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If God knows on monday that I will sin on tuesday, How do I have freewill not to sin on tuesday? Who said God knows on Monday that you will sin on Tuesday?

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Do you consider homosexuality to be a sin/ wrongdoing? They want to put what where?

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Would I be breaking my marriage vows by getting divorced if our vows didn't include "until death do us part" or anything like that? Apparently not.

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Have you ever been falsely accused of flirting? Were you ever able to convince her/him that s/he had it all wrong? Yes. No, I was never able to convince her. After pleading my case unsuccessfully, I finally had to tell her I was sorry and didn't mean to hurt her. We were at a business function with some colleagues, the majority of whom happen to be female. Although I didn't do anything differently than I do at the office all day long (laugh and joke with male and female co-workers), she said she felt...

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my mum smacked my ass 4 times with a wooden spoon for swearing at her. Was this wrong of her? Yes. Don't put up with it. Call the police. They will arrest her and remove you from the home. They will place you in a series of foster homes until you are 18 and then you'll be on your own.

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Is it legal for a parent to take away something as punishment that the child bought and paid for 100% of? i would concider that stealing. is it? Yes. Just like it's legal for them to eat food you bought and paid for 100%, wear clothes you bought and paid for 100%, and sleep in a be you bought and paid for 100%.

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should a parent ground a teenager from something that their child bought Yes. They probably used money they got from you. But, even if they bought that particular thing, you feed, house, and clothe them. And, have the responsibility to raise them to be decent human beings. Whatever it takes.

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What would you do if you are happily married but then discover that your husband had previously been married, but hadn't told you? I don't see what the problem could be if she's happily married. The past is the past.

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Is man, by nature, created to be monogamous? If monogamy was natural, it would be like eating your favorite food. Nobody would have to convince you that it's the right thing to do.

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are men the weakest link when it comes to cheating? marry for 20yrs. my spouse lately not interested in sex. should i cheat? 20 years is a huge investment, especially if there are kids involved. Doesn't make sense to walk away unless the relationship is irreparable. If you can repair the relationship, the sex will follow unless there is a very serious health problem; she will want to fix it. If she doesn't there is still a problem with the relationship. If she doesn't want to deal with that aspect of the...

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Are you against bigamy? No, I'm not polyphobic. Polygamy is natural for some people, just like homosexuality is. It's discrimination to be against it.

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If a woman was a polygamist and had 5 husbands who were not related, whose last name would she take? All of them. Just hyphenated.

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what is it called when you dont have sex till you're married? Preparation for marriage.

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Married men: What is the best thing your wife ever said to you? "OK, I signed the divorce papers and don't want any of your money."

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Does a girlfriend have the right to forbid her boyfriend from watching pornography? Only slave owners and bosses at work scan make such demands. All anyone else can do is request or suggest, including spouses.

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What would you do if your spouse very seldom if ever is willing to have sex, despite your every effort? That's one reason they make divorce courts.

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My husband had a emotional affair last September.We have been together 12 years.I thought I healed ,but have been crying and not sleeping for 3 months.Should I walk? Walk to where? If your relationship has the same void it had that lead to the emotional affair, it's only a matter of time. Either do something to fix that or let it go.

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Do you know of any instance where cheating helped a broken relationship heal or made a weak on better? Yes. The wife of a friend of mine was cheating him out of an affectionate marital relationship by taking him for granted. He got involved with someone else and she realized that part of the problem was her taking him for granted, including lack of affection. Their marriage is stronger than ever now.

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Sex on the first date? No. That raises expectations that the relationship is going where it may not be.

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When do I tell my 12 year old daughter that the father she knows is not her father. We got divorced a year ago and I moved. Should I bring her with me because my-ex has no legal with her. Will this disrupt her relationship from her other siblings? 12 is a difficult time to drop this on her, but she has the right to know. The question is, would she want to know now or later?

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What is the most important question to ask a person that you are about to marry?OR What do you wish you had asked before you got married? Would you please sign this pre-nup?

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Do you ever feel like if you were single again, you would probably be married...soon after. Only if I can guarantee she's not a gold digger but how?

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How much privacy do you think your spouse/you should have? See each other's texts, cell calls, e-mails, correspondence, mail, know where they are at all times, with whom, lunches, censor friends m/f, etc.? Complete privacy. If you're suspicious and don't trust, don't get marred to that person.

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My wife wont do certain things in bed that I really enjoy. She says they are degrating, but my thought is if she had something she wanted me to do I would sacrifice. Maybe thats just me, please help! Help her to see if from your perspective by turning the tables. The very next time there is something she truly enjoys you doing with her but that you don't like doing (e.g. shopping, a hobby, whatever) refuse to participate. Tell her that if she pressures you, she's being selfish in wanting to force you to do something that you find uncomfortable. Maybe she'll get the message.

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What would you think of your spouse having a friend of the opposite sex that they talk to via text, phone, and facebook almost every day? What if they have had "emotional" affairs in the past? It depends on what they are talking about. If they are reliving their trysts at the hotel, that's not good. If they are talking about business, friends, or who's having the better season, Peyton Manning, Drew Brees, or Tom Brady, there's no problem. If the subject doesn't matter to you, tell him you are jealous and feel threatened by his attention to this other woman...

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"Cheating" used to mean adultery. It seems to have morphed into undefined disapproved behavior. What exactly is considered cheating now? Can I call whatever I don't like cheating? All this nouveau "emotional affair" cheating is so much psychobabble. Cheating = adultery. Period.

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Why don't some men wear their wedding rings? I see no reason to wear one.

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Why don't some men wear their wedding rings? I've seen this a lot and it's confusing for us single girls! It's 2010. Many women don't take their husband's name and many men don't wear rings anymore.

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Is a married man cheating if he regularly communicates via email and text with a young attractive co-worker who has expressed having feelings for him -- if the communication is strictly limited to business matters with no "meetings?" No. Adultery is cheating.

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Should you ever tell your S/O that you love him/her unless you are 100% certain that they will say "I love you too"? No friggin way! Never! If she doesn't love you like you lover her, you will end up divorced anyway. Take it from somebody who knows. Married her and lived to regret it. She told me about a week later, after I asked her again. That should have been my first sign but I was so idiotically stupid in love I drove right past it. What an idiot I was.

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Which hand does a wedding ring go on? Somebody else's.

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I kissed my exgirlfriend and now I want to divorce my wife. I feel depressed. I want to start a new life. and I don't know if I love my wife anymore. Does anyone knows what is going on with me? It means you want to take however many years you've had with your wife and flush them down the toilet for someone you know you couldn't make a relationship with work? It means you need to stop seeing your ex and go see your wife. It means that if you don't get your act together you will soon be kicking yourself and never stop.

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Men only! Deep down would you say most men want one women who loves them and wants sex with them and treats them good? Just one?

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What are the three best questions to ask someone before you marry them? Can you prove that you are financially independent? May I do a complete, unlimited background check, to include financial, criminal, and personal? Will you sign a pre-nup?

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What is the number one thing to look for in a partner? Financial independence.

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Is Sarah Palin too dumb to be President? Not dumb. More like simple minded. She's not dumb as mother or housewife, or even the mayor of a small city whose economy she doesn't have to grow because it has oil. But, she's far too simple minded to be the President.

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Would there be fewer affairs and less adultery if polygamy was legal? Definitely. More love and attention at home usually = fewer affairs. More sex at home usually = less adultery.

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Can i get a restraining order against my mentally abusive husband? I didn't know you could do that. My wife is mentally abusive. She nags me to no end. Looking for the local police number now.

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Would you leave your husband/wife if it wasn't for the children? I did that for a few years. Now, I'm done. But, I've got to get her a decent job, so that when I divorce her gold digging butt, I don't end up paying alimony.

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I'm 27 and make $125,000 p.a., should I consider a pre-nup before getting married? Absolutely, 100%. You don't know whether they are gold diggers or not, until after the marriage, sometimes years after the marriage. It happened to me. It can happen to you.

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What is the most important feature in picking a "soulmate?" When neither of you must pursue the other. You can't "pick" a soulmate. You either are, or you are not. When you feel that way involuntariliy, having little to do with physicality. When you can't stand to not be together, when your heart aches if you can't be together, and when you BOTH feel equally intense, you MIGHT have found him/her.   If one of you loves...

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What do you do when you feel bad about your husband's long hours of work? My wife was irritated by my long hours. She reacted angrily and became bitter and critical because I was also struggling to run a business. My reaction was to avoid her, even when I was at home.   My advice is to make him want to spend whatever available time he has with you. Make it as wonderful as you can. It will work out better for you, and he hopefully will want to work only as...

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My wife had an affair with another man, I forgave her and show that I love her so why does she keep pushing me away? Why does she not show remourse, Why wont she let allow anyone to help her? If you want to hang in there and keep trying, please do. However, I have learned from personal experience that you can't force someone to love you if they don't. I know, I tried for years. I fell in love instantly and deeply. I had to convince her to love me, and I thought I had succeeded.   As long as I had plenty of money and could provide the lifestyle she wanted, I was...

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Would you continue to love someone if s/he is lukewarm towards you? Love, no. Tolerate, maybe. For the kids' sake.

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Are you and your spouse "in a relationship together" or are you just existing without a relationship? We're tolerating each other. I would like to make it better but she's not ready. I'm about fed up and will probably be cutting her off soon. She makes almost no money, so I need to get her a decent job so she can support herself because I'm not paying alimony.

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How do I get over that my boyfriend notices attractive women, while I choose to personally keep my eyes for him only? I never notice other men, why isn't he the same? If he didn't even notice them, he wouldn't notice you either. That's what heterosexual men do. It's hard wired.

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What should you do if it turns out that money is what's most important to your wife, even more important than your relationship? (It only became obvious after you got married.) Ask her straight up if money is more important to her than you. Then, have her prove it by having separate bank accounts. You each support yourselves and contribute toward household expenses, including food. See how she acts. Hopefully, it will cause her to do some soul searching. If she refuses, you've got a gold digger on your hands.

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Do you think married couples should have access to each other's email? No, what if there's something you don't want him/her to know about?

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When one is trapped in a loveless marriage and divorce is not an option what should one do? is committing an affair justified? You don't need his agreement to get a divorce. But, putting the kids' interests and security above your own, if you can remain civil is not a bad thing.

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Does/Did your wedding ring have diamond(s) in it? Nope. Don't wear one.

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Would you consider someone having an affair if they are married and just talking to another person of the opposite sex and meeting with them but not having sex and not telling the other partner about it? If they are having ongoing intimate and romantic meetings, expressing their love and desire for each other, it's an affair. If not, they are just friends, and it's not an affair.

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How would you react if you discovered your husband had a large sum of money in a separate account? He says he had it before you were married, but he would share some of it with you. Unless she's a gold digger, it wouldn't make any difference to her.

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Why is it that sometimes I want to choke the very life out of my husband, and sometimes I love him to death and can't live with out him. Do all married people feel that way or is it just me? Sounds like mental illness. Tell your doctor you want to kill your husband. He will give you a referral to a shrink. Do it with the quickness.

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Why do we focus on the wrongness of this one beating that one? Doesn't that convey the message that violence is OK as long as you're beating up the right person? Shouldn't the message be that ALL violence is wrong? Because we live in a society that glorifies violence. You will get a lot of answers from people who justify and glorify violence, beating and victimizing those who are weaker as the best way to resolve conflict and gain power. It's no wonder that domestic violence is a problem. If we get rid of the culture that glorifies violence, and instead glorifies peace, domestic violence would...

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Are there any other reasons why marriage is sacred and should be monogamous besides religious ones? Marriage is the #1 reason for divorce. If we get rid of that archaic institution, there would be no more divorces.

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Are there any other reasons why marriage is sacred and should be monogamous besides religious ones? Sacred? No, no way. It's a take or leave it cultural tradition.

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Is your husband/wife your best friend? She's definitely way up there on the list.

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2/3 of divorces are initiated by women. Should society train men to initiate divorce more often? Men are too willing to put up with being treated like crap. Women don't put up with it. Men need to man-up and divorce her if she's abusing the privilege.

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What's the worst secret or lie you kept or keeping from your partner? She thinks I was born as a man. I had the surgery before we met and she can't tell that I used to be a woman. Plus, I had it done before we even met. So, she doesn't need to know.

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Do abortion haters share the public health option haters hatred for children? The real haters of children are the ones prefer to see them killed rather than have a chance at life, if they happen to be inconvenient.

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If your close friend needs you to go with her to get an abortion because she's carrying yet another girl (she wants a boy), would you help her or judge her? If there's nothing wrong with abortion, what difference does it make why she wants it? If you're pro choice, you're pro choice.

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Why do people who are completely ignorant of Islam hate it so much? All some people know about Islam is that almost all suicide bombers are Muslim, and that there are thousands of others who are being trained and indoctrinated to become future terrorist bombers. Take that away, and Islam's reputation is little different than any other religion.

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The guy I'm supposed to marry(arranged marriage)was chatting with me, and during the conversation, he said"did you gain weight because you look fat/bulky in your pictures (don't mind),is it just your pictures or umm"I'm 21,5'7,125pounds, what should I do? Answer his question. People can look different in one picture vs. another.

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Should a wife be able to control how often her husband talks to an ex girlfriend? No, he's not her property (nor is she his). She should stop being so insecure and let the man live his life.

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Is nagging verbal, mental, or emotional abuse? All of the above.

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If you're the sole breadwinner, but your spouse says they no longer in love with you, do you leave them in poverty? Or, stick around to provide anyway? Divorce her and take the kids with you.

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When your man popped the question, did you know it was coming, or was it completely out of the blue? SHE shocked me.

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If your spouse has stopped making love to you, but is satisfied with the marriage, would it be better for you to have an affair and not tell them, or get a divorce which would devastate them? Divorce. You can't force someone to want you. I'd just go find someone who did without cajoling. It's a waste of time. It never works for long.

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If you dont believe in God do you feel less guilty when you do something wrong I would think that there are less things considered to be wrong.

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Why are atheists generalized as christian-hating elitists? People like that guy with the beard that spells God GAWD.. He's filled with hate and rage. I think he's gonna blow his aorta.

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So i want to get him a nice wedding band, what do guys like? The invisible kind that you can't feel.

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Is it okay that my husband and I don't wear our wedding rings? It's just as good or better. Your marriage is nobody else's business. You don't need to advertise it to strangers. I'm sure your friends and family know.

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Married Men: Do you wear your wedding ring? Nope. I hate rings.

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If he is otherwise a great husband, does it really matter he won't wear a wedding ring? It's entirely up to him if he wears a ring or not. It's his finger.

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What is cosidered cheating in a marraige? Is it just sex with someone else? . . . without permission. Sometimes they are cool with it.

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I'm 21 F and my bf is 40 is he to old for me Nope.

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3 of my sisters are pregnant, every year there are always more than one that is pregnant. does this look weird to anyone elts? is any other family have the same thing going on or is it just mine? No, my brother and I synced twice like that. His kids are exactly 3 months younger than mine.

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My friend spanks her teenage daughters, it seems to do the trick but i'm not sure if i want to spank mine.... what should i do? Ignore advice from others including people who already raised their kids, and do what works for your kids. Just make sure you communicate why your kids are getting disciplined, whatever form you choose.

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My husband has recently began communicating with an ex-girl friend/friend from over 10 years ago. I trust my hubby but I don't trust her. She is married, but texted my husband while she was on vacation (with her husband)...do you think that's weird? She was probably asking for travel tips. Nothing to worry about.

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Before getting engaged, should a woman inform her boyfriend that she previously had an abortion?(prior to meeting him) No, and "he" doesn't need to mention his sex reassignment surgery. It's in the past.

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What's the best way of lowering the costs of health care? It's mainly lifestyle.   1. Better prenatal care to prevent premature births. 2. Force overweight people to lose weight, or lose health coverage. 3. People who smoke don't get health coverage. 4. Force people to exercise or lose their health coverage.Ban unhealthy fast food. 5. Ban high fructose corn syrup. 6. Ban transfats. 7. Ban soda, except diet. Maybe the same as...

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I dont understand! How can woman possibly have an abortion? I am not downing it. It is just that if you see the look in a babies eyes when they are born, and the baby looks at you, you feel different. And if you are not wanting a baby! There is nothing unique or unusual about being pregnant at a bad time. It's happened to hundreds of millions of women. Most of them feel that it being a really bad time to have a baby is no excuse for killing a human being.

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When did you start believing in the evolutionary theory? I started disbelieving it when I began to seriously study biology.

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If evolution were true where is all the intermediate fossil remains? or are there any living? The theory claims that the minute changes happened every so slowly and gradually, adding up over billions of years. Thus, there should far, far more "intermediate" fossils than have been uncovered. The gaps are ginormous, compared to what the theory is.

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Pro-lifers: could/would you marry someone who was pro-choice? No, but I have been able to convince a couple people that abortion is killing an innocent person and they now personally reject it. If she could be convinced, then I might consider her.

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What should be done if a wife is jealous of a platonic friend for no good reason, and can't be convinced otherwise? Once you've done everything you can to help her, she will need to work through the issue on her own. Or, maybe send her to counseling. You can't let her control you.

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Should you have to end a platonic friendship if your wife/husband doesn't like her/him? So, all I have to do is tell her it's a platonic relationship?!?! BRILLIANT!!!

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What would you do if you woke up in a morgue? Hope I was the security guard.

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If parents don't share the same last name, should kids get the last name of the mother, the father, hyphenated, or their own unique last name? Dad's, especially if the parents are married. Hyphenated names are long and complicated and will eventually lead to confusion in succeeding generations.

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Should women change their names when marrying? If she wants a traditional wedding, with the diamond ring, white gown, etc. she should. That's part of the tradition. If they're going to get married on the beach with flip-flops or in Vegas, she can do whatever she wants.

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Your gf/bf says, "your such a ....!" How do you respond? So, what? You're mama wears combat boots.

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If you, you're husband/wife, and two children were on a cruise ship & your husband/wife fell off the ship...would you jump and risk dying for him/her...and orphan your children...or stay on ship so that your children would have at least one living parent? My kids would forever resent me for "letting" their mom drown instead of being a selfish coward. I would be smart though, and make sure that several people knew what happened, saw where I jumped off, and I would try to quickly grab a life preserver before jumping in. A 30 second delay could be just enough to save us both. Then, I would still have my wife and be a hero forever....

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If your close friend needs you to go with her to get an abortion because she's carrying yet another girl (she wants a boy), would you help her or judge her? If you weren't pro-choice, she wouldn't ask. If you're pro-choice, you would have to support her. It would be very hypocritical not to.

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If you could go back and do over how you got married, what would you do different? Not show up.

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How much would be a fitting donation to Medical Students for Choice in Dr. Tiller's memory? I'd prefer to donate to the March of Dimes, the leading non-profit organization for pregnancy and baby health. This is their mission statement: Our mission is to improve the health of babies by preventing birth defects, premature birth, and infant mortality.

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Do you think (realistically) that someone would be discriminated against if they had an Atheist or secular bumpersticker or decal on their car? In a church parking lot for sure. Elsewhere, nobody cares unless they've got 35 different bumper stickers on their car, which convinces most people that the driver is a nutcase.

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Where can you find a good, non-traceable porn site? Just use a proxy server site. Google "proxy." There's hundreds of free proxy sites that make it so that your IP address doesn't actually go to the site. Download and use the Firefox browser, which allows you to selectively delete your web browsing history. If you delete the whole thing, it look suspicious. You can just delete the stuff you need deleted.

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How long before polygamy is legalized in all 50 US states? . . . . Will it be before or after same-sex marriage is legalized? It will be re-legalized within 10-12 years. The age of prejudice, intolerance, and bigotry is ending. Polygamy is just as old and just as valid as monogamy. It's not a slippery slope argument. It should have never become illegal.

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Why would a woman allow polygamy? It's not a matter of allow, it's a matter of participation. Polygamy is not done TO you, it's something that's natural to many people. Because of intolerance and prejudice, many people are forced to suppress it.

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Men: Would you marry a woman who refused to take your last name? No, that would tip me off that she's a roughneck, not a team player, not family oriented, and hard to deal with. I'll save myself the misery and find a sweet lady to marry.

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Should men have the choice to terminate their parental rights and responsibilities prior to week 24? Yes, a man should have a choice to abort the child from his life just like a woman can. The 24th week is too late though. It should be no later than week 20.

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What's the worst thing someone can say for their wedding vows? "I vow to love and cherish you until you get on my last nerve, which will probably be sometime toward the end of the honeymoon. . ."

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Should "until death do us part" be taken out of wedding vows, since divorce is an everyday occurrence? I would suggest that it read "stay together as long as possible."

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On our first date I fell down hard: the nail polish remover in my pocketbook broke & leaked on his hardwood floor, ruining a big patch. What should I do, and what is truly my responsibility? Do what you would want him to do, at least offer to pay something toward the damage. IMO it would be tacky not to at least make the offer.

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Should a man still open doors for a woman? Yes, unless she's a feminist. Let them open their own doors.

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Is a wife abusive if she's constantly cold, bitter, extremely critical, and just plain mean? That's a dangerously abusive relationship because she even has you unsure whether you're even being abused or not. I would leave as soon as possible.

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Is it possible to be completely honest with your spouse? All I know is, if you honestly answer the "does my butt look big in this" question, get ready for cold night on the couch.

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What are some common excuses and/or justifications used by anti-feminists? Feminists hate men. They either don't realize or won't admit their man-hate. Not sure which one is worse.

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