http://www.answerbag.com/profile/345524 New Answerbag answers from Shay37 Tue, 29 May 2012 21:46:39 -0700 Tue, 29 May 2012 21:46:39 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6232693 How do u get your girlfriend to have trust in you again after you have screwed up a million times?<br /><br />That&#039;s an awful lot to ask after messing up so many times. It&#039;s come to the point where it&#039;s more or less &quot;unforgettable&quot;. You may be forgiven, but it will be very tough for your girlfriend to trust you and that could cause a lot more serious problems. Fri, 17 Apr 2009 20:31:14 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6232693 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6232670 What can be the best compliment from a husband to wife?<br /><br />You are the apple of my eye. Fri, 17 Apr 2009 20:29:06 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6232670 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6232661 Are you out of work?<br /><br />I was laid off in December... So, I decided to go into my own business and it&#039;s terribly slow, but doable for now. I only hope and pray it picks up in the NEAR future. Fri, 17 Apr 2009 20:28:08 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6232661 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6232626 If you moved into a neighborhood and someone didn't want you there - would you move if they offered to buy you out for double the money?<br /><br />Where&#039;s my luggage?? Fri, 17 Apr 2009 20:23:57 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6232626 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6232613 I'm reasonably certain that I am in love with my best girl friend, but she has a boyfriend now. We have dated in the past, but both decided to go our separate ways. More details inside.<br /><br />Chances are, you two could date again, but call it off again too. I would simply express my feelings and then leave it alone. It will be if it&#039;s supposed to. At any rate continue dating yourself. Fri, 17 Apr 2009 20:22:06 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6232613 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6232597 How do you forgive your husband for kissing another woman and sucking on her breasts? I was suffering from PPD and he left 4 a few days and did this with a co-worker!<br /><br />Sometimes I get forgiving confused with forgetting when it&#039;s something that intense to get over. Those are tough thoughts you will have to deal with until they fade more as time goes on... if in fact it&#039;s &quot;forgiving&quot; and moving forward together is what you want to do. He will... Fri, 17 Apr 2009 20:19:52 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6232597 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6220278 Do you love a man in a suit and a tie or do you like the more casual dresser?<br /><br />Whatever he looks best in :-) Thu, 16 Apr 2009 17:32:28 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6220278 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6220259 If your in a serious relationship, do you ever miss the 'newness' of the realtionship? The excited part about getting to know each other and being nervous?<br /><br />Absolutely! That&#039;s why for YEARS I had a bunch of &quot;new&quot; relationships and when they were getting old, I went &quot;new&quot; again. But then I decided I had to finally recognize reality and grow up... bummer. :-) Thu, 16 Apr 2009 17:30:33 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6220259 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6218521 When someone takes their child by the shoulders and shakes them, is that considered abusive?<br /><br />I believe it is. Simple as that. You are rattling some things around that shouldn&#039;t be. There&#039;s no lesson learned from it either. Thu, 16 Apr 2009 14:32:24 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6218521 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6218496 Have you ever been a better friend to someone than they have been to you?<br /><br />Absolutely and there are those different levels of friendships out there... It just all depends on who you want to surround yourself with. If someone doesn&#039;t take my friendship as serious and treat me with the same respect, then they truly aren&#039;t my friend, or they have selfishness... Thu, 16 Apr 2009 14:30:02 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6218496 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6214597 I'm 31 years old and have yet to experience true love. I don't know how to attract women. I feel like ending my life. What do I do?<br /><br />Ending your life over finding a woman is definitely not the answer. Learn to love yourself first... it will be noticed and whatever is supposed to happen for you will. Don&#039;t try so hard and believe in yourself and that&#039;s where you will find your real happiness. Thu, 16 Apr 2009 08:08:43 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6214597 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6214285 Who is refinancing their mortgage? Are you finding deals that are really good out there?<br /><br />Because I&#039;m looking for a lesser monthly payment, I refinanced to a phenomenal interest rate which helped me by $500 monthly! Depending on what you are looking for out of refinancing there are some wonderful deals! I went through this guy named Steve Hudson... his number is 513-290-0683.... Thu, 16 Apr 2009 07:39:16 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6214285 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6214232 Help!Im in love with my married friend.<br /><br />Arg! Change your mind and contain yourself. If it&#039;s meant to be, it will be without actions. That person has prior commitments to be dealt with first. Thu, 16 Apr 2009 07:34:10 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6214232 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6214210 How angry should I be that my wife has: 1) lost interest in initiating sex, 2) has no interest in looking sexually appealing to me, 3) refuses to hang out with me unless we do things she likes, 4) makes no effort to communicate with me? How do I fix it?<br /><br />She may be a bit spoiled and got away with what she wanted to do over time... So, now she takes advantage of that. Anger won&#039;t make things better, but a serious conversation with her may help. She needs to know what she is damaging by not involving you and your needs. Thu, 16 Apr 2009 07:31:49 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6214210 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6214185 What's the best way to drown out the noise from nearby cubicles?<br /><br />Ear plugs if you don&#039;t have to listen for your boss or the phone... otherwise, the noise is just there. Been there... it can be annoying. I had to learn to drown it out. Thu, 16 Apr 2009 07:29:52 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6214185 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6210305 An alcoholic hasn't had a drink in months but at times smells like alcohol, why? I totally believe that this person hasn't drink anything.<br /><br />Depending on the length of time and how much was consumed in order to keep the odor for quite some time. It releases from the pores over time. Which means they are still an alcoholic until they pass the urges and odors. Wed, 15 Apr 2009 21:06:32 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6210305 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6210288 Why are some women so NAIVE when in a relationship and so QUICK and idiotic to believe their husband/ boyfriend when they cheat?<br /><br />Some women want to feel they are keeping that &quot;innocence&quot; by being naive... but yet, they are smart enough to understand probability. Wed, 15 Apr 2009 21:04:04 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6210288 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6210278 What would you do if your S/O loved you for your body only?<br /><br />Well, if that&#039;s the case, then technically... he doesn&#039;t love you... he&#039;s perverted over the physical aspect of it... So... I&#039;d have my little fun and keep my eyes open for the &quot;real&quot; thing to come along. No one can live a happy lifetime together like that. Wed, 15 Apr 2009 21:01:57 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6210278 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6210257 If you were 20year old male would you go out with a 16 years old and do you think its wrong<br /><br />I can&#039;t throw rocks at any body. I met my ex-husband when I was 16 &amp; he was 22. We married a year later and stayed married for 10 years. Times were different then and the laws have changed. The 20 year old would have to be very careful in this relationship for at least 2 years. Wed, 15 Apr 2009 20:59:46 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6210257 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6210237 How many people has been bullied/beat in their life and have a real problem socializing and just enjoy someone's company without having paranoid thoughts about them wanting to hurt you?<br /><br />I have been through that in my growing up life. My family was way off balance and it kicked me in gear as I got older. But then... I decided to make decisions. I HAD to make myself learn to trust someone until they break that trust and not worry about it before hand. I&#039;ve also had to learn... Wed, 15 Apr 2009 20:57:29 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6210237 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6210203 I dated a very very shy girl for 6 months i love her. we broke up. she says shes too shy to be in a relationship. is there anything i can say to help her overcome her shyness?<br /><br />If &quot;shy&quot; meaning just hanging around and she never knows what to say... Maybe you can remind her that you LOVE her that way (not just love her). If she is determined to let it go... then maybe you will need to move on. Wed, 15 Apr 2009 20:53:04 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6210203 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6210075 Can "true love" strike more than once in a lifetime?<br /><br />I totally believe it can happen more than a dozen times if you choose to! Not that you would... but my point is it could happy way more than one time. It only feels like &quot;once&quot; when you are still holding some of that love for the other person. Wed, 15 Apr 2009 20:38:01 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6210075 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/5491204 So my girlfriend said i need to pick her over my friends, i told her i will always pick my friends over her and now she is packing her stuff and moving out, thats not fair to me is it? i mean its a sophomore year in collage, any way i can get her to stay?<br /><br />First off... she shouldn&#039;t ALWAYS expect you to pick her over your friends... but secondly.. you shouldn&#039;t tell her you will always pick your friends over her. You simply should have explained to her the important time you are having with your friends and how it will pass in due time.... Fri, 06 Feb 2009 19:02:55 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/5491204 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3853468 Im 16 next year and havnt had a boyfriend yet...i know im not good looking but iv been told by friends my personality is great.But, they've all had boyfriends or in a relationship now.Should i change the way i look or is there just something wrong with me<br /><br />First and foremost... happiness comes from the reflection in the mirror... Not from having a boyfriend. While that&#039;s all nice, loving and fun... You can find one that suits you based on how you feel about yourself. If you are that concerned, try a different hairstyle or make up..etc., but... Tue, 26 Aug 2008 12:33:20 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3853468 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3853411 Ok! he's don't it again, he's has a online dating profile set up! I love him deeply but I just don't think he loves me, Now I have a chance to rent a friends home for something I can afford, do you think I should do it, I mean end it with him & move out?<br /><br />Well if that ain&#039;t the biggest picture I&#039;ve ever seen. If he&#039;s done it the first time, that should show enough he doesn&#039;t have the feelings necessary to continue a relationship with you. Move out before he finds that other person for his life and it hurts worse. Tue, 26 Aug 2008 12:28:52 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3853411 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3853380 My Girlfriend borrowed a pair of sunglasses and lost them. Is she responsible to pay for them? I payed $100 for them a year ago.<br /><br />Well that&#039;s a sticky situation. However, common sense says she should purchase you a new pair or give you the money for them minus depreciation in value. Yet, she&#039;s your friend and is it worth losing the friendship over? You have to ask yourself that question before you pursue anything... Tue, 26 Aug 2008 12:26:08 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3853380 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3519838 What do you do when people are so hell bent on you staying home and taking care of kids (that are making you lose your mind) and you want to go to work?<br /><br />You simply say, &quot;I am going to do what makes me happy and what&#039;s healthy for me, in order to provide that to my children&quot; then say, &quot;I will be the one to reap the rewards of what I have done well and pay the consequences for my mistakes&quot;. Fri, 18 Jul 2008 21:19:54 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3519838 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3519827 Why is it that all the time I talk on the phone with my ex about our daughter, he ends up telling me I love you, even if he dump me for another girl and is living with her?<br /><br />The infactuation is a little old in his new relationship. He&#039;s a bit bored... so therefore... he loves you. Know what I mean? Fri, 18 Jul 2008 21:17:21 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3519827 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3519806 I feel like the guy I'm with is the one. How do you know someone is the one you will end up spending the rest of your life with?<br /><br />Here&#039;s my philosophy on that: if at 2 years you are still together with some arguing and normal relationship trouble... Keep moving forward together... If then you&#039;ve both reached the 7 year mark, you know each other well, can be on each other&#039;s nerves, but still love one... Fri, 18 Jul 2008 21:13:08 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3519806 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3519784 Why is it that although people think I'm so amazing and close to perfect, they don't want to be involved with me at some point? I can't seem to find a best friend. Everyone ends up saying, you're great but I just can't be a best friend... Ugh.<br /><br />Maybe they are doing so much &quot;un&quot; great things and they know they can&#039;t hold up the bar to you. Therefore, it&#039;s probably a good thing because us sane people wouldn&#039;t like for you to get corrupted. You&#039;ll find another great, wonderful and close to perfect friend as... Fri, 18 Jul 2008 21:09:57 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3519784 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3519742 My heart has been broken so many times how do i get my trust back in people? i just hide now so no one else can hurt me.<br /><br />You have to teach yourself that it&#039;s not fair for the new person to reap the repercussions of your last relationship. The truth is you have dated enough to know the probabilities, you are no longer vulnerable and now it puts you in a new growing area in your life. You obviously recognize it,... Fri, 18 Jul 2008 21:04:22 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3519742 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3519712 My wife is driving me crazy. she is constantly telling me to "keep it down the neighbors will hear" i'm not talking loud but i think she is parinoid of people listening to her what yo do its wreaking our marriage<br /><br />Unless you are hackling babbling bully - she may just need to learn to chill. It sounds like she doesn&#039;t want to be one of the neighbors that the others are talking about. You two will need to find a good medium, so you can be yourself in a way that she&#039;s comfortable with as well.... Fri, 18 Jul 2008 20:59:15 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3519712 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3519693 What's the worst thing to say to your boss when she/he is in a bad mood?<br /><br />Saying anything at all is a bad idea. Let it ride... you&#039;ll get to go home and be the boss and feel the same way as your boss did. It&#039;s a bit intimidating - but keeping distance and not being a part of his/her problem, you&#039;d be just fine. BUT if you want to say something to enhance... Fri, 18 Jul 2008 20:56:07 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3519693 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3519588 Why can't I escape this black hole?<br /><br />Because you may be trying to &quot;feel&quot; your way out rather than actually watching where you are going. Fri, 18 Jul 2008 20:40:19 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3519588 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3519571 Why do most mens run out on their wives?<br /><br />It seems like it&#039;s most men only, however, it&#039;s the wives too. You are more than likely only experiencing men to think that.. However, it&#039;s both genders out there as sad as it is. Fri, 18 Jul 2008 20:37:08 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3519571 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3469527 How do you define "passive aggressive" and what has been your experience with it?<br /><br />I define it as &quot;tough love&quot; and my experience with it was raising my children. You listen, are affectionate and compassionate, however, teach them the hard way at times to understand and/or get it. Sun, 13 Jul 2008 07:54:00 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3469527 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3469510 Which is your favorite movie quote that is also a threat?<br /><br />From &quot;Deloris Clayborn&quot; (sp?) - &quot;Sometimes being a bitch is all a woman has to hold on to&quot;. Sun, 13 Jul 2008 07:50:32 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3469510 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3469488 Would you find it strange if you went to someone's bathroom and they had a candy dish full of candy there?<br /><br />That&#039;s a little odd. Yet, if it&#039;s someone who entertains a lot their guests can take a mint while freshening up. Sun, 13 Jul 2008 07:47:48 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3469488 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3469475 Women claim that men are afraid of commitment, then why are over 90% of marriage proposals made by men?<br /><br />First of all, most women only experience men, so that&#039;s the only gender they can find in their experiences to have commitment phobia... when all along women have the same problems as well and they don&#039;t recognize it because they are focused on the &quot;men&quot;. And for all to know,... Sun, 13 Jul 2008 07:46:04 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3469475 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3469461 Women: what sort of things would make you lose respect for the guy who you are dating?<br /><br />Lying and being sneaky. The first step of trust is already broke and that person obviously does not respect me enough to not lie, therefore, I&#039;ve lost my trust in that person. Sun, 13 Jul 2008 07:43:16 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3469461 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3469453 He says he wants a break, to focus on his job, he's military, and his girls. Do I hang on? We exchanged things the other day, he didn't look too sure, even said he hoped he was doing the right thing.<br /><br />Normally, this means he is not sure you are the right one for him. When someone says they need to focus on other things, it&#039;s their nice way of letting you know it&#039;s not going to work. It is something most don&#039;t want to hear, but however, a fact. If you were someone he found really... Sun, 13 Jul 2008 07:41:50 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3469453 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3322594 My husband and I have been married for almost 3 years now, we have 2-2 year olds and just bought a house. Our relationship has been very hard and rocky. He recently told me he cheated on me with my BEST friend. He says he has changed. What should I do?<br /><br />It&#039;s hard enough to swallow the fact your spouse cheated on you, much less than with your BEST FRIEND!! Of course he&#039;s changed... temporarily. He doesn&#039;t have anyone in mind to screw right now. But beware, because the time is more than likely to come again. The worst thing that... Wed, 25 Jun 2008 03:48:59 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3322594 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3322574 I work several jobs, one of which is freelance and which pays the most but spasmodically. I have regular bills plus the usual out of the ordinary things like car breakdowns, doctors bills etc. How can I be better organised to pay them?<br /><br />It would be of great help to have two separate checking accounts. One for bills only and the other for other needs and obstacles. The &quot;bills only&quot; account should be set up to pay debts automatically on as many items as you can with checks only and no debit card. While the other account... Wed, 25 Jun 2008 03:44:32 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3322574 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3303752 Ex-husband is going to let our 14 yr old daughter's boyfriend sleep over his house during his weekend. He says that he will be on couch & will stay there. I was told "It's my house, my rules if you don't like it tough". I don't like it what can I do?<br /><br />Arg... I wouldn&#039;t like it too much either and definitely wouldn&#039;t have it in my home. There is no law saying he can&#039;t and what your ex-husband&#039;s rules are, are his as long as it&#039;s nothing that is physically, emotionally or mentally harmful to your daughter. I wonder if he... Sun, 22 Jun 2008 17:43:37 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3303752 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3302224 I am looking for a new direction in my life. I am bored with me , my partner is bored with me and if i dont change something soon things will go pear shaped. I am 47 and still fit and healthy. I just need to go out and do something on my own. Help please?<br /><br />Definitely do things that involve your partner. Let him/her see that you have ideas and things happen because you are with a plan. I&#039;m in the same situation with my bf and he is 47 as well.. yet, I&#039;m 10 years younger and now bored a lot. I love him... However, I am not used to laying... Sun, 22 Jun 2008 13:19:27 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3302224 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3298381 How do most guys like girls?<br /><br />Well, they generally want to talk to you often... and hang around you by their choice. That would be a good start to know if he likes you. :-) Sat, 21 Jun 2008 20:28:53 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3298381 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3298203 My cat is sluggish and not eating. He has some discharge from the corners of his eyes. He is 8 and remains indoors. I am taking him to the vet on Monday, but does anyone have an idea what may be wrong with him?<br /><br />It sounds like maybe he got into some poison, like pestisides or cleaner. He will definitely need to go to the vet for that. My cat got into ant spray once and had the same symptoms. They gave him a shot and some medicines and within days he started feeling a lot better. So, he really needs to be... Sat, 21 Jun 2008 19:56:44 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3298203 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3298154 Can you think of bands that just should have never really been formed?<br /><br />Cinderella (80&#039;s) Sat, 21 Jun 2008 19:51:15 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3298154 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3296436 Where does one can spare parts for a broken heart?<br /><br />The spare parts are free flowing in your chest waiting on YOU to repair it. It&#039;s an awful feeling to get a broken heart, but it&#039;s definitely not the end of the world or the WORSE thing that could ever happen to you. While this sounds easier said than done, it&#039;s the matter of how... Sat, 21 Jun 2008 15:08:19 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3296436 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3296420 My boyfriend cheated in the past, i found out & he confessed everything. He says he will never cheat on me again cos it made him realise that he could lose me but i keep dreaming that hes cheating on me again? Is it a sign saying he will cheat on me again<br /><br />It&#039;s not a sign that he would cheat again, but a sign of the trust being broken. Once someone has traumatized a relationship in such a manner you tend to have a lot of &quot;scared&quot; thoughts that they will do the same thing again and therefore it subconsciously returns into your dreams.... Sat, 21 Jun 2008 15:05:35 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3296420 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3296397 I have an itchy neck and chin and am having a slight shortness of breath. I do have allergies. Is this all from the allergies or is there perhaps something else wrong?<br /><br />It definitely sounds as if you are having an allergic reaction to something you have touched. Take some Benedryl and it will help make the rash go away and then use an anti-itch topical to relieve the itching. If your breathing gets any worse... seek immediate help. Sat, 21 Jun 2008 15:00:06 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3296397 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3272366 Do you think it's stupid of me to be hurt because my fiancee who I've been with for two years does not know my eye color (which is brown) and he guessed blue TWICE? And is it ridiculous of me to be hurt because he said D34 bra size is every guys fantasy?<br /><br />Uh, I would be quite offended if my fiance&#039; did not know my eye color!! He obviously is physically not in to you if he doesn&#039;t know your eye color and his boob size preference is something other than what you already have. I know he is not speaking for ALL men, because I&#039;ve met a... Wed, 18 Jun 2008 13:21:00 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3272366 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3262790 Me and my wife for five years, have had a bumpy relationship. we have been separate for two weeks and she wants me to show her that i do love her what can i do to show her that she is my world.<br /><br />Does she know that you are probably needing the same from her as well? This is a two-way street and you both have to meet in the middle with your actions. Talk is cheap... being faithful, honest, loving, caring and in tune of each other&#039;s needs makes you both realized you are loved by one... Tue, 17 Jun 2008 10:05:04 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3262790 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3262760 Do you keep an open mind when taking parenting advice from others?<br /><br />Absolutely! When I gave birth to mine, they didn&#039;t come into this world with handbooks strapped to them. Tue, 17 Jun 2008 10:01:13 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3262760 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3257815 Why do people think childfree women are selfish and are not open to relationships?<br /><br />Most assume that because they only have themselves to ultimately think about and take care of while the mothers feel they sacrifice all of themselves for their children. Mon, 16 Jun 2008 17:23:11 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3257815 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3257781 I need a word for muscular<br /><br />Stout Mon, 16 Jun 2008 17:19:39 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3257781 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3229743 I'm seeing someone atm and she actually means nothing to me. I'm just using her as a tool to help get over my ex, which is actually impossible to do. I need to break it off before I hurt her but I don't know how to do it - can you help me?<br /><br />The damage is done... You&#039;ve already hurt her before she is ever told. Now, be honest and she will hurt for a short time because she&#039;ll find you as a creep and it will help her to get over it quicker. Fudging it will be hurtful more than telling the truth. Fri, 13 Jun 2008 04:44:40 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3229743 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3226432 What are two things that just HAVE to go hand in hand?<br /><br />Toilet &amp; toilet paper Thu, 12 Jun 2008 17:56:55 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3226432 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3226416 If you have a car that has upgraded speakers, tv, and rims, and that car is repossessed, can the owner take back the upgrades?<br /><br />No... anything and everything in that car is no longer yours. It&#039;s considered to be on their &quot;property&quot; and they are now in possession of it. Sorry to hear that. Thu, 12 Jun 2008 17:55:18 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3226416 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3226399 My boyfriend said that he likes an independent woman but the more independent and less needy I become the more he fights with me and tries to control me. He now says that if I don't give up all of my friends and family he will leave me.<br /><br />Okay.. um... you need to nip that relationship in the bud. He&#039;s either really trying to test you... which I doubt or he is a very controlling her person and that is never a good sign for a future with him. Thu, 12 Jun 2008 17:53:08 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3226399 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3226377 Girlfriend has had illicit sexual text messages on her phone of which involved her by the nature of the txt. she saved them in phone for me to see? and denies cheating ? do you think she has?<br /><br />Not neccessarily. She may have had the conversation... but by her saving them for you to see, it sounds like she is trying to make you jealous. Do you compliment her enough and give her plenty of attention? Women seem difficult that way and most are pretty high maintenance of it. Thu, 12 Jun 2008 17:51:11 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3226377 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3226356 Why would a man get angry when his mate compliments him & tell her that there is something wrong with her not just once but each time she tries to say something nice. As an example, you are so handsome, or you look good when you come home from the gym.<br /><br />He obviously lacks self-confidence and he doesn&#039;t believe you because he doesn&#039;t feel &quot;handsome&quot;. It&#039;s not angry so much as it is him probably thinking you are only saying it to be nice, rather than meaning it. And if you do mean it... which I&#039;m sure you do...... Thu, 12 Jun 2008 17:48:30 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3226356 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3223603 Whats the difference between loving someone, and being in love with someone? in a relationship, my man said he loved me after only 2 weeks, but he didn't fall in love with me until 8 months later, why would he say he loved me if he wasn't in love with me?<br /><br />In other words, he was fond of you... In the sense that he loved you enough only to make the decision to move forward and see what could come of your relationship. Over time, his love grew stronger for you and he fell IN love, meaning he&#039;s doing whatever it takes to now keep the relationship... Thu, 12 Jun 2008 12:23:43 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3223603 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3223577 Why can I just not walk away from him?<br /><br />Because you are simply stuck in a zone called, &quot;habit&quot;. It&#039;s like trying to quit smoking or over-eating. Until you put your foot down to walk away from the situation you will always be in it and addicted, rather than it being something &quot;healthy&quot; for you. Once you take the... Thu, 12 Jun 2008 12:20:11 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3223577 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3223553 Do you think waiting to be financially stable is a good reason to wait to get married? or do you think its just another excuse? if 2 people love each other why not get married right away? if they already have been together for at least a yr?<br /><br />It could take someone years to be financially stable. That should not be the reason, however, if it&#039;s the case of just saving money to have enough to have a nice wedding and honeymoon... then there is no needing in rushing to get married right away. Those are pre-marital special moments you... Thu, 12 Jun 2008 12:17:25 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3223553 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3223516 I'm having problems with my boyfriends past, he was into the drug/party scene and has done things and been with girls just because he didn't care. its hard for me to forget his past even though he isn't like that anymore and treats me good. what do i do?<br /><br />It may be something that you truly don&#039;t care for, however you feel maybe he&#039;s had some sort of past unlike yours as if he&#039;s had more memories and fun and it&#039;s what he thinks about often and it may make you feel like you are competing against something. However, the best thing... Thu, 12 Jun 2008 12:13:34 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3223516 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3217934 In what ways would you reach out to a person whom you believed to be suicidal?<br /><br />When someone I know went through that... I pointed out the truth. I never said, &quot;It&#039;s going to be okay&quot;... I simply said, &quot;You are allowing life and other people control your feelings and finding a way out that will never resolve errors. The best thing you can do for yourself... Wed, 11 Jun 2008 19:35:02 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3217934 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3205058 If you are old enough-What comes to mind when you think of the 70's?<br /><br />Definitely rock n&#039; roll. Tue, 10 Jun 2008 10:54:05 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3205058 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3205037 My boyfriend and I have been living together in a serious relationship for more than a year. He knows I want to get married and have kids - He said he wanted it to. I'll be 27 this month; he's 31. Should I spend anymore time on him and our relationship?<br /><br />Well, you shouldn&#039;t stop now if you are both wanting the same thing. Give it to it&#039;s 2nd year mark of your relationship. See if he agrees with that... To get engaged and not married and then marry one year following your engagement. You can&#039;t rush love and what is meant to be...... Tue, 10 Jun 2008 10:50:56 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3205037 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3204392 In order for me to keep under 100,000.00 at my current bank for insurance, should I open another account at another bank for their insurance coverage?<br /><br />Your SS# is tied to your account no matter where you bank and it can be looked up under all banking. Tue, 10 Jun 2008 09:19:10 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3204392 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3204377 What do i do if my partner of 7 years(i have a child with)want's me for life and i dont want the same.? i have moments where i am madley in love with him then others where i want to leave him just to see if i can manage!<br /><br />It sounds as if you still have the love for him it requires to have a relationship further than what you already have... But you haven&#039;t been married to him and have an easy way out now that everything is comfortable between the two of you. Picture your life without him... The things you two... Tue, 10 Jun 2008 09:16:49 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3204377 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3185791 Any reason why myspaceIM or myspace and any of its sites or links aren't working as of June 8, 2008, 7:30 A.M Central time?<br /><br />And it&#039;s still down... I just tried again too. I think they are doing some heavy maintenance on the site and they took out the IP address in the mean time to keep from any access to get the job done. They will come back soon. It&#039;s happened before. Sun, 08 Jun 2008 06:13:33 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3185791 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3185769 I've been with my guy for 7 years and never questioned his commitment to our relationship. But this last year i found out he messed around with his sisters bff. When i confronted him said they just made out and didn't have sex. Should I leave or stay?<br /><br />Oh that&#039;s a tough one. Well, surprisingly... for now on you are going to have to question his intensions and commitment to you. This depends on whether or not you can spend years going through this. Making out is just as good as sleeping with them to me. They crossed a line they... Sun, 08 Jun 2008 06:08:54 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3185769 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3185656 My boyfriend and I both agree that if you are in a serious relationship and/or married to someone that it's completely ok to have each other's passwords online whether it's email, myspace, etc. What is everyone else's opinion of this?<br /><br />If there is trust in a relationship, why do you feel you need each other&#039;s passwords and spy on each other? That only causes more deception and then something that becomes very possessive and unhealthy. If the both of you can use the computer in a mature fashion without going beyond... Sun, 08 Jun 2008 05:42:14 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3185656 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3177882 I hate it when my bf holds my hand. It makes me really uncomfortable. I've never had a problem with it before? What does it mean? Help!<br /><br />It can only be one of two things.. Either you don&#039;t like him as much as you&#039;d like or he has really clammy hands. Sat, 07 Jun 2008 05:16:21 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3177882 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3177879 Tonight, when you go to bed, and begin drifting off to sleep. I will jump out of your closet and yell SURPRISE!! How will you react?<br /><br />Pull out my revolver on instinct and blow you away. I don&#039;t expect anything jumping out of my closet and then live. :-) Sat, 07 Jun 2008 05:15:03 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3177879 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3177871 Our adopted teens (18,19) have strong 'you owe us' attitude. $ is very tight so we want them to get jobs to earn $ for clothes & save for car. We've made sure each have min. $70 per week, so they do have $. is this horrible? they think so.<br /><br />They are adults. They shouldn&#039;t be receiving allowance from their parents any longer.... They should be going to work even if they have to walk to get there. I have a now 20 year old daughter, who better work if she wants to make it in her life and 16 year old son who is old enough now to go... Sat, 07 Jun 2008 05:13:00 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3177871 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3172772 How many houses are for sale on your street?<br /><br />None now... The one&#039;s that were took it off of the market, due to the economy. They are only remodeling (I do that for a living) and waiting a couple of years to sell now. Fri, 06 Jun 2008 14:28:53 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3172772 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3172719 You take the good, you take the bad, you take them both and there you have ____________? Fill in the blank.<br /><br />A well-balanced meal. Fri, 06 Jun 2008 14:23:57 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3172719 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3172714 What is your reaction when someone says "DUH!" to you?<br /><br />&quot;BACK THE TRUCK UP&quot; is what I&#039;d say... Like they never said or did something stupid or never would again. :-) Fri, 06 Jun 2008 14:22:23 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3172714 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3172697 Pro-abortion or Anti-abortion, why or why not?<br /><br />There was no such thing way back in the years and people had their children whether they wanted to or not. That&#039;s obviously how they are created and like then... people make the decisions to put themselves in such risk for something they are not ready for. I am anti if it was a mutual... Fri, 06 Jun 2008 14:20:37 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3172697 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3172638 Should I waste 30$$ of gas, then another 30$ for alcohol then 10$ for smokes.... to go get drunk with my friends to forget how much my girlfriend's an uncaring bitch? Or stay at home and feel completely worthless?<br /><br />Uh... You&#039;ll probably feel more worthless when you end up broke while recovering from a hangover. The best thing to do is save your money and spend your time evaluating your relationship and whether you need to ditch the bitch or learn to put up with it... And if she&#039;s that bad...... Fri, 06 Jun 2008 14:10:59 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3172638 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3169799 Would you stay with your husband if he cheated on you while you were pregnant? It was purely physical, there were no emotions or relationships. We are both willingly in therapy now to get through it.<br /><br />It&#039;s always pretty much &quot;purely physical&quot;... Cheaters are cheaters to me and there is no amount of therapy that would make me want to trust that person and continue a life-time relationship with. I prefer someone who is as loyal as me and forget that part of drama all together.... Fri, 06 Jun 2008 06:52:27 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3169799 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3169767 Has anyone ever heard a strange phrase that they have no idea what it mean? for example, i recently heard a man say "Shut up, or i'll beat you like a red-headed stepchild!" (he said that to his freind, not his child)<br /><br />I sometimes say, &quot;I&#039;m busier than a one-armed woman painting a house&quot;. :-) That&#039;s pretty busy... because she&#039;s only has one hand to paint an entire house with. Fri, 06 Jun 2008 06:48:04 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3169767 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3169749 After 4yrs my girlfriend broke up with me again I have try to get back by visiting and sending her messages. She said she wanted to be alone. Now she has a new boyfriend. How can I get over it?<br /><br />Time gets you over it.. but it&#039;s what you do with your &quot;time&quot; during the process of healing. Find things to do that make you happy... each day gets easier. Allow it to keep making you a better person, rather than giving you sour thoughts about relationships all together... That... Fri, 06 Jun 2008 06:43:40 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3169749 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3169732 I can't live with you. I can't live without you. Which one is better? Are you screwed either way?<br /><br />The thoughts should always be, &quot;I can live regardless&quot;... it doesn&#039;t take another person to be able to &quot;live&quot;... You are responsible for your own happiness. Either you can see yourself with a particular person over the course of years, or you can&#039;t. You hurt or get... Fri, 06 Jun 2008 06:41:29 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3169732 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3169519 My computer wont even read a dvd but will read a cd and install games i have a dell optiplex gx240 can anyone give me answer of what the problem is? Pluss i got it from the school.<br /><br />It sounds as if you only have a dvd reader and not a cd/dvd reader/burner. You would have to go purchase that to read dvd&#039;s and burn them. Fri, 06 Jun 2008 06:02:35 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3169519 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3169508 What's one of the most important things you try to get across to a man or woman on a date?<br /><br />What I &quot;don&#039;t want&quot; in my life and or potential relationship. I can&#039;t ever say what it is I REALLY want because I&#039;m still learning... However, I definitely know what I don&#039;t want. Fri, 06 Jun 2008 06:00:27 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3169508 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3169500 Im pissed. Tonight my GirlFriend is going to dinner and a movie with another guy. I told her it extremely bothers me, and that she has no respect for me if she does it. She says that the guy is probably gay, and there only friends. What should I do?<br /><br />Very wrong of her and disrespectful of your relationship. I would not stand for it and let her know before she goes. If she insists on going, she obviously could care-less about what and how you feel. Fri, 06 Jun 2008 05:58:52 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3169500 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3169206 My husband is making me leave my home. I am seeing someone. But this is my home and I have a 17 year old son, that wants me here. We sleep in seperate rooms. But he says i have to go. He has become very verbal., harrassing me every second he can.<br /><br />First thing is first... You should&#039;ve started &quot;seeing&quot; someone when you left, not while you are still in the home of your husband. He&#039;s hurt and you can&#039;t blame him for wanting to get as much distance between you as he can. It&#039;s not healthy for your child to know and... Fri, 06 Jun 2008 04:40:33 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3169206 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3165961 My new friend at work (2months) claimed she was VERY Christian yet told me she was leaving her husband because they argue more since she started working. (B4 she had in home day care). As a christian shouldn't she try to work it out/forgive?<br /><br />To me... arguing does not justify a divorce. You are going to continue to argue about the same thing over and over until you resolve the problem. It sounds like they are just giving up rather than keeping what they vowed for. Thu, 05 Jun 2008 18:23:25 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3165961 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3165930 Im so afraid to talk to this guy I like and He likes me back.How do I talk to him Instead of just Texting?<br /><br />Just simply be yourself with confidence and don&#039;t worry about how you will &quot;sound&quot; and it will all happen naturally. Texts are impersonal and not an easy way to get to know another person. That&#039;s useful for those who already know you and understand your personality when you... Thu, 05 Jun 2008 18:19:43 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3165930 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3165398 How do I stop my hair from frizzing up in the humidity? I take a shower at night, and sometimes I straighten it in the morning. I tried hairspray, conditioner, those anti-frizz things, nothing ever works!<br /><br />Humidity is a mean climate... there&#039;s not much you can do but pin it up. Washing it daily takes the healthy oils out of your hair and can keep it dry and more brittle over time. Try washing your hair every two to three days. I know that&#039;s hard for a lot of people to do, but they... Thu, 05 Jun 2008 16:58:29 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3165398 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3165374 I have O negative and RH negative blood. I am also anemic and two months pregnant. What kind of problems can this cause for me?<br /><br />My daughter went through the same thing... There is a shot called, &quot;Rhogam&quot; the doctor should have you take to prevent any illnesses for you or the baby and then they check you and the baby again after birth... but all should be okay and you shouldn&#039;t have any further... Thu, 05 Jun 2008 16:55:09 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3165374 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3165334 Is there an expiration date on cologne, after shave, body spray, or body wash?<br /><br />Here is what I found: (Good question) When To Throw Away a Fragrance Fragrances, in what may be a surprising revelation to many, do not last for an infinite amount of time. Like many other things in life they will eventually go bad. They will, over time, lose their qualities and eventually... Thu, 05 Jun 2008 16:49:33 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3165334 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3160273 My boyfriend is 30 and I am 21 and he moves really fast. He is already talking about marriage, and our lives together and I don't know what to say. I tell him I need to go slow and sometimes I feel he wants the image of wife and kids, not me. Advice?<br /><br />He&#039;s older and right at the age where he feels he needs to start the next phase of his life... You are way too young and need to experience more life for yourself. If you could see yourself married in 5 years then tell him you love him, but you want to make the right steps in the right time... Thu, 05 Jun 2008 04:41:00 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3160273 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3160252 During a discussion, my ex told me that a woman he cheated on me with, makes him happy and I don`t.I got hurt and told me to leave me alone.He then called me to ask me to meet like nothing ever happened.If i don`t make him happy why does he contact me?<br /><br />First off... HE CHEATED ON YOU... There is no loyalty and trust there... the relationship is doomed. Tell him to stop contacting you and that you are in the process of searching for that special someone you can easily make happy being just who you are without them being deceitful. He&#039;s only... Thu, 05 Jun 2008 04:34:38 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3160252 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3160241 It is easy to break a heart when you make a decision based on your moment of change..Have you ever done so without any thought of their pain but later realising your infliction and regretted your decision dearly? Have you received this pain from another?<br /><br />I have received this pain... The guy up and dumped me and I never knew WHY... However, he later regretted it and wanted to rekindle our relationship.. But I was too afraid to go through that again and did not get back with him. As far as when I broke a heart, it was for a pure fact of not being... Thu, 05 Jun 2008 04:31:55 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3160241 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3160228 Can you say a complete sentence with out using the letter "E"?<br /><br />I can not wait for Friday! :-) Thu, 05 Jun 2008 04:28:21 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3160228 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3160224 Have you "fallen in love" with someone, within a few weeks of meeting them?<br /><br />Yes, and beware of that kind of love. You are falling in love with the &quot;new&quot; of the relationship and not the good and bad of it... It&#039;s nice to feel connected to someone right off the bat... but it&#039;s safe to evaluate it for a little while as well. Thu, 05 Jun 2008 04:27:22 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3160224