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Would you dump someone just because they kissed someone else? Not as a knee jerk reaction. I don't know about anyone else but most of my relationships aren't quite taht straightforward - if we were a couple still in the dating/ getting-to-know-each-other stages it wouldn't bother me nearly as much as if I'd been in a monogamous relationship for several years. In most cases I'd call them up on it though - challenge them and see...

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I want to become a model...not a fashion model (i'm not tall). Where do I start? Right OK, I'm stepping in here because every single answer here is pretty much useless as far as breaking into glamour modelling goes. First of all we'll deal with some misconceptions: - From the point of view of getting work and making money, the more clothes you are willing to shed the better. This is not me telling you that you have to do things you are uncomfortable with, this...

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My boyfriend and i have been dating for almost a year and live together he knows my passwords for my email, facebook and my pin for my bank card but I know none of his, he doesnt want me to.. should i be upset about this? does he have something to hide? If you're daft enough to give out your personal information to someone you've been with less than a year that's up to you but don't expect him to be as stupid. Seriously love, I wouldn't trust my own mother with my bank pin number! Do you not listen to the ad's about personal security?

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When you know it's wrong to do something, and you go ahead to do it anyway what do you do thereafter? It depends what it is. In the most recent case I elected for the vow never to do it again and try to act like nothing ever happened in the hope of minimising the damage" approach. If there's something obvious you can do to put things right that can be a good plan - but in most cases trying to interfere further with a situation that shouldn't have occured in the first place tends...

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What do you have planned for today, Saturday? Apparently sitting around doing very little and feeling like crap is top of the list. Not what I initially had planned for the weekend - but y'know...!

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I have recently decide to only wear high heels and got rid of my flat shoes. I an getting really comfortable in my 10cm heels should I go higher? I was once told that when wearing heels you should be able to stand up straight without leaning on anything and lift your heels at least an inch off the floor withoutout bending your knees. If you can't do it, they're too high.

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What would be a great alternative feeling for the way you are really feeling right now? I would seriously just like to have my memory of Thursday night back please.

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Letting Gays marry? what has the world come to?!?!?! (i don't hate them and i'm not against them being together but i think marriage should be between a man and a woman) I am certain that there are without doubt far more important things in the world for you to direct your righteous indignation at than how other people choose to conduct their relationships.

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What are some myths about rape? It might seem trivial but a women's magazine did an article about rape, which included speaking to convicted rapists - the main thing I remember about this was taht the most common time for violent "strager" rape to take place is around 5pm - not in the early hours of the morning as you might imagine. This is because rapists of this type have a tendency to target women who are...

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Women, what kind of clothes make you feel sexy? Skirt and heels, a faded old, tight t-shirt and good-looking jeans, tank top and pajama pants ... ? Anything else? (I feel sexy in the t-shirt and jeans.) Stockings are generally a pretty good instant lift in the feeling sexy department. But generally anything that suits me makes me feel sexy - there's clothes that look hot on other people that just make me feel daft because they don't suit my body shape or personality. Generally I'm a big fan of intense colours - black, red, purple, tactile fabrics (like silk, velvet, PVC), and...

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Ladies: If a cute guy pulled up, and told you to get in his car....Would you? Why/Why not? He TOLD me to get into his car? He's not even ASKING if i'd like to? I wouldn't get in even if I knew him!

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Why do you choose to believe that there is no God? I didn't "choose" to believe there is no god. I just don't see any reason why there would be one. To believe that there isn't a god seems to be the default position. "To believe" is a verb, and thus implies active choice. It would seem pretty silly for me to go around asking people standing at a bus stop "why do you choose not to run out into the...

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My daughter needs to get more Iron in her diet. What foods are a good source of Iron? Any kid friendly recipes for these foods? I have now, in front of me, a factsheet given to me by my doctor listing good sources of iron, which I was given after being diagnosed as aneamic. I should point out that I am vegetarian, but it also very clearly says "Iron deficiency is statistically no more common in vegetarians than in the rest of the population." The main reason for my deficiency was my tendency to eat an...

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Are kids today naughtier than they were in your day? What do you mean "In my day"? It IS my day - I'm still alive aren't I? If you mean "are kids naughtier than they used to be." then no - I think that's a big load of bollocks. Every generation seems to think the kids of the previous generation were respectful, well-behaved angels, and the current crop are dangerous vagabonds with no parental control. The...

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Should the nudity in movies be banned totally..? The only reason nudity is really seen as taboo is because it's so restricted. If we stopped labelling nudity as inherently sexual and just let it be seen on a regular basis then we wouldn't feel as if there was something we needed to protect people from.

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Girls that shave down there,how do you keep it smooth all of the time? It is smooth the day I shave,but i have sensitive skin and can't shave evryday cuz my skin will get irritated.Also my hair is on the thick side. & Ive tried waxing with little luck. Christ - never EVER shave down there - you'll do yourself horrendous damage. And definetly don't use a depilitary cream if you have sensitive skin - REALLY bad plan! (experience talking here!) The only sensible way to get rid of the hair is to get a professional wax. don't try and do any kind of waxing yourself - it's a professional skill that you need to be trained to...

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If you were to have a manage a trios, would you prefer MMF or MFF? Or do you have another trio in mind to attempt? I have been involved in a few MFF threesomes (which were slightly disappointing), and one FFF one (which was better) - I would honestly really love to be involved in a MMF one, but I've never found two guys I fancied that were up for it. One day, maybe...

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Would you ever like to watch your S/O have sex with someone else? If so would you want it to be of your choosing or theirs. Also would you want it to be a same sex or opposite sex? I did that once - I should add that it wasn't what I'd call a really serious relationship, in which case I might have more reservations about it - I'm not sure who chose the person, I suppose we all mutually consented to it happening. It's a bit weird - you get to watch pretty much what they do with you, but from a different angle. It's sort of a turn on I guess,...

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What is your favorite nickname for the vagina? I like poontang. I'm with Germaine Greer on this one: I'm a big fan of the word cunt. It actually may be my favorite word. Other than the blatantly technical (and therefore unsexy) "vagina" I can't think of any other word that is unashamed and unapologetic about what the tghing actually is. Virtually everything else is a euphemism, a prettification, an apology for the reality of female...

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Does it seem the truth does not work sometimes at AB, it's not politically correct, and it can get you in trouble? 90% of internet users seem to enjoy - even aim for - getting into "trouble" (where "trouble" is defined as having a few people you've never met type nasty things about you for a while and revel in their boldness.) So I think AB serves it's purpose very well in that respect. I am increasingly starting to think that the internet is just a refuge for people who like...

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Do you think it's inappropriate to attempt to kiss someone on the first date? If someone didn't kiss me on a first date I'd assume it was the also the last one and that they just wanted to be friends. I sort of take it as given that if you're attracted to each other, you have a snog. It'd seem a bit off just to shake hands at the end of the night after all!

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Ladies, how many pairs of high heels do you own? Seven. That's three less than I had two weeks ago when I discovered the concept of flogging stuff on ebay :-)

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Ladies: cowboy.construction worker, metrosexual or boy next door? Cowboy. I have a bit of a thing for cowboys at the moment.

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I am terrible with money. I like to spend it whether I have it or not. This is not acceptable to my boyfriend, who has to make our pennies stretch as far as possible. Other than just "trying harder," what can I do so that I don't over-spend? The single best thing you can do is set yourself a budget. This is basically where you look at what you earn each month, you subtract your fixed expenses (these are things like your rent and electricity bills and taxes) and see what you have left to play with. You then divide this up, assigning a realistic amount to each expenditure you have left (food, clothes, eating out, home entertainment,...

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Do you plan to, or are you aging naturally or do you plan on or have you had "work" done? Not to be too personal, I just read an article about how cosmetic surgery is starting to decline because people are accepting their apperance more. I'm not sure. The thing with surgery, is that it can only really work with what's already there - if you don't look after yourself, or have generally aged poorly, all the surgery in the world won't make you look beautiful, and the more you have, the more freaky you'll look. On a generally well-preserved person a few judicious nips and tucks can add to the effect and...

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My s/o changed her picture of us to a picture of her, her song to "Walk Away", and her status from "Engaged" to "In a relationship" on myspace, simply because I lied to her about saying something that I didn't think she'd understand. Immature? From the story you told it just seems to demonstrate the fact that if you treat someone like a child they'll usually start to behave like one.

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Do you think that putting up the price of tobacco products in the UK, is discrimination against smokers? If the government stops discriminating against women with tax on sanitary products, or against people with sun sensitive skin with tax on sunscreens - then maybe there's a chance that argument is worthy of discussion. Until then - seriously, you don't HAVE to smoke!

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Was Han Solo a good dresser? I can't help feeling he'd have been a slightly better undresser... (memories of early schoolgirl crush back to haunt me here...)

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Why do cows go moo? Cows were near the back of the queue when noises got doled out - us humans got the best deal with the whole talking/singing deal, monkeys didn't half do bad with the "oo oo". Guinea pigs were ushered to the front of the queue mainly to make up for the fact they were at the back when bodies got handed out and ended up being made out of the blob of infinite matter that wa sleft...

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Have you been D/Red so much that you just don't care anymore? I'm not sure I cared much to start with. The whole points thing bores me to be honest. I'd rather have a comment.

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I can't get the courage to go and ask the girl i like out for a drink. Do you think i have less chance if i ask her online or by text? I'm really nervous about asking her becus she's never on her own and i havn't had a relationship in so long. Any advice? If this is someone you already know reasonably well in a social context I don't think it's such a bad thing to arrange to go for a drink by text, if it's actually spluttering out the question that worries you. It at least means you don't have to spend ages trying to get her alone. The oly thing you need to think about is whether you're going to feel confident actually...

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Girls! What is it about a man that'll make you look twice? Make me look twice? Hmm... dramatic colouring (very dark or very fair), thick eyebrows (I really like them), shaved head, interesting facial hair, distinctive facial features, a slightly dirty smile/expression. toned forearms... He'd have to do something to make me carry on looking though...

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Why do men forget everything and women remember everything? I beg to differ. I remember F-all. Wish I could!

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Ladies:Is there one thing a man can do to guarantee a second or even a third date with you? Make me laugh (that helps a lot) Imply that he might be up for something appropriately kinky (not necessarily then and there, but slightly further down the line.) Be a Siouxsie and the Banshees fan (I did actually once go on a second date with a guy solely for this reason - I ended up going out with him for nearly two years...)

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Why are there more and more girls boxing? Aren't they afraid of getting hurt? I took up kung fu about three months ago after years of thinking about it - and I guess the reasn I did it was precisely that - BECAUSE I'm afraid of getting hurt. As a woman (and quite a slightly-built one at that) I can't help but feel vulnerable when I walk through the streets on my own, or when I'm alone with a strange man, or any numbe rof other situations. Knowing that I...

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Is a woman with curves considered a "full figured woman" today? I think that these days "curvy" is very often used as a polite euphemism for "overweight".

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Why is it ok for men to sleep around, but when a women does, people judge her.....what do people think of women who have done this............ Unfortunately, there are greater risks entailed with a woman sleeping around. A guy can get a girl pregnant, but he can also, when it comes down to it, choose to walk away, or deny responsibility. It's kind of hard to do that if you're the one with the baby growing inside you - even if you want to. So there's something to be gained by making the idea of sleeping around seem dirty...

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I need an easy healthy dessert recipe. One with items one would find in a household because I don't want to have to go get anything. Help please? Take one banana, chop into slices. Take yoghurt, pour into bowl. Mix in banana slices :-)

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What is your planned retirement age? I don't plan to retire

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Is it more socially acceptable for a man to be dating a younger woman than for a woman to be dating a younger man? I don't think it is so much anymore. Traditionally it would have been expected that a man was usually older - but these days I think a small to medium age gap either way is fairly widely accepted - very large age gaps I think are frowned on by a lot of society regardless of which partner is the older one.

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What does the word "feminism" mean to you? Are you afraid of it? I'm an absolute, fully paid-up card-carrying, unashamed feminist, and I believe any woman who can read this question and answer who isn't one too should be thoroughly ashamed of themselves. Feminism saved our lives, and it carries on saving our lives all the time. It saved mens' lives too - and if you don't understand that you really need to get a better grasp on history...

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Do u think i am attractive????I am 5'8, have long blonde hair, green eyes n hav a pretty nice body. If you want an honest answer, I find the fact that you felt the need to ask a little bit unattractive. Apart from that I couldn't possibly say.

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Please tell me one thing from high school you ACTUALLY use in life... Percentages - it's amazing how often they come in handy. Swimming - also useful. Reading/writing - good one that. The chemical symbol for Lead (it came up in a pub quiz once.) I can safely say that I have never, ever used Pythagorus's theorum though. Nor have I ever needed to circumnavigate a triangle, throw a javelin, recite a portion of "Romeo and Juliet", tell...

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Girls, why do so many of you like wearing jeans? I personally could never wear jeans because I love skirts/dresses and I would not feel feminine in them. I love my skirts and dresses, and if I want to look good I'll pick out a skirt over jeans any day. But jeans are one of the most practical items of clothing known to man (unless it's raining, in which case they're hell on earth.)- I wear skirts for work, for shopping, for going out on the town or lazing in the park. But if I'm walking my Mum's dogs, scrubbing my...

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Why do people call things organic when you cant even eat them? For example clothing "Organic" in that context is nothing to do with edibility - it just means that the product was grown and/or produced "naturally" without use of pesticides or man-made chemicals. Of course, strictly speaking the word "organic" just means anything made of living (or was-living) matter. Even vegetables grown using pesticides are technically organic, just by nature...

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Given the curret gas crunch, do you think that it is irresponsible to drive a gas guzzler? It does really irritate me when people use them to drive to the supermarket or to pick up the kids from school - mainly because they're bloody lethal things that cause ridiculous traffic jams and put pedestrians at risk.

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Is there a certain race that seems to (for some reason) be highly attracted to you? Actually I've recently been considering that someone not being British seems to increase their chances of being attracted to me. Which is a bit of a bugger.

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We are always being told to eat healthier or to eat only organic foods, but do you find it more expensive to eat healthier and organically?I recently did shopping with my friend and she eats junk and i eat healthy food and the price difference was huge! I actually find eating healthy to be considerably less expensive than eating junk. The best way to eat healthily is to conttrol what goes into your food by buying the raw ingredients and cooking from scratch - which is infinetly cheaper than eating processed junk. If you were to go out and buy the ingredients to make yourself a healthy stir fry at home, you might pay out more than if you...

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I'm 30 though I look younger and feel as though I'm 25! My family wants me to settle down and have kids. They get angry that I still want to move abroad and travel. Am I immature and selfish for wanting this? Not remotely. To have children before your ready, and thus able to give them the love and attention they need is about the most immature thing anybody could do. Maturity is at least partly in knowing yourself and knowing what is right for you - which isn't necessarily what's right for everybody else. Perhaps instead of getting cross with each other you need to talk to your family...

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Do you think most girls look better tan, or pale? Blondes and redheads, I think, as a rule look better pale (Reese Wetherspoon or Renee Zellwegger I think, are far sexier than Pamela Anderson even in her heyday.)- brunettes sometimes tan well and sometimes don't - depends whether they're "Celtic Brunettes" (like Catherine Zeta Jones (or me for that matter...)) or Meditteranean brunettes (Like Penelope Cruz).

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Do you like rainbows? now... are you gay, straight, bisexual, or transgendered? (please don't take this offensively.) They're alright. And um - I think maybe I'm just greedy.

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My fiance won't marry me unless I completely clear out my $10K debt, is that a valid reason? It sounds like a reasonable reason to delay marriage - if you see it more in terms of "My fiance wants to wait until we are both financially stable until we start planning a wedding and a life together" (which after all, is a further financial commitment on top of what you already have.). Then it doesn't look quite so bad - you say fiance, rather than boyfriend, so clearly he has...

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The drinking age in America(or wherever you may be) is being disputed once again, some say if you can vote and risk your life for your country you ought to be allowed. First; What age do YOU think? Stay at 21, 18 or...? And; when could you legally? I don't think whatever the age limit is on alcohol purchase makes a great deal of difference to the amount of alcohol related problems. The UK has one of the highest legal drinking ages in Europe, but we also have about the worst drinking culture - which is to do with the way we drink : the average British 19 year old is binging at weekends in pubs and clubs, drinking alcopops until...

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What is the secret of looking good in photographs? The main things that will help are:- - Never stand or sit with your body facing the camera - it makes everyone look like the Hulk. Instead turn so your shoulders are at a slight angle to the camera and look back over your shoulder. - Tilt your head very slightly to one side. Looking dead straight at the camera creates a cross to your features, and emphasises lack of symmetry, only the...

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What child modeling agencys in uk dont cost you money if you want to put your child into modeling? All modelling agencies cost money - the same as an agent for any other profession. Generally the way they work is they put you (or your child) on their books and will approach clients who may wish to work with you. If you get the job they will then take a cut of the fee you are paid for working. No agency finds models work for free.

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Am I the only person to notice that AB has invented a time machine? The last question was answered in -95 seconds. Please answer this question in -95 minutes: what are this weeks lottery numbers? I'd noticed that too! I thought it was just me - I know the board is moving faster these days, but really?

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What a poet's basic building blocks: words, images or thoughts? Personally I think it's words. I've always consider poetry to be closer to music than it is to prose writing - in that the way the words sound and fit together is what "forms" the poem. I'm not a big writer of poetry but I've always felt that it's virtually impossible to choose to write a poem "about" a set subject - the poem starts with a phrase...

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What was the worst typo you ever made? I often write "sacred" instead of "scared", I'm also given to writing "massages" instead if "messages." and apparently I'm not the only one as at teh end of my road is a small flyer stuck to a bin that offers "Full Body Messages." (it has crossed my mind that this is not actually a typo and I am merely being naive about the range of...

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Have you ever written a story? What was it about? I've written many. Most of them seem to involve sleeping or eating.

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What was the movie that disappointed you the most to see after reading the book? The Da Vinci Code is tops on my list. "The Beach." - the book was great, and it was the kind of book that really SHOULD have made a good film, but instead they made a crap one, cut out all the best parts of the book, invented a naff love story and cast the main role really, really badly (nothing against Leo DiCaprio but that role should have gone to someone much older, less pretty and preferably British.). I really...

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What physical attribute would you like to thank your mother for? Abnormally long legs :-)

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What celebrities have you been compared to? A few of my friends have nicknamed me Nigella in tribute to Ms. Lawson. Not that I particularly look like her - but I tend to get quite passionate about food.

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Will you stop dating a guy if you knew that he snored? I can honestly say I've never slept with a guy who didn't snore (If there are any out there I am open to offers!) Whilst I am quite given to requiring seperate sleeping arrangements on occasion becaus eof this, I wouldn't consider a reason not to date someone.

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Are you guilty of lack of exercise.Would running be a shock to your system? I don't run much because my knee joints can't take it - but I do exercise in other ways.

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Why do some skinny girls have cellulite (cottage cheese looking stuff) on the backs of their thighs but some large women don't? Is it related to fat or not? Cellulite isn't the result of excess fat. It's normal and healthy for women to store fat around the buttock and thigh area - cellulite isn't the result of fat itself, but the skin fibres in the area splitting and the fat poking through (think of an old matress with the stuffing poking out) creating an orange peel effect. Men tend to have differently structured skin fibres which...

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How can I get rid of a hangover? I swear by lots of nettle tea and potato cakes.

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Why do most men find obese women unattractive? It's evolution baby... All of us (male and female) are pre-programmed to find people who look healthy (and therefore more likely to produce and raise healthy offspring) more attractive. Hence we don't as a rule find people outside of a healthy weight range attractive.

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What do you think of the classic Winnie-the-Pooh books? I have really good childhood memories of my Mum reading me the story about the flood and laughing so much she could barely finish the story. Great books - shame Disney got hold of them.

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What is your favorite body part in girls/boys? Men's forearms. Women's lower backs. :-)

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If you're in a serious relationship, do you think you have the right to see all the messages on your partners phone and emails, and for them to see yours? I think that would make for a very unhealthy relationship.

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Which body muscles should you focus on to help maintain good posture? You need to focus on core stability - and the best way to do this is to focus on your abdominal "corset". you can feel what i mean if you slot your hands around your waist, standing straight but relaxed with your pelvis in-line (not tilted forard or back). Then gently pull in your pelvic floor muscles and imagine yourself carrying on tightening up to your lower stomach to create a...

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I'm blonde and tried to dye my hair black using a store brand, why didn't it work. the color all washed out of my hair after just dying it.? Trying to dye your hair more than two shades lighter or darker than your current colour is very difficult to pull off. The type of dye you need to use will depend on the condition of your hair, your hair type, your current colour (particularly the levels of red pigment) - and it also takesa lot of expertise to know how to apply correctly and how long to leave the dye to develop. This is why...

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Are most fat people lazy? Well in this day and age - with a very, very few exceptions - if someone is overweight it's because they eat too much and don't move enough. Anything else is usually just an excuse - so I'm going to have to go for a yes on this one.

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Do you find it increasingly hard to tell fact from fiction. ie Heather Mills is made out to be a bitch of all bitches..but how much is real/how much is the media controlling us? Can we tell? Will we ever truly know the answer to this? It's not something I worry about too much to be honest. I don't know Heather Mills, and whether she's a bitch or not isn't really any of my business. On the other hand, with matters that might actually affect me, or the world at large (such as news about global warming, international conflicts, political sleaze of certain types etc) it does concern me a little. To be...

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My byfriend wants to have sex with me five time a day. is this normal? At the beginning of a relationship, yes - I'd say that's pretty normal. you're still excited about the thrill of the new relationship, you're flooded with hormones and excitement and you want to do it as often as humanly possible. Usually after a few months even with the best matched and voracious of couples things generally calm down a bit, which is a good thing,...

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You MUST get a tattoo, it's the law, where it will be located and what it will be is your choice. What's it going to be and where? For a while as a teenager I entertained the idea of having a scorpion crawling up my spine - so maybe that.

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If you were an exotic dancer, which song would you dance to? Anything by the Rolling Stones - it's music that's MADE to strip to.

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My ex/wife and i get together at least once a week for sex, she has a guy in her life and says they're just friends. am i being used or does she still have feelings? Well, it seems to me that she has some form of feelings, and that maybe she's using you as well. But then I could also say pretty much the same thing about you - presumably you're getting something out of these encounters? Seriously - if you don't like the situation just stop having sex with her - it's not as if you don't have a choice in the matter.

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Do you really resemble your avatar? What quality about you does it represent? Not really. I'm considerably taller for a start, and I have much darker hair. I do possess some very similar boots though. I just wanted something that was cute and inoffensively sexy.

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Are you happy at the moment? I'm not unhappy.

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How is YOUR Spring going so far? Did YOU just get buried in feet of snow like *I* did? See pics in my answer here... Well that makes me feel slightly better after spending several hours in a cold damp deserted cave on Friday. And trekking down a Welsh mountainside in freezing cold hail. (but not much...)

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Girls, why do you prefer older guys instead of the ones with the same age? I'm not sure really. I know it's not money, because I actually have a tendency to go for guys who earn very little (I'm a bit suspicious of rich men.) Partly I think it's because older men tend to find me attractive, whereas guys my own age don't fancy me at all. Partly I find I'm more likely to share interests with older men - guys my own age tend to be into...

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If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be and why? Siouxsie

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Do you have an embarassing "I shouldn't, but I would" crush on anyone famous? Er - several actually...

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I have a female friend who is quite pretty and has had her second problem with stalker-type behavior. Is this common for pretty ladies, or do you think they do something to bring it on? I don't think prettyness is so much of an issue as a particular personality type. Some women (and some men too) have a tendency to be nice and accomodating to everyone, even where others might choose to keep their distance becaus ethe person seems slightly odd. They might be naive, or tehy may just be kind-hearted and friendly. They tend to show unusual kindness (although to them it may...

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Women: What else is there left for you to do when your s/o loves doing all the housework, taking out the garbage, laundry and cooking? Er.. where do you want me to start? If I had a s/o who did all that for me I'd have loads of time to spend on my work and hobbies! (not that I have a huge problem cleaning up after myself you understand, and I quite enjoy cooking - but if a guy came along who was happy to do it all for me I wouldn't say no!)

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Do you like Dolly Parton? One of my guilty pleasures...

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Coke, Pepsi, Bubba Cola, RC, or not cola at all? not at all. nasty gut rotting stuff that it is.

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Are you able to prove to me that 666 is the mark of the beast? If so, would you please prove it to me? Actually 616 is the number of the beast. The 2005 translation of the oldest known copy of the Book of Revelation gives the number as 616. Not 666. http://www.religionnewsblog.com/11134/beasts-real-mark-devalued-to-616

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What brand of make-up do you use most often? Mostly I use The Body Shop stuff for everyday use - I have other favorites but they're generally way too expensive for me to use often!

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Did eyeliner come from the Egyptians? Egyptian men and women used to outline their eyes with a powder called kohl - which is the same substance used in some eyeliner pencils today. Most ancient cultures used some form of cosmetic pigment around the eye area though, so it's difficult to say where the concept first came from.

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Why do i have acne ? i dont drink pop. i drink lke 4 water bottles a day. i play sports all teh time. Y do i have acne? I am willing to put money on the fact that you have acne because you are a teenager and it's caused by your hormones going haywire. Acne can be made worse by things like bad diet and bad skin care regimes (and if you're sweating a lot after sport that may well not be helping.), but what causes it is hormones. Past a certain point even the most exemplary diet won't get rid of it...

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My face is scarred from acne. What can i do to have clean and clear skin in just 4 weeks, by only using natural things i can easily find at home? Will my scars go away or will i have a mark for life? iam only 14. You can't remove scars using household products so forget that notion. Scars are damaged skin, they will fade with time (in your case they'll probably be virtually unnoticable within a few years) and there are things you can do that will help, but you can't remove them completely without specialist cosmetic procedures (such as a skin peel or microdermabrasian - neither of which...

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I need a cheap, effective way to workout at home (limited space) for those days when I just can't make it to the gym. I used to have a stationary bike... It recently broke. Can anyone recommend a good substitute? I'd recommend trying Pilates. It's a really good system for toning up all over, and most of the exercises can be done with limited space (you just need enough space to lie down full length and stretch your arms out either side). You'll need exercise mat, but if you don't have one they aren't expensive, plus a flattish cushion or pillow, and for a few exercises a stretch...

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Since i am a nude model it is hard for me to stay in a serious relationship Can yall help??please!!!! I can't understand why that would be a problem. I know many nude models, some of them adult models, and none of them have problemd staying in a serious relationship. In fact several of them are married - perhaps you're projecting a little - do you actually *want* a serious relationship? are you perhaps blaming the problems in your relationships on modelling when really othe rfactors...

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Do you think being a model is hard work? I wouldn't say it was hard work, but it's not easy either. The thing about modelling is that even if you work on a semi-pro or amateur basis it does become a lifestyle as much as a job. You have to be scrupulous about your diet and exercise regime, you have to put a lot of work into things like skin and hair care (you can't put of a hair cut or leg wax, you can't just wash...

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Teaching 2nd Grade, you tell a student, "Don't work ahead." He replies "Don't gifted kids do that?" You sigh impatiently & say "Just keep to where we are for now." His response: "If society did that, we wouldn't invent new things." How would you reply? I have to say that's rather impressive logic and I'd give him the credit for it. But I'd also explain that it's important to be very sure of the basics before you move ahead. We had to invent the wheel and make sure it worked properly before we invented the motor car, because otherwise the car wouldn't have worked properly.

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What country are you currently living in? Wales. Nobody on AB seems to know where that is!

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What is worse for you - McDonalds or standard Chinese takeaway? It depends on the Chinese takeaway and what you order. chinese takeaways are renowned for using a lot of additives (particularly MSG - you can usually spot the ones that use it a mile off becaus ethe sweet and sour sauce will be virtually fluorescent orange), and they do tend to use a lot of salt and oil. But there are takeaways that have a no MSG policy (my local takeaway is one of them in...

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Did you ever study Shakespeare in school? What did you think of it? I thought it was ancient irrelevant ramblings.. If you found it irrelevant the chances are you weren't taught very well. The main reason Shakespeare is still studied and still popular today is precisely because the stories, and the portrayal of human relationships are relevant whenever and wherever you happen to live. The first year I studied Shakespeare we were taught Romeo and Juliet, reading round the class, by a teacher who made it...

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Have you ever got half way through answering a question then just couldn't be bothered to finish it? Funnily enough I just started answering this question, then decided I couldn't be bothered and deleted it, then decided that was ironic enough to actually go to the effort of telling you about it.

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How many of you on AnswerBag have a current passport? I have. And I have no idea how anyone manages to get by not having one - I get asked for it all the time!

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Do you think a great gift for a woman is to treat her to an all day spa to get pampered after a hard week of working? If she likes that kind of thing it's a great idea. A good indication is if she seems to enjoy things like having a long hot bath at home, going to the hairdressers, and spends some of her spare cash on beauty products and the like - in that case she'd probably love it. If she's more of a quick shower and shove-your-hair-in-a-ponytail type it probably won't interest her.

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If a person flat out asked other ABers that they needed help with their homework, would you be more inclined to help them? Of course I would. I would suggest some possible angles they could explore in an essay, I would suggest some places they might like to look for information, or even give them some quotes, facts or ideas. I don't think asking for that kind of help on the internet is illegitimate at all - after all, if you've got any sense you're going to have to look to other sources to check the...

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Would you be interested in seeing a broadway musical entitled "Incest!"? If I were to use the word "interested2 in it's strictest form (as in "I'd be really quite curious to know what it was about.") then yes, I suppose I would.

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Which is worse, a woman breastfeeding in public or a woman who flashes her boobs to all the drunks in the bar? Why would either be particularly bad?

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Should my nineteen year old daughter and her live in girlfriend help pay the bills? Of course they should. Any adult who lives under your roof should be required to pay their way.

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Women: Do you care if guys look at your chest? Why or why not? Answer honestly. I don't mind if they look (actually it's kind of flattering) but I'd prefer if they didn't stare.

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What do you think it says about beauty standards that Marilyn Monroe would be considered fat by today's idea of beauty? Not at all. It's a common misconception that the 1950's as some golden age for acceptance of larger ladies, and today we only celebrate waif-like figures. The thing is you have to consider several things: Marilyn Monroe's size changed considerably over the years. She was often under pressure to lose weight from agents and film producers (I think it was the set of...

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Is it wrong of me to role play as an underage girl? (I do not condone this in real life in any way,shape or form) Not remotely. The whole point of role play is to act out fantasies you would never dream of being a part of in real life. (There would be little point in role playing something you would do for real, after all.)

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Ladies if you dont mind me asking what size your boobs? trying to work out an average... 32C I am only answering because this may be the only time in my life when I feel like I'm bigger than everyone else :-)

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Anyone know any good shops for Burlesque clothing? Ive googled it but havent found anywhere good. What Katy Did!! http://www.whatkatiedid.com/ The best, absolute BEST corset makers in the business. They do a wide selection of retro underwear. It's extortionately expensive but their corsets are well worth having. If you visit www.ministryofburlesque.com you'll find lots of links to various burlesque costume and accesory retailers approved by genuine burlesque performers. (At...

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Is it just me or do you notice too how some big Hollywood celebrities are walking around with fake tans (and appear to be using those "sunless tanning" products)? Don't you think it looks silly? Why can't they just be themselves? Why would using a sunless tanner make you "not yourself"?

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PMS is not an excuse. Do you agree or disagree? It may be a reason but it's not an excuse. If your PMS is so bad that it makes you act uncontrollably like a complete cow, then you need to see a doctor about it.

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If you had tickets to see a concert this weekend, who (any band in history) do you wish it was for? The Stooges.

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How can I assure that I will have a healthy relationship with my present BF? By not worrying too much about whether or not it's healthy. Over-analysing relationships is a really bad idea.

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Do you think A.B. is to Politicaly Correct? actually I think it's far too full of people going out of their way to prove how non-PC they are. Non-PC is the new black - it's one of the things that's starting to bore me about it.

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Have you ever done something illigal? Yes, but nothing I could go to jail for.

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Is it possible to fall in love with someone you have never met before and who is 13 years younger? He makes me feel like no else ever has. He is everything I didnt even know I ever wanted in a guy. I'm not sure about full on love - but I think the seeds of a good relationship could definetly be planted. It's tricky because for some people the internet gives them somewhere to hide and pretend to be someone else entirely, or be selective about what they tell you, but for others, the slight distance gives them a greater confidence to be themselves. I think this increased...

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What are some commonly-accepted values in your society that you don't believe in? I don't believe that being a stay-at-home-martyr - oops, sorry - MUM - is the "most important/ difficult job in the world". Although I generally keep quiet about it, I think it's quite legitimate to be revolted by fat people. I think education has a value in itself, beyond being a means to getting a job, and that making school curriculums "vocational" would...

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What did you wear yesterday? A long black and white dress which I am wearing again today, purple fishnet stockings, black and white underwear, a silvery coloured shawl and black boots. I was having a Stevie Nicks moment.

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Why do atheist try so hard to prove that a God they claim not to believe in does not exist? Why fight against something thats not there? So He must in fact be there,to be fought against! Most atheists I know don't give God a second thought unless someone who's a theist starts challenging them.

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Trans fat was recently banned in NYC restaurants. Do you think this is something the government should be allowed to decide for the people? Don't we as Americans have the right to make ourselves as fat and unhealthy as we want to be? Well it depends how you look at it. they're not allowed to put arsenic in burgers either, do you "as Americans" (obviously non-Americans have different rights ;¬))have the right to go out and buy a suicide burger if you want? I think the problem is that a lot of people are unaware of the dangers of transfats and what they can actually do. Research is still being carried...

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Obviously it's not a good thing to reject or be ashamed of one's heritage and culture, but is there really any reason to take especial pride in it? I think pride is the wrong word. It's a natural and positive thing to feel an attachment to ones own heritage and background. After all, it's part of what makes us who we are, and we have a relationship with our native land and our own culture which is in many ways similar to the relationship we have with family members. There was a philosopher called Fichte, who believed it was...

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Will you give a tip (or piece of advice) on any subject at all? A good diet will do you more good than thousands of pounds worth of beauty products.

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Do you go to work when you are sick? No. I'm not a martyr.

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According to a recent survey, 39% of Americans think that all American Muslims should carry some form of identification that shows them being Muslims. What do you think? Is this fair? Aside from the fair/unfair issue - it's just a stupid idea. What exactly is it supposed to achieve? the majority of Muslims are hardly shy about admitting to their faith anyway - and if they were planning on any terrorist activities surely it wouldn't be all that difficult for them to just - er- not carry the ID?

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How many estimated times have you ever been asked for nude photos of yourself since you been surfing the Internet? please state if your male or female in your answer. Er - fairly regularly - but it's been part of my secondary income for the past four years.

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Does a girl need to be tamed or does she just need to find someone as wild as she is to run with? Your opinion please. If a girl needs taming she should be quite capable of taming herself.

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What's on your left? A recipe for banana fruit teabread.

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Curious, some guys have preferences for blondes or brunettes, but are there any men crazy about red heads? Um - type "red-head" + porn into google. You'll find your answer.

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Do women still love the romance?? the sweet talk and being treated like a princess?? or is that just old fashioned? Contrary to popular belief there is no one way of behaving that "women" like. We're all individuals with our own tastes and preferences - some of us love that stuff, some of us hate it. Personally I'm not sold. I like it when guys are nice to me, I like it when they listen to me and treat me as a person, rather than someone they need to impress in order to keep them...

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So I'm Pro-Bush, what you going to do now? Er - move on to the next question?

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Do you want to list your top ten (Can't be any less) favorite movies so that - based on these - I can reveal your personality out of 16 different types? (This question takes the place of my similar question about movies that I had to abandon). OK, if you asked me this tomorrow I'd probably come up with an entirely different list, but this is fairly representative I think: 1. Cabaret 2. The Wicker Man 3. Wings of Desire 4. Dead of Night 5. Sleepy Hollow 6. Dracula (Hammer version Christopher Lee :¬)) 7. Edward Scissorhands 8. Pans Labyrinth 9. Amelie 10. Ginger Snaps

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Would you read a book twice even though you already know what happens? I do sometimes - not as often as I probably should because I always get something really good out of it. Sometimes there are little parts of the plot I'd forgotten about that I really enjoy rediscovering - sometimes there are jokes or references or ideas that I didn't "get" for whatever reason the first time round - sometimes I just find it seems like a different book second...

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Serious is fine, but is anyone else in the mood for some humor today? Can you post a funny story, joke, or video to lighten up the place? I think we could all use a good laugh now and then. Well, a picture.

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HRH Prince Harry gets alot of bad press, but for the last 10 weeks hes been fighting the Taleban in Afghanistan. ( http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/7269743.stm ) I think the UK has a young price to be proud of, agree or disagree? Hmm ... I think for once we may have media to be proud of for managing not to leak the information...

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What do you think of Suicide Girls? Contrary to their alt/independent image Suicide Girls is a career jeopardising contract nightmare - they're well known for financially and professionally f**king over a lot of models and photographers. Basically once a girl has a set on Suicide Girls their pretty much banned from taking on work anywhere else - including freelancing. There's plenty of much better alt/goth/punk-type...

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Soda or Pop? Ant or Aunt? SwimSuit or BathingSuit? 1. Depends whether it's soda or pop. They are two completely different drinks. 2. Aunt. 3. Cozzie.

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My sister is crazy over horses; I've known a few women the same way. Is this a female thing? I've never seen a guy so worked up about horses. In general I believe women like horses for largely the same reasons men like motorbikes - although there's something about explaining why that just seems slightly on the borderline of wrong...

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My whole house has just shook and frightened me to death,everything was shaking including me im in the UK and so i would'nt have thought it was an earthquake ....can anything else cause this? I'm a bit jealous actually - I live in Cardiff and didn't feel a thing.

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What do you order at Starbucks? I try to avoid going there if at all possible. I want to relax over my coffee not get more stressed!

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If I am wearing a short black skirt and red boots, would I wear black or nude hosiery? Either would be OK.

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If you love someone but that someone is with someone else would it be better to let them be happy or try to get that person back? Let them be. If they want to be with you, they'll come back of their own accord eventually. If they don't - well, why would you want to be with them anyway? You'd only be miserable.

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I'm a fit girl and I play hockey, I've got the legs for it but I dislike my arms. I can only lift about 60 pounds no matter how many weights I do. I don't want to get bulky though, I like being thin. Is it normal that I just don't have strong arms? Like others have said - push ups are a good way to build up arm muscles. If you find them dificult (I do!) try doing them with your feet apart instead of together and turn your hands so your fingertips face each other. you don't have to go all the way to the floor, just enough to feel it working. You can also try doing curls using tins of baked beans as weights. You don't have to...

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Even though junkfood is bad, do you eat it most of your diet? Not at all. Most junk food I don't like the taste of and avoid like the plague - I got really cross on a train yesterday because I was hungry and the only food available was crisps, sweets and white bread sandwiches - I mean how hard is it to provide a couple of salads, or some wholewheat bread? As it was I ended up skipping lunch because I couldn't bear to eat any of that stuff! ...

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Have you always been a loser in love? More of an interested spectator than a loser or a winner, I think...

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Im ginger and fat ! i want to lose weight but i cant get motivated to try and lose it. i give up every time! i've been going to the gym three times a week aswell for the last 4 weeks but i havent even lost a pound ! what can i do? First of all, if you want to lose a lot of weight it's always best to consult a doctor first, they will be able to tell you whether there might be a hormonal or other problem contibuting to your weight, as well as give you some advice about eating and exercise habits. In some surgeries they will refer you to a professional dietician who'll help plan out an eating plan for you. (What...

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What's the best way to deal with someone who claims they are a genius even though the evidence suggests otherwise? 1)Suggest a night at a pub quiz/ a game of trivial pursuit/ some other non-threatening knowledge/ intelligence testing game. 2) Play in a non-commited sort fo way as if you don't really care or expect to win. When you get answers right look astonished and act like it was a complete fluke. 3) Enjoy watching the ever-increasing frustration on their face.

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Do you think a list of "favourite poets" will contain more dead people than a list of "favourite novelists"? I suppose it depends whose list it is! I know a while ago the BBC did a poll on people's favourite poemS (not poets) and it was pleasantly surprising to me (and the person who wrote the forward for the anthology - Griff Rhys Jones I think?) how many 20th century poems were included - one might have reasonably expected a collection of Blake, Shakespeare, Wordsworth and the like. But then...

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Besides a bookmark, what is something you use to keep your place in a book? For a while I used a squashed tampon box - which seemed to disconcert people on the train.

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What imaginary place would you most like to travel to? Transexual, Transylvania. I always wondered what Frank N Furter's home planet was like.

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Keats said "A thing of beauty is a joy forever", do you believe this to be true, what is the beauty and the joy in your life? I kind of think that most things that are beautiful are beautiful because they don't last forever. Sunsets, life, dragonflies, love... Someohow it's easier to appreciate something more intensely, and more passionately if you know that you can't hold onto it. And in retrospect, things that have been snatched away "too soon" tend to attract our admiration and fuel our...

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What is the best book you have ever read in an English class you have taken? Why? Frankenstein by Mary Shelley was introduced to me at university, and I still think it's one of the best novels I've ever read. For GCSE we also studied Alan Bennett's Talking Heads, which I really enjoyed.

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Who was the last sex symbol or teen idol poster that you had hanging in your bedroom? when I last visited my Mum I noticed that there is still a tattered poster of Katie-Jane Garside from Daisy Chainsaw on my old bedroom wall.

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Why is diamond called a womans best friend? Maybe it's because they'll pay the rental on your humble flat or help you at the laundromat?

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Is there one thing about your appearance (dress, hairdo, etc.) that you must fully address before you go out in public? How important is it to your self-esteem? Can you live without it for just one or two days? I don't know if this counts, but I find it very difficult to do anything at all in the morning if I haven't brushed my teeth first.

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All you kids don't know shit about real music---what a shame and waste of the human race... I didn't realise the whole purpose of the human race was to appreciate a certain type of music.

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How would you react if someone told you they were falling in love with you? That would entirely depend on who it was.

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Would you rather go to a non-chain coffee shop or a place like starbucks or caribou? I can't bear Starbucks. I can't relax in there as I always feel someone is eyeing up my seat and willing me to hurry up.

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Should I take art for GCSE? If you enjoy it and think you can get a half-decent grade then sure. To be honest - the GCSE subjects you choose have very little relevance to anything in later life. The only time I have ever been asked about them was when I applied to do my A-levels. Most jobs don't care what subjects you took so much as the percentage of A-C grades you got. So yes - if you fancy it, go ahead, it...

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Where are good places to find guys? The population is roughly 50% male - so unsurprisingly, guys are everywhere. As you go about your daily business you'll encounter hundreds of guys - many of whom will be taken, or gay, or uninterested, or incompatible with you - but a sizable proportion who you could quite easily date.The trick is to not be afraid to be friendly and talkative and curious whatever the situation....

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How do you talk to a guy without blushing so hard your face may resemble a tomato? Pretend he's a girl. (just a very masculine looking girl). Don't think of it as "talking to a guy" which will make you really scared, just imagine you're chatting to one of your girlfriends. If you do end up blushing don't worry too much - 9 times out of ten he won't even notice, he'll be too worried about you noticing *him* blushing! (Guys are a bit...

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Girls: do you feel comfortable changing clothes in open dressing rooms? I prefer the space of my own dressing room given the choice, but I'm not uncomfortable with communal changing.

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Should teenagers seeking abortion need parental consent? I think they should be encouraged to discuss it with their parents, but it shouldn't be a forced thing. A lot of teenagers in that situation aren't going to have parents who are going to be supportive of them and insisting on their consent could actually make the problems that contributed to unwanted pregnancy even worse.

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I get really bad acne on body around boobs and back. I dont have bad acne on face though. I have tried many things to get rid of acne but nothing seems to help. I dont want to wear any tank tops or bathing suit See a doctor. If you have bad acne anywhere on your body that isn't responding to over the counter treatments then you need professional help. It may well be a hormonal problem which your doctor can help with - he can prescribe stronger topical creams and also antibiotics or certain varieties of the contraceptive pill which will help balance out your hormones.

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Do you see a difference between guys and girls or do you view people who see a difference as sexist? Personally, I see a difference. Please don't hate me. I don't view people who see a difference as sexist - clearly there are differences, even if only physical/ biological ones. Sexist to me is when someone sees the sex more than they see the person and uses it to make assumptions without getting to know the individual concerned. You might think that women tend to be better at communicating on an emotional level than men - and maybe...

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Where did you go on your first airplane ride? From Heathrow to Lisbon in Portugal.

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Britons....How are non-white American visitors received in Britain? Erm - The same as white ones generally. We do have black people here too you know!

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What did you think of the film House of wax? Are we talking about the original here? In which case it's brilliant - I love all Vincent Price films. If we're talking about the other thing I've never felt any inclination to watch it.

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Would you have sex on a first date? I have done, and I might do again - but in all honesty I prefer not to. Not that I have any moral objections - what other people choose to do with their own genitalia is none of my business - I just enjoy it more if there's a little bit of a build up so by the time you get to the point of doing it you really can't keep your hands off each other.

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Have you met the love of your life? If I have then I haven't realised it yet.

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Are men and women really that different? I've always found that there is far more difference between one woman and another woman, or one man and another man, than there is between men and women as groups.

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I live in a small town and every potential partner i meet is already taken. where are good places to meet single women aged18-22 Places I was when I was (intermittently) single between the ages of 18 and 22 include: - pubs/ clubs/ bars (obviously) - rock concerts (this is a good one for meeting people if you're into music of some kind or another) - theatre and cinema (again if you hang around after the show, can also be good as you have instant conversation material) - dance classes - language learning classes...

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If you're a fit person, would you ever date an obese person? It's very unlikely. Don't get me wrong, I'm not a complete body fascist- a bit of extra weight, a bit of a belly, love handles - I don't have an issue with, but I find very overweight people quite repulsive. I also have quite strong feelings about the behaviour that leads to obesity and I don't think it's any worse to refuse to date an obese person than it is to...

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Marilyn Manson's cover versions: Decent, valid interpretations, or atrocious blasphemies against all that is good and right about rock music? I think he does too many of them. "Sweet Dreams" is a great track and at the time Marilyn Manson was a whole new concept and it actually sounded a bit scary and original. Now it's gotten boring - it's a bit like how all Eminem raps about is how pissed off everyone is that he's back. "Hey ho Marilyn Manson doing another cover of an eighties song in a cracked and...

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I would love to become an actress, but the problem is I don't know how I should start I'd start by getting involved in acting on an amateur level. Take drama at school, audition for the school or church play, and join a drama club or class in your local area. Proper drama courses, whether at college or stage school aren't generally interested in people with no previous experience of acting so you need to build that up. Also work on your general knowledge of the...

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Just pretend that it's your sixteen birthday,and you parents give you a choice to make,they will buy you a brand new car,but you must stay a virgin until you're eighteen,or they won't buy you a car,and you're allow to have safe sex?What do you choose? I'd take the car and lie.

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Is there another way to make money other than having to get a partner, so you can just live alone. Erm ... getting a job? Not sure what you mean here - plenty of people live alone and survive just fine. It's true that with two incomes you can often afford a bigger place to live and have a little extra spare cash - but you also have an extra person to feed and clothe. If you manage your budget well, choose somewhere realistic to live, and work to hold down a reasonably waged job...

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Guys what do you look for in a girl? Girls what do you look for in a guy? what do they have to have? There are lots of things I find attractive but if I was going to actually have a proper real relationship with someone the things I don't compromise on are: - I have to be able to have a long conversation with them. I can't spend more than a couple of weeks dating a guy I can't talk to easily. I don't mean intimate, emotional stuff - I mean just politics, TV, music - the...

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Do you ever feel like you're going to die without ever knowing true love? I think "true love" is something each person defines for themselves. If you think you'll never find it, you probably never will.

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I am looking for one particular individual to answer my question. Without them knowing it, what would I need to ask to draw that person in? I would wait until I knew they were definetly on the site and actively engaged (i.e. their avatar appears at least twice on the front page within ten minutes or so)and ask the question then - when they were most likely to see it.

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What's the first thing that comes to mind when you hear the word Hollywood? Expensive and painful bikini wax.

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If YOU came with Instructions what would they say? "Patience will be rewarded."

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Which is the easiest language in the world ????? my opinion is french. Your's opinion? I found Spanish much easier than French - but maybe that was because I was forced to learn French and Spanish was a choice. I also had a better teacher for Spanish. I also found picking up basic Welsh very easy - in the sense that I never really tried to learn any of it - just picked it up from being around Welsh speakers. I think it just depends on the circumstances under which you learn.

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How many of you guys out there find old dolls creepy? I quite like them.

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Settle a bet (it's a large one). Both my friend and I picked three songs. Which do you think out of these is the best song: Fade to Black by Metallica, Man on the Moon by REM, One by U2, Jeremy by Pearl Jam, God by Tori Amos, Thriller by Michael Jackson. God - Tori amos. That's an easy one, I don't care at all for any of the others.

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Have you ever had your s/o tie you up and have their way with you? I insist on it.

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It's seems everyone these days think they are "In Love" until they break up and then they weren't actually in love they just thought they were. Do you think you can be in love with multiple people or is love just used to loosely these days? Maybe love is a bit like art. People think modern love isn't "real" love, or that omething that happens quickly and with little apparant effort isn't love. Or that love should fit a recognisable form - something that they're used to, that complies with their preconceptions about what love is. But love is defined by the person who creates or experiences it. Just because...

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Do you trust mcdonalds? I trust them to make consistently appalling "food".

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Have you had your heart broken? What happened? My ego has taken some battering but my heart is fine.

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The Shawshank Redemption is regarded as one of the best films of all time in most surveys. Why is the DVD of the film always so cheap? Because everybody already owns it maybe?

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Why do some women wear the most uncomfortable high-heels for vanity? It's all about the pay-off. High heels, in most people's views, look better than flat shoes. they have a more pleasing shape, they make calves look more toned, feet smaller and are generally more flattering and pretty to look at. Some people will choose one way of looking at it: it's worth looking a little less attractive if I can be comfortable. And others choose the...

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For any tall women out there: do you ever feel uncomfortable wearing high heals? I do... I used to. I still don't wear anything over a three inch very often, but I'm quite comfortable in a small heel. I think a lot of it is a confidence thing - height gets you noticed - and if you feel good in yourself, you enjoy being noticed. If you don't, you don't.

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What do you think the top five basic pieces of clothing a woman should have in her closet (beyond underwear, socks, etc.)? What about men? Purely my personal ideas but I think all women should have: -Low heeled (1-3 inches) knee high boots - look good smart, casual and can be used for work and parties. Reasonably warm and comfortable but still look sexy. -At least one fitted shirt. Women of the world would look a lot better if only they'd stop wearing baggy stuff designed for men, and wear things that followed the lines of...

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How do you get rid of cellulite? You can't. Or at least, not without invasive surgical treatments. Cellulite is something most women past the age of about fourteen have to some degree or another (seriously even catwalk models have it - I've seen!) and a normal part of the way the body deposits fat- it definitely doesn't mean you're overweight or unhealthy. We need to carry fat on our bodies - unfortunately...

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Does reading 200+ books in a year make me nerdy? Is that 200+ books in a day? In a lifetime? And what kind of books? If you've read 200 books on trainspotting in the past year then yes, that is quite nerdy. If you've read 200 books on various subjects in your lifetime I doubt that's particularly unusual. Unless your eight years old or something - in which case, phone Mensa.

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What are the last three songs you listened to? Which of these is most out of character for you to listen to? Whatever the final song on PJ Harvey's "White Chalk" album is called, The Smith's "William it Was Really Nothing" and the theme tune to "In The Night Garden" As I don't make a habit of watching children's programmes unless my niece is around, I guess the last one is most out of character.

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How do you feel about garbanzo beans? Are they the things I call chickpeas? I'm sort of addicted to them.

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How often do you change your sheets? Does this "someone" by any chance not have a lot else to do with their time? If mine get changed once a week I'm doing pretty well. Life's too short and if you smell alright you're probably fine.

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What do you think of this image? Do you think it portrays most celebrities accurately? More skinny bashing.... Bored already....

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Is it true that men can cut women out of their mind with greater facility than women? Even if they have already loved them? I've never found that to be the case. If anything I would say it's very slightly the other way around.

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On a scale of 1-10 how happy are you with your body? 9. It's as good as I need it to be for most of the purposes I use it for.

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Do you fantasize more about people you know, or celebrities? I'm not sure I've ever fantasised properly about a celebrity. Yes there's some of them I find very attractive, and would probably do it with given a chance - but I sort of find it difficult to fantasise about someone I've never interacted with - it's too difficult to picture how they'd be in bed. Sometimes I fantasise about people I know, particularly if i have a...

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Is AB that stressful as to actually have people take a break from it or could it be a combination of things? I don't think AB is particularly stressful in itself. But some people have formed relationships or attachments with other users they met here - and like any other relationship, I guess they can get stressful sometimes.

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Am I the only one who hates being called/labelled/addressed as a 'person'....the last time I looked I was a man ... from an entity to a non-entity..how do you feel ...degraded as I do or ...... But you *are* a person - I assume. How is that degrading?

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I just got a fabulous fedora with a pheasant feather for Christmas, and it's given me an idea... Would anyone like to join me in celebrating the newly concieved Winter holiday of Fedorafest in honour of the glory that is a good hat? Having recently purchased a pink fedora I don't think I could possibly let this one go. Count me in - Fedoras rule! (especially ones with feathers in)

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Can everyone be truly equal? Well they tried that with Communism and it didn't really work out all that well to say the least! I suppose it depends what you mean by equal. I don't think it's possible (or desirable) for everyone to have absolute equal power, or money, or happiness. If that was a guarantee we'd have nothing to work or strive for - and that's what keeps the human race moving...

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Does being a poet automatically make you "interesting"? Often precisely the opposite in fact. (Present company excepted of course!) Having hung out with rather more poets than is probably healthy I've found they often have a lot in common with "travellers" - they think it makes them more interesting, when really it just gives them more material to bore people with. Not that there aren't interesting poets and travellers...

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Men are cheaters by nature. Agree or disagree? I don't believe it's in a man's "nature" to cheat any more than it is a woman's. I believe women are just as capable and likely to cheat in a relationship as men. To a certain extent I don't think humans are naturally monogamous creatures - we're pre-programmed to give ourselves the best chance of re-producing and in male and female cases that chance...

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Have you ever had to work on Christmas day? If so how did you find it? Yep. when I was working in hotels working Christmas day was pretty standard. I just accepted it - double pay was too good to turn down!

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My husband went to a strip club and got a couch dance.Is that cheating? That's something you have to agree on between the two of you. Relationships have different boundaries depending on the beliefs and ideals of the people in them. If it's something you're unhappy about him doing you have to make that clear to him, and perhaps now would be the ideal time. Just tell him it upset you and you'd rather he didn't do it again - it's quite...

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What are some useful tips for increasing physical activity, especially after the holiday season? Working exercise into your normal routine is generally more effective than forcing yourself to go down to the gym when it's cold and dark outside. Some tips that work for me: - Find a simple home exercise routine of about 15-20 minutes that doesn't require any fancy equipment (leaf through magazines or use the internet) - do that every morning before breakfast. It won't take up...

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Everything else being equal, are women more attracted to men with deeper voices? It works for me. I can't speak for anyone else obviously - but if an attractive guy has a deep voice it generally makes me find him even sexier.

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Ladies: Would you date a guy who went to strip clubs? Have done - I've even gone in with them on occasion. I don't have a problem with a guy enjoying that kind of thing occasionally as long as it doesn't become an addiction, or taken to the extent that he prefers it to me. As far as I'm concerned strip clubs are just one of those laddish things that some men do occasionally, same as some women enjoy male strippers - I...

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Who presented TV's Room 101 before Paul Merton? Nick Hancock

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Why does it seem that people who don't believe in god are defensive about their position and agressive toward believers? I only get defensive if believers start becoming aggresive or accusing towards me, and I think most believers are the same. (I do get angry when people of any religion think they have a right to invade my privacy by knocking on my door or approaching me in the street - but I also get angry at people who do this in order to try and sell me things, it's nothing specific about religion.) ...

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What type of non-fiction books do you prefer to read? History mainly - I have a few periods of history I'm quite fascinated by.

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Who wrote the book The Legend of Sleepy Hollow? Washington Irving http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Washington_Irving

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On the weekend do you like to lie in or or get up early? I like to set my alarm early so I can enjoy switching it off and going back to sleep.

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What do you think went wrong in your last failed relationship/marriage? Different priorities.

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What are some of the things that bother you the most when you read the Q & A threads posted on AB? Answers that don't even attempt to answer the question really bug me.

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Be honest, do any of you actually know a NON-FAMOUS blonde that is well~as dumb as blonde jokes say we are? I do know a particularly dumb blonde, although I don't believe it's much to do with her hair colour, as I also know a (very attractive) blonde with a first class Maths degree from Cambridge.

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Generally speaking, do girls prefer guys with long or short hair? Yes! Erm - sorry - I mean, I could probably fancy a guy with any length of hair - I do have a particular thing for men with no hair at all though.

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Blondes or brunettes? Who's gusy?

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I've found out that my girlfriend cheated on me a couple of months ago. Should i tell her that i know and call her out? Or should i try to hold it in a keep the relationship all peachy. I don't want to lose her. Any advice No-one else can tell you whether or not this relationship is worth saving. Especially people who don't know the two of you - only you know that. I do think you need to speak to her about it though. At the moment you only have bits and pieces you've put together in your head, not a full picture. If you ignore this and stay with her you'll be forever obsessing about the missing...

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Is It better to have a threesome with a Stranger or someone you know? Having sex with strangers might at times sound appealing - but it is a pretty risky business. Psychologically I think if you're going to have a threesome, a relative stranger is prefereable - as there's much less scope for jealousy. the likelihood of one partner forming an emotional attachment with the third party is reduced, everybody knows exactly what they're there for, the...

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So i got drunk the other night, and come to find out, i did some pretty embarassing things... what is the most embarassing thing that you know youve done while drunk? It's a tough call between: A) Went back to school after lunch and B) got engaged.

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How many people like playboy? Playboy is a fucking institution! One of the few men's magazines that still knows how to do sex tastefully.

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Why do people minus and flag questions in AB-Adult section? Isn't that the point? The point of the adult section is that it contains content suitable for over eighteens only - it's not a complete free-for-all -- if a question is nonsensical or silly then I think it's fair play to downrate. If someone is posting spam or nonsense or duplicates they shouldn't get away with it any mor ein the adult section than anywhere else. Also, I think there are limits even...

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What has feminism accomplished in society, the positives and the negatives? Feminism (where it has become established, a good portion of the world still hasn't been affected by it) has achieved, to some degree, the following: -Women are seen as having an existence which is independent of the men they relate to. They are responsible for their own actions, can make their own choices and own their own "goods" (which covers everything from their bodies,...

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What do you think of when you think of Germany? Kabberet

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Why do you like/dislike Starbucks? I find them a bit soulless. I like coffee shops that have a bit of personality to them, rather than one I could go into anywhere in the world. I also realy hate that they're so fast moving - to me the whole point of coffee is that you can linger over it whilst reading the paper - not be rushed through like you're on a conveyor belt. Nothing specifically against Starbucks, I feel the...

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Who do you find most attractive of the same sex? The brown eyed girl who works in one of my local coffee shops.

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Where do you find dates? My local greengrocer's

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I have tons of accessories including large earrings and necklaces and its getting so crowded on my mirror stand that i can't find my accessory each time i go out .. is there any idea of how to store them? I store my jewellery on a mug tree (you know, one of those wooden things people hang the mugs on in the kitchen) - you can hang a couple of necklaces or bracelets off each "branch" without them tangling up and it's much easier to see what you have. For earrings I'd suggest investing in a proper earring box (divided up into sections with holes that you push the earring...

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My friend thinks you owe your kids a place to stay & clothes on their back. I think you owe them the best of everything, designer jeans etc because they never asked to be born. Who do you agree with? Not being a parent I wouldn't consider myself an expert. But I think what you owe your kids is to prepare them for the adult world - and that's best done by teaching them that you can't always have everything you want.

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What would you get Jesus for Christmas? Twenty cigarettes, a diet coke and a sack of charcoal

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How approachable are you? More so than people seem to think.

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If you were about to be Arrested Which AB'er would you want with you? Depends. What are we being arrested for?

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Other than Tori Amos, who sung the lyrics 'Standing on the corner in Winslow, Arizona' and does anyone know why Tori used them? and/or what it means? Well if I remember correctly Tori sings "standing on a corner in Winslow Arizona and I'm quite sure I'm in the wrong song"- The Boys for Pele album has a lot of references about failed relationships with men and craving female company - I think the reference is to do with the Eagles "Take It Easy" being a bit of a boy anthem. Just a theory - it's not a song...

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What was the bad dude called in superted? Texas Pete. He had a friend who was a skeleton.

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Does anyone know how to get into Burlesque because Im really interested but Im stuck in a tiny little town in Lincolnshire and I have no idea how to get into it . I'd suggest starting by taking a class - there's loads of them about now - I know they run them in York, which isn't too far away from you. You'll learn some of the basic moves, get an idea for the "spirit" of burlesque, and help increase your confidence - if you enjoy the first class, try signing up for a few more. As well as learning the techniques you'll...

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Are there any women that would actually be interested in licking their own private parts if they could reach them the way a dog and a cat can? Please be honest. Well, I'd give it a go out of curiosity. I'd still rather somebody else did it for me though.

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If Justin Timberlake brought sexy back, who's bringing ugly back? Ugly went away??

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Which is the best heavy metal band name? Witchburn, Riverbend, The Demise, Prism Bitch, or Coffin Birth? I like Coffin Birth because if you weren't paying attention you could mistake it for "Colin Firth" so their website might get lots of hits from middle aged women looking for Mr Darcy.

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Ladies-what's the absolutely/positively biggist turn-on a grown man could do for/to/around/etc, you? Spend ages telling me what he's going to do to me before doing it - I like getting text messages throughout the day that tell me what he's going to do to me when I get home. That's very sexy. There are other things obviously - but that's one of them.

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Would you pose nude? How much would you want to do so? I do pose nude. I sometimes do initial shoots with a photographer ust in exchange for the photographs - so anything from just prints up to around £40 an hour - it depends.

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Is it okay to wear red sparkly shoes with a long black dress? I think that would look stunning. Bright shoes with all black clothes almost always looks great. If you can get a red sparkly handbag to match - even better!

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Have you noticed women these days wear 2-3 bras and sometimes even stuff them? The only occasion I've heard of a woman wearing more than one bra is in the case of very busty girls wearing two sports bras to go jogging in order to keep everything in place. There's no other advantage in doing so. It would look weird through your clothes if you did, it definetly wouldn't make your breasts look better. And no-one over the age of about thirteen stuffs their...

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Do you think it would be possible to have a vintage hairstyle that requires very little work? It depends what era you're looking at. a 1920's style crop doesn't need much more than a slick of wax or gel. A bob is fairly easy if you have naturally straight hair. 40's and 50's styles need a bit more work, but the advances in heated styling appliances mean they're a lot less work than they once were. If you invest in some heated rollers it should only take...

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If I came over to your house on a "lazy day", what are you most likely to be lounging around in? Either nothing or my red kimono.

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Is it ok to wear strappy sandals in the winter time? As long as you're warm enough I don't see why not - they can still look pretty good with and evening dress for a night out. If you're going to wear them with stockings/tights make sure you get ones that don't have seams in the toes though, or you'll look odd.

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Have you ever had 'rape fantasies'? (Either victim or aggressor) Did you keep it to yourself or share them with your partner? How did s/he react? I think most women have rape fantasies to some degree and I'm definetly no exception - though I'm concious some of mine are a bit more extreme than some people's. I've spoken about the tamer end of the spectrum with previous partners with varying results - some thought it was hot, some thought I was a bit odd. I've only really spoken about the more "hardcore"...

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Are u photogenic (sp)? Yep. In fact I generally look better in photographs than in real life.

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What song whose title is just the name of a woman is your favorite? Gloria (Patti Smith version, but I quite like Van Morrison's original too)

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One word that your sexual fantasy involves? Warehouse. (Go figure that one out...)

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Except for religious references such as the Bible, what was the last book that you read that was written before the 19th century? I read Don Quixote over the summer. That was a bit of a marathon, but kind of worth it - very funny book, quite modern in its humour in a lot of ways, which surprised me - it was much easier to read than I'd been led to believe. I've been dipping into a book of Gothic short stories recently too, some of which were written towards the end of the Eighteenth Century.

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Would you ever date a criminal? I twould depend what the crime was.

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Could instances of "automatic writing" be the subconscious mind writing answers to our questions? I hope not. If my automatic writing is answering my questions then life is weirder than I thought.

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Anyone interested in joining the Educated Fool's Club? You need a graduate degree or if you don't have one, grade 3 at a minimum. If you don't have that well, you need a member with at least grade 3 to sponsor you, ok? I'm not just in I should be bloody Club president...

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What should a woman wear to a restaurant whose dress code is jacket required? "Jacket required" suggests quite formal - I wouldn't really consider anything other than a dress. It needn't be fancy - it's not a debutantes ball - a classic little black number with strappy shoes and some nice jewellry would be fine. Avoid casual fabrics like denim or cord, and preferably wear heeled shoes and stockings/ tights, and it's probably best not to wear...

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So tell me, what does the UK think about good ole George Bush? Mainly I think we just like him for the comedy value.

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Why don't women like wearing pantyhose? I find having all that mesh around the tops of my legs incredibly uncomfortable unless it's really cold - stockings, hold ups or just plain bare legs make much more sense. By the way, I found this question weird - I didn't realise there were a significant amount of women that didn't like them. I'm always trying to sell the virtues of stockings to my friends and sisters,...

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In one of my class i need to make a poem, and im not good with poems. can some one help me? the subject is about winter A few ideas. - Use memories. Think of a specific winter in your past, try to mentally transport yourself back there and remember how it felt, smelt, looked, sounded. It helps if you pick an event that happened that winter - maybe it was something major - like getting hit by a car that skidded on ice, maybe it was just a snowball fight with your brother when you were six. Write about that...

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My man loves when I dress in a tight t-shirt, very short demin shorts, suntan pantyhose (sheer to waist) with my 5 inch high heels. Would you like your lady dressed like this for you? Or would you(female) want to dress like this for someone special? No. It's just not my style. I have no objection to dressing sexily - but I like to do it in my own way.

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What is your view on political correctness? Do you think it is making everyone too afriad to say whats on their minds for risk of offending someone? I think if anything it's encouraged people to become more offensive in the hope of becoming some kind of anti-PC hero.

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To paraphrase 'Men falling in love is as much of a myth as Big Foot. It's all 'lower instincts' and has nothing to do with the heart.' This came from a grown man with children. Thoughts? I think that's appealingly honest of him. The heart is an organ that pumps blood around your body - it has nothing to do with love and never has. As a woman, I've never been convinced that "love" is anything more than lust multiplied and added to friendship - for either sex. Love is a useful biological instinct that drives us to set up home and raise children. It's...

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What does the following statement mean in your life? "He who is without sin, cast the first stone." Even as a non-Christian I consider it the most valuable lesson in the Bible. I think it's basically asking us to think twice before we assume we have the right to judge others - we've all done things we're not proud of, and most of the time we had our reasons. That's something we need to consider before we start mouthing off about other people.

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Is anyone bothered at the fact that around Christmas time hundreds and hundreds of dollars are spent on Christmas lights and decorations while there are homeless people dying out on the streets and people committing suicide, yet, these people are ignored? I don't believe the two are mutually exclusive. There's nothing morally wrong in making things look pretty and enjoying the slightly tacky superficial side of the season, it doesn't stop you from being able to help out those in need or care about more important things. It's a common misconception tha caring about superficial things excludes you from caring about more...

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And what makes you think you're worthy to crew the Black Pearl? I'm stronger than I look. And I can tie knots. And I bring my own rum. And I'd raise hell if it left without me with the rest of this fine crew on board...

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What is the most important thing a man can do for a woman? Somewhere between "Talk" and "Listen". All sorts of men turn me on in a superficial way and that's just fine most of the time, but the ones I really fall for are those I can talk to for hours.

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What the fuck? Precisely. I was going to ask a similar question....

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What's your favourite movie of 2007? I don't think it's been a good year for films particularly - I haven't seen anything outstanding - I suppose there were so many great films in 2006 that this year ran out of steam a bit - there were a lot of mediocre films and a lot of very unoriginal ones. Out of those I've seen the ones I enjoyed most were: The Illusionist (I love most things Edward Norton is involved...

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If you believe you're getting a bad "rap" about something, do you try to set the record straight or let people believe what they want to believe? I'Let them think what they like - if they're not interested in the truth why should I be interested in their opinions?

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Do you think men, as a rule, say negative things about another man without just cause? In my experience they do. It tends to be more work related (accusations of laziness, freeloading, cheating etc) and be a way of building up their own contribution ("I'm always having to carry the other guys."etc) whereas with women it's usually sex-related. To be honest, I've never understood why men are supposedly "less bitchy" than women - maybe it's...

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Do men and women REALLY have equal rights in today's world? America hasn't had a women president yet, etc. What do you think? Well , that's kind of a bad example: The US may not have had a female president, they may never have a female president - but all "equal rights" means is that a woman has the right to STAND for president - it doesn't mean people have to vote for her. "Equal rights" by nature does not equate to equal outcomes - there will probably always be more carers of young...

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Hey everyone, have you noticed that AUNTIE EM IS BACK?! Welcome! ;-) YES OF COURSE!!! You would not believe how excite dI was to see her. Welcome back Auntie Em. I still wish you were my aunty :¬)

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How do you feel about toast? Be honest. I often find it disappointing. and it sets my smoke alarms off.

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Are bubble baths safe during pregnancy? I heard an old wives' tale that says they are not... It depends what's in them. There are certain essential oils (eucalyptus, basil are the two I know of) that are sometimes connected with premature delivery if used in the third trimester - but for the most part the amounts used in commercial bubble bath are negligible anyway. If you're worried there are suppliers who stock cosmetics and toiletries especially for pregnant women.

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Do you consider yourself middle class or which class would you put yourself in? My Dad is a history teacher, I buy organic pasta, know the difference between rocket and lollo rosso, and own at least 3 DVD's with subtitles. I say that makes me fairly middle class.

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When I have sex the headboard bangs against the wall very loudly. The people I live with don't like that - any tips on how to stop it? I have tried pushing the bed closer to wall and I have tried tightening the joints. Could you try removing the headboard altogether?

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What's wrong with respectably approaching a woman I've never met and telling her I'm attracted to her and then asking if she is single? Women look very shocked and "freaked out" when I do this even though it seems very honest to m There's a time and a place and a way of approaching someone (male or female).This is just a bit full on and potentially intimidating - it might work in a nightclub, where women half-expect to be picked up - but in the street or a cafe you may look like a desperate oddball. this may be unfair, but it's a truth - and there's no point fighting it. If a guy walks up to you and says...

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Ladies: How often do you go braless? If not often, why not? I have a bit of a passion for lingerie, so I wear bras most of the time if I'm out of the house, just because I like them. theoretically I probably don't need to wear one unless I'm jogging or something - I just like the look of them as an item of clothing I guess.

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I told my girl to wash her vagina cause it smells. i told her i wouldnt have sex with her until she did. does anyone else have this problem? advice? You do realise it's supposed to smell? Not excessively obviously, but the scent is part of the deal. A better way to handle it (for future reference) would be to say "I'm going for a shower, care to join me?" And do the washing for her. If you tell her she stinks (even if it's true) she's fairly likely to go off the idea of having sex with you altogether.

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Does anyone have a recipe for homemade Tomatoe Soup? Yep. mine's really simple. Fry some diced onion in a little olive oil - then add one tin of chopped tomatoes (I sometimes also add a few handfuls of red lentils at this point for a more filling soup.) Cook for a minute or two, then add around 1 pint of hot stock (add the stock cube at the end and just use water if using lentils or they'll go hard). Bring to the boil and simmer for...

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I'm writing an essay and my thesis is "how/why were Dr.Frankenstien (Shelley) and Darwin (origin of species) considered dangerous?" I picked these because they had to do with creation, except it still doesn't seem quite right. Are the books comparable? the most immediate thing I can think of that links the two is that they were part of an increasing challenge to a society that accepted the Bible and the traditional Christianity as a given and as being at the centre of life - with God all powerful and all knowing at the centre. Both books raise questions about this (as did many other during that time - it was when science and logic began to...

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Ladies, what's your most popular word for vagina, other that the word itself? I'm not one for euphemisms. Seriously - cunt does just fine.

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If you had the body and the shape would you pose for playboy? I'd love to actually!

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Everyone please tell me that who is PHYSICALLY more attractive ..a Man or a Woman? it is important i need your point of view When I conjure up abstract concepts of "man" and "woman" in my head - the woman is definetly more attractive. That whole wiggly soft shape is mirrored in so many other things we find beautiful (flowers, fruit, vases...) But thinking about it in a more real-world way, there are some very beautiful men out there - and I don't mean just sexy, I mean actually beautiful to...

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Ladies: How much older or how much younger would you date a guy and later possibly marry? I've vowed to myself never to date anyone older than my own father, which gives me 27 years in an upwards direction, although if it was going to be a serious long term relationship a large age difference possibly may bother me more - I'm not sure. I very rarely find people under thirty remotely physically attractive, so I can't really imagine dating anyone younger than me at all.

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Female's watching porn...is that common? 65 answers and not a clear negative among them. I believe you have your answer...

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What is your take on torture? As in to say do you feel in some circumstances it is appropriate or should it never be used? I don't think it should ever be used. Apart from anything else a confession or information gained under torture cannot possibly be treated as reliable - when in pain people will say anything they think will make the pain stop, true or not.

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What do you think of the colloquial use of the word "gay"? In terms of meaning something bad. I think people over-react to it a bit. In my experience it's generally said with a large dose of irony.

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Darwin's theory we evolved from monkeys is flawed, why? Darwin never said that we evolved from monkeys.

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Any Remedies for getting rid of very flaky dry skin on the face. very very fast? as in one day? You probably won't get rid of it completely but you can lessen it. Get hold of an exfoliator that says its for dry or sensitive skin and use that to scrub of the loose skin. Then rinse well and follow up with aqueous cream (I don't know whether it has the same name in the US - it's a perfume-free paraffin based moisturisng cream that's really good for dry skin) to...

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How many words can you think of that are different for American English and British English? I'm always tickled by the difference between the American and British usage of the word "fanny".

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Ladies, what is worse? Being unnoticed in a room full of men or being hit on constantly? Being unnoticed. If I get hit on too much I can always leave.

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Have I ever given you reason not to trust me? Not yet ;¬)

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How do i get gentle waves in my hair? not quite curles but wavy i have a curling iron and a straightening iron but no hair dryer Well option one (if you have the time) wash your hair before bedtime, towel dry and then put it into about four loose-ish braids and spritz with a bit of hairspray - when you undo them in the morning you'll have gentle waves. Option two, use the straghtening irons on dry hair to create waves - hold the irons almost vertical , grip the end of a large-ish section of hair, twist the hair...

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Have you ever liked a cover version of a song better than the original? which? Kirsty McColl's version of "A New England" is much better than Billy Bragg's.

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What is your favorite love song? Joni Mitchell "A Case of You." - mainly because she really sounds like she means it, you don't get that often. There's this note in her voice when she sings "You are in my blood like holy wine" that's absolutely gorgeous.

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So, if you dont want your emails read by your significant other-are you keeping secrets from the person you love? Not at all. Just because you're in a couple doesn't mean you're obliged to share every aspect of each others lives. In fact I think trying to live as a single entity is far less healthy than retaining some privacy and a sense of seperateness. Besides - if someone's going to cheat on you they're going to cheat on you - having access to their email account isn't...

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Does aromatherapy work for people who have lost their sense of smell, or who never had it in the first place? Aromatherapy is actually a bit of a misnomer. Although the scents of the essential oils used is part of the supposed therapeutic affect, some of the benefits are also attributed to the application of oils to the skin - and the effect of the chemicals in the oils on the skin. In fact this part of the practice is probably considered more important by most aromatherapists. I will try to remember...

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How come no one ever makes a snow woman and why are all snowmen white? Because if you made a snowwoman, in order to differentiate between genders you might have to give the snowmen either clothes (messy and awkward) or genitalia (enough said). There's also a clumsy looking double-w in the middle of the word which upsets my sense of balance. I think it's safe to say snow"men" are fairly androgynous. It may be an interesting idea to create a...

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What comments men shouldnt say about women? (that could make them go angry) Anything that implies that they (a man) know what's best for them. I can handle being insulted, but being patronised really winds me up.

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"Don't ask don't tell" military policy. Keep it or get rid of it? Also, gays in the military, yes or no? I will post my perspective. I believe there is a serious point somewhere in there...

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What do you buy too much of? books and lingerie

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Have you ever felt the fear of peanut butter sticking to roof of your mouth? I do :( You didn't happen to be atching QI night on Dave last night did you?

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The dress is a floaty under-the-knee affair. The coat is cream, same length. What shoes should I wear? It's for a wedding. I was thinking delicate silver heels. What colour is the dress? I'm thinking creamy coloured sling backs, with peep-hole toes.

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Are you happy for me? I finished and turned in my research proposal for my Master's Thesis. It's not graded yet, but it's done. Well done Lizzie! (I totally empathise by the way - my Masters dissertation was finished and sent off to be bound on Thursday!) Good luck with it now anyway, fingers crossed for you.

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How would you describe your political position? I don't really have one. It honestly depends on the issue being discussed.

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Do you ever look in the mirror and see someone different than you have pictured in your minds eye? Yes!! I was thinking this only this morning in fact - no matter how used I am to seeing myself in the mirror it still happens. Maybe it's because we change all the time as we get older, and we look surprisingly different in different lights or clothes. I often think I look smaller in my reflection than I feel in "myself" too - which is weird.

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What lessons can we learn from supervillains? When you capture the hero, don't think you'll kill him slowly and enjoy watching him suffer - it just gives him time to think up an escape plan - kill him instantly. Also, if laying a trap which involves a bomb, set it to go off when the timer reaches 00:08 - not when it reaches 00:00 - the hero will always disarm it sometime during the last eight seconds.

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Last night I was at a bar alone waiting for my husband & a cute guy came up to me & said he was in a treasure hunt & on his list he needed used panties or pantyhose. He asked for my pantyhose & gave me $20. Would you do the same if asked or be upset? Well provided I was actually wearing any, and he could give me the money in pounds sterling, sure. I'm fairly sure most of my past boyfriends would be more horrified by me turning down easy cash than they would by me giving my knickers away.

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If you think there is a "gay agenda", what is it? I have to write agenda for meetings as part of my job at work. I'm considering one day printing them out on pink paper and calling it a "gay agenda".

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Women, is all your screaming/moaning/etc. for real or for show? Do you fake it much? It's not fake - but sometimes it is for show. I think I could sometimes stay quiet quite easily whilst having good sex (In fact at times I've had to due to doing it somewhere I probably shouldn't have been!)but I like to let my partner know when they're doing something right (otherwise they might stop!) - so making appreciative noises is the best way to do that. It's a...

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Do you buy sandwiches or make them? Why would anyone buy a sandwich? It's hardly a complicated recipe.

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What is your favorite opening line from a book? "I write this sitting in the kitchen sink." - Dodie Smith from "I Capture the Castle"

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Where did you lose your virginity? In August 1999. In the bedroom of a house in Uttoxeter. Not very exciting I'm afraid.

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What do you think of Americans? I find most of them a little old-fashioned. Apart from that I don't really have a generalized opinion.

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Does tofu taste good? What's your favorite tofu recipe? I love tofu. Most people who don't like tofu have just never had it prepared properly - on it's own, unmarinated it's bland and gross. The secret is to squeeze most of the moisture out of it by slicing it and putting it under a sheet of greaseproof paper and something heavy for an hour or two. then you chop it into small pieces and put it in a sealed plastic bag or box with...

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If a business has a coupon in circulation with the incorrect price, does the business have to honor that price? Legally they don't have to. The point where you enter into a contract (i.e. agreeing a price and buying a product) isn't when you pick up an item or coupon and read the label, or when you take it to the till. When the shop assistant proposes a price to you at the till (the correct price for the item) and you agree to pay it - that is the contract. They are under no obligation to...

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I took the last pill of my oral contraception in the morning, and then at night my boyfriend ejaculated inside me, is there any chance that i am not protected because i've had the last pill, and i'm on my 7-day break now? Provided you take the first pill from your next pack at the right time there's no reason why your protection would be any lower than normal.

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You know when someone is becoming "clingy" when... they insist you take your mobile phone into the toilet with you so they won't worry if they phone and you don't answer. (Yes I have been out with this guy...)

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Would you marry someone you've never had sex with? Not in a million years. I don't know if I want to get married, but I do know I don't want to marry the wrong person. If I'm going to take the leap of faith of getting married to someone I need to know them really, really, really well - and that includes physically.

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Did you see room 1408 and what did you think about it? Yeh - I wasn't greatly impressed. The build-up was brilliant. I was sat on the sofa getting really frightened about what was going to happen in the room - the suspense build-up was brilliant. and then once we got in there it just all fell flat. Personally I think they made the mistake of showing too much and not leaving enough of the frights to the imagination - the images just...

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Which singers sang the song "Last Christmas" besides Crazy Frog? Thank you. wham.

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What can't you put chocolate sauce on? the moon.

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Do you have any "weird" crushes, according to other people? I like Adam Sandler! Most of my crushes are considered weird by other people. A good friend of mine once bought me a t-shirt emblazoned with the slogan "I Love Ugly Men." Of course - I think she's just got incredibly bad taste.

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Does anyone have any tips for applying eyeshadow? I would like my eyeshadow to look more professional. Use a proper eyeshadow brush rather than one of those fiddly little applicators that come with the pots of eyeshadow. This will make a lot of difference - it's worth spending a little money to get a decent one - The Body Shop do a nice set of make up brushes that will do nicely. There are no rules per se for professional looking eyeshaw, but the easiest thing is to buy a trio pot with...

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If you could give yourself points would you? I often forget to give other people points unless they moan about it, so I can't imagine I could be arsed to give myself them.

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Does the word booger or talking about boogers offend you? Yes! It should be "bogey"! Booger is a rubbish snot word!

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Is cheating on your s/o the result of insecurity or un-met needs? I think sometimes it's just a desperate bid for freedom - particularly when someone in a long term relationship cheats, it's a way of proving to themselves that they still have an identity beyond what they are the their partner. I think it can also be to do with getting an ego boost, or trying to find fulfilment in a way you can't get (or even don't want)from your partner -...

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If you could choose your looks, what would you look like? Details, please. More or less like I do now, but with no body hair and naturally perfect eyebrows so I wouldn't have to bother with shaving and plucking any more.

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What is the most illogically sequenced dream you have ever had? I had a dream that books were salad. It's quite difficult to explain using waking world logic.

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I just read that if you want to attract a man there are 4 simple things to do: Exercise,don't smoke, eat healthy and hearty, and laugh. Do you agree with this? I really don't think men give a crap about what you eat or how much you exercise.

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Have you ever had to live paycheck to paycheck? I've never not lived like that.

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Are you going to go see The Golden Compass? I will probably wait for the DVD. Would love to see what they've done with a great book, but sitting in a cinema full of kids doesn't appeal!

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Ladies: what are the relative advantages/disadvantages of dildos vs. vibrators. I have to confess (and maybe I'm being naive here) I've never really seen the point of dildos. A reasonably sized vibrator does everything a dildo does in terms of actually giving you pleasure - AND it vibrates. The only real purpose I can see for dildos is for use in porn films, or if you happen to be with a guy who has a fetish for sticking large objects into female orifices (in...

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Why are so many women reluctant to engage in anal sex? Probably several reasons. Not least because the popular wisdom is that it's really painful - true or not - if people are told something is really painfl they're going to be fairly reluctant to give it a go. I suspect a lot of women come across their first experience of anal sex by accident rather than design - and only later discover that it isn't as painful as they'd been...

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What are some good "kitchen sink realism" films? Maybe I'm taking the question too literally but: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kitchen_Stories Watch it. Great film.

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If you had unlimited time and resorces list 10 things you would like to do 1) Travel (I have a list of countries in mind so I'll lump them all in one) 2)Do more writing therapy with community groups. 3)Buy my sister a car 4)Live somewhere more rural 5)Sponsor places at university and college for older people who've never been able to afford to go. 6)Go on a serious fecking ebay spree! 7) eat in a good restaurant at least once a week 8) Grow as much of...

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If you to had to name your first name after a kind of tree and your last name after a kind of animal ,what would your name be? My name is already a bit like that!

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What is your favorite place to shop for clothes? I absolutely adore vintage and retro clothes fairs. Often I'll go along and not necessarily buy anything just because searching through everything is so exciting - you never know whether you'll find a hat from the 1890's, a sixties mini skirt, a beatiful traditional cocktail dress. If you do buy something there's a good chance it's absolutely unique, which I love - and...

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Have you ever given a lap dance? Yes. But only in the privacy of my own home ;¬).

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What is your biggest hang-up when it comes to your own body? My skin annoys me. I have to be really careful what I put on it because I have allergic dermatitis and react to some chemicals really badly. I also hate my tongue because it's ridiculously prone to mouth ulcers.

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Do you have a picture of yourself on your avatar, profile, or no photo at all? I'm afraid that is not me in my avatar. I would put a photo on my profile but I don't know how to do it and I'm too stupid to understand instructions. There are a few photographs of me floating around though - there's a link to one of the better ones on my profile.

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Where did you go on your first date ever in your life? A smelly old biker pub!

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Should a guy pay for their date's meal on their first date? I believe the popular convention is that whoever did the asking out should pay. Essentially if you've asked someone "Do you want to come for dinner with me?" it would be a bit rude to expect them to pay for you. I do however think it's polite to at least offer to pay your share of the bill (and make sure you have the money to do so!), even if your date won't let...

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In your opinion, do women seem more likely to backstab another female, than a man would do to a fellow male? I heard this recently and am curious on your thoughts. I don't think so. Women tend to be more bitchy in every day conversation - but a lot of the time it's fairly harmless gossipy stuff and doesn't go any further - even as decent and nice women, we bitch about our mutual friend's bad dress sense or awful singing voice or over-flirtatious habits - but we still basically like her and wouldn't do anything to actually HURT...

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What do you say, or do to someone you are newly dating who says "Ive been hurt before , and you've got to prove your love to me before I can believe it"? I've heard almost those exact words from so many people. I suppose my best response now is (sympathetically): "Everyone's been hurt." Honestly, you can't prove your love to someone who is programmed to be suspicious. You can only be trustworthy and understanding and wait for them to be ready to trust again. You can understand other people's wounds but you...

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Some people say women suck at everything except seduction, what do you say? Yeh, giving birth - we're crap at that.

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First 3 things that pop into your mind when you see a hot girl/guy? 1) "oh hellloooo." 2) Check hand for wedding ring 3) try to come up with good pretext for approach.

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How can I make my boyfriend come? I've tried giving him a handjob, but he can't seem to orgasm when he's with me. He says he can do it on his own, and he's very embarrassed that he can't when I try to give him a handjob. What am I doing wrong? Probably nothing specific. If he's young he may be nervous or embarrassed, in which case maybe you need to work on relaxing the atmosphere a bit. A few years ago I went out with a guy who wasn't very experienced and had trouble with nerves in the bedroom - we didn't get anywhere for a long time, even though he clearly really wanted to. What worked in the end, bizarrely, was...

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What is the difference between Five stars hotels and four stars hotel? Mainly facilities. Contrary to some people's belief, the star ratings system is based on the facilities available (and not necessarily how good said facilities are!) Here are some rough guidelines: http://www.fweb.org.uk/dean/visitor/accom/symbols.html As you can see, no matter how good a hotel, if 24 hour room service is not available, it can't be any higher than a three star....

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Strictly speaking, what exactly is a "Mental Illness"? What differentiates it from the differences in personality and behaviour that come with basic human individuality? This isn't going to be an expert answer, but I have some thoughts and experiences on the whole thing (a bit) and when I was in therapy (A long, long time ago now) I was lucky at one point to have a psychologist who respected my intelligence enough to talk about it with me. We all have emotions, some more intense than others, and some are very painful, or inconvenient or cause us to do...

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Do girls LOVE when guys write them poems, or do they think them 'delicate'? No-one ever wrote me a poem - but I'm sure if they did I'd be delighted. It's lovely to think that you inspire someone to be creative, and that they went to all that effort for you. After all - anyone can buy flowers, but poems take time. Although if poetry isn't your talent, painting a picture, composing a song or even making dinner are all equally thoughtful.

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Is there one particular user on AB (Other than yourself) whose profile you find yourself looking through more often than others? Very much so.

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What's the one occupation you'd never do regardless if they paid you alot? Anything that involves babies.

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Women: Are you offended by the term "Chick Flick"? Men: Have you enjoyed any movie labeled as one? It's kind of a useful label - considering that if a movie is described as a "chick flick" I automatically know I don't want to watch it. I wouldn't say it's offensive - but in a way it's annoying because it sort of assumes that all women like to watch crappy films with predictable endings! On a connected issue, when I was doing my creative course, one of...

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Do you see any advantages of living a solitary or independent life? It works for me, it suits my personality and the lifestyle I prefer. I like my space, I like my freedom, a lot of the things I enjoy doing are solitary activities. I'm not a hermit - I do like dating, and I like spending time sometimes with friends and family, but after spending mor ethan a few days in constant company I start to crave peace and quiet. I like that I can do what I like,...

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Does losing your virginity make you more confident in approaching the opposite sex? (male & female) I think it did a little. I guess I thought "well at least I know something about what that's all about then." and felt a bit less nervy around people I thought might potntially want to have sex with me. Of course over the next few years I gradually discovered that you don't learn everything there is to know about sex in one night and the process got reversed again!

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Do some rock bands try to hang on too long? Having seen Bon Jovi on TV last night I'm thinking that's a "yes". It was quite sad to watch really. I also think the Rolling Stones (who incidently are one of my favourite all-time bands) need to give it a rest now, amongst others. Some are still doing good though - David Bowie is still producing some pretty good music, and I have to say even at 60 (or however old he is...

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Why do alot of men want to live with a woman and play house but never want to actually get married? I'm not a man, but I have lived with guys without marrying them, or being interested in marrying them so maybe I can help. To me living with someone is the next step up from serious dating. I find it difficult to understand how anyone could decide they wanted to marry someone without having spent time living with them first - you get to know what life with them is like on an everyday...

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Do you have kissable lips? I hope so.

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Do you prefer an older, younger, or same-aged partner? How much of an age difference is best and why? I tend to be more physically attracted to men who are in their late thirties or forties (I'm in my late twenties), but in terms of actually forming a long term partnership age isn't something that I'm all that concerned about either way - I don't think it's a major factor in someone's personality or how well we "click". In fact, on AB only the other day I...

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Do you tell your lover when you're cumming? I can't say I find it particularly necessary to announce it.

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I live alone but still put up a tree and decorations this time of year. Do you? I do yes - I don't go over the top, but I like to have something a bit festive.

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Do you own more than 10 pairs of shoes? Guilty as charged.

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Can I have your opinion of the Dr. Who theme song? Like all theme songs it's more fun if you sing the title of the programme along with the tune. (although you kinda need two of you for the Dr Who one - try it...)

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Are you satisfied with your measurements? ;) I am now - the other day I discovered I have 0.71 waist-to-hip ratio - according to wikapedia I am only 0.01 away from being officially hot...

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If you had a choice between a very romantic man or a man that was just drop dead gorgeous, I'm talking tall, dark, 6-pack, the whole 9 yrds., which would you choose? In all honesty, providing he was a decent enough person, I'd go for the gorgeous one (although I can do without the six-pack, they disturb me). Overly romantic men get on my nerves a bit.

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Name one good thing that's bad for you? Bread http://sneakykitchen.com/Humor/bread.htm

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Marilyn Manson, Sexy or Scary? I don't think he's either really. He seems like a very intelligent and astute person, and I've always enjoyed listening to his interviews much more than his music - I wouldn't say he was sexy, and he's definetly not scary.

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How honest are you on AB? Well everything I tell people is the truth as far as I'm aware of it. That doesn't mean I feel the urge to tell everybody on AB everything about my life.

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Are you afraid of commitment? Not afraid - just not specifically looking for it.

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Anybody know how to get very thick and heavy hair to HOLD a curl?? Or yet alone even curl~?~ i've tried Almost Every kind of hairspray none work! errgg any sugestions? You have hair very like mine from the looks of your pictures. I curl my hair properly (like '50's starlet style) every so often, and it takes a LOT of work. The only thing that will do it is heated rollers. You have to do it on hair that hasn't been washed or conditioned for a day or two, recently conditioned hair is too slippy, and don't apply any serum. You need to buy...

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Who has read Gormenghast? Me. But you probably guessed that...

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What's better? To watch a movie alone, with a lover or with a friend? Lover OR movie (unless it's a "special" movie) - the two do not mix. If I'm watching a film I want to watch the damn film (I hate watching films with other people they always breathe too loud and make me miss bits.), and if I'm with a lover I want to, well - "love" them.

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Ladies: Assuming everything is going fabulously with your new love interest, how soon are you willing to sleep with him? Depends... usually at least a few weeks (I just think sex is more fun when there's been a bit of a build-up and flirtation and tease first) but maybe sooner, maybe longer.

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Who do you have on your mind at the moment? John Cusack. I watched 1408 earlier.

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Do you ever exaggerate or lie to strengthen your argument? Not on purpose. I have occasionally neglected to check my facts though...

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A lady says she is no good at romance but prefers to date guys who do not commit, what is she really after? Likely she just doesn't want anything serious at the moment but enjoys dating. I feel the same way, as do many other people. There's plenty of people who aren't looking to get married and have babies and spend their whole lives with someone (or at least, not right now), but that doesn't mean they don't want to have any relationships at all. "Happily...

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Ladies: Diamond ring or absolutely not? Why? Canadian or synthetic diamonds only. I couldn't wear anything else with a clear conscience.

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If a girl sleeps with a guy on the first date does that guy loose interest in her automatically? There are no "automatic" rules regarding relationships - some guys will lose interest, some will stick around, some you'll never bloody get rid of. Do what comes naturally and feels right, if he has a problem with it, he wasn't right for you anyway.

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Some pointers on killing my own shyness? Act. You'd be surprised that if you talk to the people you know who you think are the most confident they will tell you that a lot of the time they fake it - and they're not lying. The secret is when you walk into a room or a party, you are playing a game, you are pretending to be a person who is confident and at ease - really try and get into that person's mind (if it...

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Would you rather be rich and ugly, or good looking and poor? I'm not sure it matters. If you're good looking you should be able to make money out of it if you handle it right and with a bit of luck. If you're rich then you can do a lot to make yourself look better (which is why 50 year old popstars and actors look a lot better than the 40 year olds down your local pub). So either way is fine.

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What keeps most of us from meeting the other person on AB and starting a relationship when conversations have gone so well? Lack of cash I think!

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Do you think there is such a thing as too much immigration in the UK? Space and resources in the UK (or any country) aren't endless - there does have to be some kind of control over how many people can live here or the quality of life drops for everyone. I don't have any problem with immigrants individually as long as they pay taxes and don't commit any crimes (which let's face it, is more than a lot of native Brits seem to manage) but there...

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Does hugh hefner actually "sleep" with all 3 of those women? even the really young one? I very much doubt it. I think he sleeps with one of them (the eldest) and the others are just a bit of a PR stunt.

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Should the land of good ole America be given back to the American Indian since greedy ,violent ,blood thirsty good hearted murderers decided to bring what almost was an extinction of a whole people for the sake of robbing there country. ooh somebody's spoiling for a fight tonight!

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Is it normal for my girlfriend to be looking at bondage/beastiality/ and rape websites? The bestiality thing sounds decidedly dodgy (although she might have stumbled on it by accident to be fair - internet porn is a bit like that), but bondage and rape (as a fantasy, not as a real actual attack) are fairly standard female fantasies.

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If you had to choose something... what would you say is the worst thing about the opposite sex? The way their public toilets smell. Really - that seriously is the worst thing I can think of.

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Is it possible to have at the SAME TIME a love for the whole universe (mystical oneness) and romantic love (an exclusive love for one person)? Well I believe the Greeks had four different words for different types of love: Eros = romantic love, for a partner. Agape = Divine love (for God, for the universe, for life itself..) Philos = the love you feel for a close platonic friend Storge = the love or affinity you feel with a place or country (I like this one actually.) It's possible to feel all four of these at any one...

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Should America go to the metric system? Not if there's widespread resistance to it. But I would highly reccomend it- it's a hell of a lot easier counting in tens than it is counting in twelves and sixteens.

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Would AB work better if there were no negative points. i.e. you could only give people positive points. The best questions/answers would still rise to the top and people couldn't abuse the negative ratings. There was a point to it once upon a time. When I first joined answerbag the whole point was that the better answers would be rated "helpful" and rise to the top of the list, and the worst answers would be rated "not helpful" and sink to the bottom. When there were relatively few contributors and a much stricter moderating system - this worked surprisingly well. At that time...

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In general, what is your biggest problem in relationships? I'm selfish.

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I have an interview tomorrow..... What should I wear? I wanna look good but not look like i've tried so hard and that I really need the job If you're a guy always wear a suit and tie. That's standard and would be expected for any interview. If you're female it's a bit more complicated - but I it's best to wear a smart (not denim, cordurouy or flimsy cotton) skirt or trousers and a well ironed blouse. If you want to wear a jacket that matches your bottom half (i.e a business suit) that would definetly be...

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Is whole wheat pasta much healthier than white pasta? Anything wholegrain is better for you than the refined white version. Wholegrain carbohydrates release energy much slower, so you will feel less sluggish after eating them and won't get a "sugar dip" half an hour after eating that will send you reaching for chocolate. Wholegrains are also higher in fibre, so better for your digestive health. And as the Shredded Wheat advert...

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Do you own a firearm and know how to use it? No. Apart from the fact it would be illegal where I live, being around guns (whoever they belong to) makes me really nervous. I definetly wouldn't want one in my house.

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What type of men do women respect? I can only answer for myself, but I don't think I'm all that unusual. I respect men who are open-minded, gracious and polite (unless they have very good reason not to be!), who see women as individuals rather than just "women", who are intelligent and think things through - even if they didn't have a great education, and who are able to look after themselves without...

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Do you usually leave a tip? Only if the service is good. If it's really good I'll tip really generously (like 30%) but if it's bog standard I don't tip. I used top wait tables myself, and it isn't difficult to at least be polite - I don't see the point in tips if the person doesn't have to work for it.

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Does that research that says men talk more than women seem bogus or what? I read a newspaper article a while back where they questioned research in a self-help book that said women talk "twice as much as men" (they actually discovered the "fact" was quoted from another self-help book that had just made a random estimate) and as an experiment they wired up two of their employees: one femal one male. The conclusion was that the woman (who was a...

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Have you ever been in a sex shop? Did you feel embarrassed? I visit places like Ann Summers and Myla all the time and don't find it remotely embarrassing - I think the high street sex chains have become so commonplace now that very few people are embarrassed going in. I've visited slightly more hardcore places occasionally, and did feel a little bit paranoid - I worried that the counter staff thought I didn't look like I knew what I was...

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My bf had never complimented my body. Hoping he would, I asked what he thought...said I needed to lose weight but that I was not "super fat." I have 10 extra pounds but still attractive. Any advice to him? I do not want a superficial bf. Not pleased. Well to be fair you did ask - and he gave you a truthful answer. That doesn't mean he is superficial. Superficial would be if he stopped going out with you because of your weight. Just because he answered a question honestly doesn't mean your looks are all he cares about - if that was the case he'd have mentioned it before now, trust me. Bear in mind his criticism wasn't of...

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How do you explain when good things happen to you? I mean I no longer believe in a god.... Well, even if you don't believe in a god, one would expect that good things would happen to you at least occasionally - the world is not all bad news. You could hit the jackpot on the lottery - which may be considered a "good thing" (lets leave out the complexities of this for a moment) - it's difficult to really connect this to any will of god, even if you do believe in...

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If you are single do you wish you were married? If you are married do you wish you were single? If you have a bf/gf do you wish you didn't? If you don't have a bf/gf do you wish you did? Has anyone ever asked five questions at a time before on here? There's very few things in this world that I don't prefer to do on my own (cinema, eating, walking, drinking...) without having someone else jabbering in my ear all the time and ruining it. I like my privacy and my me-time and I think having a partner would annoy me a bit. I do miss sex though - I mean you can go out and get sex for free in most nightclubs at 2am, but I'm not...

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What is your least favorite movie ever and why? American Pie - just seemed like one crap joke stretched across three films.

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Should a man who denies the holocaust be in debate at Oxford University? Absolutely. The great thing about allowing people like that to speak is that they end up being their own bad publicity - same with the BNP - you hear them speak and you realise that they're idiots who you would never want to be associated with. If you deny them a platform you turn them into heroes - they become champions of freedom of speech, instead of a bunch of laughable ****s

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I have hair on my arms that I would like to get rid of so my lotion can glide smooth and silky. The question is should I shave or wax.What r the pros and cons of using either method.HELP.....need to look sexy. Either would be fine. I shaved my arms through most of my teens and I never had the "worse regrowth" problem everyone talks about - in fact after the first time the hair seemed to grow back paler. Shaving is pretty quick and cheap, so it's probably the best solution to start with. If you're not happy then try a wax. Waxing is longer lasting, but painful and a lot of...

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Do you enjoy just drinking alone on occasions? I sort of prefer drinking alone. I like having a whiskey or a wine and taking time to contemplate a bit.

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How slim are you compared to me ? "I am slimmer than 37.94% of all the visitors". Get you percent on http://www.fatorslim.com Haha I am way slimmer than you! 51.84%

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Have you ever fallen in love with a character in a book? I had a weird crush on Steerpike from the Gormenghast books (weird considering he's so unpleasant). And even though I didn't especially enjoy The Lord of the Rings books, there was something about Aragorn I found very attractive. And Mr Rochester from Jane Eyre obviously.

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What happened to RFlagg? He's around. I've seen him a little more in the last few weeks actually. Which is really nice, I love his contributions (and his hair).

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What would make anal sex hurt so much now when it didn't before? It could be several things. Some theories, see if any of these make sense: - you have a mild case of thrush or some other infection. - you're doing it a lot. Even if you like anal sex it's best to limit it to once a week or so - it is possible to cause damage down there a lot easier than with vaginal sex. You may have torn something slightly and you need to give it a chance to heal....

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How many of you on AB are models? or have done modelling before? I'v earnt a semi-regular second income from glamour and art modelling. why?

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Do you know a song so well you can hear it in its entirity in your mind? here we go i'm hangin out in camden drinkin with my girlfriends on a saturday night this guy sez come and meet my girlfriend she's sitting in the corner looking rather uptight so i say hello and i try to be nice but i see he's feeling itch-ee tryin to play us off each other girls girls please don't fight (you get the picture) hey you with long hair and the muscles telling me...

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Does tequila make your clothes fall off? It makes my brain fall out.

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Do you feel as though being sexy can be a burden? Only if you don't carry it right.

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Why do you never hear that girls "run a mile" like guys sometimes do? Funnily enough, I'm told I'm quite given to doing precisely that.

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Has anyone succesfully quit smoking in AB? do you have any good advice? It helped me to take it in small steps. If you think "I am never going to smoke another cigarette again" that puts a lot of pressure on you and seems over-whelming. But I found if I told myself "I'm not going to smoke today" or "I'm not going to smoke this week" and reasoned out that even if I smoke again tomorrow, at least I've saved some money by...

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My friend is dating a guy and said she loves him, but on the weekends she goes to the bar and will pick up guys, lead them on a bit and wait until the end of the night to tell them she has a bf. Is that cheating? I wouldn't call it cheating, but it's definetly not a good thing for her to be doing. I imagine that she probably finds that being desired by other guys is a boost to her self-esteem, and that they will flirt more if she keeps quiet about her boyfriend. The thing is she probably justifies it to herself by thinking "well I haven't lied, the subject just didn't come...

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Do you know more atheists on AB then in real life? No. I know more non-atheists on AB than in real life. I can only think of two people I know in the real world who I would describe as religious.

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Does it take faith to be an atheist? Sort of. I think you have to have a lot of faith in humanity in order to not need a god.

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Are you suprised that you're still single? Not really. It hasn't been all that long and I don't like rushing into relationships.

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The online article read: "Buying underwear isn't as easy as it looks... from the right style, size and material." Be honest: do you take a long time choosing underwear? It takes forever. For a start I have the same problem as about 50% of the other women I know, most shops don't produce the right combination of back size and cup size to fit me- so first I have to find a shop that can manage to produce something that fits. Even then I find it's not that simple - bras and knickers both come in a huge range of shapes, and not all of them are supportive...

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What kind of undies do you have on? Frilly black and pink ones.

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Who was the last person you kissed? My ex.

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I am the Hungarian Jack Nicholson? You are the American what? I'm not the American anything.

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What is the tastiest (non-spicy) Indian dish you have eaten? Tarka Dhal. It's a lentil based dish with toasted garlic amongst other things - it's spicy as in flavoursome - but not hot.

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Do you think it's sexy to watch a man take off his hat and if so why? I suppose in the right situation with the right man I could do - but I can't say it's something I regularly fantasise about!

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What driving habit do you hate?Me- no signaling! Those people that drive about two inches behind you when you're already driving at the speed limit and try to intimidate you into speeding up.

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What job did Charlene, Kylie Minogue's character on Neighbours, have? OK, goodbye street-cred, I know this: She was a car mechanic.

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Who was Dracula based on? Bram Stokers idea for Dracula supposedly came from several places. the actual character and description of the Count is supposedly based on Henry Irving, an actor. The idea of the blood sucking vampire developed from folk tales mostly from Europe. Vlad the Impaler, who is usually taken to be the main inspiration was only encountered and encorporated into the mix a short time after Stoker had...

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What are the top reasons women dump guys? I can't speak for all women but my top reasons would be: - he's over-posessive - he shows a tendency towards violence - he wants me as a replacement for his mother and to do everything for him - he's annoying. Just really, really annoying

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Why are women not crazy about short guys? I don't mind short guys. I've been out with several guys who were shorter than me and it's ok. I'm not into guys who look like I could beat them in a fight, but short and stocky is fine. I do know a lot of women who feel uncomfortable about standing next to a guy who's smaller than them because it makes them feel bigger (and possibly fatter) and perhaps a little...

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Is it ok for a girl to ask her bf to marry her? Of course it is! It might sound a bit unromantic but I think ideally getting married should be an agreement you reach between the two of you after a lot of prior discussion - regardless of who doe sthe final popping of the question.

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Do you like Michael Moore & why? I find I like him progressively less as time goes on. I liked TV Nation (although the presence of Louis Theroux had more than a little to do with that.) Bowling For Columbine I quiteliked (the highlight was the interview with Marilyn Manson) "Stupid White Men" I quite enjoyed reading even if I didn't agree with all of it - it was pretty well written and it made me laugh....

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If someone ask you to walk in a street naked for 1 million dollars...would you do it? On the condition I can have it in pounds sterling.

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Who sang road rage Catatonia

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What kind of books did you read as a child? Were you encouraged to read certain kinds? Or not encouraged at all? I used to love Roald Dahl books - I was a typical kid in that I revelled in all things grotesque and his books really pander to that. I loved "The Twits" and the description of all those really horrid characters in "Matilda".

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What's the worst tasting beverage you've ever tasted? Lapsang Souchong tea. It's a bit like drinking overdone bacon.

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Do you ever get annoyed with yourself? I irritate myself constantly. I often think that if I was someone else I'd probably want to give me a good slap. In fact even my answer to this question annoys me!

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Why do people find Uggs "ugg-ly"? I personally love the way they look. Is it one of those things where, for every person who loves them, another hates them? Or am I just a disillusioned sap? I just think they look a bit frumpy - they're sort of a cross between big doc martens and granny slippers.

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I have had ENOUGH of this 'political correctness' garbage and I am sick of having to tippy toe around because of peoples thin skin and all this cr*p about everyone being the same ...anyone else had enough as well? I'm not convinced there was ever such a thing as "political correctness". The only time anyone ever mentions it is in the negative - to say that it's gone too far, to proudly proclaim how non-PC they are... I'm pretty sure the whole term and concept was invented by people who were opposed to it, seeing as it seems to mean different things depending on what you want to...

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If you had HIV, and you had wanted a child all your life before you found out you had HIV, would you still have children? If I was at the point where I could take medication that would slow the onset of the disease for a long time I would adopt a child.

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What are some male or female stereotypes that you fit? I'm rubbish at technical things and I don't understand the offside rule.

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What's the first thing that comes to mind when you hear the name "Courtney Love"? Funnily enough it was actually Courtney Love. Weird that.

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What is your favourite quote or quotes from William Shakespeare? Viola:Alas, I took great pains to study it, and 'tis poetical. Olivia: It is the more like to be feigned. from "Twelth Night"

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Would you approach a policeman if need be? Yes - any excuse...

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Do you think you can determine the gender of an ABer just by analyzing the way they ask, comment or answer? I think after a short while it becomes obvious from their use of pronouns (straight women for example, tend to pick the word "he" when talking about a problem with a partner even if the question doesn't specify) and the fact that at some point most people make direct or indirect reference to their gender. On another website I used to use with a much more androgynous user name...

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Does anyone listen to opera anymore? I listen to it on the radio occasionally.

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Would you prefer burial or cremation? As long as they check I'm dead first I don't care.

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What would YOUR response be to someone who says 'If Hilary Clinton is elected President - I'm moving to Canada"? This made me laugh because I remember prior to the 1997 election in the UK Anrew Lloyd Webber said that he would emigrate if Labour came to power. Some people believe that Labour won the election for this very reason. Mr Lloyd Webber, however, is as far as i know, still here.

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Close your eyes and type your full name. Can you do it perfectly? pady fishoa - well, better than I thought.

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What word pops into your head right now when you see this question? Enzymes.

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Have you ever taken all your clothes off someplace other then your home or a changing room? Yep.

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Anybody had a seious writer's block? They drive me crazy! I'm writing a detective-mystery novel. A this stuff gets hard at times! I've just been reading a book about writing by Anne Lammott called "Bird by Bird" - there was this one bit I liked in there which suggested writing letters. Instead of sitting down and writing your novel pretend you're writing to a friend and telling them about what happens in the novel you're writing, tell them about the characters, what you love about them and what...

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What does it feel like to have another person inside of you? Not been there personally but I'm told it depends on the woman: One of my friends absolutely loved being pregnant the whole time and found it an amazing spiritual experience and felt really healthy. My sister on the other hand hated every minute of it, and toward the end says she almost felt like something was feeding off her like in "Alien" and couldn't wait to get it out!...

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Do you think women's magazines are partly responsible for the low self esteem of many young women today? I think they're designed to make you feel: a) like you're imperfect and b) you have the potential to become perfect by buying product X, Y or Z It's more difficult to sell anti-aging and cellulite creams and fake tans to people who believe they're fine just the way they are, or to people who believe they can't do a thing to change it. to a certain extent this...

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What, exactly, does same-sex marriage have to do with marrying nonhuman animals? Someone please explain. Well I get told a lot that the Bible defines marriage as being between a "man and a woman" (as opposed to a man and anything else I assume)so from that starting point I guess the idea of a man marrying a man is as outside the definition as a man marrying a rabbit. However - we don't live in an exclusively Christian society, nor is it particularly common for people to feel the...

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What bra cup size is considered big boobs? Apparently the average breast size in Britain is now somewhere between a 36C and a 34E: http://www.bbc.co.uk/bbcthree/programmes/body_image/my_big_breasts.shtml Although considering how many women wear the wrong size bra and that most of us estimate we're smaller than we are, the real average is probably even bigger. You have to account that a lot of the women sporting E cups are...

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Should the definition of 'marriage' include the joining of multiple people (polygamy) or provide legal recognition to paraphilia cases, such as those who have sexual feelings toward objects, or animals? Marriage is a contract, so it would have to be between two people who were able to give consent to it - therefore objects and animals are definetly out of the picture. Polygamy I think you could possibly make an argument for, although there would be issues regarding who would be counted as next-of-kin and whether the first partner would have superior rights to any subsequent partners - which...

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Today, Nov. 23, is my best friend, idne's 40th birthday. Will you join me in wishing her the happiest of birthdays? Thank you! Happy birthday idne. November is an excellent month to be born in and I hope you have a wonderful and exciting and fabulous day.

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What does your desktop look like? Post a picture! It's part of my head.

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Is it against the human male's nature to be monogamous? In other words, is it against his true nature to only have one partner for life, one "mate" to which he has to be faithful? I don't think it's in either male or female nature to be monogamous for life - although I believe men naturally tend to want to move quicker, whereas women tend to be into one man for a block of several months before their attention shifts to a new one. (Men are promiscuous and women mate for life I think is a bit too simplistic - women do tend to get bored in relationships and start...

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What do you find the best method of contraception and what are the pros/cons? Technically the contraceptive implant has the best success rate (other than abstinence or sterilisation obviously) Personally I think the contraceptive pill is brilliant - there's so many different types that there's now one that will suit most people, and it has additional benefits as well as contraception (lighter and more regular periods, no PMT, better skin, the option of...

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Are you wearing any pants? That would depend on whether you define "pants" in the same way I do. I'm not clear on what the rules are in Australia.

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Do you agree with the writers' strike? I'm not sure I agree with any strike - not pay-related anyway.

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It would be devastating for you to never eat which of these foods again: ice cream, pasta, cheeseburger or french fries? Well I never eat cheeseburger or french fries anyway, and only very occasionally have ice-cream - so that's all fine. Pasta would be a bit of a pain in the arse, as I do tend to use it for quick meals when I'm feeling unimaginative - but I'd be fine as long as I could have rice and cous cous.

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What is the most sexy part of your body? I like to think it's my brain :¬)

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If you were going to have sex, like say just a one night stand so to say.. just as an example. If the guy you were going to have sex with has one testicle.. would that turn you off or would you not care? I can answer that with absolute authority as that did actually happen to me once (although it wasn't strictly a one night stand - we'd known each other for a while as friends) - on the night I didn't notice. Yeh I know that sounds weird and I should probably have been paying more attention, but honestly I didn't. I only realised when he asked me in the morning whether it...

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What do you think of the health service in your area? The appointment system at the doctors surgery needs to be a bit more organised, and sometimes the waiting lists for operations are a bit long - but generally it's OK. I really appreciate not having to pay for prescriptions now I live in Wales (I am of the "if it's not going to kill me in the next five minutes I'm not paying for the cure." persuasion.) I dunno - people...

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Without thinking to much, what is the first song that comes into your head? For some reason it was Billy Joel "She's Always a Woman To Me." it's not even a song I especially like...

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Do some euphemisms in obituaries strike you as odd."After a valiant fight with cancer,,,". "After a brave battle with MS."Does nobody just die a death that is without heroism?I don't mean to sound callous here. Why do we do this? to soften the blow? When my aunt was dying of cancer she apparently said to my Dad: "I feel bad when people call me brave just because I'm living through this. I've got no choice but to live through this. People are calling me brave and really I'm f**king terrified - I feel like a fraud." It is a strange term - I suppose to have to live with an illness you know will probably kill you is a...

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Irregularities of English. " On Wednesday I cut the grass." Does that mean; every Wed., last wed.,this coming wed.?? you simply cannot tell from English what it means on it's own. I find this lack of tense interesting. You? I've never thought about it before but yes it is odd. I suppose in speaking we get a lot of our information from the tone of voice. Although I think if you were going to cut the grass this coming Wednesday you'd be more likely to say "I'm going to cut the grass on wednesday." and if it was every wednesday "On WednedayS I cut the grass." - although...

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So... how's your love life these days? battery powered.

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Who cheat more, men or women? I don't know. It often seems like women have more oppurtunity - in the past when men have chatted me up a lot of them didn't seem particularly put off by me saying I had a boyfriend (mind you some of them weren't put off when I said I was a lesbian, but there you go...) I think when women cheat they tend to have extra sexual relationships alongside the first one, whereas men...

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I am engaged to a wonderful man, but met someone whom I cannot get out of my head. The relationship with the other person is impossible but it is driving me crazy. Should I stay with this man if I'm having such strong feelings for someone else? This kind of thing often says a lot more about you than it does about either of your men. A lot of the time when we want out of a relationship, or feel it's moving too fast we handily fall in love (or more often lust) with another person, and use them as a catalyst for the ending of the current relationship - somehow it feels better to move from one relationship to another, than to move...

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I need some advice about problems with my neighbours - details in answer! Right OK: I live in a medium sized block of flats which is joint owned by two landlords, all the flats are either one or two bedroom. Most of the other people who live in the flats are Eastern European immigrants and around five or six (occasionally more) appear to live in each flat, and the residents seem to change regularly - which in itself is something I'm not all that comfortable...

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Does kamasutra works better than normal sex It's over-rated. Who wants to waste time studying a book and knotting themselves into complicated pretzel-like shapes in order to have sex when you can just get on with it and do what comes naturally?

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Females, what was your first reaction the first time you saw an erect penis? Something along the lines of "Wow, they get big don't they?"

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Which is healthier, brown egg or white egg? there is no difference between white eggs and brown eggs - only the colour of the shell.

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Why do some girls wear platforms? Why can't they just accept their height, it seems so shallow. It's not always about making you look taller - I wear heels all the time and I'm already quite tall, I just like the look of them. If you did want to seem taller platforms probably wouldn't be the best way to do it anyway, seeing as they're quite an obvious sort of shoe and it's unlikely anyone would make the mistake of thinking you were really that tall.

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What age were you ready to settle down at? I don't believe in settling down at any age. I'm happy for life to keep on changing and developing and going off in different directions - that's what makes it interesting. And if I ever meet someone I want to spend the rest of my life with then I'd want to share a life that keeps moving and changing and is unpredictable and crazy and lots of fun. Happy endings are...

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Why are men nicer to superficial, airheaded, and ditzy chicks as opposed to girl with some intellectual substance? I don't think that's true at all. Maybe it just looks that way because if you're ditzy you don't notice when someone's not being nice to you.

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Do you agree that the test of all true works and words are inspired by love? Maybe. Love for something - not necessarily romantic love. I think in order to be driven to create you have to love something, even if it's only your own emptiness.

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How does a female keep her confidence with her date when there is amazingly gorgeous women around her? I don't look at the gorgeous women. I look at my gorgeous date.

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I'm 25 yrs old and I can honestly say I'm not good or skilled at anything. The only good things i've done are a degree & travelling.But I am useless. I'm a bad driver,good at no sports,no hobbies.Does anybody else feel like this?What can I do? I think you have a lot in common with about 99% of the world. Very few people have a particularly outstanding skill in anything specific - most of us get by with being reasonably OK at a few things without excelling at any one of them. The majority of the world doesn't have much in the way of hobbies either - if you ask most people what they do with their spare time you'll find...

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Why are glamoregirls and models such air heads? More airheaded than someone putting this question in the "pregnancy test" category? Seriously - how many did you meet before you came to that conclusion?

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Since when has a place / building been referred to as a bitch? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zq9OpJYck7Y That's the first one I ever heard of.

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Do you think smoking should be made illegal? No. I think it should be illegal in certain places - but I don't think whether people smoke in their own homes or cars or in closed off smokers rooms where no-one else has to go is anyone else's business.

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I'm a female but only have male friends. I'm not a tom-boy yet find girls uninteresting. How do I make female friends? If you find girls "uninteresting" you're unlikely to make any female friends. Think about it - would you want to be friends with someone who thought you were boring? I think maybe you need to view girls as individuals, rather than a group - women are as interested in as wide a variety of things as men - but you have to make the effort to talk to and engage with them to...

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I'm a female in my midtwenties who has had many male friends in her life. I want girl friends. I'm real, I'm honest, I love going to the day spa. What do I have to do to make girl friends? Evey time I have a girl friend, she ends up being a bitch & a liar I can associate with that - I've also always found I have more male friends than female, despite being a fairly girly girl. I have made a small number of very good female friends who I'm really grateful for so maybe I can give you some form of advice. First of all don't respond to bitchiness in the way the woman probably expects (more bitchiness) - all too often bitchiness is a...

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Have you done it in the back seat, if so what kind of car was it? I did it in a Porsche once - that was uncomfortable. And the back of a van, though I wouldn't call it a "seat".

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Why don't you smoke? Because it's expensive.

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Does anyone have tips for what I should do if I wish to attract more girls? I am apparently a nice guy, but I'm yet to have a girlfriend and I'm 16 I think one of the most common mistakes younger guys make is that they want to attract girls, but they almost never hang out with them, or talk to them, or go many places they're likely to meet them - the likelihood of a nice girl just wandering over one day when you're with a group of friends and saying "hey want to go out?" is fairly unlikely - so you have to put yourself...

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If you had to pick, which of these is most likely? Oswald acted alone; OJ didn't do it; The Princess Diana tragedy was just an accident; Cobain killed himself; In Roswell, it was just a weatherballoon; Marilyn Monroe's death was an accidental overdose. The only one of those I think is remotely unlikely is that OJ didn't do it. If I had to pick one though, Diana - car accidents are quite common after all, especially when you're travelling fast.

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How many teeth are not your own? All the ones that are in other people's mouths?

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I am 5'4 and my weight is 160 pounds. Am I fat? Difficult to tell - if you have a small build then probably you're a little chubby. If you are bigger boned than you're probably fine - also depends on your sex. It's difficult to tell just from height and weight - according to the traditionally used BMI index Brad Pitt is obese, apparently.

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My boyfriend made me have anal sex when I didn't want to do that. I dont really care because we have sex so much all the time and I loved him a while now. I dont feel attacked like if a stranger did this and took something from me. Is this still rape? Um - I'm sorry about this, he shouldn't have done it, but in a lot of situations I don't really think it is- or at least you'd have a hell of a time getting it to court. Are we talking he ripped off all your clothes and pinned you down and physically made you do it? In which case it is rape and you should consider reporting him (although be aware in advance you'll...

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A man walks into a bar and tells the bartender he wants to buy every lady there a drink. He pays in cash and watches as the drinks are dispursed. Would you accept the drink (whether you were alone or on a date), and what would be your response to the man? Of course I'd accept. I'd probably think he was flashing the cash a bit more than necessary, but hey, it's his money and if it makes him happy...

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Ladies,do you really like men who are tall,dark, and handsome? Handsome is good :¬) height doesn't bother me either way. I tend to go for either very dark or very fair - I also have a bit of a thing for bald men. So um - the answer is probably "yes, amongst other things."!

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What's the sexiest part of a man's body? Reason? Forearms. Why? I have absolutely no idea.

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What pickup line do women "want" to hear? As long as it's said with a sense of humour I don't mind. I once had one guy use the "want to see some of my etchings" line on me - then he promptly burst out laughing and confessed he just couldn't think of anything else to open with. We got chatting and I went on a few dates with him afterwards- I never did get to see the etchings though...

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Why do guys prefer skinny chicks? Why can't guys like girls that have meat on there bones? I often think exactly the opposite - there's so much in the media about how men supposedly prefer women with "a bit of meat on them" and how "real women have curves" that I'm beginning to wonder if anyone cares about the self-esteem of the naturally thin.

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What is a bad debt? Bad debt is borrowing more than you can afford to buy something you don't need. Example: Getting an affordable mortgage so that you can afford to buy and eventually own your own home might be considered good debt. Getting a loan for a car because you need one for work and can't afford to pay for it all upfront is ok debt. Getting a student loan so that you can go to college and...

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Have you ever had a crush on someone that you were embarassed of? I really fancy Jim Carrey, which some people might think is worthy of embarrasment. At school I also had a major crush on my (48 year old) history teacher, which I was quite embarrassed about at the time.

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I get extremely nervous when I'm around hot girls, I don't know what to do, I always seem to ignore looking at them because I feel unable to. What are some of the treatments? Well, it gets easier once you get into the conversation - it's the initial part that's the problem, things that I think help when being comfortable around people youre attracted to (and this advice is for guys or girls really) are: - Look but don't stare. Most people don't mind being checked out, they just don't want to be stared at. Next tiome you see a hot girl make...

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Do you think I could be a model (no 'anyone can be a model' stuff pleeease!) Do I look older than 12 at least? Sorry, it's true, technically anyone can be a model - if you really want a decent answer you need to give more information. What type of model do you want to be? Are you talking catwalk? Glamour? Catalogue? There are a lot of different types of modelling and they all require different attributes, not all of them physical. Your height, measurements and personality would all come into it as...

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Is the attraction of being a model purely for the glamor? Hmm - I wopuldn't say that modelling is generally all that glamourous - famous top models who make lots of money and are big names may have glamourous, partying lifestyles as a result - but the actual modelling bit of it, doing the shoots and things I don't think is much more glamourous than anything else. It can be fun, but sometimes it's also quite boring, some photographers...

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Have you taken this quiz? Are you smarter than a fifth grader? http://ten.com.au/ten/5thgrader-trivia.html I just took it and no I'm not. But why are all the questions about Australia?

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I am wearing a navy blue beaded spaghetti strap cocktail dress to a wedding. Black shoes don't look quite right? is it bad to wear silver, and is it ok to have bare shoulders in a catholic church? I think the silver shoes would be fine - the only real no-go areas for weddings colour-wise are black and white. Shoulders wise I'd play safe and take a wrap or a pretty shrug-style cardigan/ jacket to cover you above the elbows, you can always remove it for the reception afterwards.

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Has anyone besides me seen an old comment thread "sanitized"? I had a rather lengthy disagreement between myself and...well an utter moron(with valuable input from many of my friends who seemed to confirm such) And on returning there it was gone. Yes! I thought that was just me! I had one that wasn't even really an argument (just a minor grumble) disappear- I dunno what's going on!

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What hair style are you wearing right now? I wouldn't exactly call it a style. It's wet because I just washed it.

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If Jesus were to come now and you weren't ready would what you do? I'd get dressed and put the kettle on.

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Love is over rated, do you agree or disagree? I agree wholeheartedly.

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My boyfriend calls me names like bitch,slut,whore,ugly,fat,skank,smelly,tramp,etc.But he says that he is just joking and he doesnt mean it.Well I dont take it as a joke,and I take very seriously.Do you think that Im overreacting?Would you take it as joke? There's a fine line between joking and being an arsehole. I've had boyfriends in the past who've occasionally called me names like that and it was really just a bit of affectionate banter, I've also met guys who say things like that and are real Grade-A misogynists - I think intrinsically you know by the way they say it and their general manner whether they really mean it...

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I dont like pizza dose anyone else feel the same?People call me crazy because i dont eat pizza. I don't like takeaway/ delivery pizza - the dough always tastes like cardboard.

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If your b/f or g/f told you to sit down and shut up, Would you? Maybe. Depends on the situation - sometimes saying something like that is the only way to get a chance to say your piece, so fair enough. I'd get pissed off if it happened a lot though.

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What do guys really want to hear after sex ? What do women really want to hear after sex? As long as it's not snoring I don't really mind!

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Who are some of your favorite female writers? Can be novelists, poets, whatever.... I like angela Carter, Sylvia Plath, Donna Tartt, Jo Shapcott, Jeanette Winteson, Joanne Harris, Alice Munro... just glancing over some of the girls on my bookshelf there.

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If you're a woman, would you stay with a man who didn't support you financially? I earn my own money. I would never expect a man to support me financially.

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Women:would you sleep with a man knowing he was seeing other women on the side? As long as he was being honest about it and didn't mind me sleeping with other people as well, I'm fine with that. Some relationships are monogamous, some aren't - as long as it's all upfront I don't have issues with that.

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Why don't men get the urge to organise men's rights' petitions? Nobody's stopping them. If you want to organise a men's rights petition you go right ahead. I've come across a lot of men that seem to feel the urge to do it - it's just that none of them ever actually do. In the area where I grew up there was a swimming pool, and after repeated requests from female users who felt self-concious, or had religious ideals that meant they...

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If I said women deserve to be treated like queens, would they give me 6 points each? Looks like that's a no then...

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In general, would you say it's easier to live the life of a child/teenager or adult? I can say without any doubt that being an adult is about a thousand times better than being a teenager. Being a teenager is crap - you're under so much pressure from every angle when a lot of the time all you want to do is be left alone with your new neuroses and obsessions, and being at school you get forced into hanging out with people you can't stand and who pick you to pieces on a...

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You're on a blind date...and suddenly the person you're on a date with starts talking to someone you cannot see.What do you do instinctivly ? What would you do if you didn't want to offend them? Is that not normal? Considering you can't generally see yourself?

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How many ABers does it take to change a lightbulb? None. They're too glued to AB to notice they're sitting in the dark.

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If you start having sex, but then ask the guy to stop and he doesn't is that still rape? I think you'd be on dodgy ground legally - technically it probably is, but I the legal system would give you a very, very hard time. (Which whilst very unpleasant is also quite understandable as you did give consent initially, there are unlikely to have been any witnesses and it's difficult to differentiate between a girl who protested and one who just regretted it afterwards)I would...

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What fictional story bares the closest resemblance to your life at the moment? I've always associated a lot with Holly Golightly from "Breakfast at Tiffany's"

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I have to say that while I'm accustomed to women wearing little or no makeup, certain women look absolutely amazing and totally sexy with makeup. How do you feel about make-up ladies? I like make-up- I kind of enjoy trying stuff out and all the different looks you can do with it - I think it's really weird how you can completely change the way you look with a relatively small amount - like how just putting a slick of bright red lipstick on makes you look instantly dressed up, and smudgy black eyeliner makes you look all moody and a bit gothic, and blusher can change the...

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Should there be a bloke's day? If enough blokes want one and can be arsed to organise it then I don't see why not - there's an international women's day so I don't see why there shouldn't be an international men's day.

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Do you think with cosmetic innovations, girls have really got to work their buts off trying to look good to keep up with competition? I dunno - I've always believed that cosmetics, surgery and any other form of "help" can do no more than make you look the best you can possibly look - it can make a pretty girl prettier but it can't turn a plain girl into a goddess. Just because let's say (random attractive woman) Penelope Cruz looks great after using a certain moisturiser, it doesn't follow that...

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Why do most women who like guys just make eye contact with the guys and wait for things to happen. I think if women think they are really equal, they should have guts to face rejection as well otherwise they are the weaker sex. (no offence) I know plenty of guys that just make eye contact and wait for things to happen too - I think it's just a bit of a showdown when two people fancy each other as to who gets sick of waiting first and decides to move things on. Making eye contact is a good starting point though, for both sexes, it's a good way to suss out whether the guy/girl *might* be interested - if you catch their...

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Girls, how do you approach a guy you like who you haven't been introduced to? Usually I'll try and make eye contact across the room and flash my legs or cleavage a bit, and if that doesn't work I go over and say something pathetic like "I like your jacket." Not sure if that's the best way, but hey, you wanted honesty I guess.

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Was the first time you had sex a big deal to you? Why or why not? Not really. I was kind of glad to get it done with really.

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Ladies, would you become a man for $1,000,000? For how long? I'd do it for say - up to a year for about half that - but I quite enjoy being female most of the time so I'd not want to do it permanently.

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What are your thoughts on Yoko Ono? I don't find her particularly talented or interesting, but I do think she had to take a lot of unfair flak from Beatles fans.

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What is the wisest quote that comes to mind (without research)? "There are more things in heaven and earth than are dreamt of in your philosophy." I don't know why it was that.

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How come most americans are against fox hunting and most british people are against wolf hunting but it doesn't go vice versa? I can't say I'd ever heard of wolf-hunting until now.

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Why do british singers sing with an north american accent? A lot of them don't. If you listen to British folk music it's generally sung in a recognisable British accent, if not a notable regional accent (Kate Rusby is a very good example) Pop music-wise you also might want to listen to The Clash, The Sex Pistols, Siouxsie and The Banshees (in fact virtually any British punk band), Ian Dury and the Blockheads, Black Box Recorder, Dubstar,...

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Is it ok to trick old people at bingo by giving them different game cards that don't correspond to the numbers being called out? a guy down my street done it & said it was hilarious, what would you think of him? I just laughed out loud at this question and then immediately felt guilty. So no it's not OK, it's mean and cruel (but it would make a great comedy sketch!)

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Singletons/members of non cohabiting couples: do you have a single or a double bed? Double. I can't sleep in a single bed.

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Could you please tell me if this is an insult? The guy I'm seeing just called me a bleeding heart liberal. 1. Is that an insult & 2. Am I? My answer will explain my views That's one of those very simplistic phrases generally used by people who know very little about the issues concerned to try and make someone they disagree with feel small without actually taking the time to argue against them. Other versions include comparing someone to Hitler, calling someone "heartless" or "evil", the phrase "political correctness gone...

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What are some things that take all the fun out of sex? Trying too hard.

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AB is full of over-zealous liberals and conservatives incapable of seeing any other side of any issue. Aren't there any non-extremists left? Can we have a shout out for all the moderates and people who will admit they don't have ALL the answers? Well conservatives think I'm too liberal, liberals think I'm too conservative - I guess I'm just a fence-sitter...

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How do you tell the person that you love, that the sex might be a little on the boring side? Go for a positive approach. Instead of thinking/ saying "I'm bored by X" or "I don't like it when we do Y" think "Why don't we give X a go?" or "Let's give this a try." The idea is to convey to your partner that there's nothing wrong with what they're already doing but you'd like to throw some new things into the mix...

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I just started dating a new guy and I feel sex is coming soon. Whats something very sexy that I can do, or wear for him when he shows up at my house sometime? I want to surprise him in a sexy way because I don't seem to be dirty and it would turn him I'd try to work out what his "thing" is -some guys have several obviously- he might go for the St Trinian's schoolgirl type look, he might have a thing for Catwoman and like you in PVC, he might be into old fashioned style frilly lingerie, or he might be into something hotter (peephole bras etc). Obviously you could just ask him - but that might spoil the surprise a bit, so...

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I want to use a vibrator on my girlfriend, how can I make her agree? You can't make her agree - some women like using vibrators, some dislike the sensation intensely - we're all built differently and all like different things. In my experience using a vibrator during sex with a partner CAN be really good, but it can also be thouroughly horrendous if the guy starts shoving it around where he thinks it *should* feel good and then gets annoyed when she...

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What practical purpose does wearing stockings serve? Well - I like to have the option of wearing a skirt or trousers - and having something covering your legs means you still have the choice in slightly colder weather. I generally find stockings (or hold ups at least) a bit more comfortable than tights (it's an air circulation thing)not to mention more practical, because if you get a ladder in one leg you don't have to throw the...

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How can I get my girlfriend to wear high heels? Do you mean in general or in the bedroom (as you placed this in the sex category I'm assuming the latter)? Well, some women just don't feel comfortable in them - for some they can actually cause severe back and foot problems and really hurt - so don't try and make her feel bad about not doing it because it may be a real problem for her. If you need any more convincing try...

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Do you think it's entertaining when a singer trashes a performance because of drug and alchohol problems (The way Amy Winehouse just did)? Or, would you be screaming for your money back? I think if you go to see someone with a reputation like Amy Winehouse then you go along half-expecting that there's going to be a bit of a trainwreck on stage and you should allow for that when you purchase the tickets. If you want a glistening polished no-chances-taken, no hitches, predictable performance - go see Madonna.

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If you died today would you say that you achieved everything you wanted in life? or is there something you still need to do? I'm not sure I've achieved anything at all.

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Are your best poems about you and your life and your loves, or about something else? I gave up writing poetry (or prose for that matter) about myself a long time ago. I used to write lots of confessional poetry and most of it was purely carthartic - self-obsessed, badly put together and probably of no interest to anyone other than myself. Still - it served a purpose and made me feel better by channeling whatever I was feeling into the effort of creating some kind of verse....

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What's your favorite T.S. Eliot poem, stanza, line? "These fragments I have shored against my ruins."

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Is it wrong to dance at a party with more than one guy?..say 8 or 9 lol It's a party. Dance with whoever you like.

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What do you think about self help books? Is it helpful to reed this type of books? Most of the time I think they should be approached with extreme caution if at all. The ones that talk about ways to manage relationships particularly bother me because they tend to generalise so much about what people want, about human behaviour, personality types, and particularly about the differences between men and women - whilst there might be some truth in some of the statements they...

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When you ask a question, do you find yourself watching for any particular ABer to answer? If so, who and why? Yes. Sometimes I ask a question on here specifically because I know there is a person on AB who will know the answer (Most often that person is ImAlec - who appears to be a fountain of useful information on the wirder things I tend to ponder.)

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Have you heard of kate nash, do you like her music? I didn't think I would but my sister introduced me to this little gem from her album which I really think is the best piece of love poetry I've read in ages: "Birds fly so high And they can shit on your head They can fly into your eye And they can make you feel so scared But when you look at them You see that they're beautiful That's how I feel about you."

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Does the knowledge that a great number of people honestly believe America to be the greatest country on Earth worry you at all? Only Americans think that. If you go to Latvia they all think Latvia is the greatest country in the world, if you go to Spain they all think Spain is the greatest country in the world.. it's just patriotism and it's the same the world over (except in Britain where everyone thinks it's a shithole and can't wait to buy a cheap house in America, Latvia or Spain.) The only...

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I find it very wrong for people to say "this is America, you have to speak english", how do you feel about this and do you agree? Provided they actually mean the USA and not the American continent (I hope no-one would try saying that in Peru!) I think it's fair enough - OK so you don't *have* to speak English, but if you expect to be understood on a regular basis you do. Put it another way (and I'm not even an American) - is it not a bit wrong to expect everyone in the US to learn a ridiculous amount of...

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Have you ever seen a movie so bad that you wanted your money back? if so which one? Several. "The Beach" was the main one. That was really bad.

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What are you thinking at this very moment? Be honest! I was thinking about what an idiot some guy I saw on TV last night was.

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How can I lower my expectations when it comes to relationships? I feel like I am always looking for a larger commitment then the person is willing to offer. Could it be that I just haven't found the right person yet? I think the problem is that you're looking for an abstract concept "commitment" rather than looking for the right person. Commitment on it's own is nothing special - stalkers are nothing if not committed, but you wouldn't want one would you? Commitment is something that happens naturally when you meet someone that you click with and is right for you (By "right...

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Who is the greatest female singer of a rock band? IYO. Siouxsie and the Banshees :¬)

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Girls, what makes a guy look sexy? Making eye contact helps a lot.

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How do i get my boyfriend to orgasm, he used to get it all the time, now he rarely does. What can I do to turn him on? Ask. Even better - ask now what some of his hottest fantasies are, or ask what he used to fantasise about before he met you - or what the sexiest dream he's ever had was. Then either go on to tell him yours (he might like that) or just naturally change the subject and act like you're thinking no more about it - then a few nights or days later act out one of his fantasies (pick...

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Can you recommend a book that you absolutely loved, and think everyone should read? I'm looking for fiction, or at least very entertaining books. Please don't suggest the bible- I've already read that. Just looking over at my shelves here and picking out a few random examples of stuff I enjoyed: Franz Kafka - Metamorphosis and Other Stories (includes famous story about man who wakes up having turned into a beetle and faces subsequent rejection by his family.) Joanne Harris - Chocolat (the book is much better than the film. Very sensual and sexy and fun.) Isabelle Allende - Eva Luna...

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LADIES: My penis is about 5 inches long with a girth of about 3 inches - would you have sex with me knowing this? Knowing JUST that? No.

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Can you please post a cool photo of city you are in? Yes. Here are some of the nicer parts of Cardiff:

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Ladies: What is your opinion on an uncircumcised penis? I'm not sure I have one (an opinion that is....)

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What are your reasons for not wanting kids? I think Singwell is right - just having the option not to have children, and not be considered a failure because of it leads a lot of people to think about whether or not they want kids, rather than just assume that they will do. Plus it's quite expensive to bring children up these days - I think some people are put off by the idea that they wouldn't be able to give the children a...

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Rite, this lad that i am kinda messin around with suggested us wtchin porn togetha, what do u think? what do i do when its on, do i just sit there or what? any suggestions ?? wud rele like sum ideas :) Well I suggest you just give it a go and see what happens. If you don't like it you don't necessarily have to do it again. Firstly I'd suggest you pick the porn together, rather than just going along with his choice (women tend to be a bit more fussy, you don't want to get stuck watching some guy with dodgy facial hair banging a plasticcy looking seventeen year old and...

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What is the one thing that you cannot stand when dining in a restaurant? Other people's badly behaved children.

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Question for the ladies: What do you think are the top 3 things men look for in women? Jesus I don't know - it depends on the man I suppose. I always tend to assume most men like someone who is good looking (by that I mean broadly healthy looking and feminine looking, which covers a big range), easy going and open-minded about sex. Although there's so many exceptions to that rule it probably doesn't count as a rule at all.

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Have you ever taken an Answerbag fast? Yes. I banned myself for about three months.

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Is there anything that you find attractive in someone that you would consider different to the normal? I find people with a bit of a belly attractive. Not fat people, just some softness in the stomach.

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At the same time and date, what were you doing exactly 5 years ago? I was in my first year of Senior High School, about to finish for the day in 15min. I was living in a crappy flat and feeling thouroughly miserable because I'd just been put on medication that I couldn't mix with alcohol and was approaching my 21st birthday.

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To all the singletons out there....are you happy being single or would you rather be in a relationship? It would depend who the relationship was with. I'm not into having relationships just for the sake of it.

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Its been 16 hours that me and my guy have not spoken yet is he trying to avoid me> Has he forgotten about me Sixteen hours isn't really very long - Considering he could esily have been asleep for around 8-10 of those, and that it's very plausible he was working or otherwise busy for the rest I don't think you need worry that he's forgotten about you. I'd send him a text message to remind him you exist if you're that worried (But don't bombard him with the things)...

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What is the meaning of your name?Mine is queen It's the name of a plant.

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If AB is an addiction; what are the withdrawl symptoms from quitting AB? Seeing little orange dots when you close your eyes?

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What's your birthday? November 18th. I share it with Mickey Mouse apparently.

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Are you a smoker? Does it bother you that 'smoker rights' are almost extinct? I realize that the affects of secondhand smoke are almost as bad as if the other person was a smoker themselves, but... why would non-smokers feel that smokers should quit? I don't think many non-smokers really care whether smokers smoke or not (unless it's someone they care about and they worry about their health) - they just don't want them to smoke near to them. I used to smoke and don't any more. I have mixed feelings about the smoking bans - I think that places should have the option of providing a seperate room closed off from the rest...

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When you were 18, did your parents kick you out or did you leave/stay of your own accord? Left of my own accord when I was seventeen.

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What do you want to get from Santa? An attractive single and willing man would be nice. Failing that I wouldn't mind a new pair of cowboy boots.

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At what age did you start to feel old? Right about now... it's my birthday this weekend and it's the first one I've started to feel a bit stressed about!

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There is this new term "gray rape" where the person is not really 100 percent sure if they were raped? What kind of baloney is this, either you said no and resisted in some way or you didn't. What do you think? I can see how that might happen if you'd been drinking - if you were very drunk and woke up knowing that something you didn't want had happened but couldn't be entirely sure whether you gave the impression of consenting to it or not. Because of the increase in drug rape, if you've been drinking as well you might feel like you've been drugged and raped, but because...

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Is it unhealthy when women skip periods by manipulating their cycles with their birth control? Every doctor I've ever asked says it's fine just to have a few periods a year. If you think about it, in the past it wouldn't have been natural for adult women to have anywhere near as many periods as we do now, because they would have spent a great deal of the time pregnant - and all the pill does is mimic pregnancy by releasing similar hormones and preventing the sperm from...

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What subject do you feel the most comfortable talking about? Food, sex and literature.

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How many bowls of (reduced calorie!) vanilla icecream can a hormonal teenage girl eat during a comfort eating session, before it's classed as excessive? Three.

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Do you like to be awakened from deep sleep by your partner starting foreplay or looking for sex, or would you rather stay asleep? Mostly I like it, unless I'm very, very, very hungover. I prefer to have a chance to brush my teeth before any kissing takes place though.

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What do you think of Miss England being told to fatten up? http://news.aol.com/entertainment/story/ar/_a/miss-england-told-to-fatten-up-georgia/20071026184109990001?ncid=NWS00010000000001 I think it sounds like they're planning to cook and eat her! (Seriously, I think that's a bit rude - if she'd been told to lose weight there'd be uproar)

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To women: Shaking is normal during an orgasm? Do all women experience trembling? I wouldn't really call it shaking - not all the time anyway - more like muscle spasms. All women and all orgasms are different though. Some orgasms are like big earth moving things and some are just quite nice - just depends.

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Do you consider yourself affiliated with a religion, and attend a service at least once a month? No. I was Christened in the Church of England, but other than funerals ad weddings I haven't been to a church service since I was in primary school.

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Who thinks George W is "somewhat" comparable to Hitler or Saddam? I think that's a ridiculous comparison. Bush is a bad president. He's not a dictator ordering genocide.

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What do you think of when you think of England? Chip shops and curry sauce. You just can't get good curry sauce in Wales.

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If President Bush came to your door what would you do / say? Probably something along the lines of "Are you lost?" would be appropriate, considering where I live.

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In America, religion is not taught in schools. Do you feel that, if it was, it would be possible to give each faith 'equal billing?' (the same emphasis on each one) I think that would be impossible considering how many religions and subsects of those religions there are - technically I could start my own religion today and insist that you gave it equal billing with Christianity - which would be silly, you'd never get a chance to teach anything else. When I was at school in the UK (not that long ago believe it or not!) we had religious education...

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Have you got a real job and what is a real job anyway?you carn`t have a pretend job can you? No, I'm a temp - I earn money wherever I can get it. I would say a real job is one where you can clearly say "I am an X and I do Y."

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What is our morality based upon? Mine comes from trying not to do things that cause others pain - physical or emotional. I guess that comes from my parents "Do as you would be done by" philosophy. I think most people (unless they're psycopaths or have other pschological problems) tend to operate on some kind of not doing to others what they wouldn't want others to do to them principle (although we often...

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Are you for or against socialized health care? I'm in favour of free basic healthcare for everyone, it's been a lifesaver for me more than once. When I had a bad kidney infection and was on minimum wage it took a long time for me to get help because I didn't want to take time off work and lose money- if I thought I had to pay for the treatment as well I probably wouldn't have gone until I collapsed. I'm also...

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Kayleigh. Edward. Kyle. Henrietta. You must change your name to one of those names. Which would you chose? Edward. Just for a laugh.

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What words can you not say properly? "come" - according to RP types - when I was in the school choir (age about 12) I participated in a Christmas sing-song thing that involved several local schools including the local private school where they were very keen on received pronunciation - the headmaster of the latter was the conductor and co-ordinator for the evening and as rehearsals went on I could see him getting more...

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With all of our distaste for telemarketers..I think that they have a really difficult job. Virtually everyone they contact is negative to them. I think that it would be a very difficult job to do. Any opinions on this? Well I'm always aware that no-one would sign up to do telemarketing unless they were really desperate for cash - so even though they irritate the hell out of me I try to direct my anger at the companies involved rather than the people who actually do the calling. I have a friend who did a stint telemarketing and she says that most of them would much rather that if you weren't...

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Do you go to any partys like Tuppaware, candle,adult parties? What is your favorite? I've been to a few Ann Summers parties, which are always a good laugh. I went to a Tupperware party once but I found it a bit pointless as I could have got most of the stuff a lot cheaper from Wilko's.

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Whats the best cure for a hang over, someone please answer this question fast lol Nettle tea and potato waffles.

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Who's your favourite Rock Star? Hmm - I would say Patti Smith, but I'm basing that purey on "Horses" - considering entire careers it's probably David Bowie.

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What's wrong with the USA? They can't spell "colour".

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When people say they are writers why are they (999 times out of 1000) fiction writers and not non-fiction writers? That's a really good question! I'm fairly certain there are actually more non-fiction writers in the world than there are fiction writers. Compared to the rest of a library or book shop, the section that can be classed as "fiction" is pretty small (and that's including the classics). (although I'm guessing there are a lot more non-published fiction writers than...

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Why are you so sexy? Because I have a British accent :¬)

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Do women like quiet men and if so what is so appealing? I think a man (or a woman for that matter) is most attractive when they're confident without being gobby. Someone who isn't a chore to try and have a conversation with either because they won't say anything or because they won't shut up!

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I left the food on the counter over night and forgot to put it in the fridge. Which of the following items that I left out, should I get rid of: eggs, shredded cheddar cheese, chicken, and frozen garlic bread? It was left out for 7 hours at 65 degrees. If you were a caterer you'd be required to throw all of it away - but personally I would cook the garlic bread and have it with lunch and probably keep the cheese if it looked OK and there were no flies about. If the eggs are still whole, keep them too - it's not like the chickens keep them in the fridge- but if they're broken, chuck them. The chicken is probably best thrown out...

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If you were to be famous, how well known would you like to be? would you keep it at that limit? Someone (was it Hemingway?) once said that a writers fame is idea because it will get you a good table at a retaurant but won't get you bothered whilst you're eating. I'd quite like that.

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Who´s got prettier face? http://fotolog.terra.com.ar/angcheng/ http://www.fotolog.com/mireyaya I don't think either is particularly attractive in those pictures.

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How can I dye my hair platinum blonde when I have a (fake) tan complection without looking ridiculous? It depends what you think looks ridiculous! Personally I would either lose the tan or at least tone it down to a subtle glow, rather than a deep mahogany - otherwise you're going to end up looking like a Baywatch extra. Platinum blonde tends to look best on shorter to mid length hair (think of the blonde bombshell starlets: Marilyn Monroe, Jean Harlow, Diana Dors - none wore their...

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From where you live what other country are you nearest to? England

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Do you think a woman can get ANY man she wants regardless of what she looks like? If so, what's the trick to it? I don't think there's any trick guaranteed to attract ANY man - even disregarding the gay/married/temporarily pre-occupied with something else issues there's some guys that you won't be able to attract even if you turn up on their doorstep naked with a twelve pack of beer because you're just not their type. It's always worth a try - but you have to know when to...

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What colour trousers/skirt would go with a dressy dark blue top (also has black 'mesh' with silver bits in at top) Most colours would work. Black would be the safest, but I'd choose a dressy style (I think a full, satiny skirt would look great)or if you can find a black skirt with a silver design on it (embroidery maybe) that would look even better. Plain black cotton will just look boring so choose something with a bit of oomph.

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Could I be pregnant. I have miss a week of birth control pills. Me and my boyfriends have had sex. Twices this week, my stomach has been hurting. You could be yes - but at this stage that's unlikely to be the reason your stomach is hurting (it could actually be your body's reaction to coming off the pill), so I would suggest you consult a doctor about that anyway, and at the same time ask about a pregnancy test. (And please, if you don't want to get pregnant use some form of protection.)

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What clothes do you honestly feel quite sexy in? Stockings and nice underwear. I find if I wear nice lingerie I feel sexy whatever I'm wearing over the top of it.

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What hurts more? A kick to the package or a punch in the boobs? I don't know, I only have the boobs. You're going to have to find someone with both and experiment.

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Why is it that if a women has sex with a lot of guys she is considered a slut, but if guys sleep with a lot of girls, he is the man? Historical precedent more than anything I think. In the past there were major consequences for a woman who had sex outside of marriage - unwanted pregnancy being the main one. In the past women were largely unable to earn their own money (other than as prostitutes) access to money was through the men in their lives (father, then husband) having sex outside of marriage would jepodise this...

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Do men face discrimination in jobs such as child care, nursing, teaching, reception etc? Child care definetly - I think parents automatically consider a female nanny or babysitter to be somehow "safer" to leave their children with. Teaching I don't think there is a great deal of discrimation. There tend to be more women teaching in primary schools, but I believe that's generally because more women *want* to teach at that level than men - men who train to be...

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Attention atheists: What evidence convinced you of God's non-existence? I didn't need convincing. I just don't see any reason why there would be a God, so I'm an atheist by default.

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This is to the men i think.......why is it that when a relationship breaks up we sob and eat chocolate with our friends and you seem fine and party on with your friends...does it really affect you? Sorry I'm a girl - but I fall into the second category. In a way it proves Alec's point - I'd prefer to act tough (especially to myself) and to not give pwople the satisfaction of seeing me cry. (And I've at times gone by the maxim "The best way to get someone off your mind is to get someone else on your body"!) But also I don't really believe in wallowing...

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People just ask questions to get points, not for pure knowledge, who agrees with me? Nope. I think the reasons for asking questions tends to be in this order: - to communicate and have a laugh with other people on the site. - to make a political/ religious/ moral point - because the asker is bored and has nothing better to do. - because someone needs help, advice or support in a personal matter. - because someone needs help or advice in a practical matter (e.g. building a...

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Why is it that when we are not looking to buy clothing or shoes we see loads that we want but when we go out just for that purpose we never find anything? I can answer that for myself in that when I'm "just looking" and have nothing to spend I tend to think "I want that" about things I just like a bit, that if I was honest I'd probably go off after a while, or would never use, or attend an appropriate occasion to wear. when I actually have money I'm aware that it's finite, so if I'm going to buy...

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Ladies...if your panties were showing slightly above your pants and you noticed a guy looking at it, would you be disbusted or flattered? Is there any vouyerism involved in such a scenario? I'd be a bit embarrassed but I'd be flattered as well.

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Who will win, Brown or Cameron? I think Cameron stands a very good chance. He has charisma - which the voting public responds to more than anything else - and people are now so disillusioned with the Labour government that I think the Tories will attract votes just through not being Labour.

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What compliments would you give to me without knowing anything about me? You are unique.

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Make love or f*ck? Fuck. I find the term "making love" a bit of a turn off for some reason.

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What do you think of when you see a cannabis leaf? If it's a real one I think "How on earth did that get there?" If it's on a t-shirt or poster I think "How unoriginal..."

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What can a vegetarian that doesn't like vegetables eat on a no-carb diet? Tofu. Eggs. Some dairy products. Basically it's not going to be very good for you or your bowels and you'll feel very ill after about three days. I would suggest a reduced-carb diet rather than a no-carb one. And try a wider variety of vegetables to find some you like - you need to eat fruit and/or veg to be healthy.

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When was the last time you changed a dirty diaper? Never have - and with any luck I never will!

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I'm a girly girl, so i wanna know whats the difference between being goth and being gothic? Gothic is an adjective and Goth is a noun. Virtually anything which leans towards the dark, the macabre or the uncanny can be described as gothic. Goth is usually used to refer to a particular subculture which tend sto celebrate the darker side of life, although Goths themselves tend to debate endlessly about what the term actually means, and it's often said that one of the signs of a...

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How many have NEVER been trolled? I'm not sure if I have or not. I got followed around by someone who didn't like me for a while, but that was sort of my fault for insisting on carrying on replying to them.

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What was Giles Corey accused of at the Salem witch trials and what was his fate and that of his property? Thomas Putnam who was the father of Ann,one of the group of teenage girls doing most of the accusing, testified that witches had threatened to press her to death in front of Corey - and taht a ghost had appeared to her to tell her that he had been pressed to death by Corey. Putnam also claimed that Corey had entered into a covenant with the devil that he should not hang. In the end this...

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What phrases are unique to your part of the country or the world? Here in Louisiana, we say "He gives me the red ass", for example, when someone makes us angry. In the East Staffordshire Derbyshire area of England we used the phrase "Got a bag on" (as in "having a sulk") the word "mardy" (being sulky and unreasonable) and "nesh" (the condition of being particularly susceptible to cold weather.)

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Why are poor people and homeless treated with no respect? It's easy to pour scorn on someone in a bad situation, and claim they only have themselves to blame if you've never been there yourself - most of us do it to some group in society at some point in our lives. It's easy to look at some smelly guy with a bottle in a paper bag sitting under the bridge and think "I'd never let myself get like that." if you've...

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Who is more discrmated against men or women and why? Women - I think it would be impossible to legitimately argue otherwise. I can't remember the last time I heard about a man being stoned to death for having sex outside of marriage or refusing to wear a veil, or had it implied that he deserved to be raped because of what he was wearing, or was murdered by his own family for falling in love with the wrong person with the murderers never...

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Is it strange for a man in his late thirties to be single and have never been married or had children? It depends what you mean by strange I suppose - it's probably statistaically more unusual for a man in his late thirties to be single and childless - but that doesn't mean it's a bad thing.

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Have you ever been in a relationship wherein your Significant Other was jealous and possessive? What did you do? Several. For some reason I seem to attract possessive types and as I'm very independent it annoys the hell out of me. The one that was really too much was with a guy who would make a fuss if I didn't want to see him every single day - he got upset when I went on holiday with my family and prevented me enjoying it by phoning several times a day and getting upset if I didn't...

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If all the good guys are extinct, what do we girls have left? bad ones ;¬)

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What are some problems you have in your everyday life? Lack of spare cash.

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How soon shall i sleep with a guy ,whom i just met?!i dont want to get hurt ( if he is not that into me)and i want him to fall for me. If you're worrying about whether you're going to get hurt then don't do it. Sleep with a guy when you feel comfortable doing it and really WANT to do it - don't do it (or withhold it)to play games, to manipulate his feelings.

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Went out with a girlfriend, got drunk, flirted with guys and came home very late.My bfriend thinks ive been having fun with other men and not only that night but continiously during the whole year of our relationship.Wants to break up.i want him to stay Well - it's up to you really. Essentially there's nothing wrong with what you did, as you've described it here. You went out, you had fun, you came home late - you didn't cheat, you didn't lie, you did nothing dishonourable. But there's nothing intrinsically wrong with him not liking it either, he can't necessarily help that - and as long as he's not...

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Do you find men with grey hair attractive? I don't find them unattractive.

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Which band, out of these, will be seen as the best 30 years from now? Alice in Chains, Nirvana, Queen, Guns N Roses, or AC/DC? Queen - purely on the basis of being the most distinctive. You hear a Queen record, you instantly know it's a Queen record even if you don't know their stuff all that well. The others (with the *possible* exception of Nirvana) could be mistaken for other bands in the same genre if you weren't particularly into rock music.

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Do you think it's weird for a girl to own guns? I think it's a bit weird for anyone to own a gun. They freak me out.

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Who is better looking of this 3 girls. In general, I mean counting everthing face and body. http://fotolog.terra.com/carlos1/ The blonde one. Although seeing as this is in "what men like" I don't know if I should have answered.

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Britain and England are not the same thing. How hard is that to understand? I believe most people do technically know that - they just get lazy when they're talking about it. Same as we all say "America" when what we really mean is the USA.

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Women, do you like when your partner agrees with you all the time? I've always gotten my way, but this new guy that I'm seeing refuses to back down when he thinks he's right & I don't like it AT ALL. My sister thinks I've finally met my match. I hate it It irritates me when a partner agrees with me all the time. It's not natural and I start to think they're just humouring me and not taking me seriously.

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Can women handle more pain than men? (ex.- childbirth, menstrual cycle) Fact I learned from a "QI" repeat the other day: Women have twice as many pain receptors in their skin as men, so the same force of pain-causing-stuff will cause a woman more pain than a man. Apparently there was once an eperiment where they tested the theory by administering electric shocks to male and female volunteers (can't imagine how they persuaded people to sign up for...

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How do i quickly get rid of my tan so i'll have porcelain skin? If you wear darker clothes your skin will usually look paler.

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Have you ever been the victim of some huge, elaborate, bizarre prank, that involved several people? Or ever just felt like that? I always feel like that.

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Do you think my new avatar is gonna get me penalty boxed again? Only if you can get put on the naughty chair for posting confusing pictures.

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Would you ever date outside of your race? I have done - I really can't see why anyone would have a problem with it.

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Where is free porn on the internet? Bloody everywhere, whether you're actually looking for it or not.

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Is it abnormal for a girl to think other girls are pretty? I like judge every girl that walks by but i'm attracted to guys. I don't think there are many women straight or gay who *don't* do that - you couldn't be more normal.

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Do you beleive that some porn is directed at men and some at women? Apart from male gay porn, that most straight men wouldn't watch. In my experience written erotica tends to appeal a lot more to women than men - most men seem to require a certain amount of visual stimulation whereas women are happier to fill in the details using their imaginations (I have met several notable exceptions to this rule, but generally men seem to find stories a bit too much like hard work.) I've seen porn by female directors made with a...

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Can anyone give me any trips on learning how to "deep throat"? What are the pros and cons of "deep throating"? (I want to surprise my Mr. in a few months)! Well first of all accept that if he's very big you may never be able to do it no matter what you do - not every penis fits every throat. But giving it a go doesn't hurt and he'll appreciate the effort no doubt. It's a lot (and I mean a lot) easier if the angle of his erect penis is roughly the same as the angle of your throat - if you're sitting between his legs...

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Women are really dumb but think they're really smart. Let them continue to think that way and just enjoy the show. what would you think of your boyfriend if he sends you such an email after an argument? I'd probably send one back that said "Are you sure we're not just letting you think that?"

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I bet I can guess what type of person you are based on what your favorite movie is. Wanna try? *Update Jan 2009--sorry, I can't reply to everyone anymore* OK - it's either Cabaret or The Wicker Man (original version not the Nicholas Cage travesty)

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My Girlfriend does a lot of interviewing with Brits in England and she says that a lot of the English only stay at a job for about six months. Why is that? I used to work in catering and the staff turnover levels were pretty high - it wasn't unusual for people to work for just a few weeks before quitting or being fired - and the same is often true in other low pay industries. a lot of those jobs tend to require very hard work, and high expectations compared to low pay and even lower levels of appreciation (when I worked in a hotel I was...

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If you are unhappy, are you more apt to try to change the circumstances of your life or to change yourself? Genrally the process goes: 1) dump whoever I'm going out with 2) quit job 3) move house 4) spend lots of money I don't have on new crazy scheme to make life more exciting that probably won't work.

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Non U.S. dwellers: Does your perception of American society / lifestyle come mostly from American television and movies? Be as honest as you can. This is not a quiz for which you get a grade. It comes from various places. TV and movies account for some of it - but seeing as most British TV and movies aren't particularly good representations of life in Britain (I'm not sure where they were looking when they made "Four Weddings and a Funeral" and the like - nowhere near where I live that's for sure!) I do take them with a pinch of salt - I think I get a lot...

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How can we improve AB? I think there should be a "lock comment thread" option for the mods or the Community Leaders - so that if arguments get out of hand that particular comment thread is locked and the arguers have to take it outside - not censorship - just forcing people to take a step back and calm down. And there should be a seperate "chat" category so that the serious questions don't...

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Have you ever felt "stuck" in a relationship Every damn relationship I ever had made me feel stuck.

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Should women recieve less harsh punishment for crimes than men? No. Why would they?

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Do you like to work or would you rather not work and what would you do? If I could afford to I would never, ever work again. I'd spend my time doing bits and pieces, pottering about, doing a bit of writing, a bit of reading, maybe some painting, time with friends and family- maybe the odd bit of voluntary work when I felt like it.Work is the bane of my life - I hate it with a passion.

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Is it acceptable to have male friends while in a relationship? As long as they're *just* friends of course. (Most of my best friends are male and I certainly wouldn't stay very long with a boyfriend who had a problem with that.) I think you do have to accept that your relationship with friends might have to change a little when you enter a long term relationship and your new other half becomes more of a priority - you might see less of them,...

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Which pose in you opinion would take girl to reach her better and quicker climax.[Doggy pose or the missionary one?].. Women are all different. What works well for one of us will do absolutely nothing for another. There's no rules - which is why it's important to actually communicate with the person you're having sex with, rather than rely on books of sex tips and the like.

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What size should you buy if your rear is a size 7 and your waist is a size 4? For dresses and skirts buy the size to fit your waist but choose styles with full skirts (1950's style - it'll suit your figure much better anyway) so that they skim over your hips rather than having to fit to them. You can wear slimmer skirts (I suggest pencil skirts with fish tail hems) but you'll need to buy the bigger size and use a sewing machine to take the waist in a bit-...

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Are you over the age of 18, for real? Yes. Though I sometimes forget...

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What is the worst article of clothing or footwear you have ever bought? I bought a pair of PVC hotpants once. That was a really bad plan - they actually looked OK in an "I'm with the band" sort of way- but Jesus were they uncomfortable.

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Do you treat women differently based on whether or not they wear makeup? Not conciously.

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My friend insists that being gay is a choice. But why on earth would you chose to be among one of the most hated populations in America? will someone please explain this to me? I think perhaps if you are totally 100% straight it's sometimes very difficult to understand how anyone could possibly be any other way - the attraction to the opposite sex, and only the opposite sex feels so natural and normal that it seems as if to be any other way inclined needs to require some sort of concious effort. (A bit like how people who are very good at sport get frustrated...

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When it comes to applying makeup, is less always more? Not really. A lot of those "no make up" looks actually take more products and effort than the more conspicuous ones (I still can't get over how many guys I hear talking about female celebrities "I like her because she's natural - she doesn't wear much make up." and you look at the girl and she's clearly wearing tonnes of the stuff!). The trick with...

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One of my female friends told me that she will vote for Hilary Clinton just because she is a woman, what are your thoughts on this? I'm not going to lie - I would love to see more women in positions of power and responsibility. It gladdens my heart when I see women acting as strong, effective and honest leaders in roles that are traditionally thought to be male responsibilities. But I want women in power to be there because they're right for the job and because they deserve the position - if our friend is voting...

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Do you think Women should breastfeed in public places...i.e. walmart? Discreet breastfeeding versus screaming baby? No contest really.

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If my girlfriend is a virgin, would it be a bad idea for her first time to be against a wall, or should she be laying down? Ask her what she'd like. If one thing is uncomfortable you can always move during the process after all. You can give several things a go and see which suits you both. Just start gently if it's her first time, that's all.

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Do you like Greek food? Greek cuisine is my favourite after Moroccan - there's normally some good vegetarian choices, so that helps - but I just love all the juicy colourful veggies and the flavours and smells.

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On the Kinsey scale, 1 being exclusively heterosexual and 6 being exclusively homosexual, what rating would you say you were? About 3. Sometimes a bit less.

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What is the height of laziness? Buying ready grated cheese. Or ready mashed potato. I mean - do you want to pay someone to eat the food for you as well so you don't have to bother chewing?

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I've been curious about this. Hey you MEN out there, what is the difference between attractiveness, pretty, cute, gorgeous, beautiful, sexy, and good looking?? What is better (least-best order) and why? What adds to these attributes and what do YOU prefer Outer beauty is a lot easier to spot.

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Do you kiss on the first date? If I like them. If someone didn't kiss me on the first date I'd assume that they didn't want anything more to happen.

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Are you proud of being Americans, English or Australians? I'm not proud of being English - "pride" is a word I tend to associate with personal achievement, and it wasn't through any of my efforts I was born here. I'm quite pleased I was born here, the UK is a pretty good place to live - but I'm not proud as such.

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Women: Would you date a man with three children by three different women? Why or why not? Casually date maybe - but I'd be put off a serious relationship with someone who already had that many commitments he should be concentrating on.

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Have you ever been mistaken for a celebrity? What did you do? Not personally but my friend's Dad got mistaken for Pavarotti by autograph hunters at an airport. He signed the autographs and they went away happy!

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Have you ever dated a guy who had a mullet? I've dated several guys who had mullets during the eighties that thankfully were no mor eby the time they got to me! (photographic evidence of bad haircuts is always fun though)

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If someone used the term "Slut" towards you, what is your reaction? I usually thank them. It throws them if you act like it's a compliment (and 99% of the time it is thrown around out of jealousy anyway - a lot of women think a slut is anyone who has as much sex as they'd like to have.)

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Who do you find strangely good looking? Tony Slattery - I've just been watching old episodes of "Whose Line is it Anyway?".

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I love men, cocktails, and sex. Now what is so bad about that? Did someone say there was something bad about it? Are you putting gravy in the cocktails or something?

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My girlfriend is dating a guy that can only have sex to completion with a hand job and can't complete the act normally with her. Has anyone ever heard of that? YES!! I dated a guy like that once - blow jobs or hand jobs only - he just didn't seem to be that into penetration. I don't know if there's some kind of pschological root behind it, but just letting your girlfriend know that her boyfriend isn't the only one.

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I'm shy in bed and my husbad wants me to break out of it and be 'sexier' and more vocal. Any suggestions on how to be braver and wilder? It helps if you think about it in advance. So if you know your husband is coming home at 6pm, and you have the day off (for example) spend some time during the day going over in your head what you'd like to do with him when he gets back (you don't have to limit this to a day - if you plan over several days you can even buy yourself a nice little outfit to fit the fantasy) - be...

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Im 18 now and lost my virginity when i was 15. ive had 10 sexual partners (dont worry ive been safe!) but yet i feel i have no experience. im currently seeing someone and feel very shy int he bedroom, how can i over come this? You could sleep with hundreds of people and it still wouldn't necessarily make you any more confident about it - especially when it comes to sleeping with someone you really like. Experience isn't everything. I think I'd probably suggest taking things slow and relaxing together. Do things that are sexy but not necessarily sexual - like taking a bath together (dimmed lights and...

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I'm 25 years old, single and no kids, am I abnormal to some people? I don't know many people of 25 who *do* have kids.

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Do people think it's strange for a 29 year old female to still be single with no kids and live on her own? I would say that's a fairly common state of affairs.

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Should I shave my testicles? It may not be wise. My ex gave it a go once - and apart from looking a bit strange, when the hair started to grow back he really, really regretted it - that area can be sensitive at the best of times.

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What is a champignon? Mushroom. ....Je suis un champignon sur le pont de Avignon....

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What are some things that women can generally do better than men? Look good in a dress.

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Ted Hughes or Sylvia Plath? Elizabeth Barrett or Robert Browning? Sylvia Plath (actually Sylvia Plath out of all four - Ariel (the collection) is a real masterpiece) And Robert Browning: "My Last Duchess" http://rpo.library.utoronto.ca/poem/288.html (that's a recent discovery of mine) I could never get into Elizabeth Barret Browning's stuff somehow.

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Which DH Lawrence novel has Oliver Mellors as a principal character? That would be "Lady Chatterley's Lover".

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Who is your favorite artist? I like Edvard Munch a lot.

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How many clothes do you really need in comparison to what you have? I have too many of the wrong type of clothes. I have loads of stuff like cocktail dresses, fancy hats and bikinis that I hardly ever get to wear, and not enough everyday stuff.

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ARE MEN ASKING THER GIRLFRIEND FOR ANAL SEX GAY? No. Men asking their boyfriend for anal sex are gay.

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Woman, how do you like your men? I just like them....

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How easy is it to adopt a child in the uk?What reasons would they turn you down? I think you'd probably find this helpful: http://www.wigan.gov.uk/Services/HealthSocialCare/AdoptionFostering/Adoption/AdoptionCriteria.htm It seems that they don't necessarily have rigid target-type criteria - more that they judge on a case-by-case basis dependent on the prospectove parent's circumstances and the children they wish to place.

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Is love possible long distance? I think it really depends on the kind of person you are. If you tend to like to see your partner everyday, and need a lot of physical affection regularly, or if you are the type who find sit difficult to trust or gets jeaous easily - then it's probably not for you. However, if you're the more solitary type who likes to have a lot of time to themselves as well as with a partner,...

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How do you define the word slut? Can the word be applicable to both sexs? A slut in my humble little lexicon is someone whose sexuality is out of their own control. It's a bit like being an alcoholic - someone whose not an alcoholic, may well drink considerably more than an alcoholic - but the alcoholic is dependent - the non-alcoholic could stop if they wanted to.

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I've recently had a conversation with a working Mom who struggled with not staying home with her children. Have you felt guilty going to work and sending a semi-sick child to school? What do you do in this situation? Not personally, but friends have - most workplaces are quite understanding these days about people who have parenting responsibilities as well as work - if you're absolutely desperate they'll give you the day off as compassionate leave (there was a Dad at my last workplace who did this when his daughter had a bad ear infection).

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What can one do to change their life? A cliche but it often works: Try saying yes to something you'd normally say no to.

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Men are like parking spots, all the good ones are taken. True or False? You think you've found a good one then some flash bastard in a BMW pushes in front and nicks it... grr...

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What's a good vegetarian English recipe for people who generally dislike English food? It should preferably contain some Marmite, but that's not essential. Bubble and Squeak (you could put Marmmite in it if you wanted) http://www.anenglishmaninamerica.co.uk/british-bubble-and-squeak-recipe.php Toad in the Hole (just use veggie sausages, it'll be fine) It's a Delia recipe too!: http://www.deliaonline.com/recipes/toad-in-the-hole-with-roasted-onion-gravy,1030,RC.html

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Name one thing that you are not proud of that you have a great talent for? I'm quite a good liar. (though I don't take advantage of it *that* often)

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I am 29 and still get crazy pimples. I don't touch my face, so that is not the problem. I eat really healthy, so that's not the problem. Any idea how to fix me? See a doctor. If over the counter treatments and good diet aren't solving the problem by now then they're not going to. A doctor can prescribe medication which will help deal with the root cause of the problem and solve it for good.

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If you've ever known someone who was so envious of you that he/she bad-mouthed you every chance he got, how did you handle it? Yep that's happened to me. How should I have dealt with it in retrospect? Tried to be extra specially nice to her and everyone else just to prove her wrong. How did I handle it? By bad-mouthing her back to anyone who'd listen.

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Have you met that special someone? I meet special someones all the time... some more special than others.

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Are beauty pageants demeaning to women? Only if you take them too seriously. If both viewers and participants see them for what they are- a bit of innocent fun, and not a serious assessment of a woman's innate worth - then they're harmless. I think it's a bit redundant to argue that men ogling pretty women is "demeaning" - they're hardly going to stop it any time soon and why should they?

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What would your actions be(pretending your a parent) like if you happen to walk in on your son or daughter when they were "pleasuring themself"? I think I'd walk out again and try and pretend I hadn't noticed.

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Do vegetarians get meat cravings? I don't. In fact the idea of eating meat (and the smell of some of it) makes me feel quite ill. After a while to a lot of veggies the whole idea of meat becomes quite repulsive. Some veggies do crave meat apparently- particularly bacon - and some give in and go back to meat-eating- vegetarianism just doesn't work for everyone.

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What are some good Vegan dishes? Cashew nut stir fry: (in sunflower oil fry a mix of chopped veg and garlic plus cashew nuts, add sesame seeds and soy sauce and serve with rice) My chilli recipe is here: http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/86315 Also brill (and calorific!) chocolate mousse: Equal parts rice milk and sunflower oil - whisk together with an electric whisk. Add a big bar of vegan chocolate and a few drops...

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Does "boosh" sound like a compliment or an insult? I believe it's a goth haircut. In Birmingham.

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Girls, what is the greatest number of orgasms you have enjoyed in one extended session of stimulation and what was the special trigger? If it's really that good then I'm not counting.

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Are you fulfilling your dream in life, given up or still pursuing? Never had much of a dream to start with.

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Do we perceive the situation to always be better on the other side of the hill? Depends on the hill!

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Is it better to be a man or a woman in today's society? It depends where you live. In the west other than in a few select situations, it probably doesn't make that much difference. In certain other countries (like Afganistan) it's probably much better to be a man.

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What does your home look like? Do you like it? If not, what changes would you make? It's a very small one bedroom flat, but it's nice and cosy and has a fab kitchen and smells lovely.

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Why buy the cow when the milk is free? Because it'll save you mowing the lawn?

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How are people who are my age or close to it (I'm 29) feel about the current dating scene? It annoys me. I feel like there's too many people desperate to find their "life-partner" and not enough people willing to chill out and take things as they come.

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I'm an average looking middle-aged guy who's dating a couple of mid-twenties good looking women. Do you think it's only because I have a lot of money and buy them whatever they want? You know, I wonder why you feel like you have to your girlfriends "whatever they want"? Is it because you worry you don't have enough going for you unless you splash the cash around? The problem with that is you probably are going to attract golddiggers. I'm not saying these women ARE golddiggers - but it is possible. Believe me a lot of women in their twenties do find...

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Have you ever felt that insects were going to take over the world? Yep. So does he: http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=_IbyWxEq-0c

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Does anyone else here love blackpool? I love all British seaside towns. Blackpool isn't as good as Brighton, but it's still great, there's just something about being almost swept off a pier by wind and eating chips on the prom and slightly gaudy sideshows and amusement arcades that just has "Britain" written all over it to me - it's like a determination to enjoy your time off even if it is pissing it...

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Any Brits think the proposed ID card will be be just a harmless new bit of plastic in your wallet? Check out www.no2id.net I think they're a waste of money. I'm all for introducing necessary and proportional security measures to reduce any terrorist threats - but seeing as the London bombers were British citizens and it's unlikely that any ID card is going to bear the legend "Occupation: Terrorist." I think it's a slightly riciculous idea. My passport does the same job of proving my...

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Why do people die? Wouldn't it be just great if we could like infinitely until you DECIDE to die? Not really. What if you *decided* to die - and then changed your mind?

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What is worst thing about men? There aren't enough single ones...

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Is it possible to regain trust when your husband has been looking at nude images of women on the internet and storing them in his mobile phone. I feel so low as non of the images look like how I look now after having his children? I sort of agree with the other answers - just becaus ehe's looking, doesn't mean he doesn't want you, and you can't trust him. However, I do think maybe it's worth talking to him about how you feel - I don't mean going in to make him feel guilty, or in an accusing or agressive manner, or asking him to stop what he's doing - maybe just let him know that...

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How long have you been a internet user? Today, since about 10am, so an hour and a half. Apart from that - about 8 years?

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Can you please post a bigger version of your avatar, so we can actually see it? I tried, but it seems to get distorted when I try and make it bigger. My little lady is clearly at her best when just an inch high.

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If you have been diagnosed with any form of depression (including bipolar), what sort of non-medical things help you feel better when you're down? What kind of music, TV, or activities keep you from crossing into 'suicidal'? (My answer posted below.) I find the best thing is physical activity. Which is often the last thing you feel like doing when depressed - but going for a swim or a run seems to help.

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Would you rather have a coke/juice/beer/water when thirsty? Water. (I'm a cheap date)

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What is this song by pink? "Before you walked into my life..." Embarrassed that I know this, but it's called "You And Your Hand" (my sister's a fan OK?)

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My clothes have been in the drying machine for an hour now. I put it on every option possible (press care, normal dry, wrinkle release, damp dry) still the clothes aren't dry. They're not wet, they're just really moist and weird. WHAT AM I DOING WRONG? You might just have overfilled the machine - you need to give the hot air some space to circulate or it'll take forever to dry them - try taking some out and drying in two smaller loads.

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Does it really bother a woman for a man to read a book on how to pick up women? If so, why? I'd probably think he was a bit delusional ... it annoys me a bit when anyone thinks they can learn how to pick up a partner by reading a book.

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I have very skinny legs and calfs and have never been able to wear knee high boots does any one know where i can get a fashionable sexy pair of boots that will fit Boots are getting wider and wider and wider these days - partly because bigger women seem to have a louder voice when it comes to high street fashion (go figure...) and partly because of the fashion for wearing boots over the top of skinny jeans. It's so rare I find a pair of boots that fit close to my legs that when I do I buy them immediately! Anyway, my big tip is a company called...

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Do you read books one by one or can you read few books simultaneously? I can't read the same type of book simultaneously. I can have a novel on the go at the same time as something non-fiction though.

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If the happiest you have ever been in your life is rated 10, how would you rate your happiness now? 6-7 ish.

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What are your favourite religious themed songs? I'm not remotely religious, but Nina Simone's version of "Take Me To The Water" always reduces me to tears.

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What are 3 huge mistakes that women make with men in a relationship? Reading books that claim to tell them how to "manage" a man as if he's some kind of kitchen appliance. Playing games and not being honest about how they feel. Assuming that all men are the same and what works for one will work for all of them. (Although the last two apply equally to men in relationships!)

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What would u do when after three years of comited relationship, your girlfriend does not understand you whatever best possible way you use to make her understand? I think you're fighting a losing battle here. No-one, no-one, however close they might be to you - ever completely understands another human being. It doesn't matter what you do or what you tell them - they never fully appreciate where you're coming from or what it *feels* like to be you - that's just the nature of life.

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Even when I'm clean and relatively well dressed, people tell me I look like a student (total strangers volunteer this information, in fact). Without deliberately trying to make myself look older, how can I stop myself from looking like a student? To be honest it probably has relatively little to do with how you dress. It's just that generally people who are between the ages of about seventeen and twenty five often *are* students - the assumption probably has more to do with your age (or the age you look) rather than what you're wearing. I've never been the combat trousers and t-shirt type (I'm actually very well...

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This might be a dangerous question, please skip if offended: We know that most men think seeing two women 'together' is erotic. Are there any women who would consider seeing two men 'together' as "erotic" as well; or is there a true "double standard"? I find any two attractive people together erotic whatever their genders. I find seeing two attractive guys together sexy, and I find two attractive girls together sexy too- sex is just sexy... I think there are quite a lot of women who find homoerotica a turn on - it's just that most porn is aimed at a male audience, so we don't get to know about it as much.

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Has there EVER been a movie that was BETTER than the book? I think almost all Stephen King's books made better films than they did novels.

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Do you consider something described as "Vintage" to be good or bad? It depends what it is. If it's wine, clothes or interior design it's probably good. If it's a cabbage or a pint of milk it's probably bad.

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Communists killed more people (their own), three times as many in fact, than all those killed in domestic and international wars combined in the 20th century. Should they not be held accountable for this democide? I'm not quite sure how you would go about holding "Communists" accountable for that- you could hardly claim that everyone who ever held Communist related views necessarily had any direct responsibility for those atrocities. Then, if you were going to somehow punish "Communists" first of all you'd have to identify and locate this group (which might be a bit...

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My boyfriend doesnt admit (sometimes) when i noticed he was looking at other girls.. i felt he lied to me that he was looking at other things and i really got angry , when i told him to stop it, he sometimes starts a quarrel & say i misunderstood.. help? Listen. Guys look at other women. They just do, it's in their hormones, and most of the time they couldn't stop doing it if they tried - a lot of the time it's such a natural impulse they hardly even realise they're doing it - like scratching your nose, or fiddling with your bra strap. It doesn't mean he doesn't want to be with you, or that he would rather be with...

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My boyfriend doesnt admit (sometimes) when i noticed he was looking at other girls.. i felt he lied to me that he was looking at other things and i really got angry , when i told him to stop it, he sometimes starts a quarrel & say i misunderstood.. help? Listen. Guys look at other women. They just do, it's in their hormones, and most of the time they couldn't stop doing it if they tried - a lot of the time it's such a natural impulse they hardly even realise they're doing it - like scratching your nose, or fiddling with your bra strap. It doesn't mean he doesn't want to be with you, or that he would rather be with...

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Why do some men let their wives drive them around in the car? So they can drink generally, I think.

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If you could go to any fictional place where would it be? Oz.

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Ladies, would you/have you taken on your husband's surname? Why (not)? Men, do your expect your wife to take on your surname? Why (not)? I'd rather not have to change my surname - it sounds a bit inconvenient really, what with sorting out passports and stuff like that and having everyone at work emailing the wrong person - it just seems like more trouble than it's worth. I'd be tempted if the guy I was marrying had a particularly interesting surname (considering I currently have a very boring one), but still,...

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What's your favourite Cult Classic? (A show; a movie; even music; any great and/or unusual piece of media that you feel didn't get the mainstream appreciation it deserved) There's a band called The Tiger Lilies who I really love and deserve to be much more popular than they are - particularly due to atheatre production they got involved with based on another cult classic - Schuwwelpeter (better known as "Shockheaded Peter" - a book of German morality tales for the uninitiated.) If that appeals you should also check out Edward Gorey's work -...

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What birthday are/were you the least enthusiastic about reaching? I am freaking out a bit about how little time I have until I'm thirty. I just wonder where the past few years went because I swear it's only five minutes ago I was still sixteen!

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Who is Dr. Laura? You should probably have a look at her website: http://www.drlaura.com/main/ That's how I found out.

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Am I pretty? Could I be a model? How old do I look? (please don't give me the 'you're fine just the way you are' or anyhting like that... please!) 1) No idea. 2) Technically anyone can be a model- there's about a zillion different types of modelling: models used in prospectuses and holiday brochures are oftten fairly average looking, for glamour modelling a different body shape is called for than for fashion modelling, mainstream advertising tends to use the conventionally attractive, art photography is a wild card that can use...

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Women only: why do all women look for a men with looks and money over someone who would be loyal, kind and loving. Erm - we don't?

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Should they put a health warning on junk food? I think there should be more effort put into making people aware of how bad for them certain food is, and maybe a warning would be one way of doing it.

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In what Italian city is Shakespeare's 'Romeo and Juliet' set? Verona (You could probably have found that out by reading the play though...)

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Lights ON or OFF, Why? Lights dimmed preferably, but not off. I like to be able to see what I'm doing.

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How did you feel when you first had sex? Are you still with the same guy/girl? If not how soon after did they/you break up with you/them? My main thought was "Is that it?" - I'd heard so much about the whole losing virginity thing - that it really hurts, or you'll bleed loads, or it'll change your life - and people going on about how amazing sex felt - and the first time was just something of nothing really. We never really broke up as such, he just sort of disappeared off the face of the earth a few...

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Am I pretty? Could I be a model? How old do I look? You don't have to be "pretty" to be a model - you just have to have whatever look a certain person or agency or industry happens to be looking for at the time.

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If you could go back in time and ask a past lover one question, what would it be and how might the answer change your life today? "Will you please just get a job?" - maybe he would have done and we'd still be together... but probably not.

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First when was the last time you donated Blood? Secondly if I were to ask nicely would you please make arrangements at your next earliest convenience? You do realize it could save a life, don't you? It was about a year ago I think. I did try to a few months ago but they wouldn't let me because I hadn't had lunch (?). I will go again at some point soon.

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Are u a nice drunk or a nasty drunk I'm an embarrassing drunk. I try not to get drunk too often - it usually ends with me waking up somewhere I shouldn't.

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I really like the look of corsets, and I've noticed that a lot of stores (not lingerie stores) sell them as an every-day thing to wear. Any tips on how to make a corset top look cool and not trashy? I own a brilliant corset and love it to pieces - in my view they're best as underwear, not outerwear. The best way to wear one is under a shirt or dress that's unbuttoned very slightly just to show the "effects" of the corset and maybe a little of the decoration. If you must wear one as actual outerwear I would suggest you keep it for the evenings (during the day you...

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Ladies: If I cancelled a date with you when I came to pick you up, how would you react? How could I apologize? I would hope that you had a very, very, very good reason (something like a sick relative) for cancelling and an even better reason for not telling me sooner. If that's the case then phoning up, apologising profusely, turning up with a bunch of flowers, taking me out again and being extra especially nice would probably work. If you didn't have a good reasion, forget it mate,...

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Body builders, scantily clad men in women's mags, and men in gay mags so far as I have seen, are all shaved, oiled, and smooth. Yet most men are, to some extent, hairy. Do women prefer men smooth or hairy? On a personal level I can't say it's something that really comes that high on my priorities list - I suppose if someone was very very hairy that might be off-putting, but otherwise I have no preference. I know of a few women who dislike very hairy men, and some who say they prefer hair - I haven't yet met any woman who says they prefer men smooth - which is odd, as I've...

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If one could trade arms for wings would you do it? Why or why not? Maybe for a day or two, but not permanently!

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What can you do with a lime? Salsa: Handful of chopped spring onions, handful of chopped cherry tomatoes, small handful of chopped fresh coriander leaves, 1 chopped avocado, 1 finely chopped red chilli, teaspoon of sea salt and juice of a lime.

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What's the funniest AB comment thread you've ever witnessed or been a part of? Post link please. I just wanted to share this really: http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1517989

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In a restaurant would you discreetly remove a garment of underwear in order to gently tease your partner? Tried that once - it's kind of difficult to do without looking like you've got a problem. Better way is to just go on the date without your knickers and randomly announce it half way through the meal. Same results, less hassle.

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How old is cliff richard OH my god the categorisation of this had me in hysterics!

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How do 'adult' questions get answered if they don't come up with the rest of them? Like Carmella said people go to the adult category (link as pointed out by PrettyPirate). If someone on your friends list asks or answers a question there it'll also pop up in your profile, so some of them get answered that way. Also occasionally there'll be a link to something in the adult category from somewhere else on the site (blog, similar questions list, if you run a...

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If your 14 year old child was repeatedly having sex in your home at what lengths would you go to get this child under control? In all honesty, if I had a fourteen year old child I'd prefer them not to be having sex, but if they were I'd rather they were having it in my home than doing it somewhere else. I really don't think there's much that can be done to stop teenagers having sex once they've started, and coming down like a tonne of bricks is probably only going to make them more determined....

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What is the wildest article of clothing you own? I have a pair of black silk boxers with red hot peppers printed all over them i got as a gift. LOL can you beat that? PVC underwear set.

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Is a barber shop/strip club a good idea? The girls will cut your hair topless. Let me think this through - sharp implements, nipples ... not sure I'd want to work there...

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I have a gay best friend. He and I always go shopping and he picks out the best for me, I have always wondered where he gets all of that creativity and good fashion sense from? Any thoughts? Not sure - my best friend is gay and has crap dress sense! (well not crap, but he's the "if it's clean fling it on" type) I think appearance tends to be more important in the traditional gay community than with the average straight man though - so more gay men develop an eye for what looks good, what colours go together etc... Just a theory.

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Do you think a spelling checker would be a good idea on AB? I thought we had one. Isn't that the thing with the picture of the little yellow lorry?

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Ladies, how many toads did you kiss before finding your prince? Stll snogging amphibians I'm afraid - fresh candidates always welcome though...

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In all honesty, How many of you have MORE than one Avatar/account/profile on answerbag? I have another one but I've never used it. It was when I was having trouble logging on and I wondered if it'd let me log on as another user.

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What is your opinion about women stripping/exotic dancing as a profession? I thought about giving it a go for a while once - although I'm not entirely sure I'd ever go through with it. I have friends who are strippers and they seem to enjoy it - I think it's probably quite hard at times, especially if you're dealing with drunk customers or working in one of the seedier clubs- but if you're happy making money that way- there are probably worse...

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What do you owe to your fellow human beings? About £2500, one late birthday present, three e-mails, one phone call, two decisions and an apology.

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Do you have someone that you really want very badly, but just know you cannot have? (I am not talking someone famous, either, just an everyday type person.) If so what did you do about it? No. I tend to give up easily when it comes to romance (maybe too easily?) if I think I can't have someone I just forget about it.

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What do you do for a living if anything? At the moment mostly office temping - I'm having a break and re-thinking the whole career thing.

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What's the first word that comes to your mind when I say the word "Love"? run! run! RUN......!!!!

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When looking at the equality of the sexes, do you feel it means 'the same,' or does it have a different meaning? If not the same, please explain. I think equality amounts to equal oppurtunity and equal responsibility. I don't think that our designated "roles" in life should be determined by our gender. I think it's OK if a woman wants to take on a "traditional" role of being a homemaker, or a more "feminine" job (such as beauty therapy or nursing), but she shouldn't be pushed into those roles...

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Women: do you take a pregnancy test after every time you have sex? Should you? That would be slightly ridiculous, not to mention pointless. A pregnancy test taken directly after sex ould generally not be considered accurate anyway as the hormone levels wouldn't have changed by then. Plus if I'm in a relationship I sort of expect sex at least several times a week, so taking a test every time would be a bit OTT. I would only really take one if I missed a period...

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Can you do your own automobile repair or do you have to get a professional to handle it? Um... don't spread it about but I usually pull a damsel in distress act and persuade a man to do it.

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Do you use Yahoo Messenger? Yes I just started using it a few weeks ago (I have, like, three friends!) I'm still finding it a bit weird.

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There are reports that the socialized medical system in the U.K. is in danger of collapsing. I'd appreciate the opinion of Brits on this matter. What do you see "first hand"? It's supposedly been collapsing for the whole time I can remember but I went to hospital the other day and everything seemed fine.

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Doris Lessing is only the 11th woman to wind the Nobel Prize for Literature - are men better writers than women? Or has the Nobel Foundation been misogynistic for most of its history? Misogynistic might be a bit strong. Dismissive possibly. The thing is they can only choose winners from writers that they've actually heard of - and there have always been more published male writers than female ones. I think partly that's the literature - reading public's fault - whilst women tend to be very open to reading books by male authors, a lot of men seem not to want...

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Are you politically informed or just apathetic? I'm becoming gradually more apathetic. I used to be quite passionate about politics but I'm growing disillusioned with the whole damn thing - if there was an election tomorrow i don't even know who I'd vote for.

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Al Gore just won the Nobel Peace Prize, what do you think about that? Erm - I don't really understand. What's he won it for? Was it the global warming thing? Fair enough, but what's it got to do with peace?

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What is the most efficient way to get rid of belly fat so that your abdomen is flat? HELP PLEASE!! Getting rid of the fat can only be done by reducing your food intake (particularly getting rid of empty calories like white sugar and processed foods) and getting plenty of energetic exercise (running, swimming, dancing). Eat three healthy balanced meals a day, snack on fruit, veg or nuts rather than sugary snacks, and drink water instead of soft drinks. Avoid deep fried foods and if you must...

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In Ann Summers in chelmsford, can anyone under 18 go in and get served most of the items??what rules do they have about kids going in their? Most of the Ann Summers I've been in will allow anyone of any age into the shop, but they have an area at the back which is designated for Over 18's Only. So you could go in there and buy the underwear or clothes they sell in the front, but you probably wouldn't be allowed to buy porngoraphic material or sex toys (I don't believe there is actually a law about this, it's...

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Why are women incapable of enjoying sex? Why do they fear men so terribly? Somebody wants attention really, really badly....

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I am having an AB slumber party, what/who are you bringing over? face masks and nail polish - you can't have a slumber party without makeovers! (And chasing the boys and pinning them down so you can paint their toenails.. hehe!)

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Female friend that i have been talking to and hanging out with says she is very interested in "US"dating but she seems to always be too busy to return phone calls or text messages? Am I being played, is she scared or should I continue to pursue? It's virtually impossible to say from the information here. It's possible she really is busy or distracted at the moment (It happens to the best of us, I've got to phone my Mum later because I haven't got round to it in a week!), it's possible she's trying to play hard-to-get and taking it too far (in which case you playing hard to get is going to mean you never...

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What is the worst/funniest insult you have received on AB? I got called a "pompous feminist hippy" after saying that I didn't think that men were necessarily always better drivers than women.

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How do I deactivate some mean ABers? Who's being mean? That's not on. You can remove people from your friends list, or if someone has actually been seriously insulting you could drop a word to the mods using the Feedback link and see if they can do anything. Otherwise I think you have to just take it on the chin - we all run into it occasionally, goes with the territory.

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Is it stupid to text a girl at 11:30pm just to say goodnight? No I think that's OK. I think most girls would probably quite like it.

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What movie made you so mad you walked out of the theater? I've never actually gone as far as walking out but I was really tempted to walk out of The Beach because it made such a mess of interpreting a really good book. I was at a friends watching a film called "Kids" once and I had to leave the room because I just though it was so gratuitously negative - I mean I think it's OK to show rape on film, but you do have to make some...

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Is feminism to blame for the death of chivalry? No. There's some trivialised perverted version of feminism that says that men shouldn't offer to do things for women, or shouldn't treat them nicely - but that isn't, and never was, what feminism is about. Feminism is about giving everyone, regardless of their sex, the oppurtunity to live the fullest life possible, have the most choices possible, play an active part in...

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They stone me when I'm trying to be so good, they stone me when I'm riding in my car. But I would not feel so all alone, if everybody got stoned. Would you do me the honor and get stoned? I could, but you wouldn't like the results. I forget how to form sentences.

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Ladies: Does porn make you feel insecure? Not generally no. I mean, if a guy was sat watching porn while I was in the room and not paying me any attention, that would make me feel insecure. But in the general scheme of things porn is fine - in the right circumstances I even enjoy it.

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Have you ever had a stalker? If so how did you get rid of him/her? I did a few years ago, it was horrible - I told the police on several occasions but they weren't very helpful and just told me to keep a diary of what he did (gee thanks for that "16th October, psycho tries to break into my house..."), then I moved in with my boyfriend at the time just so I'd have someone with me in the house, then I went to my Mum's for a while -...

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If your husband was sending flirty e-mail's to a woman online, nothing sexual just flirty, and you came across them but he didn't know would you confront him about them? I'm not married, but if I was: I wouldn't confront him exactly (a bit of light flirting I think is fairly harmless as long as it's under control) but I'd let him know that I knew about them - Maybe just slip it into a conversation "Oh I saw emails from X - is she someone from work?" - and watch his reaction, then I'd hopefully know whether I had anything to...

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What can you do to reduce frustration, when things are not going as planned? I find doing something physically energetic helps - swimming is my favourite, but beating the cr*p out of a punch bag probably helps too.

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Do you ove the skin you're in? On a metaphorical level - most of the time yes. On a literal level it annoys me some of the time by being too sensitive so I have to spend half my life reading labels to work out which bubble bath is OK!

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Who likes boobs? They come in handy from time to time.

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Have you ever realised how useless you are? frequently

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If you weren't able to get online and "mysteriously disappeared" from AB for a while, which of your fellow AB'rs would miss you the most? That happened once. The first person to notice was Satine I believe.

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Women are better at satisfying other women orally. Do you agree or disagree with that statement? If you do, what advice would you give your man to "go down on you like a girl?" You'd think that would be true but I really don't think it is. Knowing what feels good on yourself and being able to reproduce it on someone else are two different things. The first time I ever went down on a girl I think I panicked more than I did with a guy - it was a bit "Ahhgh what the hell do I do with all that?!" - women's bits really are a lot less obvious than...

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What's the most random sentence you can think of at the moment? He spoke as she imagined a cat might speak.

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Describe the perfect you? If you make yourself into everything you wanted physically, mentally, socially, financally,etc., How would you be? Richer. Less bored. Nicer feet.

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Would you date someone 15 years older or younger than you? 10 years? 20? Why or why not? Ten years older no problem at all. Fifteen years - have done - probably would do again if I liked them enough. Twenty years - pushing it a little bit - might do for a casual thing but wouldn't want to introduce them to my parents! Younger is a bit out of the question seeing as someone ten years younger than me wouldn't even be legal in some countries! I do generally tend to go...

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A lady once complained that she fell into the toilet because her husband left the toilet seat up. Is this like walking into the door because he didn't open it for her? Eh? I can't see how anyone could fall into a toilet even with the seat up unless they had a very large toilet or a very small arse. It's a bit uncomfortable sitting on a toilet with no seat but I don't see how you could fall DOWN it.

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A lady once complained that she fell into the toilet because her husband left the toilet seat up. Is this like walking into the door because he didn't open it for her? Eh? I can't see how anyone could fall into a toilet even with the seat up unless they had a very large toilet or a very small arse. It's a bit uncomfortable sitting on a toilet with no seat but I don't see how you could fall DOWN it.

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Is anal sex meant to be pleasurable to women? I don't know about "meant" to be - but it definetly can be very pleasurable for women. Having something just randomly shoved up there is obviously going to hurt, but if you're turned on enough to start with and he takes it relatively gently then it can be a really pleasurable experience, partly because of the knock on stimulating effect on the vagina, and partly because of...

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Is there any women who actually like the taste of Semen......or is it COMPLETELY just to satisfy their lover? Some of it tastes alright. If a guy's been eating lots of sweet fruits it sometimes actually tastes quite nice (although you probably wouldn't want to eat a bowl of it with a spoon or anything)- but some guys taste better than others. I think a lot of us find having it in our mouths quite sexy even if we don't strictly like the taste. But honestly, women do like giving blow jobs...

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Are you naughtier here at Answerbag than in real life? I am ;) No. Other way around - I don't want to get banned!

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What holiday that you have never celebrated would you like to celebrate, and why? I think the Mexican Day of the Dead looks like fun.

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You do know that you're beautiful, don't you? Yep.

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Do you ever just want to have a great make out session? Kind of like when you were in high school(if you're not still)? Yes I do! I was thinking that just the other day actually - how just kissing someone used to be a really big deal and you'd go home all excited and a bit spaced out.

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I used a depilatory cream on my bikini area and looks like I shaved a few days ago on some areas because not all the hair was taken off... does this mean I need to leave it on longer?... or that this isn't for me? In my personal opinion depilatary creams offer relatively little advantage over shaving compared to a huge amount of extra effort. I've tried various different brands and techniques and the result is still generally the same - the results last only very slightly longer than shaving, you still get stubble, it's easy to miss bits and you often end up with a rash (particularly if you...

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Are you tired right now? Yes. And a bit hungover.

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Regarding men's fashions, if one wears colorful suits and coordinates the shoes, should the color of the shoes match the basic color of the suit, or the shirt or or what about the color of the stripes in the suit? It depends on the colour of the suit. If you're wearing a purple or green suit purple or green shoes are going to look a bit silly (not to mention quite difficult to locate). In general men ought really to stick to black, grey, navy or brown shoes with suits - and pick whichever of those colours work best with the colour of the suit (black is rarely wrong unless you're wearing a very...

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Does anyone else find it horribly ironic that I'm an expert in "High school" even though I was home schooled my entire life? Only about as ironic as me being an expert in job hunting.

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What qualities should the ideal man have? I wouldn't be naive enough to expect any man to be "ideal"! But a sense of fun goes a long way.

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What is a snails favourite outfit? shell suit?

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Out of the books you actually own, which do you consider the worst and which the best? Difficult question. Best probably Mary Shelley's Frankenstein. Worst, hmm, I give away most books if I don't like them - I have a dream dictionary that is kind of crap. Typical entry: "To dream of having an abundance of nice clean crockery denotes that you will be a tidy and economical housekeeper." Seriously - who dreams about crockery?

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WOMEN: what one thing do you wish men would REALLY 'get' about your gender? That we're not actually a different species.

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Would you go to a Gay Wedding? Have you gone to one? Yes I've been to one. Well, a "Civil Partnership Ceremony" - it was quite emotional because at the time the guys getting married were born, homosexual acts were still technically illegal in the UK - so it was lovely to see how far we've come.

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No Bush in the White House = No Fascism for America , how hard is that to understand? It's impossible to understand because it's a complete non-sequiter. Bush isn't a fascist. He may be a bit of an idiot, but he's not a fascist any mre than Hilary Clinton is a Communist - or, British equivalent, Gordon Brown is anything like Stalin. If people really thought about countries that have or have had real Communism or Facism then they'd realise that.

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Do you hire a maid to clean your house or do you do it yourself? I would love to be able to afford to have someone clean my house, but unfortunately I have to do it myself.

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Are there any naked pictures of you in this world? I think there may be more naked pictures of me than clothed ones.

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Two Part Question: Guys: How do you feel about donating to a sperm bank? Ladies: How do you feel about your boyfriend/significant other doing this? I'd be rather proud of him. More men should do it.

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Is it true that most women are nice to men, when they want something or it's in their best interest to be nice? Erm - generally I'm nice to everyone unless they give me some reason not to be.

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Do you respect people who go to bed with you on the first date? I don't consider it a reason to disrespect them.

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After how long should women start sharing the cost of the date? My personal rule is that I always offer to pay my share right from the beginning - but if the guy wants to pay I let him as long as he wants to. I just think it's good to show that you're at least willing to pick up your own share.

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Oh My God! What happened to you? I cut my foot and had to have a tetanus jab. It was most unpleasant.

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I really need to lose about 30lbs and tone up a great deal, but it seems like I have a food addiction. I never feel full and crave sugary foods constantly. What can I do? It's difficult to tell exactly what the problem is from here but I have a few suggestions that may help: - concentrate on exercise as a way to lose weight, rather than diets. In general it's easier to form a habit than to lose one, so starting to jog or swim a few times a week will probably be easier for you to do than to try to cut out your sugary stuff. - Try slightly healthier...

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I confess I look at porn as much as my boyfriend. Does this put me in the minority? You and me both sweetheart... Actually, for what it's worth, I think most women *would* like porn if they knew what was out there - it's just that our first impression of porn tends to be a group of teenage boys watching something cheesy with bad beards and human barbie dolls, or something with a particular bizarre fetish - so it's not surprising most women don't want any...

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Answerbag has failed to satisfy me of late. Should I switch over to Yahoo! Answers? Tried that once - yahoo answers is a very irritating place, it kind of made me want to kill people, which AB generally doesn't do.

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If Johnny Depp made Sage, would you congratulate him? Johnny Depp is an Answerbag member?

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Is it bad when ur married that u have sexual thoughts about another man? preferably an Ex that u never had sex with b4? I think it's fairly normal to have occasional sexual thoughts about someone other than your partner - we all have hormones after all, and sometimes they do their own thing. As long as you don't act on those thoughts it's probably best just to let them be and not worry about it too much.

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Is it acceptable to post nude picture on AB4Adults? If so would any of you ladies like to allow me to drink in yer loveliness? Before I get penalty boxed I want you to know I was bullied - ahem - talked into this! (please ignore tan lines.)

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Do you like having music in the background while having sex? If so, what do you listen to? If no, why not? Kind of I do. I once had a very hot sweaty and slightly violent one night stand with someone I had a love-hate relationship with and Nine Inch Nails "Sin" was playing in the background - I still find that song really sexy.

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What is the scariest thing that can happen on this site? Pirate takeover. Don't say I didn't warn you.

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Can you fracture a testicle? There's no bones or solid hards bits in them to break (which is what a fracture is) You could crush one or rip one off (ow) but not fracture one.

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What country did your ancestors come from? Where did you end-up? As far back as I can be sure of it: Scotland on my Mum's side. A mixture of Ireland and Portugal on my Dad's side. I ended up in Wales.

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Do you curl or straighten your hair? Both from time to time - it curls easier than it straightens though.

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What music are you listening to RIGHT NOW? Lush - Ladykillers - I'd forgotten how much I liked it actually! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aReEwt_Z0kU

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Have any of you tried to use a depilatory cream on your genital area? Well, I think I'm gonna try it... wish me luck! Arrggghh! No!!! Don't do it!!! It will really really sting! Plus it stinks. And it's not even that good at removing hair (especially thick hair like you probably get down there). Noooo....

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If they were to make Lesbian Barbie, what would happen to Ken? (seriously, a joke and take as such please) Barbie *is* a lesbian. Ken hasn't got any proper "man bits" anyway. EDIT: Told you so:

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People are happy lots of the time - so why are there less happy poems than sad ones? I think I agree with the others a bit. When we're happy we tend to be out in the world living, whereas when we're sad we get a bit more introspective (I know there are exceptions here, but as a general rule it's probably true.) Also I think that old thing "when you laugh the world laughs with you when you cry you cry alone" is true here. When you're sad and lonely...

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What are some really fun ways to exercise? Flamenco dancing is brilliant - you don't have to be a great dancer to enjoy doing it, it's brilliant fun. I also went to a pole dancing workshop a while ago (with my mother no less!) which was hilarious although really hard work. Any kind of dancing, I think is good fun exercise. Doing any kind of exercise with company is good too - going jogging with a friend is much more enjoyable...

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What poets do you dislike? Why? Wordsworth. I just can't stick him - I don't know if it's the sentimentality about nature (although funnily enough I don't mind Coleridge half as much) but there's just something unshakably cheesy about him.

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Does anyone else find that people with English accents sound so classy. Other accents too, other than the US? Umm... you haven't heard me speak yet have you?

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Any good ideas for a modern-day vampiress costume for Halloween? If you've got a little black dress and some knee high boots or pointy heels try teeming them with some fishnets and chunky silver jewellry. Then maybe make yourself a simple little short red cape out of some netting or silky material and finish it all off with a pale painted face (using white eyeshadow as powder will work) bright red lips, lot of black eyeliner and if you can keep them in...

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What kind of M & M are you? Go to http://www.quizilla.com/users/Mollyroxsox/quizzes/What%20Kind%20of%20M&M%20are%20you?/ and post your answer here I wish I hadn't done that. I'm a mini M & M. It says I have a tiny brain!

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I'm making a packing list for university. What should I include? Bottle opener/ corkscrew wok (woks are the best cooking equipment you can have, you can cook anything in them) spatula or wooden spoon and a couple of sharp knives A decent cookery book (if you learn to cook you will never be short of friends!) A few bowls, plates, mugs and glasses Lots of underwear and socks A very warm jumper a blanket and some bedding if it's not provided for you...

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What do you find more attractive a circumsized or uncircumsized penis? Not fussed really. I don't think it makes much difference.

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Do you think that people who are very self confident are just using that confidence as a facade to cover up their inherent insecurities? I know I fake self-confidence a lot - sometimes if you're feeling insecure the best way to get over it is to act like you're fine, then people will respond to you as they would a confident person and that increases your actual confidence. As long as you don't over-do it sometimes fake confidence can be a positive thing. I read something in an Elizabeth Wurtzel book: "I...

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Have you ever been to the cinema by yourself? All the time. I prefer going by myself, because I can see whatever I like, don't have anyone trying to talk to me and no-one tries to rush me out before the credits have finished. I don't see why people feel they have to have someone with them to go to the cinema - it's not like you can have a conversation in there.

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AAAaargh I have just found some grey hair on my head! Im only 32 ! Im devastated please console me... Have you got any? 32 and you've just found your first? You're doing well - I had them when I was 17 (hence ridiculous amounts of hair dye in my bathroom!)

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Do my T-shirt sayings, bumperstickers, signs etc. amuse you? Are any being over-used to death? Ya got any I can refresh my collection with? No clue? See examples below, and be sure to click on them to see them well! I actually seriously might buy this t-shirt:

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My toaster hates having toast put in it. Is my toaster a lesbian? There's a country and western song in there somewhere.

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Who is your fashion icon? Dita Von Teese or Bettie Page mixed in with Audrey Hepburn via Siouxsie Sioux. Or something...

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Do you get jealous when the guy you like flirts with another girl? Only if he does it constantly with the same girl - otherwise, not hugely.

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Is there a liberal bias in the media? I think conservatives will always see a liberal bias and liberals will always see a conservative bias. Really, it just depends which bit of media you're talking about.

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What is one thing you hate that EVERYONE else loves? (For instance: Chocolate, Christmas, the color blue, etc.) Cream cakes.

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Excluding anything sexual or romantic, do you prefer to hang out with your own sex or opposite? Both really I'm comfortable with males and females. Having said that I would love to have more female friends - most of my close friends are guys, and whilst I love them dearly sometimes it'd be nice to be able to go shopping with someone who understands why Christian Bale is hot, gives me an honest answer to "Does my bum look big in this?" and doesn't cringe when I...

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Who wants to join the official Pirate-Bagger fan club? Any Lilly Livered Land Lubbers care to join too? I knew it. The pirates are taking over...

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How to stop pimple problem ,,, some simple tips other than cosmetics or creams 1. visit the doctor. If you have moderate to severe acne it could be due to a hormonal imbalance, which can be treated with medication if necessary. 2. Stop eating processed foods - including white bread and white pasta. Acne is virtually unheard of in cultures where they don't eat processed foods. 3. Eat a generally healthy diet and drink loads of water - it won't cure your pimples...

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Tell us a random fact about you. I was conceived in Casa Blanca

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I question the reliability of Wikipedia, for anyone can add information to this site and some intentionally insert the wrong information.I have looked up information from other sources and have found discrepancies.Do you rely on Wikipedia for infomation? I tend to use it as a first port of call to get the gist of something- say if I wanted to know about the Cultural Revolution in China - I'd call in at wikapedia to find out what it actually was, and get the basic gist which would help me understand other information - then I'd get some books from the library to look into it in more depth.

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What strange thing can you do with your body? I can do the lotus position which freaks out some people a bit. I can also lick my own nipples (and I bet you just tried it too!)

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What is your favorite Subway sandwich? I don't eat that kind of rubbish. It's just naff fast food in disguise.

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Do you put lotion on after you shave or get out of the shower? What kind do you use? I use bath and body works vanilla sugar body butter! Either Cocoa Butter or Dream Cream from Lush at the moment.

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Do you agree that many youngsters do not have much regard for traditions these days? At my writing group the other night an elderly lady with an accent that suggests a very traditional upbringing read a wonderful article she'd written called "Things ain't what they used to be." She talked about how schools once were very insistent on teaching the ten commandments, and every child was supposed to be able to recite them by heart, and at the same time the...

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What did your grandfather do for a living? Mine- Real Estate Agent One was an RAF pilot and later a lecturer in something to do with Aerodynamics. The other was a steel worker.

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What was the first foreign country you visited? Portugal.

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WYR: Would you rather walk in on your parents making love? Or Would you rather have your parents walk in on you making love? I know it might be washed up, but its a toughy. It would be very unlikely that I would walk in on my parents having sex- at least with each other - and horrific as it would be I'd much rather be the one doing the walking in (I'd probably just walk straight out again and pretend I hadn't noticed!)

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About how long do couples generally date before getting engaged? I don't think I would consider myself to know anyone well enough to agree to marry them until I'd been in a long term relationship with them for at least a few years. That way you know for sure that you can still bear to be with someone after the initial honeymoon period has worn off. I also think couples should live together for at least a few months before marriage to make sure...

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Why don't ABers use internet symbols? (ty, plz, etc.) cos we fear the wrath of bob blaylock.

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What do you eat, when you want something sweet? mango, pineapple or strawberries. Fruit rules.

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There are two bodies on the floor. They are surrounded by water and broken glass. How did they die? Goldfish bodies. Bowl fell off table.

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Do Atheists give their children Christmas presents? Generally yes. Christmas isn't just a Christian festival - it has Christian elements but the festival itself is a whole mishmash of origins. Christmas is more cultural than it is religious - I know Muslims who celebrate it.

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How and where can I find a photographer who takes professional, decent and tasteful naked photos of people in England? First port of call I'd have a nosy around netmodel.com and purestorm.com - they're model sites but there are photographer profiles on there as well and you can find out their website and contact details from there. (You can also google "glamour photographers" + your location but this is a bit more hit & miss and it could throw up some dodgy people - the advantage of...

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Do you recycle? Do you believe your efforts make a difference? Yeh I do - I'm not convinced it even ends up in the recycling plant all the time, but it doesn't cost me anything so I figure I may as well.

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Does anybody actually appreciate it when churches who send their members door to door come knocking? (excluding people of the same religion) If there is anyone I haven't met them. I actually think it's counterproductive because I get annoyed with whoever's calling and end up thinking worse of whatever religion than they probably deserve. I just see my home as my personal territory and I don't appreciate anyone invading it uninvited - if I get the urge to find out more about a religion I'll go and ask.

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How do you get your "quick release" from a stressful day at work? Generally I go for a swim to get the wound-up edge out, then I go home for bath and wine and music.

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How far do you drive to buy groceries? I don't. I walk to the grocers and I grudgingly order what I need from Tesco online and get a delivery.

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Have you ever heard a strangers voice on the phone and instantly found it sexy? It used to happen loads when I worked as a hotel receptionist - it was almost always disappointing when they actually showed up!

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What is one big lesson you have learned in life? Always have a Plan B.

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What's your favorite font? Verdana www.bancomicsans.com/

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Will you go to google.com images http://www.google.com/imghp and type in a random word that pops into your head, then post the #1 picture and tell us what the word was? bored...

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Diets are? Counter-productive. Diets are all about punishing and denying yourself (whatever the blurb designed to sell them claims) and if you hate yourself you'll never be gorgeous. Enjoy good food and enjoy being active - it's much more attractive.

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You have a sexual and/or romantic interest in someone. What do you do? a) Nothing b) Throw yourself at them c) Run & hide d) Reach out and get to know them and develop a friendship first e) Other Usually a mixture of B)with variable degrees of sucess and E) get drunk, make an idiot of myself and mess the whole thing up.

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Have you ever peed somewhere besides the bathroom? Yes. Admittedly it's not quite as easy when you're female, but sometimes needs must.

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Is it best to admit to cheating or keep quiet? Especially if you know your partner will break up with you when they find out. If it was just a stupid one off mistake and you know there's no way your partner will ever find out I think it's generally better to keep it to yourself. I think a lot of people who cheat try somehow to make it better by telling their partners so they can tell themselves "Well at least I was honest about it." - unfortunatly all this really does is transfer all your guilt and...

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How many people are not wearing jeans at this moment? I'm not.

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Whos the best looking celebrity that pops into your mind right now? i think Miley Cyrus Edward Norton :¬)

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What does ''droll'' mean? What do you think it sounds like it means? I always thought it meant "funny in a way that's clever but doesn't really make people laugh." I only ever hear people use it in a sarcastic way. Maybe people think it means boring because it sounds a bit like "dull".

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Are some of you folks tryin' to drive me MAD(DER)? I know I've changed me avatar and user name a bit but ye can find me! Others seem to revel in changin' so dang much I think yer new then discover yer in my friends list! ;-{D~ My avatar seemed to be so incredibly popular when she made her first appearance I wouldn't dare change her now. I know though - my friends list changes every day without me even touching it.

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Do you like experimental novels? If so, what ones have you read? What made them "experimental"? I like novels to have a story and I like something to happen during the course of them - I read primarily to be entertained, not to be impressed so I find novels written purely as self-concious experiments (and novels that clearly involved too many drugs in the production process!) to be a bit boring and annoying, not to mention pretentious. However (now I sound pretentious myself - crap!) I...

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I write fan fiction and i have writers block how can i get rid of it? I've tried everything hot baths reading dissing myself on paper I need help I don't generally write fan fiction but when I'm having trouble with the stuff I do write I often find that writing something like fan fiction or cheesy erotica or children's stories sometimes helps, because I can relax as it's not my "real" writing - and then it gets me going again and gets rid of the block - maybe this could work for you if you try writing...

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Which would be the most hated profession? traffic wardens.

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Do you have a credit card? No. I don't trust myself enough.

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Do you like the taste of beer? Depends on the beer. I don't like lager but a bit of proper British real ale is nice. I prefer whiskey or wine though.

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If Captain Jack shows up at your door asking to "borrow" a cup 'o rum, what would you do? Well I don't have any rum. But he could come in anyway.

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What is the closest thing to you right now that is alive? rubber plant

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How can I get rid of dark shadows under my eyes? I have this problem too - no matter how much sleep I get. I can tell you something that works for me, but I can't for the life of me explain WHY it works, it just may be worth a try - eat quinoa. A few years ago I discovered quinoa when I was on a weird diet phase and started eating a lot of it - my dark circles seemed to disapear - I put this down to the whole diet and coincidence at the...

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I just finished lunch ( cream of celery soup over toast) I realized this is really strange combo, but I have been eating this since childhood, are there some food combinations that are :off the wall" that you eat? When I was a child I refused to eat my Sunday roast without tomato ketchup. I confess I still quite like the taste of boiled veg with tomato ketchup.

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I need to get some volume in my hair, it's washed and dried, but it's gone flat and floppy for some reason, it doesn't usually. Any tips? Nothing seems to be working and I'm going out soon, need to get ready now! Spray with water, or if you can get any, scrunch a load of mousse through it then tip your head forward and dry it with your head upside down sort of fuzzing it up with your hands as you go.

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If you really were what you eat... what would you most likely be? A pina colada. I eat a lot of pineapple and coconut.

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Ladies: What are your thoughts on male smokers? It doesn't really bother me as long as they don't smoke in the car with the windows closed.

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When you see the swastika, do you think of Hindus or Nazis? Why? Of course I do. I do know that the symbol has other origins, but Nazism is such a major part of Western history I don't know how anyone could honestly not associate it with the Nazis.

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When you see a pentagram, do you automatically associate it with Satanism? I generally associate it with Wicca or Paganism more than Satanism.

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My wife and I are expecting another baby soon. With so many names out there, we are bewildered. Do you think it's better to stick with traditional names like Robert and Sarah or choose trendy ones like Arizona and River? I think it's important to choose a name a) that you like and b) that won't get your child bullied at school. You also need to consider whether the initials spell anything rude, whether the first name goes with the surname (you don't want to call your child River if your surname is "Bottom"!) and whether you might accidently be naming them after someone famous (I went to...

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Trotsky/Sak thinks I should just go away, he wants me off AB, should I go, or should he go? I think maybe you should just avoid each other. Less stress.

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What does kissing facial hair feel like? Do you or do you not enjoy it? It's OK. I mean I've never kissed a guy with a big David Bellamy beard and I'm not sure I'd want to, but if it's a goatee it just feels a bit rough when it brushes your chin or cheek - it's kind of sexy if you're really into someone.

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What's your favourite song about war? (I can be an anti-war protest song, a song glorifying soldiers and war, or just a song offering an indifferent commentary on the subject) Maybe The Tiger Lilies - War. I love the line "Do you ever wonder why nothing changes if you die?" I don't really know what it's about, it's just a bit crazy. Couldn't find a recording on line, so enjoy this instead: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r7P2xTxCS_Q

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Are Allen Ginsberg and Santa Claus the same person? Yes. But if I told you how I know I'd have to kill you.

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Who sang the song "I will be king you will be queen, we will be heroes." This is the Starz channel's ad on TV ......... it sounds like U2 but I am not sure. What's the name of the song? David Bowie. It's called "Heroes"

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What is the spanish word for onions? Cebollas

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How can u tell someone is a lesbian without askin? Because all their internal organs fall out.

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What song do you hate so much you cannot physically listen to? Whitney Houston singing "I Will Always Love You." All that warbling - it's not good for you.

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How many pairs of underwear should you take with you on a one week vacation? Depends where you're going. If I'm going somewhere with a washing machine I usually take about four or five and then wash some mid week. If I'm going to be going out in the evenings I'd take a few extra. If there's no washing machine then eight or nine is good - one for each day and a couple just in case someone steals one (or any other emergency!)

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Whats the current minumum wage in london? The minimum wage for people age 22 and over is is £5.35 an hour but on 1 October it will go up to £5.52. The rate for 18-21 year olds is currently set at £4.45 an hour to increase to £4.60 The rate for 16-17 years olds is £3.30 an hour to increase to £3.40 an hour.

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What is the most embarrassing thing that has happened to you during sex? This may be a bit gross - just to warn you: I was having a fling with this guy who I was really into but was really busy so most of our relationship consisted of having sex in a van on his lunch break. Unfortunately one time the frenzy of this caused me to forget I was on a period and had a tampon in. The result being that during sex the tampon got pushed in and - um - got stuck - there was...

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What is the most embarrassing thing that has happened to you during sex? This may be a bit gross - just to warn you: I was having a fling with this guy who I was really into but was really busy so most of our relationship consisted of having sex in a van on his lunch break. Unfortunately one time the frenzy of this caused me to forget I was on a period and had a tampon in. The result being that during sex the tampon got pushed in and - um - got stuck - there was...

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Marylin Monroe, or Audrey Hepburn, what's your personal preference? Audrey Hepburn. I like both - both were incredibly stylish and beautiful and very underated actresses - but Breakfast at Tiffanys is such a gorgeous film it has to be Audrey really.

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What is the wierdest thing that has woken you up? The tide coming in.

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WHATS UP WITH PAYING TAXES? AND WHY DO THEY TAKE IT BEFORE WE CAN EVEN GET IT? THATS LIKE THEFT. IS ANYBODY WITH ME? If we didn't pay any taxes there would be no public schools (so only people who were lucky enough to have rich parents would get any education at all - including learning to read). If you needed emergency healthcare and were unfortunate enough to be unemployed at the time, there's a good chance you wouldn't be treated. Roads everywhere would be in a state of disrepair and those...

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Looking for some inexpensive meal ideas. Our family is dealing with college students/financial set-back/etc and we're trying to cut back expenses. I thought I'd look to you smart & innovative ABers for some answers:) How about it--good eats for cheap? Homemade vegetable or bean soups are brilliant - you can put almost anything in them. I tend to use tinned beans, pulses or lentils as it's quicker, but if you have time to leave them soak, dried pulses are even cheaper. You'll have to use your common sense regarding how long you need to leave things cook - tomatoes obviously cook very quickly, whereas potatoes will need to simmer for...

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If I was to make a formal apology to ALL the baggers I've confused the heck out of, would you forgive me? Would I EVER finish? Why would you apologise? I quite like being confused.

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4 all the ladies out there, is 9 inches or more necessary? ive watched some porns of black guys with 9, 10 ins and a lot of times the girls cant even handle dat, i think its more about the ''thought'' of trying to have something that big, what do u think? Nooo. It really is what you do with it - you could have a massive penis and still be crap in bed if you're not using it right. One of the best guys I ever had only had about six inches - he was just really good with it - plus there's more to sex than just sticking it in and grinding away. I think most women would rather have a guy with an average size dick who was really good with his...

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Our beloved Capt. Jack Sparrow has just made Brain. How shall we celebrate? Who's bringing the rum? Oh. Did I miss the party?

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Have you ever been hit in the face with your own boob? No. I don't think they're big enough.

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Do you think one gender has more left handers than the other? Let's see how it is for AB. Are you left handed or right handed and what's your gender? I can use both.

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Is pasta really that bad for you? It really irritates me when people claim that perfectly healthy foods are somehow "bad" for you. I eat lots of pasta. I'm thin, I'm healthy, I have loads of energy - the people that tell me things like "ooh you can't eat pasta/ potatoes/ rice/ fruit, that's really bad." are invariably fat and spotty. It's a hell of a lot better for you than some...

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Why do people willingly miss the joy of having children? Is it a matter of selfishness? Mark me down if you wish, but I truly would like to know. I can honestly say I have never felt the slightest inclination towards having children. Don't get me wrong - I don't dislike children - I feel the same towards children as I do adults - some I like, some I don't - and I do recognise that it's a good thing for them to exist - it's just that I've never felt any particular maternal instinct myself. It's the...

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For Women: Which prefix, if any, do you use: Ms., Miss, or Mrs.? If I have to fill it in on a form I tick Ms. - I find people sometimes take me less seriously if I use "Miss" - but I'll answer to all three and I don't get ratty about it.

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Do u think it is harder to be a stay at home and take care of the kids 24/7 and cook and clean and shop or to go out and work every day for 8 hours? If the kids are young probably the former - if the kids are school age then definetly the latter. I can't believe anyone stays at home all day when their kids are at school and still claims they have it harder than someone who works for a living. (and it annoys me that there's a tabboo on suggesting that SAHM's are anything less than self-sacrificing angels incarnate) Even if...

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What song is truly a piece of art? "Land" Patti Smith

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Women: Do you like wearing make-up or do you prefer the natural look? I like make-up. I still feel a bit like I'm playing dress-up in Mummy's bedroom - I find putting on make-up really good fun and I love messing about with different colours and ideas and just being a bit creative with it all - I'm the same with clothes - I wear a lot of vintage stuff because really I'm still playing dress up and I like creating something distinctive. ...

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Have you ever read anything by Salman Rushdie? If so, what and did you like it? I tried to read Midnight's Children a couple of years ago but in all honesty I found it impossible to get into. I was disappointed because I'd seen interviews with him that really interested me - I may try reading one of his others at some point to see if I have more luck.

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Ladies, what age did you start shaving your legs ? I am just waiting for my 11yo dd to ask..(she hasnt yet though..) I was thirteen when I first did it properly, although I remember being paranoid about it from the age of about nine (I'm a brunette with very pale skin so leg hair was kind of obvious). When I was around eleven my Mum bought me some little things called "Silkymitts" which were basically very soft sandpaper that you can use on small areas of skin to sand off soft hair - so...

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Ever treat yourself to a full-body massage by a licensed massage therapist? All the time - my mother is a massage therapist.

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What exactly is so great about sliced bread that every new concept and invention should be judged againts its standard? Sliced bread is really, really good. I went through a stage a while back of baking my own bread. Whilst this made me feel very proud of myself there was a major anticipated problem when I tried to slice the stuff - no knife is ever quite right for cutting bread. It's impossible to cut in a straight line - you end up with it thick one end and trailing of into waffer-thin at the other...

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Do you think Hillary Clinton would be where she is today if not for her husband? Yes. But I don't think her husband would be where he is today without Hilary Clinton.

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Don't you fear that when you go out in the morning maybe it's last time when you see your love? I occasionally worry that about my parents - mainly because I don't see them that often - but I try not to think about it too much. It's something that starts to hit you a bit when you reach your mid-twenties - it suddenly dawns on you that your Mum and Dad aren't going to be around forever and you start to worry about them a lot, particularly if their health isn't great -...

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Does it ever sadden you when you get close to the end of a book that you have really enjoyed and being completely immersed in? Sometimes. It happened to me with Dodie Smith's "I Capture the Castle" - I felt like the narrator was my friend by the end of it and I was really upset that she'd stopped talking to me.

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Do you think sex, tattoos, & the WHOLE rebel phase teens now-a-days are doing, is OVER-rated, too? Nowadays? As far as I'm aware teenagers have always had sex got tatoos and been rebellious - Teddy Boys, Mods and Rockers, Punk - if anything teens these days are disappointingly tame by comparison.

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If Answerbag was to charge a montly rate for a user to be on Answerbag, would you still be here? Not a chance. The minute I see that a site charges for use is the minute I leave.

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What gives you the will power to loose weight? Also what helps you keep it off and staying healthy? One thing I always say to people trying to lose weight is that it's generally easier to find the willpower to exercise more than to eat less. That's not to say that you should be stuffing yourself with chips and cakes of course - but taking up something new (exercise) is more exciting than having to stop doing something you already enjoy. So I would suggest making exercise the focus...

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Was Curt Cobain killed himself or he was murdered? The guy wanted to call one of his albums "I Hate Myself and I Want to Die." so I tend to think suicide is a fairly likely contender.

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Have you ever sent a picture of you being naked to total stranger? If they were a total stranger I wouldn't know where to send it to would I?

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Have you entered a place that charged admission without paying? Yes. By be-friending a Z list celebrity.

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I am in a stable relationship now and have been for a year. But all my life i have always been scared of giving head to a man, it just makes me feel sick. I want to make my man feel good, btu how can i overcome this? Ok. First of all you need to work out what it is that's making you not want to do it. If it's the thought of swallowing or having his come in your mouth, you don't necessarily have to do that. You can alway give head for a bit and then move on to full sex before he comes, or let him come on your chest instead - there are ways around that. If you don't want it shoved down...

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What is a vegetarian equivalent of orange Wine Gums? There are some you could try here, although none that really hit the wine gum thing: http://www.sweetsforu.co.uk/index.php?cPath=54_47 It's a bit annoying because there are plenty of vegetarian alternatives to gelatin (agar agar which comes from seaweed does exactly the same job) but most companies won't use them. I don't really eat sweets any more (too good!) but I do...

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What word like "cool", "awesome", etc. do you say when you like something? Class

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Why do all of the hero's in storys, legends and fary tales dont have parents? Cant a person who doesnt lack parents achieve grate things in life? (from Spiderman and Batman to PeterPan or even Hercul you name them.. they dont have parents) A lot of fairy tales and stories are allegories - often for the process of growing up facing your demons and becoming a fully formed person. If you take the parents out of the picture you force your hero to be alone in the world and so grow up quicker and make decisions on their own without anyone to talk them through it - it helps to portray the idea of the child on the cusp of adulthood...

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What's the worst thing you've ever done for money? Been a waitress.

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What occupation is the sexiest? Policemen. Preferably lots of them.

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In how many languages can you count to three? Four. English, Spanish, French and Welsh.

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What is your history of intimate relationships.....common theme is.....a)crummy b)stuck or c)outrageous? (nb: include your current relationship, if in one.) I always seem to be the re-bound girl. You know how people split up with someone they thought was the love of their life and immediately afterwards go out with someone incredibly different from their ex for a few weeks before either going back to their ex or reverting to type? I am that someone else.

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What are the most common myths about Gays/Lesbians put out in the public domain? That if you introduce one gay person to another gay person they will automatically get together/ get on. (Overheard girl in a club once "Oh you should come and meet my friend, he's gay too!")

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I have VERY straight hair!! It is right above my shoulders and I can't really find a way to wear in it a style. Anybody got any ideas? If I was you I would think about getting a different cut. If you want to keep the same length I'd ask the hairdresser to put some choppy layers into it, possibly with some highlights, lowlights or coloured streaks (red or blonde are good, if you're young and feeling really daring you could even go for blue) to break up the flat block effect straight hair can have. It might be worth...

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Are there any AB members whose questions and/or answers routinely frustrate, aggravate or annoy you?How about any whose questions/answers/comments you look forward to? There used to be a couple of members who's contributions I had to stop myself from reading because they just wound me up - which was probably equal parts my problem and theirs. These days I don't seem to be as bothered by it though.

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I have a male friend, who tends too have " no strings attached" fun with women, his a single parant, and in mid 30s, I would like him too have a reguler relationship ( not with me ) but he dont seem interested , what can I do? You really have to leave him to it. I know you mean well but it's really none of your business. It sounds like he's just not ready to have a serious relationship at the moment - and trying to push him into that will result in more problems than if you just let him come around to it in his own time. If he's been married or in a long term relationship before he's probably...

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Whose photograph do you have in your bedroom? I have a photo of my breasts on my bedroom wall. This isn't as weird and egotistical as it sounds - it's a very arty black and white picture and you can't actually tell they're my breasts - it was taken by a very special Welsh photographer for one of his exhibitions and it's just a great picture (more of a testement to his skill than to my boobs)

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If you got locked in a room and George Bush was standing there, and you had a cupboard full of any items you can think of, what would you do to him? He wouldnt be able to fight back. Nothing. He's locked in a room. That's a good start.

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What was the last thing you said to yourself? bollocks. That's usually the last thing I said to myself.

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ED commercials always state that "In the case of erections lasting more than 4 hours, contact your doctor immediately" So my question is this: How many think the female involved would call 911 and how many would cut the phone line? Well a balanced view is called for I think - I'd ask him whether it hurt first and THEN cut the phone line. I do wonder how many calls a year emergency control rooms get of this type - and how many of the female operators respond with either fits of the giggles or "What was the address again? I'll be right there..."

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Have you ever loved an album so much that you listened to it over and over again for days if not weeks? Horses - Patti Smith. That album is so full of energy it feels like the record could spring out of your hands and play itself. It's just so raw and desperate and sexy and angry and joyous all in one - I'd really never heard anything that produced such a reaction from me before, and I had to listen to it every day for months just to try and hold onto the feeling - it's really...

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What is your number one turn on? There's this look people do - you know the one where you're talking to them and it goes quiet for a minute and they look right at you, with their eyebrows slightly raised, and you suddenly realise they're wondering what you're like in bed? When someone I fancy does that.

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What is something that just doesn't make sense to you? Amy Winehouse lyrics.

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Has the introduction of digital cameras led to more photos being taken? Almost definetly. If you speak to professional photographers (most of who have now switched over to digital equipment) they will tell you that during the days of negatives a typical session, either studio or on location would involve taking around twenty photographs. Digital sessions usually involve a hundred or more - this is for various reasons, but mainly because mistakes cost virtually...

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What kind of things do you look at that make you feel old or realize that you are getting old? Mine is listening to the Classic Rock station & hearing Poison & Bon Jovi. Telephone engineers. I had a guy round to set up my telephone line a week or two ago and I swear he looked about twelve.

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Do you celebrate Talk like a pirate day? I wish I'd known earlier - I had a job interview today - I could have made it much more exciting!

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If you were to make a movie about your life...what actor or actress would you pick to play you? On the condition she can learn the accent, Maggie Gyllenhall. Mainly just because she's a great actress and incredibly sexy, but I think she'd do a good me - she has an independence to her that I identify with.

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What's your favourite song or album title? (Not the song or album itself, just the title) Rain Dogs by Tom Waits was the first that sprung to mind. I just find the whole concept of dogs whose scent gets washed off so they can't find their way home really sad. Tom Waits has had a few good titles actually. I also like The Dresden Dolls "Coin Operated Boy"- it's a good song, but the title is just great.

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Name the closest thing to you that is red? My bra

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What do you envy, if anything, about the opposite sex? The way they can pee anywhere. (I mean yeh I could, but it'd be messy) and the way they still manage to look as good in the morning as they did when they went to bed the night before.

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Should women being shaved when doing oral on them Do you mean during the process of? Because it would be difficult to just be shaved for oral sex and grow it back for other purposes. I knew a guy once who found shaving a woman's pubic hair an exciting part of foreplay before moving onto cunnilingus - so if that floats your boat (or just intrigues you) yeh, why not give it a go? (Just make sure you use a fresh clean blade and plenty of...

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