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What is normal duration for man to ejaculate, after he enters a women; and what is normal time she wants the penis inside her? http://www.saviodsilva. net/r/ss80. htm Lots of averages here.

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From a female's perspective is a guy's foot fetish a turn on, turn off or neither? I think it depends on the woman. A true fetish means that he is unable to have an orgasm without that to turn him on. I think I would get tired of the same thing all the time.

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Lights ON or OFF, Why? Either. When on, it's cool to see his face and eyes. When off, the other senses take over.

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I believe that in order to have a solid relationship with your bf/gf you have to have friendship. True or Not? Having been divorced once after 20 years of marriage and a widow once after 9 years of marriage, I agree 100%. If the man is not my best friend or one of my best friends, he's not the right man for me.

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Ladies! Has your man ever got mad when another man was talking or looking at you? Has he ever turn it into a big problem? Mine loves it when they do!

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So; you are TOTALLY in love with your S.O. What would be the ONE THING you would NEVER DO even if they BEGGED you? I would not have a threesome.

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Most of the products we purchase have "use by" or "sell by" expiration dates. Any of your relationships at or near their expiration dates or are they good forever like honey? Great question! Mine are mostly good forever. I do have one that I'm not sure if it's reaching the expiration date or not. It's on the edge.

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Think of those people who you love to be near. What qualities make them so wonderful to be around? Their sense of humor. They will tell me what they think honestly, but they accept that the choice is mine in the end and trust me to make that choice. They are intelligent. They are accepting. They are kind and thoughtful.

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When in disagreement, do you rather your s/o shut down and not communicate, or communicate in an angry manner? I am generally hurt, but I do neither of these. I want to communicate in a rational manner.

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Given the opportunity, do you think most people say things to make others feel good, others feel bad, or say nothing at all? I think you draw to you people who are more like you are... MOST of the time, but not always.

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Is your current partner Mr/Miss 'Right' or Mr/Miss "You'll Do'? For me, he's Mr. Right. Whether I'm Ms. Right for him remains to be seen.

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Do you more often seek out those who like what you like and whom or do you usually seek out those who dislike what or whom you dislike? I don't seek out anyone in particular. Life brings me to different people. I am drawn to both those who I have similarities with and those who I don't. I do find it interesting that, most of the time, I'm drawn more to people who are at least ten years older than I am. I only have two friends who are close to my age. I have none who are younger than I am by more than two years. I...

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Whats the hottest thing you've ever done? Too many to mention

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Tried Anal sex once with an ex and it really hurt. Want to do it with my fiance but I'm scared because of the pain from last time. Any advice before I have a seat on the meat? Tons of lube

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First whats the easyest way to make a girl have an orgasom? Pay attention to what's turning her on.

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Can kegils help me have an orgasm? It's not the Kegels that cause the orgasms. They do make the orgasms more pleasurable.

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To women/girls: Is make up sex the best sex u can ever have? To where both of you are crying while climaxing. Depends on my mood.

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Is there away you can masturbate to make you feel like your having oral sex I wish I knew.

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Do any girls masturbate anally and if so with what and how often? Some girls do. The same things that they would use to masturbate vaginally.

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Do you like to suck your husbands c---k and deep throat him or swallow his cum every day? ummmmm this is pretty personal, too personal

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Would you have anal sex with your husband at a Drive in or walk in theatre? Yes with my partner

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Things you shouldnt do while having sex? Anything that your partner says no to.

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Do you often shower with your partner? Any time I get the chance.

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Do you overindulge in anything? With one thing in particular, whenever I possibly can.

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Is there anything that makes your soul sing? Many! My children, my grandchildren, my family of origin, my wonderful friends, great memories, loving and being loved.

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Who are you OBLIGATED to buy a present for this holiday season? what will it be? My grandchildren. They are each receiving one toy from me.

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Are you a person who can see all the possibilities or are you the one who says "you'll never do it", "you won't make it", "it'll never happen"? I rarely am the one who is a nay sayer. I love looking at the possibilities.

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We all "overlook" things from time to time, either on purpose or inadvertently. How often do we "underlook" anything...try to find out what is really going on beneath the surface? Or do we just accept things at face value and move on? I find that I'm too good at underlooking things. I'm always wanting to know the WHYs.

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The number 1 fear of most Americans is public speaking according to many studies. Does this describe you? Can you get up in front of a crowd? I'm good at it. I get nervous but it's not my worst fear.

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Do you consider re-gifting rude? No. It's important that it not be done simply to get out of buying or making a gift, though. If it is done, it should be because it's something that you have NEVER used, is still in it's original packaging, and is a good gift for the receiver.

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Have you ever felt a Physical Presence in the room with you? Many times

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What do you do when partner in a relationship is romantic and the other isn't. Where do you compromise? That depends entirely upon the two people. There is no one answer to this question. I think that there is usually one partner who is more romantic than the other. It's equally likely to be a man or a woman. Each couple has to find the balance if they are able to. If not, perhaps it was not meant to be.

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How would you respond if your recent boyfriend/girlfriend told you that they worked part-time, lived in a caravan somewhere quiet and just wanted to spend their lives having fun rather than worrying about conforming to societies ideology? You would have to define "having fun." As to the rest, I would be good with that as long as there was no stress to have food on the table from day to day.

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I am extremely lonely in my realtionship. Are you? Yes, it's long distance. We do talk every night except when one of us is gone and unable to. We watch movies "together" online. We look at websites together. We sometimes watch TV together. We read to one another. We do many things "together." I'm still lonely and wish I could be with him more.

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Will you ever really try your deepest, most well-hidden sexual fantasy? Probably not

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Do you like to play good or bad? Depends on the day

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How can i get a guy to cum faster when im going down on him? ^-^ That's never my goal so I have no suggestions. My goal is to pleasure him and myself.

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Your experiences/thoughts on anal sex? Fantastic

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When you dream about the perfect bed-mate, who do You 1st think about? My current partner. Best sex of my life.

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Girls, do you love his tongue? YES

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If you looked out your window and saw your sexy neighbor getting dressed or having sex, would you watch? Probably

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Do you prefer to sleep with your partner, or in separate beds? Why? I prefer sleeping with, but that rarely happens due to distance.

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So God creates hell, then, only saves you from it if you worship him? Isn't that a bit sadistic? That can only be true if you believe in God and hell. I believe in a higher power. I do not believe in any hell except that that is self-imposed in each lifetime.

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Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! Who would join me in greeting our servicemen who are away from their families these holidays? I thank them all for the service that do for me and mine, as well as our country. I thank our allies as some of them are my family, as well. I thank the families of all those men and women, as well. In particular, I thank my wonderful son who will join our troops in Afghanistan in the first part of the coming year. I wish them all safe home. I hope that they will all have the best holidays that...

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What skills do you have due to your job? people skills

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What are good tips on being "good" on top? There is no right way to answer this. Each person and each couple are different.

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When will you write your life story? I write my life story as I go along...

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Why are you in love with the person that you're with? He's one of my best friends. That always comes first in our relationship. Our intelligence is well matched. We challenge one another to grow as independent people. We are comfortable with one another. We want the same things from our life and lifestyle. We have many similarities, but we also have differences that bring us lively conversations at times. (Not arguments, conversations or...

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When is your anniversary? Which one? Oct. 9 was the date I married my late husband. March 22 was the date he and I met. May 31st is the anniversary of the day I met the man I'm with now. Oh, and May 3 was the anniversary of my wedding to my ex. July 28th is the anniversary date of my divorce from him.

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Why are YOU not with your significant other right now, and how do you feel about it? This is not a simple question for me. I have two men in my heart right now, my late husband and the man I'm in a relationship with. With my late husband, the reason we aren't together is obvious. It's sad, but I'm reconciled to it. With the current man, we live long distance and each of us have things we must work out before we move forward in our relationship. Although...

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Do you like kissing? With the right person, OH YES!

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Have you ever regreted not sayingi love you to someone? Yes! I regret not telling my late husband that on the day he died. We didn't have the chance to say goodbye because it was so sudden. I never want to have that regret again. Perhaps I've moved more to the other extreme of making sure I say it "too often," in some people's opinions, but I live my life now to have no regrets.

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Do you believe in happy ending? Having lost my husband a year ago, I would say that there ARE happy endings. He had a wonderful life. He did all the things he wanted to do with his life. He spent 54 years being a bachelor, following his dreams, having a life in which he learned a lot and became ready for the last ten years of his life. We met and married. I brought with my five children who loved him dearly, who learned from...

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Most teenagers who get married thinks so. Can you live on love alone? No, but you don't need a lot to live on along with love. However, there can be reasons other than financial that a relationship doesn't work. It may be the wrong time in one or both of their lives for many reasons. One may need to finish something else prior to moving forward in that relationship. My situation would be an example of that. I do love a man I'm dating. It's...

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What reason did you last turn down sex for? I can't remember when that was

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Is there something/one you would love to get closer to you? yes, definitely

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Will you be staying home on Christmas day, or traveling to some ones place for festivities? I'll be home alone. I won't be able to be with any of my five children, ten grandchildren, my mother or nine siblings.

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What two items would you like Santa to bring you this year? ( remember they have to fit in the Santa sock) There is a Garnet necklace with a butterfly on it that I'd love to have. I'd also like a ring or maybe cash.

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Are we here to take or give? It's important to know how to do both graciously. I don't know that either of those are the reason we are here, though.

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When you really miss someone from your past that died, what eases the pain? My husband died one year ago. I talk to him. If I need to, I'll look at his picture to talk to him. I can talk to him out loud or I have the conversation in my mind. I know what he would have said to me when I say things this way. Sometimes, I cry to release the emotions. Sometimes, I'll call a friend and talk to them about what I'm feeling. I do what I feel I need to do at the...

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I am dating someone long distance, and she is awesome don't get me wrong...but she is kind of a... nympho... should i be worried about her cheating? I have Bipolar Disorder and go through periods of hypersexuality. I managed seven years of long distance with my late husband without cheating. I've managed six months with my current long distance relationship without cheating. If you can't trust her yet, you have a long way to go or she's not worth trusting. That's something you have to figure out on your own.

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How long did your long distance relationship last? Or, how long has it been lasting? With my late husband, over seven years during which time we married. With the man I'm currently dating, six months.

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Is it a problem if your horny constantly? If you have a mental conditions that includes hypersexuality, yes, it is a problem, a serious one not to be taken lightly or laughed at.

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Do you try to see a situation from another person's view when you have a quarrel or argument? Yes, but for me that often means asking a lot of questions to really see what their view is. All too often I think I know what their view is, but I'm very wrong in my assumptions.

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What does being in a committed relationship mean to you? There is a friendship at the base of that relationship that is always going to be there. In addition to the friendship is the romantic level of the relationship. The romantic level includes trust, kindness, thoughtfulness, and a desire to remain faithful to that person. For me, that does not include him never looking at another woman and not mildly flirting with other women. It does include,...

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Would you be involved with a person who say's they will never be married again? There are many reasons for a person to say this. For me, it is financial. Crass, maybe, but realistic. If I were to marry, I would lose what little income I have plus health care. I'm a widow and have serious health problems. I was already the widow who was left destitute. I will NEVER place myself in that position again. For those reasons, I will never be married again. If I...

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Why would a man try to hurt the feelings of a lady friend that has feelings for him? He may not realize that he is. It may be the environment he grew up in. Either way, I think this is a red flag for someone who could become emotionally/psychologically abusive.

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What do you do when you miss your significant other so much that you start to feel sad? Remember what it was like being with him, both the good and the bad. Remember why it was that I fell in love with him in the first place. Let myself have permission to cry for fifteen minutes with a timer if I need to. Talk to his picture if I need to. I had to learn to do this a year ago when my husband died. It's not like I'll see him again in this lifetime, but I can be okay with...

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Why does my live in boyfreind not give me the same attention as when we first met? People naturally go through different phases in a relationship. When you're dating, you always put your best foot forward. If you don't date for a long period of time prior to moving in together, you really don't have the opportunity to see what their flaws are then. If you move in together prior to seeing those flaws, you become disillusioned very quickly. If you have dated and...

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How many times have you had sex with no emotional attachment? Never

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What qualities are needed to sustain a long loving relationship? Friendship, first and foremost. Kindness, thoughtfulness, honesty, and the ability to compromise

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What left the biggest impression on you? The death of my husband a year ago and the events of the past year, seeing the good in so many people since his death

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What does this mean to you? There are none so blind as those who will not see. It means that the person who is young and immature or anyone who is too stubborn to change will never see the good things that there are to see in this world.

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What are the hazards associated with wearing high heeled shoes? Back problems. On the other hand, wearing high heeled shoes can help you as far as your Kegel muscle.

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What is the number one thing to look for in a partner? deleted

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What is the number one thing to look for in a partner? Someone who is your friend first and foremost. I would not be involved with anyone now who was not a friend who would remain my friend even if we broke up.

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As an ER nurse, I see many, many deaths. It is hard sometimes to know what to say. How do you console someone after a family member, or friend has died? When my husband died this last Nov. in the ER, it was terrifying since it was sudden and unexpected. The doctor didn't even know what had happened. When the doctor was working on him, the nurses started going by me just touching my arm. There was only one who gave me a pitying look. Do not do that! The ones who just touched my arm helped. It helped ground me into knowing what was happening...

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If you had to take your kid off of a respirator and they were to die. How would you deal with it? Please answer seriously. Also: What could we do to help? Besides getting a card and having everyone sign it. Be there to listen months and months down the road. It will take them a long, long time to heal, probably years.

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For those of you who have lost a loved one: How long did it take you to realize that they are gone forever and they will never be back? It has depended on the person I lost. With my daughter 20 years ago, it took me about a year or so. With my maternal grandmother, who was a mother to me, it took me about six months. With my father, it was a few weeks. With my paternal grandmother, I'm not sure I'm there yet. She died last Mother's Day. With my husband, I'm no where near being to that point. He died Nov. 20,...

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A close friend of the family recently died and I offered to help wrap up all of her affairs I did not relize there was so much to it. where do I start? Do you know of any resources for help in how to do this? It depends on where you live. Try a web search for your state. Is there a will? If not, you are looking at a whole lot of trouble. If the estate is considerable, an attorney needs to take care of this. If there is not a will, an attorney may need to be hired. If taxes need to be filed, an accountant may need to be hired. Sorry, but your question is simply too general to be answered.

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I have my cousin's funeral to go to he was 25 really hip, modern, funky kinda guy who really love life and to party...what should i wear is it wrong not to wear black Wear a neutral medium to dark color unless you have been informed that it is otherwise by the family. Remember that the funeral is for the family, not your cousin. In honouring them, you honour him, too. There's nothing wrong with adding a splash of color as long as it's not to flashy.

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If a person was buried (supposed to have been anyway) in a vault, how could odors of decomp be coming from the grave? I notified the caretaker and the funeral home. Is there someone else who should be made aware? This has been really bothering me. The county health department would be a good call to make.

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Sometimes, I will stop and walk around a cemetery. If you visit a cemetery, what is your reason behind it? Family history, general history, interest in what was written, supposition about what that person was like based on all of this.

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If you were to die in your sleep tonight,would you have made a difference? Yes

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What would you like to say on your deathbed? Would you have any regrets, if so what? I would like to tell all of my loved ones that I love them and some special memory I've always kept of them. I would also ask forgiveness for any wrongs I ever did them. I would ask that for them since forgiveness is something that is for ourselves, to heal and move forward. Regrets, that I stayed married to my ex for so long, but I can't regret marrying him or I regret my children...

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Do you ever dream about people in your life that have passed? Are you sad or happy when you wake up? Yes, I often dream of those in my life who have died, especially my husband. Yes, I am happy and sad. With my husband, I dream of him being alive, of our kidding around, making jokes, holding hands, hugging, kissing, talking, sharing. When I wake up, I have a deep sadness that he is gone. It's almost like being told once again that he died, it's that deep of a grief. Yet, I am glad...

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If you know your time is nearing an end, would you prefer to die at home or in a hospital? Home, definitely. It's where I'd be comfortable and could have my loved ones there as they and I choose.

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How old were you when you attended your first wake and/or funeral? Who was it for? At what age do you think is 'appropriate' to attend one (ie: kids ages)? I was in my 30s before I attended a funeral for a friend who had died of cancer. I often think about how much I wanted to attend my great-grandfather's funeral when I was quite young, about 3 or 4 years old. Instead, it was all very hush- hush and hidden from me and my sisters. That made death scary instead a natural part of the process of living one's life out. I think that this...

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What comes to your mind when i say "Underworld"? unreal

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Have you ever been in the presence of someone dying? My husband

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How is the best way to help a family out who just lost their father unexpectedly who was only in his 40's. his youngest child was 11 and his eldest was my age, 20 it is hard to be around them when they cry but i want to be strong for them Any suggestions? It's okay for you to cry with them. It is difficult when there are deaths, much less more than one. Within seven months, I lost my father, my grandmother, my aunt and my husband. It's important to be encouraged to cry, to feel what you feel, to do what you need to do in your grief. Each stage of grief serves a purpose. If you don't go through each one, you will find yourself...

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Would you rather have your daughter marry someone rich but stingy or poor but generous? Whatever she chose I would support her.

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At your wedding, did any of your bridesmaids show up late and you had to move without them? No, but I was late. They waited on me instead of moving without me.

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Do married men who cheat expect their girlfriends to respect their wives? It depends on the man and the reason they are cheating.

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Could I be addicted to masturbation? Yes, you can

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Do you know anyone whose been married and divorced more than four times? My mom is on marriage number 5. My dad was married 4 times and divorced when he died.

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After so many years of courtship, the love of your life proposes to you, and this is something you've been waiting for but months before the proposal he started having problems getting it up and you know about this little secret, Will you still say yes? Yes, an erection is desirable but not 100% necessary for sexual satisfaction. Also, there are meds. My problem would be if he had not and would not see his doc about this. I would want to know that he was healthy more than anything else.

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Would you agree to be in a committed relationship with someone, if the possibility of marriage was not an option? (they just didn't want to get married... ever) I would be the one insisting on it!

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What did you do with the top of your wedding cake after the 1st year? Did you throw it away, eat it,? Unless you have access to have it flash frozen, you probable wouldn't want to eat it after one year. We put ours in the freezer for our one month anniversary to avoid this.

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If you wanted a beach wedding, are Longer traditional dresses still suitable? You probably won't want a train, but you can wear whatever you like!

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Is it wrong of me to not want to congratulate someone on an engagement because there is still the possibility that a marriage may not actually take place? It's about them. Not congratulating them is making it about you and your feelings. It doesn't matter if they haven't or won't set a date. That's their decision that has nothing to do with you. It would be quite rude to not congratulate them.

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Do people have the right to die? ytes

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If someone you loved passed away, do you get depressed on their birthday? or do you celebrate it? My father passed, and I have his 2 youngest kids as they're mine, and we celebrated with a pizza party today, it would've been his birthday. It's about what makes the people in question feel better. My late husband's birthday is in July. For me, this is the day that I think will be the worst for me, worse than Christmas. This year, I'll be spending it with my cousins-in-law. It won't be for celebrating. It will be because I can't be alone on that day. However, if I'm up to it in 2010, I'll...

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WHEN SOMEONE YOU KNOW HAS DIED HAVE ANYONE EXPERIENCED ANYTHING YOU MIGHT SAY IS ODD LIKE GHOSTLY AS IVE HAD STRANGE THINGS HAPPEN TO ME Yes, I have since my husband died in Nov.

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Whats the first thing you would buy if you had all the money in the world? After the bank, I'd go buy a new vehicle. How else am I going to go all the places I'd want to go!?

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What is something you wish you could do, but can't? Have my late husband with me

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Would you rather be buried or cremated? To be cremated. My children and grandchildren, as they are able or wish, will take my ashes along with my late husband's to the city we both love to sprinkle our ashes in each of the places that we had good memories together and with our children.

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When did you first see a dead body? What did you think? Nov. 20, 2008. I was glad that I could see his lovely blue eyes once more. I was glad that I was able to see him while he was still warm. I was glad that I was able to tell his body goodbye. I felt more at peace.

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I wanna plan my funeral before i die, like.. arrange for what kinda food they'll serve & whos invited. Is that morrally wrong? Can you do that legally? I think that's a very loving thing to do. It takes the burden of doing all of that off of the family left behind. I have a friend who's planned her's down to this level. I have mine planned to a lesser extreme because it's not about me once I die. It's about my loved ones doing what they need to do to get through. Morally wrong? I can't understand why it...

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Have you ever written letters to loved ones that have passed because it makes you feel as if you're talking to them? and does it help you cope with the fact that they're no longer here? Absolutely! Most of my grief journal from my husband's death is filled with letters to him. I also talk to him. Both of these help me. I do believe that he is still with me. I believe that he hears me and knows what I am writing. While I believe that at some time, I will need to let him go to his greater good, I also know that until I'm ready, he's here. I also believe that I...

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Do you want to be remembered when you are gone? Yes, I do by those who love me.

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Husband was texting three different girls on his phone (that I pay for) was I right for getting very upset. The texts said things like I need you bad, we need to figure something out. We were going through some problems at the time. Was this cheating? yes

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Would you consider phoning adult chat lines regularly cheating? yes

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When neither husband or wife works outside of the home any longer, should they equally share all the home chores; including cooking, cleaning, washing clothes, food shopping, paying bills, etc? Yes, but that doesn't mean that they both do exactly half of each chore or exactly half of a list of chores. The couple would need to decide what is equitable in their relationship.

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I read many clues about cheating but none fits the description of my sister husband, the man is always home , the only time he could cheat is at work and i don`t see how consider he as a very demanding job ( his the boss ) he comes home around 5 every If your sister doesn't normally have trust issues, I would tend to believe her intuition. If she has trust issues, she should work on that. If not, she should just keep track of what is going on to make her think this... on paper or on the computer. She needs to see it in black and white to understand it better herself, would be my guess.

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Why do otherwise smart women stay with men who cheat on them? Intelligence doesn't have too much to do with it. You can know something logically and your feelings/emotions tell you otherwise. Also, it's not *always* the smart thing to leave a man who cheats on you.

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Can you imagine yourself living with a spouse and they play that game no sex for you cause I am getting you back...how long do you think it would last until you cheated. Cheating is rarely about sex. In this case, it's about something wrong in the relationship, not about sex. For me, I wouldn't stay in a relationship like this. It would either improve or I'd be out of it.

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Is/was marriage for you? Yes, it was. At this point, I don't think it will be again simply because I don't ever want to be left in this financial position again. Once I have that back on track, it would take some doing for me to give it up by marrying again. In my situation, getting married would mean giving up my financial independence.

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How big of a diamond ring, did you buy your wife and how much did it cost you My husband didn't buy my diamonds. They were more precious than that even. There are three large and 13 small diamonds that were his mother's. She died two years prior to our meeting. We paid the jewelry designer $2000. The rings were worth $7500. The designer was a friend and was a designer for the largest and best store in Canada, Birks.

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DId you wait till marriage? no

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I remarried my x-husband. No matter what I do, he will not communicate with me. Our therapist even told us there is nothing more he can do. But I love him. How else can I help him to be able to communicate? Sometimes love isn't enough. You can't help him do what he's not willing to do. If he's chosen to not put communication skills to work, you can't do anything. It's a choice he's made.

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Im waiting until marriage to have sex. What am i missing out on? All of the negative things listed in other answers if you are a teenager. If you are an adult, I think that you are missing out on a few things. First, many men don't want to have a virgin bride. This means that you will have not had any experience. You won't be able to please them in the same way. You won't have as good an idea of what it is that you like. Also, you are missing...

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Why don't crematoriums want flowers cremated with the body? In some religions, there are beliefs that would require there to be some crematoriums to allow this.

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Have you ever visited deathclock.com to see when it says you are going to die? Wednesday, January 15, 2014

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If you had a chance to spend one more day with someone close to you that had died, who would it be and what would you do? My husband. We would spend the day saying all the things that needed to be said. He could tell me what to do with all of his things, what he wanted and didn't want. We could tell one another we love each other before he died which we didn't get the chance to do. We could say our goodbyes.

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If you were to die who do you think would miss you the most? Each of my children will miss me the most, each in their own way. My grandchildren will also miss me, but it's not the same as it is for the children.

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I lost my sister last year. This year, another sister is dying. Im not sure I can stand all this death. I need to accept it, but I am not there yet. I'm sorry for your loss and your loss to come. It is extremely difficult when you are dealing with loss upon loss. In 7 months, my father, my grandmother, and my husband died. There is no reason to push the grief and feel that you must accept it any time in the next while. It takes time. My husband died two months ago. I find that it's me who is pushing me to grieve. I have to remind...

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I would like to know what you feel about death and the death of your loved ones I can't think of anything worse that I have been through than the death of one of my twins 20 years ago and the death of my husband two months ago.

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How do most women feel about their s/o viewing pornography? Any answer you get to this question is going to be a generalization based on the bias of the person answering. It depends entirely on the woman in question.

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What are the most common reasons a husband cheats? 80% of the time, it's something missing within the person or within the relationship. The less common reasons include addictions, mental health problems, etc.

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With the divorce rates now being at 60 percent, do you still want to get married if you're single? Nope. Never again. However, that decision has nothing to do with divorce rates and everything to do with trust issues.

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Where do you see yourself in the next ten years? A successful author of a series of fiction books living in Canada, the home of my heart, in the city I love so dearly. I'll have wonderful friends and family around me. My grandchildren will come to visit in the summers and love it since Grandma Honey (what they call me) is their favorite grandmother. I will have more grey hair, but I'll be attractive still. The problem with this all?...

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Where do you see yourself in the next ten years? A successful author of a series of fiction books living in Canada, the home of my heart, in the city I love so dearly. I'll have wonderful friends and family around me. My grandchildren will come to visit in the summers and love it since Grandma Honey (what they call me) is their favorite grandmother. I will have more grey hair, but I'll be attractive still. The problem with this all?...

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How do you get back at a cheating ex husband? I gave him no power over me ever again. I got rid of all those buttons he had liked to push. I learned how to push his buttons without anger.

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How much did your divorce cost? $5000

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Sex before marriage: Yay or Nay? Definitely yes.

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What qualities make a good husband? Trusting Trustworthy Kind Thoughtful Caring Shares easily Loving Able to compromise Encouraging Dependable

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Did anyone here get married in Las Vegas. Who married you and how was it? My brother and sister-in-law did. They did it logically. They had to go to the courthouse to get the license. They didn't want a theme wedding. So they went to a place that had a name something like Wedding Chapel By The Courthouse.

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How were you asked out/proposed to? Was it something memorable or something you wish you could do over? It was memorable, but it's not something I'm willing to share here. :)

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Women, will you or have you taken on your husbands name if/when you get married? Men, how would you feel if a female did not want to take on your name? Would you take on hers? With my late husband, I did choose to take his name. He did not tell me how he felt about it until after I made my decision. He didn't want me to feel pressured one way or the other. Many of the women in his family have chosen not to so that would not have been abnormal to him. He was very happy to have me take his name.

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Would you want to get engaged or married on a holiday? Why or why not? Engaged, why not? Sure. Married, depends on the situation. For my late husband and I, it made sense to get married on a weekend of a holiday since people would have a three day weekend and be able to easily attend our wedding. We would not have done that at Christmas, though.

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How many years older and younger than you are you willing to date? My late husband was 17 years my senior. I ex was two years older. I don't think I'd have much interest in anyone who wasn't at least 10 years older than I am, but that's a long time out so I don't know for sure.

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Should husbands have a right to discipline their wives? No, that's highly disrespectful. If there's one thing a husband should do, it's respect his wife. If he's not happy with her to the point of wanting to discipline her, he should leave.

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Anyone ever find REAL LOVE over the internet? I haven't, but I was just wondering if people really do. It's where my late husband and I met over 10 years ago. I had the best ten years of my life with him.

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What is the first thing you think of when I say "FUN?" my grandchildren

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Non-US People - What is your perception of our new president - Barack Obama? my family in Canada all have a feeling of hope for their country and ours. they also have a feeling of hoping that americans will be patient since it took a long time for bush to get us in this mess, it'll take a long time to get out of it

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What is the first thing that comes to your mind when I say...."I feel a cold one comin' on?" my late husband touching my cheek, as he often does, and my cheek feeling cold for no reason at all when that happens

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I feel so angry and upset. I'm being called a liar and a fantasist? A Catholic priest hurt me & I finally told my family but they don't believe me. I'm female & I was 10 at the time. I'm so angry and resentful. this is not fair. I feel resentful & bitter I'm sure it's difficult not being believed. It may be difficult for your family for a couple of reasons. First, your parents and older siblings would feel like they didn't protect you and should have known. Second, they would have a problem with the church. While neither of these are an excuse for their behavior, it sometimes helps to understand why people do what they do....

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Do you ever feel like anxiety takes over your life? Yes, that is part of anxiety disorders.

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How effective is trileptal in managing bipolar? This is the one I take successfully.

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Will taking antidepressants help improve my memory retiontion, social anxiety, and inability to focus on anything other than the constant pit of despair that I am in? Maybe, it depends on the med and how you react to it. You may want to talk to your doc about adding an antianxiety to the antidepressant as an option. Anxiety and depression are closely linked.

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Anybody successfully take antidepressants without loss of sex drive/libido? Which one do you take? wellbutrin is one that is good for this

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Do you think some people on disability should be disqualified? with it being as difficult as it is to get on disability, no

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If you have a disability, do you often find people do not understand why--or do not believe that--you can't do something? Or they think it's a matter of will power? very often

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What are your experiences from meditation? no longer needing anti-anxiety medication, my blood pressure going down to normal, being much more healthy both emotionally/mentally and physically

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What sort of scene can you visualize in your mine's eye that never fails to bring you a feeling of contentment? the city that is my spiritual home with my late husband, sitting on the beach, having a picnic, holding hands, talking, people around us but not bothering us, the mountains in the background, the sea in front of us

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Where's your favorite place to go and just meditate? my late husband's recliner

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Would you live with your parents after you get married? No, I would not. I also would not have my adult children living with me after they were married. I have had a two of the five come and live with me on their own prior to long term relationships/marriage and children, but that happened only with a time that they would move out by. It's not healthy for anyone.

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Would you consider an engagement without a ring official? yes

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Do you want a regular tombstone or something crazy? a bench overlooking the inlet that my late husband and I spent so much time at and love dearly... with both of our names on it

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If your dating relationship had been like your marriage is now, would you have still married your spouse? Oh yes!

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What colors would be your wedding scheme? Mine were gold and shades of white.

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If you were going to get married would you rather it just be you and your s/o or in front of family and friends? In front of family and friends was what we wanted when we got married.

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What are your thoughts on pre-nuptial agreements? Good/Bad idea? Have you ever singed one/ asked someone to? I think that it depends on the situation and the people in the relationship. I don't have an absolute NO on them. I also don't think that they are for everyone or even most people.

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I've been with my husband for 8years and have always been faithfull but now I'm contemplating starting an affair with my boss.....who is also married...how do I get over this fantasy and get back to my husband faithfully? First, know that whatever has been going on in your life, this will only make it worse. It will not make you feel better. Know that chances are really good that, regardless of what your boss is telling you, he has done this before and/or will do it again after you. It doesn't matter if there's an emotional connection or not, these things are true. The thing you need to figure out is...

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If you believe in reincarnation, would cremation be appropriate? Very much so! What happens to the shell of the person, the body, has nothing to do with the spirit or soul of the person.

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Have you ever known someone who died BEFORE they did what they openly swore they "had to do" in life (that actually meant something)? yes

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When your gone, will there be good memories of you? Yes, there will.

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Have you ever created a personal memorial to remember someone that has passed? yes

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Have you ever had to bury one of your children? Yes, I did 20 years ago.

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Ever been in a room with a person when they took their last breath? I was in the room when my husband had his heart attack and died, yes.

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What would you do for someone who said to you 'I want to commit suicide? Ask them if they needed a ride to the hospital. If they refused, I'd call 911. I am not equipped to deal with this with someone I know and/or love.

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I Lost the Love of my Life Jan 26, Can ppl really go crazy with grief? or does everyone feel this way? I lost mine on Nov. 20th. Feeling crazy is normal. It's part of the grieving process. You aren't alone! Looking for a support group online or IRL is a really good thing to do.

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Why did your father choose your mother? It was 1961. She was pregnant with my sister. She was 15. He was 17. Scary, eh? I'm glad those days of "having" to get married are over!

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Would you marry someone you've never had sex with? no

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When did you fall in love with your husband/wife? (age) I was 36 years old. He was 54 years old.

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If you are married, do you expect to stay married to the same person till death do you part? I did.

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If you had the chance to re-meet and re-marry your husband/wife would you, or would you run a mile? Yes, I would marry him again. I'd do things differently, if I knew to do so, since we only got ten years together.

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I have been married for 1 year. Both of us have been married before. It is my hubby's house but I contribute financially every month over 4k. More than he does. His trust leaves everything to his ungreatfull loser kids. Is this fair? When you marry someone who has children, you should accept that those children will almost always come first. I would suggest that you request that he buy a new life insurance policy just for you. However, since you are saying "his house" after a year, that is indicative of things not going well to me.

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When you marry (if not already), will you end up eventually calling your significant other MOM or DAD? I didn't. I had grandparents who called one another "Father" and "Mother." You don't have to do this, but some people do so.

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Is it true that 77% of marriages are sexless? 15 to 20 percent of couples have sex no more than 10 times a year, which experts define as a sexless marriage. — Newsweek No more than 10 times per year is considered a sexless marriage by most experts.

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Which would you prefer in a husband: a man who "checks out" other women with his eyes and/or looks at porn, or a man who is committed to laying his eyes only on you? Does this matter to you, or is it not important in a marriage? I would not want a man who looks at porn. I would also not want a man who is so unintelligent and asexual that he never looked at another woman thinking that she was beautiful or whatever.

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My husband cheats. He physically cheated the first year we married with a woman 20 years his junior. We have been married for 6 years and he has gone to online dating sites and registered and had his former church secretary send him nude pics! Stay or GO? Serial cheaters usually have a more serious problem than simple cheating. It can be along the lines of sexual addiction, mentally unstable, etc. If you do stay, it should be on the condition that he obtains regular counseling ASAP, follow the counselor's advice, and cut off any contact with any woman. He would also need to provide you with full disclosure, ie, all IDs and passwords, all...

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Would you ever dare to get married again if you already had two failed marriages in your twenties? What does society think of such a person? I think that when this is the case and given the reasons you state, it would be an excellent idea to get some counseling before you got into another relationship. Knowing why you choose the men you choose and how to change that would be the thing to work on.

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Do you find the constant need to touch your partner? I would love to be able to do so with my late husband.

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Given a choice, would you pick a love marriage or an arranged marriage? Why? My late husband and I had a love marriage.

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At what age do you prefer for a man to get married? My husband married me when he was 54. I was his first wife. This worked well for us.

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Ok so I'm 18 and I have a fiance' and she is 17 about to be 18. We were planning on getting married after she turns 18 and I want to know if YOU think it's too young? (I would like detailed answers if possible. Also I may debate against some statements.) At this age, neither of you has much life experience. Your life experience is from high school and before. Each of you should spend some time following some dreams that you have individually, meeting a lot of other people (not necessarily opposite sex, just friends if that be the case), and learning how to live in the adult world in an adult relationship. It's so different than your...

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If a friend was having marital problems and told you, "We're not married anymore, we just live together!", what would be your response? What advice would you give? I wouldn't feel the need to give advice. None was asked for. My response would simply be, "Oh, okay." I would leave a pause in the conversation to allow my friend to say something more if s/he wanted to, but if not, I'd move onto a different topic.

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My fiancee wants to go to a bridal show with me. Do guys usually go to bridal shows? My husband did. Some men are fine with this.

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If you knew you were going to die within a few months, would you arrange your own funeral? if so what would you do? I've already made arrangements for my remains when the time comes. My funeral, no, I would not arrange it. I would ask for a specific place to have it held. I would give song suggestions. Other than that, it's for the living, not the dead. I wouldn't do more. BTW, I know that my wishes may not be upheld after I die. Those wishes simply give me a nice idea of what will happen....

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Does your life really flash before you in a near death experience? I hope so!

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Is masterbating to porn in a relationship cheating, why or why not? I mean your still getting off to other people? It depends on the choices made by the partners in the relationship.

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What's the closest you've ever been to death & how? When I tried to commit suicide in 1984.

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Do you think euthinasia should be allowed and why? Yes. Fortunately, my grandmother had a reasonable doctor five years ago. She had a stroke. My grandfather, mom and aunts were given a choice by this doctor who knew what my grandmother would have wanted. She could either live for years and years as a vegetable in a home or the family could request morphine to be given to her as often as they "thought she was in pain." Needless to say,...

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Is there ever any justification for a cheating spouse? Yes. Giving an abused spouse the support and strength to leave an abusive spouse is.

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Two questions for married people: 1) Do you and your spouse firmly believe in God to the point that you put Him first? 2) Are you happy in your marriage? He believed and I believe in Mother-Father-God. The priorities in our lives would change over time. Mother-Father-God did remain a constant and was one of our priorities but not always first. As with any marriage, we had times when things were better than others and vice versa. Without the down times, our marriage wouldn't have been as strong as it was. We learned to work through those and...

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Does the fun really have to end once you get married? If so, why is that? No, the fun doesn't have to end! My husband and I shared so much more in the years after we were married. It brings the relationship to another level. It's up to both partners to define what that is for them.

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What is the largest threat to marriage: infidelity, domestic abuse, or alcohol/drug abuse? all of the above Anything negative can be a threat to a marriage. These are among the big ones.

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Should I have divorce if I experience severe chronic pain and high depression for 8 years resulted from my wife's OCD (Obsessive Compulsive disorder) including hoarding & obsessive control (by my side 24 hrs)? There is s specific name for the kind of depression you are experiencing, the name is escaping me right now. The best treatment for depression is usually a combination of psychotherapy with (sometimes) antidepressant medication for a short or longer-term period. This means that both of you should be in treatment. There are many techniques that she can learn to deal with her anxiety disorder...

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Simple yes or no....man cheats on his wife of 27 years for 14 months so far, including while his wife was going through treatment for cancer. Does he love her? Probably

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My wife and I have been married 8 years. I cheated on her and decided to move out 7 weeks ago .We have been getting along great now.I would like to save the marriage and have asked her to see if we can she said shes not sure but wont give me a time frame When a marriage is rebuilt, it takes a LOT of time to do it. The average is two years if you are working on it. Right now, you have no right to demand anything like a time frame from her. It's her decision to make when she is prepared to make it. Chances are, she's waiting to see how long it is before you cheat again even though you say you want to save the marriage. I'd...

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Were or are you aware that one of your parents are/were cheating on the other? Not at the time. I'm aware now that both of my parents cheated.

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Why do married men cheat? And why do the wives often times except it? The vast majority of the time, people cheat because of something missing within themselves and/or within the marriage. People accept that someone cheated on them for a vast number of reasons. It may be abuse, low self-esteem, disabilities, financial, children, etc., etc., etc.

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Why do men lie. my husband left me for another woman he lives with her within walking distance from my house his car parked there every night i had no contact with him for 4 months until yesterday he told me he is living alone why is he still lying to me IN addition to lying being easier, there may be legal reasons attached to any divorce proceedings that he is doing this. Check with your attorney on that one.

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My wife has a friend she had an affair with 15 years ago and wants me to accept him as friend after finding out she has been talking to him and seeing him secretly after 15 years,she says she didn't tell me because i would be mad Not only is it not okay for her to ask you to be friends with him, it's not okay for her to remain friends with him.

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I helped a wife cheat on her husband, kissing only. Where does the responsibility lie? The responsibility for what? For her cheating? That's between her and her husband. She is responsible to him. As for you, you are the one who has to live with yourself, your morals and ethics, and forgive yourself or not.

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What advice can you give me about an affair between two married people? The feelings are strong... If they are serious, the best thing to do for all concerned is to set their relationship on the back burner and take care of their marriages, ie, divorce or whatever, before picking it back up.

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My sister's ex-husband cheated on her with a 13 and 16 year old girl (who knows who else!) They have three little girls together, he's in prison, getting out soon. Should he be aloud visitation with supervision? The judge is allowing this. Opinions? As long as it is supervised and supervised well, the children have a right to have a relationship with both parents. It's screwy, but it's the way the system works. Chances are, he'll either get tired of supervised visitation and stop showing up or he'll reoffend.

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My fiance loves to talk about history, especially World War II, and politics. The problem is I know nothing and when I try to learn something I cannot retain the information to hold a conversation. There's nothing wrong with his interests or yours. It's a matter of learning where the positive outlets for those interests are. My guess is that he has friends that he discusses these subjects with. I would also guess that you have friends that you discuss subjects that you have an interest in that he doesn't. If this is the case, he's one of two things, egotistic or dense....

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What keeps you motivated in life? For me, it is my finance and my daughters, and knowing that I may not be alive tomorrow to fix the bad choices that I make today. Keeping my late husband's memory alive for our grandchildren.

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I am thinking of becoming much more judgmental of other people and am looking for advice how how to go about it. Are there churches or clubs that really promote this? - Yes, maybe a little sarcasm here, maybe not. - As long as you stay in the "thinking of becoming" stage, you'll do fine and won't need any instruction.

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Is it something bad if i always give my bf (we have been going out 4 1/20) dinner hen he come 2 my house? If you are concerned that he will come to expect this every time he comes to your house and it may not be something he should expect every time, communicate that to him straight up. Guys don't get the whole beating around the bush communication. Just tell him that you enjoy serving dinner sometimes or most of the time, but it's not something you usually do a lot or regularly.

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My boyfriend is on a network site with models and photographers. He is just starting in photography and is communicating with women local/non local Most are naked on their profiles. He tells them how attractive they are. Should I just ignore this? If you don't mind his having cyber sex and/or online affairs, you can ignore it. Otherwise, it's not good.

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My boyfriend cannot accept my past, he's so egoistic, what should I do to make our relationship good? We always fight regarding that matter. It depends on how long you have been together and what your ages are. This is not a good sign, all in all, but it also will depend on what you mean by your "past."

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What gift are you going to give your favorite "Valentine"? The only thing I can give him, my heart forever.

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My sister came to help me move to new place and ever since she's been taking my car out without even letting me know. It's been getting really frustrating cause I need my car too and she's taking advantage of it just cause shes's older. What do I do? Get your car key back if she's not living with you. This is taking advantage of you all the way. Family helps family. If she expects to be "paid" for her help, ask her the price tag, but let her know that taking your car without permission is no longer going to happen.

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My man has alot of porn files on his computer.? my man has a lot of porn files on his computer he told me he don't masturbate to them he just watches them for entertainment. should i be worried? You should be worried IF porn is unacceptable or masturbating is unacceptable in your relationship.

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How does getting a ring for a woman usually work? Do they go together and pick one out, or does the man just get one and surprise her? My late husband and I took some diamonds that had been his late mother's to a jewelery designer. He designed all of our rings, my two and his one.

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Women: If it were 100% up to you, would you want your husband/boyfriend to be looking at porn? It is 100% not acceptable to me.

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Do you read to your significant other? Do they read to you? My late husband and I did both.

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What was the last thing you said to a loved one before they passed away? I regret that I did not get to say my goodbyes to my husband since his death in Nov. was so sudden. My last words to him were that they were coming. His last words to me were, "Help me."

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Are you scared of death?? Do you know where your going after you die? I used to be. I'm no longer afraid of it. It's simply another step in my life, a step that will take me to be with my love, my husband, once again.

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What happens in the after life? My life here was not the beginning of my life. When my life here ends, it will not be the end of my life. I will be with my darling husband once more.

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If by law you had to have a tombstone when you were buried, what would you ask to have written on it? I won't have one. I would like to have a bench, in the park that I love dearly, dedicated to myself and my husband. There are no options when that happens. It's simply dedicated to (names).

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Have you ever thought to yourself what day of the week you will die? How about the month or time of year (spring, summer, etc.) or the year itself? Any time except winter. My children plan to take my and my husband's remains to the city we loved dearly, go to the places that had meaning to us and/or to them with us, and sprinkle our ashes in each of those places. Winter would make travel more difficult.

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What color do you want your coffin to be? It doesn't matter since I'll be cremated.

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Would you ever marry a best friend (of the opposite sex) and have children with them because you had never found love and wanted to marry someone? I would never marry anyone who was not my best friend.

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What percentage of the people you know well who are married, are happily married? 50%

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Would you every marry someone who was in special ed? Special ed can mean something as simple as dysgraphia (a learning disability in math) or as serious as seriously neurologically impaired. For learning disabilities, the idea behind special ed is to retrain the person to learn the information in a different way. Most adults with learning disabilities have learned coping skills. You would have to be much more specific in your question if you mean...

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What porn moves your should never use in real life? rape

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Anyone: do you think some guys look at porn to reassure themselves about their sexuality, like maybe being gay or something? I think in some cases the answer is yes, in most it's no. In some cases, such as those where a man has erectile dysfunction and is trying to figure out what's wrong with him, the answer can be yes.

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Does the prospect of doing porn turn you on? No

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If money wasn't a problem, where would you want to go for your honeymoon? Money being a problem though, where do you go???:) Italy and Spain. A nearby nice hotel.

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What makes/made your wedding different from every traditional wedding? Or did you go the safe route with the same ol' same ol'? Our reception was a dinner cruise on a yacht we hired for the occasion.

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Why do woman and men pretend that they are happy in their marriages? Can you stay with a person when you have no love for them..What keeps you in your marriage? It's normal to have periods of time in a marriage when you don't feel "in love," butterflies, as sexually attracted, and/or like you love them enough to be married to them. The better question is what you are doing to get your marriage back.

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I'm getting married on 8/9/10.. when are/did you get married? 10/9/1999

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Did you ever look at pornography as a kid? I was forced to as part of the molestation at the hands of my step-father and his father.

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Do you love your husband or wife? With all my heart always.

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Would you remarry your partner? Yes, despite the times that were as good, I still learned from those. All of the good times and positive aspects of our marriage brought me the strength to be able to get through grieving him now.

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What would be a great song for the funeral of a loved one who was an inspiration to everyone! (Male, 55, theatre professor, mentor, funny guy, taught communtiy youth theatre, church chior, loves pretty music, has younger wife but no kids.) I'm sorry for your loss. My husband died on Nov. 20, 2008. His cousin once removed who has a wonderful career in the music industry sang "The Prayer." It was not the Celine Dione and Andrea Bocellli version, but that was the version that was played at our wedding during the signing of the documents. It seemed to fit to have it sung at his memorial service.

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What is the proper way to address a female minister and her husband- Mr. Dick and Rev. Betsy? If you were writing, that is how you would address them. If talking to them, address them in whatever way they are comfortable with, most likely the same way. If you are on a first name basis but she uses her title, Dick and Rev. Betsy. If you aren't on a first name basis, Mr. Smith and Rev. Smith.

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How to convey to wedding guests that you only want monetary gifts The only proper way to do this per wedding etiquette is to simply let the word get around. If you don't register, you're asking for trouble. Many people feel very strongly against giving a monetary gift. You're very likely to end up with a ton of picture frames and vases that you don't like or don't need. One of the best things to do in this case is to register at...

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If you were at movies & the doors were not open yet so you sat & waited in ticket area, the doors then open & you go rushing in, then they tell you that they were only letting management in, everybody else would go in 5 mins, would you be embarrased? No, I wouldn't. I would have made a simple error that would be easy to make given the circumstances.

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Is there anything wrong with giving a wedding gift prior to the actual wedding day? Absolutely nothing. In fact, you are doing everyone a favor by doing so. It offers the bride a chance to get some of those thank you cards out before the wedding... if she has time. It's much easier than the wedding couple trying to get all of their gifts home from the wedding, as well. The worst time and place to give a wedding gift is at the wedding.

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Ladies, have you ever had an accident while wearing a long skirt? A bit of a trip in my wedding dress, yes. Of course, it's caught of video. Walking in a long dress with a train, what fun!

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What makes guys melt? My husband melted whenever he interacted with our grandchildren.

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Would you say someone's third marriage has a better or worse chance of making it over their first or second marriage? Wcut's stats are correct. However, it also depends on the situation. If you were widowed the first and/or second time, it changes the stats to your favor.

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I am 12 and me and my boyfriend(yes i am gay) get teased loads. How can we make it stop? One thing to remember: You can't control what other people choose to do or say. You can control and choose your reactions to their choices.

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They say 1-5 people will have someone to kiss tonight on new years eve, will you? No, I won't.

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Should love be easy? Never

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Anyone tugging at your heart today? My darling, my love, my husband who died on Nov. 20th. He tugs on my heart everyday and has since we met ten years ago.

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Do you think watching porn is cheating? For me, yes. I have some very specific and good reasons for that. It isn't so for each person. It depends on the person whether it is or not.

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When was the last time you've been kissed so passionate by your husband/wife/gf/bf? The day before he died. That would have been on Nov. 19th.

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What was the longest amount of time you went without being intimate including sex, foreplay and kissing? My husband and I kissed the day he died, Nov. 20th. That's how long it's been

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Ok people my husband had astroke he is 47 and we have not have sex of any kind in like 6 months and iam starting to think about other men i know and use to do the bar thing with am i a bad wife I'm 46. My husband had erectile dysfunction and then had his prostate removed due to cancer. He then died, unexpectedly, on Nov. 20th. Between it all, it's been 3+ years since I've had sex. It's difficult. I can tell you that I would have regretted it to the utmost had I chosen to have an affair. I made a commitment to him. It did not stop me from thinking those thoughts. It...

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Typical answers for staying married -took a vow, because we are love, for the children, for the pets, ect. What are some of the more unusual reasons that people stay togather? One I've seen is that they are afraid no one else would want them; they'd be alone afterward.

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My wife is now 30 years old, the sexual prime years range. To her sex is not important, and she says she doesn't need it. It bothers me that she has no desire to have sex w/ me. What can I do, cause I don't want to stray and I love sex. 30 is an *average* age when sexual prime will begin for women. It is not always right on 30 for every woman. Some women don't hit that until they are in their 40's. It's also very likely that it's caused by what's happening in your lives and her life, stressors, etc. You need to remember that adding to her stress by communicating your concerns about this to her. If...

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My wife was talking to another man behind my back for at least 3 months, this was 5 months ago, she is pregnant now and I cant move past it. The problem is i have no closure, because she would not admit anything until i found more out, happened 5 times? Have a paternity test when the baby is born if that's what's bothering you. In the mean time, you'll have to make a choice to try to move past it or leave her. It is a choice.

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When you die and they are carting away your dead body, what color would you like your hearse to be? No hearse. I'll be cremated.

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What are you going to do between this life and the next? (if you believe in an after life or resurrection) Be with my husband

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What do you want to be remembered for? Being a good wife, good mother, and good grandmother; helping others; my writing

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Looking for a complete list of the symptoms of Bipolar Disorder? I put one together from 7 different medical encyclopedias/sources (and much research) as I find most places are incomplete. http://docs.google.com/Doc?id=dcp466nb_5dfxhtxfw&hl=en Nice list

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What is a symptom of Bipolar Disorder you experience that you don't usually share with people because you are embarrassed or feel they wouldn't understand? (Love and understanding from someone who has it) nightmares and over-sensitive sense of smell These two symptoms aren't listed when you read lists of symptoms, but they are less common symptoms that I have. People don't understand them at all. Many people think that they can relate to each of these. It's a matter of degrees.

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Anyone ever end up having a serious relationship with someone they met in a chat room? I met my late husband online in a chat room over ten years ago.

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There are a lot of question about "Can I date a 25 year-old I am 14" or whatever, and everyone says it's illegal. Isn't it only illegal if there's sex though? Yes, that's true. An assumption that may or may not be true is often made.

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Is something bothering you right now? Yes, the death of my husband.

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Have you ever felt like everything in your life is crumbling down and theres nothing you can do about it? Yes, I do now.

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When I met my girlfriend through another friend she told me that she had sex with several guys even with one of my friends. After we went for realtionship she has changed a lot for me but her past always reminding me and I become rude with her. You knew what you were getting into. It's unfair to her to let this hang on and on and on. If she has remained faithful to you, let it go. Either that or let her go if you're unable to do so. Let her find a life partner who will trust her. Without trust, your relationship is going no where fast.

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How long does the average funeral service last not including drive to burial site and burial? My husband's was about 1.5 hours. This included the minister and two family members giving the eulogies. For me, this was perfect. I had not been to one that was this long in the past. Most I've been to are about 30 minutes.

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Have you read any of Helen Kubler-Ross's books about death and dying? (See url for a bit about her and an interview) What do you think of her ideas? I read her books 20 years ago when I lost one of my twins. I need to read them again.

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Why does death follow in multipals? in my family if 1 person dies in it, 2-3 others follow. with no medical simularities. what could be the reason for this? I know how you feel. My father died in Feb. My grandmother died on Mother's Day. My husband died on Nov. 20th. I think that it is either coincidence or it can be that family members expect this, look for it, and may even advance a death because of it.

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What is the point of marriage? To have your relationship publicly acknowledged, to have legal rights, and to acknowledge morals of one or both partners.

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What if you found out your husband or wife was stealing money from you...would you be mad? Is that considered stealing? Legally, not in most states. Morally, that's up to the individual.

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Would you ever marry someone who already has children? I personally would never do that, just like those who want them. I'm 46 and a widow. I have five adult children and 8 grandchildren. I'm unlikely to marry again, but I would never marry someone who had children under the age of 18. I would also not marry someone who had adult children who were not accepting of me and our relationship.

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I'm an American that wants to marry a Mexican Best of luck

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Which marriage do you think has a higher rate of successfully forgiving & moving on...one in which the husband cheats or when the wife cheats? & Y? If it's a physical affair, a man is more likely to forgive. If it's am emotional affair, a woman is more likely to forgive. I think that the odds on both are around 50%, though. The gender of the person doesn't make too much of a difference.

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Why is most pornography aimed at a male audience? Males are the biggest consumer. Like any product on the market, it's aimed at the biggest consumer of the product.

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My best friends grandmother passed away. Do I address the sympathy card envelope to just my friend or to both her and her husband? I'd probably address it to the entire family and then do something just for her.

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Can you accept that one day, your life will end? Yes, I can. I used to fear it. I no longer do, a long, long time from now. I know that when I do, I'll once more be with the love of my life. I don't fear being with him.

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Do you think if someone is cremated there should be a service of some kind? Whether cremated or not, a service is for the living. I know that it seems to be more and more popular for people to request that there be no service. However, it's not about the person who's died at that point. Services don't have to be morbid. My husband's service had many moments of humor through the eulogy which was only right since that's part of who he was. We...

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Does anyone think cremation means the person that died isnt at peace ,cause he is ashes instead of being buried/ ~~~comments? Not at all. The body is only the shell that we have to walk around in during this lifetime. It isn't who they were. Their soul doesn't stay in their body.

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Cremation or embalming? Why? Cremation. I want my ashes to be sprinkled with my husband's in the places that we both loved. My children have asked if they can take both of our ashes and visit the places in the city that we loved that we had wonderful memories of. I think that's a wonderful plan. Those are only the shells of who we were, not our souls. I think it will bring them each some good memories and peace...

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Would you marry someone or rather stay unmarried for the rest of ur life??? Whats better for u? I've been married twice. I married the love of my life nine years ago. I would not have wanted to miss that for anything! I had the best ten years of my life with him. It wasn't perfect, but I learned from the not so great things, too. I'll look at those days as the days that he gave me many gifts. I lost him on Nov. 20th to a heart attack. I can't imagine remarrying at this...

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I will probably be visiting Vancouver in the next year or so. Can anyone recommend any other places to visit in the general vicinity? You might also think about Victoria.

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Are there any Americans who follow Canadian politics? With my being American and my late husband being Canadian, yes, we followed both country's politics. We are the true political junkies. He probably was more than I simply because he managed some provincial campaigns before we met. I don't think it does a lot of good to ask this question of most Americans or Canadians, however. The systems are so different that most don't...

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Do you like Canadians? Love them! Literally. My late husband was Canadian. I adore his family. I have wonderful friends there.

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Canada is good for.............? me.

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Does anyone here live in B.C Canada, if yes where? I live 5 miles south of there. Vancouver is the best city in the world. I'd live there if I could.

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Why is it that Canada is not taken seriously by the U.S? They aren't a threat to Canada. If there were more population, they may be taken more seriously.

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If there were a federal election tomorrow in Canada with Michael Ignatieff as Liberal leader and Stephen Harper as Conservative leader, who would win and who would you vote for? Harper on both accounts.

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When did Canada begin using liters for gas and kilometers for miles? It was a process that began in 1970. It took 11 years to finalize the process when gas finally became a metric unit.

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How come Canada can afford to have free health care but US can't? What most of my fellow countrymen don't understand is that, per capita, we in the US are already paying as much as Canadians are for healthcare. The difference is that it's only government employees and political officials who are receiving that health care. Why? Because of the difference in Canada having a one payor system. It's because of all the paperwork and levels that...

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What's the first thing that comes to mind for Winnipeg? unbearable cold and mosquitos

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Have you ever been to Canada? What is your impression of the country and Canadians? Yes, and I love it!

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Do you know who Stephen Harper is? Yes. I'm also an American. My late husband was Canadian. We were both political junkies. Between two countries, we thrived. BTW, my president has never been W. He just was the guy who cheated his way in and made a fool of himself. As of Jan. 20th, I won't have to be embarrassed about being an American any more.

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Are you anti organ donor? I'm an organ donor.

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To a live person what is missed then he/she declared dead? His being with me.

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If you believe in reincarnation, would cremation be appropriate? Yes, I do find it to be appropriate with that belief myself.

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Has anyone considered Resomation as an alternative too cremation? http://www.resomation.com/ I think it's a good alternative, much better in many ways. However, I don't think it's realistic to expect many to go for it. People tend to want something or someplace that they can go to to "visit" the shell/body of their loved ones.

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When is taking the grieving process too far? my dad died 1 yr ago in oct. and my step mom died 1 week after him. im very very hurt. i couldnt be there when they where sick or dieing, and its killing me. when does the pain stop? 2 questions in 1. With two deaths so close together, to expect your grieving to be over now is probably unrealistic. Two years is more realistic. However, everyone is different. It depends on how you process things, how emotional vs. logical you are, and a million other factors. Often, the second year is more difficult than the first year. I lost one of my twins 20 years ago and have been through the grief...

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What are the pamplets called handed out at funerals Programs

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Where do you think you will go when you die? To a better place. To a place where their purpose here is known to them. To a place where they can once again be with their loved ones who died before they did.

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How did/would you feel when your father died? Sad, upset, and relieved.

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If you could choose what music is played at your funeral, what would it be? Mine would be An American Trilogy by Elvis Presley "The Prayer"

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How does one have an "affair to remember"? Fall in love with your affair partner and leave your spouse.

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Are there any guys on here who married a VIRGIN?was it worth it?Would you warn a guy not to marry a virgin?Is she the best sex you've ever had(of course after a while)? My late husband told me once in a conversation that he would not have done so. He had a virgin one time. It was not great, and she turned into a stalker.

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What personality traits does your dream husband/wife have? What would they look like? The perfect man for me would be very, very similar to my late husband with a lot of money. I'm guessing remarriage is not in my future which is fine with me.

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How do you feel about polygamy? It's fine for childless couples who want to live this lifestyle. It's not for me.

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Did you love your engagement/wedding ring or were you disappointed? 100%! We had them made especially for us by one of the premier guys in Canada. The diamonds came from his late mother's wedding ring set. There is a ton of meaning in my rings.

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What should i do? im a mairried women but have an intrest in someone else. this other person likes me as much as i like them,but we live a little far away from eachother. iv tried to make my relationship with my husband work out but nothing seems to help Resolve your marriage one way or the other before looking elsewhere. Looking outside your marriage is not going to make your life better. Resolving your marriage and then moving forward is what will make your life better.

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Will i be forgiven by GOD for causing my ex-wife to divorce me for cheating on her, not once but 4 times? I plan on marrying the last person that i cheated on her with because i am truthfully in love with her.She makes me happy. Will i be forgiven? Can you forgive yourself? I don't think that you can receive forgiveness any other place until and unless you forgive yourself. You must also want to change the behavior or you'll simply repeat the behavior with your new wife regardless of whether she makes you happy or not.

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Do your facial expressions really tell how you feel? Yes, anyone can read my feelings.

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Is there an age difference between you and your love? My love was 17 years older than I am.

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If someone had cheated on you, would you get rid of them right away no questions asked? I didn't

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Who is worse, the person cheating on someone or the person who knows the other person is in a relationship and still does things with them? It depends entirely on each unique situation.

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How would you deal with a ex-wife, who dating several men. The problem is, after about a-week or two, she is introducing these men to our children, and letting them spend the night with them and her not knowing what these mens are capable of doing. Regardless of how much we want to protect our children, once we divorce, we give up the right to say what happens to our children when they are with the other parent. There are cases when a judge will order that this type of situation not occur. However, to go back to court after the fact does not bode well for a judge ordering her to not do so now. A judge may slap her hand, but most are...

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A developmental psychology professor of mine once said that divorce has such horrible consequences on children that parents should stay together and just live seperate lives. (Assuming their is no abuse) Do you agree? The most recent surveys that I have read show that kids do better if they stay together as long as there is no abuse. What those surveys also show is that the parents usually get to a point of getting along again later on. I think that that's what commitment is about, getting through the difficult times.

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Do you believe a liar will always be a liar? No, I don't.

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After a person turns Fifty are they too old for to fall in love? I was my husband's first marriage and first long term relationship. He was 54 when we met, 56 when we married. No, no one is too old to fall in love.

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Roses or chocolates? which would you prefer? I can't eat chocolate and am allergic to flowers. None of the above for me.

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Do you have someone that you just can't stop thinking about throughout your days? Always on your mind no matter what you do? I do... :o) Yes, I do.

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Can you name the person you love right now? just there first name I won't name him, but he's my late husband.

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Would you marry someone twice your age? My husband was 17 years older than I am, only one year younger than my mother and three years younger than my father. Someone twice my age would be 92. I'm not in that frame of mind, not looking for a sugar daddy.

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Do you ever wonder if your significant other is the right one? And if so why? Mine was. We had a great deal of love and commitment in our relationship. We came through some very difficult times. We were stronger on the other side of those difficulties. I don't think you can do that with someone who is not the right one.

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My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship and it's been getting hard lately. One thing that bothers me is when we talk on the phone he's ALWAYS doing something else. He gets so caught up in it there's just a complete silence. What do I do? Long distance relationships can work out. They only work out when both partners have a great deal of commitment to the other and to the relationship. It's normal to go through short periods of time like this. If it's been going on for a longer period, you might want to find a way to see him.

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Ladies which one would be more devertaing catching you b/f or husband cheating on you with another women or another man It would have made no difference to me at all.

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Women, what are the top 3 criteria for a man you would consider dating? Just for dating: 1) Intelligent 2) Good sense of humor 3) A gentleman For something more serious, that changes.

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Explain to me why a woman wouldnt like a man to make the plans and have a protective nature for his girl. Not overwhelming, just protective. I would love to take care of the girl that is mine, in every way. Why would that be a bad thing? The wording of your question brings the answer to it. "HIS girl," well, she isn't HIS. She belongs to herself. Now, my husband was every bit a gentleman, opening doors, seating me, etc. all the way through our marriage. I had zero problem with this. I did have a problem with him when he felt that he had to "protect" me to the point of denying me the decision for myself....

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Does your mother in law drive you crazy? I really wish I'd known her. Knowing my husband's family, I know that she and I would have gotten along very well.

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Do you think rebelling against your parents is really bad? It depends on the rebellion. If it's something that causes serious harm to yourself or others, yes, it is bad. If it's a milder form of rebellion, no, it's not.

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Is there anything that you did when you were young that you wish your sons and daughters will never do or will never have to do? Be in abusive relationships

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Was ur mother a bad mother? And if so why? would u for give her and move on? Yes. Too long of a story. I have.

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After cousin's wedding, bridal party went to hotel for reception but were still hungry so they went to McDonalds in bridal attire, someone plastered pics of them in McDonalds on e-mail headlined: Ghetto Wedding, Mcdonald's Reception, what would you think? I'd go along with the headline.

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Wedding cake always looks so yummy, but every one that I've had has not tasted yummy. Why is that? The main thing about our wedding cake was that it had to taste good. I ended up bringing it 600 miles from the bakery whose cakes I always liked to get the cake I wanted.

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How could I make my own wedding cake? Take a class on cake decorating.

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Would it bother you if you went to a wedding reception and you were not served wedding cake? No, it wouldn't... as long as no one else was being served cake, of course.

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What desert did you/do you want to have at your wedding? We had cake, 1/2 chocolate, 1/2 white with buttercream frosting.

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What flavor was your wedding cake and its frosting? Partly chocolate, partly white with buttercream frosting.

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Do you like this Wedding cake?...will post a pic in answers. What a fun cake! It would work well for the right couple.

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Who is the first person you are going to kiss in 2009? Probably one of my grandchildren, my children, my brother, or a cousin. There will be no romantic kisses for me this year.

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How do I get it through to my husband that the more that he cheats the more I can not trust him? And that he has to earn my trust I am not just going to give it to him, not after so many affairs.. You have given him permission to cheat repeatedly. If you don't leave him, if you react the same way each time, he knows exactly what the price to pay for an affair is. He has no long term consequences. Give him an ultimatum and stick to it. If he really loves you, he'll follow through with you, not the affair partner. Some of the ultimatum could be: 1. It stops now. 2. You go to...

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Wife talks to 3 of her exs, one of which she tells she loves. called her today and asked why she never answered my text, said she was talking to her boss on phone, i let it slide, but looked over the bill and it was the guy she "loves" should i be worried You should be worried because she's lying to you. The reason for that lie is highly suspect. If she says the "I love you"'s in front of you, not quite as suspect. If she used to say it in front of you and doesn't any longer, different story all together.

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If you had records of telephone calls between your marriage partner and someone you thought they were having an affair with, would you go to that other person's home to confront them and show your "evidence" to their spouse? Going to the other man or woman is pointless. It's revenge which accomplished nothing. Your issue is with your partner. She or he is the one who made the promise to you. She or he is the one you need to address and decide what to do about it with.

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If your spouse was not interested in sex w/ you anymore, but was not cheating, would you have an affair? No, I would not. I would want to know why there was no longer any interest, though.

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My sister in law buys gifts for my son -clothes, toys- as soon as I open them, she rips open the packages and takes everything out.Is she THAT excited about the 100 pack of socks, or is she trying to keep me from exchanging them for stuff I can use? LOL!! Maybe it's both!

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I went to apartment office to pay rent today,which have two door side by side,one door has a sign read,closed,return at 2pm,the other door closed as well,but I still knocked the other door and paid rent,later,I realize maybe it's rude,what do you think?tk Not in the rude column in my book.

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What was the worst gift you recieved for Christmas2008? My husband not being able to be here to share the day with me.

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Do you know any 'habitual thankers'... people that are always saying "thank you" to everything, no matter how small? I hang around Canadians. Of course, I do. :)

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This Christmas, a co-worker gave me a home made fruitcake. It was awful - burnt to a crisp on top and wax paper stuck to the sides and bottom. Should I give it back to her and explain that it was inedible, or just say nothing? Toss it. If she does ask, simply tell her it was wonderful that she went to the trouble. If she asks how it was, tell her that it was one of the more interesting fruitcakes you've ever been given. If she pushes the how was it, ask her for the recipe. You don't have to say you liked it if you go about it right.

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Do you think that the stereotypical roles in the household still apply? do you think men and women are equal when it comes to taking care of the house, cooking, raising children, financing etc etc? Stereotypical, not with us! Equal- yes, absolutely. However equal didn't mean that we both did half the dishes, half the lawn mowing, etc. Equal meant that we each did about half of whatever it was that needed to be done. I didn't normally pay the bills, but I did on occasion. He didn't normally file the household paperwork and put receipts in our spreadsheet, but he did on...

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Will you or your spouse walk out in the middle of an argument,or have you agreed not to do that? We agreed not to do that unless we said that we needed a time out. The person taking the time out would then tell the other when they'd be ready to talk about it again. This worked very well for us. We were both highly opinionated (thus both of us having been on AB). We both loved a good debate. Our arguments were very heated, but they were also usually very short in duration. Because of...

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If you are, or have been, married or in a long term relationship, do you ever find your spouse gets in the way a lot? No, he didn't. I think that if one partner feels this way, they should look at what's going on within themselves or within their marriage.

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My wife secretly trolls the internet for lesbian erotica. no pics or videos...just stories of girl-on-girl sex. Our sex life, after 10 yrs of marriage, is not so good. Do straight women dig lesbian sex stories, or might my wife be gay? It may be that she is gay or bi. However, don't discount her having a sexual addiction. Replacing sex with your spouse with whatever your addiction is is one of the signs of a sexual addiction. It doesn't have to be visual in order to be an addiction. Women are often more turned on with stories than pictures. Just a thought...

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How did you find out your spuse or S/O had cheated on you? What did you do? Are you still together? His computer. We rebuilt our marriage. He died a month ago. We were together.

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My friends wife told me she used to have a crush on me and she tells me about them not having sex all the time but she says she would not cheat on him but maybe she should. What should I do? Let your wife know what is going on. If you don't and this becomes known to her via other people, you're in a world of hurt.

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Is there a difference between regular discharge and sexual discharge minus the presence of semen that can be noticed in a womans underware from staining If you believe that a woman is cheating on you, there are kits that can be purchased to detect semen in their panties. It's not going to help a lot if a condom was used.

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I didn't attend a bridal shower-my husb's ex was attending after I was lied to and told she wasn't invited by host+bride(ex starts drama). I sent a gift. the host+bride are upset with me. Am I wrong 4 thinking they have no reason to be upset with me? I think that you should allow them to have their own drama. Step out of it. Don't worry about who's right and who's wrong. It doesn't matter. It's done. You did what was right for you. You were not rude as far as I can tell. Just know that brides and bridal parties tend to be emotional, etc. when planning a wedding and move forward.

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How tacky is it to hold a bridal shower at a restaurant and ask those attending to pay their own meals, is it acceptable to order appetizers and if guests want a full meal they can pay for it? Etiquette for weddings does provide this to be very rude. If you want to invite your guests to a bridal shower with appetizers, you can do so. If the guests choose to stay after the shower to eat, that would be their choice. However, eating a meal in front of others in the way you are describing here is extremely rude. My suggestion would be to invite your guests to join you for appetizers and...

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Can u describe your dream wedding? It was the wedding I had. We were married with the people we love around us. We were married in the place of our choice, in the church of our choice. Our reception was then held on a yacht. It was wonderful!!

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If you could get married anywhere in the world, where would it be? Vancouver, BC

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When getting married, is a wedding ceremony really that important to you, as opposed to simply saying "I love you" to the person in private and living happily ever after? Personally, a wedding ceremony in front of family and friends was important to both of us. For me, it was my second wedding. I wanted my family to have the opportunity to see that I wasn't screwing up with another abuser this time. For him, he was 56 years old, and it was his first marriage. He was very close to his family. He wanted very much to have them there. For both of us, a public...

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Is it a bad idea to wear sexy lingerie under a wedding dress? Bustiers are traditional under a wedding dress. There's no good reason to not wear one that's sexy. The color should match the color of the dress.

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How many bridesmaids / groomsmen did you have at your wedding? I had a maid of honor and he had a best man. 0 bridesmaids and 0 groomsmen.

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How do you make up for cheating? You don't make up for it. It changes everything in both partners and their relationship. They can each choose to rebuild the relationship or not. If they do, it will never be the same.

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Why is it that society is becoming more and more okay with adultery? You see it all the time. Nobody thinks anything of it anymore!!! There are even sites on the web designed for this kind of act!! What is the world coming to!!? I think that people are probably just more aware of it due to technology. I don't think that it's becoming something morally justified in our society.

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If you had it to do over again, would you marry your spouse? Yes, absolutely!

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What is the best thing you like your spouse to do that tells you they love you but they don't use those 3 words? His melt me kisses and the cards he would choose for me for special occasions and holidays.

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What is the age gap between you and your significant other? He was 17 years older than me.

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I live in new york.but my wife lives in ky she did file divorce and she is asking for alimony.matter of fact we have been married for almost five years and she did work almost three years of this marriege can she get alimony?thanks In most jurisdictions, there is an unspoken standard for alimony. Usually, five years wouldn't cut it. This is a question you should ask your attorney due to it being jurisdictional more than a state standard.

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If God is so good and loving, why does He allow evil? Does God allow that or do people choose that? In my book, God gives us choices to make on our life's path. It's up to each of us what we do with those choices.

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At what age did you establish, 'there is a God'? I can recall knowing this as a very young child, perhaps 3 or 4. I revisited my belief again in my 20's and 30's. Now, in my 40's, I will never fully establish in what I have way a higher power since my path is ever evolving.

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Ladies: what first thing you checked on men? Height Eyes Smile Laugh Dress style Non-verbal communication Personality

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Do women prefer jerks? I got rid of my first husband and stayed with my second. My first was a jerk. My second was anything but a jerk. If a woman is choosing jerks, she needs to look within herself to see why she is choosing the men she is choosing.

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Why don't woman today respect their husbands? This happens in *some* cases due to media, example, and misunderstanding. Respect means different things to different people. If a person has a partner who they believe is disrespecting them, they need to think about why they feel that way, what is happening or not happening to make them feel that way. They then need to, respectfully, present that information to their partner. For me, I do...

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Would it make sense for a man to propose to his girlfriend with only HIS immediate family present at the dinner? If she was close to his family, it would make sense. It might be better to let his mother or father in on it and get an invitation for her family to be present, as well, or take both sets of parents out to dinner with the two of you.

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We 43/37.Kids 11/5. Married for 13 years. In a gathering a guy stares her, she would start exchanging glances and looking away and looking again.Admits to it says she has no intention and sorry.Happened earlier too. Admits kissing a guy in car see a LMF? She might want to see a therapist on her own prior to marriage counseling. It's often a good idea.

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Three words you would say to God what are they? Guide me, Mother/Father/God.

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I believe in a God, do you? I believe in Mother/Father/God. I attend a new thought church which is not a religion, rather it is a way of finding your own way to your higher power within yourself.

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If you were planning on proposing to girlfriend would you tell your parents and siblings about it beforehand or would you just invite everybody out to dinner with your girlfriend and do it at dinner? Is this proper? My brother-in-law proposed in front of his prospective in-laws a year ago Thanksgiving. It was very romantic!! It showed me how sure he was of my sister and their relationship. Go for it without telling if you are sure of her.

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Does anyone think that marriage was better in the fifties compared to now and why? I don't think so either. The only difference in the 50's is that women were just starting to have some independence. Women were just starting to make the call on whether a divorce happened or not. As such, there were fewer divorces. That does not signify a difference in the number of good vs. bad marriages.

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What basic daily things can I do to strengthen my marriage? I can tell you the things I don't regret: Mutual respect Spending one day on every weekend just doing things with one another even if it means kids will be along, things where you can really connect and talk like board games, going to the park, going bowling, silly things like that. Sunday night dinner together Date nights Kissing at least once a day, if not more Taking...

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How long does the OW just wait around for a MM to leave his wife and kids? Wouldn't she have a clue after almost 3 yrs that she is just his side dish and not worth all that he might tell her she means to him? It depends on the OW. Some stick around for 20 years, happy with what they get. Some are believing lies that the MM tells her about things like when the kids leave home, when the wife isn't sick any more, my career isn't where it needs to be quite yet and I can't afford it until it is, etc.

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I am a LDS. I have had most of my questions about god answered except for one. Who made God? From a LDS point of view, every man who achieves certain things in their lifetime will eventually become a God. Therefore, it stands to reason that God was once man according to the LDS point of view. However, that was information I retained from many, many years ago when I was hog-tied and forced to go to that church. Check with your bishop.

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Do you think about a loved one alot who passed away a long time ago? One of my twins.

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What is your bigesst regret in life? Not having had the opportunity to tell my husband I love him just before he died.

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When you go see a therapist about your problems, do you really think it makes that individual feel any better than before? It depends on the therapist's abilities and the connection between the therapist and patient. For me, it has.

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Is self confidence genetic, or learned? Non -shy people think it can be fixed, but let me tell you as shy, unconfident person; thats a lie; it FEELS pretty unchangeable to many. Im a fan of genetic determainism btw. It depends on the kind of thing you are talking about. If it is caused by a physical thing, ie, anything on the autism spectrum, anxiety disorders, mental illness, etc., it is more likely to have a possible component of genetic. If it is simply being shy, it can be either. IME, it's more likely to be learned via the way the child has been treated at home and/or other places. However, this...

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Should I tell my husband I was molested by my father throughout my childhood? If you trust him, yes, you should. The fact that you are questioning it here would bring doubt to my mind about whether you should or not. Regardless of whether you tell him or not, I would urge you to get into therapy to deal with this. I walked in your shoes. I went through two years of intense therapy to deal with what happened to me. It's probably one of the best gifts I could have...

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Has anyone here ever lost perception of time? What causes this? I have had no perception of time for the last month, since my husband died. I don't know what day it is, what day things happened on, what order things happened in, and, unless I look or can see it being light or dark outdoors, know what time of day or night it is. I would assume extreme grief and stress are causing this.

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If your dinner isnt cooked properly when you go out to eat, what do you do? I send it back. If they bring it back with only that one thing on the plate having been made fresh and the rest cold, then I send it back again. I have gone as far as having a discussion with the manager in some cases.

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Do you prefer lots of company as you get older or being by yourself more? yes, both at different times

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Will you describe your last kiss? Melt me loving

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Can i be in love with more than one person? You can never love one person the same as you loved another. Does that mean you can't love more than one person enough to marry them, to be in love with them, I think that depends on the people involved. I would not count it out as being impossible.

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How long do you think a widow should wait before she dates another man? Are kids and the years spent together make a difference in the wait time? I'm in this position, being a widow. I am doing what I need to do for me. I could care less what others think of what I do and when I do it. I would feel the same no matter what the circumstances were. I have known those who have remarried within a few months of the death of a spouse. I have known those who never date or remarry. I don't know what I will do as time passes. I do know...

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Do you have a strong feeling of how you will die? What is it? I have a strong feeling that I will have a major illness, most likely cancer, that will bring about my death.

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Sometimes, I will stop and walk around a cemetery. If you visit a cemetery, what is your reason behind it? Two reasons- 1. Genealogical 2. Sometimes it brings me peace. Odd, perhaps, but true for me.

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How many people have you seen die? My husband if you count the heart attack that I witnessed which did cause his death. They did try to resuscitate him for an hour with no luck.

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What's the worst thing a person can say to someone who has just lost a loved one? When my husband died, the worst thing that was said to me was that I would marry again. Then the rude man had the nerve to push a man on me within two weeks of my husband's death.

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How do people who have lost a child in death survive the grief? I don't think I would be able to go on if something like that happened to me. How does one cope? 20 years ago, I lost one of my twins. Knowing the steps of grief, knowing what I was going through was all normal helped me on that path. Finding support from others who had walked in my shoes helped. Writing helped, both journaling and poetry. When I was able to, helping others through the same pain helped me, as well. It is a great pain that can never be explained in words. It is a different...

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Why does early death scare people so much? Until recently, this scared me. It's a fear of the unknown. You hear stories of near-death experiences, but no one really knows what's beyond that door. I'm no longer scared. It brings me comfort in my faith that my husband will be waiting for me there, where ever there is.

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Have you ever lost someone that you thought you could never get through life without? My husband

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If you have lost an s/o to death, how did you cope? I'm still trying to cope. It's only been a month for me since my husband died.

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If you were dying, would you want the option of hastening the process so you wouldn't suffer? yes, i would

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Is love enough to marry someone if the sex is terrible? I wouldn't worry about marrying him until and unless I had spent a long period of time and the sex was not improved. I would be open in communicating about what was going on from my side. If he had a physical problem, not lasting long enough, I would want him to talk to a doctor. I would probably go the whole nine yards. It would be a good "test" of what marriage would bring with...

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Women, would you be insulted if your future husband wanted to keep a furnished condo that you didn't have keys to? He believes you both should keep your independence. He would probably have no longer been my future husband. Independence is one thing, non-commitment is another.

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Your husband promised to stop watching prono and visiting adult websites when you started dating years ago. You find out that he has been at live video chat websites, chatting, and saving pictures and video, what would you do? How would you confront him? I would not have been able to contain my anger. I would have had to leave, had this situation occurred, unless and until he had been in therapy for a long period of time.

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Does anyone have a husband who has overcome a pornograpy addiction? Yes, I did.

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Is it really a bad habit to look at porn everything? I have a habit of looking at it, esp. interracial porn. I love it. Is it a bad habit to look at it everyday? I have heard from many therapists that "bad habit" often equals "addiction."

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If you knew someone was cheating on their spouse, would you tell? What if the person being cheated on was your husband's cousin and it was her husband who was cheating on her? They have 2 kids and she's pregnant with their third right now. No, I would not.

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Does the law of karma affect the law of attraction? Yes

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How do you create good karma? By making good choices for yourself and your life's path. This does not only extend to you as an individual. It extends to what choices others make that affect you. You then have a choice in how to react. Those choices affect everything in your life.

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Do you think it`s okay for Christians to believe in Karma? Yes

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What is your take on fate,destiny and Karma? I believe, and have since I was a child, that we are predestined to have a path to follow, a journey to take, in our lifetime. We can and will make choices along that path in which we can determine our fate. I still believe it's fate in that we always make choices that determine which way our path goes. Not sure if I explained that right, but there you are.

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Are you still singing, even after the music stops? yep

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Have you ever noticed that the people on the corner with the "Hungry, will work for food" signs are never there in inclimate weather or during 2nd and 3rd shifts? and wearing better shoes, watches, etc. than most homeless people can afford.

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What does L.O.V.E really mean? I agree that it means different things to different people. However, I also think that it's immature to believe that it's caring about another person more than yourself. A mature love is a giving of oneself out of a freedom to do so. It is not a giving up of oneself, however. It is a friendship that is deeper than any other. It is a desire to be lovers. It is a desire to be with that...

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Do it feels like christmas this year to you? Not the one I've had. I have to learn a new version of Christmas since my husband, Mr. Christmas himself, has died. I don't know what Christmas "feels" like any more.

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Have you ever spent days on end crying..every waking minute? Whats the longest you've cried for? One month ago, the day my husband died. I think I cried pretty much for about 38 hours straight before my body gave up and made me sleep. I cry every day and will for some time.

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Do you feel you have the strength, courage & wisdom to endure and overcome all obstacles in your path? My affirmations tell me I do. For now, that's what I'm going with.

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If you knew that it was the last time you would ever spend with the person you loved, how would you spend that time and where? I wouldn't care. I didn't get to tell him goodbye. He didn't get to tell me goodbye. Just that opportunity alone would have been enough no matter where it was.

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Is your town or city famous for anything? If so what is it? Largest producer of powdered milk in North America. See how great it smells here?

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Do your facial expressions really tell how you feel? Yes, people can read me like a book.

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Want to know what the cards say today for you? yes

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Pick a number from 1 to 40, I will shuffle the deck for you and pick the number you have chosen, see what the angels say today! 27

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If I would want to live in another country for a year or two and then move back home to the US, what would the requirements be to make the move to that country? The requirement would be that I could live there permanently. It would be Canada.

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Is it hard work being a celebrity? I've heard so many stories from my husband who did walk beside those shoes (as a manager for talent). It certainly is. You have to work very hard at building and keeping your ego at a level that it needs to be at to stay in the position that you're in, and that's just a beginning.

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How did you meet you husband/wife? We were two people in a chat place with hundreds of rooms and thousands of people. I said, "Hi." We were married 1.5 years later.

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As a married couple, have you ever been approached by another couple to see if you were interested in Swinging or Wife Swapping? Yes

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Guys, can you feel it when a girl orgasms while your inside her? According to one man I know, it depends on the woman.

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Do you consider e mails inpersonnel No, I don't. However, being a writer, I find that I express myself very well that way.

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Have you ever felt like there was not someone for you out in the world? He's in the netherworld, not this world. I'll see him again someday a long time from now. Since he was the love of my life, I do not see there being someone in this world for me beyond a deep friendship.

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Why does it hurt sometimes when your husband talks about other girls in his past life? (he didn't bring this up, the woman did) It never bothered me when my husband did. He was 54 years old before we got married. This meant he had a lot of life before he met me. I was the one he chose to marry. This was not a threat to me. I think that some women find it a threat.

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Have you ever wondered why people that are very good at what they do, or are trying to change the world or somthing always ends up dying?(like bob marley, tupac, huey, martin luther king, etc.) It's kinda werid isnt it? No weirdness involved. Everyone dyes. It sometimes seems that the good ones die too early, like my husband. However, many of the publicly good ones, like my husband, put themselves in harm's way and/or are under much more stress, etc. than most people so it's understandable.

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Is the sex better when you are in a long distance relationship? I didn't think it was "better." I thought it was more intense and more appreciated.

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Would you pay over $200 to travel to see someone if you weren't interested in something more than a friendship? If I had the money and had the money to stay in a hotel and rent a car so I was not dependent upon that person the first time I met them, yes, I would.

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What would my moms cousin be to me? Because it doesnt make sense that it would be my second cousin because my second cousin would be MY cousins kid. ........

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Do you have a good relationship with your ex-spouce? Me and my first wife divorced nearly 29 years ago and we didnt talk for a long time. Finally after years of cold war we made up and are now good friends. Anyone else close to an ex? Nope and never will. Our marriage ended 12 years ago. Our children have all been adults since the last one turned 18 2.5 years ago. Nothing has changed. He was severely abusive. I have no interest in being his friend or even talking to him.

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Does marriage & kids scare you? Not one bit. I will never marry again so no fear there. My kids are adults so no fear there, either.

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Why is it when men cheat we are supposed to forgive them except their apology and move on. But when women cheat there is no forgiveness why is that so? Men are more likely to forgive an emotional affair. Women are more likely to forgive a one night stand. Mars vs. Venus.

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Do you think you are a loving person? Yes, I do.

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If you had to live in any state other than the one that you now live in, which would you choose? It would actually be another country, BC, Canada.

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Any one in need of a christmas hug and some cheer? Yes, although it's not about Christmas for me. I wish I could skip it this year.

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Does infidelity inevitably ruin a relationship? These questions here always interest me since the majority of the answers are that it will. However, stats show that 50% of marriages with infidelity will remain intact. For my husband and I, it did not ruin our relationship. It changed it, that's inevitable upon discovery. However, through hard work, time, and commitment, it did not ruin ours. The last year was the best our marriage...

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Why do some people stay with their cheating spouse eventhough they continue to cheat on them? You have some good answers. I would add disabilities and age to the list.

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What's the most common reasons a wife cheats? Quite simple- 80% of the time it's due to something missing within the marriage or within herself.

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I have been married for 18 years & recently found out my wife has been having a affair for the last 6years.We have a daughter we adopted 4 years ago who i love very much,we are both in therapy now.They say we are not even ready for marriage counsling.help There's no need for yet another therapist. You already have two. They are in agreement that it's not time for marriage counseling. Many times, it's better to have individual counseling before moving into marriage counseling. This is quite normal.

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My wife had dinner with an ex tonight but didnt tell me about it until after the fact, but she told me, which kind of makes me trust her, should i be worried? The ex lives in another state and was visiting.... You say you trust her, but you are questioning that trust. People usually question their trust for another for a reason. It sounds as though she has, at the very least, not told you the truth 100%. Perhaps talking to her about it on that level, not a "you had an affair" level would be more helpful.

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My mate says he loves his wife and feel guilty, but has cheated on her over 30 times with a colleague. its always premeditated on his part. he confuses me as i cant see how he CAN love his wife yet carry on like this for over a year!!!! Most people who have affairs still love their spouse if they are asked. It's usually something within their marriage or within themselves that brings them to making poor choices. As for your part in it, I'd suggest telling him that you don't want to hear about it again.

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When your married, should you give your husband space to himself to do the things he wants to do, such as drinking, socializing with other peers? It depends on the couple. Each partner must decide for themselves what's a deal-breaker. If both partners can't agree, they must then decide on a way to compromise or else the marriage is doomed.

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Did you ever betray your partner with another man/woman. Did they forgive you for destroying their dreams? Would you forgive if the situation was reversed? In my first marriage, my husband had serial affairs and was severely abusive. I did have an emotional affair upon parting from him, thank God. In my second marriage, he had an emotional affair. He did ruin my fairy tale. It took time, but I did forgive him... for myself since that's who forgiveness is for, one's self to move forward and be healthy. The last year of our marriage...

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How many (if any) millionaires do you personally know? family members- two friends- 1 acquaintances- about 17

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Everything is beautiful in it's own way, what is beautiful to you? My grandchildren, pictures and videos of my husband, and listening to my husband's voice on the songs he released.

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In what way have you become a statistic? Being a widow at the age of 46.

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What do you want to get back into? Life, knowing what my life is. It must be totally redefined now.

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Girls emotional guy or no Able to be both where the occasion calls for it.

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Do you believe more in soul mates or in love at first sight (or both)? My darling husband was my soul mate and still is surrounding me and inside of my soul and memory, as I believe that he always will be. We said we loved one another after our first meeting online that lasted hour upon hour. One month later, we met and were in love. Two days later, we were engaged. After over ten years with him, I believe in both since I have married the love of my life, and he...

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Can you share a picture of your spouse? It's the pic already shown here. He was only about 18 at the time.

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Write three concepts that you consider you have learned in life. balancing what my heart vs. my head tells me follow my dreams. They may change and evolve but follow them none-the-less. marry your best friend who may not necessarily be the "hot" guy. He will be the perfect man in the end.

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What is the age gap between you and your significant other? We were 17 years apart in age with him being older. At 63, he died last month. I am a widow at 46.

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Do you have any relatives on Facebook or Myspace? Many

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What does " i have to listen to my heart and not my head" mean? It means that they are using emotion, not logic.

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How long has it been since you last, you know (wink, wink)? About three years

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What would you do if you find out that your boyfriend/husband cheated on you with your best friend?who would you blame? personally i think both. It depends. If you are looking to rebuild your marriage, the only person responsible to you is your husband. Your friend should have had some loyalty to you, but she is not the person who made a vow to you if you are married.

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How do you find the relationship atfer three years of marriage? At the end of three years, my late husband and I had a pretty good marriage. We began to have problems at the end of four years, but those were resolved and strengthened our relationship considerably later on.

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Can you meet someone and in one month know you want to marry this person? My late husband and I did. We had ten wonderful years together for it. I would never change that.

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How would you describe your marriage in one word? It was perfect. That is the one word I would use. We went through some of the most difficult things that a couple can go through and came out stronger, happier, and closer for it. I use the past tense because the love of my life died on 10-20-08.

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When you get to heaven,what would you like to see? My husband who died less than a month ago.

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If you could go to "heaven" right now, would you? ( no coming back...) Right now, that's an extremely difficult question for me. My husband just died on Nov. 20th. Do I want ever so much to be with him? Yes, I do. Is now the time? It appears that it's probably not. If I had a choice? I simply could not make that choice right now.

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Do you feel better when you cry alone? Or in someone's arms? In my darling husband's arms only he died on Nov. 20, 2008 so I can do so no longer

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What are the chances of staying married to your high school sweetheart. im 18 and engaged to a guy i've been with since 11th grade. when we get married do yall think we will stay married. Not as good as if you wait for a few years to marry.

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I want to leave my boyfriend of 7 yrs because im unhappy, and just not in love anymore. The biggest problem is we have 3 kids. He says if i leave they have to stay and i can come see them when i want. its a long story but he says im being se Your boyfriend does not have that kind of control. Until and unless a court order is put in place to state who has custody, both of you have equal rights to the children. In other words, if you want to get up and move to another state or even another country, there is nothing he can do to stop you if you leave when he is gone. Now, if you want to get custody, this is not a wise idea. Also, if...

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Why do some people think that love doesnt exist? Bad experience(s)

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What changes legally when you get married? Like school loans, auto loans & ins., health ins., taxes, besides the basic name change. My fiance and I are considering getting married "on paper" allowing him to move up to where I live - advice please! It depends on where you live.

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What advice should I give to my little boy who is being bullied around at school? There are two sites you should visit to learn more about bullying: http://www.stopbullyingnow.hrsa.gov/ http://www.stopbullyingnow.com/

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My son is always on his best behavior when he visits his father, and admits that he is "always good for daddy"....but when he is with me he is constantly pushing the limits and getting into trouble...HELP! This is a positive thing for you in one way. It means that he feels very comfortable and safe with you. Just like when a child is visiting any house other than "home," they will behave better.

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How would you react if you had a young son (school-age, still dependent on you) who wanted to wear clothes designed for girls? Would you react the same way if you had a daughter who wanted to wear clothes designed for boys? My youngest son loved getting into his sister's closet and wearing her clothes when he was a pre-schooler to grade one. I wasn't the one who was objecting. My daughter was! However, he continued to wear make-up and nail polish. As long as it wasn't permanent like a piercing or tat when he was living at home, it was up to him. Had he wanted to do so when he was older, I would have...

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In relation to my other question about my girl and her kids, christmas is coming up and i want to get them christmas presents but i dont want to look as if im buying them?? HELP Buying online is a good option. If you are looking to buy as you see things, it depends on how old they are. If they are old enough to stay in the car on their own, you can tell them that you forgot something and have to run back in. If not, you can simply get out a notebook and write down what it is, where it is, and how much it is. When you do get ready to go shopping or are on your own for a...

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HELP! my 7 year old daughter doesnt get along with my new partner, i have a son age 3 who gets along with him very well, its causing tension between us. he really tries to get on with her, reading bedtime stories,going to the park, It takes one to two years for a family to adjust to a new family member whether this is a new baby or a new partner or whatever. Give it time. You should spend time with her one on one. She probably feels as though he is "taking you away from her" in a sense. It isn't just about his relationship with her.

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Does the engagement ring usually cost more than the wedding ring? It depends on the set. Most of the time, this is true, but it's not true 100% of the time. My engagement ring was assessed at $2000 and wedding ring at $3000. This was due to using platinum as the metal. The wedding ring has more metal. The engagement ring has more diamonds. The larger diamonds are in my wedding ring, though. For us, it was the cost of the metal, though. We already had the...

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What are typical wedding colors besides white? Any color you wish. Some brides are doing black. It's really up to you and what YOU like!!

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IS THE BRIDES SISTER THE FLOWER GIRL? There is no reason for you to not have two flower girls! Let them share the honor!! :)

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Would you marry someone that you didn't really love if you were lonely and thought you'd never find someone better? I know a couple who did this. They are now in their 60s. They are the most miserable couple I know. I would not do so!

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A neighbor's husband, who doesn't interest me, seems to be interested in me despite my keeping distant. Any advice? Stay away, stay far, far away. If he continues with this behavior, offer to let his wife know about his behavior if it continues. DO let your husband know!!

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Why does my husband fight with me.when my son was born till he was 18 months he made me stay at home.other than that i have worked not for as much as him though. but i have always done everthing for him get his cloths ready make food and clean the house. He is controlling. Most people that are that controlling are being psychologically and/or verbally abusive. You have a right to do as you wish. He has NO right to demand these actions from you.

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Why is it so bad when you say your boyfriend/husband doesnt like porn? Has it became a law for all men to watch it or something? Much of society sees acceptance of porn as a social norm. When others don't follow a social norm, they become uncomfortable. This is not much different than the reaction that an adult will get if they say that they never got drunk or smoked pot when they were a teen. People often believe that the other person's experiences somehow lessen their view of themselves due to some bit of...

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How do u get past the hurt after an affair. I'm trying to help a friend who's husband had a long term affair and decided to end it and stay in the marriage. First and foremost, take yourself out of this!!!!!!! You can not help other than to be there to listen. Advising either or both of them is a really, really, really, SUPER bad idea!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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What about long term affairs that lasted for years. When a husband cheats long term and his wife finds out, can they work out their marriage. Can she trust again. Does he actually get over the other woman. It can happen. It happened for us. It's up to what you want and what he wants.

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What about long term affairs. If a wife decides to stay with wayward spouse what are the chances of working things out. About 50% of marriages are put back together after an affair. Your chances are about the same as they were before the affair of your marriage not being one of the divorce statistics.

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My therapist has said I should confront my husband about his emotional infidelity. Should I? If you are uncomfortable doing this on your own, you could invite your husband to a session with you and do so there. I would simply advise you to each take your own cars.

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My boyfriend wants a open relationship, would this be healthy? It isn't for most people and wouldn't be for me. Put aside what your boyfriend wants. What do YOU want???

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I have an hr. away relationship & since we've been together i haven't seen him. & he hardly talks to me. im not used to this loose of a relationship and i donno what to do. i dont wanna annoy him but i question if he loves me or even cares...help? It doesn't sound like a real "relationship" to me. It sounds more like casual, occasional dating with no commitment.

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Which do you think is worse: physical abuse or verbal abuse? As bad as the physical abuse was, the verbal abuse is what I still fight even 12 years after I got rid of my ex and, also, from my childhood.

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My husband is verbally and emotionally abusive to me will he become physically abusive to me soon? Absolutely very likely. Please leave NOW!!

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My husband is moving out, and wants my son to visit him at his new place. Do I have any say about the people he exposes to him? His new girlfriend, the woman he cheated on me with, is someone I feel should not be around my son...what can I do? You should visit with an attorney. In the circumstances you are describing in your question and comments, it's going to depend a lot on case law and your jurisdiction. In some places, you can have a temporary court order state that he can not have the woman over overnight when the baby is there, in some this is not true. Also, in some places, breastfeeding may make a difference, in others...

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I'm trying to get a divorce from my husband, but it cost to much money. Do any one have any advice on how I can get it done cheaper. We been separted since 2002. If you can't afford to file, most states offer a form that you can fill out to give to the judge along with the self-filled forms for the divorce itself. The judge reviews it and will sign it or not. Try googling your state, county, and "divorce forms." That will usually take you to where you need to go to download the forms. If not, you can go to the courthouse and ask.

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Im in the middle of a divorce. my husband, mother n law and my names are all on the deed mother n law only holds the mortgage. can she evict me and my children out of our home All of you are in ownership by virtue of your names being on the deed. The mortgage is simply the loan to pay for the home, not ownership. I would not vacate without seeing an attorney.

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Why do women always win divorce cases? How could a man win? NO ONE WINS!!!! This is especially true when children are involved.

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What are the worst things that a single mother has to cope with? Daycare

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I am have been seeing my Girl for a wee while now and she has three kids,,11,8,6, how do i make them know that i am here to stay in such a way that will make it a smooth transition from no dad to me then being in their lives? Some things that worked well for us were my husband not trying to be a parent to them since that would have simply brought anger, not being the main disciplinarian since you are not the parent, treating me better than they had ever seen me treated since that brought about a greater respect for both him and me, and being there for them. The latter was, perhaps, the most important. He was there...

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Is it a parents worst fear that their kids will discovered that they have a mind and a will of their own? As a mother of five adult children, I can answer this with a resounding yes and no. :) I didn't want them to when they were young since I knew it would mean the beginning of their "separation" from me to become an adult, making their own decisions, etc. As they got older, I was more and more anxious for them to figure it out. My oldest is now 27. I'm still waiting for them...

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I believe my husband was in an emotional affair with an engaged woman at his job which was conducted by cell phone. the women was laid off now she is back. my husband is on vacation and is not aware she is back. They claim to be brother&sister in christ. They are doing it because they made some seriously bad choices. I don't know about your God, but my God does not condone this behavior outside of marriage. I'd recommend that you pop over to ivillage.com which has a message board called Cyber-Cheating & Emotional Affairs for the opportunity to more fully ask this question and get some really great answers and support.

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How can me and my husband become happy with each other again? Marriages can be rebuilt, but it takes a commitment on the part of both of you to do so. It may take some counseling to figure it out, as well.

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My husband recently found out that I have been having an affair off and on during our entire relationship, 5 years. He wants to know why I did it, but I honestly don't know. My husband is a great guy. I wasn't lacking anything at hom The two biggest things that cause an affair are something missing within the marriage or something missing within yourself. If you honestly don't believe that there was anything missing in your marriage, you may need to look within yourself for the answer to this. This often necessitates a counselor.

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Are there things that you and your partner were NOT prepared to give up in the marriage? YES, we will not give up who we are, our individuality, and never will.

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If within a marriage one partner denies the other sex (just because they are angry), can they morally still demand that the other refrain from seeking sex outside marriage? Of course they can. If there is an issue with sex, use common sense, kindness and positive communication and understanding to work it out. It's a stupid reason to have an affair.

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Be honest. Do you ever watch pornography? I don't but it doesn't bother me in the least if others do. No, I do not. I do not think it's okay. I have extremely valid reasons for this.

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How does a husband maintain a loving intimate relationship with his wife and continue an affair? Where is the guilt he should be feeling? Some men are cake eaters. They simply want to keep both things going and get the best of both worlds. It is far from uncommon for a person's sex drive to increase when they are having an affair, too.

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Would you be able to cheat on ur husband/wife even if he/she permitted? I think that it is cheating, not an open marriage, if only one partner is doing this. BTDT and would never, ever do so! I have to live with ME.

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What would be more difficult for you to forgive your partner cheating on you with a complete stranger or cheating on you with your best friend or a close family member One of the many women that my ex cheated on me with was my best friend. She even testified against me in the divorce trial. Her testimony was stricken and held no weight, but it hurt, none-the-less. I'm also aware that my ex most likely cheated on me with one of my sisters. I don't want to know for certain since it's unnecessary at this point in time. He cheated on me with way...

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Is 'it's what boys do' a legitimate excuse as to why men have affairs? Absolutely not!

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Why do so many marriages end in divorce now compared to 50 years ago? Actually, right now, divorce rates are the lowest they've been since 1970. We are on a downturn on divorce rates. As with so very many things, it works on a pendulum. First, it was extremely rare. Then it became accepted and common, way too common. Now, we are finding a middle ground.

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I just said hello to your EX, Where Am I? It's very hot, very uncomfortable, and very abusive.

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Would you prefer to live apart from your spouse? Do you think this can be better than divorce? NO! We had a long distance marriage for five years out of necessity. I would not do this again by choice.

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Is getting proposed on a Holiday a good thing or a bad thing? Only if you want to get married to the person.

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How many times have you been married, and for how many years together? I'm on my second marriage. It's my husband's first. However, my mother is on number five, and my dad had three before his death.

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Does your wife sleep in next to you at night? I'd sleep next to my husband at night, but he falls asleep in his recliner. It's like waking up grumpy if I wake him up to come to bed... even though he asks me to do that. So if we do sleep next to one another, it's not for long since he gets up in the wee hours of the morning after a mere five hours of sleep.

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John McCain may be a lot smarter than we've given him credit for. What if he really didn't want the job as President. What if he undermined himself by picking Palin, and allowing the negative ads? What do you think? I don't believe that this is what he did. I think he made a grievous error. I think that he simply did not check her out well enough before making his choice. This does not make him a stupid man. It simply makes him human.

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I read the other day that Walmart is the only store showing a profit among similar establishments. Do you shop at Walmart or do you boycott it as some do? Actually, they are not the only ones showing a profit. McDonalds and Dollar Stores have also been showing a profit. The one that boggles the mind for me is that Urban Outfitters is showing a profit. Go figure on that one. However, the low cost stores are certainly benefiting right now with the economic downturn. I do not boycott Walmart. I do understand those that do, but I can't...

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Would you lie to cover for your boss if he/she asked you to do so? Was asked and answer was no on a major thing.

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Did you have a neighborhood "hangout" where you and your friends gathered after school? For me, in high school the place to meet was Currie's Ice Cream Parlor. In junior college, it was Bob's Big Boy. What were/are your hangouts? Pete's Drive-In and Harvard Avenue's empty store parking lots on Friday nights, esp. after football games, in high school. In junior high, it was A&W.

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A couple of days ago Rush Limbaugh blamed Obama for the tanking stockmarket. So, since the stockmarket closed at plus 552.59 on Thursday, I guess Rush will be giving all the credit to Obama for that as well! Right? This makes as much sense as blaming Obama for any of the economic crisis he is walking into. I think we had that discussion elsewhere on AB, eh? lol On a personal note, had my dental surgery today. It didn't go so well. The tooth can not be saved. The root is split all the way up. However, the only way to know this is to do the exploratory surgery that was done today. He is recommending...

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Would you marry someone who didn't lose their virginity to you? Nine years ago, I did. It would have been darn scary if that wasn't true since he was 56 when we married!

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Ok,so what do i do now that i've run out of points posi-trolling? Answer questions to get more points for great answers.

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If you knew someones wife was cheating on them would you tell? Unless it was family, no, I would not. If it was family, I would handle it very, very carefully. I would give the ultimatum to the one who was cheating to come clean within a few days or their partner would be finding out.

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My husband of over twenty years told me he was seeing another woman for a year and a half. We're suposed to be working it out, but I think he's still seeing her. I think he loves her but I can't bring myself to ask him, he won't lie if I ask. I love him. I, too, think that asking him is of the utmost importance. However, this is true for more than one reason. Not only do you need to know, you also need to have open and honest communication with him if you are trying to rebuild your marriage. Unless you can bring yourself to do this, not only will you go on suspecting him and not being able to rebuild your marriage, you will also not like...

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My colleague is busy with his wedding preparations, while he is unaware that his fiancee is sleeping with my school buddy. Separately, he does not know that I rejected his fiancee's advances in my college years. This is such a mess, what do i do? Know that if you do choose to do this, your relationship with each and every one of these people is at risk. You are very likely to lose any friendships you have.

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I am 23 had an affair with a 27 yr old man while we were both committed elswhere. We had a very gd time &a special bond. Now that his marriage is approaching he s gonna get married 2his gf of 6yrs. he askedme b4 but i refused 2 leave my current bf of 5yrs Should you try to convince him not to marry? NO! You are hooked up with someone who cheats. Cheaters are, by definition, liars. While not everyone who cheats will cheat again, those that leave their partner to be with their paramour are much more likely to do so with their next partner. Let him go. Figure out what need he was filling within you or within your relationship with your partner....

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How did you deal with a cheating partner 1) Decide whether you want to try to rebuild or not. If you do: 2) Gather as much evidence as you can if you don't have enough. 3) Figure out where your personal boundaries lie, what you will and will not live with. 4) Confront your partner. Tell your partner what your personal boundaries are so that there are no secrets about it. Tell him or her that you need to know within x...

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What do you think your I.Q is? Be honest... I know it's 150

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What song do you sing to your child(ren) before bed? I used to hum and/or sing "Oh, Holy Night" to my babies when I'd rock them to sleep.

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Are we entitled to answer our own questions on AB and if so, why would you? Sometimes you get garbage for doing so, but you certainly can! I do sometimes.

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I love to sing, but will not go to bars and sing Karaoke anymore. Where do you suggest I sing? Check out Facebook and/or MySpace for a group in your area that sings Karaoke in someone's home for fun. There are some there!

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Is cigarette smoking linked with depression? Or does it inhibit depression/anxiety? It does work as an anti-depressant. In addition, because of the anti-anxiety action and with depression going hand in hand with anxiety, there are studies showing that they also act as an anti-depressant. It also acts as a conduit to having periods of better concentration or neurological function when your nicotine level is higher. However, it also works as a depressant. Why it acts as both...

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Did you know that Christ wasn't born on December 25th? Yes, I was aware.

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How would you deal with blackmail? Would you make some concessions to avoid big consequences or would you just take the "heat"? My ex tried this. I simply laughed and told him to blab away since I had much more on him, legal and illegal, than the tiny bit that was not illegal activity that he had on me.

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Why are you still married? We both desire to be.

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What reasons can you cite for a divorce besides irreconcilable differences? With my ex, serial infidelity, severe abuse, rape, and being an abusive father.

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Does total silence from a spouse during a time of great trauma amount to emotional abuse This is such a vague question that it's difficult to say. It depends on what the trauma is, whether it was his trauma or yours, and many other things. However, the fact that you are here asking this question would cause me to lean towards a yes answer.

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Why did you marry? for convience, love, money tax breaks, because she was pregnant, because 'it was the right thing' etc...what do you think is the perfect reason? 1. I wanted to spend my life with my best friend. 2. He was and is wonderful with my children! 3. He treats me like a person, not an object to do with what he wishes. 4. He is kind. 5. He is thoughtful. 6. He is respectful. 7. He is intelligent. 8. He is curious and desires to never stop learning. 9. He has a wonderful sense of humor. 10. All of this plus we love one...

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Am I living with an unreasonable wife? I watch the baby 25 hrs a week. I work 35 hrs a week. We have a good sex life. I take out the trash. Why is it that she has a problem with me wasting a little free time now and then with a game of Madden? It sounds like there are some serious problems in your marriage. While you may have begun this computer usage for relaxation, it may now be more. There are resentments on both sides, yours and her. If you made an agreement to not use the computer during your time with the baby, you need to uphold that agreement and/or discuss and compromise on it. I would also recommend that you not be going...

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How do you feel about an unmarried couple living together? Do you think this reduces the chances they will ever be married? I have no problem with this. I agree that it is far too dependent upon the set of circumstances for each couple to dictate a right or wrong over this. I lived with my first husband for a month before we married. It was a huge mistake. I lived with my current husband for 1.5 years before we married. If was not a mistake.

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What is the average length of time it takes for a man to propose marriage to a woman. It's only been 10 months I've been dating this guy, I'm extremely in love with him and want more. On average, 5 minutes to 20 years. There is no average that matters here. What matters is your relationship. If you are in love with this man, back off and let the relationship build. Have individual pursuits in addition to pursuits you do together. Make sure that the lines of communication stay open. He will propose when he is ready to. If you push him into doing so before then, you'll...

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My wife starts ever argument "Ya know what your problem is" What is a good response? "So you think my problem is....?" If you say this in all seriousness, it suddenly takes the disagreement to a different level. It's no longer sarcastic and mean. You are showing her that you are listening and prepared to communicate with her.

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If I marry him and he owes child support, would that make me responsible for paying his support? Can the courts touch my money? It depends on where you live. In most states, the state can not come after you for it. In a few, they can. Federally, for tax refunds, they can take the entire return IF the state has filed for this and IF you have not filed the appropriate paperwork to stop this action. If they do do so, you can file the appropriate paperwork to have that money refunded to you. You are eligible, legally,...

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What is the story behind Castle Rock WA? http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Castle_Rock,_Washington will give you the history. It was, basically, unknown until St. Helen's blew her top. At that time, it was nationally known due to flooding, etc. in the area. It is also the hometown of my maternal grandparents. My great-grandmother was dumped there by her first husband with her three daughters in about 1920. (I mean this literally...

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What are the laws for a fee paying church schools in oregon They are not the same as public schools. You'd have to clarify if you want more than that.

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In Oregon, how clean does the landlord have to make an apartment before someone moves in? Can the landlord leave the place totally smelling like smoke? The courts in Oregon are, generally speaking, set up to be in favor of landlords. The other answers are correct.

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I want to plead nolo contendre for a traffic ticket how do you write a good response that the court will consider? Good luck with this in Oregon. I've never heard of this changing the outcome.

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How can a person get a no-contact order dropped when they didnt want a no-contact order in the first place, and or typically how long will a no-contact order last, when the victim does not want one in place cuz she feels she wasn't a vic TROs are usually written for six months to a year. If the victim wasn't the one who asked for it, it will depend on the circumstances whether it will be vacated or not. Call your county courthouse for info on this.

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I'm looking to vacation along the Oregon coast next year. Do you know any great places, close to the beach, with easy access to get around? A good place for small kids? Also, when is the best time of year to visit the Oregon coast? In September, Seaside Sand Sculpture & Beach Festival, Seaside. This is by far the most outstanding part of the coastline and the most outstanding event on the coast, in my opinion. Lincoln City has two or three kite festivals each year. These are always fun! Newport has lovely beaches if you want to go mid-Oregon. Gold Beach is the place to go southern coastline. I highly...

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Can anyone tell me which beach this is? It's located in Samuel H Boardman Scenic Corridor -- near Gold Beach, OR but I can't match it with a name. http://img49.imageshack.us/img49/8937/amazingbeach3ww6.jpg oregonstateparks.org/images/pdf/boardman.pdf The link isn't working. Beautiful part of the coast, though! Been there many times. :)

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Where do I get a good chocolate chip cookie in Portland, OR? My mom's kitchen!!

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What are some great things about Portland, Oregon? Can't think of one. Oh, some of my family lives there. Does that count?

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Anyone on here from Bandon Oregon or even heard of it? Many, many, many times.

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Do Oregonians still have the "Don't Californiacate Oregon" point of view? Gads, yes, esp. southern Oregon!

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Have you ever been to Corvallis, Oregon? My sister has lived there for years.

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What's it like to live in Portland, Oregon? My family live there. It's a horrible place to live unless you can afford to live in the pricier burbs.

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I am moving to Portland Oregon in a month. Im only 18 years old and I come from a very small town in upper michigan...it has about 3,ooo people. Is Portland a safe area for an 18year old and can i get a job out there? Terribly UNSAFE!!!!

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Have you ever been to Oregon? What did you think? Or would you ever like to go and why! The Oregon coast is a beautiful place to visit! I would never, ever live in Oregon again!!! (Lived there for over 25 years.)

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What part of Portland, Oregon would you most want to live in? NW, SW, NE, SE? Or somewhere else in Portland? None at all! Portland is a dump and a horrible and unsafe place to live.

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Is Oregon the most awesome state in the USA? It's a great state to visit. I would NEVER, NEVER, NEVER, NEVER live there again!!!!!!!!

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Does it rain a lot in Seattle? lol It's the Pacific NW. YES! However, that being said, Seattle's average rainfall is 942 mm (37.1 inches) per year, [5] less than New York City's 1173 mm (46.2 inches)

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What is the nicname for people who live in bellingham, WA I've lived in the area and never heard any of these or anything else.

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If you have lived in both Seattle, WA and Portland, OR, which city do you like the best? Portland is a dump. I mean this with all honesty. While there are a few blocks here and there that may be more decent than others, it is not a great place. Seattle is a decent big city. I would live there again.

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Does it snow in Seattle, WA? Alot? My husband would like us to move there sometime. I always find it interesting when people say it "never" snows in Seattle. I lived there for 10 years in the 80's. We had snow every winter. We had quite a bit, in fact. As with all things, weather comes in cycles. Right now, there is a cycle of not having massive amounts of snow. However, don't count it out. It will never be as bad as it is in some places and is a wet snow.

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How would you describe Canada in one word? Home (of my heart, that is)

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What is the most "Canadian" phrase you know? e.g. "Someone pass me a serviette please, I dropped my poutine on the chesterfield!" "Eh" is the first thing that comes to mind. The second would be "please."

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Does porn lead to infidelity? What about Strip clubs? This is an extremely complex question! Raindancer is right that it does depend on the choices of the person. However, the easy availability of porn online can also come into question. As for strip clubs, I have nothing nice to say.

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Are you still proud to be an American even afterwhat has happened in the last couple days? I am more proud today than I have been in eight years. While everything is far from perfect, we are headed in a better direction with our new Democratic president.

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If you had $1000 to invest and wanted a quick return where would you invest? Right now, I would not invest it expecting a quick return.

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My gold necklace broke theclasp...they want$100 to fix it. Should I or should I discard it? Don't discard it. You may want to wait until the opportunity presents itself to get it fixed if you believe that this is a high price. The only real way to know if it is or not is to get two or three more estimates.

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Would you rather have a big wedding or a small intimate one? My husband and I had about 100 guests at ours. When we have our wedding vow renewal, I want to have it even bigger. Not all of our family members were able to attend. We both have large families. We only had family and close friends, though.

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This week is my parent's 18th. wedding anniversary; we lost my dad when I was two and my mom gets really sad every year around this time. What can I do to help her get through it? It's important to leave the door open to talk about him. Spend the day with her possible. Ask her to tell you about him. Let her cry if that's what she needs to do. Take or send her flowers with a card just to say that you know that he would have done this for her had he been there; since he's not, you hope that these from you will help. I wish you both the best!

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Verbally abusive, he calls me throughout the day and insults me or accuses me.He seems to enjoy the sight of me upset. when i cry he sais "you wont make me feel guilty." or "your a psycho" When I become suicidal he usualy wants to make love. I left my ex after 18 years of severe abuse. This is the garbage that started it. My five children did NOT deserve to grow up this way!! I deserved better!! SO DO YOU!!!! SO DOES YOUR CHILD!!!! Leaving is not easy. Go to your local women's shelter. They have help for you and are very willing to do so whether you stay there or not. Remember that when you leave initially, you will get...

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I'm in a same-sex relationship for 4 years now and am also a professional makeup artist. Would you advise getting a O-1 Visa to move to the USA or move to Canada to be together? You will each have more rights with one another in most provinces in Canada. Do check out provincial law first! http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Same-sex_marriage_in_Canada

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D Hi, I am a Mexican living in Canada, and I am talking about getting married to my Canadian gf, my question would be, how long will the permanent residence process take for me to be considered as a permanent resident? A minimum of 10 months at this point in time.

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I am a divorced Canadian my fiance is American what do we have to do to get married in Canada Take your ID, your birth certificates, and divorce orders to get your license. It's quite easy. It took my husband and I (opposite, he's Canadian, I'm American) only about 15 minutes to get the license. No problems.

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We are us citizens and want to get married in canada will our marriage be legal in the us Yes, it will. You will be married anywhere in the world. My husband is Canadian. I'm American. We married in Canada. No worries with this!

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When you hear "it's a guy thing", what do you think of first? Malarky. Whoever says that didn't have my daughters.

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If you could marry any famous person, who would it be? I married someone who was famous enough in his own country. I was lucky in that his period of fame and glory was mostly over when we met.

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How many of you think you lead a miserable life? I do not feel as though my life is miserable, hopeless, depressing, worthless, etc. At one time, I did. It was not my life that was this way, it was my choices that were. Once I changed my choices, my life changed.

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Who would you like to see run for president in 2012? I think that it's far too early to know. If it was based on today, I would choose Stephanie Herseth Sandlin vs. Sarah Palin.

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What makes you feel important? In my case, it's who. The answer would be my grandchildren.

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Which flower do you think is the most beautiful you have ever seen? My favourite is a 'bird of paradise' I love the simple Sweet William.

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What constitutes an emotional affair? I wrote this for a board that I am the community leader of on this subject @ http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-rlemotional&msg=1706.1

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An old flame you reconnected with online is married and tells you those old feelings are back again. They still want to keep friendly contact however and assure you that they're not looking to cheat. Do you keep contact? Or just ignore the I have had that happen more than once. I was emailing/messaging. I did tell my husband that I was doing so. I shared the important bits with him. When this happened, my husband was also informed. I simply told them that I was happily married and hoped that they were able to find happiness for themselves. Both of them responded with a positive note and that was it.

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If we dream about a person that is not our spouse, Is this cheating? No, it's a fantasy, a dream. It has nothing to do with your relationship with your spouse. However, you might want to look at your relationship to see how things are going for both of you should you dream of this.

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What is the first thing that comes to your mind when I say your BF/GF/wife/husband is cheating on you? I would simply want more information at that point. I would not believe or disbelieve you with that little information.

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If my wife who has destroyed me financialy by not working and even leaving me no choice but to quit my job leaves me for a rich man, can I get reparations for her ruining my life? This is something that you would want to talk to an attorney in your jurisdiction about. In a few jurisdictions, you may possibly have a case depending on the exact circumstances. However, in most places, this is highly unlikely to happen. Sorry!

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Would you see other men/women, cheat or anything along those lines if your husband/wife was away or at war? NEVER, NEVER, NEVER, NEVER, NEVER!!!!!!!!!

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I have a huge problem... As long as it stays a fantasy, no worries. Just understand it for what it is, a fantasy that will remain in your mind and never escape.

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Is anyone else as disturbed as I am at the 'Married Date Club' banner ad that just popped up on the right hand side of my AB screen? 'Married but looking? Meet local married women right now....' Very much so!

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What is your fondest romantic memory? I love this question!! :) Mine would be my wedding day. We had a lovely wedding with all five of my children, all teens and early-20s at the time, wanting very much to participate. According to many of our guests, it was one of the best weddings that they had ever went to. Our reception was held on a yacht. We had a dinner buffet set up on the bottom deck. The main deck was where the...

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I'm on anti-depression meds. and i don't want to be anymmore but any time i wein myself off i find myself back to my reclusive overreacting self again.is there a way to change the way you think?or do i have to take drugs for the rest of my life? I agree that this is between you and your medical care provider. That being said, it's also up to you to change yourself. I have Bipolar Disorder. I will be on medication for the rest of my life. After much time and looking within myself, I'm okay with that since I have a calmer, more normal life as a result of those medications. My quality of life is vastly improved. It's...

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When was the last time you drank water? Just now. I drink only water

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Im here in other country for a job(IT), my wife is back there in our home town. Lately i discover her pics on a popular site that viewing their pics w/ other man kissing & hugging very intimate.I called her & she admit it & say sorry. what's my next step? Are you willing to rebuild or not? This is the next thing you need to decide. If you are, you will need to know what your personal boundaries are. What is it going to take to rebuild, individual counseling, marital counseling, 100% disclosure, 100% honesty, etc.? Once you know boundaries and what it will take to rebuild, you will be ready to confront her. Let her know what you are willing to do...

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Whoa, you have magic powers! In a pinch, you'd use them to make __________? My children and grandchildren to be nearer to me geographically.

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If you gave up eating animal products, what would you miss the most? Cheese

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What's a sure sign that your marriage is over? Raise one hand at me. I've had quite enough of that before I married my husband.

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How does marriage affect an individuals socio-emotional, economical and physical wellbeing? According to studies, for the better.

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I'm a 28 year old, recently engaged female. I've never been a fan of weddings and the thought of having to plan and go through one terrifies me as I really don't like being the center of attention. Any ideas as to how to handle this? Thanks in advance! Elope. If not, a destination wedding with a place that pretty much just asks you questions and puts it all into place is your easiest bet! If you are having a wedding there, hire a wedding planner!

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Should disabled people date each other They should be able to date who they wish to as long as they are capable of dating.

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What are your thoughts on people who marry a person of their son/daughter age? It's up to each person. My husband is 17 years older than I am. My mother is only one year older than he is. I have no problem with this.

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Would you ever marry an Atheist? I seriously doubt it. I would have no problem with an alternative religion, but not an entire lack of faith in a higher power of any kind.

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How do you make a marriage work when there is selfishness, and the two don't agree, but love each other It takes more than love to make a marriage. If there are this many problems, I would go to marriage counseling to figure out if it was salvageable and how if so.

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Why would you buy a teenager porn? I did not and would not do so EVER. If they are horny, there are Victoria's Secret Catologues that do the trick at that age. They don't NEED to get it for themselves. Curiosity never killed the cat. It teaches them NO good messages about sex.

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Looking for an engagement ring for my girl. She is allergic to most metals and many top quality jewelers have insisted I go with platinum as it is hypoallergenic and 90-95% pure precious metal... Similar situations? Any advice? I have the same problem. My wedding ring set is platinum with a tiny bit of gold on the top where it doesn't touch my skin. I love them!! We had them made for us.

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If my husband lied about a sexual email he sent to a female co-worker should I assume there is more than innocent flirting going on? This is NOT okay if it's not okay with you!!! Have you confronted him?

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Do you think that Dollar Dances at weddings are cheesy and just a way for the bride and groom to solicit money? For many people they are a tradition of their ethnicity. If someone does this just to do it and has no ancestry towards this end, it's entirely rude to do so. It's akin to requesting money in lieu of.

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Do you think you'll have a 50th Wedding anniversary? I'm not expecting to, no. My husband was 54 when we married. He had cancer this last year. Won the battle, however. I'm hoping for a 40th!!

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I am a highly educated female, canadian citizen , want to marry an American citizen , where do i start? My husband and a friend of ours, both Canadian, started online, NOT on a dating site. They were not looking for a wife; they were looking for someone to chat with that they had something in common with and was someone that they related to. Both married an American woman, but it was not by design. Stop looking for an American and start looking for someone you are compatible with. You'll...

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Are you an emotional person or do you hide your feelings? Okay, I just asked my husband this with tongue in cheek. I'm pretty sure that I NEVER hide my feelings well, if at all. lol

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How do you see our next generation? be honest! I see it through the eyes of my wonderful, dear grandchildren.

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What are you going to be eating for dinner this Christmas and where are you going to be eating it? We'll have turkey at home with just the two of us as we always do since we've been empty nesters who live long distance from our children.

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Are you a listener or a talker? Definitely a listener!

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Could you sleep tonight thinking you have achieved all that you wanted, or do you need more in your plan of life? The dreams for more accomplishments never end. I do take my victories and KNOW that I am working towards those dreams.

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Whats your recipe for a happy and well organised Christmas? A happy Christmas is not necessarily a well organized Christmas. However, I pick and choose VERY carefully what I say yes and no to for events, etc. during December. I only do those things that I really, truly want to do. I do not overbook my calendar. This is the BIGGEST thing I do to accomplish this. (I don't know why anyone would DR this question.)

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Real Christmas tree this year or fake? Artificial. I have no choice due to allergies. We did used to buy a real one for the front porch at our old house. Now we decorate the trees in the yard.

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What do you consider as an interesting hobby? Politics

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Have you ever had a day where you just want to back to bed and get up again? Of course!

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Is anyone really getting on your nerves at the moment? Yes, Sarah Palan. She said she's going to get back to serving the people of Alaska. I want to know if she means in the best way possible, by quitting.

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How far back can you date your family tree? My grandmother was a nationally renowned genealogist before her death. She was one of three people that the U.S. government sent to Russia to get them to open their birth, death, and marriage records to U.S. citizens with ancestors in Russia, among many of her accomplishments. (This did eventually occur.) She traced one family line as far back as it can be traced in England. Another line, she...

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Whats the first thing that comes to mind when I say " Squeeze" Missing big, bear hug squeezes from my darling grandchildren... oh, and the other children who are my children's children when they don't behave. lol

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Do you just want to cry? Sometimes, absolutely!

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What is the first thing that comes to mind when i say 'unpredictable'? The election! Other than that, politicians. I guess you know where my head is tonight! lol

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I absolutely love the sound of a cello. What instrument does it for you? My husband's voice is the best instrument. (He was a recording artist at one time in his life, among his many, many careers.) Other than that, a cello is hauntingly beautiful. I also love the sound of someone who REALLY knows what they are doing on a piano!

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Are there any websites carrying national election results live? Try CNN.com They have a good site. Also, myspace has very good coverage.

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My husband will not tell me his passwords to his emails should i be concerned? He knows all of mine. It is a red flag of a possible problem. Are there other red flags?

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Should I marry a man 11 years my senior If you are 20ish or under, this will be an age difference that may cause problems later on. If you are in your late 20's or older, it's not as big of a deal. Love is not the be all and end all of whether a relationship will work or not, although it's certainly one of the more important aspects! I'm married to a man who is 17 years my senior. I was 38 when we married. 99%...

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Whats your opinion on a 16 yr. old being engaged? the getting married when he/she gets out og high school? The chances of the marriage happening are not good UNLESS it is providing an excuse for a teenage pregnancy. That would be my biggest immediate concern. My biggest long term concern is that s/he would be missing periods of growth that a person NEEDS in order to be a psychologically fully developed and mentally healthy adult. Without that period of growth, they are more likely to have...

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Have you ever did something for your spouse that you didn't want to do but you did it anyways because you knew how much it meant to them? Did you get over it because it made them happy or did you hold it against them grudgingly? I did this often in my first marriage because I was married to an abuser who I was far too busy trying to please to avoid being abused. It NEVER made me feel good about myself. In my current marriage, my husband would never expect this of me nor I of him when it comes to big things. Now, if you're talking about small things like a few minutes of time, doing a small favor, etc.,...

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How can I avoid people at the polls? I'm dreading running into people I knew from high school when I go to vote. If you do see someone, simply tell them you don't have time to talk since you have an appointment you're on the run to get to. No big deal. People understand that. Remember that it's worth running into someone in order to vote!! Every vote is important!

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My father just died and when friends say "I'm sorry" what response is appropriate? Do I just say "thank you"? I am sorry for your loss. My father died just a few months ago. It's not easy to lose a parent. Saying thank you is fine. Remember, though, that if people offer to help in specifics, ie, "Can I bring you a meal?" rather than "Is there anything I can do to help?" which is general, take them up on their offer!! Having others help you right now is a good thing. It helps...

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When was the last time you received a Thank You card or note? From my sister for her wedding gift. It was only about six months late per traditional etiquette's timeline of having three months to send the written thank you card. The wedding gift from last summer we have never received a thank you card for. >sigh< Is it too much to ask for an expensive wedding gift to have it acknowledged. I KNOW they received it since we handed it to them...

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My husband cheated on me. We are trying to work it out. Should we live together while we are or not. Waiting to go to counselling. As you can see by the answers so far, it all depends on the people and the situation. Unless you are in a position of temporarily separating for a definite reason, living together is best, IMO. However, there are some situations that call for living separately temporarily. Usually, you are only talking maybe two weeks before getting into counseling. This would be an excellent thing to discuss...

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For older couples with 10-50 yrs of marriage: Can you love the one your married to but not be in love with (not feeling fulfilled, hard to be compatible) or is this just normal? Is there such a thing as true love and really being and staying in love? There is the infatuation of first love; there is the lusty love of the first years; then comes mature love. It has it's ups and downs. You have periods of time when you have thoughts of wondering if you're really "in love" any more. Then, it all returns again. This is perfectly normal!

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For ppl married/divorced: If you agree that you love each other, but aren't in love, and yet still hold, have sex, and talk some, yet he says he could be in love with diff. woman if circumstances would allow, but loves you too what does this really mean? It means that he's trying to have the best of both worlds, basically being a cake eater. This is not a good thing for you. You are taking second place. You deserve better!!

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What is pornography ? in Indonesia it is anything sexy This is a subjective question. As far as a dictionary definition standpoint, pornography is anything that is created to cause sexual excitement or arousal. This can include sexually explicit pictures, writing, or other material where the purpose is to cause sexual arousal. From the Encyclopedia of Ethics, "the sexually explicit depiction of persons, in words or images, created with the...

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Is it correct etiquette to eat a chicken kabob (on a skewer) by holding said skewer in both hands & biting off pieces of chicken with your teeth? Hold the tip of the shish-kabob in one hand and use the dinner fork to remove the pieces with the other. When all the food has been removed from the stick, place it on the side of your plate. Always eat the meat with your utensils. http://whatscookingamerica.net/Menu/DiningEtiquetteGuide.htm

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How many whole eggs can you fit in your mouth , with out them cracking? My max is cuatro. You know, even my grandfather who was the largest egg producer in the county when I was a kid never did that.

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Have you ever come upon people in public places engaged in sexual activity? If so, what did you do and how did you feel? No, I have not.

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What does your sorry mean, Are you really sorry or just polite? Yes, both, at different times.

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Would you answer your phone anywhere? It's illegal when I'm driving. That's a no. I don't answer in the washroom. That's a no. I don't answer when dining. That's a no. Lots of no's here!

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You find yourself around someone with horrible or even offensive manners. How do you conduct yourself? Ignore them, say something, make non-verbal facial expressions but not say a word, what? I'd stay with using my own good manner hoping that they would brush off on them. It generally works. For those it does not work with, saying something isn't going to make a difference either.

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What do you do if you ask a question and the other person just looks at you then turns away? I assume that they have a hearing problem or were distracted and repeat my question.

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If you had an Internet only relationship with someone for 7 years, would you open your home to them as guest and let them stay with you for a week? They are from a country overseas. Yes, I would since it would be friendship only. I've met several of my online friends and had only wonderful experiences. Having any of them stay with me for a week would be great fun!

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How polite are you? Well, I'm married to a Canadian. I don't have a choice unless I want to look like a total idiot. I'm pretty darn polite.

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If you spot someone you despised at a store or other random public location, what would you do as soon as that someone saw you? I would look right at them as I passed them.

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I am going to an evening Cocktail Dinner-Dance, should i wear a long or short dress, (the men are in black tie)? An invitation to a black tie event means wearing a long, floor length evening dresses or evening separates. A short cocktail dress may be appropriate for some cocktail receptions, summer events, or daytime functions. http://www.advancedetiquette.com/newsletter/may04_issue.htm and MANY other etiquette web sites!!!!

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Do you include your middle name on your email signature at your place of business? I don't include mine in any signature I make unless it specifically says I must.

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What was the most romantic gift you ever received? My wedding ring set. His mother had died two years earlier. They had been extremely close. He took the diamond earrings he had bought her for a Mother's Day present AND her wedding ring set to have our designer take the diamonds and use them in my wedding ring set. It means a LOT to me in so many ways!

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I've got to stop _________ being SICK!!! GRRR

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What did you dream about last night? My meds have been giving me weird dreams, too many of them. I don't recall right now.

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Do you have a "spirit/ghost" with you? Yes, I do.

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How do you deal with your S/O porn addiction? I almost walked out. He made the necessary changes on his own.

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What are you complaining about? How much my dental surgery is costing.

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It's _____ time!! medicine YUCK!

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If a man really loves a woman, will he fight for her til the end? My husband would, but it may not be as forthright as I would expect. He may let go to wait for me to return.

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"I am deeply in ___"? love with each and every one of my eight grandchildren.

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I'm torn. If I had to choose one which one should I pick. 1) a wife that does all the chores and takes care of the kids but is frumpy/plain or 2) a wife that looks her best but makes me do all the chores and child care? I want a middle but not an option. It honestly sounds like, after reading your questions one after another, that your wife may have a problem with depression.

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I met my fiance's family this weekend. One of them started a fight with me for no reason and tried to hit me. I don't like them. Do I have to use his last name when we marry if I want nothing to do with his family? You don't. I would be more concerned about paying attention to these common abusive behaviors to watch for from abusive men or abusive women: * Criticism about your good qualities, * Past abusive relationships, * Criminal activities, * Drinking or drug problems, past or present, * Mood swings, * Discourages your successes, * Jealousy, *...

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What is the most marriages you have ever heard one person have? Other than celeb's, my mother is on marriage #5 with a long term relationship throw in to boot. The shortest of her marriages was under 6 months.

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In a marriage, should either partners stop trying to impress the other by keeping up with their looks or by doing more than their share of chores? I'm speaking on both behalves, Man do more chores & Woman keep up with fashion/looks... It's not at all uncommon to become more comfortable around your partner after a time. There's nothing wrong with that. However, doing little things for your partner is a different matter. My husband does things like seeing I'm having a tough day and offering to make dinner or just going in and doing so. I see my husband's having a tough day, and I try to do the same. ...

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Do you think it is possible to be in love with two people at the same time? I think that it is, not to stay that way, but at one time, yes.

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My wife has an issue with drawing attention to herself (both positive and negative attention) she'd rather avoid being noticed at all cost. She's kind of hides in the background. How do I boost her confidence!? That confidence has to come from within her. As lovely as it is that you want to do that for her, you can only give her external help through compliments and putting her in situations where she will be successful. You can tell her the things that you think that she should know that are wonderful about her. If funny how much a person with little self-esteem has heard those things. Most of it,...

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How do you get used to wearing 4 to 5 inch heels after not wearing heels ever in your life? Use a full size mirror and practice in front of it on an uncarpeted even floor to start with.

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Conflicts are solved with __________? communication

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You're too _________ for your own good? emotional

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Your home probably saves the most energy with ________? summertime.

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Everything happens for a _______________? person who acts on their dreams.

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What makes your pulse pound? my husband's kisses

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What is your closet filled with? Clothes and boxes.

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Where do you mostly live? in my home.

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Do you take your time while eating? It depends on how hungry I am. If I am really hungry, not so much. Otherwise, yes, I do.

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Do you eat most of your food in 1-2 meals during the day? No, I'm a grazer and eat less that way.

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Cooking is ____________? a necessary evil.

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What's your prerequisite for sex? that it's my husband

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What would I find in the top drawer of your dresser? panties and socks

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When you go for a swim, you _____________? Feel so relaxed and at home.

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Choose your weapon! What did you choose? love

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I am divorced 2 yrs was married 2yrs.was an abusive relationship,nasty divorce.i have 2 teenage girls not his,work in same place.He now wants to be friends and is following me around.i'm scared to go there should i Find another job where you don't have to be around him and don't have the temptation for either of you.

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I looked on the video history tab of a username that matches my hubby's & found explicit stuff.He swears up & down that its not him,but it has his username & password that he uses for everything else online.He has never been untrustworthy before.Thoughts? I think that you need to talk to him first and foremost. It's important that communication be occurring between you right now.

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What do you think comes after death? a chance at more

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You're not one to say "No" to the call of ____________? a child

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You've got tones of __________? Is it tones or tons? If it's tons.... to say!

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What is a good way to remove price stickers from books and things that can rip without leaving a sticky residue? Use a blow dryer to warm it up. This makes it easier to remove.

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Any ideas what to get a fella who has everything for christmas If he reads, get him a personalized embosser to emboss his books.

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What was the best present you recieved this Christmas? My pearls from my husband.

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Can anyone suggest some Christmas gift ideas for my grandmother? My grandmother's favorite gift she ever received was put together by my mother. She send out large quilt squares to each of my grandmother's children and grandchildren. They were to each sign one or more quilt squares and say whatever they wanted to in fabric paint. When my mother got them all back, she sewed them into a quilt. My grandmother was so proud of that quilt!

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What are you going to give for Christmas? My adult children will be getting a photo album with family pictures and pictures of themselves through the years. My grandchildren will each get a medium cost toy. My husband, I have no idea and couldn't say on AB since he's on here, too. :)

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How normal or abnormal is it for a husband to indicate what his wife wears on a daily basis? Can anyone relate? Control is obviously an issue here. My ex ran what I wore by not allowing me any money or buying me any clothing. I can't relate in any other way.

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What do you use for air-freshner in your home? My cleansers to get my house clean and candles. At Christmas time, I will sometimes throw some lovely spices into a pot of water and simmer on the stove.

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Someone asked me today if I was LEGALLY separated? I have been served with divorce papers, but we have NOT been before the Judge. Am I considered legally seperated? In most states that require a separation prior to divorce, there is no such thing as a legal separation. You are simply separated prior to divorce. Legal separations occur in states that have that option as an alternative to divorce. It's usually the same process as a divorce. Regardless of all of that, if you have not been before a judge or had a judge sign a court order stating that...

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I wanna get married soon,i got a question about marriage license,my man lives in texas and i live in sc,if we get married in sc then would we be able to get married since he has a tx id and i have a sc id?i need to know asap,would diff ids matter? They make no difference. You can have ID from other countries, and it would make no difference. I wish you all the best! Do check with the court house to see what ID is required. If either of you have ever been married and divorced, you will have to provide proof of that, as well.

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My girlfriend and I plan to marry. We live in different countries (both English speaking) and 1 hours flying time apart. Should I wait until we are living together (or at least in the same country) until I ask her to marry me? It can go either way. I think that in-person proposals usually have a lot more romance to them. Unless there is a reason to do it quickly, wait to do it in person. Find a really romantic way to do this. It's a very special moment that will, hopefully, be a once in a lifetime event.

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What have you tried very hard to do, then decided that it was best left to the professionals? Advocating for one of my special needs children at one point. Although I do this professionally, doing so for myself was not a good idea. I was too emotionally involved. It was a good thing I did since we ended up needing to use an attorney on the staff there for due process and coming out on top.

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My daughter will be going to see her dad this Christmas. What kind of present should she take for him? Something she makes for him. I'd suggest using photos of herself throughout the prior year put together as a project. She can do this through a photo album or scrapbooking or a collage, depending on her age and ability level.

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Why would someone sleep with their ex-wife when they are engaged to be married to someone else? The ex is an easy target. It doesn't have much to do with who they cheat with, as difficult as that can be to deal with. It has to do with something missing within themselves or within the relationship most of the time. The only thing I have to say about the ex is that she's stupid to go along with it.

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You find out your ex is homeless (no kids). You are unattached. Do you give her/him a spare bedroom until they get their act back together? Not in a million years. He abused me for far too long for me to take pity on him. He has enough family that he would need to suck it up and go to them.

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Your best friend is ______. that guy who stood next to me on my wedding day.

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Anyone planning on using the Salvation Armies 'Angel Tree' this year to give a gift to needy child? I've been doing this since my children were young. When I did, we had very little money to buy gifts for my kids. I let them know that we could do this, but it would mean that they would each receive one less gift. They were very excited about doing it anyway! I now try to do it with one of my grandchildren if I see them before Christmas. Otherwise, I still do it.

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If you had to live on one Fruit for a month which would you choose? Grapes... any kind of grapes.

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What's the first thing that comes to mind when you hear "white trash"? a place I used to live.

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Three things you would rather forget? Three of my abusers.

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Are there any household chores that men do not mind completing? It depends on the man. My husband doesn't mind pitching in when he has the opportunity. Unfortunately, due to some health issues of mine, he is landed with a few chores out of necessity, vacuuming and dusting being two of those. (I have asthma and allergies to the point that I'm down and out for days afterward if I do just a little bit.) He helps out with other things, as well....

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Should i divorce my wife because of my in law? If you knew them prior to marriage and nothing significant has changed, you were forewarned and should have known. If something significant has changed for the worse, you have to consider other alternatives before you consider divorce. If this is an excuse to divorce her, do her a favor and go ahead. It's difficult to give a good answer without more information.

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My wife of 10 years cheated on me, We have been trying to work past this but its been 2 years since we have been intimate. We feel more like roomates than a couple, and I spend so much time with my best friend that people mistake her as my wife. Give up? While you say that marriage and individual counseling has been on the table, neither of you have followed through showing a lack of commitment whether you feel that or not. If you want the marriage to work, you need to follow through with your part. Go to individual counseling. If you are spending so much time with another women that mistake in who she is is being made, that's a...

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I was looking in my husband phone and it ring he came to get it and I told him I was looking in his phone.Now he keeps it with him every where he goes in the house so now I can't see what he is up to.Does this mean he is doing something he shouldnt be? There aren't too many women who snoop for no reason. Usually, there is something that is tugging at them. Sometimes, that motivation can be something that happened to them in the past outside of that relationship. If it's not that, snooping serves a purpose. His hiding all cell phone activity from you serves no purpose outside of keeping secrets from you. Now, sometimes those...

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When she's/he's upset, she'd/he'd prefer to be __________________? apologized to.

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With so many issues in the world, you stay positive by __________? facing the issues that I must and that I have control over with a sense of making change. The rest, it is what it is. I can't control others and can't control everything. I try to accept and make my choices based on what is.

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You'd rather make ____________? everyone laugh than cry.

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Your partners laugh makes __________? Laugh, roll my eyes, or wonder what's funny. It always gets my attention in a good way!

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What is the most important thing in your home? Human lives!

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Have you found the love of your life or are you still looking? I found him. He better stick around for a long while yet even though it took so long to locate him!!!

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A year without chocolate or a year without sex, what would you choose? Chocolate makes me sick to my stomach anyway....

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I been seeing a separated married man. How long should I keep this relationship on if he is still married. IF he is in the midst of a divorce and you've actually seen this first hand via court documents, hearings you were at, attorney bills, etc., his being married is a temporary status IMO that has nothing to do with your relationship with him except that you are most likely the "rebound relationship." If this is not true, you might want to watch your step. In some jurisdictions,...

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Barack Obama & John McCain: Who is more likely to cheat on their spouse? Somehow the idea that age has anything to do with this has appeared. Of the women I work with in this situation, about 20% are older women with older husbands. Age is no certainty against cheating! Men who have had an affair in the past are much more likely to cheat again. Therefore, I have to go with McCain.

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Would you forgive and forget your bestfriend and boyfriend for sending NAKED PICTURES of themselves? No and NO!

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Do you think that mentally cheating is as bad as physically cheating? This seems to be very specific to each person! For me, an emotional affair is worse than a physical affair by far. I've been on the receiving end of both at different points in my life with different men. The emotional affair was much more devastating to me!

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My husband and I had a break for 3 weeks when he came back I found out he had been phoning another woman for 8 weeks and spent the night in a hotel with her they didn't have sex which I know to be true is it worth giving it another go could he be trusted I'm not sure how you could possibly know this with 100% surety. Me, I'd be up for being checked for STDs and Hep. There are more things than intercourse involved that is contained in a physical affair. What were the ground rules for the break? Did he cross a line that he knew was in place? If he crossed a line that you had vocalized and was clear, you need to follow through with...

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My wife recently changed her logon to the computer. In which I reacted by changing mine. The relationship has been rocky. She thinks I am cheating on her because "I changed my logon" no answer for changing hers. Should I be the worried one? Even if there is no cheating, there is absolutely mistrust and a lack of good communication!! That is what there is definitely to worry about. Whether she's cheating or not is a question that can only come to light once these issues are resolved.

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Would you're parents be against you marrying outside of your race or religion? My father wouldn't have since he married someone of another race the second time, but I could have cared less about what he thought since I didn't see him the last 44 years of his life by his choice. I don't believe that my mother would have. It may have taken her longer to like him, but she would have eventually been okay with it. She never would have voiced it in so many...

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Is it possible for a professional athlete to be faithful to their spouse? It's possible for anyone to be faithful. Some professions offer more opportunities and more peer pressure to cheat than others. This would be one due to the life style.

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I just learned that i can never have children or intercourse because my uterus is malformed. Do you think that i should still get married? Would any guy even want to marry me now? The issue of children is easy to understand since it is common and can be dealt with easily. It's difficult for many people to understand that there are physical disabilities, disfigurements, and differences that can cause a person to be unable to have intercourse. While physical deformities aren't rare, hearing about one that can cause the inability to have intercourse is. There are...

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My friend married a very unattractive woman. He tells me he doesn't know why he did it and completely regrets it. There is no amount of plastic surgery that will help this woman. Should he feel guilty for not wanting to have sex or be with her anymore? I know someone who did this. He was so sure that he would never find someone else who was any better that he married his wife. They have been married many years now. They did have a separation at one point. Prior to that, she treated him extremely badly, extremely! After she saw that he could find another woman who wanted to date him, which he did, she backed down and straightened up. While it...

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"Infidelity appears to be on the rise...women appear to be closing the adultery gap and cheating on their spouses more often". This is supposedly according to new studies. If true, why stay married? This study is not a brand new finding. It's been for several years now that the rate of women having affairs has been almost equal to that of men having affairs. They are so close as to be considered fairly equally men and women. That being said, infidelity being high has never stopped anyone from marrying at any point in history for men or women. When people marry, they are always...

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My husband is talking to youngest daugther (17) his step daugther about having an affair both with a male in detail but he said if she told me that he would deny everything. So what should I do? I can't understand this. Can you clarify, please?

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Should I dump my boyfriend for telling me cleaning toilets is a womans job and that he will never do it. He wants to marry me. I beleive its 2 peoples job to help. He thinks he makes the bread and I clean it. Are we doomed? Housework, even in households where both partners work, should be a 50/50 thing. However, that does not mean that each of you has to do each and every chore 50% of the time. 50/50 can mean that you each choose the chores that each of you are comfortable with and split the remainder in some way. If he's not willing to do 50% in that case, he should be hiring a cleaning service to do his...

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Has your wife ever bought the condoms? I am 46 years old. Through both of my marriages, I never bought a condom.

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Men, are you insulted when your future bride doesn't want to take your last name? To me this is/was VERY difficult (to give up my identity-ones name is so important) and I don't understand how someone could feel good making someone they love feel so bad My husband did not ask me if I was going to take his last name. He asked me what last name I would choose to have after we married. He would not have been insulted, angry, or called off the wedding. He would probably have told me the reasons why it meant a lot to him for me to do so. (He had been the only one in his family with that last name since he was ten years old. His father died when he...

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What should you do when your wife is getting messages from guys whom are married, work in the same building, wife deployed to Iraq, has a kid and gives her his cell phone number saying,"we should hang out sometimes for a few drinks; get to know you?" This is a difficult situation for troops who are deployed to dangerous areas of the world and their families. I have a dear friend who was in this situation with her husband. She dealt with him one on one, not the other woman. In doing so, she made rid of the other woman as her responsibility or worry which is the right thing to do since the other woman is not the person who is responsible...

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Why do people still get married so young? They have a fantasy about what love is and what it will be. Pregnancy drives some. Religion drives others. Living in an abusive home that they want to leave often lands them in an abusive marriage, but it's a marriage none-the-less.

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What does love mean to you? (I'm referring to romantic love, not sibling, or parental, or friendly love.) It begins with a biochemical reaction we experience and identify as "attraction" plus the emotional bond. It grows into a feeling that develops when two people get to know each other well and grow fond of each other, a mature love. Mature romantic love is a lifelong commitment of mutual respect. It is a choice that is made over and over again to love, respect, and trust your partner....

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Obama supporters, and Media lapdogs. You mention Gov. Palin's "lack of experience", yet Obama gets no scrutiny, and has less experience. Is Obama a logical choice? (Oh, and I'm not a Republican) Obama is what we usually get, the lesser of evils. (I'm sure I'll be DR'ed for this answer. >sigh<)

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So, I'm going shopping later today to buy some new clothes, as I've (Finally) lost all of the baby weight. Happy for me? CONGRATS!!!

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Does Sarah Palin's wardrobe REALLY matter, when tax dollars were not used to pay for it? Isn't it a lot like Bill Clinton's haircut? None of our business if it isn't our money? At this time, it's donations for the party that are going towards this. However, what it is doing is setting it up to look as though she would be trouble as far as the cost of her wardrobe should she become VP.

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Is this a standard married life? I've only been married for nearly 3 months, I work full time, and so does my husband. I dont have enough time to do the housework!!!! my husband is very lazy and always makes a mess:( That is not standard. It would appear that he has some unrealistic expectations. It's time to start doing what you will need to do for, hopefully, many years to come, communicate!

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My husband keeps his cell by him all the time and goes for a walk every night and talks on it. Surprise we are having problems and I know he is in contact with his ex with text messages and calling. How can you prove anything if you can't Keep a running log of ANYTHING and EVERYTHING that is suspicious. You'll be surprised how quickly that will either add up or not.

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Do you ditch 10 yrs of marriage based on a friends accusation? Night of drinking and everyone has had secrets to hide. Do I believe my husband when he says he doesn't remember "feeling up" this friend of mine! Whether he remembers it or not is a moot point. The point is does someone remember it? Obviously, someone does or you wouldn't know this. As such, as with anything else a person who is drunk does, the drinking is not an excuse. It still happened.

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I had an affair with a married coworker and his wife found out, I have a little bit of feelings for him but it is kind of awkward working with him. Should I quit my job or just try to forget it? It would be respectful of yourself and of him to leave. Forgetting it when you're around him is not likely to happen.

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I am ready to get married now. My boyfriend says he cannot even think about getting married until he is done with graduate school. This could be as many as 7 more years. What do I do? If you are ready to get married and not willing to wait, you really should move on. He's made a commitment to finishing school prior to marrying. Respect that instead of nagging him which will end the relationship anyway. Respect what you want in your life, as well.

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Women: Do you think of yourself as submissive to your husband or your boyfriend? What about you boss, do you submit to him or her too? That's funny about my husband! Hahaha No, I do not! lol Since I'm my own boss, of course I submit to me.

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Do you believe that regular sex is necessary in maintaining a healthy relationship? I disagree with the other answers. The fact that there are things that occur that preclude sex being an ability, physically, is not being considered. I didn't use to consider this, either. However, I know that it is a possibility and relationships have to be strong enough to withstand this.

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How do i get my kids to obey and respect me more? i am fed up of preaching, bribing and punishing them. Here are the things that won't work- preaching, bribing, and over-punishing them. I'm a mom of five young adults. I did not have the greatest parenting examples set for me. I did have a wonderful husband helping me see another way of doing things. He came into our lives when they were tweens to teens. We sat down at family meetings once a month. Everyone, yes, everyone, had a...

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If your boyfriend's mobile phone is always set to silent mode when he is with you.. would you doubt his loyalty towards you? My bf receives texts all the time and I don't know from whom. he says they are from friends and/or sisters. I dont trust him. Ask yourself why you don't trust him. If there are more reasons than this that add up, listen to your gut. If this is the only thing, you may simply be reacting to an old relationship's issues.

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Do you drink when you are sad or happy? I did one time in my life when I was sad/upset, the one and only time I got drunk. My husband poured me into bed as I babbled, laughed, and cried. I knew the next day that it had felt all too good at the time to just pour all my trouble into a bottle. I'll never do it again! When I'm happy, I'm usually too busy talking and laughing to stop and drink anything. lol

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Are men with grey hair attractive or just look old? My man had grey hair when we met 10 years ago and grey hair when we married 9 years ago and grey hair now. He is very attractive to me. I find grey hair attractive. However, it's more about the package as to whether the man looks "old" or not.

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Does the fact that you are growing older worry you? I am 40 and I am so worried that my body might start getting all sorts of pains soon, that I might suffer from a condition and that my face might become all wrinkly!...:) I'm 46. Of course, I don't like the signs of aging that I see in myself especially, but I have time yet to live my life. I have that time until the day I die. I'm not going to worry about things that I can't control today that may happen tomorrow. I try to take preventative measures to ensure that I'm not setting myself up for something by eating well, exercising,...

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Does a man feel less secure and thus less happier if he was having a relationship with a very beautiful woman? And does a man get annoyed if other men look at his beautiful woman while having a drink or something? A person only feels less secure in a relationship if they are less secure in themselves. A person only gets annoyed about other people looking at the person they are with if they are not secure in their relationship and, logic follows, secure in themselves.

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What is your take on William Shatner's recent rant about not being invited to George Takei's wedding? Since Takei states that they did invite him and Shatner has not bothered to show up to other important invents for his cast mates, I have to believe that Shatner is just being the egomanic that he usually is.

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Do you need to be forgiven right now? Not that I can think of...

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Does married couples that are happily married ever fight? A happily married couple may fight a little or a lot. The concern is how they fight and how they make it up. If it is done with respect, they usually have a good marriage.

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How many times have you been married, and for how many years together? I am married for the second time. We've been married for nine years. We are in love. I define that through many means. We both care a great deal for one another. We enjoy a lot of the same things. We have a great deal of respect for one another. We've moved through a very difficult ordeal and come out ahead. We chose to stay together and rebuild our marriage. We choose to continue...

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Why did you get divorced? Let's see.... He was severely abusive of me for the 18 years we were married until we separated. He continued to play mind games with me whenever he thought he could. After while, they didn't work any longer so the games stopped. He had serial affairs bringing home not so fun stuff to me. I'm still not sure what in the world those other women would have had sex with him...

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How is it betrayal to date your best friends ex? Is is her ex right? How is it betrayal? Or would I have to be in the situation to understand? I saw what happened with Heather Locklear and Denise Richards, but I didn't get it... We real people don't live the life of celebrities... THANK GOD! What celebs do have nothing to do with what others do. You do not have to be in the situation to understand. If you wish to date someone's ex, count on losing the friendship. Regardless of whether she says she will not have hard feelings, she will! It's her ex because there were some relationship problems....

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When do you know that its time to get a divorce.. I have lost track of where i am in my relationship.. I do not know if i am still in love or just staying cos i am afraid of what people will say.. It's not time until you are sure that the marriage can not be rebuilt. Where is your partner at in the relationship. Marriages go through periods of time like this. It's normal. Don't give it up too soon!

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Ladies, would you leave your husbands if they constantly lied to you and stayed out all night? they don't work or help you pay any bills either? In a New York minute!

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Wives never like the presents husbands give them. Shoot, I thought a new vacuum cleaner belt was a fine present. Wives, what's a better present? My wonderful husband knows better than to get something for the household for me for a gift. After 54 years as a bachelor, he figured that out before we met. lol Jewelery, clothes if she likes your taste, purses if she likes your taste, a knick-knack that you buy at a higher end store (not Wal-mart), candles, etc. Do not get anything if you aren't positive that she will like your taste. I...

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Do you think that if someone cheats once they will do it again? Please be honest no jokes. If you're asking if the old "once a cheater, always a cheater" saying is true, no, not always, not even most of the time. Most of the time, over 70% of the time, the cheater will not cheat again if the relationship stays together. It's extremely important to delve into the "WHY" of the affair happening. The why will tell how likely they are to cheat again. If they...

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I'm having an affair with a married man. He's almost 20 years older than me. He isn't happily married and hasn't had sex with his wife in 8 years. I probably should feel guilty about it but I don't. Is it wrong? Do you understand what the chances are that he's telling you the truth? One in a million or so. Non-sexual marriages are certainly the exception. In marriages where there is no sex, the partner who is still able to and/or still wants to have sex has to have a darn good reason to stay. Almost always, those reasons are the same reasons that would preclude an affair. Look at it this way....

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Is cheating over the net with someone worse than cheating in person? To me, it's the same. It really depends on the individual, as the answers so far show. Some consider any and everything online to be out of reality, fantasy, that doesn't affect them if their partner does it. I have seen this kind of fantasy reach out into reality too many times to agree with that take on it.

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I had an affair with a friend 17 years ago when my wife and i were only married for 5 months. i broke it off after a short period of time and kept the secret for 5 years before she found out. She's yet to completely forgive me. It's likely that she is not able to get to forgiveness because you are not sincere in your apology and asking for forgiveness, if you have at all. In addition, when she does forgive, it is NOT for you at all!! Forgiveness is something we do for ourselves, to be healthy and more forward. If you get something out of her forgiveness, that's sad. The forgiveness that you really need to be...

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What forums and message boards do you keep up with regularly? Please give me as much feedback as you can! Several on ivillage.com There are hundreds of them there on just about every topic!

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For those over 30, what is one thing that a teacher said to you that you are just now learning is or has been true for you? No points on this answer, please since I'm answering my own question. My fifth grade teacher told us that we'd see a black man as president before we'd see a white woman as president. (This was not a racial statement taken in context.) I think he may be correct.

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Should i stay in school? or join the army? It depends on how old you are and what your plans for the future are. If you are close to 18 and going to graduate this year, you do have the option of taking ASVAB when the military comes around this year to see what jobs you would qualify for. If you don't qualify for something more than a grunt or cook, you are in sad shape and should not consider it. It isn't that the Army...

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Hould Get This Teacher Fired? PLEASE HELP!? I am a junior in high school am i have an english teacher that is completely disconnected from her students. She has been neglecting to listen to opinions of her student and its gotten to a point were she would While this is frustrating, I'm sure, and many teachers should not be teaching, as a student, you have no power to get her fired. This takes a large group of parents petitioning the school board. Even then, it may not do any good due to the teacher's union.

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Have you found the love of your life or are you still looking? I found the man that I was intended for and the man intended for me. It was, indeed, fate that led us together since we met in an online chat room by chance. It is loving hard work that has held us together through the tough times, along with a mutual respect for one another. My relationship with him is more than I ever dreamed of being possible. He is respectful, kind, thoughtful, caring, and...

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Do you have a maid? and if so do you treat her like a slave or employee? Slaves were outlawed. That's why I have children. (jk)

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What do you do with food leftovers that your sure no one will eat? Toss them. I have no other pet and no compost where I live.

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Do you have leftovers in your fridge,that have been there for years? No, we do not, thanks to me!! When my husband and I got serious, I stayed at his condo one day when he went to work. I went to the fridge. I had never had to before since he had always served me. Well, I could not take what I saw!!!!!!!!! OMG!!!!! There were many bottles of salad dressing that he'd had for over ten years. That was just a start! It was disgusting and took me hours to clean.

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You've got some leftovers in the fridge. Do you heat them up, or eat them cold? Most things I heat up enough to take the chill off. Mac and cheese and chicken are the two things I like cold.

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Canadians...Will you be having Thanksgiving turkey leftovers today? We did not. I'm answering for my husband actually, since I'm the American, and he's the Canadian. :) We celebrate both Thanksgivings. Lucky us!!

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How many of you ABers have parents who are still married? (which is rare now a days) Not me! My mother is on marriage #5, not counting her long term live in that she had. My dad was married three times.

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Could you marry someone for a reason other than love (e.g. money, citizenship, sex, fame)? Not if I didn't have to. However, circumstances could be such that I would.

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If a married man is telling another woman that he does not care about his wife health only his, what does that say..Is he in a loving marriage or is his marriage over? Does he love his wife? It says nothing about the wife. It says everything about the husband. This is one of the ultimate forms of disrespect, an emotional affair.

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Where do you need to go to get married by the courts, is it the clerk of the courts? a judge, a court clerk, and justices of the peace have authority to perform a marriage

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How many days do you eat Thanksgiving leftovers before getting tired of turkey? It depends. If it's Canadian Thanksgiving, we eat it for two days. Whatever is left then goes in the freezer to be used as we want to. We have this one at our home. If it's American Thanksgiving, we only eat it that day. We don't have leftovers since this happens with about 75 of us, my mom, siblings, nieces, nephews, and a few other misc. family members. (I have MANY siblings...

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If you really clicked with someone, I mean seriously...and you knew you could spend some time with them (not sleep with them, but do stuff together), but THEY were married, would they be cheating? It depends on the couple and the individuals within the couple. Each couple makes a choice, voiced or not, as to where those lines are drawn in their marriage. The problem often comes when those lines are voiced, but later they discover that they each have a different line. Those lines are personal boundaries. No one should dictate another persons boundaries. However, not voicing those...

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Do you watch porn more then you have sex? No, no, no!

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Eating well means ___________. Eating many more veggies and fruit than most people do.

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What does your room reveal? That we have yet to downsize our furniture to accommodate our empty nest living.

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Above all, the government should spend more to help ____________? the economy. If this means helping big business, so be it. Sometimes, that's what must be done in order to provide more jobs. Right now, globally we are in such serious difficult that having more jobs is essential. I'm hoping that then Obama can implement his plans to help the working poor and what are left of the middle class.

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When it comes to house work, you do _________. can not start unless I have time to detail clean or it drives me nuts!

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You'd rather be single then be with a boyfriend/girlfriend who lacks _________? kindness, humor, and intelligence.

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It's not an outfit without ___________. Accessories.

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Is it okay for a married person to play around with someone with the permission of their spouse? Not necessarily. It depends on the context of the conversation in which your partner says this to you. If they were angry, down on themselves, etc., it's not a good idea! Chances are good that they didn't really mean it.

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Do you tend to talk while you are kissing? umm, no

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If you could go to a Mongolian BBQ right now, and can hand the cook anything you want on a plate for him to cook, what would you have on the plate, and how would you have it seasoned? chicken, sprouts, carrots, a bit of celery, napa cabbage, onions, noodles, red cabbage, and whatever other veggies looked good. tariaki sauce

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What is your favorite food in the whole world and why? Chinese, vegetarian, fruit

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What do I do to make my baked potatoes light brown and crispy on the outside but fluffy on the inside? Put them on the grill. The fluffy part comes from the type of potato. If you want fluffy baked potatoes, Russets are your best bet.

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What's our preference, yams or sweetpotatoes? They are the same thing. I don't care what someone calls them just don't give them to me!

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The majority of left overs in your fridge are from __________. Canadian Thanksgiving at our house. In the freezer now, actually.

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My husband has been cheating on me & he met her a month before we got married. They have had an emotional affair for 13 years. He has now physically cheated on me. He is in love with the woman but alos loves me and has 3 kids w/me. What do i do? He's a cake-eater. He wants to keep both of you. If you allow this, how will you feel about yourself? What will it do to your family? To be honest, in working with women in your shoes, I have yet to see a cake-eater be able to keep the marriage together. It's usually about wanting both women since it gives them power and control and/or money aka child support and alimony. (Yes, after...

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Husband recently told me he had sex with his brothers wife sometime after we first married 40 years ago. I confronted her and she said she done it cos she hated me. I did suspect they were more than friends, why tell me now. He said it was a nasty one off It is a big deal since, for you, it just happened regardless of the timeline. The part that just happened to you is NOW, not 40 years ago. He did this to make himself feel better. He lived with the guilt and didn't want to do so any longer. Not cool to dump it on you after all this time!! What he obviously doesn't get is that now all the pain is fresh for you and something that you...

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How much porn is normal???? Why do guys love it so much. I enjoy it, im not gna lie, but i could totally do w/out it. Guys on the other hand seem totally different...why is that????? Our sex is great, but at times I just feel not sexy enough.. I'm pretty sure that all men could do without it since not all men throughout time have had porn. I understand the attraction. I think it's an easy way out.

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How would you describe your marriage in one word? Work

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Are you writing a book? Yes, with serious ideas for two more. :)

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What s the worst food for you at McDonalds? Anything involving beef, pork, or sugar. Then I have my allergies to honey, yogurt, blackberries, etc., etc., etc., and my lactose intolerance. All of this equals not eating there.

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Is it cute to see your partner angry? No way! I hate it when he's angry, but only a little bit more than I hate it when I'm angry. Not my favorite of emotions.

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Who dislikes sweets? Me me!!!!!!!! It causes me abdominal pain, sometimes serious, to do so, esp chocolate.

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Would you rather live where it is always night? NO, no, no!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Why do women indirectly try and "wear the pants" in the relationship? I don't know too many women who are indirect about it. Also, most women I know do wear pants. If you mean why do some women try to be in control of a relationship without being open about it, it's because they need a sense of control in their lives. They choose to have that by this means, usually because it's "normal" to them having seen it while they were growing up.

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Girls, do you know if your brothers are circumcised or not? How old are you and they? How did you find out? I ask b/c I'm not sure if my sister knows I am or not... Since I was 16 and 20 when my brothers were born, I am aware of their being circumcised since I was changing diapers. My daughters were aware of their brothers being uncirc'ed since we were a very open family, a true family of the 70s. lol

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There has been a lot of discussion about what is immoral and what is not. I thought I would start a thread with a more general focus: How do we tell right and wrong? How is immoral and moral determined? Is moral and immoral the same as right and wrong? How do we tell right and wrong? We tell this through experience, life experience, and social norms. How is immoral and moral determined? Society, religion, families, environment. Is moral and immoral the same as right and wrong? That is 100% subjective, IMO.

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What are you: dad or mom? Did you try to make your children familiar with AB? I am a mom of five. My children, ages 28, 26, 24, 22, and 20, are not familiar with my being part of AB. If they use it, they have not said so to me. It's one of my "private" places online in that I keep my identity hidden in order to talk about things that I don't talk about with my kids.

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Is it possible for a woman not to fall for a married man? How can i avoid falling in love with a married man? This is a GREAT video on a fabulous site for info on this subject: http://www.wonderhowto.com/how-to/video/how-to-avoid-falling-for-a-married-man-69292/view/ The main thing to do to avoid falling for a married man is to build your own self-esteem and sense of self-worth.

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If you had to, would you marry a person who's addicted to sex or a person that's addicted to weed? I would never marry either. If I had to choose, it would be weed. I can send them outside where the weed would not affect me and my health. I can not have a "normal" relationship with a sex addict as there would be NO SEX with me! I can not send him outside to have sex, then come inside to have sex with me since STDs and Hep would eventually impact our lives. Also, latest studies are...

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Flying________ Egg!

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When u were young ( 4-10 yrs old) & lets say someone died in the family that was kinda close to u & u did live with them for about a short period of time what would ur reaction be to the news? I would be sad. Kids don't understand the finality of death until they are around 9. If they were younger, say 6 or under, I would assume that they didn't understand that death is final and forever and help them through on that basis. If they were older, I would help them deal with what is probably the first death of consequence to them personally that they are having to deal with. It...

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Ladies,if you saw your man playing w/ another woman's hair,and whispering in her ear,would it bother you? What would you do? If I knew either of them, if I knew one or both of them were married, if there was no obvious reason for it, if it seemed inappropriate in the setting, etc., yes, it would bother me. What would I do? Nothing. It's not my business unless someone waves an affair in front of my face to say anything to anyone regardless of who it is. If this were done to purposely wave an affair in front of my...

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Do you and your partner share the same towel, tooth brush, or other personal items? Separate toothbrushes, same toothpaste most of the time. Different bath sheets as we each like our own, and I use one for my hair and one for drying off. Separate hand towels since I'm a germophobe about some things. Different brushes, deodorants, shampoos, bath gels, etc., etc., etc. We do share a sink and bathtub and toilet, though.

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Does sleeping in separated rooms mean the beginning of the end of a relation ship? Some healthy relationships remain healthy because couples sleep separately. When I'm having bad asthma and have to run my nebulizer (a small motor) for a treatment every three to four hours, we often sleep in separate rooms. I'm grouchy enough with not getting good sleep and not getting enough air. If he was grouchy from losing sleep or not getting good sleep, well, what's the...

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Were you a naughty child? Not usually. I was really a very good child and teenager for the most part. Miss Goody-Two-Shoes, that was me. I feel like I missed out on a lot by being that way sometimes.

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I have beautiful .................? Children and grandchildren!

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I am 17 with 8 mth old live with 34yr old bf c&y took me out of house, age of consent is 16 in pa and father of my 8 mth old is dead beat my bf the 34 wants to adopt her what can c&y charge him with.i am not in school 18 april 9th mom is ok with us This isn't going to happen unless the biological father signs away his rights. It's also unlikely to happen while you are still in foster care, especially with a 34 year old man. Do you understand how a court is going to view that? NOT kindly, to say the least!

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The best seat in the car is the __________. Passenger's seat. I can see the scenery since I'm not driving and in the front seat.

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What name best fits your car? Sally-Anne

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What do you do when someone steals your parking space? I'd probably rant and rave in my car to let off steam while looking for another parking spot.

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What's next on your shopping list? A wool coat for winter.

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Would you consider living on the thirteenth floor of a building? I had two of my children on the 13th floor of the hospital they were born in. I wouldn't have a problem living on the 13th floor on a building. It's always been a lucky day for me, Friday the 13th. :)

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You'd never leave for a trip without your ___________. Medicine!!!!!

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If you are a small business or work for one, has the credit crunch in the US economy effected you or your job? No, but I wish it had. It would mean I was making more money before all of this.

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If you are a homeowner, how much has the value of your home decreased in the last while? Not a home owner. Rats!

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Are you making an effort to understand the world economic crisis? If so, where do you go to get your information? My husband, the management accountant!

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Has the recent economic crisis changed your choice for the next President? It's made no difference in how I'll vote. However, it's made all the difference in how up in arms I am about the whole thing.

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Any Back-stabbers in your life? My ex-husband, although he's not exactly an active part of my life any more.

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Can you name one person on AB that has brightened your day today? Rosie did with her hugs to me. :)

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If you are visiting me, what kind of drinks do you wish to be served? Cold water. I don't drink anything else any more.

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You trust your _________. Husband and grandchildren.

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If you were a book, what kind of books would you be? Which side of me? lol That's an extremely difficult question to answer. If I had to say one thing, it would be a Nicholas Sparks book.

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I am attending a bridal shower this week-end for by boyfriends future daughter in-law. We have lived together for 5 years and do not plan on getting married. When they ask at the shower how do you know the bride, who do I answer? Referring to yourself as her future father-in-law's partner, significant other, girlfriend, or whatever makes you and your partner comfortable works. I would talk to him about it.

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What is a favorite memory you have about your grandparents? Baking cookies and making candy with my grandmother as a girl. I have a story published about it in "Christmas Cookies Are For Giving."

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What kind of relationship do you have with your in-laws? They are the most lovely people I think I've ever met! I'm very, very fortunate!!!

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How many of u have had bad experiences with ur Mother -in-Law? Not my husband's mum since she passed before we met. I know that we would have held one another dear, though. My first husband's mother, I can't even begin explain how horrific the woman was and is.

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What is your definition of "family"? Literally, it's a biological connection. Figuratively, it's all of what Rosie, Sixty B, Sara Monster, and Wide Awake remembers Nelson have listed and more. :)

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What do you call your Mother-In-Law? Mum or husband's Mum. She passed before I met him.

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I'm taking my Mom on a trip for the weekend. I've got her booked first class, we are staying in joined executive suites over looking the beach, I have her booked for a facial, and I have flowers to be waiting in her room. Other tips to spoil her? Buy tickets to a show that she would enjoy or an activity that she would enjoy. Talk to her and listen to her even if they are the same stories you have heard a hundred times before. Ask her questions to get her talking more. Be patient. You have gotten some great ideas! You're a great son. I hope that one of my three sons will do the same for me when I'm that age! :) Have fun!!

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Did your parents cry when you got married? My mother was the parent that was at each of my two weddings. She did not cry at the first one. She was angry. She did cry at the second one since she had seen how happy I was with him and how well he treated me.

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I dont know if i still love my husband the way i once did. sometimes i feel like im wasting my time. We have 3 kids, he does nothing to help, keeps me at home and wont let me go ANYWERE alone. Why does he not trust me?does this mean hes done me wrong? Is he being psychologically or verbally abusive? The isolation thing is extremely common among abusers. www.ncadv.org/files/PsychologicalAbuse.pdf

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Why is it so hard to leave someone who you know does not love you back the same and they are cheating what kind of love is that and for years, why cant I leave him why is it so hard for me? It is a lack of respect and love for oneself.

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How can a married man say he loves his wife, then say he has strong feelings for another woman. What is with him? Unspoken relationship boundaries are in place in a marriage. Unless their is discussion about going outside of your partner, such as an open marriage, keeping those feelings within the relationship is an unspoken boundary. Anyone who does this is being disrespectful and a cake-eater. Having your cake and eating it too is simply not on in most relationships.

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Does flirting with a guy consitute as cheating, if your married? How far can it go before its considered cheating? Flirting with a man or woman is cheating in our marriage if it goes beyond a certain point. It depends on whether he's flirting with a person in front of me who is a client (definitely work related flirting helps in too many businesses), if it's hidden in any way, and if it's someone he is aware I will have a problem with him doing that with, and how far it goes. Every...

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Are you in someones bad books? And why? Sure, my ex-husband and his wife. I just am. That's all it takes. It's all my fault if they have a problem in their marriage, in their bank account, with their children, or pretty much anything else. Do I care? NO!

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Did you miss your window of opportunity? I did miss some, but I made up for it with others.... as most people do.

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How do you find meaning in life? I keep looking, the meaning keeps changing and evolving. I'm good with that. If it wasn't, it would be awfully boring!!

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So who do you think has the dirtiest minds - Americans, English, Scots, Irish, or Australians? (You *know* Canadians can't compete on this one...) English with Aussies and Scots coming in a close second, Scots, Canadians, and Americans are about the same. However, if you go by what's allowed on TV, Canadians have Americans beat!

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If you let your imagination run wild....where does it usually take you? Into a book I'm either reading or writing or going to write. I was inspired just yesterday for a new book! :)

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Why are you with the person you're with? We have mutual respect, understanding, honesty, and love.

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What is the greatest thrill you have ever felt? Watching my granddaughter being born, when each of my five children were born, and when my husband and I married.

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Do you know a 'She who MUST be obeyed'? My oldest sister. ARGH

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Do you have compassion for all people? I do my best to. I'm not always 100% successful. Even with my ex-husband who abused me for years I feel more sorry for him to live his life being angry than anything now. The only times I get angry and have no compassion for him is when he treats my grandchildren like garbage.

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Do you forgive and forget or forgive, but not forget? Forgetting is not possible as we are human. We learn from history, our own and world history. If someone isn't learning from history, remembering serves no purpose. It's supposed to serve a purpose. Forgiving is not for other people. It is for ourselves--- to move on and be healthy. I can forgive. I can not forget.

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Was your wedding big or small? Our wedding was around 100 guests. We thoroughly enjoyed it! Our vow renewal will have around the same number of guests. We're having more trouble getting it down to that many now, though.

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Please don't take this offensively. I just want opinions. Why are most girls against abortion? For those who later change to pro-choice, innocence and lack of life experience. For those who do not, morals.

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When you were a child, did you obey your parents out of respect, or fear? fear, as is the case with most abused children

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Have you ever been on a boat? I love being on boats no matter the size! Our wedding reception was on a yacht and WONDERFUL!

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Would you let young children go on youtube unsupervised? Never, not even teens without some parental controls.

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What color house do you live in? Pale, pale green with soft white trim.

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Do you think the divorce rate would raise if divorces costed less and wasn't such a long process? Interesting question. I was just reading a recent study on this. In the states where it's more difficult and takes longer to obtain a divorce, the rate of divorce was lower. I guess that pretty much shows what my instinct was on this issue.

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How many married men out there are having an emotional affair with another woman..What is the attraction, and why are you doing it. Why risk your marriage for that. Give details.. There is no way of knowing the exact number as there is no firm definition of an emotional affair to go by at this time. It's not necessarily about an attraction to the woman. It's usually, 80% of the time, because they are looking for something that is missing within themselves or within their marriage. Looking outside of themselves and/or their marriage is not going to fix it....

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Are YOU the apple of someone's eye? Yes, I definitely am. :)

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How would you feel about companies paying some of the bill for employee mental healthcare? This is about to become a moot point. Congress and Bush just passed a bill to provide for parity on mental health care. It's about time!

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How do you trust after being cheated on twice? Never, never, never!!!!!!!!

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What is your meaning about sex before marriage? What does it mean to me? Is that what you're asking? If so, it means that I'm serious about the man. I could not bring myself to have casual sex.

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Would you marry a stripper? Not in a million years!!!!!!!!

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If a three people are in a relationship together and want to get married (all 3 of them) is that okay? its illegal, but why? Legally, three people can't marry under the state. Marrying under your church MAY be a different story, but there aren't too many that fall under that category. Is it okay? If all three parties are okay with it, it's okay for them. Does that mean it's okay for any children who are the result of those relationships? That's another story altogether. Not from anything...

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My husband of 23yrs has cheated on me multiply times (over 6) when do you call it quits? After the second time, they are serial affairs. After three times, you are entering the world of sexual addiction, IMO. I would never put up with this again!

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Have you ever been the "third" woman in a romantic tangle? Do you feel guilty about it? I have not. I hope that the women that were the third women aka mistress with my ex feel terribly guilty. However, he was doing this with women who were not exactly classy so I seriously doubt that any of them ever felt guilty. Perhaps, if they are the wife in this situation someday, they will feel that guilt at that time.

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Under what circumstances would you marry someone who cheated on their spouse to be with you? I'm not in a position to be looking to marry anyone since I'm already married. If I were in that situation, there would have to be several things occur. He would agree to have me talk to his ex if his ex was willing to talk to me in order to get both sides. He would have to have attended significant counseling to figure out why he cheated and how to not do so again. He would have to...

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When is it Thanksgiving in your country? Happy Thanksgiving from Canada this Oct 13... Oct. 13th AND Nov. 27th since we celebrate in both countries, mine and his.

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My father died a few months ago. Would it be rude of me to skip Thanksgiving with the family this year? I think it will just be too hard. I am sorry for your loss. One of the things that we often need to do as the result of a loss is to change our traditions even if it's only for a short time. The first Christmas after the loss of one of my twins, I spent at home, changed a lot of traditions, added new traditions, and did what I needed to do to get through the holiday. The best change I made was to add a tradition of going...

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What is on your dinner plate? Tonight we had a make your own night since I was busy with Thanksgiving preps. I had mac and cheese and corn with an apple and cheddar cheese later on.

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Do you celebrate Thanksgiving (turkey day)? If so,have a great and safe Thanksgiving long weekend ,this weekend. Canadian and U.S. since we are a two citizenship household. :)

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Hope you don't mind asking you this question-Who will you vote for the 2008 President Election?Don't have to answer if you don't wan't. Obama!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Vacations are the best way to let you ________. Relax, get back into myself, get back into my husband, get back into my marriage, and, then, be happy to be home.

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Your life is yours to design. Do you agree? 100%, absolutely, yes!! It's all about the choices we make. If we have no control, we still have a choice about how to react to other's choices.

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Is your favorite book written by a man or a women? The majority of my faves are women. However, I have two who are men.

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If you were to make a Veggie Super hero, what would be on it to make the super hero.. it all has to be veggies. Lettuce, tomato, extra cukes, green peppers, red peppers, black olives (not strictly a vegie though), cheese (if that's allowed), and, if dressings are allowed, mayo, mustard, oil & vinegar, salt and pepper.

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Do you think it is important to give guests at your wedding favors? And if so what are some ideas of what to use? I do think it's important. It's part of tradition as weddings themselves are. It's part of good etiquette for weddings. It's a small thank you for those who come to share your wonderful day with you. Picture frames are a lovely favor. You can have little boxes printed with your names and wedding date and put some candies, not cheap one usually, in them for an inexpensive...

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I was at the wedding party last night and the bride was keep looking at me all the time. I was about talk to her. to tell her stop fuckin looking at me cuz many other people notice that and was asking me questions. What should that mean? It's on her, not on you. Maybe you looked familiar and she couldn't place you. Make a joke about how that must have been the case and leave it at that if anyone else says anything.

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Is there someone who marries whit women that have two kids from her ex.. and hi is always around because of the kids and they even going out whit the kids. How can you take or handle that? If it was a situation that was on the up and up and nothing hidden from me, I would think it was great. I would be happy for her children that they had parents who cared enough about them to get along for the sake of the kids.

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How would you tell your Baptist Mom that your Fiance is a buddhist? It depends on how long we'd been dating, how serious we were, and if my mom needed to know or was going to find out if I didn't tell her... if it would be a big deal to her. For me, I'd think it was great if one of my daughters began dating a Buddhist.

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Would you think someone made the wrong choice after marrying another after only 2 months of dating? It's bad news!

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Me and my boyfriend have been dating for two years, and we're going to get married soon. I'm 21 and he's 24, do you think it's to early? I love him so much and I know he's the one I belong with forever. So what do you guys think? I married at 17. I divorced him. My sisters married at 19, 21, and 23. They were all divorced within five years. I agree that if you are asking, it's too soon. Give yourself the benefit of the doubt and wait!

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If your best friend had 2 tickets to Game 7 of the World Series on your wedding anniversary and you had already made plans with your wife, would you postpone your anniversary plans, or tell your friend you couldn't go? Your friend will forgive you a lot sooner than your wife. You made the plans with your wife first. This should be a no brainer. Go with your wife!

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I've been with my husband for 14 years..married for 11. I just found out that he cheated on me while dating (found letters proving a relationship with someone). Should it matter now? If he has been faithful since? I have always trusted him. Very confused! It does matter. Just discovering this makes it new to you. You have to deal with it as though it occurred yesterday, not years ago. It's okay to go through it as though it was. It IS for you!

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Cheating: I am a married man, and i am seeing another married woman whom i've known for years. I've realized she is the one i love for all these years. What's the chance of me and her getting together eventually. PS. she's confused with who to choose. If you feel this way, you should be getting out of your marriage for the sake of getting out of your marriage and it not working. If you are planning on staying with your wife simply because your mistress (Yes, mistress. Clinton never had "sex" either. >eye roll<) may not leave her husband, you are doing wrong by the woman you married. Have enough respect for your wife to leave...

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Just celebrated 23 anniv. and found text on hubby's cell to a married girl at the gym telling her we celebrated with sex 2x. Then tells her only 2 more years and our son will be out of the house. Claims it's just gym talk but don't trust it. This is a HUGE red flag! I would keep an eye on things. You have every right to feel uncomfortable about it!

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If your spouse had a friend of the opposite sex that they relied for emotional support but they were not sexual with would you feel cheated? I absolutely would. We've been through the trauma and pain of an emotional affair in our marriage. Having opposite sex friends who he relied on for emotional support is too close to home. Having opposite sex friends is fine, but it's fine in it's place. He doesn't need an opposite sex friend to rely on for emotional support. For that, he already relies on me, his male...

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After cleaning, stripping,and waxing a title floor, what is the best way to keep it up, with out going though the Use Swiffer products.http://www.swiffer.com/swiffer/en_US/home.do It's the easiest cleaning system I've ever used. From Mom of five kids and eight grandkids.

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How do you refinish a wooden chair? If it's an antique, you might want to consult a specialist.

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Dust mites accumulate inside bed mattresses, do they? If so, how do we clean out from inside them? The idea is not to clean them as much as it is to keep you from inhaling their feces. This happens with regular vacuuming, coverings, and special sprays.

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I think Marilyn Monroe was so Hot!!! I even have a picture of her in my room. Do you or have you ever had a celeb picture hanging on your wall? I had Leif Garrett when I was a young teen.

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What would you least like to find in your bedroom? My ex-husband! GAG!!

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If a stranger looked in your closet, what would they think? She needs to go SHOPPING in a BIG way!!!!!

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Do you leave the lights on during the day? Mine and my husband's offices are home offices. Lights are necessary for what we are doing. We turn off lights in rooms we aren't in. My office has more natural daylight than my husbands. I use natural light as much as I can, but I still need lights at times. My husband's office has virtually no natural light and requires lights at any time he is working.

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My wife has insecurity issues about a female coworker of mine. My wife discovered an e-mail in which I invited this coworker over to meet our newborn at a time when my wife wasn't home. How do I convince my wife that there's nothing going on? She has some concern about why you would be unfaithful to her or she wouldn't have concerns about this. This is on you. Trying to lay it at her feet or saying it's not your problem is ridiculous. You did something that she was not comfortable with. I'm guessing that you probably knew at the time, had you stopped and thought about it, that she would not be comfortable with it....

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If you found out that your sister was having a affair with her husbands best friend, would you tell your brother in-law? I would confront her. I would tell her that she had one week to come clean with her husband. If she didn't, I'd find a way to anonymously tell him.

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You just saw a home video of your spouse cheating on you...now what? Since I've BTDT, I'd walk.

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Does sex make and break a relationship? For some, it can. It depends on the person, their ages, the reason, the relationship, and much more.

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Is there such thing as a soulmate??? For some of us in some lifetimes.

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Is it true some girls lie about being raped? Yes, for many reasons. There is shame. There is fear. There is the inability to process what is happening. And much more. In addition, if you add in omission being a lie, you have a majority of the women who are raped for all the same reasons.

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If you had to create a new IQ test, one that is much more comprehensive than the ones currently being used, what would you test for? There is nothing wrong with the current tests available with one exception. There is a time factor involved. For some specific disabilities, ie, Bipolar Disorder which often involves a cognitive dysfunction, being timed does not show the true ability of that person. I would try to find a way to either change that or to determine which disabilities should have longer or be untimed.

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My wife says she needs a break and i haven't been willing to give it to her. it feels like all she wants to do is party now that her friends are 21. she doesn't show affection to me but i trust that she isn't cheating on me. i really want this to work out I agree that it would be good to know what it is she's taking a break from. If you have children, it's quite understandable. If it's from you, what are the two of you doing night after night? Do you take her out to do the things that she likes to do? Perhaps a good compromise would be for you to take her out to do something she wants to every other week, go out to do something...

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What would a typical wedding look like if men were planning them? Mine would have been almost as lovely as it was! My husband did the majority of the in-person planning since I was living long distance at the time. I did what I could do from where I was, ie, making the invitations, programs, floral arrangements, centerpieces, etc., etc. He did consult me, but it was pretty much whatever he thought was best since I wasn't there to judge. He may have...

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What do you think of a married couple that hardly ever has sex? They love each other, they work through disagreements, they talk, they support each other, they're physically intimate (hugging, kissing, cuddling), but they rarely do "it." Is that bad? I understand that in many circumstances, with many couples this living in a sexless marriage is a problem for one or both of them. However, this is a generality. Some couples have something occur that leaves them with no options besides a sexless marriage. That does not negate the rest of the relationship if they are willing to stand by one another and find ways to work through that together. I...

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Is there anyone here who has ever cheated on a spouse and not regretted it? Yes, raising my hand high! I had an emotional affair at the end of my first marriage to a man who severely abused me for 20 years. I would do it again!

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Is it appropriate for a married man to maintain a friendship with a woman who tried to have an affair with him? No, no, no!! The ONLY way for the end of an affair to occur is through 100% No Contact! Continued contact is a continuation of the emotional part of an affair.

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Legislative panel: Palin abused authority FOUND GUILTY !!!! What will this mean to the integrity of McCain's Judgment? Will Palin go to Jail for this? Sec. 39.52.330. Corrective or preventive action. After determining that the conduct of the subject of a complaint does not warrant a hearing under AS 39.52.360, the attorney general shall recommend action to correct or prevent a violation of this chapter. The attorney general shall communicate the recommended action to the complainant and the subject of the complaint. The subject of the...

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Would you have a problem if, while voting, they asked you for an ID and then dipped your finger in ink to certify you voted and that you could not vote again? No, I would not. I sure do not think that this is going to happen since all of our ballots here are mail in.

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Is the media being fair to both presidential campaigns? The media always has it's own slant. Some media is liberal, some conservative. Many times, it's based on the owner/principle of the company and their stance. I don't think that you can report politics without being accused of being unfair to all parties, however.

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Better ask for punishment and not forgiveness? Since forgiveness is something that the one who was wronged does for themselves to move forward, that is what should be asked for, for the sake of the one that you have already wronged. Asking for forgiveness for ones self when you are the wrong doer is simply selfish. Wrong doers want this thinking it will make them feel better. It won't. Neither will punishment. You will punish yourself...

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Are you really happy or are you just fooling ur self I am happy!

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How many times do we believe in our own rules over anything else? Far too often! It's a sign of a closed mind.

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If you could live in any century what century would it be and why? I'd choose to live in this one. It's where my children and grandchildren and husband are.

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Why am I sitting here alone tonight (not by choice) when I'm in a "relationship"? Probably the same reason I used to sit alone and be angry about it when I was married the first time. You may need to figure out what it is you need and how you're going to get there. If that means not being with him, so be it. If that means figuring out something else, so be it. Whatever you do, don't just sit and be angry. Move forward with out without your partner!

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Everyone, what do you usually do on a saturday nite? Stay home most Sat. nites

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Everyone grab the smallest thing near you and describe it. NOW!!!! My favorite pen. It's an integrus pen. It turns to open on one end. On the other end it's an orange highlighter. I have trouble finding pens that I can use since I broke my finger and had to have it reset (OUCH!) four years ago. This one is one that I can use.

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All men.... what do you think the sexiest way a women can wear her hair is? My husband likes mine best when it's long and loose.

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What would you do if your husband had a bank account, that you don't have access to, and he won't close? I'd make sure to ask him if someone else's name was on the account to ensure that the money would not be in probate should he die. I would share the same info with him about my account which I do have and he does know about. If he isn't hiding the account altogether, no big deal.

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My girlfriend (age 54) wont change her name for mine. The problem is her last name is of her ex. I feel like im not good enough. Im I wrong to feel like this? While you can't control how you feel, you can control how you react to her choices. Is this a huge thing in the big picture? Does it make you love her any less? Does it change who she is as a person? If the answers to any of those are yes, you shouldn't be with her in the first place. If the answers are no, there are worse things. She isn't married to his ex any longer. She...

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My fiance is a boob whore and sometimes during parties will ask girls to show him their boobs (he did this once at a party I was at but I didn't see it). He tells me this and doesn't try to hide it, but is it cheating for an engaged guy to do this? For me, this would be betraying me and disrespecting me. Does that equal cheating? I don't know. I don't think it matters since the result would be the same. BTW, just because he tells you about it doesn't make it any less hurtful. In fact, it makes it more hurtful. He could be trying to see where your personal boundaries/limits are and what he'll be able to get away with...

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My husband has had an affair. What do I do, I can't forget about the past and I can't seem to ever be truly happy. Although, everytime I feel that it is the right time to just leave him and forget about it, I can't. WHY? You will never forget. It's part of being human. You can put the past where it belongs... WHEN YOU ARE READY TO and not before. If it has been less than two years since you found out about the affair, give yourself time. It takes years to get to a point of being ready to put something this painful in the past. During that time, you are healing. I would guess that he's probably...

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I am currently married to a nice guy who wants me to make all the choices in the marriage. We have been together 8 yrs & I am so bored! An old friend reached me this week and after talking said he's always loved me (I always loved him too)...what to do? It is common to go through periods of boredom in a marriage. If it last more than six months, you might be in trouble. It really sounds as though there is more going on than boredom, though. He's making all the choices indicates that he is pushing you down, not fully respecting you. That would be a serious problem. For that, marriage counseling can help. Set aside the old friend...

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So, you are thinking about moving to a different country. Where would you like to live? Canada, hands down!

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You just discovered a magic potion that would let you live for 300 years. Unfortunately, as a side effect, you would be ugly. Would you drink it? As for me, no, I don't think so... unless all of my loved ones were doing the same.

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When you make a mistake, do you admit it or try to cover it up? Depends. Is my husband going to find out? lol

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Whats the single greatest moment of your life? Seeing my granddaughter being born, having my own five children, and, mostly, marrying my husband.

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When do you start feeling the "Christmas Spirit"? I start feeling it Dec. 26th. It lasts until Dec. 25th. My poor husband and I have an agreement about Christmas songs not being played in his hearing year round. For some reason, he doesn't want to listen to those in July. lol

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If you could be a part of a fairy tale, which one would you like to belong to, and what character? Snow-White and Rose-Red or The Princess and the Pea

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Have you passed off a ready made meal as your own cooking? yes, I have. not often

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What is your "signature" meal? turkey, my own recipe for cornbread stuffing, gravy, and all the other things that go with the holiday meal

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Do you eat meat every day? most days

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When was the last time somebody bought you something you really liked? Mother's Day- My son and my husband both bought me flowers. The flowers from my son were especially special since he was deployed at the time.

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Who causes the most drama in your life? Why do you keep them around? My children. I love them.

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If time passing could be stuck on one month all year long, what month would you choose? September

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While cleaning out your attic you find __________. cobwebs

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Where would we be without the letter "T"? with a really funny name

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How many kids do you want to have , if any? Five, the number I have

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My fiance tells me I can't be friends with my best friend anymore b/c we used to party together in college & he wants me 2 leave the past in the past. Should I still marry him? I don't know what to do b/c my parents have already paid for EVERYTHING. As a parent of five young adults, I can tell you from a parent's perspective that even if I had paid thousands of dollars towards a wedding, I would want my child to call it off instead of making a HUGE mistake in the first place. Do NOT marry until you are 100% sure!!! It is NOT about money!!

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Would you prefer to have a marriage or a lifetime partnership? yes, both

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I have always wore my wedding band,But my husband takes his off during his work hours,it make your mind wonder why,But I have never caught him cheating.Should I worry about that If it were my husband, I would be concerned since he's an accountant. However, if he worked in a mill or around machinery or in construction, I would not be concerned.

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Would you marry a rich old guy (or gal) for their money? I can't give an absolute answer to this question without being in the situation. Since I'm already married to someone who is 17 years my senior who I love very much, it's a moot point anyway.

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What is your wedding ring, white gold or yellow gold? platinum, I'm allergic to gold

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Can a person truly be a good parent if they cheat on their spouse? Does it affect the children? Certainly. Does it negate the person's parenting skills? No. The answer to this question is about the parenting skills, not the ability to stay loyal to their spouse.

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Your spouse - your best friend, help, and comfort - has betrayed and is cheating on you. Your marriage is cold and a lie. The secure foundation of your family is broken and unsafe. Is your spouse truly a good parent? Does it affect the children? Certainly. Does it negate the person's parenting skills? No. It's about the parenting skills, not the ability to stay loyal to their spouse.

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If you get into a relationship, with someone who is already married. A do to this cheating, causes that someone to get a divorce. What makes you think the same thing, will never happen to you? People having affairs are usually people living in a fantasy world of things being "perfect." They believe that that perfection and fantasy world will translate over to a reality of being married to that person. They don't believe that they will have the same thing happen because they will do what it takes to keep their marriage from deteriorating to that point, keep their...

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If a guy loves his wife, then why does he keep looking for an old high school love on my space? It's common for people of both sexes to wonder what someone from their past is doing now. Is this potentially damaging to the marriage that he is in? Yes, it is. Is there a way to prevent that damage and still find out about that other person? Certainly, there is. As long as he is open and honest with his spouse, sharing with her all the way along, never hiding anything, and making sure...

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What does a no contact order mean? Does it pertain to the victims residence? What if the victim wants contact? Is it different when the victim is a minor child? Restraining Order Law & Legal Definition A restraining order is a temporary order of a court to preserve current conditions as they are until a hearing is held at which both parties are present. A restraining order may be issued in a divorce matter to prevent taking a child out of the county or to prohibit one of the parties from selling marital property. Also, a person who is a victim...

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I am getting bills from credit cards that I never applied for. My spouse signed these applications without my knowledge in my name. Am I legally responsible to pay these? You report it. Charges of fraud can be pressed against your husband. However, this will be a marital debt if the criminal courts don't determine otherwise. As such, regardless of his having done this, it is yours to pay as much as it is his.

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My husbands ex filed the divorce papers, he never signed them, I was told they go defualt and she gets what she filed for...joint custody of the 2 kids. She tells them when they turn 13 they can choose to live with her, is this true? They live with us now What he signed is not in question. Has a judge signed this document? If not, it's not a court order. She can take him to court for custody and is more likely to win IF she is willing to relocate to where the children live now since he had agreed to this at one time. However, if there is no custody order in place at this time, neither of them has legal custody. She can take them and run. It...

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What is the curfew for a 16 year old in Oregon? This is according to your municipality.

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IS EVERCLEAR LEGAL IN OREGON no

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Ok so my husbands job is 20 minutes from our house but he always come up with a reason of having to leave and hour before his shift do ya think hes cheating? You could ask him why he is leaving that early.

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Found an address in bf draw looked it up and now want to find out more about person What is it you want to know? What is your question?

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I have been married 15 years with a 10 year old and 8 year old. I have just learned my wife had a drunk fling with a girlfriend I did not like about 2 years ago. My wife has never had a bi affair and blames it on drinking. She did not stop the friendship You don't say what it is that you want to have happen in your relationship from this point on. It sounds as though you have determined that she needs to end the friendship with this woman which is reasonable. There is no way to know that the sexual side of their relationship has ended without 100% no contact between the two of them. It's reasonable that you would ask for this as a...

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Is there a process, or set of "stages" you go through when you've been cheated on and are attempting to repair your marriage? You will go through all the stages of grief, as will your partner. You are grieving your perception of your marriage as it was. He (using that instead of she only for ease of use) is grieving losing his affair partner if he had an emotional tie to her. These are the steps to rebuilding: * End the affair. First, the affair must end. This includes any and all interaction and communication...

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At what age is a child allowed to choose which parent to live with There is no assigned age by Oregon state statute. It depends on the judge, the municipality, and how custody was initially decided. In my case, my youngest child was 9 years old at the time of my divorce. Since the judge decided custody based SOLELY on what each child's wishes were (VERY STUPID! and unfair to them!), they were basically able to move back and forth willy-nilly as often as...

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How many Tim Horton Outlets are in your town? over 100. I checked the website to see.

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Why do Tim-Horton doughnuts taste like their a day old? It's most likely just the location you are going to. Each store has it's own policies within the company policies.

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Do any of you Canadian (or northern US) ABers know if the Tim Horton's Iced Capp has caffeine in it or if it's really just sugar? Caffeine in it. I can tell by my reaction to drinking one. :) There are 32 grams of sugar.

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Salmon out of a can: any recipe ideas? My mother used to make salmon patties and corn fritters for an occasional treat for dinner. We loved them!

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Has anyone tried to embarrass you when they answered your question on this site? Yes, it didn't work, but someone has.

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My ex left me. still called &act like nothing happened. finally deleted him from everything& told him i'm done. i sent him a text bout wishin him luck w/ new girl. he got mad, we had it out. said Good bye to me yet responded to mass text i sent 2 days ago You already told him you were done. Why should he respond? You have no right to ask him to or to be angry that he isn't. Move on!

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My boyfriend of two years informed me that he got his ex girlfriend pregnant. He said it was a one night stand and it never happened again. We just started a family of our own with our first child. Should I work it out? It's not up to YOU to work it out. You will have to participate, but he has to do his share, as well. Are you prepared to deal with having the other child in your life? If not 100%, you should not even go there. The child did nothing. The child deserves to be in the father's life. Therefore, you would have to be willing to welcome to the child. I only know of one situation where...

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My husband is a cheater online...found out hed put profiles on hundreds of dating sites, also porn sites. also 3 mnths befre we married, he was lusting after a 17yr old girl..hes 42. were married for 3 years now. dont/cant trust him and hes angry bout me This goes beyond your not trusting him. If you don't report him for his activity with a minor, you are aiding and abetting him in this illegal act. It's extremely important that you report him to the police. Chances are good that you will need to turn your hard drive over to them, as well, until a trial, if one is necessary, is over. If you have children, this is a HUGE problem! For...

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Do you agree with Sarah Palin that a rape victim should have the rapist's baby? Having been a 13 year old who became pregnant through incest in the 70s and not having been given a choice, I will say, hands down, it should be the woman's choice. She is the one who must live with the consequences either way. She should have access to UNBIASED information and support on the issue. Therefore, being forced to make a decision to not have an abortion is unreasonable in the...

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If you live in a state that always votes very republican, or very democrat, is there even a point in voting? Polls and history are only part of what determines what your state will do. If enough people who believe differently vote, it changes things!! It's those who sit on the side line and don't vote that will never bring about the changes that they want. In addition, there are state and municipal votes that your vote will have a huge impact on. I'm a firm believer that those who...

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I see ___________ in my partner's eyes. love for me

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Is being pregnant at 13 a bad thing? Yes, it is.

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When/If you have children, will you give them an internet curfew? My children had limited time online and limited time watching TV until they were teens on the weekends. I did install spy software at that point.

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Do you charge your adult children rent? I did not IF they were in school or IF it was for a limited amount of time while they found a job and got a pay check. After that, they knew that they would be paying. They always have managed to get on their feet and get their own place before having to pay us rent.

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My mom gave me til tonight to have my room cleaned in order to have a friend over tomorrow night. I'm cleaning now and she comes in saying that it isn't done and to call off the plans. How/CAN I convince her that her change in 'deadline' is unreasonable? By continuing the clean. Tell your friend what's up when you call to follow through with your mom's request that you do so. Tell her that you'll continue to clean to see if your mom changes her mind when you're done. If you think her deadline is unreasonable, I would have to say that your room was unreasonable unclean. Don't let it get to that point again. Pick up...

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What relation to me is my cousin's son's wife? Your cousin once removed. The once removed indicates that it's by marriage.

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How many kinds of beauty are there? I love this question! It's probably the best one I've seen on AB so far!!!! Other than the three you've named, nature, art, and literature, I'd say the following: children and people mathematical colors feelings ability characteristics the soul/essence your higher power animals truth and justice jewels innocence candor modesty ...

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Can you be friends with a married man? Is it possible not to fall in love with him. If you have self-imposed boundaries and have never had an affair, emotional or otherwise, it is possible. Once you have crossed the line once, it's not safe to go back there.

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If money got tighter, would it be hardest to give up your little luxuries or those big splurges? It would be difficult to give up either one. The big splurges are rare so those would probably be the easier to give up.

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How often do you wear those jeans with all the holes in them? I tossed them!

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Is anyone out there living a life without sex...Did you give up sex all together.. Yes. My husband had a radical prostatectomy in January. We haven't given up. It's difficult, though.

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Does anyone ever had the desire to pick up and leave your family...Just disappear from them cause they drove you to it.. Yes, I have had this desire at times in my life.

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How many woman out there are staying in a marriage for financial reasons? Is it worth it? I did for a while. The first time, no, it was not. The second time, yes, it was. Edited to add: I guess I had better explain so DRs don't magically occur. The first time, I had to stay as I had no high school diploma and there were no jobs where we lived. He brainwashed me into believing that my family would help him before they helped me. The second time, I now have some...

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Are there any woman who can't stand making love to their husbands..If so what are your reasons, what did he do to turn you off...Please be honest.. My ex-husband. I hated him. He raped me. I kicked him out in the end.

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Are you in a loveless marriage? If so how do you survive everyday? What keeps you going in this marriage.. No, I am not I'm happy to say!

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Would you want to know if your s/o cheated on you? KNOW! How do you deal with the unknown for better or for worse? You can't.

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Without naming names, who would you consider narrow-minded on Answerbag? (Descriptors may work as long as their anonymity is protected. If you decide to name names anyway, then that is at your own peril.) Those that decide that just because they believe something, it's true, ie, that men have one less rib than women.

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I feel special today, do you and why? Yes, I do. I am a mother and grandmother and wife, loved by all of them.

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When your in a crowded room you __________. Look for space!

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Have you ever had hopes and/or dreams in your life that were shattered to tatters? What were they and what happened? Yes, I have. I hoped that I would go to college right out of high school. I hoped that I would be married only once and never divorced. I didn't go to college until I left the ^&%&#^%$& who abused me in my first marriage of 20 years. That pretty much says it all.

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You tell lies to _________. children when you tell them about the Easter Bunny.

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I dont want to offend anyone, but in the case of having a stillborn child, do doctors insist the mother give birth (like labour) to the child or can you request to have a c section? You can always request a csection. It's up to the doctor and the individual situation whether that request is granted. There are fewer risks associate with a vaginal birth which is why it is preferred by most docs.

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If a MM is having an affair and wants to leave his wife why when confronted does he deny the affair? Isn't that insulting the mistress? Or do they deny bcuz they know the mistress is not worth losing everything for? Don't these MM ever make a choice? Of course they make a choice. By not making a choice of their own, they leave their fate in other's hands. Their choice is to do so. Their choice is to let others decide.

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Is India a good place for honeymoon? I'd have to ask her. I'll see if I can find out.

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If you had to cut costs for a wedding, what would be the first thing you would get rid of? 1. Limit the alcohol to one bottle of white and one bottle of red wine to each six-eight people. Having a limited number of drinks or having guests buy their own drinks are huge no-no's according the the wedding etiquette expert I work with. 2. Have a brunch. This is the least expensive meal to serve. You can also go with a dessert menu, cake and drink only, or something other than a...

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Is India a good place for honeymoon? As long as you don't want to breath. I have some dear friends that went last year. She came back unable to work for two months due to the crap that she was breathing in the entire month that they were there. It's pretty bad. I'd suggest Egypt.

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What color shoes should I wear with a midnight navy satin dress (knee length) to an evening wedding? Please don't say gold or silver. Wedding in MN. Cream, black, or navy blue if they match. It depends on the dress.

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Is it ever okay to decline a request as a bridal party attendant, after you've accepted the offer? In the case that you are describing in your comment, it is not polite, no. When he was asked 2.5 years in advance and the wedding is now so soon, it's extremely rude. Sorry! I work with a wedding etiquette professional.

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Do you hate weddings? I love weddings! We have one to go to next weekend, the day following our anniversary. I'm very much looking forward to it!

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Whom did you choose to be your maid of honor or best man at your wedding? Are you still in contact with them? One of my sisters. Of course!

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How many people in the world can tie a knot in a cherry stem? I don't know, but my daughter can do so with her tongue.