http://www.answerbag.com/profile/302974 New Answerbag questions from Anonymous Tue, 29 May 2012 18:29:07 -0700 Tue, 29 May 2012 18:29:07 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/2521880 I have come across a notebook with my partners handwriting with usernames n passwords to many different adult dating sites. What would u do? Wed, 22 Jun 2011 05:59:01 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/2521880 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/2351876 Could I be pregnant? I have lots of symptoms. I've taken 3 tests, 1 was negative, the other 2 were invalid. I haven't missed period. Mon, 15 Nov 2010 12:13:02 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/2351876 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/2257224 I think I was attacked by a ghost in bed, this happened some time ago but I cant get it out of my head. Does anyone have any useful info? Mon, 26 Jul 2010 02:35:24 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/2257224 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/2197088 I can b a bit controlling and jealous with my dishonest partner.Is it because he's dishonest that I'm controlling n jealous or vice versa? Mon, 05 Jul 2010 03:07:08 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/2197088 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/2029113 breaking up with abusive unsupportive partner Sun, 25 Apr 2010 03:47:34 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/2029113 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/2020641 If there has been abuse in a relationship, should I stay away n try 2 get over it rather than working on fixin it? We have a child 2gether Tue, 20 Apr 2010 22:52:38 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/2020641 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/2020637 I've left domestic violent relationship.DVO gets put through tomorrow. We still seeing ea other.Any chance we might work it out? Tue, 20 Apr 2010 22:47:57 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/2020637 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1991871 Each time i try2leave my partner who is sometimes abusive he goes1better than last time2try n win me back should i giv him that chance? Thu, 08 Apr 2010 04:48:22 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1991871 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1986600 Has anyone found marriage councilling helpful? Mon, 05 Apr 2010 03:50:35 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1986600 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1977985 I'm in a sometimes physically n mentally abusive relationship. My mum wants me to work it out??This has really thrown me back into doubt. Tue, 30 Mar 2010 19:16:27 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1977985 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1976466 Why do I feel so guilty when I start making plans to leave my abusive partner? Mon, 29 Mar 2010 17:13:01 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1976466 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1976404 Why am I finding it so hard to leave a relationship with no trust and respect? I think I'm afraid I won't find better. Help?? Mon, 29 Mar 2010 15:56:42 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1976404 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1972009 Is my partner really an abuser?He's physically hurt n threatened me but only during arguments, he says I frustrate him so much he loses it. Fri, 26 Mar 2010 22:29:10 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1972009 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1963117 Is there such a thing as a great relationship where each partner brings out the best in the other and there is mutual respect? Sun, 21 Mar 2010 02:49:05 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1963117 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1963115 Is there really such a thing as a happy relationship? Where a couple bring out the best in eachother?Or is always bad behind closed doors? Sun, 21 Mar 2010 02:45:54 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1963115 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1961085 My partner made wat he said was joke2day I got defensive he demanded apology I refused so he threw me across the room. Am I in the wrong? Sat, 20 Mar 2010 01:30:55 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1961085 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1950451 Does Lexapro cure depression? Fri, 12 Mar 2010 22:44:27 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1950451 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1950450 How much money do family day care mums make with 4 full time children 5 days per week. Fri, 12 Mar 2010 22:42:00 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1950450 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1941504 does any1 suffer depression and take it out on their partner? Shutting them out and treating them badly n always thinkin negatively of them? Fri, 05 Mar 2010 23:25:23 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1941504 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1941502 Is it fair to expect your partner to love you the way you are when you suffer depression? Fri, 05 Mar 2010 23:19:49 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1941502 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1890812 I've been on maternity leave.My boss wants full time help.We're meeting2discuss this wk. I'm not ready to leave my lil 1 full time. Ideas? Mon, 18 Jan 2010 17:12:12 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1890812 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1858831 Once respect is gone in a relationship can you get it back Fri, 11 Dec 2009 04:34:17 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1858831 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1858829 Is a once a week visit to a 1st time grandmothers house enough?? She is complaining... Fri, 11 Dec 2009 04:31:59 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1858829 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1858812 When my partner kisses me I need to wipe my mouth afterwards also lost interest in sex. Do u think I hav fallen out of love wit him? Fri, 11 Dec 2009 03:54:42 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1858812 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1856397 Can a break be good for a relationship? I have been very up and down about what I want. My heart is battling with my head. My head says no,my heart says yes. Wed, 09 Dec 2009 15:30:46 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1856397 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1851599 I keep finding reasons to be upset with my partner. Do you think I may be subconciously trying to end it? When I'm with him lately it just doesn't FEEL right. He's trying really hard but has hurt me a lot in many ways, maybe it's 2 late 4 us? Sun, 06 Dec 2009 21:29:57 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1851599 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1840658 Does anyone have any advice or information on addictive relationships? I've been doing some research and I think that I may be addicted to my partner? Mon, 30 Nov 2009 15:17:16 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1840658 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1833427 My partner had an affair with his ex at the beginning of our relationship which he lied about and has lied about many things through the course of our relationship. He blames his drug problem which is getting better. Do you think once a liar always a liar Thu, 26 Nov 2009 04:28:03 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1833427 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1833420 My partners abused me on occasions & has recently started up again. I've always been determined & there's something that's been in me since a little girl that when I'm pushed it's near impossible for me2give in. Do I just push his buttons or is he abusive Thu, 26 Nov 2009 04:24:31 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1833420 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1833411 Why is it so hard to leave my partner who has cheated, lied, done drugs and abused me? My self esteem has improved so much since having our baby who is now months old. Does anyone have some advice that might be helpful? Thu, 26 Nov 2009 04:18:55 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1833411 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1833394 How do you I leave someone who is bad for me when he is the father of my child? he wants us to work but it's been 4 years now and if it's not one thing its another with us Thu, 26 Nov 2009 03:49:44 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1833394 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1833360 My current parters quite selfish and has hurt me in many ways. An old flame I used to date before he went overseas has kept in touch and expressed interest. I have 8month old bub with current partner but feel I could have such a better life.What do I do? Thu, 26 Nov 2009 03:21:07 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1833360 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1833348 The father of my baby has been abusive so I moved out. In the past he has had an affair, lied, had drug problem and I feel I can't respect him after everything that's happened. Will I ever be able to be myself with him and respect and trust him? Thu, 26 Nov 2009 03:14:57 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1833348 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1833342 I have moved out due 2 domestic violence,there have been lots of past hurts including drugs, cheating and lies. We have 8month old child. We still seeing eachother but not living together. Is it cheating if I go out to dinner with someone I used to date? Thu, 26 Nov 2009 03:08:35 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1833342 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1827543 I want to end my relationship with the father of my 8 month old son, he has cheated, done drugs, been abusive and all the while he blames our problems in our relationship on me having postnatal depression. I feel so sorry for him, how do i do this? Sun, 22 Nov 2009 21:08:40 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1827543 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1805450 Please cheer me on people. I have made a lot of steps to exit a violent relationship but I feel myself wavering.. Please give me some motivation!! Tue, 10 Nov 2009 19:27:38 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1805450 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1801461 I would like to hear from other victims of domesic violence, can you share your experiences with me? Sun, 08 Nov 2009 16:06:29 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1801461 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1798414 My partner gets abusive when we have an argument which I admit, I normally start. I'm pretty firey so I need time to calm down before I apologise, he demands an apology straight away. Am I wrong in not apologising to stop him from being violent? Fri, 06 Nov 2009 22:30:32 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1798414 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1797819 Im a strong willed, determined person who speaks my mind. I've some self esteem issues and I'm a 1st time mum. Been snapping at my partner 4 silly things lately. Negative thinking. It builds up 4 him & he hits me. Is this my fault for being a bitch? Fri, 06 Nov 2009 15:14:22 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1797819 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1776022 Has anyone taken 30 plus while breastfeeding? I want to as I know it makes my mood much better but there is no research to say it's safe. I would prefer taking something natural rather than anti depressents. Tue, 27 Oct 2009 20:41:16 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1776022 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1753748 I have left my occasionally abusive partner as I don't want our now 7 month old son growing up seeing that. It's breaking my heart as I still love him but he leaves me no choice. He won't accept responsibility for his actions. I'm so sad.. Any advice? Thu, 15 Oct 2009 20:27:12 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1753748 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1745170 Has anyone fallen out of love with the father of their child and left and been happy? Please share your stories.. Sun, 11 Oct 2009 14:42:13 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1745170 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1744409 My partner occasionally gets violent when I don't give in when he thinks I should during arguments, he says he would never abuse me if I didn't get him there. We have a 7 month old baby boy who we both adore but I think I want to leave. Any advice? Sun, 11 Oct 2009 05:18:11 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1744409 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1715456 Has anyone experienced true love? How do you know that you have found the one? Does the feelings towards them last or do they start to become annoying after 5 years or so? Thu, 24 Sep 2009 20:15:57 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1715456 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1715421 I don't think I love my partner anymore. Our baby is 6 months old and at first I thought it was postnatal but I find myself thinking is this all there is? Has anyone had a similar experience? What was the outcome? Thu, 24 Sep 2009 19:56:05 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1715421 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1320484 I'm 40 weeks pregnant today with my 1st and baby's head still not engaged. Has anyone experienced this? If so what was the outcome and is there anything I can do to help this along? Mon, 02 Mar 2009 21:38:37 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1320484 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1273793 My partner has been busted buying nude magazines and looking up porn on the internet just recently - then I found a huge stash of magazines, one from every month for the last I don't know how long... This really hurts, am I being prudish? Wed, 11 Feb 2009 15:55:34 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1273793 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1217566 I think I don't love my boyfriend anymore. He has stepped over boundaries again and again. He is very selfish. How do I know for sure that I've fallen out of love with him? I'm due to have our 1st baby in 6 weeks. Sun, 18 Jan 2009 14:04:25 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1217566 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1133662 I'm pregnant- I haven't blown out, I'm all baby but my partner who used to not be able to get enough of me, never touches me sexually anymore. This is very hard on me as I'm feeling less attractive. He says he is still attracted to me, so what's wrong? Sun, 07 Dec 2008 13:36:22 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1133662 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1125886 I have attended one session of Reiki and I didn't feel anything in the areas being treated, I also don't feel very different in my mood or wellbeing. Should I feel something? Should I try getting a treatment with somebody else? Wed, 03 Dec 2008 14:13:37 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1125886 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1125853 Has anyone tried Reiki and did it work for you? How does it work? It's a bit like a claim to magic so for me it's hard to beleive. Wed, 03 Dec 2008 14:01:34 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1125853 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1124355 Has anyone tried Reiki for helping with depression and if so did it work for you? Tue, 02 Dec 2008 19:52:08 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1124355 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1065081 Is anyone else out there just generally unhappy with life but for no particular reason? I should be happy, I've got a good life and good friends, job etc - but I'm mostly unhappy. Is this depression? Sun, 02 Nov 2008 19:00:19 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1065081 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1065059 I am currently 22 weeks pregnant and seem to have lost interest in sex and can't be satisfied. Will this come back? Or is my sex life over :-( Sun, 02 Nov 2008 18:44:47 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1065059 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1053168 Can anyone offer some insight as to why I prefer for my partner and I not to socialise and I feel funny if someone gets close to my partner. I have insecurities but not sure where they stem from. I remember being quite possessive over my friends in past. Mon, 27 Oct 2008 14:40:26 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1053168 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1023505 My partner has a drug problem, I'm considering not putting his name on the birth certificate as I'm told I have all the power at the moment n if I dont want custody battles down the track if nothing changes my best option is to leave him off. Is this true Sun, 12 Oct 2008 22:51:45 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1023505 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1023171 Am I being unreasonable, i don't want my bf talking to his ex's best friend, there is no need to they r not in same circle and she (the ex) did all she could to sabotage us at the beginning of the relationship. Sun, 12 Oct 2008 19:29:09 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1023171 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1022887 Am I bein unreasonable? Ive had huge dramas at beginning of relationship with my bf with his ex,she tried everythin2sabotage us.From time to time her best friend texts my bf,I don't want him talkin2her, I'm now pregnant and want it left in the past? Sun, 12 Oct 2008 16:34:35 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1022887 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1013717 I'm trying to come up with baby names for both sexes, something that is different, yet not too out there and strong. Any suggestions? Tue, 07 Oct 2008 20:39:44 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1013717 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1013715 Why do abusive people blame others for their behaviour? Tue, 07 Oct 2008 20:38:30 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1013715 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/991123 Please help, I'm at my wits end! I have been with my partner for 3 yrs and I'm pregnant with his child. He's an addict. I catch glimpses of the man I want from time to time but he never stays for good. Am I wasting my time? Thu, 25 Sep 2008 15:15:27 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/991123 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/991108 I am pregnant, my partner is a speed addict. He wants to quit yet he can't go a week without it,the worse thing is he lies n he's good at it. He denies using even when I know 4 sure he has! I love him but it's ruining me mentally. Thu, 25 Sep 2008 15:11:11 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/991108 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/822816 I = found out I'm pregnant early this wk,my partner called today,our relationship has been far from perfect. I told him I'm having second thoughts about having the baby. His response was "If u hav an abortion don't ever spk to me again" Is that wrong? Wed, 25 Jun 2008 21:50:01 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/822816 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/815072 Has anyone been with a drug addict and suffered abuse and lies and it has gotten better when they quit? Fri, 20 Jun 2008 22:11:53 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/815072 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/815045 My boyfriend has cheated, lied, been a drug addict and abused me. Why do I still love him and beleive him when he says it's going to get better? Fri, 20 Jun 2008 21:41:58 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/815045 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/806136 Has anyone been a victim of domestic violence and been the instigator of the argument? I mean, he never hits me for no reason. Can anyone relate? If so what did you do? How did it turn out? He says he has never hit ex girlfriends, I get him to that point? Sun, 15 Jun 2008 22:08:19 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/806136 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/724887 Can anyone share their experiences of taking SSIR for depression. Did it help? Tue, 29 Apr 2008 22:31:59 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/724887 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/724885 Does anyone have any suggestions for overcoming jealousy? Tue, 29 Apr 2008 22:30:29 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/724885 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/714229 Can anyone please share their experiences of getting a negative preganancy test and actually being pregnant? Or any other reason to miss a period? I don't feel pregnant (have been b4 and miscarried) but i'm normally regular, now 6 days late. Wed, 23 Apr 2008 14:50:42 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/714229 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/712445 I am now 5 days late and I took a test 2 days ago and it was negative. (Urine Test at Drs) I have only just come off my contraception this last month, is there a possibility I am pregnant if test was neg? If not where are they? Tue, 22 Apr 2008 14:38:58 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/712445 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/709274 Where do you meet people these days?I'm getting a little older now and looking for someone more serious. I'm 28 and attractive, I do modelling part time I just lack a bit of self confidence and conversation skills. Sun, 20 Apr 2008 17:46:43 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/709274 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/704595 I think I am pregnant and my boyfriend is an iv drug user and I'm always in two minds about staying or going. I love him but finally starting to realise the drugs have a stronger pull over him than his love for me. What do I do? Do I have an abortion? Thu, 17 Apr 2008 15:49:47 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/704595 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/699865 I think my boyfriend is controlling and he has an addiction, he can treat me badly sometimes and lie due to drugs. I still love him and want to be with him but know I have to end it, any advice on how to make this easier? Mon, 14 Apr 2008 19:51:55 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/699865 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/699857 Has anyone been with someone where there are so many issues in the relationship and you can guarantee there will be at least 1 fight p/wk but for some reason neither party wants to walk away? Mon, 14 Apr 2008 19:47:37 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/699857 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/699808 When my boyfriend does something wrong he turns the focus around onto something I've done recently and takes the focus of himself. Is this a form of emotional abuse or his way to get power or is this normal? Mon, 14 Apr 2008 19:17:15 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/699808 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/641410 Has anyone ever lost it at someone who has emotionally abused you for so long? I am so upset about my behaviour, I was absolutely out of control and I just want to know if anyone else has reacted this way? Tue, 11 Mar 2008 14:48:28 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/641410 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/630199 I always want sex evenn if it's not good for me. Is there something going on mentally there? Thu, 06 Mar 2008 19:49:04 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/630199 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/630110 Is there any cheaters/ liars out there who have reformed? Thu, 06 Mar 2008 19:27:52 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/630110 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/629491 Has anyone stayed with Cheater/ Liar and he reformed his ways or is it true leopards don't change their spots? Thu, 06 Mar 2008 14:15:17 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/629491 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/629485 Has anyone stayed with a partner that has cheated and have you regained trust and it's worked out? Thu, 06 Mar 2008 14:09:17 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/629485 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/629476 What does eternally rependent Mean? Thu, 06 Mar 2008 14:00:55 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/629476 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/629455 How do I keep my puppy from getting bored during the day when I'm at work? He has toys and bones. Any other ideas? Thu, 06 Mar 2008 13:43:13 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/629455 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/629454 How do you know if he's the one? Is there any such thing really? Or do we all just settle? Thu, 06 Mar 2008 13:41:32 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/629454 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/625876 Has anyone had a partner who, once a junkie, has reformed and totally changed their lives? Or am I just wasting my time? Mon, 03 Mar 2008 21:13:18 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/625876 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/625538 I can be overly jealous n untrusting wit my boyfriend-he has cheated n swears he'll neva do again,but he swore he would never do this from the start.He lies a lot due to his drug use.Is there something wrong with me,or am I just reacting to his behaviour? Mon, 03 Mar 2008 16:07:27 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/625538 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/625499 I am on a journey of trying to find myself and learning to love myself. I am 28 and have not married or had children, my last relationship was very unhealthy, has anyone got any advice? Mon, 03 Mar 2008 15:47:58 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/625499 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/624334 I love my boyfriend when he's himself but he's often not himself due to drugs and can abuse me both mentally and physically. He wants to get better. What do I do? Sun, 02 Mar 2008 20:01:47 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/624334 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/624333 I love my boyfriend when he's himself but he's often not himself due to drugs and can abuse me both mentally and physically. He wants to get better. What do I do? Sun, 02 Mar 2008 20:01:45 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/624333 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/620400 Will he ever change or am I just wasting my time? He has cheated on me and swears he regrets it and will never do this again. He is an IV drug user and has lied to me a lot in relation to this. He has physically abused me. But when he's good he's good? Thu, 28 Feb 2008 20:43:30 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/620400