehow, sad isn't it? Can you imagine the current generation telling their grandchildren one day about newspaper's that were printed on paper and you held them in your hands to read them. Weird.

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Have you heard of the website where girls post their photos requesting breast surgery help, & guys can donate money via their credit cards for them? http://myfreeimplants.com/ So, how much money have you donated towards this "good cause", Mensan? Care to share? Or do you like to just look at the pictures? LOL.

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GUYS: Are you a "Next-to-her" or an "Across-from-her," when you sit with your babe in a restaurant booth? (I sit across from my lady, so I can look her in the eye. It allows her to leave without asking me to release her from being my "captive.") So, I'm not a guy....but, I always thought it was peculiar when I would see couples sitting side by side. But I did have it happen once on a date with a good looking guy. 6'2", eyes of blue, ex-navy, younger. Mmmm. Uh, back to my answer. Anyway...it worked out well because he stroked my back while he talked to me. And I have some hearing loss in my other ear. Of course, I was...

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How do you stop feeling fat and ugly, when you can clearly see it in the mirror? There's an old joke about a guy that goes to the doctor and he tells the doctor, "Doctor when I do this (what "this" is I will leave up to your imagination)it hurts". So, the doctor tells him, Well, stop doing that". LOL. The most sensible answer is "stop looking in the mirror". For one...if anyone looks at you as closely as you look at yourself in the...

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Are there any profiles on AB that you suspect may actually be "fake" or someone passng as someone else (opposite gender, different age groups) I sometimes thought that the person answering the question was a different gender because I was surprised at the answer. Definitely, there's a possibility that people are not who they seem to be. I've seen on programs on TV (such as Dateline) that pedophiles pretend to be younger than they really are. Since AB is a question and answer "site" and not really a place to...

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What does America plan to do to the United Kingdom for "payback"? Payback? I don't know. It's all politics as usual to me. No matter what side of the ocean you reside on. I do know that the Lockerbie Bomber was hailed as a hero in his own country though. The US has released some people that have been captured during the war with Iraq. It used to be that prisoner's were only (and maybe?) released after a war was over and never before. Who knows...

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If you don't use your real name on here, what is the meaning behind your AB name? Sometimes it's a struggle to think of yet another screen name for some site. I was in a naughty mood the particular day I came across And AB and Layla sounds a bit naughty. Especially L-A-A-A-Y-L-A (the way I spelled it). LOL. And I love Eric Claptons' song "Layla".

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Why do people keep erroneously referring to Barack Obama as the first BLACK president? No disrespect intended, but he is only 50% black and had a Caucasian mother, which makes him our first-ever MULATTO president. What you are saying it totally true. Mulatto is an old term and not used much these days. My son is bi-racial. Black and white (and indian). I guess that would make him tri-racial. Just kidding. Anyway, I told him that most of the world would see him as black. In the black community if you are only half black you are accepted as though you were 100%. And if you are a white(mostly)woman with a...

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Advice from someone who can relate.My boyfriend of a year is terminally ill.He told me a month after we began our relationship. I have been by his for a year now. I take care of him. & now it's getting so much more difficult to be strong.We're only 20-21. I noticed that you only got one answer to your question. And that it was May of 2009 when you wrote it. How is your boyfriend doing? You must be a very loving person to help someone going through such a difficult time. And your so young to have to experience something like this. My father passed away from prostate cancer in 1996. I wasn't his caregiver though. It was very hard seeing my...

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I AM A 41 YEAR OLD CARE GIVER WHO IS TAKING CARE OF MY 68 YEAR OLD MOTHER WITH ALZHEIMERS. I REALLY CAN'T LEAVE HER ALONE SO I BASICALLY HAVE NOT GOT TO GO ANYWHERE BY MYSELF FOR THE LAST TWO YEARS.DOES ANYONE HAVE ANY SUGGESTIONS HOW I CAN KEEP MY SANITY I take it that you don't have any help as far as family goes? The only other thing I can think of is to hire someone to come in occasionally to relieve you so you can have some time off. My heart goes out to you.

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Isn't it strange (for want of a better description) that the word THERAPIST is composed of the words, "The Rapist?" I can imagine that people who do go to therapists will always think of "the rapist" every time they have a session. I probably would. Mensan, are there any other common words where there are two words in them that have such an awful meaning?

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How good a shot are you? I can and have hit the red x on a silouette at 21 feet. My groups are pretty tight. I guess I'm a good enough shot that I wouldn't want to be the person on the other end of my gun.

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After hearing about all the shootings at colleges and public places (like the Wendy's restaurant), do you think that if everyone carried a gun there would be less incidents of gun violence or more? Well...let's put it this way, when was the last time you heard of someone getting shot at a gun show. You don't and the reason is....most everyone has access to a firearm. Have you ever noticed that "coward's" only show up at places where guns have been banned. I think it's time the criminal has something to worry about....don't you? The President of the...

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Are any of the gun stores in your city having any "Back to School" sales? I wish....I have my eye on a Ruger SP101, hammerless with hogue grips but it's out of my price range. Mensan would you care to donate to a good cause.

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How come God choose apple tree in garden of Eden and which other friuts. Since when? What's a friuts? It's spelled fruit, for the record. The one tree that Adam and Eve were not supposed to touch was a test of obedience. It was fruit but the Bible doesn't say what kind.

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Cheating wife problem. I followed my wife the her love nest, i where hiding behind my car...I saw her getting sexually pleasured my her lover....behind my car I saw some rust on the bumper....the question is......do I fibre glass or replace the bumper? Thought this was very funny.

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Im afraid my bf is cheating. he treats me well, but isn't as interested in sex as he used to be and a few months ago a girl he studied abroad with was seriously flirting with him. i told him it bothered me, but he got really mad and said she's his friend. Check out www.signs-of-a-cheater.com/signs_of_cheating_men.html. Signs after the slash is showing up as sig ns. It's actually one word. And I can't correct it on here for some reason.

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We been together for 6 months. ive just found out my girl has been cheating on me for a while. its been about five days now and im just not really happy anymore, when will this pain go away? and does it feel this way for the rest of your life? I noticed that you originally wrote this back in June. How are you doing? You should know by now...the pain does go away. But you never did say whether you broke it off with the girlfriend?

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My BF befriended & became attracted to another girl w/out my knowledge. Once discovered, he agreed to distance himself from her but still maintains occasional contact. Can I rightfully insist on his cutting off all contact, since she still pursues him? If you insist on telling him to cut off contact with this your boyfriend also be ready to walk away if you find out he's still in contact with her. And let him know this....that you intend to walk away if he can't leave her alone. And follow through.

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What is a good comeback to a boy that says "Dont hate the Player Hate the game"..Cause he cheated on me but still wants me.. what should I do? You don't need a comeback for this one. Just make sure that every time he see's you it's with another guy. And totally ignore him.

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Im afraid my bf is cheating. he treats me well, but isn't as interested in sex as he used to be and a few months ago a girl he studied abroad with was seriously flirting with him. i told him it bothered me, but he got really mad and said she's his friend. If the interest in sex stopped quickly I would be concerned. If it happened around the time this "so-called friend" came back into his life I'd be doubly concerned. And when a guy gets mad at you because you tell him that it upsets you that someone seriously flirts with him well...I know you can guess what I think. Or maybe you can't. Time to turn the tables. Have one of...

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How can you stop racism? Truth is you can't. I wish we could. I have deep desire in that happening because my son is bi-racial.

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I was round my mates, her bf came out of the shower and dropped his towel purposely and i saw everything, now he sends me kinky messages, should i tell my mate and risk our friendship or just tell him to get lost and try and ignore him. Show your friend the kinky messages first and tell her that he also dropped his towel on purpose. Tell her the towel dropping incident came first, then the messages started. Would you expect a real friend to be truthful with you? At least if you showed her the messages she would know that it was all on his part and not on yours. If she dumps you as a friend....you can be mine, I like honest...

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I just had a huge row with my mate cos I don't feel guilty if i sleep with someone who is in a relationship cos well i'm not really cheating on anyone am i? I'm not seeing anyone and I have never cheated on anyone that i have been seeing. Am I wrong? Some people have no conscience. So, if you give someone a drink who is an alcoholic you probably see nothing wrong with that either. Or, if you give money to someone knowing that they're going to buy drugs with it that's okay too, huh? Just remember you reap what you sow. If you happen to believe in Karma....she can be a real bitch. Given the circumstances....I bet you probably could...

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My boyfriend n i have we have now been together for 5yrs now we have 2girls together. 3 years ago i found out he was cheating i left for a while then took him back but im still constantly ringing him wen he goes out and i still question him is this normal He cheated. It's a fact. He deserves to be treated as such. Perfectly normal in my opinion. Now if he was a smart guy he would do everything in his power to make you feel secure.

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I just discovered my live in boyfriend sent provacative emails back and forth to female former co-worker . When I confronted him he said it was nothing more than a fantasy relationship and it was over. Should I dump him? That's a nice excuse. This person does exist, right? Then it's not really a fantasy.

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I snooped (I know this is wrong) and found out that my bf has been talking to gay men quite frequently from a homosexual singles site. He has not come out. Tonight I cheated on him with a friend from my past. HOW DO YOU BRING THIS UP? Can/should I? Aren't you more afraid of contracting AIDS? Then you slept with another guy who has no idea that you could be infected with AIDS and now he may be too? That's real nice. Your boyfriend is gay. He deserves to be outed. Publicly.

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My husband stole naked pictures of my sister from her home. Is this considered cheating? Obviously he has no boundaries. Even family is open season. He's one sick basta*d. I would divorce him. But first I would tell my sister that he stole her naked pictures. See how she reacts. Let her take her revenge. Maybe she'll report him to the police. I would ask for a female detective.

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Is internet chatting cheating? If there is nothing else involved? What if you think it's cheating and after explaining to dude - he agrees, feels like cheating - do you stay w/ dude? If he's getting real dirty with the texts it may not be physically cheating but he's cheating emotionally. To your question do you stay with a cheater...that's up to you. Do you feel like sh*t because of this? If so, dump him.

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Hv been goin out wif dis guy 4 3 months, i really like and he says he feel the same way but i cnt help feeling dat he is cheating.i kno his password 2 facebook so i go on it nd keep finding messages frm him asking 4 gals numbas,he doesnt kno so i cnt ask Once he gets their numbers...what do you think he's going to do with them. Just forget about them. I'd say he has every intention of calling these gals. What do you need to ask him about? You know he's probably seeing some of them. Tell him that a friend of yours was on facebook and he asked her for her number. See what he says.

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I danced with a stripper this weekend..is that cheating? I don't know....how would you feel if your partner danced with a stripper?

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My bf cheated on me n lied about it n has now come out n been honest about it all- but im still worrying all the time if hes just with me cos hes on the lookout for someone else or is sleepin with someone or if the have been others and he hates it..help! He hates it that you don't trust him. Gee, that's too bad isn't it? He "cheated" and then he "lied" about it. Hmm. This is going to end and not in a good way. You know that right? No time "like the present" to dump him.

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Three months into my relationship, after asking several times my partner admitted he slept with his ex the day we got together and was infact was still with her , a week into our relationship he broke it off with her, but 6 months later it still haunts me If it's not working for you, it's just not working. Right? Maybe it's time to move on. Your relationship started out with a lie. There's no way to fix that.

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My fiancé has been cheating on me by texting with another girl about sexual things they want to do together. He wants us to stay together. How can I get over being hurt? Wait...you find out that he's texting another girl telling her what dirty things he would like to do with her and YOUR worried about how you can get over this? Why? You said he wants to stay together. So the !@#$ what! More importantly....WHAT DO YOU WANT? I'd say the best way to get over the hurt is by LOSING "the LOSER" and dating other people. It would work for me.

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Is it okay for my girlfriend to have a guy bestfriend? Shouldn't you be her "best friend" now?

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Would you ever try to be friends with the s/o of someone you helped cheat? Why or why not? Also, isn't that like a slap in the face? Like, "Sure, I helped him/her cheat, but let's be friends now anyway." Does this seem wrong to anyone else? As wrong as wrong can be. Yup! Yes, your right in thinking that this is a slap in the face. Adding insult to injury.

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My boyfriend told me about his best friend, a woman, who he said repeatedly was very beautiful. I never met her. He said he when they first met, he was very attracted to her, but she was not to him. If she was, he would have pursued it. This upset me! I would admit the same thing to him...that before you met him you knew a really hot guy (and all the girls wanted him) but you were "too busy" to pursue a relationship or you make up a different scenario as to why you didn't pursue the relationship and see what his response is......LOL. Your boyfriend is an insensitive idiot. Can you tell I'm a "what's good for the...

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Has anyone been the 'other' woman? How long would you wait for him to make a decision about whether he wants to be with you? He indicates that he is happier with me but knows his wife loves him. I want to be with him what do I do? The guy you are seeing is a liar. He's lying to both you and his wife. If his wife doesn't know he's seeing you and there's a pretty good chance of that, he's started making excuses. The excuse, "he knows his wife loves him". And one excuse will lead to another (and another) until years down the road you are still with this clown and life has passed you by....

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Have you ever been 'the other person'? Yes. Wish I hadn't. No excuses.

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My boyfriend had a one night stand with some skank from his work. Now a week and 2 days later she is telling him that she's pregnant and it's his. How does this happen? I'm pretty sure a pregnancy test won't show a + result a week after having sex. Early pregnancy tests can tell you within 6-8 days after having sex that someone is indeed pregnant. If you choose to stay with your boyfriend you can look forward to child support coming out of his check for the next 18+ years. Isn't that nice? And that means less money spent on you. By the way....this woman is no more a skank that your boyfriend. He's the one in the relationship...

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Is dating a married person asking for trouble? Yes. Especially if the spouse has a gun. They may be able to kill you and get away with it. You know....a crime of passion. If I was on the jury I wouldn't convict the spouse of the cheater. They get a "free pass".

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Is my wife of 16 years having a affare with her college lecturer who is now 65 ys old ? My wife of 16 years she is now 42 years seems to have an affair with a old man who was her college professor, she denies this fact but I had found she had been communi There are a bunch of smart a**es answering your question. Since your question seems to have been cut off...what kind of communications has your wife been having with the college lecturer? What's being said, or do you know? You can click on "add a comment" (in blue, below my answer)to answer my questions if you want. I'd like to help.

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I was dating a man for the past 5 months, and recently found out that he is married. This has been very emotional for me, after speaking to the wife it appears that he has a history of cheating. Is there anyway I can sue him for emotional distress? I doubt you can sue.....but on the bright side of it your not married to him. Aren't you glad and....aren't you really glad you found out only after five months?...it could have been longer. You know, a little revenge goes a long way though. I would write an anonymous letter to his co-worker's, his neighbors and family members. I did this to a woman my ex was seeing when we were...

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My BF & I are in a long distance relationship. He's cheated twice due to uncertainty. I forgave him. He swears his love & wants me to move there. I want to trust, but i'm scared. I have his password- should I check his email to see if he's true? HELP Once someone has cheated on you it's very difficult to believe that person again. If he was the one to admit it that's one thing. But if you found out through other means and then he admitted it because you confronted him that would be a different story. I think I'd be tempted to check the email and see what's going on. I'd think long and hard about moving in with...

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I just found out that I got a significant raise at work- about 300 dollars more a month. I am worried about the other's getting jealous if they find out. What should I do? Who else is privy to such information except you? There are probably only a few people involved that would know that you got a raise. Definitely keep it to yourself. I've always heard "The best kept secret is the one you keep yourself". Now...if you start showing up at work with new stuff all the time....that may be a tip off too. If you are suddently able to buy a particular...

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My girlfriend cheated on me 2 months into our relationship. We worked through it but a few months later we took a break. During the break she had sex with another guy. Can our relationship still work? If your girlfriend cheated on you two months into your relationship she must not have felt secure with you for some reason. Or, possibly felt there was no future with you. Were you still in touch with an ex-girlfriend or were there other issues involving another woman? If you were taking a break from your relationship then you weren't really together were you? Were there some rules to your...

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I found my 18month olds shoe, i bet you cant gues where i found it at? A few guess, (okay, more than a few) in the cats litter box, the dishwasher, the refrigerator, the dryer, the cupboard, hamper, toilet, or diaper pail (pew).

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Does God believe that there are atheists? Of course he knows that there are people who deny his existence. I believe the Bible calls such people fools. But a more indepth translation of the word that fool originates from suggests that they are insane. Psalm 14:1 The fool has said in his heart,“There is no God.” They are corrupt, They have done abominable works, There is none who does good

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I have three kids at home, had a miscarriage two weeks ago and now am trying VERY HARD for anther baby...I want to get pregnant right away! Is this part of the healing process or am I in denial? Having a miscarriage is very hard on your body as well as your mind. I think you just need some rest. Both body and soul. Take it easy. When the time is right you'll have another one if that's your desire. Baby, that is.

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Ladies... Would you flip out if you caught your man watching gay porn? A truly straight guy watching gay porn. Not possible. I wouldn't just flip out I'd leave him. Pronto.

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Why do so many people seem to believe the Republicans' lies about healthcare reform? Where is the public outrage at their phony charges of euthanasia and rationing? All we really have to do about finding out about health care reform is to see how it's working in other countries. I was talking to my insurance rep the other day. One of his son's in-laws lives in Canada. That in-law lost vision in one eye and was having trouble with the other eye. He couldn't get in to see a doctor. So, he came across the border into Michigan and had to pay out...

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Do mixed race relationships work, or do you think the stigma attached breaks most of these couples? Statistic show that they don't work long term for the majority. But who's to really say. I would think just because of the cultural differences it is harder to stay together. It's an added pressure. I know a japanese woman married to a white american. They have their issues. If you marry into a culture that thinks differently from your own it has to be a little bit more...

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My friend is a black male and his ex is a white girl with red hair and pale skin. She recently had a baby boy two months ago with blonde hair and blue eyes and very pale skin, as well. She's trying to say that it's his kid... is this possible? That depends on what's in the guys family's past. My son who is mixed (black/white) was much lighter when he was born. And through his toddler years. His hair was even straight for a while. If someone really wants to know for sure though...a DNA test is the next step.

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Once you go black, there's no going back, is this true for everyone, or just me? Like a lot of other things people say...it's not necessarily true. Although I don't have a true preference as far as race. I think there are attractive people of every race....but that's just me.

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Why is it that many people on welfare are overweight? Is it because they do not work or because they eat so well? Better question is why are you concerned about peoples weight who are on welfare? Are you doing a study? How does it affect you personally? Do you want to blame the poor for being poor? Did you know that Jesus said the poor would always be with us? The poor are here to inspire the compassion in our hearts for other people. What have you done lately to help society's poor?

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Do you think your life would be easier if you made more money? Right now I don't have a job. And there isn't one in the foreseeable future. It would be nice just to have some money much less...more money.

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Aunt Ruth has called and states she is coming to your house to stay for a month. auntie ruth and you do not get along with each other. what excuse can you give, that will prevent aunt ruth from dogging your life for 30 days? I would tell her I'm so embarrassed but we have roaches and no matter what we've tried we can't seem to get rid of them. Or, tell her you've taken in a homeless person and there's no room. If she's waiting for an answer I wouldn't give her one. There's always call block too. And spam on your email. Change your phone number. And kill any family member that...

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Did you wear "hand-me-downs" when you were growing up? Has that gone out of style these days? Hasn't everyone. There were five of us and my mother didn't work. Well, actually she did work hard raising all five of us. My kids wore hand me downs. They were in good shape so why not.

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What us the advantage of saving money with "DirectBuy" when you have to pay a large membership fee to be able to purchase from them? If you can get more than one person to go in on the fee it wouldn't be so bad. How large is the fee anyway? I've seen the commercials but never inquired.

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Does anyone else cut open near-empty plastic containers to get the last little bit of product out? Example: Salad dressing, mustard/ketchup, shampoo, toothpaste.... I have cut open a container such as conditioner when I'm down to the last bit and don't have anymore. As far as plastic bottles....I turn them upside down in the refrigerator door to get out as much as I can. I've added water to use up the last bit of shampoo, liquid hand soap.

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I am frustrated, agitated, losing interest in life and society. Feels like trudging trough knee deep muck with no destination. No job, relationship ending, prolly moving in with my sister and her husband 700 miles away til I "get back on my feet". Input? Sadly, I've been where you are now. There is hope though. Things do get better by degrees. Bit by bit. I know you might think that moving in with you sister and her husband is a terrible thing but probably not. Family can be a support system. Someone to talk to. You won't be alone and that's good. Sometimes we get comfortable in life and it changes on us. It's not static....

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Does restricting the age of alcohol consumption, thereby making it a rite of passage, a milestone in life, and something to be achieved, help or harm society more? Is it a contributing factor to the misuse of alcohol in our society? We're a problem society if we think drinking is a rite of passage, a milestone in life or something to be achieved. The younger you drink the more likely you are to become an alcoholic. Somehow I think that's a bad thing. Girls getting drunk and getting pregnant in their teens, another bad thing. People driving drunk and killing some innocent bystander, not good. During he teen years...

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Why shouldn't you get too drunk on your wedding night? If getting married is suppose to mean something, why would you want to get so drunk you can't remember it. Your starting a life together with your partner. Wouldn't it be nice to have something to remember so you can tell you children and maybe grandchildren other than Gee, I don't remember a thing. Somehow it seems an awful way to start you life together.

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How would a man be able to mentally abuse a women? ive been abused most of my life and ive never taken anything they say to heart, doesnt it mean that the women is weaker mentally? im not being judgemental or mean i just dont understand and i want to. A man can mentally abuse a woman more easily than you can imagine. I find it hard to believe that you've been abused most of your life yet you didn't take anything to heart. I personally think your in denial. Mental abuse is a form of brainwashing. Everyone has a breaking point. Maybe yours just wasn't reached. To read about brainwashing go to Medicine.net. The article is called...

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Ladies: During a recent concert, Faith Hill verbally attacked a fan for reaching for Tim McGraw's privates... Would you have tried a stunt like that in front of Tim's wife? What would you have done if some woman tried reaching for your man like that? As much as I think Tim McGraw is a handsome man I would never have done something so tacky. A woman that touches your man's package should end up with a broken nose/jaw. In Faith Hill's case the tacky fan should been escorted to the door.

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What advice would you give someone who has just admitted to having a drug problem....someone who is no longer denying and gonna get help? advice, encourgement.....just any thoughts? My sister is a former drug addict. Just say that you'll be there for that person. Encourage them to go to the meetings. Listen, listen and listen again. Love them. Pray for them.

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What do you think of black women/white men relationships? Why aren't they as common as black men/white women relationships? The reason that they are not as common as black men with white women is that it's still not as socially acceptable. And this is among the black race. Black men don't want to see their women with a white guy. You get a lot of grief if you marry someone outside of your race if your a black woman. By the way, I'm white with a black son. Well at least society see's him as black....

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I won't date people from other races. Does that make me a racist? Be honest please. Everyone has their personal preferences. Your entitled to your own preferences. It doesn't make you a racist just because you prefer you own race. It's just more comfortable to you. Like people who speak a different language from you. Even though they may be able to speak your language they may prefer to talk to their friends in their native tongue.

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So I am kind of at a cross-roads in my life. I need to know. how do I get it? you know the love and affection of a good man. a good man who stays around longer than the sex? how do I get it and keep it. playing it casual doesn't work how do I get respect? There a great book by Paige Parker called "Dating Without Drama" It's a must if you want to find a good man.

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Is it normal for my boyfriend to be talking to other girls at 2am ? the girl that he mainly talks to really likes him and he used to like her and i think he still does What's normal about talking to an ex-girlfriend at 2 am? Nothing. This is nonsense. Do you still talk to your exes? If not...now's the time to start. And talk to them in front of your boyfriend. Maybe he'll get the "hint". I bet he won't like it.

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Men make me horny when....? ......they have on a good smelling cologne.

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Why do i let my s/o treat me like crap when i have done nothing wrong? Because maybe you do not see it for what it is. Abuse. And it can take many forms. You may be thinking that this is going to change. That's not likely to happen. I know it's hard starting over. Besides actually leaving...you should be telling your S/O that your not going to put up with his nasty behavior. And if it doesn't stop your leaving. If you say this, keep your word and...

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I'm quiet but people like me alot. Been told I'm "not unatractive" have "beautiful eyes" and "a smile that can light up a room". I'm kinda akward when dealing with someone I like and I never seem to get anywhere. Is there a chance I'll ever find a girl Absolutely, honey. Some girls like the shy and quite type. Nothing wrong with that. Just keep being yourself. Some help....you should start out as friends first. Then if you find out that you like the same type of movies or have something in common you can say, I was thinking about going to see this movie (or whatever), would you like to come with me?

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What are you called or would like to be called other than your name? I dont know, for some reason, I like it when people call "lady". I love that word, it makes me feel important. :) I had a neighbor that used to call me "Miss" before my actual name. It's a southern custom and I just love it. My former mother-in-law (now passed) used to say "hey lady" to me and I loved that too...coming from her. I was her favorite daughter-in-law.

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What are some things that would look silly used as earrings? Fishing lures. No wait...that might work.

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On average, how many times a week should a 43 year old man have sex? Dibley, I guess the smart aleck answer would be as many times as he can get it "up". But I think on average it's about twice a week for couples. Now you've made me curious....I'll probably google. it.

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Who do you think is the most responsible in an affair? The cheating partner or the person they are cheating with? The cheating partner because they're the one that was supposed to be faithful. I think that in some states the person they cheated with can be sued. And maybe they should be. I mean they are probably taking from the "families resources".

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Do we really need men to make us happy If there were an poll taken I think most women would find that as a group.....men inflict more misery into their lives than actual happiness. Such as: Those who refuse to carry their weight in helping around the house. As in: doing their own laundry, washing dishes. bathing the children, and picking up after themselves. Those who refuse to pay chlld support. In general....not taking their part...

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I had an affair with a married man. We both divorced and are now in a relationship. He has three daughters, 12, 9, and 2. His 12 year old knows about the affair and hates me. I want her acceptance and for her to see I'm a good person, what do I do? This is a lost cause if there ever was one. Everyone does make mistakes but yours has affected this girl. Her parents are divorced and it has changed her whole life. This is not about you. Her alliance is to her mother. The best thing you can do is to continue to treat her well without expecting anything in return. She may never see you as anything else except for the person who wreaked havoc...

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Im a 12 year old girl but i look way older and alot of older guys ,like 15 and 16 say im hot and stuff .and i like them too ,but im worried if i go out with them they will try to do nasty stuff with me.what should i do? These boys are too old for you right now. And you are right to think that they may try to do nasty stuff with you. Your a smart girl! You should tell them that you are twelve. It's nice to have some attention but your not ready to handle this and I think you know it. One day you will have plenty of boyfriends so there's no rush. Good Luck, Ashley.

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Would you ever get back together with someone who did like you, but decided they like someone else more than you and chose to be with them? Never, ever! Jacqueline, you are not anyone's second place choice. You deserve to be first! Do not settle for any less. You'll be happier. I promise.

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Please watch ALL of the attached video (when you have the time) and then answer this question: Are there REALLY men "out there" who are THAT DENSE? Mensan,Mensan, Mensan, Oh, my gosh I laughed so hard. Loved, the video. In answer to your question...I'm sure that somewhere there are guys that dense. Somehow I think this was something that really happened. Who could make that up. I guess it could have been embellished a bit though. I was told two things about extremely intelligent people. One is that while they have book sense they...

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My husband had an adult dating website profile. he said he didn't have any others but he did that he know I look on the internet history he started deleting all the website he visits what can I do? I don't trust him even though he always has a good excuse This is what you do....look up webwatcher.com. or look up keylogger's on google. Keylogger programs will tell you what his passwords are and what sites that he's been visiting. And if you are married it's perfectly legal to put one on your computer. I've read that webwatcher will talk you through setting it up on your computer. He won't know that it's there. I...

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After 26 years of marriage i found out my husband had been unfaithful for 2 years he left me 3 months ago and is living with her while pretending to our grown children he is living alone what is he playing at and what can i do to get him back I doubt that in 26 years of marriage that this is the first and only time your husband was unfaithful. You want him back because? What... so he can do it to you again. Unfaithful men never stop being unfaithful. If you did get him "back", are you ever going to be able to trust him again? Your grown children should know the truth. Your husband knows he's doing wrong and your...

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If a affair is ended and never discovered and your wife is blissfully happy, does it matter? Should it ever be confessed? Basically, your relationship is based on a lie. If the roles were reversed...would it be okay that she never tell you that she had an affair? If you really want to make things right tell her. And in addition to telling her, allow her to have her own affair with your blessing. Then you can go on from there. Your even.

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What makes the Bible more true than the Quran? Even vis-versa? Hmm....is one more true than the other? I would think that they are both true. Actually the Quran talks about Jesus. But because of their religion...people who read the Quran don't usually read the Bible.

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Is my Bf cheating? He asked me to get some numbers off his laptop so I had a look at his internet history (I know I shouldnt have but i did so...) and this morning before work he looked up traintimes and pubs and a travel lodge near edinburgh. You know if he never takes you to Edinburgh he had plans with someone else. Of course, this only applies if you find out that he went there without you. Is he a person that likes to surprise you? Hint: has he ever surprised you before? (Then again, there always is a first time). Does he have some vacation time coming up? Have you ever taken a trip together?

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I'm dating someone for 4 months and he invited me to a barbecue to meet his friends. We had a great time. He isn't too verbal on his feelings but his actions shows me that he cares. How important is it when a guy introduces you to his close friends? When a guy introduces you to his close friends....well, that's the best thing that could happen to you. Guys don't introduce you to their friends unless your girlfriend material. Forget about the verbal stuff with this guy. His actions speak louder that words.

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Is there one person for everyone on earth (Love wise), or is this just a myth (some sort of fiction) generated by Soapies and our (irrational) idea of the perfect "love"? You would think so, with so many people on this earth. It's finding them that's the hard part. I suppose you have to know what makes you happy first. I've heard that you shouldn't settle and maybe that's the real key to finding your soulmate.

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Do u think i have a right to be mad, if i prepared a 3 course dinner for my BF, fri, sat and an exquiste breakfast on sun and he asked me, what i wanted to eat for dinner (sun nite), i said a burger and he wanted to know, wendy's or burger king? You left yourself wide open for that one. You expected him to treat you the same way you treated him. The next time he asks you what you want for dinner do not just tell him "a burger". Tell him you'd like a burger at a certain restaurant. Tell him they have the best....whatever. This is the cure! Sometimes you have to teach people how to treat you.

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My boyfriend is talking to his ex about her relationship problems, and this has been going on for awhile, and i just now found out. he says there friends and thats all, when i ask what they talk about he says its none of my buisness. idk what to do. Apparently ex's really aren't ex's for a reason? As in you boyfriend's case. You would think that everyone's ex's don't have a single friend except your boyfriend/girlfriend, right? I think it's so much BS. Whatever happened to "moving on with you life". Whatever happened to "you couldn't stand to be together but now all of a sudden...

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Outside of a family member, is there one person in your life to whom you are very grateful for being there for you when you needed him/her? Yes, her name was Helen and she passed away this past week. She was a good friend that I met at church. She treated me and my son special. Supported me emotionally when I needed it. She was just a lovely person. I miss her. She'll always be in my heart.

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Friend said was raped at 13, it's such an awful thing you believe the person telling you, of course! But she's tells so many people, different stories about who did it+how, I'm in doubt it happened. I don't know what to think of her anymore.What to do? Anytime someone changes their story constantly you know not to believe them. That's how the police catch people doing things because over the course of questioning them they change their stories too many times. It's the same with your friend unfortunately. I would bet that she also has other problems beside the storytelling. So, I would keep my eyes open. At least you realize it and...

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On the Patty Duke Show (1963-66) what exactly was it about a hotdog, that caused Patty Lane to "lose control?" Somebody probably just put that in there because they though no one would notice? The truly dirty lyrics they wanted to put in couldn't be put in because of censorship. I don't know ...what kind of hotdog are we talking about here, Mensan? LOL. I could venture a guess.... Wow, The Patty Duke Show. Gee, I was just a baby when I watched that show. Actually, not a baby. I still...

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How do you rid yourself of hate for a person (besides forgiveness), that went out of their way to hurt you, and actually got some sort of kick out of it? It's eating me up inside, and i know that i need to let it go. Well, I just didn't hate someone I wanted to kill them for what they did to me. How's that for being honest. What kept me from doing it. Belief in God, fear of being in small enclosed spaces (as in jail), and wanting to still have sex with men. LOL. I'm kidding. Sort of. Now...all kidding aside, you will eventually be able to deal with this better. Believe it or not. It takes...

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I have to move on because the person I loved is into really weird stuff (fetishism, bondage, queer websites he's a member of...and simply just not knowing what he wants). But, how do I do it, it's so hard to trust what seems to be a "normal" guy. Define normal. Believe me there are plenty of people out there who are not into all the things you mentioned.

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When a relationship doesn't work out, What is the first thing you think of after the break up..do you blame yourself, or your partner I blame my ex-husband because he was an idiot. Then again, I blame myself for marrying the idiot. LOL. I should have know better.

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Before you started to color your hair, was it lighter or darker that it is now? Both. LOL. I had dark hair with gray in it. I'm blond now.

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Is it wrong to cut off all contact with people that my abusive ex bf uses to gather info about me [or he uses them to tell me awful things that really hurts me] ? Because I have move on but he keeps trying to stay in my life. What do I do? There is everything right about cutting off contact with these people. They are "not" your friends. Cut off all contact with the abusive ex too. Have a happy life.

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Im living in an abusive relationship when is it time to stop trying to make it work? There is no time like the present. I was in an abusive relationship for years. The abuser never changes.

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Been friends with a girl for 2 years. Both liked each other at first, but I wasn't ready. Ended up falling in love with her along the way. She told me she didn't want me out of her life, wanted to be friends. Now she's getting married! I'm crushed. Help! Since she's getting married to someone else the friendship/relationship is over.

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Do u think the person who rejected t your love will regret it One day? I doubt it. They just weren't interested. Move on.

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I STARTED DATING A BLACK GIRL AND SINCE THEN HAIR HAS STARTED GROWING ON MY BUTT AND IN MY BUTTCRACK IS THIS BECAUSE SHE GAVE ME A DISEASE I REALLY LIKE HEr DONT WANT TO BREAK UP BUT ITS MAKING THINGS KINDA MESSY k thx Yup, that's what happens when you date outside your race. Nah, I'm just kidding. I died laughing when I read your question. Does she know that you thought she gave you a disease and a hairy butt? LOL.

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When a white man and a black woman has a baby, is the baby considered black or white? In the eyes of the world your child will always be seen as black. I have a bi-racial child and that's just the truth of the matter. Even though he is 50-50. Black/White.

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While abroad, I discovered that my girlfriend cheated. She said it was just a kiss and just once. I stumbled upon a text message that makes me think it was more than that, and now I can't get it out of my head. I'm afraid of the worst. What to do? You should listen to your heart(mind). You know that there is more to the story than your girlfriend has told you. Tell her you read the text message. Then ask her "What's going on?" If you don't like the answer or you think she is lying, move on.

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I like this one guy but alot of ppl say tht he cheats but im afraid the ppl are lieing because they like me so there telling me this so i wont date him.......what should i do? Are these people your friends? If more than one person is telling you this, there may be some truth to it. Maybe you should listen.

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Bf cheated on me with my friend but my friend didn't know we were dating what do I do? Darn, someone had the same answer I thought of. I'd dump the boyfriend and keep the friend as long as the friend isn't still seeing him.

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I had been dating a girl for a couple of weeks and I thought she was perfect. Suddenly, she cheated on me with her ex. This problem is that I still want her. Should I even bother trying to have a relationship with her? She's not over her ex. Leave this chick alone.

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I recently Broke up with somone who i cared about and still do he cheated on me and i can't sleep. I still love him but i don't want to see him get heartbroken again can i ever get him back? Why do you think so little of yourself that you think you deserve to be cheated on? The fact that you can't sleep is just part of the process you go though after breaking up with someone. That will go away with time. You deserve better than to be cheated on. If he did it once he is likely to do it again.

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My girlfriend went to a party,got drunk and had sex with another guy.She confessed and says she doesn't want to lose me.What should I do Talk her into going to an AA meeting and if she won't go...the relationship has to.

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I've been in a relationship for 6 1/2 years. It has been waving the last 6 mo. but we decided to work on it. This weekend I found out that over the past 3 mo. he has had a drunken snog with a girl from work on two seperate occasions. Do I forgive him? If someone does it once, it "can" be a mistake. But twice is on purpose. Dump the SOB.

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I cheted on my girlfriend of two years. She found a video on my phone of me kissing another girl. 2 months after , she i found out she slept with her ex. She says it was a mistake and she still loves me. what do i do. I still love her , should i stay with Your both even. You cheated on her and she cheated on you. If you both love each other, then forgive each other and get on with it.

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How do i push myself that little bit further to completely forgive my boyfriend for cheating on me. I love him so dearly and i just want us too be the same again. i just need to feel that little more forgiveness and try and forget. but how? its so hard. The truth is....that there is some part of yourself that knows that you should move on. That part of yourself is your heart/mind. And it's telling you, that you can't forgive your boyfriend. You are never going to be the same as a couple because he cheated.

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WHY DID HE MARRY ME? If he knew he liked to control women, if he knew he was a violent man, if he knew all of that do you think he thought I was a different woman? We are separated, does he miss me? Does he blame me for his battery? The big question here is why do you care if he misses you? You should be glad your not with your abuser anymore. Every person is responsible for the things they do to others. And your husband is responisble for his battery of you. Please seek out counseling.

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My ex has most of my belongings, It’s been over 10 months I can’t ask for them as he won’t talk to me I don’t have a car and not much support, he hasn’t offered. Anyone explain why he’s doing this? I'm sure there has to be at least one friend with a car or truck to help you get your "stuff". But first, I would call the local police station and explain the situation. They may allow you to go in and get your things. They probably won't give you much time though. The reason he's keeping your stuff is to get back at you.

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I'm in a relationship which is stable and I'm happy, but there's a girl who keeps trying to interfere and make my boyfriend dump me. She keeps saying stuff like "Why are you dating her?" or "You could do better". Is this just jealousy? Jealousy, pure and simple. She's a b*tch. You should ask your boyfriend why he even gives this person the time of day. Then he should set her straight about how he feels about you and then not talk to her.

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Why would a "happily" married man who just got married a very short time ago, seek out an affair and then turn that affair into a three-some with his wife but still keep seeing the affair alone as well? He said his wife does satisfy his needs? Go figure! Of course his wife satisfies his needs. He's doing what he wants sexually. He has his cake and he gets to eat it too, with her blessing apparently. Are you the third person in this triangle?

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What is your silliest fear? I'm really afraid of mice. My boyfriend had some at his house. He would set out the traps at night after I went to bed and take the dead mice out in the morning before I got up. If he hadn't done this I couldn't be at his house. He caught eleven, I think. Isn't that awful. I don't like rats either. I was babysitting for a friend's children. She had pet rats in a...

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My girlfriend has three Bisexual friends. One use to live with her. Do you think she could have done something with any of them? I would think it's a definite possibility. Have you asked?

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Should a girl have a choice in what sort of engagement ring they would like? Yes, she and her fiance should go to the jewelry store together. (Price range should be discussed prior to this). Him because he's paying for it. Her, to pick out what she likes. Unless, of course he surprised her with it.

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If my girlfirend is constantly going out on girls nights without me should this annoy me? I have few friends as I have moved country to be with her. However her best friend does not have a boyfriend so says she will be left out. It is happening weekly. And how often are you and your girlfriend actually going out together? You should talk with your girlfriend and let her know you feel left out.

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When a girl gets out of a long term relationship how long should she wait before moving in with another man? She has two kids and he has two kids and he is not divorced yet. Uh-oh, he's not divorced yet? Is he in the process of getting a divorce? She didn't leave her other relationship to be with this guy, did she? I hope not. I would wait on this one. He needs to get the divorce first. And since there are children she should wait. Because if things don't work out it wouldn't be fair to them.

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I have been with my man for a little over a year..we don't live togethor yet and he says he has things to take care of first..should I be worried? That's just an excuse. I think you know it, too. You just want someone to confirm what you already know....he has no intention of asking you to move in with him. Time to broaden your horizons, dear. And start dating again. Funny how the sight of another man might make this guy a little bit more serious about you. Or, not. Either way it goes you'd be better off.

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My husband does not give me enough importance what should i do In what way does he not give you enough importance?

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MEN - If you met a woman who admitted to cheating on her boyfriend of three years, then slept with a daycare client, all within a few months would you move in with her being the fourth guy in as many months and be in a serious relationship with her? I know that this question is meant for men but....RSean, you deserve someone better than the woman your describing. If a friend of yours asked the same question what would you tell him? This seems like a bad move to begin with and I'm a woman. She's not the serious type, if that's what your looking for. She needs to grow up. Do you want to wait around for that? There are women...

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Is possible for 38 yr old father 2 give up need4younger women's attention/flirting? He's never married, hurt badly in past unable 2 trust/wants to fall inlove again. Said he loves me/misses that attention/doesnt want 2 hurt me dtg 9 mos/lvg 2 mos So, you've been dating for nine months and living together for two months. Correct? And the guy seems to have a great need for female attention outside of the attention that you give him? Gee, and how does that make you feel? Rotten, I'll bet. Do you want someone who's focus is just you? Well, it's not going to happen with this guy. If your trying to change him it won't...

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Do you think if you move in with someone that eventually there might be a wedding in the future? I wouldn't count on it. Why buy the cow if the milk is free. I know it's a corny saying but it's true. Statistically speaking, people who live together don't usually get married. They're just playing house. Do you eventually want to get married and have children? Then refuse the offer. Say, gee thanks, but no thanks.

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What do you do when you've been living with your bf for 8 years, he sleeps on the couch, no plans of marriage,we barely even speak. have sex about once or twice a month but he doesnt wanna break up. So, he doesn't want to break up, do you? Your in this relationship too. Doesn't sound like much of a life to me. Especially not speaking to one another. Isn't that uncomfortable?

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If a man lives with a woman for two years, and there is no wedding date in sight? Is she a fool for staying? If her objective was to eventually get married to the guy, yes. Why buy the cow is the milk is free.

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Why is it a bad idea for a married man to cheat with three other women? If a man wants to cheat with multiple women why are they married at all? They should be single.

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My boyfriend talks about his ex constantly, is this a red flag? There are some things not worth fighting for. A guy who talks about his ex is not over her. My suggestion would be to let the guy go, even if it hurts. It's not going to get any better months down the road. I can tell you from personal experience. Cut your losses now, or wish you had later on. You deserve better.

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If the #1 person in your life was too "controlling" or insisted on being with you all of the time, would you refer to that person as your "Significant Smother?" Probably. Or, Significant Smother"er". Do you have someone who insists being with you all the time?

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If your dad got back from a business trip and you had noticed a pair of frilly panties in a side pocket of his suitcase, would you have told your mom? Anonymous, I'd like to ask a question of my own, to help me answer yours. How did you discover the panties? Next, do your parents have a playful relationship with each other? Is your Dad a careless man?

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My bestfriend has headlice, and I keep catching them off her. I'm not sure on how to approach her about the situation and tell her she has nits. Any ideas on what i could say, or do? Unless you are going to tell your best friend that she has head lice your going to continue to get them from her. Head lice are not that hard to get rid of but you have to wash everything you come in contact with and/or spray. The products to get rid of them will be costly over time if you have to keep retreating yourself. The only answer is to tell her if you want to continue to be friends and...

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If you could, would you snap your fingers and change all firearms in the world to bows & arrows? No, because I know how to shoot a gun. So, some big guy comes up and tries to do something bad to me and I'm supposed to show him my bow and arrow? Yeah, right. Or maybe I should have a rock in my car. Just for protection. Or, maybe I could protect my 73 year old mother with a freakin' rock if someone breaks down my door. Get serious. Guns are the great equalizer between the...

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My wife cheated and her best friend supported her throughout. We are working it out, but she insists on keeping her best friend, whom cheats on her husband as well. What should I do? Does the husband know that his wife is cheating on him? I think he should find out. I wouldn't tell him directly though. She'll be so busy dealing with her own stuff she might just leave you alone. Then again, I guess this could backfire and you'd have the b**ch sleeping on your couch or something. I agree that for you and your wife to work things out this woman has got to go....

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If your dad got back from a business trip and you had noticed a pair of frilly panties in a side pocket of his suitcase, would you have told your mom? I would say, "Mom look what dad brought you back from vacation"...

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Why do we need to talk to ex's they are ex's for a reason? It would seem that ex's are ex's for a reason. For most normal people, that is. My ex is still in love with me. I don't feel the same way though. Thank God, he lives over three hundred miles away. Too far away to stalk me. LOL. If we didn't have kids together I would never have any contact with him at all.

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I'm 21 F and my bf is 40 is he to old for me I guess I'd like to know what you have in common except for maybe sex. At forty he's in his midlife crises stage of life. You know, trying to replace the "old" woman with a much younger one. Wishing life didn't seem like it was passing him by. Trying to re-live his youth. At twenty one your a distraction for him from all of this. As for what you might see in him? A...

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My boyfriend and I had been together for over 2years. he kissed a girl and begged for forgivness.However about a week after i found that out he slept with her twice.I found out and he keeps saying he has changed,his sorry the usual but can i trust him? When you asked can you trust him...I thought, I don't know...can you? I mean really. Even sleeping with someone once can be a mistake, but twice...come on now. How did you find out that he slept with her twice anyway? He's only sorry because he got caught. Not because he has any true remorse for what he did. He's a loser. Do not be a loser yourself by staying with him. There has...

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I got married a week ago,& at the wed. my man invited his ex gf who was wearing this skanky dress,& he kept telling her how pretty she looked.He never told me I looked good once,& I was wearing a wed. dress!Anyway Im got mad,Im still mad,should I be mad? Your husband sounds like a real jerk. He invited his ex? And then couldn't stop complimenting her. I'm with Nice Guy in Bay Area...get an annulment. It's never going to get any better. Why prolong the agony?

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I was choked and abused by my ex about 7 times. we're friends but im staying away from him still. im not sure if i need help, like talking to a professional. im still pretty angry at times. do you have any advice? anyone who can help the anger go away? If you had a friend that was abused by a guy and she told you they were still "friends", what would you think? My dear, your ex is not your friend and you shouldn't be his. I was in an abusive relationship for many years. Both physical and emotional. After sixteen years of being away from my ex, I am still scarred from it. I never got any help. Do I wish I would...

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My boyfriend isn't physically abusive but he emotionally abusive he told me i won't find a man better then him no one would love me like him he don't won't my family around me if they call he tell them i'm out the only places i can go is home,work Emotional abuse can be as bad as physical abuse. I can tell you that your relationship isn't going to get any better. In fact, it may get worse. And it could turn into physical abuse. I know because I lived it. You want a happy life...get away from this person as soon as possible. In you heart you know that the way your boyfriend treats you isn't right. You can find a person that...

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Would you allow your boyfriend or hubby to leave the house in the middle of the night to "reassure" a female friend of his? This is how affairs begin. A man being sympathetic to a woman. And some women know this and play it for all it's worth. To a guy a female friend is just someone they haven't slept with "yet". (Watch the Movie: When Harry Met Sally) If everything is really just on a friendship basis, she should come over to your house. This middle of the night stuff is for the birds. Better...

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One of my girlfriends always wants me to tell her about the funny things my husband does for me when he is turn on, do you think I should hold back or just tell her? Cardinal Rule: Never tell another woman anything sexual about your man. Ever. You only make them want to try it out for themselves. I think I would slowly ditch this woman. In other words, don't make it obvious that your not going to be hanging out with her anymore. Tell her your busy. She's no friend. Case in point: A woman that I knew who worked with my husband started wanting to be...

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My x-bf has a new gf the day after he dumps me, but hes still planing on marrying me. he says"we still have r senior trip" where he wants 2 take me to have sex w/ him but i dont want him lying to me again or havingsex when im not ready but REALLY love him He's playing games with you. Start a To-Do-List beginning with: 1. Find new boyfriend to replace old boyfriend. 2. Tell ex-boyfriend your planning on marrying the new boyfriend and having sex with him on your senior trip. 3. Stop talking to this clown.

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I'm a 21 year old virgin male. Is there something wrong with that? For girls is a turn off to meet a guy that old that's never had sex, or even really made out at all? There's nothing wrong with that. You can do what you want to with your life. As long as it doesn't bother you, who cares?

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I decided to flirt with my head teacher and now he wants me to do intimate things with him what should i do? Real simple, stay the hell away from him. And knock of the flirting. See where it gets you? Tell a trusted adult what's going on before something bad happens to you.

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My wife tricked me after an argment by posin as my on-heat ex girlfriend from yonder and emailing me at work. After loads of steamy emails to and fro i found out later ,i told her off for trickin me, she sed i am a 2timin bastard, who's at fault here? You responded to the emails because you wanted to. No one put a gun to your head did they? It was a test and you flunked. BIG TIME. I would think a guy that loves and respects his wife wouldn't consider returning a steamy email. Or, at least you could have respond by saying your not interested. But you didn't do that either. Your wife must know you pretty well to think you would fall...

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Do you think an 11 yr. old girl is too young to wear makeup? Here's the deal..."If" you have an eleven year old that wants to wear makeup, she's obviously influenced either by tv or her friends. I think there can be sort of a compromise. You can't say no to everything your child does. And if all her friends are doing it you don't want her to feel like an outcast. The compromise is this...clear mascara, 1 clear lip gloss and...

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When you find a person that you know is "the one" The one you think you are meant to be with, do you think it happens for a reason or just by chance? The girl I love, we both feel that we met for a reason. That it's meant to be. What are your thoughts? I think there's a reason why we meet certain people. I think it's wonderful you both feel the same way about each other. May you have a long and happy life together.

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I had some photos of old girlfriends on my computer. they have been there forever, my live in girlfriend came across the old photos and freaked and said i needed to delete all of them. should a person delete old photos? Spangbr, if the old girlfriends are naked in the pictures get rid of them, pronto. I'm assuming by the tone of your question you probably forgot you even had them. How much does your current girlfriend mean to you? What do you need the old photos for? A trip down memory lane? Do you think your going to get back with any of them? If not, there's really no point in keeping them. Is...

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Hi, my boyfriend is already married, couldnt divorce his wife bcoz of his family, i divorce my husband to be with him, my bf says he loves me but not as much as his family, i cant live with out him, pls suggest wot i need to do, i love him so much To begin with he's not your boyfriend. Does he take you to the movies, take you out to dinner, spend any holiday with you? Does he cancel plans with you because something's "come up"? I would think so. Don't you feel terribly lonely when that happens? I'm not going to come down as hard on you as the others. Probably because I've walked a mile in your...

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Why is it wrong to wish death upon someone or hate someone? Truth is everyone has probably had those feelings at one time or another. I used to wish that my ex husband was dead all the time. I divorced him instead. And a girl who got me fired from my job....I could have killed her, literally, but I didn't. I guess the biggest thing about wishing death upon someone or hating them poisons your own mind and body. It's wrong because it makes you...

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What should I do today? I've been in this hell hole house for 3 days straight and I'm feeling homocidal. Did you know 10 minutes of exercise will improve your mood for hours. So, get out of the "hell hole" and take a walk. Life is for the living.

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Alright,who was it? I confess, it was me who stole the cookie from the cookie jar.

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What is your pet's name? Kittyboy. He's a tuxedo cat that looks like someone put marker on the three corner's of his nose. My son originally called him shaggy. And he wasn't. I started calling him kittyboy and it stuck. He's a humane society cat. (he was a kitten when we got him)

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Do you love watching Thunderstorms? Yes, they're very exciting but I haven't seen one in a long time. It can be breathtaking. I also like to watch documentaries on people who chase tornado's but I wouldn't want to do that. I don't know, maybe. And I like great white sharks too. Although, I wouldn't want to be in the water with one in a cage or otherwise.

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Why don't people trust? Is it based on evidence or just insecurity? I have a problem trusting my boyfriend for the following reasons: His ex's grown children wanted to meet him even though he's with me now and he was seriously considering it. He "supposedly" told his ex to stop calling but she still does anyway. The days I'm not at his house, of course. That she calls while I'm not there is a fact. And she knows the days I'm...

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Do men only lie if they don't love you? I found out recently that my boyfriend had called his ex. Supposedly she had a problem with her dog and needed advice. He thought I wouldn't find out. His redial on his phone holds more than one number. Does he care about me? I don't know. He said she only tries to call him. Even after he supposedly asked her to stop. I would take that as a lie on his part regardless of the situation.

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I need these words translated into English, please: "ooh ee ooh ah ah, ting tang, walla walla bing bang." (They are in the attached song clip.) If I am gonna say them to a babe, I would LIKE to know EXACTLY what I am saying. Ooh eeh, ooh ah ah, is telling the woman how beautiful you think she is. Ting tang walla walla bing bang is telling a woman that you would like to make mad and passionate love to her. Because after all, the witch doctor was telling the man what to say and what to do to get the woman he loved. Right? LOL.

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It's 2:45. Do YOU say, "quarter BEFORE 3," "quarter TO 3," "quarter OF 3," "quarter 'TIL 3," or how do you say that time, in your section of the USA (assuming you are in the USA)? Each region of the USA has its own way, right? Michigan, a quarter to 3.

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Would it be "technically accurate" to say that if one could crossbreed a Chinese Girl with a Rooster, that the offspring would be known as a "COCK-ASIAN?" ("Caucasian?") Made me laugh for the second time today. I think I'm spending too much time on AB today.

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Do you think women should date men they work with? Hmm...I never did even though I was surrounded by good looking guys and separated at the time. I just thought it would be complicated if things didn't work out. Then on top of that, you have to see that person everyday if that happened. But on the other hand, I suppose if you take things very slowly things could work out. And if you've known this person for quite a while that's...

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Isn't this video (from 1981) an excellent tribute, of sorts, by Johnny Carson (1925-2005) for the late Walter Cronkite (1916-2009)? (Reports are, Walter loved it, and would play it for visitors to his home.) Absolutely loved it. Those were the days my friend, we thought they'd never end.... I miss Johnny too.

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If you were to crossbreed a Shih Tzu with a Poodle, would the resultant offspring be known as a "Poo-Shih Tzu?" Poo Shih-Tzu, seems more like the sound that would accompany a karate move or the sound of a japanese person sneezing. Your so funny!

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What was the last thing you baked in an oven? Low carb cheese biscuits. They were just okay. I'm going to change the recipe a bit.

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Why do I keep getting heart burn out of no where? I think it is heart burn any way...? It may be the things you eat. I find if I stop eating chocolate, spicy foods, tea, and greasy foods...it pretty much goes away. Also, do not eat within 4 hours before going to bed. If this doesn't work I would go to the doctor's. By the way, there is one brand of chewable over the counter medicine that can kill you if you take too much. And how much is too much you ask...I don't...

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Are you one of those folks who enjoys the "showroom smell" of brand-new tires? (For those in the UK: "tyres.") Gee, and I thought it was just me. I've never told anyone that. I love the smell of leather too.

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Why do old men wear their pants so high on their torsos? Lots of people make fun of this but there must be a reason. Any ideas? They are just picking the wrong style of pants for their bodies which most likely have changed over the years. They need to go with a lower rise pair of pants. The rise is the measurement between the crotch and the waist of the pants. Therefore, if the rise is too long it ends up being above their waists and looking funny.

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Can someone become a christian without reading the bible or going to church? I'm very disappointed in the majority of the answers here. There is no such thing as a "wham bamm thank you mam" religious experience. If you think you can become a "Christian" without knowing Christ first, you are terribly mistaken.

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For any of you that have been cheated on and were unsure of whether to stay or go, do you have any advice on how to get over it? Yeah, I'm kind of in the middle of the do I stay or do I go situation myself. Although, I don't believe I've been cheated on. Just lied to about an ex-girlfriend. He was supposedly not talking to her, but I found out differently. No advice on this point, just my sympathy for you. Your not alone. Now...as for how to get over it, you just have to give yourself plenty of time. There...

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Should i be worried that my husband hired a younger women to work with him? bc since she started he hasn't been taking me to work with him. im thinking bc he doesn't want me to see how good she looks! im prego and they say thats when men r likely to cheat Is there anything stopping you from showing up at work? I would. Most definitely. And I would pop in spontaneously. Several times. And give him a big ol' kiss. She may not be aware that he's married. Some women would be put off if a pregnant wife shows up. And any interest would be in the trash can. You have nothing to lose, right? And there are some decent women out there that...

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Can someone be in love with a person and cheat on them at the same time? Nope. People can say anything they want and frequently do. Doesn't make it true, though. Someone who thinks you can be in love and still screw around is in denial. Like deeep! Just thought of a line from a song, "Who's making love to your old lady, while you were out makin' love? I guess you could reverse it too. Who's making love to your old man, while you were out...

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My husband had a sexual, and emotional relationship with a woman we both know. We were seperated at the time. And he say's it meant nothing to him. I found emails they sent to each other and it sure didn't seem like nothing. Should I believe him? Gee, you would think he would pick someone you didn't both know. How classy of him. Then...you find out that although he said it meant nothing to him, you found emails that suggest differently. So, first he picks an someone you know and secondly lies saying it meant nothing to him. How often to you have to run into "Ms. It Meant Nothing"? Cut your loses and move on. Why prolong...

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Is it cheating when your husband texts another women all day long Would he feel comfortable letting you know wheat the texts say? People with nothing to hide, hide nothing. Right? The fact that your husband seems to be carrying on an emotional affair is not good. Did he take the vow...forsaking all others clinging only to you? Let him know three's a crowd. Better yet, have different men that he doesn't know start calling your house and asking for...

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Would it be ok to lie if it saves your relationship? Sorry to say...but if you lie to someone you don't have much of a relationship to begin with do you? Also, what if they end up finding out later that you lied to them? Either way it goes your screwed. So fess up!

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Is your husband making phone calls in the middle of the night to another woman? And you found out its his first wife? What are you going to do? You know that he wants her back? Well I can tell you a few things to do and not to do. First, do not wait to have a conversation about this issue. Do not say, I want to talk to you about something because then his guard will be up and your likely to hear a lot of lies and denial. The questions you need to ask him should start with the words why, when, where and what. The reason it's important to start questions with these...

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I am a second year in Nursing. I have one more year till i take my boards. Any advise on what would help me become a better nurse? Yes, always remember your patients are human beings. Talk to them like you would like to be spoken to. Treat them how you would like to be treated. I've been in the hospital several times. I had a c-section and a nurse came into my room and must have been thinking I had a regular delivery. She was pushing my uterus and she had long fingernails. (Remember, I had a c-section). God, it hurt....

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What are people scared of when they say 'marriage scares me'? The commitment, the boredom. Thinking you may never have exciting sex again. Possibly thinking you might make a mistake that's hard to get out of? Who knows. For each person saying that they must have a reason.

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What make men cheat on a good woman and what make women cheat on a good man? Men and women cheat for different reasons. Men have two heads. (And I've said this before in an answer to another question). And with "some" men the head below the waist "rules". The reason women cheat can be because they've been molested sexually. That experience can make you promiscuous. And if a woman has a "good" man, it has to be pure stupidity....

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I was texting and sent a dirty msg to the wrong person, how do you think i can get out of this? You can't. That's like trying to put spilled milk back into the carton. We've all made mistakes. The best thing to do is tell the truth. Lies tend to have a life of their own, so I wouldn't advise trying to get out of this. To really answer your question properly though answering the following questions might help? Who did you send it to and who did you mean to send it to?

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God may have created the world in seven(well six) days but it does not say that they were Earth days, do you think God realizes time as we do? He is almighty and omnipresent; Couldn't one day for him be 100,000 years+ for us? Hope this helps. My comment is after the verses. This is the New King James Version. Genesis 1 The History of Creation 1 In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth. 2 The earth was without form, and void; and darkness was on the face of the deep. And the Spirit of God was hovering over the face of the waters. 3 Then God said, “Let...

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If Jesus was God ... Then how can this be consistent with the following crystal clear statement in the bible: "He (God) is the only one who cannot die. He lives in light that no one can come near. No one has seen him, nor can they see him.[1 Timothy 6:16] 1 Timothy 6:13-16 (New King James Version) 13 I urge you in the sight of God who gives life to all things, and before Christ Jesus who witnessed the good confession before Pontius Pilate, 14 that you keep this commandment without spot, blameless until our Lord Jesus Christ’s appearing, 15 which He will manifest in His own time, He who is the blessed and only Potentate, the King of...

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What does it mean when a girl cheats on you, sleeps with a second guy, then tells you she loves you and tries to work it out, sleeps with the second guy again, and now is with a third guy who now lives with her after just a week? It means you need to get away from this person. Pronto. You deserve better. Hope you find the right person for you. She just doesn't happen to be it. Cut your losses and move on. Best Wishes.

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What is the one and foremost important quality or trait for an individual to possess and practice throughout their lifetime? Integrity. Because there are so few people who possess it. It means that your word means something. It means when you get down to it your trustworthy and honest. Not many people that I know of have these qualities.

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Why no matter how hot you are do men still look at other woman? Because men have two heads and the one below the waist "rules". I just think "your man" deserves a little taste of his own medicine. Make it a point to really look at other guys to the point of "not hearing" what your guy just said to you. Now of course this isn't going to work if you do it just once, but repeatedly. Walk into doors, while looking at a guy in...

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Ladies: who is a famous sexy older man? Tom Selleck is my pick for one sexy older man. I believe he's sixty two now. Yummo!

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What do you do when you resent the very person you're in love with? I guess I would need a little more information. What do you resent about the object of your affection? Just in general though, I would think it would be hard to love someone yet resent them at the same time. Could it be a case of....you needing some encouragement to get away from this person? There are some decent people out there, I think? Or, as least I would like to think so. Unfortunately,...

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What's one thing you can use a bedsheet for? Making your boyfriends death look like a suicide. Of course, mine weights 300+. I'd probably need help. LOL. This was meant to be funny not serious. I hope people take it that way.

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Why do human beings resorts to deceiving fellow humans for the sake of money n yet they do not feel any guilt or remose? Because the "love" of money is the root of all evil. And because people love money so much they are willing to do anything to get it. Murder, prostitution, selling drugs. You name it, people will do it.

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Does how a person smell affect you in any ? Perfumes etc? If a guy smells like cologne and it's good cologne it turns me on. In fact a guy I met but wasn't interested in smelled so good it kind of messed with my mind. It's like an aphrodisiac to me. Of course, the secret is not to put too much on. One or two sprays, tops. You just want a hint of scent. It's more intriguing that way. At least to me.

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What's the first thing that comes to mind when I say "acceptance"? First thing that comes to mind is L-O-V-E. Because to truly love someone you have to accept them for who they are and not how to want them to be.

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Can you name another another product on tv where the pitch person is dead and the commercial is still running?Excluding Billy Mays of course. Has this happen before? Orville Redenbacher's popcorn commercials are still around. He's been dead for a long time.

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If a guy says he can't afford to buy a girl the ring she wants (it's $600) and offers to buy a $100 one instead, then later on he announces plans to buy a GPS and a new car stereo, does the girl have a right to be angry? Rings can be put on layaway. So, technically he could afford the ring you desire. But the real issue here is that what he wants, is more important than what you want. If he's not willing to put off his own desires to take care of yours he just isn't a considerate person. And he's probably never going to be. Whatever mildly annoys you now about him, over time will become a bigger...

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I have noticed over the years that men are not as critical of their bodies or looks as women are. Women are much harder on themselves when they look in the mirror. Why dont men realize women prefer you to make a bigger effort to look nice? How true. It's a guy "thing". Mr. Average Joe just does not care. Of course there are exceptions. Now..if you want a guy to make more of an effort to clean up his act you have to compliment him when he does look particularly good. Tell him you like a particular shirt on him. Tell him the barber did a nice job on his haircut. Don't overdo it though because he'll catch...

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Nearly had a bad car accident when driving with my boyfriend. It's tough for him to get over it. How do I make it up to him and earn his trust again? Easy solution: let him drive. No one drives perfectly every time they're out on the road. And I've been driving for thirty-seven years. I've never been at fault in any accident. And haven't had many over the years. I would think now that you've come close to a bad accident your even more careful. I wouldn't worry about earning your boyfriends trust again. Every...

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How to cope with a commitment phobe? tips pls coz he leaves me feeling insecure There's a ebook called "Dating Without Drama" by Paige Parker. It would certainly have tips on how to deal with this type of person.

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How do i tell my girlfriend i like to crossdress Boy is this a touchy one. I think I would test the waters first. Bring it up in conversation without admitting that's what you like to do. You can check her reaction. And then if you still choose to tell her pick a neutral place like a park. Or the woods, lol. The further away from the general public the better. Good Luck. I have a notion your going to need it.

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What would you do if you woke up one morning and found yourself with the opposite genders genitals? I'm sure I would be shocked at first. Then, I'd find the astroglide and play with it. I'd probably stay home all day doing so. Gee, all these people thinking about peeing. Are you kidding? I just think about the sexual aspect of it. Then I'd probably, go back to sleep hoping it was all just a dream.

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What is the most beautiful thing you have ever seen? There have been several. Hmmm...I was on my Dad's boat with my mother and my kids. The sun was going down. It shined across the water like something you'd see in a picture. The sun settling in the depressions of the waves. It was peaceful, beautiful...a rare moment in time. Like heaven. My dad's gone now, my mother is aging with memory problems, my kids are grown. It's still...

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What do you think of the name Willie Stroker? I think...I hope so. If it were me I would want him to. LOL.

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What should I feed my minotaur? Any damn thing he wants?

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What good has ever come from worrying? The truth is worrying doesn't change a thing. It doesn't make you taller, smarter, or richer...do I need to go on? It can however, make you sick. It actually changes your body chemistry. So, some tips on what to do: keep yourself, busy. Idle hands are..the devils handiwork. When you start to think a negative thought say no to yourself. Pray. Talk to a friend. Particularly one who can...

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What's your favorite thing to eat or drink on a cold, wet, nasty day? Vanilla chai tea. With stevia and real cream. Yum.

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My boyfriend told me he would get checked for STDs. Now he won't go. He says he knows he's clean, despite the fact he has never been tested. He says its insulting for me to ask him to go. We love each other a lot and I'm shocked he won't go. What can i do Maybe you should show your guy the worst case scenarios. Things such as a picture of stuff growing on someone's pecker. And say this could happen to you if you don't know that you have something. True he may be insulted thinking that you don't trust him. And he might just be a chicken about going to a clinic or doctor. Tell him he could have contracted something like chlamydia...

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Could you ever handle being in a tri-fold relationship where there is one man and two women? Like on Big Love.... I could and would, but only not in the mormon sense. We would all have to share EVERYTHING! This won't work long term. And there are reasons for that. A man and a woman are meant to be like one. Two will eventually edge the third party out. And it wouldn't be bad unless your the person out of the equation. Sometimes fantasy should remain just that, fantasy. I can't imagine that if you really love someone that you would want to share them. Isn't it hard enough to be...

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I had problems with my BF over another girl. I felt threatened by their relationship. Got so bad, we broke up. I put an end to things. He is trying to get back with me. Before, he would not end their "friendship" and now acts like she is the bad guy? Why? Seems as though guys play as many games as the girls. Most people would have felt threatened. That's pretty normal when a guy isn't making up his mind and you know it. You did the right thing by breaking it off with him. The reason why he wants to get back with you is that you made him make a decision by breaking it off with him. He found out the other girl wasn't all that, after...

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I've just found out that my girlfriend is lying about where she is, she told me she's at home but ive just found out she's with her ex, who's a "friend". I'm going crazy, what do i do? How can i catch her out/confront her? its not the first time. Okay, so this isn't the first time? This isn't baseball and you don't have to give her three strikes to call her out. You should dump her but before you do, you need to tell her why. Then go home look in the mirror and repeat the following phrase ten times. I deserve better.

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My weight is 168, my boyfriend gave me two choices, him or my weight i don't know what to do i need help? i told him it is not fair but he said he wants me to loose weight. This is the easiest question I've ever answered. What's that saying about don't let the door hit you in the ass on the way out... Lose the boyfriend.

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I like/love this guy who is in love with his ex, who is in love with her ex from a few years ago. He keeps asking me for advice on how to win her back, knowing that i want to be with him. How do i give advice to him? I cant get past my want for it to end Why do you even want a guy that's disrespectful of your feelings? He adds insult your to injury...he has the nerve to ask you how to get his ex back. And he knows you like him? This guys not even a friend to you in any sense of the word. Dump the clown. You deserve a whole lot better.

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Most people believe in the idea of evolution since it is pretty much scientific fact, how can people still believe in Adam and Eve and the Garden of Eden? Sorry, but your misinformed...evolution is still just a "theory". As in: identifying phenomena and making an assertion or a claim) True, it is touted as fact all the time though. Pay attention to the wording about evolution in documentaries. You'll see what I mean about it being pushed as though it was fact and not theory. That's odd, don't you think? You might be...

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You find $30 000 000 In a trash can in an alley, what do you do? Are you kidding...keep it. Finder's keeper's. Go shopping. Get my car fixed. Buy my boyfriend a really nice gift for his birthday.

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Where is ignorance bliss? Only in the mind of the person who doesn't realize what's going on.

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Bungie chord jumping is ___________________! Absolutely, nuts!

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Why is my brother such a d*ck? Because he can be? What's he doing that makes him a dick?

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If YOU came with Instructions what would they say? Fragile: handle with care.

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If you wear perfume or cologne, WHERE do you put it on your body? On my wrists, behind my ears, between my breasts and behind my knees.

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What was the last answer you provided to a question? It was for the question what shouldn't you do at a funeral? I answered....show up drunk and pull off your wife's wig.

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What shouldn't you do at a funeral? Show up drunk and pull your wife's wig off. My father-in-law did this to my mother-in-law years ago. They're both dead now. I only heard about the incident, I didn't see it. He would have been needing a casket himself, if it had been me. LOL.

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Can I poke your belly button? You could if you don't care if you get your finger back. I'd have to poke you back too. Is that okay? LOL.

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Do you think when the doctor asks you to rate your pain on a 1-10 scale, that it's a good system to describe pain? The first time I saw this scale I was in a hospital emergency room. I thought it was idiotic. Would I have been there if my pain was a two, for instance? Why else would you be there except you were in bad shape. I didn't exactly have a nose bleed. I eventually had my gall bladder out. I think it gives them an excuse so they can leave you in a room for hours and hours of pain/torture and...

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I woke up this morning with a dull sort of gnawing pain half way up my right side. It's really hurting me and is worse when I take a deep breath in or move, although I can feel the pain constantly. Any ideas what it could be? You could have hurt your back. Done any heavy lifting lately? Best bet is to see a doctor and rule out anything more serious.

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Do you think i need to truly let go in order to love again/another? Though a piece of my heart will always belong to him. I used to think I would never get over different people I had met in this long journey of life. But all memories fade with time. One day you won't feel the same as you do now. When your ready to let go you will. And that piece of your heart that you think belongs to him, you'll give to another. It will happen.

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Why can't women love men for our minds? I love an intelligent man/men. But in reality the reason women don't love men for their minds is the same reason men don't love women for their minds. We're visual creatures first.

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My buddy says I am "humiliating" myself when I model nude in front of an all girl art class. He says the girls don't say anything, they draw from the model, but deep inside they feel I'm totally degrading & humiliating myself. Do women agree? Feeback? I'm not getting the impression that you feel humiliated at all. If it's not bothering you why worry what your buddy is saying. And unless he's psychic how would he know what the girls are thinking. It's a job, right? Although I personally would have a hard time concentrating on drawing a guy nude. Send me a pic? LOL.

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Ladies, have you ever seen a man who can do multiple orgasms? Is this possible, do you believe this guy? (Check out Nick's answer; link): No, just read about it. Been with a guy that I believe was on Viagra. He was ready to go again in fifteen minutes though. No, I take it back...when I was younger I remember a couple of guys that could go on and do it at least of couple of times after having an orgasm.

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I'm straight guy, never been w a guy! , BUT,in LA last winter (writing class) met handsome blond guy.We talked, got along well.Told him i thought he was handsome! (Knows i'm straight)-but i wanna give him BJ! How do i go about asking? he must 'suspect'! Your straight, George? Since when does a supposedly straight guys want to give another guy a BJ? I would think never. Just because you've never been with another guy doesn't make you straight. I'm pretty sure the guy probably got "it" when you told him you thought he was handsome. He's just not that in to you. Not exactly something a straight guy would say to...

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Men always say fake beauty is worse. Then why do they prefer strippers, porn stars and glamour models? They're fake! Every guy I ask says that honestly, they are hotter than normal women, even their gfs/wives. So how come they say otherwise? My ex-husband says that all men lie. And I believe it. I bet that there are a lot of men hotter than your boyfriend or husband right? Brad Pitt, Hugh Jackman, George Clooney, and that oldie but goodie, Tom Selleck, he's still hot. There's lots of them, just look around. You'll be so busy you won't have time to worry what your BF/husband is looking at, much less care....

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What is the worst thing a man can say to a women? Your profile states that your a Christian? Why would you want to know what the worst thing a man can say to a woman? Christian and misogynist are not synonymous with each other. Instead....how about what would be the nicest thing you can say to a woman: You look beautiful, I love you, I'm so glad I found you.

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Should women Love, Honor, Worship and Obey their husband/partners? Love and honor. Yes. Worship only God. Obey? he's not your daddy and you are not his child. Marriage is a partnership not a dictatorship.

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One of my closest friends celebrates her birthday on Saturday. Her cousin, who has also been a friend of mine for many, many years, now dates the LOVE OF MY LIFE. He already made me go through hell and back. Should I attend the party anyway? Suggestions? Since this question was dated back in April, what you end up doing?

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I shave, wax, wear nice boots, bag & get manicures & peticures every week. I'm tall & hot & bonde, but why can't I get a man? Attitude is everything. Maybe you think so much of yourself there is no room for anyone else. The "I'm all that and a bag of chips" syndrome. Try downplaying the "stuff" a little. Unless a guy is Mr. Trendy himself he's not going to be okay with someone who looks like they just walked out of a fashion magazine. And a guy may wonder if they can afford your lifestyle.

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A Catholic Nun drew me nude! Years ago I posed nude@ women's Catholic college.Before my pose I saw, young,(@26)- attractive nun by her easel. I found her cute. Strange feeling. We exchanged eye contact, & I got full hard on! Think she felt "complimented"? It's not a compliment when a guy gets hard. The sky is blue, the grass is green, men's dicks get hard all the time. Oops, I suppose to be politically correct I should say penis. What I would like to know is...why would a catholic nun be drawing you nude? Are you for real?

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Girls do tight jeans look good on skinny mans legs? Or should i wear baggy ones? Since you are asking girls....here's the deal. If your trying to attract the opposite sex too tight can look gay. You really don't want a girl your interested in to have to question your sexuality. On the other hand if your thin do not go too baggy either. It will make you look even thinner by comparison. Another option: ask a friend that's a girl with good style sense to go with...

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Why do most women have penis envy? Most? Of all the women that I have known in my lifetime, not one ever expressed an interest in having a penis. Really. Personally,if anything I'm glad I don't have one. The reason I wouldn't want one...getting it stuck in a zipper. Ow. Or getting kicked in the crotch. Oooo. On the plus side...men seem to have an easier time having an orgasm. I still wouldn't want one though....

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I have a fear of ghosts =[. I've heard that the only way to get rid of a fear is to confront the thing you're afraid of. How can I do this if the base of my fear is confronting one? HELP! I read you profile and since you are interested in religion I thought I'd let you know what the Bible says, on the subject of death (ghosts). Contrary to what a lot of Christian's believe, mankind is not naturally immortal. The gift of God is immortality. Proverbs 12:28 says, In the way of righteousness there is life; along that path is "immortality". About death:...

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What should you never tell to a naked woman in bed? You looked like a beached whale. Or anything else that's mean if you still plan on having sex with that person.

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Why do women expect chivalry and equal pay/rights? Why should they have the best of both worlds? Since when has chivalry and or, courteous behavior gone out of style? I want to be treated decently, don't you? It works both ways. And why should I not be paid the same as any other person doing the same job? Who else is going to pay my bills except for me? The person asking the question? Doubt it. Rights? Shouldn't people also be treated decently on the job too?

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Should "fill in the blank" questions be banned and the people who make them be beaten severely with an AB stick? Simple solution....if you don't like the question, duh just don't answer it.

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I have an ex-girlfriend that I want back(she nows lives with another man) yet we still talk behind his back/or see comes over to my home and then w/in a day goes back to him. SHe also likes to wear my clothes as soon as she comes over.what does this mean? You want a cheater back? And you don't think she'll eventually cheat on you too? Do you only want her because she's now with another guy? Your not even a little worried about the other guy coming over to beat the sh** out of you? Why she's wearing your clothes when she comes over should be the least of your concerns.

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Do men or women worry more about having a big bum? Women do generally. I have a big bum and I don't worry about it. I've never asked if my butt looks big in these pants. And never will. Hasn't never stopped the guys from looking. A voluptuous fanny is looked upon more favorably now. My time has come. Finally.

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Is there any way for a man to come out on top in this scenario, your wife / gf comes down the stairs all dolled up & says "Well.... how do I look?" Since your aware that she has gone to great lengths to look good say something equally good. And not the same thing every time. If you can't say something nice some other guy may. Look her up and down first, then whistle and say you look beautiful. Another time you might kiss her hand and tell her she's gorgeous. Or, say every other woman in the world is going to be jealous. Or, you...

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Women know that guys look at other women or even do something that shows they think that women is "hot" in front of their girlfriend, wife, etc. we dont get that worked up, so why do they get furious when we do it? Your guy is getting worked up about you looking at other guys? Good for you. I've always thought that what's good for the goose is good for the gander. Most people can't take what they dish out.

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Why am i staying in an emotionally abusive relationship A couple of reasons; your addicted to the ups and downs of being with an abusive person. It is also like being paralyzed. Or stuck. Things can change though. The key is...you have to be willing to walk away and never, ever look back. If and when you can do this you are ready to leave. The truth is....that it won't be easy. You will have to tell yourself you are doing the right thing for...

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Did you know one church actually had "God hates fags" posted on the little billboard in the front of the church? how does that make you feel? Despite what many Christians believe God does not hate homosexuals. He hates the sin but not the sinner. The Bible actually says that while we were "yet" sinners, Christ died for us. We're all in the same boat. The Bible does say that homosexuality is a sin. So is lying, cheating, stealing, mistreating your children, etc. I can't imagine that Christians who love Christ would...

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Is it ever OK to ask somebody straight out "are you gay" ? Explain why or why not. I had a situation that happened when I was in my late twenties. I was living in Lexington, KY at the time. I was hanging out with a girl from work. Some people at work were talking about this girl and said she was a lesbian. Not one to keep things to myself...I was working alone with her one day and told her what people had said and I asked her if it was true. I believe she told me it was none...

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What would you do if you thought you had a stalker? To begin with...what makes you think they are a stalker? Do you see a particular person every time you turn around? Get confirmation from a friend. Do they think this person is stalking you too? If you can confirm this I would talk to the police.

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Ive been seeing a guy,who I was friends with for years.We're not officially dating,but deff. have something going on.Im over my ex but hes not,he still gets upset when he hears about her and other guys.Should I not bother getting any closer to him? I'm in a similar situation now. And I wish I had realized at the time, my BF wasn't over his ex. There is no nice way to put this...your guy is just not over his ex. My suggestion would be for you to continue to date other people. I wish I had. It's demoralizing for you to be in this predicament. How long can you stand to be in second place to his ex in his heart? He has nothing...

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My friend wants to get over a guy but she can't. Any advice for her to get over him or be distracted? Your friend will eventually get over the guy. Average time is about 12 weeks. Possibly longer if the relationship was for a couple of years. Remind her there are millions/billions of "other guys" in the world. Just keep being a friend. Don't let her mope around. Get her out of the house even if she doesn't want to at first. Tell her she a worthwhile human being and all the...

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If you found out your husband wanted a sex change would you stay with him or dump him? I think I'd have to leave to be honest. I mean he married you under the guise of being a man inside and out, right? No one would expect you to stay, you know. Your off the hook. Some counseling might be in order if you can afford it.

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I THINK MY HUSBAND LKES TRANSGENDERS. I HAVE FOUND PIC'S AND DIFFRENT SHEMALE SITES ON OUR COMPUTER. I HAVEN'T SAID ANYTING TO HIM. I'M SICK TO THE STOMACH AND VERY HURT. DOES THIS MEAN HE'S BI-SEXUAL? SHOULD TELL HIM I SAW THESE SITES? The longer you keep this to yourself the worse your going to feel. You need to tell him what you saw. To get the truth only ask questions that begin with What, why, and when. Do not ask any questions that can be just answered yes or no and therefore he can avoid answering truthfully. Also, do not say I want to talk to you. He will immediately be on "guard". Ask him when he is least...

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When i try to get my bf to come to bed and have sex he picks a fight with me. last night i caught him watching porn videos of girls shaking there asses and stripping. i asked him why and he said because I'm ugly and boring what should i do? You need to cut your loses with this one. He's an SOB. And that's the truth. At the very least get your tubes tied. I think I'd tell him he's ugly and boring and one of the kids may not be his. Then, I'd say guess which one? LOL.

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My boyfriend is bi, I don't mind. But I'm upset that he enjoys gay porn a lot more than straight ones. He said he's happy with me and loves me the most but I'm worried he's just not satisfied with me since I'm a girl. Can anyone guide me out? :'( I once asked a girl I worked with who was bi if she had a "true" preference for guys or girls. She told me she preferred guys. Some people will take anything they can get. They're selfish and opportunists. I'd say your guy is in denial and he's really gay. Is he "out" about being bi-sexual to everyone or using you as a cover? Listen to your gut feeling....

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What do you want or need the most from your SO or spouse? To tell the truth he's really good to me with a few exceptions....he feels this need to be in touch with his ex. I stopped dating him because she spent the night at his house. Their relationship didn't work out and it would be nice if it was really over. As in no contact. I've honestly thought about cutting my loses and moving on because of this. It would be nice if he'd...

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Should you know about every relationship your significant other has had before they met you? Every relationship and all the details. Sometimes I wish my boyfriend would just shut up to tell the truth. I haven't told him about every relationship I've ever had. I suppose if he wanted to know more he would ask. And I'd tell him. That could take a while though.

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Ok i fell in love with girl who had alot problems, we broke up and she broke my heart but now im over it the thing is now that she is pregant and dosnt look happy with her new relationship sould i try to be there for her or avoid the whole thing. You sound like a good guy. A girl that is pregnant has a lot of ups and downs emotionally. It's the hormones, and probably not her new relationship. I'd say to not get involved. Break ups happen for a reason. And usually a good one. It's time to go out and find the person that truly makes you happy. Good Luck.

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My BEST friend is dating my x he asked her out like an hour after I broke up with him, (I broke up with him cause I knew he liked her even tho he said he didnt AT ALL ) but now I want to break them up I just dont know how .. help me! And what would that accomplish? Nothing. You deserve better than a guy that liked your friend. You knew that and you broke up with him for good reason. It's still a good reason. Your a smart girl. Wouldn't you rather have someone who thought that you were special? And you are. Never settled for less than you deserve.

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I have got feeling for my friend he asked me for no strings sex and i thought i could handle it but it made me love him even more he said he likes me but he said he dont want a girlfriend right now as hes going away soon should i tell him how i feel A no-strings attached relationship is just that. The truth is this....women can't do that without falling for the guy. So it's a bad idea. You deserve better. Bite your tongue and do not tell him how you feel. Chalk it up to experience. You might want to read the e-book called "Dating without Drama" by Paige Parker though. It explains how men and women think differently....

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I am a good looking woman, just divorced and dating...the last 2 guys were hot for me at first, then fizzled off before we could have sex. wtf am i doing wrong? i am smart, funny, sexy, business minded and rich...what is going on? Your question is coming off as too confidant/aggressive. That can be a big turn-off for guys. I would suggest reading an e-book called "Dating without Drama" by Paige Parker.

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Why do people always question when an older man is with a younger woman? Can't they just accept that the two are really in love? Could be they wonder what else they could possibly have in common except for sex. He wants her for her young body and sex. And she wants him for his cash. It's as old as time itself. Only time will tell if it's truly love or lust. But I'd bet money on lust every time.

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Why are teenage girls around 15-18 years old are attracted to older men between 30 and 60 + years old? Truth is, most girls that age are "not" attracted to older men. Your fantasy, maybe? Or, imagination? Probably. Most girls in this age range would be horrified at the idea. In my experience the only girls interested in "much" older men don't have a father, or don't have a good relationship with their father, or they have been sexually abused. In fact, the only...

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Should I trust my b/f? I found out he told his ex he misses her (in 2 emails). He told me he never misses her. She did not answer that subject (I peeked), so maybe he 'gets' it that she doesn't care. He lied to me, tho. I don't know....when should you trust a liar? And he emailed her twice? So, he didn't just let it go the first time when she didn't respond? It's not the fact that she doesn't care for him, but the fact that he still cares for her and is telling her so. That's what you need to be concerned about. And then, he's denying it and you know different. A friendly...

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My boyfriend is moving in...and bringing art prints that him and his ex picked out when they where married to hang in our house, now these prints never hung in his old house...but I'm not real excited to have them in our house...right or wrong? The boyfriend moving in....bad idea for women. Especially if you plan on marrying him some day. Check the statistics. Anyway, better idea on the art prints. Are they worth anything? If so, sell them on E-bay and pick out something you both like. Things like that can end up being the figurative albatross hanging around your neck at some point.

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Would you feel guilty for divorcing an abusive mate if they are financially dependent on you? About as guilty as your "mate" feels about being abusive toward you. Actually....the courts will probably take care of him/her being financially dependent on you. And they may even award him/her some alimony. That would be a real travesty of justice. Since, you are with a abusive person have you considered what his/her reaction might be about a divorce? You need to think about your...

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There are plenty of male flashers about. Why aren't there any female flashers about? Or is it that, there are female flashers but it is more acceptable for a female to expose herself and therefore she is not labelled 'a flasher'? Gee, where do you live? I've heard of male flashers, I just haven't had the pleasure. By the way, there are female flashers, you just have to pay for it...as in: exotic dancers, porn, and Girls, Gone Wild videos. You will probably never hear of female flashers because for one, guys don't report it. Besides, you would look like a real fool to your male friends. They would be...

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Does it count if you were too drunk to remember it? If you are really too drunk to remember it....how do you know it happened? Did you have an audience? If not, you must have some recollection. As far as counting it, are we talking a notch on your bedpost? Then, no. On the list of stupid things you've done, yes. Some things to think about: you could be paying 18+ years of child support. Or have to wait nine months to find out your...

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My husband lies about women friends and about his whereabouts. When I confront him, he tells me it is none of my business. He swears that he has never cheated and says that he lies so he doesn't have to 'get into it' with me. What do you suggest I do? Have you ever heard the phase what's good for the goose, is good for the gander? Most people don't like the tables turned on them. And they don't recognize that what they're doing is hurtful or they just don't care. As in your husbands case. All cheater's will deny that they're cheating. Go to womansavers.com to find out about cheating spouses. There are...

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Would you trust someone who always deletes his history on his computer? Basically it boils down to this....people with nothing to hide, hide nothing. And if your in a relationship with a person that is deleting history on the computer, phone, or whatever that doesn't seem to be a person who is "worthy of trust". It's funny that the same guy that says he wouldn't trust someone who looks at his history also has the ability to do so (his...

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There are 20 messages in your spam folder. Do you just hit delete all? Or will you check them first before throwing them away? What I do is this.....I hit check all, then I look through them. Then I un-check any that I want, then delete the rest. Saves time. There have been times (though, rarely) that an email from a friend ends up there. If that happens open the email, then mark as "not spam".

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I have been nauseous and dizzy on and off for the past few weeks. There's no pattern to it. And, no, before anyone jumps to conclusions, I'm sexually abstinent and can't be pregnant. What could be wrong with me? It could be a couple of things. You could have an inner ear infection. Or there's the possibility that you have problems with your blood sugar levels. In any case it would be wise to get a doctor's appointment and check it out. And do not wait it could be something more serious.

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Should I continue dating a girl who had a "bed buddy" before we dated? He did'nt want to date a student at the time so they slept together for a few months. My fear is that my GF is very needy and I fear she may cheat on me later? Im 39 Divorced she is 35 The reason your GF probably had a "bed buddy" to begin with is two-fold. One that she just wanted to sleep with the guy even given the circumstances. Which sucks and women should never do this. The other is that sometimes your just so effing tired of trying to find the right guy. It's really hard these days as I'm finding out. It would probably a good idea to get it out in...

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How would you feel if the person you love said to you that they have just realised that they don't really love you.. after three years of being together and a baby. Devastated. You deserve better. And you won't find anything better by hanging on to this person who doesn't even know their own self. It shouldn't take three years and a baby to find out that you don't love someone. Give yourself some time to work through all of this. Get some counseling if you can afford it. If not find a supportive friend. Good Luck.

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Your opinion on blind dating? (hypothetical question :)) Take a good long look at the person setting you up. Make them give you a lot of details before agreeing to a blind date. I was set up on a date by a supposed friend. The guy was an ex-heroin addict. Tatoo's all over the place. And pierced you know where. My so called friend is the frankenstein of matchmaking.

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I have a date with a guy who contacted me on match. His profile seems to show that we have a lot in common (He's 37 and I'm 31). What are do's/don'ts for clothing on the first date, drinks (cleavage allowed, casual dress, jeans)? Go easy on the alcohol. You need to keep your head. Guys still like a little bit of mystery so keep your puppies reigned in. A first date should be pretty casual, depending on where your going. Easy on the jewelry. No bling.

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Why do people on dating sites show a picture of them with a member of the opposite sex? Let's see. A few guesses. #1 Pure laziness...they don't have a current picture. #2They are older than the picture that they put up and it's the only one they have when they were still young and had their hair, a trim stomach, etc. LOL. #3They think it makes them look desirable when actually the opposite is true.

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I think I have a problem with my wall outlet. My TV gets hot and the adapter to my fish tank get hot also. They are not plugged in the same outlet. What is wrong? Call an electrician pronto and make sure all your smoke detectors are in working order until then. Do not take chances. I've seen a fire wipe out a whole building because of something like this.

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Met a guy who is 4 yrs younger. We cuddle, and I stay overnight at his place. Then we both act weird in the morning. What am I getting myself into?! I'm afraid my friends are going to judge me b/c of the age gap & they will say he's not cute enough. As long as it's not illegal don't worry about it. Advice a friend gave me once...When's the last time anyone lived your life for you. Do what you want.

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If a guy sang the song 'these boot are made for walkin' to say while you are wearing knee high boots,what did he mean?are your boots sexy?does he like them? He's probably just goofing around. Being a nutball. I personally think it's funny. Any guy that feels comfortable enough to sing a corny song to you likes you. Period.

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How do I convince this man to meet me after 2 months of internet "dating"? He's leaving in January for Chicago and he thinks it might not be a good idea for us to meet after all. We're in the NYC area. Help! Do not try to convince him. What you do instead is this....tell him that he's absolutely right. He won't be expecting this answer. Then thank him for writing back and forth and then don't contact him again. Unless...he wants to meet you. And then don't answer the email too soon. The truth is that you've probably built him up in your mind as something he's not...

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My boyfriend calls me names like bitch,slut,whore,ugly,fat,skank,smelly,tramp,etc.But he says that he is just joking and he doesnt mean it.Well I dont take it as a joke,and I take very seriously.Do you think that Im overreacting?Would you take it as joke? Tell him that you've decided to find a guy that doesn't think it's funny to call his girlfriend names. And do it.

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Am i crazy to marry someone who verbally abuses me everday? They use the same tactics on prisoners of war. This person does not love you. Not only should you not marry them but you should seek counseling and get out of the relationship. You cannot change them. And it's not going to get better. At some point they will break you down so far you won't be able to get back up without help. I know because I was in this type of relationship for...

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My eldest daughter is being physically abused by her partner. They have a 6 month old daughter. At the moment he is buttering her up because he knows she will leave him. She now thinks he is changing. What can we do to help her;? This is really a tough one. When your caught in the abuse cycle it's hard to get out. It's like a mental/emotional rollercoaster. My ex left me for another woman. I truly thank God. I never took him back even though he would like me too, even now after many years of being apart. If your daughter leaves expect to support her 110%. She needs to know this. She will be an emotional...

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My boyfriend and i are taking a break (his decision) his best friend called me last week and i told him that i had met a really nice guy but we're just "hanging out." If this gets back to my BF, will this hurt my chances of getting back together with him? The big question here is do you really want him back? Basically your boyfriend knew when he decided to take a break it could possibly be permanent. Believe it or not going out with another guy is not going to hurt your chances with your boyfriend. Your actually in a very good position right now. Just don't blow it by feeling bad about it. Your just doing what your boyfriend requested.

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How do you get a girl you were going to marry back if she found out you cheated on her? Okay, you get her to agree to date you again with the provision that anytime within the next year she feels like getting it on with say...your best friend or whomever and you can't say anything about it. Once you truly know how she feels then you will be on even ground then you can begin again if you both feel like it.

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My boyfriend wants a open relationship, would this be healthy? Sure. Just kidding. What you do is this....go out with a few guys first. Find the one you like the best and dump your boyfriend. Then you'll be feeling real heathy about the whole thing. LOL.

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When was the last time somebody bought you something you really liked? It was this last Christmas. My son bought me a digital camera. I had a cheezy little one that was crap. I had seen my niece's and I wished I had one. Sometimes wishes come true.

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If you owned a casino, what would you name it? Feelin' Lucky?

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Any differance sleeping with a full figured woman compared to a skinny women besides just weight? It's probably true that heavier women love sex more than their skinny counterparts. Once a heavier woman gets over the notion that something is wrong with her and that some men love all that extra flesh we're in heaven. My lover drives me insane when he takes his hands and rubs me all over my body. Would you rather rub a stuffed pillow or a pillow case of rocks.

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My bf of 4 months has been on dating sites and when caught in doing so he denies that he did it at first, but now says he is sorry, what should i do? How about leaving his sorry ass. Can't think of anything better to say.

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Should I be suspicious of my GF when she keeps in contact with all her ex's via texting. she will take her phone with her every and not leave it around, and I have walked in on her texting someone and she closes her phone before she is done? Anytime someone closes a phone when you walk into the room should tell you something. Maybe you should ask her directly what she was texting. If she can't look you in the eye somethings up. Suspicions are just natures way of telling you what you already know.

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I am a brown man married to a white woman for two years who thinks we will have ugly kids because they will not be white. So she does want to have any kids while I do. I never thought she felt this way till I started talking about kids. What should I do? I have a biracial child and he is a gorgeous man of eighteen now. Your wife will have to understand that when you mix the races her child will look black. I guess I don't understand how she loves you and yet thinks any children you have will be ugly. Some of the most physically beautiful people are of mixed heritage. But then again that's my opinion.

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Why are men attracted to lesbians? Because most men have the fantasy of being with two women at the same time. Of course most men don't have the stamina to do this and they know it. And thus it remains a fantasy. Unfortunately, what they don't understand is that lesbians are in to each other, not men. And no I'm not a lesbian.

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My boyfriend has just dumped me for the 15th time this week and yet again took me back within the hour what would you do?Im confused? Are you kidding? So, you break up on an average of twice a day. And you take him back because? It's obvious that you both need to spend some time apart. Get off the rollercoaster.

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I am fourteen and have never had a girlfriend in my life. Is this okay? Absolutely! There's no rush. Everyone wants to be like everyone else when they're your age. And when your guy friends have a girl you probably feel like your left out somehow. It's human to feel this way. Even if you aren't interested in anyone at the moment that will change one day. Hope this helps.

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