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What does "packing" mean? My sister thinks I'm very naive & that the people that I think are very nice people where I go, she said 90% of them r "packing". She said Whatever I do DON'T ask them. I want to but I don't know what it means. I have heard of that as drugs....but Im from the midwest and we have our own lingo.

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If your friend told you they had IBS (irritable bowl syndrome) what would your reaction be? I would ask them what their diet was like and help them look for a natural cure... Natural Cures dot com says "One of the primary causes of IBS, as well as other gastrointestinal disorders, is a diet that is high in commercially processed foods, refined carbohydrates, and unhealthy fats, and which contains an abundance of chemical additives and preservatives while lacking adequate...

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Generally speaking, what's the weather like in Minnesota? Im in saint paul, today is "nice" 34 degrees :) Although there is a winter storm warning for tomorrow...more snow of course. This is what we have to look forward to for the coming summer :) April - Average high= 57 degrees May - Average high= 70 degrees June - Average high= 79 degrees July - Average high= 83 degrees Aug - Average high= 80 degrees Sept - Average high= 71...

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Is marriage ate ealry age is good or bad,EX 18 or 19 yeah I think it depends on the people getting married as well, I got married at 20 and everyone was in an up roar! We have shocked them all and now have older siblings and friends asking us what we did since we have such a great marriage..I wouldn't change it.

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Have you ever witnessed magic? I don't mean David Copperfield magic either. I have witnessed a Miracle where I actually watched someone get healed, but never REAL magic.

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What is your motto in life? I have three Picked up the first one in 1997 - "if you don't do it you cant regret it" 1999- "The only that's ever constant is Change" 2007- "Keep your eyes fixed on the Horizon, its the only thing that's constant"

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Who over the age of 21 did not drink on New Years Eve? tell me why or why not. (Happy New Year AB) I didnt, but I havent had a drink since I was 19 :)

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What do you regard as the lowest depth of misery? having nothing to put your hope in.

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Would you turn you back on your unruly child in order to show them "tough love"? Is taking him out to dinner an option (just gets you two out of the house)lets him see you are setting time away from the rest of the world just for him. My mom also was a single parent of five kids, so I cant imagine its easy... if you can get him in a place where he is willing to talk to you, ask him what it is you have done wrong...why does he feel you have not done anything to help him. ...

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My son is 10 weeks old and i have noticed that every baby i have seen that is his age is twice his size. he was born a week past my due date so he wasnt preemie. any ideas? second hand smoke could also be a factor, if you were around ppl that smoked during your pregnancy that could have something to do with it. My sister-in law lived in an apartment where the second hand smoke came up from the apt. below..the doc. told her this was the reason her son was so small.

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How do you discipline a 2 year old? time out... or a tap on the bottom. For every year old its on min. so for two let them sit in time out for that long. If they try to get up hold them in their place...This method has work for me when I have been consistent with it (I was a nanny for several years)

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I have a 2 year old who refuses to listen and gets into alot of trouble. this morning he climbed over his gate that we put in his doorway and got into makeup and dvds. any advice? is this normal for him to be acting this way? does he have ADHD? He does not have ADHD, I was a nanny for years and yes this is very common. Please do not be fooled like so many others and slap ADD, ADHD on a child. Each child differs obviously...some children are just very calm naturally....and some are very hyper...as he gets older it could reflect in his personality more. If he is refusing to listen you can always put him in time out (one min. for...

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Are you what you wanted to be as a child, or do you think you will reach that goal? no, Im a Technology Analyst! I never knew they existed... I wanted to be a mom with 12 kids and raise horses...I live in the City and have no plans for kids... :)

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Would you turn you back on your unruly child in order to show them "tough love"? never...people who with hold love from others are being selfish..since they are hurt they want the other person to feel that same hurt. My mother did this to me growing up and it killed me...I am now an adult and have worked through those issues but this is NOT the way to deal with an unruly child... The child is more than likely acting out because of a past issue...ie. parents divorced,...

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Do you open the door when it's Jehovah's Witnesses? If you do, do you just reject them or do you talk to them? I open the door and listen to what they have to say...then I tell them all about my belief's and try to convert them... hey its give and take right?

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What (if anything) do you collect? Barbies....I love them :)

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Would you rather date a 6' tall chubby man or a 5'5'' tall slim man (both have great personalities!)? tall

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Women: how would you react if your s/o called you the four letter C word? I would ask him what I did that he should think so highly of me! haha. I would feel like he didn’t value me..I would feel degraded but this is something my now husband and I talked about before we got married. We agreed on no name calling, no shut-up and no physical fighting. We really wanted to get to a place where we didn’t have to have big blow out fights to get things...

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Woman, would you forgive your spouse for cheating? What about if he cheated with a neighbor. Sorry It is saying error on page when I reply to your comment..so this is what I think.... Leaving them would not constitute un-forgiveness as far as I am concerned. To me they are two diff. things. Forgiveness is:the act of excusing a mistake or offense,The act of forgiving; pardon. I will elaborate on the Pardon part )to release (a person) from liability for an offense.) You can...

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How do you trust someone who has consistently broken that trust? I think the key word is "consistently" which means the action keeps repeating itself. This is when you take a look at the situation and realize the person is not ever going to change, and understanding that you cannot change them. For the sake of having a healthy mindset when it comes to relationships it would be unwise to force yourself to trust someone like that.

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Woman, would you forgive your spouse for cheating? What about if he cheated with a neighbor. I would forgive them just because through forgiveness I would be freeing myself from the bitterness etc for the rest of my life but I do not believe I would ever take them back.

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Why are all guys all the same? They aren't! I married a good one and there is no way Ill ever let him out of my sight. haha.....simply amazing! I reflected on myself though in my earlier years of dating and tried to figure out why I always went for jerks...for me I was insecure and didn't love myself enough to think I deserved better. Through figuring that out I also realized that being with a normal guy was...

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I just found out my boyfriend cheated on me 4 times (1 of them was my best friend) & he didnt tell me about any of them -I found out from evryone else. Im in love with him & dont want to let him go but hes betrayed me and hurt me. How do I deal with this? I think you should reflect on why you are willing to put up with someone like that, while you might still love him those actions don't say that he loves you. If you really love someone you respect them by keeping yourself only for them...not three or four other people. Also are your friends really your friends if they are willing to sleep with your b/f. Even if he is undeniably hot any...

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Ladies: Why would you give a guy a fake phone number? Wouldn't it be more kind and respectful to just politely refuse to give it out? I would only give him a fake one if he was in front of his friends and he seemed like a very nice guy (just not my type) I wouldn't want to have him get shot down in front of them. That way he can say I was a flake when they ask if he called me. Other wise if he comes up and is a gentle men about it and does it in private I usually would have (when I was single) said something like you...

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If you been with someone for a while and the only reason you are staying with them is because you need their half of the rent would you tell them? I WOULD tell him....after the lease is up. If you NEED it weather its right or wrong to use someone you would be shooting yourself in the foot if you told him before that lease was up...especially if its only your name on it. Even if both your names are on there imagine having to live with him after you have hurt him...could get really bad.

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What was the oddest gift you ever received? My Ex/Bf of a year and a half gave me a shoe box for Valentines day with a note on the inside lid that said "the candy hearts because I heart you, the hugs and kisses cuz thats what I like to give you and a Lottery Ticket because I hope to get lucky" And all that candy was laying the box with a lottery ticket. This is after he didnt get me anything for my birthday. Lets just say...

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If you could get rid of one of your bad habits what would it be? I would talk softer...I am just a very excited person all around.

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Do you have any weird habits you like to tell us about? My toast always has to be cut in half when I eat it and my grilled cheese I prefer cut diagonally - tastes better that way.

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What are some personal habits that are important to you? chewing with my mouth closed, brushing my teeth in the AM, when I get home from work and when I go to bed. I can NOT sleep without washing my face, I MUST floss! I always use a napkin to open the Bathroom door when I am in public and I think thats about it...man I look like I have OCD..but I dont :)

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Do you annoy people with some of your habits? yes, I talk loud or when I get excited my tone goes a little higher. My husband use to always look at me odd and ask me why I was yelling and I would laugh and tell him I was just excited...he gets it now after four years ;) Also people get annoyed when my brother and I get together..we are both fast talkers and thinkers so we are going a mile a min. and often times talking over...

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What habits do you find the most irritating? when people are constantly clearing their throat! I work next to someone who does it all day long and it actually scares me sometimes shes loud..it cathces me off gaurd. My Mother In Law also does it to no end when you are on the phone with her...we now talk over email :)

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Do i really mean nothing on this earth? .

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How many hours sleep do you get most nights? atleast 7! But I dont have kids :)

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What do you do when you are emotinally in pain?How do you deal with it? I try to think about all the things that I am going to do, and how my life is only going to get better if I make good choices... I once heard a guy who was in the Navy talk about the first few weeks he was on his ship. Him and the other guys on board were sea sick and he didn't know how he was going to get through the next few years. When the Caption noticed how ill he was and that it...

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Sometimes, I think I believe that everyone has some bisexual in them,how far does anyone agree with this? No.I am heterosexual also.

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What is an unquestionable deal breaker for you in a relationship? Cheating - Im married and this is the one thing that would end it for me....he says the same.

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I was recently going through my guys emails and it has fling.com and the likes. Im married to him, he never mentioned that stuff to me. Should i be worried? I manage his email since internet has been shut off for a week at his FOB. just ask him about it, if he knows that you are in his email then you would think if he was hiding something he would have made sure you werent in there...reguardless just talk to him about it and see what his response is...

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We are making out our wills and I'm just taking a poll: If you AND your "spouse" die, who will take care of your children? Friends OR Family? I need to make better friends because there is no one in my family fit....

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Have you ever given someone a kiss that they will remember for the rest of their life? Or have you received one like that? Do tell. Yes, when my EX and I broke up (On good terms)he came over to just talk about everything and try to make sense of it all. We still cared about one another but knew that it would never lead to marriage for whatever reason. I guess the feelings werent deep enough in that way. So before he left, he was standing in the door way looking at me and said "Please let me just kiss you one last...

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Why does a broken heart hurt so much? because when you were with that person, you gave a piece of your heart to them...You cant take it back...just be more cautious the next relationship you get into. NEVER SETTLE!!!

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My ex says we need to have a serious talk about us, plans a date and then changes his mind about the talk but still wants me to come over and drink??? says we can talk another time when we are sober...how do i know if he really wants me back? my guess, he wants to sleep with you....

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It bothers me when my girlfriend grinds with other guys in a club, she thinks what's okay is exactly what I think is wrong.I tell her fine I'll go grind with other girls,and it doesnt bother her because she thinks its okay. Why is she like this? as an ex-club girl myself I can tell you it has nothing to do with anything other than she more than likely doesn't want to be tied down with you and also LOVES the attention she's getting from other guys! Its sort of a high knowing that your options are open and that other guys are into you...if she doesn't want you there with her...I think you might want to revisit if...

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Is it ok to request a certain dollar amount in a card shower for a milestone birthday, i.e. 21 years? No, I think that would be considered tacky...and not to mention if you did ppl would more than likely avoid gift giving to you in the years to come. If you are really wanting something specific its always best to drop little hints here and there and just hope that someone picks up on it.

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Do you get excited for your birthday? Always! My husband is the best gift giver...the first few months leading up to my birthday he will make sure he listens to what Im saying I want..then he usually gets it ahead of time and hides it somewhere in the house...I always dig for it although I have yet to find his secret hiding spot! I usually wake up early early early on my Birthday and ask him if its time for my gift yet....he...

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What is your feeling about getting briefs or undies for a birthday present? I don't mind, although I think its only appropriate at this age for my Husband to be the one as the gift giver... My brother who's the same age as my Husband bought my husband boxer breifs the very first Christmas we were dating. My brother opened the pack and started two piles...followed by "one for me, one for you" until he had his own piles of undies stacked up....I...

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When is your birthday, and how to you celebrate it? My Birthday is the 4th of July, we usually get together with everyone for a BBQ. I hate fireworks so I havent seen them in probably three years :)

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Can you still fit into your wedding dress? yup :)

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Where can I find used wedding dresses? biddingbride.com - its like an ebay but without all the fees... Good luck!

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What kind of shoes are best for Beach wedding? flip flops...or NO SHOES :)

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They say people look for someone that reminds them of their parent to marry? Did you? I would marry a Marine if that was the case. nope, although I have heard that people tend to marry people like their mother/father. my dad was abusive to my mom and I thank the good Lord I did not marry someone like that...my husband is the most gentle, compassionate, loving person I have ever met. But had I had a great dad I probably would have subconsciously looked for those characteristics in a husband.

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Is there an equation or formula that links the length of a marriage to the decreasing frequency of sex within that marriage? never heard of a formula but we didnt live together before we were married and we also didnt sleep together...we wanted to wait until we were married. We have been married three years and have not noticed a change in desire....sex should be the overflow of your love for each other so I think making sure the other person is always feeling loved/respected is a big part...... no matter whats...

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I dont like the idea of long dating and long engagment.There is just something so monotinous about dating someone for 5 years before engagment and then being engaged for another 3. Am I out of line to want an engagment ring within the 1.5 years of dating? I agree that you should express this with the person you are planning to date...that if things seem to be lining up during the dating period that this is how you feel...if they are agree move forward with dating... Our singles group leader from church has a kind of general time line for healthy relationships..it was something like this (although may not always be the case) know the person...

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What is your opinion of women who keep their maiden name when they get married? I think the man will feel rejected in a sense....

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What are your opinions on living together before marriage? Why? google divorce rate among people who live together before marriage..you may be surprised by what you find...get the facts first! I divorce rate is higher...

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A christian couple (evenly yoked) feel they are married before God but have not gone before a court house to be married. Can they have sex before this moment when they have already vowed to God and not a judge yet that they are married? The bible says that you must abide by the laws of the land so I say that you cant be married before God since the only way to be married is well...legally. Its sounds like you are just wanting to have sex...so if you are asking is it ok for Christians to have sex before marriage thats another thing...if you cant wait any longer.....hop a plane to vegas :) My husband and I waited until we...

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My wife's argument techniques make my feelings seem invalid. people at work say this is abusive and i should get out of the marriage but shes pregnant with kid #2. how do i deal with this? i feel like i cant ever do anything right anymore. Love is natural for a woman to give but respect is not...and for a man to feel respect its like his "air hose". For a man respect is natural to give but giving his wife love is something that he in turn has to learn....this goes both ways with the women learning to respect their husbands. It means more to a man (in most cases) for a wife to say "I respect you, I honor you as...

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My girlfriend broke up with me 2 weeks ago. She says she still has feelings for me but she can't take the drama right now. I told her I was done with the drama but she says she just wants to be friends. Any suggestions on how to get her back Yeah just give her space, I know when I decided to take a break as senior in highschool the guy I had dated was sending flowers and calling, and calling and writing notes etc. and it got to the point where I felt so trapped that I tried to avoid him all together! But when you deceide to take a break and the guy respects your choice and gets on with his life it sometimes stirs feelings again....

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I am 8 days late. I took three home pregnancy test all of them were negative, I don’t have any symptoms of pregnancy but my boobs are very sore. Should I take one more test? How would I know for sure if I am or not? If you have had a change in your diet, started working out or increased your work out routine and/or had a higher level of stress lately this could be reason for being late. I have also heard of women who started new jobs and are around different women that they have completely skipped a mo. and seem to be in sink with the other women in their office...strange. I would take another...

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My husband always gets angry and blames me for everything, when we get into an argument, he builds a wall and says he's done and wants a divorce. he says I don't get it and am self centered and takes no responsibility in the marriage Something that I learned about this past year... People who are hurt will with-hold love to punish the other person. I have no idea what your specific situation is but usually when someone acts out by throwing up a wall there is more than just whats being said going on inside of them. More times than not hurt comes out as anger! Could be a past hurt that has left an open wound on their...

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Any advice on maximising side and roundhouse kicks for beginers.legs get sore evan after stretching. aside for the stretching something that helps muscles tremendously is drinking water!!! Eating bananas can also help, this will get you much needed Potassium - something that's important for muscle contraction. Calcium and magnesium also play a role in keeping muscles in good shape. I would recommend that you try drinking during work-outs. This will help replace your electrolytes. Do...

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How would you celebrate your 41st wedding anniversay with very little money? I think putting together a photo album of times together would be a neat thing to give...or possibly have a friend help put together! Then you can spend sometime over coffee reminiscing!

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Are you annoyed or appreciative when someone gives you unsolicited advice? I would have to say I am usually amused as well...For the most part I will just smile and nod. Thats not to say that I havent grabbed little things here and there that have been helpful from people offering free advice :)

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What is the best advice youve ever been given? "If you don't do it you cant ever regret it, people don't tell you NOT to do things because they want you missing out on all the fun!" - Thanks Uncle Dave...saved me from sooooo much in my teen years! "The only thing that's ever constant is change, tomorrow will never be another today" - My Big Brother after telling him about a rough situation I was in...

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Never interrupt when you are being flattered. --Wise advice? something my mom always told me...if someone is giving you praise....just say "Thank You"....

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Where do you get your best advice from? I like Dr.Henry Cloud...

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What is a great wedding gift? I am going to a wedding in 2 months and need the perfect gift. I have know this couple for 8 years and they are really important to me. I have heard of people being able to get their hands on the brides bouquet and having if "free-dried" you could see if that's a possibility. Could check to see if you have any local vendors. Here is a link that might help.. http://www.hellerandreid.com/cgi-local/SoftCart.100.exe/bridal/catalog.html?E+scstore

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I am 17 and my boyfriend proposed. I luv him but shuld i wait to get married? I got engaged at 19 and married at 20 and my marriage has been wonderful! Thats not to say that even at 19 I was still figuring out who I was! There were times that I wondered if I got married too early in those first two years. When you look around and all your friends are single you feel like you don't know who you are....a lot of my single friends quit calling me because well I was a...

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I have a friend who is getting married to a horrible guy. I don't approve! We are close friends. Should I say something or just try to be happy for her? I would say if his flaws are that obvious to you they are to her as well. A lot of ppl think since the person is in the relationship they cant see what that person is really like but I would venture to say that she is in denial could be for several reasons, maybe she thinks that's all she can get, might be use to being with jerks etc. but as a friend I would just try to be there for her,...

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When an engagement ends, who gets the ring? I would say since its a symbol of promise for marriage if the proposal ends I say that they guy should get it back....although it can be sweet revenge to keep it if he was a flake :)

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Where did you go for your honeymoon? The Beach in MEXICO! ~Colleen peepmywedding.com

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Do you believe in interracial marriage? Heck yes! But I am from the midwest....seems to be more acceptable here than the south from what Ive seen. ~Colleen peepmywedding.com/Colleen

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How much did you pay for your wedding dress? 100.00 on Ebay! ~Colleen peepmywedding.com/Colleen

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What did you do with your wedding dress? Its in a suit case, was too big to hang in the closet so I stuffed it into a suit case when we were moving...still havent taken it out! ~Colleen peepmywedding.com/Colleen

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Did anything strange happen at your wedding? My maid of honor and myself tried to pick up the wedding cake and move it onto a cake stand that my mother gave me, we got to the church late so we didn't make it in time for the bakery to put it on there for me. Unaware that the top tier was no held on but resting on the top of the first tier the top of the cake went sliding and we both grabbed it. We stood there holding the cake for...

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What flowers made up your wedding bouqet? This is a photo of myself and my brother. My flowers were Pink Roses and Purple HydrangiasThis is a photo of myself and my brother. My flowers were Pink Roses and Purple Hydrangea's

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Do you always wear your wedding ring? Only when I am in public. Everyday when I get home I take my ring off and leave it on the kitchen counter. I have no idea why I do this..haha. I left it in the bathroom at work one time and the first two nights after we got in engaged I took it off in my sleep and woke up with it poking me in the back! ~Colleen peepmywedding.com/Colleen

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How much did your wedding cost? Was married in 2005, My now Father In Law married us, our license was ($25.00) (we took premarital classes) in MN that gets you a discount. We were married at the church that we were members of (this too will usually get you a discount, We used the chapel for free. The church cook did the food for us. 50 people and an appetizer buffet it all cost $600.00,The head cook actually worked for The...

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Is it tacky to only serve appetizers at an informal wedding reception? We had a formal wedding and we did an appetizer buffet. People still tell us how much they loved the food to this day! I was that bride that didn't really eat much so I don't even remember what we served! I think if the food is good people don't care.

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What colour co-ordinates with yellow for a wedding day? how about a light pink? If you are into pink :)

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3 words to describe your wedding day loving every minuet!

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Who should pick out the engagement ring? I think it depends on the girl. Some guys take pride in being able to pick out the ring themselves, on the other hand my husband really wanted to have me pick out the ring I wanted so that wearing it the rest of my life wasnt a drag (if I didnt care for it) so I think it just depends. You can always go together...look at different rings so that he gets an idea of what you want. Colleen ...

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What were your wedding colors? My dress was white and my brides maids wore black. Flowers were purple Hydrangea's and Bright pink roses. I was going for a Black and Pink theme but it ended up being deep purple,pink and black. Everyone commented on how rich it looked...I absolutely LOVED how the photos turned out!!! ~Colleen peepmywedding.com/Colleen

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