http://www.answerbag.com/profile/225185 New Answerbag answers from Anonymous Tue, 29 May 2012 05:37:06 -0700 Tue, 29 May 2012 05:37:06 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4079277 I am pregnant & told the father, we dated for 3 yrs. I told him he could see my med records, he refuses. He said I was lying 2 manipulate him & I was a sick person 4 making this up & he never wanted to talk/see me. He refuses to even view the results why<br /><br />I&#039;ve read the question and responses - pls don&#039;t hang your life on him - too many problems. Use this time to connect with your unborn baby and plan for a good future. I hate attorneys, but getting some support would help. You never know when you will need money for doctor bills,... Mon, 22 Sep 2008 06:49:15 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4079277 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4079238 Don't wait until I'm fifty to leave me! When is a good age to leave someone?<br /><br />It&#039;s tough at any age, but at 50 it is really harder to regain oneself. For those of you at 50 or older, when you have to start again on building a life around other married couples, it can be lonely. Some people are uncomfortable around you. Then, planning for retirment so that you... Mon, 22 Sep 2008 06:40:58 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4079238 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4079193 I don't want my baby when he grows up to know who his father is since he is an A-class jerk. he is married but doesn't have any kids with his wife. he's not man enough to stand up to his responsibilities - so why introduce my kid to him...<br /><br />It may not seem like it would happen, but raise your child with great principles, ethics and virtues. In time your child will make his/her own opinion and you may be surprised that the same conclusion will come up. Living without the image of a good parent is so undermining to the confidence of... Mon, 22 Sep 2008 06:29:58 -0700 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/4079193 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2002470 Would a girl ever breakup with her boyfriend because he hadnt told her he loved her and it had been 5 months?<br /><br />In reality it may happen, as I think most women want to hear those words in the right moment with the right feelings. This business that I have heard from one guy that &quot;you should know. My mother loved me but never had to say so..., etc.&quot; is a kind of baloney. A guy should be able to... Mon, 07 Jan 2008 00:08:02 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2002470 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2002457 Is this love? We dont have to be together everyday, I just need my space sometimes and like to go out with the boys which happens more out of the week than we hang out at times.<br /><br />I was wondering too and was going to post the same question. I need time to myself, to get organized, do my work, rest, be in my own home. We&#039;re engaged and this business of going back and forth between places is exhausting. I think I love him and feel love, but I&#039;m glad to be home... Mon, 07 Jan 2008 00:03:48 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2002457 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2002441 What do you feel when you see your ex after 5 or 6 years? "you didn't see her/him during that years"<br /><br />Mixed feelings - hope he is doing better, would wonder if it could have worked, remembered how bad it was many times, glad to be away, around and around Sun, 06 Jan 2008 23:58:23 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2002441 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2002408 My boyfriend calls me names like bitch,slut,whore,ugly,fat,skank,smelly,tramp,etc.But he says that he is just joking and he doesnt mean it.Well I dont take it as a joke,and I take very seriously.Do you think that Im overreacting?Would you take it as joke?<br /><br />You are not overreacting - you are under reacting. Take action - it&#039;s not a joke, is not funny, never has been, never will be; don&#039;t take the abuse; after 19 years, I got the message and can pass it onto you. It doesn&#039;t stop, you only feel worse. Sun, 06 Jan 2008 23:48:30 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/2002408 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1735265 Last year was a really bad year for me, this year everything changed. I dont want to get into the details, but i cant seem to focus on anything anymore. Ive tried distracting myself to telling my best friends, and nothing helps. got any advice?<br /><br />This past year was terrible for me too, and I lost my confidence and memory, which includes the ability to focus enough to accomplish what I need to do. Are you depressed? Have you seen a doctor who may be able to prescribe Provigil for you? How about meditation, rest, a real break from the... Tue, 20 Nov 2007 01:07:43 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1735265 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1735247 Hey friends, i feel so lonely. my ex dont want me no more, is hard for me to leave him alone, i've been depreseed for the past few days, is like i just not interested in no one else, what can i do.... man love can really hurt like a bitch !!<br /><br />It seems the advice is often to get busy and that is so difficult when you are depressed. I&#039;m with you on the hurt right now as I am going through it too with a really severe depression. What we want to feel better - be loved again, taken back, appreciated, and all - isn&#039;t happening.... Tue, 20 Nov 2007 00:56:00 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1735247 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1735204 My boyfriend calls me names like bitch,slut,whore,ugly,fat,skank,smelly,tramp,etc.But he says that he is just joking and he doesnt mean it.Well I dont take it as a joke,and I take very seriously.Do you think that Im overreacting?Would you take it as joke?<br /><br />Help!!! Get out of this relationship, it&#039;s so abusive to you. Eventually, it will wear down your self-esteem. Believe me, I&#039;ve been there and it&#039;s hard to recover from this. Tue, 20 Nov 2007 00:35:09 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1735204 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1735195 If you have been divorced, was it messy or quite amicable?<br /><br />Both. Amicable on the business; so hard on the heart that I can hardly stand it. Tue, 20 Nov 2007 00:31:35 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1735195 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1735176 Women:would you sleep with a man knowing he was seeing other women on the side?<br /><br />No way! What is in it for you? Take care of your emotional health and guard your physical health. Tue, 20 Nov 2007 00:22:24 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1735176 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1735169 What is your opinion of people who use online dating sites (I.E. eHarmony, Match.com, Yahoo! Personals, etc.)? Do you think it's weird, even if supplemented by efforts in the "real" world?<br /><br />Before internet match ups, I met my husband who ran a newspaper ad. What a mistake - he turned out to be abusive to my children, angry, etc. Everyone thought and said he was a saint. If a guy hasn&#039;t been able to have a long-term serious relationship by the age of 45 or even earlier, ask... Tue, 20 Nov 2007 00:20:31 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1735169 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1735128 If you have been divorced do you think you made a mistake -- and would you consider re-marrying if your ex would have you?<br /><br />I look back and see my faults. I would love to make things better. Tue, 20 Nov 2007 00:07:59 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1735128 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1735098 Is there a website to find out if there is a certain street in a certain town? My daughters going away next month but I'm not allowed to know the address but I'd feel much safer if I did ( the new wife doesn't want me to know) & I'm sick of fighting<br /><br />try Zillow - plus you should know where your children are going to be at any time. None of us would send our children without a way to contact them or know exactly where they will be staying. Have a lawyer? Tue, 20 Nov 2007 00:01:30 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1735098 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1735064 I got married a week ago,& at the wed. my man invited his ex gf who was wearing this skanky dress,& he kept telling her how pretty she looked.He never told me I looked good once,& I was wearing a wed. dress!Anyway Im got mad,Im still mad,should I be mad?<br /><br />He should not have invited her; it was your day and his to share with family and friends-that can be mutual. He could have let his ex gf know he was getting married so that you wouldn&#039;t be receiving a call or some kind of letter from her. It&#039;s important that ex&#039;s bow out so that... Mon, 19 Nov 2007 23:47:34 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1735064 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1735046 I want to get married to my boyfriend. We've been living togther for a year now and I think it's time. He thinks we should wait and I want to give him the time that he needs but I really don't see any point in waiting. What should I say or<br /><br />It just seems to happen that the relationship stops developing on certain levels when sex and/or living together happen. He&#039;s not moving in a deeper emotional level like you are. How comfortable are you with moving out and expecting more of the courtship leading to marriage? How about... Mon, 19 Nov 2007 23:38:43 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1735046 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1735038 My x said she was seeing someone and we had been split for about 5 weeks and she said she still loves me and thinks about me but does not want to get back togther and is giving mix signals and then will phone and say we was go togther and im in her mind<br /><br />Oh boy, how I feel for you. Your heart is still in this and tender. It does not sound like she is thinking about you in the long run in a forever type of way. Is she saying she loves you to make you feel better? I bet it makes you feel worse. Pls start thinking about taking care of... Mon, 19 Nov 2007 23:33:58 -0800 http://www.answerbag.com/a_view/1735038