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Is the media exploiting Charlie Sheen's mental breakdown, or is Sheen exploiting the media?
I don't know but I am certainly not one bit sorry that 2 1/2 Men has been suspended. It has to have been the worst show of all time and believe me, I have seen some shockers! Surely he's made enough money to keep him going for a while too?
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What do you think of the Sikhism religion? What do you know about it?
I only know a little bit about it - the men wear turbans and have a bracelet on their right arm and they celebrate festivals like Diwali. Somebody told me that women have to do everything the men instruct them to do. I had some Sikh penpals and they were quite bossy. I would have been interested in learning some more about the culture but don't know when?
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Do all Sikh men wear turbans?
True Sikhs would I'm sure. I noticed that somebody mentioned negative first impressions. Well, if somebody is so small-minded that they would dislike a man for wearing a turban, then they really ought to go and get a life.
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can any body think of a reasonable reason why christians / jews and muslims go to war ?
The short answer is "no". However, where religion is concerned, reason often flies out the window.
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Rebecca Brown claims that there are Satanic recruitment camps throughout the world which train future Satanists and Witches. Do you agree?
Who is Rebecca Brown and why is her opinion so important? I don't know about specific Satanist camps but suppose that terrorist training cells would be closest to being evil.
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John Todd claims the existence of a vast Satanic conspiracy led by an order of witches called the Illuminati. Is he wrong?
Probably, it all sounds very far-fetched.
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Don't you hate it when you're in an elevator and Sarah Pallin starts singing "oh Jesus you're so fine, you're so fine you blow my mind"?
I don't know - I've never been in an elevator with Sarah Palin. I think it would be annoying if I were though.
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Do you tell lies to your children? If so, how do you justify it?
I am very bad at lying. I think it should only be as a last resort because otherwise your kids won't trust you once they find out you lied to them. It also depends if it is a little white lie to spare their feelings about something or a whopper. For instance, if they say the kids at school call them ugly and they aren't the best looking child around, it would be kinder to tell them they aren't...
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Why do babies like to be under things? My 17 month old is under my pool table at the moment....
It's a different view from under there and they are so small, they can get under tables fairly easily most times. I used to love getting under tables when I was little and have vague memories of doing just that and playing with my younger brother when mum took us out to places where there were tables. We also used to like hiding in cupboards and under cardboard boxes.
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My friend has a son who is 2 1/2 and he don't say much. He points and grunts and his mom figures out what he wants and gives it to him. I told her to make him tell her what he wants. She tells me that its no big deal. is it a big deal? should mind my own?
I think it would be better not to say any more on the issue to your friend right now. At least her boy is communicating successfully and getting his needs met. Some little boys don't really speak well until they are 3 or 4 years old. I had a brother who didn't speak until he was 5. I'm sure your friend knows you are concerned.
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My poor little girl, She's 3 and has an unpleasant smell about her and I'm wondering if it's her diet. She's an incredible picky eater. Any ideas?
Try taking her to the doctor and getting it checked out. She has probably stuffed something up her nose or in her belly button or even her vagina and this causes a bad smell after a while. She could also have a metabolic disorder or a chronic throat infection - they also cause a bad odour, as does kidney or liver disease. But in any case, you need to find out why a.s.a.p.
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When my 3 year old son throws a fit, I like to throw one back at him. It usually makes him stop. Does anyone else do this, or am I just mean?
You could try reverse psychology by saying something like "gee, that's a feeble tantrum!". They might see the funny side of it and stop.
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My daughter is 3 years old and for about 2 years now she is obsessed with pulling and tugging on her ears. She pulls and tugs on other peoples ears now. I know this is not normal. Even if i spank her and tell her to stop she still does it. Why?
There is a slight chance she might have high functioning autism. This is what I have and I was obssessed with feeling people's hair. I also used to rock my cot to get to sleep (it used to go across the room on some nights)
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My fifteen year old son doesnt want to do anything in the house. Cant make his bed, cant clean his room, cant even feed the dogs. What do I do?
Could the boy be depressed? It's very common for teenagers to be depressed so it would be a good idea to have it checked out. This kind of behaviour is common in teenagers. You might have to turn a blind eye to his room but it's a worry that he's even lost interest in the dogs, especially if they are his. He might be having troubles at school too.
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My 10 year old daugher was sent from school for wearing thong panties she was humilated do you think school should have the right to tell you what kind of under wear your children wear
I do think she is too young to be wearing thong panties but it also worries me how the school authorities found out. Maybe it would be a good idea to talk to them and find out some more about the incident. If the school has a rule about not wearing thongs, it should be clearly written down and supplied to all the parents so they will know. I don't think it is any business what panties she is...
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My 10 year old daugher was sent from school for wearing thong panties she was humilated do you think school should have the right to tell you what kind of under wear your children wear
Share your answer...
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Who is lonely tonight and why?
Me, I had a good friend on the internet (or so I thought) and now they are hardly talking to me. I don't think I did anything to upset them so think they were just pretending to be my friend. Also, I am actually on my own apart from the computer.
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We've always taken a relaxed approach to potty training, but our youngest (2yo) wants NO help with it at all. Is it possible for a toddler to completely self potty train?
Yes, especially if they have older siblings or are in contact with older children who they can copy.
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I AM WONDERING IF ANYONE HAS HEARD OF A 6YR OLD WHO IS NOT TOILET TRAINED & REFUSES TO USE IT
Yes. It's not as rare as one might think. There could be a medical reason so it's a good idea to take them to the doctor and get it checked out. It could also be for emotional reasons eg. something is making the child very unhappy.
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When is the best time to take your child of her potty and let her use the toilet full time my daughter does use the toilet and flushes it as well
Somewhere around 3-4 years old generally but some kids are ready a bit sooner and some a bit later.
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Why did you back on your word?
Because I was pressured into giving it when I didn't want to.
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Is there anything wrong with a women doing a slam bam thank you Sir......If she's honest?
Yeah, but it's nowhere near as bad as not being honest that she's only after a bit of nookie.
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My x-bf has a new gf the day after he dumps me, but hes still planing on marrying me. he says"we still have r senior trip" where he wants 2 take me to have sex w/ him but i dont want him lying to me again or havingsex when im not ready but REALLY love him
Dump this loser to the kerb and find a REAL man instead! He isn't going to marry you - he's just saying that to string you along while he sleeps with whoever else he feels like. He won't change either so please don't hang around thinking that he will.
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How do I get my gf to do more girly things? like take care of blackheads, and grimy skin on her face, and possibly wear makeup? When I look at her face, I dont feel that attracted to her, even though her body weight and look are great, especially dur. sex
You can suggest it but I think you have quite a sexist attitude towards women. Yes, I agree that blackheads and grimy skin don't look good but you could always have a shower together and scrub her face for her with a nice washer. Afterwards, you could get a comedo remover and start popping those blackheads.
Then again, you could always consider getting a new girlfriend with perfect skin.
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How do I help get my 3 year old to share well with others?
By example. If you share things with him and encourage other family members to do the same, he will get the idea that sharing is a nice thing to do.
But please have patience as little children don't really understand the concept of sharing too well for a few years and NEVER make your child share if they are really upset about the idea.
Some kids don't want to share their toys...
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What do you do, when you see a fellow member acting in a hypocritical manner?
Not much because they probably won't listen if you point it out to them. Knowing me, I'd probably have a bit of a whinge about it to somebody I knew.
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Whats the worst habbit you have right now?
Procrastinating and wasting time.
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What is the one thing you shouldn't say when you first meet your prospective in-laws?
Did somebody just fart in here?
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Does someone telling you that you "should" be grateful make you feel grateful or does it make you feel guilty at best or resentful at worst?
It really annoys me! I believe I should be able to make up my own mind how I should feel. It's usually somebody trying to guilt raise you into accepting a less than satisfactory situation or make you think they are making a big compromise or sacrifice when they aren't. It is usually quite dishonest.
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Is the following offensive or humorous: “I would be gay if it wasn’t for sex.”
Neither - I don't "get" the joke.
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Ladies, what's your take on "Old-World courtesy," such as tipping the hat to ladies, holding doors and chairs for them, standing when a lady comes to or leaves the table. Charming, curious, off-putting, or what else?
I think it's lovely - maybe some of the things like tipping the hat to ladies and standing when a lady comes to or leaves the table are a little old fashioned now.
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Have you peed in the shower?
If the water is running, sometimes. I have a bit of urinary incontinence and sometimes I get the sudden urge to go.
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Do you think that parents allow their children to get away with too much in the good manner's department these days? What about the adults? Have basic manners gone by the wayside in general?
In general, yes. Mind you, some parents still go out of their way to teach their kids good manners. The best way of course is for the parents to have good manners themselves and that includes towards their own children.
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What would you do if someone you lived with took your clean laundry out of the washer and threw it on the dirty floor on top of nasty dish rags instead of putting it in the empty dryer or asking you to do it?
I would be very annoyed but would also do my best to take my clothes out of the washer as soon as it was finished. In an ideal world, the people could talk to each other and work out the best times to use the washer to avoid such situations happening again.
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Is barging in more fitting to ladies than men? Why?
I believe women think they can get away with it more than men. Men have usually been taught to let ladies go first (mind you, women who barge in are no ladies!)
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Is it unreasonable to be upset when you wait an hour and a half in your car by yourself because people can't bother to show up somewhere on time?
No, it isn't. The only thing is, you need to be sure that both of you know what time the event starts. I don't think rudeness should be excused just because the other person was "a hot chick".
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Is considered to be in "poor taste" to walk into an antiques store and greet the proprietor with, "Hi! What's NEW?"
No, it's rather clever.
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If cheaters are brave enough to cheat, why can't they be brave enough to admit it as well?
Because they can't or won't make up their mind which one they want to stay with.
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Which relative of yours was famous for flatulence?
One of my brothers did heinous farts after eating ice cream and apples.
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IS it possible to be too fat to fart? This guy I know says he knows someone so fat that the air can't escape his butt cheeks during a fart and he needs a helper to manually spread his cheeks to release all of them at the end of the day. Is he for real?
No!!! He's just winding you up.
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Is it a sin to fart in church?
No, but if you feel one coming on, it's considerate to go outside and let it off there.
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We went to this diner were my brother works. the family was there, and all of a sudden, employees came up and started discussing hours, and his manager came up with his paycheck. i was very offended and found it very unprofessional. yes? no?
Maybe you could have a talk with your brother in private and say the situation made you feel very uncomfortable and as if you were being ignored. For all you know, he might have been embarrassed and felt imposed upon by his co-workers too.
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How long is a person obligated to stay at a open house or graduation party if they really didn't want to go in the first place and the time is from 1 in the afternoon until midnight?
Maybe until dinner time. But don't feel obliged to stay later than that.
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A family member felt it necessary to tell me that I make bad coffee. Going on and on about how weak it is. Isn't it rude to do this? Why would they just not drink it? I would never tell her how much I hate her very strong coffee.
Yes, it is rude. You could say, "well, how about if you make it instead?".
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If your close friend needs you to go with her to get an abortion because she's carrying yet another girl (she wants a boy), would you help her or judge her?
No way! I doubt I would be friends with such a dopey sort of person anyway. I wouldn't go with a friend for an abortion for such trivial reasons because it goes against my personal beliefs.
If she was so dead set against having a girl I would offer to adopt it or at least help in any other way I could but I couldn't live with myself if I went with her and would tell her in no...
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Did you graduate high school a virgin?
Yes, I was a virgin until 21.
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As a strong Pro-life individual, I totally condemn the shooting of Dr. George Tiller today in Kansas. I offer my condolences to his family and friends. No legitimate Pro-Life person or organization endorses such violence. Any comments?
I'm strongly pro-life too but don't agree with people killing abortionists. Two wrongs don't make a right.
Let karma catch them out instead.
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Do you look down on people who didn't have an abortion?
No, of course not. They showed a lot of courage in a difficult situation. I would be very disappointed in them if they drank, took illegal drugs, and/or smoked during the pregnancy and the baby was damaged but they would have to live with this consequence.
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Holes in teeths. Do you know other approaches to cure teeths, beside the classic "drill & fill"?
Not really; once they have a hole they need to be filled or if the hole is really big they need to be extracted.
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Can you name a song with a title or lyrics that mention a time of day? (videos welcome)
"3AM Eternal" - The KLF
"4 AM" - Our Lady Peace
"It's 5 O'Clock" - Aphrodite's Child
"5 O'Clock World" - The Vogues or Dave Clark Five
"10 O'Clock Postman" - Secret Service
"Midnight Blue" - Electric Light Orchestra/Lou Gramm/Louise Tucker (3 Different Songs).
"Midnight Confessions"...
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Why is everyone so rude today?
Kids aren't taught manners as much as they used to be and parents often don't set a good example.
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What the three things you pick up from a person on the first impression?
Level of personal hygiene.
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Why do girls always look down at my crotch while talking to me? It's rude. I'm looking directly at her eyes, and she stares down for 4 seconds and look back at me. WTF? This happens at work, neighbors, and even the US census lady that knocked on my door
You either have a big willy or get stiffies when girls are around you.
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Are there medicines that can help manage or treat autism?
Probably not directly for autism but if there are co-morbid conditions such as depression or ADHD, there are medications for them. Many autistic people also have issues with anxiety so an anti-anxiety medication might help too.
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How do you reply when someone tells you to shut up or shut the f*** up?
Give them a filthy look and stalk off.
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If you meet a nice gentleman at the park shouldn't you be able to breastfeed him in public?
Only if he is 3 years or younger.
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I sit near a guy at work who does nothing but sniff, cough and clear his throat (in a vile sounding way). He does it ALL day, every day. How can I approach him about this without hurting his feelings? He is driving me crazy, it sounds so disgusting.
I don't think you can avoid hurting his feelings. You could say "would you like a cough lolly - you sound all stuffed up?". If he says no, you could say "have you seen a doctor about that cold?".
Failing that, maybe you could ask your manager to shift you to another desk away from this chap.
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I'm just passing this thought along ..... Have you ever wondered if the five dollar bills in your wallet were ever in a strippers's butt crack?
No, the thought has never crossed my mind.
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Girls , have you changed what you wear to work because of too much flirting?
No, that was never a problem because I am very serious.
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Why is it that some cigarettes smell like burning stable sweepings or dog poo? I'm not talking about the roll-your-owns or grass but regular brands.
I saw a classic example at a local coach terminal recently - a young man smoking right next to a no-smoking sign.
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How would you get revenge if someone you knew kept doing extremely potent farts?
Depends if they were doing them deliberately to cause annoyance or if they were sick or something. I'd try and leave their vicinity if it were possible. If I was sure they were doing them to annoy, I would get some perfume or air freshener and spray the back of their pants.
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Farting, disgusting or releasing evil spirits from your body?
If it's smelly, then it's disgusting but I suppose it's better out than in if you can go somewhere alone.
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How's your urine stream?
Fine - it does the job anyway. It's better the first thing in the morning.
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Ever had to go to the bathroom and do a #2 so bad that you just went outside for fear that you would go in your pants? ever gone #2 in your pants?
No to the 1st one. Unfortunately, yes to the 2nd one but fortunately, it's usually been when I was on my own.
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When was your last wedgie?
Two days ago. Some of my undies are getting saggy elastic but still have plenty of wear in them otherwise and they ride up sometimes.
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Is a pissant a drunk bug? ; )
I don't know but it is a word to describe a stupid and annoying person.
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A man is walking down the street, see's a beautiful woman, stops & stares at her, (Keep in mind hes smoking a cigarette the whole time), the man son after staring realizes the cigarette is no longer in his hand. Where did the cigarette go?
It fell into his shoe.
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Cigarettes: if a cigarette is advertised as light or ultra light, how does this happen, if the cigarette has no vent holes to allow more air, instead of smoke? and, how are light and ultra light cigarettes different and made, compared to regulars?
I also suspect a bit of advertising hype, such as happens when advertising "lite" and "light" foods.
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What's your favorite way to cure constipation?
Drinking coffee or eating extra fruit and veges. I don't get constipated very often though.
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What can I do if I have a panic attack at work and don't have any medication?
This has happened to me and sometimes I forget my medication or misplace it (the condition I have also adversely affects my organisational abilities). My boss and workmates know I have a panic disorder and I can tell somebody if there is a problem.
Usually I try and get myself off to the toilets and sit there for however long it takes to calm down. I had a panic attack at work only a week or...
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What is your best way to help you control your anxiety besides medications?
Trying to keep out of situations that you know stress you out. Sadly, this isn't always possible and it might be necessary to take medication to help you function better. If the anxiety isn't too bad, you could also try meditation and relaxation CDs and they would probably help in any case.
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I'm considering going back to work for an employer that was very high-stress while I search an opening in my choice career, even though it was 2 years ago how can I overcome the feeling of fear with this old employer?
Make sure you join the union so the boss can't put one over you so easily. Also, see if there is anything else you could do instead of going back to a place where you had trouble. Only go back to this place if you've got absolutely no other choice.
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I used to smoke weed and have tried lots of other drugs. one time ago i had a serious panic attack.before this i would call myself a veteran smoker of pot now i get panic attacks alot it seems like i know ill get one and put myself in one please help?
You've probably got a chemical imbalance in your brain that leads to the panic attacks. It could have been caused by the drugs or could simply be a hereditary thing. I'd suggest going off the weed and seeing if it helps. At least, you'd be saving yourself some money too.
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Do you think Jesus liked the christian rock episode of South Park?
He probably would have found it at least mildly amusing.
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Favorite South Park Episode?
Hankey The Christmas Poo.
Also, anything with Terrence & Phillip.
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Who would you rather have sex with Trey Parker or Matt Stome? (Chreators of South Park)
No idea, don't know what either of them look like.
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Anyone else think Matt and Trey are getting lazy with South Park?
Possibly but then again, I haven't seen any of the latest series yet. I would like to see the kids progress a grade every year instead of every 2 or 3 years to make it more interesting.
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Fans of South Park: Turd Sandwich or Giant Douche?
Giant douche - mind you, I thought the brown note episode was pretty darned hilarious. Thank goodness, they don't have smellorama on TV though <lol>.
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My dog eats cat shit, I've tried telling him where it comes from but he doesn't seem to mind. Shall I be concerned about this?
You could try putting some tabasco sauce or vinegar on the cat turds to discourage your dog from eating them.
I've also known some dogs to eat baby poop from a nappy while the child's mother is cleaning them up or for them to eat toddler poos in the garden. I don't know why they do it.
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Why does my dog only poo in garden not away from house
He must feel more comfortable in the garden. Strangely enough, many dogs do not poop in their own yard but only in other's yards (much to the annoyance of keen gardeners) or out on the footpath or in the park.
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Have you ever pulled one of your own teeth out as an adult?
No, but I'm always dreaming that I am or that my teeth keep falling out. I think I would if I really had no other choice but it would have to be a desperate situation.
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If actions speak louder than words, when people ignore our benevolent actions toward them can we conclude they simply will not listen?
Probably, but it also depends on how "benevolent" is defined. Somebody might think they are being kind in giving "constructive criticism" or "helpful advice" when the other person sees it as "destructive comments" or "unwarranted interference".
I think if somebody doesn't react positively to actions that we consider kind, it might be...
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Did the person who made the quote "What you do not know can not hurt you" ever suffer from not knowing something?...because not knowing does hurt quite a bit when you know there is something but not quite what right?
Probably not; otherwise I don't think they would have said it.
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Would you get metal braces as an adult?
No, because metal braces are too ugly and I don't have teeth that are really crooked. If I did, I would prefer the less visible type of braces.
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Do people really NEED to have their wisdom teeth taken out? I don't see why the body would sprout teeth it didn't need. Is there a legitimate reason why so many people have to get them taken out, or is it just a scheme to make more money?
Depends on the person, but it's quite common for people to inherit a narrow jaw from one parent and large teeth from the other and there just won't be room for them to come in straight.
They are hard to get at with the toothbrush and floss and are therefore more susceptible to decay than other teeth.
I wouldn't say it is necessary for all people to get their wisdom teeth...
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How do you personally stifle flatulence?
Clench my cheeks and go to the toilet if I have to.
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Have you ever farted in public thinking you would not be heard but people noticed? How did you feel?
No, but I accidentally farted during a video night because my daughter jumped onto my lap. It was audible but thankfully it was odourless.
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I have these new friends( four months) they offered to take my family out to dinner for my birthday, They told me to choose the place. What is appropriate here? I am new to this state, and don't know the restaurants. What $ range should i keep it in?
You could also suggest having a barbecue.
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What's going on with lawn sales lately? It seems people only want high quality things, then don't want to pay anything. If it's got the slightest tear, rip, stain or ding in it - no sale. It's a tag sale, not a Sotheby's auction!
Not too many people know how to fix things anymore, not even mend clothes. It's important not to put a high price on anything that has the least bit of damage and be prepared to drop the price if a person says they are interested but won't pay quite as much.
The main thing I'd be interested in with a sale is to sell off as much as possible because in the end, you still make...
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What price should a shirt be at a yard sale?
Depends how much it cost new, what condition it is in, and the socioeconomic status of your potential customers.
People expect to find bargains at a yard sale so it's better to err on the side of charging less rather than more and if you notice nothing much is selling after a hour or so, you might want to lower the prices somewhat.
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Do you think Dave Chappelle is funny, what joke of his is your favorite?
He can be funny but I don't like all of his jokes. I prefer George Carlin by a long way.
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Do you like Frank Caliendo? Which of his impersonations do you enjoy the most?
The Robin Williams impression he does.
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Have you ever experienced an 'epic' fart?
Yes, this man at work farted when I was about to retrieve some files. I didn't hear a thing but the fog was thick so I thought I would return a few minutes later because surely the stench would have dissipated.
No such luck. It was just as bad as ever. A few days later in a team meeting, our manager told us that due to a number of complaints, staff were instructed not to pass wind in...
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How much hypocrite you are? in a 0-10 scale ,there is a rule... no lesser than 0 and greater than 1.
Probably about a 3 or 4.
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Is it bad manners not to answer my door when the Bible Beaters come to try to convert me?
Not really; one could also say it's self preservation if you don't want to enter into a discussion with them.
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Scientists have found the gene to create a new set of teeth. Would you want a new set of teeth, including wisdom teeth?
I wouldn't want wisdom teeth but think it would be cool to regrow the other 28.
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I lost my 2 front teeth when I was 10 and they never grew back in, is this normal?
They must have been 2nd teeth if they failed to grow back.
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Have you ever questioned why something is the way it is when there is no real reason for it except your parents or someone says that is just the way it is?
I'd be tempted to say to them "maybe for you but not for me".
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With etiquette being of general importance in England, is it ok for a woman to say "go gently" to a gentleman? In fact could anyone please tell me what the phrase actually refers to?
Yes, I think so. It could mean that she'd like him to drive carefully but it usually means she is asking him to insert carefully and not push too hard.
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How do you feel when you just want to have a good whinge and somebody jumps straight in with unwanted advice?
Maybe whinge isn't always how I'd put it but I often get anxious about how things will turn out and some people jump in with advice that only makes me more worried. I finally worked out why talking to one friend always made me feel worse - she jumps in with all this unwanted advice and makes things more complicated.
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How do you say no to someone who won't take no for an answer?
Tell them if they want you to do them favours, they have to give you some money. If they say they can't and they or their kids will miss out on an activity, suggest they talk to whoever is running it and get help from them. Otherwise, they will just have to miss out. It's not your responsibility if they do.
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Have you ever questioned why something is the way it is when there is no real reason for it except your parents or someone says that is just the way it is?
Yes, and I wasn't satisfied with the answer.
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What would you do if somebody wouldn't stop looking into your life and kept giving you unwanted advice?
I would tell them I am fine and don't need their help.
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Have you ever tried to be completely honest, then felt that your honesty is what screwed everything up?
Yes, quite a few times. I once told mum something very personal about myself and it really hurt her and I would do just about anything to take those words back.
I have trouble lying and sometimes tell people too much too soon and then they don't like me. It's hard to know how much information to give out and if something you say will be used against you later on.
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I am so embaressed! I just started a new job and my boss pulled me aside and told me people have been mentioning to her that i have body odor. I am so embaressed and feel like I cant go back to work. How can I get over this?
It will be embarrassing for a while. I suppose you have tried all the usual things like bathing and changing your clothes every day and using a good antiperspirant deodorant? If so, it would be a good idea to get your doctor to give you a check over to make sure there is no infection or other condition that is making you smell bad.
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If you are at a party and it's time to clean up and you ask if they need help and the host/ess says "no", would you take them at their word?. What if they then get cranky because you didn't help clean up?.
I asked because once I was at a party and some of us asked the hostess if she needed help clearing up and she said "no, it's okay".
Then a few days later, her husband told us she was really upset that few people stayed to help and she was exhausted and they would never have another party for such ungrateful people.
I truly didn't know there would be a problem.
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Do you believe something really bad is gonna happen in the year 2012 like some people believe?
It will be just a day like any other.
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When do you bite your tongue? Or is it best to just always speak your Mind
If I know a comment will really hurt another person's feelings, I nearly always refrain. Otherwise, I like to speak my mind at most times.
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Does abortion legitimize our ignorance towards the deformed
To some degree yes.
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There are about 5 people in front of by abortion clinic by my house protesting. What would happen if I went out there and protested for pro-choice?
I wouldn't want to live anywhere near an abortion clinic as I think it would lower the tone of the whole neighbourhood.
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Did you ever Shake your Tic-Tacs at anyone...?
No, I'm too busy eating them.
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Have you ever wished for something that turned out to be a disappointment?
Yes, a few times. However, I'd rather have got it and been disappointed than to think I missed out on something fantastic.
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What is the worst thing in the world?
Genocide.
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Does floating poo mean it's a healthy poo?
Depends if it is sloppy or not. If it is sloppy, it's not healthy, particularly if it also smells really foul. If you eat a lot of bread, that usually causes floaters.
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Are you True or False on AB?
I tell it as I see it but sometimes I make non-serious comments.
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What's so wrong with being brutally honest?
Unless you know the other person can take it, you could destroy what little self esteem they might have and they will end up doing something inadvisable anyway because they get defensive.
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Would you trust a man more just because he was wearing a suit?
No, and in some cases I would trust him less eg. if he was a politician or a used car or insurance salesman.
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How can a Christian President pass a bill that makes Abortion ok?
Political expediency - what else? Just about all politicians are in for themselves.
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There are about 5 people in front of by abortion clinic by my house protesting. What would happen if I went out there and protested for pro-choice?
They'd look at you as if you'd lost your mind.
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If you meet an old friend and they say at the end of the visit "do drop in anytime" would you take them up on their offer? Do you think such offers are usually genuinely meant or just said for something to say?
I've been told people often say it just as a matter of form and don't mean you to come and visit at all and it worries me because I don't know if I can believe them or not.
I would always prefer to have a firm time rather than such an open invitation because I wouldn't want to call in at a bad time.
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If you are at a party and it's time to clean up and you ask if they need help and the host/ess says "no", would you take them at their word?. What if they then get cranky because you didn't help clean up?.
I think if they want help they should say "yes" when you offer to do something.
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Whats the best thing to prevent you from sweating and stinking from sweating?
A good antiperspirant deodorant - roll on is best because it gives better coverage than a spray on.
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If a work colleague has bad personal hygiene, how can you make them aware of it without upsetting them?
I don't think you can avoid upsetting them but try and be as tactful as possible.
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My son won't talk to his kindergarten teacher when she greets him at the door. He was the same in pre-school. He approaches kids easily and is a clown by nature, but clams up during greetings. She took away his recess because of this. Any suggestions?
Hmm, I still think taking away his break was a bit harsh. There must have been a reason he was sullen and pouty - another child could have sneakily pinched him or something.
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Does anybody really like music by the rock group Boston? They are one of my favourite bands and I got hooked on their music after hearing "More Than A Feeling" in the late 70's.
I have their first two LPs and think their music has certainly stood the test of time.
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For nearly a year I have been sleeping with a work colleague who has a girlfriend. Thinking he would leave her. Now she is pregnant. He says that's not what he wanted. We still work together but how do I move on or should I wait to see what he does?
I think it is a waste of time waiting around for this guy because he uses people. Is there a way you could get transferred away from him? It would be far better to lose this guy and look for somebody who is free.
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There is so much anger out there. You don't have to go very far to find it...it simmers and seethes and is just below the surface and when it pops out it is very scary. Does anyone know why so many people are so angry?
I think people often feel cheated because life has got harder not easier and because there is so much lack of connection between different people and groups of people. There also isn't enough deterrent when violent crimes are committed = the prison sentences are often ludicrously short - amounting to a slap on the wrist for the perpetrators.
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What is a place that is considered rude to have your phone turned on in?
Church, the pictures or a theatre during a play, when you are talking in person to a friend (unless they have said sincerely that they don't mind), on a date, and during meetings. I also had the extreme displeasure of just about having my ears blasted out on the bus today by a guy talking loudly on his mobile phone and was tempted to say "do you think you could talk any louder - the...
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Abortion. A sin or not?
It is evil - I don't know if that counts as being a sin but it is certainly against nature and humanity.
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What irks you?
Throat clearing people.
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Why has dysfuntion become Americas favorite past time?
Because that's the only way to get attention (or at least that's what a lot of people think).
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What would you do if the person sitting next to you in a theatre ate out of your popcorn box?
Give them the rest because I don't like movie theatre popcorn.
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What are your "buttons"?
When I'm feeling miserable, I want to be able to feel that way for a little while without having solutions pushed at me that I don't feel up to implementing at that particular time. Once I get the angst out of my system, then I can start to think of things to improve the situation.
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When people get their fingers messy while eating, sometimes they lick them instead of wiping them on a napkin, what do you think of this?
I don't really care except maybe if they want to shake my hand afterwards. Usually I would be too busy enjoying my own meal to take any notice and besides, it's something I do sometimes.
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Can 'please' and 'thank you' be used too much? Do you think it's used enough?
Only if they are spoken in a rude or sarcastic tone. I don't believe sincere pleases and thank you's are used enough.
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Should "partial-birth" or "intact dilation" abortion be banned?
Yes! It is an abomination. Also, there will be other women in the hospital at the same stage of pregnancy where the doctors are doing their utmost to save their babies and this will upset them. I know I could not have been around a woman who would do something like that when I was about to give birth myself.
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My co-worker is trying to lie her way into top MBA programs. She is writing letters to the admissions committees telling them she "leads" various important projects, when in reality she does close to nothing. Is there anyway to let the MBA programs know?
You could write them a letter but honestly, I'd just let her stumble and fall on her own without any intervention from you. If the MBA program people have any sense, they will soon see through her ruse.
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Has a co-worker ever told on you to the boss because you made a mistake?
Yes, or even because I broke a tiny rule. It made me very angry and caused a lot of trouble and I think they did it because they were jealous that I was smarter than them.
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What is the best way for a male manager at work place to resolve the conflict between two junior female staff?
Find out why they aren't getting along and be prepared to move them well apart from each other if the situation isn't likely to be resolved any time soon.
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Why does it seem like there is such a lack of manners in the world today?
People make more excuses for bad behaviour in themselves and in others.
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Should a woman be able to have multiple abortions?
No, anybody can make one mistake but if they keep on doing it, they are just proving how silly they are and society shouldn't have to keep covering for their silliness.
At the same time, I don't see how they can be stopped under the current laws. They have to live with themselves and if they later find they can't have kids when they want to, they can't really blame...
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How do you know if you are already matured?
I wish I knew but a couple of things are: it's when you realise there are others in the world besides you and you can start to see another person's viewpoint.
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We attended a memorial service at the Funeral Home today. A young woman wore a black dress, too open and too short. Looking at her you 'd think she came to cocktail party and not to Funeral Home. Is it appropriate outfit for the memorial service?
Probably not but maybe that was the only black dress she owned or maybe she didn't know it wasn't appropriate. I think the most important thing is she turned up to the service.
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What is the most distasteful situation to make a joke in?
At the hospital when somebody is on their deathbed.
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What would you say to someone (like boss's secretary) that is always criticizing what you're wearing and your fashion sense? (e.g. "My God, when are you going to get some new clothes?" or "You know your clothes are 20 years out of style?)
Ask her when she is going to take you to the dress shops and buy you some new clothes. That's sure to shut her up really fast.
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When you are in a store and looking at something-and someone walks in front of you without saying "excuse me," how does it make you feel?
It doesn't bother me if they don't push past rudely but what I really get fumed up about is where a person barges past and says "excuuuse me" in a really loud voice as if I am in their way, particularly when there was room for them to have gone behind me.
Then there are the people who creep up behind me and do the same. If they asked nicely I wouldn't think it was rude.
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If someone farts in an elevator should someone ask, who farted?
No, but I would have my suspicions. I'd have trouble not laughing because farts are funny.
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If you found your partner counting a huge amount of money, knowing a local bank had just been held up, and your partner admitted it was them, would you turn them in to the police?
I couldn't - not unless somebody had got killed or injured and even in that case, I would beg them to turn themselves in.
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Where can I find a list of famous luminaries who have Asperger's or would've been diagnosed with Asperger's if they had lived in our time?
It's difficult when it's famous people who died a long time ago because we can only speculate.
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Why doesn't Dora the Explorer attend school?
Her parents got an exemption for her because they are teaching her at home.
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Why was Charlie Brown so bald at his young age?
He had some extremely rare genetic condition that made him only grow two hairs on his head.
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Is Sealab 2021 based on an older animated show?
Yes, Sealab 2020 which used to be shown in the 1970's. I have a Sealab 2020 board game that somebody gave me years ago.
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Has anybody been watching the "Aqua Teen Hunger Force Colon Movie For Theaters" on Adult Swim? i dont know if its an april fools joke, or what...but its irritating...what do you think?
Don't know - sounds like a spoof or some sort.
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Please I beg of you tell me how this is not murder?
It is murder - of course it is.
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Quick poll: How many of you believe a healthy woman carrying a healthy foetus at 8.5 months gestation should be allowed to electively abort it?
Any doctor who would do an abortion at that stage in such circumstance should hang their head in shame.
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Do you think that there is anything wrong with Michael Jackson? Do you think he is guilty or innocence for child molestation?
I think he is innocent of child molestation. It's well known that the parents of the kids who accused him were money hungry. I would say he has issues, most of which are probably the result of his upbringing.
He seemed to have had all that plastic surgery to avoid looking anything like his dad, who was by all accounts physically abusive to his children.
He also seems desperate for...
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Would you shake hands with michael jackson?
If I ever met him, yes.
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As a man, if Michael Jackson were a woman would you date him? As a woman, would you date Michael Jackson as a man?
He could be entertaining.
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What would you do if you saw Michael Jackson peeking in through your window?
I'd say "what are you doing here?"
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How do I know If I'm a redneck?
Every other tooth is missing.
Half your male rellies are called either Bubba, Jed, or Jethro.
Your wife's hairdo regularly gets chopped off at the top by ceiling fans.
Your idea of logging on is to put another log on the fire.
Your ute is your best friend.
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Fart jokes, crass or funny?
Very funny but also cr(ass)
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I had all 4 of my wisdom teeth pulled two years ago, and just since yesterday I have this pain where my bottom left wisdom tooth would be. the pain is getting worse and it is getting inflamed. How likely is it that I am getting a second set?
It could be a bit of the tooth's root that they missed when they took the teeth out. I seriously doubt it would be a second set coming in.
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If you had a choice in losing your teeth or having yellow teeth which would you do?
Keep the yellow teeth. After a few years of having your teeth taken out, your face usually sinks a bit and makes you look older than your age and dentures have to be refitted every couple of years or so because your gums tend to shrink.
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My daughter is 7. she has had two filings in the same tooth one year after another. another dentist says now she has bacteria and infection under the tooth wants to remove because he can see her 10 y tooth under it. should she have it removed or 2nd op.
Probably better to have it removed then.
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When you stumble across something gross, is it usually the smell or the sight of it that grosses you out more?
Definitely the smell!
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My many nests of paper wasps and mud daubers have had a complete die off this month (July). Why on earth would they die off now, while the weather is still very warm and there is plenty of prey for them to subsist on? I've never seen this before.
I'd suspect either a parasite or some kind of fungal infection that has got into the wasp and hornet population where you live.
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When did you last literally shit your pants?
Embarrassing, isn't it?
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Why do some people pick their nose and eat it? Are you a nose picker? ewwww!
Reminds me of a kiddie rhyme I used to hear at school:
"everybody knows (insert name here)
picks their nose
rubs it in the dirt
and eats it for dessert".
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What would be one vice that you would like to rid yourself of today?
Worrying and fretting.
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Do you ever catch yourself being critical of others for doing what you know you, yourself are guilty?
Sometimes. I try not to but forget on occasion.
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You have beat a bad habit, why did you go back to it?
Life got difficult again.
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What happens if someone farts at work?
Someone starts to laugh and then others join in.
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Will a broken infected tooth make me feel run down?
Definitely - you need to get that tooth pulled asap.
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Is it even REMOTELY possible that a 15-month-old child could "disrepect" a man 18 years of age? And even if she did, did the child REMOTELY deserve THIS? (See link.)
No, they would be too young to understand. I hope this guy suffers in jail and never gets let out. Poor little child - she could have been feeling sick and that's why she didn't eat.
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Do you think it's fair for a child to be grounded on Spring Break for not wanting homework on their break?
Not fair but life often isn't fair. I don't think many kids want homework on their holidays.
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Is it possible to watch satellite TV for free if your neighbour (neighbour paying for it) has it? Does it involve copper wiring?
Maybe, but it's not a nice thing to do.
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This past weekend my neighbours had a house party. Although they kept the noise down fairly well, they let their dogs run loose to poop all over the place, and dropped cigarette butts everywhere. What annoys you about your neighbours?
Screaming kids! I think the best thing would have been to gather up all the dog turds and butts and put them in a pile over the neigbour's fence maybe with a little note to say you are just returning some lost property.
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How do i break up from a relationship. my gf cheated on me but loves me. she says she will insult me with my friends if i dont do as she says. please help
Is she really loved you, she would be trying her utmost to make it up to you after cheating and wouldn't be making stupid threats. She only loves herself.
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Should i break up with my gf? it's only been 2 weeks and i dont feel attracted to her, physically or emotionally. when i'm with her i feel like im just killing time. I like being single. she's crazy about me and i dont want to hurt her, what should i do?
Have you got a friend you could introduce her to?
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I've been on one date with a girl who has since texted me asking if I want to meet up again. She's a nice girl, but I can't think of a reason to meet up for a second date. I feel bad not texting her back... what is a good way of doing it?
Didn't you like the first date? I think it's only polite to text her back, too.
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Do 3 year olds understand lying? my girlfriends daughter lies to get her way
Not properly. They might have a dim idea but they are too young to know the difference between wishful thinking and hardcore lying.
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My son won't talk to his kindergarten teacher when she greets him at the door. He was the same in pre-school. He approaches kids easily and is a clown by nature, but clams up during greetings. She took away his recess because of this. Any suggestions?
I didn't like my kindy teacher because she was a cranky old bat but can't remember if she used to say hello to me or not. I was always getting into trouble for one little thing or another while other kids ran riot; and I found out years later it was because she was bigoted against our religion. I don't think she was a fit and proper person to be in charge of small children.
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Did you see the two girls 1 cup video?
Unfortunately, yes. Tell me that was peanut paste or caramel pudding in that cup - please.
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How excited do you get when someone in your family or extended family gets pregnant?
Very excited!
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What series of really bad events would have to happen to a person to participate (as the subject) in something like the "two girls, one cup" video? AND WHAT IN GOD'S NAME IS A TOILET SLAVE!?
Personality bypass.
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Where can I find advice and training-hints for learning to swallow shit of my mistress completely without making a mess.
Who knows? It's a really dumb idea to do something like that as it is so gross and you will probably catch a disease.
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What is the biggest trap in life for humans?
Giving up their principles in order to be popular or for the sake of greed.
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I hear there is a sale on "make believe." Will you be buying some?
I believe I might just buy some. It will make my day.
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What are somethings better not shared? (Not what you "shouldn't" share; I mean "better" not shared)
Details of how many sexual partners you've had
Bigotry
Lice and scabies and worms
Details about your toilet habits (unless your doctor needs to know for some reason)
Boring stories
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Do u believe the law of avg works out in end? ie, I work in a call centre where I'm expected to get an avg of 10 min per call. Compared to equal reps, should my avg b approx the same as other reps over a 1 mth period when we get long calls & short calls?
Probably - but if you get a lot of bad or complicated calls and they don't, your average would be down.
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Should mercy killing be legalized?
Not legalised but there should be more mercy shown to people in the legal system when they are charged with mercy killing.
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Are there any plans to release Max Headroom on home video or DVD?
I don't really know. Anyone?
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Besides Max Headroom, what other movies and TV series has Matt Frewer appreared in?
He certainly has been a busy guy :)
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Do you think women who breast feed in public are odd?
Of course not! Babies get hungry and thirsty whether they are in public or not.
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A friend of my wife still breastfeeds her 9 year old son. What do you think about this?
He's really old enough now to give it away. Maybe it has become such a habit that neither of them want to give it up but still...does the boy have multiple food intolerances or compromised immune system? Mind you, I fed both my girls past the baby stage and they grew up fine but they weaned before they were 9.
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Did anyone else here have to wear diapers as an older child?
No, mum had us out of them by about 10-12 months during the day and only put them on us at night until about 18 months or so. I am amazed at how many parents keep kids in them till they are 4 when those children don't have any disability that would make them slow to toilet train.
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My friend is pregnant, but can't afford necessities for the baby because she's poor. I'd like to help her buy supplies for when the baby comes, but I'd like to do it without spending a lot of money. Any ideas?
Also, encourage her to breastfeed for at least 6 months as that will save a lot of money and be healthier for the baby and her. Formula is one of the big expenses mothers incur and sadly, it is often the poorer mothers who have the lowest breastfeeding rates.
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What is a good age to start havin sex?? 15?? 16?? younger or older?? for my children..
At least 18.
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What would you do if your 12 year old told you she was ready to have sex?
If she said biologically ready, I would say "maybe, but not emotionally ready, so don't do it" and if she just said she was ready, I would say "no you aren't" and tell her all the facts about getting pregnant at such a young age eg. having to stay home with baby while her friends are going out, losing sleep, etc.
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If millions of bald men all over the world for many generations were to excessively tan their bald heads, would humans eventually adapt to not bald to protect our heads?
No - all that would happen is they would put themselves at unnecessary risk of getting skin cancer.
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Why do bald men sport the “comb over” look? Isn't it better just to accept the loss or shave it all?
Comb overs don't look good. If a woman disliked a man simply because he was losing hair, she would be a shallow creature indeed.
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CAN YOU BE TERMINATED FOR USING PROFANE LANGUAGE EVEN THOUGH IT WAS WRITTEN ON PAPER?
Yes, I would say so. It would be very petty though if it was something like the above example.
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Why do kids at school class kids who cut themselves as an emo whenthey are not isnt it wrong to judge people isnt it
They don't understand all the issues involved. It is wrong to judge people but sadly it is human nature.
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Do i have the right to be a girl guide if i cut myself
Yes, but it would be a good idea to find out why you do it and see about getting help asap.
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Is it normal to tell others that they're ugly, that is, if you think they are ugly?
Not usually. It's normal to think some people look ugly and/or have an ugly personality, but you'd keep it to yourself. Plus, it's very unwise and hurtful to say it to anybody.
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Is it okay for a sibling to do nothing but watch while another sibling gets physically punished by a parent?
It's not healthy but they are probably terrified if they say anything they will get smacked too. I tried to speak up for my little brother one day and I got hit too. If dad was going to hit the boys, I would leave the house and walk around the block once I got older.
Mum used to tell dad he was too harsh sometimes and he would get very angry with her and tell her not to interfere.
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If any terminally ill person was seeking assisted euthanasia, should the spouse be arrested if they take them to where it can be undertaken?
No, I don't they think should be.
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Read this article, ponder the quotation below, and then can you tell me what you think? http://www.guardian.co.uk/world/2009/feb/08/englaro-italy-vatican "the prime minister added that, physically at least, she was "in the condition to have babies"
I think it is cruel to starve and dehydrate a person to death, even if they are unconscious. She might still be feeling something.
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Do cutters usually go around and brag about being cutters?
No - very rarely. I did it a few times when younger and often didn't tell anybody until years later. It seemed to relieve some of the pressure in my head when I was having really black thoughts. I wouldn't brag about it and don't think it is something to be happy about - it is a sign of desperation and severe mental anguish.
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A friend just told me that his tooth was really irritating him as he kept having continuous problems with it. He then told me that it was irritating him so much that he pulled and pulled and it came out. I'm worried..what should I do?
As long as he isn't in pain anymore, I wouldn't worry about it. He seems to have solved his trouble okay and wouldn't be the first to do something like that. Mind you, if he started pulling out other teeth I would then worry.
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Have you ever hurt yourself on purpose? If yes, what did you do and why?
Cut, burnt and hit my head on a wall. It was because at the time I was in a lot of emotional pain and was trying to distract from it with physical pain. I also pulled out my hair sometimes and it was when I felt overwhelmed from being pressured to do stuff I couldn't do or if somebody was really nasty.
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The president of the state university near where I live makes almost twice what President Obama makes. They will be laying off 400-500 employees, including many of the night-shift janitors. Is this justice?
No, it certainly isn't!
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Should I leave my current retail job ($28,000AUS a year) and seek work in a call centre ($48,000AUS a year)? My current job is pretty laid back but I find it very boring. I'm scared to change jobs and lose the job security.
I wouldn't because in call centres, you are usually not treated very well and it is a high pressure job. You might enjoy it if you like talking to lots of people but if you want to apply for a call centre job be sure to find out exactly what you are expected to do.
The pay might also be higher because you could be put on a contract where you don't get such good conditions. I'd...
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What is the most effective way to politely end one of those annoying calls from a call centre?
"Sorry, I'm not interested" then hang up. If you're worried about a return, take the phone off the hook for a little while.
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What is something that might cause a bit of embarrassment to you?
Saying something really stupid in front of people I'd like to impress.
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What makes you happy at this time in your life?
Seeing my beautiful daughters all grown up, spending time with my baby granddaughter, my cats, feeling a bit more settled within myself than when I was younger.
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What is the longest amount of time you will stay on hold on the phone when calling a company before your patience runs out?
40 minutes is about the longest I have ever "held" but gee, I was cranky when they then had the hide to tell me the line was closed and I should ring back the next day!
Obviously our calls aren't very important to them if they make us wait so long. I don't blame the staff who no doubt are doing their best but the whole call centre set up in itself.
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Would you get offended if at every visit your dentist said you had really yellow teeth but when you look in your mirror, they are only a little bit cream coloured?
Thanks Mrs Cleaver - he also wants to do this other cosmetic treatment that will cost over $1000 and applying a bit of pressure. I just about feel like going to another dentist and getting a second opinion about just how much more treatment I need.
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Does it hurt to get your teeth whitened? If so, why?
I don't know but it could if they are using strong chemicals because they could be eating away at the surface of the enamel. I wouldn't be keen on getting my teeth whitened and would want to know all about what the treatment involves first.
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Would you get offended if at every visit your dentist said you had really yellow teeth but when you look in your mirror, they are only a little bit cream coloured?
He says it is because of age and wants to charge me $500 or so for teeth whitening treatments. I am not bothered by the colour of my teeth but it is getting old being told just about every time that they are yellow.
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Do you think it is ok for 13 year old to be pregnant? why or why not?
Not okay - it's actually very sad. They would need a great deal of help from their family and their parents or relatives would probably have to do most of the child raising for the first few years so she can continue on at school.
The big trouble we have here is girls nowadays are often biologically mature at 12 to 14 but our society also keeps young people in an extended adolescence...
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Who else thinks the birth of the octuplets is obscene?
Not obscene but very inadvisable. Why would this woman have needed further fertility treatment when she already had six kids? I think the doctor who did it needs a sound slapping.
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My best friend is pregnant, she's had many abortions and wants to give this one up for adoption. The father wants to abort the baby and refuses to sign his rights away. What can she do legally? (This feels so Jerry Springer..)
Can she leave the country? In any case, she probably needs to get legal advice. Maybe she has finally realised she can't just keep using abortion as a means of birth control. If she doesn't want kids, she should get sterilised.
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Help!!!! I am divorcing after one year of marriage. We have a two year old daugther. I recently found out I was pregnant with our second child and he and his family all want me to get an abortion. What should I do?? I don't know how to feel.
I think he wants to squib out on paying child support. Would you really want a monster like that around your child/ren?
I would advise getting legal advice and never being alone with any of them.
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Theres a guy who really wants my 8 year old sister to go fishing with him his names richard golberg seems like a nice guy should my parents let her?
How old is he? Does he want to go just with her? I think they should only go fishing if there is adult supervision.
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Do you think an 11 yr. old girl is too young to wear makeup?
Yes, except maybe a little lipgloss or covermark if she has a birthmark.
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When interacting with the other person, you suspect they have Asperger’s Syndrome. What do they say and/or do that causes you suspect Asperger’s?
I think it is easier to spot Asperger's in another person if you have the condition yourself or have friends or family members with the condition.
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KILLING Quaking Aspin tree ROOTS AND SUCKERS FROM NEIGHBORS YARD.
It would be a good idea to talk to the neighbour with your concerns first.
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How do you kill the roots of a bush once you have dug it up
Douse with kerosine or weedkiller (as long as there are no good plants nearby that you want to keep).
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Would you prefer to be dead rather than autistic?
No! Of course not.
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When interacting with the other person, you suspect they have Asperger’s Syndrome. What do they say and/or do that causes you suspect Asperger’s?
If they often take comments completely literally eg. if you told little Johnny he'd better "pull his socks up", he would bend down and start pulling up his socks or would say "I can't because I'm not wearing any socks today".
They talk on and on about a favourite interest and don't notice when the other person/s lose interest.
They get very upset...
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Do you know someone with Asperger's syndome? In case you don't know, it is a high functioning form of Autism. People with Aspergers have an average to above average intelligence. Do you know that Bill Gates is speculated to have it?
Yes, me. Also, I have a brother who shows many of the traits (but not as many as me) and another who has a few traits. I think my late father was Aspie, as was one of his brothers, and my mum also shows some traits.
I've also been very fortunate to meet some great aspie people locally in the past few years.
Bill Gates might have the condition but until he has an official diagnosis, I...
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If i ware to get surgery can they make my whole face look like this http://www.chrisbrownworld.com/photos/travis-0#comment-563368 even the eyelids and the eyes and the white part of the eyes too
Hey, just a word of advice. You don't need to post a question lots of times.
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Could you work with disabled adults?
Yes, I think so but couldn't do a job involving any heavy lifting.
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Why do some people seem to dislike those who have physical disabilites like the ones who use wheelchairs?
They fear what they don't understand and fear leads often to dislike.
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What is your cat doing right now?
Probably sleeping on my bed, the little darling.
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Is it possible for dogs to have strokes when they are older? If so what can be done to help a dog who seems to have very limited motor functions and seems to not remeber her name or masters?
Yes, it is. Once a dog has got to the state you describe, there is very little you can do for them and the kindest thing is to have them put to sleep.
I know of some people who kept putting off having their little dog put to sleep after she'd had several strokes and she just got sicker and sicker.
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My dog had a partial twisted stomach and died 3 days later the vet said he had a high fever and fluids in his stomach cavity he was able to have bowel movements does any one know what he die of
That's terribly sad :(. I suspect he would have died of peritonitis.
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My dog has spots of blood in her vomit. she's not really eating very much. whats wrong with her?
Depends but that isn't a good sign. Hopefully, she hasn't been poisoned or has cancer but you need to get her to the vet as soon as possible.
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My two year old Rottweiler has lost a drastic amount of weight. Her eating habits and behavior are normal. However, her coat has changed to nearly all gray. Any explanations?
Have you checked her poops? She might have a heavy worm infestation or some kind of food intolerance. In any case, you need to have her seen by the vet as soon as possible for she is not a well dog.
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Australian Shepard by the name of Molly Brown is a fixed approx 14 years old has maligent neoplasia - cancer. Only signs are one swollen lymph node in neck and a slight swelling on one side of bottom gum line. Radiation and chemo not ... please to reply..
The important thing is whether or not she seems to be in pain and if she can still get around. If she is in pain and/or cannot walk, the kindest thing would be to have her put to sleep.
Otherwise, the best thing is to keep her comfortable and give her her favourite foods and as much affection as she can handle.
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She has ear mites and is 10 years old has just started going in her back legs and no amount of baths can get rid of her stinky odour, I have tried drops in her ears and her pee has blood at the end
I think it is time to have poor fluffy or fido put to sleep as she is a very sick pussycat or dog.
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If you have a photographic memory, is it considered cheating when you take a test and can see the answers clear as day in your mind?
No, of course not. You just have a special talent and you are quite allowed to use it to do well on tests.
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Have 9 yr old son.At school he won't let teacher be in charge. Gets sent to "focus" rm. a lot. Has some "Asperger's like" tendencies, but not sure if that's what it is. It's like he turns it on and off. Good days/bad days. Any idea what could be going on?
Having good days and bad days is common for kids of any kind and especially for those with any kind of condition such as ADHD or Asperger's. They are not infrequently brighter than their teacher and don't understand why it isn't polite to act as if that were the case.
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Do Aspies still improve their social, emotional, and organizational skills or do they hit a “ceiling” sometime in their lives?
Usually they improve over time unless the person has become so depressed and discouraged that they don't feel able to try any further.
That said, they may reach their limit in some skills sooner than others. I seem to have just about reached my limit with organisational skills or maybe I just got tired out.
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Are you or someone you know affected by Asperger's? If so, how as this affected your life?
Yes, me. I didn't know it for years and neither did my family. The rejection and misunderstandings meant I grew up with a low self esteem and it has been very difficult to learn to accept myself for who I am instead of thinking I am a failure.
It was a huge relief to finally get an official diagnosis and have people realise I wasn't just being lazy and ignorant if I didn't do...
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Don't you hate it whenever you're pissed off and you ask an important question, then somebody judgmental comes along and just makes you even more mad? I don't wanna deal with people sometimes >=[ Sorry, I need to vent. urghh!!!!!
Yes, I do! They are very lucky I didn't slap them one.
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Do you ever get stressed out about things that other people may consider small?
Yes, like people changing their plans at short notice, noisy kids, rudeness. I get told I am over sensitive or am the "only one who has a problem with it". Grrr...
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If you are tired or don't feel good, do you notice you don't have as much patience for people?
Yes. I wish they wouldn't be so noisy or otherwise irritating.
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What are some of the things that seem to make people become easily impatient?
Having to wait ages in line at the bank or shops when you work and you are on a short lunch break and the line you are in seems to consist entirely of people with long and complicated queries.
Not being able to leave a party when they are tired because their partner or friend/s they came with are still chatting and not showing any sign of stopping any time soon.
Communication difficulties.
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What is the most annoying thing a boy can say
"Check out the hooters on that chick!" - when they're your boyfriend.
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What's your biggest pet peeve about work?
People who cackle loudly or continually clear their throat when I am trying to concentrate on a challenging piece of work.
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How can I get the neighbor’s dog to stop crapping in my yard?
If you can catch them in the act and you have the hose handy, squirt them in the bum.
Pick up the poops with toilet paper and put them back into the neighbour's yard.
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What do you consider to be your most annoying habit/trait? What do others consider to be your most annoying trait/habit?
Being stubborn.
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I livve in Hanover Ind, I have built a movable shed about 2 feet from the property line. Now I am being told that I have to move this building. Just how close to the property line should I be.
See if they can show you a copy of the ordinance on paper.
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How many times would you let your neighbor mow your yard before telling him that he is mowing over the property line?
As long as he didn't mow out any plants that I wanted to keep, I would say more power to him.
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How do you get yourself out of a manipulative situation? Is the answer really just leaving?
Maybe manipulate back but I think most times you have to get out of the manipulator's way.
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Name something you that you can pop?
My knuckles.
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Is it okay for a neighbour to reach about 12-18 inches over your fence and hack off branches of your shrubs? I would have trimmed them back if they had asked but am not happy that the branches weren't cut cleanly.
I don't mind so much the fact that they cut them off over the fence but that they cut them raggedly meaning the branches could get rot in them and maybe borers. The guy wants to kill one of my palms and I said no I don't want it killed but would be prepared to have it moved to a different spot.
We have got on quite well over the years but maybe that has changed since I didn't...
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I cannot get my questioned answered,Need to know how far my neighbor can plant shrubs next to my property line(how many feet are they supposed to be away from it.)
I'm having some issues with that now as a neighbour says one of my palms is cracking the driveway and I can't see any cracks. The palm was a present from my mother and a very rare variety and I'd rather have it moved than killed.
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Compare and Contrast the autism treamtns: Discrete Trial Training (DTT) and Pivital Response Training (PRT).
Very good and educational answer and will help a lot of parents with children who have autism.
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Is there a connection between Autism and physical beauty?
Possibly - nearly all males I know with autism are drop dead gorgeous! Then again, most of the females I know with the condition aren't so pretty.
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Did "Henry Higgins" (fictional character in the film "My Fair Lady") exhibit symptoms of Asperger's?
I think so.
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If someone discovers that another person has Asperger’s Syndrome and treats them worse because of it, are they considered bigots?
Yes. They are treating the person differently because they have a disability or medical condition so they are discriminating against them which is being bigoted.
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What is your thoughts on hemmorhoids?
Usually caused by constipation.
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Do hemorrhoids just go away on their own?
Not usually - they are a form of varicose vein that appears in the anus and other types of varicose vein don't go away without treatment.
The best thing is to eat more fibre and drink more water to avoid straining when you go to the toilet because that is usually what starts them. Also if you are in a job that involves a lot of sitting, be sure to get up and walk around every so often...
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Are hemroids that bleed more serious than those that don't?
Yes, because if they bleed often you will get anaemic.
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What examples can you give of Aspies using humor at the wrong times? In that example, what would have been the correct time to use that humor?
Telling fart or poo jokes at the dinner table or talking about something really gross when people are eating. I've been guilty of these at times and have to really watch what I say now.
I didn't mean to annoy anybody - just said whatever popped into my head at the time and must remember that not everybody finds farts hilarious like me.
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If someone “came out” with the admittance of having Asperger’s Syndrome, would you still be their friend?
Of course, and I think it would bring us closer for I also have Asperger's Syndrome.
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If someone here reveals they have Asperger’s Syndrome or other forms of Autism, would you or would you not take them off your friends list?
Of course not! They are still my friends. I think it is very shallow and rude to delete a person just because they say they have a medical condition or similar.
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If I had a job with your people, would I be able to avoid accusations of anger if I do not smile all the time?
Yes, because if I were a boss the main thing I would be concerned about is that you were an efficient and polite worker. I wouldn't care if you didn't smile very often.
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Is hating someone for their Asperger’s Syndrome the same as hating someone for being in a wheelchair?
Yes, because both are based on ignorance and fear of those who are different from society's norms. It's one thing to state honestly that one feels uncomfortable around people with a disability but another to hate them for something that they cannot help.
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If you’ve hated someone for a while and you now find out they have Asperger’s or other forms of Autism, how differently will you think of them? How much more or less will you hate them after finding this out?
I would still find their behaviour annoying but I wouldn't think so badly of them because now I would know much of the reason behind it.
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How many Aspies do we have here on AB? (Non-Aspies, please do NOT answer. I'm trying to get a count.)
I am an Aspie.
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How are Aspies on “pregnant pauses?”
Not always so good. We wonder if we have said the wrong thing and the other person is mad at us (because that has happened so often and we don't know why they aren't talking to us). We may either withdraw and lose interest or feel very nervous and wonder what is wrong.
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If women are ten times better than men at reading body language, are they ten times better at telling whether someone has Asperger’s Syndrome? (a highly-functioning form of Autism)
Probably a lot better at telling. I am a woman with Asperger's syndrome and have got very good at picking others with the same condition.
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Did Jenny McCarthy and Jim Carrey find the cure for Autism?
Of course they didn't - I think it was mostly a publicity stunt to help Jenny's waning career.
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What are some behavioral interventions that you think focus on self-stimulation aspect of the individual?
Do you mean stopping them from stimming or diverting them to other stims? I don't think it is necessary to stop harmless stims because they help an autistic person calm themselves down.
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Parental involvement is suppose to be extremely important when it comes to Autism interventions. Do you agree or disagree with this statement?
Yes it is because they usually have to pay big dollars for them and also because they are expected to do things with the child.
I think it's important that parents don't feel pressured into having treatments done that they can't afford. No use to an autistic child if their parents beggar themselves to pay for treatments and then break up because of money arguments.
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Have you ever had to use a sink as a toilet?
No, I never thought of it. I had to go under the house once for a pee and got dobbed on by my brother which I thought quite unfair because he used to pee from the top back step sometimes. Dad used to spend a long time in the toilet and I come from a large family.
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Why do guys love blow jobs and is it true you can never have a bad blow job?
Some girls can't give blow jobs if their jaws are very small and the guy is well endowed.
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What causes skid marks in hot girls panties? is it their farts or not wiping their butt i saw a skid mark in a girls panties it was sick
They might have had diarrhoea that day.
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Why is it some guys have "skid marks" on their underwear. Do they not clean well or not? It's obvious that they should do a better job so why don't they?
They put off going to the toilet until it's nearly too late.
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Anyone remember the paper towel commercial that badmouthed a kitchen towel, stating that the kitchen towel harbored germs? the commercial was killed because people use antibacterial hand soap and the commerical proved false? any thoughts?
Everything harbours germs and these kinds of ads make people paranoid about cleanliness.
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How do u prevent ingrown hairs when shaving privates?
Don't shave any privates and then they won't have ingrown hairs.
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Why do my feces stick so much? Every time I go to vacate my bowels, I find myself having to wipe vigorously. Oftentimes, I just jump in the shower where I vigorously wash out my crack with a mild soap. What can I do? Is this problem dietary?
Because of not eating enough fibre. Try some corn, dried apricots, whole grain bread, brown rice, and things like that. Having really smelly poops is often caused by a diet high in meat and fat and low in fresh fruit and veges. I suggest spraying air freshener around the toilet when you go.
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What do i do for (male) pubic odor?
Have a good bath or shower and then put antiperspirant deodorant on the area.
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Where were you when you smelled the worst body odor you ever experienced? Who was the smell wafting from?
It was when I was in a meeting and the lady sitting in front of me was giving off a smell like poo that was wafting out of her pores.
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My parents used to beat me as a child, but did that mean they were bad parents? My parents beat me often for the slightest thing as a child. It was disciplining the only way they knew. They were old fashioned parents who did not know how to show love, jus
Yes, bad parents but maybe also people who didn't know any better. Whatever you do, if you have kids of your own, don't beat them. Stop the cycle of abuse with yourself.
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Anybody here on AB struggling with Depression...?
Yeah, have been for years and years. The medication I take helps to a degree.
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Does anyone think it's a little dumb to get surgery(plastic, etc.) just for a certain job or career? not to boost confidence?
Yeah, I think it's rather stupid but it's not so much the people who get the surgery who are acting idiotically but the employers who expect them to.
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Is it vain to get a shot of botox in you lips?
Depends, but I thought botox was for wrinkles. The trout pout look is rather unattractive though.
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What age were you when you got braces?
I didn't get them and have only very slightly crooked teeth. I wonder why so many people get them nowadays.
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When you go to a restaurant and are served a meal with a parsley garnish do you eat the garnish or leave it on the plate?
I nearly always eat the parsley and any other garnishes for that matter but I like parsley the best.
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Can you tell me in one word what your worst diner lunch was like?
Woody.
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How do you cure food poisoning?
Drink lots of water to flush out the germs.
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What color do you see of when you hear the number 9?
Mid blue.
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What's really a bad job?
Working in a call centre.
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As a female, I obviously poop, like every other person in the world. But why do some girls and guys get so grossed out when the subject of a girl pooping comes up?
Because poops are smelly and girls are supposed to smell nice and pretty.
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My miniature poodle has bad breath and pus is oozing out of his canines when applying pressure . what is the cause
He has bad teeth and gum disease and needs vet treatment asap.
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If i've had a root canal done on a tooth and a crown put on it - would that tooth still be sensitive to hot?
Only if they didn't take the nerve out properly. Mind you, it could be referred sensation from your gum around that tooth.
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Why are white fillings more costly when they dont last as long Are we being charged simply for being vain?
Just how long are white fillings supposed to last? I just got two in the last month and they look wonderful but I don't want to go through all the drilling again.
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What do you know about dental phobia?? do you have fears of dentist?? and why?
I think it is very common and I am one of the people who has it. It got worse as an adult because of some bad experiences with the dentist not waiting until my jaw was properly numb before they started drilling.
My current dentist doesn't always listen to what I say eg. I wanted a tooth out and he said he would put a temp filling in it and then see what happened. His original plan was...
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How do YOU feel about going to see the dentist?
Very very scared. The last 2 times in the past couple of months my legs were shaking when I got out of the chair and my shoulders and back were sore because I was as stiff as a board in the chair. I don't want to go back to that same dentist now.
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I heard that Irritable Bowel Syndrome occurs mostly in women because we internalise our feelings and stress resulting in digestive issues. Is that true?
I also think it could be caused by some kind of unknown virus.
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What will help with not going to the bathroom#2 for two weeks i have try every from the store.
A glycerine suppository or stool softener.
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Do you hate poop?
Yeah, because it is stinky. I don't mind the colour, it's just the smell that makes me feel ill.
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Does a healthy body produce larger poops?
Probably, but it also depends on how much fibre you eat.
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What is meant by "self limiting" diarrhea?
It only lasts a short time.
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What is your favorite kind of bowl movement?
Opening the lid of the sugar bowl.
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Can inhaling flatulence be harmful to humans?
Yes, if they have a weak stomach it might make them toss their cookies.
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Do pawn shops exploit the poor?
Some do but others provide good service.
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How long do you think it will be before your local thrift store sells its first flat-screen TV?
No time soon. Maybe 10 years or so. I very rarely see TVs in the local thrift shops and if I do, they're usually old black and white TVs.
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Why do gas prices keep going up when the price of a barrel of oil goes down
Because customers are being ripped off by the big oil companies who can pretty much do whatever they like.
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What is your biggest pet peeve about the opposite sex?
Skid marks.
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Do you irritate your colleagues?
I don't know - would hope if I am they would tell me nicely so I can do something about it.
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Are your buttons easily pushed?
Some are; especially if somebody tells me to shush or won't let me speak.
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Does it annoy you when someone interrupts you when you are speaking?
Yep, nearly every time.
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What do you think of people who criticize something yet stay in that situation?
Wussy.
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Every time I see someone take pills they all seem to toss their head back when swallowing them, but don't when they swallow anything else. Why do you think they do this?
I wondered about that too but I just swallow pills like anything else except for not chewing them first as they invariably taste nasty.
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I'm very scared of getting dental work done. Had two back fillings replaced but now the dentist wants to grind down and do white fillings in several front teeth that are chipped but not decayed. I don't know if I should get it done - they might not last.
I don't think it is crowns but they are putting a bit of pressure on me to have it done and if it isn't strictly necessary, I'd rather leave it go.
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Went to two thrift shops yesterday and it seems they both closed early. If they don't want to be open on a Saturday during the summer, why don't they just post it on the door?
Yes, they should have posted it on the door. The thrift shops where I live always have a sign on their door showing what times they are open. I suppose on the very rare occasion, all their volunteers might be sick on a particular day but it seems strange that two would be affected that way on the same day.
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Ever since I purchased 6 pairs of slacks, 5 dress shirts, and a bunch of miscellaneous items at a thrift store for under 50.00; I will never shop retail again - how about you?
These days I prefer looking for clothes in the op shops. They have got too expensive in even the formerly cheap places such as Target and K Mart and Big W and I'm more likely to find the style or size I want in a thrift shop.
The thrift shops are great for kitchen stuff too.
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I'm very scared of getting dental work done. Had two back fillings replaced but now the dentist wants to grind down and do white fillings in several front teeth that are chipped but not decayed. I don't know if I should get it done - they might not last.
Thanks kindly. I told the dentist that I am very fearful and that I am on a budget so what I am most concerned about is getting any decayed teeth fixed or taken out. He put in a temporary filling in my right top back molar even though I said I wanted it extracted because he said it might need a root canal filling.
He gets impatient because I have a very small jaw and can't hold my mouth...
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What does it take to become a flatulist? Are there any schools or instructional books?
It helps to have a double jointed ass.
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Who farted?
No - froggy did it.
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When is the most embarrasing time to pass wind or fart?
During a job interview.
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When do people fart most?
When they are constipated.
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Is farting healthy?
Probably, as long as you are a fast runner to avoid getting slapped if you fart too close to somebody else.
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Has anyone else noticed that women's farts smell even worse than guy's farts? I wonder if the female digestive system is somehow different, causing thier farts to be "maggott-gaggers".
No, not really. Guys tend to fart worse because of their diet and from not going to the toilet soon enough. I suppose anybody could have bad smelling farts though if they had a poor diet or a digestive tract disorder.
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Why don't British care about their teeth? I know it doesn't apply to them all but when watching BBC or seeing them on other shows they have a very very high rate of poor teeth
Maybe they don't have access to good dental care?
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What's a good slang word? And what does it mean (if it isn't well-known)?
"Don't fester me, dogface" - stop bothering me.
"Sucked in!" or "jarded" - serves them right.
"Death can be fatal" - you're bothering me and I'm about to lose my temper.
"Let fluffy off the chain/dropped a clanger" - passed wind.
"Thunder log" - a bowel movement consisting of a big "log".
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Poo spray, new product. What does it do? How do you use it and where?
Wow! Whatever will they think of next? I think it is a good idea.
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What would you do about a mom & pop store that refused to refund money (or charged a "restocking fee" on the purchase of a non-perishable item, like a household fixture that wasn't quite the correct size?
Tell them they need to put up a sign clearly stating their policy; spread the word about how they treated you; shop elsewhere next time.
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How would you handle a irate customer that is calling into a call center?
Depends why they are irate. They are usually angry because they have been given the run around and don't believe they have been "heard". If you can't calm them down, call in the manager and ask them to speak to them.
If you can't do that and they are getting really abusive, warn them that you will hang up if they continue.
I've been in a situation where I got...
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We are an insurance company in the US. We would like to outsource some of our operations, and we’re on the look out for contact details of outsourcing companies. Please assist.
I wouldn't patronise a company that outsourced its workers. It's always better to keep work in house.
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What should I know if I want to work in retail?
The customer is always right even when they are wrong.
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What's the most annoying thing about waiting in line at a grocery store?
People paying with credit cards that won't scan - I think there should be separate checkouts for people paying by card.
People with naughty screaming kids.
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I work at a grocery store as a cashier. What are your biggest pet peeves about grocery stores so I don't do them anymore.
Most cashiers I've had in grocery stores have been very polite and thoughtful. Not so in department stores though.
The main things I wouldn't like are:
Letting people line up at your checkout and then putting up the closed sign without warning.
A checkout worker chatting for ages with the customer in front of me when I am in a hurry (which is nearly always if I am there in my...
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If you found yourself unable to find work and desperate for money, what is the last thing you would consider doing for work (legal or illegal)?
Work in a call centre.
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What is something you do every morning?
Brush my teeth and hair, have a wee.
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In your opinion, What is an annoying habit of someone you know?
Throat clearing every few seconds or so. I wish they would take something to stop it.
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Ok so i've been with my boyfriend for 2 months which isn't too long, but should i be mad at hime for not getting me anything for Valentine's Day? I didn't even get to see him!
Not mad, some people just aren't into Valentine's day. But I would have been disappointed not to see him. If he was working long hours or something like that, it might have been unavoidable. I'd say, give it more time and if you want gifts at Valentine's Day or whenever else, you need to say so.
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I met this guy a month ago. We had an amazing 1st date but on our 4th he drops the clanger that he is still heartbroken after his ex! Somehow we still had a good time and I slept with him. It's been 4 days and no news. Have I been used?
Yes, you have. Unfortunately, he probably thought that sleeping with you would exorcise the ex but it mustn't have. He can't have been too heartbroken though if he still slept with you. The worst is when you sleep with a guy and then he drops the bomb about being heartbroken. Unfortunately, it can be an easy "out" for a commitmentphobe.
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Ladies when you had your nipples or pussy picered were you reqired to be naked and allow the peicer to shave you i was but is this the norm they also took photo for insurance reasons
I wouldn't get my nipples pierced because it would hurt like hell and if I got my pussies pierced, the RSPCA would be on to me for cruelty to animals.
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I used to have 2 lip rings but I took em out, should I get them pierced again?
No! lip rings look silly.
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How do you feel about genital piercings?
Usually a bad idea - painful and likely to get caught in clothing - not something I would ever get - ditto with nipple piercings, mouth piercings or nose piercings. But I also think each to their own.
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A 13 yo Utah student has won $2500 for the stinkiest sneakers? (http://www.boston.com/news/odd/articles/2007/03/20/13_year_old_wins_rotten_sneaker_contest/)Do you agree with the decision or do you know someone who could beat her?
I don't know because my sneakers weren't stinky but no doubt the judges made a well considered decision. It reminds me of a story book I bought years ago called "Niffo Nox and His Socks".
In a similar vein, a couple of years ago, the winning entry in Australia's Funniest Home Videos was a film clip of a little boy who had pooped his pants and lumps had fallen on the...
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Why when something smells bad, You always tell someone "HEY SMELL THIS" knowing that it smells bad?
I'll usually say "is it just me, or can you smell something funny?". I have a very good sense of smell so sometimes other people don't notice, but usually they do.
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What do you think about Obama calling America "Arrogant"? (no arguements please)
I didn't know about that comment until today. It probably is true but he has to lead the way to it becoming a less arrogant society if his comment is true.
There is this unfortunate stereotype in other countries that the US is arrogant. Personally, the main things I don't like about the US ethos is the one about not having compassion for the underdog and educational snobbery.
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What would you do if an old person nearly ran you over on a motorised wheelchair?
Be thankful they didn't actually collide with me.
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What do you do when someone has an annoying habit they are not aware of but it drives you nuts?? my dad kisses his teeth and the sound annoys me. When I ask him to stop he yells and says I'm paranoid. What can I do?
Mutter under my breath.
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If your Parent(s) were in a nursing home and they asked one of the nurse's if they could help them go to the bathroom. Well let's say this nurse says no it is meal time you can wait till later. What would your reaction be? And what action would you take?
I would be very angry because they wouldn't ask unless they really had to go to the toilet. If they had to wait they might have an accident which would be very embarrassing and not their fault.
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Can you tell what someone has eaten by the way their farts smell?
Probably, especially if they ate lots of onion or cabbage or meat.
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Has anybody sneezed on you and laughed after he did it on you.
No, but this guy spat on me when I was 19 and laughed. Before then I suspected he was a jerk and after I knew for sure that he was.
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What is the most polite term to use when referring to one's private parts?
Pussy.
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What is your biggest turn-off on someone of the opposite sex?
Rotten black and brown teeth and putrid breath.
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If your friends called you a pussy, would you take offense?
No, because I like kitty cats.
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What would be a normal shoe size range for a woman between 5'4" and 5'5"? I take size 8-9 (depending), People say I have big feet for my size. Is that true?
7-8 probably but a bit bigger is indeed possible.
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Do you think teen pregnancy is heavily on the rise? Youths are very desperate to breed at a young age. Having kids is a crime.
No, I don't - it's only that you hear more about it these days because people are more open about such things. I don't think having kids is a crime but if an older person has sex with an underage girl and makes them pregnant, it might be statutory rape but it is the sexual act that would be the crime not having the child.
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Im 15 and i have a 11 month old son Dustin. I love him to death. I have never met my mom and my dad and me aren't close at all. I live with a friend and now that my sons dad realized how bad he screwed up. He wants to have a part in his life. He's been ar
I suggest just getting to know each other again before rushing into marriage. There is plenty of time for that yet. If you aren't sure or if you think it is too early, be honest with your boyfriend. It doesn't have to mean you don't love him but 15 is so young to settle down.
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Im only 18 and 14 wks prego. my babys father decided to leave, ive done nothing but beg him to be a dad bc i know wat its like not to have one, its very painful and i dont want my baby to go thru that. he never had one either. should i continue 2 beg him?
No, because it will only make you feel worse.
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This girl picks her nose too much and everyone calls her "Booger woman." How do I politely tell her that that's inappropriate and un-hygienic?
Tell her it 'snot funny when she picks her nose in public and it makes people feel queasy and go green around the gills.
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What is a good average amount to put on a gift card for a grocery store?
$30 or so but whatever you can afford is fine. It's the thought that counts.
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Do you agree with a report that says U.S. adolescents should be routinely screened for major depression by their primary care doctors?
My teenage daughter just saw a doctor for depression that was bad enough for her to put off her uni studies for a semester. She was really depressed last year too. Depression runs in my family and I think her dad suffers from depression too. She is on a low dose medication now and feels a lot better.
I don't know about routine screening but do think GPs and other health professionals...
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Why do you overeat, or eat food you know are high in fat?
Because I comfort eat sometimes and the high fat foods are the yummiest.
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Can you get sick from sharing headphones with someone?
You could - if they had an ear infection you might catch the germs and if they were sick with something else and had touched them with germy hands just before you put them on you could certainly catch what they had.
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Would you sign for your 17 year old daughter to get married? Why or why not?
I'd be very nervous because she is so young. It would need to depend on how mature she is within herself but I'd advise her to wait until at least she turns 18 if she wants to get married because she's pregnant. I don't think I would refuse point blank to sign unless I thought the guy was a sleaze.
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Do you think women these days receive too many compliments from us and that we should cut down on them so that they don't get so thick headed?
I don't know but do think compliments should be sincere and not just given out because they are expected. At the same time, it's important to compliment people you care about now and then to show that you care.
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If someone farted what would u say?
Nearly always I would say nothing but if it was very loud and I was daydreaming I would probably give a little scream.
There is one exception where I work - this man is well known for farting and belching loudly, especially in front of the ladies. He seems to think it is funny!
He's been asked to refrain but still keeps doing it so I said one time when he belched loudly "Oh,...
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What is the worst thing that someone can say to you?
That I'm stupid and useless.
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What happened to having manners?
They got seen as old fashioned and people now say they are "too busy" to have manners. To me, that's all the more reason to have good manners because if you don't you will antagonise others and it will take a long time to put things right. Better to make the time to say please and thank you and speak in a nice tone in the first place.
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How important do you think it is for social rules to be written as opposed to unwritten?
I think people need to know where they stand in various social situations. There seems to be less respect for others nowadays in general and I wonder if it's because politeness and good manners are not taught as much.
Telling somebody how to behave might not work unless you can show them in a book where it says they should do it that way (and the book would have to be credible).
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Is anything being done about all of these AB glitches?
If anything is being done, we aren't being informed.
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The last time a site went all glitchy like this, it was because the owner abandoned it and it died. What are the chances AB is dying?
I don't know but I've also noticed problems with Facebook in recent days.
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Does anyone else want to throw their computer out the window when they get that "Gadzooks!" message? ARRRRGGGGGHHH!
Not really, but it threw me the first time it happened.
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♣ Can you describe AB glitch in one word? ♣
Waaaah!
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Does "being yourself" harm other people?
Depends - if you'd been continually told that something you were doing was upsetting others and you refused to do anything about it, it might hurt them eg. drinking to excess, being violent, making hurtful comments.
It would also depend on whether or not other's expectations were realistic and reasonable or not.
They aren't always, and I think most of us shouldn't have...
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If you were a fellow party guest and saw a young fellow guest load some snacks on his plate as he as about to leave and take it with him, what would you do?
Nothing, I would just conclude he was taking some for 'Ron - later 'ron.
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Why does male genital smell?
If they have a foreskin and don't clean the smegma out from underneath it regularly. They might also smell down there if they don't wash properly and if they have a fungus infection.
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Do smelly people realize that they smell?
Most of the time, no. I wish they did because then they might do something about being so smelly.
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I am in need of opinions on the following question: How right or wrong is to just outright ask a girl you went out with for two weeks to have sex with you ? I would appreciate well argumented answers. Thank you !
I feel it is a bit early but maybe you could drop some gentle hints and see how she responds. Whatever you, don't promise lasting commitment if you don't intend it. It's nasty to get somebody to have sex with you by making false promises.
Then again, if you do foresee a lasting relationship, there surely is no hurry to go that far so soon.
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Is it still offensive to call someone a "twerp"?
Depends if they deserve it or not. It's much less offensive than calling them d***head or f***wit or w**ker.
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Is it allowed to invite your friends when your roommate is sick and sleeping at home? Isn't it impolite?
You can but I think it is generally impolite. If they can close the door of their room, it might not be so bad.
If you and your friends are quiet, it's not so bad either.
However, if there is a lot of noise involved, I think it is quite rude. In this case, it would be better to go out somewhere with the friends and leave your roommate in peace and quiet so they can rest and recuperate.
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What difference does it make if I am ten mnutes late?
It makes a bad impression if it is an appointment or a date or a job interview. The other person could be worrying that something happened to you or think you were rude.
Apologising for the delay and avoiding it happening repeatedly are good ideas.
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WHEN IS IT POLITE TO SPEAK TO SOMEONE WHEN THEY ARE READING A NEWSPAPER.
If you notice a wasp or bee on their back.
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Do you personally find it rude for men to wear hats indoors? Why?
Not really, but I might think it a bit strange if only one man did and all the others didn't. I would probably think he was embarrassed about having no hair or something like that so wouldn't judge him unfavourably.
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Generally, do you call people, or wait for them to call you?
Usually wait for them to call me as I have something of a phobia about making calls.
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When you answer the phone or make a call to company do you put on a *posh* voice?
No, I'm just the same as always. I don't like making calls so probably sound quite nervous. It rather annoys me when people put on a posh voice to answer the phone. If they are normally posh, it doesn't bother me. I guess it is the pretence factor that gets me.
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Is it rude to have an extended phone conversation or text messages while you are out with a friend?
Yes, it definitely is. If it were a very short conversation or a quick text and you excused yourself to your friend, it would be okay. I would be annoyed if it were an extended conversation or if there were constant interruptions.
This happened once when I went out with a friend and I got rather peeved. He asked me if I minded and I took a while to answer because I was trying to say...
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Why are people so tight and don't want to call numbers that begin 0845 that cost like 4p -7p a min?
Because those numbers are too expensive and they've probably been caught before. It is all too easy to not realise how long you've been on the line and then get a nasty surprise in your next phone bill.
I don't think it is stingy at all to be mindful of the cost of making such calls and keeping them to an absolute minimum.
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Have you ever told a person she talks on her cell too loud in the public place? ( I myself only can walk away from her). LOL
No, but I certainly wish I had the courage to. I just gave her a few dirty looks and put my hand over the ear nearest to her. I think she was showing off that she had a mobile phone. She also had one of those grating voices.
I was sitting on the bus and moved away from her as soon as I could. I hope that gave her a hint. Thank goodness, she hasn't been on the same bus since.
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Do you get anxiety if you don't get a response soon when you leave a message on someone's answering machine?
Yes, unless I know they are the kind of person who takes a while to get back to me.
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Which unwritten rule(s) do find most important?
I don't know - I usually just find the written rules important.
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If a friend were to ask you to appraise their personality and you had to provide a negative answer,(should ) would that end that friendship?
It might. Depends how you put it to them and how much they can take of anybody giving them negative feedback.
It's a good idea to be tactful if you know they are sensitive.
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A couple of hispanic descent go to a Catholic church which is mainly white... during the "greeting/Peace be with you" phase another family refuses to shake their hand or wish them peace. What is your impression?
I think it was incredibly rude and how could the other family say they were Christian. They really need to sit down and have a good look at themselves. It is only good manners to shake hands with the people near you and wish them peace. I would have been disgusted.
I have had some people be rude to me in church and it has turned me off religion quite a lot.
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How far in advance should invitations be sent out for a Baby Shower?
4-6 weeks.
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How long has it been since you last wrote a letter?
Around ten days ago - to my mum.
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After the ceremony we want to invite a few friends and family to join us for dinner at a restaurant, but how do we let them know (due to finances) it would have to be 'dutch'?
I think you need to be honest with them about your circumstances. If they are true friends and good family members they will understand.
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According to the sociocultural perspective, the rules that specify what is and is not acceptable behavior for members of a group, such as what men and women should wear or how to act in different social situations, are called:
A pain in the posterior.
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What is the best thing to use to get the smell of cigarettes off my hands?
Not smoking in the first place.
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What do you do with a teenager who refuses to bathe and wash HER hair ? She gets away with it from her mother, I am a separated and out of influence......
Hold your nose when she gets close.
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Why are people fighting all over the world?
Because they'll never learn.
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What evidence or proof would you need to believe that there is a deity?
Meeting them in person.
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My husband's breath stinks like rotten fish. Is there any medical condition that would cause this?
There's a disease that causes people to smell like rotting fish but the smell would be coming out of their pores as well as their breath. In any case, your husband needs to see a doctor and/or dentist asap to find out what's going on.
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My tooth filling fell out. I used oral gel on the tooth and the oral gel did nothing it jusk keep hurting. I wake up with shocking pain, I can't open my mouth to eat ,and my throat is sore and swollen. What can I do to get rid of the pai
You might have developed an abscess in the tooth so the best thing you can do is see a dentist asap. In the meantime, chewing gently on cloves may help.
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The referenced article claims, "...within Mormonism even married couples must 'cover their nakedness' in front of each other and wear garments while sleeping together..." Frankly I find this hard to believe - is it true?
What is the temple garment? Also, it is really true that mormons have special underpants?
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8 mnths ago,I cheated on my longdistance bf of a year & 3 months.I really regret doing it-it was at a time where he was so busy writing tests that we neva got time 2 talk & I just felt lonely.I want 2 tell him,but i dont think he will forgive me.i ♥ him
I think it would be best not to tell him but think really carefully what future you see in this relationship as you need more time together.
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Are all those masculine, macho feminists (like Germaine Greer) just doing it because they are jealous of real women who can wear pretty things, so want to spoil being feminine for real women?
No, they are just running their own game, that's all.
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A jerk at a party called me a "Femi-nazi" because I asked him why he thought it was weird that women could be good golfers. Any ideas on how to punish the clown?
Ignore him. Egotists such as those hate being ignored more than anything else!
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If a Mormon boy wants to go to college and serve on a mission, which does he usually do first?
Seems to me that he'd be better off doing his university course first, or a tech course, or work a couple of years or so. He'd have a bit more experience of life and of human nature by then.
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What are some of your pet peeves?
(1)Rude,pushy people
(2)Screaming, bratty acting kids
(3)Parents not trying to do anything to control such kids
(4)People making annoying noises eg. clicking, tapping, throat clearing.
(5)Ugly buildings
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How many people do you personally know that do things that became pet peeves for you?
Quite a few.
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What could be the worst thing you hear about your date on the first date?
That his ex girlfriend took out a restraining order on him the week before because he was stalking her. Actually I didn't hear that on the first date but on the third. I guess it's lucky he didn't consider me stalkable.
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Where is the worst place you could ever take a person on a first date?
The municipal dump.
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Ladies, what would be the worst first date movie a man could take you to see?
"Sex & The City" would be up there among them.
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A couple (mf) I know are strongly hinting to me about having a threesome. I know them more than casually, and am very interested in this, but this would be my first time. Lots of questions! but don't want to ask them the wrong ones. Advice welcome!
It could blow up in your face or theirs so DO be careful before you try something like that. Talk it over a lot.
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When I was 8 years old, a 6-year-old girl who lived down the street told me "we're going to hug, kiss, and f---." and showed me some pornographic magazines. Is this normal, or is she precocious? I was shocked that such a young child would say and do that!
Not at all normal! She must have been shown these things or seen some porno movies. Shame on whoever was caring for her to let her look at that stuff!
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If ur 11 year old daughter told u she kisses an touches on girls also told u shes gay n she never wants a boyfriend because she hates boys,Wat would u think? Would u believe she's too young to know if she's gay or would u say ok and deal wit it?
She's a bit young to know for sure she's gay but I could understand her not liking boys her age very much as they can be very annoying.
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What would you do if you're daughter came home at 14, with a boyfriend who was 18?
Take a deep breath and try to keep calm before I say anything.
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My ex told me she wasnt ready to be in a relationship again, but she still wanted to be close and then see how things were when she was ready. But since we broke up she hasnt really talked to me and sometimes ignores my texts. Should i just give up?
Better to not waste time waiting for her to come back and look for somebody else. Ironically, once you're with another girl, she might get interested again but then it would be too late. You deserve better than to be strung along.
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I still have feelings for my ex, when she broke up with me she said she really wanted to still be close, but we've stopped talking since then and it seems like shes just ignoring me. Should i just give up? or do i keep trying
She's only stringing you along so it would be better to make a clean break instead of pining after her (which is probably what she wants you to do so she can feed her ego).
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I just found out that im 6 weeks pregnant. i want to keep it but my boyfriend doesnt. He says it will ruin our lives because of our age(im 21, hes 19 almost 20). I dont know what to do any advice would be greatly appreciated
It would only ruin your lives if you both let it. That isn't to suggest it is going to be easy, whatever decision you make. But if you want to keep the baby as you say, please DO NOT let anybody else pressure you into doing otherwise, even if they are somebody you really love.
Abortion often leaves psychic wounds that never heal - especially if the mother was not keen on the idea in...
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Im am 17 years old and have a 3 month old baby my baby daddy is 16 and lives in florida where my baby was born i live in indiana he tried to take the baby away from me he lives off of ssi can i still get child support and can he get visitaion rights?
But she must have some legal rights to not have her baby taken away from her.
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What would you do if you came home & found your partner in bed naked with another man/woman, & you ask"what the hell is going on?" &"who the hell is that?"your partner is in denial,saying"what man/woman are you talking about?"making you think you're crazy
I'd show them what crazy was after hurling some heavy objects at them.
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What would you do if you came home from work one day and found your teenage child having sex with someone in their room or your room?
I'd say "sorry" and leave the room but have some choice words with them later on.
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Can you describe the worst boss you ever worked for in as few words as possible?
A corporate psychopath; manipulative, played favourites, bitter and twisted, nasty, bitchy, past it.
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I know there are many, but what is your # 1 all time pet peeve, that is the one thing that people or persons do to you to totally make you loose faith in your fellow man and i dont mean racist stuff or hate i mean things like people watching you eat?
People continually clearing their throat loudly and sounding as if they are constipated. Makes me feel like stuffing a bunch of cough lollies into their mouth.
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How many of you guys do not watch your diet and eat everythig you like under the sun?
Pretty much although I steer clear of foods that I know will give me a stomach upset.
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Hey guys how many of you like to watch re-runs of FRIENDS and DESPERATE HOUSEWIVES?
I hate to even think about watching re-runs of Friends but I saw a few episodes of Desperate Housewives and it looked like an interesting show so I would probably watch re-runs if I got the time.
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Would you kick your 17 year old daughter out if you found out she was pregnant
No, of course I wouldn't. We would get through this situation together. If you can't count on your family when life gets rough, who can you count on?
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I bite the skin around my nails. People tend to think I'm biting my nails but I'm not. How can I stop this habit and does anyone else do it?
Yeah, I bite my nails and the skin around them. The skin gets rough and annoying. I even pick at my toes. It's not good but I don't know if I can stop it.
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Can biting your fingers and fingernails cause bad breath?
It shouldn't usually.
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Ladies, what would be the worst first date movie a man could take you to see?
Anything violent and splattery; also wouldn't be keen on a porno movie.
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Why would a woman tell a man she is high maintenance before even going on their first date?
So he is warned and doesn't get a nasty surprise later on.
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Men: How would you describe a high maintenance woman? Have you ever dated one..
good experiance/ bad experiance, please tell?
She's somebody who wants constant attention, lots of money spent on her, is never happy with whatever you do for her and wants more, more, more.
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Men, would you ever marry a pregnant woman whose brat is not biologically yours?
How do you know the child is a brat until after they are born? They could be the sweetest little baby ever.
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Things you hate about the people you care about?
There is nothing I can say I hate about the people I care about - maybe a few irritating little foibles, but that is about it. What's more, I probably have annoying traits too.
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Things to hate about passive-aggressive people?
Hating them isn't going to help you or them but what would annoy me the most is when they say they are going to do something (but don't really want to do it) and pull out at the last minute, when it will cause you maximum inconvenience and annoyance.
Getting a "no" after a request is annoying but at least you know where you stand and you are not relying on them to do...
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Why do people behave passive aggressively
They don't have the courage or confidence to attack problems head on.
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When my mother insults me or purposely try to aggravate me to cause an argument, should I say something back to her or rather keep quiet and walk away? Sometimes I feel like telling her she is a bitch but I keep it in out of respect for my father.
If you aren't living with her any more, keep visits to her to a minimum and if she is rude over the phone, warn her you are going to hang up if she continues to be insulting and do it if you have to.
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If a stranger says something to you that's quite rude, do you ignore them and walk away or do you say something back?
Depends if I think fast enough to make a comeback, otherwise I give them a filthy look and stalk off.
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Say you are on a first date,and you happen to have bad gas. Then while taking a quite walk, you sneeze. The pressure of the sneeze causes a loud fart. What do you do? Do you appologize, ignore it,or manufacture a fart sound and blame it on that?
Says "oops, sorry" and then change the subject.
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How much jail time would a 20 year old boy get for having sex with my 14 year old daughter thats now pregnent in the state of utah?
Don't know but is he willing to man up to the responsibility of getting her pregnant?
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If a 15 yr old girls mother allowed her daughter to date a 24 year old and they ended up having sex, how much would you blame the mother compared to how much you would blame the 24 yr. old bf.
They would both have a lot to answer for. If the two were going to date, it should have been chaperoned dates only until the girl was of legal age. One also wonders why a 24 year old was going out with such a young girl instead of a girl 18 or over.
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How would you feel about your 23/24 year old daughter bringing home an 18 year old boy and introduced him as her boyfriend?
I'd give him the benefit of the doubt and trust her good sense unless they later gave me any reason to change my mind.
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What would happen if we deprived the whole world of cell phones for a day?
It would be great!
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What would happen if the whole world fatred at once
Many of us would faint.
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If your 16 year old daughter came home pregnant what would you do?
I'd be curious who the father was but my daughter's welfare and that of her baby would be the primary consideration for me. I'd be happy to help her with her pregnancy and looking after the baby if need be.
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If your 27 year old daughter brought home her 39 year old boyfriend, would you object to the age difference?
No, they are both consenting adults and besides, my dad was 32 years older than mum (though I do think that magnitude of age difference could be a bit much). If I didn't like the guy, I would say privately to my daughter "are you sure about this?" but it would be her choice to make.
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Parents: If your 17 year old daughter brings home her boyfriend to sleep over, do you let them sleep in the same bed? Would it be different if it was your son bringing home his girlfriend? If you dont allow it, what's an appropriate age?
Depends if the boyfriend is nice or not and their general level of maturity. I'd want to be sure it was a relationship that was going to last, not just a quick fling. At least if they sleep in the same bed in my house, I know they are safe and not out somewhere where they could get mugged or robbed.
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I just saw the movie Taken. Would you let your 17 year old daughter go with a 19 year old girlfriend to Paris? (by the way, the movie was excellent)
Possibly. Only thing is, I wouldn't have been able to afford the trip on my own. If they won the trip as a prize, I could have given them some spending money.
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I just had a row with my mum because I gave my 16 year old sisters a stack of Cosmopolitan mags when I was cleaning out my flat. The twins are now 17. If these were your daughters, would you let them read Cosmo?
I wouldn't be too happy about their reading Cosmo because of the type of values it promotes but don't believe I could stop them if they were determined to read them. Not all articles in Cosmo are bad but I think they are the type of magazine that should be for over 18's.
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Why would a married man carry 3 condoms in the pick up if he wasn't preparing for action? Said he found them. Duh? We're Married 26 years and he needs condoms with ME?
He was given a free sample somewhere or maybe somebody hid them there. Then again, he could be up to something.
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A single woman who carries condoms - loose or prepared?
Depends - if they don't use them very often they're not loose. They are always prepared. Only thing is, what if the guy doesn't like the type of condom she bought or what if they aren't the right size?
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I just bought a rubber tree plant (small). I watered it and noticed the water took a long time to absorb. Should I re pot it? It also has roots on top of the soil.
You might want to trim back the roots a bit when you repot it as rubber plants can grow really large if you aren't careful.
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Wat is the best way you ever got back at somone, like sending them some type of vrus or something, giving up thier e-mail addr, that you will know they'l end up with spam ect...hehe, how do they say, payback is a bitch.....
One boy friend did the dirty on me and kept bragging about his new girlfriend in front of me even when he knew I didn't like it.
As she was living with him, I got a feedback slip from Hungry Jacks and filled it in under his name with comments such as "I like your onion rings but I want to make a complaint about them. Last time I ate them, I farted so much that my girlfriend made...
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When I shave "down there", I get red spots, and little bumps everywhere. I've tried shaving with it, against, sideways, and waxing isn't an option, help! I hate how it feels like its never smooth enough, and when it leaves dark dots from the dark hair!
Easy - stop shaving down there and just trim the hair shorter.
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How do the women in the Dove commercialls keep their armpits hairless and smooth?
The wonders of modern photoshopping.
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Maybe it's because I live in the South but there is so much anger (by white men, especially) when a white woman dates or marries a black man, but nobody seems to care when a black woman dates a white man. Why is this & do people feel that way where u live
Where I live, black men are often seen as desirable partners because families with black or mixed race children qualify for extra allowances from the government to educate those children.
That of course is not the only reason; often the black men come from close extended families and this is seen as a good thing (same reason white men may marry or date black women).
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Is there one thing that really pisses you off?
People who keep making an annoying noise, be it pen clicking, tapping or clicking their fingers, throat-clearing, etc.
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Do you believe that the word "emo" is exceptable to call someone? Should people be put into categories by their appearance?
Not really, unless they don't mind it. I think the expression has become very cliched too.
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Do you believe that blood is thicker than water? Should you have to put up with people just because they are related? Parents? Siblings?
Not necessarily - if they are really bad people, I don't think you should have to have anything to do with them.
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Why do people insist on answering questions that were asked a long time ago. Does anyone else think the questions should be deleted after a week?
No, we should keep the questions because sometimes it takes a while for them to get a response.
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Does anyone else think that AB staff should force everyone who is going to mark people down to make a comment BEFORE being allowed to mark them down? It is quite a simple bit of code to do this and would stop alot of wrongfull acusations!
No, it wouldn't be free speech then. I do think it is fairer to put in a comment but sometimes there just isn't time or you don't want to start a big fight.
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What do you think about the recent decision by the US supreme court to make people guity of raping children not subject to the death penalty?
At the very least, they should be kept in prison for a very long time with no early parole.
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Who's the most stubborn person you know?
Probably me.
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The past year i've been getting small boils or pimples on my vagina at the pubic part and on my lips and i left them to go away themself but iv got a really big boil now that wont go away and i seeps blood and puss. im to scared to tell a doc or that help
It's probably some kind of sebaceous cyst and may need draining or at least a course of antibiotics. Best to see the doctor asap as they keep coming back.
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Im a teen and ive been cleaning my face for years face products are getting to expensive its embbarasing going to a mall like eastgat or the palms when you have got black heads and pimples all over your face
If you can get a comedo (blackhead) remover from a chemist and have a warm shower, you could try removing some of those blackheads and put on an astringent like methylated spirits (will sting though).
Too much rubbing the face actually causes more oil to be produced and more blackheads so please be careful. Some pimples could be removed by gently squeezing after a warm shower but if they...
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I hv a rubber tree plant (about 18'tall & 15 yrs old)outside right next to my condo. In process of cutting down cause roots are under patio & afraid of hurting foundation. If I cut roots @ stump, will this kill them or w/they continue to grow?
I think they will as rubber trees are incredibly hardy. You'd probably also need to poison off the roots.
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I have several potted plants and a banana tree on my back patio of my townhouse in Miami. Committee pres threatens to cut down and demands that I get rid of my plants. Is this right? There are 47 units, so that means that I own 1/47th
That's one reason I wouldn't want to live in a unit. Personally, I can't see anything wrong with these plants as long as they don't harbour any diseases or insect pests but bodies corporate can be incredibly anal about anybody showing even the tiniest scintilla of individuality.
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If a neighbour's tree is over hanging my garden, blocking the light, do i have a right to ask them to cut it back?
I've got a worry now because 2 days ago, my neighbour said that a palm tree I have that is quite close to our fence line is putting some cracks near his driveway.
I couldn't see any cracks and agreed only if the tree wouldn't be killed but he said it probably will be but he offered to get me a new one.
Thing is, it was a present from my mum and a rare variety and I...
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Do you have a neighbor that you would literally throw a party if they moved?
Not now, but there were some before, mostly because of noise issues.
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What color are your teeth? Yellow, brown, black, creamish, white?
Cream.
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Is it possible for teeth to be TOO white?
Even some of those dudes on Jackass have teeth that are way too white. I mean, these are knockabout guys so you'd expect their teeth to look more natural.
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I got an e-mail today about Obama's support for abortion, something like that....what were they talking about? I couldn't understand by the e-mail if he is pro-life or pro-choice? Anybody know?
Yeah, abortion is evil, and most especially when the baby could have survived and if the mother didn't want it, could have been adopted by people who did want to love and care for it. I swear, we are getting more and more decadent by the year, if such things are allowed so freely.
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My friends husband is abusive to her and beat her up bad last weekend, i cant get her to understand "love don't hurt" and she want leave how can i make her understand that its ok to leave. she knows that i'll help her with a safe place for her to stay...
Guys like that consider their partners their personal property and will attack them or anybody else who takes them in. They are very dangerous and that is the sad thing. Even when the abused person leaves, they are still at very serious risk of being either seduced back by fake apologies or of being injured or even killed.
I know vigilantism is bad but it would be no loss to society if some...
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What is something that makes people ill?
Injustice.
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Have you ever eaten lutefisk? Would you try it?
What is lutefisk? I've heard of a fermented fish dish that you just about have to unleash and certainly wouldn't try that.
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How do you tactfully tell someone that they need to get their missing and broken teeth replaced and cleaned and that they have really, really putrid breath?
The main thing I would worry about is the putrid breath and the broken teeth. They no doubt have gone rotten and that's what's causing the smell. They probably can't afford to go to the dentist or are frightened of seeing the dentist.
See if you can find out which one is true. If they are short of money, you could offer to lend them some to get the broken teeth extracted...
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Would you date someone with broken or missing teeth?
As long as they weren't putrid and rotting.
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My 5 year old daughter wants to be with me all the time she wont go with anyone else, lately she has been waking up in the middle of the night crying for me. Is this normal
Yes, it's normal. Has your daughter just started school? She is obviously feeling at least a little insecure. Whatever you do, don't punish her for clinging. She will gradually get more confidence and more independence.
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What's a nice way of telling someone they stink, and i've already tried "hey you stink" it dosen't work out so good?
"You're really smelly so would you please go and have a bath now"?
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What is a nice way to tell someone to shut up about themselves when at work?
Get a CD player and play the Alan Parsons song "Talk About Me".
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What is your polite way of telling someone that its too early in the morning for close talking (bad breath)?
Oh, I'm going to brush my teeth - care to join me?
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My belly button ring is infected and i dont know what to do. take it out or see a doctor?
Regular applications of methylated spirits on a cotton bud will probably help but be warned, it will sting. If not, you could try cotton bud with salt solution.
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Care to see if you can tell Thai Ladies from Thai Ladyboys? Take the test.
Ooh, how embarrassing! I got 0%.
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I stopped seeing my sex buddy, he is trying to work things up with his ex, but today he came over to pick something up and he was flirting with me and said "just cuz i cant touch it dont mean i can look" I really have feeling for him what do I do?
I'd say give him a miss and just concentrate on your husband. This guy sounds like nothing but trouble.
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After a bad breakup can you ever really be friends with an ex?? recently i broke up with my partner and i said alot of mean things. my ex isnt well and our sex life fell to bits i was sleeping on the sofa and things got worse.i know it wasnt her fault..
Not in the short term. Maybe in 5 or 10 years you could be. If you feel guilty about all the stuff you said to your ex, maybe you could apologise (not to get her back but to clear away some ill feelings).
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How do you get rid of bad, terrible smelly breathe. My friend has a terrible smell coming from the mouth. Although, my friend brushes everyday and use mouth wash. What is recommended for it?
They might have a chronic throat infection.
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My 3.5 year old daughter often wakes up in the middle of the night crying uncontrollably. The only thing she will respond to with a "no", is when I ask her if she wants me to leave. My wife and I feel terrible that this happens so often. How can we help?
I used to get night terrors from about age 3 to 12 and sometimes used to sleep walk too. I still have nightmares sometimes where I talk in my sleep or even yell something.
They often were the result of getting overheated or having a bad day the day before eg. the teacher yelled at me or I got into trouble for something.
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So, my g/f got mad at me cuz I said tomato, like to-may-doh, and she like wigged out and sez it shood be said to-mah-toh. We got in this huge fight over it. Should we just call the whole thing off?
How about squishy tomatoes at 20 paces?
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When me and my GF get into a fight, she starts saying things like, "Then I'll find a new BF." or "I'll find some other guy to do *____*" At first I got mad, now I just ignore it cuz she says she doesn't mean it. Is this an "abusive" relationship?
She probably thrives on emotional dramas.
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If you had a falling out with someone and had told that person never to contact you in anyway or you'd take action, and the person kept emailing you, not with nasty things though, would you keep to your word and take action?
They might be trying to patch things up between you.
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Would you take it personal if someone told you you had bad breath?
I'd be mortified and wonder how long it had been a problem but at least it would give me the opportunity to do something about it.
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Would you date someone who has bad teeth?
I did once and it was gross. He had all this yucky stuff on his teeth and I don't think he brushed them very often. I don't mind crooked teeth or if somebody has got a lot of fillings but brown or black teeth or lots of untreated tartar is more offputting than I could really cope with. It's sad but true.
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When me and my GF get into a fight, she starts saying things like, "Then I'll find a new BF." or "I'll find some other guy to do *____*" At first I got mad, now I just ignore it cuz she says she doesn't mean it. Is this an "abusive" relationship?
Next time she pulls that garbage on you, just say "well, go then, and don't let the screen door hit you on your way out!". She'll either say "oh no, I didn't really mean it" or storm out. Either way, she might think twice next time.
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Why do women think something is wrong with them when they find out they're guy is into things like porn, or strip clubs, or even threesomes? Dont they realize guys are just guys and do those things?
Not all guys do those kinds of things. Just the fact of being a guy shouldn't be used as an excuse. If they want to do it they should be honest with themselves and their partner and say I do (or want to do) these things because I like the idea of them.
The woman then has the choice of whether she wants to put up with it or look for somebody else who doesn't go for such things.
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Do you think it is ok to watch internet porn if your partner is against it? Even if you try to delete overything before they find out just to keep from fighting?
No, it's not okay if your partner is against it. They will suspect anyway even if you delete all the traces.
You two need to find a way of being there for each other so you don't feel the need to look at porn.
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I caught my boyfriend cheating by seeing his phone bill. He is begging for another chance but won't let me see his bills till i get trust back. is he hiding something? should i be seeing a red flag here?
Yes, you certainly should be seeing a red flag - one that is massive indeed. If he had nothing to hide, he'd let you see any future phone bills. Sorry but it would be best to dump him asap before he has a chance to hurt you any further.
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When I sing I get mucus in my throat and have to keep clearing my throat. I take singing lessons and choir but it doesn't seem to happen there. Only when I practice at home. I warm up too so what could be the problem?
It could be nervousness. I think some fruit juice (especially citrus) would help cut the phlegm. Continual throat clearing actually makes your voice worse.
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Though I am increasing my water intake significantly, I still tend to develop a lot of mucus. Is there any type of remedy for this and is aggressive and constant clearing of the throat at all hazardous to the voice?
Something to cut the phlegm eg. a drink of citrus juice is a good idea. Clearing the throat loudly and aggressively only makes it worse and makes people around you want to throttle you (even if they are too polite to say so)
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What is one thing women wished men would groom on themselves better? ie, what do they just not think about like nose hair, unibrow, etc. that women wish they would take more time improving.
Their teeth - some men don't clean their teeth and then they go brown or yellow and yucky and it doesn't do any good for the breath either. Skid marks in the jocks are another thing that isn't too good.
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My boyfriend and I are going on 5 years in May, and every time I talk about marriage he avoids it. He's 27 and I'm 28. I know he really loves me - he's my best friend. I love him so much, but I want to start a life already. What should I do?
But do you see, you have started a life with him. It would be silly to put your life on hold waiting for him to propose. Getting married doesn't guarantee a commitment, sadly to say.
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What does it mean when a man tells you to call him? It seems stupid, I know, but I don't want to. Why does he send me an Email telling me to call him, as opposed to just picking up the friggin phone?
Some people are scared to make phone calls. I know I am but I would even be too frightened to tell somebody to call me. He might be embarrassed that he is shy about making calls.
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Are you bothered when you get one of those emails that has been forwarded about 500 times, still has everyone's name on it, and usually is just a stupid joke or something you don't want?? How do you politely tell a friend who sends them to you to STOP?
First off, I would just ask them to please not send on any chain e-mails - I would say that I simply don't have the time to go through all of them and have probably got them before anyway.
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Is there anyone besides me that is irritated beyond reason when they get those emails that demand you 'send it to 6 friends and something wonderful will happen'? I wish people would just STOP!!
I don't bother forwarding them on - just give them a quick read and usually delete them.
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There are so many trash forwards i keep getting with "make a wish.....send to 7 people and it will come TRUE!!!!" Have you ever actually gotten your wish? has something good ever happened like the email said?
No - it's not really worth sending those on.
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Have you ever farted and followed through? please tell me your funny storys.
When I got food poisoning - luckily I was at home alone.
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Do farts follow you?
My ex's farts used to follow him into the car.
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Just starting dating this guy. Now he is going threw a rough batch. I feel him pulling away from me. I know he is busy but I am not sure what do anymore. I really like him and willing to stick it out but not sure how long. Should I give him his space?
I wouldn't be surprised if he has rough patches whenever it suits him.
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I got burnt in a tanning bed, how long should I wait to go again? The red went away in 2 days, and it just feels like a rug burn now. No peeling though.. (I'm allergic to most sun block, and all tan accelerators)
Never! A tan is a sign your skin has been damaged. I don't know why the big deal about being tanned anyway. It might look nice when you're in your twenties but do you want to look like a wrinkled up old prune in your 30's and 40's and beyond.
If you want vitamin D, why not go out into the sun for about half an hour before sunset or half an hour after sunrise?
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Have you ever been waiting in a queue so long that you just walked away , thus not buying something you knew you were going to regret?
Yep, I got over waiting, especially when the shop assistants were spending too much time chatting.
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Have you ever been to a wedding where you just knew it wasn't going to last and it didn't?
Yep. My own and also that of a good friend of mine. My friend stuck with his wife for about 20 years but it was obvious early on it wasn't a happy marriage. He felt he had to stay with her because he was very religious but in the end she called it quits.
He then showed me pictures of his 2nd wife. I didn't like the looks of her and had a bad feeling about that marriage too and then...
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Was i raped? i said no bbut when i knew he wasnt going to stop i just didnt put up a fight and just did what he said
What if they weren't violent but you were scared they could get violent and didn't want to do it but didn't put up a big fight? Would that still be rape? I'm not sure if it is or something borderline to rape like seduction? This all happened years ago and I really want to be sure.
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If you are a girl have you ever been in a Sexually Compromising situation for example Rape, Molestation, Old Man Creepy advances, Date rape? Who hasn’t?
I think I could have been date raped when I was younger but didn't think it was at the time because the guy wasn't violent. There was nowhere to go for help really and I was too scared and ashamed to tell anybody.
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I had a one night fling with a girl and she told me 6 weeks later she was pregnant and that she had slept with another man. I asked her for a pregnancy test and she got mad and stopped talking to me. I want to know if the child is mine what ca
She's probably mad because you didn't take her word for it and because you probably caught her in a mistruth.
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There is this girl at school, she has one kid already and is pregnant with twins. What is your impression of her? (I do not know her, but from the talk, she was not raped or forced into this situation.)
I'd say she is going to have a big job on her hands trying to cope with 3 little kids.
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What are your views on the subject of date rape?
I don't think people are always clear about what it really is. I didn't think it was rape if the guy wasn't violent but now I wonder because surely if you are put in a position where you can't refuse then it is rape?
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Should parents go to prison if their children don't go to school?
NO! Most of the time they are doing their best to get their kids off to school and they might not even know the kids are truanting.
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Until what age do you think parents should be responsible for their children?
Depends how mentally competent they are. If they have no developmental problems, probably 18-21. Otherwise, it might be longer, and some cases indefinitely (if they are seriously disabled)
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Why do you think we have laws that prohibit discrimination in pay based on sex or race but not based on education or experience?
Sometimes there is discrimination against the more experienced and well educated staff and I think this is very wrong.
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What annoys you most about your coworkers?
The ones who interrupt while I am talking and don't listen, but what annoys me most is when people are laughing really loudly and fakely while I'm trying to concentrate on something involved or who keep on clearing their throat (why don't they go and get themselves a drink from the kitchen or get some cough lollies?)
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If you could get in the tardis, would you go back to your childhood?
Darn right I would!
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If you could get into Brad Pits shoes, would you go back to Jenifer? if yes Why? If no Why?
No, it's too late. I'd probably regret breaking up with her and would have wished things worked out better between us, but it would be no good breaking up a new family to go back to something that might not work anyway.
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Would you have sex with you boss if you could get a raise? If yes would you do it more than once?
No, he's a happily married man. I wouldn't do it anyway - not worth the risk of being found out and what use is a raise that you don't deserve? I also think I am being paid plenty for what I do so don't care about getting a raise.
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Bob is sitting outside sweating on a warm day.mary wants to pratice taking blood pressure and finds that bob's is elevated ,even though he is at rest and has lost fliud from sweating. why is his blood pressure high instead of low?
Bob is stressing because it is so hot.
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Study links anger to heart attacks. Will that tend to make you keep your cool? See LINK:
It worries me a little bit but I don't see any way I can stop getting angry about some things and bottling it up feels even worse than saying something.
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Cheated with ex in first week of relationship. meant nothing. eats at me all the time. was 7 months ago, now im still with the love of my life, and he thinks i did nothing that night- cant bear to break his heart, need to clear my guilty conscience! help!
I think you need to talk to somebody impartial and be very careful about telling your boyfriend as it could cause more harm than good. Just be sure never to be alone again with your ex. Try and forgive yourself for the lapse with your ex.
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A new bf doesnt talk to me often and i dont think he likes me anymore what should i do? Be flirty or what i dont want to make a big deal if its not because i really want this relationship to work. Im hanging out with him tomorow any advice?
He could be shy or worried about something but I would go lightly on the flirting.
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Hello, I'm sorry if this sounds gross but my 8 month old puppy will not stop eating other dogs poo. Every time I walk him he is always eating poo before I can catch him. Any suggestions on how to make him stop?
Carry around a little jar of pepper and sprinkle it on the other dogs' poos before your dog can get to them.
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A self-proclaimed nosey worker looks in on you (the boss) while you are busy in your office every time she walks by. What can you do or say to her to make her stop?
She might have a crush on you.
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If a co-worker constantly comes in late, takes extended lunches and asks to leave early all the time and our boss does nothing about it is there something that me and my other co-worker can say to her to make her stop?
Maybe she and the boss are having an affair.
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Ever passed gas in your cube/office and your boss or co-worker walks in, talks to you all while you know they are smelling what you are smelling!
I suppose it would be a good way to discourage unwanted visitors.
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You are walking around outside of your workplace. You just happen to come upon a co-worker and your direct boss, kissing. You know for sure that both are married to other people. Do you disclose this info to a higher-up? Other? (Totally hypothetical)
Providing the co-worker isn't getting special favours from the boss, I would turn a blind eye.
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I know a co-worker of mine and our boss are having an affair. They are both married and cheating on their spouses. What is a person with info like this supposed to do? I feel like I have lost respect for my boss.
Not surprising that you've lost respect for your boss but I think the best thing is say and do nothing. They will trip themselves up sooner or later.
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My husband has a co-worker with a heart of gold but poop for brains. Do you know a lot of people like this?
Better that than one with gold for brains but a heart of poop.
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Do u poop a lot?
Do you mean poop often or do big jobs?
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When was the last time you were at the dentist to have your teeth cleaned or fixed in some way?
7 months ago and I booked in for another clean and scale on the 13th of this month. I must also talk to the dentist about a few fillings he wanted to fix before.
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Whens the Last time you lost your Grip
2 years ago, and I think I had a nervous breakdown.
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When the last time you lost your temper?
Depends if you mean the last time I was irritated (which was just today) or the last time I really flipped out. If it is the last time I really lost it, it would have been 2 years ago. I tend to bottle up anger and when it's the last straw, I go up like a flare. I usually feel irritated at least once every couple of days.
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When was the last time you lost your temper and tried to slam a revolving door?
Never, but going into revolving doors is weird. If I had more to do with them, I might be tempted to slam one.
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What would the one thing you would want to change in the world and why?
Judging people on appearances and how well they can pretend to be your friend - I'd like to see more genuineness in this world and far less fakery.
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What one thing would your mother want to change about you?
I think she'd like it if I hadn't have been born with autism.
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What one thing would you never want your mother to tell you?
That she had multiple abortions.
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What is the most tactful way to tell someone that their breath is putrid and that that is the reason you never want to kiss them?
Hold your nose when they get close.
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Has anyone out there ever dated someone with really bad breath that never seemed to go away ,if so did you ever tell them?
Yeah, and I regret not telling him. He was quite a nice guy otherwise but I hated kissing him and started dodging him. I was too immature to tell him the truth but years later, someone said he married somebody nice, so he must have sorted it out. It smelt like a swamp or something similar.
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Have you ever had the unpleasant duty to tell someone they/their breath doesn't smell nice?
Yes, my ex. I told him his breath smelt bad. He said he couldn't do anything about it. One day he said he would hit me if I ever complained about it again. About 4 weeks later, I was almost asleep and forgot and said "oh pooh!" and then he punched me on the arm, leaving a bruise for 3 weeks.
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How do you tell someone, in a nice way, that their breath smells?
Can you smell something?
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If you tell someone he is treading on thin ice, what exactly would you mean?
That he's cruising for a bruising, that if he's not careful, he will get into big trouble that he can't easily get out of.
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Did you ever tell someone maybe you would dolunch sometime and not rreally mean it?
No, never.
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Do you ever tell just say maybe we can do lunch sometime and not really mean it just to blow someone off?
No, never! If I don't want to go to lunch with them I just don't ask - I'll simply say goodbye or I have to go or something like that. It's silly to say something like "let's do lunch" if you don't mean it.
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Do guys ever really mean it when they say 'we can still be friends' after a breakup?
Some do, but in my experience most don't.
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Sometimes you read in Dear Abby of a guy getting caught having an affair and saying "It was meaningless". I guess that means he didn't love her, but can cheating ever really be meaningless?
I'd be more offended if my partner said an affair was meaningless than if he said, I'm sorry but I couldn't fight the temptation. The reason being I wouldn't want to be with somebody who treated sex as meaningless and people like pawns.
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How can i help the guy i love get over his "1st love" we dated 4 a week but he says he cant get over that girl (that hit him cheated on him and didnt love him) he shuts everyone out i'm at his door w/ my heart in hand waiting to be he's "superman".....
He's got to do that for himself.
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I am an attractive female (25 yr/o) working in an office environment. My boss is trying to get me to sleep with him and is promising me a raise/promotion. I desperately want to succeed at this job. What should I do?
Is that attractive by your own estimation or somebody elses? In any case, it's 99/100 that your boss is only saying whatever he thinks you want to hear so he can get into your pants. You could be letting yourself in for a world of pain, especially if your co-workers find out.
Even if the boss doesn't give you the promotion, they will think you are looking for special treatment and...
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Should I sleep with my boss to get a promotion? I am 25/f and attractive and have HUGE college debts this would really help me get ahead.
Just don't forget these things have a way of getting out and other women you work with will think you have an unfair advantage and they will do whatever they can to trip you up.
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Would you sleep with your boss for a promotion?
No, only if I liked him as a person. Anyway, the situation wouldn't arise with my boss as he is a happily married man and I have a boyfriend.
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Shouldn't someone tell Donald Trump that there is a deceased racoon on his head?
So that's why his "hair" is such an odd colour? I certainly wondered if it was a wig.
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Toupee or not toupee?
Most toupees look fake so I think no toupee. Bald men can be sexy, and besides, I see lots of guys with shaven heads these days.
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Is obesity getting better or worse?
Hard to say - there's always been fat people. I think there is a lot more media attention about it these days and so it is seen as more of a problem than ever.
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What to do my 5 year old daughter will not go in the potty. I have tried every book and getting her a toy and nothing. please help. Kathleen
I wonder if kids used to take so long to train in our parents' or grandparent's generation. Mum had us out of nappies by a year during the day but then she didn't have carpets on the floor and it was warm enough for us to run around in the yard with just little pants.
Most teachers don't want to have to deal with kids who are not toilet trained (unless they are in a...
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Do you send your child to day care / kindy / school when they have green stuff running from their nose - and if so - why?
Depends if they seem okay otherwise. I would certainly keep them home if they had a fever or were really miserable. Otherwise, I would make sure they had lots of tissues.
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If your kid is kinda sick, do you send them to school to infect all the other childern or do you lose out on a day of pay to care for your child?
I didn't like taking time off school sick in high school because the teachers never kept the work for me and told me to ask a classmate.
Because I was good academically, my classmates wouldn't help me. Since much of the work in subjects was on roneoed sheets, I don't think it was too much to ask for the teacher to keep copies for me, but they really didn't care that much.
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Is it okay for schools to send home a child who did not taken their ADD medicine for the day, because he or she became disruptive in the classroom?
If there is somebody at home, yes. Otherwise, they should spend the rest of the day up at the principal's office.
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Should schools send home report cards listing a childs level of obesity?
NOOO! That is cruel and demeaning! The parents usually already know and they are either trying to do something about it, don't know what to do, or don't care. Stigmatising a child because of their weight is something we don't need!
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Should schools send home kids with nits?
If the school nurse can't treat the nits, yes. But in any case, the parents should be told that nits were found in their kid's hair. Only thing is, if both parents are at work, they might not be able to pick up their child straight away.
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Who was at your door the last time you didn't answer it? Why?
The Jehovah's Witnesses. I wasn't feeling too well and didn't feel up to doing a bible study that day. The ladies start asking nosey questions after a while eg. do I have a man living with me?
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Do you ask and answer questions out of kindness and wanting to help people or just to get a higher rank and more points?
Mostly to try and help people. I didn't know you could get points for asking questions.
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I got married in 2000 and found out about six months later that he were married to someone else. He was very abusive, plus he cheated on me the whole time we were together. I finally left him in 2004. He is still married to us both, but I want out.
If he was married to somebody else, his marriage to you isn't a valid marriage. It would be a good idea to get some legal advice about property etc.
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I love my eighteen year old sister very much and want to get her a special Christmas present, but she doesn't want anything except a new phone, which my mom is getting her. I can't think of anything - help!
A fancy mobile phone sock is something she might enjoy to go with her new phone. Do you think she would like to be taken out for dinner at her favourite restaurant?
Another possibility is to go for a shopping spree with her but pay for some or all of the stuff she buys.
Is there some way you could discreetly get some ideas from her as to what she might like?
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I am 50 & lost my 19 year old son last may (2007). I want to get a tatoo and I don't want to do anything I regret or is tacky. I am having a hard time with the design and placement. I was thinking about initials or any help?
I'm terribly sorry about your loss. As a mother, losing a child would be a complete nightmare. A lady I know who works in a local shop lost her twin brother in his early 40's. She had a photo of them together as children tattooed on her back.
I don't know if too many people could do that but perhaps a small picture of him and his name or an animal or activity that he liked...
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I am 19 yrs old & i have a 2 yr old. I have not been to college but i have always wanted to be in the peace core, i just want to help ppl. is there anything out there that i could do, that wudnt keep me away from my son. at last not TOO long?
I agree with the others who said the most important thing you can do now is be as good a mum as you can be to your little boy.
There could be some local charities you might be able to volunteer to help, especially when your little boy is in school. Schools are often in dire need of teacher aides and classroom assistants.
Given that you're so young, you've got lots of time ahead...
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I want to be in a relationship but the emotional stress from my sisters death last January keeps me from wanting to do too much could someone help me?
I think it's best to give yourself the time to heal, whether it is a year or more. Then you'll be ready for a relationship. At present, it would only add to the stress on you.
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What does it mean when your ex & u are still sleeping together, you want to get back together but he says no & dont confuse him. he says i love u in 1 breathe and the next breathe, but u need to know i will be sleeping with others. WHAT, doesnt make sense
He's just saying whatever he thinks you want to hear so you won't kick him out of your life. Sorry to say but he is just using you and he's just not worth wasting any more time on.
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My ex-boyfriend broke up with me, telling me I was too "comfortable." He's 30! When do guys start wanting a girl who is nice, honest, loyal, and who doesn't play games?
He's too immature to cope with a proper relationship, that's all. It's certainly rather a lame excuse.
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Do you want a relationship where the guy/girl keeps you on your toes and always challenges you, or do you want someone who is comfortable, trustworthy and honest?
Someone comfortable and honest but not too boring and predictable.
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What could lead someone to always want to do the "white knight" role in a relationship?
Funny thing, one of my workmates and I were talking about somebody we know doing just this very thing. He's a good person but apparently doesn't think so much of himself so is the white knight rescuing damsels in distress. Trouble is, at a certain stage, they decide he's too good for them and they don't deserve him so they leave.
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WHy do monkeys throw poop
To express their displeasure when people keep annoying them, also to defend themselves from predators.
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I'm dating a girl for an entire year almost, and she likes to go clubbing and does but everytime she does I just lose it. I don't know why. So now I don't let her go cause I dont want her dancing with other guys, what should I tell her to make her not go?
Couldn't you go clubbing with her? If you don't like clubbing, maybe she's not the right girl for you and a homebody would be better for you. But not allowing her to go to nightclubs will only make her want to go even more so it's not a good idea.
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Ok, the girl i like is going out with a guy who always does things behind her back. she knows, but is too nice to do any thing. i dont want to see her get hurt. what should i do? Plz Help!
All you can really do is be a shoulder for her to cry on when the shite eventually hits the fan and she gets sick of his carry-on.
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Ok my dad wants to know this.
when girls go poo, they only take about 3-5 mins. there in and out. But when guys do, they take like 10-15 mins. Why does that happen?
Some men take about an hour in there but I think they must spend some of that time reading or thinking. Women probably don't have the time to linger in the loo plus they mightn't want to stay in the smell for very long.
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Whats your best excuse to end a phone call? I particulary like "I have to go, I need a poo."
Lol. The best one I used was, "The cat's got something in its mouth - looks like one of my pet rats - have to go and check".
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What is the recipe for poo
Chewed up and digested food and lots and lots of dead bacteria.
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Someone told me if you push F12 a lot of times on your computer it would make it like brand new, is this true or will it just blow it up?
I don't know about blowing up but after a while, you will wear out your F12 key AND your finger :)
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Someone told me that giving blood somehow makes you gain weight, is this true?
I doubt it.
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Is it true that making out gives you cavities?
I seriously doubt it. Perhaps it might if they ate a lot of lollies and you got all the sugary stuff in your mouth too.
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Why do people who cheat on their spouses and leave blame the one they leave behind and all of a sudden their children take a backseat to this new woman or man?
It's easier to do that than look into their own heart and see what's there. It's the novelty factor of the new affair that means the kids are somewhat or completely ignored.
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Why does my cat fart by me then dissapear leaving me to take the blame?
They don't want to hang around and cop the smell.
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Do cats fart?
Yes, they certainly can and do. It is usually like a silent but deadly egg-gas fart of the worst kind.
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Why do people ask questions that they could easily answer themselves using Google?
Sometimes it isn't so easy to find the answer you need on Google.
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Why can't the people who ask "what's this pill" just type the info into a search engine and get the answer?
It's strange how so many people are finding so many different pills.
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Why do people ask dumb questions on AB like "what is (insert noun)" or "what is (insert verb)ing" instead of just going to a dictionary or a search engine and getting the answer immediately? It sounds like complete laziness to me.
They would like a quick answer. Not everybody knows how to use a search engine either.
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Is it just me or is everyone starting to get p*ssed off about people asking a question using things like "y" instead of why and "ppl" instead of people?
It doesn't annoy me a real lot but I think it shows a lack of care in using their language.
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Do you get overly annoyed at people that ask questions in "Answerbag Help topics" when they are about other things? i just saw a question about virginity there...
Maybe they needed help about virginity?
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Do you think sometimes people just go crazy as hell in their minds and then are given a pill to kill them but it will look like natural causes so insurance pays
It's probably more common than most people think.
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Do you complain about bad (slow, rude, inaccurate) service at restaurants or do you just never go back or both?
Depends how bad it is. I usually tolerate slow service or even if they make a mistake but I get very narked about rude service and that is when I am most likely not to go back to that place again.
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My boyfriend doesn't know who to choose - me or another woman. He wants me to give him time for him to decide. I feel like its a competition and don't know what to do!?! He says he wants us to work I don't want to be hurt but can't bear losing him! Help?
This guy is getting a massive ego boost out of having two women crying over him (maybe more - you never know how many others he is leading on too). Please remove yourself from the equation before you lose all self respect. I wonder if the other woman knows about you? The guy is trouble - not worth hanging around for.
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My B/F doesnt like my friends and i cant see them .Also he tells me im dumb all the time and it hurts my feelings and our relastionship is 1sided i dont have much say in anything. Also he tlks about other girls all the time. I dont want to break up. HELP!
I married a guy like that and we eventually broke up. I'd suggest breaking off this relationship because you deserve far better out of life. Even if you have to be alone for a while, it would still be better than being with a guy who treats you like complete garbage.
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Alright, so im engaged to this girl... and it seems like no matter what i do, it is never good enough... i feel like we're fallin apart... i want to get out of it but i feel like anything i say will just make it a thousand times worse... help please? :S
Mm, I hope you guys haven't planned the reception etc. I don't think this relationship is going to fly. There is some chance that your fiance might not realise how critical she is acting towards you and if you can't confront her directly, you could write it in a letter.
All you need to do is say something like this:
"every little thing I say or do for you is never good...
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I smoked weed the other day. i know i shouldnt have. my girlfriend is mad because i forgot to call er while i was high... she thinks this shows my priorities... what can i say that will even slightly make her want to speak to me?
I don't think there is anything much you can say. The ball is really in her court now. Can you think of anything that might have led to your going on the bender? It's not possible to stop a habit until you know what is causing it.
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Live in b/f has sexual texts w/ friend of 15yrs. Confronted, she says joke, he says sorry. He goes to her town for work, changes weekend to sync with her, then has to stay at her place cuz his mom is out of town. Cheating?
Of course they are - no joke! I would dump his sorry butt in the gutter along with all his gear and tell him to go live with her instead.
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Is my husband emotionally cheating on me if he spends all his free time with a friends wife? He goes to her place of business just to "chat" He hid the fact that he was talking with this girl while I was working and her husband was out of town.
He sure is, and sooner or later it will go further if something isn't done. He seems to have a big crush on her.
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Double standards-Why is it the man's fault when his wife cheats? He's not spending time with me, he's always working or he's doesn't make me feel beautiful.
Yes, I've seen plenty of this on Dr McCrevice in particular. I don't think it's right to automatically blame the man for their wife's cheating - it's every bit as unjust as a man saying they cheated because their wife put on a bit of weight, was "boring" in bed or whatever.
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A 94 year old man died on the operating table the other day undergoing schedualled surgery. His wife of 70 years had died the day before. Was it fate? Were they meant to always be together? Does this make you feel happy or sad? Thoughts?
That's what I think too. It's very common when one of an elderly couple dies for the other one to fret to death. This old man at least didn't have to suffer long without his wife.
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If you were about 70 years old with no wrinkles, no gray or dyed hair, would you be happy about it even if other women, in particular, feel jealous or would you feel bad because they are jealous of your natural youthful look?
I wouldn't just be happy about it, I would be ecstatic! I look some years younger than my age because of few wrinkles but am getting a fair few grey hairs and am no longer slender.
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My friends found out that at least one of their three cats were urinating in the house. They kept one, but gave me the other two. One is 13 years old, and they have had him since he was a kitten. Would you give your cats away or find another solution?
One of my cats pees in the house and I had to put an old sofa outside because I couldn't get the cat pee smell out of it. But I wouldn't want to give her away. She really started doing it when an annoying grey tom started visiting and peeing around the place.
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Why would a mother cat suddenly hiss at her two month old kitten? She only did this after we put them outside. When we saw her lead one away with a tom, we grabbed it and took all of them in the garage.
I've seen a litter of three month old kittens still sucking from their mother. They usually wean by 8 weeks but not necessarily of their own choosing. It's often the age they are removed from their mother to go to new homes.
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I miss my boyfriend. He cheated on me, claims he still loves me, and I broke up with him. Now I regret it. I think I could truly forgive him. For 2 years, he was perfect, and he is sorry. Am I stupid for wanting to make things work between us? I love him.
Not stupid but possibly unwise. You need time to metaphorically lick your wounds before getting too involved with him again.
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I've been heavily targeted by trolls the last few days. I am going to go back on leave as this is not fun like I thought it would be. Someone let me know if they fix that k? I'll explain more in an answer.
Please don't let the trolls win. I had a run in with some trolls a few months ago and nearly left. Some people downrate because they are jealous.
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Why would someone downrate a question and not answer and explain themsleves? (besides bieng a mean, dumb, loser)? lol maybe a really offensive question yea, but i try pretty hard to be careful.... so
:( go crawl back down your hole, jerk........
I usually up-rate questions but occasionally I think one is offensive or doesn't help so I will downrate. Putting on an explanation can lead to a big fight so unless something is really terrible, I might not say anything.
I only downrate about 2% of questions I see.
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Do you try hard to avoid confrontation on this site? Personally, I do...no one has all the answers and maybe tolerance would be a good word, would it not?
Generally, but I won't take garbage from others and there are a few things I feel strongly enough about that I can't see any real compromise. Perhaps the best idea is to avoid the really controversial areas. Tolerance is okay up to a point but at some stage on really important issues, it is necessary to stand up and be counted.
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If you had a co-worker who was really a good person but anal, over-sensitive and defensive do you 1.) avoid him, 2.) try to help him or 3.) rip him a new one?
I'd tend to keep out of his way somewhat and only help him if he specifically asked for help as otherwise it would only make me seem as if I were interfering.
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Hi, I got my naval pierced 2 and a half weeks ago. The guy who did it told me that was how long it would take to heal if i didn't twist it or anything. I know that right now it isn't healed, i was wondering how I would know when it is healed.
I read somewhere it can take 4-9 months to heal properly but that seems to me to be an awfully long time. Surely it should only take 6 weeks tops? Perhaps somebody could give more information as I haven't had my belly button pierced and am not planning to.
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Ok so for all u ppl who are against abortions.Now what if i got pregnant by mistake and i was told if i have this baby i would die. Now i know its doing good to have a baby but isnt this killing yourself witch is a sin btw. And what if you have children.
Yes, but it goes back to what I said before. Doctors can only work on the balance of probabilities and some are more up to date in their knowledge than others. That's why I suggest getting several opinions before making any decision.
If you are relatively late into the pregnancy, the baby can usually be brought on early or a caesarian done. Most conditions that would kill a pregnant...
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My 4 year old will not go to bed of a night,we have tried EVERYTHING possible, he also has autism which makes this task rather difficult. We have tried a reward chart and all, we cant enrol him in sleep school as he is to old. He gets aggressive. PLZ HELP
It's difficult with autistic children as the usual motivators and disincentives don't always work. I know this because I am autistic myself. I didn't care much about gold stars and didn't mind time-outs all that much because then I could read in peace and quiet.
Getting yelled at only made me agitated and less able to comply with any request. I had issues with night...
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What to do my 5 year old daughter will not go in the potty. I have tried every book and getting her a toy and nothing. please help. Kathleen
What about when she goes to school? She might have to stay home an extra year because the school authorities usually want kids to be trained before they start school. Perhaps she is frightened of having to sit on a big toilet?
I can remember mum having a bit of a tussle getting one of my brothers to stop using the potty when he was 5 and I think I might have been scared of using the big...
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A woman @ my work keeps pooping in the toilet & leaving skids in the bowl. I need to post a sign about flushing twice. Can you give me any suggestions?
I suppose a cork is out of the question? Seriously, if somebody catches her after the act they might have to say something..
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Me and my bf broke up yesterday and he said that he loves me but he dosent want this relationship he wants to be single for couple months or year and date other ppl how can i get him back ? and he wants me back somewhere in the future in 3 or 5 months.
Give this loser the flick.
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My ex ended our 2-year relationship with a post-it note (actually an email). One month later I rec'd a brief email saying he missed me and if I wanted to do coffee. I said sure; didn't hear back til a birthday voice mail from him 2 mos later. What's up
He's not serious about getting back together - he's just stringing you along.
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A relationship ends badly, fews years later your ex finds you and asks do you want to meet up. what would you do?
I did but it didn't do any good. He told me he wasn't ready to settle down and then 6 weeks later, married another woman. Then he had the cheek to suggest some years later that we have an affair!
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I am dating man 5 ft 4ins, we are same height he is great guy but he is short, he seems to REALLY care for me, i really want to marry and have kids before i am too old, (34 now) do u think i should marry him if he asks or just keep looking for taller guy?
Is this question for real? If you really love this guy, so what about his height? But don't just marry someone because your biological clock is ticking. I wonder if you are mature enough to have kids yet if you are so hung up about this guy's height.
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Are all 16/17 year old guys, just looking for sex? I have a party on saturday and i really think something might happen between me and this other guy, but i dont want to go "all the way" but he might want to...what should i do?
If you don't want to do it, don't be anywhere alone with this guy.
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I asked a guy I liked out to play tennis with me. The whole time he put me down and made nasty comments about my ability even though he knew I'm just learning the game. Should I move on?
Yeah, don't get caught up in his racquet.
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I like a guy and he likes me, but the circumstances don't permit us to go out.Last night at a movie we cuddled and all that, and were actually out all night with each other.I can't date him. Should I just move on, or still try, even though it's impossible
If you two really love each other, you'll find ways to be together. It won't necessarily be easy but worth a try anyway.
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My boyfriend doesnt like going out to dinner, but will eat out when he is at work(truckdriver). i cook for him and kids all week. would like just one special day for me. i am a f/t stay at home mom. i try and drop hints, he last took me out a yr ago.help
Hints aren't any good - you need to tell him straight up that you'd like to go out somewhere for dinner.
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Did your mother ever make you drink a Sprite/7Up like drink when you were sick? Does anyone know why moms do that?
Mum didn't have to make us drink lemonade when we were sick. Soft drink was a treat so she didn't have any trouble getting us to have some. The idea was if we had a gastric upset, lemonade would be one of the few things we could keep down.
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Do ducks fart?
They'd go quackers if they didn't.
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What is the crappiest, weirdest toy you have ever received from a fast food restaurant?
This toy wasn't crappy but it was weird. A few years ago I got this little soft plastic fire hydrant character from KFC. I think the top of it was meant to be a fire helmet but the whole thing looked like a tiny penis.
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How bad do you think fast food places are?
Depends, I think they have had to raise their game in recent years so they probably aren't too bad in general.
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Do you think fast food workers ever spit or do other unmentionables to your food?
I don't know - haven't got sick from fast food so probably they hadn't but I've no doubt that some would if they got annoyed with a customer or as a sick joke.
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Have you ever lost your temper with a fast food restaurant worker?
A bit. My friend and I were queuing up at a Macca's. There were three lines but when we got to the front, the lady at the counter told us that we had to go to the end of one of the other lines because there was nobody serving our line.
I said "you should have put up a sign saying that checkout wasn't operating so we would have known". She made some smart remark but...
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Have you ever lost control of your temper to the extent that you frightened yourself?
Yes. My ex boyfriend at was bragging to everybody at work about his new woman in my presence. We were having a morning tea for the whole floor and I saw a large knife on the table. It took all my self control to stop myself from stabbing him in the back with the knife and it really scared me that I could have killed or seriously injured him.
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Have you ever experienced total and uncontrollable grief?
Yes. Several times.
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Have you ever had uncontrollable flatulence at work?
No, but if I thought I would, I'd head straight for the loos.
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Whenever I know a guy likes someone I try to get him to like me more. I don't do anything skanky i just talk to him more and flirt even if I dont like him. Does that make me a bad person?
Not a bad person but a person acting unwisely. It's not fair to lead a guy on or to entice them away from the girl they're with (unless she is really horrible and he hasn't the courage to make the break). Be prepared to be very unpopular with other females.
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You know people dont like you at work when...?
They lock a dead fish in your filing cabinet and hide the key.
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Im married& love my husband but ive fallen 4 his best friend We get along great& I know he likes me I hate that i feel this way about him cuz im married so i got mad with him so he wont talk 2 me cuz i want it 2 be easier 4 me 2 get over him Is that wrong
The best way to get over this guy is not see him but I realise that will be difficult. It's a classic case of the grass over the fence looking greener but is it worth hurting your husband to be with this man?
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Can anyone help me ive fallen for this girl but im not sure if she feels the same way we get along really well and i want to know how i go about telling her how i really feel?
If she hangs around with you whenever she has the chance, even when if you're doing something you'd think she would find boring - that is a pretty good indication that she likes you.
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Feel guilty about a girl i know who came on to me while VERY DRUNK and kissed me. I love my GF and want no one else, but if i tell her it will destroy our happy relationship. The guilt hurts me now even though it's been over 6 months, what should i do?
I wouldn't tell your girlfriend about it but do keep away from this other woman because she is trouble.
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My co-worker smells so bad, it's making my work enviornment uncomfortable. I've told my boss, but he doesn't want to hurt his feelings. What do I do?
Could you get together a group of your workmates and all go to the see the boss and tell them the smell is making your working environment unbearable? If that's no good, then I suggest getting together a basket of toiletries for the smelly co-worker - soap, deodorant, toothpaste, mouthwash, etc.
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My mother is 77 and lives on SS only. She has defaulted on a credit card and the collection company says they can turn debt into IRS as undeclared income every three years and she will have to pay 39% tax on balance. She has no assets. Is this right?
This sounds like legal theft to me but maybe they can do it in the USA? Is there a way you and any other family members could help her out financially (on condition that the card gets cut up when it is paid off)?
Otherwise, I would go with the suggestions above - it's shameful that they can do such a thing to an elderly person with no assets and low income.
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To be eligible to serve on a (religious) mission, I must pay off other debts by a maximum age limit. How will I (legally) pay off $60,000 in loans within three years?
Couldn't they give you some extra time to pay it off, like 5 years?
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Why do people go on shows like "What Not To Wear", and get embarassed and say they know they look like crap, but then get an arrogant attitude and pick out what still makes them look bad? Didn't they "get" it? That's the point of the show!
Sometimes the presenters of these shows don't have very good taste in fashions themselves so I wouldn't always believe what they say.
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Public situations - Should you say "excuse me" for silent, smelly farts or just do nothing?
Do nothing & pretend it wasn't you.
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If you do a quiet but smelly fart in a packed lift should you say pardon me or just do nothing?
Do nothing & look around as if somebody else did it.
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Should you say excuse me if you fart in a public bathroom in or out of a stall or is it acceptable just to say nothing?
Maybe if you do it out of the stall, but I wouldn't worry if you were in the stall because toilets are for farting in anyway.
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I am in a public bathroom and 2 little girls (obviously unsupervised) are running around, screaming, and trashing the place in general. They are around 10 or 11, basically old enough to know better. What should I do?
Discreetly call store security.
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I don't have enough milk for my 3 month old daughter.can any one tell if i start taking "methi ladoo"will milk increase?also can anyone suggest me indian homemade recipe to increase breast milk pls am desperate to feed her and what else can i feed?
Not sure but somebody who knows more about Indian recipes could say. It's important to let the baby have lots of access to the breast. The more they suck, the more milk should come down. It's also important for the mother to keep as healthy as possible.
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Is 6kg an average or underweight for 6 months girl baby?wat indian food can u suggest to increase her weight.pls give me something recipes to increase her weight
Pretty average, especially if the parents aren't large people. I'm not sure of Indian recipes for her but you could try a little bit of fruit and rice cereal.
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How to give kerala banana(nendran) to 4 month old baby to increase weight?she is underweight .can anyone tell me how much should a 4 month girl baby weigh (kg)?any other food to increase weight n wat all foods can u give in 4 months?
Is she still breastfeeding? If so, make sure she has plenty of access to the breast as longer feeds mean she will get more of the creamy hind milk.
If she is alert and bright eyed, she is probably healthy. You could try a little mashed banana with some rice cereal and breast milk or formula mixed in (if she isn't breastfeeding any more).
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I found out that my shy 20 year old nephew proposed to a 25 year old woman (she lives across the country w/ two kids, and he's never met her in person). I'm one of the few people he looks up to. How should I express my concerns without alienating him?
You could tell him that small children are a lot of work and that he has to get to know three other people, not just one.
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Situation: Two people, very close friends for almost 20 years, have a huge fight and don't speak for 10. One finds out she has a year to live. Should she tell the other person or just let it go?
Yes, I think they should be told and an honest attempt made to repair the rift.
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What (if anything) do I say to my mother? She keeps complaining about money being tight, but she keeps buying china. She had 14 boxes of new dishes, cups and trays delivered last week alone. She never even takes them out of the boxes.
This sounds like compulsive behaviour and your mum most likely can't control this spending. She really needs help with this, and if you can get her to see the doctor with you to explain the situation it would be a really good thing.
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My mother cancelled her visit to my house at Christmas because she spent her trip money to bail my brother out of jail. She says I am nitpicking, but I am really hurt. She has never met my youngest. Am I being too sensitive?
No, of course not. Your mum should have stuck to her original plan and let your brother stay put in jail until after Christmas.
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He broke my heart and wanted to be friends I tryed but I was mad, cool, angry just all these different emotions. Now he just avoids me he said Im too negtive but I'm hurting and didn't deal with it right, but I can't stop thinking what is he doing HELP!
Sorry, but this dude is a total jerk! The best thing you can do is cut him out of your life completely. I know it will hurt but trust me, it is the best thing in the long run. I wasted a lot of time pining after exes and let them hurt me again and wish I could have taken my own advice back then - it would have saved a lot of grief!
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My girlfriend pulled the "i just want to be friends thing" of course i was hurt, it sucks, blablabla. i don't understand her reason though, she said she didn't feel her heart was in it and that mine was completely. What is she really trying to tell me?
Just cut off all contact with her for a while. She might decide she misses you or she mightn't but in any case, don't you think you deserve a lady who truly wants to be with you? Sounds as if the spark has gone out for her and she wanted to let you down gently.
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Why won't a guy tell his ex-girlfriend to leave him alone? He said he wanted to be friends, but she's made it clear that she has more-than-friends feelings for him. Why won't he do the right thing and tell her it's over? Why does
He might like the ego boost of having two women keen on him at the same time.
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What was the worst thing an ex friend did or said that made you think "I've had enough!"?
Telling me they would help me when some other people were giving me a hard time and then siding with them. After that, trying to make me feel guilty for saying I thought they'd been two-faced.
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My kitten recently started stooling in my potted plant. She still goes in her litter box but has decided that the dirt of my plant is a good place too. Why is she doing this and how can I stop this behavior?
The soil is probably quite loose and cats like digging in loose dirt. You could try spraying some scat on the dirt in the flower pot or scattering some citrus peel over the dirt because cats don't usually like the smell of citrus.
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My daughter is 3 and she wears a diaper to bed (ONLY). After her baths before bed I put daiper cream on her. Should I stop now or until she is completely potty trained and completely out of diapers...?
No, she probably still needs the protection, especially if she wets during the night.
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My almost 3yo daughter will only go potty on the toilet when she doesn't wear a diaper all day...Even if you put her in panties, she pees right through them. How do I casually continue on potty training progression (Especially outside the home)?
It's probably time to get rid of the daytime nappies. Mum stopped putting my siblings and me in daytime nappies (except at sleep time) when we were around 9-12 months old.
That doesn't mean we were toilet trained till about 2 1/2 but we were able to go outside a lot where it didn't matter too much if the pants got wet or poopy. Then again, we had a warm climate.
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Will looking at pornography and masturbation prevent a young man from being able to go on a mission?
Surely, the looking at pornography would have the worse effect? But also, don't about 99% of men masturbate? Doesn't that suggest it is natural? All I can think of for people to be less likely to do it is to keep busy and get very tired.
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If person your with for a 1yr breaksup suddenly and says you were just a game does this mean I was just so stupid not see any signs cause relationship was go great no problems should I trust or believe him or just let him go, yes I really love him.
Um, I was with a guy like that at one stage. It really messed with my head for quite a long time but I finally realised he was the one who acted badly and although I felt stupid for believing his lies, I actually had a lucky escape in the long run.
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How can I reassure my boyfriend that his children will be fine if his wife & he got divorced? Says he loves me doesn't feel that way to his wife but is scared to leave his children cos he might miss things. I would do anything to make him happy.
He's playing with your emotions and I seriously doubt he will ever leave his wife as he is just continually coming up with excuses. Honestly, there is no real future in this relationship if you want him all to yourself. The only way you'd get to stay with him is if you're willing to share.
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I'm 13 and i've never had a bf. When my 2/3 older girlfriends make out or have bfs, i feel like crying my eyes off, and i start asking "what am i doing here?", but i get scared at the same time i wanna do it. Will this "phase" go away? Is something wrong?
A lot of teens exaggerate how much sex they are having, and usually the ones who brag the most are doing the least. There is no need to rush into getting experience.
Take it from one who wishes they had waited (and I didn't start until age 21) and don't rush into anything just because all the others seem to be doing it. They truly aren't, no matter what some of them might say.
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I get depressed before i start my period, it feels like everything in my life is going wrong and i feel like crying about everything.what can i do to make this stop?
That's why I think it is called "the curse". I tried the pill - got really sick, tried some natural remedy - nothing much changed, and tried eating better. The doctor turned nasty because I stopped taking the pill/s.
I notice that the depression gets worse before some periods than others and it's usually the heavier ones where I get the most depressed.
The only thing I...
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Is it wrong of me to cut a friend completely out of my life? I get the feeling he has no interest in continuing our friendship. He makes me feel like crying. It's stress that I don't need/want. I'll let him contact me, but want to delete his e-mail, etc.
Not if seeing him upsets you so much. You don't have to be rude to him but just fade out of his life. Delete his e-mail if you feel like it and let the friendship go to being an acquaintanceship instead.
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What is the penalty, officially and unofficially, in mormonism for a young man who does not serve a mission?
I don't know, but should there be one? I'm not sure there should be.
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What do you think of people who judge others based on their religoin or their look?
It's not good, but I think we all do it to some extent. The important thing is how we act on our judgement - do we give the other person a fair chance or do we just reject them without trying to get to know them any better?
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Why do humans judge people by their appearance? Please don't answer, "it's the human nature."
It makes it easier to categorise them as friend or foe.
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Why do people judge others with disibitlies?
They feel awkward around them - they don't know how to react to them - what to say and what to do. Then again, there is also this idea that everybody has to contribute the same towards society.
They get this terrible idea that disabled people are less deserving because they might not be able to work (quite often because they are not given the chance to do a meaningful job anyway)and...
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Do most people judge others based on their apperance?
Yes. Whether they should or not is a whole different question as appearances can often be deceptive. I think most people judge somewhat on appearance but a sensible person will take time to know someone too.
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I cut myself and i don't really know why people always say it's for attention but whenever someone try's to talk about it to me i just push them away honestly whenever i'm upset i just like the pain it makes me feel better is there something wrong with me
Yes, I've done stuff like cut myself and burn myself and it is to try and distract from pain of rejection, grief, etc. I'm not too good at identifying emotions and much less in expressing them.
Some people have reacted badly and if they are judgemental like saying I was using emotional blackmail, then that didn't help one bit. I don't trust therapists so much because some...
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I'm pretty popular in school but alot of people don't like my boyfriend.they are always trying tobreak us up and are saying so really horriable things and making up very untrue rumors.But no matter what we are totally in love.what is a good song for us?
"My Guy" by Mary Wells would tell it like it is but it is quite an old song so I'm not sure if it is quite what you are looking for. Another one is "F*ck The World" by The Queers.
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Do you know of any good songs with themes of society judging people based on things that shouldn't really matter? preferably no hip hop or rap. something punk or metal or something like that.
Oh, another classic example is the song "Brother Louie" - two versions I can think of - one by The Stories and the other by Hot Chocolate.
It's the story of a white young man who meets a black young lady and the problems they have when they tell their respective parents they love each other.
Both sets of parents do not even want to consider the possibility of their children...
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My girlfriend just broke up with me and said there is a small chance of us getting back together. Should I still try to get her back?
Probably not. I think it's a bit insulting what she said because basically she's suggesting that she will keep you on the hook just in case some other guy doesn't pan out so well.
The best thing is cut off contact with her and look for somebody else (but don't hurry into another relationship and don't do it for revenge).
The only exception I would make is if you...
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My girlfriend just broke up with me after a few months because she is still in college and needs some space. i respect that, but eventually i would like to try to get back together. what is a good way of going about that, and how long should I wait?
She's probably got finals coming up soon but sadly, I think "needs some space" means she isn't so interested in your relationship any more.
You could try being friends but it will be difficult. I think it would be better to keep your options open and not wait around for her too long.
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One of my friends and her bf broke up yesterday he really likes me and i really like him, but i cant hurt my friend she still likes him. wat should i do? How long should i wait be4 we go out?
It's not a good idea to go out straight away. It might look as if he left her for you and that won't help your friendship with her. I'd say wait at least a couple of months but you could still see the guy as a friend.
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I need some opinons, badly! I just got dumped three days ago, and really adored the guy. Before he broke my heart, we were going camping on an island for august long weekend with seperate groups of friends. He'll be camping where I am, should i still go?
Depends if you think you can cope with seeing him there. If you do go, make sure you are with some people who will be supportive of you. If you don't want to go, that's a valid decision too. I don't think I would want to still go under such circumstances but that's because I didn't have many friends.
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What do I do when I can't get my 3&1/2 yr old to poop in the potty? He's been in underwear since his 3rd Bday. He's pees great and I've tried rewarding him with stickers, toys, praise, etc and nothing works. We'v even read stories to try and keep himon
He might prefer to poop on the toilet. You could get him a little step and small toilet seat to fit over the top of the big seat. Little boys are often slower than little girls to train for number 2's though.
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Do you judge people when they use poor grammar?
Depends if I think they ought to know better, but if I know English isn't their first language or they didn't go far in school or they have dyslexia, I don't.
It's mainly when they are well educated and make elementary mistakes such as saying "the dog wagged it's tail". I feel like saying "so you're telling me the dog wagged it is tail? That...
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Do you judge people based on their use of poor grammar and spelling?
A bit but I try hard not to. The main time I would is if somebody acted as if they were superior to me and then I would think "well, at least I can spell and use good grammar whereas you don't".
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Any good punk songs about society judging people based on the outside?
"I Can't Get Invited to the Prom" - The Queers.
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Do you know of any good songs with themes of society judging people based on things that shouldn't really matter? preferably no hip hop or rap. something punk or metal or something like that.
"Me And Harley-Davidson" - Five Man Electrical Band.
Sorry, I don't have the lyrics but it is about a biker who is rejected in a strange town simply because he is a biker. They never tried to get to know the man under the black leather, the long hair and beard, and the blue jeans.
"Town Without Pity" - Gene Pitney.
This is a really old song but is about a...
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Do you enjoy Rap that makes fun of "usual Rap", like Cigarettes by Fort Minor, more than you enjoy the majority of Rap/Hip-Hop being made fun of in said songs?
Yes, all this stuff about bling bling, ho's, and the like can get old after a while. Weird Al Yankovic has done some good parodies eg. "Will The Real Slim Shady Please Shut Up", "She Gotta Pee", and "Star Wars Gangstar Rap".
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What is the best rap &/or hip-hop song ever made?
"Television, The Drug of A Nation" - The Radical Heroes of Hip-Hophrisy.
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What is the best bond song ever made?
"View To A Kill" - Duran Duran, closely followed by "The Living Daylights" - A-HA. I don't think there have been any bad Bond songs.
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Which of the four Beatles made the best songs following the group's break-up?
Paul, but all of them made good songs after the break-up.
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Why are Paul and Ringo not friends?
I didn't know they weren't, but the most logical answer I can think of is they no longer move in the same social circles as each other.
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What would you do if you found out that your babysitter was telling your kids the truth about Santa Clause,the Tooth Fairy, the Easter Bunny,etc, behind your back?
I would probably be a bit unhappy about it, depending too on how the kids reacted. I never really was big on telling kids about Santa and so on but it's sad for them to have to know the truth about everything too soon.
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Had all mercury fillings out a couple of days ago, progressively feeling worse and toxic - could I have been poisoned?
Probably not - I think you could have got conned too. It's most likely been a big shock to your system and you're feeling a delayed reaction to all the anaesthetic.
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Now that I am around 50, what are the best skin products for me as far as skin discolorations, firmer skin, etc. ?
One thing that's important is to give up smoking if you do it because it is one of the worst things to age skin.
You need products that are gentle on the skin and preferably with natural ingredients.
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Black Males: what are the best hygeine products to use for deodorant,as far as sweating, shampoo/conditioner, skin cleanser and teeth whitening?
Roll-on deodorants stop sweating a lot better than spray deodorants because they give better coverage.
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Do you use dental products that whiten your teeth?
Just toothpaste. As I drink coffee, my teeth are not going to be pearly white. As long as they stay healthy, even if they are cream coloured, I don't worry.
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One of my front teeth is discolored & dead. I cannot afford to have it capped. Would an over the counter tooth whitener help? or would it make it even more obvious?
It would probably be best to have it extracted because the discolouration is coming from the inside of the tooth.
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Have you had your teeth capped?
No, I think they take too much trouble and expense.
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Would you stop talking to your best friend of 6 years, for a guy or girl you were in love with?
No - it would be a very bad idea. The love affair could break up and you'd also be without your best friend.
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What does it mean when your best guy friend suddenly stops talking to you?
He's found a girlfriend and she has him under the thumb.
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Love has no _________What?
Logic.
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I am trying to fall pregnant again, but am still breastfeeding my 8 month old, (twice a day). I have not menstruated since giving birth 8 months ago, but would love to fall pregnant again now. Is it possible to, and is there any suggestions on best timing
I'd seriously suggest waiting at least 6 months. Babies are little for such a short time and if your bubby is still breastfeeding, he must need the comfort. Women can still fall pregnant when breastfeeding, but it is somewhat less likely. Having two kids under two is about four times the amount of work that one child under two is.
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I'm 15 and pregnant and im getting an abortion. its complex and horrible and feel i am killing my child. My bf is very very supportive, but its not helping. Im not quite sure how to deal with this. Does anyone have any advice or experience?
If you feel like you're killing your child, don't have the abortion because if you feel like this, you will regret it.
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Please help me i had an abortion 25 years ago told everyone i lost the child i cant bring myself o tell he truth as i was 21wks pregnant i cant 4 giv myself and regret it and still cry over the loss that i choose an the guilt i feel i nw hav 4 children
Somehow you need to forgive yourself. You must have been very young and thought at the time it was the right thing. Maybe you could help other girls in a similar situation so they don't have an abortion that they will feel guilty over. If you can find a good grief counsellor, that might really help too.
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If your mother or father had a child 10+ years before you were born and didn't tell you until that person came back into their life how would you feel? react? respond?
I'd be shocked at first and then probably happy but I'd also say "why didn't you tell me sooner?"
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I am 27 and have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. I never talk about marriage, but lately I feel like I should start. After this long, should I want to get married?
You could certainly bring up the subject but it depends if you think marriage is going to guarantee you more of a future with your boyfriend than not being married. The truth is, he might be happy with the status quo. You should only get married if that is what he and you sincerely want; it shouldn't just be because society might dictate it.
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My boyfriend talks about the future but never about marriage or ever living together. I'm over 40 and we've been together about 15 months. I just feel like I need to be working on that with someone. Should I leave him and start new with someone else?
Give him a chance to explain just what he sees as the future and when certain things are going to happen before breaking it off. It could be that both of you are looking for different things in a relationship.
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Is it proper for me to introduce my girl friend to my spouse for security reason? Somebody help!
No, I don't think it is proper OR sensible: well, not if you want to continue walking straight. I also think you'll have to make up your mind one day which woman you want to stay with.
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When if fart i some times do little poo does this happen to anyone else
You might have a weak anal sphincter. It would be a good idea to sit on the toilet as soon as you feel a fart coming on just to be safe.
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Would an older man (35) ever date a 16 year old?
Some would, if given half a chance, but I think it's a bad idea. The girl has a lot of growing up to do. If they are really keen on each other, they should only go out as friends until she is a few years older and then see how they feel.
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Hello im an attractive young woman engaged to an older man there is 16 years differance between us i do love him but every time we go out other people stare at us and this can make me feel uncomfortable. What advice do you have?
They probably think your fiancee is very lucky. Just ignore them and don't ever get embarrassed because of the age difference.
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Why do people not want to believe it when something or someone they have always wanted is right in front of them and they refuse to believe it of look for all the reasons that its not.
Because they are too scared to believe or it might just go away.
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The only problem with golf is that the slow people are always in front of you and the fast people always end up behind you. Do you think that is right?
Not really. I must be one of the slow ones. I went with a group of friends from work once and one of the ladies got quite impatient and the pressure was one because all these other people were coming up behind us. I think she was getting mad because we were letting most of them play through.
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Why is your poo always tapered on the end?
The end is usually softer and you kind of pinch it off.
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Do you think healthcare should be governmentally controlled? Pros and Cons?
Yes, because everybody who needs healthcare should have access to it, not just those with a lot of money.
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I see a white girl that I would love to make mine. The only thing is that I'm black, and she's a Christian. How can I let her know my feelings without the interracial barrier?
I think it's best to befriend her first and find your way from there. Being black doesn't make you any less worthy as a person. She might or might not want to take things further but at least you need to give it a chance.
Where I grew up, there were lots of interracial marriages and most were between black men and white women and I haven't heard of many breaking up.
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Explain to me why a woman wouldnt like a man to make the plans and have a protective nature for his girl. Not overwhelming, just protective. I would love to take care of the girl that is mine, in every way. Why would that be a bad thing?
Funny thing is, most boyfriends I had dropped me said I needed "too much looking after" because I was awkward in social situations and not very good at housework. I never really trusted that a guy would look after me and either had to miss out on things or do them myself.
These same guys expected me to look after them so it is now easy to see why they didn't want to be...
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My ex broke my heart several times and now he's back trying to be at least a friend if he cant be more, but all im doing is tryin to push him away and get him out of my life, am i wrong?
No, you're not wrong. The only way to get over your heart being broken is not to see him.
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My Husband has been texting dirty things back and forth with the secretary at his job, I asked him if anything physical ever happened and he said no, but i recently found out that they sent nude picks to each other during that time, isnt
Maybe not, but it's foreplay. I would tell him this is just not on.
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I just broke up with my girlriend and I started dating someone else withn a week. I still love my ex but I dont know if it would work... Last night I cheated on my present girlfriend with my ex. My ex wants to get back together but I dont know what to do.
Take a break from both ladies and think really carefully about what you really want. You're too confused right now to be much good to any woman.
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What are some things you do in front of your partner now that you wouldn't do when you first started dating?
Swearing.
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Do you release wind in front of your partner?
Only if it is a complete accident. I find it very embarrassing but once or twice one has slipped out.
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Do you fart in front of your significant other?
Only if it is an accident.
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If you fart whilst in bed with your partner is it disrespectful to him/her?
Only if you do it on purpose and you know they hate it. On the other hand, it might give them a laugh and if it happens while you are asleep it can't be helped.
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How to control your parents ? me and my parents always fight, and i ALWAYS get grounded, i'm 16, i can almost leave, but i'm tired of the fighting and me missing out on big things ! how can i get them to stop or ANYTHING!
I don't think there is anything you can do to stop them from doing anything except maybe keeping away from subjects you know will cause a fight. I know it sucks not being able to do things you want to but in a couple of years time, you probably will be able to do more of them.
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My boyfriend and i always fight about the dumbest littllest things where we never fight about anything important. what can i do to solve this?
Write a list of all the dumb things you fight about and then keep away from those topics.
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There's this one guy stinks real bad and I work with him everyday and get to smell his odor, will I get nose/lung cancer or other bad stuff from smelling a person's offensive odor?
I doubt you will get any kind of cancer but if he stinks so badly, he can't be healthy. Can you ask the boss to shift you away from him or shift him well away from the rest of you?
I also think the boss should come around to where you are working so he or she can experience the smell for themselves.
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I sleep in a bedroom with 2 other people, the thing is the bedroom smells horrible, hygiene is bad, one of the guy take a shower like every 3 days, so I wonder if smelling the bad odor have a bad health effect on me? Make my lung contaminated? Poisonous?
I'd suggest getting some air freshener and spraying it around - chances are the smelly guy will complain and then you can say "well, I will stop spraying if you have a bath every day".
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Why may some people like the smell of their own flatulence while hating the odor of other people's?
I don't like the smell of any farts.
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Do your farts smell like heck after you have dairy products?
No, but some people's farts smell really bad if they have eaten eggs.
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(Funny)did you ever past gas in front of friends and there was someone you lke in the group?
No, thank goodness.
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Could you explain the most embarassing time that you passed gas?
In a meeting. I must have eaten something that didn't agree with me.
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Why do peaple fart alot
Because some of them have dodgy digestive systems or they are eating a diet high in foods that ferment and cause gas eg. beans.
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My ex has been in love with me for 6 years now he says he doesnt and has found someone else how can you just stop loving someone just like that and replace me so easily
Some guys are heels.
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If you could arrange for one thing, good or bad, to happen to your boss, what would you have happen?
I would wish for a cure to be found for his autoimmune disease that makes him very sick sometimes and that it will be on the subsidised list soon enough to do him some good. He is a really top chap and it's a shame he is suffering and being sick so much.
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What is one thing that could happen in the morning for you to have a bad day?
Getting diarrhoea.
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Can you pee without passing gas at the same time?
Yes.
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If the news came on and the anchorman announced a new 'holy' baby was born (or just a generalization of someone big and important) what would you want to know about it the very first time you heard about it? (I would like to know the gender)
I'd want to know on what basis they were claiming it was a holy baby.
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Disregard gender for this question. If you got someone pregnant would you take it upon yourself to try and help the person and support the baby over time even if you did not want it in the first place?
Yes, I think it is the only right thing to do.
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Why is my gf such a jerk to me if I do one thing wrong, which isn't even so bad in the first place, but when she does something mean I always just suck it up because I don't want to fight. I never know what to do but just ignore it and be as nice as i can
She could be picking fights to get a reaction out of you as she might think you don't really care enough to fight back. There's few things as aggravating as wanting to have a good fight and the other person not responding.
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I can never plan anything with my gf of at least 3 years.She always fights about something, doesn't talk to me for a few days, then makes up. What can I do?
Next time she doesn't talk to you for a few days, don't talk to her when she comes crawling back. You don't need a pain in the neck like this woman. Let her find somebody who will put up with her crap and set yourself free.
In fact, if you can get hold of the Paul Simon song
"50 Ways to Leave Your Lover" - listen to it to get in the right frame of mind.
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I never talk about ________(what)?
Stupid things I did that I wish I hadn't done.
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I m 19 years 6 feet tall guy want to make a girlfriend.While in school i was studious so dint pay any attention to my looks but now in college i think there is a need of it.So girls can u tell me how appealing r my looks to u&do gals like studious guys?
Couldn't see the pictures but girls usually a guy who dresses neatly and keeps himself clean and nice smelling.
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How can i tell if guys are lying or not? Whenever i wear my hair in pigtail braids, guys always compliment me on them. But i'm not sure if they really like them or are just making fun of my little school girl look? haha
They can look quite cute and that attracts a number of guys. As long as they don't sound sarcastic in their praise, they probably mean what they say.
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Why do cats always sit on me? Not just my cats but all cats at anyone's house I visit. Is it a smell I am wearing? I am not really a big believer in woo-woo stuff like having "cat positive energy" or whatnot. Is there a scientific explanation?
I seem to attract lots of cats too, even cats that won't let anybody near them but then again, some cats still run from me so I still don't know what it is?
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Why does my cat always sit on my newspaper
I think she wants attention. My cats often walk all over the computer keyboard too.
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How many believe that it is possible to love someone so much that when they leave this world the one left behind can actually die from a broken heart
Yes, and the worst example I heard of was where the doctors told a woman her husband had just died of cancer and she had an immediate heart attack and dropped dead. She seemed to have been in good health prior to that but no doubt all the stress and strain involved in having a partner die of cancer would have compromised her sister.
I've seen lots of headstones in cemeteries where it is...
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How many people can you name who are alive today, whose death you would actually care about?
Lots and lots, too many to name.
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How many people would you estimate have died in the name of religion?
Millions, maybe tens of millions.
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If you had died and you were watching people clearing out your "personnal effects" What would you cringe at them finding?
Nothing that I can really think of.
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My 14-year old son has brown spots near the tip of his penis. What does that mean?
Probably freckles or small moles - btw, isn't 14 a bit old to be lookin at his penis? (unless he wanted to show you the spots, I suppose. If they are painful or growing bigger or changing colour then he'd need to go to the doctor's to get them checked out but it's probably nothing to worry about.
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I just wanted to ask, is it pretty weird to move in with a guy and your three kids u just met like 3 weeks ago at a club, cuz my friend supposely is deeply in love with a guy she just meet, i can care less,, but i dont think thats a good idea,
It does seem very fast and probably not a good idea. Maybe it's real love but chances are it would be lust.
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If you had a friend or family member who had a baby, and this baby was ugly would you tell them or lie to avoid hurting their feelings? I lied, and I am curious to see what others would do.
I wouldn't want to hurt their feelings and would tell a little white lie. I wouldn't say the baby was gorgeous if they weren't but I'd say they look fine and healthy or something like that.
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How have you come to be wary of strangers when it is your friends who have hurt you?
Somewhat.
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If your 13 year old boy keeps throwing all his clean and dirty clothes on his bed room floor and you tell over and over to clean it up and he is very slow a bout it is it better to hire a maid or take every thing from him like games and tv stuff?
Save yourself aggravation by not constantly reminding him but make it clear if he doesn't get his dirty clothes into the laundry in time for you to do the wash, they won't get done unless he cares to do them himself.
When it gets to the stage where he has nothing to wear to school, he'll most likely reconsider.
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MY BROTHER GAVE US A CAT IN WHICH HE SHOULDN'T TAKE CARE OFF MEDICAL REASON .WELL THE CAT IS 9YRS OLD FEMALE NEVER SPAYED CAN I STILL GET HER SPAYED. HER MEOWING AND PEEING DRIVING ME NUTS YES I'M KEEPING CAT
Yes, you can still get her spayed. In fact it would be better for her healthwise if you do it as soon as possible (less chance of developing uterine cancer).
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Can I still get a female cat spayed if she might be pregnant?
Probably but I think it would be more dangerous than if she weren't.
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If you get a cat declawed in it's front feet only, can it still go outside?
Declawing is cruel and so unnecessary. Cats need their claws for digging, defending themselves and laying scent down. I think it should be outlawed everywhere.
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Why do cats get so crazy after they poo?
I've never noticed it.
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Why is dog poo not white anymore
The dung beetles eat it before it has a chance to turn white.
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Is it worse to get dog poo on your shoe or cow poo
Definitely stay out of cat poo - it smells ever grosser than dog poo or even human poo!
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Why do new shoes always get dog poo on them?
They have an irresistible attraction.
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What's worse, bird poo on your suit or dog poo on your shoe?
I never wear a suit but I think dog poo on your shoe would be worse. Dog poo on your suit would be even worse and could happen if you trod on a very squishy dog poo and some splashed up onto your trouser cuff.
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Is it worse to get dog poo on your shoe or cow poo
Dog poo - because it is stinkier.
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Have you ever had a party and blamed your dog for gas, then notice someone's face has turned bright red? (meaning it was them)
No. I don't have a dog. I have suspected my cats of passing gas sometimes though.
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Have you ever dumped red paint on a dog and shouted, "Fur is murder!"?
No, but I think people who do that to somebody wearing a fur coat should be had up for assault and malicious damage to property.
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Is fur murder?
Not unless it is really hot and the creature with fur overheats.
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How long is the longest time that you think you can go without wanting to use the word when?
Maybe one day.
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I had been making myself throw up alot so i can lose weight so i will look better for my man,is there any advice you could give me?i love him and i want him to want me more,he said i look good now but if i lost 30 pounds i would look even better.
Constantly throwing up also wrecks the enamel on your teeth and gives you bad breath.
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I am at a very healthy weight for my height (5'7'' and 116 pounds), but I look so much bigger than I did at the start of the school year, even my sister noticed! I don't want to lose weight because that would make me"underweight". What should I do?
Be happy within yourself and know that you are fine the way you are.
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I had been making myself throw up alot so i can lose weight so i will look better for my man,is there any advice you could give me?i love him and i want him to want me more,he said i look good now but if i lost 30 pounds i would look even better.
I'd also suggest reading the story of Karen Carpenter. She had bulimia and it eventually killed her.
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After you've told some girls that you like a certain guy -why do many say ' oh but his gf is really pretty?' You can get along very well with the guy &they'll tell you, maybe he just wants to be friends, etc.
They could be jealous or trying to warn you off so you won't get hurt.
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Girls! would you cheat with a coworker? because he really attracts you? even do you're happily married? and he is also married! do you think is worth it? would i regret it? I dont know if he likes me we've just glazed once or twice but i think he does.
I think some excitement is missing in your marriage so it's better to sort it out than get mixed up in a situation that will only hurt a lot of people. Besides, this guy is probably just being nice and there is nothing in it.
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Guys:theres this guy my friend likes she gave him a bj he said he liked her and would date her but he never did and now shes mad at him... he also says he likes this other girl and isnt sure yet....what does that mean? i think he used her but i dont know.
He used her, sad to say and he is not ready for any kind of relationship. He only said he would go out with her so she would give him a blow job. There's nothing much she can do except think twice next time somebody says something like that.
If he spreads the word around that she's easy, she could say he had a very small wang.
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I had been making myself throw up alot so i can lose weight so i will look better for my man,is there any advice you could give me?i love him and i want him to want me more,he said i look good now but if i lost 30 pounds i would look even better.
Yes, stop throwing up and please see a doctor about these feelings.
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Will losing weight make me look better?
Depends. If you are very overweight, yes most likely. If you are only a little bit, it might not make much difference but you could feel better about yourself. Older people who lose a lot of weight sometimes look older because then they get more wrinkles in their face.
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Will taking laxatives make a person lose weight?
Maybe, but it WILL make you lose your health.
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Why is it that when you ask a question with pure intent here on AB people leave answers that are meaningless or have no value what so ever? Why waste their time, are they just looking for points or just being ignorant?
Sometimes I give a facetious answer if I think the question was silly but I normally try to give sensible answers.
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Why do trolls waste their time taking points off peoples questions and answers?
Because they can.
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Do you think that the people who can award or take away more points are actually better judges at answers and questions or do you think they have more time to waste and therefore are worse judges of these things?
They're not necessarily better judges at answers and questions - they still have much the same opinions as they started out with. One would expect them to be a little more experienced than a beginner but that's all.
The ranking is also a function of overall time spent and popularity of their answers.
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As of the time I am asking this question, I have 706 points to go to reach level 51. How long do you think it will take me to reach that level?
I don't know; it's been taking me 3-4 weeks to go up each level since I got to level 20. If you're getting consistently good ratings, I would guess between 5 and 14 days to go up to the next level.
I think it will take me at least 18 months to get up to level 51.
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Do you think a woman can be a housewife and go to univ. for Phd at the same time ?And how long do u think it ll take?
Yes. It's easier if you have no kids and a supportive spouse. It depends whether you go full time or not as to how long it will take. Going full time probably isn't a realistic option if you have young children. It would probably take at least 2-5 years.
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What is the worst thing that can happen to a woman going in for abortion & how long does it take?
Finding out there were twins.
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Is it wrong to tell a recent ex that I kissed someone else but i was sad because it didn't feel the way it does with my ex? He broke up with me last week. I was just lonely and wanted attention. Would it ruin the friendship we're trying to salvage?
Not a good idea. It's none of his business anyway since you were broken up. Just keep it to yourself.
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Whats the best way to get over someone you thought was the love of your life? I'm 31 and I thought i was going to marry this guy. I wanted to have his children. Its my fault it didn't work and I'm regretting it so much. Please help - I feel ruined.
Give yourself time to grieve. It also mightn't have been as much your fault as you think. Sometimes relationships bust up and it's just rotten luck.
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Whats the best way to show my boyfriend that if he does not get his ex out of his life and get his self together that I going to be with someone else, I tried talking already.
Playing games is silly. Give him till a certain time and then go. Sounds as if you don't respect him much anyway so it would probably be a relief to both of you.
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IF someone thinks they are going to get food poisoning whats the best way to barf, sink, toilet or bucket or something else
You could sit on the toilet and barf into a bucket. That way if something comes out the other end, you've got both ends sorted.
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If a guy leads you on and makes you think your going to get together, then you find out he's trying to get with someone else. Whats a really good way to get back at him?
Look elsewhere, he isn't worth your time.
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Whats a good way to be at a party and to just make guys NOT touch you!? cause every party i go to theres always like at least a couple people trying to hook up with me and my b/f is starting to get soo pissed off about it.
Karate chop or kick to their shin.
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Why do people make you feel bad for not wanting to go out and party every single weekend? They just get drunk, every weekend the same, probably can't remember most of it. I like going out and having a good time but i hate getting wasted. It annoys me!!!
They want you to be the same as them. You could say your doctor has told you to cut down.
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Every single time I say that i enjoy or like something , My Mother - Law - immediately says she hates it, it makes her want to throw up, gives her a migraine, etc. It annoys me and hurts my feelings. I have ignored it for months. Should I say something?
Say you hate or dislike something and see if she will contradict you on that. If so, try pretending that you dislike something that you actually like and then when she says it is good, then say you actually like it. She can't really contradict herself then without looking silly.
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My wife just ended our marriage im 20 i feel like i will never love again, i truly believe she was the love of my life, i feel so horrible right now, how do i make myself feel better and move past this?
Wow, that is so sad! I think you need to give yourself time to grieve. Whatever you do, don't rush into another relationship out of loneliness. If you can, go to some things you would enjoy on your own.
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I am recently dating a man, dates go very well, but after them he rarely calls. If I call him he will get back and ask me to meet again. I feel tempted to ask him why he does not call, but I am unsure, should I say anything or just leave like that?
He might not have a phone at his house.
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I can't decide if I should go to work today. I woke up feeling crappy, so I called in only to find out that my boss called in too. I work in a salon, and I know this will leave them short handed. Should I suck it up and go, or just stay home?
Depends if you think it will pass. I wouldn't advise going in if you have diarrhoea and/or vomiting because you will pass it on to the customers or if you feel dizzy.
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Don't you find it rather funny that these so called climate change experts now can't decide if the world is going to cook or freeze?...for me its just a load of money sucking B.S.
Yes. When I was growing up, there was much hysteria over the next ice age coming up faster than we expected. I agree that we need to do more to preserve our environment but also that much of the climate change stuff is probably claptrap.
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Is money funny in a rich man's world?
Probably not - he would probably take it quite seriously.
If he didn't, he might not have got rich in the first place.
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What is your definition of a rich man?
Somebody who has all that he wishes for in life.
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What is your definition of a hippie?
A person who is laidback, likes wearing natural fabrics and long hair and bright colours, has a strongly developed sense of social justice and isn't afraid to stand up for what they believe, likes to drive an old VW bug or VW Kombi Van, does a lot of recyling, grows their own veggies and fruit...
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What is the first thing that comes to mind when i say 'moon'?
Somebody baring their 'tocks.
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What is the first thing that comes to mind when i say 'darling'?
Frankie Miller and his song "Darling".
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What is the first thing that comes to mind when i say 'blanket'?
Warm and cosy.
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What is the first thing that comes to mind when i say 'something'?
That song by the Beatles.
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What is the first thing that comes to mind when i say 'relax'?
That song by Frankie Goes To Hollywood <shudder>
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What is the first thing that comes to mind when i say 'Pause'?
Pussy cat feet.
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What is the first thing that comes to mind when i say 'big'?
Fat.
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What is the first thing that comes to mind when i say "Saturday night"?
Lots of good songs from the 1970's.
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When I say "All night long" what comes to your mind?
That wretched song by Lionel Ritchie that just about drove me nuts because it was flogged so much on the radio.
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I like a 23 y.o guy and im 17. now before you start telling me that he's just interested in sex and all that crap, i can assure you hes not & hes a really genuine guy...but he does come with a lot of baggage - just out of a 6 yr relo, rehab..thoughts?
Please be careful, very careful, and don't rush into sex with him. He needs time to sort himself out. It's okay if you are just friends with him for now but it would be very unwise to get into any kind of serious relationship at the moment. He really wouldn't be ready.
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How can you tell if a guy doesn't like you or is not interested in you anymore?
He keeps avoiding you.
He looks bored whenever you speak to him (especially if he keeps looking at his watch at the same time).
Whenever you go on a date he insists on bringing another woman along too (especially if she's somebody he knows you can't stand) - that actually happened to me with one ex.
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Do you think school uniforms should be banned?
No, but I think in some cases they need to be made more affordable and more attractive and more comfortable and girls should be allowed to wear slacks or shorts as part of the uniform.
In hot areas, the uniforms should be of a light fabric so the kids won't swelter in them.
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Do you think that carbonated sodas should be banned from schools?
No, but healthy alternatives such as fruit juice should also be on offer. But I think drinks such as Red Bull should be banned because they are known to have dangerous side effects.
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Do you think Congress should ban junk food in US schools? Why or Why not?
No, because they aren't the food police. It should be a matter for parents and school authorities to work out. If you ban junk food in the school, the kids will only want it more after school. But I certainly think that junk food should not be the only food supplied in the tuck shop.
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Do you think schools should be allowed to sell junk food (chips, candy, soda) to students
Yes, but it shouldn't be the only thing they are selling at the tuck shop. There should be lots of healthy alternatives as well.
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Do you think elementary students should be allowed to have cell phones at school?
Only if they are switched off during classes. Otherwise, they cause too much of a distraction when the kids should be learning.
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Are they allowed to drug test students in high school?
Yes, they do. Especially if they have reason to think you might have taken some.
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I cried at work today. it seems like as soon as i think of it (crying) theres no stopping it, and no getting away. everyone saw, i'm embarrased, but, i dont know how to keep it from happening. can anyone help with this?
I get really embarrassed about crying because it happens in shops too but I think it could be a reaction to having suppressed emotions for years and now no longer having the strength to hold them back.
I think it would have been far healthier to have cried more when the things first happened but I thought it wasn't "grown up" to cry. In fact, it is human to cry and better not...
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I am stay at home mom for 8 years, two kids, husband now tells me he loves me but is not in love with me.He wants a friend & feels I am not. He is still physically attractive to me but said something is missing. Hangs out a lot w/a rec
Yeah, he sounds depressed and meeting up with the friend has shaken him up. It wouldn't matter what you do, he would find fault and that is often what guys do when they are depressed. If you go back to work, then he will probably say you're neglecting the kids and the house.
Is there anybody in his family you can talk to if you can't get him to go to the doctor to get his...
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So me and my best friend. He said that he was in love with me and all the signs were there. When we got back together my feelings weren't all the way there so i "pushed" him away. when i write him he says plz leave me alone. what should i do?
He probably feels embarrassed and hurt and wants time to "lick his wounds". If you still want to be just friends, you could write a letter saying you didn't mean to hurt him and leave it up to him to reply (if he doesn't, please don't push him).
If you want to be more than friends, you could add that you made a mistake/didn't feel ready, but again it will depend...
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I cried at work today. it seems like as soon as i think of it (crying) theres no stopping it, and no getting away. everyone saw, i'm embarrased, but, i dont know how to keep it from happening. can anyone help with this?
I've cried at work some times. Usually it was because of bullying or something went wrong. If I can, I head off to the toilets for a while but sometimes it happens too fast. It's embarassing but everybody cries some times, it's just that some of us cry very easily. I take Efexor and it helps a bit.
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What should I do, my friend just hit a depression stage and she wants everyone to leave her alone but I feel like I did something wrong cuz the way she is pushing me away but she told my mom she just needs her space. Should I give her space or my love?
I think give her space but also assure her that you are there if she does need to talk.
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I dated a hot and nice guy acouple of months ago, but he was shy and he didn't end up being much of a boyfriend. He was nice, and he told me after that he was going through a tough time at home, but he really liked me. Should I give him another chance?
Yes, I really do think so.
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Is this a sign saying a girl likes you when they talk to you and takes a glance at your lips then back at your eyes while talking? I thought i read this on the web saying it a sign that a girl likes you. Can someone could tell me if it true? common signs?
Sometimes it is. If her pupils get big at the same time, that's usually a good indicator but do be careful not to look as if you're staring too much.
If a girl likes you, she will hang around in places where she is very likely to bump into you and try to be around you as much as she can.
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How can i tell if the girl i like likes me back?
If she likes to hang around wherever you are, even if you're doing something quite boring, like studying.
If her eyes light up whenever you come into the room.
Sometimes though if a girl really likes you, she will get really shy in your presence.
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What did you just say about your S/O?
He is far away and I hope to see him soon.
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How can you tell if a chick is mad or don't like you anymore?
She slaps you on the face or storms out of the room or both!
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Should I remain friends with ex? He slept with me and then told me it was a mistake. He later told me he was still dating his girlfriend of 7mths. He wants to be friends, I refuse to meet her after what's happened, since she doesn't know.
NO! He was just using you as a convenience. You deserve far better friends than him.
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My ex and I had sex while drunk, then he told me it was a mistake, he was still dating his girlfriend and wants to remain friends with me. What should I do? I can't meet her, I feel so bad about the whole situation - but i miss not talking to him
Don't be friends with such a loser. I think you could find somebody new to talk to who would be a better friend than him.
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My boyfriend's ex-girlfriend wants to move into the building next to his and he still talks to her. Should I be concerned?
Depends. If she has a new boyfriend, probably not too concerned. I don't think I'd be very happy about it if it were me but it would really depend on what kind of person she is.
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My ex-boyfriend and I had sex while drunk. He told me it was a mistake the next day because he is still dating his girlfriend and wants to remain friends with me. What should I do?
Tell him you DO NOT want to be friends with somebody who would act so despicably! He just wants to paper over the way he has treated both of you. Don't let him off the hook so easily - he's just looking out for himself.
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My boyfriend cheated on me with his ex while drunk. He says it was a mistake, and feels awful He says he really cares about her and wants to remain friends with her but promises it won't happen again. should I let him?
No! because they will do it again for sure. Better to say to him, well either she goes or I do.
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My ex-boyfriend cheated on me, but he now says it was a mistake and he wants to start over. I really love him, and we lost our virginity to each other. Should I take him back?
Only if he says he will never do it again and means it. I doubt you could ever really trust him again. It would also have to depend on the circumstances of the cheating ie. was it a moment of weakness or had he been seeing the other woman over a period of time?
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I cheated sexually on my boyfriend he found out and dumped me. I really am genuinely sorry and want him back. He says he's not in love me anymore but still wants to have sex with me. How can I get him back and not just to have casual sex?
Sorry, but I think it's too late to get him back. I think he's just using you as a convenience now, most likely because he feels you did the same to him. It depends if you want to play along with being a friends with benefits now. Sadly, I think you will soon come to the parting of ways. All I can suggest otherwise is learn from this and do your utmost to avoid cheating on any other...
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My boyfriend is my first and he wants to marry me, he has a sexual past and i don't, People are telling me i should have sex with other people first before i say yes- but i really love hem and i don't want to hurt hem like that - can u marry ur first?
Yes, of course you can - if you really love them it shouldn't matter if you have never had sex with another man. You don't need "experience" - you can have fun learning sex with your husband.
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How Can I tell my Boyfriend that he treats me like shit and I dont want to be with him anymore?
Write him a letter and say you are unhappy about the way he is treating you eg. "I don't like it when you break dates with me so you can hang out with your mates". If he doesn't realise what he's been doing, it will give him a wake-up call and maybe at least you'll get an apology.
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How can you tell if a chick is mad or don't like you anymore?
If she won't talk to you any more.
If she crosses the street to avoid talking to you.
If she blocks you on MSN or any chat forum.
If she gets her brothers to rock your roof.
If she returns all your gifts.
If she sends you a "dear John" letter.
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Does anyone know who sings this song or what the name of the song is.... its like a rap song and a dance tune and the chorus goes..... ".....to the wall"
Far out! Those lyrics...
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I know we need ads to pay for the site, but when I answer a good relationship question ( as best I can ), I really don't want to see, Erin ( 26 from cardiff ), even if she does look cute, are some of the ads just going a bit too far?
I don't think those ads for abortion clinics should be on this site. That's going just a bit too far.
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What is a good song to play on the piano for an audience? I'm Looking For a few songs, contemporary or classical to play at this fancy dinner for my youth group. It's going to be this romantic evening theme. And i need some songs to ad
"Moonlight Sonata"
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I'm looking for the name of an artist that did a song I have on tape. The song would have come out around 1984 and was probably called "Tell Tale Heart".
I probably should listen to the song again so I can get hold of more of the lyrics but I have around 350 tapes so it might take a while.
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I'm looking for the name of an artist that did a song I have on tape. The song would have come out around 1984 and was probably called "Tell Tale Heart".
Ah, it's not the Alan Parsons Project song "Tell Tale Heart" - it was more in a pop/soul style and had some whistling in it and the chorus something like "I've got a tell-tale heart and it's tearing apart"
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Why is that when one is in need of something, someone says go search there; I'm sorry I can't help? Is this the proper way or is there another?
Um, I have a lot of trouble getting the courage up to ask a person for help and find it offputting being told to ask somebody else but it depends on the tone of voice too.
If they are apologetic, it's okay but some people say it in a very smart-aleck voice and that annoys me.
It is nice if they offer to help you find out where you can get the assistance you need but I find that few...
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Have you ever "settled" for someone not because you really loved them or thought they were good for you, but because you were worried there would never be anyone else?
Yeah - wasn't a good move either.
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Does insects fart?
You sure it's not him but he's blaming it on the spiders?
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Do you bleach your teeth? ('Cause your smile lights up the entire room like a flashlight in the dark.)
No, because I've read that it can cause problems with tooth enamel and the gums.
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Do you like large "colgate" smiles?
If they are true smiles and not just to show off the teeth, they are okay.
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I'm a 16 year old guy and about to have my first proper relationship. What should I know so that I don't screw it up, because I really like this girl
Putting her first is important as girls get upset if they feel they come somewhere in your priorities behind mates, sports, and partying (but you don't sound like the kind of guy who would do that anyway).
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Hey theres this guy I really like but theres one problem... OMG he is six years younger than me,, thast crazy he is so fine, I feel weird cause I am 25... I guess cause I rarely see oldefr girls with younger guys... what do u all think.. he look older..
As long as he is sensible for his age, I say go for it.
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Do you think Brad Pitt is beginning to look a big old and past it?
Not really - in fact, I think he is looking better than ever.
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How big is your cock and how old are you?
Aww, I think poultry is interesting and like chooks. They are very useful birds, keeping worms down in your yard, eating food scraps and laying eggs (the hens, that is) and are also very tasty to eat.
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My girl of 5 years broke up with me out of the blue and is dating the guy she cheated on me with. Somehow I still love her and want to work on things. I cant imagine just walking away from 5 years. I know her new bf and her wont work out what should I do?
If she cheated on you, she will cheat on him. I think you had a lucky escape even if you don't feel that way right now. You need time to grieve over this relationship and it would be best not to see her any more if you can help it.
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I've been with my bf for 2.5 years. we just broke up because of life changes, career changes etc but still love each other. saw each other monday and had the best day. he's going away in a week and i want to do it again before he leaves. what do you think
Yes, I say go for it.
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I've been going with my bf for a year and he just decided to take a "break". everytime I am away from him I I can't stop thinking about him. It seems like he doesn't want 2 talk 2 me anymore, but he wants me all the time.What should I do? or any advice?
If he wants you all the time, then he's not really taking a break.
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Can anyone help? For the 4th time in a year I have a red rash, tingly and itchy, it looks like spots, starts with one then spreads on inside of thighs towards crotch, first one side then the other - as if its catching. Aloe vera helps. What might it be?
It might be thrush. Best to get it checked out by the doctor to be sure though.
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Can there be more than one runt in a litter of kittens? Two new ones next door 3 months old and theyre tiny.
Are they females? Some female cats can be tiny. I have two very small tortoiseshell females. One of them was the smallest in her litter but also the feistiest and is very healthy.
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If you have a female oriental kitten that is about 8 months old and she goes into heat and a tomcat mates once with her, does this mean she will have only one or two kittens? Also, if several toms mate with a queen, can each father at least one kitten?
NB: I am not suggesting this will happen. In fact, the owners of the little female want to get her spayed asap but they have to save up for the cost of the vet bill.
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I have a male dwarf rabbit 9 months old and a female big REX 1 year old. Can they be breeded together? And what will the out come be of the kits? Will the kits be dwarf kits or will they come to be just like there mom big rexs with little heads?
The kits will probably be medium sized and have curly hair like their mother. I don't know what colour they will be though.
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Recently I cheated on my boyfriend of two years who I'm in love with. I HAVE NO IDEA why I did, except that we were fighting earlier that night. I can't tell him because I KNOW it will destroy our relationship, which I don't want to happen. What do I do?
I think you shouldn't tell him unless there is a good chance another person is going to get in first. I also believe that you kind of know why you did it = it was because you were upset with your boyfriend over having a fight.
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I am 27, married for 5 years. I had a fling with a man travelling. It just happened, and I know that I will never see him again. I really feel it was a mistake. I really love my husband. I want to keep the relationship, should i tell my husband?
No, not unless there is any chance he will find out from somebody else. Otherwise, the only person you should tell (if you are a catholic) is your priest.
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If a guy is only 3mths out of a relationship & seeing a married woman can you really be inlove with that person or just feel like true love?
He could be but it's probably just lust. See if they are still together in a year because that is about how long it takes for the "honeymoon phase" to wear out.
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If a guy I just met and really like doesn't want to marry me, but would like to date me, how can I possibly open my heart and give and accept love? I've always loved on the basis of having a future with that person.
Give it time. He probably doesn't want to talk marriage at this early stage. You can still have a future with a person without marriage.
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I have been dating this guy who has a little girl, I care about him a lot and already met his daughter, Is it possible to accept her, but never really be okay with it?
It is possible, but it would be very bad for the relationship and not fair to either of them.
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It just seems a little odd to me, I'm a university student and live with 7 other guys. The rest of them are all scrawny, except for one who is fat, and they all get tons of girls at the parties we have. Maybe big muscles just aren't 'hot'?
Do you talk a lot about going to the gym and going on special diets? If so, that could be boring the ladies. Then again, what girls like is to feel that a guy is interested in them for who they are and wants to talk about things they like too.
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Which ones have more of a "party attitude": small universities, or big ones?
Depends on the place, but you're really there to learn more than party (or ought to be).
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Which would you prefer and why: a big university, or a small one?
A small one because I get overwhelmed by crowds, and prefer one where there is a better chance to be part of the community and not get "lost". Mind you, I went to a "small" university with about 5,000 students and found that way too large to cope with.
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Ladies: Would you rather have a real sapphire that was small or a manufactured one that was big?
A real one that was small. I don't like big stones on rings anyway.
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How big is your cock and how old are you?
I don't have a cockerel but would like to keep hens. A local council ordinance bans people in the suburbs from having cocks but they can have up to six hens.
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Gals, do you sometimes feel like guys speak a different language?
Yes, at least sometimes.
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A neighbor's dog killed my cat. I don't want money, or for the dog to be put down, but I want some kind of action taken. What can I do?
A lady up the street from me had staffys that killed one of my 7 week old kittens early one morning. He was beautiful, grey and white, and she said I should have had my gate shut.
I don't like having my gate shut because it sticks all the time and I think she should have had her dogs on leads. I didn't know the kitten had got outside and thought he was inside with his mother and...
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What do you think about the goverment trying to pass a law that you can not wear baggy pants?
Ridiculous! Don't they have anything more important to concern themselves about? I don't like the fashion but there are far worse things.
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Ron Price, a Dallas school board member, has asked the City Council to look at strenghtening a law to go after people who wear baggy pants and expose their underwear. Do you think that councils and schools should be able to enforce a clothing code?
Not for something like that but they should be able to tell the kids how daggy and silly this fashion looks.
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Should it be illegal for people to wear their pants down around their knees, showing their underwear?
No, but I think people who point and laugh at them should be given a small payment.
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Should parents start putting there foot down on these teenagers you wear baggy pants and show there underwear?
No, but they should just keep telling them how silly they look in those pants.
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The mayor of Atlanta is proposing public hearings to ban baggy pants for guys and overly tight and low pants for girls, so underwear doesn't show publicly. Is this how the mayor of a metropolitan city should be focusing time and money?
Probably not - I'm sure there are far more important issues for him to worry about. Mind you, these are certainly egregious fashion violations, especially the low and tight pants for girls.
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Is it cool for a girl to sag her pants like the guys, show her underwear.
No, it just looks dumb. It is not a cool thing for either sex to do.
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At what point are pants too tight? like on a girl not a guy
When they cut into her front bum.
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There's a guy who claims that he wants to date me, but says that he wants to wait until he has less stress in his life, like getting his finances in order, but if he really wanted to date me, wouldn't he do it now instead of waiting?
Yes, he could keep the relationship low key until he sorts himself out but there shouldn't be anything stopping him and you going out together sometimes.
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I have a plan to make the guy who likes me jealous of one of my really close guy friends so that he'll ask me out. do you think i should do it, or do you think it would be wrong?
No, I don't think you should do it, and yes - I think it would be wrong. Game playing is never a good way of starting a relationship.
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What do you think when people tell you their plans and you're not invited and they're like "oh me and my BFF are going to do this" and you aren't invited and you didn't even ask them and that person was once your really close friend what's your opinion?
You probably need to widen your circle of friends and do some activities of your own.
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Is it out of order for your mother to slag you off to her friend when they think youre asleep, AND tell her about a really embarrassing personal problem you have, and then laugh about it?
No, would she like it if you told your friends about her farting problem or that she's a bad cook or something like that?
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After a 10 year close friendship with benefits i have been put out to pasture as he has found the love of his life, but he still wants to be friends - what should i do?
Depends what you can live with but that's why I would be scared of being in a friends with benefits relationship.
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If you decide not to be friends with somebody anymore in real life, what should they do in order to earn back your friendship?
If it was because they did something bad to me, I would be friends again if they said they were sorry and really meant it.
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A bff hurt me pretty bad a while ago and I forgave her, now we have been approved on a house together and the night befor I pay the bond and sign, she completely bails out and leaves me alone, straight after my ex bf did the same. Forgive her? Why?
I suggest never speaking to her again or at least not for a few years, and whatever you do - don't sign up for anything else together as she is too unreliable.
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Guys, do you think women should put forth the effort to wear makeup and "look nice" everyday (or at least most days), or can we just hop out of bed and throw something on? Would you date someone who never dressed up?
No, it should be up to the woman if she wants to put on make-up and fancy clothes. I prefer to go natural and dislike make-up. Also, too much makeup on older women makes them look even older still, especially when they put on too much mascara and eyeliner.
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Is it out of order for your mother to slag you off to her friend when they think youre asleep, AND tell her about a really embarrassing personal problem you have, and then laugh about it?
No! Never. She ought to be ashamed of herself!
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My daughter will not go to school. We have done everything including me going into every class with her. This worked for a while and she went back. Every time they have a holiday it gets harder and harder to get her to go back. please help it is killing
She could be getting bullied or ostracised by the other girls and it can be very sneaky.
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Does anyone dislike phones as much as I do?
I hate making phone calls.
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Does anyone know what they would say or do to their neighbor who took it upon himself to wash your car? He is standing outside my townhouse right now washing my car and talking about how disgusting it is.
I'd be happy that he saved me a job but a little bit creeped out too. I'd probably come down and give him a chocolate bar or packet of biscuits and thank him and say I'd been really busy and hadn't got to cleaning the car yet.
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Do you sometimes feel like a clown and have to paint on a smile? How often do you hide your emotions?
No, if I feel bad then I don't fake looking good. I try to just look neutral though. Otherwise, I'd feel as if I weren't being honest to myself.
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Do you like large "colgate" smiles?
No, they look too phony.
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Do you ever get "throat chigs" - the little white clumps that you occaisionally cough up? I think their technical name is tonsilloliths.
Are they what make some people's breath smell like poo?
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My 5 year old son has autism. He will pee in the toilet, but he won't poop in the toilet. He always ends up pooping when I put him to bed at night. Anyone have any ideas that could help me get him to use the toilet?
If he's pooping while he's asleep, he could be constipated and need a check-up with the doctor.
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My 13 year old daughter will not do her homework!! I spend an hour every night arguing with her. Help me! Any ideas on how to get her to do it without an argument? I've tried taking away privileges and even sat with her through every math problem!
Firstly, it's pointless getting into arguments with her. It only stresses the two of you out. It's important to find out why she doesn't want to do the homework. Maybe she doesn't understand the work.
Some kids also need time to just relax and de-stress after school so getting into arguments will only make her even less likely to want to do homework.
She might need...
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What to do my 5 year old daughter will not go in the potty. I have tried every book and getting her a toy and nothing. please help. Kathleen
She's a bit big to use a potty - so she'd be better off using the toilet because that's what she'll have to use when she goes to school.
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My son is almost three and shows no interest in potty training. I praise him and give hima sticker if he goes when I put him on the toilet, but he he never wants to go, if I ask him he just says no...any tips?
Get rid of the nappies except for overnight and nap times. If he feels being wet in normal undies, it will probably be a bit uncomfortable and then you can tell him about the potty.
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I am still working on potty training my 3 year old daughter, she does great most of the time, but tends to get lazy. I have tried everything from giving her M&M's, stickers, special outings, and even taking away activities. Any suggestions?
Make sure she is in little pants, not nappies and then if she gets wet, she will be uncomfortable and will be more likely to use the potty next time.
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My 3 year old still takes a sippy cup and sucks his thumb any advise to help get him away from these
You could try distraction, but nagging him will only make him cling to them for longer. There's probably not too much harm in these things for now as long as he is not sucking his thumb for hours and hours each day.
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At what age should a father stop shower with his son, i'm talking about in a shower stall, not a bathtub wheres theres more room? this is in regard to a previously asked question of whether 7 years is too old
Maybe about 11 or 12 but it depends on the people involved. Some kids would not like to shower with their dad at all and others mightn't want to after they are pre-schoolers.
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At what age does a child usually start to lose their baby teeth?
Usually 5 or 6 years old but some not until 7. I didn't lose my first tooth until 7 and I was one of the last kids in my class to start losing teeth.
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If I throw a party and don't allow any alcohol, would you still come?
Yeah, if I was in the area and invited. As long as there was plenty of food and other drinks and interesting people, it would still be a good party.
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Do you have a neighbor that you would literally throw a party if they moved?
Not now, but there were some years ago. I was 6 months pregnant and the teenage boys called me a "effing sl-t" and the toddler was a screamer. I ended up moving for others reasons and it was certainly a relief.
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My ex partner pulled my hair, told me to change or leave, threatened me, called me a butt-head, scratched my car on purpose, was sexually demanding. This was abuse to me. I left 6 months ago. How can he after 5 months of dating a woman be engaged to her?
She hasn't seen him for what he is? Love can be blind.
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Should I reach out first and end an argument that wasn't my fault? Silence for one week and counting, I miss him but I don't want to set a bad precedence.
Maybe send him a sorry card.
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Have you ever pooped standing up?
Probably before I got potty trained.
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What is another way to say that you have to go to the bathroom?
"I'm going to the very small room"
"I have to do a wee"
"I'm going for a sitting of parliament"
"I'm making a poo-litical comment"
"Excuse me, I'll be back soon".
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How would you feel or react if you were having your "private moments" in the bathroom and your partner came it?
Embarrassed unless it was just number 1's.
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How many caps or crowns do you have on your teeth?
None - no intention of getting any either. If a tooth gets really bad, I will ask for it to be extracted. Hopefully, none will get to that stage though.
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How many teeth have you had pulled?
2 - one molar and one wisdom tooth. The teeth were next to each other.
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How many teeth do you have?
28. 2 wisdom teeth never grew in on the right side. I have had my top left wisdom tooth and the tooth next to it extracted over the last 5 years. The wisdom tooth was impacted and got an abscess and the next one had a root canal that failed.
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Why does being in the sun make me tired? at least till i put on sunglasses or something..
I get sick in the stomach being in the sun for very long if it is hot and sometimes I start to shiver.
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My cat's in heat, is it inhumane to put her in the basement till all this freggin meowing is over?
My new boarder was given an oriental kitten and she went into heat about a fortnight - just about drove us nuts. He can't afford to get her fixed right now and wants to give the kitty back to his friend.
She is beautiful and if I didn't already have two spayed female cats of my own plus a regularly visiting tom, I wouldn't have minded if she just had one litter but I wonder...
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My kitten is on heat. What can I expect from her? And how can I be sure she really is on heat?
They meow very strangely as if they are in pain and roll around and get a lot more affectionate.
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How do you tell if a male cat is in heat
He will meow strangely.
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Cats keep on pooping on my front gravel (granted it does look like a litter tray) and i cant seem to keep them off, ive tried cat repellant spray any home made remedies/ideas to help, dont want to run around with a shovel for the rest of my life!
If you can catch them in the act, give them a big squirt with the hose or with a water pistol.
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When in school, any one miss the bus because they farted but it ended up a shart? You had to run home and clean up. Don't want to smell like poop at school?
uh, no.
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My girlfriend has a profile on a dating website. She claims it's just for making friends. I tell her that I feel uncomfortable with her listed on there, since most guys don't care if a girl is taken. She says I don't trust her, but I do. What should I do?
Tell her that her being on a dating website makes you feel very uncomfortable. Could it be that she's hedging her bets in case you two break up?
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Girls:how do you feel if your boyfriend tell you he's going to meet some beautiful internet girl on his own, and he says just wanna make friend?
Tell him if he does meet this girl, you won't be there when he gets back and mean it!
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My boyfriend punch me in my face my face was swollen for a week this is his third time hitting me. WE broke up he said that he is going to change for me. Im starting to see the sweet guy he used to be should i trust him
No! you shouldn't trust him. He is only acting nice to get you back and it won't last very long. A man like this shouldn't father kids either because he will be violent towards any kids in his care. He is bad news and the faster you get away from him, the better!
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My BF of 4 yrs decided he needs time and space to think about his life and where its going. He wants no contact and its been 2 months. He isn't seeing anyone and spends his time either at home alone or out drinking (lots...) How long should I wait?
He could be depressed but I think he is not ready for any sort of commitment. Too bad though that he had to break it off so hurtfully.
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Been with guy for 1 1/2 yrs, we're talking marriage, he is building a home, he says needs more time before we marry but he wont wait too long, we are in 30's & want a family. He says he maybe hesistant because his parents are divorced, what do u think?
These days you can have a family without marrying.
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It has been brought to my attention that one of my co-workers(who is married with children)is having an affair with my boss.I believe she should find another job.She says she doesn't have to, that what they do on their time is their business-who is right?
It could be office gossip and not even true, but I think the best thing is not to get involved and let them sort themselves out.
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My girlfriend just left me because she needs time. She never once said I was anything less than perfect and said she loved me. Shes been hanging out with her ex now but still talks with me everyday. I love her...what should I do?
I think she was trying to let you down gently. Try and be less available for her to talk to and see if she misses you.
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My girlfriend and I are close to a breaking point. Shes kept things in we've needed to talk about. We hung up, and even through everything we just argued about she still said i love you before getting off the phone. Should I call? It's been 4 hours
She needs to be prepared to get proper treatment for her bipolar or there will always be problems. It's difficult because the bipolar person has to have frequent doctor's visits and blood tests to make sure they have the right level of lithium in their blood and when they are feeling good, they think they don't have to take their medication.
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I have moocher "friends" that I need to get rid of. Should I just avoid their phone calls? Or confront them about their mooching?
Yes, have caller ID on your phone and don't answer it if it's them. If they come around to your place and say anything, tell them you are sick of giving out freebies.
Now, this is something I have to learn too and that is to say "NO!". I was brought up that it was rude to say "no" but there are times when you have to or you get taken advantage of.
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A male friend of mine is having what I can only call a 'mid life crisis', he is acting completely out of character and behaves as tho he were 18 again. I care alot for him but cant stand to be in his company at the moment, how long will this last?
Maybe a year or two or five. I agree, it is really painful seeing somebody you care about acting like a real dork.
Maybe you could a few happy snaps of him acting silly and show them to him when he is sober and on his own but if he is in total denial, even that won't reach him.
I guess all you can do is let him know you will always be there for him as a friend because if he makes...
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What is the cause of mid-life crises in a man and how long dose it last?
They look in the mirror one day and realise they have a beer tummy, wrinkles in their brow, jowls and a receding hairline and then they think "what have I achieved in life"? It may last for a moment or it may last for years.
They often make rash decisions and these may pay off or they may not. There are always gold-digging young women ready to take advantage of these guys but...
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Does age discrimination begin after 40?
No! it can be any age. Some people think it's okay to be rude to children because "they're only kids" and therefore not important. Some jobs aren't available to anybody but juniors because employers don't have to pay the young teenagers so much.
In some jobs, being over 35 is enough to make you subject to discrimination. But I think age discrimination does get...
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What are the downsides to age discrimination?
Do you mean for the people being discriminated against or the people doing the discriminating, or both? I think it limits opportunities to access all the good things that life has to offer and that is just a start.
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My father turns 83 years old today. Who would like to send him their best wishes?
Sorry this is so late but I hope he also has a happy 84th birthday. :)
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What would it be like if nobody had to pass gas?
The air would be a lot fresher and the greenhouse effect wouldn't happen so fast so I think it would be a better society.
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What makes most parents not love their children?
They scream constantly.
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Would you eat a strangers barf for 2 million dollars?
No fear!
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Would you eat poo for £1 million?
No.
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Ladies if you lived with someone for ten years and he refuses to marry you, would you purposely get pregnant to snag this man, knowing he doesn't love you?
No, but if I wanted to have kids, I'd leave and look for a man who wanted to have kids too.
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What would cause a man to date someone 5 years and decide not to marry them?
He might like things they way they are and worry that marriage could wreck their relationship.
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Ladies, would you marry or date a man who was under 5 feet tall?
Yeah, if I wasn't in a relationship already.
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Women, would you marry a man who had body hair? Some men don't care if you're disgusted by body hair or not. But would you marry one who had some fuzz?
Yeah, I love lots of fur. It feels soft and fuzzy.
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What do you do when your boyfriend thinks its funny to pass gas right next to you....or around you...or in a store and say its your fault....
Spray air freshener around him or offer him a cork.
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When you pass gas, what are you usually thinking?
Hope it doesn't stink.
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If you blew off ( farted) at a gathering, and the smell started to waft up, and other people started to turn up their noses and make comment, would you admit to doing it, or feign ignorance?
Blame it on the drain.
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If someone farts and you're trying to be funny, what do you say?
"Oh, is that what you think of (insert something that you know they don't like eg. their least favourite politician)
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Have you ever been at the suprmarket and the isle you were in was empty so you thought it was safe to let one rip, only to find that 30 seconds later you are surrounded by people. Has this ever happened to you or someone you know? (strictly for laughs)
No, but I have walked into an aisle where somebody had just farted.
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There is only you and one other very attractive stranger in an elevator. You are going to fart, you cant stop it. Do you do a loud ripper that doesn't smell or a silent stinky?
Probably a loud ripper but I'd apologise and say that it was something I ate.
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Have you ever noticed that silent farts stink worse than the loud ones?
Yes, actually I have.
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Is your fart loud or silent
Usually makes some noise.
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Can get my 9 month old to sleep thru the night! constantly wakes at 12 am, 2am and procedes to cry and scream until 5am (when its feeding time) know he isnt hungry in the night b/c if i end up goin into his room he stops cryin, and is just wide awake!
He's probably teething and might even have an ear infection. I used to have my babies in bed with me so if they got hungry they had easy access to the breast.
This happened because I am on medication and it used to make me drowsy and one night I almost dropped my older daughter putting her back in her cot.
My 6 month old granddaughter has slept through the night at times but every time...
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I have a 12 month old. Starting at about 2:00 in the morning, he constantly wakes and cries. He soothes himself back to sleep quickly but only to wake up again. I only go in to check on him the first time he wakes. No one is getting any
He's probably teething. Does he do the same thing when he has a daytime nap? It might be worth taking him to the doctor to check for an ear infection.
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I have a little trouble waking up in the morning (i have to get up at 5:30 to get to the bus) any ideas on how i can wake my self up? i wake up to alarm clocks but once it is done i go back to sleep. peaceably with out involving someone else.
All I can think of is to go to bed earlier at night and get the type of alarm clock that you have to get up and turn off.
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What is the most degrading thing a woman can so to or call a guy?
Your penis is so small the only way to see it is to put it under a scanning electric microscope.
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What is the most degrading thing a man can call or say to a woman?
The C word. The next would be "you're the worst f@ck I've ever had".
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What's the nicest thing a woman can say to a man?
My family and friends think we are perfect for each other and agree with them.
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Men: What is the worst thing a woman (or man, if that's your thing) can say to you?
You need to lose weight. Yes, I'm not the skinniest person in the world but I am happy with my size.
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Whats the worst thing a woman can say to break up with a man?
I've fallen in love with your sister and we're moving in together today.
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I broke up with my girlfriend because i thought we wanted different things, now i regret it more than anything in the world, ive been with her since i was 16 and i want to stay with her for the rest of my life, how can i get her back?
Tell her you love her and are sorry that you broke up with her but be prepared for her to be somewhat wary.
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What's the worst thing that can happen in childhood that affects relationships life long?
Getting raped.
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What is the worst thing that can happen to a woman going in for abortion & how long does it take?
Changing her mind when the procedure has started and it is too late to stop it or if it is a later term abortion, seeing the body of her baby. I don't know how long the procedure takes.
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What is the worst thing ever to happen to you on a first date?
The guy took me to a noisy club and then spent most of the night chatting to friends and leaving me on my own. Then he had the cheek to say I was "mentally retarded" and wanted "too much looking after" and then he dropped the bombshell that his ex had just taken out a restraining order on him!
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Was i wrong for turning my friend to child services for neglecting her baby.we had been friends for a long time (2nd grade).they took him away from her but if she has anger mgt and other things she can get him back. I dont feel really bad 4 doing it
No, it was for the baby's good and maybe your friend will see that she has to turn her life around now if she wants her child back.
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Guys: Is this true? When a man loves a woman Can't keep his mind on nothin' else He'd trade the world For a good thing he's found If she is bad, he can't see it She can do no wrong Turn his back on his best friend If he puts her down.
It's true for some people, particularly during the "honeymoon stage" of a relationship.
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I am a White man dating an Asian woman. She just moved back home in Asia, but weare doing the long-distance thing. The problem is, her parents are against her being with a White guy. They found out; We can only speak secretly. What can I do?
Is it possible for one or other of you to move to the other one's country?
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What are some things a Baptist man can do to appeal to the parents of a Catholic woman he'd like to date?
Treat her kindly and be polite and respectful to her parents and never say that Catholics aren't proper Christians. Also be prepared to learn about the Catholic religion.
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What is the worst thing that can happen if one has hydrocele?
It strangulates and you get gangrene and then peritonitis.
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What is the worst thing that can happen to AB?
It goes kaboom!
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What is the worst thing that can happen when riding a bike?
Falling off the bike and onto broken glass, especially if you fall face first into the glass.
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What is the worst thing that can happen to you?
Shitting yourself in public.
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What is the worst thing that can happen on a first date?
You think you got on fine with the other person and then they say they never want to see you again. That would really suck! It would be different if you could tell you weren't well suited - you'd expect not to see them again.
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What's the worst thing a woman can do on a first date?
Talk in great detail about her bowel habits. eww!
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What's the worst thing that you can say on a first date?
"You'd be pretty IF you wore better clothes, more makeup and had your hair done" or "are those your best clothes?" (if they are and he looks kind of disparaging) or "so when are you planning to lose that excess weight?"
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Whats the worst thing a man can say to a women during labor?
My mother is back at our place and she says you've left it like a sty! You'd better shape up and pull your finger out when you get home.
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My best friend doesnt understand what im going through..im still in love with my ex and i really miss him alot..and she keeps telling me to move on, but i think we are gettting back together so what should i tell her to make her understand a little better
I don't think there is much to tell her. Perhaps it's best not to discuss the subject with her. I made that mistake with friends and family and got very upset when told to move on before I was ready. A lot of people don't understand that grief doesn't have an exact timetable.
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If a class does badly in their mock exams, what should the teacher say to them? Tell them off for not trying, or tell them that they can work at it and get better?
Give them lots of revision and tell them they can do better when it's the real exams.
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Should teachers have the authority to remove a disruptive student from their classes permanently? I say yes, Does anyone out the disagree with that
Yes - the only thing I think is they need to be sure there isn't some medical or developmental condition such as a learning disability that is causing the unruliness.
In most circumstances though, I don't think the rest of the class should be penalised if a child is giving the teacher a hard time or bullying the other students.
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Do you agree or disagree with this quote from George Carlin: "People should stop saying that teenage boys who have sex with their hot, blonde teachers are permanently damaged. I have a better description for these kids: Lucky bastards."
Depends on the boy but I don't think it is a very good situation as the teacher should be acting more professionally and not playing favourites.
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How about "Gabriel" for a boy?
Yes, a fine name. No worries.
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For a million bucks, would you name your kid fuckhead?
Noooo!
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Can you please rate the name Stratton for a baby boy?
7/10 - there's certainly far worse names to pick.
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Do you know anyone who had a New Years baby? (The baby in our small town didn't arrive until Jan. 12, 2009.) If not a New Years baby, do you know anyone who had a baby after Jan. 1, 2009?
My younger daughter is a New Year's Baby - born on 01/01/1991.
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Pacifier or no pacifier?
Only if they cry a lot.
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Whats the worst thing a man can say to a women during labor?
You're NOT breastfeeding this baby.
If it's another girl, I want a divorce.
Now, now. Remember your breathing exercises.
It doesn't hurt - stop being so dramatic!
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When you see a hurt or damaged animal because of people, how do you feel about it?
I get very upset and want to cry and if it's because somebody was deliberately cruel, I also would like to see them in jail in a cell filled with cockroaches for a long time.
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Do you see auras around people and/or animals?
I see orange auras around people and cats who are close to me. I'm not too good at seeing any other colours yet. I also sense warmth with the orange auras.
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What scares you more, people or animals?
People, definitely.
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My ex says he still misses me but he wants time to do his own thing. He says there is a chance to get back together. but I don't know if I have the patience to wait. What should i do?
I think live your own life and don't factor your ex into those plans. A "chance" to get back together doesn't sound too hopeful unless you can see he is actively trying to woo you again. He seems not to be ready to settle down yet.
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My wife left me 14 months ago, doesn't want a divorce but doesn't want to get back together again either, says she doesn,t know what she wants even after this length of time. We still have sex, no other man involved with her, What should I do?
Yeah, I think it should be divorce or get back together again, unless you're both happy to be friends with benefits indefinitely.
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MY MAN WANTS ME TO MOVE IN WITH HIM, AND WE ONLY BEEN TOGETHER 2 WEEKS. HE SAID I DONT HAVE TO PAY NOTHING. WHATS UP WITH THAT.
Depends. I think he's moving quite fast but if you want to get together with him then go for it. If you like him just as a friend you need to be honest and tell him too.
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I have been dating my bf for a year and half, he has met my daughter and yet he still doesn't want to move in together. He talks about it, but doesn't say when. Even tho he knows I am currently looking to move. What is the best way to handle this?
I know it's difficult but sometimes maintaining separate households is better for a relationship.
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My bf wants his best friend(a guy) to move in with us,his friend wants to break us up. i never even met him. my bf won't talk on the phone with him if i'm home. he refuses to talk about his friend,if i even bring his name up he says i want to argue.
I hate to say this but could they have a gay crush on each other?
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My girlfriend dumped me to get with my best friend and now she wants to be friends! Even though I hate her for what she has done, what should I say?
I'd say it's too late to be friends.
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What do you guys think about staying close friends after ending a four year (living together) relationship?
Only if the two of you agree to do it. If he is saying "let's be friends" just to placate his conscience, it won't be a good thing for you. If you both agree a romance is not there but you can remain civil to each other, that's fine too.
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Would you be friends with an ex even if you loved them?
It would really have to depend. If we parted on very bad terms, I could not be friends with them for a long time. Even then, it might be the case that we could say hello to each other if we met on the street and that was it.
I think you have to give yourself time to mourn the demise of a relationship.
I'd be more likely to be friends if we parted on relatively good terms or if there...
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If your partner had the day off and you came home from work and found a tube of lubricating jelly in the living room, what would you think?
He was constipated.
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If you came home from work one day and found your home was completely decimated, what would you do?
Go catatonic for a while.
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My female cat has been sleeping a lot since she came home after two days of not coming home. I notice her nipples are turning pink and larger and her tummy area becoming bigger. Does it mean she is pregnant?
I'd say there's a good chance she is pregnant. Was she meowing more than usual before she went missing?
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What are your thoughts on Schrodinger's Cat?
It's silly.
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I am a male who is supposed to grow 1 more inch - at 5'7. I don't want to stop there, I want to get taller like 5'9, but I do have a short family. My mom is 5'2 and my dad is 5'7. Is it possible for me to grow taller while I can? My doctors took my Femara
Why do you want to grow taller? 5'7" is quite a good height and if you're worried about the ladies not liking you, any who would reject you for your height are not worth knowing anyway.
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I have a male co-worker that looks absolutely dumber than dog poop, He's a good and smart bud, but painfully shy. Others can't get past his looks and its hurting him. How can I help?
Get past the looks and appreciate the person underneath.
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What is the worst thing someone at work has done to you, or you have done to someone else?
The worst thing somebody did to me was try and get me sacked. It backfired on her and she ended up looking very foolish and retiring. She was a bully and had made life so miserable for some other people that they either resigned or got transfers but I wasn't going to go!
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Do you ever wonder sometimes how your co-workers have made it this far in life?
Not so much now, but in the past there were quite a few I really had to wonder about.
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Do you ever wake up crying?
Yes - after a nightmare. When I was little, I used to get night terrors. I still talk in my sleep and sometimes yell out or wake up crying.
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