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My Friend Had An Abortion AND I Think Its Absolutely Selfish ! Agreed.

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CNN article suggests atheists and agnostics know more about religion than Christians. Do you feel this is the case? It depends on who you're talking about. I have found that many atheists, or even most have a great deal of mis-impressions about God and religion, based on their own individual experience.

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Are there any Christian homosexuals? How does it interfere with your beliefs when your religion calls you an abomination? There are so-called Christians who do everything you can think of that the Bible prohibits. Claiming to be a Christian and actually being a Christian aren't the same.

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God did not create the universe and the "Big Bang" was an inevitable consequence of the laws of physics, says Stephen Hawking. Possible? Hawking also recently said that humans should move to outer space. Since his retirement, he's become the nutty professor.

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Entertainment Tonight (or one of those) reported that this TV season more gay male characters will making out on screen. Thoughts? More people can deal with women making out but most men at least find two men to be disgusting. Shows that rely on male audiences will lose viewers if they force men to see two men making out. Disgusting.

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What are your views on homosexuality? They want to put what where?

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a guy come out of no were came up to you gave you a compliment,and asked 4 phone number so you could be friends and meant it,would you do it Absolutely not.

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what is so bad about being gay? im not gay but i do not see what is so bad about it They wanna put what where?

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Do you think it is appropriate for a father to spank his daughter or should children only be spanked by those of the same sex Or course. It's not THAT kind of spanking.

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Should kids be forced to do anything they don't want to do? No, that would be abusive.

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What wouldnt you do for $20,000,000? Anything involving another man or that would land me in jail.

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Do you believe that homosexuality is a gene that is in their DNA passed on by parents? If it's not in their DNA, they aren't "born that way."

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Why do Democrats deny the existence of God? Like President Obama?

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Why do some people find it so difficult to understand why someone could follow the rule of "Do no harm" yet not be religious? Or indeed, be specifically anti-religious? Because they very frequently conclude that doing things such as killing unborn humans is doing "no harm."

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Is science just another religion? Anything can be a religion.

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Are atheists-anti-God or anti-religion or anti-spiritual? I've met a lot of atheists and very few are not anti-God and anti-religion. A few consider themselves spiritual in certain mystical ways.

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Babies are born with no beliefs at all. Atheism is the belief that there is no God. So, why do [some] atheists claim that everyone is born an atheist? Based on the answers, complete ignorance = atheism. I wouldn't go thaat far, but they seem to be insistent.

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Since Virginia is having "Confederate History" month should the northern states have "We Kicked the Confederates Ass Month"? That's the reason they have Confederate History month. You only see evidence of it in the more southern and western parts of the state. In the DC area, where I have relatives, you never hear about that kind of stuff.

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Why is it polygamist religions in America can hide behind freedom of religion, but a Muslim who commits an honor killing are prosecuted? When you say America, maybe you mean South America? Here in the US, neither polygamy or honor killing is legal.

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Do you believe that if someone goes to church regularly, it means they are probably a good person? That's impossible to conclusively answer since there is no agreed-upon definition for "good person." But, regular church-goers don't die as young as non-churchgoers.

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Should heterosexual soldiers be forced to bunk & bathe with known homosexuals if "Don't Ask Don't Tell" is repealed? This is very simple. Just like no woman should be forced to live and shower with a bunch of men, no man should be forced to sleep and shower with a man who claims to have had sex or wants to have sex with another man. That would be a violation of their privacy and rights, just like it would be to have co-ed facilities.

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Why does it seem that Atheists are expected to back up their beliefs with proof that God doesn't exist? Doesn't it seem more logical that the burden of proof rest with the believers? Atheists are also believers since they claim that everything was created without an intelligent creator.

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What if marriage was defined as two people who love each other? Would that be so bad? Why should it be limited to two? That discrimination right there. It should be two or more.

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Are you against bigamy? Nope. It's a personal choice people should have.

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Was the World Created in Six Days? Day means period. So, no not six (6) 24 hour days.

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Should CBS run the Tim Tebow Super Bowl ad for Focus on the Family? I can''t think of one good reason why not. The SB is the best place to air it, since that audience will know who Tim Tebow is.

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Why do you think God does or does not exist? I have seen no evidence that the universe and life came about without intelligence.

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Besides gods what other elements do you believe to be supernatural (non-existent)? There really is not such thing as something that is truly supernatural. People call supernatural what they don't understand. Once it gets figured out, its no longer considered supernatural.

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Polygamy marriages should be allowed. Yes or No? Why should people's personal lives be legislated when the consenting adults all agree to the arrangement?

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Christians take their moral code from the Bible. Where to Atheists look to for moral guidance? Do Atheists believe in morals? No, atheists don't believe in any fixed standard of morality. Nothing is absolutely right or absolutely wrong.

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I love the new AB so far do you? Just a yes or no so I can take a count. Hate it. It's even more confusing and far from intuitive. Web interfaces should be intuitive.

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Can we all give the new answerbag a 72 hour learning period before we pass long term judgement? Will you agree to this? I'll give it that long before I give up and call it quits. Hate it.

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Can one be pro-female but anti-feminist? Yes. That describes most people, male and female.

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My husband died almost a year ago. Since his death I have dreamed of him holding me, kissing me and making love to me. People think I am crazy when I say this. Sometimes I dream of him looking out a window, am crazy or what? How could that possibly be crazy? Death can't stop love. My youngest daughter died 8 years ago and I dream of her often and write her letters. It gives me a chance to say things I want to say to her. You're not crazy at all, just still in love.

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If we kill the innocent Afghanistan civilians there, will it keep us safe from religious extremists here? My guess is that they aren't trying to kill "innocent Afghanistan civilians." They say the target is the ones who train or enable the training of 9-11 type terrorists bent on using Afghanistan as a launching pad to kill your "infidel" American kids.

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What is the the meaning of the word "broad" in reference to women? Is there anything wrong with a man referring to women as broads? It's a reference to women's hip to waist to chest ratio, as compared to men's. Women have "broad" hips, as compared to men. Speaking as a man, from a visual perspective, it's a good thing.

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Would You Rather Be Married or Happy? Happy.

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When did you last cry and why? The death of one of my children. Something you never get over.

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Should it be a requirement to view a sonogram and listen to the heartbeat before getting an abortion? Why or why not? I don't see any harm in having the mother see her child before she decides.

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Pro choicers: do you oppose fetal homicide laws? Do you agree or disagree that a an embryo or fetus can be murdered, as the law says? There is an obvious conflict between abortion and fetal homicide laws. If a fetus can be murdered, pro choicers are fighting for the legal right to kill innocent human beings.

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Christians, do you ever envy the atheist their guilt free life as compared to your guilt filled and sinful life ? *yes i know you have forgiveness if you repent, but if is a big word* Thanks for asking an honest question. This validates the point I've made several times. The things we might feel guilt about doing, atheists have no guilt about practicing. Atheists get to create their own personal morality, so they don't need to feel guilt.

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True or False, You prefer brunettes instead of blondes? True.

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What's more disturbing, suicide or abortion? Or, do neither bother you? We all have the right to end our own lives whenever we want. But, to take someone else's life without their clear and expressed desire for you to kill them is morally bankrupt.

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Fathers have the responsibility to prepare to write 216 checks? Should they have any rights? He should be able to terminate his rights and responsibilities as a father. If he doesn't want to be a father, if he can't afford a child, if it's a bad time in his life or career, he should have he reproductive right to opt out of fatherhood.

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This is a difficult question: If a baby survives a late-term abortion, meaning it is alive outside of the womb, should the doctor be allowed to finish the abortion? Or should the baby be allowed to live? I seriously would like to hear thoughts on this... I'm sure those compassionate, baby-loving abortion doctors leave those tiny little boys and girls on a cold, steel table and hope for the best.

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It's my opinion that atheism is a type of religion? It's a belief in nothing. Probably a stronger than the Christian or Jewish religion, since they are steadfast in their non-belief. It's not a religion but it is a faith. Atheism is faith that there is no intelligent creator in existence.

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Do you believe that there is a God who created the universe? If not, why not? Yes.

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How can a loving God send people to Hell? A loving God wouldn't. Which is why He doesn't.

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Can Morality Exist Without God? What is morality? If not God, who determines what it is and what it isn't? If morality is whatever I say it is, if I can make it as I see fit, sure it can exist without God or anyone else.

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Is it ever appropriate to scratch when no-one is looking? Always. Except sometimes they can see you but you can't see them.

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If a male co-worker leaves the toilet seat up would it be inappropriate to take a P-Touch and make a label that reads "REMEMBER TO PUT DOWN" and affix it on the underside of the seat? No, bathrooms are self-service. If you want it down, put it down yourself. You can order your husband around but the guys at work don't care what your toilet seat rules are.

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Does it upset or annoy you when a beggar asks you for money? No, I explain that I don't carry cash, which is usually true.

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Do you enjoy "family friendly" environments or do you avoid them like the plague? :) I like them when we have the kids, but when it's just the two of us, I prefer peace and quiet. I have much more tolerance for screaming kids when a couple of them are mine.

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If someone you love tells you they had an abortion without talking to you, what do you do? Immediately and permanently end the relationship without any discussion, even if we were married with children.

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Do you think people who give abortions should be murdered? It would have been best if they had been aborted.

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The Flood reduced the human gene pool to 8 closely related individuals and all other land animals to just 2 - why don't we all show signs of severe inbreeding like poodles and German shepherds do? The same reason that it's legal to marry and reproduce with first cousins. As the population expanded, more distantly related alternatives would have become available.

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I'm pro abortion. Tell me why that is wrong? It's the same thing as pro-choice. Pro-choice is just more politically correct. Roe v Wade means it's perfectly legal to be pro-abortion.

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Should men have the choice to terminate their parental rights and responsibilities prior to week 24? As long as abortion is legal, men should have the same protection of their reproductive rights as women.

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Why is it that many people seem to beleive that Atheists are not capable of being moral people? Do you think Atheists can be moral? Why or why not? Because if there's something they want to do, it goes on the "moral" list. If it's something they don't like and would never do anyway, it ends up on the "immoral" list.

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Is abortion "anti-child"? The thinking is: kill the kid before s/he becomes even more of a problem. That's about as anti-child as it gets.

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Are all feminists ugly? There are exceptions to everything.

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I am 17 and I think I am almost 14 weeks pregnant my symptoms js started showing up and I've been having regular periods my doctor said it was a cysts.I'm having a ultrasound tomorrow. Should I get an abortion or is it too late You can get an abortion up to 40 weeks if you can convince 2 doctor that you would be depressed if you had to give birth. It's called late term abortion, and it's legal if you can get two doctors to agree to do it.   Or, you can get an abortion up to 24 weeks, no questions asked.

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Is a cross hanging around your neck or in your home considered an idol? Whether it's considered one or not, it is.

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Atheist if you have a child who is dying,how do you comfort them?This is an honest question. Good question. The kid's been taught all his/her life that there is no future hope for people who die. How would it be possible to comfort a dying child having taught him/her that?

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Ladies: did you keep your madien name? Answering for my wife. No, but her maiden name and mine start with the same letter. So, she did keep her initials. My mother uses her maiden name as her middle name, with no hyphen.

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Why are people mistaking all femmeinst as anti-male? It's no mistake. Feminists are known for being anti-male because they are.

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To the beloved atheists: is nothing sacred? The term sacred does not apply to an atheist, since it relates to worship. So, no, nothing is sacred.

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Why is abortion viewed as "wrong" in our society? Cause it's killing somebody. I would hope that killing an innocent human is always considered wrong by somebody at least.

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My best friend calls me fat, ugly, stupid, and a loser. Is that verbal abuse? With friends like that, who needs enemies? Yes, it is verbal abuse, but you seem willing to take it.

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Could you forgive a partner who raped you? No, I would file criminal charges and divorce her.

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Why has the bible stopped being added on? What has been written is sufficient.

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Have you ever thought religion was detrimental to society? Anything involving humans is detrimental.

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A Community College Professor was fired for refusing to teach "Creationism" in his western civ class. Specifically he was fired after he told his students that the biblical story of Adam and Eve should not be literally interpreted. Your thoughts? You've made this story up or are not telling all the facts. Anybody who's been to college knows that evolution, creation, or interpretation of the book of Genesis are not part of the Western civilization class curriculum. So, this professor, on his own, introduced interpretation of the Bible, turning his class into a religious (or anti-religious) course. If religion is supposed to...

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When I asked, "I am God prove me wrong" why did the most violent response (shooting+running me over with a car) get the most points? Why did no Christian say, "This is out of line"? What does this say about the Christians on AB? God is immortal and omnipotent and wouldn't be scared and have nightmares because of the thought of getting hit by a car. You asked the question. Don't hate just because you were proven wrong.

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Can atheists be good parents? Perhaps, but they seem to be more likely to favor killing them prior to birth if they happen to come at an inconvenient time.

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Why do atheists often focus on criticizing christianity instead of other religions? Not even atheists will risk suicide bombings.

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Abortion is probably wrong but may have saved america form a lot of crime, lots of white people would have died if not for abortion of criminal ghetto babies starting in the 1970s, should government pay for abortion poor babbies (poorbortion)? see link That philosophy is what is really behind the pro choice movement.

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To Christians: How can you believe what you do? I've read the Bible, and not only is it full of impossible stories, it describes God as jealous and angry. Why do you worship him? Did you ever think that maybe the Bible wasn't meant to be taken literally? How much of the Bible have you read, just enough to be confused? That's like studying bits and pieces of science or math, you'll just end up confused, such as not being able to figure out what is a metaphor vs literal vs symbolic. Lots of things are possible that were once considered impossible.

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Is it more frightening for you to think that there is no god or that there is one who resembles the Biblical description? If there is no God, that means our future is in the hands of politicians.

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Why is there such a stigma against atheists and agnostics? There isn't. That's just their paranoia. The good news is that it can be treated.

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Was the late Dr. Tiller, the late term abortion provider, a hero in the pro-choice community? According the pro-choice community, Dr. Tiller was the biggest hero of our time. He was likened to to Dr. Martin Luther King and Susan B. Anthony. Oops. This was supposed to be a comment.

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How Can I Use Feminism To My Advantage? If you're a male, you can only use feminism to your DIS advantage. Sorry.

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-Agree or Disagree- Pro life = Anti-Woman Pro-choice = Anti young human being.

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If you knew a woman who was pregnant, who had 8 kids already, three who were deaf, two who were blind, one mentally retarded, and she had syphilis; would you recommend that she have an abortion? I'm leaning toward having her spayed.

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What is your response to the fact that if my birthmother had chosen abortion ("the right to choose") I would not be here right now? (I was put up for adoption) So then the second question is: would you have killed me? (I say this gently) Glad you're not dead. I wouldn't have killed you. Not unless you're a Patriots and/or Red Sox fan. In that case, I might have to consider it. ;-)

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A friend of mine got a girl pregnant and then she dumped my friend. Well we just found out today that she wants to have an abortion, is there any way that my friend can stop this from happening? The only good news is that he found out that she's a killer before marrying her. He'd of had to sleep with one eye open for the rest of his life.

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Are you alive because someone chose not to abort you? Actually, I was aborted. But, I played dead on the table and climbed out of the trash can after they all left the room.

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Can an abortion be forgiven? The murder of an adult can be forgiven, so why not abortion?

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IS abortion right if the mother's life is threatened? If we limited abortion to this scenario, we'd cut out >99% of abortions.

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Why don't people wear suits on a daily basis anymore? Anybody else think it would be cool? Too expansive and not necessary. I've got about 8 suits, but I don't want to wear one everyday.

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Men: if you discovered that your wife had an abortion 10 years ago, against your wishes --- would you divorce her? Immediately. Only a disgusting human being could do something like that. It's not possible to forgive someone who intentionally killed your child and then hid the fact for 10 years.She killed my child who would be 10 now. She robbed him or her of life and me/us of the 10 years of joy and potential grandchildren in later years.

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Why do atheists claim that christians are delusional? Only people who can't mount a logical, coherent argument stoop to such name calling.

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Why don't atheists want prayer in school or other public places? It's interesting that they don't object to worshiping the flag though.

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Why do atheists often focus on criticizing christianity instead of other religions? They learned from Salman Rushdie who criticized Islam. He had to live under a death threat from Islamists for years. Criticizing Christians only gets them satisfaction, no death threats.

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Is religion just based on a fear of death? I have been wondering this a lot lately. I'd like to think it was a moral compass for people but some religious people are far from moral and a lot of atheists are very moral so its makes me me wonder. Perhaps for some, but for others, it's more like a desire to live long and do what's right for everyone, not just yourself and those close to you. A desire to acknowledge that we should be grateful for life because the universe and humans aren't some outrageously unlikely accident - that love, beauty, music, the arts, and laughter exist for our enjoyment not a biological...

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What's the best thing that you like about being an Atheist Doing whatever you want and still considering yourself moral and ethical.

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Do people kill in the name of atheism? Yes. Not only kill but oppress.

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Do you think atheism and sarcasm/dry wit go hand in hand? Sarcasm, yes. Wit, not so much.

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What is your personal feelings about having active gay pastors/priests in church? Just as positive as I do about an active adulterer or one who continues a pattern of fathering children outside of marriage.

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Is not wanting stretch marks a valid reason to have an abortion? The pro abortion lobby has successfully fought to be sure that women can abort to avoid stretch marks, to avoid having yet another girl, or because it will interfere with vacation plans.

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If an aborted baby is born alive, but gets thrown in the trash and then dies, isn't it the same as if the abortion was successful? Why should the abortionist be charged with murder if she was just doing her job? Whether that fetus was killed within the womb or without made little difference, it was the same fetus. Sadly, yes, she was doing her job - to be sure that that fetus got killed.

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Is being submissive demeaning? Maybe. But finding a good job in this economy is tough. I advise people to just do what they're told by their boss since they can easily find somebody else who will.

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Do you think a man should be exempt from paying child support because he didnt have the legal option of making the mother abort the child? (not my opinion, just a question) Why or why not? Yes. Men are human beings too and should have rights. To deny men basic reproductive rights is misandristic and discriminatory.

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How would society be affected if people lived according to the Bible's moral standards? (i.e. - sex only within the confines of legal marriage. No adultery.)? What impact would it have on families, marriage, children, etc.? No STD's, no divorce from infidelity, no pregnant unmarried teens, fewer reasons to want to get abortions, fewer broken homes from adultery, fewer single parent households, fewer kids in gangs, fewer young men killing and getting killed, fewer young men going to prison, no sexual child abuse, no rape.   It makes nothing but sense. I don't see a downside.

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Don't you think atheists have a great sense of humor? lol i never heard of a boring atheist, have you? No more or less than anyone else. They have as many boring people as any other group.

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If marriages are made in heaven , then what are made in Hell? Those same marriages after about 7 years.

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Does the husband makes sure that his wife has had organism. His focus should be on her, and her focus should be on him. Works out for both that way.

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Is Atheism the ultimate expression of pessimism? Not so much pessimism, but hopelessness. It's the ultimate expression of hopelessness for anything beyond this life, no matter how good or bad it is.

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Do you think the world be more receptive to the gospel of Jesus Christ if Christians could learn to live out their faith? Yes. Humans seldom truly practice what they preach.

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Why does god not want to be seen? This has allways been a mystery to me. If he is the creator of the universe what has he to fear from being seen? I would really like to know. Why shouldn't you take a trip the sun and see it up close? Some things are just bad for your health.

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Is the Genesis account scientifically credible? Of course. Some people wouldn't believe it no matter how it read. They are determined that there is not God. So, what the account actually says is irrelevant to them.

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If you are a Hard Core Athiest & You died by drowning not believing in Jesus & You found out you were wrong & You ended up in incredible torment in hell & Drs resusitated your body & you came back, Would you then believe & accept Jesus as your Savior I'm not an atheist, but this is a ridiculous, offensive question. Jesus does not torment people.

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Are atheists really interested to find out if God exists? They are bound and determined that God does not exist.

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Whats your name? Puddin Tame. Ask me again, and I'll tell you the same.

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Does it bother you if a poster gives you a negative rating because of your faith in Jesus Christ? No, but I do try to figure out who the rat fink is!

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Christians what would you lose if you became an athiest? Clear understanding of the past, present and future. Understanding of why I'm here, where I came from, where I'm going, and how to get there. I would lose the answers to the questions that atheists are either perplexed by or that they don't bother to ask because they believe the answers are not available. I would lose the ability to put everything into context and make...

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Why do atheists claim that christians are delusional? Delusion.

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I love Jesus Christ but don’t like the Christianity, is that a problem? Jesus established Christianity. But, I assume your problem is with people who don't follow his teachings yet call themselves Christians.

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If Creationist believe everything was created by the creator then who created the creator, The creator had no creator.

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Who do you usually find to be more irritating, atheists or the religious? The extreme from both groups work my nerves. Ignorance is what really drives me nuts - which the extremists from both groups wallow in.

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Creation Museum says black people are the descendants of Ham, father of Canaan, whom Noah cursed to be “servant of servants”. Does it bother you that this kind of racism is embraced and promoted by creationists? I'm bothered by people spreading misinformation like this. This is very simple. Cush, the son of Ham, was the father of the Africans and was NOT cursed. Canaan, whose descendants lived in the area of Palestine, was cursed. So, there is no link to any curse and blacks. Racists and others like to spread this lie anyway though.

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I'm 30 yrs old, my bf & i have been on/off for 15 yrs, now we're on & strong for 1 yr, he talks of marriage, I recently found out Im pregnant, I want it, he wants 2 abort, he says he's not ready. there r other conflicts, big ones, i 2 am confused. After 15 years, there are big conflicts and he is not ready to man up and take care of his child? I don't see much hope for this relationship long term. How can you ever have a family with a man who wants you to kill your first child, when you're both 30 years old? I could almost understand if you were both 15 or 16, but 30?

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Why don't Jews believe in Jesus? They didn't want what the prophecies predicted, a spiritual leader, savior and redeemer. Instead, they wanted a political ruler and warrior general who would depose the Romans and restore the Jews' sovereignty and autonomy.

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Hi, if any of you have read the Bible you would maybe find out that Science somtimes says the opposite so what do you think is true: Science or The Bible/God/Jesus I usually trust the one willing to make a firm, written, permanent commitment. Science can always say, "oops, we had it wrong." Whereas the Bible made a written commitment 3,500 years ago. In some cases, it took science 1000s of years to figure out that he Bible was right all along.

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Abused Men - When Women Batter Men, What Do Men Do? The best and only good option is to divorce or permanently end the relationship. However, men typically accept the abuse long term since people feel that they deserve it. The worst option is to get the police involved. Men usually are the ones who get arrested when they're the victim. Never, ever call the police.

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Are most abortions performed for birth control or to protect the life or health of the mother? The vast majority are post-conception birth control. They just don't want the kid and didn't take care of it in advance.

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If you had just two body types to choose from which would you choose, a woman with big breasts or a smaller, muscular fitness model type body? I like her to have the curves. I'll handle the muscles department. Muscular women are kinda manly.

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Why is domestic violence always against the man? What happens when the man is the victim? When the man is a victim, there is nothing he can do other than divorce the wife or sever the relationship with a girlfriend immediately and permanently. Even if he never touches her, if the police are called he will get arrested and have a record. The only thing he can do is divorce or leave her and make sure everyone he knows is aware that she's a violent nutcase.

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Can you say the words "Sure, I could be wrong about [my most cherished religious or spiritual beliefs (or non- or anti- beliefs)], I just don't think so" without feeling nervousness or even a little fear? If not, why do you think that is? If I felt I could be wrong, I wouldn't bother. I'd do nothing until I was convinced I'd found what wasn't wrong.

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Should parental consent be required for underage pregnant women to have abortions? Underage women should not need parental consent for anything they want to do. Abortion, cosmetic surgery, tattoos, piercings, school trips, nothing. It's her life and the parents should have no say in what she does or does not do.

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Guys: Were you abused by your wife or girlfriend? see link My first wife. But, I moved on.

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Whats your thoughts on abortion? For some reason, no matter how horrific this video might be (I didn't watch it either), people are cool with abortion. Some will even argue that abortion is better than.

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Do you think abortions are the murder of a life? or do you believe that a baby is not a baby until it breaths air? (even though mothers will tell you they feel there baby kicking and moving at night so they cant sleep so they know its not a dream!!!) Biologically, fetuses are living human organisms. If it wasn't alive, there'd be no need to kill it. All this business about breathing, the brain, etc. is opinion that gives license to kill without plague of conscience, nothing to do with objective science and medicine.

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Who thinks putting the baby up for adoption then having an abortion is better for both mother in child? The alternative being a violent death, adoption is clearly better for the child.

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Would there be fewer affairs and less adultery if polygamy was legal? Yes. Some people are born to be in polygamous relationships, but our society tries to force fit them into monogamous relationships. Affairs are often the result of this. If polygamy were legalized and socially accepted, it would reduce this problem.

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I have a homosexual uncle who is a pastor, father and husband. He has a boyfriend who is also a pastor. His congregation doesn't know about it. Is it my business to let certain people know? How about protecting the innocent wife? I have a friend who died from AIDS because the people who knew what her husband was doing didn't have the decency to insist he inform her so she could protect herself. Just because he's a homosexual doesn't mean he should be able to kill his wife with impunity.

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I had an affair with a married man. We both divorced and are now in a relationship. He has three daughters, 12, 9, and 2. His 12 year old knows about the affair and hates me. I want her acceptance and for her to see I'm a good person, what do I do? I'm thinking that's going to take some time. As in years. Just prove over time that you are a good wife to her dad and do your best to be good to her and her siblings. Ride out the tough spots as best you can, and don't give up.

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I'm 5 weeks pregnant. The father wants me to get an abortion. I don't know if that's what I want. I'm feeling pressured to make a decision without thinking it through. I'm worried I'll make the wrong choice and end up regretting it. What should I do? Simple. Adopt out.

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Health care legislation before Congress would allow a new govt-sponsored insurance plan to cover abortions. What are your thoughts? It doesn't really matter. The government will always be pro-abortion because it fits its financial model. It's far, far cheaper to kill the kid than provide healthcare, food, and education for 22 years.

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If you push or hit someone after they've done it to you, is it abuse? No, it's self defense unless you had to chase them down the block to hit back.

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Are there men who are victims of domestic violence? I am under the impression that the majority of victims are females. It's 50/50 but men seldom report. When they do report the police often either don't respond or arrest the man. It's best to just get out of the relationship and leave the police out of it.

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Do women actually get paid less than men or do feminists just say that and then other people copy them? Please provide proof. Feminists twist the facts. They try to make it appear that choice has nothing to do with outcome. They work hard to make it seem that spending time at home with children rather than working, working fewer hours on overage, working part time more often, taking more sick time, taking more and longer parental leave, commuting shorter distances, choosing lower paying but personally rewarding...

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In Genesis, God told Adam and Eve that if they ate of the tree of life, "on that day you will die". The serpent on the other hand said that their eyes would open and they would know good and evil etc. The serpent was proved right. Why did God lie? He said that they would be "like God" in knowing "good and bad." Did they become "like God"? He said they would die that day. Die in what sense? How long was the "day?" referred to? Was it a 24 hour day, or was it much longer, like the creative days? It is valid question, but since you don't really want to know you will no doubt retain...

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How do you feel about abortion? It takes a cold, cold heart to do it, let alone to be happy and proud of it.

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Is it as a sign that the relationship will not work out long term if you tell her you love her but she says she's not sure and needs to think about it? How long does she take to think about it? And what does she say when she comes back? Nah, that doesn't usually work out.

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Ladies: what's wrong with just solving the problem? Isn't it best to solve it as soon as possible, and THEN talk about how you felt about it? Like planes that land on separate runways but taxi to the same terminal, men and women approach dealing with problems somewhat differently. Women are more inclined to want to talk through how a problem makes them feel. Processing it emotionally by talking about it helps them feel better about what the solution to the problem might be. They usually end up making the same decision, but...

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When you greet a person, do you initiate a hug or a kiss? If it's a good friend I haven't seen for a long time, always a hug. Of course, it's a different kind of hug for guys and girls though. For girls, I'll usually add a kiss on the cheek.

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Is male masturbation a very early stage abortion? Abortion is the removal of an embryo or fetus from the uterus in order to end a pregnancy. So, no.

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Should a man offer to help a feminist carry a very heavy parcel, considering equality and all? If he would help a man, yes. Otherwise no. That's what feminism is about. Treating men and women equally.

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Do any of the texts in the Bible contradict scientific principles? Just because we can't figure out how to do it, doesn't mean it's not possible. They used to think that a flying machine was not possible. Remember, we are talking about the one who created pretty darn complicated stuff. There's nothing in the Bible that is all that amazing compared to what we see around us, and through a telescope.

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Are children usually planned or surprises? With all my kids it was the same thing: Me: "How could you be pregnant?" Her: "Don't you remember that time when. . . ." Me: "Yeah but, I thought we. . . oh yeah . . . that time."

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What is an abortion? The elective killing of a young human being. Usually for convenience.

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Does religion make people open-minded or close-minded? It depends on which religion and the individual in question.

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Do you believe in that life came from non-living matter? (Abiogenesis) Why or why not? No, you would have to want to just want to believe it since there is no firm evidence to support it. It has been 56 years since the Miller-Urey experiment was published and still no agreement as to how this could possibly have happened, let alone replicate it. Unless one simple otherwise believes that is must have, since you feel that there is no creator.

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How can I make things right with my man when I have said all I can say? I called him by my ex's name. But have NO feelings AT ALL for my ex That depends on when you called you ex's name. . .

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Evolution: proof of it, show one? There is none. Many feel that there is evidence for evolution. Others feel that there is evidence for creation. It comes down to which evidence one believes and what one chooses to have faith in. Both require a measure of faith because none of us were there.

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Why is killing yourself (suicide) illegal, but abortion (killing someone else) legal? Since abortion is legal, shouldn't suicide be too? The "my body, my choice" should apply to suicide as well. It is inconsistent for suicide to be illegal. Let people live or die as they see fit.

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Have you ever thought religion was detrimental to society? Along with everything taken to an extreme, and which forces others to submit has proven to be detrimental to society - to INCLUDE atheism. Cite some of the most totalitarian/authoritarian governments of the past century have been officially atheistic.

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Why are atheists generalized as christian-hating elitists? Certainly not all are but, unfortunately, many of the most vocal seem to be.

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If you think abortion ends a human life, but you support the right of a woman to choose to abort, how do you reconcile that? Are you just not "sure enough" about it to warrant being strictly anti-abortion, or...? They seem to believe that human life's value is relative to age and capability. The younger one is, the less they are capable of, the less their value as a human. If they are very young, and capable of little or nothing, they have little or no value. Thus, killing them because their existence might be inconvenient is not seen as wrong. This concept spills over to the aged also, which...

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How would you define human life? A living member of the human species, which is based on the creature's DNA. Thus, abortion, no matter what gestational age, kills a human being.

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Can you give me a reason that abortion is bad for society that is not a religious one? It enforces the idea that a human's value is relative to their age and physical capabilities. The younger they are, the less they can do, the less value they have as a human being. It happens in reverse to the elderly. The very young are called cancerous tumors, parasites, and can legally be treated like medical waste. The very old are thrown away and forgotten in nursing homes,...

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Speaking of reasons to abort, are kids really better off dead than poor? Wouldn't most poor people commit suicide if that were the case? At least 1/3 of the world is considered poor. There would be far more suicide if that were the case. edit: This shows that abortion is not for the sake the would-be child, but rather an act of selfishness on the part of the parents.

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My boyfriend of 3 years said that he can't marry me because I filed bankruptcy 4 yrs ago (became disabled, couldn't work), and I would not be approved for a mortgage to buy a home w/ him... Said "maybe in 6 yrs if your credit is better." Opinions? The bankruptcy will roll off your credit in 3 more years. Some people won't marry someone without pristine credit, which is getting harder and harder to find. Tell him if he wants to be the head of the family, as it sounds, he should go ahead and buy the house before you get married on his own. That way, your bankruptcy won't affect his credit at all.

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Do guys like wearing a wedding band? Do (you/ they) really want them or do (you/ they) feel pressure to wear one? No. I don't feel any pressure, I just don't wear it. We agreed that I won't force her to wear anything she doesn't feel comfortable wearing, and she won't force me to wear anything I don't feel comfortable wearing.

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Should a man's wedding ring cost = a woman's salary for 2 months? Men often don't care to even wear a ring. I don't see a need to spend that much.

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Does anyone here have resentment against their father? Not me. He is my life role model. No matter how old I get, I still keep trying to following his example. He's a hard act to follow. An amazing guy.

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How do people walk away from their children, and never see them again? A culture of selfishness. The same way mothers can abort them and think nothing of it.

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Why does Planned Parenthood offer abortion services but not adoption services? It is an abortion organization. They promote abortion, and only mention adoption as an aside. If you don't believe me, go to their website and search on 1) abortion, and 2) adoption. You will see the facts. If you actually want to know the facts, which many people evidently prefer to ignore.

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What is a human? Human is the species we all belong to, even before birth.

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Do you look down on people who have had an abortion? I'm like most people. I look down on anyone who behaves as if the life of other humans have less value than their own. The difference is that I face the fact that the unborn are humans, by scientific definition. Abortion supporters are either ignorant to that fact or intentionally ignore it.

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Do you think that people opposed to abortion rights are primarily motivated by religious reasons, or do they just want to exert control over women? They don't like seeing humans killed. At least that's my reason.

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Do you think sex essential in marriage? What would you do, if you love your partner, but sex you have is just too bad and doesn’t improve? Would you leave? Would you cheat? Would you forget about sex and live your life without sexual satisfaction? Millions of married people are making do with very little or with none. If sex were essential, then the divorce rate would be closer to 100% than 50%.

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Do Atheists seem to be more intelligent? Honestly? No. Honestly.

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What do you say to an Atheist after they sneeze? Cover you mouth!

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Why are Michael Jackson's kids white? They are not his biological kids. But, he raised them and they are/were his legally.

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If science could prove absolutely 100% that God did not exist, would you still believe if you believe now? If science proved that you don't exist, would you still believe if you believe now? Both questions are equally absurd. Science is millenia away from figuring out millions of things about the earth and life on it, let alone the solar system, this galaxy, and the hundred billion or more other galaxies.

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If your close friend needs you to go with her to get an abortion because she's carrying yet another girl (she wants a boy), would you help her or judge her? Isn't the basis of the abortion rights argument that the fetus is not a person, a human being? They argue that a fetus just collection of cells. So, how could this be wrong? You can't wrong or discriminate against a collection of cells. So, what difference does it make what her reasons are? I don't understand how one can be "pro-choice" but anti her choice if a...

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Do you think patriotism is a good or bad thing? No patriotism, little if any war.

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How must the doctor feel or think when he is aborting a completely healthy fetus (a life) from a perfectly healthy woman - To create income to enable food, education, & care for his own children so special at home? - Who gave them the license to be God? Greed. Insensitivity. Inhumanity.

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How must the doctor feel or think when he is aborting a completely healthy fetus (a life) from a perfectly healthy woman - To create income to enable food, education, & care for his own children so special at home? - Who gave them the license to be God? To put it simply, they don't care. They either don't consider unborn children as human beings. Or, they are OK with killing human beings as long as they are being paid for it.

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A 15 yr old girl loses her virginity to her b/f who is 21 and gets pregnant....Do you feel abortion would be appropriate if the young girl wanted it....Why, or why not? No, the baby didn't do anything wrong. Why should he/she be punished?

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Pro-lifers: could/would you marry someone who was pro-choice? Not a chance.

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True or false: Theists believe there is a God but cannot prove it - atheists believe there is no God but cannot prove it? Both are true.

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What are the positive and negative sides to marriage? Positive - no fault divorce. Negative - alimony.

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While at lunch today I saw a friend's husband kissing another woman. He doesn't know I saw. Do I tell her myself or do I go to him and give him an opportunity to tell her himself? Talk to him. You might be misinterpreting what you saw.

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Why don't men just come out with the truth and tell women that they"want lots of sex with multiple partners" they "want to do as they please, and you ladies are just going to have to accept it and accommodate us on our quest for an infinite booty buffet"? Speak for yourself.

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What is your upper age limit for you to date a woman? 3-5 years younger than myself.

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Is spending money behind your mate's back and lying about it cheating? If you believe it's cheating then it is. I would get separate accounts or get a divorce.

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Is spending money behind your mate's back and lying about it cheating? Absolutely.

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Why there is a feminist needed? Feminists' are needed in Afghanistan and Saudi Arabia, not here. I suggest they all take the first flight out and stop bothering us. http://www.afghan-web.com/woman/afghanlaw.html http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/middle_east/7222869.stm

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Should parents influence their children's views (e.g. ethical, political, economic, religious (or non-religious), etc.) or let them develop their own views without parental influence? No, they should let TV, video games, and other kids shape their children's value system.

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Do you like your first & last names, or just kinda tolerate them? First name is the best, hands down. Last name is unique, which is great but often gets misspelled as a result.

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Which things are generally signs of a weak mind? Repeating what you have been told by others or read on the Internet as fact. Going along with the crowd. Identifying yourself with an ISM or IST. Strict allegiance to a particular political party rather than being independent. Personally attacking those who have different views.

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Do you believe that assisted suicide is morally wrong? Not at all.

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Would you give up your seat to anybody or just whoever you felt like? Anybody, except a feminist. They get offended when a man offers them a seat.

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What song do you believe best represents the feminist movement? Helen Reddy's "I Am Woman"? Nancy Sinatra's "These Boots Were Made for Walking"? Pink's "Stupid Girls"? Something else? "I Hate Men" http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gmekN39mnFY

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Why in a time when men and women are treated as equals is it still seen as unnaceptable to hit a woman if she initiates the violence. The civilized human perspective would be that violence against ANYONE is wrong and criminal. How about that? The fact that so many people consider violence against men to be perfectly acceptable (based on the answers), whether at the hands of a woman or a man, explains why our world is so animalistically dangerous.

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How do i convince my boyfriend i dont want to shout at him ..i just want to talk to him to sort things out? Try not shouting at him.

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News article stated that minivans were more prone to overturning than other vehicles. Reported went on to say, to make this even worse, many of the drivers of these vehicles are women. Why does this make it worse? Men are considered to be more expendable and their death or serious injury less tragic.

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Good Humor or Mr. Softie icecream as a child? Good humor.

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My wife and i are 30 and have been together for 15 years we have had an awesome relationship and i just found out that for the last 8months she was having an affair she is now pregnant by this man and its over and wants to work it out i beleive her Don't even consider staying with her. If you thought you had an awesome relationship, had no idea she was having sex with someone else, you will never again be able to trust her. Not to mention that you would be raising the other man's child. Do yourself and her a huge favor and get a divorce.

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Is keeping a secret from your partner a kind of cheating? Yes.

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Is it cheating if you have a "cyber" affair with someone? It depends on what is meant by "affair." Is it romantic? Are you sharing intimate feelings, problems, aspirations, expressing how you feel about each other? Yeah, that's cheating. But, if you're just chatting about general things, like work and don't have personal intimate talk, then it's dangerous and maybe inappropriate but not necessarily cheating.

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My friend is married and shes pregnant by another man,her husband cant have any more kids what does she do?If he finds out he will leave her?I cant advise her,Cause i dont know! He's going to find out; it's better if she just comes clean instead of him finding out on his own. He will probably leave her and if he does, she will have earned it. Hopefully, she knows who the real father is and has a future with him.

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When a long term partner is diagnosed with a medical condition, do you think that men or do you think that women are more likely to leave and file for divorce and get on with their life before their partner has passed on? I'd say it's even. The key factor is the emotional connection for both. If the emotional connection goes away, guilt is the only thing that will keep a partner faithful.

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The wife is nearly twice as likely as the husband to initiate divorce proceedings according to a report from the National Center for Health Statistics. Women file 61.5 percent of divorce petitions. Why are women more likely to file for divorce than men? Women have a lower tolerance for what they consider lack emotional closeness in the relationship. Women are, evidently, more "relationship aware" and "relationship sensitive." Men are more easily distracted by usually working longer hours in higher stress jobs. Men tend to have less of a need to spend time just being together. Women keenly sense lack of closeness...

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How do you know if you really love somebody? When you can't not feel that way over an extended period of time.

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Witch is worse emotionally cheating or cheating by having sex? Emotional cheating is undefined in that everyone has a different definition for what is and is not considered "emotional cheating." On the other hand, you either had sex with someone or you didn't.   So, my answer: having sex.

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My husband will not stop talking to another woman behind my back he says they are just friends he says he does not have feelings for her but why wont he stop talking to her and move on ( this was my best friend this girl) i have cought him several times Maybe they're planning a surprise party for you?   If not, I hate to tell you but he does have feelings for her, otherwise he would/could stop. Sorry.

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Do you think, feminism has reached an extreme level? Does this, in your opinion, have a bad effect on families? (divorce rate rocketing high, child rate decreasing...) What are your thoughts on the new "masculism" movements? Has feminism reached an extreme level? Yes.   Does this have a bad effect on families? Yes.   Masculism is analogous to anti-terrorism. If it weren't for feminism, masculism would be unnecessary.

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Are there are any circumstances that would justify a man beating on his woman (i.e. Chris Brown/Rihanna)? No, neither men nor women should ever raise a hand to the other. A woman striking a man is just as reprehensible as a man striking a woman. Both should be considered felony assault.

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Do any of you MALE ABers find squirting a good/attractive thing? Love it! I know I did it right when she does. The only problem is that it gets so intense for her that she has to stop and rest for a long time.

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Circumcision? Should it be done? Who decides? What's your preference? The person getting circumcised should decide. Which means that he has to be old enough to choose what should happen to his own body. It shouldn't be done to him as an infant without his permission.

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Should a man still open doors for a woman? Yes, unless she's a feminist. Feminists are independent and don't like that kind of thing from men.

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Im ahaving a bad time with my man of 16 years. im not happy anymore because of his controlling ways. when i tell him to leave , he wont . what should i do If you have lived together for 16 years, you probably have to leave (since your property is common) if you don't want to be together anymore.

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Could you ever forgive someone who physically abused you? No, I couldn't and wouldn't.

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I saw my friend's boyfriend hit her and broke her nose..then I jumped in and beat the boyfriend up.. was I wrong for this? Two wrongs don't make a right. It would have been better to call the police.

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I am a working husband, my wife is looking after our 1 week old boy, she gets up at night to feed him so that I can rest, I feel quilty about this, what can I do? Give him a bath every night, and do the diaper duty at night. I did that, my wife appreciated it, and the baby loves her dad. I didn't lose much sleep and it gave mom a break.

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When a parent loses a child, and gives birth to or adopts a new one, why do I almost never hear of the parent naming their new child the name of the one they lost? They are two different people. The new addition cannot replace the lost child.

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Mothers . . . have any of you lost a child? How does one bear the pain. I'm not sure I can. Please help me. A father not a mother who lost a child. You never get over it but you can get used to it. Frankly, if you are a person of faith, that makes a big difference. Even if not, do what you need to: talk about him/her.   I personally have to talk about my daughter, even if it makes people uncomfortable. I figure no matter how awkward they feel, I feel worse. Plus, I find that if I'm...

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My husband looked at porn multiple times a day before me.I hate it and told him so,now he says it might happens twice a month ,it's an "impulse"I still can't cope and don't want to leave the house.The rest between us is great/Any advise? Talk to him about it openly and tell him exactly how it makes you feel. Also, offer to please him in ways that he might want but be embarrassed to tell you. Be open minded, and try to find out what really pleases him that he hasn't told you about yet.

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I heard on the radio today, that one out of four couples don't sleep together, they have their own bedrooms. What are your thoughts on that? If they're happy, I'm happy. If the two of them are in sync and don't want to sleep together, they shouldn't feel forced to. If one of them is not on board, that's where problems come in.

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If polygamy were legal, how many spouses would you want? 1? 2? 5? None? 2 or 3.

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Should a couple stay in a 20 year sexless marriage? If they both agree that a 20 year sexless marriage is a good thing, then that's the answer. However, if one of them feels like a 20 year dry spell is a problem, then something needs to change - or they need to go their separate ways.

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Can any one tell me how you stop loving someone? I have found that it's an involuntary response. Sorry to say that you cannot force it but you can let it die. Depending on the situation, that can take some time. The best alternative is to fall in love with someone else - which can be hard to do it you're stuck on feelings for one person. It's tough.

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What's wrong with having a sexless marriage? I personally wouldn't mind being in one as long as the woman can accept that. I finally realized that relationships aren't just about sex. Nothing is wrong with it, as long as you both agree. There's nothing wrong with any kind of marriage as long as you both agree. Sexless, loveless, affectionless, communicationless. . . whatever works for the two of you, is fine. The problem comes in when you're not on the same page.

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What are the most common reasons a husband cheats? Feeling emotionally abandoned by his wife. This can come from harsh unrelenting criticism and lack of affection.   Then, maybe a the office, some other woman lets him know how wonderful she thinks he is. How impressed she is with this or that aspect of his personality.   She doesn't criticize him, she supports and encourages him. This can happen easily at work. All of a...

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Problem: I would like to get engaged to be married. (I'd like to marry in 1-3 yrs.) He's hinted but hasn't proposed. I am tired of waiting (together over 5 years). I don't want to propose to HIM. I want him to WANT to propose and marry me? What do I do? Let him know what you really want, how important that is to you. My wife brought marriage up first, but I proposed. Somehow she manuvered me into it. But, I'm glad she did. If he wants the same thing, he'll do his part to make you happy. Caution: you can't make him want what you want.

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Guys:your (educated opinion please) on feminism? VAWA defines the abusers as male and victims as female. Not just the title, but the entire text demonizes males as ALWAYS the abuser and never the victim. The wording and spirit of the law is misandristic as are its supporters. If you go to any feminist website, you will find 100% support for the gender specific wording of the law.   Every feminist I've ever discussed this with...

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Is a single incident of domestic violence a good reason to divorce? (My wife hit me last night and I am moving out today) Yes, get out now before it gets worse. Once a beater always a beater. Abusive women (and men) are like pedophiles, you can't reform them.

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Why is "feminist" considered a bad word to most people these days? I am a male, and gladly consider myself a feminist If feminists truly fought for equality it wouldn't be considered a bad word. They've done it to themselves.

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How come men will never understand when we see them lookin at another woman or when they cant get hard in bed we always think that we arent good enough for them and it kills our self esteem? what can i do to get over that? please help The problem is that women assume they know what's going through a man's head even if he glances at a woman. . If a man happens to glances at another man, they don't assume that it means anything but if he glances at a woman, they make assumptions - which may not be accurate. A person's self esteem shouldn't be that fragile.

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What do women think of feminists? (do you agree with them most of the time? or do you feel their going too far sometimes?) They went too far years ago. They should just give it up now. What more do they want?

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What are the most common reasons a husband cheats? They drift apart due to life's anxieties; she gets angry because of feeling neglected, reacting by criticizing him constantly and being mean in general. He feels unappreciated and pushed away (when she wants more of him not less) and withdraws, leaving a void for both of them.   He meets someone that treats him like she used to. Badda bing, badda boom!

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We have talked about marriage and are ready to get engaged. We don't have a lot of money at the moment, but I saw the perfect ring at perfect price. Can I buy it and leave it with him for when he proposes? Go for it. If it makes you happy and he doesn't have to figure out how to buy something he can't afford, it makes perfect sense. Ignore the crowd.

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Which should be legalized first, polygamy or same sex marriage? Maybe they should legalize them both at the same time? I say legalize polygamy, as long as it involves only adults and applies the same to men and women.

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Do guys like wearing a wedding band? Do (you/ they) really want them or do (you/ they) feel pressure to wear one? I don't wear one. My wife doesn't wear my name and I don't wear her ring. We are free and independent.

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Is 7 thousand to much for an engagment ring? how do I know how much i should spend? You don't even need to buy a diamond ring, which is paid for by the blood and limbs of innocent Africans. A plain band or another stone is just as good or better.

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Should men feel forced to wear a wedding band if he does not believe that tradition? No, men should feel free to not have to yield to traditions they don't like just like women should feel free to not have to yield to traditions they don't like, such as changing their name.

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I heard on the radio today, that one out of four couples don't sleep together, they have their own bedrooms. What are your thoughts on that? Fine with me. People should be free to live however they want.

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Should women change their names when marrying? She shouldn't be forced to. Just like the man should buy her an engagement ring but shouldn't feel forced to.

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Shouldn't the Violence Against Women Act (VAWA) become the Violence Against People Act (VAPA)? (Since women attack their partners just as often as men.) VAWA implies that only women are victims and only men are perpetrators, which is completely untrue.   Women attack as often or more often but men don't report or complain as much. Also, when men do report, the police usually either arrest the man or refuse to take any action.   If VAPA replace VAWA, it would stop more domestic violence injuries because it would stop fights...

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Men, are you insulted when your future bride doesn't want to take your last name? To me this is/was VERY difficult (to give up my identity-ones name is so important) and I don't understand how someone could feel good making someone they love feel so bad I wouldn't marry someone who didn't think enough of me to become a truly united family by taking my name. It's a nice tradition and ensures that everybody in the family has the same name.

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Is feminism responsible for the breakdown of the family, like a Vatican document has claimed? Yes. Feminism is a hateful movement.

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What do you think if a man won't wear a wedding band? It's an optional tradition, just like a woman taking her husband's name, or not. The people who know me, know that I'm married - but why should I announce it to strangers? Wearing a ring informs strangers of something that is none of their concern and labels a person as a possession, not a person. I won't wear one.

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In marriage when men give up their porn what should women give up? The booty whenever he's in the mood.

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Do men hating "feminists" give a bad name to the real feminists, the ones who fought for better living conditions and human rights? I heard one on the radio saying that "it is better for women to stay single forever, because all men tend to be abusive " The man-hating feminists are the leaders and control the movement. The only way to get away from man-haters is to disavow feminism.

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Are women & men treated equally at your work place? The women at my job get 12 weeks of parental leave but men only get 1 week! That's discrimination. Even when they give birth by c-section, it doesn't take 12 weeks to heal. I'm not saying that women shouldn't get 12 weeks, but fathers should be treated equally, and they're not.

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What do you love about feminism? Or not. Nothing. Nothing at all.

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If feminism is really about equality for all, why isn't it called egalitarianism? Because feminists don't care about men. It really isn't egalitarian at all, even though they claim it is.

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If women want to be treated equally then should they not expect men to open doors for them, pull out chairs, etc,? It depends on if they're feminists or not. If they are, the answer is NO, they should not expect men to open doors, etc., because that's not equality, is it? That's expecting special treatment based on gender. By definition, being treated equally would preclude men doing things for women that are not reciprocated at the same rate. So, if I pull her chair out, the next...

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What are the do's and don'ts for dating a feminist? Do NOT offer any chivalry whatsoever. Do NOT open her doors, pay for the date (ask for separate checks or calculate her share), help with her coat (let her do it herself), buy flowers (again, she can buy her own if she wants them), none of that. They hate all that. Do NOT mention her appearance. (she might consider it harassment) Do NOT touch her (under any circumstances), even to...

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Is feminism falsifiable? Feminists use false statistics constantly to trump up the wage gap and other supposed offenses.

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The Problem with feminism is that it does not distinguish between "sameness" and "Equality" ... who would agree that women can be equal in importance, etc. with men, but are actually quite different and play reciprocal roles to better perform as a team? The problem with feminism is that it uses the term "equality" differently, when they want a different outcome. When they want "identical" they use it to mean I identical; when they want "equivalence", they use it to mean that. They abuse the term equality because of it's political value. In many regards, they really do not want equality, they want equal...

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Do feminists want equality or role reversal? Feminists want men down and women up. Basically.

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Are feminism and chivalry compatible? Exactly.

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Men: Would you describe yourself as a feminist? No way. Feminists are man-haters and hypocrites. No offense.

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Should men give their seats to women on public transportation considering feminist equality? No, feminists insist that men and women be treated equally, given equal respect, and equal consideration. That means that women should be treated no worse or better than men. So, a person should be given a seat based on individual need, such as advanced age or infirmity, not based on their sex. At least that's what a feminist should say. A woman can stand for a 30 minutes or an...

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