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hi people destroyed my soul and are telepathicaly controling me and not letin ppl know if ur not 1 of them please help anyone? Okay, seriously you need help! How about talking to a professional. Remember no one can control you if you don't allow it. Pray and seek help.

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do dogs love Belly rubs? when i rub my dogs belly, he just sits there on his side. I believe they do. Everytime I rub my Mom's dog who I'm presently babysitting while she comes out of the hospital he lays on his side just so that I can rub him. It is adorable.

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how can i get him to get me pregnant? Why would you want to do that? How would you feel if someone tricked you? I hope you know that he has the right to know and the right to want a baby as well. I cant stand when girls or women get pregnant just to keep a man. If this is what you're doing then I hope you never get pregnant. At the end of the day, no pregnancy will keep a man there. That is why you see so many unwed mothers who...

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o i got a hotel room for valentines day for my man.. need ideas of what to do to make the room special You need to get red rose petals. Throw the rose petals on the floor starting from the door straight to the bed. Have bubblebath available along with the candles on the nightstands and in the bathroon. Have the hotel prepare strawberries with chocolate and whip cream or you can buy it yourself. Your man would love a massage so try to get hot massage oil and work that body. When it comes to...

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He wants a break, been together for 3 years. Too many problems, but i Love him, HELP?? I know it's hard but you have to love yourself more than you do him. It sounds like your living on egg shells. Love is a powerful word. When someone truly loves you then they're committed to you. Your boyfriend doesn't sound committed. For him to constantly remind you he wants out is very disturbing. You probably need to have a sit down with him and let him how you feel about the...

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im in grade eight, and we need to write a five minute speech. what is a really good or interesting topic? A good topic at hand is the earthquake and devastation occuring in haiti.

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Christian evangelist Pat Robertson said that the reason Haiti was hit with an earthquake is because they made a pact with the Devil. Agree? This idiot is a moron! It's an insult to God this idiot representing him. Most haitians are Catholic and lets be serious witchcraft, voodism, etc is practiced everywhere. So according to this moron bad things that occur around the world is because a pact was made with the devil. Anyone who supports or stands up with this piece of crap is no better than him. A country has been hit with...

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OMG! I'm pissed. This new AB sucks. Where is my feedback? This is horrible. I'm all for change but this is not a good change. Agree or not? It's so sad that I want to give you guys all points and I can't figure out in here where I can do that from? HELP!!!!!!!!!!

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What whould be the worst way to break up with somone? Through a text message, on a voicemail, in an email, on the radio, through a third party, etc.

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What the hell happened to Answerbag? I don't know but I want to see the old answerbag back. I don't find this to be user friendly at all.

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...what body part do you like best about yourself?... Booty! I got booty like a rump shaker!

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Is sibling rivalry a big part of your life? Everyday! Then we kiss and make up. We never stay mad for too long more like minutes. We are very different and we have different opinions about everything so we argue about it and then we come together because we can't be without each other. My sisters are my best friends!

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Ex boyfriend owes me money... Hi I'm 17 and my ex bf would always get me to pay for things, whether we were getting lunch, at a supermarket pretty much whenever money was involved. I broke up with him almost a month ago and I don't think he realises that Consider that money lost because he's not paying you back. Listen for the future you're not another person's caretaker. You can barely take care of yourself at your age to be paying for others. I'm much older than you and trust there are alot of free loaders out there. You better learn now while you're young and not get to my age paying anyone's way. Be smart!...

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How do you deal with people who treat you like you're stupid and like you're a waste of time to be around? Actually, I don't deal with them. I don't have anyone like that in my life because if I did I would just get rid of them. I won't allow someone to make me feel stupid, meaningless and still keep them around. No way. This is my advice to you. You need to clean house. You need to keep people in your life whether it's family, friend or whatever that is positive, uplifting...

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If you just can'tr be bothered but realy need to clea the house what do you do for inspiration??( I really need some Ideas) I take out the cleaning products for starters because the smell alone gets me wanting my place to smell this good. I turn on the music because I love to hear music and it totally pumps me up for cleaning and I don't allow myself to be interrupted where I leave the cleaning for last. You can do it!

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If I bake you some cookies, what kind would you want? omg, chocolate chip and sugar cookies

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What is a food that would taste nasty with ice cream? pickles and only allowed when your pregnant.

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I lived in the Bronx by Yankee Stadium has anyone ever been there? Of course, i'm a brooklyn girl. I will actually be around there on Saturday at my cousin's house party. Go Yankees!!!!!!!!!!

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What are symptoms of swine flu? My sister is just recovering from it and i've spent a lot of time with her not realizing she had that virus until a few days ago. I feel tired, bones ache, got a cold, shaking, bit hard to breath. Do I have it too? You need to go to the hospital or your doctor immediately.

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If you thought your S/O was cheating would you contact the show Cheaters to do an investigation and air it? No, I would just get rid of him. Seriously, if I have confirmation I don't need the show cheaters to give me details and humiliate myself on tv while millions are viewing this.

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Im 17,recently im worried about EVERYTHING i cant ever sleep, im always day dreaming, and im never happy. its always about school (graduating), friends, not having some one, and trying to make my parents happy.. someone give me help please My God you poor thing. My daughter came to me with the same worries. Listen, take life in strides. Plan well and make yourself happy first before you can make anyone else happy. You will be more than okay. Believe in yourself most of all and never doubt yourself. Enjoy school, graduating, prom, your friends, etc. but most of all enjoy life. Smile and be happy.

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Would you date a man 30 years older than you? no way, we would have nothing in common. I wouldn't waste my time like that.

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What do you do when your waiting for the right moment to apologize, but it never happens and now its been dragging on for a while...? You need to make that moment happen. There is never a perfect moment. When you're with that person you need to stop them and let them know you have something to say. I had to apologize to my s/o for a while now and for me it was dragging as well so when we went out to dinner this past Saturday I brought it up and apologized to him. He accepted my apology and was very impressed that I...

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Wonder woman or naughty nurse costume? wonder woman can save the day but naughty nurse can make you feel a whole lot better. Naughty nurse for sure.

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In no more than 5 words, what does your father look like? mafia

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What is your Dad's name? Tada....Luis, the one and only

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If it is a matter of life and death, you choose___________? life all the way. I'm trying to stick around. Don't you want me here? :)

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I say father ... you say? who art in heaven, hollow be thy name................ :)

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My wife is very pissed off that I am on AB and have made friends and have emailed one of them, privately for some advice (a girl). She read all of my questions,etc and feels very uncomfortable with me . She will, I am sure, be reading this. What to do? It depends. Are you taking one of your AB family members and making it a possible affair. The problem is that some people go online to try to find a love connection even in places that are not for those type of connections. Your wife is either very insecure or your giving her reasons to feel this way. I love being on AB giving and getting advice but I know my boundaries where it won't...

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Im 17 and still a virgin. Do you honestly think thats a good thing? I think that in this day and time you still being a virgin is totally commendable. I'm 43 years old and I have actually been with three sexual partners one being my ex-husband, one I dated for five years and the one I'm with right now. I make this a point to say this because they're are girls my daughter's age who is 13 having more partners than I can even think of. Sex...

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Me + you =_________? perfection :)

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I am a 19 year old female. Last november I slept with one of my prof's from school so I would pass his class. Is that wrong, does that make me a slut. Probably not a slut but it also doesn't guarantee you a passing grade. Did you pass or did he get free ass? :)

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What does it mean when a guy stare at a girl's mouth or notices her mouth? Either her mouth is dirty or she got some sexy lips :)that he wants to kiss.

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My boyfriend told me he wanted to talk a break but he still wants to talk to me all the time. We hang out and its like we are still together, I dont know what to do. I would fall back a little and let him miss you. He may not want the title of having a girlfriend but may want the benefits. Don't put yourself in a position to go from girlfriend to friend with benefits unless that is what you want. Good Luck +6

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How would you describe your day today?( in less then three words) I feel blessed! :) +6

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Last night, my alcoholic boyfriend of 3 years who has never hit me got in a fight we got in a fight last night, and for the first time, he punched me atleast 6 times in my head while he was drunk. i love him, but this changes everything. what should i do? Get rid of him and call the police. You may love him but you need to love yourself more and trust me this is only the beginning of him hitting you before it gets worse. I know I was in your shoes and stood too long.

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What is your view on a 14 year old girl dating a 29 year old man? Statutory rape and disgusting!

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What is one good reason why i shouldn't kill myself. Because you need to love yourself more than you loving him. I do think the people that really love you will feel like your parents. If you kill yourself this person will be with someone else and here you're dead. You accomplished absolutely nothing. There is no man/woman worth dying for and you really probably need to seek help that you would make someone more important than yourself....

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Whats the difference b/w loving someone and being IN love with them? iv never really understood the whole"i love u but im not in love with u" thing... Personally I just feel that somone invented along the way and everyone else jumped on the band wagon. I feel that when you love that is what it is you love them. I don't go around telling one man that I love him and then someone else I'm in love with them. If I love you trust and believe I love you unconditionally.

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Why do we still love someone knowing they dont love us back..Why do we torture ourselves? Sometimes it's really hard to just stop loving someone. When you truly love you can turn on and off your feelings. It takes time but trust me this too shall pass. Occupy your time and keep busy before you know it you will handle the situation alot better.

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What was your first car? 1984 red mustang. I loved that car. I brag about that vehicle to this day. :) +6

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I've been 'the other woman' with this guy for about a year, but he came to my house recently and wrecked my shower while he was drunk and on drugs. Should I tell his girlfriend? How about you should be getting rid of him. You sound more concern telling the girlfriend but you're not concern that you're the other woman dealing with a loser. Seriously, love yourself because if you truly loved yourself you wouldn't be dealing with that bullshit and you would think highly of yourself to not want to be the other woman but want to be the only woman.

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If you could tell the LAST person you broke up with ONE thing. . . . .what would it be? I want to thank you so much for not being here anymore. :D

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Why do men abuse women? Do you think it is getting worse? Any type of abuse is wrong towards women or men. I have seen where some women get abused and never leave. When you ask "why do men abuse women?" a good percentage is that women put up with it and never get help. You let someone physically, verbally and mentally abuse you the first time and you do nothing about you can best believe that is only the beginning. You cannot control...

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At what point did you realize the relationship had no future? When he cheated on me

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Why everytime my so called boyfriend calls me everything I say is a lie or he's putting me down about everything, and all he want me for is some u know what? Is he cheating on me since he's always accusing me? I don't see where he's cheating here but you definitely need to let him know how you feel. Ask him does he trust you and if he says no ask him why not? Also in any type of relationship you have the choice to stay or go. If he's always calling you a liar, putting you down and makes you feel like all he wants his you know what then only you can change that. You are beautiful...

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Whats your favorite little debbie snack? The brownies all the way!!!!:)

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My granddaughter is having a screaming fit because she doesn't want to do her homework. Her mother is completely frustrated. What can be done? Sorry, I'm old school so what that means is that she wouldn't be having fits with me. She would get an a.. whooping for sure. All I have to do is look at my kids and they know Mommy isn't playing. From the moment your children are born you're not their friends. You're their parents. You need to teach your children respect and respect starts with them respecting...

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How do I know if I need to end my almost 4 year relationship with my boyfriend/fiance? If you're asking then you must not be happy. Why aren' you married as of yet? I don't believe in these long engagements. When you're truly in love then you should just get married. You know how you when you know that you're relationship has run its course. You should feel excited and happy in your relationship to want to stay and build a life with this person....

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Should parents bare their souls to their kids? Hell no, because if you made a whole lot of mistakes they will go out and make the same or worse mistakes. They will even throw in your face. My kids don't skip a beat and since I'm so hard on them they would be the first to throw it up in my face so that I can't tell them anything else anymore.

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GIRLS... does anyone else feel hornier when they are on there period!? which is sooooooo annoying! Yes! I don't know if it's my period or the fact that I'm 40.

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Why is it a bad idea to get involved romantically with a co-worker? I wouldn't say it's a bad idea. What I would say is that some people you get involve with you just can't work with them. Years ago I worked with a guy I dated who later became my husband. We had the best working relationship because we did our work, we didn't go to lunch together everyday and we had our own friends at work. There were many times I didn't see him all...

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I am yawning alot in office. pls advice what to do I hear Red Bull works :)

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Your earliest memory? I was two years old in an my parents took me to Puerto Rico. I remember seeing a silver round bucket that they use to wash clothes and me thinking I just wanted to get in there because of all the bubbles. My saw me and took me out immediately because I was bathing in Pine Sole. I smelled pretty dam good! :)

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I'm kind of dating four women. They all have certain characteristics-including the fact that they smoke. How did I end up with all these smokers when I don't smoke? It just shows that you like the same kind of women so you might as well just date one.

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Have you ever had chocolate cake for breakfast? All the time with milk of course. A breakfast for the champions. :)

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(Besides sex), What is something you enjoy doing with your partner? laugh with each other on our corny jokes.

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The best kind of relationships for me are___________? the ones that I can communicate freely, respect and trust without any apprehension at all.

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Finish this statement: "Men who hit women are ____________________?" PIGS !!

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Chris Brown on Rihanna's Interview: assault should be "Between us". Do you agree Rihanna should keep quiet for Mr. Brown's sake? See LINK: I have been physically abused myself where I was left for dead. I was also that person that went back to the point that I almost lost my life. I remember clearly not wanting anyone to know what was happening to me behind close doors. At one time I thought I was so in love with him and then I realize that I didn't love myself. I was to embarrass to tell anyone. I don't believe that...

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What would you do if you find out that your boyfriend is married and has a child?his wife calls you up and tells you that this is not his first time and tell you how she feels about it. First of all I would get rid of him and be thankful that you're not the wife because you see you can easily walk away from this where she may have more invested in this idiot. Think of it this way she saved you from a whole lot more agony so you can actually thank her. :)

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Why are you interested in sex? Because it feels dam good and it's the best physical connection I can think of. I could be having an awful day, my partner and I get busy and all that fustration I was feeling goes right out of the window. It's a great tension reliever. :)

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What's your secret to happiness? trust, communication, understanding, no cheatinng and definitely maintenance. You have to maintain your relationship.

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Do you know a word ending with "ick"? I know plenty! dick, hick, kick, lick, nick, pick, quick, sick and tick. I just ran down the alphabet. :) +6

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What is one dead actor/actress you would have like to have met before they died? Marilyn Monroe

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Do you get as much quality time with your s/o as you would like? If you don't, what is the reason? He works two jobs so when we get together we both look forward to it but most of the time he is trying to catch up with his sleep.

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Did you go to your High School Reunion? Was it fun? Yes, I went to my 10 year high school reunion and it was really nice to see my old friends and what had become of them.

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The last animal you touched or petted, was what? Last week I went to the Green Meadow Farm in Long Island, New York and the last pet I touched and milked was a cow. :)

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I cheated on my boyfriend of 11 months. I told him about it and he said that he would give it a chance. Tonight he came in, after 3 weeks of us making a go of it and said that it was too hard. I love him so much. How do I win him back? Honestly, that is a really hard call. You totally lost his trust. It's really hard for a person to forgive that act let alone forget it. I would say give him space, let him know how you feel and you really need to understand how bad this is making him feel. Hopefully he will get past this and be able to be with you but if he doesn't then you need to move on. Next time you're...

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What do you think of when I say... It's a beautiful day...? I think of a sunny day, no humidity at all and everything just going right for me! Gee, I haven't had one of those in a long time.

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What's your definition of "SEXY"? Someone confiden, takes pride in how they look, act and feel. That combination together totally makes a sexy you!

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I love my bf very much but i did something stupid. i looked at his old myspace from 2 years ago and saw alot of things from his ex and him. i feel so sad and jealous whenever i think about it. what can i do to stop feeling like this? Seriously you need to stop snooping. They say "never go looking for things because you may find things that will hurt your feeling". It sounds like you don't trust him and in order for your relationship to work that trust has to be there. Everyone has a past. What you have to realize is that you're his present. Never be jealous of someone who is not in his life. An ex...

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How do you meet a guy?, people say don't go looking, but i'm really tired of waiting and I want to be committed to someone. First of all, it depends on what kind of guy you want. Lets say you want someone just to hang with then I would say you can find someone like that in a club, bar or lounge. He will be readily availabe to go partying at any given time. Let's say you want someone to possibly build with then that guy I would say you can find him in a supermarket, at the mall, sports event, work, through...

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If someone greeted you by saying: Jesus loves you! What would you say? I say "Thank you and Jesus love you too!"

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Why does my abusive ex still finds ways to torture me mentally 1 mth after we broke up? I have moved on since then and i'm wondering does anyone know why he does this? Have you really moved on if he can still be around for you to be tortured mentally. When I breakup and I move on my ex can't call me or come around. I think if you have truly moved on then you need stay clear from him be it's obvious he likes doing this to you but you don't have to be around so that he can. Instead of asking why he would do this to you why not remove yourself...

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How many "days" old are you today? Wow!!!!!!!! I'm 15,776 days old! :) +6

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How tall will i be? im a 13 year old girl 5'4 'mom is 5 '6 and dad is 6'2 My daughter is 13 as well. I'm only 5 feet tall and her Dad is 6'1. She is 5'4 so I believe she is going to probably be between 5'6 thru 5'9.

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Do you love your car? Yes, I bought this year a 2009 Toyota Corolla "S" model. I totally spruced up the car. I got the charcoal gray and I added leather interior, alloy wheels, sunroof and a sport package to it. It looks so hot!. Most importantly it was affordable. :) +6

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Do you have eggs in your fridge right now? no I have one egg in a carton so I need to take myself to the supermarket. :) +6

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I say "pasta." You think of ______. I think Penne a La Vodka. I had it for dinner last night from Luciano's and it was as always deliciouso! :D +6

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What is it about some people who seem to require someone/something to hate in order to feel alive/connected/energized? Why do they need to feed off hate to survive? They have no love in their life and it's pretty sad that they live that way.

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What's the best advice you can give me? Live your life to the fullest and live with no regrets! :) +6

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Does anyone know a good nickname for someone named Craig? I called my Craig (Cee)

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When do you know it's time to quit? When I put my all into it and I don't want to put no more into it. :) +6

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What is one thing you should do before your first date with someone? Well for starters you should have a couple of conversations with this person so that you know somewhat what they're about. When you go on your date I have to honestly say that appearances speaks volumes. You should try to look your best. You don't have to spend a whole lot of money on yourself. You just need to dress appropriately, have good hygiene and definitely don't talk...

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What color is your underwear? right now I'm wearing pink bikini with small colorful polka dots.

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What makes you want to take your clothes off? a shower, sex, coming home from a long day at work, a massage, etc. I guess I love being naked! :) +6

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What is the most expensive item you bought so far this year. My car. It cost me $22,000.

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What would you do if you went to Jail an had to share a cell with a cerial killer or worst? I would have insomnia and when I would finally fall asleep one eye would still be open or I would act crazier than them. :) +6

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Can you name one person that YOU think is cute; famous or not? My daughter! She's adorable. :)

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I was flirting with this guy off MySpace and I wasn’t plane to do anything with him, but I was flirting with him and he want me to come to his birth day party and i didn't tell my bf. should he trust me? Would you trust you? If you have nothing to hide then don't keep that from your boyfriend. Half of a truth or omitting information is considered to be a lie. There is nothing wrong with having friends from the opposite sex but can you also handle if he starts hanging and flirting with other girls. It's a two way street.

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Who can say they have never cheated on a s/o? What kept you from doing so? Lack or interest, morals, etc? I never have cheated on my s/o. My exes did cheat on me and truthfully it wasn't even a thought on behalf to cheat on them. Two wrongs don't make a right and it's not going to make me feel any better so I didn't see the importance is paying my exes back by cheating. It was alot more easier to just leave. I think back now and I'm glad that I handle the situation in...

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After insisting that adult stepson moves out, 2nd adult stepson will not talk to me and husband blames me and thinks he has lost both his sons. I feel vulnerable and isolated husband does not understand, think I might lose him, he is putting sons first. You probably needed to discuss this with your husband first before insisting on his son to move out. You may have had valid reasons for wanting him out but honestly at the end of the day all your husband sees is that those are his children who got told to leave from his home. Now that all has been said and done you need to sit down with your husband and explain why you feel that his adult son...

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What comes to mind when i say "September 11th" I worked in building 1 at the World Trade on the 30h floor. I look at this day as my second birthday. I was born again that day! I'm a World Trade Survivor and very fortunate and blessed to still be here today. :) +6

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Never trust ________(Fill the Blank) cheaters!

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I'm sending you a basket of flowers, do you know why? Because I had a pretty awful day and you just wanted to put a smile on my face and cheer me up. You're the best! :) +6

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When you are upset or angry how do you like to calm yourself down? I need to be left alone so that I can compose myself. In other words, I need a moment. :) +6

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Name one word which describes a kiss. passionate :D +6

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You just won, lets say 2 billion dollars. Whats the first thing that comes to your mind to buy? A house or apartment. :D

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How can I safely perform a pinky toe amputee surgery at home? What the ????? Are you serious? I know health insurance is expensive and some of us can even afford it but dam is it getting to that point where we're performing our own surgery at home.

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True of false, you have smiled today? Yes, I went to a baby shower where I met up with old friends I haven't seen in a while that I missed alot. :) +6

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Name a traditional game that children play at school...? tag and jumprope.

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Can a girl get pregnant by butt-sex? I'm smh (shaking my head). Of course not but you can get a whole lot of other things like std's.

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Should I tell my mom my stepdad kiss me on the mouth? I m currently staying at their house, I m 21 years old. Hell Yeah you should be telling your Mom! My question to you is "why did you allow him to kiss you?". Regardless that you're 21 years old he is with your Mom. If my man even thought of kissing my daughter his sorry butt would be in the street. I won't think twice in kicking him out. There are things called boundaries and he crossed that boundary.

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Which would you rather have money or happiness? They say money doesn't buy you happiness. I would happiness but the way the economy is today I can't be happy without money so I don't mean to be selfish but I need both. :) +6

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My friend is coming over for the weekend. He always likes to take me to watch women dance nearly naked. I just feel like an old pervert going to places like that. I am 43. The women are usually in their twenties. How do I tell him I do not want to go? Tell him you're hanging out with me since we're both 43. Seriously, just be honest. I'm not into strippers but my sisters love to go and pay for these shows. I finally had to tell them that I'm not into that and they respect it. If he is truly your friend he will understand.:) +6

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Do you do the oil change on your vehicle yourself or go to the discount oil changers? Speedy lube

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Drinkers, what do you think of adults who don't drink alcohol? That the way they act at times (uptight) they may need a drink! :) +6

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When do we drop a friend? When they become too much work and you outgrow them. :) +6

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I tried to text my boo with love thoughts and stuff, and she was good with texting back in the first few weeks of our relationship, but now it has seemed to wane. Would this be a sign of a loss of interest? My boyfriend is not big on texting at all. I may send him a lovey dovey text but instead he justs calls me. Everyone is not into texting. It's welcoming to be romantic and send a cute text from time to time but when it's constant it can become overbearing and bothersome. Just because she doesn't send text messages back all the time doesn't mean that she loss interest in...

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IF MY MALE FRIEND TOUCHED MY FRIEND INAPPROPRIATELY ALSO MY SISTER WHILE IN THE CLUB SHOULD I STILL BE HIS FRIEND Well my question to you is did your sister and friend feel that is was inappropriate? If they did then I hope they told him about it and they can also report him. If the answer was yes then you should not be thinking of being friends with someone disrespectful especially to your loves one.

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What's the first thing you think or feel when I say the word: death? That I'm not ready yet. I have so much to still see an experience. When I also think of death I think of heaven. The place I want to be after death. :) +6

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HELP!! As some of you know I'm dating this guy named Jamie and were as happy as can be, but my ex which I can elaborate more on showed up out of nowhere well we were arguing and he stole a kiss from me. Now Jamie is pissed fuk me!!!!!! He stole a kiss or you let him kiss you? It sounds to me like you still into your ex. If you truly want to be with Jamie then explain yourself and leave it alone. Give him time to heal. If you want to go back with your ex then I would say let Jamie go. You need to think about who truly makes you happy and be with that person. This may be really hard but you need to make a decision. :) +6

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Do you think women's magazines are partly responsible for the low self esteem of many young women today? Absolutely! Everytime you look at a magazine you only see girls and women with flawless features and bodes. M daughter is gorgeous but everytime she looks at a magazine she always says to me that she is ugly. It's fustrating. I tell her those people have money and their best friends are the plastic surgeons and personal trainers. I guess if we had money like that then of course our...

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What's up with quiet people? What are they thinking? My mother always said "measure your words before you speak so if you don't got nothing good to say then say nothing at all and shut the hell up!" Yo go mama! :) +6

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What ryhmes with humor? rumor :) +6

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Do you take a coffee mug with you to work every morning? What kind, and color? A timberland stainless steel mug. I bought it in the outlet 5 years ago for twenty dollars and thought it was ridiculous but here I am 5 years later still traveling with my mug. :) +6

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What are some things that men lose once they're in a relationship? My boyfriend lost the remote! :) +6

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Do you believe that in a relationship, one partner needs to give more before the other partner will? Who gives more in your relationship? Ofcourse everyone would think that you both have to give equally to each other but the reality is there is always one that probably does more than the other. Keeping count is never a good thing plus it will fustrate the person who is doing more. I will say this I will not be in any relationship where I'm on the receiving end as well. In life you have to give to get but you also need to...

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My team at work is disgussing this years Xmas Lunch.. the thing is i'm not invited because i'm new. To be honest I think it's rude to be excluded from the group.. What are your thoughts on this? Is doesn't matter that your new. The point is that you work there now and that is your team so excluding you is extremely rude and inappropriate. It's hard for me to sometimes hold my tongue. I would probably say something to them and still not go. If that is the behavior of your team then honestly those are not people I would want to be around with outside of work. You're so...

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I am being chased by a bear, what do I do? You better play dead!

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What's gotten into you?! I don't know but when you find out clue me in.

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What state do you live in(if in the U.S.)? An do you know the state nickname, motto, flower, bird, etc.? If so, what are they. I got a song for you that tells you where I'm from. You remember this one? :) +6 New York City, New York City girl Twenty five thirty five Hello baby, New York City girl You grew up ridin' the subways, runnin' with people Up in Harlem, down on Broadway You're no tramp, but you're no lady Talkin' that street talk You're the heart and soul of New...

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Hey , My Bf Is Seeing The Same Dream About Us Breaking Up .. And Because Of this dream he's telling me that maybe i have kept a secret on him and that's why he's seeing this dream over and over again .. do anyone have any explanation ?? plz :) 10x Sounds to me like your boyfriend is up to no good. He sounds like he is trying to turn this around and make it about you. I don't believe that he is having those dreams. I think he's just telling you that because he either wants to know if you have a secret and doesn't know how to come right out and ask you or he is keeping a secret. I wouldn't play into that nonsense at...

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This seems like a normal sign, but what is up with the crab? We are moody, giving, good with finances, love unconditionally and loyal. We are genuine people and great to be around. I haven't met a cancer I didn't like starting with myself. :) +6

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Does the "evil eye" work on your kids? Did it work on you? Hell yeah! I'm 43 and my mom still petrifies me with that evil eye. :) +6

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If you have children, do you give them an internet curfew? Yes I do but every night it's always same last famous words. "Turn off that computer! It's bedtime!"

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What would you rather have a hug or a kiss? I can't have both. :(

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Any relationship should only last as long as it's beneficial to each party? True/False? why/why not? I would say that the lucky ones continue but there are those relationships that run it's course and it's not beneficial to stay longer than needed.

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What would you do if you woke up and it was 1990, yet you were the same age you are now? pissed off that I'm 43 and not 24yrs old then I will realize I can't do anything about that so I will invest in real estate like crazy. Hopefully I have a newspaper with a later year with future lotto or mega million numbers and win the jackpot cause I will know the numbers beforehand. Hehehehehe +6

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What saying did your parents have that turned out to be so very true? My mom always says this about liars who will eventually get caught in a lie. "What you do in the dark will come out in the light". +6

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How can i get to know a girl who i like? she said if we get to know each other better MAYBE we can go out>? You can start by being a friend. Once she gets to see that side of you she will feel comfortable and will probably go out with you at that point. I was friends with my boyfriend for nine months before I began dating him. He won me over by being there for me as a friend. I trust him with everything so by the time we started dating it felt really good because I felt like I knew him my whole...

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What is something that you find in Las Vegas? The grand canyon casinos shows wedding chapel Buffets nice hotels (mgm, mandalay bay, bellagio, luxor, etc.) dance clubs

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Whats next to you... my cel phone. I can't be without it.

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I'm just a teenage _ _ _ _ _ _ _ baby? dancing

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What do you keep near your toilet? Toilet paper because I don't want to reach to far. +6

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I'm 15 and very much contemplating suicide. I know asking for quick methods gets no answers, so instead what are good reasons to live? The bad things in my life outweigh the good things and I don't want to fight through them to see how worse life will get My God you need to read these stories. You need to start by loving yourself. I wish I was there with you just to give you a hug. I'm a mom of two. My son is 21 and my daughter is 13. If they ever committed suicide I would be devastated. We all have bad things in our lives outweighing the good things. God knows how many times I had the same very thoughts but somehow I always saw the...

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If your boyfriend outright tells you that you're "better in bed" than his ex-girlfriend, would you be flattered? or would you be offended that he's comparing you to her? I wouldn't be offended but it's not tactful and it's insensitive to tell your girl that she is a better lover than your ex. Every woman wants to feel like you're only thinking about her so bringing up an ex and then the word sex following it is NEVER a good thing! +6

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If you're laying in the bed with your boyfriend, what are some things you can do to turn him on? I start by giving him a nice back and front massage with hot oil. Hot oil comes in flavors. After that I start kissing and licking his chest. I work my way up and down his chest and stomach area. That totally arouses him! After that I go directly downtown and work my magic. I don't waste time. Let's be honest men love oral without a doubt! After that he makes it all about me....

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What is your opinion on the subject of abortion? Explain please! I don't feel that abortion should be a form of contraceptive. I know plenty of women who have abortions like they change their underwear. You should protect yourself before having sex if you don't intend on keeping a baby. There are ways to prevent it beforehand. I can't throw a stone at someone who has had an abortion because I'm one of those people. My reasons were...

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Am I, the only man who has never had a girlfriend who knew how to cook ? *not to be sexist but in all my relationships,I always have to be the one who does the cooking as all my GFs can't even boil water. When you go on your first date that should be one of your first questions if a girlfriend cooking is that important to you. I don't look at that as sexist. I look at that as one of your preferences. If she doesn't cook I would be saying to myself "Next!". +6

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Who's hotter Megan Fox or Angelina Jolie? I'm hotter! Those two got nothing over me. :) +6

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How close do you live from your Ex (s)? not far enough for sure!

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I've been going out with my girlfriend, but she has to get married with his ex, I don't want to let her go. What should I do? What is this Jerry Springer! What do you mean that your girlfriend has to marry her ex?

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Why can't I seem to trust my boyfriend of 4 years? I think everything he tells me is a lie. I can't help but check his cell and look for clues. All his friends are disrespectful and I don't see why he hangs with them. Am I insecure? First of all until you have proof I wouldn't go accusing him because you may loose him. You need to stop checking his phone because if he finds out then you will probably be out the door. Let me tell you something I know that it's really hard to trust any man or woman out there today but you will drive yourself insane if you keep thinking the way you do. There is a saying that says...

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What is your definition of love? Love is unconditional, unselfish, giving, peaceful, happy, growing, nuturing, forgiving, breathtaking and amazing!

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Can you name one thing in your routine you did differently this week? I actually bummed around this weekend and it felt good. I normally have a filled weekend with errands and I did absolutely nothing! +6

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What do you think of when you wake up in the morning and look at yourself in the mirror? holy crap! more wrinkles. Why the heck is that Loreal cream not working. :) +6

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If a man proposes to a woman and doesn't set a date for the wedding, is that a sign that he's not that committed to marrying her? Who is responsible for naming a date? (This is just a hypothetical question) You don't have to set a date at the same moment of the proposal but in the next week you should be talking about a timeframe or setting the actual date. I have plenty of friends who have been engage for over five years which does'nt make any sense to me.

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My boyfriend and I really care about each other. He gets an orgasm easily when I do it for him. He always wants me to get one too but I am nervous to tell him how to do it the way I like it. He's tried it on me but it never came. What should I do? Basically you need to let him know. He is not a mind reader so you need to be honest and let him know what you like and how you like it. He will only want to get better and better at it. Great love making is all about the communication. When you communicate to each other what the other likes and how they like it makes it all the much better. :) =6

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How would you describe the summer of 2009 in 3 words or less? Too much rain

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I will never be ________? a quitter

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What is the meanest way u ever been dumped or dump somebody? The meanest way that I have ever been dumped definitely was through a text message. It was the mos insensitive thing anyone has ever done to me. The sad thing was that I was with him almost five years and I felt that I had deserve more than that from him. He was not obligated to stay with me but he could've at least broke up with me in person or at least over phone but through a text was...

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What is the best advice on marriage you have received? Never go to bed angry at each other. +6

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I am so forgetful, do I owe you money ? (please leave your name and how much so i can get you repaid :P ) Not at all! We are good! It's great doing business with you.

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When you were little, what was the 1st sport you wanted to play? Softball I was a tomboy :)

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Where did you last sexual encounter take place? My boyfriend works at night and came over for a quickie before he went to work. It was great!

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How did u find out that ur partner was cheating on you? The other woman text me from his phone when they were together and she called me while he was sleep, woke him up and give me the phone. Ofcourse we're not together today but they are together. I was with him longer but I refuse to stay with someone who would cheat on me when I wasn't doing that to him. They got married and guess what he's still cheating so I saved myself...

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Is $30,000 too much for an engagement ring? If you got money it's not but when you don't yeah $30,000 is way too much!

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Would you still love your s/o if s/he became ugly? When you truly love someone you love them no matter what. If through no choice of yours something physical happened to my s/o I would be there always. However, there are those that don't take care of themselves the same way they did when they was trying to get with you and that's an issue for me.

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Can you please describe your last phone conversation in 3 words or less? annoyed and confused

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What is the lowest point you have ever been at in your life and what did you do to make it through it? The lowest point of my life was when in 2000 I almost took my life by drinking 58 tylenols. I ended up in the hospital having my stomach pumped and then right into the psychiatric ward. I embrace God and family. I finally got myself out from that dark hole. I thank God I've never been there again and I don't planned on it!

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Who does Kanye West think he is? Didn't you know that he thinks he is the King of Pop and not Michael Jackson. Kanye is an idiot!

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Me and my current boyfriend of 1 year are both virgins. I really want to take it to the next step because I love him and trust him. He says that he loves and trusts me too, and claims that he is ready, but he always makes excuses not to. What should I do? First of all how old are you both? You may be ready but maybe he's not. He may be saying he is but maybe he really isn't. Remember it's also his first time so it can be scary. You both have to be comfortable and should be doing this all for the right reasons. I hope it's not because you feel it's the next thing in the relationship that should happen. Give it time.

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What makes a perfect ending to your day? a nice hot bath

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Do you think that poor people are poor because they are lazy? In this economy, you got working people that are poor. Anyone who is living paycheck to paycheck is poor because if you didn't have that check coming in then bills won't get paid and you won't eat. I'm one of those people and I can tell you that I work very hard but the money is not reaching.

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Deep fried.......What? Deep fried apple cinnamon donuts with syrup on the side! They are so good.

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Would you prefer to die in a hospital or at home? At home with my family

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My boyfriend has problems with his credit cards, but when I mention things he can do to help with the debt, he just blows me off saying "I will, I will," and never does. What should I do? I would only be concern with the way he handles his finances if you live with him. If you live with him why would you move in wit someone that doesn't have himself together not on the other hand if you don't live with him don'worry about it he's not your husband, fiance or live in boyfriend. Just make sure that you're not paying for everything. :) +6

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Your new boyfriend is driving and you hear a siren behind you and see flashing lights. He hands you a baggie and says QUICK, Hide this! What do you do? The hell with that! I'm not going down for him. He just got here so I would give that shit right back to him!

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From whom do you recieve more text messages? Definitely my son. He kills me with all that texting. He will text me ten times in a row and I will text him one time back. It's crazy.

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Why do we have to let the people we love go sometimes? Because when you let someone go if it's meant to be then they will come back to you. :) +6

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Now, be honest. What were you really doing that time I caught you coming out of my house? Seriously, I made myself at home. I ate some of your leftovers, watch some dvd's and by the way I finish up the soda so you may want to replace that. :) +6

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What is your favorite color in a flower? I happen to love lilac.

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There's a dog in the apartment above mine that does NOT stop barking. I have a feeling my neighbor isn't home, but even through the concrete floors, I can hear this dog!! This happens every night now, from about 10 pm until 2 am. What should I do? Definitely talk to the neighbor if nothing is done the landlord would be next if still no solution then find another place. That's the beauty of renting you can move to another place.

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What should you do after being bitten by a venomous snake? Suck and spit that blood right out!

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How intelligent am I (BRING IT)? Your so intelligent that Albert Einstein has your number on speed dial when he needs input. :) +6

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Whats your favorite button on the remote control? Power! :) +6

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Has your phone ever been stolen? Yep at my nephew school christmas show. There were two girls sitting next to me and I made a phonecall then stuck the phone in my pocket. The two got up and for some reason I decided to check my pocket and the phone was gone. I raced to the door and the two were still in the building so I asked them if they had my phone but ofcourse they tried to look offended that I even asked so I said cool...

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How do you tell someone that you really just want to be friends w/o hurting they're feelings? You just have to be honest and say it! I wouldn't do it over the phone. I would speak them in person and let them know how you feel. You would hurt them more by leading them on but also don't be insensitive about it. Definitely the in person talk is the best way to go! Good Luck :) +6

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Have you ever felt like you've fallen in love with someone you barely know? One time I did. I met this guy and he was gorgeous! It was a friday and I didn't see him again until Monday morning. I went to meet up with him and we locked lips the moment I headed in his direction. To this day that was the best kiss I ever had. We were inseperable after that. It definitely felt like love until his ex came back into the picture and I walked away and never looked...

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When was the last time you saw a rainbow? What were your thoughts? a couple of weeks ago I was in the park with my nephew who is 5yrs old and I showed him the rainbow and he said "awesome". My thought everytime I see a rainbow is always how beautiful they look! +6

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Favorite hotdog topping/condiment? I love the works! ketchup, mustard, onions, sauerkraut, bake beans, chili and cheese. I'm totally gassy after that but so worth it!

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Where is your VCR? In my room. Every so often i still pop in a vcr tape. Got to keep that VCR around! +6

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What would you do if i was the last female on earth? I would be fine. I would just need a few things like a man for those heated days. A bar on those days when I need a drink. My cel phone, direct tv, my laptop, my car just to name a few. +6

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When you last ate honey, what was it in or on? Honey Graham Cracker

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Anyone wanna dance with somebody? Yes of course! with somebody who loves me! :) +6

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Can men enjoy cuddling as much as sex? Even though you hear that men don't like to cuddle as much as women do I don't believe that. My man and I always cuddle after sex. It feels great to cuddle before or after.

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What comes in a jar? Cookies, peanut butter, jelly, pickles, candy

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Would you make a good parent? -or- Do you consider yourself a good parent? My children are my life. I've done the best that I could do raising my kids as a single mom. I have done without so they can always have and I live with no regrets when it comes to them. I have a 13yr old girl and a 21yr old son. My 13yr never gives me any trouble but my 21yr is always in trouble. At times when my son gets into trouble I question if I am a good parent and wonder why...

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I hate my X and want to see him suffer....what do you think I can do to get him back? There is no X that is worth that trouble. An X is an X for a reason. You just need to move on and do things to make yourself happy. Don't put your energy into getting someone back. How about realizing that he probably did you a favor by not sticking around. He probably wasn't worth keeping. Look at it as he made room for the right guy to come into your life. Actually you could...

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I just found out this dark secret about a close friend; she made me promise not to tell anyone. I don't want to break this promise but if I don't tell something really bad could happen to her and if I do tell I risk losing her as my friend. What do I do? I'm not into snitching. However, if me snitching is going to save her life from hurting herself or stop her from hurting someone else then I would be snitching away! The way I feel about my close friend I wouldn't want to see her dead or in jail. A secret would've not been worth keeping if these things would happen to her. +6

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Whats the first thing that comes to mind in the morning I wish I could stay in bed. :D +6

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Are you aware of your body language when you talk to people? Yes, my facial expressions speak for me and I use my hands alot. :) +6

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Who has your back? My sisters, my mom and Dad, my daughter, my man, my bestfriend and definitely I do! +6

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How do I get my boyfriend to be intimate with me the way we use to be? Obviously, one of you or both changed things between you two where the sex doesn't feel the same anymore. You need to sit down with your boyfriend and let him know how you feel. Not only can you get things the way they use to be you can make it even better. Light up scented candles in the bedroom. Have rose petals leadng towards your bedroom. Wear lingerie. I wear a thong, heels and...

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My ex from when we were kids wants to date. we took each others virginity, broke up because i moved and haven't seen each other in 13 yrs. we found each other online. He says he still loves me and i still think of him often. .do we have a chance at all? I believe you have a strong chance. Things sometimes tend to work out better the second time around. I don't have to tell you that 13 years have passed and people do change so many years later. However, it is very sweet that he says he still loves you and you are still thinking about him. This could be destiny! Go with flow and see where it goes. Good Luck! :) +6

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I am a gay teen who just met the perfect guy.He recently said that he knew I was gay yet wants friendship.But he also said that he's afraid I might like him and doesnt want to hurt me by saying no to a relationship. Im so emotionaly confused right now! You say you met the perfect guy. Do you mean that he meets all the criterias you would like in a boyfriend or is it that you have been spending time with him and it feels perfect to you? I'm asking you because it sounds like he is straight. Is he gay as well? If he is straight don't waste your time emotionally because he won't be able to give you what you're looking for and...

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How do you know you are in love? And please don't say you just know! : ) I know I'm in love because I think about him all day long. I think about him in my life twenty and thirty or more years from now. I find myself always trying to do something so that I see a smile on his face. Everytime I see him I'm so excited. I feel so happy having him in my life and I can't see myself with no other. I know I'm in love. :) +6

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At what age do men grow up? Is NEVER an age? Normally, they grow up at NEVER years old! :) +6

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Why do some women prefer to have male friends? For one women hate on other women. Women gossip too much and then you have to deal with their bitchy ways. I rather hear the sports talk and trash talk any day over the other things.

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I hate my ex-boyfriend and I hope that he catches a STD........am I wrong for this.....He betrayed me....and wasted my time? It's sounds like you just broke up with your boyfriend. It's normal to feel the way you but don't act on those feelings. Listen, he made room for the right person in your life so he did you a favor by being a jerk. You could've married this jerk so you saved yourself divorce money. You need to look at this in a good light. One day you will bump into this jerk and he...

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How you deny someone's proposal? Honesty is the best policy. However, you need to be tactful, understanding and polite. I would sit down with the person and explain honestly why you are denying the proposal. Some people bs the other person by saying "it's not you it's me". That is not a good enough answer. That person needs to know exacty why you don't feel for them in that way. They deserve the...

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What's the most embarassing thing that happened to you on a date? We had mexican for dinner and I had he worst stomach pain but didn't say anything at all. I felt like I needed to go to the bathroom badly but being as anal as I am I only feel comfortable going at home. We got in the car and I was sweating so bad. He stopped at a seven eleven for gas. When he got out of the car I knew he was going to the store and then pumping gas and I let one slip...

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Do you think watching porn is cheating? Not at all! I would watch porn with him if I were you. It will spice up your sex life. I was a porn phobic and I would get upset when my man would watch it but one day I started watching porn with him and ever since then our sex life has picked up quite a bit. Honestly, we as women don't want to be cheated on and wonder why some of these men cheat on us. I'll tell you why because...

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What should I do if my Boyfriend won't listen to me? Men listen when they want to. I would probably try to speak to him at dinner or when you're cuddling and let him know how you feel. You can't get a guy to listen to you when he is watching sports, on the computer, talking to the boys, playing with electronics, etc. They are better listeners when you tell them that you need to speak to them but dont' make it sound like...

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Could a gay person give relevant relationship advice to a straight man? Yes, I believe they are in touch with their feminine side and understand women better.

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What would you do if the guy you were sleeping with loved to receive but wouldn't give oral? He had a bad experience 4 YEARS ago and he can't get over it. He earned his "red wings" and he's scarred for life. I love to give but I'd love to receive too. You know that's bull right! I understand cause I'm going through the same thing. I have a great guy and things are beautiful between us but he refuses to go downtown. I can't deal with that! You definitely have to let your man know that this a requirement. He can't expect and not give. Totally unfair. Let him have it! You should be getting what you give. :) +6

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Chocolate chip or Oreo's? Please don't make me choose! I want both! Can I get milk please? :) +6

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Does anyone know a way to get my mom to close the door when she showers??? I already tried giving her a robe but she must think it is for decorating her closet with. Well it is your home and the only thing I can say is that you probably have to sit down with her and tell her that it makes you feel uncomfortable. Explain to her that you have certain rules in the house that you would appreciate if she follows. Remember this is Mom so I don't have to tell you how you need to speak to her. My mom is 72 years old but if I spoke to her in a certain way she...

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What is the oldest television show you actually remember watching as a child? The Andy Griffin show.

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How Do I commit suicide so my kids get insurance money? I know that times are really hard and trust me I have had those thoughts a time or two when I saw myself so broke that I couldn't seem to financially take care of my children. To the point that I did try by drinking a bottle of tylenol. I ended up in the hospital having my stomach pumped and then I spent a month in a psychiatric ward. During that time all I saw was the hurt in my...

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Are you a/an only, oldest, middle, or youngest child? No, I'm the middle child of three girls. I got blamed for everything. +6

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What would you do if your boyfriend/girlfriend went out to a bar without you and danced with a man/woman, then told you about it and acted as if they did nothing wrong? What should I do? Honestly, I wouldn't get crazy because my boyfriend danced with another woman. I don't see that he did anything disrespectful and on top of that he told you about it. If he acted like nothing was wrong it' because it was just a dance for him. Trust me there are worst things you can get pissed about and dancing with another person is not one of them.

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Have you ever used the phrase ".....you know" in your conversation? Hilarious! I use that phrase all the time. Some people don't know what the heck you're talking about and you're still repeating to them "you know". +6

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To the women who are divorced: did you give your wedding ring back to your husband when you divorced? Do you still have it today? I have his and mine. I'm going to have it melted and have the jeweler make something nice for my daughter.

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Concerning physical appearance, what attracts you to another person? their Smile their Behavior their Manners their Respectfullness their Kindness

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What dulls your pain? Aleve all the way!

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What are your thoughts on arrogant people? I brush them off like dust! I don't deal with them. :)

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Is anyone else sick of the over exposure of President Obama yet? I realize and appreciate the significance of his assent to the Presidency, and I hope that he does a good job, but I think it is all building hopes that no man could ever live up to. First of all, I'm not sick at all. We have needed change for a very long time now. I don't feel that anyone should expect Obama to fix up all the messes that the prior Presidents have created. He's getting exposure because he is actually trying to change things and cares enough to really do something about it. I have seen this President do more in the short period he is in...

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Give me one word to describe how you feel right now? Exhausted

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What are noises from the upstairs apartment at night most likely to be? My neighbors getting it on! :)

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I have a boyfriend who is 28 and i need help on what to do to spice things up in the bedroom we have been together for five years now and we just dont have that spark. If you're a good girl then you need to bring out that bad girl in the bedroom. A man loves a lady in the streets and a freak in the bedroom. You got to get creative and take initiave. Having missionary and military sex is not going to cut it. Men love oral without a doubt. They love when you get on top, side, back, etc. You got to talk dirty to them. My boyfriend loves it when I...

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Does being in love make you koo koo? Yes for coco puffs! :)

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What makes a date different from just spending time out with someone? It all depends on what you want to call it (a date or just hanging out). It also depends on what you feel for the person. If this is someone you're interested in then that would be a date. If you're going out with a friend that there is no interest there then that would be just hanging out. :)

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If there is no solution, what do you do? I would pray

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Can you name a sport where players lose teeth? boxing

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Do you feel your online friends are as special as your real life friends? Definitely! Especially my AB family! :) +6

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If someone had cheated on you, would you get rid of them right away no questions asked? I have to be honest. In the past I forgave cheaters in my life and they only thing that happened out of it was that they cheated again. I'm currently dating someone that I am in love with and if I find he is cheating on me I will leave him and never look back. Though I truly love him I love myself more. I wouldn't put up with cheating because I have faithful and loyal so why would...

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Explain your best friend in one word. Reliable

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When it comes to relationship:Name some things you should never say? You should never put your mate down. That you hate their family members. That you don't like their kids.

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What things shouldn't you do with parking meters? Use it as a stripper pole. :)

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I just rid myself of the guy who turned out to be my biggest mistake ever. Are there any suggestions of what to occupy my time with to defeat these feelings of hurt,loneliness and regret? This is a time when you should be around your close friends and family. Be around positive people. Get into a good book. Go out and have fun! You know the things you like to do and do them. Definitely occupy your time so that you don't have enough time on your hands to get sad and think negatively. :) +6

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Name 3 Most Dangerous Mistakes Men Make Around Women? looking at another woman while they're together Being Arrogant Actng Cocky

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What do YOU think is a quality that is difficult to find in a man? Being faithful is a quality that is very difficult to find in a man! If you find a man that is faithful, kind, giving, understanding, listens, doesn't lie and just simply loves you then you need to hold on to that man with your life because a man like that is hard to find! For all you that have a man like that consider yourselves truly blessed! :) +6

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My husband I have been married for almost a year, and between the 2 of us, we have 4 kids. I have mine 24/7 which he knew about, and his are over every weekend. His kids mother is re-married. How can I get him to see that it's too much for me? I know raising four kids is very difficultbut you knew he had kids when you married him. Is he not helping you with the kids? You both need to be a team here when it comes to the kids. You need to work it out with your husband so that you have time for yourself. :)

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What would be the most practical thing to give a homeless person? Food, clothing and the address to a shelter. +6

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Should I fall...would you catch me? Ofcourse! I got my hands out. I'm ready for you! +6

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What are some good ways to overcome jealousy? I don't think anyone can just one day stop being a jealous person. However, self control and putting things in perspective may help you not act on your jealousy. I'm a jealous person as well but I learned how to control that behavior to prevent me from acting on it. I use to assume alot and jealousy would come into play. I realized that my jealousy also came from my insecurities....

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My boyfriend of 6 years dictates what days I see him, and he does not want me going out on weekend nights with friends even though he works. If I do, he dumps me. Is this abuse? OMG, what a control freak! Sweetie, nobody should be dictating to you when you can and cannot see them. That should be flexible and something you both agree on. Also, telling you not to go out on the weekends because he is working. What is he your daddy? Seriously, you need to either have a serious talk about this or dump him. Personally, I would dump him because I wouldn't be able to...

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Do you prefer to be dominant or submissive in the bedroom? Both! Sometimes I'm in the submissive mood and sometimes I want to be dominated. It depends on how we both feeling at that moment! :) +6

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Gecko...Caveman..or creepy stack of money with eyes? Creepy stack of money with eyes plus love the song that goes with it! :) +6

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All the guys i hangout with r str8 and don't know am gay. why do str8 guys always touch me and feel on me/ initiate conv? does it have to do with me being good looking? they tell me am gorgeous. how do u think they'll react if they one day find out am gay Well if they are truly your friends then it not going to matter to them whether you're straight or gay. If they act differently towards you after they find out then do you even want to keeps them around. Personally, the fact that they tell you that your gorgeous makes me think they gay as well. I don't know a straight man that would tell another man that he is gorgeous and not be...

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Are you for or against the death penalty? This is a really hard question for me to answer but here it goes. I don't believe that anyone has the right to take the life of another but when I hear of some of these horrific cases concerning murder, rape, etc. I feel like that person deserves an equal death. If someone raped or hurt my daughter I would want them dead. It's very conflicting. +6

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What was your favorite Patrick Swayzie movie? I loved Dirty Dancing. I was trying to dance like that for years. I never got it though. :) +6

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Have you ever gotten a bad nickname and it's been staying with you for a long time, or recently and how did you get that name? My name is Olga and when that movie came out years ago when I was growing up "Orca (the killer whale)". Orca stuck with me for a long time! I hated it! +6

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Was one of your parents a bigger disciplinarian than the other? Which one? Definitely my dad. He would hit you with whatever he got his hands on. My mom was the softee. She would always defend us. +6

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If my ex-husband is sleeping in my driveway and following me around town, is this considered stalking? It depends on whether you want him there. If you don't then I would definitely consider this a stalking situation. If you speak with your ex I would ask him "what is up with him following you?" If you are afraid then you should notify the police. That sounds very scary. Be careful! +6

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Uh there this one girl i really like but i don't think she even knows who i am what should i do? Start off by saying hello and introducing yourself. Have casual conversation with her and get to know her. Be a good listener as well. We love that. Find out her likes and dislikes. Trust me with time she will not only know you but never forget you. :) +6

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Have you taken an ex back? Yes, six months ago and going strong.

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If you were a talking cow, then what would you say? Hey, it's that time of the month! Don't squeeze too hard! They're senstive.

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Running ______. What word (s) can you use to fill in the blank? man is a cool dance.

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♣ Who can guess my real name?♣ The Lone Ranger! I knew I would find you!

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(WOMAN ONLY!) whats the biggest reason men get rejected? I guess for me as soon as I see them it would be their appearance. Being arrogant, too aggressive and cocky doesn't get you far either.

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I really need some friends right now because i am splitting up with my boyfriend and it makes me sad, will you be my friend? Of course! It's going to be okay.

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What is the most beautiful creature in the world? Dolphins :)

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What are three things you can't do? I can't do a split. I can't seem to lose these dam last twenty pounds and I can't stop these wrinkles. +6

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Do you think your partner is still as hot as when you first met them? Is mine, or am i just kidding my self because i am in love? ;p It's funny but everyone thinks that my boyfriend is too ugly for me. I think he is so hot and so handsome. I know I'm in love. I saw your pic and I think he is adorable and it only really matters what you think because he is your boo! :)

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Be honest, you bang the heck out of your shin on something walking through your house in the dark, what's the first word that comes out of your mouth? What the f! You know the rest!

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You wake up after a good nights sleep, turn to your side and there's a dead hooker lying next to you,what do you do next? run like hell and don't look back!

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What things can you see in an airport? A sports bar Magazine Stand Souvenirs shops eateries Airplanes ofcourse Flight Crew and staff Fustrated people that arrive late to the airport and miss their flights. Ridiculously long lines The same luggage that keeps going around and around at the baggage claim section People on standby Cancellations and delays Customs Taxi Police Airtrain (New York) kiosk machine ATM machines

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What do you think about this? Tonight at the VMA Taylor Swift won an award and when she won, and as she was saying her Thank You speech,Kanye West came up and took the microphone from her and complained that Beyonce should have won. Below is what I wrote on the MTV VMA comments blog. I have to say that Beyonce is a classy lady for stepping back and remembering that at one moment she was in Taylor's shoes receiving her first VMA award. You go Beyonce. OMG!!!!!!!! I can't believe that Kanye West had the nerve to get up there and take Taylor's Swift moment just to make that comment. HELLLLLLOOOO,...

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How old was Humpty Dumpty when he died? I don't know the papers only said that he fell. Obviously, that reporter didn't do a good job on the story. That was a sad way to go! Humpty was so sexy. He looked good enough to eat. Long live Humpty! :) +6

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If the Bible says, Thou shall not judge, why do I always get Christians hating on me? Because they're not a true Christians. We as people are not here to judge anyone. God is about love not hatred. I wouldn't allow those individuals to affect you because they don't count. True Christians follow God's word and God professes love.

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If love is just a game, how come I've never won? In every game there are a set of rules. Did you follow the rules? If you bypass the rules or cheat then you will never win. Don't give up. I know you can win! I see a winner in you!

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What are two things that just don't go together? Silly responses welcome. A user and a giver. He/she would be broke for the rest of their lives.

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Is it important to be punctual in your first date? Why? Most definitely! I would only accept tardiness if a call is made to me and it better be a good excuse. That is totally unacceptable to allow that from the beginning. Remember how you start something it how it ends. When something starts good most of the time it ends good. :) +6

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Is it right to check my ex's myspace and facebook profile, its only been a month since he broke it off. i dont know what to do please help? It may even make the breakup even harder. I'm guilty of doing that and trust me it didn't help me but made things alot worse. In my case, we never got back together so in checking on his my space page it took me a while to move on. I'm actually in a very loving and healthy relationship now so don't waste your time on someone you're not with but instead focus on you...

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Do you ever get sad when you realize how quick your kids are growing up? Yes, all the time. The time went so fast and now they're 13 and 21.

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Have you ever broken up with someone you are still in love with? Most definitely back in September of 08. It hurt like hell but we needed a break badly. Things just kept compiling and it kept getting worse and worse. It's funny we got back together this past April and things are going really good. Sometimes you need that break. That break also doesn't guarantee you'll be together again.

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Wherever you go...........................? I'll be there! :) +6

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Are you usually the chaser or the one being chased when you first start to date someone? Do you prefer it that way? There is nothing wrong with making the first move but I was raised old-fashion so I have never made the first move. I let alot of nice guys get by just because of my old fashion ways. +6

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Is being selfish always such a bad thing? Being selfish is never a good quality but sometimes we need to think about ourselves first. I have spent most of life being a very giving person that it has hurt me at times so sometimes I feel that it's okay to be selfish depending on what it is.

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How can i find someone new (just broke up)? OMG NO! Stay single for a while. You need to give yourself a rest. It's never a good idea to get over someone with someone else. It never works. Have fun and enjoy yourself. Give yourself time to think about what went wrong so it doesn't repeat itself. Though it gets lonely it's best to give yourself some time. Find things to do. Hang out with friends/family but don't...

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Want a flower? I would love one! Would like one as well? +6

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If divorce was banned, would fewer people get married? How about you? (See article) If divorce was banned I would still be married to two people. In all seriousness, I believe if divorce was banned then maybe people would work harder on making their marriage work. I think today people get divorce for any stupid little thing. :) +6

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Want to sleep? Yes I do. I thought I had to pickup my car first thing this morning at the mechanic and the car is not ready. +6

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What song inspires you? Faith Evans "Again". It's my anthem! +6

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If i sleep with 3 different guys in two weeks, does that make me a slut? Pretty much but in today's society it's called being normal. :)

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My boyfriend begs to finger me, and stupidly I let him. Now he wants something in return, but I don't want to do anything. Any advice? First of all, you need to let him know how you feel. Secondly, you shouldn't do anything that you're not ready to do. When you start things like that they will always want more after. It sounds like you want to please him but you need to please yourself first. Trust me when someone really cares for you they will wait until you're ready and if they can't wait then I...

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Why do guys want a hicki from their gf so bad? and they want it were it could be seen. They want everyone to know that you are their girlfriend and that you are taken. It's called insecurity! Plus it's disgusting to see hicki's all over a person's neck or places you can see.

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How do you know that your truly in love with your gf/bf? what are the signs that you are? When you have spent enough quality time to actually be able to say that you truly know this person then I can see someone falling in love with that person. Signs for me are when I'm thinking of that person with me on my long term plans, when throughout the day they are constantly on my mind and happy thoughts with this person is what comes into mind, when you care so much about their well...

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I met a man recently, we spent a few hours together that I really enjoyed, and then out of the blue he asks 'when was the last time you made love?' How does one answer a question like that? I would probably ask "why does it matter?". He will probably say "no" so you don't have to speak on the subject after that. I don't like speaking about people in my past with someone in my present especially a question like on a first date. He may be insecure or just wants to know if you are currently in something or recently getting out of something.

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What is your Wrestler name?: (It's the first name of your favorite action hero + "The last tool/equipment you bought at a hardware store" + your best friend's surname). Triple H, Adam (Batman), Faucet Knobs, Jessica

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Have you ever had a serious crush on a cartoon character? I really liked Liono from the Thundercats and Ulysess ... but it was the Silver Surfer that I loved the most and wanted to spend the rest of my life with. Yes, Thundarr the Barbarian! He's so hot. Is he still available? Do you have his number? I was suppose to spend my life with him and then we lost touch! :) +6

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I'd like to think of myself as a smart and intelligent person. Why is it that I let myself get so blinded in my last relationship? Can any of you relate to this? Of course, especially when it comes to love. I consider myself intelligent as well but when cupid hits me in the behind I have to honestly say that at times I felt dumb as hell. I don't think it's being blind but hoping that things are not as bad as they seem. I date someone now and it's going great but the moment I feel something wrong I address it head on. Those blind days...

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A coworker made a comment to me like "I have no friends at work." Yet you consider them a friend. Are they obivious that their comment could hurt your feelings or is it they just don't consider you a friend but someone to express their woes to? If you really consider this person your friend then I would just come out and asked them if they consider you a friend or just co-worker. I have worked for the same company for 23 years and I have to honestly say that I consider a small few my friends. If this is a person that you only associate with at work then are they truly your friend? I consider my friends people I associate with all...

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What word do you use when you can't think of what you're trying to say? (ie Please hand me that whatjamajigit.) Where did you learn the word or did you make it up? "You know that thing". I always expect the other person to know what "that thing" is. Too funny. You made me think about this and I had a good laugh this morning. :) +6

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My girlfriend and I decided that were were going to be independent during college. We love each other very much and want to be together in the future. I feel conflicted dating other people but she doesn't. It hurts to much to talk I don't know what to do. I know how you feel but sometimes we need to let people go and if it's meant to be she will come back. You can't force someone to stay if they don't feel like you do. All that can happen is that the person will end up cheating on you if they're still with you while she wants to be independent. If this is any consolation, My boyfriend broke up with me in September of 08...

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What do you do when your feeling blue to make you feel better? I crawl into bed with a pint of my favorite ice cream (praline's and cream)and watch Lifetime or the WE (Women's Entertainment)channel.

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Do you like hot peppers? Yes, I love hot peppers! The funny thing is that hot peppers make me cry, makes my stomach hurt after I eat them and makes my nose runny but I can't stop eating them. The hotter the better. :)

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What would you insert into the blank? Today AB is _________! is like me (TGIF)! :)

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Best way to propose to a girl? Definitely in public. Getting engage during dinner is played out. Try to be creative. A women is more surprised when she is totally taken off guard. I was proposed to inside the torch of the Statue of Liberty. He had me walk all those flights of stairs that when I reached the torch and looked out the window he asked me "how much do you love me" and I responded with my arms open...

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How do you get rid of a hater who just down rates you for no good reason? You have the option of who you keep and let go of in your life. I would totally disengage from someone who is hating on me and putting me down. Don't allow negativity in your life. When people act like that it's because they don't feel good about themselves so they have to put someone else down so they can feel better. Don't be their victim. Good Luck! :)

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I would love to write a book to help others who hav suffered with pnd i dont want anyone to feel alone and am very passionate about this but dont know how to start? I found the below website interesting. Hopefully it helps. http://www.howtodothings.com/careers/a2945-how-to-write-a-book.html Good Luck. :)

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What would you do at the end of your summer vacation? I would try to enjoy the outdoors as much as I can cause I know winter will be right around the corner before I know it.

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I have been absolutely miserable lately over a guy... I come here and you guys always make me smile. What does AnswerBag do for you? When I'm going through my stuff as well I get on AB and I always manage to smile or laugh so I'm glad you feel the same way. :)

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Am I too old to be dating her? I am 23, and shes 16 Seven years apart when she is over 18 is not a big deal but as of right now you would be in serious trouble. Is dating her worth you going to jail. I don't think so. My son is twenty-one and young girls that look way over eighteen want to be with him and he cards them because that is what I taught him. I tell him not to believe any girl unless he sees ID. I don't even want him...

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How can i maintain my virginity again,can i use any medicine or any king of exersize,or how much gap ghould i take time to do a next intercose so that my partner will fil that in virgin When you find out how that can be done you let me know and all the women out there as well because I don't even think that is remotely possible. Good Luck!

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I am not virgin but now in getting marreid and i dont want to let know my husband that i had sex before what can i du Do yourself a favor. Don't start a marriage with lies. Sooner or later he will find out and if he truly loves you then being a virgin or not is not going to matter to him but what will matter to him is that you lied to him. We as women are more forgiving than a man. When a man trust you believe me you will have the world with him but once that man doesn't trust you it will never be...

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WHY DO YOU KEEP IGNORING MY LOGICAL ANSWERS? THIS is why I quit the last time. On the other email I'm a level 34=does this tell you anything? Seriously being on AB is great and if you're stressing like that then you don't be here. You sound all hostile typing in caps. Are u ok? You remind of a song "Dont worry be happy!" I

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I was abused as a child by my father for 16 years I have delt with the issue and thought it was past me but now i am married and have a 10 day old baby and scared to death I know that I could never harm him but it still scares me...what do u think? The fact that you even have the thought makes me wonder if you ever got therapy to heal yourself for the abuse you went through with your Dad. I have two children and one thing I definitely learned as a parent is that you automatically don't become a great Mom. You learn as you go but if you are having doubts or even thoughts I would truly suggest for you to speak to a professional...

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The house i am renting landlord lost it to the bank,should i still pay him? he has my deposit and promise he will pay it back . i dont think he will .could i stay and not pay him rent at all ? could i wait till bank ask for property? I actually went through this same scenario several years ago. I was told by the bank not to pay the owner and to just wait until the bank contacts me for rent. The bank finally contacted me almost a year later and they wanted me to start paying them rent beginning from the time they contacted me. I was able to save all that rent for a year and I actually use it for a downpayment to my house....

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Does anyone else think that Answerbag sucks? I have been a member since 2008 and I have to say that this site is wonderful! I love the feedback I receive and if I helped someone with my comments and questions that is great as well. All of us go through so many things on a daily basis and on AB you definitely have genuine, truthful and wise members on this website that gives you great advice and actually cares. I won't trade AB for...

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Do fish drink? Yes, magarita with Jose Cuervo. :)

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When you make up your mind to do something, do you complete the task or quit when when the "going gets "tuff?" I was just thinking about this today. I always considered myself a person who completes the task and never quits but lately I don't know what is wrong with me. As I see my co-workers getting layed off from work I feel like I lose the momentum on getting tasks completed. Sometimes I just feel tired and I get bored easily. I don't know if it's the recession or something else. All...

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If I am using my own computer and type in a friends user address and password to get on their email, can they find out. Out of curiosity why would you want to do that? I guess my question to you would be would you like someone doing that to you? Regardless if it's your significant other everyone is entitled to their privacy and that is a violation. I am not trying to be harsh I guess I trying to make you think about doing that. No one is that important that you should even jeopardize yourself. :)

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How long have you been a member of AB? On AB since August 18, 2008 and loving it!

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Why do ppl get on here to argue? if you go and look at their answers they are all picking an argument,If they want to help, then arguing isn't the a good answer.. whats your thoughts? I think it depends on the question. Some questions deserve an argument and then there are those that argue for the fun of it. :) I have to say that I have received wonderful answers from my AB family and I also have received answers from folks that just seem ignorant with their comments. I didn't get on AB to argue with anyone so I tend to ignore the argumentative folks and definitely...

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I have a real bad swearing problem, i used to be able to control myself and not swear in front of my parents, but now i seem to be swearin around anyone, even teachers, lil kids, parents etc. how can i stop control myself? You need to practice self control. No one is making you swear so you really need to think about what you're going to say so that it comes out the way you want it to come out. It's funny but swearin as become so natural today. I tell my daughter all the time there are many ways you can express yourself and swearin doesn't need to be a part of your conversation. To be honest...

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How are you? Hi Koolcat: Things are good and thank you for caring enough to ask how we're doing. Sometimes you got people in the same household that don't even ask or care about how you're doing. I get on answerbag and my answerbag family always makes me feel better. How are you? I hope you're doing great!

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If you were in the woods alone on a snowy night and couldnt be helped until the morning, and all you had was a 16 inch foot long sandwhich and a blanket, but you could only choose one to keep you company at night, which one would you choose. Blanket of course plus I got a few pounds to take off so I don't need to be eating pass seven. :)

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How many of you like this site..? ..as i do Love the site! This is my second family! You got really genuine and honest people on this site.

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List your flaws... I'm a softee, too kind and too giving. This may sound like good things to possess but in reality these are flaws for me. I always run into people that try to take my kindess for weakness, tried to get over on me because I'm giving and the fact that I'm softee I always give people the benefit of the doubt so I'm taken for a fool. Working on it though definitely not trying...

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I woke up today with a lump on the right side of my forehead. I am going to my doctor on Monday but I was wondering if anyone out there has ever experience that or knows what this could possibly be? I am worried. :( Thank you so much for responding. We can definitely talk to each other about our concerns. Ironically, after I wrote this I ended up in the hospital and just got release today. I have heart issues and now have to see a cardiologist. They think I woke up in the middle of the night possibly fainted by my bed bump my bed and landed in my bed. After extensive testing the last several days I...

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Why do men mistreat women? Do their insecurity stop them from allowing them to truly love her? Or are they protecting themselves? People mistreat people in general. If you allow someone to mistreat you they will continue to do just that (mistreat you). Don't allow yourself to be a position to be mistreated. When a person sees how much you respect yourself and will not allow anyone to mistreat or disrespect you trust and believe they won't. I have come to realize that the times I got mistreated was because I...

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If a girl is pregnant should she have sex when she is around 30 weeks? I had sex to the very end. As a matter of fact with my youngest daughter I had sex the same day I gave birth to her. I believe it's what brought on the contractions. :) Of course be cautious but definitely don't deprive yourself or your mate.

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How do i tell if someone has an interest in me? There are many different ways to tell when someone is interested in you. You can tell when someone is interested in you by the way they look at you, how they speak to you, when they go out of there way for you, When they do kind gestures, when they find any reason to call you and when they try to hang at places you would normally hang out at just to see you.

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Do you consider smoking to be cool and sexy or a bad, unattractive habit? Smoking to me is such a turn off. I have met very attrative men and when I see them light up that whole attraction goes right out the window. I am not a smoker and smokers don't realize how much they that smell is all over their clothes, car and apartments. Smoking is not cool nor sexy also what I don't get is why people even smoke at the rate that those cigarettes are costing these...

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My girl cheated on me right before she got pregnant and now she thinks that the only way we can get over it is for me to go out and have sex with another girl. what should i do? Two wrongs don't make a right. Cheating is a very hard thing to cope with and go through in your relationship. You either can deal with it, get pass it and move on or you need to end the relationship. Though there is a pregnancy and alot more involve here you either need to just be a daddy or be part of a family. Therapy is a good solution but you also have to be that person that is...

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Do you like Michael Jackson? If not why? Michael Jackson was an icon. He lived for music, dancing, his fans and family. He was an awesome humanitarian. You got to love him. Unfortunately when you're under the constant watch of the media negativity is bound to happen. I have to say that I don't believe that he abuse those children. First of all, I am a parent and I would never leave my children in a grown man's...

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I'm dating someone who didn't want a relationship. I'm in love with him. He acts like we're in a relationship. We speak everyday, see each other almost every weekend and he is very good 2 me. Should I enjoy and see where it goes or talk 2 him about us? We started dating in April of 2008 and we broke up in September of 2008 because I was going through a bad time in my life and was totally stressing him. We started dating again since April and it's been wonderful. Initially, he told me he didn't want a relationship I guess because last year I put him through so much. The strange thing is that he acts like we are in a relationship....

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I have IBS ad it is a problem at work due to stress. I want to leave my job because so many peopl are talking about me. The job market is horrible. It's not easy to go out there and get a job these days. The job market is horrible and you will find that stress is everywhere. It doesn't matter where you go. At one time I had IBS as well due to stress and caring too much what others thought about me. I learned that I can't please everyone and that I have to live life for me. You have to get to a point where it...

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I'm taking my dog to the groomers today for the first time. Do I tip them like I would if I got my hair cut? They normally charge me $75.00 and I give them $80.00. I always tip them.

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Who are you going to choose.....a man who is with you but has a son from a past relationship or the man who comes and visit you for a week every 3 mos.? It depends what is important to you. I would think that the man that is with you that has a son from a past relationship sounds to me more like a serious relationship. The man that visits you every three months sounds like he is just something to do. If I want to build with someone then I would need to see them on a consistent level. So like I mentioned in the beginning it depends what you...

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Does anyone else think that Answerbag sucks? I find it to be very helpful and at times amusing so I would have to say that it doesn't suck to me.

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This guy & I had been messing wit each otha for a month. We decided to b friends. He gets into a relationship. A week later he started callin & textin me, says he miss me. How serious is he about the otha girl or does he really want me? or both of us? It sounds like he is not ready to be committed to anyone. He may want you both. The question you should asked yourself is in what capacity do you want to be in his life? Are you okay with just messing with him or are you looking for something serious? I would have a discussion with him and ask him honestly what is he really looking for when it comes to you? You should not be playing guessing...

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Ladies: is orange nail polish tacky or cute? (Just painted my nails and can't decide) Orange is cute. Especially now for Spring and Summer.

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Whats the prettiest name for a girl? Bryanna. :) That is my daughter's name.

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What is the one thing you want right now but can,t get it? A good man! Very hard to find these days!

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What first comes to mind beginning with the letter J? Jackass! My ex-boyfriend Jurell fits that description. Jurell the Jackass!Perfect!

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My ex boyfriend broke up with me. We just didn't see eye to eye with each other. It was hell, I got over it. He don't say much to me when he sees me, but will stare at me constantly. Why did he call me on Christmas day when he doesn't call any other time? I went through the same thing. My ex broke up with me back in September and barely called me after. He called me on Thanksgiving and we did not speak again until out of blue he text me on xmas day and calls me. I did not respond to the text and did not pickup his call. The reason is that I pickup his call on Thanksgiving and it put me in a bad place emotionally and to him it meant absolutely...

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Why do all females go for the bad or "thug" type guy??? I have a job and I'm in school for law. Whats wrong with me? I misunderstood thinking you was a female. Listen if you are a great guy please stay that way. You will find that special someone who will appreciate you. There is a shortage out there of good men and there are not too many of you left. I am a woman that is suffering from that depression. I can't seem to get my hands on a great guy because myself as well I feel like I have a great job...

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Why do all females go for the bad or "thug" type guy??? I have a job and I'm in school for law. Whats wrong with me? There is nothing wrong with you. We as women want to believe that someone is just right for us and then we find out that he was not a nice guy. Even the ones that are not bad boy/thugs deceive us as well. I always dated fine looking bad boy/thugs and the ones that I thought was good and it didn't work out. Heck I even recently dated a really ugly dude that was a dear friend of mine and...

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I dated a good friend of mine and as of last month he is my ex that now wants to go back to being friends. The problem is that is does not feel the same. Do you think you can go from friendship to dating and back to being just friends and it being normal? MarfSchmarf, thanks for your response that makes so much sense to me. I probably will always be his friend but right now I definitely need the space because I honestly am not ready to be up close and personal with him. I am feeling a whole bunch of emotions. Anger is definitely one of them but my feelings are very involved here as well. Can I tell you this totally sucks. Thanks again for...

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I dated a good friend of mine and as of last month he is my ex that now wants to go back to being friends. The problem is that is does not feel the same. Do you think you can go from friendship to dating and back to being just friends and it being normal? I have totally struggled with us being friends right after breaking up. I feel like there is still alot of resentment between us and it feels like the friendship right now is fake. It really hurts because we were great friends and I am still in love with him. I still feel angry over the breakup and I also see on his part that he so easily snaps at me when he doesn't like something which...

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I"M AN AQUARIUS &THIS GUY IS A LIBRA. SAYS HE WANTS MORE THAN SEX. WE LINKED UP, HAD A ROMANTIC NITE .THE NEXT DAY I SNAPPED ON HIM CUZ THINGS SEEM LIKE SEX WAS ALL HE WANTED. NOW HE'STURNED OFF. HOW DO I GET HIM TO LIKE ME AGAIN LIKE HE DID B4 I SNAPPED? Seriously, my understanding from what I read is that you just recently hooked up. The reality is that some men just want sex and some don't but you can put a whole bunch of demands or have a whole bunch of expectations when you are still in the getting to know each other phase. He probably is scared to hook up again with you because you seem to have had expectations already and that maybe...

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What do women do that upset or put off a man? Definitely post it. Your not alone I have been guilty of some of these as well. That is really good that he is still with you. I wish my guy could laugh off some of my stupid stuff but in my case he has one foot in and one foot out. I am trying to correct some of these things so that he doesn't completely leave. The truth is I love him and he is the best thing that has happened to me...

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What do women do that upset or put off a man? Plenty of things I am sure. Below is a list I thought about: Calling him too much and not giving him a chance to call you back. Sending him not nice text messages or voicemail messages. I am guilty of that and feeling the pain as we speak. Accusing him of cheating when you have no proof. Not having an agenda or a purpose in your life. A man loves a woman that is sure of herself and knows...

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I had unprotected sex on 9/25 with my boyfriend and I usually come on at the end of the month and I havent had my period and I feel queasy off and on,on the 27th I had a pinkish color and I havent seen anything else, its been 2 wks could I be pregnant It does depend on when you ovulate and how if your cycle is normal. I am very consistent with mine so I also had unprotected sex last month had pink discharge and just found out I was pregnant so to answer your question Yes there is a possibility you are pregnant. You should definitely make an appt. with your doctor. Good Luck.

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My ex and I broke up a month ago over something I said. I want him back. We've been talking everyday but haven't seen each other in three weeks. He says he misses me but to give it time. What do you think that really means when a man says that? Thanks I was feeling a little lost. I know women and men think differently and we forgive alot sooner. I believe he has forgiven me but definitely not ready to see me. I just wish he was at that point. I really miss him and it hurts that something so easy as him seeing me before now is so difficult. This has taught me a valuable lesson to think about what I am going to say before I say it....

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My ex broke up with me 2 weeks ago. I found out that I was pregnant 2 days after our breakup. I tried to call him, no call back. I left him a voicemail which upset him. I'm having an abortion. He misses me but doesn't budge. What can I do 2 get him back? I did not think of talking to a professional but that is a great idea. I feel lost. I don't know what to do. The abortion is scheduled for Saturday and I am so nervous. I have a twelve year old and I did want another child but not under these circumstances. I feel so torn. Thank you I will definitely contact a professional that can help me sort out all these feelings that I am...

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My ex broke up with me 2 weeks ago. I found out that I was pregnant 2 days after our breakup. I tried to call him, no call back. I left him a voicemail which upset him. I'm having an abortion. He misses me but doesn't budge. What can I do 2 get him back? He broke up with me over a misunderstood text message that I sent him. I told him that I am having an abortion and of course he wants to be there for me. If I would have chosen to have it he would have also taken care of his responsibilities. He has told me that he misses me but he is still angry about me leaving him a voicemail that I was pregnant on top of the misunderstood text message. I...

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Is it wrong 2 tell a man u just broke up with that u r pregnant after taking 2 pregnancy tests that came out positive? I am scheduled 2 go 2 doctor tommorow but he feels like I should have waited 2 tell him until doctor results. Just wanted to be truthful Thanks debee. You're so right about arguing over things I cannot change. I love him but unfortunately this turn of events has put another strain to an already tense situation. I did not want to be deceitful so I felt honesty is the best policy. If I would have waited to tell him after three exams then that would have been lying to him so I am dam if I do and dam if I don't.

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Where can a senior citizen go to locate their pension? My mom is 70 years old and for the last 8 years she has not received her pension. She worked for a company 30 years and they closed down and now it seems that her pension is no where to be found. Thank you I will definitely contact the state attorney.

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Dating a Haitian man and I am Puerto Rican. Never thought dating outside of my culture was a problem. He has no kids and never married. I got 2 kids and I am divorced. Family wants him 2 marry someone Haitian, no kids and never married. What should I do? Thank you this has been weighing on my heart. I am in love with him and I have his best interest at heart. I know he truly cares about me as well but he is very close to his family and respects their opinion. His family is very critical. I can't help I had a past before him. They speak creole and I never know what they are saying. I feel out of place sometimes. I guess I do need to speak...

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Boyfriend of 4 months called me 4 times while away 2 weeks? Cel didn't work but called me using a calling card. Offered me the number where 2 call him and I said "no need" thinking he was going 2 call more. Concern. Do u think he cares? I do have to realize that men think differently from women. I am not whining but I can be overly sensitive. I didn't take the number because I didn't want him to think that I did not trust him because the truth is I do trust him. I was use to speaking to him several times daily. It concerned me that while he is away we have not spoken as much. It is also a new relationship. Last...

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Should I worry that my boyfriend went away to Venezuela on vacation for two weeks with three male cousins? He will be staying at his cousin's home and will also baptize his baby while he is there. I trust him but this a new relationship an I wish that would have been the case. That totally sets you apart from the guys out there which makes you very unique and special. There should be more men out there like you. I would have not mind a vacation in Venezuela. I truly needed it! LOL

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Should I worry that my boyfriend went away to Venezuela on vacation for two weeks with three male cousins? He will be staying at his cousin's home and will also baptize his baby while he is there. I trust him but this a new relationship an Thanks Dave2222! You're right about the anxiety level. I will relax and trust him until he proves me otherwise. I didn't go because this trip was booked before I came into the picture. Lulu