Answerbag: katespana's questions http://www.answerbag.com/profile/285258 New Answerbag questions from katespana Tue, 29 May 2012 09:42:27 -0700 Tue, 29 May 2012 09:42:27 -0700 what percentage of population of UK were university students in 1975 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/2631419 what percentage of population of UK were university students in 1975 Mon, 12 Dec 2011 05:06:08 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/2631419 Was there segregation in Britain during WW2 (1939 - 45). in public places due to American military influence? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1932755 Was there segregation in Britain during WW2 (1939 - 45). in public places due to American military influence? Fri, 26 Feb 2010 10:49:53 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1932755 Have you heard of a poem called 'Dark Land of Light' by Kate Roberts? What do you think of it? (http://www.freewebs.com/katpoet) http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1924476 Have you heard of a poem called 'Dark Land of Light' by Kate Roberts? What do you think of it? (http://www.freewebs.com/katpoet) Fri, 19 Feb 2010 09:07:24 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1924476 How can I get a full screen view on Sony Bloggie to take pictures? Half is date display etc., http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1923789 How can I get a full screen view on Sony Bloggie to take pictures? Half is date display etc., Thu, 18 Feb 2010 10:31:23 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1923789 What is a 'coat' on AB? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1776377 What is a 'coat' on AB? Wed, 28 Oct 2009 03:36:28 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1776377 I've had symptoms similar to cystitis and seen the doc. He gave me strong antibiotics and I've been drinking lots of water but I have a headache and feel a bit lightheaded. Also, still frequent urge to pee, no pain or blood now. I finish meds tomorrow? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1687599 I've had symptoms similar to cystitis and seen the doc. He gave me strong antibiotics and I've been drinking lots of water but I have a headache and feel a bit lightheaded. Also, still frequent urge to pee, no pain or blood now. I finish meds tomorrow? Wed, 09 Sep 2009 11:30:28 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1687599 I have a problem with my Sony Vaio laptop - just recently it won't allow me to click on a link in any email and go to the site I want. I have to copy and paste. I tried disc-cleaning but nothing's changed. Can anyone help please? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1680077 I have a problem with my Sony Vaio laptop - just recently it won't allow me to click on a link in any email and go to the site I want. I have to copy and paste. I tried disc-cleaning but nothing's changed. Can anyone help please? Sat, 05 Sep 2009 01:51:40 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1680077 A lot of bad things happened to us since we moved abroad, robberies, fraud, loss, relationship problems etc., 8 years of it. Now the house has been burgled, all my memories gone. Should we sell up, are we in the wrong place and ought to see the signs? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1664679 A lot of bad things happened to us since we moved abroad, robberies, fraud, loss, relationship problems etc., 8 years of it. Now the house has been burgled, all my memories gone. Should we sell up, are we in the wrong place and ought to see the signs? Thu, 27 Aug 2009 16:52:56 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1664679 A woman, most loving and wonderful friend I ever had, ignored all my messages, emails etc., when I had to go away for 6 months. I try to keep in touch, send her funny or loving messages but she doesn't reply. Why? Is she not my friend after all, or what? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1664674 A woman, most loving and wonderful friend I ever had, ignored all my messages, emails etc., when I had to go away for 6 months. I try to keep in touch, send her funny or loving messages but she doesn't reply. Why? Is she not my friend after all, or what? Thu, 27 Aug 2009 16:50:03 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1664674 I put on a lot of weight - 14 lbs over a short period. It's all around my tummy. Post-menopausal but always kept my weight ok till now. Eating less yet weight still creeping up. Is this a symptom of something or just an age thing? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1637191 I put on a lot of weight - 14 lbs over a short period. It's all around my tummy. Post-menopausal but always kept my weight ok till now. Eating less yet weight still creeping up. Is this a symptom of something or just an age thing? Thu, 13 Aug 2009 14:05:56 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1637191 I developed a fear of swimming out of my depth in the pool. I'm a good swimmer and have been for years. Can anyone suggest why this happened and what I might do about it please? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1599178 I developed a fear of swimming out of my depth in the pool. I'm a good swimmer and have been for years. Can anyone suggest why this happened and what I might do about it please? Sun, 26 Jul 2009 07:02:49 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1599178 I developed a sudden fear of swimming out of my depth (approx 2 yrs ago). I used to be a good swimmer. I have only managed to swim in the deep end a few times since then and its got worse. Can anyone help with this phobia? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1591832 I developed a sudden fear of swimming out of my depth (approx 2 yrs ago). I used to be a good swimmer. I have only managed to swim in the deep end a few times since then and its got worse. Can anyone help with this phobia? Wed, 22 Jul 2009 16:15:43 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1591832 I know we're all alone and 'create our own lives' etc., But. I'm stuck on why/how did I create such misery for myself when I am a loving person, good fun, warm etc., yet he is so cold it's always winter around here - even in 110F. Please help me. http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1591807 I know we're all alone and 'create our own lives' etc., But. I'm stuck on why/how did I create such misery for myself when I am a loving person, good fun, warm etc., yet he is so cold it's always winter around here - even in 110F. Please help me. Wed, 22 Jul 2009 16:02:41 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1591807 How long can a viper remain under water? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1466036 How long can a viper remain under water? Mon, 18 May 2009 10:53:29 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1466036 After a painful separation of 18 months we are trying again but some women in our social group are excluding me and make spiteful remarks, yet seem warm towards him, as if they bonded in my absence. How can I deal with this problem, it's getting me down? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1422909 After a painful separation of 18 months we are trying again but some women in our social group are excluding me and make spiteful remarks, yet seem warm towards him, as if they bonded in my absence. How can I deal with this problem, it's getting me down? Fri, 24 Apr 2009 12:49:56 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1422909 My son's (separated) wife is trying to poison our grandchildren's minds against me and the rest of our family who have never done harm to her in any way. How can we stop her hatred and lies? (She was the one who broke up the marriage BTW.) http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1422897 My son's (separated) wife is trying to poison our grandchildren's minds against me and the rest of our family who have never done harm to her in any way. How can we stop her hatred and lies? (She was the one who broke up the marriage BTW.) Fri, 24 Apr 2009 12:43:03 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1422897 Do you believe we create our own reality by our thoughts? How do you do it, if so and wouldn't we all be much happier if we really could do that? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1422889 Do you believe we create our own reality by our thoughts? How do you do it, if so and wouldn't we all be much happier if we really could do that? Fri, 24 Apr 2009 12:38:47 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1422889 You people who make a habit or a hobby of DR'ing people's questions, especially if they're of a religious or sexual variety, will you please, I ask respectfully, explain WHY? Why not just offer argument/reasons/opinions? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1422884 You people who make a habit or a hobby of DR'ing people's questions, especially if they're of a religious or sexual variety, will you please, I ask respectfully, explain WHY? Why not just offer argument/reasons/opinions? Fri, 24 Apr 2009 12:36:58 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1422884 I recently got DR'd for three separate questions relating to God, the Devil and breast surgery. Can anyone tell me why? I said nothing offensive in any of these questions. Shouldn't there be a moderation process when this happens? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1413916 I recently got DR'd for three separate questions relating to God, the Devil and breast surgery. Can anyone tell me why? I said nothing offensive in any of these questions. Shouldn't there be a moderation process when this happens? Mon, 20 Apr 2009 03:17:08 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1413916 What is the 'secret' of a happy marriage/relationship? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1366976 What is the 'secret' of a happy marriage/relationship? Tue, 24 Mar 2009 14:16:26 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1366976 Is 'togetherness' the recipe for marital/partnership happiness? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1366954 Is 'togetherness' the recipe for marital/partnership happiness? Tue, 24 Mar 2009 13:54:31 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1366954 My s/o is very critical, tells me I'm 'too this, or too that' and that even my son and wife feel I am. (He's referring to my trying to apologize/explain myself) Am I REALLT 'too much', do I have a probelm with myself? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1353766 My s/o is very critical, tells me I'm 'too this, or too that' and that even my son and wife feel I am. (He's referring to my trying to apologize/explain myself) Am I REALLT 'too much', do I have a probelm with myself? Mon, 16 Mar 2009 16:32:38 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1353766 Do you pay special attention to your AB Friends' questions - actually make a point of looking them up or do you just look at categories of interest? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1352855 Do you pay special attention to your AB Friends' questions - actually make a point of looking them up or do you just look at categories of interest? Mon, 16 Mar 2009 10:17:43 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1352855 Trying to get back with husband (25 yrs) after 1yr apart. He refuses to make love and says 'when I'm happy' when I ask him when? One of the reasons we split up was this lack of physical love (5 yrs ago he stopped as he was angry with me). What can I do? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1348340 Trying to get back with husband (25 yrs) after 1yr apart. He refuses to make love and says 'when I'm happy' when I ask him when? One of the reasons we split up was this lack of physical love (5 yrs ago he stopped as he was angry with me). What can I do? Sat, 14 Mar 2009 09:02:03 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1348340 Are true friends more important than the place you live? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1331939 Are true friends more important than the place you live? Sat, 07 Mar 2009 16:24:48 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1331939 Am I lacking sense of humour? I ask a friend to PLEASE call me me by the name I prefer and not a derivative I despise and ask someone she introduces me to do the same and 'friend' says, 'Call her old bag, that'll shut her up!' Am I doing something wrong? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1331938 Am I lacking sense of humour? I ask a friend to PLEASE call me me by the name I prefer and not a derivative I despise and ask someone she introduces me to do the same and 'friend' says, 'Call her old bag, that'll shut her up!' Am I doing something wrong? Sat, 07 Mar 2009 16:23:21 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1331938 He returns from (selfish) trip abroad on Sunday. I rush to meet him smiling and excited. Or not? I feel bad as he never invites/plans/ takes me anywhere and tho' I'm capable of going it alone - it's just alone. I feel resentful and hurt, should I show it? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1329945 He returns from (selfish) trip abroad on Sunday. I rush to meet him smiling and excited. Or not? I feel bad as he never invites/plans/ takes me anywhere and tho' I'm capable of going it alone - it's just alone. I feel resentful and hurt, should I show it? Fri, 06 Mar 2009 16:27:09 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1329945 Is it best to spend your money now, while you can, having a good time, or leave it to your grandchildren in your will? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1319478 Is it best to spend your money now, while you can, having a good time, or leave it to your grandchildren in your will? Mon, 02 Mar 2009 14:36:18 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1319478 I have a friend I really like but she never returns my hospitality (tho' she can afford to) and often lets me pay for lunch if we're out, doesn't bring wine to dinner etc., and generally seems to take advantage of my generous nature. What can I do? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1319466 I have a friend I really like but she never returns my hospitality (tho' she can afford to) and often lets me pay for lunch if we're out, doesn't bring wine to dinner etc., and generally seems to take advantage of my generous nature. What can I do? Mon, 02 Mar 2009 14:33:10 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1319466 I have a fairly slim figure and am not overweight but my thighs carry a lot of cellulite. Is it impossible to get rid of at my age (over 50) or is there something I can do about it? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1319456 I have a fairly slim figure and am not overweight but my thighs carry a lot of cellulite. Is it impossible to get rid of at my age (over 50) or is there something I can do about it? Mon, 02 Mar 2009 14:29:54 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1319456 A man I liked a lot was bereaved last year. Within a couple of months a neighbour's wife moved in with him. She is 20 years younger than him but left her husband for this man. What chance is there of this relationship lasting? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1313771 A man I liked a lot was bereaved last year. Within a couple of months a neighbour's wife moved in with him. She is 20 years younger than him but left her husband for this man. What chance is there of this relationship lasting? Sat, 28 Feb 2009 08:51:07 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1313771 How can I get my husband to have sex with me again - he suddenly stopped five years ago as a result of anger towards me. We've been apart for over a year but are now trying to work it out together. The sex thing just doesn't seem to be there for him tho'? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1313365 How can I get my husband to have sex with me again - he suddenly stopped five years ago as a result of anger towards me. We've been apart for over a year but are now trying to work it out together. The sex thing just doesn't seem to be there for him tho'? Sat, 28 Feb 2009 04:28:24 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1313365 He says he wants to try to make it work with us but never seems enthusiastic, complimentary, interested in me when we meet after long absences, what ought I to do? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1312213 He says he wants to try to make it work with us but never seems enthusiastic, complimentary, interested in me when we meet after long absences, what ought I to do? Fri, 27 Feb 2009 15:18:29 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1312213 If you haven't seen s/o for a while and he looks 'switched off' and is withdrawn when you meet what do you think is happening? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1312209 If you haven't seen s/o for a while and he looks 'switched off' and is withdrawn when you meet what do you think is happening? Fri, 27 Feb 2009 15:15:40 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1312209 Your s/o wants to go to Daytona Bike Week without you, with a bunch of mates, how would you feel? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1312206 Your s/o wants to go to Daytona Bike Week without you, with a bunch of mates, how would you feel? Fri, 27 Feb 2009 15:13:59 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1312206 What's the big deal about Daytona Bike Week? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1312199 What's the big deal about Daytona Bike Week? Fri, 27 Feb 2009 15:12:26 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1312199 I'm happy after a long and painful separation. I still love my ex and now, finally (!) he says he loves me. Do I give it another go - together 25 years - or do I say after 18 months, too lonely too long? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1289983 I'm happy after a long and painful separation. I still love my ex and now, finally (!) he says he loves me. Do I give it another go - together 25 years - or do I say after 18 months, too lonely too long? Wed, 18 Feb 2009 15:15:21 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1289983 What is moderation (AB) and when/why is it used? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1273663 What is moderation (AB) and when/why is it used? Wed, 11 Feb 2009 14:50:24 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1273663 Is it possible that a person can keep a drug habit a secret when they live with you? Sounds naive, but it's a serious question from a worried woman. http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1257424 Is it possible that a person can keep a drug habit a secret when they live with you? Sounds naive, but it's a serious question from a worried woman. Wed, 04 Feb 2009 14:33:29 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1257424 Has anyone else found that after a certain amount of time it's so much harder to think of interesting or meaningful questions to ask? I feel almost 'questioned out' a bit like therapy when you get to the point where you feel sort of 'emptied out'? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1256686 Has anyone else found that after a certain amount of time it's so much harder to think of interesting or meaningful questions to ask? I feel almost 'questioned out' a bit like therapy when you get to the point where you feel sort of 'emptied out'? Wed, 04 Feb 2009 08:09:03 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1256686 Has anyone on AB permanently swapped their house? If so, how easy/difficult was it and what pitfalls ought I to be aware of, if any? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1256622 Has anyone on AB permanently swapped their house? If so, how easy/difficult was it and what pitfalls ought I to be aware of, if any? Wed, 04 Feb 2009 07:34:52 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1256622 Has anyone had porcelain tooth veneers fitted? If so, what are the drawbacks and how effective are they? Also, how long do they last and are they painful to fit? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1250574 Has anyone had porcelain tooth veneers fitted? If so, what are the drawbacks and how effective are they? Also, how long do they last and are they painful to fit? Sun, 01 Feb 2009 15:12:06 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1250574 Is it possible to catch genital herpes or another STD simple by sleeping naked in the same bed on a frequent basis, but no sexual contact? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1247336 Is it possible to catch genital herpes or another STD simple by sleeping naked in the same bed on a frequent basis, but no sexual contact? Sat, 31 Jan 2009 02:09:54 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1247336 When choosing a new home what's most important, locale; friends; family; ease of transport/walking distance to shops etc.,? It would be good to get everything but I'm trying to prioritise, can you help? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1235611 When choosing a new home what's most important, locale; friends; family; ease of transport/walking distance to shops etc.,? It would be good to get everything but I'm trying to prioritise, can you help? Mon, 26 Jan 2009 06:57:58 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1235611 Has anyone tried natural progesterone cream? Is it effective? Is it okay to use it along with Mexican Wild Yam cream - or should you only use one or the other, not both? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1229864 Has anyone tried natural progesterone cream? Is it effective? Is it okay to use it along with Mexican Wild Yam cream - or should you only use one or the other, not both? Fri, 23 Jan 2009 13:45:34 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1229864 Is teeth bleaching detrimental to teeth? And if you bleach for longer than two weeks is this harmful in any way? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1227537 Is teeth bleaching detrimental to teeth? And if you bleach for longer than two weeks is this harmful in any way? Thu, 22 Jan 2009 14:10:17 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1227537 Has anyone tried the South Beach Diet? If so, did it work and is it easy to stay on for a long time? If you came off it, did you put weight straight back on? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1227531 Has anyone tried the South Beach Diet? If so, did it work and is it easy to stay on for a long time? If you came off it, did you put weight straight back on? Thu, 22 Jan 2009 14:08:06 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1227531 A friend wants all her friends to give money towards a pair of diamond earrings for her birthday. (She's quite well off and could easily afford to buy them herself). I feel uncomfortable about this and prefer to give her a personal gift. Should I? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1227524 A friend wants all her friends to give money towards a pair of diamond earrings for her birthday. (She's quite well off and could easily afford to buy them herself). I feel uncomfortable about this and prefer to give her a personal gift. Should I? Thu, 22 Jan 2009 14:03:35 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1227524 Is there any cure for chronic tendonitis of the feet? Apart from special insoles - which, tho' they help a little don't cure and the pain is crippling. My son has had this for 8 years now and its making his life very difficult, can anyone advise? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1208884 Is there any cure for chronic tendonitis of the feet? Apart from special insoles - which, tho' they help a little don't cure and the pain is crippling. My son has had this for 8 years now and its making his life very difficult, can anyone advise? Wed, 14 Jan 2009 14:32:22 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1208884 If you both really love each other and you can see where you have gone wrong and regret your mistakes can it ever work out if you go back to a relationship where the other person isn't prepared to acknowledge their own mistakes? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1208836 If you both really love each other and you can see where you have gone wrong and regret your mistakes can it ever work out if you go back to a relationship where the other person isn't prepared to acknowledge their own mistakes? Wed, 14 Jan 2009 14:10:43 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1208836 Has anyone else noticed that very often if you answer a question about religion, sex or health and you don't actually give the response they wanted you get DR'd for your trouble? I answered respectfully and as helpfully as poss. but got DR'd for this! http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1208829 Has anyone else noticed that very often if you answer a question about religion, sex or health and you don't actually give the response they wanted you get DR'd for your trouble? I answered respectfully and as helpfully as poss. but got DR'd for this! Wed, 14 Jan 2009 14:06:49 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1208829 What does the title 'Dark Land of Light' suggest to you? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1196403 What does the title 'Dark Land of Light' suggest to you? Fri, 09 Jan 2009 08:54:29 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1196403 Has anyone found a reliable cure or aid for snoring? Any advice please? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1196309 Has anyone found a reliable cure or aid for snoring? Any advice please? Fri, 09 Jan 2009 08:00:42 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1196309 My son, 36, has suffered a 'mystery illness' for eight years. Dizzy sensations, 'swimmy' head, foot pain and swelling in alternate feet and the symptoms relapse and recur. He's had many tests, even a lumbar puncture so it can't be MS, can it? What is it? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1196305 My son, 36, has suffered a 'mystery illness' for eight years. Dizzy sensations, 'swimmy' head, foot pain and swelling in alternate feet and the symptoms relapse and recur. He's had many tests, even a lumbar puncture so it can't be MS, can it? What is it? Fri, 09 Jan 2009 07:58:23 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1196305 My husband got a text message on Xmas Day from a friend (sorry, but I looked at his phone - he didn't tell me!) saying, 'Thanks for the sloupe you got me. Just what I always wanted!' What could it mean? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1191727 My husband got a text message on Xmas Day from a friend (sorry, but I looked at his phone - he didn't tell me!) saying, 'Thanks for the sloupe you got me. Just what I always wanted!' What could it mean? Wed, 07 Jan 2009 09:15:22 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1191727 Has anyone here heard of Second Life? If so, what's your opinion of it? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1189368 Has anyone here heard of Second Life? If so, what's your opinion of it? Tue, 06 Jan 2009 09:58:32 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1189368 Is breast enhancement surgery dangerous? What are the actual risks? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1187062 Is breast enhancement surgery dangerous? What are the actual risks? Mon, 05 Jan 2009 09:43:50 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1187062 I want this year to be different, how do I make it work better for me and get my self-esteem back up there again? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1186598 I want this year to be different, how do I make it work better for me and get my self-esteem back up there again? Mon, 05 Jan 2009 04:57:43 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1186598 I rekindled an old friendship with a married man - platonic, but I think he feels more for me than just friendship. I want to cool it down but am not sure of best way forward. I never wanted an affair but feel compromised now as he is keen to make 'dates' http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1186595 I rekindled an old friendship with a married man - platonic, but I think he feels more for me than just friendship. I want to cool it down but am not sure of best way forward. I never wanted an affair but feel compromised now as he is keen to make 'dates' Mon, 05 Jan 2009 04:55:18 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1186595 Is it possible to rekindle the flame after a five year gap in physical relations? If so, how? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1185441 Is it possible to rekindle the flame after a five year gap in physical relations? If so, how? Sun, 04 Jan 2009 14:41:18 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1185441 My husband gave up sex five years ago and blames me. I was going through a bad time emotionally and he cut himself off, but I felt lonely and abandoned. We're living apart now tho' I love him. He says he doesn't need relationship. Shall I forget him? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1184465 My husband gave up sex five years ago and blames me. I was going through a bad time emotionally and he cut himself off, but I felt lonely and abandoned. We're living apart now tho' I love him. He says he doesn't need relationship. Shall I forget him? Sun, 04 Jan 2009 04:13:57 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1184465 Deep down I still love my estranged husband, I've been trying to reunite us but he just seems to have neg. exaggerated and false memories of our time together (28 years) and a negative view of me, seeing no good qualities. I'm at a loss to know what to do http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1184440 Deep down I still love my estranged husband, I've been trying to reunite us but he just seems to have neg. exaggerated and false memories of our time together (28 years) and a negative view of me, seeing no good qualities. I'm at a loss to know what to do Sun, 04 Jan 2009 03:46:39 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1184440 Why would a man never let you give pleasure to him and only be interested in giving pleasure? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1148826 Why would a man never let you give pleasure to him and only be interested in giving pleasure? Mon, 15 Dec 2008 15:33:06 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1148826 DO opposites attract? And, if so, does the relationship work out? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1123013 DO opposites attract? And, if so, does the relationship work out? Tue, 02 Dec 2008 07:11:43 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1123013 How can I stop feeling lonely when I still long to be with my ex? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1107148 How can I stop feeling lonely when I still long to be with my ex? Sun, 23 Nov 2008 15:06:31 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1107148 I know I'm stuck and you wonderful people who've helped me before might get irritated and think me totally crazy, but I can't let go of the love feelings I have for my ex, yet he seems to have no such problems. He says he doesn't love me but I do him. http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1107147 I know I'm stuck and you wonderful people who've helped me before might get irritated and think me totally crazy, but I can't let go of the love feelings I have for my ex, yet he seems to have no such problems. He says he doesn't love me but I do him. Sun, 23 Nov 2008 15:04:50 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1107147 Why is it that someone insecure and 'clingy' is always seen as a pain and someone who should get dumped? When they are the ones who need love most of all, surely? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1107083 Why is it that someone insecure and 'clingy' is always seen as a pain and someone who should get dumped? When they are the ones who need love most of all, surely? Sun, 23 Nov 2008 14:24:40 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1107083 How do I meet a man who is creative, intelligent, sensitive, good-looking aged 50 - 60 (and single!) when all my friends are marreid couples and there's nowhere to go at night to meet people alone. (I live in the UK) http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1105117 How do I meet a man who is creative, intelligent, sensitive, good-looking aged 50 - 60 (and single!) when all my friends are marreid couples and there's nowhere to go at night to meet people alone. (I live in the UK) Sat, 22 Nov 2008 14:07:43 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1105117 Will Diana Vickers win the X Factor (UK)? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1105096 Will Diana Vickers win the X Factor (UK)? Sat, 22 Nov 2008 14:00:44 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1105096 What is the secret of eternal life? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1091117 What is the secret of eternal life? Sat, 15 Nov 2008 16:38:06 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1091117 Will you send me one dollar (at least) to help me change my llife? Think about this, it's a serious and challenging question. http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1091113 Will you send me one dollar (at least) to help me change my llife? Think about this, it's a serious and challenging question. Sat, 15 Nov 2008 16:35:56 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1091113 Can ANYbody help me? The pain of being-ness is becoming immense. Am I the only person who feels like they've fallen from anoth planet - like that David Bowie movie! Other people seem to roll with the blows better than I do. http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1091106 Can ANYbody help me? The pain of being-ness is becoming immense. Am I the only person who feels like they've fallen from anoth planet - like that David Bowie movie! Other people seem to roll with the blows better than I do. Sat, 15 Nov 2008 16:33:21 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/1091106 What's scary about just enjoying yourself? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/966272 What's scary about just enjoying yourself? Fri, 12 Sep 2008 11:15:38 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/966272 Is New York city a relatively safe place for a woman travelling alone? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/966082 Is New York city a relatively safe place for a woman travelling alone? Fri, 12 Sep 2008 08:57:43 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/966082 Have you ever been used as a 'go-between'? If so, how did it make you feel? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/966078 Have you ever been used as a 'go-between'? If so, how did it make you feel? Fri, 12 Sep 2008 08:55:48 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/966078 'Imagine there's no Heaven'... was John Lennon right? Are YOU 'a dreamer' too? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/966069 'Imagine there's no Heaven'... was John Lennon right? Are YOU 'a dreamer' too? Fri, 12 Sep 2008 08:51:00 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/966069 What saying or proverb did your mother use that has stayed with you and influenced you in some way? (Mine used to say, 'to thine own self be true'. It took me years to understand it but I adhere to it now.) http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/963866 What saying or proverb did your mother use that has stayed with you and influenced you in some way? (Mine used to say, 'to thine own self be true'. It took me years to understand it but I adhere to it now.) Thu, 11 Sep 2008 03:50:49 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/963866 What aspect of modern life do you find most frightening? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/963863 What aspect of modern life do you find most frightening? Thu, 11 Sep 2008 03:46:28 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/963863 Don't be mad, but I've regressed! I've tried so hard to move on from my broken marriage but still feel I love him and can't accept that it's all over. Was feeling much better but had to move back into the house a month ago before leaving for the UK. Help! http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/953714 Don't be mad, but I've regressed! I've tried so hard to move on from my broken marriage but still feel I love him and can't accept that it's all over. Was feeling much better but had to move back into the house a month ago before leaving for the UK. Help! Fri, 05 Sep 2008 09:12:30 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/953714 Will anyone give me points for this question to make up for DR's who trashed my careful, thoughtful responses to three different questions recently? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/946361 Will anyone give me points for this question to make up for DR's who trashed my careful, thoughtful responses to three different questions recently? Mon, 01 Sep 2008 10:13:38 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/946361 My long dark hair has really suffered due to the heat of this Spanish summer (40+) and feels dry and looks faded and tired. How can I restore its condition and make it glossy and dark again? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/930761 My long dark hair has really suffered due to the heat of this Spanish summer (40+) and feels dry and looks faded and tired. How can I restore its condition and make it glossy and dark again? Sun, 24 Aug 2008 03:43:47 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/930761 Have you ever tried acting more stupid, less intelligent than you really are? If so, why and in what situation? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/906895 Have you ever tried acting more stupid, less intelligent than you really are? If so, why and in what situation? Mon, 11 Aug 2008 09:07:48 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/906895 Do you ever pretend to be smarter than you are? And, if so, why and in what situation? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/906890 Do you ever pretend to be smarter than you are? And, if so, why and in what situation? Mon, 11 Aug 2008 09:05:01 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/906890 I never appeared on a school photo - illness always intervened (!). Also, as I couldn't live on campus at uni (I had two kids) then no one remembers me on Friends Reunited etc., Do I exist? How do I know? Has anyone else led such an invisible life? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/901333 I never appeared on a school photo - illness always intervened (!). Also, as I couldn't live on campus at uni (I had two kids) then no one remembers me on Friends Reunited etc., Do I exist? How do I know? Has anyone else led such an invisible life? Fri, 08 Aug 2008 08:42:38 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/901333 The Olympic games have begun today, Chinese women want their babies today (08/08/08) and it's my birthday! - first one without my ex to bring me a cup of tea in bed and a kiss and a pressie. But I'm very lucky to be alive. Is it anyone else's birthday? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/900822 The Olympic games have begun today, Chinese women want their babies today (08/08/08) and it's my birthday! - first one without my ex to bring me a cup of tea in bed and a kiss and a pressie. But I'm very lucky to be alive. Is it anyone else's birthday? Fri, 08 Aug 2008 00:48:46 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/900822 If time is not linear, then what is it? Can you explain the concept a little? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/898919 If time is not linear, then what is it? Can you explain the concept a little? Thu, 07 Aug 2008 04:03:59 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/898919 It's my birthday tomorrow - first one I've spent without my husband (sadly, we broke up last year). Who'll wish me a Happy Birhday? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/898916 It's my birthday tomorrow - first one I've spent without my husband (sadly, we broke up last year). Who'll wish me a Happy Birhday? Thu, 07 Aug 2008 03:59:16 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/898916 Are there any female AB'ers out there who live in Spain? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/896954 Are there any female AB'ers out there who live in Spain? Wed, 06 Aug 2008 05:07:53 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/896954 Do you think that psychology should be a compulsory part of the school curriculum for everyone aged 12+? Would this help kids to understand and empathize with each other, maybe lessen violence between gangs/individuals? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/889914 Do you think that psychology should be a compulsory part of the school curriculum for everyone aged 12+? Would this help kids to understand and empathize with each other, maybe lessen violence between gangs/individuals? Sat, 02 Aug 2008 06:19:16 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/889914 Can you contract genital herpes from a carrier if no bodily fluids are exchanged? Just close physical proximity/sleeping together? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/888337 Can you contract genital herpes from a carrier if no bodily fluids are exchanged? Just close physical proximity/sleeping together? Fri, 01 Aug 2008 08:08:27 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/888337 Fab farmhouse (160 yrs old), Andalucia, Southern Spain with two sep. apts. (1 & 2 bedrooms), large swimming pool, lovely gardens, sleeps 22 people total. Main house, 6 bedrooms, 3 baths, living room, dining room, library, office, kitchen. 620,000 euros? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/888329 Fab farmhouse (160 yrs old), Andalucia, Southern Spain with two sep. apts. (1 & 2 bedrooms), large swimming pool, lovely gardens, sleeps 22 people total. Main house, 6 bedrooms, 3 baths, living room, dining room, library, office, kitchen. 620,000 euros? Fri, 01 Aug 2008 08:03:00 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/888329 Is genital herpes more prevalent amongst gay men than heterosexuals (of either gender)? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/888316 Is genital herpes more prevalent amongst gay men than heterosexuals (of either gender)? Fri, 01 Aug 2008 07:55:10 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/888316 How long after being exposed to someone with genital herpes might a rash appear? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/888295 How long after being exposed to someone with genital herpes might a rash appear? Fri, 01 Aug 2008 07:42:22 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/888295 Can a blood-test detect genital herpes? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/888292 Can a blood-test detect genital herpes? Fri, 01 Aug 2008 07:40:10 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/888292 Can anyone help? For the 4th time in a year I have a red rash, tingly and itchy, it looks like spots, starts with one then spreads on inside of thighs towards crotch, first one side then the other - as if its catching. Aloe vera helps. What might it be? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/888287 Can anyone help? For the 4th time in a year I have a red rash, tingly and itchy, it looks like spots, starts with one then spreads on inside of thighs towards crotch, first one side then the other - as if its catching. Aloe vera helps. What might it be? Fri, 01 Aug 2008 07:35:51 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/888287 Is there a category for Philosopy or Ethics, if not could we have one? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/886606 Is there a category for Philosopy or Ethics, if not could we have one? Thu, 31 Jul 2008 10:48:42 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/886606 Is life a 'vale of tears' or something more? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/886599 Is life a 'vale of tears' or something more? Thu, 31 Jul 2008 10:46:26 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/886599 Would I be better off moving back to the UK (from Spain) so I can live near my family and friends, have a more interesting life and enjoy the culture, but leaving my now-separated husband behind? I've tried to make it work but it's no-go for him. http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/886022 Would I be better off moving back to the UK (from Spain) so I can live near my family and friends, have a more interesting life and enjoy the culture, but leaving my now-separated husband behind? I've tried to make it work but it's no-go for him. Thu, 31 Jul 2008 02:33:54 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/886022 Please tell me what is offensive about asking why some men 'go commando' (no underwear)? I am genuinely curious as to why they should? I got DR'd for asking this. Waht did I do wrong? http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/885382 Please tell me what is offensive about asking why some men 'go commando' (no underwear)? I am genuinely curious as to why they should? I got DR'd for asking this. Waht did I do wrong? Wed, 30 Jul 2008 17:10:00 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/885382 Is there anything I can take/eat/do to regain my sex drive which disappeared over last five years as a result of abstinence forced on me by my now separated husband? He made me feel unattractive, old and unsexy, yet my friends tell me I look very good http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/882474 Is there anything I can take/eat/do to regain my sex drive which disappeared over last five years as a result of abstinence forced on me by my now separated husband? He made me feel unattractive, old and unsexy, yet my friends tell me I look very good Tue, 29 Jul 2008 07:01:02 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/882474