http://www.answerbag.com/profile/243422 New Answerbag answers from A goober Tue, 29 May 2012 09:26:21 -0700 Tue, 29 May 2012 09:26:21 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9797264 Is my rental lease invalid? Please, see first answer...<br /><br />I signed a 2 yr lease 18 mths ago. Last month, our property mgr (with whom the lease was signed) was fired by the home owners. The owners are not mentioned in the original lease, and did not even sign it. Would this declare our lease to now be void or invalid, as the other party in the lease has... Sat, 23 Oct 2010 11:46:51 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/9797264 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8767319 what happens in a roman catholic wedding ceremony<br /><br />Depends on if it's a traditional ceremony or a high mass. If it's a traditional one, just the usual stuff. Couple of bible readings, some songs, sermon, vowels and your done. A high mass on the other hand is very long, and can be done in latin (which makes it seem much much longer! LOL!) In a... Thu, 11 Mar 2010 09:01:02 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8767319 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8730019 My boyfriend is 18 years older than me and we have a good relationship. Sometimes he calls attention to our age difference.<br /><br />My husband and I are 13 years apart. He already has 2 children from his first marriage. I thought I would be okay with not having children of my own. He had a vasectomy a few years before we met. He told me that he wanted me to have children too, and this was three years ago. But, now things are... Fri, 26 Feb 2010 13:37:53 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8730019 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8711814 A friend of the opposite sex constantly says endearing things to me one day, and then ignores me the next. When I get upset (see 1st answer)<br /><br />he gets mad and then spends 2-3 hours texting, emailing etc because he says I've made him feel bad. In my 25 years alive I've never been in this situation. Why is he acting like this? Sun, 21 Feb 2010 07:37:13 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/8711814 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7406579 I'm getting married next month. The problem is, most of my future inlaws aren't speaking to my fiance right now. I'm fed up with it, and have told him that if they aren't in our lives when we have children, they never will be. See first answer for rest...<br /><br />I don&#039;t want them to have to deal with the drama I grew up with from being in that same situation. Having to explain to them why some of the aunts and uncles weren&#039;t around until they were like 10 or 11...I just don&#039;t think it&#039;s fair. Am I being unreasonable? What would you do? Mon, 10 Aug 2009 17:30:32 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7406579 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7026916 A dad dresses like a burglar & sneaks into his children's window at night & scares them because they forgot to close it when they went to bed,& the dad wants to teach them a lesson about not forgetting to close your window.What do you think about this?<br /><br />God aweful! Could you imagine how scarred they would be for the rest of the their lives b/c of something like this? Seriously, there are better ways to teach your child a lesson, and staging a fake burglary/kidnapping is not one of them. Those kids could actually call the father into the police... Mon, 06 Jul 2009 16:04:11 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7026916 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7026896 Have you ever been out in public and ur underwire broke through the bra and kept poking ur armpit?<br /><br />Yes. And with expensive well made ones. I&#039;ve found that if I reinforce the points where underwire pops out before I wear them, it cuts down on the embarrassment of having to reach up my shirt and pull the wire the rest of the way out, thus walking around in public for the rest of the day... Mon, 06 Jul 2009 16:00:50 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/7026896 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6913523 My wife wants a divorce. im going home in a week to attend a 6 week school. what can i do to show her i have change and i want to be with her and the kids? can i bring the love back?<br /><br />Buy her a cookbook...it&#039;s much cheaper. Thu, 25 Jun 2009 03:55:43 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6913523 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6913510 What would you do if your gf announces at family gathering loud, "I'm pregnant", and your 17 and she says your the daddy?<br /><br />Run away and pray your baby&#039;s mama&#039;s daddy doesn&#039;t have any firearms that shoot further than 100 yards. Thu, 25 Jun 2009 03:52:24 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6913510 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6913498 Can you explain the logic of naming your son Adolf Hitler? Why do it?<br /><br />My fiance actually went to high school with that guy. He says that he was wierd back then, and liked to be &quot;different&quot;, but that he was not a &quot;nazi&quot; or &quot;white supremacist&quot;. Probably just a way to get a little attention, which was most likely what he was going for,... Thu, 25 Jun 2009 03:50:17 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6913498 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6815686 Is it wrong to masturbate as a married Christian? My husband and I love each other dearly and have a healthy sex life but we are a dual military couple. He's currently in Iraq and sometimes I like to please myself and send him videos... is that wrong?<br /><br />Absolutely not, as long as the motivation behind your &quot;activity&quot; is your husband. Mon, 15 Jun 2009 14:42:56 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6815686 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6815663 My BF mentioned marrying ME and moving to a bigger house to our son. He brought this up a day after being mad about another guy who was trying to date me. (I don't want the other guy and had already turned him down.) Why say that? Why be mad?<br /><br />Sometimes it takes the posibility of losing a loved one make you want to bring them even closer to you. Still, this is something the two of you should talk about. So quickly after an incident like that would raise red flags about whether or not this is an irrational decision, and if so, could... Mon, 15 Jun 2009 14:39:53 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6815663 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6801370 Do you hate your neighbors? Why?<br /><br />I have made it a rule of mine to never interact with my neighbors short of a friendly wave b/c of the experiences I&#039;ve had. Neighbors can be such a pain that they&#039;ve even forced me to move on one occassion (threatening, not menicing). Currently, I am in a gated community that I though... Sun, 14 Jun 2009 07:44:42 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6801370 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6801267 I download torrents through Bit Torrent and they usually come with a dat file. It seems that explorer does not like the dat file and I have to restart explorer each time I try to move the movie file to another folder. Can anyone help?<br /><br />Switch to a different internet browser, like Mozilla Firefox. I&#039;ve had the same issues in the past with downloads on Internet Explorer, but since switching to Mozilla, I&#039;ve had zero issues. Good luck! Sun, 14 Jun 2009 07:33:46 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6801267 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6791453 I know a person who says, "age should never be considered while building up a relationship" but ,everytime she hunts for men half her age and when questioned, she replies,"I'm not attracted to men who are elder to me".Can you explain this strange theory?<br /><br />Cougar: Noun. A 35+ year old female who is on the &quot;hunt&quot; for a much younger, energetic, willing-to-do-anything male. The cougar can frequently be seen in a padded bra, cleavage exposed, propped up against a swanky bar in San Francisco (or other cities)waiting, watching, calculating;... Sat, 13 Jun 2009 07:31:37 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6791453 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6791409 How would you feel if your partner insisted on going out to bars and nightclubs with a friend you did not trust? because their boundaries are much looser in relationships- they "chat up" "flirt" and go out with more than one person.<br /><br />Is this a male friend? If so, trust your man. Unless you feel that he is fooling around as well, he may just enjoy hanging out with his friend and is disregarding his playboy ways. If this is a female, I&#039;d be a little concerned. Still, without trust in either situation, you&#039;re in a bit... Sat, 13 Jun 2009 07:25:27 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6791409 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6791179 I prefer relationships and friendships with adults. I'm almost 17, and myself and this guy I've known for three years have a friendship. But we have romantic feelings for eachother as well. He is 9 yrs. older than me. Is there something wrong with this?<br /><br />Nothing wrong at all in my book. My sis was 8 years older than me so at an early age, I hung out more with older people than with those of my own age. I feel I relate to them better, and am even marrying one. My guy is 13 years older than me, and I couldn&#039;t be happier. Just remember that... Sat, 13 Jun 2009 06:38:21 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6791179 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6791169 Should unamerican or antiamerican be a crime?<br /><br />There are some that might challenge this question by stating that &quot;being unamerican is the most american thing you can do&quot;. Personally, if someone does not like America or Americans, I really don&#039;t care...as long as they still show us some respect and stop blowing our stuff up. Sat, 13 Jun 2009 06:35:03 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6791169 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6743775 Are you willing to throw it all away for true love?<br /><br />I did and am so grateful for it. My life may no longer be filled with riches and other extravegances, but I sure do have a lot of love to fill in those voids and shed light in all the dark places and I would do it again if given a second chance. Mon, 08 Jun 2009 20:07:42 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6743775 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6743665 What makes cheaters stay? and /or what makes the one getting cheated on keep them?<br /><br />Cheaters stay for various reasons. I believe that if a cheater stays in a relationship with the person being cheated on, it is mostly b/c he or she is cheating for something that they may not receive in their relationship, and they are merely trying to receive it elsewhere without changing an... Mon, 08 Jun 2009 19:52:55 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6743665 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6743635 If you were going to die what is are the last words you would say and to who<br /><br />Cheesy answer alert: &quot;I love you&quot; and to my hubby Mon, 08 Jun 2009 19:48:43 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6743635 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6743605 How many hours can you leagally drive before resting?<br /><br />In some places, if you have been driving for more than 16 hours, you can be requested (sometimes required) by law enforcement to pull over and rest. If you are pulled over and the individual believes that your driving for too long poses a road hazzard, you can be arrested for reckless driving. Mon, 08 Jun 2009 19:46:16 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6743605 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6743589 Survey: In how many states do you know it is legal to record your audio and/or video conversations with another person, whether in person, or over the phone?<br /><br />I only know for a certainty that in the state of Virginia, you can audiotape conversations as long as at least one person is aware (that person being you!) and the person you&#039;re taping does not have to know in order for it to be legal. But, you can only use the information you receive for... Mon, 08 Jun 2009 19:44:25 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6743589 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6743563 If you are divorced, what would you say was the major reason for the divorce (abuse, incompatibility, money, infidelity, etc.)?<br /><br />With mine, it basically boiled down to a number of things: 1. We did not live together prior to our wedding, so we were very unaware of certain habits that one or the other could not tolerate. 2. After the wedding, my ex started acting like I was property (a pet actually), and stopped trying to... Mon, 08 Jun 2009 19:41:17 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6743563 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6743448 What would happen if you cut off your eyelids?<br /><br />From a medical stand point, your eyes would dry out, you would contract several diseases b/c your eyelids are essential for preventing germs from entering your body, and your ability to keep your eyes inside of your sockets would be impaired. From a personal stand point-I agree with the last... Mon, 08 Jun 2009 19:30:23 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6743448 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6726812 Can you name one simple thing I can do today I to make the world a better place?<br /><br />Smile. Even if you&#039;re not happy, seeing you smile could make a simple stranger content enough with his/her life that they may change their minds about making some pretty bad decisions. All it takes is a smile. Sun, 07 Jun 2009 07:36:20 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6726812 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6659891 Who're the heroes of the kids these days , Sports Figures, Race Car Drivers or?<br /><br />My stepson&#039;s hero is a fictionary movie character, while his brother&#039;s is a character from an old book. I guess it depends on what they are exposed to! Sun, 31 May 2009 12:28:51 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6659891 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6649205 To moms who are parents and step-parents...... do you love your stepchildren as much as you do those to whom you gave birth? I had a stepson and though I tried my best, I just didn't feel the same way about him as I did my own kid. How do you feel?<br /><br />I am in your shoes honey. I have 3 stepsons, yet my problem seems to be more complicated. While I treat them all equally, I have connected more with one than the others, and it bothers me b/c it makes me feel like the evil stepmom playing favorites. I don&#039;t have children of my own (yet) but... Sat, 30 May 2009 10:50:33 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6649205 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6589633 Im 19 and my bf is 28. I really love him but he doesnt trust me. The mother of his children cheated on him an hes afraid it will happen again. I try to talk to him about it but hes says its not true. I dont want to lose him but its hard. What should i do?<br /><br />While I do believe that age means nothing (my guy is 13 years older than me!), experience does. Being in a relationship with someone who has baggage can be rough. You&#039;re not only dealing with the kids, you&#039;re dealing with the pain from his previous relationship that he is obviously not... Sun, 24 May 2009 11:12:56 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6589633 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6305063 How do you get a divorce from someone who is in prison for life and won't sign the divorce papers?<br /><br />It depends on what state you live in. Where I live, if your spouse is sentenced to prison for committing a felony, you can obtain a divorce without even having to wait for a separation period to pass. I would hope that it&#039;s the same in other states as well, but I would consult a lawyer just... Fri, 24 Apr 2009 19:19:01 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6305063 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6305028 Do you think that this is a funny joke? (see my answer)<br /><br />Yes it is funny, but not the funniest joke I&#039;ve ever heard. What else ya got? Fri, 24 Apr 2009 19:12:52 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6305028 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6304736 Why won't you pick that up?<br /><br />I will give you the same answer I provide my landlady every day: Because, it wasn&#039;t my dog that did it... Fri, 24 Apr 2009 18:37:40 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6304736 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6304682 What is somethign you shouldnt stare at?<br /><br />Short people. Seriously, no joke. I have a friend who let&#039;s just say is not tall enough to ride roller coasters at 23, and I actually witnessed her go off at a a complete stranger in a grocery store for staring at her. Do not stare at short people... Fri, 24 Apr 2009 18:32:46 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6304682 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6304612 Cucumbers or Pickles?<br /><br />Has to be kosher dill. Anything else is unacceptable. It&#039;s just amazing how some people (myself included) enjoy pickles, but hate raw cucumbers! Fri, 24 Apr 2009 18:25:45 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6304612 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6304557 When you watch a plane or jet fly by do you ever wave and wonder if the people in the plane are waving back or if they can even see you?<br /><br />No. Usually, I just point and say in the most ridiculous voice I can &quot;Look boss! Da plane! Da plane!&quot; and then see how long it takes for someone to look at me like I&#039;m crazy... Fri, 24 Apr 2009 18:20:14 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/6304557 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/5885035 Is it right to have a boyfriend and still like a few other guys? -from a teen<br /><br />You&#039;re young! My motto is, even if there&#039;s valuable merchandise already in hand, there&#039;s nothing wrong with doing a little window shopping. Just make sure you don&#039;t sample anything or at your age, you could wind up with worse than guilt about liking other guys! LOL! You are... Wed, 11 Mar 2009 17:46:19 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/5885035 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/5885005 Ok here goes my husband is faithful he is home every night but there is one thing that urks me and that is he will look at other women online or if we are driving somewhere and see's a women with a nice body he will look. To me i feel direspected.<br /><br />It&#039;s understandable that he would view other women, men aren&#039;t like women! Men are visual, while us gals heads aren&#039;t turned so easily by a nice backend. Still, while I don&#039;t believe he is intentionally trying to disrespect you, he is making you feel as such, and this is... Wed, 11 Mar 2009 17:42:47 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/5885005 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4699969 Mine and my s/o's families aren't close with us and this holiday season, it's become blatently obvious how they feel. While everyone else is spending special days with the rest of the fam, we're home alone, with nothing b/c our finances are (see answer)<br /><br />less than desirable right now. His mom is driving six hours to have Thanksgiving dinner with his sister&#039;s family AND his exwife, while we who weren&#039;t invited to any family gatherings this year, wont even have a piece of turkey to our names. My sister and her fam are spending the day... Tue, 25 Nov 2008 06:23:46 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4699969 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3998411 I am married, but have a baby with my boyfriend. My husband wants visitation, can he be allowed eventhough the baby is not his?<br /><br />When you gave birth, if you were certain that the baby was your boyfriends you should have listed his name on the birth certificate. If your husbands is on there, then yeah he can demand visitation. If you want to remove his name and change the birth father to your boyfriend, a paternity test... Fri, 12 Sep 2008 14:45:36 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3998411 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3955255 How can I get my husband to stop the divorce process. Nothing has been filed yet and it has been a month since I got a settlement offer. We do talk but he wont say he wants to come home. I know he does want to.<br /><br />I am probably going to give you the greatest advice, and you will probably consider it terrible because I&#039;m certain it is not what you want to hear. Regardless, here it is in a nutshell: He does not want to come home. If he&#039;s offering you settlements and is attempting to follow through... Sun, 07 Sep 2008 12:27:32 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3955255 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3686521 My bf can't control his erections and often has nothing to do with sex, even during a normal conversation when he's not even thinking about anything sexually.What could this be and how can he control it? Its ruining our relationship!<br /><br />Erections are caused by increased blood flow to the penis, it&#039;s possible that it may be caused in part to a medical condition that might involve blood pressure issues. Did you know that Viagra was initially produced as a blood pressure medication but it didn&#039;t lower a man&#039;s BP, it... Thu, 07 Aug 2008 07:27:45 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3686521 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3643966 I found a light blue and red capsule that has the #5 on the blue part and then a capital L on the red part. I think it is a pain pill, but not sure. Anyone know what this could be?<br /><br />It&#039;s over the counter 500 mg tylenol rapid release. Sat, 02 Aug 2008 14:03:07 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3643966 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3502765 Can vaginas get skin cancer?<br /><br />I didn&#039;t realize that it could until about an hour ago. Guess I&#039;ll be making that Dr&#039;s appointment after all! http://www.cancer.gov/cancertopics/types/vulvar Wed, 16 Jul 2008 23:36:08 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3502765 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3486856 My fish just died, what should I do?<br /><br />Scale it, skin it, fillet it and eat it...with lemon pepper. Tue, 15 Jul 2008 09:02:19 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3486856 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3409797 I`m trying to explain to my wife who has a larger bust on how to get the best golf swing available as her arms aren`t taking the same path as mineon back and front swing. any ideas?<br /><br />Tell her you&#039;re just trying to be helpful but if she persists in being stubborn she can either forfeit her ability to play a good round, duct tape those puppies down so that she can do it her own way, or shut up and listen to what it is you&#039;re trying to say! In her defense, you must... Sun, 06 Jul 2008 07:42:35 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3409797 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3397025 I write my boyfriend letters and little notes all the time telling him how much I care about him and I never get a reaction. What is this about?<br /><br />I write my fiance little love notes all the time, especially for his lunch box when he goes on shift. I get one back from him maybe every 1 in 10 letters, but I&#039;ve learned that men are more black and white than color, and to them they feel that just saying it or doing things they feel show... Fri, 04 Jul 2008 07:25:33 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3397025 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3396805 I have heard people saying that Obama is not "black enough". Is the fact that he doesn't have slave ancestors that were kidnapped and dragged to America in chains to be sold as property the reason for that assessment? I think it is unfair. Do you?<br /><br />I agree that this statement is unfair, but I think it&#039;s the issues with Obama outside of his skin color that people should be focusing on. His platform, which is made of a list of reforms longer that my monthly grocery list, is what is most concerning to me. If you look closely you can see a... Fri, 04 Jul 2008 06:34:42 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3396805 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3218624 What would you say if your 22 year old little sister started dating a 40 year old man with two kids and two ex wives who didn't have a job and now she says she's going to marry him even though he won't be nice to the family?<br /><br />I&#039;m 23 and my s/o is 35. He has 3 kids and one exwife. I love him to pieces, but then again he has a job, takes great care of his kids, and his ex was a bitch anyways. If she&#039;s really happy, you need to let her make her own decisions, and if they are mistakes, she&#039;ll learn from... Wed, 11 Jun 2008 21:06:24 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3218624 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3205388 Three Internet providers agreed to block child pornography(Verizon, Sprint, and Time Warner) do you think other internet providers will do the same?<br /><br />I think all internet providers should do that! It shouldn&#039;t be viewed at all, and hopefully the rest will follow suit in preventing it. Tue, 10 Jun 2008 11:33:08 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3205388 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3204223 I have an ex who ive been trying to stay friends with for years.....not sure if its out of guilt or that i really want him in my life.....I love him.....im married now and the ex always talks about his feeling for me....What should i do?<br /><br />Run away! You&#039;re married now, and if your need to keep him in your life is out of guilt it&#039;s not worth it. I&#039;m having a simular problem (sans his feelings for me) b/c my family is trying to keep him around for their needs. Now, if you love him, more than you&#039;re husband,... Tue, 10 Jun 2008 08:53:26 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3204223 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3204146 What is more powerful...to fight sarcasm with the same, or with indifference?<br /><br />Intelligence. If one can counteract the other&#039;s sarcasm with an intelligent response to their otherwise unintelligent comment, their comment will be completely pointless because it will make you appear to be the better person. Or, if you&#039;re truly stupid, just walk away with nothing to... Tue, 10 Jun 2008 08:44:53 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3204146 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3204079 I'll be going to school in the neighborhood where my recent ex lives. I'm still pretty sad about it, but I know I have to go. It's the closest school and my only option. What do I do to help me focus on my work?<br /><br />The sad thing about highschool is you can&#039;t avoid running into your old flames. They around every corner you turn, lingering in each hallway you pass through. Still, there are ways to deal. First off, remind yourself each time you see your ex why the two of you aren&#039;t together and that... Tue, 10 Jun 2008 08:36:22 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3204079 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3198778 Is it illegal to bury family in your backyard? I mean not kill them and do it, but take the body from the morgue legal like? If not, why? What is the difference between my backyard and a cemetery? A license?<br /><br />It varies from state to state. You do have to aquire a permit from the state to bury family members on your own property, but it has become difficult to do so because houses change hands so often. How would you feel if you bought a house and then discoved 10 graves in your back yard while mowing... Mon, 09 Jun 2008 16:43:44 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3198778 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3133291 What is your best sexual relationship and why was it the best, if it was a one night stand did you try to go back for more?<br /><br />The one I am currently in. He is the only man who has ever been so hot for me he does anything (and I mean anything) I desire whether it be 9am, 2pm or 10pm. And at lease once a day. It was supposed to be a one night stand but I guess I kept going back for more so many times that we kinda got... Mon, 02 Jun 2008 08:34:45 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3133291 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3133259 What would make men come,spend undue amount of time with me, say they're not interested then come back after I've pushed them away? (and we're not in relationship).<br /><br />A man who is not sexually or romantically interested, but enjoys spending lots of time with you as a friend. If you have feelings for him that he does not reciprocate, then you should take care of that now, b/f you set yourself up for a great disapointment later. If not, then just keep enjoying... Mon, 02 Jun 2008 08:30:13 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3133259 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3117879 Do you believe in God? If so, what about all the other gods-are they all fake?<br /><br />My theory is this: If God sent Jesus as a messenger and messiah to the christian people, which in that time were mostly confined to one area, who&#039;s to say that he didn&#039;t send all of these other &quot;God&#039;s/Religious messengers&quot; to other areas of the world in their times of... Sat, 31 May 2008 14:49:52 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3117879 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3081912 Both me and my lover were committed to another person when we met and started dating secretly. We did everyth and still have a gr8 bond. In two months time he s getting married to his 6yr gf. Should I try to convince him when I know we really click 2gethe<br /><br />I can somewhat relate, except my s/o left his other person for me and now we are getting married due to our great bond. So, if you and this guy are so great together, then why not make this relationship the permanent kind. A secret relationship can damage far more than just the two people in... Tue, 27 May 2008 13:30:51 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3081912 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3079818 I am going through a divorce and the ex is still extremely mad about it. Do you think it is fair for her to limit my time with my son because she is mad at me? We are currently just seperated and court papers haven't been filed yet.<br /><br />Absolutely not, and I can relate. My s/o&#039;s exwife has even gone so far as to admit that her issues with his custody don&#039;t have anything to do with his ability to care for the kids. She feels that because he left her, he should be punnished and that time with his kids is more of a... Tue, 27 May 2008 08:41:22 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3079818 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3039890 My son is 13 years old and lives with his mother. He would like to come live with me but is afraid of his mom getting mad at him. We live in Iowa and I am not sure of the custody laws in this situation. Is he old enough to make that decision?<br /><br />Yes, he&#039;s over 12 so the judge will take his opinion seriously. You have to be the one to petition, and then ask the court to accept his testimony. Still, the end decision will be determined by whether or not you can provide the same if not better living environment, whether or not this move... Thu, 22 May 2008 07:26:35 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3039890 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3039877 My boyfriend and i are unexpectly expecting, he already has a 4yr old from prior non- wed relationship, he's not ordered to pay child support, however he sends $500 for the child every month since they split, she may take him to CS now, will she get more?<br /><br />It depends on what state you live in, but child support is now solely based on income, not what the mother feels she deserves. Also, the judge may take into consideration that he&#039;s been supporting the child without an order, and will probably supoena the mother&#039;s records to prove that... Thu, 22 May 2008 07:23:27 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3039877 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3037299 I broke up w/ my gf of 1 1/2 yrs. I recently hung out wih a girl and after this i realized how much i like her. I dont even think about her sexually, i just think about how cute and fun she is. Am I falling to fast?Am i trying to fill the empty feeling?<br /><br />While this comes at a early time from your split (I&#039;m assuming), sometimes it doesn&#039;t matter about time. If you really like this girl, take your time to continue to get to know her and enjoy her. I literally separated from my ex the same day I moved in with my current s/o, and despite... Wed, 21 May 2008 20:45:34 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3037299 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3037277 I am 16 and I have a daughter who is 4 months how do I find a boyfriend who will take me seriously in a relationship?<br /><br />At your age, you need to forget about a boyfriend and concentrate on your baby. I know that it&#039;s tough going through it alone, and that at your age you should be concentrating on school and dating, but now that you have a child it&#039;s time to forget about friday night dinners and spend... Wed, 21 May 2008 20:42:14 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3037277 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3037259 How do I make my ex boyfriend want me again?<br /><br />Sorry, but you can&#039;t make him do anything. Best advice I can give is to show him what he&#039;s missing and tell him that your feelings for him still exist. If he is still resistant to getting back together with you, move on. Being with someone who doesn&#039;t like you will hurt much worse... Wed, 21 May 2008 20:39:36 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3037259 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3037237 Should i get upset if my girl friend wants to stay in contact with guy friends from high school and communicates with them on myspace and the guys are flirtatious<br /><br />Unless she flirts back, no. But if you start seeing suspicious activity, I would calmly discuss your concerns without sounding too accusatory. I have to ask though, how do you know that this communication is occurring. If you&#039;re going through her myspace account behind her back, let me... Wed, 21 May 2008 20:36:57 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3037237 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3004812 My bf has just realized that he is no longer athiest... which i have no problem with... it's just that it is really taking a toll on him. The day he realized this he freaked out and his emotions just took over... how do i make everything normal again?<br /><br />You can&#039;t make it &quot;normal&quot; again. It&#039;s a realization that he has to deal with in his own way, you just need to be there to support his decisions. If athiesm is something he believed in for a long period of time, then this is something that he will have to adjust to. Imagin... Sat, 17 May 2008 20:17:55 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3004812 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3004775 I have a frined on aim who is getting harrased at her school. I wasnt on aim at the time but she imed me saying that she and her mom were both crying. I even checked her youtube and she wasnt on. ( and no shes not a predator she has videos of herself)<br /><br />What&#039;s your question? Sat, 17 May 2008 20:13:54 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3004775 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3004734 Dude, Where's My Car?<br /><br />I don&#039;t know dude, where&#039;s your car? Sat, 17 May 2008 20:08:39 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3004734 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3004726 What is the most enjoyable sex position for you?<br /><br />The Elephant. Makes me blow my trumpet every time! Sat, 17 May 2008 20:07:31 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3004726 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3004707 Is it crazy to date someone WAY older than you?<br /><br />Absolutely not! My s/o is thirteen years older than me and we are pretty happy. At least I hope so (refer to question in Sex in Relationships) Sat, 17 May 2008 20:05:20 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3004707 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3004681 My s/o and I have always had a VERY healthy sex life (i.e. at least 1x day), but tonight when I tried to initiate, he rolled away and told me he needed to go to sleep and didn't say anything else. I asked him what was wrong, and (see 1st answer)<br /><br />he just said &quot;I have to get up for work in the morning&quot;, then just fell asleep. All night, he seemed like there was something wrong, but if I asked if he was OK, he said &quot;Yeah. Why?&quot; I know it probably sounds like I&#039;m making a big deal out of nothing, but this is totally... Sat, 17 May 2008 20:02:52 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3004681 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3004626 Married 27 years to cheating husband who now wants a divorce to get half my IRA. He fathered a child with another woman 15 years ago and is behind on his child support for 20K. I don't want the divorce to protect my retirement, my IRA. Is there any help f<br /><br />Contact a lawer who specializes in divorce w/property settlement. If you can prove that his motive is simply to obtain money to pay off debt, then you&#039;ve got him on a form of extortion. You can also contest the divorce using these grounds. Sadly, most states wont allow this contest on the... Sat, 17 May 2008 19:54:42 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3004626 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2965453 Am I handsome? http://i296.photobucket.com/albums/mm177/MaskedPerson/FightPose.jpg<br /><br />Wouldn&#039;t know. The link says that the image was deleted. Sorry! Mon, 12 May 2008 18:30:32 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2965453 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2935455 I just got my new camera!!!111!~! Panasonic AG DVX100B! What do you guys think?<br /><br />Depends, what are you planning on using it for? Legal things...I hope ;-) Thu, 08 May 2008 13:03:27 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2935455 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2935445 What word do you spell wrong over and over and over?<br /><br />accomplish. I always forget the second &quot;c&quot; Thu, 08 May 2008 13:02:30 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2935445 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2935428 Do you think looks are the only thing that gets ya what ya want?<br /><br />No, God plays a big factor. I ignored him for so long, and only talked to him when I was angry or wanted something. But, once I started thanking him for the great things I&#039;ve always had, the things I wanted started appearing. Looks helps when you want things from people, but to get the... Thu, 08 May 2008 13:00:56 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2935428 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2906757 Do you have a lucky piece of clothing if so what is it?<br /><br />The most comfortable bra I own (which is just a simple white sports bra). Good things happen when it&#039;s lending me its support! Sun, 04 May 2008 20:52:49 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2906757 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2906746 I'm planning a cross country trip. My budget is limited but I would like to have something other than my trip tik to go by. Trying to decide between the lower end Tom-Tom, Garmin, or a good old fashioned CB radio. Any recommendations?<br /><br />The basic Garmin models have giving me the most up to date accurate directions. You just need to remember to update every so often, b/c roads are always changing. I like that it also helps me locate places like gas stations, restaurants and lodging when I need it. Have fun! Sun, 04 May 2008 20:50:39 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2906746 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2906709 I was doing a fundraiser today for Children's Miracle Network. One lady said to me, "I'll just let the two people who had the baby take care of the baby!" How rude and uncaring! What makes people show no regard for their fellow man?<br /><br />Selfishness for one. Also, this woman may have had bad experiences in the past when dealing with children and is displaying her issues in the form of such hurtful comments. Good riddence to her, I&#039;m sure the parents of that needy child wouldn&#039;t appreciate her charity coming from such a... Sun, 04 May 2008 20:45:56 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2906709 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2906689 My nearly 4 month old daughter is not sleeping at all during the night. I'm exhausted. What should I do? She is literally up all night and morning comes and the day starts... scream!<br /><br />At this age, she&#039;s probably getting a lot of collic. Try giving her some infant gas meds, and see if that helps. If you already tried that and it didn&#039;t work, it&#039;s possible that she&#039;s feeling a bit of separation anxiety and can&#039;t be alone or without you. If this problem... Sun, 04 May 2008 20:40:49 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2906689 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2906670 If I put a 'SOLD' sign on my neighbors real estate companies 'FOR SALE' sign, could I legally get in trouble or sued?<br /><br />Yes, you are altering another person&#039;s property (vandalism) and are advertising false statements. It can also be viewed as fraud. Keep in mind that all three of these situations can lead to your arrest as well... Sun, 04 May 2008 20:36:34 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2906670 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2901352 If I ran away would you chase me? Why/Why not?<br /><br />If you are foolish enough to run from me, then I will be smart enough to not chase you ;-) Sun, 04 May 2008 07:29:20 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2901352 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2901335 We have a tank with african cichlids, about 10. The last 3 days the fish are now swimming upside down and laying on the bottom of the tank. Today we now have 3 dead. Any suggestions?<br /><br />The water is too acidic and needs to be buffered. Some may also be suffering from bloat, which is very difficult to treat. Go to your local pet shop, and ask them for Cichlid pH buffer, there&#039;s a specific type for african fish. Also, it&#039;s possible that the chlorine is to high and they... Sun, 04 May 2008 07:25:23 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2901335 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2898487 Who invented the french tickler?<br /><br />What&#039;s the french tickler, and where can I get one? Sat, 03 May 2008 19:29:58 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2898487 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2898428 How to say goodbye to someone just because he has a kid<br /><br />Just because he has a kid? Wow. Ummm... being someone who wouldn&#039;t walk away from a man just b/c he has kids (my s/o had 3 when we got together), I can only take a shot at this one: You like him and care about him a lot, but you are not ready to take on the commitment of helping to raise/be... Sat, 03 May 2008 19:22:52 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2898428 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2898393 Why cant people in love or in a relationship or even married respect each other?<br /><br />B/C in many cases, half of that relationship involves a man. You do the math. Sat, 03 May 2008 19:17:56 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2898393 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2898384 Casanova boasted that he made love to the same woman twelve times in one day. Have you ever been THAT busy?<br /><br />As a normal person, yes. But you also have to remember that there is one profession where some are required to be even more &quot;active&quot;. Care to take a stab at which one I&#039;m talking about :) Sat, 03 May 2008 19:17:02 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2898384 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2898359 I own a house with my brother. i live there with my girlfriend of 2 years. she does NOT pay any of the mortgage or any of the bills. if we split up is she enitled to anything under common law?<br /><br />No. If the two of you aren&#039;t married, as I assume since you referred to her as your girlfriend, common law does not become active in these cases until after seven years. Even then, she most likely wont get anything in references to the home, b/c it was purchased prior to the... Sat, 03 May 2008 19:14:15 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2898359 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2867163 My friend is 12 and really likes this girl but always gets rejected buts still stauks her do you have any advice<br /><br />Ummm yeah. Start acting 12 years old, and stop stalking her. Just because he&#039;s a minor doesn&#039;t mean he can&#039;t get arrested. No means no, and if he&#039;s not willing to recognize that now, how bad will it get when he&#039;s older. Tue, 29 Apr 2008 19:12:08 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2867163 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2850026 My hiar is thick and wavy i want it thin and straight. so my hair is layered and it just makes my hair more puffy. but i have an oil problem too. my hair is really oily on the bottom layer and completley dry on the top.how do i get my top layer more oily?<br /><br />You and I are totally suffering from the same thing, but I have yet to figure it out either. Let me know when you do. The only thing I can figure is my hair color did it! Sun, 27 Apr 2008 18:45:42 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2850026 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2836016 Dated over 2 yrs,after 1 yr s/o said feelings have changed,she is at my house everynight,talks about the future 2gether;but never says she loves me.still talks to ex's.since has moved,bought me a cell ph&pays the bill,emails&calls.any advice?<br /><br />ummm...how many s/o do you have. there&#039;s like 4 questions all asked in a 2 hr period of time about 4 different s/os and situations from you. Fri, 25 Apr 2008 17:56:06 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2836016 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2815489 Does Native AMerican culture interest you?<br /><br />yes, but I prefer to learn about the facts verses the glamorized b.s. they feed high school kids. Wed, 23 Apr 2008 04:29:47 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2815489 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2800369 Why when it comes to love we forget ourselves and only think of the people whom we love?<br /><br />Because, when you truly love someone, you&#039;re always willing to put everything aside for them. Still, a very wise person once told me that you cannot love someone, unless you love yourself. (think the old saying &quot;do unto others as you would have done to you&quot;). So there has to be a... Mon, 21 Apr 2008 06:58:03 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2800369 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2800341 How do you stay in touch with someone who has moved on without interrupting their present life?they're current wife/significant other does not want the communication.I said I would not sneak b/c it's not fair.do i leave the contact up to him?<br /><br />As someone who has been in this situation, my advice to you is to leave the contact alone. If his s/o is not comfortable with the two of you speaking to one another, you have to respect that. He has moved on and is with someone else. The relationship the two of you had was probably something... Mon, 21 Apr 2008 06:50:31 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2800341 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2764693 Ad a pint tired am off to bo bo land fancy a kip?<br /><br />Where is this bo bo land and before I say yes, could you please explain what a kip is? Wed, 16 Apr 2008 14:45:23 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2764693 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2719789 Fill in the blank. I want to have a body like--- a face like--- and a mind like---.<br /><br />Supermodel Mine Mine Fri, 11 Apr 2008 07:34:51 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2719789 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2708235 How could someone stop hiting someone else for no seeable reason?<br /><br />I don&#039;t know why but I sure would be glad if people would just STOP hitting someone else for no reason. Now, why people START hitting other people for no reason, there is a reason. It just has to be identified. Could be anger, could be pleasure, could be anything. You ask a loaded question.... Wed, 09 Apr 2008 19:12:40 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2708235 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2690724 Is there a term for fear of the grocery store? :p<br /><br />The liter translation for Agoraphobe in Latin is &quot;fear of the marketplace&quot;. So I get that would be terminology enough, right? Mon, 07 Apr 2008 21:29:40 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2690724 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2687715 If you had to choose only one color of clothing to wear, what color would you choose?<br /><br />Green Mon, 07 Apr 2008 14:58:16 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2687715 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2687703 Can you think of anything from the store that you actually like better than the homemade version?<br /><br />Pizza. cheap fast pizza. Mon, 07 Apr 2008 14:57:26 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2687703 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2687682 Do you like it when you ask a question on AB, receive no answers but tons of points?<br /><br />About as much as I like it when I ask a question, receive tons of answers, but no points! Mon, 07 Apr 2008 14:55:45 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2687682