http://www.answerbag.com/profile/3361 New Answerbag answers from Lisa Marchande Tue, 29 May 2012 18:57:32 -0700 Tue, 29 May 2012 18:57:32 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6973604 What do you think about nude slumber parties for teenage girls?<br /><br />Secretive Woman, look at this question that I posted and check out the answer by MikeD81. It&#039;s the Top Answer for the question and will be very informative on what goes on at these nude slumber parties. As far as what I think about them...as a lesbian young adult, looking back, I can... Wed, 01 Jul 2009 08:15:49 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6973604 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4849249 Is a peeled banana a safe and/or fun object to use as a sex toy for women?<br /><br />My partner and I are definitly fans of the banana! I&#039;ve heard this question asked quite a few times and when we tell people that we use bananas they get very interested and want to know more. Here&#039;s some facts and examples. For starters, my partner and I are both women. The banana... Wed, 10 Dec 2008 08:48:27 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4849249 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/60502 Would it be considered an insult to send a Happy Engagement card to one person and not acknowledge that person's significant other in any way?<br /><br />Definitely, and if this happened to you have every right to be insulted. It is possible that the person who sent the card is just too much a of scatterbrain to realize that he/she should have addressed the card to both people. Another reason may have been that the person is just generally... Tue, 23 May 2006 19:59:58 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/60502 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/60490 I had sex with my boyfriend only for about 3 or 4 minutes and then we stopped, he said he was not even close to ejaculating, what are the odds of me becoming pregnant?<br /><br />There's a slight chance. He said he was not even close to ejaculating but most men don't realize that you don't have to fully ejaculate to impregnate a girl. A pre-ejaculatory lubricating substance (commonly referred to as pre-cum) can carry with it sperm. Most of the time, the man is... Tue, 23 May 2006 19:27:31 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/60490 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/47621 My face swells up after performing "breath control play" (autoerotic asphyxiation) on myself to reach a higher sexual high. How do I stop this from happening while still being able to use this autoerotic asphyxiation method?<br /><br />You stop it by seeing a psychiatrist and getting treatment. This is a psychosexual disorder that is extremely dangerous. Autoerotic asphyxiation may turn you on more, for whatever bizarre reason (as I said its a psycho sexual diorder and is not normal in any way), but the swelling you are... Mon, 13 Mar 2006 21:17:49 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/47621 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/47620 Is there anything I can use to cover my teeth so as to avoid accidental biting while performing cunnilingus?<br /><br />Sometimes it just happens...your teeth will rake against her clitoris, she&#039;ll thrust in the midst of passion and jam into your teeth, and she&#039;ll get hurt. As was suggested, a dental dam would prevent it but its completely unnecessary unless biting occurs alot. If you want to... Mon, 13 Mar 2006 21:11:19 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/47620 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/31951 I am a 33 year old lesbian mother, and my 16 year old daughter has been making strong sexual advances towards me, and I am actually becoming very sexually aroused. What should I do about this?<br /><br />From one lesbian to another, let me give you my opinion: The most general response you will get for this question is &#039;This is not normal. Seek professional counseling immediately.&#039; To an extent, that&#039;s true: It is NOT normal, but it is becoming a new trend among... Sat, 15 Oct 2005 01:41:18 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/31951 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/26040 I recently changed jobs, from a boring office job to a physical labor job. Ever since, my girlfriend and I have noticed an incredible increase in my sexual stamina and energy. Could the new job have something to do with this?<br /><br />That&#039;s not surprising! Many times, unhappiness at the workplace can put a damper on your life as whole. This can greatly affect your sex life. You say in your question that the job was boring, hence you probably were either depressed or very unhappy at your job. The Physical labor job... Fri, 22 Jul 2005 12:04:42 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/26040 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/26038 Is there such a thing as a nymphomaniac?<br /><br />As stated, a nymphomaniac is a woman who seems to have an unfulfillable craving for sexual activity (does that make me one?). In this respect, MP1116 has the right information: many porn stars have admitted addiction to sex, and some have even used the term &#039;nympho&#039; to describe... Fri, 22 Jul 2005 11:57:19 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/26038 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/25618 I'm a man, and I've had sex with a lesbian. Why does it feel better than sex with straight girl?<br /><br />mister_c was correct. You&#039;ve only had sex with one. And let me tell you, as a lesbian, there are just as many lesbians out there who are horrible in bed as there are who are wonderful in bed. Being that you had sex with her, she&#039;s obviously not a true lesbian...she sounds like one of... Sun, 17 Jul 2005 11:37:22 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/25618 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/24990 I discovered recently that my nieces have frequently been performing oral sex on each other. They are 14 and 11 years old. I was told this is normal 'exploration' behavior, and not really incest...is this truly normal?<br /><br />Thank you all for your input. After taking in many of these answers I have acted, and now allow me to answer my own question based on what occurred: There have been requests on clarification to this question, so I will begin by telling you that my nieces are in fact sisters. They are blood... Fri, 08 Jul 2005 00:06:15 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/24990 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/24989 I have a horse fetish, but no horses. Where can I find a willing horse and a willing owner?<br /><br />There&#039;s lots of sickos out there (obviously, look at the question) that may allow you to indulge. The chances of you actually finding an owner that would allow it? Slim to nil. The chances of finding a willing horse? Only in your perverted fantasies. Thu, 07 Jul 2005 23:36:26 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/24989 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/24988 Isn't bestiality animal abuse?<br /><br />Response to deacon: You have absolutely no idea what you are talking about. Unfortunately, in my line of work, I am exposed to ALOT of this kind of thing, even though in this particular field I do not want to be. Unfortunately, I have no choice. I don&#039;t have to explain myself to you, and... Thu, 07 Jul 2005 23:33:42 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/24988 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/24987 Do guys really like girl-on-girl action?<br /><br />As a lesbian, let me tell you something: I&#039;ve never met a guy who hasn&#039;t, period. The only exceptions to the rule are the extreme types, such as ultra-religious, hate group types, anti-homosexuals, or others like those. Thu, 07 Jul 2005 23:26:58 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/24987 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/20698 I'm a kinky person. How do I go about meeting other kinky people? What will other kinky people do?<br /><br />Go to www.adultfriendfinder.com The sickest weirdos on the planet are there! response to toegazer: that doesn&#039;t make this answer wrong, and no one was asking for opinions on the quality of the site. Learn how to properly use answerbag or don&#039;t participate! Thanks! Tue, 03 May 2005 15:44:52 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/20698 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/20694 Are incest porn videos bought online from a shop in Norway legal in the United States? Should I expect possible legal or import problems?<br /><br />Because Incest is illegal in the States, it will be difficult to import the videos in. I have been to www.NordDVD.com myself, which is a lesbian incest dvd shop, and they claim that they ship to US customers frequently and have never had any problem. However, in the event that your items are... Tue, 03 May 2005 15:38:18 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/20694 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/20693 What are some of the best legitimate Adult DVD and Novelty shops on the Internet?<br /><br />For those of you like me, who are interested specifically in lesbian pornography, I HIGHLY recommend: www.lezlovevideo.com They have a huge selection, and they have many exclusive items, as well as imported videos from England. They have Japanese imports, though unfortunately they are... Tue, 03 May 2005 15:33:01 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/20693 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/20692 I have heard that a rising number of young teenage girls have been experimenting in same-sex orgies and sex games when they have slumber parties. Is this true?<br /><br />Just to add the MikeD81&#039;s very informative answer (wish my childhood was that fun!): Many young girls also practice tribbing with each other, and that too is one of the single most common homosexual practices among young girls who are &#039;just experimenting&#039;. These encounters... Tue, 03 May 2005 15:26:59 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/20692 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/20691 What is 'tribbing' or 'tribadism'?<br /><br />Why, one of my personal favorites and most frequently practiced techniques! Tribbing is the act of two women stimulating each other by rubbing their vaginas together in a sort of &#039;scissor&#039; position, where their vaginas can directly touch each other. It is highly pleasurable and allows... Tue, 03 May 2005 15:22:17 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/20691 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/20186 Is it true that some she-males (Hermaphrodites) can have both male and female genitalia? Does only one set of genitalia work properly in such a case?<br /><br />Moxie vega was correct in her answer. However, let me provide an example: I&#039;m rather embarassed to admit that I stumbled upon hermaphrodite pornography in my travels. It was extremely interesting to see how it worked. One scene I remember involved two &#039;women&#039;. One was a... Mon, 25 Apr 2005 21:57:46 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/20186 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/20182 Is it true that the clitoris on a vagina is sometimes located at the bottom, below the vaginal opening and closer to the anus, rather than the top? If so, is this considered a deformity and does it have an effect on sex?<br /><br />Beleive it or not, I HAVE heard of this occuring. It is extremely rare. I beleive there was a semi-popular b-list 70&#039;s pornstar who had this &#039;deformity&#039; as it has been called on this site. Very, very few women have actually acknowledged that they have this phenomenon. Those... Mon, 25 Apr 2005 21:46:28 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/20182 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/19455 I am a lesbian, and me and my parnter use sex toys. We dont wash them, we just pass them onto each other. Is this safe?<br /><br />I too am a lesbian, and my partner and I also share sex toys. There is no danger UNLESS one of you has a sexually transmitted disease. It is also possible to spread infection if one of you is sick, is currently going through your period, or has something along the lines of a yeast infection or... Sun, 17 Apr 2005 00:41:31 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/19455 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10170 How can I safely shave the hair around my vagina?<br /><br />I use the follow technique: 1) I use a softening agent on my hair to make it easy to cut. Things like &#039;Lectric Shave&#039;, which are intended for electric shavers, work well. Apply chemicals like this CAREFULLY. If you get it inside your urethra or vaginal opening you will be in... Sun, 31 Oct 2004 13:36:30 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10170 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10169 If parents smoked before, during and after pregnancy, is the child likely to smoke also when they get older?<br /><br />Not only is the child more likely to smoke, the child can also be born addicted to nicotine. The more a pregnant mother smokes, the more chance of addiction or birth defects. For example, extensive smoking during pregnancy can cause the child to be born with a severely weakened immune system or... Sun, 31 Oct 2004 13:12:56 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/10169 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/5624 I was very close with a female friend of mine, and it got to the point where I thought she and her boyfriend would break up, and I would have my chance, but they fixed everything and now she practically ignores me. What do I do?<br /><br />Its tragic, but it does happen. Take it from me...I am a girl, and unfortunately I&#039;ve done the same thing in the past. So here&#039;s an answer from a girl&#039;s perspective: When your friend came on hard times, she needed someone to turn to. Maybe she trusted you more than any of her... Sun, 30 May 2004 11:27:14 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/5624 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/5621 What would you do if your family doesn't approve of your relationship with a guy who has a child with another girl? He is not married and has broken up with his ex.<br /><br />It all depends on what type of guy it is. You don&#039;t want a guy who dropped his ex girlfriend the moment he found out she was pregnant. If he takes care of his child and his ex-girlfriend then he might be a good person. But I don&#039;t blame your parents for not approving...it sounds like... Sun, 30 May 2004 11:10:32 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/5621 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/5619 I want to have some professional, sexy pictures taken of myself for my boyfriend. Where can I find a respectable photographer to do this, and approximately how much will it cost?<br /><br />You should seek out a reputable modeling agency that accepts amateur photography. Searching in the Yellow Pages is very useful but take it from me...I&#039;ve searched there before and I wound up in a bad place that I&#039;d rather forget. You need to be careful on the place you choose and ask... Sun, 30 May 2004 11:06:30 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/5619