http://www.answerbag.com/profile/35558 New Answerbag answers from Jon Hart Wed, 30 May 2012 00:40:14 -0700 Wed, 30 May 2012 00:40:14 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8664469 I'm a boy. I look at all sorts of porn. However i get strangly drawn to gay porn. I don't want to be gay. What is wrong with me?<br /><br />There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. Most people question their sexual orientation at some point during their lives. It is completely natural to feel attraction to people of the same gender. Some people experience some desires but decide they are not very important or pressing, and... Wed, 03 Feb 2010 10:58:29 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8664469 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8664457 why do ppl in high school hate gay & bi ppl?<br /><br />In high school, generally people care a lot about fitting in, being "popular" and generally are concerned with how their peers view them. Because of this, many people adopt very strict codes of behavior, that are generally pretty conservative, to ensure that they are acting in a way that is... Wed, 03 Feb 2010 10:52:33 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8664457 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/625856 When is Kelly Clarkson's C.D coming out?<br /><br />Kelly has stated that she has completed work on her album, which will be entitled My December. She mentioned in a press conference for CMT&#039;s Crossroads that she plans to tour in support of it starting this summer (2007), and anticipates the album to be released sometime in late spring.... Wed, 04 Apr 2007 05:51:45 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/625856 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/625834 Is Kelly Clarkson the only American Idol singer who has won Grammies?<br /><br />Not anymore. When Kelly won her two Grammy awards at the 2006 ceremony (Best Pop Vocal Album for Breakaway and Best Female Pop Vocal Performance for &quot;Since U Been Gone&quot;) she was the first idol to win the award. She had been nominated in 2004 for Best Female Pop Vocal Performance for... Wed, 04 Apr 2007 05:44:43 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/625834 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/609731 I cheated on my boyfriend in the second month of our relationship. Its been a year and he found out about it in month 8. Now he doesn't trust me, and may never again. How can i get him to trust me?<br /><br />You need to put in a lot of hard effort and work. You need to work overtime to make him feel special, that you desire him and fully intend to be faithful in the future. This does not mean just words. Prepare a meal for him, or do something romantic. Write your promise down on paper so that he can... Sat, 31 Mar 2007 07:31:05 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/609731 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/609716 My husband of 4 yrs is paranoid that i am cheating even though i've been completely faithful. i think it's because he's cheated on me in the past although i have no proof. how should i handle this?<br /><br />I would sit him down and ask him where these feelings of paranoia are coming from; ask him for specific bits of information or evidence that have made him feel the way that he does and then discuss them. If he can&#039;t seem to produce any, I would mention that you have read that often, when one... Sat, 31 Mar 2007 07:23:00 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/609716 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/609703 What's the worst thing someone has/could have said to "comfort" you during a break up?<br /><br />&quot;Just get over it. He/She&#039;s not worth your time/tears.&quot; Meant to be supportive, but really just sends the message that a) I want you to shut up, b) you are weak or dumb in some way for being upset about it and c) it&#039;s ridiculous that you&#039;re still not over it. Not helpful... Sat, 31 Mar 2007 07:17:35 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/609703 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/609188 Would you feel comfortable crying around your friends or would you find it embarassing?<br /><br />I would not feel embarrassed. Your true friends are the ones who you can cry to one minute, and laugh with the next, and the relationship is just as close and comfortable in both scenarios. Sat, 31 Mar 2007 01:26:16 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/609188 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/609181 Why do mates always ignore advice?<br /><br />People make their own decisions based on what they believe to be true. People may hear your advice, but at the end of the day, truly believe that what they&#039;re doing is the best way to handle a situation. Sat, 31 Mar 2007 01:24:03 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/609181 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/609172 Would you forgive a friend that backstabbed you?<br /><br />My policy is you should always forgive people for what they do, because they are human. With that said, that doesn&#039;t mean that my forgiveness entitles this person to my friendship as well. They can have my forgiveness for sure, if they want my friendship, they need to put in the time and... Sat, 31 Mar 2007 01:20:05 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/609172 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/609163 "Keep your friends close, and your enemies closer" - good or bad advice?<br /><br />Bad advice. You should go about your life without regard to your &quot;enemies&quot;. There will always be people trying to pull you down, to belittle you or make you feel small. You cannot listen to them, or even acknowledge them. You just need to live your life in a way that you&#039;re proud... Sat, 31 Mar 2007 01:16:05 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/609163 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/609159 How many openly gay, lesbian, or bisexual Answerbaggers are there out there?<br /><br />Representing. Sat, 31 Mar 2007 01:13:08 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/609159 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/609150 Do you support the Day of Silence/Gay Pride? Yes or no.<br /><br />As an openly gay male, I do not support the Day of Silence at all. I personally do not think it makes any sense at all...Gay people, especially those in the closet, are forced to be silent...so we&#039;ll all be silent too to see what it feels like? Good in theory, but the only people who... Sat, 31 Mar 2007 01:08:29 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/609150 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/600463 Why am i staying in an emotionally abusive relationship<br /><br />This is something that you need to examine in yourself, and really look at some potentially upsetting aspects of yourself. Unfortunately the only person who knows the real answer is you, but some things to consider: 1. Do you feel like you&#039;ve invested so much in the relationship,... Thu, 29 Mar 2007 06:58:41 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/600463 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/600430 Could you ever forgive someone who physically abused you?<br /><br />I think what&#039;s important to remember is that forgiveness is not condoning what has happened or suggesting that you have just forgotten about it. Forgiveness is done for yourself, to help you move on, to allow yourself to trust others again and to no longer be a victim. Forgiving means... Thu, 29 Mar 2007 06:48:13 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/600430 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/593354 What is a bitca?<br /><br />In the episode &quot;When She Was Bad&quot; (Season 2, episode 1), Buffy returns from her summer in LA with a new bad attitude. Willow spells out a nasty word about Buffy, and Xander, in a moment of idiocy, doesn&#039;t combine the &quot;c&quot; and the &quot;h&quot; sounds, and thinks she has... Tue, 27 Mar 2007 20:13:43 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/593354 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/593322 Is there going to be a seson 8 cause they left it like there was going to be a seson 8 but i havent seen one come out but i could be wrong?<br /><br />Joss Whedon is planning to release a comic book that picks up where the series left off after season 7, so many fans are considering this &quot;season 8&quot;, but there are no plans to develop a television version of the storyline. Sarah Michelle Gellar&#039;s contract expired after Season 7... Tue, 27 Mar 2007 20:08:31 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/593322 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/593262 Does anyone know the name/artist of a hip hop song that is produced by Just Blaze and contains the lyrics "break it one time/ break/ let me see you shake/ to that baseline"? I think it came out around 2004 or 2005, but it could have been earlier.<br /><br />After A LOT of searching, I managed to find the song. It&#039;s called &quot;Pop Off&quot; by Joe Budden, and it&#039;s currently unreleased; it was serviced to radio in 2004 as a promo single for his still-unreleased sophomore album. Just thought I&#039;d let people know in case anyone... Tue, 27 Mar 2007 19:59:51 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/593262 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/220577 Why is there just 5 seasons of Angel?<br /><br />Television shows that do well and continue become more and more expensive as the seasons go by, demanding higher salaries for actors, larger special effects budgets, etc. By season 5, Angel had reached 100 episodes and thus was marketable for off-network syndication (repeat airing on another... Sat, 30 Dec 2006 09:14:26 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/220577 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/33674 How early is too early in a relationship to say I love you?<br /><br />I would just like to throw my two cents in. I think what everyone has said is true, but I just want to emphasize that it is extremely depedendent on the situation. Sometimes, you click with people so fast and easily and you feel like you &quot;get them&quot; or their core being without knowing... Thu, 03 Nov 2005 20:56:58 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/33674 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/33668 Are there any plans to release Season 10 of Friends in the US soon?<br /><br />Season 10 of Friends is being released on DVD November 15, 2005. Thu, 03 Nov 2005 17:41:16 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/33668 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/33581 How do you regain any sense of trust for anyone after finding out you've been cheated on?<br /><br />You must recognize that the cheating was not about you. Maybe you were having relationship issues at the time, or some other extenuating circumstances were at work, but you did not cheat. It is not your fault that you were cheated on, and as you yourself can attest to, not all people cheat in the... Wed, 02 Nov 2005 21:37:35 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/33581 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/33580 I cheated on my boyfriend with someone he knows. Should I tell him I cheated, tell him with who, or not tell him at all?<br /><br />You must tell him. This situation is more dire than cheating with a random person because there is a paper trail, so to speak. You don&#039;t know who the person you cheated with told, you don&#039;t know who they told, and you also don&#039;t know what version of the story is floating around. If... Wed, 02 Nov 2005 21:32:14 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/33580 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/33579 I caught my ex-girlfriend cheating. When I confronted her, she lied and didn't apologize. She has cut off all communication. Will she ever come clean?<br /><br />I think what you&#039;re getting at here is &quot;will I ever get an apology?&quot; I know how that feels, I too like to have that closure, and to know that the people who I care about care enough about me to at the very least say sorry when they have hurt me. If she broke up with you and refuses... Wed, 02 Nov 2005 21:22:52 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/33579 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/29897 I've been with a guy who has another girlfriend who lives out of town. She doesn't know about me. Should I tell her I know about her?<br /><br />It depends. Why are you telling her? To hurt her? To make her leave him so you can finally be with him for good? If it is for these reasons, you should not tell her. That is petty and meanspirited. If you genuinely feel she needs to know and then do it, but understand that she will get upset and... Fri, 16 Sep 2005 22:44:54 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/29897 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/29238 I cheated on my boyfriend and I want to forget about the whole thing. I think it would do no good if I told my boyfriend but I don't want to be dishonest. Should I tell him?<br /><br />I think you should tell him. My boyfriend cheated on me and I suspected it and confronted him and he lied to my face about it. It finally came out when one of my friends told me the truth, and now the trust in our relationship is seriously damaged. He, like you, felt nothing for the other person... Wed, 07 Sep 2005 07:37:00 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/29238