what percentage of population of UK were university students in 1975
on December 12th, 2011 | One answer

Was there segregation in Britain during WW2 (1939 - 45). in public places due to American military influence?
on February 26th, 2010 | 2 answers

Have you heard of a poem called 'Dark Land of Light' by Kate Roberts? What do you think of it? (http://www.freewebs.com/katpoet)
on February 19th, 2010 | 2 answers | 2 people like this

How can I get a full screen view on Sony Bloggie to take pictures? Half is date display etc.,
on February 18th, 2010 | no answers

What is a 'coat' on AB?
on October 28th, 2009 | no answers | 5 people like this

I've had symptoms similar to cystitis and seen the doc. He gave me strong antibiotics and I've been drinking lots of water but...
on September 9th, 2009 | One answer | 4 people like this

I have a problem with my Sony Vaio laptop - just recently it won't allow me to click on a link in any email and go to the site I...
on September 5th, 2009 | One answer

A lot of bad things happened to us since we moved abroad, robberies, fraud, loss, relationship problems etc., 8 years of it. Now the...
on August 27th, 2009 | 2 answers | 1 person likes this

A woman, most loving and wonderful friend I ever had, ignored all my messages, emails etc., when I had to go away for 6 months. I try to...
on August 27th, 2009 | One answer | 2 people like this

I put on a lot of weight - 14 lbs over a short period. It's all around my tummy. Post-menopausal but always kept my weight ok till...
on August 13th, 2009 | 2 answers | 3 people like this

I developed a fear of swimming out of my depth in the pool. I'm a good swimmer and have been for years. Can anyone suggest why this...
on July 26th, 2009 | 2 answers | 4 people like this

I developed a sudden fear of swimming out of my depth (approx 2 yrs ago). I used to be a good swimmer. I have only managed to swim in the...
on July 22nd, 2009 | no answers | 1 person likes this

I know we're all alone and 'create our own lives' etc., But. I'm stuck on why/how did I create such misery for myself...
on July 22nd, 2009 | One answer | 1 person likes this

How long can a viper remain under water?
on May 18th, 2009 | One answer

After a painful separation of 18 months we are trying again but some women in our social group are excluding me and make spiteful...
on April 24th, 2009 | 3 answers | 7 people like this

My son's (separated) wife is trying to poison our grandchildren's minds against me and the rest of our family who have never...
on April 24th, 2009 | 9 answers | 6 people like this

Do you believe we create our own reality by our thoughts? How do you do it, if so and wouldn't we all be much happier if we really...
on April 24th, 2009 | 5 answers | 6 people like this

You people who make a habit or a hobby of DR'ing people's questions, especially if they're of a religious or sexual...
on April 24th, 2009 | 4 answers | 4 people like this

I recently got DR'd for three separate questions relating to God, the Devil and breast surgery. Can anyone tell me why? I said...
on April 20th, 2009 | 4 answers | 5 people like this

What is the 'secret' of a happy marriage/relationship?
on March 24th, 2009 | no answers | 4 people like this

Is 'togetherness' the recipe for marital/partnership happiness?
on March 24th, 2009 | One answer | 1 person likes this

My s/o is very critical, tells me I'm 'too this, or too that' and that even my son and wife feel I am. (He's...
on March 16th, 2009 | 3 answers | 2 people like this

Do you pay special attention to your AB Friends' questions - actually make a point of looking them up or do you just look at...
on March 16th, 2009 | 9 answers | 9 people like this

Trying to get back with husband (25 yrs) after 1yr apart. He refuses to make love and says 'when I'm happy' when I ask him...
on March 14th, 2009 | 5 answers | 3 people like this

Are true friends more important than the place you live?
on March 7th, 2009 | 2 answers | 2 people like this

Am I lacking sense of humour? I ask a friend to PLEASE call me me by the name I prefer and not a derivative I despise and ask someone she...
on March 7th, 2009 | 6 answers | 6 people like this

He returns from (selfish) trip abroad on Sunday. I rush to meet him smiling and excited. Or not? I feel bad as he never invites/plans/...
on March 6th, 2009 | 2 answers | 2 people like this

Is it best to spend your money now, while you can, having a good time, or leave it to your grandchildren in your will?
on March 2nd, 2009 | 5 answers | 3 people like this

I have a friend I really like but she never returns my hospitality (tho' she can afford to) and often lets me pay for lunch if...
on March 2nd, 2009 | 5 answers | 5 people like this

I have a fairly slim figure and am not overweight but my thighs carry a lot of cellulite. Is it impossible to get rid of at my age (over...
on March 2nd, 2009 | 3 answers | 1 person likes this

A man I liked a lot was bereaved last year. Within a couple of months a neighbour's wife moved in with him. She is 20 years younger...
on February 28th, 2009 | One answer | 1 person likes this

How can I get my husband to have sex with me again - he suddenly stopped five years ago as a result of anger towards me. We've been...
on February 28th, 2009 | 7 answers | 3 people like this

He says he wants to try to make it work with us but never seems enthusiastic, complimentary, interested in me when we meet after long...
on February 27th, 2009 | no answers

If you haven't seen s/o for a while and he looks 'switched off' and is withdrawn when you meet what do you think is...
on February 27th, 2009 | 5 answers | 2 people like this

Your s/o wants to go to Daytona Bike Week without you, with a bunch of mates, how would you feel?
on February 27th, 2009 | 6 answers | 4 people like this

What's the big deal about Daytona Bike Week?
on February 27th, 2009 | 2 answers

I'm happy after a long and painful separation. I still love my ex and now, finally (!) he says he loves me. Do I give it another go...
on February 18th, 2009 | 5 answers | 3 people like this

What is moderation (AB) and when/why is it used?
on February 11th, 2009 | no answers | 4 people like this

Is it possible that a person can keep a drug habit a secret when they live with you? Sounds naive, but it's a serious question from...
on February 4th, 2009 | 10 answers | 6 people like this

Has anyone else found that after a certain amount of time it's so much harder to think of interesting or meaningful questions to...
on February 4th, 2009 | One answer | 2 people like this

Has anyone on AB permanently swapped their house? If so, how easy/difficult was it and what pitfalls ought I to be aware of, if any?
on February 4th, 2009 | no answers

Has anyone had porcelain tooth veneers fitted? If so, what are the drawbacks and how effective are they? Also, how long do they last and...
on February 1st, 2009 | One answer

Is it possible to catch genital herpes or another STD simple by sleeping naked in the same bed on a frequent basis, but no sexual contact?
on January 31st, 2009 | One answer

When choosing a new home what's most important, locale; friends; family; ease of transport/walking distance to shops etc.,? It would...
on January 26th, 2009 | One answer | 4 people like this

Has anyone tried natural progesterone cream? Is it effective? Is it okay to use it along with Mexican Wild Yam cream - or should you only...
on January 23rd, 2009 | One answer | 1 person likes this

Is teeth bleaching detrimental to teeth? And if you bleach for longer than two weeks is this harmful in any way?
on January 22nd, 2009 | 2 answers | 1 person likes this

Has anyone tried the South Beach Diet? If so, did it work and is it easy to stay on for a long time? If you came off it, did you put...
on January 22nd, 2009 | no answers | 1 person likes this

A friend wants all her friends to give money towards a pair of diamond earrings for her birthday. (She's quite well off and could...
on January 22nd, 2009 | 8 answers | 7 people like this

Is there any cure for chronic tendonitis of the feet? Apart from special insoles - which, tho' they help a little don't cure...
on January 14th, 2009 | One answer

If you both really love each other and you can see where you have gone wrong and regret your mistakes can it ever work out if you go back...
on January 14th, 2009 | 6 answers | 2 people like this

Has anyone else noticed that very often if you answer a question about religion, sex or health and you don't actually give the...
on January 14th, 2009 | One answer | 3 people like this

What does the title 'Dark Land of Light' suggest to you?
on January 9th, 2009 | One answer | 1 person likes this

Has anyone found a reliable cure or aid for snoring? Any advice please?
on January 9th, 2009 | One answer | 3 people like this

My son, 36, has suffered a 'mystery illness' for eight years. Dizzy sensations, 'swimmy' head, foot pain and swelling...
on January 9th, 2009 | One answer | 3 people like this

My husband got a text message on Xmas Day from a friend (sorry, but I looked at his phone - he didn't tell me!) saying, 'Thanks...
on January 7th, 2009 | 3 answers | 2 people like this

Has anyone here heard of Second Life? If so, what's your opinion of it?
on January 6th, 2009 | One answer | 2 people like this

Is breast enhancement surgery dangerous? What are the actual risks?
on January 5th, 2009 | One answer | 1 person likes this

I want this year to be different, how do I make it work better for me and get my self-esteem back up there again?
on January 5th, 2009 | One answer | 2 people like this

I rekindled an old friendship with a married man - platonic, but I think he feels more for me than just friendship. I want to cool it...
on January 5th, 2009 | 5 answers | 3 people like this

Is it possible to rekindle the flame after a five year gap in physical relations? If so, how?
on January 4th, 2009 | 2 answers

My husband gave up sex five years ago and blames me. I was going through a bad time emotionally and he cut himself off, but I felt lonely...
on January 4th, 2009 | One answer

Deep down I still love my estranged husband, I've been trying to reunite us but he just seems to have neg. exaggerated and false...
on January 4th, 2009 | 2 answers | 1 person likes this

Why would a man never let you give pleasure to him and only be interested in giving pleasure?
on December 15th, 2008 | 4 answers | 2 people like this

DO opposites attract? And, if so, does the relationship work out?
on December 2nd, 2008 | no answers | 2 people like this

How can I stop feeling lonely when I still long to be with my ex?
on November 23rd, 2008 | One answer | 4 people like this

I know I'm stuck and you wonderful people who've helped me before might get irritated and think me totally crazy, but I...
on November 23rd, 2008 | no answers | 1 person likes this

Why is it that someone insecure and 'clingy' is always seen as a pain and someone who should get dumped? When they are the ones...
on November 23rd, 2008 | 2 answers | 2 people like this

How do I meet a man who is creative, intelligent, sensitive, good-looking aged 50 - 60 (and single!) when all my friends are marreid...
on November 22nd, 2008 | One answer | 2 people like this

Will Diana Vickers win the X Factor (UK)?
on November 22nd, 2008 | no answers | 1 person likes this

What is the secret of eternal life?
on November 15th, 2008 | 7 answers | 5 people like this

Will you send me one dollar (at least) to help me change my llife? Think about this, it's a serious and challenging question.
on November 15th, 2008 | 17 answers | 12 people like this

Can ANYbody help me? The pain of being-ness is becoming immense. Am I the only person who feels like they've fallen from anoth...
on November 15th, 2008 | One answer | 2 people like this

What's scary about just enjoying yourself?
on September 12th, 2008 | 3 answers | 4 people like this

Is New York city a relatively safe place for a woman travelling alone?
on September 12th, 2008 | 5 answers | 2 people like this

Have you ever been used as a 'go-between'? If so, how did it make you feel?
on September 12th, 2008 | 2 answers | 3 people like this

'Imagine there's no Heaven'... was John Lennon right? Are YOU 'a dreamer' too?
on September 12th, 2008 | 3 answers | 4 people like this

What saying or proverb did your mother use that has stayed with you and influenced you in some way? (Mine used to say, 'to thine own...
on September 11th, 2008 | 4 answers | 1 person likes this

What aspect of modern life do you find most frightening?
on September 11th, 2008 | 6 answers | 7 people like this

Don't be mad, but I've regressed! I've tried so hard to move on from my broken marriage but still feel I love him and...
on September 5th, 2008 | 2 answers | 3 people like this

Will anyone give me points for this question to make up for DR's who trashed my careful, thoughtful responses to three different...
on September 1st, 2008 | 4 answers | 4 people like this

My long dark hair has really suffered due to the heat of this Spanish summer (40+) and feels dry and looks faded and tired. How can I...
on August 24th, 2008 | One answer | 1 person likes this

Have you ever tried acting more stupid, less intelligent than you really are? If so, why and in what situation?
on August 11th, 2008 | 9 answers | 9 people like this

Do you ever pretend to be smarter than you are? And, if so, why and in what situation?
on August 11th, 2008 | One answer | 3 people like this

I never appeared on a school photo - illness always intervened (!). Also, as I couldn't live on campus at uni (I had two kids) then...
on August 8th, 2008 | One answer | 2 people like this

The Olympic games have begun today, Chinese women want their babies today (08/08/08) and it's my birthday! - first one without my ex...
on August 8th, 2008 | 8 answers | 6 people like this

If time is not linear, then what is it? Can you explain the concept a little?
on August 7th, 2008 | 14 answers | 4 people like this

It's my birthday tomorrow - first one I've spent without my husband (sadly, we broke up last year). Who'll wish me a Happy...
on August 7th, 2008 | 9 answers | 7 people like this

Are there any female AB'ers out there who live in Spain?
on August 6th, 2008 | One answer | 2 people like this

Do you think that psychology should be a compulsory part of the school curriculum for everyone aged 12+? Would this help kids to...
on August 2nd, 2008 | 6 answers | 6 people like this

Can you contract genital herpes from a carrier if no bodily fluids are exchanged? Just close physical proximity/sleeping together?
on August 1st, 2008 | 2 answers | 1 person likes this

Fab farmhouse (160 yrs old), Andalucia, Southern Spain with two sep. apts. (1 & 2 bedrooms), large swimming pool, lovely gardens,...
on August 1st, 2008 | no answers

Is genital herpes more prevalent amongst gay men than heterosexuals (of either gender)?
on August 1st, 2008 | 4 answers | 2 people like this

How long after being exposed to someone with genital herpes might a rash appear?
on August 1st, 2008 | 4 answers | 4 people like this

Can a blood-test detect genital herpes?
on August 1st, 2008 | One answer | 1 person likes this

Can anyone help? For the 4th time in a year I have a red rash, tingly and itchy, it looks like spots, starts with one then spreads on...
on August 1st, 2008 | 3 answers | 4 people like this

Is there a category for Philosopy or Ethics, if not could we have one?
on July 31st, 2008 | 2 answers | 5 people like this

Is life a 'vale of tears' or something more?
on July 31st, 2008 | 2 answers | 5 people like this

Would I be better off moving back to the UK (from Spain) so I can live near my family and friends, have a more interesting life and enjoy...
on July 31st, 2008 | 7 answers | 3 people like this

Please tell me what is offensive about asking why some men 'go commando' (no underwear)? I am genuinely curious as to why they...
on July 30th, 2008 | 4 answers | 4 people like this

Is there anything I can take/eat/do to regain my sex drive which disappeared over last five years as a result of abstinence forced on me...
on July 29th, 2008 | One answer | 2 people like this

What does it mean if someone says, 'You're special', but then moves in with someone else? ( I made it clear I was more...
on July 26th, 2008 | 5 answers | 3 people like this

Did anyone else come home early tonight because they couldn't find a parking spot and decide it was more interesting to be on AB...
on July 26th, 2008 | One answer | 1 person likes this

Why does the 'activity' level seem to drop off when you're no longer an AB 'beginner', I mean the answers, not...
on July 26th, 2008 | 2 answers | 3 people like this

What effect does ginseng have on your body and is it okay for both men and women?
on July 26th, 2008 | 2 answers | 1 person likes this

If someone says to you that they have 'committed suicide' (but they're not being literal) what would you think they meant?
on July 23rd, 2008 | 7 answers | 2 people like this

Are you female, aged 45 -60 with a a sense of fun and adventure? Do you want to join me on a road trip through Spain and into Portugal...
on July 23rd, 2008 | no answers

Are there any female AB'ers out there who live in/near to Mojacar, Spain aged between 45 - 60 who fancy a nice long trip through...
on July 23rd, 2008 | One answer | 1 person likes this

Why do flies decide you're their friend and even land on your hand or even your fly-swat when it's obvious you don't have...
on July 22nd, 2008 | 4 answers | 1 person likes this

If someone says they have 'committed suicide', what does this mean in real terms? What should I do to help this situation?
on July 22nd, 2008 | One answer | 1 person likes this

Please can we have a 'justification box' for those AB'ers who like to DR perfectly reasonable questions, couched in...
on July 22nd, 2008 | One answer | 3 people like this

Does distance really work best when trying to get over the pain of loss when a relationship ends? Should I go away for a while and not...
on July 22nd, 2008 | 3 answers | 3 people like this

I still can't let go of the love I feel for my husband of 25 years who has serious communication problems. (That's why...
on July 22nd, 2008 | 2 answers | 3 people like this

I'm depressed as the man I thought I might end up with has someone else and my estranged husband wants nothing to do with me,...
on July 21st, 2008 | 5 answers | 3 people like this

How can I muster enough courage to travel through Spain and Europe alone in my car?
on July 21st, 2008 | One answer | 1 person likes this

How can I make sure that I'm safe if I travel alone through Spain/Europe by car?
on July 21st, 2008 | no answers | 1 person likes this

I fell in love with a man who recently lost his wife. We were attracted to each for the past 3 years. I He seemed to be in great pain...
on July 21st, 2008 | 5 answers | 1 person likes this

Can you suggest a route (by car) to travel from Seville (Spain) that takes in the best sights in Andalucia and other parts of Sapin and...
on July 18th, 2008 | One answer | 1 person likes this

What might help youths give up knife-crimes? There have been 21 fatal stabbings in London this year, all young men under 21.
on July 18th, 2008 | 4 answers | 2 people like this

I didn't go on AB for a few days as I was ill. But I read two books and watched two movies and felt a resurge of creative energy....
on July 17th, 2008 | 2 answers | 4 people like this

I live in a place that lacks culture, locally. There's sea, sun, sand and lots of bars but no theatres, cinemas, university etc.,...
on July 12th, 2008 | One answer | 1 person likes this

Do you think that compulsory National Service would help prevent crime in the UK?
on July 12th, 2008 | 6 answers | 3 people like this

Has anyone else noticed, if you do not make a bland response you get rejection - not even being rude, just honest/challenging?
on July 11th, 2008 | 2 answers | 5 people like this

Can you suggest some ideas to give me inspiration for a poem?
on July 9th, 2008 | 4 answers | 2 people like this

I don't mind down-rate IF there's an explanation - isn't discussion/exchange of ideas, knowledge etc., what this site is...
on July 9th, 2008 | One answer | 4 people like this

I look young for my years, so much so that men half my age are attracted. But the problem is they only seem sexually interested and I...
on July 7th, 2008 | 3 answers

Is there a point at which people stop being interested in the opposite sex and prefer the company of their own gender or just friends...
on July 7th, 2008 | One answer | 3 people like this

Have other AB'ers noticed a dropping-off in responses? Is it a seasonal thing or what?
on July 7th, 2008 | One answer | 1 person likes this

I'm going to see Bob Dylan in Lorca (Spain) tomorrow. Has anyone else seen him perform recently, what was he like?
on July 3rd, 2008 | One answer | 2 people like this

Would a demon be defeated if faced with a 'pure' soul, someone who had true love in their hearts?
on June 30th, 2008 | 3 answers | 3 people like this

Could there be 'forces' that could create ill-effects, sort of 'encircle' someone so that they are isolated and...
on June 30th, 2008 | 2 answers | 4 people like this

This man I'm very keen on (!) is recently bereaved so isn't ready for a relationship. But he blows hot and cold with me and I...
on June 29th, 2008 | 2 answers | 4 people like this

I'm recently separated from my husband and would like a relationship with another man. So far, nothing has happened. But at what...
on June 28th, 2008 | One answer

My oldest son found my youngest son's wife with another man, should he tell his brother? The marriage has been in difficulty for...
on June 28th, 2008 | 3 answers | 2 people like this

A man I'm very attracted to said that I was 'special'. Does this mean he has similar feelings towards me or was he just...
on June 28th, 2008 | 2 answers | 2 people like this

Some people around me are 'blanking' me since my husband and I separated. Particularly since they see that I'm attracted...
on June 16th, 2008 | 2 answers | 3 people like this

If a question is marked 'duplicate' but one disagrees (as in my recent question in Books and Writing, 'what's the...
on June 16th, 2008 | 9 answers | 2 people like this

Men, please, in your opinion would you prefer a woman to be beautiful, talented, successful, intelligent and popular with both sexes - or...
on June 13th, 2008 | 4 answers | 1 person likes this

Do men find women less attractive the more intelligent/qualified she is?
on June 13th, 2008 | 19 answers | 7 people like this

How far would you put yourself out for a friend? e.g give/lend them money, offer a roof over their heads indefinitely, feed them...
on June 13th, 2008 | 2 answers | 1 person likes this

What do you think is the purpose of life?
on June 13th, 2008 | no answers | 4 people like this

I've been gone for about ten days, the longest I've absented myself from AB (I'm usually here at least once a day!). Did...
on June 13th, 2008 | One answer

Were English university degrees harder to achieve thirty years ago?
on June 1st, 2008 | One answer | 1 person likes this

Is it true that he/she who suffers most wins in the end?
on June 1st, 2008 | 2 answers | 1 person likes this

Travelling light, female, what would you pack for a one week break in town?
on June 1st, 2008 | One answer | 2 people like this

Could AB be bad for your (mental) health? Shouldn't we be putting this energy into 'real' relationships? I find I keep...
on May 29th, 2008 | One answer | 3 people like this

Have you changed as a result of exchanging ideas/advice on AB?
on May 29th, 2008 | One answer | 2 people like this

What would make you knock a (AB) friend off your list of friends?
on May 29th, 2008 | 6 answers | 4 people like this

Is it possible to cure yourself of an obsession with someone?
on May 29th, 2008 | One answer | 1 person likes this

That special, singular connection where you're deeply appreciated and understood, where mutual empathy and concern are paramount....
on May 28th, 2008 | One answer | 1 person likes this

How do you free yourself of obsessive love?
on May 28th, 2008 | One answer | 1 person likes this

What would you say to your Inner Child if she kept trying to play with the 'wrong' company?
on May 27th, 2008 | One answer | 1 person likes this

Is it important to listen to your Inner Child? What does she/he say to you?
on May 27th, 2008 | One answer | 2 people like this

What does the phrase 'Dark Land of Light' say to you? Where do you think it might be?
on May 27th, 2008 | One answer | 2 people like this

Have you asked more questions or given more replies on AB?
on May 26th, 2008 | no answers | 1 person likes this

What was the strangest coincidence that happened in your life?
on May 26th, 2008 | no answers

It's my sister's birthday today - but she died twelve years ago. Will you send her a birthday prayer?
on May 26th, 2008 | 3 answers | 4 people like this

What song do you think of as 'our song'?
on May 26th, 2008 | 2 answers | 3 people like this

What was your first thought on waking today?
on May 26th, 2008 | no answers | 8 people like this

What was the first thing you did this morning after getting out of bed?
on May 26th, 2008 | 20 answers | 8 people like this

Would I be more likely to forget about my husband (separated 9 months) if I moved to a new place?
on May 25th, 2008 | One answer | 2 people like this

I think of myself as a kind, loving, lively person and friends reinforce this. But I seem to be somebody else in my (separated)...
on May 25th, 2008 | One answer | 2 people like this

How can a fit, handsome, tall and physically active, fully-functioning male give up sex at the age of 58 - five years ago? Is this possible?
on May 24th, 2008 | 2 answers | 1 person likes this

How can I get my husband to see that we ought to be together since we've been married 25 years? He says he's happy alone, as if...
on May 24th, 2008 | 2 answers | 2 people like this

I read that men use love to get sex and women use sex to get love - is this true?
on May 24th, 2008 | 4 answers | 1 person likes this

Can love grown cold ever warm up again?
on May 23rd, 2008 | 4 answers | 4 people like this

Do you think the meaning of your name has any influence on your personality?
on May 23rd, 2008 | 6 answers | 6 people like this

Would you like to re-name yourself? What name would you choose?
on May 23rd, 2008 | 6 answers | 2 people like this

How different is the 'self' you are now to the 'self' as defined by your early childhood and the role/s you adopted...
on May 23rd, 2008 | 3 answers | 2 people like this

Where did the 'tendai sect' of buddhism originate and what were its basic tenets?
on May 23rd, 2008 | 2 answers | 1 person likes this

What were the origins of the three (or four?) wise monkeys?
on May 23rd, 2008 | One answer

Have you ever heard of the fourth wise monkey (rather than three) - and what it symbolized?
on May 23rd, 2008 | One answer

Can you name the three wise monkeys?
on May 23rd, 2008 | 3 answers | 1 person likes this

I am finding it so hard to accept that my marriage has ended. I have been trying to improve our communication and show my husband that I...
on May 23rd, 2008 | 3 answers | 1 person likes this

Who would you choose to star as you in the movie of your life?
on May 23rd, 2008 | 24 answers | 7 people like this

What would be your 'desert island' movie?
on May 23rd, 2008 | One answer | 2 people like this

What's the first line in a book that's lying around near to you?
on May 23rd, 2008 | One answer | 2 people like this

Does anyone else regret the loss of 'proper' corks in wine bottles? And how do you feel about screw-tops? (I hate them - I like...
on May 21st, 2008 | 3 answers | 3 people like this

Can you catch herpes from a lavatory seat? And, is there a blood test that will show if you have it?
on May 18th, 2008 | 3 answers

If you could live in a huge house with pool, garden etc., but lonely and unhappy with rejecting partner or live in small apt. with...
on May 16th, 2008 | 3 answers | 1 person likes this

My separated husband now refers to our dog as 'my' dog (his), and our house as 'my' house and he doesn't bother...
on May 16th, 2008 | One answer | 1 person likes this

In matters of love, does 'unfinished business' just fade away if unrequited (mutual passions) - or does it go on the 'back...
on May 16th, 2008 | 2 answers | 2 people like this

How can I rid my thighs and upper arms of unsightly cellulite? I drink lots of water, but yes, I have a couple of bad habits too, like...
on May 15th, 2008 | 5 answers | 2 people like this

I am quite old (a granny already!) but look very young for my age and receive lots of male attention - from young men my son's age!...
on May 15th, 2008 | 3 answers | 1 person likes this

Are passionate feelings always reciprocal? (I'm thinking of physical contact, not a distant 'obsession')
on May 14th, 2008 | One answer | 1 person likes this

My husband - who I've experienced as cold, insensitve and punitive and who refuses to take any responsibility for our break-up (9...
on May 14th, 2008 | One answer | 1 person likes this

If you kiss someone and feel absolutely nothing - is this bound to be mutual? And, if you DO feel very stirred indeed - then does this...
on May 14th, 2008 | One answer | 1 person likes this

How do you get your website to be seen by lots of people?
on May 12th, 2008 | 3 answers | 1 person likes this

How would you feel if your old friends invited your recent ex to join them for an event he might enjoy but didn't invite you? (They...
on May 12th, 2008 | One answer | 1 person likes this

Do prostitutes ever 'enjoy' their clients, or is it always just an act?
on May 11th, 2008 | 12 answers | 5 people like this

What does it mean when someone says they 'want you to come back, in the Celtic New Year'?
on May 11th, 2008 | One answer | 1 person likes this

Old friends of mine, never really 'gelled' with my ex (and vice-versa) offer sympathy, support etc., Asked me twice if ex...
on May 11th, 2008 | One answer

What can be worth 3000 € in a sex-club?
on May 9th, 2008 | no answers

Why do some men 'go commando' (no underwear)?
on May 9th, 2008 | 65 answers | 27 people like this

What does it mean if a man has both fingernails of his little fingers filed to a point?
on May 9th, 2008 | One answer | 1 person likes this

Can we really be too honest for our own good?
on May 9th, 2008 | One answer | 4 people like this

What's a quick way to cure depression?
on May 9th, 2008 | 5 answers | 2 people like this

Do vasectomies make men less interested in sex?
on May 9th, 2008 | 5 answers | 3 people like this

I mean this respectfully, I am genuinely interested. Do prostitutes ever have a 'real' orgasm with their punters?
on May 9th, 2008 | One answer | 2 people like this

A recently bereaved man I believed was mutually attracted to me refuses my invitations to lunch, dinner etc., and I respect this. I saw...
on May 8th, 2008 | One answer | 2 people like this

Is it possible to have a meaningful relationship with someone who suffers from mild Asperger's syndrome? And what are the main...
on May 8th, 2008 | 7 answers | 2 people like this

What's the probable cause of a young man (under 35) suffering from bouts of foot pain and swelling (not gout) and what he describes...
on May 5th, 2008 | One answer | 1 person likes this

What are the main differences between psychologists and neuro-psychologists?
on May 5th, 2008 | 2 answers | 2 people like this

Is lack of eye contact in a long-term relationship a sign of a 'living lie' - I mean, even when you try to have intimate,...
on May 5th, 2008 | One answer | 1 person likes this

Is body-language really more truthful than words - so that even the person doing it (the gestures etc.,) is unaware they are...
on May 5th, 2008 | 3 answers | 2 people like this

What is love? When a relationship fails and you have to lose out and grieve and mourn but then move on - what was that emotion if it can...
on May 5th, 2008 | One answer | 2 people like this

I wrote a sad poem when I first split with my husband of 25 yrs (8months ago). IIt was about how we used to be and feel together. I feel...
on May 5th, 2008 | 3 answers | 2 people like this

What would you do if your recently estranged husband of 25 years put a photo of himself and his former wife (over 30 years ago!) on the...
on May 5th, 2008 | One answer | 1 person likes this

Are 'lap-dancing clubs' just another word for 'brothels'? Do you mind if your man goes there? (If you're a man,...
on May 4th, 2008 | 2 answers

Do you think the test of criminal responsibility should be, 'would you do it if a policeman were standing nearby?'
on May 3rd, 2008 | One answer

For the 'Forever Young' generation - are you? Forever young, still? If so, what do you put it down to?
on May 3rd, 2008 | One answer | 2 people like this

I'm going to see Bob Dylan play in Lorca (Southern Spain) in July. Has anyone else seen him live? Where, when, what was he like?
on May 3rd, 2008 | no answers

How do you decide where to make your home when your marriage breaks down in a 'foreign' country but your family back...
on May 3rd, 2008 | One answer | 1 person likes this

Can anyone enlighten me as to what actually goes on in a 'lap-dancing' club? I'm serious. I'd really like to know...
on May 2nd, 2008 | One answer | 2 people like this

Do you think this present 'older generation' of 55+ old hippies will really stay forever young?
on May 2nd, 2008 | 3 answers | 3 people like this

If someone tells you they find you 'challenging' and that's why they are interested/attracted to you, what would you think?
on May 2nd, 2008 | One answer

Why don't they allow women into 'lap-dancing- clubs?
on May 2nd, 2008 | 4 answers | 6 people like this

Why do some people laugh at horror movies?
on May 1st, 2008 | 14 answers | 7 people like this

If someone tells you the end of the movie does it spoil it for you?
on May 1st, 2008 | no answers | 2 people like this

If someone tells you the end of the movie does it spoil it for you?
on May 1st, 2008 | 2 answers | 1 person likes this

Do you ever read the end of a book first? If so, does it put you off reading it?
on May 1st, 2008 | 4 answers | 3 people like this

Ladies, please. Does it turn you on or off if a man you don't know very well approaches you with obvious sexual intent, like,...
on May 1st, 2008 | 9 answers | 5 people like this

What makes you want to contact old school friends? And if you did, how did you feel?
on April 30th, 2008 | 2 answers | 2 people like this

Why do some AB'ers only ask questions to get points and not out of genuine interest?
on April 30th, 2008 | 3 answers | 6 people like this

What contemporary movie directors would you recommend and what are their best movies?
on April 30th, 2008 | 4 answers | 2 people like this

Can you recommend any good psychologically gripping (not horror, please) movies?
on April 30th, 2008 | 2 answers

Is it usual to lose one's creative abilities as a result of the breakdown of a long-term relationship? How long might this state...
on April 29th, 2008 | One answer | 1 person likes this

If you could choose your next incarnation (if there is such a thing as re-incarnation, that is, but supposing there is just ofr the...
on April 28th, 2008 | 16 answers | 5 people like this

We separated 8 mnths ago, I've been very unhappy and tried to get my husband to talk and work on our relationship (28 yrs). He...
on April 21st, 2008 | 20 answers | 14 people like this

Does 'love' by its very nature sometimes attract its exact opposite? and why?
on April 20th, 2008 | One answer | 1 person likes this

If you really care for someone who isn't emotionally available due to fairly recent bereavement would it be better to stay away from...
on April 20th, 2008 | One answer | 2 people like this

What do you think of the book of Judith in the Old Testament?
on April 19th, 2008 | 5 answers | 2 people like this

If you feel happy, have good friends, an interest in life but still long for a s/o to share your life and love is this a form of...
on April 17th, 2008 | 2 answers | 2 people like this

Would you do something for money that could potentially harm your country and fellow countrymen?
on April 17th, 2008 | One answer | 2 people like this

Is it important to make someone laugh when you are getting to know each other, even if you are a fairly serious person and not feeling...
on April 17th, 2008 | 4 answers | 3 people like this

What do you say when someone you like a lot asks, 'Are you happy?'
on April 17th, 2008 | 2 answers | 3 people like this

Where in the world would you live if you wanted to be surrounded by natural beauty and be around thinking, creative people?
on April 17th, 2008 | 16 answers | 13 people like this

Are the Arts our way of 'killing time' or do they truly offer anything beyond the physical sense gratification of the moment?
on April 15th, 2008 | One answer | 2 people like this

If you feel guilty is it because you really are, but are not admitting it - even to yourself, really? I mean acknowledging what your...
on April 15th, 2008 | 20 answers | 2 people like this

Does anyone else feel concerned if they don't see their 'friends' asking questions any more?
on April 15th, 2008 | 3 answers | 4 people like this

What's the biggest prize you ever won and for what?
on April 15th, 2008 | 3 answers | 2 people like this

Give me one question you asked that didn't get a reply on AB?
on April 15th, 2008 | 6 answers | 6 people like this

Where is Royal 77? I miss him! Does anyone else miss him?
on April 14th, 2008 | 2 answers | 1 person likes this

What is the connection between Mozart's Magic Flute and Freemasonry?
on April 13th, 2008 | One answer | 1 person likes this

I answered a question in perfectly good faith with respect, integrity and to the best of my knowledge of the subject (homoeopathy), only...
on April 13th, 2008 | 4 answers | 4 people like this

Why do some AB'ers get so aggressive in their responses to what are, after all, perfectly valid questions - like the recent one...
on April 13th, 2008 | One answer | 1 person likes this

If you really loved your job and didn't need the money, would you work for free?
on April 11th, 2008 | 8 answers | 6 people like this

If you love two people how do you choose between them? (I'm thinking of s/o's not just friends)
on April 11th, 2008 | 4 answers | 2 people like this

What makes a muscle twitch if you haven't been exerting it unusually? A muscle in my inner arm near the elbow joint keeps twitching...
on April 11th, 2008 | 2 answers | 1 person likes this

Does anyone else think that Beef Chuck is really Royal 77 in disguise?
on April 11th, 2008 | One answer | 1 person likes this

Do you believe that some people are simply 'trash' and not worth bothering about?
on April 8th, 2008 | 9 answers | 11 people like this

If you could ask one question of the Dali Lhama what would it be?
on April 8th, 2008 | 2 answers | 3 people like this

If you could learn a new skill, e.g playing an instrument, what would you do and why?
on April 8th, 2008 | 20 answers | 13 people like this

Do you have a secret ambition?
on April 8th, 2008 | One answer | 3 people like this

'If I could turn back the hands of time'... would you change anything, really?
on April 8th, 2008 | no answers | 2 people like this

I felt very attracted to a man who seemed to feel the same, but his wife suddenly died. He now avoids me and I feel devastated. Is there...
on April 6th, 2008 | 3 answers | 2 people like this

Why is it that now I have left my husband after years of unhappiness and loneliness, I feel even worse? Have I made a mistake?
on April 6th, 2008 | 4 answers | 5 people like this

Have you ever loved someone, really loved them, but they're not family, yet the same sex? And you would die for them? And...
on April 4th, 2008 | One answer | 1 person likes this

Have you ever been in a truly creative mood? Like, Picasso, Matisse, Einstein? I mean, 'really' creative? Then what?
on April 4th, 2008 | One answer | 2 people like this

If you think you're in tune, and the other person seems to be echoing this, then they say they're bored with your...
on April 4th, 2008 | One answer | 2 people like this

If you have a close relationship, share all your worst nightmares, dreams etc., then the other person gives you a 'long-distance...
on April 4th, 2008 | 2 answers | 1 person likes this

Do you ever feel it's just you, nobody else exists, or feels, or cares, there's just you, alone out there?
on April 4th, 2008 | 17 answers | 8 people like this

What, in a poem expresses everything you ever wanted to say?
on April 4th, 2008 | 2 answers | 2 people like this

If you could have just one perfect thig happen before you die - what would that be?
on April 4th, 2008 | 6 answers | 5 people like this

Is it right that if you're not in the country (UK) and someone you don't know drives your car - it's for sale, that you...
on April 4th, 2008 | 2 answers | 1 person likes this

How long does an author have to be dead before copywright expires?
on April 4th, 2008 | One answer | 2 people like this

What was the last book you read that actually made you cry? (Mine was 'A thousand Splendid Suns' by Khalid Hosseini - author of...
on April 4th, 2008 | 10 answers | 8 people like this

I asked my husband if we could make an attempt at working on our relationship again, he said he 'can't imagine ever living with...
on April 4th, 2008 | 5 answers | 8 people like this

Is it really bad for you to go out after bathing, or is it an old wive's tale?
on April 4th, 2008 | 3 answers | 4 people like this

How long after the flu is it normal to feel tired?
on April 4th, 2008 | 2 answers | 1 person likes this

What do you understand of attachment theory?
on April 4th, 2008 | One answer | 1 person likes this

If you were stranded on a desert island and could choose one item, what would it be?
on April 4th, 2008 | no answers | 3 people like this

What three special qualities should a friend possess?
on April 4th, 2008 | 11 answers | 7 people like this

At what point do you decide that an unsatisfactory relationship is going nowhere?
on April 2nd, 2008 | 4 answers | 1 person likes this

Would you offer yourself for sacrifice if it meant that people would then live in harmony thereafter?
on April 2nd, 2008 | One answer | 2 people like this

Would you swap identities with someone rich & famous if it meant never seeing your present friends and family again?
on April 2nd, 2008 | 4 answers | 3 people like this

Do you think we are going to run of world resources soon, like within the next generation? If so, how does this make you feel?
on April 2nd, 2008 | 2 answers | 3 people like this

How do you react if someone criticizes or insults you?
on April 2nd, 2008 | 2 answers | 2 people like this

I accidentally hit the 'unsubscribe from comments' button, help! I LIKE comments. What can I do?
on April 1st, 2008 | no answers

Is love so important that you would harm (I don't mean physically) another for the sake of it?
on March 30th, 2008 | One answer | 2 people like this

How do I clear the history of my asked/answered questions in Answerbag?
on March 29th, 2008 | 3 answers | 4 people like this

Have you ever heard of Robin (Clive) Sarstedt? If so, have you seen him on Youtube singing 'My Resistance is Low'? What do you...
on March 29th, 2008 | no answers

Has anyone else been bitten by a 'no-see-'em' (thus called because they're almost invisible, but their bite...
on March 29th, 2008 | 8 answers | 7 people like this

Why are emotional reactions to certain situations considered 'weakness' by a lot of people ( mainly men?)?
on March 28th, 2008 | 3 answers | 2 people like this

Do you consider yourself to be a stable personality or do you have strange contradictory parts of you?
on March 28th, 2008 | 11 answers | 8 people like this

My Sony Vaio laptop (several years old) is suddenly going slower and making a lot more noise - can anyone advise, please?
on March 28th, 2008 | One answer

What do you look for in a relationship - five qualities, please?
on March 28th, 2008 | no answers | 5 people like this

Is it likely that I will never find another man to love now that I am older (over 55!)
on March 27th, 2008 | 10 answers | 7 people like this

Can you describe your mother in one sentence?
on March 27th, 2008 | 16 answers | 11 people like this

If you have more in common with friends than with family should you choose to live away from your family if living close means you...
on March 27th, 2008 | One answer | 1 person likes this

Would you rather live in a beautiful, stress-free environment with a great climate but no close relationships or in a boring, ugly place...
on March 27th, 2008 | 6 answers | 2 people like this

Do you think a preference for snakeskin shoes (by a man) is an indication of his personality? If so, what does it indicate to you?
on March 27th, 2008 | One answer | 2 people like this

What can you do if you feel neglected by your family and left out of gatherings and they don't even join you for your birthday...
on March 27th, 2008 | 3 answers | 1 person likes this

What is your favourite poem and why?
on March 27th, 2008 | no answers | 3 people like this

What, would you say, are the worst stresses of modern life?
on March 27th, 2008 | One answer | 1 person likes this

Would we all be better off if we stopped world trading and simply depended upon the natural resources of our own native countries? Apart...
on March 26th, 2008 | 2 answers | 2 people like this

Is it more of a 'man thing' to want to be alone when ill? Do women enjoy being cosseted more?
on March 26th, 2008 | 5 answers | 4 people like this

Since separating from my husband of many years I have discovered he had a 'secret life', involving prostitutes and drugs....
on March 26th, 2008 | 8 answers | 5 people like this

When you're ill do you prefer to be alone or do you want someone to look after you?
on March 26th, 2008 | 27 answers | 12 people like this

What's more important to you in a person, intelligence or sensitivity?
on March 26th, 2008 | 6 answers | 4 people like this

A man I love recently lost his wife. But is now ill, not eating properly and collapsed yesterday. He refuses my offers of help and...
on March 24th, 2008 | 5 answers | 6 people like this

Do you think it unethical to down-rate someone's answer if it takes the form of an opinion, but you didn't feel that it was...
on March 24th, 2008 | 9 answers | 8 people like this

Has anyone heard of a gang called The Scorpions? Where are they located?
on March 23rd, 2008 | One answer | 1 person likes this

I live in Spain and wnat to sell my house by auction. How do I go about it, can anyone advise please?
on March 23rd, 2008 | One answer | 1 person likes this

Would you choose to sell your soul to the Devil if it meant that you had limitless fame and power in this life?
on March 23rd, 2008 | 8 answers | 4 people like this

Would you prefer to know the exact time and date of your death if it meant that you were also guaranteed perfect health in the meantime?
on March 23rd, 2008 | 8 answers | 8 people like this

What is the quality we think of as beauty?
on March 22nd, 2008 | 5 answers | 4 people like this

Can you honestly say that you are beautiful?
on March 22nd, 2008 | 28 answers | 22 people like this

My friend's breasts have noticeably increased in size in a short space of time but she hasn't gained weight. She's...
on March 21st, 2008 | no answers

Is it justifiable to create embryos crossed with human and animal genes in order to create stem cells that might help to cure illnesses?
on March 21st, 2008 | One answer | 2 people like this

Are most Answerbaggers insomniacs? Or, does activity such as this over-stimulate the mind and keep you awake?
on March 21st, 2008 | 2 answers | 3 people like this

Do western people need something to believe in now that the Church has less influence and power in their lives? Would it help if the...
on March 19th, 2008 | 2 answers | 4 people like this

After 24 yrs of marriage I decided to live apart from my husband to see if we could improve our communication problems - he had withdrawn...
on March 19th, 2008 | One answer | 1 person likes this

Is it necessary for two people to have similar intellectual interests/level of ability? If there is a marked disparity does it mean that...
on March 18th, 2008 | 2 answers | 1 person likes this

When you're away from your pc (and Answerbag!) for a while, like a week or two, do you get withdrawal symptoms? I just did as I had...
on March 17th, 2008 | 3 answers | 6 people like this

Does anybody 'out there' REALLY give a damn?
on March 16th, 2008 | 2 answers | 1 person likes this

Has anyone dreamed of a lover then he really came into their life, even when it seemed impossible at the time of the dream?
on March 16th, 2008 | One answer

Why do I enjoy AB people more than 'real' people (no disrespect!)? I mean, I just don't seem to meet the kind of people...
on March 16th, 2008 | 2 answers | 6 people like this

Would anyone liketo check out my website and maybe visit Spain one day? www.freewebs.com/katpoet
on March 8th, 2008 | 4 answers | 3 people like this

Is avoidance of eye contact an avoidance of intimacy or something else? I mean continuous avoidance over a period of years within a...
on February 29th, 2008 | 6 answers | 7 people like this

Is a twenty year age gap too much between a man and a woman where the woman is the older but looks young for her age, but is no longer of...
on February 29th, 2008 | 3 answers | 3 people like this

My apartment has ducted hot air-conditioning that is very modern and efficient, but it makes the whole place stink of s***! What can be...
on February 29th, 2008 | One answer | 1 person likes this

Why doesn't answerbag add a reminder to rate a question when we answer one?
on February 29th, 2008 | One answer | 2 people like this

Does anyone else get a nice warm glow when someone not only remembers to rate their question but adds a comment that is reinforcing and...
on February 29th, 2008 | One answer | 1 person likes this

Has anyone heard of a biker group/chapter called The Scorpions? Are they affiliated to the HA? Do they have a presence in Europe?
on February 29th, 2008 | no answers

Does anyone know of a biker club known as 'The Scorpions'? Do they have a high profile?
on February 28th, 2008 | 3 answers | 1 person likes this

Why do people feel they need to 'take sides' when a couple splits up? And if they were always friends with one partner...
on February 27th, 2008 | 2 answers

Are The Scorpions connected to other big mc's? And are they a presence in Europe?
on February 25th, 2008 | no answers

Do films depicting 'reality' - but in terms of violence, influence others to similar behaviours?
on February 25th, 2008 | 2 answers

Are drug enhanced 'mystical' experiences as valid or long-lasting as 'enlightenment' gained through meditation or...
on February 24th, 2008 | 5 answers | 2 people like this

Are some people, who are capable in all other aspects of their life, totally incapable of emotional communication? Is this a sort of...
on February 24th, 2008 | One answer | 1 person likes this

Does anyone believe that Marlowe was in fact William Shakespeare? If so what makes you think this?
on February 24th, 2008 | 2 answers | 5 people like this

If someone plays sad songs where you can hear them, after you split up but never says anything along those lines to you, are they trying...
on February 22nd, 2008 | 2 answers | 3 people like this

Shouldn't there be an arbitrator if someone down-rates what is a valid question that gets good points and responses from others? Or,...
on February 22nd, 2008 | 3 answers | 4 people like this

How do you recognize a sociopath? Are they necessarily dangerous?
on February 21st, 2008 | One answer | 1 person likes this

A man I love says he loves me when he's drunk but keeps his distance when sober. We can't get together properly right now due...
on February 21st, 2008 | 5 answers | 2 people like this

A man I love says he loves me when he's drunk, also comes on to me in a loving way but keeps his distance when sober. He is unable...
on February 21st, 2008 | 2 answers | 1 person likes this

If you are an obsessive/compulsive personality would this mean that you can't trust your own judgment? Or that your judgment of...
on February 21st, 2008 | 2 answers | 2 people like this

Given the opportunity to 'catch out' a suspected partner, would you go for it or believe his denials?
on February 20th, 2008 | One answer

Is it possible that someone with say, narcissism could 'hide' this from most people and only reveal it to those who are closest?
on February 20th, 2008 | 8 answers | 7 people like this

There are some man-made caves in Italy which contain fantastic art. Has anyone been there or know where exactly the location is?
on February 20th, 2008 | 2 answers | 1 person likes this

There are some man-made caves in Italy called The Eighth Wonder of the World. Does anyone know where they are? Has anyone seen them?
on February 19th, 2008 | no answers

Is a sociopath born or created?
on February 17th, 2008 | 6 answers | 6 people like this

If someone was in love with you, would they ask you to act out their (pornographic/sexual) fantasies after less than a year together?
on February 17th, 2008 | 5 answers | 3 people like this

What makes people feel they can trust total strangers with their 'story', their personal questions, when they probably...
on February 15th, 2008 | 6 answers | 4 people like this

Which is the greatest art? Painting, music, literature or poetry and why? (I'm not excluding other 'arts' if you have an...
on February 15th, 2008 | One answer | 1 person likes this

Would you continue to phone someone who is going through a bad time but never phones back, yet seems pleased to see you when you meet but...
on February 14th, 2008 | 3 answers | 2 people like this

Does trying to prove your love make someone love you?
on February 14th, 2008 | 8 answers | 3 people like this

If someone avoids eye contact with you is this because they don't want to know you or they can't bear the truth of how they/you...
on February 14th, 2008 | 2 answers | 1 person likes this

Do you think that your next incarnation depends upon who/how you are in this life? (Assuming you believe in reincarnation)
on February 13th, 2008 | 3 answers | 2 people like this

What does it mean to feel you love someone deeply yet you can't communicate with each other? It's not infatuation, it's...
on February 13th, 2008 | One answer | 4 people like this

If you have grandchildren but they live in another country, is it possible they will feel a connection with you if you frequently send...
on February 13th, 2008 | 2 answers | 2 people like this

If two people have very different requirements/expectations from a relationship do they stand a chance of being happy together?
on February 13th, 2008 | 5 answers | 4 people like this

Can the love of another help a bereaved person to recover - even if they don't return that love?
on February 13th, 2008 | 2 answers | 2 people like this

Is romantic love a figment of our imagination? Or is it just a biological urge?
on February 13th, 2008 | One answer | 2 people like this

Is all art simply a neurotic response to life? Is it selfish indulgence to pursue what is essentially a solitary pastime? I'm...
on February 11th, 2008 | One answer

Do any of you use the questions from Answerbag to stimulate dinner party conversation? If so, what is the result?
on February 11th, 2008 | 3 answers | 3 people like this

What if there was a party for all the members of Answerbag, would it be all polite small talk or the best gig you've ever been to?
on February 10th, 2008 | 3 answers | 2 people like this

My husband has been emotionally and physically distant for years. He tells me I'm 'weak' by which he means emotional. He...
on February 10th, 2008 | 16 answers | 7 people like this

Why would someone you once loved so much that it broke your heart when they ended it contact you after six years, send 3 mails then when...
on February 10th, 2008 | 4 answers | 4 people like this

Is loneliness a 'normal' condition of life that we should accept or is it more 'normal' to be in a loving...
on February 9th, 2008 | 3 answers | 2 people like this

If one partner withdraws emotionally from the relationship and refuses to respond to the loneliness of the other, is this relationship...
on February 9th, 2008 | 4 answers | 6 people like this

Can an affair that began in secrecy ever come to fruition if the partner of one party suddenly dies before real commitment was made to...
on February 8th, 2008 | One answer | 1 person likes this

When someone is teetering on the brink of an affair and their long-term partner suddenly dies, what might be the expected outcome for the...
on February 8th, 2008 | no answers

When someone is teetering on the brink of an affair and their long-term partner suddenly dies, what might be the expected outcome for the...
on February 8th, 2008 | 3 answers | 4 people like this

Is extreme anger a normal reaction to a question regarding fidelity? Not asked in an accusatory manner but out of genuine concern, with...
on February 7th, 2008 | 2 answers | 1 person likes this

How do you stop loving someone who isn't interested in you?
on February 7th, 2008 | 5 answers | 3 people like this

Why would someone of same sex, friendly, pleasant, heterosexual whom you don't know well tell a malicious lie about your partner?...
on February 7th, 2008 | One answer | 1 person likes this