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If you're an atheist, will you still say things like "Oh My God!" and what not? Some don't, or try not to, but in general I would say that many (maybe most) atheists do use phrases like that. Even for theists, many of those type of phrases (like "God forbid!", "[God] Bless you!" and "God d--- it!")aren't taken literally and are just set phrases, usually expressing emotion. The same goes for many atheists. For many, it's just...

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What's the worst thing a person can say to someone who has just lost a loved one? I went to a funeral for a member of my husband's family and the preacher used it as a way to preach very condescendingly about hellfire and people gone astray. Being non-Christian (and not knowing who if anyone there knew) it was very uncomfortable for my husband and me, to say the least. We came there to pay our respects and say goodbye to a loved one, not to be a captive audience...

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Is there any practical reason to learn ancient Greek? The practical reason to learn ancient Greek is to be able to read, or at least translate, ancient Greek. For most people, that may be of little or no "practical" use. However, it can be very useful is you want to study ancient Greek literature how it was written, help translate archeological finds, better understand Biblical Greek texts, or teach others ancient Greek. And of...

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Why wasn't Esperanto ever globally adopted as the universal language? Because, believe it or not, people have never needed a universal language. Learning a language is not easy and most people do not learn another language unless they have a pressing need to use it. For most people, there is no need to learn more than one language (i.e. the language of the place where they live). When there is the need to communicate across different languages, it is...

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When we say "it is raining," what is IT? It is called the "pleonastic it". In these sentences, there is no true subject, per se. However, in English all sentences must have an explicit subject. Therefore, in these examples "it" is a dummy pronoun serving as an explicit subject. In "pro-drop" languages like Spanish, sentences are not required to have an explicit subject and weather expressions like the...

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What does 'my bad' mean, and do Americans use it a lot in both written text and conversations? "My bad" is a very informal way of saying "I was mistaken" or "It was my fault" or (to use the Latin phrase) "mea culpa". As joeyfg mentioned, it was popularized somewhat by the movie "Clueless". In my experience, it is still being used but I would not call it very common. It seems to found mostly in conversation, among friends, and among the...

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At what age should you start shaving your legs? Whether or not to shave is definitely a personal decision and many choose not to shave at all. However, so long as a girl is responsible enough to shave without hurting herself I see no reason for her to wait past whatever time she starts feeling self-conscious about her legs. This would probably be earlier for those girls with darker hair, but it also depends on the type of clothing worn,...

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Is organized religion today good or bad? There are certainly a lot of variables involved here that make this a difficult question to answer such as which religion, which denomination, which individuals are involved, etc. All in all, I'm not personally a big fan of organized religion, but I recognize that this may have more to do with certain personality traits of mine than with organized religion in general, and it may simply be...

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Should a married woman have a "single" account on Myspace? My first reaction is to say no way, but I'm a very open minded person and realize that there are sometimes exceptions. Therefore, I would give her a chance to explain why she has or wants to represent herself as being "single". Some people do create accounts for fictional characters for fun, and that might be a plausible explanation (though probably not likely). If it...

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If homosexuality is banned by most religions, are all homosexuals atheists? Not at all. Sexual orientation in no way determines whether one believes in gods or not, and vice versa. There are homosexuals even in religions where homosexuality is strictly banned, though many decide to stay in the closet and may have conflicting beliefs. However, there are many religions out there that do not ban homosexuality. Some tolerate homosexuality while banning homosexual...

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I am writing a thank you note to the director of a major organization. We did meet personally at a small event, but I'm not sure how to sign my thank you note. How should it be signed? Sincerely, -Your Name-

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Why are boys so mean to the girls they like? Consider how boys typically treat their male friends. Teasing is a fairly common among boys who are friends and in fact can be a way to show friendship (i.e. by taking turns taking shots at each other verbally or even some physical contact but without it escalating into anything more than play fighting). In contrast, girls tend to build and maintain friendships by talking about their feelings...

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What can a man do when a woman he cares about is having menstrual cramps? The first thing he should do is just ask her what he could do to help, since different women are helped by different things and some women might be uncomfortable with some actions. You can certainly make suggestions, but it's generally a good idea to ask permission before you start touching anywhere. Some suggestions, though: *Belly rub *Lower back rub *Foot rub *Make a heating pad...

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I missed a dose of my antidepressants yesterday and today I feel awful. Is this a normal reaction to have? It was the only dose I've ever missed. Yes, especially with Effexor or Cymbalta. You might take today's does a bit early, but don't take two doses instead of one.

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What makes swing music swing? In most music, a beat is divided evenly into equal parts whether it is two equal sized eighth notes, or into triplet eighth notes, four sixteenth notes, etc. In swing, though, the first part of the beat is held longer. In other words, the first eighth note of a beat lasts longer than the second eighth note. While the exact ration can vary, the first eighth note is held for about twice as...

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Why can men dress like slobs in public, but if a woman leaves the house without makeup, they are scorned by the slob? This sounds like a personal issue the guy has. No woman should be made to wear makeup just to get out of her house. Perhaps the couple should see a relationship counselor.

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When you are using the word "dude" as slang, what does it mean? It can refer to a male or even sometimes a female (generally among young peers in informal contexts). However, it can also mean, "Cool!" or even "That looks awful/painful!" depending on intonation.

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Why a 75 year old woman in a train crash fractured several ribs and not a 9 year old girl didn't and what can the doctors do for the 75 year old women. It might of just been luck. In crashes like that it is possible for some people to receive more injuries do to where they sat. However, it is also possible that the woman already had an underlying bone issue such as osteoporosis (which especially affects older women). If I were that woman, I would certainly have a bone density test done. If it shows osteoporosis, there are prescriptions...

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My mother in law told my children that her dead parents are watching over them at all times. Now my children are afraid to go to sleep. What can I do? Either deny it, or tell your children that they are now angels and they are there to protect them.

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If a healthy, average weight person doesn't eat for a week, how much weight could they expect to lose? Assuming that: your daily caloric needs are about 2000 calories and they stayed that way (i.e. your metabolism didn't slow down, you kept up your normal amount of activity)... You would loose approximately 4 pounds ([2000*7=14000] / 3500 = 4, since 3500 is the number of calories to loose a pound of fat). This is a very unhealthy way to loose weight, and as you can see, really doesn't...

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My family is poor and I don't know if I'll be able to go to a college unless I get a lot of scholarships. Are there on-line places with forms? Yes. One very good place to start is http://www.fastweb.com. Also, go to http://www.fafsa.ed.gov/ to find out more about federal financial aid. Of course, online scholarships are often easier to find out about, so be prepared to do plenty of leg work to get the money. Ask around town. Many local businesses, churches (or other religious groups), and organizations might give out...

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What is the relationship of my cousin's son to me? First cousin, once removed. See: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cousin_chart

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When you are singing karaoke are you suppose to sing just like the artist? No, not necessarily. Karaoke is supposed to be fun, and that means that you can do your own thing and play around with songs if you like.

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What is a good, polite way to ask a girlfriend to shave her genitals? Without making her mad or self-conscious? Ask her what she thinks about the subject and/or if she has ever done it. If she seems uncomfortable, don't push her further. If, however, she seems comfortable with the conversation then tell her that you are kind of curious about what it would be like. Again, if she seems uncomfortable at any time, just leave the topic alone. It is a very sensitive issue with some women, and probably not...

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If you were the smartest person on Earth, then what would you invent and why? I'd invent a cure for fibromyalgia. It's partly selfish since I happen to have fibromyalgia and it sucks, but I know that there are millions of other people out there whose lives would be greatly improved by it as well.

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If you could go back in time, 80 years ago, and remain your present age, then what would you do? I'd be a flapper and dance the night away.

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If you could eat as many desserts as you wanted, then what desserts would you eat? Chocolate fudge and chocolate cheesecake would have to be my staples :)

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Help, I'm fat! How do I lose all this excess flab? Definitely consult with your doctor about your weight loss plans, and if your doctor isn't as supportive as he or she should be, get a different doctor (sad to say, but some docs seem to care less) If you are serious about loosing weight, join your local gym and if possible hire a personal trainer. They can help you create a workout that is right for you. Also, see a nutritionist to make...

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Help! My wife wants to divorce me. Should I get a divorce, or try to mend it? Try marriage counseling. If she already wants a divorce it can't hurt, right? Of course, you can't force her to go, but you might be able to strike a good deal whereby you won't contest the divorce if she puts forth the effort and goes to counseling.

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Help! My wife calls me a big slab of flab. Should I tolerate this, or dump her? Whatever your weight, you should not tolerate verbal abuse. Dumping her is hopefully not the only option, though. Consider going to marriage counseling (go alone at first if need be) to help repair your relationship. And meanwhile, take John's advice and join a gym - not for her, but for yourself.

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I recently had an extramarital affair with a woman 20 years my senior, should I tell my current wife, or just divorce her and marry my true love? I'm 60! If those are your two options, then either way you should tell your current wife. If you do divorce her, she should at least know why. Call me a skeptic, but how do you know this new woman is your true love? Most people seem to think that the person they marry is their "true love" when they marry them, but divorce statistics show that "true love" is a fickle thing....

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What is the least effective way to kill a spider? Pray to Cthulhu to destroy it.

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Can anyone who is experiance, and knows what they are talking about give me their screenname...to help me out with my sex life wonders and advice and everything? If you are looking for one on one advice, you might consider talking to someone in a chatroom. On this site, people post their questions for all to see and answer. If someone has given you their screen name and helped you out, then good for you. However, you might have better luck posting all your questions here individually. While it might feel a tad embarrassing, there are a lot of...

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I am a 25 year old female with what I would consider major concentration issues. I genuinely think I need a perscription for adderall (I have taken it before without a perscription, and I know thats never a good idea but it helped me so much with college See a psychologist to get tested. But don't mention that you used Adderall before illegally. You don't want to be labeled a drug abuser from the start. Your doc will probably start you on something a bit lighter. Give it a shot for a month or two, then ask for something tougher if you still need it - just don't push your doc into prescribing anything specific.

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Why does my cat bite me sometimes? Unless he is hissing, I would guess that he is just trying to play. Cats play rough with each other - and they can take it better because their fur helps protect them. However, since we are more sensitive it's a bad habit that you should certainly break him of by refusing to play with him when he does it, and scolding him. If he is hissing, then he's scared or mad. If you aren't doing...

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What does 'hiatus' mean? From the American Heritage Dictionary: "NOUN: pl. hi·a·tus·es or hiatus 1. A gap or interruption in space, time, or continuity; a break: "We are likely to be disconcerted by . . . hiatuses of thought" (Edmund Wilson). 2. Linguistics A slight pause that occurs when two immediately adjacent vowels in consecutive syllables are...

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What's the best way to cool down on a hot day? Drink plenty of cool (not too cold) water, stay indoors or in the shade, use air conditioning or fans, use cooling misters or go swimming, and just relax.

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I am a 33-year-old female weighing in at less than 100 pounds. I have worked all my life to gain weight, but nothing has worked so far. I eat quite a bit and work out too. Any suggestions? Not knowing your height, I don't know if you really are underweight - or how drastically. However, if your BMI (body mass index) is lower than 20% you should see a doctor, or at the very least a nutritionist (and then a doctor if your diet is fine). Remember to eat plenty of calories (though not empty ones wasted on junk food). To gain weight, you must take in more calories than you burn....

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My boyfriend and I are away at home for college (2 different states).. what's the longest anyone has gone without talking to their boyfriend or girlfriend, by choice? Did you ignore their phone calls or what? You shouldn't ignore their calls anymore than you would ignore them in person - unless you really are too busy to answer the phone, or it is an inappropriate time (like family dinners). I don't think anyone has recorded the longest a couple has gone without talking by choice, but I wouldn't worry too much about it if I were you. It's perfectly fine to go days, or even weeks, depending on how...

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How can one not seem like a virgin during your first time with a girl? Make her the center of your attention. Focus on her, her needs, pleasuring her (ask her what she likes, we women all have different turn ons). Not only does it take the focus off of you, but she will think that you are an excellent lover. And if that wasn't enough, you'll last longer if you focus on stimulating her in ways that are less stimulating to you ;)

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My boyfriend looks at porn- \"the hardcore stuff\", and I\'ve let him know that I don\'t like it, but I haven\'t asked him to stop... yet. We are both 18- I feel like I need to give him a little time to grow up, possibly grow out of it... dumb idea? It's pretty normal for guys to look at porn and although tastes change, you shouldn't bet on him growing out of it. If it bothers you to watch, then insist that he only watch it when you are not around. If you are bothered by the idea that he watches it at all, you may be out of luck. He could change to please you (which he might if he doesn't care for it that much to begin with), but more...

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Did I have an early miscarriage if i got my period and my pelvis and abdomen hurt? My period was less than usual but still lasted 5 days. Unless you know that you were pregnant, my guess would be that it was just regular period cramps. They can vary in severity from time to time.

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What would have happened if Microsoft designed the iPod packaging? The screen would be blue on a regular basis and there would be a billion dollar anti-virus industry to protect them.

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I had taken my pill @ 11:00 the night before. today my boyfriend had sex at 9 pm and i ended up taking my pill 3 hours later than normal, @ 2:00 am. What are the odds? I am on the regular 2 hormone pill, tri nessa So long as you are on the 2 hormone pill, you are probably fine. I took mine 15 hours late once and my doc said I didn't have anything to worry about.

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Why does it rain? What goes up, must come down. Water evaporates up, then condenses down.

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Why are some people rude; while others are polite? Polite people know that being polite is a good strategy for long term success when dealing with others. By practicing politeness, you improve your chances of people wanting to help you in return. Furthermore, many people are polite because they empathize with others. Rude people feel that they can't be bothered about other peoples' feelings. In my experience, they tend to be impatient...

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Can guinea pigs fly? Maybe when pigs fly. --------------- Yeah, yeah, give me a break. It's just an expression. Short answer, no.

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My boyfriend and I aren't going to see each other for a month and a half; we're home for the summer. And we sometimes go days without talking when I call he doesn't answer sometimes. Is this ok? How long has anyone gone w/o talking to their other? It's quite ok to go awhile without talking. Remember, long distance relationships predate telephone/email by thousands and thousands of years. In fact, you might find that it is better to talk only once every few days or once a week since that way you have more to really talk about and you don't feel pressured to just yammer on about nothing in particular (which can drive some guys nuts)....

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i want to know what product helps minimize or disappear the acne scars that i have in my face thanx Mederma helps somewhat.

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Why doesn't everybody just build their buildings underground, where there's much more room? In some parts of the world (like Florida), the water table is quite high and so underground buildings can be prone to leaks.

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when i lifting weights.. will 1 rep be enough as lifting weights with 8 reps. 1 rep more weight 8 reps lower weight No. You should try to do between 8 and 12 reps for each machine or exercise. Use whatever weight that you can do 8 to 12 reps with and stop at that point when you feel like your muscles are going to give out (just slightly).

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What should I do if my parents aren't fond of the guys I choose to be with? Certainly consider their advice, but if you feel that you and your parents can't agree on whom you should date, agree to disagree. Just be patient and hope that your boyfriend does prove to be right for you and that they can see that. If they don't, just remember that it is more important for you to be happy with whom you date than it is for your parents to approve.

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my girlfriend is pregnant,but dont know who the dad will be..we had sex on new years day and she conceive on jan 3rd. what is the chances its my baby. It is certainly possible. The chances depend on how many other guys she slept with, though.

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whats the absolute FASTEST way of losing weight i mean rapid fast ?? If you already had the appointment scheduled - surgery (either liposuction or full-blown skin removal depending on severity). If you don't care that you are not loosing fat, diaretics and laxatives (but since you are not loosing fat it's not only unhealthy but also pretty pointless if you are doing it to look better). Most super quick weight loss pills and potions operate using one or both...

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Is it normal to forget what classes you took in college last year? Maybe. I can't always remember all the classes I took last semester, and while that doesn't it make it normal, it makes me think that it is probably not too abnormal. If you can't remember any of the classes you took, I'd call that a bad sign. But if you took a lot of classes, you've been in college awhile, and by last year you mean over a semester ago, I'd say that it's ok to have temporary...

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How do I stop my daughter from getting married until she finishes college? Theoretically, you could try to bribe her. I don't recommend it, though, if you want to maintain a good relationship with her. Tell her your concerns (Why do you want her to wait? Is it about the specific guy?), but ultimately, you can't help but let her make her own decisions - mistakes or not. The good news is that her getting married might not interfere with her still finishing her degree...

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How can I improve my sense of balance? Take yoga classes and/or pilates (especially if you use one of the big pilates balls you can sit or lay on). My favorite yoga postures for standing balance are the tree and the eagle. You can find more information about them and other poses online or from yoga books if you don't have the time or money for a class right now. With a pilates ball you can lay on your stomach , starting with...

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Does pus oozing from a recent piercing indicate an infection? It might. If there is also redness you probably should go back to your piercer and ask them to take a look and see what they recommend. Do NOT use peroxide unless instructed to do so by a professional. Peroxide and alcohol can damage your skin as it tries to heal, causing even more problems.

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Is it better to wait until you're older and done growing to get a belly button piercing? Yes, wait. A piercing that looks good now might not look good when you are done growing.

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Can I still get my belly button pierced if I don't have a flat belly? Yes. In fact, if your belly is really flat you might not even be able to get a good piercing.

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How can I convince my parents to let me get my belly button pierced? As someone who has had their belly pierced, I do not recommend it to minors. Nor do I recommend it to adults who have not thoroughly examined the very real and common risks (such as scarring, rejection, and infection), what is required to help it heal, and the very long healing time. Navel piercings can take a year to heal - much longer than most other piercings, and they can be painful if...

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Is wine always a good house-warming gift? Unless you know that the person drinks wine (and hopefully what their tastes are), I'd say it's generally a bad idea to give wine. Many people don't drink wine because of religion, tastes, problems with addiction, weight-watching, and so on. And even if they do drink, many people are very particular about what kind of wine they drink. Instead, considering giving the person...

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I want to include a photo in my online dating profile, but I'm afraid of it being used inappropriately. How can I guard against this? Honestly, you are not going to find a satisfactory way of doing this (assuming by "inappropriately" you mean saved/copied for use elsewhere) since no matter what you do to the coding of the page, the view can just print a screen shot and rescan it (or something way easier). If you are worried about your picture being used in ways you don't want it to be used, do not post it....

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Can I use candles for lighting at a group dinner party, or is that too romantic for the occasion? Yes, but don't use them as the only lighting or else you might risk making the event seem too romantic.

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Do multilingual people think in different languages all the time? Not all the time, but as a multilingual person I can say that yes, I do sometimes switch back and forth.

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If a man says he loves you, why would he abuse you? Maybe you should be asking: "If a man abuses you, why would he say he loves you?" In that case, it's because he gets a kick out of hurting you and wants to keep you around to do it some more (afterall, not just any person would let themselves be abused). I get the feeling that you at least know that he doesn't really love you (not in a good way, at least) and that's...

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If I'm wearing black pants and blue shirt, is it okay to wear brown shoes? It's always hard to tell without seeing, but if I were you I'd go with black shoes.

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My cat seems to be mad at me when I arrive home after being at work all day. She goes into the living room and faces the wall for hours. Is she really mad at me? Probably. Cats, while they might try to convince you otherwise, really do love getting attention. And they can get very bored if left alone all day. You might consider getting her a friend. It definitively helped with my cat. It can get addictive, though, since we ended up getting a third kitty, and are now kitty-sitting another for a while. Anyways, this approach can be tricky,...

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i have severe cramps during menstruation. Can this be due to fibroids? Definitely. But there could be other causes as well such as endometriosis. So, you should probably play it safe and see a gynecologist - especially if it's causing you problems. The good news is that fibroids usually don't need to be removed and can be treated with hormones (sometimes all you need to do is take some birth control pills - worked for me). So, if your doc says you...

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I just got my navel pierced and I'm going to the beach in about 2 weeks. Will saltwater from the ocean infect the piercing? Play it safe and don't swim until your piercing is fully healed. While salt water is generally safer than fresh water for piercings, there could still be things floating around in it that could irritate or infect the piercing. I think my piercer told me not to swim for about 6 or 8 weeks, but ask yours if you have any doubts.

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Can a woman become pregnant through oral or anal sex? No. Sperm have to get up the vagina, through the uterus, up the fallopian tubes, to the egg. Neither the stomach nor the intestines provide access to the egg. ---- As Jervinator said, that does assume no spillage. Sperm-to-egg contact is still highly unlikely through oral spillage, but with anal sex the risk does go up. And of course, both methods are risky from an STD stand-point....

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How do I explain to a child why it's important to take a bath or shower? Most kids don't care much about "hygeine" and "germs", at least, not in the same way we adults do. They are just abstract concepts to them. Focus instead on things he (or she) can see and smell. Remind the child that others might not want to play with him if he smells bad or looks dirty. You might also say that adults don't like it either because nobody likes...

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How can the cabbage soup diet assist in weight loss? Cabbage is filling but very low in calories.

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How would one go about having a bathroom installed in an attic? Some people turn their attics into spare bedrooms or offices. If there is a bathroom in the attic, chances are that the person who put it there planned on using the area for more than just storage.

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What is the difference between Christianity and Presbyterianism? Presbyterianism is a type of Christianity.

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Can bicycling help you lose a big stomach? While it won't spot reduce, bicycling is a great aerobic exercise that will reduce body fat - including the fat around your stomach. For a better workout, try riding in areas that have hills or sand. You'll gain muscle in your legs that will boost your metabolism, making that fat disappear even faster. And in my opinion, riding around town on a bike is a lot less boring than most...

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My boyfriend has attempted to cheat in the past via the Internet, but he didn't. He says if he does cheat on me it's because I drove him to it because of my insecurities. What should I do about this? You need to move on or get some serious relationship counseling. He is responsible for his own actions. Personally, I'd be a bit insecure, too, if I were in your position - and rightly so! What do you mean by "attempted" to cheat? As easy as it is to cheat on the internet, if he "attempted" there is a good chance he did. And even if he didn't get physical with...

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Is it normal for women to go through times when they do not desire sex? Of course - and for various reasons. A woman might have had a bad experience, be too tired or stressed, figure that it is not worth the risks, feel unsexy, not find her parter options to be real turn-ons, be upset at her partner, or have medical issues (whether it is a medical condition or a side effect of medications she is taking). If the woman considers this lack of libido to be...

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If I'm not having my periods, and I know I'm not pregnant, how long should I wait before consulting a doctor? Since you have been missing periodS, I would say now. One missed period might now warrant a doctor visit, but if you have missed more than one you should definitely see a doctor. And remember, you can schedule an appointment and cancel it later (generally up to 24 hours in advance without paying a fee) if you feel like things are back to normal.

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Is it normal to experience vaginal itch and sting after you have used pads during your period? I wouldn't call it "normal" to have vaginal stinging, but the itching and stinging you describe does happen and it's probably nothing to worry about. Some of us are just more sensitive to pads. If you want to keep using pads, make sure to change them regularly and don't use pads with added scents. When you can, just use pantyliners. Of course, you can try using...

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How can I reduce the pain from menstrual cramps? Yoga (BIG help for me) Walking or other light exercise Heating pad (or a warm kitty cat) Massage Avoiding caffeine Oral contraceptions Pain meds like Midol or Motrin And my mom's tip - rolling a glass coke bottle under your foot If you are having a lot of pain, see a gynocologist since it could be a sign of problems like endometriosis.

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At what age should you stop seeing a pediatrician and start seeing an adult doctor? Well, unfortunately insurance companies often make this decision for people. Mine wanted me to go through my pediatrician for everything until I was 21 or 22 (the age was definitely more that 19). This was upsetting since my pediatrician was not helping me diagnose my problem and didn't want to send me to anyone else who could. Fortunately, I was able to get better insurance that...

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Would Elizabethan audiences have easily understood the language in Shakespeare's plays when they heard it for the first time? The audiences would certainly understand most of it. I'm sure a few jokes and metaphors would be lost on some, just like what happens all the time today. Even I catch new things when I rewatch movies. Another issue would be Shakespeare's use of new or recently coined words. Shakespeare is claimed to have coined quite a few words (See:...

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In the Elizabethan era, did people really speak like the characters in Shakespeare's plays or is that language simply dramatic? Shakespeare wrote a lot in iambic pentameter (a type of poetic meter) even in works we do not normally consider "poetry". While it makes for an interesting rhythmic effect, people did not go around talking in iambic pentameter. And while Shakespeare's verse flows remarkably well, the naturalness of language generally diminishes a bit when forced into a set metrical pattern. ...

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Where does the term, "physiology" come from? Physiology comes from the Greek "physis" ("nature") and "logos" ("word"). It means the study of natural things (such as the mechanics of a living organism). The word comes to us from the Greek through the Latin word physiologia. For a listing of some of the areas of physiology, check out: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Physiology

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Can some people really sleep with their eyes open? My husband does it. They aren't wide open, but I can see the bottom of his pupil. It originally caused some problems because I would wake him up by talking to him since I thought he was awake. As far as we know, it hasn't caused any other problems, but his doctor did tell him that he should make sure his eyes don't get too dried out.

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What do Catholics believe regarding cremation? Yes, as of 1997 Catholics may be cremated so long as the reasons behind the decision are not against Catholic beliefs in any way. (See http://catholicism.about.com/od/deathdyingafterlife/f/crematedf04.htm) Also, the following page from the Catholic Encyclopedia offers a good history on the practice and reasons behind the Catholic Church's long opposition to cremation: ...

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How did India get its name? In short, "the name India 'ɪndiə' is derived from the Old Persian version of Sindhu, the historic local name for the Indus river" (quoted from http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/India). However, for a more extensive take on the word, I suggest seeing the article on the following page: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Origin_of_India%27s_name

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If urine is sterile how do you get a bladder infection? The bacteria come from outside the body, up through your urethra, and then into the bladder. On a related note, the reasons why women get more bladder infections than men is because of the extra moisture, the bacteria don't have as far to go, and rubbing during sex can help move bacteria up and into the urethra area. So, gynecologists and urologists (at least the ones I've seen)...

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When my friend and I eat out, a drink always spills, and it always falls toward her. Does this have any potential meaning, or is it just bad luck? I'm not usually the superstitious type, but perhaps there's something to this. You didn't say who spills the drink, but it could be an indication that someone is a little nervous - perhaps because they want to be more than friends. Of course, the spiller could just be really clumsy. If this seems to just be random with different people spilling drinks, perhaps it really just...

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Is there a particular etiquette to follow when dining alone? Generally, you follow the same etiquette as you would if you were dining with others. However, it is certainly more polite to take a small table rather than to take up a larger one that might be needed by a group. Also, if you talk on your cell phone, remember to keep the volume down. Of course, using a cell phone - even when dining alone - is considered by many to be taboo. Personally, so...

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How can I get my eyelashes to appear longer? Curl them, then apply mascara. By curling them you maximize the length that people can see when they look at you (assuming they aren't looking from straight above or below).

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What brand of knee highs don't creep down to your ankles? Instead of knee highs, consider thigh highs with a garter belt. It's a little more work, but not nearly as uncomfortable as full length stockings and much more sexy for whoever gets to see you undress at night.

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What type of clothes, when worn, can make your legs look shorter? Long dresses, long tops, low-rise pants, and flat shoes.

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What woman's sportswear styles would flatter a figure of a woman with broad shoulders, a large bust, and slim hips? To minimize your shoulders and bust, avoid any tops that are straight across the top (which, unfortunately, is common is sportswear). Instead, go for a slight V-neck. If you want to make your hips look bigger, make sure that your tops cling loosely to your form instead of hanging.

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What is the difference between flare and boot cut jeans? Both have extra room below the knees, but in the boot cuts the sides are still close to straight vertically when you look at them, just wider to make room for boots. With flares, the jeans come out at an angle whose slope stays rather consisten all the way down. So, the shape of boot cut jeans from the knee down is rather rectangular while the shape of the flares is somewhat triangular.

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My athletic socks have an elastic ring at the top that cut into my lower legs. How can I loosen the elastic? You can try leaving them wrapped around a cup for a few days. Also, washing and drying them a few times might loosen the elastic.

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For a summer wedding, my partner is wearing a khaki green army suit. What colours (apart from white) can I wear? And what about colours for groomsmen and bridesmaids? I like a soft pastel blue as an alternative wedding dress color - especially in summer. And it will nicely complement the green. Unless they are also wearing uniforms, the best bet for the groomsmen if probably to go traditional with black suits. For the bridesmaids, try another, just slightly darker shade of blue.

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Is it acceptable to wear a tie with a short-sleeve shirt? So long as it is a button-down, collared dress shirt, yes. However, it is not always acceptable to wear a short sleeved shirt and generally when it is you do not need to wear a tie, so there's really not much of a need to wear them together unless you work at a place where that is sort of the going style (as is not too uncommon in Florida where I live).

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Would a dark slate blue color pant be appropriate as formal wear? I do not consider that to be formal wear. Of course, I have seen men wear a lot of colors at "formal" occasions, but nothing says formal like black.

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Is it okay to wear a shirt with very thin stripes on it with suit pants that also have stripes? I'm having a hard time imagining a case where it would work, so my answer for now is no.

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What color dress scarf should I wear with a black overcoat? I'd go with black, but it depends how much you want it to be noticed. White's also nice, but a little flashy for some people. Whatever you choose, make sure it matches what is under the overcoat in case they are seen at the same time.

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What colour shoes should l wear with a dark brown suit (for a wedding in August)? Dark brown - and don't forget to wear dark brown or other matching socks.

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What color tops go with dark brown pants? It depends on the style. If they are dress pants, I'd go with a light-colored or dark-blue top if the dark brown pants aren't optional. If you are going to dress up, it's generally better to go khaki for dressy-casual and black for more dressy occasions. Brown dress pants tend to look a bit dated. If they aren't dress pants, then your options are better. If...

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Will charcoal grey pants and a medium brown shirt coordinate? Generally, it's a bad idea to mix black/gray tones with brown unless you really know what you're doing.

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If my date is wearing a gold dress, what would be good color coordination for my tie, shirt, sweater and pants? Sounds like a dressy occasion. It's hard to say for sure without knowing the exact occasion, but here's my general advice. Wear black pants, socks and shoes. That's easy and works for almost any dressy occasion. For most occasions, a nice dark colored shirt and dark but contrasting tie will go well with that. Personally, I like dark purple shirts with just the slightest shine...

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Can two total strangers look identical? If so, what are the odds? Unless they are twins separated at birth, no, not really. There are sooo many variations DNA and environmental forces make. And even twins usually have some distinguishing features like a mole or scar or height difference. I have however seen someone that looked surprisingly like me, at least from the distance I was at (they were on a stage and I was a few rows back). I took their picture...

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What are some of the healthiest foods that are not fruits or vegetables? White meat like turkey is a very good source of lean protein. Also, seeds and nuts are great (most don't consider them to be fruits or veggies).

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What's so special about truffles? Truffles can refer either to the edible fungus or to a type of bite-sized chocolate treat. Both are generally tasty, but the former tends to be quite expensive because they are not easy cultivate - sometimes as much as $1000 or more per pound! One of the major problems in cultivation is that they are hard to get established since if the conditions aren't just right other fungi will grow...

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I have recently become a vegetarian. For the past couple of months, I have had diarrhea almost constantly. Could this be caused by something missing in my diet? It's probably caused more by what you are eating rather than what you aren't. Try cutting various foods out of your diet to see if you have any food sensitivies. You might try googling "elimination diet" to find out more about specific plans, but they all are pretty much the same; first, start in categories, then narrow it down to individual foods. Remember, it might be a...

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Why don't nutrition information labels include caffeine content? Because the FDA doesn't require it. Label "real estate" is valuable so food companies generally don't include anything they don't have to UNLESS they think it will help them sell their product. Of course, I'm sure some are wondering why doesn't the FDA require caffeine isn't required to be listed. Since they know the food companies are likely to fight...

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When I was sick I ate next to nothing for seven days and drank a lot of water, and yet by the end of the week, I hadn't lost a single pound. What's wrong with me? I wouldn't say that anything is "wrong" with you. Even while dieting it takes time to loose pounds. Chances are, you did loose some weight, but that it was less than a pound. And remember, normally weight can fluctuate more than that just during the day or month due to fluid retention. Also, what were you eating? Even though you say you were eating "next to...

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Does medical insurance ever pay for breast reduction? Yes, but sometimes you do have to jump through a few hoops (fortunately, only figuratively speaking). Talk to a reputable plastic surgeon (and their financial department while you're there). They can give you a good idea of whether or not your insurance will cover you and they'll go ahead and submit your paperwork. Sometimes people are denied at first, but don't let that...

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Does having your nipples pierced impede your ability to breastfeed? According to the Breastfeeding Answer Book, there is no evidence that piercings impede your ability to breastfeed. However, you should take the jewelry out while you are actually breastfeeding. Afterall, you don't want your baby chomping down on one of them and/or swallowing anything. Plus, you want to make sure the area is nice and clean for baby which might be more difficult to ensure...

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If you have your navel pierced, what is the best way to keep the hole open during pregnancy? There are special belly rings made for pregnant women. The bar is extra long to accomodate the stretching belly skin. Here are a couple for sale if you want to see what they are like: http://www.painfulpleasures.com/xcart/customer/home.php?cat=349

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Can you use anesthesia for belly piercings? If so, what are the side effects? David's right, but I hope you don't mind if I add something. If you were to get local (or general) anesthesia you'd be getting a shot. In my experience, the pain from the actual piercing wasn't much worse that a shot. In fact, it was better than some shots I have had. So, there really isn't much point in getting anesthesia. Of course, there are numbing agents out...

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I am 13 and I want my belly pierced. Does it hurt and what's the risk of infection? Yes it hurts. You're getting a piece of metal shoved through your skin! Fortunately, the actual procedure is done very quickly so compared to other things (childbirth, hemmroids, cat scratches, etc.), it's not that bad. In fact, mine didn't hurt at all the night of my piercing (once the piercer had done his thing). A couple days later, though, it was pretty sore from being...

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My boyfriend would rather masturbate to porn instead of having sex with me. He says it's because he's gained weight and is too lazy to have sex when the out come is the same. What do I do? Tell him that the outcome is NOT the same, and that that is a very selfish response since he has failed to consider your needs and the needs of your relationship. Tell him that while you are still turned on by him despite a little weight gain that if that's really the reason the two of you aren't having sex then it is time the two of you start exercising - even if it just means going...

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Usually web searches for genealogy bring up too many results and not very good ones. What are some good (free) websites on genealogy? www.rootsweb.com There you can search family trees and other databases for free.

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How would I go about researching my family tree? First, gather what information you can from your family. Usually one person in each family has some sort of family tree they've made and probably stored in the back of the file cabinet for a couple decades. Make sure to talk to the oldest living people in your family. If that doesn't work out, you can use other traditional methods such as looking up certificates of birth, marriage,...

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How does it feel to get drunk for the first time? Definitely a bit dizzy. It feels like when you move it take an extra half second for the world to catch up. Mostly, though, you might notice that you feel more emotional. If you are among friends having a good time, you might just feel really excited and like every joke is super hilarious. However, if you're drinking because you are upset, you're more likely to feel worse, though...

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I sometimes wake-up in a panic, soon after initially going to sleep, and find myself gasping for air. It feels like I have stopped breathing. What could be causing this? It could definitely be stress. However, if this continues, you might want to talk to a sleep doctor. You might have sleep apnea - a sleeping disorder where you actually do stop breathing while sleeping. Needless to say, this is a serious disorder that needs attention. Fortunately, treatment may be as simple as wearing a breathing mask while sleeping.

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What is the meaning of the word "pee"? To add to what emilyw said, "pee" is also the noun for urine, and when doubled to "pee pee" it can refer to the penis, or to the urethra of either sex.

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How many dates can I eat every day without gaining weight? There isn't an easy answer, but I hope you'll find the following information helpful: About 5-6 dates have about 120 calories total (it varies depending on size). To maintain your weight, you must burn as many calories as you take in as food, and vice versa. So, first you need to figure out how many calories you expend each day on average. You can use the following calculator to...

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I am 16 years old and I just started to gain some fat. I hate exercising but I need to find a way to help me like exercising and I need a diet that suits me. Any suggestions? At 16, you are likely still growing, so don't panic if your clothes are getting a bit snug. However, if you are gaining unhealthy amounts of fat, there are plenty of things you can do to loose weight in a healthy manner. Do not start a diet unless a doctor or nutritionist has specifically instructed you to do so. Dieting to loose a few pounds will more than likely result in you loosing...

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What is a "pick up" note? To add to what breadmanpaul said, a pick up note leads into the following bar. That is to say, it is part of that larger musical phrase.

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I play the sax, and recently something like mold has been growing on my reeds. It's grayish, and starts as spots, then joins together to make fuzz. I cover it with the reed covers, and I tried different reeds, but no luck. Why? They're definitely not drying out enough. Depending on where you live, the humidity might be so bad that you do have to take further measures to prevent your reeds from being ruined like that. I know since I am from Florida! First off, make sure you take your reeds off your mouthpiece after each time you play. Do not leave them on the mouthpiece (though it doesn't sound like...

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Why is it accepted by some cultures for a guy to be a player but a girl in the same instance to be considered a slut? Because traditionally men have made the rules! Since paternity tests are a modern invention, it has been in men's best interests that women be faithful to one man - otherwise a guy might be supporting someone else's kids. And since in most cultures men have supported women financially, it's been their perrogative to dictate what the women that belonged to him (and in many...

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Is there any custom to asking a Father/Mother for their blessings when asking for their daughters hand in marriage? To add to what Encyclopedia John said, you definitely want to ask in person when you have some time to sit down and talk. Be prepared for a bit of an interrogation about your future plans, goals, religion, beliefs about child-raising, etc. It might be a good idea to prearrange a visit with them by saying that you'd like to discuss something with them when it is convenient for them. You...

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I tried to help my best friend get together with some guy by suggesting she write him a note. She took my advice but he didn't respond. Now she is upset because she doesn't think he likes her. What should I do? Rejection is tough for just about everyone and is particularly devastating to those of us who are already more than a little insecure about our self-worth. Let her know how much she means to you as a friend and give her specific examples of things that make her a wonderful person in general. Be a good listener, too. Let her talk to you about how she feels and don't jump in to contradict...

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A friend of my ex-boyfriend always asks me out and I don't like it. I keep telling the friend to stop asking me out but he won't understand. Should I tell my ex-boyfriend to talk to his friend? Since you've already told him to stop on multiple occasions, it might be worth a shot. By involving someone else, you might be able to embarrass him just enough that he leaves you alone.

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should I stay friends with my ex boyfriends friend? If you like him, why not? Just make sure you don't choose him to rant to about your ex. If you try to come between him and your ex, he'll likely choose to stick with the friend he's had the longest.

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Why can't I seem to trust my boyfriend of 4 years? I think everything he tells me is a lie. I can't help but check his cell and look for clues. All his friends are disrespectful and I don't see why he hangs with them. Am I insecure? Yes. You are definitely insecure. You didn't say that he had given you any reason to doubt him, so perhaps the problem goes deeper that your relationship with him. Either way, it might be good to talk to a counselor who can help you investigate the roots of this issue.

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Is it normal for a guy to give you his phone number right away after only one e-mail? Shouldn't he talk to you via e-mail more before expecting you to call him? I would find it a little strange. However, kudos to him for giving you his number instead of asking you for yours (which would creep me out). That way you can call him when you decide you're ready. He shouldn't "expect" you or pressure you to call, though. That's not only creepy, it's cheap on his part. And remember, since he likely has caller-id, be careful...

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When asked "what do you see in me?" by a loved one, what should I say? When it comes to love and blurting out wonderful things to her, my mind will fall into the darkness. You might want to pre-plan for questions like this by jotting down possible answers or lists of things to say as you think of them throughout the day. Here are a few suggestions, though, to get you started: I love your sense of humor. I feel so comfortable telling you things. You always know just what to say when I'm feeling down. You're so smart. You're so elegant. I...

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i'm in love with a now divorced man(3yrs of which i was unaware that he was married while we were in a relationship).after i came to know the truth i still loved him n took him back, but i've cheated on him.how do i gain his love n trust. It sounds like he's the one that needs to earn YOUR love and trust (even though you're already giving it). I seriously think you need to rethink this relationship, but if you still want have a relationship with him, relationship counseling for the two of you would be a great way to make a fresh start. Unless you can identify and solve the problems you've had in the past, it is...

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I would like to get back together with my ex. How many times should I hear the words "I'll think about it" and let her change her mind before I just give up? None - or at most once. Do you really want to date someone who can't decide if they want to be with you? Once you've made your move by telling her you want to get back together, the next move is hers. Let her come to you. Don't pressure her. If she comes around, fine. If she doesn't, then you're probably better off without her.

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My husband cheated on me and gave me hpv. I have not seen any warts for about a month. I have an appt. to see a doctor in three weeks, but I am so curious. I know there is no SURE answer, but, if I see no warts, am I still contagious? Yes! According to WebMD, "You can spread the virus even if you do not have any symptoms of infection or any visible warts." (http://www.webmd.com/hw/std/hw105421.asp) For more information: http://www.webmd.com/hw/std/hw105403.asp

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My girlfriend is closer with my friends and family than she is with her own. Even my Grandma says I will be disowned if I do not marry her. How can I escape this relationship without deserting my own friends and family? It sounds like they are the ones that are deserting you! You need to tell your friends and family your reasons for wanting to break up. Try your friends first, then perhaps you can enlist their help by having them talk to your family in addition to you. Don't make it sound like she is a bad person - just not compatible with you. Tell them that she is a nice person, but that the two...

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I broke up with my live-in boyfriend of 2 years because he cheated. After having time apart I find that I want us to get back together but he wants to move on. What happened? Since you dated for 2 years, it's probably safe to assume that the two of you did have many good times together in addition to the bad. Perhaps you really want that back and either don't think you'd get hurt again so much or that it would even be worth it. You might be lonely and just wanting a boyfriend. You might want to be with him instead of another guy because at...

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Why do some lesbians dislike bisexual women? I don't deny the other reasons given here, since it is certainly possible for different leasbian women to have different and multiple reasons to dislike bisexual women. However, I have heard another, additional one that I would like to add here. For those lesbians that think of men as "gross," they may dislike having relationships with bisexual women if they know they have had...

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My boyfriend and I "pull out" instead of using condoms. How can I make this more fulfilling for him? Ok, this may or not work for you, but you can try to work the withdrawal into a sort of fantasy. You could collect it in a cup and tell him (in the fantasy) that you are going to use it later, sell it, start your own sperm bank... whatever trips his trigger.

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I am trying to help my best friend get together with this guy. How can I help them get together? You can certainly mention the guy that she is interested and say what a nice person she is, but ultimately she has to step up and show this guy that she's interested enough to put her own energies into getting to know him, even if it means taking a risk. So, speak well of her and her intentions, but then step back and let them work things out since you want her to be the center of his...

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Why do some people have trouble saying they're sorry to their partner? Saying you're sorry generally means admitting that you're wrong. Many times, someone won't say they're sorry because they don't think they are wrong (and perhaps they aren't) or because they know they aren't sorry because they wanted to hurt their partner. Other times, they might not say they're sorry even if they know they're wrong because ......

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In general, what perceptions and attitudes do Americans have toward British people? Some of the American stereotypes about British people that I know of are that they are snobby, prudish, intelligent but boring, and have awful cuisine and bad teeth. Of course, not all Americans believe this and it is likely that stereotypes vary widely from person to person.

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Can not eating or not eating very much cause a headache? Yes! According to WebMD: "Tension headaches can result from muscles tightening in the back of the neck or head due to stress, anxiety, fatigue, hunger, anger, poor posture, or overexertion." http://www.webmd.com/hw/migraines/ty7053.asp As to migrain headache triggers: "Missing a meal (40%), lack of sleep, oversleeping, and fatigue are also commonly reported as...

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Can you get pregnant by having unprotected/protected sex during your period? Yes. Though it is less likely to happen, some women do ovulate during their periods or so soon before or after that the sperm and egg will still have a chance to meet up. Therefore, it is still important to use contraception is you do not wish to get pregnant.

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I cannot reach an orgasm through penetration alone. What can I do to change this? A lot of women (I'll make the assumption that you are a woman) don't reach orgasm through penetration alone. Frankly, I believe that orgasm by any means - hands, toys, mouth, etc. - is great.. However, if you are intent on receiving an orgasm through penetration alone, there are some things you can try. First of all, don't ignore the clitoris! Even if you are focused on...

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I have been feeling very depressed for about eight years and have begun feeling suicidal. I am tired of it and want to know if it will get better with help or should I just kill myself? Eight years is a long time and I can sympathize with your pain. I myself have had suicidal thought, though I am now a very happy, upbeat person. Depression is a terrible thing to suffer. Please do not give up hope, though. There is definitely a chance it will get better. However, because it has been going on so long, you should definitely seek professional help. If you already have, try,...

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What are good ways to get in the Christmas spirit in warm weather climates? As a Floridian, I've tried to adapt traditions instead of trying to pretend that I live in the north. Afterall, different cultures have been doing that for centuries - and it's not like Jesus was born at the North Pole. Our tree has butterflies instead of fake snow, and around town I've seen some Christmas palm trees and fake flamingos with Santa hats. Now, you don't have...

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What would be a "second world country"? According the American Heritage Dictionary: "Second World also second world Noun: During the Cold War, the Communist nations of the world."

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Is it wrong to always secretly feel jealous of your husband's ex? Well, it's probably not abnormal and I wouldn't blame you. People could answer this differently according to their personal and religious beliefs, but I won't personally say it is "wrong." However, I will say that it is very likely harmful to you and to your relationship with your husband. Keeping secrets and feeling jealous are two things that can eat at you...

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Is it okay to have sex with a stepcousin? Since you're not related blood, it's not incest genetically (good, since inbreeding can result in genetic problems). And as far as I know, it's not illegal (in the U.S. at least). In fact, at least in some states you could even get married. However, having sex with anyone you're related to can still be problematic since if it doesn't work out you may very well have...

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How do you roll clothes so more fit in a drawer? First, make sure all your items are of similar widths if you are going to put them together. (Ideally, the widths should be combinable in such a way that they fit in the drawer with no extra room on the sides.) For shirts, that means folding the sleeves. For underwear, you can fold in the edges till whatever width you prefer. Next, take each item and roll them seperately - start by placing...

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How did dust bunnies get their name? I've never seen dust that looked like a bunny. They're called dust bunnies because they are fuzzy and multiply like rabbits.

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Does slavery still exist today? If it does, where is it still happening? Slavery does still exist and it is widespread around the world, even in countries where it is illegal. As recent news investigations and even Oprah have pointed out, slavery even exists in the United States.

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Is atheism a religion? As you know, atheism is not a religion, simply the disbelief in any sort of deity. Of course, anybody could say that it's officially a religion, but that wouldn't make it so. What is likely is that some group, such as your government, has decided that it is an official religious choice in order that atheists be given the same rights as religious groups have. In response to Lady...

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When walking together, is there a custom of having the woman walk on a particular side of the man? To add to what Ramakundu said, nowadays (at least in the U.S.) there is no set side for a woman or man to walk on. If a man approaches a woman with the intent to walk hand in hand with the woman, he should probably choose whatever side her purse is not on since it can get in the way. Of course, accept whatever side is given unless it is inconventient for you. If one side does present...

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If someone comes up to you and starts chatting as if they know you, but you've no idea who they are, is it rude to ask them? I wouldn't say it's rude, but it is embarrassing. If you need to ask, ask before you get far into the conversation. Say something like, "I'm sorry, I know I know you from somewhere but I'm so bad with names and faces I just can't place you."

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If I'm at a dinner party and sitting at a large table where people at one end can't hear the people at the other end, and a few people at one end say Grace, would it be rude of me to begin eating before they're finished? Yes, it would be usually be rude. Since saying grace is usually quick, so waiting isn't much of a hardship and it is the polite thing to do. If, however, the people close to you have started eating, you might go ahead and start eating.

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Is it okay that my husband and I don't wear our wedding rings? It depends why you aren't wearing your bands. If you two are doing so because you don't want to appear married, that might indicate a problem. However, you are not alone and there could be good reasons for not wearing your wedding rings. For instance, they could be uncomfortable, or you might not want to get them scratched, or you just don't like wearing rings. As far as I...

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Why do women fake orgasm? If I'm not doing it right let me know. I want you to enjoy. You become mad at me and yourself. If a man (or woman) is not doing well enough to get their partner to orgasm (or if the partner just isn't in the right condition to orgasm), the partner has two considerations: (1) they don't want to bruise their partner's ego, and (2) they might want to get it over with. As you point out, it's not a good idea to fake an orgasm. Doing so will only encourage the man or...

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I'm a guy who enjoys performing anal sex on males, as well as females. Does that mean I'm gay? Just having anal sex doesn't make you gay, but since you are sexually interested in males and females that does mean that you are bisexual. Whether that means you are "gay" or not depends on who you ask. There are differences between the words "gay", "lesbian", and "bisexual"; "gay" refers specifically to homosexual males (in its...

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I like this girl I know from school. We've talked online, but how can I get to know her in person without being so obvious? If you want someone to notice you, you might have to be a little obvious. Try to talk to her when she is not busy with other people or other things. Ask her how her day is going. It's o.k. if you look interested - you are! If she seems too uncomfortable, like she is trying to find an excuse to leave, back off. Otherwise, try to start a conversation - maybe about what classes she is...

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There is this girl I'd like to date but whenever I approach her she moves away and won't give me audience. What can I do to get her attention? She's a girl, not a horse. Why would you want to "tame" her? If you like her, don't try to control her - that will only push her away more. Instead, do nice things for her to show her that you've noticed her - like opening doors for her and asking how her day has been. If she seems interested in you, tell her that you like her and would like to go out sometime. If...

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Has anyone been so in love for so long twice? Well, you don't quantify for how long or how much in love (thought the latter is much more difficult to quantify), but I would say yes. If you are talking about being in love with the same person, definitely. There have been cases of couples getting married, then divorced, then ending up remarried later. If you are talking about being in love with different people, as definitely. I...

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How do I know if I should keep pursuing a relationship that has been on and off again for 6 years? Make a list of all the things you look for in a partner such as how she/he should fulfill your needs. Then make a list of the pros and cons of this relationship. Compare the lists. Take a long look over the past 6 years. Why have you broken up? Why have you gotten back together? Did (s)he say (s)he'd change but only did so for a short time then was back to his or her old ways? If...

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After being in an 'on again off again' relationship for 7 years, why don't I know when to quit when my boyfriend doesn't make me feel loved? Can you see yourself with other guys? Do you spend enough time around other guys between dating him? Call it a hunch, but it's probable that you don't think you could find anyone else that would love you. If you are going to quit this relation for good, you are going to need to feel more comfortable with yourself. If you feel like you need a man, you are underestimating yourself....

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How can you make a long distance relationship work? They can work, but generally not over the long term. If there is an end in sight, it is much easier to continue the relationship than when the couple considers the distance to be the norm in the relationship. The problem with long distance relationships is that the two people are very likely to grow in different directions since they have little to share. This is especially a factor in...

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My girlfriend admitted to making out with some guy. This happened three times and they had their hand in each others pants. What should I do? Since she only admitted to it after you pressured her and it doesn't sound like she's repetent, I recommend that you should break up with her. If she had come forward on her own and truly been sorry I would suggest that the two of you stick together at least through couples' counseling, then make your decision.

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How can I convince my girlfriend to shave her peach-fuzz moustache? Don't convince her to shave it, because that will actually cause it to look thicker when it grows back. She should bleach, wax, or pluck it (or get electrolysis if she has the $$$). I agree with Ericcc that there's not really a good way to say it, and Ericcc's suggestion is actually quite good. If you have to tell her (or have told her already), let her know that you love her...

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How do I keep my lips from drying out when I'm with my girlfriend so that I can kiss her (because my lips are normally fine)? Burt's Bees is great because it doesn't smell bad (in my opinion) like many other chapsticks. Tell your girlfriend, though, if you just put it on since it can cause her lips to tingle a bit. Personally, I like it, but she might not. Also, just make sure you stay hydrated by drinking plenty of water.

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The profile of a girl I met online says she's 18, and I want to meet her. But what if she's younger? If I meet her can I get arrested, even though her profile said she was 18? Meet her at a club. At least where I am from, they check IDs and you can't even get in if you are under 18. Make sure the club checks IDs and that they specifically checked hers. While IDs can be faked, it's at least one more step of security. And do make sure you get to know her a bit before sleeping with her. Maybe on the second date you can visit her at her place. If she...

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In online dating etiquette, do I have to respond to unsolicited winks or emails from guys I'm not interested in? No. What are you going to say? That your not interested? Anything else might lead him to believe you really are interested. Don't respond. He should get the message and probably will be less hurt this way since he could still make up other reasons you didn't respond (like you are just inundated with emails from guys, or that you changed your email, etc.) in order to protect his...

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Do women find married men more attractive? If you just mean desirable, for some women they are. It's probably just human nature that we want what we can't or shouldn't have. It's a challenge, it's naughty - both can be great turn-ons. Also, he's shown that he is stable and committed which is what would make him a great husband. Of course, the irony is that if a women manages to get the man to stray (of...

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I find myself falling asleep at work with no explanation in the middle of the day. I have tried more exercise, less exercise, eating healthier and a myriad of other remedies. Any suggestions to keep me wide awake during the day without caffeine? If you need to stay awake, eating will help you do that - though you might not be "wide awake." And you don't have to eat a lot. Just the act of eating will make you less sleepy. Munch on some raw veggies occasionally, chew gum, or slowly eat some skittles one by one. However, since you have tried exercise, changing your diet, and other remedies, I strongly suggest that...

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Why does your nose get stuffed up right before you wake-up in the morning? It's common for people to feel congested in the morning since when you are unconscious and laying horizontal it is harder for fluids in your nose and sinuses to exit (i.e. gravity's not pulling it down your throat as much and you aren't awake to sneeze or blow it out). However, there could be other factors at work. For instance, if you have heartburn, eating irritating...

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Where do Venus Fly Traps grow in the wild? According to the folks at Wikipedia: "The Venus flytrap is found in nitrogen-poor bogs in the southeastern United States, mainly within a 100-mile radius of Wilmington, North Carolina." For more information on this fascinating plant, check out the full entry at: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Venus_fly_trap

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My spider plant is huge and is already in a very large pot. What are some options of what I can do next? You can thin the plant by cutting it back both above and below the ground. You can also take some cuttings from it and put them in other pots, then you'll have more spider plants. You can keep them or give them away to friends and family who like hanging plants. Spider plants are well known for being easy to make cuttings from since you just cut between the smaller clumps of leaves and...

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How does one stimulate a breast/nipple? Well, it certainly depends on personal preference and I encourage you to experiment, but below is what I would suggest for a beginner. Since nipples can be very sensitive, it's good to start slow and gently. grasp your breasts with your hands outstretched, one in each hand or one at a time if you prefer, and gently caress them with your fingers. Rub underneath and move up to the...

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Why do Wiccas do spells on other people even though they themselves will get the effects back threefold? Not all spells are intended to be negative. Many Wiccans do positive spells for their friends and family, like spells for good health. They should still ask permission from the person first, though. Of course, Wiccans are humans, too, and sometimes do bad things. There is a Wiccan rule that things come back to you x3 so either they think it's still worth it or they think they will get...

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Why do people hate lawyers so much? Though I strongly believe that everyone should have access to a good defense, even I wonder how some lawyers can defend people that have obviously done very horrendous things. When lawyers help killers and child molesters off the hook by finding some technicality or legal loophole, you got to wonder if they're really thinking about how they're upholding the legal system or if...

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I've noticed that some Wicca sites share space with Satanic groups. Are the two religions related in any way? The only way they are related is that they are not Christian. Wiccans do not believe in Satan, let alone worship him. Then again, many Satanists don't either. There are many different kinds of Wiccans and Satanists, so it's hard to generalize, but generally Wiccans try to do good for others and nature while Satanists help themselves first, then maybe others. I'm actually...

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What color of blouse goes with a brown capri? You might try a white or slightly off-white blouse. Then wear a bright colored belt - or use a colorful scarf as your belt.

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Why is it that women's bra-cup sizes often seem to bear little or no relation to how big their breasts actually look? It's amazing what you can do when you know how to dress for your size. I was a G before my breast reduction and whenever I told people I was getting a reduction they looked at me funny and said I didn't look "that big." In truth, I was huge. I just knew to wear minimizing bras and baggy shirts (which made me look fat even though I was by no means). It was only when I...

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Was there an economical reason for the Holocaust? In addition to what Jeff and Auntie Em said, it didn't hurt the feelings of the Nazi government to enslave the Jews and take all their possessions (even using their hair for things like stuffing mattresses).

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Did Jason and the Argonauts sail across the Atlantic Ocean or the Black Sea to find the Golden Fleece? To be honest, we don't know for sure. We don't even know if they really existed. However, the ancient literature has been used as evidence to support both theories. The following link will take you to a page with information on the two theories, maps, and other information about the argonauts: http://www.greece.org/poseidon/work/argonautika/argo.html Hope that helps!

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Is it possible that there exists, on any continent, undiscovered ecosystems where completely new species of flora and fauna can flourish and remain undiscovered by science? Yes. There are areas that have yet to be thoroughly explored by us. New flora and fauna are still being discovered. In fact, a previously unknown cat-like carnivore was recently discovered on the island of Borneo recently.

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My girlfriend broke up with me four months ago but I still love her and that I am not over her. She also has told a friend of mine that she misses me. Should I see if it's worth trying to date again or am I just setting myself up to be hurt again? Only you can really decide, but I think it depends a lot on the type of relationship you had previously and why you broke up. Would you do it again if you had the chance? Was the good worth the bad? Give it a couple more months and then let her know you wouldn't mind seeing her for lunch sometime. Keep it casual until you've seen her a few times and know for sure.

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Some people seem to believe that if you don't have sex by the third date then you aren't in a relationship of any type and it will not work out. Where did this line of thinking come from? It came from people who don't want to wait for sex. Like you said, it is ridiculous. If anything, a relationship that can survive without sex for awhile is a sign of a good relationship. If someone absolutely can't wait till even the fourth date, they probably are more interested in sex than the actual relationship.

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My 21 year old brother is in an abusive relationship with a 31 year old woman who is being manipulative. What can I do to stop this without having my brother turn against me? Certainly let him know that you are worried about him and will help him however you can. But don't lecture him about it. Perhaps the best thing is perhaps to just be there for him. If everytime you talk to him you mention his relationship, he will likely get very defensive. Go out often and just be siblings. That way, when he's ready for more help from you, he'll let you know.

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What are some of the types of gifts to give to a best friend who is moving to a different country? The best gifts are those that will remind her of home and help her settle in. Here are some suggestions: - pictures or even a scrap book that remind her of the good times you've had together - a home video of you wishing her well - a gift basket of foods that she won't be able to get there - an international calling card (can't have enough of these!) - friendship...

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My girlfriend's friend often puts my girlfriend on a guilt trip if she says 'no' to something the friend wants; especially if I'm part of the reason she has said no. Her behavior is really bothering me so what can I do? Tell your girlfriend that it is bothering, but let her deal (or not deal) with her friend. You should not try to get between them or guilt your girlfriend since that makes it look like you and her friend are equally as bad - and if your girlfriend has to choose between you and her friend she will likely just take choose the one she has been with longest. If your girlfriend has problems being...

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Is it okay for an 18 year old male to date a 15 year old female if they had already been dating for 10 months before he turned 18? Personally, yes, I think it is fine. Even at that age three years is not so big an age difference, especially if it has been ok for the last 10 months. However, since she is underage, the guy should watch out. At least in many U.S. states, he could be charged with statuatory rape if they have sex (or unfortunately, perhaps if he is just accused). He should at the very least make sure the...

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Is it still bad form to wear white as a guest at a same-sex wedding? At the wedding, those getting married should be the center of attention, so you shouldn't wear anything too flashy, and white does stand out. While wearing some white is probably ok, you should steer clear of wearing an outfit with so much white that you look like you could be the bride. If in doubt, play it safe with other colors - especially since white tends to make things look bigger.

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When an invitation specifies "and guest" is one normally expected to bring a partner, or is it permissible to bring a friend or relative? While some people might personally expect that you bring a partner, it is by no means a requirement that you do so. "And Guest" means just that - another guest. You may certainly bring a friend or relative. Of course, you should only bring someone that you know and trust since their behavior is likely to be seen as a reflection of your own character. If you are still nervous that...

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Does anyone remember a toy that you placed on your foot? It had a ball and string attached to it? You would rotate the foot with the string attached to swing the ball and then jump the other foot over the swinging string. It's the Skipit, by Hasbro.

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Will there ever be a global accent? No. Everyone talks somewhat differently due to our unique experiences using our languages. Variation is inevitable . Those who have more in common, such as the area they grew up in, will tend to share more speech features than those who have much less in common (like if they grew up on opposite ends of the world). Even if everyone spoke more alike than they do now, there would still be...

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How can you increase your vocabulary without any tapes or medication? I find that watching commercials in a foreign language (or in your native language if that's the target language) is very helpful since they are repetitive and use visual cues. Print ads are great too since you can usually guess a lot of the meaning. Also, try to carry something you can write with throughout the day. When you come across a word that would be useful to know in your...

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Is it possible to teach yourself to type faster? Definitely! There are computer programs out there (like the Mavis Beacon one) that help people learn to type correctly and faster. But if you don't want to shell out money, the best thing is just to practice, practice, practice. If you don't already, visit chat rooms and communicate with others via instant messenger programs. They are a great way to practice without the boredom of...

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How do you make your eyelashes more noticeable, other than mascara? Use an eye-lash curler, with or without mascara. I love mine since it can be used easily with just one hand. Just squeeze for about 15 seconds (some curler instructions say only 5 seconds) and your lashes will be much more noticeable.

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I am not pregnant that I know of, but I have sore nipples. What causes sore nipples? Hormonal fluctuations such as those during your period can lead to sore nipples. If the pain is rather deep, it might be growing pains (either because you are young and still developing or because you are gaining weight there). Also, they could be dry and/or irritated. Use some moisturizer on them and make sure the lining of your bras is soft and in no way abrasive (some lace ones can be...

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Is the term "went missing" proper English? As an American, I would say that it is perfectly acceptable.

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I've been 'the other woman' with this guy for about a year, but he came to my house recently and wrecked my shower while he was drunk and on drugs. Should I tell his girlfriend? I would tell his girlfriend, but be careful not to make it sound like you are doing it out of anger. She needs to know somehow (if she doesn't already), that her boyfriend is a cheat, a drunk, and a drug addict since that not only makes him a bad boyfriend, but could also lead to health problems for her. Let her know that you are breaking it off for good with the guy, but wanted to let...

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My boyfriend of 6 years dictates what days I see him, and he does not want me going out on weekend nights with friends even though he works. If I do, he dumps me. Is this abuse? Yes, that is definitely emotional abuse. Abusive boyfriends (or girlfriends) often are controlling of their partner's other relationships to the extent that they isolate them, making it harder for you to leave them and easier to to control in other ways. Emotional abuse can often lead to physcial abuse, and neither are healthy, so I advise that you distance yourself from him. Also,...

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I want to ask this girl out. We are best friends but if she says no I am afraid that we may not be friends anymore. How can I ask her out without breaking our friendship? When you do ask, do it rather casually without pressuring her. Tell her that you consider her to be your best friend and that you really think she is special. Tell her that if she is interested, you'd like to date and see where things go, but that if she is not interested, you are still happy to be close friends. If she says no, don't make a big deal out of it and chances are...

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I'm a bisexual teen, and I've been with my boyfriend for eight months now. I think it would be fun to have a threesome with him and another girl, but he doesn't feel the same way... what would you say? If he doesn't want to, don't pressure him. He might take that as meaning that he's not good enough if you need someone else. And three ways have been known to commonly lead to more, not less relationship problems since all involved must be very trusting, confident in themselves, and not jealous. If having a threesome if something very important to you, you might consider...

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Why do some guys act differently around their friends compared to when they are with their girlfriend? Well, for one thing, they probably don't want to have sex with their friends. In all seriousness, though, the dynamics of the two kinds of relationships are very different and there are different motivations. Around his guy friends, a guy generally wants to show off how macho he is. This can lead a guy to being somewhat competitive and even combative. With a girlfriend, though, a guy...

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I want another child but the father of my first child and I are no longer together. We have discussed having another child together but he is now with someone and wants her to be involved in the decision. Is this appropriate and can it be done? If I were you, I'd definitely ask myself why him and not someone else who would be free to help you through the pregnancy and raise the child with you. Personally, I can't imagine his new girlfriend to be ok with this. If I were her, I'd think that perhaps he hadn't moved on from you and wasn't ready to devote himself to a new relationship. If you still want a...

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How should one handle hurtful office rumors? Rumors are always tough to deal with, but you should try to find the source. Have a one-on-one conversation with someone that knows about the rumors but whom you don't think is the source. Ask them where they think it is coming from and why. Once you know that, you can confront the source. Perhaps they are just a gossip that misunderstood something. In which case, maybe you can calmly...

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My girlfriend recently found I had been "cheating" on her (I went out with another girl, several times, we kissed and shared a bed but didn't have sex). What can I do to get her back and trust me again? Be an open book - she needs to be able to know where you are and with whom for a while. Answer any and all questions she might have. Tell her how she is uniquely special to you - she needs to feel like she can't just be replaced by someone prettier or younger. Be patient - it takes a lot of time to get through something like that. Don't pressure her to "just get over...

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How do you start having phone sex with your boyfriend without feeling stupid with the things you are saying to him? Well, practice definitely helps. You can even practice by yourself. Trust me, if you can say stuff to yourself outloud when you are alone without breaking out laughing you will do fine on the phone. Also, read erotic stories. There are a lot online and they might give you good ideas for things to say. And you'll get used to thinking about the words. If you find stories that...

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How can I stop worrying so much about what other people think of me? While this might not apply to you personally, pay attention to how you judge others. It's been my experience that those who are most critical of others are likely to be more critical of themselves. Sometimes we assume that others think like us and will do to us what we do to them (like when cheaters are paranoid of their spouses cheating on them). I found that when I became less...

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In what kinds of frames are black and white photos best displayed? A very thin black frame will make a classy presentation without overpowering the photo.

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Once someone posts a blog, is it automatically copyrighted or can any reader use their content? Yes, it is automatically copyrighted as soon as it is written. To present their information as your own or copy large portions of it without permission is illegal and unethical. You can, however, quote some material for some purposes such as "criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching, scholarship, and research" (title 17, section 107 of U.S. code). There is a lot of room for...

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Can anyone post information in Wikipedia? If so, how do you know if information there is accurate? Yes, anyone can post on Wikipedia (assuming they have internet access and all the sort of stuff). Particularly disruptive people are sometimes banned, but it's pretty easy to get around. And although you can register a username on Wikipedia, it is not necessary and you can post anonymously if you wish. Because of all this, it's definitely possible the information you read there is...

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I'm dating a great guy, but I saw my ex and ended up kissing him more than once. Is this cheating? I would consider it cheating. Generally, if you have to ask if it's cheating - it is. The damage of cheating comes not only from the extent of the physical act, but also (and perhaps more importantly) from the amount of deception since honesty and mutual trust are essential elements of a good relationship. If you haven't already, come clean to your boyfriend since the longer you...

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Any good home remedies for period pain? Ginger is great. You can take it in pill form, in food products like ginger candies or cookies, or raw (if you don't mind that it has quite a bit of bite). Here's one page on the benefits of ginger and some precautions: http://www.umm.edu/altmed/ConsHerbs/Gingerch.html. It does not list an exact dosage for cramps, but it does say that daily intake should generally not exceed 2-4...

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Why should I never use the word "I" in a resume? It's assumed in a resumé that you are talking about yourself unless otherwise stated so it really isn't necessary and just takes up extra space. But perhaps more importantly, if you start using "I" it will get very repetitive. Besides, you want your reader to focus on your verbs (what you did) not your pronoun. Additionally, I feel that omitting "I" makes the...

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What is the opposite of a liquid consonant? Since liquids (like the English /l/) are continuants (i.e. they can be sustained,) therefore I would consider stops and specifically plosives (i.e. non-nasal stops like /p/) to be their opposites since they can not be sustained. Plosives consist of the complete stoppage of the air flow and it's release. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Liquid_consonants ...

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Why don't Virginia and West Virginia reunify? Each state gets 2 senators in congress regardless of population. By staying seperate, the Virginias get twice the vote. Of course, even if that wasn't the case, I agree it would still be really expensive. The cost of just replacing flags nationwide would be enormous ;)

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Other than burial, cremation, or donating your body to science, are there any other ways to be laid to rest? Well, if you don't count that they cremate you first - you can become a diamond! Check out: http://www.lifegem.com/

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My father is Chilean (Mestizo) and my mother is Danish and Swedish. What is my ethnicity? Mestizo is a Spanish word for a person of mixed racial heritage, especially if that person has a mixture of European and Native American ancestors. So, yes, you would still be mestizo.

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How can one truly express themselves if s/he feels no one understands them? Practice expressing yourself through writing. You might find it easier to express yourselves to others once you can put your thoughts into words. Try to get to know and understand others. You might find more similarities than you think. You can start small by associating with people who are similar to you - join interest clubs, support groups (if there is one for your situation), join...

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Is a person who does not commit sin/wrong doing nor acts of good will considered good or bad? Martin Luther King, Jr. said the following: "We will have to repent in this generation not merely for the vitriolic words and actions of bad people but also for the appalling silence of good people." Although he calls the latter "good people", I believe he was asking us to truly reexamine our beliefs about who is good or bad. Is it enough to do nothing? If all the...

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Do women today still call themselves feminist? Definitely - and I'm proof. However, there are women who avoid the label since they might not agree with all the ideas that are commonly lumped under the term such as abortion rights, legislation for equal pay, quotas for a minimum number of women in universities and companies, etc. Also, there is a stereotype that feminists are lesbian man-haters. Certainly not the image I'd want...

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How can some people eat junk food and remain very thin without exercising? Well, I can personally say that the trick is to not eat much else - and not too eat much at all. At my thinnest, I was a candy junkie (oh, how I love Turtles). But I didn't eat much else. I'd call a candy bar "lunch" - and even at 300 calories or so, that's rather low in calories for a meal. If you eat only one or two meals a day you can get away with a lot of candy...

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How can I please my boyfriend's family and be close to them eventually? Oh, this is a toughy - especially since I don't know them or you. In general, though, treat your boyfriend well and treat them with respect. Like it or not, they are probably going to scrutinize your every move, so remember to send Thank-You notes whenever they give you a reason, be careful to avoid bringing up heated topics when it's not necessary, and be thoughtful when it comes...

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Is there any safe place to hide inside a burning house? No. Not only can you be killed by the fire itself, you may get hit by falling debris or die of smoke inhalation. If a fire breaks out, get out while you still can. If you absolutely can not get out, stay close to the floor (since smoke rises) and put something over your head until someone can get to you. Keep your doors closed unless you are going through them. That might give you a little...

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How many smoke detectors should you install in your home? The National Fire Protection Association has this to say: "Install smoke alarms on every level of your home, including the basement, making sure that there is an alarm outside every separate sleeping area. New homes are required to have a smoke alarm in every sleeping room and all smoke alarms must be interconnected." http://tinyurl.com/dmh7n (redirects to an NFPA page) So, it...

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When is the best time to call to organize a second date, and what are some good second date ideas? If it went really well, call the next night if you're a guy. It'll reassure your date that you are really into them since guys are notorious for not calling. Call 2-3 days later (or even longer) if you're a lady. Now, I don't mean to sound sexist/old-fashioned, but it has been my experience as a woman that is good to give the guy (assuming it's a guy) a chance to...

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How can a fortune teller sometimes know correctly about one's past or future? Well, assuming they aren't really psychic, Often times they start by making very vague statements that could apply to just about anyone! "You are about to make a major change in your life" could mean that you're moving, starting a new job, changing your major in college, getting married, or cutting out red meat. Plus they can use cues from not only how you react to such...

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My hair gets really greasy if I don't wash it every day. Is there anything I do about this apart from washing my hair so often? As odd as this might sound, you might actually want to try washing it less. Your scalp might be compensating for your frequent washings by upping the amount of oils it produces to ensure that it doesn't become too dry. Also, if you are using other products such as gels, hairspray, conditioners, etc., you might try stopping them for a while and see what difference that makes. ...

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Why is it that the worse my financial situation becomes, the more credit card offers I get? Credit card companies make a lot of money off of interest and late fees. The worse your financial situation becomes, the more they know you are desperate for easy credit, that you'll use it, and that you won't be paying off the total any time soon. Up to a certain point, that makes you a very desirable customer.

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Is it possible for a parent to love someone else's child as much as they love their own? Certainly! While the norm seems to be that one favors one's own children more than another's, love is a funny thing. In some cases, it's even possible (although unfortunate) that a parent love someone else's child more than their own. Of course, sometimes it does take time to feel love for someone.

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Where should you sit in a Catholic church if attending for the first time? Generally, you may sit in any pew you like. If you are nervous about sticking out, you might prefer to sit in the middle or towards the back to attract less attention.

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What is the correct usage, "I done it yesterday" or "I did it yesterday"? I did it yesterday. (Assuming we're talking about standard American or British English)

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What is the best exercise to wean someone who is used to a sedentary lifestyle? Well, it would depend on personal tastes, but I would suggest swimming or another type of in water exercise. It's not hard on your joints like jogging might be, you get vary your workout to meet your needs/abilities, and when you get hot and sweaty you'll still be comfy since you're surrounded by cool water. And of course, you might have so much fun you'll forget it's...

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I am 14, 5 "4" and I weigh 128 lbs with an athletic build. Is this a healthy weight? According to the BMI calculator on WebMD (http://www.webmd.com/content/tools/1/calc_bmi.htm?z=3628_81000_0000_07_05), your BMI is 21.97. The target BMI for your height is between 18.5 and 24.9. In short, you at a good weight and do not need to loose weight. In fact, if you are very athletically built and have a lot of muscle you might be slightly underweight. According to WebMD,...

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Can eating baby food cause an adult to gain weight? Well, if you eat too much it will. However, there is nothing particularly special about baby food. Baby food has calories just like other foods. However, so long as you keep burning more calories than you consume you won't gain weight in fat. Just keep track of the calories you eat (check the packages for calorie info) and make sure you don't overeat it or any other food high in...

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Why do Wiccans spell the word 'magic' with a 'k'? Wiccan spell it with a "k" in order to differentiate what they consider "real magic" from stage magic (such as the tricks done by David Copperfield and Houdini).

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My boyfriend keeps canceling or forgetting our dates. Is he cheating? If not, why is he doing this? I wouldn't say that he is definitely cheating, though it is certainly a possibility. It is likely that he is getting bored/unhappy with the relationship and looking for a way out. He might be too chicken to actually break up with you and waiting for you to do the breaking-up for him. However, he could be under a lot of stress right now or depressed. Both can cause memory problems...

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If no date is specified, how soon must one RSVP to an invitation? One should certainly reply as promptly as possible, but if it will be more than a few days until you can do so call the sender and ask them when they will need an answer by. In the case of events like wedding that take a lot of pre-planning and where there might be a secondary guestlist (those who didn't make the final cut), a prompt reply is very important. However, in the case of less...

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Is it permissible for a handicapped person to use a regular restroom? Of course! Handicap stalls are there as a courtesy to those who need them. They aren't meant to forcibly segregate users. If a handicapped person is able to use a regular restroom then there is no reason they should not be allowed to use them - especially since it leaves the handicap stall/restroom available to those that might need it more.

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What is the appropriate thing to do when you have a guest, your phone rings and the person on the other end wants to have a lengthy conversation? Say, "I'd love to chat with you, but I have a guest right now. Do you mind if I call you back later?"

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I had an abortion in my younger years, five months into the pregnancy. Can I call myself a mother, or am I not, seeing as how I never actually gave birth? Well, you can call yourself whatever you want but as you can probably already tell, many people are likely to be offended if you do and I would personally agree that it is socially inappropriate in your case. I do, however, disagree with the other poster slighly. According to the definitions I have seen (e.g. American Heritage Dictionary), raising a child is not necessary to be considered a...

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How can I keep from singing in the shower, which causes my family to make fun of me? Will power doesn't work. If you're singing out of boredom, try tuning the radio to a talk only station. Or, play a non-musical CD like a audiobook or foreign language learning CD. Also, try putting something in your mouth like chewing gum. Or, use the time to brush your teeth.

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My boyfriend and I broke up. Neither one of us has ever stayed friends with our exes in the past, and he says he needs to be alone to get his life in order. Can we still be friends? There is a possibility that the two of you can eventually be friends, especially if the two of you have common interests and weren't just physically attracted. However, I think your best chances of remaining friends would be for you to give him plenty of space for the time being. Let him get his life in order. When neither of you still feel romantically towards each other, then you can...

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What words of man's original language are thought to have been identified? None. Linguists now realize that language originated much longer ago than previously thought. Attempts to trace all languages back to a single language have failed or are at best, extremely flimsy and hypothetical. Even though we have a lot of information about it's descendants, there is still debate even on the forms of words from proto-indoeuropean, which is far from being the...

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What is the totem or symbol for the Greek demigod Achilles? I scoured the internet and more than a few of my books on Greek mythology and found.... nothing. Apparently, Achilles was not important enough to have a symbol/totem. At least, not that modern scholars are aware of. This is not surprising, though, since symbols were usually reserved for immortals - and even then, generally only the prominent ones such as the Olympian gods. Although...

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If Pan wasn't the trainer of Heracles, who was? Chiron was the teacher of Heracles - as well as other famous characters such as Jason, Achilles, and Asclepius. Chiron was a centuar (human from the waist up, horse from the waist down).

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In Greek Mythology, what are The 12 Olympians? Greek Name Roman Name Area Zeus Jupiter king of the gods, the sky and storms Hera Juno queen of the gods, marriage Poseidon Neptune oceans and other bodies of water Demeter Ceres agriculture Aphrodite Venus love, beauty Hephaestus Vulcan smith god Athena...

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What animal was Pan, the trainer of Heracles? None of the myths I am aware of call Pan the trainer of Heracles. However, Chiron the centaur (half man, half horse) was the teacher of not only Heracles, but also other famous characters such as Jason, Achilles, and Asclepius.

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Was Athena popular in Greek Mythology? Athena was definitely popular in Greek Mythology! She appears in many famous works of Greek drama, generally in order to make things right again. However, one must remember that Athens (her city) was the center of literature. Therefore, they might have been a little biased.

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Can I feed my baby both breast milk and formula? Yes! While many studies support feeding babies breast milk, many mothers can not supply enough breast milk (whether because of time constraints or production problems) and therefore supplement breast milk with formula as needed. Some breast milk is better than none at all.

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If a tree falls in a forest and no one is around, does it make a sound? From a scientific standpoint, it depends whether you consider sound to be the actual sound waves or only the perception of those waves by an ear. For the first, a definite yes. For the second, no (unless forest critters don't count as someone). Philosophically, there are many ways to answer. Personally, I see it as a metaphor for karma. Whatever someone or something does, it has...

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What is the Holy Grail? Traditionally, the holy grail is the cup that Jesus drank out of at the last supper. Some people believe, though, that Mary Magdalene and Jesus had a child. According to these people, the holy grail is also a code word for Mary Magdalene since she bore his child and thus carried on his blood line.

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How can l lose 5 lbs. in 5 days? You should not try to loose 5 pounds of fat in 5 days, it is simply unhealthy, and not realistic. Generally, 2 pounds a week should be your goal. As mentioned by the previous answerer, 5 pounds of fat is about 17,500 calories. That's 17,500 calories you have to cut from your diet and/or burn through exercise. Assuming you eat 2000 calories a day to maintain your weight, fasting...

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Can drinking herbal tea cause one to lose weight? Some types of herbal teas do work as diuretics or laxatives. They, literally, would cause you to loose weight. However, the only thing you'd be loosing would be water (which your body needs) and the matter passing through your intestines (which is already on its way out). You might loose a few pounds, but it would be temporary - and possibly harmful to your body, especially if you make...

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Does Autism/Asperger's afflict only children? No. While people with Autism and Asperger's are generally diagnosed as young children (when the symptoms are first noticed), they are both lifelong conditions. In response to Shultz, while I do not know of any websites with examples (at least, off the top of my head), you may in the meantime visit the following webpages from WebMD that confirm that both conditions are lifelong: ...

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I'm a pre-teen trying to drop inches from my waist. I am losing weight but not the inches. What is wrong? If you aren't exercising enough, you might be loosing muscle instead of fat. Muscle weighs more than fat of the same volume. Make sure you exercise and get enough protein. Also, your stomach might be a problem area in that you loose weight from there last - after loosing it from other body parts. In which case, stick to it. It'll just take longer. If you are severely limiting...

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What are the chances of getting pregnant from ejaculation while in a hot tub? Unless the guy ejaculated in the woman while they were in the hot tub, the chances are zero or so close to zero that you'd be more likely to be struck by lightening while sitting in the tub while learning that you just won the lottery jackpot. Sperm are very sensitive to the heat of the water as well as chemicals in the water, and therefore would not survive very long. Moreover, the...

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What are the main differences between a Protestant Christian and a Roman Catholic Christian? The main difference is that Roman Catholics consider the Pope to be the supreme leader of the Christian Church and Christ's representative on earth. Protestant's, on the other hand, do not consider the Pope to be their leader - though some may express great admiration for him nonetheless. Other differences are not universal and differ between denominations and even between people...

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What is the origin of the word "boycott"? According to the American Heritage Dictionary: "Charles C. Boycott seems to have become a household word because of his strong sense of duty to his employer. An Englishman and former British soldier, Boycott was the estate agent of the Earl of Erne in County Mayo, Ireland. The earl was one of the absentee landowners who as a group held most of the land in Ireland. Boycott was chosen in...

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Is it normal to be sore after intercourse? It's not abnormal to be sore after intercourse if the two of you were rather rough or didn't have/use enough lubricant. However, if it's a chronic problem you should see a doctor to rule out other problems. Not knowing the type of soreness or even your gender, I can't say with any certainty what type of problem it could be - and there are definitely quite a few problems...

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My kittens like to hang out in small spaces where I can't reach them. How can I stop this behavior? They're probably going into those spaces because they feel safest there. The best thing would to help them feel safe even when they aren't in there. Make sure that other animals (or children) don't have access to them when they aren't in hiding and keep loud noises to a minimum. Also, give them small, protected spaces that you can reach. It can be as simple as a box with...

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What does it mean to have a marriage annulled? It means that the marriage was never valid in the first place, thus the couple aren't married, never were, and aren't bound by their vows. Reasons for annulments vary depending on whether you are having a legal annulment or a religious one, but generally they are approved if one partner is already married, the marriage was forced, or if the partners are closely related (ex. brother...

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If Google offers many services for free, why does it charge for Google questions? All those free services that Google provides do cost Google (manpower, bandwidth, cost of servers, etc.). The reason they provide such services is that they bring in potential customers who they can then charge for other services such as Google questions, thereby recuping the cost of the free services and making a profit. Why Google questions specifically? Frankly, because they think they...

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Is anyone close to creating a "Universal Translator" as was standard on Star Trek? If so, how long until it reaches the marketplace? Scientists are no where close. We have yet to see a translation machine that can accurately translate known languages - let alone languages that have not been studied previously. Doing the latter would at the very least require a component that could read minds and yet distinguish between what the speaker is actually intending to say and what they are just randomly thinking (seeing how we...

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Can you cancel a cell phone contract for providing bad reception or poor service? It depends on the contract. Some contracts say things like "we do not guarantee uninterrupted service or coverage" and that you are prohibted from sueing the company over the contract (from my Cingular contract). In that case, the company is probably covered legally and you can not simply cancel the contract. However, if you complain regularly, show up in person to their local...

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I started talking to a girl I know and saw unexpectedly. I used breath spray before we talked but she laughed. What could this mean? If she saw you do it, she might have thought you did it in expectation of kissing her later. Or she might have just thought it weird since it is uncommon in some places to see people use breath spray in public. In which case, she also might have laughed just out of surprise or not knowing what to say.

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The guy I like says we should keep our relationship casual. He said he would come around when I wanted him to. What should I do? If you're truly interested in just a casual relationship you might take him up on his offer. Keep in mind, though, that he might be "casual" with some other people as well. If that is true, your chances of catching STDs increases with every additional partner and you need to weigh the risks and protect yourself as much as possible. If you want more than a casual...

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Is there a masculine equivalent for a woman's "makeover"? Yes, and it's also called a "makeover" (i.e. the word is neuter, not gender specific). Guys aren't likely to get actual makeup put on - except for tv purposes where most people get some makeup to look natural. However, they might get their hair cut and colored and a new wardobe, plus maybe a pedicure, manicure, and skin care.

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Why doesn't the US president write his own speeches? Speech writing is a tough job. The connotations of a single word might become provocation for an international dispute. For this reason, researching for and writing presidential speeches is a full time job - for more than one person. Seeing as the President has a lot of other responsibilities, and might not have been elected on the basis of his speech writing skills, he simply does not have...

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What is it that gives some elderly people a foul odor? It depends on the person, but I know why my grandma got smelly. The older she got, the harder it got for her to take baths and the less likely she was to take one. She kept insisting that she didn't need to bathe as often since she didn't do much physical activity. Even so, after a few days most people smell even if they don't sweat profusely. To be honest, I suspect that she...

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Why do restaurants want customers to return plastic deli tray when they can be easily replaced? Depending on the type you are referring to, it's probably still cheaper for them to wash and reuse them then to buy new ones - especially given the huge load capacities of some of the commercial washers. As an added bonus, it's also more ecologically sound to reuse or at least recycle them than it is to just dump them into the garbage.

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I had a meaningless drunken night with someone I barely knew and cheated on my boyfriend of 3 years who I love with all my heart. My boyfriend is furious with me and I completely understand. Is there anything I can do to repair at least our friendship? Yes. Show him you are serious by going with him to relationship counseling, as well as private counseling for the alcohol problem (which it obviously is if you couldn't control your actions). Aside from that, patience, understanding, patience, being non-judgemental, having open and honest talks, and more patience. Even though it might not work out, it's still worth a try if you...

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Why do women with no extenuating circumstances (mastectomy for example) get breast implants? Some women just want to look better (in their eyes or others) and/or have clothes fit better. More over, they may feel like less of a woman if they have very small breasts. Some even do get mistaken for boys. Remember, just because they don't look small to you, doesn't mean they aren't. Many small breasted women do a good job of hiding the fact by means of padding and...

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My ex is already on the rebound just because he knows I have not moved on. What should I do? First and foremost, don't pay any attention to him. If he's trying to make you jealous, the last thing you should do is play into it. Why don't you show him that you don't need him or any other man. At least, until you truly do find someone worthy of your affection. And remember, he's just showing his own insecurity.

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Why do men like to whistle while walking? Some men (and even women) feel uncomfortable if things are too quiet. Whistling is a way to break the silence. Call it a really cheap IPod replacement ;) Also, whistling is sometimes just a way to show happiness.

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Why do girls not favor men who live at home with their parents? Women generally want men who have the ability to help support them and a potential family. If the man is still living with his parents, she might view this as a sign that he can't even support himself. She might then fear that she would end up supporting him instead of the other way around.

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Why is it acceptable for a woman to "get to know" a man before sex, but unacceptable for a man to ask for sex before getting to know a woman? Whatever gender, it is generally more acceptable for both people to get to know each other before sex because the consequences of sex can last beyond that evening. Not only can feelings be hurt, but the woman might get pregant, and either partner can get STDS. The most important issue for society is probably the potential child since the most acceptable family style is still the nuclear...

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My 45 year old mom has moved in a 22 year old guy. Can this really work? Sure. Why not? It might complicate things, but then so do a lot of other things like having different religions, views on politics, kids, in-laws, differing sex drive, etc. Assuming their relationship is otherwise fine I see no reason why an age difference alone would spell doom.

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When should I tell a girl that I receive monthly public assistance money from the government, and is she likely to think less of me because of it? I think a girl would be more concerned about why you are getting public assistance than the fact that you are. There are many reasons some one might get public assistance - and certainly I would not look down on someone for receiving it for many of reasons. Not knowing why you are getting assistance or the personality of the girl (if she's a snob, understanding, suspicious, etc.), I...

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My girlfriend says I don't give her enough affection. Since then I have paid more attention to her but now she says she feels claustrophobic. What am I doing wrong? You might be overcompensating. Ask her specifically what is ok and what is not. What is ok for some, isn't for others. You just need to be aware of where her boundaries are.

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My girlfriend cheated on me. How do I know if she cheated for the sex or because she wants a different relationship? Ask her. If you want to continue this relationship, the two of you will have to learn to ask and answer a lot of tough questions. Going to counseling can help, though.

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My girlfriend has feelings for a man she works with. She says she loves me and wants to stay together, but she also confused. How can I help eliminate her doubts? First, figure out what her doubts are and decide whether or not you can change things long term to better fill her needs. If you can, do so, but prepared to wait awhile till she trusts that it isn't just a temporary act. Remember, it is natural for a person in a relationship to have feelings for another person and it doesn't necessarily mean that your relationship is doomed. It...

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My girlfriend says she needs her space and is confused. I think she is cheating on me. What can I do to make her stay? You shouldn't try to "make" her stay. This will only push her away further. Instead, give her space. If she says she is confused, she probably is. And if she is cheating, you want her to make up her mind about who she wants without feeling pressured. That way she won't blame you later.

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My girlfriend and I have lived together for many years. She is spending time alone to think because she says she is lacking a sense of individuality. Is a break-up inevitable? Not inevitable, no. A lot will depend on what she discovers about herself and her wants, but you can help by supporting her emotionally, giving her space when she needs it, and by not being judgemental. In fact, if your relationship does survive you might find that she becomes a more confident and interesting person.

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Is it possible, through cosmetic surgery, to make facial features more symmetrical? Definitely! Surgeons can both move around features and change their shape. Of course, how symmetrical they become will depend on the type of feature, how asymmetrical they are and in what ways, and how good your surgeon is. In some cases, it might be necessary to break bone, but that is certainly possible. It depends how far you want to go. It might not be worth the pain and cost.

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My boyfriend broke up with me and I found out he kissed another girl before the breakup. If he wants me back can our relationship still work? Relationships can still work after infidelity, but it is hard. It takes a lot of patience and openness from both parties - and be surprised if a lot of raw emotions surface. You must both be willing to confront that and work together on issues rather than blaming. First, though, you definitely want to ask yourself why you would want to invite this guy back into your life when there are...

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How can you smell your own breath? If you are talking about how we normally smell our breath throughout the day, it's because our nose and mouth and stomach our connected via our throats, through which air can pass along with smells. Also, much of we consider "smell" is actually taste, so if you can taste the stuff in your breath. If you want to be able to smell your breath better, there are a few ways. You...

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Why is it that if I'm on bad terms with a friend and leave them alone they seem more upset the next time we meet? They might have been waiting for you to approach them with an apology (whether or not you were in the wrong). Or, they might think you were avoiding them. Or, rumors might have been spread that you said additional bad things about them.

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Our kitten wants to play and sleep with our dog but everytime he gets close the dog moves elsewhere. How can we encourage our dog to be more playful/acceptable of the kitten? The best thing might be to do nothing. If your dog notices extra attention when the kitten is around, your dog might feel even more nervous. Assuming your dog is not openly hostile to the kitten, I'd just leave them be. No offense, but how would you feel if someone wanted you to play with a stranger who just invaded your space and is stealing the attention of your best friend? Just...

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How can I tone down my kitten's aggressiveness? First and foremost, pay attention to how you play with and punish your kitten. If you are aggressive, your kitten will likely be aggressive back - probably out of playfulness more than meanness. If you kitten bites or claws you, pick him/her up gently at the back of the neck like a mother cat would do and hold him/her there for a few seconds or more till he/she settles down. If he/she...

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Why don't chatrooms have filters for profanity/offensive language used in voice chat? Simply put, it's easier and cheaper to implement filters for the written word since there are fewer variations from person to person.

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Why were proposals for minimum wage increases denied? Raising the minimum wages means that business owners have to take a cut themselves, sell more things (which they already try to) and/or charge more for their products to retain the same level of profit. In general, people don't want to pay more for products. They might reduce consumption of some items (further hurting business) or decide to buy cheaper items from other countries when...

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I colored my hair, but I am not happy with the results. How can I get my natural color back? The quickest way is to just dye your hair with a color similar to your natural color, though it might take a while to find the exact shade. If you are unhappy with added red tones, you'll want to find a dye shade with "ash" in the name to cool those tones down. If you lightened your hair, chances are that redying your hair is the only option aside from wearing a wig or...

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How can I permanently prevent hair from growing on a specific part of my body? Traditionally, people had electrolysis which kills the root by means of an electric current. While it is still available, new laser treatments are supposedly quicker and more comfortable. For more info: http://www.dermhorizons.com/laser-hair-removal.html

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Why aren't there resorts that exist off-shore? In a way, there are - cruise ships! Much of the ocean is too deep to have an artificial island tethered to the bottom. Even where it might be possible, visitors would have to take a boat or plane to get there. Plus, they'd be more vulnerable to hurricanes and large waves which they couldn't avoid if stuck in one spot. Just having the resorts on boats solve both these problems...

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Assuming such things as spirits exist and they can come and go at will: No, probably not, seeing how she can't consent she might very well consider it rape. In fact, she might not be so happy about it and come back for vengeance. Besides, if she's dead, her nerves aren't going to transmit pleasure or pain to her brain (which is probably dust anyways). So the only thing...

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What can I do to make showers more enticing and fun? Number one, get a shower head with a flexible hose and different settings. They can be great for self massages and if you are female you might find it particularly stimulating below the waist. There are also dual shower heads and other combinations that can envelop you in water coming from different sides, which feels great. Also, you might want to consider what products you use. There...

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Why do girls get turned off when guys use pick-up lines? Not all women want to be "picked-up" all or any of the time. Particularly, many women aren't impressed by guys that come over with a line that we realize just means they want to get into our pants. Call me an old-fashioned romantic at 22, but I rather have a guy approach me who seems sincerely interested in who I am - not just how fast I can put out. Pick-up lines don't...

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Why do the interiors of castles look nothing like those in fairy tales? Fairy tales (like other stories) are either oral or written and therefore do not themselves contain pictures of castles. I will assume, therefore, that you are speaking of modern representations of castles depicted in movies or along side the stories in books. The easy answer to this is that not all artists for those things are experts in medieval architecture. Even if they are, they might...

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Why did people in the Middle Ages think that tight-pants for men were fashionable? It's hard to pinpoint why anything is "fashionable" at a given time. Someone (probably of some social status) started it somewhere and others copied him to look "cool" - the same as what happens today. The men likely wanted to show off their legs and even the size of their genitalia. Since cold weather and horseback riding make wearing shorts (not to mention speedos)...

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How were dragons of Medieval folklore thought up? Monstrous reptiles aren't unique to Medieval times. In fact, various sorts can be found in even ancient mythology. Some of these might be based accounts of real animals such as alligators and crocodiles, passed from person to person to areas where such creatures didn't exist and where the imagination could run wild on just a basic description such as "a really big lizard with...

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If unicorns never existed how did Medieval writers imagine them? There is perhaps no limit to the human imagination to come up with new ideas, but it is very likely that unicorns are based on accounts of other, very real horned animals like the rhinoceros. The medieval writers themselves would have probably never seen such animals with their own eyes, but they might have heard tales of them. And how would one describe such an animal? One horn, body like a...

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My hair turned out too strawberry blonde after highlighting it. What can I do to get the cool, rather than warm, tone in my hair that I want? Re-dye your hair with a dye that has "ash" in the name. It will get rid of some (hopefully all) of the red tones.

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Do over the counter hair removal products work? I've tried Veet and it does work - somewhat. I had the best luck on the thin hair above my knee. Below the knee it was somewhat hit and miss and so I had to go back and shave those areas.

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How long does the first shot of depo birth control last? It is given every three months. It might still work after that, but it is not recommended that you trust it for birth control past 3 months without another shot. If you are having side effects from the shot, they can possibly last for a few months more after that (a problem I had).

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Using an acne product made my face swell/inflame. How can I make the swelling/inflammation go down? First of all, don't use the product again. It's obviously doing more harm than good. Meanwhile, try ice packs (about 10 minutes on, 15 minutes off) to help reduce inflammation. Take some Ibuprofen, as well. Then at night, try a bit of hemmroid cream.

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Do animals require sleep to function optimally? Yes. And if fact, studies have shown that not getting enough sleep can actually be fatal.

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When a vegetarian decides to reintroduce meat into his diet, people often say to "start slow because you've killed off your meat-digesting enzymes." Is there any truth to this statement? Some. The problem is not that you kill enzymes, but rather the bacteria that produce them. There are bacteria in our stomaches that specialize in breaking down meat - which aids in our own digestion. If you haven't had meat in awhile, their numbers drop. Then when meat is reintroduced it's possible to get a stomach ache because the meat is not as well digested. It's not...

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If "carpe diem" is Latin for "seize the day," what would the Latin be for "enjoy the day"? Fruere die! Note that "fruor" is a deponent verb, hence what looks like the infinitive ending is actually the single imperative. Also, "fruor" takes the ablative, hence "die" instead of "diem". To address more than one person, use the plural imperative of "fruere" which is "fruimini".

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In a euphonious poem, what are "liquid consonants"? Liquids are non-fricative consonants that can be sustained. In English, /l/ and /r/ are liquids.

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If a teacher says she will go on a date with you if you asked her out does this mean she loves me? If she uses the word "date" explicitly I would take that as a clue that she is interested. However, if you two have yet to even go on a date it's probably too soon for either of you to know if it's truly love, or just infatuation. And obviously, I would highly discourage relations if one person is underage (i.e. if you're still in high school or anything less) or...

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Which Greek philosopher first posed the following Greek philosophical puzzle: If a tree falls and no one is here to hear it, does it still make a sound? "If a tree falls..." is a popular Zen Buddhist Koan and (as far as I know) was not originated by any Greek philosopher.

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My first marriage was Catholic, but was annulled by the church after divorce. Can I still take communion? Assuming you've also gone to confession, you should have no problem taking communion. If in doubt, talk to your priest, though.

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Besides exercise, does an increase in consumption of nutrients build muscle? Your body needs certain nutrients to create muscles. If you haven't been getting sufficient amounts of those nutrients, adding them to your diet will help you build muscle. However, you still need to use your muscles through exercise or other physical exertion (like lifting heavy objects on the job) to increase muscle size.

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Does consuming more nutrients increase one's height? Only if you are still young and growing - and even then, only to a certain extent. If you are eating a well balanced diet and taking a daily vitamin, additional nutrients will probably have no affect on height.

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Will eating certain foods help maximize my height? If you are still young and growing, it is important to eat a well balanced diet for optimal growth. However, no one food or even food group is enough. In general, though, your body needs food containing the nutrients it needs to make your body. I.E., to grow bones, you will need calcium, for muscles, protein, etc. (as well as other nutrients, of course). If you're older and have...

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Is it true that it takes more calories to chew celery than you receive from digesting it? Are there other foods like this? Yes and yes. Lettuce and cucumbers (as well as pickles).

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Are some fruits healthier for you than other fruits? Yes. Not all fruits have the same nutrients, or the same amount of those nutrients. Depending on your own nutritional requirements, you might even choose different fruits than someone else with different needs. In general, melons, berries, mango, papaya, guava, and avocado are some of the healthiest fruits since they contain lots of great nutrients (though some fruits are equally as good if...

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When frying a food does the oil absorbed by the food count in the number of calories the food contains? Yep! Oil has calories, too (~120 per tablespoon). And it doesn't matter if the oil is in the food or if you drink it from the bottle (something I certainly don't recommend), it will still have the same amount of calories per tablespoon. Of course, if you're talking about nutrition labels, it probably won't list the calories for the food once oil has been added. They...

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How can I resist the temptation to eat unhealthy foods? First off, you don't need to deny yourself all unhealthy foods. Doing so only makes the temptation worse. Instead, decrease the amount and frequency. Schedule your unhealthy snacks so you know when to expect them. If you know you have one coming up, it's easier to wait. And that way you don't "reward" yourself with unhealthy treats. You'll find extra...

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I hear people saying they cannot eat certain veggies or fruits because of the sugar content. If a diabetic is encouraged to eat fruits and veggies, then how come a person who is on a weight-loss diet cannot eat fruit or veggies? People trying to lose weight should definitely eat plenty of unprocessed fruits and vegetables since they contain many great nutrients and are generally lower in calories than other foods that are heavily processed - despite the amount of sugar in some fruits and veggies. In fact, some veggies (such as asparagus, celery, lettuce, etc.) are very low-cal and as such, can be great no-guilt snacks...

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Is fluorescent lighting bad for your eyes? I haven't been able to find any evidence that regular fluorescent lighting like you'd have in a home or office is damaging to the eyes (if there is, hopefully someone will enlighten us). However, if a fluorescent bulb is dying it'll flicker and that can cause eye strain and headaches. Of course, all you have to do then is replace the bulb.

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I stare at a computer monitor all day. What can I do to reduce eye strain? Check the refresh rate on your monitor. It should be 75 or higher (80+ even better). If not, it will flicker slow enough for your eyes to notice even though you might not consciously realize the problem. I know this because my husband, a computer specialist, has become the hero of many computer users for changing the setting at reducing not only eye strain, but also chronic headaches they...

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My back feels stiff and sore. How long will it take for my back to ease up after a massage? Sometimes it does. If your muscles were damaged before the massage, the massage won't instantly heal them. That takes time. If your massage therapist was especially roughand/or inexperienced or if your muscles were fairly damaged beforehand, your muscles might have been further damaged. Of course, if your muscles are sore, they are likely to tense up - which is why you feel sore. Put...

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Is antibacterial soap harmful? New research does suggest that Triclosan, an ingredient in some toothpastes and antibacterial soaps, might be harmful since it can interact with chlorine in tap water to become chloroform. How harmful is it in those amounts? The jury's still out, so to speak. However, it's worth considering. Triclosan is listed on ingredients lists of soaps and toothpaste (no list probably means...

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I seem to be in a state of perpetual nasal congestion, and have been congested for countless weeks. Could this be allergies or indication of a more serious problem? It could definitely be allergies and I highly suggest seeing an allergist to ascertain the cause and get treatment. However, it could also be caused by acid reflux disease. I know it sounds like an odd connection, but I've had the same problem and saw an allergist just this past week. After she ruled out every major allergen, she suggested that acid reflux might be the problem (even...

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For what reasons would a man wake up nauseous every morning? If you take medications at night before you go to bed, they might be causing the nausea. Try taking them earlier in the day to see if they are. Are you sleeping a good 9 hours? Even 8 hrs? If you aren't, you might be getting too little sleep. Even if you are sleeping 9 hours, are you sleeping well? Also, you might want to adjust your evening eating schedule. You might be...

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Quite often I feel tired. I get enough sleep, but don't exercise. What could be causing this? There's so many possible causes, it'd be impossible to list them all. However, here are a few: Physical * infectious disease * chronic fatigue syndrome * sleep apnea * out of shape * new medications * chronic pain (thanks Red John for pointing that one out) Mental/Emotional * stress * depression Environmental * mattress too old / broken * too much light or noise...

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I'm getting a breast reduction. I'm 5'11, neither skinny nor fat, size 38 DDDD cup. What would be the ideal cup size to go to? I'm about your height and body type and I used to be a 38DDDD as well. I'm about 6 weeks post-op and am wearing mostly B-cups. After surgery I swelled to a D for awhile (very normal) and was very content there, though I had wanted a B or C. I went down to a C, then a B. To be honest, I would have been happy with any of those sizes - though the funny thing is, my breasts look...

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Given the health risks, why do women get breast implants? Not all women get implants because they want more attention from men. In fact, many (if not most) women get them first and foremost for themselves. For women with very small chests, looking in the mirror (especially naked) can make them feel like they are less than a woman. Some women are even mistaken for men because they have such boyish figures! Plus, most nicer clothes are made for...

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How long does it approximately take to trust someone again? It takes a little time to trust a little. A lot of time to trust a lot. Trust is a matter of degree and how fast it is rebuilt depends on many facts, including: * how long was it going on? * what went on? * did the cheater come forward willingly or was he/she caught? * insecurities of the cheated on * behavior of the cheater after the fact * relationship and personal counseling *...

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Is it possible to trust someone who has cheated on you after being together for a few years? Trust in a relationship is not a simple yes/no matter, but rather should be viewed as a matter of degree. Trust CAN be rebuilt over time, given that the offending partner has spent the time wisely solidifying the relationship and not encouraging suspicion. And one may even trust their partner alone with others of the opposite sex after time. Though, if one doesn't, I'd still...

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Do both the bride and groom have to be Christian to have a Christian wedding? It depends on the denomination, and sometimes even on the officiant. However, there are some denominations where it is not required. Some denominations (such as Roman Catholicism) stipulate that any children the couple has must be raised as Christian (or in the case of RC, the children must be raised Roman Catholic).

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What is Ashanti's nationality? Ashanti is a U.S. citizen. She was born in Glen Cove, New York.

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What is Beyonce's nationality? Beyonce is a U.S. citizen, originally from Houston, Texas. -------------------------- This answered the question that was asked. Nationality is "the status of belonging to a particular nation by origin, birth, or naturalization." (American Heritage Dictionary). She is a citizen of the U.S., that is her nationality. If you want to know her ethnicity, then that is another...

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I ejaculated on my girlfriend and some landed on the top part of her leg and bum. Could there be a possiblity of her getting pregnant? Not unless it made it to the vagina (and from there up, in, and to an egg). So, very unlikely unless she took advantage of the situation and helped it up there with her finger. Even then, really unlikely.

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Our condom broke, but he didn't ejaculate inside me. I've been on the pill for 3 weeks. Should I be concerned about pregnancy? Assuming you are taking the pill correctly for three weeks, there is little chance that you are pregnant - even if sperm were released into you via pre-cum. The pill should be effective after a week of use even if you didn't start on the first day of your cycle. However, pregnancy tests aren't too expensive so you might want to check anyways.

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I had unprotected sex and used Plan B, the emergency contraception, and still got pregnant. What are the odds of this happening? Plan B is 89% effective if it is taken correctly within 72 hours of a single act of unprotected sex.

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Do ferrets give off bad odors? Yes! I had two and I must say that regular washing couldn't even keep them from smelling musky - and they had had their smell glands removed (the main ones). Now, some people might like the smell, but I wouldn't call it pleasant by any means. Some people might be able to manage the smell, but I definitely see smell as a substantial negative against getting a ferret.

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What makes girls hate talking about Star Wars? Not all girls hate talking about Star Wars. In fact, there are many female fans of Star Wars. However, it's natural for anyone to get tired of hearing someone go on and on and on about a topic like some fans do. And if a girl (or guy) truly has no interest in a topic such as Star Wars, the person they are with is probably being rude by pushing the subject further. They'd probably...

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What's a low-impact thigh workout that doesn't require any special equipment? You might consider yoga. There are many poses that work the thighs. You can find a lot of information on yoga and specifically poses on sites like http://www.yogajournal.com. In particular, you should look for poses that incorporate some sort of bent leg standing position such as the Eagle Pose, Chair Pose, and Warrior Pose II. These poses, when held for some time and then alternated, will...

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I am 13 and want to become an actress. How can I start if my parents won't support me? If you can, join at acting group at school (or get one started if there isn't one) or join community acting groups. If you parents are totally against you joining such a group, practice alone in front of friends, a mirror, or, better yet, a video camera if you have access. Online you can find a lot of sites with monologues perfect for practicing and later, auditioning. Take time to...

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If I begin taking birth control pills for the very first time in the middle of my menstrual cycle, not right after my period, will they still be effective? It might differ with other pills, but the official sites for Yasmin, Mircette, and Ortho Tri-Cyclen Lo all advise waiting at least a week if you don't start on the first day of your cycle.

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How did the Pacific Ocean get its name? During his attempt to circle the globe, Ferdinand Magellan entered the Pacific Ocean. The area of it which he first saw was very peaceful and he described it as "a beautiful, pacific ocean" ("pacific" being synonymous with "peaceful"). For more info, see: http://www.ocean.udel.edu/extreme2002/Mission/divelocation/pacific.html ...

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What is the percentage of women who masturbate? About 65% of American women masturbate (compared to 90% of American men). Source of Statistic: http://www.intelihealth.com/IH/ihtIH/WSIHW000/9105/28955/266765.html?d=dmtContent

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Is it normal for a 60 year old man to still be masturbating? Definitely! In fact, it's very good that you still have an active libido at your age - and a healthy sign.

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Does masturbation cause acne? No. Acne is caused by a combination of dead skin cells and a skin oil called sebum clogging up pores in the skin (causing whiteheads). They can then combine with bacteria (causing pimples) and/or dirt (causing blackheads). Obviously, good hygeine is still important no matter where your hands are touching in your spare time. For more info on causes and treatment: ...

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Why does my dog always choose to pass between a piece of furniture and the wall, instead of going around the furniture? It sounds like he's nervous about something coming for him. By keeping one side to the wall he has less space that he has to scan for potential danger. It probably also helps him stay out of the way of moving feet.

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My dog has a swollen lump on the bottom of her chin the size of 1/2 a baseball. What could be the cause of this lump? It could be a tumor (maybe cancerous, maybe not), or swelling due to an injury such as a bite from a poisonous animal. Whatever the case, I would promptly take your dog to a vet since some causes could turn fatal without medical attention.

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Is there an minimum age for teens who want to model? No, since clothes companies sell and market clothes to all ages. However, you'll need your parent's permission if you are under 18.

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Our dog recently got infected with a lot fleas. After a bath, special flea drops, and vinegar there are fewer of them now, but I can't seem to get rid of them. What can I do to rid them for good? It sounds like your house and/or yard is infected and your dog is getting reinfected. If I were you, I'd try a combination of flea bombs inside, flea killing powder outside (you can get some at a farm & feed store), and at least several months of flea drops on your dogs neck (e.g. Revolution). Also, vacuum frequently with a vacuum that has a good filter - it helps.

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I picked at a zit on my face, and now I have a huge scar that nothing seems to get rid of. My dermatologist sold me some bleaching agent, but that does not work either. What else can I try? I doubt you'll be able to get rid of it totally on your own, however try shea butter or cocoa butter on the scar. Both help minimize the appearance of scars, though they work best on newer scars. You might also try Mederma. It works about as well, sometimes a little better, but it costs much more.

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What are some home remedies for scars due to flea bites? Shea butter and cocoa butter both help reduce the appearance of scars, especially when the scars are new. Apply several times a day after the would is closed, or follow the directions on the bottle if you pick up one from your local pharmacy for the purpose.

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I'm 14--is it true that my breasts and behind will shrink if I stay on a diet? Maybe. Your breasts are made up of fat and mammary tissue. If you loose enough weight through dieting and exercise, some of the fat you loose will likely be from your breasts. However, you will not loose mammary tissue. So, if your breasts contain a lot of fat, they might shrink. If they contain a lot of mammary tissue but little fat, dieting will have little effect. If you are skinny but...

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I cheated on my bf of two years. I still love him, I told him what I did. There was never anything "wrong" with our relationship but I was never very satisfied. Should I stay with him? First and foremost, you need to find out why you never felt satisfied. Maybe there was something wrong with the relationship for you. Or, maybe there are other issues that you need to deal with personally. You can try to figure it all out for yourself on your own, but I suggest seeing a counselor. It might help speed up the process so you don't leave him (and yourself) in relationship...

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I am dating a guy that I like a lot, but I am always nervous around him. What can I do to overcome this? Try to go on dates in places where you feel most comfortable, doing things you feel most comfortable doing. I feel nervous sometimes when I dine out at a really nice restuarant (a common date location). A few of my favorite dates turned out to be walking in the woods or riding horses together. After you're comfortable with him, then the two of you can go to places where you'd more...

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I've been on 4 nice dates with this guy, but we don't talk very much lately. We haven't kissed or held hands. How can I tell how he feels about me? If you really want to know, just ask him in a very matter-of-fact kind of way. Ex. "We've been on 4 dates now but we haven't even kissed. I'm a bit confused about whether or not you're interested me in that way." Personally, it sounds like this relationship is lukewarm at best and probably over before it's begun. On the other hand, he might just be...

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How can a girl know I'm looking at her from 30 feet away when her back is facing me? Assuming she's not looking a mirror or psychic, I'd guess that she's with a few friends who are scoping out the guys scoping out her. It's a common maneuver we women use, and it's amazing how many guys don't notice two girls looking at them when they themselves are staring at another girl.

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I've met a girl twice now and have spent the night both times without anything happening. The next time I see her should I just go home, as to not seem needy? I'd say yes. You don't want to make spending the night a habit this early in the relationship or you'll be moved in before you hardly know each other. But why don't you ask her how she feels? She might be happy to have some more alone time, or she might really like the feeling of security you provide by being there.

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I've been dating this man, who is currently separated, for about a year. He told me that he is not willing to get married ever again. Will he ever change his mind about getting married? He might, but I definitely wouldn't count on it. If you know you want to be married some day, I'd look for another guy who meets your needs 'as is'. Above all, do not pressure your boyfriend into marriage at all. If he eventually caves and things don't go perfectly, he might very well resent and blame you for getting him into that mess. Answers101: I base this...

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My girlfriend gave me a ring out of the blue. We have no plans to get married and will be in college soon. What do I do? Must I give her a ring too? Unless she specified that if was an engagement ring or promise ring, just accept it as you would a normal gift. Also, don't wear it on the ring finger of your left hand (where those other rings go) so you don't send the wrong message. No, you don't have to give her a ring, but since she gave you a gift you might want to give her one. If she just gave you the ring, wait...

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How can some people fall in and out of love with different people so quickly? Some people just love the feeling of a fresh relationship when everything is still romantic, exciting, and easy. It's a great feeling and should be enjoyed, but some people think that things are doomed if they don't stay feeling that way (very untrue) or they just get bored with the ups and downs of a steady relationship.

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My ex and I broke up about 2 years ago but have been really close since. I really want him back but how do I go about getting him back? If you are sure you want to go back, invite him out to lunch somewhere quiet where the two of you can talk. Tell him that you really miss him and miss being a couple. Ask him if he has the same feelings and progress from there. Be honest, up-front, patient, dignified, and understanding. It might not work out, but at least you'll know sooner than if you drag it out through more round...

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I always fall into the dating pattern of ditching the "nice guy" and going for the "bad guy" even though i know it wont become a serious relationship. What can I do to change this? I agree with jenniferprofitt's answer. To add that, I would highly recommend counseling. You might be afraid of commitment, feel like things are moving too fast, looking for more excitement, don't feel like you deserve someone so nice, etc. Having someone objective to talk to and bounce things off can definitely help you sort through your feelings. Plus, they can recommend...

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A friend of mine often lies needlessly, but I've never told him that I know he's lying. Should I tell him he doesn't need to lie, or should I just let him do it? Lying is a very bad habit and you should not be enabling it. Let your friend know not only that you know, but also that it's not o.k. with you. Be gentle, but firm, and let him know that you want to help if possible.

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Should an abusive and estranged son be told about a parent's terminal illness? I believe he should, but by someone other than the terminally ill parent. That way the parent can be shielded by anything bad that son might do or say.

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Can one be born without a g-spot? If people can be born without limbs, I don't see why they couldn't be born without a G-spot which is just a mass of spongy tissue. However, I doubt you were born without it. Either it's there and you haven't found it, or you've hit it and it just doesn't work for you. They don't call it elusive for nothing. There are plenty of women who can't find it,...

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I have a seven inch penis. Is this an average size? am i slightly bigger than most men, or just average? If i talk about my penish size to other women, is it conceited of me to brag or should i not mention it at all? According to various studies quoted on the following site - http://www.penissizedebate.com/page33_average-penis-size.htm - the average seems to between 5.9 and 6.4 inches. So yes, you are bigger than average, though by no means huge (sorry to disappoint). If I were you, I wouldn't mention to a woman unless asked. Most likely, it would sound conceited and maybe even a bit obsessive....

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My husband was severly abused as a child, and he is extremely narcissistic as a result. I know he has a good heart, it's just been severely damaged. Is it possible for him to ever really love? Yes, it may be possible for him to love. However, it sounds like he needs much more help that you alone can give him. If he's willing, he might benefit greatly from counseling. If he's not willing, I suggest that you go so that you can learn techniques to deal with his behavior, stop enabling him (if you are), and counteract any negative effects his behavior is having on your psyche.

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My boyfriend acted as if he cared and now he's not ready for a long distance relationship [that could change.] Is there any way out of this relationship? Yes. Let him know what your needs are, that he's not meeting them, you're sorry it didn't work out, but since you have to look out for yourself, it's "So long! Bye bye! Don't wait up!" It's possible that after that he may change his tune, but I'd be careful about believe that he had a sudden change of heart. It sounds like he's already told...

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Is it possible to "build" your neck to make it thicker? Yes. Your neck has muscles, too. Just like muscles elsewhere, they can get bigger through working them more. But you have to be very careful since you don't want to snap your neck or injure your windpipe.

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How can I tell if someone is lesbian? Ask them (if you dare) or catch them with another woman. If you are a woman, you might try giving them a romantic look and see if they respond positively. Of course, they might not be interested you, not get the hint, not know what to think, etc. so it's not a sure thing. The surest way, though, is to ask because stereotypes aren't trustworthy.

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How is it that people from English-speaking countries have different accents? No two people speak the exact same way - no matter what their language. However, groups of people who come in frequent contact with each other tend to speak more similarily than those who don't due to geographical and/or social factors. In the case of English, the language was spread by imperialism to areas where diverse languages were already spoken. In those areas where English...

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Should I continue to let my three year old watch scary movies, even though she thinks they are not scary? Most scary movies are very violent and therefore shouldn't be shown to young children. Remember, young children are very impressionable. Assuming the movies don't show anything else that are inappopriate for her age (which I bet they do), I wouldn't just take her word for it that they aren't scary - especially since she's only 3 and probably not even the best judge of...

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Why is it that women typically carry their baby low on their abdomen when it's a boy, and much higher when it's a girl? The truth is that where a woman carries their baby does NOT indicate gender. It's just a myth. Don't believe me? Check out Yahoo! Health's page on pregnancy myths: http://health.yahoo.com/news/44444

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Will just doing crunches be enough to get a flatter stomach? Most likely not. Crunches add stomach muscle, but to get a flatter stomach you need to burn off the fat or else your stomach will actually look bigger. Crunches do burn some fat, but they are not one of the more effective exercises for doing so. You should look to try total body aerobic exercises. While it might seem that targeting your stomach would be more efficient, it is not since you...

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What kind of internal organ damage could be caused by someone fasting for 30 days, drinking only water? Regardless of fitness or fat, it would be extremely unlikely that they would survive. Their organs would shut down. I know of no instance where someone had lived more than 30 days on ONLY water. Though if anyone knows (perhaps Membio) they should share. For more info, check out http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fasting#Physical_effects_of_fasting

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I still cry when I think of my ex-boyfriend, even though I have a boyfriend. I love my boyfriend now but I'm confused--do I subconsciously still have feelings for my ex? Maybe. But maybe you aren't mourning the loss of him so much as the loss of the dreams you had about the two of you being together in that romantic forever and always kind of way. Or maybe he had done or said bad things to you in which case thinking of him brings back bad memories. Don't be scared to give yourself time to sort through the memories and feel what you need to feel.

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Is it right to go out with my ex-boyfriend's closest cousin even if my ex-boyfriend is okay with it? Assuming that the cousin is an otherwise good choice, and your ex-boyfriend is truly ok with it, the only potential problems I can foresee are: 1. your ex's family not accepting you because you may have hurt him during the break up and they don't want to see the same happen again 2. you might see a lot of your ex at family functions 3. the cousin might wonder if you still...

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Why do some Mormon parents not like their children dating non-Mormons? For the same reasons that many parents dislike their children dating people of other religions. They might fear that: 1. their child will be converted to the other religion by their boyfriend/girlfriend 2. their child will face relationship problems due to religious disagreements, especially if it gets serious 3. any children that result from the relationship might not be raised as...

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What does 'skeet' mean? Skeet has several meanings. For instance, it can mean a clay target used for shooting. Or, it can mean a guy's ejaculate - or even the process of a guy withdrawing and ejaculating on a woman. Or, it can refer to "something really small, unfair, cheap, or unappreciated". Based on info found at: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Skeet

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Why are rib tanks often called 'wife-beaters'? Wifebeaters are often worn by men known derogatively as "white trash", e.g. poor white people living in run down mobile homes. It is a common belief that such men are more likely to beat their wives, hence the name of the shirts which are named after them. For more info, check out the wikipedia page: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wifebeater_%28slang%29

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My family doesn't want me together with my ex-boyfriend but I still love him, so how do I get their approval? You obviously can't force them to approve and there's probably nothing you can say at this point to change things, but if you do get back together with him you will hopefully be able to show them over time that their fears are unfounded. Be patient with your family and they might come around. You didn't say why your family dislikes your ex-boyfriend, but I'll take a...

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What can explain why I don't have any sex drive? Are you overtired? Stressed? Surrounded by clutter and things to get done? Not getting pleased when you do have sex? Not being visually stimulated enough? Taking any medicines? Any of these things (and more) might be the root of the problem. The first thing you should do is find some time for yourself. Get enough sleep, relax, surround yourself with beautiful things (not to mention...

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Is there any insect that has chlorophyll in its body cell? Chlorophyll is a green pigment found in plants, algae, and cyanobacteria which they use in photosynthesis to process the sun's energy into food for themselves. Insects do not get their food through photosynthesis so they don't produce chlorophyll. The only ways an insect would contain chlorophyll would be if it just ate a plant or other photosynthesizing organism.

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Do women have feelings? Definitely! We share the same emotions that men do. Believe it or not, we often care about the feelings of others, too. Sometimes it is hard to show them, though. And sometimes, we screw up and hurt the people we love for no apparent reason. Maybe that is because our feelings seem illogical or just down-right confusing at times. From what I can tell, it's the same way for guys, too....

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What is morphine in hospitals used for? Morphine is a narcotic used tp relieve moderate to severe pain. For more info: http://health.yahoo.com/drug/d00308a1 (Yahoo! Health Drug Guide for Morphine)

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Do hair and nails still grow after you die? No. However, the skin around them does recede a bit, which makes them look longer. For more info: http://www.wonderquest.com/petal-nails-light.htm

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Does proximity to the equator (northern vs southern hemisphere) effect the swirl direction of toilet flushes? Nope! That's a myth. The direction water drains is actually determined by traits of the toilet itself (e.g. shape of the bowl). While the coriolis effect is real and does effect the movement of large air masses, the effect on toilet water is too small to overcome other variables. If you don't believe me, check out this link: http://www.snopes.com/science/coriolis.htm

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What are the pros and cons of being an only child? I was practically raised as an only child, though I actually have 7 half siblings. They were all much older than me and out of the house, though, so I rarely saw them growing up. Only children can benefit from having more resources and personal attention available to them. In a poorer family, that might mean being able to go to a better school or going to summer camp, or even just knowing...

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What exactly does a conductor do in an orchestra? In addition to setting the speed of the music, the conductor provides other input to the performers. The conductor also can adjust the volume of the entire orchestra, a section, or even an individual. A skilled conductor in front of an attentive orchestra can even clue in individuals when they are playing out of tune. Overall, the conductor's job is to make sure that the orchestra plays...

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Does Hooters only hire women with large breasts? I went to a local Hooters and the hostess was so flat I took a double take. It was very noticeable due to the kind of top they wear. Nothing wrong with being flat, but it definitely wasn't what I had expected.

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Why do painters usually dress all in white? I prefer white when I paint because I can bleach my clothes if necessary. It also allows you to see where the paint has gone so you don't transfer it elsewhere by accident.

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How can running in extreme heat and humidity affect me? Running when it's hot can be dangerous because you will loose more sweat, putting you at risk for dehydration. If the humidity is high, it can be even worse for you since, although you sweat, the sweat does not evaporate as well and as a result does not cool you off as well. In extreme heat, with or without humidity, you need to take care not to overdo it and get heatstroke. In serious...

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Besides cosmetic surgery, how can I get rid of chin fat? Are there any exercises? If you're older or have lost a lot of weight, it's very probably that your problem is not so much fat as it is loose skin. In that case, you're probably a good candidate for "thermage". It's a new technique that uses radio waves (no surgery!). Results don't happen over night, but they are quite impressive about 6 months after treatment. Normally I'm...

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I have damp walls in my bathroom and I sneeze a lot when I go in there, is this anything to worry about? You probably do have mold, but that's no reason to freak out and burn your house down like another answer suggested. Contact an experienced restoration contractor so that they can have it removed. In the meantime, limit your exposure as best as you can. You make consider using a small face mask when using the bathroom.

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What kind of exercises help get rid of cellulite around your thigh and buttock area? Any exercise that burns a lot of calories will help you loose fat (which is what makes up cellulite). Aerobic exercises are a good bet. You can't spot reduce fat, but if you reduce your overall fat enough chances are you'll loose some of the cellulite from your thighs and buttocks. Unfortunanately, for some people those areas are problem spots, meaning that they will retain...

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I've been seeing this guy for three months. He tells me how happy he is with me but every time I open up to him more, he seems to freak out. Am I scaring him off? Probably. But if you can't open up to him after three months, maybe you should be the one scared off. I wish I knew more about what type of things you are telling him when you "open up" and how he is "freaking out". If he just freaks out over certain topics than maybe he has some past issues he needs to deal with before you two go forward with your relationship....

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What types of meat are considered 'red meat,' and why? Red meat includes those meats that are dark in color before cooking. E.g. beef, lamb, venison, bison. These meats contain more myoglobin than white meats like poultry and fish. Pork is also considered red meat by the USDA because it is red before cooking (also due to high amounts myoglobin). However, it has been advertised as "the other white meat" in an attempt to make it seem...

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My boyfriend and I are talking about marriage. If he proposes to me, I'm not sure what to say. I love him, but I want to wait until I am out of college to marry. How should I tell him this without ruining the moment? You say you're already talking about marriage, but it sounds like he's doing more of the talking. Why not tell him clearly how you feel BEFORE he asks? That way he won't feel rejected - and won't have to return the ring.

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After I run, I normally lay down and watch TV. Should I be doing something else after I exercise? After running, it's good to do a little light excercise like walking to cool down. Follow it up with some light stretching. Finally, before you sit down in front of the t.v., make sure to pour yourself a glass of water to replace all that you sweated out.

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I am medically obese my goal is to lose weight, but I am worried about loose skin. Is there any thing I can do to tighten the skin as I exercise or a cream I can use to strengthen the skin? You might consider a procedure called "thermage". It's an alternative to surgery that uses radio waves. There is some discomfort but supposedly no pain, and you don't have to do anything special before or after the procedure like you would for a surgery. You can go back to work the same day.

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How can I create self-motivation to help me actually participate in regular exercise? These are all good answers, but I have a few to add. First off, keep a chart of how much you exercise and put it somewhere you look often. A calendar works great as a visible reminder. Also, keep a chart of how much you've progressed. A lot of people would just put down their weight, but that's not always the best measurement since muscle gained looks better and is healthier...

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When your body burns carbohydrates, where do they come from? Are they stored like fat? Carbohydrates are sugars, starches, and other similar compounds. Carbohydrates come from the foods we eat, especially plants. The carbs that you don't burn are actually stored AS FAT. That's why you'll get fat if you eat lots of sugary foods.

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How can I strengthen my ankles? Yoga is filled with postures that will strengthen the muscles around your ankles. To start with, focus on standing balancing poses, such as standing on one foot.

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What can you do in order to make your butt or glutes bigger? Of course, just do more exercises that involve those muscles such as squats, walking up stairs, etc. Genetics might limit the size you get to and affect the shape, but there's no reason to settle with a flat butt before you've tried.

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I have a fat face and a skinny body. Is there anything I can do to get rid of the fat on my face? First off, is it really fat? If you are really skinny than it probably isn't fat that's your problem. Have you ever had a thin face? If not, your bone structure might be why your face looks big. If so, there's unfortunately not much you can do except with surgery. If you have lost a lot of weight, it might just be excess skin. In which case, you could have a surgical...

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My fiance and I broke up, and now he wants a casual relationship, but I want more. What should I do? You can't change what he wants. Unless you're willing to settle (and by the sounds of it, be unhappy), you should do your best to move on with your life. Don't rush into any new romantic relationships, but do make time to spend time with friends (and even make new ones). Also, consider some counseling. Don't worry, it doesn't mean you have mental problems. But a...

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My boyfriend cheated on me, but I forgave him. Then I got drunk and cheated on him, and I regret it. Should I tell him? Something tells me that you probably hadn't completely forgiven him when you cheated on him. Forgiveness takes time. I don't know you personally, but do you think you might have still been angry at him when you cheated on him? Anger is a normal reaction, but if you try to ignore it, it has a way of coming out in impuslive ways. I'm telling you this because, yes, I do feel...

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Why do so many men complain that they don't understand women? Aren't men just as confusing? There are several factors at work, but one is linguistic: Men and women speak differently and use language in different ways. Though it is more distinct in some languages like Japanese, it is still very well documented for English-speakers. For example, women and men choose to talk about different topics when they are socializing. Women also use speech to socialize more than men do....

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Is there such a thing as "love at first sight"? I think it's definitely possible to lust at first sight. I think love usually takes a little longer, though. The way I think of it, lust is desire for the body. If you've only seen them, that's the extent of it. Love is (among other things) appreciating their personality, something that is hard, maybe impossible, to judge just from their outward appearance. The good news is,...

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My fiance has only had sex with me, but I've been with others before we got together. Now he wants to go out and experience more. What should I do? That's an awful situation. I know, I've been in a similar one. If it weren't for the kids, I'd say just let him go and don't look back. Since there are kids involved, you guys need to get some relationship counseling as wells as maybe some personal counseling to him. With the help of some good therapists, you guys can hopefully figure out if this is something he...

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Are people born gay? Here's a metaphor if it helps (below is a more straightforward answer): I hate fish. I never liked the taste of fish too much. I might, theoretically, have something in my genes that makes me pick up certain tastes others do not or that even just makes them stronger. I did try eating fish when I was younger. I could tolerate tuna fish salad if it had enough mayo. Overtime, though, I...

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I cheated on my boyfriend with someone he knows. Should I tell him I cheated, tell him with who, or not tell him at all? If you want to continue the relationship with your boyfriend, you do need to tell him what you did and who you did it with. Be prepared for him to be very hurt, even angry. If you love him, you should allow him as much time as he needs to heal emotionally - and even to leave you if he doesn't feel he can or that it is just not worth it. Relationships can survive infidelity. I know from...

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My son is 4 years old and still sleeps with me at night. He sleeps through the night, but he still refuses to sleep by himself. How can I get him to sleep on his own? I agree with the idea of creating a transition period. In addition, try developing bedtime rituals that include time that you spend together in his room - such as reading a book to him while he lays in bed. This will make him feel more comfortable and is a great way to say you care. Also, try to figure out why he doesn't want to sleep by himself. Is he afraid of the dark? Get him...

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I moved my kitten's litter box and now she uses the litter box and sometimes she doesn't. What can I do? If you can, confine her to a small area where there's just room for her litter box and maybe a couple square feet or so to sleep and move around. You might use a cage for this, or a bathtub. If she's like most cats, she'll choose the litter box over her bed area every time. Once she's using the box regularly, give her more space. If she goes back to not using the box,...

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I'm 16 and my girlfriend is 21, can she be charged with rape if we have sex? If the age of consent in your state is 16 or less, probably not, but you are a minor so other laws could be used to prosecute her in other ways. If the age of consent in your state is 17 or more, definitely. Don't risk it since she could not only be sued and go to jail, she could also be labeled a sex offender for the rest of her life.

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I'm 18, she's 16, and she wants to have sex. If she initiates things, is it illegal? Many states do set the age of consent at 16. That means that you two can legally have sex (barring any other laws) if you live in one of those states. If the age of consent is higher than that (or if she was younger than 16), then it does not matter who initiates. The laws basically say that below a certain age she does not have the legal capacity to consent whatever she might actually want,...

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I'm 20, she's 15. I have no sexual feelings for her, I just like her a lot. Is dating her okay? You are probably looking for an answer on the legality, but you didn't specify - so I guess it's ok for me to tell you to reconsider dating on other grounds. You say you have no sexual feelings for her. Why do you want to date her then, rather than just be friends? Does she know that you have no sexual feelings for her? If not, you should not lead her to believe so. Of course,...

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I’m 17, he's 22, and we’ve been dating in secret since my parents don't approve. We love each other, but will my parents ever accept us? It depends on why your parents don't approve and what type of parents you have. If it is because of the age difference, I can understand why they might be concerned. Since he's older and probably has established a life for himself, they might worry that he could exert more power over you. Often parents worry that older, more experienced boyfriends will pressure their younger...

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I planted centipede grass seeds and the grass grew quickly, but after 10 days it turned brownish-red. What should I do to get it green again? If it's totally dead or close to it, you probably won't be able to revive it. I'd recommend reseeding. Did you water the grass often? The bag of grass seed I have said to water ~45 minutes per day in the beginning. You might not have watered enough. Is it excessively hot where you live right now? Your grass might have suffered damage from excessive heat and sun. In which...

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Why is Central America also called Latin America? Latin American refers not only to Central America, but also South America, the Carribean, and Mexico (which Glenn correctly pointed out is part of North America). Central America and those other areas are referred to as Latin America because the primary languages of those areas are Spanish and Portugues (in Brasil) - both of which are languages descended from Latin. The distinction is...

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What are semi-identical twins? I've never heard the term "semi-identical" used to describe twins. Hopefully someone will (politely) correct me if I'm wrong, but I don't believe there is a type of twins called "semi-identical." Afterall, things are either identical or not. If things are similar but not the same, then they aren't identical. (ignoring the fact that identical twins do...

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Is it appropriate to breastfeed in public? Are there some places where it is more/less acceptable than others? That's a very controversial topic. On the one hand, there are people who will say that it's natural and we should support women wherever they choose to breastfeed. On the other hand, there are people who are uncomfortable seeing breasts in public or having their children see breasts. They might say that, yeah it's natural, but so is urinating and there are designated places...

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What is the difference between a tenor sax and an alto sax? In addition to being deeper sounding and larger in size, the tenor sax has a neck piece that is shaped differently than that of an alto sax - which is important since it's the easiest way to figure out what kind of sax you're looking at. The neck of an alto sax comes up slightly then up at an angle. The neck of the tenor sax comes up, makes a slight bend down, then out perpendicular...

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What is the difference between a tenor sax and an alto sax? In addition to being deeper sounding and larger in size, the tenor sax has a neck piece that is shaped differently than that of an alto sax - which is important since it's the easiest way to figure out what kind of sax you're looking at. The neck of an alto sax comes up slightly then up at an angle. The neck of the tenor sax comes up, makes a slight bend down, then out perpendicular...

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How come Greek and Roman mythology are so much alike? In addition to what others here have said, there were Greek settlements in southern Italy.

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What is the Middle Way? I will expand on what "Socrates of Athens" said: Buddha was brought up as a prince surrounded by wealth, but he felt something was missing in his life. So, he left and led the life of an ascetic. Even though he denied himself material comforts and fasted until nearly at the point of starvation, he still hadn't found the answer to his questions. He found that neither excess...

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Can young children be taught advanced math? If so, how? Well, it would depend on how young the children and how advanced the math is. Unless your child is absolutely brilliant, they probably aren't ready for Trig or Calculus before high school. In the meantime, teach them the basics and when they have those under their belt move on to higher level math. In general, try to provide real life opportunities for your child to use math....

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How can I petition to get a teacher fired? First off, document everything that is going on - or not going on as the case might be. Organize and type the information up, then make an appointment with your school board (or at least one member). Take other students with you as well as parents (I'm assuming you're in secondary school). The school board members are more likely to listen because generally they are elected....

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How can you increase your lung capacity? Here's a trick I was taught when I was taking college band classes. Take a piece of pipe with a diameter small enough to put into your mouth without hurting your jaw, but large enough that it keeps your mouth fairly open (like a comfortable yawn). Cut the pipe to about 2 inches in length. Now carry it with you and breath through it throughout the day. You can even punch a hole in it...

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Is one's nationality determined by their country of birth or their parents'? Some people are confused by the difference between nationality and ethnicity. Others (confused or not) are just proud of their heritage.

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Once you've been sick with stomach flu, is it possible for it to cycle through your family and get you sick again? It would depend on the size of your family. While you would be immune to the original strain, if you're including extended cousins the strain could possibly mutate by the time it got back to you. Not likely, though, if it's just you and a few others in your household. It is, possible, though for you to pick up a totally new bug that's running around - especially if your immune...

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Is it true that if you go out in the cold with a wet head, you'll get a cold or pneumonia? There is a little bit of truth. If you subject your body to extreme cold, it can make it for your body to fight off disease. However, you still have to be exposed to the bacteria or viruses that cause the diseases. You're probably more likely to get those inside where you are in close quarters with others who might be sick (or about to be).

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What are some remedies for Irritable Bowel Syndrome? If you have problems with diarrhea, try to eat smaller meals. If you do eat sweets or other problem foods, make sure not to eat them on an empty stomache and try not overindulge. When you do overindulge, a little bit of alcohol with your meal might help you avoid the aftermeal rush to the toilet. I've found that one strawberry daquiri helps me make it home without worrying about the...

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My teenage son has recently been wetting the bed. If I take him to the doctor what will he/she likely do to help? While bedwetting is sometimes a side effect of trauma (like sexual abuse), one shouldn't jump to conclusions. It may turn out that he simply has a physical problem which can be treated with medications. The doctor will likely take a urine sample, feel his lower abdomen for obvious signs of a tumor, and proubly take an ultrasound. Depending on what he or she finds, your son may be given...

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How can you help someone who's throwing up to make them more comfortable? As one who's done my share of hurling, I can say that it is the little things that help. - If they're hurling into the toilet, make sure they have a soft towel to put their knees on and keep their feet warm. - If you can, line a small bucket or waste basket with a clean bag so they can move themselves to a better location. - Offer to hold their hair back if it's in...

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I want my boyfriend to call me daily, but he says he wants some quiet time after work. Am I being too demanding? I think it's normal that you want him to call everyday and if he does, that's great. However, I do believe that insisting on daily calls is demanding. He shouldn't be made to feel like he has to call even when he doesn't want to talk. You don't want him to dread calling you. It should be something he does of his own desire. Otherwise, you'll push him away. ...

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How do politicians justify spending millions of dollars in campaining on a job that only pays a $100K a year or so? As noted, the politicians themselves don't spend all that money so it doesn't matter so much that their own pay is not that great, relatively speaking. What's of importance here, I feel, is how politicians justify the amount given to them by donors. In other words, what do the donors get for their money. If their politician wins, smaller donors will have the peace of mind...

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Did the Founding Fathers (and Mothers) speak with an English accent? When did the American 'dialect' emerge? Of course, there is so simple answer. Those that were raised in England would have spoken what was then an "English" accent. Since those times, the English accent has also changed, so it would sound different to modern day English men and women just as their accent sounds different to Americans. Ironically, the isolation of certain American communities (like in the some mountains)...

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I want to ask my fiancee to sign a prenuptial agreement. How can I bring it up without offending her? Don't approach her with it one-sidedly. Ask her what she wants should something happen between you two. Show her that you are just as interested in protecting her as you are in protecting your assets.

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Is Yoga a religion? No. It is just a practice like prayer, meditation, or lighting candles which can be used by people from many religions (or none at all). While traditional yoga focuses more on the spiritual, today many people use purely physical yoga just for exercise.

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Why is buying a Buddha idol for yourself bad luck? Most if not all Buddhists (at least in the West) would not consider it bad luck to buy a Buddha statue. Personally, I consider the idea of "luck" to be an un-Buddhist concept - rather we should focus on how our actions really help or hurt us and others. Karma is about simple cause-and-effect relationships, not collecting brownie points with some sort of deity. Whatever the case, I...

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How is morality related to evolution? Well, it depends on your definition of morality of course. Let's assume, though, that you mean at least in part that people should treat each other well. Helping others can lead to benefits for yourself and your offspring since you are more likely to be helped in return and generally enjoy the benefits of living in a community. Along the way, these benefits have given certain beings...

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How do rings gradually bend to conform to the shape of the finger? It depends on the size of the ring and material its made of. If the band is thin and either a high carat gold or really cheap (like those you buy for a quarter) then the ring may bend easily. The ring just bends from the pressure from surfaces you touch and pressure from your other fingers.

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When ferrets play-bite, can they hurt? YES! Even when playing, ferrets can forget their strength. I used to have ferrets and although they're long gone, I still have the scars where one bit me on the hand.

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What were the key reasons for the fall of the Roman Empire? Here is one reason: The western part of the empire (including Rome) had not been self sufficient for a long time as far as food and money. Most of that came from the East. A lot of grain came from Egypt and other riches came from there and other eastern trading posts. Later emperors started to split the empire and Constantine actually moved the capital to Constantinople (aka Byzantium,...

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Why does Apollo have the same name to both the Greeks and Romans when every other god has had their name radically changed? Generally, the Romans just borrowed Greek stories and applied them to Roman gods who governed similar areas. It appears that the Romans did not feel that he had a Roman equivalent. Thus, he was imported: name, stories, and all. Here's a good site on Apollo: http://janusquirinus.org/essays/Apollo/MultifacetedGod.html

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Is it normal for a heterosexual woman to be curious about what another woman's nipple feels like? I don't know if that specific urge is common, but thoughts of that general type seem to be quite common. I know I've had some thoughts that made me feel like I was weird, but it turns out that my friends have had similar thoughts too. I think we're just curious creatures. I wouldn't be concerned about it, just so long as the desire is not strong enough to do something...

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I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years and despite his efforts, I've never had an orgasm with him. I have no problem achieving this by myself. Is there something wrong with me? First off, I don't know whether you are a girl or guy, so I'll assume either. That said, how relaxed are you when you are with him? Are you enjoying the moment - or (like many people) worrying about how you look or what chores you might have to go do afterwards? Can you fantasize still when your lover is right there? Achieving orgasm is often as much mental as it is physical....

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In general, how healthy is Chinese food (as far as fat, calories, carbs, etc.)? If the Chinese food you eat is mostly steamed veggies and sauce-free, it's probably very healthy. I f the Chinese food you eat is mostly fried meats served in thick sauces, you better head to the gym afterwards. If you are trying to eat healthy: choose more veggies, less meat, steamed, not fried (including rice), and avoid the dumplings.

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Latin has no definite articles, as Greek does. The Romance languages I know, all have definite articles. How did it come about that Latin does not? Latin didn't have them because they aren't really necessary and there hadn't been any compelling reasons for the Romans to create them. The real question is why the Romance languages developed definite articles when their parent (Latin) did not have them. In his book, "A History of the Spanish Language", Ralph Penny suggests that the intial development of the Romance...

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Will masturbating hurt the first time? Well, it depends how you do it. There's no reason that masturbation should hurt so long as you are gentle and don't have any existing physical problems. Just go slowly, gently, and don't try too hard force items where they don't fit. If you get off on pain, that's another thing, but maybe not for your first time.

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Why do wineries give you crackers when you sample their wines? It's to cleanse your palate. In other words, it is to make sure your tongue has a fresh start so you can taste the new wine without interference from last one you tried.

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On AIM, why would someone appear to be offline when they are really online? I know the person isn't blocking me. They might be "invisible". It's a setting you can use to not appear online even though you are.

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Is there any good, healthy way (specific exercises, certain foods/diets, etc.) to reduce the size of your breasts without surgery? Breast are part fat so loosing weight through diet and exercise may help. That'll only help a little though and if you are already slender chances are that surgery is your only option. Trust me, if there were a miracle pill or exercise I'd be doing it. As it is, I will be having my own surgery if insurance will cover it. The good news is that everyone I've talked to who has...

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I was asked to be in a wedding at the last minute and need to lose 25 lbs. in about 6 weeks. How can I lose that much weight quickly? First off, I should warn you that it is not safe to loose more than a few pounds a week. And when I mean not safe, I mean it - as in you could die if you don't watch your nutrition (though certainly this is not always the case). Plus, you will almost certainly gain the weight back and then some. I would also question why you have to loose that much weight for someone else's...

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What age is a good age to get married? Assuming the people are of age, I don't think there is a better or worse age. That's not to say it doesn't make a difference. Rather, there are pros and cons. If you get married early, chances are you will be struggling with beginning of life stuff like going through school, finding a job, maybe moving, etc. Plus, you will lack life experience that might help you with...

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Should there be lust in a relationship? Assuming it is a romantic relationship, it really depends on the needs of those involved. I don't know about you, but my idea of an ideal relationship involved quite a bit of lust. Nevertheless, there are other things that might be more important to you (hopefully you can get everything). Of course, even the best relationship will generally have periods where neither person feels that...

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What are the risks involved with breast reduction? Are the risks greater for teens? One of the greatest risks I'm aware of is infection. Afterall, it does involve slicing and stitching. Those stiches must be kept uber-clean afterwards until they are healed. Also, the woman might loose sensation in her nipples and one shouldn't count on being able to breastfeed ever again (though it is possible sometimes). Not to scare you, but when I was talking to my plastic...

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Is it possible to make a period start earlier by vigorous sexual activity just before the due date? Bleeding after sex is not uncommon but it is not quite the same thing as starting a period early. If a girl does bleed after sex, she should consult her physician just to be on the safe side.

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How do you know when a girl is on period and how long will it last? The girl will notice bleeding coming out through her vagina. In addition, she may experience abdominal cramps, lower back pain, and other symptoms that may range from mere annoyance to downright unbearable (though there are things she may do to alleviate problems). Other people probably won't know that the girl is on her period unless she tells them, they do a physical exam, or if...

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Is it common to have irregular or missed menstrual cycles some months? It depends... If girl is young and has just started menstruating she can expect your periods to take a while to become regular. If a girl (or woman) is underweight and/or very athletic, she might also miss periods. There's also a chance that a girl (or woman) might be pregnant (assuming she's had sex). Sometimes pregant women appear to have irregular periods which are...

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What causes people to fight over religion? While sometimes people do fight over religions, sometimes what we percieve as people fighting over religion is actually more complicated. Most religions (or at least most of the most common ones) divide people up into a bunch of groups that are us-versus-them. Often these groupings run along other cultural, political, or geographical lines. When these groups have disagreeance, for...

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What are some things a Baptist man can do to appeal to the parents of a Catholic woman he'd like to date? While you might feel it is too early to think of such things, you most likely will have to promise to raise any children the two of you have as Catholic. I believe that this is also a requirement of getting married in the Catholic Church since you are not Catholic yourself. If you feel like you can, you should consider converting. It's a tricky situation, though. You don't...

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What is the religious thought behind the Rasta hairstyle? Rastafarianism - hence the name. -------------------------------------- Sorry for that. I misread the question. If I ever figure out the real answer I'll post it.

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Why does it matter which religion you are? Aren't most of them about being the best person you can, and helping others to the best of your ability? Well, for some religions it is about what religion you are. For some Christian denominations (not all), labels distinguish the heaven-bound initiates from the rest. As a Buddhist, I'd say that religious labels aren't important in and of themselves. Rather, it is how you use those labels. I call myself Buddhist because that is reflective of my beliefs and it allows me to talk...

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What do you do when you have tried joining various churches and none will accept you? I'm assuming you are Christian (apologies if I am wrong). As far as Christian churches go, The United Methodist Church is fairly open from what I hear. As a Christian, you can also go to a Unitarian Universalist church. This is not a Christian church is the typical sense but rather a place where people from many different religions come to worship and meet together. It's...

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What deity, if any, do Buddhists worship? First off, most of us (if not all of us) do not worship Buddha (in case anyone was wondering). I, like many Buddhists, am an atheist. Some of us are agnostics, atheists, monotheists, polytheists, you name it. The reason for such a diverse amount of beliefs and disbelief is that Buddhism (in general) is not about worshipping any gods. Even though there may be some sects that worship...

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What Wiccan denomination/tradition is the girl in the movie "The Craft"? It should be noted that the god worshipped in that movie is not part of any existing pantheon - Wiccan or otherwise. He was totally made up. This further shows that the movie is not tied to actual Wiccan beliefs of any tradition.

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How can I find out whether my girlfriend is a virgin or not? You really can't. Women today are more athletic than they used to be and it is not uncommon for their hymen to be torn prior to the first act of sexual intercourse. Hopefully, you can trust your girlfriend though it seems like you have your doubts.

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How can a man last longer in bed? Use a condom. Take breaks to spend more time stimulating the woman. Masturbate earlier in the day.

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I lost my virginity to my boyfriend a few weeks ago and we've had sex quite a few times, but I haven't enjoyed it. Why could this be, and how should I tell him? Sex takes practice - and not just doing it again and again. You need to find out what turns you on. You might try experimenting with a dildo first. That way you can communicate to your boyfriend your personal needs. You probably shouldn't tell your boyfriend that he sucks at sex, since men's egos do bruise easily. However, you shouldn't fake orgasms. That only...

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I want to propose to my girlfriend, but all I hear from married couples is how "miserable" they are, and how "the spark" just dies after marriage. If it's that bad, why do people bother getting married anymore? Because being single gets old, too. Also, you might risk losing someone if you decide you never want to get married. Marriage is hard work. My husband and I have had a lot of rough spots, but we get through. It takes a lot of effort to keep passion alive when it seems like you've run out of new things to try. Nevertheless, I don't regret getting married. The feelings of...

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What should I look for when choosing a diamond engagement ring? Let her pick out her own ring if you have any doubts about her taste. Many - if not most - women already have a good idea about what type of ring they want. You can arrange for the local jeweler present her with a selection within your price range (without the prices shown). If you are on a budget, you might consider getting a ring with another gemstone in the middle, but with diamonds...

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What do the initials BC, AD, CE, BCE and the term Circa, when used with years, stand for? B.C. means "Before Christ" and refers to the time before Jesus Christ was born according Dionysius Exiguus (see below). 5 B.C. is 5 years before Jesus was born according to Dionysius' figuring. A.D. is an abbreviation for the Latin "Anno Domini" ("in the year of the lord", i.e. Jesus Christ) and starts with the birth of Jesus Christ. 5 A.D. is 5 years...

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Why are the names of deities from Greek mythology sometimes spelled differently? I saw Heracles spelt Herakles, and Uranus spelt Oranus! Greek uses another alphabet than the one we use here. Different writers choose to represent the sounds differently.

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Which religions reject all other religions? It depends what you mean by "reject". Most reject the claims of other religions since most are competing for the label of "The Truth" and there are a lot of contradictions. Certain religions believe that people who follow other religions (all religions or a specific group) have a different fate in store from them than that of their own followers. For instance, many...

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Which religions recognized the Pope as their spiritual leader? The Pope is head of the Roman Catholic church.

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What is the difference between a religion and a cult? The number of members. Even Christianity was once considered a cult. However, the term cult may also have more negative connotations and be used to refer to those religious groups that require strict obedience and try to keep its members away from influences outside the cult (ex., by not allowing them to contact family or friends that are not part of the cult).

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What types of utensils do Buddhists eat with and how many times a day do they eat? I eat with a fork, spoon, and knife - sometimes just my fingers Sometimes I use chopsticks, but generally only when I'm at a Chinese restuarant. Usually, I try to eat three times a day. Sometimes I'm too busy for breakfast, though. Seriously, though, that's like asking what Christians eat with. It all depends on the culture of the Buddhist person. I'm a pretty...

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How do Buddhists regard Jesus Christ? It's varied but here are my personal feelings (as a Buddhist). I do believe that there was a man that we now call Jesus (that's the Greek version of his name). As a historical figure he was certainly influential, but certainly not divine. If we trust the veracity of the New Testament (which I don't), then some of his teachings were certainly good (giving to the poor, being a...

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