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Is making out/kissing normal if it gets kind of messy to the point where you would have to wipe your mouth dry a bit due to saliva?
It can be normal. What you have to look at is it b/c it's sloppy, was it b/c it was for long periods of time, or why was it happening? You have to ask your self are you likeing the kissing, where it doesn't bother you.
I met this guy once, and we made out , it was totally forced. He was so sloppy, there was saliva driping off my face. Now that was gross. And no way in hell was that...
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In relationships: Do we subconsciously, or consciously seek out people that are as attractive as we are? Do we avoid someone we percieve as more attractive, and if so why?
I tend to look at men who are average looking, or what I find attractive. There are many times where I look at a man who is well dressed, manicured, and kinda preppy pretty boy lookin, and I wont say a word to them, because I don't feel like I'm pretty enough or what they would choose. It's kinda like a stero type situation, and I think that could point both directions.
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Do you think that tongue piercing improves sensations during oral sex
My experience is that it does not. Every man I've been with said they can feel it, however it wasn't anything special. There really isn't no diffrence. It could be that I don't know how to use it. But it is fun to lick an ice cream cone and see the inprint of the ball! lol
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I want my tongue pierced! But im working myself up about it, does it really hurt when its being pierced? Be honest! I have my Tragus peirced and thats more cartilidge so if i can get that pierced could i manage a tongue peircing?
It really doesn't hurt. It's more ocward, really. You drool a lot as they are doing it. Which for me took my mind off it. It wasn't painfull at all until it swelled up after, which the pain of that is like biteing your toungue. Try it, ya only live once!
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Can you view someone's text messages online, if so how can you do it and are there ways of doing it for free?
Hello, I work for t-mobile. I'm guessing all companies are like this. There is no way to get copies of the actual text in a text message unless you have the phone. The message is transfered through the network, but is not saved on the network like a voicemail. Once the message is transfered, the only thing you can get on the web without haveing the phone, is the date time, number and...
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What is a BBW romance?
BBW usually points towards B= Big B= Beautiful W= Women. There for a relationship with a big beautiful women.
That's my take!
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Do celebrity mom's like Angelina Jolie, make us Normal Moms look bad?
Hell no, I believe that they don't do much, or they have someone handing them everything to do it them selves.
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Would you rather be clever or smart?
Cleaver
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Which would you rather have in abundance: street smarts or booksmarts?
Street smarts
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What do you say I moved to New York and find the love of my life?
Um... Sex and the City is fiction. But if you can make it Non fiction, help a girl out!
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Would you give up a years salary to have the perfect body?
Yes I sure would. When I say perfect though,is not to skinny, not to fat. Kinda full. And of course healthy and the know how to maintain it.
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Have you ever come close to being completely destroyed emotionally - leaving you confused, alone, broken and possibly suicidal during your life-time?
Yes, right now looseing the love of my life. I'm no longer full, happy, i'm broken I don't know how to move past, confused yes, alone definalty and suicidal extreamly. If my mom weren't a live I'd be gone by now. No reason why she should suffer for my choices.
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In the next presidential election, will you vote for who you think will win or for who you want to win?
clinton
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How does it really feel for you at the instant a person says "I love you"?
I get this numbing feeling. Everytime my ex said it to me, I became numb. Like he said it to me a certain way, that really really felt as though he did really love me.
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Getting over my ex it's been a year and 3 months and i'm still not over it. I feel so helpless.. Any ideas on over coming this? because no matter how many times I try finding comfort somewhere else I can't.
Aww.. All's I can say is I'll be your friend. I thought that I was doing bad and it's only been a couple months. It doesn't help that I don't know how to be friends, and in turn pushed him so far away that he never wants to speak to me again. And then even the uncertainty of maybe carrying his child.
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I have a grilfriend of 4 years. i feel it is going nowhere. i stay with her as she has noone else. i still love my ex and she still feels the same.should i rekindle my relationshipwith my ex or try and move on with my current girfriend?
You need to do what is in your heart. But comming from someone who has been in a relationship with a man who still had feelings for his ex, and said it was going nowhere ever. I felt I got the short end of the stick. Because we had all the makeings of a great mature relationship. So do what you need to do. But your girlfriend will be better off alone, then to have a bf staying around out of...
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Lava lamp or plasma ball?
lava lamp
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How many of you have a Myspace? [I'm not asking for it, just asking if you have one now or had one.]
i have one. Addict here!
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I want to get my tounge pierced next week, i have a horizontal hood piercing, which hurts more?
Probably the hood piercing. The tounge pierceing doesn't hurt at all. Just kinda uncomfortable while doing it b/c your drooling and sticking your tounge out. The swelling kinda hurts, just keep your mouth clean though.
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I just got my tongue pierced about 2 and a half weeks ago and the swelling is gone but for some reason the sides of my tongue still look kind of big, like slightly swollen for some reason. is this normal?
Yeah, totally. Because when it was swollen it probably rubbed on the side of your teeth, which probably kinda irritated it some more. Just keep, keeping your mouth clean, it will heal. I went back to the piercer like three times freaking out because it was a weird feeling and I was scared b/c it was in my mouth. My tongue even turned green. So like I said just keep your mouth as clean as possible.
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I just got my nose pierced and i want to get the top of my ear done, then my belly button then my nipple. Which one will hurt the most?
Your nipple. Make sure you plan it. I know that my nipples getting sore during that time of the month. Even if you don't have that problem on a normal basis, that time of the month makes them more sensitive.
My nose took for ever to heal and is healing now even after two years. That one wasn't really painful at all, just made my eyes water.
The belly button, doesn't really...
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I want to get my belly button pierced , i am aloud ! ... BUT i am scared that i will chicken out at the last minute . If you have your belly button pierced , What did you think about when you got your belly button pierced?
I thought about the same thing I think about at my womenly dr. apt. Warm , sandy beaches, tropical setting.
Getting it done is nerve racking. For warning: they have to set up in front of you. So, it's moments while your laying there before they will actually do it.Then they will clean it, mark it, clean it again and then do it.
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My friends boyfriend come up her 6 times in a week without no protection or birth control could she be pregnant? shes saying she cant becase shes a heavy weed smoker and she said that decreases ur chances of gettin pregant
LOL... WEED, Mountain Dew what ever you can think up of to think your safe. Grow up! Don't forget to have sex while on your period, they always said you cannot get pregnant like that. *** BIG LIE***
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How long after sex should i wait to take a pregnancy test if my period is very irregular and i never know when i am going to get it so i dont actually know if i missed my period or not since it is very irregular?
It's not when you last had sex or the time after sex that measures when you should or should not take a test. It's a time frame after you've missed your period.
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I pierced my naval 2 months ago, BUT this morning i woke up and my piercing was hurting badly and it has been like this all day its worse than the little bit of pain i had when i got the piercing done IS this an infection what should I do i've been soakin
That piercing takes forever to heal. Keep it clean, keep moving it as much as you can and just realize it'g oing to hurt some when you wake up because you may have acidentally layed on it wrong. Plus gotta be careful because thats right around where your pants are.
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Do you ever come to AB because you have no one to talk to in REAL life?
yeah some times. But mostly because i can ask questions and get a answer from people who don't know me. So they can give me a direct answer. Not one that I want to hear or one that is more nutural.
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Which parent did you turn out to be more like? your mom or your dad? who did you want to be more like when growing up?
my dad!
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I have been separated from my husband, who I found out was cheating on me, for over 6 months. We aren't divorced, but I know he's seeing other people. Is it ok for me to start seeing other people too? Or will he be able to say then, that I cheated too?
It to me still is considered to be cheating. It's not to say that you don't deserve hapiness. I'd wait, I think that you'll feel better about your self.
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Do you wear sunglasses when you drive?
i wear sunglasses to drive. I wear them in the dark too.
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Is there someone that you still hold a torch for that has moved on with someone else?
Oh yeah, and it's hurting everyday. We haven't been broken up quite two months yet. He claims that he truely loved me but is already with someone else. The girl he was with before me. But my heart burns everyday.
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I'm looking for a jeweler website that sells engagement rings that are princess cut, but set diagonally (a diamond shape i.e: points going north and south east and west.) I want to show my bf what shape I like. Has anyone seen these anywhere?
my suggestion is to go to a custom jewler. Where you can describ to them the setting, then you can find a dimond anywhere. But you can buy a setting somewhere and the dimond other places. Sounds like the design you desire is very intracut.
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What's your opinion of this statement: If a man works a full-time job to support his wife and himself, no kids, and his wife does not work at all, he's within his rights to expect his home to be clean and a hot meal being prepared when he gets home.
I think yes and no. Depends on what he desires to make him feel loved, and what she can do to make him feel love. Yes he does work hard to provide for the two of them, but he's chooseing to allow her to stay home. He still has obligations to maintain the relationship and houshold, it's not solely up to her, even though that's her full time job.
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My boyfriend still talks to his ex-girlfriend, even though he knows it hurts my feelings. He says they're just friends. What should I do?
Be very clear as to what you really want him to do. Make sure you know if he's talking to her and it bothers you, that you make it clear. Also, you need to stand up for your self because if it bothers you, and he cares about then he needs to stop talking to her. If it's not really bothering you, you just want him to your self. Then explain to him, that he's going to need to make...
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I have a boyfriend and my friends said i should wait untill im older to have a boyfriend...i dont think i should..i am 11...should i really wait?
I say to do what you feel is comfortable. The reason I say this is because some people need undivided attention, compassion, someone to relate to, and have things in common. Also, I believe that sometimes you can get more from the opisite sex that you cannot from your girl friends or your boys. So if you feel as though need that affection go for it. Now don't let the whole boyfriend and...
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Which is more important to you being excessively germophobic/mysophobic and using purell every few minutes or having a healthy immune system
i believe that both will work. I mean i'm not the cleanest person and i expose my self to un nessasary germs at times. and my ex bf is a germophobic to the point of following me to the sink and putting soap in my hand before i touched anything after touching something dirty. However, he's the one who get sick the most.
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At what age did you lose your virginity or haven't you yet? And what age are you now?
24 and now 25. my partner was a virgin he was 26 and is now 27
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Girls what were your first thoughts when losing your virginity?
Is that it?
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Were you ever or are you scared to lose your virginity?
I was very scared. Then I got older, and it just happened. I found that with the combination of sex with someone I had been with in a sexual nature already just not quite that far made a diff. also loveing him. Then it just happened, it went from external stimulation to be enjoying that I move my body to where he just fell into me. And it was good. It wasn't bad, and it wasn't great...
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Do women enjoy giving oral sex to men?
I went through a phase that I loved doing it, wether he returned the favor or not. Then I went through a phase where I wasn't at all into it. I couldn't even bring my self to do it.
Now LOVE IT. My ex whom I'm still sleeping with, LOVES it and I LOVE his reaction. How he grabs my head and my brests how it makes him want to be inside me after that. All worth it!
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Well my boyfriend cheated on me, but t was for my own protection, should i leave him?
How was it for your protection? I'm not going to judge until I know why he was protecting you by putting his no no stick in someone else.
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Have you ever fallen in love with someone online but never met them in person?
No, I thought I did. But I was clearly young and not sure of what Love ment. I tried to meet and have this be complete and that blew up in my face.
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You ever love someone so much you wish you never met them?
Oh yeah. My ex who was still married, who had two kids and slept with my best friend. The man who was in and out of jail, lied about all the drugs, and drank so heavily that he constantly smelled like bar. I loved him so much that I wished that I never even met him. Because it wasn't about the love I had for him hurt when he was gone, but the love I invested in him when he wasn't...
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Have you ever loved someone so much it hurt?
Yes, it hurts so bad. It's only been a couple weeks. I read and read that it gets better or doesn't hurt so much, or that you get over it. I cannot see this happening.I get sick to my stomach when I think again that we aren't together no more.My body goes numb,and my heart hurts when I drive by his house or somewhere that we shared.I get shortness of breath and tears well up,...
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Do you think you have low self esteem?
I know I have low self esteem. I've over weight. I've got emotional problems. Everything that happens to me hurts.I think it's always me if my boss yells at me, or if a customer is rude to me or when my bf dumped me. Usually because I don't feel like I'm good enough or because I'm over weight.
I've learned that it's not always me and I shouldn't...
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What would you do if your partner had low self esteem?
Offer suggestions to them that may have worked for you.(ie: journaling, talk therapy, friends) Help them find why, or what bothers them. If you know where the low self esteem streams from, try and compliment it.(example: I used to say I felt ugly, let me put some make up on. and my bf would say you are beautiful with out make up.)
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I've been with my boyfriend for almost 8 years, since I was 16. I do love him, but can hardly stand living with him. I know he loves me, but am not sure I want to be with him for the rest of my life. What should I do?
You should think about what you want. I say think, don't speak out loud. Do soul searching, make a list of pro's and con's. Find out why you can hardly stand to live with him. After 8 years you could be resenting him , and the relationship being that you were 16 yrs old when yall started dateing.
maybe you need to find you before you can think of the rest of your life....
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I fall in love and everything always goes wrong. How can I prevent this from happening again? I do not want to be alone the rest of my life.
You cannot prevent it. Just be honest and upfront. Be you and if it goes wrong then you did everything to prevent it. B/c you are who you are.
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Is it wrong on my behalf for not allowing myself to fall in love again
Yes, but I can understand. Falling in love is the best part.
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Are you afraid of loneliness?
Loneliness is not my friend. SAD
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Dumb Dumb why you no give me Gum Gum?
Because I'm not a BLOW POP
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Do you prefer to make love in the morning, afternoon, or bedtime?
I heart morning love! or skiping work in the afternoon, or even at lunch. But mostly in the morning!
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23 year old friend of mine thinks that he is in love with a 17 year old girl. I tell him that its dangerous territory but he doesnt agree and says "shes got the maturity of a women of 25. What should i do? I love my friend and I dont want him to get hurt!
wow... my stomach hurts just reading this question. It hit so close to home. My ex dated a girl that was 10 years younger than her.Our whole relationship was she on the pedlestool. Yeah " she's got the maturity of a women of 25." I'm 25, this girl was supposely more mature then me.
Just let me tell you I was friends w/ him for a year and 9 months of this year, he told me...
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My girlfriend is so immature sometimes, how can I tell her without her getting all defensive rather than listening and udnerstanding? Do I just have to wait? Ugh, it's driving me insane.
Id be careful about telling her that she is immature. Make sure you re-evaluate the situation. The reason why I say this, is b/c my ex called me immature. And Well there are times that I'am, but there are many other area's where Im very mature.
He was very mature in area's and very immature in others as well. We weren't mature in the same area's and that is why he and...
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Can you describe bacon in one word?
welldone
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Can you desribe you mother in one word?
unhappy
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Can you describe your father in one word?
immature
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What was the first really expensive thing that you bought?
When I was 13, it was a VCR and a portable cd player.
When I was 16, I bought my mom jewelry for the first time for Christmas.
When I was 17, I bought my 1st mode of transportation,2000 ford ranger 4x4... bad boy was sweet!
When I was 24, I bought my mom a 3,000 necklas for her 50th birthday, and upgraded a promise ring from an ex.
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Do credit card companies ever settle for a lump sum payment that is less than the amount owed even if you are current on your payments and still in good standing?
I've heard through debt consolidation companies, you can request to pay a lump sum less that what is owed. However, the credit card company if agreed will report negatively to the credit bureau.
It's a catch 22, basically. You can negotiate and get out of debt now. But suffer the wrath of bad credit for a bit of time, or you can be broke till it's paid off and end up paying...
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ONLY IF you have debts like ~ a home mortgage, other loans, car and credit cards: How much money, if given to you as a gift, would it take to pay off all of your debts?
40,000-- car and credit cards!
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Does *giving* oral sex turn you on?
Oh yes, it's make me so wet!
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Is it possible for men to have multiple orgasms?
I'd agree that there is a chance a man can have multiple orgasms. My ex used to when I'd give him oral, we'd then have sex and if i were really excited i'd give him oral again. It was usually a matter of mins.
I just wish I could get him to preform over and over, intercourse, for multiple orgasms. I love the look on his face.
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Resee cups or kit-kat bars?
Resee cups. THE BIG ONES
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Whats the stupidest thing a customer at your work has said to you?
" Please don't put me on hold for very long. I just cannot hold very long, it's because I'm a diabetic."... What does diabetes have to do with it. I'm diabetic , and i had to place him on hold.
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At what age did you lose your virginity or haven't you yet? And what age are you now?
24
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How many partners have you had? (I just want to see the average on here)
1
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What is the capital of Kansas?
Topeka!
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Have you ever met someone off the internet ? if yes, how did it turn out?
Yes, many of my ex's are off the internet. B/C they are not my ex's doesn't mean the experience was bad or good. The facts of the endings of these relationships had nothing to do with the internet.
I think meeting someone from the internet is good. A lot of times, you've take a step back from the everyday life to see the real in one another. That is if they've let...
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Would you marry / date someone who can't / wont keep a job?
Heck no, I get up and I go to work everyday. I've bought my self a bran new car, I pay my bills. If someone doesn't have a job, they cann't give me the things i can give my self. So nope, been ther done that. Not happening .
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Have you ever done a late night “drive-by” of an ex’s home to see if somebody else’s car was in the driveway?
Oh goodness. I thought I was the only one in the world that does this. Ha... yeah I have just because I'm peranoid.
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I am fourteen and have never had a girlfriend in my life. Is this okay?
I def. believe it's okay. Be your self while you can. Don't rush. Don't make multiple mistakes, that tend to happen with people your age.
I've been in relationship after relationship. Although, I wasn't like slutty or easy, I just went out with lots of guys. It would be story after story, my ex this and my ex that. That my last boyfriend said what am I. or what...
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Can I hug and kiss my gf when she does not like it, especially when I need to do so?
I think that you could, but I think you should ask before, you do it. Most people that in relationships come to terms that you don't have to ask for a hug or a kiss, it's affection that couples show each other when they care or love another.
I think instead of asking " Can I hug and kiss my gf when she doesn't like it, especially when I need to do so?" is the wrong...
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Do you feel how well or how poor your ex does after the breakup is a reflection on you?
Yeah, I totally do. Because I just recently was dumped by my ex. And he was very emotional through out our relationship, even crying when he was breaking up with me. And still sharing at times his love and passion for me.
But on the other hand he's totally closed to me, I'll still slip and call him honey, or a pet name. And he's like calling me by my name this and name that....
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Do you think that your ex still has feelings for you?
Yes, I don't think I know. He still tells me he loves me everyday. It's hard to believe that he is he one who ended the relationship. And I love him very much. I do believe that our relationship ended prematurely.
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