Answer to:
What's the stupidist thing your President [current or past] has ever said? Poor old Not-so-curious George ;) Thanks Sodapop!

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
how to prevent from having hemroids? Mine were small but I want to make sure I eliminate them for good and they don't re-occur. There are a few different things you can do - I recently found all this out because my boyfriend developed serious hemorrhoids. You really can prevent them without resorting to medication. The main thing is to avoid constipation. This is because hemorrhoids are veins that get swollen and enlarged from having pressure on them, and constipation creates pressure. Be sure to drink enough water [at...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Where you worried about Nelson Mandela today when he was in hospital?

Answer to:
My boyfriend has never seen me naked. I really want to show him but something is blocking me mentally. How can I be comfortable in my own skin? Try to understand what it is that's blocking you. Once you've really understood it and you can clearly see why you feel that way, you'll probably start to overcome it. For example, imagine yourself standing there naked. You'll find that you have some kind of reaction e.g. feeling embarrassed or ashamed or not being comfortable. As you feel that reaction, notice exactly what it feels like and...

Answer to:
What do you do with someone who is consistently insulting/hostile/snide who calls you "dear"? Besides "phony" what to name it? Patronising!

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
I have a good friend that asks for help with big projects with very little notice. I am not sure why she can't just say, "On Sat. can you help me with....?" I am busy and sometimes just tired and want to relax. How can I say something? Whenever you want to give someone constructive feedback, it helps to be very warm, clear and to the point. It's important to remember to be warm and encouraging so the other person doesn't feel dumped on or overwhelmed by your comments. Maybe ask her in a friendly way why she tends to leave her projects for the last minute. Wait for an appropriate moment to casually bring it up, and see if you...

Answer to:
Can you write me a poem using the words juxtapose, impose, compose, repose, and transpose? one pose, then another pose: you juxtapose. compose your repose and impose your poise. then transpose: a different pose. it shows. and it blows.

Answer to:
What does the South African flag represent? Well, there are two possible answers to that question. It depends whether you mean, what does the design of the flag symbolise, or what does the flag mean to South Africans? In terms of design, it represents a Rainbow Nation coming together in unity. The flag was designed by a former South African State Herald, Fred Brownell, and was first used on 27 April 1994. The central Y shape can be...

Answer to:
Duz it pss u off whn sum1 u kno is smrt uses txt spk? It kind of really does.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Do you think people should "stick with their own kind", as long as they don't harm "those other ones"? I want to know which poor sucker gets the job of sorting out who falls into the group of "their own kind" versus the "other ones". Phew. Sounds time-consuming.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Where were you during the 9/11 attack on the World Trade Center buildings in New York City? My friend was about to get married and I was a bridesmaid. We were all getting fitted for our dresses, and there was a TV on in the room. Between laughing and joking, we kept noticing these images of a plane exploding into a building and at first we thought it was a movie. Then we realised and turned up the volume to hear what was going on. Later that day I went to see a friend who was...

Answer to:
What some good tips for a story about a shy girl with a slutty and sexy side? When someone has such strikingly opposite sides of their personality, I think it suggests some kind of interesting psychological hang-up, baggage or issue. I think it makes the character more real if there's a hint of where these opposite sides came from, and why she acts like she does. Is it because she feels powerful when she's in her 'slutty' persona, and not as invisible as she does when...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What is an advertising agency? Advertising agencies help other companies advertise their products or services. They advise them on the best way to achieve their business strategy and help them choose where to place their ads and what approach to take. Then they make the media bookings, create and produce the ads, and ensure they're printed or broadcast as planned. There are different teams and individuals for different...

Answer to:
Have you ever encountered low-key racism? All the time. I look white although I'm not, and this often means people will say things in front of me that they probably wouldn't have said if they knew I wasn't white. Just little remarks - like someone remarking they hope their dark tan doesn't lead to anyone getting the wrong idea about their race, that kind of thing. Always awkward.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Why is it that African women dont want there sons to have babies outside there race? I'm not sure what you mean - I'm an African woman, in the sense that I'm a woman, born and bred in Africa, and I don't feel that way. I guess I don't know what you mean by African woman? It sounds like you've had some kind of experience with one person, but remember that doesn't define whole groups. That would be generalising.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
I wasn't sure the exact category to put this in, But how do you learn to not care about what anybody thinks about you? My advice to you would be to stop focusing so much on what everyone else thinks of you, and instead focus more on yourself. It's pointless chasing the idea of pleasing everyone else, because it's impossible. No matter how hard you try, someone somewhere is going to have a problem with you. So you might as well please yourself and just try to be the most awesome possible version of yourself. ...

Answer to:
Why do most people think it is wrong to be judgemental? Are we not to use our intellect? I think it boils down to the fact that nobody is perfect, and many people also don't like hearing about their imperfections. If you judge someone, often that implies they've done something wrong. Even if you're right, people don't like hearing about it. There's also this sense that you're not perfect either, and one day you're going to do something that someone else could really rub in your...

Answer to:
I have anxiety issue and sometimes I get nervous and make others nervous. social people hate me. nice quiet people like me. help! I really understand. My advice to you would be to stop focusing so much on what everyone else thinks of you, and instead focus more on yourself. It's pointless chasing the idea of pleasing everyone else, because it's impossible. No matter how hard you try, someone somewhere is going to have a problem with you. So you might as well please yourself and just try to be the most awesome possible...

Answer to:
don't know what facial expressions to make in conversations It can be really confusing. There's so much pressure on us to be like the people we see on TV and in ads, but of course they don't usually behave anything like normal people. It sounds like you feel as if you're 'acting' when you talk to other people. That might mean you're editing yourself to suit other people's expectations of you. Another way to express this is that you might be wearing a...

Answer to:
I hate myself....please help! WHat have I done wrong?! The only thing you did wrong was hating yourself :) Everyone is flawed and imperfect. Everyone. Go easy on yourself for whatever you believe your shortcomings are. Whatever the situation is, there IS a positive outcome with time and good energy. Hang in there. Tomorrow is another day.

Answer to:
What's the point of talking when one isn't communicating anything signifigant? There are two possibilities: 1. The communication is then for the purpose of filling some emotional need, or 2. The information really IS significant, but only to the person talking and not to you. :)

Answer to:
Have you ever seen someone you know in an ad? My dad was in an ad for a popular steakhouse once - accidentally! He happened to be at the restaurant where they were filming, and walked across the background to go to the bathroom during the ad :)

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Should AB revert to the old site and have the new one at beta.answerbag.com for us to test until it is ready for deployment? ugh. I feel spammed.

| 4 people like this

Answer to:
So....the curious bag and the official know-it-all have cornered the market in q&a! shall we all just collect our redundancy and go home now? It's about advertising revenue. They post questions on popular topics that people Google, and then the page with the 'question' and 'answer' becomes an excellent spot to place lucrative advertising about that topic. Check it out and you'll see what I mean - questions about pain relief or diet or whatever all have their matching advertising links. They're creating saleable media properties....

Answer to:
Does Islam really promote violence? Or is this just a misconception? This question reveals a very unfortunate bias, in that there are no other questions suggesting that any OTHER religions might promote violence. Shame on you.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Should Religious Symbols be Displayed on Public Property? Displaying religious symbols publicly could have a divisive and exclusive effect.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What more is life, than a series of arbitrary, repetitive rituals? Repetitive certainly but probably not arbitrary. Those rituals I think you mean have evolved into social contracts to signify important things to one another: you do this or that to show that you love someone or hate them, or that you're independent and no longer a child, or whatever. It's possible to get to where you feel trapped or just incredibly bored by the sameness and...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Why do so many people seem to have no respect for history? I suppose it's scary for people as it can be a reminder of your own mortality and the limited scope of one human life against the broad sweep of human endeavour. Or something.

Answer to:
I recently dusted off a young adult fiction novel I was writing a year ago, and I've started working on it again. I have to ask: What makes a good young adult fiction novel? Probably a deep, unpatronising and honest understanding of young adults...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
About how many books do you have sitting/laying around your house? At what point...if ever...do you consider it to be too many? There can of course never be too many books, as I see you've conclusively established with overwhelming consensus :) I fantasise about having a huge library with one of those ladders - you know the ones I mean. For now I make do with groaning bookshelves - we're just about to install new floor-to-ceiling ones about 6 metres wide and I'm already wondering where we can put some...

Answer to:
Women are not complicated. Seriously. How hard is it to tell us "you're pretty" and give us Dr. Who and other wonderful British things? Myself and a good friend have talked seriously about writing a user's manual for living with women. Regular compliments would rank highly, as you suggest. Another big one is NEVER questioning the wisdom of your wife's periodic hormone-driven impulses to binge on junk food. It's very much like owning a home appliance. Certainly you're an adult and can make your own...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Did any one make you feel special today? How? Nah unfortunately today kind of sucked a bit.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Have you ever met someone on line and had an instant connection? Did you meet them in person later and still feel that same connection? Yup, good story actually. I'd been trying out an internet dating site and was kind of disillusioned, so I went online to cancel my membership. I found I had a new mail from this guy I hadn't encountered before, and he was so appealing and funny that I felt bad deleting my profile right away without responding. So I sent him a reply, intending to delete my profile the next day. But...

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Did the "Dread Pirate Roberts" really and truly believe that no one would recognize him behind that mask? Most especially his true love Princess Buttercup? Hey don't knock it, it worked fine for him until he said, "As you wish"! Buttercup: very beautiful, but not necessarily a rocket scientist.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Why does this boy not talk to me but talk to everyone eles but he keeps on looking at me and staring why he is shy? If he keeps looking at you but doesn't talk to you, it might be that he has a bit of a crush on you and isn't sure how to approach you or talk to you.

Answer to:
Atheists, if you were elected President/Premier of your country, what would you say in place of "so help me God"? I think "so help me God" is like an affirmation or assurance, in which you swear to live up to your oath of office. So I think they should substitute something a little more binding and legally meaningful, like, "or else prosecute me to the fullest extent of the law". ;)

| 9 people like this

Answer to:
Health for the soul/spirit/"inner being" seems to be a desirable goal...is it healthy to spend your life always "battle-ready", anxious to fight the next battle, even if you are the one who creates the conflict? How good is it for your kids? Hey Rosie :) Interesting question because I've been thinking about this point a lot recently. I don't think it's generally healthy at all. I tend to be a black/white kind of person and the truth is we're all just human, flawed and doing our best, so I often find myself in situations where I feel 'justified' in being annoyed with someone because their behaviour was...

Answer to:
Is 31 too old to wear a miniskirt? Not if you have excellent legs!

| 4 people like this

Answer to:
What is your favorite meal of the day, Breakfeast, lunch, snack or dinner? Breakfast for sure. It's the only meal that has every different kind of food - from fruit and cold cereal to pastries and muffins and then hot things like sausages and eggs :) I could have breakfast food for every meal.

Answer to:
What does your shirt say right now? The Joker from Batman doing his usual evil laughter :)

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Mention a word which relates to the word' Time"? Continuum

Answer to:
Mention a word which relates to the word' Time"? Hammer!

Answer to:
How much cash ya got in your wallet, pocket, and/or purse? About R700 South African rand. I drew R1000 earlier and then walked past a wine shop and spent R300 on two very good bottles of wine :)

Answer to:
What are some excuses you’ve made or heard that a girl/woman used to avoid going out with a guy? (A guy I knew in high school was once told "I have to do crocheting".) I genuinely once told a guy that I was entering a nunnery. He actually believed me... :) In my defense, I was about 15 or 16 and not very skilled at handling awkward situations.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Does anyone know range of marks for an IQ test? meaning what range is average, genius et. Lewis Terman (1916) developed the original notion of IQ and proposed this scale for classifying IQ scores: Over 140 - Genius or near genius 120 - 140 - Very superior intelligence 110 - 119 - Superior intelligence 90 - 109 - Normal or average intelligence 80 - 89 - Dullness 70 - 79 - Borderline deficiency Under 70 - Definite feeble-mindedness See more detail at...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Which names are gender neutral, can be either man or woman? Alex, Sam, Joe, Cameron, Casey, Hunter, Sidney, Kendall, Tyler.... I'm sure there are loads more though :)

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
What is your opinion on someone that is gay? I'd have no problem with the fact that they're gay - in my opinion it's something like being blonde or brunette, black or white. I see it as something that's just part of them and I believe they were born that way.

Answer to:
Are Twitter posts ("tweets") saved on any third-party sites? They can be - they're out there in public so there's nothing stopping someone from copying the tweets over. And then of course some users do it intentionally with lifestream sites like http://friendfeed.com/

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Why do people use Twitter? I'm really enjoying Twitter. It's pretty much like a cross between a blog and the status line in Facebook. You know how you use the status line to tell everyone what you're up to, or if you're having a bad day or whatever? Exactly the same. Different people use it for different things - it can be fun or serious business depending how you want to use it. Basically it's a...

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Do you tweet ? What do you think of it? I'm really enjoying Twitter. I find it really fun reading the often witty and hilarious comments from various people throughout the day.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Do you find tweeting aggravating? Not at all... I guess if I did, I wouldn't go to Twitter. Solved!

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Are you a tweeter on twitter? Yup!

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
What is the point of Twitter? I'm really enjoying Twitter. It's pretty much like a cross between a blog and the status line in Facebook. You know how you use the status line to tell everyone what you're up to, or if you're having a bad day or whatever? Exactly the same. Different people use it for different things - it can be fun or serious business depending how you want to use it. Basically it's a...

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
I just signed up for Twitter. I'm not finding much on it. How about you? I'm really enjoying Twitter. I find it really fun reading the often witty and hilarious comments from various people throughout the day. It's like dipping into someone else's point of view for a second.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
What is Twitter? Is it like Myspace and Facebook? I'm really enjoying Twitter. It's pretty much like a cross between a blog and the status line in Facebook. You know how you use the status line to tell everyone what you're up to, or if you're having a bad day or whatever? Exactly the same. Different people use it for different things - it can be fun or serious business depending how you want to use it. Basically it's a...

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
What is twitter? I'm really enjoying Twitter. It's pretty much like a cross between a blog and the status line in Facebook. You know how you use the status line to tell everyone what you're up to, or if you're having a bad day or whatever? Exactly the same. Different people use it for different things - it can be fun or serious business depending how you want to use it. Basically it's a...

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
Are you on twitter?if you are whats your name,i'll follow you if you tell me! My page is at http://twitter.com/quarkum :)

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What is the point of Twitter? I use Twitter and I'm hooked. One of my favourite parts of other sites like Facebook was where your friends would update their statuses throughout the day - the one-liners would often be really funny or just revealing in terms of what they were up to and what mood they were in. Twitter offers exactly that function, which is great. Each person just adds a new brief note whenever they feel...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Do you tweet on twitter.com? I do and I'm hooked. One of my favourite parts of other sites like Facebook was where your friends would update their statuses throughout the day - the one-liners would often be really funny or just revealing in terms of what they were up to and what mood they were in. Twitter offers exactly that function, which is great. It's like dipping into someone else's head for a minute....

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Do any ABers use Twitter? I do and I'm hooked. One of my favourite parts of other sites like Facebook was where your friends would update their statuses throughout the day - the one-liners would often be really funny or just revealing in terms of what they were up to and what mood they were in. Twitter offers exactly that function, which is great. It's like dipping into someone else's head for a minute....

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
If a picture is on the internet is it open for anyone to use without paying for copy rights? Nope unfortunately not, you need to check with the owner/photographer if they're okay with you using the image.

| 4 people like this

Answer to:
If you felt like your gf/bf wasn't showing as much affection as you would like, what would you do? Two things: I'd first make sure I was giving myself enough affection [sounds wacky but sometimes we look for someone else to make us feel better when we actually need to do some good things for ourselves], and then I'd make sure I was giving them enough affection. :)

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Would you move in with a guy if he has never said I love you? Been together for 2 years.... talking about moving in together.... I need to hear those words thinking this is a bad idea... any thoughts? Every relationship is different, but I have to tell you it doesn't sound like a great sign that he hasn't said those words yet. I'd guess that either he has trouble expressing his emotions [in which case you need to let him know if that's going to be something that you'll want him to work on], or else he doesn't feel the same way you do [in which case, life seems...

Answer to:
Was it illegal to enter a white neighborhood for a non-white person during apartheid in south africa? I had to laugh at the idea of all those white families somehow doing without their non-white maids, nannies, gardeners.... No, access had to be allowed for that reason if no other ;)

Answer to:
What are your opinion on the Zuma case? And do you even know what this question is about? I just made a donation at http://helpstopzuma.co.za/ if that gives you some idea ;)

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
Does your bank ever charge you fees that they shouldn't? Yes. I've worked at banks, and the simple truth is that they charge you for all kinds of things they shouldn't. That can include costs they're supposed to carry but instead pass on to their clients, fees that are hugely inflated for no good reason and also outright mistakes where you're charged for transactions that didn't happen etc. It really sucks. Bill Gates...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
How many minutes, on average, does it take you to travel from home to work, or work to home? Somewhere between 30 seconds and 2 minutes, depending how fast I walk upstairs to my home office :)

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
If I have children, should I label them atheists at birth, much like religious families? It sort of depends whether you're a true atheist or more of an agnostic. If you're 110% sure there's no deity and that defines who you are as a person, then like anyone with a strong belief you're going to be inclined to pass that view on to your kids. But if you're a skeptic, then you should probably give them the room to make up their own minds. Personally I think...

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
Who is the most famous musician you ever met? Ok let's think. The guys from Cypress Hill are probably the most famous, but I didn't so much meet them as hang out with them in a teepee while they were, uh, doing what they do best. There was one night I got stuck overnight on Robben Island with about bunch of people including Miriam Makeba and Jonathan Butler - I ended up sleeping in his room [no, not like that] and shared a...

Answer to:
How reliable is mother-nature? I have a feeling she's supremely reliable, if only we understood the rules...

Answer to:
What's your position on hybrid cars? (a) Sceptical, (b) Optimistic, or (c) Lying on the front in a skimpy outfit Mostly optimistic, but I reckon there's still a better way. I'm amped [pardon the pun] for the release of the Joule... http://www.southafrica.info/business/trends/newbusiness/joule-061008.htm

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Should Doomsday be called off? Definitely, there's a total lack of interest. Doomsday doesn't have nearly enough sex, calories, scandal, fashion, celebrities or political intrigue to hold the attention of the public at large. Well, maybe it has a little political intrigue... I guess the ultimate problem with Doomsday is the following: 1. Everyone disagrees about when it's going to happen and why...

Answer to:
What's your favorite smell, or, What is an exotic thing you like the scent of that most others can't stand? There's a few: ginger, vanilla, mint, cinnamon... And Fenjal bath foam :)

Answer to:
______,my anti-drug. Wasabi

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What things are you doing to save money in today's economy? Looking for ideas on saving/spending less. Using the supermarket member card to get gasoline discounts, saving change we find in the house, etc. What are you doing? Well, community exchange sites like www.ces.org.za let you trade goods and services for points that you earn and spend in the site - no cash required! Or else sites like Freecycle www.freecycle.org put you in touch with people who are giving away stuff for free to anyone who'll collect! Someone else's junk might be your treasure. I'm also good at using stores that give...

Answer to:
How do you like Spore so far? It's awesome and totally addictive. It took me this long to answer this question because I've barely stopped playing!

Answer to:
I think the planets are far too small in Spore. From the city level, you can already see the curvature of the planet. How do you make the planets larger I don't know if it's possible to change the size - maybe with some of the advanced planet sculpting tools but I haven't seen anything. But the small size is useful when you're chasing enemy ships from city to city!

Answer to:
What are some things you don't like about Spore? It's still a bit buggy - like sometimes, my Mission thingy doesn't show where I need to go and it's a real hassle finding the right star by luck alone. Also, I hate that there are so few colours to show the different empires - what is it, orange, green, blue, cyan, purple, mustard, red? So different empires are the same colour in different regions, and it's confusing. ...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
If you stay on Spore's "Tribal" stage longer than usual, do you get farther ahead in technologies and other abilities? Nope I don't think so!

Answer to:
From the online Sporepedia, do you plan on importing all creatures from a single franchise to play on your planet in Spore? (e.g. all Neopets?) I only really import the ones that are unusual or beautifully designed :)

Answer to:
How much time do you spend on each level in Spore? The cell stage took just an hour or so, then the creature, tribal and civilisation stages took a few hours each. I'm still playing the space level and it's taking some serious time - I've been playing for days.

Answer to:
If you have made your own Spore creatures, may we see what they look like? (By having you upload their images?) Tah-dah! Presenting the Chronon creature, and a couple of my favourite minimalist buildings as well ;)

Answer to:
What are some of the best ways to deal with uncertainty? Uncertainty is the only thing you can really count on. Just ask Werner Heisenberg. So I reckon you'd do well to get the hang of it as soon as possible :) Control is an illusion anyway. Enjoy the ride.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Who do you think is the worst character in the Star Wars universe, apart from Jar Jar Binks? I'm going to have to put Jar Jar Binks in second, third, fourth and fifth place.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Do you like to get oiled up? More than I like to get roiled up!

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
In Scotland, if someone knocks on your door and needs to use your toilet, you are legally obliged to give them access to it. Thoughts? Sounds sensible to me! There's a great similarly daft law here in one part of Cape Town - there's a public space where you're legally entitled to make camp for a few days provided you have a small flock of sheep with you. I've always been tempted to give it a go :)

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Do you use an oven mit or potholder to handle hot things in the kitchen? One of these puppies... They're silicone so there's no heat transfer.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
When you are starting a difficult conversation with someone do you prefer to have a specific topic to discuss or do you just say what's on your mind? I definitely plan what I want to say. If it's 'difficult', that means there are lots of emotions or awkward subjects involved, and those can turn a conversation into a minefield. Better to have a map if you want to make it out alive! Also what's good with planning is that by thinking through what I want to say and how I feel, I often have insights into the other...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
My record collection consists of everything from The Sex Pistols to Earth,Wind and Fire !! Yours? Totally diverse, but lots and lots of old funk, psychedelic soul, crossover rock, hip hop, acid jazz, a whallop of grunge from a passing phase, 80's pop cheese, the list goes on and on.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
When someone adds you as a friend on Facebook , what's the first thing you check out on their profile? I usually only accept people I already know, even if I haven't seen them in ages or if we only met once or twice, so I usually head right over to their photos to see how they're living now, if they look happy, what they're up to... and in some rare cases, to figure out if I can remember who they are!

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Can you overcharge a mobile phone? The best rule of thumb is to do a proper charge less often, rather than plugging it in for half an hour here and there. I let mine run down almost all the way, and when I charge it I leave it until it's back to 100% again. So you can over-charge it by doing it too often. But you can't over-charge it in the sense that it'll explode or start flying around the room or making the...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Have you learnt a lot about how your country is percieved around the World on AB? Yup definitely, and it's frankly a bit sad!

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
A famous newlywed spouse is quoted as saying, "She's officially off the market. No one else gets her. And now she'll cook and clean for me." Women: Offended or not? Hey, there's nothing wrong with being a Domestic Goddess if that's your choice! If Portia wants to cook and clean for Ellen, good luck to them both :)

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
You have a friend who always overreacts, is usually out of control and many times embarrasses you. Do you say anything to him/her or remain silent? I'd probably say something right away, but in a good-humoured way so it's not so hard to take. I often find it effective to confront someone's 'bad' behaviour directly, but without hostility or anger, and with a big friendly smile.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Sometimes friendship is like Salome.. the gal with veils who dropped them till you saw her as she was. You think you "know" someone. After all the veils have dropped, you see the real person..the friendship ends. Were you ever really friends? I know what you mean. I think you were really friends - it's impossible to know the entirety of another person's mind and soul, so there's always a degree of 'not knowing'. But if you had a connection and enjoyed each other in some way, then that's friendship. Maybe that person changed in later years, and that's why you no longer have the same outlook. Or...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Presidential candidates have been chosen. V.P. candidates have been chosen. It is now up to we the people to decide. I am very relaxed, very calm and very content. Whatever the outcome, it is the will of we the people! How do you feel? I'm not even American and I'm nervous! US domestic and foreign policy has such a far-reaching impact around the globe that I'm really holding thumbs for a positive outcome. I have to say the last several years have been a baffling time to be an outsider looking in... There have been times I've really despaired at how seemingly charmless, witless candidates who lack any...

Answer to:
Do you think the more we engage/indulge in negativity, the more it becomes part of who we are? Or is negativity like a coat that you can put on and take off whenever we want? Whatever you choose to engage in regularly, begins to define you. It's a habit, but it's also more than a habit. The neural pathways in the brain are formed and maintained by repetition - and those pathways are what define your brain chemistry. In other words, if you feel negative often, you become likely to feel negative even more in future. It eventually becomes difficult to respond...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What is the first word that comes to your mind using the first letter "F"? Flagrant.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
When I say "take your medicine" what comes to mind immediately? <sings> "A spoonful of sugar makes the medicine go down, medicine go dow-wown, medicine go down. Just a spoonful of sugar makes the medicine go down, in the most delightful way!"

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
What are the odds of getting a pair before the flop in texas hold em? 1 in 17, according to http://www.pokercompatibility.com/poker-blog/39-news/71-online-texas-holdem-poker-odds.html But it's a nice feeling, isn't it? :)

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
If you play Poker, who taught you how and how old were you when you learned? I just learned a few weeks ago, so 33! We went away for a seaside weekend with a group of friends - but it rained the whole time so we stayed inside by the roaring fire. A friend of a friend, Francois, had brought his poker set along and taught us to play Hold 'Em. At first all the guys played while the girls chatted - then I got interested and became the Dealer - and an hour or two...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
When writing, do you use parentheses much? (I do). Yes and no... I have a weakness for square brackets, and I use them in place of parentheses; flagrantly flaunting proper usage in the process [but I just don't care]! :-]

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What is the origin of the word "fuck"? Cipher's answer is correct - the word has German, Dutch, Swedish and Norwegian roots from words meaning copulate, penis etc. But the incorrect urban legends about its origin are way more interesting. The story goes that the word comes from an acronym of either For Unlawful Carnal Knowledge or Fornication Under Consent of the King. In both versions, there were apparently laws...

Answer to:
What's one thing you will not tolerate? I thought I was going to answer 'cheating', but then I realised that I could theoretically imagine myself forgiving that under certain circumstances. It wouldn't be easy, but maybe. The one thing I would never, ever tolerate is physical abuse of any kind. He could expect a swift kick in the nether region as I headed for the door...

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
What is your favourite kitchen appliance? Smeg fridges....yum!

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What was the last time you called your mom? Earlier today when she called to chat. She's really excited to be buying herself a small house and wants to talk about decor all the time :) My dad passed away a few years ago, so this will be her first purchase of property on her own, and there's a lot of emotion around it.

Answer to:
Where to find the best food in johannesburg, South africa? All depends what you like! Joburg is full of great restaurants, ranging from fast food outlets like those mentioned by cletus in his answer, to seriously elegant or trendy places for a special meal. Try http://www.eatout.co.za/ to search for options that interest you. Personally, I strongly recommend Moyo, which has a beautiful, unusual and very African style, while offering a mouthwatering...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Does Georgia (the one Russia invaded) have oil? Of course it does. There's a major pipeline that's backed by the US and that supplies Western Europe. It's a major strategic gain for whoever controls it. Here are some interesting snippets from an article dated 31 May 2005, when the pipeline had just been completed: "...the completion of the US-backed pipeline, which has taken a decade to construct, will inevitably...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Does it snow in South Africa? I'm just curious. Snow isn't very common in South Africa but it does happen! Usually just in the mountains, but occasionally in the cities too - although there are typically gaps of several years between city snowfalls. When there's snow, there's usually a lot of excitement about it and people will often book weekends in the mountains when it's snowed, to get a glimpse of it and let the...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What South African mountain has the name of a piece of furniture? Table Mountain of course - although that name has only existed since the first European settler climbed it in 1503. The original inhabitants of the Cape – the Khoekhoen and San tribes - called Table Mountain Hoerikwaggo – "sea mountain" or "mountain in the sea". Just for fun, here's a link to a webcam on top of the mountain -...

Answer to:
What happened during the apartheid years, in South Africa? I was born in SA during apartheid, and lived here the whole time until it ended with the first democratic elections in 1994. I'm not white, so I got to experience it first hand. Basically what happened on a daily basis was that your race group officially defined where you could live, where you could to go school, who you could marry or date, which facilities and amenities you could use,...

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Do you often wonder how many points you might have if the people whose questions you took the time to research and answer gave you even ONE point? For me it's all about knowing that someone actually read it and got something out of it, so for that reason just getting one point would be great! That big hollow zero could mean no-one ever set eyes on your answer.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What are the 11 official languages of South Africa? What do you think of having so many 'official languages?' I think it's great having 11 official languages, as it shows respect and recognition for all the different groups in the country. It also encourages understanding of diversity, and encourages people to learn each other's languages. Most South Africans speak 4 or more languages, and almost all South Africans speak at least 2 languages, so the policy is entirely appropriate. I...

| 4 people like this

Answer to:
Are you South African? Yup, Capetonian born and bred.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Why is "for example" e.g when the phrase has no "g" in it It's from the Latin 'exempli gratia', meaning 'for the sake of example'.

Answer to:
Do you ever sneak outside food into the movie theater? Oh yes. I went through a strange phase where I couldn't see a movie unless I had some Chinese prawn crackers. And they make a loud crunch when you eat them, so they weren't exactly subtle!

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
In Texas Holdem, if there is a straight on the board. Does the person with the highest card win or is the pot split? The way I play, the highest card wins. Not sure if that's 100% official though! But that's how I was taught, by someone who takes it fairly seriously :)

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Any positive rap lyrics that inspired you? This is what an OG told me filthy rich and dying lonely, forget the Benz forget the Rollie, life is what you make it homey. Dead Prez with Hip Hop. Huge inspiration reminding me to always have integrity. "If you check 1,2, my word of advice to you is just RELAX Just do what you got to do, if that don't work then kick the facts If you a fighter, writer, biter, flame igniter, crowd exciter or you wanna just get high, Then just say it But then if you a liar-liar, pants on fire, wolf-crier, agent with...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Does anyone know any songs that mention days of the week? Stone Temple Pilots had a song actually called “Days of the Week” :) MORPHINE - "Thursday" THE POGUES - "Tuesday Morning" DAVID BOWIE - "Drive In Saturday" THE CLOUDS - "Wednesday Night" YOU AM I - "Tuesday" HUMMINGBIRDS - "Tuesday" U2 - "Sunday Bloody Sunday" NICK CAVE & THE BAD SEEDS -...

| 4 people like this

Answer to:
Are there any South Africans registered here? Me too! Living in Cape Town and loving it.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Does your city or town have a nickname? Yup, Cape Town is called 'The Mother City' because it's the oldest city in South Africa.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Do you make more or less than $75,000 a year? Much less - in fact zero - 'cos I earn South African Rands, not US dollars :P

Answer to:
A South African teenager suspected of killing four people in a shooting spree at a black settlement has appeared in court as angry protesters said the killings were racially motivated. Are things still that bad in South Africa? It's like any other place in the world - dealing with the legacy of its past while trying to build a better future. Every place in the world has its problems, and things from its past that it still struggles to deal with. Racism is not lurking around every corner, as you may suspect. In fact, it's probably less prevalent here now than many places in the world. BUT with so many...

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
What three things would you like to change on A/B? 1. The design needs an update for sure! Makes me think of the 90's - and not in a good way! 2. There are a lot of users who don't interact very much, and I wish that wasn't so. It makes the site feel stale sometimes. I often see questions with several answers, where the person asking hasn't given any points or made any comments. That sucks. 3. I wish there were new...

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
My 6mo old lab puppy has some stiffness in his legs when he gets up. It's almost if it could be arthritus. He gets over it quickly & runs & plays. Is this normal? You should talk to your vet about it as soon as possible, just to be on the safe side. I don't want to scare you, but we had the same thing with our golden retriever puppy, and it turned out he had bad hips - even though both his parents had been x-rayed for hip problems. He's now had surgery to both sides, and the difference is amazing - he's his old self again. Labs and...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Is 'letting the wind take you where it will' sound scary, thrilling, or a dream come true? I think it's a great way to be. There's a saying I've tried to live by at times - 'jump and the net will appear'. It's about not needing to have every detail meticulously planned out before starting something - just following the instinct or circumstance that's leading you somewhere. It's both scary and exciting :)

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
They say the early bird gets the worm. When the sun comes up, do you rise and shine or hide under the covers? What's Your "Morning Personality"? As soon as I'm awake, I'm up. I love getting outside first thing for a big breath of fresh air and to see the sun. Then I'm pretty active right away, pottering around watering the garden, playing with the dogs, tidying up the kitchen a little etc before settling down with some coffee and my emails. When I'm out of town with friends, I'm the kind of person who wakes...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
How many of you have actually looked up Answerbag on Wikipedia? Outstanding idea! I just did it for the first time, and it was really interesting to get some of the history and background I wasn't aware of.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Is there anything you would like to add to "blue bag avatars" or change them completely, so you dont just roll your eyes at them? I so agree - I tried to rustle up some interest a while back in getting AB to change the default options, but it kind of went nowhere :) I think they should offer dozens of different options, and to save them the hassle of designing them, I suggested making it a user competition for those with design skills to submit options, and then everyone could vote for the ones to be included. ...

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
What has been your lowest rated answer or question on AB? I got rated minus two for an answer I gave - am still mystified how it offended anyone! http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1856000 QUESTION: How do you relax? ANSWER: Depends how much time I have! My favourite relaxing activity is to hit the open road, take in the scenery, and wind up at a beautiful campsite for a week or two. But if you're talking about relaxing for an hour or...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Xenophobia just another name to cover up racism among blacks? What is your opinion on the xenophobic attacks in South Africa? Xenophobia is an economic phenomenon, first and foremost. The majority of people perpetrating these crimes are living in tumble-down shacks, with no job at all and the bare minimum of prospects for getting one, and living off the meagre income brought in by one family member. This doesn't excuse their actions in any way - but what happens is that the foreigners are often refugees from...

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
What's the best way to beat the blues? Serious long-term answer = get a good support structure to help you out, talk to someone, follow your heart in life and do what makes you happy, treasure the simple things, take some supplements or meds if you need to. Quick-fix answer = get out into the sunshine every day [because sunshine boosts the feel-good hormone serotonin], and add certain foods to your diet [e.g. complex carbs for...

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
How important is empathy? Do you think if we were all more empathetic, it would be a good thing or is it overrated? I believe empathy is one of the best parts of being human. Even more so than love, because love is called for as a biological imperative at times, like the protective love of a mother for a child, and it can appear in some form in other animals as well as humans. But I see empathy as unique to humans, and it requires kindness, warmth and compassion.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
How do you tell a loved one that he or she will not recover and will die? With as much kindness, love and empathy as you possibly can. It's about their feelings and reactions at that moment, not yours or anyone elses, so just focus on how they're feeling and reacting and do the best you can to comfort them. They're going to be really scared.

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
When in your life have you felt the most loved? Today :)

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
Can you tell me a least two ways to get a fast promotion at your job? If you really want that promotion: Work harder than 90% of your co-workers Be nicer than 90% of your co-workers Dress sharper than 90% of your co-workers [sucks but this will definitely fast-track you] Don't bad-mouth ANYONE, EVER Solve problems, don't cause them Be a team player, but stand up for yourself when it's important Imagine a version of yourself who's been...

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Best job prospects for 60 year old serial entreprenuer Motivational speaker, offering the wealth of their experience - both successes and failures - to others :)

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
I'm applying for a job, and I don't have any prior experience. When it asks for prior experience and business references, I don't have any, so what do I do? I was always taught to never leave anything blank, but I don't have anything to write down. You should definitely not lie, but you can list a few things here despite not having work experience. If it were me, I'd put something like: I have not previously been formally employed, but I am responsible, eager to learn and hard-working. I've held a number of part-time jobs while at school, such as <whatever you can think of - babysitting, washing cars for neighbours...

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
If you had to have the same name as a U.S. state, which one would it be? (this'll be tougher for the guys) Not sure, but for definite I'd want to avoid 'Idaho'. That could backfire badly.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Do marketers think we are stupid when they show beautiful models in their perfect, strong, chiseled, fat free bodies and they want to make us believe that they got like that because they have been using a cheap exercise gadget that they are selling? Yup, they're definitely hoping so.

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
Have you ever lost touch with a friend, only to find them years later going down the wrong path? Yup, and I was a little sad for her. We were friends in a phase when we were really young and going to lots of parties and everything that comes with it. Years later she's still stuck in that life and hasn't moved on.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
What was your crime? (google "<your name here> was arrested for") Megan was arrested for indecent exposure while crossing The Bay bridge on the way to the starting line...

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Do you have Pop Tarts in your house right now? No, cos they don't make them in my country. In fact I've never had or seen one. I've heard of them in movies and stuff, and I always think the name is hilarious. Brings to mind Britney Spears for some reason....

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
What beer do you drink? i love trying continental lagers my fav at the moment is petermans. Draught preferably - a nice Peroni or Stella is lovely.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
How does the total area of the Serengeti ecosystem (in which the wildebeest/gnu migration takes place) compare in size to the country of South Africa? The Serengeti ecosystem is about 27 000 square kilometres, while South Africa is about 1.2 million square kilometres. Most of the Serengeti ecosystem is in Tanzania though, with a small part in Kenya.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
If you are a beer drinker, on a hot day after a really hard and thirsty day at work, does it really matter what beer (brand) quenches your thirst as long as it's cold and frosty? It definitely matters. Any beer is great after a hard thirsty day, but the right beer makes all the difference. Yum.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
In your opinion, which is more a powerful motivator: fear or loyalty? In the end, loyalty by far. Fear is quicker and more broad-based, in that you can persuade a huge group of total strangers to behave a certain way by appealing to their fears. But if someone is loyal to you, based on a long relationship, there's very little they wouldn't do for you. A loyal friend would take a bullet for another, whereas someone motivated by fear would have run off...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Do you own more or less than 100 books? Getting close to 400 now probably.

| 4 people like this

Answer to:
What was the Boer war I keep reading of in all of my romance novels? (forgive my spelling, it's been a long day) The Boer war was actually a series of at least two conflicts that took place in the late 1800's in what is now South Africa. 'Boer' is the Afrikaans word for farmer - these were people who had 'trekked' from what is now Cape Town deep into the interior, to the area near to what is now Johannesburg. They fought a war of independence against the British, and gave them a...

| 4 people like this

Answer to:
Which out of these do you respect the most and which do you respect the least? DJ's, singers, rappers, writers, film directors, painters, actors, and photographers? I guess I think of it differently - if it's about respecting someone for their work, I believe anyone can be a master at their profession, no matter what it is. And in that case, I couldn't rank purely on what they do, it would depend who they are and how they do it. I can pretty easily imagine circumstances where I might respect a street sweeper more than a CEO, so it's...

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
What is your favorite cookie? They're called Deepest Darkest Chocolate Chunk Sins - Viva: The All African Chocolate Chip Cookie. They're not to be taken lightly. They're made by Mason's Confectionery in Cape Town and people go gaga when they taste them. There are huge melty gooey chocolate chips oozing from the best cookies ever - chocolately but also almost spicy. Beyond description.

Answer to:
Do you "coupon" and "sale shop" on a regular basis? Do you have any tabulation accounting on how much you save over a month's /year's time? I used to work for one of the biggest retailers in my country, planning their sales and promotions, so I still use my 'inside' knowledge when buying from them :) They're pretty regular with how they promote stuff, so if I need to buy a large item I can make a pretty good guess how long to wait before it goes on sale! I'm also a big fan of loyalty programs, and I worked...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Guys, are foul-mouthed girls/women a turn-off? So many are now as casually garbage-mouthed as some men. When did this start? Ok I'm a girl so I shouldn't really be sticking my oar in here, but I couldn't resist. Even as much of a modern, independent, equality-oriented woman as I am, I don't like to hear a girl swearing like a sailor the whole time. Fair enough, everyone needs to let off steam once in a while, but I'm talking about a regular habit as part of conversation. For some reason,...

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
How did Tasmania get its name? After Captain Abel Janszoon Tasman, Dutch explorer who 'discovered' it.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
I really like a guy in the office but he has girlfriend and had been 10 years in that relationship and has 3 kids with that girl. i just met him 1,5 years a go but i really in love with him already. what should i do? I think it's pretty obvious you can't do anything, unless you want to break up that home. And my personal belief is, that's not the best way to start a relationship. Force him out of your mind by doing all kinds of great things you really love. And other options will come your way.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
I was born in the Year of the Rabbit under the Chinese Zodiac, what are some characteristics of this sign? From good old Wiki: Those following traditional Chinese astrology consider people born in the Year of the Rabbit to make ideal diplomats or politicians. In Chinese astrological thought, a "rabbit person" is graceful, cultured, well-mannered, articulate, talented, and ambitious. They are virtuous, reserved, and have excellent taste. Rabbit people are admired, trusted, and are often...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
American politics are like a long running soap opera. Does anyone agree with this? One thousand percent!

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Many people die in the bible. How many were killed by A> God or B> Satan? Interesting question :) Found a great blog where they've given this one a LOT of thought: http://dwindlinginunbelief.blogspot.com/2006/08/who-has-killed-more-satan-or-god.html Here's a quote summing it up: "I counted the number of people that were killed by God in the Bible. I came up with 2,391,421, which, of course, greatly underestimates God's total death toll,...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Have you ever bought something expensive and broke it almost straight away? I bought a fancy helmet for our Vespa, with a front visor that could folded down as a windbreak - and the very first time I went out with it, my boyfriend put it into the helmet compartment when we arrived and then closed the lid too hard, cracking the visor right off! I still have the helmet, but the visor hinges make it really stupid because you can't tell why they're there, so...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What's your favorite smell at the minute? fresh peppermint - yum!

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Can you give me a question to this answer? 171 How many roads must a man walk down, before we can call him a man?

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What makes your kitchen unique? Well, a few things. Half of it has a glass roof and mostly glass walls, though which you can see the nearby mountains looming over you. Plus we haven't got around to installing proper cabinets yet, so we're using two of the prototypes of the cow-shaped bookcases our company makes. And then bang in the middle of a room is a stainless steel catering table like you would find in a...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Why are Americans so against socialism, and put it in the same category as communism? I recently saw some really hectic propaganda footage about socialism, that was widely circulated in the US around the 50's and 60's. I imagine that went some way to colouring viewpoints...

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Can you remember a sign that was supposed to be serious but was comical or just wrong because of the way it was worded? In my area we have signs that read "Slow children at play" (no comma or separate lines) One of my favourite local travel & outdoor magazines runs a regular feature about this. Users travelling around South Africa send in their snaps of hilarious signs they've spotted. Here are some of my recent favourites - if you have time to kill see them all at http://www.getaway.co.za/content/magazine/funny_signs/index.asp

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
What is your favourite cocktail? A caipirinha [a traditional Brazilian drink prepared with cachaça]. It's delicious. Yum. 1 lime 2 ounces of cachaça Sugar to taste Ice cubes Wash the lime and roll it to loosen the juices. Cut the lime into pieces and place them in a glass. Sprinkle with the sugar and crush the pieces (pulp side up) with a pestle. Just enough to release the juice, otherwise...

Answer to:
Does anybody remember those jello desserts from about 1970 which separated into 3 layers: thicker & opaque at the bottom, jelloey in the middle, and a thin layer of congealed foam on the top? Mmmmmmmmmm... I don't know those desserts, but I have to tell you I've never heard the words 'congealed foam' followed by 'Mmmmmmm...'!

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Laminate flooring.do i have to use underlay on old hardwood floors. Yes, you should. The underlay is not just to even the floor, but more importantly to damp down the sound and feel of footsteps. Without underlay the floor will feel unyielding underfoot instead of a little springy as it should, and will sound very loud and clacky.

Answer to:
I painted my livingroom a pale green color. It looks like you painted the wall white and then dabbed a shade of green on it. What color rug do you think would compliment this color? Before I even saw the other answers, I was going to suggest chocolate brown. Light green and dark brown are beautiful together :) And the dark floor will help to 'ground' the room with all that light colour on the walls.

Answer to:
What is the carpet like below your feet right now? Like this...

Answer to:
What type of floor coverings do you have in your home? Grey limestone tiles in the bathrooms, soft rich cream carpets in the bedrooms and warm brown laminate in the living areas. With my beloved huge fluffy white flokati rug under the dining room table. Here's my puppy modeling for us on the laminate :)

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Every time I shut down an open internet browser it shuts down every one I have open. Say I'm on one page and shut it down it says internet explorer encountered an error and must shut down. It then proceeds to shut all pages down. What is wrong? For one or another reason, IE has gone all buggy on you. Your options are to either: ► Reinstall IE, or ► Use another browser e.g. Firefox Personally, I recommend using Firefox. I find it a lot quicker and more stable, and it also has many more cool customisable features.

Answer to:
Do you receive a paycheck or is your pay directly deposited into a bank account? It's my own business, so I go into the company account and transfer funds over to my personal account :) Takes some of the fun out of waiting in anticipation for payday ;)

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Last year 0f high sch00l and i was w0ndering if this is t00 much t0 wear when g0ing t0 sch00l : f0undati0n(i've g0t sp0ts 0n my face fr0m my allergy s0 thats y i wear it but its n0t t00 much like i mean it l00ks natural), light eyeliner & lipgl0ss? If your parents and the school are okay with you wearing make-up, then that's fine. It doesn't sound like way too much. I'm sure you know this already, but if you have spots you should be really careful about wearing foundation. It can clog up the pores and lead to even more spots. Get the best one you can afford and use it sparingly. Cleanse it off well at the end of the day,...

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
The " Windshield Wipers " were invented by a woman Mary Anderson in 1903 , what other ' inventions / devices ' have women made? Ada Lovelace [1815 - 1852] was the pioneer of computer programming. She was a fascinating character - her father was the famous poet Lord Byron, while her mother was very interested in mathematics [very unusual for a woman of that time] and passed on that talent to her daughter. As a young woman and scholar, Ada met Charles Babbage - the designer of what is now recognised as the first ever...

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
What attributes of the lotus flower make it symbolic? Deleted - it posted twice! :)

Answer to:
What attributes of the lotus flower make it symbolic? The lotus symbolises purity in impure surroundings, for a very interesting reason. Lotus plants have a natural self-cleaning property, which means that even though they tend to grow in wet, muddy places, their leaves appear almost magically spotless and pristine. This is because the structure of the leaves at a microscopic level is too rough for water or dirt to stay there - it just rolls...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Why is the lotus flower such an important symbol in Buddhism? The lotus symbolises purity in impure surroundings, as Stableboy so eloquently explained :) There's a very interesting reason why the lotus is a symbol for purity though - not just in Buddhism but around the world. Lotus plants have a natural self-cleaning property, which means that even though they tend to grow in wet, muddy places, their leaves appear almost magically spotless and...

| 4 people like this

Answer to:
What nationality are you? List all please? South African :)

Answer to:
A relationship that you thought was destined to last forever has ended (not yours). During the life of the relationship, you gave a family treasure or heirloom to this person. Once given, does it belong to that person who left or should it be returned? If I were the recipient, I would insist on returning it, as I wouldn't feel right about keeping it. But I guess everyone is different. If they don't realise the significance of the item and they think it's just a nice gift, then they won't offer anyway. But either way, there's not much that can be done about it. I suppose if the heirloom leaves the family, it would...

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
What's the name of the song that goes like this: The Sound of Silence...?

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Do you remember your childhood home? What still really stands out for you about it? We lived next door to my grandparents so the two back yards were joined together, and I loved having all that space to play in. My grandfather was a wonderful gardener, so he had this huge flowerbed with flowers taller than I was. In our garden we had a honeysuckle bush that smelled wonderful. :)

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
What did you do exactly between Dec 31, 12:00 p.m and Jan 1,2008,00:00:01? Watched the clock tick over to 2008 with my boyfriend, and cheered :)

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Don't be a irreplaceable? You can't be promote otherwise agree or disagree? Don't worry about whether you're irreplaceable or replaceable. Just aim to achieve your best at work, and after a while if you notice that your employer refuses to promote you because you're too good at your current job, confront them about it. Explain that you need to grow in your career and that you'll need to leave for another job if they don't give you opportunities...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Who has the best avatar on AB? I think Str8man's is fantastic - http://www.answerbag.com/profile/?id=222989

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Who has the best avatar on AB? I think Str8man's is fantastic - http://www.answerbag.com/profile/?id=222989

Answer to:
What about a competition for users to submit new default AB avatars? Just to clarify - I'm talking about updating or adding to the below *default* avatars offered by AB :)

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
I accidentally walk in on you as you're stepping out of the shower. What are my first words going to be? "Why the hell is there a Golden Retriever in there with you??!!" [He loves the water and if I forget to close the door, he just comes running right in] :)

| 4 people like this

Answer to:
What part of your body would be rejected if you tried to donate it to science? At this time of year, definitely my liver! On the up side, if they did want it, at least it would already be partially pickled! ;)

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
"Always do the right thing." What is 'the right thing'? That little voice inside knows :)

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
I have to tried use the "watch this category" button...but it acts like it is disabled. I can not click it at all. Is there something I'm not doing right? Is there any chance you're already watching that category? If you were, I think the button would do that. Just a thought! :)

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
My sister stole something from me and I checked her bag to see if it's there. Am I violating her right to privacy? The last time I lost something, I found it in her bag, yet she cannot be forced to admit she took it. Sounds like an awful situation - my sympathy. I guess if it were me, I'd be wondering what was going on in her life to make her want to do that. Something is clearly wrong, and maybe if you're not too angry with her you could help her figure it out? Or she might not be ready to be helped yet, in which case you're probably in for a difficult time. My advice would be to let her...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
If you could spray grafitti on The White House or Buckingham Palace what would you spray? I'd go with one of the below... ;)

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
The new Australian government is going to pass the laws that make same sex marriage legal and afford the same legal rights to it as hetrosexual marriage ... I say its about time do you agree? Yay! Fantastic news :) I was really proud in 2006 when South Africa [where I'm from] became the fifth country, and the first in Africa, to legalize same-sex marriage. It's really great that another southern hemisphere nation is taking up this challenge. Now the rest of the world needs to follow!

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Non U.S. dwellers: Does your perception of American society / lifestyle come mostly from American television and movies? Be as honest as you can. This is not a quiz for which you get a grade. My perception of American society / lifestyle comes from several sources. As a young child, most of the shows and movies I'd watch were American, and so the American lifestyle seemed exciting and like a better version of where I lived. South Africa was undergoing sanctions then so we didn't have many global brands, and popular culture was several years out of date. So watching...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Did you like the movie I am legend? I'm really surprised how few people liked it - I saw it yesterday and thought it was fantastic. Will Smith stepped up his performance several notches from his usual goofy comedy persona, and I found the movie gripping, haunting and really scary.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Ladies: what advice do you give a woman who wants to wear slinky high heels, but can't walk upright in them? You're not the only one - I struggle too! I found out something interesting about this - most people pronate when they walk [the foot rolls inward] but a lot of people under-pronate or in rare cases supinate [the foot rolls outward]. It seems that high heels are much, much harder to walk in if you under-pronate or supinate. So this might be your problem. But there is hope! Find high...

Answer to:
I can't walk in heels. I own about 7 pair that I loved in the store only to find I couldn't be seen in them in public! Am I the only woman in the world who cannot walk in heels? You're not the only one - I struggle too! I found out something interesting about this - most people pronate when they walk [the foot rolls inward] but a lot of people under-pronate or in rare cases supinate [the foot rolls outward]. It seems that high heels are much, much harder to walk in if you under-pronate or supinate. But there is hope! Find high heels with a soft, flexy sole that...

Answer to:
What did u eat for dinner tonight? It's 10:48 in the morning here already, and we've just had breakfast :) We were a touch hung over after having friends around last night, so we had a wonderfully greasy and unhealthy breakfast of hashbrowns and coffee! Bad for the waistline but great for the hangover :)

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
Does your husband/wife/significant other spend time on answerbag? Yup he's around. We started on the site together, but I got more hooked than he did. He still pops by from time to time. Hi honey! :)

Answer to:
I'm only 49, and I think I have some serious memory loss issues. What can I do to improve my memory or reduce the rate of decay? Sorry to hear about that - it must be really frustrating for you. A good simple way to keep sharp is to avoid getting in a rut with anything. Each time you do something unfamiliar e.g. driving to work by a different route than usual or brushing your teeth with the 'wrong' hand, your brain is in a heightened state of activity which causes new neural pathways to open up. If you want...

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Why is it that packages that are glittery, glossy, sleek, slick and fancy attract us and simple, modest and understated packages don't? Sometimes the only thing that is there is the wrapping..look inside, nothing is there! Why do you suppose we do that? Plumage. We like to think we're so evolved, but a lot of times we're really not too different from these guys...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
When you leave this plane of existence, do you want to leave noisily, spectacularly and in full view of everyone or would you rather leave quietly, privately and under the radar? Quietly and privately, preferably at home in bed, without pain, with my loved ones around me. I want them to have a chance to say goodbye so they don't suffer any regrets later.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
When you are confronted by something that could be considered potentially "worrisome" or "unsettling" do you go into panic mode or do you become detached and stoic? I'm one of those people who copes brilliantly at the time of a crisis, and stores up my stress for a meltdown at some later point :)

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
We know that penguins live in cold areas. So, what's the highest temperature that penguins can take? There's a colony of penguins near where I live in South Africa, believe it or not. They're called Jackass penguins [I'm really not making this up] and they hang out at a popular local beach called Boulders. It's a great and really surreal experience swimming at the beach and having a penguin zoom past you in the water. Being Africa, the temperatures get really hot and they...

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Do penguins fight? You obviously haven't seen the movie Madagascar - they're kung fu experts! :P

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Ms.Lhamo, a friend of mine, is a new 1st level. Would anyone care to offer a "hello" or a "welcome to AB" to show her what we are like here? Welcome Lhamo! Hope you have a great time here [and don't get too hooked!] Looking forward to seeing you around :)

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Should I be upset? Described an injury to my bf he said it sounded like I was out of shape..I was hurt by what he said but he didn't seem to be bothered by it..calling me baby and whatnot..so..do I even have a right to be upset at him or is it wasted? Nope don't be upset :) Sounds like he's just being a guy and being direct and straightforward about what he says. It doesn't sound at all like he was trying to be mean.

Answer to:
Have you ever woke up and was unable to move or talk for a few minutes? It happens to me alot and its scary as hell. Once my ex told me she saw a female ghost or something holding me down during an episode. I'm not sure if it's the same thing, but once I had an experience of seeing my dead grandfather after he passed away [I know this sounds crazy but it's true] and I couldn't move or talk during the experience. I had been sitting in my room reading a book that reminded me of him, and thinking of him, when suddenly the temperature seemed to drop instantly and I couldn't...

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
I don't usually read other answers before I answer a question. I want my thoughts to be my own. It's more fun for me that way. Do you read other answers before answering? When I first read the question on the category home page, I already know how I'd like to answer. But then I do usually check the other answers before I give mine, in case other people have already said what I'm about to! It makes for a very boring thread if the answers are all the same, so if someone else has already made my point, I usually just add a comment to theirs saying I agree :)

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
You avatar: an awesome way to show yourself and your feelings... or just a random picture that means nothing My avatar is a photo of a designer toy called Makutu the Yellow Eyed Penguin. I love the design, and also the great little story behind it. Makutu belongs to an extreme environmental action group called IWG [Insurgents Wilderness Gruppo] which goes around striking back at humans for their crimes against animals and habitats. The range of toys features a wide variety of armed and deadly...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What's your favorite application on Facebook? I have two at the moment - StumbleUpon [which brings in your favourite content you've flagged while browsing], and the Sentence Game, where a few users write a five-line story between them without seeing each others sentences. It can be very funny :)

Answer to:
Has anyone heard of a site called stumble upon? StumbleUpon is fantastic, and seriously addictive. You just hit the 'stumble' button and it suggests a random site you might like. It learns your preferences amazingly fast and just gets better each time you use it. Then it creates a blog for you of all the sites you liked. Really fun. :)

Answer to:
What do you think of parents who parade their "genius" children from TV show to TV show and make them "perform"? I think they're probably compensating for some kind of insecurity in their own lives. They probably need a nice hug, or a swift kick up the rear, or possibly both :)

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
I am in debt up to my eyeballs. Does anyone have any suggestions or solutions to help me get everything paid off? I was looking in to debt consolidation but i'm not sure about it. Sorry to hear about your situation - that's really stressful. I worked at banks for a few years, so I should be able to give some pretty reasonable advice here. The truth is the answer is very simple and you probably already know it. You need to keep chipping away at the debt with regular payments, and not run up any new debt under any circumstances. Debt consolidation is only a good...

| 5 people like this

Answer to:
You can repeat your life over again, exactly as it was, from any age. What age would you go back to and start over? I'd be really tempted, but in the end I'd stay in the present. I can relive all the good times just by remembering them, but if I went back I'd have to relive through all the difficult times too. For example, I could choose to go back to when my dad was still around and before he got sick, and it would be amazing to spend time with him again, but then I'd have to watch him...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Do you usually follow the principles of Occam's Razor? Not always. Life is often chaotic and complex, and the simplest answer isn't always the right one.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Why do teenage girls seem to rebel so much? Hormones. :)

Answer to:
What is the difference between intel ceeron and pentium 3 They're just different Intel processors. Think of the Pentium as the high-end option and the Celeron as the low-cost option. The Pentiums are usually quite a bit more expensive than the Celerons. Depending on the specifications, Pentiums are also generally better for memory-intensive applications like games, multimedia etc. But if you're planning to use your PC most of the time for...

Answer to:
How do I stop breaking out after a wax Exfoliating gently before a wax is always a good idea, and using soothing treatments containing e.g. tea tree will help. Chat to your pharmacist about products.

Answer to:
Who was the child star of Steven Spielberg's Empire Of The Sun? Christian Bale, amazingly enough. It's hard to believe it's the same guy from Batman Begins and his other movies. But even then he was a wonderful actor.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What do you think about www.outdoordating.com? Nice looking design, and a fresh, useful concept for sporty, outdoorsy people. If I was considering using the site, I'd be careful about meeting someone new in a remote place e.g. for hiking. I'd probably want to take along a group of friends or stick to something with lots of people around.

Answer to:
Do you know how to say hello in another language?? Say it in your answere ok. ► In Xhosa it's 'molo' to say hello to one person, or 'molweni' to many people. ► In Afrikaans it's 'goeie dag' or just 'hallo'. ► In Seshotho or Setswana it's 'dumela' to one person or 'dumelang' to many. ► In Zulu it's 'sawubona' to one person or 'sanibonani' to many. This site...

Answer to:
Why is it ok for white men to sleep with black women but if a white woman sleeps with a black man, she is labeled for life as a "pig"? She isn't. Anyone who says that has some serious issues, and so does anyone who listens to them.

| 6 people like this

Answer to:
How would you translate the 'slightly irreverent' phrase, "I beg your humble pardon"? How, why, and when should or can it be used? Translate it into what?

Answer to:
When I turn my computer on a high pitch sound comes from it and my monitor does not come on. what is the problem? There should be a power button on your monitor - usually on the front - with a little indicator light next to it. It may be that you need to press that button to turn on the monitor power. The high pitched sound from your PC might be an alarm indicating this. Of course there could be lots of reasons for what you describe, but this is what I'd try first :) Hope it helps!

Answer to:
Do you have social Phobia? I do. It's not an easy thing to admit in public, for that very reason :) It's interesting because I can see it in myself, understand the reasons and know the fear is illogical, but it's still hard to stop feeling it. I've found that being well prepared for a situation usually helps me a lot e.g. visualising it beforehand, knowing who else will be there, checking the...

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
What was your worst illogical childhood fear? Early one morning, as I was still lying in bed, I somehow convinced myself that Darth Vadar was in my room. I was sure he was standing in my doorway - although I was too scared to actually look and check :) After a while he went away, but I was always worried he would come back again.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Can you please post a bigger version of your avatar, so we can actually see it? Here you go :) My avatar is a photo of a designer toy called Makutu the Yellow Eyed Penguin. I love the design, and also the great little story behind it. Makutu belongs to an extreme environmental action group called IWG [Insurgents Wilderness Gruppo] which goes around striking back at humans for their crimes against animals and habitats. The range of toys features a wide variety of...

| 4 people like this

Answer to:
What do you look like? I'm tall with dark hair and eyes. I have deep dimples and a cleft chin, so very often I'm referred to as 'cute' in the same way as a 6 year old :) As a result, I've always wished I had glacial cheekbones, icy eyes and a dangerous air..! ;) The illustration below is by my boyfriend. The funny photo of us inside our bookcase was for a newspaper article about our...

| 19 people like this

Answer to:
If you could create a Patronus charm (like in Harry Potter) what animal would it be? Great question :) Mine would be a penguin, of course...

Answer to:
Why wont the confirmation thing for answerbag send to my email adress i have tried sending it multiple times and the email adress isright but it wont send how do i get it to send? This happens quite often. One option is to contact admin@answerbag.com and explain the problem. The other option is to update your email address and then request your confirmation again. This second method seems to be very effective - it worked for me and for three other people I know of. Here's how you do it: ► Click on your username under 'Shopping Q&A' in the top...

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
What do you really want for Christmas? and do you think you'll get it? It's Christmas morning here already, and my poor boyfriend is stuck in bed with a tummy bug. I wish he would feel better so we could go and have a fun day!

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What is the longest thing you've ever been required to memorize? Coleridge's epic poem 'Xanadu' for a performance exam...sheesh! http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1508098

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Do you think that shows like extreme makeover and the swan are giving america the wrong message Yup quite possibly. Look, there's nothing wrong with a good makeover - it's great for self-esteem and it's just a heap of fun. But for me, if those shows were really going to portray a slightly more balanced message, they would also contain a bit of an internal makeover too e.g. a therapist or life coach helping the person break out of old bad habits and see themselves in a new...

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
What are some things that would tell you that someone absolutely, positively doesn't have feelings for you? If they tell you so :) If you're always the one calling them up, and not the other way around If they admire or flirt with other people openly in front of you, and never do the same to you

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
You have just purchased a 5,000 acre cattle ranch. What will you name it? To make the most of my beautiful views, I'd build a geodesic dome instead of a ranch house. And then I'd call it "Dome on the Range" :)

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Hey guys I have a 2 year Restain Order, on baby daddy.. and his family has been asking me if i could please take the baby for X-mas go gethis gitfs,, and that asshole lives there, so I really dont know what to do? The grandma havent seen 4 a while.... Get them to come and visit you instead.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
We just got wireless internet yesterday. We want to put the software on our 15yr old's computer and have it be a surprise, but he put a password on his puter. Any ideas on how to get the password w/o giving the surprise away? I would strongly suggest that you avoid going onto his computer if he's put a password on it. I know your intentions are really good, but maybe there's another way to achieve the same surprise e.g. leaving a message for him to find, etc? In my [admittedly limited] experience of 15 year old boys, they get into all kinds of things their parents would rather not know about. Some of...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Which celebrity do you fancy, but find a bit embarassing to say? (Examples inside!) Drew Carey for some reason. He has twinkling eyes and a warm grin which are just really appealing to me :)

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Can you remember how you saw the New Millenium in ? Hasn't six and a half years flown by? I was determined to spend it alone, so I climbed onto the roof of my 6-storey apartment building, which overlooked Cape Town's Waterfront district - the site of several parties and many fireworks. It was a hot summer night and I sat up there and watched the world go crazy around me. It was great.

Answer to:
What is my last name? it starts with an 'L'. Logan Lopez Lincoln Little Lewis Lambert Long ?

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
How many stamps are needed to send a letter from the USA to Canada? I think this question is a duplicate. You might find your answer here - http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/63102

Answer to:
Was your first post on AB a question or an answer? Interesting question! You just helped me remember how I got here in the first place :) I was doing a copywriting project and needed a name for a new African eNewsletter. I was having writer's block, so I Googled it for inspiration and ended up at this question - http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1819254 Which I then answered :) And just like that I was hooked!

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Does any one remember the cartoon freakazoid? It was a Spielgerg toon about the same time Animaniacs started was over before Pinkey and the Brian spun off. I loved that show so much. I can still hear the theme tune....remember? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bpjXFF0zIJY Super-teen extraordinaire Freakazoid! Freakazoid! Runs around in underwear Freakazoid! Freakazoid! Rescues Washington D.C. Freakazoid! Freakazoid! Unless something better's on TV Freakazoid! Freakazoid! His brain's overloading It has a chocolate coating...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
If you could be a chair, then what type of chair would you be? I would be the wonderful Lounge Chair by Charles and Ray Eames. I just love it so much - it's warm, friendly and relaxed, but also sophisticated :)

Answer to:
Should this question have been flagged as offensive? http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1905887 as it offended no-body in particular, and was only a bit of fun. Hmm... I see what you're saying about it not being offensive to anyone in particular, but it was kind of heated and strongly-worded. Maybe it was more about the wording than about who it was directed against. I think the references to pus and human waste definitely counted against you! I'm not sure why someone's marked you down for asking this question though...

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
Suppose you have two girlfriends and they somehow happen to "meet" and you want to avoid getting screwed. what do you do? Sorry, you're screwed already. It was always going to be risky, but as soon as they meet each other, it's probably all over for you. Best to just confess, be honest, and live with the consequences! Maybe next time stick with just one - it's a lot less stressful and a lot more honest. You never know, you might like it :)

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
Do you have an embarassing duvet cover? Sort of - I really love my camping sleeping bag so I have that on my bed instead of a duvet cover! Luckily we have two the same so we've zipped them together to make a double-wide size for our queen bed. And yes, we have had some comments from friends :)

Answer to:
We are going camping for spring break. What item would be most likely to be forgotton? Sunblock Toilet paper Matches Extra torch batteries Pump for air mattress [if you're using one] Enough water to drink [if there's none at camp]

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What is the most interesting word that you can think of this instant? Synecdoche :) It's a figure of speech in which a part is used to desribe the whole or vice versa. E.g. if you talk about resting your weary bones, because it's not just the bones that are weary :)

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
What are the 12 days of Christmas? The amount of time it takes the average shopper to run up enough credit card debt to last them the next 12 months ;)

Answer to:
Have you noticed an increase in Moderation Trolls? I'm still kind of new, so please explain what defines a 'Moderation Troll'? I saw a post by AB staff saying moderation is very helpful to them, so I've been happily going around doing that. Is this frowned on by other users for some reason? I only flag things which are genuinely in the wrong category etc. Why is that seen as wrong? Does the user lose points for it?

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
I have a severe case of depression and anxiety the doctors cant help.They give me a year what should I do It's great to have lots of support and help, but at the end of the day, the only one who can really help is you yourself. If you're seriously depressed I definitely recommend talking to a doctor about getting onto antidepressants, but that's just the first step. After that, the most important thing is for you to find something in your life to be happy about and to look forward...

Answer to:
Are you interested in the profiles of users here? Or you really don't give a hoot? I love looking at profiles, and it's always nice when there's some info and insight on someone's profile. In some cases, people have no info at all, which is always a pity :)

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
What tidbit of worthless information do you have floating around in your head? When scrambled eggs are overcooked and go rubbery, it's because of a chemical process called syneresis which has basically squeezed the liquid out of the eggs. That's also why there's a little puddle of water under your eggs on the plate.

Answer to:
A man was to be sentenced, and the judge said "Make a statement. If it's true, I'll sentence you to 4 years. If it's false, you get 6. After hearing the man's statement, the judge allowed him to go free. What did the man say to the judge? "You're one perverse SOB, Your Honour"

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Why / how did you pick your avatar ? what (if anything) does it mean (to you)? Mine is a photo of a designer toy called Makutu the Yellow Eyed Penguin. I love the design, and also the great little story behind it. Makutu belongs to an extreme environmental action group called IWG [Insurgents Wilderness Gruppo] which goes around striking back at humans for their crimes against animals and habitats. The range of toys features a wide variety of armed and deadly creatures...

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
What colour co-ordinates with gold for a wedding day For a gorgeously elegant and classic look, nothing beats a combination of white, gold and a little silver. Or else cream and gold are lovely together too :)

Answer to:
Do you find it difficult to determine whether or not people are being sarcastic online? Yes for sure, when I don't know them very well it's quite hard to gauge.

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
Can I wear a dark eggplant-ish purple plum-ie dress with bright red pumps? i think it looks fine but i don't know if it breaks some kind of rule? I think it sounds fantastic - I'd wear that! If it were me, I'd probably add a small touch of red somewhere else to pull it together e.g. red nails or lips or jewelery or hair clips. But the main thing is what you already said - that you think it looks fine! You're the only one you need to please :)

Answer to:
Does a long sleeve blue and white striped dress shirt go with solid black dress pants or solid brown dress pants? The black sounds better to me :)

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What is your favorite book in the Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy Series? All of them! I've read them all a few hundred times [really] and, like most Douglas Adams fans, I know whole sections off by heart.

Answer to:
I bought a satin-y light purple shirt dress and was looking for advice on what type or color of shoes to wear with it to a special event. Since it's satin, I'd go for sexy strappy silver sandals. Perfect.

Answer to:
I have been dating a man for a few years. At holidays, his grown daughters plan brunches, parties, etc. and invite their father and their mother who are divorced. I am dating their father and they do not invite me. I feel slighted. What I'd feel slighted too. My advice is to assume it's because of some reason you don't know the details of, and refuse to take it personally. Call them up and explain that you'd love to join them, and ask how they'd feel about that.

Answer to:
My bf is a crossdresser & is the happiest when wearing womens clothes & pantyhose. He asked me to go out of state with him, where no one will see him & he can go out in public dressed as a woman. We love to share our clothes . Should I do it for him? I would - it sounds like fun! Enjoy :)

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
Whats better to shave with a razor, or get a Brazilian wax done? The wax for sure! Shaving grows back really fast and can cause nasty bumps or skin irritations. The wax hurts pretty badly the first time, but not so much after that.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
I don't have lots of money. Could I earn a few dollars by investing in the stock market? Where would I begin, and whom would I contact? Imo, the stock market is best left to those who can afford to lose their investment if the market goes sour. With stocks, you generally either get a high return with high risk [not good if you can't afford to lose it] or a lower, more steady return over a longer period. If I were you, I would rather talk to my bank about savings products with high interest rates and low risk.

Answer to:
I will be starting to work at a revenue agency company (a government job) in early January, but I am not quite sure what kind of clothings would be appropiate to wear. Can anyone give me some suggestions? I'd appreciate it. It's always good to dress neatly and smartly for the first while, until you see what others are wearing. So for the first few days, simple classic outfits in neutral colours are best. Once you get a feel for the accepted style of dress, you can change to whatever feels appropriate to you. Good luck with your new job!

Answer to:
I need to stop balding cold. Will ASC-J9 effectively and safely down regulate my androgen receptors locally on my head? And how may I mix this chemical so no systematic absorption occurs, if possible? Being from a warm climate, I never thought about how much of a problem that can be. Gosh. Sorry I can't help, but good luck finding your answer :)

Answer to:
It seems everybody's got a Christmas CD out right now....when's yours coming out, and what's it going to be called? Mine is just a CD single: Yule Be Sorry [If You Eat One More Bite]

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Since we are doing bacon questions, take the word bacon and make a sentence using each letter in order. How many can you come up with? (i.e. B=Best A=animal, so on and so on). ► Boldly Answering Can Offend No-one ► Beckoning Adam, Crystal Offered Nookie ► Buxom Amazonian Chicks Ogled Neville ► Bowing And Curtsying Often Neutralises ► Blessed Are Chaste Offenseless Nymphs

Answer to:
What is the first word that comes to your mind? Dandelion :Þ

Answer to:
What comes to mind when you hear the word "America"? Excess.

Answer to:
What do you say, if I said: "equilibrium"? Meniscus. So there.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What comes to mind if I say Freud? ║ ║ ║ ║ ▼

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
What do you think of when you hear the word "jibberish"? 'Twas brillig, and the slithy toves Did gyre and gimble in the wabe: All mimsy were the borogoves, And the mome raths outgrabe. "Beware the Jabberwock, my son! The jaws that bite, the claws that catch! Beware the Jubjub bird, and shun The frumious Bandersnatch!" He took his vorpal sword in hand: Long time the manxome foe he...

Answer to:
I say red ,you think of? Berries! Yum.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What is the largest man-made structure in the world? The 'To Do' pile on my desk...<sigh>

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
How do you make a funny? Basically all you need is a banana skin, a sidewalk and an unsuspecting victim.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Do you believe in an interventionist god? Heck no. Bang goes free will, not to mention karma.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Do some of the Ads on AB creep you out or made you very annoyed? Some of them definitely creep me out. There seem to be an awful lot of hardcore religious Christian ads talking about sin and punishment - really scary stuff.

Answer to:
On a scale of 1 to 10, 10 being the best, how would you rate the generic avatars here on AB? They really bug me - they could be so much better! The overall site design is clean and contemporary, but the generic avatars look like clipart circa 1997. A zero from me, I'm afraid.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
MY CONFIRMATION EMAIL WONT LET ME CLICK ON LINK EVEN THOUGH I CLICKED ON ENABLE LINKS FOR ANSWERBAG This happens quite often. One option is to contact admin@answerbag.com and explain the problem. The other option is to update your email address and then requesting your confirmation again. This second method seems to be very effective - it worked for me and for two other people I know of. Here's how you do it: ► Click on your username under 'Shopping Q&A' in the top...

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Why did you leave your last job? Gosh, it was really awful. Even though I normally work for myself, I'd given in to financial temptation and taken a big corporate marketing job I'd been offered [even though I hate Big Corporate]. I lasted exactly two days before I had to tell them I just couldn't go back. In those two days I figured out from the regularly scheduled meetings that my life would have consisted...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
I'm planning on going camping, I've got a sleeping bag, a tube of toothpaste and a roll of duct tape. What more do I need? Dear God, don't forget the BEER!

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Global warming! are you doing anything to help? are you using eco friendly light bulbs, not using plastic bags when shopping? walking occasionally instead of driving? I'm trying! ∞ Composting vegetable matter ∞ Using energy-saver light bulbs ∞ Turning off unused lights & power ∞ Recycling glass, paper and plastic ∞ Using my own bags instead of plastic ones for groceries When I can afford the capital outlay, I'm going to change to solar power and install a grey water irrigation system.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Have you seen death up close and personal? Yes, my dad died in front of me. It's unbelievable, the person just suddenly isn't in their body anymore.

| 7 people like this

Answer to:
If u found out co-worker was being let go, and u wanted to tell them but did not, when co-worker gets 2 wks notice and they ask if u knew, and u said yes, and they felt betrayed by YOU cus u knew and didn't say, would u feel they were acting childish? I wouldn't feel they were being childish, no. They've just lost their job and they're dealing with a lot of hurt feelings over that, so it's understandable they might not be at their best right now. Just don't take it personally, explain that you sympathise and wish you'd been able to say something. And give them some time to come around and cool down a little....

| 5 people like this

Answer to:
What do you think will be or has been your favorite age in life? Right now. I mean, I've never before had so much life experience, and I'll never again be so young :)

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
If you could choose the next level past Guru, what would you pick? Maharishi Virtuoso Wizard Pimp MackDaddy / MackMistress Wunderkind Clever Clogs Pundit MasterMind :Þ

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
If you are attending an Office party, but it is at someone's home, should you take a hostess gift? (Bottle of wine, flowers, box of candy...) I would take something small but lovely, like good quality chocolates. That way you're not only covered if everyone else takes gifts, but you're also not being too showy with a large gift if no-one else has one.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Was it wrong to give a close friend of my husband a birthday kiss (on the cheek) at a party in front of everyone? Only you know the answer, because what makes it wrong or right is the way you feel about it. If you're attracted to him, or got a little thrill from the kiss, or are now thinking about him in an inappropriate way, then it was wrong. But if it was innocent from your side, then it's totally fine.

| 4 people like this

Answer to:
What closing should I use in a Chirstmas card to an old friend I haven't been in touch with for years, instead of Love, Your friend, Sincerely and others that don't seem appropriate? How about 'warm regards'? I always use that when I want to be friendly but not too friendly :)

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Organic dog food Indeed.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
When is it appropriate to say I love you? When it's true!

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
Does absinthe cause hallucinations? On two separate occasions I shared a whole bottle with someone [yes, clearly I was sanity-impaired at the time] and I've never hallucinated on it. And we even prepared it the 'proper' way by heating it up and adding sugar, etc. But make no mistake, it's serious stuff and very different from normal alcohol. We definitely went all funny in the head and ran around whooping it...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Have you ever drank mead? What was the best brand you have tasted? I drank mead once, expecting it to be a pleasant new taste experience. Instead, I found it completely and indescribably foul. I had that feeling where you genuinely want to scrub your tongue to get rid of the taste. <shudder>

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
Please help - this could save me days of work! Is is possible for info on a spreadsheet to be 'read' row by row and printed in Word? Each row spans several columns and needs to be printed in a set format, one A4 page to each row of information. It's in Excel now, right? I'm not sure if you actually need to go into Word at all. Here's how I would do it: ► Format all the rows as required ► Select row 1, from the first to the last column with data ► Select File > Print Area > Set Print Area ► Select File > Print Preview ► Select Setup > Fit to 1 pg wide x 1 pg tall ► Select Setup >...

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
What does Richard Simmons smell like? Juicy juicy mango.

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
What is your favourite smell? ((I like the smell of rain. :])) There are a few... ♥ Rich, freshly-brewed coffee ♥ Vanilla ♥ The sea ♥ Fresh ginger ♥ Frangipani blossoms ♥ Real fresh peppermint

| 6 people like this

Answer to:
How can I be sure I am not way too "clingy"? I am not jealousy driven or possesive, I just like to pay LOTS of attention to my s/o. I am just afraid I am too clingy. It's wonderful to give lots of love and attention to your partner, but a good trick is to remember to shower yourself with just as much love and attention. That leads to you treating yourself to special days once in a while doing your own favourite things or hanging out with your own old friends. Having more focus on yourself brings a good level of balance.

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
Why does it seem like every potential employer has to send you a letter of rejection basically stating that they have found a more qualified candidate but without actually saying it ? Do they think you are incompetent and why do they beat around the bush? Labour law can be a minefield for employers - there are so many people keen to sue if they pick up the slightest suggestion of impropriety or basically anything that could win them a case :) So I think that's why employers use cautious, vague language. If you would really like the feedback, it's usually ok to ask the employer to give you some comments on the elements they felt were...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
I just noticed that my beard is turning white. While the top of my head is staying brown. What do you think about guys with a salt and pepper beard and dark hair? Yup, it's very sexy!

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What is your idea of a Great day? Ok, these are some of the necessary ingredients: ► Waking up with the sun shining, a breeze blowing and blue skies outside. ► Romping through the waves at the beach with our puppy. ► Going for a scenic Vespa ride along the coast with my boyfriend. ► A big lazy braai [barbeque] with good friends and good food. ► Drinking cocktails at sundown overlooking a beautiful view. The...

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
Have you ever watched a commercial and wonder how the hell it was allowed to air? All the time. I used to work as an advertising manager and I know how complex and expensive a process it can be to make a commercial, so I'm just amazed when a piece of total cr*p makes it all the way to air. What's even worse is when those same ads get huge sales. I remember talking to another ad manager whose brand was running just the worst ad I'd ever seen, and she was...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
You are thrown out into space, sans suit, what kills you first and how long does it take? You have about 15 seconds to live, IF you've remembered to exhale all the air in your lungs before [or else the oxygen would expand in the vacuum and rupture your lungs]. After 15 seconds you'll need more oxygen, but if you're rescued then you should survive. You'll most likely have nasty frostbite from the freezing cold though. My guess is the lack of air would kill you...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Do you go Yummy to liver and onions --? That's so strange, the same day you asked this question, I ate liver and onions for the first time in years! It was so delicious I can't tell you. We had popped in at an English-style pub, so I was enjoying it with a tall frosty glass of Peroni draught. Heaven :Þ

Answer to:
When (what date 00/00/00, or approximately) did you become a member here at AB? Just 11 days ago, on December 5! I'm brand spanking new :Þ

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
Where do you live, and how much do you pay per gram? In Africa you don't pay by the gram - they hand you a big fat bag :) It's been a while since I was into that though, so I can't really comment on prices.

Answer to:
So how are you celebrating your new year's eve? Please provide ur asl too. It's sunny summer here, so we'll probably go to an outdoor concert at the nearby botanical gardens - my favourite local band [http://www.freshlyground.com/] is playing, and everyone brings picnics and wine and chills out on the rolling lawns. It's really great. 32/f/Cape Town, ZA

Answer to:
My good friend's girlfriend wants to talk to me all the time ..in the sense she calls me everytime if iam around..she is very very pretty..she says iam kind and sweet.i like to talk to her.though she aint my type.but she is caring n sweet.what to do? If you want your good friend to stay a good friend, then keep clear of temptation. Don't allow yourself to even think of doing anything inappropriate with his girlfriend. You might think you're just trying to be friends, but the fact that you mention how attractive she is gives a different message. Be careful, that's all.

Answer to:
Have you ever downloaded music illegaly? All the time. I'm very willing to pay for the music I like so that artists make money, but the music industry needs to come up with a better system. It's a tough one. I liked the way Radiohead launched their new album 'In Rainbows' by allowing people to download it and then pay whatever they felt the music was worth. Not a perfect concept, but an interesting one!

Answer to:
What is the best way to share Videos with friends on the web. I am looking for a solution that is free. http://www.youtube.com or http://www.facebook.com

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Why does the continent of Africa have so many problems today? One word - imperialism. Having lived in Africa all my life, I was surprised that none of the other answers mentioned this at all, as it seems such a significant factor to me. Most of Africa was colonised by various countries in Europe, with the local people losing all their property rights, rank, religious freedom and rights to practice their own culture. They were forced to submit to...

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
My dog is vomiting and has signs of blood in it. She also has diarrhea with more blood in it. She's been refusing to eat and I did fix her some rice with chicken one day and she ate it. She is vomitting water she drinks also. What can I d Take her to the vet NOW! Seriously, get up and go right away!!!!!!!!!!!!!

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Do you bring a little brown bag of goodies or order out for lunch when you are working? I usually work from home running my own small business with my boyfriend, so we're often lucky enough to be able to have a proper meal sitting down together at the dining room table :Þ But the last time I had a 'real' job in an office, he made me a packed lunch every day with sandwiches, fruit, the whole deal!

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
When my gf is on her period she is real butthead what should i do? Imagine this: every single month you get cramps that feel like someone's punching you in the belly every once in a while, combined with backache and intense mood swings. I'm guessing you'd be a butthead too! If you picture what's she going through, it might be easier not to get annoyed with her. But having said that, if she's really laying into you, that's not...

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
What is one best English adjective that best describe yourself? Analytical :Þ

Answer to:
Is there a place to get my old silver coins melted and get the bullion back in return for a fee of course? I would go to a silversmith and ask them - I'm sure they have the necessary equipment.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
When is it important to be polite and when is it important to not be so polite? It's important to be polite to show kindness and warmth to other people, and to help them feel comfortable and welcome. But, when your own principles or standards etc would be compromised by doing this for their sake, then it's important not to be polite.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Anything written and available in uk about Araki and carib(dubious spelling) tribes original natives of jamaican islands etc Are there any surviving communities I don't know about an Araki tribe, but there is information available about the early Jamaican Arawak and Carib tribes: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Arawak http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Carib The Carib [or Kalinago people as they're known locally] still exist today. See info about them at http://gocaribbean.about.com/od/culturesandpeople/a/Dominicacarib.htm

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Does sometimes when a person projects an image that in reality he or she is not.. its not a wish to decieve but a wish to "acheive"? Sure, that's a good way to put it. But they're still deceiving in order to achieve.

Answer to:
What does the phrase: "talking slick out the mouth" mean to you? I've never heard that phrase before, but it sounds like a way to describe a fast-talking, slippery character who has a lot to say but might not be trustworthy or honest.

Answer to:
What is one thing you have to finish before New Year? I've got a freelance copywriting job for a 40-page website, and I really need to wrap it up soon!

Answer to:
How does one gain self-discipline and will power? (other than by joining the Marines, Semper Fi!) :-) Through struggle and achievement. They say will power is like a muscle, and it's really true. The more you exercise it, the stronger it gets. And when you start doing well, you're tougher on yourself because you're proud and you don't want to mess up what you've already achieved.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What Was The First Thing You Ever Did On The Internet? (I helped a girl I knew troll some messageboard. No joke.) My first thing was really dorky. I got hooked on the Trivia games on Yahoo Chat, and would play them all night long.

Answer to:
What is the single best campsite you've ever visited? Photos please if you have them! And even better if you have the co-ordinates to visit them in Google Earth :Þ Our favourite site is a place called Cape Columbine near the town of Paternoster about 2 hours north-west of Cape Town. It's on the wild and unspoiled West Coast, which is a series of tiny, quaint fishing villages. The campsite itself is in a nature reserve, and is just gorgeous. It's a long stretch of beach backed by low hills covered in pretty local vegetation [which comes into...

Answer to:
Campers/Hikers/Climbers: What type of tent do you own (make & model)? Are you satisfied with it? Yay - another camping fan! I get as excited about tents as other people do about cars and houses, so thanks for the question :Þ We have a Black Wolf Deluxe Fly Turbo Tent - http://www.blackwolf.com.au/turbo/deluxe-fly/ They're a bit like cheating because they have this amazing mechanism which allows them to be set up in less than 60 seconds and with almost zero effort. Check...

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
What is your favorite cookie? There's a great little company locally that makes wonderful old-fashioned treats. They have this range of cookies that comes in funky ceramic jars, and the best of all are the Chocolate Chunk Sins. They're so rich and delicious, with melty bits inside them. I love them :Þ

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Thieves have raided a children's cemetery in Melbourne's south-east, stealing a statue of an angel and other treasured items. What would you say to such people if you caught them? I'd ask them why they did it. It's obviously a terrible thing to do, as those items have so much meaning for people who've suffered through losing young children, but I generally try to reserve judgment about something until I've heard both sides of the story. Maybe they were starving and needed something to sell.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
When you feel like there isn't a single person in the world to talk to, how do you help yourself through hard times? I do something really strange - you have to promise not to laugh! If I really need advice and support and there's no-one to turn to, I imagine talking to the wisest and most helpful real person I can think of - even though they're not there. In my case, it's either my late dad or Nelson Mandela. It sounds crazy, but it's really easy to imagine what someone would say in a...

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Who would like to join me in thanking Answerbag's staff for all the work they have done during 2007? Thanks so much for a great site! Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you all. :Þ

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Is it normal to love your In-Laws? I love mine. I can't say if you're normal, but you're definitely lucky! Makes things a lot easier :Þ

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
What would you do if someone stole your mind? Not a heck of a lot. I'm thinking I'd just sit there and drool. And probably bleed from the head where they removed it..!

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
How many times can you subtract 2 from the numeral 21? As many times as you like... if you want to stop at zero, then 10 times.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
"your wit astounds me" what movie is this? Is it Now and Then?

Answer to:
What tie will go with a pink shirt and a pinstripe grey suit There are quite a few things that would work: Dark grey is nice and safe The same pink as the shirt would be stylish A deeper, hotter pink than the shirt [only try this if you have pretty edgy fashion flair] A deep wine red/burgundy colour A stripy or other patterned tie in grey, pink and black would work well :Þ

Answer to:
Alright this should be fun!! I am assigned to make christmas cupcakes for my sons kindergarten class. Any fun Ideas? Fun websites with ideas? My favourite place for cupcakes is Charlys Bakery in Cape Town - they have a great website where you can see some of their gorgeous cupcakes. Hope it's inspiring! http://www.charlysbakery.co.za/photo-gallery/album/cup-cakes-petit-fours/ :Þ

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
I have just seen an answer given and they've used musical notes. How was this done , do certain keyboards contain these keys? I swear I will stop playing with this, very very soon. But first, here are a few good ones: Alt-0177 ± Alt-0161 ¡ Alt-0189 ½ Alt-0191 ¿ Alt-0171 « Alt-0187 » And my new favourite: Alt-0222 Þ which I will use thusly... :Þ

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What does your writing look like? Would you like to show a sample? The only interesting thing about my handwriting is that I pretty much always write in coloured pencils. This earns me funny looks when I'm in serious meetings :)

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What facility houses the largest Shakespeare collection in the world? The Folger Shakespeare Library in Washington. http://www.folger.edu/index.cfm

Answer to:
I have just seen an answer given and they've used musical notes. How was this done , do certain keyboards contain these keys? Sorry, this isn't actually an answer but more like an experiment... M ...which hasn't worked. That M was supposed to be a little picture of a bomb from the character map. Sadly the plan is somewhat flawed :( >>>>take 2>>>>> Right, here we go: ♪♫│Ææ▒ oooooooooh.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Is anyone here invited to a place they just don't want to go to at Christmas ? Do you go and grin and bear it? Yes I am, and hell no I don't!

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
How many of you are planning on getting intoxicated this new years eve? Good grief, is there any other way..??!

Answer to:
What is the best wine you have ever had? A chardonnay from the South African Amani estate. It was truly exquisite, with layers and layers of complex flavours unfolding in perfect harmony. Utterly delicious. Available to order from http://www.amaniwines.com/index.htm [and no, I don't work for them!]

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
What's the best piece of advice you could give someone who wants to become a property flipper? I've done this successfully, and 'flipped' three properties at double the price so far. The best advice I can give you is to turn the project around as fast as possible, as the costs of holding onto it for ages can be high [especially if you're financing part of it]. Another great piece of advice is to get advice from several local realtors in terms of what sells in...

Answer to:
I've been dating this girl for over a year. I fell in love with her (my first love) but for some reason i just dont love her anymore (no its not b/c of another girl). Is it because i'm young (18)? What do i tell her and how? First of all, look into your heart and be really, really sure you don't love her anymore. Don't do anything until then. Sometimes people do fall out of love, and being 18 might have something to do with it. It just happens sometimes, or other times the two people grow apart and change, so that they start needing different things. The kindest thing you can do is to tell her as...

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
What wouls be a good name for a business where I will be making scrapbooks for people? Making Memories New Nostalgia Creative Keepsakes

Answer to:
Have you visited this site http://www.madeupquotes.com/default.asp? It's brilliant. Which is your favorite quote? What a great site - thanks :D I love: "Noodles are like little wet metaphors." - Abraham Lincoln (didn't say it)

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
I'm drinking a Belgium beer that was brewed with cocoa powder and chili powder. What's the strangest flavored beer you have tasted? I just had it yesterday after seeing it on the shelves for the first time - Cobra Bite which is normal Cobra beer [yummy if you've never tried it] with fruit juice added. It sounds disgusting but is actually delicious. I had the apple and the sweet lime flavours. Yum.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
In one of my class i need to make a poem, and im not good with poems. can some one help me? the subject is about winter The great thing about writing poetry is that it makes you really think about something. For example, to write a poem about winter you would close your eyes and think about what winter means to you. Does it snow where you live? Is that your favourite part of winter - and if so, what about it? Think about when you were little - what got you excited about winter? Or if you really hate winter,...

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
What age is consederd old? It differs throughout your life. The older you are, the more it seems that people your age aren't that old after all ;) Seriously, when I was a kid I remember thinking it was all downhill from 40 , but now that I'm 32 I know that's nonsense. I see my mom still looking young, dating and having a great time at 65 so I feel like that's not old either. The way I see it...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Im painting the interior of my house with a sprayer, besides taping everything off is there any advice? Keep it well ventilated while you're working, and wear a mask! Try out the sprayer on a less visible wall first to practice. They usually need a knack to get the paint nice and even - from what I remember it's a kind of smooth sweeping motion and you shouldn't keep it still at all.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Is my puppy cute enough to be in commercials? His picture is below. I'm totally biased [I think he's gorgeous] and I need an outside opinion. He's really smart and picking up training fast, so he should be able to do whatever 'acting' was needed. Here he is. His name is Flash Gordon :)

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
I have signed up several weeks ago and i still cant confirm my account i cant do anything and i am getting no email, any ideas as to what i can do? Ok, I experienced exactly the same thing on joining, and so did my boyfriend. After waiting for several days and requesting it to be sent again and again, eventually I found something that works. Here's what you do: Click on your username under 'Shopping Q&A' in the top right. Then click on 'Edit my profile/avatar' under the 'Go' button. Then click on...

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
Actually I'm makin fighting videos for my personal use but I can't find reasons for the players to fight with eachother. Can u guys give me some ideas? Ok, here goes: The one guy has a really hot girlfriend and the other guy makes a remark to her as they pass by. The one guy has a really ugly girlfriend and the other guy makes a remark to her as they pass by :) Two guys get into a car crash and argue about whose fault it was. One guy spills the other guy's drink but won't apologise. You get the idea :)

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What are the four regions of the cerebrum?(or is it cerebellum?) The four major regions of the brain are: the brainstem; the diencephalon; the cerebellum; the cerebrum. Is that what you meant?

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
I was just laying down and could feel my heartbeating kinda hard. Took my pulse, its 128. Could this be from the steroids I'm taking for an injured elbow? Should I avoid walking the dogs in the hilly woods today while bp is elevated? It might be from the steriods, for sure. If it were me, I'd still go for the walk, but take it really easy.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Has society become too plastic and if not, why not? Way too plastic. Much, much, much too plastic. We can only hope that we're recyclable.

Answer to:
Should a chic new spin-off site from Answerbag be called Nonsense-bag where nonsense questions get to live again in their own funky new renditions and yet be truly adored by those that gave the damned a second chance at redemption? Wait - is this one of those nonsense questions..? :P

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Who can tell me some good old-school hip hop artists/groups? Don't want to miss anything :P To go right back to the very beginning, check out some Gil Scott-Heron [e.g. the Revolution will not be Televised]. Imo, the best old-school track is The Message by Grandmaster Flash and the Furious Five. It's a classic. I'm a huge Run-DMC fan, so I completely agree with that. Then, how about branching out a little to the Beastie Boys? It really depends what you like. Check...

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Can you list 3 words that make you feel happy and then list 3 words that make you go bonkers? Happy words: Tranquil Serendipity Safe Bonkers words: When someone says 'literally' but doesn't mean it. Like, "oh my god, she literally died of embarrassment". No, she did not. Pretty much all business-speak makes me want to throw office supplies around. E.g. "the way forward" or "paradigm shift" or that kind of nonsense. Ugh. I...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
I hate bums, am I prejudiced? Sure you are :) You're obviously prejudiced in the literal sense of the word, because it means you've prejudged all bums without meeting them, and decided you hate them. I'm making the fairly safe assumption that you haven't actually met all the bums in the world. Feel free to throw stuff at me if you have. Look, the serious answer is that we're all...

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
My dog has this weird compulsion, that whenever I get home he HAS to greet me with something in his mouth. It's usually one of his toys, but if he can't find one he will grab anything (pillows, paper, he tried to grab the cat once). Can anyone explain? He's offering you the item as a gift and a recognition that he sees you as the leader of the pack. He's saying, "Welcome home boss - here's a little something for you!" It's really cute actually. And it's especially touching that he would offer you one of his own toys, which are probably his most valued possessions. PS that may not be the same reason he...

| 5 people like this

Answer to:
Which is correct: I talked to my mom, or I talked with my mom? 'To' is correct in traditional, formal English grammar. 'With' has become fairly accepted usage in the US, and is becoming popular everywhere else. They do actually have slightly different meanings, so I think they should ideally both be correct and shouldn't be used interchangeably. The way I see it, to talk to someone implies that the conversation will be...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Who do you think should die to benefit mankind? I'm sorry George W, you've got to go.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What are some old fashioned, masturbatory myths that you know of? There are sooo many of these. Like that you'll grow hair on the palms of your hands.....!

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
My 16th birthday is in 5 days. What should i do to celebrate? Hang out with your friends! In a couple years you'll all be busy with lots of different things, and right now is a great chance to spend time together and have fun.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Do you get angry when you ask a question and the only answer you get isn't a real answer, or is another question, or is just plain nonsense? Not so much angry as disappointed, 'cos I'm usually looking forward to getting good answers.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Do chronic masturbators start wars? I can't imagine where they would find the time :) But maybe if someone cut off their lotion supply...

| 4 people like this

Answer to:
Why do most people think Europeans are smarter/better-educated than most Americans? Hmmmm....let's see... ;)

| 8 people like this

Answer to:
I am new to San Diego. How do I find a new apartment? Try http://sandiego.craigslist.org/ Good luck!

Answer to:
Do US corporations have the right to tell consumers that they won't improve their products now or in the future? (example US auto manufacturers saying they need federal legislation to produce cars that get over 35 MPG.) The short answer - yes. But you also have the right to take action against them, e.g. + Refuse to buy their products and encourage others to do the same + Elect politicians that support the issues you support, so that this kind of legislation can come to pass + Petition to have the US fully ratify the Kyoto Protocol so that regulations become tighter

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
How long does it take for a memory of a late loved one, make you smile instead of breaking down crying? I'm so sorry for your loss. In mid 2004 I lost my dad to cancer and my gran to a stroke 3 weeks apart. I really empathise with what you're going through. For me, I'm only now starting to get to that point - so for me I guess the answer is around 3 and a half years. There was a stage after about one year when I thought I was doing really well - I'd been giving myself space...

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
If a girl sleeps with a guy several times a day and when she phones him after 4days he is not by his phone now she says he raped her. Is that rape? Cause she still laid by him after their "pleasure" and still smsed him and sent photos on his phone to him It's one hell of a delicate situation and the best advice anyone can give is this: stick to the truth and tell what really happened right from the start. If there's any evidence to back up what you say, get hold of it as soon as possible. For anyone to accuse someone falsely of rape is a terrible, terrible thing as it can be damaging to both their lives and is also an insult to...

Answer to:
How do you think the hippies of the 60's would have used the technology of today in there struggle to 'drop out'? Well, first let's think for a second what 'drop out' meant to them. Timothy Leary was the one who coined the phrase "Turn on, tune in, drop out" According to his autobiography, the 'drop out' part meant the following: "Drop out suggested an elective, selective, graceful process of detachment from involuntary or unconscious commitments. 'Drop...

Answer to:
Do you think people should have cosmetic surgery to enhance their looks? Only if they really want to! If someone's tempted to have it, I'd say they should think about it for a long while, and make sure that they're not reacting to some passing insecurity or trying to get a quick fix e.g. liposuction instead of natural weight loss. If they're sure it's for the right reasons and it's something they'd really prefer to change, I say go...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Other than humans, are there other animals whose goal for sex is pleasure instead of procreation? Only most of them! For the sake of argument, I'd say you could look at it the other way around - humans are pretty much the only ones who would consider having sex for the sole reason of procreation [I'm picturing couples who need to stick to schedules to get pregnant, even after it gets a bit unromantic]. You only have to watch a bored monkey in the zoo or a dog with a nice plump...

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
What's the all-time best recipe you got from your mom [or dad, for that matter]? You can just give the name of the dish, but I'd really love to have the recipe as well :) I'll post mine as an answer [old-fashioned oxtail stew]. My mom taught me how to make this. In our family, it's called 'crazy stew' as everyone went nuts for it and would have third and fourth helpings. It's still a huge hit with my friends every time I make it. OLD-FASHIONED OXTAIL STEW [if you've never had oxtail, you are seriously missing out] Serves about 4. You need: 1kg or 2.2 pounds of oxtail pieces 85g or...

Answer to:
How often do you give points? Every time I learn something from a question or answer. Or if I look at a question or answer and know that lots of other people are going to learn something. Or if it just makes me think. And definitely if it's a brave and true but unpopular or difficult thing for that person to ask or tell.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Are their any exercises for the brain, which keeps our brains healthy ? If yes then what are they? There are lots of brain exercises! A good simple way to keep sharp is to avoid getting in a rut with anything. Each time you do something unfamiliar e.g. driving to work by a different route than usual, your brain is in a heightened state of activity which causes new neural pathways to open up. If you want to stimulate your brain, do things in fresh ways whenever possible, and try to be...

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
How do you relax? Depends how much time I have! My favourite relaxing activity is to hit the open road, take in the scenery, and wind up at a beautiful campsite for a week or two. But if you're talking about relaxing for an hour or two, then these are some great ways: + I love to put on my favourite song really loud, and sing along while shaking what my momma gave me :) + There's not much...

Answer to:
I have a thing with my ex girlfriend again. This is the 4th time, and I feel that it might not work out again and i dont wanna hurt her. What do you guys think i should do cause I feel that its a sign that we dont work out and its a different type of love Then stop going back for more. Four times is enough to know if it's going to work or not, and from what you're saying I think you know the answer. So tell her, right now and really clearly [but kindly, if you can] and then stay far away from her for as long as possible. I'm not saying this to be harsh, I'm saying this because it will help her get through it easier if...

Answer to:
What is your favorite type of kiss? There's a great quote from the movie the Princess Bride: “Since the invention of the kiss, there have only been five kisses that were rated the most passionate, the most pure. This one left them all behind.” Sweet, tender kisses that slowly heat up are my favourite :)

| 4 people like this

Answer to:
It's my 23rd birthday today, and I still dont have a husband, baby, dog and a white picket fence. my grandmother thinks this is terrible! any advise? Happy Birthday! Hope you have a terrific time. Look, with all due respect to your grandmother, it's definitely not terrible to be free and single at 23! In fact, it's perfect. You can travel, have fun, spend quality time with friends and do whatever the heck else you please without being tied down by too many responsibilities. It's not that long since you were still in school...

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
Bad question, I know, but I'm curious. Go to google.com and type in your name and then the word 'needs'. What does it say you need? ...help in the area of responsiveness. ...a summer intern. ...an ass kicking, now!! ...a very quiet home in a place with few or no thunder storms and lots of sunshine. ...to go back to school. :) That was fun!

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
You say i have a yeast infection and need to go to the doctor but i am really scared. i don't no wat to do im scared to tell my mum coz im really embarrased. is there anyway it will go away by its self? if not do u know any names of treatments i could use First off, I'm guessing we're talking about vaginal yeast infections? Listen, you don't need to be ashamed or embarrassed. It's nothing bad. Yeast infections are often caused by simple things like taking antibiotics or using harsh laundry detergent or bath soap. It's no big deal and definitely not your fault. BUT you should do something about it right away or it can get...

| 8 people like this

Answer to:
What was your biggest life setback and how did you become a better person at the end of it? A few years back my active, healthy dad suddenly fell ill and within weeks was diagnosed with terminal, inoperable cancer. It was unbelievable how quickly he went from being normal to being unable to walk, talk or eat. He lingered in that state for months and months, and it was terrible to see. He had been a successful, well-known businessman who was always full of life. Then towards the end of...

Answer to:
Can someone tell me the cost of a new grocery store carriage and why some peaple think its OK to just walk off with them? Just the other day I was looking at a homeless man pushing his stuff along in a shopping trolley and I thought about the same thing - for a second. Then I looked at his stuff and realised that it's everything he owned in the world, and I imagined having to physically carry all your clothes, blankets and whatever else you have around with you every second of the day. And then I figured he...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Me and my boyfreind have been dating on and off for a while. and one thing i have notice is that i wear the pants it the relationship. i do the calling arraging to hangout and etc. what should i do? cuz i just want to relax and not do this allthe time? When relationships are 'on and off' it's often a sign that something isn't right. If both people really wanted to be together and stay together, it shouldn't be on and off. So the fact that he also isn't very actively involved in making plans etc gives me the feeling that it's time for you guys to have a serious talk. Find out if his heart's really in the...

Answer to:
What would you do if you found out your man had a facebook page and his daughter's mother is one of his friends(which I don't mind) BUT they have comments on there like rob dryhumps sara and sara replies that she has suckerpunched rob then rob bites sara? Don't let it get to you. They have a history, and they obviously had chemistry at one stage. If they had a playful, combative relationship before, then they're just behaving the same way now. There is a slight element of flirting to it, but like I said, they have a history. If you trust him, then give him a little space about this. On the other hand, if you ever catch him in a lie...

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
What is the origin of the phrase high brow or low brow. In the 'science' of phrenology which was very popular in the mid to late 1800's, it was believed that the bumps and ridges on someone's skull could be 'read' or interpreted to learn about that person's psychological aptitudes and tendencies. Having a high eyebrow line was supposed to indicate great intellectual capacity, and vice versa.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
which is ur favourite colour? Soft indigo because it's like the twilight sky, and it's really peaceful dreamy colour.

| 4 people like this

Answer to:
Usually when I tell a person that I live in Alaska, they have a million ridiculous questions. What are some of your questions on Alaska? I once read about these really hilarious and bizarre Alaskan laws which made me think it must be full of really interesting and unusual people e.g. In Alaska, it is illegal to: Push a live moose out of a moving airplane Feed your moose alcoholic drinks There are tons more at http://www.idiotlaws.com/dumb_laws/alaska/ Have you ever heard of these crazy laws, and do you have any idea...

Answer to:
So what is everyone's plans for the weekend? I'm chrimy shoppin, getting my hair cut, and visiting friends. Dinner tonight with our good friends Gary and Cindy - I'm in the mood for a great little Cuban restaurant on the beach that has decadent food and mean cocktails. Then tomorrow Gary's taking my boyfriend for a belated birthday surprise [awesome adrenaline-pumping fun treat] and I've got to finish a web copywriting job I'm doing. On Sunday we have to take the puppy to puppy...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
If you were a very talented artist, and had the ability to paint whatever you wanted, but you only had enough materials for ONE large painting, what would be the subject of that painting? I would paint a portrait of my dad, who passed away a few years ago. As anyone who's lost a loved one will know, those feelings stay right there under the surface for a very long time. I think that the process of painting his picture would be cathartic for me, and would give me a lovely picture of him which would become a family heirloom so that one day when I have kids I can show them...

Answer to:
Do politics really matter? Winston Churchill had a great quote once, "Democracy is the worst form of government except all the others". What he meant by that [I think] is that even at its best politics is screwed up and imperfect, but very necessary. People should and must have the right to speak out and be heard, no matter who they are, and a political system is the best option we have right now to make sure...

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
"When someone hands you a flyer, it's like they're saying: here, you throw this away." - Mitch Hedberg. Do you agree? Depends on the flyer and who's receiving it. The most two most important things are to make sure the flyers are handed out in an area or situation where there are likely to be a high number of people interested in the promotion, and then to make sure that the flyer looks appealing enough to get the interest and enthusiasm of the person looking at it. After that, the promotion needs to be...

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
Im 17 and kind of on the hairy side, i uhh keep the right places under control of course but like arms..legs..knuckles...hair there and stuff is that preferential? or generally hated / liked amongst women? Sure there are girls who love very hairy guys, but in general, there are two areas where it's not really a good idea for a guy to be overly hairy - the back and the neck. You're too young to have the ear thing going on - if not, that's a bad one too. But don't worry too much, hair on a guy is nice in moderation.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Do you think it is true if a Supervisor or lead man pushes a broom ( to clean up) it is a sign of weakness and you will not be looked up to as an authority figure? It's always impressive to see a manager roll up his or her sleeves and pitch in where needed. In order to be looked up to as an authority figure, I think many things come into play. One must be confident, fair, firm, reasonable, experienced and above all, consistent.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Of his own plays, which was Shakespeares favourite? There's some evidence that it was 'As You Like It', which is a wonderful and typical example of his lighthearted, rippling comedies. He made references to his mother's name in some of the settings he created for the play, and some of his most well-known and delightful writing is found in this play.

Answer to:
What do you do if you find yourself (or at least think) that you are falling out of love with your wife, and you are sure it will destroy her if you leave? God I need help! I don't think the issue here is her appearance but more her co-dependence and how it traps you. Co-dependency is unhealthy for both people. You need to put all your energy into resolving that situation before you decide finally to leave or stay. Lead by example. Develop interests in your own hobbies, set aside some time for seeing an old friend on your own and work on your own...

Answer to:
Im only 18 and I woke up with stabbing chest pain and its hard to breath. I have mild asthma but its never made my chest hurt before, any Idea whats going on? Definitely go see the doctor, as chest pains and difficulty breathing are very serious. The only time I experienced a feeling like that was after a nasty flu bug, when my lungs were slighly inflamed. What happened was that as I would breathe, the inflamed lungs would basically bump into the ribcage and hurt each time.

Answer to:
What does it mean to be "good on paper"? It's the same as saying someone or something is good in theory. The implication is that they might not be so good in real life.

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
I am more on the chubby side, my parents said I should lose weight for getting a better job because fat/plump people gives others (boss) impression for being lazy. Is it true that overweight people make potential bosses think you are more likely lazy? I suspect that being overweight will probably count against you in interviews. You might be lucky and get a very fair-minded interviewer who isn't influenced by appearance, but I think that people are far more influenced by these kinds of things than they would ever want to admit. We have a society which idealises beauty and being skinny, and if you picture media images of a...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What do you do when you are in love with your best friend, and can't handle just being friends anymore because it hurts to much, but you know they will never see you as more then a friend? You have to take the risk of telling your friend how you feel, without holding back. You also have to know that their reaction is unlikely to be good right away, and even after some time to think about it they might not be interested. And then, if things don't go well, the very best thing for you is to spend less time with them. It will hurt for a while, but it will hurt less if...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What should I expect to happen the first time I have sex? Try really hard not to expect anything. If you build it up in your mind beforehand, you're going to put so much pressure on the situation to be perfect or exciting or satisfying or all of the above. And pressure is definitely not romantic or sexy. If I could go back and give myself advice before my first time, I'd tell myself the following: Wait for a better guy - that one...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What do you do when a good friend abandons you? I've had the same experience, just recently in fact. The way I see it is that even if a friend was 'real' at one time in your life, it may not always be that way. Even the oldest closest friends can sometimes grow apart or move in different directions in their lives. It can be very messy and painful, as there are often hurt feelings on one or both sides. All you can do is...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What is your race? If you could choose another, what would it be? I'm what's called coloured in South Africa. It's a distinct race group unique to especially the Cape region, and it's made up of descendants of Malay and Asian slaves, Khoisan people and usually illicit relationships between the white Dutch farmers and local girls of other races. What's interesting in my case is that while most coloured people are visibly...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Are there any South African Expats on AB that feel they will never go home again because of the crime in our country? I'm not an expat - I'm one of the ones that never left :) I understand how you feel, and I can't deny that the crime rates in this country are unacceptably high. But you know, I've lived in several different places around Cape Town over the years, and I've had virtually no crime committed against me. I've lived in a fairly high-risk way by driving on my own,...

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
How can you pronounce Afrikaans? can anyone break down the pronounication of the word Afrikaans? THANK YOU! Good question - most people outside South Africa pronounce this very strangely :) Ok here we go, bit by bit: OFF + REE + CAR + NS OFF as in the first part of "offer". Not as in "of" or "off". REE as in "reed". CAR like the car you drive. If you want to get it exact, try to let the R be a little less definite, more like "cah". ...

| 2 people like this

Answer to:
What are the best homebased online nonscam businesses There's also Google rating. Seriously, it's a real thing and I've actually done it. They employ raters to evaluate certain search results and you do it all from your own PC. I'm based in South Africa so you don't even need to be in the US. You do need to be: * Smart * Analytical * Internet Savvy * Fluent speaker in one or more languages If you’re...

Answer to:
What was the last thing you Googled about that you can't find a match for? I tried to Google for a "Need to be Next to You" mp3 and came away empty handed. Same thing! Sorry, I should have mentioned that. So in your case, it would be: intitle:"index.of" (mp3|aiff) need.to.be.next.to.you It should work like a charm :)

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What is the best way to find out if a buissness already name is taken? It depends whether you want to open a small local business or a large global one. The process is obviously more complex if it's international. In that case, your best bet is to pay a legal firm to check for you - they'll require a list of the countries in which you intend to do business. If it's just a local business, you might be able to get away with checking for yourself....

Answer to:
Have any of you tried back flower rescue remedy? If so, for what... what's been your experience? I keep a bottle of the drops in the first aid kit, as they're great for calming someone down when they're in shock or hysterical. It's similar in effectiveness to valerian root extract. It's also pretty useful if you're ever very stressed and starting to freak out a little. You'll probably feel somewhat calmer and more able to cope with the situation, without...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
What was the last thing you Googled about that you can't find a match for? I tried to Google for a "Need to be Next to You" mp3 and came away empty handed. The last thing I Googled and couldn't find was actually for Answerbag. Someone asked about an episode of Married With Children where Peg wore a particular outfit, and I tried to find the answer for them. No luck! For your MP3 search, either try LimeWire or else enter the following string into the Google Search intitle:"index.of" (mp3|aiff) sara.evans You just need to...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
I am in a commited relationship. However, when ever we are in social situations i.e. meeting her friends or family, I get really uncomfortable and remove myself. Sometimes even acting rudely. My partner wants me to change but it is so h Your question got cut off, so I'll do my best to answer based on what I can see. The most important thing is not your partner's reaction, but to understand why you feel so uncomfortable in those situations. Maybe if you understood your behaviour better, you would be able to overcome the problem. Here's a couple of possible reasons why you feel uncomfortable - think about it...

Answer to:
Should i go food shopping tonight or tomorrow night baring in mind neighbour and i are doing our xmas shopping tomorrow night as well? Go tonight :) I know it's tempting to try to get everything in one trip, but you know the malls will be crazy already at this time of year, and it's going to be a tiring trip. If you try to do it all at once, you'll most likely run out of time or energy halfway through the gifts or the groceries [not good either way]!

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Can you tell someone's inside by looking at their outside? Conventional wisdom says no. Most people will tell you you can't judge a book by its cover, and for the most part they're right. But, I recently read a very interesting theory by an author called Malcolm Gladwell in his book 'blink'. It says that through experience, we learn to pick up certain tiny clues to situations which give us an 'instinctive' feeling about...

Answer to:
What color is your bedroom? It's a deep smokey grey colour with a hint of grape in there. It's dramatic but soft at the same time, and makes the space feel really relaxing. The white ceiling adds contrast and lightness.

Answer to:
Has anyone actually ever clicked on one of the ads on the right hand side? No, but I do notice how they change in theme depending what topic of questions you're viewing. It's a little creepy.

Answer to:
Is it a sin to watch porn? Depends on the porn! If the participants were willing adults and no-one is being harmed, then I feel that concepts like 'guilt' and 'sin' are overly Calvinist.

| 3 people like this

Answer to:
I would like you to give yourself a Gold Star for something about which none of us is aware..now that you have done so, would you please tell us what your Gold Star was for? My childhood friend Lane runs a small charity organisation that does great work, and recently someone broke into their offices and stole everything. I contacted a local radio station and appealed to them to tell Lane's story and ask the community for donations to make up the loss. I'm waiting to hear back from them, but I really hope to have good news for her this Christmas.

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Are you kinder and more forgiving around the holidays? There are so many different holidays in so many different cultures, so it's difficult to pin down which ones you mean. But I guess you mean Christmas? The thing is, I'm not really religious in any traditional sense, so to me holidays are really only about celebrations, relaxation and friends and family! I do put a lot of energy into being kind and forgiving all the time, but...

| 1 person likes this

Answer to:
Is it possible to describe Africa in one word? If you can't in one, try two... Home.