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Is homosexuality a mental disorder? [video] It depends on who you ask. There are medical professionals that support and argue against it.

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When you feel anxious/paranoid how do you deal with it? Close my eyes and breathe, slowly, inhale...and exhale....inhale...and exhale....inhale through my nose...exhale out my mouth...

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I just feel the need to ask this: do you prefer drying your hands using: a hand dryer,normal towel or paper towel? Why? I like to use paper towel in public places, it's fast and easier. The dryer seems to take too long and it's loud. I rarely see cloth towels but if I do, I'll use it but not unless that is the only option.

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Roommate has 3 kids, so there are 4 in the house + me. Do you think all household bills should be split in half or should all bills be divided by 5 and he/she pay their children portion of the bills too? Your thoughts? I do think it would be fair for the roommate to pay a little bit more than half as kids (not 1 but 3!!) do add to the wear and tear of the house, use water, more electricity, food, etc. (Pets are charged extra in some rental properties - kids could do just as much damage). I agree that this should have been discussed before you moved in (or they moved in).

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Is my friend being childish about this whole job? Yes, he is being very immature. Tell him to get over it and this is a lesson in life, you snooze you lose, nothing personal. This has nothing to do with whether you're a bad person or not, it has to do with motivation and not taking opportunities for granted.

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What are some cute nick names for the name Derek? D-Dog.

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How do you react to criticism? Are you able to take it positively or do you flare up and defend your actions? I am able to take it (and defend it if I'm sure my actions need to be defended) but at the time it is given, I am not feeling/thinking positive. Later, I process it and see if there's any truth in it or if it's just bullshit. Either way, I am able to move past it.

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If you saw someone using cocaine on an hourly basis would you assume they have a drug addiction? I try not to assume anything but I would not be there long enough to see the frequency of drug use.

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if you had to describe your current mood with forcast conditions, what would your personal 'weather' be like? Sunshine! :D Comfortable cool breeze in the high 70s.

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What is the best excuse? Blame it on someone else... parents, boy/girlfriend, pets, siblings, neighbors, etc.

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Do you personally like foreigners, (excluding illegal aliens)? Not the band or at least I wasn't a huge fan :). But seriously, we are all foreigners...maybe WE'RE the "illegal aliens"!

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True or False: If your feet stink you dont get bit by mosquitoes? Definitely false. But I truly believe certain medication that people take (I don't know which) does repel mosquitos, fleas, etc.

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Who determines reality? Your mind or more specifically, your perception of the world around you.

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Were/are you a fan of the band "Slade" from the 70's? I remember them in the '80s. "I like black and white, dream in black and white. Youuu like black and white, run, runaway" LOL, that just popped in my head. But no, I wasn't really a fan...although I liked some of their songs.

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What does it mean when you caught your boyfriend looking at porn many times, promise he would stop and never does? It means he is either addicted to porn or that he enjoys porn A LOT. This is not an issue with porn-viewing...it's an issue with communication resulting in mistrust.

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Originally it wasn't called Goldilocks and the 3 Bears, why did they make so many changes to the original? Because the original version was not fit for (future) children. Children in those days were not understood as we understand children now. There weren't many doctors/professionals that took interest in child development so children were raised like little adults. Look at the pictures of children from our past. They are often dressed in little adult clothes. Children's stories were told to...

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What do you think of the 'no-kids-allowed movement'? I think it's just another angle at taking parental rights away so that the system/institutions can have more control over the future generations. This type of movement would suggest that kids are mostly ill-behaved and that parents are irresponsible. Sure we can think of situations here and there where kids were running around and acting like kids in establishments but like I said...they are...

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Did you ever get to the point where you're afraid to reach out to others because everytime you do, they end up walking out of your life? Briefly but then I asked myself, why do I feel that everything/everyone in my life is meant for me to keep? Why do I think I even have the power to control how long one stays? How egotistical of me... so I learned to enjoy moments and reach out to everyone without fear or self-serving expectations. It takes time but it works. It doesn't mean you won't feel the pain but you'll accept the...

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We are running out of _________ Ideas.

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Ladies: my wife says that men are only good for opening jars, lifting heavy objects, and reaching for things in high places.:) True or False False!! Men are as good for things that you hold them accountable for.

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What do you eat when you need to eat but don't know what to eat? If I am indecisive about what to eat, I reach for the box of Cheerios (Multigrain) and start snacking on them (no milk).

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What do you eat when you need to eat but don't know what to eat? If I am indecisive about what to eat, I reach for the box of Cheerios (Multigrain) and start snacking on them (no milk).

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ok im 12 and i want to have sex with a 12-14 yo. can anyone help me!!!??? The best thing for you to do is to learn self-control. Why don't you stick with thinking about having sex and learning about pleasuring yourself. Close your eyes and take yourself to places that you want to go with whomever you want to go with. This way, you explore your body so you know what makes you feel good, you're using your imagination in the safety of your own bed, and you leave out...

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How many people on this site right now are high? Not me...drinking a cup of coffee though :).

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Do spelling mistakes irk you? Yes and I tend to notice typos right away, every time. It comes from being a detail-oriented person. But the irksomeness is temporary and I can look past the errors, as long as the whole content isn't filled with typos.

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If someone is married, what constitutes having an emotional affair? Calling/texting your ex. Meeting women online and exchanging personal feelings. Having lunch with an old friend, co-worker, etc. of an opposite sex and keeping it a secret.

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how effective does running away for 2-3 days sound to get parents off your ass? Not very effective...because if you run away, not only will your parents 'get on your ass' scheme escalate, you have the potential to piss other 'authorities' off (school staff, police, etc.) if you get into trouble. It is more effective to talk with your parents and exercise your lesson in how to negotiate and compromise.

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What is the one thing you have forced yourself to do for your family? Cook, laundry, work, give them money, and listen to their problems.

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You end a good date with a _________ slap across his face! So he'll always remember that day ;).

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Should i go away from her life? I would disappear just so I can cool off my unreciprocated emotions that I have for her. Who knows, maybe things will be different if and when you see her again but for now, I would not want to compromise the friendship because of my growing interest.

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How do you log out of chat on facebook? When you click on it, at the top right hand of the chat box, there's a (circle) image that you can click on and then click on offline or uncheck available.

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Would i be held in contempt if we weren't going by the original order? See a family court lawyer and bring all your evidence with you to support your case. You will need to go back to court and change the order, otherwise, you will get into trouble for not following the original order if the father wants to hassle you.

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In one word can you describe"Piers Morgan" ? I like Mr. Morgan. He is a bit snobbish but I can respect that, he carries it well.

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Is crime more reward than punishment? Absolutely. It is that thrill of possibly getting caught - it almost makes one feel like (s)he beat the system. Although some crime that is repeatedly committed can get tiring and then it turns into a punishment - and they want to get caught to end it.

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How old were you when you finally discovered something that you were truly good at? In my late twenties.

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If your s/o told you "My friends are more important to me than you", what would you hear? I would hear, "I don't know exactly how to let you know that (1) I am not ready to grow up, (2) I am not making excuses in the future for doing things that my friends "make" me do, and (3) take it or leave it, I'm being as honest as I can be".

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Loss of privacy is a condition of employment with corporations. Why do people willingly submit to it? I ask the same question....but I believe majority of people feel trapped...when you are desperate, you will readily sign over your rights. Besides, those pre-employment tests are presented to you as a protection and safety - not a violation. You (and your family) are the only one that will feel the pain of not conforming to the company policy.

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What is vaginal warts exactly? Look up human papillomavirus (HPV). It can develop cervical cancer so it needs to be checked out by a doctor.

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Hi, can you help think of a job that is suitable to the description, that I have wrote? Take courses relating to human development or psychology.

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why do people act like bitch after u dumped them just coz i had a crush on someone else? Because they weren't ready to let go of the relationship or that they didn't see the end coming and being 'bitchy' is just a way for them to let you know that they are unhappy with the decision you made without them.

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So do you think it is human nature to be a hater? I believe hatred is a conditioned behavior. I don't believe that we are born hating. The root (cause) of our hatred varies and sometimes, it is not something you can pinpoint to a specific event/person in your life.

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Why is there pictures or statues of Jesus if no one really knows what he looked like there is no proof he looked tha way we picture him I'm not a christian or anything nor do I follow any religion but I would think that if you truly believe in something, it really doesn't matter how accurate or inaccurate an image is. People are symbolic. The image of a man that symbolizes Jesus is just a reminder of your faith/belief.

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What justifies someone's authority over you? Justifies? Nothing.

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Cash gift or gift item on your birthday? How much is enough but not too much? I just want a party to be thrown for me. If you must, a thoughtful gift will do.

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Do you believe in your religion just because you think you MUST? I do not have "religion" but I have faith and I am a bit "spiritual" (lol, aren't we all?) - in the sense that I am interested in learning about different types of spiritual studies. I believe in what I feel and how I think so I have my own internal light to guide me through life, which seems to lead me to helping others.

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Does a woman need to ask her husbands permission to add their ex on their facebook list of friends? It's not so much about getting "permission" from her husband but it's more about respecting the husband to let him know what she is doing when her activities/interactions involve exes or any man that 'may' complicate the current relationship. It's also about building trust and having a secure relationship. If adding an ex to the list may cause any conflicts with her husband, then it is...

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Who care more about themselves, younger or older people? and why, in your opinion? I would imagine younger people would care more about themselves because older people realize that there is more to life than themselves and they already know a lot about themselves so by the time they are older, they focus more on caring for other things in life.

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If your wife attacks you and you hit her are you now a woman beater because you should have restrained her? Well, this is where "equality" ends or at least it gets a little muddled. If she were a man and attacks you, your immediate reaction would be to hit him back. But because she's a woman, you should probably have either restrained her or better yet, walk away/drive away.

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Is 5'4 too short? Uh, noooo, I'm 5'3"...about. Although I tend to add 1/2" sometimes :P. Seriously, I wish I was an inch or two or three taller. I have a medicine chest with mirror in my bathroom and I can only see my forehead in it unless I stand on my tippy toes. My kids are both (many) inches taller than me so the mirror is perfect for them.

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I've been text flirting a married man every day for 5mo. Recently he stopped. I asked if we were done, he said no he just cut back. Why? Because he just wanted his ego stroked and you did that for him.

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Have you ever said things that you wish you could take back? If so, what were they and why? Not really. But I have definitely have TYPED things that I wish I could erase! Those typed words can bite you in the ass in the future (usually when you've forgotten about it), over and over and over.

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Should a parent be arrested for child abuse when they let their 7 year old reach 425lbs? Well, the way I see it, what would happen if the 7 year old was under nourished and weighed 30 - 40 lbs. or under? The child may be removed from home for negligence, maybe? Maybe the parents shouldn't be arrested but definitely educated.

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Are "reality show" participants our new role models? Seriously? You're kidding, right? Nope, it's sad but true. These untalented reality celebrities are the best we've got for our future generations of people. I have two teenagers at home and I actually have to make them shut the TV off because it is such garbage! It's sad when video games that I considered were bad are actually starting to look better, although I limit those too! I know, I'm a mean mom! :)

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Why do people lie and talk shix about you behind your back and then when you comfront them they act like nothing is wrong? Because they are insecure and instead of looking at themselves, they would rather focus their attention on someone else's "flaws". It momentarily makes them feel better especially when the response from others is favorable. Insecurity makes them not strong enough to admit that they did something wrong or hurtful to others. They started the "talk" to feel better, being confronted isn't one of...

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Does anyone have a SHARP full size camcorder? Where is local? I actually do have Sharp and Sony. I have several working camcorders.

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The "Dr. Laura" thing: Was the caller sensitive or "hypersensitive"? You know, I try to feel what black people must feel but I think to myself at least they are being accurate. Over the years, I've been called a chink, gook... and I'm Japanese. Also, I do not have other Asian's calling me a Jap so I'm having a difficult time understanding why black people think it's okay to use such an "offensive" word towards each other but not from others - I can see how it's...

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I'm a girl and with "peach fuzz" on my face! Natural or should I remove it? I would leave it alone. I'm 'almost' positive that it doesn't bother your partner as much as it's bothering you. It's another thing you'll have to maintain for a long time. At least it's blonde, and yes, it's normal. Let it be.

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A prospective partner doesn't believe in sex before marriage and I don't believe in marriage. What is the way forward? I am wondering why you don't believe in marriage and your partner doesn't believe in sex before marriage. I am also wondering if the answers are a conditioned thinking or if the answers come truly from yours and your partner's hearts and identities. I wonder because if you two love each other, what difference would a marriage make? Also, sex after marriage isn't going to be more valuable than...

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You're under arrest for _______________. Disturbing the peace?

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What is the reason for infedelity? Why not just get out of the relationship first if you aren't satisfied? The reason varies...for some, it's not as simple as leaving the relationship that they share so many things, (ex. children, house, bills, money, extented family/friends, etc.) leaving would mean work and maybe battle in court, which costs money. Also, the one that cheated WILL be labeled as the bad person in the relationship so they risk losing friendships and family members (includes their own...

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Is it hard to appreciate beauty and excellence and easier to deny its existence? It depends on your perspective of beauty and excellence. True beauty and excellence may not be acknowledged or may be taken for granted but false sense of what is beautiful/excellent is embraced.

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Christians vs. Catholics...Which faith is stronger/ most popular? I would say Christians.

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why being young like 10 or 12 sucks sometimes? It sucks sometimes throughout the lifespan, not just when you're 10- or 12-years-old.

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Are you the same person online as well as offline? I am but I tend to speak with my body gestures and facial expressions also so it is tough sometimes when online, I am trying to say one thing but have been misinterpreted. So I have to revise how I express myself online - and sometimes, it can be too much work so I don't always say what I want to online. I am much more outspoken and expressive offline.

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do u like my name dj devista ? It's a got a ring to it...yeah, I like it :).

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What is the first thing that strikes your mind when you hear "India" ? Curry, hot place, B.O.

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What are the consequences for womem who are too selfish? At first, selfish women (or men) may see a gain in superficial things. As they get older, they become bitter and miserable because with each gain comes a loss in other areas of their life. When they are miserable on a regular basis, there are many psychological and physical health issues (depression, digestive problems, headaches, etc. which lowers their immunune system and causes them to get...

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i have met an older woman she is 15 years older than me i really like her but i am not ready to settle down yet what should i do? Tell her exactly that. Maybe she's not looking to settle down either.

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Why do i have no friends? Probably a little bit of both.

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ARE Y0U RACIST Probably to a certain point. I believe we all are to an extent but most will not admit to it. Some actually will go out of their way to be overly sensitive to another race just to convince others/themselves that they are not racist.

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When all governments are corrupt what is left to determine who we do business with but mutual self interest and gain? Hmmm, I don't think you'll have to worry about who we do business with...THEY will take care of it - they are already determining where you get your cable, electricity, oil...even groceries by closing down the mom-and-pop shops so we are left with limited choices.

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Do all of the problems of the world start with parenting? I don't think it's all parenting - it's much bigger than that - I think it's more leadership.

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Any difference among these in English? 1:I don't know what to start 2:I don't know what to start with. 3:I don't know what to start from. The first sentence "I don't know what to start" sounds incomplete. The second sentence "I don't know what to start with" is a complete sentence. The third sentence "I don't know what to start from" makes no sense, it would be better if "what" was changed to "where".

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Why do people turn into psychos when you tell them truth and then you get stalked for telling them the truth? Because some people cannot handle the truth.

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Please help, am I pregnant? (info included) *Sigh* Buttercup, there isn't much else you can do but wait and see. In the meantime, I wouldn't drive yourself crazy worrying so much. I would also like to suggest you talk with your mother about sex, soon. Be honest with her and allow her to educate you about the consequences of having sex so young. I'm sure your mother will do what she has to do to protect your future.

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Has the abundance of information true and false on the internet led to the proliferation of ignorance and false experts? I believe so...and in addition, I think it also creates confusion and instability.

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Which girl is prettier and why? *pics included* I think the girl #1 is the cutest. I like her thick hair and her dark brown eyes.

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Does anyone agree that there's a certain amount of vanity in all of us no matter how we deny it consciously? I am unconsciously denying it!

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my girlfriend has a perscription for vicodin and I am being charged with manufacturing and delivery of it when I was in my home Why were the cops in your home? And what is the reason for them to search you? It seems odd that the cops would just arrive at your home and just search you for no apparent reason.

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How do you know that you are not delusional? When I stop wondering if I'm delusional.

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Have you danced recently? Yes, today :D. It does something to my mood, I like it!

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I just found out the guy I've been hanging out with/crushing on for over a year has an active dating profile. Should I continue to see him? Maybe he is unaware of your feelings for him - some guys do not pick up on subtle hints. Is he good enough of a person for you to keep as a friend or were you hoping for more and that's the only reason you've been hanging out with him? If he is great as a friend, continue the friendship and mention the dating site and find out what types of girls interests him and give him an insight about...

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Is it wrong to want more than what we have? Maybe not wrong but unrealistic sometimes.

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What to do if you're in love with your older sister's husband? You should think about your sister and your moral values and probably keep your distance from her husband for a while, at least until you understand that you're in the process of transitioning from childhood to adulthood so your emotions are in high gear and all over the place right now. Impulsiveness is going to be a challenge for you right now. There are many other guys that you can be...

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Do you check the weather forecast everyday? I have not checked the weather in years because the meteorologist was always wrong so I rely on just stepping outside. I always have an umbrella in my car along with some clothes that I could change into.

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If life is about the way people treat each other (take care of each other) why is there so much hurt in the world, where beauty is of faith? Because what life is about varies from one person to the next.

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Are you isolated from the rest of humanity ? do you live in a very remote place where strangers and travelers are rare ? I would like to be, at least for a little while but no, I am not isolated at all.

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Have you ever secretly enjoyed being sad? Not secretly - but I have always embraced all of my emotions and feeling sad is one of them. I tend to not dismiss my emotions, I do control them depending on where I am and who I am with. Sadness allows me to open up a part of my brain/thinking which I learn and grow from and I enjoy learning and growing.

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In New York City can get an image about U.S. Or U.S. is different from New York City USA is a big country. Culturally diverse and you can actually feel/see the differences when traveling through the States in a car/vehicle. I have been on road trips from eastcoast to westcoast...up north but haven't been down south yet. But even from east to west, there are so many differences from the land to people to taxes to certain laws...

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Is it usually true that true happiness can't just occur in life but has to be carefully cultivated to last. Happiness does just occur but our perception of it at any given moment allows us to recognize it or not.

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What's the best way to gain better self-control, like not thinking about revenge or stuff /people? Believe it or not, when one feels good about him/herself, one does not think of revenge or give much energy to negativity. So try eating better and most importantly, get physically active on a daily basis - even if it is to go for a walk around your neighborhood. Also to get in a better state of mind, do something each day that you really enjoy doing - something that will make you laugh or at...

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Birthday in 1 Mnth. BF terrible with surprises. How do I tell him what I want without knowing he WILL buy it for me? Make a "wish list" (customized with a small picture of the product or size, color, etc.) either online or in a small notepad. Number them in order that you want the most. Keep adding/modifying year around and let him choose what to buy you for birthdays and anyother events/holidays that calls for giving you a gift.

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Would it be better for the environment to trade in your wife every four years & keep the same car for as long as possible? OMG, your questions are making me laugh today. I think it would be better for the environment if we traded in our kids every couple of years and KEEP the wife/spouse for as long as possible ;).

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I Want To Work In A High-Class Hotel, What Jobs Are Available To Me? It depends on your experience/education level.

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What makes you a wonderful person and what is that you'd like to change about yourself? I care about other people but caring about other people hurts so much at times...so if I could, I would like to change how much the pain affects me.

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At what age should you find farts no longer funny I still find it funny :D and I'm almost 40. Although I DO get mad when someone farts under the sheets or if they fart on me (like sitting on my lap and fart). LOL.

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If someone does not talk about his or her partner to anyone, does that mean he or she does not love his or her partner? To anyone? It may mean that they like their privacy or that the relationship is new. And yes, there is the possibility that they are not too crazy about their partner.

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What movies was the song Sympathy for the Devil by the Rolling Stones used in? Fallen with Denzel Washington - Great movie!

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What movies was the song Sympathy for the Devil by the Rolling Stones used in? Interview with Vampire!!!!

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Why are people so AGGRAVATING?! Your tolerance level may be lower today or you're 'expecting' them to be pleasant.

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You are a food junky. Would you start a relationship with someone who eats and lives very healthy? Sure why not - as long as the health nut isn't going to mind my food preference. Who knows? I may learn to eat healthier and my partner may learn to not deprive himself of "junk" food, in moderation. Balance is key :).

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Are online colleges legit? Some of them are. Like anything else that you would invest your time and money into, you'll have to do your homework - not just doing a search online but also contacting them via phone or in person and asking them many questions to make sure it is the right one for you. I would start with universities near your home and seek other students that have taken online courses at the university.

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In this changing world, what is unchanging? Child development People's basic needs - food, shelter, love, etc. Your past

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Do you still put your money in the Bank? I never did put my money in the bank and I still don't. I use bank for cashing my checks. If I could cash my checks without a bank account, I wouldn't have a bank account.

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The point of life is _____ ?? I believe it is to help others (not just ones that are easy for you to help) and give as much as you can without expecting something in return - which is having a true compassion.

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Friday the thirteenth in a few days.. how do you protect yourself from the evil forces? In the past, Friday the 13th has not been an unlucky day for me so I'm either already protected or it's just another day that people like to put in a neat little category.

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my neighbor says he wants to date me and we hang out every day, and we kissed, but i dont know if want to have a boyfriend what should i do? Tell him that you'd like to go slow and that you're not sure if you're ready to "date" yet. Allow him to decide whether he should still hang out with you.

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What happened in your life after your mother died Absolutely. It indicates that you're still in the grieving process and that you may be depressed. Depressed doesn't mean you walk around like a zombie and think about suicide. It could also mean that you're going through another stage in your life that often comes with growth and that what you found interesting and exciting before may not be so currently. It means you have to rediscover...

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what was the last thing that made u to say " what the fu** " ? When I watched the show "What Would You Do" on ABC News and saw people average people on the street of NJ walk by without helping a man that fell to the ground and was "unconscious" - he was acting, of course. But still, people have a personal moral gages for other people that determines whether other people are worthy of their help or not.

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How many times a week do you eat fruit and/or drink pure fruit juice? It depends on how I feel and also on how they taste. Lately, I have noticed that fresh fruits and vegetables do not taste the way I remember them to taste. I might eat fruits maybe a couple of times a week but veggies I eat daily.

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Is there a food you eat not necessarily because you really enjoy it, but because it is healthy? No, not really. I eat whatever (and whenever) my body craves and it usually craves "healthy" foods.

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What is the most controversial topic you can think of? There are so many now. Religion, politics, views on violence and sex...parenting skills/approaches are also becoming a sensitive topic.

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how do i fix the errors of my pc for free.? I have 399 errors, plz help ... For registry errors, I use Free Windows Registry Repair.

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Ever been the "other" man or woman, and fine with it because you love them so much that you would rather be the 'other' than lose them. Yes, once, long time ago but I did not know at the time, that I was with a married man. Once I found out, he insisted that they were separated but after his wife came banging at his apartment door with FOUR little kids, I left. I cannot fully commit myself to a man under those conditions (being the other woman) because I know that what I could (and would) give him, he could only give me half...

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What causes a person to fish for compliments? A person who is unsure of where she/he fits in her/his surroundings/environment. If they are ALWAYS fishing for compliments when they have already received plenty of compliments, then they do not feel they "fit in" with either their family or themselves.

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Does this make me racist? The same outfit I might call "hot" on a white or asian chick, looks "ghetto" on black or hispanic? No. I feel the same way sometimes. There are things that look better on a certain body type.

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If a child wouldn't ride to their elementary school in a Corvette what do you think there problem is? Maybe the child doesn't enjoy the type of attention that a corvette would give.

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Dose a people store exist? Why can't you buy people? I wish there was one, I'd pick up a new sibling, maybe an aunt, a grandmother, and maybe a friend or two. There's my shopping list :).

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i have no friends i basically stay home 24/7 i only go out when i need to i want to talk to someone even if its online Do you choose to not have friends or are people not accepting of you? I do not socialize anymore either but I chose this, I think. People seem to misunderstand me and I feel like I'm wasting my time building relationships/friendships when they turn their backs on me when I need them the most. I think with all the stuff going on in the world right now, it is tougher to make a close connection...

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would you want to be young forever until you die? If I were to answer that without much thought, I would say yes. But after some thought, I would rather age gracefully.

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do u believe in fait or chance? I believe in fate. I do not believe in coincidence or chance. I believe everything happens for a reason and that the reasons are not always known to me at the time they are happening.

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why are quiet people ignored at social functions? Maybe it's not that they are ignored, maybe they just don't want to be noticed. They do have some control in creating their environment.

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Why would parents let their 12 yr/old daughter, correspond romantically on webcam and instant messenger with males age 20-45 years old? Where is your source? I don't know any parent that allows their young daughter to be romantically involved with much older men, online or offline.

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Curvy, skinny, fat, athletic.. does it really matter, or does a personality matter most? They matter to someone.

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Do people see the real you, or are you often misunderstood? In personal life, I am and have been always misunderstood, in the end.

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What type/s of plant do you have in the home? I have so many, it's like a jungle in my home. Snake plants (Sansevieria trifasciata), African Violet, Spider plants (Chlorophytum comosum), Elephant ear plants (Caladium), Pothos, Aloe vera, Lucky bamboo, King Coleus, etc.

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Why induce labor ?? Why not let nature take its course and have the baby come out when he/she is ready ?? I agree with you but sometimes there are medical risks for mom and/or baby without inducing the labor.

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Is there any free health clinics in Pa? Ones that don't ask questions? What type of questions? Like your name? Medical history? Did you try looking up Planned Parenthood? I think you'll have to answer some questions. Without more details, I don't know what to suggest.

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im 15 years old and way 200. should i let my boyfriend give me oral. wen hes skinnier then me? oh and hes 17 I would stick with exploring your body alone. Once you cross that line of involving someone else in your sexual curiosity, you may be faced with things that you are not yet ready to handle or that you may not be able to back out of. What's another few years? Seriously...wait to have sex (including oral) and learn more about your body alone.

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What is a 'Beautiful Soul'? Altruistic soul. One that can go beyond one's own pain, suffering and frustration and show others compassion, forgiveness, and unconditional love.

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What are some things you can not do without love..? Raise children. Love others and take care of things in life without getting paid - like earth, animals, etc.

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This is for the ladies, how do you feel if a guy gets "hard" when grinding you? Pleased.

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We SAY that truth is good, but makeup, plastic surgery, high heels, hair coloring, deodorant, etc... aren't these all promoting lies? Who's we? I tell people there are certain things I do not want or need to know. I will gladly take the lies, deception, illusion, whatever over truth in some situations. If I don't ask, don't tell me. Truth, in some cases, have brought me a lot of pain and confusion that changed my life, not for the better but for the worst!!

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What is better: unusual travelling such as organic farms or the most common as Disney etc?? For me, I like adventure and spontaneity so I'll take the road less traveled :D.

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Why is it important to support emotional well-being and intelligence with young children? It is important to SUPPORT their well-being and intelligence so that they grow to be a caring, compassionate, conscious, sensible beings. But there is a such thing as over doing it. Parents, especially nowadays seem to be overly protective (not really supportive) of their children's well-being or intelligence and parents lose sight of allowing children to sometimes find their own way and...

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My sister has a job but carries no form of ID other than her photo school ID. How will she be able to cash her first check? If she's under 18, she could open up a bank account with a parent or she could sign it over to someone who has a bank account and cash it at that bank- my son has cashed his checks through an ATM through his friend's bank account. He received the cash immediately.

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What happen if you don't pay your bills? Depending on what bills you're talking about, some (landlords, etc.) can take you to court and have a judgment against you (which will be on your credit report). Some can also take your tax refund or garnish your wages (student loan, IRS, etc.). Utility bills will just disconnect services and turn you over to a collection agency.

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Dont you just feel like giving up on life if you cant and keep get a job, don't you jus want to go to sleep and not wake up? Yes, many times - but then I keep waking up so I keep going, doing my best and getting through the day. There must be a reason why I am going through what I am in life, I just don't understand the reason yet, and maybe I never will but I do know that just when I thought that I couldn't carry on anymore, I do.

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Have you ever wished that you can go back with an EX ?? I've thought about this but would I seriously go through with it? No way. They are my exes for a reason and although when I think about my past relationships (especially when my current one - whether in a relationship or situation - isn't doing so well), I remember the good times shared but in reality, there were bad times that I know would come flooding back the moment I took action to go back...

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Why exactly do teenage girls like older guys so much? i like them because they are cute! It's because of the sense of security you feel around older men. They have the confidence and stability that exudes sexy. You feel like they can protect you from harm - not just physical but also psychological and emotional. Older men seem to be less selfish than younger men and more understanding of how to relate to the opposite sex. You feel safe. Also, most older men have a better control of...

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Do you want to be part of this study? Rutgers lab studies female orgasm through brain imaging It is an interesting study because female orgasm is said to be a mystery that the scientists are currently trying to understand. Would I want to be one of the sample? No but I would love to be a part of the research group.

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i wanna lose weight wat can i take besides diet pills??? You can take a class in learning about proper nutrition for your body and you can take an exercising class also. I would stay away from any pills.

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Which suits you better: "What you see is what you get" or "Still waters run deep"? I prefer still waters run deep - it's the way I see life. In my experience, it has never been what you see is what you get.

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Is drinking ice-cold water in a tropical country bad for your health? Do you do it? I would think it's a shock to the system. When I lived on a tropical island years ago, I never really drank ice-cold beverage...just cold or warm (room temperature). I used to see older people drinking hot tea and it would be like 90 degree temperature outside.

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There is someone on AB that is constantly contradicting me and pointing out my faulty logic. Why does that make him attractive to me? Because this particular individual makes you think out of your box and with that comes growth and learning more about yourself and others around you.

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When u look at a painting do u see a picture or the heart n soul that created the picture? I look at the painting and focus on what emotions/thoughts the painting arouses in me.

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Should we learn from other people's mistakes or do mistake and then learn? We should learn from other's mistakes as well as our own.

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Would you rather live in a mansion with someone you hate or live in a cardboard box with someone you love? This is a tough question because when spoken hypothetically, it is sooo much easier to choose an answer which will make you "look" like you're noble but in reality, living in a cardboard box can create a lot of issues on many levels (health - mental and physical, financial, nutritional, treatment from others, possibly alcohol/drug problem, climate, etc.) and most likely, you will be fixated on...

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I just moved in with my bf & his parents & his 16 year old sister walks around in her underwear is it just me or is that wierd If there's nothing going on (no sexual tension or sexual innuendoes), then it's just you. If there's sexual tension within the family, then it's weird.

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What would you do if your neighbor is accusing of sexually molesting her 12 year old son? And what would you do if you knew you were innocent? It depends on if the neighbor is getting the police involved or if the neighbor is just accusing you and basically talking about it, openly. If you're being charged, they would have to find physical evidence to prove that you molested the child and until then, they can't arrest you. If you're innocent, then usually (I say usually because there are innocent people in jail) nothing will happen...

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Does the first verbal warning for indecent exposure go on your record? No, not for a verbal warning.

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What makes the days easy to get through for you? Music usually.

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What should I wear tomorrow? (see description) Whatever you're comfortable in.

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I'm 16 and I realy need some help please look Put out? I'm not quite understanding your term. I thought that meant to have sex with you. Without your definition of "putting out", I cannot help.

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What should I do about a lying friend? Believe it or not, some people are unaware of them lying because they have lied so much and so frequently that lying became part of their normal conversation with others...not intended to hurt or irritate others though. There are different types of liars. What you should do with your friend is to confront your friend about your friend's lying and then point out each time she/he lies. If...

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What is the general consensus on mohawks...? Yay or nay? It's not for me but I do not care one way or the other if someone else had a mohawk. It does stand out though so be prepared to get some attention.

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What is an aura? How can it be seen or felt? Aura is an energy that surrounds people. It is intangible but a distinct quality of a person. How you feel it is by tuning into your innerself and trusting your inner voice that tells about a person - not really in words though. You just feel it. Some have a strong aura...some don't. Or maybe some have strong intuition, and others don't. ...

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do i b sweet or dont take any crap from anyone? I would be sweet but without taking any crap from anyone. It's not one or the other. Being sweet doesn't mean you just lay down and let people walk all over you. And not taking crap from anyone doesn't mean you have to be an a-hole.

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If you were blindfolded then offered $100 to kiss an unknown person -would you? Considering how broke I am right now, YES, as long as there is no medical risk.

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If I want to crossdress what do I need? First thing is first, buy yourself some type of breast form (many sold online - search breast form) and a bra to insert them in. Make sure you know your size so that they look/feel as natural as possible. Then look into some sexy, lacy underwear to make you feel feminine - because feeling like a woman is the crucial part in carrying yourself as one. Shave your legs, paint your nails, lotion...

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Ladies: Do you like to wear heels around the house when you clean or just for fun? I love heels! When I was a teenager, I used to walk around the house with heels to get used to them but now, I'm so used to them I can wear them for hours. It's all in finding the right fit as far as the comfort goes. Try not to buy anything that don't fit correctly (too small/narrow - too big/wide) and stay away from cheap ones.

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Not a regular pot smoker, but I did smoke on Tues and Wed, I got a job interview I wasnt expecting on monday, I need to get clean. Help? plz So you smoked on Tue/Wed, and five days later, you have a job interview? You should be fine. Over the weekend, try not to eat anything 'fatty' because that's where the THC is stored, and sweat a lot...do some exercises - and most importantly, drink lots of water. And then stop exercising from Sunday evening on. There are a lot of information out there on stuff like this. The only thing to...

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Why don't people on this site put what their gender is in their profile? I figured my name gave it away ;).

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And the funniest person in the world is/was?... Right now, I love Brian Regan!!! He is hilarious.

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Have you ever been caught in a sudden rain storm? Yes! And I love it when that happens.

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Should a person be judged solely on what they look like? Should they be? Not solely. Are they judged for what they look like? Absolutely. If not judged, most will at least form some type of an opinion of that person.

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today i saw my little sister (6) who was touching her best frinds dick (7) do you think i should do anything about it? Kids are naturally curious about things they've never seen. I would tell your mother and have her talk to your little sister so that your mother can teach your little sister about inappropriate behaviors. I can't really say much more without knowing everything and I don't know if there is anything more to the story but someone definitely has to have a talk with your little sister.

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why when we look for something we don't find it, but when we not look for it we will find lots of it?....?? Maybe it's life's little sign/message telling us that things will come to us naturally when it is time, that we don't always find things when we want them.

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What are some songs that spell out words? Hollaback Girl by Gwen Stefani! Although she spelled out one word in that song.

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So whats the deal with Justin bieber? Does everyone hate him? And why? I don't know him well enough since I'm older but from what I've observed in his music videos, it's probably because he comes across a bit cocky for being so young. I can't say anything about his talent as I don't know any of his songs.

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Do any of you get random nose bleeds? How do you stop them from happening? My son used to get nose bleeds randomly...quite frequently. For him it meant that the air was too dry so it worked to get a humidifier in his room and his nose bleeds stopped. But if your problem persists, I would go see a doctor just to make sure nothing serious is going on with you.

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My friend got really drunk and had sex with an older women. He regrets it and feels disgusted... how can I help him feel better ? There is nothing you can say. What's done is done. He'll get over it. At one point or another, most men (and women too) have slept with someone they really didn't want to or later regretted sleeping with.

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Is your DESTINY determined from the day of your Birth? I think it is determined before your birth.

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Have you ever gotten something and didn't want it after you got it? Yes, many, many times. And not just material things.

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If someone is your enemy and they like the same thing you do do you stop liking what they like ? LOL, no. That sounds a bit immature to me. I have had that happen to me where a person I disliked liked the same band and I was a bit surprised but it didn't change me from liking that band.

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Is it true if you start out on top you end up on the bottom? I don't think that's true for all. But if you start at the "top", you usually lose the appreciation and humbleness of being at the "bottom".

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My college roommate's girlfriend is immature and just acts very childish. It gets to the point where it's annoying. What can I say to her? I would say something to your roommate and let him handle the situation. Maybe you can suggest to him to have her over when you're not around or he can meet up with her away from your dorm/apartment. Afterall, it is your place too and your roommate should respect that. Everyone needs a place (usually home) where they can relax.

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If the advice in the Bible was applied by everyone, world peace would be achieved. No longer need for lawyers, police, soldiers? I don't believe that to be true. There was a time, long, long ago, when a group of people did apply the advice of the Bible and it did not create a world peace because people are allowed to think freely and choose to act freely. Also, the Bible was written/translated so long ago when the world was so different, what one person may perceive a verse to mean can be very different from another...

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What is your opinion on these 8-year-old girls doing the Single Ladies dance. (see video link) My opinion is that their costume is a bit on the skimpy side and some of their moves are meant to be...seductive/sexy? My mind isn't wired to see 7 year olds in a 'sexy' way so all I see are a bunch of kids with a tremendous amount of energy and a lot of time went into getting themselves ready for this act and adults that instructed them decided to see the kids as real life dolls that the...

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What do you think about people who trash personalities rather than issues? Not much really because I understand that those types of people really aren't all that happy with their own personality and that they cannot discuss an issue intelligently for whatever reason.

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My boyfriend called me the wrong surname which upset me, now a girl with that exact name is adding him on facebook should I be suspicious? Well, you're already suspicious if you're posting this here. Ask him about it and tell him that you're a bit suspicious. He's your boyfriend, practice having an open communication with him and let him know what you're feeling so he has a chance to get to know you and you get to know him.

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Would you think it unprofessional for a doctor or nurse to cry over someone's illness or death? In front of the patient or the patient's family, yes.

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Where can I buy a kilt for my sex slave Chimpanzee? Why don't you make one? It'll be that much more special :D.

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If you know before you marry that you are not going to be faithful, why do you marry and deliberately victimize someone else? I think for most, they do not intend to deliberately be unfaithful. They may know that they have a tendency to cheat and may leave out that bit of information but usually, the signs are there. Marriage shouldn't be with someone you don't know enough to where your partner is going to deliberately cheat on you. The connection should be made further than on the surface.

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Should all IRS agents be deported because they're bad at life? YES!!! Ooop, did I say that out loud ;).

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Does doing the right thing for the wrong reasons make it any less right? Well, I suppose it is more (socially) accepted to do the right thing for the wrong reason since you can hide the true intent. But in my personal opinion, I pay closer attention to the reason and doing it for the right reason is better.

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My bf just broke up with me friday.I need a little bit of advice! Just a little insight, helps somtimes.Thank I would think that he is just afraid of committing to one person and to grow up. He is 28. Maybe he feels like he's running out of time to have "fun" in life and lead a care-free lifestyle where he can come and go as he pleases. This whole soulmate thing sounds a bit scary for most guys that are used to being "single"/independent. His break up with you may not have anything to do with whether...

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I have a new phone and number. Do I give my boyfriend the number and explain why I am breaking up or just cut contact without telling him? If you've already expressed to him how unhappy you are and why, and he continued to disrespect your presence in his life, why then do you feel you 'owe' him anything? If anything, he owes YOU big time. Go cold turkey and cut the cord. He's 50 miles away and he's never come to see you so I don't imagine he will start now. Change your phone number and don't give him the new number. You're worth...

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My GF and I brk up 8 months ago.We havint seen each other.She text me last wk she wants me to kiss and hold her .Why.We are both 50 yrs old. Generally, women like physical comforts and like to be held and touched/kissed. Reasons can vary from feeling lonely, vulnerable, undesirable, insecure, or just want some type of an assurance.

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revenge on the other woman any ideas ??? Is HE worth that much time, effort, and negativity? The best thing to do is let her have the two-timing man that you are/were with. Allow yourself to grow positively and surround yourself with those that will love you and not hurt you intentionally. Walk away from all that keep you down spiritually.

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whats the best way to raise all your grades in three weeks? Ask your teacher if there are any extra credits you can earn.

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How can i even try to trust men? one hurt me in the past i want to prevent that from ever happening again? what should i do? You learn to trust by gaining experience in relating to other people and learning how to trust your own instincts by not ignoring little "signs" that show up in every relationships. You must've seen/felt the sign before the pain came along. You either chose to ignore it because you weren't sure of what you were feeling or you didn't want to 'rock the boat' with your ex OR you didn't let the...

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My friend called my other friend the Nword, how can I dissolve our friendship without causing animosity and stress? By keeping it polite but not friendly. If he/she asks why, be as honest as possible and hear him/her out. Unless it's more than this particular incident.

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What do women really want for Mother's Day? I don't know about other mothers but "I" would like a nice romantic dinner with maybe a little bit of dancing and a lot of flirting and loving.

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If you don't know what/whom to believe is it safest to believe nothing and no one? Hello Rosie :). In my opinion, people need to believe in something, however small (or big), whether it is that they will complete a task, they'll raise their children to be healthy, their values, God/faith, themselves, or whatever. Without it, their true spirits (liveliness, etc.) appear dead. Even in times of not being able to trust something or someone, I believe it is better to believe in...

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Everything is replaceable; would you agree? No, I do not agree. Most tangible/material things ARE replaceable but things like photographs, etc. are not replaceable. Memories, incidents, experiences, etc. are unreplaceable.

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What would be a good title for a reality TV show that follows your day to day life? Spontaneous Harmony

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What is the key to a man's heart? Great home-made food/meal. I know it sounds old fashioned but it is true!

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I want to go into a small business, what business can i go into ? It really depends on what you like to do but I would suggest a service oriented business. People like to pay for services (cleaning, cooking, painting, driving, yard work or landscaping, photography, etc.). Selling products is a bit difficult when people are trying to spend less, unless you're selling something that people need at the cheapest price in your area.

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Ive been with a girl for a year i love her she says she loves me, but she wont formally date me and still talks to her ex what can i do? You can stick around and hope that she'll break it off completely with her ex or you can let her go and tell her that when she is sure of who she wants to be with, give you a call, if you're still available and do just that.

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How can I block one or many organization from viewing my website.Any tool or software can do that? I don't believe so. The only way is to go anonymous and not make it searchable. If pictures are involved in your website, you're better off making your website viewable only if they sign up and approved by the administrator so you can screen them.

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What is a good antidepressant?! In my opinion and in observing many of my friends and family, none.

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What is the usual course for treating depression? Depending on your doctor, the usual treatment is medication and psychotherapy. But sometimes, it can take a long time to find out what works for you so the doctor usually wants to see you again in a couple of weeks (or a few weeks) to monitor the treatment, especially if you opted to take meds. If you're considering helping yourself (without seeing a doctor), the usual treatment should be to...

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how is the best way to stop cutting myself im scaring the hell out of my friends The best way is to get a professional help to sort through why you feel the need to cut yourself.

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Have you lived through more hurricanes or tornadoes? Typhoon! Several times when I lived in Japan.

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Have you ever brought in a food or beverage item, from one restaurant, into another? Once, years ago, when I went bar hopping. And these bars were right next to each other so I used to take my drinks into other bars. ** Edited to add** Oop, sorry, you said restaurant.

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does the possition in which you sleep effect your mood and personality? My moods, maybe...but not my personality.

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Are you an outdoor type of person? Yes but it doesn't mean I like bugs or know what to do when a bear comes along or that I can survive in the woods for weeks, alone.

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Consider the following scenario, if you will, and its implications. How might they affect our/your actions? Awww, that's cute. I would've laughed and taken more than one out of the fruit bowl since I don't like chocolate chip cookies. That's fair, no?

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Is there a leather couch in your home? No I do not like leather couch with 2 cats and 2 kids.

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How have your best friends changed your life? In many ways... I suppose one of the most important ways that they have changed my life is that they accept me for who I am, which allowed me to accept myself completely for who I am - even all my flaws.

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Would you prefer being proposed to on Christmas, Valentine's Day, an anniversary, your birthday, or some other day? Is there any way you would NOT like your s/o to propose to you? I would want my SO to propose to me when he felt the time is right. I wouldn't care if it was on a holiday or any other day.

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What do you do after you do #2 and discover that there's no tissue? Look in the garbage can. That's happened to me once, years ago, and since then, I've made a habit to look if there's toilet paper before I even sit down.

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Why do people look around the eyes when they talk not in the eyes? personally i always look ppl in the eyes. how does it make you feel when i do this? Sometimes, it's a cultural thing. I was born in Japan and I knew since I was very young that it was a sign of disrespect if an authority-figure spoke to me and I made a direct eye contact. We just looked down. In America, it can mean that you're not trust-worthy or truthful when you avoid eye-contact. I'm somewhere in between. I make eye contact but not stare. If someone I was...

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How do you recognize people with a positive attitude? For me personally, I can feel their aura - only in person (face to face - not online). I pretty much know when someone's trying to be positive but don't feel it, just faking it and I can also feel it when someone's just had a bad day/week but generally is a positive person.

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How do I get free food? Food Stamps, Catholic Charities, Soup Kitchen, or show up at your friends'/family's homes around dinner time.

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Whatis the difference between empathy and sympathy? From my understanding, empathy is when you haven't really experienced the other people's situations but you can try to understand their feelings. Sympathy is when you share their feelings from your own experiences and have a better understanding of what the others are feeling - like you've been there.

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What does it mean when the voices in my head tell me to burn and kill? It means you need to speak with a professional and be properly diagnosed. OR maybe you need to stop tripping.

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Do you think the world would be a better/peaceful place if all turn vegetarian? No I do not. I believe everything (natural) on this earth is for all of us to use/consume to survive and what we eat goes back into the earth and everything gets recycled. There are certain things found in meats (as well as veggies) that we need to have for our bodies to function properly.

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Can you hear other people's thoughts? Nope...but I can sometimes feel their thoughts.

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Did you mean your last words? Yes. I usually do not say something I don't mean, at least at the time that I am saying them :).

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Would you relocate to another that's completely different from the one you live in now just so you be with the person you love? An example being moving from NYC to Omaha, NE. If yes or no Why? I've moved around so much when I was growing up, it's not a problem for me to move and live in another city/town...even another country. I actually feel more comfortable doing so (rather than staying put in the same environment) than most people I know.

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Have you ever been given a prescription you didn't get filled because you couldn't afford it? Rarely (I don't like taking pills) but like Icy, I've called my doctor back to write me an affordable prescription.

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I need your help FAST!!!! My sorry excuse for a s/o is going out with his SINGLE friends 2 nite instead of being with ME!!! A co-worker of mine (who I have an innocent crush on!)is single and out drinking by himself. Should I invite myself to join him? My answer would be absolutely not - and the reason isn't because you should treat your SO respectfully but you should respect yourself enough to break it off with your SO if you're even toying with the idea of playing the field. You can't play with fire and not get burned. If your SO isn't treating you the way you feel you should be treated, then end it. Why would you...

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Can you give me an example of a miracle? My examples of miracles that I've experienced are: my children growing up to be healthy, sound people with lots of love within. My mother showing me unconditional love when she grew up alone, without love shown to her, in an orphanage, abandoned by her mother at a very young age. Nature.

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Does getting along with everyone mean never disagreeing with anyone? Not in my opinion. I think respecting others' views is getting along.

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Can you say with 100% certainty that there are no nude pictures of you on the internet? Yes I can.

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What are 3 things you must not do on your wedding night? Sleep with someone else. Decide to share some secrets that may affect the relationship. Get into a fight with wedding guests/parties or your new spouse.

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What's something that is noisy in your home? One of my cats. He is VERY vocal....he has a lot to say to the world! :D

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Have your fears ever got in the way of you doing something you really wanted/needed to do? No...not that I can think of but my fears have made me sick to my stomach for doing things that I (or someone/something else) usually have to force myself to do.

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Is heavy "petting" considered cheating, when its not with your S/O? What is considered cheating varies from a couple to a couple so if your S.O. regards "petting" as cheating, then it is cheating since you're in a relationship with your S.O.

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I want a down to earth, non-party, beautiful, intelligent, innocent, fun to be around, Christian girl. You think she exists? *Nodding with my hand on my chin* Yeeee - ahhhh....I think so....maybe? I don't know any...

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What is your opinion of a hoe? I don't really have an opinion of them...usually, there's a hidden reason for why they are the way they are.

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Am I a selfish husband if, I have E.D. and refuse to see a Urologist? I prefer to be au natural and don't like pills, so am I being selfish if I expect my wife to cool her jets from here on out? No, you're not being selfish for not wanting to take pills but you're not thinking of your wife if you're not trying to correct the problem some other way.

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What's the best thing about being you? Withstand tremendous amount of rejection/abandonment - which has made me stronger but man...some days, I feel sooo weak and drained.

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When is the last time you were downrated on AB? Today. I don't usually get DR'ed often but when I do, I never get a response/comment from the person who gave it.

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Do you believe that you have an angel beside you now? Yes...probably several of them - now and always :D.

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Do you feel depressed or sad around the holidays; and if so, how do you handle it? Every year for the past several years. Last year, I actually didn't even put up a tree. I handle it the best way I know how...for now and that's just removing myself from all/any stressful situations...like shopping or getting together with my family. As long as my kids are happy, I just have to deal with my "moods" until I find a better way to deal. Thank God my kids are...

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Do you like your bank? No I do not. In fact, I do not like any banks.

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If i said i was once a biker chick what does that make you think about? I think of the women in the movie "Mask" with Cher.

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How can i get a shy guy to come onto me without coming right out and asking? Flirt with his mind...

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Facebook users: Do you use the Facebook chat much? Not usually but I do have some people talk to me in chat occasionally. I mostly use Facebook to play games and to keep up with my sister's life...as well as my kids :).

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What is the first thing guys notice about a girl? I think it would depend on what is most noticeable on a female :).

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Spouse doesn't fill my needs (not sexual). How do I decide whether its worth to stay or time to go? It would depend on whether your partner is willing to learn what satisfies you. If your partner is trying to do his/her best, I don't think you should give up on the relationship. Relationships are not built on sexual fulfillments alone. There are many other aspects to having a successful relationship. Good luck.

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I was in serious relationship with someone. How can go from that to being his friend? I don't want to get caught up in emotion again. I would say a little distance for as long as it takes for both of you to be on the same page about each other.

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What is your interpretation/feelings about what Kate Moss said in a recent interview, "Nothing tastes as good as skinny feels." She's getting blasted for supposedly encouraging eating disorders. Poor Kate. She clearly has misplaced values and beliefs and she has put such importance on insignificant things in life. Her self-worth is pretty low. She has a distorted view on what is happiness and/or beauty.

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Where Do You Put Your Hands When You Kiss? Face? Back? Your Pockets? Definitely on the other person.

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Girls, how much sex a week is good for you or to be satisfied with. Generally, I would prefer it at least daily but I will settle with a few times a week. Any less than that, I get a bit moody. So yeah...I've been moody for years!

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What do you like to hide in your socks? I don't wear socks often enough to hide anything but I remember when I was younger, I used to keep my money in there.

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Is it rude to tell your co-worker that s/he looks tired today? I think so...unless that co-worker is also your friend that you talk with outside of work.

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Why do we still love someone knowing they dont love us back..Why do we torture ourselves? Maybe because that type of torture is familiar and oddly comforting??? Sometimes, if we had (for example) parents that were cold or unloving...we could unintentionally seek out partners that are unemotional or unloving.

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Is it worth studying 4 years in high school, than 4 in university, just so we can get a job at an office. Well, attending/completing school/university doesn't only show what you studied, it also shows that you can stick with something and finish it. That you have motivation and that you are disciplined...enough. Just because you have a college degree doesn't mean you have to work in an office but when you don't have a degree, your choices are limited and you end up working very hard...

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Who Do You Talk To When You're Sad? Your Mom? Best Friend? Dog? I talk to my heart, my mind, and my soul. I try to look at certain situations by taking me out of the situation and imagining it happening to my friend or family and see what I would say about how they should handle it. I really do not have anyone to share any bad situations with since my mother died 10 years ago.

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Why do you think we need to study history? Because to understand what's going on currently, you need to understand the past. There's a saying: history repeats itself and it's quite true. Most of the things going on around you went on in the past.

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When you applied for a credit card, have you ever been refused? You know, I have NEVER applied for a credit card.

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Why you are answering questions or making questions here in answer bag? For me, I find it difficult to ask questions in real life without people wondering "why" I'm asking and all of a sudden, they think I'm up to something or there's more to it...when in truth, I'm just simply curious. I am very interested in how people think (and why they behave the way they do). Online, people appear to be much more forthcoming and honest. I answer...

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Do you feel that pedophiles can be rehabilitated? Honestly? Honestly? No!!!

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I am a stay at home mom, I never get breaks no family or friends ever have my children. I am with them every single hour of the day. I feel like crying, overwhelmed, and tightness in my chest alot of the time. Is there something wrong with me? Hire a sitter even if it's only for a couple of hours a week. Seriously, you're stressed and you need time to yourself. Being a mom IS the toughest full time (with mandatory over time) job that is un-appreciated. You could even start a babysitting group and find other stay-at-home mothers in your area that may be in a similar situation as yourself. One mother could take some of the...

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What is the one antiquated slang term you still use today? (ex "Not!", "Gag me with a spoon" etc.) I use "awesome", "chillin", "wicked", "cool", "sick".

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Do some energy drinks contain too much caffeine? Judging by the way some of my teenage son's friends throw up and get jittery, yes.

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Poll: For you personally: Is wieght ( fat, skinny...) a factor in determining friendships? Disclaimer: We are look for factual answers only, not emotional. A yes, no, or maybe alone would help us in tallying the results. Thankyou! No, and never has been - ask my friends :).

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Have u ever been so drunk or so high that u don't remember nothing the next day? Very rarely do I have a night like that and it's been a long time since I've had a night like that - I was probably a teenager (maybe in my early twenties) the last time.

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Do you ever buy "lighten up I was just joking" from someone who has offended you or does that just upset you more? I usually respond with, "Well, I'm not laughing!" A joke is supposed to make people laugh.

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Why dont i "get off" when i have sex? Well, it could be a number of things. It may be health related, medication that you're taking, it may be your age, stress, poor circulation, it can also be caused by drinking alcohol too much.

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Have you ever had a stalker? Yes, my ex-boyfriend was.

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With your last cup of coffee, did you use a flavored creamer? Yes (French Vanilla), and I always will with every cup. I can't stand the taste of coffee.

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Are you getting a flu shot this year? If not, why? No and I don't plan to. I have never had the flu shot either.

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Why do we always seem to remember mostly the bad memories rather than the good ones from our childhood? Hmmm, I remember the worst times as well as the best times of my childhood.

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Will any of you add me as a friend? :) Is that what you want?

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The last time you used an egg, what did you use it for? Chicken cutlets - to bread and flour them.

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Do you enjoy tormenting people just for fun? In a very mild form, yes. :D

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How does solitude influence our mind? Can it further our inner growth? What is true solitude? Some solitude helps build the inner trust. When you have no one to turn to and no one that understands, you have no choice but to turn to yourself and understand yourself. When you're unsure of your decisions, how confusing it can be when you turn to more than one person and they each tell you something different. You are most likely to either go with a popular opinion or whatever answer...

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When you are driving and someone flips you off do you LAUGH, or get really ticked off? It depends on my mood. I've flipped a few drivers off and I've been flipped off - not really a huge deal to me.

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THERES THIS GIRL I NO AND SHE NEEDS ADVICE,SHE IS 16 TURNING 17 REAL SOON SHE IS IN A HOUSE WHERE SHE FEELS REALLY UNCOMFORTABLE SHE GETS HIT AND CALLED NAMES!SHE HATES IT THERE! PLUS SHES PREGANT WHAT SHOULD SHE DO? (2009-10-21) Find out what she wants to do. If she would like to get out of that unhealthy environment, then seek help in your area. You can start by calling Social Services or Planned Parenthood. If she wants to remain in that household, maybe you could look up some counselors or therapists in your area that she could talk with.

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If you were asked to redesign AB, what's the first thing you would change? I would like a way to PM the ABers or chatrooms for each categories. It would also be nice to be able to add details to your questions. Sometimes, other ABers do get annoyed because you ask a question that doesn't make sense to THEM.

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How often do you do things for those less fortunate than you? Or do you walk on by them? On a regular basis...maybe weekly?...bi-weekly? I help friends and family all the time and strangers when I can.

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Do you believe in the saying "Once a cheater, always a cheater"? Yes. I don't stay with cheaters to find out otherwise. The way I see it, there are plenty of fish in the sea and I don't give my heart out easily so don't crush it.

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Q:LADIES ONLY:what's best way to lose a guy who proposed marriage after dating for a month? The best way would be to be honest and tell him that you're not ready to make that kind of commitment yet and you don't want to hold him back from attaining his goal. Staying together would only make him feel frustrated and make you feel pressured.

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I was injuried at work. It was reported over a month and few days ago. I still dont have an answer if this is approved or not. How long does the insurance company have to approve or decline this claim? I am tired of waiting. It could take a long time...months. So many people are getting hurt at work now. It's taking a friend of mine about 13 months and he has an attorney working on his case.

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My wife and i decided to divorce on friendly terms,she has not been a good mother to our 2 year old son,my mom and dad have him most of the time,will i still have to pay her support if i and my parents have him 98 percent of the time? I would speak with an attorney that specializes in Family Court. I think it would depend on custody and who the child resides with - who's address is on the school/health records, etc. The court will not care about where the child is "most" of the time.

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Why do humans choose to deny the despair right in front of them rather than face it? That's how they were raised - either by examples or someone was always there to shield them from the discomfort of life - constant bail out. They're just not equipped to handle issues.

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Should you ask someone if "they are seeing someone" before you ask them out? Or do you just ask them out if you are interested? What are the rules of "Asking someone out..on a date"? I always ask if they are involved and I've been asked if I was in a relationship. The question implies you're interested and you can tell by the way they answer if they are interested in you before you actually ask them out.

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What was it like getting your first bra Indifferent.

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How many types of bread are in your house right now? 3. Whole wheat, white, french.

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Is it normal to still cry and think about someone all the time, that your very closed to, if they passed away a couple months ago? My mother passed away 10 years ago. We were very close, in fact, she was the only "blood" relative (until my kids came along) I had in this country (USA). I don't cry as much as I used to but I still cry and hurt, at least monthly, if not more. Keep her in your thoughts as often as she enters your thoughts. Don't let her memory die by pushing thoughts of her out of your mind...

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You own a business. a man or woman applies for a job. everything looks good, except five years of persons past life. he/she tells you they were in prison. in your mind, would this automatically disqualify this person? John, just because someone's been in prison, it doesn't always mean he is dangerous, nor does a person that's never been to prison mean he is safe. The way the law is currently, we could all be criminals. It would have to depend on why he was in prison and what position you are hiring him for. I don't think I'd hire an ex drug dealer if my business is in pharmaceutical...

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If you are engaged...would you let your other half go to the club wih a girlfriend of hers? Do you think its right of her to go without you? If I'm engaged to a person, I would trust him enough to go anywhere without me and behave as if I were actually there. If he wouldn't say or do something in front of me, he shouldn't when I'm not with him.

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Why don't people in abusive relationships just leave? There's always two (or more) sides to every story and everyone's standards (or comfort level) are different.

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When should kids start school? I think 5 is a good age.

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What do you call a bedroom with no bed in it? A spare room.

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I've just removed someone from my Friends list for the first time. Has anyone else felt they had to do this? No, not yet.

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When will the first flake of snow fall in your area? (2009) Today. I woke up to snow on my lawn.

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Would you consider adopting a child? I would consider it.

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Do you keep cash hidden beneath your mattress? No. I would imagine that is the first or second place people would look if they were looking for something in my bedroom.

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Botox? or do I age gracefully? I would say age gracefully.

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What is the perfect age and why? For me, I think the perfect age was/is in my 30s, so far. I look great and feel very confident. I feel more secure in my own skin and my thinking/decision making is a lot more sound. It's not to say I don't make mistakes but I handle them better. I'm not too young but I'm not too old.

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Anyone feel like talking to someone who is a little belligerent tonight? I am a little late in answering, Astaris, but if you ever want to talk...give me a shout :) and it'll have to be a really loud shout since I'm about 3,000 miles away from ya.

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My Fiance and I are buying our first home. Any moving advice? Look at the foundation (basement) of the home and be aware of any/all problems or future problems with the house (roofing, heating/cooling system, plumbing, water tanks, electrical, etc.) and how much it would cost you to fix or upgrade. It's also good to know about how much it would cost to run your home on a daily/regular basis. On a personal note, you might want to take a walk/ride...

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Would you be upest if you saw someone white wearing a t-shirt that said "Proud to be white"? What if it was a black person wearing a shirt saying "Proud to be black"? Would I be upset? Most likely not because it's not hurting anyone.

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Do you like my poem? (written in an answer) Very nice, Jake. I really like: "they live with a sickness, that hides in the heart, in the land of the hopeless, you end when you start, " :)

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Do any guys who have no car or license have girlfriends? If so; how did you get one and how do you keep them with no car or license? Thank you All:) It helps if you live in town or city.

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I really enjoy trick photography, but I don't know how to do it, at all. Will someone please explain to me how this bit of trick photography was accomplished? I think it was excellently done. [Click the link below this question.] It was done using photoshop (or similar type of photo editing program). Two photos (a boy and a deflated ball) are merged together after resizing, changing the color of the ball to mirror the skin tone, etc. There are so many neat features in photoshop that you could do anything with an image or two. Pretty cool :D.

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What song would you like to dedicate to your child or children ? (video uploads most welcome.) Always Be My Baby - Mariah Carey (embedding the video was disabled at You Tube) for my son since he just turned 18 and he is becoming his own person and he doesn't need me anymore :(. My Heart Will Go On - Celine Dion for my daughter since that was her favorite song when she was about 3 years old and it just reminds me of her whenever I hear it :).

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My son drinks milk in the morning. He needs to go to restroom. Teacher told him "Why you need to go to restroom so often? Are you sick? Do you want to see a doc?" I am shock! Is the teacher's attitude right? When is the basic human need becomes issue? I know my daughter gets in trouble every time she asks to use the bathroom because the way teacher explained it to her is that she should go in between classes or during lunch. I am not very happy with the public school system and I have a list of complaints (that I've voiced many times) but my daughter is almost out of High School so I (and my daughter) have to deal with some things. ...

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Favorite 70's sitcom? Soap Three's Company

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What's the best way to handle a backseat driver? Blindfold him, duct tape his mouth, and tie his hands behind his back and tie his feet. Unless you want to torture him then leave out the blindfold and make sure you drive worse.

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Our cousin committed suicide last year. He would be 20 this month. How the hell do you see the positive in that? Maybe you could turn it into something positive by starting a support group for those thinking about suicide and dedicate the group to your cousin. Maybe you could help keep his memory alive by talking about your cousin to many people and share what he meant to you and others and what he stood for. *Hugs*

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My childs father has custody of our 1 year old and also was appointed supervisor for my visitations. He has an arrest and drug history and still uses weed. He makes my visits with my child miserable. Is there anything I can do to change this? I would speak with an attorney who specializes in Family Court. Make sure you understand what would happen to the child if the child's father's drug use is brought up in court. Unless the father (or anyone else he may be involved with) is neglecting and/or abusing the child, you really want to think about (and avoid) the possibility of your child being placed in a foster home. Discuss...

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I just won a small amount of money, I really want an "away weekend" with my hubby, It's been so long since we have had a break, (3 yrs) but I know I should get tires for my truck, since it is not enough for tires should I save it? Or have a weekend away? Hmmm, now that I have learned that you have kids, dogs and parents next door, I think you should take the weekend away. It was an unexpected money and it looks like you've been taking care of needed things in the past but putting off a little time to yourself with your husband, which, btw, is also a needed thing. I'm sure you'll somehow come up with the money for the tires...

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Can someone tell me who this was? It should be simple to figure out considering the level but the old brain's not functioning this early. Was it Chief Wanbli?

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How do you end a boring conversation with your s/o? Well, I'm pretty blunt and honest and very goofy. So I'm more likely to just say, "yeah-yeah, not interested, booooriiing! OMG, look at the time, it's quarter after boredom."

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What is one of your flaws? I think too much.

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Do you handle rejection well? Maybe not well but I do handle it and I don't avoid situations to get around it.

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If you were in a public place and suddenly a stranger women turned around and slapped you .What would you do? I would instinctively punch her.

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What is your favorite song by The Mama's and Papa's? California Dreaming - that was the last song my mother and I sang together, looking at the sunset, from her balcony when she was dying from cancer.

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It's freezing cold in my bedroom at the moment, there is no heater that I can use, and getting into bed doesn't do anything to warm me up. Do you have any ideas? Drink something warm. Take a hot shower. Move around. Put more clothes on. Hold/hug someone.

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Do you embrace hostile people or ignore them? Hostile people do not bother me. I grew up with my dad constantly making a scene and yelling at people. When he was pissed, the whole world knew it. So no, I do not ignore them - no more than if they weren't hostile.

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Four second quiz. What does your birthdate say about what type of person you are? (link included). * My comments in brackets <> * You Are a Troublemaker <LOL, am I? *evil grin*> You have the type of personality that people either love or hate. <Hmmm, now that's interesting> You're opinionated, dramatic, intense, and very outspoken. <I AM a bit opinionated, not too dramatic, most definitely intense oh so outspoken> And some people can't get...

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An special Occasions happening this month, that you know of? My mother's birthday and also her (death) anniversary. :( It's a horrible, unproductive month for me.

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Would you sleep out for a night in winter to raise awareness of homelessness? For just one night? No, you wouldn't get the full affect without at least being out on the streets for about a month with no family/friends, no money, no car, no food, no job, no nothing. And then really see how people treat you and accuse you of being on drugs/alcohol and refuse help...maybe even get you arrested for simply begging. You have your last $2 and struggle with buying a...

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What do pregnant women like the most? Sex! Seriously...maybe it was just me but when I was pregnant (both times), my sexual desire sky rocketed! I mean every waking moment, I was turned on.

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Why do so many people around here seem to think I should care if they don't like my answers? Not sure because I usually do not focus on things like this. Maybe it's just a reflection of themselves. They care so you must care.

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Today, Oct. 1, 2009 is National Vegeterian Day. how are you going to celebrate? It is not applicable to me since I am not vegetarian.

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Do you put anything on top of your toilet water tank? An interesting-looking basket full of potpourri.

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As an Answerbag user just one year old, I am confused. Why am I spending so much time on this site? Looking for answerable questions takes half the time. Feedbacks takes the rest. Then WHY am I still on the site? Please share WHY you are on this site? The reason I am on this site is because it improves how I express myself and articulate my thoughts. It is interesting, also, to read how others see life in general.

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If you were going to rate the year 2009 so far on a scale of 1-10 with 10 being fantastic how good has the year 2009 been so far? -2. It's been a horrible year for me.

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Is our food out to get us, I mean we have mad COW disease, SWINE flu and BIRD flu, which of course is beef, pig and chicken, so is it out to get us? Hmmm, it IS us that raise these animals and dispose synthetic substances into earth. Something that is/was simple as water is questionable.

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How to cure being too wrapped up in what others think? Like not being able to stop it? The only way you could stop it is when you're sure of and accept who you are and trust your own judgment.

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How much cash do you have on you right now? Plastic money, dont answer. $360.00

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Do you keep cash hidden in your home? Where? Yes. NOYB :).

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What is your opinion of this kitchen ? (thank you) As long as I have someone helping me clean it a few times a week, I would love it :).

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In your opinion, How common is your first name? (not your AB username) Not TOO common. I've only met one other person with the same spelling in my lifetime and less than five with different spelling.

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Where are all the good girls of answerbag? Are you one? If so, pop by and say so. Stand up and be counted ladies! Good? As in 'good' at what I do? Or morally good? :)

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Do you prefer candy corn with the white or the chocolate bottoms? Neither. I don't like candy corn. Do you have any cookies? :D

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Anyone cleared their profile because of nasty ABers? No, it would take a lot to annoy me to that point. I rarely remove my account/clear profile...if ever...on AB or any other sites.

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What do you have that is a piece of junk but you can't just bear to part with? (Mine is a deflated balloon that says "Good Luck") The mirror that I use everyday to put my makeup on. Some pieces of jewelry that hold memories.

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Woman have you ever use the excuse i have a boyfriend when your just not interested? Nope. I'd rather be honest.

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What's one thing you think that "real men" might do in their spare time? Rip their toe nails out and cry????

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what was the first time u got drunk? I was 15.

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Let me know how can i make my website popular I would complete your website first and focus on displaying samples of what you are offering. People generally do not want to read too much, initially - they want to 'see' what you can do. Your homepage is very important. That's where people will decide whether they want to explore the rest of your site or leave. Make sure you check out your site from many different computers and...

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How many people actually know the real you not just what you show on the surface but the real person underneath? Just one.

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Is what you have enough for you? No, not yet.

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Are you where you belong? Although I may not realize it or see it right now, I do believe I am right where I belong.

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What are the key ingredients to a healthy relationship? Open, honest communication, compassion, respect.

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What was your favorite first? The first time I saw the snow in Colorado Springs, Colorado in 1981 or 1982.

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Why do good people suffer in this world? Either to learn something or to teach something.

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What do you see in music? Whatever I choose to 'see'.

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Do women ever slip date-rape drugs on men? There is no need to! Men are willing participants ;).

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Do you like to drink beer out of the can or the bottle or poured into a glass? Bottle please! :)

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What's one thing YOU find especially unattractive in a woman? Too much swearing.

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Do you think it should be illegal to use anorexic models in advertising? Check the image in the link before you answer. I've known enough anorexic/bulimic women in my life and their rituals to stay thin are so sad and seemingly helpless. The behavior is that of an addict. I don't know why any advertising company would use very thin models - unless they are trying to make us all desensitized to super thin and unhealthy women so that it gives young average girls a free pass to stay/get thin at all cost...

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Your new boyfriend is driving and you hear a siren behind you and see flashing lights. He hands you a baggie and says QUICK, Hide this! What do you do? Gee, I'm not certain. I might toss it out the window if I couldn't find a place in the car to hide it. I wouldn't keep it on me. There is no way I'm going down for him.

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Have you ever been so scared that you cant even move? Yes once when I was about 9 years old. I couldn't even scream.

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Have yo ever attempted suicide-I have so don't feel ashamed- Did you come close ? Why and how -looking back did ya wanna actually die-or maybe take a raincheck from good ol life for awhile--if anyone want to dicuss this further, please email me-ok? I have thought about it a few times and it felt so free, so right at the time. I felt like I finally found the solution to my problem(s). I never went further than thinking about it. I've stared at the bottle of pills and cried, I've driven fast and thought of turning the wheels quickly and into a river but I pulled over instead and had myself a good cry.

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I hate my X and want to see him suffer....what do you think I can do to get him back? If you hate him so much, why would you spend even a moment of your time thinking about him, even if it is negatively?

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When you last ate honey, what was it in or on? Hot tea.

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What should you do when you have hella girls wanting you but you have a girlfriend afraid you are going to cheat on her? I don't know how solid your relationship is with your girlfriend but usually, women aren't going to feel threatened by other women wanting her man as long as the man sincerely isn't interested in other women. If you are enjoying the attention from other women or if you're afraid to be a little cold towards other women and letting them know 'clearly' that...

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When you gave birth, who did you have in the delivery room with you? What do you think of having more than the father present? I had the father of both of my kids in the delivery room. I would've loved to have my mom in there. It's totally up to you who you want in the delivery room.

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Do you take part gladly in ethnic teasing? Why?* Yes! I am Asian and I've been teased plenty of times about my race and I also "pick" on others about theirs. With me, it's all in the intention...if you're trying to "hurt" me or if you're calling me names (I'm not a big fan of labels), then it's not funny. If you're just teasing me, then I can take a joke and I can laugh at myself as long...

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Ladies, when you wear a thong doesn't it get "dirty" from crawling up your butt? LMAO - it doesn't 'crawl up' your ass! LOL that's sooo gross. I don't have a problem with my thong getting "dirty" since I wipe EVERY TIME and shower regularly! :)

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Tell me your favourite line of your favourite song? Voices heard in fields of green Their joy, their calm, and luxury Are lost within the wanderings of my mind I'm cutting branches from the trees Shaped by years of memories To exorcise their ghosts from inside of me ----------------------------------------- I’ll go walking in circles While doubting the very ground beneath me Trying to show unquestioning faith in...

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Do you say grace before you eat? About a couple of times a year.

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One place you need to travel to before you die? Japan! That's where my brother is and we were separated and never saw each other since I was about a year old. I guess he's about a year older than me.

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Name something pink that is around u *Looking around* actually, I see nothing that is pink.

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Are/were you Daddy's Little Girl? No, my sister was/is.

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Do you like to fly? Yes, I do.

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What salad dressing do you prefer? Sometimes ranch, sometimes Italian, sometimes blue cheese, and sometimes Asian (with a hint of ginger).

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When you go to a Chinese restaurant, do you use chopsticks? Yes :).

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How common is texting while driving? Too common for my comfort. I've seen so many inconsiderate and dangerous drivers...and I look over and their texting!! And they look at me like "I'M" the jerk.

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I`m taking you to a restaurant,where do you want to go to eat,chinese or indian? I like both...but tonight, I'd rather go with Chinese.

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Are you capable of dealing with whatever comes your way, with no dependence on others for assistance, financial or otherwise? I have learned to be, and it's been a tough lesson.

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Would you go skinny dipping and maybe more with a s/o in this body of water ? (for the record i would) Absolutely :D.

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Why do dogs drag their butts across the rug? LOL, it's a funny sight. I once saw my friend's BIIIG dog going from one end of the house to the other on its butt...just scooting across. I was sooo fascinated. I guess like others said, they have an itch to scratch...LOL.

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What are some things you can do without spending any money? Go for a walk, have a party and tell everyone else what to bring, camp in your yard, paint/draw, pick flowers from your yard or someone else's yard, cook a meal with what you already have and set up a table (with table cloth) outside and play some soft music and light some candles...

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What is your favorite one-hit wonder? Dexy's Midnight Runners - Come On Eileen

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What is your favorite one-hit wonder? 99 Red Balloons - Nena

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What is the most annoying thing about cat ownership? I would say scratching of my furniture or clawing at my plants.

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Do you have friends you think of while listening to this song ? (quick and easy yes or no :P ) No. Not a friend but a family member.

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Candle light dinner or picnic at the beach? I'll take the candle light dinner :).

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How many s/o's have you lived with? Three.

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Do you like to cheer people up? Yes, but I seem to be more affective in person :D.

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Is your car and extension of you? No...but my purse is :).

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Today was a good day for me. Was it a good day for you? It started off great! But then it slowly went down hill. I'm trying to climb back up though :).

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What if you don't have the money for counseling? Where do you go for help? Well, I was in that situation and I tried talking to my friends and family. I got burnt...I felt shittier than before. And then I got health insurance and found several counselors (not at the same time) and was discouraged by them because they didn't really understand me (their 'help' seemed scripted) and all of them wanted to put me on meds. The only thing for me left to do was...

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Can one fall in love with a person after they die? I suppose you could fall in love with someone's soul/spirit or even an idea of someone. How else would you explain someone that truly loves God or Jesus.

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My sister called this morning, to tell me that she stopped by mom's to check on her, but she found her lying in bed dead. Will you please help me find the strength to get my family through this? (((((Jen-Jen))))) There are no words that will take away the pain and sorrow. You 'will' find the strength within.

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What would your last boss say about you? Probably a lot of inappropriate things...he chased me around my desk and flirted with me horribly. He was nuts. He was having a blast while I was going through hell!

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Do you always compare your lovers to your first love? No, I never compare. I don't think it's fair to compare.

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How is your mood today? Are you in a good mood or a bad mood today? Head cold :(

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What's one thing that is 'a piece of cake' for YOU to do? Befriend a teenager/kids.

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What is your secret to staying thin? No secret...it's in my genes.

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What candy will you give out for Halloween 2009? The usual...various chocolate bars.

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What is a stereotype about gay men that is mostly untrue? That they all like to go shopping or great at decorating or better at fixing hair or that they want to 'be' a woman.

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What was the last can of food you opened? Chicken noodle soup :(.

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When did you get married? I have never been married.

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Are animals a part of your family? Not when I'm filing taxes!

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Religious people: If human level artificial intelligence were to exist, where exactly do they go when they "die"? I'm not "religious" but it would depend on how they are disposed. I would imagine they'd be disposed into the earth just like everything else...which isn't very friendly to the earth.

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What would happen if I mixed in an egg while boiling ramen noodles? The egg will cook. We put eggs (and veggies, meats, etc.) in with ramen all the time. It's not uncommon in Japan.

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Are humans the dumbest species? No, not dumbest but definitely greedy and harmful to many things.

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How many times have you moved in your life? About 20+ times.

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Is there a name we can call people who unfairly call others racist? I don't know if there is a name to call them but I suspect they are only trying to divert the attention to other people because, perhaps they have an issue with themselves about racism that they do not want to own or they are hyper-sensitive with racism (due to unresolved anger?) and they start seeing everyone that don't share their opinions, as racist. I've been called a racist...

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How can I give my face a healthy glow instead of the tired and washed out look, without using makeup? Go tanning or get one of those tanning lotions/sprays. Exercising regularly also helps.

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Who is your favorite member of Metallica,past or present? Definitely Mr. Hetfield.

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Lets all congratulate the lovely Mensan, He's a Guru now! Congratulations, Mensan *doing the Happy dance*! Wow, you're moving on up pretty quickly, that's awesome :D.

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MY TEEN DRINKS HOW DO I STOP HER. Why not just educate her (share yours and other people's experiences) about alcohol and its effects, good and bad. Let her know that if she wants to experiment with alcohol, there's not much you can do unless you want to follow her around 24/7, but that you're here when she needs a ride home or is in any type of trouble...no matter what time it is - no lecture. And be there! Let...

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What's one movie you thought was super scary when you were young, but now it seems rediculous? The Amityville Horror

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What's stressing you out right now? Everything...my sister, my kids, moving, bills, money (lack of)...

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What is the worst that can happen if you are trying to buy liquor with a fake ID and it gets rejected? Usually nothing, unless whoever is in charge of the store wants to call the cops.

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How many arrests are on your record? None! Thank God.

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Have you ever been hypnotized? I have never been but I'm interested! Have you ever been hypnotised, Rosie?

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Do you believe each time someone hurts you it makes you more sensitive? Or does it toughen you up and make you stronger? When I was younger, it made me more sensitive on the inside but I appeared tougher on the outside. As I matured, it made me stronger within.

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Did you ever hate your job? What's the 1st job you ever really disliked? Probably when I worked as a Personal Care Aid back when I was about 17 years old. I hated the job! It was like babysitting (with changing diapers and bathing...) but with older adults - as a teenager, it wasn't the job for me.

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What is the best advice you can give to someone at their high school graduation? Go git 'em, Tiger! :D

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Where might someone slide? Down a grassy hill after the rain, which will make your clothes muddy. Yes, I speak from experience! I was drunk that night too :).

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Who is sexier, you, or who you are (or last were) with? 10 being best, how do you each rate? Definitely me :D. Wooohooo!!!!!

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Have you ever eaten cooked Octopus? It is quite common among the Polynesians in Hawaii and one time I decided to try it at a hotel. To my amazement, it was indeed very delicious! (The dipping sauce makes the difference.) So, have you tried it yet? Yes (I'm Japanese!) I prefer them fried with some sauce.

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What famous person do YOU think would be wild, in bed? That guy on America's Got Talent...Piers Morgan....Uh huh :).

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Do you ever get bored with having sex with the same partner? I'm getting bored with NOT having sex :/

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Shoulderpads: do you find yourself being constanly aware you have them on or do you not notice them? Why am I not surprised that you ask this question? LOL, well, I only have shoulder-pads on some jackets and coats...and no, I don't notice them since they are sewn in between the liner and the actual...like they're not flopping around or anything. I don't like shoulder-pads!

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To those who strongly disliked Obama before the election - and probably still do - why such strong feelings against him? I don't dislike him, in fact, I actually liked him a lot during the election but most of my friends feel that he's just a pawn, just like Bush. Obama is just more articulate and very convincing.

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Does music affect your daily life? Very much so. I can't even start my day without music :).

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Did you forget to take a chill pill this morning? Yes, I did and I kinda like the energy it's producing :).

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Do people in the U.K. really use the word "tosser"? I think it is a funny word, it cracks me up. I have a general idea what it means and how it is used but could you further my education on this? When I lived there, yes, they did use that word quite a bit...and many other words that aren't familiar to the Americans.

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Is "Carrot Top" the new Michael Jackson, turning himself into a physical freak? (link) I've seen him on one of the late night shows before and I thought he looked awfully different but he is funny.

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Is the word obama allowed in your house? A lot of words/names are allowed in my house, including Obama.

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Would u rather listen to RAP or ROCK! Definitely Rock!

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I want to make my girlfriend horney, it is very hard to get her likr this, what is the best way to do this with out her knowing im doing anything? Say nice things to her throughout the day, look at her from across a room until she notices that you're looking at her. Whisper something sweet in her ear out in public...flirt with her and make her laugh :).

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Do you still prefer to have photo's in an album or are you happy with your memories on your computer? I prefer my photos in an album. I've scanned some pics to have on the computer but I still use film.

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How many bills do you pay online? I only pay online if I can't get to them before the due date, for whatever reason. For the most part, I do not pay any bills online.

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When you tell a joke, do people laugh with you cause it's funny, or do they seem to laugh at you because you didn't tell it right or just wasn't funny coming from you? Sometimes it's the first one and other times it's the latter but either way...laughter is good :D.

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Have people in the U.S. forgotten how to be polite? It seems that way sometimes...

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What was the reason that you were last in court? Child Support. He had it made with $50.00 a week for both kids that I suggested but he insisted we go to court because he thought that was too much.

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Too and to. Bear and bare. Are and our. Can you think of any others? weather/whether affect/effect your/you're for/four

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Why, do women flaunt their boobs and then get mad when a man stares at them? I'm not sure why some women would be mad since I don't flaunt my boobs nor get mad but I have noticed that it really doesn't matter whether you flaunt your boobs or not, men still stare!

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Family Ties, 3rd Rock from the sun, Cheers or Married with children? I love all of them but if I had to choose what I want to watch right now, it'd be 3rd Rock from the Sun.

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Have you ever looked in the mirror and said "what the hell happened"? No not yet. I'm sure that day will come though...

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Do you think it was inappropriate of President Obama to call Kanye West a "Jackass" for his stunt at the grabbing the microphone from Taylor Swift when she won her VMA award? I think Kanye was being an ass. I just have never seen anyone rudely interrupt like Kanye did on an award show! I can't imagine how Taylor felt at that moment.

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Was one of your parents a bigger disciplinarian than the other? Which one? I would say my dad was but my mom was a tough parent too.

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Does it bother you if someone you don't know very well touches your arm while they are talking to you? No, it does not bother me at all and I touch when I feel the need to put a little emphasis on how I feel. I would rather a touch than a little shove. I know a woman that shoves me whenever she says something funny. Now THAT I can't stand.

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Can you describe your family in one word? Fragmented.

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He used to subconsciously do little things when he was around me, and he used to look at me with a certain look. All those things are gone now, did he stop loving me? (it feels like it) Not necessarily. He may not even realize that what he is doing or not doing is making you feel unloved. Either talk with him about it so he can let you know how he really feels about this relationship or show him how much you miss his loving gestures. Let him know when he 'does' look at you or do certain things, how much you love it.

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How many of you accept AB "friends" without checking their profiles first? Actually, I have accepted everyone who requested me to be their friend and I don't check their profile until after I accept. I don't discriminate *shrugs*.

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Have any of you ever put baby in a corner? A baby? No, never. Actually now that I think about it, I have never put my kids in a corner.

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When my 14 year old daughter tells me "She hates me"..what is a real creative way to respond to that? Teenagers I would also love to hear your opinions:) I have never had neither of my teenage kids tell me that but if I ever hear my daughter say that to me, I would probably respond by letting her know how much her words hurt me. And then I would try to teach her how to express her anger effectively and ask her exactly what it is that she hates about me.

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Have you ever taken medication for depression? Did it work? Yes I have taken a couple of different anti-depressants and one gave me panic attacks and the other one made me feel "funny". I would look at other ways (therapy, herbal meds, change in diet/lifestyle, exercise, support from friends and/or family, etc.) to overcome depression first.

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How many books do you think you've read in your life? I'd say anywhere from 600 - 1200 books, so far :).

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If love is just a game, how come I've never won? Because you're not looking closely at the "game".

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John Lennon said life is what happens while you're busy making plans, but if you don't make plans won't you have an boring and empty life? Not really. I think he may have meant that sometimes, you need to just "do" rather than sit down and formulate a plan. It's that spontaneity that makes life exciting, not sticking to the plans so I think you have it backwards.

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Im a girl,im 15 i had a relationship with a 12 year old boy for 11 months i loved him very much,we broke up recently.then i dated an older guy but i coulnt stop thinking of the other boy,so i ended it with my boyfriend,he was very hurt.was that rite 2 do? Yes, it was the right thing to do to break if off with the older boy. It may be best if you remain single for a while so you can think clearly about what you want out of life. You're still so young, you really shouldn't be in a relationship yet.

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How often do you defrag / clean out your PC registry? Usually once every two weeks or so. It depends on how often the kids use the computer.

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God says you should give 10% of your earnings to your parents. Would you give? God said that? I missed it! Would that be biological parents? If so, I do not have them anymore but when my mother was alive, I used to give her $30.00 or so every week...just because! :)

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I want to live in a 'laid back American town'...where is that still the deal? Laid back huh? Well, I'm in NY so everywhere else seems to be laid back to me.

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Do you have a favorite type of online game? Mine is farming games. I don't play online games except Farmville on Facebook.

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If you're friend was on death row and s/he was innocent, what would you think better yet what would you do? Everything I can to help her/him out.

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When on vacation, would you rather stay with friends or in a hotel? I would rather stay in a hotel but I wouldn't be terribly uncomfortable staying with my friends.

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Why are teens so stupid? I don't think they are stupid. They do 'do' stupid things. Maybe they do not have the same upbringing like we did. Maybe they have become used to being told too much what to do or what not to do so they miss out on finding things out on their own and learning from mistakes/experiences. Most of the time, I learned from being outside a lot and interacting with other people without...

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Is your place neat and organized, or is it usually a mess? It's usually organized but not always neat - sometimes, it's a mess but very rarely.

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What was your 1st car and why did you think it was so neat? A Renault

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How many drinks, of what, have you had today? A few cups of coffee, a couple of glasses of iced tea, two cups of hot tea...and that's it so far.

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What's the color of your house/apartment? It's a brick house :).

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Are high maintenance women worth dating? What do you consider worthy of your time? And not all high maintenance women are "fun". Most will be admired (or at the least noticed) by other men (and maybe envied by some women) but usually, they don't have anything meaningful to offer at that moment in their life.

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Have you ever personally seen the sun set over the ocean? YES! And what a sight. I've also seen the sun rise over the ocean :).

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What did you barbecue this summer? Many things..I have teenagers AND their friends so it is easier to grill :). Ummm, shrimp, steaks, hamburgers, hotdogs, spiedies, chicken, veggies, and tons of other stuff that I can't even remember.

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Do you close your bedroom door at night when you're going to bed? Sometimes closed, sometimes open.

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How many generations can you trace on both sides of your family? None...unfortunately :(. I've tried though.

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Have you ever cried when a celebrity died? Yes, several times.

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Are you afraid to be different? I'm afraid to be the same.

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Have you ever been so poor that the only foods you could afford to eat was top roman and potatos? Yes, when I first moved out of my parents' home at 17 years old. I would eat toasts in the morning, ramen for lunch...and sometimes, I would skip dinner - if I was hungry though, I would eat ramen again. If I had any extra money, I'd buy eggs and have scrambled eggs with toasts in the morning. Breakfast was very important to me.

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Why do people hate to see other people succeed? I am the only one who is graduating from college in my neighborhood, and family, why cant people be happy for me instead of hating. Those people around you do not want to see you succeed because with success comes you moving away and maybe even staying away. There's strength in numbers...or there's a saying: misery loves company. Pursue your success, if that's what you want to do and once you get out of your small circle of "friends and family", you'll see that there are people that will be...

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On a scale from 1 to 10...how bad is ur road rage? I used to be really bad...definitely waay past 10 on a scale of 1-10. Now, I'm much calmer and it doesn't upset me that there are idiots out on the road. These idiots can't help it. Although I do get upset when they're jumping out in front of me and where it could cause an accident.

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"Stranger Slapped Crying Child. "A very annoying 2 year old was slapped by a stranger at a Walmart when her mother did nothing to stop the howling. What would you do? I would give both of them a disapproving look and then pick up the child to calm him down and hopefully, the mother will talk with me so I can understand what the issue is and perhaps help her.

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What do most of you think of when you hear the word broken? That it can be fixed.

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You've probably loaned things to people and never got them back...they move or loan it to someone else or "lose" it. Have you ever said "no" to someone who asked to borrow something? Now that I think about it, I don't believe I have said no too many times. If I have it and I'm not using it, I lend it.

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Do you think some people are just born "bad"? Like some people that have already answered, I would've answered this question no before but now...I know there are people that are just born "bad" - you surround them with love, hope, encouragement, etc. hoping that they will turn around and do some good but I know some people that just behave in a very malicious way...that there's no other reason why they behave in such...

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What's your favorite British comedy series? Please list your country, I'm curious to know if this differs between them. I left England years ago but I used to love Benny Hill, Paul Hogan had a show...and I remember another guy...older man that would do his show with small tissue on his chin from cutting himself shaving in the early '80s. I can't remember his name though...he was funny.

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How can I convince my girlfriend that I love her and that her having a child from a previous relationship is not a problem for me? She seems insecure and to have low self-esteem. I would like to do what I can to change that. Please help. Dating is a whole new experience for a mother that recently became single. Not only does she have to think of finding the right man for her but also the right father-figure for the child. She also has to think about the child liking the man. She really doesn't have the option to jump from a relationship to a relationship since it can take a toll on her emotionally and mentally...and the...

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How much weight do you think you would gain if you went to Mc' Donalds everyday for lunch? None. I don't like to O.D. on greasy foods so I wouldn't eat burgers every time.

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How do you make someone love you with out affecting free will? You can't control other people and especially who they choose to love. You can only control how YOU handle someone not loving you.

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For or against? To prevent child poverty and reduce population growth, children should be "sterilized" at age 12 and "made-whole" at age 25 (at no cost to the parent or child). I am against this as it takes away another job that parents should take on and teach their children from right and wrong. It's a quick fix...a band aid for a problem that parents need to look at and handle.

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I read this statement: People are successful not because of what they say, but what they ask.What do you think? I guess it would depend on how you would define success because I believe everyone has a different definition of what successful means. I don't believe that statement to be true. You can ask all the right questions but if you don't get the right answers or even listen to the answers, you're not going to flourish.

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Do you think its ohkay to allow your 15 year old daughter to have her 18 year old boyfriend sleepover in the same bed NO, I do not think it's okay.

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Has anyone figured out a way to disable or block the Bing search tool from functioning on text in AB Q&A? I'm sick of popups. Ditto. I didn't know you could disable them.

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Who was your first friend on AB? Mine was LoyalTubist.

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What is the biggest personal crisis you have had in your Life? I've had many since I was a child and it doesn't seem to stop after 30+ years. I can't name them off as they are too personal and I happen to be pretty private about my past - too many rejections/abandonment/etc. and too much pain and fear attached to my past.

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What's for Sunday dinner? (August 30, 2009) I'm making chicken, rice, broccoli and salad.

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How many countrys have you been to so far? Canada, France, England, USA, Japan.

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What is the first food you can remember not liking? Spinach.

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How often do you think about "the one that got away"? Infrequently. Sometimes, what it could've been may not be the same as what it would've been. I would rather have the great memory of short times shared with a person than have it possibly destroyed by longer times spent with that person. Things happen for a reason.

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I was out at a bar last night with a bunch of friends and the bartender was beautiful..we chatted here and there and things looked good..at the end of the night ..I was getting ready to leave and she gave me her number.. how soon should I call I would call her right away. She gave you her phone number...so she's interested.

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Have you ever used aluminum foil for something other than normal kitchen uses? It is great for scrubbing rust off of metal. You just ball up the foil (shiny part of it out) and rub! It really works.

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AC/DC or Metalica? I grew up loving both and saw them both live! Great bands. If I had to choose though, it's definitely METALLICA, hands down.

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Is it considered rape if i told him to get of of me and that i dont want to he continued to push me and made me but i dont put up much of a fight because i was scared he's going to hurt me more than he has already?i was pushing him off but he wouldnt stop If you call the cops, be prepared to be humiliated and made out to look like you asked for it. They will go over every detail of that night. If this really happened to you, I am sorry that it did. If this isn't exactly what happened, it's a serious accusation.

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If someone called you "holy", would you assume: (a) Your clothes have holes? (b) You come across as pious? (c) You are holistic person? (d) You are pure and righteous? (e) Something else? That I was a "wHOLE" person...???? LOL. I have never had anyone say that to me.

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What is your pet's loudest toy and please tell me why do they always decide to play with it in the middle of the night? LOL, that's sooo true. My cats play with things they find that makes a lot of noise when flung across the wood floor...in the middle of the night! I do not know WHY they do this.

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Do you think that 10 years old is to old to go over mom's knee for a spanking? Ofcourse only as a last resort. Yes I do. I think by 10 years old, they are old enough to understand right from wrong and they can feel the "sting" of having privileges taken away just as much as if they were being spanked. The problem with being spanked at that age is that it's more of an embarrassment to the child.

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Does anyone think homosexuals are asking for too many rights? I know that gays should be able to be legal but isnt marriage a little far out? I just wish it wasn't so in-my-face about it all. If anyone knew me, they'd understand that I am not against gays/lesbians but I don't think there should be a poster of gay rights in an office where my kids attend school or a steamy gay/lesbian scenes in cartoons or certain movies...and yes, I would oppose to hetero sex scenes in cartoons and certain movies also.

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To all single moms with teenage daughters. Are you real strict with your daughters more so then your sons and if so why? Also how do you find a common ground with your daughters.? I'm not anymore strict with my daughter as I am with my son. I talk with her a lot...well, with both my daughter and my son. We share trust between us and that developed with honesty and being open to tell her things (about life in general) and open to 'listen' to her feelings and thoughts. Believe it or not, listening to her is the most important thing I have done for my...

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Do you ever worry that people won't take you seriously here on AnswerBag? I don't worry about anything when I'm on AB :D.

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Why is the people who hurt you most you miss the most? Because either enough time hasn't passed since this person has been out of your life or you haven't found anyone that treat you better.

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I am 22 and my fiancee is 28. We have been together for almost four years. He is now telling me that he doesn't want me to miss out on my youth and maybe we shouldn't be together at all. Is this a sign that it's over? I don't know your fiance but it could mean that he is trying to find out if YOU want to remain in the relationship and he is curious about how quickly you'll agree to his suggestion. He doesn't want to feel guilty for holding you back. OR he wants an excuse to break away from the relationship and doesn't know how to say it without sounding like a jerk. I wouldn't...

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Would you ever date or marry someone in recovery? I don't know...that's a tough one. I guess it would depend on the person and how serious the person is trying to recover and how much I like that person.

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Are you ready to accept death any moment? It's not an option. When it's my time, it's my time.

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In all honesty...do you like yourself? Yes, most of the time.

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Do you have a ceiling fan over your dining room table? No, I have a small stained glass lamp that hangs down from a chain. Ceiling fans are in my kitchen, livingroom and my bedroom though.

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How many bottles of wine are in your home right now? About 4 or 5.

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What's the last package you looked at the nutritional chart for? I have yet to look at the chart.

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What is your opinion of a women that says the f-word a lot? I don't particularly like it but it's not something I'd freak out about unless there were small children around.

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Is it ok to wear black to a wedding? I understand white can affend the bride, but what about black? Black is fine. As long as you're not taking the attention away from the bride, anything is considered okay nowadays. It's the bride's day :).

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Have you been to Central Park NYC? ... have or would you walk it at night? Many times. Certain part of the park, yes I would and have walk(ed) through at night. It's a huge park.

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What was the last thing you bought for yourself? Breakfast at Sonic...I ate there for the first time this morning...I don't care for their food...but I like the service :).

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Do you have days when you don't want to leave the house or bother with the outside world? Most of the time.

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Girls... assuming we were lovers... on a hot summer day, hanging on a public pier over the hudson... when it suddenly starts raining so hard, people running, you LITERALLY can't see two inches in front of you... can we have a quicky? If we were lovers, yes, we'd be doing it with or without the rain. Something about outdoors that really turns me on.

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I just found out my dream Girl is apparently a career criminal and will likely stalk me now that she dumped me, what can I do to prepare? I heard this is something she does.. Please no call the law advise that will go backwards quickly. Find out all you can about her so you know who you are dealing with and hopefully, come up with something that you could hang over HER head. If she's pushing you, shove her back, that is the only way, without the authorities getting involved, to get her to back off. Start asking around, look online, talk to people that know her well.

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Do you listen to other's people conversations on the street? No, I do not. If I did, I would be asking, "Who?" "When?" or "OMG, really?" And I don't do that any more.

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We are about to be evicted from our apt. im the only one working. my husband is disabled due to a stroke 3 yrs. ago. we are raising his 2 children. where can i go for help. my income is not enough. i need help very badly Have you tried going to the social services? You could also swallow your pride and call friends and family for a little help...just enough to move into a cheaper place if the rent for your apartment is no longer affordable, I would downsize and consider moving. Sell things you do not need or use anymore and lighten your load. If you have never owned a house, you could also apply for that...

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Would you rather work to put the weight on or take the weight off? LOL, first question I asked that got DR'ed. I ask because I know both underweight and overweight people and they both seem to struggle with gaining and losing weight. One seems to think she has it worse than the other so I thought it would be interesting to see what most people would prefer to do. I was thinking I would rather lose something I have too much of rather than gain...

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Do you remember what age you were when you were expected to do your own laundry? When I first moved out. I was never expected to do my own laundry. My mother did it all. I did help her out though.

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Whats your favorite screen name you've ever had online? Now that I think about it, I've actually had a few screen names. But the one I always use and stuck with is Cheery Cherry.

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Where do the alcoholics get the money to buy bottles for their insatiable appetite for drinks? From bottle/can returns if they are not employed? I'm not certain. I know a few alcoholics and they all have a job.

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How to solve the problem when the DVD in my player keep showing "LOADING" and no movie. Where go wrong? Have you tried a DVD cleaner?

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Pecks bad boy went all Sage on us, who wants to welcome him on the climb up? Congratulations, Pecks. *Jumping up and down* Woooot :D

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Two men kiss what do women think? It's not something I would want to see.

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Why cant i find a girl who wont break my heart? Because you are putting your heart out there too soon. You take a risk every time you enter into a relationship. A risk of losing them (death, break up, etc.) and having your heart go through tremendous amount of pain but it is inevitable. Nothing is forever so don't go through life thinking about finding a girl that's not going to break your heart, go through life finding a girl that...

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Are we responsible for our own emotions? No, I don't believe so. Emotions seem to be felt even if you don't want to and you can try to cover them up but they are still present within you. I think we are responsible for HOW we handle our emotions.

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What is the best thing God gave you? My mother, even though I didn't have her for long (which I was mad at God for a long time for), at least I know what it feels like to be loved without condition.

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Can popular people really live thier life when they can never trust thier friends? Survive, yes...but live? Only by pretending that they are what they are not - which will eat away at their true self, slowly - which makes them frustrated and unhappy. People that surround themselves with untrusting friends ususally have a problem trusting their own judgment or they are still in the process of finding themselves.

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Do you have someone who is always on your mind? My younger sister. She's going through a tough time and I think about her a lot. I also think of our mom, who passed away almost 10 years ago, quite frequently.

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Who's looking forward to see Inglorious Basterds? I think it will be a great movie. I'd can't wait to see it.

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When you are nervous or stressed out, what do you do to calm yourself down? Breathe...and then I like to go somewhere quiet, outdoors.

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Do you prefer to shower in the morning or at night? Morning.

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Did you just lick your lips? Yes, after I read your question!

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Do you have any souvenirs from your first lover? A letter, a lock of hair or anything? Nope. None. I left them all at my parents' place and when my mother passed away, everything got trashed.

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Would you bath naked with your kids? I have when they were babies.

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Do you use your AB name to express how you feel or is it just a name? It was a form of expression but it became just a name that I've stuck with for about 8 years now.

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My boyfriend is 31, divorced with no children.after a decade he helps his financially unstable ex wife by letting her stay with him for a while. He made the decision to help her before he knew me, and now Im stuck in a hard spot. Do I stay? Yeah, she's gotta go. I understand helping her out maybe with finding a place for her or even paying for first months rent/deposit or helping her find a job but move in with him??? That wouldn't sit well with me. If you stay with him under this condition, expect to share your life with his ex also.

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Have you ever felt like singing in the rain? Frequently...and not just sing...dance too :).

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How many floor lamps do you have? Two that is currently in use.

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Have you ever made an International Call? Yes. I have family members in Japan and friends in England.

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Is 6'1'' 155lbs. a good weight for my height? i'm a dude That sounds a bit thin...but it really depends on how your weight is distributed throughout your body.

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If you won 10 million dollars would you donate some to charties or help friends and family first? I would help out friends and family first, and then my community...and work my way out from there.

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Do you have a land line, just a cell phone, or both? Yes, I 'still' have a land line and a cell phone. I do not plan to eliminate the landline any time soon.

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Im thirty and just started smoking ... please remind me why i should stop? Wear a rubber band around your wrist and snap it when you want to smoke until the feeling of lighting up goes away. That should be enough to remind you, no?

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If someone says, "I'm currently not living in the U.S.", does it sound like they might return? To me, it sounds like that person lived in the US 'before'. To my ears, that statement doesn't indicate that the person is going to return to the US.

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Have you ever signed a Petition? What was it for and did it make difference? Yes a couple of times. Most recent one was against TeenScreen Program.

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When people say to you "have a good day" do you believe they are sincere or are you convinced they don't mean a word of it? I am completely, totally, convinced that they mean every word of it. AND I intend to have a good day...maybe even a better day :D.

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How would you convince a man that his life and love life aren't over merely because he's going bald? LOL...sorry, I don't mean to laugh but I didn't think there were guys out there that thought "this" extreme just over his baldness. I actually find bald men - totally bald, very sexy. He has the option to shave it all off or if he is that conscious about it, he could always wear cool hats. It's all in the attitude and how he carries himself...sooner he gets comfortable...

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My fiancee talks at least once a week to her ex from 22 years ago. She tells me they just talk and that he never asks to meet. He is married too. Would this be cheating? I would talk with your fiancee and let her know honestly but calmly how you feel. So understand why you're uncomfortable (or questioning) about this so you can articulate your feelings without making her feel defensive. Also, really 'listen' to what she is saying. I can understand how you may want to feel YOU should be her confidant or a friend and everything a person could give...

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Do you like kids? Any preference to what age they must be to warm your heart if you even like them at all? I love children from infants to teenagers. They always warm my heart in different ways.

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Are they serious ? Who in hell would wear these shoes? Who cares. People focus too much on what is visibly different and put a negative undertone to it. I've never seen the shoes or heard of them but if I saw them, I would at least try them on, if not to check them out for its comfort or at least to laugh at myself for looking silly. Although I don't need shoes to make me look goofy-silly...I seem to be a natural at it.

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How many house plants are in your home? I have 21 house plants and 4 more on my porch.

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Do you have ice cream trucks still in your area? Nope, I have not seen one in years! I used to love the ice cream truck too.

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People upstairs are fighting. It's not too bad but...should I be doing something? My boyfriend says to intervene if we believe someone to be physically hurt, and not before. What do you think? I generally don't get involved in other people's business but if you're concerned, go upstairs and ask if everything is okay. I wouldn't call the police until you know that someone is getting hurt.

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What would we do without entertainment? We would find something to entertain ourselves. I remember drawing my own paper dolls and paper clothes to entertain myself when I was a child. I didn't have any toys.

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What is the best way to get my 2 and 3 yr olds to go to bed they just wont settle for me Try having a "quiet time" about an hour before bed time. Read them books or sing or listen to calming music and hang out in their room or lay down with them for a few minutes. And try to make it close to the same time every night. Be very consistent and if they get out of their beds, walk them back to their beds and tell them as often as necessary that it is time to sleep. I...

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Ill ask again and maybe this time i can get ananswer that helps i have found a red pill with the letters ETH on it does anyone know what type of pill this could be? Excedrin for tension headache

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Woman: Do you realize that sometimes when a man retreats from you, it is not because he can't handle you, but because he is refraining from beating up on you? Did you realize that you can severely test a man's restraint? Do you want to provoke violence? That would mean that this man has no self-control, which comes with maturity, and/or has no respect for the woman (or women in general) he is with. With that said, it is not the woman's responsibility to "back off", it is the man's responsibility to keep himself in check during heated arguments.

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Life can be a beautiful thing, so why do so many of us try and distort it with drugs and alcohol? Because their life is bleak.

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What is best done in private? Things I shouldn't tell you, since it's so private ;).

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Do you find Eastern Philosophy or Western Philosophy to be more truthful? Having been born and lived in Japan and currently living in America, I feel a sense of authenticity in Eastern philosophy than Western philosophy. I feel that some western beliefs can be superficial and sometimes very insignificant. Like my religious (Catholic) friend always lights a candle every time someone is in trouble but says things like, (example) "well, if he didn't drink so...

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In your opinion is being argumentative a positive trait or a flaw? It depends on what you're being argumentative about. It can be a positive and/or a negative thing. I think being overly argumentative is just as bad as being overly noncontentious or docile.

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If you actually walked in and witnessed your partner cheating would you be more likely to kill or injure someone, yell and/or scream or just simply walk away broken hearted? If none of the above please specify what you would do. I wouldn't say a word but I certainly would injure them both. I can be very explosive in situations like that.

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How do I minimize a web-page so that I can have complete snap shot of it You can hold down the 'Ctrl' button and the '-' (or '+' to get it back to normal) button at the same time.

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1 good memory from yesterday ?.. Any time my 15 year old daughter sits down and talks with me about what's on her mind and how her life (from her perspective) is going is a good memory for me and we did that yesterday :D.

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Which one is considered more "boring": being a pharmacist, or being an accountant? I used to work around both and accountants are definitely more boring.

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Does madonna look good at 50 years old? In my opinion, she does not. I think she 'could' look better by not trying to re-live her youth. You can still look sexy at her age without looking...sloppy.

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What is your favorite song that takes you back to your childhood? It depends on how far into my childhood since I travelled so much that I have various songs that remind me of my childhood. I could pick favorites from Japanese, British, and American songs - various stages of my childhood.

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Do you think im attractive in any way?? If so how? LOL, interesting category you put this under. Ummm, I can't see you well enough to say...

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What's hard? My sister's head.

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I have not gone fishing in months... yet when I smelled my right hand it smells like fish??? wtf Maybe you were drunk last night...and something (someone) happened.

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What channel is your television on right now? and are you watching whats on or just for background noise? My TV is off. I do not watch TV often.

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I like badboys because they seem to have confidence (that's my case at least), nice guys just seem weak. Do any other girls have this problem? I've always had an attraction to the "bad boys" - since I started becoming interested in boys. And it (dating them) didn't stop until I was in my mid twenties. I am in my late thirties now and I must say, what a waste of my time they were. Being with quite a few bad boys has postponed my growth and I missed a lot of opportunities because they (the bad boys) usually do not...

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Would cavemen find todays supermodels attractive? Victoria secret models? Who knows for sure but I would think not, since today's supermodels seem very different from how women were then. There was a time when men drooled over full hips and relatively smaller breasts and wouldn't even glance at women with smaller hips (considered to look too much like a young boy). There were also a time when men found milky white skin to be beautiful rather than tanned...

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How many days can you do without a car? Many. I haven't had a car since November 2008. It was so uncomfortable at first but that's when I lived in town. In Jan. 2009, I moved to a semi rural area (no bus route) and it hurts even more but I get around through friends, family and my own two feet.

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Why do most women spend much time on improving their LOOKS and not their MINDS? I've wondered that myself. I'm starting to see my friends who are spending money they do not have on botox, cosmetic surgery, tanning (excessively), gym membership, etc. I mean I understand wanting to look good but DAMN, it's crazy what some women do and how far they go just for that "perfect" image.

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Should I move 4876 miles to be with the man I love, if my family may never want to speak to me again? It would depend on the reason why your family don't like him...so much so that they may never speak with you again. That's a concern.

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Would you marry the perfect(smart, beautiful, sweet) wife or husband that never gets horny? Ladies, wouldn't it be a dream not to have a horny husband nagging you every night for sex? Instead, he would show his love by doing your chores, cuddling, etc. Oh I don't know...I would prefer a husband that was horny all the time and bugged me for sex daily. Cuddling is a must too though...I don't need him to do the chores except for taking out the trash, and shoveling snow/mowing lawn...killing/getting rid of bugs/rodents...

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I esxperienced something 22 yrs ago. Last night I admitted it to my husband of 7 yrs who keeps insisting I am hiding something. Now I have said it outloud and have to deal with it. The memory is horrid but now I have to deal with it. Any advice? Take it one step at a time. It happened that many years ago and it still has a profound affect on you so maybe it's time that you face it and let yourself be free of the past experience. Your emotions and your innerself will let you know what steps you will need to take. If you need to talk about it, talk about it with someone who will support you. If you need to cry about it, cry. If you...

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Is it possible to substitute mirin (Japanese cooking wine with mijiu (Chinese cooking wine) in Japanese recipes? I thought mirin is a beer?

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Can you be happy and sad at the same time? Yes, when your child leaves for college and you are so proud and happy for your child but you feel sad to see your child go...into adulthood.

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Women: What do you think of men who wear earrings? I don't think about them much...it's up to the guy if he wants to wear them or not.

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Hey gals, are your nails so long they clack on the keyboard ? i can be talking on the phone with ppl and they can hear me typing. I cannot type with long nails so I keep mine short. My nails grow very fast and they are very strong, I actually hate that about my nails. I have to cut them frequently and they are difficult to cut.

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I'm 16 and am alone every single day. Literally, I just sit around by myself until I get tired and go to bed. I have absolutely no friends. I'm an awful person and have no purpose Are you sitting around in your house or are you sitting around outside? If you're in your house, get out and do something (sign up for a club/group, go to events, walk around the park, etc.) or nothing "outside" your home. And stop thinking that you're an awful person because that is how you will be treated. Start thinking, even if you don't believe it at first, that...

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I am temporarily (I hope) disabled. I cannot hold down a steady job. Right now it is mostly due to my energy level. I may have energy for an hour to a full day. Can you think of any jobs that would have that much flexibility? It really depends on your experience and how much you are able to do but you could work from home if you have any experience in the medical field. My girlfriend was hired answering her phone at home scheduling appointments. She was on call though so there were no set time for her to work. You could also look into calling temporary agencies and see if you could "cover" for people...

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How can you prove a mom un fit if she doesn't work, have her own place, and just hangs out with her friends? i'm trying to get custody of my daughter but, everyone said women always get the kid. You'd be better off trying to find some type of evidence that she's abusing or neglecting the child. Being unemployed or having friends doesn't mean she's an unfit mother. If your child is old enough, it would be better if you could talk with her and see if she would even want to live with you, primarily. If she doesn't want to leave her mom, she may feel the stress...

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Why is violence in the movies or on television less offensive to some people than sexual situations? Because these people that are more offended by sexual situations are conditioned to believe that they 'should' be offended. It's the way sexual situations (and violence) are presented in the media. Media can change the way you think of something, over time.

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I hit my children. Does this make me a bad parent? Do YOU think you're a bad parent? Since everyone's opinions will vary, it's important that YOU understand what makes a bad parent and what makes a good parent.

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What does a 6 month anniversary mean to you, is it a big deal or what, would you do for it? Anniversary is a full year...not half a year. 6 months is not a big deal to me and I wouldn't celebrate it.

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If Satan slapped you, would you turn the other cheek? Turn the other cheek so he could slap the other cheek? Noooo, I'd have to slap him back with my holy cows. :)

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How often people called you gay? Well, the way people use that word nowadays, I've been called "gay" as in "you're so gay" meaning I'm acting silly...I'd say a few times a week.

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Is it one of the hardest things in life to give on a son/daughter who is addicted to something? Do you ever feel guilty? SexyRabbit, don't be so hard on yourself if you are talking about your own child and your own experience. There's only so much you can do. The child has to realize his/her problems and WANT to be better. *HUGS*

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What does it mean when a guy calls you nicknames, like darling, baby, babe, sweetheart, sweetie, beautiful? At one point, it used to mean something personal but I'm finding out that it doesn't always mean anything personal. I guess it would depend on how he says it.

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Im a size 5 in jeans . is it fat or perfect? or should i lose weight. but if i do lose weight, to what size? I don't think that's fat. It's actually average (size 5 - 7) depending on your height or your build. If you do go down in size, I wouldn't go any lower than a size 3.

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I can't stand people who argue till they are blue in the face even when they're wrong and people who are quick to point the finger, but make excuses for themselves. That blows my mind yet its an exact description of my best friend. And i love her. Why? Maybe it's her energy? Or maybe because she likes to put up a good fight for what she believes to be true at the time.

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Do you have Curtains, blins or shudders in your home? I have all of the above but mostly curtains. I like that warm feeling that curtains bring.

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Do you think your a good parent? How do you know? Yes I do. I know this because my 18 year old son and my 15 year old daughter are so well behaved and respectful. I couldn't ask for anything better than my children and who they are. And I know I haven't been a 'perfect' parent with all the answers. I've made many mistakes. They have no other relatives helping me raise them so it's been very difficult but worth it.

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Today a child (10 yrs old) was eating lunch at school when a schoolmate walked up and punched her in the eye. The school is saying the parents do not have a right to know who hit their child, so they won't tell them. Is it common / legal? This is one of the very small examples of seeing, for yourself, how they are trying to take away the rights of parents so our future children can be "controlled" by the States. A few years ago, my daughter was harrassed for being Asian by three children and I was told this by my daughter...not by school. I was furious and spoke with the principal. The principal told me that they...

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Would you lie to the police to protect a friend I refuse to do their job for them. Yes, I would lie to the police but I never had to. I have withheld information from them though.

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Some kids say "mom", some say "mother", some say "ma", "mama", some say none of those, which did you say? I always called her Mama until I was in my early teens, then it changed to Mom.

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I answered a question with a very non-controversial and conversational answer, yet someone downrated me five points - why would s/he do this? I also gave you 5 points - I love your name, Emmi :D.

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Is there a way to turn off requests from people asking you to be their Friend? Similar to how we can turn off the comments thread. AB has not created that particular feature but you could state it in your profile...at the top of the page and in bold so people will see it because you do have to go into people's profiles to request friendship anyway.

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If you were holding a town meeting to introduce an Idea, would you rather have the true opinions of those that you are introducing the idea to, so that you can adjust your plans to a better more functional model, or have an audience of yes men. I would rather have the true opinions of people, even though they may offer suggestions that I may not like or agree with but I would hear them out.

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Would you like to join the Dark Side? Shit, I got kicked out of the Dark Side years ago.

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Do you always drive below the speed limit? I always drive slightly above speed limit. If I could, I would drive faster but those speeding tickets are ridiculously expensive!

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What happens when you and your significant other of years run out of things to talk about? Find something new to experience together.

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In your own opinion what is the best thing in the world to have or know? Your mind. I see so many people that are walking around thinking they are in complete control of their thoughts/minds...it's sad really.

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Who thinks aries are the best ? :P The best? It depends on in what.

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Does having a little umbrella in your drink mean anything to you? (like makes you look richer or makes you feel sexier. Anything like that.) It means when it starts raining...my drink will not be watered down, silly. :P

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When a person owes you money, and a sufficient amount of time has went by to where they could have already paid you back, and you've brought it up on more than one occassion... does that make you want to be less of a friend to them? I do not lend money that I do not have or that I am going to need. I have always given money away to my friends/family...mind you, I do not give away money often. If they pay me back...wonderful. If they don't, I already wrote it off.

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Who warms up to you as long as you are compliant with their terms but abandons you on yours? Are you still seeking relationship with him/her? All of my friends and most of my family members were this way until I changed and found my self. I do not seek relationships with any of them.

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What should I name my babies? They are twins and one is a boy and one is a girl. They are due in October. Pleaseee help. Phil and Lil

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How can life ever be equal if everyone values someones life better than someone elses' e.g. i value my childrens lives better than the neighbours childrens It can never be equal - and it's not only human beings but with animals, plants/trees - anything in life cannot be equal.

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Are we all motivated to do things for our own gratification to some extent? Oh absolutely. Even the ones (most of them anyway) that "help" others out.

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So can I date your X? As long as you don't hold it against me when shit hits the fan :).

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So I entered the rest room today to hear a person in the next stall not only with their iPhone, but watching an extended YouTube video. The next level of rudeness, or hilarious? Well, it IS a public restroom. Besides, it may drown out embarrassing noises that your body makes.

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Which classic rock songs if any feature cowbell? OMG, If Cinderella and Guns & Roses are considered "classic rock", then I suppose Tommy Lee from Motley Crue used cowbell in one of their songs...I can't remember which song though...Live Wire maybe?

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Which classic rock songs if any feature cowbell? Nazareth comes to mind...Hair of the Dog...isn't that cowbell I hear?

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Who was more talented out of Lennon and McCartney? Lennon's words and songs speak to me in a more personal level so I am naturally drawn to Lennon. McCartney is definitely talented but his songs never really affected me the way Lennon's did/do.

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Guys: Have you ever had a woman that actually liked and enjoyed nursing your ingrown hairs and pimples? Like using tweezers and safety pins and even a flashlight to see them better lol? Women, do you like grooming your mate? LOL, actually, I kinda like it in a bizarre way, although I do get grossed out by what squirms out - but I enjoy the drama of it all (hee hee hee). I wouldn't LOOK for things to pop or pluck but if I see something that begs for my attention, I'm giving it my attention. :)

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How far in dept are you right now? Not too far. Maybe 2 or 3 thousand dollars...mostly past medical bills. That's about it.

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Why will you not let me borrow your money? Because you never asked.

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What is the biggist sin/bad thing you can do in your eyes? Torture.

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Are you a night person? If so, what do you do late at night? I've always been a night person. I usually do whatever I want - from relax, shop, work (wedding/portrait photography or web design), to clean house.

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Did you know Lincoln Logs use to be made out of wood? Used to? I only know the wood kind.

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Do you think there are male AB users masquerading as women, and female users masquerading as men? I am NOT referring here to genuine transgender persons, and they need not be offended. If there is, I wouldn't know.

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When you were age seven, what was your favorite game? House. I played house all the time with my friends...or we'd put on a concert and act like we're singers.

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Is anyone else having a problem with AB changing pages. The last 2 days it is taking forever to download a page or submit an answer. Is it my computer or is AB going through a glitch of some kind. I've never had issues like this on AB neither. Since yesterday, I have not been able to submit an answer or ask a question. I don't think it's my computer since I have no problem getting to other sites. Let's see if this answer will even post....

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Are news headlines written by true journalists or do they go for 'sensation'? Are they factual or garbage? I think some, if not most, are garbage. There's a lot of competition out there and they need to sell/get the ratings.

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How fast can you type? (Eg: 4 letters every 5 seconds) About 65 wpm.

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What would you bring if you were asked to bring a dessert to a party? Cheese cake!

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Have you ever called someone a slut based on their actions, without knowing them personally? No, I never have. I used to be called a slut when I was a teenager (for how I was dressed) by some girl that I did't even know and I didn't like it.

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With all the glitches Ec still enjoys The 'Bag (especially the hotties), do you yo?... LOL, I only see one Hottie right now, Ec ;).

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Do you think that all illegal drugs should be re-evaluated so that if the drug is deemed worse than Alcohol and Tobacco it stays illegal but if is seen as less damaging should become legal? I believe all drugs should be legal and let the people decide what is right or wrong for them - give them freedom of choice.

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Do you like to communicate more by texting or talking? Definitely talking. I don't like to text unless I have very little to say.

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Im sooo tired of being hurt by guys, my friends say that I should become a player and use them like they try to use me? what do you think? I think you shouldn't stoop that low if that's not your style. If that type of behavior hurts you, it's not cool to give that back to other people.

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If you lost 80 lbs. how much would you weigh? 35 lbs.

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Do you believe in getting high on Marijuana and if you don't why not? I don't smoke pot often since I don't know where I could get any and when I used to smoke pot, it never turned me into a pot-head or lead me to other drugs. I believe that pot is safer than most prescribed medications that you get from your doctor.

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What do you remember from the 80s? Everything. Music - Madonna, Bruce Springsteen, Michael Jackson and his videos, MTV, White Snake, Bon Jovi... Movies - 16 Candles, The Breakfast Club, About Last Night, Back to the Future.... TV Shows - Family Ties, 21 Jump Street, Full House, Growing Pains, Married with Children.... and Fashion. Lots of colors, neon words on T-shirts, leg warmers, bangles, tight jeans.... Oh and...

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Why do banks have overdraft fees? The same reason they charge you to use ATM (to pull out YOUR money), to make money off of all of us because everyone, at some point, will need to have a bank account so we're stuck.

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If you found out tour partner had a sexual disease what would you do? Not have sex with him and if I already did, I would make him pay for any treatments (and tests) that I would have to receive.

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Do you have more gold or silver jewellry? Gold.

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What color are your eyes? What color eyes are you attracted to? (Curious to see how true the saying 'opposites attract' is) I have dark brown eyes and I am attracted to hazel-ish, green-ish.

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Can woman do anything? EVERYTHING *bwahahahaha*.

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What type of bra are you wearing? Lacy, nude - Victoria Secret, maybe? Not sure.

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If you had to choose between life without parole or the death penalty, what would you choose? Death penalty. I would not do well controlled and locked up.

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Do you think that every time you/somebody down-rates something, they should also comment on it explaining why they think it is a bad answer? I think that's fair! I have said something about this many times on AB. I have gotten DR'ed maybe a handful of times and none has left a comment on why.

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LADIES.... should I hide the fact that I am bi to my fiance? I would never ever cheat nor do I think about it. I want to share everything with her but I'm scared it will be something that could ruin my relationship. HELP!!! If that bit of information ruins your relationship with your finacee, then it's best that it is 'ruined' now than after getting married. I think you owe it to her to let her make the decision of whether to stay with you or not - afterall, she is part of the relationship as you are - she has a right to know who she is marrying and that decision isn't only yours. That's...

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Is the light in the room you're in on or off? OFF. I have natural light coming in through the windows...so beautiful.

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People seem to enjoy picking on me and making jokes at my expense, all my friends do it, and it seems to be mainly at me, my girlfriend even does it sometimes. Why? It's probably because you take it well and they like you. People pick on me as well and I have been giving right back to them and it's fun, most of the time. If they can dish it out, they better take it as well, is the way I look at it :).

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Did you have a sheltered youth? No not at all.

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What's on your kitchen table? flowers, fruit or something else? Flowers - cosmos with baby's breath and a fern.

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Would you please join me in congratulating Shatzee ??? Shatzee made it to maestro level !!! Congratulations Shatzee :D. That's so awesome that you made it to Maestro...now who do I talk to about getting a drink in my hand?

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Can a guy wear suspenders, and a belt at the same time? It actually wouldn't make much sense to wear both but I've seen it done as a fashion statement.

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How often should married people say "I love you"? Daily? :D

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1 - 10 how clean and tidy is your home right now? and does AB keep you from doing some of your household duties? My house is pretty clean right now. I'd say about 9. I need to do the laundry.

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Help! what can I make for supper tonight? Steak! That's what I'm making for dinner tonight.

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What is the point of Twitter? Oh I see. So it's not so much for the 'normal' boring people...I joined in March, never really went back until today and I didn't know what I was supposed to do.

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Do you like argueing with people on here? Sometimes, if I believe in something strongly or if I'm arguing with someone who knows what he/she is talking about. I don't feel that arguing is a bad thing all the time, here or in person.

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Do you sometimes bs your answers on here? No need to.

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Girls, have you ever shown a bit of flesh to get into a nite club? Not to get into a night club. I don't use my body to get anything....like FlashLove17, I get attention (mostly unwanted) anyway.

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If you have more than one child and you could only save one from some horrible disaster....How do you pick? Hell, I'll save the cats...

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Do you think my avatar is too risque? Would someone find it pornographic? I can hardly see it - at a glance, I wouldn't think it was anything. Besides, I've seen worse here.

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Why do people do tobacco if they don't mind hurting themselves and not something good like heroine or coke? I imagine it's because tobacco doesn't impair their judgment and they can still be productive and live a life where they can remain in control.

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Is it just me or is public school a complete and utter waste of time? I am so disgusted with public schools...they are wasting time more now than ever. I've had so many issues with them (teachers, administration, materials they teach, etc. - I'll spare you the details) for 5 years I honestly cannot wait until my youngest is done (3 more years). The problem is, so many parents do not get involved in what is going on in public schools because they (the...

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Does the world around you ever feel like a mirror image of what is going on inside of you personally? Certain things...but definitely not all things.

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I was 21 in 1990, how old were you or how old did you feel? I was 19 and I felt 19.

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What would you rather be, too hot or too cold? Too cold...I can steal body-heat from other people *HUGS*.

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Have you ever wondered, " What the hell am I doing or how did I get here?" I mean a time where you had completely lost yourself and had no idea what to do? Encouragement....please! Yes, I have felt that way about a few years ago when I was juggling work, school, kids, home, family, finances, etc. and I had a somewhat of a breakdown. I was so busy with my life that I forgot to really get to know me (the mature me) and enjoy life for what it is. I realized I was doing things that I didn't want to do or enjoy doing (basically, I was doing things that other people...

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Have you ever slept on a water bed? Yes...several different ones and I don't really care for them.

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Am I Ugly? Be honest. Oh God no. You're far from being "ugly". I think you should smile though :).

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What was your reputation at school? Wild, punk, fun, bad-ass *shrugs* :).

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Which ABers do you think are very friendly? I agree there are many friendly people here :). Let me name a few and if I leave any one out, I'll let you smack my forehead! Chief Wanbli, Ed, Babycakes, Zack, Loyal Tubist, Barcaluv, Little Miss Dangerous, Jen-Jen, Anonymous, Ec-nal, Mensan, Captain Harley, Rosie, Sodapop, Keith, Mans man, Philis, Sheriff...

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Can you imagine what life would be like if getting a divorce was no longer an option? Once you married you HAD to stay married for life. I would actually like that. I think too many people get married for the wrong reasons or without understanding who you're marrying or what marriage means. I also think that there would be a way to get a divorce but it wouldn't be easily done or even legally.

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Does your heart ever hurt? Quite frequently. So I try to stop caring so much but I guess that's not in my nature.

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Is there a point in having a relationship with someone who takes "breaks" from it? No. And I second what Wide Awake Phoenix said.

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My strictly indoor cat ran away early this morning! What is some good advice for a panicked cat lover? Put up flyers, walk around the neighborhood and let people know that your cat is missing and leave a number where you can be reached. Good luck.

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Would you pose nude? How much would you want to do so? Never. I mean there is a picture or two...when I was younger and drinking...but I would never pose nude now.

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If you were to look in my closet all my shirts are arranged by color. Is this normal? It's normal to you :). Now if you go into a violent rage if someone accidently puts a black shirt in a group of white shirts....THEN it's not normal.

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When I answer your question, should I kiss your a*s or be honest? Honestly kiss my ass ;).

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Why do Christians have such a hard time admitting that they REALLY don't know if there is a God/Heaven? When someone truly believes in something...anything... in their minds it is as real and true as the wind blowing through your hair. Some people do not 'need' to see something to believe in it, others want tangible proof. Besides, I don't think they are supposed to doubt God or question God.

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Your little sister just got beat up by her boyfriend.....what would you do? I wouldn't have to do anything. My sister and I grew up in a huge Italian family - they're not intimidated by the authorities.

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What product did you purchase in the 1990s that is still working well for you today? CDs, VHS videos and VHS player, vacuum cleaner, stereo, microwave, phone...

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Would you listen to a Sarah Palin radio show? No way. I don't even listen to her when she's on TV - I change the channel or turn it off!

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Should i live a single life avoiding from getting constantly hurt, or keep searching for the woman which will take lots of pain and time to find? That really depends on you. Some people will go through pain and suffering to learn from life and to gain experience - after all, every thing in life is a risk, and everything in life is impermanent. Some people would rather not put the time and effort in some things in life that they don't feel is worth the pain. With that said, I would stop 'searching' for the "right"...

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Would you Please help Congratulate The Sweet And Kind "ROLLIE" for being our newest GURU? Congratulations Rollie!!! Wooohooo, *doing cartwheels*. :D :D :D :D :D :D :D

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Have you ever had money problems? No, I can't have problems with something I don't have. :P

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Are you romantic or practical? Both. Probably more of a romantic though...

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Do two people buying a house have to be married to get the first home buyers tax credit? I don't believe so. At least on the IRS Form 5405 (for First-Time Homebuyer Credit) doesn't ask. The only thing they asked me was for the address of the home qualified for the credit and date of purchase. That's it.

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Our Danish AB'er, Greenfreak, has graduated from Gymnasium today (difficult secondary education) This is quite an accomplishment, will you join me in congratulating him and well wishing for his future? Congratulations, GreenFreak (I'm sorry I'm late)! That's awesome that you made it. Here...since others are sharing a video or two, let me share one of mine.... :D. Have a great one.

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What is your hair like? (Color, texture, length, style) My hair is very thick and long...down to my waist line. I have it cut in long layers and I dye it reddish brown - it's naturally black. Depending on my mood, I style my hair either straight or wavy/curly.

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There are little tiny bumps on my arms that come back every now and again. You cant see them, but i can feel them. What are they and how can i get them to go away? Hello Crayon! Have you found anything that works? My teenage daughter has them (Keratosis Pilaris) and she is so embarrassed by them. I just did a search online and I hear exfoliating and Clearasil Vanishing Cream works. I'm going to have her try the Clearasil. I just wanted to see if you found anything.

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I just discovered that a lot of my personal info can be found on this site: http://www.zabasearch.com (Zaba Search). How can I get my info removed? I heard you can opt out somehow. http://www.zabasearch.com/privacy.php I know this was posted in 2006 and you may have already found a way to remove your information but I figured I'll leave a link anyway.

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What is the difference between a store and a shop? Beats me. All I know is that I used the word shop more often in Europe and the word store more often in America.

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Dating in the Office - Good Or Bad Idea? Great...seemingly... until there's an issue in the relationship. Then, it can get very ugly.

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What are teenagers good at? Finding flaws in themselves or other people. Physical activities. Making up words that adults will not understand. Making parents feel guilty.

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Do you have black hair? Naturally, yes but I dye my hair red.

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Do you know how having anorexia can affect a person's hair? My good friend was (rather IS) anorexic. Her hair thinned out and she looked like she was balding. She would try to make her hair look thicker but you could always see her scalp.

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What do you do with your old clothes you don't wear anymore? I usually donate or take it down to local consignment shops.

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I got fired from my job 4 misconduct. Unemployment says no money cause of this. No one will hire me for that reason. My credit is bare bottom and I'm broke, living with my parents, with $800 in monthly car and college bills. Any advice? Well, you could sell something you own or offer services (lawn care, paint, clean, etc.) in your neighborhood for quick cash while you're looking for an employment. Come up with a realistic plan for your future (short and long term) and let your parents know what your plans are. At least you are able to stay with your parents for now and that's more than some people could have if they...

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If you decide to *cut down* on your food intake to loose weight do you focus on eating less calories or fat? I don't normally focus on calories or fat but if I felt I needed to lose some weight, I focus more on the portion...the serving size... and still eat what I normally eat. I have been the same weight for over 20 years.

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Which would you choose to be mentally - Brilliant & Miserable - or - Slow & Happy? Slow & Happy, definitely! :)

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When you feel you are about to lose control, what do you do to regain control? It depends...but I usually talk myself out of being out of control and saying things (in my head) like: "this is not worth it" or "calm down, (my name), this too shall pass". Sometimes, I just let it go, my worst now would be just yelling and screaming.

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What would you do if you saw someone traffiicing drugs in your neighbourhood? I'm not sure since I cannot see my neighbors with trees and creek bordering our properties and they are far enough away from the road that I'd have to go up their driveway and be standing in their yard to be able to know that they're doing anything illegal. I've lived in a bad part of neighborhood before and I basically minded my own business or moved away (after having...

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What liquor gets you wasted the quickest? For me, every liquor.

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Once you go black, there's no going back, is this true for everyone, or just me? N/A. I've never gone black.

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In your home, How many pictures of "YOU" are there hanging up? One in a collage.

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Why have we become a world that only worries about themselves? (as if no one else matters) Not in my area. In my area, everyone worries about everyone else's business EXCEPT their own. I wish I could live somewhere where people worried about their own business.

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I go out with a guy who has worn diapers by his own choice for several years. He has indicated he is wants to try and stop wearing them but is having difficulty particularly with overnight wetting. What would be the best way to "train" him? LOL, this reminds me of one of the Jerry Springer Show episodes. Give him training pants and reward him every time he uses the toilet.

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I thought you had to pay child support until a child was 21 in new york state. i just read someone else's answer that it is until 18 "unless" the child is still going to school. does anyone know for sure. is it 18 or 21? I believe you have to pay until the child is 21 unless the child is out of the parent's home and financially supports himself, gets married, joins the military, isn't attending school, and/or is disabled.

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Does your dad wear an earring? Are you kidding me? My dad is so old fashioned. I had to hide my (multiple) piercings and tattoos until I moved out of the house.

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When someone you love gives you the cold shoulder, what should you do besides nothing? Tell them how you feel and then ask them if there is anything wrong.

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Did you see MTV's first ever music video broadcast? ("Video Killed the Radio Star" by The Buggles. August 1, 1981) Yes. I was 10 years old, almost 11 :) and living in Colorado Springs, Co. Great times!

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I believe people actually subconsciously like to be offended, because it makes them feel important. Could you explain why you agree or disagree? I don't believe that people 'like' to be offended. People are easily offended when their thinking is different from their feeling or off-centered.

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Why do men in relationships avoid conversation when being addressed about a particular situation, is it something that all men do in order to avoid confrontation if its not what they want to hear I've found that most men do not like to 'argue' with women because most women can be relentless and women are naturally better at articulating their feelings. With that said, a healthy, productive communication works both ways. As much as men need to meet the women half way, women need to understand 'how' to communicate with men - and each men are different in how they...

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Hows your mother doing? I hope well. She's been gone for almost 10 years now. I am hoping she's in a better place.

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What don't you like to wear? Pantyhose! I just don't like the feeling against my legs.

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What do you think of this statement:"Hippies are the reason people abuse pills. Pills are the reason hippies abuse people."-? If I heard that statement, which I never have, I would think that the meaning of the statement is because of the "hippie" generation, their kids (now young adults) abuse pills and hippies "abuse" people because hippies do not believe in popping pills. I don't know. I'm not from that generation but I know quite a few hippies and I don't know any that abuse...

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Do you always shake hands when meeting new people? Most of the time, I do.

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What does it mean when i have really violent thoughts of killing people? You may have a serious illness that can be handled with proper diagnosis and care. Or you may have had some traumatic experience(s) in your life that may have brought about strong emotions (to help you cope with the situation) that you were not taught how to handle so you may not even know when your violent tendencies occur or what triggers it. Whatever the reason, you really need to speak with...

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Do you photoshop or retouch your pictures before posting them up on the internet or sending them to friends? I crop and ususally re-size and maybe, if it needs to be, sharpened.

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Would you scream when you see a giant bug? Yes...and dance around too :).

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Have you ever been rejected? Or even worse, rejected for someone else? Did this person ever try to come back to you? Did you feel like the person you were rejected for was better/better looking than you? I've never been rejected for someone else in a romantic relationship but I have in a familial relationship. You probably meant in a romantic relationship.

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For southern humor, do you prefer Ron White, Jeff Foxworthy, Bill Engval or Larry the Cable Guy? I really like Bill's sense of humor and I could put up with him all day...not to mention his great smile. Ron's cynically funny but at some point, I'd find him annoying. Larry is Larry...I'd be rolling my eyes too much around him - but he is very funny. Jeff is hilarious too. I could deal with Jeff for some length of time.

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Would you ever tell a girl that she was ugly? Only in her behavior.

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What's one gift you do not, give to a mother-in-law you just met? A snake plant? Which is also known as the mother-in-laws' tongue. :)

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Why did God put marijuana on Earth? So we can chill because He knew how tough things were going to be.

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Does anyone else find strippers disgusting and disrespectful to themselves? No, at least you KNOW what they are offering and they're not exactly charging you for something that may or may not happen. LOL, kind of like the insurance company. There are careers out there with impressive (and trusting) 'titles' that may require you to lie to the public, take their money and sell something that is disguised as something you 'need' or something...

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I have been living in Southeast Asia for going on four years. Men often take off their shirts when they feel hot. That's rude for women. In my house men don't take off their shirts unless women want to take off theirs. It's only fair. What do you think? I'm not bothered by shirtless men but if that's the rule in your household, it sounds fair enough.

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What is the best feeling in life? Crisp autumn air with various bright colored leaves beneath my feet and an endless sky above that takes my imagination around the world and beyond.

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Sometimes i am just to lazy to do what? Fold the clothes that I tried on and then changed my mind and then threw on the bed. Put away the dishes.

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Have you ever been with someone you knew wasn't good for you? Too many times.

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I have no problem DRing. It's there to be used, right? That is correct. But the thing is, sometimes, it's nice to know why your questions/answers are being DRed. People seem to have no problem leaving comments when URing

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Wil you get into a relation when you know its not gonna last? Yes, if I enjoy that person's company because you never know. The way I look at it, the relationships that I thought were going to last, didn't and the ones that I thought were going to be fleeting turned permanent.

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Is it true that your genes and traits determine if it is easier for you to become an alcoholic? That's what they say...alcoholism is hereditary.

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Do you think threesomes with married couples cause problems in the marriage In 'my' marriage it would, if I were married. If I were to have a threesome with anyone, I'd rather not be emotionally attached to either of them.

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What, to you, is prayer? Thanking God for all that I have and to help me find the strength to carry on.

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Do you have this site bookmarked/in your favorites? Nope. After all this time, you'd think I would but I actually just type Answer Bag on Google every time.

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I've never had a boyfriend (19) and would really like one so I can experience things like my friends. However, money is tight and a job is hard to find and I do everything at home (taking care of mom, twin sis,etc). Should I find a job before dating? Courtini, don't get a boyfriend just because your friends are. You will get to experience having a boyfriend and it will happen, sometimes, when you're least expecting it.

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Is a 16 years old girl too young to have a boyfriend in your personal opinion? In my opinion, I don't think a 16 year old girl is too young to date (movie, lunch, etc.) and hang out with boys but to have a "boyfriend"? A steady boyfriend isn't something I'd want my daughter to have.

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Have you ever seen kittens, puppies or any other animal being born? I've seen kittens a few times.

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I was shopping the other day and I noticed that there aren't ever many small sizes. Is that because of the fact that alot of people are obese or overweight so they stopped making smaller clothes or just because small sized people are buying them? I've always wondered that myself. I always have to go into "juniors" section or shop where they have smaller sizes. I think certain stores stock what sizes sell the most according their inventory.

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If you found a suitcase stuffed with money that contained drugs, what would you do? I'm not sure, this sort of thing never happens to me. I would definitely keep the money. I'd get rid of the drugs quickly.

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How long is it since you had a date, either with a new person or you took your S/O out. Where did you go? I cannot remember the last time I was out on a date. It's probably been a few years.

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Have you ever had to call the the police? When was the last time? I have never had to call the police.

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Does labelling your school supplies make it less likely someone will steal them? Maybe. But I know some kids will steal with or without a label if they really wanted it.

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How important do you think body language is when communicating with someone? I think it is very important as body language has communicated more accurately with me than verbally. I grew up relying solely on the body language until I learned how to speak English.

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What does the phrase 'a good time' make you think of? Getting into trouble with friends.

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Who, looks easy? Easy? Owen Wilson. Lindsay Lohan.

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What is a healthy lunch? Healthy lunch to me would be anything that quiets the growling in my tummy. I basically feed my body what my body craves. I stop when I feel full.

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Who, looks good enough to eat? David Sylvian.

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When was the last time a cop pulled you over? why? About a year ago for speeding. I was going 75 on a 55 mph zone. I was late for work. She wrote me a ticket for 70 though so I didn't lose my license.

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What are these called? They're like a pen that you can connect to a computer and you draw with it so you can put your drawing in drawing software or to save as an image file? Are you talking about tablets? Wacom makes graphic tablets.

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How come we're spending billions to save corrupt, gambling banking systems and spending no money on the health of people unable to get health insurance? Is America that stupid or hypnotized? Most are brainwashed. Healthcare and banking are only a couple of many important things that are "publicly" discussed.

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Do you DIY or hire someone? Depending on what it is, I mainly take care of everything myself. It is much more inexpensive that way.

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How, do you most like to greet, your lover? A smile, a kiss/hug and some words.

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Your kid is being encouraged to drop out of school to pursue baseball professionally. Your reaction? I agree with High Shaman. I would insist on finishing school.

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Are you close to someone who is an alcoholic? Yes, my sister. But I believe she's in denial.

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How do you bring about an understanding between two when one is solely accustomed to his own point of view and not the other? Well, the problem is, it's not understanding that you both need, it's acceptance. You don't necessarily have to understand someone to accept his point of view. It only becomes an issue when you cannot accept his point of view. You can't change someone's way of thinking unless that someone wants to change it.

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My husband tells me he that he is restless and unhappy in our marriage. What should I do? I still love him so much and want to make this marriage work. Well, it's a good start that he is at least telling you how he feels. You will have to try to find out (or help HIM find out since he may not know yet) what exactly is making him feel restless and unhappy and what you and him could do to change that. What you should do will depend on what he says and what he wants to do.

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What would you do if you were sentenced to life in prison with no possibility of ever being let out? I would definitely plan an escape but in the meantime, I would make the most of my life in prison.

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Why i am so doubtful about my actions? It could be that you're young or you've been living up to other people's expectations and you haven't found your own authentic self yet. Trust your own instincts without thinking of what others may think of you.

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Is the hate only way to show your anger? No, fear, unanticipated events, manipulation, cynicism... can show anger.

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Do you agree with the practice of letting prisoners of major crimes, out early on good behavior & why? Depending on what you mean by "major crimes" as my definition of a crime and your definition may be different...but assuming that major crimes mean what I think, then I do not believe that the 'real' criminals should be released, ever. In fact, I don't believe they should have their rights while in prison.

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Did you know that everything in the Bible is true? No I did not since I wasn't there but my faith is very true!

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What's one diet do you not, recommend? Starvation or anything where you have to take pills. Seriously, I don't believe in dieting, unless there's a medical/health risk involved in NOT dieting.

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Who do you turn to when you need to talk something out? Myself. I think about things and work things out alone since I have never met people that can relate to my situation or my life (upbringing) that people often do not understand or know what to say or do.

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When is a bad time to get drunk? When you're not in a right state of mind (angry, depressed, etc.).

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Why do people feel the need to announce in a comment every time they give someone points? I don't 'announce' it in answers usually because I always give points to every question I answer. In comments, I do so when I completely agree with the answerer and it's like an extra oomph of how much I agree :). So I don't 'announce' every time.

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Do you think you drink to much I think I don't drink enough.

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Do you believe you have to or should share your sexual past with you spouse? It depends on how much information the partner could deal with and if the partner really wish to know. I don't offer information voluntarily.

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How you got to name your pet? I've had 6 cats/kittens in the last 13 years. I currently have 2 male kittens. Kosmo was named after a character in the movie The Fugitive. Tod was named after the movie The Fox and The Hound because he looks like a fox. My two female cats that I had last year was named Neko (means 'cat' in Japanese) and Suki (means 'like' in Japanese). I miss them.

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I lost my debit card and I need to get $13 before 9am. It's midnight now. Who will cash a personal check? Walmart? Or who? Doesn't your bank open before 9 am? Some grocery stores let you write a check over the amount of total. Buy something inexpensive and ask the cashier how much you can write your check over for.

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Who would you like to see working the Sillyville Kissing Booth? I'd have to interview the applicants and see who is the most qualified :D.

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Would you give the Sillyville Paparazzi your address? Is that how you spell address? Maybe...what's in it for me? :P.

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If you could go back in time and tell your s/o at that time one thing what would you tell them and which person would you tell it to? I would tell the father of my kids to never turn his back on them.

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Would you rather "Fork" or "Spoon" Yo? Pass me the fork :).

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Can you read someones vibes over the computer? If so, can you read mine? (or can you tell what they are thinking).. I have with someone I was close to but I cannot feel someone's vibes that I do not know well.

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How many of you believe in pre-marital sex? I practice it.

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What 2 astrological signs go best together? Sagittarius go well together with Leo and Aries.

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Do you get angry easily or can you control your anger? Nope, not anymore. I used to have a bad temper when I was younger though.

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I have so many secrets about some of the Best AB'ers? Who would you like to know about? LOL, tell me and I'll see if they're true. :)

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Would you buy your child a cellphone? I'm talking like under 15 years old. Nope. Both of my kids didn't have a cell until they were old enough to find a job and buy their own and pay for the service, and they did.

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Could there every be a crime-less society? Not with the way things are going. The more laws are passed, the more crimes are committed.

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I am very curious about LSD, and Acid. I wanted to know about your guys trips good and bad? I have done acid years ago when I was in my late teens and I've only tried it serveral times. I always did have a bad trip since I didn't know the facts. I was in a terrible setting of a house full of strangers (a party), my only friend there didn't take acid with me, and I was not mentally comfortable or prepared for what to expect.

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DukeG is ABs newest Guru!!!!would you join me in congratulating him on this achievment?congrats!! Congratulations, DukeGuru :D.

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At what age did you realize that the world is not a friendly place? How? Very early. I can't remember a time when I "didn't" know that the 'world' wasn't a friendly place. How? Terrible things have happened to me repeatedly by different people at a very young age.

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I become really nervous around people: stuttering, laughing too much, acting super happy and outgoing. How do I overcome social phobia? You can try focusing on "listening" to people and learning something about them. It sometimes takes the focus off of paying attention to how you feel. When people are talking to you, don't think about what your response will be or what you should say, just concentrate on what is being said and try smiling and nodding. Also, find out WHY you feel so nervous around people.

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I have a 5 day old son and he hasn't had a good bowl movement since Sunday night. Monday and today he has had only little terds. He is not showing any sign of discomfort. I was just wondering if this was normal for infants this young to go like this. If he is sleeping well, not crying after being fed or changed, and he isn't showing any sign of discomfort, I wouldn't worry about it too much but if you are concerned or he doesn't have a bowel movement in another day or two, call his doctor and ask for advice.

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Do you think most women care about how much money a man has? With me, apparently not. I have been with men that didn't have or make that much...not poor but not rich. I've also been and stayed with men that started off making money to live comfortably and then turned into struggling to make ends meet.

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Well i told my friend the reason i do not want to be her friend i told her all the facts and now she told me i was disrespecting her lmao i dont even ahv her number wow but Wat should i do Well, if that's how she feels then she's entitled to her feelings. You're stepping out of the friendship so it really shouldn't matter that she thinks you're disrespecting her. So you shouldn't do anything but carry on with your life without her.

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According to you which is the the most difficult phase of a child for the parents? For boys, between 15 - 17 year olds. For girls, between 13 - 18 year olds.

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Do your kids tell you that you're a good mom? Yes, once in a while. It's not a daily thing....I wouldn't mind if they told me once a week or so :D.

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I have a brother who abuses me but i don't know if he's all there he's been to juvi before but he still does it there's nothing wrong with his childhood were twins but sometimes he talks in his sleep and he sounds afraid of something should i confront him Abuse you? In what way? I would approach your brother with someone (an adult) that can and will help him or help you understand what is going on with your brother.

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What is something you find it hard to accept about yourself, but deep down you know to be true? I've already done soul-searching, which was the most difficult thing to do and I have painfully looked at who I truly am so I have learned to accept myself completely. Now, I'm in a different phase of my life where I need to change things that I am not comfortable about myself.

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If i was a beggar in the streets and i begged u for money to buy food to eat but instead i used the money you gave me to buy weed, would you be pissed? No I would not be pissed because once I give my money away, it isn't mine anymore, it belongs to the person I gave the money to and he/she can spend it however way he/she wants to. I am giving the money without condition. Besides, if pot is going to help them deal with their day-to-day life of struggles and discomfort, so be it.

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Serious Question: What are some signs that your family are dysfunctional and how do you fix things or get away from those situations. Is it wrong to cut ties if there is no solution? It looks like you already see the signs and that 'something' isn't right with your family. A family is supposed to bring out the best in you and support you in positive, healthy growth (emotionally and psychologically). If having them in your life is toxic to your personal growth or your peace of mind, you should limit your time with them and let them know why you are doing this....

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Is this gold digger talk? Or reasonable? - I worked as a game tester knowing the job would only last 6 months, and my very recent ex-GF (2 yrs together) says I need to get working and show I can one day move in with her before we can get back together. I don't think she's a gold-digger, she's just in a jam and she needs help getting out of it and she doesn't feel like struggling anymore. Personally, I would remain single since partnership/love/relationship is about helping one another. If she wanted you to have a steady job with a steady income, she should support you and help you find that, if that's what you want....

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I am a temp at my job and im getting hired on full time next week. The thing is, i don't have my high school diploma. Do you think they will find out? The only way they would find out is if you did something on the job that goes against their policy and it makes them investigate your application. And then they could fire you for not having a H.S. diploma "IF" that's one of the requirements to work with this company. Not all companies require a H.S. diploma. In the meantime, try to get the diploma so you're not worried...

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If you were to read a bedtime story to a child which book would you choose. Let's say the child is around 8 years old. It could be one from your childhood or a newer one. I would let the child choose the book or two. I used to love reading to my kids.

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What would your mother say to you if she knew what you were doing right now? Nothing about what I'm doing but she'd say plenty about her day, my day, and my sister's life.

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Have you ever shown up to a party you weren't invited to? Yes, many times. :)

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Female,what is it about Jonny Depp that you find so attractive at? He isn't stuck on himself even though he is soooo good-looking. He can be very goofy-silly.

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You're straight and have a gay friend. Do you feel as comfortable undressing in front of a gay friend of the opposite sex as you do undressing in front of a friend of the same sex? Why or why not? I would not feel uncomfortable undressing in front of a gay man because he wouldn't think that I'm coming on to him.

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What are you going to do right after you get off the computer? Not sure...maybe read a book, go to bed or watch The Tonight Show.

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Are you presentable to the public right now? Yes, I believe so.

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How many of you believe as a rule, that no matter how hard they work at it, some people just CANNOT work together? It can seem that way but people do have the ability to work things out and make the most with their differences.

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When sitting at your computer with a beverage, which side do you place it? On the left. I am right-handed and I use my right-hand often so there's a chance I'll spill it so I put it on the left.

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Is your room cluttered with a bunch of stuff that you don't need? Mine is!=) Yes and I can't bring myself to get rid of them.

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What's the one thing you would say to a suicidal person to try and convince them to spare their own life? I guess it would depend on how close I am to the suicidal person. I would try to find out what hurts and talk about it until that person feels better. I would stay with that person until the suicidal feeling went away.

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What color house do you live in? It's a brick house.

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What would a cheating partner have to do to get you back? Most likely nothing. I cannot be with a person I can't trust.

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When was the last time you looked at your Birth Certificate? I have never seen my birth certificate. I don't know if I can obtain one.

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Is your children or pets better behaved? My children are pretty well behaved...and so are my cats. Since my kids do not attack my plants, I suppose my kids are better behaved.

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How can you keep your husband satisfied all the time? It is not possible to keep someone satisfied all the time. You will exhaust yourself trying and he will eventually lose respect for the relationship and/or you.

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Do girls watch porn? Of course we do. Some enjoy porn more than others. Some don't really care for it at all but there are more women that watch porn than people realize.

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If your stepdaughter came up to you and asked you about her period and you were her stepfather how would you take this and would it embarrass you? Well, I know that men are wired a bit differently than women so what may embarrass a man may not embarrass a woman. If the step-daughter is comfortable enough to ask her step-father, he should answer honestly and if he doesn't know the answer, he should help her find the answer. Maybe the step-father could ask one of his female relatives for help.

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Did you have coffee today? Yes...several cups. I started drinking coffee 5 years ago and I am hooked.

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I just ended a 13 yrs relationship.. I am having second thoughts even though I know this is for the best.. How do I keep from just giving in? Try very hard not to have any contact with your ex. Keep busy with your time and understand that this change will take some time to get used to. Sometimes, it's not the partner you miss but the idea of having a partner.

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Do or did u have to wear school uniforms? Yes, in Japan and in England.

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Do you know people who delight in ruining other people's relationships? Yes. It's very ugly.

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What was the last video you watched on You Tube? Pat Benatar - Love Is A Battlefield.

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Have you ever been with a One Minute Man?..and can you tell us his first name? LOL, actually, I have. I was with him for over 5 years. It was a very unsatisfying experience for me as he didn't really care about pleasuring me. His first name? It was Ken.

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I'm going to treatment for alcoholism on Tuesday. I'll be gone for a month. What do you think? I'm very proud of you, Freedom :). This is the best thing you can do for yourself and you deserve a better quality of life.

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What kind of people become haters? People that don't understand something (ignorance) and fear the unknown.

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What frustrates you most about love? The risk you take getting hurt.

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Do you have a hobby that turned into a money making business? Photography.

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Is Obama handsome? I think he is.

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When you answer a question, are you nice enough to give points to the others who answered well, and the person asking the question? Do you wait to get points before giving them? I give points to all the questions I answer...sometimes, I just give points to the ones I don't answer, if I think they're good questions.

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You ever see the show the facts of life? I used to when I was in my teens.

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Do you respond to smart a$$ comments made on your answers here? Sometimes. Sometimes, I don't know if a person is being a smartass.

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They say " Only the good die young" Do you believe this is true? In my world, yes, this seems to be true. The only good, pure person I knew in my life passed away at age 50 and that's way too young.

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Do you have stretch marks? (Don't worry, I do too). I was lucky enough to not have them after two children. My mother didn't either.

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My 18 yr old daughter met a guy in a chat room from out of state and in the military and she now calls him her boyfriend though they haven't met face to face she wants to fly to visit him what should I do? Offer to go with her - and promise not to be in her way.

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Girls who lie,bitch ,start rumours about you giving you a bad name i hate them .what your opinion My opinion of women like that is they are the one with problems and they do not know how else to make themselves feel better about themselves. It's diversion, so people do not look at them for their flaws instead, they get people to focus on you and your flaws - true or untrue, it doesn't matter to them.

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What motivates people to put their hand on the knee of a new acquaintance while they are engaged in their initial conversation? I have done this several times and for me, it just means that I either understand that person or that I want them to hear/understand what I am trying to say.

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Whats the weirdest compliment or insult you have ever recieved? "Wow, you don't look Asian. At least not full-blooded" said to me as a compliment - which I didn't take it as a compliment.

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If you were a banana, would you split? Nope, I'd be afloat in a banana boat reading all the poems I wrote. Bwahahaha...sorry. My silly moment :P.

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We just got invited to a wedding where you have to pay $100 a head to attend. They want the check with the RSVP. Do we still get them a gift, cash or otherwise? Truthfully I`ve never heard of this before. Holy cow, I have never heard of this before and I've "done" (photography) many, many weddings. That's crazy. I would not attend. If they can't afford to get married, they should wait just like everyone else or have a smaller, more intimate wedding that they "can" afford. And who's to say that their marriage will last? I've also done many, many 2nd,...

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How can I get over something that happend over a yr ago? I will be writing the whole story in an answer... That's horrible of them to do. *HUGS*. Please try to move on from this experience and know that it was just a lesson in life about what type of people are out there and who you call friends. Know that the issues are with them and not you and you can't control how other people treat(ed) you but you can control how you handle their treatment. So stop empowering them by keeping this pain...

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What is something you're parents told you never to do, yet did themselves? My parents didn't tell me "never" to do something. They treated me more like a little adult...friend maybe?

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A friend of mine just got blackmailed by her boyfriend, he said that if she talks to me at all then he will break up with her. I'm a guy, there is absolutely nothing between me and my friend. What do I do? There is nothing you can do. This is between your friend and her boyfriend. She is mature enough to 'be' in a relationship, she should be mature enough to know if the guy is compatible with her and her needs. If she isn't, she will learn the hard way, just like everyone else. You may have to step out of her life until she realizes what she truly wants for her life. Being her...

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If you meet someone online can you have real feelings for that person without ever meeting them in person? Yes, I believe so.

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Do you have Toilet Paper, Kleenex and a garbage in your bathroom right now? Not Kleenex.

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Which one do you like better? Jeff Daniels (actor) or Jack Daniels (whiskey) Jeff Daniels. I don't do Jack.

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I have been given the opportunity to meet my mom who i havent seen since i was 3 yrs. I said no because i can only remember bad things about her. And also because i would only be able to meet her in a hospital. Have i done the right thing? I have the opportunity to meet my father that I have not seen since I was 3 years old..so I have no memory of him EXCEPT one and it's not a very pleasant memory. Since he is in another country, I do not have the funds to see him yet but I am planning on it eventually. If you feel that your decision is the right one for you, for now, then it is. I think Schmee gave you a pretty good advice :).

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Does any of you girls love when men are egoistic in any way? Self-centered men are not anyone I'd purposely fall in love with. It only makes them appear immature.

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What does one do when they have become very closed, and while they have people who they are very close to around, does not feel they are able to open themself up to anyone? I've been like that since my mother passed away almost 10 years ago. I've learned that people hurt me the more I open myself up and at first, I had a difficult time not opening myself up to someone. Each time I poured my heart out to someone that I thought I trusted, they either treated me differently from then on or started discussing my personal issues with others. I have been...

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Does any one cook from scratch any more? If so what do you cook? Gyoza, cookies, sauce.

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How do i find out what kind of houseplant i have Post pictures or you can do a search online by its physical description.

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Who comes to mind when I say Western movies? Clint Eastwood.

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What are some good makeup techniques? Emphasize on one feature on your face at a time. If you want your lips to stand out, put on lipstick that will compliment your lips but go easy on the eyes and on the cheeks. If you want your eyes to stand out, go crazy with the eyeshadows, mascara, and eye liner but go neutral with lips and cheeks.

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Do you judge your children's s/o's before you've even met them? Why or why not? No, I cannot judge a person but I do judge a person's actions and I do not know how a person is without meeting that person.

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What should women do if her husband tell her to do abortion A husband? I wouldn't marry a man that didn't share the same goals that I have, in life. I would want the child so it would be unlikely that I would marry someone who didn't.

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Do you sleep all night long or wake up over & over again? I rarely sleep through the night...and it's only been this way for a couple of years.

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Would you be able to survive for a week in a rainforest?(your on your own and you brought no food or drink) I don't think so...I'd be afraid of what type of animals/people/poisonous plants exist in a rainforest that is their territory. I'm out of my element. Especially if I have 'nothing' on me to protect me.

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Justanothernobody is now a sage. Who would like to join me at a party in his honour? Party time for JustAnotherNobody :) *Cherry goes through her closet to look for AB Party Outfit*. Congratulations!!! :D

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Do you consider smoking to be cool and sexy or a bad, unattractive habit? I don't think it's cool or sexy or bad or unattractive.

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Is patience needed to raise a child? It would help tremendously. And sometimes, you will "learn" to be patient and if you don't, you're going to have a frustrating parental experience.

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Would you consider it cheating if your BF/GF received a lap dance from a stripper? No, it's not cheating and it wouldn't be the end of us but I'd be uncomfortable with it and I would express that. What he does with this information would tell me whether he respects me or not.

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When having big family dinners do you have everyone bring a dish or do you do all the cooking yourself? I try to have everyone bring a dish but I end up cooking everything by myself. It gets very expensive. I don't know what is up with my family and friends!!!

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Do you like it when people comment on your answers? Why or why not? Yes. And I wish they would leave a comment when giving negative points too.

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Ladies: Do women really judge other women by what they wear? Do you think differently about a woman dressed in blue jeans rather than a dress? Would Mrs. Cleaver be admired or downed by today's women? I personally do not judge other women by the way they are dressed but it seems younger women do (my sister does, all the time). Younger women tend to pay more attention to the women that are appealing or dressed to get attention - and then their opinions are expressed openly. Mrs. Cleaver would be talked about behind her back - not because she's wearing a dress but because of the type of a...

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What would you do if your s/o only had one sexual fantasy, to have a threesome with you and another person of your gender? Sometimes, fantasy is much better than the reality. Part of being mature is to enjoy fantasizing without needing to experience it. I do not like the idea of a threesome with a man that I am serious with, however, I will try to stimulate his mind by sharing his fantasy and perhaps talking about having an imaginary threesome and describe in details what is being done. Or I'd watch a movie...

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Are you wearing any black clothes at the moment? Nope, nothing black at the moment.

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If your lover punches you square in the face out of anger, do you punch them back? Yes I would. I used to be with an abuser and I tend to get pissed off if a man hits me. I used to pick up something instead of using my own hands.

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Im 17 and my mom wont let me go anywhere even if it's just down the street.. i tell her where im going and wont let me go. can she legally do this at age 17? That's odd. I would talk to your mother about this really soon. Does she have a trust issue with you or even herself? Does she not trust her own parenting skills which makes her feel that she didn't raise a trusting child? Is she controlling? Or is she so consumed with fear of the world outside of her home that she is preventing you from growing up and learning things about life on...

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Where's all the money gone Not in my pocket.

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From your own personal experiences with babies, do you know why they cry? Because they do not know any other way to communicate.

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After two days of knowing someone, would you be ready to commit to them and be in a serious relationship if they were already ready? No way. That's too soon.

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How my people like the Denver Broncos I love the Broncos!!! I used to live in Colorado.

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Why did you come back to answerbag.com? To get answers!!! I stayed to see what type of people are out there.

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What do you have as your screen saver and desktop? My Picture Slideshow of my 12 weeks old male cats. They are so AWESOME :D.

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If everyone was just like you, what would be your reaction? I thought they were! I'm starting to find out that they are not.

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What FOOD do you like to eat, but only ONCE a year? Pecan pies...pies in general.

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Are you a sucker the minute a salesman enters the picture, or do you stand your ground? I stand my ground. Unless it's makeup or clothes or something like that :P.

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If you've been past highschool and stuff, then how was it? was it like the time of your life or was it just wasting time in ur life It was a learning experience for me...and not about Math, English, or anything that the school wanted to teach me. More of a social, developmental stuff.

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Have you ever been seduced by a total stranger & did you ever see them again? Yes, several times. Some of them, I see once in a while. The other, I never see (happened in another country).

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I had windows xp but my computer got infected and I had to erase and reload windows but my cd is broken I still have the product ke And to add to Justanothernobody's answer, it is a good idea for you to back up your drivers onto a CD. If that's too late to do, you can search for the drivers and put them on a CD, you will need them.

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Does anybody know what is a good site that is a safe way to journal? https://www.blogger.com/start http://www.livejournal.com/ http://www.my-diary.org/ http://wordpress.org/

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What are your views on breast feeding....... I think it's a great way to bond with the baby. I never breast fed either of my kids. I think it's a personal choice.

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I am a fifteen year old girl looking for a babysitting job. I am having a hard time findig a job because most job sites require users to be atleast sixteen to eighteen years old. How can I find a good babysitting position in my area? My 15 year old daughter is working at a pizza shop. She started working there a few months ago. She actually loves the job. She's on the phone taking orders, on the cash register, she helps make subs, sweep floors/wipe tables, and occasionally does the dishes. I would apply at small, locally owned shops/stores (mom and pop shops are great). She was also looking for babysitting...

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How old were you, and them, when you first asked someone on a date? I have never asked anyone out on a date before. But I was asked out on a "date" when I was about 12 years old. A 13 year old boy asked me out to see a movie.

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What was the first thought that came into your head this morning? What a weird dream I just had.

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Men, or women who like women: Which do you find sexier - women with long, flowing hair, or short, spunky hair? I tend to like long, flowing hair but there are some women out there that look very sexy in short hair.

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What kind of communicator are you?(take the quiz) You Communicate Passionately You speak from the heart. You can't separate your feelings from what you're saying, even in a professional context. You tend to speak dramatically, with lots of passion and emotion. It's easy for you to get swept up in what you're saying. You like to connect with people early on so that you can personalize what you are saying to them. ...

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Why would a guy lie about cheating on his girlfriend? Because he is not mature enough to handle the consequences. He is also not mature enough to be in a committed, monogamous, relationship.

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What are your thoughts on pornography? I enjoy it from time to time. I don't think it's anything to make a huge deal over. Of course, in many other countries, sex/nudity isn't treated as a huge deal. I've found that in America there are a lot of conservative people, more so than any other countries that I have lived in or visited.

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What do you think of, when you see an attractive girl in a tight miniskirt? It depends on how she's carrying herself. My thoughts would vary from "how cute", "she's got the legs for it" to "wow, she's an attention seeker".

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If u were lucky enough to meet a "person" who knows the answer to everything....and u had the chance to ask ONLY one qns...then what would it be? I wouldn't consider myself lucky to meet a person that has answers to everything. I like finding things out on my own and I like meeting people who are still learning. So my answer would be nothing. I would ask about nothing.

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Should foreigners adopt American values and culture? LOL, what are American values and culture? In all the years I've been to different countries, I have never seen so many diversity in values and culture as I have in America.

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Do you think people like me convicted of a crime should be made join the army instead of getting jail time? No, I do not think it's a great idea to join the army instead of going to jail if you committed a crime. You could still commit a crime in another country and there are innocent people in other countries.

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What would you rate these ladies??! (pic included) what do you think there personalities are? how they look ect thanks http://i41.tinypic.com/2n8bvc0.jpg 1st girl w/o hat: She looks fun-loving, caring, and probably unique in her own way or like being different in a small way. 2nd girl w/ pink hat: How she presents herself to the world is probably very different from how she truly feels about herself. 3rd girl w/ red hat: She appears competitive and sensitive. All three girls are very cute.

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Why cant people just let others believe what they want to believe and not harrass and insult them about it??? ex: saying that people who believe in God are dumb and have no brain.... isnt that a little un-called for? anyone agree? Because this is the age of "mind everyone's business". I grew up hearing my parents tell me over and over to mind my own business. If something was "different" about another person/household, my parents may have discussed it in the house privately with each other but they never went out publicly and say something to the person or anyone else. And it's not just...

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Can tidyness affect a humans way of thinking, and if so, how? It shouldn't but because we've been taught to be "visual", it does.

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What do you think of this dress as a bridesmaid dress? That's beautiful and flattering to many different figures.

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Is it True that American Men don't know how to please a Woman? Not true. Every man (American or otherwise) just needs to learn how to listen/communicate (not just verbal communication either) with women because every single woman has different needs/wants.

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What foreign language would you want to learn? Any-all.

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Knowing God is omnipresent and omnipotent, yet why do we sin? I think it's because we're human. The way I see it, it's whether you feel guilt and remorse (penance) 'afterwards' that makes you a good person or not.

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Do you use your middle name or middle initial in your signature? Nope, because I do not have a middle name. I always wanted one though...

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Women:What has been the hardest thing for you to shop for? Bras.

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Your kid lies to you. How do you handle it? Do you make excuses for him/her, tell yourself "everyone does it" and shrug your shoulders? Do you accept telling lies as a normal part of being human so you excuse it? Or do you expect your kid to be truthful? My kids rarely lie to me because I know them enough to know when they are lying. I addressed their lies when they were very young. Allowing children to lie causes them to be unaccountable and irresponsible.

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Do you think that music artists today have less talent than artists from the past? I don't see "artists" anymore, I see entertainers. They are talented as entertainers...but not as artists.

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Have you ever accommodated a friend for a few days while they needed a place to stay & how'd that go? Yes and a few days turned into a couple of weeks. He was thrown out of his Aunt's house. He was drinking in my home, eating everything, rearranging my furniture, broke my lawn mower, accused me of taking his money, puked in my yard in broad day light, and screamed in the middle of the night. This was a friend that I would've done anything for and at the time, I didn't realize he...

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Where was the last envelope you addressed sent to? It was in a bundle for family and friends. I had my son's graduation party last night.

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Men/Women: Have you ever been sexist? I suppose I have, although I don't really think of it as being sexist, I think of it as the way I believe things should be. Maybe it's the way I was raised.

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Just heard Michael Jackson Died of a heart attack. What are your thoughts? Very sad. I remember him when I was a teenager and at the height of his solo career. My mother used to love him. We'd watch his videos all the time. RIP, Michael Jackson.

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What will get your attention more: showing my cleavage, my legs, my stomach, or my back? I know you guys don't understand why I'm asking or even if I'm asking personally for me without much details but I'm just asking a simple question. I'm old enough to know and handle negative or unwanted attention. I do appreciate just a simple answer for my simple question. Thank you :D. ~ CHERRY

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Why do women go crazy about a man who can play an instrument? Why not go crazy about a man who can mow the lawn? No, not true! I go crazy over a man who can slide across the floor on his knees with a top hat in his hand.

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For women.....do you believe in washing your hair only a few times a week? or every day? I have to wash my hair at least 6 times a week. I give it a rest once or twice a week. My hair just doesn't look great unless I wash it.

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Would you take a bullet to save your parents? Well, you didn't say anything about it being fatal. Hmmmm, *putting on a thinking cap*. My mother is not around so that leaves my step-dad...I doubt if I would, given a choice.

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What do you smell like? What do you think I smell like? :) I smell like CK 1. I've been wearing CK for years...and you? I don't know, it's Saturday and maybe you're on your way to chilling with friends... Hmmm, maybe you smell like soap?

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How well do you socialize with others? Whether on this site or off of it. Pretty darn well. Too well sometimes especially in person. I tend to attract some that I really didn't have any intention of attracting and then it becomes a pain in the butt. Of course, I'll deal with an issue like this than having it any other way. I love socializing!!! :D

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How would you explain betrayal to a child? As honestly as possible...and I agree totally with "Go Know Thyself". Definitely >>Carefully and with as many age appropriate words as possible<<

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Who intimidated you more when you were a child (or even now) your mother or your father? Intimidated me? The one that I avoided pissing off the most was my mother. My father had the temper and he yelled and screamed a lot and his yells were thunderous but my mother...boy, even though she was only 4'11" tall, she could scare me and my sister because she'd smack us without us seeing it coming but she would hardly say anything and her discipline was very affective. With...

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What is your favorite bread for most sandwiches? White, whole wheat, multi-grain, rye, other? Oh PUMPERNICKEL!!! Okay...I just like saying that word but seriously, I'd choose pumpernickel :P.

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How would you great your enemy when you saw her/him passing by? Well, I don't really have any enemies but there are people that I do avoid. If they are unavoidable, I would simply smile and say hello. I don't expect to get along or like everyone in my life and I don't expect to be liked by everyone but it doesn't mean I have to lose who I am, even for a moment. I am generally very friendly and open :) so that's who I am going to be.

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Have ever experienced a dream in which you were killed? What was it like? Did you feel anything? Yes once. I was shot to death and fell to the ground but I didn't feel the pain. I woke up soon after that.

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Why are teenagers sometimes so cruel to each other? Teenagers have always been insensitive to others and well, pretty much self-centered and insecure and those are very natural process of growing up. The problem is when the teenagers' parents/guardians do not teach them HOW to handle their negative feelings and also how to identify them. It seems so acceptable to blame everyone else but themselves that it's blowing up in other...

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Has it ever rained this much in June in the northeast to the best of your memory? I do not remember having this much rain or being this cold in June in Upstate, NY. It feels like April.

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I know he cares, but i need more from him, i need reassurance. I'm just not sure how to ask for it without seeming needy... How do you know he cares? And why isn't that enough for you? The only time I would feel that you're being needy and you probably should work on reassuring yourself is if he is trying his best to show you that he cares and he has given you no reason to think otherwise.

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Would I be considered a loser to you if I told you I had been turned down by over 100 women for dates? I wouldn't think that you're a loser but I would wonder what is up with you.

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Where do you go for your hair cut? I actually cut my own hair. It's sooo long right now that I can bring the hair on the back of my head to the front and that hair reaches down to my belly-button.

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One of my sons is 15 and is at camp. He has just tried his first beer ever. When asked if he enjoyed it, he said no. He knows that we disapprove of drinking. How would you approach this situation? I would talk with him about it without putting him on the defense so that he will keep his line of communication open with you. Tell him why you disapprove and voice your understanding of alcohol and its effects and possible consequences (from EXPERIENCE) and how peer pressure works. Even though you don't approve of drinking, let him know that if he is ever in trouble, to not be afraid to...

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If you've loved and lost, would you love again with the same fervour? Gee, I don't know if I could handle it again...it hurts so much and it can be so draining. If I do, that person has to be worth it.

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Is your avatar a picture of you? Yes, I always do.

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What does your desktop look like? Post a picture! It's my backyard.

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PIck Your Favorite Boys' Name-- Ryan, James, William, Bennett, Parker, Cody, Colby, Haden, Michael, Landon, Logan, Isaac, Quinton, Devon, Evan, Shannon*yes It can be aboys' name*, Zachary, Andrew, Timothy, Cyrus, Jordan, Demitri, Julian, or Kaden? Out of those? I'd have to go with Demitri.

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Do you think painted toenails are sexy, cute, ugly, or do you think nothing of them? I think it depends on how their feet are. I definitely like toes painted but if their feet or shape of their toes aren't really attractive, I think they should stick with not so noticeable colors (neutrals and lights). If they are pretty, then paint them red or anything that makes them stand out. I tend to think the shape/condition of the feet is what makes them sexy...not so much the nail...

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What's the first thing you think of when you meet an adult who had been adopted as an infant? I met such a person recently. She doesn't know neither of her biological parents and I was fascinated.

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Are you a show-off?take the quiz. You're happy with who you are, and you don't need other people's affirmations to prove it. You don't really like excess attention, and you prefer to blend in with the crowd. You are modest and humble. You don't make a big fuss out of your accomplishments. You prefer to fly under the radar. The people who matter most will like you no matter what.

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Are you going to heaven or hell?take the quiz. You're so saintly you're practically an angel, and there's no other place for you than heaven. You are always concerned with doing the right thing. You consider being a good person a joy... not a burden. You're not perfect, and you don't expect anyone else to be. You are ethical without being sanctimonious about it. You are happy with yourself and the decisions...

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How is your concentration? Take this quick 2 minute test. 15 out of 120.

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Why is it so difficult to be alone? We born alone we will die alone, why need people in between and be unhappy over it? Is this a stupit question? I've been wondering this myself. I haven't had much of an option when it came to whether I choose to be alone or not. I tend to love being around people and I was (around people), for the most part (of my life) but sometime down the road, I realized none of them really "cared" about me or the relationships were very disposable. The relationships that I have had (even with my...

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Do you thinking people with addiction problems know that they have a problem? I think some do and some don't.

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My friend is always depressed and no matter i say i can never seen to give her the right answers or cheer her. What else can i say to help get through her tough times? Don't look for the right answer to cheer her up. You don't always have to say something to feel you're helping. Just be there and listen to her or quietly share some time with her, touch her, rub her arm or her back every once in a while to let her know that She's not alone...take her for a walk in a park. Exercise and being outdoors helps the mind.

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When you died,would you care enough to donor your organs... I really would not care what happens to my body after I pass away.

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Do you know anyone who is such a self centered, self righteous judgemental person who will one day have a Rude awakening when they get to Heaven (assuming there is one)?A person who hides behind God while they break every law in the Bible. I know several people like that...

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Do you guys feel that I try to force my opinon on people? I don't mean to! Have we met? I don't know you enough :/

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Who's the best ever front man for a band? James Hetfield.

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My parents smoke. They said they quit, but they can't fool me. I smell smoke all downstairs, and they think I don't know. Worse yet, they said they'd kick me out of the house if they caught me smoking weed. What should I do about this hypocrisy? Nothing. You live in your "parents'" home. They can do just about anything they want, unless you help pay the rent, pay for food, do your own laundry and pay for other expenses to run a home.

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How do you handle pain? Painfully.

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What was the worse thing u ever did to a guy/girl for cheating on u? I just walked away, after crying and feeling really angry/hurt. I don't believe in revenge, to me, it's a wasted energy.

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Curing a crooked cock LOL, sorry, I didn't know this was a problem. There are places within a woman that you could get to that a unbent ones cannot.

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Girls, Which one do you like? Flowers/Chocolates/Perfumes/Teddy's? I don't eat chocolates and I don't want a teddy bear since I'm not 5 years old. I would appreciate any flowers or perfume of my choice.

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As a teenager, what would you say was your #1 complaint about your parents? The problem I had with them was their strict-ness. I was to be home by 5pm...no later, for dinner. I couldn't stay out past 9pm, even on the weekends.

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If the world was coming to an end and there would be only one man and one woman left to start the human race over and you were either that one man or woman who would you pick to be your counterpart if you could not pick ur S/O? Oh boy, I don't know if I'd want to put my body through all the changes of having babies. I'd have to pick another woman to be my partner/friend so that we can take turns getting pregnant through artificial insemination so there wouldn't be any incentual acts.

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Which do you prefer to give or receive, Why? I prefer receiving since I don't receive often; it is a nice feeling. But I also like giving...and I'm more comfortable with or used to giving.

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Do you consider Swingers to be Cheaters. Do you think a person who has been a swinger can ever be faithful to one partner. (yes i am a swinger) It's not my cup of tea.

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Do you believe in giving second chances? Absolutely. Especially if there's hope in possible improvement.

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If you had to disconnect one service, which would it be: Television or Internet? Definitely the TV. I could go a month without watching TV.

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Are you scared to be home alone? Yes, most of the time when it's dark outside. I don't shower or run a vacuum or anything that makes me not hear things when I'm home alone at night. I usually call people just so that I don't feel alone.

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When you were young, did you ever catch your parents snooping through your things? No, I never caught them but I know that they read my diary because I found it open instead of closed in between the mattresses.

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What are some good reasons a teenager should get/have a cell phone? There are many pros to teenagers having a cell phone. Both of my teenagers have one. * They can call when they're in a jam * You can call them when you can't locate them or if you need something * When something unexpected happens (change of plan), it is very convenient to just call them or they call you - no time (or gas) wasted My daughter (15 years old) went to a...

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How do you change your image when you're an adult? For example, if people have always found you comical and fun, how can you get them to take you seriously and treat you as an equal? First of all, you need to change for you so that your change is authentic and you are comfortable with it - and once you are, you will not be bothered by those that don't believe you're any different. They'll know. Secondly, it will take time for people to accept the change but they will eventually if you are consistent in who you are now. Besides, you "can" be...

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How do u make out with a guy for the first time...my boyfriend wants to make out with me and i dont exactly know how? Let him teach you how. He may feel great knowing to be the first :).

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Annie Lennox or Tracy Chapman? I prefer Annie Lennox. She can give me the goosebumps.

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How high is your fence? I don't have a fence. My property is surrounded with trees and I can barely see my neighbors.

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Which do Americans spend more money on: sports or porn? I'm not sure. I would assume porn since there are men and women, adults and teens that are interested in porn.

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What is the worst memory of High School you can remember? I have too many...but I'll choose the mildest. I had a best guy friend that I trusted and loved talking with. One day, he went around the whole school and spread a rumor about us being sexually involved. I confronted him at lunch in front of school and he was honest enough to admit to it. I punched him in the nose and he bled all over the snow covered lawn. I got into trouble with the...

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On a first date should you go for a drink or a meal? I will take both :).

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Do you live by a busy road? I actually do. Out front of my house is a very busy road but outback of my house is like wilderness...trees, wild animals/birds, creek, pond, hills....it's like night and day. I sit out front and it is noisy as heck and then I sit out back and it's birds chirping, water running, animals scurring through leaves, very tranquil...I love it.

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"we have eyes but we cannot see" . how to write an essay on this topic? If it were me, I would write about people and how they are blinded by power, money, ego, image, and all insignificant things in life. It reminds me of a parent I know that sees her son unhappy because he watches her busying herself with her life and has no time for her son because she works, goes out, pays her bills, and does her chores. At the end of the day, she's too exhausted to spend...

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What would you think if your sister always referred to your mother as 'my mother' instead of 'our mother'? It's funny because that's how I used to refer to my mother when I was talking with my little sister and with my step-dad. And my reason was because I didn't talk with my sister or my step-dad frequently, which there was a time when I felt like they were strangers, and I wasn't used to talking about my mother without saying "my" mother. It was definitely nothing...

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Whats the worst thing about owning an animal? The smell!

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How do you pass the time in a waiting room? I usually read or write.

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What does it mean in a relationship if your GF wants to make love to you again and again, day after day, and every night too, and wants to sleep with you all the time? If she's young, it usually means she is insecure and/or she didn't or doesn't have a healthy male role model (relationship with father/father figure). If she's in her late twenties to mid thirties, it could be that she's finally reached her sexual peak. At any age, she could have a sexual addiction problem. It's really difficult to say without knowing your...

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What are some good forum websites for computers? I go to: http://www.wilderssecurity.com/ http://forums.majorgeeks.com/ http://www.cybertechhelp.com/forums/index.php

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I've been working for the same employer for almost 37 years. However, they still expect the same performance and production from me as when I was 20. I just can't keep it up any more. What should I do? Can you put in for a promotion or a transfer to different department?

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Are you sexy I've been told so...and I suppose at times, I do feel sexy but there are times when I don't.

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I am beginning to think WHY are all you people here on Answerbag anyways? Why did I get stuck in here a week ago? I must have no life! How about you? Having no life? Have you been out there? Some days, I would rather converse with people of AB than people in "Real Life". I at least learn something from AB.

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Mensan is now a sage. Who would like to join me at a party in his honour? Congratulations, Mensan, you made it!!! You are a SAGE *doing cartwheels* Ooop There It Is...Ooop There It Is....You DA Man :D.

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If you were a SAHM & your hubby reminded you that "I'm the sole source of income around here," would you be hurt? I take that remark as a dig that I don't do anything "important," but just stay home. I'm disabled, so it's not like I stay home by choice. Start billing him for all that you do for him and around the house. And the fact is, these would be the actual expenses if you were working outside the home or if he didn't have you around. (Date of Service) Cook - pick a price that he would have to pay if he had to go to a restaurant/diner for a meal + tip. Housekeeping - $7.15 per hour + tip. Daycare/Babysitting (if you...

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What is the best way of responding if you are falsely accused of doing something? I don't know the "best way", but how I would respond is by making a confused/shock face and say "What? Are you high?" And then shake my head and walk away...but after taking several steps, I would turn back around and make that same confused/shock face and let out a sarcastic laugh.

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How well would you manage in a really rough neighborhood? I've lived in suburbs, rural, city, island, town, village and also in "the hood" where drug addicts and alcoholics (with rage) surrounded me (I was a teenager, didn't have a say in being there). I definitely can survive but it's definitely not the way I'd want to live again. For me, it was all about proving myself. They don't really care about kindness and...

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His ex wants him back and I dont know if i should stay wih him. We have said I love you, meet eachother's friends and family and are also trying to take the relationship slow. He lives with his ex and she knows we are dating. I don't know if I should stay If that were me, I would leave just so that I can see things more clearly. Sometimes, things are blurry when you're directly involved. Another reason I would leave is for the fact that he is still living with his ex.

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"Familiarity breeds contempt" what does this mean to you? That when you are doing the same thing over and over, you will eventually find reasons to dislike what you are doing.

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Do you like Static X? I used to like them.

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Which country have you spent most your life in? The U.S. of A. I've traveled a lot and lived in a few countries.

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What do you like to do with cherries? I love cherries :). I usually like to eat them.

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HEY GUESS WHAT??? lovebettafish is now a MAESTRO!!!!!! Lets all join in and tell her CoNgRaTuLaTiOnS!!!!! EXCELLENT lovebettafish!!!!! WoooHooo *jumping up and down and clapping hands*. That is awesome! Congratulations :D.

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What do women believe is the most important characteristic when it comes to finding a man? I would just like a man who I can talk with openly and honestly. I would also like a man who likes to have a great time and not worry about image and what others may think.

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How often do you like to have sex? and is it with the same partner? If it were up to me, I'd love to have sex daily with someone I love, of course.

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What do you think about my name and avatar? I like the avatar..I get a sense of loss but not in a lonely way. Your name? It's an interesting name.

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Do you know anyone who likes writing poetry? I like writing poetry. I like writing, in general. The only other person I know that likes writing poetry is my 17 y/o son.

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Does anybody else like Ross (the Intern) Matthews's segments on the Tonight Show with Jay Leno? OH God, he makes me pee my pants.

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My mother says that only low-class people with no better options join the armed forces out of desperation. Is this a commonly held opinion? I don't believe it's this way for most but I do know quite a few who did join to escape one thing or another.

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Have you ever gotten really good advice from your kids? Absolutely. I learn from them as much as they learn from me.

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How do you know when your teenage child is lying (I overheard a conversation on the bus where a girl lied where she was said she was at a movie but was at a party drinking alcohol)? I am now scared when my kids grow older. Get to know who they are...LISTEN to them not only with your ears but also with your eyes...what I mean is that hear what they are saying but also pay attention to their behaviors. You 'will' know when they do lie and if you have trust and give them some room to make mistakes in life, they won't betray the trust. Keep the communication line open, always. When they do things that...

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How can i tell if a girl is overly friendly I'm not understanding the question...or at least I don't think I am. The way to tell if a girl is overly friendly is when she does/says everything to please the other person or make the person feel good, instead of being real. And if she is overly friendly to everyone else, then that's all it is...nothing more.

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How do you make money without you getting an job? Sell things that you own or acquire other people's junk and fix or clean them and then sell them. But that can become like having a job. The only way you can make money without getting a job is to find a partner with money. It's not the most respectful way to live but I know a lot of people who do this.

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Me + you =_________? Ton of fun! I bet we could have an interesting time no matter what we decide to do :D.

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What does your avatar say about you? Do you change it and if so, does the theme repeat itself? I don't really know what my avatar says about me. It's just me in Manhattan, NY...after a rough night of drinking wearing my crazy, swirly, diamond shaped sunglasses :D.

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Do you like dirty jeans? Dirty? No. Old? or worn out? Yes!!

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Does your cat play fetch? If so, did you teach it or did it just happen to bring a toy back to you after you threw it? I had a male cat last year (he went missing and never returned *I miss him*) that loved to play fetch. He just one day started bringing back a wadded up paper that I threw (not for the cat) and drop it on my lap or at my feet. It's funny because he used to take paper money and run so he could play with it in the basement, alone.

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Simple question, Why? Just because...sometimes, with certain things, it's better not to know.

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If you were on an airplane, the engines stopped, and everyone thought they were going to die. So everyone started masturbating as a last wishes sort of a thing, would you join them? LMAO...where the hell...? How does your mind...? No, I wouldn't join them but I may record them on video just in case I survive. No one would believe me otherwise.

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Whos your least favorite and favorite ABer? My favorite and least favorite varies from week to week or month to month. I don't have any one ABer that I like or dislike. I may like one ABer's point of view on certain subjects and disagree on other subjects.

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I need to lose 30 pounds in a month or two i dont care about being healthy, im in my young teens and am desperate! i am already drinking LOTS of water! please!please!PLEASE HELP ME! 30 lbs. in a month or so...well, all you have to do is change your eating habits and your physical activity. When you have a meal, try eating 1/2 of what is served (and try to chew your food well). Like don't eat a whole plate of pasta...eat half and save the rest for next meal or next day. Always eat breakfast and stop eating after 7 or 8 pm. Instead of taking a short cut, take the long...

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Where were you on Sept. 11 when the 2001 terrorist attacks were commited? I was at work at a University working with a lot of students that came up from NYC to study. I was in total confusion then shock. I left work early that day.

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Who Come First Mom Or Girlfriend?... It depends on how serious the relationship is with the girlfriend and why you are having to choose between them. It also depends on the situation.

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My bf still affected with his ex gf ,and at 1st we became frends totally known each others past ,and bcme inlove to ech other but suddenly sum1 txtd him and said i had another,my bf was jealous and said nver trust agen and we broke up,i know he loves me Hello Paige. If your (ex) boyfriend isn't going to trust you because of what someone else said, he never trusted you to begin with. I am assuming that he probably doesn't trust himself either. If you really want to pursue this relationship, you're going to have to get him to work on his insecurities. Until then, he will not develop any trust for anyone and soon you will find...