http://www.answerbag.com/profile/241628 New Answerbag answers from Firewater Tue, 29 May 2012 09:20:52 -0700 Tue, 29 May 2012 09:20:52 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/5189089 How do you get over your ex husband. We were married for 26 years & have 3 children. I still love him and I'm lonely for him. I'm 46 so my body surely doesn't look like it did when I married him when I was eighteen. Who will ever want me now?<br /><br />Dawn I&#039;m so sorry this has happened to you. There will be some great guy out there who will want you. Mon, 12 Jan 2009 19:47:40 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/5189089 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/5188544 I* have a step mom who insists on telling me all about their sex life & then she asks questions like "why do u see that MD, why are you taking all that medicine, how can you get disability, I can't." She is obsessed with this. What to do?<br /><br />If I was you I&#039;d tell dad and tell him it is offensive to you and tell her your medical situation is private. Mon, 12 Jan 2009 19:01:38 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/5188544 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3737332 How do you get on with your new teenage step children?<br /><br />I just want to put it near the top again to see what the response is this time. Tue, 12 Aug 2008 17:55:15 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3737332 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3737088 If Y ou Are Married And You Run Into An old Flame Would U Try To Pursue?<br /><br />NO Tue, 12 Aug 2008 17:24:35 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3737088 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3737028 I have a child with a man from Italy who I have been seeing for nearly three years. I found out the other day that he has been cheating on me for the past two months, while I've been back in England. What shall I do? There's a baby in<br /><br />Hi Sunshine I&#039;m so sorry that you have found yourself in this predicament no one can tell you what to do, this is something that you have to decide yourself. Take some timeout and look at all your options before you do anything hasty. I hope all works out well for you. (((HUGS))) Tue, 12 Aug 2008 17:14:18 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3737028 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3499350 Did anyone become a step-parent because of an affair and you eventually got together? I would like to hear about experiences good/bad. Was it difficult to make the decision to leave marriage or stay in it for children's sake?<br /><br />Last year I discovered my H was having an affair my teenage D was with me when i found out. I had a fairly happy marriage. Within a couple of weeks my H moved in with her and her child. My D says she will never have any sort of dealings with OW. My other child says the same. My sis left her H 7... Wed, 16 Jul 2008 16:04:18 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3499350 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3499276 My husband has a 2 & 3 year old. They are beautiful little girls. But, I am jealous of them b/c they get all his attention when their down. Is it wrong that i'm jealous? I'm going to stay at my mom's tonight to think it over and get some space.Is that ok?<br /><br />I can&#039;t understand why you would be jealous of these two little girls they are babies and need lots of attention. You youself seem to be upset at the lack of attention you are getting, and you ARE old enough to understand. Also dose your child live with you and your husband what if he felt... Wed, 16 Jul 2008 15:54:24 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/3499276 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2590670 My husband and I have been seperated for 2yrs. I have been livin out of state for 7mths and he comes every other mth + holidays but says he's doubleminded about us. When asked if he wants a divorce, he says dont ask me that right now and it is what it is<br /><br />Chris you have to do whats right for you. I think maybe you don&#039;t want the divorce yourself otherwise you would have done something about it by now. What I think you should do is live your life as normal as you can until you are absolutly ready to do whats right for you. Good luck. Wed, 26 Mar 2008 19:55:54 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2590670 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2590611 If a friend betrayed your trust, would you give them a second chance?<br /><br />Yes give him a second chance, you never know!!!! Wed, 26 Mar 2008 19:47:30 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2590611 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2590486 What are some of the things your parents told you as a child which you believed? For example, my mum told me if I swallowed pips, a tree would grow inside me!<br /><br />My father told me if I bite my nails all my eyelashes would fall out and never grow back. It worked a treat I never bit my nails again. Wed, 26 Mar 2008 19:33:18 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2590486 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2590463 If you have a seen a picture of your parents while they were dating-did you think they made a cute couple?<br /><br />Yes although it was taken just after the ww2 and the fashion. Oh my goodness but they look so much in love. Wed, 26 Mar 2008 19:30:14 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2590463 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2590451 What made your family great?<br /><br />Our family is very close. Although we have all left home and have our own families we speak to each other on a regular basis. All our kids are like brothers and sister to each other too. I love being a part of my family :) Wed, 26 Mar 2008 19:28:35 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2590451 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2590284 I hurt my in-laws when I raided their alcohol cabinet. They trusted that I wouldnt do it again & I did. Im now a recovering alcoholic (5mths). How can I gain their trust back & prove 2 them that I have truly changed my lifestyle & ashamed 4 what I did?<br /><br />Congratulations for getting this far with your recovery. I think carolann has given some pretty good advice. Your inlaws will come round one day just keep looking after yourself. I also have faith in you well done. Wed, 26 Mar 2008 19:08:07 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2590284 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2590217 Why is the middle child always ignored?<br /><br />I can&#039;t believe this question was asked today cos I had a discussion with one of my sister&#039;s about this earlier. Apparently the middle child is favoured less because they are not the oldest and not the youngest and more often than not they are not the only boy or only girl. I have a... Wed, 26 Mar 2008 19:00:15 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2590217 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2573940 Are you as creative as you would like to be?<br /><br />Yes I think I&#039;m quite creative when I put my mind and effort into my creations. Although my daughter is far more creative than I. Mon, 24 Mar 2008 20:28:49 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2573940 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2573919 What type of fish are Siamese fighting fish?<br /><br />G&#039;day Kiethold My daughter has one of these fish. Her&#039;s is a bright blue fish and lives like a goldfish in cold water no filter required. She says she thinks it is an ornamental fish I hope this helps. Mon, 24 Mar 2008 20:20:46 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2573919 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2573517 I bet if you give me a name any name boy or girl I can sing a song including that name.<br /><br />Happy birthday to you happy birthday to you happy birthday dear nikki, taliban, brian, Xavier, megan happy birthday to you. This was a favourite of my brother&#039;s hope you liked it its my party piece. Mon, 24 Mar 2008 19:29:49 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2573517 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2573219 It's been said that singing can add 15 years to your life. Are you going to sing your heart out now?<br /><br />If thats the case I&#039;m gonna live till I&#039;m 100&#039;s. Mon, 24 Mar 2008 19:00:23 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2573219 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2573085 My little dog died today and I'm feeling sad. Whats the longest time you've had a dog for?<br /><br />Can I just say a big THANK YOU to everyone who sends their kind thoughts to me I will let my daughter read them and hopefully they will make her feel a bit better too. Mon, 24 Mar 2008 18:44:12 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2573085 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2523016 What are some goofy funny things that you do with your kids?<br /><br />When my kids were younger 10 and under I used to play this game with them where I would lie on the couch and they would try to get on with me I would push them off with my feet and then they would charge and try again and again they loved it loads of laughter but it exhausted me. I also used to... Tue, 18 Mar 2008 15:54:25 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2523016 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2522668 My ex just moved into my best friend and her husbands house. We were all mutal friends and we have been apart for 2 yrs and all of a sudden he shows up at their house. should I continue to go see her or will it just bring up the pain more?<br /><br />How do you feel about your Ex? If you think you can handle seeing him I would do exactly what I have been doing in his absence and play it cool. Tue, 18 Mar 2008 15:00:16 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2522668 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2512851 I am told repeatedly by everyone that I am way too passionate and I should try to curtail some of my emotion, is that really such a bad thing?<br /><br />Well it depends what you are passionate about. Mon, 17 Mar 2008 12:33:31 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2512851 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2512826 Would you forgive a family member for getting drunk and giving unsolicited opinions in your home ? Even if they apologized? Would you let them in your home ever again?<br /><br />Yes. Life is too short to hold grudges. Although I would let them know I was&#039;nt happy about their behaviour. Mon, 17 Mar 2008 12:30:08 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2512826 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2512708 What are the cons of weightlifting at 15?<br /><br />I joined a weightlifting class when I was about 14. I had bad posture (rounded shoulders) it helped me straighten up. It did&#039;nt do my development any harm but I think you should talk to an instructor at the gym. Maybe some lighter exercises as apposed to heavier weights. Mon, 17 Mar 2008 12:12:12 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2512708 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2512570 Have you ever seen Irish eyes smiling?<br /><br />A few years ago I spent St Paddy&#039;s Day in Dublin I saw loads of Irish eyes smiling that day. Mon, 17 Mar 2008 11:56:07 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2512570 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2511749 How do you fall out of love with somebody? If you have been with this person for 8 years. But you just don't have the love you once had for them. How do you not have the love? How do you fall out of love with someone?<br /><br />I don&#039;t think this is something that happens overnight but over a period of time. Sometimes it happens because of another love interest or people just growing apart there are lots of reasons for this. Mon, 17 Mar 2008 10:00:20 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2511749 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2511594 What are some other traditional Irish meals besides corn beef and cabbage?<br /><br />A good Irish stew and a pint of guiness. Mon, 17 Mar 2008 09:37:03 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2511594 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2510155 If you could see and hear only one song played live from any band in history, which song and which band would it be?<br /><br />I think for me it would have to be Queen-Boheman Rapsody. Mon, 17 Mar 2008 05:13:52 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2510155 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2510135 Would you be comfortable having a casual relationship with someone, who you secretly really cared about and they were out having sex with someone else? Would that bother you or would you be ok with it?<br /><br />Yes I would be uncomfortable with this kind of relationship. I personally would&#039;nt be happy if my sex partner was out there sleeping with others. Mon, 17 Mar 2008 05:00:35 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2510135 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2510064 Why do people get married if they're just going to give up?<br /><br />When people get married, they think it is a lifetime commitment they are making as it should be. But sometimes in life things happen that you have no control over. People change. It is sad when a marriage breaks down but sometimes it is for the best. Mon, 17 Mar 2008 04:38:15 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2510064 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2506149 What's your favourite song that's all or mostly all instrumental?<br /><br />I love the music that is Albatros by Fleetwood Mac I think it is very soothing to listen to. Sun, 16 Mar 2008 16:26:52 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2506149 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2506075 What Irish song does this chorus come from "one has hairlike silvery grey the other has hair like gold, one is young and beutiful the other is bent and old, those are the two that are dear to me, from them i will never part<br /><br />What lovely lyrics I hope someone knows the answer good time of the year to find out. Happy St Patrick&#039;s Day. (Tomorrow). Sun, 16 Mar 2008 16:17:17 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2506075 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2506026 Who still mourns/misses Freddy Mercury?<br /><br />i do. i think he was the greatest. what a talent still listen to his albums regularly. Sun, 16 Mar 2008 16:11:02 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2506026 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2504312 Is it a strong marriage relation in India than other countries<br /><br />No all marriages are different. There is strong relationships all over the World. Sun, 16 Mar 2008 10:52:32 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2504312 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2504226 What is a ponce? Need some help, Brits.<br /><br />A ponse in Scotland means someone who scrounges from another person. Getting others to pay their way. I know a few people like this. Sun, 16 Mar 2008 10:38:25 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2504226 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2503446 How many operations have you had?and what were they for?<br /><br />2 both for cornea ulcers 1 at age 5 and 1 at age 9 Sun, 16 Mar 2008 07:53:01 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2503446 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2502688 I'm in the middle of a divorce and our three year old daughter talks about her dads new girlfriend and how much he likes her.I don't feel that its appropiate to allow our children to become involved in grownup relationships. How can I address this issue?<br /><br />It sounds to me like your daughter is being tutored to say these things. Either that or your daughter is very perseptive. How could a 3 year old know how her daddy feels about his girlfriend. If I were you I would&#039;nt ask my three year old any questions about how her daddy feels for the gf... Sun, 16 Mar 2008 03:56:27 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2502688 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2501472 Is the urge to merge more powerful than marriage vows and common sense?<br /><br />It obviously is for all those cheaters out there. Sat, 15 Mar 2008 21:27:09 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2501472 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2492138 I haven't been dealing with the break up of my marriage. I feel lost alone and afraid of financial insecurity.<br /><br />I know how you feel I&#039;m sorry for your pain. I&#039;m kinda in the same boat myself right now. It all gets too much I constantly have a horrible feeling in my gut. Try and do a little at a time. Its so hard. I&#039;ve been trying but keep hitting 1 brick wall after another, It dos&#039;nt... Fri, 14 Mar 2008 12:59:08 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2492138 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2473940 How do you comfort your teenage kids when their father moves in with OW with a 6 year old recieving gifts and attention from him and he has forgot his own kids existance?<br /><br />This note is intended for Zazzy and Grandma. I&#039;m sorry for the misunderstanding my question caused you both yesterday and I hope there are no hard feelings between you. Thanks again for your advice and kindness. Wed, 12 Mar 2008 06:44:43 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2473940 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2465325 How often do you argue with your mother?Why?<br /><br />Never argued with my mother she was my best friend. Tue, 11 Mar 2008 06:54:58 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2465325 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2465263 What does it mean to state what the subject does,is, or has in a sentence?<br /><br />When You ask a question there is a list of catagories underneath the question box. You have to click on what your question is about so that it can go to the right place in answerbag. I hope this is what you are asking and that it helped. Tue, 11 Mar 2008 06:41:40 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2465263 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2464689 Did you have a favorite sibling? If so, was it a boy or girl and why were they your favorite?<br /><br />My favorite sibling was an elder brother. I come from a family of 11. He was 10 years older than me. I think it was to do with the attention he gave me when I was really young. I have a sister 2 years younger than I and she was a comedy act when she was younger so most of the family gave her... Tue, 11 Mar 2008 04:09:11 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2464689 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2454281 Does staying and trying to work things out with my husband after he had an 'emotional affair' make me a weak person? I've had a few people tell me that now and I just wondered what others' thoughts were.<br /><br />No it dos&#039;nt make you weak at all. I&#039;m sorry for all the hurt you will be feeling right now but when you get back on track with your husband just think how much stronger your marriage is gonna be. And as for all those people telling you how WEAK you are just think how jealous their... Sun, 09 Mar 2008 22:47:50 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2454281 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2454176 My husband lies about women friends and about his whereabouts. When I confront him, he tells me it is none of my business. He swears that he has never cheated and says that he lies so he doesn't have to 'get into it' with me. What do you suggest I do?<br /><br />You as his wife have every right to know where he is. You don&#039;t sound pushy to me. I did&#039;nt ask where my husband was or where he was going or who with, I gave my husband to much freedom and guess what??????? Sun, 09 Mar 2008 22:37:10 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2454176 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2434353 IM 17 YEARS OLD AND I JUST BROKE UP WITH MY BOYFRI3ND OF 2 YEARS,HE WAS ALSO MY FIRST LOVE AND KISS.. HOW DO I GET OVER HIM?<br /><br />You probably won&#039;t get over him for a long time but your young and have your whole life in front of you. I know this is not what you want to hear right now but one day you will look back and smile. Most people always remember their 1st love, and take comfort in this, if you were his 1st love... Fri, 07 Mar 2008 17:10:29 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2434353 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2417963 How long is long enough to see someone new after you've been cheated on, and separated?<br /><br />This is a personal thing that can only be answered by you. You&#039;ll know when you are ready. Take it easy. Wed, 05 Mar 2008 16:55:27 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2417963 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2410849 What is the best way to approach my husband about lying to me about other women he has been spending time with and all signs point to an affair?<br /><br />Confront him with the evidence you have and don&#039;t give him an oppertunity to lie. Instead of saying where are you tell him I know your at......the more he lies the harder it will be for both of you to get to the truth. Keep calm and read up on other peoples experiences of confrontation... Tue, 04 Mar 2008 17:20:13 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2410849 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2410685 My mother-in-law has 3 sons a daughter and 6 grandchildren, 2 of whom are her daughter's kids. She favours these 2 over the other grandchildren, I dont have any kids...yet but im worried that when we do she will be like this what can I do?<br /><br />I&#039;m sure that when you have children of your own this question won&#039;t bother you as much as you think it will. I&#039;ll bet you&#039;ll have enough love to give your own children and thats all that matters. Tue, 04 Mar 2008 16:56:32 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2410685 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2410552 Why would a woman wear her wedding ring to a divorce<br /><br />Maybe to ward off any other men once bitten twice shy! Tue, 04 Mar 2008 16:32:54 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2410552 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2410505 My partner and I are both divorcees, we are getting married in USA, and would like a church blessing here at home in UK, is this possible?<br /><br />It would depend on the terms of your previous marriages. If either of you were married in a church before it may be difficult, you should go and ask your PP or minister. He will be the best person to advise. Tue, 04 Mar 2008 16:21:49 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2410505 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2410447 I have always been told that mutual masturbation is a sin. Is it and why?<br /><br />The bible says that our bodies are temples for the holy spirit our bodies are to be used only for procreation and not for self satisfaction. So yes it is a sin. Tue, 04 Mar 2008 16:06:21 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2410447 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2402235 Who initiates divorce proceeding the most the husband or the wife? By what ratio?<br /><br />I think it all depends on what the problems are in a marriage. People react to different situations in different ways. Mon, 03 Mar 2008 10:33:15 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2402235 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2399413 Does it bother you that Oprah is always pushing her influence around? Telling people what books to read, which candidate to vote for, etc?<br /><br />Yes I used to watch her all the time now I just can&#039;t. Sun, 02 Mar 2008 22:12:44 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2399413 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2399397 My boyfriend of a year recently hasnt been treating me like he used 2 and doesnt see me nearly as much ..he says he doent kno why he has changed or why things are dif . i think he may be guilty of cheating?? altough i dont think he was that type of person<br /><br />Have you ever watched the TV show cheaters, listen to the reasons people have for going to these PI&#039;s Sun, 02 Mar 2008 22:08:00 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2399397 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2399386 When u think of purple, what object, person, or place comes to your mind?<br /><br />Whoopi Goldberg is who I think of when the colour purple is mentioned. Sun, 02 Mar 2008 22:05:13 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2399386 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2385595 Does Satan really exist?<br /><br />Yes there is absolutly a devil and he is living in my husband at the moment. Fri, 29 Feb 2008 15:58:20 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2385595 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2379564 My boyfriend is an alcoholic. After a big alcoholic binge in which I got a black eye (accidentally), we had a long talk and he acknowledged his problem. Since then (2 months ago) he's gotten drunk 3 times. How many times should I forgive him?<br /><br />This is a hard one, alcoholism is an illness hard from both your points of view. If you could record him by video recorder and show him what he is like while under the influence it may make him seriously think about his problem, but on the other hand he may get angry and upset if you do this. As... Thu, 28 Feb 2008 18:12:43 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2379564 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2372760 Should you expect top shelf if your bottom of the barrel?<br /><br />Yes and don&#039;t accept anything less Wed, 27 Feb 2008 19:05:57 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2372760 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2372025 My husband filed for divorce a month ago and I still haven't received the paperwork. He's done this before to try to control me in our marriage. Question is shouldn't the paperwork already be here? And if he's serious why does he call me everyday?<br /><br />Do you want him to be serious about it? It&#039;s hard to answer this question with not knowing what the circumstances are did you end it or him? If it was you he probably is&#039;nt seriouse and is using scare tactics. or maybe it was him that ended it and has realised he has made a mistake... Wed, 27 Feb 2008 17:21:41 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2372025 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2371855 Can you name three of Shakespeare's works? In what years were they produced?<br /><br />Yeah I&#039;ve read a few. A Midsummer Nights Dream was my favourite its about a play within a play and was a lot of fun but I think Shakespere&#039;s is hard to understand, at times I really have to work at concentrating. Also west side story was based on romeo and juliette. A wee bit of useless... Wed, 27 Feb 2008 16:54:10 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2371855 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2371762 Other than eating carrots, what are other ways of improving your eyesight?<br /><br />I saw a programme on T.V about this and the experts say if you eat a portion of spinich a few times a week you will start to notice a difference as soon as a coulpe of weeks. Wed, 27 Feb 2008 16:37:57 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2371762 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2356841 If you were snagged by someone who tossed her birth-control pills and didn't tell you just to keep you in an ok relationship, and you stuck around for the sake of the child, is it wrong to want to have an extra-marital relationship? We're live-ins...<br /><br />Absolutly wrong! It is never ok to cheat on someone if you are in a relationship with them. Mon, 25 Feb 2008 16:55:52 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2356841 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2350316 Should the ex husband attend his ex mother in laws funeral when he has nothing to do with the ex wife. His ex shows up at all his family functions. He no longer goes to any of their parties because of her there.<br /><br />yes he was part of her family afterall and especially if he has kids it is their grandmother. I think its nice for him to show respect. Sun, 24 Feb 2008 19:17:12 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2350316 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2350250 Do you always keep your promises?<br /><br />Always Sun, 24 Feb 2008 19:08:32 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2350250 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2350076 Alrighty, so my gf and I are in a long-distance relationship, and she broke up with me about a monthish ago.. She keeps on saying "I love you" to me. Possible interpretations please? I'm very confused<br /><br />Maybe its just the distance thing that has made her end with your relationship. Sun, 24 Feb 2008 18:48:46 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2350076 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2350042 Can cheaters or liers change when they finally found love? or will they always be a lier or cheater no matter what?<br /><br />Would&#039;nt bet on it some lies become reality to the liar Sun, 24 Feb 2008 18:44:32 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2350042 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2349990 What is a mans definition of love?<br /><br />Self satisfaction. Sun, 24 Feb 2008 18:39:12 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2349990 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2349930 Do you have any siblings, if so how many?<br /><br />Yes 5 and 5 brothers too. Sun, 24 Feb 2008 18:32:05 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2349930 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2349853 How old was your mother when she gave birth to you?<br /><br />My mother was 38 when I was born I was the 9th in our family 2 others after me my youngest sibling was born when my mother was 42. Sun, 24 Feb 2008 18:22:00 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2349853 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2344059 My ex and I are talking on the phone and in touch again! When I broke up with him he got a reboung girl. Hem loves me and I love him. How can I do to make him want me again and leave the girl? He does not have any feelings for her<br /><br />Should&#039;nt be to hard the if you love each other just ask him back. Sat, 23 Feb 2008 20:57:25 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2344059 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2344022 Can you guess my name?<br /><br />Rumplestiltskin Sat, 23 Feb 2008 20:49:53 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2344022 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2337373 Do you still think about him?<br /><br />Who? Fri, 22 Feb 2008 20:06:15 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2337373 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2337351 If you REALLY love someone but know they don't love you, should you leave them before they leave you?<br /><br />Last year I considered leaving my husband problems were there but I did&#039;t know what they were. I then discovered he&#039;d been having an affair when i told him i was considering leaving him before i found out he could&#039;nt beleive it he was shocked even although it was obviouse he... Fri, 22 Feb 2008 20:02:54 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2337351 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2329888 My wife was at a party and got loaded, she was talking to a guy , the next thing she knew they were kissing, so told him to stop and moved away... she told me right away and has not stopped crying and telling me she loves me ..what should I do?<br /><br />She&#039;s obviously riddled with guilt over this it&#039;s good she told you. I think she has learned her lesson and won&#039;t do it again. forgive her and don&#039;t dwell on it or it will cause other issues. Thu, 21 Feb 2008 17:19:40 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2329888 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2329852 My husband cheated we seperated, I dated someone else will we were apart, we are trying to work on it, and I still don't trust him yet he acts like the vicitim. Is that right?<br /><br />My Husband never took the blame for anything he ever done wrong always plays the victim. He had an affair for 2 years but still manages to get everyones sympathy. I think it is just a man thing don&#039;t hold it against him. I hope you work it out, good luck. Thu, 21 Feb 2008 17:08:06 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2329852 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2329794 How often do you tell people no when they ask for favors?<br /><br />Hardly ever I&#039;m a real softy although it depends on the favour. Thu, 21 Feb 2008 16:51:16 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2329794 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2329769 Is it okay to lie about your past if indeed it could determine the destiny of the relationship?<br /><br />No a relationship should not be built on a foundation of lies and deceit Thu, 21 Feb 2008 16:45:32 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2329769 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2324457 Does stealing another woman's husband make you a WHORE?<br /><br />yes Wed, 20 Feb 2008 19:38:10 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2324457 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2160881 I've been married for 24 years and recently found out my husband was having an affair that had been going on for nearly 2 years. Is there any getting past this? We have had such a long history. I don't even know where to begin!<br /><br />I&#039;m so sorry this has happened to you. Same thing happened to me, 5 months ago i found out, 26 years together. It hurts so much. His affair also 2 years but he don&#039;t even want to know me, or our 18 year old daughter. I still love him so much. He&#039;s moved in with her. Hang in their... Mon, 28 Jan 2008 19:36:42 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2160881 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2160748 Why would he go back to her after getting caught the first time?<br /><br />he obviously loves her honey Mon, 28 Jan 2008 19:18:44 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2160748 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1884683 Will my sins be forgiven if I commited adultery when I was seperated for over 3 years from my husband? We are getting married by church in 6 months how do I confess this and is this forgivable?<br /><br />Is&#039;nt one of the 10 comandments thou shall not fornicate? Sorry i misread your question. Yes if you are truly sorry for your sin then God will forgive you. But never underestimate God he knows your innermost thoughts. Sun, 16 Dec 2007 23:52:59 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1884683 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1873358 Should I call back the person my husband was seeing while we where saperated? She called when me and my husband got back together to tell me that he was madley in love with her wanted to have her kids she said a lot of things to me that make me feel sick.<br /><br />ignore her and she will go away she is trying to cause trouble between you and your husband don&#039;t let her she will only tell you things you don&#039;t want to here ignorance is bliss Fri, 14 Dec 2007 22:12:21 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1873358 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1873212 Do you think that cheating only happens in relationships that are unhealthy and already probably doomed, or are people in perfectly healthy, loving relationships just as prone to give in to temptation?<br /><br />no i think cheating happens a lot more than people know Fri, 14 Dec 2007 21:44:49 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1873212